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That behavior being insecure is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:36 PM
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IMO, we should be pushing for women to stop those behaviors. Everyone should come as they are and stop the fake advertising.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:15 AM
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She didn't misinterpret it, she is arguing in bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:34 PM
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Great insight here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:27 AM
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I feel like the point you're trying to make is the physicality of men will become trivial, so men will be less needed, but I'm not sure. Mind expanding on your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:24 AM
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The simplest answer is usually the correct one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:37 AM
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Saying men aren't a monolith while actively trying to discuss men as a generalization is intellectually dishonest. Are you trying to have a discussion or do you believe everyone is a snowflake and are wasting everyone's time with the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:32 AM
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You're right. The OKCupid study did show men targeted the top women. I stand corrected. It is always a pain finding that study again, so for anyone in the future: https://gwern.net/doc/psychology/okcupid/yourlooksandyourinbox.html?hl=en-US
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:43 PM
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u/certain-pattern-8802 said he disagrees. I also disagree. Where is your proof overweight men don't go after overweight women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:09 PM
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There is a difference between existing and being statistically relevant. Nobody makes population level determinations based on a singular data point. Except you, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:01 PM
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Trying to pivot the conversation to whether the red pill offers mental health advice now? Anything to draw attention away from your inability to engage with the original point of blue pill grifting. Continued bad faith, as expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:37 PM
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The same thing happens from the blue pill side. It's a problem for any amorphous movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:57 AM
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Comparing physical health advice to mental health advice. How expectedly bad faith of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:44 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:57 AM
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This isn't school. If you want to teach, nobody is stopping you though. I don't see many people holding hands on this subreddit, so you're in the minority on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:39 AM
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No, it doesn't mean they aren't correct, it just means they aren't able to actually get to the part where they prove their correct. It ends up being a waste of other people's time. If your definition of a lay person is a high school education, even high school English teaches you the basics of supporting your opinion with sufficient analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:37 AM
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Certain spaces aren't for people who can't articulate themselves properly. This has been the way of the world and will continue to be so. Just because there is no gate and these people can participate does not give their words the same weight as those that are better suited for debate. What you're doing is advocating for a participation trophy. It's hard enough getting intent across in the short format of reddit. It doesn't need to be made harder trying to decipher the words of people who should…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:28 AM
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You were doing great until you started advocating for people who don't know how to debate to engage in debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:23 AM
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Raw data from a reputable source, peer reviewed journals, meta-analyses, white papers, academic textbooks, encyclopedias, government reports, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:29 PM
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If the hourglass shape is unattainable, by default, my point that you're trying to use a medium often used for embellishment that shouldn't be used as a reflection of reality is confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:28 PM
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If you're healthy, anyone can have a crazy physique if you try hard enough. I don't think we need to get into the statistics of how many actually get there; which reflects actual desire. The point is that your analogy doesn't work because you're comparing a medium regularly used for fantasy that is disconnected from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:08 PM
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People make drawings that can reflect reality or be a caricature. This is completely disconnected from the range of people they are willing to date. Men draw super heroes with crazy physiques. Using your logic, they think the majority of men should be superheroes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:53 PM
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I personally think we should be pushing for women to be more authentic without makeup, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:49 PM
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You would think you don't need to point this stuff out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:47 PM
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Some things you can prove. Some things you can't. That doesn't justify using reddit as a source, that's for certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:39 PM
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So referencing worse data than anecdotal evidence is supposed to be a good idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:51 PM
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I regularly see people on here referencing other reddit posts as proof for their opinion. Especially if it's one of those top 1% posters. It's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:47 PM
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You can say you like vegetables but if you never eat them, it doesn't matter. Actions speak louder than words. If you are never exposing yourself to introverts, you are not attracted to introverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:08 AM
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Isn't a generalization a personal opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:03 AM
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She tried hard with that whataboutism and strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:01 AM
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Still supporting the OPs position. Women want men to approach so they don't have to. Inherently selects against introverts. They are attracted to men who approach. Introverted women don't have the same level of problem as their male counterparts because men aren't selecting for that behavior. Their attraction is not dependent on women approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:54 AM
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It’s not that they’re more attractive because of those traits, Anything that attracts is attractive...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:47 AM
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And my comment addressed that. Companies can and do already do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:53 AM
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Also, what game are we playing where an analogy needs to be a 1:1 comparison in every regard. People always think they have a gotcha when your analogy differs by the smallest amount. As if that isn't innate to analogies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:52 AM
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Maybe I'm misunderstanding. What did you mean by... Most companies won’t spend money to not do something, that would be rather unprofitable What money is being spent to not do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:48 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:46 AM
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The practice of having job postings open without the intention of hiring is well documented.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:25 AM
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A strategy not working doesn't mean it isn't being implemented. Are you saying this sub doesn't have white knights because people with balanced opinions exist? It goes the other way too. Some people have balanced opinions that are pro men but get labeled red pill on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:05 PM
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This. They will never admit it though. It's the same reason slaves used to betray their own. Trying to appeal to their owners for preferential treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:03 PM
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I agree with everything you said. I'm just here because I like debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:06 PM
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Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:59 PM
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I didn't say they supported everything women care about. I said they were optimizing for the majority of women. Women say they support LGBT just like they say they support women's athletics. Look at actual support and ticket sales though. Look at actual support and LGBT rights constantly under attack with women as the largest voting block. There is a reason a fisherman doesn't ask a fish how to catch fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:07 PM
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I think you may have responded to the wrong person
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:58 AM
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The men in red pill are optimizing for the majority of women. If you want to call the majority of women toxic, so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:53 AM
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I get it, there are bad actors everywhere. Saying there is the existence of bad actors isn't a counter for not doing something. Further, this is a discussion of whether it is coercion or not. The fact still remains, these are adults making the decision to move to a foreign country for a relationship. People make this decision WITHOUT government programs RIGHT NOW. There is no force and there is no threat for them to enter into the relationship or for them to leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:42 PM
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A relationship isn't just about sex Someone willingly coming to a country who has the ability to leave whenever they want is not human trafficking. You really want it to be for some reason though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:07 PM
