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Why not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 04:34 PM
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Hey bondepart hope you join our initiative to reclaim the red pill. u/achingamy came up with the idea lol changing your flair to OG red pill woman will mean youre part of our gang now But hope you know once youre in theres no way out 😈 jk
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:27 PM
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What exactly do you mean by this? Men are becoming more feminine? Women more masculine? Both? Something else entirely?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:21 AM
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Not exactly mandatory but heavily influenced. A post gender society would be free of gender based societal pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:19 AM
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Another commenter just asked me why i would identify as trp being trans lol. The movement you started is tripping people out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:49 AM
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Im not trp. My flair is an ode to the wachowski sisters and the matrix/ original concept of red pill as thought of by its creators. u/achingamy thought up the whole thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:41 AM
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You're my lesbian underboss and achingamy is my lesbian capo 😁 lots of made lesbians in this organization
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:03 AM
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Hey, youre that new trans girl u/achingamy told me about. Welcome to the ppd trans posse, im the leader Jk lol but good to see another trans person
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:30 AM
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Was hoping to hear from you homegirl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:06 AM
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Ok. Thanks for commenting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:27 AM
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How come
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:26 AM
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Gender dynamics are part of this sub, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:26 AM
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In the second scenario I'd imagine sexual dimorphism is all but gone and we're all basically equal in strength. At baseline anyway, some will probly choose to enhance themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:21 AM
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In a future that advanced im sure there'll be other ways to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:19 AM
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Well first scenario would just be social. You'd still have males and females just socialized to believe outward gender expression is completely neautral. No more men do this or wear this but cant do this or wear that and vice versa for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:17 AM
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How exactly are men the real gold diggers?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:15 AM
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Vast majority of men aren't murderers or violent criminals. Those that are deserve to be thrown in the trash. That's a silly excuse to just allow women to be as hateful as they want and limit men tho. I wish both sides would shut up but like I told someone else you either get rid of both sides or accept both.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:22 PM
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It's okay if you don't want to answer this but would you say that you're able to pass? Yes I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:49 PM
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Umm, im not aware of any studies lol but Id say just getting on any social media platform would tell you that. Also watching any female centered talk show or listening to pop music like Sabrina carpenters man child. Once again I think the person I replied to acknowledged this when she said misogyny used to be frowned upon.. till very recently it was mostly women with the boastful hatred aimed at the opposite sex. Even now I still don't think men get the same leeway women do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:29 PM
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I mean when the person i replied to said misogyny was more frowned upon in the past I was assuming she was also talking about online rhetoric and misogynistic behaviour in pop culture. Which like I said women are probly guilty of more than men. Actual acts of violence weren't part of the convo that'll always be frowned upon
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:12 PM
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Id say the growing number of cis men asking "what do you bring to the table?" Would make it seem alot of men in general are tired of dealing with a complete burden
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:08 PM
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Im not gonna lie I'm not very in tune with our current administration. I know trump is an asshole haven't heard him claim hes gonna take womens rights away. I am ignorant on this topic tho.. you could be right. You probly are. I'm not gonna argue. From what i have seen our current administration is trash
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:10 AM
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I mean you might have a point I'm not old enough to have seen. Personally I think seeking revenge for sins of the past that you never even experienced yourself is silly. I’m talking about men casually discussing reducing rights and justifying it via women saying mean things. I can see where youre coming from but let's be real. The few delusionsl incels discussing these things would only get laughed at by any one with common sense bruh they don't have the power to take no ones rights away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:05 AM
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Women did it in the mainstream tho and with no consequence. In recent history it's been far more acceptable for women to hate men than vice versa. Being a misogynist gets you canceled, even now I still don't think its completely equal. You seemed to acknowledge this in your comment. How misogyny was frowned upon
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:57 PM
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I think hes just pointing out how women seem more resentful and misandric than ever. Despite men of today being "better"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:48 PM
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I absolutely do. Problem is only one side has been. Either you get rid of both or you accept both you can't favor one side.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:47 PM
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Women in pop culture openly ragging on men or laughing at their misfortune. Things that if men did would get them labeled misogynists... Ofcourse theres also the huge wave of angry women boasting openly all over social about how much they hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:44 PM
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It's kinda unfair to think misogyny should be frowned upon when misandry has been a huge trend for decades now. You can't have one side without the other
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:41 PM
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Atleast you admit it. So many users on here try to act like gender war content is an extremely niche thing only existing in the tiniest corner of the internet. The stuff will literally pop up on your feed even if you don't follow or interact with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:39 PM
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I might have an interesting opinion on this since im trans but imo it's specifically straight women who are more trouble that they're worth. Ive dated 2 hetero identifying women and the rest were some shade of queer. Those 2 straight women were hands down the worst relationships I was in and tbh I dont think I'm doing that again. Hetero women expect to be provided for completely and catered to constantly like the effort in the relationship is just supposed to be one way with no reciprocation. Li…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:08 PM
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Is that actually true? Even the most misabdric voices on social media end up getting married to men and end up being seen as a modern day judas by their hateful followers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:01 PM
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Ozempic is old. I lost 100 lbs on zepbound. Now theres some new stuff called retatrutide that sounds amazing 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:38 AM
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The title of your post is "women don't think about men"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:32 AM
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Women might not think about men in the horny way men do women but they definitely do think about men and talk about men theyre crushing on with their homegirls its just in a less predatory way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:19 AM
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Well ya but alot of dudes use fat chick's as like starter girl friends. Just keeping them around till a better option shows up. Being used and having your time wasted might be worse than not being given a chance at all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:15 AM
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Im sure youve seen those funny stories about large groups of women having to pay to gef into singles dating events and men getting in for free cause way more women showed up lol. Women want relationships with men. Despite what the mosandric voices on social media might tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:10 AM
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Ah ok my mistake. I apologize
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:54 AM
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Ah I see. I didn't mean to say only chasers would be attracted to you btw, I know thats far from the truth. I just find it interesting how chasers are only brought up in the context of straight men with a trans girl fetish. While im sure transwomen do get the most chasers Us trans guys also have chasers but even for us it's mostly dudes.. I was curious what the chaser situation was like in the lesbian community
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:05 AM
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What about male chasers?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:51 AM
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Interesting. Most "chasers" ive encountered were also men despite being (mostly) straight myself. It seems men are just much more likely to have the chaser gene lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:50 AM
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That is intriguing..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:00 AM
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Same here lol I was a binary lesbian prior to HRT. Afterwards I started liking men, just a lil.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:00 AM
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Bruh don't be a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:58 AM
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Can I ask you what i just asked aching amy.. as a trans lesbian do you have to deal with alot of female chasers? Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:56 AM
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That's cause you zesty Jk lol I had to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:54 AM
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That's cause you zesty
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:54 AM
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As a lesbian trans woman do you have to deal with lot of female chasers?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:53 AM
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You're a woman? I always thought you were a guy cause of your avatar
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:51 AM
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I could of swarn there was atleast one other trans guy... But ya theres also my 3 trans homegirls Bondepart, Kay ray and aching amy. Some others Im not as familiar with too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:20 AM
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In this sub theres multiple transpeople lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:10 AM
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So you hate men because of the reasons feminism told you you should hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:01 AM
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Whatever happened to mgtow? I know the sub got axed but is there another site or app where mgtow is still alive and well? I found that particular branch of the manosphere to be the most intriguing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:56 AM
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Women get alot more leeway in society but I don't think they're really more sexually fluid. This is coming from some one who once lived as female. I think the real difference is male sexuality is still highly policed and repressed where as women are allowed to do as they please. Sadly even women themselves enforce this double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:46 AM
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In reality men are more affected by compulsory heterosexuality than women. To this day. Its really only men who still have it hammered into their minds from a young age that they MUST be heterosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:25 AM
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Ive found it hard posting topics too. I keep getting rejected till i alter my post enough to please the mods and by then it's not the same post in had intended
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:17 AM
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The discussion wasn't about child birth or penancy tho it was about raising the kids. Its definitely not easy but nowhere near as hard as some women make it out to be claiming it's the "hardest job on earth", not even close. A man could do it hell a child could do it as any Latino could tell you lol we grow up taking care of kids while we're still kids ourselves. Also there's formula and stuff now breast feeding isn't exactly needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:19 PM
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Does the woman who tried to kill Andy Warhol count as a femcel?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:51 PM
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Yeah. Im Hispanic, we call these women "welferas". I know women who have literally never worked a job in their life but have multiple children from different dads none of which are in the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:43 PM
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Isnt that kind of what's already been happening. Ive always known plenty women who relied on government support and refused to work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:28 PM
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Just simply changing popular culture in the way it's less hateful towards men might do wonders for repairing gender dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:22 PM
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I might sound biased but I don't think you could compare raising children to having to work an actual job. I am Latino and have been taking care of younger kids since I was a kid myself. Its unskilled labor literally anyone could do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:16 PM
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Idk. Id say everyone's obsession with being social media famous now adays shows most people love attention
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:50 AM
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I think this is something thats slowly changing. You'll see comment sections burstin full of men spouting pro-male rhetoric. It does seem like men are more and more attempting to create their own "team man" to battle against " team woman" Now I'm not sure if men are unifying cause they actually care about men or are just unifying through their shared disdain for women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:25 AM
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Single men aside this would be a blessing for queer couples. I know many straight trans women specifically who yearn for the ability to give their partner a biological child
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:21 AM
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I thought they had proven both sperm and eggs could be created out of stem cells
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:20 AM
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I think its more societal than biological. As a trans guy i experienced the huge increase in libido when i started T. I know just how much your sex drive can turn you into a slave, at first. As a grown man you should be able to control yourself enough to have dignity tho. However so many men still have this socially imposed way of thinking that they're only worth As much as they are useful to women. If boys were taught they had value on their own regardless of what women think of them, it'd do w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:30 PM
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Well atleast you learned that young
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:54 AM
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I mean.. no, idk. I meant it as more of a question just to see this subs opinion of the viral clip. My post got rejected and the mods told me to change the title into a statement instead of a question and change the flair to debate but i don't actually agree Edit: What do YOU🫵 think
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:49 AM
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In which case, when are they even? Idk. Great question. I guess in a way if the love isnt there anymore it is best they just leave. The circumstances just make it extra sad. Hope I'm never in such a situation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:42 AM
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You don't do stuff for people you love with the thought in mind that they owe you now. Atleast I don't. However I would be extremely bummed out if they bailed on me when I found myself in need. After having done so much for them. That said I dont know the particulars around their relationship so I can't speak on that. Just seems like a cruel thing to do, to me. But that is just my personal opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:27 AM
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My berzerk loving homeboy u/gold_sheepherder6569 just proved that to be inacurate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:21 AM
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I dont know the reason but you have to admit it's messed up to leave you partner in such a vulnerable position. Specially when they nursed you back from a very similar situation and stuck by you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:19 AM
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My exact reason? I'm not him wtf why would I have an exact reason some one else did something
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:15 AM
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lol let's check back in in 5 years Jk I hope they love eachother forever
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:00 AM
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Lmao point proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:03 AM
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If youre the one making the money it's yours
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:02 AM
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Bruh why would you think I was speaking of ball when I said one of the very most popular streamers on earth. i don't even think he's a streamer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:59 AM
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Ball?? He's not a streamer. I was obviously speaking about neon
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:58 AM
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Ive had a suspicioin that alot of people on this sub are either super old or foreign or just in really niche communities. Once again only on reddit (or ppd specifically) will you hear someone say one of the very most popular people on social media is some how not part of mainstream normie culture lmao most people (of my generation or younger) know who he is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:15 AM
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🤦 only on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:09 AM
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You repeated the sane thing twice. Accusing me of something i never said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:08 AM
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He's a troll lmao. I'm not sure how much his public persona bled into his personal relationships tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:05 AM
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Did u read even my reply lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:04 AM
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I said she was divorcing him while he's wheel chair bound. Not she was leaving him because he's wheel chair bound. If I remember right he mentioned something bout her leaving for a 6 foot something millionaire or something. Regardless of the reason I think leaving your wheelchair bound husband of 30 years after he nursed you back to health from a stroke is pretty messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:02 AM
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Bruh neon is among the very most popular streamers in the worldThis is his latest viral clip. The fact people in this sub don't know who he is makes me wonder if they have any knowledge at all of current mainstream culture. Like seriously u living under a rock
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:57 AM
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Bruh now I see just how detached you are from mainstream normie culture
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:51 AM
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That is actually a good point i asked chat gpt about this the other day since women love throwing around the "90% of violent crime is committed by men" stat around While exact numbers are fluid, males account for the vast majority of violent crime arrests, typically representing about 80% of violent offenders. However, as a percentage of the entire male population, the share of individuals who commit violent crimes is very small, estimated to be well under 1% Women blame all men for the actions …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:49 AM
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Im not sure about the stats on this particular topic but I do know women initiate divorce much more in general. Also for someone like him it mist suck extra given his wife is sure to some of take his money and assets of value with her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:43 AM
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Where did you hear about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:41 AM
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Women do initiate divorce much more in general tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:40 AM
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An ass hole in her relationship with her? Or are you speaking of how he trolls the media lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:39 AM
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Like I told someone else. This is just the most recent and one of the most messed up but there's plenty others lol. I was really just curious what this sub thought as this clips is doing its rounds and men online are jumping all over it using it as proof womens "love" is extremely conditional
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:38 AM
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I mean, it's the most recent and one if the most messed up. I can think of others like deontay wilder and such. I was really just curious bout this subs opinion as this clip is going mega viral
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:35 AM
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Original title was a question instead of statement but was rejected n I was told to turn it into a statement n switch flair to debate 🤷‍♂️ i don't necessarily agree but this viral clip has done it's rounds n comment sections are flooded with men parroting this sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:32 AM
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Yes..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:57 AM
