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DebateIgorXY/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:06 PM
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Question for BluePillIgorXY/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:55 AM
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Question For WomenIgorXY/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:16 PM
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Moss lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:39 PM
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Noooo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:32 PM
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Ok you must send me a pick when you done
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:51 PM
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I scared them :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:32 PM
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I usually do 36/40 or play until I no longer have fun. There are too many games to play and too little time for it :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:42 AM
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I got baited into Winter Orb, went with Occultist. So far it is ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:35 AM
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Same, what's your build?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:13 AM
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Did you enjoy your vacation?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:55 AM
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I am literally the kindest person here. Was I really too mean to you all this time?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:48 AM
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I did not sleep well and some poor blue pill person will feel my rage the moment they will post their takes here. Be warned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:05 AM
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you can, or you can dm me not going to read all comments
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:36 PM
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have a link?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:46 PM
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No one said this ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:42 PM
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I don't want any credit. Women allowed systems to established just as much as they participated in establishing. There was a system with pros and cons for both genders, now there are no pros for men. Trying to frame it as some justice for history is just stupid. The point of my comment was to show you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:54 PM
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Well how is it different from you erasing women's agency and blaming men for building systems that were built long before we were born even?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:17 PM
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I went with 5 of my women friends to a regular strip club, it was fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:54 AM
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It's always interesting watching women point to men women gave birth to, educated and enforced for generations then call the consequences "misogyny".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:41 AM
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I have an itch to share a picture to get some unbiased opinions but I am resisting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:48 PM
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My hair is now shoulder length. Every day a new record. I need to cut it chin length again. Or I can cut it back short, which will probably increase my chances with ladies. But damn it I like long hair. I am going to Jesusmax, maybe cut short after I turn 33 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:11 PM
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Let's just make something clear. I disagree with your definition of consent in the post. And most of the time the topic of "being used for sex" is brough up when men lose interest in women after having sex with them. Not like putting a gun to her head and ask for consent. Let's say I met someone and went on a date. It went well, we ended up in my place. Making out and things get heated. Now, the experienced and confident man will continue escalating things unless a woman directly stops. I, on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:36 PM
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Under an ethical model of consent, the goal isn't simply to get a yes. It's to create a situation where saying no is genuinely safe. What does it mean? If some women are scared of men by default, do I need to give them a loaded gun or something? Or is it just asking "are you sure?" several times? So many times I effectively ruined my chances by doing this. I wish there was a universal view on things, as long as there is a big (i'd say around 50%) portion of women who are turned off by men who as…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:28 PM
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Looks great! My beans died during heatwave right after they started to climb trelis TT There's something fascinating about vines.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:59 AM
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No I do not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 10:09 PM
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It is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:39 PM
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But you see, it's not me, it's not my family In your head, in your head, they are fightin' With their tanks and their bombs And their bombs and their guns In your head, in your head, they are cryin' This is reference to me being drunk where street musicians are and mevrealising 60% of my routine is what street performancers play
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:07 PM
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Imagine waiting all day for posts and this is what i get. Boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:29 PM
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I thought so but now i think it might be someone from ppd. Who is the most suspicious men robber here?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 01:41 PM
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Someone stole my protein milkshake from the fridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 01:31 PM
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Meh, I'd agree if people were susceptible to logical reasoning and acceptine downsides of their decisions. They are not. They will twist everything to their advantage and everyone who disagrees is their enemy. Feel free to use whatever you want, but keep in mind that people agree or disagree with you only if they think the same, not because of some clever gotcha. Ideologies switch, priorities shift, words taken back and contracts don't mean shit. We are in free for all era.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 01:24 PM
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Just a nightclub with sopecific dresscode. Nothing too crazy :) Thanks! It takes 1-2 weeks. I hate the sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:32 PM
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Two! I wanted to try to get into kinky club tonight but i have a nasty sunburn. Well, another time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:20 PM
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It's afternoon and me and my coworker loaded 10l of beer in the fridge. Going to start at 4 or 5 pm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:44 AM
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Yeah, some of my friends think it is very important for me to know that they would never date a man my height. It's not like I want to date them either, but shit hurts, why reinforce my biggest insecurity. Could have never seen them the same and eventually drifted apart to acquaintances.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:23 AM
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That's sad. I always try to list my achievements to make myself feel better, but I'd rather be a mess with vibrant dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:01 AM
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I do this sometimes. In general on concerts there are close to zero single women. So if you watch a single women long enough, her boyfriend appears with drinks or snacks. I once approached a couple of girls standing next to me. One went for beer or to the bathroom and was missing some greatest hits. I told the second one: "You friend is missing out", she said it's her daughter. I got her number later but she did not use any apps, I tried calling oncem, no one pciked up and I gave up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:40 PM
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I don't want it, just saying how it was. I was earning more so it was not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:36 PM
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Thank cici <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:46 PM
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1) presence, company, intimacy, in my past relationships also financial and physical contributions (less than me but still) - basic normal things 2) in early stages more reasurance that they are into me and not just allow me to prove my worth or something, more initiative, more appreciation Basically when 2) does not happen, the relationship does not last. Not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:45 PM
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Adults should be able to take care of themselves. Since I can do this just fine, I don't expect anyone to do this for me. However, if you have kids, you can't just come home tired and have a negroni with pipe for dinner. Someone has to cook dinner that ideally enough for breakfast. This is something both my parents did and I only recently learnt to appreciate. I guess women complain when the burden falls on them because of their gender. Which is fair, but I don't think it happens often anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:49 PM
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As a short men I don't exclude any women based on her height. If I was obese I'd expect myself to be accepting of obese women too. I am pretty much open to older women but you overestimate their desires to date younger men who are not hot. Fair is fair, but don't mix things together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:52 PM
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You'd think that, but every time I express my interwst in average women, people here jump at me with census data of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:45 PM
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While I agree in general, it is usually brought up as a lazy assumption about why a man struggles with dating. Having friends does not mean you have better chaces in dating, not having friends indicates that there can be some correlation with not having dating success. But not having dating success does not mean a person has no friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:13 AM
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Don't bother, it's just the same broken record at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:21 AM
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Kudos for posting a picture, I don't think i would. Either i confirm my fears or as you said fish for compliments that will not really change anything in how I feel. But i hope my words gave you at least some comfort. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:43 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:41 AM
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You really created a post because men don't stare at you in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:35 AM
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The nosering probably, I try not to generalize by appearence much, but I'd assume you have some cool nerdy hobbies like dnd or metal music. That's the vibe I get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:35 AM
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I'd definitely be happy if we matched. You look cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:04 AM
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Thanks <3 Your medals are the reason to type first 3 messages here :) Oh, I am greatly exaggerate my addiction (i hope) but yeah, I should drink a bit less.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:58 PM
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yeah, those on the plate are cooked, they double in size :D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:56 PM
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I honestly think 80% of the problem started with smartphones, algorithms, and the focus on digital interactions and social clout over just having fun in person around other people. Do you think it affects both genders equally?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:55 PM
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thanks, and taste good, ate 3 and I am fuuulll more like dumplings
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:31 PM
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\m/ Dough: Flour ... 400-450 g Kefir (warm) ... 250 g Sour cream … 50 g Salt ... ½ tsp Sugar ... 1 tbsp. Baking soda ... ¾ tsp Then berries and sugar.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:23 PM
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Need to share me cooking my favorite summer dish <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:19 PM
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Was there today morning and still sober brother <3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:14 PM
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Survivor bias
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:13 PM
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Stacy alert.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:04 PM
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Because your original point originates from men taking negatively women's claim to "sense personality traits". Now you are saying well sometimes they do sometimes they don't. Like every human being? So why claiming being personality detectors, have you heard men saying it? If yes, please, call them out too. Fine, I admit, it's hypocritical. Do you expect me to just sit on cuck chair and wait before all women get to learn with guys more attractive than me and be glad if I will be chosen afterward…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:58 PM
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That women are prone to halo efffect but rarely acknowledge it. Same with women. Yet if a man uses his past negative experiences he will be called misogynist or toxic. Let's just say, I want to be a part of learning experience too. As a student and as a lesson. This is life, not everything is going to work out. Dating in general is fun, as long as there are no crimes, kids, or something like that. I am sorry, "layer" is "player" or is it a new slang I am not familiar with? Because you typed it t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:40 PM
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I'd argue work in general is a bad place to date. I mean, say I travel to other country. Is meeting someone there somehow magically easy? Can I pretend I am a tourist in a place where I live and meetsomeone here? I don't want to be long distance. Are these questions weird? I am genuinely confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:29 PM
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I am short.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:24 PM
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I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:22 PM
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When I moved to where I am I was active in meetup places, but they are men dominated and women constantly complain that they don't want to be hit on there and as a good boy I listen. Maybe I should return to meetups, I decided to focus on maintining closer deeper friendships instead and it was a good call, but it was almost two years ago, so maybe I can check out what's going there now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:18 PM
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I can, I don't meet people to have these conversations with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:12 PM
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In my work there are 4 women for 52 men. 2 of them are married. School is over almost 10 years ago. I tried basically all friends of friends. Did not vibe with any of them unfortunately. But it was like, 2 or 3. Traveling? How is this suppose to work? Family is far away. Online does not work. I will try again soon maybe just to destroy whatever recovered in my self esteem. Have no idea what a Hallmark movie is. Sounds american.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:11 PM
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Oh I would definitely date me. Why not. I am pretty fun to be with and sexually curious. Oh and music taste... uuummmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:06 PM
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Please tell me how people naturally meet and develop feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:05 PM
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Sometimes it is obvious for everyone else except the woman in question. Depends on how hot the guy is. Sure there are differences, but in general the thing that most women "have to learn from experience" is that hot and excited guy who does not want to put a label on relationship is probably not the best partner material. This is as old as time. Another point is that women often make wrong conclusions. Correct me if I am wrong but you don't withold sex until X amount of dates to vet bad men out,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:04 PM
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Will not dig into it much, but I really wonder what are the actions to blame? If someone goes on dates but never gets a second, sure, something is wrong. But if someone never gets a first date? Is there a point at which you'd agree that some people have legitimate struggles in modern dating world that are not results of their actions or personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:45 PM
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because of their own actions or lack of action Or their looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:40 PM
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Men view women as some sort of ultimate prize, something to win, to show status. At some point it becomes practivally impossible to meet people and let feelings develop naturally. When dating is set up as competition where women are the judges, is it realy weird to see their desire as a reward? Even if it isn't by intention. That's just a reaction to being constantly told that we are single because of out personalities and how women can smell bad qualities. That's it. When this is no longer the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:39 PM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:35 PM
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Yeah, we argued a lot ever since I joined here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:31 PM
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Oh no, she won't do it. But I thought we are arguing in good faith here but we are like a dysfunctional online family of sorts. Apparently not and some people actually dislike me. So I wanted to see what others think.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:29 PM
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Aww <3 I like you too :) I will not tell, trying to act like an adult and like I am not sad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:20 PM
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Protection should help, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:51 PM
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Aww <3 It goes surprisingly better than I expected :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:48 PM
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Fine, hands stuff it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:44 PM
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If men chooses not to have it good for him, I don't talk about him, I talk about men who want but don't get it. And don't tell me about women standards, I know them better than you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:37 PM
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Do you agree with her comment? Do you understand why I called it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:20 PM
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Fair enough, but it was a responce to an individual, not gender as a whole. I just mentioned that some women tend to do exactly what that person did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:00 PM
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Women don't benefit from looks in dating too? Tell me this: is it easier to be pretty as a man or as a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:56 PM
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For last 50 years the message is that men and women are the same and can do the same things. But when the topic is about relationships suddenly women are so different and can't help it. Could it be because you enjoy your position?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:55 PM
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I don't know why you wrote this. All I said was that when women talk about dating struggles their dating lifes are still much more interesting than my. That's it. I don't care about any other issues. We can discuss them, but why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:53 PM
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? the only thing that defines if man has casual sex or not is his desire to have it? The proof is that men who struggles to get dates in their youth somehow marry later in life. If they had more partners in youths, sure, I'd believe that. If the main reason why a woman wants to be with you is convenienve, it does. Ok? being "alpha" has nothing to do with kids, in this context it is just attractive sexually sucessful guy. We are not pack animals, so don't take the title literally. Well, damn, wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:44 PM
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Awww thanks <3 I like you too and who knows, we might meet for a coffee one day with all your journeys :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:38 PM
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that's good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:04 PM
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Do what? Are they dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:39 AM
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Then what does it say about men who don't have casual sex? Women going for men they are less attracted to later in life when other features play bigger role is what AF/BB is. Yes, but still most things are easier if you have a partner who can support you, especially when you want kids. Weird argument. Women say they are attracted to who they are attracted to because of biology, but if they don't have kids does it mean they lie? Ltr works differently than hookups, I agree. The thing is, some peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:38 AM
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Thanks bro <3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:27 AM
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So I had a shocking revelation that some people here actually sincerely dislike me. Holding back tears at least until I can get back home. But meanwhile, since I am already down, if you also dislike me or like, let me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:21 AM
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For me the only time an image does something is when i have already seen the man being alive. Now I am confused. Should the first picture be a video? If someone has slow internet or disabled autoplay then my first picture will be an awakwar stop frame...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:16 AM
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safety measures so could relax, and confidence This I understand. social skills, understanding of men This sounds like red pill for women. If it's not too hard, could you give at least one example of "understanding of men" and how it improved your dating life?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:05 AM
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They do and I had a couple, no effect. There is no statistics but I seriously doubt that even 5% saw anything on profile except the first picture and height.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:03 AM
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I mean just putting effort into making yourself more attractive. Well and building wealth too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:44 AM
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First, I am feeling generous today, so let me share some new lines with you: . . . . . Feel free to use them to make paragraphs so it is easier to read. Second, again, this is mostly about romantic life. And attention does not equal opportunity, but no attention equal no opportunity. And you completely ignore the psychological effect that contant rejections and feeling invisible has on men. Do you think it does not affect other areas of life? Honestly I agree about professional part. Now I feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:42 AM
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When people say "work" it does not always actually mean work a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:24 AM
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What was the point? And I thought you said you are not attractive. Which is why I was confused about your "issues". When you comment under a debate post, it means you disagree with OP. Which part do you disagree with and how is your comment making an argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:17 AM
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Only problem is actually unattractive women has a lot of issues... You start with this and go on about your boyfriends and how you are so pretty employers don't want to hire you. Like come on, I can listen to you and sympathise with failed relationship and mistreatment, but these are issues for which most men here will sacrifice a hand for. Have some tact. Only problem is actuallu poor people have a lot of issuess... I hate it when I need to transder hundreds thousands abroad and can't afford a …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:05 AM
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No one said that dating is supposed to be easy in terms of always getting what you want. The difference is you get to particiapte in this process. Men have to earn the right to do so. I don't get hired because I'm to feminine or a distraction I was literally told that by an employer who interviewed me And unless it happened in some muslim country 20 years ago, I am sorry, don't believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:00 AM
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I always enjoy how women try so hard to write essays on how they too have it hard in dating and then it is "my first bf... my second bf... ooh everyone wants to sleep with me...".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:52 AM
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Really curious about that glow up. Sarcastic me wants to say that it was just you learning how to install dating apps. Lets take a school where it's blatantly obvious. That's a bad example. School is an isolated environment full of kids who only closer to the end of it begin being interested in dating. Closed environment force groups and hierarchy to form. Many popular kids struggle outside the school while shy kids can have "glow up" by simple getting a fresh start.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:43 AM
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Seems like a personality match as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:34 AM
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u/Lemon_gecko your boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:22 AM
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Where??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:12 AM
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Men don't lack standards, they just focus on more important things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:01 AM
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??? That's the opposite of what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:59 AM
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Men don't. When you find most women attractive you can focus on other things. But when you find most men ugly you have to judge them on merit. Some will never even be considered at all, so it's not like it is a complete cheat code that beats ugliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:36 AM
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I was sarcastic. Truth is we are just pixels here. You an like or dislike pixels, but it has little to do with actual attraction. You said yourself that you'd have never used an app with no pictures, so why act like your personality aproval means anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:33 AM
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I think OP is only talking about romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:21 AM
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Even me? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:12 AM
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Here before the most empathetic gender explain us that it is our personalities that are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:00 AM
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Not gonna be the first one thinking about Patrick <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:54 PM
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During my next one gonna think about you ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:53 PM
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Sport is one of my hobbies, I compete in amatuer/veteran league. But there are better things to do uf the goal is health. Traumas happen and my knees will hate me soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:31 AM
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Define fit. I am in good shape more or less, not overweight, but not Thor either. When light is good 3 ab can be seen. But it's not like it was ever a issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:08 AM
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I always knew I am not super attractive, but I also thought I am not super ugly either. But apparently if you call yourself average you should either have success with average women or admit your personality sucks, so I'd rather call myself ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:56 AM
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Thanks! I thought I should just give up. I almost never meet people who don't get my sitcom style sarcasm, but this is a new job and it was awwwkwaaard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:51 AM
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Is there a money back guarantee?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:35 AM
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What's up? I have finally made hr lady laugh. For 2 months she did not get any of my jokes which made me more self conscious than having no matches on tinder. I put this in my 3 months milestone so I am happy I did it even earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:20 AM
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I'm not going to yap, and I'm not going to vent 😶‍🌫️ Well, it all comes down to power. It's like saying people allowed billionaires to screw them, or citizens of dictatorships let their oppression happen. Sure there is some truth to that, but who wants to die for revolution? Not me. What about you? There is hope, it's just not about going back to happy days, those are all gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:17 AM
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It's not one to one, but I don't quit a job before securing a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:03 PM
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Good, you are a big girl, i know you know what to do. But this on reddit is not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:06 PM
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That sucks, block him to not get upset again. Then again, i propose a healthier distraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:58 PM
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19, earned from sport during school, my first job was my career start
