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A lot of RP advice is autistically coded so that its point gets across. This advice stems from the fact that women find so few men desirable and that men’s attention/supplication normally requires little to no effort to receive for women. Therefore… If a woman is dealing with a guy who she believes is THE guy: A) she’s going to work way harder and have actual incentive to keep him happy/around/satisfied, which is much more diluted if it’s an average guy. B) he’s going to have far more leeway and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:00 AM
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Oh boy, you don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:48 AM
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Why is it that it’s impossible to understand that men’s basis for prioritizing sex is a product of their base biology?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:45 AM
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So you think sex positivity is bad/weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:43 AM
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I mean, if someone can con someone out of loads of cash using their sexuality, that would trump It.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:32 PM
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Then they wouldn’t frame it as predatory. Both sides of the equation have a substantial amount of power in that regard
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:23 PM
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Just one find of a litany of them. https://www.gq.com/story/dating-apps-are-leaving-511-men-behind
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:23 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:15 PM
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I’d say this is 100% perception. Much like when an older dude is with a younger woman people conveniently forget the overwhelming influence of youth and sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:15 PM
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They do. Income, size, strength, competence. This stuff is proven time and time again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:14 PM
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Then why do women inherently seek them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:45 PM
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You realize this strikes both ways, right? Ideally, both folks feel like they’d be losing something major, hence the value of said relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:44 PM
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Way to muddy up a back and forth by zagging to incest. Do you really think that’s what we were talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:03 PM
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Please don’t take this personally, but all of that psycho babble is over analyzing what most people can see is plainly true. The majority of the world operates underneath the socio sexual hierarchy that is a product of our biology. Nothing more, nothing less. Trying to make the “well society” argument doesn’t work because it still all falls under the same umbrella. But here, I’ll concede you this. Men would treat women, under such circumstances, likely under utilitarian guidelines. As in, what o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:24 PM
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Because you do stuff for them. As I stated 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:20 PM
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That’s completely untrue. Throughout my career there have been a litany of women, both peers and superiors, who have become (of their own volition) quasi secretaries who will take care of things for me/bring me things unsolicited in order to get my attention who I had absolutely no interest in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:53 PM
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I think separating women from their sexuality is impossible for straight men. You don’t have to like it, but it’s part of the machine. Similar to how performance/competence/status is kind of inseparable for men when it comes to how women see them. It doesn’t mean you have to prioritize it or acknowledge it, but it’s there (if you get my drift).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:50 PM
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We need to figure out if pron is objectifying to women or empowering because not even they can make up their own minds about this. The fact is, women will gladly use their sexuality to get what they want when it serves them. Not sure how acknowledging that is hyper sexualizing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:01 PM
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I think this sentiment is fine and can be extended to areas like the workplace. Ignore and avoid women where they aren’t adding value.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:06 PM
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I’d argue that men are kind of taught the wrong thing, whether it’s by their single mothers or what they “think is right”. The fact is, if you’re on a date with a woman you need to assume she’s rooting for you to succeed. Push for rejection. Initiate physical touch (not sexual, but playful) early and often, make it known what you’re about, and then you can save a lot of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:30 AM
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It’s not a great recipe for long term success. If you take the compound probability view of it, the more variables you add, the lower the likelihood of success. This would be quite the variable to add in to an already disrupted market.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:28 AM
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Eh, it’s rare to see one where the guy isn’t a few ranks above.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:42 PM
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Booze skews this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:20 PM
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The media and culture slop women eat up and prop up affirms this time and time again, as well. Basically endless bouts of a mid striking gold
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:19 PM
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Patriarchy is the default so it’s not really much to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:19 PM
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Here’s what happens in reality: Woman “ideally” wants man to be of equal support and use man steps in to help and support woman does not allow it and becomes overbearing and controlling woman does not let man intervene and becomes overbearing of sufficient use Then: “omg muh mental load and why am I so overburdened” In some senses, I agree with you. Men need to tell women to stfu, deal, and just step in. Another example of women only being and acting as shitty as you let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:05 PM
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Nature and biology 100% are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:58 PM
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This is pretty much textbook conflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:42 PM
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He’s a Rollo Tomassi knock off
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:25 AM
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It depends. If it’s a woman who’s never had sex because the chance hasn’t come about or the right person, then sure. But a lot of virgins, especially into older age, have had a fucked up view of sex that’s likely going to negatively impact longevity. Not saying it’s a for sure thing, but it’s something to be cautious over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:24 AM
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It’s the last bastion of nagging women have left (other than a guy’s hobbies) because it’s a goalpost they can continuously move. I know a guy that showed the actual time and list breakdown of what they both did after continuous nagging from her. Her response was “why would you even track something like that?” The irony was lost upon her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:22 AM
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Clearly you’ve never heard of wife goggles. If a woman stays pleasant, available, and doesn’t pull the pin on the fat grenade (as evidenced by the most recent glp-1 study), she has a very good chance of having a great relationship. Also, this constant fear mongering that me regress in terms of their values or standards once they are in an LTR is beyond antiquated. Catch up to the modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:09 AM
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“Men should just know” Welcome to the gynocentric social order folks. Men work more total hours for the family than women do. That’s the fact of the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:53 AM
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Nature
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:50 AM
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Are you anti-science?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:50 AM
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That’s a poor guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:35 PM
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Women are designed for infants and young children, men for when they are more able bodied and have more relative autonomy. I don’t make the rules. Ideally, each person will serve their purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:35 PM
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No, the dynamic where the woman has the overwhelming share of the housework. Those days are long gone and mostly a work of fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:42 PM
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Clearly not “someone” if I’m saying women in plural.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:41 PM
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So now I have to give you a social life too so you can wake up? Classic!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:38 PM
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I’d urge you to touch some grass in the states.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:37 PM
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Go to a city and you’ll hear middle class mids spouting it off who are hardline feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:36 PM
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Women bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:34 PM
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I’ve heard it from American women solely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:16 PM
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It’s funny how women throw around “bangmaid” on here as though it’s some kind of own. Honestly seems like a dope title.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:15 PM
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Big Genghis fan, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:14 PM
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Women prefer their demon mutant grape novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:12 PM
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The classic line is “his money is my money and my money is my money” from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:10 PM
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So they say…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:09 PM
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Because women are notorious for sharing their earnings 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:38 PM
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https://x.com/bradwilcoxifs/status/2064947328767938876?s=46&t=-QVWH5TYqCMz34HCmPLO-Q Time to wake up to modernity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:36 PM
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What you state at the end rarely happens today.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:35 PM
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Your singular experience is an n of 1
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:32 PM
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Your sample size of 1 doesn’t really mean a whole lot. No offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:50 PM
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Uh, you definitely can. Two parties involved. Both stand something to gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:49 PM
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That’s cool, but that’s not really evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:40 PM
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So it’s self inflicted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:31 PM
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The target audience gets to determine the value, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:29 PM
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Women see it as empowering, have you not heard?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:31 PM
