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they are just inundated with DMs now so they do not appreciate male attention the way they used to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:22 PM
10

they want the sex with the fuckboi, they just make that story up after to save their reputation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:31 AM
1

i am a man and i disagree. be successful and they will come flocking. just living your boring life, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:09 PM
1

you got it slightly wrong. look at all great apes. hypergamy came from evolution, not feminism. the romantic period was a brief break from hypergamy, as women were forced to marry or convinced to marry through romantic overtures. go back far enough and it's just harems and lonely dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:17 PM
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not the type. just the specific person. type is very ill defined and even women of a "type" may be attracted to vastly different men. most men don't get a lot of attraction signals from women so we appreciate it a lot when it happens. clear attraction also can predict the success of the relationship. i think that is very different from a vain man or woman who think's they're hot shit just because people want to fuck them. most men are just afraid to have a dead bedroom and/or a wife who doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:22 PM
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you're misunderstanding. you are talking about wanting everyone to think you're attractive. that is vanity, or sometimes masked insecurity. we are talking about being very attractive to the specific woman that you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:16 PM
1

maybe we can get a world record LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:00 PM
2

it continues, let's see how long you'll go. you really have nothing better to do with your time ? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:02 PM
2

i am not reading this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:58 PM
2

i wonder how many times you will respond to me when i am not reading your comments AT ALL LOL you are obsessed with man hate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:42 PM
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you literally just sit on Reddit all day hating men. i don't care to read anything you think. it's a waste of my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:57 PM
1

you will still be disappointed because bad things will happen that you did not foresee
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:56 PM
4

i didn't realize it was you i was replying to...you never argue in good faith and you actually hate men. believe whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:54 PM
11

great argument LOL. i am able to learn from other men's successes and mistakes. that is all i am saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:47 PM
6

a lot of women have friends that would stab them in the back, talk shit, or steal their man in a heartbeat. women don't understand that male friendships do not require as much maintenance and can still be just as deep and loving.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:43 PM
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we think about it so we can become more attractive and receive better treatment by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:40 PM
6

do you want more men to approach you or not ? not totally understanding your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:17 AM
1

you are conflating sexual attraction and relationship commitment. those are different things. of course some men who are unwise and sexually desperate will choose a woman for the wrong reasons, but most men understand they need a girl who is kind, respectful and faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:52 PM
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i don't care about 666. i am 5'11" and my dick is bigger than 6. women will date an ugly slob if he shows he has options. i am not a looksmaxxer LOL that is only one small part of hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:05 PM
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men are not attracted to that. maybe we want to have sex with those types of women but almost all men would commit to a woman who is a little overweight or a little older if she is kind. women that are kind to men (and have reasonable standards) get married. women who view men as bad get stuck in situationships and wonder why they can't get commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:04 PM
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you date men who are stoic and detached because that is what you are attracted to. every woman has a doting male best friend that would listen to their every emotional whim but they don't like those guys. they like the men who have options and are not needy. it's a catch 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:07 PM
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all i have are my anecdotal observations. from relationships and friends and family. i have 3 sisters who love me and care if i'm safe and not starving but they do not care about my emotions. they are respectful (sometimes) because they don't want to be disrespected back but it is not to protect my emotions. i start talking about how i feel and their eyes glaze over. they ignore me and go back to their internal monologue. most women are just very in their own heads. it is what it is. i accept it…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:33 PM
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most women are emotionally very selfish. they cannot even understand that men have the same emotional depth. "men are dumb" is like a bible verse to women at this point. they think we are simple because we realize they don't care how we feel and so we keep it to ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:20 PM
2

you're not cautious with men you're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:14 PM
10

most women do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:12 PM
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i don't get if you're joking or agreeing or being sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:59 AM
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OP i am a man and this take is whack. Just stop gooning. You could come from holding a girl's hand LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:31 PM
2

i am very in touch. think whatever you want. you have not refuted any argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:41 AM
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you're just repeating yourself. you're not refuting OP or me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:43 AM
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i have 3 sisters. i see their average lives. they can get further in life faster by using men. they all do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:27 AM
1

whatever that has nothing to do with what OP said. he's talking about getting saved with a permanent lifestyle improvement from a person you are at least somewhat attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:45 AM
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right and she can post some thirst traps and men will send her money. just an advantage all women have if they choose to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:37 PM
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is WooPlus a real dating app ? never heard of it, sounds fun LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:00 PM
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average women still get "saved" a lot but i agree it is not easy and those situation have all types of strings attached
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:59 PM
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sounds annoying, i don't like women who are unmotivated
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:57 PM
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yea all those capitalist countries sabotaging it the whole time, we'll just ignore that...LOL authoritarianism and oligarchy are the real problems, and those exist in both systems. in a sense, the problem is human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:27 PM
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this is highly accurate. i only recently came out of the masochism myself. it was difficult to realize. i finally understand why it's called the red pill, because afterwards it really does feel like you were in the feminism matrix. i started to hear misandry and male self hatred everywhere, in love songs, the news, past relationships and even the lies told to me by my sisters and mother. I think RP can be really helpful for normal guys that have been pushovers or had no boundaries. But it's real…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:01 AM
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you're oversimplifying. you're tricking with your time and attention. time is more valuable than money, you can't get it back. we all trick off for women and sex. it all comes at a cost. that is true in all aspects of life. everyone makes their own deals and tradeoffs and accomodations in their own way to get what they want.
/r/seduction16/06/26 10:33 AM
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i'd rather just run my money up
/r/seduction16/06/26 01:27 AM
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okay well your views are a bit extreme. will end this back and forth so you can reclaim your time. i hope you didn't feel victimized by me, but i think that time spent is more in your own control than you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:11 PM
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does "wasted time" make you a victim ? i am not referencing assault or any crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:06 PM
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negging does not work on its own. it is a PUA ice breaking strategy. that's all. of course it works best on women who are extremely beautiful and used to being complimented or extremely insecure women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:05 PM
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we are all adults and some adults in the world are selfish or malicious. we all have to take personal responsibility for avoiding these people. that is not gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:02 PM
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whatever makes you feel better. people that have vast differences in attractiveness hook up all the time. you're basically gaslighting. for men and what we find attractive, attractiveness is relatively universal and far more universal than women's preferences, which are quite varied though still somewhat universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:01 PM
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the subconscious and conscious mind of most humans are barely connected. that connection requires meditation, deep introspection or responsible use of psychedelics. even journaling or therapy is just mental masturbation for most people. most women have journals and therapists and still don't have much self knowledge because it is just conscious rambling. the subconscious is what controls behavior more deeply. a woman can never explain the reasons behind her "icks" because they are deeply subcons…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:55 PM
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yup they come here angry after going on dates with guys out of their league and getting ghosted or after their situationship won't wife them and they blame red pill instead of looking within themselves and being accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:07 PM
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this is the actual red pill, just self respect that got lost in the propaganda of dumb husband sitcoms, cheesy pedestalizing emo love songs, dating application abundance, and social media validation. it's men unprogramming themselves from being passive to taking an active role in demanding respect or leaving women who disrespect them. what OP is talking about is the PUA "pick up artist" community which has some overlap with Red Pill but is not the same thing. PUA came first, existed in forums si…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:05 PM
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yes, keeping a woman attracted over time is far more complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:15 AM
2