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:22 PM
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I am lazy, if you want I can go ballistic. But it's all bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:59 PM
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Like, my list of requirements for a hookup: has a vagina 🤭 (optional) not a complete bitch 👉👈 is 18 years to 18 years 2 months old (no oldies!!!!) has at least 5 felonies (sorry but can't change what I am attracted to 😵‍💫) And so on...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:47 PM
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I will get banned. It's gonna be a mirror to yours, but in caricature form. And humour only allowed when men are the bottom of the joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:39 PM
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In Dune that was written 50 years ago described the same problems of bureaucracy that we are dealing with now. Unfortunately there is no change without a big traumatic event trigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:26 PM
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I will write "dominant in bed" on my forehead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:24 PM
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😉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:19 PM
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Ah, the first part is hard to get grammatically. I agree, I hate status quo. Basically every system is rotting, but because no one can imagine anything different, we keep running on life support until everything collapses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:19 PM
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I asked to worship chaos today and you complied! Good job. Maybe I should make a troll post too...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:14 PM
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Ah?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 12:43 PM
2

Is martyrdom the only form of resistance?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:56 AM
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Because men were systematically bullied and shamed for advocating about their rights. "Oh, you are against draft? Well looks like you are ok with russian killing and raping ukranian women! And then these pathetic males complain about loneliness pfff, no real men left".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:29 AM
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So you are not compatible. That's life. Do you even want ltr? Or they want and you don't? You accuse me and others of not listening, but you don't talk about your actual issues then how can we?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:05 AM
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Worse of course. Oh, enjoy your vacation!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:28 AM
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I watched Odyssey and slept for 5 hours, but overall good. You?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:49 AM
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Men want someone i simply refuse to be. Do you have any problems attracting men? From what you said earlier you have many matches, men in dms and casual partners. How is your rebellion against men's desires manifesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:45 AM
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Let's worship chaos today
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:22 AM
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No race-baiting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:23 AM
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Does black magic to eyes and lips though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:57 PM
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why does it matter? makeup too, yet your kind applies it daily
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:55 PM
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Idk, I don't know what else to try to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:54 PM
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Will you pay for my surgeries?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:52 PM
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Fair enough, I don't take this quest seriously too. So far I separate all bottle caps from bottles and hide them somewhere, my contribution to the environment crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:52 PM
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You've already posted this comment the first time OP posted the post. See I am listening. With my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:43 PM
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have you tried it? I could not get back money when I was scammed without blocking all my cards and opening an investigaiton.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:25 PM
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Exactly. But I can wish for the world to end instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:54 PM
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Is dating not important? Is feeling inadequate not affecting people?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:54 PM
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Send money via any app?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:53 PM
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See I frame it differently. I don't think modern women can change, they are too far gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:42 PM
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Because it is pretty important thing and affects many men. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:41 PM
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I don't want women to lower their stadards, I want their standards to be lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:36 PM
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This is not about me, but I understand why people are upset about other people's choices. We are living in society, aren't we?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:35 PM
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When people are unhappy about something they want to do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:31 PM
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I am from a thirld world country where even street vendors accepted cards. Progress is unstoppable. Just takes time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:19 PM
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How low are we talking about? Beggars?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:12 PM
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Come on, funny guy, get a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:09 PM
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Lmao 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:57 PM
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It's not bad, never had to download something, most links open in browser. I'd ban cash, waste of time and paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:55 PM
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What do you want men to do instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:54 PM
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You don't know anyone's personality in gym. No one know yours there too. Gym is in general not a good place for dating. If you are not trying to make men come to you and say: "Hey, you look hot, would you like to drink something with me?" then why even dress sexy? Like what is the logic. Not that i am necessary againt it, but I wish women owned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:57 AM
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Sure, but then you have to accept that people will stare at you, and men that you don't like will also approach you. Men are not wearing underwear in gym. If they do, and then they complain that people are staring, sure, call them out too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:30 AM
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PPD assemble
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:12 AM
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Yep, and as far as I remember, our first interraction on this sub was somewhat similar: who wants to be the first one to bury the hatchet. It's been 300 years and hatchets are still flying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:11 AM
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It's really funny how OP wrote all this and basically confirmed everything for what women are being called out. There is a semi-easy way to end it - make gender-segregated gyms a norm. Men only gyms are illegal where I live. Women only are fine. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:59 AM
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If you want to be heard you have to start listening first. I tried, but it never was my turn, so I gave up on it. Maybe you should too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:30 AM
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When a finance bro complains you about stock market but you are not sure if you have enough money to eat this week is it really lack of EQ if you still would rather be in finance bro's place?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:19 AM
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Sometimes it's like we speak two different languages. We feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 07:57 AM
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Not going to argue with this. There is no way we can have a meaningful debate cause we are both biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:58 PM
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No one cares about it, women cares more about what other women think about their man. Men's respect is just a bonus, not the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:54 PM
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I don't care about other men. I don't discuss my dating life with men. I just know that some men are desired and I am not, if no men were desired I'd feel more normal. If you were physically incapable of running, would you go to a doctor or would you be like "well I don't compete with others so who cares right"? I think it's unfair to claim men don't desire/want the individual woman when we talk about general gender dynamics. Like, who am I suppose to desire right now? My married coworker? No, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:42 PM
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I just moved to an apartment with a balcony last year, experimenting a little, but don't get too deep into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:13 PM
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I was thinking about it but decided to go wth regular pots. Maybe next year.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:04 PM
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Since I started to work from the office most of the time I don't really eat at home anyway. Apricots are nice, I've just satisfied my sweet cherry cravings for can get some too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:43 PM
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Well for social creatures wanting to be at least as good as others is normal. I don't see why wanting to have sex can be both because of pleasure and because of social proof. Afterwards, if you want to have sex, but can't get it, something is worse about you compared to people who can, would you disagree? Women do sleep with men for validation, if someone uses me for sex, well, I just can't imagine it as a bad thing no matter how hard I try, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:39 PM
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Looks good! It is kinda fun to make use of my balcony this way :) <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:10 PM
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Not so sure about that <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 01:19 PM
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Sure, I don't think it is necessary about being above or below the woman specifically. It's more about ranking among other men. If a very attractive dude acts as a player, well women can see him as immature, but in general they are ok with it. If a guy like me will act as a player there will be 10-20 reddit posts created about an ugly dude not deserving his "chance".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 01:18 PM
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Salad is still growing, and bell peppers are green, so for now just east them as is, but want to make a simple salad out of my balcony :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 01:12 PM
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Me eating good this summer <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:34 AM
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Just date the right women for you is an empty statement. Obviously if men could they would have. Women don't progress bevause they don't feel like they need to. This is unfair. Evdn if their desicions don't directly hard someone. So calling out hypicrisy is fair. Even if your stance is technically morally correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:43 AM
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You just keep saying technically right things and refusing to have a nuanced debate. Fine, enjoy having correct world view, what can i say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:32 AM
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What about those who does not feel it is right for them and what they feel is right for them imposes difficulties on others? Is it fair that one's desires considered bad and other's good? I'd rather there been some middle ground to keep all more or less happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:08 AM
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Fair, but it is a privildged position to have the power to walk away. I don't think true progression is possible without giving up some advantages of old ways. No matter if they are pushing against anyone else's rights or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:50 AM
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Finally someone who can understand my Tleilaxu references.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:09 AM
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And what is the correct definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:06 AM
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No one is against of wanting an attractive partner, what women find attractive is a problem and is rightfully called out as shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:05 PM
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You can't say it should be considered norm if you find like 5% of men attractive. It's like your kid reject 95% of food you cook. Do you think it is normal and it's ok to only eat what you like? Or something is wrong with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:58 PM
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but maybe what you find attractive may raise some eyebrows Not really. Men find all sorts of women attractive. Just don't be an extreme end of anything and take care of yourself. That's it. This is enough for most men. What women find attractive is extreme end of physical characteristics, hence the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:25 PM
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Fair enough, just keep in mind that when you have dozens of options at any moment it is easier to enforce boundaries. Took me years to stop trying winning people who are not interested back. Truth is, some are, and many women consider this sort of courting dance where male pursue her. But again, just move on right? Still sucks, maybe if there were no gendered exectations things would be easier fo me. Hence complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:08 PM
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Remember you complained about guys being bored in DMs? Basically when you try not to be boring and have to lead conversation it feels like yoh are entertaining a woman who will then judge if you are worthy of her time or not. I prefer mutual interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:59 PM
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We have this discussions many times. At best, if you manage to convience that this situation could be reasonable taking as something negative, people here will say "just leave lol". Which is correct, in a way. But they don't want to have any meaningful discussion about the nature of situation and emotions behind it. When you get a top 1% badge here you also get a keyboard with keys that instantly print "entitled", "nobody owes you anything", "well the just leave", "it is your personality".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:14 PM
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I play videogames, guitar, go to gym and do sport in veteran league, also I am a big enjoyer of live music and hops based beverages. Work in IT
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:51 AM
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I am here mostly during work as a distraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:42 AM
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Young boys will go for Mercy main girls, but real men are not scared of Widow mains women. Did I understand the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:47 AM
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I hope I at least go somewhere, not in circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:35 PM
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Ehhhh, and the wanderer resumes his journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:11 PM
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PC is the best, even cheaper one should run SV just fine. Never completed perfection cause I don't like collecting nuts, but maybe this time...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:30 PM
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I am waiting for 1.7 to sink another 50-100 hours
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:23 PM
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Now my hair is shoulder long, it is a little curly and very fluffy, idk how dyed fluffy hair will look ><
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:12 PM
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Vast majority of high libido men can't just go out and have sex. And many women are not comfortable with casual sex but enjoy it in relationship. Which is quite logical, considering how scared of men women claim they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:09 PM
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well, but you saw their balls, kinda win in my book
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:57 PM
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Why do you care about my balls?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:56 PM
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a woman with a body count of 3 people at the age of 30. Of course yalls libidos are wildly mismatched You can be hyper sexual with low body count. You know you can have sex with a single person many times, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:50 PM
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You can critique, just don't use the same argument both ways: - men are treating women differently, uh, mysoginy - well duh men and women are different, what did you think bruh See how this is contradicting?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:44 PM
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My point is that you can't scream Well….women aren’t men. But then scream hypocrisy and double standards when different treatment is not to your liking. Either you want to be equal or not. You can't just pick what you want depending on situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:33 PM
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No and I have no idea how steroids work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:28 PM
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For how long? If it is for 2-4 months I will manage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:26 PM
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going around trying to devalue as many women people as possible Is basically modern world. My point if not that is good or bad, point is this is not hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:25 PM
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Do you think if someone complains about a certain gender it means they hate it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:51 PM
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Do you agree with the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:43 PM
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Do you think men and women are different or should have the same views on sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:34 PM
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I knooow, I've already grew my hair, which, objectively, made me uglier, but more happy with myself. I want to experiment, but I think I will look bad and basically turn my chances to date someone to practically zero (I have concernes about my skin issues being highlighted by hair color and hair is messy as is, might look weird colored). But happy for you, really! Happy birthday! (is it today?)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:25 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:24 PM
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Sounds beautiful! I envy women for how it is more acceptable to dye hair colorful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:15 PM
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Why do you care about men and what they think? We live in socium we form opinions and cast judgment, duh. Answer my question. Is his opinion based? Because men and women are different sexually so we can judge women for something that we praise men for and reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:12 PM
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You don't need a job and you don't need money. You need food and rood, guess what, food grows in nature and you can sleep under the bridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:10 PM
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Well ok, if a man who does not sleep around and does not want to says it is bad when women sleep around but ok when men do. Is it based?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:05 PM
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I have a walking treadmill and a pull up bar. Honestly have been neglecting both due to heat wave and the fact that I come home around 20 and have little desire to excersice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:04 PM
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Examples are not connected, and in a way I still understand why someone would complain about sluts even if he wants them if they don't choose him. The issue is the hypocrisy with men who want to sleep around and then demand women who don’t sleep around. But men and women are different, no? Where is the hypocrisy? Men love sex, women don't sex, so women who do are weird or something, according to you. So this take is the most logical possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:56 PM
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Well….women aren’t men. Especially since women dont have the same hormones nor same satisfaction from sex. But if someone says that being a slut as a man and woman is different, people lose their minds... To answer your point, the reason why people complaining about something is because this something is what they value and can't or don't want to avoid. It's like saying if you don't like politics move to deep forest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:44 PM
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Well women have millennias long amount of makeup content on youtube alone. How often can you experiement with haircuts? Not surprising men want something similar that transform effort and knowledge into result.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:21 PM
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Oh I am definitely not making desicions now. Was fishing for people's experience here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:14 PM
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As long as height is there sure some women will go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:57 AM
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Never been so sure in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:39 AM
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I mean, I have a solid 3-4 days per week routine. And obviously with drugs I will commit more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:25 AM
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Define properly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:03 AM
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Well this age gap is nothing really. Here is what you should do - a bold move that screams confidene. Write a note and hand it to her. Note says "What do you want to do to me?" with the following checkboxes: - Kiss - Fuck - Date - Marry - Just frienship :( and wait for her to give it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:23 AM
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I actually do have thyme and rosemary because all potato mixes here I don't like. But I only use them when I bake potato.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:07 AM
1

what is kratom?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:55 AM
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I use specific seasoning packs for specific dishes when I cook them. I know it's lame, but I don't like to think when I can avoid thinking and it works fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:54 AM
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Non-Disclosure Agreement?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:52 AM
1

Let's say ever since covid ended
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:52 AM
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Absolutely, but then I knew I will get results in reasonable timeframe, like 2-3 months. And this I can manage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:27 AM
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I tried for a decade. There is always something. Burocratic hell, work, getting sick, bad mental state. I don't think I can last more than 2-3 months of consistency. But yeah, I guess I should just give up and accept my body as is. Maybe this will reduce stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:17 AM
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Do you have a point?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:56 AM
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I think I can focus for 2-3 months if I knew I had gains.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:52 AM
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172cm/71kg, I have some muscles and am in a decent shape, but body fat is not low. Arms are thin, abs hidden, shoulders could be better, back is fine more or less.. I go to gym 2-3 times per week, basically every muscle group at least once + press finish every time and one time I do martial arts training, this is mostly legs/cardio. Eat shit and drink, so at least I am not getting in worse shape, just maintain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:45 AM
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1 hour easily transforms into 2 due to logistics, work is 10 hours plus 45 min commute and I already struggle with sleeping as is. I know these are all excuses, but believe me, if I could fit this much gym into my schedule and not kill myself, I would have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:29 AM
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It is and I am not sure if it is worth it. I feel like if wanted to do this I should have done when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:21 AM
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Have you done it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:20 AM
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Should I just do steroids? I feel like I waste time in gym and I physically can't commit as much as probably required to achieve visible results...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:12 AM
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Quick example - entire age gap debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:06 AM
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The only thing here to discuss is are you free on friday lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:04 AM
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Implies there is not adequate height Du kannst mit mir deutsch sprechen
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:02 PM
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Sorry, "just go to therapy" is one of my triggers. It's way to easy to just throw it instead of having a real conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:23 PM
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Well I can vent here for free, don't see how therapy suppose to help. I watch Dr. K for years and saw some other therapy sessions recordings. It seems like it helps people with no inner monologue and zero analytics skills. It is far far from a panacea that people consider it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:47 PM
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That's how people cure problems that can't be dealt with medicine, by talking about them. Ok, will you advice people who experience racism to go to therapy? If your kid is bullied will you just put him in therapy? Or there are cases where we should condemn those who cause harm in the first place? Addictions are different. If I am short pecause I keep cutting my legs off, sure, sign me up, that's insane. Why not try to solve the root of body dysmorphia? What was body positivity for? Did it had no…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:08 PM
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How will therapist help? I am genuenly curious. Like, the problems are real life experience, how talking can change anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:07 PM
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"Adequate height" yall are so funny sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:51 PM
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See, you youtself promote heightism
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:51 PM
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Maybe in your country buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:22 PM
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It's not for you to decide. Well which is it? Pick one. You can't switch how you want. Then you should support more LLs, each one will progress the procedure. Experiment: let's imagine there is a pill, you eat it and 50% you get half a foot taller or 50% you die. What would you think about people who go for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:21 PM
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Oh right, jumping from 5'4 to 5'9 will help cross magical 6+ feet only threshold? If a girl dates you at 5'9 she is probably ok with 5'4
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:15 PM
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Many things here. Average is a perfect candidate for LL because going from short to average does not change anything. Ahso getting a girlfriend suppose to fix his problems? I though loving yourself is more important or something? Why not send women who get boobjobs to therapy too? Is it different? While I never do LL myself I totally get it. Good bait but will be deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:31 PM
1

That's the dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:53 PM
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I don't really care. It's not like there is a study that will make you say "I was wrong, you were right". Nah you will cry that study is bad or biased or something. So why play stupid game just to win stupid prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:40 PM
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Maybe when I am home. Feel free to google or use any llm you prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:34 PM
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Women did in any study about this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:11 PM
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Oh come on, it's 2026, most men I know are good at cleaning and cooking. Arguably better than women I know. Why are we still debating this like it is 1976 or something. Is this the content for our sweet senior PPDers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:48 PM
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I feel you. I regret my university / covid years, i used the fomo as motivation to do more but next age bracket went even worse. The best I can is to focus on positives and thinking that I still have some time left to make up for boring years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:50 AM
