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And you replied to a comment made by someone else. And they did for someone else. Fact or fiction, does the top comment in this chain explicitly mention sexual assault? Answer now on your phones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:01 AM

Funny way of saying enforcing gender norms. If only feminists realized that women are right up there in enforcing them, maybe then they would be able to actually change anything in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:58 AM

Do you think you are the only person commenting on this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:48 AM

Do you think a line can only go up or down? Are you a creatively inclined person?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:20 AM

Playing video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:19 AM

You went to a lot of rape clubs as a man? You had a very different life than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:17 AM

Yeah women whining online that men play too many video games is definitely a response to rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:16 AM

Guess you dont want any examples. Maybe you just wanted to say some random nonsense to make you feel like you won the argument. This is an absurdly common strategy from you people. Ever heard of the term "thought terminating cliche?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:26 AM

No because my comment like yours was not about about anything specific. If you are asking for an example then that is a different question. One that I would be delighted to answer as long as you kindly ask for it. And I do mean kindly, make sure to say please just like how your parents taught you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:19 AM

Are we? Your comment was not about anything specific. Are you sure you understand the words you type?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:15 AM

Why do you think I am talking about a specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:44 PM

Do you have any reason to believe this besides bioessentialism?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:41 PM

I did address what you said. Probably not in the way you hoped but I dont exist to please you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:34 PM

The response "I've no idea" does not make a whole lot of sense to the second question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:33 PM

And they manage to live their lives while dying significantly less than men. I wonder what that says? Maybe its that women's perceived danger is not very accurate to real life. Nahhh of course not, it means that men are stupid brutes that have 0 risk management and their disproportionately higher death rates are entirely their fault and no one elses.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:31 PM

That point is not very useful, sweetheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:17 PM

Answering a simple question is not playing any games.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:16 PM

I asked you 2 questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:15 PM

Yeah I think Derek Chauvin said something similar at one point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:57 PM

Oh really? Give an example that is exclusively about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:56 PM

How many women do you think do it? Do you have reason to believe that number is lower than that of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:54 PM

Do you think you are incapable of making the exact same comment but about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:51 PM

Its not about what makes me feel better. You proudly boasting about being racist and classist does damage to you, I am completely irrelevant in this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:47 PM

It actually is very much a gotcha im afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:44 PM

I think women as people are very likely to misinterpret statistics for their own benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:42 PM

Do you put those safeguards for people of a specific race too? Or is that a step too far?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:41 PM
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A broad sweeping generalization does not need to be exhaustive to be a broad sweeping generalization. This cope ass deflect is borderline offensive in and of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:00 AM

Yes. Now answer my question pretty please.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:44 PM

Do you believe we live in a patriarchal society? Yes or no question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:47 PM
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Pointing to a history you did not experienced for victimhood points is very much pretending to be a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:47 PM
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Yeah all the lynching victims had tons and tons of power. Comparable to a king, you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:46 PM
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You wanna know something I know about that era? That literally 99% of lynching victims were men. So much for the patriarchy right? Or was that not a thing back then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:40 PM
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You just love quoting shit you did not experience to prove that you are a victim. How sad is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:38 PM
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Then tell me what is it? Because it clearly is not the actual definition of the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:35 PM

Never seen a woman complain about "patriarchy" because they bought pants without pockets? Lucky you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:32 PM

Its one of the core dogmas of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:31 PM
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OP demonstrably did.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:25 AM
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I dont like the idea of you assuming my childhood based on my gender. How about that? So I am here telling you that you do not know it. No matter how righteous you feel about yourself, you do not know how much I was coddled or neglected.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:08 AM
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So why are you ok with claiming that only boys get coddled. Didn't you just say it goes both directions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:02 AM
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I also have a cat and a dog. I win.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:01 AM
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So you are assuming their background. This is my problem with you people, you all are too fucking cowardly to just admit the things you are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:00 AM
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Ok then explain to me where else could you possibly conjure up the information that the person disagreeing with you "comes from a trad background?" If not an assumption where?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:51 AM
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I used quotes bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:48 AM
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It didnt make sense to me. Got ya! Now its 2 against 2. How will we ever resolve this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:47 AM
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Its ok to assume that anyone who disagrees with you "comes from a trad background." You seriously think that is ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:44 AM
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Yeah that means being open that your position could be wrong. Otherwise you are arguing in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:00 PM
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If you cant prove your claims then you should be comfortable with the possibility of your claims being inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:35 PM

You sure? You seem to talk about men on the daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:30 PM
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Assuming someone inherently knows what the fuck a random reference is, is a perfect example of terrible communication skills. Thanks for demonstrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:28 PM
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Someone should let feminists know about that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:24 PM
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I am arguing with you. Not a hypothetical brilliant person. Have you asked any man about this supposed fear? Or have you decided for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:50 AM
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Maybe you just dont have us quite as figured out as you think you do. Is that an impossibly in your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:47 AM
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I know that they purchase more of these things than men. automobiles, home improvement products, and consumer electronics. And these things are all seen as "male products." Is that what you had in mind or are you disappointed by that fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:28 AM
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You think I agree with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:18 AM
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I never said you had male experiences. Quite the opposite actually, are you sure you understand my argument or do you need me to dumb it down? I can tell you that the only person who has ever told my in my life that men dont cry was a female teacher i had in elementary school. And that was avery long time ago. That answer your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:13 AM
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A male one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:10 AM
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Are women taught to ignorantly talk about experiences they did not have or are you a natural?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:07 AM
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Yeah that explains why women perform something like 85% of purchases every year. Because they are not interested in things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:05 AM
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So you think men are afraid of women because women give birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:56 AM
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Women are capable of mastering death?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:46 AM
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Afraid of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:21 AM
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Ok so lesbians who initiate divorce way more often than any other type of couple also do it because men "quiet quit" right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:00 AM
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You people are very confident in speaking about experiences you fundamentally did not have and could not have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:51 AM
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I am not complaining about anything, bud. And I will continue to keep replying because as ive told you my only ask is for you to understand that your advice is not helpful. What I am looking for is for your understanding of that simple statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:25 AM
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I never claimed I wanted a solution from you. Its genuinely almost impossible for me to ask less of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:11 AM
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From you? Nothing, besides your understanding that your advice is not helpful. I dont ask for much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:58 AM
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Grass is always greener on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:56 AM
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Not good by any means. So you didnt actually help, but it is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:02 AM
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Are you single?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:33 AM
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Thats much better yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:33 AM

OP is literally saying that that will not work and you are going into baby rage mode. I dont think you want anyone to disagree with you, I think you just want them to shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:32 AM
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Lucky you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:30 AM
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Good thing no one said anything about women throwing themselves at anyone then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:52 AM
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Then what am I doing right this nanosecond, if not showcasing that I in fact do have another option?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:32 AM
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Many men dont chose better because they literally cant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:30 AM
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No I can very much complain and live my life as is. That is very much an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:29 AM
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Sure would explain the 4x number of suicides men have over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:27 AM
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Ok then the response is: "I dont have anything useful for you."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:22 AM
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Are you arguing against my sex or me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:20 AM
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Are you just commenting now because you want to be the last one on the comment chain?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:04 AM
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It seems progressives will only be progressive until you bring up an issue that primarily affects men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:02 AM
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Ok I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:59 AM
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Then how come you just typed the most aggressively capitalist statement I have ever read?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:59 AM
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No i can still complain about it. Why arr you so interested in creating false dichotomies?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:58 AM
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How is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:54 AM
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A sense of purpose for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:52 AM
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Do you consider yourself a progressive person?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:50 AM
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What if I like the person I am right now? Can't I complain that the game is rigged against me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:50 AM
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No you can very much complain about it on the internet. It may annoy you personally but no one will stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:49 AM
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The entire societal structure is built around getting into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:47 AM
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To stay quiet if you dont have anything useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:46 AM
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Then why did you complain about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:18 AM
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The person you are giving that advice to. Who else could it possibly be?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:50 PM
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Well you were the one complaining that we dont listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:45 PM
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I have no reason to listen to your advice either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:43 PM
-1

Or maybe they would be better not going to therapy at all. Doing nothing may not improve your situation but it also won't make it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:41 PM
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60% of men that commit suicide had accessed professional help in the year before their death.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:29 PM
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Case in point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:07 PM
2

More than 1 thing can be bad at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:01 PM
0

