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Racism and pedestalizing/infantalizing white women, whilst simultaneously ignoring and demonizing WOC, and Black womens voices, is why yall have the issues with today’s current mainstream feminism yall do. But yall aren’t ready for that conversation. Bell hooks and womanism has never left. But white womens voices get pushed before intersectional, more encompassing feminist narratives do. This is the bed yalls made. 🛌
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:43 AM
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Then men need to stop leaving their kids with women so much and step up as fathers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:33 AM
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No one is worthy of access to the inside of a woman’s body. And you certainly don’t become worthy of sex from a woman because “countless bozos procreate” Tbh using that as your basis is exactly where the entitlement statements come in. Because what do those bozos have to do with the vaginas of the women this guy is complaining about? A grand total of nothing other than entitlement. When looking at the definition of entitlement. It’s primarily a matter of rights. Which is defined as, being in acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:11 AM
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Right, this is like a guy trying out being pegged once, realized he didn’t like it, it hurt, wasn’t his thing. And then for the weird reason of having tried it years before, now needs to take it up the ass with his wife, or else he doesn’t really love her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:46 AM
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Anytime i see your username, its just you saying “nuh uh, no way, crazy lady, woman bad” or some variation of the sort. ATP, just got to .is bc you’re not helping your fellow man, you always swoop in to be loud and wrong and make men look bad. And it’s starting to actually make me suspicious… like you’re actually a man hater for real, because ain’t no way… you’re consistently on here making or co-signing the worst possible interpretations and takes. Either that or you’re a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:06 AM
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It would also be weird and entitled for the man to whine to everyone or really anyone, about how he didn’t get invited onto the stage. And god forbid he brings it up more than once, makes a post about it somewhere, starts proclaiming he won’t support Micheal Jackson anymore, doesn’t care what happens to him, wouldn’t help him if he needed it and was able to provide aid. Everyone would be like… “dude why do you feel so entitled to be up on the stage with Micheal Jackson? This is actually fucking …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:28 AM
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He literally starts off as a sub to a much older woman. But in actuality it’s CSA. He’s also not someone these women fear for their saftey around. These guys mustn’t know the author has a whole book from the perspective of the male character. Just because it involves bdsm, they think that means he’s aggressive. which also displays their fundamental lack of understanding regarding the kink. They have no idea just how non aggressive many doms are. They do not understand dominance without aggressio…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:03 AM
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The tear can extend from and into the vagina. I am a doula. I’ve attended many delivers and watched more than one tear happen in front of my own eyes. Speak for your own genitals in regard to what is no big deal. I am currently doing postpartum work for a mother with a 3rd degree tear. She would beg to differ
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:02 AM
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Yes, I’m a black woman, we have a mortality rate 3-5x higher than the rest of the American population. And we’re more likely to end up alone throughout the process and motherhood. I’m legitimately, genuinely, afraid i will die in any attempt to become a biological mother. 90% of women who give birth vaginally, year their vaginas during delivery. Death is the worst outcome and rarer than other complications, but trying to wrap my head around ripping my vagina open, and that being considered “text…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:39 PM
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I don’t doubt that it’s very very terrifying. But the consequences are your wallet, not your physical wellbeing on top of your wallet, which is the case for women. 90% of women who give birth vaginally, tear their vaginas open in the process. And that’s just one of the many awful things that a woman is likely to endure during pregnancy, delivery, and postpartum. It’s just NOT the same kind of consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:37 PM
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The topic is about orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:32 PM
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Doesn’t most fraud involve all of this? For most people, you cannot take their money, but not also take their time and identity
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:45 AM
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Are you able to answer the question or?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:42 AM
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I know a victim of both rape and paternity fraud. I won’t share their story bc it’s not mine to share. Are you a victim of rape and paternity fraud?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:36 AM
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Says who? Are you a victim of rape? I know a victim of both rape and paternity fraud. I won’t share relation to respect their privacy. But I will say, they are active on Reddit (come forward if you feel safe doing so, I support you). And they don’t share those sentiments, (correct me if I’m wrong)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:32 AM
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I love us girlies on here with our actual fucking faces as our pfp. Standing 10 toes down on the shit we say, even on anon forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:54 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:46 AM
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Whiskey dick, prevents males from being able to be forced to pentrate. Drink to prevent male rape!!! A plus for alcohol induced ED! There’s an upside to everything yall.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:30 AM
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Also, why did you say that men my age are invisible to me that’s weird. My partner is less than 24 months older than me…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:59 PM
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Well, this is very bizarre. Do you mind, highlighting or screenshotting where someone said that? I have no problem conceding if I’ve misread. But she, nor I said that. So???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:57 PM
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If this person says they’re 23 and talking about an older man, then she’d be most likely be talking about someone their 30s or older. Also, no one said anything about the younger man having a lot of money The kind of men shes talking about needing money, are older men… so I don’t know where you got the young healthy fit man with hair and lots of money. She was speaking about older men, hence sagging skin and erectile dysfunction. Labeling herself young, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:52 PM
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Why would a young woman who has multiple options want an old man who provides nothing more for her than a younger man would? If he’s not holding any advantage over younger men, all that’s left are disadvantages like him dying even sooner and or you having to be a caretaker for longer?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:05 PM
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Huh? Female rappers, or male rappers? Why are you using rappers like a gendered term?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:31 PM
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What’s the percent of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:19 PM
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Do you really not see the distinction? Does your wife need to potty train you and wipe your booty after you shit? Does she have to put mittens on you so you don’t scratch your face? Do they need to put you in timeout? They need to swaddle you? Do you wake up every two hours and need to be breast-fed? Your wife needs to follow safe sleep practices with you because you can’t roll yet? You need a five point harness when you get into your booster seat in the car? Please be forreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:02 PM
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A man will say “cringe” to a man showing emotion with his friends and partners, and then go on Reddit and perpetuate the narrative that it is women who are keeping men from being more emotive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:47 PM
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I’ve looked for data and it appears there aren’t any distinctions made. In my experience, The non citizen marriages were from people of Asian (east and south) and African descent. It was mainly women marrying us born men. Although not by much. But there was definitely a cultural expectation of courtship for the explicit purpose of marriage. Lavish, deeply cultural and traditional weddings. They often lived intergenerationally as well. And were more entrepreneurial. This dynamic is different to o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:19 AM
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Does foreign born, also mean they came on K1 visas? I grew up in a place where 60% of the population is foreign born. But they did not come here for relationship purposes, they are immigrants, and married people they met here. They married younger, on average, than the US born citizens too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:06 PM
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So attraction has nothing to do with personality for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:00 PM
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So anyone who loses attraction was never attracted in the first place? What are you getting at?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:02 PM
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This doesn’t even make sense because all parents don’t even face the same sorts of trenches. Some have no financial worries and hired help. Others are single parents who work two jobs. You can have an idea of what parenthood will be like. You know that it is a job that gets no days off. I am a full-time Nanny. I’m a newborn care specialist. I get into the trenches so that parents who have the money and means, don’t have to do so themselves. I am the one getting up every 45 mins to soothe a cryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:07 PM
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How common do you think alimony is? Alimony is uncommon nowadays. And for the 10% of divorced couples who receive/pay alimony, almost all are on a strict timeline and DO NOT continue on for life, even remotely. Where are you getting this idea you can’t divorce without having to pay alimony for life??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:51 PM
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Dude… it’s not an impossible thing to know. One doesn’t need to have reared their own child to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:47 PM
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I am not speaking about abortions
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:19 AM
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Are you able to provide a source for these claims. The medical system has a long torrid history of being a system that uses males as the medical standard. This we have long since known. You’re talking about a specific healthcare setting. I’m talking about overall social scrutiny. The fact that trans men can face barriers in reproductive healthcare doesn’t tell us whether they receive more or less scrutiny than trans women in everyday life, media coverage, politics, employment, public accommodati…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:28 PM
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10-15% of mothers globally will have low production. Where supplementation is essential for the survival of the infant. Not even talking about formula fed babies who have mothers who have more than one role, they must fulfill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:20 PM
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FED IS BEST. Signed an internationally board certified lactation consultant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:07 PM
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Trans men don’t even come up in conversations. They just assimilate into manhood. All the hysteria is over trans women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:54 PM