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Everyone deserves kindness. Equal kindness for all tho. I think he's just basically saying women don't deserve preferential treatment of any kind
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:36 AM
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Im not really into the word simp but I do somewhat agree. I truly think men and women are equal. If women in modern day have an inflated sense of self its cause men refuse to put themselves first. Women are actively decentering men, men need to catch up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:24 AM
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The thing is when you cry victory about men no longer aproaching its not really the victory you think it is.. Ya less men in general aproach but most of whom are now too scared or just rather not are probly the harmless type just looking for an actual connection. Like a said, scumbags n people looking to cause harm tend to have much lower inhibition and less shame..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:19 AM
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The thing is scumbags guys are probly not the ones that are no longer aproaching lol. It's the decent guys actually looking for a girl friend. Idk why you conflate the 2 the scummy guys obviously have less inhibitions when it comes to this kinda thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:11 AM
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Ive heard women themselves complain about both these topics. While i can definitely see being "harassed" less as a positive thats not usually how its brought up by women. It's usually about how theres so many cute guys around at whatever place but no one wanted to man up and go talk to her..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:00 AM
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Men aproaching women much less is a very observable phenomenon. Women do also seem to complain a whole lot about how low effort men are now adays. Which could be a symptom of multiple things but men deciding it's not worth it could very well be one of them. I dont agree with how OP seems to think the trouble with modern gender dynamics is going to benefit men but I also don't think it's going to benefit women. If anything everyone is going to suffer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:53 AM
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Atleast you admit it does pop up on you without seeking it out. It seems like so many people in this sub try to act like gender war content (or anyone other hot topic like love island lol) isn't going to creep it's way into your algorithm whether you search for it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:46 AM
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Fax. Ive always said theres probly just as many bi men as bi women only real difference is men still dont get to be as open about it. Any woman who dates men has probly already dated a few unbeknownst to her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:15 AM
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Bruh you're really emotionally invested in this debate. I said in the comment where I compared your 2 comments that I might be wrong it wasn't a "gotcha" 🤨 youre obviously not arguing in good faith dismissing arguments as "cope" and accusing others of just arguing for the sake of getting the last word lmao you argue like you're still in middle school. Just go argue with the other dude exclusively before you have a freakin aneurysm
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:29 PM
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in your original comment you said women who don’t want to date bisexual men are just insecure and afraid of men having “the upper hand” in dating No. I said women clearly show they think sexual fluidity gives THEM the upper hand. Which can be obviously seen how they use their own bisexuality as one more reason they dont need men lol male bisexuality becoming as normalized would simply negate that The first comment you replied to i was expressing how men are basically just doing now (for male bis…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:12 PM
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there, right there! the problem isn’t that those men don’t want sexually liberated women, it’s that they cant shut the fuck up about it. It seems you acknowledge this as a form of shaming and/or trying to control the public narrative.. they just dont like those people. some people are also assholes and cant stop themselves from loudly announcing how much they dont like those people. Then you say the same thing in a different comment. Trying to act like that's not the case? I might be wrong but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:42 PM
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It's not about you specifically. You basically asked why men are trying to change public perception on bisexual men. To which I answered men are basically just doing now what women have been doing for decades You could feel anyway you want or have any preferences you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:36 PM
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Being fat is a matter of physical attraction.. a direct comparison to that would be short men or something not bi men and also— gives them the upper hand in what, exactly? Needing the opposite sex less than they need you, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:03 PM
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No, refusing to date someone but even more so boasting publicly about how you'd never date them because it's yucky is one way to try to control the narrative around a certain group of people. Like how men once shamed whore's and boasted about how theyd never be caught dead with a gross promiscous woman. Now the evidence of fear i see is how women literally weaponized female sexual fluidity against men while still acting homophobic towards men as if trying to stop them from being able to use that…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:55 PM
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often wonder why we are pushed to change how our attraction functions Well women kind of demanded the same from men. At one time only promiscous men were accepted and promiscous women Were seen as yucky and undatable. Women fought to dismantle that double standard and change public perception. Now in 2026 304 culture is basically normalized and any man trying to say promiscous women are undateable would be called a misoynist trying to police female sexuality. Which is why i think it's extra craz…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:24 PM
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Ofcourse you can't expect everyone's mind to change within one generstion normalization takes time but you can make great progress in a short time frame. Im trans and can say the increase in visibility and acceptance for people like me has increased MASSIVELY in just the last 15 years. Even tho rn it's a somewhat transphobic time due to the current administration it's still far better than it was when I was young. That said I know complete normalization will take multiple generations Incase you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:19 PM
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Most bi men probly prefer women. Which is part of the reason the vast majority never even come out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:13 PM
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I honestly think its insecurity. In 2026 lesbianism is intrinsic to female empowerment. Misandric women constantly weaponize sexual fluidity in their debates against me. Women seem to see female bisexuality as a source of empowerment and liberation. You'll see women make ridiculous arguments about how women dont need men at all cause most women are bi n could date eachother. To see these same women who see female bisexuality as so empowering then turn around and try to shame men by calling them …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:53 PM
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Piv is something straight women crave tho, in your opinion? Or would cis het women be equally happy with a guy who prefered getting off at the end through oral
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:07 AM
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Op was asking if women would enjoy a more female centered sexual experience. I assumed you were implying straight women enjoy the normie cis het way which mostly focuses on penetration, aka the cause of the dreaded orgasm gap. If im wrong forgive me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:49 AM
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Even if it's at the expense of her own satisfaction (orgasms)?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:40 AM
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Is this how actual straight women feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:35 AM
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There are plenty of ugly big women on dating sites. Ive seen them myself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:25 PM
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I said online not out n about
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:24 PM
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Every single woman you know has been sexually assaulted?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:31 AM
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I dont think ALL of those countless women all over social media shouting about how much they hate men have been abused. Im sure some have and it's terrible but hating men has become a popular trend
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:25 AM
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I think simply encouraging women to hate men less, would be beneficial to male loneliness..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:09 AM
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That doesnt mean men would date anyone tho. Part of why i say incels dont really exist is even most incels could go online and fetch themselves a morbidly obese and ugly woman. Even most incels aren't THAT desperate tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:33 AM
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But youre a normie with a dream...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:14 AM
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Neither was griffith. He did it for the power then killed everyone involved lol Be like griffith
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:46 AM
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Oh.. so you arent actually into threesomes yourself? Sorry for all the questions. The pov of a super cis het woman intrigues me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:08 PM
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If a man was against the idea of threesomes would that make him less masculine in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:44 PM
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She told you she cheated because she wanted to be useful?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:28 PM
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she wanted to be useful to more men sexually" Bro. Reading that makes me wonder if you've ever had a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:27 PM
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Just curious. Have you engaged in homosexuality yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:01 PM
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id no longer respect him hierarchically as a man Oddly specific way of phrasing it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:49 PM
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No. That is not at all what im asking
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:42 AM
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Good to see you acknowledge that homophobic women who police male sexuality are no different from the men who try to slut shame women. Any man who tries to say a slut is undateable in 2026 would be called a misoynist trying to police female sexuality. However women are still not held accountable in the same way for how they police male sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:45 PM
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Why do you prefer bi guys
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:35 PM
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Oh ok. Thanx for answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:13 PM
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I remember not too long ago a post came up on this sub about benefits men recieve in marriage and one female poster said a man gets a confidant he could confess anything to. I replied to her saying that if anything his friends know more about him than she does. I got a bunch of replies from women saying thats not true no one knows a man better than his wife. Now here I am being shown women would rather just not know anything about their husband that inconveniences them lol better to just take th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:12 PM
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Ive had girlfriends ask me what kinda porn i was into lol.. ofcourse no man brags about his choice of porn but in a relationship it could just be one of the random facts you learn about eachother Sexuality being fluid has widely been accepted. Women have been parroting that line for years lol do you only reject it now because you fear men using it too?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:08 PM
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What do you love about bi guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:49 PM
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Never give up on your dreams
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:27 AM
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Is it just the dick or is it more so a deeper sense of "maleness" only a biological male could provide Let's say in the future an afab person could get a real penis (n an amab person a real vag) would it then be straight enough for some one like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:22 AM
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As in specifically cis men aka biological makes? You wouldn't date a trans man or cis woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:14 AM
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Interesting. Youre the second ppd woman who also told me she'd rather not know her man's porn preferences..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:34 AM
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I feel you on the stigma. Alot more visibility and education is still needed on the matter but society does seem to be headed that way. I saw on ig the other day my man crush Jacob elordi might be bi 😬 even as a (mostly) straight man i can only hope lol that would be a massive W for queer men as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:24 AM
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It would be like a reverse coming out. An encloseting?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:15 AM
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You think most women enjoy watching gay men frisky?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:12 AM
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You watch that gay hockey show don't you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:10 AM
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Like I told someone else..women feel comfortable enough to come out as bi when in a relationship.. ive seen multiple stories on the matter. I guess what strikes my interest is how women would feel in the same situation. Ofcourse male bisexuality is still not as normalized so it adds to my curiosity even more how women are going to deal with stuff like this as it does become less taboo n more common Yes i just copy pasted cuz im a lazy punk 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:09 AM
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Well, women feel comfortable enough to come out as bi when in a relationship.. ive seen multiple stories on the matter. I guess what strikes my interest is how women would feel in the same situation. Ofcourse male bisexuality is still not as normalized so it adds to my curiosity even more how women are going to deal with stuff like this as it does become less taboo n more common
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:00 AM
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Hmm interesting thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:53 AM
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Care to elaborate further?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:49 AM
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Well then what if he came out as straight lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:49 AM
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That's a good question. Ive seen this topic come up but only reversed. Women who reveal theyre bi after years of being married to a man. Id assume most men in the same situation probly did feel it was better to just hide it which is why its still much less common.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:39 AM
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I also wonder where hes heard this lol as a member of the queer community and former lesbian i really disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:31 AM
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Yeah. Either or would really add some spice to your life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:17 PM
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Im trans but this fetish of yours is wild even to me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:04 AM
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Why is your avatar a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:00 AM
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Interesting. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:46 PM
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Lmao sorry its hard for me to notice sarcasm in text. That is an interesting train of thought. Do you think women like you are a minority?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:36 PM
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Bruh... it was an innocent question. Was just curious about your reasoning
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:30 PM
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As a straight trans guy i also have zero luck on conventional dating apps. I once got really depressed and thought it was cause I was trans. I decided to conduct an experiment where I uploaded a Pic of myself during a period of my transition where I looked more feminine and claimed I was a trans woman looking for straight men. I was curious to see If trans women had the same problem finding straight people of the opposite gender to date. On the very first day I had like 1000 people "interested i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:23 PM
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As a straight trans guy i also have zero luck on conventional dating apps. I once got really depressed and thought it was cause I was trans. I decided to conduct an experiment where I uploaded a Pic of myself during a period of my transition where I looked femine and claimed I was a trans woman looking for straight men. I was curious to see I trabs women had tge sane problem finding straight people of the opposite gender to date. On the very first day I had like 1000 people "interested in me" (a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:22 PM
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Why do you think this is the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:06 PM
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Do you think that would benefit one gender more than the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:03 PM
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Why is it such an important thing to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:38 PM
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There is a very obvious obvious connection between female empowerment and lesbianism tho. You could say it probly always existed to a lesser extent in the form of political lesbians but in modern day it seems to be the norm in these circles. From the movement to "decenter men" and the countless female social enfluencers encouraging women to date other women if theyre even the tiniest bit of bisexual cause men suck to the "having a bf is embarassing" trend. Ofcourse it also seems every strong fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:29 PM
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How long did it take you to find a man who doesnt watch porn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:17 PM
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I kind of agree only because women have litterally shown to be against any form of additional sexual outlet men could have. Even if they're options women have and use themselves they just don't want men to do it too..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:15 PM
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I0% of men sounds low tbh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:09 PM
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It happens gradually by representation and empowering women so much that this becomes part of the cultural consciousness. The thing is modern female empowerment seems to be synonymous with lesbianism.. which probly plays plays a big role in why that one guy on here make a new "all women are lesbians post each week" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:05 PM
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Couldn't really tell what direction your convo was going since the comment you replied to is gone. My mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:58 AM
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Feminine guys are not lazy in their appearance if anything id say theyre far more well kept and obsessed with fashion and fitness. Its just a different kind of style
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:29 AM
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What exactly are we calling femboy? I said this in another comment but I know guys in real life who have that lil uzi vert vibe and they have girlfriends.. I wonder what op looks like lol im intrigued
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:28 AM
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I wonder what op actually looks like because I know a good number of straight (to my knowledge) men who dress bizarrely feminine (think lil uzi vert) and they have girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:22 AM
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Lmao grindr crashes when theres a surplus of conservatives around
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:18 AM
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In your opinion would creating a post gender society finally bring peace among the sexes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:17 AM
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If its hypocritical and based on prejudice i think you should. Like if a straight woman refuses to date bi men I think thats fair but If a woman who is bi herself refuses to date bi men i think that is super messed up. Rules for thee not for me type shih As cruel as it may sound I think a biphobic bi woman ending up with a DL bi man would be universal karma
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:15 AM
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Joining a street gang could also give you a new purpose in life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:08 AM
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I agree with you Mrz. Zesty
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:18 AM
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Do you think that i think experimenting with your sexuality is a bad thing lol I think everyone should do it. Some women just have this weird thing about men doing it too even if they do Hella gay stuff themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:26 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:24 PM
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The Biblical story of adam and eve was meant to illustrate how women are easily corruptable by outside forces. Also how women can then easily corrupt the men who care about them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:03 PM
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Im sure many do on the DL lol Any way why say it like its a bad thing. Women switch teams out of resentment all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:55 PM
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I guess you could call it that. I also see people calling out clavicular and all those 'look Maxxers" what ever happens to pop up as im scrolling upward
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:13 PM
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Ive only watched clips. She sais some pretty misandrist stuff. I've also seen clips of people calling her out for it. I try not to give clicks to people contributing to this stuff tho most "gender war" stuff i see literally just pops up randomly on tik tok
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:09 PM
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Ive admittedly never watched the actual podcast, only clips. I dont think a podcast or YouTube channel has to be strictly about "gender war" topics. More so just a general enery of contempt for the opposite gender. I really don't know who id consider a strictly "gender war" channel i don't really follow those type of creators most misogyny / misandry is see pops up randomly on tik tok
