Fandangho Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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22	“Single dads of young children are always at fault.” (joke rant incoming) ...and women cannot be evil people for different unprovoked reasons, they always do bad things because men did them first, while when men are evil beings - it's because they just decided that evil is the way. Unlike women, who are driven to it and it's never their fault. Women never leave good men, are cause of bad breakup or are toxic, only men in 98% are like that. But we don't believe in gender essentialism, we only believe that men are naturally evil and women are natura…	/r/EverydayMisandry	29/06/26 11:18 PM
2	Question for men: How many women did you approach in 2026? Where are you from btw, is that Croatian flag?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 07:10 PM
6	"I hate men!" (...but not that man) I left Instagram precisely because of that. It was just too sick. Reddit is bad as well, but at least it has it's niches divided.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/06/26 07:45 AM
7	"I hate men!" (...but not that man) I just right now came from a post "Certified man hater, but not my husband" hate speech drivel. I really don't understand how these people can look at themselves in the mirror. At all.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/06/26 07:43 AM
12	"I hate men!" (...but not that man) It really is about striving for equality. You can't treat two people the exact same way and call it something different. Should we write laws that apply differently to different races and groups? It's really as easy as that, because how else is that fair? If we then try to pass different advantages based on what our ancestors did, we're applying collective punishment based on racism. Also, if we do what these people try to do (two different sets of rules), when do we then achieve equality? When …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/06/26 07:40 AM
0	Is inexperience really that unappealing in men? Haha, everyone has their own picture version of Stacy. But I would argue you should be at least kinda content with that, because these guys at least avoid vapid girls... well, like me. You could say that we're dragged in mud if we like Stacies, but here we're dragged in mud when we try to avoid vapid people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 07:27 PM
1	Is inexperience really that unappealing in men? I would really argue that very little men are like that. I have one friend who's never been with someone, and his mindset is miles away from this. Of course, he's one example, but it really doesn't match the psychology that I know, and I can transpone to that, I had my dry spells as almost all men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 07:25 PM
3	Is inexperience really that unappealing in men? He's got a point. You do sound quite similar to this. "Just stop trying to change the lot you're given, it's hard to change it anyway in your situation, so just accept crossing off one big part of life".	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 07:20 PM
21	Do male victims even exist in the eyes of women? It's been always fascinating to me how many people are just completely determined to use gender as the only variable to categorize people's behavior... you know, instead of the behavior and personal actions themselves. Like for example, seeing people as a good or bad according to their behavior no matter their genitalia. It's almost like golden times of phrenology coming again, just in a different variation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 06:49 PM
5	plz be satire Exactly this.	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/06/26 05:09 PM
2	I think that women highly value confidence and this puts men at a significant dating disadvantage. Okay, but anxiety rates grow from generation to generation, especially in the 21st century, so it does matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 04:08 PM
3	Is Male Violence An "Epidemic?" Exactly, I don't want to be kitchy overcritical, but so many women/feminism oriented subs go on based on nothing but feelings and what other similar women say on the internet. Let us remember how fast 62 million men in rape academy spread.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/06/26 12:33 PM
9	Dear men, what’s a myth about men, that most women still believe? I went over the numbers carefully and it surprised me how small of a chance is for a woman to be raped on the street outaide. It's something like 0.05% over the course of youngish life. I'm not trying to minimize that completely, or say that it's not understandable to be on alert, but it's also fair to say this.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/06/26 08:19 AM
7	Minimising the roles fathers play ON Father's Day Even if there was a day honoring male victims of WW1, they would say '0.1% of women were combat victims of WW1, that was far too much'.	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/06/26 08:09 AM
3	Yes, misandry hurts my feelings. What now? That's like saying that I should understand and overlook when a person of minority steals from me, because I'm white person after all. It all circles back to collective punishment and double standard - all laced with me paying for some random ancestors that I had nothing in common except type of genitalia or skin.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/06/26 02:42 PM
14	Yes, misandry hurts my feelings. What now? Take into account all the cases of men who are driven to suicide either by their spouse, mother, or simply someone who destroyes their lives. I have a few people around me like that and it's no joke.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/06/26 02:36 PM
3	What makes her believe that everyone else has to pay for her meal? This is absolutely ageless meme sticker that you've created here, kudos! I love this	/r/EverydayMisandry	17/06/26 10:24 PM
5	Yes They Do (Swipe) Exactly, the logic they use is one of 'misandry doesn't exist, but if it existed it would be just prejudice, and when a woman kills a guy, it's not sexist, but if it is sexist, it would be okay anyway because women die at much higher rates so boo hoo'. It's the logic of people "when I see man abused by a woman, I won't lift a finger, because they all deserve it anyway by the token of having penis". Instead they could just use their typing fingers to comment "any type of sexism is wrong".	/r/EverydayMisandry	17/06/26 10:04 PM
8	Extreme misandry and discrimination in Pakistani subreddit. I have much sympathy for women in those countries who are not sexists and suffer, I have zero sympathy to these women who are trying to justify misandry and prejudice against men as a whole. There's a vast difference and I can make the distinction between those two groups of people based on their personal actions, not what gender they are. Unlike what they're doing.	/r/MensRights	16/06/26 05:39 PM
10	"Men have oppressed women for centuries." What is exactly the sentence you don't like or a concrete point you're making? Because this is extremely vague criticism, especially when OP's main point is simply about 'we weren't alive 500 years ago and we're not going to be guilty based on nothing but the type of our genitalia".	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/06/26 12:17 AM
8	"Men have oppressed women for centuries." Exactly, I'm 33 and this endless bashing and frankly prejudiced hate bothers me a lot, but I can't even imagine how this endless hate campaign makes a teenage boy feel when growing up under all this. I know I would be definitely affected and it would quite massively compounded on issues (depression, anxiety, self-worth perception) teenagers already have as a part of growing up. Imagine listening to this hate non-stop from 13 to 21 years of age. It's going to be completely counterproductive and w…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/06/26 12:13 AM
25	"Men have oppressed women for centuries." I'm 33 year old man from Czech Republic and I can't imagine visiting Germany and randomly accusing regular Germans in my age that they're responsible for Hitler invading my country and that they should somehow personally feel guilt for that and pay an arbitrary price I feel entitled to. That's completely bizzare, of course, and this is the exact same logic.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/06/26 10:41 PM
3	Plenty of Women Do Things Like This The one where women of feminist and 2X subs overwhelmingly defended, I specifically searched those comment sections 2 weeks ago and was very disappointed by the reaction. Or, more like not surprised by this point, but still.	/r/EverydayMisandry	15/06/26 10:22 PM
2	Some Hits from This Awful Instagram Page That's actually a great point - you have to deduct all the cases where men were involved to find out much more factual rates of matilda.	/r/EverydayMisandry	15/06/26 10:18 PM
–	What do you think about young men feeling abandoned and demonised by left? I hate Trump, but I think it's pretty crucial to point out that one was cable TV during airtime (officially given green light) and the other was secretly grabbed leaked conversation. I hate both, btw.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/26 11:33 PM
0	When it comes to chores, it's not that men won't help out/pull their weight. Women just hate to see men relaxing. Okay, so there's no such thing as excessive amount of cleaning? As in - every additional effort over board is warranted? Because you seem to argue that here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/26 04:33 PM
4	When it comes to chores, it's not that men won't help out/pull their weight. Women just hate to see men relaxing. But there's no objective threshold to determine, there's only one to agree upon between two people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/26 04:29 PM
-3	When it comes to chores, it's not that men won't help out/pull their weight. Women just hate to see men relaxing. This is exactly the core problem - not in doing the dishes or laundry (objectively needed), but in reorganizing kitchen cupboards first thing on Saturday morning or something equivalent to that. Doing stuff that's not exactly crucial or needed, and all before using the weekend... the way weekend should be primarily used.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/26 04:27 PM
–	Misandry Is Real, But It Isn't Comparable to Misogyny Look up definition of misandry in Mirriam Webster or Cambridge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/26 05:36 AM
–	Misandry Is Real, But It Isn't Comparable to Misogyny Go look at any major dictionary misandry definition, like Mirriam Webster, or Cambridge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/26 05:20 AM
–	Misandry Is Real, But It Isn't Comparable to Misogyny Does that work the same way with, for example, hating (or as you say - fearing) black people? Both hatreds are based on crime rates, both use exactly the same arguments, both are demographics defined by immutable biological traits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/26 05:16 AM
1	Misogyny, misandry and why one will always worsen the other beyond just retaliation logic It's sad, but it's true. Nazis made very similar arguments (like poison mushrooms) and there are double standards that are simply incredible in how blatant they are.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/06/26 09:44 PM
2	Misogyny, misandry and why one will always worsen the other beyond just retaliation logic I found this comment 5 months after you wrote it, but this is extremely spot on. You've nailed it.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/06/26 09:29 PM
1	I am glad I found this sub after having to argue against misandrist terms like “all men are rapists” and “men are trash” and saw my comments getting downvoted. All I want is equality Under a post about misandry on subreddit Incel Tears some 14 days ago, which argued that misandry doesn't exist at all, there were many quite sexist comments. All the way down, there were extremely downvoted comments, including mine saying: "Both genders are capable of sexism, if two comparable cases of sexism acts happen, they should be treated equaly." or just statements saying that cases of prejudice and hatred do happen against men, even if in smaller rates. All was downvoted, all of it. Lik…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/06/26 09:13 PM
7	Ironic Misandry: Why Feminists Pretending to Hate Men Isn't Funny (2014) Exactly, it reads like neonazis or everyday racists making jokes about some chosen minority, everyone can estimate quite well what's their rough level of racism. I have many uncles like that.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/06/26 08:10 PM
3	Ironic Misandry: Why Feminists Pretending to Hate Men Isn't Funny (2014) It's exactly the same thing as joking about rape, for example, or more aptly jokes about sexism against women. It's not so funny when they are the target of jokes that are arguably much less severe and are funnier than 'Male tears - hahaha' or 'Kill all men - hahaha', but suddenly it's okay when they do it. Classic stuff indeed.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/06/26 08:07 PM
1	Misandry exists. It must have been all of us currently living men, definitely. I remember voting for it on pan-male gremium last year. It's especially funny considering how popular it is to completely downplay that misandry even exists by feminist circles (hence the title), plus all the comments here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/26 11:33 AM
1	Misandry exists. Spot on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/26 11:24 AM
1	Misandry exists. So it's Uncle Ruffus prejudice, congratulations. That's much better. Notice that sexism/racism is prejudice and hatred against a selected demographic, there's no inherent condition included about it being other group.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/26 11:23 AM
1	Misandry exists. I'm not sure she's able to think in categories, abstraction or immutable vs. mutable traits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/26 11:20 AM
1	Misandry exists. You're doing motte and bailey fallacy, where first it's about decentring men interpreted as misandry, then you move the goalpost to you not seeing it personally, then it being in the mainstream media, then saying that it's okay to be a sexist when you had bad experiences, then you move it to abusing or avoiding men. It's moving goal post step by step with every comment, not analyzing the issue at hand (that you set). If I hated women verbally (for example on Reddi, or in real life) because I had…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/26 11:08 AM
1	Misandry exists. Sorry, I've read over the course of a month all related posts (like 60) and comment sections that you get when you look up the word 'misandry', and there is massive amount of 'misandry doesn't exist' as well liked comments and posts, very often clearly motivated by quite visceral emotions and hatred. Try it yourself, you'll find even worse statesment - like comment with 9000 likes that says male population should be locked up in jail from early age and only after proving that they're safe, they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/26 10:41 AM
18	The media narrative about AI girlfriends and AI boyfriends is opposite "What's funny is that both groups are ultimately doing the same thing: opting out of a dating experience they don't find rewarding. Yet one side is assumed to be making a conscious choice, while the other is assumed to be malfunctioning." that's very spot on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 05:02 PM
3	Misandry is more prevalent than misogyny He posed a valid question about demographic raping another demographic, so to speak. How much more similar can this categorically be? It's exactly the same logic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 08:22 AM
1	The fact that "No you're still centering men!" is such a common feminist response to extreme, intentionally misandrist rants by more radical feminists is a good item of evidence of how ingrained misandry is in feminism overall Yeah, it definitely seems like it, regular inner nirvana of empathy and warmth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 06:59 AM
5	I want to be a feminist, but it feels Alienating This is the answer, you're right.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/06/26 12:20 AM
10	I want to be a feminist, but it feels Alienating Exactly, if the person in question is confronted with something like this, the response is alibism, argument that people like her are fringe and unimportant, or if it's not a famous feminist, you get the ultimate No True Scottsman fallacy.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/06/26 12:18 AM
8	I want to be a feminist, but it feels Alienating Yep, but it makes twisted kind of sense from the perspective of how women like these practice and misuse feminism - you should be a feminist, but if you have any kind of personal take, nuance to express about feminism or objections, you should just keep it to yourself, because criticism is not allowed and the list of arguments is set to stone. Like a herd thinking, or totalist dogma. I think that's quite clear from how remarkably easy it is to be downvoted when you express any kind of polite dif…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/06/26 12:14 AM
2	Post in r/science claims women are better off after their husbands die, comments are as you’d expect. It's unironically an argument a frustrated hormonal 12 year old kid would make! Mom, you forcing me doing the dishes means you're a slaver and I'm slave labor, I'm reporting you to anti-slavery institute! And that kid at least has to do dishes, because his parents have a degree of control over him, which is not exactly the case of marriage.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 06:48 PM
1	"It’s no wonder men feel like they have to prove they are something when all people talk about in the tragedy of war is the death of women and children. Be better, folks. Men’s lives are not expendable. They are someone’s kid too." Wow, I never knew that	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 09:47 AM
1	Men and Women Kill Intimate Partners at Rates Closer Than You Think, Says Ann Silvers Kudos for saying the edit	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 09:43 AM
3	Men and Women Kill Intimate Partners at Rates Closer Than You Think, Says Ann Silvers And it's completely against treating women like responsible adults with an actual personal agency.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 09:26 AM
2	Men and Women Kill Intimate Partners at Rates Closer Than You Think, Says Ann Silvers "These people will dig in their heels so much to defend their hatred it’s not even funny." - this is exactly the saddest thing about it all, because they are almost always willing to die on that hill, just to try to justify why sexism and prejudice is in fact okay, but not when anyone else does it towards them or another group of people. Literal Animal Farm principle by George Orwell.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 09:24 AM
