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They just want to feel virtuous while actually hating doing that. Hence why so many men have just stopped dating. Most women are too toxic to get involved with!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 09:55 PM
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I found it a disgrace when Guy Bitchie - I mean, Guy Ritchie, sorry - bled Madonna for tens of millions when they got divorced. Dude's a movie maker. He could live off his own money. Though admittedly it was hilarious to see the Material Girl get ganked like that. Karma's a bitch lol! But still, he should have gotten nothing out of that divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 09:51 PM
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You've been offworld? Because that's the only place where it isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 09:47 PM
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What are you doing to them to make them act like that? That question only gets asked if the "insufferable and crazy" label is applied to women. Calling men inconsiderate, lazy or evil, or insufferable and crazy really doesn't matter, because anything you tag men with is seen as a character flaw. Men are pathologized by society, women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 09:46 PM
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This is in part because especially when young (and many never grow out of this), men genuinely believe all women are insufferable and crazy to some highish degree. They believe that's the cost of doing business and part of the whole lady thing. The hilarious part is that the world acts like it's awful when men think this way about women but okay when women think this way about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:25 PM
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How the world is, is that men are blamed for both their own dating failures and women's dating failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:22 PM
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Yes everyone knows that women give up after a few rejections. Human reproduction doesn't happen if men don't approach... which is why we're facing a demographic cliff, which I see as a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:21 PM
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It says they've approached women one or more times. Given the hostility women show men who do approach, "or more" is unlikely except by the men that women hate - the boundary violating types who don't give a damn if you want them pestering you or not. What y'all have out there now is a bunch of scatter-shotters who are utterly uninvested in whoever they're talking to. Enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:19 PM
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Not anymore. A study published on DatePsychology reports that almost 50% of young men between the ages of 18-25 said they have never approached women for dates in person. “In the entire dataset, 29% of men said they never approached a woman in person before. 27% said it had been more than one year. This was larger for men in the age 18-25 group: 45% had never approached a woman in person,” according to the study.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 09:49 AM
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Tons of married obese women and obese women with boyfriends out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 09:46 AM
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They should, but women don't even like men. Read what they say around here if you don't believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 06:51 AM
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That's how the world should be, it's not how the world is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 03:22 AM
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Wrong. Women are warlike just like men. Don't make me have to come back and squash your point with a procession of women leaders who went to war.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 03:17 AM
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Not true. Women have built megapolitan spacefaring cities and their civilizations are run by AI. LOL just kidding there is a matriarchal society today... the Musuo. They lived in mud huts until foreigners came and built up their homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 03:15 AM
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Yes they do. End of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 03:13 AM
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When women fail at dating, it's men's fault. When men fail at dating, it's men's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:22 AM
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We already perform a ton of emotional labor for women, starting from when we hide our fears and act unshakeably confident when approaching them to listening to her trauma dump on us every day about her issues with people and coworkers and customers, too. Then most men walk on eggshells to avoid setting her off about some random shit. Dudes work out conversations in their heads before talking to her just to be sure she doesn't misinterpret something and explode in his face. Men censor their opini…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:21 AM
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It is framed as a male-exclusive problem because the media and the feminist state like to portray men as losers. To talk about female loneliness breaks that narrative. Womengoodmenbad hurts women, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:17 AM
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That's because most women aren't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:45 PM
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It's more common than you think, men just don't call themselves MGTOW. A lot of men have quiet quitted dating entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:44 PM
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Lesbian relationships have an alarming rate of dead bedrooms. There's a common denominator here somewhere but I just can't put my finger on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 06:33 PM
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Don't gaslight me, that's exactly what I said. Take it or leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 06:32 PM
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No, I mean to state openly that if a physical threat is facing a couple, generally speaking the woman will run and leave the man behind to face it on his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 03:20 PM
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Bravery and disposability are the same thing. It makes a human being into a tool that gets used, broken, and tossed aside when it's no longer useful. A coward will run from battle and wait everyone out, then re-emerge after they're all dead. Men die fighting and women go fuck the survivors or the ones who avoided battle altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 01:53 AM
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Then have a nice day, I won't put up with your dishonest arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 01:51 AM
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Then have a nice day, I don't put up with your dishonest rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 01:51 AM
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The whole point of this OP is "men are trash."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 01:50 AM
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Confidence is the second gatekeeper behind looks. The rest are important after those two.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 01:49 AM
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It's no longer patriarchy at this point, it's just raw female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:14 AM
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Yes and no. Men have to have courage, courage for women is optional. It defines men as disposable, which compels upon them an inferior role. That is also a viable perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:13 AM
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For example, imagine both partners could contribute financially, divide housework and childcare based on availability and preference, take turns initiating dates and making plans, and support each other emotionally without either person being expected to be “the provider” or “the homemaker” simply because of their gender. Where is that planet at? I would send my teenaged son to school there yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 04:24 AM
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Ambition, Courage, Confidence, Charisma, Composure (challenge and self-control), Status, and Self-Esteem. No woman has ever dated a man lacking in confidence. Zero, zip, nada. If they did, they're not from this planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 04:23 AM
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Which proves that sexually speaking women have no moral center and explains why women become bitter, angry and hateful due to their shitty dating choices. Again you prove that men's complaints about women were right. We're done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 04:18 AM
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Still pushing that straw man. Men don't ask stupid questions like that and you admit it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 04:08 AM
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"isn’t something we can control" Literally every ruinous dating decision was preceded by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 04:06 AM
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Perfect straw man argument, well done, totally missed the point though. Also note you didn't deny women would exploit good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 04:04 AM
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The man you would call ideal is the kind of man that women exploit, not date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:11 AM
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Its not women’s fault that men refuse to ask “ how do I get my dick sucked within two seconds of a woman in my presence?”. Straw man. That's a stupid question, of course men refuse to ask something so idiotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:06 AM
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because we need to filter out bad partners. Icks are petty dislikes that drive women away more than red flags do, and that's why their dating lives suck so badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:05 AM
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Translation: moral character doesn't affect women's sexual attraction and OP just verified what we men have been saying for eons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:04 AM
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No, it's you, not me. See ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:03 AM
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It's a fucking giant cultural wave of women who hate sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:51 PM
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Ah yes, gendered terms and gender roles for men and liberation for women. The state of the female zeitgeist in one sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:05 PM
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The slang definition of parasite is someone who lives off other people's money, time, or kindness. That describes women who want the guy to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:04 PM
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Okay, now you're just making up already debunked lies. We're done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 04:13 PM
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Warren Farrell, the entire men's liberation movement is a side of the manosphere totally divorced from redpill, the far right, etc. And like I said, leftists and Democrats in the manosphere are distinct subsets equivalent to your examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:40 PM
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And the manosphere has leftists, Democrats and male feminists. All of them hold bad men accountable for their bad deeds against women. The different branches of feminism are Female Dating Strategy and misandrists. There is no branch of feminism that holds women accountable for the bad things they do to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:33 PM
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Or that the process of pairing with even a reciprocating match is too burdensome or humiliating for males in some way? Humiliating isn't even the word anymore. It's downright exploitational now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:30 PM
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obese 60 year old woman Plenty of them find men. Throw a rock outside at a senior care center, whoops you just hit one walking with a man!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:29 PM
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Like feminism, the manosphere is many things, some parts of it are opposed to other parts. Actually the manosphere is much more diverse than feminism in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:23 PM
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Okay at this point you're just making up pointless questions, have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:22 PM
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Plenty of the manosphere not only understand it but openly reject performative masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:17 PM
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high-fashion runway, commercial print.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:13 PM
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you haven't explained how that is a problem To answer both questions: women are losing leverage like crazy and they don't even see it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:12 PM
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Nothing. What's wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:11 PM
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We're both stay at home parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:10 PM
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Take women out of the picture and all those motivations flatline.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:09 PM
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Aside from the drop in men's testosterone levels, everything else you wrote fails to justify your point. How do you square the indisputable fact that at no point in human history has sex been so easily & readily available? For the top 10% of men, yes, and casual sex is largely fueled by the woman's alcohol use. Her consent is largely impaired. For the other 90% of men the investment of effort, time, & financial commitment has stayed the same. there was no reliable way to divorce the act of sex f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:08 PM
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Fuck 'em. Let them have their idea of what a man should do, they're trash anyway. Women of good character don't pull that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:03 PM
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Not when it comes to emotional vulnerability. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-male-friendship-experience/202509/the-strength-in-vulnerability-for-men Even mothers don't like boys who cry https://parents-together.org/study-suggests-mothers-might-have-gender-bias-about-boys-crying/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 01:20 PM
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I know what women say they want. Most of it is virtue signaling. They don't actually like it when they get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 07:28 AM
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From that link: So, three-quarters of women (74%) and nearly two-thirds of men (64%) in our survey reported they had not dated or dated only a few times in the last year. And only about half (51%) of these young adults expressed interest in even starting a relationship. a more productive way to think is- what are some new ways for women and men to relate to one another when the playing board of economics and needs has changed? That ship has sailed for good. We're heading into a permanent gender …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 07:27 AM
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You stay on the hamster wheel and get a bigger share all the low quality trash that's out there. Enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 07:25 AM
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Never in the history of our species has more than 10% of single hetero men been uninterested in chasing women. We are in unprecedented, uncharted territory at 39% in one study and a silent demographic crisis mode if it's closer to 50% as the second study implies. It also means women's gravy train and validation train are going off the rails.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 07:24 AM
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You read that wrong. https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles saying they’re not even looking. That trend shifts by age and gender: among singles under 40, men were more likely than women to say they’re not interested in dating, at 39% compared to 30% — a reversal of older age groups, where wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 07:22 AM
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LOL hell no. I never paid. I still had a passable amount of dates. I was never a Chad but I got by.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 07:19 AM
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He's an ex-con turned model.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 07:19 AM
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Looksmaxing would never have happened had he not popped up as that sexy ex-con who landed heiresses and won the hearts and tingles of countless women. All those incels want to have his face. Many who aren't incels would rather have his face than not. THAT is what created the fertile ground for the looksmaxing movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:04 AM
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Men aren't transactional. They certainly aren't materialistic. Men do all of those things you mentioned, and you haven't proven anything. Have a good day now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:02 AM
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If you call a human being a slug then you're a parasite, too, and shouldn't date at all. Or talk to men. So I'm ending this discussion and not talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:01 AM
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Hey if you want to drink that kind of metaphorical poison then have at it!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:00 AM
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Neither will you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:59 AM
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It is what it is. https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles saying they’re not even looking. That trend shifts by age and gender: among singles under 40, men were more likely than women to say they’re not interested in dating, at 39% compared to 30% — a reversal of older age groups, where women…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:59 AM
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There's enough men who go dutch that women are crying about it. And their numbers aren't shrinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:50 AM
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Jeremy Meeks is the guy who kicked off the looksmaxing movement. He is the earthquake who moved a generation. The guys who created the forums are just the reactionaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:49 AM
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No, men's problem is they don't wanna pay for the date, but they want women to be just as charmed and interested as if they had. Or at the very least, they want it to be a non factor. Pussy ain't all that important. A lot of men now are quitting dating entirely because of this attitude. If you have to shell out money for a woman to be interested and charmed, it's not you that's making her interested and charmed. But the problem is, you're breaking rank and you know it. And you're upset that doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:48 AM
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Dudes should be like "I'm going Dutch" and that's it. Let the parasites pass them by and the real women say hi.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:44 AM
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So how about women doing something that men actually want for once? Omigod the unabashed heresy. For real though, I can't believe that's such a revolutionary idea. That's why so many men are saying 'fuck it' to dating and are quitting. It's not even natural for so many men to just walk off like they're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:38 AM
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That one alpha looking ex-con whose name shall not be mentioned created the looksmaxing subculture. Clavicular just reacted to the catalyst.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:17 AM
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Then never get into an arrangement where the woman is doing all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:15 AM
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Women put in far less effort than men. That's why men are quitting dating for the first time in human history. https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles saying they’re not even looking. That trend shifts by age and gender: among singles under 40, men were more likely than women to say they’re n…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:14 AM
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Yes, I am from Earth. You push the pay for play, insert coin business model of dating. You want all the perks of traditional dating without any of the drawbacks. That's called exploitation. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:13 AM
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No deal. If she doesn't pay for his meal then she's signaling disinterest. Full stop, no backing down, no more women justifying their hypocrisy. Just dump them and move to the next woman. Or men can do what a lot have been doing - dump women altogether. https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:12 AM
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What you said was homophobic, and serious women pay equally into the date and invest equally. That's the end of this discussion because you have no counter argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:10 AM
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A woman who likes you will just as a man will pay her own way. That's what my wife did.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:09 AM
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LOL you feel beholden for no legitimate reason. You don't obey any social traditions that you don't want to, yet you want him to? That's not just transactional, that's just downright hypocritical. he problem is y'all type of men want no consequences for breaking rank. You mean, for doing what you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:08 AM
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No, women don't want to be an interchangeable fleshlight getting used as a place holder because to be with a woman any woman holds immense benefits. Then she can show proof of interest just as much as he does. Rules for me and thee.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:20 PM
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If she doesn't pay for his meal then she's signaling disinterest. How would you like that rule imposed on you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:18 PM
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If she doesn't treat him, it's guaranteed that she does not like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:17 PM
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Better single than with women who don't invest in their dates but expect men to spend all the money on her. This thread is full of a bunch of entitled, selfish women, definitely not people men should want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:16 PM
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So women want transactional relationships: pay to play. This is proof that women who don't pay aren't interested in men and should be avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:11 PM
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Sorry you don't see it, it's there. I'll leave you with that, have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:09 PM
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Yeah men feel the same way, too. That's not normal. That means the system is truly, irretrievably broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:08 PM
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The ones who do care are online. But upstream I showed you stats on men who aren't even looking to date anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:07 PM
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And in today's top news, water is wet...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:05 PM
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Men aren't just complaining about being betrayed for showing emotions, they're outright quitting women en masse. https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles saying they’re not even looking. That trend shifts by age and gender: among singles under 40, men were more likely than women to say they’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:04 PM
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Plenty of men are successfully going dutch though. The cage is open, men just need to walk off the gender plantation. Women can't stop us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:02 PM
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The day is already here that lots of younger men don't care if women don't even exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:01 PM
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Why would he do that when there are plenty of women who feel like he does? Also nice homophobic insult there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:52 PM
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She did call him gay. It wasn't a suggestion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:51 PM
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Most men are still gonna pay unfortunately. Not true. A lot of men have just decided not to date at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:34 PM
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Flexibility is what leads to exploitation of men. I got better than great by filtering out these pay-to-play leeches.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:32 PM
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Limiting the definition of womanhood to Conservative ideals... nice misogynistic rhetoric there, coming from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:31 PM
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I want someone that feels ultimately beholden to certain social traditions even if they don't particularly enjoy it. Meanwhile you don't feel ultimately beholden to certain social traditions that you don't like. The relationship you want is one in which he will deeply resent you. Also: you have just endorsed a transactional relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:26 PM
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and I bring softness and care. Insert lots of coins or get no softness or care? Nah being single and lonely is more dignified than pay-to-play.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:24 PM
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If you deep dive, it is a complex issue. I think by filtering out women who want the guy to pay at first you could also be filtering out a lot of great women. Women who want the guy to pay at first are by definition parasites and are not great women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:22 PM
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Then prepare to go boy sober and quit dating. Men now want women to equally invest in them. And a lot of men won't settle for less. They'd rather just not date. https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles saying they’re not even looking. That trend shifts by age and gender: among singles under 40…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:19 PM
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That's raw delusion. We don't invest in women anymore that don't equally invest in us. More men are QUITTING dating entirely than paying for women. https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles saying they’re not even looking. That trend shifts by age and gender: among singles under 40, men were mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:18 PM
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No one can see that except people who make it up in their heads. This argument is settled right here. We're done.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:16 PM
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Wear a helmet for when you hit that reality check at the speed you're going lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:15 PM
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men DO say both things and your proof is muhfeelz. I'll leave you to your fantasies, 'k?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:14 PM
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Having a one night stand with someone else is not that much effort. Yes if you're highly attractive and have a lot of charisma, otherwise killing Smaug with a pencil is easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:07 PM
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No they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:33 AM
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but you're only choosing to believe one perspective But I thought that was okay since women and especially feminists only believe one perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:32 AM
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Men don't say both things. Feminists do, so that's not a goomba fallacy. Though you are doing the no true scotsman thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:30 AM
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Women don't value men for having a high partner count but they damned sure as hell will weaponize a man's zero partner count against him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 03:51 AM
-1

Wait didn't feminists say men don't want ugly or fat women yesterday? Oh yeah that's Thursday. Today's narrative is men will bang almost any woman. Gotcha!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 03:48 AM
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OMG no! not poorly worded!! oh god no the poor men!!!! LOL the feminist movement in general, summarized: "OMG no! Let's not be mature and logical adults, let's make feminism look like a bunch of angry toddler girl-children throwing a collective temper tantrum! Wait, why does our movement have such a bad reputation?! WTF how dare they!" We're done here, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 03:47 AM
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Like I said, far too many men have the same tales of running into this in their relationships to be lying. 50 million Frenchmen and all that. Go take a look at r/askmen if you think this is wrong. That's just one verifiable source for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:35 AM
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I'm talking about the poorly worded phrase. "Believe women" was poorly worded. I just offered the substitution of the first word with an alternative first word to show you the error in the wording of "believe women." Combined with "men are predators" this exposes a huge Motte-Bailey strategy that is inherent in feminist propaganda. It's not even a fallacy, it's an outright narrative strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:34 AM
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Let's say instead of "believe women", someone said "scam women." How would you take that? Scam some women, or scam them all?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:01 AM
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I don't think MeToo was a huge problem. Aziz Ansari was a case of MeToo abuse but women got snared by that shit, too. I run a business with my wife and I certainly as hell don't fear working with women. Colleges fucked around by not granting accused men due process and they found out the hard way when men started suing colleges and winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 11:58 PM
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you think my relationship is an exception, and usually when men are emotionally intelligent women cheat on them? I think your relationship is an exception and women don't all cheat on men who do things like cry over a dead pet, they just get the ick and the relationship withers off the vine. Most women don't like weakness. Far too many men have the same tales of running into this in their relationships to be lying. 50 million Frenchmen and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 11:55 PM
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What are you supposed to say? The same thing you want men to say when you say men are trash or you choose bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 04:01 PM
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That's like saying "Well I and my friends drink and drive and never get in an accident!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 07:42 AM
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Women who say they want more emotionally literate men are virtue signaling. The fact is when a man does show more emotional intelligence she betrays him. Can't beat biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 05:12 AM
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I'd absolutely say something because they'd break marriage vows. So it's a racket. He marries the woman, she dead bedrooms him, and expects him to stay married to her? No wonder so many men are turning marriage down entirely. Women are removing their mask to reveal their asexual reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 05:11 AM
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Marriage is the most reliable predictor for a man not pushing himself so hard anymore. Of course it could also be the demands of being a parent. Can't do rabid overtime if you want to be a decent, present father.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 05:09 AM
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For starters… I think men care just as much about status as women. A lot of guys want to win the race or be the star athlete or something of that nature. Lots of fronting and dick waving machismo the larger the group of homies are. If women didn't exit men wouldn't care about that. They only care about status when they're competing for women. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:07 PM
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Oh my God, women today. Then don't say anything when he is married to you and finds someone else to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:05 PM
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Way to go, making marriage utterly pointless for men. Men aren't entitled to sex, but your tone screams "Dead bedroom" energy and men will flee that like leprosy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 03:20 AM
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WTF this shit again? All you gotta do is say ahead of time that we're splitting the check. The parasite women will drop off and find another mark to exploit. Is that a big loss for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 03:17 AM
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Why do men even have to justify why they don't approach women? Explain that to me please?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:49 PM
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And this is why men stopped approaching women right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:48 PM
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Lady, at this point we're well beyond having to justify why we don't approach women. We don't have to, the answer is all of the above, or it is zero, it doesn't matter. But since the mods DEMAND "content" in a response I'll put something out there: constant "no"'s wear a man's self esteem down and men are tired of it. Women never endure this. The asymmetry is beyond tiresome, it is mentally grinding men down. But we don't need your approval to not approach women. We just don't, and there's nothi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:47 PM
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Male to male is still not the same thing as male to female conversations though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:44 PM
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The post has been falsely flagged as AI. Don't worry about attributing me, just spread it around please.
/r/MensRights03/08/26 01:27 PM
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You're welcome, this post has been falsely flagged as AI, so please spread it outside the subreddit.
/r/MensRights03/08/26 01:27 PM
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I mean, this is what George Orwell warned about in 1984, lol!
/r/MensRights03/08/26 01:26 PM
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Yes, it's based on the politics of gender revenge.
/r/MensRights03/08/26 01:25 PM
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That’s the way society expects women to act. You better be dainty, polite submissive and quiet, never lie, don’t think about sex, don’t do anything that will make you “dirty”. Women don't do that anymore and almost universally get away with not doing it. Men want to believe in purity culture and get pissed off when women turn out to be human beings and not NPC sex dolls Conservative men believe in purity culture and find themselves with no women to date. The world is moving on without them. Boys…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:25 PM
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Thanks, but now I'm being accused of using AI to write my post lol!
/r/MensRights03/08/26 01:22 PM
1

