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Question For WomenHefty-Lobster-5513/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:06 AM
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I’m curious about your definition of “adapting to the dating market”. Do you really want us to leave our dignity at home when we go on dates with y’all? And you also claim that we are acting like women when we choose our own self worth over women who don’t respect us in our natural state, why does this bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:12 PM
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Ditto
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:38 PM
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You dead ass wouldn’t change yourself for man and you most definitely would want one to take you as you are as well. Why should we settle for less? Is dignity and self esteem that much of a turn off for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:33 PM
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That mainly started in the 2010s when the porn industry really blew up. But a lot of porn back in the days were just people, or couples posting videos of themselves on free hosting sites. Look up the history of amateur porn. Pornhub and Onlyfans gave those people a way to monetize those videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:04 PM
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I looked it up and found Tasha Reign and Asa Akira as two examples of women who came from wealthy backgrounds before doing hardcore porn. There’s also the Kardashian sex tape if you want to count that. And other celebrity women with only fans pages posting suggestive lewd content like Cardi B and Iggy Azalea. I also saw a documentary back in the day and a couple of the girls on there came from midwestern families who owned a chunk of land for farming. Hot girls wanted is the documentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:28 AM
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>I have yet to see a rich girl doing it. Where have you been for the last 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:30 PM
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Lol not really. Some men really like being with one woman/man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:54 PM
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I’d rather be single tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:26 PM
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Feminists want men to pay some sort of a tax for being bigger and stronger. When everything is truly equal the pendulum still shifts towards the male due to size and strength difference and they can’t help their fear, which is why they fight for more advantages. The movement is all fear mongering, propaganda and a need to shut down any opposition no matter how reasonable they may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:36 PM
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They want her to be agreeable. They want her to be nice to them. They want her to admire them. They want to feel respected, appreciated, and important in her eyes. They want warmth, encouragement, validation, emotional comfort. We’ve been saying this forever, why the surprise now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 08:04 PM
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Lilith of Babylon type beat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:41 AM
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Luck and preparation are good things in general but it doesn’t mean you have to pick from being kind and considerate or being lucky and prepared.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:01 PM
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In my experience, kindness does get rewarded. It’s not often, but it does lead to people seeing you as more favorable and reliable. This eventually leads to more opportunities in life, more friends, better social interactions. Doesn’t mean you go out of your way to be nice to people, but when you do get a chance just do the right thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:09 PM
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Low because we’re not really investing much into each other compared to a monogamous relationship. And plus I wouldn’t want that kind of relationship with any girl because there is still a level of trust for me to even consider that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 10:53 PM
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I don’t care to an extent. If it was past relationships, I understand. But if you’re one of those girls who’s been in more relationships than Dennis Schroeder has been on NBA teams, I’m going to assume the problem could’ve been you. It’s not that much of a problem for a more casual relationship though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 09:56 PM
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Men should learn to become asexual And this is where you lost everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 10:07 PM
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Judging by most women’s standards, we are correct to assume a man’s prime is in his 30s but there are caveats to this because not every man would have their best dating years there. You could be more financially viable, more mature, dress better, more involved in your community, more independent and your prime dating years would still be in your early 20s because you were around more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:27 AM
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What makes you think men aren’t also happy single then being in this situation you just described? Are women truly not satisfied with men if they aren’t paying for everything and worshipping the ground they walk on? And do men not get the option of living a full happy life single like how a lot of my uncles and family friends did? What walls are closing in on us specifically because last time I checked the economy is whooping everyone’s ass this generation and the loneliness epidemic y’all love …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:07 PM
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I don’t really care about getting downvoted. But if you gonna downvote me for thinking black women are attractive, Ima be a little defensive because it’s about more than just me at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:43 AM
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And I (a man) am telling you that black women are considered some of the most beautiful women in the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:58 AM
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Ma’am black women are some of the most attractive women in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:00 AM
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Sounds like you’re getting different answers from different people 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 03:15 AM
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One gender likes to clutch pearls and one doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:47 PM
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They are absolutely frying this girl in the comments 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:02 PM
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I summed it up for yall: “Blah, blah, blah, creepy.. Blah blah blah, patriarchy… blah, blah, blah, men bad and women don’t have to tolerate them anymore”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:33 PM
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Gotta get you a torta my brother
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:22 AM
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Good relationship w/cheeks > Single w/cheeks > Good relationship w/o cheeks > Single w/o cheeks > Bad relationship w/cheeks > Bad relationship w/o cheeks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:11 AM
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Didn’t y’all have a movement because we kept calling y’all sluts? Why is it suddenly okay now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:36 PM
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Contrary to popular belief here, I don’t believe all men are great people. The same way I don’t believe all women are great people as well. I do think there are lots good men out there, but good doesn’t mean perfect. Good men and women will push boundaries without even realizing it most of the time. The issue with your post is that you are putting words in a lot of our mouths making it seem like all of men believe we’re all perfect and it’s women who are flawed. Also, that when women pick men, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:06 PM
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Because men aren’t a monolith. A lot of us don’t do this shit. And you would be surprised at the women we’ve dated, or at least been acquainted with, who did the same shit you explained in your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:45 PM
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Besides the shorter lives part. None of this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:57 PM
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IDK about you, but that picture of that vagina was pretty arousing to me. But I think there is a distinction because I know girls who collected dick pics from the internet on their phones to masturbate to. Not saying that every girl wants dick pics from strangers sent to them on the regular but it’s different strokes for different folks (no pun intended). I got a gallery of my own dick pics on my phone because I know some of the women I been with or even dated were into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:49 PM
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Because those men had to give up theirselves up to the government when there were wars to fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:23 PM
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She’s probably a misandrist, most of her post are like this. Makes me wonder what she’s doing here since this is supposed to be a sub about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:00 AM
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Man thinks this is Legend of Zelda 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:04 PM
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Dating apps were fire before the companies decided to turn them into profit machines. You literally have to pay for features that were available for free in 2014.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:56 PM
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It still is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:34 PM
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This ain’t no romance novel. I’m not convincing anyone to like me after they reject me. I’m just moving on to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:23 PM
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Im not pursuing any woman that rejected me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:56 PM
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Do you expect to hit it off with every man you go on a date with? I’m pretty sure y’all don’t even have that standard for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:41 AM
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Tyreek Hill, Nick Cannon and NBA Youngboy can only do so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 04:37 AM
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I don’t know about a revenge fantasy but you definitely can age like fine wine in your 30s and 40s if you put in the work. Shout out to my Dad slaying it in his 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 04:35 AM
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Can women be incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:34 AM
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So the “etc” just don’t mean shit to you huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:05 AM
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Words just don’t have any meaning anymore man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:02 AM
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So you been in this sub for how long, and you never seen a woman refer to a man as an incel all because of an opinion? And are these self identifying incels in the room with us?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 09:30 PM
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Is this your first day on the internet? Have you not seen women call men incels or gay for the slightest shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 06:12 PM
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It all started with the invention of Instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:49 PM
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You are correct. I think most women aren’t really equipped to give good dating advice to men since dating is a lot different for women. I believe women give great relationship advice though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:53 PM
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Nothing wrong with being friends with women. Most men have plenty of women they consider friends. However if you are friends with a woman you find attractive and want more than a friendship with her but she does not (word to Eros for my mythology folks) it creates a toxic scenario where the woman in that situation would have power over the man because of his love for her that she may never reciprocate and even if she does she would be in a situation where she is compromising her own happiness to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:17 PM
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I’ll tell you what man, things were a lot different before Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:07 PM