everything is boundaries and removing attention
/r/MensRights30/05/26 07:13 PM
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this world is imperfect but there are men all around the world who command their wife's respect. it's possible.
/r/MensRights29/05/26 03:35 AM
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this man commands respect aside, the sofa is the devil and slowly debilitates your body, but you do you
/r/MensRights28/05/26 10:17 AM
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agree mostly but hiding in the bathroom is not setting a boundary. men do have choices. don't submit to your wife. dominate her in every way.
/r/MensRights28/05/26 10:15 AM
1

wow like the white jealousy / racism is on 10 these days LOL there are smooth talking men of every race 😂 SO STEREOTYPICAL. JUST BE YOURSELF. i usually pick up women by spitting chicken bones and watermelon seeds at their feet until they notice me 🤣
/r/seduction27/05/26 01:53 AM
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you don't see it because they do it on the low. the ratio is far different was my point.
/r/seduction24/05/26 10:15 PM
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yea i think my main shame came from Christianity. luckily my dad was masculine (at times) but he wasn't stoic, he was emotionally reactive. i also believe in meditation but i'm a sucker for love, can't lie. i can get women when i am in the correct mindframd but i basically just want an LTR. kindof halfway engaged right now but marriage is scary. sometimes i think i should just go sow my wild oats but honestly i can't really fuck without getting attached unless they're fat/ugly.
/r/seduction24/05/26 12:09 PM
1

that's a whole different thing lol
/r/seduction24/05/26 12:02 PM
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you're being hypocritical
/r/seduction24/05/26 12:01 PM
1

a lot of men will fuck anything is the point. it's not exactly equal in terms of difficulty for the same difference in attractiveness across genders because women are (usually) less desperate.
/r/seduction24/05/26 12:01 PM
1

you did anal in relationships but not in hookups. you JUST said it LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:58 AM
2

what do you do when you are flirting ? a lot of women flirt extremely indirectly or through negging and it can be confusing sometimes
/r/seduction23/05/26 04:59 PM
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you would have better luck finding a relationship if you just kept doing what you were doing before
/r/seduction23/05/26 04:40 PM
2

wow thanks for sharing the insight
/r/seduction23/05/26 04:39 PM
2

what aspects of childhood do you feel matter most ? i definitely suffer from a non affectionate girl boss type of mother and it's taken me a long time to learn higher standards
/r/seduction23/05/26 04:37 PM
1

show me this woman with high self esteem, genuinely never met one in my entire life some are good at faking it, but they all are extremely insecure when you really get to know them
/r/seduction23/05/26 04:35 PM
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GUE 🤣
/r/seduction23/05/26 04:31 PM
2

not exactly, the 9 guy will more readily bang the 6 on the low. women are also concerned with safety so there's more barrier to entry
/r/seduction23/05/26 04:31 PM
0

you can't make this shit up wow you are completely contradicting yourself. you were more kinky when you were more committed. that's all the men are saying...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:02 PM
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never heard of this. thanks for the education.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:56 PM
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the spirit of the metaphor would be the new partner having more and sharing less. your gambling example is irrelevant. women are the ones who care more about provision.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:55 PM
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a lot of women enjoy being degraded. i have had multiple women get upset because i did not degrade them enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:44 PM
1

OP wrote a terrible post but he's mostly right. Lots of women are lazy, out of shape, dead fish, don't know their own bodies and are desensitized from using vibrators. of course toys can be included in sex but for the sake of argument we are talking about just body on body. a lot of women struggle to cum with just their own hand but then expect us to finger and lick them to orgasm. as someone who has made a lot of women cum who claimed to struggle with it, i was mostly on my own. it was rare tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:58 AM
2

hope things get better. keep your mind open to solutions that don't involve you. delegation is a skill too. use your free time wisely and protect your time with the word "no" which is a full sentence ! :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/26 01:52 AM
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i am trying to be helpful, maybe in a tough love kind of way... i do feel you're a bit delusional, like you need to get back to reality in a way... i'm sure you're a good mom that tries their best but you are either not telling us something or you need to reconsider your priorities. you need more self care and less guilt. more systems and less rushing and hustling. more assistance and less "put it all on me". hope that makes sense.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/26 01:34 AM
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yea you had me ROFL with the two headed woman comment. the crazy thing is the guy is only married to ONE of them so it's like she is borrowing her sister's half of the vagina when they hook up. i think they asked them how they do it and they said they put up like a sheet or partition or something and the other just zones out or something. at least he's married to the better looking head HAHA he must be a sick fuck to be into that arrangement. living his best perverted dream LOL life is truly str…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:20 PM
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she's a competitive gymnast, right ? how is she able to do that with a mood disorder but she can't go to school with a mood disorder ? these are both highly structured highly social environments. i struggle to understand why you are doubting your child's capabilities. mood disorders don't even really exist. she is probably just copying your moods LOL all children are moody, they need guidance and consequences for their actions
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/26 11:16 PM
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nope just saw an AMA with a real burn victim and they asked her when she last had sex and she legit said "2 days ago". i will add it to this reply if i can find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:40 PM
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yea they basically doing a giant worldwide shit test right now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:37 PM
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already overwhelmed mother is going to start homeschooling LOL make it make sense you just enjoy overwhelming yourself to have excuses.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/26 04:47 PM
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you sound kindof lazy and disorganized honestly...you have 4 days off of work each week but claim to be "living in poverty". that makes no sense. what about the 2 income households where both parents work fulltime. they could still have a difficult child also. you are being ungrateful and no using your time wisely.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/26 04:45 PM
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this is basically a male white supremacist sub LOL like i do think men have been let down by society in certain ways so i follow to learn about these perspectives but they take it too far and don't empathize with anyone but white men HAHA it's kinda dumb
/r/MensRights25/04/26 07:48 AM
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there is no specific woman. women are mostly the same. women keep a lot of secrets and don't understand themselves very well. no matter how attractive one makes oneself, the majority of women want to be approached and are too shy / egotistical to do the approaching. whether in person or online, the onus is on us to approach. at that point, it's a numbers game.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:49 AM
1

yea Christianity imo is just too much about guilt and self sacrifice. i had to let it go to be happier. i miss listening to gospel music, still do sometimes but doesn't really hit the same...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:27 PM
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everyone's different. i don't really like when women use my body like that. makes me feel gross.
/r/seduction22/04/26 11:55 AM
1

everything you described doesn't sound angry at all. it sounds to me like what most men want. an intelligent woman that uses her femininity skillfully. what i can't stand is women who use their femininity for cheap short term benefits and then throw their femininity away when trying to acquire what they want in the long term. it's ineffective and unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:04 PM
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that is literally the only game LOL there is no other way to get with a woman besides approaching multiple women HAHA like seriously that is the ONLY method
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:34 AM
0

marriage is not about attraction. marriage is usually a man being manipulated into providing for a woman who is not attracted to him. they divorce the guy once they get their needs met, hence the 3 marriages :/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:42 AM
5

there is no way to predict dude, it's a numbers game, gotta shoot them shots, run them numbers up !!'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:38 AM
1

yea my life got better when i realized it is better to be somewhat polarizing than an "every man"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:37 AM
1