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He does. A lot of this is neuroticism run amuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:17 PM
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Women have declared that society dead in the name of egalitarianism so now it is their own problem. Can’t have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:11 PM
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It doesn’t negate his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:08 PM
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https://ifstudies.org/blog/a-cluttered-home-causes-more-stress-for-women-than-men There are tons of other resources that have the same conclusion I can post too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:07 PM
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This is one of the better displays of a false equivalency that I’ve ever seen. And did I say everything? Homes are not difficult to keep in order. This is classic catastrophism at play. This shit is easy. But, to use your nut allergy analogy, if I have one I’m not going to go to the nut factory to have a good time. Likewise, don’t choose someone who doesn’t either mirror your standards or you can’t separate duties with appropriately. Barring clinical depression, people’s standards of cleanliness…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:58 PM
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Thank god we live in a time where machines (see: roomba) and purchasing decisions (buy less shit) and third world cheap labor can solve all these issues for us! Not to mention, if you have kids they love doing tasks and accomplishing things for you! But, we could also attribute this to introspection and as I’ve said in other posts, the person who cares about something more should take de facto ownership over it. If I like the dishes done a certain way, that’s now my task because I am the picky o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:36 PM
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In relationships, the person who cares about something more should be given the autonomy over it. It’s what makes the most sense. There are biological reasons men find clutter to be less of an issue than women from brain wiring to trait neuroticism, but it’s only in gynocentric times that we’ve allowed women to be the authority in this stuff. The obsession to have homes and live in spaces that look like no one lives there is retarded. Beyond this, most of the “weaponized incompetence” talk is si…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:06 PM
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I will tell you this, being incredibly fuckable as a man changes almost all of your experiences with women, exponentially for the better. Once you see it for yourself with a myriad of different women who want different things and still fight tooth and nail for time with you, you realize all of the hoops you had to jump through before with other women were figments of your imagination. To your last point, that happens all the time. Women will physically leave bums they will have the best sex of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:21 PM
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I have a large network of men and women irl that I interact with. Touching grass can provide the same feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:16 PM
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This has been debunked now time and time again. Most of women’s “labor” today resides in their minds regarding having to do anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:15 PM
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Men and women aren’t the same dawg If you saw the losers many attractive women have banged before, they’d become way less desirable to you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:14 PM
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An impromptu trip would probably give you just as much info. Men aren’t this forward thinking as you make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:13 PM
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I think the issue with this is that women are the demo who move for the shared space more often than not to get a discount on rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:11 PM
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To the latter point, you’d know this from living apart and seeing how he keeps his space. I’ve said this many times, but women would be well served to match with a man who has lived alone for a while. That way it’s almost a given he can cook, clean, keep a space, laundry, etc if they are that worried about it. It’s incredibly rare for someone’s standard of cleanliness to decline other than in cases of clinical depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:10 PM
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Most women do in order to hurt their former spouse. I’d say that’s just as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:06 PM
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You must not frequent this sub much…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:05 PM
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So it’s irrelevant because it contradicts your point. Shocking!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:12 AM
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Fair point, but men are easy to please because they appreciate women as a sex. Be pleasant, be available, and don’t be obese. There ya go! As a matter of fact, that last one is so important that a recent glp 1 study showed that an absurdly high number of women who took them ended up partnered within the next year I believe. It ain’t hard, ladies!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:12 AM
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There’s no “should” here. It’s about consistency. Especially if they value honesty and transparency. I am willing to and have shared anything women want to know about my past. It’s only ever served as a bonus for me, despite how women say that men with experience are bad (go figure). Also, dating and sex history is 100% important because it’s going to provide valuable insight as to what to expect/how you are seen by the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:08 AM
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This is shifting the goalpost.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:05 AM
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I think they’d omit the information. Hell, even the way women describe past experiences with men gets retconned as soon as they need to settle down. hookups become not serious enough to mention, situationships become relationships because it sounds like she developed some relationship skills, and all of them ended because “men bad”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:15 PM
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Wise words. But as I said to the other poster, what I posit provides men actionable agency in dating which is not allowed 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:13 PM
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Women don’t have situationships for the same reason men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:12 PM
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I think most would agree that’s almost as delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:48 PM
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None of this is lying or changing who you are. Giving someone the MOST good faith by being open to them until you aren’t isn’t deceitful at all. Otherwise, every ick story you’ve ever heard from a woman is tantamount to manipulation and lying by your standards. Every person is allowed to at some point say “hey, this was nice but I’m actually not cool with this anymore”. It’s called being an adult. Frankly, if we are about openness and honesty, people should have no problem with this because peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:44 PM
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You’d be amazed how often women “agree” to this and then a few months later act like you rug pulled her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:22 PM
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I’d actually say it’s as favorable of an opportunity men can possibly give women by being confident in them and that they might match what they are looking for. That’s dating, dude 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:18 PM
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Then explain to me this innumerable amount of women who are bamboozled by guys who won’t commit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:17 PM
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Then I’d agree, but I’d say you’re naive in terms of how honest most women are about their experiences. As I’ve been told, verbatim, by countless women I’ve known intimately who were more than willing to be transparent and honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:13 PM
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The reason I’m getting downvoted and no valid pushback has been levied is because women understand that they need to be as covert as possibly, otherwise without that they’d be at a major disadvantage. Which is funny when they say they want openness and honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:58 PM
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It’s not faking. It’s giving someone the space to outwardly open and honest, and then making a decision from there. Your post implies women are inherently deceitful btw, or else they’d just flat out tell you it all from the jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:57 PM
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Got up to 6 at one point. So women are liars? I mean, sure, I’m good with that take.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:51 PM
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Sure thing! Doesn’t play out that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:50 PM
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“Husband material” embodied.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:52 PM
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Fellas, this is why being as non judgmental and welcoming as possible early on is key so you figure out what they are about. Then act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:51 PM
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It’s not really open, these women were exclusive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:02 PM
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Tech has opened the world of men to women. Before, it was far more localized. Hypergamy is contextual. A good comp is the hot woman at work for men. She could be as mid as they come, but if the rest are wildebeests then the perception changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:42 PM
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This is all contingent on modern tech.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:29 PM
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I disagree based on the discourse today. I see a lot of late 20s early 30s lamenting the fact men they are dating or wanna date love the party life so much still.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:11 PM
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Girls just wanna have fun, Lil
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:10 PM
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Dude, I’m talking about pre industrial evolution. Big headed babies theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:35 PM
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I have a lot of friends that work in the industry so a lot of bars and after hours clubs. Not a drug guy, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:34 PM
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By this definition, most women are bad women in your estimation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:33 PM
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Polarity would like a word with you. Were some just as wild as I? Sure. But about 70% were pretty modest women up until meeting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:17 PM
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Laws of nature did a lot of this pre magical tech
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:36 PM
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My wife was at her sister’s bachelorette for a few days this past weekend with her mom and aunts, so it was myself and my 6 month old son together for 3 days. During that time, I didn’t text her really at all other than a pic here or there. Overall, the weekend was awesome and we had a great time. Few fusses here and there but he’s a baby, what ya gonna do. She gets home and the very next day on my ride to work three texts about him being fussy with breakfast. Truly funny stuff 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:34 PM
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Women literally reward those guys the most. I was a major degenerate on my off time when I was in my later 20s. Funny enough, that’s the time I had the most women (who varied INCREDIBLY in terms of age, personality, status) who were willing to sign up and date me while I was openly non exclusive. So, maybe reward different behavior? Idk what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:28 PM
