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The stat was of people that feel negative emotions. Feeling a certain way /= reacting a certain way. Additionally, women are known to internalize their emotions while men tend to externalize them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:32 AM
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The average person experiences about 3-4 car accidents in their lifetime. For reported accidents, the odds of being injured are around 30%. If you do some math, you have between a 65-75% chance of being injured in a car accident over the course of your life. So if you expect women to completely alter their lives to avoid violence from men if they ever complain about it, I sure hope you hold the same energy for anyone who fears getting into an accident but still drives to work everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:19 AM
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The average person experiences about 3-4 car accidents in their lifetime. For reported accidents, the odds of being injured are around 30%. If you do some math, you have between a 65-75% chance of being injured in a car accident over the course of your life. That isn’t orders of magnitude less common than anything. So if you’re going to act like women are hypocrites for fearing male violence but not living in seclusion, I hope you hold the same energy for people who fear car accidents but drive …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:17 AM
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It’s a known phenomenon that shortly before committing suicide, people tend to act more upbeat and cheerful than they had in the past. Likely because they finally see a way out. If you’re going to use an example for your nonsensical arguments, at least fact check your example first. You also don’t need to censor “blood” and “suicide”. We aren’t on tik tok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:04 AM
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Women face harassment and worse from men no matter that they do. Most women experienced their first catcall as a child and many women report being hit on the most when they look and feel disheveled and are doing normal activities like running errands. So it’s reasonable that most women aren’t going to severely limit their life opportunities (not attending college or moving somewhere with more jobs) based on chance that can’t even be funnily quantified.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:57 AM
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That is one of the things people criticize Twilight about the most
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:58 PM
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How would shoehorning people into roles they don’t want fix anything? People can still abide by traditional roles if they want to. The only difference is that no one is forcing them to now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:33 PM
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Some men will complain about the male loneliness epidemic and then in the next breath inform everyone in the vicinity that they are only interested in debt free virgins without tattoos. As someone who fits that criteria, I don’t think you could ick me out more if you tried. Guys like you aren’t nearly lonely enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:37 AM
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OP when people go the customer service desk because they need customer service 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:11 PM
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Homeless women are much more likely to be plucked off the street and sex trafficked or raped and murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:43 AM
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You could just tell us you have no clue what women are talking about. Of course people have agency, but social pressure is an extremely potent factor in people’s behavior. Especially when girls have expectations about femininity drilled into their head by their own mothers from a very young age. For example my mom took me to get my eyebrows waxed for the first time at age 11. I cried because it hurt and she just told me that beauty hurts. So many girls have experiences like this and it’s ignoran…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:52 AM
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Oh so your experience is enough to make a judgement on half the population? You also said that women wouldn’t want to admit to partaking in hookups but why would women lie in anonymous surveys?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:19 PM
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Your analogy is assuming that being single is strictly worse than being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:16 PM
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You need to eat to survive. Not eating directly harms you. Being single doesn’t harm you and relationships aren’t necessary for survival. Come up with a better analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:45 PM
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Good thing most women aren’t partaking in hookup culture then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:39 PM
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If a man rejects a woman with a facial disfigurement and she comes back with the face of a supermodel and he falls in love with her What is he actually loving?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:35 PM
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In what percentage of paternity fraud cases do you think the woman knows it wasn’t her partner’s child? She was sleeping with both men around the same time or else her partner would know for certain that it’s not his from the start. It’s almost impossible for the woman to know who the real father is unless a paternity test is used.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:15 PM
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That’s a funny way of saying allowing women to escape unhappy and abusive marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:07 PM
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The vast majority of sex workers aren’t rich. I believe the average onlyfans creator makes like $100 a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:49 PM
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Men are more likely to overrate their own attractiveness than women. Additionally, women aren’t the ones complaining about being lonely en masse. For most women, it’s better to be single than with a man they aren’t that into. Dating would improve tremendously if men adopted the same mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:42 PM
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And when women say the same thing I highly doubt you believe them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:44 PM
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As red pill men love to say to women that believe most men are bad, CHOOSE BETTER!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:22 PM
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That’s like maybe 10% of women. I thought red pill guys like to bitch about women only wanting the top 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:24 AM
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Lmao. You ask for proof, you get given proof and immediately reject it. Just admit that nothing will change your mind because you can’t possibly fathom being wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:10 AM
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The average American is drowning in credit card debt and facing a cost of living crisis. We may definitely be privileged compared to most of the world but that doesn’t take away the fact that the middle class is disappearing and housing costs continue to skyrocket, dramatically outpacing rises in wages.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:57 PM
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Some men don’t understand just how hard it is for women. Medical discrimination and menstruation are things most men don’t even think about. In the dating front, women have elevated safety risks and can’t fully let their guard down on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:42 AM
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I’m glad that unprecedented levels of wealth hoarding and their economic ramifications don’t impact you. Most people would kill for their biggest problem to be women not preferring them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:40 AM
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Maybe that’s why so many “high value” men are having trouble getting actual relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:35 AM
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So many paragraphs and you didn’t respond to either of my points. It’s actually impressive how you managed to say nothing at all despite spewing out so many words.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:23 PM
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It’s actually possible to be attracted to all of the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:28 PM
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Bro just look up mugshawtys. Also it’s so telling that you call women females but don’t call men males. Your comments are like incel bingo,
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:26 PM
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If my flair pisses guys on here off, then it’s doing its job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:02 PM
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Find me a post like that, that isn’t misogynistic and still has mostly negative comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:58 PM
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And who are you to decide that? I’m an atheist so my gender is much more important than religion to me. It’s either nothing is off limits or some things are and you don’t get to unilaterally decide them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:27 AM
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Lots of men hate women so by your logic, women have a right to be offended when a man makes a joke about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:25 AM
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The people currently in power make fun of single, childless women as cat ladies and act as though they have a duty to start families.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:19 AM
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Interestingly, women tend to have more left-leaning political views than men. And leftism directly targets the elites and their exploitation of ordinary people. So no, women as a collective aren’t tripping over themselves to be chosen by these men. A guy posting that he’s having trouble dating and it’s hurting his self esteem will overwhelmingly get support and/or people trying to help. What pisses women off is when a guy is frustrated and claims there is something wrong with women for not choos…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:18 AM
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Why is your religion and country off limits but someone’s gender is fair game. Seems a bit hypocritical, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:01 AM
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Why aren’t they funny if a short women makes them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:59 AM
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Go on r/relationship_advice at least once a day there’s a post about a woman with a husband who doesn’t work, doesn’t do chores, and is still disrespectful. If women saw men as appliances, relationships like that wouldn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:52 PM
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That’s like saying slavery isn’t that bad because you don’t hear the slaves complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:46 PM
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Have you seen what happens to the women who fight back? There was a protest in one of those countries where women refused to wear burkas and I believe some of them were killed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:45 PM
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Well rape is extremely hard to convict. If the woman didn’t get a rape kit done immediately, then she has basically no proof. Even if she does, there has to be evidence that the sex was nonconsensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:30 PM
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No. There’s nothing wrong with women who don’t have casual sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:41 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:40 PM
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Not wanting to immediately fuck a stranger is actually a completely normal and hormonally healthy reaction. Sorry to burst your bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:05 PM
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My sister’s boyfriend is quite literally 5’4. It might be harder to find someone when you’re short but giving up ensures you’ll find nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:24 PM
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You are allowed to wear makeup too. No one is stopping you. Most guys would benefit a lot from a bit of concealer and foundation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:21 PM
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We’ve seen the things guys are willing to stick their dicks in. Very few women are going to reevaluate their attractiveness just because some rando wanted to get his rocks off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:12 PM
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Sure that works for me, as long as women have full reproductive rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:19 PM
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The thing is that you never know. Some of these dudes are genuinely harmless but some of them do get aggressive when told no. We aren’t mind readers so a lot of times it’s safer to try and soft reject a guy and hope he gets the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:51 PM
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I could list a ton of countries where women have less legal rights than men. I’m talking about the US because that’s where abortion rights are currently being rolled back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:40 PM
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Men have the rights to anything inside their body. I’m pretty sure all women support that. You don’t get to dictate what someone else does with their body. That isn’t your right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:36 PM
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If the government was actively conscripting people, everyone would be raising hell. I agree that it’s a problem and shouldn’t legally be allowed to happen, but it’s not an active problem. Abortion access is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:28 PM
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What are you even talking about? The fetus isn’t supporting the mother. Pregnancy is pretty hard on the mother’s body and the vast majority of deliveries have vaginal tearing which is directly harming the mother. You can’t force a woman to be an incubator.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:20 PM
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You do realize that there are accounts from all over the world of mass rape and enslavement of women in wartime right? You have to be joking with your first paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:08 PM
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How on earth would random strangers know your body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:02 PM
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Men dating anyone is why women have to be picky. No women wants to be with a man who would have dated any girl with a pulse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:45 PM
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The point of feminism is to fight for women’s rights, not ensure they get dates. Also not all differing opinions are equal. It’s completely understandable that a pro choice woman wouldn’t trust a pro life man with her body since his beliefs show he doesn’t believe she should have full autonomy over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:33 PM
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Good. We’ve been begging you guys to decenter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:42 PM
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Really? Statistics show that men tend to benefit much more from marriage than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:03 PM
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Nice strawman. We know that women are human and can be both good and bad. What is misogynistic is when you say women have flaws and weaknesses that are inherent to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:02 PM
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I’m disagreeing with you. That isn’t pick me behavior. I’d rather die than be picked by any of the manosphere freaks here. Also yeah, no one finds it attractive when someone gets angry over little things. In women, that’s made fun of as Karen behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:24 PM
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If you believe something that stupid, it’s pretty reasonable to assume you don’t have a lot of knowledge about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:11 PM
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If you expect sex from every date you go on, you need a reality check.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:03 PM
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For the millionth time, no one cares whether you want to date single mothers or not. Just don’t screech about how they are cum dumpsters or ran through.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:56 PM
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I’m pretty sure anyone that goes through that will definitely regret whatever led up to it. It’s not out job to rub salt on the wound.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:37 PM
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Do you have any evidence of that? I’ve never even heard of the Amy Schumer situation but as a feminist I wholeheartedly condemn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:35 PM
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Dude I never even heard of that. But tons of women have slammed Katy Perry for kissing that guy on the Voice unconsensually. In fact I would bet money that more women have condemned her than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:34 PM
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Are women doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:32 PM
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Because the guys on here get angry when women express an opinion that goes against their creed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:32 PM
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It kind of does when he represents one of the most powerful countries on earth. If society was so gynocentric, the president would either be a woman or someone who respected them more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:57 AM
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Getting mildly drunk and hooking up with someone you normally wouldn’t is one thing. Being so drunk you can barely walk and being taken advantage of by someone who knows you are in no state to refuse or fight back is another.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:45 AM
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If someone drinks to the point of passing out and is raped behind a dumpster while unconscious, are we supposed to say they deserved it for making a stupid decision?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:44 AM
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Of course you would expect the worst from feminists because you hate them and don’t actually engage with their views in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:42 AM
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Rape victims shouldn’t be further punished for being assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:41 AM
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Which women here are saying that’s ok? She’s scum for that and should face legal consequences but none of us can do anything about it. Sounds like you’re making up things to blame women as a collective for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:39 AM
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Saying society is gynocentric when the US president is a rapist and constantly objectifies and degrades women is top tier satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:35 AM
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If men are more logical, why do they commit far more crimes of passion ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:32 AM
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Of course stuff like that happens. Women are humans and some women date guys who are bad news. We have a problem when you act like all women are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:28 AM
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A guy getting excited over little things is adorable. I’ve always found it attractive when a guy is super passionate about something and he’s excited to share it with others. Some women prefer more emotionally open guys and some women prefer more stoic guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:19 AM
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Women were seen as having worth in the same way that a cow was. We were treated as commodities. I’d much rather be treated as worthless than be at the mercy of someone else for my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:07 AM
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Women won’t usually date someone just because he does stuff for them. They also have to actually like the dude. More breaking news at 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:59 AM
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Women are actually less likely than at any point in history to date for economic reasons. It sounds like you have no clue what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:26 AM
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Dude, I’d far rather be valued for what I do than a bunch of shit I have no control over. That’s actually the least shallow metric you can use. I thought you manosphere dudes like to whine about how men are judged for their looks? Also if you’re going to refute me, would it trouble you to actually put forth an argument or is that too much work?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:28 AM
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Then why are you assuming that OP is the same level of attractiveness as this random creepy dude? And you were the one who commented something useless and irrelevant first on OP’s post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:26 AM
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Nobody gives a shit if you notice for a second or two. Just don’t harass someone over their choice of dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:12 AM
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Why is it so hard for you to believe that women can be more attractive than men? Also sounds like the woman who ghosted you did a good job vetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:09 AM
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Women are held to lots of standards that men aren’t. First of all, women get fat shamed far more often than men. There may be more people wanting to fuck them but that doesn’t make up for the vitriol constantly directed towards them. Women are also valued for their youth, something that’s impossible to hold onto. No one cares who you want to date or not. Just don’t scream from every mountain top about how certain women are disgusting. It’s not that difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:57 AM
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Yeah women don’t tend to like being treated as a shallow hive mind and talked down to by random dudes. If you don’t think women get as much criticism as men, please go to the comments of any fat woman’s social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:17 AM
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If you don’t think misogyny is that rampant go to the social media comments of a woman who isn’t conventionally attractive versus a man who isn’t. In the US there are thousands if not millions of men who don’t think women should have the right to vote. There are lawmakers trying to make abortion a crime punishable by jail time. The president has been found liable of sexual assault of a woman in a court. Single mothers get 100 times more vitriol than the men who abandoned them despite them being …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:13 AM
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You’re obviously being sarcastic but I would bet money that on average, abusive men are better liars and manipulators than average dudes. If you look up tactics of abuse, many of these guys start out with love bombing which makes their victim feel special and valued by them. Of course some men are just outwardly abusive and attract extremely mentally unwell women but both of those groups are a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:03 PM
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I dunno man. I wouldn’t trust a man who clearly hates women not to be abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:00 PM
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What tenet of feminism is that. I must have missed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:56 PM
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I’m still wondering what society you guys live in that’s actually kind to women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:03 AM
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A lot less men will be getting married then. If you’re ok with that, then that’s cool I guess. Many women don’t have that kind of irresistible sexual desire for anyone but they still find their partners attractive and enjoy sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:37 PM
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Do you think women enter into marriages with the intention to not have sex? Life happens. Maybe she’s exhausted from a tough stretch at work, she’s sick, or she’s not in a good mental space. Sex should only happen when both parties genuinely want it. If your partner isn’t sexually active enough for you, either try and work out the problem or leave the relationship like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:25 PM
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Because women are at risk of having their resources forcibly taken if they don’t have sex in your scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 05:12 AM
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If someone threatens to rob me if I don’t have sex with them and I agree so I don’t get robbed, that’s still rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:55 PM
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So sexual slavery is better to you than a dead bedroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:46 PM
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Good grief. There’s so many female dominated hobbies that have nothing to do with sex. You just don’t notice them because you see women through an innately sexual lens. arts and crafts fashion (especially alternative styles) gardening interior decorating baking calligraphy volunteering It’s also rich that you complain about how sexualized women’s hobbies are when millions of men have porn addictions and spend their money on OF girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:38 PM
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You’re talking about a different situation. Ignoring someone from the outset vs after breaking up with them is very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:16 PM
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Your mentality is so repulsive that showing this comment to women actually might get the birth rate up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:43 PM
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I don’t think there’s a sane woman on the planet who would be turned on by a guy ignoring her for three months. You’re welcome to try it. I just highly doubt you’ll get anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:33 PM
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It’s fine if you just want sex. Just be upfront about it. There are women who want that too. The problem is when men lie about wanting to be in a relationship with a woman just to get in her pants and ditch her as soon as they get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:32 PM
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I can find you studies that show women tend to be more empathetic and agreeable in average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:50 AM
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Women tend to be worse off financially following divorce than men. women divorcing men to get money is pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:37 PM
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Dude just about every woman has a story about a guy she initially found super hot but became repulsed by because he didn’t respect her boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:23 PM
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If it’s a guy I like, then yes. I find it very attractive when he asks to kiss me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:13 PM
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Some women have good intuition. Some don’t. Seems pretty simple to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:12 AM
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Most women don’t want complete strangers commenting on how fuckable they look, regardless of the stranger’s attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:42 AM
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God forbid a woman dress in a way that makes her feel attractive and also want potential partners to form an actual relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:39 AM
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Love in a romantic relationship should be conditional. If you partner abuses or cheats on you, it’s completely valid for your feelings about them to change. That doesn’t mean the love you had for them was any less true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:06 AM
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You do realize that courts require proof right? Rape convictions are extremely rare, even in civil court. If you just claim everything is rigged, there’s no point arguing with you because you’re so delusional that you can’t accept logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:52 PM
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Men don’t necessarily need to dish out a ton of money but they do need to show some form of effort. How exactly do men and women take on equal risk in dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:20 PM
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You were talking exclusively about the man’s looks in your example.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:13 PM
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Generally, men want women far more than women want men. Women also take on far more of a risk when dating for typically less benefit. Another thing is that if you don’t pay, someone else will. I’m not saying it’s right but that’s what happens when demand is skewed But the amount of people going Dutch on dates is increasing, especially in more liberal areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:09 PM
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Guys always say that. It really doesn’t change nearly as much as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:57 PM
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I think a lot of women would be more impressed with a picnic date where the guy made the food himself and picked her flowers than just spending a ton of money at an overpriced restaurant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:28 AM
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You can say the same thing about the man in your example. Do you not understand your own logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:24 AM
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I’m completely for men decentering romantic relationships. That would be better for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:23 AM
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If women are en masse ignoring our biological programming as organisms to want to reproduce, that must mean society has done something horribly wrong. Maybe when our society stops punishing women for having children, more will feel safe doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:21 AM
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You don’t think confidence and charisma improve a woman’s dating prospects?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:16 AM
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Women aren’t the ones who want something in your scenario. The party that wants something is the one that has to take steps to obtain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:45 AM
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We do. We contribute by working, just like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:37 AM
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Make it more affordable and desirable to have kids. Everything is ridiculously expensive now and young people are graduating into an abysmal job market. There is also political uncertainty and continued environmental degradation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:35 AM
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Ask that to the old men who regularly hit on much younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:31 AM
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Fat women get wayyyyy more hate than fat men. Just go to the Instagram comments of a fat man vs a fat woman and you’ll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:29 AM
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This only applies if you want kids. I believe less than half of young women desire to ever have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:26 AM
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A lot of young women don’t care about their partners income as much these days because they can support themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:24 AM
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So a woman who loses a ton weight of weight from her 20s to her 30s doesn’t become more attractive? I thought you guys always say “just don’t be fat”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:23 AM
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Women also develop those things over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:21 AM
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So many of the biggest subs are causally misogynistic and you just don’t realize as a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:13 AM
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I just gave you proof that we do live in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:09 AM
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I love how you can’t even do the bare minimum research to find out that he was found guilty in civil court.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:07 AM
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You might be surprised to hear that not all women are even attracted to men so no, many would indeed have a problem being married to a “Chad”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:25 PM
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The president of the United States is a rapist. You have the have a sub room temperature IQ to think this country is anywhere near a matriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:24 PM
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It’s not like that accusation came out of no where. Romania (one of the more patriarchal countries in Europe) found him guilty of human trafficking. The other manosphere goons get tons of hate but I don’t see them being arrested for human trafficking yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:22 PM
1

