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| 1 | Verifying and boosting your dating profile would actually help.In real life, this can make a difference if I already know the men and like his personality, humour and intelligence can definitely eroticise the body of an average-looking guy. On Tinder, as a girl if you just post pictures where you're slightly sexy, you get lots of matches because men are so shallow that it's enough to turn them on. And generally, you find a guy that has both nice pics and a great funny profile. Guys who aren't very attractive but have a great personality just shouldn't use T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Verifying and boosting your dating profile would actually help.Yeah I agree it is not fair to ask men but not women to pay. As a socialist / social democrat, I think that the european countries that worry about the very low birth rates should create ENTIRELY FREE state-owned dating apps and websites that are strongly feminist and protect women from assaults and harassment. They should also encourage the participants to not only post pictures but to also reveal their personalities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Verifying and boosting your dating profile would actually help.As an almost 29-years-old woman hoping to find something serious that could potentially lead to a loving family, I tend to avoid Tinder as the likelihood of just finding a guy who wants a hook-up or a potential agressor is way too big. Yeah, Tinder is almost entirely based on looks and that disadvantages average men because in order to be turned on, the average woman must also like the personality of the guy, hot pictures ALONE just look cheap to most women. Both men and women are visual and loo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 09:11 PM |
| 0 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymMOST OF THE TIME, I just don't do it for male attention. If it's hot outdoors, I'm naturally gonna wear an outfit that shows skin, even if there are mostly women at the gym and all men are old and unattractive. So if you see a woman who wears revealing clothes, you've no way to know whether she does it to please potential partners, maybe yes , maybe no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 07:04 AM |
| 0 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymNo, this happened some time ago and the man wasn't attractive to me and your attempt to hurt me by being gross spectacularly failed ;-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 07:00 AM |
| 0 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the Gym"I've told my friends about men wearing "slutty shorts" at the gym. but i genuinely never thought people in the gym dress for others. i thought it was to admire your own body, the results of your hard work." Most of the time yes, but to be realist, it also happens from time to time that a woman or a man that is looking for a partner might try to look sexy, as in the case of the man I mentioned in the OP. Sometimes, I do it as well but only if it is a fitness studio where we also socialise and ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 06:57 AM |
| 0 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymThat's an utterly non-sensical statement given everything I've written. When I am sexily dressed for any reason and I get compliments from guys I don't feel drawn to but who RESPECT me as a person and take a "no" for a "no", I like it as it is flattering and ego-boosting to feel desired. (And many of my MALE aquaintances too like to have their ego boosted in this way) It isn't women but you who are the moral hypocrite here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 06:49 AM |
| 1 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymOnce again, RESPECTFUL looks or compliments aren't the problem... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 06:35 AM |
| 0 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymSOME women certainly do. But at least where I live, they're far from being the majority. And often times, these women have gone through the ordeal of being truly sexually harassed or even assaulted. As a defence mechanism, they're now warry of any male stranger who seems to be sexually interested in them. It's an overreaction but an understable one. If we lived in a world where sexual assaults and harassment are extremely rare, most straight women might definitely appreciate the feeling of being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 06:34 AM |
| 1 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymI see these sexy gym clothes in the same way as I see thong-bikinis: right at the beginning, it had definitely some sexual connotation but nowadays, it has just become fashionable and many women would wear a thong-bikini because it looks fashionable and not because they wanna be hit on by men. Of course, it may also happen that the girl decides to wear one because she finds several male acquaintances or friends potentially interesting but without knowing her, you've no way to know. (And my male … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 06:11 AM |
| 0 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymMOST OF THE TIME, I don't choose to wear the clothes I wear at a fitness studio to impress guys. It's only in very specific circumstances (I'm single and there are interesting guys) that I may choose to wear something more "sexy", for the same reasons that the man I mentioned dressed in a more sexy way after having broken up with his girlfriend. So, most of the time people (men and women) do not dress to impress the gender they're attracted to, it only happens from time to time. If you just see … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 05:11 AM |
| 0 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymAnd I'm not against that at all. My only points is that if a woman goes to a mixed-gender fitness studio, she ought to be respected by men regardless of how she's dressed and why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 05:04 PM |
| 0 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymNo, I (and all my female friends) would never insult a respectful man we don't fancy who makes us compliments, but in general in most European countries it's not appropriate to do that if the woman is a total stranger to you (this may be okay in other parts of the world). I think that staring at someone is a lack of respect but I don't want the state to criminalise this, as we'd need to build a hundred times more prisons at least, lol ;-) No, what I'd like is for men to become respectful of wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 05:00 PM |
| -1 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymNo, staring is never a sign that you respect him or her as a person. If I find a guy whose personality I like hot, I may gaze at him but not stare at him, that's unhealthy and disrespectful. If a male stranger "approaches" me and tells me: "Hey, you look hot, would you like to drink something with me?", I wouldn't first see that as sexual harassment but I'd tell him he's extremely unsophisticated and ridiculous and that he isn't gonna impress any woman. If he insists after that, he's definitely … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 11:44 AM |
| -1 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymHe only left AFTER I screamed because other folks were alerted to the situation. Apparently, your male priveleges hinder you from realising that almost every woman in such a situation would see his behaviour as a big threat for her safety, especially if she'd been alone with him in some corner of the building, which luckily wasn't my case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 11:20 AM |
| 2 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymYeah and that was the whole point of my post, neither men nor women should be shamed for how they dress, even when they do it with the intention of flirting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 11:13 AM |
| -3 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the Gym"everything for what women are being called out" by misogonistic jerks who use double standards and will slut-shame women for behaviours many men have in fitness studios. Dressing sexily in order to increase one's chances of finding a good partner is something done by BOTH men and women and it isn't something anyone should feel ashamed of. However, most of the time, men and women in a fitness studio don't dress to find a mate and to be sexually attractive. Is that truly so hard to grasp for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 11:11 AM |
| 0 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymIt didn't happen at the gym but at a party, I was just using this as an example to argue that you're terribly wrong when you say that only physical sexual harassment is bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 11:07 AM |
| -4 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymAnd that's a ridiculous strawman. I find it pleasant to get compliments from respectful guys I don't find attactive if I know that they take a "no" for a "no". Most women do. Egalitarian average-looking men who see women as their equal may feel a strong desire while seeing a scantily clad woman but they totally accept and understand she's more likely to be interested in other more attractive men. I've been overweight since the end of Covid and I understand that most guys who look sexy will prefe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 11:01 AM |
| 0 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the Gym"As long as you aren't physically harassed what's the issue" Psychological sexual harassment is horrible too, I once had a guy who told me that if I choose to dress sexily, it's unfair for me to turn him down so quickly and that I ought to give him a chance because he can't help but desire me. I had to scream in order to make him go away, and I could no longer stay at the party after that. In the next days and even weeks, I felt TRAUMATISED. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 10:57 AM |
| 1 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymOr there is an urgent need to teach men how to always respect women as human beings even when they find them attractive and sexy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 10:52 AM |
| 0 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymAnd if you don't slut-shame women in the gym, that's okay for me, my points target the male slut-shamers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 10:51 AM |
| 0 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymYeah but I hope everyone realises that my post was second degree ;-) Of course, I don't wanna shame men that look sexy, even when they do it on purpose to be more attractive to potential partners. And I don't want men to shame me for looking sexy, even when I do it on purpose to be more attractive to potential partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Why women date upwards, its ties to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis and evolution"Even MEN with means are going to prefer partners who make HIS hypothetical offpsring's life potentially better, I think. It is why MEN tend to prefer WOMEN who have ambition rather than some GIRL who is just a nice slacker." I believe this works as well if I consider my wishes and that of my girl friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 06:55 AM |
| -8 | Italy wants to pass from Gender-Neutral DV Legislation to "Male Violence against Women"No, "gender-based violence" is violence where one's gender plays a big role in being victimised. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/26 06:00 AM |
| -15 | Italy wants to pass from Gender-Neutral DV Legislation to "Male Violence against Women"Well that's a perfect example of how the toxic anti-wokeness of the far-right can backfire against men! I agree to keep it gender-neutral, however we must keep in mind that almost all victims of GENDER-BASED violence are women, a small proportion of men are victims of DOMESTIC violence, but we have no grounds for thinking that their female partners were violent because they despised men. So it'd be better to rename it into a "domestic violence" bill. (I'm likely gonna be hated because of this co… | /r/MensRights | 18/07/26 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Why women date upwards, its ties to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis and evolutionHow do you define "masculine"? All things being equal, I prefer taller and more muscular men and this may be related to evolution, although there are also quite a few women for whom this isn't important and men who have fantasies involving physically stronger women. What I doubt is that evolution hardwired the average woman to UNCONSCIOUSLY prefer to date a man with more money, it was rather a conscious decision made under circumstances where women were so oppressed that they couldn't hope to ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Why women date upwards, its ties to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis and evolutionA very dumb guy who's deluded enough to think that if he has a girlfriend, she'll think he's the only man ON PLANET EARTH who could bring her joice, lol. The alternative (the girlfriend / wife enjoys the relationship but knows she'd have other options if this doesn't work out) is scary for many men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 05:55 AM |
| 4 | Why women date upwards, its ties to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis and evolutionThe mere fact that females in other primate species are hypergamous whereas men aren't does not NECESSARILY mean that holds in the human species. If you define hypergamy as "often wanting to be with a partner more attractive to you", then I believe that MEN AND WOMEN ALIKE are hypergamous but that men have much less opportunities than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Why women date upwards, its ties to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis and evolutionLuckily enough, AI isn't yet good enough to imitate normal human interactions, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 08:59 PM |
| 5 | Why women date upwards, its ties to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis and evolutionDo these evolutionary trends unconsiously influence the behaviour of modern women like myself who have a well-paid and highly regarded job? I just don't see the point of being with a guy who earn more money than I, I'm not money-hungry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Why women date upwards, its ties to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis and evolutionAre you a bot? I'm asking that because I answered to a very similar comment you posted an hour ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 08:40 PM |
| 5 | Why women date upwards, its ties to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis and evolutionYes, I have no doubt we can very well account for the fact that most women are drawn to men through the theory of evolution. However, we don't have good grounds for thinking that women are BIOLOGICALLY hypergamous whereas men are not in the human species, this is a much more tenuous conclusion. I'd argue that the only evolved psychological difference between the average man and the average woman is that the average woman is unlikely to sexually desire an average man based on his naked body witho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Why women date upwards, its ties to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis and evolutionOkay but does that mean that you never "interact" with men professionally and that you purposefully avoid developping a friendship with another guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Why women date upwards, its ties to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis and evolutionWell I'm not married and I currently don't have a boyfriend. I agree that right at the beginning, I'll forget the existence of other guys, but I consider it unlikely this feeling will stay forever in a marriage. I also think it's rationally wrong to think that your current boyfriend/husband is the only man who could make you happy. Of, course it'd often be senseless to tell him that, but I think we're deluding ourselves if we think otherwise. Keeping that in mind makes me less likely to stay in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Why women date upwards, its ties to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis and evolutionAnd I totally respect the fact this is the way you're personally wired. However, I think that you'll likely sooner or later also feel sexually drawn to another guy. In that case, would you consider this means you can no longer stay with your current man? I'm not judging you, if that's the way you're wired, that's fine for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 07:08 PM |
| 1 | When is it fair to say "you should have chosen better"?This doesn't make sense to you because you likely were never maltreated by a malignant narcisstic person (man or woman). If you had been, you'd know that they absolutely know how to make someone fall in love with them and throw away the rational part of their brain. AT THE BEGINNING, they never treat you like shit, they make you think you're special, that you're not like the others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Why women date upwards, its ties to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis and evolutionMaybe for you. In my case, since I don't like polyamory for myself and my partner, I may very well stay with a man even if I know I might also have been as happy with some other guy with the right qualities. And he may often feel the same way about me. What matters to me is that we are mutually fulfilled by our relationship. If you get married with your current boyfriend, and if several years later you begin to realise that other guys are sexually attractive to you, what would you do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 06:58 PM |
| 5 | Why women date upwards, its ties to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis and evolutionThe conclusions drawn by evolutionary psychologists remain pretty speculative as our knowledge of the mating psychology of our ancestor remain pretty limited. It's problematic to say that our psychology must be very close to chimps given that unlike chimps, we know that human fathers can take care of babies as well as human mothers. I'm not denying there might be biologically conditionned psychological differences between the genders but we don't have good grounds for thinking they significantly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 06:51 PM |
| 3 | When is it fair to say "you should have chosen better"?If there are clear signs that a man has a predatory behaviour, I agree this was a bad choice. At the same time, predators are also very good at manipulating their victims and we must beware of victim blaming. What I'd tell her is that in the future, she ought to be much more distrustful of men unless they have clearly shown themselves to be trustworthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 06:42 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill Will Never Have Good Prescriptions Because Its Historical Claims About Gender Are Wrong.If you talk about men seeking One-Night-Stands, you're right that it is physical attraction that totally prevails, however the gaps with women seeking an ONS isn't that big. When it comes to relationships, I know lots of male friends for whom the confidence but also CAREER of the woman play a huge role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 04:19 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill Will Never Have Good Prescriptions Because Its Historical Claims About Gender Are Wrong.Is there truly a gender imbalance, though? There are also lots of GUYS I know who like WOMEN who are "good looking, confident, and take initiative". I've been rather fat since the end of Covid, I'm not ugly but not very good-looking either, I suffer from anxiety disorders so I'm not confident and I am often undecided as a result of my ADHD symptoms. There are certainly men who like me and I'm not complaining about my fate at all. Nevertheless, many guys tend to friendzone me and they prefer attr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 03:23 PM |
| 0 | Modern dating is becoming more difficult because men and women are becoming increasingly ideologically dividedIn my country, France we don't see such a strong divide between men and women when it comes to politics and ideology. In my opinion, the main reason is that the far-right spreads hatred against Blacks, Arabs and Muslims but not against white cis-women like myself. They don't intend to repel abortion or voting rights. Otherwise, if I lived in America it's pretty clear I wouldn't want to date a Conservative man who wants me to be his handmaid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsAs a girl, you quickly learn to recognise when a man doesn't care about your personality, ideas and wishes and only sees you as a body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsIf this female non-relative of theirs gets a bit fat, many of them quickly learn to see her in a non-sexual way, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsAnd I don't deny there are folks like him! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsNo, that's totally wrong. I've been fat since the end of Covid, and while there are still guys interested in me, there are many I find interesting who quickly friendzone me and see me as an interesting conversation partner but not as any kind of girlfriend material" or ONS. These men are clearly able to separate me as a person from their sexuality and they treat me as if I were one of their male buddies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsIf a woman hears your talking about "banging" a "hoe", she's very unlikely to be interested in you even if she doesn't seek any kind of long-term relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 07:52 PM |
| 0 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsMaybe, in your part of the world men aren't entitled enough to loudly speak about women in a demeaning and sexual way and have to be more discrete. But you strongly lack imaginative skills if you think this is impossible, especially when they're drunk. As I was a PhD student, I even heard male students having this kind of dicussion in front of the coffee machine, they were negatively talking about the body and revealing clothes of one of their female colleagues who left a party with a guy she ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsThat's a good question. I personally think that porn is disempowering when it REDUCES women to their bodies and erases their personality. However, if you're a female influencer in a male-dominated field, it can be quite empowering to dress sexily so as to get lots of male followers, if they aren't sexually frustrated incel, they'll enjoy watching a hot girl talking about a topic that interests them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 05:10 PM |
| 0 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsYeah my brother once told me: "I really think that if I were a girl, I'd dress even more sexily than you do and be more flirty", his autistic awkwardness makes him hard for him to find a girl who'd want to sleep with him, it's very frustrating for him but he doesn't resent the women who reject him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 05:03 PM |
| 0 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsOf course, I absolutely don't think that men in general are like this, my younger brother who struggles with relationships watches porn but he doesn't slut-shame women who dress sexily. Otherwise, there are some red-pill men who're fundamentalist Christians who condemn porn and try not to watch it and they aren't hypocritical. But a very large number of them online both like porn and slut-shame women. That is what my OP is all about, as for your not caring about these men being moral hypocrites,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 04:58 PM |
| 6 | AI is now banned and also join our discord come argue with incels, misogynists and misandristsI'm against AI bots too but what about folks whose mother tongue isn't English and who may use these tools to correct their texts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 04:35 PM |
| 0 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating apps"Some days later" is a figure of speech meant to emphasise the fact that the very same men who are vocal about their porn use are also extremely critical of women who freely live out their sexuality and use their sex appeal. English isn't my mother tongue, though. If you're firmly determined to disbelieve someone's experiences because that disconfirms your worldview, nothing I'm gonna say can convince you, that's called confirmation bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 04:27 PM |
| 0 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsI'm 28-years old and the red-pillers I'm talking about are around my age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 04:14 PM |
| -2 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsThat's what male privileges do, as a white woman, I used to find it incredible to hear my black and Arab friends talk about their discriminatory experiences and thought they were exagerrating or perhaps even making stuff up. And then I began to listen to them and realised that they were telling me the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:57 PM |
| -3 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsDo you think that there are certain things (such as rape) that men SHOULD NOT do? It seems to me you're of the opinion that men aren't moral agents who should be accountable. That's a very low view of men, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:45 PM |
| 0 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsTo be fair to them, I've been fat and "nearly" obese ever since the end of covid and they do both slut-shame and fat-shame me if I wear a miniskirt, but only AFTER I turned them down. Many of them would greatly enjoy sleeping with a "fat" girl but since she doesn't find them interesting, they'll try to be hurtful by falsely pretending they find her disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsMy brother is struggling with relationships, he does watch porn but he also told me that if he sees sexy pictures of a girl on a dating profile, he's just gonna enjoy it and finds it perfectly fair the woman may want to attract other guys than him. That's what every guy who doesn't feel entitled to sex should think. Instead, they seek to hurt her and spread rumours about her because they've never learned to accept their sexual frustration. That's what male privileges and toxic masculanity do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:35 PM |