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You just don’t want to catch your man cheating on you with another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:34 PM
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Point 1&3 is more of a generalization but you’re going somewhere with point 2. The type of friendships that women on here claim are “the only real friendships you can have” can be taxing on your mental load if all of your friends are trauma dumping, hitting you with crazy scenarios and drama. Sometimes it’s cool to have a few friendships like that and the rest as more acquaintanceships than close friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:39 PM
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Humans naturally adapt to their environment for the sake of survival. This so called generation of weak men is due to these “weak men” being able to survive as good and consistently as strong men in this generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:13 PM
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Good to me means, goes to work, pays his bills and takes care of his family. This is majority of the men I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:11 AM
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What kind of person do you think would be fine with dating a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:01 AM
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I personally don’t care if she is or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:58 PM
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I what I said was literally a response to what you said. You said the analogy was used to point out how “scary” men can be. I’m telling you there isn’t a man alive that’s scarier than a polar bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 06:47 AM
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There is nothing a man could do that could top the worst thing a bear can do to you. Women are in way more proximity of men than bears. If you woke up one morning and every man was replaced with bears, you wouldn’t leave your house let alone your room. If you replaced the bears in a forest with men, more people would feel safe in that forest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:05 AM
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The fact that you would want a man to approach you and not a bear shows that the whole man vs bear thing was bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:04 PM
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Then why not use another woman in that example?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:36 PM
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You’re literally comparing apples to oranges
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:24 PM
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“In most surveys, young women report more loneliness than young men” So where is the female loneliness epidemic? And why don’t y’all ever bring it up? “But even if these women don’t prioritize dating a man with a degree or a prestigious job, many of the men without those credentials don’t want to date them.” Seems like those men are also perfectly fine remaining single.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:34 AM
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The male loneliness epidemic isn’t a real thing. People are more single now than ever, but it doesn’t mean that men are lonely. This is a false narrative pushed by the media trying to claim most men don’t have friends and the single men struggle to make connections with people and men as a whole need to change to meet “women’s standards”. The reality is, the same way women are free to remain single and not be married is the same way men are as well. Some men want to remain single and not date an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:14 AM
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Ma’am we’re talking about a DoorDash order not life alert.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 09:37 PM
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Checking if he was okay? I wish someone would. I bet you if a dude entered a woman’s crib for a DoorDash order to “check if she’s okay” you would be singing a totally different tune.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:18 PM
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It literally said it on the report. Also, last time someone entered my place after I mentioned to leave the order at the door, I cussed the ass out. Why the hell are you going into peoples homes when you have no authorization to do so. And recording too? Shiiid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:00 PM
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There was and she was recorded, since buddy had a camera at his front door, entering the dudes house.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:40 PM
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Depends where you are. Some places you have to join a waiting list where there are hundreds of people applying for the same place you are trying to move into. Higher population areas are definitely harder to find a place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:15 AM
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Thanks for your comment and I totally agree. The touch grass clap back people always get here is pretty ironic judging by how often you see people on their phones when you go out which I literally do everyday (except for today for obvious reasons). Also you made a great point on how these statements can be harmful and can push a stereotype that can make people feel bad about themselves. Also, none of these women who said that would react the way they want men to react if a man made a post here t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:56 PM
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Yeah, you are taking this farther than I expected. I simply asked a question and got answers. I heard the claim, thought it was hyperbolic. Got answers and it confirmed that for me. The women here either claimed that they don’t necessarily find them unattractive more so neutral or they are not paying attention enough to care whether or not they are attractive. So the claim was a bit hyperbolic since the 90% in their opinion are not necessarily unattractive, it’s just that only 10% are attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 09:59 PM
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You might want to look at the results again and see who voted for Trump. He used fake outrage and also his campaign manipulated and in some cases bribed people into voting for him. All this while democrats were completely unorganized during the 2024 election. Mentoring spaces for young boys and men are still male spaces. Just because it’s not online and on Reddit doesn’t mean it’s not. Men talking about their issues with women is somewhat common in male spaces. Women do this with men as well, me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:36 PM
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So are all male spaces red pill and dating subreddits? I’ve been in mentorship programs for years and they will criticize the actions of men throughout the world. Hell, black male spaces would also bring up the traumatic experiences black women go through and criticize the men who’ve harmed these women. They’ll also criticize the actions of white men committing absolute heinous crimes under white supremacy. How many times do you see men speak out and condemn incels and the red pill itself. The m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:18 PM
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If you believe that men don’t criticize each other in their own space, you’ve never been in male spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:46 PM
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It’s great that the men in your self-admitted small circle are well groomed Woah there cowgirl. You best put that gun down before someone gets hurt. Also I’m not trying to dismiss your experience, I just think the claim is a little hyperbolic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:20 AM
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At least they care about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:09 AM
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The 90/10 or 80/20 rule doesn’t mean the 90% have no shot and they should just give up. It means that the 90% of men will have to work a lot harder to attract women compared to the other 10%. I never gave this too much thought until I heard women here say they find 90% of men to be attractive. It’s damning to me because just because I find someone to be attractive, doesn’t mean I want to pursue a relationship with them. The women here are basing their definition of attraction based on how likely…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:08 AM
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So there is a 90/10 rule but based on women individually 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:56 AM
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I don’t think we’re also trying to date every woman we find attractive. Why can’t we also appreciate their beauty?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:25 AM
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Yeah, we definitely have different perspectives on attraction. And I don’t think guys walk around with a mental notepad on all the girls we find attractive. It usually just takes 2 seconds to determine that. Just look, she looks good, and go about the rest of your day. And sometimes when you’re with a shorty, she might even point out girls she find attractive too. I find your perspective to be unique and I appreciate your insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:05 AM
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Thank you for responding. Yeah this is the point I made at the end of my post. I see regular dudes in relationships all the time too. Also, I don’t think the 80/20 rule means that the 80% won’t ever be in relationships. It means they have to work way harder than the 20% to find a woman who finds them attractive. So if women are claiming that they find the vast majority of men unattractive, is it a real thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:54 AM
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Ma’am, I just want to know what part of Ohio y’all are from where you are seeing these dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:47 AM
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I’m just as confused as you are, that’s why I asked the question. My post was a response to another post that was made on this sub where women were claiming 90% of men are unattractive. So I was asking if y’all find 90% of men unattractive, then was the red pill right about the 80/20 rule? After reading the comments here I have 2 conclusions. Attraction means different things to different people and the narrative that 90% of men are unattractive and men don’t work on their appearance/hygiene is …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:38 AM
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I think you are misconstruing my argument. My point is not specifically that 90% of men are unattractive and the 90/10 rule is true. It’s the reasoning, and the claim that men don’t work on their appearance and have bad hygiene. My point is that this is not the case where I’m from and my post was to challenge that narrative and get a little insight from our fellow female PPDers. Based on what the women said in this post, attraction works differently for them and they don’t put too much stake on …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:29 AM
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I don’t think they are treating metaphor like scientific law. Sure some may take it seriously, but I never thought that the 80-20 rule meant that 80% of guys will never be with a woman. My argument was mainly the reasoning why women would find those 90% men unattractive and claim they don’t work on their appearance. This is what I don’t see, at least on my end.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:14 AM
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Interesting take. I don’t know if I would claim 99% of women are unattractive even if I was married to the woman of my dreams. Sure I wouldn’t pursue them, but to call them unattractive would be another thing. It’s possible we might have a different perspective when it comes to attraction. Thanks again for your insight on this, I appreciate your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:44 AM
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Thanks for your comment. They got a word for your type. Medium ugly. Also, you make a great point. I understand women are not the same. But why the narrative that men overall don’t work on their appearance? Where do you think it comes from?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:38 AM
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Thanks for your comment. I mean, isn’t that what we do with the English language? Creating metaphors and sayings using phrases that already exist elsewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:33 AM
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Thank you for commenting. Like I said in my post, most of my guy friends experience attraction from women. I have women compliment me and call me attractive from time to time. I had experience in the dating game, even had a little stalker situation at one point. So the confusion comes from the women who come here online who claim every dude is a land version of Patrick Star from SpongeBob. I’m not knocking y’all for having standards, but seriously where do some of y’all live?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:30 AM