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Being a quasi psycho is some of the best game out there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:27 PM
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I think it acknowledges the nature of reality, which would imply that reality is inherently conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:14 PM
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The person they cohabitate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:46 PM
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The UK
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:45 PM
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This would imply that there are “good women” who treat everyone well no matter the stimuli and “bad women” who treat everyone bad no matter the stimuli. Sure, there are differences in terms of looks, upbringing, demo, career, but the operating system is pretty much the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:33 PM
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The fact that the law may begin to legislate that unmarried folks have to split assets is beyond a tell that women’s goal is to police any and all sexuality of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:31 PM
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I’m all for it!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:28 PM
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That kind of shows that marriage is pointless, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:28 PM
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This is great and all until you realize that this standard for “peace” changes over time and indiscriminately. That’s my entire point. A woman could enthusiastically say “yes I’ll always want sex with my husband, duh” and then boom menopause happens and her hormones turn her into a different person. This is why a lot of communication is bullshit. Especially in the “affirm everything women say and do” era we are in where a guy being like “wtf this isn’t what we agreed to” would be seen as the bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:40 PM
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I’d say it’s responsible for medical purposes, such as genetic testing too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:34 PM
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Women want to act like they are not slaves to their biology. Try to talk to a woman about PMS/their cycle, menopause, or getting on HRT to fix some of those issues. They act like you murdered their puppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:38 PM
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This gives the totality of responsibility for pregnancy and getting pregnant to women. Oh boy. Nice argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:36 PM
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You are, unknowingly, proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:32 PM
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He sounds retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:32 PM
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Doesn’t absolute trust entail absolute transparency?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:31 PM
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How is this all that different than the government giving women the okay to merc their kids under the guise of “well if we legalize it then we don’t have to feel that bad about nuking the kid”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:31 PM
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Well, let’s take these one at a time: women are more prone to group think and manipulation than men. A lot of your post falls into the propaganda machine women have swallowed hook, line, and sinker in a world (specifically, first world) that is safer than ever in recorded history. the line of thinking of your points regarding danger women experience falls under the umbrella of women and men being inherently unequal. I’m all for embracing these viewpoints if we will then also adopt the requisite,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:16 AM
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It seems the reason this is even controversial today is that we live in a world obsessed with “redefining” everything, especially women in order to maximize both ends of hypergamy. Marriage is 100% a romantic endeavor and commitment, which entails sex. How do I know this? Because fidelity is stressed so harshly. No sex = no fidelity to protect. It’s pretty simple. And I can almost guarantee sex was a major facet of these relationships at some point for both folks (hopefully so) which only enhanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:58 AM
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No, that’s how human beings, good and bad, operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:48 AM
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In an ideal world, this is true. But the current environment gives much of the relational power to women, therefore enabling worse behavior naturally on their end.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:51 PM
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I didn’t say that at all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:49 PM
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It does actually since behavior is a big indicator of good v bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:49 PM
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I never said they didn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:29 PM
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Did I say my only dealings with women have been bad? 😂 what? I’ve encountered some who acted up more than others, but without fail the intentional withdrawal of my attention upon such behavior always resulted in a course correction on their end.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:10 PM
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You’re kind of affirming my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:08 PM
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Define a “good woman”. My experience is women will act as shitty as you permit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:16 PM
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No guy would prefer to end up there. A better way to look at it would be how the woman failed her half of the relationship for her husband to consider that a viable option then, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:11 AM
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I gave you the sorted data, wanna actually engage with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:25 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:24 PM
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It’s a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:24 PM
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Places like married red pill wouldn’t exist if women in those marriages helped cultivate a relationship and environment that didn’t result in men having to seek alternative solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:38 PM
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That’s actually incredibly untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:32 PM
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I’m not really concerned with the third world dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:28 PM
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https://x.com/lymanstoneky/status/2066564887820554424?s=46&t=-QVWH5TYqCMz34HCmPLO-Q
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:27 PM
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I think we can acknowledge we don’t live in the 1950s anymore. Metrics are showing men do more overall work than women today. The complaint from women is more of a skill issue than anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:01 PM
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Most metrics are actually showing men are doing more overall work now than women. So I guess it’s inverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:00 PM
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You didn’t understand my post. She’s going to get old and get thrown into some state run facility, likely will get the Canada treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:35 PM
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Yeah, I don’t really buy that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:34 PM
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Enjoy your state sanctioned self deletion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:43 AM
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Holy bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:43 AM
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This is why manufactured outrage works so well. You meet them where they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:58 AM
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Women routinely divorce men they begin to outearn. I don’t make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:57 AM
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It would just make you a pretty typical woman I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:57 AM
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The opportunity is equal. Not taking it is a skill issue. And these are homes where both parents work. Split duties. I’d also say if you have no interest in hanging out with your spouse, that’s also a personal failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:55 AM
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The underlying message here is that unfamiliarity breeds attraction, which would signal to men they should be less present, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:54 AM
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Read the posts. It’s tongue in cheek.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:53 AM
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This paints men in a much better light.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:38 AM
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Dude, I said it goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:38 AM
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Fair. Likely why it’s good to wait a few years to see what’s behind the mask.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:28 PM
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Who is they?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:08 PM
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Seems accurate. These guys also tend to rely a lot on logic when arguing with their wives. A recipe for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:08 PM
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Fair, but I know these guys pretty well. One such example was we went out as couples for a guy’s birthday. My now wife didn’t know him or his wife super well. His wife was so ambivalent about being there my wife thought another woman there was actually his spouse. Fucking odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:34 PM
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😂 fair enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:32 PM
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Honest, good faith question for all: There are numerous married guys I know who are very active fathers who get shit from their wives every time they want to do something, from going to the gym, to golfing, to going out for drinks. These same guys will encourage their wives to either come out with them or go do things on their own (which is a display of fairness both ways) and the majority decline. wtf is up with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:25 PM
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Pretty spot on assessment. Some of these comments are borderline horrific. Almost a self own that they raised their kids poorly and rather than acknowledging it wanna nuke them from existence. One comment stating how they are upset their kids will never be grateful enough for what they did from them. It’s like holy fuck dude. Also, these people forget that unless you want the state basically torturing you the last 15-20 years of your life, raising a good kid/kids is insurance against that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:07 PM
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It’s better to work off the system and abuse it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:13 PM
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Isn’t that a tell that you aren’t capable of choosing a good man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:13 PM
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Get ready to hear the rinse and repeat narrative our current culture slop has pushed down their throats. And any woman who speaks fondly of having kids will be shit on or passed aside as being lazy because it makes the others look bad. The more I listen to modern women talk about this stuff, the more it makes sense why things were the way they were. Society (human flourishing) can only exist within the duties humans have to future humans. Women are highly averse to this when they are in a coddle…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:13 PM
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Fucking bleak. Shows how the culture influences folks like osmosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:10 PM
