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Elliot killed more men than women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:36 AM
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Did you read what I actually wrote at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:16 PM
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There's a big difference between 'X is evil and people who do X are terrible people, but I use it all the time' and 'I use X but I wouldn't date someone who does it'. The vast majority of people are doing the second one, and that includes telling other people they shouldn't date X either. If there really is someone saying porn is evil, people who do OF are evil, but I watch it all the time, then that is stupid. But I think that is exceedingly rare
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:09 PM
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No its like you ordering stuff off of Amazon but not being willing to date someone who works at an Amazon warehouse, or a shelf stocker at the grocery store you shop at. If I don't want to date a Doctor because of their grueling work life balance, am I hypocritical for going to the hospital? If I don't want to date a musician because they're always on the road, am I hypocritical for listening to music? Why is porn the only job where I'm required to want to date the worker in order to consume it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:27 PM
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The person who is disadvantaging me The long dead person they claim to be getting retribution against Gee I wonder which one I should be upset with
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:55 AM
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Since you asked for an example of people blaming men... this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:37 PM
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Do gay men have game? They certainly have no problem getting together, but if they thought that meant they had game and tried talking to a woman the way they talk to eachother they'd be arrested pretty quickly. You kind of touched on exactly his point, lesbian game works because it is being said by a woman to a woman. If they were a man and had the inherent suspicion/threat that comes from that, they would be much less successful, and would probably find that they were often perceived as creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:13 AM
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If you're obese by bmi you're either on steroids or way fatter than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:25 AM
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I'm 29 and my Fiancé is 26, I have a significantly better understanding of finances, should we not date? We have very different life experiences (she grew up in a poor rural area, I grew up in a upper middle class suburb) should we not date?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:45 PM
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2 people making 100k is enough to buy a house in every metro in the country except for maybe ~3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 06:01 AM
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The solution is to import latinas
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 05:44 AM
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If a man(who was objectively middle of the road attractive at best) went to 9 different dating events and didn't find a single woman attractive, you wouldn't for one second at least consider that maybe he was being overly picky?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:17 PM
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You've never seen women talking about how men should start out in prison and need to earn their way out?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:22 PM
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You are really misunderstanding that quote and the context, did you actually watch the video of him saying it or did you just see it written down/someone else talking about it? He, being very complimentary, called her the best women's player ever, and someone else asked "why not best player ever?" And only then did he mention that she would be ranked outside the top ~500 on the men's tour. Which is emblematic of exactly how this should be handled, "they would lose to a male HS team" is a shitty …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:07 PM
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That's pretty close to my position actually, legal up to maybe ~16 weeks. If you yourself already hold the belief that past a certain point abortion is wrong, it should be pretty intuitive to understand that for some people the point at which it becomes wrong is earlier than that. Why spout the same tired nonsense about it just being misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:45 AM
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To be clear, that's not my position. Would you be ok with a mother killing her six month old child because she found out the father was her rapist and not her husband like she had previously believed? I assume you wouldn't, and to pro-life people killing that six month old is not much different than killing them a year earlier(while she would have been three months pregnant)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:35 AM
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Because those people consider it to be killing a child? The fact that you're not even capable of comprehending that people who oppose abortion would do it for any reason other than hating women is perfectly emblematic of the state of the modern "gender war"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:30 AM
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You would tell a man you're attracted to and actively interested in having a relationship that he's like a brother to you? What is this, Alabama?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:28 AM
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He's correct, it wasn't federally illegal to discriminate on the basis of gender in lending until 1974, but there were many banks which had women with accounts and lent women money before that. It's a common myth
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:29 PM
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37% of the 40% are married, so about 20% of non-singlemother household breadwinners are women, 80% are men. Some amount of that 80% will be single fathers, but I assume you would acknowledge there are far fewer of those than single mother households.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:14 PM
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She didn't say it's hard, she said she refuses to teach them, that's not a good quality for an educator. I would agree that school systems have unnecessarily limited teachers ability to discipline in the classroom
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:04 PM
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If I was some crazy picky guy that only found supermodels attractive, and I tried to complain to you about how hard that makes dating for me, you would deservedly laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 07:08 PM
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If you can't handle students not listening to you or taking you seriously, you shouldn't be a teacher
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 06:44 PM
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Really, yes really. As everyone has said in this thread, women have problems with dating apps, but nothing compares to the emptiness and despair of getting 1-2 matches per month, and both of them fizzling out after a few messages. I've seen multiple times, in real life and online, a woman trying to make a dating profile either as a man or for a man. Every single time the reaction is the same, utter disbelief at the brutality of spending weeks trying to get even one person to talk to you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:15 PM
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The China soybean thing is a total lie you've been told with bullshit charts. What they're showing you is soybeans sold not yet delivered, so outstanding shipments which have already been paid for. If you extend the graph more than 8 months (which they intentionally shorten it to to mislead you) you'll see the same pattern pretty much every year, leading up to and then dropping off after the soybean harvest
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 11:21 AM
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I feel like you're really stretching to interpret "You're a great and smart and accomplished person, you should procreate because the world would be better with more people like you" as an insult or a reduction of your accomplishments. It's a specific highlighting of your accomplishments. If you have at least two kids, and they go on to each have two themselves, it's a virtual certainty that your descendants' accomplishments will eventually exceed yours. This isn't a bad thing, it's a beautiful …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:59 PM
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MBTI is Astrology for people who consider themselves intellectuals
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:06 AM
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You could have included 0-5 year gaps and gotten to ~80%, that's still not quite the vast majority Also I have no clue why you're including the ones where the woman is older. I did not include the woman being older Also yes USA has a big gap but it's shrinking everywhere else. People immigrate from overseas and guess who leaves? The woman. Looksmismatched couples are not a thing in western nations I think you didn't properly read what I wrote(or your source), The US has the smallest age gaps, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:43 PM
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Did you read the 'data' you keep citing in this thread? Basically a third of marriages are 4+ year age gap according to the source you're linking. And that's data for the US, which your source again has as the lowest average age gap of any region on earth
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:59 PM
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The prefrontal cortex not being developed until 25 is a myth, yet it gets touted around as the 'factual basis' for so many dumb ideas. 25 is the age the study stopped running, not the age the brain finished developing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 10:42 PM
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No ninja edit Those people were definitely radical extremists, but OP seemed to be angling much more towards the "anyone who supports the current pres(not sure I can say his name here) is a radical extremist" slant. Which is where the imaginary boogieman comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 09:08 PM
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Sounds like you've created a boogieman in your head and are now stewing in hatred towards this imaginary person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:53 PM
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The female hormone cycle is perfectly tuned I know a lot of women who would disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:28 PM
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I absolutely agree that if that's what you want, it's ultimately up to you. That doesn't mean that the standard isn't unreasonable though, that just means it's your decision if you want to have an unreasonable standard
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 02:18 PM
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This is just straight up false, even when accounting for prior convictions and severity of offense, women get significantly shorter sentences on average. I'm not losing sleep over it, but to say that so definitely, and to be so definitely wrong, is wild
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:26 PM
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I think you kind of hit the nail on the head without realizing it, success in a lot of these big name high prestige career paths requires certain personality traits. You need to be assertive, you need to be disagreeable, you can't be too much of a team player. These are generally not great personality traits in a relationship. For women evaluating men, the career success can be a huge selling point, and so can help to offset some of the personality traits that come with it. For men looking at wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:58 AM
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This is a very mature and well adjusted response
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:43 PM
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Arctic is honestly a better example than desert for men, it's there but you can't actually access it. But neither example has the same inherent negative associations that a swamp does, the whole point of the analogy is that there is an abundance of men but the quality is low
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:42 PM
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Yes, women never complain about how men refer to them online or in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:33 PM
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Is the arctic supposed to be worse in this scenario? You think they were being generous to men by referring to them as a swamp instead of the arctic?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:29 PM
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Then why not a lake, or a nice clean river? You know why
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:53 PM
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Do you actually think this is a good retort?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:20 AM