i already receive affection and i am definitely not seeking it from PurplePillDebate LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:02 AM
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think whatever you want, male and female friends there is always tension there... never said they'd have sex, but sexual favor and no one knows about it, they'd do it...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:39 AM
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men in the friend zone lie, we want to fuck, we're men LOL if there were no consequences, they would do it. believe as you wish...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:26 PM
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you were still intentionally misleading... women are seriously the greatest red pill influencers without even realizing it LOL it's just CONSTANT manipulation with y'all, it's honestly kindof cute but also scary as fuck... you do not understand men if you think we have standards HAHA we might have shame but we don't have standards, two different things. wet holes feel good. none of those guys, if single, is turning down a NSA blowjob, no fucking way... prioritizing your pleasure, maybe that woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:33 PM
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so then they do wanna fuck you...? so you purposely misled us to make your argument...?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:26 PM
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took me a LONG time to learn that lesson...latent Christianity or guilt or having sisters or something...red pill makes more and more sense every day :/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:10 PM
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yea they don't understand that any man who is keeping them around is either secretly or accidentally red pill LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:06 PM
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they don't even know / cannot admit what they truly want anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:05 PM
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false. most women choose Chad and get pumped and dumped. most men choose hoes and get played. EVENTUALLY people settle after many hard lessons but many never learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:43 PM
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yass-lighting is an AMAZING term that PERFECTLY describes social media right now women don't understand that they are mutually creating the misogyny they complain about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:42 PM
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yea i have sisters who i love but who constantly call men trash and stupid and simple. they underestimate us and get dogged out left and right, then end up lonely, but they never listen. it's honestly quite sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:41 PM
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i know you're fat but they still want to fuck you. you don't understand men if you think otherwise. offer one of them a discrete sexual act and see what happens lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:33 PM
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it is actually the wealthy and those who control government who care because they need more babies (workers and cannon fodder) so they will make propaganda ("male loneliness epidemic") to guilt men into creating families, while also villifying abortion and sanctioning child marriage (religious propaganda). everything is by design. by being delusionally picky women are just creating handmaids tale for themselves. the men are just essentially trying to warn y'all to pick before they pick for you. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:18 PM
1

so many fragile white redditors i am not reading your response y'all are obsessed with me
/r/MensRights17/04/26 02:16 AM
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i don't care i'm not reading this
/r/MensRights17/04/26 02:16 AM
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i don't feel guilt about racism like you do. why would i not hate white people when you try to wipe us off the map every single day LOL
/r/MensRights15/04/26 05:19 PM
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LOL yea systemic racism doesn't exist and i'm the queen of england 😂 i PRAY for black supremacy to make up for years of you white people's bullshit and gaslighting and violence i don't give two fucks what you think.
/r/MensRights15/04/26 05:19 PM
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ignore
/r/MensRights14/04/26 07:53 PM
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still not reading ✊🏾
/r/MensRights14/04/26 07:42 PM
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i'm not reading all this racist apologist bullshit dude. go look up murder rates for black trans women. i do think feminism has gone too far but your paragraphs and paragraphs of white male fragility are not worth my time. i can tell from the first sentence you have little to no empathy and just like to feel bad for yourself.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 02:56 PM
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"so-called oppressed" LOL your whiteness is showing white straight women are less oppressed than black queer women of course but they are all oppressed. even poor white men are oppressed. opinion expression and tolerance is not the same as acceptance, recognition, representation, or actual power. power is the ability to affect real physical change. who dies, who lives, who gets fed, who starves, etc. this type of power is in the hands of very few, mostly white, billionaire, pedophile men. it's v…
/r/MensRights14/04/26 12:47 PM
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can't agree with you. that would be like saying because black people have enough freedom to share their opinions about white supremacy that white supremacy doesn't exist. that is obviously not true. also, developed countries / western democracies are becoming increasingly fascist and hostile to women's (reproductive) rights. it's not only Isalamic countries. i agree with OP though. i have thought about similar theories as i watch "red pill" content and as i review the ways i let women destabiliz…
/r/MensRights14/04/26 02:47 AM
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i don't want to keep repeating myself. i explained already. just reread it and think about it i guess...?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:30 AM
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yes, if it's concious it's just a test, which all humans do. these are really just red pill definitions. take it or leave it. i think this sub needs like a dictionary lowkey LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:27 PM
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it's a shit test because y'all do it subconsciously. of course all humans consciously test one another or evaluate each other. you say you want a nice man but you will push a nice man to the brink of submission to see if he is dominant enough for you. all women do this without knowing or admitting it. my own sisters and mother do it to me. it goes beyond romance or sex. you are constantly seeing what you can get away with. the way women talk to men, a man could never get away with it. he would g…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:14 PM
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y'all naturally shit test, it will never stop
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:26 PM
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i don't understand what you're saying
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:25 AM
1

that's very sad. the apps are even more of a cesspool than i thought. exactly why i don't do OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:24 AM
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no one is saying what you should ACCEPT they're saying what you should EXPECT and to adjust your standards to get better results women get pumped and dumped because of delusionally high standards men with delusionally high standards get beta buxxed and we are all aware of that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 10:44 AM
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my sister has a harem of men she talks to on the phone and she fucked most of them once or a few times but now they are in the friend zone and she will never date them. listening to a woman is not enough, if she is not attracted to you or if she doesn't feel safe with you or if you don't have enough resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:52 AM
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this would be the experience of any divorcee. most men will see them as a fling. men value youth and minimal baggage. they won't go out of their way to court an older woman with an ex husband and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:46 AM
1

instagram is actually the prostitution app. "free prostitutes" is an oxymoron. that would just be a promiscuous woman, which yes you can find on OLD. so you're proving OP's point that it is easier for women to meet potential suitors, hence they don't need OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:44 AM
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i made a serious response. your metaphor is actually proving our point. for women, dating is a drive thru. for men, it's a fancy restaurant where you have no reservation!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:41 AM
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i worked in drive thru. explain exactly how it is supposed to function. i guarantee you will be wrong. there is SO much more nuance to a simple drive thru than you could ever know not working it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:39 AM
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negative because you have too many options but don't want to sift through them all ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:38 AM
2

same with a job interview. they are often looking for something beyond the description.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:36 AM
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what you think and what you do are so different that knowing what you think is actually a detriment. listened to my mother, sisters and friends for years. they were often lying to me or lying to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:35 AM
1

too many simps i fear
/r/MensRights10/03/26 02:09 AM
0

most women actively like men that mistreat them. they cannot admit it but their behavior shows it. they are more obsessed with the hot guy that ghosts them than the nice guy right in front of their face, even if they are equally physically atrractive. love is a game. women like to play. they don't want it to be easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:57 AM
0

not specifically you but women in general are shallow and like drama, yes. you know the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:52 AM
1

no
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:51 AM
-1

men are very ignorant about women's beauty. i have sisters and i still miss certain things. women even decieve themselves with these things. you know these things are not honest or natural. it's obvious. they can be fun and pretty but they are not honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:50 AM
0

you are shallow and you choose drama over peace consistently
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:36 PM
4

outward "honesty" and self honesty are different. a lot of women are not honest with themselves. hair die, make up, plastic surgery, etc. (self) deception is just a built in part of women's culture. not so much for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:32 PM
5

being nice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:30 PM
1

all men are capable of pump and dump for sure. chad is the one you keep going back to and stay in love with after he dumps you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:24 PM
2

the gap will never narrow, as women have more access to medicine and technology, so will men...y'all are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 02:00 AM
1

it's just dangerous to convince women that the average woman can ever be as strong as the average man. that will never be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:15 AM
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go over to r/deadbedrooms, this is the reality already
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:24 PM
1

i'm oversimplifying but you're using a lot of science about hormones etc. to act like there's these super strong women in this unseen future, like there's all this untapped potential LOL bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:12 PM
2