You can reduce the work load by cooking for her yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:12 PM
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Women don’t have some innate cooking ability. I’m a woman that can’t cook for shit. I’m trying to learn because that’s part of being an adult. A guy that can’t cook and doesn’t want to learn is just a man child.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:21 PM
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If she said the men she had sex with were too 20% you’d say that proves the blackpill, when she said the opposite you say the same thing. There’s no winning with you people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:05 PM
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OP never mentioned that you had to pay for anything for her. You are the one making that assumption. Most women can take care of themselves financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:03 PM
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Good job. I genuinely can’t tell if this is ragebait or if you have an IQ below room temperature.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:32 AM
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Lmao nope. Practically every girl group has at least one friend whose boyfriend everyone else thinks is hideous. There’s memes about this phenomenon everywhere. I’ve even been that friend before. Of course it’s nice knowing that other people think your boyfriend is attractive, but a stable relationship won’t crash and burn just because your friends say he’s chopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:48 PM
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Men would have unappealing personalities if transformed into women as well. Women are socialized to be polite, to prioritize indirect communication, and that directly asking for things or voicing complaints makes them bitchy or a nag. Certain personality traits being ascribed to each gender is just basic gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:44 PM
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Men being willing to get with almost any woman is actually making women more selective. No woman wants to be in a relationship with a man who will take anything he can get. She wants to feel special and chosen. When men go online saying they find 80% of women attractive it makes them much less attractive. For all of my critiques of the romance genre, it represents what female sexuality tends to desire with a man having eyes for only one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:42 PM
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If someone leaves their door unlocked and gets robbed, I’m not going to tell them to do better next time. They already know that. What they need is support, not being shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:32 PM
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There are far more men than women on dating apps. It’s a numbers problem, not the women being unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:57 PM
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The vast majority of men are more than 10 years older or younger than any particular woman. Of course she’s not going to be attracted to the majority of men. I’m more surprised men claim to be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:39 PM
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The kind of women those guys have sex with are more likely to be promiscuous women who are either conditioned to believe they deserve abuse or are attracted to it. If that’s the kind of woman you want, then go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:36 PM
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I wasn’t aware that you were the authority on women as a collective.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:31 PM
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Well when women aren’t forced to be in relationships to survive, some of them aren’t going to enter relationships. The price of having kids keeps increasing and the quality of life is decreasing. Of course people don’t want to bring kids into the world. Also you shouldn’t expect a reward for giving women basic human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:18 PM
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I already told you that I’m against circumcision. You wrote that whole essay for no reason. But with the rates of sexual assault against women, many women can’t just choose not to get pregnant. That’s an incredibly ignorant perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:14 PM
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I’m strongly against circumcising babies, but let’s not pretend it’s as deadly or invasive as female genital mutilation. The draft sucks but it also hasn’t been actively used since the 70s. Feminists also overwhelmingly oppose it, or at least believe it should be gender neutral. You act as if women have complete control over whether they get pregnant. Birth control methods aren’t 100% and sexual assault is extremely common. Women’s bodies also aren’t in their control in many states. There are st…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:34 PM
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I’ve never heard that stat before. But giving you the benefit of the doubt and assuming it is true, there are many reasons sex can dry up in a marriage. You are also assuming all dead bedrooms are because the woman doesn’t want to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:29 PM
2

Do you know them personally? How do you know what goes on in their minds?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:27 PM
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Could you give some examples? Misogyny is on the rise and many men view women as inferior, whether they admit it or not. And attitudes like that seep into culture. I hope you enjoy being shamed for every choice you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:15 PM
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Most women have had those exact same experiences and often no one cares either. We hear stuff like “you shouldn’t have led him on” or “what were you wearing”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:10 PM
2

If most people are straight and monogamous, how is it possible that men are less likely to find the love of their life?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:07 PM
2