Scientifically that's utterly wrong.
/r/MensRights03/08/26 01:20 PM
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Hello, I strictly wrote this by hand.
/r/MensRights03/08/26 01:20 PM
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I did not use AI to write this. Where did you get that from?
/r/MensRights03/08/26 01:19 PM
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If you get hit by a car as a kid and are disabled for life, your logic says it's your fault. If no one is helping you then we don't live in a society, we live in a jungle. Your alpha lone wolf posturing is fake and it has no connection to reality. And since you're downvoting my posts in violation of subreddit rules that's the end of this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:18 PM
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More just world fallacy nonsense. You can be the most perfect person in the world but if 99 others are crapping in the punch bowl the system is going to enshittify your life regardless and there's fuck all you'll be able to do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 03:46 AM
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While there will still be women who refuse to submit, We don't need women to submit. That's the opposite problem right there. We just need actual equality, not this virtue signaling fake crap that feminism is promoting.
/r/MensRights02/08/26 05:38 PM
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but because they really care about equality the bailey - securing special privileges - they are not. They don't care about equality. They care about securing dominance.
/r/MensRights02/08/26 05:35 PM
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AOC is Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, the U.S. representative for New York's 14th congressional district. The Squad: The Squad was initially composed of four members elected in the 2018 United States House of Representatives elections: Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez of New York, Ilhan Omar of Minnesota, Ayanna Pressley of Massachusetts, and Rashida Tlaib of Michigan.[6] The grouping expanded to six following the 2020 United States House of Representatives elections, with newly elected Jamaal Bowman of New …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:11 PM
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We're doing it now. The manosphere is far bigger than the MSM gives it credit for and manosphere media has stripped TV of its dominance for male eyes. The far right is even deriving its power from parasiting off the men's rights movement.
/r/MensRights02/08/26 05:09 PM
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Women both depict themselves as morally superior to men and say don't pedestalize them. Quantum computers don't even superposition that well!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:53 PM
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ONS is a short term gain for a man, but a giant leap backward for men as a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:51 PM
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Oh so that's why we have AOC and The Squad (whom I'd vote for if they were in my district)?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:49 PM
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Women panic at criticism by hiding in moderated forums, lol, give me a break. Go find some self-hating male feminist simp to peddle this to, I have no tolerance for misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:48 PM
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Yes I did, and no it wasn't debunked, it still stands as unchallenged fact. In fact it's so solidly settled fact that I'm not even bothering to give this junk science they call a "rebuttal" any further time of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:46 PM
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Neither can women. We're done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:45 PM
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The British navy still employed privateers when it was the greatest naval power in the world — sinking another country’s merchant fleet with your navy is a great way to start a war (see Germany’s unrestricted submarine warfare) That doesn't show that Rome's high male non-compliance rate drove its need for mercenaries. If anything the British Navy probably had the same problem. They were stealing American sailors in the 19th century. That signals a manpower shortage. Civil wars caused by repeated…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:44 PM
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There's no basis for saying that contradicts the Chad explanation for why fewer women are single than men. And the IFS report even admits women date outside their age group. That explains a lot right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:41 PM
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Women will burn their lives down - and his - hoping for that ontologically rare guy who can be both unshakeably confident and open at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:38 PM
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But then women see the top 10% of men as baseline. Below that every man's score is 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:03 PM
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Honestly, that sounds like a bunch of men overestimating their looks. If that had even the barest shred of credibility the looksmaxxing movement wouldn't be the steamrolling juggernaut that it is today.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:01 PM
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That's a low credibility source compared against pew, might as well compare Alex Jones to Associated Press.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:00 PM
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The 2+/10 women are doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:58 PM
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Hell, that's new. Someone said that to me and in 12 hours their profile was blocked by a banned notice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:58 PM
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You should report it to the Reddit admins, not the mods. Telling someone to kill themselves is siteban territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:55 PM
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Gender dysmorphia is not a mental illness. Full stop. That's why what you said is hate speech. End of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:54 PM
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It's not the full description. It ignores the existence of women in power and what they do when they have power.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:53 PM
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You mean your confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:53 PM
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Any time a man does any kind of approach, he has given up all his leverage and bargaining power for good. She owns his puppet strings forevermore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:42 PM
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That's like calling Elon Musk a poor peasant. Sheer category error in effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:41 PM
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Same here. By a formerly active user a while back. Reddit admins handled that shit in a hurry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:40 PM
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Vetting? Kweens don't need no steenking vetting!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:38 PM
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We already know women don't care about us. We're starting to catch up with them on that. But you no longer can claim your argument isn't hypocritical and that's a loss for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:37 PM
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Unless you need to bypass some international scrutiny (privateering) or need some skills from abroad (horse archery, slinging, longbows, etc) or need more rapid support in distant lands That's a long way of saying insufficient. Well and a bunch of those men dying from plague and constant civil war… A civil war your dream society would have caused.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:35 PM
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Your comment is straight up in the realm of hate speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:34 PM
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Most of the men here behave like this guy? And you got this "fact" from where?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:32 PM
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Patriarchy isn't the source of power dynamics. You put women in charge, you get the same problem. Which makes patriarchy the subset of your problems. Patriarchy is an incomplete look at what ails humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:29 PM
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What I said is true. As ye judge, so shall ye automatically be judged. I don't care about your whataboutism. I'll just keep pointing out your side's hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:33 AM
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Trans people are literally mentally ill according to the DSM5. Speaking as a CIS dude who only ever wanted to date CIS women Arbitrary DSM5 can go fuck itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:31 AM
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Find other arguments than sperm quality, let’s make this interesting? How about men's lives fucking matter, too, and any universe that kills off men before their partner reaches menopause should be ended by a vacuum decay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:25 AM
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Irrelevant. Your plan calls for 20something women dating only 30something men. That plan dies in rebellion, full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:23 AM
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Most women cannot and do not handle criticism without crying victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:22 AM
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Here we go again. Men are trash, but not all women are like that. The anti-male beat never ends around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:09 AM
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LOL and y'all women are judging all of us by the acts of some. Do you not see the hypocrisy here?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:08 AM
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This is a flatly wrong post. Men don't want to be adored because they're not abusers. Men want male feminists and women to stop demonizing them when they've abused no one at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:06 AM
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Coupling men and women in the same age range in the education system is not a mistake, and your reasons have no basis in fact, especially the unbalanced society part. Paternal age over 30 slightly increases risks for certain genetic conditions. Women do not want such age differences. You would have to force women to do that. You'd earn yourself a nasty civil war over that. There's a lot more errors in your thinking but that right there brings it all to a deadly halt. Game over when the women dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:05 AM
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There is no wall for women as long as the male sex drive is as high as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 12:59 AM
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No need to tell them, and I disagree that threatening women would result in anything worth while even if it did work. They'd be fucking men to keep the birth rate up, not because they liked the men. Things are just going to collapse regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 12:59 AM
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It doesn't have to appeal to women. Modern civilization will fall and be replaced. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:46 PM
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It's not the only power dynamic. Rich women aren't patriarchy and they have extreme power dynamic over working class men. Plenty of women leaders sent men to war.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:45 PM
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You can throw a rock out your window in any random direction and see all those kinds of women with men on their arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:44 PM
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I mean, none of what you said has any basis in fact. You're just spouting junk science at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:43 PM
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Here ya go: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Late_Roman_army Ultimately, the army degenerated into just a collection of foreign mercenary bands that were incapable of defending the empire effectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:42 PM
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I said men, for the most part. You didn't read that? Typical female. We're done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:40 PM
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Hooray for consent culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:40 PM
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You're intentionally dishonest and obtuse. Nothing I said mentioned just sex. I demand you show where I did. But nah you'll just say "I don't have to, na nana boo boo." And we don't care how women view us anymore, either. https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles saying they’re not even looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:39 PM
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Men have to act unshakeably confident with women and then women want them to be emotionally open later. The whiplash effect. LOL men learn straight off that emotional openness is souldeath. Women sabotage themselves right from jump!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:10 PM
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Women are born with cheat codes. If they can't hack it in the dating scene they've failed extra, extra, extra hard. It takes a profoundly low value woman to hit that kind of rock bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:54 PM
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Imagine being so dumb that one is that mesmerized by looks. My experience back in my single years with Stacy was one of me wanting out and swearing never to chase that bullshit ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:41 PM
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I've been poly for over a decade. My entire adult life. It's the best. Then again. I personally view monogamy as sexual slavery and against human nature. Sooo yeah. Oh, I see, we have a total lack of common ground about values. Well then, have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:38 PM
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So your problem ain't patriarchy or men, it's power dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:37 PM
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But you asked "what exactly is there to love about maleness?" You wouldn't ask that question about "femaleness."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:37 PM
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If we start drafting men for Iran this country will die in a civil war. If you try to take away women to motivate men to go, they'll just abandon women. Abandoning women is absolutely literally what is going on now. https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles saying they’re not even looking. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:08 PM
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It's deduction. No country hires mercenaries unless their standing army is insufficient. An insufficient army is automatically the result of a recruitment problem. Which in Rome's case was a failure to conscript enough men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:06 PM
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Sex isn't required, or a right. No one has a right to anyone. By any means whatsoever. Human beings are more than objects for use or breeding, etc. Then is it okay for the man to go elsewhere for sex if he can't expect to have any in his marriage? Or maybe men should just go girlsober and ditch women entirely. Do like women are doing with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:04 PM
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If women had more power they would be predators more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:03 PM
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I disagree with you that the entire system crusade against evildoers for women but treats men as infrastructure. Do we protect women more? It is because it is usually necessary. https://www.mprnews.org/story/2015/01/14/study-1-in-3-men-ok-raping-if-its-not-called-rape As well, when you protect women, you are often protecting children too. However, the Asian abortion rate for females shows how we can be valued in families; we are viewed as less worthy than males. Asia is not America and they're g…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:02 PM
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Same reason you love your mother for being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:52 PM
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As I said, it would be the same if someone asked you about the movie you consider shit. You would also say the same exact thing. I would have specific things to say. You don't. What's wrong with me saying that? Is the plot of the movie irrelevant? Is pacing irrelevant? Is bombarding the audience with characters you know nothing about, expecting them to know full history, irrelevant? The last part actually annoyed me the most. They have to introduce these characters somewhere. You just wanted to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:51 PM
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And this exonerates women exactly how?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:56 PM
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You can have all of that with a friend. There'd be no need for a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:55 PM
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Conscription resistance by men overwhelmed Rome. It is what forced them to hire the very foreign mercenaries that sacked Rome.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:54 PM
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No modern society operates like your fantasy and no civilization has lasted long doing so, except some tiny tribes. Your blueprint is a plan for rapid civilizational collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:30 PM
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Because it was shit. Translation: "because I said so." The plot is shit, the pacing is shit You say you saw the movie and yet you say that? You probably never heard of that movie because it goes completely against your narrative. I was waiting for you to drag that one in. As long as the two leads were MALE, y'all were all in. Manbabies walked off after the lead actor died and they put Shuri in to share the limelight with Namor. The second movie's ratings suffered because of the temper mantrum ef…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:28 PM
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And this one says sexual predation by women is common.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:14 PM
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First of all, war is a failure event for society. Second of all, we can't do that now, because in this world we have this thing called nuclear weapons that can get launched if the wrong combination of nations go to war. Or more commonly we go to war with a nation without nukes and they tie up the entire world's commerce by disrupting resources or outright blocking shipping lanes for all the world's resources War has hugely negative consequences that overwhelmingly counter your fantasies about wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:11 PM
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None of the males in my family are disposable and I have a fair amount. I would not like to live my life without any of them. I know I love my son and I would die for him. The people who do this to infants and children are often sick or so twisted that they should never leave prison. They should, but quite a few mothers who murder their kids get to avoid prison time. Andrea Yates for one, and Dena Schlosser, do yourself a favor and do not look her up. That's the deeper problem - when women do it…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:57 PM
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Oh don't try to gaslight me here. He wouldn't be paying if there wasn't an expectation that he does so. If men didn't have to be shamed into paying there wouldn't be a "sprinkle, sprinkle" movement among women. But thankfully a lot of men are going Dutch and a lot of women are, too, which has broken the cartel of women who won't accept equality. Which is to say, requiring men to pay for her meal on a date is... outdated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:39 PM
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Years ago I asked a girl out on a date. She turned me down and, not wanting to be coercive, I didn't ask again. A while later she contacted me, asking why we never went on that date. Apparently her no wasn't really a no and it was just my cue to show effort and keep asking until she said yes. Please tell me you told her to fuck off. All men should do that to a woman who behaves like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:38 AM
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Then she shouldn't be mad if he leaves her instead of pestering her. But I for one think the male sex drive should just be reduced by 90% so men's libido is the same as women's. He'll statistically ask as much as she'll consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:35 AM
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Why would man try to game it to have sex with a woman that doesn't want him, but somehow was tricked into formal consenting? Jail is irrelevant here. If he has to "game it" in order to have sex, the relationship should be abandoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:31 AM
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??? Then why should a man even get into a relationship? Just be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:30 AM
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LOL the man asks once, she says no, he doesn't try again. BAM she's complaining about a dead bedroom on reddit a few years later! Personally I wish men's sex drives were reduced by 90%.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:29 AM
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The first link can't be reached. The second link only spoke of a catastrophe 8000 years ago and said nothing about an age difference between men and women when they mate. The third mentioned the Sami culture, not worldwide statistics. This post makes bogus claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:26 AM
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Because excess unmarried young males either tear the system apart or they utterly check out. It's literally what destroyed Rome.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:21 AM
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Nah they didn't. Because the CDC openly separates made to penetrate from rape statistics. Rape is defined Rape by the CDC as any completed or attempted unwanted vaginal, oral, or anal penetration of the victim using physical force, threats, or when the victim is unable to consent (for instance, when they're intoxicated or passed out). made to penetrate is defined as times when a victim is physically forced, threatened, or unable to consent, and is made to sexually penetrate someone else with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:18 AM
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I'm talking about how women have freed themselves from gender roles in dating and refuse to let men be freed from them. This is the moral failure known as hypocrisy. The hypocrisy is driven by the fact that dating is little more than an extraction economy that parasites off of men financially and emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:14 AM
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You really want to use Taint to try to prove men are held accountable? It wasn’t other men holding him accountable; it was the justice system. And who runs the justice system? Who made those laws? Men, for the most part. Who went after him? Wanna guess? I think you are intentionally distorting facts here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:11 AM
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First of all the amount of filicide by mothers against children, particularly sons, is bad enough. There is no chromosomal or hormonal cause for male violence. Male violence is caused because males are treated as disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:09 AM
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I truly think I'd have ruined my liver by now by that which would goeth into the mouth if I liked the taste of alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:06 AM
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it means that no one (men or women) likes it. Men or women? That part's untrue. You anti-woke guys never come out like this to rage at all-white male dominated movies. That is a dead give away for the racist and sexist mentality of the anti-woke movement. So you are claiming that almost 50 years ago (and onward) people were more open to strong female characters than they are today? Maybe you should change your handle to BrainDamage. How about changing yours to manstericalfit? I don't tolerate yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:04 AM
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Speaking about being mad about something: Nothing wrong with Marvels other than it being utter shit. "It was utter shit because, uh, well, uh, REASONS!!!" EVERYBODY WAS RAVING ABOUT IT, ALL THE MANBABIES AND EVERYONE ELSE LOVED IT! LOL the manbabies didn't even attend it. You answered the conundrum yourself. They aren't mad that it's woke. They are mad that it's too woke. Because the general observable trend is more woke = more shit. Something can be a bit woke, but the more woke you cram in, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:02 AM
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You don't love the fact of how he was born? You act like being a man is some kind of moral defect. Then you can't truly love your father.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:58 AM
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The truth is woman bashing, eh? But you'll happily engage in male bashing by implying men are emotionally stunted instead of admitting women have a part in this. The women on this subreddit would starve to death without their endless diet of harping on bad male examples. You just can't stand the idea that women can be just as bad. The hypocrisy is utterly boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:56 AM
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Check the askmen subreddit. It is rife with testimonies of seeing their partners ick out over shit like mourning a lost pet. Seen that myself in real life. Most of the time women saying they want "emotional intelligence" is virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:09 PM
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I said incel mass murders... this means incel mass murderers, not all men are evil. However, men have a propensity for violence. Are women sweet little angels? Not a chance but we have less of a propensity for violence. This is reality. Women have less of a propensity for violence against those stronger than them, not weaker than them. The problem isn't patriarchy, it's power dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:04 AM
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Except for those of us whose exit plan from our relationship is to step into the void and never return to the dating scene. I will never encounter a woman of the quality of my wife again, not in this day and age. If I get divorced, I'm in my 50s. I can afford to just run out the clock on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:03 AM
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Well, it is equality, right? The whole "if I don't have to, why should I?" is in this context a basic human decency issue. It's called the woman sharing the burden instead of leaving the man to shoulder all the risk and burden of courtship. Maybe more men should just write women off than already have? Which, mind you, is no longer a trivial number.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:01 AM
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The CDC limits its tracking of "rape" to situations where a perpetrator penetrates a victim (either by force or through drug/alcohol facilitation). "Made to penetrate" is not part of that description. It is not included in rape statistics. I can only point to its absence. Analogy: I cannot point to a void in the sky and say anything except there are no stars in that void. If you find that it is present, please show proof of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:59 AM
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I must have been distracted by something when I wrote that. I meant to say ask Andrew Tate how little men hold each other accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:57 AM
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That sentence is an outright contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:55 AM
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If you have to ask such a hateful question then perhaps you should just avoid people that you can't imagine loving. We men would be better off without people who think that about us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:53 AM
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Like I said, hat's off to ya for swimming upstream like that. Women tend to have better luck by approaching. https://www.the-independent.com/life-style/love-sex/women-first-move-men-love-lucky-success-relationship-study-a8220701.html
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:09 PM
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Miscreants gonna miscreant. We have police, you know. Our jails are bulging with deadbeat dads, rapists, wife beaters and so on. Andrew Tate can tell you how that little men hold each other accountable: he's desperately fighting extradition to the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:08 PM
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That cite is for England. Mine was for the USA, which means both can be true. But your claim about men being so evil is still strongly diluted by nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:07 PM
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Men who self-report being forced to penetrate are not recorded by the CDC!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:19 PM
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There was absolutely nothing wrong with the Marvels, which got panned by the manbabies. Kill Bill wouldn't do so well anymore. Manbabies got mad at Star Trek for being too woke. Star Trek literally is the father of woke TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:18 PM
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Have you ever approached a man? If so, then nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:16 PM
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I never heard of her until I came to this sub. If this had been gender-flipped it would be a national security crisis. The man who wrote the genderflip would be bin Laden'd overnight. Valerie Solanas literally wrote the feminist version of "Turner Diaries." Her supporters included, but not limited to: Ti-Grace Atkinson: the New York chapter president of the National Organization for Women (NOW) at the time. Florynce Kennedy: A prominent radical feminist lawyer and civil rights activist at the ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:16 PM
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Because she believes in equality, that's why. But hey why ever be a decent person if you don't have to? Do you really want to go down that road?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:59 PM
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Fucking alcohol. It's literally a poison. I've gone my whole life without a full drink of alcohol and I'm fine. Of course, I've sipped alcohol and find it disgusting in every form imaginable. TBH if I loved the taste of alcohol... um... okay, thank God Almighty that I hate the taste of alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:31 PM
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Put it in your profile that you go dutch. Filter out the trash-ass women. They're parasites, you'd be better off without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:28 PM
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That's an absolute classic display of double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:21 PM
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And don't forget The Boys. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:17 PM
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two out of four MCU films (co-)directed by women rank among the five lowest-grossing movies in the franchise; That's because angry man-babies boycott any show with women in any kind of prominent role. The Alien series would be shitcanned today because of Ripley, where she used to be quite popular with male viewers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:17 PM
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There's too many fat women out there for that to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:13 PM
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Not true. The rape statistics by the CDC don't count men who are forced to penetrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:12 PM
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It's always about gender roles when it comes to approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:10 PM
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Ah, the classic Motte-Bailey game. "We have a problem with MEN, not assigned male at birth." The Motte: we mean we have a problem with misogyny and patriarchy. The Bailey: We have a problem with Men. AKA we used the most fucking incendiary terminology imaginable and then we gaslight the men by saying "we said men but we really don't mean men". Classic Newspeak. If feminists weren't trying to be incendiary they would have said "we have a problem with Patriarchy." But nahhhhhh, they had to be adve…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:08 PM
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Intelligent men stand almost no chance against aesthetically superior men in the dating scene. You don't go to Caltech or MIT if you are a man and want to date. You can kiss that goodbye at the very least during your educational years, and in many cases far beyond.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:56 PM
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Men would be wise to abandon heroism and stick to the intellectual curiosity thing. The latter aspect is far better for a man's health than the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:35 PM
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(non-romantic) love for males? What are we, aliens? Because that's the only way that's ever happening on this planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:33 PM
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Telling facts is big mad? You can't refute me. You just make up lies and counterargue in bad faith, so you won't be wasting my time anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:32 PM
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Like everybody else? Go out and touch grass. And while you're at it, close your eyes and blindly throw a rock. Oops, you just hit a married fat woman or a fat woman on a date. Proof that men aren't as hooked on looks as feminists like to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:25 PM
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Feminism is a giant Motte-Bailey movement. All it does is hurl anti-male narratives, weaponize narratives to pathologize men, and gaslight people by saying it's about equality. And yes your anti-male antics are out there for the world to see. Except I'm not seeing your responses because you are all-in on bad faith responses. Inbox replies are now turned off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:23 PM
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Feminists don't care about that issue at all, except to weaponize it against men. If I was wrong then women who rape would also get attention and they don't. Not even when they do it to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:15 PM
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They don't do that with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:13 PM
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I love it when women want freedom from gender roles but don't want men to be free from them, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:13 PM
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I do not know one woman who wants men exterminated. All the women who said #KillAllMen Valerie Solanas and all the women who lauded her SCUM Manifesto All the women authors who write stories about worlds without men for starters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:05 PM
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Most men hold each other accountable. Your statement can't apply to anyone but Red Pillers, whom most men hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:04 PM
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I don't vomit anything at all, I only speak facts. You're the one throwing an angry fit because your points are baseless. You're the one wasting my time with your tantrum fits. Yes, feminists are the problem and yes, that's why you're getting all this pushback from men. No, we don't want to have sex with women who don't want us. That's a malicious made-up lie and you know it. All you do is make up lies. So go find someone else to falsely accuse, it ain't gonna be me and I won't tolerate that. Se…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:03 PM
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This wild eyed rant right here is why men are better off being rejected. It's better for their peace of mind. Yeah, you've been hurt badly, lady. You had to, to come at me with this kind of twisted garbage. Find someone to talk to, it won't be me anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:58 PM
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Why should men bother at all then? Women don't approach. Why should we?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:57 PM
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Yes, and what I said was flawless factual truth. You can't refute me so you threw this angry fit. So goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:56 PM
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No, I am factually correct. You can't refute me so here you are throwing a tantrum. We're done here. Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:54 PM
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Everything is misogyny to you. I checked your posts and the anti-male posts? Yuck. Good riddance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:53 PM
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The Duluth Model of Domestic Violence says this, just for one institutional example. It says women's domestic violence against men is trivial. Literally the entire concept of "punching up" is this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:22 AM
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My side ain't the one saying KillAllWomen. But Killallmen, SCUM manifesto and endless lists abound of female-written sci-fi fantasies about men being exterminated. Women don't just have a history of broadbrushing men. They have a history of broadbrushing us and wanting us fucking exterminated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:21 AM
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Maybe women can learn to be less passive, too. Oh wait...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:21 AM
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We can say the same thing about the manosphere. They just arrested Andrew Tate and his brother. If you are red pill are you automatically supporting them? I hate the likes of Andrew Tate. I'm not a redpiller. This is the definition of feminism from the UN women: "Feminism is a social, political, and ideological movement dedicated to achieving equal rights and opportunities for all genders. It works to dismantle systemic inequalities, challenge traditional gender roles, and eliminate discriminati…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:20 AM
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Yes and most men do. Red Pillers are hated by most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:18 AM
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It directs domestic violence policy to this very day!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:17 AM
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Y'all can't even bring yourselves to refrain from cheering domestic violence against men on national TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:16 AM
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I really don't think men would be happy with having to constantly entertain small talk with a slew of men all really wanting to fuck them Yet again your argument fails because of category error. Male to male vs male to female are not the same thing. There's a difference between a man making the first move and constantly being talked to by strangers in your daily life. Imagine having to deal with constant bids of small talk that always end up with someone wanting something from you. And that's wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:26 PM
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lol all red pill does is try to sex up these parasites. have at it y'all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:25 PM
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Better a stalemate than getting exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:24 PM
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And if you had any reading skills you'd have understood what I said when I said women who can't speak up are an emotional labor burden for men. You can talk to yourself now since you decided to backtalk me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:23 PM
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OP is describing tradcon men. Tradcon culture is trash culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:36 PM
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Which "manly" characteristics are these?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:34 PM
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Meanwhile, women aren't the ones trying to overturn elections. OP doesn't know about the women Republicans lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:32 PM
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Your little misandrist echo chamber has you thinking men don't see quiet and submissive women as exhausting. Good day. I don't talk to people who hurl around "misogyny" with zero basis in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:31 PM
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Quiet and submissive women are fucking exhausting to a ton of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:30 PM
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Yes they did. End of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:29 PM
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For one example the Duluth Model of Domestic Violence, the framework of US domestic violence law. It says domestic violence against men is trivial, especially by women. That's a giant fuck-you to accountability right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:29 PM
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Men didn't have to create a justice system to lock up domestic abusers or rapists. Men chose to, because they're not fucking psychopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:27 PM
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Fewer men are hypocrites about this than women. I just said they'd choose boysober over weak and shy guys. What's so controversial about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:27 PM
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Really now, glad you should mention that. Our prisons are full of men being held accountable for their actions. Wanna guess who's the majority of who put them there?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:23 PM
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Okay good point. There's a lot of women out there who don't mind nervous or anxious men. We could almost fill a phone booth with their sheer numbers! Seriously, though, that ain't much of a population size right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:22 PM