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You strawmanning their argument as you attempt to call them out for strawmanning is pretty funny. I would strongly agree with the statement, "if someone is not old enough to choose who they want to date, they are not old enough to choose the leader of our nation" and I'm curious which part of that statement you disagree with
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:14 PM
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but your guests are led to believe you are a far better person than you are? Your words A good spouse would be smart enough to understand that keeping the house at 'guests are coming' clean 24/7 is an unreasonable expectation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:16 PM
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This attitude that cleaner house = better person is the source of a lot of the problems that come from this, you aren't a better person than someone because you vacuum more than them. Keeping the house at 'guests are coming' clean 24/7 is significantly more work than doing it once or twice a month when people come over
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:50 PM
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I think it's perfectly reasonable to have a higher standard of cleanliness for when guests are coming over than for everyday life. In the beginning stage of your relationship, you're a guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:11 PM
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Basically anything involving the phrase 'I'm just a girl'
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:34 PM
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Not that guy, but because I have to choose whether to date her or not? If I dated dudes, a guy who had a kid he abandoned would definitely be off the table. Would you really look at a woman telling other women not to date dudes who have multiple baby mommas and say, "why do you care what a single dad does?"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:26 PM
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I didn't say anything about not being able to change a tire, I didn't say anything about a stay at home husband, I didn't say anything about knitting. Those are extreme examples you made up to attack for your point(maybe not knitting, but would you really not date a guy you otherwise really liked because he occasionally knitted in his spare time?) If you're very open about liking masculinity, and wouldn't call it toxic or tell men to embrace more femininity, then that post wasn't about you in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:50 PM
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Your ability to create statements I never remotely said and then get mad at them is impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:57 PM
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Why do they have to be men in red/black pill spaces?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 01:38 PM
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Nobody is surprised that traditional women want traditional men, what OP is pointing out is how many women who claim to be "non-traditional" or who are non traditional in other aspects of their life(career/politics/religion/etc), still hold men to their traditional gender role standards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 01:16 PM
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I didn't justify anything, it's a real and serious issue. I just don't think you need to lie and manipulate data and this is exactly why: The most dangerous time in a woman's life is pregnancy due to male violence This sort of fearmongering is not helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:13 PM
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I assume you looked at this? They are discussing changes to mortality statistics to include homicide/suicide/overdose, 5.23 is the number for all three. Immediately after this is a table which shows homicide at 2.1/100k, and this is including a full year post partum, so you're comparing what happens over a 21 month span to a 12 month span, so the annualized number would be ~1.2 Car accidents is 13.8 per 100k. It took a lot of digging to find heart disease specifically in an age demographic relev…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:25 PM
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It's 2025 and the largest cause of death for pregnant women is homicide by a male partner This is what you said, this is objectively untrue. A lot of people are misinformed about this because it is commonly cited incorrectly. If you had properly qualified it, I wouldn't have said anything, but I'm guessing you're just learning about this for the first time now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:46 PM
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The study cited homicide as the leading cause of Obstetric death, specifically compared to hypertensive disorders, haemorrhage, and sepsis. They explicitly excluded Cancer, car accidents, heart disease, stroke, and just about everything else most people die from. To the studies credit, they point this out, and even only refer to it as "a leading cause" as a result. Can't say the same for everyone citing this who read the title and nothing else. It's more a statement of how safe giving birth is i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:35 PM
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That's not true and the articles you've seen citing it are extremely misleading
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:07 PM
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More quantity means more quality, generally speaking. Which is why two parent households are generally the better option
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:50 PM
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"Correlation doesn't equal causation" might be the most overused statistical fallacy out there, especially because, in this case, it literally does. Having a second parent is correlated with having more support because there is whole extra person to give support. It is technically possible for a two parent household to have shitty support, it is technically possible for a one parent household to have good support. Neither of these things changes the fact that two person households, on average, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:38 PM
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the idea that men have never been given the advantage is simply unture. they have been leaders, innovators and decisions makers while women has to fight to be in the same room. men were given opportunities by default, praised for achievements where women werent even allowed to attempt You're still doing it, this is the Apex fallacy in action. The vast majority of men were not leaders, innovators, or decision makers. The vast majority of men were given no opportunities by default and weren't prai…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:48 PM
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I think you have a drastically warped view of the male experience, and it seems like it's a pretty common opinion among women. Men have absolutely not been told they are "naturally good at everything". They may not have been told at a society wide level that they can't do this or that specifically because of their gender, but they still heard it for a million other reasons. You can't do this because you're too small, you can't do this because you're too dumb, you can't do this because you're too…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:30 PM
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Do you have an example of someone who is toned that you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:31 PM
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They hand out food to the homeless, like a lot of it, in many communities it's the biggest source of food for the homeless
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:09 AM
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Have you seen a picture of her recently?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:10 PM
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Is he actually a despicable creep though? OP was definitely trying to frame as if he was trying to force his way into this girls uber and assault her, but if you read the details of the story, he was trying to get into the passenger seat, and she wasn't in the Uber yet. That's not the behavior of a despicable monster rapist, that's the behavior of a drunk idiot who thought this was his uber
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:10 PM
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Is that response hardwired into you people? Nobody said that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:43 PM
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https://www.washingtonpost.com/history/2022/05/06/ruth-bader-ginsburg-roe-wade/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:28 PM
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Then why does it say more about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:51 PM
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Naeveh Crain is a story of failure by the medical establishment to properly diagnose her as septic. They did ultrasounds on a pregnant women who came in to the ER to check the health of her baby, attempting to tie it to the abortion ban is complete conjecture of journalists who badly want you to believe women are dropping dead left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:02 PM
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It's hyperbole to make a point, men not meeting womens standards doesn't necessarily mean that men are trash, it means men are trash or many women have unreasonable standards. And unreasonable standards don't have to be expecting a perfect 10/10, an average women expecting an above average man can be unreasonable too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:46 AM
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If I can't find a subservient virgin Victoria's secret model who wants to be my bangmaid, so I choose a cat instead, does that say more about women or about me?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:14 PM
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Not the men being sent off to die in Russia/Ukraine, not the men sitting in prison, not those men who are committing suicide or the homeless men(almost 3 in 4 homeless are men). I'm sure they will all take great solace in knowing that the rich and the elites that created this system have the same genitalia as them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:54 PM
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This lunacy again? There are dozens of porn subs related to degrading men, they're not as popular in a large part because they're not nearly as popular with women. BDSM and CNC subs are some of the subs with the highest percentages of women on the platform, I know your stance is that it's evil and misogynist and no women could ever possibly like that, but you would be very wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:46 PM
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I 100% agree, anyone that cleans more than me is neurotic and anyone that cleans less than me is a slob
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:41 PM
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Thinking that creating more work in your head for yourself to have to do and then complaining about it isn't a good way to live your life is a childish mentality?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:01 PM
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That's not an actual answer though, a lot of cleaning is necessary, but a lot of cleaning is superficial/arbitrary as well
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:47 PM
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The assumption that every household chore women spend time on "has to be done" is a huge one and probably the source of like 90% of this disconnect. How often does the house need to be vacuumed? How often does the house need to be dusted?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:30 PM
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You seem really stuck on this idea that people who don't love each other can have sex, so sex and love must not be connected. People who don't love each other can live together, would you want to be in a relationship where you didn't live together and never would? People who don't love each other can share a meal, would you want to be in a relationship where you never ate together? And not because some outside force or life circumstance was preventing it, but specifically because your partner di…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:03 PM
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In English words don't have gender usually, so we only add it to specify male or female. It's different from romance languages like Spanish or Portuguese, where Niños/Meninos is inclusive of both genders. For your sentence you may have said Child instead of Son or Daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:26 PM
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It's empty platitudes, you didn't really engage with discussion or really try to understand the guy, you go "oh that's so sad" and then leave the discussion patting yourself on the back about what a good person and 'empath' you are. And as far as the other guy replying is concerned, I have a wonderful girlfriend and never really struggled when I was single either
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:43 PM
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You don't have empathy, you have sympathy. Empathy would mean actually putting yourself in his shoes and understanding the treatment and life experiences that lead to him having those beliefs in the first place. You just feel bad because he's sad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:34 PM