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I lived in an up and coming part of a major city for about 8 years. I have a lot of friends who work in the industry so I would frequent local bars and restaurants, social gatherings quite a bit. One such example was I was out watching a playoff game with buddies and there was a group of Brazilians there. One of them came up to me and said their friend thought I was cute, she was a smokeshow. I thought they were fucking with me, but went over anyways to see what was up. They were, in fact, not f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:09 PM
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This is rooted in biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:22 PM
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A lot of guys would be well served to figure out if their dead bedrooms are a result of if it’s their wife that’s not wanting to fuck them or if it’s any woman that’s not wanting to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:05 PM
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I think revenge for the sake of revenge is okay. Using it to solve some other validation problem, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:02 PM
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This is actually a pretty good point and it’s why most of the men who came into my network, despite wanting LTRs, were nowhere near ready for them. Men, in particular, need to have their shit together, not in the boring sense, but in the “this is my life, these are the things I enjoy, this is where I’m going.” It may not seem congruous, but it’s akin to the “what do you want for dinner” BS men deal with. It’s better to be able to lead and have a vision for you life so that if (as many women do) …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:00 PM
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Oh, idk, murder 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:54 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:54 AM
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Again, you mistake stigma for something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:38 AM
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Should mercing a kid be? 😂 that ain’t stigma
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:07 PM
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Well, that’s a pretty scenario mate. Apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:21 PM
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I think its immorality is something separate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:20 PM
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36, 0, I’m married Yet despite wearing my ring, I still get approached. Particularly at the gym. Odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:32 PM
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Gotta get her on HRT.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:31 PM
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They are celebrated 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:09 PM
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It’s rare a man is going to do both of those things. Crying has little to no utility, so if he chooses that course of action then he’s unlikely to do the latter and take anything meaningful away or understand his emotions. He’ll just emote to emote (which is what women do).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:04 PM
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If I’m getting what I want, which is getting laid and a better life, what does any of that have to do with validation? Just because you define it that way doesn’t make it so 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:54 PM
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I know of very few men who went route A and got laid as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:53 PM
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Because that’s not how life usually works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:52 PM
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It’s not about validation, it’s about outcomes. Take a scenario where a man is sad. option A: he cries to his wife about his problems. option B: he understands why he is sad and uses this as fuel to change his life/circumstances. Which one is more likely to get him laid and establish a better life?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:08 PM
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That would be great if that liberation was actually rewarded by women, but it’s not. When men attempt to emote like women, that’s how you get a school shooter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:42 PM
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A lot of this current crisis is a result of the decades long effort to acculturate men as defective women. Therefore, men do buy into the “we suffer in silence” mantra and those who do choose to emote like women end up doing crazy stuff like self deletion, targeting a school, or becoming a transformer. Men are better attuned to understand their emotions and channel them into action rather than yapping about them like women. The latter has zero/negative utility while the former actual builds a fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:49 PM
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This seems to be a goalpost that’s moved depending on the victimhood narrative being preached. I hear women say that men’s beauty standards are too much all the time. Yet they have none at all at the same time? Huh? The fact is, men are the more romantic sex and are much more accepting of women because that’s our biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:20 AM
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This is precisely what I’m talking about. Fictionalizing catastrophe. Super woman coded. FYI, these are summer months I’m describing right now so both kids are home. Not everyday is a carbon copy, but I’ve spent days with him and his kids. It’s super chill. Mopping, vacuuming, and laundry aren’t daily activities 😂 what world do you live in or how messy are you? And as I said, the mom’s job is low stress. It’s marketing for a small business, she doesn’t even have to work if she doesn’t want to. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:50 PM
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Women self report it. Don’t hate the player. It’s also scientifically proven women rank far higher in trait neuroticism
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:54 PM
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Dude, everyone contributes at home today to some degree. SAHM routinely throw the kids at the husband the second he comes home from work and go off to do other stuff. Touch some grass, talk to some folks. Housework is not hard. It’s why third worlders come to modernized countries to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:53 PM
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Third worlder work is not hard. Hence its moniker. You women envision everything as some crisis when it’s really “run the dishwasher”. Get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:54 AM
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The major tasks like meal prep and the morning routine are finished. Of course you have to keep them occupied, the park, swim club, learning activities, etc., but that stuff is fun if you’re an involved parent and give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:53 AM
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No one fully does all the housework, even SAHM for sure don’t, but let’s be honest, women create more work than is necessary. It’s their nature. They self report as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:51 AM
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I have an infant, dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:50 AM
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Neither do SAHM by this metric because they can’t finance their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:44 PM
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Neither of those things are a big deal for a mature adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:43 PM
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I have a 6 month old. I’d put my record as a dad up against anyone. It ain’t hard. Again, just observations, no value judgements.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:43 PM
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3 and 6 for the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:41 PM
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They meal prep so most of that is done, their kids are super neat (raised well) and contribute to chores, but their wives have jobs that aren’t that serious and are home by 3/4 who assist with things at home. Mind you, these guys have already earned a ton of money and can live of their investments in their late 30s/early 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:54 PM
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You know you can train kids to be neat, clean up after themselves, dish washers exist, they can complete chores with you, run around outside, play with toys, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:50 PM
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It’s not if you’re an organized parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:47 PM
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They aren’t insults. They are observations. Their kids are put to work and knew how to perform third worlder tasks by 4. Homes that are clean and organized don’t need much when the kids have been raised correct and know how to maintain order. They meal prep for the week but cooking is not time consuming if you are actually skilled (I have an infant and cook all the time). Both have wives who work but are moreso hobby jobs that aren’t super serious, so it’s zero added stress. The one who still co…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:47 PM
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Welcome to the neurotic mind of women, ladies and gents. I have two buddies who are SAHD because they either early retired or consult and have a very limited role now with the company they were with. These guys live the dream. Most stuff is done by 11 am, after that it’s the park/learning activities/fun stuff. Women create work/ don’t finish tasks and let them pile up and then call it “more work”. No, you’re just bad at knocking out the tasks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:19 AM
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Many women cosplay as the shitty versions of the men they want and then get big mad that men don’t want that. It’s odd. I think you’re wrong in that women will only act as shitty as you allow them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:00 AM
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I use data and women’s behavior as my metric. I think that’s better than my feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:58 AM
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Those correlate with modernity and changes in how crime can be tracked and monitored too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:51 PM
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Yes, they go berserk usually. Lots of booze and SSRIs. Cats too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:51 PM
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Making your experience the only valuable piece of information in your decision making process. Very woman coded
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:50 PM
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Ever heard of mature adults?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:50 PM
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Because boys and girls have innate proclivities from the jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:47 PM
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Sure, but that’s not the point. Majority of young women start out skewed liberal when young. Those same women that get married and have kids move right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:46 PM
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The data held even with this past election. You could argue age only adds to my point of them attaining more wisdom and real world knowledge. Having kids and being married seem to be the real dagger though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:41 PM
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Women have the ability to express unfettered hypergamy by a culture that feeds them the idea that their sexuality and value are evergreen. They believe it until it doesn’t work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:39 PM
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People retcon decisions so they don’t seem stupid after the fact? Get outta here!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:36 PM
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Thanks for doing the meme. And women are far more susceptible to social contagion. Your experience actually helps my point in that regard. But also I said have kids and be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:35 PM
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This ain’t the 1950s. Men are shut ins today.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:33 PM
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That’s a failure on the parents end to be adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:33 PM