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A friendly marriage for tax reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:13 AM
1

There are redhead slavs too, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:17 PM
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Fuck... was not careful and got sunburned on lower back of legs. Now I have an allergic reaction there and it will take at least a week to heal. Why am I nerfed so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:55 PM
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Telling that your standards are too high is pretty fair if they are. The rest is weird, don't want a man don't get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:19 PM
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No matches and I don't meet many women offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:05 PM
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Is there an answer that you will accept? Like what is the point asking, this is personal. I can go to a bakery and ask for the best looking cake, but I actually want the one that tastes the best, but I know that I can't just ask the baker because he can like different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:03 PM
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No, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:54 PM
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lose their shit about how women's standards are too high and then fail to answer what do they bring to the table basically But why is it even a question when standards are the topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:51 PM
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If I have my backpack I bring several candies, gum and on rare occasions slavic dark bread snacks or sunflower seeds to the table. Form a line ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:37 PM
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Just excuses and victim complex 💁‍♂️ Second I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:35 PM
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If someone actually checks what I bring and is not happy, fair enough. But again, if you feel jaded and you response is to turn shallow of course people will attack you for it. If you think that you bring enough - then tell what it is. I don't want to tell you. Part of it is standard relationshipy things, part of it specific to me and what I and my partners enjoyed and I am not limited to it. So what is the point. There is a talking stage and several dates to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:34 PM
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Just go and do something. Wanna earn more than en, go and earn instead of complaining. I disagree, complaining and fixing things that does not affect you directly is what builds society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:16 PM
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? Why don't they show us that a good 80% of women would never consider dating a short guy for the sole reason of him being short? Isn't it plot of Materialists?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:14 PM
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I hate the table talk. Like date me and find out. That's the whole point, maybe I bring exactly what you need, but you won't ever know it because I am only taller by X and not 3X or one day my shirt was wrinkled or something. General you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:12 PM
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Title
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:33 PM
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According to OP it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:33 PM
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Well then there is no patriarchy and misogyny did not prevent you from anything. It's just a way to feel like a victim and pretend it's unfair judgement. Let's just go full out on not caring about others. Why should we, right? Sucks to suck, not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:21 PM
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Don't have this option :(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:11 PM
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I do this too and I am just fall exhausted but can't sleep. This is the worst feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:09 PM
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Do you work?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:08 PM
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Envy you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:01 PM
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I think I am getting exhausted from work and have problems with falling asleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:01 PM
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Fair, i still have some left, but not really into smoking much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:11 AM
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I am not a girl, what does it change
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:10 AM
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I will not be this categorical and for someone with many women friends it will sound weird but I do see OP's point. It is more about boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:02 AM
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My 194cm boxer friend told me when we wandered in a shady 'hood in Naples: "If anything I will run, you do you" 🫠 Bro had one job.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:49 AM
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With some dried leafs wrapped in paper?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:41 AM
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I declare 4 sober days. Well, 5, if we count yesterday. Need to recover a bit. How do you relax without alcohol?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:53 AM
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Same bro
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:26 PM
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We should fap more. I used to be more chill when worked from home. Now I am in the office and I am noticably more bitchy. Fucking colleagues should be an acceptable team building excercise. Call HR only if you want them to join.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:40 PM
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Oh finally i know what it is, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:29 AM
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Both things can be true: character in the movie is bad and people are tired of media serving to reinforce negative views about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:17 AM
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Women and a white knight :D Nah the dude is chill tho for real
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:30 PM
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Why? It's not like I am ready to start a commited serious relationship with "anyone". I still look for compatibility and personality traits that I like. It's just I don't limit myself by shallow traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:40 AM
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Sure, but if a person from the same demography choose to date you when you are 40 but not when you are 20, it is sus. Sure, this particular person did not rejected you 20 years ago, but it is weird how unlucky you were, or something changed and people settle for other reasons? What is more realistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:38 AM
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That's the thing, I don't think I have any opportunity to even do wrong. It's not like I go on dates and wonder why I never go on second. That would at least give me something to reflect on and adjust. Even 5 years ago I manange to have a fwb and 2 hookups in 6 months, but after it's a ghost town. So I am sorry if I sound hostile but it is frustrating when people just attack me and refuse me my reality because it goes againt theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:36 AM
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a 50 y.o obese woman with shaven head, crooked teeth, dyed armpit hair. I put what I would consider "extreme deformities", but nice try. I was crashing on a bald chick before, she was pretty hot but not into guys unfortunately. And in my gym there are some cool ladies that I would assume approaching 50 +-. If you want we can sit and scroll through any dating app. It is usually pretty hard for me to find something physical that makes me swipe left. What about you? Straight to the height section o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:33 AM
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Well I honestly have not tried it myself. But all kink/sex parties where I live are extremely strict against single male participants, so why would I waste my night standing in queue to get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:29 AM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:26 AM
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It's catchy and kinda fits here, so why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:26 AM
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I mean, it is only for initial physical attraction. I can appreciate all features that I find attrative on a specific woman, it's just that I don't look for the same set of features on all women. Does it makes sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:26 AM
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How can I stand out as submissive man so you and your partner could find me? No matter what I do, if there are no single and interested women it will not work, do you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:24 AM
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Well I like some unique features, like birthmarks or scars, as most young men I like alt/goth look, but this is also just a case of uniqeness I guess. But it does not mean that this is what I prefer and will reject women who are not like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:23 AM
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Looking where lol? I don't understand what you are trying to say. You started with niche maxxing, now you are talking about something completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:20 AM
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Well then how come I am not being shifted thorugh? By this logic I should be actively dating and breaking up. Then I'd agree, sure. But if I magically become a dating option when I close to retirement, come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:19 AM
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Maybe they will if they get to know me, now no one really gives me this chance because I don't pass initial filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:17 AM
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Physically? Absence of severe deformities and some signs of care and thought put into appearence. I don't have a set of traits that I am only attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:17 AM
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All the men I’ve seen on various subculture scenes Even if I give you a benefit of doubt and replace all with most, it still does not add up. And in kink scene it is close to impossible to get into for a man if he is not already with a woman. Confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:14 AM
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Then how come most Blue Pillers say "most people end up with someone". Do you see the dissonance?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:12 AM
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I already select for overweight older men with moustaches who dress in smart clothes and are into classical literature No offense, but it screams "daddy issues". Am I wrong? What do you think makes you attracted to this type?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:52 AM
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I go to events too. All few women there with someone else already. I still lean in this direction with my personal style just because I like it, but it's generally a bad piece of advice. If I get a normal haircut, dress business casual and sit for 3 weeks in a coffee shop, my chances of meeting someone are much higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:50 AM
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I believe you, I don't believe general you. Because if general you was true, dating would not have been so brutal, so something doesn't not add up...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:45 AM
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All the men I’ve seen on various subculture scenes have women throwing themselves at them. I mean, it just confirms that men who are not attractive are invisible to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:41 AM
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Men are not alone in this, women do it too and I'd argue even more. And while you might earn a genuine compliment for your cool unique style, most women will still be attracted to the same set of traits that all women are attracted to. You think general market is oversaturated? Well all niche markets are the same. Even worse in some cases, like, I am into metal, more men are into metal than women. If i go full on subculture I will just be ridiculed by women who are not into it while not gaining …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:37 AM
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Or that there are ugly men in porn so it means looks are not important something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:18 PM
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Hehe, Lillth watches porn
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:57 PM
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Anyone wants to pick up their distributed man? I have one right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:45 AM
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Women who complain about being overwhelmed on dating apps. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:48 AM
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Wonder where all Tleilaxu women are...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:38 PM
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Women's easinesses Women's standards (we are here) Women's difficulties Women's hardcores
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:52 PM
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Men are apes who are attracted to anything and women are 200 IQ demigodesses that are attracted on multidimentional complex emotional spiritual level. Just so happened that most wizards are tall handsome guys. But remember, filthy males, dare not blame us for your lameness! I swear we should bring "unrealistic beauty standards" back. Yall forgot what it felt like, if you mock men for being attracted to all sorts of women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:36 PM
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Well, one is dating a guy who has a pregnant wife. He says he will divorce but does not want to have the talk before the baby is born. This is fucked up in many ways and at best leave her with a cheater with a child. No, my friends are not saint. They are normal. No, I don't make ideal judgment nor do I claim that women struggling with loneliness have some bad personaity traits. You judge by who women end up with, i don't see marriage as an ultimate dating peak. For most people it is the last re…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:33 PM
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Is it? Maybd i need to check out some places. My favorite bar us closed on renovations so I am a little lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:13 PM
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But you need prescribtion i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:48 PM
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I don't know what it is, but if the effect is the same, why pay more?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:46 PM
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Idk, I agree with any things you say and can't reply in details at the moment. I have many women friends. Some of them make pretty "bad" descisions in dating. But I can't say they are bad women in general. Most of it comes from daddy issues and or never being called out. And they too will go and say shit like "i just want a normal guy to treat me right". So i kinda grew numb to what women say they want and look at what they do. Sure there are plenty of normal women. But there are many with quest…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:46 PM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:38 PM
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Well, anyway, i want to get drunk and be with drunk people, so some shit. Tired of acting normal and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:24 PM
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If I wasn't someone would have went on a date with, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:22 PM
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Well am I not gross and degenerate already? What is the point of life?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:19 PM
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Why not? It is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:13 PM
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Yes? Is this an unrealistic concept? Mental illness alone is a pretty valid reason, isn't it? If you can't get aroused without some weird extreme kinks, do you think it is normal too?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:11 PM
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I have a 13 years older aunt, i grew up in a neighbourhood where I was one of the youngest, so I had plenty of older friends...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:02 PM
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You misunderstood. Yeah it is ok to call out bad behaviour in women. I'd say it also good to try to understand why they are like this. What I disagree with is segregating good and bad women and sweeping bad under the rag and pretending they don't matter. They are "normal" women in a sense that they look normal and interact with people normally. And they impact other people. For example, I had women making fun of my height. It happened to me when I was extremely insecure and hurt me deeply. Now y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:57 AM
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It silences the voices.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:47 AM
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Parents, teachers, older people and for them I believe it was close to reality, because it became much worse with social media and dating apps boom + covid. I am not talkingabout impact in the way people are treated. I am talking about will people even interact with you or not. Honestly if I knew about my dating prospects I'd accepted it and moved on. False hope is hard to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:46 AM
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Looks good. I went with function over beauty and ate my first small strawberry last weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:10 AM
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I want to drink, to smoke, to do drugs and to party. If this leads to me living less, who cares. It just always some bullshit I give myself as a reason not to, like a new job now, that I need to apply for citizenship next year, blah blah. Before it was something with immigratio to, and before it university, school. There will always be something. Fuck this shit honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:36 AM
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So emotional rollercoaster addiction is a good way to make a woman more interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:17 AM
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Well for one is to respect them enough to not commit any crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:10 AM
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Average looks, average career, is polite, respects other people but not a pushover.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:57 AM
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You don't see the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:53 AM
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Novels, media, mental illnesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:38 AM
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Exactly. Because for many women normal guys are boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:31 AM
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Yeah but women actually are taught exactly what they learn from experience, they just decided to ignore it or to assume they are above it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:26 AM
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We would love to, but unfortunately we can't know in advance. So what we do instead is assume negative and get pleasantly surprised, instead of being naive and dissapointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:13 AM
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Yes, people are often wrong and naive when they are young. Not sure I find it funny. I kinda resent everyone who tried to convience me otherwise when I was young and believed people who are supposed to be wiser and more experienced. Haha those kids believed they can earn enough to buy a house if they study well, what idiots lmao. - Lime_gecko, 2026
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:09 AM
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If women stop equating dating success and moral qualities, men won't ever bring this up. It is extremelt tiring to hear "well have you tried not hating women???" and then when you point out how women have no problem dating literal criminals and nazis you want to go into philisophical debate about subjective morals? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:02 AM
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Well feel free to make posts about what men claim that are wrong. "They do it too" is a lame excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:53 AM
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Well, people are complaining about it when they see negative consequences of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:48 AM
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OP uses serial killers as example. It is not really a subjective thing to think that killing people is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:46 AM
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People are a hive mind on a high level.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:33 AM
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But women claim to be able to sense bad character traits and reject men for them. So what ard you saying, those women who failed to do so are defective?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:32 AM
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I mean, the same argument can be made about porn, yet porn usage is proved to be able to cause damage. Idk, I find that a lot of the angriest people around here are the ones with the least nuance when it comes to their perception of others. Or with the most nuance and are frustrated by those with none acting like they are smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:27 AM
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You can't just call all women who demostrate behaviour that you don't like "bad women" and remove them from your equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:22 AM
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It does not matter if it is 1% or 0.0001%. If you (women) claim to associate morality with dating success then apply it and call out those who don't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:21 AM
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There is so much going on I don't know where to start... First, serial killers is not an opposite end of shy. But for the sake of debate let's pretend it is. 99,9% would say they choose the correct option, but what they actually choose depends on how attractive these men are and what they chose them for. because the women they’re fucking are equally as bad as them This is a forbidden C word. You can dodge bullets ever so often, but in the end you have to accept that people are not perfect in gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:08 AM
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Idk, when I was younger I think I did play it too safe and slow. But I just wanted this romantic natural progression, did not want to guess if the girl is into it or just scared or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:48 AM
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So funny to me that some people lack imagination to understand other people and get upset when other people think differently than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:39 PM
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I have. More than 0. How about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:32 PM
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People already said it: likes from bots, from passport mode users, and some other cases, can't be counted as "options". So your attempt at gotcha just shows your lack of understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:27 PM
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What is with Blue Pill and being pedantic? Other Blue Pillers, do you agree with this conclusion or are you capable of nuanced discussions?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:13 PM
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Ok, but this is your last chance
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:23 AM
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Nope, last time I did I was dissapointed :P
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:20 AM
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Just assume that people will act in their interests first. No matter what excuse or justification. I have no problem calling out my friends when they said something stupid, but I will not do it to a colleague or potential romantic interest (at least not directly).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:48 AM
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The Red Pill consistently revolves around the same core ideas: obsession with women's body counts I can argue that this is as much individual attraction as height.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:24 PM
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Feel free to explain where you think i am wrong. You post on a debate sub, act this was please.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:43 PM
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I honestly don't know what you are trying to say. My point is to poke at weakness of OP's argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:26 PM
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Ok, and red pill guys will go for women with short hair and small boobs, does it make them progressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:20 PM
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What is GNC?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:06 PM
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I don't know how you'd debate that. Easy: I will question causation and correlation. If women overwhelmingly prefer shorter men, entire social dynamic will reflect that. There is no reality where traits that are not desired by most women in men does not lead to other biases. being unhypocritical isn't a virtue if your beliefs are shitty I disagree. I at the very least respect assholes who are honest in their believes. I have when people act like that are good guys but then do exactly what they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:10 PM
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5000? Yes or no? People are very confident when they have nothing to lose by being wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:29 PM
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I will pay you 1000€ if you can take better pictures of me. If you fail you pay me. Deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:22 PM
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Oh right, because profile text is the only thing that is looked at. Can you share these magic words with me? How many new single people do you meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:16 PM
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Duh, point is if a woman calls herself progressive but prefers tall men, according to OP she is conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:11 PM
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Where? On apps? Do you realize that people don't really meet many single people once they are out of school?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:10 PM
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I'd say 3/4 guys who complain don't get to show their personality. So basically it's like to say "diversify your investments, bro" to a person in poverty. You'd be annoyed too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:53 PM
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Me with a frontbone >>>> the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:44 PM
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Tall men perks are a byproduct of women selection. There are perks of being short and average as a men, but they are all outshined by negatives. A progressive is more likely to be thoughtful and self-aware about it, consistently checking ones prejudices. A conservative is more likely to see it as part of a natural morality. So conservatives are sincere and progressives are hypocrites?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:38 PM
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Red pill individuals can have preferences for lower body count women but it's not prescribtive that women need to be virgins. Am i doing this right? Or poking holes in logic is "unfortunate"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:36 PM
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Meanwhile, liberals reject those ideas. We reject gender essentialism. We reject the idea that biology dictates your role in society. So, just to be consistent, every woman that prefers tall men (or even just taller than her) is fundamentally conservative, right? Because you can't have it both ways. Or you have to admit that progressive worldviews are not necessary follow the same path and broad terms cannot be applied to all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:52 AM
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Happy cake day! If it is at least somewhat comforting, I would not want for anything bad to happen to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:14 AM
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Well then should be easy to write that instead of personal attacks, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:23 AM
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Yo, if you disagree with OP, argue against his point. The amount of people making personal attacks is upsetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:11 AM
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Getting a good passport and then will think about it. I honestly don't want to learn 5th language but probably will have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:59 AM
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I am just curious, if this is the worst piece of dating advice than what are better alternatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:53 AM
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True, just... you gotta do something right? If I have 0 matches and I don't approach in irl then I will be forever alone, so advice in itself is pretty reasonable. Definitely far from the worst. Plus with a tinfoil hat on, apps can for whatever reason put your profile so deep in the deck that most women will never see it. And in irl the height has honestly been less an issue, probably because some short women don't have good height perception and just chase a number when it is available.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:43 AM
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I will go to anyone's from this sub wedding and gift at least a 100 and will drink for a total of more than that but it's gonna be a night to remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:41 PM
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Goverments are pretty good in fucking my life, might as well find someone to fuck my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:16 PM
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Does not sound like they are angry or resentful though, women also speak about their exes or bad dates, it could be just an indirect way to check if you are on the same page. My point is not that men never say anything wrong. My point is that it is unfair to assume someone is not successful in dating because... he was unsuccessful in dating. I'd agree that if someone goes on dates regulary but fails all the time they are doing something wrong, but I seriously doubt it is a compound resentment or…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:46 PM