You probably. If I tell you that I am not going to therapy because of incredibly awful experiences with it what will you say to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:58 PM
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Therapy seems to have a shockingly low success rate in comparison to physical health care.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:54 PM
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Simply waste dozens of hours and thousands of dollars on a solution that may not work. Jeez I wonder why more people dont try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:41 PM
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Therapy is the only profession in which you cant criticize the work being done.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:37 PM
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The only person on my entire life that has ever told me that has been a female teacher. You see this where your simpathy and empathy fall short. The only way you can give it is if you can blame men exclusively for it, if we go around and tell you that that is not accurate then you go into baby rage mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:33 PM
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Here is the answer, because you are not very observant on the things women say about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:45 PM
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Dont you think ots possible you are falling trap to a bit of the goofball fallacy? I hear you poeple like that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:21 PM
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Where rejected by the men that say they cant get any dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:18 PM
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If its so basic why isnt it the assumption that they already know it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:15 PM
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You seem to not have read my comment in its entirety. Thats a shame, I even made it short and easy to understand just for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:14 PM
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This is only valid if you have the capacity to pick who you date. Most men cant afford to be aa picky as you are used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:00 PM
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We are not talking about Bigfoot sweetheart. We are talking about people's opinions. It is perfectly possible to have an opposite opinion on something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:56 PM
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What makes you think they are not doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:54 PM
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You can provide evidence of women saying the opposite can you not?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:53 PM
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You think that is "a basic?"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:51 PM
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Sure you first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:50 PM
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So how come you give it for that purpose then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:50 PM
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I'll give you some advice right now if you want. Stop generalizing men and women. Are you gonna listen to that advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:48 PM
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It would be cool if you could just say that instead of pretending that the only reason you are alone is because you are secretly evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:44 PM
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What basics are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:43 PM
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I have many women do that. Whose personal experience trumps whos?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:41 PM
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This is not a zero sum game. Overall does not matter. You have the privilege of not worrying about the draft. No amount of male privilege or anything else will erase the fact that that is something you have and I don't. You tell me to learn how to think and yet this is an incredibly simple concept you are simply incapable of grasping. Your mind has been entirely corrupted by "oppressed" and "oppressor" labels, you cant think about life outside those labels.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:29 AM
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You disagree because it's a convenient way for you to rationalize it, you can redirect all your frustrations and anxiety at this problem into an external factor. But the fact is that social media has just made us into socialess freaks. We'd rather stare at our phones than at each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:26 AM
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How you chose to rationalize the existence of your privilege does not erase your privilege either. This is not a zero sum game. I dont know why you keep telling me "this is no game." Yeah I know, thats my point. Learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:05 AM
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Across history in times of economic uncertainty people have had more kids. The fact that people are not having kids right now is completely unrelated to any economic situation we are currently going through. The real culprit is something you are engaging with right this nanosecond.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:52 AM
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None of the things you said invalidate the fact that you do not need to worry about selective service. No matter how little you think that matters or how many other things you think make your life bad. None of that will ever erase the fact that you do not need to worry about the draft. This is not a zero sum game, my privilege does not erase yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:47 AM
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Really? Cuz its very simple. You sure you didnt just reply with nothing because you couldn't think of anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:39 AM
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If you break something in your house while drunk you will also certainly be held responsible for it. Not a crime tho!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:34 AM
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Nope, birthrates have gone down across all generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:29 AM
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Again with the fucking blackout. No one is talking about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:26 AM
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You just love bringing up "blackout drunk" even when the person you are replying to explicitly told you that is not what they are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:21 AM
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Good thing thats not what anyone is talking about then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:13 AM
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Its very funny how your immediate and only strategy is to push the example to the absolute limit and then pretend that is the only possible scenario. No one is talking about being unconsous while drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:11 AM
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If you drink get on a car, crash and kill someone you are responsible for killing that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:10 AM
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Last year a woman recorded a naked man on his own home then posted it online and it was celebrated as a victory for feminism. When that person got fired it was demonized as the patriarchy wining.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:01 AM
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This is not a zero sum game. Your pregnancies dont cancel out the fact that you dont get drafted. You have a privilege of not having the possibility of being drafted while we have the privilege of not having to go through pregnancy. Both of these things are true at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:53 AM
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Thats already happening honey
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:49 AM
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You are a very uncreative person if you think those are female only experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:48 AM
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When did I say women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:29 PM
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Did he prey on men/boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:29 PM
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Ok... what then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:42 AM
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Need to? What happens if we dont? What if just read your generalizations as offensive and move on with my life? Why do I need to conform to your views?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:41 AM
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If anyone made tate popular is the people outraged by him. I had not heard of the motherfucker until people started making outrage content about him. Its the same exact strategy trump used to become the president and its been 10 years and you morons haven't figured out a single good way to counter it. Whats even worse thats the way is so fucking obvious and yet you all are too proud to practice it, stop giving people like that attention. You are only helping them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:30 AM
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Sorry they closed down the nearest partner store near me. I cant discard them so easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:26 AM
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Took down who? Kevin Spacey? He still making movies dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:22 AM
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Not doing what you just did is another example.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:20 AM
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Conservatism is on the rise everywhere on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:19 AM
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Why are you describing your own comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:25 PM
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Not what you think thats for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:23 PM
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So the biological factor is not a privilege then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:01 PM

My algorithm is nothing but videos of cats and dogs. I still see it all the time. Women engaging in gender war content is very much socially accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:45 AM
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You dont think there is the possibility that they invent this supposed reaction in order to morality their inability to be selected? If someone vents that they cant get dates and then someone immediately jumps in to yell about them about how they should treat women as people too or whatever. What reaction is being moralized? The only factor you know is that they cant get dates. Thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:37 AM
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Yeah no the morality part usually comes in on the cliche phrase: "have you tried treating women like people!!!!???"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:31 AM
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So if I call you a moron do you think I am calling you that because I think that will hurt your feelings? No, bud I am calling you a moron because that is my assessment of your character. Your personal feelings matter very little on me calling you a moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:30 AM
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Slur: an insulting or disparaging remark or innuendo Incredibly stupid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:28 AM
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Treat the you in my sentence as a generic you. Not meant to involve you personally in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:21 AM
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So why are you giving the advice if you know it won't do anything? Is you goal perhaps not to help anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:17 AM
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Women living longer is a biological trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:07 AM
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Whether I personally date women or not is irrelevant to the scenario presented, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:56 PM
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Yes that is irrelevant. That is an entire different scenario than the one stated in the comment above.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:52 PM
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Your questions are irrelevant. Why would I answer irrelevant questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:49 PM
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No that is not it either. Reread my first comment 20 times until you actually get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:31 PM
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Thats not why its irrelevant. Try actually reading the comments I type. Until then I will put minimal effort into this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:27 PM
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Its not hard to answer, its just completely irrelevant, sweetheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:15 PM
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You dont give nuance. You give context, honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:22 AM
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Make a post where?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:16 AM
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Ok. Tell me where and I'll go.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:14 AM
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Or this complex is just a creation of your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:11 AM
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Changing the situation again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:51 AM
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This is not what is being said. You are changing the situation. You see a guy complaining that they cant get sex and you rush in to tell them that its because they are a prick. This is what is being talked about. What you described is not that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:50 AM
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Incredible how you managed to convince yourself into connecting "i get to live longer than men" with "i am a victim for this." This is not a 0 sum game honey. Your periods dont erase the fact that you live longer. Men have some privileges and women have others. They dont cancel each other out. Also incredibly moronic how you were just trying to lecture me about "societal vs biological" not 2 comments ago and yet here you are telling me about periods. Real astounding lack of self awareness here. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:18 AM
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No but you are. Why introduce the distinction of married people otherwise? Only reason is sheer stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:10 AM
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Even the ones that dont marry have to mourn their husbands? Damn thats crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:09 AM
1

So dont say anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:06 AM
1

The benefits of going to the gym is not the topic that is being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:05 AM
6

On average you get to live for nearly a decade longer than us. That not a privilege to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:03 AM
2

You think men go to red pill groups to meet women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:15 AM
3

No but the drivers can have all of that. They still need to follow the traffic rules as well as social rules. If you yell at the Mcdonalds worker you are a dick regardless of how bad your day is. You just dont think very much about the things you say do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:26 PM
2

Just saw your edit. That still applies to trafic rules. Keep thinking bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:24 PM
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No but neither do trafic rules. So im unsure as to why you think that matters. Are you sure you thought about it for long enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:19 PM
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You need a second round of edits im afraid. And of course it hasn't always been this way. Social media has destroyed people's ability to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:15 PM
2

You dont think we have social rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:14 PM
0

Because I dont agree with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:02 PM
6

What makes you think OP doesnt know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:59 PM
10

What makes you think OP was not talking about any of those places?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:56 PM
10

I was born yesterday, educate me please.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:53 PM
8

Where does one find those mythical places?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:52 PM
1

OP is talking about men. Do you agree or disagree with OP. Simple yes or no answer please.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:47 PM
2

So you disagree with op? Men should put in the effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:33 PM
2

According to op we should not do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:27 PM
3

You are not very good at debating. I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:27 PM
3

Ok I'll stop putting effort into listening and remembering the things people say. Got it chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:06 PM
2

And you dont think acting interested is putting effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:01 PM
2

It means what is convenient for the person making the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:00 PM
2

So dont try to be likeable at all. Got it chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 03:59 PM
5

Have you tried following your own advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 03:58 PM
5

Ok I'll stop putting effort into being healthy. I will eat nothing but pizza, stop working out and gain 200 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 03:58 PM
5

A woman wouldn't call a man going on about how they are going to replace women with AI an incel? Friend, I have been called an incel for liking certain music. At least pretend to be honest here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:02 PM

Wow that is all completely irrelevant to the question I asked. You really had to get that out of your system didnt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 05:00 AM

If I send you a couple of posts of women generalizing men will you type the same message but with with the genders reversed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:45 AM
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Of course there are double standards, anyone should be able to see it. But because we have decided that "the patriarchy" is the source of all of women's problems then men are the "oppressors," and they are not allowed to have any problems exclusive to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:03 AM

If a man said the things you just said but about women would you call them an incel? If the answer is yes then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:00 AM
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They are insulting him regardless of if he watches it or not. If I go behind your back and insult you with a bunch of other people I am still insulting you regardless of if you hear it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:26 AM
4

Lemme repeat my question. Do you go around yelling at people with suicidal scars that its their fault they have those scars? Do you look at yourself in the mirror every day and yell at yourself about your own scars?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:58 AM
5

Who are you quoting? When did I type the word "suicide." They can be called many things, honey. Self harm does not equal suicide. I know for a fact that a lot of female suicide gets blamed on men. Im just all for equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:56 AM
5

Do you go around telling people with suicidal scars that it is their fault they have those scars?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:54 AM
2

We call the inequalities in life, oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:52 AM
9

"Its your fault that people are insulting you."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:43 AM
5

Whose is?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:41 AM
3

That you responded does not mean you had an argument of your own. This is yet another example of you not having self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:07 PM
5