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That's not true and the one bullshit "study" that always gets referenced for this was retracted due to complete misinterpretation of the data
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:29 PM
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Who said I was?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:19 PM
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Signaling someone to approach you is still different from actually doing the approaching. If you're holding on to plausible deniability, you didn't really make the first move
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:22 PM
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Men are more willing to change jobs for better pay, more likely to move cities for higher pay, more likely to negotiate aggressively for higher pay. That to me can easily explain a few % difference
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:47 AM
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There's no way that's accurate, who the fuck is spending 70% of their income on things that aren't housing/food/transport? Anecdotally, every guy I know spends more money when he's in a relationship, every girl I know saves money when she's in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:52 PM
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Not the guys dying
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:03 PM
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The extent to which hating on men is permitted depends on the sub and the moderators. Hating on women(and only women) is against reddit's sitewide policy: https://imgur.com/a/pRpSAYc#VeTS3YH
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:08 PM
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Misogynistic violence doesn’t suddenly cease to be misogynistic violence when a man finds it sexually arousing What if a women finds it arousing? Women have nothing to do with what porn subs here are popular I assure you this could not be further from the truth, some of the areas on reddit with the highest proportions of women are BDSM porn subreddits. You'll probably just brush this off away and assume that couldn't possibly be true because it doesn't align with your worldview, but it is It's p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:05 PM
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Again this is a kink thing, you taking it so literally is a bit naive. MisandryKink and a whole slew of other Femdom type subreddits exist, but they're not as popular primarily because they aren't as popular with women as maledom stuff is. Your insistence on comparing a kink/porn subreddit to a political discussion subreddit is really weird, you know those are different things right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:59 PM
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You can't possibly be this delusional, female versions of that sub literally do exist on this website, and there are several gigantic feminist subreddits that regularly call for violence against men. You have a weird persecution complex and it couldn't be more misplaced
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:33 PM
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This is a very "young" take, all of my friends didn't want kids when they were 23. I'm 28 now and now all of a sudden the same people who never wanted kids are popping them out like crazy. Happened to me too, when I was 23 I knew I was never going to want kids, guess who wants kids now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:05 PM
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The poster of the original thread said it in the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:26 AM
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So many people are taking it as gospel that it's one guy? He happened to find out about one guy. Most people don't jump from virgin > fucking a bartender on the first date > sexless 10 month relationship. That you're so quick to make every assumption that paints her in a positive light is the exact point OP is making
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:58 PM
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I think one of the biggest things women don't understand about men is the general apathy towards the "collective". There's no special place in hell for men who don't support other men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:32 PM
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I've always defined creepy behavior as persistent unwanted advances. If you make advances and they're wanted > no issue If you make advances and they're not wanted, so you say have a nice day and leave > no issue Make unwanted advances, she's not interested, push further/get mad > creepy Being good looking means that it's less likely that your advances will be unwanted in the first place, but the best looking guy in the world can still be creepy if he's getting pushy with a girl who's gay/taken
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:00 PM
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It doesn't seem right, because it isn't. This all stems from a Paul Dolan "study" of someone else's survey in which he completely misinterpreted their data: https://www.vox.com/future-perfect/2019/6/4/18650969/married-women-miserable-fake-paul-dolan-happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:52 AM
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There's nothing less sincere on earth than the compliments women give to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:06 PM
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you can't separate love from sex? does this mean you fall in love with everyone you have sex with? Then why be so snarky about someone who says that expecting someone to go without sex for the rest of their life isn't love?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:52 PM
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If sex is so completely separated from love that they won't do it with their partner ever, then why do they care if the partner finds some elsewhere? If you truly love someone, you wouldn't want them to go without something they enjoy for the rest of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:47 PM
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Everyone on the internet gets constantly mistaken for 30 pounds lighter and 10 years younger than they really are. It's almost like it's polite in our society to guess younger/lighter if the subject comes up. There absolutely are people who look young for their age, and differentiating that from the politeness can be tricky. I think one of the best ways to tell is honestly when people are rude about it, because you know they're not being polite. I have a friend who had her real ID taken by a bou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:11 PM
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You think it was only fathers killing their babies for being born wrong? Women were just as culpable and often the drivers of this practice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 01:57 PM
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But that's the thing, this is advice you're giving to improve your life, not the life of the person you're actually giving advice to
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:24 PM
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The idea that women have always had such excessive standards doesn't really hold up to scrutiny, they were emancipated for 50 years and standards didn't get this crazy until the advent of social media and OLD It's widely accepted that social media: Can give women unrealistic expectations for their own bodies Can give men unrealistic expectations for their own bodies Can give men unrealistic expectations for women's bodies But for some reason the idea that it might also give women unrealistic exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:09 PM
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The question is way more vague than it appears at first glance. If I was at a remote cabin in the woods I wouldn't think twice about a bear being outside, but a man walking around would freak me the fuck out. On the other hand if I passed a man on a hiking trail it wouldn't even register to me as something to be scared of, but coming across a bear on a hiking trail would spike my adrenaline like crazy. For whatever reason men seem to assume they chose to go into the woods for hiking/camping and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:01 AM
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Agreeable and agrees with do not mean the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:18 AM
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Which part of that conclusion contradicts his point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:28 PM
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This seems to have mostly devolved into a semantics argument over whether romantic refers to liking romance or doing romance. Who's more artistic, the painter or the person buying it? Who's more altruistic, the person doing the altruism or someone that likes when it happens? These "tic" suffixes always refer to do the doer
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:14 AM
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If my girlfriend couldn't afford to go to Disneyland so I went without her I'd be single when I got home
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:26 PM
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Nothing will ever change their minds? Look up Daryl Davis. Reaching a hand across the aisle with compassion and understanding for the life experiences and upbringing that resulted in someones beliefs can absolutely change their mind. Maybe nothing YOU say will change anyone's mind because you'd rather rant and condescend to people on the internet, but don't act like it can't be done. This applies to both inkwells and racists
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:29 PM
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Who is starting the wars? Not the men dying in them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:46 AM
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At the same time, almost no man gets a consistent dose of feeling very vulnerable physically, while getting picked on by other bigger and stronger men for no reason at all. I think people underestimate this, most men are delusional about how well they could protect themselves in a violent altercation. They think they can handle themselves, but the assault/murder statistics show otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:49 PM
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What benefits do I get from the person who murders me having the same genitalia I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:33 PM
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No the women were always alone when they were asked the questionnaire, someone else looked at the data and completely misunderstood what the "spouse absent" variable meant
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:49 PM
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https://www.deseret.com/2015/8/4/20569426/study-that-found-husbands-prone-to-leave-sick-wives-was-flawed-researchers-say/#:~:text=Researchers%20have%20retracted%20a%20study,discovery%20of%20a%20coding%20error.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:37 PM
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Yes that study was retracted because they fucked up their data: https://www.deseret.com/2015/8/4/20569426/study-that-found-husbands-prone-to-leave-sick-wives-was-flawed-researchers-say/#:~:text=Researchers%20have%20retracted%20a%20study,discovery%20of%20a%20coding%20error.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:36 PM
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It was a complete misinterpretation of someone else's study, married women were very unhappy when 'spouse absent' which they assumed meant they asked when their husband left the room, but actually it meant the couple were separated/no longer living together
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:34 PM
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So there's nothing in a relationship that you would consider cute or "nice to have" that isn't an absolute requirement? I had an ex that used to paint me pictures, that was nice, but I would have to be insane to be like "I'm never dating anyone who doesn't paint me little pictures ever again". And yet, if I was dating someone and found out they used to paint pictures for their ex but didn't do that for me I would be hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:29 PM
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In vitro is far from a 100% success rate, and the success rate decreases with age. For women over 42 the success rate is under 20%, and that's not per attempt, that's at all. Telling women who want kids they have infinite time when they don't is just setting them up to be heartbroken
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:31 PM
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There's no room for your valid point in the circlejerk here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:55 AM
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No it didn't? Median lifetime partners was 2.5 for men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:51 PM
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The study you're referencing was a complete misinterpretation of someone else's actual study and has been retracted. Married women are happier than single women on average
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:16 PM
