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| – | Most people in comitted relationships retain backup options. So much that I think it’s completely normal and reasonable that they do.Except for those of us whose exit plan from our relationship is to step into the void and never return to the dating scene. I will never encounter a woman of the quality of my wife again, not in this day and age. If I get divorced, I'm in my 50s. I can afford to just run out the clock on my own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 09:03 AM |
| – | Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt.The CDC limits its tracking of "rape" to situations where a perpetrator penetrates a victim (either by force or through drug/alcohol facilitation). "Made to penetrate" is not part of that description. It is not included in rape statistics. I can only point to its absence. Analogy: I cannot point to a void in the sky and say anything except there are no stars in that void. If you find that it is present, please show proof of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 08:59 AM |
| – | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.Miscreants gonna miscreant. We have police, you know. Our jails are bulging with deadbeat dads, rapists, wife beaters and so on. Andrew Tate can tell you how that little men hold each other accountable: he's desperately fighting extradition to the UK. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 11:08 PM |
| – | Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt.Men who self-report being forced to penetrate are not recorded by the CDC! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 09:19 PM |
| – | male or neutral-targeted media criticized harder than female-targeted mediaThere was absolutely nothing wrong with the Marvels, which got panned by the manbabies. Kill Bill wouldn't do so well anymore. Manbabies got mad at Star Trek for being too woke. Star Trek literally is the father of woke TV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 09:18 PM |
| – | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.I never heard of her until I came to this sub. If this had been gender-flipped it would be a national security crisis. The man who wrote the genderflip would be bin Laden'd overnight. Valerie Solanas literally wrote the feminist version of "Turner Diaries." Her supporters included, but not limited to: Ti-Grace Atkinson: the New York chapter president of the National Organization for Women (NOW) at the time. Florynce Kennedy: A prominent radical feminist lawyer and civil rights activist at the ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 09:16 PM |
| – | CMV: Men going Dutch via alternating is better than going Dutch via people paying 50% or for themselves, because it usually has plausible deniability that it's just trad if it's cut off at the first dateBecause she believes in equality, that's why. But hey why ever be a decent person if you don't have to? Do you really want to go down that road? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 06:59 PM |
| – | CMV: Men going Dutch via alternating is better than going Dutch via people paying 50% or for themselves, because it usually has plausible deniability that it's just trad if it's cut off at the first dateFucking alcohol. It's literally a poison. I've gone my whole life without a full drink of alcohol and I'm fine. Of course, I've sipped alcohol and find it disgusting in every form imaginable. TBH if I loved the taste of alcohol... um... okay, thank God Almighty that I hate the taste of alcohol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 06:31 PM |
| – | CMV: Men going Dutch via alternating is better than going Dutch via people paying 50% or for themselves, because it usually has plausible deniability that it's just trad if it's cut off at the first datePut it in your profile that you go dutch. Filter out the trash-ass women. They're parasites, you'd be better off without them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 06:28 PM |
| – | male or neutral-targeted media criticized harder than female-targeted mediaThat's an absolute classic display of double standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 05:21 PM |
| – | male or neutral-targeted media criticized harder than female-targeted mediaAnd don't forget The Boys. Wow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 05:17 PM |
| – | male or neutral-targeted media criticized harder than female-targeted mediatwo out of four MCU films (co-)directed by women rank among the five lowest-grossing movies in the franchise; That's because angry man-babies boycott any show with women in any kind of prominent role. The Alien series would be shitcanned today because of Ripley, where she used to be quite popular with male viewers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 05:17 PM |
| – | Women care about personality but only if they know you for some timeThere's too many fat women out there for that to be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 05:13 PM |
| – | Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt.Not true. The rape statistics by the CDC don't count men who are forced to penetrate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 05:12 PM |
| – | What do you think about this quote from Bell Hooks?Ah, the classic Motte-Bailey game. "We have a problem with MEN, not assigned male at birth." The Motte: we mean we have a problem with misogyny and patriarchy. The Bailey: We have a problem with Men. AKA we used the most fucking incendiary terminology imaginable and then we gaslight the men by saying "we said men but we really don't mean men". Classic Newspeak. If feminists weren't trying to be incendiary they would have said "we have a problem with Patriarchy." But nahhhhhh, they had to be adve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 05:08 PM |
| – | What do you think about this quote from Bell Hooks?Intelligent men stand almost no chance against aesthetically superior men in the dating scene. You don't go to Caltech or MIT if you are a man and want to date. You can kiss that goodbye at the very least during your educational years, and in many cases far beyond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 04:56 PM |
| – | What do you think about this quote from Bell Hooks?Men would be wise to abandon heroism and stick to the intellectual curiosity thing. The latter aspect is far better for a man's health than the former. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 04:35 PM |
| – | What do you think about this quote from Bell Hooks?(non-romantic) love for males? What are we, aliens? Because that's the only way that's ever happening on this planet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 04:33 PM |
| – | Women care about personality but only if they know you for some timeTelling facts is big mad? You can't refute me. You just make up lies and counterargue in bad faith, so you won't be wasting my time anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 04:32 PM |
| – | Women care about personality but only if they know you for some timeLike everybody else? Go out and touch grass. And while you're at it, close your eyes and blindly throw a rock. Oops, you just hit a married fat woman or a fat woman on a date. Proof that men aren't as hooked on looks as feminists like to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 04:25 PM |
| – | Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt.Feminists don't care about that issue at all, except to weaponize it against men. If I was wrong then women who rape would also get attention and they don't. Not even when they do it to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 04:15 PM |
| – | Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt.They don't do that with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 04:13 PM |
| – | women dont think about menI love it when women want freedom from gender roles but don't want men to be free from them, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 04:13 PM |
| – | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.I do not know one woman who wants men exterminated. All the women who said #KillAllMen Valerie Solanas and all the women who lauded her SCUM Manifesto All the women authors who write stories about worlds without men for starters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 04:05 PM |
| – | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.Most men hold each other accountable. Your statement can't apply to anyone but Red Pillers, whom most men hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 04:04 PM |
| – | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.I don't vomit anything at all, I only speak facts. You're the one throwing an angry fit because your points are baseless. You're the one wasting my time with your tantrum fits. Yes, feminists are the problem and yes, that's why you're getting all this pushback from men. No, we don't want to have sex with women who don't want us. That's a malicious made-up lie and you know it. All you do is make up lies. So go find someone else to falsely accuse, it ain't gonna be me and I won't tolerate that. Se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 04:03 PM |
| – | Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others.This wild eyed rant right here is why men are better off being rejected. It's better for their peace of mind. Yeah, you've been hurt badly, lady. You had to, to come at me with this kind of twisted garbage. Find someone to talk to, it won't be me anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 03:58 PM |
| – | women dont think about menWhy should men bother at all then? Women don't approach. Why should we? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 03:57 PM |
| – | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.Yes, and what I said was flawless factual truth. You can't refute me so you threw this angry fit. So goodbye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 03:56 PM |
| – | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.No, I am factually correct. You can't refute me so here you are throwing a tantrum. We're done here. Goodbye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 03:54 PM |
| 4 | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.The Duluth Model of Domestic Violence says this, just for one institutional example. It says women's domestic violence against men is trivial. Literally the entire concept of "punching up" is this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.My side ain't the one saying KillAllWomen. But Killallmen, SCUM manifesto and endless lists abound of female-written sci-fi fantasies about men being exterminated. Women don't just have a history of broadbrushing men. They have a history of broadbrushing us and wanting us fucking exterminated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 06:21 AM |
| 2 | women dont think about menMaybe women can learn to be less passive, too. Oh wait... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 05:21 AM |
| 4 | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.We can say the same thing about the manosphere. They just arrested Andrew Tate and his brother. If you are red pill are you automatically supporting them? I hate the likes of Andrew Tate. I'm not a redpiller. This is the definition of feminism from the UN women: "Feminism is a social, political, and ideological movement dedicated to achieving equal rights and opportunities for all genders. It works to dismantle systemic inequalities, challenge traditional gender roles, and eliminate discriminati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.Yes and most men do. Red Pillers are hated by most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 05:18 AM |
| 3 | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.It directs domestic violence policy to this very day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 05:17 AM |
| 7 | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.Y'all can't even bring yourselves to refrain from cheering domestic violence against men on national TV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 05:16 AM |
| 2 | women dont think about menI really don't think men would be happy with having to constantly entertain small talk with a slew of men all really wanting to fuck them Yet again your argument fails because of category error. Male to male vs male to female are not the same thing. There's a difference between a man making the first move and constantly being talked to by strangers in your daily life. Imagine having to deal with constant bids of small talk that always end up with someone wanting something from you. And that's wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 03:26 PM |
| -1 | women dont think about menlol all red pill does is try to sex up these parasites. have at it y'all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 03:25 PM |
| 0 | women dont think about menBetter a stalemate than getting exploited. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 03:24 PM |
| – | Men insist on being married and having children when they clearly do not have the means to.OP is describing tradcon men. Tradcon culture is trash culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Red pill "logic" applied to men shows the absurdity needed.Meanwhile, women aren't the ones trying to overturn elections. OP doesn't know about the women Republicans lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 02:32 PM |
| 14 | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.Yes they did. End of discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.For one example the Duluth Model of Domestic Violence, the framework of US domestic violence law. It says domestic violence against men is trivial, especially by women. That's a giant fuck-you to accountability right there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 02:29 PM |
| 5 | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.Men didn't have to create a justice system to lock up domestic abusers or rapists. Men chose to, because they're not fucking psychopaths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 02:27 PM |
| 13 | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.Really now, glad you should mention that. Our prisons are full of men being held accountable for their actions. Wanna guess who's the majority of who put them there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 02:23 PM |
| 0 | women dont think about menOkay so why should men do what women won't? Ain't anyone interested in asymmetry anymore. That's why so many men are walking off the gender plantation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.Where has traditional feminism said doing bad and anti-social things to men was wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:51 PM |
| 1 | women dont think about men??? So then why do y'all get upset when dudes talk about rizzmaxxing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 12:54 PM |
| 4 | women dont think about menMen wouldn't also want men c Utter and absolute category error. Male to male vs male to female are not the same thing. And, I mean, seriously, 74% of women want men to make the first move. Y'all won't even get off your ass to talk to a man. So if we don't make the first move, humanity goes extinct. Maybe that's a good thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 12:51 PM |
| 0 | Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others.It's almost nothing but women doing it. And the fact remains that y'all women are eating your own wounded by keeping a lid on your own collective suffering. You won't even dare challenge me on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 12:49 PM |
| 0 | Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others.Okay, and? He's not the only one to do that. The fact remains unchallenged that women are weaponizing this and don't want the world to know they have the same damned problem because it makes y'all look just as bad. You all would hate to have us rubbing your noses in it the way you do us. Hence the media blackout. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 12:18 PM |
| 13 | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here."It's called punching up!" - feminists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 11:03 AM |
| 24 | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.The problem is when women do it, other women don't hold them accountable. They think it's "punching up" at the "oppressor class." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 10:49 AM |
| 31 | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.Women are capable of doing bad things. Feminists say that's okay because men as a class are oppressors and it's a response to systemic misogyny. And that's why feminism is morally bankrupt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 10:44 AM |
| 0 | Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others.Yes, because women are eager to weaponize it. Women's loneliness isn't being covered because women don't want their dirty laundry and failures to be aired in the era of frau girlboss. As long as no one knows about female loneliness, women can lord it over men that "girls rule boys drool hahahah men are losing!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 10:35 AM |
| – | You can’t claim to have decentered men if you complain about men all the time.And that is why feminism is bankrupt. The movement has utterly weaponized the concept of class and marginalization to excuse resentment and hate as "punching up." When all they're doing is punching laterally and down at powerless men who've done nothing to them. And this is why feminism is a failed ideology: it says all men are part of the same class, and that's outright stupidity. Socioeconomic class separates men as cleanly as it separates men and women. This is also why feminism's talk of int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 10:33 AM |
| – | You can’t claim to have decentered men if you complain about men all the time.That's a classic No True Scotsman fallacy right there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 10:20 AM |
| – | You can’t claim to have decentered men if you complain about men all the time.And feminist groups focus on men in the same way. And? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 12:19 AM |
| 3 | You can’t claim to have decentered men if you complain about men all the time.Because everything you said is a lie, that's why. Women trash talk men as a gender and say everything the worst of MGTOW ever says, but on top of it even talk about killing off men or replacing them or creating a planet without men. #KillAllMen for instance. Clementine Ford saying shit like coronavirus isn't killing men fast enough. SCUM Manifesto. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 06:18 PM |
| 6 | Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others.Do I need to dump on you facts about female loneliness? Ok fine. https://www.cosmopolitan.com/relationships/a70314620/loneliness-epidemic-women/ https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/article/2024/aug/21/young-single-women-lonelier-than-ever-community https://www.damemagazine.com/2025/04/17/older-women-are-battling-a-loneliness-epidemic/ https://www.hertelier.com/post/loneliness-epidemic-women Tend to your own glass house before throwing rocks at ours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others.Others need to ask themselves how much value they bring to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Why women date upwards, its ties to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis and evolutionNah I mean imagine not dating a woman who's incompetent and incapable. That's a demographic apocalypse right there lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 06:10 PM |
| 0 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Enjoy dating parasites! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Women who struggle to find a long-term partner aren't "too good" for the men who are also single"The lowliest woman is greater than the greatest man" - TwoXChromosomes / your average feminist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 10:03 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill Will Never Have Good Prescriptions Because Its Historical Claims About Gender Are Wrong."It's AI because I feel it's AI" Please show how the post is AI. I've had AI checkers mark the Declaration of Independence as 97% AI. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 10:01 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill Will Never Have Good Prescriptions Because Its Historical Claims About Gender Are Wrong.Red Pill has female nature pegged like a bullseye. Red Pill's profound failure is in how they say men should react. You don't feed dysfunction and chaos into dysfunction and chaos and hope to improve things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 09:34 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill Will Never Have Good Prescriptions Because Its Historical Claims About Gender Are Wrong.Facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Why women date upwards, its ties to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis and evolutionI cannot date hypogamously because I cannot respect a man that way, which leads to me never feeling sexual for him. Like it just kills any and all attraction if I think he is incompetent and incapable. Imagine, if you will, running into men who feel the same way lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 09:32 PM |
| 1 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.lol women turn “sorry, I’m busy” or “you’re not my type” or “I just don’t see you that way” into "he can't handle a strong woman." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 09:26 PM |
| -1 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.I'm sorry, where did I say anything about losing the right to vote, etc.? Women only want equality when it suits them. That's not an endorsement of stripping them of basic human rights like the right to vote. Quit with the paranoid rhetoric. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 09:24 PM |
| -1 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Fuck no. Who in the hell wants to come back to parasites? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 09:22 PM |
| 0 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.You don't know who male feminists are? Well then I'll leave you to go look them up. They're always going after men for cheating, ghosting, lying, using others for your own benefit, etc. It's women who never hold each other accountable for cheating, ghosting, lying, using others for your own benefit, etc. Have a great day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 10:16 AM |
| 1 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Wrong, when a woman gets rejected, she's told it's because of misogyny. When a man gets rejected, he's told it's his fault. I wanted a decent person when I was single, not just any old woman. If I was single now I would stay single. Which is what I'm trying to warn my teenage son about but nah, he has to learn on his own how enshittified dating is for boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 10:11 AM |
| 0 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Okay, not always, there's that 1 woman in a million | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 10:10 AM |
| – | Modern dating is becoming more difficult because men and women are becoming increasingly ideologically dividedI was in my 30s then. We're like boiling frogs, we're used to the way things are since then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 10:09 AM |
| – | Modern dating is becoming more difficult because men and women are becoming increasingly ideologically dividedI'd have said shut sperm banks down but hell we don't have to hahahaaahaah go ladies seal your own reproductive fates! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 10:08 AM |
| 5 | Modern dating is becoming more difficult because men and women are becoming increasingly ideologically dividedWe're saying the same thing to you every time you say you'd choose bear but then fail to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 02:18 AM |
| – | Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men?Oh yeah, I did, didn't I? Heh heh heh. I guess this is where I tell you that's a popular meme: it means both are simultaneously true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 02:17 AM |
| 0 | Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man.You hopped on that bandwagon, you caught the argument's disease of illogic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 02:17 AM |
| 0 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Oh, you mean how those boysobers over at TwoX are still ranting about us? Rules for me but not for thee, eh? No point in talking to you anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 02:15 AM |
| 2 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Like I said, all dimensions. Male feminists hold men accountable for all of that shitty behavior. You said "anything." That left you open to be debunked from over a million directions. But, and read this twice: your "men don't hold other men accountable for anything" fails even the narrow standard you just defined. Do you get it now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 02:13 AM |
| 8 | Modern dating is becoming more difficult because men and women are becoming increasingly ideologically dividedMen. Men are the problem. If they weren't, why aren't they in relationships? Why isn't anyone interested? This kind of thinking is why I think young men should outright abandon women as a concept. And clean out the sperm banks before they go, too. Any woman who thinks men are the sole problem doesn't deserve men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Modern dating is becoming more difficult because men and women are becoming increasingly ideologically dividedWomen no longer need to rely on men for finances. They want a partner. Thus, their partner needs to actually be that. And not just a superficial bank account. Women virtue signal en masse about wanting more emotional openness from men. But when it actually happens, when some guy mourns a dead pet or parent, far too many women get the ick because female biology comes right back into play and she turns on him. Just about all women sabotage emotional openness in men upon first approach when she rej… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Modern dating is becoming more difficult because men and women are becoming increasingly ideologically dividedAnd Gen-Z men grew up where worse economic conditions became the new normal. The U3 unemployment numbers you keep seeing mask a total U6 structural collapse currently going on, which Trump permanently made a lot worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 01:02 AM |
| 4 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Men call other men cowards when they don't want to approach women or refuse to uphold other arbitrary male gender roles. Your statement is a flat out lie across all dimensions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:43 AM |
| 3 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.What would you say if men laughed at women victims of gross mutilation by their husbands ON TV? You'd explode in a fit of rage. There'd be protests in the street by blood-raged women. Women are easily triggered by what men think of them. Glass houses hurling rocks lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:33 AM |
| 2 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Nice to see women think violence by women against men is funny. Another good reason for men to go MGTOW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:31 AM |
| 4 | Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man.Nice moving of the goalposts there. First you said men don't protect women. Then I showed you how they do. And then you switched to saying I said they always protect women. The law is generally institutionally designed to protect women. Rape laws, VAWA, Title IX, and so on. Men generally protect women systemically. Not perfectly but on an institutional level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:30 AM |
| 4 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.You don't see male hosts on national TV mocking women for being mutilated and not getting canceled. Not ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man.Actually it's you women who only care about domestic violence when you can weaponize it against men. When it's happening in your own back yards y'all bury it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:27 AM |
| 1 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.You won't be saying that if it's women getting rejected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:25 AM |
| 2 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.*sigh* I'm having to put this on repeat. Women leverage their gender to subject men to standards that women aren't held to: men always having to make the first move, having to show unshakeable confidence where she doesn't, women doing foodie calls. Women virtue signal about wanting more emotional vulnerability for men and then turn on him when he does. Women don't hold each other accountable for any of this. That's why men are quitting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:25 AM |
| 3 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Women leverage their gender to subject men to standards that women aren't held to: men always having to make the first move, having to show unshakeable confidence where she doesn't, women doing foodie calls. Women virtue signal about wanting more emotional vulnerability for men and then turn on him when he does. Women don't hold each other accountable for any of this. That's why men are quitting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:24 AM |
| 2 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Women leverage their gender to subject men to standards that women aren't held to: men always having to make the first move, having to show unshakeable confidence where she doesn't, women doing foodie calls. Women virtue signal about wanting more emotional vulnerability for men and then turn on him when he does. Women don't hold each other accountable for any of this. That's why men are quitting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man.The politicians, who passed the laws directing the cops to arrest men for harming women. The ones who made VAWA initially to protect women victims of domestic violence more than male victims. Or does that not count for you because it's systemic protections for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:18 AM |
| 3 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Well, it's moving in that direction as we spek. https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles saying they’re not even looking. That trend shifts by age and gender: among singles under 40, men were more likely than women to say they’re not interested in dating, at 39% compared to 30% — a reversal of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man.????? Yall have already established that manbad badman manisevil. It chaps your hide to know the same is true about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:05 AM |
| – | Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men?Sadly, yes, as a matter of fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:04 AM |
| 7 | If you dont like women, don’t date them.and Tang Ping, and Herbivore Men, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 02:07 AM |
| 9 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Why is it a problem that women want equal rights and not equal accountability? That means they didn't give a fuck about equal rights and that feminism is a giant fraud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:52 AM |
| 8 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.She could commit domestic violence against him and he'd be laughed at by society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:51 AM |
| 12 | Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man."Always a man" goalpost now scoots over to "Men are overwhelmingly the threat." Except when it comes to domestic violence, women abuse each other proportionally as much as men abuse women. Hell sexual assault is reported in 30% of their relationships. https://www.autostraddle.com/when-women-rape-everything-were-not-talking-about-185931/ If one looks at CDC statistics, lesbian violence would appear to be higher than heterosexual violence, but these numbers can be misleading. According to the CDC,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:48 AM |
| 20 | Most of success with dating in adult life is shaped by the early childhood environmentCorrection: the narrative of hyperagency and meritocracy is only applied to men. Women are not held to that when they fail in the dating scene: they're told they failed because muhsoggyneez and low quality men, blah blah blah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:12 AM |
| -1 | Passport Bros aren't leaving the western dating scene for genuine desire, they are leaving for a chance at genuine desire, which is more than they would ever have in the west.Passport bros leave for other countries flaunting their wealth and Americanism and aesthetic appeal they think the women there actually desire them for who they are instead of a silly fantasy? hahahhahahahahahaa OP tell me you don't actually believe that tale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:10 AM |
| 24 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Men who haven't done anything to women are being treated like shit now. But there's no real reason for misandry. Women never really liked men. That's pretty much true across all of nature, so it's utterly independent of men's actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:09 AM |
| 13 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Women are afraid of equal accountability. That's why men are quitting en masse. https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles saying they’re not even looking. That trend shifts by age and gender: among singles under 40, men were more likely than women to say they’re not interested in dating, at 39%… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:07 AM |
| 12 | Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man.Ugh, another I-hate-men rantfest. Why can't these women just go their own way and found their own Themyscera? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:05 AM |
| 14 | Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man.Oh, really now? Let's have at it. Repeat that bullshit and see me hammer you with more examples. Way more. Or I can take you down institutionally: all those abusers of women now sitting in prison, arrested and hauled in by men. Next fallacy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:05 AM |
| 9 | Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man.Any time a woman is killed by a woman the "always a man" narrative suffers another screaming death. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:01 AM |
| 1 | It’s unrealistic to expect men to find romance by just “living their lives.”Well congratulations, you're one of almost no women who approaches men! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 12:59 AM |
| – | Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you.*sigh* this ever-persistent myth that decency isn't common among men. You really need to lose the feminist indoctrination that the world is just a bunch of smelly filthy otaku Republoturds. And you need to also free yourself from the Just World Fallacy that if a guy is failing at love, there's automatically something wrong with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 12:58 AM |
| 0 | Male Attraction is Treated as Normal and Women's Attraction is Seen as Shallow or BadOP is telling it as it is. Well, as it is when you stand on your head and view the world upside-down. Perspective, I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:04 PM |
| 0 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.How many women let the father's of their children get off because they do not want them to go to prison? Incarceration is a last resort. Men are rarely imprisoned for non payment if they simply cannot afford it. That's not the system being unfair to women. That's women not making use of resources available to them. Women ain't oppressed here. I never said that men were not scammed. I just brought up this because you talked about men being taken advantage of. Of course, men are taken advantage of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:01 PM |
| 2 | It’s unrealistic to expect men to find romance by just “living their lives.”Eh, what does "woman-adjacent" mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 02:57 PM |
| 5 | Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you.The point is that doesn't work for a lot of men. Dating is about far more than that, it is mainly about jestering for women - entertaining them and putting on a constant front of unshakeable confidence, to say nothing about looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you.Wow I can't debate someone who failed to read what I wrote that thoroughly, sorry man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 02:55 PM |
| 16 | It’s unrealistic to expect men to find romance by just “living their lives.”Have never approached a woman? Why can't women approach men? You people are huge on freedom from gender roles until the freedom cup passes into male hands and then you're swift to try and yank it back. "But muh biology" and all that bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 02:54 PM |
| – | If men understood having a victim complex is "feminine", very few of them would have it.No, that's wrong. Women virtue signal about hating men who are stoic. They get the ick right off the bat if he approaches her and is nervous or anxious. Far too many women even get the ick if he weeps for a deceased parent or a dog that died! A further reality check: https://parents-together.org/study-suggests-mothers-might-have-gender-bias-about-boys-crying/ A new study suggests that moms might be less tolerant than dads are when it comes to boys expressing emotions. While many of us might assu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.An app that lets you know about men who do not pay child support? ROTFLMAO you trying to kill me with laughter? Seriously? They have this neat little app called the Federal and State Governments for tracking men who don't pay child support! They'll fucking take away his professional licenses, his drivers license, and throw his ass in prison for not paying child support. She can even pass off some other man's kid as his and force him to pay for it. Dudes who get away with not paying child support… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you.Why couldn’t she get the guy she desires? Because there's only 20% of men who make the top 20% cut, and every woman wants them but only 20% of women can have them, so the rest settle for less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 05:00 AM |
| 7 | Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you.putting on a clean shirt, brushing your teeth, smiling and being pleasant to the women around you.. and above all, accepting rejection gracefully. Imagine doing all of that for decades and being told you're playing the victim card | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you.Men in their late teens and early 20s who stopped thinking about only getting laid, and started thinking about what their future will look like, were, are and always will get outcompeted by bad boys. For the same fucking women who think they mature faster than men. Humanity is an utter clown show. How did we even get this far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Unsuccessful men on the dating regard should just accept it and continue with their livesJust be aroace br0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:37 AM |
| 0 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsHeight surgery, perhaps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Why do they say that there are no benefits in a man having a woman as a friend?A woman calling a man a coward? LOL cowardice is woven into your soul and biological lattice. You have no standing to hurl rocks at me from your glass house. I will not further engage with you and this naked hypocrisy. I'm not a disposable male and it's on you to deal with that, not me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:30 AM |