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No, only the men who are in favor of arguments like OP's. And it isn't solely about immigrants either; those men tend to view all women as objects. But they view immigrant women (whether accurately or not) as easier targets, especially when the women at home aren't tolerating their abuse. Baseless Ad hominem Would there be legal ramifications such as (but not limited to) deportation if the woman wanted to leave the "relationship?" Would the woman have freely chosen to be with that man in the fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:19 PM
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Do you believe intelligent people can't possibly be coerced? Not even when there's literal government pressure for them to prostitute themselves in order to move to a better place than where they currently are? A government offering an opportunity is not coercion. Coercion is based on force or threat. Explain how the government would be forcing or threatening anyone. Not when said "pArTnEr" is treating a person like an object with the government's approval (and enforcement.) Begging the question…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:49 PM
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The simple fact you're saying it is coercion means you're the one saying it. OP didn't mention coercion, you did. ...they aren't offered proper opportunities; Isn't finding a partner and moving from 3rd world to 1st an opportunity?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:26 PM
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You're implying either these women don't deserve their own agency or don't have the mental capacity to make educated decisions about their life. Don't know which one is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:16 PM
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I'm no guru and I've been locked down and out of the game too long for my strategy to be relevant today. That being said, in college, the name of the game was house parties. Even if you barely knew anybody there, women lower their guard more because it's implied you are safer by virtue of being invited. People are already there to have a good time and be looser. I imagine this can still be achieved with local hobby groups. I only know what I actually lived though. Edit: I will also add, I applie…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:24 PM
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You're right about that being the reality of a lot of women. That doesn't mean you have to play that game. Any woman who thought I was a second option was instantly relegated to non-serious relationship status. If that is all you care about, your strategy works great. I look for something more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:17 PM
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Waiting for someone to settle for you isn't the way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:12 PM
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Good insight. Hadn't thought of it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:28 PM
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Apparently, if u/aikendrumstick isn't experiencing something, it doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:11 AM
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Finally, someone keeps it real.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:08 AM
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I'm getting your point, I'm just trying to convince you there is a better way to look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:25 PM
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You can acknowledge someone is past their prime without thinking less of them. Think of any hero or celebrity. Would you consider them lesser just because they can't do what they once did in their prime? Or do you acknowledge that everyone degrades, including yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:31 PM
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This is actually pretty zen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:14 PM
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People like to reduce men to just lusting after young women. The reality is, once you are in a relationship, more factors are taken into account than looks. Will young people always be more attractive physically? Of course. However, just like your favorite shirt, you won't leave your partner just because she isn't what she once was. This is assuming we aren't talking about weight, which is usually in her control and an indication of other things going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:00 PM
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Not going to answer the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:19 PM
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This is a total non sequitur. ​Saying that men rape women purely because they hate them ignores a huge, basic fact, sexual attraction. Most men are heterosexual. When a predator commits a terrible crime, he targets a woman because that aligns with his sexual orientation, not because he is motivated by an ideological hatred of all women. ​To see why this argument breaks down, look at it like a bank robbery. A bank robber targets a bank because that is where the money is. They don't rob a bank bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:59 AM
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You provided no evidence. If I somehow missed it, please quote it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:54 AM
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Let the record show, I called you out on having an unsubstantiated affirmative argument and you responded with nothing; then tried whataboutism against nebulus reddit claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:47 PM
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The rest of your comment doesn't support your claim. While it's a true statement on its own, it does not support your claim that most rape and murder of women is automatically based on misogyny. You're just making an adjacently related point with no data to connect it to what you're saying. Peaches eventually go bad. Sometimes a worm gets inside and causes it to go bad faster. That doesn't mean you get to say most of the peaches go bad because of worms. You need to show where that is the case wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:47 PM
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Yes it is Low effort response. Just like all of your comments. You never have anything substantial to back it up. Just low effort rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:54 PM
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>Correct. You went from "the vast majority of women are going after the same small percentage of top men" to "dating is not perfectly balanced." I never changed my position. Pointing out that dating apps are heavily unbalanced is just how you describe the structural bottleneck where a small percentage of men get most of the attention. According to the SwipeStats tracking data, the median right-swipe rate for women is under 10%, while the male match rate drops to around 5%. That isn't a retreat; …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:25 PM
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There's the motte and bailey fallacy. A motte-and-bailey means switching to a completely different, safe argument when challenged. I didn't change my position or switch up the argument at all. You claimed that the idea of women going for a small percentage of top men was total bullshit, and I responded by pointing out the mathematical imbalances built into how these apps operate. Providing actual context and reasoning for my original claim isn't a fallacy, it's just backing up my point with fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:43 PM
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No you can't, because the "majority of women going for the same small percentage of top men" is bullshit. You see what you want to see. Saying the digital dating market is totally balanced ignores how apps are built. Real data from dating apps shows huge imbalances. The vast majority of likes from women go to a small percentage of male profiles. Denying that these apps create intense competition and leave a lot of men out ignores the math behind how modern dating works. I love how many red pille…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:18 PM
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Oh my bad, I was talking to her in your defence
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:53 AM
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Where did you get 80% from? The study doesn't mention anyone 34+ either. That is called making things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:35 AM
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People love twisting the word coercion to mean whatever they want in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:06 AM
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You're right, she should have to defend against arbitrary statistics you've made up. What was she thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:05 AM
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All of the above
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:27 PM
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Lying to yourself is never the way. Lying to her isn't the way either. You don't have to be mean about it, but maybe phrase it to being more about her overall health.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/26 07:24 PM
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I hate to break it to you, but 135 is already overweight for 5'3" the writing was on the wall when you met her.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/26 01:07 AM
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Whatever you need to tell yourself I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:14 PM
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Never thought I would see you concede a point. Kudos.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:27 AM
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"I'm just asking questions"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:24 AM
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The female aspect of dating is currently wait for the man to approach
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:17 AM
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The same can be said about the woman who is also refusing to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:30 AM
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She's having a hard time coming to grips she agrees with OP
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:27 AM
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This sounds like you're calling women large, ape-shaped jellyfish, since the dynamic is currently flipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:25 AM
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I don't think what I said has anything to do with the OPs statement being false. You're proving my statement right with your follow-up comment. You already admitted you do it on purpose so I don't know why you're trying to play coy now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:38 AM
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She loves pointing out the autism as much as possible too. Makes me wonder if it's just made up to use as a shield.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:23 AM
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Can confirm. Seen her try to stroke flames on here all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:13 AM
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u/brief_mongoose_7291 is not u/Inquiz_
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:41 PM
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You aren't responding to the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:28 PM
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You're trying to prove the manosphere isn't a religion, which I never claimed it was. I'm claiming your analogy isn't a good analogy. You've failed to defend its legitimacy so now you're trying to weasel out of it. No, they pretty clearly challenge institutions. I disagree. You're going to have to show me where. Edit: Actually, pointing to a few edge posts isn't going to fix anything. We just fundamentally disagree on how that sub functions. I said I never made the argument you claimed, I didn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:03 PM
