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| 2 | Why don't unattractive men want to completely eradicate their libido?Cringe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Why don't unattractive men want to completely eradicate their libido?Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 06:37 AM |
| 3 | Why don't unattractive men want to completely eradicate their libido?Hairloss medications are just as likely to keep your libido intact and just ruin your ability to maintain an erection. That would leave those men even worse off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 05:20 AM |
| 1 | The Voice Memo Guy, Proves Women Also Can’t Handle Rejection.Okay? So? That isn’t unique to a voice memo. And obviously she can change her mind. Like what in the FUCK are you talking about? I’m done with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 02:55 AM |
| 1 | The Voice Memo Guy, Proves Women Also Can’t Handle Rejection.You’re not making any sense. If she consented over a text or a voice memo, what makes you think she would be any less likely to just consent in person? Are you just concerned that women’s consent is recorded in general? Because then that has nothing to do with this discussion. Please learn how to stay on topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 02:51 AM |
| 0 | The Voice Memo Guy, Proves Women Also Can’t Handle Rejection.I have no idea who or what you think you’re arguing with; but it’s not with me. Wtf are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 02:34 AM |
| 2 | The Voice Memo Guy, Proves Women Also Can’t Handle Rejection.I’ve never said otherwise. Nobody has. Just like you can get consent right before and it gets revoked halfway through and you have to stop. Like what the FUCK is your point here? Who are you arguing with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 02:32 AM |
| 2 | The Voice Memo Guy, Proves Women Also Can’t Handle Rejection.Yeah, he could have the grounds to be mad regardless of whether it's implicit or explicit - so not sure you're point? People get mad when they don't get what they want. That's human. Maybe he would be sad. I don't know, don't really care. And where exactly is anybody condoning rape here? Wtf are you talking about? If he wanted to rape her, why would he even ask for consent in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 11:59 PM |
| 1 | The Voice Memo Guy, Proves Women Also Can’t Handle Rejection.You need to take an actual class on consent, because you clearly don't understand what the concept means. No, you do. Because you don't understand what it means. Ad hominem attack though, nice. If I'm attacking a strawman, then I apologize. I assumed you understood what consent was well enough that I could respond to your actual argument. Apparently I gave you too much credit. Two sentences in, two ad hominems. Nice. There is no recognized model of consent where you negotiate the terms of sexual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 11:56 PM |
| – | Getting women to lower their standards will just trap you in a passionless relationshipWhat in the fuck are you talking about, and why are you trying to talk about it with me? I don't give a shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 11:42 PM |
| 5 | The Voice Memo Guy, Proves Women Also Can’t Handle Rejection.I'm not doing any of those things. You are just attacking a strawman so there's no point in me continuing this. Note everything you've described here is MORE LIKELY to happen with your implicit model of consent, FYI. You are supporting rape culture absolutely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 11:40 PM |
| -1 | The Voice Memo Guy, Proves Women Also Can’t Handle Rejection.It's literally just explicit versus implicit consent, and there's nothing to suggest the implicit consent still won't apply. Everything you've written here is irrelevant. There's no weaponization going on here, if anything it's best of both worlds. You clearly prefer a more ambiguous, implicit consent - which is your right. It leads to significantly more rapes, so I'd argue you're supporting rape culture, but that's another discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 11:33 PM |
| – | Getting women to lower their standards will just trap you in a passionless relationshipI don't give a shit about 'should', just pointing out you're completely wrong claiming it never happens. Learn to read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 11:27 PM |
| 0 | Getting women to lower their standards will just trap you in a passionless relationship'i hate my wife/husband' humor And yet that seems like a cakewalk compared to the 'I hate men entirely' rhetoric that's replaced it, and there's no attempt at humor anymore either - it's sincere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 11:23 PM |
| – | Getting women to lower their standards will just trap you in a passionless relationshipno woman is settling for mediocre, nor are we having sex with it Many, many women are doing both of those things. Just like many, many men are doing the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 11:18 PM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemWomen can gladly rate themselves, I don't care. I just accept that they are worthless ratings. Who are you trying to quote? Because I didn't say anything that you quoted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 04:38 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemI don't care about your poll. I'm saying publicly like every woman you ask will give herself a rating between 4 and 6. Most don't actually believe it. You can always count on u/corey____trevor to ignore facts and have a take demonstrating his worthlessness as a man and human being. Fortunately we can all take comfort that this worthless incel will be the last of his bloodline. Cringy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 04:34 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemWomen publicly rate themselves between a 4 and a 6, yet most definitely don't truthfully believe that. Worthless poll. They say what they think society wants them to say. Just like with body count questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 04:29 AM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.Anger isn't the issue Why are you telling that to me? Tell that to the person who just said being angry is "teenie behaviour". Did you respond to the wrong comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 06:47 PM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.Being angry about the lack of things like pretty privilege is teenie behavior And yet being angry about things like economic privilege isn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 06:07 PM |
| – | If you have to use Money or Status to attract a Women she just doesnt like you that much.The only thing that gets me horny is how a man interacts with me The post specifies "character" as well as looks, so you're just agreeing with the OP. The rules of the sub say you can't post comments agreeing with the OP, please comment under the automod instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 06:07 AM |
| 3 | If you have to use Money or Status to attract a Women she just doesnt like you that much.None of what you said disputes my point, salary influences attraction. I don’t really care about the gender difference to argue that point because it’s irrelevant. If you want to get into this argument; all those studies you linked are equally as bullshit. Arguably more so. But again, irrelevant because they don’t even dispute my point. You are just arguing for arguing sake, such a waste of my time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 02:10 AM |
| 1 | If you have to use Money or Status to attract a Women she just doesnt like you that much.Right, and the study I linked shows that claim doesn’t hold water. Women literally like men who make more money more than men who make less money, all else being equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:52 AM |
| 0 | If you have to use Money or Status to attract a Women she just doesnt like you that much.So? I don’t see how that disputes what I said. Women find men who have a higher salary more attractive. Just like they find men who are funny more attractive, and men who are better looking more attractive, and men who are athletic more attractive, and so on. People on this sub make up the dumbest fucking arguments. Why are you trying to tell me salary doesn’t make someone physically more desirable? Like that’s the most obvious shit imaginable and I’ve never claimed otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:52 AM |
| 1 | If you have to use Money or Status to attract a Women she just doesnt like you that much.Obviously salary doesn’t make you physically more desirable, that wouldn’t even make sense. Do you know the definition of physical? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:23 AM |
| 0 | If you have to use Money or Status to attract a Women she just doesnt like you that much.Uhh, obviously there is more to dating than just salary, I don’t see what your point is? I’m just saying salary influences things. Do you believe I’m saying salary is the end-all-be-all or something? Because I haven’t remotely made that claim. All else equal, women will find a man who has a higher salary more attractive. They probably don’t even realize it. Are there other more important things? Of course. People on this sub literally are incapable of understanding nuance. I don’t get it. Must b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:56 AM |
| 0 | If you have to use Money or Status to attract a Women she just doesnt like you that much.Read the study. It’s definitely not worthless. If it was a self reported study on things like body count or cheating I’d agree with you. But this is different. The study is fine, and the rankings are telling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:41 AM |
| 0 | If you have to use Money or Status to attract a Women she just doesnt like you that much.Easily debunked: Ratings of attractiveness are found to be around 1000 times more sensitive to salary for females rating males, compared to males rating females. Higher economic status can therefore offset lower physical attractiveness in men much more easily than in women. Women literally find men who make more money more attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:09 AM |
| 0 | “Pair bonding™️” feels like a self-serving male fantasy about how men wished women attached to menIf the correlation is strong enough it doesn't really matter whether it also includes causation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Talking to women is impossible.It doesn’t matter whether it’s a good social connection or not, the fact of that matter is something like FB or Instagram is a social network. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Talking to women is impossible.Of course social media and the internet counts as a social network, the fb movie is literally called “The Social Network”. Why would you be surprised it counts? I also said it’s not very valuable. Not sure why you felt the need to give me that whole spiel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Talking to women is impossible.I believe they call what you've done here 'projecting'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Talking to women is impossible.Okay? All of what you described is much smaller than today's social networds. A 16 year old girl can have thousands of followers and hundreds of DMs. That's more men than Grandma had talk to in her whole life. Is it a more valuable social network today? Probably not, but it's certainly much larger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Women will never be stuck alone.You brought up an extremely shitty example, and think it's a gotcha I called you out on it? Lol. Note I said "person" not men. I don't think you're smart enough to actually see anything through another person's perspective, man or woman. Kind of sad I had to spell it out for you, but I will I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 04:15 AM |
| -1 | Women will never be stuck alone.A single, unmarried, childless man would be heavily scrutinized volunteering as a big brother, I wouldn’t blame them at all for choosing not to. And that’s even granting you that they don’t, which I honestly don’t even grant you. Respectfully, you come across as completely unable to see another person’s perspective at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Men should be glad that they’re less desirable than women.And boom, immediately a hypocrite. Didn't take long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Men should be glad that they’re less desirable than women.That's not what I asked. Seeing as you believe sex is no big deal, do you also believe abortion rights are no big deal? It's a yes or no question. Are you capable of answering a question without deflecting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 12:37 AM |
| 4 | Women will never be stuck alone.Is it self centered though? Wouldn’t the more relevant question be, how do we keep men alive so that women won’t be lonely? Your framing automatically dismisses the concerns of the dead men lol Like women are lonely because men die. “Are we concerned about that loneliness?” is what you ask, I ask “how do we keep men alive so that women aren’t lonely in the first place”. I think I’m on the right side here, you’re clearly on the self centered side. Also lastly; nowhere did I say it wasn’t concerni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 12:07 AM |
| 5 | Men should be glad that they’re less desirable than women.It’s easy to be happy single right? So sex clearly is no big deal, and to avoid an abortion, women can just avoid sex. Easy right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 12:04 AM |
| 11 | Men should be glad that they’re less desirable than women.but unless you’re a hideously unattractive man then it doesn’t really hit you negatively, it just gives other guys an advantage Other guys getting an advantage naturally means you are disadvantaged, which of course is a negative hit. Wtf are you talking about lol And while I do feel bad for the guys who get body shamed, most of it is just on the internet. People don’t really say that stuff in the real world. It absolutely happens in the real world. I hear "short king" said all the time for examp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:50 PM |
| 7 | Men should be glad that they’re less desirable than women.It’s relatively easy to be happy single. Do you also then agree it is "relatively easy" for women to avoid abortions - and thus abortion rights aren't a big deal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Men should be glad that they’re less desirable than women.Male celebrities/musicians/athletes are probably the closest we get to that, and I can't remember basically any of them ever complaining about too much female attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Women will never be stuck alone.I always wonder what these dudes think about about elderly women? Widows? This demographic is disproportionately affected by loneliness. The dudes might be more concerned about the even worse situation that causes those lonely women - the dudes being dead lol. Also men would KILL to have women's situation of an excess of men at a young age versus the reverse. Being lonely at age 70 is much better than being lonely at age 20 and women only are lonely at old age because so many more men have liter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:32 PM |
| 0 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Basically no discrimination laws include straight/white/men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:10 AM |
| 3 | There are plenty of single and childless men who are just as happy as single and childless women, we just don’t see it advertised as muchI mean “all the conditions they desire” is just completely changing the definition of child-free and is as disingenuous as it gets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemAlso where the hell are you going that women are wearing bikinis in a coffee shop? Is it really that hard to imagine some places? Literally any coffee shop near a beach or pool, for example. Note I don't mind the bikinis, no complaints from me on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:46 PM |
| 7 | There are plenty of single and childless men who are just as happy as single and childless women, we just don’t see it advertised as muchChild-free, asexuals, and aromantics each make up only about 1–2% of the population. There's literally no chance these numbers are right. Child-free alone is higher than 1-2% easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:42 PM |
| 15 | There are plenty of single and childless men who are just as happy as single and childless women, we just don’t see it advertised as muchPeople only see this from the lens of attractive men who choose not to settle down. Most men who never marry and don’t have kids are considered total losers because they just failed miserably at dating. Many having some sort of social disability like Autism. Also good luck getting involved in basically any activity around kids if you’re a single/unmarried/childless man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.Don't remember saying that. Lol. Lmfao. Rofl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:06 AM |
| -1 | There are some fundamental social differences between men and women which cause relationship building friction.Respectfully this is kind of a needless post, does anybody really disagree that women are more high maintenance and like to yap with each other more than men? Seems like kind of an obvious, accepted fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 03:46 AM |
| 6 | Talking to women is impossible.I would agree with what you're saying, but definitely "large social networks" is not how that would be described is all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.This isn't even a post made by a red pill poster though. And I didn't make any claims. So I still don't know what you're getting at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.What does grammar have to do with this? "There is evidence out there for gender arguments" what does this even mean? Like what "gender argument" exactly? And "you guys make claims" I didn't make any claims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 12:56 AM |
| 10 | Talking to women is impossible.Our grandparents didn’t have outstanding game. They have large social networks Your grandparents had significantly smaller social networks. You literally couldn't be more wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 12:25 AM |
| 0 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so."You guys" includes me though, where exactly did I make any sort of claim or agreement with OP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.I have no idea what you're talking about. I don't know who "you guys" are either seeing as I haven't made any claims, especially none that I've framed as fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.Nobody has a legitimate study when it comes to this. That's my point. It's all bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.Your data is both 20 years old, and consists exclusively of surveys with respect to sex that have no way to be verified and provide no incentive for respondents to tell the truth - thus is worthless. Do you have any counter studies suggesting most women have lots of casual sex? No, why would I? I never made that claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 11:10 PM |
| 6 | "Nice guys finish last", AFBB statementes are kind of true for most average guys.I don't understand your poor grammar. Regardless, none of this matters since the study I linked proves you wrong anyways. You just didn't read it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 10:29 PM |
| 8 | "Nice guys finish last", AFBB statementes are kind of true for most average guys.Distinction without a difference. Try harder. "It's not the jaw line that makes a man attractive, it's the the genes his good jaw suggests will be passed down to the children you have with him." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 10:28 PM |
| 3 | "Nice guys finish last", AFBB statementes are kind of true for most average guys.Take it up with the peer-reviewed study/article, not with me. Regardless it doesn't dispute my point. To the women who look for money, it’s transactional. It’s not attraction. Plenty of women are literally attracted to wealth and power and status. There's no denying this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 10:15 PM |
| 3 | "Nice guys finish last", AFBB statementes are kind of true for most average guys.He doesn't say that in the image you linked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:42 PM |
| 4 | "Nice guys finish last", AFBB statementes are kind of true for most average guys.He says men should date women they find unattractive, not the reverse. Learn how to link a comment, that's something a 6 year old can do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:35 PM |
| 2 | "Nice guys finish last", AFBB statementes are kind of true for most average guys.I can't follow the convo in that image, it doesn't make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:07 PM |
| 3 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.which isn’t consistent with data, which suggests most women have 2-5 partners in their lifetime There's nothing trustworthy or reliable about that data. and the number is currently downtrending You have no way to verify that. You'll probably try to link the bullshit GSS data though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:02 PM |
| 32 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.There's basically no reliable/trustworthy evidence or stats for the vast majority of the talking points on this sub. So if this is your argument, we basically could just close up shop here period. Honestly probably not a bad idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:02 PM |
| 4 | "Nice guys finish last", AFBB statementes are kind of true for most average guys.Let's see it then. I'm curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 08:57 PM |
| 3 | "Nice guys finish last", AFBB statementes are kind of true for most average guys.I agreed No, you didn't. You said "Idk.", that's not agreeing lol. That's literally how you start a sentence when you disagree with someone. women aren't attracted to misogynists. Debatable. But again, irrelevant. Everything you'd added to this conversation is completely irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 08:27 PM |
| 3 | "Nice guys finish last", AFBB statementes are kind of true for most average guys.Yeah but we're in a comment thread, I'm not subscribing to OP's post. If you want to respond to him, then do it. Why respond to him in a response to my comment? You even made up a fake quote and attributed it to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 08:18 PM |
| 5 | "Nice guys finish last", AFBB statementes are kind of true for most average guys.Yeah I was just expanding on the part where you mentioned 'nice guys' I haven't said anything about 'nice guys', so who exactly are you quoting? Wtf are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 08:16 PM |
| 5 | "Nice guys finish last", AFBB statementes are kind of true for most average guys.Okay? I'm not sure how this disputes my point. I'm actually not sure how it's relevant at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 08:08 PM |