| – | Women are emotionally more resilient and self-reliant as single women do not whine, cry, complain, and moan about being lonely nearly as much as single men do.Please don't tell me you seriously look at that much anti-male hate and think those women want anything to do with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do they say that there are no benefits in a man having a woman as a friend?Uh, no. 100% of all heterosexual relationships start with men signaling or fake-signaling confidence, which itself is a baseline show of protector ability, especially on an emotional level. It lets the woman know he can handle a physical or emotional crisis - his and hers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:27 AM |
| 0 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.AWDTSG/Tea app makes your argument a flat out lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:26 AM |
| – | If men understood having a victim complex is "feminine", very few of them would have it.That's outright gaslighting. Men can't force women to want men who are not stoic or unshakeably confident. Women's own biological filters are the problem here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:25 AM |
| 0 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsHer looks, and he's a superficial fool just like the woman is a superficial fool. You've been caught downvoting me because you don't like being hit with logic so we're done here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.First of all, entire governments care that this many men are moving on. Second of all, if either men or women don't care about pleasing anyone, then that group is counterproductive as a concept. You women don't have the leverage you think you do. What you do have is a parasitic instinct that is slowly killing your host (mating in general). Your gender is free to have fun with your delusions of importance, but the stats show that it's actively collapsing. I don't need to further debate you, what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standards... you really think you did something there lmao Not going into the rest of y'alls argument but he's right with that one. If you get the treatment you inspire, not the treatment you demand, then that applies to both women and men. But your argument is bullshit because it invokes the Just World Fallacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:30 PM |
| 0 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsBoth men and women are responsible for that aspect of this state of affairs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:28 PM |
| -1 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsIf a woman rejects a man for being short and he comes back at 6'4" and she falls in love with him what is she actually loving? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:18 PM |
| 9 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.Men opting out is going on far beyond just Tinder. https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles saying they’re not even looking. That trend shifts by age and gender: among singles under 40, men were more likely than women to say they’re not interested in dating, at 39% compared to 30% — a reversal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do they say that there are no benefits in a man having a woman as a friend?No, having to signal protector capability is highly taxing - especially in a world where these threats are extremely rare. And it's worse since just about every man knows that when his ass is in a lurch, she's throwing him under the bus. It makes her company a tax, not a benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:14 PM |
| 5 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.Women are not accountable for taking advantage of men? Of course, women are immune to accountability, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Women are emotionally more resilient and self-reliant as single women do not whine, cry, complain, and moan about being lonely nearly as much as single men do.But they're women, so it doesn't count. Accountability is for males, not women. The feminist state has spoken. In all seriousness that's the sad state of affairs we live in now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:12 PM |
| 4 | Women are emotionally more resilient and self-reliant as single women do not whine, cry, complain, and moan about being lonely nearly as much as single men do.They don't do that anymore than the TwoX and other I-hate-men groups do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do they say that there are no benefits in a man having a woman as a friend?I get out because I say I get out. Fuck that. I don't do that disposable male bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why do women get so much more leeway in terms of being insecure/jealous in dating/ relationships?If you say so. I for one find this logic to be downright warped. But you do you, eh? See ya! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:10 PM |
| 2 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.Those men aren't complaining. They're checked out. The men here aren't checked out yet, but the way women are behaving? They eventually will be when they realize women don't like or care about males at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Handsome and Socially intelligent dude tries for 6 months in dating apps and failing miserably, shows that as a man if you want playtime, you must make dating your everything to get anything in the dating marketDoes this show that dating in itself is hard for men? Or that dating apps themselves are flawed? Dating is an asymmetrical emotionally Herculean nightmare for men outside of the apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 08:16 AM |
| 8 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.Tinder has lost 500,000 users in UK alone - mostly men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Women are emotionally more resilient and self-reliant as single women do not whine, cry, complain, and moan about being lonely nearly as much as single men do.OP is just dunking on men to make himself feel like he's on a higher tier. After this post he'll go run to a bar all swollen with confidence because he pulled down several of his fellow crabs trying to climb out of the barrel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Women are emotionally more resilient and self-reliant as single women do not whine, cry, complain, and moan about being lonely nearly as much as single men do.*MGTOW* has entered the chat There's men's communities that do exactly that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:31 AM |
| 4 | Women are emotionally more resilient and self-reliant as single women do not whine, cry, complain, and moan about being lonely nearly as much as single men do.Women read romance books, which is just as bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:31 AM |
| 0 | Women are emotionally more resilient and self-reliant as single women do not whine, cry, complain, and moan about being lonely nearly as much as single men do.The female loneliness epidemic is a thing. https://www.cosmopolitan.com/relationships/a70314620/loneliness-epidemic-women/ https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/article/2024/aug/21/young-single-women-lonelier-than-ever-community https://www.damemagazine.com/2025/04/17/older-women-are-battling-a-loneliness-epidemic/ https://www.hertelier.com/post/loneliness-epidemic-women I can do this all day if you wish to play the game of "I don't believe that source" but I know you won't even read them be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Women are emotionally more resilient and self-reliant as single women do not whine, cry, complain, and moan about being lonely nearly as much as single men do.When a woman is single, she knows she can walk out of singledom any second. She is living dating life in God Mode. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:28 AM |
| 7 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.Men who haven't convinced women to share expenses will be forever paying for dates. They should also stop dating. Wish granted. https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles saying they’re not even looking. That trend shifts by age and gender: among singles under 40, men were more likely than women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:26 AM |
| 11 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.Each couple works out what’s a fair exchange otherwise they wouldn’t be together. No, women leverage men's desperation to get favorable terms for her. Which is why so many men are opting out. inb4 "but women are opting out too" - women always opt out if they can find the chance to do so. Men have never in human history just stopped pursuing women at the scale that is happening now. This is an entirely new thing with men. Women have poisoned the well so badly that male disengagement is unpreceden… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:25 AM |
| – | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.https://datepsychology.com/risk-aversion-and-dating/ 74% of women aged 25 and below want to be approached more; 77% in the full 18-30 cohort. 68% wish to be approached more between 30-40, while for women 41 and older 45% wish to be approached more. If it were up to me, no woman on Earth would ever be approached, even though they want it. Women have forfeited the right to ever experience male courtship of any sort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:19 AM |
| – | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.Ain't too many relationships out there that women are enthusiastically in. Most are because she settled for far less than the elite man she wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why do women get so much more leeway in terms of being insecure/jealous in dating/ relationships?lo, if that's the wild-ass conclusion you want to come up with then have at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Why do they say that there are no benefits in a man having a woman as a friend?Screw that I'm not dying for anyone if I'm single and childless. I'm out, fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:15 AM |
| 2 | Why do they say that there are no benefits in a man having a woman as a friend?The prevalence is irrelevant. Women still want men who can protect them. That's the entire reason why women want confident men. That's the reason why Navy SEAL type men dominate romance novels. Women want men who can be their shields and their therapists. They do not want to give that in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:13 AM |
| 5 | Why do they say that there are no benefits in a man having a woman as a friend?If a mugger or bear shows up, guess who's her human shield? If she has a shitty boyfriend, guess who's her therapist? You guessed it - her male friend. If you're getting knifed by a mugger for her, she ain't got your back. If you have a shitty girlfriend, she's suddenly not your therapist, figure it out yourself. With friends like that who needs enemies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 01:40 AM |
| 10 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.If all women felt as you do we wouldn't be any kind of threat to the planet's ecosystem. Perhaps a few hundred thousand across the world at most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 01:36 AM |
| 8 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.Women expect it. They feel entitled to it. Either approach a woman or humans don't reproduce. Women are just that rigid about it. I'm just the type of person who sees 45% of men don't approach women as 55% too many men doing so. I only see 100% of men not approaching women as the proper attitude adjuster for women's entitlement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why do women get so much more leeway in terms of being insecure/jealous in dating/ relationships?Hell no I don't agree. It is a pile of double standards. Totally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 01:34 AM |
| -1 | The Voice Memo Guy, Proves Women Also Can’t Handle Rejection.So a man performs for women and should expect nothing in return? Maybe there's no point in a relationship with her, since she's not making his life any better. Or, and here's a revolutionary idea: sabotage the system by curing men's desire for casual sex. That will severely hurt women farrrrrrrrrrrrrrr more than you realize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 05:40 PM |
| 11 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.Yes they can but that's not helpful here. Approaching women is bad for other reasons, the first and foremost is women don't have to approach men. Men risk rejection, women do not. I am a fundamentalist. I believe in dismantling asymmetrical systems at their bedrock. Hence, when we talk about men not accepting "no," I see both a boundary violation and a gross gender imbalance at play. Thus the need to eliminate the imbalance by eliminating the approach. Women don't approach, so they don't deserve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 05:38 PM |
| 13 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.Women are never enthusiastic about more than a small percentage of men. Yes, relationships do form, but very few are ever ones that women see as ideal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 05:32 PM |
| 4 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.What do you call 45% of men not approaching women? 55% too many men approaching women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 04:04 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Why do women get so much more leeway in terms of being insecure/jealous in dating/ relationships?Yes, morally it's the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 04:01 PM |
| -4 | Q4W: Why do women get so much more leeway in terms of being insecure/jealous in dating/ relationships?LOL nowadays what other kind of woman is there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 03:59 PM |
| -2 | Q4W: Why do women get so much more leeway in terms of being insecure/jealous in dating/ relationships?Men are castigated for being angry about double standards, women are not. You just proved that yourself by your own post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 03:52 PM |
| -1 | Q4W: Why do women get so much more leeway in terms of being insecure/jealous in dating/ relationships?Women get more leeway in everything than men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 03:49 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Why do women get so much more leeway in terms of being insecure/jealous in dating/ relationships?Double standards make men angry for the same reason they make women angry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 03:48 PM |
| 0 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?I'll see that and raise you patriarchy theory conspiracy. Two can play that game! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 03:46 PM |
| -2 | What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ?It shows that women love a man's value more than she values his love. This is more true than ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 12:45 PM |
| 0 | Why don't unattractive men want to completely eradicate their libido?Civilization cannot run without horny males desperate to gain socioeconomic status which is how males become eligible for being chosen by a woman. So because of that, society has thoroughly indoctrinated males into believing and all-in buying into the Second American Dream, which is a relationship with a woman and marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 12:37 PM |
| – | Getting women to lower their standards will just trap you in a passionless relationshipI keep saying that in today's mating environment, winning the mating game is worse for men than losing. When he is rejected, he loses. When he wins... well... he ends like this... metaphorically: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ihd-NwI030c | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 04:42 AM |
| 5 | The Graham Platner scandal shows decency doesn’t matter in datingThis begs the question, why stay on the straight and narrow when being a monster will get you better results? Why hold consistent and coherent values and world views when you will simply lose out to others who walk through life thinking with their dick/clit? What incentive is there to select for good people? I'd rather utterly write off womankind than become a monster to date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 12:22 AM |
| – | It's weird to date a gender who's general impression of dating your gender is mild disgust.Wars happen over resources. Women bully each other all the time. Very much. That's going to fuel a shit-ton of fighting. As the saying goes... war never changes. There's plenty of evidence that female leaders aren't more peaceful than male leaders. https://www.forbes.com/sites/kimelsesser/2022/03/08/sheryl-sandberg-says-female-leaders-dont-go-to-war-heres-what-research-says/ Authors of the book Why Leaders Fight analyzed every world leader from 1875 to 2004 and statistically examined gender diff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Women who choose to remain single are viewed as empowered, men are nothttps://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/women-men-femosphere-new-statesman-poll-b2958208.html Just 35 per cent of British women under the age of 25 hold a positive view of men, according to a new poll. Here's proof of how much women hate men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 04:10 PM |
| -1 | Women use the internet as proof to judge men but never themselves.Women resist any shred of accountability when they do men wrong. Any. Every time you bring the subject up they shut up and scatter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 04:06 PM |
| – | It's weird to date a gender who's general impression of dating your gender is mild disgust.I'm saying that they shouldn't be given a free pass while men are held to higher standards than women. But I don't debate people who downvote my posts when the sub says don't downvote. See ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?You've got all this in reverse. Men who didn't jump in front of danger and didn't prove themselves were avoided by women for procreation. It's called selective pressure. Women exerted selective pressure that caused the sexual dimorphism we have now. But we arent talking about that, we are talking about the gendered expectation on men to be emotionless/never vulnerable, and that their needs to be suportef arent taken seriously. Women did not and do not like dating men who are emotionally vulnerab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?He wants to know why double standards and misandry are so rampant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 03:57 PM |
| – | It's weird to date a gender who's general impression of dating your gender is mild disgust.Except they'd go to war with each other, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 02:34 PM |
| – | It's weird to date a gender who's general impression of dating your gender is mild disgust.I mean it's not universally true, but https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/women-men-femosphere-new-statesman-poll-b2958208.html Just 35 per cent of British women under the age of 25 hold a positive view of men, according to a new poll. Dude's point is pretty much accurate if not precise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 02:32 PM |
| – | It's weird to date a gender who's general impression of dating your gender is mild disgust.A lot of women who quit dating are ranting about men. TwoX ffs. He can post here while trash talking dating. Unless the rules for men are different than for women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?LOL @ the caps lock rage. Women created this. Across almost every animal species in existence. Males are always the ones thrown in front of danger, the load bearers, the hard laborers, in almost all species. Women do not like unemployed men, or weak men, or shy men. Women don't like neurodivergent men. Women cheered the unprovoked castration of a man by his wife, not patriarchy. That's on women. Your argument is essentially saying women are not held accountable for their actions, and never will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 10:09 AM |
| – | Men are not a monolith, but women are (according to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis). 🔵BP constantly conflates the experiences and capabilities of High value vs. Low value menAw, I offended you by calling out feminist hypocrisy. You sitting here dunking on innocent men because of the "system"? You'd never tolerate that if your words were flipped. Mission accomplished, I'm outta here lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Double standards are in fact the heart of this problem. Misandry is absolutely rampant and encouraged. It's now ossified. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 07:04 AM |
| 7 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Funny how you challenge someone to show how women are the privileged gender and then you move the goalposts. And thus there's another female advantage. Women get to play the victim Olympics and the world rushes in to support them. Men complain and we get bullshit hypocrisy like this. For your own mental health just go boysober or something. Men as a group would be better off without having any contact with this kind of hypocrisy and narcissism. And for my personal mental health I'm ending this c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 07:02 AM |
| – | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerIf shy men find anyone, and that's a big fucking if, it's much later in life. At this point you're failing to understand female biology. Women would rather choose boysober. Women want strong confident men even though they can't bring that energy themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 06:36 AM |
| 20 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Weakness is a vice for men but not women. Shyness is a vice for men but not women. Unemployment kills a man's marriage hopes, but not women's. Autism is a dating death sentence for men but not women. Male domestic violence victims are laughed at and mocked. Women victims are not. Men who are victims of women rapists will be punished by the court and made to pay child support if she gets pregnant. In war men are forced to fight and women are not. See: Ukraine right now. Male teachers are treated … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 06:14 AM |
| 8 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?It does matter when it's called hate when it's genderflipped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 06:10 AM |
| – | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerOh go ahead and threaten me with what male feminists and women say about all men already. That shit don't work anymore, son. And your tantrum of an argument doesn't even address the fact that even when women don't pick these criminals, they'd rather leave the dating scene than date a shy guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 06:04 AM |
| 1 | If men understood having a victim complex is "feminine", very few of them would have it.Because when men actually cry, women get the ick. It's all bullshit anyway because even when he approaches her the first time, the man has to show unshakeable confidence. If he's nervous or anxious? Time to mask it or he's out! Out the gate he has to hide his feelings and be something he's not. Of course it's going to go sideways quite often if he's caught crying about something later! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 06:02 AM |
| – | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.Amen to that. Women won't like that, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 05:54 AM |
| 1 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerDude... ummm I hate to break it to you but https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cqx843qlr2zo A police officer has been jailed for illegally accessing and passing sensitive information from police computer systems to her convicted criminal boyfriend. https://www.cbsnews.com/news/four-female-prison-guards-impregnated-by-same-inmate/ BALTIMORE Four female prison guards in Baltimore fell pregnant to the same inmate, according to authorities who have busted a major smuggling gang inside the jail system.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 03:01 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt's because women with high body counts is standing proof that she has huge leverage over him. She can go find herself a dude at any second. He couldn't do this with women. One solid golden rule in life is never hitch yourself with a woman who has that much of a power differential. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 05:54 AM |
| 3 | What should be the appropriate punishment for a paternity fraud?Mandatory paternity test at birth would solve the entire issue at its root instead of figuring out how further entrench government overeach into our personal affairs. So say we all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 05:39 AM |
| 0 | Men are not a monolith, but women are (according to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis). 🔵BP constantly conflates the experiences and capabilities of High value vs. Low value menYou would not be saying this if things were gender-flipped and your gender was being pathologized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 05:14 AM |
| 3 | Men are not a monolith, but women are (according to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis). 🔵BP constantly conflates the experiences and capabilities of High value vs. Low value menBoth are more datable than an average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 05:13 AM |
| 0 | Men are not a monolith, but women are (according to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis). 🔵BP constantly conflates the experiences and capabilities of High value vs. Low value menGive thanks to the world that you are not a male with that life history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 05:10 AM |
| 1 | What should be the appropriate punishment for a paternity fraud?Due process is the guy has a kid that's not his and he didn't know it wasn't his. BOOM. Dire civil penalties for her. It's proving that she intentionally defrauded him that should be required for jail time. In fact I'd go moderate and say unintentional misattributed paternity costs her compensatory damages and maybe some pain and suffering. Punitive damages requires proof of intent or concealment upon after-the-fact discovery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 04:51 AM |
| – | Is a man being nerdy a turn off?Henry Cavill is handsome first and a nerd second. The handsomeness and height outweighs everything else. but he also has other interests outside of this, and isn’t a full timer. It’s about balance, imo. That literally describes the geek caste, which is not the nerd caste. Again, not viable as mates unless they cross the aesthetics threshold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Debate: women are allowed to distrust men, men are not allowed to distrust women (repost as I dodn't partipate within three hours)What a load of group guilt bullshit. The majority of men don't commit sexual violence, domestic violence, or coercive abuse. The majority is being judged by the acts of a few. Men's distrust of women, meanwhile, is usually the same recycled misogynistic bullshit: women are hypergamous, women only want money, women lie about rape, women divorce to steal your kids, women are naturally manipulative, etc. All of which are true because some women are like that and worse yet they also run a low risk o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 10:34 PM |
| – | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hillHe doesn’t give a single shit about the boring women who avoid rotten men like the plague. Much in the way people don't give a single shit about house prices because they've flown so far away into financial hyperspace that they're too busy worrying about making rent. Rent being analogous for the women being discussed in this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 03:26 AM |
| – | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hillOP does not want the nice women who won’t put up with that shit though, because he wants the kind of bad girl who will let him abuse them. Or, hear me out, the competition for nice women is more superheated than the competition for a work-at-home job at Google. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 03:24 AM |
| – | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hillYet women possess both traits. Utter hypocrisy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 03:22 AM |
| – | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hillDon't forget lesser cases like: https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cqx843qlr2zo A police officer has been jailed for illegally accessing and passing sensitive information from police computer systems to her convicted criminal boyfriend. https://www.cbsnews.com/news/four-female-prison-guards-impregnated-by-same-inmate/ BALTIMORE Four female prison guards in Baltimore fell pregnant to the same inmate, according to authorities who have busted a major smuggling gang inside the jail system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 03:21 AM |
| 1 | If men understood having a victim complex is "feminine", very few of them would have it.First of all https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles saying they’re not even looking. That trend shifts by age and gender: among singles under 40, men were more likely than women to say they’re not interested in dating, at 39% compared to 30% — a reversal of older age groups, where women were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️Then you're wrong because women are like that, just like men. I don't put up with misandry so I'm ending this here and denying you the last word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 02:53 AM |
| 1 | If men understood having a victim complex is "feminine", very few of them would have it.Women did respond to men's rights groups by saying it's okay to cry. Then it all turns out to be mere virtue signaling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 02:45 AM |
| 2 | If men understood having a victim complex is "feminine", very few of them would have it.Ohhhhhhhhhhh so that's why you're ranting about how women have supposedly been begging men to go away. You clearly weren't one of them. Which means everything you said was horseshit lol okthxbye | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 11:19 PM |
| 1 | If men understood having a victim complex is "feminine", very few of them would have it.I hate to break it to you but many men are backing that up with action. And when artificial wombs happen women will be forgotten entirely. https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles saying they’re not even looking. That trend shifts by age and gender: among singles under 40, men were more likely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 10:25 PM |
| 5 | If men understood having a victim complex is "feminine", very few of them would have it.And there are a lot of women who are sabotaging their entire feeding grounds with this mentality. Men are quitting women and going girlsober in droves. Half of single men in America are already checked out. Half. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20drop%20is%20largely%20driven,from%2061%25%20in%202019). This drop is largely driven by single men, who are now 11 percentage points less likely than in 2019 to say they a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 03:34 PM |
| 1 | If men understood having a victim complex is "feminine", very few of them would have it.Your husband doesn't see all the men who've written off women entirely. But governments are seeing it and are panicking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 03:32 PM |
| 2 | If men understood having a victim complex is "feminine", very few of them would have it.Oh men understand that a victim complex is unmasculine. That's why men are quiet quitting women altogether. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20drop%20is%20largely%20driven,from%2061%25%20in%202019). This drop is largely driven by single men, who are now 11 percentage points less likely than in 2019 to say they are looking for a committed relationship and/or casual dates (50% in July 2022, down from 61% in 2019). Du… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 03:31 PM |
| 1 | If men understood having a victim complex is "feminine", very few of them would have it.Only if the nose is poisoning us to death. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 03:27 PM |
| 8 | If men understood having a victim complex is "feminine", very few of them would have it.No, if we realized what you want us to realize, we would ALL stop dating. Immediately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 03:26 PM |
| -1 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGI have a teenage son in the midst of this shit. And since you're breaking the rules and downvoting me this discussion is over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️No, some men are raised quite naive. They catch the reality check soon enough though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️So are women. Nothing I said was untrue, so the truth is just unbearable for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 03:23 PM |
| 4 | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️You are describing the most objectionable woman possible who exhibits every single possible cruel respone to a man opening up - all in one. This is grievance mountain. It's grievance mountain only when a man does it. Obviously this is not about one woman performing all of these atrocities. It is a LOT of women each performing several of them. All women are imperfect, but the idea that you meet someone and they are going to do this to you is exactly what holds men back. It comes from a place of i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men?You didn't read what I said. I said men's emotional labor is invisible and unappreciated. You're being obtuse if you can't recognize that. I've got no time for someone I've had to repeat this to twice. Bye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️That's not a personal attack any more than when women call out men as a group and then say the SAME THING to men who protest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men?Women shouldn’t approach men. Then men should just stop dating. Period. End of all problems! Have a great day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️I did. That's part of why I didn't get married until my 30s. Nowadays a man who does what I did will be unlikely to marry until his 50s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 03:12 PM |
| 0 | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️but no one has any business being in a relationship when they need therapy. Now that is a respectable, balanced take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️Yes, I could always go be a hermit! Why didn't I think of that. Or I could be a male femini er, nah fuck that second option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️You never heard of women walking around with keys as weapons? Or walking on the other side of the street when a man is approaching. Er, nevermind. You know you've seen that. You're just shit talking like a regular feminist who hates men. Not giving you any more time of day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 03:09 PM |
| – | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️If you saw that as mean, maybe it hit closer to home than you realize? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 03:08 PM |
| 0 | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️Reality is much meaner than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 03:07 PM |
| 7 | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️You know, men serve as unpaid therapists for women who are allowed to cry and still trauma dump on innocent men about prior men who do them wrong. And it's mostly the less obvious things, like the way she treats all men with extreme suspicion, the unearned hostility when he comes up and says hello, the shit tests, the instant rejection if he shows a hint of nervousness or anxiety, the "men are trash" mindset, and especially the "you better be super phenomenal exceptional or I'll go boysober" mov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:42 PM |
| 6 | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️Then let me be blunt and unapologetic about this: you're an anomaly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:35 PM |
| 3 | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️Yeah that sucks a lot to give all that to a woman and have it wasted because of infidelity or any of the other ways she can betray a man. Then the world expects you to suck it up and have a stiff upper lip about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:34 PM |
| 7 | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️still get the time of his life. You mean with the one anomaly he found 10 years later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:33 PM |
| 23 | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️Men open up whenever they approach you. (Disclaimer: I mean general you, not specific you.) They open themselves up to rejection (something you as a woman will never experience at that scale) and scorn and the risk of being outed on a fucking Tea app and falsely accused of being creepy. They open themselves up to the risk of being Aziz Ansari'd. They open themselves up to the risk of being Jon Finkel'd. They put up with your defensiveness and having to prove their worth to you by proving they're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men?Read what I said. I said All men get used for emotional labor and investment, and the best part is? Women have bamboozled society into thinking men don't. To break this down more simply, male emotional labor is not recognized as such, which means women are delusional as all hell and have convinced themselves of the bullshit lie that they do more emotional labor than men. Because male emotional labor is seen as a TRAIT not labor! Which makes women the sociopaths here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:02 PM |
| -2 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGAnd they'll report his ass for it. Which means women are in for a monster category 7 storm of a AWDTSG-genderflip reckoning given how much ghosting that they do to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Mongolia shows that traditional masculinity and relatively high gender equality can coexist.Mongolia does prioritize a man to be hardworking and resourceful. You mean, extremely hardworking and resourceful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Mongolia shows that traditional masculinity and relatively high gender equality can coexist.Separate issue said no Mongolian woman ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Mongolia shows that traditional masculinity and relatively high gender equality can coexist.You mean we can learn from Mongolia about their bullet proof corporate glass ceiling, hypergamy accelerated to warp speed, 25% representation of women in higher politics, that kinda thing? Nah we'll pass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Mongolia shows that traditional masculinity and relatively high gender equality can coexist.From my Mongolian friend, who laid it out to me a few weeks ago: Mongolia is a fucking mess. They have a gender wage gap of over 12% and women face a bulletproof glass ceiling blocking them from senior executive positions. Men make up 75% of top-tier political decision-making spots, not to mention almost all regional governorships. Men suffer from higher rates of unemployment, social isolation, and severe alcoholism in both urban centers and rural areas. Hypergamic women in Mongolia can't find a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men?It might have something to do with the fact that men's emotional labor for women goes largely unrecognized by women, and thus by society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men?Sometimes women get used for sex. All men get used for emotional labor and investment, and the best part is? Women have bamboozled society into thinking men don't. Men's emotional labor and investment is treated as a trait. Confidence is emotional labor, peacekeeping is emotional labor, and in men it is treated as a trait. And for men, this happens every second that they're around women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men?Men get used constantly for emotional labor and emotional/financial investment. It's the emotional part that's ever-constant and most damaging, insidious - and the part that women militantly refuse to recognize. Women actually think they do the majority of emotional labor, that's just how much they ignore what men put into the equation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:53 AM |