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First, this is a requirement you invented from whole cloth. You're deflecting from the fact that your religious analogy was a bad fit. Religions are organized, centralized, and self-identified. The groups we are talking about are none of those things. The overlap you keep insisting on is heavily exaggerated by critics who want to treat an entire internet ecosystem as a single hivemind. An MRA dealing with custody law in a courtroom does not share an ideology or a guru with a red pill fitness coa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:05 PM
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You can laugh at the phrasing all you want, but accusing me of using AI is just an easy way to dodge the actual points. Let's look at the logic here. First, your comparison still fails. Red Pillers, MGTOW, and MRAs do not share a foundational text or a central figure. Jordan Peterson openly criticizes MGTOW, calling them pathetic, and Andrew Tate is roundly mocked by old-school MRAs for being a grifter who monetizes loneliness. They do not agree on solutions, methods, or philosophy. The only thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:00 PM
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Your Christian denomination analogy actually highlights the core flaw in your argument. Seventh-Day Adventists and Presbyterians both explicitly claim the label of Christian, share a foundational text, and acknowledge the same central figure. The groups bundled into the Manosphere do not share an organization, a foundational text, or a self-identity. An MRA arguing about family court statistics in a legislative hearing is not operating from the same framework, goals, or texts as an anonymous tee…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:18 PM
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You're proving the original poster's point about linguistic bundling, just from the opposite side of the fence. ​First, claiming the Venn diagram between MRAs, MGTOW, and Incels is a "perfect circle" is a massive oversimplification. Materially and ideologically, they are vastly different. An Incel operates on fatalistic biological determinism, believing it is over because of genetics. A Red Piller operates on hyper-agency and sexual capitalism, believing that if they lift, make money, and game t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:52 PM
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I disagree with that take. Blue pill has a specific meaning. Generally someone who accepts mainstream societal narratives unquestioningly. It is naturally at odds with TRP. I agree with a lot of things TRP has to say but I don't consider myself red pill. I don't consider myself blue pill either. If you think TRP is generally accusing outsiders as being blue pilled it's probably because you're blue pilled and accurately get called out for being so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:33 PM
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I guess your definition of criticism is avoiding addressing the topic all together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:29 AM
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Funny, I'm thinking the exact same about your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:24 AM
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Your argument was based on a hypothetical and his was based on reality. That was the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:50 AM
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I gotta ask, what about my comment were you downvoting exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:27 PM
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I noticed you never answered how one can not act desperate but have desperate energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:41 PM
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I didnt have to, you didn't say anything backed with evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:39 PM
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Mathematically, .002% is bigger than zero. Come back when you have more to offer than zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:38 PM
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No, that was my counter to the OP. Unless you have something to back up what you're saying, take a hike.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:37 PM
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If someone justifies a point with data and you are countering it without data, your point is irrelevant. Data > no data, when it comes to supporting a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:29 PM
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As opposed to your data of zero?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:21 PM
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No, I'm not saying that. I am saying it's better than basing it on nothing, which is what you're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:06 PM
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Stating the population means nothing. You have nothing associated with it. You're just blurting out a number. What is your adjacent industry? Also, we started this talking about data and you are already trying to steer it toward your supposed anecdotal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:57 PM
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I stated something that is a verifiable data point. You answered with nothing but conjecture. I didn't ignore anything. If I did, point it out. You can't handle being challenged on your own post. Go ahead and tuck tail "mate"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:49 PM
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This is a different thread, stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:44 PM
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Thanks for verifying everything else I said by not addressing it. Also, you tried to say OF wasn't real. If it wasn't based on the fact it's on the Internet, then what did you base that on?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:43 PM
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What variables did I remove exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:39 PM
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Data > your conjecture
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:38 PM
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As opposed to your data set of how much?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:38 PM
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Nice source
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:07 PM
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It actually did address your point. Directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:04 PM
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That's the whole point, they aren't dating them. Most people don't pay for porn either. So yeah, it does mean you're desperate. Of course my comparison doesn't make sense to someone who thinks all things are fake because they're on the Internet. Where are you getting this assertion that so many men have multiple accounts? How much these men are paying is irrelevant, they are paying someone to give them which they cannot have otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:55 AM
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OF isn't real people engaged in a transaction? You think because things happen on the Internet they aren't real? I guess you're going to tell me news networks are fake because they are on YouTube and money in your bank account isn't real because you can't touch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:41 AM
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This is false. One needs only look at the degenerates lining up to throw money at OF models and strippers. In particular, OF girls are selling more than sex, they sell fake companionship. They prey on lonely men and business is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:35 AM
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I think you might think you're disagreeing with me in this statement. You aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:49 PM
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Except just because you did something to earn a reward doesn't mean you just stop doing things that got you the reward. You're operating on a non sequitur
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:04 PM
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No. They didn't admit. You just assumed. Now you're so desperate to argue in bad faith you're making things up. Pretty wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:00 PM
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You accuse her of assuming and then justify it with nothing but your own assumptions. The hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:04 PM
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Why is the assumption the man doesn't give good sex because he is being rewarded?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:00 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:51 AM
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Some do, some don't
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:46 AM
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One of his points was that men need to just drop their standards and date heftier women. My counter is that is already happening and even fat women aren't having an issue getting men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:24 PM
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Wait, you think the entire relationship is made up because it was on a reality show? I just want to see you say it. And? The dudes had partners before the show too. This doesn't refute the fact those men are dating a 600lb woman. I pointed out OF girls are real people running a business because you attempted to say they were fake because they were on the Internet. Again. I've given way more actual evidence than you have. Which is nothing. You haven't even attempted to. Because you have nothing. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:49 PM
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Reality TV is based on reality. They had boyfriends before the show. OF girls are also real people running a business. Using that is leagues better than referencing troglodytes on reddit. Just because reddit is on the Internet and other real things are on the Internet does not make them equal. The fact you don't realize that is concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:43 PM
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I literally referenced my 600lb life. Pretty strong indicator. You can also just look at any OF girl and see the men fawning after them. Or actually go outside for once. Your turn, since you've continued to provide nothing and we are 3 comments deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:31 PM
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Referencing reddit comments to prove your point is absolutely wild and just strengthens what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:28 PM
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It sounds like you're the one who has no idea what they're talking about. All of your examples have dudes simping after them. Don't believe me? Even the chicks on my 600lb life have boyfriends. Other than that, you managed to use just as much conjecture as the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:14 PM
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The whole discussion is about generalities. If I say humans have two arms, do I need to clarify that paraplegics exist? Pointing out the exception to a generality is just arguing for the sake of arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:07 PM
4