If being treated as human means being viewed as an a hole that is by default less capable, intelligent, or interesting than men, I guess we’re treated as human.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:06 PM
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You can actually look it up. It is exceptionally difficult for young women to find doctors that will perform tubal ligation on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:02 PM
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Some universities have actually started trying to recruit men specifically since more women go to college these days. Nobody is forcing men to do hard labor. Millions of men work white-collar jobs and aren’t treated like less than because of it. You have the right to your own body, which is more than women have in many states. Once the sperm leaves your body and enters a woman, you don’t get to choose what happens because it’s not your body that’s being treated as an incubator for nine months.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:54 PM
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Does it make you feel better about yourself to assume that any average guy in a relationship is miserable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:42 PM
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Damn, you got to have a pretty warped mind to think that dating as a teenager means you lack moral character.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:28 AM
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So do you expect women to choose right the first time? Most women start dating as teenagers, an age group which is notorious for making impulsive decisions. Neither teenage boys nor girls are properly vetting their romantic partners at 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:38 PM
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People tend to not like being generalized, that’s psychology 101. They especially don’t like being generalized with behaviors that don’t even apply to them. By your logic, I could generalize all men as predators, and use them being upset about that as proof that I’m right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:47 PM
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There are categories of porn because millions of men watch porn and different men like different stuff. Also I didn’t say men don’t crave sexual variety. I said they don’t need it. I crave cheesecake all the time. But I don’t indulge in it every time I get a craving because I have self-control, like most functional human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:43 PM
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And what proof do you have that his case is an outlier? How many other examples do I need to provide to actually be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:41 PM
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Women don’t like being generalized and prescribed behavior that they often don’t even exhibit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:34 PM
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Men do not have a need for sexual variety. That’s just an excuse cheaters make.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:34 PM
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Those things are absolutely not considered acceptable when women do them. People absolutely despise cheaters, and women aren’t shielded from that hatred. Abuse sadly isn’t taken as seriously as it should be, but men get away with it too. Chris Brown still has a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:32 PM
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The system is designed for men, by men. Men are the majority in government in almost every country on earth. Men’s rights are a given and aren’t at risk/actively being rolled back anywhere. And women wanting to be viewed as “interchangeable” to men is just us not wanting to be seen as innately less capable or intelligent because of our gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:29 PM
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The world is designed for men. Men are the majority in government in almost every country on earth. This comment gave me secondhand embarrassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:21 PM
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A lot of women wouldn’t have sex with a stranger no matter how attractive he is. We don’t know if he’s safe or if he has STDs. Women risk much more having sex, often for a less pleasurable experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:37 PM
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It does to me. Besides, there’s countless ways to make a difference in the world without having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:34 AM
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You don’t think women put effort in relationships because you are blind to the work they do. Women are often their partners only emotional outlet. Even in relationships where both partners work full time, women spend more time on household chores. Women who have kids permanently alter their bodies and put their health at risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:17 PM
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If not having kids makes your life for naught, you must have a very unfulfilling life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:05 PM
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It’s a joke. I don’t know if you’re familiar with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:08 PM
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It absolutely is not a misconception. We have people in office thinking of ways to politically penalize single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:29 PM
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It isn’t. I’m not attracted to blonde dudes. That doesn’t mean being blonde is a personal defect or that there’s anything wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:27 PM
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Not being attracted to you isn’t a problem with an entire gender. Women don’t owe anyone attraction. I’m sorry that society led you to believe otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:17 AM
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Dude please go outside. A tiny fraction of a percent meets the characteristics you listed. Far more guys than that are in happy loving relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:16 AM
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If a woman posted that paragraph, she would be ripped to shreds by men. Tons of men will spit vitriol on social media at any fat woman whose profile they come across just for existing. You must not know how people work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:14 AM
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What you don’t understand is a woman can’t control what she’s attracted to. And many women would rather be single than settle for a man they aren’t attracted to. You can think it’s a great injustice that a woman won’t settle for her “looksmatch” but she has not obligation to, and women tend to be more content single than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:07 AM
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Why do you guys always take not being chosen by a woman as a personal slight?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:57 AM
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The thing is a lot of women would rather be single than with a guy they aren’t head over heels for. If she isn’t attracted to a guy you deem to be her level, why should she force something?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:56 AM
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And how is a woman supposed to tell just by the initial interaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:45 AM
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Just because dudes approach you doesn’t mean they will be good partners? You’ve proved nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:37 PM
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Wow I didn’t know you had factual evidence that all of women’s dating woes are self-inflicted. I’d love to see it!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:15 PM
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I knew there would be at least one victim blaming comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:24 PM
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If you’re talking about divorce, it’s healthier for the children to have divorced parents than married ones who hate each other. And this is coming from a child of a really messy divorce. It’s still preferable to growing up seeing your parents in a loveless marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:59 AM
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But there are virtually no men who fit all of those requirements and there are countless men in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:41 PM
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So promiscuity?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:31 AM
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Not wanting to date isn’t being lazy with finding a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:23 AM
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Women are having less sex too because they are realizing a lot of times it’s a shitty deal for them. Your weird fantasies have no basis in reality,
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:22 AM
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What does mating success even mean? Does it mean having more partners or longer term ones? Your metric is extremely vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:44 AM
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Is low iq correlates with dating success or promiscuity? Believe it or not those are extremely different measures.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 06:40 PM
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I have some great news for you! More and more young women have decided to pursue their own careers and support themselves instead of staying at home and raising kids since that’s just a tax drain to you. Also DEI has been almost completely demolished. Your enemy is corporate greed shown by reducing the number of available positions to as few as possible, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:18 AM
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I really wonder if we live in the same West. Being a woman is constantly being underestimated and viewed as inherently less competent, especially in the workplace. Men are also still treated as the default. Most people in government are men. Most modern day medicine was designed for and tested on men. It’s still customary for a woman to change her last name to her husband’s upon marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:13 AM
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How did women ruin it for men. Women aren’t preventing you from going to therapy. And if you hate women so much, you can get a male therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:12 AM
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Men were who therapy was originally designed for. If it didn’t work on at least some of them, it wouldn’t exist today
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 05:55 AM
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The difference is that women are fine being alone if they don’t find the guy they want
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:57 AM
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Can you link the reproduced study?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:55 AM
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Almost every woman lives alone at some point. We have to be prepared for dangerous situations as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:05 AM
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It cracks me up how these arguments always assume women have male bosses. Maybe she’s working for another woman. Maybe she enjoys the work she does for her company more than cooking and cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:02 AM
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If you’re talking about biology and procreation, it makes just as much sense to pursue someone who has the means to take care of your offspring (rich) as it does to pursue someone who will contribute good genetics to your offspring (youth and beauty). You can’t demonize one and not the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:38 AM
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A lot of shitty people think they are good people. I have some bad news for you buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:49 AM
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Held accountable how? They already deal with the consequences of their shitty relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:34 AM
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Props for honestly I guess. At least you don’t pretend to be a decent person
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:32 AM
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A lot of people who were abused in the past end up with abusive people because they believe they deserve that treatment. You’re saying you think that makes them shitty people?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:09 PM
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Are you familiar with menopause? It can’t exactly be a very effective death sentence if it doesn’t kill you. I’d recommend retaking high school biology and reading a dictionary
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 06:53 AM
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You are allowed to date substantially younger women and women are allowed to find it gross and predatory and express those opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 06:48 AM
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I’d guess that over 90% of women have been hit on by a much older man who made them extremely uncomfortable at least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 06:46 AM
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I fear you are now incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 07:59 AM
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Yes and that’s typically because of the gender roles that many women are currently fighting against. Women are more likely to be impoverished than men. And female-dominated jobs tend to pay less, of course this changes if men decide to join them in mass. Just look at the history of computing/coding. Another reason is the single mothers guys like you love to shit on. It’s not uncommon for them to receive no support from the child’s father. There are many programs to take care of impoverished chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 07:58 AM
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This might sound crazy to you but women also pay taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 06:21 PM
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So you want women who aren’t attracted to you to have pity sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:36 PM
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I’m glad you find my flair disgusting. That means it’s working according to its intended purpose. Also why does everyone deserve to date? Do you think dating is a human right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:00 AM
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If every woman is dating, odds are most men are too. The idea that all women are dating the same men is idiotic and has no basis in reality or scientific proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:36 PM
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I just googled it and most results point to around 40% but they are from a few years ago and the percentage of women is on an upward trajectory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:12 PM
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Dude I was unpopular in school too. It sucked and it definitely led to issues that I’m still getting over to this day. That doesn’t mean I was oppressed and it isn’t society’s job to fix my issues regarding that. It’s mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:07 PM
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I don’t know how familiar you are with the English language, but the indirect object of that sentence is women. So unless otherwise specified, the term “one” used later in that sentence refers to women. If he was referring to a date, he should have said so because we aren’t mind readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:27 PM
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You don’t need most women to be into you. The point of dating is finding the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:18 PM
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No one “deserves” to date just because they exist. Dating isn’t a human right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:12 PM
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That would be a problem obviously but men don’t exist in a world like that. Men aren’t seen as lesser or treated as second class citizens. Men aren’t systematically barred from career advancement or living in certain neighborhoods. People not wanting to date you isn’t oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:10 PM
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Most philosophy majors are women though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:55 PM
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It’s certainly much more difficult now to find employment. Even if you can find a job, wages have also stagnated and were higher back then (when adjusted for inflation). Pensions were also much more common back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:51 AM
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She’s saying that all else being equal, the person who does more for her is her preference. She never said that objectively men should perform that role, just that she prefers it. If a man wants a woman that cooks and cleans, he has the right to that preference as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:14 AM
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Women still perform many traditionally female gender roles in relationships, you just don’t notice them. Even among partners that both work full time, women on average spend more time on housework than men. Most women still change their last name when getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:04 AM
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He talked about sexually assaulting women and also has multiple sexual assault accusations against him. That is far more serious than a mean sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:48 AM
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If having woke stuff shoved down your throat is enough to make you vote for a rapist, you were already a shitty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:46 AM
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I think men have always wanted women more than the other way around. Now that women have more independence and don’t have to rely on men for survival, we’re seeing this gap in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 05:54 PM
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Because women don’t want them? I don’t know what that has to do with the above comment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:50 PM
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Damn where do I sign up to have my life financed and maintained by a man? I must have missed that part of Western society. The reason men “work more” and pay more taxes is women doing exactly what manosphere men want them to do: getting married, having kids, and staying home to raise them. This might be news to you, but SAHMs perform a lot of labor. Just because the labor is unpaid doesn’t mean it’s less important in contributing to society, Points like yours are also the reason why more and mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:33 PM
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I just listed one. No amount of women’s accomplishments will ever fix your misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:27 AM
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It’s also by far, the work that has to be done the most often.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:23 PM
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Men took the credit for a large amount of women’s inventions because they couldn’t get patents. And many of women’s inventions are just assumed to have been created by men anyways. You say that women use men’s inventions to do their work for them. One google search already proves you’re full of shit. The dishwasher was invented by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:22 PM
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Women consume more because they are often the ones tasked with doing chores and tasks such as shopping for the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:16 PM
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According to many men, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:05 PM
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Women are more secure not being in a relationship and thus more likely to leave a relationship that isn’t working out for them. That doesn’t mean that there are more bad women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:30 PM
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I had no clue that people have to wait at all, but then again I just go to Great Clips.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:08 PM
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I think it’s actually that women enjoy having the ability to support themselves financially. Even if the job isn’t ideal, at least we don’t have to rely on a spouse anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 04:51 AM
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I can’t tell you how to live your life but I still would think it better to err on the side of caution and not risk making a woman feel unsafe by pressuring her into sex once she says no. If you’re not into those games, it can get legitimately scary when men get more forceful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:24 PM
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If a woman says she doesn’t want to have sex, believe her. It’s extremely uncomfortable when you say something and men keep trying to pressure you anyway. It does make women feel unsafe. Emotionally mature women don’t play games.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:22 PM
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The majority of women won’t get with a man just because he’s rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:03 PM
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I don’t know why you assumed I’m a hypocrite. I don’t fault people for shooting their shot. I’ve been approached by tons of ugly dudes and I’ve never once been rude in turning them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:50 PM
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A fish doesn’t want to be caught. A straight woman would want there to be more dateable men out there
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:47 PM
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Red pill weirdos care far more about money and status than women do. The only women who care more about them than personality are gold diggers and that’s a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:42 PM
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The way I see it there are two options. He’s either telling the truth or lying. If he’s lying or omitting details, it really doesn’t matter what I say. His mind is made up. If he’s telling the truth, I’d rather show empathy. That would be a genuinely shitty situation and being called a liar would just reaffirm his negative experience with women as how all of us are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 10:03 PM
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Don’t swipe right on women you think are unattractive. The solution is literally that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:37 PM
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I’m genuinely sorry that happened to you. Bars are supposed to be a place where it’s socially acceptable to meet new people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:35 PM
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Not all women will just jump into bed with a man because he’s attractive and charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:12 PM
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Where do you see virgin women starting relationships with players? Most virgin women prefer men who aren’t promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:28 PM
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You can think that male promiscuity is some great accomplishment but the virgin or low body count women you’re after tend to not want and be actively repulsed by a man who will stick his dick in any woman with a pulse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:01 PM
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So you want to be promiscuous but women can’t be?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 07:58 AM
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Sounds like the male loneliness epidemic is an appropriate consequence to men’s choices then. Why would a woman date a man when you say he would prefer a barely legal girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:13 PM
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You are entitled to divorce your partner for any reason you want. You are also entitled to try and find a partner to have consensual sex with. You are not entitled to sex itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:17 AM
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It’s typically harder for men to find women to have sexual with because sex is on average more pleasurable for men and more dangerous for women. It isn’t fair but it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:07 PM
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It really doesn’t. Saying something positive about yourself doesn’t make you any of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:51 PM
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A lot of people find Brad Pitt attractive. I can acknowledge that he is conventionally attractive but I personally don’t find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:40 PM
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Not all people who are interested in dating want children. In fact more and more young women are becoming childfree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:54 AM
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I’m 23 and 35 is less than half the average lifespan for a person with a healthy lifestyle. It would be way too old for me to date but not objectively old.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:54 AM
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Past 35 being extremely old is fucking hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:40 AM
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But why does saying something positive about yourself make you arrogant? It’s not putting anyone else down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:36 AM
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Beauty is absolutely not universal. There are people who are conventionally attractive but at the end of the day, people’s attraction doesn’t follow a neat pattern. I’m sure there are some people you find attractive that I think are ugly and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:34 AM
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So you just assume that a woman who calls herself beautiful isn’t actually beautiful. Is it ok if she is beautiful according to your standards? What if she’s beautiful to other people but not to you? Does she still need to be humbled for daring to like the appearance of the body she lives in?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 11:45 PM
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I think you need to change your way of thinking. Saying positive things about yourself isn’t harmful unless you’re tearing others down. If you think it’s annoying, just ignore people who do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 11:44 PM
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Is it arrogance to say anything positive about yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:44 PM
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It’s not arrogance to call yourself beautiful. Why does it anger you that someone has a positive opinion of themself?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 07:34 PM
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A woman calling herself beautiful is not hurting anyone. Why do so many men have the urge to tear her down? It costs nothing not to be a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 06:53 PM
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Nobody is forcing you to date any woman who shows you interest. You still have the power of choice. You just don’t like your choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:24 PM
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If a woman dares to call herself beautiful, there is always an army of men telling her she’s actually hideous and no one will ever want her. What are they trying to accomplish if not gatekeeping?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:18 PM
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I literally did answer your question. Do you struggle with literacy by any chance? I said some experienced women don’t want to have to feel like they’re teaching a guy. You just didn’t like the answer. I’d also recommend you actually ask an experienced woman because I’m not one so I only have anecdotes to go off of.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:44 PM
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Why doesn’t the inexperienced man look for an inexperienced woman? I’ve heard from experienced women that they don’t want to have to teach a guy how to have sex or deal with potential incompatibilities in beliefs about sex. As for income, I’m talking about young people. Older generations were more bound by patriarchal ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:48 PM
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I believe young women actually are outearning young men so men really aren’t the providers anymore. Clinging to outdated ideas like that will only hurt you. Experienced women value experienced men but all of the women I know with less experience also want men with less experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:20 PM
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Young women don’t care nearly as much about status and money as you think. Neither of those increase actual attraction either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:04 AM
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The median 45 year old dude is not hotter than the median 25 year old dude. What planet are you living on?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:39 AM
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You were the one who made the original claim about women being uninteresting. Let’s see some evidence for your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:38 PM
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You’re allowed to disagree, despite it not being logically sound. Studying law is extremely time consuming and rigorous. Someone just studying it for status isn’t likely to last very long. As for politics and philosophy, the people studying them tend to be passionate about the topics because they don’t often lead to high paying jobs and they are more difficult and time intensive than communications in the case of people just wanting some kind of degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:50 AM
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You were the one who said women have no curiosity and don’t think for themselves. Pursuing education in philosophy, politics, or law sharpens critical thinking and demonstrates curiosity. If you can’t have an interesting conversation with any woman studying these, the common denominator is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:16 PM
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The majority of students studying political science, philosophy, the arts, literature and law are women. Either you select for very boring women or your misogyny has heavily warped your reality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:02 PM
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The countless women who have broken off relationships after learning a man lied about his political beliefs would beg to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:46 PM
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The majority of students studying political science, philosophy, the arts, literature and law are women. Either you select for very boring women or your misogyny has heavily warped your reality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:45 PM
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It’s so obvious you’ve never actually taken the time to ask women about their interests. Women are as complex and interesting as men, and the fact that you believe the personalities of half of the population are essentially worthless is pretty telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:35 PM
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Feminists overwhelmingly believe in getting rid of the draft entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:02 PM
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Lots of men fantasize about being war heroes. Doesn’t mean they actually want to be in the trenches
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 03:54 PM
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Maybe we’re living in different realities but my friends only date feminist men. Being a feminist also isn’t mutually exclusive with being handsome or an athlete.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 03:43 PM
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Dudes like you are a huge reason why so many women have decided that getting married and having children isn’t worth it. Can’t wait for the birth rate to plummet more. This society deserves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 02:09 PM
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People do this to women just as much if not more. There is an entire genre of video of women getting “humbled”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 08:05 AM
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As to your last point, why do you think so many women hide that they are women online? Men treat you so much better when they think you are a man. They assume you are more intelligent and will have conversations that don’t have an end goal of getting in your pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 11:19 AM
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Typically around 30 is considered ideal these days due to socioeconomic, biological, and cultural factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 11:07 AM
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Women being cautious around men isn’t being hateful or bigoted. Men pose a physical danger to women due to (typically) being much bigger and stronger. There are some bad men out there, and women have to be prepared because if she does encounter a situation with one, she’s at a heavy disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 10:05 AM
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Having sex isn’t affecting women’s vaginas unless they get STDs. Women can push out babies and have their vagina return to its previous size.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:49 AM
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The fact that you’re saying this is glaring proof that you don’t know very many women. If women were such a hive mind, women’s voting patterns would be much more uniform.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:37 AM
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We spend far less on social programs and far more on the military and security in proportion to other countries of a similar socioeconomic status. Maybe let’s spend less money on deporting people who aren’t causing any problems and instead focus that spending on programs that help Americans in need.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:31 AM
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Most women that want to have kinds see their thirties as the ideal age to start a family. Hope you’re fine with waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:12 AM
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Actually less than half of young women want to have children according to Pew Research. I’m not surprised as a woman in this age range because most of the women I know have no desire to have children. And of the number that do, most of them aren’t in any rush to start popping out children immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:07 AM
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With the advent of social media, it would be almost impossible to hide that. And I guarantee that most women aren’t ok with sharing a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:58 AM
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The low value thing is a joke. And I have no problem attracting beardless men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:57 AM
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What are you even saying? If so many women are dating, obviously their standards aren’t too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:04 AM
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It actually is true. For example, any guy with a beard is instantly a 4 or below for me. He could theoretically be the perfect man and that alone is enough that I can’t possibly be attracted to him. Lots of women are very attracted to dudes with beards though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:03 AM
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People change a lot in their 20s. Do you actually doubt that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:05 PM
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Divorce is much more likely when people get married young. People tend to make worse decisions when they have less experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:28 PM
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One person may find someone average looking and someone else might find them stunning.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:26 PM
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There is no way to measure that aside from self reporting. But that’s the most accurate data we have. People don’t have much of an incentive to lie on anonymous surveys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:26 PM
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Guess I’m not a woman then because a guy being open with me emotionally typically makes me more attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:25 PM
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But that’s from your understanding. Another person may say that women tend to date down in terms of appearance more often. Looks are subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:20 PM
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I’m fine with it as long as the dude is respectful and in a similar age range to me. I’ve gone out with guys that have approached me in bars and I know a lot of other women who have too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:18 PM
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I don’t know why this is so difficult to understand. Both partners should support each other’s emotional needs but they shouldn’t be the only support. Many women also vent to their friends but from what I’ve heard men are more likely to solely vent to their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:02 PM
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If that was true the average number of lifetime sexual partners for women would be a lot higher. I believe it’s like 4-7 based on a study I saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:53 PM
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I honestly think men are more into super masculine men than women are. A high testosterone guy sounds exhausting Also you would be shocked by the amount of guys who either don’t care at all or are actually into mentally ill women. And I’m not talking about hookups either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:46 PM
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This has to be a joke. What about the countless men that make the excuse that men are innately more visual in their preferences when a woman actually wants a man she’s attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:00 PM
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A player is the last person a virgin woman will want to be with. Since you believe in pair bonding, it seems like he wouldn’t be able to after being with so many women. He’d also probably be less likely to be gentle and take things slow with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:54 PM
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That seems very normal to me. Most women are only attracted to men near their age which already cuts that number down to about 20% of adults if we go by decade. If she is attracted to half of these men that’s 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 05:36 PM
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Then we’re on the same page
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 10:43 PM
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I agree that men should have the option to a financial abortion but I believe fighting for a woman’s bodily autonomy takes priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:58 PM
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So you agree that the best solution would be all states allowing abortion access
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:15 PM
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Well if the state a woman lives in doesn’t allow her to choose whether she wants to be a parent, why should a man have that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:54 PM
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Once women have access to abortion I would be 100% on board for letting the father sign away his rights and responsibilities early on in the pregnancy if he so chooses.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:46 PM
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A fetus isn’t the same as a sentient child. I hope that helps!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:40 PM
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The women had no real political power. I refuse to believe that you’re dense enough to think women are to blame for the draft.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:40 PM
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Yes, many women become pregnant through rape. They didn’t have the choice to remain celibate. Restricting abortion access harms them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:58 PM
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I hate to break it to you that not all women become pregnant through consensual sex right? And even if they do, they still shouldn’t be forced to use their body as an incubator. If you get injured playing a sport, we don’t debate whether you deserve treatment because you should have known the risks. Pregnancy is the only medical situation where this comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:02 PM
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You clearly didn’t read anything I just read. Nobody is forcing you to work a dangerous job. That’s the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:58 PM
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Who do you think instituted the draft? It wasn’t women. The candidates women vote for are more likely to oppose the draft.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:35 PM
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All of those aspects you talk about have strong trends of declining during conservative presidencies. Men are more likely to vote for conservative candidates.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:29 PM
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Do you have a source for that statement? What makes men so much more righteous?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:26 PM
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So you believe following a book written 2,000 years ago that has multiple parts that defy logic is the way to a utopia?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:25 PM
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And men like you aren’t aware of the terrible sacrifices women have made to keep society afloat. Historically pregnancy was quite risky and extremely uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:23 PM
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Women are definitely not less than 1% of ear casualties. I’d love to hear where you got that idea. Also women did help build the world just like men but our part has always been overlooked and disregarded. Women have always worked throughout history and society would have not functioned without their efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:19 PM
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There are different levels of patriarchy. There were female landowners and women with careers prior to the 1920s in the United States. However, they also didn’t have the right to vote and pretty clearly lived under a patriarchy. Now we mainly deal with the cultural remnants of it that have influenced many powerful people to want to reduce women’s rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:14 PM
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I keep hearing how easy we have it but in the US women are dying because a major component of our bodily autonomy is up for debate and in some cases being revoked. There have been cases where a fetus was dying but couldn’t be removed because that would be considered an abortion even though the dying fetus was essentially poisoning the mother. Abortion isn’t about killing your children. It’s about not wanting to be forced to be an incubator. Pregnancy damages the bodies of most women permanently …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:10 PM
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Maybe I don’t feel the need to prove myself to someone who starts off the debate with name calling. You’re not worth an actual argument. And no, I don’t have kids and I don’t ever intend to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:37 PM
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I don’t think you understand logical fallacies very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:57 PM
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The women in Afghanistan???? They have it easier than billionaires? Are you rage baiting or actually that delusional?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:20 AM
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Definitely not a terf, just an ordinary transphobe. That man is as far from any kind of feminist as you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:17 AM
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It’s quite sad that you hate women so much that you believe we are incapable of feeling empathy for male family and friends. Legitimately please get help
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:46 PM
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Right back attcha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:15 AM
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Lmao. Do you not think we have male family members and friends that we have empathy for?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:56 AM
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Maybe you’re seeing something that I’m not but I’ve only seen the reverse here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:53 AM
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I don’t think we read the same post. Because it gave no evidence as to how misandry was causing deaths for many of its so called reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:36 PM
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There are protests about men dying in manual labor jobs? I’ve legitimately never heard of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:34 PM
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At least half of the stuff in your post has nothing to do with misandry. How do you know that that’s what men are committing suicide over?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:16 AM
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We live in a world in which male is the default. You can’t make it a day without hearing about the male experience. Believe me, we’ve heard it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:02 AM
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r/whenwomenrefuse Misogyny often is violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:56 AM
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Since you’re taking the worst of misandry, I’ll do the same. Misogynists want to marry children and think that female rape victims are tainted and used up because they had another man’s penis inside of them. They also want to strip women of their basic human rights and have them be property of men. That isn’t love.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:54 AM
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Do you think your collagen is doing any better?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:45 AM
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Dark hair and light eyes is my favorite combo but it isn’t a must.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:18 PM
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Why do women need to cover up more? That just sounds like an opinion of yours with no basis in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:13 PM
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Have you ever done yoga or Pilates? It’s substantially more difficult with clothes that are considered modest?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 11:56 AM
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I believe approximately 90% of births have some level of vaginal tearing. Good enough for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 09:03 PM
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From what I understand she was on a subreddit for women to vent and share their problems with each other. People are allowed to complain in spaces specifically designed for that. People complain about their jobs all the time and normal people don’t have a meltdown in response to that. Also what action is she taking? Attraction is not a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:23 PM
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I’ve been the girl that’s given a guy a chance and it did not end well. I also know that I’d be quite upset if a guy who wasn’t attracted to me led me on in the hopes that his attraction would grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:00 PM
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Unless the man was directly blaming women I don’t think most women would respond aggressively to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:52 PM
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What you don’t seem to understand is that a lot of people, especially women, would rather be single than settle. I don’t understand the logic in settling for someone you’re not attracted to just so that you’re not alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:37 PM
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I’d argue that it’s more cruel trying to give someone you’re not attracted to a chance. Often you don’t become more attracted to them and it turns out you just wasted your time and theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:35 PM
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I sincerely doubt you’ve ever talked to a woman in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:23 PM
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Lmao. When I met my ex he had $13 in his bank account. That didn’t stop me from going out with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:35 PM
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Maybe the reason it’s easier to have sex as a woman is because it’s more dangerous and usually less pleasurable for the woman. You are getting a better experience than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:25 PM
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Because there’s a power imbalance. People also don’t tend to look kindly on bosses extracting sexual favors in exchange for promotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:23 PM
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If you had the money and power to bribe desperate women, you could have those too. Essentially paying for sex is not a flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:22 PM
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The guy that plays Samwise is the second most attractive one in my opinion only behind the model. But I also tend to prefer guys that aren’t super masculine so I might be an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:52 AM
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2/10 bait. I believed you were legit for a while but no one can be this openly deranged
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:45 AM
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Ever heard of “Mommy’s little helper”? Women weee not doing better before equality. Their problems were just ignored even more than they are today. Also, women are just more likely to actually get help for their emotional issues. Look at the male suicide rate, does that mean men can’t cope with equality to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:05 PM
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Nothing says getting handed everything for free like being sex trafficked as a minor. How delusional are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:08 PM
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Red pill guys think less of men than the most radical feminists. I don’t believe that the vast majority of men are morally bankrupt and if they are, I’m glad dating is dying off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:47 AM
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Because frequently doing the right thing doesn’t help you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:43 AM
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If you call out an entire gender for doing something with no proof, refuting that point with contrary evidence is entirely fair. It’s not avoiding account.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:36 AM
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Men do that kind of stuff all the time too. It isn’t gaslighting to say this behavior really isn’t gendered. It only seems that way to you because you date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:22 AM
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That kind of criticism is a lot more likely to make someone become defensive or double down than actual lead to self reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:14 AM
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First off I’ve never fucked anyone so maybe quiet with the assumptions. Second of all, birth control fails and not all sex is consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:32 PM
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I don’t know why so many men don’t understand that not being attracted to someone isn’t an insult. I’m not personally attracted to Brad Pitt. That doesn’t mean I think he’s ugly or that he’s below me. He’s objectively a very good looking man, just not my cup of tea. I don’t get why that’s so hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:48 AM
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I’m quite content being a girl. I would be perfectly content being a girl if there weren’t assholes who treated me as less of a person because of my gender but we can’t always have nice things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:28 AM
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I don’t know what country you’re talking about because in the United States women never had the right to murder anyone. Women did have the right to remove fetuses from their bodies, a form of basic bodily autonomy. Not wanting another organism inside of you that drains your body and makes living substantially more difficult is very different than murder. It’s sad that this even has to be explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:23 AM
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Lmao. I actually researched mine. I highly doubt you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:24 PM
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So because I disagree with you I’m not debating in good faith? Might want to look up the definition of debate
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:43 PM
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It absolutely was not a minuscule fraction of women who died in childbirth. During some periods in history, approximately 1 in 10 women would die due to pregnancy related complications.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:29 PM
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You seem pretty angry with women considering you want to take away their rights. Why are men like you more concerned with dragging women down than abolishing the draft for everyone? You’re also incorrect. In the United States and many other western countries, women tend to be more liberal and currently liberal parties tend to be less pro-war.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:01 PM
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You don’t have to like the policies of a country to have empathy for the civilians there and advocate for their human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:04 AM
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It’s very telling how instead of being angry at the (male majority) governments that institute these policies, you aim your resentment at women and try to take away their rights. Most feminists oppose any use of the draft. Oftentimes it’s the conservative anti feminist men who think women aren’t cut out for the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:59 AM
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Ukraine and Russia aren’t exactly the most feminist countries on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:45 AM
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Windmill is the most obvious ragebaiter ever. Why are we still entertaining them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:41 AM
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It’s not a crime to have low self esteem. It becomes a problem when you project your feelings onto others. I get that it’s hard not to. I do it sometimes too but it isn’t fair to yourself or others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:55 PM
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But a rejection doesn’t mean that. You’re the one assuming that it means you aren’t good enough. I’m not attracted to blond men. That doesn’t mean that blond men are losers who aren’t good enough. If you take people’s personal preferences as an attack, you need to work on your self image.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 06:09 PM
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First of all you were responding to someone else not me. Although I’m not surprised someone as self absorbed as you didn’t notice that. I think you’ve played a few too many video games because you have no clue how the military works in real life. The military is so focused on order and hierarchy precisely because they expect them to become instinct in the heat of battle. If you ignore your commanding officer in a life or death situation, you’ll be dishonorably discharged at best. Modern warfare …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:21 AM
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My brother was one of those guys too. The thing is promiscuous men tend to attract promiscuous women. For every 10 women you see lined up for guys like that, there are another 10 who wouldn’t touch them with a ten foot pole. These women tend to be more introverted and thus less visible though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:00 AM
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I come from a military family and you could not be more wrong about the military. My dad said it was built on stripping you of your autonomy to essentially be a cog in a machine. You even give up some of your liberties among joining the military. Unless you’re at the very top, the vast majority of your job is taking orders from other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 04:58 AM
0