| -1 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGIt makes what you said utterly lacking in credibility. Have a great day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGI don't care if you don't believe me. You don't have to believe me. You will accept what I said, your question got answered, and I am ending this discussion right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:47 AM |
| 0 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGClearly you can't. Everything I said was flawless English. Therefore you either understand it or don't understand English. End of discussion. What I said stands. We don't need your approval. And we are forming AWDTSG groups against abusive women, too. Now threaten us with some boysober bullshit about boycotting men lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:45 AM |
| -2 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGYeah, they're about revenge. They're Aziz Ansari at scale! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:44 AM |
| 0 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGAWDTSG hardly ever tells the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:43 AM |
| -1 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGYou iive in Russia?! Oh man you have a lot worse to worry about than guys. You live in Russia for crying out loud lol You'll be lucky to have a country in 2040 after Pootey is done with you all! Do svidaniya hahahahah! Slava ukraine!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:42 AM |
| 0 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGYes you do. And the truth about women is just as devastating. See you in the trenches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:40 AM |
| 0 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGIt’ll be a wanna be stalker/rapist breeding ground. No it won't. It'll be a breeding ground of men calling women creepy and hazardous - vague, devastating slander that, like what women say of men, can't be assailed in a court of law. AWDTSG is already awakening this kind of retaliation. Natural selection is king. When men see how effective it is to hit back with the same words being used against them, it'll start being done at scale. Revenge porn and stalking and rape is already on the way down.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:40 AM |
| -1 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGAWDTSG is by definition slander and hit jobs. Women who use them can easily be tracked and hit by squads of men saying equal shit in return. Men now have their own apps and websites to say the same thing, and not enough male feminist simps anymore to fight back. Let slip the dogs of narrative war. See ya! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:36 AM |
| 0 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGThe law deters a lot of people. It doesn't give you the right to form Kangaroo courts! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGI have a teenaged son who is on GROUND ZERO of this shit! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:33 AM |
| -1 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGYes, those sites are about tearing men down, and they exist as weapons of slander. They're weapons of terror, not social correction. Women who use them should never be able to find another date again. No backing down from that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:32 AM |
| -2 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGWrong. The risks for both are the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:30 AM |
| 10 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGAre We Dating The Same Guy. It’s to prevent being conned by a man who claims he is single and monogamous when he is actually already involved. It’s broadened to allow women to warn others of abusive and violent men. All is about safety from abusers. Why is it that women have to worry about this? Because there is a segment of the male population who treat women terribly. No, AWDTSG is about women doing shit like labeling a man creepy because he wouldn't pay for her half of the meal. That's where … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGAWALT is a semi-clever inside joke/axiom invented by MGTOW that means "Variations on a Pattern." It's a joke-ish and intentionally ham handed way to stress the fact that women operate on patterns of behaviors which are predictable and manageable. It's the moral equivalent of "men are trash." Thing is, "men are trash" is a signal that a woman has suckass dating choices. Same is true for AWALT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 02:19 PM |
| 0 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGWhich it won't be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 02:15 PM |
| -1 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGOh, it's guaranteed to be vindictive and not true, like most AWDTSG posts are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 02:15 PM |
| -5 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGThat's illegal, and so is revenge porn, so men's groups wouldn't risk doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 02:13 PM |
| 5 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGWhat we need to do is know who's posting on AWDTSG and avoid dating them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 01:57 PM |
| -5 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGIt is true, that's the point of AWDTSG! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGAnyway, if I was feeling really mean, I'd just use the social fabrics surrounding the two of us to make his life hell. I'm a solid player of the gossip game. He'll be lucky to have a name left when I finish tarnishing it. And the best part is, that men rarely can recover when given a bad name. And then enjoy being sued for slander. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 01:55 PM |
| -1 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGIt would be full of lies and revenge porn. This is utter and unsubstantiated bullshit. Revenge porn is against the law! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 01:53 PM |
| -1 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGCan't you read English? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 01:51 PM |
| -3 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGFact is we don't need your approval and sure as hell aren't intimidated by your accusations of "controlling women's sexuality." And yes, any time a woman shows shitty character, endangers a man's safety, or is a criminal, it's going to get around, too. Now please threaten us with the boysober card we DGAF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 05:32 AM |
| – | If unselected men become a threat, society is more likely to get rid of them then placate themI will answer that for him. HELL NO. Putting aside the staggering moral bankruptcy of women being subordinate to men, it is also pragmatically ruinous. Such a woman will never love you for you. From that comes all kinds of unwanted emotional horrors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 10:43 PM |
| – | If unselected men become a threat, society is more likely to get rid of them then placate themDear God, woman, that's not going to happen in the bigger countries. The threat of nuclear escalation has broken that model. And Russia is paying other fatal prices for being the outlier. So is America for picking a fight with Iran. Excess men used as fodder is not the universal rule anymore. We will see a giant and ugly demographic collapse instead. This the truth of Germany, Japan and Korea right now, where surplus men are aplenty. America is teetering closer to the edge of this than we realiz… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 10:41 PM |
| – | If unselected men become a threat, society is more likely to get rid of them then placate themNot possible anymore, because a big enough war will bring nuclear arms into play and then human extinction. There'll not be a World War III except one in which we fight with sticks and stones afterwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 10:38 PM |
| – | If unselected men become a threat, society is more likely to get rid of them then placate themNo, the real threat is that these men will become more unproductive and become a drain on our taxes. Lots of them work in important jobs like infrastructure, and will abandon that for lower-stress, lower-paying jobs. Our system will collapse from neglect, not rape, murder or pillage, and then total demographic collapse. This is what is happening in Japan and Korea right this instant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 10:36 PM |
| – | If unselected men become a threat, society is more likely to get rid of them then placate themIt's constantly argued that if society doesn't give unsuccessful men hope in the realm of love and relationships, they'll become a threat to society. The implication is that society therefore has to placate these men by giving them access to romance (i.e. women), otherwise they'll become dangerous. No, the problem is those men will become unproductive and destroy your civilization with a collapse of the tax base, or they'll seek lower paying, lower-stress jobs that achieve only subsistence, aban… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 10:34 PM |
| – | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workI get that, but the phrasing was odd. It brings to mind little green men bursting out of someone's forehead. Honestly I think some of us could use a hyper intelligent green man drilling through our foreheads into our brain hahahhaa It's like someone living like an introvert when they're not an introvert. Sure, they might be able to pull it off for a while, but it's a straight shot to misery. I define demisexual tactics as holding off on acting on sexual attraction until after developing a strong… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men?They get rejected for it, sometimes brutally. A man is not allowed to show fear when performing their mandatory arbitrary gender role of first approach. They especially better never show a lack of confidence. A woman can do this and get away with it. Male confidence is actually what women rely on to cover for their own lack of confidence. It's biologically hard-coded and inescapable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men?Yeah, and that lonely woman will realize being with men who only want sex makes her loneliness worse and thus prefer to be lonely single than lonely because the person you are with doesn't actually care about you as a whole human being. This never fails to puzzle me. How is it that women, who don't care about men as whole human beings, want the treatment they never afford men? Men are rejected by women at the slightest hint of insecurity or weakness. Men on the other hand have to coddle her inse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 10:27 PM |
| 6 | Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men?This is why men say they're more resilient. Men face rejection for casual sex and relationships far worse than you and they keep trying as a rule of being male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 10:24 PM |
| 5 | Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men?But women don't get penalized for it like men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 08:36 AM |
| 13 | Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men?So basically you got stuck with the "men's difficulty mode" and decided it wasn't worth it? Men slog through all this shit and keep going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 08:35 AM |
| 3 | Talking to women is impossible.All that used to work. That stopped working upon the coming of the oughts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone care that dating is better now for women?Absolutely there's a correlation. So many young women banging the same top guys, getting embittered by situationships, and then going "boy sober." Meanwhile this https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/articles/y-please-start-going-tiktoker-120750573.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:08 AM |
| 5 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.It's not about dating a woman vs dating a man. It's about dating a woman vs dating a child. A child is defined as someone who can't communicate their feelings. Full stop. No room for debate whatsoever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Do male victims even exist in the eyes of women?A woman who gives a vague answer to that is a child and should be treated as such: as in, treat her like she's illegal to date lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 10:42 AM |
| -1 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateThis is why I wish we could leave y'all behind via rocket ship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 10:38 AM |
| 5 | I think that women highly value confidence and this puts men at a significant dating disadvantage.At some point men will learn how to be happy without women, and once they do things will even out a bit more when dating. Once men reach that point en masse, sexual apathy will be on the short horizon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 07:23 AM |
| 2 | I think that women highly value confidence and this puts men at a significant dating disadvantage.Basically not being nervous, not being anxious, and being sure of oneself. Women profoundly lack in all three but will not tolerate a drop below 100% in all three in men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 07:20 AM |
| 4 | I think that women highly value confidence and this puts men at a significant dating disadvantage.Oooooh you're in trouble deep, son. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 07:19 AM |
| 3 | The "problem" with paying is that men here don't like the types of women willing to pay for themselves on dates.They mistakenly don't think they exist. I know they do in droves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 07:17 AM |
| 3 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?Amen to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 07:16 AM |
| 2 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workDemisexuality isn't a tactic, though; it's an orientation in between allosexuality and full-on asexuality. Yes, but demisexual tactics and demisexual orientation are not the same thing. I thought that was clear in what I said. So vetting partners is fine, but physical attraction isn't really something to "be put aside," at least for people who haven't had "a serious neo cortex insurgency," whatever that might be. A neo cortex insurgency is your logical brain and common sense overriding your horm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 07:15 AM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workThere's actually two possible paths for the promiscuity-to-divorce pipeline: One, promiscuity causes lower pair-bonding, or two, promiscuity is the result of emotional or mental issues, which damage pair-bonding. I get it that you really want to engage in and defend casual sex so you go do you. Just don't expect a long-lived marriage. Good day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 07:13 AM |
| 4 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?What the fuck. They look like factory generated clones. That look signals VAPID AS FUCK. That's literally a red flag level: Chinese military parade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 10:57 AM |
| 10 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?passivity What is it with women having a problem with passivity when it's one of their core traits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 06:48 AM |
| 0 | The "problem" with paying is that men here don't like the types of women willing to pay for themselves on dates.I did, and I still got dates. I don't see why this issue keeps coming up. Women say that they want the man to pay but when men push back the women always fold like origami. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 05:06 AM |
| 1 | The "problem" with paying is that men here don't like the types of women willing to pay for themselves on dates.Lilith this claim has got to be the most unsubstantiated horseshit of all time. I'd love to see your stats on this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 05:05 AM |
| 2 | The manosphere thrives because society has failed to provide an alternative.Yeah when you see reality it's impossible to unsee. Also happy cake day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 05:03 AM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workIn other words, I am not demisexual, and for people who are not demisexual, your "covenant man" ideology and the pervading ideology of Meetup don't work for them. Demisexual tactics work for men who can walk that route, though. I propose that initial attraction should be put aside in favor of strict vetting. That does require a serious neo cortex insurgency. I trained myself in my 20s to see good or bad looks as data except I know that fails in extreme top or bottom 1% cases. I got really parano… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 05:03 AM |
| 0 | Prediction: More and more men will opt out of pursuing LTRs with women because it's not worth it (unless you want kids and a family)Women don’t have desire for men who want unequal relationships. LOL women want unequal relationships. They want men to entertain them during courtship, they want men to show unshakeable confidence and prove they're not only safe but can be a woman's emotional rock. Women prefer benevolent sexism from men. Women give absolutely positively nothing in return whatsoever. Dating is a parasite economy for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 04:56 AM |
| -1 | Prediction: More and more men will opt out of pursuing LTRs with women because it's not worth it (unless you want kids and a family)Men need to know that women have no desire for men and continue to quiet quit dating as they already have been doing. Whether they get leverage on you or not, that will delete the leverage and power you have over them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 02:50 AM |
| 7 | Prediction: More and more men will opt out of pursuing LTRs with women because it's not worth it (unless you want kids and a family)https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20drop%20is%20largely%20driven,from%2061%25%20in%202019). This drop is largely driven by single men, who are now 11 percentage points less likely than in 2019 to say they are looking for a committed relationship and/or casual dates (50% in July 2022, down from 61% in 2019). During the same time frame, there has been no significant change in the share of single women who are looking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 02:47 AM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workI'm just saying you overshot it. Men do need to be less thirsty, but there's not need to give up casual sex altogether. It can still happen, as long as it's not aggressively pursued. I will be correcting that whenever I post this elsewhere. I actually think this is one of the few things that haven't changed in the modern era. Women you're friends with still have and make their own female friends that could be brought into your social world; and they're still going to have an easier time approach… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 10:37 PM |
| 10 | The manosphere thrives because society has failed to provide an alternative.Maybe so, but women depend on male disposability to take the burden of danger or extreme hardship off of them and they are not ever going to share that burden. Not ever. Biology strictly dictates that. As it is now and ever will be, patriarchy will be the easy way out of personal accountability. A woman hurts a man and a crowd of women cheer it? Make fun of a male domestic abuse victim? Blame the patriarchy and accountability goes right out the window. This will never change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 10:35 PM |
| 3 | when women say they're attracted to confidence, what do they mean?And women wonder why half of single men don't even want to bother anymore. And that number is growing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 10:31 PM |
| – | People are too in love with social media validation to give it up for a partner who doesn’t beat that attentionI'm a PPD male and I despise OF and Narcisstagram. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 09:23 AM |
| 1 | The idea that "most men on dating apps are trash and don't want commitment" is egregious inaccurateThere's a reason why there's an exodus of men leaving the dating scene entirely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 09:21 AM |
| 3 | The idea that "most men on dating apps are trash and don't want commitment" is egregious inaccurateYa know, I don't know why you women don't just wall yourselves up and avoid men altogether if you feel that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Women have delusions of grandeur in relationshipsOf course women and male feminists will say that. They hate men anyway. Fact is all men are taught that they have to fight and scrape and work hard to get a woman. That's not up for debate with anyone who's touched grass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Would you truly enjoy and appreciate arelationship that goes against gender norms of men providing and protecting?Women don't like pacifist men. That's beyond dispute. And the fact that women place no value on the lives of their men is demonstrable fact. Women want men who can protect them, even if it means it puts his life at risk. That is male disposability. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10480609/ Direct benefits, in the form of protection and immediate resource acquisition, plays an important role in women’s mate preferences and indicates that formidability is an important criterion in mate se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 09:12 AM |
| -3 | Women have delusions of grandeur in relationshipsOr, closer to your topic, how many men think they are entitled to a hot chick, regardless of their attitude, behavior, hygiene, etc.? Men dream of a hot chick, they don't feel entitled. We're all raised to believe that, hot or not, no relationship with a woman is guaranteed and we have to work hard to qualify for a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 04:07 AM |
| -2 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workYou must be really, really into casual sex to be this hostile to the fact that casual sex wrecks sensitivity to oxytocin and pair-bonding instincts. Fine with me, I've no further desire to go back and forth like this when you refuse to see reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 04:03 AM |
| -1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workOh, I see, your reasoning is clouded by the need to justify casual sex no matter what. I think it would be wise to leave you to that. Have a great day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 04:01 AM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workBeing a fan of video games, anime, sci-fi, fantasy, etc. is very bad for men. The sad part is men have to force themselves to get into shallow society-approved mainstream hobbies which they quite often do not like. Masking never ends well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 04:00 AM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workYes, most Meetups really are packing in the sausage, but in keeping with your second point, most of the women at the Meetups aren't the kind of women men are falling all over themselves to meet up with either. I've been to several Meetup events where every last woman in attendance was morbidly obese. I don't support your "covenant man" ideology, but Meetup closely aligns. The dominance of morbid obesity among meetup women wasn't exactly my experience. I attend some now as a married man not seeki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 03:58 AM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workCasual sex doesn't make dick cheap. The thirsty pursuit of it does. Guys going up to dozens of women at clubs or saying gross things on social media makes dick cheap. If men cut out that sort of behavior, they could still enjoy casual sex, but demand for it would be significantly more balanced between genders. That was the point of my OP. This is especially true if they're also following the rest of your advice, and so not just saying "yes" to women they don't actually care about. Not just sayin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 03:56 AM |
| – | Why is there such a massive asymmetry in how men pursue women vs. how women pursue men?Men are already checking out and MAGA is the pendulum swinging back the other way in a very bad way. Women won't think for themselves and won't re-examine what punching up means. Men need to break the cycle and stop playing in the feminism vs MAGA gang mentality false dichotomy. Men can protest misandry without resorting to "duh hur hur cancel the 19th" nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 03:51 AM |
| 29 | The manosphere thrives because society has failed to provide an alternative.Toxic masculinity has been weaponized to pathologize men as a group. Most notably the toxic masculinity narrative intentionally avoids discussing how women contribute to these rigid gender norms that men are held to. Toxic masculinity, when contrasted to the huge steps made toward women's liberation, shows something much bigger is in play: male disposability. And that far, far, far predates patriarchy. You see male disposability across the whole animal kingdom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 10:43 PM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workThat's absolutely a misconception that has never stood up to the test of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 10:40 PM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workHoly shit that's internalized misogyny, and I'm not even a feminist. Should the women in your fantasy also wear those Handmaid's tale style oversized puritan bonnets, too? And have names like OfDaniel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 10:38 PM |
| -1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workWomen haven't been sold off as property at least since the 1920s or earlier. Divorce is on the way down now that women have more freedom to choose. Women are also souring to casual sex more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 10:36 PM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workI wholeheartedly agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 10:35 PM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workThat depends. A lot of meetups are sausage fests and others have a dynamic where the women focus on the men who were there the longest. The new guy spends precious years of his life languishing and probably finding no one at all. Meetups have largely been enshittified just like apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 10:35 PM |
| 2 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would worklol it was the same for men who weren't the ones in charge. So I take it you agree with what I said: the social contract was corrupt to begin with. It should never have even started. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 10:33 PM |
| 0 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workThen why do so many women engage in foodie calls? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 10:04 PM |
| 3 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workProblem is a lot of men aren't and won't be interested in dancing or being musicians. They would be engaging in a severe form of masking. Eventually their disinterest in such activities will come out and bite them on the ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 10:04 PM |
| 0 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workSome people marry for life, you know. The casual sex explosion ruined that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 10:01 PM |
| -2 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workPeople with high partner counts are associated with higher rates of divorce. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10989935/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 10:00 PM |
| 2 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workAnd I am saying that we should break that contract on our end since women broke it on their end. Stop destroying our lives and bodies providing and protecting. Save ourselves since we are no longer getting sex, babies or labor. In fact, the social contract was corrupt to begin with. It should never have even started. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 09:58 PM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workI recognize the law of inertia. I am saying men should apply the unbalanced external force needed to act upon a corrupt culture in motion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 09:57 PM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workYikes. Oxycotin /=/ oxytocin. At all. That's a misspelling. Come on now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 09:56 PM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workI'm sorry what is the point debating someone who just says "no its not"? Have a great day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 09:55 PM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workRight away, it's clear why you don't expect men to sign on. It's the law of inertia. I dabbled in physics a bit: a culture that is in motion tends to stay in motion unless acted upon by an unbalanced external force. And when it involves culture, it means a very big unbalanced external force. Also, it sounds from your reasoning that attractive men don't actually need to give up casual sex at all, not even in solidarity or whatever. After all, hot guys aren't perceived as cheap and, contrary to wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 09:53 PM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workOh I did not think of that angle! Very well said. I would totally agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 09:48 PM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workThat is quite a hefty helping of side effects. I find them all to be quite encouraging, really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 09:47 PM |
| – | Why is there such a massive asymmetry in how men pursue women vs. how women pursue men?It's all about "punching up," fighting back against the oppressor. Problem with that is lower class men oppress no one. Women are punching laterally. Or sometimes even punching down. But they're women, so they get away with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 09:47 PM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workI just think it's best for men overall, not the best option for every individual man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 02:01 PM |
| 0 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workIt is known that people with a high partner count do have problems with pair-bonding, or our equivalent, staying in a relationship. This is why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 02:01 PM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workMove and keep chasing casual sex somewhere else? That's just exporting the problem elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 01:59 PM |
| -3 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workExcept the power trip of stringing them along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 01:58 PM |
| -3 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workObsessive gaming is already seen as a bad thing. But for many women dating is also a game of exploitation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 01:57 PM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workNope, that's why he should go Dutch on the first date. I aim to fix that at the substrate level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 01:57 PM |
| 3 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workAnd I am saying men should stop being so desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 01:56 PM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workThen enjoy the problems that come with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 01:55 PM |
| 1 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceThis is all very true... and very heretical, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 07:05 AM |
| -2 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workThe men who have the hardest time getting it, don't have any woman who wants to have casual sex. Why would the men who have casual sex especially the ones who have the most of it choose not to keep having casual sex. It also isn't casual sex that distorts the dating market it is that men are more attracted to women than the women are to men. The men who have a hard time getting casual sex are still feeding women's dopamine loops. They're feeding these women's egos and their thirst for validation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 07:04 AM |
| 3 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workMen need to ditch the abundance and scarcity axis entirely. Do what women do, stop caring if any woman wants him. Women don't care if men want them anymore. Men should be the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 07:01 AM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workDon't do that in Canada. If she doesn't live with you you can still be stuck with "palimony." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 07:00 AM |
| 3 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workWhen did we have that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 06:59 AM |
| 2 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workBut since your definition of sigma and beta is invalid, means nothing, and can be disregarded, who cares? If you as a woman cannot organize your life to work five days and squeeze out $30 for a meal, I feel bad for him. See how that feels when your rules are turn around on you? Also men can still go around you and your rules. He still doesn't need to negotiate or be coerced by your shaming language. In fact because of arguments like yours I would suggest men rebel against your shaming culture an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 06:58 AM |
| -9 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workIt's true of oxycotin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 06:55 AM |
| 0 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workThey're not feeding women's egos. That is a very good thing since 80% of men fall into the less attractive category. That's 80% of a woman's validation loop gone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 06:55 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementA woman who refuses to do a nice gesture right away like paying for his meal is a walking red flag to be avoided at all costs. That doesn't sound so nice when the gender role is put on you, does it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 06:53 AM |
| 3 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workMen should never back down from seeking out casual sex. Then they're distorting the supply and demand curve to their detriment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 06:52 AM |
| -1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workIf someone conditions their brain to seek the rapid dopamine rush of a new partner, they may find the slower, more stable rewards of long-term oxytocin-driven attachment less satisfying. That's not pseudo-science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 06:51 AM |
| 3 | Blue Pill/Womans advice makes far more sense if you imply 1 point.Then what do you plan to do, not have sex at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:17 AM |
| 7 | Blue Pill/Womans advice makes far more sense if you imply 1 point.Also men in general today just do not or refuse to understand non verbal language from women, because we all have mouths and we know English, so just speak Smart move in the era of enthusiastic consent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Gen Z men should avoid "quick and easy" and impersonal methods for finding themselves a relationshipWell I'm glad you got lucky and that worked out for you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:02 AM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workThat's fine as long as you understand the dire consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:02 AM |
| 2 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workI'm pretty left leaning in my other considerations, so end up supporting pretty feminist political parties, but I'll never concern myself with women's rights again Then get ready for a return to alimony and losing your house, car, etc. because she wants to "find herself." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:01 AM |
| -11 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would work"Till death do us part" is pair bonding made practical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:00 AM |
| -12 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workIt's the same as any other mood altering chemical - if you keep going to the well you develop a tolerance for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:00 AM |
| 6 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workWell then the man can wait it out for a woman who doesn't feel that way. He doesn't need to negotiate or be coerced by "you look cheap, disorganized, and arrogant" shaming language. I certainly wasn't, and I had a moderate dating life and wasn't an incel. Men can just go around you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 03:59 AM |
| 5 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workBut, I get if men wanna draw the line on that. I just think it's gonna put them farther away from finding a good thing, not closer. I believe about one out of every two women who engaged me was put off by splitting the bill. But one out of every two also didn't have a problem with it, including my wife. I don't think that going Dutch is the end of the world for men. And if enough men do it, that forces systemic change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 03:57 AM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workThere will always be those who will think like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 03:55 AM |
| -5 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workOkay, while both hormones are important in behavior, this isn't how it works at all. Oxytocin is involved in pair-bonding in both women and men. (Also, in out-group aggression. The whole "hug drug" reputation you see in pop sci is actually a lot more complicated.) Okay, let's go with that. It still means that casual sex makes them less sensitive to oxytocin. Which is bad for pair-bonding, and a good reason for men to abandon casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 03:11 AM |
| 3 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workYeah HealthyGamerGG needs to be seen by a lot more men. He's super balanced and no bullshit. At most, I can see the demand to go dutch really curbing things in certain cultures and cities because it's just that prominent. I think men need to learn to suck it up buttercup and set some boundaries, and accept that she's not gonna fuck him on a first date. If it curbs their chances with women, so be it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 03:09 AM |