Humans love punching down. "If you can convince the lowest white man he's better than the best colored man, he won't notice you're picking his pocket. Hell, give him somebody to look down on, and he'll empty his pockets for you." Lyndon B. Johnson
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:33 PM
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Being too picky is part of failure. Nobody has sympathy for the millionaire who starves because they couldn't eat caviar.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:19 PM
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Okay, that sounded smart at first but there are reasoning mistakes here and there. Bateman’s Principle and Trivers’ Parental Investment Theory explain mating behavior. Together, they demonstrate why males are almost always the competing sex and females are the choosing sex across the animal kingdom, including throughout human history. Triver's theory has a simple rule: the sex that invests more in the offspring becomes a scarce resource for the sex that invests less. The female is biologically f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:12 PM
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She's only here to search for someone she thinks is an incel to dunk on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:26 AM
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Yeah, dating related. It also exists outside of dating though. That is his point. Men have dating issues that are strictly about dating. Not dating related. Dating centered.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:26 PM
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Notice how you had to say car in front of accident, workplace in front of sexual, and sport in front of injury? It's because those are separate things when you don't add the qualifier. I see his logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:51 PM
5

You just described shutting down the whole subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:37 PM
10

A romantic relationship contains many things, to include sex. If you can't have a conversation without straw manning someone's position, perhaps don't engage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:35 PM
6