WOW you really think women are as strong as men ? that is insane...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:18 AM
1

i agree. nothing can be all one gender's fault. we all make mistakes or sometimes seek out unhealthy partnerships. something we can all work on improving.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:48 AM
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i don't think impatient men are outliers. all men are impatient about sex. what i am saying is that the specific men that most women are attracted to, which is a small minority, have enough options to be even more impatient about sex. my sister is in her mid 30s...hormonal decisions apply to women and men of all ages, but this goes beyond hormones. women are simply attracted to a far smaller percentage of men than men are attracted to women. look at the dating app data. it's clear. you are selec…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:08 PM
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the person above is essentially saying that women do not think critically when dating. they are often responding to their base level sexual desires and end up choosing people far out of their league. he is also saying that on the flip side, when women feel they are out of a man's league, they will still keep that man around and use him as a "friend" to do favors for them. i have 3 sisters and i witness this first hand every day. one of my sisters is currently in love with a guy that never commit…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:18 PM
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no one i have dated was perfect. they all had things i was not attracted to. but their overall package i found attractive enough to move forward with. men have far less "deal breakers" than women do. look at the scientific studies. men find a larger percentage of women attractive than women find men attractive. hypergamy is real. men are not hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:08 PM
2

okay so that was never your friend so your point is moot...? if you're in shape, you can get a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:06 PM
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the same can be said for a lot of men. they don't understand themselves or women's motivations. doesn't mean all men are dumb. a lot of people are lost and confused as far as dating. that's the whole point of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:05 PM
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there is a man who you would never be "too tired" for because you are extremely sexually attracted to him. all women have this person. sometimes they marry someone else. we all have choices. there is no perfect choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:04 PM
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"THE MEN WHO YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO" not all men. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:03 PM
3

this thread is just your permission slip to do what you already want to do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:23 AM
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y'all take the men y'all are attracted to and say that's how "all men" are, but most of you are attracted to a small percentage of men and are giving those men lots of options which results in the issues you face.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:14 AM
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you're missing his point. waiting for trust is fine but normally the men y'all are attracted to have more options and they don't want to wait. the person who would wait for you is often someone that you don't find attractive. that's the conundrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:10 AM
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we don't think women suck, we just think you don't understand yourselves well and you don't understand men's motivations
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:58 AM
2

they liked you, they were just afraid to make a move. men are not friends with women they are not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:55 AM
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hypergamy is undefeated
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:54 AM
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women are far more superficial than they admit and they often don't care to get to know a man unless he is very attractive or a flunky doing them favors
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:52 AM
2

you're describing most marriages lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:51 AM
2

how would someone know you're settling unless you tell them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:51 AM
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Usually women do this when they are cheating so they can get away with it. Think of how many white women in the American south watched their black lover get hung from a tree because they lied and said he raped them so they could save face. White women have always been a huge part of white patriarchy. They have never been against it. Even their "feminism" is just a part of white patriarchy. It is only to protect white cis female tears. No other female identifying people (minorities, indigenous, t…
/r/PussyPassDenied10/02/26 01:13 PM
2

good man
/r/MensRights25/12/25 11:52 PM
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i just went to a packed gym (one of the few open on Christmas) ... you can see who's been putting in the work and who's just tryna get fit for the holidays LOL always good to work on yourself most people with a messed up life have a major blindspot for many it is weight but this is a sore topic in an obese USA i am a black man who loves curves but i also want my woman to be healthy and not suffer from health or mobility problems if we can avoid it also big girls cannot do all the things in the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:52 PM
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better to get with a girl who is super nice and likes you a lot...more pleasurable...beauty fades
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:47 PM
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there is no way to gain status as a man but hard work, hence it's not very advantageous for us to try to "talk a good game" though it might work sometimes. women are experts at building narratives and y'all use it to your advantage in many situations. i'm honestly very impressed by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:43 AM
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women care about status and reputation far more than men do... y'all put gunk on your face etc. you care WAY more what people think
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:53 AM
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women don't like nice guys, they like guys that don't like them, shows the dude has options and triggers their hypergamy response. or dudes who are already chosen, married, "dad bod", etc. all to do with security, nothing to do with "nice"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:49 AM
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we don't actually want to date women that are model hot, we just want a woman who is cute and nice and respectful lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:46 AM
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men lie to get sex, women lie to save face. the latter one happens WAY more often...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:25 AM
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most of these disorders are bullshit. just kids raised on tablets and video games. switch that out for books and sports and a lot of these kids would be fine. i'm only 36. we used to literally just say some kids were like "oh he's a spaz" but we stil treated them normal and expected them to fall in line and perform like everyone else and mostly they did, myself included. people rise and lower to the expectations you set. the expectations are too low right now. Helen Keller would be ashamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:24 AM
1

you never pick the goldilocks partner, you pick the partner that makes you wet and treats you like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:21 AM
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red pill is about not pulling out all the stops for anyone. pulling out all the stops is blue pill simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:18 AM
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Megan Fox is gross. Most men don't want anything you're talking about. You don't understand men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:17 AM
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you're super lost on red pill. we just want a woman that is nice to us. she doesn't need to be performative, unintelligent, or bimbo-like. you don't understand men at all. do some men lie and deceive to get sex ? of course. but most do not. the subset of men that y'all are dating on dating apps who lie to you are just that, a subset. a lot of great men are just not on the apps, because they're not interested in the manipulation and rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:16 AM
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yea women take it as controlling, but like naw you not goin on girl trips cuz you just gone do whatever these hoes say to do
/r/seduction30/11/25 08:42 PM
3

this is amazing
/r/MensRights29/11/25 02:29 PM
2

🤣 you can pay for yourself and also show attraction, no man would stop you LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 11:57 AM
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can't make a girl like you, just be yourself. how can she like you when you don't even know who you are ?
/r/seduction23/11/25 04:51 AM
2

i respect you're putting yourself out there. i have been meaning to take a salsa class for forever but i am a little scared, i'll be honest. you're inspiring me a little bit.
/r/seduction18/11/25 02:44 PM
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aight well just be careful if you have money, don't get baby trapped, it's all the rage right now for the hood chicks to find a "rich baby daddy" i was definitely imagining a nerdy white guy in a hip hop class staring at all the jiggle booty beauties 😅 how did i know ???
/r/seduction18/11/25 02:10 PM
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define "hood" ? you like the aesthetic or you like the behavior ? their thoughts and perspectives ? lol genuinely curious.
/r/seduction18/11/25 01:44 PM
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please tell me this is a salsa footwork joke 🤣
/r/seduction18/11/25 01:42 PM
2

way more experienced and yes more money, but there's some ups and downs along the way. if you had a plan in your 20s, 30s it is starting to come together...
/r/seduction18/11/25 01:41 PM
2

idk why this being downvoted by chumps, it's 100% true. Look at the Sadia Khan situation. Textbook. She is an extremely attractive and somewhat successful professional but is a mistress of a wealthy married man. Meanwhile she is giving dating and relationship advice...can't make this shit up, people are so fake 😹
/r/seduction18/11/25 05:41 AM
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Same here. I am realizing i gotta be way colder, way harsher, way more boundaries and standards. They will fight when you criticize them but they actually like to please us, but only if we demand it. Like essentially if she is not fully submissive, almost all the time, not goin for it. A lot of times i think we were being confident and in frame initially and then it’s “betatization by 1000 concessions” 🫠 I am happy men are waking up and i hope we can all do better for ourselves. I always remind …
/r/MensRights15/11/25 05:41 PM
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yea i am always pretty much red pilled when i get into a relationship. before current content, it was listening to Patrice ONeal or even Tom Likus back in the day (might be spelling names wrong), the shock jocks keepin it real, even Howard Stern. and then inevitably, i start listening to her MOUTH and believing it, instead of watching her ASS and what she does. never again. it's about what moves them physically and emotionally. i feel bad but i will never believe a woman again ever in my life. t…
/r/MensRights15/11/25 05:02 PM
1