| 2 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workYou should care about the women's rights thing on moral grounds but also because remember those days when women would just divorce a guy out of nowhere and snatch his house and car and move the pool boy in to fuck him on her bed while the husband is out on the street? That was the result of a world of women without rights, back when she needed a man's signature to rent or own a credit card. That was the sorry state of women's rights up until the 1970s. And that's when alimony was a fucking pande… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 03:05 AM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workWell some people do the dopamine loop thing. Every dating app swipe that turns into a match or message triggers a quick burst of dopamine. For some women, this provides a highly accessible source of external validation. This can't be denied. But it requires men to swipe a lot. If men aren't swiping then the dopamine loop stops. I bypass the argument over whether it's women's fault. The fire is burning the house down. It needs oxygen, heat and fuel. Men's chasing of women is the fuel. Take that a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 03:01 AM |
| 3 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workThis stuff of course is a bit crazy. "You starve women of their dopamine loops and their fuel for misandry...." Have you considered that if men went after women of better quality, they'd avoid these kinds of women? That is a good addition. I thought I properly stated this in my post when I said abandon chasing women based on their looks and look for women of better character. Sections 2 and 5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 02:56 AM |
| 7 | Alot of women want to control men and their sex life and it can be proven by a simple hypotheticalThese problems can be solved together. What the government allows a "dating visa" ; women are allowed to move to the U.S, as long as they are dating a preapproved man who is having a hard time finding a girlfriend, and the women consented to this? Where do you get these ideas from, man? This is some seriously exploitational and immature fantasy writing. Speaking as someone who is not a feminist simp - this shit's creepy af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Gen Z men should avoid "quick and easy" and impersonal methods for finding themselves a relationshipBut tje red pill guys here want to have sex on the first date and expect sex as proof of desire, before any emotional connection is formed It's a paradox. Casual sex on the first date is roaring proof that she really wants you. But in the macrocosm, casual sex is ruinous for men as a group. The latter is more important than the former: men avoiding casual sex at scale brings short term pain and long term gain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Gen Z men should avoid "quick and easy" and impersonal methods for finding themselves a relationshiplol did you find anyone to date in your social circle? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 01:36 AM |
| -2 | Excluding sons, do you have little to no sympathy for men?"Well sweetie, you're not entitled to a relationship. You should learn to be happy without romance in your life." She should say the first part. Child Protective Services should take her son if she says the second. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 01:24 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementI think her point is her policy renders "why should i pay if she won’t fuck me" vs not saying that, irrelevant. If he's thinking "why should i pay if she won’t fuck me" she has filtered him the fuck out. Boom. Problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 12:54 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementFine by me, I ran into women like you. I just nexted. Women like you (not saying this in any degrading way, certainly there are men for you) were the 1 out of 2 that didn't let me get to second dates. No problemo. For a man, 1 out of 2 is like batting a solid 0.700. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 12:52 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementTell them no and they fold like origami. Or they pass you by and another woman quickly shows up. I'm not a Chad and that's how it was for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 12:20 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementThen why was it dog easy for me to get dates despite stipulating up front that we're splitting checks? I'm no chad. Maybe people believe that shit but when men stand up for themselves, they fold like origami? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 12:18 AM |
| – | Dont ask for incentives to be a decent person,ROTFLMAO physician heal thyself!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Effort Asymmetry. The Courtship System Women Perpetuate. Double standard in Being Transactional in a Transactional Amoral Market.If only those same rules applied to women like they apply to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 09:37 AM |
| 1 | when women say they're attracted to confidence, what do they mean?I think we're all seen as utilities more than people regardless of gender, just different kinds of utilities. I'd rather be alone than with someone that makes me feel like shit. If we choose ourselves instead of relying on other people that don't care, we will be healthier and happier. Sounds perfectly fine by me! Those hormonal idiots with cavemen banging on drums in their ears might see a problem with that though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 07:51 AM |
| – | Dont ask for incentives to be a decent person,lol most of YOU don't have the bare minimum by any standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 07:49 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementThat's what I meant by splitting the bill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 07:48 AM |
| 0 | Would you truly enjoy and appreciate arelationship that goes against gender norms of men providing and protecting?lol then he might as well just stop dating, or trying to. And the fact that women place no value on the lives of their men is not misogyny, it's fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 07:47 AM |
| 3 | Why is there such a massive asymmetry in how men pursue women vs. how women pursue men?Some of my single friends read stupidly high volumes of erotic smut to the level of addictions. They are using it to replace something. I wonder if the women you interact with are likely to tell you about these habits. Book sales are stupidly high for these books. Funny how the media validates or outright ignores this. Because it's women doing it, I suppose. It's definitely distorting women's perspectives about men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 01:22 AM |
| 14 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementAw not this shit again. Dude, just state up front that you're splitting the bill. Tons of women do this already. Way too many in fact. Lots of women (like my wife for one) do it because they don't want you to feel entitled to sex. This fight is over, long over. It was over in the 1990s. Why are we constantly kicking this dead horse? Men have 99 problems with bad acting women, but this ain't one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 01:19 AM |
| 6 | There's No Shame in a Man Wanting a BangmaidLOL no shame in wanting a bangmaid, eh? Okay. Well, good luck finding one hahahahahahhaha Seriously I hope you don't. Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Can platonic feeling between two individuals go so far that it jumps into sexual just due to closeness ?That seems.. oddly specific though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 02:41 PM |
| 3 | when women say they're attracted to confidence, what do they mean?Being truly confident means being able to be vulnerable at times. Forcing a fake confidence is not brave at all, you're hiding from your own emotions instead of bravely facing them. Admitting weakness is a strength because you're progressing forward and learning how to handle difficult situations more effectively than someone who represses and hides from their emotions. That's the ideal. This society tragically falls light years short of that on average. Men are still seen as utilities more than… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Dont ask for incentives to be a decent person,So you can renounce the bare minimum as long as you have money and power Which means there's really no bare minimum. The whole concept is not only nebulous but lacking in credibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 05:03 AM |
| 7 | when women say they're attracted to confidence, what do they mean?IOW: "this benefits me so just suck it up buttercup." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 05:01 AM |
| 8 | when women say they're attracted to confidence, what do they mean?But only men get penalized for not being confident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 02:36 AM |
| 9 | when women say they're attracted to confidence, what do they mean?Women's requirements for men to be confident absolutely negates their desire for emotional openness. Far too many men are coming up and stuffing their insecurity and anxiety into a closet to make that approach happen. Then she fucking shit tests him like she's on a David Attenborough wild kingdom episode. The sad part is many of these same women lack the confidence they want in a man. She wants him to cover for her gaps. Yet he shows one whit of weakness and he's out! He's gotta be the rock. Be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 02:36 AM |
| 4 | Men should not be seeking dating advice from womenQuestions for women attract a hell of a lot of virtue signaling. Words utterly and laughably dissociated from actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 11:37 PM |
| 6 | Can platonic feeling between two individuals go so far that it jumps into sexual just due to closeness ?Where do these questions come from??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 11:35 PM |
| 9 | Dont ask for incentives to be a decent person,for being the bare minimum of decent himan beings. Yet men who renounce that bare minimum are utterly slaying it. Tell me, how many wives has Trump had so far? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 09:52 PM |
| 7 | Comments on video about male lonlinessthe Feminist State only allows a small list of emotions that males may have. Don't ask which because they change hourly based on feels. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/06/26 08:50 PM |
| -1 | How many good women are there?Dude, all women are good. The feminist state says so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone care that dating is better now for women?Women say dating sucks when they need to feed their sour grapes. Women say they're killin' it when they want to dunk on men. It all depends on their mood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone care that dating is better now for women?Younger women are getting wrecked by Chads. "Are we dating the same guy" and tea app are infirmaries for women being destroyed by Chads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone care that dating is better now for women?I think it’s cute that you think that. In case you haven’t noticed, the younger generations of women are being taught by older women to keep their standards high. You don’t hear about a female loneliness epidemic. Oh god I love it love it love it love it love it when y'all say this. You just made my entire day and it's not even 11am yet. Oh thank you so much for playing with debate dynamite without proper command of the facts. Sadly your misconceptions about female loneliness just blew up in you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Would you truly enjoy and appreciate arelationship that goes against gender norms of men providing and protecting?A lot of men die protecting women. How many is irrelevant - the relevant issue is women place no value on the lives of their men. What the hell is she going to do when he's dead lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 12:43 PM |
| 0 | Would you truly enjoy and appreciate arelationship that goes against gender norms of men providing and protecting?No one is going to die but apparently a fuckton of a lot of women were homeschooled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 07:33 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhen your dick is big, size doesn't matter, but women love to hurl small penis jokes like firing bullets in Ukraine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 07:32 AM |
| 2 | Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding.Wow man, I feel your pain about over-vigilance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Men had their Enlightenment in the 17th and 18th centuries. Women’s may be about to comeDOJ stats say women do get shorter sentences for the exact same crime. Full stop. https://www.ojp.gov/ncjrs/virtual-library/abstracts/gender-disparities-sentencing-departures-examination-us-federal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Would you truly enjoy and appreciate arelationship that goes against gender norms of men providing and protecting?I don't have to live in a war zone. But the downvotes from you women suggest that if I did, you'd throw us to the wolves like the women did the men in Ukraine. This proves that men really, really, really, really need to go on strike. Permanently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 07:23 AM |
| – | CMV: Young women despise young men in the context of relationshipsYoung women are listening to their mothers, aunts and grandmas who are telling them to focus on themselves first and that men will always be there. I pray hard for the day that men are not there at the end of that, and that enough men have fully checked out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 02:17 AM |
| 7 | Men had their Enlightenment in the 17th and 18th centuries. Women’s may be about to comeThey burned anything women wrote and sent them to the gallows for stepping out of line back then. And to think these chudlings want to return to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 01:53 AM |
| 5 | Men had their Enlightenment in the 17th and 18th centuries. Women’s may be about to comeThey fucking burned any such books written by women, and/or hung them as witches ffs man come on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 01:52 AM |
| 6 | Men had their Enlightenment in the 17th and 18th centuries. Women’s may be about to comeBut female Islamic scholars wrecks your whole argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 01:51 AM |
| -4 | Men had their Enlightenment in the 17th and 18th centuries. Women’s may be about to comeWomen are quite self-aware. The issue is that there is an accountability crisis among women. They do something bad to men, they blame it on the Patriarchy. "We're part of why women get shorter sentences than men for the same crime" said no woman ever, for instance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding.Dang, I'm past hiring companions at this point. If I get divorced only my kids are stopping me from going full hermit. And that's not because of women, it's also because of the world that Agent Orange has left for us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding.I mean, it does, to some extent, ain't gonna lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding.This, totally this. This part ain't just for you, it's for the chuds and apprentice-chuds out there: dudes gotta pick a lane. Don't pay for dinner or she submits to (general) you. They can't have both. Maybe this reaches one, I hope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding.I ain't gonna say I'm a saint or a feminist, but snatching women's rights is a red line for any sane man. Those of us who don't swallow the feminist horseshit gotta take a stand against this extremist crap too. Not enough men out there thinking for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Are all men watching porn? Where are the decent men?Okay you're debating in bad faith now. I'll leave you to whatever you're up to here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding.Exactly, thanks. I'm starting to see what's going wrong with this subreddit when people fail to understand a statement like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding.A few, but yes. Far more than now. Today is like what John Constantine saw when he went to hell in that movie. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R0srr1KzP1U | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding.I see these idiots on here talking about taking rights away from women and I'm like hello, 1950s are calling they want their idiocy back. These people never lived back when a woman had to get a man's signature to rent an apartment or own a credit card. Back when women would suddenly divorce their husband and take the house and car just to "figure herself out." Alimony was rampant. Half these conserviturds don't want to pay for her meal (neither do I for that matter) but then he wants her to subm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 06:07 PM |
| 0 | Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding.I didn't get married until the "third better one" came along. I would not ever go back into the dating market if I get divorced. Not into this horror show, no way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding.Yeah "show no emotion" was pretty much 1 out of every 2 girlfriends I had. I considered myself phenomenally lucky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding.Could have something to do with the rise of conservatism in that cohort or cohorts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding.But they've gathered under that banner. Makes them easy to spot and avoid unlike any time in history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding.Then why are there so many men who get burned on that crucible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:51 PM |
| 0 | The Scum manifesto has some good points…Prominent feminists of her time lauded her manifesto. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 03:53 PM |
| 4 | Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding.Yall date some heartless women lol Shit went steeply downhill after Gen-X. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 03:51 PM |
| -1 | Does anyone care that dating is better now for women?If women would rather be alone than date their looksmatch they're not procreating. Women who hold different views are procreating. Guess which culture wins the multi-generational race? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding.The two are not the sameJust kidding, men who do that are trash and should be disowned by all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Antiporn is usually motivated by misandryBesides that point, you’re comparing apples to oranges. I do believe that reading erotica can often give women unhealthy expectations with the men in their life, but it’s genuinely different than the dopamine mind fuck that modern porn is. And this assertion allows it to flourish unimpeded due to lack of societal scrutiny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 03:45 PM |
| -1 | Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding.You're an anomaly worthy of celebration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding.That one's easy to isolate, stay away from Redpillers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Are all men watching porn? Where are the decent men?So whataboutism Which is still not on topic and doesn't answer OP. That's what people deeply invested in hypocrisy say. Porn and erotica are very different. She might be against the porn industry bc strong overlap of actual people involved in prostitution, trafficking and drugs. Erotica is the literal mass indoctrination of women into treating men like disposable objects, a very real problem in our society. You have an active thread on here infested with women who have romance novels on the brai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 01:14 PM |
| 14 | Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding.A woman will say she wants a man to be less emotionally closed off. Then her pussy dries up when he cries because he has to put his dying cat to sleep. True story many many times over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 01:06 PM |
| 14 | Lying and being manipulative to get a girl or keep a girl is bad and will screw you overYou've got a few examples of men you decided to date who lied. I have dozens of examples of women doing the same to me. Should I make that post and flip the title or can we all agree this was just an excuse to complain about your poor choice in partners? No, because it's okay for people to complain about men doing it, but not okay for men to complain about women doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Lying and being manipulative to get a girl or keep a girl is bad and will screw you overThose are some hugely awful examples, and very legit ones. Amazingly big relationship fractures can come over far more mundane and shockingly petty deceptions, like, for instance, denying being an anime' fan so as to not ick your date and then causing a major argument because your partner discovered a Nausicaa VHS you forgot to get rid of (oddly specific? Yup. Ask me how). Or going to night clubs with your date to impress her only to reveal that you hate night clubs later. Or playing big spender… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 12:39 PM |
| -1 | Would you truly enjoy and appreciate arelationship that goes against gender norms of men providing and protecting?Because your standards trivialize the value of men's lives. And the downvotes are proof that women of today should be avoided. I dunno if men should choose bear but choosing woman is clearly a fucking suicide pact. Utterly disgusting. We're not disposable meat shields. Downvote this. I've made my point, I'm out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Are all men watching porn? Where are the decent men?The point is women are hypocrites the instant they broach the issue of porn. My question was intended to highlight that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 12:28 PM |
| 0 | Would you truly enjoy and appreciate arelationship that goes against gender norms of men providing and protecting?The sheer number of women on here who want men to throw their lives away protecting them. Fucking ay. This thread is hard core MGTOW fuel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 11:59 AM |
| 0 | Would you truly enjoy and appreciate arelationship that goes against gender norms of men providing and protecting?Who protects him? And what happens when he dies protecting you? What a waste of a human life. Who's going to protect you then? All you are telling is that you don't care about what would happen to a man in that case. You see his life as worthless, or worth less than yours. Why should he want you in his life? You say you don't believe men when they say this. Fine. You don't have to. It just is whether you believe it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 11:55 AM |
| -2 | Would you truly enjoy and appreciate arelationship that goes against gender norms of men providing and protecting?You won't live long being some woman's meat shield like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 11:51 AM |
| 0 | Is a man being nerdy a turn off?you’re going to get a lot of comments from nerdy reddit women who like and prefer nerds In other words, women who are virtue signaling. The only nerds or geeks that are popular with women are handsome men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone care that dating is better now for women?Can't wait for those women to age out of the gene pool and be replaced by women with more reasonable standards of attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:16 AM |
| -3 | Would you truly enjoy and appreciate arelationship that goes against gender norms of men providing and protecting?Yeah and who's protecting him? Who's going to protect you after he dies protecting you? I say men should go on strike and stop doing this, and let the revolted women age out of the gene pool. No more dying for women. Fuck that. We're not disposable meat shields, lady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:14 AM |
| – | If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more.Maybe we need to accomplish symmetry by having all the men who are in this situation outright rebel and clog the courts until the system collapses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:12 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?And women who vote for that creature are far worse. They're traitors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:11 AM |
| – | If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more.The courts have already shut that down. Stare decisis. There's no fixing it now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:10 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?You sound like someone who hurls false accusations at men. Women like you belong in a prison cell! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Antiporn is usually motivated by misandryYour whole post was about anti porn. There's no anti-romance novel movement of any appreciable size even though they objectify men as meat shields and walking wallets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:08 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?I don't get why you insist on being so clueless or dishonest. Not sure which is your problem yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:06 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?Maybe, maybe not, but it is true that criminals make more kids than law abiding people. But meanwhile stay mad about one example eh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:01 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?I dunno. Women are making it clear that not being rejected by a woman is worse than being rejected nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 04:59 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?Yes technically it is rape because abuse of power. But it is still an example of women who wanted to fuck a criminal and not a decent guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 04:56 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?It’s not irrelevant, oh really? Then how do you explain this this this and this? All examples of men with negative moral character and got women anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 04:53 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?Well it is an example of horrible men that decent men are losing out to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 04:50 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?That woman is a rapist. Inmates can’t consent. But Mary P Koss, Ms. "1 in 4 women get raped," said women can't rape men. She's a feminist. You gonna disagree with a feminist minister of propaganda now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 04:49 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?do you want me to link articles to ted bundy and richard ramirez to prove men hate women? Please do link articles to TWO MORE MEN who got tons of fan mail from women. Please do. I swear to God this subreddit is full of people who just farm L's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 04:47 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?Okay, and? He never got in at all without good looks and/or charisma. I mean fucking ay, content of character? Really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 12:49 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?Then take it up with her, I didn't write it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 12:47 AM |
| -1 | Why do some of you push this pathetic idea that there are legions of sad sack men who will date practically any woman?There's a ton of married fat women who want a word with you. So yeah they are mutually exclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 12:47 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?That's an irrelevant question. No man deserves a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Antiporn is usually motivated by misandryI’m anti porn The Venn Diagram of women who are anti-porn and women who read romance novels where men risk their lives to save women is almost a perfect circle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 10:13 PM |
| – | If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more.I was all in until he said "why should men vote for any woman or any womens movement or rights?" That's a deplorable bridge not to be crossed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 10:08 PM |
| – | If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more.Uhhhh this is also why boys who are raped by women get slapped with a sentence of paying child support if she gets pregnant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 10:07 PM |
| – | If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more.When she gets pregnant she decides for both of them if he pays child support. Rights become asymmetrical at this point. If she can abort, then he should be able to. Men are asking for symmetry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 10:06 PM |
| – | If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more.Candace Owens gets a gold star for trying to do that to black women. But man, her spat with Erica Cuck, that's some popcorn right there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 10:04 PM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?Helping autistic men doesn't change women's desire. And in your context, helping them means masking, which is actually worse for their mental health. Speaking as the cousin of an autistic man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 10:01 PM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?Age is just a number until you can prove it never happened. And you sound like someone who falsely accuses men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 10:00 PM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?That's a straw man argument. The fact that a man's moral character is irrelevant compared to his looks or charisma doesn't mean good looking or charismatic men can't have a good moral character. But generally speaking it's more prevalent in society that a man without good looks or charisma is presumed to have poor moral character. That's the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Why do some of you push this pathetic idea that there are legions of sad sack men who will date practically any woman?Tuesday is "men will fuck goats" day. Today is "men won't date just any woman" day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 09:09 PM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?The true reality check that a man's moral character is irrelevant compared to his looks or charisma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 09:01 PM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?Let's put this more simplistically: These guys are losing out to both decent men who do succeed with women, and even rapists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 09:00 PM |
| 1 | The "patriarchy" didn't teach men to hide their feelings. Life did.There was never not a time when men were not utilities. Our sexual dimorphism is due to men doing the dirtier and more dangerous work. That's where it all starts. Men who couldn't, didn't breed. That's almost every animal species out there except the ones where the male gets eaten. Which means this is how nature does it, not the patriarchy. And if patriarchy "reinforces it" that's still irrelevant. Take patriarchy away and nature still rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Are all men watching porn? Where are the decent men?Do you think the women don't read romance novels? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 08:50 PM |
| 1 | The "patriarchy" didn't teach men to hide their feelings. Life did.Well, considering you have no evidence that these norms come from the Patriarchy, I guess we're deadlocked here. Except patriarchy only started ~7000 years ago and the gender empathy gap for men has been around for far longer than the Patriarchy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 12:25 AM |
| 0 | Why are there so many career driven woman that still expect a very wealthy man to provide for their lifestyle with no sacrifice whatsoever?What, and do what you're doing? Nah thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 12:22 AM |
| 1 | The "patriarchy" didn't teach men to hide their feelings. Life did.But if your argument is that men would still be expected to suppress their emotions even after patriarchy ended, then all you’ve shown is that those norms can outlive the system. You haven’t shown they’re unrelated to it. Those norms came before Patriarchy and they will persist forever even without it. They come from nature. Weakness isn't tolerated in males of any species. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 12:18 AM |
| 5 | A guy can be attractive to women regardless of whether he’s actually a good person.If it's common knowledge then why all the hate for men resorting to plastic surgery to meet the aesthetic baseline for attraction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 10:20 PM |
| – | Women are larping loneliness.I sincerely thank you for swimming against the mainstream like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 10:19 PM |
| 0 | Why are there so many career driven woman that still expect a very wealthy man to provide for their lifestyle with no sacrifice whatsoever?When people leave their screens they get run over by the reality train and tiktok moments are on the list of passengers riding that train. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 10:17 PM |
| 1 | The "patriarchy" didn't teach men to hide their feelings. Life did.Patriarchy is a social system where men hold primary power and dominate in roles of political leadership, moral authority, social privilege, and control of property. If you end the system Patriarchy is a social system where men hold primary power and dominate in roles of political leadership, moral authority, social privilege, and control of property, men will still be forced to hide their feelings. You are essentially redefining patriarchy but you can't have patriarchy without men in control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 10:12 PM |
| – | Women are larping loneliness.I'm sorry that's happening to you, but it happens to us men, too, and we have to suck it up and keep trying. Rejection stings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 10:10 PM |
| 1 | The "patriarchy" didn't teach men to hide their feelings. Life did.If you get rid of Patriarchy the same social dynamics would persist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 06:44 PM |
| 1 | The "patriarchy" didn't teach men to hide their feelings. Life did.Men would have to do that even outside of a patriarchy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 06:42 PM |
| – | Chivalry is a submissive act.That is why I avoid traditional conservative culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 06:40 PM |
| – | Women are larping loneliness.It's a Gen-Y/Z thing. You're correct if you're talking about Gen-X or before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 06:39 PM |
| 2 | It is infantilizing to women to say that women who have drunk alcohol cannot consent to sex, while nothing is said about men who drank alcoholIt already is women too (rapists can claim visitation rights with the kids of their victims, they can fight for custody in court, they can sue anyone who helps the victim if they get an abortion after being raped, including friends, family, and even the driver) Please pardon but I've never heard of a case of a woman rape victim confirmed as a rape victim in court being made to pay child support for the baby. I agree with everything else and it's an injustice though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many career driven woman that still expect a very wealthy man to provide for their lifestyle with no sacrifice whatsoever?Well since the women on Tiktok confirm what OP is saying there's nothing for me to tell OP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 05:19 PM |
| -2 | Why are there so many career driven woman that still expect a very wealthy man to provide for their lifestyle with no sacrifice whatsoever?They don't have to be to be credible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 05:17 PM |
| – | Women are larping loneliness.You're the one who responded to me. You're my superfan! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 04:59 PM |
| – | Chivalry is a submissive act.Fewer men service women anymore. Whatcha gonna do when the gravy train goes all the way off the rails? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 04:59 PM |
| – | Women are larping loneliness.It's not a stalemate, it's an extraction economy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 04:58 PM |
| -2 | Why are there so many career driven woman that still expect a very wealthy man to provide for their lifestyle with no sacrifice whatsoever?Social media like tiktok takes what happens in real life and chronicles it on video. That's not an accusation, that is how reality works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 04:56 PM |
| – | Women are larping loneliness.You see women saying that about emotionally wounded men right here. It is literally what "I'm not your therapist" means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 04:53 PM |
| – | Women are larping loneliness.Because if we give women empathy they won't give us any in return. We've been coddling women's hurt feels for eons and they still punish male vulnerability. We still have to present a veil of unshakeable confidence and we still have to hide our anxiety and nervousness. Women who are wounded by previous men get rescued and they get men going on about how they're not like that previous guy and dudes will do penance to you for what other men did to you. What will the average woman do to a man who h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 12:24 PM |
| 1 | It is infantilizing to women to say that women who have drunk alcohol cannot consent to sex, while nothing is said about men who drank alcoholThat's actually scarier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 12:21 PM |
| 11 | It is infantilizing to women to say that women who have drunk alcohol cannot consent to sex, while nothing is said about men who drank alcoholThe scary part is that boys who are raped by women get punished with child support if she gets pregnant. Literally courts classify him as both victim and offender. Literally. https://lawpublications.barry.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1017&context=cflj https://www.usatoday.com/story/opinion/2014/09/03/child-support-statutory-rape-justice-law-men-column/15044791/ Male victims of statutory rape are thought of as culpable for child support because, as males, they are not seen as victims, but alwa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 12:17 PM |
| -4 | Why are there so many career driven woman that still expect a very wealthy man to provide for their lifestyle with no sacrifice whatsoever?Social media takes what happens in real life and chronicles it on video. People fail to understand this aspect of social media and mistakenly dismiss it as inorganic content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 12:05 PM |
| 4 | Men have to approach.Now even I couldn't think of a better way to increase the number of dead bedroom marriages by an order of magnitude. Well done. Slow clap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Chivalry is a submissive act.Huh. Women like men who serve them. They don't like serving men. Finally someone who's honest about this asymmetry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 11:12 AM |
| 11 | Are all men watching porn? Where are the decent men?"Where are all the decent men" lol I love it when women say that. They're in your friendzone. You know, where you put them on the shelf until you're ready to stop dating crazy exciting dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 03:48 AM |
| 7 | It is infantilizing to women to say that women who have drunk alcohol cannot consent to sex, while nothing is said about men who drank alcoholSome feminist downvoted me for telling the truth. These women on here really hate men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 03:46 AM |
| 3 | It is infantilizing to women to say that women who have drunk alcohol cannot consent to sex, while nothing is said about men who drank alcoholNo women said anything about it. She's a public figure and women ignored her rapebrag. They would not do that if it was a man. Oh and I'm done here since you downvoted me for telling the truth. That shows what kind of person feminists are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 03:45 AM |