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:05 PM
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Cool username lol zesty closer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:00 PM
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Its not strictly about "gender wars" I mean im not sure most podcasts are even in that category but its frequently mentioned for its misandric views. I dont think you understand what im even trying to say lol I'll see what chat gpt sais.. Host Alexandra Cooper’s Call Her Daddy is one of the top-performing podcasts in the world and frequently holds the #1 spot for female-hosted podcasts globally. While The Joe Rogan Experience often tops all-genre rankings, Call Her Daddy regularly claims the #1 …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:29 PM
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Because its the literal #1 podcast among female watchers lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:23 PM
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It's not a big social media trends. Bruh if the podcast is litterally the biggest on earth among women how could you say its not a big trend. By that logic no other trend is big either if the one producing some of the most massively successful social media stars n podcasts ain't big lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:20 PM
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The literal number #1 podcast among women is mentioned as part of the gender war lmao. Now i know you might say thats miniscule in the grand scheme of things.. since its just one podcast (tho im sure theres many more that make up the misandrist conglomerate) the fact that it is in the very first place would tell me these topics are at the very least some of the most trending topics on social media today. Its not some tiny niche community nobody has heard about
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:08 PM
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I already said it else where but the literal #1 podcast among women (call her daddy) is considered to be fairly misandric. On the flip side some people consider the #1 podcast among men (Joe rogan) to be RP tho I don't necessarily agree. One of my fav Instagram funny pages (chinkcapone) recently made a video bout the palpable tention he feels from women towards men and blames it on man hating social media trends. Mind you his content isn't gender war related at all. I think its really dishonest …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:01 PM
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"specific corners of the internet" ... like tik tok, Instagram, youtube, threads and every other social media app??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:48 PM
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So you would say that "gender war" content is not among the most popular social media trends of today?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:40 PM
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My argument was that social media represents real life. That podcast is huge and its clips are shared through out social media you dont have to watch the actual podcast. Trying to act like social media gender war content is just a tiny easily avoidable community is dishonest.. it is literally all the rage at the current moment and doesn't seem like its slowing down at all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:25 PM
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maybe get out more? Oh I get out. Thing about young people is even when we outside we still on our phones 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:19 PM
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Reddit is actually the last app id think about when thinking of actual social media. I meant tik tok, ig threads stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:18 PM
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Many people would consider the call her daddy podcast a part of the misandrist team fighting in the online gender war. It is litterally the most viewed female podcast on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:12 PM
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I honestly think this sub has alot of people of advanced age. Which explains the old fashioned view points and refusal to accept changing social norms
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:09 PM
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Bruh when ever yall in this sub try to act like what happens online doesn't represent the real i chuckle. Everyone my age or younger probly spends equal or more time online than in the "real world" social media is a huge part of most young people's life. Idk what you expect to see as far as a "gender war" in the real world men and women are probly never gonna start litterally fighting eachother physically lol but online is where people get to really say what they wanna say. The gender war on soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:37 PM
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I think this might be the real case. If women rule by controlling men by means of male thirst the desperate men who selflessly cater to women are the real problem.. these poor men probly don't even get much back 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:30 AM
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Sexism fueled by the manosphere?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:54 AM
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If men are attracted to what's in the porn they watch that says very very bad things about men. Why
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:07 PM
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I think youre speaking from a woman's perspective. Women tend to watch porn for the pleasure involved instead of the people (why straight women watch lesbian porn) men watch pornographic videos featuring people theyre attracted to... now the action matters too ofcourse but we're probly not gonna be watching any porn that doesnt feature atleast one person we are into
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:02 PM
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This. Cis het women literally police male sexuality by shaming men for even the possiblity they might be into trans women. Doing what they can to make sure trans women are excluded from the hetero dating pool. What makes it so messed up is most cis women consider themselves "allys"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:59 PM
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For men watching porn typically means youre attracted to atleast one person in the video. The massive popularization of trans porn would tell me most men are atleast attracted to the body type of a "beautiful woman with a penis". Now I agree that doesnt mean theyre willing to date but refusing to date a group of people that clearly turn you on would tell me theres much social influence going on
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:45 PM
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Well i am driven to believe it being ive heard a bunch of trans women share the same experience. I think the best example are attractive trans women who pass. I've seen many say they've rarely or never been rejected by a man after revealing they're trans. The fact the men aproached them thinking theyre cis would tell me theyre completely average straight men and the fact most if not all were still down after realizing the woman they're flirting with is trans would make me believe "majority" is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:42 PM
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Trans porn was the 2nd most popular porn category in the world in 2025. Trans porn was more popular among men in 2025 than lesbian porn was. At this point you could make the case MOST men are watching it. You could reject the idea all you want but there's clearly a TON of straight men into trans women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:32 PM
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I love your mindset 🤎
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:27 PM
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Trans women attract many of the same straight men cis women do and a ton of chasers on top of that. Women on only fans are litterally wearing fake dicks because itll get them more male fans lol. A trans woman in modern day probly does get more attention than a cis woman her looks match
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:25 PM
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No bro the men shes talking about are not limited to the men you'll find in queer circles. A common comeback ive seen transwomen use when being insulted by a cis woman is "your man in my dms" lmao and that comes from the fact attractive trans women are litterally flooded with dms from normie straight men many which espouse transphobia to the outside world and many who are in hetero relationships even lol If your were shown a trans girls dms you'd be shocked. You'd probly find multiple homeboys o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:20 PM
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This lmao the close mided coservative mind set in this sub can sometimes shock me lol. Like trans porn literally becomes the 2nd most popular porn category in the world and transphobes just go nah thats just a fluke lol There's obviously a TON of straight men into trans women who are scared to be open about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:17 PM
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Trans porn was literally the 2nd most popular porn category in the world last year bro. Aside from that you could just ask any trans woman about this topic and she'll let you know just how common it is for straight men to be into transwomen, privately.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:15 PM
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I think it is fair to put some responsibility on cis womem. Transphobic cis women get far too much grace imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:12 PM
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Easily? Exactly how common is it to lose a woman due to misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:05 AM
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Crazy thing bout the Kinsey scale is according to the original Kinsey studies men were actually believed to be the more "fluid" gender
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:59 AM
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Do you agree with the stereotype that bi women tend to be attracted to more fem men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:55 AM
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Its probly also generational. I find alot of the more old fashioned takes on this sub come from old fashioned people. Aka old lol Edit: hope that didn't sound mean 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:48 AM
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I think i replied to the wrong comment. I think i saw you acknowledge it was the hypocrisy he had a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:43 AM
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You wouldnt accept an actual bi man. Just an experimental straight man? Sorry if im wrong thats how it came off to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:41 AM
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In your experience most women are 100% straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:21 AM
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THIS. Teach men they have value on their own regardless of what women think about them. Men need a movement that 100% focuses on men with no connection to "what women want"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:20 AM
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It’s only on social media do I ever hear about women sexuality being fluid but never IRL. Really? Do you live in a very red stare?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:58 AM
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Fair lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:54 AM
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Bruh. As a minority living in America I have to strongly disagree with your take that bi men are not as discriminated against as promiscous women were 😆 non straight men in general arent the most well recieved in certain demographics but bi men particularly get it from litterally all sides. Black women specifically are CRUEL about this topic even the bisexual ones. Like I said before its litterally the reason vast majority of bi men still dont feel safe enough to even come out the closet. I alre…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:37 AM
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Well thats the thing about normalization.. female bisexuality was also once looked down upon as was female promiscuity. Promiscous women were once seen as disgusting and undateable but any man trying to make that claim today would be called a misoynist trying to police female sexuality. And women have successfully shifted the narrative to to where both are basically normalized and wont make it very hard to find a partner.. When women boast about how bi men are undateable they're basically doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:15 AM
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Well yes.. but the problem is theres a big double standard in modern society concerning who can explore their sexuality in a homosexual fashion and who cant. And unfortunately cis women are some of the biggest enforcers of this double stabdard. Which is crazy hypocritical given how hard yall fought for your own sexual liberation. You dismantled double standards that favored men (such as promiscuity being only for men) but still try to enforce those that favor women (sexual fluidity being only fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:01 AM
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Oh..what impacts men is the stigma still surrounding make bisexuality. Which is changing for the better slowly but male bisexuality still has a long way to go before its as normalized or accepted as female bisexuality. It why theres such a huge "DL man" problem vast majority of bi men never even come out. The fact women contribute to the problem despite largely accepting sexual fluidity as part of their own gender is what makes it so problematic. Rules for thee not for me. Just like men once wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:49 PM
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I mean women made a pretty big deal about the promiscuity double standard so I guess it would make sense for men watching how women were able to shift cultura norms by protesting and calling it out, to wana take that initiative themselves. But I get where youre coming from. Im not exactly bi myself but id also prefer all thing be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:37 PM
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I think both sexes have this this advantage not just females. Cis men and trans women are said to give much more skill full blowjobs. And ofcourse cis women and trabs men to rule when it comes to cunnilingus. We all have inside knowledge when it comes to our own anatomy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:31 PM
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Do you think a man having had gay sex once makes him less straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:28 PM
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In his defense theres probly many more women in your age range that would reject a man for having kissed men. I think that might be his main gripe. How women have worked to destroy double standards that favored men (like the who slut/player thing) while trying to enforce double standards that favor women like only women being allowed to explore their sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:22 PM
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I mean it is a convo worth having if for nothing else to call out the double standards. As gay as most women are now adays seeing how they work to slow down the normalization of male bisexuality is baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:13 PM
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I mean it is a convo worth having if for nothing else to call out the double standards. As gay as most women are now adays seeing how they work to slow down the normalization of male bisexuality is baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:12 PM
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But only in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:09 PM
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You have a very closeminded and unrealistic view of the world. Im assuming you've also never heard of the DL man epidemic going on today lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:05 PM
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Well im a guy who occasionally sleeps with guys. I have never dated a guy and I don't plan to ( tho i guess im not completely opposed to it happening someday) its just easier calling myself straight since my attraction is like 90% woman and 10% man leaning. Seeing your comments id assume someone like you would probly feel more comfortable if men like me called ourselves bi or even gay lmao but I dont think men owe it to women to be 100% hetero in order to pick up the straight label. Specially wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:01 PM
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Straight guy here. I occasionally bang dudes. I dont desire ever actually dating a guy (atleast for now) so its just easier calling myself straight
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:57 PM
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Trans women especially. I know so many straight trans women who yearn for the ability to give their partner a biological baby
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:46 PM
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Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:55 PM
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It wasnt really about which gender suffers more to procreate. Both genders have their own reproductive abilities yet cis women are the only ones that tend to be appreciated for theirs. Even as a trans guy I dont think thats fair. I might be biased because I had a good father but I think both my parents were essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:34 PM
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You date liars
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:57 AM
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Lesbian n trans were number 1 and 2 in 2025 I remember that off the top of my head. I think anal was 3 or 4
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:17 AM
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I guess it could help you reassure he is 100% hetero which might be important to some women. Ofcourse that could just lead you to great disappointment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:14 AM
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You'd get a glimpse into his mind and what turns him on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:10 AM
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Women tried to shame men out of watching it but its one of the few battles women as a collective just could not win..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:07 AM
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Men watched a ton of trans porn in 2025 and have been increasingly searching up the term "femboy". Is what the 2025 pornhub analytics made clear
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:06 AM
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In 2025 trans was the 2nd most popular porn category in the world. According to the hub. Men actually watched more trans porn in 2025 than they did lesbian porn. Which is wild to think about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:00 AM
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I know. I never said they were lesbians. Just not straight
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:16 AM
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Your original question was "how is rejecting men rejecting heterosexulity?" The question itself is ridiclous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:43 PM
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Oh thats just one of the anti-male memes going around "decenter men" crowd. There's also many women litterally advocating women to just go gay if they feel even the slightest bit of fluidity in their sexulity, so to increase the male loneliness epidemic. Im a transguy who's friends with a ton of queerdos n feminists i see all this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:19 PM
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I agree. Was just curious how you personally felt. I honestly think male sexuality is just as fluid as womens and if women can get gay and retain the hetero label so can dudes. I also occasionally bang dudes but consider myself straight lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:16 PM
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By litterally rejecting the heterosexual label..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:12 PM
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This. Vast majority of bi men never come out. That is ofcourse changing as homophobia keeps dying down. Number of self identified bisexual men also increases every generation. But we still have a ways to go before male bisexuality is as accepted in society
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:09 PM
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But I can tell you as a bi man, there are a ton of straight-identifying dudes who like sucking dick. In your personal opinion would you consider them straight? Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:06 PM
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I was speaking about inter gender dynamics tho specifically with regards to dating. There are still some traditional cis het men with an aversion to bisexual women but they're far outnumbered by the cis het women with an aversion to bisexual men. That could probly be explained by female bisexuality being far more normalized. This still does not equate to women believing all or even most men are secretly gay. I never said it did but I will say as a person of color myself that a surprising amount …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:05 PM
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I specifically said rejecting heterosexuality. Like the "Having a boyfriend is embarassing" stuff you see women sharing on tik tok. Being a straight woman is the least cool thing a person could be in 2026
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:57 PM
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It's not a hot topic currently. Atleast not on here. Womens problematic views on male bisexuality are well documented tho all over the internet. In minority communities "DL men" and the DL man crisis are a fairly popular issue search up the DL whisperer and the legion of cis het women who supported him for exposing so called Down low dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:44 PM
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Modern female empowerment seems to put a heavy emphasis on lesbianism. Rejecting heterosexuality is becoming the norm for women. Ofcourse you can't have the ying without the yang and male sexual fluidity is most likely going to catch up and become normalized aswell. That's an unforseen domino effect most women probly don't realize and is probly going to mess with the minds of women just as much lol just you wait
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:39 PM
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I know. I never said most those women identified as lesbians. I dont think op made that claim either just that (according to him) most women arent straight
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:35 PM
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Trans WOMEN are not men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:32 PM
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If were speaking strictly about recorded stats that may very well change. 1/3 of gen z women already identify as queer. If the trend continues queer women may very well become the majority someday. Ofcourse you could make the case many if not most of those self identified queer women are just trying to fit in with current social norms and not authentically queer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:31 PM
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The normalization of female bisexuality is really doing a number on the minds of insecure men. But then how could you even blame men when cis women seem even more insecure about the normalization of male bisexuality. So many insecure cis hets on both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:26 PM
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What about straight trans women? There's not enough to go around but its a great option for a lucky few straight men. Ive seen the narrative online that trans women are more appreciative, trust worthy and capable of loving a man. Ofcourse that narrative is probly being pushed by men who have been deeply hurt by cis women but still. If you find it somewhat hard to trust a cis woman a trans woman might be the cheat code
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:24 PM