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In my experience it's the opposite, masculine women want even more masculine men. I train at a fighting gym with a pretty healthily populated women's team(rarer in that world). Every single woman I know who fights is either dating a guy who fights or single, they wouldn't dream of dating someone weaker than them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:17 PM
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to me body count stress is like 1 step removed from 6 year olds being like my balls touched the seat and you touched the seat so you touched by balls lololol You said this, so I pointed out that it's about the action, not that they think they're going to get ball cooties
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:12 PM
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It's a comparison because they're both past actions? How do you not get this? You can compare one aspect of things without that meaning that every single aspect is the exact same. If I compare pavlov's dogs to the behavior in humans that doesn't mean that I think humans walk on all fours and bark
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:53 PM
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Obviously they're not the same thing, I said that and you still ignored it. It's an extreme example to highlight that the action is what matters not the skin cells. Some people might not want to date people who've had a lot of casual sex in the past, that doesn't make it moral or immoral. Some people might not want to date someone who visited a prostitute before, that doesn't make that action moral or immoral
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:45 PM
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David Berkowitz hands aren't the same hands that killed people anymore, so we should probably let him out of prison then. Just because I know if I don't say this you'll completely ignore my actual point, killing someone and having sex are not the same thing, the point is that it's about your actions, not "ew your skin touched a weiner"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:00 PM
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I don't think that's unreasonable, but I do think in practice the distinction between expressing desire and demanding is very subjective and based on "feelings"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:59 PM
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Just to be clear, you're happy with this situation, and he's happy with this situation, but if he'd actually advocated for or expressed desire for this situation he would be an evil monster that doesn't deserve it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:25 PM
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It's absurd to reject someone because of height/weight, but not because of how they look. If I look at a girl and think she's attractive, but then find out because of muscle density/bone structure she weighs 180 lbs, I'm not really going to care about the number on the scale. This is what I find strange about so many women(not all) with height, it's so often about the actual number. I've seen women in real life find a guy attractive, then find out he's 5'9 and go "Oh, I thought he was taller, ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:43 PM
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This is the classic misinterpretation though, lowering your standards doesn't mean dating men who are lazy, won't commit, don't treat you right. It means dating the guys who actually want to date you, even if they might not be as tall/handsome/rich. The most common reason girls think guys don't want to commit is because they're aiming out of their league
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:26 AM
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You have to know how dishonest you're being right? His girlfriend is going clubbing, explicitly forbidding him from going, and then gloating about how many dudes are hitting on her while she's out. And somehow not being OK with that is the same as wanting a live at home pet that has no free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:03 PM
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They don't mean a 30 year old and a 15 year old, the person you're responding too was talking about relationships with a 10-15 year age gap and you immediately jumped to a crime. You have to know that's not what he meant
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:02 AM
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It's not so much the gender of your kid that's the problem, it's who they're fucking. If his daughter was scissoring with Susie and his son was getting pounded out by Paul, we both know which one would be the bigger "problem" Men/penis are inherently dirty and corrupting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:51 AM
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If someone mentions a 5 year age gap do you automatically assume they're talking about 19 and 14? What's the point of this comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:53 PM
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Yeah it's 50/50, it either happens or it doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:56 AM
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All that means is you didn't take care of yourself in your 20's
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:32 AM
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A lot of women(mostly subconsciously) take a man finding them attractive as a given. It's not that they want someone finding them attractive for their personality and not their looks, they want both. If a girl really likes a guy and finds out that he's only really interested in her because he thinks she's intelligent and ambitious, but isn't particularly physically attracted to her, she would be devastated
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:23 PM
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If you actually believe that the reason the NBA is more popular is that we haven't done enough to encourage women to play basketball, and not that the players in the nba are bigger, faster, stronger, jump higher, more agile, etc. Then you definitely aren't someone who closely follows sports
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:29 AM
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You asked for an example and he gave you an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:19 PM
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I understand why you feel that way, but there are hundreds of thousands of men who "knew their wife of 10+ years wasn't capable of doing something like that" who are raising someone else's child
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:01 PM
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Here's the numbers I had: https://www.rainn.org/statistics/children-and-teens#:~:text=One%20in%209%20girls%20and,experience%20sexual%20abuse%20or%20assault.&text=82%25%20of%20all%20victims%20under%2018%20are%20female.&text=Females%20ages%2016%2D19%20are,attempted%20rape%2C%20or%20sexual%20assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:21 PM
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I pulled that from RAINN which is a victim's advocacy group and that's their estimate for incidence not for convictions. You're relying pretty heavily on your own anecdotal experience here which you should know isn't the best way to do this. Most people whose dad isn't their real dad never find out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:54 PM
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You've mentioned a couple times that child abuse is much more common than paternity fraud, and I don't think that's necessarily true. There are conservative estimates that put paternity fraud in the 5-10% range, here's one that says 10-30% https://scholarship.law.tamu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=2065&context=facscholar#:~:text='5%20It%20is%20popularly%20believed,)%20is%20at%20least%2010%25. I see similar 5-10% numbers for child sexual abuse, which is certainly horrifying
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:36 PM
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Yes wolves don't have a true rigid alpha/beta structure, and therefore women don't actually like strong, powerful men who are at the top of the social hierarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:59 PM
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That's your definition of a dad bod, that doesn't mean that's what women are picturing when they talk about how much they love them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:57 PM
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"Men with [longer ring fingers] were four times more often partnered with women who had both relatively narrow waists and large breasts" The coopting of the word curvy by fat women is contributing to a lot of the confusion here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:52 PM
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There seems to be a lot of intentional/unintentional misunderstanding of the word "hate" in this context. Women hate shy men the way I hate pickles. I don't think pickles should all die or be eradicated from the earth, I just really don't want to eat them. It's a very normal usage of the word in English
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:57 PM
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I explicitly said I don't think it's a good idea, you're not responding to anything I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:57 AM
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But that's exactly the point he's making, men have fathered kids in their 80s, it's technically possible. But if a friend of mine told me having a family was important to him but he was going to wait until he was 55 to have kids, I would tell him that's a terrible plan that might result in him not getting to be a father
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:55 AM
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There's still a time limit, and the success rate goes down very significantly with age: https://images.ctfassets.net/ln51s6f5jufo/3YHYrxqUrS0gwauIEIa2uG/80e6f6ee3c96bd6148570df0f55a0ca2/Screen_Shot_2019-01-06_at_9.38.14_PM.png I'm not trying to be cruel, but if having a child/family is something that is important to you the true cruelty would be to mislead you about the time you have left
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:52 AM
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I don’t need a study to know the truth So now that the studies don't support your worldview they don't matter, got it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:34 PM
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Five articles pointing to the same redacted misinterpretation of someone else's study. https://ifstudies.org/blog/number-5-in-2019-are-married-people-still-happier Paul Dolan completely misinterpreted "spouse absent" as spouse not in the room, it really meant that they were separated. If you're happy single that's fine, more power to you, but the data says the exact opposite of what you are trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:14 PM
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If I could take a 2 second blood test and comfort her/give her peace of mind, why wouldn't I?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:24 AM
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I don't disagree, but this naturally concludes that most women aren't going to be able to get someone who's as attractive as them. If there are 100 female 10's and only 20 male 10's, most of the women are going to have to "settle"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:38 PM
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Why is it wrong to be attracted to men who are tall, dark, and built like Superman? There's nothing wrong with it, but you called people talking about how that's the most important thing for success as a man "nonsense" and then in this very post said you're not shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:53 PM
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I agree and I've said this before, they don't have to "back it up" so to speak. Straight women are evaluating men in terms of "Am I sexually attracted to him" but their evaluations of women are more like "I love her hair/eyeliner".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:53 PM
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I'm totally on board with reducing the pressure on women to be clean freaks. But your stance seems to be instead that we should pressure men to be clean freaks too, which suggests that you believe being tidy is inherently "right" Which makes it seem like talking about societal pressure is more of a deflection than anything
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:54 PM
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She very much doesn't practice what she preaches and I would expect she's the first to admit that. She's an assertive, domineering, and career driven woman. Talking about how much better traditionalism is doesn't actually make you traditional. I imagine she feels pretty "above" most men who aren't as successful as her, but the men who actually are that successful are dating 10's
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:31 AM
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Women absolutely complain to men that they need to change... constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:48 AM
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It really depends how you're defining attractiveness(and how far down that rabbit hole you are). If a 60th percentile man is with a 50th percentile woman, most normal people will consider her to be more attractive because we generally consider women to be more beautiful, even if he's more attractive than a larger percentage of men. Also every woman in here calling you gay as an insult would be the first one to blame toxic masculinity for men not wanting to comment on other men's attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:36 PM