I can’t believe you are. I almost thought it was satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 04:41 AM
0

Most women don’t do that, especially women on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 02:02 AM
33

Why do all of these thought experiments suggest that women have a useless job that treats them like shit? Lots of women have fulfilling careers that they enjoy and that greatly impact the lives of those around them. Just because you hate your job doesn’t mean everyone does. And if being a stay at home parent is so great, why don’t you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 01:26 AM
3

One group of guys surviving on an island isn’t the same as keeping society functioning
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 01:19 AM
3

Do you struggle with reading comprehension? I didn’t say society doesn’t need men. I said society needs men AND women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:50 PM
2

The study you linked said that boys were less conscientious, less interested in reading and less likely to put effort into homework. These findings don’t suggest some conspiracy to hold boys back. I know about IQ distribution but if men and women still have the same median and mean IQ scores, one gender isn’t smarter than the other. You have to claim the idiots if you want to claim the geniuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:07 AM
3

If men are so much more competent than women, why do they struggle more in school? Why aren’t their IQ scores higher?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 03:38 AM
4

So if a woman is a problem solver and smarter than almost anyone, does that mean she should have the right to rule too? What about women who excel in leadership positions? Why were some of the most effective monarchs in history queens?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:41 AM
4

You act like men are the only ones keeping society afloat. You wouldn’t last without women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:37 AM
-3

Desperation and resentment are obvious. Most human beings can sniff out those traits from a mile away. Someone’s beliefs and impulses can be harder to detect if the person understands social cues at all. By the time they come to light, their partner may already be in love and thus more likely to turn a blind eye to toxic behaviors. There are some women who can’t detect toxicity or who are attracted to it but I don’t think that’s the case for all of these situations like incels claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:29 AM
1

Does a woman have no other value besides sex to you? What about companionship, support, conversation, love?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:10 PM
13

I was told that if I didn’t have sex enough, the guy would leave me. A lot of women and girls are still taught that they need to please their husbands sexually or else they deserve to be cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:18 AM
3

Well nice to meet you. I’ve gone out with more guys than I can remember and haven’t slept with any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:06 PM
2

So because a woman had sex with one person before, she should spread her legs for any guy who buys her a dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:04 PM
39

There are many women who won’t have sex with any guy asap, even if he was the hottest man on the planet. Women aren’t like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:49 AM
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I 100% agree that this is a problem. It’s another example of why gender roles are problematic. Gender roles infantilize women and treat them as immature beings driven by their emotions. That’s why it’s considered more acceptable for a woman to lash out and hit someone, combined with the fact that she probably has a lot less muscle than an average man and can’t do as much damage. Anyone hitting someone else is assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 01:37 AM
1

I’ve been here a while. Theres a few unhinged women but there’s a lot more misogynistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 10:15 AM
1

I do say the same to women. I don’t see a lot of women on here using the same dehumanizing language though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:01 AM
1

If sex is that important to you, you probably shouldn’t be with a virgin woman. Unless it’s for religious reasons, a lot of women that are virgins in their 20s and older have low libidos and aren’t very interested in sex. Your ideal virgin wife isn’t going to want to fuck you every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 08:39 AM
1

Saying a woman doesn’t deserve something because of her body count is absolutely shitting on her. All you have to say is that I personally prefer women with less sexual experience. People are a lot less likely to get offended at that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 08:35 AM
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It doesn’t mean nothing. It’s an important part of a person’s life experiences. What I don’t understand is why men seem to think it makes some women superior to others. I’ve had multiple men get really weird and creepy when they found out I was a virgin, acting like I was a prize or conquest. You can have preferences but having a certain body count doesn’t make some women more special or worthy than others. We’re people, not used cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:44 AM
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The reason people have problems with your preferences is because you phrase it as if the women you prefer are worth more than other women. People don’t care about your preferences until you start shitting on people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:38 AM
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Who are you arguing with because it’s definitely not me. I don’t support gender roles for men or women. I think it’s pretty gross to think that someone’s body count affects their value for both genders. It’s one thing to have preferences but it’s another to act like your preference is more worthy of good treatment than someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:15 AM
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That is such a gross statement and this is coming from a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:05 AM
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Most women here would have no problem if a man who had a low body count wanted a woman with a similar experience level. In fact I’ve seen many threads where women said that was completely fine. What bothers women is the double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:03 AM
9

Feminists overwhelmingly support abolishing the draft altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:10 PM
0

Do you have any evidence of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:03 PM
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Where are all of these near perfect men? I’ve been looking and have seen a number I can count on my fingers in 22 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:37 AM
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Funny because it’s much more common to see a beautiful woman with an unattractive man than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:26 AM
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Crazy how these slutty American girls are having sex less often than their parents and grandparents. Casual sex is a losing game for women. It’s dangerous and highly unlikely you’ll even end up satisfied. A lot of young women I know just don’t think it’s worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 09:34 AM
1

Men make up the vast majority of the people in power. The modern world was designed for men. You are the default. Why don’t you organize politically around wanting to ban circumcision like women do for our rights? They
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:57 AM
1

Oh so you’re jumping straight to ad hominem. Seems par for the course for red pill guys. I don’t know who the “we” is but the term “individual” doesn’t specify being based on genetics. Identical twins share the same genetic code but we consider them two separate people. In that case, we assign individuality based on consciousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:55 AM
11

Are you actually willing to change your mind is presented with evidence or are you just complaining that women are sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:11 AM
24

Who thinks herpes are empowering? The left is saying you shouldn’t demonize people based on having a disease, not that everyone should get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:08 AM
15

It doesn’t matter what the data says if it goes against your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:06 AM
2

A lot of famous artists and historical figures are actually believed to be gay by historians. Many of the artists that you were talking about also painted and sculpted women. I don’t think most of them had exclusively male muses
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:05 AM
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The English word “weird” comes from the Old English “wyrd” meaning fate or destiny. Words change meaning over time so your etymology example proves nothing. You also described child as referring to a relational state between individuals. A fetus is not an individual. An individual refers to a single and distinct person. There is no point where you can definitively prove where the mother ends and the fetus begins as they are connected by an umbilical cord. Abortions also aren’t commonly done in w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:03 AM
1

I don’t agree with circumcision. However, I’ve also had dudes tell me they are glad they were circumcised. I’m a woman and it’s never happened to me so I don’t really think it’s my place to try and influence something I can’t fully understand. I don’t like when men make decisions about what I can do with my body so try to let the guys make decisions when it refers to guy stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:51 AM
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It’s not homophobia when you are calling men genetic masterpieces and women nightmarish gargoyles. Homosexuality is attraction to the same sex and you are a man who is clearly attracted to other men and not women. It’s not homophobic to point that out. I appreciate women but I don’t wax poetic about their divine energy and majesty. You aren’t attracted to women. Nothing wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:46 AM
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I don’t mean this as an insult but this is the most homosexual thing I’ve ever read. Buddy, I don’t think you’re into women. That’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:51 PM
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Parents like you are what drive daughters to feminism. I really hope that this is all a lie and if not, I worry for your daughters’ safety and well being.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:45 PM
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Where are women arguing for the right to kill children? Fetuses aren’t children. How do women have easier lives than men when men’s bodily autonomy isn’t a political issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:44 PM
4

Women tend to be most attracted to guys their own age whereas men tend to be most attracted to women in their early twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 11:12 PM
1

I really admire how men are typically more willing to take risks. I was always extremely risk averse so it’s really impressive to see someone live life how they want to without constantly overthinking every little thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 06:01 AM
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Do you think women are usually asked for consent? Neither gender does it very often. That’s something everyone needs to work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:51 AM
4

I shower every day because it’s part of my routine but many health professionals actually believe it’s better for your health to shower every other day. Unless you live somewhere very humid or tend to sweat a lot, showering daily isn’t necessary for good hygiene. https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/showering-daily-is-it-necessary-2019062617193
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:45 AM
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You probably hang out in more conservative circles where gender roles are practiced
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:10 AM
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Why do red pill guys always bring up these “undesirable” jobs that women should work as a gotcha. Women already work “undesirable” jobs. The vast majority of CNAs are women and they have to deal with nasty stuff for very little pay. Women are also overrepresented in cleaning jobs in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:47 AM
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Among younger and more liberal people, gender roles are much less rigid in relationships. 50 years ago it would be extremely rare to see a woman out earning her husband, but now I can think of several couples like this that I personally know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:40 AM
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The women who have a million demands while not being very good dating prospects themselves are constantly clowned on. For every person cheering them on, there are 100 laughing at them. Also lots of women have low self esteem. It’s actually a more common trait in women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:36 AM
1

If women don’t take accountability, why are they less likely to abandon their kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:20 AM
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Children having food is a lot more important than men getting their dicks wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:15 AM
3

Why are you even debating her if you won’t believe anything she says. Sounds like a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:45 PM
5

She literally said her height preference and you accused her of lying. No matter what women say, you won’t believe us if it contradicts your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:06 PM
5

Do you just assume that every attractive and successful man is a cheater?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:05 PM
2

Just wanting someone in your general age range, that’s single and lives in a fifty mile radius leaves you with a fraction of a percent. I don’t think anyone would call that delusional though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:00 PM
2

First of all do you not think there is some survivorship bias in the “experiments” you’re talking about? I highly doubt the majority of women that said they only wanted something serious were open to hookups just because a guy was hot. But it’s pretty easy to find a few exceptions to just about any rule. And second, where are all of these men that make witty openings and replies? I feel like I’m definitely the one putting more effort into witty messages most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:50 PM
1

I don’t hook up or lust after men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:13 PM
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You just said that men and women desire each other equally and then gave an example of how they don’t desire each other equally. Women are overall more content being single than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:51 AM
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Income does not make a person better or worse than another. According to that logic, the Kardashians are better than all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:48 AM
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Most women date men of similar attractiveness and of a similar income and education level. This idea that women are only dating men better than them isn’t based in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:46 AM
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I don’t know what kind of women you are talking to but there is nothing grosser than a guy who patronizes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:44 AM
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Men desire women more than the other way around. That doesn’t mean women are better but there is more demand for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:14 AM
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But who wants a partner that sees you as less than? Even if he “loves you”, it’s bound to be a patronizing and condescending relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:03 PM
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So women should just settle for men they’re meh about? Many women would rather be alone than with someone they aren’t super into.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:57 PM
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How do you know they’re lying though? Do they tell you after the fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:47 AM
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I’m still not sure where you get the idea that most women lie about their past. If a man isn’t accepting of her past, he’s not the right man for her. Not every woman is that desperate for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 09:21 PM
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You’re the one who’s lying on the internet for validation. Seems like your fee-fees are the fragile ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 09:18 PM
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Crazy how my experience has been completely different. Most of my friends don’t give a shit about that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:38 PM
1

This is some advanced delusion. Not everyone is as horny as you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:33 PM
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Watch 90 day fiancé. There were old, unattractive American women going to Africa for much younger men. Same situation, still gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:18 AM
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But the reason a woman in a poor country is giving him a chance is highly unlikely to be because she genuinely likes him. He’s going to a place where women have less opportunities so that there is more pressure for them to accept him. Is that not even a little nefarious to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:09 AM
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Most women don’t travel to hook up. This might be news to you but a lot of women like experiencing the history, culture and cuisine of other places.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:05 AM
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You shouldn’t be going to an expensive restaurant for a first date. At most restaurants, you can get a meal for two under $50. There’s other even cheaper ways to do a first date like a picnic or going to a local museum.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:56 AM
1

So you understand that women misinterpret what men find attractive. Don’t you think that maybe men and the red pill misinterpret what women find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:25 AM
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But what’s the fix to women not dating men they are not attracted to? Should they grin and bear it and hope that maybe one day they’ll actually want him? I tried that and it doesn’t work. The thing about toxic people is that a lot of them know how to put their best foot forward. Sure some of them don’t, but a lot of them do. And by the time they start showing those red flags, there’s already a strong emotional connection which makes it harder to end things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:19 AM
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So should women assume that men only want women that look like pornstars? See how unhealthy that mentality is? That’s a more justified assumption because at least porn stars are real people. These manosphere dudes are literally basing their entire personas on bad approximations of fictional characters from YA novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:16 AM
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I like Renaissance festivals, that doesn’t mean I want to live in the renaissance. But based on your logic I’m sure you’d come to the conclusion that I would. Is it that hard to understand that fantasy =/ reality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 11:55 PM
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Yes it is. What you do in the bedroom is completely separate from your social and political beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 09:57 PM
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If you are the only person who thinks you’re hot, you’re probably not hot. You don’t decide how attractive you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 09:51 PM
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So science is BS according to you because it doesn’t fit your agenda. Men put less effort into their appearance than women do it makes sense that they tend to be less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:51 PM
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A study found that men were more likely to overestimate their attractiveness than women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:22 PM
0