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Literally it does not matter. You said he does everything. He is not doing everything. He is not caring for the baby during the day, nor at night. What you said was patently false. I’m a newborn care specialist, I get up with infants at night. Including breastfeed babies. A baby does more than feed in the night. They are burped, changed, and put back to sleep. Feeding them is the easiest part of the process. And a partner could absolutely take the baby after they’ve fed, spend the 10 mins burpin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:57 PM
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He doesn’t wake up with the baby at night nor take care of the baby during the day. I don’t know where you got he does everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:20 PM
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Yes! I remember enjoying sex one minute and then waking up to my partner of several years with the worst look in his eyes I have ever seen. He accidentally cut off my oxygen and I passed out as a result. I may be a year into a relationship with someone I really love, and not partake in sex like that for a good long while, even if I’ve enjoyed it in the past. The risks are very high. Any man demanding he should be able to put his hands around my throat, because my last partner did. Would get the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:37 PM
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Definitely NOT the case. I’m a black woman. It’s VERY clear historically there have always been sects/branches of feminism. And it is only in more recent years that we see any attempt to include WOC in the broader movement. It’s just not gonna work to tell a black woman, feminism is more divisive than ever. When there were several decades in which white women, through feminism, received all sorts of equal protection under the law. That WOC could not. When white women could vote for decades befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:41 AM
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There is a presupposition here, that there were not always differing/varying kind of feminism… Is this what you are positing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:13 PM
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I’ll address the entirety of the claims you’ve made about feminism, when I have more time. But for right now, I’d like to ask…does the same ideological framework used to label feminism as an entity doing evil things, apply to the red pillars, incels, Mens rights activists, and or, “men” as a demographic?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:11 PM
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How much pushback would I get if I said the same goes for the word feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:52 PM
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That didn’t answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:25 PM
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And are you being a troll or do you seriously believe most women are gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:06 PM
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So if a man is a player and sleeps around with women, he isn’t really attracted to women? He’s bisexual, if not outright gay?? Red pill men who advise dread game are gay/bisexual? Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:05 PM
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Human birth is a physiological feat of nature, most every time. Humans have one of the most complex, painful, long, and deadly births, in all of the animal kingdom. It’s actually quite special for animals. The long excruciating difficult births, were evolutionarily necessary in order for humans to dominate the animal world as successfully as we do. Our heads are seriously large, and while we needed to be bipedal, it’s AWFUL for mammalian birth (Google shoulder dystocia, and PRAY no one you love,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:49 PM
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Could you clarify who made these promises of fulfillment? Your families? Society? If so, what sects? Media? I can’t think of who or what would have lead one to believe these promises, without sounding like too much of a feminist (which, I am one. An intersectional feminist/womanist. But this sub and the red pill at large, generally don’t make any distinctions between the various kinds of feminism and their respective ideologies). I can only think of things like “compulsive heteronormativity” and…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:26 PM
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25! Over how long of a period? How long is your refractory period? How are you/yall achieving orgasm? Oral, toys? I have so many questions. I can have maybe 3-5, give or take one or two AT MOST. And I can have penetrative, clitoral, and pelvic floor orgasms. With my bean giving me the strongest ones. But no matter what…. Once I come up on 3-5 in a singular session or without at least an hour or two break before going again, Everything starts to dull and dampen and they get weaker and weaker. OR,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:24 PM
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That’s exactly what it’s like for me as well. Very apt analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:03 PM
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You presuppose that a slave, king, hierarchical society, is a society one ought to save, even if changed. You are already alluding to the fact that change is ever present. Therefore in part, we will never be a Society free of hierarchal structures. Even if we believe that we have advanced past slave and serfdom. Nothing stay the same, it will be done again. We poison our own wells. All the more reason to not be vested in try in to make more humans, who will inevitably mistreat each other.. Parti…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:49 AM
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What country?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:22 AM
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It changes whatever you thought it would, when you tried to assert that it was likely less than 10%. Whatever reasons you used when you decided to state that. Apply that to my reasoning. It’s the same. My point was that you do not have to be child free, to not want kids. My point was, many unwanted people walk this earth. 10% of 8 billion is 800 million, that’s a lot of people to me. 5% is 400,000,000. Would you accept 5% of 8 billion dollars? Do you consider that a small amount of money? Or is …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:01 AM
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You shouldn’t be saying that to me either. Particularly since, in doing so, you make yourself look like a fool
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:54 AM
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I work in childcare. How awkward for him… I already spend most of my waking hours giving back to my community…. But women’s work is something they feel so entitled to, they don’t even notice it. I’m already taking care of children. And here comes this dude … talking about all that I owe. As if im not already rearing children. And that information is publicly available on my page.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:53 AM
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Well ain’t this bout a bitch, how unbelievably awkward for you. The least you could do, before running off at the moth like this, is click my page. If ya bothered, you’d see that I am a career child care professional. I rear children for a fucking living. No, I am not indebted to physically birth them too. Spending 45-70hrs a week with infants and toddlers, is in fact enough. Especially considering I already spend more hours with the children, than the people that made them do. I am but only one…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:51 AM
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I agree with you, at large. I just cannot abide by the notion that the things that conservative men threatened since Rome, haven’t happened. That ignores and or diminishes the plight, and fight, that many have had to make. The first person in my family to come to the United States was a little girl age 7 to 9yo, enslaved, and stolen. I am her descendent. She is not here to say , “hold up, we as women, have absolutely had masters.”So I have to say it for her. And honor her suffering and loss of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:56 PM
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I do not understand your question? Let live? As in kill the rest? I do or understand what you are asking me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:53 PM
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I could be incorrect, but I believe that most pregnancies in the United States are unplanned. That doesn’t indicate that they don’t want them, but I would argue it could easily be 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:49 PM
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So you’re okay with rape sometimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:47 PM
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Full time mothers, do not get pensions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:12 PM
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No I don’t owe society a child. I have given and done enough already to contribute. I already give my body and time via labor and work. I don’t need to do anything else. Maybe society should make motherhood sound more appealing. Maybe yall owe that to current and future mothers. We have cart boys. I choose to return my cart, I don’t owe the grocery store. They literally pay cart boys to fetch them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:11 PM
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There’s a lot of assumptions in this thread, that mainly include assuming that the women who don’t want children. Care if our current society collapses. If it’s have children you do not want or the end of civilization as we know it. Many choose the end of civilization as we know it. As they feel a society that strong arms women into very very life changing and potentially life limiting choices in the name of sacrifice, without ever bothering to even incentivize said sacrifice, isn’t one worth do…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:09 PM
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Yeah. Bc it’s not like you can be irreparably damaged or anything. No ripped up coochies or a maternal mortality rate of 5-6x the national average if your a woman of color.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:59 PM
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Slavery happened after Rome. Many had masters literally. Sure they are threatening women, but yes, we had masters. Kinda culturally insensitive to imply we haven’t. When all of my ancestors for the past 300 years were enslaved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:45 PM
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I’m one of them too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:35 PM
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You don’t have to be child free to not want kids. That’s the sad truth. Many unwanted people walk this earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:22 PM
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The number will greatly vary, depending on where you are in the world. It seems like everyone is concerned with limits no one ever questions the minimum. What’s the minimum amount of people that we need to keep a society going? Then you have to also think about the fact that for women, it’s about whether or not they want to keep society going and at what cost. No one would be shocked at a enslaved black woman, saying that she doesn’t want to have children. Doesn’t want to make black children who…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:16 PM
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Black men are more likely to be incarcerated, killed by cops, mistrusted, treated with less empathy, than their white male counterparts. The same applies to black women in comparison to white women. Men commit more crimes, killed more cops, do more violence than women, black or what. You cannot say “men” are the blacks and women are the whites, when in actuality, the men do commit more crime and violence than women. THE SAME IS NOT SAID IN ITS TOTALITY FOR BLACK PEOPLE. And if thy tried to say s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:54 PM
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Who the fuck are you to speak towards the thoughts that occur in my mind? A woman is the reason you ever got the chance to breathe a single breath into your body in the first place. And that applies to every man that has ever lived, working class, peasant, slave or king. There is no Roman aqueduct, without Roman men first, suckling from the teet of women, there is no Benjamin Franklin to discover electricity, if his mother had not mercifully scooped him up out of the pile of shit he landed in wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:42 PM
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No, it’s not just said in response to misandrist women. And no, it’s not just said “in general”. In fact, YOU literally have comments up, commenting on or to specific examples involving specific woman, in which you claim that their issues are rooted solely in their choice of men. No misandry uttered beforehand, by the woman, at all. Without you knowing the woman at all. You regularly homogenize women, regularly. Both “in general” and to individual women. You blame both the individual woman and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:20 PM
