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| – | The gym is meant to be a safe space not a place for men to try to hit on or date themDamn. Guess that while believe all women thing was bullshit then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 05:40 PM |
| – | The gym is meant to be a safe space not a place for men to try to hit on or date themI mean the videos are definitely real. You’re saying they’re just lying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 05:09 PM |
| 0 | The gym is meant to be a safe space not a place for men to try to hit on or date themTell that to all the videos I’ve seen of women complaining that no one hit on them at the gym in their cute outfits even when they were trying to flirt. Make up your minds ladies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/26 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?What a waste of time then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?Hard disagree. I think anyone behaving like that is obviously not all there mentally. No degree required to determine that. I suppose you’d need a plumber to tell you your toilet was clogged before you’d stop using it? Why did you offer actually being talked to by demons as a potential explanation when you don’t even believe theyre real? You can literally never prove a negative. I suppose you also believe there could be a Flying Spaghetti Monster who created the universe and human life? Ya know,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?And you wouldn’t call deriving enjoyment from that activity and making people uncomfortable in that manner a strong sign of mental illness along with believing you’re in communication with demons? Basically all the other options you have seem like symptoms of mental illness. So now you believe in actual demons? You’re trying to shift the subject. You asked for proof and I gave you a reasoned and logical explanation for my position. Please do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?Gender dysphoria is in fact a mental illness listed in the DSM 5. So just calling something what it isn’t is hate speech to you? Does that apply to everything or only transsexuals? There never really was much of a discussion with you. Have a wonderful day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?I understand perfectly well. But it does depend on how you yourself understand it. If it means social roles or stereotypes historically associated with each sex, then “gender identity” simply tracks conformity to those stereotypes. Declaring oneself the opposite gender is then just preference for the opposite set of stereotypes. Not a new ontological category. If it means an internal, subjective sense of self, it is unfalsifiable private experience. Private experience does not alter gametes, chr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 05:45 PM |
| 0 | Men struggling to date don't deserve free advice from women online.I don’t think anybody is entitled to anything really. You can keep your time and friendship lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?A female is a woman and a male is a man. Gender and sex are the same thing essentially. Just because a man puts on a dress and a wig does not mean he suddenly becomes a woman. Please answer my question about the person who wants to cut off their perfectly healthy arm. Are they in their right mind? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?The question isn’t a dodge. It’s the same logic transsexuals use. They identify as something they are not, and are willing to cut off healthy body parts because of it. You just won’t answer the question because you know it destroys your position. Ok then. Humans are a gonochoric species. Individuals produce either small gametes, sperm, or large gametes, ova. No third gamete type exists. Thus we are binary. Prove me wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?I don’t believe it is “hate speech” to acknowledge reality. But can you define “hate speech” for me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?I didn’t make the claim. The vast overwhelming majority of human history and knowledge states as much. It’s on you to prove it wrong as you disagree with a consensus that has stood the test of time for thousands of years. Sex and gender are the same. Women are females and men are males. You cant even define the difference yourself or at least you refuse to attempt to. You don’t need to engage deeply with the concept. It’s readily apparent. And it isn’t scarcely examined. It’s been examined for t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?There are only two genders. Man and woman. Prove me wrong. Provide your evidence for it. And it classifies transsexuals as mentally ill. Which they are. Any man who wants to cut off his non diseased penis is mentally ill. Would you say that a person with two fully functional and non diseased arms who wants to cut one off because they identify as a one armed person is within their right mind? Please provide the distinction between the two. Because regardless of what you identify as, you’re still … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 03:35 AM |
| 0 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?No, I’m arguing that every time period has its freaks with wrong ideas that should be stigmatized. These “gender diverse” people were always wrong in every time period. It’s not unsupported. Even the DSM5 classifies transsexuals as mentally ill. It’s not unsupported that “gender diverse” people are in fact one gender, man or woman, despite their claims. See all of the science we call biology. There is literally hundreds of years of research and mountains of evidence supporting this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?lol ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?I don’t believe anyone in this conversation is angry. I am certainly quite calm. At no point have I sworn at, insulted, or gone on an all caps rant against anyone taking part in the conversation. Acknowledging truth and reality is not hate. I can accept that others have different idea. It does not make their ideas correct though. There is in fact only one truth. Not my truth and your truth. I also noticed you didn’t even try and contend with my argument. If you are so sure it’s wrong, then prove… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 09:02 PM |
| 5 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?Agreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?Your doctorate doesn’t change the definition of sex. Sex in humans is defined by the type of gamete the reproductive system is organized to produce. Sperm = male, ova = female. There is no third gamete. That is the binary. The Scientific American piece you linked does not claim otherwise. It catalogs developmental variations, DSDs, mosaicism, and gene network complexity in how sex is determined and how secondary traits can vary. Those are real. They do not create additional sexes. Claire Ainswor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?Should be easy for you to answer and explain then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?Biology does not support the existence of more than two sexes in humans. Sociology, anthropology, and psychology suffer from such an extreme replication crisis that they might as well be pseudoscience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 07:23 PM |
| – | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?New* Intersex is not some kind of third gender. They don’t have some third category of gamete. They are in fact the exception that proves the rule. Trans people are literally mentally ill according to the DSM5. I believe they can change their gender as much as I believe the schizophrenic is communicating with aliens and demons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?Romans also knew it was a bunch of lunatics spouting nonsense. A lot of them had people who claimed to be gender diverse. There’s always been freaks, weirdos, and mentally ill people. It just wasn’t adopted and believed by a sizable segment of society until recently. And it doesn’t mean it’s actually true. They were all still either a man or a woman even if they claim to be something else. If I claim to be a cat, am I a cat? If I’m white and I claim to be black, am I black? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?If I get banned for telling the truth so be it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?It is new for it to be a widespread idea. You’ve claimed 3 ancient cultures had examples. What are these examples? What about the thousands of cultures that don’t have examples? I am not from the 70s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 03:14 PM |
| 3 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?Just because we’ve known that there are only two genders for a long time doesn’t make it outdated. We’ve also know the Pythagorean theorem for a long time. Still just as applicable today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 02:20 PM |
| 0 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?There are not traditionally tons of genders. There are two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 01:43 PM |
| 3 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?Because there is no argument to be had | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?Disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?The term non-binary only exists because it is in fact binary. And they are still either a man or woman even if they claim not to be. How can someone be both? That seems completely incoherent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 11:07 PM |
| 6 | Do you think heterosexuality dichotomizes gender?What are genders C and D? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Men need to come up with an alternative to marriage.No. We do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Not having sex is an acceptable outcomeI didn’t and you do not know how quotes work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 04:26 AM |
| – | Not having sex is an acceptable outcomeYeah it kinda went crazy earlier and said it wasn’t posting then posted like 3 times. Thats my bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Not having sex is an acceptable outcomeI never made that deflection. I gave you a direct answer. Just pointed out that women pester men all the time by your definition. I’m also not sure you know how quotes work because I never said that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 10:19 PM |
| – | Q4M: Would you ever pay for a woman’s vanity procedures?Nails and hair sure for my wife I would. Never surgeries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Not having sex is an acceptable outcomeIt wasn’t apparent as you already argued they’re the same scenario. So in your third scenario, he’s just supposed to read her mind or he’s a rapist? He could just be inexperienced and not know she isn’t being super enthusiastic as long as she’s going through the motions. It wouldn’t be rape because she wouldn’t have sex with him in that scenario. She would go to the police who would go arrest him because blackmailing someone into sex under the threat of death is very much illegal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 09:52 PM |