Tons of feminists spoke out against fifty shades. What world are you living in?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:04 PM
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Yes they do. I believe that young women are out earning young men right now and plenty of them are still dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:02 PM
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Do you know how many millions of men watch barely legal porn? Does this mean all men want to fuck teenagers? You could come up with all sorts of implications about male nature and what should be done with them from that but unlike you, I don’t think an entire gender’s basic human rights should be based on what distasteful media some of them consume.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:01 PM
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The amount of mental gymnastics that men are willing to do to defend this guy is appalling. How does he not know? He got naked, ordered doordash and left his door wide open. What part of that is he unaware of?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:44 PM
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Women make up the majority of health care workers. I’m sure western society would function great without hospitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:41 PM
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But he ordered DoorDash, got naked and left the door open before falling asleep. He knew what he was doing then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:19 AM
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Most women are also working to make the world function so I would assume they have at least some interest in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:06 AM
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Please share then
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 07:17 AM
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They literally don’t though. Most people aren’t fucking the first time they meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:08 AM
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Of course you’re typically going to be attracted to the person you’re dating. That doesn’t mean the first convo is sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:05 AM
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You got a source for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:04 AM
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If you’re only looking for hookups then sure. But most relationships don’t work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:18 PM
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There are also studies that show the exact opposite. So which are accurate?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:15 PM
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Being able to easily find some rando who wants to fuck does not mean women have an easy time dating ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:12 PM
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Of course it doesn’t seem like a big problem when you aren’t the one facing it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:04 PM
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So you knew women who were being abused and you still made yourself the main victim? I think the answer to your question is right in front of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:35 AM
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I don’t know where you live but most young women date young men of similar incomes. No amount of money makes a guy old enough to be my dad attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:00 PM
3

What do you think the skincare and weight loss industries are?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:29 AM
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I’m not the one bragging about how young supermodels want to fuck me. I don’t think you know the meaning of projection. But with how powerful your imagination is, it’s no surprise you managed to come up with your own definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:28 AM
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What a cute little fantasy you’ve constructed. And the fact that you are sharing it online to desperately convince us how desirable you are almost makes me feel bad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:03 AM
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Because every unattractive woman totally has a hot, skinny boyfriend. I wish there were that many attractive men to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:15 AM
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The US
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:54 PM
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All I ever hear about these days is men’s issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:54 PM
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Go onto the social media of a fat woman and look at the comments. Men are very vocal when they find a woman unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:12 PM
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Go onto a less conventionally attractive famous woman’s social media and look at the comments. Men absolutely care and will let the world know if they find a woman unfuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:10 PM
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Most women won’t just jump into bed with a guy because he’s hot. Casual sex isn’t nearly as common as you seem to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:33 AM
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It cracks me up when men on here think women don’t ever get negative feedback. I guarantee you that just about every woman on the planet has been criticized or made fun of for her appearance before. Women statistically have higher rates of body dysmorphia and eating disorders. This idea that women all think that we’re super models is so ridiculous I can’t help but wonder if it’s your first day on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:11 AM
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Don’t you think women would know more about women’s gossip than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:08 AM
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I see the opposite more frequently. Maybe it’s a matter of perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:02 PM
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Sorry that reality doesn’t always agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:01 PM
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I’m taking about guys that were obese, had bad skin, shorter than the girls they hooked up with. Is that not conventionally unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:08 AM
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Well that’s often what happens. Often when single two people are chatting and drinking, stuff happens. It’s not an excuse for infidelity though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:06 AM
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It’s so obvious that the guys posting this stuff never go to bars. I’ve had multiple friends have one night stands with guys that they admitted were very conventionally unattractive but both parties got caught up in the moment. If you tell yourself something is impossible and that you can’t do it, you are creating a self fulfilling prophecy. But to answer the question in the title, thousands of sex workers are trafficked. You can never be certain if the one you’re paying for is actually there by…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:23 AM
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But sometimes it’s not a consensual transaction. That’s the problem. Some of these women are threatened with violence by pimps if they try to leave the industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:18 AM
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If men are loyal to a fault, why do so many of them cheat? Not all men of course, but definitely enough to disprove your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:35 AM
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If you date a woman of similar socioeconomic status like most people do nowadays, financial ruin is very unlikely in a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:34 AM
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I guess my ex wasn’t a man then because I constantly listened and supported him whenever he was venting. The reason we didn’t work out is because he couldn’t do the same for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:33 AM
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If women complain, people think they are being bitchy or are on their period. The same behavior that is seen as assertive and dominant in men is seen as bitchy and bossy no women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:32 AM
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Causation /= correlation. Also there is a difference between dating and being in a relationship and just having sex. Does having sexual with an escort also guarantee happiness. According to OP’s logic, it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 04:34 PM
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If you’re going to ignore evidence in favor of anecdotes, that just shows how weak your argument is. You’re so misogynistic that you view women contributing to a conversation and advocating for themselves as being obnoxious and loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:02 PM
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If everything smells like shit, check your shoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 07:09 PM
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Studies have shown that many men overestimate how much women talk. They tend to think a woman is dominating the conversation even when she is talking less.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 07:01 PM
2

Cool story. I’ve seen the inverse happen multiple times. Some people are just shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:46 PM
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Ok so why do men want to take away women’s right to vote? I see that take in the wild so it must be a popular one according to your logic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:35 PM
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Women are so bombarded with men saying they’ll date literally anyone that a rejection from a man is a lot more humiliating than from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:42 AM
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I personally wouldn’t propose to a man but I don’t see a problem with a couple doing that. I would imagine that’s how many women feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:37 AM
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I’d love to see that data
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:26 PM
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The men at the bottom don’t want the women at the bottom either. They might see them as a viable flesh light but they definitely don’t see them as gf material.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:36 AM
-11

If no women of your “equivalent attractiveness percentile” think you’re attractive, you’re overrating yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:13 PM
-1

Not wanting to fuck you is not punishment. And sex is not a reward. Empathy isn’t the turn off. Your view of women is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:28 AM
-6

Girls are typically held to a higher behavioral standard than boys. I hope you have that same energy towards holding men accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:25 AM
8

Usually, but if he has an incompatible personality, that may prevent a woman from dating him. I also know women who have hooked up with guys after a night at the bar only to realize the next morning that alcohol makes everyone look much more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:31 AM
9

You’re assuming how the woman is going to react. If you’re in a healthy relationship, your partner will want to provide emotional support. What a lot of women mean when they say “I’m not your therapist” is that your partner should not be your sole source of emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:48 AM
1

Most people wouldn’t be happy being destitute without modern medicine and plumbing. That doesn’t mean women only want model tier millionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:27 PM
1

Okay. I also consistently tested in the top 1% in school and graduated with honors from a prestigious university. And I highly doubt you’re some genius if your grammar is anything to go off of.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:18 PM
4

Men. Do you need a source for that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:10 PM
-6

Many men get angry that women don’t fuck them but also hate sluts. Those are both emotional stances that are also contradictory. They are also the majority of mass shooters which definitely does not come from a place of logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:57 PM
1

Weaker than you mentally. That’s a good laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:26 PM
-12

I could find a million comments by men thinking emotionally rather than logically, but of course it’s only a woman problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:21 PM
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If women’s sexuality was encouraged, there wouldn’t be so many slurs and such widespread disgust for women who are sexually active.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:29 PM
4

It would be an advantage because it would mean the guys showing interest in me are more likely to be compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:28 PM
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No wonder you’re so miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:17 AM
2

Birth control doesn’t always work. Additionally not all women are impregnated by choice. Moving is expensive and out of the question for many people financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:17 PM
0

Maybe to you. My lived reality is very different
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:16 PM
2

So a man in the modern era can do no wrong. Nice to know. My flair is making fun of the people who unironically call others low and high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:27 PM
1

Most women aren’t attracted to the same few men though and most don’t claim to be
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:26 PM
1

When we tell you how we suffer because of our gender, you don’t believe us or minimize the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:26 PM
2

Women don’t have reproductive rights in several states.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:23 PM
3

That’s not the own you think it is. Seems you either haven’t met many women or don’t care to get to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:22 PM
3

It’s never the man’s fault is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:20 PM
11

The difference is her fiance is abusive and doesn’t care about her as a person. Also if you watch the movie, she actually saves Jack’s life before he saved hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:42 AM
4

Treating women like human beings is a psyop to you? Good grief you’re far gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:28 PM
3

Your analogy is comparing dating to dying. A fish doesn’t want to be caught because that means it’s death. A straight woman wants there to be more eligible options for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:26 PM
12

I’m pretty sure most fathers don’t want their daughters to be essentially sold into sex slavery
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 10:42 AM
9

You got a source for that? I’m pretty sure most women have not done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:42 PM
4

Homie I don’t have a flat stomach at 5’5 115 pounds. How much more weight am I supposed to lose? For some women it’s impossible to have a flat stomach without being unhealthily underweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:25 PM
4

Where someone carries fat is genetic so the guys here need to stop saying that only male attractiveness is based on immutable traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:08 PM
1

Do you think that statement is false?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:45 AM
4

Oh so because dating is hard you’re going to string an innocent person along who you desperately want to replace. (Yes it’s also not okay when women do it either) I hope dating stays hard. Women should avoid guys with your mentality like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:44 AM
2

Salaries do not equate to how difficult a job is. I think most people would agree that being a construction worker is more difficult than being a tik tok influencer. Guess which one is getting paid more though? Why should men specifically get extra respect for doing manual labor jobs? They get paid for their work just like the rest of us. I respect them just as much as I respect most working people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:30 AM
1

If you think most women are like that, it’s pretty clear you don’t know very many women well. Me and the gals used to try and conduct seances in my basement/hide in bushes alongside sidewalks and jump out whenever people got near/drunkenly discuss classic literature. That’s like the equivalent of me saying guys are all the same and only care about sports and beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:20 AM
14

That poor woman. If you have any ounce of human decency, please end that relationship for her sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:02 AM
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Appealing to tradition is a logical fallacy fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 12:57 PM
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You think aging doesn’t affect men? Sperm quality decreases. Male pattern baldness sets in and most 45 year old men have beer bellies. He isn’t appreciating any more than a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 12:55 PM
2

Those guys aren’t actually nice. That’s the point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 12:05 PM
3

You should be nice because it’s the decent thing to do. Not to get in a woman’s pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 12:03 PM
1

I don’t know why this is so difficult for guys here to understand but you aren’t entitled to sex. Sex isn’t a wifely duty. That’s absolutely disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 12:01 PM
0

So people need to settle down with the first person they fuck? That sounds like a recipe for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:29 PM
0

Most women aren’t hooking up left and right. The average body count is around 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:56 PM
14

How are we supposed to hold a woman accountable if she’s lying? We weren’t there. We don’t know if she’s telling the truth. But the normal reaction when someone tells you they were the victim of a violent crime is to believe them. It’s also telling that you’re more concerned with false allegations than the astronomical amount of women that this actually happens to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:58 PM
5

Pregnancy more often than not causes permanent changes to a woman’s body.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:53 PM
6

What world are you living in that women get praised for having a job????
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 07:37 PM
5

Women face double standards too. A promiscuous woman is widely condemned and shamed but promiscuous men are often admired by other men. Men get praise for taking care of their children while for women it’s expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:10 PM
2

I’ve never heard that saying brought up except in cases of men complaining about it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:10 PM
1

The world rewards bad people all the time. Look at the richest people alive. Most of them aren’t saints. If that convinces you to stop being good, you were never good in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:38 AM
7

If your good behavior is contingent on getting a reward, you aren’t actually good
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:42 PM
1

How would you know that? I think most people have some level of empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:45 AM
19

Political views are absolutely an important aspect of someone and say a lot about their moral values.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:19 AM
6

You can’t reciprocate if you feel nothing for someone. Trying to force feelings never works
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:08 AM
2

Most men aren’t interested in working in those two fields. There are a lot more women who play sports than men who model.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:10 PM
1

You should probably raise your standards. Desperation isn’t attractive. No woman wants to be with a guy who would get with the first girl who shows interest in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:53 AM
1

If I was unemployed I wouldn’t be able to afford to go out. It’s obviously not a priority for you and that’s ok but you can’t turn around and complain that there are no places to meet women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:40 AM
2

The wage gap still exists even when men and women work the same jobs. It is smaller but it still exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:38 AM
1

The majority of medical personnel are women. Women also have the majority of cleaning jobs (in addition to typically spending more time doing household chores) which are essential for sanitation. Women also do the vast majority of childcare so either a bunch of men would have to quit working to watch the kids or they would die of neglect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:19 AM
0

I don’t have problem with video games with sexualized characters if they are marketed as pornographic and for adults. The problem is when media intended for general audiences still sexualizes the female characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:32 AM
1

Typically the women that demand men perform masculinity are conservative, traditional women. I’ve never wanted a particularly masculine partner and most progressive women that I know don’t either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:29 AM
1

Guys talk to women in bars and clubs all the time. I go frequently and I’ve never seen a woman get upset by a man approaching her as long as he isn’t immediately vulgar.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:25 AM
1

Personality alone doesn’t make someone a good match, but it definitely contributes to a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:24 AM
2

You’re allowed to do that. Women are socialized to be agreeable and avoid conflicts so they are more likely to try and keep the conflict private. I don’t think one was is better or worse. They are just different. However you can’t claim that this means that women don’t hold each other accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:53 AM
3

I don’t know much about those men beyond their achievements but do you have evidence that they were involuntarily single?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:51 AM
0

There’s a difference between media that’s purpose is to be sexually stimulating and media that advertises itself as something else but still sexualizes the characters to an unrealistic degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:49 AM
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Everything that you said is completely made up. Expecting men to not sexually harass women isn’t degrading. What would be degrading is putting up with it because it’s “male nature”. Also are there any countries that have a majority female government?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:44 AM
8

My sister worked in a nursing home. It’s definitely not a rare phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:35 AM
3

Speak for yourself. If all you care about in women is youth and beauty, you probably aren’t worth dating in the first place. Lots of men care about a woman’s personality. There also isn’t a movement of millions of lonely old women who complain on the internet about being lonely. Sounds like a revenge fantasy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:29 AM
1

Men should also be wary of strange men. I completely agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:15 AM
1

If you think women past their early twenties are disgusting leftovers please don’t ever date or interact with women. You view women as objects that exist for your sexual pleasure instead of human beings with lives as rich and complex as yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:14 AM
1

If you have a likeable personality, you don’t need to manipulate women into liking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:05 AM
7

Ensuring fair labor practices is under the overview of the government. Ensuring men get dates is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:01 AM
2

Do most men that women get with cheat? I’d like to see a stat on that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:00 AM
2

If you call someone out in public you face a significant risk of making everyone else uncomfortable as well as putting the person you’re calling out on the defensive. I think for certain severe issues, calling them out immediately is necessary. But typically if you genuinely want someone to change, you’ll have much better luck getting through to them with a one on one conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:57 AM
-1

An apology is better than nothing. The comment that I’m replying to is also anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:54 AM
-2

We talk to them privately and tell them their behavior isn’t okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:38 AM
0

Women apologize much more than men in my experience. I have no clue where the idea that women don’t take accountability comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:37 AM
1

Women aren’t mind readers. If we could know for certain which men were good, dating would be much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 09:36 AM
1

Women are lined up to date the subway guy? That’s news to me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 09:34 AM
2

People in general aren’t very good at ascertaining whether a person’s persona and inner values are the same. Women aren’t an exception to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 09:30 AM
1

There’s also studies that say the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 09:26 AM
11

Oh the irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 09:23 AM
12

Women don’t need men for resources anymore which means that your personality carries more weight. I don’t see how that’s a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:52 AM
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Single life is a lot less stress and work than a relationship. I also tend to take turns paying since I believe in equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:59 PM
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There used to be no women in colleges so you’re just incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:42 PM
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You always have a choice to hate people. I thought you red pill folks were all about accountability. I guess that only applies to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:29 PM
1

It still does matter. What planet are you living on? Most women don’t forget about safety just because a guy is rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:35 PM
2

I don’t know what that has to do with my comment but nice anecdote I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:34 PM
2

Those historical men’s spaces were the realms of politics, philosophy, and science. Women weren’t allowed in them and had to force their way in. God forbid women want to participate in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:48 PM
1

As a woman you have to treat all men with suspicion because if you don’t and something happens, you get blamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:42 PM
1

Depends on your body type. For a woman with a naturally slim frame, 20% doesn’t require much effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:18 AM
1

She said most men, but even most young men have had sex at least once
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:33 AM
2

You don’t choose to age and acting like older women who are single have never dated and just stayed out of the sexual market is disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:32 AM
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Well first of all, most women are not into the same 10% of guys. Most of my friends and I have extremely different physical preferences. Thank you for feeling pity for me but that pity is sorely misplaced. I didn’t compromise in my standards and found someone who met them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:07 PM
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Just got my first boyfriend at 22! He’s super cute, funny, caring, adventurous and intelligent. I really got the whole package. My friends say I light up whenever I talk about him. Even just thinking about him makes me smile. There are good men out there ladies. Never give up!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:56 PM
-1

Wanting a woman with a stem degree (who almost certainly has a career) to cook you every single meal every day is absolutely bananas.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:42 AM
1

Women were barred from many jobs and positions of power for a good chunk of human history. And men definitely benefitted and still benefit from women’s labor. Does that mean men lack any accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:32 AM
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It takes two people to get a woman pregnant. Men choose to have sex as well knowing the risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:30 AM
1

How is claiming men are more empathetic and morally superior a fact? You just pulled that out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:29 AM
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Yup, you got it right. Us women get pregnant all by ourselves. We can even magically Will a fetus in and out of existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:04 PM
0

Sorry to break it to you but infantilizing half of the population doesn’t make you a saint. I sincerely hope you get over your nasty hatred of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:54 PM
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Guess what buddy? Women didn’t institute the draft. Men did. I’m sure many women would enter the draft if it was necessary to vote. Take up your frustrations with the men who instituted the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:34 AM
0

I’m pretty sure the majority of people don’t lose their virginity in high school. People don’t always sleep with every person they date either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:34 PM
2