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I do not hate women. I'm also not a part of the manosphere. I'm also not saying we should exclusively call out women but it would be nice to see women atleast call out both sides instead of just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:54 AM
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Glad you recognized me this time sis 😆 Edit: a post gender society is a very interesting solution
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:30 AM
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In your opinion is there any way to lessen the divide between the genders?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:17 AM
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Youre not stating facts you're litterally just giving your opinion lol. And your opinion is basically it is what is just let women hate men men deserve it anyway. Which is fine I guess but bleak.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:12 AM
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I did not post about hating women it was a larger discussion about the back and forth making up the gender war and how women are the loudest voices. The only part you chose to see is "men hating women" 😂 I’m a very happy person Certainly fooled me. Not just in this post but the other similar tik tok post. Your attitude is basically "yeh women are venemous and hateful towards men so what 🙉" talk about elementary too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:32 PM
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You clearly are still driven by rage. I can see this is a sensitive topic for many cis women. Trying to suggest some introspection or even dreaded accoubtability.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:01 PM
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It’s also far less common from women Bruh. Anyone who spends any time on social media knows this is a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:44 PM
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How they behave online.. was the main topic of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:40 PM
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What mens rights subs are you speaking of
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:13 PM
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The riff between the sexes is litterally never going to get better if one sex refuses to stop seeking revenge for the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:47 PM
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A lil over a decade is still a fairly new phenomena. Feminism was around for a while pretty much spreading misandric rhetoric with no real opposition. Which makes me believe they'd still be around and would be just as hateful if a united effort of men like the manosphere didn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:42 PM
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I am not demonizing all women. In modern times it has been MUCH more acceptable for women to hate men than the inverse. As much as you try to claim misogyny is just as visible or accepted that is not true atleast not currently. My point is men are in the reactionary position. You can't call out men for responding to misandry without calling out the root cause. I said if youre not going to acknowledge misandry is the problem it is and work to do something about it then you might aswell just accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:31 PM
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It's not about me. Misandry has become a trend. That trend is being met with another developing trend (misogyny) but women who call out the "hatespeach" only call it out when it's making its way back to women. If we are going to make an effort to bring an end to the "gender war" i think we'd have to call out both sides and probly even with an emphasis on misandry as that seems to be the source of contention in modern day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:17 PM
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Bro most people spend a significant amount of time on social media and at this point online misandry is so common its unavoidable. You don't have to look for it. On top of that you got Sabrina Carpenter making songs like man child and literally calling men useless lol If anything what I'd like to point out in this post is that we have to recognize misandry is a problem. Unfortunately its become so normalized among women it seems it's just accepted as part of the culture but the misogyny it's cre…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:13 PM
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I don't mean to say litterally all women (or men) hate the opposite gender. But in modern day misandry has become a trend online and in pop culture and if you're gonna have it that way (which most women seem to atleast have no problem with) shouldn't misogyny be as accepted? In the name of equality Personally I hate both btw im not advocating for either but you can't get rid of the latter without getting rid of the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:46 PM
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Ok lol im not on any team myself. What i wish is that both "teams" would stop hating eachother but for that to happen you'd have to stop it from the source which in modern times seems to be women..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:41 PM
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I mean publicly expressing negative or hateful opinions about women. Possibly trying to influence the minds of other men. Basically what women have been doing but reveresed I am in no way saying PHYSICAL harm is ever justfied
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:35 PM
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Everyone has negative experiences in the world. The struggles of inequality that women keep bringing up such as not having the right to vote or make your own money were conquered long ago. Still seeking revenge for past inequality that you only heard about but will never experience yourself is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:25 PM
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I dont believe karma strikes the innocent. Modern men are not guilty of the sins committed by men many decades ago. That's another gripe of mine. Women act like men being upset at women for how they behave in modern day is nonsensical but being upset at men for crimes committed many many years ago that most women alive today never experienced and modern men are innocent of.. that makes sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:18 PM
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Bro its 2026. Still trying to get revenge for something that happened 50+ years ago that you never experienced yourself is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:10 PM
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Feelings are just feelings, in my opinion, and can't be morally or ethically justified I agree. I guess my gripe in this scenario is how women only really take issue with the negative opinions being expressed towards women. Even if the inverse is much more common and mainstream. If you want the other side to stop angrily reacting to your hateful rhetoric you should probly stop giving them stuff to react to. If not then just accept the hate coming back at you as equality I guess is my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:07 PM
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I do feel sympathy for the women who have suffered trauma and i acknowledge that plays a part in why a minority of these women hate men. However at this point i believe for most women hating men has just become a trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:00 PM
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Eta - men expecting sex iimmediately. Men being drama kings when they are rejected. Being called "bitch", "cunt", "fat and ugly" when rejecting someone. Being told by men that I needed to lower my standards. Being told my men that my career is unimportant and that I should have children despite me not wanting children. Men thinking they knew better about what I wanted. Men in real life were telling you this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:43 PM
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I know. Because we don't have the tech yet. Hopefully soon
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:30 PM
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It would be a god send for transpeople. I know many straight trans women specifically who yearn for the ability to give their partner a biological baby
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:28 PM
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What makes it extra hypocritical is women litterally went through this same thing and fought to be liberated. To then turn around and try to stop men from having that same freedom is baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:24 AM
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It's extremely normalized for women. 30% of genz women identify as queer and at this point it's hard to name a female celebrity who's straight. From Billie eilish to sabrina carpenter to cardi B, Megan the stallion. All bi
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:22 AM
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I agree with this assessment but like ive said elsewhere in this thread the double standard can be easily explained by how much more normalized bisexuality is for one gender. Times are changing tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:23 PM
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The world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:56 PM
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Male sexual fluidity is definitely taking much longer to normalize than it has for women but its most likely going to happen regardless. As bi men become more visible and gain more acceptance every generation it's eventually gonna become no big deal, just like it did for women. Younger women now are probly much more open to dating bi men than previous generations. The sad thing about this issue tho is that women themselves have been playing a big role in slowing down the normalization of male se…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:50 PM
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Id say it is being that vast majority of bi men never even come out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:48 PM
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First, id push back on is bisexual men only because the perception of bi men is changing and with it, the dating world around bi men is as well I agree. Male sexual fluidity is definitely taking much longer to normalize than it has for women but its most likely going to happen regardless. As bi men become more visible and gain more acceptance every generation it's eventually gonna become no big deal, just like it did for women. Younger women now are probly much more open to dating bi men than pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:01 PM
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We probably “would be better off with a woman” That is up for debate. I lived as a lesbian in the past. I dont think its any easier than straight relationships. If anything gay men in relationships seem to be the happiest people on freakin earth. I sometimes wonder if the reason society still feels the need to hammer heterosexuality so harshly into the minds of men is that if a significant number of men "switched sides" we'd realize gay relationships are goated lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:50 PM
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Interesting. You'd rather not know about his porn habits at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:37 PM
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Hey, i have a question that kinda pertains to another comment i made in this post. I'd like to ask you because you seem like A very cis het woman and I'm curious of your opinion however if you don't feel like answering that is completely fine. Would you be upset or even choose to break up if you found out your boyfriend watched transporn?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:02 PM
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I sorta disagree. Like I said in my comment it proves they're much more sought after than bigots would like to believe, if nothing else. Also the increased visibility of transfolk in mainstream culture could be affecting the popularity of transporn which could be its own discussion but imo is a good thing. As a trans person myself I am very hopeful for the future tho. Hell, in the last 15 yeas or so trans visibility and acceptance has progressed massively. I know we still have a ways to go and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:27 PM
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Women are praised by other women for decentering men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:31 PM
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Thought I was the only 90% hetero dude In this sub. ✊️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:19 PM
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Trans porn has always been popular among straight men. Recently it became so wildly popular tho you could make the case most dudes watch it. I keep bringing this up cause I wonder if it'll have an affect on social norms. Straight men liking transwomen can still be seen in a very negative light by certain people. At this point it's undeniable tho. Even many cis het women would probly lose their shit if they realized their bf watched trans porn lol which would be highly likely at this point..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:18 PM
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as a guy that's 90% hetero
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:15 PM
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Ima give you some insight as a transperson who once lived as a woman.. once I got on testosterone my sex drive shot up by like 1000%. It's the T in you that turns you into a sex crazed desperate fool, i know it by experience. Women don't have that problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:19 PM
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There's a reason why Tinder and Bumble are failures but Grindr isn't. Cause women arent as horny?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:10 PM
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Id say most people of both sexes are attracted to the opposite sex. Sexulity isn't that black and white tho probly for either sex. But society only feels the need to hammer it into the minds of men that they MUST be straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:32 PM
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No bro. If you live in the real world you could clearly see men face much harsher social consequences for exploring their sexuality. Women on the other hand are praised for not being a boring straight
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:28 PM
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Maybe not gay porn but trans porn is extremely popular among straight men. Edit: according to pornhubs most recent stats "femboy" is also a very popular search term.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:23 PM
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In his defense I think the straight women who obsess over DL men might get even more obsessive over it lol. Remember the DL hunter guy who recently got encarcerated. His comments were always flooded by (mostly POC) women thanking him for his service and talking about how hard dating is in 2026 cause of there being so many queer men in the world today lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:22 PM
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Tbh i can see where he's coming from because of how lesbianism and (female) sexual fluidity has basically been politicized at this point. Being gay or bi as a woman is seen as empowering and liberating where as being sexually fluid as a guy is still fairly taboo. Misandrists love using female sexual fluidity as just one more reason women don't need men. I saw a video recently bout a new book called "The last straight woman" and it made me realize just how much feminism contributed to this.. Men …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:09 PM
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Well women have successfully changed social norms through unifying and protesting. I think men seeing that want to imitate what women have done and break out of their own restrictive gender roles by protesting or complaining as you call it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:58 PM
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I mean your second sentence kind of explains the third.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:38 PM
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Bro you dont get to dictate how the people you're tearing down respond. As far as I'm concerned men are in the reactionary position as its been far more acceptable for women to hate men in modern society than the inverse. Women boast about how they hate men and are praised for it online and even in pop culture.. The hate thrown back at women now is just the universe returning that same energy to its sender you can't tell men to chill when they're in the reactionary position.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:28 PM
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The sad part is I dont think the damage can really be undone at this point. Not with modern technology. The discourse around this online "gender war" is on the internet forever. I dont even see it slowing down anytime soon if anything gen z seems to be the most affected and the generation after that will probly have it even worse. Let's say in the future several generations down the line gender dynamics do get better i highly doubt they're ever going back to any nostalgic period people hope for.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:11 PM
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Understandable. I think mens main grievance however is women tend to only call out what men say. When most of the popular online hate speech is probly directed at men. Like calling out a victim of bullying after they finally fought back and beat up their bully
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:43 PM
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Lmao if theyre just talking or getting to know eachother maybe. Once they're actually seeing eachother regularly or became a thing there's no way you're not gonna notice. Even if you were becoming distant you're gonna notice that they completely disappeared lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:22 PM
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They wont notice being ghosted??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:52 PM
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Why do you think so many straight women say thing like "penises are the least interesting part of a man" or just call dicks ugly? Not even trying to say you're lying just noticed it's fairly common to see or hear women make disparaging remarks about male genitalia
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:47 PM
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Is "dick" just code word for men or you mean women have an affinity for the actual male sex organ
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:44 AM
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Why not. In the long run if blade runner level replicants become a thing you could make the case theyre legit the better option. But they're basically flesh and blood beings at that point just easier to control. Me personally I'd ditch my gf for the chance to have a real life 2b. (Just joking but not really)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:11 AM
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By Turning bisexuality into a source of female empowerment and liberation? As i have already said. Furthermore weaponizing bisexuality by using it as a further reason women don't need men. As I already said lol All this this while enforcing rigid heteronormativity on men to make sure men aren't able to use womens own tactics against them..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:01 PM
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It is the double standard created by women for their own benefit along with how women have basically politicized bisexuality and lesbianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:50 PM
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Well i think it's gets tricky when you consider the people involved. Also the way bisexuality has been framed as a source of empowerment and even independance for women. For example you will commonly see women boasting about their own gay experiences and using it as a badge of honor and even using female sexual fluidity as one more reason women don't need men for anything at all not even sexual gratification or romantic relationships. To see these same women then turn around and try to shame men…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:41 PM
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This wasn't about womens support for the LGBT community. Rather how women try to control hetero dating dynamics by establishing that men have to compete with not just other men but possibly even women as so many women now adays are sexually fluid. While also making sure men never even attempt to do the same and make women actually work. From what ive seen transwomen seem to be the greatest threat to this dynamic in modern day. Since women can easily weed out men who identify as bi and consider t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:33 PM
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In the latin community it's a common trope that obese women (tortas as we call them) tend to be desperate and will give lonely dudes a chance. Like "remember that torta that saved you when you had no ho3s"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:25 PM
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I got it lol i do think "natural predator" is a slight exageration tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:35 AM
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The natural predator of any given species is usually not another member of that same species
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:35 AM
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Not the pookie pipe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:18 AM
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Okie dokie
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:46 PM
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Bruh, women don’t call guys gay as a pejorative Yes they do 🤦.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 05:41 PM
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Bro. If you have any dating experience at all or even socialize you know how big a role women play in enforcing heteronormtivity among men. Women support the LGBT community in general including gay men but they also Shame presumably straight men for anything they do which doesn't serve the female imperative by calling them gay. Many if not most straight women refuse to date a bi Guy or even a straight man whos been with a transwoman. They also heavily shame men for even the possibility they may …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 04:58 PM
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Just curious. Trans porn has been proven to be extremely popular among men would you consider these men to still be straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 04:48 PM
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Gay men were never really part of this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 04:44 PM
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Im not agreeing with him. Just saying it can be done specially now adays with how many people form large groups and exchange ideas on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 04:13 PM
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Well women collectively got together to stop men from approaching them in public, which somewhat worked. For better or worse. It's never gonna fully stop but if pushed for long enough it gains enough traction it could make a significant difference
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 04:10 PM
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It was obviously a typo lol (which i fixed) women police male sexuality by shaming men who explore their sexuality in any way that doesnt involve a cis woman, which i already said. Whether it be sexual exploration of the homo kind or use of sex toys women will try to shame men to stop them from ever even considering it despite women indulging in it themselves..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 03:54 PM
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I sometimes think women do thrive on the monopoly they have on male sexuality and losing their grip on it causes them great anxiety. Evidence for this claim would be how women police male sexuality so heavily as If trying to stop men from ever even considering to explore their sexuality in any way that doesn involve a cis woman. Even going beyond how shitty some straight women can act towards bi or transamourous men many women even seem to feel some type of way about male sex toys. Women also tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 03:43 PM
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She is an ass kicking , big booty android from the future. In a world where humans no longer exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:26 PM