Astounding lack of self awareness on this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:59 PM
5

Experiences men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:59 PM
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Its geniunely hilarious how comfortable you all are when talking about experiences you fundamentally did not and could not have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:32 AM

Men do or do the rich do? As a penis haver i dont feel very powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:54 PM

And yet it has "father" on its name.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:37 PM

From what I saw ovarian cancer gets more funding than testicular cancer so...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:36 PM

The nuance doesnt exist when talking about women. Any negative generalization about women is wrong isnt it? Im questioning the double standard. If you are not comfortable recognizing your double standards, then yeah feel free to drop from the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:16 PM

Why did you called it "patriarchal" then? That is an inherently gendered term.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:57 PM

When did I ever say men have less in medicine? Are you a doctor? Are you capable of telling me all the technical challenges in detecting all types of cancer?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:11 PM

Why did you called "patriarchal" then? That is an inherently gendered term.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:09 PM

Now that gives a lot of leeway dont you think? Its very convenient to leave it up to interpretation, that way you can cover your own ass when someone makes a broad sweeping generalization about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:09 PM

I asked you a question. I see it happen many many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:04 PM

I can read so well, I managed to create an argument that left you incapable of coming up with a counter. The only one who needs any luck here is you, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:41 AM

Here is a fun fact for you. Men can get breast cancer. Crazy right? Here is another fun fact. There are male only cancers out there. Breast cancer is the most researched and best funded cancer period. See, here is the problem, sweetheart you are perfectly content blaming men for inane shit like that but flip out when men blame women for anything. That hypocrisy is the whole issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:29 AM

Is it ok to blame men for women's issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:07 AM

That include men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:06 AM

Ive seen a few feminist subreddits blame men for breast cancer. Saying shit like "if it affected men it would have been cured already." Does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:05 AM
1

The only one confused here is you, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:19 PM
0

Yeah bud and the least popular video has 0 views, so a few million times less popular. Hey look my number is bigger! I win!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:27 PM
0

What is a good base for an argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:47 PM
3

Same way we created all these female only programs, let's do that again but for men now. Simple solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:43 AM
2

No we should build a society that support those who struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:36 AM
2

So its because men are lazy bums right? And this opinion is somehow not hateful towards men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:15 AM
1

I dont see anywhere that says either of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:16 PM
1

Who said either of those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:06 PM
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I'll take that as a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:52 PM
3

I have only figured out step one. Want to hear it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:34 PM
1

What is?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:08 PM
0

Making up numbers doesnt make them true, Exact-Sail-9336
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:07 PM
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How about the fact that the majority of men who commit suicide have seeked mental health help before doing it. Is that proof enough that the system does not work?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:05 PM
1

Who is arguing agaisnt feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:59 PM
1

Why the "than conservatives" who is arguing in favor of conservatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:56 PM
1

Why do you think that matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:53 PM
0

If they affect one gender more than the other then they are gender related.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:51 PM
1

Are feminists more likely to vote in favor of policies that benefit men or are feminists more likely to vote in favor of policies that benefit men AND women? Those 2 are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:51 PM
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Oh really because women not going to stem fields seemingly was an issue for me to resolve, hence all the women in stem programs out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:24 PM
0

But we should also have services exclusive to women right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:22 PM
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Most men who commit suicide have seeked professional help before doing it. Your idea that mental health is this silver bullet against suicide is deeply misguided.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:19 PM
1

No but its 2 against one now. Certainly seems like our view is more popular. And yeah bud I know its views not people. Again, not arcane knowledge here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:35 PM
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No kidding. We all are aware, bud this isnt some arcane knowledge you have blessed us with. Regardless for the vast majority of people 10 million is a whole lot. And since you are not the authority on anything, you really cant disprove it can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:31 PM
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No it dont matter. You would be an animal abuser regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:28 PM
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I thought it was implied, regardless I used it now so you should be all cleared up and are now free to actually engage with my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:28 PM
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Thats a false equivalence. They are being hateful on purpose, not by accident. Let me realign your nonsensical metaphor. It would be like someone who kicks a puppy for fun vs someone who kicks a puppy because they are mad. Does the why really make a difference? Not to me it doesnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:24 PM
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It does answer it. It answers it with the word: "irrelevant."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:23 PM
0

That people are too cowardly to stand by the things they say online does not mean they dont believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:19 PM
0

Where is the nuance? The reason they are offensive is completely irrelevant to the fact they are offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:18 PM
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Didn't realize I was speaking with the authority on what constitutes as "popular." Let me ask you a follow up question, if a similar number of people visited a group dedicated to misogyny would that be a lot? Or would it also not be very much?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:15 PM
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2 major cities is not a lot???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:10 PM
2

A bit of hyperbole for humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:50 PM
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I mean you people love bringing up how women didnt have any rights until 3 years ago or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:26 PM
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Because they are the ones trying to police it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:07 PM
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Would specifying "online feminists" make you feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:03 PM
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This is your argument. If you are incapable of supporting your own argument then that is your issue not mine. I will not make your arguments for you. I thibk people in real life are too cowardly to say the shit they say online, then they would have to deal with the person they are insulting. That doesn't mean that they magically dont believe in the things they say online.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:02 PM
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Good thing we are not talking about a singular person then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:58 PM
0

Dont you think there is a possibility of you severely underestimating the amount of hateful feminists out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:57 PM
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Why is that a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:56 PM
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Its very convenient isnt it? How every time someone criticizes the movement all you need to do to dismiss the criticism is pretend that they are a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:53 PM
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Why is that a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:51 PM
2

So the answer for women struggling in schools is specific programs that target and give advantages to women. But the answer to men struggling in schools is not to do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:34 PM
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Why does social media not matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:32 PM
4

Love me some No True Scotsman fallacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:31 PM
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Do you think the word "feminist" is synonymous with the word "woman?"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:03 PM
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Why do you think I dont?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:57 AM
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Then why are you commenting? I can only comment on my perspective of feminism becoming more and more of a man hating ideology and less of an "equal rights" ideology. If your only argument for it being the contrary is: "well feminists marry" well then I can just point you towards the trends that indicate that won't stay the case for very long. Not that that disproves it anyways, there are plenty of self hating men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:56 AM
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So give it a few years until that is no longer the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:45 AM
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I can type my same comment again if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:45 AM
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Unfortunately people dont follow this ideal either. Gender war topics in social media are incredibly popular. And before you start, dont try to "no true Scotsman" me, the people that create and view this type of content call themselves feminists so thats what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:44 AM
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Do they? Because less and less people are marrying. And coincidentally more and more people are radicalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:41 AM
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My comment stands. Just replace "world" with "western world."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:40 AM
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I think you vastly vastly underestimate how conservative the rest of the world is on social issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:38 AM
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I find that hard to believe. I think you have a very idealized view of society if you think people wouldn't take a hateful ideology over a compassionate one any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:37 AM
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Yeah that is an ideal I wish feminists worked towards, but unfortunately that is not as profitable as the ideal of hating on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:36 AM
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Democrats are right wing on economic policies. But on social policies, like gay rights, feminism, etc they would be left wing everywhere. Yeah that person was an idiot, but you are not that much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:34 AM
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And yet ive had feminists tell me men killing themselves at an ever increasing rate is actually not an issue because its their own decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:31 AM
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My mom told me its important to treat others the way you want to be treated. Yours didnt?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:29 AM

Didn't the person I am replying to invalidate me first? You could have come up with a better excuse dont you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:07 PM
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Do you have any evidence to refute it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:39 PM
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Source on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:36 PM
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You calling it corny won't make it any less true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:01 AM
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No you could answer my question. Did you read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:47 AM
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Whether I read it or not is irrelevant to my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:43 AM
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You are one to talk you've made almost 200 comments in less than a month of your account being created.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:40 AM
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You didnt read this at all did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:39 AM
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Care to provide said research? You know anything that isnt just a bunch of fucking tiktoks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:36 AM
1

Source for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:13 AM
1

You know gay men have the lowest divorce rates? Just a fun fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:36 PM

God take me back to when constantly playing the victim card wasn't seen as empowering.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:34 PM
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Well you are telling me to go after people that are like me right? Do you know the definition of "one of a kind?"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 08:15 PM
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Are you trying to blame me for the actions of others? Its crazy how this personal responsibility angle is the only move you seemingly know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:59 PM
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Shows a bit of privilege on your point of view doesnt it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:37 PM
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What feminists say and do are different things im afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:34 PM
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Yes sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:32 PM
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I have. We are not talking about that tho. We are talking about you using personal responsibility as a shutdown tactic. Im demonstrating why your compassion with obesity is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:31 PM
0

Ok so so if I create a dating profile with my specific needs and get no matches what happens then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:28 PM
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But we dont have them. So you assigning personal responsibility is not relevant until we have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:27 PM
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Yep Im one of a kind baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:17 PM
1

No but you are advocating for not having similar programs for male loneliness are you not?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:16 PM
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Because im very special.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:15 PM
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My mom always told me im special.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:13 PM
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There are many government and societal programs that target obesity. Fat shaming has been proven time and time again to not help lower obesity at a societal level at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:12 PM
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And how am I supposed to find this mythical creature?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:10 PM
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No I meant to reply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:51 PM
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Ok so that same way, I dont buy you not seeing people dismiss men's mental health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:44 PM
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Nope i haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:08 PM

If they ask me specifically to share it yes. You just keep ignoring that point. It was specifically requested.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:31 PM

So they are perfectly content offending some one right? Dishonesty is offensive and as I clarified before it would be more offensive than just being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:23 PM
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Why are you talking about women's issues? Isn't this thread about men's issues? Aren't you doing exactly what you are talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:44 PM
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What is "talk about it?" Is it just unconditionally agree with everything you say? Or if you make an offensive generalization are we allowed to say: "please dont do that?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:41 PM
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Same way you havent seen anyone dismiss mens mental health i have never seen anyone make fun of women for the menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:39 PM
1