| 5 | "Nice guys finish last", AFBB statementes are kind of true for most average guys.But women's attraction to a man is literally shaped by his wealth and income, they are 1000x more sensitive to it than men. So even if I grant you men are frequently making that complaint (which I honestly don't) - they still make it with the assumption this would make them more attractive to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 07:52 PM |
| 21 | "Nice guys finish last", AFBB statementes are kind of true for most average guys.yall are constantly complaining about how women won’t date guys they aren’t attracted to I don't think really anybody makes this argument. They simply just complain that women aren't attracted to them and thus won't date them. Meaning, their wish is that women were attracted to them and will date them. So no, those really aren't mutually exclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Women are hypocritical about sex work.Sex isn't recognized as an essential human need. Then naturally you believe abortion rights aren't a big deal then, right? Since women could simply stop fucking and avoid needing an abortion altogether. Or maybe, since women freak the fuck out every time abortion is put at risk, sex is more of an essential human need than you are willing to let on. Note only like 1% of abortions are a consequence of rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 07:41 AM |
| 3 | Having a backbone, understanding and enforcing your boundaries, and being firm with your needs aren't the same as being dominant, and having a good personality isn't necessarily being meek or being a people-pleaserNothing concerning about it at all. You have a pretty limited view of submission. Note I didn’t say anything about boundaries nor consent, so the fact you snuck that in there is interesting. Boundaries and consent are a given and I never suggested otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 12:49 AM |
| 4 | Having a backbone, understanding and enforcing your boundaries, and being firm with your needs aren't the same as being dominant, and having a good personality isn't necessarily being meek or being a people-pleaserSubmissiveness requires having known safe-words No it doesn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 12:32 AM |
| 1 | If you're a regular, average guy, you don't need to relate on dating appsI honestly disagree. There is a level of acquaintance I hit with some people where it is just extremely awkward when you run into them. Hard to explain and obviously doesn’t hold true for people who I’m actually friends with, but those acquaintances would definitely not be my choice over a stranger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 08:56 AM |
| 0 | Most men here don't just have dating problem, they're severely under-socialized in general.trueuglywomen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Most men here don't just have dating problem, they're severely under-socialized in general.How could that possibly have been what you think he was saying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 11:37 PM |
| 5 | If you could be born as a woman instead, would you?Idk about this one - it’s those crappy years towards the end of life Significantly more men die at young ages than women. It’s not just the 80s and 90s, it’s all the way starting from the 20s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 08:38 PM |
| 2 | The manosphere thrives because society has failed to provide an alternative.So with respect to abortion, the answer is yes, those things do benefit some men. But it's also no, those things harm some men. Seems like kind of a wash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 03:45 AM |
| – | I have a question. Why do men seem to care more about what women do more than women care more about what men do?Holy shit your reading comprehension is appalling. This is pointless since every comment you make just proves my point further but you somehow can’t see that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 06:19 AM |
| 9 | I have a question. Why do men seem to care more about what women do more than women care more about what men do?I thought you rolled into this post to defend men being creeps online, because they're sad no one wants to have sex with them. So, they have to shame attractive women online for all the sex they imagine these women are having, in their porn-y little brains. And, according to you, that's the same as women who are "outrageously militant about access to abortion," - which I assume you mean abortion rights activists, politicians, legal scholars, human rights orgs etc. I didn't remotely make any sort… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 12:43 AM |
| 8 | I have a question. Why do men seem to care more about what women do more than women care more about what men do?Uh... what are you talking about? I didn't forget about any of them. None of those women have to have sex. Sex isn't a big deal right? It's not the end of the world if they don't get to have sex I thought? Also I LITERALLY called out rape victims. Learn to read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 11:20 PM |
| 10 | I have a question. Why do men seem to care more about what women do more than women care more about what men do?You do know women are actually dying since Roe was revoked, right? The maternal mortality increased drastically since. Come on, dude. Doesn't that just make my point even more? Women are literally at risk of DYING, and they still can't stop themselves from having sex and dating men. (of course exempting the like 1% of abortions that are a result of rape) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 11:01 PM |
| 0 | Blue Pill/Womans advice makes far more sense if you imply 1 point.I really doubt you get told that often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pill/Womans advice makes far more sense if you imply 1 point.Even if I grant you an "optimal mating strategy" exists and is what you claim it is - a man/woman could still both benefit from a less optimal strategy. If steak is my optimal food choice, I can still benefit from eating chicken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 09:03 PM |
| 5 | Blue Pill/Womans advice makes far more sense if you imply 1 point.Redpill suggests that dating is a zero sum game where one person’s happiness comes at the expense of the other’s The red pill doesn't suggest that at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 08:31 PM |
| 18 | I have a question. Why do men seem to care more about what women do more than women care more about what men do?Why do men seem to care more about what women do more than women care more about what men do? Because the vast majority of men are unattractive/invisible to women, so why should they care about them. The reverse is not true. When it is an attractive man, women start to care very quickly about what he does. why do men like to shame women for sex but complain that they’ve never had sex? Why would a man be happy a woman has sex with another man? That doesn't help him have sex. Should he shame that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Some women are avoiding relationships because of social anxietyIf you don’t believe me, I can give you my socials and you can see for yourself. Let's see! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 08:41 PM |
| 2 | The reason why young people are having less sex is pretty straight forward.“my evidence is reality/common sense, go outside and look around” Where did I ever say this though? Or are you just quoting nobody and on a soapbox for some reason? Because I don't know who or what you're trying to quote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.It makes zero sense https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-than-long-term-partners-husbands-TViyiCJ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 08:10 PM |
| 0 | The reason why young people are having less sex is pretty straight forward.Whatever you make up is not arguably better. If you had reading comprehension, I only meant it was arguably better because it's not deceptive about how shitty it is. I know personal anecdotes aren't actually any better. Data gives you a directional sense for reality. So yes, that data is better than some silly incel claim that only 5% of men (or pick your percent) have sex. In this case though, it actually doesn't give you a directional sense for reality - especially when you display it without … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.Hmm without commitment… I wonder, that sounds an awful lot like it’s pretty casual then? Sex outside of any romantic or committed relationship… what word could we use to describe that? Casual sounds perfect to me. What word would you think fits better? /u/routine-present-3676 we found another one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:38 PM |
| 0 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.I don’t care what you consider it; because the rest of the fucking world knows that fuck buddies have casual sex with each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:35 PM |
| -2 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.You don’t know anyone who has ever planned casual sex? You don’t know a single person who’s had a friends with benefits for example? Fuck buddies plan casual sex all the time. It’s shocking you have felt the need to chime in on this topic when you literally don’t even know what casual sex means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:31 PM |
| -4 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.Casual sex is casual and unplanned. There is nothing about the definition of casual sex that requires it be unplanned. It’s fascinating to me how the women on this sub just make up random-ass definitions of words that already have agreed-upon definitions. It's being drunk and beer goggles and hooking up with some random dude This isn’t even remotely covering the vast majority of casual sex. Go look up what casual sex means. You clearly have no idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.This is a myth that needs to die. This doesn't even make sense. Why would someone get into a relationship with someone uglier than the random guy that they had drunken casual sex with? It makes perfect sense though? There is much more to a relationship than looks, so an uglier guy has a much better chance to make up for his lack of looks by being funny, rich, charismatic, capable, etc while a for a hookup none of that matters really. Also there are two parties involved. If a woman can have sex w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:06 PM |
| 2 | The reason why young people are having less sex is pretty straight forward.It arguably is better in the sense that it’s obvious how shit it is. You try to pretend your data is in any way accurate and reproducible which makes it more sinister. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 06:40 PM |
| 5 | The reason why young people are having less sex is pretty straight forward.The fact those numbers jump around so much year to year tell you the data is completely worthless. Survey-based data on sex isn’t worth even bringing up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 05:09 PM |
| 2 | What would a red-pill man do if he was magically turned into a biological female?Such a stupid question that literally cannot be answered in any realistic fashion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Chivalry is a submissive act.No, it means literally every action someone takes is an act of submission. Seriously, just spend the 5 minutes thinking about your definition. Also wtf does biology have to do with this discussion? You have no idea what words mean lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 04:57 PM |
| 0 | Chivalry is a submissive act.If being compliant with cultural and/or moral code is what submission is to you, then essentially everything anybody does is submissive. That’s just dumb and makes the word meaningless. Seriously just go look up the definition, this is a waste of time since it’s already very clear about what submission means and it’s not whatever you’re describing. Is a father being submissive when he chooses morally not to spank his child for throwing their food? By your definition, that’s a submissive act. Lit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Chivalry is a submissive act.Yes, to me, helping anyone who is capable of doing the task themselves is a submissive act. I don't really care what it is "to you" since we have an agreed-upon definition of what submission is and what you're describing here doesn't fit that definition. I think the whole idea of Chilvary (for any gender) is a submissive mentality It's not. There could be overlap, but there doesn't need to be. If a knight gave a flower to a child, he's not being submissive but he is being chivalrous. Everyone wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Chivalry is a submissive act.Point 1: Doing tasks she can clearly do herself is submissive (a gesture of service/deference). That's just straight up not in the definition of submission. You'd do well to actually learn what submission is before making a post like this. Whether she can do the task or not has no relevance to whether it is submissive to do it for her. If you cook dinner for your child, are you submitting to your child? At a certain age they could definitely do it themselves. But of course no one would consider … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Most men don't understand what rape is because they think of women as less.If you agree with the OP your comment will be deleted by the mods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 04:47 PM |
| 20 | Women find good men sexually appealingCriminals are more successful with women than non criminals. So even if we take the most charitable explanation for that fact, it means women don't care whether a guy is good or bad and they certainly don't find "good men" more sexually appealing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 03:29 AM |
| 3 | In 2026; The patriarchy is real, broadly promoted by both sides equally, broadly harms both sides equally, and isn't that big of a problem.Because social media platforms are peddling it to them as rage bait. But social media is in its infancy, so that doesn't make much sense to me. Why were women and men both so supportive of the patriarchy back in say 2000 when social media wasn't much of a thing? I don’t think people in authoritarian countries are better off, but I think authoritarians do a good job convincing them to fear those who are different from them, and that it’s in their interest to seed power over to the ruling class to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 11:51 PM |
| 4 | In 2026; The patriarchy is real, broadly promoted by both sides equally, broadly harms both sides equally, and isn't that big of a problem.Considering all of this, why do men and women broadly support and promote it? That's according to you and the OP at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 11:29 PM |
| 2 | In 2026; The patriarchy is real, broadly promoted by both sides equally, broadly harms both sides equally, and isn't that big of a problem.Huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 11:13 PM |
| 0 | In 2026; The patriarchy is real, broadly promoted by both sides equally, broadly harms both sides equally, and isn't that big of a problem.Why make a debate post if you aren't actually going to make any substantive responses? whereas an ideal system would not cause harm Not necessarily. Just the least harm of any option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 11:13 PM |
| 3 | In 2026; The patriarchy is real, broadly promoted by both sides equally, broadly harms both sides equally, and isn't that big of a problem.That doesn't answer the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 11:06 PM |
| 1 | In 2026; The patriarchy is real, broadly promoted by both sides equally, broadly harms both sides equally, and isn't that big of a problem.Yes it's not ideal Why is it not ideal? By your own position it's promoted by each side voluntarily. If each side broadly wants and/or supports it, that sounds like an ideal to me. I don't actually believe we live in a patriarchy anyways, just think it's interesting you believe something isn't ideal while also claiming it's something people largely want and support. Are you just smarter than everybody? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Women saying they wouldn't date younger is meaningless.You don't think the government's purpose goes beyond making laws? There isn't a single country on earth whose government even remotely sticks to just that. I'd recommend you do some research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 02:45 AM |
| -1 | Women saying they wouldn't date younger is meaningless.What you're describing is a cultural attitude, which you can't really police. Why not? The government gets involved in plenty of cultural attitude-issues whether through marketing campaigns, or just straight up creating laws to address them. For example abortion. The government (in Canada) goes WAY beyond just legalizing abortion. They’ve 100% involved themselves in changing the cultural discourse around it entirely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 04:14 AM |
| 1 | There is no real evidence men struggle more in getting sex/relationshipsNo, my opinion is equally as worthless as the CDC’s. Seriously how are you not getting this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 03:50 PM |
| 3 | There is no real evidence men struggle more in getting sex/relationshipsThe very nature of survey-based studies is the flaw. What aren’t you getting? There is no way to trust self reported answers when there is no incentive to be honest and no way to confirm accuracy. We know this factually because body count surveys always show heterosexual men with a higher body count than heterosexual women which is literally impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 03:03 PM |
| 2 | There is no real evidence men struggle more in getting sex/relationshipsIn this case it’s a classic because it’s true. People have no incentive to be honest when taking these surveys. The numbers are never consistently reproducible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 02:53 PM |
| 3 | There is no real evidence men struggle more in getting sex/relationshipsAny stats around sex or cheating or etc aren’t worth the paper they’re written on. They are all survey based and sex-related surveys notoriously lack credibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 02:51 PM |
| 4 | Most of the time men bring out serious complaints only to shut women up, which proves that they don't actually careThe only men I have heard complaining about the draft are American men Uhh have you been hiding under a rock? They literally have squads hunting down draft dodgers in Ukraine and have for years now. Ukrainian men are certainly complaining about it. I also pretty regularly hear complaints from Koreans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 06:31 PM |
| 1 | If women faced a real safety risk in dating, then their behaviour would represent itIt’s when strange men tell them “well you chose him” You did though. Nobody is entitled to love or relationships or sex. You could have stayed single and celibate and reduced your risk of sexual assault/etc. by like 99%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Do abusive men have good personalities?Lol. Hitler literally had never even had a relationship by his late 20s. Again, he’s the worst example you could bring up here and your comment just further cements that since it clearly wasn’t his manipulation skills that got him interest from women, but rather his status as the Fuhrer. Therefore even though he was just as manipulative in his 20s, it gave him no success with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Do abusive men have good personalities?No, I think that Hitler’s skills at manipulation gave him literally zero success with women. So arguably the greatest manipulator the world has seen could not even succeed with women because he wasn’t attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Do abusive men have good personalities?Hitler is exactly the last person you want to bring up to make your point here lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Sexism is bad, and “decentering” men and women leads to sexist echo chambers.Or do you have a better idea on what causes sexist echo chambers? Certainly not decentering the other gender. The most sexist societies in the world have no concept of decentering the other gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Sexism is bad, and “decentering” men and women leads to sexist echo chambers.Lesbians aren’t centering men to begin with though. Neither are asexuals. Some did. Plenty of lesbians dated men before they realized they weren't attracted to them. Same with asexuals. which I do think represents a step towards cultivating a biased perspective against them. Sounds like gobbledygook to me. Also you are backtracking big time now. "A step towards" being sexist is very far from your original claim of it straight up being sexist. Is a man who dedicates himself to being a Catholic pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:47 PM |
| 6 | Sexism is bad, and “decentering” men and women leads to sexist echo chambers.Yes, I think that's ridiculous. I don't think that lesbians, who categorically reject men, are automatically sexists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:27 PM |
| 6 | Sexism is bad, and “decentering” men and women leads to sexist echo chambers.sexism is a consequence of categorically rejecting the opposite gender. No it's not. What a ridiculous claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:12 PM |
| -1 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?Men and women are similarly picky about who they decide to get into long-term relationships with. What world are you living in exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 05:18 PM |
| – | Women choosing abusive men is a skill issueLol. If anything you said was true; then the effect would be equal for men/women. Since it’s not, you’re spewing shit that is completely wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 05:55 PM |
| – | Women choosing abusive men is a skill issueMoney doesn't make women attracted to a guy. Women view men who are wealthy as more attractive, this is pretty well studied. We found that ratings of attractiveness were around 1000 times more sensitive to salary for females rating males, compared to males rating females. These results indicate that higher economic status can offset lower physical attractiveness in men much more easily than in women. Neither raters' BMI nor age influenced this effect for females rating male attractiveness. https… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 05:06 PM |
| 6 | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsNo, they all equally hold no water at all really. Anything involving self-reported answers is worthless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 11:54 PM |
| 9 | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsrigorous academic experiments that have been published in peer reviewed journals You say this like some kind of gotcha, but the fact is when it comes to social studies like this, even papers in peer reviewed journals have regularly proven to be bunk. You aren't getting legit data on this stuff anywhere. Surveys consistently show straight men report a higher average number of sexual partners than straight women, which we know factually is impossible which is just one quick example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 11:21 PM |