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It's a classic case of AMITA gender swapping. If a girl was in that sub crying about how the guy she really liked had been fucking other girls(even though she never explicitly told him she wanted to be exclusive) not a soul in there would dare to say it was "her fault"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:58 AM
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I agree and would never believe it myself, but these women are quite literally professionals at convincing guys that they are interested. And guys who get basically 0 attention from women in the real world can get sucked in by how good it feels to be wanted. I dated a stripper once(we met on hinge, she made more money than I did) and the way the girls would swap from "oh my God you're so cute" to "fuck that ugly loser" when someone left the room was pretty jarring. It actually reminded me of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:25 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4757567/ Halo effect is real, and you're probably not as above it as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:05 PM
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You... hold grudges against ugly people more than beautiful people? Everyone does, some people are just more self aware of it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:48 PM
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Would you marry a McDonald's worker? I'm sure you've had McDonalds before
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:50 AM
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See: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2990627/ and specifically this section Regulation of body weight is asymmetric, being more effective in response to weight loss than to weight gain. However, regulation may be lost or camouflaged by Western diets, suggesting that the failure of biological control is due mainly to external factors. In this situation, the body’s ‘set point’ (i.e., a constant ‘body-inherent’ weight regulated by a proportional feedback control system) is replaced by …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:41 PM
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It's not nuanced, if you're fat you eat too much, 100%. There's a reason noone on earth was 300lbs 100 years ago. Genetics haven't changed at all in that time frame. Diets fail because they are temporary, people go back to their normal eating habits after and put the weight back on. "Weight set point" is absolute garbage science, it's not even science
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:49 PM
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"most men" is probably true, but that's an assumption you're making with someone else's physical safety
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:07 PM
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That's not true at all, there are a dozen ways the guy could find out that you told her, and he could absolutely try to get violent/physical with you as a response. In that situation I would probably try to say something to a bartender/bouncer, but to suggest there's no risk to my safety by raising a concern is false
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:06 PM
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If you think there's a significant difference between their attractiveness, you're probably falling a bit into the WaW effect. They seem pretty well matched to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:57 PM
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99% of the benefits people list are the benefits of having a good life partner. When that life partner threatens to leave you if you don't sign a lopsided contract, that doesn't mean the benefits of a good partner are coming from that contract I do think the biggest actual benefit is for kids, all three of you having the same last name makes so much governmental/legal stuff easier. And having two parents that stay together is best for them(although again you can stay together without a marriage …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:53 PM
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The most masculine thing you can do is conform to my worldview Every time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:00 PM
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We in the west enjoy the highest standard of living ever in the existence of the human race. People sit in their air conditioned apartment, drinking clean water that is pumped to their house, on a miracle supercomputer that is connected to all the information of the universe, and complain that their Doordash has gotten so expensive that it makes saving up for a new lexus difficult. You love to complain about the rich, you are the 1%, you are the rich living off the borderline slave labor in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:30 AM
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You can try and be condescending all you want, I can tell that you don't really know much about this subject
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:51 PM
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I said they're probably on TRT at this point in their careers, so not disagreeing with you there. Brad Pitt was very lean in Troy/Fight club, but not hugely muscular, that's absolutely achievable with good genetics and hard work. It's a far cry from the Rock, Chris Hemsworth, or Kumail Nanjiani, which I consider the poster boys for steroid super hero physiques
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:58 PM
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They're probably both on TRT at this point, but neither Cruise nor Pitt have ever had any super roidy transitions in their careers. I'm pretty quick to call out steroid use in hollywood, (Hemsworth, Bale), but I wouldn't use pitt/cruise as examples
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:03 PM
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I think there is a fundamental misunderstanding from you on what guys mean when they say bad boy/unsafe guy. They don't mean someone who literally makes women feel unsafe to be around them, obviously women don't want a guy like that. But a guy with a little edge to him? A guy who doesn't follow the rules? A guy who's not afraid to say or do the wrong thing? That guy is exciting, and a lot of women actually feel safer around a guy like that because they feel like he can protect them. There's a di…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:06 PM
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Is this some weird attempt at a gotcha? Obviously choosing to date her or not is what he meant
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:19 PM
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And men shouldn't marry divorced women, I don't think anyone is disagreeing that having been previously married could be considered a dealbreaker. That's a very reasonable standard
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:26 PM
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I think you maybe aren't giving enough credit to the healthy relationship with food and normal portion sizes that you learned from your parents, and they learned from theirs. A huge part of the problem is that so many people are being raised in households where drinking a 2L of soda a day is normal, or eating a whole pizza by yourself is normal, or getting multiple entrees at a restaurant is normal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:37 PM
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If she had a problem with the way he dressed or didn't want him doing kissing/sex scenes and it was a dealbreaker for her then she could absolutely voice that and then end it if there wasn't a compromise
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:28 AM
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But being screamed at is their behavior, not yours? Being cheated on is their behavior, not yours? Sounds pretty controlling
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:09 PM
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Does society have the standard for men to be women? Is there pressure on men to become women? Do men expect other men to turn into women to be attractive to them? You know this is a dumbshit response, why even make it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:50 PM
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and for someone who is 5'5, being 5'9 is an unrealistic standard. Guys break there legs and stick metal rods in them over this, is that healthy? Guys kill themselves over this, is that healthy? I know it doesn't feel the same to you, but it's very much the same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 06:55 PM
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Beauty ideals are harmful when they are unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:15 PM
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Beauty ideals are harmful when they are unrealistic (as in pushing women to be too thin, pushing men to work their bodies out too hard ect.) So weight and musculature which are within your control are unrealistic, but height which is completely unchangeable is reasonable? That's absurd A woman being satisfied when her partner is tall doesn't harm anyone and it's entirely realistic, as most men ARE taller than most women. Even if being taller than women is all that mattered(its not) some guys are…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:55 PM
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It's very intimidating for men in the beginning as well, I remember being super nervous that people would know I didn't know what I was doing, but I had to get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:42 PM
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It's pretty icky to be unwilling to pay 7$ for yourself and then throw a tantrum on the internet about it when the guy who already paid to get you 3 blocks away won't do it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:31 PM
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But would you argue that anti-homeless laws don't target the poor because it's illegal for both rich and poor people to sleep under the bridge? That's what you're saying regarding prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:39 AM
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She delays sex with guy 2 because she cares what he thinks of her, so she doesn't want him to think she's the kind of girl who has sex on the first date... but she is, she did it with guy 1 She's lying/deceiving him at the start of the relationship, exactly the reason guy 2 should run for the hills
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:19 PM
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Using the services of someone that you wouldn't be interested in a serious relationship with is far from isolated to sex workers. Women use the labor/service of the cashier at the gas station, and yet they would almost certainly not want to marry that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:05 PM
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This is a sad and depressing post, fluctuating by even 30 lbs is indicative of some serious problems or unhealthy relationships with food and exercise. Don't portray 70lb weight swings as normal, that is absolutely not normal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:35 PM
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A surprising amount don't, the number of women I met while single who's hobbies were "hanging out with friends, watching TV, hiking(she went on one hike 2 years ago), and instagram" was honestly horrifying. I'm sure there are men like this too, but it's pretty wildly accepted that men with no hobbies are undesirable and uninteresting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 02:36 PM
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Do men deserve someone who is desirable to them and makes them happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:14 PM
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That's not true, they took a massive number of liberties with what they counted to get to that number. Heart disease, cancer, car accidents, etc were all explicitly not counted
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:59 PM
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I think he's saying that women in their 40s put in more effort because they have to. Asking people out and putting in effort is hard, most people avoid it if they can, and women in their 20s absolutely can avoid it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:57 PM
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Unironically saying "latinx" is embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:35 PM
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It's absolutely a smart and efficient move and I totally would do the same thing in either of your positions, and I want to be clear that the very first thing I did was commend you on taking steps to get out of debt. I guess I just want to express that it's okay to acknowledge people who have helped us and express gratitude without that being an indictment on our own personal accomplishments. And in a thread about how a woman's debt becomes "the couple's debt" in relationships, you're certainly …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:32 AM
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You're phrasing it as a $200 increase in bills, which it might be on his end, but on your end he's paying your entire rent and utilities. You're saving over a thousand dollars a month living with him, meanwhile his costs went up. That half of the rent/bills you offered to pay? He's basically giving you a gift of that amount($1200? IDK where you live or how much your bills are) every month to put towards your loans I've said multiple times I don't think this is a bad thing, I've had a similar arr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:39 AM
