Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating apps

Zoya_The_Destroyah · 2026-07-15T14:21:48+00:00

Every time a topic like this comes up we are very eager to tell men that they are talking about two different groups of women….. same logic applies here no? Lots of red pill guys push for “traditional” values and don’t push for hyper sexualization of women at all.

chamomilecloud · 2026-07-15T14:08:52+00:00

I do not believe in “should” — I mean people can do anything; asking them to not to feel a certain way about half naked women is no concern of mine.

But you are asking why men do this (if they do this, as I have never seen it), and the answer seems really obvious, doesn’t it?

They are okay with women who choose sex work because it benefits him when he wants to jerk off, but then he does not want a “slut” or woman who caters to the male sexual gaze when he is now in the position of choosing a woman he wants to date seriously.

Like I am sure there are a lot of men who are okay with the existence of sex workers and prostitutes, but still would not want to date one because it induces discomfort or even disgust at the thought of doing so.

Has knowledge of male nature just disappeared in the last two generations or smth?

Secret_Bake2304 · 2026-07-15T17:29:11+00:00

Dating apps are for long term relationships and potential partners. Men don't want a partner that provokes men other than themselves it's a sign of infidelity.

Some men only want to hook up? Then swipe right on the sexy profile then. It doesn't matter if she plays the field to you then.

Other media exists for the purpose of being consumed.

It's intention and purpose.

intothewild72 · 2026-07-15T14:43:45+00:00

red-pill ideology and the manosphere

You have no idea what those concepts even mean, so just don't use those in here. It's pointless, we understand you just mean men anyway.

a lot are huge consumers of porn and are even proud of it.

Men are huge consumers of porn, so are women of course, but yes men are probably more in average. You could argue that internet is for porn, thats why for example reddit does not close down its NSFW subreddits. When some app tries, it usually backfires.

They also like video games in which the female characters display an unrealistic level of nakedness

Im huge player of video games for like 40 years now. 'unrealistic level of nakedness' is quite pointless concept. Whole point of video games is entertainment and escapism, realism is nice, but not mandatory. Fun is mandatory, especially if you wish to sell your product. If it does not entertain me in some way, I wont play it.

they complain about "woke censorship" when video game producers mostly feature fully clothed characters.

You have literally no idea what people complain about when they say "woke censorship". Its about pushing irrelevant message and making game as vessel of your agenda. I don't care about your message and agenda, I won't pay money for someone to preach to me. Entertain me, or no money. It's of course extremely sad when your only selling point is hot naked women. For me, its not even entertaining, but yes having ugly women in game is kind of buzz killer and women tend to say same. Same with movies. I don't want my entertainment to show me life in reality, I want it to entertain me.

Good-looking characters entertain much better and create no friction. You just sell more. Basic advertising truth that people have known for millennia. There is reason why hot waitress gets better tips (also from women btw), even if you don't like it.

when they see on Tinder or another dating app that a girl they know has posted pictures of herself wearing an attractive miniskirt or showing a fair amount of cleavage or her underwear, they'll call her a "slut" and a "whore,"

Thats all in your head. Does not happen. Can't speak about all, but I have never in my life seen it happening. Also, most people in west go to Tinder for hookups. Men usually have much lower sluttiness standard for hookup than for long term relationship.

make demeaning comments about her body, and say that if she were "respectable," she wouldn't put any sexy pictures on her profile.

Is this happening in your church group or something? Or only in your head? In Reddit? Facebook? Insta?

Indeed, I suspect this has always happened since prehistorical times.

I have hard time understanding what is your core point what could describe "this". It can't be porn, tinder or video games. So I guess you mean slut-shaming. Yes, that existed when I was young too, mostly it was done by women tho. Men kind of liked village bicycle back then, not as potential wife of course.

But where is the logic in that?

There is none, as you have failed to make coherent point.

If men are indeed "visual creatures" who strongly react to such stimuli, it makes perfect sense for an average-looking woman to look sexy in order to attract many more potential partners and have more choice.

You mix up sexy and slutty. Those are different concepts. There can be overlap, but it depends.

I wonder if, deep down, they hate the fact that they can't help but desire her while knowing full well they don't have a chance because she has much better options than them.