Could have fooled me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:31 PM
1

I dont think it means anything .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:31 PM

So if someone tells you "you will hurt me more by not being honest" why dont you do it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:25 PM
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Are your talking about someone specifically or just someone you made up in your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:42 PM
1

What does "being a loser" mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:41 PM
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Yes bud thats what I said. I reassured you that I meant women who didnt vote for trump. You shouldnt have any more questions and are now free to actually engage with the topic of the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:06 PM
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It wouldn't make logical sense would it? Communication is all about implicit meaning. The implicit meaning in this case would be women who didnt vote for trump. Sorry I thought I was talking with someone experienced in human to human communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:50 PM
1

When did I say women who voted for trump?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:40 PM
1

Dont you think saying ftm lesbians is transphobic?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 07:10 AM
1

Probably the way women like to blame men for trump becoming president.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 07:04 AM
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Yeah and that needs a proof. "Its bad because its bad," is not a good argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:08 PM

This brings me back to my reply to that point. When evaluating the danger a bear presents they portray themselves as hyper competent, the opposite being true when talking about a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:26 PM

You are not winning a fught against a non black bear no matter what, however if you have a weapon you are probably winning a fight against a man. It really should just be that fucking simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:13 PM

They do when its a bear apparently. Then theyvare wildlife experts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:54 PM
1

Why do you think other men are not criticized for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:27 PM
1

That subject does not make sense with the rest of the comment you posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 05:59 PM
1

So when you said: I'm not arguing against it at all, i'm arguing HOW they do it. What is the subject here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 05:53 PM
1

And you made that point using a generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 05:31 PM
1

How is the way you use it different than the way they use it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 05:20 PM
0

Why do you think that isnt recognized?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 05:17 PM
3

So then why did you decide to bring it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 05:16 PM
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They dont. But other men dont constantly ask for them to show their feelings like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:52 PM
3

Do you believe everyone struggling is a red piller?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:50 PM

10% is a generalization. A predatory man can also be taken down with pepper spray or just a fucking gun. This is the problem, when thinking about yourselves in the bear situation you imagine yourselves as fucking Bear Grylls. Meanwhile you picture yourselves as a flopping fish when thinking about being alone with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:42 PM

How do you feel about men who complain about being generalized as rapists and murderers?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:24 AM

Great question. Ask modern, new-age feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:20 AM
1

On the contrary, its easy to blame women. Ok when's the last time you did it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:07 PM
5

How is putting criminals in jail going to make him not the most dangerous person to himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:14 PM
4

Yeah men need to stop invalidating women's struggles and so do women. Where is the confusion? Like if a man says "I get to live for less, are more likely to get violently attacked and the most dangerous person to myself is myself." Then women shouldn't get to misinterpret statistics about death rates at the hands of partners to invalidate the man's statement. Is that really to big of an ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:07 PM
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So men shouldn't be feminists, straight people shouldn't be allies, white people shouldn't be against racism, etc. Did I get you right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:56 PM
2

Reminder that the difference in voting percentages in men and women for trump in 2024 was only like 8%. See this what pisses me off. You morons go and vote for the rapist but when he wins you cant take responsibility for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:22 PM
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Yes women should fight for everyone and so do men. Its what makes a community a community. Or would you prefer if men didnt fight for women's rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:19 PM
2

Even on media with female leads m/m is still more popular. Look at Arcane for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 05:17 AM
1

That those things are said more by black pillers than blue pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 03:12 PM
1

How do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:55 PM
0

So you dont think blue pillers ever say any of the things you mentioned?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:36 AM
3

How does that answer my question for why there are the opportunities for women in underrepresented fields for women and not for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 08:37 PM
3

That doesnt answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 08:09 PM
2

Ok so why do we have the opposite for women and not for men? I am a programmer, and I can tell you there were a lot of those things you listed for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:52 PM

You dont think women are a significant part of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:49 PM

No it is your problem. You are the one that wants to change someones mind is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:48 PM
1

You dont think women are also a significant part of society to also push men to do those jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:30 PM
1

You think dangerous jobs pay well? You think there is a lot of thrill in being a miner or working at a power plant?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:18 PM
1

The number of friends ive had on those situations is 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:17 PM
1

Ok so then why are men more inclined to take the dangerous jobs than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:06 PM
7

I think men are far less likely to report both of those things than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:06 PM
1

https://www.aei.org/op-eds/perspective-women-are-more-likely-to-make-friends-at-work-than-men-heres-why-that-matters/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:46 AM
10

You are the only person in this entire thread that has brought up dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:40 AM
12

There exists the possibility of "being mad" at more than one group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:36 AM
15

Astounding lack of self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:33 AM
1

So its mens fault that women dont think men are capable of being emotional?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:20 PM
2

No you didnt. You specifically put all that responsibility on "fathers."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:12 PM
2

Yeah my dad cried one time after not seeing his sister for a while. My mom made fun of him for it for weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:51 PM
1

The only person who ever told me "men dont cry" was a female teacher I had in elementary school.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:40 PM

And you think this is new for teenager boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 01:51 PM
3

If you can only "smell misogyny" when its obvious then you are not "smelling misogyny."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:37 AM
1

Link one
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:36 AM

I just did and they said no. Unforch.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:01 AM

No if you want to convince me of anything you are gonna need more than yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:47 AM

Why shouldnt it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:58 PM

Its what in the biz we call "settling." The goal is to not end up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:31 PM

Because i cant read a woman's mind and I dont know if me not paying is gonna "give her the ick," or if she will be reasonable. And before you tell me that that is somehow good, and nah it isnt not when you only get a date every 3 months or so. You dont have the luxury to only take the reasonable ones under those circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:04 PM
4

Crime rates have been going down since before you were born.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:47 PM
3

Rates go down to zero? You think an educated person is incapable of causing harm?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:26 PM
1

What other points? I agree with you. You shouldnt associate yourself with a group that openly hates people based on factors beyond their control. Its why I dont call myself red pill. You on the other hand are perfectly fine calling yourself "evil blue pill" even though a large number of people who call themselves blue pill openly hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:25 PM
2

Thats not gonna happen, people are violent. You know women "harm" too right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:23 PM
2

Some of them do I am sure. You dont think self hate is a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:19 PM
2

Many blue pillers are open about hating men, yet that doesnt stop you from calling yourself an "evil blue piller."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:14 PM
1

Why wouldn't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:58 PM
1

Men already do not harm women as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:54 PM

You are gonna need more than yourself im afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:47 PM
1

And you are winning?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:08 PM
1

Are you winning son?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:12 AM
1

Right shift swing cant ntage possibly be good if it causes people like you to spell like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:16 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:14 AM
1

Yeah but if you actually want to see what's in the food its all readily available. It takes no effort to ignore marketing and just look at nutrition labels.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 09:51 PM
1

So what are the actual findings?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:54 PM
1

And why do you think that is relevant to the discussion of a rightward turn in recent times that both men and women had?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:53 PM
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So then your statement that they are full of lies is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:50 PM
4

Nutrition labels do not contain either of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:48 PM
1

There is no relevance to the conversation at hand. If you disagree then explain to me why its actually relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:46 PM
1

Your comment is an absurd thing to bring up. Its 2+2 simple. There is nothing more to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:40 PM
1

Ok so who is gonna fix it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:36 PM
1

Read the last part of my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:36 PM
2

Your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:35 PM
1

What do you think we go through that we dont mention?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:16 AM
1

We are talking about the recent right wing shift that happened all across the planet (this includes women by the by.) We are talking about how to fix that, and all you keep saying is "men need" who is going to make that happen? You think if you say "men need" 20 billion times it will eventually become true?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:15 AM
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There many studies that show explicit discrimination against male students. https://hceconomics.uchicago.edu/research/working-paper/boy-crisis-experimental-evidence-acceptance-males-falling-behind https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=3334455 https://www.bbc.com/news/education-31751672 https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6208359/ At this point if you chose to be ignorant on this that is a form of discrimination in and of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:59 AM
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What an absurd thing to bring up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:52 AM
0

You are right there has certainly never been a male artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:50 AM
2

Natural state? So men can get pregnant naturally?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:49 AM
1

No it should not. There is value in disagreements.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:48 AM
1

What behavior is no longer rewarded?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:48 AM
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50 50 I would say
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:38 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:37 AM
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Is being the last one to comment that important to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:08 PM
1

Racism used to be common knowledge at one point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:27 PM
1

Then I am afraid I cant help but think you just invented a guy to argue against.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 06:58 AM
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Ok then link me to ten comments saying that. Shouldn't be too difficult right? They are all over the place after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 06:54 AM
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Your comment was about people calling you out for arguing against people that dont exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 06:50 AM
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Your source for that being this subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:07 AM
2

Explain to me the relevance of this comment to the current conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:03 AM
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No women I have met. How could it possibly be women I haven't met?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:00 AM
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I have. Who's personal experience trumps whose?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:32 AM
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Yeah bud. Thats what makes it a flaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:11 PM
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What other reason could you possibly have to bring up the wrongs of men when discussing the wrongs of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:00 PM
0

I also said: Do you have any way of proving your claims? And you ignored that. Why do you people always pull the "you are angry" card? Nah bud I am very calm. Currently eating popcorn and watching tom Scott videos. I couldn't be any calmer if I tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:56 PM
1