Women get criticized for literally everything. We certainly know how to deal with it much better than the average rp freak
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:28 PM
-1

The woman you’re describing is far from the average woman though. I believe the average female body count is around 4. If men are pursuing former party girls, they shouldn’t be surprised if she lived a party girl lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:11 PM
1

Why do you think women would be happier if they settled. That sounds like a recipe for a relationship full of resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:54 AM
0

Therapists absolutely recommend lifestyle changes like exercising more or eating a more balanced diet if it is relevant to the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:50 AM
1

I’ve never met a woman who feels like this in my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:39 AM
1

It definitely is not a 50% match rate. I also would say it’s worse than what guys deal with but not better either. Women face different problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:27 AM
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You got a source for that because my experience has been the opposite. I know so many women and girls who put up with just about anything because they were scared of being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:39 PM
2

I can easily rule out about 75% automatically because I’m not attracted to people significantly older or younger than me. Out of the guys I see that are around my age, I feel some amount of attraction to maybe 10%. So doing that math, I feel some amount of attraction to about 2.5% of men. I’m aware that’s low but I also would rather be single than be with a guy I’m not that into. Been there, done that. It wasn’t good for either party.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:37 PM
1

I’m sure it sucks for you guys too with all the bots and Only Fans promotion accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:30 PM
3

In this scenario if junk food represents unsatisfying casual sex with someone you feel zero attraction towards, men also have access to junk food. Just hop on Grindr.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:33 PM
4

A large percentage of those guys just want hookups. Another large chunk aren’t attractive and/or have the conversations skills of a piece of cardboard. Even when a woman finds one she approves of, there’s a significant chance the conversation will die out or he just won’t respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:28 PM
3

Do you just repeat the same false talking points in every comment? I could have a much more intellectual and honest conversation with ChatGPT.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 03:30 PM
4

In another post you said 5-20%. That’s not a microscopic amount at all. Normal guys are in relationships. If you believe none of them are actually desired by their partners, you’re beyond help. I don’t see what the average age for marriage has to do with this. Marriage is a huge commitment and it’s good that people aren’t rushing into it like they used to. Obviously you don’t care about facts. Divorce rates have actually fallen quite a bit since a peak in the 90s. Alimony is more rare than ever …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 03:09 PM
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There’s a lot more women who want relationships than who want hookups so a guy looking for casual sex is dealing with a much smaller pool of women. Just because he can’t find a woman to hookup with him, does not mean he can’t find a woman to be in a relationship with that thinks he’s attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:55 PM
6

If you want appreciation for every accomplishment men have done, I hope you’re also open to being judged for every atrocity men have committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:15 PM
2

Are you that think skinned? You do realize you can hate specific men without hating all men? I don’t get offended when a male artist makes a song shit talking his ex because I’m not the ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 03:42 PM
6

So any song where a woman talks bad about her ex is though?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:00 AM
2

I’d feel like a guy was coming on strong if he got me a gift on the second date unless it’s something really small like <$5
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:42 PM
4

Most women don’t ever date the type of man you’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:34 PM
6

I really want to know what part of Vampire has misandrist undertones. Are all breakup songs from female artists about their male ex misandrist to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:27 PM
5

So when men say Nazi stuff they should be given grace but when a woman makes an average breakup song, she should be condemned?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:19 PM
6

Boys should know about periods because they are part of how the human body works. There’s nothing sexual about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:14 PM
3

Have you listened to modern rap?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:12 PM
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If a woman tries something and doesn’t like it, she has every right not to try it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:01 PM
7

Only if you think all women find the same subset of men attractive which is definitively false.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:40 AM
8

I don’t want kids in the first place. But in the scenario where I did, I’d only agree if I got to choose designer sperm. If he wants a eugenics baby, he should be willing to go all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:01 AM
3

I would think writing up the policies that politicians bring forward is pretty necessary for civilization but what do I know? Women also make up the majority of law school students. The demographics are shifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:27 AM
8

I don’t know of any woman who has standards like that. Even if some did, it’s better to be alone than settle for someone you’re not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:17 PM
7

It makes sense to wait for a person you are attracted to and compatible with. Better to be alone than with someone you’re not that into. Many women acknowledge this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:51 PM
9

Law, economics, and political science are some non-STEM disciplines that are necessary for civilization. Even if STEM degrees were the only useful ones, women now comprise the majority of medical school students. Sorry to burst your bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:58 PM
5

So I’m guessing you’ll gladly offer yourself sexually to the men you respect right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:43 PM
9

Women can’t require a man to marry them. Marriage is a two-way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:08 AM
5

Because asking for a test is telling her you believe there is a chance she cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:06 AM
1

Very logical folks at r/whenwomenrefuse
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:33 AM
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That’s what most women want too but we get shit on endlessly for wanting a guy we find physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:00 AM
3

Windmill is the most obvious rage bait user I’ve ever seen and you guys keep falling for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 09:00 PM
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No one tells girls they can do whatever they want. Female centered entertainment and interests are constantly denounced as shallow and vapid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:40 AM
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What you described isn’t the he experience of most women though, it’s a fantasy you created.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:35 AM
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Society is still male-centered. The fact that more groups are participating in it doesn’t mean it hates you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:33 AM
1

But the tide isn’t in women’s favor. We’re still fighting for bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:43 PM
1

What rights did men lose when women gained the right to vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:47 AM
1

I believe people can change but I also believe that they need to be the ones taking initiative to change. There’s a lot I can forgive if it was in the past and a man regrets his behavior and has worked to become a better person because actually I’ve seen it happen. I would never be with someone I thought was currently a bad person though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:48 PM
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If people advocating for women’s rights are your arch enemies, you have a pretty twisted worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:57 PM
1

Good thing women have a variety of preferences then. There was even a big trend of women saying they were into “medium ugly” guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:50 PM
15

Corporate slave isn’t the only job out there. Many people enjoy and find fulfillment in their careers. My mom worked before having kids and she said it was so much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:06 AM
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2 I’m not into blonde guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:15 AM
21

I was raised in that kind of family too. My mom said being a SAHM was one of the worst mistakes she ever made.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:01 AM
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If I hadn’t seen people here expressing that exact sentiment I’d think it was a strawman as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:32 PM
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I’m talking about actual coding in my earlier example. Additionally, the devaluation of women’s work isn’t conscious for most of society. It has more to do with traditionally feminine careers being underpaid despite the skills required or how useful they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:31 PM
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Women’s labor has a long history of being devalued. You can clearly see this in the case of computer programming which used to be considered women’s work and was rather low paying but gained considerable prestige and a big salary jump when it became a job associated with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:24 AM
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You’re the one changing the definition of words to suit your narrative. In English, fetus and child are clearly not synonymous. Additionally in basically every country in the world you aren’t obligated to offer your body to keep someone else alive. Why is the expectation on pregnant women different?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:22 AM
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And women are the ones who spend much more time raising children, something deemed extremely important yet not compensated in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:15 AM
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We don’t speak Latin anymore so I don’t see the point of your anecdote. Obviously words aren’t going to translate perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:12 AM
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Care to explain how that works?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:06 AM
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Prolifers when you tell them that a fetus isn’t the same as a child: 🤬
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:48 AM
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This discourse is revealing a massive discrepancy with how men are socialized about dating. So many guys on here seem shocked or resentful that being nice doesn’t automatically get you a girlfriend. Of course it won’t. The vast majority of people (men and women) want to date someone they are physically attracted to. When women say they want a good man, the above paragraph is considered a given. Women are socialized to know that being pretty is one of, if not the most, important thing men are con…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:56 PM
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Do you seriously think that most women haven’t been rejected before?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:35 AM
7

Most men aren’t creepy control freaks like you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:40 PM
2

Not all women want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:38 PM
1

We’re talking about the dating red pill here. In that case, blue pill is just people who disagree with it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:26 AM
1

Were you the one who came up with the blue pill? Isn’t it up to the people who identify with it to say what it means? That’s kind of how ideologies work
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:44 AM
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Nobody on the blue pill thinks that though. Of course being nice wont singlehandedly land you into a relationship. Blue pill is just a rejection of the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:07 PM
9

Go on literally any post from or about a woman on Instagram and you can find some misogynistic comments. Lots of popular male influencers make a living off of promoting misogyny and toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:46 PM
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I’m 22 and was raised like this, as are many women I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:32 PM
2

What friendships are you observing where the man financially supports his female friends and needs to protect her? Are these from the same planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:04 PM
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Do you think there is only one axis on which people can be oppressed? You wouldn’t deny that racism and classism existed simultaneously, would you? For most of recorded human history, a woman, with all other traits being equal, had far less rights and freedoms than a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:39 PM
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Just from my anecdotal experiences with male friends, I’ve been told that they aren’t as emotionally vulnerable with their other male friends and that I was the only person they’ve ever opened up to. I’ve heard similar about other male-female friendships. I also am curious about what men give in friendships that women don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:31 PM
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What makes you think women prefer criminals?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:26 AM
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It’s not nearly as rare as you’re acting like. And just because women are typically the ones who file for divorce, that doesn’t mean it was a unilateral decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:44 PM
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Most couples these days make similar incomes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:43 PM
10

I think it would be sweet to be each other’s firsts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:44 AM
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I grew up quite ugly but got lucky and had a massive glow up. I’ve always been hyper aware of where I stood because of how I was treated by other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:39 AM
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Strange how “hypergamy” or marrying up has been steadily decreasing then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:33 AM
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If the woman earns more money, she may have to pay alimony and child support in a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:27 AM
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Alimony is paid in about 10% of divorces these days. Most women aren’t leaving with prizes. Women also tend to have worse financial outcomes after divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:23 AM
1

Do you seriously think dating is the only area in life in which resilience matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:09 AM
1

That’s a traditional relationship for you. I have no clue why people romanticize it so much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:11 AM
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Sounds like you’re not into traditional women. Fortunately for you, money has never mattered less in dating than it currently does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:16 PM
7

Difference is you need a job to live
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:35 PM
2

Go to grad school and work in research ideally, get married if I meet the right person maybe, don’t have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 03:43 AM
6

Incels act demanding and needy as well. That doesn’t mean that behavior is reflective of men as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:58 PM
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Physical attraction tends to be pretty important for casual sex. Your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:19 PM
1

How exactly are women broken these days? The rest of your comment is suggesting that men are actually the ones broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:03 PM
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Any time a woman engages in casual sex, she risks pregnancy, STDs, and getting murdered. So naturally most women aren’t going to just have sex with every guy that hits on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:58 PM
2

The first type of societies are still oppressing women if they don’t have the same fundamental rights. Why is that so difficult to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:37 AM
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My mom still got plenty of attention in her 40s. Women don’t turn into hags the moment they hit 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:09 AM
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There’s different kinds of creeps out there. Some genuinely don’t care how a woman is dressed but some will definitely be more forward if a woman is showing a lot of skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:20 PM
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Cool and I have anecdotal evidence for the opposite so it appears we’re at a crossroads
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:12 PM
5

You got proof of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:02 PM
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I don’t think that’s the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:43 PM
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I didn’t know you were a mind reader and apparently know us silly women better than we know ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:19 AM
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Being skinny yet curvy already puts her easily in the top 10%. Have you seen the obesity rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 11:28 PM
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It literally is used to dehumanize women though. Unless you’re a nonnative English speaker, anyone who uses it knows exactly what they are doing. I’ve never even seen a post calling women females that wasn’t misogynistic in another way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 11:23 PM
7

Then it seems like if you don’t want women to focus on that, you all should stop doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 09:30 AM
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The difference is most men have no recollection of their genitals being mutilated. So it’s easy for you to say it’s no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:40 PM
2

I was talking about circumcision. I’m not a dude so I’m not an authority on the subject but it seems messed up when there isn’t a medical necessity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:46 PM
7

Or maybe we can leave the genitalia of both genders alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:38 PM
8

Here I’ll explain it to you. 12 year old girls are going through puberty. By the time girls reach 12, we don’t have much physical growing left to do. That combined with the fact that kids always want to grow up means that 12 year olds are going to want to shop in the teen and adult sections of stores. Women’s shorts tend to be pretty damn short. It’s hard to find anything finger tip length.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:37 PM
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Maybe they wear shorts because it’s hot outside and they are easy to move around in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:58 PM
2

Most women don’t have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:07 PM
12

No? Men care about penises way more than women do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:05 PM
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Even 12 year old girls can’t wear shorts without dudes like you perving over them and blaming them for it. Disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:04 PM
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I’ve seen misogynistic messages get tens of thousands of likes. I’m still not going to assume the majority of men are misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:58 PM
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Attractiveness is based on attracting other people. If you aren’t attracting people, you probably aren’t as attractive as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:45 PM
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Autistic women tend to be much better at masking/pretending to be neurotypical than their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:35 PM
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Tens of thousands is a tiny percentage of women though, so yes that is extrapolating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:31 PM
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Women aren’t a hive mind. I don’t get why this is so difficult to understand. If one woman says she’s into good guys and another woman dates a shitty guy, that doesn’t mean the first woman is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:25 PM
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I’ll gladly trade you the scholarships if it guaranteed my bodily autonomy. Also most women aren’t getting those. I do know that some colleges have actually been lowering standards for male students to try and balance out the gender ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:49 PM
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Do you actually think most women’s formative years are filled with support and encouragement? I wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:41 PM
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So you looked at a study of some college students using tinder and decided that means that all women re having casual sex. That might be one of the biggest leaps I’ve ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:35 PM
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Most women don’t participate in casual sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:02 PM
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I completely believe that some people (including women) think like this, but they are definitely not the majority. I just think it’s a little sketchy that this was posted on a gender wars subreddit by someone who frequently spams articles that make women look bad under the guise of agreeing with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:06 PM
1

Those are not normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:04 PM
10

This has to be trolling. There’s no way a sane human being expects some rando to give them a gift when it’s not even their actual birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:37 AM
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To make fun of the people who unironically use the term
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:15 AM
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For me, light teasing and banter instantly makes a guy hotter. You do have to know the time and place for it though(you’ll have better luck in a bar than a Starbucks). Confidence and a sense of adventure are also extremely attractive. Keep the vibe light and playful in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:13 PM
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My theory is that men are more focused on finding someone and women are more focused on finding “the one”. Dating a guy I’m not head over heels with just seems like a chore. I do desire to find someone but I’m not going to spend the meantime until I find him with substitute boyfriends. I think in many cases guys are more obsessed with the idea of having a girlfriend than actually having a girlfriend. From what I’ve heard from some guys, it’s a signal that they’re desirable and wanted. Guys also …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:03 PM
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And you know for sure that the same women who give you those opinions are contradicting them in real life? For example, if one woman says she prefers guys with long hair, she’s only speaking for herself. Maybe even 99% of women have a different option than her but that doesn’t mean she’s lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:53 PM
10

Women are actually more likely to suffer from low self esteem than men. I can link an article if you don’t believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:48 PM
10

I wonder what kind of society you’re living in. If society actually thought women were perfect and deserve everything, cosmetics wouldn’t be a multi billion dollar industry. Women wouldn’t be punished in the workplace for becoming mothers while men are rewarded. Women’s pain wouldn’t be written off as just complaining by doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:47 PM
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When those people are actively misogynistic and hateful, they deserve to be put down. Many lonely people don’t project their pain onto others.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:53 PM
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Most of the women sleeping with the guys with a lot of experience also have a lot of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:36 AM
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I don’t know what to tell you pal. I’ve had guys open up to me about some pretty deep stuff. It doesn’t bother me. We’re all human. It would be kind of weird if a guy had no problems at all. I am an inexperienced woman so I think I know more about what we want than you do. I’d rather a guy with “not enough” experience than “too much”. This isn’t an uncommon sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:05 AM
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It seems like you guys have different values regarding careers and that’s ok. It might just mean you’re not compatible, which is a completely acceptable reason to end a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:08 PM
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I can’t say for certain because that’s a bit too old for me in general. But no experience wouldn’t be a dealbreaker with me if it truly was just bad luck or being too busy or something. I don’t have much experience either so we’d be figuring it out as we went. I’d want him to be open and authentic with me about his situation, feelings, and boundaries. I can’t speak for all women but I’ve always found it very attractive when a guy I’m into opens up to me about his feelings and/or vulnerabilities.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:06 PM
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Friends with benefits but instead of sex you just kiss and snuggle while watching educational YouTube videos >>>>> any other kind of relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:27 PM
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Go for it girlie. Just blur out your face if you are nervous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:25 PM
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Friendships are very different than romantic relationships. There isn’t a set number of friends you can have so there’s no opportunity cost to befriending a new person. There’s less reason to be picky. Most people are monogamous and thus can only date one person at a time. Because of this it’s logical that people will have a stricter criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:40 PM
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This may be shocking to you but not all sex that results in pregnancies is consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:01 AM
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I study comparative politics so I would guess I know more about women’s issues in other countries than you. The fact that someone has it worse somewhere else, doesn’t mean we should just give up on the problems we’re facing. By your logic, a factory worker who works 12 hour a day for pennies should just shut up and deal with it since there are literal slaves out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:00 AM
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Men’s unborn children aren’t inside of them and relying on their bodies to survive. If they were, I would support their right to an abortion as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:48 PM
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Just because things have been worse, doesn’t mean they aren’t bad. There are teenage girls that are being legally forced to carry the baby of the people who assaulted them. That’s a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:46 PM
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If being the most privileged group in existence means fighting for basic bodily autonomy, that’s a bad track record for humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:15 PM
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I have never heard “bitter boy” in my life. And no one gives a shit if you don’t want to date single moms. Just don’t dehumanize them every chance you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:05 AM
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Thanks for telling me you know absolutely nothing about women and aren’t worth debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:47 PM
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What are you even taking about with your last sentence? Which men weren’t the first choice? You’re making up a problem to be mad about that has no basis in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:42 PM
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It’s gross how you act like men who date single moms are doing them a favor. That’s not how dating works for normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:34 AM
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And that’s completely fine. It’s just the way that many men talk about single moms as if they are used up and worthless that’s the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:20 PM
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With the amount of women in the world, there isn’t any topic that women will unanimously agree on. Same with men, but I don’t see people telling men that they don’t know what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:06 AM
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A good study is transparent about data collection and analysis, and should state the questions used in the report. It’s not that difficult to assess validity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:39 AM
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I meant that you think men know what we want better than we do? And yeah some women say crazy shit. There’s 4 billion women in the world. There are going to be some crazy ones
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:37 AM
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I work in research. Some studies are full of it, but that doesn’t mean all are. I also trust studies over random anecdotal evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:18 AM
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And men do? Women aren’t a hive mind so we’re going to say things that contradict each other. I don’t see how that’s so difficult to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:16 AM
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Why would we tell you the opposite of what we want? That makes no logical sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 09:02 PM
1