–	Women who call themselves "baddie" are just as cringe, if not more cringe, than men who call themselves "alpha". I never thought about comparing specifically those two expressions, but you're absolutely right, they are just opposite-gender cringe terms trying to elevate yourself and ending up making yourself a borderline caricature with a strong hint of being kitchy. And both are such that you just have to roll your eyes somewhere into another dimension in response.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 08:58 AM
2	How do you manage not to become misanthropic? But can't the woman in question just be a decent human being and specify who she means? If she uses deliberately sexist, most generalized language, how is anyone supposed to recognize if she's a sexist? It takes literally just a few keystrokes to use language like an responsible adult - and this bar of human decency applies to you or me as well. It applies to every person in the world and it's, quite literally, the very least an adult should do - avoiding being unapologetic sexist. But the reali…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 08:51 AM
2	How do you manage not to become misanthropic? Do you remember how around 2017, the narrative was that no man is out of the deep waters? Meaning that 1) every man is a misogynist one way or another 2) you should re-analyze your conscience and if you're in the state of denial 3) saying you're the good one means that you didn't examine yourself enough 4) and lastly, I believe you remember a declaration that is still used (I read it just yesterday) - it's ALL men until it's no men. I'm not making this up, because that's what took me to a very s…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 08:40 AM
1	How do you manage not to become misanthropic? I was able to sympathize where you're coming from to some degree over the course of your several comments, but you lost me here. Gender absolutely relates to race in this, because both are categories of demographic groups of people based on innate biological traits they were born with. I can't stress enough how these are in the same overal category and umbrella - and prejudices absolutely apply for both of them. Being sexist is not really disimilar at all in it's guiding principle than being a r…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 08:31 AM
1	How do you manage not to become misanthropic? Absolutely	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 08:17 AM
3	How do you manage not to become misanthropic? Yep, the capability is not realistically there, but the intention definitely is. I never thought I would say this, but based on what they argue - I really actually think that they would do this given chance.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 08:17 AM
2	How do you manage not to become misanthropic? Absolutely, that's almost word by word what I often point out. I just here in another comment said that these are really similar to Christians of roughly 13-17th century and Nazis logic was the same, almost word by word. Each year I have less and less doubt that given chance and enough power, they would have close to zero restraint about hurting people and just going for unapologetic supremacy - and the logic they use literally points out that they feel that basically anything they do is warrant…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 08:10 AM
2	How do you manage not to become misanthropic? I was there from the start and the mod really did a good job, what a humane empathetic person. Rare humanity.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 07:57 AM
1	How do you manage not to become misanthropic? It reminds me of all of those Catholics in roughly 14th-17th century who were killing and torturing so many people in the name of God. You know, the opposite of what Jesus wanted. Both of these groups are supremely hypocritical and will do absolutely anything to justify it. Any type of mental acrobatics.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 07:52 AM
1	How do you manage not to become misanthropic? That's incredible, I vaguelly heard about this but nothing more detailed	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 07:49 AM
3	How do you manage not to become misanthropic? And when you point out any case of a man who got killed in a romantic relationship, my experience is that I never once got any other response than "this doesn't count as a gender motivated murder". There was always another explanation, but apparently when the victim is a woman, it's femcide every single time without thinking or finding out context.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 07:45 AM
1	How do you manage not to become misanthropic? I did the math some time ago on exactly this, I repeated roughly the process and here it is: Annual rape rate for young women: The rate for women aged 18–34 is approximately 3.7 per 1,000 per year (i.e. ~0.37%) - after age of 35 the rates drop drastically. Out of that, if we single out stranger danger outside rape, the chances per year are something akin to 0.03% reported rates (so let's say 0.1% real rates). And consider that if you avoid dangerous areas at night, it drops even lower. Those are…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 07:39 AM
2	How do you manage not to become misanthropic? They did a good job, yes.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 07:28 AM
1	How do you manage not to become misanthropic? Also, and I'm not kidding, the overwhelming narrative on these subs is that if you're labeling yourself a feminist, openly, you're very much probably a threat, misusing that label with nefarious intentions.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 07:27 AM
1	How do you manage not to become misanthropic? I'm actually contemplating doing the same thing, I do have many "quality" examples and posts. I have to compile it by now, I spent such an enormous inhuman amount of reading time that it deserves to be an integrated compilation of pure prejudiced evil. I almost thought about writing a book, but that's just maybe, more distant future (it would also probably be very reputation destructive, let's face it) Are you in the process, or are you thinking about this like me? It's interesting to meet someo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 07:21 AM
15	I want to be a feminist, but it feels Alienating There are a lot of women on many different subreddits who actively bash men who openly label themselves feminists, it really surprised me. The reasoning is that if you call yourself a feminist, you must have nefarious intentions and are just misusing the cause - like, automatically, without any further context of being a bad person that could point out your ill will. It defaults to a classic: shut up and be a silent supporter that has no own reasoning or individual thinking, nay objections. I re…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 06:10 AM
32	I want to be a feminist, but it feels Alienating ...or at the very least oppose how it's truly and actually practiced in real life debates and actions.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 05:52 AM
20	I want to be a feminist, but it feels Alienating That's a great question, actually. I never did find one. It should be something like 'reasonable non-zero sum feminists' to say it crudely. Positive sum women advocates.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 05:50 AM
5	I want to be a feminist, but it feels Alienating It depends on what we call a baseline, but I would say on average labeling yourself a feminist gets you bonus points perception. But in reality, you don't have to call yourself a feminist to be a good person, as was said, of course.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 05:45 AM
5	I want to be a feminist, but it feels Alienating This is a really sweet comment, thank you for saying this and big respect.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 05:36 AM
6	Ever noticed how the patriarchy is the only system of oppression to backfire on the "oppressor"? Exactly, by that token, men have carte blanche on verbal hatred against women, because it doesn't matter, after all, it's only feelings, it doesn't pass the threshold. Also, if a demographic no. 1 kills (if we're playing this game just for a minute) that means that demographic no. 2 can steal, yes? Like if an Asian criminal beats up me or my neighbor, I can go to a random Chinatown and steal from a random Asian household, yes? That's certainly how basic moral decency and humane fairness works. E…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/06/26 05:55 AM
3	Systemic misandry does exist and kill, and should be taken as seriously as systemic misogyny Also, I presume there are women who do have comparatively hateful attitude towards men and they absolutely can destroy lives of people around them, be it a spouse or anyone else, relying on the fact that women will get more social support than the man in question, thus coming out as a winner. And if there are those feminists who literally doubt that women cannot possibly do that and nothing like that happens, then that's nothing but gender essentialism and misandry.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/06/26 05:14 AM
3	Most men watch porn, most women are creeped out by porn. Isn't this the gender war already? These are the numbers I got, which should answer the question: Between 10% and 15% of self-identified progressive/leftist women—hold the strict view that all pornography is inherently and irredeemably misogynistic. So a minority of a minority (a 10-15% of third of all women - which is about 4%!) The vast majority (85% to 90%) take a nuanced view: they are highly critical of mainstream industry practices, racism, and lack of consent in specific videos, but they support the concept of ethical, con…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/26 04:39 PM
33	Ever noticed how the patriarchy is the only system of oppression to backfire on the "oppressor"? After reading some unhinged amount of misandry debates lately, I'll sum it up thusly: Well, but they cannot be sexists, because women cannot be sexist by definition towards oppressors, so anything they do is automatically okay and verbal hatred is always just venting. And if it's really hardcore sexism, it doesn't matter because men are oppressors and do much worse things, so ultimately they should just take it. Also, men should share their feelings more and be more vulnerable, but they shouldn'…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/06/26 05:59 AM
2	Men are emotionally illiterate violent morons who leech women for emotional support. When you're dating a woman, how does it not make sense that you share with her the most? She's presumably the closest person you have. Jesus.	/r/EverydayMisandry	02/06/26 04:46 AM
3	Holy Overgeneralization That's a great point, when you have a hammer of seeing everything through prism of power-dominance, then everything else in life is a nail.	/r/EverydayMisandry	02/06/26 04:37 AM
3	Holy Overgeneralization Exactly, how can possibly woman love a man and decide what to do with her love life?! She must be a hidden misogynist to participate in patriarchal institution of marriage with this inclination to not subscribe to 4B.	/r/EverydayMisandry	02/06/26 04:35 AM
4	Holy Overgeneralization Absolutely, I noticed that paradox every time a woman disagrees with some feminist in question - she get instantly accused by the feminist woman that she can't just have their own analysis, thinking and conclusion about an issue and politely disagree - everyone who disagrees must be brainwashed or not know what she wants. Which is really, really ironic. And it speaks volumes about what is about women's independence and what is about unified forced narrative with set arguments.	/r/EverydayMisandry	02/06/26 04:31 AM
20	Ignoring male discrimination would boost misogyny by the way. Spot on. See my comment here, I argue the same thing. Based on this logic, they can argue away almost any crime with this twisted logic.	/r/EverydayMisandry	30/05/26 06:30 PM
18	Ignoring male discrimination would boost misogyny by the way. If they think verbal hatred based on prejudice is okay, then people like these should accept, for example, me openly hating on women in their presence. It's only irritating, so I presume this logic applies here? It's like saying that black people kill asian people more, so me being asian means that I can rob random black people on gunpoint or steal from them. Because it's comparatively not really that bad, right? Sick women with zero basic decency or humanity in them. They would be very successf…	/r/EverydayMisandry	30/05/26 06:28 PM
5	Social media represents how people feel insinde How would you try to arrive to conclusion that it represents real life? There are specific types of people like you and me who look for gender discussion, you and leosandlattes and me are sprinkled all over the western world, but it can be that there are 50 other people who don't think about it and don't care, so the ratio is 50:1. How do you know that it's not, eg. 300:1? I know that it sounds extreme, but if 1000 people on this sub congregated out of 8 billion people, it would be not very repr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 05:58 PM
5	Social media represents how people feel insinde I would love this to be actually true in practice (that goes for other branches of feminism too) instead of it being true only in textbook definition of how is feminism supposed to be. I know that people try to 'no true Scottsman' all of it, but that is just ducking the reality with convenient definition maneuvers after the fact. I support feminism in my private life, but just like many other people, I very much struggle to call myself a feminist publicly, because I just don't want to share the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 05:41 PM
–	Let's have the uncomfortable conversation Why do you treat this as a zero sum issue that inherently takes from issues of women? This is a respectfully false dilemma that is presented as 'why does everything has to be about men' when in fact women's issues are talked about and honestly men's issues should be as well. We won't run out of paper if we actually do both, you know. Nobody here argues in black and white absolutes that women should be completely forgotten and men should be 100% of time the topic of conversation. As is stated in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 12:30 PM
–	Let's have the uncomfortable conversation Well, you're being extremely vague here yourself - why do you think these issues exist, now that you mentioned that twice?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 12:17 PM
–	Let's have the uncomfortable conversation Lack of romantic outlet (for lack of better terms) correlates with higher rates of property crime (amongst other types), anti-social behavior, substance abuse, and if that skyrockets, it can have other unknown effects down the line. And I don't think that we should ignore parts of population being unhappy in general, and that applies for women as well. Also, as you can imagine, it fuels voting for people like Trump and it can fuel radical movements of different types, be it religious doctrines o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 12:16 PM
1	Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to audition By this token, no woman should ever argue (or have merit in argument) against social expectations of women, like all the traditional roles women were expected to fulfill in 1945. You're saying that if a sexism happens outside work, there's no validity in trying to lessen that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 09:06 AM
3	Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to audition Jesus Christ, let's just strive for less social expectations across the board. Or you know, we can make instead ad absurdum hyperspiral and assert that we should presume that men are large, ape-shaped jellyfish in general. That seems like an reasonable response to the issue raised, which is by the way indeed applicable to women as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 09:01 AM
1	Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to audition Exactly, thank you for being reasonable here, because that's all there is to it. It's exactly as simple and conceptually straightforward as that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 08:58 AM
2	Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to audition You're equating risk with physical risk as if this was the definition and only type of risk possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 08:54 AM
3	Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to audition That's as if you came to me years ago with 'women should have more equal pay' and I told you "does that mean that you argue paying men nothing and nationalizing what they have in order to transfer to women?". Or as if you told me "I want to be treated with less sexism" and I respondeded with "well, do you want a government to send an employee to every date and relationship that's happening in the country right now in order for them to monitor every act of possible sexism?" No, he doesn't argue f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 08:53 AM
0	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? "When I hate whole half of population, it's fine, I can be sexist"	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 04:50 AM
1	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? Believe it or not, men as women have bad experiences that morph into hatred. Both genders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 04:49 AM
0	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? I didn't realize current men are responsible or alive for past 12 000 years, or that you're so old to remember past bronze age. This is literal collective punishment laced with textbook prejudice and sexism. Blame people who are actually guilty, don't argue for blanket sexism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 04:46 AM
4	You'll never guess which sub this is... Literally all the time, and I mean - it's hard to find counter examples of when that doesn't happen as a consensus amongst certain subs	/r/EverydayMisandry	29/05/26 02:20 AM
10	You'll never guess which sub this is... "kindness to men" - you mean incel misandry, don't you? Kindness to men always takes something from women, it's zero sum only option /s	/r/EverydayMisandry	29/05/26 02:18 AM
3	You'll never guess which sub this is... I sent you DM as well)	/r/EverydayMisandry	29/05/26 02:15 AM
1	For a man to get into a relationship, he has to harass women I would say anxious, uneasy... like having a momentary fear of harassment maybe? When you watch yourself fall into a category of a 'person who made me feel anxious in a certain moment' when you're trying to read the person. I don't know if I can explain that more eloquently, but it's more than about all this and less about mere base annonying feeling for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 02:12 AM