No one argues about guarantees. That is an absurd argument you decided to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:45 PM
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You keep saying "did you read my comment?" But I asked you for proof and yet you replied with absolutely 0 proof of anything. So did you actually read mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:37 PM
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That sure would be convenient for you wouldn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:27 PM
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Why do you think showing flaws in men eliminates all flaws in women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:26 PM
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Is your proof "I think men want threesomes :)" god please dont have any important jobs with logic like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:17 PM
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Or you are just wrong and women have homophonic tendencies when dating bi men. Do you have any way of proving your claims. Cuz your fetish argument sure as fuck didnt last 2 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:16 PM
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You people really think you can just say shit based on nothing right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 09:57 PM
-1

Yeah women totally never fetishize gay men in any way. That for sure has never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 09:56 PM
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Disagreements occur because what "common sense" means differs from person to person. Its not just "where you live."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:48 PM
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Yes. Because your point assumes that "common sense" is a universal metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:44 PM
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How you clean them and what food to eat is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:40 PM
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It is your problem. This is your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:34 PM
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"Basic common sense." Is a completely arbitrary metric. For example where I am from not wearing your shoes indoors is considered dirty, but on other cultures the opposite is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:31 PM
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Because enforcing unhealthy standards is not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:02 PM
2

Still not picking the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:42 AM
1

Do you think the dating situation is the same now as when those 40 year olds were young?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:40 PM
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Are you quoting them entirely?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:32 PM
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What way?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:56 PM
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They are more raccoons than bears.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:35 PM
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Yeah man. Just scroll up a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:20 PM
-1

Yeah man, they definitely dont have any biases at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:13 PM
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2 wrongs dont make a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:11 PM
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Do you think its impossible that you misinterpreted their arguments in any way?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:12 PM
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But that isnt what I said bud. I didnt say didnt know anyone that did it. I said I have never seen anyone doing it. Its not a silly thing, we are arguing about the prevalence of such behavior. If you dont have any way to prove that it is as prevalent as you claim it is, then that only hurts your own argument. Nah op quite literally told me that until people stop victim blaming they won't stop victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:45 PM
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Then tell me where is the problem in my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:14 PM
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So until every man under the sun stops saying things you dont like then we are allowed to complain about the things you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:13 PM
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Nah, OP quite literally told me they meant what I said. See this is why you shouldn't speak for anyone but yourself. I am not claiming you didnt experience what you said you experienced, but if I have never seen any of the sort then how popular could it possibly be? You have a sample size of 1 and so do I. Again whose personal experience trumps whos?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:12 PM
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So answer the question. At what point are we allowed to complain about being compared to wild animals?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:11 PM
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Red pandas are not bears, they are raccoons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:06 PM
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Ok so tell those people that they are stupid then. What does that have to do with people complaining about being compared to wild animals? Are you saying that until every man under the sun stops saying things you dont like you are not allowed to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:05 PM
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So your experience is better than mine. Is that what you are saying? I'm staying topic. The man vs bear argument is women comparing men to wild animals. That is what they are doing. It cant possibly be more on topic. And yes, I am pretty sure that is OPs argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:03 PM
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Well I haven't, whos experience trumps whos? Also are you saying that we are not allowed to complain about you comparing us to dangerous wild animals until every man under the sun stop saying things you dont like? Is that the argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:39 PM
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1% is nonzero.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:34 PM
0

When did I defend anything? I did not even know about that post until you told me about it. How can I defend a post I didnt even know existed?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:28 PM
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Dont you think there is a possibility of those being 2 different groups of people? Why do you think you are arguing against a singular entity?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:25 PM
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No the likelihood of never dating is quite high. This is why men chose not to enforce the equal pay thing. You cant say "match the data" without providing said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:19 PM
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Yes, that I am quite cynical. But can you blame me? Have you seen the news as of late?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:44 PM
0

Did I post that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:41 PM
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Do you have any reason to believe that other than your own biases?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:37 PM
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Yes I am fully of the belief that you would still use that as an example even if you didnt read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:29 PM
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I have gone ahead many times. You'd be shocked as to how quickly that gets shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:28 PM
1

So you are arguing against the concept of "red pill men."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:27 PM
1

Thats not a very realistic question. You are choosing whether to have any dates at all. Not "as many as possible."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:19 PM
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I explained all of those things to you in my very comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:18 PM
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Are you arguing against a person or against a concept?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:10 AM
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Look at anything relating to war. War casualties for men are treated as a completely different statistic than that of women and children. And just ask yourself, why is it that wars were traditionally fought only with men? Its not because men are naturally stronger at least not directly. Men are easier to demonize, no one wants to see a woman get hurt or be killed, and if your own army is not willing to hurt the enemy that puts you at a disadvantage. Ask yourself why is it that 99% of lynchings w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:54 AM
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Only if you do the same. Ask specific questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:44 AM
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I looked at the multitude of ways in which society discriminates against men and not women. Now before you get all excited, this is not an absolute statement. Yes there are ways in which society discriminates women and not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:38 AM
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So what if I do what you just said but for men instead of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:28 AM
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I did and came out not really agreeing with that statement. What now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:26 AM
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Why do you think that picture supports any of what you just said? Answer my question. Do you think you should never avoid criticism? "Saying we're done here." When you cant think of anything else to say is also incredibly trite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:24 AM
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Are you under the impression that you should never avoid criticism? If the criticim is unfair or in bad faith wouldn't you say that the best course of action is to avoid it? This semantics argument is incredibly trite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:19 AM
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"There is no actual way to avoid criticism, anyone is free to criticize whatever they like. That doesn't mean the target of their criticism will or is required to care or accept it as valid, much less change based on whatever the criticism is" Thats what "avoiding criticism" means. You just changed the definition for yourself and thought that was an argument. Believe it or not everyone else on the planet sill means what you just typed when they say "avoiding criticism."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:12 AM
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And the goal is dating. You dont play the game you dont get dates. If you are fine being alone great for you, proud of you, I am sure your parents are over the moon for you. But not everyone is you. And not everyone wants to be you. To push the blame for unfavorable gender norms on the victims of said gender norms is beyond moronic. You do that shit to a woman in real life and they will probably slap you across the face. There is no reason it should be any different for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:00 AM
0

Have you yourself read that book?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:52 AM
0

Talk to the researchers that have studied the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:46 AM
1

Check out the stats for alcohol and the younger generations. You sure it hasn't changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:42 AM
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The whole problem with gender norms is that they are expectations put on you. Yeah you can do that but you are gonna reduce your already limited dating pool even further. You cant just push the blame on men every single time, one of these days you mofos will understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:39 AM
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That is not a source either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:47 PM
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If the solution is a social reform then yes very much so. It would be a wage issue if the solution was "we need to adjust womens wages to match men's." But according to you that isn't the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:30 PM

I never once said it was an entire group of people doing it. Please just read the words that I type. Not the words you want me to type. And again completely irrelevant to whether I know these women or not. I am free to be offended at them for attacking me based on my gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:28 PM
3

So its a social issue and not a wage issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:25 PM
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But it isn't fixed by adjusting wages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:25 PM
4

So not a wage issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:23 PM
7

So again not a wage issue or gendered issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:21 PM
4

And yet they live almost a decade more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:20 PM

No it isn't relevant. Someone judges me for something beyond my control then I will judge them in return. Its a simple rule. Let me put it this way. If a random white person calls me beaner I dont need this fucking bs qualifier of "you must know them" to be offended. Its that fucking simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:17 PM
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So then its not really a wage issue is it? He'll its not even a gendered issue. Should men not be able to receive that same reimbursement if they do a lot of "care work?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:02 PM
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And how do you fix that? Do you fix that by paying women more per hour than men? Does that really sound all that fair to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:59 PM
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Because on this sub, it’s very common for men to blame women for men’s action, the opposite of accountability. Does this apply to men too or just women? These 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:34 PM
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And why do you think it has to be one or the other? Why cant both of those options be wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:30 PM
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Why wouldn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:27 PM

What these women are to me is completely irrelevant. They are women. If you dont care what they think of you, then good for you. I do. Same way I care about someone discriminating me for the color of my skin, that same way I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:10 PM
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Your personal experience is not enough I am afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:10 PM

Ive heard plenty of women say they do mean all men. Whose personal experience trumps who's?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:35 PM

Yah and it backfired to you spectacularly didnt it? Live and learn. Next time dont bring up studies you dont want mentioned. This has nothing to do with bias, I am afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:02 PM

You co opted the term. You invited comparisons to it. You are arguing that men too have in group biases. Maybe, but the point of "women are wonderful" is that BOTH men and women have more favorable views of women. If you are upset that people are bringing up the study you yourself mentioned, might I suggest reposting the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:00 PM

Believe it or not most people dont take kindly to being judged and discriminated based on things beyond their control. You just cant make broad sweeping generalizations about people, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:57 PM

If you want, as long as you dont pretend its only men that rape. Hell, as long as you dont pretend its only men that rape women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:54 PM

Because if you say "men rape." You are not just talking about the men that rape, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:52 PM

You are co opting a term with a specific study attached to it. That specific study specifically contradicts the point you are tying to co opt. Its not off topic bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:51 PM

You didnt discuss other men. You discussed men. That includes them believe it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:50 PM

2 wrongs dont make a right. Also you just made the same generalization in that comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:45 PM

Who's doing that? Saying not all men is not saying they dont do it. Thats just a false equivalence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:44 PM
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Never said it wasn't
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:33 AM
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Have you not read the conversation you replied to?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 11:49 PM
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As do you my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 11:49 PM
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Not particularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 11:22 PM
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Again that is completely irrelevant to the conversation. The conversation is about your nonsense messaging, not your opinions on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 11:22 PM
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I learn new things all the time. For example I just learned that people are incapable of following a conversation to see if their comment was already posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 11:21 PM
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You think I am not already doing shit I am interested in? The reason it sounds good to you is because you haven't thought about for longer than .2 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:56 PM
1