| – | Not having sex is an acceptable outcomeI didn’t have a problem answering the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 09:48 PM |
| – | Not having sex is an acceptable outcomeYou did refuse to answer as that is not what I asked. If someone is mildly annoying you, are you justified to respond with deadly force? Because you are justified to do so if they’re threatening to kill you with a gun. I would say no, you are not justified to use deadly force to stop someone from mildly annoying you as these are vastly different scenarios. I agree that if a man says have sex with me or get shot with a gun pointed at her head, and a woman says yes, she has not consented. There is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Not having sex is an acceptable outcomeYou did refuse to answer as that is not what I asked. If someone is mildly annoying you, are you justified to respond with deadly force? Because you are justified to do so if they’re threatening to kill you with a gun. I would say no, you are not justified to use deadly force to stop someone from mildly annoying you as these are vastly different scenarios. I agree that if a man says have sex with me or get shot with a gun pointed at her head, and a woman says yes, she has not consented. There is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Not having sex is an acceptable outcomeYou did refuse to answer as that is not what I asked. If someone is mildly annoying you, are you justified to respond with deadly force? Because you are justified to do so if they’re threatening to kill you with a gun. I would say no, you are not justified to use deadly force to stop someone from mildly annoying you as these are vastly different scenarios. I agree that if a man says have sex with me or get shot with a gun pointed at her head, and a woman says yes, she has not consented. There is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Not having sex is an acceptable outcome”But you agree that saying yes to avoid a negative consequence does NOT mean it’s consent.” I do not agree to that as it is written. I think that is a far more nuanced discussion than you are making it out to be. The degree of negative consequence is not irrelevant. I know that, because you refused to answer me when I asked if being mildly annoyed justified deadly force against the person annoying you. Of course the degree of negative consequence matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 08:04 PM |
| – | Not having sex is an acceptable outcomeBeing asked a question is not in the same universe of level of consequence as being shot in the head. One involves death and the other involves mild annoyance. Following your line of reasoning, if someone is mildly annoying you, should you be allowed to respond with deadly force? Because you are claiming they’re the same scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 07:46 PM |
| – | Not having sex is an acceptable outcomeOh, then women pester men all the damn time. To see if she changed her mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 07:30 PM |
| – | Not having sex is an acceptable outcomeNo. But that is nowhere near the scenario presented by OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 07:29 PM |
| – | Not having sex is an acceptable outcome“If a man asks a woman to have sex 10 times and the woman says "no" 9 times before finally saying "yes" on the 10th, did she consent?” That was the only question OP asked. The answer is yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 07:28 PM |
| – | Not having sex is an acceptable outcomeOk well, the question in the post was, “did she consent?” Seems like we agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 06:35 PM |
| – | Not having sex is an acceptable outcomeI didn’t. I literally answered you directly. Go back and read what you responded to. Then please define pestering as that was not included in your original question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 06:32 PM |
| – | Not having sex is an acceptable outcomeI agree with everything you said. It in no way means that she didn’t consent though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 06:32 PM |
| – | Not having sex is an acceptable outcomeI wouldn’t personally, no. But that doesn’t change the fact that they consented… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 06:31 PM |
| – | Not having sex is an acceptable outcomeDefine pestering. Because he wanted to have sex with her. Why did she say yes if she didn’t want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 05:21 PM |
| – | Not having sex is an acceptable outcomeYes. She consented on the tenth. How is it not consent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 05:08 PM |
| 7 | Why doesn't the red pill push for expanded views of attractiveness?Men dismiss older women if they want to start a family. Men dismiss trans women because they aren’t attracted to men. Men dismiss disabled women because it will make life and a relationship much more difficult. There are many men who are attracted to fat chicks, myself included. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 04:51 PM |
| – | Women aren't as innocent as the crime stats make you believeSo in other cases where there is a group based on immutable characteristics that is disproportionately committing violent crimes, you would also leap to biology as the explanation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 05:10 PM |
| – | Which women do men (you) like/love more?No you asked, “Which women do men (you) like/love more? Women who give them (you) sex, or women they (you) are in a ltr/marriage with?” The only thing I know in this scenario is some woman gave me sex and another woman was good enough to fall in love with and marry and still have sex with. Obviously I love the one I chose to marry far more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Which women do men (you) like/love more?In this scenario I’m guaranteed to get laid at least once a month with a woman I love otherwise I wouldn’t marry her. Some random woman who just gives me sex at unspecified intervals which could be never isn’t loved at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 06:20 PM |
| 0 | Men are incompatible with long term partnershipThere’s not even a debate to be had here. You are obviously wrong. There are literally billions of men throughout history who have remained loving and committed partners through decades of a marriage that only ended when one partner died. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 12:59 PM |
| 1 | The red pill philosophy loses to a vibrator because a vibrator wont try to take your rights away.What makes you think you should have all the rights listed? Or why anyone should have them? Where do you think rights come from? Also, red pill did not decide who is and isn’t a woman. Biology did that a long time ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:45 PM |
| – | You have to be comfortable with the idea of getting cheated on to be in a relationshipNo you absolutely do not have to be comfortable with it. You can leave because of it at any point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Passport broing should unironically be illegalI disagree entirely. First, certain economic principles can definitely be applied to dating, relationships, and sex. Second, you say these men are exploiting the poor women. Why is it not the beautiful women who are exploiting these otherwise romantically unsuccessful men? How is it imperialism? My understanding is that imperialism is usually not completely voluntary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 05:11 PM |
| 0 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGYes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 04:03 PM |
| 1 | What is the actual evidence that the gender difference in violence/aggression is social and not biological?What exact controls are correct and how did they play into your conclusion that men are biologically more violent than women? I’ll need an exhaustive list of what you think would qualify data as legitimate to be able to get you what you need to be convinced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 07:48 PM |
| – | If women really cannot consent to sex if they've had any amount of alcohol, then women with certain mental conditions cannot consent to sex eitherKC Johnson & Stuart Taylor Jr., The Campus Rape Frenzy: The Attack on Due Process at America’s Universities (Encounter Books, 2017): Book-length analysis of post-2011 federal guidance pressuring universities to adopt victim-centered procedures that sacrificed due process; extensively covers alcohol-related cases where incapacitation standards and low proof burdens led to findings against accused men on thin evidence. Samantha Harris & KC Johnson, “Campus Courts in Court: The Rise in Judicial Inv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 06:01 PM |
| – | What is the actual evidence that the gender difference in violence/aggression is social and not biological?I actually bet we do see it across multiple societies with regard to race. If I can provide you data to back that up, would you admit that outsized crime by blacks across multiple societies points to a pretty major biological factor? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 05:51 PM |
| – | What is the actual evidence that the gender difference in violence/aggression is social and not biological?So then why do you jump straight to biology when talking about men but you provide excuses and confounding factors when it’s race? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 05:30 PM |
| 0 | What is the actual evidence that the gender difference in violence/aggression is social and not biological?Idk I haven’t tried. I was using the same logic as the post I responded to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 05:29 PM |
| – | If women really cannot consent to sex if they've had any amount of alcohol, then women with certain mental conditions cannot consent to sex eitherIt is definitely a mainstream feminist opinion. It’s how most universities and a lot of the judicial system actually operate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 05:22 PM |
| – | If women really cannot consent to sex if they've had any amount of alcohol, then women with certain mental conditions cannot consent to sex eitherI mean if women can’t consent to sex when drunk because they cant understand their actions and potential consequences……then why do we pursue any crime anyone commits while intoxicated? I mean if her judgement is impaired due to alcohol, but mine is as well, then I’m good to have sex with her right? Because I’m also impaired and can’t use my judgement right? The logic of the entire position on being unable to consent or be responsible for your actions while intoxicated is fucking ridiculous. Eith… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 05:21 PM |