| -1 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsAnd that's quite an arrogant and rude statement that makes it unlikely any woman of value would wanna date you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:26 PM |
| -2 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsIt isn't inconsistent for a woman to show off skin and to want to be desired by guys but not REDUCED to an object. When I go out with friends and acquaintances, it feels good to see men who appreciate my personality also like my wearing a miniskirt and make-up. It becomes totally gross and dehuminasing if a man only sees me as a piece of meat to be quickly consumed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:23 PM |
| 0 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsWell, THESE men aren't very discrete when it comes to that, lol, they talk about porn while everyone can hear them. And several days later, you may hear them saying that a girl ins't "respectable" because of her sexy pictures on her dating app. I honestly don't know any red-pill guy who doesn't like to watch porn, do you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsNope, where I live slut-shaming isn't mostly done by women of my age. At most, what you may hear is that Only Fans and other such apps are exploitative and dehumanising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsSince you know nothing about me, my background and my geographical location, it's quite an outlandish claim to say that the men I'm describing are "just in my head". I think that if you listened more to your female aquaintances, many of them would tell you they experience that kind of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 02:53 PM |
| 0 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsI do believe in 'should' as I think that are some moral values which are objectively binding. Don't be a hypocritical asshole is one of them. There is a big difference between saying: "There is nothing wrong with her being sexy and promiscuous but I wouldn't want to date her" and saying: "She's an evil slut who's destroying Western civilisation" while enjoying porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 02:46 PM |
| – | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsIt's particularly disgusting to see their using pseudo-religious justification, there is an increasing number of young self-proclaimed Christian men who constantly complain about the hyperfeminisation and "whorification" of society but amongst themselves, they grossly talk about their sexual fantasies involving the girls of their age who sit in the pews. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 02:41 PM |
| -4 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsYou're right that those who don't watch porn aren't inconsistent. However, where I live, almost all guys who respouse that ideology are huge consumers of porn made for the male gaze that objectifies women, and the very same men slut-shame girls who put sexy pictures on their dating profiles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsYup! At the same time, it also think that OF and other similar websites that reduce women to their bodies for the male gaze while erasing their personalities are problematic, but that's another debate. Regardless of that, it's just a fact that if a man likes and enjoys watching porn, he should completely support the right of a woman to dress sexily while flirting and accept the fact she may not be into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 02:24 PM |
| 3 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsYeah, you truly hit the nail! It's all about THEIR selfish interests and the fulfillment of THEIR wishes, they absolutely don't give a fuck about the well-being of a woman in a relationship, otherwise they would no longer watch manosphere contents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 02:20 PM |
| 4 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsYeah, there might be expections and nuances, but a very large number of them are sad that they don't live at a time where they could have had female sexual slaves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Unsuccessful men on the dating regard should just accept it and continue with their livesThanks for your answer. I find it good you don't resent women because of that, my brother is like you. There is, of course, nothing wrong with what you've described. However, I don't think that one's having unfulfilled romantic wishes means one is doomed to a life of unhappiness, I know quite a few counter-examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Unsuccessful men on the dating regard should just accept it and continue with their livesIn other words, does your suffering mainly stem from the fact that you badly want to sleep with attractively dressed women who aren't into you? Do you generally resent them for that? I'm not asking that in order to judge you, I'd just like you to be honest about your feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 09:29 PM |
| 5 | Unsuccessful men on the dating regard should just accept it and continue with their livesYou've made a good point about their being "allowed to feel sad, they just shouldn’t feel entitled to women". At the same time, I don't think that failing to find a partner who'll bring you pleasure and joy is a requirement to live a good life, I know plenty of examples of non-asexual people who manage to be happy without a relationship. I've been fat since the end of Covid, I no longer tend to attract the guys that turn me on and it does happen that I fail to find any guy I'd like to sleep with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Unsuccessful men on the dating regard should just accept it and continue with their livesI'm trying to better understand your position. If you had normal friendships with men and women and were able to sleep with girls regularly but in a non-romantic context (e.g. an escort girl who only asks you 20 euros because she pities you), would you feel happy and satisfied? Is your strong need for sex what keeps you from being fulfilled? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 09:11 PM |
| 4 | Unsuccessful men on the dating regard should just accept it and continue with their livesI hope your post won't be removed. I'm a girl and I have an autistic brother who's struggling with relationships, he isn't a virgin but he's sadly unattractive to "normal" women and fails to find any girl he'd be happy with. He luckily doesn't feel entitled to love and sex, and I'm actively helping him make and keep friends. I tell him there is no guarantee we'll be romantically fulfilled but that we're free to ground our happiness in other things. He recently told me he's still sad not to have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Is there a point to dialogue with feminists?If a self-described feminist wants to enslave you, you perhaps shouldn't try to reason with her but that's EXTREMELY rare and I reckon that the few women who think that way are clinically delusional. On the other hand, I know plenty of men who would like to enslave me as a woman and they aren't delusional but just wicked. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/26 06:44 PM |
| 0 | Is there a point to dialogue with feminists?As an egalitarian woman, is there a point for me to discuss with members of the manosphere who think I'm too emotional to vote and that I should give up my career in stem, get married to a man I'm not particularly attracted to and be submitted to him? | /r/MensRights | 12/07/26 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?You need to be much more specific than that and quote a real study alongside the questions being asked. To almost all red-pill men I have talked to, women "hate" them because they don't wanna sleep with them. That's crazy talk, I don't want to sleep with my dad and my younger brother but I don't hate them, lol :-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 06:23 PM |
| 0 | How feminist movement is in real life [meme]"Thank you for acknowledging that men are seen as more disposable than women. Doesn't this contradict your previous statement that "men face less serious problems than women" There are no egalitarian feminists who wanna men to take foolish risks and I know that my younger and easily manipulable autistic brother suffered a lot from the expectation he had to override his inborn sense of caution in order to be seen as a "true guy". I taught him to fuck that and to always trust his self-preservation… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/26 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits Themit'd be great to see the study, however since men cannot be physically forced to have sex with a woman, that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 04:20 AM |
| -59 | How feminist movement is in real life [meme]Those who know me in real life know full well it is ridiculous to say that I hate or despise men as a whole. I do think that, ON AVERAGE, men face less serious problems than women, however an individual man may very well face much more hardship than me in a given situation, and I'd never deny his suffering, and neither would most of my friends who identify as feminists. Otherwise, lots of male-specific problem aren't caused by women but by TOXIC MASCULANITY. There are much more males than female… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/26 08:26 AM |
| 3 | Asking men to support feminism is peak audacity: Feminists in Australia lobbied to have suicidal men insta-flagged as potential woman abusers when they reach out to authorities for helpI think that they're right to feel worried about the possibility that a suicidal man may become abusive, at the same time they also ought to recognise there are lots of suicidal men who only hate themselves and not other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:11 AM |
| 0 | Asking men to support feminism is peak audacity: Feminists in Australia lobbied to have suicidal men insta-flagged as potential woman abusers when they reach out to authorities for helpYes, non-psychotic women kill very few men in comparison to non-psychotic men. However, when it comes to men and women suffering from schizophrenia or a psychotic phase of their depression, I don't think this still holds as your whole socialisation and moral compass no longer or barely play a role if you're suffering from terrible delusions. We have, for instance, examples of psychotic women killing their own children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 04:39 AM |
| 11 | Asking men to support feminism is peak audacity: Feminists in Australia lobbied to have suicidal men insta-flagged as potential woman abusers when they reach out to authorities for helpYes, I was clinically depressed during the stressful time of my PhD, I had got to go to the emergency of a hospital because I could no longer bear the psychosomatic pain, every breath was painful. And they told me to fill out a questionnaire where they not only asked questions related to self-murder but also to my feeling a wish to harm others. This may sound insulting, but it isn't: there is such a thing as a PSYCHOTIC depression where the patient loses track of reality and think that some of h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 08:27 PM |
| 4 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemYeah, I only enjoy the gaze of respectful men who enjoy the sight of the sexy clothes I happen to wear but see me as a person, understand that my sexual pleasure is as important as theirs and take a no for a no. Men who aren't in that category are a potential threat to the safety of a young woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:02 PM |
| 6 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemIn my own personal case, I like feeling attractive and desired by RESPECTFUL men but I hate being reduced to an object. If guys like my humour, intelligence and personality, it feels good to see they also like my miniskirt, even if I'm not interested, so long as they take a no for a no. However, if I see that the guy ONLY likes my miniskirt and see me as an object to be used and then thrown away, that's not only disgusting but also potentially threatening, as men who objectify and dehumanise wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:59 PM |
| 27 | Asking men to support feminism is peak audacity: Feminists in Australia lobbied to have suicidal men insta-flagged as potential woman abusers when they reach out to authorities for helpTo me, the police should have asked this question: "Is he at risk of self-harm or of harming others?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:08 PM |
| 1 | What do you mean by “social skills”?Yes, social media are HORRIBLE for the self-worth feeling of neurodiverse folks such as myself who has ADHD. Even if I do my best, I'm bound to make small mistakes other people wouldn't do. I'm glad I've found an inclusive environment where I am accepted and appreciated as I am, that wasn't the case as I grew up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:05 PM |
| 4 | What do you mean by “social skills”?This is very sad. You deserve to live in a world where other people will accept you as you are so long as you're not hurting anyone. We ALL deserve this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 02:32 PM |
| 7 | What do you mean by “social skills”?I've ADHD with some autistic traits and my younger brother is autistic. As a girl, I've learned to hide my symptoms more because of female socialisation, however it still happens that I miss out on important pieces of information because I can't focus on the whole conversation. As a consequence, I can say embarassing things such as as "Do you know ..." to someone who's a specialist in this field. My brother is MUCH weirder and more awkward than I am but I don't think it's his fault, as he was so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 02:25 PM |
| 6 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.And what about the COUNTLESS men who insult women by telling them that if they'd been rational and reasonable, they'd have picked them? Apparently, you're much more angry when a women says that "tongue-in-cheek" about a guy. For fuck's sake, that man wasn't attracted to me, attraction isn't rational and it was absolutely reasonable for him to have rejected me in favour of a woman he likes to be with. Now can you recognise you were wrong or is it too humiliating for you to recognise that a woman … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 09:24 AM |
| 8 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.What? If you truly think that about my post, you've never learnt how to read between the lines, dude. I was reacting to the OP who said that women do not act rationally when it comes to dating because they reject men who match all the cases. Through a very similar reasoning, I could argue I matched all his cases too but that'd be a very silly thing for me to say. That's called a REDUCTIO-AD-ABSURDUM in logics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 09:15 AM |
| – | Women are the one radicalizing menHonestly, here in Western Europe most men think it'd be utterly crazy and disgusting to remove our voting rights or our rights to work and to own property. Most dads are supportive when it comes to helping their daughters build up their career. So I think it is neither right nor useful to say that men in general want to own women as if this were an essential part of male nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:27 AM |
| – | Women are the one radicalizing menI don't think it's useful to react to the sexist OP who essentialises women in a negative way by essentialising men in a negative way, there are lots of men who don't want to own women. Actually, my dad taught me to always look out for signs that a guy I'm dating would like to own me. There are many men who fight against it. The problem is that social media algorithms make it seem like toxic abusive men are everywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:06 AM |
| – | Women are the one radicalizing menAnd most of them are against making conscription obligatory for men and to threaten them with prison if they don't obey. There are already way too many rapists who're roaming freely, it'd be crazy for me as an egalitarian feminist to support a law that would put men in jail because they don't wanna serve in the army. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:56 AM |
| – | Women are the one radicalizing menYou forget to mention there are also lots of left-wing feminists who don't think that conscription should be obligatory for ANYONE. I hate what Putin is doing to Ukraine, but I don't think that anyone in Western Europe (men or women) should be forced to take part in the war effort against his or her will. There are already way too many rapists who're roaming freely, it'd be crazy for me as an egalitarian feminist to support a law that would put men in jail because they don't wanna serve in the a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:54 AM |
| 7 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.Yeah and it doesn't demand a lot of emotional intelligence to realise that Training-Cook is trying to be hurtful, but he fails since I'm glad that this man lives in a happy relationship :-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:20 AM |
| 15 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.Yes, my point was that based on pure reason, he should have been more attracted to me, however attraction doesn't stem from pure reason. Given the fact that he was attracted to her and not to me, it was a totally rational decision for him to be with her. There are two concepts of "reasonable" at play here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 08:08 PM |
| 74 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.You can't logic your way into a man's heart either. I really really liked a guy who works in the same field as I and has the same interests and political beliefs but he didn't find me attractive and ended up with another girl he has less things in common with. Both are happy together, regardless of whether I like it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 08:45 AM |
| – | The current gyno centric system will have to break in the next few decadesI see that you wrote in your avatar "Women hate short men". That pretty much summarises your worldview, doesn't it? Anyone who doesn't wanna sleep with you hates you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 08:25 AM |
| 17 | Women know when other women are low quality. Redpill Men chase them and call it 'Female Nature'.That's what I've been seeking to explain to the manosphere, to no avail. When I was a teenage girl with ADHD and autistic traits, I was horribly bullied by women who often self-proclaimed to be feminists. It was so bad that I often questioned whether staying alive was worth it and despite knowing I had suicidal thoughts, they kept doing it. I've no doubt that this type of women can harm innocent men in a relationship but not because they're women but because they're terrible persons, period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Do male victims even exist in the eyes of women?You've made great points but when it comes to the gender war, I think it's counter-productive to answer to men essentialising us by essentialising men, there are lots of guys who have no tendency whatsoever to murder or rape someone and who earnestly seek to overcome their sexist prejudices, if they have some. But yeah, it's disgustingly hypocritical for a guy who doesn't care about the threats women are exposed to to feel indignant because some feminists go too far in their criticism of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Men are blamed first before any rationality is considered because women will never choose a stance against each other if they can blame menIt's debatable but I take the view that in France, the far-right does not hate or threaten cis-white women like myself. They do hate Muslims, Blacks, Arabs and often times trans-women, even when they are white. As a result of that, we don't see the same trend as in the US or the UK where cis-white women massively support the Left because the far-right is a threat to them. There are many of them who vote for the far-right and it's not possible to conclusively argue they're digging their own grave… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 03:35 AM |
| 1 | As a male, how should I go about using a mixed gender gym?There are situations where women purposefully dress up in order to flirt with guys but gym is very seldom one of them, you can take my word for it ;-) That being said, I agree you may come across some bigoted white women who'll see you as a predator because of your skin colour. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/26 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Never become a "Step Father"As someone with a PhD in data science and AI, I truly think you should come up with solid statistical data before spewing misogyny. There are couples where the step father suffers but also couples where it works very well, a relative of mine has officially recognised his step father as his father. On the other hand, there are also step mothers who struggle quite a lot. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/26 06:45 PM |
| 11 | Do male victims even exist in the eyes of women?"Women do this, women do that, women are bad, women are evil, women are selfish ..." This subreddit can be pretty depressing at times... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 06:38 PM |
| 4 | Men are blamed first before any rationality is considered because women will never choose a stance against each other if they can blame menIn the US, there is a cluster of beliefs with transphobia strongly correlating with classical misogyny. In Europe, there are lots of folks who aren't prejudiced against cis-women but who hate trans-women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Men are blamed first before any rationality is considered because women will never choose a stance against each other if they can blame menWow, just wow! If my younger autistic brother is unfairly attacked by someone who happens to be a woman, I'm certainly gonna defend him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 04:09 PM |
| -7 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?Wow, you just used the suffering of Afghan girls to argue that Western women ought to sleep with guys who are objectively unattractive??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 05:31 AM |
| -3 | Men's rights are a very libertarian cause. 🦔 Left-wing and Right-wing misandry are both authoritarianI agree but you need to rename it into RICH men's rights. Unlike you, the large majority of left-wing feminists do care about the ordeal of poor men who wannot get affordable healthcare. It seems to me that you despise poor men much more than we do, dude. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/26 06:40 PM |
| -8 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?In many cases, that might help but in some cases that's an impossible task. These men must learn to be happy without sex and without a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 06:21 PM |
| 0 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?"there were guys (usually those who stayed virgins until late 20s early 30s) who were so unprepared for what sex is, like they were disgusted by pussy, they weren't ready to the texture, the taste, anything."' Could it be they are gay or asexual? I've once dated such a man who's now in a happy relationship with another bloke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 05:53 PM |
| -8 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?Sadly, some men must accept the fact that they aren't made for a relationship and haven't what it takes to bring pleasure to a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 05:50 PM |
| 0 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?To me, that's one negative factor as this might be a sign that the guy has a problematic personality or lack social skills but that would hardly rule out a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 05:48 PM |
| 1 | "I agree with you that female on male violence is equally wrong. I disagree with you that it would be at the same systemic scale as male on female violence."There just isn't a belief system that justifies a woman hitting her man, but there definitely is one if you reverse the role. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/26 06:26 AM |
| -1 | The ideal human society is 80% female and 20% male.That's not what I want. I'd prefer all the men who consider that they're entitled to sex and to love to be banned into a parallel universe and all the remaining men to respect the women they desire. I don't think that 80% of all men are abusive creeps, 30% seems like a more realistic percentage. If properly educated, I believe we can reduce the amount of incorrigibly men to 10%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 04:45 AM |
| -4 | Shania Twain not a feminist – 'men need just as much protection'A feminist is someone who fights for women's rights or to alleviate women's problems ON THE BASIS OF THE FUNDAMENTAL EQUALITY BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN. This is the dictionary definition I use. And I also fight for all poor and/or disabled folks, for the victims of the war on drugs and of genocides, regardless of whether they are males or females. So based on the dictionary, I am a feminist who doesn't hate men, lol. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/26 04:50 AM |
| -2 | Shania Twain not a feminist – 'men need just as much protection'Well, we fit the dictionary definition and we strongly stand for our right to early-term abortion, to vote, we hate the red-pill and the incels who want to enslave us, we wanna have the right to dress sexily for whatever reason or for any guys we like, nobody is entitled to sex or to a relationship with us, we constantly denounce toxic masculanity ... If you think we aren't feminists, you must use a very unusual definition, lol. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/26 04:47 AM |