a sliver 😪
/r/MensRights15/11/25 04:50 PM
1

yea in some ways women are actually more logical (where provision is concerned). dudes be YOLOing too much sometimes...
/r/MensRights15/11/25 04:49 PM
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it's hypergamy, the mistreatment makes her feel like you have options. when we're nice, they think we have no options and they act accordingly...
/r/MensRights15/11/25 04:46 PM
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yo great breakdown, so true i purposely test to see how a woman responds to me venting before i take bigger steps in the relationship
/r/MensRights15/11/25 04:32 PM
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yooo i have been having these really deep thoughts lately about how i am lowkey in the friendzone with my own sister HAHA like i see the way she will ignore my phone calls or dismiss me at times. you're right that even our own mothers doesn't want to see us blubbery snotty cry. my sister and i are 1.5 years apart so we're extremely close. but i do still see the way how women are often skewing relationships to their benefit emotionally. my sister is a generous, wonderful person. just some things …
/r/MensRights15/11/25 04:31 PM
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don't listen to what they say, watch what they do and what they respond to...i learned this the hard way too a woman will submit to even an abusive man, but she will always be icked out by a nice man it's crazy how hypergamy happens even inside relationships. you have to act like you have other options at all times or her pussy dries up this is why a lot of dudes should go for a girl who likes them more (slightly below their looks match) than they like the girl. she naturally will feel you are o…
/r/MensRights15/11/25 04:26 PM
2

this is the main misunderstanding
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:41 AM
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WOW y'all are spitting facts, "plausible deniability" is SUCH a good description of how women think and behave. they'll never admit it. but this is blowing my mind right now 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:34 PM
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maybe give her good sex sometimes when she calms down ? instead of just ignoring every single time ? idk she just sounds horny to me...
/r/askMRP10/10/25 09:08 AM
3

this is actually kinda deep. we create our own mediocrity sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:58 PM
4

yea it sucks. keeping other men down is by design.
/r/MensRights03/09/25 07:41 AM
0

yo great take. we are just as much to blame for simping as the woman is for bad mate choices.
/r/MensRights03/09/25 07:40 AM
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No, it's what capitalists do to keep power
/r/MensRights03/09/25 07:39 AM
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wouldn't it be nice if this was true...
/r/MensRights03/09/25 07:38 AM
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women make decisions for partners based on emotions alone. unless they're a sociopathic gold digger. they may claim otherwise but we know that's not true.
/r/MensRights03/09/25 07:36 AM
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i'm so done with the Tyrone shit. we live in a white supremacist and capitalist world. there are WAY more Chads than Tyrones, and all the Tyrone references are just incelish jealousy. there is nothing to be jealous about being black. if just makes life harder. it doesn't make a bunch of white women flock to you. at all. i am good looking and highly educated black man. still much closer to incel/simp than Tyrone, i assure you.
/r/MensRights03/09/25 07:34 AM
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i am so fucking tired of this neurotypical and neurodivergent conversation. everyone is different. be yourself, work on yourself and put yourself out there to meet people OR never change, complain and blame genetics while you become an incel. the choice is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:24 AM
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i mean, video games truly are a waste of life. i find them unattractive and i am a straight man. i would never be friends with gamers. i think y'all are lame, just being super honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:39 PM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:13 PM
2

Wow you treat a woman well over the years and it's like it just goes to her head, they become delusional. i'm so afraid of this. every relationship i've ever had eventually goes this way. i genuinely wonder how it is possible to retain a woman's respect in the long term. no idea.
/r/MensRights18/08/25 09:32 PM
1

that sucks, hopefully things are better for you now. i've been in very similar situations
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:27 PM
1

And this is why we don’t like Western women LOL but I understand you don’t want us, happy arguing !!! 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:41 AM
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why are you on here talking to us then ? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:50 PM
1

clearly you have not met the $300 car people, they will modify the fuck out of that beater and show it off as their pride and joy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:30 PM
1

we'd much rather western women became nicer again, actually
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:32 PM
1

damn this is way too accurate bro you broke it down so well, it's so sad, that's exactly what it's like...they are so blind to it...there will be so many cat ladies :/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:29 PM
1

damn, that's fucked up
/r/PussyPassDenied16/08/25 02:21 AM
4

Did she “do better” ?
/r/MensRights15/08/25 11:20 PM
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that's really for you to answer. we've given you our perspective. it's not about subjugation, it's about respect. but you continue to push this narrative. if what you are doing currently is working for you, keep doing you. we're just being honest about what men want. "nice" and "prioritize" are words i know you know the definition of, not going to explain them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:17 PM
1

We just want a woman who is nice to us and prioritizes us. You’re making it more complicated than it really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:53 PM
1

You’re proving the point that: “western women can't even conceptualize how much better non-western women are at being women. you will never be able to explains this to them, like colors to a blind” when he says “being a woman”, he means “being the type of woman men like”. You are correct that men do not like women who use their freedoms to not cater to us. Of course. No one likes that. You wouldn’t like if a man used his freedoms to not cater to you. Don’t you want a partner who caters to you ? …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:16 PM
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femininity is not about freedom or lack thereof...surely in a women's prison there is a variety and continuity of femininity being expressed, yet they are all equally unfree. you're just proving homie's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:29 PM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:33 AM
1

Even you thinking you are special and different is behavior that almost all women exhibit. Red pill is correct the vast majority of the time. Wish it wasn’t true but I have to live in reality. If that makes me a “fool” so be it…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:04 PM
1

Women are of course not the same but you are very similar. You don’t realize how similar you are. The inner motivations and emotions and hopes and dreams are different, of course, but a lot of the behavior is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:00 PM
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you're taking things so literally. obviously human dynamics are more complicated but the essential behavior is the same. you haven't refuted anything i said. ev psych explains it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:59 PM
1

SOFT harem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:57 PM
0

it's a strange mix of things i am still wrapping my mind around. the romance novel archetype would be an example. whatever gets your chick lit clit wet 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:56 PM
0

whatever women are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:53 PM
2

Dating apps create soft harems because most men are rejected so the few who do have success are sleeping with multiple women and non committal. This is on average, of course there are outliers. Flexible strategy, you say ? Okay and human women do the same. They have a baby with the milk man. France won’t even allow paternity testing, it’s so rampant there. You’re just proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:32 PM
1

I understand. I have been somewhat of a hobosexual throughout my life 😅 but these nice blokes like myself you speak of are all conventionally attractive and in the case of the ugly slob one, he is probably highly masculine. There is no example you can give that red pill does not explain. You just misunderstand red pill because there is a lot of noise and other philosophies added. Evolutionary psychology, that’s it. Nothing else. We can agree to disagree. I think red pill represents reality bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:29 PM
2