| – | What is the actual evidence that the gender difference in violence/aggression is social and not biological?Do you think the huge difference in rates of violence between blacks and whites in America points to a pretty major biological factor as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 05:11 PM |
| 1 | I've come to the conclusion that men shouldn't be doing 50% of chores, they should be doing 80-90%That’s not really an argument. I can just say no they don’t. I’ve offered as much as you have with that statement, which is nothing. They can definitely be in their feminine as a mother but I wouldn’t describe that as carefree. Agreed. Agreed. Agreed. I kind of agree with everything you’ve said except the first point. You’re right. Dumb and loyal women are in fact the best. I’ll do damn near everything for you if you’ll just be loyal and easy to get along with and occasionally think I’m funny an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:36 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Young women despise young men in the context of relationshipsHow are you defining mature? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?How much money we talking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Women have it harder in dating.Oh it must be so difficult to be a pretty girl and just have members of the opposite sex actually approach you and want to take you out on dates and pay for things for you and be willing to provide for your entire life so you never have to work again if you don’t want to. Yeah that sounds way worse than what I got lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 05:40 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men are constantly contradicting themselves when they shame a woman for doing OF or being a porn starJust because they feel like they have no other option doesn’t mean they actually have no other option though. Those are two completely different activities. The penalties for buying a personal use amount of drugs vs dealing drugs are wildly different for a reason. Because they’re two completely different activities with completely different potential consequences. Same as watching porn vs creating it. Two completely different activities with completely different potential consequences. Same as s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 07:27 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men are constantly contradicting themselves when they shame a woman for doing OF or being a porn starI don’t think there are any circumstances where a woman has to willingly become a prostitute or porn star….there are plenty of poor women out there who don’t become prostitutes or pornstars. What specific circumstances are you referring to? It’s not a contradiction. Watching porn vs creating it are two completely different activities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 06:29 PM |
| 2 | How many of you are actively dating? Why or why not?Not actively trying to date. Not on dating apps. Not asking out women in real life. Would never try to find a partner in the cesspool that is Reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?I don’t think women are capable of solving male loneliness or sexual frustration. Obviously I don’t think there should be a “moral obligation” as I don’t even think it’s possible for them to do. Not sure where that morality would even come from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 12:57 PM |
| – | If guys are so into transactional relationships, they’d be better off going to professionals.Ok, good to know. I’m not so sure about that claim. I’ve never spoken with a man with a strong opinion on keeping it illegal honestly. I’ve spoken with several libertarians who are very adamant all voluntary transactions should be legal. Most libertarians I’ve met also just so happen to be men. But I don’t have any sources to cite so I’m not super committed to that position. I think the majority of women would vote against it. The issue is that just because some people get away with a crime does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 07:58 PM |
| – | If guys are so into transactional relationships, they’d be better off going to professionals.Ok you didn’t really answer. Would you support legalizing prostitution nationwide? Well some get away with it. Obviously there are plenty of people who commit crimes and never get caught. But they’re still paying for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Campaigns such as "Nuclear Family Month" are part of a broader effort to promote traditional gender and family roles.I didn’t ask you to explain why. The only question I asked was, can we not have parades of naked dudes sucking and fucking in the streets please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 07:11 PM |
| – | If guys are so into transactional relationships, they’d be better off going to professionals.Yeah that’s not really a feasible solution for all the horny lonely men in America to congregate in one location with a max of a couple dozen courtesans. Would you be in favor of legalizing it nationwide if it came to a vote? Nah the whole point is you’re paying for the sex. Maybe companionship as well, but not without putting 20 toes at the end of the bed. There are plenty of women all around that will be your friend and hangout with you. They just won’t touch your wiener. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 07:09 PM |
| – | If guys are so into transactional relationships, they’d be better off going to professionals.At least in America, that’s illegal outside of a couple very select locations. Maybe you should start a campaign to be the change you want to see in the world. Other than that though, I completely agree with you. Professionals are the only women being honest and upfront. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Campaigns such as "Nuclear Family Month" are part of a broader effort to promote traditional gender and family roles.Society does function best when the norms of conventional gender roles and heterosexual marriage are emphasized. Pride month is annoying as fuck honestly and people are getting sick of it. No one cares if you’re gay. But can we not have parades of naked dudes sucking and fucking in the streets please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Why are you not religious?Do you have proof of a god or multiple gods existence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Why is it so hard to believe some people who genuinely value depth, loyalty, etc?I’m sure they’re out there. I believe it. We probably just really disagree in the percentages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 01:22 PM |
| – | the manosphere tries to hide behind a false veneer of the "us vs them" "bro code" & brotherhood but the most awful asocial people i've met were fellow men.Agreed. I’m fully ready to admit there are some men out there that are horrible people. I’m just not sure why we can’t acknowledge that there are also some women out there that are horrible people. And most importantly, idk why we can’t all agree that most men AND women are decent people who are just trying their best even if they fuck up sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 02:55 AM |
| – | the manosphere tries to hide behind a false veneer of the "us vs them" "bro code" & brotherhood but the most awful asocial people i've met were fellow men.And what exactly are you basing that opinion on? A handful of personal experiences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 09:38 PM |
| – | the manosphere tries to hide behind a false veneer of the "us vs them" "bro code" & brotherhood but the most awful asocial people i've met were fellow men.So you think most women are decent pleasant people. Do you think most men are decent pleasant people? Ask a bunch of divorced guys. There are plenty of women who will do far more than just mild gossip in an attempt to destroy your relationships with your family, friends, and children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Whether you like it or not, dressing revealingly or accentuating features of your sexual body parts would always garner attention to your physical appearance.Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 06:15 PM |
| 4 | No one told men marriage was gonna be a nonstop fuck fest.I agree. There is essentially no benefit to men in getting married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Whether you like it or not, dressing revealingly or accentuating features of your sexual body parts would always garner attention to your physical appearance.You never intended to have a good faith conversation. Have a wonderful day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Whether you like it or not, dressing revealingly or accentuating features of your sexual body parts would always garner attention to your physical appearance.And what do reasonable people agree on in this scenario? Because there actually seems to be a lot of disagreement between reasonable people on all sorts of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Whether you like it or not, dressing revealingly or accentuating features of your sexual body parts would always garner attention to your physical appearance.Finally something thank god. That took forever holy shit. So there is no objectivity and it basically comes down to if a woman perceived it as sexual then it was? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Whether you like it or not, dressing revealingly or accentuating features of your sexual body parts would always garner attention to your physical appearance.This isn’t a relationship. This is a look from a stranger in public. You’re now resulting to personal insults because of your inability to explain your own rationale and logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Whether you like it or not, dressing revealingly or accentuating features of your sexual body parts would always garner attention to your physical appearance.If it’s so obvious then it should be really easy to explain and yet you just refuse to do so. It’s obvious that women don’t have or want an objective standard for these types of things so they can use them to bash men when convenient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Whether you like it or not, dressing revealingly or accentuating features of your sexual body parts would always garner attention to your physical appearance.I have no idea what it is and apparently you don’t either because I’ve asked multiple times at this point and you either cannot or will not explain it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you step in and support a single mom if the reason why she ended up in that situation is a noble, respectable reason?No. Still not my kid. I still won’t ever be her priority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Whether you like it or not, dressing revealingly or accentuating features of your sexual body parts would always garner attention to your physical appearance.What makes it obviously sexual looking? You seem to think it’s very obvious but you can’t describe it at all so it must not be very obvious. Just reread the comments for the questions you haven’t answered. There mostly asking for actual