| -17 | Shania Twain not a feminist – 'men need just as much protection'Believe me or not, in my circles, there are lots of young left-wing women who identify as feminists who'd intuitively agree with the statement: "Vulnerable men need just as much protection as vulnerable women." And those who think that vulnerable women face more hardships than vulnerable men on average still think that a disabled men or a male addict or an autistic men need to get all help they need in order to thrive. There are very loud self-proclaimed internet feminists who'd say they don't g… | /r/MensRights | 16/06/26 06:38 AM |
| 0 | What would a red-pill man do if he was magically turned into a biological female?To be fair, many of these men won't say that the husband has the right to physically rape his wife but they'd use pseudo-religious language to manipulate her into sleeping with him when she doesn't feel like it. I said "PSEUDO-religious", because while the apostle Paul said that the body of a woman belongs to her husband, he immediately wrote that the body of the man belongs to his wife, which was almost totally unprecedented in a Greek and Roman world! To Paul, the sexual pleasure of the wife w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 06:28 AM |
| 4 | What would a red-pill man do if he was magically turned into a biological female?" What Erica? You choose to wear revealing clothes and you don't want to follow me into my flat? You are such a loathsome slut!!! Women like you are the very reason why the whole Western world is collapsing!!! You should give up your selfish career plans and your hypergamy and just find a decent husband, be submitted to him, give him the sex you owe him and always stay with him if he doesn't beat you and cheat on you and provide for you materially. I really think that no-fault divorce should be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 07:18 PM |
| 5 | What would a red-pill man do if he was magically turned into a biological female?I've spent lots of time reading red-pill and incel forums (this is quite a soul-consuming task!) and I've come to the realisation that there is nothing that these men hate more than an emancipated young woman who's career-oriented, ambitious and intelligent, like to flirt around and to dress sexily in a way that makes it hard for guys to stay indifferent to her. They just cannot bear the sexual tension of knowing they cannot help but desire her while knowing full well they've no chance because t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 10:25 AM |
| -1 | What would a red-pill man do if he was magically turned into a biological female?That's an interesting point! In the same way as many men who preach conservative value are hypocrites who only do that because those values arrange them, some women wouldn't like female sexual freedom if they were turned into a man who badly want to have sex but can't because girls prefer more attractive guys. However, I expect most women to keep their belief that nobody is entitled to sex if they've been socialised to have it for their whole life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 04:37 AM |
| 2 | What would a red-pill man do if he was magically turned into a biological female?I believe that light sword-wielding women exist but I am none of them, I am nothing but a harmless scholar with an insatiable curiosity who constantly seeks to understand the world around her. Good night! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:41 PM |
| 6 | Women are the real selfish gender and should be properly socializedIf you fail to understand why the statement "Women are the real selfish gender and should be properly socialized" offends the large majority of women, you likely lack a theory of mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:39 PM |
| 9 | Women are the real selfish gender and should be properly socializedI don't undertstand why posts that criticize the patriarchy are often censored here whereas posts like this that insult women by saying they can't function in society are allowed. There are, no doubt, lots of evil women who almost brought me to unalive myself, however the violence rate of men is far worse on a global scale. Of course, I think it'd be silly to use wicked or violent men to argue that men as a whole aren't socialised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:09 PM |
| 2 | What would a red-pill man do if he was magically turned into a biological female?That's like racism, an acquaintance of mine has had a very bad experience with an ex of her who was a Muslim Arab and his family and she now says that all Arabs are sexists and primitives and when I mention to her how great most of my experiences with Arabs are, she just cannot believe me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:05 PM |
| 1 | What would a red-pill man do if he was magically turned into a biological female?I've got a PhD (no joke, albeit not in social science) and I promise you I wrote this post in order to publish a great paper that will make me famous 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:04 PM |
| 11 | What would a red-pill man do if he was magically turned into a biological female?Oh YES, absolutely! I mentioned her being slut-shamed and feeling threatened by males but I could have mentioned LOTS of other examples such as being mansplained in her tech enterprise and her colleagues sexually harassing her. She might also realise that being able to attract easily at least some guys is overrated if you often don't get an orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 05:32 PM |
| 5 | What would a red-pill man do if he was magically turned into a biological female?I take the view that nothing in sex is objectively disgusting so long as it isn't harmful or non-consensual. But you've made quite an assumption, my thought experiment merely replicates the content of male red-pill and incel forums where I read this kind of stuff all the time and where women who choose to live out their sexuality and have multiple partners (and I realise you may not belong to them and that's fine) are shamed for their behaviour. It merely seeks to establish they're moral hypocri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 05:28 PM |
| 12 | What would a red-pill man do if he was magically turned into a biological female?Erica would be a moral hypocrite because as she was Eric, she slut-shamed women who live out their sexuality, dress sexily and are very picky when it comes to sleeping with a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 03:54 PM |
| 12 | What would a red-pill man do if he was magically turned into a biological female?My question was to the red-pill community (men and women who have this worldview), Erica is a straight woman, not a lesbian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 03:39 PM |
| -3 | Men are NOT monsters. Full stop.Thanks, you may be one of the good ones! 😉 | /r/MensRights | 14/06/26 03:24 PM |
| 0 | Feminists want so badly to be the victimIt's not an assumption, I don't suppose it's likely to be the case but that there is a non-negligible statistical probability of this happening so that I have to be wary and careful. I'm working in the field of machine learning / applied AI, and if we find out that a system we've designed could lead to a harmful outcome with a probability that can be as high as 5%, we'd be very worried, even though it's more likely than not that there won't be a problem. It's perfectly fine for you to be wary of… | /r/MensRights | 14/06/26 12:03 PM |
| -19 | Men are NOT monsters. Full stop.I agree with your first sentence, men in general aren't monsters, and I disagree with the misandrist feminists who say that (although I realise that many of them have been traumatised by their upbringing and didn't have the privilege to have a dad who fights misogyny and seeks to give up toxic masculanity as he did ). I don't hate men and I know there are great and awesome men out there. But your second sentence is utter rubish, men WERE the "builders, protectors, explorers, and creators who dra… | /r/MensRights | 14/06/26 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Feminists want so badly to be the victimHow do you want young women like me to feel compassion towards men who're struggling if you say we shouldn't have any rights and just belong to men? I know better because I've an amazing father and brother but lots of young women who read that type of comments days in and days out may come to hate men as a whole. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/26 09:57 AM |
| 0 | Feminists want so badly to be the victimNo, but most of the time, a brown bear won't follow me and try to catch me if I go away, it's very seldom it would try to eat me. If I come across a random man who's sexual predator, I'm toast: since I'm rather fat, I wouldn't be able to run away quickly enough. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/26 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Women suck at simpingYou're giving men a bad name when you say that an attractive guy won't stay with a woman if he appreciated the sex but not enough, there are lots of other factors that come into play when it comes to the interest of a relationship, unless the man only sees women as objects. I'm wary of using dating apps because it's now quite likely I may come across men like you over and over again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 08:40 PM |
| -10 | Feminists want so badly to be the victimIf you were in my skin (cis-woman physically weaker than the great majority of men), you might have chosen the bear too. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/26 07:57 PM |
| -8 | Feminists want so badly to be the victimAnd members of the machosphere never want to be seen as victims? | /r/MensRights | 13/06/26 05:59 PM |
| 2 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?SOME women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Most men don't understand what rape is because they think of women as less.And I'm often tempted to think that men are inferior to me as a woman as their whole behaviour and morality are seemingly driven by their dick, luckily I know enough good men who aren't like you to know this isn't true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 12:23 PM |
| 6 | Most men don't understand what rape is because they think of women as less.I'm not sure about the "most" part, I think that most men have sexist prejudices and some degree of toxic masculanity, however there are men who truly despise women and other men who consider that they're of equal worth but act in a sexist way without realising it and then feel ashamed and wanna rectify their deeds. Men of the manosphere definitely despise us and view us as less than humans, I've had guys here who told me that if I decide to dress sexily in order to flirt with guys I like, I mus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 11:55 AM |
| 0 | Most men don't understand what rape is because they think of women as less.I understand why you think that way based on your experiences. Based on my own, I've realised there are indeed lots of men who consider women to be inferior to them but also others who see the hapiness of a woman as as important as their own but act in a sexist way due to prejudices they took in from their environment. This category of men will often feel ashamed if you tell them that their behaviour hurt you and they'll try to become better persons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Weak males need protection like other minority groupsThey definitely need protection, but not as weak MALES but as weak PEOPLE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 11:35 AM |
| 6 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?If I see someone (man or woman) who is kind to me while at the same time bullying someone below us (such as a cofee shop employee), I'll conclude that this person isn't safe to be around and that he or she could turn on me if I'm in a vulnerable position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 11:25 AM |
| -11 | Horrifying woman-on-man rape in Melbourne: Twisted Tinder date says 'no one will believe you' after attack - as victim's mother reveals brutal aftermathIt's behind a paywall. Maybe there are some lunatics who call themselves "feminists" who think that she did nothing wrong but I'm not one of them are neither are my friends, we don't hate men. However, is it not a bit hypocritical to feel indignant about this attack while saying nothing about men assaulting physically weaker women even though it happens at least 10 - 100 times more often? I once had a guy who tried to convince me that since I chose to wear sexy clothes, it's quite normal he'll t… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/26 07:48 AM |
| 3 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?Yes, as a teenager I was also the victim of female narcissits, possibly psychopaths, who faked being my friend before ridiculing me in front of everyone, which made me question whether staying alive is worth it ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 06:08 AM |
| 4 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.Honestly, as someone who's been bullied as a teenager, I've come to see BOTH men and women as potential threats, men are a potential sexual threat, however an unknown woman may cause me lots of emotional pain by trying to ruin me socially, spreading rumors about me and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 05:56 AM |
| 9 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.I think we need a big progressive movement to face the global threats of our time (such as climate change and uncontrolled AI) and I think that 4B is a bad idea, as it makes it extremely harder to form a broad political coalition and it divides the working class to the benefit of the Epstein class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 05:51 AM |
| 4 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexYou're apparently firmly determined to interpret me in the most negative light. Fine, I won't change your mind. Other readers will probably guess that I didn't literally mean that your words are the cause of misogyny (which would be quite an absurd claim to make) but rather than they can worsen it and shove sad but not hateful men down the incel rabit hole. I too like my colourful language at times! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 10:27 PM |
| 3 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?Well as an old-fashioned liberal Christian, I agree that women shouldn't serve men but I think that human beings should all serve one another, especially when it comes to the most vulnerable regardless of gender. This is an idealism I'm likely to keep until my last breath, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 10:21 PM |
| 6 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?It is sad, as a woman, I totally recognise that men from the lower classes suffer from despair and loneliness, but women aren't the culprits, capitalism mostly is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 10:18 PM |
| 3 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?I agree, but predatory men are very good at making us believe they're kind and benevolent during the "honeymoon phase" in order to groom us, withstanding them demands a lot of preparation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 10:17 PM |
| 6 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?I guess that in my case, my frequent mood fluctuations stemming from my ADHD, depression and anxieties makes me less vulnerable to that because I constantly question my (small and big) choices including my career, my circle of friends and my loved one if I'm in a relationship. But that's a double-edged sword as I've debilitating moments of indecision and doubts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 10:15 PM |
| 8 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?I'm unwilling to make general statements about either my gender or men because I think that the individual variations are way too high. However, there are many of my fellow young women who've (rightly!) pushed back against unambiguously creepy men but who overreact by demonising (straight) male sexuality and consider that the mere fact that two men say to one another that they like a girl's miniskirt or her shape is disgusting. They also say that as a woman, you're free to be as sexy as you want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexI understand that my wordings was very strong and that you may have perceived it as a personal attack, I was being emotional but not angry. My belief that the phrase "sexless losers" is problematic and counter-productive and has ableist implications doesn't mean I believe you're a bad person or that I'm feeling indignant against you, I mean I say problematic things all the time and it's good when people criticise some of my views. I know you may not have meant it that way, however that phrase co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexI hate the incels and what they say, however it's deeply problematic to say that a man (or a woman) that struggles to get sex or pleasant sex is a "loser". My autistic brother isn't a virgin but he struggles a lot with relationships, he doesn't feel entitled to anything, and when he hears people calling him a loser that makes him wanna unalive himself. Surely, we can condemn the shit of the incels and the red-pill without being ableist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:50 PM |
| 1 | The Evolved Male in the Modern Classroom. An interesting take on why boys and young men are struggling at school, framed as problematic behavior at an alarming rate, and how the education environment has been progressively designed to ignore their needs and expectations when it comes to learning.You seem to have a peculiar definition of trolling as I formulate logical arguments and draw rational conclusions. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/26 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?And what does that torture consist of for you? Does it justify a girl being sexually harassed? In my male-dominated environment where a lot of guys tend to ignore me or to downplay my ideas, to consider they know better than me a topic I studied during my PhD, it's truly funny to say the effect of a red miniskirt and high heels, how they can't help looking at me and trying to chat me up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:16 PM |
| 4 | Are women really don't like male attention only because of safety issues?The fact you have to face this abusive behaviour so often truly frightens me. I'd be disgusted by everything you've described, however if I wear fanciful or provocative clothes, I don't mind men making me compliments, it can be pleasant if they immediately back off if I tell them I'm not interested, otherwise this is the beginning of sexual harassment, if he touches me suddenly without ours being in some kind of relationship, that's sexual assault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:35 AM |
| -5 | I have zero respect for any misandristI consider it very unlikely that they have the personality of a predator and I'd need strong evidence to update my probability in such a way I'd see them now as guilty, to my horror. However, the probability of theirs being falsely accused is very low | /r/MensRights | 12/06/26 05:01 AM |
| 0 | The Evolved Male in the Modern Classroom. An interesting take on why boys and young men are struggling at school, framed as problematic behavior at an alarming rate, and how the education environment has been progressively designed to ignore their needs and expectations when it comes to learning.I'm a girl, I've ADHD, as a child and teenager I was both inattentive and hyperactive, I was badly bullied by both the system and my male and female "comrades". Why should we turn this into a gender issue rather than a way society systemicly discriminate against people who have another kind of brain than theirs? | /r/MensRights | 11/06/26 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Discernment needs to be reworked.You absolutely shouldn't and neither should I. My point was only that we shouldn't see that as a universally valid red flag, even though I resent reckless drivers a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Discernment needs to be reworked.And believing in solid rules allows grifters to make lots of money... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Discernment needs to be reworked.I personally wouldn't want to date a guy who drives aggressively, but believe me or not, some of my girl friends like to drive aggressively and they even prefer to be with a man who does it as well, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Discernment needs to be reworked.""you are not like other girls": it's definitely a red flag as it is a ground for suspicion, at the same time as a woman I did say something like that to an ex (and I still think it is true), so if a man had only bad experiences with his exes, I may understand why he thinks like that. At the same time, I'd consider it more likely he's gone down the manosophere rabbit hole and would be wary of him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Discernment needs to be reworked.You're right we should be very wary of "green flags" as narcisstic and abusive men are very good at making us believe they are angels of light whilst hiding their dark shadows. However, if I see a clear red flag such as a man parotting the talking points of the manosphere or uttering a racist statement, I'm just gonna run away as fast as I can from him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 06:50 PM |
| -3 | I have zero respect for any misandristNo, Louis Theroux clearly demonstrated that the manosphere isn't about self-improvement but about men teaching to other men that they're superior to women and that women owe them something: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Louis_Theroux:_Inside_the_Manosphere | /r/MensRights | 11/06/26 06:01 PM |
| -11 | I have zero respect for any misandristWhat? I actually totally reject that, neither men nor women should be forced to fight for something they don't believe in, you apparently aren't even able to read someone's text without bein carried away by your emotions, dude. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/26 05:57 PM |
| -14 | I have zero respect for any misandrist"If you are angry that in some states women may have to travel 1 state over to have an abortion, but have never even questioned why men don't get any legal say in the death/birth of their child, and also have no say if they are legally bound to finance the child for 2 decades, then you are probably a misandrist." No, if an early embryo is little more than a clump of cells that lacks any advanced form of consciousness, it should be wholly up to the woman to choose what to do with her own body. Ab… | /r/MensRights | 11/06/26 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?They assume that if it's POSSIBLE a woman may wear a dress in order to be attractive to men, it is also LIKELY she does so. This is a classical cognitive mistake. I might find a male friend who's half-naked in summer hot but he may not try to be impressing any girl at all. The only one situation where a guy can be pretty sure a girl is doing that with the intention of flirting, namely when she has sexy pictures on Tinder, but the same holds true for men who post such pics as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?Yeah, men are often terrible at guessing women's thoughts and intentions, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?I agree that some women overreact but that stems from the fact that it very seldom happens that a woman can physically force a man to have sex with her, there is a big gender imbalance in that regard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?It is sad but nobody is entitled to love or sex, those things are not rational. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:43 PM |
| 9 | Does slut-shaming prevent women from having more active sex lives?Yeah, I know lots of guys who like sexualised girls on their own terms but get upset and angry when a woman is scantily dressed but only for flirting with other men and not with them. I remember talking with a male aquaintance of mine at a karaoke who was complaining that one of the young women who was singing showed off a lot of skin and that she was objectifying herself and when I asked him whether he'd think that if he knew he'a chance with her, his silence truly spole volume, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:41 PM |
| -27 | I have zero respect for any misandristHow do you define the word "misandrist"? I don't hate all men, I deeply love my father and my younger brother but I also think that the loathsome crazy patriarchal ideas of the manosphere are a huge problem and that they contribute directly to toxic masculanity and to the rape culture that is rising among men around my age (I'm 28). ON WHAT GROUNDS can someone assert I'm a "man hater"? | /r/MensRights | 11/06/26 01:31 PM |
| 6 | Does slut-shaming prevent women from having more active sex lives?Oh I envy you girl, I really wish I'd enjoy every penetration too, lol 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Does slut-shaming prevent women from having more active sex lives?As a young woman, slut-shaming used to hurt me but now it just makes me laugh. A while ago, I remember being slut-shamed at the uni by men who, ironically, like hypersexualised girls in videogames. It was in summer and I was wearing a normal skirt but they found it was too short and too distracting even though the thought of pleasing guys had nothing to do with it. It took me aback first but I then decided to react by wearing, on the next days, an unmistakenly sexy red miniskirt I had bought for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?I agree I should have worded that more carefully, however I think, based on my brother's experiences, that being an autistic male means being less attractive to girls, it's sad, but it seems hard to deny it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?Objectively, we're both average-looking. However, since men are much more shallow visual creatures, showing some skin is enough to have a strong effect on them. And that's what makes the manosphere so mad, a respectful guy will enjoy looking at attractively dressed women even if he can't get them, a toxic man will think they owe him sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?At the same time, there are also lots of kind austistic guys like my brother, autism makes a man less attractive in the dating market but it doesn't turn him into a misoginistic creep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?He'd two but this didn't last long, sadly. He also rejected two girls he wasn't attracted to and he told me he perfectly understand why women who aren't drawn to him reject him. He can be very socially akward but he's got a good heart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 05:11 AM |