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I appreciate your insight on this, and you made a good point. I guess we take this theory too literal since every woman would have her own type regardless. Thanks again for commenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:25 AM
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I appreciate your comment. I wouldn’t call it a rule, more of a theory from red pill/black pill folks. I didn’t take it serious until I saw women online claiming 90% of men are unattractive. I understand it’s just online but it’s still a weird thing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:19 AM
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Hello sir, and thank you for your insight. How would you explain the women who come to this sub and claim 90% of the men they see are unattractive? I understand that this only from the women of this sub, but how are so many of them coming to that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:58 AM
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How has it decreased the social pressures on men when less men are dating and in relationships compared to past generations?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:34 PM
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You worry more about women than you do the economy. I don’t know where you’re from, but where I’m from people work to pay their damn bills and support their lifestyle. And last time I checked, the standard of “providership” went up since the cost of living is up. To be a sole provider of a household in the way most women want it you’d have to make over 300k. Most people in the US don’t make that much. So is it providership or inflation?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:51 PM
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Oh the horror! I worked my ass off to get a job so I can be independent and one day provide for a family and now all of a sudden that “doesn’t matter” anymore. What ever will we do? Please, this is one of the greatest times in history for men to be single while making lots of dough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:34 PM
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How she gonna gaslight you on the definition of gaslighting 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 09:32 PM
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After reading some of these comments, if you’re a single man making good money and doing good on your own, you are winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:57 PM
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It’s more about being attractive than it is about being nice. You can be kindest fellow in the world, but if there’s nothing attractive about you will still fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:03 AM
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Same reason why some guys date girls who are like that too. Make no mistake, I like hoes too, but monogamy isn’t a win condition for promiscuous people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 09:53 PM
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Do you think there are more male virgins or sexual promiscuous women? Also, do you really think most men would reject most women with a promiscuous past?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 09:06 PM
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Most women don’t want an overly promiscuous man. It’s nothing wrong with having sex with other men, but having long rosters, a bunch of crazy exes and baby daddies while also being a serial cheater is not attractive to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 08:53 PM
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Some do though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 08:41 PM
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To most women, if the gender is male, you’re a loser no matter what you do. Of course, I don’t necessarily agree with relationships with massive age gaps if it’s solely transactional. At that point, you might as well pay a professional. But the reality is once you turn 18-19 and start going to college, work and clubs, you will start rubbing elbows with people who are older. I’m sure a lot of y’all know how relationships start, and you would know that proximity is a major factor. So the idea that…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:35 PM
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I agree with that, even seeing how easily my gay friends would find sexual partners I always know that the grass isn’t always greener and you should always be appreciative of your position in life because to me life in general is a privilege. Also this is one of the best times in history for both sexes to be single, so even if women don’t like you right now, falling back and taking breaks from dating has never been easier with the amount of entertainment and things to do in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:23 PM
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I’m not saying straight men would like it, but I think the dynamics around body counts and sex would probably change since more men would have higher amounts of sexual partners and the culture around casual sex and open relationships would probably be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:37 PM
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The male sex drive is too strong to do a 4B like movement. Only women can achieve such malarkey. Women could put men through hell and men will come back for seconds just for a chance to get crumbs of coochie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:49 PM
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The benchwarmer is being paid millions of dollars to stay healthy, sit on the bench and play Mickey Mouse minutes without having to interact with media.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:18 PM
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It’s the same reason why the chef at a 5 star restaurant would be a better cook than your husband/wife. When the thing you do is how you pay your bills, you put more effort into it. Sex workers put effort into their body and fitness so that they look sexually appealing and can do what they need to in the bedroom. Sex workers are also better at giving head, riding and all of the other positions guys like. I’m pretty sure the same goes for a male sex worker as well. Sex workers also don’t require …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 11:06 PM
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Sex workers are better at sex than most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 10:32 PM
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Yes, it is. And it’s not talked about as often.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:08 AM
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Because the male libido is stronger. A man can do every chore in the house with multiple jobs and still want sex at the end of the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 04:23 PM
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So graphic design, digital music making and engineering, content creation, programming, and writing using computers are unappealing hobbies? I understand you’re into more outdoor hobbies but we’re in 2025 not 1965. Technology is a part of our lives and it has expanded what people enjoy in the present. It’s okay to have your preferences but I don’t think it’s fair to look down on what other people enjoy just because you don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 05:36 PM
1

So you are convinced that people who play video games and watch anime only do that? And you didn’t even mention doom scrolling in your last comment so why would I even address it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 06:58 AM
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Why not? The average gamer is 35+ and anime has existed since forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:41 PM
1

This is a generalization because I’ll also just leave. Being alone is better than being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:21 PM
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And this is why men won’t listen to you. Your strategy is to give before even trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:39 AM
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Women here have a tough time admitting that there are women in this world that men want nothing to do with sexually. An unattractive man can become attractive to women. A man you’re not attracted to can be attractive to another woman. A boring man to you can be perfect for another woman. Gay men don’t have anything like this with straight man. Unattractive men = Unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 05:08 PM
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Don’t women also look at the few men who commit crimes and hate them and use that to claim all men are horrible people while ignoring all of the men who help them as well? Why do y’all get to discriminate but we have to be held to a higher standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:50 PM
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And why do you think more women are in relationships? Is it because y’all are so wonderful and can’t do no wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:18 PM
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Aren’t there way more men on the apps in general. I’m pretty sure we have stats to prove this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:04 PM
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And you don’t seem happy about that neither, so where do we go from here?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:08 PM
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But when men say women are terrible it’s a global issue and we need to ban podcast mics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:39 PM
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Most women assume men aren’t facing that same issue so they use it as a crutch in an argument even if it never happened to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:28 PM
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If I learned anything from this sub, it’s that the pink pill people are absolutely insufferable. Probably the worst out of all the flairs. Zaboomafoo wouldn’t be able to make sense of the monkey gymnastics going on in their brains. You’re better off not responding to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:08 AM
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We can say resources and property aren’t rights either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:42 PM
3

You mean a sneaky link? To be honest, if I haven’t met friends or family I probably wouldn’t take her that serious anyway. Just a “thanks for the pussy” and keep it moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:12 PM
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Yall do the same thing to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 01:45 AM
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Another negative to being in a relationship is how guys will dictate your appearance. Every pound of weight gain a guys will take as a personal offence. Every gray hair and wrinkle you accumulate will signal his mid life crisis where suddenly he needs to be dating his secretary half his age. Every sign of post partum will make him more and more pushy to get you in the gym. Of course this is exaggerated but not uncommon, it may represent in more subtle forms. This sounds like projection, most dud…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:24 PM
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Assuming women don’t emotionally manipulate or physically abuse their men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:14 PM
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Little clit energy just doesn’t roll right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:43 PM
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“Males should never be jealous” - Jay Z
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:24 PM
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You can have a large penis and still not be confident, and I don’t think OP was referring penis size to virginity. Also men are the only people that will be insulted by the size of their genitalia. Maybe we should start saying “little titty energy” to even everything up lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:08 PM
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Be careful, some women will claim the last 2 paragraphs you wrote there as misogyny.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/25 11:35 PM
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Women being frustrated with men in their dating pool doesn’t make them a misandrist but men being frustrated with women in their dating pool makes them misogynists? Also, you barely know any of the men who post here, how would you even know if they are struggling with women and if they are actual misogynists?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:38 PM
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Do you think every man with a job was able to procreate back then? Also, don’t you think what you listed was not what women selected from men to begin with. It’s pretty delusional to think women weren’t getting with men they were attracted to in the past. Also if a man wasn’t providing for you financially at all but was doing all of the things you listed, would that be enough for you to be satisfied. Also, a lot of women are still picking for income. The standards of how much you have to make ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:54 PM
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“Men will have to actually start doing some self-work to actually be an enjoyable friend and partner to hang out with” And what do you think were they doing before?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:50 AM