1	For a man to get into a relationship, he has to harass women Sorry, and I mean to say this in a constructive way of disagreeing here, but saying "you should never approach random people" because that's your personal preference... is pretty subjective (like making an inflexible rule for everyone else in the world) and privileged in the sense that not everyone meets their partner at work, which is the most comfortable and painless way to find someone. There are people who categorically say that a person shouldn't try to date someone in work, thus using a pr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 02:07 AM
2	For a man to get into a relationship, he has to harass women This doesn't seem as a good faith argument and it disregards the whole background behind the post. I'll admit OP uses the concept of bothering women very unterchangeably with any sort of fleeting discomfort, so the threshold is extremely sensitive as he sees it, but I get what he means by it and I struggle with the same thing. You seem to be really disregarding how sensitively OP thinks about it, and he did describe it to a very fine detail for it to be clear. You can argue the word 'harass' and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 01:52 AM
1	For a man to get into a relationship, he has to harass women I'm a man and I could have written the exact same post as this, because I think about the same thing with the same dilemma as the OP. The inevitability of it all is pretty bad. I have to remind myself that there are no two ways about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 01:42 AM
9	All feminists are the same and they all oppose Men having basic human rights "Men die horribly, women primary victims" as the UN loves to say.	/r/MensRights	29/05/26 12:38 AM
21	19-year-old guy is victim-blamed and kicked when he's down in a mental health community instead of getting support There are thousand times more humane and kind people here than under that post.	/r/MensRights	28/05/26 08:12 PM
8	19-year-old guy is victim-blamed and kicked when he's down in a mental health community instead of getting support I'll send him a message, definitely.	/r/MensRights	28/05/26 08:07 PM
19	19-year-old guy is victim-blamed and kicked when he's down in a mental health community instead of getting support Exactly. That's my question as well. This is some true Nazi thinking, and I mean really - you can absolutely picture some people in 1930's Germany justify any treatment of Jews. Or communists doing purges. If there was a group of women hurting random men with weapons just to punish men as a demographic, do you think any of these people would object? I really, really don’t think so.	/r/MensRights	28/05/26 07:46 PM
14	19-year-old guy is victim-blamed and kicked when he's down in a mental health community instead of getting support When your only objection is that you're tired hearing one hardcore sexism after another towards yourself by people who supposedly fight for equality and justice and who hate prejudice against themselves. Nothing else.	/r/MensRights	28/05/26 07:42 PM
7	If I'm a husband providing for the family, my bathroom time is non-negotiable You just cherry picked / came up with an extremely pejorative scenario to bash someone for siting on a toilet for 10 minutes more.	/r/MensRights	28/05/26 11:52 AM
4	Feminism would lessen in popularity if men could prove that they like women for anything other than sex "Successful men marry successful women. Educated men marry educated women. Smart men marry smart women. Funny men marry funny women. Those are the real trends." - this is spot on and honestly kinda check mate to the argument that anything else besides look doesn't matter. OP, I'm interested if you can think of a rebuttal to this trend / fact, because from where I'm standing, there is no other explanation. People care about education, socio-economic level, groups. Great comment btw, and that's re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 03:43 AM
4	UN Women lies (again) that no country achieves gender equality for women Wholesome interaction! :D	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/05/26 12:48 AM
19	UN Women lies (again) that no country achieves gender equality for women Coming from the organisation that brought you '10% of journalists dying are women, let's make it our absolute priority'.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/05/26 12:48 AM
2	Why do some feminists, especially on Reddit, so vehemently deny they don't hate men but do nothing to stop and even justify hateful comments of men in their subreddits? Big kudos for saying this! If every woman was like you.... ❤️	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/26 01:47 AM
1	Why do some feminists, especially on Reddit, so vehemently deny they don't hate men but do nothing to stop and even justify hateful comments of men in their subreddits? What a strong nuanced reply, constructive stuff indeed	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/26 01:10 AM
0	Why do some feminists, especially on Reddit, so vehemently deny they don't hate men but do nothing to stop and even justify hateful comments of men in their subreddits? Yes, being actively prejudiced sexist spreading hatred towards a demographic is literally that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/26 01:07 AM
6	I’m speechless My bad, I was just busy watching some guys watching sleep videos, so I couldn't help all those taliban guys in their oppression towards women. Became that's definitely something I do regularly.	/r/EverydayMisandry	26/05/26 04:55 PM
5	Question for men: if you were a woman, would you genuinely be attracted to a man who gets zero attention from women? That was my first thought - I definitely know men who are worthy, yet for various reasons (which could be innocent, like them not actively approaching now) don't get attention from women. It's extremely easy to not get any attention if you're not out there, figuratively or literally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 10:56 AM
1	This may just be one of the worst takes I've ever seen I would write down some 4 paragraph responsible to this as I usually do, but this is such an S-grade platinum gold that I'll leave it to speak for itself and I will watch Monty Python and the Holy Grail instead.	/r/EverydayMisandry	25/05/26 08:07 PM
1	Men have so it so easy Yes, lord commander emperor CEO the great, the bestest ruler of our multiuniverseses. Show us your supremacy! :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 05:48 PM
6	Men have so it so easy Electron microscope?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 05:32 PM
3	What are some blunt statements you yearn to tell fear narrative misandrists? Honestly, how many boys are raised by narcissist and abusive mothers and keep the mental scars all their lives? How many men got their lives destroyed for something that would be considered sexism vice versa? Every murder of a woman is sexist femicide, but as I got told, it never ever happens that a woman destroys a man's life in partnership or otherwise to the point of suicide. And by then, it doesn't matter much if you're ending yourself or other person does that to you, in the end. I hate thi…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/05/26 03:12 PM
3	If you don't disclose what you want sexually before commitment, you have no one to blame but yourself if the woman doesn't like it. It's certainly more risky and unpredictible than vice versa, yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 02:38 PM
0	If you don't disclose what you want sexually before commitment, you have no one to blame but yourself if the woman doesn't like it. I would really say it's majority of women who are very sensitive to being open, from the perspective of a man - you have to consider what you're risking saying and how much of an unexpected ick that can create. I'm no red pill, but this is not as easy as you deem, respectfully. But sure, some women are very open and that's actually great! PS: consider if there's a man and a woman - who's more likely to find it intrusive, ick or inappropriate to talk about sex beforehand?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 02:36 PM
1	If you don't disclose what you want sexually before commitment, you have no one to blame but yourself if the woman doesn't like it. I love this comment, you made my week! Haha, you're spot on with this)	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 02:32 PM
2	I never knew actors, musicians, and politicians were male only professions. I was downvoted when I said that you wouldn't compare (for example) random black people with bears in their level of danger without appropriate and understandable backlash. The woman I responded called me a racist. You can't make this stuff up.	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/05/26 10:42 PM
0	Really? Well, I think it's very misleading to say that responses about sex were not the reasonable topic of the discussion, when she literally said that what was removed from the relationship was a vagina. That was what needed to be compensated. All the other aspects of the said relationship could have been already in place and working.	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/05/26 09:51 PM
3	That Poor Child and Husband Hey, I wrote quite a long comment about exactly this - having some issues myself being raised by mother not very far from her worldview. It takes not very much to create life long issues for your child and it's chilling to read a comment like this. You can imagine his life if this gets applied.	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/05/26 08:13 PM
3	That Poor Child and Husband Chilling is exactly the right word for this.	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/05/26 08:10 PM
3	That Poor Child and Husband Don't worry, I'm handsome, white, tall, blue eyed, used to be a confident little kid, yet my mother made a certain amount of 'applied humility values' effort on me and now I'm close to middle age people pleaser guy with depression and anxiety from when I become teenager until now with some even worse self-destructive traits. And my mother wouldn't post on Reddit intrusive thoughts like these if she was 30 now. I'm sorry if this kid will end up on a road to mental issues. The point is - it doesn'…	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/05/26 08:08 PM
15	"Why is it always such a big deal when a woman says she hates men?" "Why can't I say that I hate hate every Jew around me, because Netanyahu's government treats Palestinians badly". "Why can't I hate black people if I was a victim of criminality by some black people over the course of my life". Or as it would be in my central European country "Why can't I spew hate about the population of gypsies, when I grew up there were instances when they treated me badly". 'Debate' for these people is when they can just spout hatred in unlimited fashion towards the whole ch…	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/05/26 07:44 PM
7	Autistic man mistreated, and a "feminist" group mocked it and muted me for respectful disagreement. "But then again, Ive never particularly gone looking. I will admit that much. Regardless, its famous for the hate cult and thats what it means to me." This is exactly the urban legend way that come up with 62 million men in rape academy without any one minute of verification. Or 'morgues don't hire men because they are necrophiliacs'. The issue is, this a repeating cycle - hearing something about this or that case, instantly believing it despite the lack of verification, which would have been ea…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/05/26 03:15 PM
8	Let’s Apply This to Minority Groups Next Based on their logic, we are all meant to be treated a priori as hero underwater welders, because not every man, but always a man, right? If we are to treat minority as something to be extended to all male population.	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/05/26 02:36 PM
6	Let’s Apply This to Minority Groups Next As was said many times before Nazis used this exact logic (with mushrooms) about Jews and a need to discriminate them. Literal Nazi advertisement.	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/05/26 02:34 PM
2	“I would never call a man unproblematic.” The apparent complete inability for these women to see the stupid crowned irony in calling literally every man ever problematic, yet pivoting right after that Alan Rickman is not problematic is so supremely, pardon my french, idiotic, that it's baffling to me that these people don't see it. It's like them asserting that every number from 5 to 10 is a prime number. Every one of them, I swear!!! (Pssst, except 5 and 7, but how dare you question me you number theory racist, you obviously hate femal…	/r/EverydayMisandry	22/05/26 07:15 PM
5	Women choosing abusive men is a skill issue I would respond to all the things you addressed constructively, but maybe later today. This is the story with young boys being made to apologize for now: https://www.abc.net.au/news/2021-03-25/apology-for-handling-of-sexual-assault-topic-at-assembly/13275492 It's worth a read in these times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 03:52 AM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool N = 2. Precisely two people who you extend indefinitely in order to make a generalization encompassing millions of people. Two people and now everyone is this nearly clone projection of your dates. Just saying, this is pretty small number of people to base this on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 03:24 AM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool That's pretty... ancient Greek tragedy language. Persona non grata obliteration par excellence!	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 03:10 AM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool That used to be me some 7 years ago	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 02:46 AM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool Definitely! At least you're interesting when abusive, that must count for something. As they said in Monty Python - "Dinsdale: cheerful and violent".	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 02:42 AM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool Do you really think approaching someone in the gym is generally welcome?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 02:37 AM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool Club is to get clubbed or trashed, not a date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 02:26 AM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool Honestly, username_6916 said it very spot on. I would be glad to read your answer, unironically. There was this post where a young dad lost his wife, then 3 years gone by, then he organically and respectfully send a message to a babysiter that was in, I think some daycare, who he knew for quite some time and they had a warm relationship, while age similar. Of course women sub completely trashed him for merely sending a message to ask her out without any forced continuation when rejected. He appa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 02:09 AM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool I have a question to you specifically, if you will would humor me: what are the places where you DON'T want to be approached? Given you're RP, I'm interested in your view on this, because that's part of the criticism of men - various women have very variable views on different types of places where they don't want to be bothered, in their words. But men famously can't divine that before approaching someone, so that leaves a bit of conundrum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 01:55 AM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool Ouch 😅	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 01:39 AM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool Oh, so now it's 'not all men'.... this would be an useful concept to use in different conversations as well on gender topics, but as we know, saying that is forbidden when it's time to treat men as bunch of horrible subhumans on subreddits. Sorry for the light dig, but it's ironic that these statistical concepts are apparently not understood when someone says on 2Xchromosome (for example) that 90% of rapists are men doesn't equal that men are largely consisted by rapists. It's all the same then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 01:36 AM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool Spot on!	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 01:23 AM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool Respectfully, you did not get the point of the post here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 01:21 AM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool It's sad and I'm not red pill, but you're right. You can endlessly accomodate yourself to the most strict possible conditions to approach someone, which pretty much renders you staying home, as to not insult anyone - and there certainly are women with very intense fears and conditions to avoid. If you were to take literally anyone and everyone, you would never date. If you're woman, you can accomodate everyone, because you're not the one doing the approaching and there will always be someone eve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 01:18 AM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool I've literally seen posted "leave us be, stop approaching us, we want to be invisible". This is close to verbatim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 01:01 AM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool Okay, but count in all the other ways that men are treated with hostility, painted as perpetrators, lowered on forums and in media, told that they are not needed, not worth, oppressor class, that every man is misogynistic et cetera. Plus as a man you're given almost zero attention (unlike women), only a negative attention. What I'm saying is - take all this and then go approaching women and getting rejected, on top of all that previously listed negative treatment day in and day out. It's not a s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 12:58 AM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool Those are legitimate issues, but there's a massive difference between 1) criticism of a specific behavior which at times also applies to women in different amounts. That's absolutely great, needed and constructive. It induces a conversation where actually an agreement is possible. I've seen such mythical beasts and even though probably suprising for some women, a lot of men are some version of feminist, or they are partial to having empathy to women's predicament in this way or another. It's not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 12:34 AM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool You said it very well. That swing is coming, I don't wish it on reasonable women, but the loudest most hostile women thriving on hatred will be very surprised why their treatment of men wholesale will come to bite them in the ass, so to speak. It's so obvious that I wonder how can this approach be so popular. The double standards and hypocricy is palpable in such a degree that one just really has to shake head at this. They think what they're doing is something that doesn't come back to them, bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 11:56 PM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool You're absolutely right with this, I share your view. That sort of currently trendy approach is doing really a very intense damage, paradoxically to valid causes they aim at. That sort of 'I don't need you people' mixed with hostility only alienates potential allies. In my view, this is an ongoing process and it impacts stuff like elections and the whole societal atmosphere. It's pretty crucial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 11:44 PM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool I wholeheartedly agee with you on everything you said. We really think alike in all this, yep. I also don't think that it's reasonable to expect women to approach, there's no realistic incentive or reason for current established system to dramatically change, it's just wishful thinking - I mentioned that kinda in a theoretical-solution sense, but you're right, that's not in the cards I'm afraid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 11:37 PM