Yes, men can desire woman who he knows full well they have no chance with. This has always existed. Hot women are very rare. Much rarer than women think. But it makes no sense in context of your post.

No-Rough-7390 · 2026-07-15T17:01:59+00:00

We need to figure out if pron is objectifying to women or empowering because not even they can make up their own minds about this.

The fact is, women will gladly use their sexuality to get what they want when it serves them. Not sure how acknowledging that is hyper sexualizing

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mrcs84usn · 2026-07-15T18:13:50+00:00

RP is pretty anti-porn, there are several posts regarding how it destroys your motivation, kills sex drive/performance, etc. so I disagree with your premise.

Your “woke censorship” comment is coming from male gamers as a collective, and not necessarily something RP, especially if the source material has been well established.

With regard to the Tinder comment, unless you’re literally watching them as they scroll through Tinder and they’re making such comments, I’m calling ‘bullshit’ on that as well.

Men being visual creatures doesn’t mean we cannot be attracted to women who don’t overtly sexualize themselves. (Here)[https://i.pinimg.com/originals/1b/ae/5d/1bae5dc35010c7084aab4954bc624773.jpg ] is but one example of a woman being covered up, while still looking attractive.

theminxisback · 2026-07-15T21:22:31+00:00

The original meaning of the word "whore" is "to like or desire".

So, if you're called a whore, that means they desire you in some way.

It's only recently been coined as a derogatory term.

And honestly, it's better to be a whore than a Madonna. My great grandma was a Madonna, she turned 96 this year. And I still remember when she told me to do the opposite. To break the curse and not follow in her footsteps. And, I will happily say I gladly did that. I am the polar opposite of what she was forced to be. I'd say I understood her assignment quite well and aced it.

Solondthewookiee · 2026-07-15T14:12:54+00:00

It's called the Madonna-whore complex. They want this mythical hypersexual freak who is only a hypersexual freak for them. Women (in their view) should be good little church girls until the alpha red piller comes along to unlock their sexuality, but only for him and only in the way he wants.

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Ohnoes_in_distress · 2026-07-15T15:07:22+00:00

Can't speak for others, but I simply dislike the plausible deniability.

I have seen women clothed more conservatively and behaving in a more modest way at a BDSM sex party, than in the gym. But if asked directly, then it's a version of "teehee, I just prefer to workout half-naked and in full glam make up, and this is my favourite spot to do half-assed lunges, too bad it messes with your 3x bodyweight squats, now stop staring you creep".

Same with social media - a group for hiking photos will frequently have women posting pictures where their asses in leggings cover more screen that the view itself. If called out for farming attention or advertising OF, they deny and it's the "stop sexualizing me you filthy incel!" once again.

Current_Tax4903 · 2026-07-15T15:48:31+00:00

If women indeed like to be provided for, it makes sense that men should offer them money for sex.

throwaway73737828 · 2026-07-15T14:09:52+00:00

Women who hypermonetize men, shouldn’t be mad when their husband spends money on his other wives.

FeeUpstairs989 · 2026-07-15T15:46:05+00:00

Most redpillers don't watch porn.They consider it harmful to the brain and the dopamine system as well as androgen receptors(aimed for testosterone utilization) I don't say that personally I believe or disbelief this.I just say what the large majority of them believe it.Also they don't play much videogames either.They are just men who might feel slightly desperate but try to improve their lifestyle for physical and mental wellbeing parallel with the aim to Have some sexual casual experiences(hookup with girls from pleasure)or even a long term relationship someday.Some of them might watch porn occasionally, some times,not in a daily or even a weekly basis but they consider it far from good.As a habit and generally they consider it evil and potentially addictive. Sorry for my bad English,they are not my main language,I tried to explain as good as possible.

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rushinthegame · 2026-07-15T14:31:24+00:00

that is a very interesting observation. there is a clear double standard when it comes to visual media and real life partners. it is often just about keeping options open. when you want to choose the best pictures for your accounts, you can scan your photos with an app like drdate.

DankuTwo · 2026-07-15T17:26:07+00:00

“Hypersexualising” does not exist. It is not a thing. It is a slur thrown at totally normal (usually male) sexuality.

frutigeraerolover · 2026-07-16T23:14:40+00:00

Because they don’t like the fact that they aren’t in control of real women’s bodies

Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating apps

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