That's called a friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:11 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:04 AM
1

I agree. If this is happening, someone needs to reevaluate. It isn't healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:49 AM
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A relationship takes compromise. If you think engaging in an enjoyable activity with your partner is something you have to be forced into, perhaps you should reevaluate your commitment to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:32 AM
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Being offended that someone is not giving you their best has nothing to do with who the person is that they previously gave their best to. What matters is that they aren't giving it to you. They don't see you as deserving of it. I once found out my employer was paying someone who had worked at the same place for less time than me, more money. I was upset with the employer, not the employee. Same here. You are upset with the person making the value determination.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:43 PM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:31 PM
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u/leosandlattes is a mod?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:01 PM
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Nice strawman you built there. I see you have practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:57 PM
0

Saying effort and boxes does a lot of heavy lifting. That can be anywhere from buying you a soda to a full on relationship. Please elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:24 AM
3

How can you both be for casual sex and also don't want to sleep with people you're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:48 AM
6

They say/said the same thing about drugs and alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:45 AM
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Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:46 PM
3

What pivot? Violence is the only defense against violence. You've provided nothing to refute this point. Meanwhile, I have the entire history of humankind behind me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:44 PM
5

What do you think happens when someone brings violence to your door and you don't stop them? Honest question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:37 PM
3

You stop violence with violence. What other way is there? You will never eradicate violence, it is human nature. You can only hope to beat it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:49 PM
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We aren't talking about me, we are talking about men in general. If you think police and military don't stop violence I'm not sure I can continue a conversation with someone engaging in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:44 PM
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This right here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:37 PM
13

Men make up the majority of law enforcement and military. Who do you think is stopping those evil men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:32 PM
5

You realize the opposite view can just say the same thing, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:30 PM
8

Nothing says you're right like not backing it up with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:34 PM
8

False dichotomy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:15 PM
4

And women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:11 AM
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You have my attention, how is air conditioning sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:54 PM
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You say that like women don't have the same problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:56 PM
2

Nice story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:02 AM
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It's always the ones who feel the need to say that who care the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 11:04 AM
-1

Ironically enough, calling something ultracringe is just as lame. You might get a pass if you're Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:14 PM
2

I can second psychacks with Orion Taraban. Good stuff there.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 06:00 PM
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Nice try at quoting it out of context. Here is what you missed: One of the biggest rebuttals people love to pull on here is the claim that “oh xyz men are in successful marriages”. Keep in mind many of these polls on successful marriages do little to actually interrogate the happiness of the couple. In the first three sentences, OP establishes merely saying the existence of marriages is not enough and elaborates on why. You had a second chance to read the OP and still failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:09 PM
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That's a statement that doesn't support your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:27 AM
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Would you say a physically abusive marriage is successful?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:40 AM
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Did you even read the OP....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:35 AM
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You think sex workers cost more than a wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:33 AM
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If your doubling theory were true, wouldn't that be cancelled out by gay men? If it isn't, it would be because women still command the prevailing stat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:58 PM
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You find it weird that some people view flippant sex as a fault? Specifically, your choice to call it weird makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:44 AM
3

Great responses here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:50 PM
4

Damn dude, you countered her uno reverse card with your own
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:02 AM
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You're an incel if you try your best to look good?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:04 AM
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You can change the terminology, my point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:03 AM
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Most of the women on those obese TV shows have boyfriends. There is always a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:10 PM
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Don't believe this guy, "people are wrong on the Internet." Wait, that means you can't believe this statement either. The only way to truly get it right is to do the opposite of what I said; which is trust this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:50 PM
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Get a personal trainer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:27 PM
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This right here. A lot of women pretend like looks don't come first for them; just like it does for men. It's a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:09 PM
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Don't forget it merits repeating endlessly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:48 PM
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They actually didn't forget. It was literally included in the last sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:22 PM
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This is reddit, nobody asked for your opinion either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 09:48 PM
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Grabbing my popcorn for this one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:48 PM
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OP acts like men don't have to vet just like women. We are also expected to approach. It is actually worse for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:28 PM
4