1	Why do you think men outnumber women on dating/hookup apps? I honestly swear to you, I see this on women's subreddits as well just as often, or elsewhere in the wild. I would presume women are not like that if I didn't know better, but on different feminist or 2Xchromosome subs this is used just as often. I'm not saying this now to be contrarian, it's just what I legitimately see.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 11:29 PM
3	I’m a mom and witnessing the way the world treats my 11yo son vs. my daughter changed me forever. I absolutely don't support misandry (that's like calling Mao a capitalist), I've spent past 14 days arguing against it in my current wave of Reddit binge. It's actually about 85% of my time on Reddit, criticizing people being misandrists. It's probably as preposterous as me accusing you of supporting misandry. What I'm saying is that it's pointless or not constructive to do 'in your face' when someone comes here to say 'I get it now'. I certainly respect that you don't share that view, and I agr…	/r/MensRights	21/05/26 11:24 PM
3	I’m a mom and witnessing the way the world treats my 11yo son vs. my daughter changed me forever. I definitely agree with what you said, 100%. It's pretty incredible and honestly just ominous in times when the only acceptable prejudice is blind hate against men, when many women literally use Nazi rhetorics (one poisoned mnm in the bunch of normal mnms).	/r/MensRights	21/05/26 11:12 PM
3	I’m a mom and witnessing the way the world treats my 11yo son vs. my daughter changed me forever. Okay, I'll play the devil's advocate here and say: hand down, don't you think there are guys who go through the same realization only after they got daughter as a first child? There certainly are women specific issues and not every man has such an insight or willingness. We are humans, and it's better to realize that at some point, instead of being trendy man hater as so many women are today, refusing to consider issues of men and that we are actually humans. Do you know what I'm saying?	/r/MensRights	21/05/26 11:09 PM
3	How to not hate women? It's just that we hope you have the same standards for women doing the same, because a lot of people think it's impossible to be sexist towards men in any capacity.	/r/MensRights	21/05/26 10:29 PM
–	When a man say “not all men” he’s seen as complicit and dismissive. When a woman says it, she’s being nuanced Okay, fair enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 10:19 PM
–	When a man say “not all men” he’s seen as complicit and dismissive. When a woman says it, she’s being nuanced Sure, I agree with that. Generalizations and prejudice is always wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 10:16 PM
–	When a man say “not all men” he’s seen as complicit and dismissive. When a woman says it, she’s being nuanced Using very strongly sexist rhetorics towards men (some types of arguments Nazis used against Jews, like mnm's) , instead of calling out constructively a certain bad behavior in question without delving into 'I hate men, they are horribly gender and it's my prerogative to spout that hatred proctively'. It would be really a much better conversation without instantly without prompt saying stuff like, for example, "every man should be locked in jail from his boyhood and only after he proves that he'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 10:15 PM
–	When a man say “not all men” he’s seen as complicit and dismissive. When a woman says it, she’s being nuanced Okay, so let's concentrate on that, instead of what's very often happenning - generalizing men as if raping was this everyday thing that well represents men, it's those generalizations that men mind. It's like trying to express more 'I hate men' than having a conversation about raping as a behavior. Or that some women are part of SA (some do get very handsy, I had date who really physically couldn't keep away from forcing the situation into sex even despite my denial). The thing is, it's very co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 10:05 PM
–	When a man say “not all men” he’s seen as complicit and dismissive. When a woman says it, she’s being nuanced The issue is, very often men saying 'not all men' is, crucially, in response to women brutely generalizing men in the first place, very proctively. That's the thing. When I say this, it's in response to women who came out and made a very tarnishing declaration about men in the broadest sense possible, and there are certainly women who absolutely don't see the difference between calling out a bad behavior and trashing men as if guilty collectively, as a 'men-kind' or 'menfolk', or 'you people sho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 09:56 PM
3	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them And why do women need support from men for "wemenz isshooz"? Respectfully, see how obnoxious this sounds? The answer is because we're in 21st century and demographics are interconnected, you need support from ideally whole of society. This has been a guiding principle for decades now. Sure, you can argue how to implement it, but that's the ideal goal to aim at. And also because just basic decency and empathy. This works vice versa of course! No double standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 09:22 PM
16	How to not hate women? Oh, so when it's hardcore generalizations of men, it's not a problem. It's only problem for you if it's racism, or sexism against women. What a great moral code indeed. Instead of calling out a bad behavior, they hate men, zero attempt to actually target the bad people themselves, to make a distinction. If I had a bad experience with women, can I now hate them all and spout that hatred all over internet? And does that also work with person who was a victim of criminality of black people? Became …	/r/MensRights	21/05/26 05:05 PM
23	How to not hate women? Should I send you a similar post on feminist / misandrist subreddits? Do you know how different answers are there? People here are saying 'dont do this, it's bigotry' and there women respond 'men are inherently horrible people and every man is an evil misogynis, you go girl, make that hatred worth it, it's your prerogative to be a complete unapologetic sexist'. And they say that us here, in this subreddit are the problem. It's pretty incredible, if you compare the comment sections.	/r/MensRights	21/05/26 05:00 PM
1	I Don’t Agree That Men are Invisible to Women. But that's you saying hookups are bad, because you don't personally like them. There are also women who don't share that worldview with you, but who are we to determine who should want what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 07:36 AM
1	I Don’t Agree That Men are Invisible to Women. But how then do you propose that people approach one another? You're saying you won't approach and you don't want to be approached, but that realistically just keeps current state of affairs for men, aka we're the one who are active or nothing ever happens for us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 07:33 AM
1	I Don’t Agree That Men are Invisible to Women. When women reach a certain age, they themselves often point out that they feel invisible to men, they use this exact word, meaning that men don't notice them as someone desirable, be it more random people or someone who they meet more often in some capacity. I feel like this is known to everyone, you can easily find posts about this on Reddit without any prolonged search. This is what is meant by this. I feel like we're trying to do gaslighting dance as if this wasn't a thing, which it certainly…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 07:28 AM
1	Has misandry ruined the left? Animal Farm Feminism truly is a brilliant description!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/05/26 07:56 PM
92	I’m a mom and witnessing the way the world treats my 11yo son vs. my daughter changed me forever. Exactly, you're absolutely spot on with this. It's baffling how these people just want to launch moral crusade in order to launch moral crusade, especially in such way that brings the exact opposite results they want. And then they are so surprised Trump won, how could that possibly happen, right? I remember how Jordan Peterson was a breath of fresh air (however you respect him or not), simply because he stood by boys and men without apology for once. People were so starved of this, so it's no w…	/r/MensRights	19/05/26 12:26 AM
39	I’m a mom and witnessing the way the world treats my 11yo son vs. my daughter changed me forever. Sorry, but people are only human and trying to alienate this woman is not wise or sympathetic in my view. Everyone has their own evolution and if there were people like this doctor is, we would be able to change this social atmosphere much more effectively. It's great that she shared this, and it's insightful for me too as I don't have kids and don't see how it is in schools on the ground. Every person is not perfect, dare I say even you and me. Btw, alienating someone who's 'seen the light' so …	/r/MensRights	19/05/26 12:16 AM
-1	Why do you think men outnumber women on dating/hookup apps? There are men and women who just use this in any combination, I pretty much found out these people usually genuinely don't see the issue with male/female. I stopped suspect them of some inherently hidden incel/femcel tendencies, also because just how many women do the same thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 12:05 AM
6	Why do you think men outnumber women on dating/hookup apps? This is a great sum up. I would also add - because outside of dating apps, women are still approached or even can ask someone out, men almost never will be approached and comparatively, it's just much less stressful to just stay on dating apps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 12:02 AM
3	Why do you think men outnumber women on dating/hookup apps? Fingers crossed, hope to die	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 11:59 PM
24	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool As a man, I attest to this being true. Please don't take this as a personal criticism, it's just my sharing honest experiences and formulated thoughts on this. The other part of the problem beside the OP's is that those women who you mention almost never use good examples, only pretty intense negatives instead. When only bad cases are ever mentioned, it does seem like every step is a move into minefield, especially when there's not often really a consensus what constitutes the positive side of t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 10:54 PM
8	Are men justified in hating women? So we're doing religious collective punishment? That seems rational and fair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 05:30 PM
4	Are men justified in hating women? But that's not the point, which is using past ancestors as a reason to bash current random living people based on the type of genitals is not okay, just as I can't bash current Germans just because Nazis invaded my country decades before I was born. Being cautious is fine, being hateful or applying collective guilt is not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 05:25 PM
–	Women, what are your dating issues? I'm not sure if this is irony or not, I very much don't like misandrists (especially those who otherwise strongly argue against prejudice when it's about someone else), but this is not it, this is not misandry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 05:17 PM
3	“Hey men why don’t you join a group that actively hates you!” Or they say that feminism is also about supporting men, but you as an egalitarian are a misogynist! It's all quite funny.	/r/EverydayMisandry	18/05/26 01:55 PM
2	title 'Condom compliance officer' dibs, the name of my band	/r/EverydayMisandry	18/05/26 01:36 PM
4	Women, that defend feminists as not hateful/misandrist/biassed, have you asked them any questions on reddit? I'll probably get stoned to death, but proctively targeting (with hatred and prejudice) half of population based on what type of genitalia they have is not warranted by either distant ancestors, but also not by bad experiences, with which I do empathize though, absolutely (yes, I do). But there's a very large difference between being cautious or talking about certain type of behavior and being misandrist, prejudiced or sexist. Or for that matter just deliberately using a demographic or ethnicity…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 11:34 AM
1	"Women don't start wars" and other myths. Exactly, I really wonder what would be their plan then, and it's baffling how little they trouble themselves with this 'miniscule' gap of national defense in their opinions. Like really, let's just not defend themselves? Jesus.	/r/MensRights	17/05/26 09:10 PM
1	We need to stop the men vs women framing. It's toxic and pointless. ACattleDog made a great argument, I feel it the same way - there's a massive very near total discrepancy between amount of accusations of men being evil (and very generalizing insult) compared to near zero examples of positive behaviors, or even some mild encouragement with empathy. There are two angles two this, the one is that it often goes into territory of hate of a demographic, not criticism of certain type of behavior. The other, practical one, is that it just completely alienates many peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 08:37 PM
1	We need to stop the men vs women framing. It's toxic and pointless. Don't take this is an attempt to insult you with my wording, but that's pretty chickenshit avoidance of real arguments. Isn't it better to actually address the points made (and there are many of those), instead of just accusing someone of being an AI? So what if he cleaned his points up with better wording if the points are his? I don't get this mode of thinking, because nothing then gets addressed. Just saying, it doesn't feel very constructive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 08:31 PM
1	Would you leave this woman? Getting a smaller penis?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 07:45 PM
4	what? the actual f**k do you mean its not a problem? There was a 2X chromosome post about the first screenshot, I just read the comment section under it few moments ago. You can imagine the open hatred, like an Olympics of "this is why my prejudiced sexism is actually absolutely fine thing to do".	/r/MensRights	17/05/26 04:00 PM
2	The fact that women that they can't show any friendliness to a man because they take even the smallest bit of kindness romantic/sexual attraction, is proof why women vague "hints/signs" are silly. If I used only very overt signs to initiate relationships, I would lose some of them which were really good and valuable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 03:37 PM
5	The fact that women that they can't show any friendliness to a man because they take even the smallest bit of kindness romantic/sexual attraction, is proof why women vague "hints/signs" are silly. By not being able to divine every sign while being judged when mistakes happen? Dare I say I'm not bad at this, but it's definitely not this obvious process you deem it to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 03:31 PM
2	The fact that women that they can't show any friendliness to a man because they take even the smallest bit of kindness romantic/sexual attraction, is proof why women vague "hints/signs" are silly. ...or let's be an adult and either be more clear or accept that mistakes happen when someone is expected based on their gender to be the active one and reliably know which is which all of the times. Isn't that reasonable?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 03:29 PM
1	Why are women upset when a man says "You're not like the other girls", but fine when women do the same to men? No, you just picked one type of definition that excludes men as the targets despite most definitions are made up by the hatred itself as a criterion. It doesn't erase the the hatred online, and the point of this post was the implicit trashing of a group based on their identity, which I feel like is what we're talking about. What good is it to man that there are no power structures (let's say this is true for the sake of the argument), if you're still treated based on hatred or discriminated agai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 03:02 PM
1	Why are women upset when a man says "You're not like the other girls", but fine when women do the same to men? Sorry, but these days, it's absolutely women online who are making the worst, most stubborn generalizations against men as group instead of calling out a certain type of behavior. Kudos to those who don't do it, but plenty do, definitely enough to lead this prejudiced charge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 02:50 PM
1	What is the average female sexual experience like? Now, this is exactly what's confusing to me. I'm a man, there definitely is for me being intimate and caring, part accomplishment or feeling of natural human thrill (rush?), and both of these feelings leading to wanting to do well. I can't imagine otherwise, the same as you. It's puzzling. And there is this trope of a man wanting to bring woman to orgasm, it's just that... it's not that spread after all?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 01:38 PM
1	What is the average female sexual experience like? I don't realize I ever had the feeling that I don't want to go down on someone. This might sound like a sarcastic dig (but isn't), but do you take into account you can choose women to have sex with? If you forced me to have sex with some random woman, then maybe, but that's not the case	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 01:16 PM
1	What is the average female sexual experience like? You really have let yourself go with this comment, haven't you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 01:13 PM
3	What is the average female sexual experience like? I'm picturing him coming home one innocent average day and his mom waiting with a power point presentation with the title 'The Importance of Eating Pussy'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 01:01 PM