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Personally I don't think think natural selection is a valid argument in modern day. The amount of incompetent low life dudes I know who had kids on accident and refuse to even take care of them shows women are definitely not mating for their own good or the betterment of the human race
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:56 PM
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Only B I know about is my big booty goddess 2B
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:19 AM
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Well.. as a trans person and very active member of the queer community i can tell you there's way more straight people open to it that you'd expect. Now.. im not in their shoes but I'd assume an incel who at the moment has zero options at all in the cis het dating world, who also isn't appreciated at all since he doesn't fit into the masculine ideal. Transitioning into a woman and finally being appreciated by some one and having some dating options is better than a life of zero affection or appr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:02 PM
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Im not a transmaxxer. I transitioned because im trans there was no alterior motive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:57 PM
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Great to see a fellow berzerk fan lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:11 PM
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Is that casca in your thumbnail?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:49 AM
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It's not my own belief I'm not a transmaxxer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:48 AM
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My point was that trans porn could be just addicts needing more taboo stuff to get turned on. Might be some of that i guess. Might also just be its becoming normalized. Trans porn used to be its own seperate part of the site seperate from straight porn. It was including into the straight side of pornhub (rightfully so) and views sky rocketed. The normalization of transgenderism in society Might also have something to do with it as transpeople are more visible than ever and more people see them a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:47 AM
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Yes in this sub. You basically mirrored what I said lol given what ive seen about the topic i do honestly believe many if not most men would be open to dating a transwoman if it wasn't for the social penalty. It's the stigma thats stopping men from going that route. But as visibility and acceptance for transfolks continues to grow that stigma will (hopefully) decrease to the point more men become willing to admit their true desires. There's probly already significantly more people open to dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:14 PM
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Well there's also a ton of "straight" men who secretly hook up with men. They're a significant part of the DL community. But because they're men most people would consider them atleast bi. Im guessing the person you're replying to has a similar belief but about both sexes not just dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:04 PM
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Ok? I dont see men searching out erotic videos of femininely shaped trees
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:54 PM
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incest is also a popular category Is it? I see people keep bringing this up but only incest porn ive come across is role-playing STEP sister or step mom stuff ive never seen any roleplaying of actual fantasy siblings. Not that I search for that stuff I'm not into incest porn so I don't really know. Aside from trans porn being the second most popular porn category in the freakin world now cause of men there was a study done by the Kinsey institute around 2016 that claimed 1/3 of men were attracte…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:49 PM
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Because transphobia and homophobia has historically been so ingrained into what it means to be a man many dudes just see it as the default. Even when answering a survey their learned transphobia is going to have a great affect. The Kinsey institute released a study some time around 2016 that claimed 1/3 of men were attracted to or fantasized about trans women. Ofcourse the 2025 porn hub analytics i keep bringing up show dudes seriously love trans porn aswell possibly far more than just 1/3 of me…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:40 PM
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You're trans aswell? I didn't know lol you had told how you identify but I don't remember trans being part of it lol. It's awesome seeing so many fellow trans folk here. As far as those dating stats I dont think you could take them serious. Specially not when it comes to straight men. Cis het men are notorious for being transphobic publicly but transamourous in private. As the social stigma around dating trans women keeps eroding im sure you're gonna see many more dudes (and lesbians) being open…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:57 PM
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I already basically said this in another reply to you but if pornhubs 2025 analytics are any proof many if not most straight men are already turned on by trans women. I think its more so the societal pressures placed on cis het men that stop them from openly pursuing them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:03 AM
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I doubt there are lots of straight cis men and cis lesbians who're attracted to transwomen Idk about lesbians but there is a gigantic pool of straight men into trans women. Almost every transwoman ive ever known has told me according to their experience most men are down to get with a trans woman in private most just won't admit it publicly due to the social consequences. I already brought this up but according to pornhubs 2025 analytics trans porn was the 2nd most popular porn category in the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:44 AM
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But transitioning doesn’t change your sexual preference I mean it can. Mine changed slightly. Im ftm tho not mtf. It seems to be a somewhat common thing among trans guys idk how common it is among trans women People don’t transition for sex. I agree for the most part. The existence if this group of people might contradict that atleast slightly i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:34 AM
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I wish more women thought like u lol female transphobes make a huge deal about the value of womanhood and how cis women should be the only people able to call themselves women. If such tech was ever developed that truly turned you into the opposite sex many cis women would lose their shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:31 AM
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I mean that's my experience. Most cis women are attractive.. I think youd agree with that. However proving yourself useful or brave goes beyond just the raw good youre born with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:31 AM
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For it to be rape you have to be having sex with someone who's unwilling. If the lesbian in question was ok with piv sex that is her prerogative
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:27 AM
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Looking semi decent as a woman is alot easier than trying to prove yourself useful as a man. Just being real..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:24 AM
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You might have more experience with this trend than me. I honestly just heard about it not to long ago n felt intrigued
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:19 AM
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Because of which view. Me dating straight women or transwomen dating straight men? Or many people being more into masculine/feminine traits rather than a specific sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:09 AM
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I think you misunderstood my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:08 AM
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I guess an argument towards transmaxxing instead of going gay would be the larger dating pool. Gay men make up about 3% of the male population. The amount of straight men into trans women is probly much much larger than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:06 AM
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Lol. "Transmaxxers" are trans women in denial. I mean possibly but why would they be in denial when actively transitioning. Trans men also report having it better (being valued and listened to more, being deemed funnier, ...) This is definitely a double edged sword. As far as being listened to atleast I do feel like people respect me more when I speak aslong as I'm assertive but if I come off as easy to bully I'm going to get stepped on relentlessly as I can't expect the politeness I got from mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:01 AM
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You're mostly right but if the options are none you want at all (gay men) and transitioning would give you some decent options (lesbians) or profitable options (charitable rich het men) i guess i see the silver lining a complete incel would see in transitioning
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:56 AM
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And then there is the obvious factor of the wrong hormones really messing with someone’s head, like if a cis person with no dysphoria takes hormones they will most likely feel worse. Flat out. Now this is what im really curious about. If they really don't suffer from gender dysphoria at all I wonder how this is going to affect these people In the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:53 AM
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... not exactly. It is a nuanced discussion tho. I have dated multiple straight women albeit very progressive n queer friendly straight women. I think for alot of people sexual orientation is more about feminine/masculine traits rather than gender itself. This seems to be an especially common thing among men given how huge trans and even femboy porn has become among modern dudes. The "straight" dudes pursuing these transmaxxers might not be the very most cis het of the cis het but they probly ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:49 AM
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Do i think this trend is real? I mean i guess so since there's actual people giving their lived account. Do I think women have it easier? In alot of ways yes. It is very nuanced tho I might make a seperate post about it in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:44 AM
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Well yes but like I said in another comment if they atleast somewhat pass theyre going to be part of a completely different dating pool than the average gay male. If they actually pass significantly theyre basically going to be part of the hetero dating pool which id assume is far more profitable given straight men are supposed to be the providers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:41 AM
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Anything with a hole? I dont think transmaxxers are expecting to be tops when engaging with straight men lol. One specific story involves a transmaxxer who said part of his reasoning for transition is having a micro penis and knowing no straight woman would be happy with that..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:39 AM
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I think if they atleast somewhat pass as women they now get access to a whole different dating pool tho. Including presumably straight/bi men and even lesbian. I assume attracting straight men or engaging in ehat could be considered hetero relationships would make it a much more profitable venture given hetero gender dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:36 AM
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If they ever get THAT real I think you would be able to make the case a replicant is the better option lol they're basically flesh and blood humans at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:05 AM
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Women aren't my enemy It's so wild to me how both genders are adopting this sick my side vs yours type of thinking. Even wilder how it seem to be even more common among women than men (according to surveys anyway) men are sure to catch up with women in their disdain for the opposite sex but as both sides just keep going "yall did it first" i really don't see this situation getting any better. If anything I'm sure every generation will keep getting more divided.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:02 PM
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I think restricting birth control will never be a thing because cis men benefit from it themselves lol. Only the most crazy conservative types would think that's something men actually want
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:39 PM
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No but misery loves company
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:37 PM
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what secific problems would it solve for men I think in the minds of many men who think women live life on easy mode just seeing women suffer more would be a great success
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:57 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:18 AM
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I hope so. Im not exactly gen z but ive seen articles bout how young incels are "rebelling" by becoming ultra conservative. If thats true they're really just making themselves look like even bigger dorks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:56 AM
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Drop the maga trump act. You're just making yourselves look weird
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:50 AM
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Facts. So many men would be so much happier if they stopped basing their whole self worth on what women think of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:46 PM
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That would make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:24 PM
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You think porn is litterally making men cucks? idk if theres any studies about it but i dont think its that common. Have you came across a man whos into being cucked in the real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:53 PM
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You think its affecting male sexuality that much? Do you think its also increasing transamourous or same sex desires or did men just always have that in them? In your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:32 PM
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Im not sure she's representative of the average straight woman in 2026. 1/3 of gen z women identify as queer. You could probly make the case many if not most of those women just want to fit in with current socisl norms and arent truly bi. In modern day being a straight woman is litterally the least cool thing a person could be. I think you have to give straight women now adays some extra credit for choosing to still identify as straight lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 08:04 PM
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Would you like to return to the ancient times when most men were openly bisexual and worshipped the male form?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:16 PM
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Im a guy but in a similar situation. Im 90% into women and 10% into men. I hook up with guys occasionally but still call myself straight mostly because its easier that way since I never plan on dating a guy. When you're drastically more attracted to one gender its probably just easier to say your sexuality leans that way even if you are technically bisexual. Thaf Said im not opposed to calling myself bi specially if I become more into guys in the future. Sexuality is fluid after all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:13 PM
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You can't get much more comphet than being forced to only engage with women. But still, men who have an orientation that's more mixed than strictly heterosexual, they will act on those urges at some point. I mean yeah, everyone in the queer community knows about the massive amount of DL men trying to live life as straight. The thing is tho as stigmatized as male homosexuality still is you could make the case men are more likely to try and fight the desires or never even consider they might be an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:19 PM
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Ive heard women parrot the same sentiment toward their own gender many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:06 PM
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I made a whole post about it. Even in 2026 men face a much harsher social penalty for experimenting with their sexuality. If theres one gender whos sexuality is truly affected by societies influence its men. In the post I made a few women commented and said women might actually experience the opposite. A form of compulsory HOMOsexuality as women are pressured to experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:02 PM
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Bro theyre not gay. They're litteraly just trying to lift their own gender up the way women do. That's the problem men can't uplift themselves or eachother cause someone's always in the cut ready to scream out GAAY lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:57 PM
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And that's ok
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:48 PM
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You see modern manosphere guys making claims about men being the more attractive sex. Clavicular himself said something along those lines. He is def called gay for it by alot of people lol but it does seem to be something new school manospherians are adopting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:09 PM
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Realistically "comp het" affects men much more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:04 PM
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I imagine myself being the guy in the scene. If im watching lesbian porn i sometimes also imagine myself as one of the girls in the scene or that im just sitting close by watching like a cuck 🥲 . I am definitely attracted to atleast one person in every scene tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:53 PM
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Or they're just into it lol. You're not and you see attraction to trans people as a shameful thing so you're projecting your own beliefs on everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:50 PM
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Idk. Im not ashamed about my love for big booty latinas which is mostly what I watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:45 PM
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Lmao your dating options dont influence what you goon to bro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:43 PM
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Very interesting. Thank you for the reply. Us trans folk do have a very unique pov on gender issues
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:32 PM
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What ive seen many women say is they watch porn where a woman is truly being pleasured regardless of who's doing the pleasing. As they relate to the pleasure more than anything else they can watch porn featuring people they're not attracted to aslong as it has an emphasis on female pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:30 PM
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I just made a thread about the crazy popularity of trans and even femboy porn among men lol would that be considered proof most men are also slightly hetero flixible?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:27 PM
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Women’s arousal patterns are less rigid than men’s. Their bodies can respond to a wider range of visual stimuli without that defining their orientation. So reacting to female bodies doesn’t suddenly make them not straight. This. Studies have shown women are litterally aroused by everything including animals having sex. A theory ive seen floating around is its a defense mechanism from a time when grape was common
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:25 PM
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I love your mindset. How do you think being socialized as a boy impacted you personality and view of the world? If that's too personal of a question dont feel pressured to answer btw
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:16 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:11 PM
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I agree 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:09 PM
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Ah I didn't take into account the mighty prostate. Ive heard prostate orgasms are intense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:09 PM
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You'd choose to be a gay male?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:06 PM
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I already asked this question to someone else but the other day I saw a videos featuring a Thailand "ladyboy" (that's what she calls herself) who said if she was born again she'd choose to be a ladyboy again. I guess in her case being trans brought her privilages she wouldnt want to change for anything in the world. Do you relate to her at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:06 PM
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The other day I saw a video of a Thailand "ladyboy"(her own words) who said if she was born again she'd choose to be a trans woman again. I guess In her case being a trans woman brought her so much praise and special treatment she wouldnt change it for the world. Can you relate to her experience at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:01 PM
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Not even to experience having the mighty clit? You know it has double the nerve endings right
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:59 PM
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Tbh its hard for me to take womens "disgust" serious. Women conveniently claim to be disgusted by litterally anything that doesnt benefit them. I think its really just a serious insecurity women have as women have turned bisexuality into a source of empowerment and independence. A bisexual woman is seen as truly liberated from men as she doesn't need them at all not even for romantic relationships. However many of the same women boasting about their own sexual fluidity will shame men for explori…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:57 PM
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I dig your perspective on sexuality and gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:15 AM
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Would you personally put these men in the straight category?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:04 AM
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Crazy thing about these new analytics is that when it comes to trans porn atleast its gotten so hugely popular you could make the case most men have watched it. It's like not just a significant minority anymore like if you think men into trans women are gay you'd basically be saying like half of dudes in 2026 are gay lol. Add femboy and other not so straight stuff into that and its a freakin gigantic pool of men out there who probly dont fit into the rigid historical definition of the western st…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:03 AM
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I think there's going to be a big increase in same sex relationship. For both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:22 AM
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I think general consensus until now would be any guy that watches gay porn is atleast bi. Another double standard in society as straight women are allowed to enjoy lesbian porn. The fact straight men are becoming such massive consumers of porn that doesnt revolve around cis women does seem like a deviation from the norm tho.. Ofcourse trans porn has always been popular among straight men but even that has sky rocketed to the point trans porn was more popular among men than lesbian porn was in 20…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:41 AM
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Are you only doubtful of this year's analytics or all of the past ones aswell?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:35 AM
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Straight men who love dong. . Very interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:35 AM
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You could easily find a foreign latina in your own city without having to passport bro