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I don’t know anyone, outside of some very wealthy friends who actually paid off their partners debt. Most do a similar arrangement to what my boyfriend and I have This implies "helping" is somehow different from paying off your debt, but functionally it's the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:12 AM
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Not to downplay the effort you personally are putting towards getting out of debt(which is commendable), but if your partner is allowing you to stay with him rent free while you pay off your debt, he is absolutely partially paying off your debt. There's nothing wrong with that, but this is exactly the sort of thing people are talking about here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:30 PM
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Not if those health conditions have you at a BMI of 35
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:24 PM
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A BMI of 35 is 210 pounds for an average height 5'5" woman, it is not possible to be healthy at that weight. The visceral fat, the strain on the cardiovascular system, the strain on the knees... I know people are going to take this personally, but if you have a BMI of 35 and think you're healthy, you're not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:23 PM
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Would you call someone with any of those "healthy"? And you can still lose weight with those conditions, it just might be harder
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:54 PM
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Is this a serious question? No one who seriously works out and eats cleanly will have a BMI of 35, and it's impossible to be healthy at that weight. It's possible to be skinny and unhealthy, but if you're fat it's guaranteed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:06 PM
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I don't resent paying for things, I love buying things for my girlfriend and had no problem paying on dates when I was single. I resent people rationalizing themselves away from the idea that it's a generally negative gender role that women impose on men so that they can pat themselves on the back and still be "feminist"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:34 AM
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"The person who asks should pay" is just "the guy should pay" with extra steps. The man is still overwhelmingly required to be the one who asks, the end result is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:23 AM
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I want to try and come at this in a legitimate reach across the aisle. It's not about tricking women into sex, although there are certainly PUA communities that lean more towards that. The core of red pill is becoming the man that women want to date or have sex with; be in shape, get your money right, be masculine, don't be a doormat. One of the most common pieces of advice in dating from either side is to "be more confident", if you act confident when you're really nervous, is that tricking som…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:51 PM
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I would disagree, most women absolutely do want hot men, there's just not nearly enough to go around so they settle for decent looking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:26 PM
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It's a very weird question to ask on a first date, but a very normal question to ask on a podcast about dating. And it's almost always said in response to a laundry list of demands, as a kind of: "what do you bring to the table to attract someone with all the positive qualities you just demanded"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:58 PM
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I've seen people call this a contradiction but I don't really think it is. The position would be that womens standards for things like how a guy treats them, niceness, and loyalty are too low. And that their standards for things like height, money, and attractive faces are too high
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:13 PM
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I have plenty high standards, for the things that actually matter, how kind someone is, how intelligent they are, how they treat people, how good of a parent someone would be. I view someone who would turn down a wonderful and caring person because they don't have an established career as a fool
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:16 PM
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And yet men trust women who don't have any career ambition to raise their children every day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:20 PM
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The worlds cleanest and most organized McDonalds employee is still not getting any attention from career women, to suggest that the reason women don't want to date men who make less money than them is because those men don't shower is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:21 PM
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Every single man on earth is bad at raising kids and being a stay at home dad?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:13 PM
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But I think you're missing the bigger point here, some women can have kids at 40, some can't. Telling women that they have time because some women do is actually cruel to the women who don't have much time. My heart breaks for women who wanted kids and waited till their late 30s to try because they've been told their whole life that they could
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:36 PM
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Because women who have successful careers don't want a man that stays home and wipes noses and cooks casseroles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:56 PM
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For serious dating the only thing I really cared about is that she has any sort of career, I don't want someone who's parents are paying for everything until she finds the right guy and then he can pay for everything. Past 40-50k for this I legitimately couldn't care less, other things are more important
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:26 AM
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Its very easy to take the high road in a hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:50 AM
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It would absolutely cause a ton of problems, but living without functioning hospitals and child care is a lot easier than living without electricity, running water, gas, etc. I don't think everyone disappearing overnight is really a "fair" comparison though, the rest of men would absolutely be fucked too if the men working the electrical grid and sewage systems and oil fields disappeared overnight. We in the west live a luxurious lifestyle supported by a lot of people(mostly men) doing difficult…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:32 PM
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I think the disconnect here is the assumption that doctor = 'super desirable man who has his pick of women' It's certainly an attractive career, but a lot of doctors are bookish/shy/frail and don't really have the other qualities it takes in order to have the option of being picky. To really make it as a guy you gotta have it all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:08 PM
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Men should listen to other men who are successful in life, with money and with women. Specifically not ones who are trying to sell them something though, and there are a lot of people trying to sell you something these days
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:51 PM
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Have you been there? The sidebar says they moved off reddit and all the links are .red
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:27 AM
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That's my point though, it's happening on 4chan because any mainstream site would kick them off in a second. I definitely never defended that sort of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:01 AM
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And they had to move off of reddit because they probably would have gotten banned like the other similar subreddits did
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:32 AM
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Your "Basic expectation" still excludes like 80% of the population. When guys are talking about dating being soul crushing remember that we're not all white and in shape and successful
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:22 PM
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You can test it by setting an income limit(no other filters) and doing an age range of 20-40 and then 35-40, the percentage will actually increase even though you've just cut out a massive number of dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:09 PM
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This is incorrect, it does only use men in the selected age range as the denominator
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:59 PM
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That's accounting for all men above 5'4. I actually don't find it particularly surprising that single white guys who aren't obese and make at least the median income are only 15-20% of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:53 PM
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Depends on the age bracket, early 20s is before most people find themselves financially, but past that you're not gonna find many virgins. I want to say that it's not remotely hypocritical to want someone who has traits that you yourself express. To say "I'm a virgin so I want a virgin", "I make 6 figures so I want someone who makes 6 figures", "I work out so I want someone who works out", there's nothing wrong with wanting these things. It's not hypocritical, but it can be unrealistic, and if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:46 PM
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So loyal financially successful men who work out don't exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:19 PM
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Yes that's why noone wants to date me, I'm too fit and beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:47 AM
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How else would it work? That's what dating on Tinder is, did you think it was just video calls and two sentence text messages?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:47 PM
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If you pay tens of thousands of dollars and cripple yourself for life and endure years of pain, it's a horrifying thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:57 PM
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It's very context dependent/nuanced(and therefore terrible for this sub). If a girl you're actively dating/hooking up with says it, it's absolutely a compliment. But most of the time it's said by a friend or acquaintance, especially after expressing disappointment in your dating situation, and in that case it usually means you're nice but boring. Sometimes husband material means "guy I want to marry", and sometimes it means "guy someone will want to marry"(read: not me because I'm not attracted …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:18 PM
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It's not "the friend zone", she's just not attracted to you. If she was attracted to you, the fact that you're friends wouldn't matter; if she's not attracted to you, making your intentions known from the start wouldn't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:09 AM
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That's not true, a lot of guys very much appreciate being hit on/asked out, even by unattractive women. Hell I've been hit on by gay men and been very flattered by it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:56 PM
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If "Lotalty and kindness" are how you choose between the 6ft succesful white guys you date, it shouldn't shock you that to people who aren't 6ft or white or successful those things seem like the only things that matter
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:27 PM
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They say that most men being taller than most women does not sufficiently explain the disparity we see. So when you try and claim that it's just some "manosphere conspiracy theory" that women like taller men, you're just factually incorrect Here's a study from the UK where they found 92.8% of couples had the male taller, despite 89.8% being the expected number if pairing was random. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3546926/ For the record, I don't even necessarily think it's a proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:06 PM
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If my daughter made 200k/yr and was looking down on men who were making 150k I would absolutely tell her she is being foolish
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:53 PM
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If pairing was completely unrelated to height we would expect about 92% of couples to have the man be the same height or taller, but in reality we see over 96% of couples being that way. There are half as many taller woman couples as you would statistically expect