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You can’t say that about ethnic groups and poor people Because in the grand scheme of context, it’s the inverse groups that have caused the most damage. White people have been more violent historically. Yes, it sounds really weird to act like African American people are wayyy more violent, when they as an ethnic group, are only here bc of extreme, global violence, en masse. The scramble for Africa, and all that. It’s not nearly as jarring to society, for a black person to say, “bc of our history…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:19 PM
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They just aren’t the same statements. Say that men aren’t a monolith. No one is stopping you. And it’s the truth. “Choose better” is quite literally only said to victims of other people’s mistreatment, poor morals, and or, abuse. Men aren’t a monolith can be said to anyone making any generalization about men. One has a much broader spectrum of use than the other
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 05:54 PM
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I think that when it comes to saftey, no one cares, they don’t want to take the chance, the risk outweighs the reward/benefits. I wouldn’t leave my child with a random stranger, I have not vetted, period. How dumb would it sound to follow up that statement with, “most people aren’t kidnapping, murderous, pedophiles tho!!” Okay and? I don’t give a flying fuck. Why the hell would I take the chance, particularly since a child is not able to physically defend themselves against an adult? I’m not let…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 05:39 PM
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Women aren’t a monolith and choose better are two very different statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 05:19 PM
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It’s always more important and actually the proof for my claims is the law. But provides some proof in your claim that sometimes being horny is more important than consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 01:19 PM
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So you think being horny gives you space to disregard consent? If not. What is the point of what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:55 PM
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OFTEN. So often. It’s interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:42 PM
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French isn’t a race. Do you think there aren’t multiple races within France?? Do you think it’s all one race? That was racist of YOU How ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:37 PM
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If you don’t know what, “am I right” means. Then I cannot help you. And it makes no sense to attempt to be the grammar police, whilst not even fully being grammatically correct yourself. No capitalization, in other comments you’re placing multiple commas at the end of sentences (never seen that one before). A quick glance of your comment history also shows you too have made similar question style statements, without having put a question mark. Rules for thee but not for me. I see now this is a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:19 PM
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Most black conservatives aren’t even women… so no, it’s not enough of a distinction. White conservative women, is the accurate distinction. Without the distinction, yall homogenize and silence the rest of us. HENCE why bell hooks, and intersectional feminism doesn’t dominate the conversation. You guys don’t let them. Society has pedestalized, white feminist ideology, to the behest and warnings of women of color. Then yall have the nerve to deny them the distinction, lumping us all in together. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:05 PM
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Not the question… I’ll answer yours after you answer mine
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:52 PM
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Financial and economic dependency, is biological? In what way are finances biological? The ways in which we’ve “made women equal” in this post discussion, is via the workplace and educational sphere, allowing women the ability to obtain financial independence. How is any of that biological? And how far does this go? How were slaves finding each other, pairing up, and, jumping the broom, if neither of them were advantaged, as they were slaves dependent on their masters? What was that like, how di…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:41 PM
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And the slaves only got freed bc white peoole were nice enough to let them go… no Jim Crow or anything like that after either. They freed the slaves because they suddenly were no longer racist. Black people ought not claim those people were racist. Am I right!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:39 PM
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Can yall stop grouping in all women when yall really mean white women? Us black women by and large did not vote for trump. 85-90% of us did not. This sub just erases WOC and lumps all women under this one conglomerate. Black feminists do necessarily share the same feminist ideas as white feminists. The works of Audre Lorde, Bell Hooks, Ida B Wells, Angela Davis, shaped intersectional feminism, and of course, bc why would we acknowledge the works of WOC.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:38 PM
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Men can be feminists. It’s not men helping feminists. It’s men being feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:26 PM
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Men can be feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:25 PM
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But if women aren’t choosing men, how is the pressure to be in a relationship coming from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:24 PM
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My mentioning of white women being the only one applicable to the things said, was in reference to this sub. It’s indicated with this “women” rhetoric, when they really are only talking about a specific kind of woman, most usually white. Not even just white. But white could be the first prerequisite we check off. Hence me saying some white women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:04 PM
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Vastly outweigh, according to who
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:51 PM
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What do you mean biologically adapted? What biological adaptations are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:49 PM
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<image> Abortion legalized in 1971 Yeah this woman and the others in the documentary just couldn’t keep their hands off of their husbands. They had 7+ kids because those couples had crazy sexual tension all the time. Back in the day, women were perpetually in heat, like cats. They thought soo many men were very attractive. It’s NOT AT ALL because they didn’t have autonomy, access to birth control, and marital rape was legal. NONE of that is why, it’s because men were sooo masculine, women couldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:33 PM
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You fail to realize many people don’t have an issue with crashing marriage and birth rates, if the cost is a restriction of choice in who they marry and bear children with. If it’s “find men you don’t find attractive, attractive. Or else marriage and birth rates will crash”. Many women will respond with “let it crash and burn”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:57 PM
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So exactly what she said? Men with options cheat and if they aren’t cheating it’s because they don’t have options? What are you saying if not that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:54 PM
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Sorry but as a black woman, this wall of text is garbage. Yall always write things only applicable to SOME, white woman Women of color always worked. Were were SLAVES we WERE breed there were no forced breeding programs en masse throughout history FALSE The importation of slaves was banned in 1808. After that black women were FORCED TO BREED on plantations in places like Maryland and Virginia, and then trafficked to the south. Yall partake in such reductionist history here. You’re only speaking …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:45 PM
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Not you lowkey saying if men had more access to babies they’d be killing them more. And you can’t even possibly be talking about abortion with men, you mean cold blooded murder. And we’re NOT supposed to look at that like any sort of indictment against men??? You saying if they had more access then MEN would be killing more kids??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:04 PM
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Yes the “oldest profession” is female dominated. And it’s called mother. No older job on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:57 PM
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And there are so many babies who commit murder of their mothers too. Being born and their birth causing the death of their mother. We should jail the baby if the mother dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:57 PM
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Are you okay dating women who do this or is that a no go for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:46 AM
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So a woman can improve upon a vetting tactics each time? That’s okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:42 AM
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Okay and if ends up not being foolproof, and it goes awry, something wasn’t on his digital footprint,then what? Must she operate the same always, or is she allowed to switch up what she does to vett to try to avoid what happened the time before? If you notice a crack in your vetting, are you allowed to fill that crack. Or must you just keep doing something you know was faulty?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:34 AM
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This doesn’t explain why men do not show feelings around other men for fear of bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 11:27 PM
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I never said you couldn’t get a job at all, but there’s no question a person with experience has a very real advantage over a person trying to make a shift. Like come on now.. Unless we’re now suggesting a person with experience in a given role, doesn’t have competitive advantage over those without? Prior experience holds no relevancy? An experienced manager would be just as qualified as someone who’s never been a manager? I’ve just pulled up several carpentry operations manager positions for hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:43 PM
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Okay… and with no white collar experience, you’re going to be hired over a seasoned consultant? You are saying that the career carpenter is as able to compete in a competitive market as those already with experience in said market?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:53 PM
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Eternal sunshine is literally a movie in which instead of dealing with trauma they go and remove it. That’s not mentally healthy…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 12:31 PM
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She definitely is emotionally walled off, the point was he never saw her for who she really was. Who she was, was very avoidant. She sprinkled just enough to have something to say when it inevitably didn’t go well, but was also misleading in many ways emotionally. she absolutely had an unhealthy attachment style. Says she doesn’t believe in love and didn’t want a relationship. The takes him as her wedding date where they have this deeply emotional connection and then is immediately engaged to so…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 12:27 PM
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Obligatory “not all men and woman) Women do like “boring” men, they just aren’t as interested in men who they perceive to be boring, as a result of being socially/romantically incapable to do/be anything but “boring”. It’s reads to them as potential ineptitude, but also, as potential relational and emotional safety. So there’s a push pull dynamic. Men like non boring women, so long as it manifests in ways they perceive won’t bring conflict/drama to a relationship. Sexually open, but not promiscu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:18 PM
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No, that would not be the case. As I just said society sees male mental illness as violent and scary, and female mental illness as cute and quirky. Hence, why there is a trope about mentally ill women called the manic, pixie dream girl….