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 12:53 AM
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Can you link me the article or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:57 AM
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Wow. Men just seem to reject queer labels, for obvious reasons i suppose. Almost 30% of men admitting to fantasize about gay sex is wild even in 2026 lol im here for it tho men are catching up to women finally. Why isn't this more brought up in the click bait articles
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:45 AM
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I agree. It's such a fascinating subject lol. I said this in another comment but the fact society still feels the need to hammer heterosexuality so harshly into the minds of men while rewarding women for being queer makes me wonder if its men who are the more fluid gender lol for some reason the people pulling the strings really dont want men experimenting...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:13 PM
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Personally I think most people fall somewhere in the bi category. Most people falling on the hetero side but not completely het. Both men and women but ofcourse men are much less likely to publicly admit to it. I do believe purely cis het people also exist tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:03 PM
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Germany lol Edit: germane lol dang auto correct
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:58 PM
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Yes, however my attraction to men is minimal. I guess you could call me bisexual in the most litteral sense based on definition. Like I said tho I find it easier to identify as straight. As a member of the queer community im not identifying as straight because im scared to say im bi lol im also trans idc what people think of me. Also many straight women also identify as hetero while hooking up with women occasionally. I dont think it should be any different for us guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:55 PM
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The question was Jermaine to the viewpoint expressed by the female host on the podcast. Btw its her opinion nor mine. I think cis het women do definitely exist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:51 PM
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I just wanted her opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:36 AM
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A high percent of dudes who self-report as straight are actually watching trans porn No. I dont think you understood what I said. Pornhub releases their detailed statistics every year showing you what people are watching. Trans porn was the second most watched porn category in the whole world. Men were more likely to watch it than women and way more men visit pornhub than women so its safe to say its men making it so popular. When looking at what specifically men were watching trans porn beat ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:45 AM
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Oh they were typos, i fixed it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:30 AM
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Why do people accuse you of being closeted lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:27 AM
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In the post i was expressing the opinion of the woman in the podcast I linked not my own.. I do believe human sexuality is greatly influenced by social norms. The fact society feels the need to hammer heterosexuality so harshly into the minds of men makes me wonder if its because men might actually be the more fluid gender lol fun fact is that according to the original Kinsey studies men were believed to be the more fluid sex.. I also think that the DL community is mostly men who are fully homos…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:24 AM
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That's fair. No need to be shy about your answer im not the sensitive type lol. One last Q would you be open to dating a cis guy whos been with a transwoman?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:52 AM
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Ah I def see where you're coming from and understand but would counter with the very diffent levels of queer acceptance men and women recieve in society. Even in 2026 men face such a greater social penalty for experimenting with their sexuality men are much more likely to fight the feelings or keep them hidden from other straight folk. Hence why the DL community is so gigantic. Where as women in 2026 are kind of praised for exploring their sexuality and not being a boring cis het
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:49 AM
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It wasn't my opinion but the female host on the podcast. To answer your question i dont think questioning makes you non straight necessarily and both genders probly do it even if only women get to be open about it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:44 AM
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I mean its not that I'm scared to call myself bi but ive only dated and only plan to date women.. you have the right to disagree and have your own opinion but ultimately I choose my orientation lol just because your experience is something, does not mean it's everyones. believe what people tell you when they speak on their own sexuality I do. Am i coming off as if im critical of other people's sexulity?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:41 AM
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Ok lol no need to apologize for being cis het. It was once the norm lol I checked out your yt channel btw you are adorable and great at speaking. Hope you continue making content
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:34 AM
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I respect your opinion but its just easier for me to say straight since I only date women. Would you date a trans guy tho? And how do you think that would factor into where you fall sexual orientation wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:32 AM
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I know n it is SO messed. For straight trans women to finally get the acceptance they deserve in the hetero dating world were going to have to work on homophobia and trabsphobia as a whole not only on how it affects trans women but cis men. The toxic homphobic culture that affects men trickles down and also hurts the straight transwomen trying to date these men. If you removed the stigma something tells me the vast majority of straight dudes would finally open up about being trans attracted. As …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:30 AM
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No? But I did mention this topic is a very common one and I do know this sub is probly tired of it lol just came across the vid and wondered what the sub thought
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:01 AM
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Umm.. kinda? I'd till say im 90% into women. Before T I was 100% only into women so.. slightly it did i guess. It is kind of a common thing in our community.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:58 AM
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So you'd say you somewhere in between but on the hetero side of just completely het?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:53 AM
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Oh im sorry. I guess when I skimmed through your comment I got the impression you were speaking from experience. I am not a cis het male.. im a (mostly) straight trans guy and I know a very good amount of fellow queers from all letter of our acronym LGBT. Sorry if I came off as ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:50 AM
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Really? I see similar types of post being made quite often along with a general sentiment of commenters being tired of the subject lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:17 AM
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Yeah, i made a post not too long ago about compulsory heterosexuality and how it affected men much more than women. A couple women actually said women are affected by what you could call a form of compulsory HOMOsexuality as many women feel pressured to experiment and embrace queer identities. Women also feel pressure to repress their desires toward men so to not be labeled a slut. Very interesting perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:03 AM
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Whoa. Just realized this was posted twice. Think i answered you in another post?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:59 PM
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A counter point to your claim would be the very obvious difference in acceptance between the genders. Because of the social penalties vast majority of non straight or experimental men stay closeted where as women have reached a point in our culture where being straight is actually the least cool thing you could be lol It's hard to believe compulsory heterosexuality is still a thing in 2026, atleast not among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:58 PM
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Im so sorry that was your experience. Things have greatly changed for the better. Unfortunately its now alternate male sexualies that are taking much longer to find the same acceptance womens have.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:55 PM
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Well ya I was expressing her opinion not mine. I dont have any gripes with most women being straight lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:24 PM
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It's just that men are not allowed to explore their sexuality. Unfortunately being a gay man carries more stigma than being a lesbian. Facts. Im not exactly gay myself but I do occasionally mess with dudes and am part of a very queer circle. The amount of DL men who identify as straight is ridiculous. And the amount of straight men who secretly try to love on transwomen but denounce them publicly is even more so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:07 PM
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Ah ok that's good to hear. Being part of a progressive and very queer friendly circle myself ive seen how my straight trans home girls also have no problem finding men to date them publicly. However I have definitely heard from other trans women in less accepting circles really suffering trying to date men. Crazy thing is most will repeat the same thing even the girls who struggle to find men who will date them openly. I hear over n over again how the men down to get with a trans woman are actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:04 PM
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You're homorantic? As a fellow trans person can I ask you what your experience is like in the lesbian dating pool? Only answer if you feel comfortable. Im very familiar with the experiences of straight trans women but lezzies not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:39 PM
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In your opinion are straight women the majority?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:37 PM
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Ive made a post about this and have discussed the topic a whole lot. If theres one sex that is truly affected from compulsory heterosexuality its men. Being a queer woman is trendy now adays where as men still face great social consequences for exploring their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:36 PM
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Well.. you could make the case theyre not 100% straight. That was the point of the female hosts claim. Women "switch sides" so much because most women just need to meet the right women. Personally I think we'd see this trend just as much in men if it wasn't still so taboo. I also consider myself straight but do bang dudes every now and then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:33 PM
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This isn't my theory btw. Personally I think most people of both sexes fall somewhere near the middle of the Kinsey but more often than not leaning more toward the hetero side. Most men just dont yet have the opportunity to explore the gay side of themselves publicly. That said I do believe 100% homo or herero people also exist
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:24 PM
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You've never questioned your sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:21 PM
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Right? If these bots ever get to blade runner level realism sex would just be one of their many functions. They'd basically be people at that point. People you can own. I do think most men would be open to owning one that point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:34 PM
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we don’t care what gay people think about our straightness. That's a lil hard to believe given how invested modern women are in queer culture
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:38 PM
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I recently made a post about comp het and how it affected men much more than women. Some female commenters actually said women experienced what could be the complete opposite, a form of compulsory HOMOsexuality. As women felt pressured to experiment with women aswell as repress their desires for men due to the fear of being labeled a slut. It's a very interesting take. Men feel pressured to be straight and women feel pressured to be gay..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:35 PM
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You're comparing adult women to children?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:22 AM
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Fascinating. Wonder why the uk.. either way its good to hear terfs are dying out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:04 PM
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What gave you that impression lol the whole world knows about those my point was male sex toys are much more than that in 2026 most people just dont know because male sex toys are still stigmatized and lack visibility in mainstream culture
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:53 PM
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Ftm here. I can definitely vouch for the higher sex drive. HOWEVER I am still my own man and do not base my self worth solely on what women (or anyone else) thinks of me, even being straight. Sex toys n porn exist if youre just trying to scratch an itch dude stop allowing your thirst turn you into a slave
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:03 PM
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What do you think of the reasoning behind the gender disparity surrounding sex bots tho. Common theory is they'll be much more common among men because fulfilling the male need for a warm body to be intimate with is much easier than trying to provide women with a robot that fills all their needs like emotional connection and the feeling of being desired by your partner...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:01 PM
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I was referring to stuff like this.. https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/male-masturbators/p/hot-octopuss-pulse-solo-essential-vibrating-male-masturbator-/a42912g78182.html https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/male-masturbators/p/lovehoney-ignite-20-function-mini-male-vibrator/a41334g75304.html https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/male-masturbators/p/hot-octopuss-jett-turbo-rechargeable-premium-masturbation-sleeve/a50594g88841.html Ofcourse there's also large…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:56 PM
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Umm not quite. More modern male toys are more so just vibrators for men that focus on stimulating the frenulum aka male G-spot. They tend to be quite small and dont look like traditional sex toys. The penis focused ones ofcourse there's also a ton of butt stuff specifically for the prostate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:43 PM
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In a biological sense no.. but i am a man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:30 PM
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That's not quite true. There's still alot of stigma around male sex toys unfortunately so they're not very visible but theyve evolved past vagina resembling strokers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:29 PM
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Or just teach them to value themselves and stop basing their self worth on what women think about them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:42 AM
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How exactly are they getting this message out to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:40 AM
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Is radical feminism still terf-y at all in 2026?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:08 AM
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While cis het women might not try to turn gay men straight they do have a very odd (imo) habit of policing male sexuality so to make sure men never even attempt to go that route. Even many women who are allys or part of the queer community themselves will try to shame men for even the possiblity he may not be 100% hetero. Women play a huge role in enforcing compulsory heterosexuality among men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:47 PM
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This newest wave of the manosphere seems to be the most focused on disregarding women all together. Basically mgtow without the acronym
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:43 PM
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MGTOW is focused on telling women they are going away in an attempt to get women to bend over backwards How exactly? Isn't mgtow and similar ideologies just a community of dudes making youtube vids n social media posts for other dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:40 PM
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You're a gen z radical feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:38 PM
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Mgtow seems to be borderline defunct. The crazy thing is even tho the movement itself is dead the manosphere as a whole seems to be more mgrow than ever they just dont use tge acronym
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:14 PM
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Or he just abuses the women he's with
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:12 PM
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You wouldn't feel rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:24 PM
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I'm a sex-averse asexual lesbian Fascinating identity. How easy wax it to find a compatible partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:23 PM
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Or he just loves porn. Like ALOT to the point where after the initial novelty of having you as his new partner wears off he retreats back to porn n forgets about you sexually. He still loves you tho, technically, he just prefers the craziness and variety only porn can provide
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:19 PM
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Ive heard women say their man not engaging sexually atleast every once in a while makes them feel rejected and forgotten. Is that true in your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:16 PM
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People forget masturbation is an option. It's also kind of a strange question. At first I thought he just meant no piv but then he said no sexual activity at all.. only reason I could think of a man not wanting to have any sexual activity at all with his SO is he's lost interest and shifted all his sexual interest onto porn lol which i have heard happens among very porn sick men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:15 PM
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In their defense women also do this. Only difference is men actually will jump at the opportunity to support the woman faking to give up on men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:06 PM
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How exactly does this relate to the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:32 PM
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Okie dokie
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:47 PM
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Bro ive never looked up the definition but have plenty of experience with the term its basically used to describe how people bow to society's influence on their sexuality. Btw not only did most people agree with me but a few female users suggested women might actually have to deal with the opposite, a form of compulsory HOMOsexuality as women feel pressured by society to experiment Edit: heres the definition Compulsory heterosexuality (often shortened to "comphet") is the societal assumption and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:38 PM
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There was one year where gay male was right behind lesbian with lil difference in popularity among women. Did they seperate the gay stuff after that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:30 PM
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One theory for why women are aroused by basically everything (including beastiality) is its a defense mechanism from when rape was common. That is an interesting theory..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:24 PM
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I wonder if a transperson would be the ideal partner for a "heteroromantic homosexual" or vice versa lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:21 PM
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Really? Do you have the linked surveys or whatever. I also believed women were more into etotica
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:18 PM
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Bro i attended university and am still part of a very feminist n queer circle. I know what comphet is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:07 PM
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In fact, I would say most men have their closest bond with their wife, and that is a natural development based on shared life. Im not sure about that. I think there's alot of things about your man you will never know but his homeboys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:01 PM
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I made a whole post about this yesterday lol if one gender really gets hit hard by the forces behind compulsory heterosexuality its men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:58 PM
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That's very wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:52 PM
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Another female commenter actually brought this up. Do you think women might actually suffer from the oppodite.. compulsory homosexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:50 PM
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. Toxic masculinity does enforce heterosexual norms, but compulsory heterosexuality isn't really identifiable until someone realizes they really weren't straight and that society pushed them to deny their authentic sexuality. I mean I'm fairly certain most DL men realized at sone point they're not completely straight lol the fact vast majority of non straight men never even come out tho i think goes to show the forces behind compulsory heterosexuality in the way ive heard of it (bowing to societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:51 AM
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At this rate tho? 1 out of 3 women is a huge minority lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:25 PM
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Probly most. I adressed that in a follow up reply. The thing is for now theyre just trying to fit in as time goes they probly will begin to fall deeper into queerness as every new generation sees it more as the norm. And ofcourse men are almost certain to catch up eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:07 PM
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You're so right lol its compulsory not compulsive 🤦‍♂️ college failed me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:05 PM
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Not to mention the effects it has on men have a dominoe effect and cause much suffering for straight trans women looking to date cis men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 07:39 PM
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There's a funny rumor that when ever a maga convention makes it to your town itll cause grindr to shut down from all the new users lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:35 PM
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Thank u sista 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:16 PM