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Nah, got nothing to do with bitterness, just attraction, if it is there or isn't. Any attempt to moralize this is just shallow people want to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:11 PM
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That is why I gave you a different situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:03 PM
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Fine, let's do reverse: if women complain about men only wanting them for sex, is it faie to assume it is a self fulfilling prophecy and the way they act turns men off so they don't want to see them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:37 PM
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Just means she's not into you. If she can find a reason she will, if not she will just say "vibes". There was a post about a guy with swastika tattoo and jewish girl will still had sex with him because he was hot enough. Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:01 PM
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Well if they are dating or in relationship doesn't look that bad, does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:58 PM
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I tried, but I get triggered easily by bullies who are convienced they are smart and just.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:38 PM
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I always wonder how do you imagine an average man express their "anger and bitterness" in a way that affects their possible future relationships? Is this some kind of a cartoon character who goes around and repeating every incel term to women with a poster "Remove women rights"? Do you realize that vast majority of people act completely normal in real life? What it really is a mental trick to justify lack of empathy towards lonely men. Heh, those incels totally deserve it, amiright? important qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:59 PM
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I guess person who interviewed women was not attractive and they replied with "i have a boyfriend" on habbit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:26 PM
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Ask OP? Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And you agree with them, so you should know what you base this idea on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:18 PM
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Nah, I disagree. You (and OP) see a man opening up about loneliness, insecurities, confudence issues and your first instinct is to say "no one owes you sex you filthy animal!".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:12 PM
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People like OP always do it. You too dismissed men's issues to "sex and status".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:03 PM
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Everyone is poly here. But I am yet to see a man with more than one gf. Oh wait, this should lead to less single men actually....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:58 PM
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Tell me any real emotion and I will find a way to twist it to lack of sex and call you out for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:56 PM
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Well, I won't marry such woman, but I'd still go on a date and maybe have something casual with her. Not going to massively limit my very small dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:01 PM
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We can try, but we have to deal with women saying they are ok with it, but still getting "the ick". So it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:56 AM
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They should not be but they are. I cried last time when I was 11 or 12 and I was bullied for it by family, by friends, by school. OP is basically continue the same trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:51 AM
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Depends, if it means if I become shorter tomorrow (to be fair, I am short as is, not much room to shrink) she breaks up with me, it would bother me. If it means she would have not been interested in me back then when we met, well, I am willing to tolerate it if she grew as a person and can see past shallow traits now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:29 AM
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We need to start r /Purplepillcirclejerk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:10 AM
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My favorite is when you sarcastically reply to contentless rhetoric and get banned for 7 days for contentless rhetoric. This rule is basically "I do what I want" for mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:24 AM
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I really try to only think positively, but unfortunately I am still easily triggered. No satire
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:21 PM
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Nope, and i lost them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:19 PM
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There is a goth girl and an emo girl together near me, chat, what should i do? I need a smooth way in. Help
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:33 PM
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I am talking about your post Honestly, it's ridiculous, men here blame women for being "too picky", "being attracted to only small percent of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:32 PM
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So on dating apps women swipe on 3% of men profiles because 97% have lower social, financial or educational status? I think you mixed two topics, hypergamy and "being able to attract, control attraction".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:29 PM
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Going to a concert while already having a bit sore throat \m/ not gonna be able to speak tomorrow
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:22 PM
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https://youtu.be/ezF31CwFvpc?si=QYmOT3oVNbp3lF7G This is a good video about this topic. This whole post is coming across as a pick me post where loser men try to get women to lower their standards. Here is your 🥇 in mental gymnastics. Jesus, how do you see everything as a personal attack on your freedom? Doesn't it get exhasting?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:23 AM
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Thanks, I though I'd gone insane yesterday arguing with people what "high standards" mean. Some people call basic compatibility things "high standards" I guess because they are high on their priority list or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:54 AM
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UP literally means there are metrics that are compared between others in socium.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:46 AM
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The argument is not about changing or controling it. If your attraction is impacted by social trends it is literally definition of hypergamy. There is no "valid" reason to be attracted to someone. There are plenty of bad reasons to be attracted to someone. In my opinion, socially influenced metrics are among them. I don't care about what other thinks about people I find attractive, if I find them attractive then who cares right? But if you only attracted to people who posses qualities that are c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:23 AM
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men's lack of effort to attract them men don't put enough effort Well to have a debate you have to define effort and enough effort here. You can't say "you are not doing enough" if you don't know what and how much needs to be done. Same men like to scream about "women shouldn't care about height because it's not something we can control". Well attraction isn't either. This only true if you can prove that attraction to height is 100% genuine and not manufactured by social media and abundance of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:01 AM
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Half of OP is literally "having high standards = good". I replied to that. To have a discussion about low standards with you I have to ask what do you mean by low standards first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:31 PM
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John Genalphovich
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:26 PM
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Nah, if anyhting I got more ugly objectively. You ever heard "just get a haircut" advice? Well I haven't for 6 months already, not my fault really just so happened, but it is a mess...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:25 PM
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I was. It fits. Does not matter really.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:16 PM
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I don't understand what is your point. Could you please quote what you disagree with or rephrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:15 PM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:59 PM
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Do you have any examples where men complains about paying, someone calls him out that he should not paid if he doesn't want to and this man screams "victim blaming!" Or something. Because boy or boy if say a woman she should have chose better all hell breaks loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:09 PM
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Wrong, I was in relationships before. The longest gf was not thin, slightly overweight, but I could not care less. We were compatible and had fun time together. I won't say she passed my high standards, just got lucky finding my person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:48 PM
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Women have more options. If a man gets one day per year, he will most likely pay even if he does not want to. Paying for a date is nothing compared to what women who chose wrong have to go through. Different stakes. I can complain about taxes even if I pay them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:27 PM
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Do you think men don't know what they are doing when they pay? That's pretty responsible as is. I doubt a girl head over heelals over a drug dealer fresh outa prison is in for a boxing match.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:54 AM
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Well thank god your standard was "likes cats" not "wants to have cats". Otherwise you'd have to lower it or break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:46 AM
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Feel the same way as me != high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:37 AM
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It is your standard, not high standard then. Your compatibility criteria. That's it. This is not what people hear when someone says "high standards".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:35 AM
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It is literally what it is. High means hard to match.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:33 AM
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You made a post about A but you actually meant B, but you called it A because othervise there is nothing to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:32 AM
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So I am allergic, does it mean I am lesser human?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:31 AM
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I disagree, I see it as people with "high" standards don't care about other things unless the person meets their standards first. Kinda the same, but in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:31 AM
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Again Those are not "high" standards. People who love pets are not "higher" than those who are allergic to them. You want somehing compatible to you, but it is not what I'd call "high standards".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:16 AM
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Those are not "high" standards. People who love pets are not "higher" than those who are allergic to them. You want somehing compatible to you, but it is not what I'd call "high standards".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:14 AM
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If you only consider attractive people to begin with, you have high standards. But you still will look for compatibility, which is default for all human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:12 AM
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These are things that you discover while dating someone. If you are not compatible it does not mean that the person failed to meet your high standards, you are just not compatible. Shen people talk about standards it is usually a list of non negotiable filters that more often applied to dating candidates than partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:09 AM
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These are just compatibility that has nothing to do with dating standards. And you literally mention compromising, which means lowering standards
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:59 AM
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Then provide examples of high standards you are talking about. Because I swear, if this is a sort of "Are my standards to high? I just want someone who does not beat the shit out of me and allows me to talk go other people UwU" post I am going to lose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:51 AM
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Completely disagree. This just looks like shallow people try to justify their shallowness. Having high standards has nothing to do with knowing what you want. I know, sounds not logical, but if you think about it, most of "high standards" are copied from others and have nothing really to do with relationship quality. People are picky because they don't know how to love. They impose requirements to justify being with someone or not being with someone because they don't really want love, they need…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:45 AM
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It implies those men have better options available that they decided to ignore. Which is simply not true for a big portion of men. So if the only option is to date someone who expects you to pay for them, which is also a dating norm in most countries, it is completely valid to complain about. Second point is that your last sentense can be used to cancel out any discussion. Which makes it useless
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:27 AM
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For example, men complain about materialistic or shallow women, while both chasing such women and also propping up traditional gender roles while encourage such traits. I mean, what does "chasing" mean in this context? Seems like a weak attempt in "they do this too". In both scenarios, the way to get better is to realise that all people can be good, bad and everything in between. But then why even have intetnet if can't discuss anything? Human being evolved to notice trends and patterns. Just be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:10 AM
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I won't, my colleagues don't smoke, so no one to join on a smoke break.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:15 AM
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I don't smoke but find myself craving a sig for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:49 AM
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Does it matter in this context? It is much more common than older women dating young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:19 PM
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It depends, I witnessed this dynamic ever since I was in middle school up to present age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:06 PM
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I'd say it depends, me at 28 can have less dating experience than a 19 years old girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:50 PM
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Do you really don't know why? Bare with me, I am an old soul and I tried but could not connect with younger women, so I don't really care. But it is obvious why men support this: When they grew up they saw women dating older men and were frustrated by it, so now it is "their turn" Being selected by younger girls feel flattering, in a similar way being selected by older women as well Young girls are not necessary want to "settle down after having their fun" you are most likely a part of "fun" You…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:21 PM
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Hi, No, why? Did not get the second question, what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:56 PM
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I disagree. There are many women who look cute, but if they were born male their features would have been considered ugly. Like weak jawline. So you agree with me? Maybe in 100 years height won't matter, but who cares? It does now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:53 PM
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Well then how come men find more women attractive than women men? Women have tools available to nake themselves more attractive, like make up. Yet if meb wear lifts they are ridiculed. Come on, sis, just take a W and enjoy it. No need to compete in shallowness olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:44 PM
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I will read it later, but it's more of having a beautiful face vs not having a beautiful face, which is something both genders deal with. Height is unique and easy feature.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:29 PM
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This sounds like beautiful features regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:20 PM
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When the mother is insane why not, unless the judge is a "you go girl" woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:04 PM
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If it makes her feel more comfortable I will manage. And please, a single tests that demands nothing from you and routine invasion of privacy is not the same. The only thing why you don't care about dna test is because conveniently baby comes out of your body. Even though, there are cases where babies get mixed up at hopitals, so you should also want the test for your piece of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:04 PM
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Do you think men haven't signed birth certificates for children that were not theirs believing that they were? If you want to check if you have cancer should you start chemo before seeing the results?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:51 PM
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You can't just decide not to put his name on the birth certificate if he wants to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:46 PM
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What is a feminine face? Some of the most beautiful classmates I had looked very like their dads, who were handsome men. What exactly makes a face musculine or feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:42 PM
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Why it is not his child? If the test proves he is your feelings don't matter. This is an unhealthy emotional responce, I would consider you are danger to the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:32 PM
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Police. They are responsible for all crimes. Are they perfect? No, but this is a different topic. Well, sorry about her. She probably doesn't make comments about how dogs are bad and evil, does she? And I'd be surprised if she got herself a dog. I also was attacked by a dog when I was a kid. I had to deal with it because there are many dogs in the city and for sone dumb reason some people bring them to the office. I'd never be rude or mean to them though, but I will ask to keep distance. What is…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:30 PM
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The court will probably grant him primary custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:18 PM
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Unironically yes, they are animals. If stray dog bites you, do you hate dogs now? Or do you want people responsible for them to control the situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:11 PM
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I know women who don't report it because they believe it is useless. I genuenly have more compassion towards those who at least tried. But I refuse to accept this as a status quo. If women go protest police inaction I will join them. If they just want to say men bad, i will on instinct resist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:05 PM
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Victims should report the crime. If these cases are hard to prove naybe women should have a recording device on them, idk. What is your solution? I'd rather all rapist go to jail, what about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:50 PM
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Thanks for sharing this. It is a difficult topic and I can only share my thoughts of which, I guess, you are aware. But anyway, a debate post on a debate sub, hence... Being scared of, you said those feelings are valid and proceed to invalidate them. I agree, it is not "oppression" but still a very shitty situation to be in. Man vs bear is pretty much tge same thing. So called "victim blaming" practically never absolves the offender. Criminal is guilty, crime is illegal, they will fet their puni…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:05 PM
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Monthly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:48 AM
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I increased my effective workload from 4 hours to 9 per day for a 499 euro raise. Ladies, please, form a line.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:21 PM
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You know what? I am just gonna say it. I am not ugly. Hell yeah. Are there areas to improve? Sure. But who does not have them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:34 PM
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I do the rest. Well, successfully or not is another question though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:09 PM
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My mom does not want me to get tattoos. I know how it sounds and I in general agree, but she started crying over the phone when I said I consider getting one and it was the first time in my life I got a reaction like this. She is usually very reasonable but I guess she is getting older and this is the weird stance she decided to allow herself. So if I ever get one i will have to deal with my mom crying and making me feel like shit so I need to be sure it is worth it and ai am not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:02 PM
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Idk, ever since I was 14 when I saw a taller woman I asked her to dance with me a slow dance. It's been a while since i participated in event with slow dancing, but if the music is playing I will go for it. Tall girls are magestic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:56 PM
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They will let you know when they want you to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:24 PM
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Happens way too often. I guess drowning brain in alcohol has its side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:15 PM
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Approaching women is very easy when they want you to approach them. In this cases no one will ever tell you you did something wrong. The problem is it is a rare case, so men think they are not allowed to aproach and women are surprised they are not approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:06 PM
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Office jobs are not a cakewalk either. My colleague is under a constant threat of being punched but he's lucky I have good self control. Sorry this happened, jokes aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:23 PM
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Thanks. If the bait is good I'll bite.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:49 AM
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I don't like that I read your baits and start thinking how to respond and only then I see that it is you and I don't want to reply. If you did not spam in daily as much as you do it would have been fine. But that's too much...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:41 AM
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Would you agree to get blocked? If we both consent I think mods will not mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:31 AM
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Not as huggable :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:54 AM
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I have received my first salary from my new job and I want to treat myself with beer and candy too!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:53 AM
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Kudos for standing your ground. Good luck with swiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:52 AM
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One thing to sleep alone but to sleep without a blanket is so sad. I hate summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:43 AM
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Fine, forget apps. My argument is that men don't have 100% success rate in approaching women, and men do most of approaching. So even if men rejected 100% women that they had sex with, they got rejected at disproportionally higher rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:35 PM
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Dating app stats and the fact that men do most initiation. So the guy who rejects a girl after sleeping with her was rejected, let's say 10 times before. So how is it at similar rate? What prove of null hypothesis do you have? Your girl friends claims? How many guys did they reject? Or they give a chance to everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:52 PM
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Men reject women but at nowhere near similar rate. And "sex zoning" is completely different from straight forward rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:32 PM
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Exactly. Which is why I am always confused when this is used in an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:27 PM
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Where did I say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:56 PM
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Whether men want to admit it or not, we all have women who are interested in us but whom we consider undesirable. We won’t offer them anything more than sex. I mean, you can't really debate in good faith when you already convienced that you are right even though as prove you have one anecdote about dating app likes which not necessary mean much. Plus, can we please stop equating unattractive men and overweight women? What is this logic? Am I too european to relate? Vast majority of women ages 20…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:26 PM
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Really want a heatwave? I plan to sleep in the office on the weekend...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:27 PM
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Did not read it but approve it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:26 PM
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I don't have ay advice. I am a slave of women's approval. I wish I could decouple my worth from it but alas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:19 PM
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That's sad. But also kinda freeing in a way, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:03 PM
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By jail i mean ban on ppd ^ All good, how are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:55 PM
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I was in jail for a week, proving that the system works. I was never a red pill anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:35 PM
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If more than half of women are beautiful is it really hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:34 AM
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Fresh sure, dried not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:54 AM
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I love dried mango, but can't call it healthy. Even if it was dried without sugar.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:49 AM
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The heat is too much. I want to spend entire weekend in the office with AC.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:37 AM
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Oh I wish I didn't have to pay for health insurance or pension. Both are about 1k and employer pays tge same amount. It is 4k per month, imagine what a life it can be... and if I die i die, who cares... But alas
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:34 AM
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This is a mandatory state insurance. Private could be cheaper now, but if I ever want to have kids or to live after 50 it will be exoensive so i don't bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:21 AM
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Nice, thanks. I pay €1000 monthly for health insurence, but this is so hard to get some tests. Easiest option is to just to pay and do it in Poland. This is ridiculous to be honest, but I don't have time or strength to bother with it atm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:11 AM
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Blood work, ekg, basic things. In past 6 years best I had is an express covid test.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:17 AM
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I declared this year a health year for me. I was supposed to finaly do some tests and checkups, something that I neglected for years. Plus do something for my skin. But having to get a new job made this another 'career' year TT
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:49 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:33 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:55 PM
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I prefer confident women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:08 PM
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People of all genders are influenced by social media alorithms and rage baits to a degree, that's true. Men are also statistically more dangerous to women than vice verca even now, this is also true. At the end of the day, men are not really "punished" for past men's acitons. If someone blames me for something I did not do I don't really care about it, unless I see real consequences of this blame, which I don't. The closest "punishment" I experiences is not being allowed to women only space in g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:02 PM
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And I mean it, it's not ironic or trolling. I want to see what it feels like to be on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:11 PM
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I am back from doing my time for saying that women can't be lonely, which now I know is not true, cause PPD women were probably extremely lonely without me. So now I feel enlightened and want to roleplay as a good boy. No negativity from me, only good vibes and constractive opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:01 PM
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Well so what was your problem? You had dates irl and matches and women complimenting you but you thought you must be tall and rich? Congrats on stopping being an idiot, I guess?
/r/seduction19/06/26 02:48 PM
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Bro if we had matches we'd be doing fine too.