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You gotta be in Idaho or something. Most men in major cities practice hygiene, keep up with their grooming and fashion, and there are more men in the gym than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:28 PM
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Then why do you women get antsy when men want to date younger women. It seems like younger women are more ideal for most men based on what you explained here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:21 PM
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Which is not often true. Women don’t really offer more than what men bring to the table, but men still have more interest in them than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:11 PM
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And men are still more interested
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:07 PM
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Biologically, we are more interested in sex than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:29 PM
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Raisins in potato salad is the most diabolical thing I heard from this sub 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:43 AM
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If I was a woman, my lower sex drive and society’s view on my sexuality would probably make me not want to be sexualized by any stranger. I’ll take the white picket fence and nuclear family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:02 PM
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Masculine presenting lesbians are mad cool to me. I used to hoop with some back in the day and they’re all mad good. They give really good advice about women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:26 PM
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Damn, who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:21 PM
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That’s mainly an assumption you are coming up with based on your perception of friendships. Just because someone doesn’t have many/any female friends doesn’t mean they think lowly of women in general. I wouldn’t judge a woman for not having many/any male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:01 PM
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I interact with people on a day to day basis, I don’t consider all of these people friends. You know that there are levels to human interaction and friendship right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:00 PM
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How do you know that? And what if they aren’t looking for more friendships?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:45 PM
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Why does it matter to you if they have no female friendships?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:31 PM
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Do y’all ever get tired of calling heterosexual men gay for not worshipping the ground you walk on? Maybe just being a woman isn’t enough for men to find you interesting and befriend you. Maybe men just have more things in common with other men. Maybe the current day dynamics and discourse between men and women make it harder for men to find platonic relationships with women. Maybe some guys hobbies are majorly sausage fest’s. “Naw, they’re just gay”. It’s incredibly ignorant and obtuse at this …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:22 PM
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Dating apps work man. Banning dating apps because they don’t work for you is like banning barber shops because your last barbers gave you bad cuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 06:07 PM
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Probably not. If she was raped, the trauma that came from that would probably be enough to fuck up the relationship. If she was really lying, due to the color of my skin and the nature of the justice system, it’ll be best for me to fall back. True lose/lose situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:12 PM
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I think women see some of the women in porn the same way men see the men in romance novels/movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:05 PM
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“Oh but you started it” Extremely mature response leading to nothing but a swerve out of accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:53 PM
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Last paragraph. Don’t threaten me with a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:24 PM
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Not really an issue but a biological reality. The more freedom women get (not saying they don’t deserve it or we’ll be better off without it) the more they can exercise their biological/lack of drive for sex compared to men. Also due to our current economic times combined with the freedom and independence women experience today, men this generation have to work harder than their forefathers to attract the same caliber of women. Social media and online dating also benefitting women’s right to cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:56 PM
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It would be a lot easier for guys to do so if yall didn’t attach all negative personality traits to guys with smaller penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:34 PM
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I say this all the time and women disagree with me. We have a higher biological drive for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:09 PM
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No one is expecting women to do everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:00 PM
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Most men are attracted to 18 year olds? Andrew Tate definitely fried y’all 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:26 AM
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Don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 11:29 PM
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Also, another reason why women are turned off by virgin men is that they haven't had enough practice to become good in the bedroom, and thus won't be able to please them sexually I believe men are more patient with women in the bedroom than the other way around. This won’t be an issue for us because eventually she will get better. Also men are easy as shit to please. She doesn’t have to be a pornstar off the first link.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:02 PM
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Do you think believe women are more willing to date men similar to them in appearance and social status?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:27 AM
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Damn man. I still remember I had a friend who was scared to talk to girls, and one day he had the courage to ask a girl for her number and she straight up stole his phone. It’s a cold world out here 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:17 AM
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I don’t think they can actually tell if a guy is really an incel, I think they just assume based on the tone of their writing. Some of the most misogynistic men I knew had girlfriends and some of the most kindest men I knew were always single. No one can really tell anything about anyone these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:11 AM
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I don’t. I like my women attracted to me with no games played.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:53 PM
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Women in general have a lower biological drive for sex than men, they are going to find less men attractive overall. Also, attraction is completely subjective especially in women’s cases. Not every woman is going to rate the same men as most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:52 PM
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I think it’s fair for someone to want to be with someone who has as much experience as they do or less. I personally don’t care if she’s been with as much guys as I’ve been with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:13 PM
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Then why not use women as an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:39 AM
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lol you’re good man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:19 PM
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I meant women. The comment above yours said that women would body shame men as pay back, yet women would body shame each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:13 PM
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It’s usually unprovoked. Women shame fat women as well. Also, most of the women here aren’t really being consistent since they say they don’t care about penis sizes but would attach negative traits to small penises. My penis is on the bigger side so I don’t give a damn, but I can at least understand how it can affect men who are average or smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:23 PM
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Women on here want to prove that male sexuality is unreasonable and unhealthy so they’ll do every form of mental gymnastics to try and prove it. Issue is, our biology has already determined males have a higher sex drive. Males of damn near every species have a higher sex drive than their female counterparts. A quick google search will even tell that men produce 15-20 times the amount of testosterone than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:59 PM
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God made man stronger than women for a reason. Apocalypse or Metropolis we are built to survive on our own. Issue is most men gave up before realizing their potential. What worked for me and others is that we learned to be independent and live a life not centered around women before chasing them. Your post is the first step, not the last.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:29 PM
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I’m not saying they need a provider, but with the cost of living in current society, a second income to help take care of bills is pretty helpful. Unless women want to work 2/3 jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:53 PM
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If this is an attack, the average man is a war veteran.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:15 AM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:33 AM
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It’s even harder if you’re a dude. This is why players are respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:19 AM
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Same thing that happens to a vampire that finally gets a taste of blood. The male sex drive doesn’t end until the man does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:05 PM
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And yet guys on Reddit complain about girls liking bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:17 AM
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The biggest thugs, criminals and gangsters are some of the most kind and sweetheart gentlemen around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:46 PM
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I think you’re projecting here and you’re not answering my question. Would he be more/less attractive (or no difference) or would it bother you that he didn’t take any interest in dating and he may even lack experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:44 AM
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I’m asking for fellas big man. But she said it wouldn’t bother her. I’m calling cap. I don’t believe in lying to her about it either, but I understand why a lot of men feel the need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:39 AM
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So if you are on a date with a guy and he admits to not having any options due to him not having an interest in dating (by choice), would he be more/less attractive to you, or would it not change what you think about him?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:59 AM
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Sadly, that’s not completely true. A lot of women date men way above their social economic status and no one bats an eye when they do. To some men, they may look at social high economic status from the women they date as a status symbol but I promise you most don’t give a fuck. Social economic status is mainly a standard men have to live under as self sufficiency and provisioning are considered some of the main traits of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:33 AM
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If no options mean no roster of guys she’s talking to/dating, yeah that’ll be attractive to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:43 AM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:40 AM
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Plenty of men also don’t body shame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:57 AM
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They literally call a small penis a shrimp. I don’t think this the hill you wanna die on partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:53 PM
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I would’ve took the red pill too. But I don’t look at women as scraps and I’ve always had a spine and never tolerated disrespect. Also have plenty of women as friends with no romantic interest from either side.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:34 PM