So you agree with him. Why are you continuing to respond like you don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:27 PM
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His point was that men historically do not date dependent on their partners financial status and women mostly date up, even after doing well themselves. Please show where you addressed this if you understood the point. Saying women don't want to degrade their standard of living is just agreeing with him. If you want to say we didn't like your response in that we were expecting you to attempt to refute it, OK. At that point though, why bother responding with the word salad and just say he is righ…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:23 PM
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The point of your comment whooshed right over her head or she is straw manning because nothing about her response addressed your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:02 PM
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u/responsibilityAny217 knows how to socially lubricate! I need to step my lubrication game up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:16 PM
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Nice story bro. Reads like AI wrote this. Locked in a bedroom? Doors don't work that way in most houses...
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/26 01:03 PM
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Tell me more about social lubricant
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:18 AM
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I don't get why some people bring up edge cases and then go "NoT eVeRyThInG iS tHaY wAy". No shit. There is always an exception. We are trying to have an academic discussion, pointing out the sky is blue is wasting everybody's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 01:16 AM
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There is no nuance. The definition of racism includes beliefs, attitudes, and behaviors. Full stop. There doesn't need to be a systemic backing for something or someone to be racist. It goes down to the individual level.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:38 PM
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Being able to enforce your racism doesn't mean you aren't racist. It just means you have no power. Down voting me because I disagree with you, then claiming mental superiority while not even understanding the meaning of the word is rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:20 PM
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Saying that someone can't be racist if they don't have the power to exert their will is a wild take
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:01 PM
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Your logic doesn't make sense. Women are still using it as an insult. Using your logic, calling someone gay the F word is OK as long as it's because they are weird and not because they are gay. That's ignoring the fact the two things will go hand in hand a lot. The men not getting laid are often awkward. Using the awkwardness as justification is just a cop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:40 PM
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Great job bolstering his point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:36 PM
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Great advice that applies to women as well. More men, but also women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:53 PM
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You're clearly interested or you wouldn't be debating dick size on reddit. Sharing his personal experience is on topic for a reddit post about dick size.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:04 PM
3