Do you not believe in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:55 PM
1

Sorry my cat died of ligma today. I promise I am usually much more peachy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:16 PM
2

Nah I am pretty sure its just "join hobbies lel"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:00 PM
4

Nothing where I would meet a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:59 PM
0

Nah, I am very much allowed to criticize your shitty advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:59 PM
3

No one did. Hence the problem. Keep up bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:58 PM
3

I didnt take it personally. I am just stating what they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:58 PM
2

I think you are confused as to who you actually replied to. Or did you just confess to having an alt?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:59 PM
2

Never said I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:56 PM
0

No one said anything about physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:51 PM
1

This discussion has nothing to do with that. Its about your nonsensical messaging. If you advised people to force themselves to do things they dont want to do I would be ok. Its the dressing up that bothers me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:51 PM
2

I am not interested in social hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:49 PM
2

Yeah you know what I just told you about teenagers. Again dont take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:48 PM
3

I've learned to not trust the count of teenagers. Don't take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:11 PM

Do you have any reason to believe thats what they meant by online other than your own copium?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:10 PM
3

Really? Cuz according to all the other comments that gave research on how most couples meet through OLD, we already passed it. You know, all the comments you conveniently ignored. 30 years seems kinda high given those circumstances dont you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:09 PM
1

Do you? Cuz the way I am seeing those numbers you really ought to invest on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:02 PM
3

Yeah how many more years you reckon you will still be able to say that for?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:02 PM
7

Do things only matter when they are above half?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:58 PM
2

You absolutely said that. Not directly, but you did say it. Your immediate assumption that I don't try new things because I consider this advice nonsense is how you said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:48 PM
10

I try plenty of things. The idea that hobbies are inherently social has to be the biggest head scratcher in this meme of an advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:34 PM
31

"Having more varied hobbies" == "Do shit you are not interested in but women are and pretend you secretly were always interested in this but didnt do it for some reason."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:27 PM
5

The future is now. We aint living on the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:25 PM
6

Ah I see you are incapable of not reading the words that I type. Just the words you want me to type. How you define "ugly" enforces gender norms. This is social studies 101 here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:20 PM
5

I did answer it. You can't be against something and enforce it at the same time. Thats the answer. Also I would love it if you could not assume anything about me. Grant me that incredibly basic wish please.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:45 PM
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Yes, you cant be against gender norms and enforce them at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:19 PM
1

Skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:18 PM
4

Ummm no not quite. I am sure 99% of women wouldn't appreciate a guy whos favorite hobby is murdering women. That doesnt mean just by not murdering women you are John Casanova. You have a very binary way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 05:36 PM
4

I can think of many.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 03:26 PM
10

Yes women are an active part of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:33 AM
1

The person above you commented that men get more leeway in all those things they listed. Do you agree or disagree with them? If you agree then you are wrong. Its very simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 12:15 AM
5

In real life people are ashamed of saying the things they say online. That doesnt mean they dont believe in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:48 PM
1

Nope I was in fact asking you a question. Or are you claiming you know my intentions better than I know them myself? That would be a but ironic dont you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:42 PM
1

I am asking you a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:10 PM
1

What if I tell you that you are wrong about our lived experiences and we were never told that it is ok to "shout, curse, glare, and scowl at people." That allowed?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:00 AM

Probably because you dont tell them the things you say when you have anonymity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:56 AM
3

If the world was as just as you want it to be then trump wouldn't be the president right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:02 PM
4

How do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 04:19 AM
0

That they could not consider that their words could possibly offend men is misandry in and of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:59 AM

Your confusion on the other hand, we'll that will go on for as long as your stubbornness prevents you from rereading thee conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:49 AM

There is no emotion there, bud. Just pure logic, you dont have anything to say you shut up. Can't be more logical than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:35 AM

Not of you keep replying with useless comments like this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:46 AM

These videos get millions of views. Pretending its not a large part of society is burying your head in the sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:40 AM

What are you even saying? Do you even know?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:36 AM

I assure you I am not. You are just woefully confused. I suggest rereading the entire comment thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:35 AM

These tiktoks are viewed and made by women. Ignoring them is burying your head in the sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:34 AM

That a large amount of women have a very warped perception of what dating is like for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:10 AM

You just did not read my comment very well. That is what the problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:40 PM

Yeah but you didnt say I like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:32 PM

If you can only argue against absurd scenarios that exist only inside your head then perhaps you dont have a very good argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:31 PM

Burrying your head in the sand doesnt make the problem go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:20 PM

You shut up because you dont have anything else to say. That is what you are supposed to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:18 PM

This is a nonsensical metaphor. One is a broad sweeping generalization the other is a personal statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:17 PM

AKA the bar is not on the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:12 PM

This is an entirely irrelevant tangent you have decided to drag me into.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:11 PM

Life was not designed. Thats what makes it life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:06 PM

You never heard the phrase "the bar is on the floor?" What do you think that means?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:04 PM

A relationship between two people cannot exist without disagreement. I would say believing the opposite is quite abnormal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:02 PM

If your pregnant wife starts drinking and smoking some escalation is in order. Thats not oopsie I forgot to take out the trash territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:01 PM
2

So? She's with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:01 PM
1

Ye
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:16 PM
1

No she very much is with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:15 PM
1

I did. You asked me what the point was, and I told you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:14 PM
1

Not being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:05 PM
0

You just changed the word "perform" to "fix" because it sounds nicer to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 08:49 AM
2

A lot of people dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 08:47 AM
5

Perhaps they dislike being alone more than they do performing. Is there room for that possibility in your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 08:47 AM
2

At one point you gotta take personal responsibility. They tried to help you. Everyone else in this thread got it but you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:59 PM
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Then I would ask you to demonstrate your capability to remember things from 30 minutes ago. The question is plenty specific already. If you don't want to answer it then be honest, don't come up with this nonsensical charade.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:53 PM
0

Do you believe in those arguments? Because if you do then you should also agree with OPs perspective wouldn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:49 PM
2

So? We are talking about one thing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:42 PM
3

Do you believe in those arguments? Because if you do then you should also agree with OPs perspective wouldn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:19 PM
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How about the woman above you that said a relationship is not just friendship + sex? Is she secretly a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:35 PM
2

Parasocial relationships are fake, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:32 AM
1

Unfortunately I am not quite as hateful a person to get joy from seeing people get hit by cars. Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:18 PM
1

Essays can ramble. Anyone with any form of education can tell you that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:18 PM
1

Yes, knock yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:15 PM
0

Ok so how come the same is true across all of fashion and not just office culture? Or do you see men walk around in skirts in your town?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:53 PM
0

You seem to think women are incapable of influencing society at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:50 PM
1

To tell you that forearms are scandalous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:49 PM
1

I did. I was the one that commented. You can see my name above the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:47 PM
1

Obesity rates among men and women are roughly equal. Fat women are not idealized in any way whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:43 PM
2

Oh how scandalous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:42 PM
1

Like it or not women are also a part of society. Its about time you start treating them as people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:41 PM
1

He had 1 year of a pandemic you moron. You can make up excuses for daddy all you want. I am sure that makes his grifting all the more easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:33 PM
1

That is by definition not absolute.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:33 PM
1

You find it hard to believe people get offended that just existing is enough to be seen as a predator?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:33 PM
1

Yeah I assure you running across the street will definitely save your life. It definitely won't cause you to run into incoming traffic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:30 PM
1

Who said anything about it being most of my worries? Just a convenient example. That's all it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:29 PM
1

Its not instant buddy boy. Trump has had 5 years to do it. 5 years grifting the hell out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:15 AM
2

I want you to talk, boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:09 AM
1

Do you not want to bring about the return to "traditional values."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:09 AM
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Yes, I want you to talk, boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:08 AM
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Nope, if he fails to fulfill the goals he campaigned for, he grifted you. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:08 AM
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I dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:06 AM
1

It is very relevant. Its what makes it not a grift.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:06 AM
1

Are we there yet? Did you succeed?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:05 AM
3

How the fuck do you think "dems pander to extremists?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:04 AM
1

No one ever stated the rule was absolute, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:01 AM
-4

Oh so women run across the street when you are walking and cross each other alone on a sidewalk?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:57 AM
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Please proofread your comments before hitting post. The comparison was very useful in demonstrating your batshit logic yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:06 AM
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Yeah and them being in a worse position than you is completely irrelevant to that definition. If your mom fucking died and then your friends mom also died you would also feel sympathy for them, you wouldnt go "damn why he bitchin so much?". You really are twisting yourself into a pretzel trying to justify being insensitive and hateful towards a group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:55 AM
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Why on earth do you think that is a requirement for sympathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:45 AM
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Empathy should not be exclusive to people you view as having it worse than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:34 AM
3

Ok so answer the question. Why are you against the idea of women having an advantage in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:09 AM
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Why is it so hard to just accept that some aspects in life are easier for you as a woman? Would that idea tear down the entire concept of feminism or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:04 AM

Yeah which is why I criticized your self described stupid comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:09 PM
0

Yeah which is why I criticized your self described stupid comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:05 PM
1

I dont think it is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:18 PM
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This why they said the words "do you think." Next time actually read the title of the post before commenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:27 PM

Most jobs are chores. Are you old enough to consider that most people have jobs that they do not just to do them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:21 PM

Oh no! A label!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:21 PM

So your proof is your personal experience? Well my personal experience says the opposite of what you typed. Whose personal experience trumps who's?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:17 PM

How is that an option? Your goal is to date. How is not dating a solution for dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:16 PM

Why do women think we are never told this? Is it really that hard to see past your own nose?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:23 AM