| 11 | It is infantilizing to women to say that women who have drunk alcohol cannot consent to sex, while nothing is said about men who drank alcoholWhen it happens to men it's done openly without consequence. Thank Mary P Koss, the feminist who said women can't rape men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 03:43 AM |
| 10 | It is infantilizing to women to say that women who have drunk alcohol cannot consent to sex, while nothing is said about men who drank alcoholBoys who get raped by women get punished by courts with paying child support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 03:36 AM |
| 15 | It is infantilizing to women to say that women who have drunk alcohol cannot consent to sex, while nothing is said about men who drank alcoholOh that's why Amy Schumer bragged about fucking a blacked out drunk man and you women gave her a free pass about it. She went on a sex date with a guy she described as "completely plastered." Despite recognizing how drunk he was, she stayed. They eventually went to his bedroom and had sex, though Schumer later described the encounter as awkward and unpleasant because of how intoxicated he was. She got away with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill men trust their self-motivated inccorrect observations of women more than women's own explanations.The laughable part of your argument is you think there are women nowadays who aren't like that. Good comedy right there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Men have to approach.On the contrary, we've figured out why you are utterly shunned by men. You can't refute me, all you can do is hurl personal attacks when I hurt your feelings. Take your hurt feelings and inflict them on someone else. I'm done with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is serious topic that woke and bluepilled people uncomfortable and they are unwilling to take seriously, analyze, and discuss the issue.Wow, you really reek with insecurity, arrogance and ignorance. At least I am connected with reality. You are not. You'll not ever disrespect me. This conversation is over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 03:20 AM |
| 4 | Men have to approach.It’s like complaining that you have to go to the grocery store because you want food. You don't need to engage in a hostage negotiation to get into the grocery store. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill men trust their self-motivated inccorrect observations of women more than women's own explanations.Yes and those men who get into a relationship usually come to regret it because they have to walk on eggshells to keep her from losing her shit at him over something her boss did at work and her past cock carousel Chads have her on high alert waiting for her current man to do something world-shattering like draping dirty clothes over the edge of the laundry basket (first offense = meltdown), etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 08:02 PM |
| – | Misandrist feminists do not exist.One thing no feminists do is hold women accountable for the bad shit they do to men. If a woman abuses a man, he musta had it coming. Or when women say men are useless, they agree. Most feminists, though, stay silent about it. Like when this happened: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=91O3wDSy_HE and this happened https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r23u608aPkQ and this happened in 2024: https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=2319879675069860 feminists stayed dead silent. No accountability for these women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 01:47 AM |
| 4 | Red Pill men trust their self-motivated inccorrect observations of women more than women's own explanations.Well, I mean men of the world could try going off-planet, I suppose? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 06:07 PM |
| 3 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.Wait, why are women allowed to be salty and bitter about shit in the dating world but men aren't? Social activities died as a viable option in the 1990s. I used to do it myself back then. What happened culture-wide is the men who were there the longest started getting all the women's attention. That's literally when the apps made it out the gate. If social circles still worked there'd literally be no apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 06:06 PM |
| 7 | Red Pill men trust their self-motivated inccorrect observations of women more than women's own explanations.But the red pill likes to focus on shallow dysfunctional women. Shallow dysfunctional women are now the vast majority of the ecosystem. It does not help that RP coping tactics only make for more dysfunctional women, of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 04:04 PM |
| 1 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.A parasite does not know what it is doing. It feeds because that's it's biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 04:02 PM |
| 1 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.Do you know what "Men can do all of that" means? It includes not harassing women. The narrative that approaching a woman is harassment is why half of young men have never approached a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 04:01 PM |
| – | Past what age women are no longer attractive to you?Red Pill was the original "bring 'em young" doctrine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 04:00 PM |
| 1 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?Porn is the symptom, not the cause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 03:59 PM |
| 2 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?A man invests mountains of emotional labor proving his manliness to her before the relationship and then invests a ton of invisible unrecognized emotional labor during the relationship. Then very occasionally this erodes away their sex drive and women have a surprised Pikachu face. The joke writes itself. When the situation happens that you describe, it's because the man is exhausted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 03:59 PM |
| 2 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.They should choose bear. You know, like women do because they generalize men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 03:56 PM |
| 2 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?It's not low enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 03:55 PM |
| 0 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.What I am saying is that exploiting men for validation is unconscious behavior, not conscious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 05:03 AM |
| 1 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.Men can do all of that and still find it an exercise in suffering when trying to court a woman under any circumstance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 05:00 AM |
| 4 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.I'd be happy if the sexes separated entirely. But we get to take all the stuff that men built. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 04:17 AM |
| 1 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.Women fail the bare minimum of emotional safety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 04:11 AM |
| 1 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.If you go with that premise you can predict the actions of most women in the dating scene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 04:10 AM |
| 2 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.It's not a conspiracy. Emotional parasitism of men is biology, it's the inherent consequence of being the selective sex. Being the selecting sex means addiction to dopamine loops from playing games with men. Bad faith is not by intent, it's by hormonal drives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is serious topic that woke and bluepilled people uncomfortable and they are unwilling to take seriously, analyze, and discuss the issue.I'm not a redpiller. I'm purple. Redpill has women down cold. Their plan of action, however, is pathetic and only making things worse. I’ve never looked at any of those men who “aren’t playing” and every thought of them as winners. In fact, all I’ve ever seen from them is that they’re a bunch of massive losers Of course, you can't stand men who aren't getting exploited and scammed by women. You're jealous of them and your insecurity shines like the sun when you write obsequious crap like this. Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 04:03 AM |
| 4 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?It's not controversial, it's both extraordinarily obvious and overlooked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 03:59 AM |
| 5 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.That doesn't make a woman not suspect him. She also wants him to be confident specifically because it assuages her fears about him. A lot of men don't have that confidence because women are not emotionally safe to be around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 10:20 PM |
| 5 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.That was never enough. Women want men to feel guilty, to be in a constant state of penance. This fuels a quiet dopamine loop for women in which they can exert power over men. As in watching men perform the minefield dance for her approval. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 09:59 PM |
| 6 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.You're forgetting one basic thing. This isn't about women's safety. It's about emotional parasitism. This whole safety narrative about holding all men responsible generates a perpetual motion engine of dopamine loops fueled by men constantly auditioning for women's approval. It's a fucking rush for women as a collective. They'll do anything, say anything, to keep that engine running. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 09:57 PM |
| 4 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.I think men are better off lonely than paired with most women of today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 09:42 PM |
| 3 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.How safe a woman feels has nothing to do with your actions. You can be the safest son of a bitch in the world and she'll choose bear or go with the bad boy. Their love of bad boys and shitheads is 100% of their problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 09:41 PM |
| – | Past what age women are no longer attractive to you?They're going to try and salvage themselves by saying they'll date older women when in real life they're chasing 18 year olds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 09:39 PM |
| 0 | Hypothetical Women uprising?The reality is men are checking out. Stats show it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 09:38 PM |
| -1 | Hypothetical Women uprising?They claim this shit but it ain't gonna happen. What's happening is men are checking out, we have an exploding demographic crisis, and it's exploding our national debt. We'll end the way Rome did when they got hit with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is serious topic that woke and bluepilled people uncomfortable and they are unwilling to take seriously, analyze, and discuss the issue.okay I concede it happened to you. But I'm sure you had other men lined up fairly quickly. That's not the reality of unemployed men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 09:28 PM |
| -2 | Hypothetical Women uprising?Men are already quiet quitting more than they are engaging in violence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 09:25 PM |
| – | Past what age women are no longer attractive to you?Here to watch the red pillers virtue signal hahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:04 PM |
| 0 | Dating the ugly girl won't save you.The ugliest woman will have more sexual and romantic/relationship leverage than the hottest man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:39 PM |
| 18 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?Men have a sex drive 200x higher than it should be and it's giving women infinite leverage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Question for lesbian and bi women: Why do women seem to have stricter standards for men than for women?Per capita: for every lesbian there is a low risk of rejection when talking to a woman. For every man there is a sky high risk of rejection when talking to a woman. That's you not understanding per capita. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Man flu is real and proves that women don't have empathy for men.We men will trade you your illness empathy gap and you women take our death empathy gap. Deal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:36 PM |
| 7 | Question for lesbian and bi women: Why do women seem to have stricter standards for men than for women?Do you understand what per capita means? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is serious topic that woke and bluepilled people uncomfortable and they are unwilling to take seriously, analyze, and discuss the issue.Like I said, you can say that from your privileged spot above the water line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:34 PM |
| -1 | Hypothetical Women uprising?And men are more likely to quit society over being violent, too. I'm addressing your subtext - that unspoken but universally understood footnote that men are likely to have some violent uprising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Hypothetical Women uprising?The rest of those women were complicit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:26 PM |
| 0 | Hypergamy is serious topic that woke and bluepilled people uncomfortable and they are unwilling to take seriously, analyze, and discuss the issue.Yeah... try riding that high horse when you actually face having to chase men and getting rejected for the stupidest of reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:26 PM |
| – | Why should women care that men don't have partners?You do know that wars and civil unrest lead to death on a huge scale and laughably outsize domestic abuse in terms of threat level, right? That kills decency both private and public. Also reporting is up and general crime is ticking down. So men aren't becoming more harmful in public spaces, either, except when you listen to the media peddling perpetual panic. Korea and Japan also traditionally/historically had high rates of domestic violence. And now they have men checking out entirely. Those m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:25 PM |
| – | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?That's only true for you. You even said 99 percent of cold approaches end up in a failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:21 PM |
| 0 | Are women really don't like male attention only because of safety issues?Women have gone from whining to giving up, then mocking men who did the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:21 PM |
| 7 | Question for lesbian and bi women: Why do women seem to have stricter standards for men than for women?Women approach women far less often per capita than men approach women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Hypothetical Women uprising?I hate to break it to you but 46% of women voted for Trump. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 03:41 PM |
| 0 | Hypothetical Women uprising?Ummm https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20drop%20is%20largely%20driven,from%2061%25%20in%202019). This drop is largely driven by single men, who are now 11 percentage points less likely than in 2019 to say they are looking for a committed relationship and/or casual dates (50% in July 2022, down from 61% in 2019). During the same time frame, there has been no significant change in the share of single women who are loo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 03:39 PM |
| 7 | A date asks "what woman do you admire"And your attitude is so uneducated, arrogant, lacking in empathy, tone deaf, and passive aggressive that I am left wondering if any man would put up with that. Er, wrong, I don't wonder. I don't really care. Your hypocrisy in accusing me of "attacking" makes this conversation pointless. I don't deal with people who engage in trolling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 03:38 PM |
| – | Why should women care that men don't have partners?What subjugation are you talking about? Is this one of your paranoid, baseless feminist fantasies again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 03:36 PM |
| 14 | Question for lesbian and bi women: Why do women seem to have stricter standards for men than for women?Okay so women get turned down a hundred times a year? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 03:35 PM |
| 4 | A date asks "what woman do you admire"I can't imagine being a woman sitting online ranting about shit she has no experience or knowledge about being a parent. How embarrassing for that family. Off with ye and your personal attacks. We're done here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 03:34 PM |
| 12 | Question for lesbian and bi women: Why do women seem to have stricter standards for men than for women?Men complain because they get rejected a lot more than lesbians do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 03:24 PM |
| – | Why should women care that men don't have partners?It collapsed because Hypergamy caused men to stop giving a shit about the empire. With reduced marriage hopes they saw no reason to keep contributing. Military enrollment collapsed and men just left. The same is happening right now in Japan and Korea: men are not participating in the system anymore. Japan is especially bad with its Herbivore Men. American men are checking out, too, to a smaller but growing degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 03:15 PM |
| 4 | A date asks "what woman do you admire"I'm married and I have a teenage son in the middle of this shit show. Not that it matters, you only asked that to get a rise out of me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 03:09 PM |
| – | Why should women care that men don't have partners?What your argument leaves out is that women are not choosing in a vacuum. A man being partnered has never been a guarantee of decency. No but historically it has increased the amount of decency in society. Large numbers of chronically unpartnered men has led to wars and civil unrest. But more importantly it has caused men to check out of the system and collapse nations due to lack of support. The Roman Empire is a glaring example of that. Korea and Japan are also swirling in the drain because of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 02:26 PM |
| – | Why should women care that men don't have partners?Classic game of societally fatal misdirection. You've got your eye on the dumbass misogynists. There's not going to be a Republic of Gilead because civilization will collapse well before that. The real dystopia is the ongoing, slowly creeping mass disengagement from the system by men. This has happened before and it has destroyed civilizations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 02:24 PM |
| – | Why should women care that men don't have partners?No, society will collapse like the Roman Empire did when it faced these exact same problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 02:20 PM |
| – | Why should women care that men don't have partners?It's a stupid argument and it grossly distracts from the REAL problem of a large number of lonely men: societal collapse from lack of participation. Literally this has happened before. What we're dealing with right now is why the Roman Empire collapsed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 02:19 PM |
| 0 | A date asks "what woman do you admire"Nope, your points aren't worth responding to. The solution of dumping women who ask stupid questions like that trumps your points and makes them moot. Your point has been deleted at the substrate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 02:15 PM |
| 0 | Man flu is real and proves that women don't have empathy for men.Why can’t you guys ever raise awareness about male problems without using it to tear down women’s problems. Raising awareness about male problems is automatically seen by women as taking resources away from women's problems. Women made this a zero-sum affair, not men. There's this thing called the Empathy Gap. Look it up. <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 01:40 PM |
| -2 | Man flu is real and proves that women don't have empathy for men.Men take as much personal accountability as women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 01:35 PM |
| – | Ladies, how do you justify shaming men for watching porn, while at the same time labeling men who don't want their girlfriends to watch porn as insecure?Okay, so let 'em gamble. Won't be my problem lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Most people don’t want to be around someone with a victim complex,I got a lot of backlash from men for saying that. Why should people feel bad for a self-inflicted problem? Why? You get backlash because doing so eliminates 99% of women from the dating pool. Though as far as I'm concerned it's still a valid solution. A major demographic collapse will serve as a lesson for future generations as they re-settle cities left empty by the correction. Women like me have also said this and guys won’t listen. So why should I care about a self-inflicted problem? They're … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 01:33 PM |
| 4 | Hypergamy is serious topic that woke and bluepilled people uncomfortable and they are unwilling to take seriously, analyze, and discuss the issue.Thanks for being an outlier. That's a compliment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 01:30 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy is serious topic that woke and bluepilled people uncomfortable and they are unwilling to take seriously, analyze, and discuss the issue.BUT - if I were suddenly single - and I pray that never happens - I would do great out there. Without great looks, without vast wealth. Call me “woke” or “blue pilled” all you want, I don’t care. I’m likable, sensitive, funny, and I get along great with women, and your bitter RP ruminations only make me sad for you. The difference between both of you and me is I did okay (I didn't slay, I didn't wither off the vine either) when I was single. If I become single again I know how to flourish. Thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy is serious topic that woke and bluepilled people uncomfortable and they are unwilling to take seriously, analyze, and discuss the issue.You'd care if you failed the standard and couldn't find a man to date and millions and millions of other women fell into the same morass. They'd be in the streets protesting if they fell victim to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:39 PM |
| 7 | Hypergamy is serious topic that woke and bluepilled people uncomfortable and they are unwilling to take seriously, analyze, and discuss the issue.Joblessness and working low paying jobs makes men unattractive to women, not vice-versa. This a statistically established fact. Take a man with a shit job and put him out there, he's fucked. Give him a top flight banker job and he's instantly an eligible bachelor. This dynamic is so calcified it's an anomaly to see any other dating norm in play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:37 PM |
| 0 | A date asks "what woman do you admire"Or just move onto the next woman who doesn't ask such stupid questions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:35 PM |
| – | Ladies, how do you justify shaming men for watching porn, while at the same time labeling men who don't want their girlfriends to watch porn as insecure?I'm just gonna leave this with "let 'em fuck around and find out." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Are women really don't like male attention only because of safety issues?So why do women whine about "where did all the good guys go?" The whole de-centering men and quiet quitting movement is women confessing that they've scared off the respectful, boundaries-abiding men. It's a confession more than an accsation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?Most men don't try cold approaches. 99 percent of cold approaches end up in a failure Exactly. So why do you disagree that real life is worse than apps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Most people don’t want to be around someone with a victim complex,Or is it dont be a little bitch with a victim complex? Translation: Don't complain as women exploit and manipulate you into the ground SO YES. Time to de-center women if they all think like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:31 PM |
| 1 | How many of you are actively dating? Why or why not?When I was even a teenager I didn't want to date women that young. I dated women in my age group because I didn't have any other choice. I found young women to be appallingly vapid and driven to very bad life decisions and driven to choose bad men, and both factors got them in a whole fuckton of easily avoided trouble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 03:28 AM |
| – | Ladies, how do you justify shaming men for watching porn, while at the same time labeling men who don't want their girlfriends to watch porn as insecure?Yes it does. Try it some time. Be sure you're ready to leave PPD though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 03:15 AM |
| 1 | A date asks "what woman do you admire"I have my boundaries and I am well beyond pathetic attempts to shame me out of them. She's a low value woman who has nothing to offer. You're going to accept that. This conversation is over. Stay mad about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 03:11 AM |
| -6 | Are women really don't like male attention only because of safety issues?And yet women have scared off respectful, boundaries-abiding men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Misandrist feminists do not exist.he has similar social beliefs as old school conservatives. He has similar social beliefs as modern day conservatives. That makes him a conservative by any reasonable definition of the word. Basically you're engaging in the No True Scotsman fallacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 03:01 AM |
| 0 | A date asks "what woman do you admire"If that’s how you’re gonna react then whoever asked you the question Is a low value woman not worth her time of day. Her very presence is an insult to all rational men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 03:00 AM |
| 8 | A date asks "what woman do you admire"Instead of asking dumbass irrelevant questions how about asking things like what are his favorite hobbies or his political leanings? Why do women have to always play games? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 02:45 AM |
| 3 | A date asks "what woman do you admire"it would tell me she wears weights to keep herself seated because her skull is full of helium instead of brains. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 02:26 AM |
| 8 | A date asks "what woman do you admire"if you ask if he admires his own accomplishments wow that's an even BIGGER shit test. If he says no, he has low self-esteem. If he says yes, he's a narcissist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 02:25 AM |
| 6 | A date asks "what woman do you admire"your answer to this question is important in the sense that your answer doesn’t matter That's a shit test. She doesn't give a fuck what woman you answer with. The question is a waste of energy. The woman herself is a waste of energy. Best to answer and then end the date on the spot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 01:09 AM |
| 0 | A date asks "what woman do you admire"Thanks a lot. Now I weep that no woman asked me that question when I was single. I always had a list of women I admired at the front of my mind since I was a teenager. I would not at all expect her to ask why I admired them. I agree with other posters, in real ife this question would just be a shit test. It may not be for you but that's just you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?It was worse than a meat grinder back then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 01:01 AM |
| 0 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?You're an outlier. Apps would not be a thing if that was true for all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 01:00 AM |
| – | What do you think about young men feeling abandoned and demonised by left?Misandrists fueling the flight to the right is the symptom of a societal disease called "people can't think for themselves." People feel they have to be part of one gang or the other to feel badass because they have numbers on their side. The real solution is none of the above. Nonviolent nonparticipation, at scale, will provide women with the proper attitude adjustment. This lurch-to-the-right shit is morally bankrupt and it's galvanizing women. When men stop pursuing women at all, there's noth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 01:00 AM |
| – | What do you think about young men feeling abandoned and demonised by left?Absolute nonviolent nonparticipation. De-center women. Disengage from them ontologically like the Herbivore men of Japan did, but in an absolute scale. Women should one day wake up and find no man wants to pursue them at all. That'll fix everything permanently: either women will tone their misandry down or humanity goes extinct. Either ending is good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Misandrist feminists do not exist.He put the most Conservative Supreme Court in the last 50 years in place. He's a racist, sexist theocrat: a classic traditional conservative. fox News hated him because Conservatives routinely get into purism wars with each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Most people don’t want to be around someone with a victim complex,Don't be soft. Don't be vulnerable. Listen to misandry coming from you. You're trying hard to sound like Satan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Misandrist feminists do not exist.He's a traditionalist Conservative: a sexist, racist theocrat. inb4 the silly-as-fuck "deleting all women and brown people from military promotions isn't racist or sexist!" comeback. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:50 AM |
| – | What do you think about young men feeling abandoned and demonised by left?Women say that calling men useless is called "punching up." Yeah they're that fucking nuts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:48 AM |
| 3 | Misandrist feminists do not exist.Solanas is not a feminist. Going by that reasoning, Trump isn't a Conservative lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 06:15 AM |
| 5 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?And why would they? Dating is now a meat grinder for men. It's less about finding a connection and more like a hostage negotiation. There is no longer any semblance of emotional safety for a man when he approaches a woman, just a brutal obstacle course where he has to prove his unshakeable confidence against shamelessly open shit tests designed to make him slip up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 06:14 AM |
| 1 | "The patriarchy hurts everyone" can also be understood as "our biological realities are challenging".About 45% of full-time women in the power sector work in administration, human resources, logistics, and clerical roles. Looking forward to seeing them teach jack shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 06:12 AM |
| 5 | Most people don’t want to be around someone with a victim complex,Not a competition but it is a comparison and a harsh light shining on how gender roles benefit women and crush men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 06:10 AM |
| 3 | What has your actual lived experience/ challenges with dating been like?Women like the power trip that comes with dating dynamics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 06:09 AM |
| 0 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?You can’t discount the horrible effects that online dating has had for many guys. Real life dating was, is, and forever will be worse than online dating for guys. Take it from someone who navigated both worlds and was here long before online was even a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 04:27 AM |
| – | What do you think about young men feeling abandoned and demonised by left?I don't want that kind of shit either. News flash, some of us males can think for ourselves instead of falling for some orange Pennywise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Most people don’t want to be around someone with a victim complex,Men did it without question for thousands of years. Now we're not kicking and screaming, we're walking away. We're walking away because women broke the social contract. Women want freedom from gender roles for themselves and men to be bound to those same constraints. Fuck that. You want men to do all the work and get nothing in return. And this is what your culture has wrought: https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20dr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 04:24 AM |
| 1 | "The patriarchy hurts everyone" can also be understood as "our biological realities are challenging".From scratch? Hahahaha maybe in 50 years. Good luck with the winter in the meantime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 04:22 AM |
| 7 | Most Lesbian or Bisexual women do NOT have more game than straight men. It is simply easier as a girl to date.Who gives a fuck what you think is unmasculine. Go find some compliant weak willed loser who cares about your arbitrary gender role nonsense. That loser ain't me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 04:21 AM |
| – | What do you think about young men feeling abandoned and demonised by left?What entitlement? In case you haven't noticed men are quiet quitting women. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20drop%20is%20largely%20driven,from%2061%25%20in%202019). This drop is largely driven by single men, who are now 11 percentage points less likely than in 2019 to say they are looking for a committed relationship and/or casual dates (50% in July 2022, down from 61% in 2019). During the same time frame, there … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 04:19 AM |
| – | What do you think about young men feeling abandoned and demonised by left?Good thing dating is an individual choice and not a political problem. You as a man are motivated enough by sex to deal with the "emotional mine field". No I'm not. If I was single I'd have avoided you people like the plague in this day and age. You people hate males too much for me to want any of that. You'd have no relevance to me, much less leverage. I have no incentive to bother with your political issue especially since it comes so laden with aggression and disrespect. Pot, kettle, black. M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 04:18 AM |
| -2 | What do you think about young men feeling abandoned and demonised by left?The political problem is that many men conflate individual women’s disinterest in reassuring them with “the left” abandoning them. However it is framed, their proposed solution still seems to require women to care more, speak softer, more gently, and help restore their sense of social importance. Women are emotional mine fields, especially when it comes to dating. They're epically unsafe to approach or be around. Men think that laws will slap women into shape. I couldn't think of a tactic that f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 09:01 PM |
| -1 | What do you think about young men feeling abandoned and demonised by left?The left should stop demonizing men, but men should stop going full right wing in response. Otherwise the vicious cycle continues. Facts. The right wing is hurting us far more than the misandrists adjacent to the Left. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 08:59 PM |
| 33 | What do you think about young men feeling abandoned and demonised by left?You have liberal women on The View, ABC's most popular show, saying that men are useless. The crowd clapped, too. https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=2319879675069860 There was no protest about this. No cancellation. This is one of a ton of examples of things that are alienating men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 08:57 PM |
| 5 | Most Lesbian or Bisexual women do NOT have more game than straight men. It is simply easier as a girl to date.Women don't deserve masculinity, so they're not getting it anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Most Lesbian or Bisexual women do NOT have more game than straight men. It is simply easier as a girl to date.When two lesbians meet... who makes the first move? LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Most people don’t want to be around someone with a victim complex,Women don't want men to do what women do. Men are supposed to bear the world on their shoulders without complaint. Explain to me again why men should even want to participate in the system at all with all you women and your hypocrisy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 08:43 PM |
| 3 | The Emotional Baggage ProblemSomebody call the cops we know OP was dating her before she was 18. 4chan party vaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 04:58 PM |
| 1 | The Emotional Baggage ProblemNo you don't want to know lol. I know I don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 04:57 PM |
| 5 | Most people don’t want to be around someone with a victim complex,Your dating stats are godlike compared to neurodivergent men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 04:52 PM |
| 5 | Most people don’t want to be around someone with a victim complex,Male heterosexuality disproves OP's argument at the substrate level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 04:49 PM |
| 0 | Women find good men sexually appealingThat depends on who's observing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Women find good men sexually appealing"It's not natural" and all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 04:47 PM |
| 0 | "The patriarchy hurts everyone" can also be understood as "our biological realities are challenging".Doing less? If men walked off, your power goes out almost immediately and there goes your ability to post that crap. Oh wait, women can learn from scratch to run power plants and keep them from shutting down? Good luck with that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Women find good men sexually appealingThen why are women so turned off by the idea of looksmaxxing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Women find good men sexually appealingCriminals have fewer marriages but more partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 08:51 PM |
| 1 | A vast chunk of pro-women takes on Reddit are actually just benevolent sexism.Because the guy can easily solve the problem, but chooses not to. People who say this belong in prison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 08:41 PM |
| 3 | A vast chunk of pro-women takes on Reddit are actually just benevolent sexism.Then you support domestic violence against men and it's time that men rebelled and overthrew that system. It's not fair and it needs to be overthrown. People who hold this kind of opinion need to be thrown in prison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 08:38 PM |
| 2 | A vast chunk of pro-women takes on Reddit are actually just benevolent sexism.Men would never allow a fully televised male Sharon Osbourne incident in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 08:26 PM |
| 1 | A vast chunk of pro-women takes on Reddit are actually just benevolent sexism.Nobody ever joked on mainstream TV about women being mutilated. Ever. That's a level men have never reached in front of an audience of millions. If I'm wrong please show it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 08:25 PM |
| 9 | A vast chunk of pro-women takes on Reddit are actually just benevolent sexism.This is why when women beat up their husbands, people don't disbelieve the husband... they laugh at him. Or worse: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=91O3wDSy_HE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 08:43 PM |
| 3 | No one told men marriage was gonna be a nonstop fuck fest.Again there's no such thing as men chasing literal non-stop sex. You're just making that up to cover for your dislike of any kind of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 12:25 PM |