definitions, standards, and explanations that you cannot or will not provide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Whether you like it or not, dressing revealingly or accentuating features of your sexual body parts would always garner attention to your physical appearance.So the women who go at in nothing but a bra and skin tight spandex to the gym are getting upset because a man “sexually” glanced at them for a couple seconds in a mirror? How do they know it was sexual? How do you immediately tell the difference between a sexual glance and just a normal look? I also notice you aren’t actually answering anything I’m asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Whether you like it or not, dressing revealingly or accentuating features of your sexual body parts would always garner attention to your physical appearance.Ok so it’s different. What is the difference between the two looks? How do you know when one crosses into the other? Plenty of women are upset at men for just looking. There was no shortage of tik toks and social media posts where women tried to call guys out for looking at them in the gym or somewhere for literally two seconds. You can be offended all you want but you are just flat out wrong. Plenty of women get upset at men for just looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Whether you like it or not, dressing revealingly or accentuating features of your sexual body parts would always garner attention to your physical appearance.I’m not being disingenuous. I’m trying to understand the actual standard for this and you don’t seem to actually understand it either or there isn’t one and it’s just based on however someone feels at a given moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Whether you like it or not, dressing revealingly or accentuating features of your sexual body parts would always garner attention to your physical appearance.No one is a sexual predator for looking at someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Whether you like it or not, dressing revealingly or accentuating features of your sexual body parts would always garner attention to your physical appearance.Yeah but you can’t even explain how to do that or when it crosses into being a dick territory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Whether you like it or not, dressing revealingly or accentuating features of your sexual body parts would always garner attention to your physical appearance.My point exactly. You can’t even explain it or understand without legal training. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Whether you like it or not, dressing revealingly or accentuating features of your sexual body parts would always garner attention to your physical appearance.And who is this reasonable person they use as a yardstick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 11:20 AM |
| 3 | Whether you like it or not, dressing revealingly or accentuating features of your sexual body parts would always garner attention to your physical appearance.So then as long as they don’t notice it’s fine to look at them as long as you want? Ah, I see the word persistent is used. That indicates continuing an action over a period of time. So how long can you look at someone before it is leering? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 08:21 PM |
| 5 | Whether you like it or not, dressing revealingly or accentuating features of your sexual body parts would always garner attention to your physical appearance.So how long can you look before it becomes a stare? How do you define leering? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 07:08 PM |
| – | Why should women obey average men?Do or don’t. We don’t care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 06:55 PM |
| 1 | If women faced a real safety risk in dating, then their behaviour would represent itWhat is “grey area assault”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 06:52 PM |
| 4 | Whether you like it or not, dressing revealingly or accentuating features of your sexual body parts would always garner attention to your physical appearance.Only place my eyes have ever been was inside my head. Never seen a human with them located on the outside. If you feel uncomfortable with people looking at you then you probably shouldn’t be dressing in provocative ways that will obviously draw attention to you…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 06:26 PM |
| 4 | Love and sex is so tied to individuals that you cannot debate it within a societal contextNo it isn’t. It’s just saying that I think what you’re doing is wrong and my way is better. That’s not saying my will overrides yours. That would only be the case if I was actually trying to force them to do something against their will physically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 05:42 PM |
| 9 | Love and sex is so tied to individuals that you cannot debate it within a societal contextNo. Completely disagree. You can definitely hold an opinion of what people should be doing without advocating force be used to compel them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Straight men aren’t actually straightNever good faith lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Straight men aren’t actually straightlol. You never any intention of a good faith conversation. Starting it off with a lie was a great indicator of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Straight men aren’t actually straightWhat mirror image? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Straight men aren’t actually straightWhat discourse is to be had on something we can’t reference the source material on? And especially when the source material came from someone who doesn’t even believe what they wrote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Straight men aren’t actually straightBecause of the implication. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Straight men aren’t actually straightApparently the mods disagreed with you as they removed your post lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Straight men aren’t actually straightAh. So you don’t even believe your own post. It is in fact just shitposting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Straight men aren’t actually straightIs this a shit post? Obviously straight men are not gay. That would be gay men. Are you straight or gay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 05:31 PM |
| – | If you’re a guy, and you’re fit, well-groomed, well-dressed, have a job and are mentally stable… you’re average. And the faster you understand that, the easier things will be.I’m fine with the logic used in the post. Just apply the same thing to women. If you’re a woman, you’re fit, well groomed, well dressed, have a job, and are mentally stable…you’re average. If you don’t meet those criteria you’re below average. All overweight women, below average. All women who don’t put a lot of time into their hair and makeup, below average. All women with a mental health condition, below average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Men only need sex to assert themselves over women.Humans are a species of animal. Here are some basic examples from biology literature. “Yes, in standard biological classification, humans (Homo sapiens) are animals.  Biologists place humans in the kingdom Animalia (along with all other multicellular, eukaryotic, heterotrophic organisms that typically ingest food and develop from a blastula stage). This is a foundational fact in taxonomy and introductory biology, based on shared traits like lack of cell walls, motility in at least one life stag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Men only need sex to assert themselves over women.You didn’t answer the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Men only need sex to assert themselves over women.Still not sure what your point is. If humans aren’t animals then what are they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 12:55 AM |
| – | Online dating isn’t the problem, the apps and their incentive structures areOk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Online dating isn’t the problem, the apps and their incentive structures areOk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Online dating isn’t the problem, the apps and their incentive structures areOld way did seem to end up with higher marriage rates and higher birth rates so it’s hard to argue with results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Men only need sex to assert themselves over women.So do dogs? They’re still animals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 12:08 AM |
| – | Online dating isn’t the problem, the apps and their incentive structures areThat’s not what I said. I just acknowledged your statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Men only need sex to assert themselves over women.Just because it isn’t a legal defense doesn’t make it not true. I’m not sure what point you’re making? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 12:03 AM |
| – | Online dating isn’t the problem, the apps and their incentive structures areOk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 11:58 PM |
| – | Online dating isn’t the problem, the apps and their incentive structures areOk but just because women don’t want to participate in the old system doesn’t mean it didn’t work better. Which is exactly what I’m saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 09:52 PM |
| – | Online dating isn’t the problem, the apps and their incentive structures areThat’s still only 1 data point on the person though. Just because both people say they’re on the app for the same reason doesn’t make them a good match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Men only need sex to assert themselves over women.We are animals. Why do you think we aren’t? What are we then? We have a lot of brain parts, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 09:26 PM |
| – | Online dating isn’t the problem, the apps and their incentive structures areI am serious. I think it’s a fairly good metric for successful relationships. I guess I don’t understand. How many other variables are there exactly? I am in fact trying to have a good faith conversation. That’s why I’m not talking down to you and acting like you’re a moron. Which seems to be your preferred method. To be clear, is this you attempting a good faith conversation? I would prefer less government. Not more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 09:25 PM |
| – | Online dating isn’t the problem, the apps and their incentive structures areWell, the divorce rates for eharmony were much lower than the overall average so agree to disagree. You’re never going to remove the incentive for a business to turn a profit…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 09:05 PM |
| -1 | Men only need sex to assert themselves over women.Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Men only need sex to assert themselves over women.I mean, I feel like you left out that there was a couple billion years of biology that made a lot of male mammals crave sex…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 08:53 PM |