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Okay so why should men do what women won't? Ain't anyone interested in asymmetry anymore. That's why so many men are walking off the gender plantation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:53 PM
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I don't think the number of men who have a problem with outspoken women is all that high.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:52 PM
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Where has traditional feminism said doing bad and anti-social things to men was wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:51 PM
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You're almost at 1%. And the fact remains that y'all women are eating your own wounded by keeping a lid on your own collective suffering. You won't even dare challenge me on that. I'm going to keep hammering you on this until you respond to it. And I can be highly relentless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:50 PM
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??? So then why do y'all get upset when dudes talk about rizzmaxxing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:54 PM
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Men wouldn't also want men c Utter and absolute category error. Male to male vs male to female are not the same thing. And, I mean, seriously, 74% of women want men to make the first move. Y'all won't even get off your ass to talk to a man. So if we don't make the first move, humanity goes extinct. Maybe that's a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:51 PM
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It's almost nothing but women doing it. And the fact remains that y'all women are eating your own wounded by keeping a lid on your own collective suffering. You won't even dare challenge me on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:49 PM
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Okay, and? He's not the only one to do that. The fact remains unchallenged that women are weaponizing this and don't want the world to know they have the same damned problem because it makes y'all look just as bad. You all would hate to have us rubbing your noses in it the way you do us. Hence the media blackout.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:18 PM
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"It's called punching up!" - feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:03 AM
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The problem is when women do it, other women don't hold them accountable. They think it's "punching up" at the "oppressor class."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:49 AM
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Women are capable of doing bad things. Feminists say that's okay because men as a class are oppressors and it's a response to systemic misogyny. And that's why feminism is morally bankrupt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:44 AM
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If you try consistently with well proven techniques, the odds of succes don't rise to 100%, but they are significantly higher than the assured zero of opting out. More Just World Fallacy nonsense. Any technique that succeeds will be invalid in short order because women are always adapting. Problem is, you're doing all the performing and she's just sitting there judging you like Caesar. She contributes nothing. You're playing a rigged game with a woman who has all the power in the world over you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:43 AM
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Yes, because women are eager to weaponize it. Women's loneliness isn't being covered because women don't want their dirty laundry and failures to be aired in the era of frau girlboss. As long as no one knows about female loneliness, women can lord it over men that "girls rule boys drool hahahah men are losing!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:35 AM
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And that is why feminism is bankrupt. The movement has utterly weaponized the concept of class and marginalization to excuse resentment and hate as "punching up." When all they're doing is punching laterally and down at powerless men who've done nothing to them. And this is why feminism is a failed ideology: it says all men are part of the same class, and that's outright stupidity. Socioeconomic class separates men as cleanly as it separates men and women. This is also why feminism's talk of int…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:33 AM
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That's a classic No True Scotsman fallacy right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:20 AM
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I don't think that's right, either. I'm a man who picks his lanes. I don't like weak and unconfident women so the tradeoff of being outspoken is acceptable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:20 AM
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And feminist groups focus on men in the same way. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:19 AM
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Because everything you said is a lie, that's why. Women trash talk men as a gender and say everything the worst of MGTOW ever says, but on top of it even talk about killing off men or replacing them or creating a planet without men. #KillAllMen for instance. Clementine Ford saying shit like coronavirus isn't killing men fast enough. SCUM Manifesto.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:18 PM
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Do I need to dump on you facts about female loneliness? Ok fine. https://www.cosmopolitan.com/relationships/a70314620/loneliness-epidemic-women/ https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/article/2024/aug/21/young-single-women-lonelier-than-ever-community https://www.damemagazine.com/2025/04/17/older-women-are-battling-a-loneliness-epidemic/ https://www.hertelier.com/post/loneliness-epidemic-women Tend to your own glass house before throwing rocks at ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:14 PM
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Others need to ask themselves how much value they bring to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:13 PM
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Just World Fallacy says that failure only happens to bad people. That's your argument. The real world operates exactly opposite to that: it doesn't care about how good you are or how much effort you invest or how smart you are. Success is ENTIRELY luck times opportunity times effort. If luck is near zero you're fucked. Plus the system is designed so that most fail. Like I said, otherwise we'd all be billionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:12 PM
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Nah I mean imagine not dating a woman who's incompetent and incapable. That's a demographic apocalypse right there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:10 PM
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Enjoy dating parasites!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:09 PM
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"The lowliest woman is greater than the greatest man" - TwoXChromosomes / your average feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:03 PM
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"It's AI because I feel it's AI" Please show how the post is AI. I've had AI checkers mark the Declaration of Independence as 97% AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:01 PM
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Red Pill has female nature pegged like a bullseye. Red Pill's profound failure is in how they say men should react. You don't feed dysfunction and chaos into dysfunction and chaos and hope to improve things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:34 PM
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Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:33 PM
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I cannot date hypogamously because I cannot respect a man that way, which leads to me never feeling sexual for him. Like it just kills any and all attraction if I think he is incompetent and incapable. Imagine, if you will, running into men who feel the same way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:32 PM
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But at a certain point I figured it's the system I need to operate in, it works in specific ways.. and what do you know, if you invest steadily you end up with a whole bunch more money. The system rewards owning assets and it exploits workers.. so you need to buy assets to succeed. Plenty do and also run into stock market crashes. 2008 erased a ton of wealth, and we keep having events like that. If you were right, we'd all be billionaires for working hard and smart. This is all just Just World F…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:27 PM
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lol women turn “sorry, I’m busy” or “you’re not my type” or “I just don’t see you that way” into "he can't handle a strong woman."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:26 PM
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I'm sorry, where did I say anything about losing the right to vote, etc.? Women only want equality when it suits them. That's not an endorsement of stripping them of basic human rights like the right to vote. Quit with the paranoid rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:24 PM
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Fuck no. Who in the hell wants to come back to parasites?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:22 PM
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Shyness is not a disability. Please show where it is medically listed as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:18 AM
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You don't know who male feminists are? Well then I'll leave you to go look them up. They're always going after men for cheating, ghosting, lying, using others for your own benefit, etc. It's women who never hold each other accountable for cheating, ghosting, lying, using others for your own benefit, etc. Have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:16 AM
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Leaving women to the players and jerks that they hate and earned. Which is why so many are going "boysober" lol. Men go up an incline and women get the easy downhill slalom. But hey you keep playing the rigged game and getting the slop that the dating scene offers now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:13 AM
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Wrong, when a woman gets rejected, she's told it's because of misogyny. When a man gets rejected, he's told it's his fault. I wanted a decent person when I was single, not just any old woman. If I was single now I would stay single. Which is what I'm trying to warn my teenage son about but nah, he has to learn on his own how enshittified dating is for boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:11 AM
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Okay, not always, there's that 1 woman in a million
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:10 AM
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I was in my 30s then. We're like boiling frogs, we're used to the way things are since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:09 AM
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I'd have said shut sperm banks down but hell we don't have to hahahaaahaah go ladies seal your own reproductive fates!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:08 AM
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No but a man can rightfully refuse to play in a rigged casino. In fact only a fool does so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:19 AM
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We're saying the same thing to you every time you say you'd choose bear but then fail to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:18 AM
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Oh yeah, I did, didn't I? Heh heh heh. I guess this is where I tell you that's a popular meme: it means both are simultaneously true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:17 AM
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You hopped on that bandwagon, you caught the argument's disease of illogic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:17 AM
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Oh, you mean how those boysobers over at TwoX are still ranting about us? Rules for me but not for thee, eh? No point in talking to you anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:15 AM
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Because that is what you'd do. And you responding to me is proof that you care. However I don't suffer misandry or mockery of male DV victims, so this is where I disable inbox replies and show you how much I care about your opinion after this: not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:14 AM
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Like I said, all dimensions. Male feminists hold men accountable for all of that shitty behavior. You said "anything." That left you open to be debunked from over a million directions. But, and read this twice: your "men don't hold other men accountable for anything" fails even the narrow standard you just defined. Do you get it now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:13 AM
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Men. Men are the problem. If they weren't, why aren't they in relationships? Why isn't anyone interested? This kind of thinking is why I think young men should outright abandon women as a concept. And clean out the sperm banks before they go, too. Any woman who thinks men are the sole problem doesn't deserve men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:12 AM
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Women no longer need to rely on men for finances. They want a partner. Thus, their partner needs to actually be that. And not just a superficial bank account. Women virtue signal en masse about wanting more emotional openness from men. But when it actually happens, when some guy mourns a dead pet or parent, far too many women get the ick because female biology comes right back into play and she turns on him. Just about all women sabotage emotional openness in men upon first approach when she rej…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:08 AM
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And Gen-Z men grew up where worse economic conditions became the new normal. The U3 unemployment numbers you keep seeing mask a total U6 structural collapse currently going on, which Trump permanently made a lot worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:02 AM
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You claimed that men aren't being held accountable for the things they do. You're still batting 0.000 for that claim. Fundamentally you cannot defend that statement and haven't even tried. So we're done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:47 AM
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That's still Just World Fallacy thinking. If that was true then all decent men would be partnered. Also the humility to approach and accept rejection gracefully.. more gender roles that women don't have to fulfill but only men do. It does no good to rage at women's behaviors and at the inequalities of life.. these are not things we can impact. Men are doing it regardless, and many are just saying no more to women entirely. https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-givi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:46 AM
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Yes it does make it applicable. I recognize your username, too. You never make any logical points, so bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:44 AM
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Men call other men cowards when they don't want to approach women or refuse to uphold other arbitrary male gender roles. Your statement is a flat out lie across all dimensions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:43 AM
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What would you say if men laughed at women victims of gross mutilation by their husbands ON TV? You'd explode in a fit of rage. There'd be protests in the street by blood-raged women. Women are easily triggered by what men think of them. Glass houses hurling rocks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:33 AM
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Nice to see women think violence by women against men is funny. Another good reason for men to go MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:31 AM
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Nice moving of the goalposts there. First you said men don't protect women. Then I showed you how they do. And then you switched to saying I said they always protect women. The law is generally institutionally designed to protect women. Rape laws, VAWA, Title IX, and so on. Men generally protect women systemically. Not perfectly but on an institutional level.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:30 AM
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You don't see male hosts on national TV mocking women for being mutilated and not getting canceled. Not ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:28 AM
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Actually it's you women who only care about domestic violence when you can weaponize it against men. When it's happening in your own back yards y'all bury it!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:27 AM
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You won't be saying that if it's women getting rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:25 AM
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*sigh* I'm having to put this on repeat. Women leverage their gender to subject men to standards that women aren't held to: men always having to make the first move, having to show unshakeable confidence where she doesn't, women doing foodie calls. Women virtue signal about wanting more emotional vulnerability for men and then turn on him when he does. Women don't hold each other accountable for any of this. That's why men are quitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:25 AM
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Women leverage their gender to subject men to standards that women aren't held to: men always having to make the first move, having to show unshakeable confidence where she doesn't, women doing foodie calls. Women virtue signal about wanting more emotional vulnerability for men and then turn on him when he does. Women don't hold each other accountable for any of this. That's why men are quitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:24 AM
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Women leverage their gender to subject men to standards that women aren't held to: men always having to make the first move, having to show unshakeable confidence where she doesn't, women doing foodie calls. Women virtue signal about wanting more emotional vulnerability for men and then turn on him when he does. Women don't hold each other accountable for any of this. That's why men are quitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:24 AM
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You're defending the Just World Fallacy nonsense, which makes you culpable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:19 AM
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The politicians, who passed the laws directing the cops to arrest men for harming women. The ones who made VAWA initially to protect women victims of domestic violence more than male victims. Or does that not count for you because it's systemic protections for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:18 AM
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So about 30% of parents (nearly 1.6 million) who are owed child support payments receive nothing at all. (Dept. of Justice, US). So 50,000 are in prison. That is 3% of the parents who are not making child support payments. This is accountability? Generally, they do not send you to prison if you cannot afford to make payments. This is for parents who refuse to make payments despite having enough money. Again, you're intentionally trying to dismiss the fact that that's not because the system doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:17 AM
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Well, it's moving in that direction as we spek. https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles saying they’re not even looking. That trend shifts by age and gender: among singles under 40, men were more likely than women to say they’re not interested in dating, at 39% compared to 30% — a reversal of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:06 AM
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????? Yall have already established that manbad badman manisevil. It chaps your hide to know the same is true about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:05 AM
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Sadly, yes, as a matter of fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:04 AM
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Well, you're the one up here spouting Just World Fallacy nonsense, spoon fed to you by the Feminist and Tradcon duopoly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:03 AM
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and Tang Ping, and Herbivore Men, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:07 AM
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Why is it a problem that women want equal rights and not equal accountability? That means they didn't give a fuck about equal rights and that feminism is a giant fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:52 AM
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She could commit domestic violence against him and he'd be laughed at by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:51 AM
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"Always a man" goalpost now scoots over to "Men are overwhelmingly the threat." Except when it comes to domestic violence, women abuse each other proportionally as much as men abuse women. Hell sexual assault is reported in 30% of their relationships. https://www.autostraddle.com/when-women-rape-everything-were-not-talking-about-185931/ If one looks at CDC statistics, lesbian violence would appear to be higher than heterosexual violence, but these numbers can be misleading. According to the CDC,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:48 AM
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Correction: the narrative of hyperagency and meritocracy is only applied to men. Women are not held to that when they fail in the dating scene: they're told they failed because muhsoggyneez and low quality men, blah blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:12 AM
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Passport bros leave for other countries flaunting their wealth and Americanism and aesthetic appeal they think the women there actually desire them for who they are instead of a silly fantasy? hahahhahahahahahaa OP tell me you don't actually believe that tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:10 AM
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Men who haven't done anything to women are being treated like shit now. But there's no real reason for misandry. Women never really liked men. That's pretty much true across all of nature, so it's utterly independent of men's actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:09 AM
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Women are afraid of equal accountability. That's why men are quitting en masse. https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles saying they’re not even looking. That trend shifts by age and gender: among singles under 40, men were more likely than women to say they’re not interested in dating, at 39%…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:07 AM
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Ugh, another I-hate-men rantfest. Why can't these women just go their own way and found their own Themyscera?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:05 AM
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Oh, really now? Let's have at it. Repeat that bullshit and see me hammer you with more examples. Way more. Or I can take you down institutionally: all those abusers of women now sitting in prison, arrested and hauled in by men. Next fallacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:05 AM
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Any time a woman is killed by a woman the "always a man" narrative suffers another screaming death.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:01 AM
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Well congratulations, you're one of almost no women who approaches men!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:59 AM
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*sigh* this ever-persistent myth that decency isn't common among men. You really need to lose the feminist indoctrination that the world is just a bunch of smelly filthy otaku Republoturds. And you need to also free yourself from the Just World Fallacy that if a guy is failing at love, there's automatically something wrong with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:58 AM
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At any given day in the US there are 50,000 people sent to prison for non payment of child support. ROTFLMAO but you say men aren't held accountable for what they do. How am I going to debate you when you self-detonate like this? How about girls/women not reporting rape for the same reasons boys/men do not? Do you think we are not capable of shame and know there will be judgment of our character? Don't tell me I have to get into how many men are sitting in prison for rape right now. Please don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:54 AM
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OP is telling it as it is. Well, as it is when you stand on your head and view the world upside-down. Perspective, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:04 PM
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Welp, I explained to you that women lie when they say they want men to be emotionally open. Then I actually showed you how women penalize their own boys systemically for showing emotions. In childhood. You have shown me that you don't think women can be held accountable for their own actions. I'm not surprised. But my mission is done here, so you have a great day now!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:03 PM
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How many women let the father's of their children get off because they do not want them to go to prison? Incarceration is a last resort. Men are rarely imprisoned for non payment if they simply cannot afford it. That's not the system being unfair to women. That's women not making use of resources available to them. Women ain't oppressed here. I never said that men were not scammed. I just brought up this because you talked about men being taken advantage of. Of course, men are taken advantage of…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:01 PM
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Eh, what does "woman-adjacent" mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:57 PM
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The point is that doesn't work for a lot of men. Dating is about far more than that, it is mainly about jestering for women - entertaining them and putting on a constant front of unshakeable confidence, to say nothing about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:56 PM
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Wow I can't debate someone who failed to read what I wrote that thoroughly, sorry man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:55 PM
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Have never approached a woman? Why can't women approach men? You people are huge on freedom from gender roles until the freedom cup passes into male hands and then you're swift to try and yank it back. "But muh biology" and all that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:54 PM
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No, that's wrong. Women virtue signal about hating men who are stoic. They get the ick right off the bat if he approaches her and is nervous or anxious. Far too many women even get the ick if he weeps for a deceased parent or a dog that died! A further reality check: https://parents-together.org/study-suggests-mothers-might-have-gender-bias-about-boys-crying/ A new study suggests that moms might be less tolerant than dads are when it comes to boys expressing emotions. While many of us might assu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:01 PM
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Historically and biologically, confidence has been viewed as a proxy for competence, resourcefulness, and the ability to protect and provide. That's just a fact. It's written into female biology. The absence of bears or muggers does not at all rewrite female biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:58 AM
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An app that lets you know about men who do not pay child support? ROTFLMAO you trying to kill me with laughter? Seriously? They have this neat little app called the Federal and State Governments for tracking men who don't pay child support! They'll fucking take away his professional licenses, his drivers license, and throw his ass in prison for not paying child support. She can even pass off some other man's kid as his and force him to pay for it. Dudes who get away with not paying child support…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:54 AM
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Why couldn’t she get the guy she desires? Because there's only 20% of men who make the top 20% cut, and every woman wants them but only 20% of women can have them, so the rest settle for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:00 AM
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putting on a clean shirt, brushing your teeth, smiling and being pleasant to the women around you.. and above all, accepting rejection gracefully. Imagine doing all of that for decades and being told you're playing the victim card
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:42 AM
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Men in their late teens and early 20s who stopped thinking about only getting laid, and started thinking about what their future will look like, were, are and always will get outcompeted by bad boys. For the same fucking women who think they mature faster than men. Humanity is an utter clown show. How did we even get this far.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:27 AM
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Just be aroace br0
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:37 AM
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Height surgery, perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:32 AM
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He doesn't vote Republican or hinder her access to good health care. If you're looking for more than that than just don't have kids, fewer men than ever will miss you now. Have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:32 AM
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A woman calling a man a coward? LOL cowardice is woven into your soul and biological lattice. You have no standing to hurl rocks at me from your glass house. I will not further engage with you and this naked hypocrisy. I'm not a disposable male and it's on you to deal with that, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:30 AM
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Please don't tell me you seriously look at that much anti-male hate and think those women want anything to do with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:28 AM
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Uh, no. 100% of all heterosexual relationships start with men signaling or fake-signaling confidence, which itself is a baseline show of protector ability, especially on an emotional level. It lets the woman know he can handle a physical or emotional crisis - his and hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:27 AM
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AWDTSG/Tea app makes your argument a flat out lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:26 AM
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That's outright gaslighting. Men can't force women to want men who are not stoic or unshakeably confident. Women's own biological filters are the problem here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:25 AM
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Her looks, and he's a superficial fool just like the woman is a superficial fool. You've been caught downvoting me because you don't like being hit with logic so we're done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:24 AM
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First of all, entire governments care that this many men are moving on. Second of all, if either men or women don't care about pleasing anyone, then that group is counterproductive as a concept. You women don't have the leverage you think you do. What you do have is a parasitic instinct that is slowly killing your host (mating in general). Your gender is free to have fun with your delusions of importance, but the stats show that it's actively collapsing. I don't need to further debate you, what …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:23 AM
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... you really think you did something there lmao Not going into the rest of y'alls argument but he's right with that one. If you get the treatment you inspire, not the treatment you demand, then that applies to both women and men. But your argument is bullshit because it invokes the Just World Fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:30 PM
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Both men and women are responsible for that aspect of this state of affairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:28 PM
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If a woman rejects a man for being short and he comes back at 6'4" and she falls in love with him what is she actually loving?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:18 PM
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Men opting out is going on far beyond just Tinder. https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles saying they’re not even looking. That trend shifts by age and gender: among singles under 40, men were more likely than women to say they’re not interested in dating, at 39% compared to 30% — a reversal…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:17 PM
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Far too many women are anti-natal now. They get the same benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:15 PM
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No, having to signal protector capability is highly taxing - especially in a world where these threats are extremely rare. And it's worse since just about every man knows that when his ass is in a lurch, she's throwing him under the bus. It makes her company a tax, not a benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:14 PM
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Women are not accountable for taking advantage of men? Of course, women are immune to accountability, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:13 PM
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But they're women, so it doesn't count. Accountability is for males, not women. The feminist state has spoken. In all seriousness that's the sad state of affairs we live in now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:12 PM
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They don't do that anymore than the TwoX and other I-hate-men groups do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:11 PM
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I get out because I say I get out. Fuck that. I don't do that disposable male bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:11 PM
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If you say so. I for one find this logic to be downright warped. But you do you, eh? See ya!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:10 PM
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Those men aren't complaining. They're checked out. The men here aren't checked out yet, but the way women are behaving? They eventually will be when they realize women don't like or care about males at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:09 PM
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Does this show that dating in itself is hard for men? Or that dating apps themselves are flawed? Dating is an asymmetrical emotionally Herculean nightmare for men outside of the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:16 AM
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Either way, courtship is a staggeringly unfair and asymmetrical burden for men. It needs to be abandoned for something more symmetrical. Courtship actually is bad for men's health.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:14 AM
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Tinder has lost 500,000 users in UK alone - mostly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:13 AM
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OP is just dunking on men to make himself feel like he's on a higher tier. After this post he'll go run to a bar all swollen with confidence because he pulled down several of his fellow crabs trying to climb out of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:37 AM
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*MGTOW* has entered the chat There's men's communities that do exactly that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:31 AM
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Women read romance books, which is just as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:31 AM
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The female loneliness epidemic is a thing. https://www.cosmopolitan.com/relationships/a70314620/loneliness-epidemic-women/ https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/article/2024/aug/21/young-single-women-lonelier-than-ever-community https://www.damemagazine.com/2025/04/17/older-women-are-battling-a-loneliness-epidemic/ https://www.hertelier.com/post/loneliness-epidemic-women I can do this all day if you wish to play the game of "I don't believe that source" but I know you won't even read them be…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:30 AM
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When a woman is single, she knows she can walk out of singledom any second. She is living dating life in God Mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:28 AM
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Men who haven't convinced women to share expenses will be forever paying for dates. They should also stop dating. Wish granted. https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles saying they’re not even looking. That trend shifts by age and gender: among singles under 40, men were more likely than women…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:26 AM
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Each couple works out what’s a fair exchange otherwise they wouldn’t be together. No, women leverage men's desperation to get favorable terms for her. Which is why so many men are opting out. inb4 "but women are opting out too" - women always opt out if they can find the chance to do so. Men have never in human history just stopped pursuing women at the scale that is happening now. This is an entirely new thing with men. Women have poisoned the well so badly that male disengagement is unpreceden…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:25 AM
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https://datepsychology.com/risk-aversion-and-dating/ 74% of women aged 25 and below want to be approached more; 77% in the full 18-30 cohort. 68% wish to be approached more between 30-40, while for women 41 and older 45% wish to be approached more. If it were up to me, no woman on Earth would ever be approached, even though they want it. Women have forfeited the right to ever experience male courtship of any sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:19 AM
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Ain't too many relationships out there that women are enthusiastically in. Most are because she settled for far less than the elite man she wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:17 AM
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lo, if that's the wild-ass conclusion you want to come up with then have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:16 AM
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Screw that I'm not dying for anyone if I'm single and childless. I'm out, fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:15 AM
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The prevalence is irrelevant. Women still want men who can protect them. That's the entire reason why women want confident men. That's the reason why Navy SEAL type men dominate romance novels. Women want men who can be their shields and their therapists. They do not want to give that in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:13 AM
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If a mugger or bear shows up, guess who's her human shield? If she has a shitty boyfriend, guess who's her therapist? You guessed it - her male friend. If you're getting knifed by a mugger for her, she ain't got your back. If you have a shitty girlfriend, she's suddenly not your therapist, figure it out yourself. With friends like that who needs enemies?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:40 AM
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If all women felt as you do we wouldn't be any kind of threat to the planet's ecosystem. Perhaps a few hundred thousand across the world at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:36 AM
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Women expect it. They feel entitled to it. Either approach a woman or humans don't reproduce. Women are just that rigid about it. I'm just the type of person who sees 45% of men don't approach women as 55% too many men doing so. I only see 100% of men not approaching women as the proper attitude adjuster for women's entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:36 AM
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Hell no I don't agree. It is a pile of double standards. Totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:34 AM
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And the same is true of you women, too. There's always some problem with an overgrown tumor of looks or personality or moral character. Every. Single. TIME! And fewer men are putting up with it anymore, thankfully. Since you think we're all trash, all of you women should go 4b. It'll be cleaner than nuking the species into extinction! Do it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:34 AM
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So a man performs for women and should expect nothing in return? Maybe there's no point in a relationship with her, since she's not making his life any better. Or, and here's a revolutionary idea: sabotage the system by curing men's desire for casual sex. That will severely hurt women farrrrrrrrrrrrrrr more than you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:40 PM
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Yes they can but that's not helpful here. Approaching women is bad for other reasons, the first and foremost is women don't have to approach men. Men risk rejection, women do not. I am a fundamentalist. I believe in dismantling asymmetrical systems at their bedrock. Hence, when we talk about men not accepting "no," I see both a boundary violation and a gross gender imbalance at play. Thus the need to eliminate the imbalance by eliminating the approach. Women don't approach, so they don't deserve…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:38 PM
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Women are never enthusiastic about more than a small percentage of men. Yes, relationships do form, but very few are ever ones that women see as ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:32 PM
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What do you call 45% of men not approaching women? 55% too many men approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:04 PM
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Yes, morally it's the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:01 PM
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LOL nowadays what other kind of woman is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:59 PM
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Men are castigated for being angry about double standards, women are not. You just proved that yourself by your own post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:52 PM
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Women get more leeway in everything than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:49 PM