/r/seduction19/06/26 02:38 PM
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tldr: git gud, skill issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:43 PM
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Do you believe that it becomes harder and harder in modern world and some people are left behind? Or it is only the fault of those who suffer?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:04 AM
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So just to make sure I understand correctly, women can't walk away from abusive bad guys and the only thing they learn from this experienence is to assign a share of responsibility for the action of men in their past to the men that they know nothing about because they are also men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:12 AM
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Like you? Cause you are married, so you just using a woman for sex. See how dumb you sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:44 AM
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I'd say a person who can find 50 people to have sex with is perfectly equiped to solve their loneliness. The rest is mental health issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:48 PM
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And frozen water is called ice. Are we sharing random statements now? Will you answer my question at the end of my reply to your original comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:36 PM
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And what is wrong with it? Sex is a huuuuge social thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:01 PM
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Well maybe if met you earlier we could have had a different discussion. Alas
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:28 PM
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Thanks for proving my point. It is impossible that i am ugly, that I am extremely unlucky or that modern dating is a complete shit show... No! It must be me, right? So why the fuck should I just listen to this and not try to match your expectations? Now it makes sense, doesn't it? And I don't struggle making friends, only romance. But why would you care. You live in your just world. If you were in my place you'd end it probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:14 PM
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Who are the active mods left?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:48 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:43 PM
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What do you mean by wider net?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:42 PM
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Yep. It makes sense, if I am a bitter asshole then i am disliked. If I am disliked for no reason then this is unsettling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:36 PM
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No? It is just good for my sanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:33 PM
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Yep. No matches on apps, I get some numbers here and there but they never lead to anything. I kinda asked around fruends of friends, there are not many single ladies and all said they are not into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:32 PM
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Careful, I am almost in love already. If you start posting "men are bad" on here daily I will propose.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:32 PM
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I mean, yeah, but if I hate people and they don't like me it just feels... normal, natural? How does it suck to like people who don't like you back, what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:15 PM
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As if you'd have any anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:05 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:54 PM
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It's so funny how Ross is an obvious undatable option for women here who will go and write an esse on how hard it is to spot red flags in men who treat them like shit and threaten to kill them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:17 PM
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She was a spoiled girl with no skills. But yeah, your standards are too high. If this is how you filter out your potential partners you can't complain about loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:08 PM
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Well it was the initial reason, but it quickly stopped being so with my closest friend now. Guess I go tell her her sex debt for the last 3 years is overdue /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:57 PM
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What is?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:47 PM
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I mean, there is big leap between an abuser and a sitcom character. Flaws are what make a character reliable. But I guess women are used to perfect fictional men or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:45 PM
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Ross is also attractive, caring and has a good job. And if your husband stick with you till you are pregnant then leave you for another man, I really would like to see you walking him down the aisle. I am not sayinv he is perfect, but who is? No one is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:39 PM
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Oh, a humas was flawed and worked on his issues! What a bastard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:31 PM
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You implied that for women it's fine for it to transactional Where? You misdunderstand something. Attraction is a basis fotlr initial interest. You don't really have to do anything back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:30 PM
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Ross is not an acceptable partner through modern lens?? Yall deserve to be lonely forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:26 PM
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Well why not buy sex as well? Because transactional relationship is not what I am talking about. Did you read my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:22 PM
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As a man I admit we have an incredibly hard first level of this shot where it's hard to get started Did not read past this. Your post makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:20 PM
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Yes? If you see me out in a bar do you really want to get to know me? Why? Now if I am a cute girl, sure, and if we have things in common why can't it become friendship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:11 PM
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I am lonely romanticaly. I have friends but they have their lives and partners. I can see them regulary and they go home with their partners, I go home alone. There is no alternatuve that will substitute romantic connection. If you can't make friends, that is gender neutral, though I do believe it is easier for women. If you can't make romantic partners, well it is obviously easier for women, not even close. That is thw whole argumemt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:06 PM
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Bro I am winning in every thread 🤩🥰🤣😉
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:59 PM
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If women stop complaining and kearn to enjoy their advantage like you do, how is it bad? Maybe they will be more active on apps, idk. It is weird to hear it from you. Are you lonely? If you are i guess you just jump on apps and have company. Isn't it what you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:16 PM
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Who said anything about having no friends? And stop this "ugly men with wifes" trope. It is exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:13 PM
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Oh yeah, you are perfect for this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:10 PM
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Being touched by someone else can feel better than touching yourself... I also can’t kiss my own neck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:10 PM
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Well that's kinda proves women have it better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:05 PM
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Well, you have a second body. Why not just masturbate?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:15 AM
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Well you got to try at least. You underestimate this. Let's stop here for today.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:10 AM
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If I’m having sex with someone I’m not attracted to Why do it then? If you are not attracted to men who are attracted to you, it is a different problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:05 AM
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I disagree with your line of thinking and i think you just want to derail from the topic because you don't have any arguments against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:59 AM
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You saw the post, you either agree or not. Accusing OP of looking for an excuse to be violent towards women is such a big leap that you can use it undet any post on this sub and ut will make as much srlense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:49 AM
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Cool argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:31 AM
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Well, we tried your way but it did not work. Just what do you think the respinse to a post like this would look like? You also have to consider how annoying it is to see someone completely equiped to deal with a problem refusing to deal with a problem and insisting they are in the same situation as you who has no tools at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:21 AM
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Oh right and you never generalize men in any form?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:17 AM
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What is the point of debating? You disagree with someone and wants to prove that you are right. We are not changing the world here. Is there a point of debating if climate change is real if we can't control all countries in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:12 AM
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it's an attractive guy chasing an unattractive woman Well this is an obvious case of him treating her as a fuck object! /s I swear, no matter the combination, they can always twist is as a "man bad" situation. As if they hate men or something...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:53 AM
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I call bs. My dick won't get up if I am not physically attracted to a girl. How many guys do you think are capable of completely ignoring their partner during sex and idk thinking of something else? Also women can have sex with men they are not attracted to. In fact i'd say it is more common. What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:45 AM
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Well ley's say women read this and be like: "yes, men are dealing with loneliness on a whole nother level". Will it fix something? No, but in a world where men are blamed for everything, accepting that women have something better is a big step.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:42 AM
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Acceptance is the first step towards solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:26 AM
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I have a question for you: do you think it is easier to make friends when people find you sexually attractive or do you think it makes it harder? I swear, as a migrant, all migrant women integrated easily because there are many local dudes who want to be their guide and invite them into their social circles. As a man you are a second class person who struggles to form any connection at all. Making friends as an adult is hard, using physical attraction as a motivation to get to know someone is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:12 AM
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For all drama queens arguing that "being used" for sex is a thing that itself does not make anyone less lonely: Sex is fun, most people like doing it. It is ultimate expression of physical intimacy. If you don't feel good from sex you are doing it wrong. If you don't want to have sex with someone who you think will "pump and dump", you don't like the dude anyway, so who cares, why try to win over someone you don't want to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:59 AM
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Well, there are no different words for loneliness. You can say you feel lonely because your boyfriend is to tired and went to sleep early or you can feel lonely because it has been years since you kissed anybody. Is it the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:47 AM
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But you can twist it more and more. If you go to a famiky event where everyone talks to you bt your depressed ass is incapable of enjoying it because "they don't understand you", are you lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:34 AM
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Bro, loneliness is about being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:13 PM
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I mean, I just asked to see what you think about it. You are right, it's not fun to be kicked, balls or no balls. But this why there are no debates about it. Here is my analogy: person A is starving, there is no food available. Person B is hungry, there is food in the fridge, but person B doesn't want it. Will you say both experience actual real hunger?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:12 PM
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Fine, bro, I will buy you a döner and a beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:21 PM
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every time she does it, she reduces her chances, not only with the ONS but with all other guys No it does not, there is no counter anywhere on women, you don't have to broadcast your past experiences. "just wear lifts man, sure most women will mock you, but maybe there's a chance!" Well, if you are always rejected fot height, why not? Doing something that makes her feel worse, hurts her self esteem and makes her feel used and worthless, and injures her ability to appeal to other men as relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:32 PM
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Well ok? What is your point. If she could she would.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:42 PM
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Wome who do that are roundly mocked for being fools, town bikes, and sluts on this very board. So what? Why do you care? Nah, fuck that shit. Well fine, but that's your choice. So if you feel lonely keep in mind you could change it but decided not to. Do you see my point now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:42 PM
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Not sure. What is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:36 PM
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Steam sales
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:21 PM
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So you think there is no difference in being kicked between legs as a man and as a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:49 PM
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Well I agree that rejection hurts both genders. But why is it illogica to argue that one gender is less lonely due to abundance of options compared to another gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:18 PM
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Loneliness is when you are alone. What are your plans on this weekend? I have no one to ask out. I will meet a friend probably. But romantically I am lonely. This is what we are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:52 PM
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Well, whatever works, happy for you. My advice was not to put out more but to apreciate that you even ger a chance to make an impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:32 PM
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Looks can be improved. Did you do all you could for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:06 PM
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I am sorry about this and I think you are a good person so please fogive me for this, but: skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:01 PM
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Sex is not important. Being selected and desired is. No amount of friends and family will substitute this. Yall love deflect to simply touching genitals as if this is the most important thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:59 PM
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Well go and be so cool that a person who came for sex only get addicted to you and wants more. How is it worse than having no one interested i any way??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:46 PM
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Give it some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:00 PM
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This has nothing to do with North Korea. I am taking about lookism, there is even a plastic surgery packet named "eployment surgery" that people do to increase chances of getting a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:41 PM
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I think what is going on in Korea awaits us anywhere if we keep going the same direction as we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:37 PM
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Do you think koreans have a healthy attitude towards appearence?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:32 PM
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I watched a couple of videos about South Korea plastic surgeries. You know what? They deserve their birthrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:20 PM
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only have options for sex As if it's bad. No one stops them from meeting in public and having a date first. It's as if they think casual sex is free prostitution where you are not allowed to talk...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:11 PM
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Do you think the pain from being kicked between legs is the same regardless of gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:53 PM
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You don't, so we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:41 PM
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Yes, I am in a warmongering mood a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:31 PM
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Indeed. Interesting, if someone made a post that only men could pee standing would you comment that actually women can very comfortably do so too?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:19 PM
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Do you think this does not apply to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:56 AM
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It's not more important, it is just a real issue that is close to being impossible to solve. I am talking about romantic loneliness. Women don't have this issue. And for the love of God, sure, naybe there are some women who are genuenly lonely, I am talking in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:51 AM
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But I won't go and tell starving people that I know what they are going through. I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:42 AM
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True, it's the same as me larping hunger when the fridge is in the next room. Sure, maybe the food there is not exciting, but guess who actually put it there, so why complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:33 AM
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Every third profile has a height requirement. Just because you pass it does not mean it is not there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:34 AM
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No, i think he means we sould cancel Tobey for stealing our girls or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:16 PM
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You don't even try to get nuances, do you? Like, is your point is to cry gotcha at men, or are you genuinely confused?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:08 PM
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Hell, on this sub the most prevalent complaint that "women lie" and that makes women evil. How then "men lie to get sex" is okay? Is "men lie" = rape now? Cause you started your post about rape. Just to make sure, because your other examples I agree with, but here is where I draw the line. If it's such a ticking bomb, why men don't try to solve it by fucking themselves? Classic "just be gay" ppd take. I wish I could be gay, honestly. I tried, not my thing unfortunately. Among those men who "are …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:21 PM
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There is always something different that triggers difference in judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:22 PM
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Ok, high body count of men and women should be treated the same or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:49 PM
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I'd argue that by definition they don't, or they would have been... a standard. Give me an example of a doible standard please.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:56 PM
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Double standards absolutely don't require same behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:47 PM
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Sup people. My new job is so intense, idk if I will pass the probation... But I still like to read some baits here so thanks for the distraction <3
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:23 PM
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I have met a person from this subreddit live and he is not longer on reddit so I am kinda sus but I swear he decided to stop engaging before meeting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:49 PM
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Once a lady accepts you all you have to do is maintain but this is where her game gets harder. Let's talk about it. Let's. What do you mean? How is it easier for men to maintain relationship when the lady can snap fingers and get into a new one instantly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:43 PM
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Baits used to be believable...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:42 PM
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Any example?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:09 AM
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💁‍♀️💅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:04 AM
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It's hilarious how women's first reaction is to accuse op of lying. Same women will comment under "choose better" posts how hard it is to spot red flags and manipulation from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:58 AM
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I mean, being a migrant is different from being visually different enthnically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:35 PM
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I am in a quite uniqe situation as a migrant in a very migranty city. Local men date foreign women al the time, yet reverse rarely happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:05 PM
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Are there any new active users at least?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 03:11 PM
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How are you doing? What's new?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:33 PM
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If there will be manly brytal version of sims are you going to play it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:55 PM
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Just don't play it? Like, they can do whatever game they like. You are free to buy it or criticize it, but at the end of the day only sales figure matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:53 PM
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A more realistic assessment is likely that technology is alienating all of us No it doesn't. At some point we need to stop blaming everything on conspiracies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:47 PM
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See I disagree. I think only people who did not have the thing and worked hard to get the thing can really appreciate the thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:19 AM
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I am not talking about safety nor that it is illegal. If I say that all women want to use men for money, those who don't are just too ugly to pull this of, how does it make you feel? If I say all people are as greedy and evil as billionairs, but just too stupid to actually be one, how does it make you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:59 AM
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Ok, so I can generalize women's behaviour. Good to know. Wonder how open would you be to address the results of it...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:18 AM
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I am 5.5 where do I fall into?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:13 AM
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Lets not act like the average men would not do the same if he had the chance to. The most unfair argument to make ever. If some negative trait is observed in women it is "not all women, don't generalize!". But let's just assume men are either assholes who can act like assholes and those who can't?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:04 AM
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Many times when i point out some unliked behavior of men just to debate Debate what exactly? That some men do bad things? Duh? You are here to preach to the choir and rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:09 AM
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If you disagree then say why, you just can't make snark comments especially about debating when you refuse to do so as an OP. What did you expect? Zero replies and everyone saying "based" under automod?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:26 PM
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He made a really good point and your response is basically contentless rhetoric. Come on, Lemon, you can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:45 PM
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Can you really build it without some level of physical attraction? The person you want to build attraction with has to want it to. More then "giving a chance" because she's bored or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:23 PM
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Didn't you say that attraction is non negotiable and uncontrollable? I agree that instant love at first sight is unrealistic, but if I spent a significant amount of time with a girl 3 times and nothing romantic happened I think it is fair to conclude she is not into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:10 PM
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So tired of the word "entited". Like literally the weakest argument ever. Even the kindergarden level arguments like "I'm rubber and you're glue, whatever you say bounces off me and sticks to you" carries more depths.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:32 PM
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Guy who says “I’m an attractive guy with a good job, I workout and know how to dress and act… but no girls will look at me”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:37 PM
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Sorry, now he read your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:33 PM
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Ok, now this read your post and agrees he is average. So what now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:26 PM
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I mean, in the post title you said And the faster you understand that, the easier things will be. It's not like men overestimate themselves. And you admit women do. So how will things be easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:21 PM
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Those 5s that you’re mad are acting like 10s, are getting attention from 10s (maybe not commitment like you guys say). That's... the source of frustration. So how things are supposed to be easier exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:15 PM
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Straight men have high standards, just look at them instantly rejecting all men!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:13 PM
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I definitely woud have not counted it for losing virginity. But in my mind this is more genuine than, for example, counting sex with a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:06 PM
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I am asking the High Council of PPD N-Counts debaters for your divine judgment. Let's say a man and a woman made out completely naked and a woman wanted to have sex, but for whatever reason it did not happen. Can the man increment his count?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:48 AM
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That's nice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:14 AM
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Do you have kids? Do you hate having kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:47 AM
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It's certainly a shift but I think people overdramatize raising kids a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:34 AM
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I have a much younger brother so I could witness my parents raising him. They still had social life, mostly with other parents but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:11 AM
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Kid does not prevents you from having social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:39 AM
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Last day in the office and I am hangover af...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:37 AM
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Feel wary - no. Act as if you were assaulted in the most disrespectful way possible - yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:24 PM
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Do you think rude rejection minimizes this risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:20 PM
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You add /s but isn't it annoying when stores stick a protector on a pack of M&Ms loke in US? You won't be happy if you get strip searched everytime you leave a store, would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:34 PM
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Because history matters…context matters .. And statistics matters, basically what all bigots say. I don’t gamble but that’s a dumb risk to take. I need to clarify, what are you talking about? What is the rist to take is this context? Because, in the post you said: There are basically two types of women here: those who don’t want to be approached at all and will react strongly, and those who don’t mind but will politely reject. So is politely rejecting a risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:57 PM
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Instead of criticizing the reaction, people should also acknowledge the behavior that leads to it. This is a slippery slope, justifying a negative reaction with past negative experience or with someone else's negative experience. If this applies in this context, why can't it be valid in other context? Thing is, there are men who get the "no" in direct or indirect form, wish a nice day and move on and there are men who will act creepy or dangerously. The campaign was not to stop creepy and danger…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:15 PM
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I miss "Have you asked for a hookup" posts, changed my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:39 PM
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I mean... bro, how many identical posts about sexual acts have you made?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:05 PM
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Women can solve their loneliness easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:26 AM
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Well she is ~5'1 so what else problem could she have with 5'7 man other than a status symbol? If 5'8 woman said she only consider 6'5 men and above you'd roll your eyes probably. I’m shorter than you, but I just don’t get all the angst on this sub about tall men. You are lucky. I have never faced any issues for my nationality, but when I see in the news how people are attacked for being foreingers I don't go around saying that it is false. How many men actively filter out women for boobs? Duh, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:19 AM