1	What is the average female sexual experience like? I love me some debasement, you should try it too, and take up smoking and pastis while you're at it! ❤️	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 12:54 PM
2	When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different things Also, wookies, but I need them as guards on Yavin	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 10:06 AM
1	When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different things About larger half of my friends are gay and twinks are the hot stuff, so it's exactly the opposite - you say they are more at the bottom, but it's exactly the opposite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 10:04 AM
–	It's not a hot take to say that most women (doesn't matter if they conservative or liberal) don't like pegging, feminine men, or bisexual men. Pegging is an entirely separate dynamic from femininity or bisexuality - well, you say that, but what people actually think very much differs and it's definitely interlinked, safe to say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 10:03 PM
1	Men are hugely responsible for "hoeflation." Yes, that's very relevant here /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 08:04 PM
1	Men are hugely responsible for "hoeflation." Honestly, I just came to read this comment after you wrote yours about male endometriosis, it's fair to say that this is ironic statement on your part to say the least.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 08:03 PM
1	Men are hugely responsible for "hoeflation." There are 20 men diagnosed worldwide with endometriosis. Are you kidding me? How can you even possibly mention that in comparison? You obviously can't compare rates of all those women with endo - estimated (190 million) - and 20 men, that's just statistically or methodologically bizarre. I'm respectfully not sure what's worse, if you didn't know that or if you deliberately lied about that, and I'm not a doctor and this seemed extremely fishy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 08:00 PM
1	Men are hugely responsible for "hoeflation." Imagine some catastrophe happens to the earning ability of said man, now does the whole relationship go under because of it? It many cases it does. It's like this performance thing, which is obviously not exactly healthy or moral way to conduct your relationship overall, and definitely not romantic, at least for one side.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 07:49 PM
3	Men are hugely responsible for "hoeflation." ...but at the same time wanting to be a richer half of population, which according to data, single younger women are better paid than men and the rise continues. I have no problem with equality, but what I see is conveniently switching between 'women should be paid more, I believe in quality and we're the same people' and 'well, it's a natural order of things that women look for more affluent and richer men', also while when women are richer than men, it's not 'we should make this more equal aga…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 07:46 PM
1	Men are hugely responsible for "hoeflation." Really, is that the same thing as getting a relevant list of studies?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 07:35 PM
2	Would you rather us be unconscious? This is just complete unverified misinformation as far as I looked into it, akin to sharing '62 million men' just because it fit the argument for some people who wanted to be true to use it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 07:01 PM
1	Would you rather us be unconscious? In my very subjective and personal experience, I found that probably a half of women were active in terms of the balance between the two people having sex, or maybe a bit less than that. I don't live in the US, so that might be a factor as well. Also, I presume it would get better with some women if we continued for a longer time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 06:58 PM
2	Older women are in high demand with younger men. Is this a good thing or a bad thing? This.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 04:40 PM
5	Women don't owe men kinky sex acts Spot on, everyone has their own dealbreaker (or more like several), so the logic would be to share everything even before meeting. Which, to me, is like wanting to invade someone's privacy, or even less reasonably - to share with the world all the private stuff about you, including sexual stuff. And all that with a photo of you included. That's a bit insane ask in my personal view.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 02:59 PM
3	Women don't owe men kinky sex acts Why? It's just pretty much the same equation in play, the same one as 'women don't owe men sex', the same applies to relationships or pretty much anything if we delve into this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 02:53 PM
7	Women don't owe men kinky sex acts But that's not what you wrote, is it though? People mention this, because you wrote: "Not to mention sex has an important function in serious relationships of bonding and intimacy and "kinky sex" doesn't really fullfill that role ngl." Which is why the person above said: "Claiming that women like me can’t have sex fulfill an important function in serious relationships of bonding and intimacy is deeply harmful." It is as directly related to your post as it can possibly be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 02:49 PM
4	Women don't owe men kinky sex acts I don't know how to formulate this without some antipathy, what's the point of this post? Okay, kinky stuff is horrible to you, novelty is apparently for the hookers, and people don't owe people anything... seems like a negativistic list to delineate what you don't like from my reading, but it also just reads as basic stuff. You like vanilla sex, okay, it just seems like you're actively judgemental here, as in 'that's horrible stuff, I steer clear of those people as much as possible', getting ou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 02:46 PM
3	When a man say “not all men” he’s seen as complicit and dismissive. When a woman says it, she’s being nuanced That's precisely true, it's identical logic that can't be argued away. If you cherrypick one, you can and should cherrypick the other. There's literally no argument to reject this in my view.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 07:19 PM
7	Why do some feminists, especially on Reddit, so vehemently deny they don't hate men but do nothing to stop and even justify hateful comments of men in their subreddits? That's funny in the best way, because you almost verbatim use sentences I usually repeat. It's like finding my doppelganger on Reddit. It might sound small, but it's wholesome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 05:59 PM
0	Men should not be approaching women. Okay, but do you then support abolishing social expectations made towards women? It seems extremely contradictory to feminism to dump this on men entirely and call it a day, if you know what I mean, respectfully. If you feel like we have these ingrained changeless roles, then okay, but there are a lot of women who want to eradicate expectations about them, but are unwilling to do the same, so it feels like a double standard. I'm not criticizing you if your worldview is that we get what we fight …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 05:36 PM
7	Men should not be approaching women. Eh, I don't want to be that person, but it is a gendered experience to a considerable degree to get a series of dates to find the person you want and are compatible with, definitely it is in comparison. You can easily go through years and years of not being approached as a man if you're not the one making the actual approaching, there are no two ways about it. It's as if I said that I, as a man, am equally in danger when interacting with strangers at night as women are, and that's omitting the f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 05:26 PM
14	Men should not be approaching women. In my view it means it's an intense experience that falls squarely on your back, and it can hurt, while you have to balance approaching and making continuous effort in reaching out while not getting completely demoralized. And I would say I'm probably one of the better looking men, I can't imagine what it's like for other not so lucky people. It's hard stuff, especially when someone really impresses you and you care about this person from the start, then you mostly get nervous more and you can't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 05:16 PM
1	Debate me - I hold that men have zero collective responsibility for the sexual behaviour of other men, and that they should only be expected to take responsibility for how they individually treat women Kudos if that's the case, really. I would say after reading ungodly amount of online debates, I would love to see: 1) women who identify mostly as feminists to be able to make a distinction between a bad person and a random man (since it's so normalized now to just speak in the most generalized vaguest terms about men being bad people and perpetrators as if collectively guilty and when you point that difference out, they tend to be willing to die on that hill of right to be prejudiced or sexist)…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 04:28 PM
1	Men "lying to get sex" is a manipulative blanket narrative. I honestly agree, but I tend to encounter at times being accused of planning to deceive someone, when in fact we dated for a while, got to know each other, and I found out we're simply not compatible. I have usually higher threshold of compatibility though, because I know what want (it's incredible to finally write this), and I've seen, or was in, so many relationships that crashed later after it turned out compatibility really does matter in the end, especially with time, so I don't want to cra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 04:07 PM
1	Men "lying to get sex" is a manipulative blanket narrative. You know, I do have quality friends and honestly some lower quality coworkers, but I never ever heard someone to encourage other man to pump and dump someone, and if I did and forget it, it was such a rare occurrence that it it's some official trope. I encounter women online on Reddit, who do make this argument of men encouraging other men to be violent, or condone SA, but it's so off the mark, because it just isn't happening. I don't know how can a woman arrive to the conclusion about private c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 03:49 PM
1	Men "lying to get sex" is a manipulative blanket narrative. Exactly, I hope we'll get to a point where it's okay for women to choose sex without being tarnished by women or men, so it's not something that the said woman has to 'dance around' and consider what other people think of her decision. To just be able to be more straightforward consequently. Maybe also if it wasn't still partly a taboo in a way, that would make both parties more open and clear. I think sometimes a man risks being tarnished as well from the woman, as you can get a very pejorative…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 03:35 PM
1	Men "lying to get sex" is a manipulative blanket narrative. I like both of your comments here by the way, I just wanted to add a small personal input to the mosaics - there are specific hardship for women as well when starting dating someone, it's just that one thing I wanted to add is that since the men are expected to be the active ones, sweep a woman off her feet to some degree, it can feel like a trial probably a bit more than for women. That probably applies to for sex as well, since it's just a biological reality that men do need to perform and it'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 03:26 PM
1	Men "lying to get sex" is a manipulative blanket narrative. I'm not red pill, but I kinda agree with the person you responded to and the one before (and sorry beforehand for a very detailed comment). Look at it differently, maybe it's not about inability to recognize feelings, it's more about unwillingness to use that recognition when under emotionally hard situation. In a fit of rage or after being scorned (as gently as possible, but still, rejection is hard, especially when you're not used to it), I had women presume that I was a fuckboy or that my mot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 03:10 PM
0	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? But then you can make the exact same argument, for example, about why so many men and even women find a lot of modern self-identified feminist messaging, opinions and venting more sexist and hateful than just striving for equality and supporting men in some ways (or you know, at least not actively being sexist towards them, which is all I personally would desire). It's trendy to make hateful generalizations, the problem is that then those people tarnish other people by association and the perpet…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 12:55 PM
2	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? It's a like a murder of crows, or lounge of lizards - a loot of sex, haha. I would vote for it being codified, it's pretty funny in a good way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 12:44 PM
2	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? This is a spot on comment, the conclusion that something must be wrong with the man is something I encounter a lot, and comment section right here is kind of ironically a proof. I also read often that men who cheat are horrible, but women who cheat must have had a good, legitimate reason that their men must have caused somehow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 12:42 PM
2	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? What a spot on comment, kudos. I mean it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 12:38 PM
1	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? From this and her other responses, she only sees 'men = bad' based on what they look and them being men, straight up generalization. I would really love to be treated as a horrible person simply because I'm a lower average looking man. What a nice way to be a decent human with basic empathy, right? I really don't get these people, how they jump to such conclusions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 12:35 PM
3	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? But this isn't a sub about women's humanity, that's extremely one sided approach, it's more about relations between women and men, their co-living in society and together, and yes, that stems also from what they are like, but also with their mutual interactions, plus all of the ways we look at women and men in society, how we treat them or how we should treat them. That's my read.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 12:22 PM
2	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? This, it's ironic, but that's exactly it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 12:17 PM
2	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? So you're just literally saying that every post is exactly the same? Wow. That's literally the most negatively generalizing amount of assessing prejudice one can theoretically and practically do about something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 12:14 PM
2	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? The trouble is with expecting someone to do XYZ based on their gender, but at the same time flipping out when the gender expectations are placed upon you - which, let's face it, to expect men to be the active one is socially acceptable, unlike what society on average as a whole thinks about expectations about women. And I'm not saying it's every person in the world, but the discourse is tilted one way. About more than a half of women I dated were of the opinion that they wouldn't date someone wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 12:11 PM
-1	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? Maybe sharing your thoughts with people who can be empathetic to your experience for variety of reasons? Women share those as well online. And like... you know that you can choose what to read or not, there are people who are in fact empathetic to that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 12:03 PM
0	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? For many people, sex is as important need as it is for most people to be in contact with friends and human beings in general. You won't physically die, but you're on average in quite miserable mode of existence, so it's not like this isn't important.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 12:01 PM
0	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? Does this apply to all the countless of posts when women complain about their dating situation or lack of thereof? Because it really doesn't seem so, but I don't know where you stand on that personally, of course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 11:59 AM
-1	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? Honestly, don't so many women use precisely this logic online so often? I'm not saying let's copy their behavior, but it's a bit hard not to see the irony, because the prevalent discourse is justifying women's bad behavior and prejudice as a mere reaction that's justified by the fact that some part of men and bad people. "Misogynistic people are wrong, but being a misandrist is a completely fine reaction" as if actively hating half of world population is something morally okay in this day and ag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 11:56 AM
2	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? If he's clear enough about that, it's legitimate to want either of those types of relationships. I don't know your situation, of course, but how then you can meet anyone if you assume that every man wants sex only? And also as the person below said, the existence of people in relationships makes it true that men wanting relationships exist. It's just that it's a bit harder to find someone when many people are in relationships already, but that's life and it applies for men wanting certain types …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 11:37 AM
0	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? But you can't just ignore the detailed distinction that OP made between those two types of posts. He described one type of venting, taking this information and conflating that with other guys is just the point of the post - jumping to assumption of bad motives whatever is the content of the vent. It doesn't erase all the incelly vents, yes, but that's why the person you responded to here cited all the crossed out sentences - because all those made the distinction. Women vent often on the interne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 11:28 AM