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Double standards make men angry for the same reason they make women angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:48 PM
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I'll see that and raise you patriarchy theory conspiracy. Two can play that game!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:46 PM
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I never thought my husband was very good looking I would pay you to say that to his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:04 PM
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most women date, Correction: most women settle for less than what they get the true tingles for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:03 PM
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It shows that women love a man's value more than she values his love. This is more true than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:45 PM
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Civilization cannot run without horny males desperate to gain socioeconomic status which is how males become eligible for being chosen by a woman. So because of that, society has thoroughly indoctrinated males into believing and all-in buying into the Second American Dream, which is a relationship with a woman and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:37 PM
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Again that rule applies to women, but not men, so it is invalid. See ya!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:36 PM
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Then your argument is wrong. On top of that, if this poll were genderflipped it would be called a hate movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:50 AM
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Hilariously these same women dunk on short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:48 AM
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I keep saying that in today's mating environment, winning the mating game is worse for men than losing. When he is rejected, he loses. When he wins... well... he ends like this... metaphorically: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ihd-NwI030c
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:42 AM
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This begs the question, why stay on the straight and narrow when being a monster will get you better results? Why hold consistent and coherent values and world views when you will simply lose out to others who walk through life thinking with their dick/clit? What incentive is there to select for good people? I'd rather utterly write off womankind than become a monster to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:22 AM
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Wars happen over resources. Women bully each other all the time. Very much. That's going to fuel a shit-ton of fighting. As the saying goes... war never changes. There's plenty of evidence that female leaders aren't more peaceful than male leaders. https://www.forbes.com/sites/kimelsesser/2022/03/08/sheryl-sandberg-says-female-leaders-dont-go-to-war-heres-what-research-says/ Authors of the book Why Leaders Fight analyzed every world leader from 1875 to 2004 and statistically examined gender diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:21 AM
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Care to explain this? Just 35 per cent of British women under the age of 25 hold a positive view of men, according to a new poll. The findings show only 11 per cent of young women hold a very positive view, while women under 30 are three times as likely to hold a negative view of men compared to the over-30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:17 AM
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https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/women-men-femosphere-new-statesman-poll-b2958208.html Just 35 per cent of British women under the age of 25 hold a positive view of men, according to a new poll. Here's proof of how much women hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:10 PM
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Women resist any shred of accountability when they do men wrong. Any. Every time you bring the subject up they shut up and scatter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:06 PM
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I'm saying that they shouldn't be given a free pass while men are held to higher standards than women. But I don't debate people who downvote my posts when the sub says don't downvote. See ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:04 PM
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You've got all this in reverse. Men who didn't jump in front of danger and didn't prove themselves were avoided by women for procreation. It's called selective pressure. Women exerted selective pressure that caused the sexual dimorphism we have now. But we arent talking about that, we are talking about the gendered expectation on men to be emotionless/never vulnerable, and that their needs to be suportef arent taken seriously. Women did not and do not like dating men who are emotionally vulnerab…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:02 PM
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He wants to know why double standards and misandry are so rampant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:57 PM
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No I got your post perfectly, you just argued poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:56 PM
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Except they'd go to war with each other, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:34 PM
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I mean it's not universally true, but https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/women-men-femosphere-new-statesman-poll-b2958208.html Just 35 per cent of British women under the age of 25 hold a positive view of men, according to a new poll. Dude's point is pretty much accurate if not precise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:32 PM
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A lot of women who quit dating are ranting about men. TwoX ffs. He can post here while trash talking dating. Unless the rules for men are different than for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:28 PM
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LOL @ the caps lock rage. Women created this. Across almost every animal species in existence. Males are always the ones thrown in front of danger, the load bearers, the hard laborers, in almost all species. Women do not like unemployed men, or weak men, or shy men. Women don't like neurodivergent men. Women cheered the unprovoked castration of a man by his wife, not patriarchy. That's on women. Your argument is essentially saying women are not held accountable for their actions, and never will …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:09 AM
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Aw, I offended you by calling out feminist hypocrisy. You sitting here dunking on innocent men because of the "system"? You'd never tolerate that if your words were flipped. Mission accomplished, I'm outta here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:09 AM
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Double standards are in fact the heart of this problem. Misandry is absolutely rampant and encouraged. It's now ossified.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:04 AM
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Funny how you challenge someone to show how women are the privileged gender and then you move the goalposts. And thus there's another female advantage. Women get to play the victim Olympics and the world rushes in to support them. Men complain and we get bullshit hypocrisy like this. For your own mental health just go boysober or something. Men as a group would be better off without having any contact with this kind of hypocrisy and narcissism. And for my personal mental health I'm ending this c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:02 AM
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If shy men find anyone, and that's a big fucking if, it's much later in life. At this point you're failing to understand female biology. Women would rather choose boysober. Women want strong confident men even though they can't bring that energy themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:36 AM
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Weakness is a vice for men but not women. Shyness is a vice for men but not women. Unemployment kills a man's marriage hopes, but not women's. Autism is a dating death sentence for men but not women. Male domestic violence victims are laughed at and mocked. Women victims are not. Men who are victims of women rapists will be punished by the court and made to pay child support if she gets pregnant. In war men are forced to fight and women are not. See: Ukraine right now. Male teachers are treated …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:14 AM
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It does matter when it's called hate when it's genderflipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:10 AM
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Oh go ahead and threaten me with what male feminists and women say about all men already. That shit don't work anymore, son. And your tantrum of an argument doesn't even address the fact that even when women don't pick these criminals, they'd rather leave the dating scene than date a shy guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:04 AM
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Because when men actually cry, women get the ick. It's all bullshit anyway because even when he approaches her the first time, the man has to show unshakeable confidence. If he's nervous or anxious? Time to mask it or he's out! Out the gate he has to hide his feelings and be something he's not. Of course it's going to go sideways quite often if he's caught crying about something later!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:02 AM
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You guys suggesting that men should be rapists and criminals for the sake of getting laid!? Nope, we're looking at the fact that decent men are being outcompeted by dudes like this. We also know most women will choose going boysober rather than date shy guys or criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:00 AM
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Aw, I offended you by calling out hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:55 AM
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Amen to that. Women won't like that, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:54 AM
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Dude... ummm I hate to break it to you but https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cqx843qlr2zo A police officer has been jailed for illegally accessing and passing sensitive information from police computer systems to her convicted criminal boyfriend. https://www.cbsnews.com/news/four-female-prison-guards-impregnated-by-same-inmate/ BALTIMORE Four female prison guards in Baltimore fell pregnant to the same inmate, according to authorities who have busted a major smuggling gang inside the jail system.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:01 PM
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You call it lacking confidence and being weak because that extreme supports your viewpoint. Extreme? I'm using the same definition on women that women use on men. I don't give a fuck about "male-female dynamics in dating." What's good for the goose is good for the gander. All your word wall gyrations and excuse-making doesn't change that. Two genders, one rule, nothing more or less, no compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:04 AM
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It's because women with high body counts is standing proof that she has huge leverage over him. She can go find herself a dude at any second. He couldn't do this with women. One solid golden rule in life is never hitch yourself with a woman who has that much of a power differential.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:54 AM
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Being demure and cute is not lacking confidence or being weak. Also 55% of men want women to approach them first. https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a19903563/how-to-hit-on-a-guy/ There's no excuse in defending weakness and lack of confidence in women when it's not acceptable for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:51 AM
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Mandatory paternity test at birth would solve the entire issue at its root instead of figuring out how further entrench government overeach into our personal affairs. So say we all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:39 AM
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You would not be saying this if things were gender-flipped and your gender was being pathologized.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:14 AM
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Both are more datable than an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:13 AM
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Give thanks to the world that you are not a male with that life history.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:10 AM
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Due process is the guy has a kid that's not his and he didn't know it wasn't his. BOOM. Dire civil penalties for her. It's proving that she intentionally defrauded him that should be required for jail time. In fact I'd go moderate and say unintentional misattributed paternity costs her compensatory damages and maybe some pain and suffering. Punitive damages requires proof of intent or concealment upon after-the-fact discovery.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:51 AM
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If men don't date those women then we as a species run out of women to date. Though at this point IDGAF if we dwindle down to a species of thousands instead of billions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:48 AM
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Lacking confidence and being weak are loser traits no matter what gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:47 AM
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There's certainly going to be a lot more than one more such case lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:45 AM
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You hate men and that's the end of this discusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:44 AM
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You have that confidence behind your keyboard. This conversation is over. You don't get the last word when you behave like an angry toddler.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:43 AM
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A silly excuse. You're saying the female brain is inferior and should be held to inferior standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:42 AM
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Henry Cavill is handsome first and a nerd second. The handsomeness and height outweighs everything else. but he also has other interests outside of this, and isn’t a full timer. It’s about balance, imo. That literally describes the geek caste, which is not the nerd caste. Again, not viable as mates unless they cross the aesthetics threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:41 AM
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Yes, men should treat insecure women like women treat insecure men. So few women would make it that we'd be a tribe of thousands instead of billions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:40 AM
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That's biology. Lacking confidence and being weak are changeable traits. Women choose to embrace it while demanding men do all the effort to beat it. We need a crucible in which all weak and low-confidence women are treated just like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:38 AM
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What a load of group guilt bullshit. The majority of men don't commit sexual violence, domestic violence, or coercive abuse. The majority is being judged by the acts of a few. Men's distrust of women, meanwhile, is usually the same recycled misogynistic bullshit: women are hypergamous, women only want money, women lie about rape, women divorce to steal your kids, women are naturally manipulative, etc. All of which are true because some women are like that and worse yet they also run a low risk o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:34 PM
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He doesn’t give a single shit about the boring women who avoid rotten men like the plague. Much in the way people don't give a single shit about house prices because they've flown so far away into financial hyperspace that they're too busy worrying about making rent. Rent being analogous for the women being discussed in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:26 AM
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OP does not want the nice women who won’t put up with that shit though, because he wants the kind of bad girl who will let him abuse them. Or, hear me out, the competition for nice women is more superheated than the competition for a work-at-home job at Google.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:24 AM
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Yet women possess both traits. Utter hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:22 AM
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Don't forget lesser cases like: https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cqx843qlr2zo A police officer has been jailed for illegally accessing and passing sensitive information from police computer systems to her convicted criminal boyfriend. https://www.cbsnews.com/news/four-female-prison-guards-impregnated-by-same-inmate/ BALTIMORE Four female prison guards in Baltimore fell pregnant to the same inmate, according to authorities who have busted a major smuggling gang inside the jail system.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:21 AM
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First of all https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles saying they’re not even looking. That trend shifts by age and gender: among singles under 40, men were more likely than women to say they’re not interested in dating, at 39% compared to 30% — a reversal of older age groups, where women were…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:18 AM
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I see it from a non-logged in account. Sorry you got hurt so much. Have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:16 AM
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Then you're wrong because women are like that, just like men. I don't put up with misandry so I'm ending this here and denying you the last word.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:53 AM
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It's only Doomerism if you can't open your eyes and see how you're being bamboozled by the system. The only way to win is to not play. But hey you keep investing in this rigged casino. Meanwhile I'm outside your gilded hell, looking in. I'm not a mark or a fool, I know a septic tank when I see one and I won't dive into it. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:52 AM
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You're the one pushing sociopathic ideals, not me. You like dead bedroom marriages. There's nothing else to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:47 AM
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Women did respond to men's rights groups by saying it's okay to cry. Then it all turns out to be mere virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:45 AM
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Ohhhhhhhhhhh so that's why you're ranting about how women have supposedly been begging men to go away. You clearly weren't one of them. Which means everything you said was horseshit lol okthxbye
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:19 PM
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I hate to break it to you but many men are backing that up with action. And when artificial wombs happen women will be forgotten entirely. https://nypost.com/2025/07/12/lifestyle/poll-finds-gen-z-singles-are-giving-up-on-dating/ A new Rasmussen Reports poll of more than 1,200 American adults shows 37% of singles under 30 say they’re not interested in dating, with half of all singles saying they’re not even looking. That trend shifts by age and gender: among singles under 40, men were more likely…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:25 PM
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And there are a lot of women who are sabotaging their entire feeding grounds with this mentality. Men are quitting women and going girlsober in droves. Half of single men in America are already checked out. Half. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20drop%20is%20largely%20driven,from%2061%25%20in%202019). This drop is largely driven by single men, who are now 11 percentage points less likely than in 2019 to say they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:34 PM
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Your husband doesn't see all the men who've written off women entirely. But governments are seeing it and are panicking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:32 PM
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Oh men understand that a victim complex is unmasculine. That's why men are quiet quitting women altogether. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20drop%20is%20largely%20driven,from%2061%25%20in%202019). This drop is largely driven by single men, who are now 11 percentage points less likely than in 2019 to say they are looking for a committed relationship and/or casual dates (50% in July 2022, down from 61% in 2019). Du…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:31 PM
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Only if the nose is poisoning us to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:27 PM
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No, if we realized what you want us to realize, we would ALL stop dating. Immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:26 PM
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I have a teenage son in the midst of this shit. And since you're breaking the rules and downvoting me this discussion is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:25 PM
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No, some men are raised quite naive. They catch the reality check soon enough though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:24 PM
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So are women. Nothing I said was untrue, so the truth is just unbearable for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:23 PM
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Women do the same thing to men. I'm done with your persecution narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:22 PM
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You are describing the most objectionable woman possible who exhibits every single possible cruel respone to a man opening up - all in one. This is grievance mountain. It's grievance mountain only when a man does it. Obviously this is not about one woman performing all of these atrocities. It is a LOT of women each performing several of them. All women are imperfect, but the idea that you meet someone and they are going to do this to you is exactly what holds men back. It comes from a place of i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:21 PM
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You didn't read what I said. I said men's emotional labor is invisible and unappreciated. You're being obtuse if you can't recognize that. I've got no time for someone I've had to repeat this to twice. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:16 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:14 PM
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That's not a personal attack any more than when women call out men as a group and then say the SAME THING to men who protest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:14 PM
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Women shouldn’t approach men. Then men should just stop dating. Period. End of all problems! Have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:13 PM
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I did. That's part of why I didn't get married until my 30s. Nowadays a man who does what I did will be unlikely to marry until his 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:12 PM
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but no one has any business being in a relationship when they need therapy. Now that is a respectable, balanced take.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:11 PM
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Yes, I could always go be a hermit! Why didn't I think of that. Or I could be a male femini er, nah fuck that second option
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:10 PM
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You never heard of women walking around with keys as weapons? Or walking on the other side of the street when a man is approaching. Er, nevermind. You know you've seen that. You're just shit talking like a regular feminist who hates men. Not giving you any more time of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:09 PM
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If you saw that as mean, maybe it hit closer to home than you realize?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:08 PM
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Reality is much meaner than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:07 PM
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You know, men serve as unpaid therapists for women who are allowed to cry and still trauma dump on innocent men about prior men who do them wrong. And it's mostly the less obvious things, like the way she treats all men with extreme suspicion, the unearned hostility when he comes up and says hello, the shit tests, the instant rejection if he shows a hint of nervousness or anxiety, the "men are trash" mindset, and especially the "you better be super phenomenal exceptional or I'll go boysober" mov…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:42 PM
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Then let me be blunt and unapologetic about this: you're an anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:35 PM
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Yeah that sucks a lot to give all that to a woman and have it wasted because of infidelity or any of the other ways she can betray a man. Then the world expects you to suck it up and have a stiff upper lip about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:34 PM
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still get the time of his life. You mean with the one anomaly he found 10 years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:33 PM
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Men open up whenever they approach you. (Disclaimer: I mean general you, not specific you.) They open themselves up to rejection (something you as a woman will never experience at that scale) and scorn and the risk of being outed on a fucking Tea app and falsely accused of being creepy. They open themselves up to the risk of being Aziz Ansari'd. They open themselves up to the risk of being Jon Finkel'd. They put up with your defensiveness and having to prove their worth to you by proving they're…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:13 PM
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Read what I said. I said All men get used for emotional labor and investment, and the best part is? Women have bamboozled society into thinking men don't. To break this down more simply, male emotional labor is not recognized as such, which means women are delusional as all hell and have convinced themselves of the bullshit lie that they do more emotional labor than men. Because male emotional labor is seen as a TRAIT not labor! Which makes women the sociopaths here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:02 PM
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And they'll report his ass for it. Which means women are in for a monster category 7 storm of a AWDTSG-genderflip reckoning given how much ghosting that they do to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:00 PM
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Mongolia does prioritize a man to be hardworking and resourceful. You mean, extremely hardworking and resourceful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:59 AM
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Separate issue said no Mongolian woman ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:58 AM
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You mean we can learn from Mongolia about their bullet proof corporate glass ceiling, hypergamy accelerated to warp speed, 25% representation of women in higher politics, that kinda thing? Nah we'll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:37 AM
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From my Mongolian friend, who laid it out to me a few weeks ago: Mongolia is a fucking mess. They have a gender wage gap of over 12% and women face a bulletproof glass ceiling blocking them from senior executive positions. Men make up 75% of top-tier political decision-making spots, not to mention almost all regional governorships. Men suffer from higher rates of unemployment, social isolation, and severe alcoholism in both urban centers and rural areas. Hypergamic women in Mongolia can't find a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:34 AM
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It might have something to do with the fact that men's emotional labor for women goes largely unrecognized by women, and thus by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:56 AM
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Sometimes women get used for sex. All men get used for emotional labor and investment, and the best part is? Women have bamboozled society into thinking men don't. Men's emotional labor and investment is treated as a trait. Confidence is emotional labor, peacekeeping is emotional labor, and in men it is treated as a trait. And for men, this happens every second that they're around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:54 AM
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Men get used constantly for emotional labor and emotional/financial investment. It's the emotional part that's ever-constant and most damaging, insidious - and the part that women militantly refuse to recognize. Women actually think they do the majority of emotional labor, that's just how much they ignore what men put into the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:53 AM
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It makes what you said utterly lacking in credibility. Have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:51 AM
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When a guy tries to mask his intent and his attraction and act like a Platonic "nice guy" instead, that's one of the things that make women think the guy is creepy Women tend to react better to a more direct approach; they understand it, and they're not worrying about what the guy is actually thinking. But when he tells her outright, he's moving too fast. He loses either way. Living as if castrated is the path to perdition. It is the path to peace. Whenever a man approaches a woman, he is signin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:50 AM
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I don't care if you don't believe me. You don't have to believe me. You will accept what I said, your question got answered, and I am ending this discussion right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:47 AM
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Clearly you can't. Everything I said was flawless English. Therefore you either understand it or don't understand English. End of discussion. What I said stands. We don't need your approval. And we are forming AWDTSG groups against abusive women, too. Now threaten us with some boysober bullshit about boycotting men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:45 AM
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Yeah, they're about revenge. They're Aziz Ansari at scale!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:44 AM
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AWDTSG hardly ever tells the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:43 AM
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You iive in Russia?! Oh man you have a lot worse to worry about than guys. You live in Russia for crying out loud lol You'll be lucky to have a country in 2040 after Pootey is done with you all! Do svidaniya hahahahah! Slava ukraine!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:42 AM
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Yes you do. And the truth about women is just as devastating. See you in the trenches.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:40 AM
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It’ll be a wanna be stalker/rapist breeding ground. No it won't. It'll be a breeding ground of men calling women creepy and hazardous - vague, devastating slander that, like what women say of men, can't be assailed in a court of law. AWDTSG is already awakening this kind of retaliation. Natural selection is king. When men see how effective it is to hit back with the same words being used against them, it'll start being done at scale. Revenge porn and stalking and rape is already on the way down.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:40 AM
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AWDTSG is by definition slander and hit jobs. Women who use them can easily be tracked and hit by squads of men saying equal shit in return. Men now have their own apps and websites to say the same thing, and not enough male feminist simps anymore to fight back. Let slip the dogs of narrative war. See ya!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:36 AM
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The law deters a lot of people. It doesn't give you the right to form Kangaroo courts!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:34 AM
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I have a teenaged son who is on GROUND ZERO of this shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:33 AM
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Yes, those sites are about tearing men down, and they exist as weapons of slander. They're weapons of terror, not social correction. Women who use them should never be able to find another date again. No backing down from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:32 AM
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Wrong. The risks for both are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:30 AM
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Are We Dating The Same Guy. It’s to prevent being conned by a man who claims he is single and monogamous when he is actually already involved. It’s broadened to allow women to warn others of abusive and violent men. All is about safety from abusers. Why is it that women have to worry about this? Because there is a segment of the male population who treat women terribly. No, AWDTSG is about women doing shit like labeling a man creepy because he wouldn't pay for her half of the meal. That's where …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:47 PM
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AWALT is a semi-clever inside joke/axiom invented by MGTOW that means "Variations on a Pattern." It's a joke-ish and intentionally ham handed way to stress the fact that women operate on patterns of behaviors which are predictable and manageable. It's the moral equivalent of "men are trash." Thing is, "men are trash" is a signal that a woman has suckass dating choices. Same is true for AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:19 PM
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Which it won't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:15 PM
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Oh, it's guaranteed to be vindictive and not true, like most AWDTSG posts are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:15 PM
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That's illegal, and so is revenge porn, so men's groups wouldn't risk doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:13 PM
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What we need to do is know who's posting on AWDTSG and avoid dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:57 PM
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It is true, that's the point of AWDTSG!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:56 PM
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Anyway, if I was feeling really mean, I'd just use the social fabrics surrounding the two of us to make his life hell. I'm a solid player of the gossip game. He'll be lucky to have a name left when I finish tarnishing it. And the best part is, that men rarely can recover when given a bad name. And then enjoy being sued for slander.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:55 PM
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It would be full of lies and revenge porn. This is utter and unsubstantiated bullshit. Revenge porn is against the law!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:53 PM
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Can't you read English?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:51 PM
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Fact is we don't need your approval and sure as hell aren't intimidated by your accusations of "controlling women's sexuality." And yes, any time a woman shows shitty character, endangers a man's safety, or is a criminal, it's going to get around, too. Now please threaten us with the boysober card we DGAF.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:32 AM
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I will answer that for him. HELL NO. Putting aside the staggering moral bankruptcy of women being subordinate to men, it is also pragmatically ruinous. Such a woman will never love you for you. From that comes all kinds of unwanted emotional horrors.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:43 PM
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Dear God, woman, that's not going to happen in the bigger countries. The threat of nuclear escalation has broken that model. And Russia is paying other fatal prices for being the outlier. So is America for picking a fight with Iran. Excess men used as fodder is not the universal rule anymore. We will see a giant and ugly demographic collapse instead. This the truth of Germany, Japan and Korea right now, where surplus men are aplenty. America is teetering closer to the edge of this than we realiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:41 PM
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Not possible anymore, because a big enough war will bring nuclear arms into play and then human extinction. There'll not be a World War III except one in which we fight with sticks and stones afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:38 PM
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No, the real threat is that these men will become more unproductive and become a drain on our taxes. Lots of them work in important jobs like infrastructure, and will abandon that for lower-stress, lower-paying jobs. Our system will collapse from neglect, not rape, murder or pillage, and then total demographic collapse. This is what is happening in Japan and Korea right this instant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:36 PM
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It's constantly argued that if society doesn't give unsuccessful men hope in the realm of love and relationships, they'll become a threat to society. The implication is that society therefore has to placate these men by giving them access to romance (i.e. women), otherwise they'll become dangerous. No, the problem is those men will become unproductive and destroy your civilization with a collapse of the tax base, or they'll seek lower paying, lower-stress jobs that achieve only subsistence, aban…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:34 PM
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I get that, but the phrasing was odd. It brings to mind little green men bursting out of someone's forehead. Honestly I think some of us could use a hyper intelligent green man drilling through our foreheads into our brain hahahhaa It's like someone living like an introvert when they're not an introvert. Sure, they might be able to pull it off for a while, but it's a straight shot to misery. I define demisexual tactics as holding off on acting on sexual attraction until after developing a strong…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:32 PM
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They get rejected for it, sometimes brutally. A man is not allowed to show fear when performing their mandatory arbitrary gender role of first approach. They especially better never show a lack of confidence. A woman can do this and get away with it. Male confidence is actually what women rely on to cover for their own lack of confidence. It's biologically hard-coded and inescapable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:30 PM
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Yeah, and that lonely woman will realize being with men who only want sex makes her loneliness worse and thus prefer to be lonely single than lonely because the person you are with doesn't actually care about you as a whole human being. This never fails to puzzle me. How is it that women, who don't care about men as whole human beings, want the treatment they never afford men? Men are rejected by women at the slightest hint of insecurity or weakness. Men on the other hand have to coddle her inse…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:27 PM
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This is why men say they're more resilient. Men face rejection for casual sex and relationships far worse than you and they keep trying as a rule of being male.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:24 PM
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But women don't get penalized for it like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:36 AM
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So basically you got stuck with the "men's difficulty mode" and decided it wasn't worth it? Men slog through all this shit and keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:35 AM
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Feminists have anti sex robot campaigns. https://campaignagainstsexrobots.org/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:08 AM
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And each of those countries are failed states. That's what polygamy does to a country.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:06 AM
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All that used to work. That stopped working upon the coming of the oughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:11 AM
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Absolutely there's a correlation. So many young women banging the same top guys, getting embittered by situationships, and then going "boy sober." Meanwhile this https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/articles/y-please-start-going-tiktoker-120750573.html
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:08 AM
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It's not about dating a woman vs dating a man. It's about dating a woman vs dating a child. A child is defined as someone who can't communicate their feelings. Full stop. No room for debate whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:58 AM
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A woman who gives a vague answer to that is a child and should be treated as such: as in, treat her like she's illegal to date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:42 AM
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I covered the benevolent sexism part in some of those studies; it’s really popular among men. And popular among women, too. They love receiving it. If they didn't then men wouldn't love doing it. And childfree women who have no kids to raise also get the same "I am the table" bullshit benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:41 AM
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This is why I wish we could leave y'all behind via rocket ship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:38 AM
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At some point men will learn how to be happy without women, and once they do things will even out a bit more when dating. Once men reach that point en masse, sexual apathy will be on the short horizon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:23 AM
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Basically not being nervous, not being anxious, and being sure of oneself. Women profoundly lack in all three but will not tolerate a drop below 100% in all three in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:20 AM