| 3 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?A woman may wear sexily looking clothes for reasons that have nothing to do with men, however even when she decides to do this in order to use her sex appeal, no man is entitled to sex with her, she's the only one to decide whether a man is worthy of sleeping with her. Frankly speaking, it's schocking I have to explain this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 04:35 AM |
| 9 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?No, he wasn't first of all ugly but average looking, and secondly being autistic may have contributed to him being unattractive, but that wasn't the problem, the problem was his sense of sexual entitlement that erases female agency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?Being turned off sexually or romantically by someone doesn't mean I'm gonna resent him because he respectfully asked me out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?You've made good points, incels who aren't autistic would never say that if other people can hear that too as they are fully aware of what they'd be considered to be. Autistic men lack that self-awareness and as you well said we were alone in a floor. To be objective, if I'd been (for work-related reasons only) in his flat while being unsuspecting, he would have not raped me if I'd told him explicitely "Don't do that because that's rape and against the law!". If however I'd been too stunned and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?He's autistic and has problems understanding the emotions of other people and what good manneers are, which may explain why this sounds so extreme, however that's no excuse, he also made the choice to believe he's superior to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?As a European woman, I don't necessarily totally agree with these policies because they're based on the problematic that the disrepancies only stem from sexist biases in the workplace. Actually, they're mostly due to the fact that motherhood takes a much stronger toll on women than on men, so affirmative action measures that favour childless women and not mothers aren't true equity for me, I'd prefer companies to systematically consider it is unfair to judge the performance of the mother in the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 08:15 PM |
| 6 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?Yes, thank you! 😄 I know that for a man, it might be very hard to believe how extreme misogyny and male supremacism have become for the same reason I sometimes find it hard to believe, as a white woman, how extreme anti-black or anti-arab racism can be. And yet, people like this man do exist, you can argue that not all red-pill blokes act like him but you cannot deny his existence if you're fully informed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 08:10 PM |
| 4 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?This picture is a big straw-man/ straw woman, in the second case I may not have the same smile, but if he doesn't insist and take a no for a no, I'd never report him, that'd be wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 08:08 PM |
| 6 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?Yeah, I generally won't be attracted to average guys I don't know wearing that, however if I know the man and like his personality, clothes that accentuate his "sexy masculine lines" can have a strong effect on me. And it does happen that the guy will reject me in favour of another girl because I've been rather fat since the end of Covid and he can get an hotter gal. The very thought of hating this man because of my sexual frustration would never enter my mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?Yeah, men are often very bad at intepreting female clothing behaviour and may think that showing one's belly at the gym is ALWAYS for their attention, lol. However, in my case part of the reason of my being sexy was that I wanted to flirt with guys in this stressful periode of my life (end of my PhD) and I think there is nothing wrong with that, in the dating market, you should try to be as attractive and desirable as you can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 08:02 PM |
| 8 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?Yes, for the same reason I don't think that a man should be free to beat down another man randomly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 07:59 PM |
| 6 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?Yes, it's perfectly fair for a man I'm not attracted to to approach me because he finds me attractive but only if he's RESPECTFUL and immediately takes a no for a no, otherwise he's a creep and a threat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?That's a good question! I tell him that he should first of all seek to be happy WITHOUT a relationship and without sex. If he gets grounded and has a good friend circle, a relationship may emerge as a by-product of his being stable and confident, but he shouldn't rely on it. Likewise, I eventually wanna find a great man who'll become the father of my future children but there is no guarantee I'll find him, it'd be foolish for me to ground my self-worth in this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?Yeah my brother is autistic and he doesn't feel entitled to anything and it disgusts me how his behaviour gives autistic men a bad rap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?I know that for a man, it might be very hard to believe how extreme misogyny and male supremacism have become for the same reason I sometimes find it hard to believe, as a white woman, how extreme anti-black or anti-arab racism can be. And yet, people like this man do exist, you can argue that not all red-pill blokes act like him but you cannot deny his existence if you're fully informed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 07:51 PM |
| 6 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?Some men seek to selflessly protect women, others seek to use them as a means to an end, many men just don't care about the oppression of women as they don't suffer from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 07:48 PM |
| 7 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?Yeah, I'm 28-years old, soon 29, and the men of my generation tend to be much more toxic and entitled than old millenial men who are often quite respectful and try not to be sexist, some of them hit on me and the age difference can be problematic, however they generally do not insist and don't think I owe them anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 07:45 PM |
| 9 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?Oh yes, a man who wanna to rape someone won't have any qualms to do it to a woman with a long headscarf! However, I do get much more disrespectful comments while being dressed sexily, they usually aren't as traumatic as the experience I've described that was quite extreme, however I often experience slut-shaming, and so do my girl friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 07:41 PM |
| 8 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?Maybe I'm just vain, but feeling desired and being approached by RESPECTFUL guys who don't reduce you to an object and immediately take a no for a no feels good too 😉 It's just a perfectly natural part of human female sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 07:37 PM |
| 20 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?He certainly is! However, I do have experienced men being much more insisting and creepy if I choose to show some skin, but I refuse to change my habits and style because of them, and they should get locked up if they try to act upon their wishes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?Thus is true, he was guilty but I don't think he's a psychopath beyond any hope of redemption, he just gave in to a seductive narrative according to which attractively dressed women owe him sex. But that was clearly a conscious choice on his part, there are lots of autistic guys who aren't misogonists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 04:46 PM |
| 10 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?Yeah, my younger brother is himself autistic and struggles with dating, but unlike him he doesn't think he's entitled to anything. This is also why this experience badly hurt me, because of such men, respectful guys like my brother who aren't good at dating get a bad rap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 04:38 PM |
| 5 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?I should maybe have reported him but I knew very little about his country, their language and how they handle such cases and since I was strongly stressed as my PhD was nearing its end, I decided not to go any further. I think he may not be utterly evil and wicked but that he was deceived by the red-pill ideology or at least its most extreme forms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 04:35 PM |
| 7 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?Thanks for your honest answer. I think that this is very bad for the world if we only try to defend people we know and care about, I mean that not only with regard to gender issues but generally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 04:32 PM |
| 0 | Men's rights advocate from Poland here. The situation is pretty bad, and I'd love to know how it looks in your countries.This is irrelevant to our conversation, it isn't women and left-wing feminists who're screwing the lives of poor working-class men but CAPITALISTS who're overwhelmingly male. You've the right to want poor men to suffer for the sake of the Epstein's class and to undermine democracy, but don't blame us for your choice. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/26 04:27 PM |
| 0 | Men's rights advocate from Poland here. The situation is pretty bad, and I'd love to know how it looks in your countries.It'd be feasible in a world where it's forbidden to be a billionaire and where your total wealth is limited to a few million euros. Unlimited wealth accumulation under capitalism is likely to lead to the collapse of human civilisation through climate change. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/26 03:26 PM |
| -10 | Men's rights advocate from Poland here. The situation is pretty bad, and I'd love to know how it looks in your countries.Because we are much less neoliberal than the Anglo-Saxons and think that such important and consequential things should be closely overseen by the State. If a man has suspicions, he can go to the judge who'll order a paternity test that is lawfully binding. If I'm in a long-term relationship with a man, I certainly would never do such a thing as that'd be an act of treason against him. However, men who decide to reject a ten-year-old child they have raised upon learning he isn't genetically link… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/26 03:00 PM |
| -4 | Men's rights advocate from Poland here. The situation is pretty bad, and I'd love to know how it looks in your countries.Well I'm a data-scientist with a PhD working in R&D and I'm certainly not living on any man's back, lol. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/26 02:51 PM |
| -5 | Men's rights advocate from Poland here. The situation is pretty bad, and I'd love to know how it looks in your countries."you would be surprised at how many women have multiple kids just for the benefits and then neglect and abuse them" Do we have academic studies that demonsrate the existence of such young women and if so, how many of them do we have out there? In most cases I'm aware of in real life, the woman was physically and/or emotionally abused by her partner or he got an addiction problem that made him into an unreliable partner or father. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/26 02:43 PM |
| -5 | Men's rights advocate from Poland here. The situation is pretty bad, and I'd love to know how it looks in your countries.In other words, you wanna men to suffer but you feel angry because at the moment, women in your land do not suffer as much as men. Interesting. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/26 02:34 PM |
| -14 | Men's rights advocate from Poland here. The situation is pretty bad, and I'd love to know how it looks in your countries.If you fully embrace and defend capitalism and reject any form of welfare state, you have absolutely no right to complain about poor men being economically and socially screwed, it isn't left-wing feminists who're doing that to you, man. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/26 07:04 AM |
| -25 | Men's rights advocate from Poland here. The situation is pretty bad, and I'd love to know how it looks in your countries.As a young French woman and an egalitarian feminist and a socialist, the solution for me wouldn't be to make the life of women harder but for the state to help EVERYONE in need regardless of gender. I understand very well why a man who's a soul-consuming work may be angry to have to retire at 65, but the solution isn't to force women to retire at 65 as well. As for conscription, I think that NOBODY should be forced to fight against his or her will, I hate what Putin is doing to Ukraine, but if s… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/26 04:35 AM |
| -5 | Women consistently reinforce that attraction is Amoral. Yet continue to moralize unsuccessful Mens inability to be selected. Depending on Narrative and ContextWhenever I see a post beginning with "Women ..." or "Men ...", I know that the content isn't gonna be very good as there are huge individual variations among us. My autistic brother struggles with relationship and that's not his fault, he's done nothing wrong. I hate the fact that society sees him as a loser and I try to teach him how to become a grounded and fulfilled man without a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 03:05 PM |
| – | The media narrative about AI girlfriends and AI boyfriends is oppositeIn 2026 in Western Europe, this is no longer true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates ItThis is horrible! Are you American? I think that the lack of any real welfare state can have lots of bad consequences. I'm for restorative justice when the person is willing to correct his or her behaviour, however in such a situation it is clear you ought to run away for your life and for that of your children, which isn't possible if you have never worked and have no chance to get financially independent. Listening to far-right fundamentalist Christians who want to deprive women of voting righ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 05:37 AM |
| 2 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsMy therapist was very useful, she told me that in order to make the difference between a man no longer being interesting for me and my anxiety- and depression-induced mood fluctuations, I should ask myself whether I still have good moments where I enjoy the relationship and whether I think that no longer being with him might be a big loss. If I really know that nothing good will come out of this reationship, I generally have peace of mind when I imagine breaking up with that guy. I know it is ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 06:47 PM |
| 1 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsGiven all the other areas where I'm disadvantaged as a young woman, it is good to realise that at least when it comes to dating, I can attract quite a few guys by just showing some skin and without too much effort, this is very practical as I'm introverted and geeky and hate to break the ice. However, I have no guarantee I'll find a man I fancy and who respects me as a person and there is no point sleeping with a guy I am not drawn to just for the sake of having sex if it doesn't bring me any re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 06:39 PM |
| 5 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsEvery woman, every person is different, I'm glad if that works out for you. In my case, having ADHD, anxiety disorders and a recurring depression, indecision and fluctuating thoughts are a big part of my life IN ALL AREAS OF LIFE. So, if I were to never date someone unless I no longer have any doubt and second thoughts, I'd never have fulfilling relationships, that's just the way my brain is wired. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 06:47 AM |
| 4 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsOftentimes, they not only show anti-female resentment but also sheer hatred that can lead to an assault in the most extreme cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 06:43 AM |
| 3 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsI'm sceptical of all these smv/rmv talk, why there are certainly trends when it comes to attractiveness while dating, there are also huge personal differences, I might fall for a man a female friend of mine finds unattractive and vice-versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 06:40 AM |
| 4 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsIt does happen to me that I'm attracted to several guys who pursue me, so I do have options and I use several criteria to choose the one whom I think will bring me more fulfillment and joy. You're right, of course, that I cannot choose to like a guy I don't feel drawn to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 06:28 AM |
| 7 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsYeah, that's why I find that dating and flirting in a safe environment where abusive men are not tolerated is a lot better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 06:10 AM |
| 4 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsI think that having more choice when it comes to partners is one of the few areas where women have an advantage. Since men are terribly shallow visual creatures who cannot withstand a red miniskirt, why shouldn't I take advantage of that? At the same time, the orgam rate for a casual encounter is a lot lower for gals than for guys, as a consequence I'm often disappointed during and after the experience as I realise it'd have been more pleasant for me to have staid at home eating white chocolate … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?I largely agree. However, I think it's important to realise that men haven't a collective hive mind, I'm glad to see the sexual frustration of misogynistic men, at the same time there are also men who aren't sexist who fail to find romantic love and know they aren't entitled to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 03:17 PM |
| 5 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?I'm 28 years-old and given the fact that the red-pill ideology has infected the mind of many men of my generation (who think that women ought to be submited, that the final decision should be made by the man, that marital rape isn't really rape ...), it's become a lot harder to find a decent boyfriend, let alone a decent father of my future children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 03:12 PM |
| 13 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?Do you have statistical studies to back up your claims about "most women admit they don't give a shit..." As someone working in the field of data science, I'd sternly rebuke an intern who tells me that without any good grounds. Otherwise, I have a younger autistic brother who struggles with relationships, I certainly find it sad, however I don't think he's entitled to a relationship and he totally agrees with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 03:09 PM |
| 12 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?And that's sad for them but nobody is entitled to sex and to love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 02:30 PM |
| 0 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionThat's a fascinating question. However, to me the first thing we need to teach men is that they should learn how to be happy through friendships, hobbies and possibly their job WITHOUT being in a relationship. Despaired men are terribly off-putting to me as I quickly get the impression they don't like me as a person, they just wanna use me in order to no longer be alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionRed-pill men deny that we all share a common human nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates ItThis is why I think it is utterly foolish to believe that capitalism, profit maximisation for the richest, can lead to good outcomes for women, at best we get pink-washing in the same way as we get green-washing for the climate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 02:10 PM |
| 3 | Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates ItGiven climate change and AI that could makes most of us workless, refusing to have kids can be a rational choice even though I hope to find the right man and to get some. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates ItAt any rate, that's offtopic as I was responding to the OP saying that ambition, productivity, insights ... are male traits of character, they are not, my existence as a sucessful R&D engineer in STEM disproves that claim, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates ItThe cute brainless barrista is attractive to men who see women as objects and a means to an end. My male friends who value inteligence and personality aren't drawn to that kind of woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionBecause of the utter HORRORS of the manosphere (women should no longer vote, women should obey their husbands, coerced sex in a marriage isn't rape, no "non-fault" divorce ...), lots of young women have become radicalised and have lost their ability to feel empathy towards men. You should also try to put yourself in our shoes, if you were yourself a young woman, you'd feel utterly disgusted, angry or threatened by online mysoginists who consider you as an object and don't think you should have r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:30 AM |
| 2 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionOr a good male friend they feel attached (but not attracted) to! You shouldn't use very srong words such as "literally no" without statistical data that back them up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:13 AM |
| 8 | Social media represents how people feel insindeAs a socialist, I think that the main problem stems from the profit maximisation of greedy share-holders in tech companies. Their only goal in life is to make money and they don't care about the mutual hatred between men and women they're sowing, actually they like it if that makes them richer and richer. That's psychopathy on steroids. https://viewdigital.org/how-capitalism-is-profiting-from-misogyny-a-deep-dive-into-the-exploitation-of-gender-stereotypes-in-mobile-gaming/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionI don't know where you live but in my circles, very few women (who aren't broke) want their men to spend much more money than they do, actually if my brother was in such a relationship, I'd give him the advice to run away as quickly as he can. Like in every social or political movement, there are bad apples in feminism who use it to reach their own self-seeking ends and do not truly stand for equity/equality. And oftentimes, they are cruel against other women who disagree with them as well, even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:25 PM |
| 4 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionI TOTALLY agree with that! My younger autistic brother struggles with relationships (his sexual orientation is also somewhat ambiguous) but he absolutely doesn't feel entitled to a relationship and he himself turned down girls he didn't like, he refreshingly told me that men who hate single women because they reject them are "utterly mad". There are folks (men and women) who shamed him for being unsuccessful with dating and I found it disgusting, it is the perfect way to send a man down the Ince… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 04:49 PM |
| -2 | An Israeli soldier who served in Gaza says that the order from above was "to kill every military-age male"Do you sincerely wanna know what leftist feminists think of that? They hate it, they are appaled, they consider this strong evidence of genocide, they wanna the criminals to be arrested ... However, it isn't misandrist women who're coupable but Jewish supremacists, there are female Jewish supremacists, however most of them who are in a position of power are MALE. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/26 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionI wouldn't be so harsh as to call men who fail to attract partners "failures", many of them are unattractive through no fault of their own or through disabilities or mental health conditions. The problem is the thought that they are ENTITLED to sex and to love and that it is a fundamental need they're being deprived of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 04:02 PM |
| 6 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionThat'd be nightmarish but I know that quite a few red-pill men would like to live in such a world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 03:51 PM |
| 0 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionIn my experience, this has almost never led to me doing all the work, except in cases where the man was clearly sexist, in which case I ran away. I totally agree that in a healthy relationship or marriage, there might be different roles depending on the people involved, however saying that it's always the role of the man to provide and to pay is counter-productive, as that makes women look like hypocritical money suckers and provides the manosphere with ammunitions. I don't see any gender expect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionStatistical disparities aren't always a sign of workplace discrimination, though. In my European country, Blacks and Arabs are strongly discriminated against and they have less chances to get hired because of prejudices. However, as a cis-white woman, I may face sexist remarks and actions, I've had terrible experiences but I have no problem getting job interviews, the fact that most of the employees in my companies are male stems from the fact that because of lingering internalised prejudices, g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:03 AM |