0	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? This is absolutely spot on, that's the issue here. OP clearly made that distinction and highlighted that making prejudiced leap is wrong, yet the response from women here is mostly conflating everyone who has a penis and made a venting post, portraying them all as incels. Which is precisely the issue here. It's somewhat ironically saying "we are not negatively prejudiced, we do it because they are all wrong and bad people with bad motives". There are in fact both types of posts, and OP talked ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 11:03 AM
2	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? But that's the problem here, conflating men who make legitimate venting, and those who underline the whole thing with this core hatred. There's a difference between the two, and OP made that distinction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 10:56 AM
3	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? You're conflating all men who vent here together as if one hive mind of a man, respectfully. I'll try to explain the logic here, hope it makes sense (I also apologize for a bit more paragraphs than was intended). There's a difference between types of posts, that's the premise. That doesn't erase all the other posts of guys that you describe, but the problem is when the guilt is ascribed beforehand, imposed on every venting man. There are a lot of venting women as well, which is absolutely fine, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 10:52 AM
1	It seems that after the breakup, women are with a new guy almost instantly, while guys have to go through a crazy long dry spell Okay, fair enough, that's true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/26 10:43 PM
2	It seems that after the breakup, women are with a new guy almost instantly, while guys have to go through a crazy long dry spell Honestly, simply because the OP's post was talking more about moving on in different mostly non-marital ways. Faie enough, I'm not saying that marriage shouldn't be included at all, it's one of the additional metrics, but the post and the argument/thought was pointing out end of relationships and moving on from there, and people who move on quickly go through stages of sex, then relationship and maybe some of them marriage. But when we talk about jumping into something else soon after a breakup,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/26 10:41 PM
4	Why do women claim they are being used for sex once a man realizes he is incompatible with her? Does this judgement apply to women when they have one night stands? How is it any different?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/26 02:08 AM
3	Why do women claim they are being used for sex once a man realizes he is incompatible with her? If you invest time into having sex with one person, you'll get to know each other's preferences and build from there - and it will be much better sex! Friendly advice from a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/26 02:07 AM
–	Why can't women just tell men when they're unattractive? Honestly, I definitely wouldn't say this is bunch of BS, and I'm a man. This is one of those things that really are clear cut. There are a lot of guys who don't take it well, so it shapes women's reactions. Really, this is the answer to your question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 10:56 PM
–	Why can't women just tell men when they're unattractive? You can imagine the epic shitstorm backlash that wo ensue if you said something like this to these people. You would be absolutely crucified.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 10:41 PM
–	Why can't women just tell men when they're unattractive? This. I never thought I would write something like this, but I wouldn't touch this person with a ten foot pole, based on nothing but the character over screen on display. Ugh. Thank God for good, kind people around me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 10:32 PM
2	It seems that after the breakup, women are with a new guy almost instantly, while guys have to go through a crazy long dry spell But being married is something else to having a relationship, those are two different things. For example, in non-marital relationships, both women and men break up at similar rates with each other (meaning that both men and women initiate that breakup). You would maybe think that in marriage, these rates are similar, but they're not, not at all - most divorces are initiated by women. By this, I'm trying to illustrate that one can't just take marriage data and use it as a proxy for relationships…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 05:47 PM
16	It seems that after the breakup, women are with a new guy almost instantly, while guys have to go through a crazy long dry spell C'mon, respectfully, saying that there's not much more demand for women on average is just obviously wrong for everyone who walked the Earth for more than a day. It's also not about raw numbers, but who's part of dating world and who's desirable enough, and there are much more women who are desired than men are. There are more women that can get date just like that compared to men. And I'm not a red pill person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 05:39 PM
12	It seems that after the breakup, women are with a new guy almost instantly, while guys have to go through a crazy long dry spell Okay, but statistics often tend to be different for non-marital relationships, which is something we're talking about here more than necessarily straight up marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 05:35 PM
14	It seems that after the breakup, women are with a new guy almost instantly, while guys have to go through a crazy long dry spell Almost instant rebound sex for women is something that is very much a thing, and it happened to me when ending relationships, just as it happened to other people I know. And those relationships ended almost always with us still having feelings for each other. Don't take this as gotcha, I don't mean this as a criticism right now, but it's something that does happen. I think I was witness to it in one way or another about 7 times, and I'm only 33 (and last time I dated was some years ago, so it wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 05:32 PM
8	Men do NOT need to “do better”. Both women and men, according to data, have very comparable rates of feeling lonely and honestly, it's not like there are not many posts and comments about women not being able to pair up as they'd like. Also, women seems to have higher expectations towards their partners, which is indicated by lesbian pairs having much higher rates of divorce that gay pairs. Which, all of this is fine and human, I'm not criticizing any of this and I have understanding for these issues and realities. It's just t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 05:21 PM
2	Would cold approaches feel less awkward or intimidating if men offered their number instead of asking for yours? Well, you still frame them as something inherently negative, and if one would read these comments, he would totally miss on the real world, where you can legitimately encounter women for whom this is fine. I don't know if we're on the same page, but as a man, it's very misleading to only take to heart what is written under such post, in one specific corner of the internet. I think a lot of men go through this phase when they read negative opinions online about approaching/dating, accept them, th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 04:11 PM
23	How Is UN Women Not a Hate Group? "If you really need to kill a journalist, it better be a male journalist you're killing" - UN Women	/r/MensRights	07/05/26 02:12 PM
2	Are you left wing or right wing, and do you see much misandry/misogyny in your political sphere? What would be the alternative description of this political position according to you? I'm the same way as Mollywobbles here and I identify as centrist as well, but I'm open to other opinions (ultimately, it depends on what definitions we use as with everything, including misandry, misogyny etc.) I found - syncretism - as the alternative description, which is not being moderate on every issue, but assuming different positions on different topics that don't have to be moderate. Is your criticism …	/r/MensRights	05/05/26 07:35 PM
1	women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectification People are having debate, we're on Reddit. You disagree, I disagree as well with many points, but I don't call someone creepy based on mere disagreement in the comment section I deliberately chose to go through and read. Getting freely involved in the discussion (which I thought was interesting at times, which is the point of reading) and then calling someone creepy as ad hominem is pretty low. Again, despite of being miles away from some points he made.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 12:15 AM
0	women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectification There really is grey area, as seen by comments under this post which treat same things differently, and especially by nuances between being sexualized (not necessarily bad), being objectified, and flirting in a zesty way. And when you're the one being expected to do the approaching, you're actually mostly dealing with asking yourself if what you're doing is cool, uncool and where does it sit - and the grey are is where you can sometimes invariably slip, because you're human and not every comment…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 12:05 AM
0	women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectification While you're technically right and it's your prerogative, if guys are being trashed without ounce of empathy (and they're not horrible, obviously) it's not exactly conducive to creating a culture and atmosphere of being approached at all - which is the current trendy 'why don't men approach us anymore'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 11:58 PM
2	women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectification But you pointed out being ugly as this strong factor that causes the person to be socially inept and many other, but from what I gather, you then listed these and many other factors that are not being physically ugly. So it's not about being ugly after all, which is what we talk about here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 11:52 PM
3	women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectification This is exactly prejudiced as saying 'I dated a black guy once, so they are horrible now, all of them'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 11:49 PM
1	women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectification How does one differentiate people who become your friends and legitimately catch feelings from those who do bait and switch? Because to me, it seems that everyone who ever catches feelings unexpectedly is the bad guy who must have planned for this, though it's not very often this applies vice versa between genders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 11:37 PM
1	women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectification Is being hit on being objectified? A few comments back, I read so many well liked 'duh, sexualization isn't objectification, silly', but as you indicate by your perception, the problem is ultimately that inability to know beforehand who treats it as this or that. Then it's damned if you do, damned if you don't, and there seem to be so many women these days who are very self assured that what they want is something entirely obvious. I just don't like this lack of basic empathy towards men who sho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 11:33 PM
0	women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectification I like that you're giving specific examples, it's just that I've seen many posts women made about "She's hot, I'd love to get to know her." - and they named this as 'why are men so disgusting, I'm tired of my hotness being mentioned' - and of course, those approaching men have no way of knowing that. They say hottest women are being complimented the least, in my experience, they are more often tired by being seen as hot, unless the man in question is super smooth about it somehow. This came out …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 11:20 PM
0	women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectification But really, I agree with your side of argument more, but asking 'what is Chad' is intellectually dishonest / derailment. It doesn't matter who the actual person is, just picture someone who's attractive to you or the person in question, that's beside the point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 11:08 PM
0	women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectification I've seen a man being arrested by cops based on him approaching someone, pretty reasonably, then he got taken by the cops and the group of women giggling about that the moment he was in the car. Horrible, but I do swear this happened.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 11:03 PM
3	women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectification It's not automatic social anxiety diagnosis when someone points out the problem with knowing what the other person wants beforehand, especially when men are expected to approach women and do the work, but at the same time when there's very hostile atmosphere towards men - in the sense that men are always mentioned with being wrong, being bad people, and so on. I think the problem,amongst other things, lies in total lack of good examples of what women or men want to happen, instead of the negativ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 10:57 PM
-1	women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectification And that's precisely what most men want from women when we talk about these things, nothing more. The core problem is how trendy it is to unnecessarily hate on men in the sense of conflating shooting your shot with harassment or objectification. It's these 'trigger happy' women who make men just to avoid approaching altogether, especially men who are actually decent, because they perceive how trendy it is to just find any ammunition to use against them. Approaching is hard as it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 10:20 PM
3	women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectification I would say that the point that consensual objectification is still objectification is pretty interesting and spot on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 09:55 PM
-1	women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectification But hands down - it's reasonable to point out that the prevailing discourse today is many, many women stretching the meaning of objectification to basically everything. That what the person you're responding to said. You really do agree mostly. Lastly and respectfully, I think accusing him of misandry is honestly ridiculous, precisely because of what he said - he obviously criticizes (literally) that treating everything as objectification is wrong and it lost any meaning in some ways, when peopl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 09:36 PM
2	Telling men not to attach their worth to dating women is a tall ask when women collectively act like it IS about men's worth. I don't think men and women on Reddit are in each other's tilted one-sided debt when it comes to being tiresome to each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/26 05:33 PM
3	Telling men not to attach their worth to dating women is a tall ask when women collectively act like it IS about men's worth. Yeah, that's what trying is. You usually try without having any certainty of it yielding result as a guarantee. It's the same process of trying to record a great album, or trying to become millionaire, or when certain types of women try to find reliable partners but just don't in the end. It's a feature to be mostly blind in the dark, not an exception, especially when the task is difficult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/26 05:31 PM
3	Telling men not to attach their worth to dating women is a tall ask when women collectively act like it IS about men's worth. Is talking with other people optional too? I bet people in solitary confinement are just fine on their own, they don't physically die by not being in contact with human beings after all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/26 05:25 PM
3	“Men would love to be sexually objectified” Sorry, but if we're talking about numbers, let's also add how little DV is reported by men, which I think is fair to say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/26 10:24 PM
1	CMV: Men in their 20s should date around and play the field I would say it's a bit more pertinent to women, but not by a lot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/26 10:19 PM
2	CMV: Men in their 20s should date around and play the field That fact doesn't erase another fact - it's much more important for women than for men for their partner to earn the same or more. Which makes it irrelevant that women earn more, it's about who they want as a partner and how important is that to them. Which is what the topic here is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/26 10:17 PM
0	CMV: Men in their 20s should date around and play the field You seem like someone prototypically and pasionately hating on men to the Nth degree, underscored with pretty wide generalizations as if men were this one kind of person behaving as hivemind. "This is the horrible type of man, absolute majority of them are like this, they are horrible as a gender"	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/26 10:12 PM
1	CMV: Men in their 20s should date around and play the field That's true, but notice that he didn't say that it's wrong for women to have body count more than 1. I noticed that, because I don't believe it also. There are those are not like this, having this unreasonable expectation. So from his POV it's entirely possible that it's not contradictory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/26 10:07 PM
2	Men often look for a stable relationship in order to have a regular sex life. There's a golden rule before posting - would my opinion be laughed at by my psychologist friends as being completely out of scope and radar of reasonable truth? Could I present it to people who do this for living?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/26 08:47 PM
0	Men often look for a stable relationship in order to have a regular sex life. It's not so straightforward to just say that this one variable (women expected to pair up) ia what causes current lack of want of relationships. You can't just choose one variable as if 30 different things haven't changed over the past decades and say that this is the culprit. I'm not saying this to be antagonistic or disrespectful, it's just that this is society that underwent complex changes, technological, societal (not only romantic relationships), cultural et cetera. I'm not saying it's imp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/26 08:45 PM