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https://ifstudies.org/blog/new-study-finds-lasting-effects-of-divorce-on-kids Yeah it’s bigger than that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:33 PM
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I’m talking about when raising kids. And I have no issue with child free folks, but I think they need to be more heavily taxed/need a bigger societal net contribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:32 PM
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Women divorce for literally the dumbest, tik tok brained reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:30 PM
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No fault. It’s in the name.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:00 PM
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Women and their kids fair far worse post divorce, per women in this sub. So if you want your kids to suffer, go for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:00 PM
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Because it helps to realize the world doesn’t operate on utopian ideals and there are stark gender differences worth adhering to for proper development.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:56 PM
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No fault divorce kinda disproves that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:55 PM
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They are notorious for impulsively bad decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:55 PM
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The political leanings of women with kids and married versus those with neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:52 PM
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Women are strongly tied to whatever the predominant cultural influence is surrounding them (see: how divorce permeates like a virus in women friend groups aka crabs in a bucket). Kids or no kids doesn’t change that proclivity. However a lot of data does show that kids and a family is a powerful influence in bringing women back to reality, even the most radicalized ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:23 PM
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Hasn’t been my experience! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:09 PM
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In a marriage, yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:41 PM
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True. Holding someone’s fidelity hostage is probably more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:07 AM
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Unilaterally removing intimacy from a relationship is equivalent to cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:05 AM
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Buzzfeed has been known as fake slop for over a decade now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:02 AM
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Women have autonomy, you know 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:59 AM
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Women marry men they don’t, then they pay the consequences. Almost half of relationships I’d say. Sad stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:12 PM
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That’s a convenient reframe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:11 PM
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Sure, barring a crazy circumstance. Neither should do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:11 PM
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First one sounds like men behaving as defective women. Second sounds like what many women I know describe sex as too. Third one may be crass but women describe their past sexual experiences (even consensual ones) as traumas, so I guess it’s not a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:09 PM
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You won’t bring back anything if they’ve unilaterally turned you down for good. Or is your presumption That getting it elsewhere would turn around their desire? Because that? I have seen work quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:07 PM
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Marriage complicates that due to the predatory nature of the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:06 PM
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Sure, get her hormonal replacement therapy. Works wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:06 PM
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Men do more work overall than women including the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:05 PM
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A) that’s not data B) they are in that sub because they sucked beforehand. Likely didnt get their shit together and wanted some validation. I’ve seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:04 PM
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I have friends who work in family law and are high profile. I’d take their word and experience over your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:59 PM
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There’s literal data (self reported by women) that verify what I’m sayin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:58 PM
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Again, in terms of pregnancy, I’m not talking about obscure events. Those times are few and far between. I have a child younger than one now. We’ve navigated it out fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:57 PM
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They should update the laws so that they match the current standard then. There’s nothing wrong with a covenant marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:56 PM
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Therapy and talking don’t change desire Also, I’m not talking about end of bell curve events.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:10 PM
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The tax break convo is antiquated. It’s government protection for women to fuck over men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:01 PM
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Taking sex off the table unilaterally is equally atrocious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:00 PM
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The funny thing is, put women on testosterone and they start saying how they have no idea how men go about their days feeling the way they do. And that’s still with a fraction of what men function with in them 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:49 PM
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The problem here is that freedom, in general, is a privilege we are all so lucky to be inundated in that we cannot imagine true survival. In your scenario, you assume that these folks will get old and die. You’re going to need offspring and as many as possible to care for the older aging parents and continue on whatever is established. The overall point being, in order for human flourishing to occur you actually need humans. If you believe in modern science and evolution, you’d know that a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:43 PM
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Hypergamy, pretty simple. Sperm is cheap, eggs are expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:38 PM
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Buzzfeed is a really unreliable publication.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:37 PM
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Gonna be unpopular, but I feel similarly with fidelity. The person you’re with decides sex isn’t for them anymore? Cool, don’t talk about it, go do your thing, you don’t owe them an explanation or to let them know. Before you say it’s different, this all falls under the umbrella of “honesty” and how people pick and choose about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:36 PM
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Care to share the overwhelming demos that bother you a lot? Jk, we know 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:34 PM
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More women are mentally ill than likely ever in recorded history (they also heavily skew liberal in that demographic). Anyways, that said a woman who is with an RP dude likely won’t know it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:24 PM
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So it’s unknowable. How insightful
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:23 PM
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Data?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:23 PM
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The data is out on this, those are antiquated beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:22 PM
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So modern marriage is nonsensical? Cool! Just be together then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:22 PM
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True true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:21 PM
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That’s not marriage 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:43 PM
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Negative; those have lots of bangin and clangin!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:43 PM
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Women actively choose who they marry and fuck for the rest of their lives and still mess up that choice because they don’t wanna fuck their husbands (again, who THEY PICKED). Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:43 PM
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Unfortunately, that’s kind of what modern marriage has become anyways, except women don’t even want the sex part anymore 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:00 PM
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men do more overall work as it stands
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:51 PM
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men do more overall work as it stands
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:50 PM
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You sound like you’re pretty bad at picking men. Anyways, guys are gonna adhere to what women like because that’s what they claim they want. So should men listen to women or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:45 PM
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There’s feminist, in the literal sense, where women can choose what they wanna do and live with the consequences (sounds like grandma), and there’s feminist in the modernized sense which is just cracked out gynocentrism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:32 PM
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I’m telling you that women, instinctually, do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:30 PM
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Because feminism told women the could be anything, and they chose the unkempt, unskilled, drunk, boomer esque dads they’d been indoctrinated about. It’s honestly a weird contortion of women’s envy of men and it being the true basis of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:08 PM
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They want to keep the man they love nourished in all regards. The same woman also took me out and paid for an expensive dinner, so by any means necessary 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:05 PM
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I’m not even trad dude. Prime example. Years ago a hot young woman started working with me. Started bringing me coffee, lunch, leftovers, helping me out, all unprovoked. When the relationship I was in at the time ended, she got my number from another coworker and revealed all kinds of crazy thoughts about me. So… yah.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:32 PM
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Can’t let these young dudes get slaughtered out there. It’s also entertaining. I have a pretty large network of guys in my own life who I assist/have assisted, but this is for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:11 PM
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Most young women today are defective versions of what they envision men to be. Unkempt, unskilled slobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:09 PM
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More proof that women’s brains are cooked. Women will show love through nurturing and acts. They almost can’t help themselves. Women who don’t get this are showing they’ve never actually experienced love for a man. Sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:08 PM
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Women only behave as shitty as you let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:48 PM
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Observing the process changes the process. I don’t think you need to address shit. I think you can give yourself the freedom to love on your very pregnant wife without concern about losing frame. I mean, if you do love and her and want to show it, who gives a shit? You’re getting what you want. Just be ready for when the next storm comes.