| 5 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to audition" Men are still expected to pay more (or everything) while courting Men are expected to plan, organize, and “give her the experience” Men must take the lead, perform, and prove their value" Expected by whom? Certainly not by all women. I have a good job and if I'm dating a man, I don't want him to pay for more, I wanna things to be equally balanced. Yeah, I'd would want my boyfriend to plan, organise things and give me good experiences. However, I'd also want to do the same thing for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 06:44 AM |
| 9 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionWhat about abolishing gender expectations altogether instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionI normally hate to play the devil advocate, however I can understand why a man would complain about that if he's expected to do that all the time, as that'd be replacing harmful gender norms by others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 06:19 AM |
| 6 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionIt's not oppression but I'd also add that many of us do not want the man we're dating to do ALL the reservations, in my case I want all of this to be equally balanced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”Progressives haven't a hive mind. By pushing back against the misogynistic remark, you've already done your job. If the sexist man's belief in male supremacism is so strong that he refuses to listen to you, that's not your fault and there would be no point for you to get assaulted. At the same time, if you're a decent man, you should stop to consider him a friend for the same reason I shouldn't be the friend of a white supremacist person who's fully internalised and adopted this worldview. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 05:48 AM |
| 1 | If women treat sex as a reward, men should treat his money as a reward.Men on social media are getting completely mad and it's worrisome this is bubbling over into the real world even now. P.S: not all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 08:22 PM |
| 1 | If women treat sex as a reward, men should treat his money as a reward.Even if you are average-looking and I might not be attracted to you at first, I might quickly fall for you if I see you're intelligent, kind, witty and humorous. I'm hardly an exception among girls. The problem is that apps like Tinder where the visual aspect is almost everything creates an imbalance. Women are visual creatures too but they also need to know the context in order to be drawn to a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 08:21 PM |
| 4 | Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates ItI agree with the sentiment but as a European, I find it shocking you think that folks who don't work through no fault of their own don't deserve any form of healthcare, I'll never get used to the American way of life ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 08:06 PM |
| 4 | Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates ItHere is a correction for you: Society is Addicted to HUMAN Ambition and Productivity. Apart from physical work, I fail to see any grounds for thinking women can't do the job as well. I'm working in the field of AI / machine learning and my male colleagues often praise my insights, strength of will and performance. Otherwise, what would be your solutions for the problem of men struggling more to bond? I'm honestly curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 07:58 PM |
| 1 | My experience with sexual harassment as a manAs a young woman, I absolutely think that the woman who did that to you sexually assaulted and harassed you and that she should be punished for that. The problem is that you use this bad experience to argue that all women are bad and that you don't care about an innocent woman being sexually assaulted. That completely nullifies your message and you do come across as deeply misognistic. And let's face it, on average, it's very rare that a man could not use his physical strength to escape such an … | /r/MensRights | 29/05/26 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”Those are interesting thoughts. I do think we should realize that not all men have the ability to do what you've described, though. From my own standpoint, having a younger brother on the autistic spectrum who was bullied and battered while growing up and got severely depressed as a consequence, I know that it'd be pretty hard for him to choose the right tone and the right words to call out other men's behavior without his sounding confrontational and risking to be beaten down. So I told him he … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”You don't have to be confrontational, you can just say: "I personally don't find this so funny, there are good female friends of mine who are hurt by such remarks". The misogynist men would probably laugh at you but not attack you. However, if they become violent, it's a clear sign they were unsafe to be around from the get-go and may have assaulted you for lots of other reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 07:28 PM |
| 7 | Men aren't more critical of women ,we are just treating you equally and you don't like itIt depends on the men. As a young woman working STEM, I have experienced both men who treated me as inferior to them and those who saw me as their equals. I find it frightening, though, that those who treat me badly tend to be young men who've taken in lots of ideas of the manosphere. https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2026/mar/10/the-guardian-view-on-gen-z-young-men-hold-startling-views-about-women-inequality-may-be-to-blame | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 03:41 PM |
| 5 | Misandry exists.I'm 28-years-old and the large majority of men who are sexist against me are around my age and their minds have been infected by the red-pill ideology. Given that the message of the Manopshere often goes hand in hand with a white supremacist narrative, I can well understand why you might struggle much more than I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Do Women Understand How They Help Power Red Pill/Manosphere Content?I don't think you can blame left-wing feminists as a whole for the toxic online behaviour of some women who are foolish enough to think they can be left-wing while shaming men for being gay or not wanting to go to war. The main cause of the popularity of the Red Pill is the profit maximisation of the share-holders of tech companies, and most of them are males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Misandry exists.I agree with that and as a cis-white woman living in Europe, I do face sexism (which is fueled by the manosphere) but it'd be far-fetched to say I'm oppressed by the state in the same way as Blacks were oppressed in South Africa. When it comes to workplace discrimination while getting hired, I haven't had problems but my male Arab and Black colleagues who work in STEM like me do struggle to find a job, even if they are as qualified as or more qualified than me. And so do transwomen. Policies tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 03:07 PM |
| 5 | Misandry exists.As for racial hatred, I don't think you can argue it is only possible if you're a member of a dominant group. I hate the Jewish supremacist Apartheid state of Israel and the horrible way they treat Palestinian Lives, however if a Palestinian kills a small Israeli child, that remains a racial hate crime. Frankly speaking, the idea that it is legitimate for members of a dominated group to hate all members of the dominant group is a recipe for forever wars. The Left completely disqualifies itself w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Misandry exists.I agree that "misandry" and "misogyny" aren't the same, however if you define misandry as "hating or despising someone merely because he's a man", it certainly exists, you cannot define a phenomenon out of existence. The problem is, as you rightly pointed out, that the word "misandry" is very often misused, as I've been called a misandrist because I wouldn't feel reasurred if I were alone in the woods with a random man I've just encountered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Misandry exists.I agree, and the main reason is that enterprises expect mothers to have the same workplace experiences as fatherless men in order to get promoted. This is a deeply misguided view of equality that fails to consider we don't face the same hurdles in life, I don't have kids yet but if I did, it wouldn't be fair to expect me to have as many accomplishments as someone who doesn't have a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Misandry exists.I agree with most of what you've written, however as a young woman working in the field of AI, I think that not having 50% of women among the leaders in a firm is not necessarily a sign of mysogyny if there are only relatively few women among the employees in general. The real problem is that there are too many girls who feel discouraged to choose to study science in the high school and in higher education because of lingering internalised prejudices and sexism on the part of male students, I ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 05:06 AM |
| 3 | Misandry exists.Exactly! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 04:53 AM |
| -2 | Misandry exists.I agree that misandry is real, my younger brother experienced that, however its consequences are pretty much harmless (on average): misogyny can easily result in a woman getting killed, sexually assaulted and raped, misandry generally result in an innocent man being treated harshly or insulted and in hurt feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 04:46 AM |
| -25 | All feminists are the same and they all oppose Men having basic human rights"male SA happens all the time" that's funny you say that because none of my male friends told me they ever experienced it upon being asked. Buy yeah, when it does happen, it is a sexual crime. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/26 07:03 PM |
| -19 | All feminists are the same and they all oppose Men having basic human rightsYou couldn't be more wrong for goodness's sake. "Make conscription gender-neutral": SOME feminists want men and men only to be forced to serve in the army but that's absolutely not my case. I want everyone to do it out of his or her own free will, I hate what Putin is doing to Ukraine, but I don't want my younger brother to be forced to defend that country, that decision is up to him alone. If a land can only live on through coercion because not enough people would be ready to defend it, it's li… | /r/MensRights | 28/05/26 05:46 PM |
| -23 | Homophobia is one aspect of modern misandryFor fuck's sake no, only a very small number of feminists in my circle hate gay men, most of us regognise they may have advantages in life because they're guys but also huge disadvantages because they're queer, as a white straight cis woman, I'm far less likely to be the victim of a hate crime than they are. Most homophic aggressions are commited by men who often have a low view of women as well. Don't mistake me for your foe. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/26 07:08 PM |
| -11 | Feminism is an excuse for women to hate on menYou know how to read, right? These young feminists talk about the MANOSPHERE. Not all men are member of that ideology where toxic masculinity runs rampant. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/26 08:28 AM |
| -5 | Feminism is an excuse for women to hate on menYou're painting feminism too broadly. There are, no doubt, feminists who hate men indiscriminately. However, in my circles, this seldom happens, you'll often see young women who fight against men oppressing them (such as men in a position of power who touch them without their consent) and the misogyny of the manosphere while at the same time having deep sincere friendships with guys and caring about their hapiness and well-being. They reject gender essentialism and would never say that "all men … | /r/MensRights | 10/05/26 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start leaving women alone.I may wear "sexy" clothes for different reasons, my main motivation for being "half-naked" might be that it's hot outdoors but I'll choose something fanciful in order to look attractive. I'm gonna enjoy respectful guys desiring me but also other women admiring me and praising my choice of clothes and I'm gonna praise them as well if I like what they're wearing. Of course, I also wanna men to find me attractive because of my unique sense of humour, my intelligence and my openness to discuss about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 09:23 PM |
| – | Positive masculinity is a scam.I reject any gender roles and I think that you over-generalise when you say that left-wing feminists wanna replace harmful gender rules by other gender rules. When you say that men don't need to protect, I disagree because I think that EVERYONE men and women alike have the duty to protect the weaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 04:37 PM |
| 1 | It seems that after the breakup, women are with a new guy almost instantly, while guys have to go through a crazy long dry spellThat's the law of offer and demand. The average woman is grounded and can be happy without a man, and yes, even without sex. The average man cannot, his hapiness and self-worth are tied to his being in a relationship or having sex. Men must learn to be happy without sex and without a relationship and to see these as a plus but not as a need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 03:44 PM |
| 4 | Men need to start leaving women alone.As humans, we're social beings, and it's normal and natural to like having one's ego stroked. My male friends like it as well when they get compliments while posting half-naked pictures of them in the gym or at the beach. In a way, you could call them male attention whores, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 10:29 AM |
| 0 | Men need to start leaving women alone.I like my white chocolate example. I greatly enjoy eating white chocolate in front of my TV, often much more than having sex with an average guy I just met. I'm grounded, having sex with a good-looking impressive man and/or a relationship is a net plus, but I don't need that for my personal hapiness, so if a guy wanna conquer me, he must at least be more pleasurable than my blessed white chocolate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 10:19 AM |
| 0 | Men need to start leaving women alone.I can sense some (sexual) frustration in your post but I partly agree with you. On the one hand, I think it's important for men to learn how to be happy without a girlfriend and without sex, if they make their hapiness dependent upon having a relationship or sex, they're gonna resent women if they fail to get it. On the other hand, when I choose to wear sexy clothes, I enjoy getting compliments from RESPECTFUL men who see me as a person, even if I don't feel drawn to them. What angers me are the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 10:14 AM |
| 1 | This was a post that I submitted to a gay men’s group but I think could be relèvent here too.And patriarchy has been a billion time worse ever since the neolithic. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/26 09:29 AM |
| -1 | This was a post that I submitted to a gay men’s group but I think could be relèvent here too.I'm an egalitarian, I believe in the fundamental equality of human beings regardless of gender, race, abilities ... If you wanna call me an egalitarian feminist, that's fine for me! | /r/MensRights | 08/05/26 08:31 PM |
| -28 | This was a post that I submitted to a gay men’s group but I think could be relèvent here too.I totally agree this is disgusting as she basically sexualised a child against his will. However, the manosphere has become so extreme and toxic (women shouldn't vote and work, women should sleep with their husbands even when they don't feel like it...) that many left-leaning folks are willing to give such toxic women a free pass. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/26 09:01 AM |
| -10 | Men deserve just as much empathy as women"We don't owe absolutely anything to women or society." That rings psychopathic to my ears. All my fellow human beings (men and women alike) deserve my respect and care, unless they showed me they're unworthy, which sadly the manosphere often does. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/26 08:33 PM |
| – | Why can't women just tell men when they're unattractive?I'm glad you came to realise this! You remind me of my younger brother who told me that he can be much more strongly turned on by a hot porn actor than by the actress or by pictures of hot naked men, but when it comes to real men, they're almost all uninteresting to me. He struggles with relationship with girls but he told me it's totally dumb and immoral to hate someone because he or she isn't drawn to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 07:58 PM |
| 0 | Women sexualizing themselves in the media should never include men.Reading the loathsome and cringy comments of guys on social media is enough for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 08:48 PM |
| -1 | Women sexualizing themselves in the media should never include men.As a woman, I've issues with folks stating that women never dress sexily for men too. I do enjoy to wear a pretty skort miniskirt and to see the effects on guys BUT ONLY if they see me as a person with emotions, an intellect, a sense of humour and so on and so forth. Very often, in male locker room conversations, women are dehumanised and reduced to objects, men erase our personality and emotions. However if a guy says: "That girl is so cultivated, she's so deep in her thinking and she looks so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 07:28 PM |
| – | Do you sometimes like feeling sexy to guys who RESPECT YOU AS A PERSON?That's an utterly laughable statement, no girl in her right mind would like the attention of a boy who sees her as piece of meat to be consumed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 10:26 AM |
| – | Do you sometimes like feeling sexy to guys who RESPECT YOU AS A PERSON?I think it's also a valid standpoint, and many south-Korean feminists seem to share it so far as I can tell! From my own standpoint, the fact that red-pillers and incels hate women who strip or pole dance or sing while scantily dressed tell me something, namely that they can't help but desire them while knowing they can't compete against other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 10:22 AM |
| – | Do you sometimes like feeling sexy to guys who RESPECT YOU AS A PERSON?I enjoy attention from RESPECTFUL AND KIND men, even if I don't wanna date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 10:20 AM |
| – | Do you sometimes like feeling sexy to guys who RESPECT YOU AS A PERSON?I respect your personal experience, your standpoint is totally valid and logical to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 10:18 AM |
| – | Do you sometimes like feeling sexy to guys who RESPECT YOU AS A PERSON?I agree with almost 90% of what you've written! Women are visual creatures too, however on average, women are more likely to need to know and like the personality of an average guy in order to be turned on by sexy pictures or clothes whereas men will be turned on by any woman whose personality they don't personally like if she wears a revealing miniskirt or pole-dance, those are statistical trends of course and there are both straight men and women who don't fit that picture. If we consider how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 10:17 AM |
| 7 | Redpill is the result negative result of a society not having enough masculine role models.Exactly! I also feel good if I realise that (if I have a boyfriend), he's truly satisfied with me as a person including my intelligence, humour and sensuality. When you tell that to red-pill men, how do they react? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 05:11 AM |
| – | Do you sometimes like feeling sexy to guys who RESPECT YOU AS A PERSON?Yes and if I'm in a safe space (such as my gaming circles where harassment isn't allowed), I can clearly see that the guys like my sense of humour and geeky comments when I'm modestly clothed, when I show off more skin, they get more flirty and I feel fairly confident they don't see me as an object. However, I don't dress like that at places I don't know as I'll get lots of disgusting comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 05:06 AM |
| 10 | Redpill is the result negative result of a society not having enough masculine role models.YES! You're on the right track! My most basic belief is that the hapiness and pleasure of a woman are as important as those of a man. I hate the red pill because it leads me to date men who don't see me as their equal and try to hide it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 04:57 AM |
| 4 | Redpill is the result negative result of a society not having enough masculine role models.What would be for you a positive example of masculanity? How should a good man behave towards women when it comes to dating, friendship and work? I'm curious to hear your take on this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Do transmaxxers finally prove women do have it better?I still think there is big gap to overcome, I've tried to date transmen, but as a cis-straight woman, I just didn't feel drawn to them, I felt bad about their disappointment, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 04:38 AM |
| – | Do you sometimes like feeling sexy to guys who RESPECT YOU AS A PERSON?Obviously, I don't think I'm hurting anyone. I also like to look at videos of hot men and they aren't hurting me even if I can't get them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 04:26 AM |
| 0 | Do transmaxxers finally prove women do have it better?No, I certainly wouldn't lose my shit over it, lol. I think that sexual attraction is mostly grounded in biology and there is still a big gap between the wishes of transwomen and cis straight men and lesbians. However, with the help of AI, I think it's quite possible to make transwomen so similar to us that most cis straight men and lesbians can get turned on by them. I now this is tech optmism but I cannot help, I'm a data scientist afer all, ha ha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Do transmaxxers finally prove women do have it better?I'm a cis-woman and I wish we had medical technologies that'd make trans-women virtually indistinguishable from us for all practical purposes. In this way, transphobic folks wouldn't be able to identify them and the majority of straight men or lesbian would naturally feel attracted to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Do transmaxxers finally prove women do have it better?As for the assertion, I'd like to see sources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Do transmaxxers finally prove women do have it better?As a straight cis women, I doubt there are lots of straight cis men and cis lesbians who're attracted to transwomen because they're sexually too different at the moment. I totally respect transmen but I can't date them. However, I do hope that technological progress will make them virtually indistinguishable from the gender they want to be a part of. I'm kind of a trans-humanist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 02:13 AM |
| -3 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseAs an egalitarian feminist, I'm very careful to make the difference between these three kinds of men: 1) The abusers and those who actively spread sexism and misogyny. 2) The by-standers who laugh while hearing their friends' dehumanising "jokes" and remarks. 3) The friendly men who try to put themselves in a woman's shoes and defend us as best they can. When I say that I feel threatened by men or that men need to do better, I'm never talking about the third group my father and younger brother b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 04:05 PM |
| 1 | What is your motivation to be in relationship?I'm 28-years-old and I hope to find a wonderful man I'll be happy with, I'll have great kids with and who will foster my career in STEM that means so much to me. Red-pill guys are a true PLAGUE, they don't care about my personal hapiness, just about theirs and their fulfilling their sexual fantasies that often stem from the hardcore porns they keep watching. Therefore, while dating a new guy, I'm always on the look-out for red / red-pill flags... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled?Yes, however there are also a few cases of women sexually assaulting men, I personally cannot fathom how they form the wish to do such a thing but we should certainly not let them off either. It's a pity that female and male issues are generally seen as a zeo-sum-game so that an egalitarian woman who also feels empathy towards male victims can be called a "pick-me", this is a very unfortunate state of affairs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled?Sadly, human history is full of men who enslaved women and thoroughly enjoyed it. So, an appeal to self-interest isn't gonna work in most cases ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 08:01 PM |
| -3 | If feminism was truly also about Men's issues like some people claim there wouldn't be countless examples that show the oppsiteGenerally, most feminists oppose women being drafted on the grounds that they work on average much more than men without being paid, but there are exceptions such as in Norway where the draft for women led to a better representation of women in the army. Leftist feminists like Briahna Joy Gray are ANTI-WAR, they absolutely don't want men to be drafted against their wills. Some feminists wants men to be drafted and punished otherwise, but they're a small minority among left-wing activists, so far… | /r/MensRights | 20/04/26 06:54 PM |