There are definitely men with more money and power who get more mating opportunities. Call them what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:11 PM
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Chimps definitely form “soft harems” which is exactly what is happening with the dating apps right now. The females have to sneak off with the other males when the alpha is distracted but he is vigilant (and violent) in protecting his ability to keep the majority of the mating opportunities. Wars for money for more hoes. We are so extremely similar to these animals in our behavior that it makes people uncomfortable to think about. We have evolved but we also have not. It is what it is. I wish pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:05 PM
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you can respect yourself and be confident but still be a simp. it takes time to learn that women are not attracted to overly romantic givers because they will stay with you and take from you until you have nothing left. it's confusing for us men to navigate that. we learn through a lot of mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:15 PM
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i never had trouble meeting or dating women, but i was relating to women in a way that was only advantageous for them. red pill has been useful to learn how to get what i want out of relationships instead of just simping and losing my partner's respect over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:11 PM
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that's not how i crafted my personality at all LOL. idgaf what "women" think about me. i am just trying to get/keep one woman. i don't have to be pleasing to all women. if you think red pill is about trying to be pleasing to all women, you do not understand it. i have always known how to relate to women. i have 3 sisters. i have a girlfriend. i have had many relationships. red pill does not equal incel. i've been doing just fine. don't need to change or create my personality, it's already there …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 11:36 AM
1

believe it or not, no skin off my back so many women are so fat now, i am definitely not concerned with them besides basic human empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:50 AM
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masculinity doesn't push women away. femininity and being a doormat does.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:49 AM
2

i guess i'm just saying the complaints come from confusion. instead of learning more, people get angry. i was in that headspace for awhile but i got out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:48 AM
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not here to complain about women, just here to learn. the "complaints" are really misunderstandings. both genders get frustrated trying to understand the brain of the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:41 AM
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i literally don't care what unattractive women do. i am not upset about it. i do not care. everyone is a human and i have empathy for all people, so i'm definitely not sitting here thinking what ugly women are doing, i'm sitting here thinking how to get/keep a cute one LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:40 AM
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we are primates. we share 99.8% of our DNA with chimps and bonobos. look at primate mating in the wild. human society is exactly that with just extra steps. women's behavior makes A LOT more sense when you study some primatology. good luck, continue to open your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:38 AM
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and those men must be very masculine in order to retain that attraction. women are attracted to one thing. you think you are all different but you are all relatively similar, in terms of what you are attracted to. you describe your emotions terribly so we had to teach ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:36 AM
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a lot of women will put up with this if he is extremely masculine. masculinity trumps all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:34 AM
1

people truly living the leadership version of red pill are not going to waste their time preaching to every incel and simp. only reason to do that would be to make money on social media. it's only the loudest and most obnoxious and extreme red pillers who get views. there are SO many other men that are quietly waking up. any time i go outside, if a group conversation starts and no women are present, inevitably the topic of women comes up and a lot of red pill concepts are discussed, whether in n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:31 AM
2

men are hypergamous sexually, women are hypergamous for resources. i'm not mad women are hypergamous, just trying to adapt to a reality i was not taught.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:23 AM
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i don't care if i push away women who will disrespect me eventually anyways. i only need to attract one respectful feminine woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:22 AM
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why do you think red pill is getting so popular ? it's not because it doesn't work. women are attracted to masculinity, even if they say they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:21 AM
7

this is so real...preselection is king but most women cannot admit this to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:03 PM
5

this somehow hqppened inside of my marriage to my ex wife. i didn't even know that was possible. wife just thought i was hot but didn't give a fuck about my emotions or reputation or anything...she was a weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:54 PM
1

hahaha fair enough. your policy makes some sense.
/r/seduction27/05/25 02:50 AM
1

have never met in person, this is extreme long distance and would require visas etc. just stuff i don't time or money for right now. probably shouldn't be in a relationship at all but we care about each other.
/r/seduction26/05/25 06:10 PM
2

yea that's kinda what is happening, hence my conflict and confusion...life is strange
/r/seduction26/05/25 06:09 PM
5