They are handed positions of power by women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:32 PM

No its not believe me its not. But it isnt because of the patriarchy or woman hating or whatever you tell yourself to avoid grappling with the idea that you are unpopular even among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:16 PM

Nope 46% of all women voted for him. Thats only like 8% less than that of men. You are so ready to dish out blame when you couldn't even convince a large majority of women to vote for the woman. Maybe thats why Trump is president.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:14 PM

The president half of women voted for?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:05 PM

What gave you the impression that anyone fell for anyones pr? You posted something stupid and they replied calling it stupid. It aint that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:04 PM
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Christianity is not "returning to the west." Just look at church attendance, it has fallen of a cliff. What you are seeing is Christianity as a brand, its purely superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:05 PM

Its not a good sign that its not lower. 46 is absurdly high considering magas policies. And no it cant be explained by the evil men making the poor brain dead women vote for trump. No, women are people too, and they made the decision to vote for trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:41 AM

Its a good sign that half of women voted for the guy thats responsible for repealing roe v wade? Also before you get on infantilizing women you should know that the percentage for men is not that much higher. Only like 8% higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:44 AM

And do you speak for all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:21 AM

Magas? Like 46 percent of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:20 AM
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Does "good faith" mean "agree with us?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:08 AM

Such as what? Besides what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:48 AM

Well I am not the same person but to me it was fairly obvious. Did my answer clarify it for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:45 AM

Do you think that statement is misogynist? It means what it says. Women are overall seen in a more positive light than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:41 AM
1

And you think thats a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:48 PM
0

Really? So if someone told you the baby fucking died you would be like "cool." You know I used to sit pets and if someone told me their cat died I am pretty sure I would be sad about it. Great to know I am not quite as much a psychopath as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:42 AM
2

Do most abortions happen because of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:39 AM
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We all see what we want to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:35 AM
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Being unpartnered is not the same thing as being rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:21 AM
1

It is a side effect of all the female advocacy groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:06 AM
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For the same reason women dont do it. Patriarchy demands men to be self sufficient no matter what. They dont get to have societal problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:48 AM
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I care about women's problems yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:45 AM
-1

The overwhelming majority of porn watchers are men. Feminists have told me that much time and time again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:02 PM
1

Do you not believe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:59 PM
4

Mostly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:58 PM
3

That lesbian porn is not made for women. It is particularly ironic when someone many women are staunch haters of porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:57 PM
-1

Absolute 0 self awareness in this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:47 PM
4

Taylor swift is extremely popular among women yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:43 PM
0

Didnt you just say they naturally know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:15 AM
1

Yeah women are all superhuman mind readers. Its true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:24 AM
1

Yeah you missed the reading comprehension class and ended up in therapy. Hey I don't know you, but so far it seems like a mistake only you would make.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:00 AM
1

Yeah your concern is only to help up to the point that it makes you and only you feel good about yourself. That much is obvious, why else would you use useless shorthand? Also just to solve your false dichotomy, you don't have to do anything at all. You would be far more useful by being quiet instead of giving useless advice. Is doing nothing a "part time" job to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:54 AM
1

If your concern was truly to help people then it would be a problem for you. However It is very clear by you using useless shorthand that your intention was never to help anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:12 AM
1

Where did I say you specifically said it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:11 AM
1

You all say shit like "kill all men" then 2 seconds latter go "I don't want to have sex with you isnt hate teehee"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:06 AM
1

yes which is why you should give good advice to avoid that problem and not useless shorthand
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:53 AM
0

If you cant be bothered to give good advice then dont give advice. Laziness is not an excuse to use meaningless shorthand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:33 AM
1

Sure there is. "Be attractive, dont be unattractive." Simple enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:31 AM
1

Besides the silly language that they used, it just makes sense. Humans are flawed creatures and women are humans. Yes they they have double standards too. I dunno why so many people find that hard to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:27 AM
1

Thats what the word "imply" means.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:21 AM

Doesn't matter if they are not actually killing them. You think that has no impact on the mental well being of men? Saying "kill all men" is not holding anyone accountable. Its a fetishist pull for domination.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:18 PM

I already mentioned what should be done. Read the whole tread before commenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:16 PM

Refusing to acknowledge your part in perpetuating the bad parts of society is exactly the problem i am talking about. Is saying shit like "kill all men," wild animals are better than men," "men dont die enough," how supposed feminist fight the evil bad men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:39 AM
1

What you can do is painfully easy. Dont try to hand wave real issues. You complain all the time about living in constant fear of men. Well of you are a man you live in constant fear of yourself. You pretending the stats are taken care of when they quite literally arent is dismissing that fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:23 PM
0

And yet men still kill themselves at a dramatically higher rate than women. It doesnt matter that those things exist when the number of suicides continues to grow and grow every single year (mostly men). Something else needs to be done. Again if you cant be asked to give a shit about male issues, then dont be surprised when men dont give a shit about your issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:40 PM
0

I dunno maybe the fact that men off themselves at 4x the rate that of women? How about that one? Imagine if the reverse were true, you wouldn't stop talking about it day in and out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:27 PM
0

Just like there are issues that disproportionately affect women, there are also issues that disproportionately affect men. As long as feminists are incapable of accepting this they will continue losing support.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:31 PM
-2

Because it has adopted a very "equality for me but not for thee" mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:48 AM
1

The point is that if women dont like wearing makeup then they should push societally to not have to wear it. Instead feminist rhetoric has somehow shifted to instead also demand men to wear make up. Its completely absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:31 AM
1

You think its only a few?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:53 PM
2

If that were true then these horrible men would have trouble finding horrible women. However everyone on OPs list was able to find a partner almost immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:24 PM
1

If you haven't said that then this conversation is not for you. Grats!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:22 PM
4

You are completely making up an argument instead of actually engaging with the one presented to you. The argument is not "these evil people get pussy so I need to be evil to get pussy." That is not what anyone but yourself is saying. The argument is "your argument that we all should be saints and will get pussy falls flat on its face when there are so many evil people that get pussy." Those 2 sentences are not the same at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:20 PM
2

If there is anyone saying that its the blue pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:12 PM

So you think its cool that no one gives a shit that men die at like 10x the rates of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:10 PM

That is an absurd conclusion to jump to. Also for me I play way less video games, watch movies, tv whatever when I am depressed. Depression makes it really hard to enjoy anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:36 PM
0

So?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:18 PM
1

No it is. Doesn't invalidate anything tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:56 PM
1

And you think that invalidate any sympathy men have had or currently have from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:49 PM
14

The movie literally already has a female version of Shrek bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:27 AM
2

Why are you under that impression?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:08 AM
2

You think female peers cant possibly contribute to toxic masculinity expectations?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:06 AM

You literally are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:33 AM
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If men were the number one danger to women (they are not) then you should be proud of that. It means you die so fucking little that the majority of the pie is taken by extraordinary circumstances. The reason you cant say the same of men is because we drop dead left and right and no one gives a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:31 AM
1

You love to tell people you couldn't vote before you or your parents or your grandparents were born. How do you think that changed? How do you think that happened? Without any male sympathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:29 AM
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Not women in any way tho right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:24 AM
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Here is what I think. I think you are massively coping right now. Your "advice" is mostly going towards lllms and bots. Knowing that, there is absolutely nothing logical about continuing to be here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:52 PM
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Basic logic? Is wasting time on gender war subreddits considered logical in your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:12 PM
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Ok so on what level do you tell yourself you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:58 PM
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Not personally what? You comment, you care. This is not hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:34 PM
1

You quoted me incorrectly big boy. I am gonna call that out. Again if they are/were interested in doing any of those things they would be doing them already. This is not hard to understand. Its hilarious that you bring up jobs because jobs are quite literally things you force yourself to do for a reward. Dont you see the irony, you smart boy? If your advice was "force yourself to do things in other to meet people" I would be perfectly fine with it. But that is not what you say, you pretend that …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:18 PM
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Well for one I actually spelled "too" correctly, just so you know. For 2 you are now ignoring the first part of the comment in which I told you that if there were any clubs they enjoy they would be doing them already. For 3 notice how you decided to make this entire comment about me when I didnt tell you a singular fucking thing about myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:08 PM
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Did you actually read the words I typed?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:57 PM
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There is plenty of emotional stake. You wouldn't be commenting if you didnt care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:53 PM
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I'll do it, big boy. Here is one: "Join clubs" This advice is just stupid as hell, particularly because it is also given under the same breath as "don't try too hard." It genuinely does not take a rocket scientist to understand the paradox of this advice. If there were any clubs that you wanted to do already, you would be doing them already. The only way that advice makes sense is if you forced yourself to join clubs you didnt like just to meet people. However this situation is directedly contra…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:22 PM
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I just gave you a fact. Women can like men for other reasons other than confidence. But again if you only like confidence on some people then you dont actually like confidence, that you see "average" men with women is not proof of the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:38 PM
2

Why do you think I am a black piller?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:20 AM
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It is actually. If you only like "confidence" around a pre selected group of people then you dont actually like confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:23 PM
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I literally told you this goes beyond "good form" or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:19 PM
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Weight lifting puts extra stress on your joints which can be detrimental in the future. And no this has nothing to do with "poor form."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:11 PM
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Strength training is healthy, weight lifting? Not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:42 PM

Men see all their own issues that get fundamentally ignored or dismissed and they get upset at that. It has absolutely nothing to do with any "minority" getting more rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:03 AM

You will never be able to shame someone into supporting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:02 AM