/r/askMRP16/06/26 12:29 PM
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You right, but also, look where you’re posting 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:32 AM
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You gotta know who to follow. It’s not all location India if you’re careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:15 AM
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The veracity with which wives don’t want to fuck their husbands in this current X battle verifiably proves how they knowingly marry unfuckable guys. What a self own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:36 PM
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For sure. Only being a dick because I’ve been there. Wife was a few months pregnant with our first, huge shit storm appeared out of nowhere with her saying the craziest things. Like a jackass, I engaged thinking I could somehow manipulate the situation and took it personally. Took a few days to blow over, but realized where I had fucked up. Couple months later, similar shit happens, add in she was very pregnant and feeling like shit about her body and things are ready to pop off. I softened it u…
/r/askMRP15/06/26 11:13 PM
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She’s being emotional. Her feelings aren’t real. As a matter of fact, her hormones have her saying anything and everything on a whim. You taking it seriously will only validate them for her. Not only that, but when she is regulated and can look back and see she was being fucking crazy she’ll see that you weren’t able to handle and lead her out of it, which actually will give her stupid ass behavior staying power. So what she hurt your fee fees. Be the adult in the relationship when she needs you…
/r/askMRP15/06/26 09:38 PM
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This is gold.
/r/askMRP15/06/26 09:33 PM
2

This is why I moved away at 18 and built my life elsewhere. Can’t light yourself on fire to keep others warm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:26 PM
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Add “right now” to anything she says, jackass. You can’t handle your woman getting emotional when she’s about to pop and has been watching your kid for you alone? Okay bro. I’m not saying be a bitch, but you’re acting like one.
/r/askMRP15/06/26 08:24 PM
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So…. Your wife is super pregnant with a 1 year old, she’s been alone with the kid for some time, and you can’t bring yourself to provide comfort the absolute singular time it’s necessary? Sure, dread away. NGMI.
/r/askMRP15/06/26 08:05 PM
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See, that’s healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:26 PM
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A reason you didn’t list is for men to see that porn can be pretty tame in comparison to a random girl that really wants you. Basically, you get a real look at desire versus the negotiated desire most men settle for not knowing the difference between.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:45 PM
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Welcome to Hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:44 PM
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I think many women are unable to differentiate between a man legitimately saying no to her and the rage baiting you speak of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:43 PM
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I think there’s a difference between flirting in a bantering way versus legitimate rage baiting. That said, rage baiting would be being a pushover.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:42 PM
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The only quasi examples of this I’ve seen in real life are: A) wife is already cheating, explains the dynamic well B) the man is way more attractive than the wife so she needs to navigate the gap. C) you get a glimpse into the woman’s life who is claiming this and see that she’s really just a cold hearted bitch whose husband would never be able to satisfy her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:41 PM
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Not really the physical part, but there’s one woman in particular I dated who I thought a lot of. She was a beautiful mid, as the kids say today, great heart, good family, could play the piano really well and sing (I also play/write music, and sing), similar profession, all that shit. Was really reserved but once we were alone she pretty much said “what are you waiting for” and it was on. Here was the catch. Her pussy tasted like ground beef. It wasn’t awful, it wasn’t enough to completely turn …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:06 PM
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What I’ve found time and time again is that women are turned on (or at least enjoy) a guy who is not a coward and won’t be afraid to push boundaries with her. Now I know this will open the stampede of folks that will take the narrative all the way to things like abuse, which I’m clearly not talking about, but women enjoy a bit of indignation. It’s why they love the drama content, whether it be books, tv, movies, social media, they do. Yet if you ask them point blank, they’ll try to deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:01 PM
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These scenarios are incredibly rare and usually folklore of women concocting or buying into the divorce porn that’s rampant around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:59 PM
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Take the two relationship scenarios below: scenario A: the man adheres to all of his woman’s needs being very aware of her emotions and never causing fights. They get along and are “happy” but in an incredibly mild sense that there are never any glaring problems since the man is sure not to trigger any. They have sex roughly once a month and it’s very run of the mill. scenario b: the man understands his woman’s needs but is willing and able to say no when necessary, even if it pisses her off or …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 11:33 AM
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Because there’s a dominance element to sex they both psychologically and physically crave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 11:19 AM
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Actually, this kind of affirms it, because if you met your ideal guy he’d be the outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 11:17 AM
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You can sit there and say “no shit” but the lion’s share of people don’t behave this way and it’s why subs like this exist. I’ll be clearer. It was made obvious that I was fun while having my shit together, but also didn’t need them. Women will go a long way if they feel as though they have something worth working for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:00 AM
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Those aren’t superficial, in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:58 AM
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Well, for starters, my encapsulation of being happily married would be that my wife is getting what she wants too, which she is. LTRs are game on hard mode so prior to getting married (also worth noting I’m anti marriage, my wife is well aware, but I was willing to give it a go one time and it’s the best way to raise kids) there were definitely things I had to overcome, but the fact is at the end of the day there is one leader in the relationship whether you want to acknowledge it or not and wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:10 PM
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Then why do men choose women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:43 PM
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It’s not my fault that women never upgrade from an adolescent social skillset.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:37 PM
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This is more obfuscating. You can do everything a woman tells you to and still not win, because observing the process changes the process. They want a guy to “just get it”. Listening to her is a part of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:21 PM
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Of which I’m a huge fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:37 PM
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Be attractive, don’t be unattractive. To put it succinctly. Works wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:36 PM
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I am happily married with a family and have a life where I do the things I wanna do 😂 tell me, how have I lost?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:36 PM
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Biology, lady. Stronger genetics that are likely to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:24 PM
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That’s not all though, right? It’s the “everything is unknowable and different “ argument women use to shield from uncomfortable info about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:24 PM
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Biology does what it’s going to do. A lot of women actually love dangerous men, so you tell me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:18 PM
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Some wanted kids and marriage but were willing to try and wait it out with me, others didn’t but then wanted to try to lock me down numerous times. Women’s preferences will generally flow towards the man they want most nearest to them. I don’t make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:15 PM
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If a man loses a woman they always state he should’ve been nicer and more adherent to their needs. I’d get off Reddit and navigate the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:13 PM
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Women say men are dangerous all the time. I agree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:12 PM
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It stinks, but you’re right. By the time I even found out what “red pill content” was, I already knew because I had figured it out through trial, error, and a ton of replication of success. Women have to shit test over it because they don’t want to risk a dude who’s actually a bitch playing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:11 PM
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“You didn’t listen right!” Kinda proof positive it’s bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:09 PM
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This is a common retort to the argument that fails when you consider: they were different ages spanning 25 years differing backgrounds differing cultures differing values differing height and body type differing interests Yet operated relatively the same at the end of the day to specific stimuli and (since many new about one another because I was open about being non exclusive) would say they were vastly different from each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:08 PM
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I’m not talking about singular experiences though. I’m talking about replicate-able ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:05 PM
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Women say men are dangerous all the time. I agree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:04 PM
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Women do this odd thing where they take an observation they don’t like and try to discredit it through some of the most retarded, hyperbolic scenarios imaginable. Your argument is similar to saying you can’t call men more dangerous than women because you haven’t met every man. Let’s not be obtuse here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:03 PM
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Get through 50, and you still realize they aren’t all that different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:28 PM
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Honest question: If I listened to women, and ended up with brutal results… But then stopped listening to them, and had incredible success and happiness… Which one should I trust?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:27 PM
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It’s how you get legitimate authoritarianism, not the fake fear mongering shit talked about today.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:31 AM
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Few things: after hooking up with plenty of women they will easily let their guard down (especially if you’re intentionally non judgmental to figure out what the are about) and you will hear the goofy ass reasons they disqualify men as nauseam. The 2/3rds rule is effective for guys because a woman that wants to get with you won’t mess around about it. negging basically means banter and game. No one is straight up slut shaming a woman on date in hopes of getting laid. Back handed compliments and …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:05 PM