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 03:25 PM
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No, it doesn’t. And actually the reason why I said it doesn’t matter is because your reply to me doesn’t make any sense as a retort to me. For starters you’re wrong. 71% of office workers are female. But anyways… Even if you were right with that claim, which you are not. so the office jobs are more male dominated??? That would only serve to affirm most men are not working dangerous jobs And even with office jobs being female dominated, only about 20% of western men work dangerous, deadly jobs An…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 03:23 PM
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The manic pixie dream girl isn’t necessarily performative. She’s mentally ill. She’s neurodivergent and often has BPD or is bipolar. Performance, is not for the men (not the driving force), it’s heavily caused by being a feature/facet of their personality disorder/neurodivergence. If there’s any claim to make, it’s that men are scary and violent when mentally ill, and women who are mentally ill are infantilized, being seen as cute and quirky.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 02:49 PM
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Okay… I didn’t say yall weren’t. I am addressing the points about push back on this trope. It’s mental illness and heartbreak and poor relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 02:48 PM
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Most manic, pixie dream girls have BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 02:40 PM
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Also, there are entire scores of GenZ women who grew up, fantasizing about being the manic, pixie dream girls themselves. It was a thing that was very hard to escape from female spaces online for a bit. God forbid you had the Tumblr app, it was over for you. Absolutely Inundated. Glorification of anxious attachment and cutesy mental illness, while looking/being “hot”, ran absolutely rampant in deeply female spaces. I’m actually surprised no one has wondered if that has had an impact on women’s b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 02:34 PM
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Are you sure people don’t push back on the manic pixie dream girl, because it’s a mental illness trope? Mania and all that? Manic pixie dream girl is literally a nod to, arrested female development. Do you not know the origins or the various media that spawned this trope? 500 days of summer? Eternal sunshine in a spotless mind? Garden state? Elizabethtown? Quite literally every single one of the manic pixie Dreamgirls I mentioned are described as too good to be true and or childish, very walled …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 02:29 PM
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The why doesn’t really matter towards my point. It still stands. And yes, we don’t value essential manual labor, as we do other kinds of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 02:20 PM
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It seems like men also despise anything boring. Considering that there are a abusers, felons, fighters, drug dealers, and stains upon the community
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:10 PM
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Yes, but society makes it VERY difficult to go from being a man who works with your hands, to a man who is able to work in an office. If you are a career carpenter, it is very unlikely regardless of your wits and intelligence, that you’d even meet the criteria on job applications necessary to get the job. Like prior experience. That one alone fucks over a lot of people, even the ones just starting out, who are aiming to be career office men. That’s a flaw, maybe intentional feature idk, in the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:20 AM
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I do not enjoy nor find suffering interesting, having known the burden and strife suffering causes for myself, I cannot in good conscience, be okay with it. Even if some degree of suffering is inevitable. It is and will likely always be disturbing for me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:15 AM
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It’s twofold for me. Society does need children to function continually. We also need things like childcare, and elder care. Amongst others. However a society that forces individuals to have children. And or work till death with little incentive, safety nets, provisions, ect, to the potential detriment of the people. Is not a society I care to save. But that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:07 PM
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My point is you said that Joe build homes and roads, or works at a cubicle at his 9-5. And that’s funny to me. And no, 99% of hard manual labor isn’t “about” average joes. Unless we’re now saying LABOR and delivery isn’t hard manual labor?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:01 PM
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Well. Your first sentence was societal in scale, and your second sentence was individually based. Much of society wouldn’t be happy with the end of civilization A much larger portion of society couldn’t care less whether individual women, are having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:59 PM
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I think using this as a reply only works if the person you’re taking to, has first asserted that men own each others bad deeds. I have not. Or you could ask, if I believe men to collectively own each other’s bad deeds? So I’ll answer as though that’s what you’ve asked. For starters, I don’t think building a home is an inherently “good deed”. I think it’s a useful skill, in which they are more often than not, compensated for. Now as for collective ownership, I’d say that really really depends on …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:51 PM
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I think the problem with your reply is that you keep dressing a social order up as biology, and then acting like that makes it neutral. Yes, families grieve men who do not work. That is true. But even there, what is being grieved is a failure to enter compensated labor. The pressure on men is “go become economically productive.” The pressure on women is often “be the site through which life, care, and continuity happen.” Those are not lateral pressures. One is pressure to secure wages. The other…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:24 PM
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Who is they? I am unsure as to who the subject(s) of your sentence are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:20 PM
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The notion that the expectation for a dad are the same For a mother is just not true. Going to work, as you’ve already said was already a thing for the man. Soooo. Men going to war for oil for billionaires is not the same at all as the expectation women rear children. Yes they are expected to maintain serve and debt to their very specific children. Not society. There is not multiple “how To invest options” for the woman. It’s just direct correlation to the child. I I am willing to have all kinds…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:10 AM
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No, the average man has not built a home. Have you? Average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:36 AM
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Was this reply for me? Where did you get such an idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:28 AM
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The average woman is likely to have birthed more than one human. The average man hasn’t built homes and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:28 AM
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I don’t disagree, we aren’t a utopia that can meet every need and validate all experiences, all of the time. Hence why I said, it’s how we respond that gets super murky. Demographics that were included and thought about during the engineering process are lucky. And once again that’s applicable to A WHOLE LOT MORE than gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:57 PM
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Ahh I see, you’re saying men are trying to threaten us that they won’t… build anymore? If we don’t do what they want, is that what you’re saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:52 PM
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I do not condone, conflation and comparison of suffering. No one is the authority over suffering, other than the people experiencing the suffering. They do not have authority over the validity of other people’s suffering. Just their own. Trying to take any other approach doesn’t seem conducive to the alleviation of suffering in its totality. This is not even remotely just gendered. I believe this to be true on the basis of race, gender, class, religion. If you ask me if a poor man suffers, I’d s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:32 PM
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For your own feelings and lived experiences, ABSOLUTELY. And I’d push back hard as fuck on people who disagree. Because no one else is you, and therefore cannot claim to understand or know the validity of your experiences, feelings, burdens, ect. Like I said, it’s how all the rest of us respond, that gets super murky. But in my opinion, you are unequivocally the authority over the quality of your own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 07:01 PM
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First a disclaimer: Huge wall of text coming, sorry in advance for the dissertation. I strongly feel you are genuinely open to conversation and differing perspectives, and that, imo, should be met with my best attempt to share my perspective, which is never JUST about women. I truly want better and more for us all globally. For most of human history, the pathway to and through motherhood wasn’t a very consenting one. And we are all still living in the reverberations of that long, torrid history …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:59 PM
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What makes you believe this? I think inherently we all have authority over the validity of our sufferings. We determine what’s valid for ourselves. That is a relatively new concept to the powers that be. It’s applicable to race, religion, gender, class. We have a hard time accepting things outside of our own experiences and understandings. I think that’s kind of the point of that sort of thing (things that only you and you alone can decide. Edit added for clarity). Not everyone’s experiences wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:37 PM
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I think the reply would be the same for the jobs men do. At the end of the day someone’s gotta do these things. That’s not gendered btw. Anytime you complain about a job, no matter how valid, someone is gonna pop their head out from around the corner to say “but you chose that job”. Whether that’s a lineman or a sahm. But choices don’t exist in a vacuum for almost any of us… I’m not even sure that the 1% are afforded that ability (they have to partake in succession, family business, ect). Not ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:29 PM
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That last paragraph is SO APT for motherhood. Except the market doesn’t incentivize the job very much. It’s fully unpaid 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:22 PM