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Bro if you know any gay men ask them if theyd show you their dms I guarantee you you'll be shocked at how many men are in their probly even many you know. And you'd be even more shocked if you saw what an attractive trans woman dms look like lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:12 PM
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There she is lol my homegirl who inspired this thread I knew I could count on your input lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:53 PM
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Comp het means bowing to society's influence on your sexuality. In men's case I'd say its both. Not only are there more closeted men but there's many more men fighting their desires or refusing to question heterosexuality due to social norms even if they do occasionally feel doubt in their identity. If you know any gay men just ask them how many dl men they have in their dms. Same for trans women, ive had multiple tell me the amount of straight men who would be open to being with a trans woman i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:44 PM
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That is a very interesting take.. compulsive homosexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:34 PM
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Oh I dont doubt that at all. Ive said it before that many if not most of those women would of probably just identified as straight before being a straight woman became the least cool thing a person could be lol. Still tho if the trend continues every generation is going to become less n less straight n more open to queer lifestyles and heterosexual women will become the minority. At that point i don't doubt men will finally give in and follow suit once it seems the whole world is queer. Not that…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:33 PM
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Very true. Historically our social norms have been enforced so harshly on men many probly never even dare question it. Even many of the men who did probly felt like broken defective men because of their non typical sexuality. Thank god society has slowly been loosening up on that even if we have alot more work to do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:27 PM
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Yes, I've said this before i think there's just as many queer men as queer women only real difference being vast majority of queer men remain closeted. Closeted for the reasons explained in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:22 PM
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There's an especially weird dynamic between cis het women and straight transwomen. Like women claim to be allys but seriously HATE the idea of having to compete with trans women for the same men. Hell, they probly even hate the idea their man might even slightly entertaining transamourous thoughts In his mind. Ive made posts about this asking women if theyd date a trans guy but I always follow it up by asking if theyd date a cis man who's been with a trans woman. Vast majority of straight women …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:14 PM
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I agree with all of this. Im not a red piller btw. I hope I live to see the day men are granted the same freedom of sexuality women have
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:05 PM
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A lot of lesbians seem to be happy with a man in a relationship I also hang in a very queer circle n this is new to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:48 PM
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I mean 1 out of 3 gen z women already identify as queer so I'm not sure how long heterosexuality is going to be the "norm" among women. I do believe there's just as many queer men only real difference being vast majority of queer men remain DL still
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:41 PM
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Ofcourse not. Women tend to always want to leave men out of queer discussions. Many women seem to hate the idea men might be just as likely to be non straight. Like I said in the post women play a big part in enforcing hetero normative gender roles when it comes to men. It is a very interesting conundrum being women are supposed to be the more queer friendly and accepting gender
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:39 PM
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I really hope i see the day men are given the same opportunity to be free. It'll do wonders for not only men but straight trans women who have to suffer so much as a dominoe effect trying to date cis men who probly would date them if only the circumstances weren't what they are. I know many cis het women would probly lose their 💩 at even the thought that this could happen someday lol but it is what it is we have to evolve as a society eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:13 PM
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You could say its even more real among men lol. Vast majority of bi men probly never even come out. Men face much harsher social consequences for straying from the hetero norm. I did always find it fascinating compulsive heterosexuality was always more of a theory aimed at women when if anything its probly men who truly have their hand forced by the societal norms of heterosexuality, even in 2026
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:58 PM
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I sometimes wonder if the reason women try to police male sexuality against homosexual tendencies is because cis women fear a significant amount of men might explore dating the other side and decide its a much better deal lol. Ive never dated a guy (hook up with guys occasionally) but have definitely heard the rumor gay male relationships are the least drama filled and most equal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:45 PM
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Sounds euphoric. Can only hope we reach that point in my lifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:40 PM
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That might be true but realistically I think the opposite is more true. I know a ton of bi women and many will openly say they really only seek serious relationships with men. Like I said in another comment tho I feel like these types of women are the type that would have probly just called themselves straight before queer culture became hip
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:38 PM
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There's also a good number of "bi" women who don't want relationships with women at all. They'll actually say it to you i know quite a few. One could make the case many women who call themselves bi in 2026 would of just identified as straight years back before being queer was seen as cool
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:28 PM
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Facts. Ask any gay man how man DL men they get dms from and you'd be extremely surprised. There is also a insane amount of straight men who try to court transwomen in private and will even have sex with them but would never admit to it due to the social consequences. Remove those social consequences and all of a sudden you'd see men are way less hetero than once believed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:19 PM
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Being a straight woman in present day is the least cool thing you could be. Haven't you seen all the women on tik tok talking about how embarrassing it is to have a bf lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:26 PM
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I actually adressed this in another reply but it is crazy how huge of a difference there was from one generation to another. One out of every 3 women is a huge minority lol it is kinda to be expected as being straight and liking cis men are sorta seen as embarrassing by the online feminist community. Gen z seem super vulnerable to online trends including queer culture, feminism and the ongoing online gender war. But I guess that is also to be expected from a generation that spends more time on s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:12 PM
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1/3 of gen z women are queer identifying. Thst is a HUGE minority. Ofcourse many if not most of those women would of probly just identified as straight before being straight became the least cool thing you could be but still. Younger people seem to be far more influenced by the current trends going on including queer culture, feminism, the manosphere and the ongoing gender war. That's what happens when everyone spends more time on social media than in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:02 PM
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I said this in another reply but my trans sisters would DEFINITELY jump at the opportunity to give their partner a baby. Specially straight transwomen in relationships with cis men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:04 AM
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Why would anyone be concerned about not having to go die in war lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:03 AM
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It would be a god send for transwomen in hetero relationhips. Ive seen multiple yearn for the ability to give their significant other a baby. I guess gay men would benefit aswell. It crazy to even think about one day 2 amab people could have biological children and wont even have to bother with any of the pain. Ofcourse it'll also help us afab people if we'd prefer to not use our biological equipment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:59 AM
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Both genders bash each other while engaging in what we'd call "locker room talk" its literally just a part of human socialization. Comparing that to the actual organizations pitting both genders against each other is a reach. The larger rhetoric spread thru churches, schools, media, politics, Idk about church but from as far back as I can remember main stream media and school have leaned heavily towards the feminist side
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 06:23 PM
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A small group of local homies messing around at a bar is not the same as a larger united effort driven to go against the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:38 PM
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Bro the issues discussed in this sub are clearly based on western culture. I have no doubt other countries are far behind but the question was what exactly is WESTERN feminism doing now adays other than adding fuel to the gender war
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:00 AM
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Yes I know where it comes from bro. It's 2026 still seeking revenge for injustices that happened many many years ago that you never experienced yourself is ridiculous. The manosphere is centered on the western women of current day feminism is still in an eternal quest for revenge for crimes committed 50+ years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:37 AM
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The manosphere is a fairly new thing. For a good long time it was really only women promoting how much they hate men. It's always been much more acceptable for women to hate men than vice versa. The fact feminism was doing their thing long before a sizable opposition like the manosphere even came to exist makes me believe feminism would probly still be around and be just as hateful if the manosphere never became a thing. It is men who are in the reactionary position in this modern gender war
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:31 PM
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Ive seen the sentiment pushed online that gen z women are men hating ultra liberal feminist lesbians lol. The fact that 1/3 of gen z women are (supposedly) bisexual might even help back that claim. Im not exactly gen z but just slightly older and I think it is overblown online. That said gen Z probly is the most affected yet when it comes to the gender war and how it's making both genders resent eachother. If the trend continues you could expect every new generation to become even more resentful…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:47 PM
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Even many "straight" women who have experimented with homosexuality themselves display homophobic tendencies. Personally I think a hypocritical "straight" (cough cough bi) woman like that deserves to end up with a DL bi guy lol it's their universal karma
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:02 AM
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That is a fascinating identity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:44 AM
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There's nothing gay about dating a transwoman, as a straight man. Yet many transphobic cis het women will claim it pushes men straight past bi and into gay territory. I made a whole post about this not too long ago vast majority of cis het women would not only refuse to date a transperson they also expect their cis male partners not to date transpeople
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:16 AM
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Very much so. Bringing up trans people probly gets this sub even more riled up tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:08 AM
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If you want a woman who gets off on you sucking dick you are looking for a sex positive feminist. As a (mostly) straight trans guy this is def my dating pool lol progressive liberal women are the greatest. However I will say that given how accepting progressive women are thanks to their socialization and education i think it is very possible to destigmatize male bisexuality even among straight women all you have to do is normalize it. Women really don't want this to happen tho despite how gay fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:52 PM
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Interesting. I saw a clip recently with Jordan Peterson saying lesbian relationships are so chaotic and short lived because putting 2 neurotic people who are highly sensitive to negative emotions together makes for alot of trouble. Id assume on the inverse putting 2 men together would be the least chaotic pairing..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:42 PM
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Its 2026 hating half the world because of old historical struggles you never experienced yourself is ridiculous. This is where I do lean on the manosphere side. The manosphere is reacting to women NOW feminism still wants revenge for crimes commited over 50 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:37 PM
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Is it true what they say about gay male relationships being the most stress free?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:30 PM
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Im not sure how true this is. If anything I'd say under the great influence of porn modern women feel more performance anxiety than ever. Men are also much more likely to be unsatisfied with the woman in their lives due to the expectations brought on by heavy porn use I think criticizing women for an underwhelming performance in bed is becoming increasingly more common. Sad part is women have to live up to unrealistic expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:59 PM
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Ah i see. You think seeking revenge over a wrong doing you never experienced which happened long before you were ever born is more valid than reacting to a hateful movement that has been influencing modern society and is still very much alive and well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:56 PM
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The thing is red pillers could easily answer this dillema with the childish answer "they did it first" which as childish as it is it's rooted in truth. Its women who have been fueling the gender war even before their was a sizable reactionary movement like the manosphere. Its been much more socially acceptable for women to hate men than the inverse. You can't expect the reactionary movement to cease to exist while the movement theyre reacting to continues to thrive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 05:49 PM
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Idk if I'd say less extreme. The women who hate men seem to thrive on their hatred and are litterally praised for it by so many other women. Even as someone who leaned more to the feminist side I think it's women who have to slow down on their vitriol if anyone can expect men to quit with theres. Men are the ones in the reactionary position in this online gender war after so many years of socially accepted misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 05:37 PM
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While I get where you're coming from that's like saying every woman should be punched in the face full force by a man before expecting a man to protect her out in public
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:25 PM
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What exactly is feminism helping to achieve in 2026?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 05:31 PM
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Being a trans woman would you say you felt more privileged when you presented as male? Sorry if this is too personal a question btw only answer if you feel comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:52 PM
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They're going to have to eventually. That is how equality works. Ofcourse they are human and will fight to keep the status quo where it benefits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:56 PM
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I actually think there is a stronger argument of more biphobia being rooted in internalized misogyny, not misandry Can I hear your argument. Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:19 AM
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i think if bi men live in areas with active LGBT+ communities, they are far more likely to meet other bisexual and/or educated people. This has been my experience. Im a (mostly) straight trans guy and have no problem finding women to date. My circle is very progressive and queer friendly tho. Bi cis men in my circle obviously also have no problem dating cis women. You could find videos on youtube of people going around asking women if theyd date a transguy and when they do it in liberal cities a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:38 AM
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Im not sure how true this is among gen z women. Im sure there's still many biased women even in the younger generation but I wish they'd re do that survey about this specifically asking younger women. They have to be more open to it than the women who responded to that old survey
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:15 AM
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I actually fuxx with this. Hope you're not trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:08 AM
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💯 I basically just said this in another post but many men feel a deep societally imposed sense of self worth based on how theyre perceived by women. Teaching men that they are valuable on their own regardless of what women think of them would do wonders for the male psyche. Its one of the few things I feel the mansphere actually does right. Teaching men to value themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:12 PM
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Some cis men seem to feel much societal pressure on how women perceive them. Normalizing the concept that men are valuable on there own regardless of what women think of them would do wonders for the male psyche. I mostly disagree with manosphere philosophy but I do think this particular belief is of great value.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:20 PM
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Same with defending random women. I get not wanting to do this if you feel wronged by women for whatever reason but it's not even about men vs women. You should feel good about defending anyone who's not as physically capable as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:16 PM
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Its not just about stds but cheating and a promiscuous past. Edit: here's an article referring to a study that found bi women were not only more socio sexual but more likely to show "psychopathic traits" https://www.psypost.org/bisexual-women-tend-elevated-levels-sociosexuality-psychopathic-traits/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:51 AM
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Sure, but at the individual level you’re going to have little choice on what you’re attracted to Once again, what youre attracted is greatly affected by social norms. Ofcourse people vary but the majority are hoing to mostly follow suit with the standards at the time. The way it works is to normalize the once taboo so that every generation it becomes more accepted and eventually the prejudices against it will for the most art disappear. Like they have basically done with female bisexuality. Agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:46 AM
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My mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:35 AM
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That is so not fair. Bisexual women also have the reputation of being more socio sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:34 AM
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Social norms greatly affect human sexality. Im sure at one time it was looked down upon for women to explore homosexuality aswell. However female bisexuality has been normalized to the point where it's promoted and seen as cool. And this is where women desperately want to leave it, refusing to let male sexual fluidity catch up. Women seem to view male sexual fluidity as a threat and you could tell their stance on it by how women weaponize female sexual fluidity as source of independance and empo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:34 PM
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I think it's more so the hypocrisy of how wonen refuse to work on the double standards that benefit them while actively working to destroy any double standards that benefit men. In dating and in general
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:28 PM
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I agree and I truly believe it's more about insecurity than actual disgust. Women will throw the word disgust around to shame men for doing litterally anything they don't like even many things women do themselves. Women are very smart when it comes to controlling men and many men are too kitty whipped to even question it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:26 PM
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mgtow Been a while since I heard this acronym. Funny thing is besides mgtow itself kinda fading into obscurity the newest wave of the manosphere seem to be the most mgtow-ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:46 PM
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There was atleast one study that claimed men preferred being around male friends than their actual girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 02:18 PM
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Want to delete this line of comments so it doesn't look random n weird lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:39 AM
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Oh no im sorry. I just think it's awesome there's so many of us. You're the 3rd ive spotted lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:34 AM
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You're trans?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:23 AM
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Well i think everyone in the world including women have some care for what the gender theyre attracted to thinks. The problem is some cis het men will litterally base all their life choices on what they think women might find attractive. Basically becoming puppets to the female master race lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 10:36 PM
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Not sure i agree with your methods but I do agree with the end goal. Men deserve to be freed from their extremely limiting gender expectations, just like women have been. For that to happen more cis men are going to have to start living for themselves instead of living for female validation. I do have hope we'll get there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 07:51 PM
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Me personally I think it's more of a shaming tactic brought on by a deep insecurity women have. Ive said this before but many women will boast about female sexual fuidity and use it as a source of empowerment and independance while shaming and belittling men for doing the same in an attempt to stop men from ever even going that route and using women's own tactics against them. Cis men do shoot themselves in the foot by being so kitty whooped they don't even question this and go along with what e…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 01:10 PM