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Oh I know you can’t hoop 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:33 PM
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Sportsball?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:29 PM
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That shit got nothing to do with race. Stop virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:28 PM
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🍪
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:01 AM
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You can play either way. They also have a discord server where you can find folks to play with if you want to make friends. The game is also free to play so no reason not to try it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:59 AM
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Which is my point. You can still meet people to date on other social media platforms not solely meant for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:21 AM
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You’re the one who’s complicating it. Dating apps and websites are pretty much social media platforms solely meant for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:16 AM
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Let me clarify, it doesn’t only mean dating apps. It means on the Internet. Like the one we are using to communicate with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:55 AM
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Stumbled upon the red pill ideology, yes. Stumbled upon this point, no. Here’s the definition of what the word “agree” means just in case you need it: Agree: to have the same opinion about something; concur
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:36 AM
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Online dating doesn’t mean dating apps big man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:25 AM
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When I was dating I wanted a man who I was attracted to Looks treated me well, compatible personality Game had a good career/was getting educated Money/Status This is lowkey what they preach sometimes and the only thing about the red pill I find true when it comes to what most women are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:07 AM
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If making weaker means making them into tricks, yeah I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:59 AM
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Tell you what, we’re never lonely on that Marvel Rivals though, that’s for sure 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:20 PM
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Don’t give a shit honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:12 AM
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Most rejections are because of minor reasons than anything extreme like horrible hygiene. People are more empathetic to the extreme cases than the minor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:10 AM
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Most men do. If you been in men’s restrooms, everyone washes their hands. Some just go in there to wash their hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:08 AM
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Plenty of “fuckboys” are up front with what they want. Some women think the sex will eventually lead to a relationship. Also, there are more women in my social circle than women named LilithOfBabylon on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 08:57 PM
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It’s gaslighting because we are in a dating subreddit talking about dating, and you’re assuming me bringing up the way y’all talk about sex and the men worth dating is us not seeing y’all as people. It’s lunatic. Also, the fuckboys are the main ones just hooking up since that all they want from y’all, but men who mainly want relationship sex are seen as less-than to you. It’s a ludicrous statement, and none of the women I know or dated had this mindset about men. If it’s what you personally beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 08:12 PM
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Can you actually give a damn about us as people? Classic gaslighting technique. Nice try Diddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:50 PM
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Why would I want a guy who just wants a relationship because he can’t get laid any way else? It makes it sound like y’all want the fuckboy when you speak like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:44 PM
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Quick question, would you rather date men who hook up all the time, or men who only have sex with women they are in relationships with? It feels like the red pill gets proven right by you women all the time the way some of y’all talk about sex and what makes a man worth dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:28 PM
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This is true. They didn’t have to give it up immediately, but they expressed that sexual desire. The longer I wait, the more I feel that desire isn’t there and I’m wasting my time with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:05 PM
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Most men find the majority of women their age to be somewhat attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:59 PM
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Man playing on Overwatch 1 level elo, but at least the black girls like you. Had a white friend that used to date nothing but black girls and to me that was dope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:28 PM
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Plenty of women are also disinteresting yet they don’t have a shortage of men interested in dating them. Men struggle because their drive for sex and relationships are higher than women’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:16 AM
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Dating options being limited to community and social circles will probably end the “loneliness epidemic” and put more emphasis on building families and keeping communities going forward. But no condoms and casual sex is no from me dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:40 PM
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I’m sorry to tell you this ma’am, but those men aren’t just “gay for pay”. They are most likely bisexual or somewhere in that spectrum. Straight men want relationships and sex with women so they are pursuing them. Going gay doesn’t solve that. Also, the point was that y’all have more options with heterosexual men (opposite gender). Why not suggest unattractive women to heterosexual men instead of gay men? Does gender bias prevent you from thinking that men can’t have unsatisfactory or orgasmless…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:14 PM
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Why is “just go gay” always an argument y’all make? Are y’all so insecure in yourselves that you think gay men are really that much of competition to y’all? What if we start saying “Go fuck your Dad if you want to get treated like a princess”?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:23 PM
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Depends what you think a loser is. If she’s kind, caring, cool with my friends, attractive and willing to be cooperative then she’s a good enough girlfriend from that aspect. You don’t gotta be a movie star to win my love.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:48 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:40 AM
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Lmao they already are
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:12 PM
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Depends where you are because the women in India and the Middle East would like a word. Also, some can argue that white women were never oppressed and benefited from the same systems of patriarchy and colonialism that activists/feminists claimed pushed white men to the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:37 AM
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People are more aware of manipulation tactics in 2024. You’ll have to try harder than that. Also, IDGAF what your trauma is, I’m not letting the bullshit walk in peace and neither should you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:40 PM
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Still not worst than being eaten, which is not always a quick death.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:23 AM
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Man (human male) is the most dominant creature in nature. Women, other men and even bears will choose the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:03 PM
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Hoeflation is real but you don’t always have to buy when the price is high.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:59 PM
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Download speechify baby girl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:16 PM
0

They also want you to appear on their TikToks 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:32 PM
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Women never had to live up to high standards, they always had it easier in a free dating environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:29 PM
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They were system players with padded stats at college and became busts after being drafted. Happens everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:44 PM
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The Dem’s did nothing to denounce this propaganda and the people who pushed this claimed they were Democrats. Meanwhile anything/one Trump promoted was immediately denounced by those same people. Dem’s cared more about themselves and not getting cancelled then they did telling folks the truth about what they party was all about. Dem’s allowed the loud minority to be their voice in this election. This is their fault. Obama literally came out saying Black men weren’t voting for Kamala because she …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:16 PM
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It’s perspective and tbr most women are never going to see it from your perspective since the “toxic bad boys” are assholes to other men but flirty and charismatic with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:01 AM
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B. Difficult women will lower your lifespan.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:18 PM
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Female sexual selectivity is more distinct and finicky than guys and because of this men have to be more attractive and charismatic to be able to have sex with a lot of women. People respect the attractiveness and charisma, and some hate. It’s a mixed bag. Also, doesn’t help that the opposite is considered lame by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:40 PM
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I’m into eating pussy. However, I prefer if she is shaved down there or at least trimmed, not a fan of licking pubic hair. I also don’t have a problem with me shaving down there too if that means I’m getting my balls sucked. Also, some girls aren’t that hygienic down there. I can understand as a guy if you don’t even want to fuck anymore after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:25 PM
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Yes, because every man wants the same thing and agrees with every man that posts here. Listen to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:53 PM
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True, but in the real world most people don’t have these conversations because people aren’t that confrontational irl. This seems like a response to think pieces we see online of people demonizing male sexuality. I just saw a post on Twitter where a black woman was claiming that men who like Black Brazilian women do because they come from a country where their currency is poor which makes them easy to exploit. Women on here think that male attraction has to do with how easy they can manipulate a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:25 PM
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To be fair, women are still slut shamed. Definitely not as much because it’s now something that is demonized. Also men having a preference against women who do sleep around is not a bad thing, especially if they don’t do that themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:16 PM
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Sex is a bodily function not exclusive to humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:00 PM
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Plenty of women have hobbies. Some could be knitting, painting, cooking, making music or even gaming. However, there are some that do not have hobbies and just watch Netflix and TikTok like you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:56 PM
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Depends what those “masculine” interests are. I only date girls that are gamers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:54 PM
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I understand your point but this is unrealistic. Some men don’t want to settle down or be in a relationship with just one person their entire life and they shouldn’t have to. I agree that sex with one person you’re attracted to is the better and safer route, but for some men it’s not. In a world where people judge men if they: sleep around too much don’t sleep around enough watch pornography pay for prostitutes they need sexual experience to date women but if they have too much it could be creep…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:52 PM