This is definitely a dealbreaker for the reasons other people already mentioned. If you’re in a culture where tipping is normalized, not participating makes you look like an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:56 PM
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In most states in the US, kids born in December would be older than their classmates born in January because the cutoff is September 1st. So unless that study is looking at another country, that makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:05 AM
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It’s all fun and games until she poisons you or slits your throat in your sleep. Now that women have tasted freedom they won’t give it up without a fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:24 PM
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If you want to be technical about it, cheating highly increases the risk of contracting stds which are a serious health and safety concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:17 PM
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Screaming when someone gets shot is a completely normal response for an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:14 AM
1

So your personal experience is more accurate than professional research studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:38 AM
5

I’m glad you’re attracted to older men because most young women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:07 AM
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Men don’t age any better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:50 AM
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28 is still around peak fertility. Fertility only starts to decline noticeably at around 33. If you want one or two kids, 30 is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:49 AM
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For most species, sex isn’t exactly consensual. I would say that’s good just because it’s nature
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:29 PM
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The average woman’s body count is around 4 so I think it’s pretty obvious that most aren’t hooking up with chads every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:13 PM
0

Seems like you didn’t go to a very good college then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:29 AM
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I don’t think most college educated people know their local representatives either. Local politics is extremely obscure compared to national politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:27 AM
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It’s not feminism. It’s a mixture of social media, political polarization and reduced in person socialization. If you ever read feminist scholarship, there’s a lot of branches in feminism and disagreements on issues, but they don’t call for those other beliefs to be silenced and instead refute them with theory and evidence. Almost every movement has been tarnished by a vocal minority that wants to silence any opposition. Unfortunately that’s a reflection of the political climate we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:34 PM
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I would guess somewhere in the teens. I’m also in college and like going to bars which makes it a lot easier to meet new people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:27 PM
0

Well I’m asexual so I don’t really have a sex strategy if that’s what you’re asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:14 PM
6

Good to see that it’s fulfilling its intended purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:00 PM
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You’re right. I’m not in my mid 20s. I’m 22 which I think most would classify as early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:05 PM
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Nice try but I’m personally not one to hook up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:03 PM
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Having a say in the policies that govern your life absolutely is a basic human right. And even if many wouldn’t take that chance, many would but weren’t given that option. I would in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:03 PM
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Women didn’t even have the option of registering for the draft in exchange for basic human rights. I’m sure many would have jumped at the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:45 AM
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Gender based affirmative action in academia has been largely phased out or in some cases even favors men now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:43 AM
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Please leave us young women alone. The vast majority of early to mid 20s women are disgusted by a guy 10+ years older hitting on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:33 AM
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A relationship won’t make you happy. It’s a bandaid over an internal wound.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:00 PM
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Where did this idea that the average woman thinks she’s a 10 come from? Women are acutely aware of how attractive they are since society treats it as their primary value.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:59 PM
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You got stats for those statements?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:35 PM
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I’m sorry to burst your bubble but MGTOW guys aren’t the kind of guys women want. You are more than welcome to go your own way. We don’t care. Please just leave us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:33 PM
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Dude, not every woman on the planet hates you. Most women will not call the cops on a man for approaching her. Thats an extremely rare occurrence. Women are just normal people. There’s crazy ones and normal ones, just like men. Your problem is that you view us as a different species.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:29 PM
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I go to college bars frequently and guys approach girls all the time. Happens to me every time I go out. I’ve never seen a woman lash out or anything. I’m sure it happens but it’s not common. Most women who are in a social atmosphere are open to socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:16 PM
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It says that women must be less shallow than the manosphere claims since all of those surface level things aren’t attracting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:03 PM
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For a lot of women, acting like that is a way to make men leave them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:39 PM
2

Back then that was literally nobody, but thanks for the useless advice
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:35 PM
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Is it inflated if women are attaining that though? If a woman can’t attract the guys she’s into, she’ll either lower her standards or stay single. I don’t see the problem. If a man is 0 for 1,000 maybe he’s the one with unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:28 PM
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That’s how the tamest interactions at clubs go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:12 PM
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I can ask every woman I know and I guarantee you that at least half of them have been rejected before. It’s an almost universal human experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:09 PM
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Do you just made it up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:09 PM
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Getting information about women from a channel called hoe math is like getting dietary advice at a McDonald’s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:08 PM
1

I treat my male friends the exact same as I treat my female ones. It’s always the men who want something more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:05 PM
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I don’t know whatever the hell is going on in European schools because I’m American but I’m pretty sure that shit would be illegal here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:00 PM
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I have no clue where this whole manosphere idea that women have inflated egos and think they’re hotter than they are comes from. Studies show that women are more likely to have body image issues and lower self-esteem than men. Just because a woman isn’t interested in you, doesn’t mean she thinks she’s above you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 01:55 PM
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Men approach women at bars all the time. Only terminally online people think that more than a tiny fraction of women are offended by guys approaching them at bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 01:45 AM
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That doesn’t diminish my argument
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 01:21 AM
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Depends on what people consider unattractive. I don’t think the Rock is attractive because I’m not into bodybuilders. I’m sure many women disagree with me. Unless a man is severely facially deformed, I’m sure there is at least one woman who would find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:09 PM
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I don’t see how that challenges my statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:05 PM
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One of these subs has a lot more posts than the other
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:04 PM
1

Go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:03 PM
1

Good thing I’m not being dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:21 PM
10

I was referring to peer reviewed scientific studies that examine belief in misinformation. And there were likely just as many intellectual and curious women who weren’t afforded the opportunity to learn about the world or innovate because of their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:21 PM
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r/inceltear has archived hundreds of posts from incels expressing those beliefs. I guarantee you that you’d have a much harder time finding a femcel that wanted to murder/rape men than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:18 PM
3

No. A great personality can make an already attractive man more attractive but it can’t create attraction where there is none. Both components are necessary for a healthy relationship imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:01 PM
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Seems like neither of the people in your example are attracted to each other so it’s a good thing they aren’t getting together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:58 PM
1

Then there would be a lot more single men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:55 PM
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Men are actually more likely than women to believe misinformation so I’m not sure if your thing about them caring more about the truth holds up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:43 PM
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Yes because the men in those communities frequently talk about how they want to rape/kill/enslave women and don’t see them as human beings. I don’t think being concerned about that is tone policing bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:41 PM
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100% agree with this. I wish more men cared about my career and future ambitions. That’s something I’ve earned and I feel represents me more than my looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:53 AM
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I guess the grass is always greener on the other side. I’d rather not have to deal with the expectation of wearing makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:51 AM
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Or maybe lots of women disagree with the manosphere because it doesn’t describe their behavior and is based on misogynistic stereotypes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:04 AM
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Why would a woman want to be socially ostracized and excluded? Who would wish that upon themself? When I was younger, I wanted more than anything to have friends. I’d approach as many people as possible in school just to be ignored. There’s lonely women too, they just aren’t the women you notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:04 PM
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Well I already didn’t have any friends at the time so it wasn’t much of a difference. Guess I was a low value male in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:57 PM
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I promise you that women pay taxes. We don’t get a special woman waiver.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:26 AM
1

Then it seems like women who want to find love don’t need to concern themselves with guys who want ai gfs. Glad we can agree on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:23 AM
1

For the most part. You could also ask about her dating experience. Most women don’t love it if you ask her “body count” but asking about someone’s experience is more socially acceptable and tells you what you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:22 AM
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Did I ever say I was on welfare? And both of the above are also funded by women’s taxes. I hate to inform you that we aren’t exempt from paying for public services. 80% of men may be unattractive to me. Fortunately for you, women’s preferences aren’t uniform and my yuck is someone else’s yum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:20 AM
1

I think anyone sane would view a relationship as a two-way thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 09:54 PM
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Don’t engage in hookup culture or try to meet your future girlfriend at a nightclub. Those women don’t typically tend to hide their experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 09:53 PM
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I pay for my own stuff actually. And I don’t think undesirable men are the ones who are supporting society. They are one of the groups most likely to be unemployed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 09:46 PM
1

Ok and?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 09:43 PM
1

So are these men just going to quit working because they don’t get female attention? They still have to financially support themselves just like the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 09:43 PM
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The point of relationships is to find a person who you love and who loves you. What’s the point if robots are just programmed to respond a certain way no matter what you do or say? Seems like a terribly empty relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:15 AM
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I don’t see how undesirable men removing themselves from the dating pool will negatively affect my life. Care to explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:12 AM
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You don’t need to be hot to get hit on. Some guys will try a pass on any girl in the vicinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:09 AM
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Then don’t date those women. Sounds like an easy fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 11:50 PM
1

I’m 22. I probably have more female friends than you do and that isn’t the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:03 PM
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Most people don’t engage in hookup culture. I think the average body count is like 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:48 PM
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Hoeflation is not a thing. Body image issues and insecurities affect more than half of women. Women are also more likely to suffer from low self esteem than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:45 PM
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If you get at least a dozen matches a day, you’re either still swiping right on every woman you see or must live in a massive city.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:25 AM
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People don’t typically try to find out someone’s values for a one-night stand. So this isn’t really surprising information
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:51 PM
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I never said they should be convicted on accusation alone. But it’s a fact that a significant portion of the people accused but never convicted actually did it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:46 PM
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Most aren’t convicted
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:52 PM
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If the woman makes the same amount, the man isn’t going to be paying alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:58 PM
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Most rapists do not go to prison
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:54 PM
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Height: (5’5 -6’5) Fitness level: not overweight Minimum income: I’m a student so I can’t be picky when I don’t make any money either Unappealing male hobbies: depends on what you mean by unappealing Date requirements: I really don’t care as long as he’s making some effort Entertainment value: being funny and interesting is a must, I need someone who can match my energy Political compatibility: no Trump fans
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:38 PM
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Someone should have told me that because I’m a woman and I don’t have either of those standards
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:54 PM
6

Maybe you think that because you don’t try to get to know these women beyond their appearances.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:08 AM
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The fact that you used pushing 30 as a negative tells me exactly why you’re single
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:28 AM
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They are voting against their bodily autonomy. I understand that there are reasons why people vote red and that most republicans are not evil monsters, but my point still stands. There were women in the early 20th century that opposed suffrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 08:42 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 08:40 AM
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You could use whatever justifications you want. At the end of the day, the pro-life position seeks to strip women of their bodily autonomy and the choice of how to live their life. Real women have died because of these measures and several underage girls have had to go through pregnancies that their bodies and minds were not ready for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 06:57 PM
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Still would rather not have to worry about potentially dying due to complications if I somehow get impregnated
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 06:54 PM
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Anti social personality disorder is more common in men though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:00 PM
1

Like the right to die from treatable pregnancy complications?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:56 PM
1

Having the right to work and not rely on a man financially isn’t a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:53 PM
2