Are you aware that "POC" includes men in there? Are you aware that said men also turned right last election?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:00 AM
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Weight lifting is not particularly healthy. Some people definitely do it for themselves. The roided out dudes women love to bring up as examples of what not to do, those people definitely do it for themselves. But the average gym goer is just going to the gym so people consider them more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:16 AM
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Would you rather look at a painting thats a solid color or an actual painting with composition, subjects, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:14 PM
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Again being boring is not a problem. At least its not if you are not a shallow person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:13 PM
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No, because there are other reasons to like someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:57 PM
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That is very much a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:56 PM
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Is it? Or is the problem that you wanted people to say: "men are boring and women are not?" And people didnt do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:24 PM
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Being unoriginal is related to being boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:23 PM
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Yes bud yea we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:20 PM
2

And you think thats good?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:56 AM
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I'm thinking most women are so full of personality and life that this never occurs maybe? Why the difference between the genders? Lmao. Men do complain about women being boring all the time. Shit like "oh she likes Taylor Swift? How unique." Is not an uncommon sentiment. The difference is that men wouldn't break up with someone over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:50 AM
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Almost like you shouldn't want a relationship for entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:29 AM
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99% of people are boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:29 AM
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Why do you people act like a man talking to you is the worst thing that could ever happen to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:22 AM
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And yet progressive women seem to be turning more puritan than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:20 AM
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Yes and I am asking you why cant that someone be both people. What conversation do you think you are having right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:56 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:54 PM
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You dont think its likely for it to have been both?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:42 PM
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You dont think there is the possibility of both?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:23 PM
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So then how come the messaging is aimed almost exclusively at men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:28 PM
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The grace is assuming they are too drunk to consent and the other person is not. What you are asking for isn't innocent until proven guilty. Quite the opposite actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:06 PM
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And you dont think given the difficulty in defining context that a lot of times grace will inherently be given to the woman and not the man? Particularly when the messaging is almost exclusively aimed towards men. If this is truly a gender neutral issue why isn't the same message also given to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:51 PM
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And how are you gonna determine the context if both people were drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:41 PM
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I mean ive been drunk a few times and i dont think its quite as clear cut as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:31 PM

"People" is not someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:29 PM
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That is not what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:28 PM
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Something I've always wanted to ask if the woman is to intoxicated to consent but so is the man, then who raped who? Why is it always the assumption that the man is as sober as a judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:28 PM

"People" is not someone in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:23 PM
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Because expecting women to look like sex dolls is insane and would be open for criticism. And just like you can criticize a man's unrealistic standards so can you criticize women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:17 PM

Nope but it sounds like something he would say to defend a junkie or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:12 PM

doing a line of coke occasionally is not the same as injecting heroin every 15 minutes. Saul Goodman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:50 PM
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More and more men are having trouble finding a partner. At what point does being normal switch over?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:50 AM

Who are you seeing super duper concerned about it? Lonely men? Yeah no shit it affects them specifically. But beyond that, who do you see taking "male loneliness" with an ounce of seriousness?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:10 AM
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Nah I think most men here agree that women use the wrong word for expressing what they feel. The word confidence just sounds nicer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:37 PM
1

Oh is it the 30 minutes you demanded? Is that how long you spend a day yelling at LLMs?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:28 PM
1

But you can fathom wasting 4 hours a day arguing with people on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:39 PM
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What bullshit definition do you think I made up? Trump supporters hang out around other Trump supporters who dont think they are fools. What part of that fact do you find so difficult to grasp?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:37 PM
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Yeah and half of women and half of men dont consider that being a fool. So no supporting Trump does make you a fool according to half of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:13 PM
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I only mentioned gaming because its the most absurd, and simply mentioning the most absurd is easy shorthand. Let me ask you this. Are you exempt from this observation? Or is spending your free time arguing with llms and miserable people just fundamentally different?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:59 PM
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Because "blindly following Trump. Is completely irrelevant to whether you can get pussy or not, as half of women blindly follow Trump. Its actually really easy to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:57 PM
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I wonder why is it that people need to be reminded daily that half of women voted for Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:45 AM
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Blaming video games for unrelated societal issues has to be some kind of recession indicator.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:38 AM
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Where does this "wild animals are predictable" meme come from? Have you tried asking Steve Irwin what he thinks of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:12 AM
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You cant just hide behind calling it hyperbole homie. Hyperbole can be criticized, and they did just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:10 AM
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Tons of people said that and continue to say it, bud. It gets hand waved all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:09 AM
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You sure they are not holding on to the emotions as a form of self defense?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:06 AM
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Generalizations for me and not for thee right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:04 AM
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Generalizations for me and not for thee right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:04 AM

Well I am safe since I dont hate feminism, I think there are many societal issues only women face and I think fighting for those issues is good. However the internet is good at one thing and that is removing nuance. I am also of the opinion that men face societal issues that women don't face, societal issues that are enforced by both men and women. Unfortunately some internet feminists believe that this opinion is equal to hating feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:21 AM
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No, my question was literal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:20 AM
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Why do you think I am asking for your reaction to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:08 AM
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What you do when you barely know someone is assume they are a creep?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:32 AM
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What you do when you barely know someone is assume they are a raging misogynist?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:21 AM
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Or it really is difficult to find a partner and thats just it. You very carefully craft this narrow box and dont realize your box doesnt represent reality at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:56 AM
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R/purplepilldebate
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:52 AM
2

Some empathy would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:39 AM
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That falls under the second one. You know I went through all the trouble of typing it for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:35 AM
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Link me a source for that statement please?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:33 AM
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Why do you want them to link it to you? Is societal trust truly dead?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:26 AM
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You think this message is different from "you are not good enough?" Or "you are not doing enough?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:25 AM
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Not OP but sure I'll do that any day of the week. Point me at a comment that really riled you up. I'll bark at them for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:23 AM
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I am a member of a social species.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:22 AM
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Oh believe me, people use that word for way more than those people. One time I saw someone use the word for people that subscribed to a video game service.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:16 AM
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Yes bud, extending an individuals specific behavior to half the human race is not healthy. This is not a controversial statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:25 AM
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You do give a fuck about it when half of you chose to vote for the child rapist. Then, its men's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:08 AM
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I am not denying your personal experience with your parents. So how about you dont deny my personal experience as a stem student. Also food for thought but there is this interesting phenomenon where the more misogynist cultures have way higher female stem enrolment than the more progressive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:03 AM
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No bud no. I tell you this as a stem student but there were countless programs for women in stem. Meanwhile no one ever pushed me or helped me in any way on my degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:41 AM
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"Simply dont be yourself"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:54 AM
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Men dont treat each other in a neutral way. Men treat other men as a potential threat, same as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:03 AM
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They are also the majority of victims regardless of involvement in crime activities. You would be living in more danger as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:20 AM
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Your stem comment is the most the grass is greener on the other side shit I've read in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:17 AM
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Got as far as "i had a long chat with chatgpt"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:14 PM
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Just say "yeah it sucks" and move on. Its actually really easy and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:41 AM
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You can have your high standards, just dont pretend that they are not high and that actually "the bar is in hell."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:32 AM
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Ok so rewrite the same statement without using or referring to men at all. Can you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:51 PM
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But your opinion is about men's lived experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:45 PM
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And you don't think your opinion holds more weight than men's?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:37 PM
1

So do republicans
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:19 PM
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You can be entertained in a thousand different ways. Not only that but you can be entertained without posting at all. Posting here specifically means you care about the gender debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:38 PM
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Posting here means you care about the debate, creating the profile exactly the way you preach would be a great tool to use in the debate. Of course for it to be useful to you it means you need to be absolutely sure that it will work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:35 PM
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You care enough to spend all day posting on places like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:20 PM
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For me few things kill the mood faster than posing to take a picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:19 PM
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I dont use my phones camera for anything personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:15 PM

So how come when a woman complains about it they get empathy, but when a man does the same they get told its their individual fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:13 PM

Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:10 PM
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I am not really into internet feminism. Where it just became the "i am a victim ideology." And everything women do or feel has to be rationalized into a consequence of victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:57 AM
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If my best prospect on being attractive is fucking JD Vance then things really are cooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:32 AM
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You think those people are attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:31 AM
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"Women dont tell men to be emotionally distant"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:30 AM
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You don't need to feel rage to feel like someone is baiting you be mad. That is the feeling you give.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:51 AM
0

How's that strat working out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:47 AM
1

Do you live your life by looking for groups you can assign blame to?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:38 AM
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So because you dont have empirical data of a random woman being dropped in the forest with a man or bear. Then we cant ever claim that the people who use murder statistics to validate their idea that the woman should be more afraid of the man are misinterpreting statistics. Is that your argument? Do you think that the only way we can ever decide something is right or wrong is by disproving it with specifically curated data?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:12 AM
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So what is the mythical good argument that you will listen to?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:46 AM

Yeah but you first criticized OP. Your comment is self contradicting, you first criticize someone for adding their bias then go on to say we all have our biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:44 PM

Dont you think you are obviously biased against someone criticizing red pill ideologies?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:28 PM

When someone says they are in the woods, the first thing I envision is in a trail. Why is it ok for you to add your own biases and not anyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:39 PM

said the red piller.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:38 PM
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I think everyone is clear on that one, bud. The problem is that the premise that an average dude is more dangerous than a bear is insane. People only bring up the argument above, to challenge people who use statistics to support the flawed premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:54 PM
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You think thats an unreasonable position to have?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:48 PM

You are reading far too much into that terminology. Instead of attempting a strawman I ask you, hell I beg you to please acknowledge what I said. If you either dont want to or simply can't, then just do us both a favor and dont say anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:18 PM

The man in the suit has the necessary knowledge and skillset to give you a diagnosis. You will not gain the same knowledge by watching a bunch of random videos or by reading internet comments that confirm your biases. If you are asking people to go through a behavior analysis program to self diagnose then I could give you a slight benefit of doubt. But that isn't what you are suggesting is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:08 PM
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