| – | If women say they want emotional honesty and vulnerability in men, why do so many still lose attraction the moment a man actually stops pretending to be emotionally invincible ?The core issue is far too many women do not even understand what it's like to be emotionally safe for men. Or, they do understand it and could never imagine a man would dare bring the subject up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 12:19 PM |
| 4 | If women say they want emotional honesty and vulnerability in men, why do so many still lose attraction the moment a man actually stops pretending to be emotionally invincible ?That was a major green flag for me but would have absolutely turned off a woman like my mother. There's lot of women like your mother, and most are not as up front as her. They do a lot of virtue signaling about wanting a man who is emotionally open, then when he is? Ewwww. But the problem starts WELL before that. It starts when the man has to initiate first approach and absolutely has to present confidence, which in turn signals emotional stability, resilience, and inner strength and masks any … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 11:16 AM |
| 3 | No one told men marriage was gonna be a nonstop fuck fest.You torture logic like Abu Ghraib. You're using this "nonstop fuck fest" straw man as a pretext for your dislike of sex in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 11:11 AM |
| 2 | No one told men marriage was gonna be a nonstop fuck fest.Women don't put any effort into men! They sit there like Caesar, thumbs up and thumbs down on the idiot simp's performance. Far too many women are childfree so please the two are not even remotely the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 11:05 AM |
| 4 | No one told men marriage was gonna be a nonstop fuck fest.You mean he slows down from the FTL burnout level of lekking and competing he does before marriage? Frankly women aren't remotely worth the Herculean effort men put into them from jump. They never were. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 08:11 PM |
| 5 | No one told men marriage was gonna be a nonstop fuck fest.Wow, you must really hate sex as a concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 04:53 PM |
| 5 | No one told men marriage was gonna be a nonstop fuck fest.OP wants men to have dead bedroom marriages lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 04:50 PM |
| 3 | There's a difference between baseline attraction and overwhelming lust.Nobody said it's about nonstop fucking. But you think dead bedrooms are okay. And you expect men to accept that? That's what a sociopath would expect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 04:48 PM |
| 16 | Men will never go back to what they used to be for good reasonAnd that's a bad thing because...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 05:23 AM |
| 2 | I don’t understand the big deal about going DutchWell, you're gonna hear it. Whatcha gonna do, put me in jail? It's manipulative and utterly dishonest. Whining about culture and female sexuality isn't going to handwave that away. You could be up front and honest instead of playing this deceptive game. That would be the adult way to handle things. So there, you got made to hear it again. Disabling inbox replies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 05:17 AM |
| 2 | There's a difference between baseline attraction and overwhelming lust.Yes we know you prefer dead bedroom marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 05:15 AM |
| 6 | There's a difference between baseline attraction and overwhelming lust.Because you guys want women thinking with their genitals. Women don’t get that way as much as men do. And that's why the most common denominator for dead bedrooms is women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Women who call themselves "baddie" are just as cringe, if not more cringe, than men who call themselves "alpha".No man you gotta learn to believe what the Feminist State tells you. Women who do cringey shit like calling themselves girlboss or baddie or Kween are "punching up". No, really, lol, they actually believe that's a legitimate thing. They're really that stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 12:52 PM |
| 5 | I don’t understand the big deal about going DutchWhat a childish game of manipulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 12:45 PM |
| 1 | I don’t understand the big deal about going DutchJust ditch the first fucker. Tell the second one it's not about assuming they're broke. They get one shot to turn their attitude around. I consider that a fair deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Women are so attracted to confidence because they're looking for someone to compensate for their own lack of confidence. When you point this out, women will change the meaning of confidence to, "Someone who's not insecure, something we should all want!"Most men aren't even going to notice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Women are so attracted to confidence because they're looking for someone to compensate for their own lack of confidence. When you point this out, women will change the meaning of confidence to, "Someone who's not insecure, something we should all want!"And when a woman gets a confident man, she whines that he's not emotionally open. Surprise, surprise. A man who hides his insecurities and anxieties might not want to be vulnerable later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 02:14 PM |
| – | "Not all men" is barely even true and women have good reason to be wary of dating menWomen who feel this way should avoid all men, period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 02:13 PM |
| – | Most of the time men bring out serious complaints only to shut women up, which proves that they don't actually careWe put men in jail all the time for crimes against women. What we do not do is https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=91O3wDSy_HE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r23u608aPkQ https://abcnews.go.com/Primetime/story?id=2741047&page=1 (No I don't expect you to look at the evidence. Everyone else will, though, and see why your argument is BS) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 02:09 PM |
| – | Most of the time men bring out serious complaints only to shut women up, which proves that they don't actually careCry me a river. Yes we know you hate men and you think misandry is okay. Feminists have permanently ended the concept of personal accountability for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:22 AM |
| – | Most of the time men bring out serious complaints only to shut women up, which proves that they don't actually careThis is a bullshit misandrist lie. Men have held forums about battered men and been stormed by feminist protesters. Men talk about these issues in their own forums all the time without women around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:19 AM |
| -5 | Why do you think some women feel entitled to fight men without retaliation?The truth is terrifying, huh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:17 AM |
| 1 | How good would women be at dating if they had to be men for a year and date women?You can't get worse than telling someone to kill themselves. Hell women rain damnation on male virgins, men who aren't confident, jobless men, do I need to go on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Why do you think some women feel entitled to fight men without retaliation?I'm black and I know for a fact no one feels safe coming up to me and saying the n-word. Should I hit them ? No , Should they feel the immediate gut fear of saying the n word to my face because it Could be the last thing they see before getting knocked out? Absolutely. If they did get hit I'd tell the officer I saw nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 04:10 AM |
| 3 | Why do you think some women feel entitled to fight men without retaliation?This is the feminist answer the world has been waiting for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 04:01 AM |
| -1 | Why do you think some women feel entitled to fight men without retaliation?You haven't seen this? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=91O3wDSy_HE or this? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r23u608aPkQ or this? https://abcnews.com/Primetime/story?id=2741047&page=1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong for thinking the chase is stupid?Some of the women here are brutally honest. I'd name names but the sub has rules against witch hunting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 03:56 AM |
| 1 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsI'm not miffed at you if you're not like that. It's the ones who get wrecked by Chad and then take their bitterness out on the next poor bastard that make me fear for my teenaged son who's out in these treacherous waters now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 03:54 AM |
| – | If women treat sex as a reward, men should treat his money as a reward.And now female influencers are starting to monetize that shit. The grift knows no gender! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 03:52 AM |
| 1 | How good would women be at dating if they had to be men for a year and date women?Women tell short men to kill themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 03:49 AM |
| 1 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.No analogy is perfect. That's a silly comeback. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Am I wrong for thinking the chase is stupid?Men having to initiate things to women commonly not being reciprocal is because women are addicted to validation. It's part of the high-RPM dopamine loop farming that women do when they're in the dating market. It's all about the power trip. They get off on that shit, big time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 03:44 PM |
| 4 | How good would women be at dating if they had to be men for a year and date women?Women are that way to each other lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 03:34 PM |
| 1 | How good would women be at dating if they had to be men for a year and date women???? why would any woman do that lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 03:33 PM |
| 4 | How good would women be at dating if they had to be men for a year and date women?ROTFLMAO women would fold like Origami. The therapy business would explode five-fold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?She could have negotiated. And you're focusing on one example. Apparently you concede all the others? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 03:32 PM |
| 6 | Women feels more entitled than most men.Women are free from gender roles but they want to make sure men adhere to them. Biology wins every damned time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?Not sure what relevance that has on her warmongering ways. Plus she could have sent women to war, too. But like with all other female leaders except Amazons she only ever sent males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 02:30 PM |
| -5 | Am I wrong for thinking the chase is stupid?You must chase women. Otherwise you aren't feeding their bottomless addiction to dopamine loops and power tripping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 11:24 AM |
| -1 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsWell said. Now tell us what women go through lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 03:46 AM |
| 3 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsAnd women only ever take out their fears and baggage on decent men. Then they wonder where all the good men went. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?Biased historians, you mean? It's not patriarchal systems that made those women launch wars. It's called power dynamics. Patriarchy theory is just one big narrative to excuse women from accountability, and nothing more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 01:56 AM |
| 1 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.Gonna need more than your feels as proof of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 01:55 AM |
| 1 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.You said: Body positivity and fat acceptance is about giving fat women confidence. It hasn't convinced men to find fatness hot. That's just a fetish thats been around for awhile. The sheer number of women who get married while fat disproves that point. None of your gyrations about most Americans being fat or how they got fat are relevant to that. Also I find it hypocritical that this "Body positivity" bullshit isn't extended to short men. Women want to rip a man's ass off for daring to try to in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 01:54 AM |
| 0 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.Which still destroys your argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 05:27 PM |
| 1 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.That doesn't nullify my point or help your argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?Yeah that fact is deeply misunderstood. Female leaders in patriarchal societies' entire councils were still made up of men. Wow, way to exempt women from accountability for their own actions. As for Margaret Thatcher, she was a handline conservative capitalist and anti-feminist. She was more like a man in political philosophy than a woman. More excuses. And stereotyping women as "feminine" instead of human. Women are not synonymous with egalitarian or feminism. Also, Amazons were warlike and mat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 05:25 PM |
| 1 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.Pierce Brosnan's wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionI'll take prehistoric things that never happened for $2500, Alex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 05:19 PM |
| 0 | Social media represents how people feel insindeMAGA can actually be a great example of the pitfalls of ascribing social media opinions to real life depending on what "real life" looks like for any given person and what social media platform you're talking about. The bigger pitfall was dismissing them as social media outliers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionWho said that was the case? You used this as the reason why women don't show some initiative and make a dinner reservation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 01:48 PM |
| 0 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?https://ifstudies.org/blog/even-in-2024-women-are-still-looking-for-a-protective-man Women want tall men because they think he can protect her. Women want confident men because it signals that he can protect her. If there's a mountain lion or a bear, she's putting him in front of her 9 out of 10. Been that way since we first went bipedal, probably even before that. Literally that is why we have sexual dimorphism. Men are bigger than women because women selected out men who couldn't protect women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 01:47 PM |
| 0 | Social media represents how people feel insindeThat's one example. You don't want me to list the vast amount of movies where whitewashing happened. Ghost in the Shell for starters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?Hmmmm. Really? Margaret Thatcher. Golda Meir (Israel): Indira Gandhi (India) Queen Elizabeth I (England) Catherine the Great (Russia) Queen Isabella I (Castile/Spain) Empress Maria Theresa (Austria) Yaa Asantewaa (Asante Empire / Ghana) All these women leaders sent men to die in wars. And as a matter of fact https://ungated.research.bowdoin.edu/article/2955 Female leadership in European states historically increased the likelihood of war participation by 39 percentage points. You were saying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 01:39 PM |
| 0 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.ugly short men who marry beautiful women. Not nearly as often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?Meanwhile women have been objectifying men unopposed by society for eons. Starting with using men as human meat shields. Men have utterly lost value to women now that we've stopped doing this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 05:14 AM |
| 0 | Social media represents how people feel insindeCounter example: MAGA started as a pestilence on social media. Look where they are now. Also see: manbabies crying on social media about diversity in movies. Now diversity is being destroyed in movies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 05:11 AM |
| 2 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.Go try living in an all-female matriarchy. There is one out there. The Musuo. They lived in mud huts until foreigners came along to help them up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 05:05 AM |
| 7 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.This shit again? Fat women get married all the time. Try throwing a rock in any direction and you'll hit one that was fat BEFORE she got married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 05:00 AM |
| 3 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.LOL that used to be true, but not anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 04:57 AM |
| 0 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionYou wanted this? You're going to join the genetic dead ends out there? How are you going to procreate if a man doesn't approach you?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 04:45 AM |
| – | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionYeah and you'll join them in leaving the gene pool. Then you'll be replaced by better women. All's well! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionRegardless, few men pay for both his and her date anymore. So women can take their ball and go home. And maybe age out of the gene pool too, so their defective personalities don't continue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Most women aren’t looking for a provider they’re looking for a teammateActually talking to a woman and becoming her friend because you genuinely want to be her friend then feelings eventually form is fine What does that even matter? All she's going to do is automatically accuse him of befriending her under ulterior motives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionThat would be 99% of all mothers in the history of time Proof that life on Earth is a failed experiment. You can kick and scream as much as you want but you will never have the ability to force women to do this across the board. And that's why men are just writing off women as a lost cause. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20drop%20is%20largely%20driven,from%2061%25%20in%202019). This drop is largely driven by sing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionI have a teenaged son in the middle of this shit. He's my dog in the fight. I am seeing from his experience that losing out in dating isn't nearly as bad as winning. All women do nowadays is treat males like adversaries. All women under 40 do that. And yet they have the cheek to talk like you do and say shit like "a person who considers their date an adversary should not be dating." Physicians, heal thyselves! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 04:38 AM |
| 0 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionNot me anymore. Men are starting to wake up to the fact that being rejected by a woman is less soul-crushing than not being rejected by a woman. Y'all's brand is falling and fast. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20drop%20is%20largely%20driven,from%2061%25%20in%202019). This drop is largely driven by single men, who are now 11 percentage points less likely than in 2019 to say they are looking for a committed relati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionYou are oddly unable to think outside the box. I have a teenaged son who is in this shitstorm. I'm heavily invested in his success in a world where romantic success for a male is soul death. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionIf they're not approaching women they're not getting dates. So they're not paying. And few men pay for both his and her date anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionIf that's the only men she runs into then the common denominator is her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 04:32 AM |
| 3 | Most women aren’t looking for a provider they’re looking for a teammateNo? If he doesn't tell me until like a months after we are supposedly friends. If he told me his feelings lutright then he isn't being manipulative Nope, he's not being manipulative, he's just being rejected outright for moving too fast. He loses either way. That's why men are fleeing to the apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Most women aren’t looking for a provider they’re looking for a teammateIf you're trying to be my friend to get sex or a relationship, that's called having an ulterior motive And if he tells you outright that he's interested then he's moving too fast. He loses either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 11:21 AM |
| 3 | Most women aren’t looking for a provider they’re looking for a teammateAnd this, folks, is why the idea of lovers being friends first is such bullshit, and why online dating/apps will never, ever die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 11:20 AM |
| 8 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionAgain, a person who considers their date an adversary should not be dating. Again, your argument is: except when a woman does it. What are your dating goals and motivations? When I was single? I demanded symmetry. What I put into it, she put into it. I was willing to sit out dating entirely if I didn't get that. By the way: Men are expected to show some initiative as a form of demonstrating intention. Someone who's just trying to get laid will take the path of least resistance. The issue isn't a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 11:17 AM |
| 7 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionSo women treat men like adversaries and expect men to do all the effort but then want to avoid men who hold women to the same standards. Women put nothing into courtship at all anymore but expect men to give them the moon. What trash. No wonder half the single men out there don't even want women anymore. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20drop%20is%20largely%20driven,from%2061%25%20in%202019). This drop is largely … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates ItProblem is, women will gaslight you about this and if they admit it they'll blame their actions on The Patriarchytm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates ItDo I need to hit your bad argument with the list of non-feminine women who are married? I mean let's start with Grace Jones way the fuck back in time. Or Brigitte Nielsen. Non-feminine women, fat women, you can't spit in any direction outside and not hit one who has a man at her side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates ItNowadays in the USA if she's not a SAHM, you ain't paying her alimony. Canada is another horrifying can of worms though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 08:42 AM |
| -1 | Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates ItAnd I don't really believe it will fail for the record. This exact problem happened to Rome. It's not here anymore. Nor is any other civilization where reproduction tanked. South Korea and Japan are disappearing off the map because of this. China is also suffering because of it. So yes women failing to procreate and men failing to work has happened before and it has destroyed civilizations. Though I'll give it to you that coercion and patriarchy won't reverse America's decline and collapse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:58 AM |
| – | The current Dating environment is made/controlled by woman and they absolutely hate it and wont take agency.Men want women more than women want men? LOL 50% of single men don't even want women anymore. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20drop%20is%20largely%20driven,from%2061%25%20in%202019). This drop is largely driven by single men, who are now 11 percentage points less likely than in 2019 to say they are looking for a committed relationship and/or casual dates (50% in July 2022, down from 61% in 2019). During the same … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionIt doesn't have to end because plenty of men are more than willing to do what you don't. Not anymore. 45% of men don't approach women now much less pay for meals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:36 AM |
| – | Women don't really view men as human beings in romantic contextsAbout time someone got brave and called the truth the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:06 AM |
| 0 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionPersonally, I think women who want kids should demonstrate their planning and initiative skills early on. Those are big parenting skills. But your ideology is all about just exploiting and extracting from men. Just thought I'd call you out on that. See ya! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:06 AM |
| -4 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionAnd that makes you women angry enough to downvote my post because you feel entitled to exploit men and hate being called out on it. And yes you do, so there's no further point in engaging you here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:04 AM |
| 6 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionI didn't miss it. I dismissed it because if she can't put out the effort she doesn't deserve the effort. I don't care if she "has to filter out men who do not have our best intentions in mind." Who says she has his best interests in mind? Clearly not women who think like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:03 AM |
| 4 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionThat's you. Apparently you're outnumbered by women who can't or won't. This outdated shit has to end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:01 AM |
| 3 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionTo clear this up as a random blonde Russian influencer queen said (yes, all great wisdom is said by blonde Russian doll-like women in fabulous bathrobes). Men should blacklist women like this from any kind of romantic interaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 04:29 AM |
| 0 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionWomen who demand that men always do the initiating and planning should never be considered for procreation. These women are low-effort trash. The same rules that apply to men should be applied to women. Y'all will call that hell, oppression, etc etc lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 04:28 AM |
| 4 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionThen why don't you women show some initiative and make a dinner reservation? Oh wait, it's oppression then, isn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Misandry exists.I'm talking about in the United States. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 04:17 AM |
| 3 | Misandry exists.Yeah, not me. I voted for Clinton and Harris. The Democrats didn't fuck men, the capitalists did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Misandry exists.Fuck that, I want to stay here and see the people in charge ousted from power. Many of us stayed and killed the draft through resistance. Come get your resistance manual from the draft resisters if you want to fight back against being put in prison or dying from miscarriages. We got a few dog-eared copies still available! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 04:12 AM |
| 3 | Misandry exists.Hillary Clinton said she'd sign an existing bill to make the draft gender neutral. Men's Rights Activists went for Trump. That was the day I quit being a MRA and became an egalitarian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Misandry exists.We're a hundred years past women not being able to vote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Misandry exists.Its like racism against white people. It exiats but its not systemic. And it's mainly never violent and is usually POC just occasionally excluding white people or bashing white people online LOL racism against white people is NOTHING compared to sexism against men. Black people don't go around saying "kill all whitey" but "Kill all men" is a thing. Being unprovoked beaten by someone as a white person is nowhere near seen as funny as a woman castrating her husband without provocation. We African … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Misandry exists.You can move out of a Red State to avoid abortion laws. You can't go anywhere as a man and avoid a draft if Trump activates one. Though we whupped the Draft's ass once already in the Vietnam war. This time we've got better tactics. A Draft won't last long. There's not enough jails for the sheer number of men who will resist. Red States will learn this about their women, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:17 PM |
| 5 | Misandry exists.The hate for black women across the board is some psycho level Fallout ghoulish shit. The crap thrown at Kamala Harris by black men was breath-takingly awful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itYou should date more men then, they’ll tell you all about how great they think Tate is. Or at least try and defend him. Like him or don’t, a lot of men nowadays would call him their model. What a stupid comeback. Did you not just read that I hate Andrew Tate and men who follow his idiot advice? Maybe turn off the I-hate-men speakers blaring into your brain and read for comprehension next time. And those characters might be buff physically but emotionally sensitive, some “he’s not as bad as he lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:10 PM |
| 0 | If you need to build or raise her interest she doesn’t like youIf they do, then they'll be called "low effort males." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boysDoes it matter? Women cheered the unprovoked castration of a man on CBS's The Talk. Fucking cheered. Zero protest by feminist groups. Just 2 years ago The View had a panel of women say that men are useless. Zero protest by feminist groups. OP is right, feminists are misandrists and they never hold each other accountable for misandry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itLOL ROTFLMAO Tate is an omega misogytwerp loser I think we can both agree on that. But SEALs and billionaire bikers have the romance market backed into a tight corner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Men need to let go of the need to constantly defend women whenever they are criticised.Are you asking if we hold each other accountable? Well then visit any prison and ask the guys doing time there if we men do. Or ask the ones paying huge judgments to women for sexual harassment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 05:56 AM |
| 2 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceHow do you know those 45% of men have never been approached? Just says they have never done the approaching Well, show me the stats that show they do get approached and I'll change my view lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itPorn affects men's views toward women. As does romance books and women's views toward men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itohhhhhhhhhhhh so that's why romance books are dominated by "Saved by the SEAL" style stories | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 09:34 AM |
| 6 | Men need to let go of the need to constantly defend women whenever they are criticised.Men will absolve women of any and all sense of accountability in order to grovel for her approval. What men need is a much lower libido, which will raise their standards and rebalance their tolerance for bad behavior by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 09:28 AM |
| 2 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceBecause 45% of young men have never approached women and please show me how relationship formation is still as robust as it ever was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 09:27 AM |
| 1 | If women treat sex as a reward, men should treat his money as a reward.If only that were also true of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 05:34 AM |
| 0 | If women treat sex as a reward, men should treat his money as a reward.Yeah, he does a lot for you. We get that. Men moving mountains for women isn't exactly uncommon the way Female Dating Strategy femcels like the world to believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur.So women can retaliate in kind against men but suddenly you invoke all this shit when men retaliate in kind. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 12:01 AM |
| 5 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceWomen are more free from gender roles than men. That's feminism fucking men over, not the patriarchy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 12:00 AM |
| 9 | Men Care Way Too Much About Female ValidationWomen never, ever desire men. They desire the validation and social standing men can give them. Look at every hetero woman that ever quiet quit men - they found both somewhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 08:30 AM |
| 2 | Men Care Way Too Much About Female ValidationHomey be spittin' S-tier facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 08:27 AM |
| 8 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceSo yeah pipe down with the suck it up buttercup and shoot your shot. Women aren’t immune to rejection https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sg-wtsocxHY You're an anomaly, not the rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 08:24 AM |
| 8 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceThere's an old African saying that goes: A child that's not welcome by its village will burn it down to feel its warmth. Ancient Africans were wise enough to understand that. What went wrong with us? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 08:16 AM |
| 0 | Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur.LOL but you'll sacrifice yourself for a bunch of low value loser women because desperation is king, eh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur.Women quiet quit men. Why suddenly is it "tit for tat" when men do the same in kind? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 05:26 AM |
| 3 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceI want to make things equal. If that's harder for the women around me then they need to re-examine how they've treated men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 05:25 AM |
| 10 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceMaybe take into account the fact that you as a woman are being freed from arbitrary gender roles but men are being locked down into arbitrary gender roles. One of those gender roles is him always having to initiate and put up with the risk of rejection. So you don’t know if they are shy or just not interested. So what are you supposed to do? Suck it up buttercup and shoot your shot. You know, like men are required to do. I know, I know, it's too heavy to carry. Best to outsource the burden to th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 04:12 AM |
| 15 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceDon't get tangled up in convincing people that boys are victims of mothers or bullies. You think people don't know? The problem is people don't care. Any trauma a woman has she gets to offload it on a man. Any trauma a man has he has to get over it himself with no support. That includes bullying and parental abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 12:49 AM |
| 2 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceWait'll you discover that girls bully each other, too. Cyberbullying especially. Attaching patriarchy to every act of dominance is lazy as hell. Maybe try "power dynamics" instead. It's way more of a catchall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 09:23 PM |
| 7 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceBut it’s also true that hard times are necessary to develop resilience , fortitude and mental muscles that know how to stand firm to pressure. If only women had to live by this same cruel standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 04:12 PM |
| 11 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceThe tribe is better off that we have their offsprings than yours. Then they wonder what went wrong when the bullied guy retaliates and things escalate into warfare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 04:10 PM |
| 13 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceThis is a profoundly erroneous take by women, fueled by the total absence of any sense of that empathy women brag so hard about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 04:07 PM |
| 0 | Concept of Manosphere is intellectually dishonest and manipulativeYes it is a feminist thing, because it is an aspect of feminism, not all of feminism but an aspect. The woman said it right there in the link. My attempt has succeeded. You just didn't like being debunked. I certainly don't owe and won't waste upon you anything else now that your point has been demolished. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur.Yes and I say men should react in kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 04:01 PM |
| -5 | Concept of Manosphere is intellectually dishonest and manipulativeYOUR source confirmed that the term was coined by a man. Incel now has a negative connotation along with manosphere. Also downvoting is against the rules and I know you'll deny doing it so I'm outta here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 03:59 PM |
| -6 | Concept of Manosphere is intellectually dishonest and manipulativeSo what? Incel was coined by a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Concept of Manosphere is intellectually dishonest and manipulativeFemosphere = the bunch of women who yell killallmen, men are trash, wipe out 90% of men, TwoXChromosomes, Female Dating Strategy, etc. Also, FDS and feminists have surprising overlaps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 01:42 PM |
| -1 | Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur.If men suddenly just mass quit dating, the idea of male disposability and the empathy gap will end immediately. Women will either wake up and reform the system or humanity goes extinct. Either way justice is served without a single chain of oppression, shot fired or punch thrown. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 06:30 AM |
| 6 | Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur.I hope it's nonviolent nonparticipation (Herbivore Men, Tang Ping, etc.) and not mass violence or MAGA'ism. Right wing patriarchy is a crude nuke. Men just walking off the gender plantation is like the sun abruptly turning off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 06:27 AM |
| 3 | Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur.I wish male radicalization would mean mass nonviolent nonparticipation at scale. This is what is happening in China (Tang Ping) and Japan (Herbivore Men) as we speak. This Tate/Incel Revolution take on radicalization is pure horseshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 06:25 AM |
| 1 | You cannot convince me that most men deserve women's submissionWomen's submission is vastly overrated. That's why Red Pill is utter trash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Men can only access emotional intimacy through a romantic partnerWell I wish them luck until those AI run out of randomized reply combos and eventually expose their scripted nature. "I choose AI" is a lot more rational and safe than "I choose bear" lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameWas an elementary teacher? Did he leave or retire? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 06:20 AM |