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Oooooh you're in trouble deep, son.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:19 AM
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For their peace of mind. Not to spite women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:17 AM
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They mistakenly don't think they exist. I know they do in droves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:17 AM
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Amen to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:16 AM
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Demisexuality isn't a tactic, though; it's an orientation in between allosexuality and full-on asexuality. Yes, but demisexual tactics and demisexual orientation are not the same thing. I thought that was clear in what I said. So vetting partners is fine, but physical attraction isn't really something to "be put aside," at least for people who haven't had "a serious neo cortex insurgency," whatever that might be. A neo cortex insurgency is your logical brain and common sense overriding your horm…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:15 AM
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There's actually two possible paths for the promiscuity-to-divorce pipeline: One, promiscuity causes lower pair-bonding, or two, promiscuity is the result of emotional or mental issues, which damage pair-bonding. I get it that you really want to engage in and defend casual sex so you go do you. Just don't expect a long-lived marriage. Good day!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:13 AM
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Modern women pay for dates, every study on this shows more men than women believe they are the ones who should pay. I literally said nothing at all about paying for dates. Read what I said for once. Women want men to entertain them during courtship, they want men to show unshakeable confidence and prove they're not only safe but can be a woman's emotional rock. Women prefer benevolent sexism from men. Entertaining is a lot more than just paying for dinner and a movie. Women give absolutely posit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:11 AM
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What the fuck. They look like factory generated clones. That look signals VAPID AS FUCK. That's literally a red flag level: Chinese military parade.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:57 AM
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passivity What is it with women having a problem with passivity when it's one of their core traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:48 AM
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I did, and I still got dates. I don't see why this issue keeps coming up. Women say that they want the man to pay but when men push back the women always fold like origami.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:06 AM
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Lilith this claim has got to be the most unsubstantiated horseshit of all time. I'd love to see your stats on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:05 AM
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Yeah when you see reality it's impossible to unsee. Also happy cake day!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:03 AM
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In other words, I am not demisexual, and for people who are not demisexual, your "covenant man" ideology and the pervading ideology of Meetup don't work for them. Demisexual tactics work for men who can walk that route, though. I propose that initial attraction should be put aside in favor of strict vetting. That does require a serious neo cortex insurgency. I trained myself in my 20s to see good or bad looks as data except I know that fails in extreme top or bottom 1% cases. I got really parano…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:03 AM
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We're talking about real wars and real violence, not TikTok I'm against real wars. Men are the primary victims of wars and make up the vast majority of deaths. Wars have been the primary way of getting rid of excess males. Plus now wars carry with it the risk of nuclear exchanges. I only talk to smart women and I do not talk to dumb women. Have you tried talking to smart women? I do enjoy talking to the 1 out of 10 women who don't think pacifism on the street or international level isn't pussy-a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:59 AM
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Women don’t have desire for men who want unequal relationships. LOL women want unequal relationships. They want men to entertain them during courtship, they want men to show unshakeable confidence and prove they're not only safe but can be a woman's emotional rock. Women prefer benevolent sexism from men. Women give absolutely positively nothing in return whatsoever. Dating is a parasite economy for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:56 AM
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Men need to know that women have no desire for men and continue to quiet quit dating as they already have been doing. Whether they get leverage on you or not, that will delete the leverage and power you have over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:50 AM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20drop%20is%20largely%20driven,from%2061%25%20in%202019). This drop is largely driven by single men, who are now 11 percentage points less likely than in 2019 to say they are looking for a committed relationship and/or casual dates (50% in July 2022, down from 61% in 2019). During the same time frame, there has been no significant change in the share of single women who are looking …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:47 AM
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I'm just saying you overshot it. Men do need to be less thirsty, but there's not need to give up casual sex altogether. It can still happen, as long as it's not aggressively pursued. I will be correcting that whenever I post this elsewhere. I actually think this is one of the few things that haven't changed in the modern era. Women you're friends with still have and make their own female friends that could be brought into your social world; and they're still going to have an easier time approach…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:37 PM
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Maybe so, but women depend on male disposability to take the burden of danger or extreme hardship off of them and they are not ever going to share that burden. Not ever. Biology strictly dictates that. As it is now and ever will be, patriarchy will be the easy way out of personal accountability. A woman hurts a man and a crowd of women cheer it? Make fun of a male domestic abuse victim? Blame the patriarchy and accountability goes right out the window. This will never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:35 PM
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And women wonder why half of single men don't even want to bother anymore. And that number is growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:31 PM
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I'm not a 100% pacifist, I'd say about 75%, but I fully support men who are. I'd be a hypocrite not to. For example I prefer nonviolent nonparticipation in the gender wars. It makes us impossible to defend against. One cannot fight back against absence. Plus using force and oppression (aka all Conservative politics) to drag women back is both immoral and ineffective. And yes, women can also be stupid about gender. Do you want to impress the lowest common denominator of female pseudoscience consu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:30 PM
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I'm a PPD male and I despise OF and Narcisstagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:23 AM
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There's a reason why there's an exodus of men leaving the dating scene entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:21 AM
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Ya know, I don't know why you women don't just wall yourselves up and avoid men altogether if you feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:18 AM
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Of course women and male feminists will say that. They hate men anyway. Fact is all men are taught that they have to fight and scrape and work hard to get a woman. That's not up for debate with anyone who's touched grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:13 AM
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Women don't like pacifist men. That's beyond dispute. And the fact that women place no value on the lives of their men is demonstrable fact. Women want men who can protect them, even if it means it puts his life at risk. That is male disposability. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10480609/ Direct benefits, in the form of protection and immediate resource acquisition, plays an important role in women’s mate preferences and indicates that formidability is an important criterion in mate se…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:12 AM
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Or, closer to your topic, how many men think they are entitled to a hot chick, regardless of their attitude, behavior, hygiene, etc.? Men dream of a hot chick, they don't feel entitled. We're all raised to believe that, hot or not, no relationship with a woman is guaranteed and we have to work hard to qualify for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:07 AM
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You're a woman saying this? I'd rather live in a society where women are upwardly mobile. I can see who they truly are. I'd rather live an ugly truth than a beautiful lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:04 AM
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You must be really, really into casual sex to be this hostile to the fact that casual sex wrecks sensitivity to oxytocin and pair-bonding instincts. Fine with me, I've no further desire to go back and forth like this when you refuse to see reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:03 AM
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Oh, I see, your reasoning is clouded by the need to justify casual sex no matter what. I think it would be wise to leave you to that. Have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:01 AM
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Being a fan of video games, anime, sci-fi, fantasy, etc. is very bad for men. The sad part is men have to force themselves to get into shallow society-approved mainstream hobbies which they quite often do not like. Masking never ends well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:00 AM
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Yes, most Meetups really are packing in the sausage, but in keeping with your second point, most of the women at the Meetups aren't the kind of women men are falling all over themselves to meet up with either. I've been to several Meetup events where every last woman in attendance was morbidly obese. I don't support your "covenant man" ideology, but Meetup closely aligns. The dominance of morbid obesity among meetup women wasn't exactly my experience. I attend some now as a married man not seeki…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:58 AM
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Casual sex doesn't make dick cheap. The thirsty pursuit of it does. Guys going up to dozens of women at clubs or saying gross things on social media makes dick cheap. If men cut out that sort of behavior, they could still enjoy casual sex, but demand for it would be significantly more balanced between genders. That was the point of my OP. This is especially true if they're also following the rest of your advice, and so not just saying "yes" to women they don't actually care about. Not just sayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:56 AM
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Men are already checking out and MAGA is the pendulum swinging back the other way in a very bad way. Women won't think for themselves and won't re-examine what punching up means. Men need to break the cycle and stop playing in the feminism vs MAGA gang mentality false dichotomy. Men can protest misandry without resorting to "duh hur hur cancel the 19th" nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:51 AM
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Toxic masculinity has been weaponized to pathologize men as a group. Most notably the toxic masculinity narrative intentionally avoids discussing how women contribute to these rigid gender norms that men are held to. Toxic masculinity, when contrasted to the huge steps made toward women's liberation, shows something much bigger is in play: male disposability. And that far, far, far predates patriarchy. You see male disposability across the whole animal kingdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:43 PM
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That's absolutely a misconception that has never stood up to the test of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:40 PM
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Holy shit that's internalized misogyny, and I'm not even a feminist. Should the women in your fantasy also wear those Handmaid's tale style oversized puritan bonnets, too? And have names like OfDaniel?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:38 PM
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Women haven't been sold off as property at least since the 1920s or earlier. Divorce is on the way down now that women have more freedom to choose. Women are also souring to casual sex more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:36 PM
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I wholeheartedly agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:35 PM
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That depends. A lot of meetups are sausage fests and others have a dynamic where the women focus on the men who were there the longest. The new guy spends precious years of his life languishing and probably finding no one at all. Meetups have largely been enshittified just like apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:35 PM
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lol it was the same for men who weren't the ones in charge. So I take it you agree with what I said: the social contract was corrupt to begin with. It should never have even started.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:33 PM
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That's because health executives are seen as mass murderers by the public and nobody is listening to your upcoming argument for why they're not. Luigi is likely to be acquitted via jury nullification.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:05 PM
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Then why do so many women engage in foodie calls?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:04 PM
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Problem is a lot of men aren't and won't be interested in dancing or being musicians. They would be engaging in a severe form of masking. Eventually their disinterest in such activities will come out and bite them on the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:04 PM
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Some people marry for life, you know. The casual sex explosion ruined that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:01 PM
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People with high partner counts are associated with higher rates of divorce. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10989935/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:00 PM
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And I am saying that we should break that contract on our end since women broke it on their end. Stop destroying our lives and bodies providing and protecting. Save ourselves since we are no longer getting sex, babies or labor. In fact, the social contract was corrupt to begin with. It should never have even started.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:58 PM
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I recognize the law of inertia. I am saying men should apply the unbalanced external force needed to act upon a corrupt culture in motion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:57 PM
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Yikes. Oxycotin /=/ oxytocin. At all. That's a misspelling. Come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:56 PM
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I'm sorry what is the point debating someone who just says "no its not"? Have a great day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:55 PM
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They could have been feminist women. My wife says she's a feminist but can't stand how bigoted and corrupt the movement is. Your stats are correct. My point is "damn the torpedoes, full speed ahead!" Those stats can be beaten if men rebel.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:54 PM
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Right away, it's clear why you don't expect men to sign on. It's the law of inertia. I dabbled in physics a bit: a culture that is in motion tends to stay in motion unless acted upon by an unbalanced external force. And when it involves culture, it means a very big unbalanced external force. Also, it sounds from your reasoning that attractive men don't actually need to give up casual sex at all, not even in solidarity or whatever. After all, hot guys aren't perceived as cheap and, contrary to wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:53 PM
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Oh I did not think of that angle! Very well said. I would totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:48 PM
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That is quite a hefty helping of side effects. I find them all to be quite encouraging, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:47 PM
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It's all about "punching up," fighting back against the oppressor. Problem with that is lower class men oppress no one. Women are punching laterally. Or sometimes even punching down. But they're women, so they get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:47 PM
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I just think it's best for men overall, not the best option for every individual man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:01 PM
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It is known that people with a high partner count do have problems with pair-bonding, or our equivalent, staying in a relationship. This is why.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:01 PM
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Move and keep chasing casual sex somewhere else? That's just exporting the problem elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:59 PM
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Except the power trip of stringing them along.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:58 PM
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True, but that's heresy to say around here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:58 PM
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Obsessive gaming is already seen as a bad thing. But for many women dating is also a game of exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:57 PM
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Nope, that's why he should go Dutch on the first date. I aim to fix that at the substrate level.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:57 PM
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And I am saying men should stop being so desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:56 PM
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Then enjoy the problems that come with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:55 PM
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Did you not read the OP? I said men need to make concessions, too. And I'm not continuing this conversation since you keep breaking the rules and downvoting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:55 PM
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This is all very true... and very heretical, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:05 AM
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The men who have the hardest time getting it, don't have any woman who wants to have casual sex. Why would the men who have casual sex especially the ones who have the most of it choose not to keep having casual sex. It also isn't casual sex that distorts the dating market it is that men are more attracted to women than the women are to men. The men who have a hard time getting casual sex are still feeding women's dopamine loops. They're feeding these women's egos and their thirst for validation…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:04 AM
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Men need to ditch the abundance and scarcity axis entirely. Do what women do, stop caring if any woman wants him. Women don't care if men want them anymore. Men should be the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:01 AM
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Don't do that in Canada. If she doesn't live with you you can still be stuck with "palimony."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:00 AM
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When did we have that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:59 AM
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But since your definition of sigma and beta is invalid, means nothing, and can be disregarded, who cares? If you as a woman cannot organize your life to work five days and squeeze out $30 for a meal, I feel bad for him. See how that feels when your rules are turn around on you? Also men can still go around you and your rules. He still doesn't need to negotiate or be coerced by your shaming language. In fact because of arguments like yours I would suggest men rebel against your shaming culture an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:58 AM
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It's true of oxycotin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:55 AM
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They're not feeding women's egos. That is a very good thing since 80% of men fall into the less attractive category. That's 80% of a woman's validation loop gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:55 AM
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Well then if you take such an angry and irrational view of things then we have nothing else to discuss. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:54 AM
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A woman who refuses to do a nice gesture right away like paying for his meal is a walking red flag to be avoided at all costs. That doesn't sound so nice when the gender role is put on you, does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:53 AM
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Men should never back down from seeking out casual sex. Then they're distorting the supply and demand curve to their detriment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:52 AM
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If someone conditions their brain to seek the rapid dopamine rush of a new partner, they may find the slower, more stable rewards of long-term oxytocin-driven attachment less satisfying. That's not pseudo-science.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:51 AM
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Then what do you plan to do, not have sex at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:17 AM
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Also men in general today just do not or refuse to understand non verbal language from women, because we all have mouths and we know English, so just speak Smart move in the era of enthusiastic consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:04 AM
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Well I'm glad you got lucky and that worked out for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:02 AM
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That's fine as long as you understand the dire consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:02 AM
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I'm pretty left leaning in my other considerations, so end up supporting pretty feminist political parties, but I'll never concern myself with women's rights again Then get ready for a return to alimony and losing your house, car, etc. because she wants to "find herself."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:01 AM
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"Till death do us part" is pair bonding made practical.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:00 AM
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It's the same as any other mood altering chemical - if you keep going to the well you develop a tolerance for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:00 AM
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Well then the man can wait it out for a woman who doesn't feel that way. He doesn't need to negotiate or be coerced by "you look cheap, disorganized, and arrogant" shaming language. I certainly wasn't, and I had a moderate dating life and wasn't an incel. Men can just go around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:59 AM
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But, I get if men wanna draw the line on that. I just think it's gonna put them farther away from finding a good thing, not closer. I believe about one out of every two women who engaged me was put off by splitting the bill. But one out of every two also didn't have a problem with it, including my wife. I don't think that going Dutch is the end of the world for men. And if enough men do it, that forces systemic change.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:57 AM
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There will always be those who will think like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:55 AM
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Okay, while both hormones are important in behavior, this isn't how it works at all. Oxytocin is involved in pair-bonding in both women and men. (Also, in out-group aggression. The whole "hug drug" reputation you see in pop sci is actually a lot more complicated.) Okay, let's go with that. It still means that casual sex makes them less sensitive to oxytocin. Which is bad for pair-bonding, and a good reason for men to abandon casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:11 AM
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Yeah HealthyGamerGG needs to be seen by a lot more men. He's super balanced and no bullshit. At most, I can see the demand to go dutch really curbing things in certain cultures and cities because it's just that prominent. I think men need to learn to suck it up buttercup and set some boundaries, and accept that she's not gonna fuck him on a first date. If it curbs their chances with women, so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:09 AM
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You should care about the women's rights thing on moral grounds but also because remember those days when women would just divorce a guy out of nowhere and snatch his house and car and move the pool boy in to fuck him on her bed while the husband is out on the street? That was the result of a world of women without rights, back when she needed a man's signature to rent or own a credit card. That was the sorry state of women's rights up until the 1970s. And that's when alimony was a fucking pande…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:05 AM
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Well some people do the dopamine loop thing. Every dating app swipe that turns into a match or message triggers a quick burst of dopamine. For some women, this provides a highly accessible source of external validation. This can't be denied. But it requires men to swipe a lot. If men aren't swiping then the dopamine loop stops. I bypass the argument over whether it's women's fault. The fire is burning the house down. It needs oxygen, heat and fuel. Men's chasing of women is the fuel. Take that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:01 AM
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This stuff of course is a bit crazy. "You starve women of their dopamine loops and their fuel for misandry...." Have you considered that if men went after women of better quality, they'd avoid these kinds of women? That is a good addition. I thought I properly stated this in my post when I said abandon chasing women based on their looks and look for women of better character. Sections 2 and 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:56 AM
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These problems can be solved together. What the government allows a "dating visa" ; women are allowed to move to the U.S, as long as they are dating a preapproved man who is having a hard time finding a girlfriend, and the women consented to this? Where do you get these ideas from, man? This is some seriously exploitational and immature fantasy writing. Speaking as someone who is not a feminist simp - this shit's creepy af.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:52 AM
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But tje red pill guys here want to have sex on the first date and expect sex as proof of desire, before any emotional connection is formed It's a paradox. Casual sex on the first date is roaring proof that she really wants you. But in the macrocosm, casual sex is ruinous for men as a group. The latter is more important than the former: men avoiding casual sex at scale brings short term pain and long term gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:37 AM
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lol did you find anyone to date in your social circle?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:36 AM
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"Well sweetie, you're not entitled to a relationship. You should learn to be happy without romance in your life." She should say the first part. Child Protective Services should take her son if she says the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:24 AM
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I think her point is her policy renders "why should i pay if she won’t fuck me" vs not saying that, irrelevant. If he's thinking "why should i pay if she won’t fuck me" she has filtered him the fuck out. Boom. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:54 AM
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Fine by me, I ran into women like you. I just nexted. Women like you (not saying this in any degrading way, certainly there are men for you) were the 1 out of 2 that didn't let me get to second dates. No problemo. For a man, 1 out of 2 is like batting a solid 0.700.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:52 AM
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Tell them no and they fold like origami. Or they pass you by and another woman quickly shows up. I'm not a Chad and that's how it was for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:20 AM
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Then why was it dog easy for me to get dates despite stipulating up front that we're splitting checks? I'm no chad. Maybe people believe that shit but when men stand up for themselves, they fold like origami?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:18 AM
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ROTFLMAO physician heal thyself!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:17 AM
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If only those same rules applied to women like they apply to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:37 AM
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I think we're all seen as utilities more than people regardless of gender, just different kinds of utilities. I'd rather be alone than with someone that makes me feel like shit. If we choose ourselves instead of relying on other people that don't care, we will be healthier and happier. Sounds perfectly fine by me! Those hormonal idiots with cavemen banging on drums in their ears might see a problem with that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:51 AM
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lol most of YOU don't have the bare minimum by any standards
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:49 AM
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That's what I meant by splitting the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:48 AM
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lol then he might as well just stop dating, or trying to. And the fact that women place no value on the lives of their men is not misogyny, it's fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:47 AM
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Some of my single friends read stupidly high volumes of erotic smut to the level of addictions. They are using it to replace something. I wonder if the women you interact with are likely to tell you about these habits. Book sales are stupidly high for these books. Funny how the media validates or outright ignores this. Because it's women doing it, I suppose. It's definitely distorting women's perspectives about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:22 AM
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Aw not this shit again. Dude, just state up front that you're splitting the bill. Tons of women do this already. Way too many in fact. Lots of women (like my wife for one) do it because they don't want you to feel entitled to sex. This fight is over, long over. It was over in the 1990s. Why are we constantly kicking this dead horse? Men have 99 problems with bad acting women, but this ain't one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:19 AM
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LOL no shame in wanting a bangmaid, eh? Okay. Well, good luck finding one hahahahahahhaha Seriously I hope you don't. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:42 PM
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That seems.. oddly specific though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:41 PM
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Being truly confident means being able to be vulnerable at times. Forcing a fake confidence is not brave at all, you're hiding from your own emotions instead of bravely facing them. Admitting weakness is a strength because you're progressing forward and learning how to handle difficult situations more effectively than someone who represses and hides from their emotions. That's the ideal. This society tragically falls light years short of that on average. Men are still seen as utilities more than…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:40 PM
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So you can renounce the bare minimum as long as you have money and power Which means there's really no bare minimum. The whole concept is not only nebulous but lacking in credibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:03 AM
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IOW: "this benefits me so just suck it up buttercup."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:01 AM
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But only men get penalized for not being confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:36 AM
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Women's requirements for men to be confident absolutely negates their desire for emotional openness. Far too many men are coming up and stuffing their insecurity and anxiety into a closet to make that approach happen. Then she fucking shit tests him like she's on a David Attenborough wild kingdom episode. The sad part is many of these same women lack the confidence they want in a man. She wants him to cover for her gaps. Yet he shows one whit of weakness and he's out! He's gotta be the rock. Be …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:36 AM
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Questions for women attract a hell of a lot of virtue signaling. Words utterly and laughably dissociated from actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:37 PM
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Where do these questions come from???
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:35 PM
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for being the bare minimum of decent himan beings. Yet men who renounce that bare minimum are utterly slaying it. Tell me, how many wives has Trump had so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:52 PM
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the Feminist State only allows a small list of emotions that males may have. Don't ask which because they change hourly based on feels.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/06/26 08:50 PM
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Dude, all women are good. The feminist state says so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:56 PM
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Trump himself said "I don't even wait. And when you're a star, they let you do it. You can do anything. ... Grab 'em by the pussy. You can do anything." You can't spin that away. That's him endorsing sexual assault. He has walked in on underaged girls in dressing rooms. He has been found liable for sexual assault. Bill Clinton got 10 times worse for far less.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:55 PM
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No, I downvote cuz you’re not bright. Says the one who can't debate her way out of a paper bag. Women aren’t the ones complaining en masse that they are lonely. 1) I showed you two articles by women who were complaining about female loneliness; which indicates 2) Women are suffering in silence. What women ARENT doing is bitching and moaning and advocating to enslave half the population because they would make a poor partner and everyone around can see it. No, these women are just being abandoned…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:52 PM
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Women say dating sucks when they need to feed their sour grapes. Women say they're killin' it when they want to dunk on men. It all depends on their mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:05 PM
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Younger women are getting wrecked by Chads. "Are we dating the same guy" and tea app are infirmaries for women being destroyed by Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:02 PM
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I think it’s cute that you think that. In case you haven’t noticed, the younger generations of women are being taught by older women to keep their standards high. You don’t hear about a female loneliness epidemic. Oh god I love it love it love it love it love it when y'all say this. You just made my entire day and it's not even 11am yet. Oh thank you so much for playing with debate dynamite without proper command of the facts. Sadly your misconceptions about female loneliness just blew up in you…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:59 PM
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A lot of men die protecting women. How many is irrelevant - the relevant issue is women place no value on the lives of their men. What the hell is she going to do when he's dead lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:43 PM
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No one is going to die but apparently a fuckton of a lot of women were homeschooled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:33 AM
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When your dick is big, size doesn't matter, but women love to hurl small penis jokes like firing bullets in Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:32 AM
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Wow man, I feel your pain about over-vigilance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:29 AM
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Most women call that misogyny or overreaction. They generally don't look kindly on men who do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:28 AM
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DOJ stats say women do get shorter sentences for the exact same crime. Full stop. https://www.ojp.gov/ncjrs/virtual-library/abstracts/gender-disparities-sentencing-departures-examination-us-federal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:27 AM
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I don't have to live in a war zone. But the downvotes from you women suggest that if I did, you'd throw us to the wolves like the women did the men in Ukraine. This proves that men really, really, really, really need to go on strike. Permanently.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:23 AM
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Young women are listening to their mothers, aunts and grandmas who are telling them to focus on themselves first and that men will always be there. I pray hard for the day that men are not there at the end of that, and that enough men have fully checked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:17 AM
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And there's enough women who are emotionally unsafe for men for men to need to be cautious around them. Inb4 you say "yeah but murder" whether it's murder or weaponizing your weakness against you, neither are safe to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:54 AM
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They burned anything women wrote and sent them to the gallows for stepping out of line back then. And to think these chudlings want to return to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:53 AM
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They fucking burned any such books written by women, and/or hung them as witches ffs man come on
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:52 AM
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But female Islamic scholars wrecks your whole argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:51 AM
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Women are quite self-aware. The issue is that there is an accountability crisis among women. They do something bad to men, they blame it on the Patriarchy. "We're part of why women get shorter sentences than men for the same crime" said no woman ever, for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:49 AM
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I will when women admit that bad men are outliers and not indicative of men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:43 AM
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Dang, I'm past hiring companions at this point. If I get divorced only my kids are stopping me from going full hermit. And that's not because of women, it's also because of the world that Agent Orange has left for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:43 AM
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I mean, it does, to some extent, ain't gonna lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:41 AM
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Change that to a lot fewer and you got an amen from me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:40 AM
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This, totally this. This part ain't just for you, it's for the chuds and apprentice-chuds out there: dudes gotta pick a lane. Don't pay for dinner or she submits to (general) you. They can't have both. Maybe this reaches one, I hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:40 AM
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I ain't gonna say I'm a saint or a feminist, but snatching women's rights is a red line for any sane man. Those of us who don't swallow the feminist horseshit gotta take a stand against this extremist crap too. Not enough men out there thinking for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:38 AM
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Those numbers are all going down, fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:36 AM
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Okay you're debating in bad faith now. I'll leave you to whatever you're up to here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:34 AM
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Exactly, thanks. I'm starting to see what's going wrong with this subreddit when people fail to understand a statement like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:32 AM
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A few, but yes. Far more than now. Today is like what John Constantine saw when he went to hell in that movie. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R0srr1KzP1U
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:31 AM
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I see these idiots on here talking about taking rights away from women and I'm like hello, 1950s are calling they want their idiocy back. These people never lived back when a woman had to get a man's signature to rent an apartment or own a credit card. Back when women would suddenly divorce their husband and take the house and car just to "figure herself out." Alimony was rampant. Half these conserviturds don't want to pay for her meal (neither do I for that matter) but then he wants her to subm…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:07 PM