| -2 | If feminism was truly also about Men's issues like some people claim there wouldn't be countless examples that show the oppsiteFeminism isn't about men issues, it is a movement that advocates for women's rights that are then often grounded in a belief in the fundamental equality of men and women. However, there are lots of self-identified feminists who also deeply care about the well-being of men, check out the Youtube Channel of Afro-American democratic socialist Briahna Joy Gray. She's certainly a feminist, however she focuses on the defence of ALL working-class folks (men and women alike) and you can clearly see she … | /r/MensRights | 20/04/26 06:07 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled?Okay, fair enough! Would you say you're uncomfortable with women quotas because while they help us reach equality of outcomes, they also often violate equality of chances in male-dominated sectors? As a young woman in STEM, I find that's a very complex topic and I hate the POLARISATION of this debate, a woman who's for quotas because she feels that diversity is something good in and of itself isn't trying to "grab power for herself in order to hide her incompetence", diversity quotas only give y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 09:08 PM |
| 40 | Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled?As an egalitarian woman, I don't think you deserve to be canceled if you just say that male loneliness and difficulty to make and keep friends is a big problem, actually I too do feel concerned about that when it comes to my autistic younger brother. If, however, you WRONGLY state that: "- Men wouldn't be alone if it weren't for women's selfishness and their hypergamy, women's voting rights and their ability to choose a partner and leave him at will has been a big net loss..." then it's pretty c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Yes, some women actually want to be single and childlessWith all due respect, you sound like a professional male supremacist brainwasher or one of their tame girls. In a world threatened by global warming and AI that might make the large majority of people workless, no woman should ever be pressured to have children and a family, that always ought to be a personal choice. And kids are likely to suffer if she's been pushed to marry someone she doesn't really like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 08:38 AM |
| -6 | As an egalitarian woman, I absolutely cannot support the manopshereIf trying to reason with men is trolling, I shall then gladly accept that label ;-) I am sometimes tempted to think that men are impervious to reason, but I know this isn't true as I was able to deconstruct some of the toxic masculine beliefs of my younger brother he took in from the surrounding culture. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/26 08:34 AM |
| -4 | My experience with hundreds of discussions with feminists online(most commonly used fallacies)It's not only "feminists", social media tend to dumb down ALL conversations. I agree that "what about men" is a terrible answer when talking about an abusive woman who needs to be held accountable for her own choices and deeds. At the same time, let's face it: the consequences of misogyny are EXTREMELY worse than those of misandry, in the large majority of cases, misandry leads an innocent and good man to be verbally attacked and sometimes bullied even though he didn't deserve it, thereby result… | /r/MensRights | 19/04/26 06:36 AM |
| -5 | As an egalitarian woman, I absolutely cannot support the manopshereThose are GROUNDLESS statements. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/26 06:23 PM |
| -6 | As an egalitarian woman, I absolutely cannot support the manopshereIf you tell me: "SOME men are boys have issues that aren't taken seriously by society and suffer from it", I'm fully on board. However, the notion that men as a whole suffer from "horrific abuses" is ... well, somewhat ridiculous to say the least. This leads normies to overreact and to completely reject the notion that men have any problems worth mentioning. Which is exactly why I wrote my post. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/26 06:22 PM |
| -5 | As an egalitarian woman, I absolutely cannot support the manopshereI obviously cannot answer to all your points, however when it comes to "State-Mandated Disposability", I can assure you that left-wing and leftist feminists and egalitarian women don't like that at all, we don't want our brothers, boyfriends and sons to suffer and die in order to uphold an empire, the only men who should die are the war-mongers. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/26 06:15 PM |
| -13 | As an egalitarian woman, I absolutely cannot support the manopshereMy mentioning the suffering of Palestinian boys and girls was a clear way to show I don't consider the problems of a human being as less problematic merely because they've got XY chromosomes. If I were a misandrist, I'd feel less sad about male Palestinians being killed. But I don't. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/26 02:32 PM |
| -20 | As an egalitarian woman, I absolutely cannot support the manopshereI'm thankful you've chosen to show your hatred of women to the whole world. That strenghtens my case! | /r/MensRights | 18/04/26 01:20 PM |
| 31 | Yes, some women actually want to be single and childlessThat being said, there are also many women whose genuine goal is to find the RIGHT man they'll be happy with. The brainwashing really starts when you tell a girl that getting married and having children is an end in and of itself, even if you only manage to find a sub-optimal partner that fails to significantly incrase your level of hapiness and joy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 11:57 AM |
| – | Yes, some women actually want to be single and childlessYou go, girl! :-) The way I see it, these men hate the fact that when it comes to sex, they've got to work considerably harder to find a partner whereas for a woman, making herself cute and sexy MAY be enough. In a phase when I was looking for not too serious encounters (after a break-up), I remember that several guys complimented me for my wearing a flirty miniskirt and I thanked them for the compliments but turned them down. One week later, they told me in public that I was showing off too muc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Red-pill men, is a husband who beat his wife because she cheated on him less guilty?It happened that I dated men who could have POTENTIALLY done this but I was luckily wise enough to end the relationship after having seen several red flags, in spite of my romantic feelings. I'm glad you survived! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 10:15 AM |
| 0 | Red-pill men, is a husband who beat his wife because she cheated on him less guilty?Oh but I absolutely think that if my brother were with a woman and he cheated on her, that would in no way, shape or form justify her battering him (although I do hope he'll never make that choice if he were in such a situation). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 10:04 AM |
| -7 | Red-pill men, is a husband who beat his wife because she cheated on him less guilty?This is a great answer! However, shouldn't you then leave behind the red-pill community given how widespread these views have become? I'm only 28-years-old and I'm open to the possibility that right at the beginning, the red-pill was only seeking to help men realise truths about the dating world and become more sucessful. Now, it has become a cesspool of misogynistic hatred. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 08:24 AM |
| -39 | Here's the trick: cut them out of your lifeAre you truly sure that men suffer more because of the deeds of women than because of the deeds of OTHER MEN? | /r/MensRights | 17/04/26 07:57 PM |
| 9 | PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sexYeah, if we are being observed and studied by an advanced extraterestrial species, they probably find women to be normal but men to be utterly unpredictable and weird, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 06:10 PM |
| 9 | PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sexAnd a girl who likes to show some cleavage from time to time isn't lying to anyone, she's on the contrary being very honest by showing what a potential boyfriend would experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 04:25 PM |
| 1 | PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sexMaybe make-up, however miniskirts do have an effect on men, albeit it may not always be desirable as this can lead to objectivation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 04:23 PM |
| 13 | PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sexA Pick Up Artist is a liar and manipulator who wants me to believe he's a man he isn't in order to sleep with me. If I wear a miniskirt or show some cleavage in order for men to see I'm not only witty and intelligent but also hot, I am NOT manipulating anyone, men know that they'll get what they see if we choose to have a date. So, we've good grounds for hating Pick Up Artists that don't apply to girls who wanna look pretty and sexy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 04:21 PM |
| -2 | If feminists truly cared about abuse and r*pe victims they wouldn't be silencing male victims and excusing female abusers"What you think is NOT representative of feminism as a whole" I'm not only a woman but also a data scientist with a PhD and if you wanna make such statements, you've got to back them up through lots of real quotations and statistics, otherwise they're utterly GROUNDLESS. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/26 10:58 AM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improve"Well women only value men for their looks , money or status" In other words, you know my own brain better than myself? What's your qualifications, pal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 10:56 AM |
| – | Men have nothing to complain about in datingExactly! My younger autistic brother is sad about the fact he struggles with relationships, however he isn't a virgin and it happened that he turned down a woman he found unattractive, so he also understands that women who don't find him attractive are not interested in dating him. Instead of complaining about women's cruelty, he complains about the cruelty of Mother Nature and God. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 10:55 AM |
| -4 | If feminists truly cared about abuse and r*pe victims they wouldn't be silencing male victims and excusing female abusersSOME feminists have covered up evidence of abuse because they wrongly thought this is a zero-sum game. I can assure you this isn't the mainstream view where I live, I'm well aware there are toxic and abusive women out there and I don't ever seek to defend them given that they also like to verbally bully other women. The "Violence against Women Act" is a reaction to the fact that misogyny strongly worsens domestic violence when the victim is a female. Men who are domestically abused because their… | /r/MensRights | 17/04/26 10:11 AM |
| – | Men have nothing to complain about in datingWhy should I sleep with an average guy if eating white chocolate in front of my TV is likely to bring me more joy and pleasure? Guys who're truly interested in me should at the very least work out to become considerably more interesting than my favourite white chocolate brand! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:48 AM |
| 0 | Simps are the problem.Where in the hell are these women who wanna men they aren't interested in to pay them a dinner? As a matter of principles, if I have a boyfriend, I always try to share my bills in an equitable way with him and so do almost all of my girl friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:41 AM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveThis would make young men at least ten times happier than they currently are! And this will surely end the gender war and lead to a reconciliation of men and women and never-ending peace and prosperity for all! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 08:48 AM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveThis cuts both ways, many women are unlikely to find someone they'd ENJOY being with if they don't improve. And what's the point for me to be with a guy if that doesn't bring me any true joy or hapiness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 08:47 AM |
| 0 | It irks me that the societal value of men and women are so different and tied to different thingsThe problem is certainly not left-wing feminism but capitalism and patriarchy. I find it deeply ironic that many working-class members of the manopshere massively support the far-right (such as Trump in the US or Farage in the UK) that wants to completely destroy the welfare state and just watch them die if they don't manage to find a job because they're chronically sick. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/26 08:20 AM |
| 0 | If feminists truly cared about abuse and r*pe victims they wouldn't be silencing male victims and excusing female abusersCould you please provide us with COMPLETE quotes in their context so that we know this isn't your personal misinterpretation of what these feminists have said? | /r/MensRights | 17/04/26 06:58 AM |
| -6 | If feminists truly cared about abuse and r*pe victims they wouldn't be silencing male victims and excusing female abusersOkay, Spillar is misinformed then and I disagree with her. However, violence against men tends to be more seldom and much less deadly than violence against women. This is doubtlessly a problem, but men who focus on that while ignoring the horrors women have to face are likely misogynistic. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/26 06:56 AM |
| -15 | If feminists truly cared about abuse and r*pe victims they wouldn't be silencing male victims and excusing female abusersCould you please be more specific and NAME the feminists who defend female abusers? I've no doubt there might be some, but if I heard that a woman tried to grab a male friend of mine even though he expressed his lack of interest, I'd be disgusted and angry, and so would the large majority of feminists I know in the real world. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/26 07:42 PM |
| – | Women don’t owe it to society to raise birth ratesAs a socialist, I mostly agree with you, however consumers aren't alwa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 07:14 PM |
| – | Women don’t owe it to society to raise birth ratesOf course not! I'm 28-years-old and I'd like to have kids but only if I find a great and awesome guy who'll love me like I love him and support my career plans and admire my ambitions, intelligence and skill set. If I fail to find such a man, I absolutely won't have any children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 07:13 PM |
| 1 | A red-pill man and a woman on an ISOLATED ISLAND: who would be the better man?I honestly don't know any woman who'd willingly wanna be with a man who has your mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 08:26 PM |
| 1 | A red-pill man and a woman on an ISOLATED ISLAND: who would be the better man?So might makes right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 07:05 AM |
| 2 | A red-pill man and a woman on an ISOLATED ISLAND: who would be the better man?Yes, a male friend of mine told me he finds it depressing that many of his buddies don't understand he's willing to drive 400 km to meet a female friend even though neither of them are sexually attracted to one another. To so many men, SEX is the only way in which a woman can enrich the life of a man, that's so sad... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 05:49 AM |
| 4 | A red-pill man and a woman on an ISOLATED ISLAND: who would be the better man?I seek to live by the Golden Rule taught by numerous religions and non-religious philosophies. If my fellow human being (man or woman) needs my help, I'll help him or her, even if he or she rejects my advances, because that's what he or she would have wanted me to do to him/her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 02:22 PM |
| 3 | A red-pill man and a woman on an ISOLATED ISLAND: who would be the better man?Even if you only reach this outcome through coercion and this would never have happened if you'd helped her as your fellow human being? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 02:18 PM |
| 1 | A red-pill man and a woman on an ISOLATED ISLAND: who would be the better man?In the real MODERN world, which is why so many red-pill guys want to forbid no-fault divorce and discourage women from working and having a career or even studying. In the past, lots (probably) most women had no choice but to marry a "Cedric" for their material survival. So guys had to do very little efforts to get a girl and sex but the romantic and sex life of an average woman was boring at best and traumatic at worse. The men who dominated the society back then were much more sexually satisfi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 08:06 AM |
| 0 | A red-pill man and a woman on an ISOLATED ISLAND: who would be the better man?To explore whether red-pill men truly wish a partnership with a woman based on mutual respect, desire, reciprocity, and equality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 08:04 AM |
| -26 | This hits me so hard as a manAnd Donald Trump and the MAGA republicans destroying the already very thin American welfare state is helping you? Letfwing feminism also includes the help of ALL poor and working class folks regardless of gender. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 07:41 PM |
| -28 | This hits me so hard as a manWell, as an equalitarian feminist and socialist, this hits me hard too! I hate the sexism and misogony of the manosphere but I absolutely want to protect vulnerable men because they are my fellow human beings in dire need. The problem that causes this state of affair isn't feminism, let alone left-wing / leftist feminism but American capitalism that is grounded in the BOUNDLESS GREED of share-holders who don't give a shit about all these men dying and just wanna pay as little taxes as possible. … | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?And are you proud of that? Which woman in her right mind would want to sleep with you if she realises you only see her as a means to an end and dehuminse her? My younger autistic brother struggle with relationships and sex but he does respect women as persons and I hope I'll find a girl who'll like him. In your case, unless you have a radical change of heart, I hope you'll stay sexually frustrated until the end of your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?These red-pill guys are so sexually frustrated and entitled that they think to themselves: "So long as I can't get sex from women, I'm not gonna say anything against rape, abuse and work-place harassment!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 05:26 AM |
| 0 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?Because it is extremely rare that the few red-pill men who don't espouse these misognistic ideas really condemn them. To condemn bigoted ideas that are omnipresent in a group, it is not enough to criticise them now and then, you must leave the group and create a new one where these ideas are forbidden. If a very large number of folks in a group I am a part of began to espouse and defend racist ideas, I'd leave them behind and warn others about them. Any other choice would be complacency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 05:22 AM |
| -1 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?Oh but these struggles aren't "old", the red-pill men who want me not to be a R&D data scientist, to be pregnant and then to stay in the kitchen and to give sex to a man I don't fancy are quite young, and they're growing in number because of tech companies maximising their profit without giving a fuck about the consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?Yes, only fighting discrimination and oppression based on gender, race and sexual oppression while doing (almost) nothing against class-based oppression and mental illnesses is a recipe for dividing the working class that becomes more open to racist, sexist and homophobic ideas. This is why I believe that anti-racism and feminism are very unlikely to work in a capitalistic country that lacks any real social safety net. The bottom line, though, is that it isn't women who are oppressing you but th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?I somewhat agree with you, the arguments you mention are reasonable but my own view is that equality/equity is a complex and controversial topic where good people can sometimes agree to disagree. In my country, women aren't underrepresented in STEM because of hiring discriminations (that do affect racialised folks, though) but because too few of them choose to study that field, wherein social factors and prejudices do play an important role. Another problem is that women with children have a muc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?I don't think that the real problem is feminism or anti-racism. The problem is that the US has an extremly harsh capitalist system that doesn't care about class oppression and mental illnesses, everyone has to fend for himself/herself. In Europe, you'd have gotten lots of help for the problems you've described, you'd have universal healthcare including psychotherapies totally covered by the state if you can't afford it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 07:25 PM |
| -2 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?If you are really a rather decent guy, I'd strongly advise you not to identify with the Red Pill. Right at the beginning, some of the men may have been moderate and were just seeking to find out how to please women. Nowadays, the extreme views have been totally normalised and a lot of them say that women should be put back to the kitchen and sleep with their husband whenever he wishes it and that giving voting rights to women was a bad idea and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?I have a great dead who did teach me that I should be always first distrustful when encountering a man (when I'm not in a safe spot) because too many of them think they are superior to me and that I owe them something, which can lead to rape or murder in the worst case. However, through his countless acts of kindness and sacrifices on my behalf, he also clearly showed me that "not all men" are like that. I suspect that women who didn't have such positive experiences with their father are much mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 07:19 PM |
| -5 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?I deeply love my younger brother, I'd absolutely prefer to be with him alone in the woods than with a brown bear! :-) And the same holds true for my father who's always been a great dad and helped me to trust in my abilities as a girl and supported me a lot when I chose STEM and had to survive in a man-dominated environment where toxic masculanity sometimes runs rampant. So where is the misandry here??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 07:14 PM |
| 0 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?Well, first of all thanks for those wonderful compliments, I find them truly touching! ;-) I'm for DEI practices but how to implement them best is bound to be controversial and I understand why someone may not like specific rules. As I said above, the class-blindess of most DEI nowadays is troubling to me, but I'm glad that in Europe, severe mental health issues like autism, ADHD or bipolar disorders are more and more recognised as a source of discrimination and harassment, regardless of gender.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 06:24 PM |
| -1 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?Thanks for engaging me respectfully and constructively. I agree that men can be treated unfairly and that their arguments can be dismissed just because they're men and that's bad. As a socialist, I don't think we can build a strong political coalition if we insult men and tell them to just shut up instead of reasoning with them and explaining them why we believe what we believe and trying to win them over. I've also a huge problem with neo-liberal class-blind feminists who ignore or downplay the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 05:55 PM |
| -2 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?If you're sincere about that, I really think you should give up the red-pill ideology as it nowadays isn't limited to the realisation there are differences between the genders when it comes to dating (many of which may be of social rather biological nature) but also includes the notion that women are shallow, emotion-driven and that they are selfish because they are too picky and don't easily give sex to average guys, that women should be submitted to their husbands and stay in the kitchen, shou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?Oh but there is a push for more women in philosphy in the united states! https://medium.com/@codinglady/the-absence-of-women-in-philosophy-is-a-disaster-d34bc9be55a Here in Europe, there is less of a push because the percentage of women in philosophy and humanity is much larger than in STEM. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?Yes, and this is why I make conscious efforts not to lash out at men I don't know. Or if I do, because I'm imperfect, I try to get reconciled with them if I realise they mean no harm and see women as their equals. However, red-pill jerks are fair game, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?Yes, yes, yes! They often say shit like "A man can only experience love through sex" which basically is akin to "A man cannot experience love, only sex counts". Every accusation is a CONFESSION, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 04:54 PM |
| 4 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?Right, the fact that states in the US want to put women who had an early abortion in jail or even execute them is utterly crazy, given the fact that a 2-week-old embryo is little more than a clump of cells that lacks any form of human consciousness. I'm so glad to be in Europe but my heart goes out to all American women who are facing this threat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?SOME feminists may shift the goal post because they just want advantages for themselves, however that doesn't hold for the majority of my friends and aquaintances who identify as feminists. Saying that women are "the most privileged people" is truly an outlandish claim, we may criticise the specific ways in which DEI policies are implemented and make them more class-aware (so that poor and chronically ill men would also benefit from them), however in STEM, DEI only means it's harder for a guy to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 04:37 PM |
| – | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menI think I might agree with you if you limit your criticism to NEOLIBERAL class-blind feminists who automatically consider that a (mentally and physically) wealthy straight cis-woman with a rather prestigious work in STEM (like myself) is more oppressed than a working-class man with huge mental health issues who grew up in poverty and in a disfunctional family. I agree that being nasty to him because he points out he's struggling too is horrible and can shove him down the red-pill rabbit hole. Ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 03:34 PM |
| 3 | My partner is red pill , how to help him ?Sadly, he seems to have fully embraced a worldview that teaches him that your personal hapiness as a woman is MUCH less important than his personal hapiness as a man. It's most likely a very good decision to leave him. However, I doubt that he'll be receptive if you try to explain him why, he'll probably just act in a hateful way towards you. If you're a little bit religious like me, the only thing you can do is to pray that God/Karma/Gaia will teach him how wrong he is. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/26 07:58 AM |
| – | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menWhen it REALLY happens, I don't like it because I know that neither my dad nor my younger brother are rapists. However, when I say that I'd prefer to be alone in the woods with a brown bear than with a RANDOM man, I'm absolutely not saying that all men are rapists and murderers, what I'm saying is that in perhaps 10% of all cases, I might have a horrific experience. If I'm careful and if the brown bear isn't hungry, it's quite likely it won't attack me when I'm trying to slowly get away from it.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 06:44 AM |
| – | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menLike religions, social and political movements like socialism, green activism and feminism have their extremists who'll excommunicate everyone who doesn't agree with more than 99% of all their beliefs, so yes I've heard: "You can't be a true feminist if you don't agree we've the right to treat a random man harshly because women have on average much more problems!" But why on earth should I see them as the gatekeepers when it comes to how the word feminism is employed? According to the dictionnar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 05:20 AM |
| 7 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menThere are different varities of feminism, you cannot lump all feminists together. I identify as equalitarian but I can also call myself an equalitarian feminist who wants everyone to be treated in a fair and just way. I absolutely don't believe it is fair to dismiss the opinion of someone merely because he is a man or to assume he's evil or bigoted without knowing him personally. However, I believe that many women do that as a reaction to the horrible red-pill ideology that dismisses the opinion… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 07:06 PM |
| 0 | Men are less emotionally open and more prone to bottle things up because women are not ready to see some parts of men and straight disagree with some of their feelings.Nope, there are plenty of women who might fall for an intelligent and eloquent guy with a great sense of humour who's also nervous, actually we may even find his nervousness cute :-) I reckon it can often happen that a guy mistakenly thinks he was rejected because of his nervousness rather than other undesirable character traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Is anti-abortion sentiment driven by anti-feminism pushback?As a woman, I absolutely think that a large part of the opposition to abortion stems from MISOGYNY, as shown by the fact that the Christian Right in America wants not only to forbid but to execute women who had an abortion while refusing to increase the tax of the rich to help poor sick children and to treat chronically ill folks. They aren't pro-life but anti-women. Abortion only becomes a moral issue shortly before birth when the level of consciouness nears that of a baby. No woman should be e… | /r/MensRights | 05/04/26 11:17 AM |
| -3 | Men are less emotionally open and more prone to bottle things up because women are not ready to see some parts of men and straight disagree with some of their feelings."If he's nervous or anxious when he approaches her, he's out right there and then. She doesn't GAF about his feelings. She only wants confidence. She winds up selecting for men who are "smooth" because they’ve done this a thousand times, rather than men who are nervous because they actually care about the specific interaction. Worse yet, she also selects for men who DGAF about the outcome of his approach and aren't invested." One of my exs was as nervous as fuck during our first date and I yet c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 10:38 AM |
| 5 | Men are less emotionally open and more prone to bottle things up because women are not ready to see some parts of men and straight disagree with some of their feelings.If you blame women as if we were a monolith, don't be stunned if many women blame men as a monolith. Misandry is to a very large extent a reaction to misogyny, if you don't like to be resented just because you're a man, you shoudln't resent women either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 10:36 AM |
| 4 | Women doing OF is fine. But they can't blame men if they ever feel regrets though."Being able to fire women because of any connection to sex work, though is gross." This is why I'm glad that here in Europe, we don't have at-will employment and that it'd be illegal for a firm to fire a woman on such grounds. American is a capitalist distopia to many of us in Europe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 05:59 AM |
| 3 | Women doing OF is fine. But they can't blame men if they ever feel regrets though.Yes, but I also know LOTS of red-pill men (probably most) who primarily see women as sex objects, they constantly talk about how to get laid and insist it is silly to befriend a woman if you know this will never end up in sex. If you're sincere, you should distance yourself from men in this movement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 05:52 AM |
| 5 | Women doing OF is fine. But they can't blame men if they ever feel regrets though.Yeah and this is a big problem in modern feminism. Those who think it is empowering based on the experiences of well-off young women who don't have to rely on it in order to survive tend to strongly downplay the ordeal of those who are coerced to do that out of financial necessity and neither do they talk about the fact that women who do that basically erase their personality and only show their bodies for the male gaze. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Women doing OF is fine. But they can't blame men if they ever feel regrets though.This egalitarian feminist does not think that porn and erotics under capitalism are often empowering as you REDUCE yourself to a body and have to erase your personality, hobbies, interests ... in order to please the primitive reptilian male gaze. I think that having an OF account is only empowering if you also reveal your personality, talk about serious topics, the state of the world, politics ... while at the same time posting pictures that are so hot that it's very hard for a guy to withstand … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 09:53 PM |
| 1 | If sex work was truly a job as any other, we would have no problem promoting it for high schools studentsI hate the red-pill ideology with all my being but I agree that "sex work" isn't just a normal work, as you're giving one of the most intimate and personal and vulnerable aspects of you as a person. Under capitalism, sex work is doomed to please the male gaze that dehumanises us as women and reduces us to objects, OnlyFan creators and porn actresses very seldom talk about their personalities, hobbies, interests, opinions and so on and when they do, this is quickly canceled because it doesn't bri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 08:52 PM |
| 0 | "not all men, but always a man"These men certainly live in their bubble, however to be fair some feminists also downvote me when I ask them for evidence that unpaid emotional labour is a gendered problem that only stems from misogyny (I believe that the truth is much more complex than that) | /r/MensRights | 04/04/26 07:22 PM |
| – | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.SOME women love the patriarchy because of the reasons you mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 05:39 PM |
| – | Red-pill men, is it wrong for a woman to dress sexily to attract more potential partners?You've no right to shame me because I like to look hot for the opposite gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 04:02 PM |
| – | Red-pill men, is it wrong for a woman to dress sexily to attract more potential partners?So you'd only act in a kind and respectful way towards a woman if you think you can get sex from her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 03:19 PM |
| – | Red-pill men, is it wrong for a woman to dress sexily to attract more potential partners?Oh but a man must certainly be WORTHY for me or any other girl to wish to show off skin for him! ;-) I also like compliments of guys I'm not interested in who appreciate the sight of me if they're respectful, take a "no" for a "no" and don't tell disgusting hurtful jokes about me because I finally leave the room with another man than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 10:24 AM |
| – | Red-pill men, is it wrong for a woman to dress sexily to attract more potential partners?"He has to have superhero muscle. " NO. Having muscles can help a man in the same way as wearing a miniskirt can help a woman. However, I've certainly dated average guys without muscles who were just adorable and had such a huge charisma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 10:16 AM |
| – | Red-pill men, is it wrong for a woman to dress sexily to attract more potential partners?Instead of being taught to accept sexual frustration as a normal part of life, to learn how to be happy without a relationship and to develop a stable and reliable character, they are told to hate women and to dehumanise them, which divides the probability of theirs ever finding love by at least a factor of 1000 (I ask ChatGPT to write me a Python-script that gave me this value ;-) ) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 10:11 AM |
| – | Red-pill men, is it wrong for a woman to dress sexily to attract more potential partners?I think that what you described might have taken place in a parallel universe full of your fantasies rather than in the real one we live in, lol. Given the huge power imbalance between the intern and the boss who can make her fail her internship, these relationships are almost always immoral, even if she doesn't say no. And almost no woman would like to have a relationship with a guy who cannot control his dick during a "high libido phase". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 10:07 AM |
| – | Red-pill men, is it wrong for a woman to dress sexily to attract more potential partners?Yes, I totally agree with that! However, it's useful to deconstruct the notion that someone who likes to look attractive to the other gender intents to cheat. This can all too easily lead the man to police the woman's clothes, thereby resulting in a break-up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 09:45 AM |
| – | Red-pill men, is it wrong for a woman to dress sexily to attract more potential partners?And that's exactly that type of mindset and jokes that makes it nearly impossible for red-pill guys to find a woman who'd want to put up with them EVEN IF they are physically attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 09:41 AM |
| – | Red-pill men, is it wrong for a woman to dress sexily to attract more potential partners?Oh but you can be assured there is no possible world where the thought of dating such a man would ever enter my mind ;-) All I want is for a man who went down the red-pill rabbit hole to stop hating women as a group and to realise he's been lied to by the red-pill influencers who wanna make a lot of money by exploiting his naivity. As a socialist concerned about global warming and AI, I think we absolutely need broad voter coalitions and that the hideous Red Pill ideology is useful to the rich a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 09:36 AM |
| – | Red-pill men, is it wrong for a woman to dress sexily to attract more potential partners?I have sympathy with guys struggling with dating, my younger autistic brother is in that situation. However, that doesn't justify HATRED against women. I don't hate a man I want because he rejected me in favour of a hotter girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 09:26 AM |
| – | Red-pill men, is it wrong for a woman to dress sexily to attract more potential partners?Oddly enough, if it's combined with my wits, intelligence and sense of humour, it often doesn't have that effect as the guys I end up sleeping with contact me again to go hiking or to the cinema. However, there are girls who reduce themselves to their bodies and you're right that almost all guys who approach them only think of sex. That's why I'm not fond of dating apps like Tinder that tend to erase one's personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 09:24 AM |
| – | Red-pill men, is it wrong for a woman to dress sexily to attract more potential partners?Everyone is different, if you ain't fond of such things, that's perfectly fine for me! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 09:18 AM |
| – | Red-pill men, is it wrong for a woman to dress sexily to attract more potential partners?It's also ironic there are so many red-pill influencers who tell their followers to look muscular and hot in order to increase their chances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 09:16 AM |
| – | Red-pill men, is it wrong for a woman to dress sexily to attract more potential partners?Well, it's cute you feel so concerned about my weight, however I'm not obese but overweight, I wasn't before Covid but now I just enjoy eating chocolate and sweet things more often, and believe me or not, it can be much more pleasant than going out with a mediocre man ;-) Liking attention is natural and human and doesn't mean you wanna cheat on your partner if you have one. I mean, I know married guys who post sexualised pictures with their half-naked muscular body and they've no intention to ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 09:00 AM |
| – | Red-pill men, is it wrong for a woman to dress sexily to attract more potential partners?Absolutely not, lol, living with one of them would be hell on earth. But they are growing in number due to the social media algorithms, they display a terribly toxic behaviour and understanding better their thought process in order to deradicalise them is a worthy undertaking in my humble opinion. Asking them to state and justify their beliefs is a step in the right direction as those who aren't yet radical might realise there are lots of holes in them. Take care! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 07:41 AM |
| 4 | Worried I will never get out of thisYes, looks obviously play a role but for me and many other women, a great character and awesome achievements can totally trump physical attractiveness, I like to look at the beach pictures of average male acquaintances of me who've an admirable character, I wouldn't if they were random nobodies. The beauty of their soul makes them hot to me. The situation you've described only concerns a subset of women who are shallow and materialistic, you should just learn how to recognise them in order not t… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/04/26 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Worried I will never get out of thisWe no longer live in the middle age, at least in my country most young women are financially independent and we'll never settle for a guy on the grounds he's the "safe option" if we aren't also attracted to him. However, it's quite likely I will prefer to be with an average-looking guy who turns me on through his intelligence and kindness than with a very attractive "Chad" whose sincerity is doubtful. Why should that be a problem for you? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/04/26 06:39 AM |
| -1 | "not all men, but always a man"I'm not convinced that proportionately speaking, women are overrepresented in comparison to bisexual and gay men who falsely accuse another person. Maybe. I mean, I've been bullied by other girls so you'll never hear me say that all women are good and perfect, lol. At any rate, you should all calm down: I'm well aware that not all men would rape a woman, my father and younger brother would never do that, they aren't worse than bears. You don't have to demonstrate that to me :-) I want men who do… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/26 09:26 PM |
| -7 | "not all men, but always a man"It's possible that the female conviction rate is a little bit lower because of benevolent sexism and double standards, however the explanation by far is that we commit on average far less crimes than men, men are the violent sex. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/26 05:04 PM |
| -2 | "not all men, but always a man"Do you know academic studies that back up that assertion? | /r/MensRights | 03/04/26 05:23 AM |
| -10 | "not all men, but always a man"I think I'll put it like this: "Not all men but MOST OFTEN a man". I don't think I'm being hateful against men by stating this undeniable fact. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/26 05:23 AM |
| 3 | Would red-pill men like to live in a world where women aren't sexually free?Yeah and some of them clearly tell me they'd like to have a wife they can sleep with whenever they want EVEN IF she doesn't fancy them. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/26 06:26 PM |
| 6 | Would red-pill men like to live in a world where women aren't sexually free?I don't want to socially ostracise a well-meaning man who has some sexist ideas, as we are often not responsible for the prejudices we take in from the culture and society that surrounds us. Instead, I wanna teach him to become a better man. However, if a man is deeply convinced that the well-being of women is much less important than that of men, then he should be cancelled and I'll warn other women about him. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/26 06:24 PM |
| 7 | Would red-pill men like to live in a world where women aren't sexually free?This is why I think it is important to prioritise restorative justice when it comes to confronting sexism and to first try to deradicalise young men. Retributive justice should only be applied if they're beyond any hope and start to actively harm women in their midst. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/26 12:30 PM |
| 4 | I am so touched starved and single that the thought that a woman finding me attractive and would care about me is nonexistent in my brainThis! There are so many men who think it is a waste of time to develop a friendship with a woman if you know it's unlikely to evolve into something deeper. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/26 12:26 PM |
| 3 | I am so touched starved and single that the thought that a woman finding me attractive and would care about me is nonexistent in my brainMost importantly, there is no guarantee you can get satisfying sex. As an average-looking rather fat woman, I can attract guys by wearing make-up, showing some cleavage etc. but it often happens that I fancy none of them. In terms of pleasure, I am MUCH better off tasting white chocolate in front of the TV with friends rather than sleeping with a man I don't feel drawn to. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/26 12:20 PM |
| 8 | Would red-pill men like to live in a world where women aren't sexually free?You're right when it comes to human history. However, before the social media algorithms driven by profit, there were signs that in the West, more and more men have become egalitarian. I'm 28-years-old and I often feel much more respected by millennial or older men than by men of my age, the greed of X and Meta CEOs and share holders are making men much more regressive and misoginistic. https://www.theguardian.com/world/2026/mar/05/gen-z-men-baby-boomers-wives-should-obey-husbands | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/26 11:09 AM |
| 4 | Would red-pill men like to live in a world where women aren't sexually free?I also find it disgusting they use pseudo-religious justifications by picking and choosing sexist verses from the Bible while ignoring the passages that speak of the pleasure of the man and of the woman as being equally important. It's no wonder that so many young women are leaving the Church behind with this type of mindset. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/26 11:05 AM |
| 5 | I am so touched starved and single that the thought that a woman finding me attractive and would care about me is nonexistent in my brainA HUGE problem is that many red-pill young men now think it is foolish to have a normal friendship with a young woman, she's either sexually interested in you or you should be indifferent to her. That strongly contributes to their tendency to see women as a means to an end and to dehumanise them, thereby making themselves much more unattractive than they already were. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/26 10:49 AM |
| 1 | I am so touched starved and single that the thought that a woman finding me attractive and would care about me is nonexistent in my brainHis post is somewhat problematic but I don't think it is helpful to shame him if it pushes him further down the Incel rabbit hole... | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/26 10:46 AM |
| 2 | I am so touched starved and single that the thought that a woman finding me attractive and would care about me is nonexistent in my brainYou remind me of my autistic younger brother who isn't a virgin but struggle to find sex and/or love because his handicap (limited special interests, inability to be truly funny ...) makes him unattractive to girls. I'm gonna give you the same advice I gave him: try to be happy without a girlfriend. The dating and sex industry under capitalism wants us to believe we cannot be genuinely happy without a relationship but that is a LIE, if you have lots of friends who accept and support you and ofte… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/26 10:45 AM |
| -1 | There is a hostile environment towards men trying to learn how to flirt, dating skills, attraction skills, etc.You're right that this can lead to situations that are unfair towards well-meaning men. However, I consider this to be an overreaction to the red-pill misogyny that leads many women to become distrustful of men... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 08:14 AM |
| 0 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?Let's assume a situation where she shares your hobbies and interests but you also know that she doesn't fancy you and that she finds sex with you boring and unfulfilling. What would you do then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?In such a world, it's quite likely I'd be traumatised by the sex. At best, I'd get used to it and see it as a boring duty in the same way as a prostitute who has to sleep with mediocre guys in order to get enough food to survive and not to get sick. I honestly don't think there are lots of gals who fantasise about this, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?So if you're married to a woman who doesn't fancy you and finds sex with you boring and unfulfilling, would it be okay for you to nonetheless sleep with her if it gives you a big orgasm? How would you treat her otherwise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?In such societies, lots of women internalise patriarchy and male dominance. Typically, a woman who have to sleep with such a husband would see it in the same way as a modern-day escort woman who's got to sleep with guys she doesn't find attractive in order to pay off her student or medical debts. She might not feel suicidal, however her husband would get all the fun during sex. I suspect that most single red-pill guys would absolutely love to live in such an environment as they could afford to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?That's a halfway decent answer. But would you fight for the right of women to freely choose their sexual partners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:52 PM |
| 5 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?A more honest answer would be: "Yeah, I'd thoroughly enjoy to have a wife who ought to sleep with me without my having to do anything to make her fall in love with me and who isn't allowed to leave me if I don't beat her!' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?"We only wanted to make the world better. Better never means better for everyone. It always means worse for some", Commander Fred Waterford, the Handmaid's Tale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:36 PM |
| 0 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?Yes or she may only work if she's allowed by her husband. So what would you do as a guy in such a situation then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?Since women are (by far) physically weaker than men on average, there is no way they can overcome the system. If as a man you're assigned a wife, you know she doesn't fancy you but that she cannot say no if she wants to avoid abject poverty and that she ought to give you sex and children, what would you do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?Actually, I recknoned with such a reaction before writing my post, lol! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?That being said, there are also single men who aren't red-pill misogonists and who don't want to pay an escort because they (rightly!) recognise they'll still be lonely even if they enjoy the sex. It's a pity that the red-pill ideology now makes these men look bad and suspicious, the red-pill is a great disservice to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:15 PM |