| – | Online dating isn’t the problem, the apps and their incentive structures areI don’t think anyone argues that meeting a partner online is inherently bad. I think they all argue the same thing you’re saying which is currently, online dating as it exists is a bit broken for most people. They’re designed to maximize engagement. Not get you into a relationship and off the app. It was eharmony or match that actually used to have really good results for getting people into long term relationships. But they also had like a 100-200 item questionnaire that people filled out and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Question for men: if you were a woman, would you genuinely be attracted to a man who gets zero attention from women?I wouldn’t be attracted to men period. If I suddenly became a woman then I’d still be attracted to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 05:43 PM |
| – | Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue?Idc about any of that. I didn’t do any of that to you and I have never done that to any women. So for you to treat me like I have with absolutely zero proof in a day and age where a simple accusation could ruin my entire life…..yeah I’m out dawg. That’s why men view it as a big deal. I may not expect strangers to be nice to me but I also don’t expect them to react in a completely non proportional way to me asking them a basic question or introducing myself. Especially when it could lead to job l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Will you marry a woman like that ?Just out of curiosity. How many genders are there? How many sexes are there? Speaking specifically about humans of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Will you marry a woman like that ?Any proof of that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Will you marry a woman like that ?Absolutely not holy god. Left leaning liberal women are insufferable. Not interested at all in a typical modern feminist. Hates capitalism? What better ideas does she have? No. I’m not waiting weeks. If you’re actually into me then why don’t you want to sleep with me? Clearly it’s not a moral issue for her. Earns how much less? How does she determine which chores are equal to others? What’s the value of each individual chore in this home labor economy? I’m fine with her preferring benevolent sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 05:27 PM |
| 12 | The Same Romantic Approach Is Judged Differently Depending on AttractionRules: Be attractive. Don’t be unattractive. They tell you this on like day one of dating. Can’t believe ya missed the class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 06:00 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: do you find your romantic partner physically attractive?What a completely useless non answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Women have very little to gain from heterosexual sex & relationships and men don't careNever said they have it the same. Just said we can’t alter biology to somehow change it. You haven’t offered any solutions whatsoever. I wouldn’t still be talking to you if I didn’t care. “The idea you could do anything to improve the way women experience romantic relationships is ridiculous and unrealistic. Not a single thing comes to your minds” I think this is the bottom line. You can’t point to anything specific. You don’t even know what would sweeten the pot. I’ve been asking for specifics … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Women have very little to gain from heterosexual sex & relationships and men don't careInteresting deflection. Can you just actually answer what I asked you though? Also, you’re framing this in the most disingenuous way possible. The child is also the woman’s lol. And she also chose to have it. And most women who do this say they love their child more than anything in the world and wouldn’t trade them for any amount of money. Another deflection with no answer. It was meant to be more of a general “you” but I apologize for any confusion. And I agree. That’s why I keep asking you qu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Women have very little to gain from heterosexual sex & relationships and men don't careInteresting. You think men should be spending more money on women? One follow up question. How much do you think it costs me to take a woman out to dinner and a movie? On childcare, what do you mean exactly? Because there is no shortage of very involved fathers. Not sure how we are supposed to speed up your recovery. Like I said, there are simply medical and technological limitations to what we can currently do. If we could just snap our fingers and have you fully recovered, we would. This isn’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 01:51 PM |
| 3 | For women literally the only thing that matters is just be physically attractive and sexually availableKylie Jenner and Alex Cooper? Those are the examples you’re gonna choose? That’s like saying you don’t see any issues with men’s dating because Leonardo DiCaprio and Cristiano Ronaldo have always done just fine lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Women have very little to gain from heterosexual sex & relationships and men don't careI see that you listed pregnancy related concerns and I’m sorry, while men are capable of a lot of stuff, we don’t currently possess the knowledge or technology to completely change biology. Although, many men have worked very hard to make it a far safer experience than it used to be for both mother and child. Are you referring to the orgasm gap you mentioned? Please actually tell the man you’re with how to please you. It can change dramatically from woman to woman. Pretty much all dudes cum the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Women have very little to gain from heterosexual sex & relationships and men don't careSo why don’t you help me and other men be less delusional and actually answer my questions so we can give you what you want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: What would you do if your partner cheated on you? Would you immediately leave them, or would you give them a chance for forgiveness? Do you think there's a gender-based difference in how people react to being cheated on?Leave immediately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Would you leave this woman?No, I am not leaving. Because I don’t want anal anyways and idc that she tried something once and didn’t like it. It would only be a problem if it was something she had a pattern of doing over a period of time potentially with multiple people but now changes the game for me. Like if she always sucked her boyfriend’s dick every morning and did this across her last 5 boyfriends then tells me that she’s giving up blowjobs forever now that she’s with me…..then yeah I’m gonna have an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 05:43 PM |
| -1 | Does your husband get any special treatment (sexually) that your exes didn't have access to? Or do they all get treated equally?I’m sure it is for some. This whole comment chain seems to be completely ignoring the fact that there are indeed women who do enjoy it themselves though. It’s not all just dudes trying to humiliate women. I’ve had a girl ask for it completely unprompted by me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 05:31 PM |
| 6 | Basing off the 80/20 theory- for those of you in the 80% would you rather not have sex or be alone?If those are the only two options then yeah I would much rather not be alone. Even if she doesn’t put out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Women will inevitably change after kids, if you can't understand this just don't have kidsI agree. I’m ok with no longer being her priority once we have kids. The kids will be my priority as well. And whatever has to happen to make sure they are healthy and happy is what we will do. Regardless of if it makes me personally happy or not. What I am not ok with, is literally never having that time where we are each other’s number 1 priority. Especially over some other guys kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 06:43 PM |
| 6 | Women have very little to gain from heterosexual sex & relationships and men don't careSo just to start off, men need to fix all of societies intimacy and reproduction issues……and that’s just the start. Did I understand that correctly? It still won’t be a sweet enough deal after that? What else will we have to do? Can you be more specific? What exact issues do you see with intimacy and reproduction that men need to fix? To answer your question though, no I do not. I actually think women have had some really sweet deals in the past but now they all seem to think it was all terrible… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 09:41 PM |
| 2 | The manospheres biggest lieIt’s not a lie. It’s just only half the story. It will also be terrible for men. As populations are getting older and older while having less and less children, we will not have enough people to care for our elderly. We will not have enough people to maintain the infrastructure that enables modern life. All the young people that work at your favorite bars and restaurants serving you will be gone. These are just a few examples of what a declining population could lead to. So go ahead. Enjoy your … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 07:51 PM |
| 8 | Women have very little to gain from heterosexual sex & relationships and men don't careWhat do you want from us? Honest question. You say we aren’t willing to sweeten the deal. What do you think would sweeten the deal enough to completely counter the growing trend of “fewer women dating, marrying, having children, having sex at all”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather us be unconscious?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Do most men here come from married two parent homes?I can’t answer for most. But for me at least, yes I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 07:42 PM |
| 7 | Would you rather us be unconscious?🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 05:58 PM |
| – | Women sexualizing themselves in the media should never include men.I don’t even know what this is supposed to mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 08:02 PM |
| – | Question for lesbian/bi women of reddit. What was your "EUREKA" moment when you start dating other women did you notice that you finally start understanding mens issues?Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 08:01 PM |
| – | Question for lesbian/bi women of reddit. What was your "EUREKA" moment when you start dating other women did you notice that you finally start understanding mens issues?You either didn’t read or didn’t comprehend my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 08:01 PM |
| – | Women sexualizing themselves in the media should never include men.So just naked people walking around everywhere in public…..you don’t see any potential problems? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 08:00 PM |
| – | Women sexualizing themselves in the media should never include men.Eh there’s plenty that try to police thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 07:57 PM |