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I didn't get married until the "third better one" came along. I would not ever go back into the dating market if I get divorced. Not into this horror show, no way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:02 PM
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oh sure, Ted Bundy and Richard Ramirez totally refutes my point and doesn't confirm it... uhhhh that's some poor logic right there. If I am ever on trial for murder I want you as my prosecutor lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:01 PM
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Homosexuality is definitely genetic. I don't know what percentage of the population is homosexual and don't care since it's a free country and they and "I hate my looksmatch" women all have the right to live their lives, but there's no way the "I hate my looksmatch" crowd can maintain its massive numbers if they don't procreate or pass on their memetic message.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:59 PM
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Yeah "show no emotion" was pretty much 1 out of every 2 girlfriends I had. I considered myself phenomenally lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:55 PM
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Could have something to do with the rise of conservatism in that cohort or cohorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:54 PM
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But they've gathered under that banner. Makes them easy to spot and avoid unlike any time in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:53 PM
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They're either genetically or memetically transmitted, which is effectively the same thing. Women who'd rather be alone than date their looksmatch represent a dying gene or culture. Either way it dies with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:52 PM
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Then why are there so many men who get burned on that crucible?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:51 PM
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No but you came at me with two more examples proving my point. You gotta admit that was kinda comical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:50 PM
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Well he's certainly not losing out by sitting out the gene pool while these guys are killin' it, nosiree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:49 PM
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Prominent feminists of her time lauded her manifesto.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:53 PM
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Yall date some heartless women lol Shit went steeply downhill after Gen-X.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:51 PM
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If women would rather be alone than date their looksmatch they're not procreating. Women who hold different views are procreating. Guess which culture wins the multi-generational race?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:50 PM
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The two are not the sameJust kidding, men who do that are trash and should be disowned by all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:48 PM
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Besides that point, you’re comparing apples to oranges. I do believe that reading erotica can often give women unhealthy expectations with the men in their life, but it’s genuinely different than the dopamine mind fuck that modern porn is. And this assertion allows it to flourish unimpeded due to lack of societal scrutiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:45 PM
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You're an anomaly worthy of celebration.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:43 PM
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That one's easy to isolate, stay away from Redpillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:43 PM
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So whataboutism Which is still not on topic and doesn't answer OP. That's what people deeply invested in hypocrisy say. Porn and erotica are very different. She might be against the porn industry bc strong overlap of actual people involved in prostitution, trafficking and drugs. Erotica is the literal mass indoctrination of women into treating men like disposable objects, a very real problem in our society. You have an active thread on here infested with women who have romance novels on the brai…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:14 PM
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A woman will say she wants a man to be less emotionally closed off. Then her pussy dries up when he cries because he has to put his dying cat to sleep. True story many many times over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:06 PM
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You've got a few examples of men you decided to date who lied. I have dozens of examples of women doing the same to me. Should I make that post and flip the title or can we all agree this was just an excuse to complain about your poor choice in partners? No, because it's okay for people to complain about men doing it, but not okay for men to complain about women doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:40 PM
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Those are some hugely awful examples, and very legit ones. Amazingly big relationship fractures can come over far more mundane and shockingly petty deceptions, like, for instance, denying being an anime' fan so as to not ick your date and then causing a major argument because your partner discovered a Nausicaa VHS you forgot to get rid of (oddly specific? Yup. Ask me how). Or going to night clubs with your date to impress her only to reveal that you hate night clubs later. Or playing big spender…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:39 PM
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Because your standards trivialize the value of men's lives. And the downvotes are proof that women of today should be avoided. I dunno if men should choose bear but choosing woman is clearly a fucking suicide pact. Utterly disgusting. We're not disposable meat shields. Downvote this. I've made my point, I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:29 PM
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The point is women are hypocrites the instant they broach the issue of porn. My question was intended to highlight that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:28 PM
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The sheer number of women on here who want men to throw their lives away protecting them. Fucking ay. This thread is hard core MGTOW fuel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:59 AM
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Who protects him? And what happens when he dies protecting you? What a waste of a human life. Who's going to protect you then? All you are telling is that you don't care about what would happen to a man in that case. You see his life as worthless, or worth less than yours. Why should he want you in his life? You say you don't believe men when they say this. Fine. You don't have to. It just is whether you believe it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:55 AM
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You won't live long being some woman's meat shield like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:51 AM
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You have a severe sociopathic tendency that you need to get over. Find someone else to give you the therapy you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:50 AM
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you’re going to get a lot of comments from nerdy reddit women who like and prefer nerds In other words, women who are virtue signaling. The only nerds or geeks that are popular with women are handsome men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:20 AM
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Just because someone fucks a decent person that doesn’t mean they wouldn’t fuck a bad person, just because someone fucks a bad person that doesn’t mean they wouldn’t fuck a good person. What part of this don’t you understand? The part where this is all theoretical and nonexistent in the wild. And Jeremy Meeks? What about him? No homo but He’s an objectively striking handsome guy who did his time and has reformed. I’ve listened to him in interviews and he knows he’s blessed and he doesn’t take it…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:18 AM
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Can't wait for those women to age out of the gene pool and be replaced by women with more reasonable standards of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:16 AM
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Yeah and who's protecting him? Who's going to protect you after he dies protecting you? I say men should go on strike and stop doing this, and let the revolted women age out of the gene pool. No more dying for women. Fuck that. We're not disposable meat shields, lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:14 AM
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Maybe we need to accomplish symmetry by having all the men who are in this situation outright rebel and clog the courts until the system collapses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:12 AM
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And women who vote for that creature are far worse. They're traitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:11 AM
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The courts have already shut that down. Stare decisis. There's no fixing it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:10 AM
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You sound like someone who hurls false accusations at men. Women like you belong in a prison cell!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:09 AM
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Your whole post was about anti porn. There's no anti-romance novel movement of any appreciable size even though they objectify men as meat shields and walking wallets.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:08 AM
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Oh but you know he had to go get therapy for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:07 AM
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I don't get why you insist on being so clueless or dishonest. Not sure which is your problem yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:06 AM
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doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to fuck a decent guy This is so hilariously wrong on a practical that I can't continue this and not laugh at the same time. You ignored the other example I gave, and then there's Jeremy Meeks too, and many other examples. Uhhh let's see now Criminals are more successful than law-abiding citizens at making kids
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:05 AM
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Maybe, maybe not, but it is true that criminals make more kids than law abiding people. But meanwhile stay mad about one example eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:01 AM
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I dunno. Women are making it clear that not being rejected by a woman is worse than being rejected nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:59 AM
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She claims that guy raped her, do you automatically believe a woman’s rape allegations? Because I sure as hell don’t. Whether or not she's lying is irrelevant. She accused this guy and went back to him. That's awful enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:58 AM
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Yes technically it is rape because abuse of power. But it is still an example of women who wanted to fuck a criminal and not a decent guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:56 AM
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It’s not irrelevant, oh really? Then how do you explain this this this and this? All examples of men with negative moral character and got women anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:53 AM
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Well it is an example of horrible men that decent men are losing out to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:50 AM
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That woman is a rapist. Inmates can’t consent. But Mary P Koss, Ms. "1 in 4 women get raped," said women can't rape men. She's a feminist. You gonna disagree with a feminist minister of propaganda now?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:49 AM
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do you want me to link articles to ted bundy and richard ramirez to prove men hate women? Please do link articles to TWO MORE MEN who got tons of fan mail from women. Please do. I swear to God this subreddit is full of people who just farm L's.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:47 AM
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Okay, and? He never got in at all without good looks and/or charisma. I mean fucking ay, content of character? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:49 AM
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Then take it up with her, I didn't write it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:47 AM
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There's a ton of married fat women who want a word with you. So yeah they are mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:47 AM
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That's an irrelevant question. No man deserves a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:46 AM
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I’m anti porn The Venn Diagram of women who are anti-porn and women who read romance novels where men risk their lives to save women is almost a perfect circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:13 PM
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I was all in until he said "why should men vote for any woman or any womens movement or rights?" That's a deplorable bridge not to be crossed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:08 PM
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Uhhhh this is also why boys who are raped by women get slapped with a sentence of paying child support if she gets pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:07 PM
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When she gets pregnant she decides for both of them if he pays child support. Rights become asymmetrical at this point. If she can abort, then he should be able to. Men are asking for symmetry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:06 PM
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Candace Owens gets a gold star for trying to do that to black women. But man, her spat with Erica Cuck, that's some popcorn right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:04 PM
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Thanks for abandoning your original argument about Patriarchy being the cause of all this. Thanks for confirming the OP!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:02 PM
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Helping autistic men doesn't change women's desire. And in your context, helping them means masking, which is actually worse for their mental health. Speaking as the cousin of an autistic man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:01 PM
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Age is just a number until you can prove it never happened. And you sound like someone who falsely accuses men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:00 PM
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That's a straw man argument. The fact that a man's moral character is irrelevant compared to his looks or charisma doesn't mean good looking or charismatic men can't have a good moral character. But generally speaking it's more prevalent in society that a man without good looks or charisma is presumed to have poor moral character. That's the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:00 PM
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Tuesday is "men will fuck goats" day. Today is "men won't date just any woman" day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:09 PM
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The true reality check that a man's moral character is irrelevant compared to his looks or charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:01 PM
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Let's put this more simplistically: These guys are losing out to both decent men who do succeed with women, and even rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:00 PM
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There was never not a time when men were not utilities. Our sexual dimorphism is due to men doing the dirtier and more dangerous work. That's where it all starts. Men who couldn't, didn't breed. That's almost every animal species out there except the ones where the male gets eaten. Which means this is how nature does it, not the patriarchy. And if patriarchy "reinforces it" that's still irrelevant. Take patriarchy away and nature still rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:56 PM
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Do you think the women don't read romance novels?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:50 PM
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OP is misinterpreting the zeitgeist data. It's not that women are all dating the top 5-10% of men. It's that they desire the top 5-10% of men and they wind up settling for the rest when they can't get the man they want. Most men are consolation prizes for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:33 AM
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Well, considering you have no evidence that these norms come from the Patriarchy, I guess we're deadlocked here. Except patriarchy only started ~7000 years ago and the gender empathy gap for men has been around for far longer than the Patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:25 AM
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What, and do what you're doing? Nah thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:22 AM
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Women are already fighting to end the legal practice of punishing rape or even just generally abused victims. I wish more men would join in. I've tried to get men to join in with statistics for male rape/abuse victims. They either say they'd be happy if they were underage and an older women wanted them so men should stop complaining or they say "well why would they let someone they can overpower abuse them" or they just say they cant do anything about it, so why bother thinking about it. Men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:21 AM
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But if your argument is that men would still be expected to suppress their emotions even after patriarchy ended, then all you’ve shown is that those norms can outlive the system. You haven’t shown they’re unrelated to it. Those norms came before Patriarchy and they will persist forever even without it. They come from nature. Weakness isn't tolerated in males of any species.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:18 AM
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When are decentering men and choosing bear out of revenge and shameless use of their sexual leverage. You hypocritically defend this garbage because women hate men. Please go choose bear and leave us entirely alone. Good bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:16 AM
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If it's common knowledge then why all the hate for men resorting to plastic surgery to meet the aesthetic baseline for attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:20 PM
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I sincerely thank you for swimming against the mainstream like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:19 PM
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Above is your response after I called you out for accusing me of it and you AGAIN attempted to twist it into something else. Welp, I can't apologize for your arguments' disconnection with reality. That's gonna have to remain your problem. I'll leave you to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:18 PM
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When people leave their screens they get run over by the reality train and tiktok moments are on the list of passengers riding that train.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:17 PM
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Crysta Abelseth I only see an accusation here, not a conviction. But if he did do that, this should be motivation for women to join us men in ending this legal practice of punishing rape victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:16 PM
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You can take revenge if you're a woman and you personally don't call that taking revenge. You only call it taking revenge when a man does it. If it's not taking revenge when women choose bear or de-center men, it's not taking revenge when men decide to disengage. But ultimately, really, what are you going to do about it if it is revenge? Yell at them while they're leaving? Shame them? Write them off after they've written you off? What's your response plan here?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:14 PM
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Patriarchy is a social system where men hold primary power and dominate in roles of political leadership, moral authority, social privilege, and control of property. If you end the system Patriarchy is a social system where men hold primary power and dominate in roles of political leadership, moral authority, social privilege, and control of property, men will still be forced to hide their feelings. You are essentially redefining patriarchy but you can't have patriarchy without men in control.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:12 PM
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I'm sorry that's happening to you, but it happens to us men, too, and we have to suck it up and keep trying. Rejection stings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:10 PM
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If you get rid of Patriarchy the same social dynamics would persist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:44 PM
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Men would have to do that even outside of a patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:42 PM
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That is why I avoid traditional conservative culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:40 PM
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I pointed out that men view it as an act of revenge. There you go again, trying to deny men their autonomy. You're okay with gender punishment when women do it but not if men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:40 PM
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It's a Gen-Y/Z thing. You're correct if you're talking about Gen-X or before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:39 PM
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I don't agree. I just say that your point is not relevant since Tiktok is not disconnected from reality. It is a credible source to be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:37 PM
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It already is women too (rapists can claim visitation rights with the kids of their victims, they can fight for custody in court, they can sue anyone who helps the victim if they get an abortion after being raped, including friends, family, and even the driver) Please pardon but I've never heard of a case of a woman rape victim confirmed as a rape victim in court being made to pay child support for the baby. I agree with everything else and it's an injustice though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:36 PM
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Also note you're breaking the rules by downvoting posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:24 PM
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Your disregard for male autonomy and attempt to turn male autonomy and disengagement into terrorism is duly noted. I can imagine the look on your face as your campaign continues to fail to convince men to stop disengaging. That's the problem with disengagement: there is no defense against it. But you keep trying and failing, okay? Also women are cowards. Why don't they go out and choose the bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:23 PM
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Well since the women on Tiktok confirm what OP is saying there's nothing for me to tell OP
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:19 PM
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They don't have to be to be credible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:17 PM
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You're the one who responded to me. You're my superfan!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:59 PM
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Fewer men service women anymore. Whatcha gonna do when the gravy train goes all the way off the rails?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:59 PM
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It's not a stalemate, it's an extraction economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:58 PM
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Social media like tiktok takes what happens in real life and chronicles it on video. That's not an accusation, that is how reality works.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:56 PM
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You see women saying that about emotionally wounded men right here. It is literally what "I'm not your therapist" means.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:53 PM
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Going by that logic I can show you women who want to kill all men, does that make them representative of your entire gender? No? Then those dudes don't represent us either. Speed dating is an activity where women ask men to talk to them and approach them. Men don’t show up. They make it abundantly clear that this is punishment for real, perceived, and anticipated rejections. Men exercising their autonomy is punishment to you? Oh please get over your sense of victimhood and entitlement. Men don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:52 PM
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Because if we give women empathy they won't give us any in return. We've been coddling women's hurt feels for eons and they still punish male vulnerability. We still have to present a veil of unshakeable confidence and we still have to hide our anxiety and nervousness. Women who are wounded by previous men get rescued and they get men going on about how they're not like that previous guy and dudes will do penance to you for what other men did to you. What will the average woman do to a man who h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:24 PM
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That's actually scarier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:21 PM
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You know, if other techniques worked the way you think they do, men wouldn't have migrated to apps where she is already automatically looking for a mate and there's no ambiguity about permission to approach. Read that twice because that's more important of a detail than you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:20 PM
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No, women want to punish men. They don't even like men, they like the validation they can farm from male attention and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:19 PM
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The scary part is that boys who are raped by women get punished with child support if she gets pregnant. Literally courts classify him as both victim and offender. Literally. https://lawpublications.barry.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1017&context=cflj https://www.usatoday.com/story/opinion/2014/09/03/child-support-statutory-rape-justice-law-men-column/15044791/ Male victims of statutory rape are thought of as culpable for child support because, as males, they are not seen as victims, but alwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:17 PM
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They're not any easier to find than it's easy for you to find a man who doesn't offend you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:13 PM
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Social media takes what happens in real life and chronicles it on video. People fail to understand this aspect of social media and mistakenly dismiss it as inorganic content.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:05 PM
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Now even I couldn't think of a better way to increase the number of dead bedroom marriages by an order of magnitude. Well done. Slow clap.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:03 PM
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Huh. Women like men who serve them. They don't like serving men. Finally someone who's honest about this asymmetry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:12 AM
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"Where are all the decent men" lol I love it when women say that. They're in your friendzone. You know, where you put them on the shelf until you're ready to stop dating crazy exciting dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:48 AM
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Some feminist downvoted me for telling the truth. These women on here really hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:46 AM
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No women said anything about it. She's a public figure and women ignored her rapebrag. They would not do that if it was a man. Oh and I'm done here since you downvoted me for telling the truth. That shows what kind of person feminists are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:45 AM
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When it happens to men it's done openly without consequence. Thank Mary P Koss, the feminist who said women can't rape men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:43 AM
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Boys who get raped by women get punished by courts with paying child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:36 AM
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Oh that's why Amy Schumer bragged about fucking a blacked out drunk man and you women gave her a free pass about it. She went on a sex date with a guy she described as "completely plastered." Despite recognizing how drunk he was, she stayed. They eventually went to his bedroom and had sex, though Schumer later described the encounter as awkward and unpleasant because of how intoxicated he was. She got away with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:35 AM
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The laughable part of your argument is you think there are women nowadays who aren't like that. Good comedy right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:29 AM
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Men are mad that they always have to make the first move. If men stop approaching women, humanity goes extinct. Half of young men have never approached women at all. Your "men are salty" narrative isn't even relevant anymore. Men aren't mad, they're apathetic. Half of single men don't even care about women as a concept anymore. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20drop%20is%20largely%20driven,from%2061%25%20in%202019…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:28 AM
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Oh, I see, you failed to comprehend what I wrote. Men aren't salty and bitter that they can’t make passes at strangers at the grocery store. Half off young men haven't even approached a woman. Half of single men are utterly apathetic about women now. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20drop%20is%20largely%20driven,from%2061%25%20in%202019). This drop is largely driven by single men, who are now 11 percentage points …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:24 AM
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On the contrary, we've figured out why you are utterly shunned by men. You can't refute me, all you can do is hurl personal attacks when I hurt your feelings. Take your hurt feelings and inflict them on someone else. I'm done with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:22 AM
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Wow, you really reek with insecurity, arrogance and ignorance. At least I am connected with reality. You are not. You'll not ever disrespect me. This conversation is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:20 AM
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It’s like complaining that you have to go to the grocery store because you want food. You don't need to engage in a hostage negotiation to get into the grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:06 PM
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Yes and those men who get into a relationship usually come to regret it because they have to walk on eggshells to keep her from losing her shit at him over something her boss did at work and her past cock carousel Chads have her on high alert waiting for her current man to do something world-shattering like draping dirty clothes over the edge of the laundry basket (first offense = meltdown), etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:02 PM
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Women: salty and bitter that their poor mating choices and dual mating strategy backfire in their faces Men: salty and bitter that half of men don't even make passes at strangers anywhere and women are still bitching and hating on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:58 PM
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So why are women allowed to be salty and bitter about shit in the dating world but men aren't?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:54 PM
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One thing no feminists do is hold women accountable for the bad shit they do to men. If a woman abuses a man, he musta had it coming. Or when women say men are useless, they agree. Most feminists, though, stay silent about it. Like when this happened: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=91O3wDSy_HE and this happened https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r23u608aPkQ and this happened in 2024: https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=2319879675069860 feminists stayed dead silent. No accountability for these women …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:47 AM
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Well, I mean men of the world could try going off-planet, I suppose?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:07 PM
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Wait, why are women allowed to be salty and bitter about shit in the dating world but men aren't? Social activities died as a viable option in the 1990s. I used to do it myself back then. What happened culture-wide is the men who were there the longest started getting all the women's attention. That's literally when the apps made it out the gate. If social circles still worked there'd literally be no apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:06 PM
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But the red pill likes to focus on shallow dysfunctional women. Shallow dysfunctional women are now the vast majority of the ecosystem. It does not help that RP coping tactics only make for more dysfunctional women, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:04 PM
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A parasite does not know what it is doing. It feeds because that's it's biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:02 PM
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Do you know what "Men can do all of that" means? It includes not harassing women. The narrative that approaching a woman is harassment is why half of young men have never approached a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:01 PM
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Red Pill was the original "bring 'em young" doctrine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:00 PM
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Porn is the symptom, not the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:59 PM
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A man invests mountains of emotional labor proving his manliness to her before the relationship and then invests a ton of invisible unrecognized emotional labor during the relationship. Then very occasionally this erodes away their sex drive and women have a surprised Pikachu face. The joke writes itself. When the situation happens that you describe, it's because the man is exhausted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:59 PM
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They should choose bear. You know, like women do because they generalize men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:56 PM
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It's not low enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:55 PM
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What I am saying is that exploiting men for validation is unconscious behavior, not conscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:03 AM
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Men can do all of that and still find it an exercise in suffering when trying to court a woman under any circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:00 AM
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You disagree with statistical facts and then downvote me and violate the rules against downvoting. So yeah no more discussing this with you. See ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:19 AM
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I'd be happy if the sexes separated entirely. But we get to take all the stuff that men built.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:17 AM
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Women fail the bare minimum of emotional safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:11 AM
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If you go with that premise you can predict the actions of most women in the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:10 AM
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I would take this article with a grain of salt though bc it's not sourced from Afghanistan. The source is credible and unassailable whether it hurts your feelings or not. It stands uncontested. Correct bc marriage rates have very little effect on off-putting wars. High marriage rates don't stop wars but low marriage rates start them. That's life. However I bet there is a greater overlap between society collapse and monagomous marriages than society collapse and polygamy You bet wrong. https://ww…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:10 AM
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It's not a conspiracy. Emotional parasitism of men is biology, it's the inherent consequence of being the selective sex. Being the selecting sex means addiction to dopamine loops from playing games with men. Bad faith is not by intent, it's by hormonal drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:06 AM
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I'm not a redpiller. I'm purple. Redpill has women down cold. Their plan of action, however, is pathetic and only making things worse. I’ve never looked at any of those men who “aren’t playing” and every thought of them as winners. In fact, all I’ve ever seen from them is that they’re a bunch of massive losers Of course, you can't stand men who aren't getting exploited and scammed by women. You're jealous of them and your insecurity shines like the sun when you write obsequious crap like this. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:03 AM
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It's not controversial, it's both extraordinarily obvious and overlooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:59 AM
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I oppose laws to restrict women's freedom. I'd rather see you as you are. A lot of women are such voracious vampire parasites it's amazing they can see their own reflection. You’re all slaves to your lust and it’s disgusting. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20drop%20is%20largely%20driven,from%2061%25%20in%202019). This drop is largely driven by single men, who are now 11 percentage points less likely than in 2019 …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:58 AM
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That doesn't make a woman not suspect him. She also wants him to be confident specifically because it assuages her fears about him. A lot of men don't have that confidence because women are not emotionally safe to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:20 PM
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That was never enough. Women want men to feel guilty, to be in a constant state of penance. This fuels a quiet dopamine loop for women in which they can exert power over men. As in watching men perform the minefield dance for her approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:59 PM
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You're forgetting one basic thing. This isn't about women's safety. It's about emotional parasitism. This whole safety narrative about holding all men responsible generates a perpetual motion engine of dopamine loops fueled by men constantly auditioning for women's approval. It's a fucking rush for women as a collective. They'll do anything, say anything, to keep that engine running.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:57 PM
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I think men are better off lonely than paired with most women of today.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:42 PM
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How safe a woman feels has nothing to do with your actions. You can be the safest son of a bitch in the world and she'll choose bear or go with the bad boy. Their love of bad boys and shitheads is 100% of their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:41 PM
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They're going to try and salvage themselves by saying they'll date older women when in real life they're chasing 18 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:39 PM
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The reality is men are checking out. Stats show it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:38 PM
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Polygamy is rampant in Afghanistan. Wars are happening in Russia/Ukraine and Palestine/Israel despite marriage rates. But when you have polygamy, that invariably leads to societal collapse. Tell me something, what women are being abused in private by men who have checked out and aren't even bothering to chase them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:37 PM
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They claim this shit but it ain't gonna happen. What's happening is men are checking out, we have an exploding demographic crisis, and it's exploding our national debt. We'll end the way Rome did when they got hit with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:35 PM
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Unless women do not exist, men are not the system. Gross or not, you cannot and will not beat history or human nature. Huge numbers of single men mean societal collapse. What's your next hat trick, declaring that burning fossil fuels don't cause global warming? You're fighting nature here and nature will always win. Be mad about it. Stay mad. See ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:34 PM
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Again what subjugation are you talking about? You're just using buzzwords/keywords now. And women will not be in charge as a class. We already have such societies like the Musuo. They lived in mud huts until foreigners came, had pity on them, and built better structures.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:30 PM
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okay I concede it happened to you. But I'm sure you had other men lined up fairly quickly. That's not the reality of unemployed men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:28 PM
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Men are already quiet quitting more than they are engaging in violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:25 PM
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Here to watch the red pillers virtue signal hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:04 PM
1