Expert level pivot there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:02 PM
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He waited over several comments and then decided to share his personal experience. You're reaching hard here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:45 PM
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I'm not following what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:30 PM
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I think we are still talking past each other. Whether it is an issue for the original commenter isnt what you refuted. You refuted the statement that they are assuming the 5% of men they are filtering from includes those that aren't interested in them. Where have you shown that this is not included? You cannot filter something that was not available to you in the first place. It would be like me saying I chose not to fly in the sky today, I chose to walk instead. It would be absurd. Flying is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:23 PM
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Sounds like an accurate recount of events. I don't see where your analogy backs up your statement though. Filtering choices has no bearing on what choices are available to you. You can say you have narrowed down the pool of men to 5%. That is not a correct number if many of those men aren't even interested in you. Just like saying you've narrowed down your pool of houses you want to buy and include houses that aren't for sale in that percentage. The moral of the story is, the percentage you've n…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:05 PM
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I don't see where you are pointing that out. You're stating the selection process. That has nothing to do with what is available for choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:46 PM
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I think you are misunderstanding the statement. If you narrow down choices to 5% but 3% of that 5% isn't actually available to you, it isn't actually 5% you're picking from. It is 2%.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:17 PM
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Wow, a mod with nuance, Kudos.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/26 05:45 AM
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We can tell
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:51 PM
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Not when it makes them look like their trying too hard
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:49 PM
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I would expect that kind of behavior from someone who thinks adding laugh emojis to their comment gives it more credence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:40 PM
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We wouldn't know how proud you were of your comment if you didn't add the fake laughing emojis
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:34 PM
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So you just confirmed it was a compendium. I literally gave you the quote from your post that said "ALL women" I'm not going in loops with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:58 PM
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Maybe I misunderstood, but it reads like you're listing a compendium of arguments from the subreddit. Is that not the case? If it is, you were saying that the argument that pops up in the subreddit is "ALL women..."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:53 PM
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Saying "all women" is an absolute
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:37 PM
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Reread their words. I'm not going to rewrite what they said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:36 PM
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That's exactly how debates work. See, I can only supply a statement like it's fact too. Implicit belief: I believe all women have had hookups before, and that quick sex with other men that they desire is the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:34 PM
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Dismantled the dissertation using a fraction of the words. She also loved saying everyone speaks in absolutes when the majority of people speak in general/averages.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:19 PM
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You said you served first so you didn't actually post an exception
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:32 PM
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It even says that no one liked or agreed with him until after ww1 Sounds like he still became charismatic then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:06 AM
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Reddits finest
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:11 AM
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Trying to draw the line between power and sovereignty is a fools errand. They are intertwined in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:24 PM
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Was this supposed to be a counter? You just bolstered his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:22 PM
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Regularly, too much, and too little is subjective. Anyone would agree too much or too little of something is not good. This is, in effect, the Crux of our debate. You've said nothing of substance with this statement. Edit: Adding more after you edited your comment. It could demonstrate they only care about themselves. But using that logic, any time a party has a requirement in a relationship they are bad. Relationships are based on requirements. There is too much nuance to make a general stateme…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:56 PM
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So if your partner wanted to go to Disney world and nagged you about it (not the only way to go about it but we will go with nagging for now), if you went, the absolutely only way to feel about it would be bad. Using your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:47 PM
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Baking in negative assumptions to your response doesn't make it stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:33 PM
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Trying to convince someone to do something means you are trying to get them to want it. Obviously, the way you go about it can be counterproductive, but that goes for any time you are trying to persuade someone. Not just with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:40 PM
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Expand on what you mean by coerce please
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:37 AM
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Just to be clear, you are agreeing with the premise that the asking party is no more guilty than the party saying no, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:33 PM
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Ok, and if you don't want to have sex with someone, they are not pressuring you by asking. You also have 3 options after saying no if you don't like them asking. Why is the person asking in the wrong and the other person isn't in your eyes? Isn't it just 2 people who have 3 options in a relationship instead of this blame game you're trying to play?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:38 PM
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Ok, thanks for that statement, now address what I actually said. Requesting something does not mean you think you have a right to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:13 PM
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Can't the whole pressure thing be viewed in the opposite direction. The other person is pressuring you to have less sex and they are free to break up if they don't like having more sex? Saying someone "isn't allowed" is kind of pointing a finger at one party when both share in the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:15 PM
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You're the police on what is weird I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:47 PM
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Bless your heart for assuming redditors are intelligent. Yes. I know, I'm included in that group.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 09:55 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 09:52 PM
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She thinks saying the other person is wrong without any counterpoint is debating, it isn't worth your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:10 PM
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This is what happens when you allow people with no idea of what it takes to formally defend a point into a debate. They think the braindead standards they use with their other braindead friends is legitimate because they're too ignorant to know otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 09:39 PM
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Someone made a generalized claim without data. You also made a claim without data, using even less specificity. Then try to tell me you need to have data to make a claim. I can't communicate with someone as disingenuous as you. Go learn how general debate discourse works before engaging in a debate sub or at least have enough self awareness to know when you're speaking outside of your knowledge base.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:26 PM
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The fact you think a comparison is supposed to be a 1:1 equivalence says everything about why you also think pointing out an exception is a sufficient counter to a generality. I already did my best to explain a basic concept of debate to you but you're more worried about pivoting your own original point to avoid feeling incompetent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:58 PM
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That's literally what most discussions on purple pill are and is the ONLY way to discuss most of the topics on it. Not only that, You wouldn't even be able to have a conversation about most things at scale without it. Laws and so much more are based on generalizations. You're just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:46 PM
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Making a point using the fact that it's possible rather than probably is barely making a point at all. We are speaking in generalities. Using the word "some" is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:19 PM
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Men not fighting for joint custody is a whole different topic from chores. Women complain more than men, so self reporting of who does chores from women is dubious. Personally, I think women skew to doing more chores because women skew more toward staying home. Neither of us has anything solid to back our claims up though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:07 PM
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Where are you getting this notion that women are so much more reliable doing chores, all things being equal (which they usually aren't).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 10:34 PM
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If a guy will have sex with you, he has physical attraction on some level. Like you said, he might not want a relationship, but he, at the very least, has some attraction. You're kind of making OPs point for him. Men generally have lower thresholds for physical attraction, so when horny, they have less barriers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:44 PM
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It's almost like he is talking about the physical attraction that precedes to love. You don't get past this step first, you don't get the love.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:06 PM
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Do you want to be the generation that suffers so the next generation can adjust? There is a reason the can keeps getting kicked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:05 AM
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I can't tell if this is a bot post or not. Can I get a bot check?
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 12:44 PM
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I'm asking you this because I genuinely want to know the answer: what does that have to do with anything that was said in this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:09 AM
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When someone talks about their struggle and you say everyone struggles, you are by default downplaying their struggle. True statement or not. Regardless of your opinion on men and women, don't try to be obtuse about your intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:16 PM
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He already addressed this point. Read the thread before you waste people's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:45 PM
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You shoot down Tate because his experience is anecdotal, OK, acceptable statement. Your original response then used your own ANECDOTAL experience as a counter, not OK. You have now stated there are women who have sex without getting anything in return, most people wouldn't dispute that. However, it starts to be tricky to quantify how many actually do. Is it because they are young and don't yet value their sexuality enough to offer it in exchange for something? One can argue that is part of the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:05 AM
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I'm not defending Tate, but OP makes the statement women will mostly only have sex in exchange for something, then you make the statement women had sex with Tate for money; and think you defeated his argument. The inability for people on reddit to form a cohesive argument never ceases to amaze me. Couldn't do it, even when arguing against a slam dunk like Tate. Edit: grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:51 AM
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You haven't attempted to engage with the topic of the thread in any meaningful way from the beginning. You're weak appeal to supporting a premise at this point is rich. Go back to eating crayons and let the adults continue the discussion, uninterrupted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 11:28 AM
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The voice of reason
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:18 PM
0

It's almost like there are degrees of acceptance and most things in life aren't binary.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:36 PM
1