| 3 | It seems that after the breakup, women are with a new guy almost instantly, while guys have to go through a crazy long dry spellA 10% unemployment rate would be a national crisis. And that’s the bare minimum. Women also date older, they are way more likely to be bisexual, more likely to be asexual etc. Sorry, you can’t get away from this one. You got proven wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 07:09 PM |
| 6 | It seems that after the breakup, women are with a new guy almost instantly, while guys have to go through a crazy long dry spellWhy don’t you break that down by age for us? And especially break it down by age/country. Since the only reason there are more women than men is that men die younger. And that doesn’t show in the numbers until around age 45 which is when enough men have started to die off that there are now more women. As of a few years ago in Canada for example there were 10% more men aged 20-29 than women. That’s a huge difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?Exactly, and someone who gives a girlfriend experience wouldn’t be referred to as a hooker. Which is why as soon as I called you out on it, you realized the mistake you made and stopped using the term hooker. If you said escort I would maybe give it to you, but even that’s a stretch. But no “hooker” is going to be your +1 to a wedding or will be brought to meet your family - the questions this post is literally about. Closest you could get to that is a sugar baby and even the vast majority of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 03:19 AM |
| 7 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?I have no idea what you’re even talking about at this point. It is so far removed from the comment thread I started. Rape is not even remotely relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 03:10 AM |
| 6 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?Of course you’ve somehow made this a rape discussion. Outrageous gymnastics to somehow get there, props. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?Nobody would call a woman giving a “girlfriend experience” a “hooker”. Like get real. Learn to just admit when you screwed up. You know you did since you’ve now completely stopped using “hooker” in this comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 01:58 AM |
| 7 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?Why would you be curious about something that you claimed is objectively true? Those are contradictory, no? Maybe not contradictory strictly speaking, but a pretty poor way to argue/debate at least. Also I don't care whether you're upset or not, not sure why that's relevant or why you'd feel the need to tell me that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?A hooker is just for sex, and this post literally asks you not to consider sex robots. Did you even read the OP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 11:11 PM |
| 7 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?Well, I meant in a societal sense being single is far more socially acceptable than lugging a humanoid ai woman around with you. This is just an objective truth. Then why are you asking the question? It seems like you have the objective truth already. What I think is happening is that you are feeling personally attacked for some reason and want to turn this back around on me. Turning it back on you? What does that even mean? I'm just saying you are calling these hypothetical guys clowns, and say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 11:04 PM |
| 12 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?I don’t really feel strongly. Your word choices tell a different story. Calling them clowns, saying it's more embarrassing than being single, etc. You obviously view it very negatively. how do you intend to navigate the world with one of these? Again, impossible to say really without knowing the capabilities of the robot girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 10:52 PM |
| 11 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?I mean it's kind of hard to have this debate because I don't really know what you imagine as a robot girlfriend or what I imagine as one. There's a pretty big spectrum of what that might be. I do see you feel very strongly about men having it as an option and you clearly hate the idea of it though which I find interesting. I'm all for it on the other hand. If forever alone men can get some semblance of peace/romance out of a robot, seems pretty harmless to me. Unlike you I won't judge them more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 10:49 PM |
| 11 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?I’m talking about ones who intend to fully replace a human woman with a robot as their gf or wife. Do you honestly believe men who have a girlfriend or wife would rather replace them with a robot? Can you give some examples of any of those men saying that? Otherwise isn't it obvious why a man who doesn't have a girlfriend or wife (and possibly never has) would like the idea of having the option of a robot at least? They equally aren't getting the social capital/currency from being forever alone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 10:32 PM |
| – | Why do men accuse women of having high standards, then the same men proceed to shame women for marrying guys they aren't attracted to?Reported for personal attack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 08:40 PM |
| 0 | Why do men accuse women of having high standards, then the same men proceed to shame women for marrying guys they aren't attracted to?To an extent, sure. Lot's of men are attracted to old fat women already anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do men accuse women of having high standards, then the same men proceed to shame women for marrying guys they aren't attracted to?I don't think it's at all reasonable to expect women to lower their standards and genuinely want to sleep with someone they naturally find unattractive. Quote where I gave any sort of expectation. Learn how to read what people write, not what you imagine they write. Also there's no such thing as natural when it comes to attraction. At least not 100% natural. And I never said that women should want to sleep with someone they find unattractive. You're not happy with women who are not attracted to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 07:02 PM |
| 11 | What is it like wanting female validation badlyWhat makes you think men who have had relationships crave female validation any less? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 05:32 PM |
| 5 | Why do men accuse women of having high standards, then the same men proceed to shame women for marrying guys they aren't attracted to?Saying they'd want us to be attracted to them presupposes that attraction is something we can control. The entire faulty premise is contained in your phrasing. No, it doesn't presuppose anything about whether it's controllable. The premise is perfectly fine. Am I not allowed to want something, even if it's impossible and out of my control? If your mother/father is dead, do you not want them back even though of course that isn't something you could control? Like give me a break, I don't understan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 02:35 AM |
| 8 | Why do men accuse women of having high standards, then the same men proceed to shame women for marrying guys they aren't attracted to?Attraction can be influenced much more than marginally. It also already is different across literal cultures in the present day, let alone if you span centuries back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 02:23 AM |
| 8 | Why do men accuse women of having high standards, then the same men proceed to shame women for marrying guys they aren't attracted to?They become mutually exclusive in men's views. You realize you’re responding to a man who is telling you he doesn’t believe they are mutually exclusive right? Most of your comment is just rambling about things that have nothing to do with what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 02:19 AM |
| 5 | Why do men accuse women of having high standards, then the same men proceed to shame women for marrying guys they aren't attracted to?I don't remember ever claiming you should, so why are you asking me that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 01:20 AM |
| 7 | Why do men accuse women of having high standards, then the same men proceed to shame women for marrying guys they aren't attracted to?They want us to settle for men we aren’t attracted to and pretend like we’re attracted to them for the sake of their egos Isn't it more likely they'd want you to just be attracted to them? That seems like a fairly human want/desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 12:39 AM |
| 14 | Why do men accuse women of having high standards, then the same men proceed to shame women for marrying guys they aren't attracted to?I don't see the two as being mutually exclusive. I can be frustrated that women have such high standards (ie. they don't want to date me) and also be frustrated that any woman who eventually does date me may not even be attracted to me - both are shitty options. Especially since there is another option, women both lower their standards and actually become attracted to those men who only meet those lower standards. I really believe you could have cultural shifts where the third option becomes mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 12:33 AM |
| 59 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?Women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:30 AM |
| 1 | MEN ONLY: Do all men cheat?It’s literally impossible. Re-read what I wrote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 12:13 AM |
| 8 | A lot of men lack agency and responzibilitybut it’s worth noting that most recently surveys show women and men cheating at roughly equal rates. Surveys about cheating aren’t worth the paper they’re written on. Literally worthless and shouldn’t even be brought up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 12:04 AM |
| 2 | MEN ONLY: Do all men cheat?Statistically it's about as common as women cheating at about 20%. There’s no accurate statistic for cheating. Not even worth bringing a number up, and especially not worth bringing it up prefaced with “statistically”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 07:35 AM |
| 0 | MEN ONLY: Do all men cheat?With a topic like cheating, they aren’t even worth referencing. Those stats are worthless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 02:51 AM |
| 2 | MEN ONLY: Do all men cheat?Do you really believe anyone could accurately study the rate of cheating? It's worthless to even try to put forth statistics on this one. These are the same statistics that say the average heterosexual woman has had 4 partners while the average heterosexual man has had 6 - which we know is statistically impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?Great, I don’t see how that’s relevant though. I also highly doubt women are more conditioned to conform than gay men, especially historically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Its not That Red pill is "Controlling" or even Wrong. They just want it silenced and snuffed out. as well as unselected menI have been on both ends of the financial spectrum and I can tell you it has little to no effect on my ability to get women. Good thing we have studies that show financial status significantly affects a women’s attraction to a man and thus we don’t have to rely on your anecdote. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S109051381730315X | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?Why does this visual media somehow work wonders on women but gay men are impervious to it? That kind of kills your theory, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 05:53 PM |
| 15 | Women keep reframing RP observations as men trying to control womenWomen have an innate disgust for things like the red pill because it's unnatural. They are attracted to men who social/romantic success comes to naturally - they subconsciously don't like the idea that men can fake their way into it. They'll just post-hoc rationalize it as some form of manipulation/misogyny/control to explain their disgust for it. That's my theory anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Red pill causes are a bigger threat than the worst of feminists causesA rising number, if not most, would agree. You think a majority of people believe anybody with a deadbeat parent would have been better off never being born? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Red pill causes are a bigger threat than the worst of feminists causesAnd you could ask any woman in your life how many women they know have been sexually assaulted/harassed by a man. Then, ask yourself how many men you know have been sexually assaulted/harassed by a woman They won't be that far off from one another actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 12:30 AM |
| 4 | Red pill causes are a bigger threat than the worst of feminists causesit's a lot better to not even have a life than to be forced into this world already with a deadbeat irresponsible parent. That's quite the stretch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Red pill causes are a bigger threat than the worst of feminists causesOkay, and what's your point? That has nothing to do with the red pill, ie. the point of this post. That was happening long before the red pill existed, and will happen long after the red pill is forgotten about. Men kill and abuse women far more than women kill and abuse men. Also men kill and abuse men more than they kill and abuse women. So if anything, you should be showing me empathy/sympathy right now, not the other way around. I'm in much more danger than you in society, and especially his… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Red pill causes are a bigger threat than the worst of feminists causesIf anything, women are more indiscriminate about their killing and abuse. Men for some reason have this issue with women where they’re always trying to enslave and oppress us. You think men don't oppress and abuse other men? Have you read a history book? Have you watched the news? Men are much more violent and abusive towards other men than they are to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 11:26 PM |
| 3 | What is your vetting advice for women?Disagree with a lot of these. "Taking an interest in her hobbies or supporting her goals" is a good one though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Why you are interesed in dating?Then it’s pointless. Your daughter could tell me she was aro/ace and I should still pursue her knowing that can change at any moment. Most sexual research, and any sort of social science like that, is notoriously bunk science anyways. You also now are an advocate for gay conversion camps, which is interesting too. But that’s your prerogative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 06:15 PM |
| – | Do you feel as though we have enough spaces for men and only men?For me as someone who enjoys playing sports, I have plenty of spaces that are essentially male only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 06:03 PM |
| 0 | Why you are interesed in dating?If your sexual orientation can change because of your training program, then it’s pointless to even have sexual orientations. Or you could come back to reality and realize that your lack of interest in sex due to your training program did not change your orientation and did not mean you were asexual. You just weren’t interested in sex for whatever period of time. You need to look up the definition of sexual orientation. It sounds like it’s not just your daughter that is/was confused at this poin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 05:51 PM |
| 2 | What is your motivation to be in relationship?When did I say it would kill your career? And it’s certainly factual that the “more successful men” are the married ones. Basically any data you look at would support that. You could argue correlation vs causation on that, but you can’t deny it outright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 05:08 PM |
| 0 | Why you are interesed in dating?This isn't like a blood type, a fixed immutable characteristic. It mostly is immutable though. And again, I think your example shows how they aren’t crucial at all in fact if people can just say whatever they want regardless of the actual reality. Unless your daughter went through a second puberty suddenly at age 18, she was never aro/ace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 05:00 PM |
| 4 | What is your motivation to be in relationship?This is not a consistent finding in studies. Many studies do not show any difference or show the opposite. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20483882/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 04:58 PM |
| 5 | What is your motivation to be in relationship?Lots of reasons, but a big one is that society harshly judges men who cannot secure a relationship, especially after a certain age. It hampers all sorts of social and career mobility and actually kills your chances of a relationship later on in life, both by the lack of experience and the already-mentioned harsh judgement. Even having had a couple of relationships through your teens and 20s greatly improves your life here. There’s the other obvious reasons as well, but I won’t bother bringing th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 04:50 PM |
| 0 | Why you are interesed in dating?these labels and phases can evolve, should be respected in their time but they aren't set in stone. I think your example shows the opposite - that the labels are almost meaningless. I find it unlikely she suddenly hit 18 and her literal sexual orientation changed overnight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 04:45 PM |
| – | Women Keep Bringing Up Rape to Shut Down Male ConcernsI don’t need to look because I know the claim isn’t remotely true. I’m not accusing anybody of lying. The only accusation I’m making is that your claim is outrageous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 04:35 PM |
| 1 | The phenomenon of passport bros is natural selection at workNo human says "the west" When you're specifically talking about "passport bros" of course people say "the west" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 04:47 AM |
| 6 | Women Keep Bringing Up Rape to Shut Down Male ConcernsThe only one that touches on the topic at hand (the number of women raped in a year) is based on a survey, not reported rapes, 'bud'. Seriously, go read your own link. It's a self-reported SURVEY, not "reported instances". "Objective data" my ass. Literally insane how I have to explain someone's own source back to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 04:30 AM |
| 4 | Women Keep Bringing Up Rape to Shut Down Male Concernsand obviously only includes instances that are reported. You clearly didn't even read the link you shared since this is blatantly false, so why should the rest of us bother? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 04:27 AM |
| 7 | Women Keep Bringing Up Rape to Shut Down Male ConcernsThere aren't any sources showing it otherwise you would have linked one. Also how am I a hypocrite? I don't believe there are hundreds of millions of men raped every year either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 10:41 PM |
| 8 | Women Keep Bringing Up Rape to Shut Down Male Concernsto the hundreds of millions of women who are raped every year You believe hundreds of millions of women are raped every year? What an outrageous claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 10:22 PM |
| – | What is something you would like the opposite sex to do/not do in dating/relationships/friendships that you feel should change and is quite reasonable to ask? What do you think you'd need to do to push the change you want to see?That's not engaging with it - it means the post doesn't apply to you and you simply shouldn't respond or respond to the automod instead. It's like if I made a post asking what is everyone's favorite kind of steak, and you go out of your way to answer "I don't eat steak". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 10:00 PM |
| – | What is something you would like the opposite sex to do/not do in dating/relationships/friendships that you feel should change and is quite reasonable to ask? What do you think you'd need to do to push the change you want to see?Why did you feel the need to respond to this post then if you weren't going to engage with the question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Immature male sexuality: "Affirm my value by devaluing yourself"Okay... again I'm not talking about any of that, if I was I would have made a top-level comment. I just corrected your comment is all. Read the words I write and respond to those, not to what you imagine my beliefs are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 03:00 AM |
| 4 | Immature male sexuality: "Affirm my value by devaluing yourself"Unless 100% of men are liars, which obviously is false, that would therefore mean you agree there would be more virgins at the same time by extension. Glad we agree, next time just admit it and save us the trouble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 02:56 AM |
| 5 | Immature male sexuality: "Affirm my value by devaluing yourself"What advice are you talking about? I didn't give any advice. You're just yapping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 02:54 AM |
| 4 | Immature male sexuality: "Affirm my value by devaluing yourself"It's contradictory when the premises work together, because men say that they want women who are of high value while holding beliefs and acting in ways that actively undermine it. Nope, again you're missing the point. A woman does not undermine her value to the man she is currently having sex with - only to future men who the current man doesn't give a shit about. If she stays with him, her value doesn't drop at all by having sex with him. This is not the same thing as age, which is an inevitabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 02:50 AM |
| 0 | Immature male sexuality: "Affirm my value by devaluing yourself"If virgins became popular with women, obviously men would be more willing to stay virgins. What else do you think would happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 02:47 AM |
| 6 | Immature male sexuality: "Affirm my value by devaluing yourself"Why would it matter the proportion of men? The point is essentially all women have this demand. Maybe the proportion of both would be higher if women weren't so hellbent on hating both of those things. You're thinking about this backwards. It sounds like men are actually less militant about their demands if women are still able to have no problem dating after fucking lot's of different men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 02:42 AM |