| – | Leaving a woman is not trying to control a womanOkay, you believe it's coercive. Now marshal an army and guns and force men to stop. Take away their basic human rights. I dare you to try. Congratulations, now you've become pro-enslavement of men and keeping them from being able to establish boundaries or leave their relationships! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameGood ole toxic masculinity negatively affects men yet again. 1) Have women gatekeep men out of the workplace 2) ??? 3) Blame it on the men! Sad part is, the feminist state actually gaslights men into believing this nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameGood point. They were promised freedom from disposability and emotional stoicism. They bought into it and got scammed. So I should have said we are flying supersonically backwards from the promise of egalitarian transhumanism. Nobody's even promising that anymore. The pathologization of men as a group has shifted into warp speed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Men can only access emotional intimacy through a romantic partnerOh yeah, women will turn to AI, too. Problem is AI isn't smooth and it isn't chaotic enough to keep women happy. It's too logical. That ain't gonna fly for long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameEgalitarian transhumanism seems like the current trajectory. Thank goodness I wasn't drinking, I almost choked on my own saliva reading that. We are flying supersonically backwards from egalitarian transhumanism when it comes to freeing men from arbitrary gender roles. The empathy gap is worse than ever, for instance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:49 AM |
| 0 | Leaving a woman is not trying to control a womanTill death do you part isn't a thing? Male feminists know so much that just ain't true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameIt's systemic in nature and well documented. https://compass.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/soc4.13145 The underrepresentation of men in non-traditional fields of work is often attributed to essentialist gendered beliefs that associate such roles exclusively with women. This phenomenon is not limited to any specific country but is observed worldwide. Moreover, male teacher drop-out rates remain a consistent issue. This article examines the detrimental impact of gendered expectations of masc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:46 AM |
| 3 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gamePlenty of evidence of bias against male teachers. https://compass.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/soc4.13145 The underrepresentation of men in non-traditional fields of work is often attributed to essentialist gendered beliefs that associate such roles exclusively with women. This phenomenon is not limited to any specific country but is observed worldwide. Moreover, male teacher drop-out rates remain a consistent issue. This article examines the detrimental impact of gendered expectations of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Leaving a woman is not trying to control a womanIt's also justified. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Your “archetype” aka what category you fall into upon first glance is the most important thing for attraction, for both genders.A body and face like that attracts the plurality of women, not the majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameI guess there are other possible systems of gender roles besides the traditional human one. All gender role systems treat men as tools that get discarded if they break. The only ones that don't are imaginary as of yet, transhumanism being the primary example. Egalitarianism is another unrealized system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 09:30 AM |
| 4 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameThe traditional system of gender roles (the patriarchy) oppresses both men and women. Getting rid of the patriarchy won't get rid of gender roles. Gender roles exist throughout nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 08:43 AM |
| -1 | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameThey don't have to be overtly fired. Males get run out of teaching jobs just for being male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 08:42 AM |
| – | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gameIt's called the empathy gap. Males are used as tools, not seen as human beings. If that tool breaks, they just throw it away and replace it. That's a common thing throughout nature. This is why we need trans-naturism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 08:40 AM |
| -3 | Leaving a woman is not trying to control a womanAnd not even give them a chance to change? That's stupid. Hardly anyone would ever pair-bond. OP is dead right, the people calling him out haven't ever touched grass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 08:38 AM |
| 3 | Leaving a woman is not trying to control a womanImagine the mind of a woman, if you will: "Stop cheating on me or I'll leave!" "You're coercing me!" Welcome to... the Twilight Zone! Lady, your argument is out of this world mad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Leaving a woman is not trying to control a womanThen he would be the one trapped in a relationship he doesn't want. Now we see what kind of women y'all are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 08:20 AM |
| 3 | Leaving a woman is not trying to control a womanWarning a woman before you just suddenly walk out of her life makes him "one of those." This should make men rethink the entire value of relationships as a concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Leaving a woman is not trying to control a womanThe only other option is to leave without warning. Won't millions of women be glad to see that happen to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 03:17 AM |
| -4 | Leaving a woman is not trying to control a womanUltimatums are called giving fair warning. The alternative is suddenly leaving without warning. Do you want that instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 03:16 AM |
| -1 | Leaving a woman is not trying to control a womanYou can't stop ultimatums. He or she has the power to enforce it, asymmetrically if necessary. Your only hope of stopping ultimatums is by shaming or by force, and neither is viable anymore. IOW: good, bad, doesn't matter, ultimatums are here to stay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 03:15 AM |
| -1 | The idea that men enjoy the chase is completely made up.Even if the chase was successful, far too many men have seen that it is an asymmetrical norm. Chasing women will never be great again because that realization has metastasized in the gestalt knowledgebase. Males will never be able to unsee that disparity again. Men now want women to start chasing, too. That's never going away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Men can only access emotional intimacy through a romantic partnerThat's the only place where men will get emotional intimacy in a century from now. Society's declining empathy for men will make this happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.Let those guys rot if that’s what they’ve decided to do. Problem is those women will rot, too. All this crying about birth rates just reminds me of how incels cry about how these unborn females would have been prospective future partners for them..LMAO. Women who think like you will leave the gene pool and be replaced by women who like men and don't have this attitude. Oops. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Kinky sex is not "treating a man better"LOL you think low value women are worth a relationship? That's a laugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Kinky sex is not "treating a man better"He's better off without than dealing with that shit and investing in someone who's not compatible with him. Pussy ain't worth all that. Not all men realize this unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 01:03 AM |
| 5 | Kinky sex is not "treating a man better"If he isn't getting what he wants, why not just step out and get it from someone else? LOL relax, I'm only joking. He should just leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 02:33 PM |
| 17 | Kinky sex is not "treating a man better"If he can't even get something as simple as a blowjob, just leave her and find another woman who will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 02:31 PM |
| 0 | Men can only access emotional intimacy through a romantic partnerMaybe. They better get it from somewhere. In 100 years there'll be none coming from women anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 05:46 AM |
| – | People MASSIVELY underestimate the math imbalance on the dating app marketplaceThey want chad cock to commit to them and found out chad cock won't do so, so they're quitting dating entirely. Fortunately that means they will join men in leaving the gene pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.Yes you do care. You care because it's causing an economic crisis and when you get old you already know it's going to hurt, badly. Oh and unwanted women are irrelevant, too. Lots of them are failing to procreate. The statistics are screaming that fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 04:02 AM |
| 1 | There is no such thing as a men having a skill issue.I can assure you they were not breaking their back for these women. And truthfully, no one should be breaking their back doing any of that anyway. Are you sure? The data suggests they are, and you're just not seeing it. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20drop%20is%20largely%20driven,from%2061%25%20in%202019). This drop is largely driven by single men, who are now 11 percentage points less likely than in 2019 to say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.Oh for the love of God, women have been "exercising caution" around men either for eons. Don't threaten us with another sunrise, eh? And the difference is when men say they’re choosing AI, most women genuinely do not give a fuck. But when women made a hypothetical joke about choosing the bear, men spent months having emotional meltdowns over it. ROTFLMAO there is so much you know that's absolute bullshit. But wait, this is just the latest in feminism's crusades against men taking alternative rou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.Everyone cares when 50% of single males are lying flat. Especially the Government, which is boohooing itself to death about the ongoing demographic collapse happening here. Japan, Germany, South Korea, and China are crying even harder about it. Once again there's so much you arrogant women know that just ain't true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 02:04 AM |
| – | Would you consider a man entitled for wanting a romantic partner?You mean the way women say if she can't find a man, it's men's fault for being too superficial or misogynistic, and if a man can't find a woman, it's his fault because the bar is in hell? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 11:32 PM |
| 0 | Men can only access emotional intimacy through a romantic partnerThat's wrong. In all animal species, males compete against each other for female attention. One of the common ways they compete is they're crabs in a barrel, they pull each other down in hopes of being the first one out of the barrel. That's not patriarchy, it's nature. Males compete, women choose. Thus if a human male opens up to other males, they will use that against him to reduce his social standing. This is designed to damage his social standing in the competition for females. They form hob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 11:26 PM |
| – | Men can only access emotional intimacy through a romantic partnerI'll give you three guesses as to where it's least safe for a man to open up to. Hint: it isn't his partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.A provocative book title and a few women on The View 13 years ago are not evidence that “women hate men.” Come on. Female nature never changes. Even if it was 100 years ago it applies today and forever. And that Pew stat doesn’t prove men are “rejecting women.” It proves a lot of people are burnt out on modern dating. Uninterested is uninterested, however you want to spin it to make yourself feel good. Also, I don’t know why you think “we chose AI” is some kind of mic drop. The kind of men who’d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.So much talk..and no action. 🤦♀️ LOL there's so much you know that's just not true. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20drop%20is%20largely%20driven,from%2061%25%20in%202019). This drop is largely driven by single men, who are now 11 percentage points less likely than in 2019 to say they are looking for a committed relationship and/or casual dates (50% in July 2022, down from 61% in 2019). During the same time fram… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.Correct. The proper doctrine men should take is: be glad we don't just walk the fuck away and let the power plants die. Violence against women is unethical and counterproductive. Tang Ping (lying flat) at scale is far more effective in sorting out misandry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 09:23 PM |
| 0 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.Did you even read that book or the synopsis or did you just get triggered by the title? The actual book is about modern gender dynamics and critiques both men and women. And The View? JFC, that’s not a serious intellectual source for anything. First of all, "Are Men Necessary" concludes the answer is no. It also accurately predicted that women would quiet quit dating because they see men as unnecessary. The View was ABC's most popular show. It's viewed by a very large slice of women. Their silen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 08:26 PM |
| 5 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.It doesn't make us look weak or insecure. Most men do it now. More men are doing it because we're in a full-on insurgency against men like you. We've already won and have drowned out voices like you. We've de-legitimized your stance at scale. Your argument is an irrational tantrum and most men see that now. As long as all men are forced to take the blame for the crimes of some, we are legitimately correct in taking credit for the acts of some. That is logical. When it comes to collective blame, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 08:19 PM |
| 4 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.Caution bleeds into a lot more things than just physical safety. I'm not sure why that's so hard to see. No women criticized that video. No feminist groups criticized it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 08:17 PM |
| 10 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.But taking credit for something you haven't done is both weak and insecure. I will just keep hammering you until the end of time or you just give up: As long as all men are forced to take the blame for the crimes of some, we are legitimately correct in taking credit for the acts of some. This will just keep getting repeated forever. I ain't backing down because I'm 100% right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.Thank you for showing that you throw toddler tantrums when you can't win a debate. You believe in compelling men to labor for women. You are pro-slavery. But really, if you've already gotten to the point of fantasizing about causing the death of many women, there really is no helping you. And men like you are the basis of female misandry. So congrats on that achievement. Nonviolent nonparticipation is a fundamental human right. You believe in enslaving men. This conversation is over. You have de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 07:41 PM |
| 5 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.They are going their own way. They are dating higher quality men and are very selective. You fail math totally. There's not enough men out there who meet women's outrageous standards of quality. Not even close. If you could do the math you would see this means women have to share these men or wait their turn. Men who throw temper tantrums and hissy fits at women who select bear are left behind. We're not left behind. We put up signs saying "if you choose bear stay away from me." We're born not w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.Their caution goes far beyond just holding keys in their hands, texting friends their location, avoiding isolated places at night, meeting dates in public first, watching their drinks, or being aware of exits. Women's caution is what drives them to demand perfect, unwavering confidence from men. Confidence acts as a psychological signal for resourcefulness, stability, and the ability to navigate threats. Women don't like men being cautious of women because women say that women never are a threat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.Thank you for showing that you want to compel men to labor for women against their will. You are pro-slavery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.You seem to be the reason that women do chose bear. That's like cockroaches blacklisting my house. If women want to choose bear and get eaten well that's their problem. Have at it. Let women who feel that way go their own way. Shoo. Get lost. That means spending less money on roach traps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 07:31 PM |
| 1 | I think men are gonna have more standards placed in them as time goes on and it will just break them and most people don't notice it.Sure, but the same is true for men. Not if he's short. Short men = lower tier than fat women. It's also a somewhat moot point when we have no idea what those married couples looked like when they first got together. Being adequately attractive is a getting-together thing, primarily. Not that many people will dump a spouse that they love and are committed to just because their looks changed. Plenty of women get married while fat. On top of and beyond that there's dudes who are chubby chasers. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 07:29 PM |
| 6 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.Because women force him to take the blame for what other dastardly men do, that's why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 07:24 PM |
| 0 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.I guess you missed this part: "Civilizations are interdependent. That’s how societies work." Tell that to your fellow women Source? Because not actively being a threat doesn't count as protection. That's easy. Who's bailing your ass out if a man, bear or cougar attacks? How many bears and cougars have you personally saved a woman from? What an absurd fucking thing to say How many men have killed you? None? Then your whole argument is absurd. Bro, what year is it where you live? I live in the yea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 07:23 PM |
| 4 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.I mean the same caution women use with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 06:49 PM |
| 6 | "Women are people too. Just treat them like they are human". Is such anoverblown, and hella misleading advice for menThat's not the point when it comes to dating. Women require confidence from a man, they cannot provide it, that's the primary reason why women don't approach men. Courtship is an extremely asymmetrical process where the male invests everything into it. Women can have anxieties and insecurities, males are not allowed to have that, especially when it comes to dating. Yes, men and women are like aliens to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 06:29 PM |
| 3 | I think men are gonna have more standards placed in them as time goes on and it will just break them and most people don't notice it.It's true. We all have to contend with the physical framework the fates gave us. Women do also contend with cultural beauty ideals though, even if the ideal differs from the male ideal, so it's odd that you contend it's not so. You can't spit in any direction without hitting a married fat woman. How are beauty standards hitting women so hard when this is true? make about as much money or more as the women that you want to date If he doesn't make about as much money or more as the women that he w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.There aren't enough women to run power plants. Not enough women in agriculture. Not enough women running trucks. Not enough women in sanitation. So yes you would be helpless. But I recognize that you're, like many men on this sub, probably too misogynistic to believe that women are actually people who can figure things out and survive so... LOL yes you think you'll learn in 20 seconds how to run a power plant or drive a big rig to move all that food. And the oil refineries. Good luck with that. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.Doesn't matter. Nothing women can do if we treat them symmetrically and just choose bear (or, being men, we'll choose something less suicidally stupid). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 06:06 PM |
| 4 | A Women being unchosen is a much bigger failure than men being unchosen.Wrong. Women abuse men, too, and when they do they get away with it. Just ask Tiger Woods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 06:05 PM |
| 1 | A Women being unchosen is a much bigger failure than men being unchosen.They have never been approached, never asked out, never in a relationship Yikes. Those are total genetic failures. Imagine having luck like that when you're born in God Mode! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 05:43 PM |
| 6 | A Women being unchosen is a much bigger failure than men being unchosen.There are plenty of women who think they do everything in a relationship because they don't appreciate their partner, take everything they do for granted, and actively put their contributions out of mind so they can justify being judgmental and dissatisfied. It's about time someone said this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.I was responding to your title which you just repeated. If women were violently retaliated against by men any time they endorsed anti-male rhetoric, I'm just arguing you'd multiply misandrists tenfold, and they could safely be so by staying quiet and sticking to underhanded methods. Therefore, your conclusion is wrong. This is why I support the doctrine of nonviolent nonparticipation, or "Tang Ping" aka lying flat. Men should just walk out of the infrastructure. The very next winter will do wors… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 05:35 PM |
| 8 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.And when the tornado or earthquake brings your house down all around you guess who's digging you out? Men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 05:32 PM |
| 6 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.You, as an individual, don’t get to claim credit for the accomplishments of men who HAVE done things for women. Which is basic knowledge: there’s a reason heroes tend to get chicks. Yes he does get to claim credit for the accomplishments of men who HAVE done things for women. He absolutely does get to claim that. Because he is automatically being saddled with the BLAME for other men who harm women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 05:31 PM |
| 16 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.Oh you just said it's okay for women to have that mindset but not men. That's bullshit. Women should be ostracized for having that mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.So given the number of women who abuse and hurt men, we should subject women to the same level of suspicion and refuse to let you tell us we can't. Women would not like that... but if we symmetrically treat women like they treat us, nothing women can do to stop it. But they'll learn in a hurry the error of their ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 05:27 PM |
| -1 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.But the bigger issue is how conveniently this argument frames men as both the protectors and the threat, then demands gratitude from women for surviving that arrangement. “Women need men for protection” loses a lot of moral weight when the primary thing they’re supposedly being protected from is also overwhelmingly male violence. Pointing that out is not “misandry.” It’s reality. Then let's just have all the men leave and see how long any health care, education, social services, etc. last after … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Why are women upset when a man says "You're not like the other girls", but fine when women do the same to men?My sincerest condolences for you putting up with a woman like that for 17 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 05:13 PM |
| 6 | The Same Romantic Approach Is Judged Differently Depending on AttractionPfft, men get generalized all the time. Women even casually say killallmen and get away with it. Women on TV say men are all useless and get away with it. So go ahead and hit us with Tuesday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 05:12 PM |
| 7 | There is no such thing as a men having a skill issue.On top of that, any woman I've talked to on the subject, be it friend, someone I dated, etc., was so absolutely exhausted by men being so low effort and disingenuous. They were so over dating and basically just going through the motions in hopes for the best. Translation: he was breaking his back for her physically or emotionally and it wasn't enough for her. You might not realise this, but a lot of the "affection" women get from men in dating isn't real, and they're very aware of that unless th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 05:08 PM |
| 4 | I think men are gonna have more standards placed in them as time goes on and it will just break them and most people don't notice it.be beautiful You can't help how you were born. This standard no longer applies to women, why should it apply to men? make about as much money or more as the women that you want to date Women love his value more than they value his love. He has to equal or exceed her. She can't exceed him because she's a parasite who rants about equality but doesn't want to be about it. This explains why so many men are quitting the dating game entirely. Let the women go share Chad. Fuck 'em. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 05:01 PM |
| 5 | There is no such thing as a men having a skill issue.You know what the real problem is? The real problem is women of today put out zero effort at all. They no longer do anything to attract or keep a man's interest. They think "I AM THE TABLE!" and that's it. A woman catches a man simply by existing. Dating nowdays is absolutely asymmetrical, like the woman is on one side of the see saw on her phone while the guy is hefting the Himalayan Mountain Range of effort on the other side just to budge the needle: looksmax, rizzmax, stoicmax/framemax, caree… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 11:21 PM |
| 3 | The Same Romantic Approach Is Judged Differently Depending on AttractionOne common thread connects almost all women of today: they're drunk on an excess of male attention and addicted to the dopamine loops of using their leverage to extract effort from men, which accelerates the dopamine engine. Meanwhile those top men they're hooking up with just pump and dump them and that's why almost all women now are saying men are trash and deciding to quiet quit. They chose flash over decency and wonder why they can't find a good man. That's a universal trait for women younge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Why are women upset when a man says "You're not like the other girls", but fine when women do the same to men?Oh no you can't, not for long. Her constant resentment of you will poison the fuck out of that. Someone who says "we all accept men as a group have serious problems" without looking at women as a group's serious problems is not going to have a relationship that ends well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 02:36 PM |
| 6 | The Same Romantic Approach Is Judged Differently Depending on AttractionYet somehow there are only 20% of men that women really want to be with. The rest, well, they get settled for. Eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolOhhhh so that's why women are crying "Where did all the good men go?" LOL Your glaring insecurity is showing in your denial of what 50% of single men checking out means. That's not undesirable men. Those numbers cross into "even when men win, they lose." I'll leave you to try and act like an internet badass now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolhttps://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/ This drop is largely driven by single men, who are now 11 percentage points less likely than in 2019 to say they are looking for a committed relationship and/or casual dates (50% in July 2022, down from 61% in 2019). During the same time frame, there has been no significant change in the share of single women who are looking for a relationship or casual dates: 35% said this in 2022, compared wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 02:13 AM |
| 4 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolhttps://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/ This drop is largely driven by single men, who are now 11 percentage points less likely than in 2019 to say they are looking for a committed relationship and/or casual dates (50% in July 2022, down from 61% in 2019). During the same time frame, there has been no significant change in the share of single women who are looking for a relationship or casual dates: 35% said this in 2022, compared wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolMen are quiet quitting because there are no women left who are emotionally safe to be around. This is not hard for the brain to parse, you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolI would have no use for weak, pathetic, parasitic passive women if I were single right now. I'd be quiet quitting. Let them want nothing to do with me. You might as well tell me that cockroaches want nothing to do with me lol Go have your parasites. Enjoy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolThen why are you making such easily debunked arguments? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 11:51 AM |
| 2 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolNowadays men select for emotional safety. That's why half of all single men have quiet quit entirely. Your way of thinking has made women emotionally unsafe. Exhausting. Zero reward for maximum effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolWell it seems u/Outrageous-Floor-424 has you sorted right proper with a more killer citation than I had for this argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 11:49 AM |
| 4 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themDo you think that all teachers only have biases towards girls? ALL teachers need this training. Not all, but most. Bias towards girls is not going to end if we throw more money at it. If anything the feminists will hijack that money and make it worse. Ah yes, the primary feminist platform--addressing grading biases against boys in school. We all know that feminists aren't worthy of having any opinions unless their entire platform centers male issues in education, right? Until they stop asking me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 09:46 AM |
| 3 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolShe is being passive. She doesn't do anything to initiate. That's lazy, cowardly and weak. She has no standing to accuse men of what she herself is doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolYour help sucks. It's counter-productive. All you're doing is pushing men to keep feeding the female validation machine. Every ounce of effort men put into chasing women, no matter how effective, makes it harder for men of the future. These women only love your value, dude, they never value your love. Even when you win, you lose. Have a great day simping for women lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 09:41 AM |
| 3 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolOuch. It sucks to be the women stuck dating those dark triad men. Too bad they can't learn to approach men, eh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 09:38 AM |
| 4 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolI'm gonna go with echoing what u/ModPiracy_Fantoski said about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolWhere do you get these insane platitudes from? Men change tactics all the time. Women, meanwhile, adapt as well. That's why the game mutates on an hourly basis. It mutates faster than the HIV virus. Women are changing their rejection strategy just that fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 06:35 PM |
| 4 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolYet in the below 30 age group, women are half as likely as a man her age to be single. Boy that's a horror story for women ain't it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 06:33 PM |
| 0 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolEver been stung by a bee? If you're not allergic, one is an annoyance. That's what you risk wandering too close to a European beehive. Now go wander by an African beehive and see what happens. Dating for a man is like rattling an Africanized hive in search of honey. Dating for a woman is like wandering too close to a European hive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 06:32 PM |
| 18 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolIf a man does not approach me, he was never a decent partner for me to begin with. I do not like passivity and it is unattractive, so unattractive options are just weeding themselves out for me. Good for me. This is why I believe all men should stop approaching women. That'll weed the weak, passive women out of the gene pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:54 PM |
| 10 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolBut I do agree that they should still have confidence in themselves despite it. That is the definition of delusion, though. Being constantly rejected is absolutely a sign that you are not worthy of a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:53 PM |
| 28 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolYou're not among the best men if you're not married. AKA just world fallacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:52 PM |
| 30 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolmen who continue perusing a chick even after being rejected is creepy. A 300 IQ person would realize that was his point. Those are the men you have left after you scared off the boundary-respecting men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolWomen are dating criminals. Is that what a decent man is? I can provide receipts if you want to challenge me on this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:50 PM |
| 6 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themBecause teachers need training against biases, need resources to help manage boys who learn differently than girls, and need smaller classrooms so they can help students actually learn rather than just engage in grade-based schooling with zero support. Like...this is basic? But yet they don't need training to be biased in favor of girls, that just comes naturally? Basically you admit that misandry is just built right into the system, which makes my point. More money and training aren't going to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:47 PM |
| 6 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themThe fact that you think low pay has nothing to do with how teachers teach and who takes those jobs means you do not understand how funding affects whole industries at all. How in hell does funding affect the biased treatment of boys and male teachers? The idea that cutting funding means they take it out on boys means the entire educational system needs to be scooped out, everyone fired, and replaced. You also talk about feminists not voting for policies that don’t exist. Which anti-male bias in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themLOL Conservatives treat men's issues as a test of machisimo. They're far worse than the Progressives. Progressives ignore the fire, Conservatives send A10 Warthogs to keep firebombing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 02:55 AM |
| 17 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themIn each and every example you mentioned, when it comes time to provide help for males, the system skimps out. Mary P Koss said women can't rape men. So "made to penetrate" is considered a joke, feminists won't support it, won't even touch it. In education male teachers are treated with huge suspicion. Feminists aren't touching that. "Low wages for shit jobs" is totally irrelevant for higher education and K-12. You could pay a king's ransom for teachers and they will still gatekeep men out of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 02:53 AM |
| 10 | Men who get their life together for the sake of becoming attractive but then decide to be single should not be blamed for their choiceOops mybad, I guess I was wrong. Women don't care about men enoughonly 11 per cent of young women hold a very positive view of men Y'all hate men. Always have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 02:21 PM |
| 6 | Men who get their life together for the sake of becoming attractive but then decide to be single should not be blamed for their choiceLOL neither will y'all stop talking shit about us even as you're "quiet quitting." Why's it okay for women and not men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 02:45 AM |
| 4 | Men who get their life together for the sake of becoming attractive but then decide to be single should not be blamed for their choiceWe'll STFU about women if your TwoX, 4B and WitchesAgainstPatriarchy crews will STFU about men. Deal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 09:48 PM |
| 21 | Men who get their life together for the sake of becoming attractive but then decide to be single should not be blamed for their choiceWomen don't care about men enough to have an opinion about men going their own way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Men not approaching: Why Self-Respect is the Ultimate "Win"Translation: "put your back into it, slave! Keep klowning for women or you're a WOMAN HATERRRR arrrarrrrrghhh" later on: "hey ladies did you see how I simped so hard by shaming that dude? Can I have some pussy now, pleeeeeease?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 09:45 PM |
| 0 | Men not approaching: Why Self-Respect is the Ultimate "Win"Dude that shaming language is old. Pussy ain't all that important anymore. Too much effort and no quality left in stock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Men not approaching: Why Self-Respect is the Ultimate "Win"Not really. The harder you try, the higher women's standards get in real-time. You're digging your own grave with that tactic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 10:58 AM |
| 2 | Men not approaching: Why Self-Respect is the Ultimate "Win"Most men will never have an attractive women no matter how hard they try. In fact the harder men try the greater the effort-price will get. We're efforting ourselves into irrelevance. Literally women now live in a post-scarcity world in terms of male investment! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 05:32 AM |
| – | Entrepreneurial guys do better with women, but the reason has nothing to do with moneyIn reality, men want a woman who has her own identity and is building her own life that he can walk into. Good luck with ever finding that nowdays! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Both men and women choose to be single, anyone could be in a relationship, it just won’t necessarily be with someone you want or desireNow I’m not denying women have more options. I think that’s a good thing as it encourages men to improve different things about themselves if they want to find a woman to be with - education level, employment status, exercise regimen, diet habits, etc Imagine how good it would be for women if they had to improve different things about themselves if they want to find a man to be with, instead of the current female zeitgeist that says "I don't need to improve, I AM THE MOTHAFUCKINTABLE!" which is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 04:15 AM |
| 5 | Why are women upset when a man says "You're not like the other girls", but fine when women do the same to men?Rules for men are harsher than rules for women. Because menbadwomengood. Asking women to be consistent about their outrage is like asking a sidewinder to not be venomous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 10:17 PM |
| 6 | Why are women upset when a man says "You're not like the other girls", but fine when women do the same to men?This hypocrisy makes me wonder what the point of mating is anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 10:16 PM |
| 6 | Basing off the 80/20 theory- for those of you in the 80% would you rather not have sex or be alone?No relationship at all. Women who have a problem with this response can kiss my backside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 10:15 PM |