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I just meant any form of approval. Like last year when we discussed one girl's new guy and she said he's perfect but she's not sure because she doesn't think she can date a 5'7 guy, 4 girls instantly said "yeah same" and only two were silent and kinda looked at me who is 5'7. Not that I want to date any of them, but still hurt, I don't hangout with those 5 much anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:01 AM
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I am the last man in a social group, so I participate in gossip sessions from time to time. To be fair, when these discussions happened, my closest friend (a girl) was shocked and told me she thought these "talks" were just a rage bait online, but we did witness them. Idk if it's regional or just individual. But when some claims get more "yas queen" than "wtf, that's weird thing to fixate on", they get reinforced and stay long.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:57 AM
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I think that's a thing with women. Not all of them, but many are. When their boyfriend has to be better than their friends' boyfriend. It's not enough that he is taller than her, he must be taller than other dudes, must have this trait that most women want, but she got him, so she is better than other women. And they will go and call men out for objectifying women, when they themselves treat men as a trinket with measurable qualities that they compare between each others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:46 AM
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Do I desire this man? If no then no, if yes then yes. Why would I give a fuck about what other women think about him. It's a partner, not an accessoire. And the question is worded really weird, like, if man is very desirable then risks are worth it? Is this the message?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:40 AM
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I'll just retire at 35, burn my savings and die in battle to enter Valhalla.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:32 PM
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Definitely was not talking about it. Idk what vibes I give off honestly... Thanks for the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:15 PM
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So she told him that she was somewhat into me but did not want to hurt me as she does not look for a relationship...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:10 PM
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Well but you were not afraid of hurting them probably...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:09 PM
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That's what I though, not an insult per ce, but like, have some tact and a somewhat date first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:07 PM
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I talked with a friend, and he said a friend of his gf mentioned that I messaged her after we met in December. Well, I asked her out twice, she wanted to go but cancelled practically last minute twice, so I gave up. So she told him that she was somewhat into me but did not want to hurt me as she does not look for a relationship... Quoting the greatest poster on this sub, should I have just asked for a hook up? I think if she shared how I asked for a hookup it would have been more embaracing, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:00 PM
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<image> somewhat accurate I'd say, it's the most common age of people I meet now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:07 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:15 AM
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What's the point of living your truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:09 AM
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I would think worse of her and my opinion of him wouldn’t change. Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:05 AM
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She can demand to. You are inventing scenarious to make a point or are you just bored? If a woman is upset he partner won't do some sexual act that he has done before, she is right to be upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:02 AM
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If I am into it I don't see what's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:59 AM
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Ok, so if I say the overwhelming majority of women are shallow, for example, you'd agree this is a nuanced take?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:35 AM
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If my woman has a cock you damn right I am gonna suck it. Why would I not want to please my partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:22 AM
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Willingless to do certain acts is an indicator. A 100% correct one? No. But good luck not spiralling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:18 AM
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some nuance overwhelming majority of criticism towards women IS actually misogyny, and unfounded That's just "Not ALL X is Y" (tm). It's not really a nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:16 AM
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It's also debatable. If you ever cheat on me please don't tell me. What I don't know won't hurt me. But that's another debate. My point is that is a weird deflection that has no place on a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:07 AM
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Wife material :D
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:59 AM
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That's debatable. Oh that's a lame gotcha. You won't debate that cheating is bad even if the partner never finds out. We can have a discussion about situation without attacking how specific it is. But, to answer your question, 2 glasses of wine and a game of truth or dare or never have I ever with her friends will do the trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:38 AM
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Because it is not true. Men face the same set of issues that women do once they overcome their unique set of challenges.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:52 AM
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Women lie about sex too. Plus asking if they do certain acts implies these acts are important. Most men don't care, we just want the same enthusiasm as her previous partners got, which I consider a baseline in relathionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:48 AM
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Ask men if they are abusers early and simply don't date abusers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:44 AM
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Typical blue pill: if men feel something begative it is because he is paranoid and insecure. God forbid a woman gave him reasons to be so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:42 AM
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Sounds good, do you think men are different?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:07 PM
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I see this sometimes on reddit and I have to ask: was it when you were 12? Then it does not count.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:01 PM
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<image> What about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:58 PM
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I really can't blame tall guys, if I had quality that is praised at least as half as man's height, I'd gloat about it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:52 PM
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They could be small romantic gestures, bedroom performance, things in common, views on certain things that overall defines the quality of relationship. These are important, but if someone asks my wife why she is married to me, I don't want her to mention how I am a good father, how much money I bring, or even how safe she feels around me. I want her to say "wdym? he's a hot piece of ass, duh!".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:41 PM
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For my looks. It's not like I don't want to be valued for other things, but they are more about compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:36 PM
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ask him out and then they have a relationship A relationship no, but a date pretty much yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:02 PM
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Where can I read this standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:00 PM
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Why? Both aren't standard sex practice. Well anyway, you agreed to be specific next time so we can drop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:59 PM
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By this logic anal is also not kinky. What is the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:54 PM
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I didnt always present this way. This is what I mean when I say you have an elementary school education. Present what? And what my comment has to do with elementary school education? You said previously "you have an elementary school education and experience PhD level pay" which is like, ok? It's possible to have high salary without high education, PhD is more about research anyway. But sure, some correlation is there, and if you want a good job you go to university. What's your point? Go to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:52 PM
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Well yes? Because even you agree with what you created like 300 posts about if you replace "kinky sex" with "oral sex". We are not that different after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:47 PM
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Maybe it is somewhere on newgrounds, damn I miss the era of flash brower games.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:41 PM
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Cool, you brought it here too... We don't think it is, but many women we are with think so, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:40 PM
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When I was a teenager I learnt the entire map of Europe with flags and capitals because when I answered correctly naked ladies appeared on screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:38 PM
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I honestly don't understand what you are talking about. Can someone explain please?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:36 PM
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I mean, yeah, ideally finding a compatible partner is better, but let's not act like it's easy and we just don't do it for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:21 PM
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Do you understand what a strawman even is? You are a trans woman, of course you find "sexually open" people, I don't want to generalize but your people most likely won't be open to an average looking normie without a single tattoo that does not do drugs. At least I tried, it's increadibly hard to get to "cool kids" zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:14 PM
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Nah I am pretty sure I just asked what is kinky for you. Anyway, now that you defined it I am confused, what if a man is upset his gf does not blow him but did this to her exes. Is it ok now be upset? How does it change anything in this topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:44 PM
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How is it a strawman? If men could find sexually open people they would have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:40 PM
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I do clean up my comments after 2-3 days, but trust me I did: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:39 PM
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My friend is visiting, we'll go to the carnival of cultures, then finish Season 10 Scrubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:34 PM
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Here is the way to get rich: find money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:26 PM
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Also it was about kinky sex so blowjobs arent relevant. When I asked you what you consider kinky sex you did not reply. But you see that this is important, because many women consider oral sex too much. Some women enjoy anal, some don't like sex with light on. What are we talking here about? BDSM and tortue?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:24 PM
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Is this valid in reverse? Girls keep implying that they either didn’t know bad men existed or that they want bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:19 PM
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Bro your sex is what OP implies by "kinky sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:02 PM
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Do you even read your oppositions points? How most posters here view the sub: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:00 PM
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Objectively certain sex acts aren't better. Certain acts require more effort and involvment. Certain acts focus on one partner's pleasure. Certain acts, such as "duty sex" are objectively worse. It likely depends on a lot of factors like how comfortable they feel with that guy, how well they know him, sort of vibe he has. Also depends on how much you want to please your partner. Also it implies that for men it's some sort of game or quest to get women to do kinky sex acts just for their ego. Cal…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:58 AM
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That is the tradeoff I think a lot of manosphere spaces massively understate. I am yet to see any alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:58 AM
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Maybe I confuse you with someone else who said she could never date a short or an average height guy. Nevermind.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:33 PM
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Ain't his height perfect for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:26 PM
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Good luck, don't stress about abs too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:11 PM
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Lol bro what are you doing here? Go out pick some women up. Waste of height.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:06 PM
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At some point those people stop being irrelevant outliers and start becoming part of the culture itself. You missed my point, I did not say they are irrelevant. They are a good indicator, alarm. The most vile people pecome popular the bigger the problem in society. What I ask is not to equate them with global things that many people who have nothing to do with content creators identify with. You say: “it’s not really a spectrum anymore” and then immediately describe women primarily through I did…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:57 PM
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Well what are going to think if you have never been the "hear me out" yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:39 PM
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closer to the emotional core of why TRP resonates with men It's not really a secret at this point, is it? Red pill and manosphere in general at the very least acknowledge that something wrong with the world and the system and try to learn to bend it to their will. You criticize me for supposedly judging TRP by loud online personalities, while also characterizing “the other side” through its loudest and most hostile rhetoric about men. Fair, though if you pressure even the most open minded and pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:26 PM
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You start with one topic and end up with something completely else. Yes, some RP views relate more to right wing politics, but some to left. Yes, some men prefer a side where everyone is screwed (maga) to a side that screws them disproportionally (dems). You can be a RP left wing content creator, but both sides will treat you like an enemy, so is it worth it? The irony is that most successful long-term relationships start with emotional comfort, friendship, trust, humor, and basic social warmth.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:53 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:26 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:19 PM
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Did they not invite you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:16 PM
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I’m merely pointing out that a lot of men make zero effort and/or terrible choices And my point is that some men are ugly, but women, to not seem shallow, will say this instead. The same men will have the same results no matter how cool their pictures are. A handsome man is handsome in a potato sack, an ugly guy is ugly in designer clothes. and think that if they are tall or have a big dick they don’t need to make any effort That's because it works for them. And many who put effort to see no cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:35 AM
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If makeup worked for men they's spend the same amount of time. And no, I don't care what other men say, many women are turned off by men's beauty efforts. Easy example is heels considered ok for women, but if a man uses footware to boost his height this is considered unattractive and is mocked. Actually a good example of "men are bad" bias. My skincare routine is complex and expensive, yet my skin is damaged. But you will look at me and think that I do nothing about it. While someone who has nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:12 AM
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Men don't think they are above this, men are shamed for every aspect that is beauty related, yes, this is getting better, but it's hard to overcome, especially when you try and don't get the results. For women it's easy because bathroom selfie will still bring them matches, I don't think it's a result of years of training.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:59 AM
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Most women don't look past first picture and height anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:49 AM
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Romance is good but my giga plant in Satisfactory won't build itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:36 PM
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I blinked and missed the leather jacket season ><
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:34 PM
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We all accept you the way you are too 💜
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:37 PM
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Yeah, it's a bias to always assume that a woman in question did nothing wrong. I don't know what OP's talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:35 PM
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Well, so not super muscular, right? 6 pack is always nice to have, but honestly too hard that I am not sure if it's worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:12 PM
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Define fit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:47 PM
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Yeah and the minute you push back they will tell you to stop the divide and focus on the real enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:09 PM
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What third places? There are barely single women in any hobby or a meetup group. Almost no women in bars. Clubs probably ok, but as you said, they are probably not "my type".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:23 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DWckhszsXaN/ he's doing fine, can we stop discussing him? felt weird looking for this shit specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:56 PM
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You say you're a nice guy? Fine, there are women who want a commited relationship where they are provided for. You're a girl boss? Fine, there are men who want an independent person to do 50/50. ??? So why dating seem difficult then? you keep chasing the wrong person because of lust or that you felt a spark Nah, bro, there is no one to chase. Like where do you even find any person to chase? How can I limit myself and focus on more suitable options if I have none to begin with? That's why "the sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:53 PM
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I mean, it works well on extremes. It's pretty easy to say who is objectively the top tier attractive even if they are not you "type". And you are not suppose to like all 6s, there are different types but they all will be within a certain level. You take the concept as a very strict and deterministic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:48 PM
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AND him openly saying he can’t pull DESPITE being so attractive. So if he was ugly he'd done better? Or what are you trying to say? Just because you can still fail with the most important thing, does not mean that this is not important. What is the most important in running? I'd say it's your speed. But if you run in the opposite direction you will lose. So what, is speed not important in running? Bro, 10k views, if that's the content you consume that's concerning. That's more than enough about …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:42 PM
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13 then. I don't think voice has the same impact as height or "playing on one of the major team sports that get a lot of people". But whatever. And I guess career has no SMV. What about hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:33 PM
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Deflect what? Read my first comment again. I don't know why you showed me a video of a man being rejected as some kind of argument, I already presented to you the rating of reasons of rejection where looks is far from the top. My argument is just because attractive people can be rejected does not mean the looks are not the most important thing when it comes dating. He is pathetic because like all streamers he is annoying. I don't care about his looksmaxing things, honestly I see nothing wrong, l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:21 PM
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12, though "high status talents" is debatable and overall weak test.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:14 PM
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Many reasons, even the most attractive man on Earth won't have 100% success rate. But does it prove that looks are not important? Btw the only people who are more pathetic than annoying influencers are content creators that farm hate on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:05 PM
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I know a significant amount of dudes who are average looking who just command attention and project enthusiasm and energy whenever they enter a room Everytime I see something like this, I instantly question: - How old are you and these guys? - Where are you from? - What is the room in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:26 PM
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<image> I don't know why blue pillers and Dr. K himself look at this table and use it as proof that looks aren't the most important thing. Just because some attractive people give other reasons to reject them, does not mean that less attractive person who does everything right will do better. This and what part of these responses are influenced by halo effect (direct or in reverse), plus how many people are not willing to admit their shallowness for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:24 PM
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Eh, now it's kinda lost it's charm, but I always looked and behaved older than I am, so I was buying alcohol and sigarets for my classmates and started going to bars earlier than I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:58 PM
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As far as I understand, if your comment was removed by a mod - it is a warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:08 PM
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Hit something that is not alive, yell at someone in the internet, distract yourself with work sport hobbies games books whatever, drink alcohol to silence inner voices. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:39 PM
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Sorry, I chuckled 😁 but also kinda same issue. Why letting go? You can and should feel bad about it, there's no way around it. At some point you will just make piece with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:25 PM
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magine falling in love with a girl, going on cute dates, everything is going super well, etc. And then you find out she’s been getting clapped out by other guys the whole time you were dating because you “didn’t discuss exclusivity” 🤢 You have to spell to me "rage against woman" part here. Shouldn't that go both ways? It should. And when women are upset that man don't commit after sex I completely undestdand why. Don't you? Should we shame those men or tell women to shut up because they aren't o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:49 AM
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Where do you see rage at women? All i see is sadness and dissapointment. Not everything is an attack on women's freedom. Sleeping around while dating someone is not normal. You have to use your prescious words and inform your date that you are sleeping with others. Otherwise, using women's logic, you are raping them because they can't give consent without all the info. How about this? It's so easy to hide behind technicalities to act like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:17 AM
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Words have effect on people. Unfortunately we live in a world where we have to think when and how to exress our desires. Many women will turn off from exclusivity talk early on, they will feel pressure and suffocation, limiting their freedom. I mean, read your comment "claim sexual ownership". Put your torch down D'Ark, nothing wrong with not wanting people you are interested in not sleeping with others. Plus, some things lose value if you have to ask for them. Now it is her agreeing to your dem…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:41 AM
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The "demands" are not really that out of place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:30 AM
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I don't think I need closure, like, we talk a little but almost every week, but over 2,5 years we did not really became friends, just colleagues in sport, if we never see each other again she won't think about it. I tried to get closer but failed, maybe I could have done more, but it's a thin ice, I don't want to push boundaries and make things uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:54 PM
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She is a normal person, like me, with flaws. And yes, most of it in my mind, but that it does when it is bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:51 PM
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Fuck, I want to switch to another sports club, but then I won't see my crush again. I think she is the closest to perfect woman I've ever met, or so I let my mind think as soon as I realized that she's not into me. Maybe switching clubs is a good idea regardless... but I do perform better when I have a crush in proximity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:26 PM
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do people not want to be in love ? We want, but insecurity and lack of validation is like poison for love. It's easy to say "just be insecure bro" but I'd rather get validating NSA sex and became secure in myself enough to open to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:09 PM
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Who is? How about this, if you don't want to switch places with the other person, you have it better than them, is it fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:38 PM
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Nah, just take your W and enjoy it, you probably have other issues in life, just dating is not one of them. No big deal. "Those poor fucks don't know how hard it is to pay taxes on all of my properties".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:00 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:54 AM
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You do more because you have the opportunity to do so. Is it really a fair comparison?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:21 AM
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What is the definition of "easy" for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:41 AM
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Ah, then socializing can work still. Do you go out and meet people regulary? If not, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:14 AM
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In finding dates and relationships. Once you are past college.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:53 AM
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If you feel like trying again I can help. This is practically the only reliable way now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:51 AM
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True, I don't see a signed and lawyer verified dating agreement so technically she did nothing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:44 AM
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You can't really claim to not have matches if you are not trying even. Do you want to go on dates and find a relationship? Then you have to put some effort into it, don't you think? What is AL? A state?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:42 AM
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If you wanted an actual response then why did you make this statement. Because I am not perfect :( no matches This one is pretty hard to believe. Do you receive likes? What is your profile like? Are you living in a populated area? Could it be that you are shadowbanned?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:33 AM
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I had dates where I had to force the conversation, I had dates where it flew effortlessly. It's not about where you met the person. In fact, I think I've never been on a date with someone I already knew. But that's me, I think if we know each other and are not romantically interested, we will never be. It just feels like they are not physically attracted to me and just decided that I will do for now... It's funny you mention meetups, cause as a migrant I used to join them often, but I got exhaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:31 AM
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I've literally never felt romantic attraction for someone through an app relationship unless I knew them IRL first... I mean, you are not supposed to feel it from the app, but after getting to know them irl. What is the difference between irl and met through apps and went on, idk, 3 dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:51 AM
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Why were you hiding your red flags? The whole point is to find a perfect match for real you. I'd understand hiding things from a casual partner, because it does not really matter if they are into this weird thing as you, but for romance this is important, no? Idk I have a lesbian friend, she refuses to use apps or to approach someone in real life. She ends up dating exes of exes, I joke about the closed lesbian club where they just shuffle couples every now and then. That's not going to work, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:32 AM
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Well responses are
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:47 AM
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Why is there no romance in apps? You can get to know people and promote them to "actually know in real life", no? After all, the more specific your requirements are, the more volume of search you need. There are different people everywhere, you just have to be open minded and hopeful, and cautious to not burn out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:47 AM
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It's a fair thing. There was a pretty good Dr. K's video about how dating became like a job interview where we already picture a perfect partner and get dissapointed when they diviate from the script. For me though it feels like I have to qualify to even get a date and damn I used to love going on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:40 PM
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Oh... that's... my bad. Sorry for lashing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:01 PM
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I can't understand you and half the women here. If you are in a happy relationship, have you really had dating issues? Dates that did not lead to anything and failed relationships are pretty normal things on a way to happiness. This was not the goal of my post, to reminisce about your good ol dating dates. Perhaps I should have been more clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:58 PM
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Have you felt it instantly?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:49 PM