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I love how in this post, Joe manages to build all the roads and houses we use… from his cubicle 😭. One he sits at for minimum 40hrs a week. Joe is a magical man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:19 PM
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Glad you think that. I have been plagued my entire life, with the question, “is there ANYTHING we can get all humans to agree on?” It’s a thought exercise for myself and my friends. I have yet to find the answer/s. I don’t think we’d even agree on things such as, all humans are human, the sky is blue, everybody poops lol. There’s gonna be push back somewhere. Maybe… we all need food and water to survive? But then again there are those people who claim to have not eaten food for years sooo 🤷🏽‍♀️.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:44 PM
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Who determines what is valid? And who gave them that authority?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:38 PM
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Ok, that makes sense. Not entirely sure how saying that you don’t want/need someone is coercion or a threat. Isn’t saying that more like ambivalence/rejection than anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:45 PM
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I think the retort would be that we don’t vote the same, nor have the same ideological/political, opinions/values, even if we might fall into the same overarching parties
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:42 PM
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The men working the dangerous jobs don’t qualify for office jobs. They work in trade. Most men are not working dangerous jobs. That’s at most 20% of western men. Women also do very deadly jobs, such as producing every human being that has ever walked the earth. And that’s applicable to a whole lot more than 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:08 PM
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Threat/coercion to what end?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:03 PM
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You today: “when online dating, waiting months to feel things out doesn’t work, there needs to be quicker movement towards relationships or it’s unlikely to work” You yesterday: “when online dating, literal MONTHS of time spent dating still isn’t enough to show true colors and judge people off of. 4-8 MONTHS is still too soon to know someone for real. My brother had an awful experience, the woman turned out to be no good” Let’s also not forget, you said that it taking months to get to know someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:24 PM
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What am I deflecting from? Please do tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:21 PM
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The narrative proliferates in America and I am an American. I also said black people and mentioned Africa. No one said that violence was the way, at least not in this thread. You made a poor analogy, and that’s what I was addressing. White people have done more harm to black people than black people have done to white people. So claiming they are more violent would indeed be racist because it’s not factually true. Now it is factually true that a woman is more likely to be raped, than a man is li…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:09 PM
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Who said it doesn’t matter? I’d venture to say it’s the demographic most likely to be the rapists, who perpetuate the narrative that it doesn’t matter, and need there to be an oppression Olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:04 PM
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Well saying that about African Americans wouldn’t make sense, was it black people who stole from, kidnapped, colonized, and plagued, an entire continent of people in what they called the “scramble for Africa”, enslaving, raping, abusing, and oppressing them and their descendants for centuries, because of the color of their skin? Was it African Americans who created chattel slavery? Ate black people? Worked them to death? Believed them to not be human? No… that wasn’t African American people. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:34 PM
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Of course they experience assault. Yes, mostly from Other men. My retort was in regards to the mention of false SA reporting, and men being told “it barely happens compared to what happens to women”. Which, yes, false SA and rape reports are far less likely to happen to men, compared to the likelihood of a woman being raped. A man is more likely to be a victim of sexual violence, than to be falsely accused of it. It’s actually really interesting how the fear is of being falsely accused, and not …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:31 PM
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My citation is from this study, not conducted in 2007. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK499891/#:~:text=Approximately%201.5%20million%20intimate%20partner,experienced%20completed%20or%20attempted%20rape. Not wrong. Does it really matter who the rapist is? Repeat offenders point to the fact we have a culture that allows for rape. I don’t know who the offenders are. Why should I not be cautious?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:09 PM
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81% of women will experience sexual harassment, assault, and or rape in their lifetime. 1 in 5 will be raped in their lifetime. 81% is the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:06 PM
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Are you by any chance autistic? Bc the black and white thinking, paired with righteous indignation, lend me towards the belief you may be neurodivergent
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:13 PM
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We don’t know the women that the man is trying to sleep with, how on earth would we give him proper instructions/advice for how to get a particular person to sleep with him? We don’t know them all you can do is work on yourself we can’t work on the other people for you. Are you suggesting we all act as wing men to get you fucked? We don’t know what that specific person wants or needs out of a partner. We can only be general be kind work on your personality. Try to go to the gym outside of that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:09 PM
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Well do you want lies? It is true that those things are wayy less likely to happen. It’s just factually correct
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:36 PM
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They said wrong, not illegal…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:51 AM
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I have no need to do such a thing. I am not the one demanding things of a stranger. No please or anything. Perhaps look inward?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:44 AM
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You didn’t even phrase it as a question or ask please or anything. That was like a demand or something, rude as hell tf? I don’t work for you. Maybe if you asked nicely. But now I’m feeling like telling you to look it up yourself. It’s not my job to educate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:31 AM
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Ugh for some reason men react the same way when compared to wallets. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 10:04 PM
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So in the refractory period have you bust a nut. Do you no longer find your partner attractive, and see them as you would a man? Until the refractory period has ceased?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:16 AM
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Did men build the world? Did men give us privilege? Or is it the other way around?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:53 PM
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I love a fun funky eye. I fuck heavy with some blush and lipgloss. But I can’t do the heavy foundation. I have DRY skin so 2016 foundation fucking SUCKED for me. My eyebrows a were okay tho 🙏🏾. I survived the dip brow revolution. But I was WAITING for dewy skin to have its time to shine. Now here I am! praise be!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:16 PM
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Don’t you have comments complaining about the WAY women speak to men? 🫩
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:43 PM
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I literally was saying “clean girl” is in. And then I saw your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:35 PM
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Dude. Just stop
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:35 PM
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So now men don’t listen to music and all the best selling male artists only have female listeners? We are talking about best selling GLOBALLY. Women are not the only ones. You think men’s songs don’t sex in them? Get real. Stop goal-posting. You aren’t helping yourself. Each new shift sounds dumber than the last.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:15 PM
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<image> Dude. Just stop. Look at the best selling/most streamed male artists GLOBALLY. If you think these men don’t make sexual songs, you’re deaf and blind. The weekend? Bruno mars? DRAKE? KENDRICK LAMAR? What about Ed sheerans “I’m in love with the shape of you…tonight you were in my room, I’m in love with your body”? Or Morgan Wallen’s “I kiss your lips, make you grip the sheets with your fingertips”? Stop trolling. This is getting sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:15 PM
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Dude. You think I need to CHERRY PICK EXAMPLES OF MALE RAPPERS BEING SEXUAL???? Deadass??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:46 PM
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Right, there’s literally a male rapper touring now, who has TWO songs called “slut me out”. And doesn’t kevin gates have a song called “dick all in yo stomach?” Homie has never heard of a video vixen? This is why female rappers are upset with the general populace and media. Men have been making sexual songs for over half a century now. Hell, even Santa won’t let the woman get away. Not without him telling her how cold it is, and that she doesn’t really want to leave. Then a handful, and let’s be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:37 PM
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Where did they disagree? They literally do not say or suggest that. They quite literally say it’s not gendered and PEOPLE do it. The other commenter only used gender neutral language to describe projection… you’re just in a defensive tizzy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:21 PM
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If the comment comes from a young women, then what do you posit?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:56 AM