much respect and congrats on your hard work. i'm very torn between wanting an international playboy lifestyle and an international marriage. very confused. i don't want to work that hard for it. i found a girl that likes me (long distance) and i'll just jerk off in the mean time LOL i like sex and want it but i hate the feeling if needing to convince someone. even my current relationship, she is very religious and wants to wait for marriage. i just really can't trust that. so afraid of a dead be…
/r/seduction26/05/25 03:50 PM
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you think there was no one harming anyone in an indigenous culture ??? what do you think it was the Garden of Eden ??? LOL there has been war since before written history dude, the complexity of human epiginetic trauma is not limited to asshole white people colonizing the world. you are vastly oversimplifying history to sound like white people's actions matter more than the rest of history before colonization. that is total bullshit. that makes no sense. i'm done.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:26 PM
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no you didn't. you defined women wanting resources and claiming it's due to ice age conditions. that's bullshit. there's still been wars all over the world way before colonization. in the vast majority of those, women were not fighting. women need male security in all cultures. it is not just western. you defined nothing but your own hair brained theory. your argument would be more sound if you dropped the white supremacist schtick. has nothing to do with anything you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:20 PM
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i know the definition of colonization. you are arguing that the effects of colonization over-wrote the evolutionary psychology of each culture to all be western. that is utter bullshit. you couldn't even define a "western mindset" if you tried. Western mindset is just code for white supremacy. There's nothing better about western thinking, it's not even definable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:15 PM
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so you're only speaking to the white women in the audience ? makes no sense. you cannot cast a wide net and just say "ancient african cultures". that is so hand wavy it's insane. every culture is different but women are always going to look to men for security. we're physically stronger. financial security is an aspect of that. "western civilization" is not necessary for your argument. no matter where you go there's wild animals, wars, and other scary stuff. women look to men for security in all…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:06 PM
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LOL y'all even have a nickname for broke men "brokies" so obviously this is common
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:03 PM
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this has nothing to do with Europe. stop being racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:00 PM
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Idk why you had to make this about "western civilization" that's some fucking racist bullshit. mating across time and space is pretty similar. the desert of the Middle East is just as harsh as the cold of Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:59 PM
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yea people don't know the inner dynamics of each relationship, they just make assumptions based off of appearances
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:51 PM
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Thank you for this stat, very interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:19 PM
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don't deal with any woman putting you down ever, not consistently. you're on the right path, get outta there.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/25 12:27 PM
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preach!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:52 AM
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oh shit deep cut, that's real
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:52 AM
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who is lusting over Lizzo ??? never heard this in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:51 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:50 AM
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hoemath is so fire 🔥 he's literally solved this entire subreddit already with math and graphs and models, it's amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:49 AM
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women do not put in "a lot of effort" to look their max. "a lot of effort" would be going to the gym. if a woman is overweight but doing all of these other things to present herself "better", she is putting in some effort, but she is not putting in "a lot of effort".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:47 AM
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there is nothing political about this LOL calm down Trumper. the main people shaming hookers and porn are Christians, who are largely right wing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:44 AM
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that just sounds like sexism in the workplace makeup and suits look better to women. men do not care about these things. makeup might cover dark circles under your eyes or draw attention to certain features but it does not make you hotter and it is only temporary anyways. men would rather you put effort into aspects of your attractiveness that are more permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:40 AM
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no man cares if you have a blemish or pimple on your face. this is not important to us even remotely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:37 AM
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exactly. has nothing to do with putting crap on your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:33 AM
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NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:32 AM
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real talk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:30 AM
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the locker room is one of the last places that men's sexual fantasies are discussed with one another...idk where the phrase "locker room talk" came from originally but it was popularized somewhat recently after the Trump "grab her by the pussy" audio leak and used as an excuse for him. we're in a debate about relationships. are sexual details off the table ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:29 AM
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it's really not enhancing anything by much. you gotta take all that stuff off eventually. too much "enhancement" and you're really just creating false expectations in others and insecurities within yourself. women tell every other woman they are attractive even when they know they are not. it is just a subconscious mating strategy that they evolved over time. gives them a better chance. we all remember being kids when one girl would cut her hair "too short". all the girls would fawn over her new…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:06 AM
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maybe i am a rarity amongst men, but i doubt it. we don't give a fuck about any of that shit. do some outfits look better than others, sure. can makeup or other self care enhance a woman's looks ? sometimes. but overall it is the structure of your face, the composition of your muscle/fat, and the shape and size of your body, obviously mainly boobs and butts LOL you can "put lipstick on a pig" so to speak, but being "put together" is not what men are attracted to. maybe women are attracted to tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:55 AM
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it's always been that way and we're not all inbred yet 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:54 PM
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real talk, even without having kids, very reluctant to get married again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:52 PM
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that's awesome you're open minded. this references the other double standard. it's cool for women to have sex toys but any guy who has them is a creep 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:37 AM
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Seems like smut could also give women unrealistic expectations about relationships. I found it fascinating that so many middle aged women in dead bedroom relationships who were obsessed with "50 Shades of Grey" when the book came out. There's definitely some miscommunication happening as far as expectations between men and women right now. It does seem like a lot of men are addicted to porn and have erectile dysfunction with an IRL woman. I can see how this would hurt a woman in a relationship. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:30 AM
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you're so young. this relationships is probably not important. it seems to be right now. when you're older you'll look back on this differently. just don't get pregnant by a person you don't want to spend your life with. have fun and be safe.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 03:57 AM
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everyone wants to fuck you. it's not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:29 AM
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prioritizing others is only masculine if you first take care of yourself. prioritizing others while not taking care of yourself is moreso feminine. i know because i am a man who was raised with 3 sisters and made this mistake time and time again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:18 AM
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def avoiding the question because she doesn't have a good answer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:13 AM
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there are plenty of extremely conservative and racist subreddits. you can't just blame the left for censorship. happens on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:11 PM
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i think censorship happens on both political sides. can't just blame "the left" or "wokies" as you say, for that. i don't think any existing political ideology is helping people stop being subservient to oligarch billionaires, or to live happier lives. so i'm not going to vilify other people and blame them when in reality all politicians are the same. they just want money and power.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:10 PM
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wow i had no idea it got banned. weird. i was really just using it to make a point LOL. we need to mass exodus from Reddit soon, it's getting ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:22 PM
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r/PassportBros
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:14 AM
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you're referencing the hoe_math channel on youtube
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:58 PM
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yea BMI is bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:33 AM
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i specifically said that i don't enjoy bdsm
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 07:57 AM
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if you're not a man, you definitely don't know how we think. when a woman shares her body with me i am extremely greatful. maybe it's an ego boost in the sense of feeling happy and proud of myself that i was worthy of her sharing herself with me, but that's about it. i think some women do enjoy being degraded during sex, because of shame they might feel due to societal expectations and the degradation is a way of releasing that shame. but it's not something i'm into. i've had women who wanted me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:35 AM
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best answer in this thread 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:27 PM
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sex would validate a virgin with low confidence. it doesn't validate a person who has experience. it just feels good and is also a way of bonding and showing affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:22 PM
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women who are "sluts" (which is a term i don't use because i don't believe in shaming people for sex) are actually the most giving and caring people. they enjoy pleasing men. women who are chaste often do use sex for the purpose of manipulation. they are used to not having sex so they can withold it more easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:08 PM
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yea i feel the "i want a son so i can be a better father to him than my father was to me" vibes sometimes for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:50 PM
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there can be AND, it doesn't have to be OR. evolution has selected for all of these traits. baby rabies is real. you may not want children but innately and biologically most women do. if you don't agree, that's fine, but you're using a lot of time and explanation to make very little sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:15 PM
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baby rabies is real. not here to prove it. continue to believe what you wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:10 PM
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my sisters are not religious. it's just a hormonal thing. your body has less eggs and knows it and starts to freak out. doesn't happen to everyone but this is pretty much a documented thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 09:37 AM
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wouldn't part of birthing more and reproducing more be wanting and desiring that ? i don't see how you think humanity only evolved to care for children but not to desire them when we don't have them. i'm lost on what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 09:36 AM
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yea i don't subscribe to any social myths per se, every human is different. but i have 3 younger sisters and i have seen the drastic change in their behavior once they got older. they went from relationships being casual to wanting to know if a man was ready to have children on a first date. the change was that drastic for them. to each their own, of course. i disagree with you completely about human's evolution throughout time. Desiring children as a woman or a man, human curiosity (which leads…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:37 PM
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idk how old you are, but "baby rabies" is definitely a thing for some women when they hit a certain age. women in their early thirties without children sometimes form a strong desire to have one (even if they don't actuallt want to go through with it). humans definitely have some existing biological/hormonal drives to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:09 PM
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never seen the joke with the Wive Store addition. so funny and so true 😂
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/25 08:11 PM
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appreciate everything you're saying. totally agree. even healing our traumas is its own type of internal intelligence, self knowledge, which takes a lot of hard work to create and which i very much respect in any individual that makes that sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:06 PM
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Love this. Enlightenment means cycling throught many ego deaths and many relationships in one lifetime. Keep going bro :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:00 AM
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i agree with everything you said if the goal is to get an academically intelligent woman. but you're self-selecting for intelligent women. most women are dumb which is where your points get lost and they don't apply to these women. those women are just looking for charisma, looks, and security. they don't care about interesting, because they have shallow interests themselves. entertaining is enough for them. also politics is not an interest. politics is an opiate of the masses. everyone has poli…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:25 AM