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How long do you allow this form of connection to form?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:43 PM
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Fair enough. But following precautions it should not be that impactful overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:41 PM
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What is chemistry? Do you think it is real and other people feel it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:39 PM
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Look, to be fair, you have a pretty high standards which is as much as it is a fair thing, to want to be attracted to your partner, is your personal flaw, if it prevents you from finding something mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:39 PM
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Well it does not seem like a dating issue, more like a time and priorities issue. Which is a fair one, but you can't just expect to get lucky in your comfort setting. You can, but that's just luck. If you really want to date you have to do more. But that's for you to decide. I am out of ideas :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:29 PM
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You can give me your full requirements list.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:23 PM
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In my opinion it's just a common sense. I also have safety concerns, for example, I am not comfortable inviting someone I have never met to my place. Saying that common sense practice is a struggle is like saying putting clothes to go on a date is a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:17 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:04 PM
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That's good. Do you have any issues with dating now?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:03 PM
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Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:01 PM
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I would have to hurt my social life or work to participate in dating apps. Would it? You can limit yourself, let's say, 10 minutes a day. Won't hurt anything. 1 per month on average That's not bad, are they all single and straight? Do other people often get in relationships from these events? Well it does work for other people so clearly the medium is not the problem but rather something about me. I am already healthy weight but have an ugly bone structure and ugly / below average face that even…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:01 PM
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There is a difference between being cautious and telling a random man that going on a date with him is like flipping a coin of being raped or not. Not that you or pie do that, but this is quite common tone in online discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:54 PM
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If they don't use dating apps then yes, but I doubt you will find a man complaining about being lonely who hasn't even tried apps. (ofc you can theoretically, but in general)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:52 PM
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A random man in the internet is not a thread, you don't need to dismiss their concerns by claiming that they are. Obviously if it's something like: "Q4W, my date refused a ride from me, what's going on?" you can explain that it is actually a safety concern and a good approach for women. But if someone says "damn, why do dating be so hard for me :(" you don't just go "well duh have you heard about date rape??". Not that you do, but when you say: But men do say we treat them like a threat and they…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:50 PM
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If you have to be brutally honest about yourself, why do you think it is so and can you do something about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:46 PM
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I don’t know a single woman or man who has had a good experience on apps (for a serious relationship) The opposite for me. Have you tried apps yourself? It's not that much of a commitment. classes, hobbies, events, friends of friends How much is this? How many do interract with? How many do you like? It's a big difference when meeting people with dating in mind or hoping to meet someone in regular settings. I wish it worked, but it is obviouslt doesn't, so there is an issue to solve, isn't it? W…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:39 PM
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Oof, your tone is judgemental, lol. Only good faith participation here. How many matches do you usually have? Do you think you reject many potential matches? Have you tried going to places where you can be approached in person? Obviously I can give any advice about personal issues, just wish you luck with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:35 PM
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A stray dog is in your life. A picture of a dog can't hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:32 PM
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Well, self inflicted issue then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:31 PM
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As far as I remember you don't use apps. Maybe you should, sounds like a numbers game. Maybe join some meetup groups with many people. Or speed dating events.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:25 PM
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Well, they just don't want to be honest, because they don't want to blame themselves for their struggles. Have you seen their profiles, their swiping?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:18 PM
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again, I can swipe for you, you can pay for premium and filter more profiles, you can invinte friends over and make it a drinking game is this were my issues I would have been the happiest men in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:17 PM
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If you have a leg broken who cares how you broke it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:14 PM
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Fatigue is cured by taking a break. As long as you still have options you are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:06 PM
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Then you have no issues, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:05 PM
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Are you still dating or what changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:04 PM
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Men in your life are a threat. A random man in the internet isn't. You can dismiss everything to safety concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:02 PM
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I mention all my hobbies through pictures and text. In this versions of Tinder and co there is a 5 keywords limit, that is highlighted when you have them in common. Nah, sometimes more matches is the goal. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:01 PM
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I can swipe for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:59 PM
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Yes, so you can't be "date rape" outside of dating, only "rape" and this is better?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:56 PM
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Sports injuries are traumas, yes, they are not sport related, if you can get the same traumas by walking in your home. If you shoot someone in a car is it car accident? Sexual harassment is not workplace related. something does not need to be exclusive to an activity in order to be related to that activity The whole point is that men's dating issues are dating excusive. Women's dating issues are just women's issues. You kinda prove my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:54 PM
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That's true for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:49 PM
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Well, that's the world we live in. Couple of years ago my friend gone missing, we searched for him for over a week until finally finding his body in a river, money and phone missing. He was alone at night, no one knew where he was. And we are both migrants, so imagine how his family felt. My point is, don't ever compromise or risk your safety, no matter how much you don't like it. No good person will ever be offended if you reject a car ride. This is a huge red flag. But if you going to tell a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:48 PM
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Try me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:39 PM
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Aren't you married?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:39 PM
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men don't complete their profiles, they are afraid of showing themselves. I don't think I can fix men's profiles, right? So just keep swiping left until you see a profile you like. Compliment their profiles when you match, be the positive force of change that you want to see. I had close to zero matches when I mentioned I like videogames and read manga. Changed it to gym and cooking and did much better. So it is what it is. Hate the game not the players. Is your profile complete?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:38 PM
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What are you basing this on? Like seriously. Do you really thing majority of marriages are bad? My grandmother worked in child protection, I walked with her to the worst of the shitholes. Most of the relationship violence is 2 drunks getting drunk and fighting while their kids starve. Just because men in this situations are stronger and inflict more damage, does not mean relationships with men are dangerous by its nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:34 PM
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Good to be you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:31 PM
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I'll separate the two things here. First the car thing. Sorry to hear this happened to you and your friend. I'd recommend to not get into a car with your dates early on. What if they decide to kidnap you? If you have no other option, call someone and keep it on, and share your location. Idk, maybe cause I am an european city mouse, cars are not a thing here so I can't fully comprehend. The second, the 3 dates sex expectation. The easiest thing is to plan dates that are logistically inconvenient …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:30 PM
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Like what? Do these risks exist outside of dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:14 PM
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If something can happen outside of dating it is not dating related issue. If you could not get a date, or second date, or all your dates finish within an hour, yeah, that's a dating issue. An issue. About dating. Aboud dates, romance, sex, flirting. If you got sexually assaulted, even on a date, you are a victim of a serious crime. This is not a dating issue. The person who did it is not a random dating enjoyer, it is a fucking criminal. If you got attacked during morning run, it's not a running…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:13 PM
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And? Like, forget the argument, let's say this is actually indisputably true. Will you have a problem admitting it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:09 PM
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My safety is always in question when dating men. That's what the person I responded to said. Why add "when dating men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:07 PM
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But the thing is that safety issues are still valid when women are not dating. Or are you suddenly immune to violence if you are not dating? Many men who have dating issues have no issues with confidence, social skills or communication. Sure, appearance issues is a good jab, but outside of dating it does not matter, so they are equal. There are men who are lured to locations by fake dating apps profiles to get robbed or kidnapped. Some men are harrased by women's exes. Some are stalked by their …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:02 PM
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They are so good at making up problems for themselves instead of using their advantage, cause if they really try something and it does not work it means they failed even with all cards given, so they'd rather act as victims instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:50 PM
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Then why do women still do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:42 PM
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My friend group, my personal experience, every person I had a discussion about dating, statistics, and everything. Do you have any proof for your claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:42 PM
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Still, if you are on a date or not, you should not leave your drink alone. It's not a dating issue, call it a women's safety issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:31 PM
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trying to find people who treat them with respect, dignity and honesty My point is that this is a blue pill bs. Sounds good, sure, but far from the truth, no matter what sample size.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:28 PM
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So your dating issue is your laziness?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:26 PM
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I know 0 men who shots themselves in the foot like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:24 PM
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Bad as I am a human being that wants to enjoy intimacy too, so many women think their presense is already enough, and while I do my best to get her in the mood, find what she likes, that she feels comfortable, she does none of it for me. And still, I won't complain about it, it is what it is. Maybe next life I will try it as a girl and compare. I know it's presumptuous to say, but if I, as a girl, was treated the way I try to treat girls, I think it would be nice. So it's really hard to resonate…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:24 PM
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One girl's date could not fix a wheel of her bycicle so she told him he's not a real man and it's sucks that she has to ask her father for help instead. One made a guy wait for half a year while fucking her ex who had a new gf, the guy learnt about it and skedaddled. Just some of examples. I am in a pretty big friend group of girls, the most red and black pill fuel there is. But I think it is cultural. Probably other parts of world are better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:17 PM
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Do you think experience can be bad from man's perspective too?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:11 PM
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As soon as you leave your home you should be worried about safety. I don't see how is it related to dating? You think if you don't go on a date you can't be assaulted? You think men are never assaulted?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:08 PM
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I mean, how can you say "be hotter" to someone who wants to be seen as a sex object right after saying that being seen as one isn't a compliment. Bro...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:03 PM
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Thanks for being honest. Idk, if my friends shared bad stories I'd probably make something up to fit in. And some things are easy to take as a personal attack. The first time sex rarely goes flawless, but I don't believe in "casual sex, which is often just essentially masturbating with another person’s body" narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:58 PM
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Most of my female friends are the reason for their dating struggles. In any men said what they have said, everyone would have told them that they are delusional and deserve to stay single. Yet here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:53 PM
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Ok, so no. Do you allow for the possibility that you are just overdramatising and in real life extreme negatives rarely happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:49 PM
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Those are still dating issues. No, safety, harassment, coercion, stalking, violence risk are safety issues, men lying for sex, pregnancy risk, being treated like disposable entertainment, and trying to figure out which attention is actually genuine versus manipulative are relationship issues. Also, access alone is not the same thing as positive outcomes. Getting 500 DMs from men you don’t trust, aren’t attracted to, or actively fear is not the same thing as having healthy relationship options. Q…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:47 PM
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Again, is this your personal experience? Like, I am not arguing about the statement, just want to know. Most of Q4W about casual sex shows that most women here does not have it. And those who do are strangely quiet about this topic, or believe they somehow developed a perfect radar for good males, but majority still sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:39 PM
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I read comments like this and wonder, have you ever had casual sex? Is that how you were treated? Or do you just repeat "men are bad" mantra you heard somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:33 PM
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And no, women can’t just easily get a boyfriend they are attracted to at a snap of their fingers. You have to define what "easily" means and how much unrealistic standards impact dating for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:31 PM
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I don't think any person around my age is expecting to get pension when they retire.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:04 PM
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Ah, it's related to the "Really tired of this topic". Use quotes please, I was confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:01 PM
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Ah, well, then probably still a relationship, but more like a business partnership rather than love. Tax benefits or maybe she inherits good money, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:32 PM
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Usage of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:30 PM
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Doesn't mean that it's not needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:30 PM
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there’s this pervasive idea that if she doesn’t want your dick as much as you want her to, she doesn’t love you This is a stretch from but never wanted to have sex or touch your penis Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:09 PM
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Really tired of this topic, but I hope for the most of women it is at the very least uprotected sex, otherwise yall kinda hypocrites about pregnancy scares.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:21 PM
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Nothing wrong with therapy but when it is brought up constantly as some silver bullet solution it is kinda annoying. If these men found someone they’ll just create another thing to be insecure about Well that's why ideally you find someone young, then someone when you are older, and some more ones in between so you understand better what you want and don't want, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:32 AM
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A nice guy = not a nice guy. An ugly guy = not a nice guy. Complaining about dating guy = believe it or not, not a nice guy. Posting cute animals in daily chat guy = pretending to be nice not a nice guy. All exes of women here = not nice guys. Current partners of women here = angels in flesh. A guy made of water in cold winter = an ice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:08 AM
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Mentally healthy people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:49 PM
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Kudos for self awareness, it's refreshing to see on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:39 PM
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Exclusivity talk, ghosting, for example. Most people are jerks here, this is the nature of debate forums with not enforced rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:01 PM
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People cover themselves up with technicalities that allow them to hurt others. It's just pathetic, I respect assholes that own their assholness more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:45 PM
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Because the world where "I don't owe anyone anything" is a sad and cold place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:36 PM
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Dune series. If I had to pick one then God Emperor of Dune.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:47 AM
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No one saw Thleilaxu women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:54 PM
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How it is a fact when no one asked us what our orgasm statistics?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:02 PM
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But what about all the kinky sex I did with ex partners and more? Plenty to gain here. there's still an orgasm gap In my ltr foreplay included me getting my gf off, so even if she did not orgasm during sex (which she said she did multiple times per sesh but it vary), we are at the very least equal. Believe it or not I did not get a special badge "Veteran Closer of Orgasm Gap" that I can demonstrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:43 PM
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For women to have kids it's not really that hard, they can do it alone even. So it's reasonable why they don't see it as a high achievement. It's like if your goal is to scratch balls it is much easier when you have a couple attached to your body. I agree though, manosphere don't have anything on women. Them artificial wombs can't be creates fast enough. Even surrogacy is in jeapoady now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:28 PM
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No president was arrested or fined for not fulfilling promises. They should though. Modern politics is a joke. When you start a relationship there's no promise of kinky sex What promises are there wehn you start a relationship? Can I see the full list please? No cheating probably the one. What are the consequences for breaking promises? Where is the line between what's ok to expect in relationship and what's not?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:36 PM
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No I really interested in your specific reply. If it's not too personal. What is the most extreme sexual act you commited or feel comfortable to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:24 PM
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I just hate this "I dOn'T oWe YoU aNyTgInG" notion. How about we fucking start owing other people something. Fine, let's not start with kinky sex, but still. Not everything is an attack on free will. What's next? We can't hold a presiddent accountable for his election promises because he had his fingers crossed so it's ok? Ah right, we don't even need to check fingers anyway...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:22 PM
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Well fine, but what if this specific man is a late bloomer? Does it make this concern more ok or not? What is the point of this discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:19 PM
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I don't understand what is this a reply to?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:13 PM
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A fucking 13 years old acts like a stupid kid, duh. I was to busy studying and doing sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:11 PM
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You don't owe anything to anyone unless the court specifies otherwise. You can even live separately from your partner. By this logic, you can't complain about anything in relationship - you should instantly break up. Everything else is a coercion. Info: What is "kinky sex" to you? Everything that is not under the blanket?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:04 PM
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If my sexaul needs are not met, I'd leave of course. But I can survive without getting head, for example, even if I like it. If the relationship otherwise good, I won't break up over it, unless I know that it is the issue with me specifically and was not the issue before. Then I will second guess her attraction to me. It's not that deep, you want to strip away anu nuances and focus on yourself be my guest. But for many people those nuances matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:53 PM
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Do you ever do things you don't like? We are not talking about inflicting literal torture here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:19 PM
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It makes a difference even if the conclusion is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:17 PM
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You are talking as if I said I hated it. You will have to dig pretty far into kinks to find something that will really bother me, but this is not what we are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:14 PM
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I would do it if that makes my partner happy. I enjoy different things and hate routine, so even if I won't enjoy a certain act I will enjoying the attempt to stir things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:05 PM
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It makes the refusal worse. It still sucks but at least he is not hipocritical and does not treats you worse than his previous partners or thinks that he does not need to put as much effort with you specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:02 PM
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Well, most men don't get to "explore and experiment" in their youth and it kinda sucks when your partner already finished their journey that you did not start.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:57 PM
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I am more accepting of consistent people, in this case I won't second guess what is wrong with me or what else will change about them in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:55 PM
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Am I weird for wanting to please my partner? Like, we are not talking about extreme kinks here. I have never felt I have to do certain acts to keep a partner. I did them because I wanted them to enjoy sex with me. I see no reasons why I will ever stop doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:54 PM
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because you don’t WANT to do things to your partner that they don’t like See, you that this (which sounds very good, nice sentiment) and then act surprised when I said men are blamed for everything. Let's reverse genders, let's say a woman can't orgasm without using a sex toy and a man don't like using toys during sex. Now let's also add that he was ok with using toys on his previous partners, but now he doesn't want to, because he grew up and grown men don't play with toys in bed or whatever. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:50 PM
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Ignorance is bliss, I'd just accept she is not into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:38 PM
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The point is you should focus on doing the things you both can enjoy and bond over as a unique pairing That is the point, what is the woman is not interested in anything like this. Which is still valid, this could be how people generally are. But if she used to be different, for whatever reason, there is a valid regret of not meeting her earlier. The man can't even express his emotion, OP expects them to silently suck it up or leave. Which is imho unhealthy view on mental health of men. They sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:23 PM
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It's astonishing how normalized became to always assume the worst things about men. Haters gonna hate whomever is acceptable socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:17 PM
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No, you are correct. My concern is why is she never in the mood for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:12 PM
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When she’s feeling adventurous, maybe it’s standing and fucking again a window. If she’s feeling playful, maybe the best sex involves toys or chasing each other around the house naked. She used to but never with you, so is it something to be concerned about or nah?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:06 PM
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Agree, some mods on this sub are retards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:00 PM
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irrelevant/ɪˈrɛlɪv(ə)nt/"Irrelevant" describes something that is not related to the subject being discussed, making it unimportant or inapplicable in that specific context. It indicates that a detail, factor, or piece of information has no impact on a decision, argument, or situation. On this alone your debate point already crumbles. It's like to say that cheating is irrelevant to relationship because "you can feel hurt, that’s ok but you either leave or get over it". It is relevant, how much - …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:58 AM
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Signed the termination agreement again, which means I can celebrate quitting my job again 🍻 I always thought when I do this I will drink a beer mid working day, as it is very conveniently sits in the company fridge, but meh, maybe on my actual last day after I return the hardware.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:40 AM
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An example is a specific instance, case, or sample used to illustrate a general rule, clarify an idea, or represent a larger group. It serves as a model or pattern to be imitated (a good example) or avoided (a bad example), often setting a standard for behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:16 PM
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That's your conclusion from this exchange? Yeah, that's on me, why did I expect anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:08 PM
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A bit overweight girls are foine
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:34 PM
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Being attracted to confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:18 PM
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This is Gillete ad "The Best Men Can Be" or something. Sure, a single ad means nothing. But this was many other similar things born from metoo movement. My entire point that you either have to live under the rock or simply not care about societal message that approaching women is wrong. Therefore, every man that still does it is to a degree an asshole. And approaching women usually leads to more dating success than not. You are being very close minded, so I won't engage farther. But saying thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:16 PM
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Sure, I don't think anyone ever implied that women are attracted to negative traits on purpose. So this post sounds to me like: "No, alcoholics don't drink vodka because they like the taste, if they could get drunk on cola they would have drink cola". We already know this, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:02 PM
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Sure, this is not the point. Some people enjoy being catcalled but we can agree that this is a bad thing to do, can't we? <image> If you were a 17 years old man 7 years ago and saw this ad on TV, what would you have thought about approaching women on streets: is it ok ot not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:57 PM
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It's like debating that alcoholics don't really like the taste of alcohol. Fine, but they are still addicted to it, that's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:32 PM
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Wanna engage in a small debate? Is approaching women on the street ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:16 PM
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A man lying about being monogamous doesn't mean we like that he is lying. Its like saying people like armed robbers because they willingly hand over their money to them. Just because you fall or comply with the negative behavior does not mean you like it Oh... I only now realized what your debate point really is about. Guys, women are attracted to bad behaviours but not on purpose, duh. It's just so happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:14 PM