24	The amount of likes each comment has....... This logic presumes that only the guys who use these sentences are reading them. By being sexist in public, you're being sexist towards men as a whole (and since there's such a trend to use 'men' in the most general non-specific way, I take them on their words). So now you're targeting some bad guys and majority of pretty normal or even decent men. It's as if an Asian person came to my part of town and robbed my neighbor, and based on this event, I went to some random Asian street to rob a rando…	/r/MensRights	27/04/26 10:11 AM
1	Do you think most guys suffer the consequences of the actions of the few that are dangerous? 'Slightly higher suspicion held for men' is quite an understatement here to how it is in real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/26 12:43 AM
1	Do you think most guys suffer the consequences of the actions of the few that are dangerous? Or women succumbing to bystander effect, which is imho crucial to point out, because some women like to just demonize men as 'they never do anything' and making women completely involved in protecting anything that remotely seems like an incident. I don't mean this in a bad way, but the discussion really seems like women are removed from the science of psychology altogether.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/26 12:40 AM
1	Do you think most guys suffer the consequences of the actions of the few that are dangerous? That's like connecting jokes about women with women being killed. Don't take it the wrong way, it can happen that the random person that's making a joke before you is rapist or murderer, but much more often it's just locker room talk or women joke. I'm not saying stopping this doesn't have it's value, but it's pretty removed connection between those two, statistically speaking. That's like saying that if you tell something to a person who smokes a joint, it will preclude this someone from, for e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/26 12:30 AM
0	Do you think most guys suffer the consequences of the actions of the few that are dangerous? Sorry, but saying that regular men witness these situations with any frequency is just bad faith argument. I'm sorry that some guys on random online video succumbed to apathy or bystander effect (which applies to women as well btw, which is crucial to say), but you can't throw that to some random man on Reddit as if we were collectively guilty. As far as I read the comments under this post, yours are pretty antagonistic or again, bad faith. Men bad, man evil, no nuance. And especially, I really …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/26 12:07 AM
1	Do you think most guys suffer the consequences of the actions of the few that are dangerous? This argument gets repeated over and over agains, and it completely omits the (im)practicality of actual real life reality - we don't see those incidents very often. We don't have cameras behind shut doors and it's just not that frequent, and this is something probably every guys statistically knows. Also good guys hang together, instead of someone completely removed from your type of personality and social-economic strata.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/26 11:57 PM
1	Do you think most guys suffer the consequences of the actions of the few that are dangerous? To be honest, there are a lot of men with good intentions who feel like shit based on being seen this way, negatively. It's a fundamental human psychology that is quite well studied. I'm not saying women shouldn't be cautious, but how does that exactly benefit us being seen as dangerous perpetrators every day? It seems snarky, but I really wonder what it can possibly be. The more bad men there are, the more we're seen as dangerous perpetrators from the start and in turn we start deeper in the mi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/26 11:23 PM
2	Do you think most guys suffer the consequences of the actions of the few that are dangerous? Thank you for saying that, I know that all the negative generalizations that we get got to me over the past decade. I probably tuned my behavior to try to even more mitigate how I interact with women I don't know (for example parties and bars), but often it is at the cost of all those negative effects that the person before me described, the shame, self accusations, frustration. I would say that the bad part beside that is the minimizing, laughing about sarcastically, lack of recognition by many…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/26 11:13 PM
1	Do you think most guys suffer the consequences of the actions of the few that are dangerous? This is absolutely spot on comment that perfectly describes the mix of reasons for men. Very well said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/26 10:53 PM
1	Do you think most guys suffer the consequences of the actions of the few that are dangerous? I'm not saying that women shouldn't disregard being cautious, that's completely understandable, but it sucks to be treated this way all the time despite your best intentions. Both are true, it's not zero sum game. It is what it is, but I think people should realize that there have been many psychological experiments that confirmed that people are truly influenced how people treat them, it takes a toll on you. Maybe ironically, more anxious, depressive (or good) men just take this more to the hea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/26 10:38 PM
1	Do you think most guys suffer the consequences of the actions of the few that are dangerous? I think it's fair to say that there are certainly false positives (don't take this as a criticism, it's not) when analyzing who's trustworthy, most men know very well that you sometimes inevitably come across as not trustworthy despite your best intentions. I think other people could chime in, but I would say that sometimes being too friendly, open and talkative comes across as too soon to fast in a way (like "what does he want, why is he that friendly, what's the catch") being nervous definitel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/26 10:25 PM
–	Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones? By the exact same logic, women are obsessed by themselves, and much more intensely amongst more women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/26 08:17 PM
1	Why is feminist communities online 99% talk about men? Exactly the same thing for me	/r/MensRights	26/04/26 02:00 PM
2	Why is feminist communities online 99% talk about men? I felt the same way about the name 😊 it's a movie material name	/r/MensRights	26/04/26 01:59 PM
48	Not All Women But Always a Woman But I was told misandry doesn't exist, right? Surely that's not something popular?	/r/MensRights	23/04/26 07:05 PM
3	Do Women Actually Believe Men's Dating Struggles Are Real? Awesome! Congrats and thank you for your service)	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 06:56 PM
2	An 18 year old woman can't date a 60 year old because "her brain isn't fully developed" Exactly - also it's pretty sad and ironic how women like these (who make argument of immaturity at 25) reduce women as these completely childish unfree adults who are so naive that they can't even choose who they spend time with romantically. To me, this is incredibly patronizing, and one has to notice that they don't make these arguments about young men.	/r/MensRights	23/04/26 06:43 PM
3	An 18 year old woman can't date a 60 year old because "her brain isn't fully developed" My boss is extremely competent mature person who managed stages, shows, electricity in music festivals, and built houses (and more) since he was 16 - and it worked for him and everyone else. It absolutely depends on person in question.	/r/MensRights	23/04/26 06:40 PM
3	An 18 year old woman can't date a 60 year old because "her brain isn't fully developed" Neurologically speaking, I read an article few days ago stating based on research that the person enters neurological adulthood around the age 32. What they omit is that even if you analyze and spot some differences in brain, it absolutely doesn't automatically mean that it has some large behavior consequences or that you're not a free reasonably rational person. They just jump to that conclusion, but this is not how science works. There are plenty of changes of brain that a lot of time dont pro…	/r/MensRights	23/04/26 06:33 PM
–	Sex isn't a "need". Men just want to have sex because it'll give them status among other men. I would sum it up as something that badly affects you when it's not fulfilled. It doesn't badly affect me when I don't buy myself a Lamborghini, it affects me badly when I, for example, end up alone for years on some random deserted jungle island.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 08:05 PM
–	Sex isn't a "need". Men just want to have sex because it'll give them status among other men. It's as much of a need as it is for humans to be social with other humans. You won't die of thirst when alone somewhere for years, but if you're not completely resistant to that need (which most men are not), then it affects you badly and it's reasonable to want this need fulfilled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 08:01 PM
–	Sex isn't a "need". Men just want to have sex because it'll give them status among other men. I can attest that I've read this exchange many times, presumably always liked comment mostly by other women - saying that men should seek intimacy not in sex, but other male friends - as if those were remotely the same needs or solutions to being intimate for men. It's like advicing 'command yourself to solve your needs with your male friends and leave us all alone'	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 07:58 PM
–	The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe. And the exact same applies for women, it's just that in the general public discourse as it stands now, it's much more fashionable and socially acceptable to be a misandrist than to be a misogynist. I find that feminists themselves conflated concepts of feminism and misandry (or supremacy / hate), on the side of men, misogynists don't pretend to strive for equality. Which is worse, I leave to you, but both are bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 07:40 PM
–	The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe. I love the fact that me and almost every other person on the internet who tends to read about these topics has read billion different well liked shameless generalized hateful proclamations about men as a group and identity (instead of bad behavior), including on feminist subreddits, but when you point that out, it's either 'those things never ever happen, nobody has seen such a thing' or 'well, but those people therefore must not be feminists' by No True Scottsman fallacy. Meanwhile you have sav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 07:32 PM
–	The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe. You're right - as you say, most people don't even know what red pill (or other concepts or notable people) is, it reminds me of an example how popular it is to ascribe to Joe Rogan some alt-right worldview - and how in the same breath everyone who watches talks with him is by extension alt right person. Both these views are of course ridiculous - he is not alt right and even if he were (let's imagine he is), the talks he has are just interviews with interesting people on different topics, not so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 07:21 PM
15	Women on reddit dating subreddits are actively harassing me due to my age. And imagine if you actually did find someone and she happened to be 27 years old, that would automatically mean you're keeping her in your celler and you're a vile man-creature. I don't understand how these people can feel humane, with basic decency. They hate sexism, which is fine, but at the same time give themselves carte blanche to be unapologetic sexists themselves with open prejudice, while reasoning that some men are horrible, therefore it's their holy right to act the same. It's as if I …	/r/MensRights	21/04/26 06:50 PM
1	Feminists are spreading this article claiming it says 62 million men are part of a “rape academy” when that is not what this article is saying at all. It's great having bad people exposed, but at the same time shamelessly using '62 million men are attending rape academy' for posting hateful posts about men is wrong as well, and it's sadly a repeating dynamics of using completely untrue information like that. Both are true. It's not a zero sum game, against popular belief of many feminists in many issues.	/r/MensRights	21/04/26 03:18 AM
2	Feminists are spreading this article claiming it says 62 million men are part of a “rape academy” when that is not what this article is saying at all. But how many videos did have eye checks? That's the crucial thing here, and it's definitely not thousands according to my information. One should go there to check himself, but I can't do that right now. I wonder if you did?	/r/MensRights	21/04/26 03:14 AM
1	Feminists are spreading this article claiming it says 62 million men are part of a “rape academy” when that is not what this article is saying at all. This must be the least coherent statistics argument made, and additionally, no, 20k videos is just plainly wrong number from what I gathered - provided your claim is that there are 20k of real rape videos there.	/r/MensRights	21/04/26 03:09 AM
3	Feminists are spreading this article claiming it says 62 million men are part of a “rape academy” when that is not what this article is saying at all. Except when it's not man, right? But that never ever happens /s. No, it's not 'always a man' and to say so just needlessly demonstrates completely black and white thinking and/or women are wonderful effect. One can say it's more on the male side, but to argue that it's always a man is akin to racist making similar claims about this or that race, as if inherently evil (or his race inherently incapable of bad behavior in question).	/r/MensRights	21/04/26 03:02 AM
1	Feminists are spreading this article claiming it says 62 million men are part of a “rape academy” when that is not what this article is saying at all. Okay, but then again we go back to violent video games argument - using those demonstrably don't make you crave real life violence just because you played Doom or GTA.	/r/MensRights	21/04/26 03:00 AM
1	Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled? So misandry (the hate of men as group, instead of bad behavior) is not popular in current feminism? Really? I don't want to be snarky, but it's as if I spent reading some alternative non-existent feminist forums these past 10 years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 02:34 AM
1	Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled? Ehm, in what possible universe? I don't want to disregard those who do (warm kudos and appreciation to them), that's fair to say, but on every feminist that does that remain 4 others (of we're conservative) who do the opposite - feminism subreddits are good examples of what mentality rules in feminism towards men and their problems - it's usually a small miracle to see male problems even acknowledged, it's a pretty much a unicorn phenomena to see male issues argued for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 02:24 AM
3	Women are being misandrist over anything. It's not the end of the world, but it's extremely and very obviously a symptom of how people think. It might be unimaginable for you that there is nuance behind this and things are connected to other more important things, but off you go - you have been writing comments like these under more significant hateful stuff, so it doesn't seem to matter what is the content you're responding to. Snarky comments aside, I think it's entirely fair to ask you if there is anything that you see as hateful tow…	/r/MensRights	21/04/26 02:19 AM
4	Women are being misandrist over anything. It's gotten to the point of people being proudly insecure, childish, petty and immature. I'm 33 and I remember times when we tried to be the opposite, even when at times silly extravagant teenagers. But misandry rules and it's definitely not sexism and hateful bigotry when it's towards men, so...	/r/MensRights	21/04/26 02:12 AM
4	Is nothing sacred? I wonder if you comment the same thing on various feminist subs, r/ women, 2X chromosome, or 4b sub that is explicitly about decentring men (which is much more hypocritical or paradoxical), yet literally almost every post and comment is about men. Do you hold the same view there, or is it just when men do it?	/r/MensRights	21/04/26 01:45 AM
1	Is nothing sacred? This. And I love it, by principle.	/r/MensRights	21/04/26 01:38 AM
1	Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships. No, that's just a pure misinformation already debunked - it's a wide porn site with pretty classic mundane porn categories (if you will), 62 millions are clicks on the whole site, and a link was found under 1 video that refered to telegram group of 1000 members. It's as if you said 'I found an obscure subreddit that linked to a telegram group with 1000 members, so everyone who clicked anywhere on Reddit this month is a rapist'. It makes no sense, it's bafflingly twisted number, CNN actually did …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 01:26 AM
1	Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships. How do you get sources for something like that, and are experiences of women invalid simply because there are no studies that describe on the 'street' reality in real life dating? On some level, it's intellectually dishonest to disregard everything that is without studies, yet it's commonly accepted when women share experiences like that. And I say that as someone who is very much pro science. I'm not saying that I agree with this 80% number, but when someone used 'many', you automatically disre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 01:04 AM
0	Men need to stop making everything about themselves. I just came here from another post where women there trashed and hated on all men who are attracted to, for example, 21 years old, and hated on all age gap consensual relationships. Uncanny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 01:48 PM
0	Men need to stop making everything about themselves. Have you read the actual comment and what examples he made in it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 01:37 PM
1	Men don’t care about Men Again, there's a backlash when the topic is men and their issues. And the backlash is definitely not coming from men in majority fashion. It would be a great start for current men to not be openly and popularly hated and reduced to 10% of worst men, it being socially acceptable discourse, especially here Reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 01:32 PM
1	Men don’t care about Men You really seem to be their counterpart, at least in these comments. Being proactively against any possibility that men are humans and thus have their legitimate human issues, while having proudly zero empathy, all under a post where the subject is men's issues and how a lot of women treat them, is... well, perfectly ironic. But I'll end this comment constructively and ask: if all these listed issues should be generally mininezed as non-issues in the name of not coddling men (I wouldn't say trea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 01:20 PM
0	Younger women are just more attractive. What a treat must it be to date someone with this mindset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 12:13 PM