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Wait. Your contradiction in this is fucking hilarious. It’s “men wish we were running around town and BREAKING HEARTS but we’re not. It’s just the men women flock to.” Then fucking Immediately you say “pick better”. Sir according to you. Whoever I pick wishes they could romp around town and break hearts. Commitment is just a toll they pay and seemingly not something they are compelled to do out of love. Come on now. “We WISH we could be assholes, but we can’t be bc we don’t get access, so instea…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:34 PM
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Do you have data to indicate that the women first slept with “top men” as opposed to average men. Most people date and marry with other like people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:30 PM
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So married men are there bc they can’t get any other woman? If they could get other women, they wouldn’t marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:28 PM
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Media promotes a handful of fat women, a bunch of fat men, and a handful of short men. That’s media for ya, they only promote the top 1% of people and hardcore tokenize everyone else. It’s not even easy to be a short woman in media, the average woman in media is taller than the average woman. Something promoted by media, doesn’t then immediately translate into the general populace being down with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:26 PM
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I don’t think a single person in this immediate thread (at the time you made the comment) staked the claim that it is only men doing this. Like even a little bit… could you tell me where you got that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:22 PM
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Wanting more casual sex whilst also saying “sloppy seconds” really displays something going on there… like are you helping sex culture and casual sex culture when you say things like this? And also what do you really mean by sloppy seconds? Do you want primarily virginal women in the casual sex scene, bc that obviously won’t work? Or do you mean something in regard to the actual sex acts being conducted?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:55 PM
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And just because I am actually interested. When I say I don’t see, hear, or read, the things mentioned in your comment. Well don’t see them en masse like you do. In this context, were the non-above average men, the ones being falsely accused of SA, or is it the above average men? And what kinds of abuse are prevalent in these “loveless” relationships? Also, why are men proposing to these woman? I thought men are the gatekeepers of marriage access for a woman. He has to ask her and all that, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:49 PM
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I don’t often see women outright claiming they don’t care about looks, I definitely hear it. But the more prevailing narrative I hear is that “it doesn’t matter as much as you think it does”. And that I think is a much better and more accurate place to come from. Because women say THAT a lot more by and large. Not that they don’t care how you look at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:44 PM
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Do you have evidence to support these claims? They’re extremely broad and don’t even remotely apply to all women. I don’t know a single person who has directly accused someone of rape or sexual assault publicly, legally, or online in a way that would invite slander. I’ve known victims, yes, but that’s very different from what you’re describing. The statistics we do have suggest that some of the patterns you’re asserting are significantly overstated. Many of your claims seem applicable to a speci…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:23 PM
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Who is you in this equation? Me? If so… dude you have zero clue. If it’s women. Don’t studies suggest more than only 20% of women end up coupled up? And you didn’t answer why these top men aren’t married, but instead sleeping around and using for sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:36 PM
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You literally have comments suggesting anyone who is into fat women is brainwashed and those comments have upvotes. It was totally acceptable for you to make those comments about women. So acceptable, you keep doing it. There’s several comments you’ve made like this. You have all kinds of insulting comments up about women. So I’m not buying what you’re selling
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:32 PM
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What women are touching fire? Most arsonists are men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:26 PM
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No it’s men and women. Men regularly suggest that any man with the ability to get women, is an asshole trash person. “Chad” is almost never a good person, just attractive. And women didn’t come up with “Chad”. Men did.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:23 PM
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In order for me to be sympathetic about something awful, I have to understand what awful thing is happening first. But you haven’t explained. What awful was done to the man in this situation? Can I have as specific of an example as the “pump and dump”? If the answer is that all his peers were bullying him throughout school. Then sure. “Awe man that sucks, I hope you can heal” not that we’d have sex. If the answer is “girls don’t want to go on a date with me”. Then nothing awful or cruel is happe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:08 PM
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Wait. Where’s the exploitation, humiliation, and abuse in this equation. And women only pick EVIL above average men? Not even a decent above average man? Just straight to evil? 🤨. Loving, kind, respectful average man? This seems like a whole lot cope dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:00 PM
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What does acknowledgment and trying to make them feel better look like. Can I just say “sorry that sucks dude” and that’s it’s? Does that work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 05:56 PM
1

You think being rejected for a date by women is the same as being an abused child?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 05:51 PM
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How are these similar?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 05:49 PM
2

Just as men induce women’s fears of men and feminism or no? Just male insecurity?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 05:48 PM
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Why do so many men use for sex? Why aren’t they married?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 05:44 PM
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You can be mean to someone and it not be marginalized oppression. Women get called ugly and fragile/sensitive all of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 05:43 PM
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I think the core problem here is that you’re treating “being used for your body” as an individual level vetting failure, when it’s actually a structural pattern rooted in asymmetric incentives and risk. When women say they were used for their bodies, they are not saying “I failed at pattern recognition” or “I consented and now regret it.” They are describing situations where someone misrepresented their intentions in order to gain sexual access. Consent to sex is not consent to deception or inst…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:43 PM
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My pfp is actually OF ME. I don’t know what race you are. What I do know is that I’m a black women. And anyone could click my profile and see that. So please do me a favor and break down my racism for me? I’d love to tackle it head on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:18 PM
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You know I have screenshots of you saying you have a wife one day and then a few days later saying you have a man. Then a few days after that, you say, you would only date females, then go back to pretending you have a man you stay skinny for. You know i have the proof right? Do you want me to drop the screenshots and post them in this thread so we can address it or do you want to just stop replying to me while you still have some semblance of control? Because I can also go into ask men, ask wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:13 PM
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Yes and you’d get sick. And there’s sharks, and jelly fish, and big boats that are so big they pass by you and don’t see you, and you have to use what you think may be your last bursts of energy to move out of the way so you don’t get cut up by their rudders. One can imagine they could spot the snake or scorpion in the dessert, that vigilance may help their survival rate, even if it’s fruitless. But I am not a fish, and I cannot see underwater at night. And even if I could, I can’t win against q…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:09 PM
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I don’t get to choose to not be seen as a sex object. It started when I was like 8 years old. There is no opt out, not that I’ve found. How does one opt out of being harassed when walking home? Who’s arranging for my exclusion from society? How do I stop men from sexualizing my large chest, whilst im shopping in the grocery store? How do I opt out of being stared at in a way that then makes me scared or stop a men from sometimes trailing behind me for half a block as the sun sets? Please please …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:02 PM
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There is no dignity in living in a world that could easily provide you with food. Yet they leave you to starve or eat garbage, all the while pretending you should be grateful to have garbage, and treat you like a piece of meat to be eaten and consumed. Packaging and selling people like you in stores, on line, on tv. The more apt analogy would be to ask a person stranded in the ocean why they aren’t drinking the water around them, begrudging them for not relishing and soaking in the salty ocean t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:57 PM
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I do not want to engage with you, unless we converse about why you are a very weird liar. I can see your post and comment history. Sometimes you’re a man, sometimes you’re a woman. Sometimes you have a man you like to stay skinny for and refuse to use condoms with him. Other times you are a man with a fat wife. And would only ever date women, who won’t use condoms. So which is it liar? What’s that about? Why lie all the time and pretend to be a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:42 PM
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That choice is available to anyone and everyone. Don’t like what’s being offered? Don’t accept it, Right? So with that in mind, what was the point of your initial comment? What goal was it meant to serve? Couldn’t you have nipped your own desire to comment such a thing, in the bud? By just simply saying to yourself and acknowledging the fact that “instead of men complaining, they could just not partake in dating”? Could’ve even said that to OP, it would’ve made sense as a retort, but you didn’t.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:29 PM