No. I am not moving goal posts. The crux of my entire statement that you replied to is within the context of a woman in romantic partnership with a man. If anything I’m doubting your ability to comprehend holistically. That's okay, I'm doubting your ability to write with clarity. I can care less what you think of me and am willing to disengage from trash talkers at the blink of an eye. Furthermore, this thing your ilk keeps repeating about lesbian DV is delusional and off-base. I’ve touched on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:03 PM
0

The ugliest woman will have more sexual and romantic/relationship leverage than the hottest man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:39 PM
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Men have a sex drive 200x higher than it should be and it's giving women infinite leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:38 PM
2

Per capita: for every lesbian there is a low risk of rejection when talking to a woman. For every man there is a sky high risk of rejection when talking to a woman. That's you not understanding per capita.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:37 PM
1

We men will trade you your illness empathy gap and you women take our death empathy gap. Deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:36 PM
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Do you understand what per capita means?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:35 PM
1

Like I said, you can say that from your privileged spot above the water line.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:34 PM
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Pretend I said: A man being partnered has never been a guarantee of non-harm and mutual consolation toward the wife (and kids). I'll pretend you didn't move the goalposts there. Women are also violent toward men. Not that this fits your narrative, but we know that fact is inconvenient. Hell, lesbian partner violence is just as bad. It's as if *gasp* domestic violence isn't a gendered issue. The heresy of it all! As a student of history and human behavior, I’m aware. And yet it doesn’t move me to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:33 PM
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And men are more likely to quit society over being violent, too. I'm addressing your subtext - that unspoken but universally understood footnote that men are likely to have some violent uprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:29 PM
1