There was a time when the majority of Americans were fine with racial segregation. That doesn’t mean it was okay. Sometimes the majority is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:44 PM
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You got anything to back that up?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:25 PM
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Option B I think the most important thing is that my hypothetical kid is a good person. Anything else is secondary
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:24 PM
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Trans people are such a small percentage of the population. Trans athletes are even smaller. Women are being harmed far more by Republican policies than the microscopic chance they might compete against a trans athlete.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:50 PM
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But most women in their 20s aren’t hooking up left and right. They’re also having long term relationships, but most relationships don’t last.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:58 PM
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I can’t say for certain but I think I’d be open to it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:39 PM
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Many universities actually have affirmative action for men since so many more women are going to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:34 PM
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This is my dream man. I’d be ecstatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:47 PM
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That’s actually a really informative video. Thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:51 AM
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I think a small part of it has to do with biological differences. (Men tend to be slightly better at mathematical reasoning and women tend to be slightly better at language) But a lot of it is socially conditioned. Coding and computing used to be considered woman’s work, and unsurprisingly these jobs were less prestigious and well paid. https://www.history.com/articles/coding-used-to-be-a-womans-job-so-it-was-paid-less-and-undervalued
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:25 AM
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I don’t know what about advocating for equality seems to insinuate that to you. Now women don’t have choice and still have to take responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:15 AM
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It’s not your reproductive rights if it’s not your body
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:36 AM
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I know a female doctor who won’t leave her unhappy marriage because she’d have to pay alimony for life. No one is forcing you to marry a woman who makes less money than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:34 AM
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Feminism seeks equality. If that feels like being disadvantaged to you, then you are aware you have privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:18 AM
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Oh believe me, plenty of them absolutely despise women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:15 AM
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Most redditors have no clue what a woman in her 30s looks like and it’s hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 03:06 PM
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Ever heard of Brock Turner?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:48 AM
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You should get into creative writing. That’s a fascinating fantasy world you’ve written.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:02 AM
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This is a really well thought out response. It also explains why both genders think they have it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:58 PM
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This is a really well thought out response. It also explains why both genders think they have it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:58 PM
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Easy mode is just being hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:51 PM
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Most doctors refuse to sterilize young woman because they believe we might change our mind and want kids later. I haven’t heard of the same happening to young men but I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:43 AM
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I think most people would prefer to be approached by people they find attractive. That doesn’t mean I’ll be offended if a guy I find unattractive shoots his shot. Unless it’s by some dude old enough to be my dad, I’m usually flattered by the gesture.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:02 AM
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Sure, as long as he isn’t making it immediately sexual and is willing to take no for an answer if I’m not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:14 AM
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What kind of “traditional” man are these women seeking and how do you know that they’re looking for one?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:10 AM
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Typically the women who want traditional men are more traditional women. You won’t see as many alternative or non-traditional women seeking these kinds of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:51 AM
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Then please find those girls on dating apps instead of harassing the majority of young women who are not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:39 AM
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22 year old woman here. Most of us young women hate it when much older dudes hit on us. I don’t care if you’re a billionaire, it’s weird and gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:53 AM
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Sperm quality also decreases as men age but the red pill doesn’t seem to care about that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:52 AM
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And all the women who do work fulfilling careers? Most women I know actually like their jobs and would hate to just sit around at home all day taking care of kids. Kicking women out of the workforce would drastically decrease its efficiency as well, because then the jobs occupied by qualified women would be given to less qualified men (since qualified men already have similar jobs)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:50 AM
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Body shaming is gross no matter what gender is doing it. I don’t like how transactional they talk about relationships. The “high value” man and woman stuff is really weird. So weird that I dedicated my flair to making fun of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:11 AM
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Saying that women lack personality and responsibility is pretty clear cut misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:12 AM
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As red pill men love to tell women: choose better
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:51 PM
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I would bet my life that the vast majority of women would not find it a turn off if their man cried over a parent’s death. Most women aren’t heartless sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:48 PM
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Most couples both have jobs. It’s becoming less and less common for a man to be the sole breadwinner, you can thank feminism for that. The world would also fall apart in a day if women went on strike.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:41 PM
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Criticizing misandry while simultaneously spewing out misogyny is certainly a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:38 PM
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There are no flawless men period. People have flaws. So yes, those single and childless men also have flaws. You might just not recognize them as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:54 PM
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American women have died because of the new draconian abortion restrictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:46 PM
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He wasn’t saying that. He was clearly saying that the way OP talked about those women is really gross and shows that he views them as commodities more than people. Huge difference
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:46 PM
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I wasn’t starting a new discussion. I’m checking to see if you are actually willing to debate on good faith. If you expect me to take your word for something, but can’t give me the same courtesy then I don’t see a point in wasting my time with you. I have no clue where you even got your second conclusion. I’m not claiming all women are like me. You’re claiming that women are a certain way based on your personal experience, I was doing the same thing. Of course when I do it, you think it’s solips…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:37 PM
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Here’s one I haven’t seen The US criminal justice system is completely broken. Thousands of people are in prison, because of non-violent drug offenses. Obviously this isn’t exclusively a male issue, but most prisoners are men so I’d say it affects them more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:53 PM
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I just want to ask then. Would you believe me if I told you that most men react badly to being rejected? Also you people love the word solipsism, it’s like the new red pill dogwhistle at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:47 PM
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I’m sorry that happened to you. That woman was clearly unhinged. I’m glad that she faced serious consequences for assaulting you. Contrary to popular opinion, most women have been rejected before. It’s a part of life and well adjusted people accept it and move on. Some women react badly to being rejected, but so do some men. I’ve personally dealt with pushy men who didn’t want to take no for an answer. I’m not going to say all men are like that. It’s not a gender issue, it’s an entitlement issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:27 PM
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That’s a great definition for the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:22 PM
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I didn’t say it never happens, just that it’s not as common as it’s made out to be. I’ve been rejected before. It’s no big deal. Normal people don’t freak out about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:21 PM
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I’ve never seen a woman react like that to rejection in person and I certainly wouldn’t stay friends with someone who did. I don’t think most women would.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:59 PM
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Women are more likely to suffer from body dysmorphia and eating disorders actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:07 PM
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You’re asking me why I can’t do my own research study? Maybe because you need funding for that kind of stuff and I’m an undergrad. Social science funding isn’t easy to come by at my school. If you want I would be happy to explain sampling to you. The most important principle of sampling is that you want your sample to reflect the overall population you are studying. I hope I don’t have to explain to you why the study you linked doesn’t adhere to that principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:44 AM
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Maybe it’s because I go to college bars and there are typically more women than men so the dynamic is different. I get approached fairly often but it’s usually by older dudes or guy that I don’t personally find attractive. The hot guys don’t have to approach anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:41 AM
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Maybe it’s not as easy as you think. Most hot guys in real life have girlfriends already. It’s easier to go through a pool that’s all single. Some women, just like some men, are also uncomfortable approaching men romantically. Dating apps alleviate that particular anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:57 AM
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You just linked a journal, not a study. If there are so many other studies proving your point then maybe you should post one that’s more generalizable. I really don’t care what kind of journal your study was published in. Anyone who’s ever taken an entry stats class can tell you that the sample they surveyed is not representative of the female population and can’t be generalized. The size isn’t even the biggest problem. The sample lacks diversity in age, education, and nationality. If they wante…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:54 AM
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They really aren’t buddy. The women who don’t date assholes don’t complain about it so you only hear from the ones who do. It’s called survivorship bias
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:48 AM
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If there’s a guy that’s physically attractive and has a personality that meshes well with mine, I’ll fall for him at the start. It wouldn’t be after months or years of friendship, that I suddenly realize I like him. I also don’t choose my friends based on whether I’m physically attracted to them so I have plenty of guy friends that just aren’t my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:20 PM
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Different women want different things. Contrary to popular opinion in these parts, women aren’t a hive-mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:14 PM
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The study looks at 128 female British undergraduate students. This is an extremely narrow sample and cannot reliably be generalized to the entire female population any more than it could be generalized to all British people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:08 PM
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And all of these conjectures are backed up I presume?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:25 PM
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Not in my experience, I’ve seen plenty of average men be forgiven over and over again
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:46 PM
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You must live on a different planet. I constantly see women making excuses for guys they’ve gone out with who screwed up pretty bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 07:07 AM
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Either this is satire or you’re beyond reason. Have a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:43 PM
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Women are literally having their reproductive rights stripped from them. If you think that is privileged, I envy you. Men occupy the vast majority of positions of power and influence, not white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:28 PM
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Homie they don’t even take accusations from women seriously half the time. Or institutions were created by men for men. The reason male victims aren’t treated seriously is that traditional gender roles see masculinity as incompatible with victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:10 PM
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If you think the police always do what they are supposed to do, you’re the one living in fantasy land
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:47 PM
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Although most women are raped by someone they know, some are raped by complete strangers. Of course those women wouldn’t know the name of their attacker. And even if they did know, telling people, especially people who aren’t sympathetic, could put them in danger. Rape is also notoriously hard to prove. How would a woman prove she was raped years ago for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:44 PM
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I’m genuinely really sorry you had to go through that. You were failed by the person who was always supposed to have your best interests at heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:16 PM
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I literally said some women will choose a degenerate hot guy and some won’t. All you have to do to see that’s true is go outside. Do you really need a scientific article to prove that not every woman prefers the exact same type of man?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:14 PM
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Some women will. Some women won’t. I can’t speak for every woman out there but I and a lot of my friends are turned off by fuckboy behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:38 PM
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That literally is the point. People here are assuming that an average guy will treat women better with no evidence. If a woman has the choice between a hot guy and an average guy where she doesn’t know the morals of either, she’s probably going to choose the hot guy. It isn’t rocket science
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:24 PM
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Those men are more likely to partake in hookup culture which is focused almost exclusively on looks. It isn’t really a mystery why they have more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:15 PM
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That’s how pretty privilege works. I’m a woman who’s had a glow up and it’s the exact same with a lot of dudes. Women aren’t any more shallow than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:13 PM
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But there’s no indication he is more likely to treat you with respect
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:10 PM
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And then everyone clapped
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:07 PM
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If this is an abuse case, I’m pretty sure substantial evidence is required for such a ruling. Mistrials exist but I doubt they are the default
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:09 AM
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It just doesn’t work out most of the time. Often the conversations are boring and dry up fast if they even respond at all. Sometimes the guys just want a hookup which I’m not into. I’ve gone on a few dates and typically either he or I just wasn’t feeling it. I’ve even had a guy I matched with tell me he just became official with someone so that ended that I don’t have anything against these dudes, I’m just showing the variety of reasons matches don’t guarantee anything. And this is just concerni…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:39 PM
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The kind of woman you’re describing is literally one in a million. Most women don’t make any money off of social media or desperate men. Even most Only Fans girls don’t make much money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:49 AM
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I do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:34 PM
1

Two wrongs don’t make a right. Plenty of women don’t body shame men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:15 AM
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My flair is a joke. I’m fairly attractive so getting dates isn’t tough but I’m a feminist and don’t want kids so I’m low value according to the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:30 PM
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More often than not I’m the one who has to keep the conversation going on dates because a lot of dudes don’t know how to talk to people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:49 PM
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Crazy how many low value men are in relationships then
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:44 PM
3

Historically, managing household expenditures and finances was often considered the wife’s work
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 02:09 AM
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Does a properly raised man also value housework?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:20 AM
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If that’s what it took to keep my rights I’d gladly sign up. Since we’re playing comparisons I’d much rather sign up for the draft than have my reproductive rights stripped away. Both men and women have certain privileges. Instead of blaming women for something they didn’t create, why not take action to oppose the draft?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:15 AM
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If a man doesn’t like you, you’ll probably know it. If a woman doesn’t like you, she could be all smiles to your face and then shit talk you to everyone in the vicinity. TLDR: watch Mean Girls
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:50 AM
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Thank you but I really don’t think what I did was anything exceptional. I’ve struggled with my mental health problems being misunderstood and demonized for my entire life. I think in that position it’s only natural to want to make others who are struggling feel understood and supported. It’s definitely a societal failing that so many men feel as though they can’t express vulnerability, but I don’t think it’s exclusively women putting men in this box. I’ve had some guys tell me that they couldn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:39 AM
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You probably won’t believe me but one dude I was talking to opened up about his social anxiety to me and it made me more into him because I saw him as authentic and we were able to connect over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:05 PM
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Yeah that’s not true buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:03 AM
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You’re beyond reason. It’s already difficult enough to prove a rape charge is true, it’s far more difficult to prove it’s false. A good percentage of women who are raped already fear coming forward because of how they will be treated. I’ve heard horror stories from people I know in real life. If they think there’s a chance that they’ll be locked away for good if they don’t have enough proof, that absolutely will discourage women from coming forward. I do think people who are 100% proven to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:57 AM
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Do you seriously believe someone should serve exponentially more time for a false accusation than for actually raping someone? Am I hearing that right? Because what that will do is prevent women who actually have been assaulted from coming forward because they may not have enough proof. Rape is already a very underreported crime and it’s hard to prove. Also you still haven’t addressed the sexual aspect to unwanted touching. I don’t know if you’re just being deliberately obtuse or what. If you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 07:08 PM
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Of course you are conveniently ignoring that I said unconsensual SEXUAL touching. Touching someone’s arm is very different from touching their boob or ass. But even then a lot of woman give dudes the benefit of the doubt and let it go as to not cause a scene. Because many times politely asking a dude not to touch you is enough to make him angry. I’ve made excuses for creepy men who touched me without my consent and I guarantee you that is more common than a woman flipping out and trying to “make…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:35 PM
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At least four innocent women have died directly because of this policy. That may not seem like a lot to you but it shows that this policy was made to the detriment of women’s health. As for the illegal immigrant thing, the victimization of women by criminals is another example of misogyny. The amount of women who are sexually assaulted and murdered is a systemic issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:17 PM
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The fact that misogyny exists in the west doesn’t take away from the fact that it’s significantly worse in many other parts of the world. Women in the US are having their reproductive rights revoked and women have died because doctors refused to remove dying fetuses because of antiabortion laws. Find a woman who hasn’t been sexually harassed. I don’t know a single one who hasn’t faced it. I’ll even go with the more severe route of unconsensual sexual touching. It’s still a reality that almost al…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 07:40 AM
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It’s almost like misogyny is a spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 01:17 AM
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Depends on if you’d hold men to the same standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:18 AM
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Seconding that. It makes things a lot less complicated for both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:10 AM
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Thanks for not thinking we’re worthless sluts like many guys here but putting women on a pedestal isn’t healthy. We’re normal human beings, but unfortunately that means that there are some shitty women out there who might take advantage of you. Good luck out there and stay strong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:41 PM
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That isn’t a no
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:24 PM
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I love dresses and skirts as much as anyone but no woman is going to wear them everyday in fucking January
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:00 AM
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Did a fat woman break your heart?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:56 AM
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Thanks for telling us dumb women how we all feel. I had no clue
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:50 AM
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I agree with a good amount of what you said but are you seriously insinuating that a person having opposite sex friends is a red flag? Is it not more of a red flag to not consider half of the population for friendship because of their genitals?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:47 AM
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You don’t have to be the exact same age obviously. The problem is when one party is old enough to be the other’s parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:51 PM
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I have spent years with both groups. Neither one is more mentally ill than the other. Liberals are more open about their mental illness but conservatives are more likely to blow up from holding their feelings in and end up doing something crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 08:44 PM
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I saw the study. The problem with its findings is that it didn’t ask what percentage of single women were in a committed relationship in the past 12 months as far as I could see. It asked if they were currently single and about their sexual history in the past 12 months. These time periods aren’t the same so mapping them onto each other is going to lead to inaccurate data.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 08:39 PM
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Ok it’s easier for women to get likes on dating apps and they tend to get more sexual attention. Now what? Most of the things feminism has strongly advocated for have been equal human rights for women and the right of women to not have to endure harassment. Dating isn’t really a human right and there’s no clear way to fix the system that doesn’t include taking away someone’s rights. Maybe advocate for more third spaces idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 08:34 PM
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Most single women don’t participate in hookup culture. It’s a much smaller percentage than the people on here make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 08:23 PM
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If you want to date younger women then go on a dating app and set your target age as younger, but hitting on much younger women in public is weird and deserves to be treated as such. I also think an older woman hitting on a college guy is weird so it’s not just the old man young woman thing that weirds me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:34 PM
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I think this kind of counts but I have no hard feelings towards the guy Back in high school, there was this guy that I met in my school’s chess club that was on the spectrum. He was really smart and funny and we actually developed feelings for each other and were sort of unofficially dating. The problem is that he was an unrepentant asshole to basically everyone else and thought he was smarter than anyone he came across (the kind of guy that uses brutal honesty as justification for shitting on p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:31 PM
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I’d politely turn down a man my age who hits on me. A man the same age as my father hitting on me isn’t flattering, it’s disgusting and he deserves to be called out for it. Young women who are less sexually active are more likely to want a younger guy who also has less experience so we can grow and learn together. I can take care of myself as can an increasing percentage of women. Flashing money is going to work on an ever shrinking amount of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 07:42 AM
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That is such a load of bs and you know it. They’d have better luck with women their age but they don’t care because they think younger women are hotter and more desirable. But being hit on because we’re young, isn’t flattering. We know that we’ll also get older and the same old dudes who hit on us now will lose interest once we hit 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 07:39 AM
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Most naturally thin women don’t have large boobs and butts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 07:36 AM
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And men. Practically anytime a picture of a flat chested woman is posted on the internet, at least one man says she’s actually a dude. I know it’s not all or even most men, but it’s still hurtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:58 PM
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I've seen it multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:42 PM
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There’s a lot of other body shapes besides “large” and “hourglass”. So many men say that all women need to do is not be fat and then turn around and say flat chested women must be men since they have no curves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:27 PM
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Unfortunately for women, a “conventionally attractive” body includes an hourglass figure which most women don’t have naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:44 PM
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Because the vast majority of us young women who don’t sleep around don’t want older guys and are uncomfortable when they hit on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:31 PM
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I’d offer emotional support and a listening ear but no way in hell would I have sex with him. I’m not losing my virginity for pity sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:29 PM
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Obviously any kind of slavery is absolutely horrible but sexual slavery is a special kind of evil. The most sensitive parts of your body are routinely brutally violated for some pervert’s sick enjoyment. There’s also the real chance you get pregnant and are either forced to carry your rapist’s child or are given a likely unsafe abortion. Forced labor is cruel and dehumanizing but it isn’t as intimate and personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:12 PM
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The infantilization of women sucks for everybody. It means that male victims aren’t taken as seriously and women are viewed as innately less capable in many situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:03 PM
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I definitely think that’s a regional/ideological thing. I’ve lived in both liberal and conservative areas and liberal women are far less likely to put up with those kind of beliefs/behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:55 PM
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Conservative women tend to have a lot of internalized misogyny and are more likely to end up with misogynistic, abusive men. I lived in a deep red county and that 100% checks out. Just reading your description of that man made me feel a visceral disgust and I would hope it would do so for most women but some people have strange attractions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:15 AM
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How do you know that these women don’t view you as a human? Most people don’t notice me either. Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:53 PM
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So you’re just going to ignore the thousands of brave Ukrainian women who volunteered to join the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:24 PM
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So now you’re moving the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:21 PM
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You talked about being noticed? How else are you not noticed?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:16 PM
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A woman not reciprocating your romantic feelings isn’t dehumanization. Doesn’t quite bring a tear to my eye I’m afraid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 08:39 PM
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This is off topic but your curls are gorgeous and so well defined. What products do you use?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:10 AM
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Got any more buzzwords to throw out?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:32 PM
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Most 19-21 BMI women don’t have large breasts/butts. That range is barely above medically underweight. The odds of finding a woman with all of those characteristics naturally is extremely slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:21 PM
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The whole alpha male thing was based on studies of wolves which were later revealed to be incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:11 PM
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If you approach women respectfully in social settings, it’s very unlikely they’ll think you’re a creep, and if they do, it’s their problem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:15 PM
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Maybe you just don’t have very good friends. I’ve had multiple male friends who told me how comfortable they were venting and being themselves around me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:54 PM
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I don’t. I’ve never dated a fuckboy or “chad”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:33 AM
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Is one of them paying you to say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:31 AM
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If a guy presents a good personality, then people will probably think he has a good personality. That doesn’t mean women don’t care about personality. I don’t think anyone can magically sniff out all assholes. Some are much better at hiding their assholery than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:29 AM
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Most CEOs are from wealthy backgrounds. It’s a lot easier to start a company when you have easy access to loans/financial backing and a wealthy/influential social circle. There are plenty of talented and hard working people from poor backgrounds but they just don’t have the same opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:13 AM
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Humans of any gender can be selfish. It isn’t a gender issue, but a personality one. This is the same kind of BS the toxic dudes on this subreddit spew all the time but with the genders reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:50 AM
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I sincerely wish MGTOW type guys would actually go their own way and live their best lives instead of just complaining about women’s dating lives
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:44 AM
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Please don’t resort to treating women like trading iPhones as a dating strategy. We’re all human beings and partaking in shitty behavior just makes it more normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:39 AM
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Liars and manipulators are good at attracting women because the whole point of their lying/manipulation is presenting an idealized image. If a guy presents himself as charismatic, kind, passionate, intelligent, and attentive, why wouldn’t many women find his “personality” attractive? Shitty people often get ahead in life. CEOs don’t become CEOs by being generous and fair. Life seems to reward bad people but becoming a bad person to reap the benefits just ensures this cycle will continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:38 AM
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I didn’t give an answer immediately because I have a life and things to do. But my answer is sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:24 AM
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Are you familiar with the medieval era because it definitely does not include the 1800s?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:24 PM
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You heard it here first folks. Men are depressed and suffering because 26 year old hags dare to show their face outside and not dress like nuns.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:17 PM
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Just admit you’re a creep who’s into teenagers at this point. 25 is peak fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:14 PM
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Actual clinical depression isn’t solved by a toxic relationship. I can’t believe I even have to say that. Sex might provide a quick dopamine boost but it won’t fix long term psychological dysfunction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:04 PM
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If she was ranked number 8 with a 2700+ elo, she was clearly comparable to other top players. You don’t get that kind of ranking based on a 1-5 record against top players
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:48 PM
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When the person I’m responding to says women never win, a single outlier is a valid counterargument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:42 PM
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