| 11 | Immature male sexuality: "Affirm my value by devaluing yourself"women who have sex are disgusting Women who have sex with other men are disgusting. That's a key point your missing. Nobody thinks a woman having sex with them is disgusting. And no I don’t think women demand these behaviours to close to the same level as men There's plenty of behaviors women demand just as righteously. For example, ask any woman if she'd date a man who has at any point in his life paid for sex, they'd be equally as disgusted. Another is how many women are disgusted by late-in-l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Immature male sexuality: "Affirm my value by devaluing yourself"Ultimately, she's relegated to continually losing value Yes, that's right. But how is that contradictory though? Take age as a comparison. After like age 30 for both men and women, no matter what you do you continue to lose value as you age. By the logic you're using here, that's internally contradictory and untenable because no matter what you do, you lose. But that's just life. A woman isn't demeaned to you when she has sex with you. So there's nothing internally contradictory there. She's dem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 02:26 AM |
| 4 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menMost men already support it, so your premise is wrong from the get-go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 06:16 PM |
| 1 | This question is primarily for men, but open to anyone. If you woke up as a straight woman, what kind of partner would you go for?There is no someone else here though. It's simply saying "you woke up as a straight woman, who would you be attracted to?" which is impossible to answer. You have an obnoxious way of communicating by the way, I'm not interested in continuing this any further. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 05:33 AM |
| 1 | This question is primarily for men, but open to anyone. If you woke up as a straight woman, what kind of partner would you go for?I've already explained my opinion that this exercise is a waste of time. I don't believe there is a purpose to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 05:24 AM |
| 1 | This question is primarily for men, but open to anyone. If you woke up as a straight woman, what kind of partner would you go for?This question isn't about empathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 05:19 AM |
| 23 | Men: would this be a dealbreaker for commitment?I consider oral sex even more intimate than regular sex, so the virgin status here would be meaningless to me. That alone is fine, but specifically with rappers/athletes, especially multiple, would be an easy dealbreaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 03:03 AM |
| 1 | It's Reasonable for the Man to Pay for Everything in an Age Gap RelationshipBecause in the given moment they believe that continuing the marriage would be a even worse than the divorce. Okay? So if 40-50% of married couples get to a point where the marriage itself is literally worse than a divorce, then obviously a divorce isn't a big deal or marriage really sucks - which one is it? Ask a Mens Rights Activist (MRAs) about this topic. Uh what? You are responding to me, why are you telling me to go to talk to other people? I don't care what MRAs have to say about this top… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 10:40 PM |
| 1 | It's Reasonable for the Man to Pay for Everything in an Age Gap RelationshipIf divorce wasn't a big deal, why do 40-50% of the people who get married end up getting divorced? (more or less depending on your country) Obviously it's not that big of a deal or so many people wouldn't do it. They mostly all end up moving on and living a fine life afterwards. If this 19 year old marries and divorces by 25, she'll be fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 10:31 PM |
| -1 | It's Reasonable for the Man to Pay for Everything in an Age Gap RelationshipDon't remember ever claiming that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 10:23 PM |
| -2 | It's Reasonable for the Man to Pay for Everything in an Age Gap RelationshipI don't remember ever crying about divorce. I don't remember ever advocating for marriage in the first place either. Nowadays a marriage doesn't really mean anything since it's so easy to dissolve and where I live the government gives common-law status without an actual marriage anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 10:22 PM |
| -3 | It's Reasonable for the Man to Pay for Everything in an Age Gap RelationshipEventually she won't approve either. Age gap relationships have the highest divorce rates Divorce is pretty common regardless - so is it really a big deal if this girl ends up getting a divorce a few years down the line? Doesn't seem like a big deal to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 10:15 PM |
| 6 | No woman who likes you is gonna make you wait or play “hard to get”Survivorship bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 02:13 AM |
| 5 | No woman who likes you is gonna make you wait or play “hard to get”In what ways would sex complicate it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 01:09 AM |
| 6 | This question is primarily for men, but open to anyone. If you woke up as a straight woman, what kind of partner would you go for?Literally impossible to answer. It's like asking a person to define a color that doesn't exist. Men lack both the nature and the nurture required to have any sort of concept of the attraction they'd have as a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 08:31 PM |
| 0 | Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are?Sounds like most of this is just your opinion and unique to your area and/or age. I don't see the same in my experience. Regardless you still never argued the actual point - the guy isn't really failing at dating, he just doesn't like his options by your own admission and hasn't tried anything else. I guess you could call that "failing at dating" but it's a stretch in my opinion. And he literally has to be asking women out on dating apps to be able to know they are flakey/difficult/etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are?Not all men want to go on dating apps where the gender skews incredibly highly and most women who are really good partners don't really go on dating apps. Why would the women on dating apps be any better or worse? That seems like a strange opinion. In talking to my guy friends, even the most handsome and best of them, they have the same complaints: Women are flakey, difficult, and tend towards hookups. Okay now you're backtracking - they aren't failing with women, the women are failing them. Tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are?but I'm not telling them they should leave There's no other interpretation of "you can do better" besides that they should leave and get that person who is better. I'm fascinated by all the doublespeak on this sub. Reminds me of a woman a month ago or so back who tried to claim "unattractive" was a neutral term lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are?I have this one guy friend, absolutely gorgeous, 9/10 easily. He fails with women. Why? Because he doesn't grow a pair and just ask them out. No you don't. Any true 9/10 could create a tinder/bumble/whatever account and have hundreds of matches. It's impossible to fail to get dates at that level of looks. Either he literally isn't asking anyone out, which isn't really a failure because it means he's not even trying. Or you're lying about his looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 08:02 PM |
| – | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?Government can’t step in on relationships like it could to make things more equal for its citizens It certainly could, why couldn't it? Relationships can’t have government intervention in the same way unless we are down with removing individual choice so it’s not quite an apt comparison Why would it have to remove individual choice? Again not even saying it should, but they could definitely involve themselves in the relationship domain without removing personal choice. they are mostly average du… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 11:32 PM |
| – | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?It might be news to you, but there are some people who will always have shitty social skills. I'm in no way saying you can't improve your chances of a relationship, nor am I questioning your capabilities in the workforce. I'm simply saying the government has stepped in to ensure you can even work (100 years ago you wouldn't be in sales I can promise you that) whereas in the relationship sphere no interventions have taken place - thus autistic men for example have like a 60% chance of being virgi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 11:18 PM |
| 3 | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?So it sounds like you literally just think men are worse than women then, or less "viable". Which is certainly an opinion, and not one I agree with. But I can't really argue with an opinion. Agree to disagree I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?No, I disagree that it becomes negligible despite that info. Surveys are also notoriously unreliable anyways, but I digress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 11:11 PM |
| – | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?But shit don’t change if you aren’t willing to accept some responsibility and put in the effort - works that way for most things in life. Key point though in that is change doesn’t necessarily = dream come true fantasy, like I can put all the effort into my work, get promoted quickly etc and climb the ladder and still not end up as a top dog CEO making millions, but I can greatly improve my income. That's because by and large society has stepped in to fill any gaps that you would have in your wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 11:06 PM |
| 6 | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?Isn’t that what yall want? Women to love their husbands? To be one of those people that is loved? Why are you downvoting love? I mean I don't really care if other men are being loved necessarily lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 11:03 PM |
| 6 | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?If it’s worse for men it’s also worse for women (assuming we talking heterosexual pairing here) as downtrodden, ‘unviable’, or even just disinterested men also impacts women’s ability to find a suitable partner. Sure, women over like age 45 have a tougher time. I think that's a better deal though, no? I'd rather have it easy from age 15-45 than 45 and onwards. Honestly outrageous to claim this something women also have it worse in... The only reason men would even be "downtrodden, ‘unviable’, or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?I definitely disagree other than maybe the dying part since yes eventually women outnumber men - congrats to the 45+ year old men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 10:53 PM |
| 5 | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?Basically every factor that would affect the marriage rates makes it worse for men than just the simple demographic disadvantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?Some portion. But for every 100 women born you’d expect 105 men I believe. So that’s why you see it in many countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 10:46 PM |
| 16 | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?You’re suggesting women don’t get jealous of other women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 10:42 PM |
| 7 | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?The vast majority of war-less countries have an excess of men age 20-40ish. Canada for example had like 9% extra men from age 20-29. So that means 1/10 men will end up unmarried by definition, without even getting into women dating older, women being more lgtbq/asexual/etc, women being more likely to enjoy staying single, etc. Unfortunately some portion of men simply don’t have control of that outcome by simple statistics. A 10% unemployment rate for example would be a national crisis and sugges… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 10:37 PM |
| – | Would you choose to be born a woman?Why would you think men aren't targeted for being men? It's pretty factual that men are much more aggressive and harsh to other men specifically because they are men. I'd also guess women are much more willing to be violent with a man versus another woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 07:23 PM |
| – | Would you choose to be born a woman?But most of those are conflicts between people who know eachother Women are much more likely to be victims of crime from someone they know than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 06:34 PM |
| 1 | If hypergamy is real why do you think that listening to men is useful?Sure, but their “polite” answer is still hypergamy. So I’m not going to get into the weeds when it’s not necessary. But I see your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 07:57 AM |
| 2 | If hypergamy is real why do you think that listening to men is useful?If a man demands a woman be younger than him, then yes I’d agree that’s a form of hypergamy. So some passport bros are hypergamous, sure. The fact they don’t care they aren’t as rich, or educated, etc as them kind of breaks down the hypergamous label as a whole though, but they could practice forms of hypergamy like you said around age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 05:48 PM |
| 1 | If hypergamy is real why do you think that listening to men is useful?Well I think the interesting thing is that you don’t really see it in reverse. Men don’t care that women are richer than them, or more educated, or taller, or stronger, or smarter. (For the most part, of course some small percentage of men do) It seems women want the “perfect match” you speak of whereas men don’t. So no, I don’t think it’s lost all meaning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 05:37 PM |
| 2 | If hypergamy is real why do you think that listening to men is useful?a woman marrying a tall dude because she think he's hot is not hypergamy. But it’s not just “a tall dude”, it’s specifically a dude that’s taller than her. She compares his height to hers and requires him to be taller. I don’t know, seems like hypergamy to me. Otherwise why would the attraction change based on the height of the woman? women are literally more likely to be shorter than men, is it hypergamy to want "the most common coupling"? There’s studies that suggest height differences could b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 05:24 PM |
| 4 | If hypergamy is real why do you think that listening to men is useful?Was it? I always figured hypergamy just meant women wanting a man better than them. Richer, taller, more educated, etc. Height absolutely influences social status anyways so it still counts by your own definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 05:00 PM |
| 5 | If hypergamy is real why do you think that listening to men is useful?we literally have men who think it's hypergamous women want a tall partner. Why wouldn’t women demanding a partner be taller than them be an example of hypergamy? For example women typically don’t say they want a man of a certain height, they specifically say they just want a man taller than them or a certain amount taller than them. That’s pretty textbook hypergamy, since the taller a woman is, the taller a man is needs to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Why straight women attracted to women much more than straight men to men?Are you intentionally not getting it? Because nowhere in this comment chain or this post is anyone talking about who women prefer the company of. We’re talking about sexuality lol. You’re out to lunch. I don’t care who women prefer prefer to hangout with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 04:32 AM |
| 3 | Why straight women attracted to women much more than straight men to men?Great, again you’re not answering the question. How is a threat inherent to a man? The vast majority of men aren’t a threat at all. So just like your nudity isn't inherently sexual, male nudity shouldn’t be inherently a threat. Or males in general. You’re just constantly contradicting yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 04:27 AM |
| 4 | Why straight women attracted to women much more than straight men to men?Why would that matter though? Why can sexuality be removed from nudity, but threat/danger can’t? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 04:20 AM |
| 4 | Why straight women attracted to women much more than straight men to men?Nudity isn't inherently sexual, whether it was a woman or a man Nor is a man inherently a threat. See the contradiction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 04:19 AM |
| 6 | Why straight women attracted to women much more than straight men to men?How straight man of you to think all nudity and beauty appreciation must be sexual and possessive. But if nudity and beauty appreciation can be can be devoid of any sexuality or possessiveness, why would the same not apply to how you view men and have it be devoid of any evaluation of danger? You’re contradicting yourself. but men are dangerous, their nude bodies or scantily clad bodies are still connected to a potential threat or demand. A naked woman is just as sexual as a man is dangerous. So… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 03:59 AM |
| 9 | Why do men complain so much?But that doesn’t mean they’re gonna want to have sex with any man just because they’re using contraception because there’s another factor to having sex which is that you would enjoy it. Ah see now you've just admitted it. They aren't refusing sex with these men due to the reproductive risk, they're doing it because they aren't attracted to these men and thus wouldn't enjoy it. Just like I said in my first comment. If it was simply the reproductive risk, they have numerous options to solve that u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 02:09 AM |
| 17 | Why do men complain so much?This sub is strange. In just yesterday/today: A woman claimed that finding someone sexy doesn't mean you find them sexually appealing A woman claimed that being unattractive meant being 'neutral' attractiveness. And that ugly and unattractive are not the same or even similar. Now this woman claims sympathy by definition requires the person to be in a worse position than you. She is also claiming abortions qualify as "risky" which is insane. They're incredibly safe Is there some sort of refusal t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 02:02 AM |
| 8 | Why do men complain so much?OK, this assumes that everybody’s having sex not to ever have kids which doesn’t make any sense No it doesn't. They can just have as much sex with protection as they want until they want to have kids. The men with vasectomies can provide them that safely. Yet they don't, why is that? How could women collectively solve this problem by only having sex with men who have vasectomies if women did that nobody would have kids and we’d all die out as a race Okay, well now women are choosing to go throug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Why do men complain so much?Hmm should I go for a walk outside? Someone might fall asleep at the wheel and hit me and kill me. Or kill me when I cross the street. Is leaving my house now a risk? Give me a break. By your definition literally every single action a human can take is risky. If I go for a run I'm taxing my cardiovascular system and I might have a heart attack. Going for a run is risky then right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 01:48 AM |
| 14 | Why do men complain so much?Because women could solve that "unfairness" by seeking out and only having sex with men who have had vasectomies. I don't see that happening at any sort of scale anywhere in the world. Thus, women don't actually consider reproduction to be the reason why they aren't choosing to have sex with most men. Thus your "unfairness" is purely self inflicted, and thus isn't really unfair at all. If abortions and condoms and vasectomies and birth control didn't exist, then I'd happily agree with your point… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 01:39 AM |
| 7 | Why do men complain so much?I’m just saying it is a risk. It's not. Abortions are not a risk in any way shape or form. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 01:37 AM |
| 20 | Why do men complain so much?Notably everything in your comment is revolving around birth and reproduction. Again, what relevance is that to a man who has a vasectomy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Why do men complain so much?We used data from the Guttmacher Institute's 2021-2022 Abortion Patient Survey and population data for 2020 and 2021 from the Census Bureau, as well as abortion counts from the Guttmacher Institute's 2020 Abortion Provider Census, to estimate abortion rates, first-abortion rates, and cumulative abortion rates, all by age group. We calculated multiple estimates of lifetime incidence under varying hypothetical conditions as tests of sensitivity. Yeah, it's just a survey... Clearly you were asking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 01:20 AM |
| 6 | Why do men complain so much?https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/abortion/considering-abortion/what-facts-about-abortion-do-i-need-know https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/38574943/ [edit] - this /u/half_avocado33 character blocked me, but actually her wikipedia article 100% directly references the 25% number in it. She linked a source that actually proves exactly what I claimed, and then attempted to use it to claim I was wrong lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 01:12 AM |
| 8 | Why do men complain so much?abortion is actually risky for a woman Medical-system supported abortions are extremely, extremely safe for women. There's literally no argument to describe them as risky in any way. If you consider them risky, then you would have to call taking Tylenol risky or getting your wisdom teeth pulled out as risky. 1 in 4 women in the US will have an abortion. They are NOT risky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 12:07 AM |
| 24 | Why do men complain so much?Do they think it’s fair that women have periods, go through pregnancy, deliver babies painfully and breastfeed while all they do is nut? Three out of your four examples are only relevant to women who get pregnant and have kids. Do you think sex comes easier to a man with a vasectomy? If not, then those aren't the real reasons that sex is more challenging to get for men. And we all know sex does not come easier to a man with a vasectomy. So they aren't really relevant to the "unfairness" of sex d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 11:56 PM |
| – | A lot of women talk about their dating experiences in very casual ways if the context isn't arguing with men, which makes it look like they indeed have it pretty good.Very well said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 11:50 PM |
| – | Why do women always claim the men their friends date are ugly and unattractive?What would make one piece of artwork sexy to you, while another isn't? Would you feel comfortable with a mother going up to her 10 year old son and his group of friends and asking them if they found her sexy? Why or why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 05:55 AM |