| 0 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?It's very hard for me to understand how any woman may wish to be with one of them. Even if she says and does what they want, they'll still see her as inferior to them. I'm 28-years old and dating has become much harder because of the popularity of these ideas among guys of my generation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?It can lead to trauma but in quite a few cases in medieval Europe, women didn't suffer horribly, however sex was a boring, unappealing and uninteresting duty for the wife whereas it felt wonderful for the husband and the wife wouldn't have chosen the husband if she'd been sexually free. I've the impression that many (albeit not all) red pill blokes would like to live in such a world. To them, women who refuse to date men they only see as friends or acquaintances are torturing them because they b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 07:55 PM |
| 8 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?I'm glad they're so honest, though! ;-) In the real world, I had one guy who confessed to me he'd like such a system but he tried to make it seem less harsh by saying that couples would be formed by a very powerful AI which would be able to match their personalities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 07:49 PM |
| 0 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?Let's assume that being ostracised means that as a woman, I'm likely to starve or suffer horribly because I'd have no way to make money to get by. However, if I marry a man whom I find not particularly attractive, I'll lead a materially comfortable life, however I'll have to give him sex I consider boring and unsatisfying. What would you do if you woke up in such an alternate reality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?Let's assume that being ostracised means that as a woman, I'm likely to starve or suffer horribly because I'd have no way to make money to get by. However, if I marry a man whom I find not particularly attractive, I'll lead a materially comfortable life, however I'll have to give him sex I consider boring and unsatisfying. What would you do if you woke up in such an alternate reality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?Okay, let's assume you're single in this world, and a woman you find attractive is assigned to you, you know she'd have friend-zoned you in our world and only like to talk with you, but in this world she'd have no choice but to marry you and marriage involves sex you've a right to get. What would you do then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?Let's assume that (like in medieval Europe) a wife is supposed to give her husband the sex he wishes, using physical coercion isn't seen as a positive thing but it isn't criminalised either. Let's further assume that marriages are arranged by families and society and that a woman cannot say no, as a man, you'd be entitled to have a wife, you're not free to choose her, but she cannot reject you once she's been assigned to you. What would you do if you woke up in such an alternate reality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 07:32 PM |
| -4 | Single red-pill men, what would you do if you wake up in a world where women aren't sexually free?Let's assume that they're arranged by families and society and that a woman cannot say no, as a man, you'd be entitled to have a wife, you're not free to choose her, but she cannot reject you once she's been assigned to you. What would you do if you woke up in such an alternate reality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 07:29 PM |
| 4 | RP men are not viewing women’s experiences on par with their own.As a woman, I'd be very afraid to be alone in the woods with a RANDOM man I don't know. I wouldn't fear being alone in the woods with my brother or father, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 07:44 PM |
| 1 | RP men are not viewing women’s experiences on par with their own.Looks play a role for me as for most human beings, money nah, I'm earning enough to fend for myself. Status certainly matters but it matters for my male peers too as they'd certainly prefer to be with a girl who's an engineer or a data scientist rather than a waitress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourseHow old are you? I'm 28-years-old and I'm not sure about that! I'm fine with early-term abortion because the embryo is nothing more than a clump of cells without any form of human consciousness. However, when it comes to late-term abortion where the embryo's consciousness is nearing that of a baby, I think that "my body, my choice!" is too superficial a slogan because the life of the almost-baby also matters, so that I only support abortion at that stage on medical grounds. There are lots of wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourseThat "culture difference" between men and women seems to be specific to the English-speaking world, though. In mainland Western Europe, it frequently happens that women who identify as feminists still hang out with groups of people that include men who challenge their ideas, provided those men are respectful and do not behave like misogynistic jerks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 05:03 PM |
| 7 | Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourseI suspect this may be a selection effect. In the real world, neither I nor any of my girl friends would act like this. I agree that online culture can be very toxic and counter-productive when it comes to improving the world, many of these women just want to vent their anger and to virtue-signal. But there are also lots of toxic online guys... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 06:25 AM |
| 0 | What’s going on with the comments on this IG reel? Do women just hate men?Is it hateful to say to a guy: "It's lovely you find me sexy when I dance in a miniskirt, however I don't fancy you at all"? What are we supposed to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Sisters, can you tell us how your brothers are doing in the relationship realm?If Chad dupes me into thinking he is all of that, sure. If I realise that Chad is a racist or that he takes advantage of folks weaker than himself, my sense of disgust would be so great as to overwhelm any physical attraction he may still exert on me. I sincerely prefer to go out and sleep with a "beta-male" who's got all the right qualities when it comes to character. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 05:52 AM |
| 6 | Sisters, can you tell us how your brothers are doing in the relationship realm?Yeah and I strongly suspect that most guys don't mind sleeping with a mean-spirited woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 08:11 PM |
| 5 | Sisters, can you tell us how your brothers are doing in the relationship realm?I think it's correct, as an average-looking fat (but not obese) woman, guys are such incredibly shallow visual creatures that all I have to do is to show some cleavage to attract some of them. On the other hand, I would never want to have sex with an average guy who's not intelligent, funny and kind-hearted. An average man is sexually so superficial that he wouldn't mind sleeping with a mean-spirited heartless dumb woman if he can get her. So there is an imbalance in the dating market but the pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 08:09 PM |
| – | People can feel physical and sexual desire without having sex.This! I like sex, I like being sexy and attractive to guys but I HATE to be reduced to an object for their bodily satisfaction. I need to feel that the man also likes my intellect and my character. Therefore, I'm very often reluctant to sleep with him straight away, except if we've had long message exchanges on internet beforehand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Wanting people to be honest that they just want sex is not the same thing as being sex negative.Yeah I personally like to look hot, to wear miniskirts etc. and to feel wanted by guys but only if I know they RESPECT ME AS A PERSON. If I've got the feeling they see me as a sex object, i.e. a means to an end, I'll hate their dehumanising gaze. So if a guy I don't know tell me upfront he'd like to sleep with me, that'd probably put me off even if he's pretty attractive. And if a guy is truly interested in both my personality and body, it will almost never be a one-night-stand as there is no re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 11:23 PM |
| 2 | If you have a boyfriend, does dressing sexily and enjoying male compliments mean you wanna CHEAT on him?Oh but among Gen Z, these men and women are far from being outliers, lol ;-) | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/26 07:53 PM |
| 0 | If you have a boyfriend, does dressing sexily and enjoying male compliments mean you wanna CHEAT on him?It seems to me that you're projecting your personal preferences (which are totally fine, by the way) on all of us. This is exactly what the red-pill community and tradwives are doing... | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/26 07:33 PM |
| 1 | If you have a boyfriend, does dressing sexily and enjoying male compliments mean you wanna CHEAT on him?The reasons for why a woman wear sexy clothes are always multi-faceted, she's doing it for herself and to impress her female friends but looking attractive to the opposite sex is often a motivation as well, even if she's no intention to cheat. Thanks for your comment! | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/26 07:10 PM |
| 3 | If you have a boyfriend, does dressing sexily and enjoying male compliments mean you wanna CHEAT on him?At any rate, it's good to see there are guys who can accept that, lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/26 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Wanting people to be honest that they just want sex is not the same thing as being sex negative.Yeah and it's incredibly dangerous to say that "men badly need sex" as it means that women who don't want to sleep with them are being selfish and heartless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 07:01 PM |
| 2 | If you have a boyfriend, does dressing sexily and enjoying male compliments mean you wanna CHEAT on him?Thanks for the nice comment! I'm trying to pole dance, I'm not doing it well at all. I don't know if you can confirm it but I've the impression that most straight guys are overwhelmed by their desires when they see a girl doing that, am I right? :-) | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/26 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Feminists use gaslighting.SOME feminists use gas-lightning, there are bad apples in every group, SOME of them are narcissits who abuse verbally not only men but other women who're their ideological allies as well. I personally don't know any woman (in the real world), feminist or otherwise, who thinks that "paternity fraud is no big deal and it's a child and you should keep paying child support", it's a disgusting act of treason, you're cherry-picking extreme examples. False accusations do ruin lives, however they are tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 06:36 PM |
| 1 | If you have a boyfriend, does dressing sexily and enjoying male compliments mean you wanna CHEAT on him?By flirting, I meant female influencers who reacted to compliments from other guys in a playful way and got slut-shamed because of that. If you're in a monogamous relationship, I totally agree it'd be wrong for anyone (man or woman) to meet someone else. By the way, the girls who do that aren't hypocrites, if their boyfriend compliment another girl on social media, they're perfectly fine with it. At any rate, do you identify with the red-pill or the ex-red-pill? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/26 05:56 PM |
| 3 | If you have a boyfriend, does dressing sexily and enjoying male compliments mean you wanna CHEAT on him?Oftentimes, their boyfriends also follow the profiles of other girls who also post sexy pictures on a rather regular basis and their girlfriends are, of course, perfectly fine with theirs liking the pictures of other gals. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/26 04:37 PM |
| 2 | If you have a boyfriend, does dressing sexily and enjoying male compliments mean you wanna CHEAT on him?I'm 28-years old and I cannot count the number of my girl friends who have a boyfriend and post all sorts of revealing pictures on social media. We'll not always have our young body, lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/26 04:31 PM |
| 4 | If you have a boyfriend, does dressing sexily and enjoying male compliments mean you wanna CHEAT on him?I totally support your choice if this is what works out best for you! However, it's problematic to say that other women who choose to show cleavage even though they're married or engaged are being disrespectful in general. Terms like "respectful" / "disrespectful" or "appropriate" / "inappropriate" heavily hinge on the characters of the two partners and the nature of their relationship. On of the main problems of the red-pill / incel / tradwife movement is that they draw on their own personal ex… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/26 04:27 PM |
| 1 | If you have a boyfriend, does dressing sexily and enjoying male compliments mean you wanna CHEAT on him?Every relationship is different, if you decided this is what work out best for the two of you, then that's fine for me. However, isn't it a bit problematic to assume that all other women (and men) are like you? I'm far from being the only one who likes to know I'm attractive to men without having ever cheated on a boyfriend I was with. Should girls on social media never wear anything too revealing if they're no longer single? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/26 04:15 PM |
| 5 | If you have a boyfriend, does dressing sexily and enjoying male compliments mean you wanna CHEAT on him?Isn't slut-shaming women and imposing "modesty" on them an integral part of the red-pill worldview? Over and over again, I hear redpill men talking in this way. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/26 04:11 PM |
| 0 | If you have a boyfriend, does dressing sexily and enjoying male compliments mean you wanna CHEAT on him?I wonder why you're in the Ex-Redpill community since you appear not to be wiling to engage in a constructive conversation but just to voice your anger. 1) I think you're right it'd be disrespectful for me to do this if I have an insecure boyfriend, which is why I'd always leave such a man if he tells me he's insecure. 2) The red-pill community likes to say that men tend to be much more visual than women and that women like to be desired. I agree with them with regard to that. But why would it b… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/26 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Feminists use "misogyny" as an excuse to avoid critcism.I find it so sad that the red-pill and incel ideology is tearing families apart :-( My younger brother struggles with dating and he has some problematic views about women but he doesn't resent attractive girls who don't want him and it's still possible to agree to disagree with him regarding certain things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Feminists use "misogyny" as an excuse to avoid critcism.I thank you very much for this interaction, it's very instructive! :-) The key phrase you just used is "female nature", as this shows you're now essentialising women (including your wife and female family members) and you attribute negative qualities to women as a whole. I think that the average man is more visual and horny than the average woman, however I'd never say that it is "male nature" that pushes men who like porn to hate scantily clad women they cannot get and to want to forbid no-faul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Feminists use "misogyny" as an excuse to avoid critcism.Thanks for your answer. I think that your post is very one-sided, though. How do your female friends and female family members react when they hear such a lecture flowing out of your mouth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 10:30 AM |
| -4 | Feminists use "misogyny" as an excuse to avoid critcism.In my experience, I'm doing a great service to red-pill men by telling them to talk with their sister or a female friend about gender issues, as I'm increasing their chances to find a girlfriend :-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 09:01 AM |
| -4 | Feminists use "misogyny" as an excuse to avoid critcism.I won't deny that some women overuse the concept of misogyny in a counter-productive way, but often times this is a natural emotional reaction to the abuses they've gone through. Even so, your post makes me curious to know whether you have a sister or a close female friend you don't see as a sex object and you regularly talk with. Is that the case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 08:59 AM |
| -5 | Feminists use "misogyny" as an excuse to avoid critcism.When men who like hyper-sexualised video games and porn hub get angry when they see a female youtube influencer using her sex appeal and showing off some cleavage, how could one possibly not use the word "misogyny"??? I was truly dumbstruck by this post of yours, maybe you should try to talk more often with women, do you have a sister or of a female cousin of roughly the same age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 07:51 AM |
| 7 | Feminists use "misogyny" as an excuse to avoid critcism.As a liberal heretical Christian, I think that the Bible speaks with conflicting voices in that regard, as you can find both hostile sexist, benevolent sexist and equalitarian passages in it. Jesus certainly wasn't sexist if you consider his historical and cultural background. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 07:43 AM |
| 5 | This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too.Yep! I actually also like to dress sexily for men who see me as a PERSON, like my intellect, my wits, my political views ... and my cleavage. Dressing up gives me also more choice when it comes to potential partners. This is why all these men are angry, they like to sexualise women, but always on their OWN TERMS and they hate it when we do this to get what WE want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 06:47 AM |
| 2 | This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too.Yeah, men and women alike should strive to be happy WITHOUT sex and romantic love and to see it as the cherry on the cake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 10:16 PM |
| 10 | This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too.This! It may feel good to be noticed by a respectful guy, however no woman in her right mind could ever appreciate being reduced to a sex toy without feelings, thoughts, and wishes. The red-pill ideology, the serial rapist Andew Tates and his likes have poisoned the minds of so many guys, I'm 28-years-old but it's apparently even worse for the younger generations and teenagers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 10:11 PM |
| 3 | This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too.It may be sad to hear that but nobody is entitled to sex and/or love, there are many guys who're not very attractive personality-wise and/or physically. If I know I've better options, it's pretty clear I'll not choose such a man. It's normal for me to be distant to him because if I am too friendly, he'll think I'm interested in him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Apparently, men dehumanizing women is a normal part of male sexuality.We have more agreements than you think! ;-) Yeah, there are also terribly toxic women and good men like your dad. And I reject the brand of feminism in the English-speaking world that says that every straight guy desiring a scantily clad gal is a creep, there is nothing wrong with sexual desire in and of itself, it comes naturally to us if we aren't asexual and we should just enjoy it. The problem I have is that A LOT of guys I know have a strong tendency to reduce women to sex toys and to not t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 09:17 PM |
| 4 | Apparently, men dehumanizing women is a normal part of male sexuality.I partly agree with you. However, it's very rare that women REDUCE a man to nothing more than a sex toy. Sadly, many men do that all the time. Nevertheless, there is nothing wrong for a man to think to himself: "Wow, she's such an intelligent woman and she's so hot while showing off cleavage!", women who demonise this type of desires are going way too far, most of us want to be wanted by guys who like both our personalities and our bodies. If he only thinks I'm intelligent, he's just gonna inter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Apparently, men dehumanizing women is a normal part of male sexuality.I'm all in favour of using our sexyness to get what we want from guys but not if the price is to be reduced to objects. The problem I have with OnlyFans and the large majority of the sex industry under CAPITALISM is that they systematically erase their personality and only show off their body. I prefer Youtube female creators who'll produce intelligent content while often being scantily clad so that lots of guys can't resist the temptation to follow the channel, lol. But as you said, many men wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Apparently, men dehumanizing women is a normal part of male sexuality.And if you try as a girl to post something that is somewhat critical of guys, you're often prevented from doing so for no apparent reason ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 09:43 PM |
| 5 | Apparently, men dehumanizing women is a normal part of male sexuality.You made really great points, lumping all guys together is not helpful when it comes to fighting misogyny, it all too often backfires. However, don't you think that for an average man, the strength of visual stimulation is much higher than for an average woman? There are psychological studies showing that. I know that I can feel turned on by very hot guys wearing revaling clothes but average guys leave me indifferent, unless I realise they've a great personality, in which case I can find them se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Apparently, men dehumanizing women is a normal part of male sexuality.As an average-looking overweight girl, I can tell you that causual encounters totally suck, I'm generally not gonna draw the kind of men I like and the large majority of them would treat me like an object to be used. However, during events like boarding games or language exchanges where I have intelligent conversations with people, it often feels very good to see that several guys really appreciate my knowledge and my wits AND my cleavage and try to flirt with me :-) I don't think there is anyth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 09:24 PM |
| 0 | CMV: “Join Hobbies” and “Expand Your Social Circle” Are very low-ROI Dating Strategies for Most Average MenAs a girl on such apps, it might be funny to have an account with cute or revealing pictures and getting compliments, but if you accept to meet one of these men in the real world, the likelihood he's a manipulator who only sees you as an object is quite high, and this can lead to sexual assault. Dating guys I meet during social events is a lot safer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 06:37 AM |
| 2 | CMV: “Join Hobbies” and “Expand Your Social Circle” Are very low-ROI Dating Strategies for Most Average MenThe best advice I can give these men is that they must first learn how to be happy and fulfilled WITHOUT having a girlfriend and having sex. If I feel that a man is despaired, it's an huge red flag as this makes me fear he might only see me as a quick fix for his mental health issues rather than desire me as a person. This holds for single women too, I'm not ugly but overweight since COVID and not particularly attractive, and while making myself cute and showing some cleave may get me noticed by… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Common dating advice straight up doesn’t work for the average guy struggling with datingI also think that many guys should accept the fact that they're physically and mentally unattractive and that they should try to be happy without a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 06:32 AM |
| 5 | To many women, male attention is low value.If you want to have a stable family later on in life, you absolutely need to explore yourself and find out what you truly want on an emotional and sexual level. I'm 28-years-old and I'd like to settle down with a great guy but I'm in no hurry if it's for divorcing or leaving him a few years later because we aren't that compatible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 05:43 PM |
| 2 | To many women, male attention is low value.It's a small ego boost that can sometimes be nice but quickly disappear whenever the guy starts to act in a disrepectful and/or creepy manner towards you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare.I agree but only if it can be established that lacking this causes very serious mental health issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 04:40 PM |
| 5 | The Reason why Men can act like sluts but Women can't is because of WomenWith all due respect, it is completely wrong to say that "promiscuous" women are being avoided by men who "require values", lol. It can happen that when I am in love with a boyfriend and in another town, I'll wear miniskirts while going out, not because I wanna cheat on him but because it feels always nice to be desirable and wanted. I'm average-looking but you cannot imagine the number of guys who try to hit on me, some of them are respectful but other don't even know what the word "consent" me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 11:27 AM |
| -1 | Has anyone had an honest conversation about men's rights with a woman?I'm a young woman and I've never had a man who could explain to me which objective reasons we have to assume men are being oppressed. The men's lonesomeness epidemics doesn't stem from women but mostly from toxic masculanity. Middle-class and working-class men suffer but that's due to greed-driven capitalism. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/25 09:52 AM |
| -4 | Remember, you are still human; amidst the dehumanization campaignWhilst a small number of feminists may dehumanise men in a counterproductive way, I feel that I am much more often dehumanised as a young woman, when I'm online or when I walk in the street and am reduced to a sex object by guys who only use words to communicate with me because they want to get pleasure out of me. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/25 08:37 PM |
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