-1	Younger women are just more attractive. He didn't, he pointed out that this is what is being said about men, not about you. It was a turn of a phrase. Plus it's expected that men do the approaching in life, so they usually do the acting on their desires, and I would argue it's not a bad thing to approach someone you are attracted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 12:09 PM
1	Younger women are just more attractive. That's honestly a bliss for you, you have it easier in society and life this way, and that's great. I mean this in a good way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 12:05 PM
1	Younger women are just more attractive. Exactly. This is what makes me miffed - how these women unipolary attribute the worst intentions to every man in question without a hint of nuance or possibility of legitimate human complex reasons. No, it's apparently always about manipulation in a uniquely evil male way. I wonder if these people ever read a classic book (like Gabriel García Marquez) about human thinking or attraction, and how wonderfully diverse they are. Social media is the death of nuance, as someone once said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 12:02 PM
0	Younger women are just more attractive. Actually, I agree with you on some level, it's very well deserve to do this to someone who's looking for reasons to hate on you based extremely shallow judgement, random personal experiences that have nothing to do with you, or simply prejudiced thinking (like being older, and being a man makes you evil when you find someone younger old enough). If someone attacks you and lumps you together with the worst people without knowing you, I'd say it's very well deserved right to troll them a bit. No m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 11:54 AM
-4	Younger women are just more attractive. Yes, some women, and not a small number trash them without knowing anything more about them, and yes, it does happen in real life as well. If people minded their business to a reasonable degree and not jumping to the worst bad fate conclusions of strangers, these defensive talks would be happenning. Like really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 11:49 AM
1	Younger women are just more attractive. So by having a fleeting bad experience with an older man, everyone who's older now should be collectively guilty by nothing more than similar age bracket? I can't imagine I would throw under the bus all the older women and actively trash them because someone older hit on me insensitivelly sometime in the past. I judge people not by their age, but who they are as an actual person. That doesn't preclude me from being reasonably cautious, sure, but it does preclude me from this monolithic thinking …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 11:45 AM
1	Younger women are just more attractive. Have you considered when reading the comment that this has absolutely nothing to do with life experiences? That attraction and memories of a said person you're physically attracted to are two different concepts. How much more clear can it be? This is bad faith comment par excellence, a prime example beyond any other. And that's saying something on Reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 11:36 AM
4	Younger women are just more attractive. Did you just flatly refused to read the comment you responded to? They just gave you a very different set of reasons and you just created out of nothing a strawman that has absolutely nothing to do with the point of view that you responded to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 11:32 AM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men Gotta love this zero sum game. By this logic, war torn African countries people have it much worse in life, therefore women shouldn't complain about their issues? There are always people around you, in your country and even more elsewhere who have it worse, but that doesn't mean your experiences are meaningless. Plus, and that is pretty important - you're mixing together past with current state of affairs, which makes no sense. Current men are not responsible for that and to cherrypick how socie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 04:57 PM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men Sorry, but if that were true, children wouldn't be affected by their parents behavior in early age and how they treat each other. Which is absolutely not true - it obviously and flagrantly has massive effects on children and they sense it, even if they can't write an essay about it, so to speak. How parents treat each other family members or even family friends has immense shaping ability. And they do observe, arguably it's even more sensitive observation ability, since they don't have previous …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 04:41 PM
6	Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle men Original, thoughtful stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 06:50 PM
1	Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle men Sorry, but fringe radical / extreme part of the movement doesn't have better defining rights than those that are mainsteam, official, institution represented. It's like saying a local branch / group that doesn't get majority support should be more relevant than that of a core majority group. If you want to turn this into zero sum game of one definition rules-them-all, it should be democratic and if it were, radical feminism wouldn't win this hypothetical vote. I can't imagine Muslims would selec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 06:48 PM
2	Why isn't there more pushback from women toward women who encourage the male behavior they hate If it wasn't for the past and current socially accepted narrative in the past years that men can be treated like that, then your comment wouldn't have raised a single eyebrow, but the share of comments I've seen and saved that were precisely like that by women towards men was so staggering that I just gave up. I literally wrote so many comments like yours that I basically stopped doing it, since I wouldn't do anything else online. So I wholeheartedly agree with you, but let's be real and look at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 05:38 PM
2	Why isn't there more pushback from women toward women who encourage the male behavior they hate Sorry, but it's so many women that it became socially acceptable and let's not do this thing where we pretend this opinion has not been the dominant one, and doubly so here on Reddit. That being said, I'm speaking about internet, the reality on street might have been better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 05:26 PM
1	Women need to embrace, modernity all the way. This is asking why should we abolish expectations and demands towards men that are conditioned on a mere gender, but why don't we at the same time do abolish precisely these expectations towards women? This post is asking why are we not fair and abolish these for both genders? That's the difference between fighting for equality and fighting for supremacy, which is especially important for people who consider themselves feminists, but at the same time do the opposite and take the parts of patriar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 04:21 PM
1	Women need to embrace, modernity all the way. It is about social expectations and stereotypes just as much, the same way one does or does not expect women to cook and clean the house by the token of what gender the person is (which matters to feminism a lot). Doing nice things is great, but if two genders are expected to do different types and amounts of nice things, like approaching and first dating phase with all the effort that applies to men (the example here), that's what makes it the socially expected imbalance. If it were mutual and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 04:11 PM
2	Women need to embrace, modernity all the way. That's fine then, that's why I made the distinction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 03:57 PM
-2	Women need to embrace, modernity all the way. Okay, but again, the issue is that being part of a movement that has stated it's goal, very clearly, as abolishing social expectations - while leaving those parts that doesn't concern or suit you - is, well, hypocritical as it can be. What is then even feminism in the first place, if not equality, applying the same rules for both genders et cetera? Okay, one can do as she or he pleases, but then it's very clearly contradictory and inconsistent, to say the least. It's logically impossible to comb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 03:50 PM
4	Women need to embrace, modernity all the way. Okay, but this is the OP's point - how the stereotypes of a man one-sidedly sweeping the woman off her feet through traditional ways is still expected, leaving this part of social expectations, but arguing against those social expectations that apply to them personally, it's applying double standards where there should be one fair standard towards both genders. It's good to treat people well, but it's a different matter when you expect this based on your gender - well, certainly this is specific…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 03:35 PM
7	Men are less emotionally open and more prone to bottle things up because women are not ready to see some parts of men and straight disagree with some of their feelings. Okay, but that's how a relationship works, people caring for each other. No one wants it to be one sided, but there are some ways that men care for women and vice versa, it's often that they balance each other according to each other's need, which tends to be often different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 12:53 PM
1	Women have no choice but to be privileged in dating, at least eventually. Okay, but it's not every species out there, so why it's not possible for us to just be one of those species that have this specific duality reversed? It easily might be a natural thing. You're saying it's mostly the other way around in animals, but that doesn't make the other species with female ornamentality unnatural or culturally caused. It's vaguely like saying that gay people are not as nature usually is, therefore there's something wrong in order of things (I don't mean this as an offense …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/26 10:28 PM
6	Men are not protectors. Women are. There is a whole study that went over a history of war started by women rulers: https://qz.com/967895/throughout-history-women-rulers-were-more-likely-to-wage-war-than-men If you want modern examples, it would be Indira Ghandi, Margaret Thatcher or maybe Golda Meir based on how you look at her, off the top of my head. You could find easily even more if you included internal crackdowns et cetera.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/26 04:34 PM
2	Men are not protectors. Women are. No, men are not a monolithic bunch of clones that are collectively guilty and responsible for every member of human race that merely shares the same type of genitalia.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/26 04:25 PM
3	Men are not protectors. Women are. While it has it's definite value of course, invisible work is not protection, as protection usually and mostly has a component of risk, or specifically risk of getting hurt to different degrees while doing the protection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/26 04:22 PM
–	Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit. This is a Facebook level comment that speaks for itself. What's the point of spending time to write this mess is beyond me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/26 04:11 PM
–	Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit. And it can't be central Europe, where you get mostly the opinion that a man should do the approaching etc, otherwise it's not worth it, proper or sweep-me-off-my-feet enough. It's often the most educated liberal women who brake this tradition, but it's certainly not some overwhelming majority around 80% of those women, the expectation is still very much alive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/26 04:01 PM
–	Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit. Sorry, but by this logic, can you personally say anything about how men are or what they prefer? Since studies are moot and personal experiences of women as well based on this argument. What would be the way for you to get some reasonably reliable truth, and again, do we apply the same logic towards people in general including women and what they think about men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/26 03:55 PM
–	Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit. Sorry, but you don't have to include 2 billion people for something to be adequately telling, otherwise you couldn't do studies at all and law of large numbers exists. Respectfully, saying that app with 50 millions users is not enough people included is just dishonest, and by this logic, you can't say anything about character and behavior of women and men at all, because you don't personally don't know hundreds of millions of people for it to be valid, this is extreme threshold that would render…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/26 03:47 PM
–	Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit. It's good you mentioned Bumble, because this app specifically changed it's modus operandi where women asked out men because they got backlash by their female users, saying that they don't want to do the asking out first based on it being too hard, inconvenient and just not their taste. This is pretty clear cut experiment that wrote itself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/26 03:41 PM
–	Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit. Okay, but let's be honest, the numbers are simply different, no two ways about it here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/26 03:34 PM
3	RE Lili Reinhart’s ‘I support a mans right to shut the fuck up’ - We must show Hollywood that misandry is not a viable promo strategy That's as if I starred in Schindler's List and wore a Nazi uniform or memorabilia, or had any other piece of clothing that would represent the cruelty or hateful prejudice of the role in question. And honestly, hands down, if a man wore something like that towards women or any other group, would we be fine with it? I think not, and I pretty firmly believe in treating people the same way, otherwise it's pointless and unfair - and creates alienation.	/r/MensRights	31/03/26 08:40 PM
4	I hate how much the idea that we have the most power gets pushed by so many people living in their delusional bubbles when they are the ones controlling the narrative "When I'm spouting hateful prejudice, which I profess to hate when they do it to me, it's great and you should just take it, otherwise you're misogynistic incel sissy" I saw a bizzare number of times women who proclaim someone a misogynist simply, strictly and only because the man said "hey, actively demonizing men as whole based on them being male is inhumane, prejudiced and pretty horrible". How dared they.	/r/MensRights	31/03/26 05:08 PM
2	Why do you date at all if its so terrible? So pure sexism it is, great.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 05:01 PM
3	Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with women You jumped to a different topic though - we're talking about having casual sex, not having kids or being married. How does that relate to motivations or enjoyment of having sex with someone who you have just met or FWB arrangement? That's a completely different beast than birth rates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 01:31 PM
3	Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with women Sorry, but there are, for example, a lot of women on sub/sex who complain about disinterest of their partners (like really) and we're primarily talking about people looking for sex, not those who are married, in my view.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 01:00 PM
1	There is no benefits to having kids as a women I wouldn't exactly use the word fun as the primary driver to have children, sounds like doing bunjee jumping.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 04:03 PM
0	There is no benefits to having kids as a women Respectfully, it's always my body my choice or feminism is about having options to choose your actions, but when someone chooses something they see as deeply meaningful for them or disagree on something, it's either accusation of being branwashed, having internalized some particular worldview, or being a 100% slave of your hormones - instead of just acknowledging a personal decision based on merit of choice, or mix of reasons that make up their aspirations. It's like mothers don't have a free wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 04:01 PM
1	There is no benefits to having kids as a women It's baffling to me how this little detail gets omitted. It's only the whole economic and pension system after all, with massive political consequences! I don't force people to have children, but it's suicidal to actively try to dissuade people from having them, demonizing parenthood and pregnancy as something inherently horrible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 03:50 PM
1	There is no benefits to having kids as a women That's the spirit	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 03:42 PM
4	“Hating men is still centring them are therefore women who hate men are still victim of the patriarchy” I believe if they put their minds to it, they would find out the cause and substance of dark matter / energy is somehow patriarchy.	/r/MensRights	27/03/26 07:06 PM
4	Something that alot of people on this sub need to hear That is absolutely true. There was a discussion under a post in sub /feminism a few days ago (graph showing divergence of men / women leaning conservative / liberal) and the comments were astonishingly hateful. Overwhelming majority describing men in quite derogatory terms as a group, and one saying men should be 'solved' biologically. I got here on Reddit after a few years and was expecting that the feminism sub is probably constructive with some hateful content. It seems like it was the other …	/r/MensRights	31/01/24 01:25 AM
8	Im tired of seeing man hate everywhere I moved back to reddit after a long time. I ended up on r/feminism and first discussion in comments is absolute hate fest, one well-liked post there was claiming that men won't ever change and therefore they must implement a biological solution against men. I wonder how feminism get it's reputation for being often thinly-veiled misandry. Wow. Such equality.	/r/MensRights	28/01/24 03:35 AM
2	Feminists argue that misandry is ok because misandry is harmless. But misandry kills more people than misogyny So if random woman kills you, I can say that it's your responsibility, since you are a woman too? And that your death doesn't matter, presumably?	/r/MensRights	28/01/24 03:29 AM
4	Standards! And make that double! Do you have link or name of the post by the way?	/r/MensRights	28/01/24 03:24 AM