| -1 | Question for lesbian/bi women of reddit. What was your "EUREKA" moment when you start dating other women did you notice that you finally start understanding mens issues?A woman who can’t relate to men’s issues?!?! I am Jack’s complete lack of surprise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 07:40 PM |
| -1 | Women sexualizing themselves in the media should never include men.So like when a female politician goes on the house floor and she’s pretty well endowed and apparently it’s pretty chilly on the house floor that day……..its my fault for seeing it and being turned on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Objectification is acted by the viewer, not the viewedAnd you continued to talk about it after the topic changed and only now you have a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Objectification is acted by the viewer, not the viewedActually we are talking about normal looking now. Go reread the comments you’re responding to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Objectification is acted by the viewer, not the viewedOnce again. I’m not talking about just staring at people. You are intentionally mischaracterizing what I am saying yet again. No it’s not. It’s not part of typical manners to ask someone for permission to gaze upon them before starting a conversation. You must be a very strange and very scared person. I wish you the best but you clearly have no intention of engaging in a productive conversation as you ignore half of what I ask and intentionally mischaracterize the rest. Best of luck out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Objectification is acted by the viewer, not the viewedThat’s not what I’m talking about. I never said “stare at strangers” and you are intentionally mischaracterizing what I actually said in an attempt to make it sound like something it’s not and something that I never said. You said you try not to look at anyone. Why? What gives you the right to look at them in the situation you mentioned? You didn’t get their consent so how is it different? Also, you didn’t answer most of what I asked you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Objectification is acted by the viewer, not the viewedWait a minute. This makes no sense. Do you just close your eyes during conversations? Do you just stare at the ground whenever you have to have a human interaction? Where do you look when you’re just walking in like a semi crowded place? Do you begin every conversation by asking for consent to view the other party you’re talking to? Honestly, how do you move through life trying to avoid looking at another person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Objectification is acted by the viewer, not the viewedWhat gives you the right to look at anyone in anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?Ah, well you listed it in the same paragraph that started with “As for dates,”. Sure seemed like you were lumping it into the same category. If they asked, yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?Gets smaller everyday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Objectification is acted by the viewer, not the viewedNo it doesn’t stop her from doing her job. Just stopped her from being as fun to look at while she did it. Call it whatever you want. I just call it preference. Some guys like their woman to show off the goods, some don’t. I would just say wife material and everyone else. There’s plenty of women who aren’t whores but still aren’t wife material for various other reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?For now you can. Ok, but that doesn’t really change my point. I don’t want to post on insta. Having a girlfriend that doesn’t care about it either would be a huge plus. I actually do like to get out of the house a lot. We would go out and do a lot of fun stuff. Just not what people typically refer to as a “date”. Like come on, you listed hanging out with family as an example. I do that all the time but even when I have a gf to bring we do not refer to hanging out with our families as a “date”. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?You didn’t actually read my response did you? “If she is convincing enough that I can’t tell the difference, then yeah I’m bringing her to work holiday parties and to meet my family.” You’re baking in a whole lot of assumptions. Who’s to say it won’t be able to “eat” so it can pass as human? Who’s to say there won’t be standard procedure for getting them on aircraft? We already have IDs for items. Titles, deeds, VINs. Genuinely, think this through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?I might be interested in one once they are convincing enough. It has absolutely nothing to do with making you or any other woman jealous though. Not everything is about you and women. Robot woman wouldn’t need dates. Just happy doing whatever we want together. Robot woman wouldn’t have this psychotic need to make our entire life public and posted on the internet for others to review and judge. If she is convincing enough that I can’t tell the difference, then yeah I’m bringing her to work holida… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Objectification is acted by the viewer, not the viewedObviously incorrect as the entire premise was flawed from the beginning. A Hooters waitress primary function is to be a waitress. She could wear the outfit and be super hot and the guys might like to look at her, but if she isn’t serving food and beer and collecting payments then she will be fired shortly. Second, the waitress at hooters is not just interchangeable. We went to a Twin Peaks (same idea as a hooters but more common here), and when our waitress showed up fully clothed and about 8 mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 06:19 PM |
| 1 | What’s some of the worst and best dating advice you’ve been given?Works great when you’re famous enough and rich enough though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 06:07 PM |
| – | It seems hard for men to do some introspection.Why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 10:44 PM |
| 0 | It seems hard for men to do some introspection.What is the hypocrisy exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 12:23 PM |
| 1 | It seems hard for men to do some introspection.Your last sentence shows how little you comprehend. Have a long list of expectations and requirements, you’re controlling and weird. Very little expectations and open to new experiences, you’re an inexperienced virgin I won’t wast time on. I see both sides of the coin in this sub constantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 06:50 AM |
| 2 | It seems hard for men to do some introspection.I don’t think you know how quotes work. I never said that. But generally speaking, yes. If a girl is attractive to me, easy going, and has a similar sense of humor to me, then I’ll probably be down to at least go on a couple dates and see if we vibe. I’m not sure you’re understanding how much that list actually narrows it down for most men. The vast majority of women fall out of contention for most men based on the minimal criteria I have given you. Of course, we all have different definitions a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 06:40 AM |
| 22 | It seems hard for men to do some introspection.“It’s weird so many guys are desperate for female attention, but they can’t even answer what type of women they want and why they want from them.” Sweet, easy to get along with, enjoys similar humor to me, physically attractive to me. I want this because it makes me happy. I’ve seen long term marriages around where this worked out extremely well for the couples in my own life. All available data says that a happy and well functioning relationship leads to a longer and happier life. Does that ans… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Being wanted is better than being neededThat’s not what OP said though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Being wanted is better than being neededNot all, but like 95%+ of all infrastructure is provided by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Being wanted is better than being neededYeah and when I was in the hospital those female nurses called a male nurse to come move me. I only weighed 200 at the time……not exactly a big ol guy. Either way, it’s still a job where 95%+ of their day isn’t hard physical labor. So why don’t they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 08:21 PM |
| 0 | Being wanted is better than being neededI’m not sure what your point is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Being wanted is better than being neededI literally never said every single individual person needs to get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Being wanted is better than being neededOk? I never said women needed to marry men….. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Women don't chase Chad because women don't experience post-nut clarityYeah, I mean I feel like this is old and common knowledge right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 05:11 PM |
| 0 | Being wanted is better than being neededIt is still provided by men even if they are paid to provide it. They don’t pay as well generally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Being wanted is better than being neededOk it seems we agree. Men and women do in fact need each other. Have a wonderful day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 02:30 PM |
| 0 | Being wanted is better than being neededThey are provided by men. Why don’t women do them then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 02:28 PM |
| -2 | Being wanted is better than being neededPrecisely. At least not near to the extent that it is now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 04:39 AM |
| 0 | Being wanted is better than being neededRight but they also need things like power, roads, roof, and sewers…all of which are provided by men. Regardless of whether they marry or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 04:36 AM |
| -1 | Being wanted is better than being neededOh I think a woman could do my job. My job doesn’t have that much to do with physical labor. It has nothing to do with complication. Mainly physical labor. Most average women pale in comparison to average men when it comes to physical labor. And infrastructure has a whole lot of physical labor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Being wanted is better than being neededOk but you see how that distinction makes it a completely nonsensical statement correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Being wanted is better than being neededOk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 04:00 AM |