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“Most vulnerable” was a hyperbole on my part, my bad. I understand that there are men that suffer with different circumstances much worst then lack of sex which is really a first world problem when you put it into perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:57 AM
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So we agree on almost everything. Good. Also you said “aim where it hurts”. That’s where I’m basing the vulnerability conversation. You brought it up. You might see their vulnerability as a symptom of their beliefs, but I see their sadness as a vulnerability, so we might have different perspectives of vulnerability in that aspect. And enough with the “man-made sexual hierarchy” bullshit. People are allowed to be sad if they cannot find a partner. Especially in a culture that glorifies and promot…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:11 AM
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You mentioned “aim where it hurts” signaling vulnerability. If women were so against being ridiculed by men for their sexual promiscuity, why do the same for those men? You also mentioned men who were using sex with women as a value system. Wouldn’t these men, not be incels by definition? This would be like hitting someone behind you because the guy in front of you punched you. You’re retaliating against the wrong people and have no weapon/insult against them so you focus your attention on folks…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:53 PM
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So they would rather have a word used as an insult against the most vulnerable men, then peace amongst the two genders. These people aren’t good people and their only weapon is an insult. Pretty weak and pathetic if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:19 PM
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Who decided you were unwanted? Did everyone in your life abandon you? Love doesn’t always require another person, it starts with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:13 PM
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Faith is delusion when you don’t believe in yourself. We (humans) are the dominant species on earth. You might not believe it, but you are enough. Your lack of faith in yourself is preventing you from seeing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:12 PM
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Love is the ultimate form of faith and faith is for all. You can’t expect a woman to love you if you cannot love yourself. You don’t have to do shit for women. Just do it because you love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:30 PM
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Blame society for shaming virgin/sexless men and using “incel” as a base insult to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:17 PM
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Depends what you think a gold digger is? Most women want some kind of investment from their man. I’m sure you do as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 12:09 AM
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Every man pays for it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:36 PM
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Sarcasm is for wimps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:50 AM
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Sluts are cool, unless they are your mother, sister, daughter or girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:13 PM
1

There caveats. Bunch of 6’8” defensive wings with 7 foot wingspans on the court and most of the shots are not wide open. Steph is not missing much at a pickup game with randos.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:57 PM
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Most women got options. They can find a guy who is not “socially off” but still attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:52 AM
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And they get criticized when they don’t. Also they’re going against top tier NBA defenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:09 PM
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Then if we’re at the court and I pass you the ball and you brick an open three, I don’t want to hear how unrealistic it is for you to make every shot 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:35 PM
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This is why we have to start gaslighting these people the same way they trying to gaslight us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:24 PM
3

The plays you see in the NBA sets unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:40 PM
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Most men don’t go into dating with a negative mindset, but it takes enough rejection to get one. Truth is, some guys are lucky and some are just not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:51 AM
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So you met every virgin male?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:44 PM
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Many reasons why a man would remain a virgin or have low experience: Not everyone participates in hook up culture. Never prioritized sex and relationships. Possibly looking for more than just sex. A virgin male could just visit a prostitute, or just find some desperate girl on Craigslist but they obviously want more than just sex. Asexual/Low libido
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:18 PM
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Men and women express their compassion in different ways and for different things. Women nor men are compassionate than the other. Also, gender bias causes women to be more compassionate to other women more so than men. Gender bias also causes women to make idiotic sexual standards for men without knowing much about the male reproductive system. Women are able to get away with this because we (men) allow them to. Women do not have this same leeway with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:09 PM
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If you think women’s expectations and standards don’t rise tremendously after high school you’re in for a cold winter. I hope in the future you’re either stacking or become so handsome the women just flock to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:12 AM
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This may be true for some. But not every girl is gonna flock to the same guy every other girl wants. Also, if this is what you’re worried about, it only gets worse when you’re out of high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:00 PM
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This is a lie. And to be honest, high school is the easiest time to date for boys. The expectations are low, the women your age are in your proximity and there is a common interest and goal. If you can’t get girls in high school it doesn’t get easier anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:31 PM
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You can literally make the same argument about people. Human beings are part of the animal kingdom like everything else. Our superiority over other creatures doesn’t change that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:13 PM
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Explain domesticated animals like cats and dogs then. How is a creature that in its natural state is driven solely by their instincts but are able to be trained and nurtured to be domesticated?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:20 PM
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Most anti porn rhetoric is already debunked and we’re most likely moving past this as a society. Sexual content has existed since the dawn of man, the idea that sexual content makes men more violent and more likely to sexually abuse women comes from the same bullshit that tried to preach video games makes people more violent. Most men who watch porn are usually into the same shit they’ve always been into. Also vintage stuff is starting to rise in popularity with modern AI upscaling. Also pornogr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:09 AM
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Wouldn’t this just be the result of being the physically weaker gender? There is plenty of evidence of men being beaten and abused by women (with the women most of the time getting away with it). Using your logic, why wouldn’t misandry be unjustifiable? Also men are more likely than women to be other end of a violent assault by another man. Why don’t men feel the same way you feel about men in our society? Why is it now okay to assume it’s a 50/50 chance that any man you encounter can be dangero…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:43 PM
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No offense, this was one of the dumbest things I’ve seen on here so far 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:02 PM
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How is that even related?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:54 PM
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I still remember back in the days when guys used to sag their pants below their waist and you would hear echoes of people all around telling them to pull their pants up. Ahh good times. The idea that you would get the same amount of unwanted attention no matter what outfit you wear is a flat out lie. Women who go out dressed like prostitutes are going to get more attention than they would if they didn’t. That attention can include the unwanted sexual interests from men you don’t like. Doubling d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:56 PM
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You have to work harder to maintain a healthy weight. Boo hoo. Some men lose their hair at an early age. Women don’t care and still go for men with hair. Of course there are exceptions, there are overweight women in relationships with men who find them attractive the same way bald men are able to gain attraction from women. Some men meet their wives and girlfriends in these video games and sports fandoms you hate so much. I know I did. Make sense, I probably wouldn’t want to pursue someone who d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:50 PM
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You are relating basic dieting and exercise as if it’s torture. A lot of men do the same to maintain their health and physical appearance. The majority of standards most men cannot meet are usually social and economic. So no, most men can’t just get away with being nice and clean. You’ll have to put in more work than that to attract women and most men understand this to a degree. Also the women spending thousands of dollars and hours on their attractiveness, where are the thousands of dollars go…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:56 PM
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The bare minimum is a healthy woman regardless. The majority of women aren’t walking around looking AI generated and do the bare minimum to maintain their looks. If you have to spend “thousands of dollars and hours” to maintain a bare minimum beauty standard, I got news for you. Also, are you saying women have lower standards than men do? If so, you’ll be the first woman on here to say that. Having standards is the most natural part of dating, not everyone is going to attract everyone. Just beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:04 PM
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Yet these women don’t listen to those men and still date based on their own standards. Same way the men won’t listen to you and still chase women they find beautiful. Men most definitely accept the bare minimum from women. Y’all have much higher standards than we do. Some of those standards can be social economic, physical and based on personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:31 PM
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If a man showed up to a date looking like a total slob, you wouldn’t think twice about leaving him behind or at least not offering him a second date. Women care about looks too. Also, men will always chase beautiful women by default (at least I know I will). It’s how we are designed. Beauty is inspiring. Sure a few men are not as visual as the rest but the exception doesn’t make the rule. The women I dated in my life I considered them beautiful, and the effort they put into themselves almost mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:26 PM
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Get me food. No flowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:46 AM
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Yeah, you must be new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:08 PM
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People are most definitely demonizing male sexuality 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:08 PM
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I’ve dated women in their 30s. Don’t have an issue on my end as long as we’re somewhat compatible. I think the misconception comes from the stereotype that most women in their 30’s have kids, let themselves go or are extremely jaded by past relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:42 AM
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We like to call this phenomenon “Dirty Macking”. And ironically it’s an extremely popular thing. Ala Hasan Piker.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:53 AM
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I was responding to the description of the men you think would be struggling. Didn’t say it was impossible for them to struggle, but I’ve seen men who matched those descriptions in relationships with women. From my experience, the men who really struggle just don’t go out, date or ask out women enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:32 PM