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You realize that hypergamy is not hard and fast rule that applies equally to everyone, correct? There are factors beyond looks, money, and status like game and frame. Also the woman’s past factors in a lot!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:57 PM
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Didn’t last, did it? You also said asshole. Don’t play games, you gave a bad example, you can own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:37 AM
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I moreso meant that sexually appealing men are almost automatically deemed good by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:36 AM
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Doesn’t sound ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:04 PM
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Subjectivity is doing a lot of heavy lifting for you here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:54 AM
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They statistically produce the most normal folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:53 AM
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Most people who have families share similar values.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:52 AM
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The “nothing is knowable” argument tends to only come out when there is no argument to be made. People often don’t change all that much, women possibly a bit more because of their weakness for propaganda, but by and large what I said holds. As a matter of fact, it was supporting your comment about how people are able to last in LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:40 AM
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Weird people hate normal folks. News at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:38 AM
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It’s actually a deadly sin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:37 AM
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Isn’t this because patriarchy is the default, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:32 AM
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Once you see that women would rather you be an asshole to her than confused about how to handle their behavior, there’s no going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:32 AM
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I think you might have that backwards 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:30 AM
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If a woman married her ideal, things tend to go pretty swimmingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:29 AM
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Well, they typically do. It just, quite conveniently, seems to happen around the same time for a lot of women when it looks like the chips are down and they are ready to give a good guy a chance. And I say this as the opposite of that dude who saw the wilder side of women for years. You listen to them talk, describe these guys, then you later see them marry them, you begin to piece it together. And yet, happy ending and all, they are still stalking my social media. Go figure!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:28 AM
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Few things: common sense changes to family law to correspond to how times have changed are long overdue. As it stands now, marriage is an unconscionable contract for men, but both men and women want families and marriage is statistically the best way to have decent one. So that needs shifted. women were told they could be whatever they wanted and they chose to become defective men. Seems like envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:24 AM
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I think both parents should have a right to the info.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:21 PM
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Yeah, you don’t understand how men bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:56 PM
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By this metric, all women should be cool signing prenups because she should just trust him. And in this case, you know, fathering a child, the consequences are far more severe. But again, this should all be done anyways as a requirement for the birth certificate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:53 PM
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This is basically marketing for the government knowing better for someone’s kids than their parents. Can’t make this shit up. Though I do agree with you about a subset of modern parents being loony, I mean look at how many turn their kids into transformers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:51 PM
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That’s a goalpost move
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:47 PM
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lol not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:38 PM
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Men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:38 PM
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It’s happened, but the fact is equality means we don’t have to agree with each others way of being.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:36 PM
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You’re right, he should be smart and do the dna test on the DL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:08 PM
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Great, I’d say that’s better than the experience the woman is lamenting in her post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:57 PM
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Because of the influx of third worlders? That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:56 PM
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Yeah, I’m not really concerned with third worlders dude. I’m talking about modernized society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:55 PM
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Explain what “often” means?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:54 PM
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I’m speaking in the context of modernized society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:33 PM
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What a weird way to view the world. No autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:21 PM
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You’re either lying or consume outlier media. Especially in Canada, which is going to shit quicker than the ones in the middle of the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:20 PM
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What are you even talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:19 PM
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They are more reliable than strangers, by and large.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:19 PM
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Thanks for the non sequitur.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:19 PM
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That’s your framing, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:18 PM
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That’s the exact problem, which the poster is clearly highlighting 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:18 PM
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Parents would be far more involved in who got together/dated. Which should already be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:18 PM
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Which is why the base family foundation is so important, which I wouldn’t be shocked if your mom had issues with too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:16 PM
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Kinda my point. Again, sorry to hear you went through that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:16 PM
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Or… she doesn’t go with that guy in the first place because there are mothers to help vet said dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:42 PM
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Those still aren’t serious relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:41 PM
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Makes a lot of sense you’d compare to that specific culture 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:41 PM
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Makes a lot of sense. Again, sorry to hear that. My family sucks dick as well, but you choose what to make of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:40 PM
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Playa play!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:40 PM
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You did read the duration of these “relationships” when she was a teen right? That shit ain’t long. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:10 AM
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That wasn’t even my point. And I assumed you’d go that route, and that’s fine because you lived it, but normally there would be other folks vetting these guys (namely, your father or parents) prior to all of this and sex not being something you do so early on. Especially at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:09 AM
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Society and culture has done nothing but reinforce the opposite for decades now. If anything, it’s women biological imperatives that are natural keeping them engaged in trying to fight through it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:03 AM
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The more you hear stories like these, the more it makes sense promiscuity was shamed out of most of society. That’s not an attack on you, btw. Sorry to hear you went through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:01 AM
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Would “indiscriminate dick taker” be better for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:00 AM
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Yep, literally had it happen in my comment on this thread. They are incapable of parsing information from what they intentionally misconstrue as personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:59 AM
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There are more than enough gays who constantly hate and lament the “heteronormativity” of society, so welcome to equality ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:58 AM
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Having boundaries is shaming now? Whamen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:36 PM
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You are correct
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:35 PM
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I’ve seen women do this far more than men. FYI, saying that you wouldn’t want to date a ran through woman isn’t slut shaming, but just about any observation of women suffices for that today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:51 PM
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In my friend group, I think we’ve all taken turns being the lovable jackass. Congrats on of understanding men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:50 PM
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I’m almost positive the first “incel” to ever incel was a guy who posted something just a tad bit too harsh while also funny about women. Funny how that works, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:45 PM
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That’s a lot of verbal diarrhea that doesn’t address the point. And higher body count correlates to less neuroticism? Do you/have you dated a lot of women? No wonder we are in the midst of a replication crisis with clearly wrong data sets like that 😂 As nonsensical as the post is, I’m glad you made it because if highlights even more cognitive dissonance amongst women. Sex is incredibly easy for women to attain. I think anyone arguing that might need a chromosome check. So to have a high n count …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:36 PM
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A woman with a high body count has shown she can’t keep a man around. That is a clear demonstration of a lack of relationship skills. I didn’t say you needed to be a zero, fyi.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:14 AM
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It’s related in that all women definitely are not simply interchangeable and things such as their past 100% matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:52 AM
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This is why things that affect women’s relationship skills like bodycount are so important.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:35 PM
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I think the rule is for the socially retarded folk. But pushing messages along to get to a first meet ASAP was also always a solid move.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:34 PM