| – | Why do women always claim the men their friends date are ugly and unattractive?I'm not even talking about how women feel sexual attraction though. I'm not questioning that at all. You just don't know what the word sexy means. I can find something sexy by realizing it/ they are sexy in a way that appeals to others but not to me personally You literally just admitted you didn't find them sexy but others do. Thus they aren't sexy to you lol. Also they appeal to others... how? Appeal sexually? Like I said? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Hypothetical for RP menI'd be fine with either as long as we got along well. Probably a slight preference to the 21 year old because I don't want kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 05:17 AM |
| – | Why do women always claim the men their friends date are ugly and unattractive?It is the same; what else could it mean? It means they are sexually appealing to you. The best you could come up with for a definition is "sexy is like a vibe" lol, you really have a way with words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 05:08 AM |
| – | Why do women always claim the men their friends date are ugly and unattractive?Offspring with more diverse genetics tend to be healthier overall This is completely negligible at the global scale of our society by the way. Not even worth mentioning. Arguably the bigger risk is the chance of having a tougher time finding donors for your children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 04:19 AM |
| – | Why do women always claim the men their friends date are ugly and unattractive?I’m not trying to redefine the word for you Well.. you are though. Unattractive doesn't mean neutral. There's no subjectivity there. That's my point. I’m telling you what it means to me, and asking OP if they were conflating two things that I don’t find all that similar. The thing about language is it only really works well if words mean the same to everybody. The definition of unattractive is not "neutral". Someone who is "ugly" is by default, unattractive. Someone who is unattractive isn't nec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 03:37 AM |
| – | Why do women always claim the men their friends date are ugly and unattractive?Beautiful or pretty can exist without any sexiness or sensuality so it is different. Sexy can exist with pretty but it can also exist in someone who isn't particularly pretty. I've seen people reenact the exorcist is sexy/ erotic ways, while not looking"pretty" covered in fake vomit. Irrelevant to what I said. I've never claimed otherwise for any of those things. Sexy is like a vibe and separate from wanting to have sex. Sure, sexy is a vibe. I don't disagree. But that vibe is literally their se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 03:32 AM |
| – | Why do women always claim the men their friends date are ugly and unattractive?We grew up in very diverse cities Wouldn't growing up in a diverse city make you less likely to have racialized fetishes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 03:29 AM |
| – | Why do women always claim the men their friends date are ugly and unattractive?Just like when i tell another woman she's sexy it doesn't mean that i want to have sex with her. What could "sexy" mean if not evoking sexual attraction? It's literally in the word. There are plenty of other words like "beautiful" or "pretty" or "gorgeous" you could use if you don't feel that sexual attraction. You could still have reasons not to have sex with her, of course, but if you find someone sexy, you find them sexually appealing by definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 03:16 AM |
| – | Why do women always claim the men their friends date are ugly and unattractive?Unattractive is just neutral Unattractive isn't neutral. Why are we attempting to redefine a word that already has a definition? Unattractive is much closer to "ugly" than it is to "neutral". I'd argue "ugly" is actually under the "unattractive" umbrella, just on the extreme end. "Not attractive" you could argue could be neutral, though would still evoke negative connotations to most people in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 03:11 AM |
| 7 | A lot of women talk about their dating experiences in very casual ways if the context isn't arguing with men, which makes it look like they indeed have it pretty good.Women aren’t checking out of dating, they’re just checking out of dating unattractive men. That’s why it’s only unattractive men who are freaking out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 03:00 AM |
| – | Why do women always claim the men their friends date are ugly and unattractive?Because they find the vast majority of men unattractive period, which just also happens to encompass their friends’ partners by happenstance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 02:57 AM |
| -1 | How do you treat a girlfriend you deem as only “temporary”?I think about things critically. The existence of some vague Reddit posts that you didn’t even bother to link isn’t any sort of evidence. And as I explained, the explanation for the case you brought is much more likely “oh shit, the last woman dumped me for not marrying her, I better marry this next one quick.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 02:33 AM |
| 0 | How do you treat a girlfriend you deem as only “temporary”?I don’t know, seems like something you read on Reddit but is uncommon in real life. I don’t put much stock in your anecdote since it has like 3 degrees of separation as it is. Most of it could even be “oh shit the last one dumped me because I didn’t marry her. I better marry this next one quick” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 02:28 AM |
| 1 | How do you treat a girlfriend you deem as only “temporary”?I can only speak to my country but marriage means nothing here, any change from marriage is equally gained from just cohabiting together for 2+ years. So if these guys end up divorced within 10 years, as far as I’m concerned they were no different than the woman before. And my guess, the type of man who can just drop a partner of 10+ years like it was nothing, will be pretty quick to the divorce line when something better comes up again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 02:01 AM |
| 1 | How do you treat a girlfriend you deem as only “temporary”?Those examples don't prove she was thought of as temporary though, or that it was intended for it to work out that way. But maybe it was, I don't know. Just giving my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 01:48 AM |
| 0 | How do you treat a girlfriend you deem as only “temporary”?sometimes even at the same time The post literally says it's exclusive. You're just making up scenarios that aren't in the post. Obviously if somebody is cheating on you then they don't really care about you. You don't need to ask reddit that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 01:45 AM |
| 3 | A lot of women talk about their dating experiences in very casual ways if the context isn't arguing with men, which makes it look like they indeed have it pretty good.https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2025/06/18/us-adults-in-their-20s-and-30s-plan-to-have-fewer-children-than-in-the-past/ And your numbers are taken only from people that didn’t already have kids; when you ask the general population, it’s over 75% for both genders So your own stat shows that they are equal. What exactly are you arguing? You literally proved yourself wrong lol Notably women don't even need a man to have a child anymore these days. They can do it themselves if they were trul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 12:44 AM |
| 6 | How do you treat a girlfriend you deem as only “temporary”?My guess is this is more of a character trait than a specific choice. I would think the men who would "string along" a woman would just do that by default, not because of the specific woman at all. So there wouldn't be any different treatment as they would treat all women like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 12:38 AM |
| 2 | A lot of women talk about their dating experiences in very casual ways if the context isn't arguing with men, which makes it look like they indeed have it pretty good.So you agree then, that women don't obsess and fixate on having babies then? I'm not sure what you're arguing anymore. You can't have it both ways here. These two things are mutually exclusive. The simple fact is men are wanting children more than women, and they are putting more effort into raising children then ever behavior, and women have never wanted children less. Summed up, women do not fixate and obsess over having kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 12:24 AM |
| 2 | A lot of women talk about their dating experiences in very casual ways if the context isn't arguing with men, which makes it look like they indeed have it pretty good.Want to nurture, care for and raise them ? https://makemenemotionalagain.substack.com/p/millennial-dads-are-spending-about Fathers nowadays are spending as much time raising their children as their mothers spent raising those fathers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 12:17 AM |
| 3 | A lot of women talk about their dating experiences in very casual ways if the context isn't arguing with men, which makes it look like they indeed have it pretty good.Women love love, romance, family and babies. They obsess and fixate on those things the same way men do about sex Men actually want kids more than women nowadays. https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/women-children-study-1.7119845 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 12:12 AM |
| 1 | My two female friends say that dating in America is hell on earth for men and go elsewhere. Can you admit that?Do they? I mean they swipe right less, as in they reject the vast majority of the men they see - and thus those men have no incentive to read a bio when that woman is likely going to just reject them. If women swiped right at higher rates, then men would be incentivized to read bios. This isn't the apps' doing, it's women. There is no way for an app to encourage men away from the shotgun approach when women only swipe right on like 5% of profiles. So, in reality, women are considering a lot of g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 11:42 PM |
| 14 | A lot of women talk about their dating experiences in very casual ways if the context isn't arguing with men, which makes it look like they indeed have it pretty good.The big thing for me that always stands out when I hear women (friends/family/etc) talk about dating or even post about it on reddit/tiktok, is the ease at which they get the dates to begin with. They'll give each other advice like, go on at least 1 or 2 first dates a week, go on 40 first dates in a year, etc. I'm always just dumbfounded at how easy it is for them to not even have to consider the challenge of getting a date in the first place - let alone planning and most likely paying for it - … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 11:28 PM |
| -1 | My two female friends say that dating in America is hell on earth for men and go elsewhere. Can you admit that?Nothing in your comment here tells us how the apps "encourage" men to use a shotgun approach. How do they encourage that exactly? Every app gives the option of making a lengthy bio if you want. So if users choose not to do it, how is that the app's fault? Notably people with shorter bios actually do better on the apps. Also the apps are more popular than ever - notably much more popular than during the time period of questionnaire-based profiles. The truth is women swipe so little that it makes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 11:17 PM |
| -1 | My two female friends say that dating in America is hell on earth for men and go elsewhere. Can you admit that?shotgunning(which, tbf to men, the apps encourage that for them Do the apps encourage that, or do the women on the apps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 09:12 PM |
| 14 | Sexpat destinations are going to disappear as countries become more developed.Lower birth rates in Japan and Korea didn't make the economy collapse Not yet. They’re not even close to the worst of it yet. South Korea’s population is projected to decrease by 71% by 2100. They’re obviously going to need to make some drastic changes to prevent economic collapse. There are other countries who went through this first There actually aren’t other countries. What Korea and to a lesser extent Japan are facing is pretty much unprecedented demographic collapse and nobody really knows… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 08:56 AM |
| 12 | Sexpat destinations are going to disappear as countries become more developed.Lower birth rate could collapse the economy and bring them into even more poverty. Who knows what will happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 08:39 AM |
| 5 | Sexpat destinations are going to disappear as countries become more developed.Not in the slightest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 08:34 AM |
| 41 | Sexpat destinations are going to disappear as countries become more developed.There’s no guarantee the quality of living will continue to improve enough to ever fully remove it, at least in this century. But yes, it’s becoming more and more difficult already. Also you’re getting a little mixed up. “Sexpats” by and large don’t want kids, so the birth rate is irrelevant to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 08:29 AM |
| 3 | I disagree with "there is someone out there for everybody"When have I argued futility? Of course men should try not to be the 10-15% that are left standing when the music stops. I'm just also realistic in admitting that factually there isn't a partner for every man at a young age. Try not to put words in my mouth. If they fail, they can keep their spirits up until they're older and the scales tip the other way when there is an excess of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 03:47 AM |
| 2 | I disagree with "there is someone out there for everybody"You've had multiple wives? Then you are old enough that you've probably dodged a big brunt of the social changes. And nobody is saying that no man will ever find a partner or wife again. It's just getting harder and harder. I saw an old video from the 80s or 90s at the mall, and they were going around asking what the younger women were doing there. Their answer? Almost exclusively about meeting or hanging out with guys. For better or worse, it would be unfathomable for young women to answer a qu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 03:33 AM |
| 2 | A male's choice to oppress women is rooted in their fear of women's social, emotional, & intellectual power.It’s not lowkey. It’s a well-studied phenomena that a given man or woman will tend to have a bias towards a woman over another man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 11:45 PM |
| 3 | I disagree with "there is someone out there for everybody"If there are 10000 men and only 10 women on an island, do you think those population numbers might give a hint as to who might end up together? Stop arguing in bad faith. You’re wasting both of our times. We both know population demographics are extremely relevant in dating/relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 11:07 PM |
| 3 | I disagree with "there is someone out there for everybody"There’s no reason to think women would fit that bill any more than men, thus it’s irrelevant. If anything, women are more likely to skew this stat even further. For example women are more likely to be LGTBQ, less likely to date younger, more likely to be asexual/aromantic, more likely to share a man, etc. Once you hit age 45 or so I’ll admit the tables start to flip and the reverse happens, men are no longer in excess and thus there could partners for all of them with women potentially being lef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 10:11 PM |
| 2 | I disagree with "there is someone out there for everybody"You don't think dramatic social change can happen in 30 years? Dramatic physiological changes can even happen in that time frame. The average height of Korean men went up 5 cm in like 40 years. Something as simple as nutrition has changed things drastically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 09:22 PM |
| 6 | I disagree with "there is someone out there for everybody"Just to add on for your future reference, for western countries not at war, the stats actually favor women even more at younger ages. Take Canada for example, between 20-29 there are 9% more total men than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 09:20 PM |
| 7 | I disagree with "there is someone out there for everybody"There's someone for everyone There isn't though. From age 18 - 45ish there are simply more men than women in most countries. This gap is significant in countries like Canada where there was a 9% gap between total men and women between age 20-29. Throw in women being less likely to want a relationship period, and less likely to be heterosexual, and you've got over 10% of men age 20-29 who are guaranteed to be partner-less. That 9% gap may get better as immigration slows down, but it will not drop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Dating is like real estatebut if I'm not botherd by trait x, why would I refuse to date a guy because of trait x? That makes absolutely no sense at all x) This is what you said. This is 100% opposite to the point OP is making. OP NEVER said you should refuse to date a guy because you aren't bothered by trait x. You did misunderstand the post. You arguably can't read. Think about it in terms of a speed dating event. There are 20 men and 20 women. 18 of the men are over 6 feet. 2 are under 6 feet. You like all the men equa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 09:49 PM |
| 4 | Women tend to be more selective in partner choice than men — and it’s not a moral failingI'd argue it's more the other direction. Younger women are becoming less and less interested in "beta bucks" versus men being less willing to simp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 09:11 PM |
| 12 | Women tend to be more selective in partner choice than men — and it’s not a moral failingYou guys switch narratives to whatever is most convenient at the time… The red pill side of things pretty consistently holds the view of alpha fucks / beta bucks - I don't see a constant narrative switch there. It does seem lately though that "beta bucks" is becoming less and less common in the younger generations, so this may not continue to hold up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Dating is like real estateYou think it’s stupid because you misunderstood the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:44 PM |
| – | Women tend to be more selective in partner choice than men — and it’s not a moral failingWhat crimes had he committed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Dating is like real estateRe-read the OP and re-read my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:20 PM |
| – | Are current partners less loved than previous ones?What if he “got away” because he died? What if she had a lapse in judgement and cheated on him? What if their families prevented them from being together? Plenty of reasons besides him just not “stepping up”. Regardless you’re getting away from the point. There are plenty of cases where logically speaking someone ends up with someone who is not better than their previous partners like was claimed. It’s not some deep point. She just doesn’t understand logical reasoning and apparently you don’t ei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 10:10 AM |
| – | Are current partners less loved than previous ones?You think “logic” means “if I didn’t experience it myself it can’t be true.” And that is stupid. The definition of logic is that the result must follow from the premise. I don't "think" that's what logic is, that's literally what it is. I don't know who you're quoting but it certainly isn't me and it's bad faith to strawman like that. Some people don’t end with who they want to. Some people do. That's literally what I'm saying. So you can't say to "think of this logically" when what you said doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 05:31 AM |
| 6 | I absolutely hate to admit it but the release of the Epstein files is exactly why people get anxious over potentially false claims of sexual assaultYou can't have it both ways unfortunately. You're never going to get a society that both NEVER actively disputes a victim nor calls for consequences immediately to alleged perpetrators regardless of evidence. They are just too diametrically opposed. The current setup where the justice system is tougher on victims and society is tougher on perpetrators is probably the best middle ground we'll get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 04:54 AM |
| 3 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Who said anything about pumped and dumped? In this example the guy she fucked on the first date dumped her. Not the other way around. She's heartbroken. See how annoying it is when people just make things up? Stop strawmanning. There's no pumping and dumping, there's no serious relationship, there's nothing more than what I wrote in my comment. I just gave a quick example of how different can be worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 04:39 AM |
| 1 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?I'm just giving an example of how "different" could equal worse. Nothing more, nothing less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 04:30 AM |
| – | Are current partners less loved than previous ones?It’s you and everyone before him’s choice. That may hold true for you that he’s better than everyone else, but that doesn’t logically follow. That’s just an anecdote. Respectfully you’re not smart enough to urge people to think “logically”. For something to logically follow, as in to think about a situation logically, the result must always follow from the premise. That's simply not the case here. There are plenty of people who would prefer to have stayed with their exes but are now with a new p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 04:24 AM |
| 2 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?The first time having sex was just an example. This could apply to many things, both sexual and non-sexual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 04:22 AM |
| 2 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Who said you should recreate a past relationship? You’re arguing with someone who isn’t me clearly because I never said that. I’d want my relationship with someone to be even better than their past one. Not worse or even the same. Also I’m not willing to dissect? I’ve answered all your questions, you’ve refused to answer any of mine. You’re the one who won’t engage in good faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 02:14 AM |
| 5 | Dating is like real estateI actually think you have this backwards. This is OP accepting that she doesn’t need a man who is perfect in every way. If she doesn’t care how tall a man is, she can focus her efforts on the short guys that a lot of other women ignore and have better results because of it. It’s a very healthy attitude. Alternatively she could try to maximize on height too but then she’s back to competing with every other woman and we’re all worse off for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 02:11 AM |