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I rather no one value me at all, than people engaging with me just so they can get inside of my vagina. And I’ll die on that hill. And yall complain about women wanting stuff from men all the time. Beta bux and all that jazz. So yall are actually worried about being used too, there’s just no fear of being penetrated by someone under false pretenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:24 PM
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No, that is not what I said, and that is not what OP did either. OP did not simply make a post about feeling emotionally undervalued in dating. OP explicitly framed women’s very specific and very common complaint about being used for their bodies as equivalent to men struggling to get dates or receiving lukewarm responses. That equivalence is the entire problem. Women’s complaint is not “dating feels impersonal.” It is “I am being sexually objectified, reduced to my body, and often unknowingly u…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:20 PM
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Okay, that doesn’t at all suggest the only time objectification is a problem is when it’s sexual. Like even a little bit. Care to break down how you think it does. This clearly says, the reframing op gave strips away the sexual context women complain about, so that op can make the claim they are the same phenomenons. And they are not, the claim falls apart if we actually use the complaint women make, instead of a completely different premise disguised at the same argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:44 PM
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Can you quote where I said that… because I’ve reread my writing, and don’t see that claim here. I DO see where I repeatedly say they are not the same, despite OP trying to make it seem that way. And then highlighted how they are different. Maybe you could quote where in such things?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:31 PM
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I think you conveniently changed the more frequently cited sentiment women actually use. What women usually say is not “I don’t want to be something to conquer,” it is “I don’t want to be treated like a sex object, primarily valued for my body.” That distinction matters. You replaced sex and bodily reduction with conquest because if you kept the original framing, a lot of your argument would collapse. Being treated as a sex object is not the same as feeling unseen or emotionally unappreciated. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:10 PM
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Yeah, I definitely know the male trope of never going to the physician… but I assumed when we are talking about doctors being optional and emotional labor, that we were talking about caregiving. Because I don’t see why another adult would be dealing with the doctors for another adult, unless they are literally incapable. How would I know when to make an adult a doctors appointment? Or when they are due for their prostate ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:30 PM
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Nah, not a troll. When we say stuff like cake and doctors, I assumed you meant caregiving. Bc an adult can’t go to the doctor for you… I don’t see how or why someone else would be involved with the doctor for another adults. How would I know when another grown adult needs the doctor? Idek how one would properly offload that task to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:28 PM
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Oh okay, that would make sense…. I guess? Men die sooner, in part for these reasons. But to each their own I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:21 PM
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How would they go to school and such if doctors are optional? Like 80-90% of those childhood well visits, every 3-6ish months, are for vaccines on the recommended AAP vaccine schedule… that’s also where you make sure your kid is thriving, which is not just an adjective, but a medical term determined by calculations using your child’s metrics and meeting of milestones. So I’m going to assume you didn’t know this/haven’t been to one in a long time, if ever. Because what do you think is happening a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:44 PM
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Much of this labor is unpaid and undervalued. And the WHO has programs that service men and women… Could you list the 19, I tried to look it up an couldn’t find the information
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:50 AM
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Wait, are you antivax? How would the children attend public school? Are you suggesting private schooling or homeschooling?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:43 AM
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When do/did you have downtime? I’m a professional infant nanny, I rarely have downtime, granted, that’s why I’m paid well. But what schedule allots for a ton of downtime? I’d work smarter not harder. Currently I gently sleep train at 6 months as I don’t do Ferber or extinction method, contact naps before then. Follow EPS (eat play sleep) and low sleep crutches, so no reliance on pacifiers or baby lovey. And still I have little down time, when they nap I meal prep, fold laundry, clean up. And boo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:41 AM
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Why is it an anomaly to see the people actually taking care of the children and home saying these kinds of things? Just the people that don’t??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 09:35 PM
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Lack of sex really reveals a lot of men to be complete and utter repulsive losers. This is why I advocate for women to wait men out, to see if this is what will come up to the surface. Very glad you aren’t given the opportunity to reproduce. Bc this train of thought is why women choose the bear. Yet that choice offends y’all for some reason. Hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:03 PM
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Why no reply? In what aspects? Pertaining to women? Which experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:53 PM
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What scraps are you receiving?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:50 PM
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She is talking about not caring about people she’s not sleeping with. What’s the relevancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:56 PM
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So the sex will just get even better with the person you love. Not a problem at all. Excelsior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:33 PM
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But aren’t you unsatisfied with just being by yourself? This is why I think you must mean sex. Because, don’t you want to spend the money and effort on someone else? Why else be lonely? What is the lonely aspect for you or the people you are talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:02 AM
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In what aspects? Pertaining to women? Which experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:00 AM
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Why can’t you just say yes though? Shouldn’t you say it with your chest? Or is it worry of being banned or something
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:59 AM
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Op has several posts. As far as 4 years back. You can bypass on mobile devices easily as well. I’ve never used Reddit in browser 😅. It’s how I know ALOT of people on this sub are liars, it’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:30 AM
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Are you really saying “fuck me if I and other men will no longer do the right thing”?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 09:10 PM
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Wait. By help do you mean sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 09:10 PM
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What help do they need that will not come?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 09:09 PM
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But if you’re a (in this case) lonely man who wants to die… I don’t see how supporting others would place you in the losing position?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 09:08 PM
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What IS your fault and responsibility? Bc it kinda seems like to you, absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:56 PM
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Right! I agree. It’s always “I don’t care if a woman is educated or has a degree, or is intelligent” and we should definitely be caring about intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:55 PM
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Where was the blame? Deadass?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:50 PM
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Woah, storytime on the murderer?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:10 PM
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Why do they “need” to?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 11:43 PM
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He thinks I’m cute and top-tier. That’s what counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:11 PM
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What I do know. Is that I’m def gonna sit on his face tonight. (Thats for him when he sees this hehe)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:45 PM
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It’s very like that I am average. That’s just what’s most likely. He says I’m the prettiest woman he’s been with. But IME, all guys say that, so it could just be flattery. I make good money and am I shape, do Pilates, yoga, and dance weekly. But the classes are literally filled with women. So def not special. He has the “better” job. Will likely be a rich man one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:43 PM
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Idk. I didn’t have a problem securing a handsome well to do man! He sometimes gets these posts on his feed. Particularly if I comment on them. Bub if you see this… HI HONEY BUNNY!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:15 PM
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What’s crazy is they literally pretend to be trans in this sub and the ask woman’s sub. Trying to talk about how they stay skinny for their man and love raw sex with him. All the while talking about their obese wife and deadbedroom, and desire to never use condoms bc raw sex feels best on the various ask men subs. On some subs they’re trans woman, some trans man, sometimes non binary. They have issues and cosplay as the woman of their own dreams. Very very weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:54 PM
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Next time set a time. I would’ve done the same, especially after you invite yourself to my apt…
/r/ExRedPill28/01/26 11:37 PM
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Do you have these same issues with the RP
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:20 PM
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I am saying thyroid issues that affect metabolism and weight are a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:29 PM