| -2 | Being wanted is better than being neededI do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Being wanted is better than being neededI’m sorry but you’re full of shit. • Workforce participation: Before U.S. entry into WWI (around 1914–1917), women made up roughly 20–24% of the total labor force. During the war, their numbers grew modestly (to about 20–25% in manufacturing overall), with temporary gains in some war industries like aircraft (~19% women) or clerical/government roles—but they never approached dominating production.  • “Women’s war work” scale: Women filled some vacated jobs (e.g., railroads, streetcars, munition… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 03:58 AM |
| 0 | Being wanted is better than being neededIt’s only a problem because the initial premise is completely wrong. Women only think they no longer need men. See how long your infrastructure and society lasts without us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 02:50 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?Easy target. Fat men also get made fun of by men and women all the time. As far as your first paragraph, it basically comes down to saying the internet is mean. Like, duh. lol, I’ve called my fat male friends literally every insult you listed as an example of what men don’t call each other. I’ve heard multiple other men do it as well. As far as everything after that, congratulations. You managed to find an asshole in the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think women should change anything when they are not the ones complaining about dating?I don’t think women should change anything. If yall are happy with the current status quo then by all means let it continue. I would say I definitely hear women complain about things in dating that they do in fact have control over. Like the approaching thing for instance. I’ve seen plenty of Tik Toks where a woman is at a club somewhere or even just walking down the street and complaining that no men are approaching them to hit on them. I’ve read multiple articles about singles events actually … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Sex isn't worth the hoops many men jump through to get it.Gentleman, if sex is something you can’t go without and women seem to be driving you insane making your life worse instead of better, just start seeing professionals. It will be far cheaper in the long run and you don’t have to put up with any bullshit to bang them. Just a quick negotiation up front and you’re in the bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menOk, but he’s still in jail in England for a social media post after you lied and said not a single person is in jail for a social media post. Oh really? You’ll have to educate me on that. When did our president get sentenced to 18 months in jail or any jail time for a social media post? You’re talking about people on like visas? Yeah, they can be removed at any time for any reason. They are not citizens….they are guests. You can’t name a single right that men have in your country that women don’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menThat’s a lie. Luke Yarwood. And that’s not even counting the people that are arrested and fined simply for having an opinion that your government doesn’t like. Citizens aren’t removed from the country for posting anything. Only illegal aliens (criminals) are removed. Not sure what your point is on it being written or enforced or whatever. You still haven’t listed any rights that men have in your country that women don’t. Which ones specifically don’t happen to men as often? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menSo not a single person is currently in jail for a social media post in the UK? None of the things you listed are rights or exclusive to women. Men also get raped. Men also get threatened with murder. Men also get stalked. Men also get harassed. Men also get trafficked. Men also suffer domestic abuse. Men do not have a right to an abortion. Try reporting domestic abuse from a woman as a man and see how seriously that is taken. You still haven’t listed any rights that men have in your country that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menExactly. You guys are currently importing the third world as fast as you can it seems and the place is a shithole. You guys put more people in jail for social media posts than like Russia and China and it’s not even close…. I’m still curious though, what rights do men in England have that women in England do not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menAh fair point. If you live in a third world shithole then yeah, rights may not be even. Fair enough and best of luck getting out of there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menOh equal rights movement, ok. In America, what rights do men have that women do not have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easilyOk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 11:41 PM |
| 4 | Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easilyOk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 11:06 PM |
| 8 | Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easilySame reason so many women are fat…. They eat too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 11:05 PM |
| 13 | Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easilyYes. You’ve noticed the double standard. It’s ok when women do it. It’s not ok when men do it. Make fun of a guy for being bald. No ones cares. Make fun of a woman having a bad hair day. You’re a horrible person. Make fun of a guy for his height. No one cares. Make fun of a woman for her weight. You’re a horrible person. Even though the guy has no control over his height and the woman has complete control over her weight. No one cares. Still a double standard. Make fun of a guy cause he has a sm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Men often don’t really know what they’re attracted toI disagree. I think the majority of men know they want these things. They just don’t list them when asked because none of those things are going to be what gets a man to approach a woman because we don’t know if this particular woman possesses any of those qualities yet. Then it basically just comes down to the physical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?That still leaves plenty of room for some female votes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Dating is a numbers game now, and the best way to find a decent partner is to try to get to know as many people as possibleI don’t even know how that’s supposed to be a good faith response to what I asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Women are too willing to lie about their pasts when datingBirds aren’t real lady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Dating is a numbers game now, and the best way to find a decent partner is to try to get to know as many people as possibleThose both sound like turning women away? How is that more efficient than at least giving a bunch a shot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 07:32 PM |
| 5 | In the wake of the global U-turn to conservatism, do you think there is need for course correction in promoting gender equality?There are plenty of men who do childcare and household management… some of them still get left anyways. This an incredibly reductive argument. You don’t think there are any other factors to the divorce rate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Dating is a numbers game now, and the best way to find a decent partner is to try to get to know as many people as possibleWhat methods do you suggest then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 06:15 PM |
| 0 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenI’m not questioning your faith. I’m denying that you’re catholic as they’ve been pretty clear in this topic for a long time now. As far as the original topic, it seems like you were in fact warned that casual sex can have potential consequences. You just decided you disagreed or didn’t like that message, then you found out that it was right and casual sex can indeed have downsides. That was my whole point and I’ve yet to see you make an argument that disproves it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenIf you’re not following the teachings of the catholic church, not repenting for it, and openly rejecting their ideology then yeah. You’re not actually catholic lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenThere are no shortage of jokes on tv about the guy finishing before the woman and just rolling over. I mean I guess no one knows they’re allergic to something before they have a reaction to it? So that was gonna happen regardless the first time you tried it. I said sexual skill has to be learned through experience. Not general knowledge about sex and human relationships. You can pick up a lot of that through collective knowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenOk but that’s still on them and their decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenThen you’re not a catholic cause that’s not how it works lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenIs that how Catholicism works? You just get to pick and choose the bits you like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenSex is a skill that has to be learned. Don’t know what else to tell ya. It’s not a secret and never has been. Kama Sutra dates back as far as the 3rd century. TV and movies also made plenty of jokes and drama about how fast men cum and how selfish they can be in bed and the orgasm gap…often in the same shows. Sensitivities to lube? You didn’t know different people could be allergic to different things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 11:59 PM |
| 3 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenNo, I don’t expect mothers to warn their daughters of the scourge of rotten male bed wenches. The enjoyment of the sex is also not the only listed reason from OP. Mothers are far from the only source of information preaching all sorts of reason to wait. I also don’t see the other side of this argument ever brought up by women. You were also a young and inexperienced teenager at the time. You really think you were putting on a pornstar level performance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenEh as far as most religions that preach celibacy until marriage the expectation is on both parties. I was just perusing some bible verses on it and they all seem to apply to men and women both. I don’t hear about any churches telling all the women to be virgins and for the men to go out and spread their seed… if the women are supposed to be virgins…then who are the men supposed to be having sex with? This is just flat out wrong. There are multiple reasons given for why men and women both should … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenComparing which two societies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenI’m not really questioning why women engage in this behavior. I already said obviously they enjoy it enough to outweigh the potential negative consequences. Drinking doesn’t negate any of this. If going out and getting drunk enough to hook up with random guys is something you aren’t enjoying, then just stop those behaviors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenOk? I’m not sure what your point is. Do you have some disagreement with what I’ve said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenI’m not arguing they don’t. Ok? Women also get raped in extremely sexually permissive societies as well though? Ok. Ok. Ok. I don’t necessarily disagree with any of this and it isn’t what I was arguing. Assuming they are of legal age, women are free to do whatever they want and I have no interest in trying to legislate changing that(only applies to my country, can’t speak for others). I simply have an issue with them seeing the downsides of casual sex and acting like no one warned them or there’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenOk but that has nothing to do with the post 😂. Breaking News: Drunk people are bad at decision making! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenAnd the price of sin without repentance is eternal damnation to hell…..you didn’t see that as a warning? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenI’m a little confused then. What exactly did you disagree with on the comment from me that you originally replied to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenlol ok, you seem really fun to talk to! Have a wonderful day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenWhich part are you confused on specifically? And millions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 07:40 PM |