| 2 | We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected.Oh, feminists HATE the term "not all men." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Would you leave this woman?Would have been more effective if it was oral sex not anal sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Would you leave this woman?Anal isn't my cup of tea. You heretic. A man who doesn't like anal sex?! Welcome to the heretics corner, brother. I'm a heretic, too. It's not just not my cup of tea, I hate anal sex. And yeah she gave a heck of a compliment, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 02:57 PM |
| 2 | We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected.LOL not all men are misogynist rapist killers either. Can we say that now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 02:53 PM |
| 7 | We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected.What I'm saying is a good number of women, not all, are seriously unhinged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Older women are in high demand with younger men. Is this a good thing or a bad thing?The point was about the type of interaction. Older women often have less patience for passive behavior, Which means he has to be the pursuer while she's passive. AKA harder to get indecisiveness, He makes all the risky decisions and she doesn't. AKA harder to get That is different from saying older women are universally harder to attract. This is gaslighting. sharpen your skills faster does not automatically mean the game itself became harder overall. Sharpening your skills requires a mountain o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 04:47 AM |
| 6 | Older women are in high demand with younger men. Is this a good thing or a bad thing?There was never a wall. Women of all ages are more desirable than men of all ages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Older women are in high demand with younger men. Is this a good thing or a bad thing?The argument was never that older women are “harder to get” But previously you said indecisiveness, or passive behavior, so younger men are forced to develop stronger social skills and more confidence if they want those interactions to work. That right there is "harder to get". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 02:26 AM |
| 8 | We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected.A lot of good, law abiding men will die alone while these evil bastards were running through women like a bullet train. Look at how many wives and kids Donald Trump has. Women have collectively spoken: that quiet, law abiding nerd is worse for women than Donald Trump. Women's selection habits have dictated this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 02:08 AM |
| 0 | When a man say “not all men” he’s seen as complicit and dismissive. When a woman says it, she’s being nuancedOkay, so you don't comprehend what you wrote. Got it. Have a great day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 02:06 AM |
| – | Can women really not understand where Nice Guys come from ?It's the majority that's driving the ship here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 02:05 AM |
| 1 | When a man say “not all men” he’s seen as complicit and dismissive. When a woman says it, she’s being nuancedOkay, then stay cautious about men who are sick of being punished for the acts of other men. We would be better off without women who behave like that. Women like that are absolute hell to deal with in a relationship. Always attacking men, always preaching fear of men, menaretrash killallmen Fuck that. I'd pay for those women to go find a place with no men and just go. I don't miss the point. I find it to be utterly toxic, hateful and narcissistic. I find women who adopt those narratives to be e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 02:04 AM |
| – | Should women reject men that don’t treat them like they would a top 1% Stacy?Yes Chad will get passion and attraction while other men get meh but the disparity is far worse for men than some hot babe vs a fat or ugly woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Women Generally Can’t Distinguish Between Confidence and NarcissismGood advice. I dunno why you got downvoted for it. Lemme rebalance that lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Can women really not understand where Nice Guys come from ?Let's remember that benevolent sexism isn't especially attractive to a lot of women. Performative "chivalry" is a turn off to me, especially with guys who are insistent about it. Uh I hate to break it to you but women do like benevolent sexism and I have the government study receipts to prove it. Benevolent sexism (BS) has detrimental effects on women, yet women prefer men with BS attitudes over those without. The predominant explanation for this paradox is that women respond to the superficiall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Should women reject men that don’t treat them like they would a top 1% Stacy?More women than men don't even want kids so men are now over-investing for women who don't do a lot of that stuff anyway. Sexually available? Are you kidding me? That's not even a thing anymore either nowadays. Maintaining their looks? Okay that's just delusion. You go have fun with that delusion. I'm gonna back away from your fantasies very slowly now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Should women reject men that don’t treat them like they would a top 1% Stacy?And you are not getting the fact that whether men call them simps or not has no bearing on whether the behavior is harming all men. Not investing more into attracting a woman and getting her to like him than any woman has ever done for the average guy is not drooling or the road to unhappiness. You're just mad that you grovel and do these things for women and get nothing out of it. So you keep investing in her while she does nothing for you and go have a nice day, eh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 04:07 AM |
| 6 | Men need to start leaving women alone.Wow, way to not get it. Let me put it another way: even men who don't harass women aren't liked. Because women broad brush us all as guilty regardless of whether we are or not. That's how hate works. We should not be putting up with being pathologized en masse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 04:04 AM |
| 0 | When a man say “not all men” he’s seen as complicit and dismissive. When a woman says it, she’s being nuancedYTou literally just invoked it by saying you don't do it lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 04:03 AM |
| 4 | Women Generally Can’t Distinguish Between Confidence and NarcissismI care more about competence. That's because you're a man. Women nowadays don't think like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Women Generally Can’t Distinguish Between Confidence and Narcissismcounterpoint is easy as men have the same problem. No, women don't even bring confidence to the table, so the narcissism she projects comes from other places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 02:15 AM |
| 3 | When a man say “not all men” he’s seen as complicit and dismissive. When a woman says it, she’s being nuancedOhhhhh so you're invoking the "not all women" counter argument now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 02:14 AM |
| -2 | Should women reject men that don’t treat them like they would a top 1% Stacy?Where's the source that women treat men well?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Should women reject men that don’t treat them like they would a top 1% Stacy?Men make the first move, they endure endless rejection, they pay for the meals, they endure women's neuroses and coddle their insecurities, they let women emotionally dump on them on a daily basis for half an hour or more... all without reciprocation. It's women who invest nothing, not men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 02:12 AM |
| 5 | When a man say “not all men” he’s seen as complicit and dismissive. When a woman says it, she’s being nuancedYou’re flattening everything into “all generalizations are identical” so you never have to engage with context, scale, history, or power dynamics. Yes, because we who've done nothing to women are rising up in insurgency now against your narrative. And that insurgency is never going to stop escalating until the two genders eventually just go their separate ways. Which is starting to look like a good thing after reading what you wrote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 01:22 AM |
| 0 | When a man say “not all men” he’s seen as complicit and dismissive. When a woman says it, she’s being nuancedMen have cause to be afraid of women because if he does defend himself he faces the severe threat of extrajudicial violence from other women or men rushing in to defend her no matter what she did. And he also has to fear a criminal justice system that will often favor her. The problem with women doing things to men is they get away with it more often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 01:20 AM |
| 3 | When a man say “not all men” he’s seen as complicit and dismissive. When a woman says it, she’s being nuancedIt's not always a man. Women commit plenty of sexual assault, murder and domestic violence. Even one case destroys the "always a man" bullshit narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 01:18 AM |
| 5 | When a man say “not all men” he’s seen as complicit and dismissive. When a woman says it, she’s being nuancedI have a simple doctrine that men should follow: a woman who says "not all men but always a man" should be socially shut out, ignored and dismissed as a bigot. If men did this at scale this narrative would end overnight. Because "always a man" is the big fat fucking lie. It's not always a man. Women get murked and fucked over by other women all the time. This "always a man" narrative has made going after women who victimize women very difficult. Which means: misandry hurts women, constantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 12:58 AM |
| 7 | Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship?Yes, we already know you women get enormous leeway about whining that men do not get. Because men are treated as disposable tools. If it wobbles, squeaks or breaks... simply toss and replace! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 12:55 AM |
| -2 | Should women reject men that don’t treat them like they would a top 1% Stacy?Or so the feminists say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Should women reject men that don’t treat them like they would a top 1% Stacy?Meanwhile women openly lie and gaslight men by claiming they treat men they love well. The lie is she only loves his value, she doesn't value his love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Should women reject men that don’t treat them like they would a top 1% Stacy?Women tend to think that way, and will treat the man they love well, regardless of how he looks. You've been watching too much Disney stories if you believe that. Men seriously, drastically over-invest in a woman compared to how much she invests in him. She's the love of his life, but if he is an average man then he is never the love of her life. Especially not after Gen-X. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 12:52 AM |
| 3 | Why do only 30% of young women have a favorable view of men (80% of young men have a favorable view of women)You use those same polls if they support the pathologizing of men. Tell me you don't care about moral consistency without openly saying it, lol. You women get taken in by all kinds of crap statistics about men and you swallow it without a shred of critical examination. Remember that bullshit about men are 6x more likely to leave their sick wives? LOL that one's still going around years after it was retracted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 12:49 AM |
| -1 | Should women reject men that don’t treat them like they would a top 1% Stacy?The problem with being a simp comes during courtship, right at the first approach. Males are infamous for investing far more into attracting a woman and getting her to like him than any woman has ever done for the average guy. Average men habitually and zealously over-invest for even a crumb of affection and that's what simping is and that's what makes it a bad thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start leaving women alone.Women can act collectively but men can't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 10:37 PM |
| 8 | Men need to start leaving women alone.Women don't even like men who don't harass them. They've broad brushed us all. Why should men keep putting up with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 10:35 PM |
| 8 | Men need to start leaving women alone.If men stop chasing women, women won't fill in the gap. They don't really like men. Not enough to reciprocate courtship. Not even close. Full stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Should women reject men that don’t treat them like they would a top 1% Stacy?And yet there's a large number of women leading on simps and cuckolding/cheating on their partners. But don't dare actually name what should never be named! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Should women reject men that don’t treat them like they would a top 1% Stacy?Men will always always always be treated differently based on how attractive they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Should women reject men that don’t treat them like they would a top 1% Stacy?That doesn't apply evenly. Under feminism all women deserve to be treated like top 1% Stacy and how men are treated depends on how attractive women think he is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Men do NOT need to “do better”.It was probably rejected by right wingers, who are scum anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 04:07 AM |
| 4 | Why do only 30% of young women have a favorable view of men (80% of young men have a favorable view of women)The sauce Just 35 per cent of British women under the age of 25 hold a positive view of men, according to a new poll. The findings show only 11 per cent of young women hold a very positive view, while women under 30 are three times as likely to hold a negative view of men compared to the over-30s. Yeah, women don't like men. I don't think they ever really did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 07:53 PM |
| 7 | Why do only 30% of young women have a favorable view of men (80% of young men have a favorable view of women)What a completely intellectually dishonest and cowardly argument. It is data and it does reflect how women feel about men. Most women have never valued men for anything but their utility. Men are fools for liking women 80% when most women wouldn't even look up from their Taylor Swift video replay if we all suddenly up and died like Y: the Last Man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 02:52 PM |
| 1 | I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnelRedpill knows women perfectly, but their reaction strategy only adds gasoline to the fire. They use dark triad tactics on women and that just makes things worse. I have a teenaged son in the middle of this shit show. A real dog in the fight. This is what he's up against. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Men do NOT need to “do better”.The Georgia Guidestones once said we should maintain a population of 500 million in balance with nature. I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 11:24 PM |
| 0 | Men do NOT need to “do better”.She said girlfriend. You said some random woman you approach. To get to a girlfriend you have to get past the approach phase. Women ain't gonna approach themselves to get a man ffs. Why on earth would a woman offer emotional safety to some random man? And what makes you think our grandmother's were doing this? Some random man? You mean the guy who summoned the guts to approach a woman? Good point. Women should turn it into a Klingon duel. Some 70% of women want men to approach them more. It's ka… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to feminist men, they are attracted to hot men!1!Well they also chase men who are flashy in other superficial areas: charm and social status (what we used to call 'domination'). That all points to one thing: a social status boost for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 11:09 PM |
| 2 | It seems that after the breakup, women are with a new guy almost instantly, while guys have to go through a crazy long dry spellWhen there's 100,000 men and 100,000 women in a heterosexual environment, each man on average will chase 100 women to get the attention of one. Of 100,000 women, 0 will chase anyone. So each woman has 100 men to choose from. That is why they get into relationships so fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 11:30 PM |
| 2 | It seems that after the breakup, women are with a new guy almost instantly, while guys have to go through a crazy long dry spellNot in the younger years there's not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 11:28 PM |
| 1 | I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnelAnd then comes the "low value" / "low investment" label when he does go to the gym less. Even if he's grinding for that next promotion. You can't ever win when the issue is post Gen-X women just don't like men, they like the social boost we can provide them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 11:26 PM |
| 5 | Women aren't attracted to feminist men, they are attracted to hot men!1!I ain't a feminist because I don't hate men. But I sure as fuck will never support a society that puts men's boots on the backs of women's necks. Left the GOP in 2003 and won't ever vote for one again. The idea of suppressing women so men can have power and compel women into relationships is not just ghoulish but outright self-destructive, too. Still doesn't make me a male feminist simp. Some of us men just happen to think for ourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Women aren't attracted to feminist men, they are attracted to hot men!1!There is an underlying disease present here: partnership always was a transaction. Men took on all the risks and women benefited. Now women don't need provision and the value of men as a gender has imploded. Women behave like this because they never valued men, only their provision and protection. So what about the good looking men? Women chase good looking men first because they're status objects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 10:29 PM |
| 2 | I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnelTerrifyingly enough, anti-natalist women demand the same investment that women who want kids demand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 10:23 PM |
| 10 | Men do NOT need to “do better”.Your first point is that girlfriends should be emotionally nurturing, which I agree and I am. But the idea that a man cannot show any weakness or she will lose interest, is not true. Not true? It is demonstrated from the very moment a man approaches a woman. If he is nervous or anxious it's an automatic game over for the vast majority of women. Your second point about birth rates being women not getting approached enough? Weird. That's not what I said. I said consensual human reproduction is so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Men do NOT need to “do better”.As if women can't also be toxic, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 09:32 PM |
| 4 | Men do NOT need to “do better”.Because men are literally running on maximum effort here. That's why the burnout level for men is so damned high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 09:31 PM |
| 13 | Men do NOT need to “do better”.Emotional safety, numeral uno. Dating has become an absolute pressure cooker of constant tests of his rock solid emotional stability and his simultaneous ability to compensate for her anxieties and neuroses. Showing weakness of any sort is an immediate disqualifier for a male right from the point of first approach. Women also fail to offer any kind of initiative. If men all stopped approaching women birth rates would fall below 0.70 and stay there. Those are just two things that never got offere… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 09:29 PM |
| – | If you aren't exceptional, dont demand exceptional results.ummmm, jipped, or gypped, is based on an ethnic slur against "gypsies" (a slur for Roma people). Just saying. https://www.thoughtco.com/terms-many-dont-know-are-racist-2834522 The word 'gypped' is offensive because it unfairly stereotypes the Roma people as dishonest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 10:55 AM |
| 7 | Men don't like to talk about their issues, but they do like to hijack conversation when women raise theirs.Men can't discuss their issues without women interrupting and trying to shut them entirely down based on made-up lies and false accusations about misogyny. The mainstream media has put women's dating woes on prime tv while men go utterly ignored, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 10:51 AM |
| – | Young men did everything they're supposed to, and its not enough. Indicates its NOT their fault, rather it shows theres a real problem of YOUNG FEMALE RADICALIZATION45% of young men have not ever approached women. Those numbers mean it's not just men that are the problem. And this is a problem for human civilization, too. It's because dating has become a giant financial and emotional extraction economy for all men. Some men don't complain because they've been thoroughly indoctrinated into the "freedom from gender roles for women, but men should adhere to gender roles" mindset. A lot of men simply don't want to date anymore. https://www.pewresearch.org/short… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 10:47 AM |
| 2 | What is it like wanting female validation badlyMy condolances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 04:15 AM |
| 1 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesYou have an unhealthy obsession with children. Seeing as I don't want the 4chan party van at my door I'll leave you to wrestle with whatever drove you to write this nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 04:13 AM |
| 1 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.I mean, how do you fail a game while in tutorial mode lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 08:53 PM |
| 0 | I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnelYou have the strangest fantasies of persecution. I could care less if humans procreate or not. All I care is that men want it less than women do so men don't get exploited. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 08:52 PM |
| 1 | I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnelIt's bad because men want it more than women. It gives women leverage. The gender that wants interaction least, has the most power. Leverage is king. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 11:07 PM |
| 4 | I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnelMore men than women want kids now. That's a very very very bad situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 12:53 AM |
| 6 | What is it like wanting female validation badlyI wish I sometimes had a low libido when I was single. If I was single I'd be popping libido killing drugs like skittles. There's no way any sane man wants to date in this market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Telling men not to attach their worth to dating women is a tall ask when women collectively act like it IS about men's worth.Men seek good jobs because they want a mate. Take the mate out of it at scale and men just walk away. Look what's going on in Japan. We're seeing that develop here, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 12:45 AM |
| 2 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.about the psychological mechanisms that induce people to keep pulling the handle on a slot machine, etc. This should be properly identified for what it is: a mental illness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 12:43 AM |
| 5 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesHe didn’t though, That's not just a flat out lie, it's propaganda, gaslighting and just world fallacy all wrapped into one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Telling men not to attach their worth to dating women is a tall ask when women collectively act like it IS about men's worth.Are you for pro-compulsion or something? Your argument screams it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 12:41 AM |
| 5 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesNope. Nothing saying they can't go with a friend or a group, rather than a date. They aren't kept from attending. They just aren't being taught that their discomfort warrants violating another child, or being prevented from developing important life skills. Nobody's talking about violating a child, where tf did you get that pedo scenario from? And nowadays, life skills don't get a man in the door. They keep you in once you get in, but there's something else a man has to pass first. That's true. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 12:40 AM |
| 7 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesUh, dudes be hating on deadbeat dads on the regular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 12:38 AM |
| 5 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.That might have been women downvoting you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Telling men not to attach their worth to dating women is a tall ask when women collectively act like it IS about men's worth.Men don't balk at fatties and uggos. Go touch grass and while you're at it, throw a rock in any random direction. Congratulations you just hit a married woman who is fat or an uggo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 05:27 PM |
| 0 | Telling men not to attach their worth to dating women is a tall ask when women collectively act like it IS about men's worth.Then why should a man contribute to a society in which he has no genetic stake in its demographic future? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 05:22 PM |
| 2 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.I like the people I dated enough to want to hear about their problems and things they went through. That's what men do, not what women do. Any woman who does that is a straight-up anomaly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 05:19 PM |
| 4 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.You've never met a real world woman, it seems. Welp, I'll leave you now to go do so. Bye! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 05:18 PM |
| 4 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.What woman doesn't have emotional baggage from other men? Or maybe you'll admit the popular female term "men are trash" and "I choose bear" was a bunch of bullshit after all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 05:17 PM |
| 9 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesThe kid who refuses to bail out a burning village is someone who previously lost out despite doing all the work You're just engaging in gaslighting at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 05:15 PM |
| 9 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesA child who thinks that not being able to go to the dance with anyone FTFY Someone who kicks back and watches destruction bc they didn't get a date is rejecting the village, not the other way around. Uhhh what was that bit about "we're not obligated" again? Welp, it applies here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 05:13 PM |
| 9 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesEvery time a single mom posts a personal ad, and men don't respond, that's that kid leaving the water pail behind while her life burns to ashes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 05:12 PM |
| 16 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesif women are adults with agency, then their partner choices are their choices. if they choose charming toxic men, exciting unstable men, abusive men, irresponsible men, or men with obvious warning signs, that is not the fault of some random guy she would never date anyway. A village that does not embrace its child can't ask the kid to bring water pails when it burns itself down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 10:26 AM |
| 5 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.Women can afford to not be interested in a partner with unsolved baggage. If men adopted the same policy we'd have a catastrophic demographic collapse. We'd be a species of tens of millions in a century instead of billions. There'd be just that few women left to procreate with if we filtered out women with unresolved baggage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 10:23 AM |
| 10 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.It would. And that's a woman's default state. It sucks when men adopt the same attitude as what they experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 10:21 AM |
| 6 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.She takes a chance just like men do when they approach her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 10:20 AM |
| 1 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.Dating is a gamble for men offline and online. Men who quit OLDs find real life is far harsher and they find out very, very quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 05:04 AM |
| 13 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.Yes and good luck with her empathizing with you in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 04:49 AM |
| 0 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.From where? Online? Snippets of your loved one's complaints (because we're less likely to seek advice when things are going well)? It literally starts from the moment you approach her in person. And it goes on from there. Women who intentionally wait a long time to text back to ensure she doesn't appear "desperate" or vulnerable. Even if you're having a good conversation she'll keep physical distance or avoid eye contact to maintain a sense of control over the conversation. They use phrases in r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 04:48 AM |
| -4 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.If your policy is to not date women who make her previous bad experiences your problem well you won't be dating at all, son | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 04:43 AM |
| 1 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.That policy works only with women, not men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 04:42 AM |
| 4 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.If every dude who approaches you is a bad partner the problem isn't them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Men are not radicalised enough and it's costing them.Lame by who's standards? Yours? LOL forgive me if I disregard your assessment entirely. IDGAF what anyone thinks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 04:41 AM |
| 1 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.20% is a lot considering how many men there are. Not a lot proportionately but a lot in absolute terms. Which means you don't deserve to be taken seriously or responded to any further because you fail to understand that one basic fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 04:40 AM |
| 0 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.Then you can just be lonely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 04:38 AM |
| 3 | It's okay, to want a "bang maid"A man who wants a "bangmaid" should a) be ready to pay for and support a "bangmaid"; and b) rethink his entire sorry excuse for a life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 07:25 PM |
| 3 | It's okay, to want a "bang maid"He is looking at the literal meaning of the term and not the true meaning of the term. I am torn between ignoring stupid posts like this and speaking the fuck up because no mature man wants a "bang maid." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 07:24 PM |
| 4 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.Even fat or ugly women have men approaching them. If all their options are bad, well, water does seek its own level, as they say about lonely men, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 07:22 PM |
| -5 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.Good point. That's because my Gen-X wife didn't spend her youth chasing Chad like today's women are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 07:21 PM |
| 0 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.LOL you over-30 men are getting women who don't have their shit together. What a sadly uneven exchange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 07:20 PM |
| 2 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.There’s the absolutist statement that proves my point. “You ladies” is just women who didn’t approach you. Women have been rejected before. It is not as uncommon as you think it is. It’s just never happened to YOU. But you make such ignorant statements such as ladies don’t make the first move and can’t be rejected. I asked out my boyfriend. This already disproves your absolutist statement. Oh big whoop, you're an anomaly. Here's a cookie. Woohoo! You also continue to harp on studies that don’t p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 07:19 PM |
| -1 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.I am quite sure if he knows a woman whining about how all the good men are taken, he'll read her the riot act in person. Seen plenty of DGAF-level men do it in real life myself. I've done it. Hell my wife has done it to a few women like that lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:55 PM |
| -7 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.You're not supposed to empathize with women's dating woes. You had better coddle her when she makes her previous woes your problem or else you are going to have a very lonely life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:54 PM |
| 9 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes."A partner that you're both interested in" has become women who want things from men that women would never give them in return. Like for instance he has to make the first approach and he has to do it with supreme confidence and not make even the slightest slip-up. He has to tiptoe through her minefield of trauma by live-mapping those spots on her doll where the previous Chads hurt her and knowing how to coddle those spots (saying that men are trash and expecting him to not get defensive, or exp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:51 PM |
| 6 | Men are not radicalised enough and it's costing them.It's so wild to me how both genders are adopting this sick my side vs yours type of thinking. Life is made of "my side vs your side." But even then there are rules of engagement, social Geneva Conventions, lines we don't fucking cross when we are civilized creatures. OP is speedrunning social war crimes in his keyboard kwest for the Republic of Gilead. He thinks when the boot comes down on women's neck will land him some 'tang. What he doesn't realize is the 'alpha males' in that world will pull… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:43 PM |
| 14 | Men are not radicalised enough and it's costing them.What I want to say about OP would get me banned off of Reddit. Let us just say that rant falls in the realm of ultracringe. And I'm saying that while not being a feminist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Men are not radicalised enough and it's costing them.More radical means voting for shit like Donald Trump and Project 2025. Sorry but that's a few dozen bridges too far for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:39 PM |
| 3 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.MFW when I find out that facts are victim blaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:38 PM |
| 8 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.When I was single, yes, I had to deal with tons of rejection. You ladies didn't even make the first move so you couldn't even be rejected in the first place. That fact alone detonates everything you said. But let's go on, shall we? 30% of women under 30 are single. 60% of men under 30 are single. Comparison? Yeah we do that. We have the statistical numbers to back us up. At this point you're down to saying that facts are misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:37 PM |
| 10 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.30% of women under 30 are single. 60% of men under 30 are single. That's not a casual sex thing at all. That's a relationship deficit problem. Women are seriously going for top ranked males. That's the only way you get numbers like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:34 PM |
| 9 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.Says the guy who clowns for women with posts like this. I stopped bothering with wanting empathy from women eons ago. Unlike you I learn from mistakes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:33 PM |
| 10 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.don’t ask for anyone to empathize with your experience either (men online are the ones asking for “empathy” for their dating woes. Because if he does empathize with women's problems, they'll empathize with men's- bwahahahahahahaha not ever happening y'all We did beg for empathy, and women told us to fuck off. OP is the bill for that come due. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:09 PM |
| 6 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.100% of all women's dating woes are even more self-inflicted than men's. Bring on those downvotes ladies, you know it's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Men need their own way out of romantic dependencyPost Gen-X men just need to be in a relationship to get out of romantic dependency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:05 PM |
| – | What is your advice to gen Z men ?People went to apps because we are lazy and wanted to find people without actually having to go out in to the world and put in effort. Since this is a flat out lie I am not giving it the time of day. And both men and women can push toxic masculinity. I never gendered my statement. It’s not always pushing unrealistic expectations on men. It’s saying that men aren’t men if they don’t fit into this mold of “what a man” is supposed to be. This is the same as unrealistic expectations. "Don't be sensi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:01 PM |
| 1 | What is your advice to gen Z men ?Have more no phone time. No phone friend hang outs. Don’t worry about being recorded and just do fun stupid shit. Go do things in the real world. Concerts. Festivals. Raves. Hikes. Meetups. Cooking classes. You don’t have to do drugs or drink but if you do, do it responsibly. All things we Gen-X'ers did to very poor effect. Which is what drove us to the apps. Toxic masculinity is telling a man how to be a man and if you aren’t like this or that you’re less than. Toxic masculinity - to be specifi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 01:36 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: What women-focused media to you engage with?Yup, it sure ain't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 11:39 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: What women-focused media to you engage with?Yeah not touching that with a 10 meter pole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 02:26 AM |
| 1 | [Repost - Discussion] What system is most likely to replace traditional monogamy in the long term? Open to all perspectivesIn 40 years we will fully be into "winner takes all" polygyny, and this country will go the way of every other country that allowed this at scale: a failed nation torn apart not by civil war but calcified male sexual apathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.No I'm not. Middle aged and fat women can be attractive, but that point was irrelevant to what was being discussed, which was the disproven claim that men love women for how attractive they are, not who they are. The two are not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 02:24 AM |
| – | What Are Women Doing to These Birds? Has the Gender War Gone Too Far?Anyone who says misandry isn't real is a straight up bigot and a minister of Newspeak. I think dialog with people who say that is a waste of time so see ya | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 01:48 AM |
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