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Okay so you are trying to deny/pretend that the thyroid doesn’t cause weight issues
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:35 PM
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Regardless of how the woman is feeling?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:07 PM
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And you similarly have no issues with feminism then, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:06 PM
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Whenever he wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:22 PM
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This has nothing to do with why it’s in quotation marks like it’s make believe. Yet childbirth, marriage, and age, are not in quotations. Are you positing that thyroid issues do not cause persistent weight issues, the thyroid directly regulates your metabolism?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:12 PM
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Why the quotation marks around thyroid? Do you think it’s an urban legend or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:26 PM
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Stay thin, attractive and jump for joy whenever he wants sex 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:26 PM
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Do you take any issue with RP catering towards what would satisfy men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:13 PM
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I agree with most of your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:16 PM
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If you actually need medical care, pulling a mangione isn’t gonna help you receive medical treatment. It’s not good medical treatment in jail/prison
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:10 PM
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Death is death.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:10 AM
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Yes, I have found that many men swipe on everyone. When I am in the mood to chat, my response rate is quite high. That could be my luck an opening liners. Idk. However many of those conversations will fizzle out. One can interpret that however they wish. Dehydrated in the ocean and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:21 AM
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I couldn’t find percentage data, and military data isn’t separated by gender. For civilians 4,648 men and 5,747 women and children have lost their lives 🙏🏾 Thank you for highlighting the casualties of war. Senseless war fought because rich white men cannot handle not being in power and colonizing. Many lives have been lost due to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:34 PM
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I’m a marrow donor!! Hope everything goes well, I always hear it’s better for the recipient than the donor. I hope that’s the case bc it was a lil rough for me for a teeny bit 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:57 PM
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Are you Russian or Ukrainian? Wait are you even in the military anywhere globally at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:46 PM
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Every man if first a boy, left in the care of a woman. All we’d have to do is refuse to breastfeed a boy child. And it would be awful for yall from there on out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:12 PM
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Idk why the question marks and confusion. I was directly countering something you said. But seeing as you’re soo confused as to what’s going on I’m gonna head out of the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:10 PM
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I’d say that’s pretty average for the women I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:07 PM
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Idk. As of right now… I have 700 men in my bumble likes. And that’s just bumble <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:06 PM
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No it shouldn’t be equal. It should be equitable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 04:32 PM
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Roughly 1.6-1.8 billion people live in the 20 worst countries for women, split almost evenly between genders (about 800–900 million women and 800–900 million men), meaning 20–22% of all women globally and 19–22% of all men globally live under some of the most severe, state-level systems of female oppression. Afghanistan, Yemen, Pakistan, Iraq, Syria, Somalia, South Sudan, Sudan, Iran, Saudi Arabia, Democratic Republic of the Congo, Central African Republic, Chad, Mali, Niger, Burundi, Ethiopia, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:11 PM
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Did men do it or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:04 PM
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The point is that men DID pull an Iraq/Afghanistan. What is there to be confused about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:57 PM
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Men live in Iran and Afghanistan…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:42 PM
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They defend access to mates and their territory. Not the cubs for protection sake lmaoo. Male lions regularly commit infanticide for strategic purposes, the females do not do such things. They do not care for or groom the cubs, do not look after the cubs, they barely hunt. They are just territorial. That’s quite literally it. They do lay around doing mostly nothing all day. No need to be offended by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:46 PM
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How many interactions have yall had by the time yall are discussing this? Whats is the timeline for when this comes up? Moreso, when you say “trust”, do you mean benefit of the doubt/ you have no reason to think they are liars/you just met them? Or do you mean, yall know each other well enough to have built trust?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:34 PM
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And I am assuming, you believe what they say?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:31 PM
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Correct me if I am wrong to assume you believed them when they divulged such information? If so, what made them believable?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:23 PM
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But do you know this? How does one know?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:51 PM
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Have you posited that perhaps, women just don’t see the value in approaching random men out and about? Lord knows I don’t. I don’t think I am particularly fearful, unless if by fearful, you mean, worried about attracting someone they will live to regret ever having met. That I am def thinking about. But not really much else besides that. Perhaps ego, in that I, as a woman, do not have to resort to such things for a partner. I can generally engage in lower risk interaction with others, whenever I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:39 PM
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Why don’t they do this? In your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:30 PM
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Opting to stay single is entitlement?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:50 PM
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Okay, are you expecting women to approach you? Or just men they find attractive in general? Bc I’d argue women do approach the women they find attractive enough to warrant that kind of approach from them, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:41 PM
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You say that in “any other aspect of life or society, a parallel to this would be considered ludicrous.” That alone tells me this argument isn’t grounded in reality. What other aspect of life involves someone entering your body, with risks of pregnancy, disease, physical harm, and long term consequences? There is no comparable scenario. Pretending sex is analogous to ordinary transactions is already a category error, and everything after that collapses. Which brings me to your product analogy. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:13 PM
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I seriously doubt, the woman doing the vetting, cares at all how she’s “setting up” that man. Lord knows I don’t. Every man waits. You don’t like it. Bye bye 👋🏾. Not my problem how it sets you up. I’m not lending my body out so men can be set up for sexual success in other relationships. It’s actually comical to me how you bring that up, like women give a fuck. Actually, making men wait, weeds out the ne’er-do-wells such as yourself. My friends and I have NEVER had issues. We find partners we de…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:52 PM
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Anything could happen. It’s about likelihood.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:49 PM
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I don’t get DMs on Reddit. Unless it’s specific to something I’ve posted. Never anything else. Guess im bottom 10% or I’m black or average women don’t have it like that idk. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:27 PM
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Domestic workers aren’t even legally allowed to be salaried employees. They have to be hourly in most states. Too easy to exploit them otherwise 🥴. I’m a domestic worker
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:26 PM
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This is always such a White talking point. WOC were ALWAYS in the workforce. And actually many had no choice but to be forced to work without pay. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:08 PM
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I’ve edited for grammar if you are still confused
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:25 PM
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Yet somehow, within my relationship, what you say does not apply. And we manage a balance you clam in Doesn’t exist. You lack nuance and admit it in your reply here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:21 PM
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I know the post you were talking about. The guy in the comments, kept claiming that he should get a seven, even though people kept consistently rating him a three
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:55 PM
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You pretend like something in the middle doesn’t exist, yet me and my partner somehow manage to not be so black and white about things like this. You seem to lack nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:35 PM
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I’ll be your friend if you promise not to be weird. Message me!
/r/ExRedPill26/09/24 01:53 PM
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Do you live in Belgium? Youre thinking with an American affirmative action mindset. Thats not applicable to Belgium.
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