| 2 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Why would that matter to the guy? His goal was sex right away. He didn’t get it until 2 months later. That’s objectively worse to him. Whether he had the exact same input or not doesn’t matter to him. And you raise an excellent point - what if the lack of “input” in this case was just that the second guy was uglier? He didn’t input as much good looks, and thus had to wait 2 months for sex. Does that sound worse to you? I’d say so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 02:02 AM |
| 4 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?There is - the goal for both men was to have sex right away. One got it, the other didn’t. That’s objectively worse based on their shared goal. There’s no debate here. Edit: also it’s hard to respond to you when you ninja-edit your comments after I’ve responded. Like, is the second guy planning the exact same dates making the exact same jokes making the exact same moves as the first guy That’s exactly the point. Women will change their behavior based on how attracted they are to a man. He makes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 01:55 AM |
| 8 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Why do you think different equals worse? If two men wanted to have sex with a woman right away, and one got it the first night he met her, and the other got it after 2 months of dating her, do you think the second man would think that “different” timeline he got is worse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Dating is like real estateNone of what you’ve said contradicts the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Dating is like real estateYou phrased it perfectly fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 01:15 AM |
| 26 | Dating is like real estateI actually think that a lot more men do this than women. It’s actually on display in this thread. The few women who have responded so far have completely had the point of the post fly over their heads. They are struggling to even understand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 01:14 AM |
| 8 | Dating is like real estatebut fixing a person is a huge can of worms Why would you have to fix anybody? You’re missing the point of the post. The whole point is picking things that don’t bother you but often bother others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 01:11 AM |
| – | Dating is like real estateIs it? Maybe, can't say I've experienced that. 🤷 Bad faith troll. You can’t honestly pretend you haven’t heard women say they want a man who makes as much or more than them, or women who aren’t into guys who play video games. Clearly you’re not here in good faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 01:08 AM |
| 5 | Dating is like real estateThe premise of what, OP’s post? That premise is fine. The only question is how applicable it is to most people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 01:05 AM |
| 4 | Dating is like real estateYou’re still making the same mistake. The point of OP’s post is things others find undesirable but you don’t. If it's a trait on anyone's undesirable list, I'm not interested. But you just said a man making less than you isn’t undesirable to you, yet it’s on plenty of people’s undesirable list. You can’t even keep a coherent position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 12:56 AM |
| 8 | Dating is like real estateNo, you clearly didn’t. Your point is irrelevant to the original post because of it. I didn't consider someone making less than me or playing video games as undesirable traits though You put “though” because you thought you were disagreeing with OP. You didn’t understand OP’s post, hence why your entire comment is framed around you rather than the supply/demand gaps left by others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 12:52 AM |
| 6 | Dating is like real estateI didn't want to date anyone with undesirable traits. It’s not traits you find undesirable, it’s traits that others find undesirable that you don’t mind. Everything in your comment is framed around things you find desirable/undesirable. You are misunderstanding the post. I didn't consider someone making less than me or playing video games as undesirable traits though. Neither did the OP. That’s the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 12:43 AM |
| 14 | Dating is like real estateAssuming you have the number of options that allow for this level of granularity in dating - then sure, this is good advice. But in my experience the people who have this many options aren’t really struggling anyways and they do this sort of supply/demand analysis implicitly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 12:40 AM |
| -5 | Are current partners less loved than previous ones?Bro I’m with my guy now because he’s better than everyone before him, not worse. Think of this logically. That would only logically follow if it was entirely your choice, which is not the case when it comes to dating. You need to brush up on your logic skills. "Logically" it's very possible someone got dumped by someone that was better than their current partner but they're stuck because their ex isn't interested in them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menYour first explanation doesn’t hold water or gay men would be equally as quick to prefer womens’ bodies - which they do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 07:54 PM |
| 9 | Is it a red flag to be a virgin in your mid to late 20s?What in the world are you even talking about? Nothing you’re saying is relevant to the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:11 AM |
| 15 | Is it a red flag to be a virgin in your mid to late 20s?if she is having sex with you she likes you No where is it stated or assumed that "she is having sex with you" in this question or comment chain. Why would you assume that? She is trying to be nice to you. She is not trying to humiliate you. What are you talking about? Are you commenting on the wrong post/comment chain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 01:17 AM |
| 13 | Is it a red flag to be a virgin in your mid to late 20s?For a man? Yes, definitely. I'd say like 95%+ of women view it as a negative. For a woman? I have no idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 12:39 AM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it is actually is to become a ladies man?I just agree that sexual liberation has made it easier for everyone to get laid. Why would you agree with that? Stats show men (and women) are having less sex than ever before. I find it hard to believe that if getting laid was truly easier for both sides that the amount of sex would go down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 12:35 AM |
| 26 | Woman only punch down with insults directed at height, virginity, etc.It could also be making fun of a feature that you thibk the other person is insecure about. So they'd be fine using racial slurs if the person was insecure about their race? Of course not, because nobody uses an insult they don't somewhat believe in themselves because they know if you insult one person for it, you're insulting everybody who it qualifies for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 03:39 AM |
| – | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?It’s obviously a combination of many things. Social media + dating apps have pumped up expectations for everyone that many men (and to a lesser extent women) can no longer meet, income inequality is high, women are just as successful as men economically now and are much more career-oriented, religion is dying out, there is way more things to keep a young mind captive than there used to be like video games and smart phones, the greater risks now with the metoo era, and so on. No offense but you’d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 03:25 AM |
| 7 | Being Yourself is at Least 50% Having a BackboneHaving a backbone and being yourself are not a 50% overlap. They don’t necessarily have to overlap at all. There are men who are just weak-willed and by default do not have a backbone. That is them being themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Can the average man tolerate a woman being better at something than he is?Those things aren't mutually exclusive. I can hate the idea of tipping at a restaurant while simultaneously still always tipping at said restaurants due to the social pressure and think that society is stupid/annoying/unfair/etc for enforcing that pressure all the while wishing we were more like Japan where that pressure doesn't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Why lesbians sexuality seems less fluid than straight women's?I didn’t imply anything. I literally said the exact words I meant to say. Why are you insisting on there being some other implicit thing I’m saying besides the actual words I wrote? That’s bad faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 05:10 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best solution for dismantling the supposed "patriarchy"?There have been plenty of successful slave revolts over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Why lesbians sexuality seems less fluid than straight women's?Clearly you didn’t even read my comment or you’d know I literally said the same thing. Bad faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 04:54 PM |
| 3 | What's something you find attractive in men that you think men wouldn't find attractive in women?Ambition is attractive to men too The fact that men are 1000x less sensitive to the salary of a woman versus the reverse tells me that in the grand scheme of things men don't give a shit about ambition compared to a woman. You're clearly not here in good faith or you'd have admitted you're wrong by now. Even when blasted with a study you can't help but value your own opinion more. What's backing your opinion? Literally nothing but anecdotal data. But to you that's totally fine apparently - it mu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 04:41 AM |
| 4 | What's something you find attractive in men that you think men wouldn't find attractive in women?Like IME ambitious men want women who are on their level and can keep up. So subjective personality is just more telling than gender is. So you see a study that found women 1000x more sensitive to attraction to a non-physical feature than men, and rather than just say "oh maybe I was wrong", you decide to double down and suggest gender-specific attraction to certain non-physical features isn't a thing because that's just your opinion? Interesting choice. Guess we can ignore studies and just use … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 01:35 AM |
| 7 | What's something you find attractive in men that you think men wouldn't find attractive in women?Outside of physical features, I think men and women largely are attracted to the same character traits in the opposite sex tbh. "We found that ratings of attractiveness were around 1000 times more sensitive to salary for females rating males, compared to males rating females." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 01:14 AM |
| 6 | Why lesbians sexuality seems less fluid than straight women's?The NCHS reported between 2015-2019 (a little dated, I know) that about 76% of women report only feeling attraction to opposite sex. I'm a different person and don't claim to know the percent of women who are truly straight/bisexual because like you say, surveys can't necessarily be trusted. This study shows that "straight" women may not be as straight as they think: The results of the study show that the majority of women in the sample explicitly declared to be heterosexual (~80%), while only a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 11:38 PM |
| 10 | Why lesbians sexuality seems less fluid than straight women's?Obviously one can debate any sort of social study, but this study shows that "straight" women may not be as straight as they think. The results of the study show that the majority of women in the sample explicitly declared to be heterosexual (~80%), while only a minority declared themselves as bisexual (~ 14%) or homosexual (~4%). Conversely, in line with the findings of previous studies,1,13-15,23 a surprisingly high frequency of women reported implicit gynephilic sexual preferences (~70 %). In… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Men who think the ability to do sex work is a "female privilege" vastly overestimate the *economic* feasibility of sex work for the average womanHow old are you dumb dumb? Still young enough you run and hide rather than admit when you're wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Men who think the ability to do sex work is a "female privilege" vastly overestimate the *economic* feasibility of sex work for the average womanI mean obviously? Lol do you expect some peer-reviewed study of how well prostitutes can blend into society? You made the original claim with literally no evidence to back it by the way. Is that not conjecture dumb dumb? The irony is clearly going to be lost on you. Tell me. A girl is a sugar baby for a year during college when she's 19. She's now 30. How would you know? How would society? You won't be able to answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Men who think the ability to do sex work is a "female privilege" vastly overestimate the *economic* feasibility of sex work for the average womanIf a girl had a sugar daddy when she was in college, you'd have absolutely no idea. Both parties would be equally incentivized to make sure nobody knows it ever happened. The same applies for most forms of prostitution really. Sex work like onlyfans is of course different. I'm 33 for reference. You sound naive to think you'd know for sure whether a woman has engaged in prostitution before. My guess is the vast majority blend right into society just fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 03:09 AM |
| 3 | Men who think the ability to do sex work is a "female privilege" vastly overestimate the *economic* feasibility of sex work for the average womanshe’s also sacrificing any chance for a normal future and respect. How would society even know what women have or haven't engaged in sex work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 01:20 AM |
| 1 | What's your Blue Pill success story?What you are is a racist. You have nothing backing your opinion, no source or any sort of data, yet you insist that foreign women are more likely to divorce simply because they are foreign. That's called racism. Believe it or not foreign women do not have less value than any other woman and I'd encourage you to challenge your racist beliefs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 11:52 PM |
| 1 | What's your Blue Pill success story?That’s why they marry these guys for their green cards then divorce them the moment they get citizenship Do you have any evidence that foreign/interracial marriages divorce at higher rates than non-foreign/interracial? Or are you just spewing racist rhetoric with no basis? You honestly just sound like you 100% believe foreign women are inferior which is insanely racist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 11:48 PM |
| 1 | What's your Blue Pill success story?you would know that sex ratio is 50/50 Except it's not. In Canada for example there's a 9% gap between total men and women ages 20-29. Even if you assume they are entirely heterosexual (they aren't, women are non-hetero at higher rates), that's still 9% that are out of luck. Typically wars and famines and whatever else would have trimmed this gap. But we don't go to war anymore and we don't have famines. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 11:43 PM |
| 1 | What's your Blue Pill success story?Why would the fact they are easier to impress be your answer to a question about their value? Do you judge a woman’s value by how easy they are to impress? Seems like you you actually do believe foreign women are inferior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 11:30 PM |
| 1 | What's your Blue Pill success story?Statistically there are significantly more heterosexual men than heterosexual women up until like age 45. So objectively there cannot be a match for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 11:22 PM |
| 15 | Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material.Idk I hooked up with a lot of men. So... yes, most men can get hookups. Foolproof logic right there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 06:25 PM |
| 5 | Does society pressure men into relationships with women they do not truly want to be with?Women do not have more "suitors" though. They simply do. There is a significant excess of just men versus women, let alone heterosexual men versus heterosexual women - up until around age 45-50. And I don’t think there’s any evidence that men prefer casual sex versus women seeing as men are more likely to be virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Asexual women need to stop attributing their qualities to all women.I’ll extend the same ask to you then, can you give me some examples of these women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Do women really periorize Money?good for US big citys I'm not familiar with India/China/Germany but 40k is not "good" for big US cities. It's poverty level for many of them, if not all of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 07:20 PM |
| 4 | Do women really periorize Money?Ratings of attractiveness were around 1000 times more sensitive to salary for females rating males, compared to males rating females. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 06:58 PM |
| 0 | What are the signs that a woman is genuinely desired - and not just settled for as the available option?its fair to want someone with a similar experience to yours It’s fair to want someone with whatever level of experience you want regardless of your level experience and not hypocritical. Maybe a virgin would want a partner with lots of experience so they’d be able to take the lead. Does that make the virgin a hypocrite? Is that not a fair thing to desire? And if you agree that’s fair, the reverse is only fair too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 05:42 PM |
| 9 | Asexual women need to stop attributing their qualities to all women.Well this is too vague to really debate unfortunately unless you give us something to work with so I’ll just bow out then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 08:39 AM |
| 9 | Asexual women need to stop attributing their qualities to all women.Why does it have to be a reddit user? If this is worth a post, surely you must be able to find a blog post or article or YouTube video or anything right? If it’s just a couple of Reddit users just block them and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 08:16 AM |
| 18 | Asexual women need to stop attributing their qualities to all women.Can you provide an example or two where this has been done? I can’t think of anywhere I’ve seen asexuals try to speak for all women or men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 07:29 AM |
| 3 | For all the talk about the differences between men and women, men here seem to ignore the gender differences when it comes to the topic of sex.Outrageous that you think it’s fine to stretch “bad sex” into literal rape. This is as bad faith as it gets. None of your friends described being strangled or accidental anal as just “bad sex”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 02:02 AM |
| -1 | For all the talk about the differences between men and women, men here seem to ignore the gender differences when it comes to the topic of sex.I don’t think that false accusations (while terrible and there’s no justifying this) is the same as actively being in pain or being injured during sex tho. Are you trying to suggest that bad sex is worse than a false accusation? Or even comparable? I'm really trying to give the benefit of the doubt here but I can't read that sentence any other way. Rape is obviously another discussion - but this thread isn't about rape. It's just about bad sex. And false accusations are significantly worse than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 10:55 PM |
| 24 | For all the talk about the differences between men and women, men here seem to ignore the gender differences when it comes to the topic of sex.In your opinion, what does a strong desire for you look like early into the relationship? In my experience a big one is unprompted compliments early on in dating. It's kind of crazy thinking back just how little women have ever complimented me without being prompted by me complimenting them first. I'm 34 and I still remember a girl who said I had nice eyes when I was 18 and had just started college because I don't think I got another unprompted compliment like that for like 4+ years after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 10:49 PM |
| – | Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where men are coming fromIt absolutely addresses what you said. The more men/women that are single and heterosexual, the more men/women that are applicable as partners. It’s physically impossible for every man to find a partner because there’s more of them. I’m not getting into the value of those partners because that’s just subjective. But obviously more potential partners is always better. It’s why people heavily suggest that dating in college is easier. Because there’s so many people and so many of them are single. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 10:14 PM |
| – | Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where men are coming fromAt the most relevant ages to this sub (18-45ish), even just statistically there are significantly more heterosexual men than women. That alone explains why it’s easier for women without getting into anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Why male and female heterosexuality are so different?I can put myself in your shoes, I don’t know why you feel in every comment to suggest I don’t understand women. You’re clearly just bad faith and can’t have a debate without ad hominems. Literally every single comment you’ve made has involved you insulting men and myself. Learn to have a conversation without insulting the person your conversing with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Why male and female heterosexuality are so different?Straight women watching gay content is perfectly normal, why bring that up like it’s some revelation? Also there is such a huge variety of porn and male porn stars that I don’t buy your argument. If a woman was truly straight she could easily find a male porn star to watch that she was attracted to. If she resorts to lesbian porn, she’s not straight. Also that’s a terrible analogy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 09:32 AM |
| 3 | Why male and female heterosexuality are so different?Why are you singling out Christianity? Societies shunning gay people is certainly not limited to Christian countries/societies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 09:16 AM |
| 6 | Why male and female heterosexuality are so different?This has nothing to do with anything I’ve said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 09:15 AM |