| 4 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenI disagree. They also taught men to remain pure for their future wives…. In fact they still teach both of those things to this very day and have for thousands of years. Ok. Even if that’s how you perceive it, which many would disagree with, that still doesn’t mean women weren’t told this could have potential negative outcomes so I’m not sure how it’s an argument against my point. Many people have presented casual sex as harmful to women. I’ve seen it done multiple times. They usually get called … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenOk? Thats still on them. You’re responsible for your own actions while intoxicated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenOk, but you don’t get to claim you didn’t know and weren’t warned then. You just chose to ignore it and do what you wanted instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenA lot of them and ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenThen how do you know their methods? Is it because you just spent enough time in the same culture and were able to pick up on some of the lessons they were teaching even if you weren’t directly involved? Congratulations. That’s my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenFrom you OP: “Well I had no idea about this honestly or I'd not of bothered.” You have now completely shifted the goal posts. You went from complaining no one told you to now admitting people were telling you but you didn’t listen because I guess you didn’t like what they were saying or how they were saying it. Seems like we finally agree now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenFrom you OP: “Well I had no idea about this honestly or I'd not of bothered.” You have now completely shifted the goal posts. You went from complaining no one told you to now admitting people were telling you but you didn’t listen because I guess you didn’t like what they were saying or how they were saying it. Seems like we finally agree now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenI gave the exact same amount of proof for my claim they have as you did for your claim they haven’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenFrom OP: “In conclusion women are better off not engaging in casual sex and rejecting male advances for casual sex, rather than deal with male sexual incompetence.” Certain religions have been telling women (and men) that they are better off without casual sex for literally thousands of years. That’s my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 05:31 PM |
| 5 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenI agree. I don’t have any expectations of them other than don’t complain about the consequences of your choices when you were amply warned in the front end. Depends on how you define repressed and taught. Ok. You’re basing that opinion on what? Women did not have to do it. They all chose to. No one made them have all that casual sex and the one night stands. Those were their decisions. I’m not sure where you got the idea that average men at any point history were all just fucking all these women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenYes they have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 05:16 PM |
| 9 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenFrom OP: “In conclusion women are better off not engaging in casual sex and rejecting male advances for casual sex, rather than deal with male sexual incompetence.” Certain religions have been telling women (and men) that they are better off without casual sex for literally thousands of years. That’s my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 05:16 PM |
| 11 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenThis is just not accurate. There are literally decades of media in basically every form warning women about this. Religion has been warning women not to be promiscuous for literally thousands of years. There were plenty of people in the 2000s saying this era of sexual liberation for women was going to come back to haunt them. Most of them were labeled misogynists or controlling by the women they were trying to help and educate. To frame it as women are just now figuring out actions have conseque… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 04:17 PM |
| 10 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenI’m sorry, but we’ve literally had tv shows, movies, books, songs, podcasts, religions, social circles, every form of media basically has been saying stuff like this for decades. Of course, a lot of these people were labeled misogynists or controlling for pointing out that this behavior was in fact bad for the women themselves. It is common knowledge and if you weren’t aware of it then that’s on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 04:10 PM |
| 16 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenlol, they do know. This information isn’t hard to come by. Every woman knows there’s a good chance this random bar hookup isn’t gonna be great in bed and is probably gonna cum fast and probably isn’t gonna call them again and probably is going to be selfish in bed because once again, not intending to ever call them again. There is no shortage on information on this out there and no shortage of other women around them warning about these things. A lot of them still continue to do it anyways. Obvi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?How do you know some of these downvotes aren’t women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 02:56 PM |
| 21 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenI agree. And women know all this, yet they continue to engage in the behavior. If yall don’t like it, then just stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 02:55 PM |
| 6 | BP is sex work positive yet fails to reconcile the fact that sex work is inherently misogynistic and literally objectifies womenSex work does not inherently promote misogyny or objectifying women. A man can hire a male sex worker. No women involved whatsoever. Has nothing to do with misogyny or women at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Oh, well I specifically said this only applies if you’re taking traditional vows which it sounds like you aren’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Well how about you tell us things you would absolutely refuse to compromise on ever? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Oh that’ll vary for everyone. Not yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Ok and what happens when something comes up that neither of you will compromise on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Great. Seems like you’re admitting you’d let your partner decide anything but your values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?It makes complete sense. That’s what you vowed to do if you took traditional marriage vows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Right but, if you took traditional vows, then you stay married even if you aren’t happy… "for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Why would they get divorced if the marriage is benefitting both parties? That doesn’t make sense. That’s great. That’s great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Ok, you’ve flipped the coin. You both still agree and one refuses to abide by it. Now what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?If that’s your opinion then none of this matters. But if you’re in a marriage and took traditional vows then that’s not an option. Of course you shouldn’t be married in the first place if you have different values and principles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?That’s between the two people in the relationship. Gonna be different couple to couple. Well yeah if that’s the way you see it then none of this matters. But if your in a marriage and took traditional vows then that isn’t an option. Same answer as your second point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Both adults. Both people can be the decision maker. Only if they agree or are ok with ending the relationship over it if they don’t. Compromise. Or both do what they want. Or neither options. First and last are only fine if both parties agree to it. Otherwise the relationship can end. If you’re ok with that, then that’s fine. Both can only do what they want if the decisions won’t cause the relationship to end or if they are ok with that option if it does. An easy example is a big career change i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 11:46 PM |
| 0 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Then there’s your answer. If there’s no hierarchy and no decision maker, then when something like this comes up the relationship will end. If you’re ok with that, then more power to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 11:39 PM |
| -1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?The default before a conversation? Did you even read the comment you’re replying to? I literally said you’ve already discussed it and now you have two options. Doesn’t always have to. You have two options. No one said you have to sacrifice anything. You have two options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 07:00 PM |
| -1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Someone has to be a decision maker. When you two disagree on how something should be done, who decides? I’m sure you’re gonna say something along the lines of me and my partner would just talk it out. Ok sure. You guys have talked it out. He still doesn’t see it your way, and you still don’t see it his way. You now have two options. You can either end the relationship and go your separate ways to do individually what you both think is correct. Or you go with the decision of one person and both d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 06:49 PM |
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