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I don’t know what you see in your day to day. But a lot of average men are in relationships. I’m in Miami, apparently “the hardest place in the world to pull women” and average and even some unattractive men are In relationships. A lot of men don’t try and are discouraged by rejection. Not saying it’s easy. But I’m saying it’s dependent on how much you’re willing to deal with women and rejection, where you’ll find success. Also, this is a debate sub. People are here to discuss a topic, which is …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:05 PM
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Doing well doesn’t mean the odds are always in your favor. It means you are able to date and get into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:35 PM
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It’s a numbers game. Men are going to get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:47 PM
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Ironically, I’ve seen men with all these traits do good with women. It’s about how much you’re willing to deal with women in the dating process to be honest. Most men don’t want to get rejected all the time so they don’t even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:29 PM
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Over romanticize is a hyperbole especially in this generation. Over sexualize is funny knowing we have a higher sex drive and y’all still do the same. I’ve been around enough groups of women to know that y’all sexualize men damned near just as much as men do to women. Also we’re not in the Middle East and we’re not living in ancient times anymore. Constantly beating people on the head over the sins of the past helps no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:20 PM
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Ma’am didn’t I just say women get friend zoned too? Also having romantic interest for someone is not seeing them as an object. There’s a reason why people see folks who have romantic interest for objects as weirdos. It is normal for HUMAN BEINGS to have romantic interest for other HUMAN BEINGS.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:45 PM
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The friend-zone only happens when one person wants a relationship while the other person only wants friendship. Women can also be friend-zoned. Also, thinking I get angry after being rejected romantic interest is a stereotype as well. I don’t stay friends with women I have romantic interest with if it’s not reciprocated. It’s not healthy for both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:15 PM
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Y’all don’t even do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:04 PM
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Agreeing big dawg
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:01 PM
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Women have the lower sex drive. It would be like having an endless supply of meat while being vegan.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:49 PM
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Most guys would rather be single than be in a relationship with no sex. They are becoming ok with no relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:58 PM
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On a physical sense I would agree, unless we’re talking about Kitana from Mortal Kombat or the UFC Women’s Champion. But there are more ways to intimidate someone than just physically. Some women can hold positions of power than can dictate outcomes of your life: Judge, Boss, Wife, President/Queen, Gang leader. Those women can most definitely be intimating. When it comes to dating, I think men just don’t like the idea of dating these women as they tend to be assholes and less likely to commit th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:23 PM
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Lilly, what do you call a heterosexual male that has never had physical contact with a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:34 PM
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So shaming him for being a piece of shit by calling him a virgin is not shaming virginity? Associating virginity with misogyny does demonize virginity. Also I’m not a virgin so I don’t really care if virgins are shamed for being virgins. Just providing proof that it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:18 PM
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Here’s the link like you asked https://x.com/richn0duh/status/1470086856012443649?s=46&t=TGI0FL3Pskj6rFAY5iRvQQ
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:00 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:58 PM
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“Never felt the touch of a woman” is a go-to response from women when responding to misogynist rhetoric. Relating virginity to misogyny is definitely an example of demonizing virginity. Also you wanted proof? Here’s an example: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:29 PM
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“Never felt the touch of a woman” is most definitely mocking someone for being a virgin. So yes, women do mock men for being/appearing as virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:01 PM
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It’s time to lay off the TikTok and touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:17 PM
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Good thing you’ll never be in a position to criminalize it softy. More people love boxing than share your take.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:11 PM
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Another ignorant take. Consenting to murder is literally suicide, there’s no way you can make that comparison. Am I also consenting to murder by becoming a professional fighter?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:08 PM
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Pretty ignorant take ngl. Consent is a big thing with the BDSM folks. I know it looks like people are actually being kidnapped and placed in dungeons to be tortured but I promise you they are 100% consenting. Men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:20 AM
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The women are choosing the sex-free, the men are choosing the FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:14 AM
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Definitely, but many men were part of the 20% at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:10 AM
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Get a haircut and rock a fly outfit and you’re good. Leave the makeup and nail painting for the bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:59 AM
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Your porn sense is gonna overload next time you visit Texas. Be careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:49 PM
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Man at singles event: “I WILL COMMIT ABSOLUTELY AND FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE TO THE FIRST WOMAN WHO WILL HAVE ME!!” Next scene with the same man in the back of a cop car Cop: “You ever tried Tinder?”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:33 PM
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Superficial traits get you more likes on IG and more respect from your friends and family sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:25 PM
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And some pretty girls are prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:36 AM
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Monitoring internet use is a good (not perfect) solution. If all parents did the same it would be the perfect solution but we all know that some parents DGAF enough about their own kids to do that. I think your kids should be fine since you two are actively involved in preventing them from that content in your own household. Proper sexual education can be useful as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:35 AM
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A trip to Instagram will tell you that men are definitely into prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:21 AM
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Heard Henry Cavill has a pretty active Reddit account
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:14 AM
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What if it’s used as a coping mechanism during the catastrophe? Heard masturbation promotes good sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:10 AM
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I wouldn’t say they do it more, since I am not in the body of most women, but women get away with it a lot more. Most statistics on sexual assault would be more accurate if men actually reported sexual crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:59 AM
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So your solution to an issue is to start and even bigger one 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:56 AM
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I agree, that porn websites (also social media websites that allow pornographic content) should only allow porn to viewed after proper age verification. However, this done in perfection still doesn’t stop boys from seeking out similar content. Most boys from my Dads age had their first experience with “porn” from lingerie magazines and sexual scenes from movies. I generally think most men are visual by nature so this is a given in my opinion. Do you not think the visual/performative aspect of se…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:55 AM
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The way you said sounded like something you delt with IRL. Never said you were wrong. But now I think you’re wrong about men being entitled assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:07 AM
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What do we do as a society to ensure that every male’s first sexual experience is with a human being instead of pornographic content?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:02 AM
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Not an IMAX theater in sight that can match this level of projection 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:58 PM
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Two things can be true. And some women are also “pornsick”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:47 PM
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Reasons why beauty standards aren’t really an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:37 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:23 PM
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Men in general have the higher sex drive so of course more gay men find men sexually attractive than heterosexual/bisexual women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:05 AM
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Disadvantaged yes, but depends how wild the past was or if she was able to hide most of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:32 PM
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May
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:07 PM
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You gotta speak for yourself Lisa, most women I know don’t like broke men. Hence dating men in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:48 PM
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Aight you got it lol. You clearly don’t understand what I’m trying to tell you. So I’ll end it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:46 AM
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Which is my point. (Minus superior)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:47 PM
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Not offended but flattered. At least as long as the woman can take rejection because that’s a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:55 PM
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And men who are masculine are bound to get security following them in stores, called a pedo when playing with children and seen as more dangerous to be around than a bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:46 PM
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On a physical level, maybe. But when it comes to persuasion, nurturing or just being seen as more trustworthy, it’s much better to be feminine. On a social level, femininity is superior to masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:50 PM
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I think the current economic hardships caused dating to be what it is now but social media propaganda is definitely adding salt to the wound.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:10 PM
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The bar is definitely not the floor for most women. But for some, it may be lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:01 PM
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Making the rich richer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:52 AM
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Damn she got cooked 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:57 PM
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I don’t know if it counts as superficial, but I rejected a woman who tried asking me out to a date on the road. Personally I don’t mind it, but she had multiple kids in the car with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:52 PM