| 2 | Why male and female heterosexuality are so different?Then you’re not straight. How can “many” male porn actors be a turn off for you but not an entire gender that you supposedly aren’t even attracted to? Only explanation is you’d have to be bisexual. Nothing wrong with that of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Why male and female heterosexuality are so different?It’s not hard for me to understand at all, not sure why you’re claiming that? I understand it perfectly well, these women just aren’t straight. What I don’t understand I suppose is why you women aren’t understanding what the word sexy means. If you find someone sexy, by definition you’d find them appealing sexually, as in the idea of sex with them is appealing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Why male and female heterosexuality are so different?Looking at someone and finding them sexy is different than women watching lesbian porn and getting just as physically aroused as if it was hetero porn. There’s no way around it in my opinion. If a woman watches lesbian porn and gets as physically aroused as hetero or gay porn then she’s not straight. And that’s not even getting into why someone would look at someone and identify them as “sexy” but not want to do anything sexual with them. At that point what does “sexy” even mean? Like this is ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Why male and female heterosexuality are so different?and that they are more likely to see women in a sexual light despite not actually being attracted to them. Those two things sound mutually exclusive to me. I'd find it surprising that women can be aroused and turned on by the female body but not attracted to it at the same time. What does attraction even mean if it does not include physical arousal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 04:50 AM |
| 3 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.A big one all the others are missing, there are simply more men than women - and especially more heterosexual men than there are heterosexual women - until the age of like 50 when enough men have died out to even things out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 04:46 AM |
| 15 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.I have no need to ask a lawyer, the data is online for everyone to see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 04:44 AM |
| 15 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.divorces on the rise Divorces aren't on the rise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 04:41 AM |
| – | BP is synonymous with low testosterone.You even type like a woman. "Aaaand" "Lol" Also have no idea where I've backpedaled. I've maintained your dumb from the get-go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 03:57 AM |
| – | If RP denigrates women for sleeping with men, why should women choose ANY man?I don't think people who have casual sex, any casual sex at all, are more likely to have past sexual trauma. I do, and you agreed with me when you said "luck" was a factor. However, I was agreeing with you that an extremely high number of past sexual partners is likely an indication that someone has sexual trauma. Again, agreeing with me. Most people do not fall into that group. So? Let's say 20% do. That's still valuable information and becomes an indicator. I never said it was foolproof. We're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 03:52 AM |
| – | BP is synonymous with low testosterone.I'm literally just pointing out that your post is riddled by survivorship bias. It completely invalidates your argument. The only "woman" here is you getting rattled by being called out for being dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 03:48 AM |
| – | BP is synonymous with low testosterone.It's just a random number, I'm not claiming it's true or not. You're coming across as pretty dumb right now. It's to demonstrate that your post doesn't actually prove the claim you're making. Learn what "if" means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 03:43 AM |
| – | BP is synonymous with low testosterone.Sure, but if only 0.1% of red pilled men are successful, that sounds like the black pill has the right idea then. Your post completely hinges on survivorship bias, it’s poorly thought out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 03:41 AM |
| – | BP is synonymous with low testosterone.There is a reason why nearly every man who has actually made something of himself in the real world aligns with the RP archetype. How about all the men who align with the RP archetype and don’t make anything of themselves? Sounds like survivorship bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 03:37 AM |
| – | If RP denigrates women for sleeping with men, why should women choose ANY man?Having casual sex is not the same thing as high risk, compulsive sexual behavior I never said it was. There is obviously a spectrum when it comes to casual sex where some lean more towards the latter and some don’t. But certainly some people who have casual sex are engaging in high risk, compulsive behavior. Most people who have casual sex are not fucking random people indiscriminately. Most people don't have a new sexual partner every day of the week, every week, or even every month. There is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 03:26 AM |
| – | If RP denigrates women for sleeping with men, why should women choose ANY man?Some women abstain from casual sex because they have sexual trauma from childhood or a past LTR. Irrelevant to the discussion. I haven't seen any evidence that women who have casual sex tend to have more sexual trauma than women who don't. Then feel free to make this argument instead of the one you made. But I highly doubt this is the case. I don't have a study or anything, but it would absolutely shock me if the greater number of sexual partners didn't increase the chances of sexual trauma. Jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 02:29 AM |
| – | If RP denigrates women for sleeping with men, why should women choose ANY man?Do you think every casual sexual encounter is traumatic for women? Why would you think he believes that? If more sexual partners = higher chance of trauma, then it stands to reason that someone wanting to avoid partners with more trauma they would avoid partners with high number of sexual partners. I have no idea if "more sexual partners = higher chance of trauma" is the truth, just explaining the flaw in your reasoning. It doesn't matter if some women don't find it traumatic as long as some do.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 02:06 AM |
| – | If RP denigrates women for sleeping with men, why should women choose ANY man?Do you think that somehow women sleeping with YOU aren’t damaged BECAUSE she chose you? You're mistakenly assuming that a man would still think less of a woman for sleeping with him, which most likely isn't the case. Just because someone feels a woman sleeping with other men is bad, doesn't mean he thinks the woman sleeping with him is bad. If you're just talking about casual sex - then I would agree that if women were concerned with how RPers view them then they should never engage in casual se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 01:53 AM |
| 1 | New demographic HappeningI'll even do your work for you so people know what a troll you are. See the chart on page 22 of that paper. Again, if you don't come back with a "clearly I was wrong" then I know what a troll/bad faith person you are again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 05:33 PM |
| 0 | New demographic HappeningI did, clearly you didn’t. It 100% makes the comparison. Now I know you’re just bad faith, so this discussion is over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 04:48 PM |
| 1 | New demographic HappeningYou just linked the first reddit post that came up when you googled didn’t you? Great research abilities dumb dumb. https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=5086363 There’s a legitimate source, not a reddit post. You’re next comment should be “clearly I was wrong”, but let’s see if you’re just bad faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 03:45 AM |
| 2 | New demographic HappeningSpend time around women who have their shit together with an education, career and their own place are far less likely to seek marriage than women who lack these things Why do you feel comfortable saying things like this when studies are readily available and it’s objectively false? College educated women are wealthier than non-college educated women, and also are far more likely to marry than non-college educated women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 03:25 AM |
| 4 | Gen Z men shouldn't take dating advice from older generationsRight, but how does that actually change the advice? It definitely can change it. For example I've actually had a lot of women consider my lack of an instagram account as a red flag. So advice I'd give any younger guys is get that account going early, and build up your profile early. Even if I created one now I'd only have like 10 followers and look like even more of a creep so I don't bother. People over the age of like 35/40 probably wouldn't have that on their radar at all - for either gender… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 01:43 AM |
| – | Most men are completely misunderstanding female nature and are applying their faulty male logic to interpret female behavior.Now you’re just contradicting yourself, you now are admitting they do want them. You’re wasting my time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 02:48 AM |
| – | Most men are completely misunderstanding female nature and are applying their faulty male logic to interpret female behavior.why dont they want any of them? Who is claiming they don’t want any of them? It’s pretty clear they just want ones they can’t necessarily get commitment from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 02:44 AM |
| – | Why is virgin used as an insult if sex and relationships are supposedly not important?So obviously there is much more to it than your comment suggests then. Otherwise why wouldn’t you? The N word would surely sting just as much if not more than incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 03:14 AM |
| – | Why is virgin used as an insult if sex and relationships are supposedly not important?So naturally if the guy was black you’d call him the N word as well right? That would sting even more if you called him that and an incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 03:09 AM |
| – | Why is virgin used as an insult if sex and relationships are supposedly not important?Why is the N word only insulting to black people? There were plenty of white slaves too. You're about as bad faith as it gets at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 08:19 PM |
| – | Why is virgin used as an insult if sex and relationships are supposedly not important?You are comparing dehumanization to a personalized insult Didn't I just show you how it's not a personalized insult at all? When you insult a man for being a virgin, you are insulting essentially every male virgin. Just like if you use the N word. Obviously to different degrees and I've never pretended they're the same degree. It’s also not even a sexist insult, since it’s prized in women. It’s a misogynistic one at best. This is just getting bad faith now. Typical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 07:50 PM |
| – | Why is virgin used as an insult if sex and relationships are supposedly not important?It’s dehumanizing, to an entire race of people Ah seems like you are starting to get it. Insulting one person by calling them a virgin equally applies to an entire group of people, regardless of whether you actually believe it's an insult. Took some real baby steps to get you there, but glad we finally did. Is it dehumanizing to be called a virgin And just to touch on this, I actually do believe to an extent it is. To be made fun of because you've failed to experience one of the most fundamental… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 07:45 PM |
| – | Why is virgin used as an insult if sex and relationships are supposedly not important?Why would whether or not black people are an oppressed minority matter? The justification here is that you are choosing the insult based on what the person is insulted by. Why would the overall group being oppressed matter? You don’t actually believe you’re racist, so shouldn’t it be fine? Just like you’re not actually sexist because you’re using a sexist insult. Oh wait I think we just found a contradiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 07:02 PM |
| – | Why is virgin used as an insult if sex and relationships are supposedly not important?Seems like a strange justification. If they were arguing with a black guy the N word would probably work even better - would they use that then since it would be sufficiently insulting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 06:20 PM |
| – | Why are women like this?All you said was “Keep dreaming” and a cringy emoji. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 11:00 PM |
| – | Why are women like this?Keep dreaming that life is going to get harder for everyone because the birth rate is unsustainable in every developed country in the world? I’m not sure what you’re trying to say nor what’s funny about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 10:58 PM |
| – | Why are women like this?You might change your tune if social support systems start collapsing when demographics continue to shift. East Asian countries will be an interesting case study for what’s to come for the West and by the looks of it nobody will be unaffected by it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 10:51 PM |
| – | Why are women like this?Her dating or not dating someone has no personal impact on my life. It certainly does if it becomes a significant societal trend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 08:13 PM |
| – | If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting itThat's what everyone says until over 50% of them realize their gut was completely wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 03:46 AM |
| – | If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting itYour gut knows the difference between a partner that's abusing your love and one that you're just miscommunicating with. No it doesn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 03:31 AM |
| 3 | More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyoneRead the fucking link. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 03:22 AM |
| 0 | More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyoneI literally linked you a study that word for word disproves your claim that "monetary utility has no bearing on how attractive" a man is to a woman. Is a woman being with a man because he has money that much different than a woman being with a man because his jaw is a few millimeters more in an attractive direction than the next guy? Not really. Or because he's a few inches taller? Not really. Stop replying to me, you're too dumb for this conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 03:10 AM |
| -3 | More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyoneIrrelevant questions. Just learn to admit when you’re wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 03:02 AM |
| 3 | More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyoneTheir monetary utility has no bearing on how attractive they are. Blatantly false. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S109051381730315X?via%3Dihub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 02:45 AM |
| 4 | Men shouldn't take dating advice from women (on the internet)Even if they met in college, they still could have had dating challenges. Of course, and they also could not have had dating challenges. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 03:06 AM |
| 6 | Men shouldn't take dating advice from women (on the internet)If dating was easy for anyone we'd hear about it, we'd see it. We do see it. Plenty of couples meet in college, married before 30, kids around 30, live happily ever after. It really does just come easily to some people. I by no means think this is everybody, nor even the majority of people, but a sizable portion of people still nonetheless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 01:38 AM |
| 4 | Men shouldn't take dating advice from women (on the internet)Dating is a challenge for everyone Nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 01:21 AM |
| 4 | Men shouldn't take dating advice from women (on the internet)Everyone has trouble getting dates. Dating is a challenge for everyone. False. There are portions of both men and women that have no trouble getting dates, and for which dating isn’t a much of challenge at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 01:19 AM |
| – | If you could run one rigorous study on modern dating/gender conflict, what would you test and what do you predict?Women's loss of libido over time in monogamous relationships. The claim is always that it's the mans fault somehow (doesn't do the dishes, wants to be mothered, etc) but it would be interesting to see if their libido would still drop independent of any external factor other than just the passing of time. Marriage becomes much more of a raw deal if you're dealing with the time bomb of a dead bedroom regardless of what you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 12:31 AM |
| 6 | Thoughts on shy, no-experience men?Are you drunk? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:35 AM |
| 6 | Thoughts on shy, no-experience men?Sure, and if a 7/10 can be a model then the rating out of 10 system is worthless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:32 AM |
| 6 | Thoughts on shy, no-experience men?In what world is 7/10 model-worthy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:17 AM |
| 5 | Thoughts on shy, no-experience men?decent looking - he looks like a model facially How exactly can both these things be true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:04 AM |
| – | What tangible benefits do men get by caring about womens rights?So fucking what if rude letters were sent? This guy killed himself due to the bankruptcy/ridicule from his shelter. What an insensitive and childish comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 09:13 AM |
| 9 | Thoughts for men who stay mad at womenI mean, are you wanting me to pull up all the data on men who stalk women who won't date them-- and how that stalking evolves to increased aggression? I don’t need you to because I already know that’s an extremely minimal amount of the violence that is dealt against women. The vast vast majority of it is committed by the man they’ve chosen to date and/or marry. And, is your point that men do a superb job of hiding their violent tendencies until they've properly isolated you and managed to get yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 10:25 PM |
| 11 | Thoughts for men who stay mad at womenthere's no end of stories about men harming, raping, and killing women. The men harming/raping/killing women are by and large the ones those women have chosen to date and/or marry - they are not the men who struggle to find a woman to fuck that your post is about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts for men who stay mad at womenThose things aren’t mutually exclusive. You’re just changing what you’re saying now. You can’t keep a consistent statement so this is pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 10:13 PM |
| 15 | Thoughts for men who stay mad at womenYour premise is just wrong right off the bat. 99.999% of men don’t believe that all people of a specific gender have the purpose of fucking them. So that assumption never even exists to be discarded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 10:06 PM |
| – | A lot of young men are leaning conservative simply because leftists/liberals aren’t making it a point to speak directly to men, like they do to other groups, which conservatives take advantage ofSticking to the topic OP raised - do you think a comment like this would make a "single childless" man more likely to vote left-wing/progressive? Or are you just further proving OP's point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 07:57 AM |
| – | A lot of young men are leaning conservative simply because leftists/liberals aren’t making it a point to speak directly to men, like they do to other groups, which conservatives take advantage ofMaybe I didn’t word my post great but I meant in terms of basic rights. You said the U.S. "has always favored men". What basic rights are women lacking right now such that the U.S still favors men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 07:55 AM |
| – | A lot of young men are leaning conservative simply because leftists/liberals aren’t making it a point to speak directly to men, like they do to other groups, which conservatives take advantage ofI think it’s harder to “speak directly to men” because the U.S. has always favored men, specifically white men. Well you're doing it right here. The U.S., at least for the last 60 years or so, hasn't favored white men at all. It's favored wealthy men, sure - and wealthy men happen to be predominantly white (though this is changing). But the vast majority of white men who are in their 20s/30s/40s/50s today don't come from wealth, never will be wealthy, and haven't had any sort of favoritism yet y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 07:46 AM |
| 14 | Do you not believe that some women genuinely don't want kids?Why would a woman lie about that? Other than to baby trap, it just seems like a weird thing to lie about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 01:32 AM |
| 2 | The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men.would it be her fault if I had turned out bad? Possibly? But we can’t really know that without knowing what your dad was like, why she chose him, etc. it’s definitely possible that from an outside perspective it could have been obvious your dad was going to be a shitty father. At least in my experience it’s not usually a blindside as to which guys turn out to be deadbeats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Women logically are the cause of most dating problemsNot sure you can. Biologically women just aren't really that attracted to most men. Nobody's fault really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 09:04 AM |
| 6 | If women were not into men, there wouldn't be so many women being side chicks and humiliating themselves for a manTop 1% man based on statistics would be a 6’4/6’5 guy with a individual net worth of 3-10 Million dollars and he would be in great shape on top of that and be a model tier in looks. That would certainly be lower than 1%. The height alone is 1% of men. Add in the other two and it’s more like 0.01-0.1%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 05:03 PM |
| – | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?By definition being red pill is believing there are ways you can improve your chances with women. It’s an attempt to understand the true interpersonal dynamics/dating of today’s society and how to maximize your success. So your question is dumb because red pills don’t really opt out if they think they can improve, that’s more of a black pill thing. To get into your nephew… can’t really comment since I don’t know him, but by 15 he will have definitely already seen women favor some men over others… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:42 PM |
| – | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?You don’t seem to understand the different pills. Don’t ask dumb questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 07:25 AM |
| -1 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?Some women use sex as a bargaining chip the second you meet them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 10:03 PM |
| – | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseAnd yet those partners go to just about every event together. And at those events they spend the majority of the time right next to each other. And sometimes they don’t even go to events (think a wedding) if their partner won’t or can’t go… None of that is the case for a flatmate. And ask any man/woman with a partner if they'd rather live alone with their partner or for the two of them to have a roommate/flatmate, the answer is a resounding no to the roommate. The goal is always to live together… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 02:30 AM |
| 29 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseIf relationships weren’t the most valuable social outlet, why do we find that couples, and couples with kids, voluntarily choose to spend increasingly large amounts of their time with their partners/families at the detriment of their friends? Talk to any single person in their early 30s and onwards and they’ll tell you how much less time their friends have for them as opposed to their partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 12:53 AM |
| – | "Alpha Male" culture is juvenile.If we’re breaking it down by logic, you’d still be wrong. The most efficient would just be a rotating window of women where you slide to the next one when the previous shows signs of pregnancy. So depending on level of sophistication in determining pregnancy you could have anywhere from 3-5/6 wives and be much more efficient than monogamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 07:27 AM |
| 9 | Men misinterpreted “I choose the bear” because they’re media illiterate or so defensive they chose willful obtusenessThis sub especially proves it over and over and over again. Using this incredibly niche sub as proof of the attitude of an entire gender seems like a failure of your media literacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 06:00 PM |
| 6 | Men misinterpreted “I choose the bear” because they’re media illiterate or so defensive they chose willful obtusenessWouldn’t media literacy lead you to understand that a minority of men being rapists doesn’t mean that the majority of women haven’t experienced sexual harassment+? Irrelevant to the man vs bear debate. It also doesn’t mean that the plurality of men while not rapists per se, have still contributed to rape culture with their own dismissive or violative actions or attitudes. The vast vast majority of men do not have anything resembling a “dismissive” attitude towards rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 05:16 PM |
| 21 | Men misinterpreted “I choose the bear” because they’re media illiterate or so defensive they chose willful obtusenessWouldn’t media literacy be the exact tool women should use to realize that the violent men in society are the massive massive minority of men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 05:09 PM |
| – | Q4M: Who is in the wrong here?It’s clearly an act, so a fake scenario first of all. But if we pretend it’s real, nobody is in the wrong and it would just be pretty tame bantering here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 03:42 PM |
| – | Women are not romantic.I’m sure the crowd definitely influences it. Maybe it’ll get more and more outdated, who knows, that would be nice! But sometimes the pendulum flips back the other way and I’m more inclined to think women are going to enforce even more romantic gestures from men going forward, rather than less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:55 AM |
| – | Women are not romantic.I’m not talking about you specifically. You, by the sounds of it, have a much more reciprocal view of romantic gestures than most women, which is great. But if men make the mistake of thinking most women think similarly to you, they may be surprised when they find they do not - and that women still by and large view the man paying the bill as a bare-minimum romantic gesture for them to continue seeing him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:40 AM |
| – | Women are not romantic.I’m splitting not because it’s a romantic gesture, but because it’s the pragmatic thing to do. The fact you suggest splitting the bill might be confused for being a “romantic gesture” is kind of the glaring thing here. No man would ever remotely be considered romantic for splitting the bill, and more likely would be ruining his chances with the woman he asks to split altogether. Sort of really nails OP’s point that men have much higher expectations for romantic gestures placed upon them by women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:32 AM |
| – | Women are not romantic.Just think it’s interesting a woman who describes herself as “very romantic” still could only do as good as splitting dates, which would automatically be viewed as un-romantic by the vast majority of women if a man did it. Especially if he defended it by saying it was just “practical” to split the bill and he wanted to see that the woman he was taking out respected him enough to split. I think many women would read that as one of the least romantic things they’ve heard a man do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:20 AM |
| – | Women are not romantic.I always insisted on splitting dates back when I dated Why didn’t you insist on paying the whole thing? That sounds more romantic than splitting. Splitting the bill doesn’t sound like something a “very romantic” person would do at all. edit: since some people are getting confused, I think it’s great OP was open to splitting. Just using it as an example where men could never call themselves very romantic without being laughed at if they always wanted to split the bill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:09 AM |
| – | QFW: Do you think it’s a bad thing that women are generally perceived and/or expected to be more “nurturing” and “caring”? Do you think it’s something men can learn from?Men posting harsh opinions and takes on women and dating, and the women in here trying to be more “consoling” and be more sympathetic and understanding towards men who are suffering when they might not get that treatment in return You and I certainly have very different opinions about the tone of the women who comment in here, and the tone of women in general on the topic of dating. Sympathetic and understanding would be near the bottom of the list of adjectives I’d use to describe them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:04 AM |
| 10 | CMV: Men are not insecure they are just jealous of experienced womenJealousy and insecurity are pretty related concepts lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 07:41 PM |
| 11 | A Swedish NGO released a dating manual aimed at lonely menOkay? Why are you telling me that? I don’t see how it’s relevant to this comment thread in the slightest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 04:00 AM |
| 17 | A Swedish NGO released a dating manual aimed at lonely menthat came after endless screaming and vitriol and threats directed at people trying to help. The vast majority of involuntarily celibate and lonely guys are invisible and quiet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.I honestly have no idea what you're actually trying to say at this point, you're all over the place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 07:14 PM |
| 0 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.Roughly isn't reasonable, and there's more than just gay/lesbian that causes the discrepancy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.As a man you're likely to defend yourself from any given male attacker. And yet significantly more men are killed by other men than women killed by men. We don’t have to imagine here, there are statistics. Trying to say "well he's not likely to use force" isn't really how anyone assesses violence That’s how everyone assesses violence… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.Still disagree. In a confrontation men are significantly less likely to use any meaningful level of violence if it’s a woman confronting them vs another man. If you assume the confrontation is already violent, and that the man won’t hold back, then sure women are in more danger. But that’s just kind of a weird stipulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:47 PM |
| 0 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.And that’s why I called it out because it isn’t “roughly” equivalent in the vast majority of western countries/cities until you hit like age 50ish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.The probability of a woman or a man finding a relationship on any given day is roughly equal across the full population. That assumes there’s an equal number of heterosexual men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:40 PM |
| 9 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.You’ve got it backwards. A man confronting another man is significantly more dangerous than a woman confronting a man. Where it’s more dangerous for women is with their domestic partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:37 PM |
| 11 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.Just from a statistical perspective it’s much easier for women due to the lower number of heterosexual women than men from the ages of like 16-50ish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:28 PM |
| 8 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?You’re just wrong. Women use it for all of the above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 05:10 AM |
| 8 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?It’s absolutely used in the context of dating as well. For example one I’ve seen is when a man listens to and asks the woman he’s dating questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 03:14 AM |
| 14 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?Right, and by saying “the bar is in hell” they are suggesting that men literally only have to do the absolute bare minimum and they'll have no problem - ergo suggesting men have it easy. Note I'm not talking about whether I actually believe men have it easier or harder or whatever since I don't really care, just wanted to show it's insane to say "I’ve never heard a woman say that men have it easy" when it's said all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:13 PM |
| 12 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?Hyperbole. Used in communication across social media to gain traction and direct attention. It works. I actually don't think it's hyperbole in many cases. I think many of the women who say it genuinely believe it. The rest of your comment is just you contorting yourself into a peanut trying to come up with an alternative meaning to the phrase but basically just describing exactly how women believe men have it easy but in more words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:12 PM |
| 17 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?The quote “the bar is in hell” is directed at other women as a commentary on what they put up with. So they're saying other women put up with just about anything, ergo they are saying men have it easy because of those women. There's no other possible interpretation of that statement other than to suggest men have it easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:09 PM |
| 21 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?I’ve never heard a woman say that men have it easy Of course I don’t know what percentage of women would believe this, but how have you never seen a woman say “the bar is in hell” before? It’s blasted everywhere on social media. What would “the bar is in hell” mean if not to say that they believe men have it easy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 08:12 PM |
| 2 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.I have no idea who you’re responding to because most of the shit in your comment is irrelevant to anything I’ve said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 02:41 AM |
| 8 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.And we all know that sex is much more important to men than women. The amount of sex? I would definitely agree that's more important to men than women. However the quality of sex though? I'd actually argue the quality is way more important to women, and that women are a significantly tougher judge on sexual performance than men, and finally that being good at sex is significantly harder for men than women. So while I can empathize with women a tiny bit here, I don't find it comparable really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Males strange obsession with losing their V cardsI literally just explained to you how statistically that’s not the case until around age 40/50 I believe. And that’s only because so many men will have died. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Males strange obsession with losing their V cardsLet's say a man asks a woman tastefully if she has any past trauma or been sexual abused/assaulted, and she doesn't want to admit or get into it so she just says no - but it's not true and she was raped 10 years ago. Let's say after that conversation they have sex. Did she rape him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 08:02 AM |
| 5 | Males strange obsession with losing their V cardsMy honest response just get an escort or settle for the women you guys claim to dislike. You're assuming there are women to settle for in all cases, which isn't true. It's a fact that young men have a sizeable excess population over young women in most western countries, and an even greater excess of single men versus single women, so it leads that not every man will be able to find/settle for a woman regardless of his standards. Escorts I have no issue with and I think for some men are a great … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Does the 80/20 or 90/10 rule exist or does it not?What percent of men were rated average or lower? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 02:29 AM |
| 4 | Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at womenlol the women I see in the videos are misogynist men somehow? And all the comments agreeing which are women are also men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at womenThere’s a huge trend on TikTok where women post videos of how they’re literally embarrassed by the matches they’re shown on Hinge. I’ve seen some refer to looking at their matches as humiliation rituals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 07:29 PM |
| – | Would this scenario be rape, or just regret? Is it playing victim/denying responsibility to claim rape?None of the context really matters. You’ve given like one sentence to the only part of your essay that could be rape which isn’t enough detail. Delete everything but the part where he forces her head onto him since that’s the only relevant part. Based on what you wrote though about that part I would say it is rape. If you don’t have consent to force a woman’s head onto your dick and you still do it, pretty clear cut rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Evo-psych is nowhere near as rigorous as red-pillers like to believe.childlike dog longing wide edge vase doll file water coordinated This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Evo-psych is nowhere near as rigorous as red-pillers like to believe.sort marble quack many airport smart act label cooperative simplistic This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Evo-psych is nowhere near as rigorous as red-pillers like to believe.plant angle languid shocking normal provide hurry follow swim judicious This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 12:05 AM |
| – | Do your feelings towards women come from jealousy or genuine disgust?I don’t have any negative feelings towards women who engage in female behaviors, since if I was one, I’d be the exact same way. "I don’t have any negative feelings towards pedophiles who engage in pedophiliac behaviors, since if I was one, I’d be the exact same way." If women are doing things that are worth criticizing, they should be criticized. Note I'm not actually saying they are, just saying you're argument doesn't really make much sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 07:31 AM |
| – | Hobby groups are really the last good place to dateWell what's your job? Definitely still possible for most jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 05:27 AM |
| – | Hobby groups are really the last good place to dateThe vast majority of people work bullshit jobs from like 16-24 that they would have no qualms quitting if shit hit the fan. It’s a great place to meet a partner. Literal forced socialization. If you have a legit career of course it becomes tougher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 05:11 AM |
| -6 | Let's be honest: men also have different rules for the women they're attracted to.Not going to watch the whole thing but skipped through for a few minutes and literally none of them said what you claimed. Regardless it's street interviews, people saying shit to be funny when put on the spot and they still don't even say it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 09:29 PM |
| – | Let's be honest: men also have different rules for the women they're attracted to.They admit when asked if they were a woman for a day, they would go fuck a shitload of guys. Nobody would say that lol. Point me to a single straight guy who made that admission anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 08:50 PM |
| 14 | No, women aren’t attracted to bad men. You’re just hearing about the breakups.That’s not even remotely the definition of fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 06:18 PM |
| 5 | Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality.Are your friends parasitic if they don’t pay you back for buying a beer? If it’s always the same person buying the beer, yes. And if that friend would treat you differently if you stopped buying them beer, even more so yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 03:50 PM |
| – | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.Would you ask out a girl who did this? I don't think I'd see that as an immediate disqualifier, no - but it definitely wouldn't help convince me to. But I'm not exactly seeing how it's relevant to my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 11:36 PM |
| – | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.I’d argue the much bigger reason is social proof. Men don’t care about it. Women are, whether biologically or culturally, obsessed with it. Autistic people have no social proof, therefore are hugely unattractive to the vast majority of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 08:16 PM |
| – | The largest cohort preventing boys from excelling are precisely the people who say they need to lift themselves from their bootstrapsI’m not going to link them because I actually don’t believe they’re correct either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 01:39 AM |
| – | The largest cohort preventing boys from excelling are precisely the people who say they need to lift themselves from their bootstrapsI could link just as many that say men have a higher tolerance. It’s a notoriously impossible area to make a legitimate claim. Also that journal of pain study is horrible and is the farthest thing from conclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 01:29 AM |
| – | The largest cohort preventing boys from excelling are precisely the people who say they need to lift themselves from their bootstrapsActually, there isn’t. There’s really no way to compare pain accurately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 01:18 AM |
| – | The largest cohort preventing boys from excelling are precisely the people who say they need to lift themselves from their bootstrapsGreater pain tolerance There’s really no possible way to know this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 12:48 AM |
| – | Jordan Peterson's views on the sexual marketplace are self-contradictoryYou are also slow apparently. OP makes no claim as to whether the 5% claim is true or not, it’s truth is irrelevant to his argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 07:12 PM |
| – | Jordan Peterson's views on the sexual marketplace are self-contradictoryYou’re slow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 03:40 PM |
| 11 | The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for MenBelieve it or not different men have different opinions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 05:48 AM |
| 18 | The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for MenIt can't be done. Women are psychologically inclined to be attracted to men who have social proof. It's not something that can be changed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 05:34 AM |
| – | Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality.I'm not speaking about the studies or the validity of them at all. I'm literally just pointing out that every single link you posted is pointing back to the exact same grifter. It's 6pm, just wrapping up work and I haven't even had dinner yet. Lot's of night left pal, speak for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 02:09 AM |
| – | Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality.I hope this guy is paying you lol, or more likely you are him. This guy is a grifter, he has no academic credibility. Doesn't even provide a last name. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 01:27 AM |
| – | Do women downplay the overwhelming advantages that the desire gap gives them?It's literally a perfect comparison to what you said. If anything it's even more accurate to your point, since men chasing is a biological imperative written in our DNA over hundreds of thousands of years, while currency is a purely artificial invention over the last few thousand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 10:05 PM |
| – | Do women downplay the overwhelming advantages that the desire gap gives them?Men can literally wake up tomorrow & stop chasing women and all these “advantages” would disappear. Not something I would call an advantage since it’s artificial & based on what men do. One of the dumbest things I've ever read. "Americans could wake up tomorrow and decide the USD currency is worthless and all of Bezos'/Musks' obscene wealth would disappear, so their wealth is artificial and not something I would call an advantage." See how dumb that sounds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 10:02 PM |
| – | CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibilityYou can’t check up on somebody if they don’t want you to, that’s called stalking and harassment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 09:29 PM |
| – | CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibilityI just told you, the man might never know the kid even exists to register as the father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 09:22 PM |
| – | CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibilityNeither parent can unilaterally discharge their support obligations to a child Women certainly can. They simply could never tell the Dad the kid even exists, and then put the child up for adoption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 09:13 PM |
| – | We do not live in a “hookup” culture and the amount of casual sex going on is grossly exaggeratedA couple of things stand out. Lol, the only thing that stands out is that it's bogus data, otherwise how could there possibly be such massive swings year to year? 23.1% to 8.3% and then back to 20.2% in a 4 year span from 06-10? That's impossible to have such random spreads at supposedly societally-representative numbers if this data was accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 05:22 AM |
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