You were saying prostitutes are expensive. I would argue they are cheaper than playing the dating game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:57 PM
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I guess the legality would depend on where you live. You think dating enough to get to third base is cheaper than a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:54 PM
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I've never agreed with the incel definition. As long as prostitutes exist, there cannot be an incel. It is likely they want more than that, to be wanted in some capacity. Even in a situation ship, you're at least receiving some type of validation, which an incel wouldn't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:49 PM
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Isn't that what single means,not in a committed relationship ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:40 PM
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I like this take
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:31 PM
1

Thanks for clearing that up
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:44 PM
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I see this comment and also a graph from the NSFG that contradicts it in the comment right above it 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:36 PM
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Wait, you think comparing professional comedians to a rando's reddit post is some kind of own?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:26 PM
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7:1 you say. What city is this? Asking for a friend...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:39 PM
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I see what you did there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:28 PM
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That is a better response, GJ
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:59 AM
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On the one hand you say you can't trust anyone (worst scenario). On the other hand you say don't worry about the worst things in life. Which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:46 AM
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You have to keep saying it because you aren't actually addressing the topic, you're just pointing out the obvious. People can do whatever they want it, great news. Let's try to meaningfully address the topic, which if I'm paraphrasing, is people being lonely and wondering why they can't find a sufficient partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:43 AM
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I think you're getting some men hitting on all the women, ugly or not, confused with hypergamy. They are not driven by the same motivations, nor do they have the same outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:19 PM
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Under that definition, I agree, you would have trouble with women. Nobody wants to be controlled. An issue is that some people view bending to your partner's wishes as being controlled. Flexing to meet your partner in as close to the middle as possible is part of a healthy relationship. Obviously, the amount of flex is situational. Edit:grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:59 PM
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What is your definition of objectifying?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:46 PM
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It's interesting you weren't this nuanced in your original comment. You were very comfortable talking in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:43 PM
5

Isn't the hating women part the result of being unfuckable? Obviously, it creates a feedback loop, it still has an origin though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:34 PM
11

Nice dodge
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:32 PM
1

Owned u/yamb97 then they try to pull the "I'm more Vietnamese than you" card
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:52 AM
2

Being wanted can be part of it but I don't think it is necessarily a requirement. Your logic doesn't explain kinks or things like the "R" word.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:14 PM
2

The topic is whether "pre-gaming" eliminates false perceptions and whether post nut clarity can be achieved by it. You just conceded that your mind gets something different from orgasm depending on context. Which means that there can be a difference. Defeating your original point that there is no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:08 PM
3

You think a hand isn't different than a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:52 PM
1

I don't think this is the gotcha you think it is. You're talking about the extremes. A normie in their 30s who has had a steady progression will have more money and status as they get older. 2 important metrics women are vetting for. Their stock has gone up from when they were younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:35 PM
3

Have my unborn child
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:44 AM
1

Fatality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:43 PM
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Your words, not mine. Very telling about yourself that you would jump to that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:43 AM
5

I know this is hard to imagine in your black and white world, but friends can also have utility and be an asset in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:19 PM
4

Having a female friend gives you more social credibility with their friends. They are your spring board to other girls. I had a lot more success when I figured this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:35 PM
1

I'm not making a determination about whether the topic is immoral or moral. That being said, what makes you so sure you can engage with such smugness about whether it actually is immoral. There are obviously a lot of people who both agree and disagree on this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 09:35 PM
1

Your response reinforces my statement that you're in a privileged position and can't see the forest for the trees. I'll rest my case here for the readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:09 AM
1

Using hyperbole shows your disingenuous engagement with the debate. Or perhaps you're just that out of touch that you think coffee for 2 people is $5. It's more likely the former is true. Coffee might work on the first date, but if it works out, people usually plan on having more than one date. The dating burden is almost always on the man. Finding people to even go on a date requires a certain amount of investment. Again, more than "$5" on a sustained basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:26 PM
1

You're speaking from a privileged position of not having to pay to play. It has substantial impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:16 AM
2

Why would you think a man's prime is 18-25, you need money to go out for dates etc. That is an age when people are still building their career, in college, etc. Women can get by broke, men can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:38 AM
4

Wow, you actually silenced the OP, congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:27 AM
4

Got em
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:17 PM
1

FATALITY
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:15 PM
16

People hook up with those around them. Ambition might help the women get in the same social circles but that doesn't mean they were chosen for their ambition.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:29 PM
1

Using your logic, there are a lot more non-degenerate simps than you realize, mon ami.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:24 AM
2

"it's usually a guy looking for casual sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:02 PM
6

You're saying contradictory things. You can't both not be getting hit on and also turning down men who only want sex. I think the person you are responding to is pointing out that some people don't get hit on at all and don't have the option to even turn away others. If you're turning people away and aren't actively pursuing others, being alone is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:34 PM
4

Real wisdom right here
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 10:58 PM
1

Underrated comment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:50 PM
7

You got her on the straw man 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:11 PM
1

This conversation was wholesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 03:33 AM
3

ANIMALITY
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:06 PM
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