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:50 PM
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You can't possibly be this dense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:57 PM
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I think one thing you're missing is that women are usually terrible at judging who would win in a fight, and often way overrate things like height or being lean. A lot of times they're probably trying to pick a good fighter/protector, they just don't have as much experience/knowledge about what that actually looks like. Girls who are involved in mma or other fighting sports often heavily prefer guys who actually know how to fight
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:57 PM
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That's fair
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:54 PM
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There's no instances of the gay panic defense actually working, you can use whatever defense you want in court. You can try and argue that you saw a spider on a dude and you were trying to kill it with your gun if you want, it won't work though, we don't need to outlaw the spider gun defence. States ban the "gay panic" defense to pat themselves on the back about how righteous they are
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:08 PM
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There's no forest or trees? this is a conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:55 AM
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The state has a massive interest in you being the father, because otherwise the state has to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:42 PM
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That dude has a super handsome face though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 01:58 PM
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He's talking about how those groups are being banned on reddit, not that they can't handle anything being said
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:00 PM
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You just did it again, this reply seems completely detached from the post you're replying too. How in any way did he say "men can't handle the things being said on Reddit?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:29 PM
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Regional/National pride, storylines or a player you've seen develop and grow. My sister didn't care about formula 1 until she saw the netflix documentary about it, and now that she knows more about the players personalities and drives and the work they put in she loves it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:21 PM
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Cheering on a team isn't superstitious, what are you even talking about? There is definitely a massive amount of superstition in sports, but there's nothing inherently superstitious about watching a team from your city or a team you grew up with and celebrating when they do well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:00 PM
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Hgh does nothing for height post puberty, and even then it only really works if the person is deficient in hgh. the research on using it during puberty on someone who isn't deficient is super limited
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:00 PM
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OK but when a girl says she likes dad bods, and she's thinking of Jason Momoa off cycle, she's not lying. There's also no official definition of a dad bod, so I don't know why you're so insistent that your concept of it is the only right one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 02:37 PM
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When an average woman doesn't think she deserves an amazing man people call it being insecure, when an average man doesn't think he deserves an amazing woman everyone says "yeah obviously"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:05 PM
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I don't think that's true at all, certainly hasn't been my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:06 AM
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The thing I think you're missing, is that the girl who has to specify that they won't have sex in their bio definitely has a history of fucking around, girls(and guys) who legitimately don't view sex that way and never have wouldn't even think to write that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:29 PM
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Your statistic that you just used says 84% of women age 35 who are trying to conceive will successfully bring a child to term within 4 years, which means 16% do not. Now I'm sure some of those changed their mind and some small amount might conceive in the 5-7 year window, but a bulk of that 16% were trying to conceive and failed. That is heartbreaking Interesting that you jump right to trying(and failing) to be condescending
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:15 PM
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So 16% of women over 35 trying to conceive don't succeed? I feel like you're trying to be feminist and support women, but those 16% are being lied to by people like you telling them that they can totally have kids after 35 no problem. Many of them are probably devastated, it's not helping them to tell them they have time left when they might not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:17 PM
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Oh absolutely, but men don't pretend otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:05 PM
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The definition of a "bad boy" is relative, in college it might be the frat boy who parties all the time or the athlete who's a player, in your church community it might be the guy who drinks beer sometimes and has a tattoo, in the inner city that might be a dude who runs drugs in a gang, or did hard time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:56 PM
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I could see if you were being intellectually dishonest and intentionally obtuse how you could come to that conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:05 PM
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I feel like you're not responding to what he actually said though. Obviously compatability involves so much more than looks, but it's not unreasonable to want your partner to feel that raw physical attraction for you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:36 PM
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https://www.businessinsider.com/do-tattoos-mean-sex-2012-5 There are studies on this yes, obviously they are general trends and don't apply to everyone at an individual level, but there's real data on this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:23 PM
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eh, Give me a fit girl who hasn't showered in a week over a fat girl with all the makeup and glam in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:24 AM
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40% are overweight, 30% are obese, 70% are one of those two
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:19 AM
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To be fair a lot of "fat activists" will say exactly that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:32 PM
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I mean that was a hypothetical, my girlfriend and I don't live together, and I was definitely supposed to be the lazy one in the hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:04 AM
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So if I spend 4 hours vacuuming the house and she spends 4 hours doing the dishes, dusting, cleaning the bathrooms, taking out the trash, and doing laundry. It's all good since we both worked for 4 hours right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:55 AM
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Women think roided out guys look great all the time, what you're thinking of in your head is a juiced to the gills Olympia competitor, but this dude is on gear too https://i.pinimg.com/564x/e7/b7/79/e7b779a0bd8f20b813f2d7c82bce248c.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:34 PM
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In what western countries is solicitation legal but not prostitution? In several of them its the exact opposite of what toy said, where solicitation is illegal but prostitution isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:19 PM
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Women who care about if your partners been abusive or cheated in past relationships, how could you know? What if they just lied about it? Yes, people can lie, that doesn't mean it's impossible to care about these things or that they don't matter to people. If you have friends/family that know your past, it's gonna be pretty hard to hide it forever, no matter what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:42 AM
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Billie Eilish and whatever 30 year old singer she's dating have way more similar life experience than her and 99% of 20 year olds, singers/entertainers live every different lives especially I'd they've been that way for long
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:33 PM
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All of the things I listed are "real power imbalances" but only one of them causes that sort of reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:36 PM
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My girlfriend doesn't wear makeup, and she pulls it off just fine. One of the many things I like about her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:14 PM
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Yes, if it's not used in an abusive way two people with a power imbalance can totally have a healthy relationship, but people seem to ignore that when it comes to age gaps. People don't have the same visceral negative reaction to other power imbalances, like a 30 year old citizen dating a 30 year old on a visa, or a 26 year old who owns a home dating a 25 year old that rents with roommates, or a 32 year old that makes 120k dating a 34 year old that makes 50k. The "it's a power imbalance" thing i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:05 PM
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This, more white women voted for Trump than Biden in the last election, real life isn't reddit where Joe Biden is considered right of center
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:10 AM
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Idk where the notion that this is a male problem comes from, I've felt like the therapist for every girl I've ever dated
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:46 AM
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That is not how R2 works, like at all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:48 PM
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Its funny because the example that article uses with sunny weather causing both ice cream eating and sunburns is exactly what I was describing. Sexual values are sunny weather, and body count/cheating are ice cream and sunburns. Even if there's no causation that doesn't mean you just ignore the correlation. If someone told you they were going to get ice cream today, and that was the only information you had to choose whether you were going to wear sunscreen or not, would you wear it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:17 PM
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I had thought you were saying they didn't have data from both sides, yes there is a weaker correlation with men as well, which makes sense. It seems weird to get hung up on correlation vs causation here. I don't think having casual sex magically causes you to cheat more, I think the kind of person who's values include casual sex/higher partner count are also more likely to also include cheating being less serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:50 AM
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promiscuity is in fact a good predictor of infidelity. Indeed, promiscuity among females accounted for almost twice as much variance in infidelity (r2 = .45) as it did for males (r2 = .25). (pg.177) Did you read the post you're responding to, or just the title?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:16 PM
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It's women more often than men, according to the scientific study we're both responding too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:34 PM
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This is literally a scientific article pointing out the significant difference in correlation between promiscuity and infidelity in women vs men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:18 PM
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Status isn't just becoming a famous actor or athlete. Status can be being the best rock climber at your local rock gym, or the DM for your weekly dungeons and dragons game, or the guitar player in a small band noones ever heard of. Even professional video game players do pretty well in their communities, where being good at the game is an attractive quality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:17 AM
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Cool, but they still date
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:08 PM
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The implication here was that "wanting to date her" was a lie, if you really wanted to date someone, and then through getting to know them you changed your mind, that's a totally different thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:39 PM