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Most people are insecure in their own attractiveness. Saying someone is mid would cause them to compare themselves to the person you are calling mid. I think the best response to add “to me” at the end when stating your opinion. Saying “Scarlet is beautiful but not my type” is just someone trying to sound nice while stating their opinion. Either one is okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:54 PM
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I feel like dating/mating is one of the main things where women have leverage over us. Coming on here and crying about how women will one day regret not picking you is like a woman training everyday for 10 years straight to one day beat LeBron James in 1v1 basketball. It’s never gonna happen. Either drop off and focus on other areas of your life or continue the rat race with everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:40 PM
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Screams louder
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:12 PM
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Intimidating isn’t the right word. They just think you’re probably bougie and classist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:03 AM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:20 PM
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Porn brain
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:13 PM
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I got a high metabolic rate, no sign of any terminal disease and a big dick. You damn right I care if my genes are passed down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:09 PM
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Looks better than me/Makes more money than me Does what I want without wanting anything back. Hard carries every conversation/Entertains me. This is what y’all really mean 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:52 PM
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Boys need to be occupied with things to do besides just video games. Boys need to be in tribe type groups where they are held accountable, they can build their competitive nature and can be mentored by older gents to keep them on the right path. Boys also need to be in more social environments to learn social skills so they don’t grow up to be asocial. Also recommend boys getting jobs as early as possible to learn the value of money while also building their resume and giving them the desire to …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:24 AM
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You must’ve never been to a Knicks game 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:14 AM
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🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:59 AM
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Save some bitches for the rest of us playboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:57 AM
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Never said men love all women equally. I said most men find most women to be physically attractive. How physically attractive they find them to be can vary. I even backtracked and said most men find most women in their age range to be attractive. None of what you’re saying is disproving that. I also added that example to include that most men can still find women who would be considered obese to be attractive. And like you said earlier, most women are not obese. So removing age, obesity and sick…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:01 PM
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I’m not sure if I believe those women who are morbidly obese make up the majority of that percentage. I know someone who’d literally be considered “thick” with the full hourglass shaped body type but according to BMI she’d be considered obese for her size. I don’t think the CDC would consider someone obese based on what they look like. They are more than likely referring to BMI’s standards of obesity. Also, I see what you mean when you also include age, but most men will date around their age an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:13 AM
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Overweight meaning slightly overweight and chubby or fully morbidly obese? Also, there are men who like women who are on the heavier side. Not every guy wants a skinny mini.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:52 PM
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🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:44 AM
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If I was a woman, I’d also take the bear, but not because of anything you said. When shit hits the fan, I’ll feel a lot better about eating a bear over another human.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:37 PM
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Same. I’m an introvert but still have no problem socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:28 PM
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Pretty easy for us as well
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:17 PM
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Are you victim blaming men for being abused?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:46 PM
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Let me introduce you to my cousin 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:44 PM
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You will never say that to a Shaolin monks face 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:51 AM
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I got no issue with this statement because I believe you. My only issue has to do with y’all saying this but then claiming y’all have the same sex drive as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:52 AM
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This is the best answer
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:18 PM
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They definitely do deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:59 PM
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PPD been giving me flack for calling people idiots on here but this post is most definitely idiotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:18 PM
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That’s a lie and you know it. You appreciate fellow humans but called men pedophiles for liking certain features in women. Stay off the drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:49 PM
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You look stupid, you sound stupid and God looking down at you in disgust. Respectfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:09 PM
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I promise you it’s not that deep. Some women don’t like uncut penises, the comparison would be similar to that. Women think if a man doesn’t like a certain feature they have, it’s related to pedophilia. The CTE is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:46 PM
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I rather stay single my whole life than settle for someone I’m not attracted to. It’s best for and the woman I would settling for. No easy way out when it comes to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:27 PM
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We live in the most antisocial generation ever and a lot of the women on TikTok suffer from some form of social anxiety that’s undiagnosed, so they naturally chicken out and get anxious when people approach. Reality is that these women are a minority and most people don’t mind being approached by someone with good intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:40 AM
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You can be a master samurai with all that deflection you’re doing. It’s not that I didn’t like your analogy, it doesn’t make sense considering how often men get ED compared to getting in a coma due to a car accident. Also I’m not advocating for all women to prefer men with ED, I just stated that it’s a common thing that can literally happen to any guy (including the one you’re with if you’re not single). This is why I stated bacterial vaginosis and yeast infections in women as a similar comparis…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:30 PM
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And your analogy was so bad, that you had to comment again to explain it. A man not wanting to start a relationship with a woman who had bacterial vaginosis or yeast infections would’ve been a better analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:37 PM
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I heard Chad Ochocinco used to play while on viagra.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:06 PM
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How common is someone who’s experienced ED compared to someone who got into an accident and is now in a coma? Also, this ain’t the 1950s, we have 20+ solutions for ED. How many solutions do we have to get people out of comas quickly and safely?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:04 PM
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Wait until you find out ED can literally happen to any guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:41 PM
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I believe most men understand this. It’s the women who say “dad bods are hot” who are speaking a different narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:42 AM
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Step 1: Be hot. Step2: Hire a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:53 AM
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I feel if you’re in your 30s and you got your shit together and you look good, you’ll have more success with more groups of women in general. Also, I think women are judgmental about lack of sexual/relationship experience in men regardless of their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:19 PM
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Step 1: Be hot Step 2: Hire a prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:24 PM
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You are tripping. I still remember the days when my 5th grade teacher would let us bring our PS2s and GameCubes to school and we’d be playing Soul Caliber, Mortal Kombat, Tekken, Marvel Vs Capcom, Mario Party, Smash Melee, Dragon Ball Tenkaichi and Def Jam for the whole day. Kids can still enjoy their favorite video games with each other. We need to allow kids to have friends and visit them often instead of keeping them home all of the time. Would be nice if they’d pick up a ball to hoop as well…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:33 AM
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Smells like straight bitch to me, respectfully. There’s never been a time in history where men weren’t willing to compete and die for what they want. High status men will win, but it doesn’t mean you can’t. If you’re not the guy you want to be then that’s the first issue. Confidence is what allows men to compete in the same game high status men play and still come on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:45 AM
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Truly what it is. Too many men worshipping the ground women walk on instead of seeing themselves just as worthy of love and affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:46 AM
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Like I said, who are these men and where are they from? If your only evidence is online then I believe you don’t know enough men to make these kinds of statements. Some men will experience unfulfilling friendships and some will not. Doesn’t make the idea of male friendships bad or unfulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:08 PM
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Extinction. The male sex drive is crucial.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:52 PM
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Who are these men and where do they come from? And is it impossible for women to have unfulfilling friendships with other women? Also, I’m a guy and most of my male friendships are great. The ones that aren’t I don’t engage with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:20 PM
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It’s time to get out of the echo chambers. Your gender doesn’t determine how good a friendship is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:10 PM
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The male friendship conversation is super anecdotal. My male friendships were, and still are, really great, but the ones that aren’t I just cut them off. Same can be said about female friendships. I’ve been around women who’ve been in terrible friendships with other women and also great ones. Your gender doesn’t make you a bad friend/good friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:03 PM
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I wholeheartedly agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:08 PM
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Why would a girl who likes McDonald’s not date a guy that works at McDonalds?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:37 PM
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Dating apps are iffy. I think it depends on what you use. Tinder didn’t work for me but Bumble, Meet Me and Tagged was fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:37 AM
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The called themselves “incels” because they weren’t having sex, not because they hate women. Them hating women was a result of them not having sex and blaming women instead of themselves. Also, no one with a life outside of the internet calls anyone an “incel” or any of the terms they use.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:19 AM
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