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Same circles openly accept bi cis men mind you. Progressive women are great.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 01:08 PM
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Ive heard men show reluctance to date bi women cause of the belief bi women are more socio sexual than straight women. Now that is probly much less common than the inverse tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:41 PM
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I believe this is what it really is. A shaming tactic more so than actual disgust. I hate it too but at the same time I feel like cis men are partly to blame for allowing cis women to force them into a tiny lil box while women get to be free. Personally i could never be what whipped. Cis men need to stop basing all their life choices on what they think women find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:37 PM
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If that was true there'd be zero women into me. A 5'3 trans guy who occasionally messes around with other guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:34 PM
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Ok. I was curious about your answer since you seem very hetero. Thanks for your input.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:55 AM
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Would you date a guy whos been with a transwoman?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:29 AM
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Just curious.. did you answer my other post asking women if theyd date a transguy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:25 AM
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That is very interesting. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 10:46 PM
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Oh ok. It does seem when it comes to erotica women are more in line with what men like in visual porn. Hetero and 2 members of the opposite sex together.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:32 PM
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Well the thing is when it comes to actual visual porn what women like seems to be very different than what men like. Straight identified women watch lesbian porn for example. Straight men don't tend to watch gay porn but there is a gigantic pool of (presumably straight) men who watch trans porn.. sexuality is complicated. I guess when it comes to erotica which seems to be womens preferred form of adult content, women seem to be more aligned with men in their interests. Being into hetero and 2 me…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:46 PM
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Do you watch lesbian porn because you're attracted to vaginas or you just like watching women being pleasured? Or what reason is it I know it's kind of personal you don't have to reply
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:26 PM
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I can always count on your reply sis 💙 thanx
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:24 PM
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Ah ok. The forbidden aspect of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:09 PM
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Ok, being this has become a big thing recently, what is it about hockey players specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:07 PM
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It was straight women consuming the lesbian erotica or mostly queer women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:03 PM
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Interesting take. Was erotica back in the day more hetero focused?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:46 PM
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But if you're creating the whole story yourself why not make it about hetero love/sex? In the case of straight women anyway. One complaint I've heard women bring up about straight porn is there's no connection or story. You could easily fix that if you're writing your own story.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:44 PM
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*gay male romance not gale male lol facepalm
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:35 PM
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Hey, we get plenty of dates ok 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:47 PM
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What's wrong with university men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:05 PM
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Ive heard a few straight homegirls of mine say things along the lines of "men don't even like women anymore". When talking about guys lack of drive to pursue. I do agree it's probly exagerated online tho
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:10 PM
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Almost sounds like you're trolling at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 06:36 AM
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The topic was on misandry/misogyny not criminal activity
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 06:06 AM
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That chick from the liquid iv ads Edit: drew afualo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:54 AM
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That's even sadder bro. You don't really want to live without women you've just accepted a lie. You're not "too chopped" to get a gf. Stop living in your own head.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:50 AM
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In your case it sounds more so like you're giving up on yourself than giving up on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:42 AM
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It's sad how the battle of the sexes has officially gone full circle. Im not part of the manoshpere but it seemed to me like it used to be alot more about learning how to manipulate women. Which was bad in its own way but this new wave just seems to suggest avoiding women all together. Similar to the the misandrists on the other side telling women men are awful and should be avoided at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:22 AM
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You definitely sound like you're super salty without even trying. It's like it comes naturally to you. Oh yes. Because I'm the one angrily typing out whole essays lol. Things are not going backwards bro this BS new "right" movement made up of incels isn't changing anything. In fact it was WOMEN who made it possible for people like me to exist and be happy and women rule the world. Women like you must've had some traumatic experience like a transwoman stealing your man or you just hate the idea o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 03:57 PM
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Bro. This woman has a serious axe to grind with trans people. Im starting to wonder if a transwoman stole her man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:30 PM
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Bro. You're clearly upset about trans folks finally getting the support we deserve, as human beings. Things are not going back to how they used to be just get used to it. Not even trying to be salty. In a progressive world your outdated bigotry is soon to die out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:24 PM
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But also that a lot of men have poor social skills, and antagonistic attitudes towards women. Is that more common now or has it been that way for aslong as you can remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:57 PM
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No one's forcing you to date anyone just calling out your inner biases specially when you claim to be so open minded. I already said you could choose not to date a transperson for any reason we actually have physical differences from cis people and it is what is but also demanding that cis men turn their backs on transwomen is incredibly harmful to our trans sisters who still have to deal with so many closeted men. Men who are closeted because of multiple reasons but one big one being judgmental…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:44 PM
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Your story sounds intriguing. I won't ask an questions tho. Thank you for commenting!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:15 AM
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Gold and white immediately made me think of the white falcon
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:23 AM
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The griffith pill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:00 AM
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One of my pet peeves is how women weaponize sexual fluidity while policing male sexuality in a very homophobic way. You will see women boasting about how all women are sexually fluid and saying ridiclous things like women dont need men at all in fact women could just get with eachother. Many of these same women will shame men by insinuating they're gay or insisting no man can steer away from 100% heterosexuality at all or else he's just gay. Talk about hypocrisy. I just made a post asking women …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:32 AM
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I'm not a cis het male so I'm just speaking from the outside looking in. However, if you consider yourself to be an Ally and you believe transgender people are really the gender they identify as why would you have a problem with a cis man dating a transwoman? He's no less straight after doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:14 AM
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It seems slot of cis het women are obsessed with policing mens sexuality so to make sure he's only willing to date ciswomen. I find it weird too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 09:59 PM
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That was cool 3 years ago, biology is in again. What gives you that impression. Im blessed to live in liberal los angeles but I do not see trans rights or acceptance regressing in anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 09:23 PM
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Bottom surgery has come a long way. For both ftm and mtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 09:20 PM
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I said this in another thread but at this point I'm convinced the only thing stopping many many cis men from openly dating trans women or even exploring their sexuality in other ways are the shaming tactics of many cis women. Porn stats clearly show there's a ton men into transgirls whether theyre open about it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:19 PM
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Lmao at this point I'm convinced the only thing stopping many many cis men from openly dating tranwomen or even exploring their sexuality in other ways is the shaming tactics of many cis women. Porn viewership clearly shows there's a ton of men lusting after trans girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:13 PM
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Like magic Johnsons son lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:49 PM
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Why put this in the auto thingy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:54 PM
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Okie dokie. Thanks for the answers anyway bro I'm really not trying to fight with you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:51 PM
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I never said you labeled the men as gay. I said you labeled the action of being with a transperson as gay
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:49 PM
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Your refusal to date a man who's been with a transwoman was based on him not being hetero sexual. So you did basically say its gay. Im not trying to change your mind or judge you for your answer btw just trying to better understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:40 PM
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In your opinion dating a trans person of the opposite gender is gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:31 PM
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Very interesting take. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:20 PM
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Interesting. Thanks for answering
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:16 PM
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The way you phrased it made it seem to me like you didn't like the idea but as you say you are just accepting it as you have no choice. You have the right to feel however you want btw I'm just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:03 PM
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2.) Sure, I've already accepted men will stick their dicks into anything. Lmao.. why are your partners past dating choices a problem tho? I noticed in the other sub i asked this question in the most common answer among cis het women was no to both questions. I guess I can understand why a super cis het woman would answer no to the former but how does your partner dating a transwoman affect you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 03:55 PM
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You are hetero?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 03:47 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 03:33 PM
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Feminist seperatists are known for being radical in their beliefs and encouraging political lesbianism. Atleast the original wave was. Idk what traits characterize the male counterpart as it's a somewhat new phenomena but I'd say they probly hate women no less than the radical feminists advising women to leave men and live in a lesbian utopia hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:44 PM
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Did you think the hateful group who choose to seperate from the opposite sex would be somehow less misogynistic or mysandric? The separatists are probably the most extreme of the bunch when it comes to both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:19 PM
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Being hurt is understandable but choosing to vilify aswell as influence others to Vilify half the population for the faults of one person isnt fair imo. This goes for both sides. One side can't heal if the other refuses to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:16 PM
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It seems like both sides are going the their seperate ways at this point not just women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 04:23 PM
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Well if nothing else I was wondering how it would affect gender dynamics as more and more cracks form on the once extremely rigid form of masculinity that required men to be 100% exclusively into cis women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:35 AM
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So you would willingly engage in the actions happening on screen or with the people featured in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:28 AM
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That's not true. If a transwoman passes as a woman she's litterally only going to attract straight or bi men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:17 AM
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That is true but things are quickly changing. Im trans myself and have many trans homegirls the attractive ones seem to have no trouble at all finding guys to date them openly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:13 AM
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They're also not desperate, at all. In modern day attractive trans women have an abundance of men to choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 07:55 AM
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Men watch videos featuring people they find attractive and would have sex with. Often imagining themselves involved in the scene aswell
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 07:53 AM
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That might be part of it. Women also seem to be less likely to actually desire the people on screen and focus more on the pleasure or scenario. Where as men seem to watch videos of people theyd like to be with. From what ive heard anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 07:26 AM
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Who the fuck watches trans porn? Many many people apparently. Specially men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 07:01 AM
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If I read it correctly men are 18% more likely to consume trans porn than women. Which is significant but women also like it a whole lot. Now, if youre factoring in that women only make up a lil over a 3rd of pornhub visitors then I guess you could make the case that there are way more men in general watching trans porn...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 06:56 AM
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Well great then I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:59 AM
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I don't follow hateful people bro lol one of the first people that comes to mind is that woman who recently started appearing in ads for liquid iv. Litterally every video ive seen of her is about how horrible men are. I dont know her name cause like I said i don't follow any of those sexist influrncers but you don't even need to follow them. You litterally just need to open the app n scroll, you'll find them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:57 AM
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Hateful rhetoric of the opposite sex has become so common it's hard to believe you haven't noticed it, specially from the side of women aiming their venom at Men. Online is where you get to say what you want you sorta have to be civil when out in society. Most people now adays spend a considerable amount of time on social media and i do believe the online gender war is building much resentment between the sexes even if it's not obviously visible in public
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:46 AM
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What exactly do you expect to see? Men and women duking it out at the super market
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:38 AM
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I see the gender wars getting worse tbh. Men keep mirroring the worst parts of feminism this newest wave of the so called manosphere seems to be more focused on detaching from women entirely or as much as possible. Very similar to the hateful feminists who truly hate men and wish for separatism. Future of gender dynamics looks sorta bleak at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:36 AM
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You must not be on social media at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:32 AM
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I like the reference to blade runner in your tag. Very clever
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 03:35 AM
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Well I'm not sure if they were open about their sexuality from the gate but from what I've read many many women got with Brando knowing of his sexuality. He might be the quintessential bad boy heart throb in the history of cinema. The fact women adored him as much as they did shows even straight women aren't as close minded as some men think imo I feel like it was obvious in David Bowies case lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 01:16 PM
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I'm not bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:22 PM
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Well the fact masses of women drool over them should atleast show you that women are indeed attracted to bisexual men. In modern day you got guys like Harry styles and bad bunny leading the way for the sexually fluid men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:13 PM
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You do know 2 of the biggest heart throbs of all time were bisexual, right? Marlon Brando and David Bowie. They both came up in even more homophobic eras too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:02 PM
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I agree. Your life could change over night if you thinkin right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:28 AM
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I mean, women from any subculture aslong as they like you. I guess you are right that height/ race are a factor but anyone who goes out on a date with you already looked passed that. Being a trans man or woman adds a whole nother layer to it The man or woman you're on a date with could like everything about you then suddenly flip when they find out you're trans. Also when it comes to height us trans boys tend to be even less blessed than the "short kings" on the cis side lol. Im 5'3 myself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:29 PM
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I do somewhat agree. I have never been rejected for being trans. That said my Lil circle is very progressive and queer friendly. Ive never tried to date a normie or conservative but have heard horror stories from other trans guys who have tried to go that route. My point was you being cis have no real limiting factor you can't change. And your dating pool is definitely larger since you could basically date straight women from any subculture without the risk of being rejected after disclosing som…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:51 PM
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OK, maybe 1% of men are THAT ugly. The rest have no self esteem or will to succeed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:37 PM
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No man is a true incel. They just don't have the desire to work for it. Im trans and have never had trouble finding women to date. If you're cis you probly have a much larger dating pool than me just by default, if you put in the effort that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:30 PM
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Okie dokie
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:32 PM
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Daily reminders all over social media coming from venomous women bout how women don't need men, men are terrible, modern men aren't men, how every woman should decanter men. Just men men men. Now adays most people spend a considerable amount of time on social media and it is near impossible to avoid the man hating that has become a mainstream trend. Empowering yourself is great but tearing the other side down to make yourself feel even more grandiose isn't fair imo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:16 PM
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No bro. You're cutting off your nose to spite your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:10 PM
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It's not about female independence in itself it's how it's become so common to tear men down in the name of female independence and empowerment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:08 PM
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Misandry is not justified. Bro if you spend any time on social media you know this is a lie lol. Hating men is a mainstream trend in 2026
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:01 PM
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In their defense man hating feminist type chick's are pretty freakin hard to avoid on social media nowadays. Man hating has litterally become a mainstream trend. I remember when I saw that one influencer who's bread and butter is talking about "horrible men" getting sponsored by liquid iv and appearing in ads all over tik tok lol was kinda funny but in reality also unfair how man hating is so much more acceptable than the inverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:23 AM
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I think he's saying women as a whole dont care about men even the ones considered "good". I dont necessarily agree with him but I can understand why he feels that way if he's basing his judgment on the venomous women constantly bashing men on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:25 AM
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His state or city might be what's stopping him. I live in Los Angeles and honestly don't know too many conservative women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:50 PM
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I'm fairly certain the wage gap has been debunked. Look bro as a trans guy i certainly am greatful for the representation and support ive recieved from ally feminists but now adays it seems feminism only exists to make women resent men and add fire to the gender war. As a straight trans man I also some times feel a lil bummed out about all the anti man rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:27 AM
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Feminism and RP are 2 sides of the same coin. Let's be real
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:11 PM
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