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If punching strangers was an established social pattern would you complained about it or made excuses for it? They don't want to. You haven't given them any reason to. Fine? So what, I will survive, so will they. Then why are their complaints usually interspersed wuth demands of others? I don't think they are. It's just easy to interpret complains in a negative light. Make any complain and I will twist it to make you look like an asshole. It's like bullies say it ok to bully that kid cause he is…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:51 PM
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through experience and social intuition Same excuses as any bigot says. You don't get to punch people because they looked like they were about to punch you in your mind. Now, if they did punch you, go ahead, but do you see the difference? And you think complaining at them will make them want to be empathetic? It gives them a chance to be empathetic, if they want to. How can anyone support anyone online if people never share their struggles? I use it because I feel like it Duh, people complain be…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:36 PM
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What was the point? You commented about whining, now you are saying about annoying people, either you equate the two or this should not be a part of the conversation. So why do you expect people to owe you empathy instead of wanting them to want to give you empathy? No, that's why I want people to give me empathy even though I don't expect them to. Not everything in life is supposed to be effective, like, why are you spending time on reddit, what does it improve for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:21 PM
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online men that like to whine annoying someone, getting in their face and goading them That's a big leap, don't you think? evaluate and critique why things are the way they are Well, mostly because no one owes anyone anything, so here's that. not just complain about those things and hope they change So we should not complain about politics, we should go and campaing into the goverment, we can't complain about economy, we should go start a business or something, did I get your logic right? And if…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:05 PM
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Therefore, these men whine to women for some sort of ulterior motive. Not really. No one knows for a fact how another person will react. Sure, it's wise to not expect an empathetic reaction to men's dating struggles from women, but it should not be like this. So if you want things to be different you have to risk it sometimes. The complex justifications why it's ok to treat someone like shit are just excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:24 AM
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I am as cynical and bitter as the most guys here, but I do believe in communication. If you feel like your partner is losing interest it is worth to talk to them to see what's going on. Maybe they don't feel well, maybe something bad has happened, maybe they are upset with you for some reason. Only if they refuse to discuss this and dismiss your concerns, then sure, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:34 AM
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Don't show this to the dick pill guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:05 PM
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I don't care if it's 1 out of 1000 or 999 out of 1000 if this was not stated you don't reply as if they implied what you think they do. Why is this so hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:10 PM
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This is a pair dance, I think it is different from what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:53 PM
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Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that a man venting about loneliness, rejection, lack of dating success, or frustration with modern dating "woman has had sex with other men" but not him must believe he is owed sex or a relationship "imply she owes consent" and " demand we choose them"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:50 PM
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No, that's all fair, you have your type. What I mean, if you see someone you don't find attractive, they got a self care routine and dressed more to your liking next time my money are on you still finding them unattractive. Same with someone you liked, but the next time they dressed differently, you won't be like "hell naw, I'm out", right? Personality traits aside, this is not what I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:16 PM
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If they were already someone I was interested in Are you sure? Like, I am not attacking you or anything. It just seems like the initial interest does a lot in attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:48 PM
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It kinda sucks how little control a man has over his attractiveness...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:32 PM
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Solo, like you see a man dancing and think to yourself that this is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:25 PM
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thanks for the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:56 PM
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Did a quick search, this is a couple's dance, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:51 PM
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Serious question: are there any dancing moves or styles that are attractive when men perform them? I am not talking about complex acrobatic moves or choreography, something simple. As a man I find myself enamoured of women's dancing, to some degree it is sexual (flexibility, seductive moves), some of it is energy, some of it is just cute, like Reze's dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:43 PM
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I was only once in a strip club in Poland with a group of girls. It was surprisingly fun. Stripper told me that when a man comes with women they don't approach him much due to past jealousy related aggression from women he came with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:26 AM
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Idk, the same conclusion was made by my bi girl best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:30 AM
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My friend flaked and I had to go to the club by myself. It was fun. It is bright and I am going home. Good morning reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:26 AM
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Taking breaks helps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 01:21 PM
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Isn't this what half the guys here say?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:24 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:42 PM
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Well glad to hear that was really a me problem and apps work fine here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:18 PM
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the need for some clickbait Explain it to me. He is very big as is, do you think revenue from youtube and streams is not enough? At some point you just can't claim to want to help people and act the same way as "manophere influencers" do while criticising them. But that's not my problem with this video. Just felt like many smart words with no meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:09 PM
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3-5 years ago when he did interviews with viewers, sure, it was interesting and helpful. Now it is really hard to not be sceptical when in every video he tries to sell "How to be better in sex" course. Like this video should have been about mentalization only. The title and intro with the reddit post feels so out of place, that I could not focus on the content and was genuenly confused what is it even about. But hey maybe I am just stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:34 AM
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I like Dr. K, but most of his incel related content is so weak compared to other topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:18 AM
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I mean, the whole situation seems pretty unrealistic but I engage with as much good faith as I can. Not knowing the logistics but knowing people who know the logistics is fine. In my university most people haven't done a single task themselves and cheated on all exams, yet most still graduated with the same diploma and do just fine. I don't know enough of this instance but it seems extremely unrealistic that none of the boys know about the test and that some special logistics is involved, this f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:11 PM
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There is no information if they showed up or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:34 PM
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I mean, depends on the outcome. In the screenshot there is nothing about the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:10 PM
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But not when it's about women. I would blame the abuser, sure, but he is not a part of conversation and neither is the drink driver. There are laws that he broke and will be punished. Thing is, if I hit by a drunk driver, chances are I don't really care about his punishment anymore. That's why it's on me to be as careful as possible near roads. if your first reaction is "you should watch where you're going" is kind of presumptuous and assholish I agree, but again, being "presumptuous and assholi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:06 PM
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Social skills and experience. And follow up conversations. Fair enough, then when a man makes a negative generalization about women based on the same things, you accept and respect his opinion, right? blaming victim for the abuse sends a message that abuse is okay unless you're the victim Is saying "look both ways before crossing the road" sends a message that if you get hit by a car it's ok or that you should be careful and never rely on other people not harming you. And in both cases, this has…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:51 PM
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Why do you think you know better than the person that used the phrase? Just a thought experiment: let's say you are 100% correct, all cases of using "choose better" advice are from men that "don't think abusing or taking advantage of women is bad". Is the advice bad or harmful per ce? It's not like they say "stay with abuser" or "choose worse" or "stay single". It does not even imply that you need to change yourself, like, let's say "go to gym / therapy". So I don't understand what's the big dea…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:23 PM
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But I don't feel that is different from the general "choose better" message. Sure it can be seen as condescending and aggressive, but it is born from good intentions. "Oh, you said 'choose better', this means you are a rapist!" is a pretty big leap in logic, don't you think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:09 PM
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My friend started dating a guy who made his girlfriend pregnant but they are supposenly breaking up. This beautiful and smart young professional is getting involve with a guy that could not even break up before starting a new relationship and now is on hook with a kid. Either he ignores the kid and is a shitty father or he shares custody and helps his ex which will make him a shitty boyfriend. Sure there is a chance it all works out fine, but we all know it most likely won't. And then it will ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:00 PM
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But the average boy behaves and has interests like he’s suited to be a worker bee in a trade 🚜, not for comprehensive thinking. Is this a conclusion from the screenshot? I don't think knowing when and where the test is is "comprehensive thinking". Lack of discipline and attention, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:43 PM
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I kinda killed this urge in me. When I was younger I used to compliment people often, not anymore, at least not strangers. And not that I get compliments often, but now when I do I kinda take them the wrong way, like if someone said I smelled good I will think they make fun of my perfume or maybe I overdid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 09:31 PM
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Kit Kat? Btw are we still up for beers?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:23 PM
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Not yet. All good so far, and you? Lol, how come?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:52 PM
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How is my favorite sub doing? Missed me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:38 PM
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He becomes angry and tells her that he has done so many things for her freely to make her life more comfortable, that sex is a basic need for him, and that she is being selfish by depriving him of it. I wonder if this is replaced with: He tell her fine, he respecs her choice, but now he does not want to be around her and therefore won't help her anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:01 AM
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Gender pay gap exists so men can buy women coffee, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:37 PM
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I mean, it is sure sucks, but this is life, you can't stress too much about what other people do. You can't change people. You preach on deaf ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 01:38 PM
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I mean, I doubt we have many friends in common with this hypotential girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:06 PM
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Fine, I agree. If a woman doesn't hook up then it is a valid request.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:51 AM
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Let's say they treat you well but after some dates realised you wre not compatible. Is he a bad guy for breaking things up after having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:43 AM
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Yeah right, 80% of men can't get casual sex so they go for relationships instead, they have to play the waiting game because what else for them to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:40 AM
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I'd just move on. No big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:34 AM
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Oh they are desperate and don't really have a choice. Have you thought about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:33 AM
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This is likely because they think you would be having sex with other men as fast or they just assume you are high n. I assume this even if she doesn't sleep with me fast. Men who aren't serious won't wait around without sex and put continuous effort in. Why would a man who is serious wait to have sex for a long time? Are we in middle school and have to wait for a weekend when parents out of town? I think women just projecting their viewes on sex. Women don't see anything wrong when they use men …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:28 AM
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Redpill is hated because they say not pleasant things about women, who are a protected class. They also talk shit about men, but this is accepted and encouraged. Motte and Bailey Fallacy. It still applies. Your claim is too hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 02:00 PM
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To filter through all possible matches. Same happens in real life. Women are picky on apps not because they just can be, it takes time to reject 95% of people you see. They are deliberatly looking for the best looking guys. In real life it can work only if the woman is extremely passive. Fine, so we agree that women's porn is not better than men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:57 PM
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When you have no other clues, you’ll filter on the trait you do see. Why? Well, men would have been called gross for wanting a basically slave. I overreacting here, but it's not like it's completely groundless. There is an anime about romance between a guy and a girl in a wheelchair and people were making comments like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:47 PM
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My argument is that women need more than pictures to feel attraction. Again, I agree, but why women select only 5% of men on apps? It can't be that they all accurately displayed their personalities and women are able to select accurately. Why not match with 95% and then filter based on other factors? A big share of smut is just a fairy tale for adults about your destined soulmate and never ending love. I don't think this is what is used as porn by women. Just literature for fun. We were talking …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:33 PM
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Because people who aren’t shitty don’t try to point the finger at other people. This is kindergarten logic, I am sorry, but it's ok to point out inconsistencies and contradictions. If you want to call them outliers there must be more reaction from other women and "successful in dating people", but because of this "speak out = you are a bad person" status quo they would rather not. And those who have nothing to lose feel free to do so. Only shallow people don’t bother to assess someone’s personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:29 PM
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I think the bar for “pretty” is lower in real life than it is on apps, because people are often prettier when they’re not stuck in a single photo. Some people have better pictures than they are and in real life you are also compared to who you can match on apps. I think the "apps are not real life and most women are not on apps" is a valid position depending where you live, if you want to start this argument I am gonna pass. I’m curious, how much smut have you actually read? Not talking about sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:24 PM
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Why do you think people who can't find a partner have shitty personality? If they don't pass looks filter how can anyone assess their personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:07 PM
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Qualities that make one succesful in dating are not the same that makes a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:00 PM
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I think most women need more than just a pretty picture to actually feel attraction. So, women need a pretty picture and something else, did I get this right? Well, duh, pretty picture seems very important. Porn for women is mostly written erotica with no visuals but a plot. Yeah, but it is also mostly some taboo things which, if we reverse genders, people would be disgusted by. Porn for men is visually driven but it is so diverse at the same time, you can call men visual but they are not strict…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:59 PM
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You can only be an abusive boyfriend if someone bothers making you their boyfriend. I think you are a drug dealer, but you are so lame that no drug suppliers want to work with you. And a lot of guys here don’t understand that you have to have some good qualities about you to convince a woman to want to be with you. Oh, we know. Good physical qualities work wonders. Or act like their abusive dads, that also works sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:54 PM
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I think I went out with more women that insisted on paying for themselves. Sometimes it can mean that there won't be a second date, but not always. Some women were expecting me to pay (not much, I don't think I was on very expensive dates, I was younger back then) which I was fine with, but I was taught that as a man I am expected to pay on dates and I think men are more against the set expectation rather than the money itself. I prefer dynamic with my friends, were I pay for them when I feel li…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:35 AM
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Meh, I'd pay for a coffee and a döner no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:20 AM
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No, I don't want to even drink through a paper straw even if it means the Earth is doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 08:37 AM
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I feel sad for all of those who can't find love.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:57 PM
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Claiming "being used" implies anything. Do you think women are immune to exaggerating things when they feel unhappy to gain sympathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:05 PM
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How about "being used for sex" rhetoric? Do women have zero agency in this matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:37 PM
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? How many jobs are you working? One? So it's ok if the rest are violating rules and underpay?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:59 PM
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“Blame is the act of holding a person or thing responsible for a negative outcome, fault, or wrongdoing.” That is not happening. Saying that you should have known better and avoid it does not mean that it is this person's fault. There still is an offender that is to blame. Ideally someone else see this comment and will learn to identify this signals and saves their live. Is it bad? You are asuming abuse is perfectly predictable and can be easily avoided I did not say perfectly and easily. But co…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:09 PM
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But that is a totally different subject and not real "blame", as OP put in edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:58 PM
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Pointing out signs that could have warned a woman about potential danger is not "blaming" her for the action. People so quick to yell "victim blaming" when nothing really excuses the actual offender and if there was something that could prevented this, why is it bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:37 PM
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Yeah, and we don't shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:28 PM
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I mean, sure, but this is not the case with young people nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:22 PM
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What am I doing wrong? Or how women suffer this society issue? If I was a woman I'd just enjoy this system.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:21 PM
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I mean, a person on dating app went there to meet people romatically. Implied consent is what makes it acceptable. And yeah, it gave away your age. I don't think it works anymore. None of the people younger than 30 use facebook, at least where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:13 PM
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Depends on the context, if most of them met someone in school or college, I'd say it is pretty realistic. If you are from a country with arranged marriages it is irrelevant. I'd say if I or someone else could identify what is wrong with me soecifically, I would not have projected my experience to reality. But people can't and I hear the same stories from other men over and over, more and more. Is it unfair to consider there is something going on? Do you want me to share you millions of youtube v…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:12 PM
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I've met plenty of women fine irl or through social media. I mean, social media. what, do you hit random women up in instagram or something? Ew. When and where irl, how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:08 PM
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There are many women who will be put off by this, call it mankeeping or whatever new trandy word is and declare that they are dealing with enough already to deal with a whiny man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:06 PM
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My experience resonates with most men in my age and geo bracket. I sharing it to prove that I am not jsut broadcasting what I read online, I actually actively try it. What activities if it not a secret? Are they women exclusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:05 PM
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How do you differentiate from those guys? Do you need to dress differently? This is not something you can figure out before even one date unless you know each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:54 PM
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Rather than going 'hey what do I do on dates? It is more "hey how do I get dates?". And then it is the thing that you describe. Women don't need to improve, they can just go on another date easily. Mne notice it and feel unfairness, but if he voices it he gets called names and then people are surprised he gets hooked on a content that says that it is not entirely his fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:48 PM
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Well, I, a man, go out 1-2 times per week, sometimes alone and open to meeting people. Recently I only meet other men this way. Women don't do this, they install apps if they feel lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:43 PM
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Bro, you can't just magically develop social skills. They are learnt while doing. When I was 18-20 I was fortunate to go on dates more or less regulary. I did fumble lots of them, if I could go back they would have went differently. I think it is unfair to expect men to have necessary skills instantly, but at least we could learn. Now I don't think I can get a date to save my life. Post covid online dating is completely different and getting worse and worse. Youre full of shit Be civil, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:33 PM
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it's the government, companies, even capitalism. This is a forbidden on this sub c word. No one forces women to be this picky. I don't think men are the ones out there socializing while women stay at home playing games. There's not even a lot of women on the apps to begin with. Well, women are not on apps, women are not going out meeting people in bars or coffee shops, so yeah, they are staying at home playing social networks or games.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:27 PM
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Deserve does not mean you must get it, in this context it is about dismissing someone's experience because of their age. If you think it's ok for men to stay single until 30 it is natural you will focus on statistics on men 30+. This is what I ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:14 PM
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When was it published? I think with each generation % of single people is going to increase more and more. When do you want to acknowledge the issue? 40%? 50%? 99%? And why only 30+ matters, do younger men not deserve to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:00 PM
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I actually did not expect a well written and resonable post from the title, thanks for taking your time and posting it. I agree with everything you said, but I will debate the title and provide some thoughts about why it is not happening. First, women are a protected class. Blaming them for anything is a social suicide. Is this an overcompensation for lack of women's rights in the past or just how we biologically view women, idk, but is it how it is. Second, blaming women will not change anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:55 PM
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No, but you should want to date men closer to your height / weight. And no one said anything about talking. Yes, but nature will correct in due time, most men would be short and small, gaining muscles will be out of fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 04:47 PM
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I am telling that anyone would feel safer with someone they can overpower physically if needed, wouldn't they? Would you get a tiger or a cat? Both are feline, yet one can maul you to death the other can give you some stratches max. Yet it seems like women prefer tigers. Is it unfair to call out this inconsistency?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 04:01 PM
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We don't know its dangerous until it is? You can go for physically weaker men. If risk and danger are so concerning why traits that make men more dangerous are considered attractive? women choose to date and or have casual sex with men she likes then if we choose not to date or have sex with men she doesn't like, but now it is suddenly "too dangerous and risky and you don't udnerstand". Why not choose one? Either it is too dangerous or it is ok. I won't say anything if all women in the world dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:24 PM
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5 dates
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:59 PM
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I would agree with this being the reason why women date as they are, but how do you explain so many women willingly put themselves in dangerous situations? Why minimizing these risks is not the priority?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:48 PM
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Just be a Chaotic Neutral Boy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:58 PM
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So we started to do something about it. Many people today think feminism is a problem and some feminists are, just like today some men are way over the top. They want to take away our rights. See that's the problem. What did you do about it? If you are around my age the answer is nothing. We were born into gender equal society. Are there some remnant of old school sexism? Sure, but it is extremely frowned upon. But this rhetoric that you personaly is a freedom fighter on the frontlines still and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:45 PM
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Huh? Besides pregnancy, who do you think not take serously "rape, physical violence, being stalked"? These are serious crimes, we have entire law system against. What are you talking about? by dismissing perspective of women? If perspective of women was helpful for men it would have not been dismissed. Edit: I actually value your advice on dating apps, it's more about in general men dismissing general perspective of general women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 11:55 AM
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because the costs, risks, and pressures behind those outcomes are not being seen or taken seriously I mean, the same argument can be made with genders reversed, except men have less positive outcomes. What you end up with is a skewed version of reality that looks simple from the outside, but is not simple at all when you’re actually inside it. Sounds like an excuse honestly. At least men try to figure out and simplify the reality. This often leads to not very pleasant realisations about ourselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 11:45 AM
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You can just ask what the f word means to the person who used it in a reply to them if this is so important for you. Fact is, words lose and gain meaning that is different from their original. You can't just force everyone to stick to a single right one, even if it is technically correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:58 AM
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It does not matter what an individual says. What matters is what direction is society is heading to. Make a public statement in favor o women quotas in stem and a public statement in favor of excluding women from stem. Compare reaction that you get in response. Are they equal? If no, there will always be a force that directed towards equilibrum. And this force will cause a counter force. And so on...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:31 PM
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Wise
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:15 PM
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OP learns how generalisations work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:03 AM
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Her position about effort from women is simple: they don't need it. Her earlier posts are about unfairness in dating and how this is natural and sucks to suck for men. Which is a shocking ad completely unexpected take from a woman. But yeah, it is manosphere influencers that brainwash young boys...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:54 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:37 PM
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I mean, sure there are couple exceptions here and there, but they are statistically insignificant. Wanna talk about your personal anecdotes, make a comment in daily thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:10 PM
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