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yea the biggest assumption in OP's post is that women value intelligence. it takes an intelligent woman to value intelligence. there are a lot of women (and men) out there that are as dumb as a box of rocks and those women, who may be kind people and good partners in their own way, are definitely not requiring all of these interesting qualities. they are just choosing based on looks and money primarily. i've had to find a balance. i enjoy a woman that is intelligent. However, due to the sexism i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:12 AM
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not observing through dating apps, just blamingthem for this phenomenon. you talked about women learning to be more careful who they sleep with as they get older but the pattern seems to be shifting imo. i think situationships happen when a woman chooses a man that she is attracted to but who does not take her seriously and she thinks that she can convince him through sex and other means to start a serious relationship... i agree every woman is very different. just speaking to what i have seen a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 11:00 PM
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i agree with you on the age. maybe in my head middle age meant 35-40 but i agree with you totally on that. especially with the dating apps, i am seeing more and more women of older and older ages continuing to have "situationships" where they are giving sex to someone who has not made a commitment to them. it seems to me that it is taking women longer to learn the lesson than it did in the past. that is just what i have observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:31 PM
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i appreciate your points. it's interesting to hear the perspective of someone from a different place. when i say utility, i am including physical attraction definitely. i just think love and physical attraction are the same thing, at least for men. maybe for women, love includes the ability to provide as well. but i have never experienced a true and undying love based on nothing but just the person i am. when i don't have money, no one "loves" me. when a woman lets her looks go, it is hard for h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:24 PM
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a child is often a projection of dreams deferred or a retirement plan. love is not real. definitely not true love. we care about (love) the people who are beneficial to us. it's all utilitarian at the end of the day. women often "love" men who do not love them back because their biology tells them to go for the man with the most evolutionary fitness (scarcity). men who make themselves readily available are not displaying fitness, they do not seem scarce and so women often ignore valuable options…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:10 PM
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you're oversimplifying. a good marriage would have both partners benefit. a good single life would have considered all options and still decided that. this often does not happen and so people try to prepare and avoid a toxic partner that is a user or single women who are bitter because they actually don't really want to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:28 AM
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any adult who gets "strung along" it is their own fault, their own low standards
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:23 AM
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it's not an ideology. it's just a path to realization of the reality of men and women's true nature. women do not live in reality. that is why they can be turned on by romance novels that are unrealistic. that is why a guy can sleep with them if he has the gift of gab and convinces them of "his story" even when it is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:17 AM
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I think women have their own struggles that are very different from men, but in terms of capitalism, women do benefit more. They can use their sex appeal to get money. Men have to earn money through skill and practice alone. Men are mainly motivated by sex. We see marriage as a way to lock in consistent sex with a person we enjoy and care about. Our sexual market value peaks in middle age because this is when our looks and income balance out to be most desirable. It takes time for us to build we…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:16 AM
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i think you're missing the point that these women "doing what they like" has been manipulated by corporations to work more for the company than for their own happiness. i personally don't see it as a "progressive" issue, i think more freedom for women is good. i just think this freedom came without education about the biologial and sociological nature of family and dating and mating. the truth got lost in the sauce of "career".
/r/MensRights04/12/24 10:42 AM
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i would like to see these numbers. i agree with some things you are saying but i am doubtful white men are only 11% in colleges/universities in California. that number sounds too low.
/r/MensRights04/12/24 10:33 AM
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i don't think it's good to yell at people period. i can't tell if you're joking or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:08 PM
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i don't think it's good to yell at people period. i can't tell if you're joking or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:08 PM
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i think being 100% honest with women is the most "alpha" thing you can do. it's about not being afraid to lose her and living in your truth instead of trying to mold your truth to placate her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:17 PM
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it's just unfortunate becauase it seems like too much predictability can lead to a loss of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:10 PM
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no you're completely accurate, lived in LA for awhile
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:08 PM
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this is the best explanation here !!! needs to be seen by all !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:59 PM
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what is the channel ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:44 PM
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i understand, it's frustrating to be doubted. i think this reply you've given is a more detailed context and can help these horny dudes on reddit with no self control understand what was going on in your head. still seems like you if only want to be friends, why would it matter who pays for lunch ? most of the times friendship is about trust and reciprocity. maybe you didn't have that trust in her because it has been so long. understandable. it's unfortunate your intentions and hers were mismatc…
/r/PussyPassDenied12/09/24 09:51 AM
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you already have a "friendship" if she was willing to go to lunch. what was your goal with the friendship ? it doesn't have to be ulterior. each friendship has a purpose. it could be "i play soccer with these guys". it could be "this is the person who i like to discuss physics with". anything. having a goal and something being beneficial to you and your happiness does not make it manipulation. we all get something out of all of our friendships or we would not maintain them. i'm trying to underst…
/r/PussyPassDenied12/09/24 09:27 AM
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"friendship" is not a goal. what did you want to get out of this friendship with a married ex from 20 years ago ? i'm not even talking about forgiveness. i'm talking about attraction. she was trying to set up an affair with you. that's all she wants. she does not want friendship.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/09/24 09:03 AM
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she has always seen you the same way. even before you first dated. to cause an issue on your anniversary, she did not care about you, only herself. platonic friendship with a woman means she is not fully attracted to you. you chased her from friend zone to girlfriend and now you're back in the friend zone. we all have made these mistakes. no shade to you, but she is a pretty much a two-bit whore for even meeting you for lunch when she's married (no way she told her husband, and it sounds like yo…
/r/PussyPassDenied12/09/24 03:17 AM
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oh totally. i would say it in a different way, that people are entitled to the boundaries they set and enforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:19 PM
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why do you believe people are entitled to love ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:15 AM
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BARS 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:13 AM
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i get ya, yea, depends how far people go with it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 01:13 AM
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i have seen girls stalk the fuck out of a guy they are very attracted to, they just do it more discretely or outright lie about it. not saying every woman does this, but it is definitely common. every single girlfriend i have ever had eventually admitted that they were essentially stalking me, in real life and on social media until they could get into a relationship with me 😅 creepiness is just proxy for unattractiveness. a guy you are very attracted to could do the same things and it would be p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:18 AM
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i wonder if you have this relationship because you're a very honest person. most people hide what they're into. if you're open about it, that filters out the people who you would need to lie to, leaving only the awesome nonjudgmental people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:24 AM
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Exact definition of a celebrity. Incredibly common amongst most "normal" people. I would love my woman to be my biggest fan. Women want a guy that doesn't want them. They're attracted to indifference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:16 AM
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great insights. thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:46 AM
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I agree with everything you're saying. That being said, while knowing these things to be true, i struggle to follow the strategy. I know how to create sexual tension but it's frustrating to have to CONSTANTLY maintain it. my strategy is more to just be myself, no matter how obnoxious or affectionate or cutesy...lose out on a lot of women but the ones i do find are all the way down because they need to be very physically attracted to me for my way of being to not turn them off. i have 3 sisters. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:45 AM
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are you in a relationship or are you single ? just wondering for context
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:37 AM
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i grew up in a family that showed very little physical affection (lots of verbal encouragement though). there was also physical abuse at times. i have some of these weird jealousies like your ex. still working on myself but also want to find someone who thinks like i do (in a healthy way). i think as a kid growing up in that environment, i didn't learn much about platonic affection. Like other nonimmediate family members would try to kiss my cheek and i just didn't know what to do. Still don't. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:31 AM
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that description sounds so nice. happy for you two 🙂 i hope to experience this one day in a secure relationship where i have no fear of being judged. so hard to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:22 AM
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this is the worst thing ever. please change your mind. men suffer so much because of this mindset. i should be able to tell my wife every day she's beautiful. why would it lose meaning ? i thought so yesterday. of course i think so today. we can't win.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:19 AM
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do women really care about a man's skin ? i haven't had bad skin since i was going through puberty ...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:56 PM
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i actually feel more sane the less i see each person as an individual and look at human behavior as being very similar. it's disheartening to learn at first but then everything makes so much more sense after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:42 PM
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yes. i've been homeless and spent a lot of time with homeless people. it depends on the status of the homeless woman's life, but if she is young or attractive, she's just one guy away from a better life. who this guy is, that's her standard to choose, but i've seen it happen, over and over. men will take in a homeless woman and try to make her a wife. this has also happened with me in the reverse when i was homeless but i also had money at the time. these women had nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:42 PM
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no level of violence would teach this kind of person to change. hope you're never in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:35 PM
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i appreciate you sharing your experience. helps me to understand more what some women are going through. wishing you well as you adjust to your new hormonal balance :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:39 PM
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if you hate people, it's really projected self-hatred. work on loving yourself more and you'll feel differently towards others. we usually dislike traits in others that we also have ourselves, even to a small degree. it's why people who are very similar sometimes become enemies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:59 PM
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Good analogy, for sure. That being said, i do not think it is fully accurate and i do not think it is more difficult to be mixed race than being a dark-skinned black person. There may be ridicule from both sides for a mixed person and that is it's own trauma but i am a dark black guy that's educated and speaks well and so i still suffered the same ridicule from both white and black people, while dealing with more racism and colorism than a mixed person.
/r/MensRights30/05/24 01:29 AM
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I wonder why the bisexual women are being treated the worst ? Super interesting statistics. Thanks for sharing.
/r/MensRights29/05/24 06:29 AM
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makes sense. thanks for the thorough explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:21 PM
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really ? i am surprised by this. how did you find this out ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:48 AM
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Thanks for sharing how you think about this. Interesting to learn. I respect that you want to be a credit to your partner as well as yourself. I have had quite a few partners in the past be very focused on outshining me instead of shining together. Or being morally "better" than me. I realize this was insecurity on their part, but I am still working to not let these experiences cause me to have a sexist view that most women are that way. Your response is definitely a reminder that my assumptions…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:26 AM
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So, i'm curious, for you personally, with all of the preparation of your appearance that you're doing for the wedding, what 4 percentages out of 100 is it for yourself, your partner, other men, or other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:58 AM
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