The rest of those women were complicit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:26 PM
0

Yeah... try riding that high horse when you actually face having to chase men and getting rejected for the stupidest of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:26 PM
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You do know that wars and civil unrest lead to death on a huge scale and laughably outsize domestic abuse in terms of threat level, right? That kills decency both private and public. Also reporting is up and general crime is ticking down. So men aren't becoming more harmful in public spaces, either, except when you listen to the media peddling perpetual panic. Korea and Japan also traditionally/historically had high rates of domestic violence. And now they have men checking out entirely. Those m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:25 PM
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That's only true for you. You even said 99 percent of cold approaches end up in a failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:21 PM
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Women have gone from whining to giving up, then mocking men who did the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:21 PM
7

Women approach women far less often per capita than men approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:42 PM
2

I hate to break it to you but 46% of women voted for Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:41 PM
0

Ummm https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20drop%20is%20largely%20driven,from%2061%25%20in%202019). This drop is largely driven by single men, who are now 11 percentage points less likely than in 2019 to say they are looking for a committed relationship and/or casual dates (50% in July 2022, down from 61% in 2019). During the same time frame, there has been no significant change in the share of single women who are loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:39 PM
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And your attitude is so uneducated, arrogant, lacking in empathy, tone deaf, and passive aggressive that I am left wondering if any man would put up with that. Er, wrong, I don't wonder. I don't really care. Your hypocrisy in accusing me of "attacking" makes this conversation pointless. I don't deal with people who engage in trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:38 PM
2

What subjugation are you talking about? Is this one of your paranoid, baseless feminist fantasies again?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:36 PM
14

Okay so women get turned down a hundred times a year?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:35 PM
4

I can't imagine being a woman sitting online ranting about shit she has no experience or knowledge about being a parent. How embarrassing for that family. Off with ye and your personal attacks. We're done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:34 PM
12

Men complain because they get rejected a lot more than lesbians do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:24 PM
1

It collapsed because Hypergamy caused men to stop giving a shit about the empire. With reduced marriage hopes they saw no reason to keep contributing. Military enrollment collapsed and men just left. The same is happening right now in Japan and Korea: men are not participating in the system anymore. Japan is especially bad with its Herbivore Men. American men are checking out, too, to a smaller but growing degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:15 PM
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If everywhere smells like shit, check your shoe. If you met one asshole, you just met one asshole. If everyone’s an asshole, you’re actually the asshole. Yeah unless it's a woman. If all women are trash then the guy is the asshole. If menaretrash then the guys are the problem. I gave you solutions to the problems you claimed men have and you didn’t like them. You are actually proving that these problems men have are self-inflicted. Again, blaming men instead of the misbehaving women. No further …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:11 PM
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I'm married and I have a teenage son in the middle of this shit show. Not that it matters, you only asked that to get a rise out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:09 PM
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What your argument leaves out is that women are not choosing in a vacuum. A man being partnered has never been a guarantee of decency. No but historically it has increased the amount of decency in society. Large numbers of chronically unpartnered men has led to wars and civil unrest. But more importantly it has caused men to check out of the system and collapse nations due to lack of support. The Roman Empire is a glaring example of that. Korea and Japan are also swirling in the drain because of…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:26 PM
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Classic game of societally fatal misdirection. You've got your eye on the dumbass misogynists. There's not going to be a Republic of Gilead because civilization will collapse well before that. The real dystopia is the ongoing, slowly creeping mass disengagement from the system by men. This has happened before and it has destroyed civilizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:24 PM
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No, society will collapse like the Roman Empire did when it faced these exact same problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:20 PM
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It's a stupid argument and it grossly distracts from the REAL problem of a large number of lonely men: societal collapse from lack of participation. Literally this has happened before. What we're dealing with right now is why the Roman Empire collapsed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:19 PM
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Nope, your points aren't worth responding to. The solution of dumping women who ask stupid questions like that trumps your points and makes them moot. Your point has been deleted at the substrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:15 PM
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So guys like having those shitty women in their dating pool and won’t do anything to get them out and have better women in their dating pool. That is a self-inflicted problem. The problem is they're all shitty. The situation is utterly binary: deal with what's out there or die lonely. But I do support the demographic MAD option. Why should people care about a self inflicted problem? It's only self-inflicted if you deny that women are part of the problem. But that's been a consistent thing with y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:14 PM
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Why can’t you guys ever raise awareness about male problems without using it to tear down women’s problems. Raising awareness about male problems is automatically seen by women as taking resources away from women's problems. Women made this a zero-sum affair, not men. There's this thing called the Empathy Gap. Look it up. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:40 PM
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Men take as much personal accountability as women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:35 PM
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Okay, so let 'em gamble. Won't be my problem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:34 PM
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I got a lot of backlash from men for saying that. Why should people feel bad for a self-inflicted problem? Why? You get backlash because doing so eliminates 99% of women from the dating pool. Though as far as I'm concerned it's still a valid solution. A major demographic collapse will serve as a lesson for future generations as they re-settle cities left empty by the correction. Women like me have also said this and guys won’t listen. So why should I care about a self-inflicted problem? They're …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:33 PM
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Thanks for being an outlier. That's a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:30 PM
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BUT - if I were suddenly single - and I pray that never happens - I would do great out there. Without great looks, without vast wealth. Call me “woke” or “blue pilled” all you want, I don’t care. I’m likable, sensitive, funny, and I get along great with women, and your bitter RP ruminations only make me sad for you. The difference between both of you and me is I did okay (I didn't slay, I didn't wither off the vine either) when I was single. If I become single again I know how to flourish. Thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:42 PM
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You'd care if you failed the standard and couldn't find a man to date and millions and millions of other women fell into the same morass. They'd be in the streets protesting if they fell victim to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:39 PM
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Joblessness and working low paying jobs makes men unattractive to women, not vice-versa. This a statistically established fact. Take a man with a shit job and put him out there, he's fucked. Give him a top flight banker job and he's instantly an eligible bachelor. This dynamic is so calcified it's an anomaly to see any other dating norm in play.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:37 PM
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Or just move onto the next woman who doesn't ask such stupid questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:35 PM
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I'm just gonna leave this with "let 'em fuck around and find out."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:34 PM
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So why do women whine about "where did all the good guys go?" The whole de-centering men and quiet quitting movement is women confessing that they've scared off the respectful, boundaries-abiding men. It's a confession more than an accsation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:33 PM
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Most men don't try cold approaches. 99 percent of cold approaches end up in a failure Exactly. So why do you disagree that real life is worse than apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:32 PM
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Or is it dont be a little bitch with a victim complex? Translation: Don't complain as women exploit and manipulate you into the ground SO YES. Time to de-center women if they all think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:31 PM
1

When I was even a teenager I didn't want to date women that young. I dated women in my age group because I didn't have any other choice. I found young women to be appallingly vapid and driven to very bad life decisions and driven to choose bad men, and both factors got them in a whole fuckton of easily avoided trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:28 AM
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Yes it does. Try it some time. Be sure you're ready to leave PPD though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:15 AM
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I have my boundaries and I am well beyond pathetic attempts to shame me out of them. She's a low value woman who has nothing to offer. You're going to accept that. This conversation is over. Stay mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:11 AM
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And yet women have scared off respectful, boundaries-abiding men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:03 AM
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he has similar social beliefs as old school conservatives. He has similar social beliefs as modern day conservatives. That makes him a conservative by any reasonable definition of the word. Basically you're engaging in the No True Scotsman fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:01 AM
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If that’s how you’re gonna react then whoever asked you the question Is a low value woman not worth her time of day. Her very presence is an insult to all rational men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:00 AM
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Instead of asking dumbass irrelevant questions how about asking things like what are his favorite hobbies or his political leanings? Why do women have to always play games?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:45 AM
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it would tell me she wears weights to keep herself seated because her skull is full of helium instead of brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:26 AM
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if you ask if he admires his own accomplishments wow that's an even BIGGER shit test. If he says no, he has low self-esteem. If he says yes, he's a narcissist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:25 AM
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your answer to this question is important in the sense that your answer doesn’t matter That's a shit test. She doesn't give a fuck what woman you answer with. The question is a waste of energy. The woman herself is a waste of energy. Best to answer and then end the date on the spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:09 AM
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Thanks a lot. Now I weep that no woman asked me that question when I was single. I always had a list of women I admired at the front of my mind since I was a teenager. I would not at all expect her to ask why I admired them. I agree with other posters, in real ife this question would just be a shit test. It may not be for you but that's just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:07 AM
1

It was worse than a meat grinder back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:01 AM
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You're an outlier. Apps would not be a thing if that was true for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:00 AM
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Misandrists fueling the flight to the right is the symptom of a societal disease called "people can't think for themselves." People feel they have to be part of one gang or the other to feel badass because they have numbers on their side. The real solution is none of the above. Nonviolent nonparticipation, at scale, will provide women with the proper attitude adjustment. This lurch-to-the-right shit is morally bankrupt and it's galvanizing women. When men stop pursuing women at all, there's noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:00 AM
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Absolute nonviolent nonparticipation. De-center women. Disengage from them ontologically like the Herbivore men of Japan did, but in an absolute scale. Women should one day wake up and find no man wants to pursue them at all. That'll fix everything permanently: either women will tone their misandry down or humanity goes extinct. Either ending is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:57 AM
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He put the most Conservative Supreme Court in the last 50 years in place. He's a racist, sexist theocrat: a classic traditional conservative. fox News hated him because Conservatives routinely get into purism wars with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:55 AM
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Don't be soft. Don't be vulnerable. Listen to misandry coming from you. You're trying hard to sound like Satan.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:53 AM
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News flash, if that had been gender-flipped, women liberal or otherwise would be in a full scale revolution, you misandrist. Stop being such a lying misandrist. This conversation is permanently over.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:51 AM
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He's a traditionalist Conservative: a sexist, racist theocrat. inb4 the silly-as-fuck "deleting all women and brown people from military promotions isn't racist or sexist!" comeback.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:50 AM
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Women say that calling men useless is called "punching up." Yeah they're that fucking nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:48 AM
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Solanas is not a feminist. Going by that reasoning, Trump isn't a Conservative lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:15 AM
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And why would they? Dating is now a meat grinder for men. It's less about finding a connection and more like a hostage negotiation. There is no longer any semblance of emotional safety for a man when he approaches a woman, just a brutal obstacle course where he has to prove his unshakeable confidence against shamelessly open shit tests designed to make him slip up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:14 AM
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About 45% of full-time women in the power sector work in administration, human resources, logistics, and clerical roles. Looking forward to seeing them teach jack shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:12 AM
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Not a competition but it is a comparison and a harsh light shining on how gender roles benefit women and crush men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:10 AM
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Women like the power trip that comes with dating dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:09 AM
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You can’t discount the horrible effects that online dating has had for many guys. Real life dating was, is, and forever will be worse than online dating for guys. Take it from someone who navigated both worlds and was here long before online was even a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:27 AM
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I don't want that kind of shit either. News flash, some of us males can think for ourselves instead of falling for some orange Pennywise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:25 AM
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Men did it without question for thousands of years. Now we're not kicking and screaming, we're walking away. We're walking away because women broke the social contract. Women want freedom from gender roles for themselves and men to be bound to those same constraints. Fuck that. You want men to do all the work and get nothing in return. And this is what your culture has wrought: https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:24 AM
1

From scratch? Hahahaha maybe in 50 years. Good luck with the winter in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:22 AM
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Who gives a fuck what you think is unmasculine. Go find some compliant weak willed loser who cares about your arbitrary gender role nonsense. That loser ain't me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:21 AM
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What entitlement? In case you haven't noticed men are quiet quitting women. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/#:~:text=This%20drop%20is%20largely%20driven,from%2061%25%20in%202019). This drop is largely driven by single men, who are now 11 percentage points less likely than in 2019 to say they are looking for a committed relationship and/or casual dates (50% in July 2022, down from 61% in 2019). During the same time frame, there …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:19 AM
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Good thing dating is an individual choice and not a political problem. You as a man are motivated enough by sex to deal with the "emotional mine field". No I'm not. If I was single I'd have avoided you people like the plague in this day and age. You people hate males too much for me to want any of that. You'd have no relevance to me, much less leverage. I have no incentive to bother with your political issue especially since it comes so laden with aggression and disrespect. Pot, kettle, black. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:18 AM
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The political problem is that many men conflate individual women’s disinterest in reassuring them with “the left” abandoning them. However it is framed, their proposed solution still seems to require women to care more, speak softer, more gently, and help restore their sense of social importance. Women are emotional mine fields, especially when it comes to dating. They're epically unsafe to approach or be around. Men think that laws will slap women into shape. I couldn't think of a tactic that f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:01 PM
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The left should stop demonizing men, but men should stop going full right wing in response. Otherwise the vicious cycle continues. Facts. The right wing is hurting us far more than the misandrists adjacent to the Left.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:59 PM
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You have liberal women on The View, ABC's most popular show, saying that men are useless. The crowd clapped, too. https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=2319879675069860 There was no protest about this. No cancellation. This is one of a ton of examples of things that are alienating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:57 PM
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Women don't deserve masculinity, so they're not getting it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:46 PM
2

When two lesbians meet... who makes the first move? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:44 PM
2

Women don't want men to do what women do. Men are supposed to bear the world on their shoulders without complaint. Explain to me again why men should even want to participate in the system at all with all you women and your hypocrisy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:43 PM
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You just fucking hate women, Says the person who wants men to go away as a gender. Away with your little I-hate-men rant. Disabling inbox replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:39 PM
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Somebody call the cops we know OP was dating her before she was 18. 4chan party vaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:58 PM
1

No you don't want to know lol. I know I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:57 PM
5

Your dating stats are godlike compared to neurodivergent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:52 PM
5

Male heterosexuality disproves OP's argument at the substrate level.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:49 PM
0

That depends on who's observing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:48 PM
1

"It's not natural" and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:47 PM
0

Doing less? If men walked off, your power goes out almost immediately and there goes your ability to post that crap. Oh wait, women can learn from scratch to run power plants and keep them from shutting down? Good luck with that!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:33 PM
1

Then why are women so turned off by the idea of looksmaxxing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:41 PM
2

Criminals have fewer marriages but more partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:51 PM
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Because the guy can easily solve the problem, but chooses not to. People who say this belong in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:41 PM
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Then you support domestic violence against men and it's time that men rebelled and overthrew that system. It's not fair and it needs to be overthrown. People who hold this kind of opinion need to be thrown in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:38 PM
2

Men would never allow a fully televised male Sharon Osbourne incident in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:26 PM
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Nobody ever joked on mainstream TV about women being mutilated. Ever. That's a level men have never reached in front of an audience of millions. If I'm wrong please show it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:25 PM
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This is why when women beat up their husbands, people don't disbelieve the husband... they laugh at him. Or worse: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=91O3wDSy_HE
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:43 PM
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Again there's no such thing as men chasing literal non-stop sex. You're just making that up to cover for your dislike of any kind of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:25 PM
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The core issue is far too many women do not even understand what it's like to be emotionally safe for men. Or, they do understand it and could never imagine a man would dare bring the subject up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:19 PM
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That was a major green flag for me but would have absolutely turned off a woman like my mother. There's lot of women like your mother, and most are not as up front as her. They do a lot of virtue signaling about wanting a man who is emotionally open, then when he is? Ewwww. But the problem starts WELL before that. It starts when the man has to initiate first approach and absolutely has to present confidence, which in turn signals emotional stability, resilience, and inner strength and masks any …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:16 AM
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You torture logic like Abu Ghraib. You're using this "nonstop fuck fest" straw man as a pretext for your dislike of sex in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:11 AM
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Women don't put any effort into men! They sit there like Caesar, thumbs up and thumbs down on the idiot simp's performance. Far too many women are childfree so please the two are not even remotely the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:05 AM
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You mean he slows down from the FTL burnout level of lekking and competing he does before marriage? Frankly women aren't remotely worth the Herculean effort men put into them from jump. They never were.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:11 PM
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Wow, you must really hate sex as a concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:53 PM
5

OP wants men to have dead bedroom marriages lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:50 PM
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