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The immediately blocked and never talked to you again is a bit of an extreme example though isn't it? Far more often it would be like if you invited them to a second concert and they said no, or asking if they want to come listen to a new album and getting turned down. If a guy is telling a girl he wants to date her and then immediately blocking her and never talking to her again, even most RP dudes would probably acknowledge that that dude is an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:00 PM
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Typically yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:51 PM
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I've had a handful of FWB situations that ended because the girl got into a relationship. The ones that told me "I can't see you any more because I started seeing someone" are both still dating that person 4+ years later. The ones that said "I started seeing someone, so this has to be the last time", those relationships never lasted more than 6 months
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:57 PM
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And I bet in that moment, as they watched the tram go by while stuck in gridlock, they were wishing your public transportation was slower too. People are jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:50 PM
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You can't possibly tell me you don't understand the difference between pregnancy and labor being an unfortunate biological reality of the only way to bring life into the world and arbitrarily torturing someone with no benefit to make sure it's even
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:51 AM
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Hinge is very elo based, they show you people about your "level"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:25 AM
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The schadenfreude of talking about how people just want to shift blame for their dissatisfaction to "others" followed by immediately talking about cranky white men being the problem is beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:13 PM
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Is it dehumanizing to set an arbitrary height and not be with someone because of that? Is it dehumanizing to set an arbitrary income and not be with someone because of that? These sort of preferences exist in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:44 PM
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What's the difference? Even if the babies get switched won't you love it just the same? If you found out they were switched a few years into the babies life you wouldn't possibly be devastated right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:03 AM
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That hyper vigilance about someone swapping the baby shows that women absolutely can and do understand the desire to ensure your kid is yours, but for some reason many struggle to make that connection when men express similar concerns
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:31 PM
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You know the average lifetime partner count is 7 right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:43 PM
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Neither, the best is a relationship with someone who is also attracted to you enough to have a one night stand with you. And at least the guy having one night stands has a chance at them developing into that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:08 AM
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https://www.dexerto.com/entertainment/new-twitch-stats-reveal-how-few-viewers-are-needed-to-be-a-top-streamer-1527638/ Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:44 PM
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It's a percentage thing, 99.9% of channels never make it past 5 viewers. If you make it to 1k, the odds you make it to 5k are much higher
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:07 PM
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The hardest part of twitch isn't going from 1k to 5k viewers, it's going from 0 to 50, and that is the area where it massively helps to be a decently attractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:22 AM
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I've had "the talk" in every serious relationship I've ever been in, I've never once been told to fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:40 PM
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Over 40% of women are pro life, it's not as one sided of a gender issue as people like to paint it as
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:51 AM
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I think it's interesting that you assume all of these relationships were male superior female employee
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:55 PM
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I have worked all over from the night life industry to big tech, and consensual relationships between a boss and an employee are common across the board. A bigger title, more responsibility, more money, these things are attractive. Many of these couples are married or still together 5+ years later Not every relationship between someone in power and someone outside it is a quid pro quo or threatening their livelihood
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:40 PM
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There's no such thing as accidentally using someone for sex, if you legitimately are pursuing/open to dating someone and it doesn't end up working out, you weren't retroactively using them for sex. Using someone implies lying or misleading them about your interests
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:36 PM
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If you actually have a scientific background you should know that 160 people is absolutely enough to be statistically significant if selected properly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:30 AM
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That 27.5% you cited does not include obese though, 73.6% of women(and men) in the US are either overweight or obese. That certainly qualifies as the vast majority
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:37 AM
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I think you have a very "15 years ago" idea of discourse/expectations. Saying all Muslims are responsible for terrorism and have to answer for it is a quick way to get fired from just about any job in America. Saying all men have to answer for Uvdale will get you a pat on the back
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:27 PM
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The government makes this unequal, not biology. From a bio standpoint the man could just leave, and I'm sure you're fine with that since "reproduction is unequal" That being said, financial abortions are a dumb idea, I'm more in favor of some reforms to the child support system
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:44 PM
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Do you think men are shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:15 PM
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You shouldn't complain about behavior you are actively incentivizing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 06:14 PM
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Slipping an abortion pill in a pregnant womans drink is definitely already illegal, like very illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:00 PM
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Do you think I can't feel sympathy for my girlfriend when she has period pain? You also seem like a very unpleasant person
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:59 PM
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Empathy is having sympathy for people in situations you are not or could not be in
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:01 PM
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Yes you can, that's what empathy is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:43 PM
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Dog I think you're really missing his point here. There are good marriages and bad marriages, bad marriages often lead to divorce and the happiness/lifespan of divorced people is lower. If you aren't factoring that in you're only counting "good" marriages, and obviously people in good marriages would be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:38 PM
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Angry? I'm just confused
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:59 PM
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A paid article that's an advertisement for a weight loss drug is your "big irrefutable science"? Why didn't anyone have a set point of 300lbs in 1920? If a morbidly obese person were to eat significantly less or stop entirely, where is their body getting the energy to sustain all that mass?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:16 PM
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I've never understood why so many people try to frame "most people fail to diet" as proof that dieting doesn't work. Most people fail because most people don't know the first thing about changing their diet, most people think if they do nothing but drink orange juice for 2 weeks they'll shed 15 lbs and then they can go back to eating how they were before. People who make a lifestyle change, and stick with it, succeed at losing weight
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:01 PM
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I've had more than one instance in my life of a fwb of mine telling me "this has to be the last time" because they were dating someone and it was getting serious. Not saying it's remotely common, but this kind of stuff does happen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:24 PM
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It's that we know that guy is choosing that life, the stable relationship father guy might not have had the other choice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:15 PM
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It's moreso that a guy who is regularly having sex with multiple women could probably easily have kids if/when he wants to. It would be much more difficult for the average father to jump into the first group
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:06 PM
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Says "females" = abuses wife is probably the most insane logical leap I've seen on reddit, and that's saying something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:31 AM
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It is impossible for most men, and any women, to get into the obese category from being super muscular without steroids. The Rock, as insanely jacked and juiced up as he is has a bmi of about 32
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:19 PM
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That's a fair point, this sub and it's discussions are usually based around western dating. I think you'd find a lot of people here who agree that in Eastern Europe, women do not have an advantage in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:52 PM
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But it wasn't seen as something that was given to them for nothing, it was seen as the man holding up his part in a mutual agreement that involved the woman being the home maker. You wouldn't have seen women back then deciding they weren't going to cook or do any cleaning, and weren't going to have kids, but that a man should still provide for them anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:44 PM
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You want her to like you for your personality because you're taking her liking your looks as a given, which may be the case for you but it's not the case for may men. I assure you, that if you were dating a girl who you really loved and you found out she actually wasn't physically attracted to you but she just thought you guys got along really well and were stable, you would be deeply hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:17 PM
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It's pretty close to 50% of people having them in younger demographics, obviously US centric https://www.kansan.com/chalkmagazine/tattoos-the-permanent-ink-that-has-become-a-hit-with-millennials-and-gen-z/article_1580cfd0-a1d2-11ea-bf98-5fb0c725c98c.html#:~:text=A%202015%20poll%20by%20The,they%20had%20more%20than%20one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:10 AM
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No, but you'd probably tell someone you were seriously dating
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:30 AM
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There's an assumption in our society that in a casual relationship the woman is being strung along and wants more, but in my experience that's only sometimes true. I know when I was casually dating/doing FWBs my female friends always said I was an asshole for stringing women along, but most of those women at least claimed to not want anything more
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:52 AM
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It's not what capitalism needs, it's what society needs. Is the alternative a world where we have 1000's of music producers we don't need and 0 people that work construction? Why would anyone choose to work hard labor in the heat that keeps society functioning when they could chose to be an actor or a music producer or fashion designer?
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