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Like a lot of RP advice, it’s designed to reach the top of the tism spectrum of dummies. Basically, you’re right in a perfect world, but you also have to account for: some men literally cannot stop themselves, so giving a less than equal amount makes it a bit clearer. a lot of women still treat equal energy early on as clingy despite it not being so. a woman going out of her way to message you a lot early on is about as clear of a runway to you being good as it’s gonna get for you not to waste y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:02 PM
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I think it’s less that and moreso that a lot of women with the way the attention distribution is set up women default to seeing a lot of men who don’t really give too many shits about them as a display of higher value.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:45 PM
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You give women back 2/3rds of the communication she gives you, especially early on. Avoids appearing clingy/overinvested/ kind of an anti early ick defense. But also, you should have better shit to do than text this woman nonstop.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:44 PM
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There’s a reason the 2/3rds rule is so effective early on, especially when you’re trying to gauge the desire of the woman you’re talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:38 PM
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You’re right. Taking hormones have no effect on us at all! Oooookay!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:32 AM
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It wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:01 PM
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Great, the outlier proves the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:01 PM
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Where’s the family?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:00 PM
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The differences are a pretty big deal https://x.com/degenrolf/status/2061672503517258031?s=46&t=-QVWH5TYqCMz34HCmPLO-Q
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:47 PM
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Great idea to pass the time until you find someone you actually wanna be with. Make sure you date non exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:11 AM
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If a guy takes care of himself, no one cares because he can pass for being younger. It’s that women assume it’s a slob in his 40s kidnapping some 20 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:11 AM
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Unfortunately, your average dude has met many of this exact woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:10 AM
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I’d argue that a committed relationship would be just as silly under your own guidelines, but it’s still what people want. And sex is a part of that, and a big one, no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:23 AM
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Women are largely in charge of how the mating and dating game plays out since they are the primary selectors. Getting mad at men for playing the game is quite an interesting take.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:22 AM
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Not really. Third worlders can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:39 AM
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Shopping is a hobby, kids are in school or outsourced to daycare most of the time, people’s cleanliness standards rarely decline aside from clinical depression so if you marry a slob that’s on you, and “domestic management” is completely made up. Again, women are naturally more attuned to many of these things. No one asked them to girlboss. Play stupid games win stupid prizes. And even all that aside, men are STILL almost outclassing them when you actually list out the non biased data (women alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:12 AM
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People who don’t usually is a result of how that mother treated them and/or their father and after a long, hard internal battle had to turn away. And no, they don’t. Maybe when it’s a newborn, but all the data today controverts that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:57 PM
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You also understand women like sex too and would, in a common sense world, marry a man they wanna fuck into perpetuity?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:54 PM
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So is dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:53 PM
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A major point of marriage is sex, lady. It’s kind of the big covenant. But hey, if sex is no big deal the. neither is fidelity. That’s the road you are forced to go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:59 PM
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Most of our culture perpetuates the narrative that women consistently deserve more and the best. They also see women (albeit celebrities) who are relatively tame attaining similar things and think “why not me?” I don’t like to treat women like children, but it’s shit like that and how they respond to actually being honest with them that almost makes it seem like they want to be patronized.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:58 PM
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As a woman, I’d assume you know better than this. Many factors like HBC, FOMO, children, turning 30, etc. will facilitate women to have “attraction” for men normally not really in their realm of thought for romantic purposes because they make necessity a virtue. It’s a great explanation for why after the 2.5 kids the bedroom dies even with men doing more than ever before in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:52 PM
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The Obsession movie meme breaking containment and going viral has united more random dudes who experience the same crazy behavior women assure us is just “those bad women” than I have ever seen before. Holy shit 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:47 PM
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Baseline for women is barely any attraction for men. Add in HBC and SSRIs, and a guy better be damn sure a woman is about him from the jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:46 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:42 PM
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I think it’s great you have gay friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:42 PM
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Patriarchy is inevitable though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:40 PM
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States versus revealed preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:21 PM
1

Hitchens Thoroughly enjoy even rewatching it sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:15 PM
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That’s a you problem if that’s how you wanna take it. The first woman every man loves is their mother and that ain’t sexual, so we can quit that nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:11 PM
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Quite the framing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:10 PM
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I’d say, by and large, encouraging men to be more emotional has been an epic fail. It’s not for them. Women can keep the market on having to endlessly emote everything. Because you’re right, they are harmless and whimsical
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:10 PM
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Women and men are different 😂 for the upteenth time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:36 PM
1

Christopher Hitches (RIP) is someone I’m a big fan of despite him being a staunch feminist. He was part of a round table on cspan that can still be found on YouTube from the 90s with some women, and one thing he said I thought was pretty prophetic. It was basically that feminists needed to be careful because peddling victimhood as a means to get what they want would mean that eventually men would aim to do the same. Well, here we fucking are. Also, not for nothing, but the women on that panel we…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:36 PM
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This isn’t the 1950s. That world hasn’t existed for a really long time. Men have been nothing but encouraged to be defective women for 3-4 decades now. Men kill themselves/become school shooters because they become these emotional people and discover no one, especially women, give a fuck. Understanding your emotions and having control > being emotional FYI self deletion is an emotional action
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:20 PM
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Feminism was about women having equal choice… Up until a woman chooses something they don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:15 PM
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Pre selection is important. Having a wife and kids is even better if you have your shit together. Women literally won’t leave you alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:13 PM
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I think men are pissed because women are praised just for existing, yet want equality which would mean men would get praised for just existing. But women don’t want to do that. It’s no shock folks ain’t happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:12 PM
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This is funny considering women think KOing their kids is a good thing when there is 0 incentive for it when it directly plays a part in society ceasing to exist, which means no societal flourishing. Seems like women are easily manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:10 PM
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Did I speak in absolutes? Also, simply being in a relationship is a pretty low bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:43 PM
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Any woman who champions reproductive rights is outrightly stating women are the holders of all reproduction. It’s an entailment. Try to understand your argument better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:36 PM
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I’m saying that’s not relevant in the context in which we are discussing anger. What aren’t you getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:24 PM
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They actually are not the selectors.But keep being obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:18 PM
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That’s not really relevant to the convo dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:16 PM
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Cool story.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:12 PM
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I never said men weren’t emotional, the fact is that our emotions function differently than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:04 PM
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No, they don’t. Women have full control over reproduction. We aren’t in the 1950s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:04 PM
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You said it’s a mask for another emotion, which means it’s not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:03 PM
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My ancestors did which is why I’m even here 😂 and what a dumb, irrelevant question. Biology is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:02 PM
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Sounds like you’re a common sense person. I’m speaking to the vast swath of people and ever growing amount of them who are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:47 PM
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So a comprehension failure then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:45 PM
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Is survival an advantage? If yes, then that’s the answer to the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:43 PM
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So now anger isn’t real? Ooookay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:41 PM
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That’s great you are so optimistic, but fostering “you go girl-ism” like these dads do does entail what I said. It’s under the empowerment umbrella.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:23 PM
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Give them strategies to vet men appropriately, be careful who they allow access to them, and how to determine a man of worth that will most likely end up leading their lives in the future. The same men/fathers that do exactly what I’m responding to are also cool with their daughters being slutted out when the time comes under the guise of “independence”. Fucking weird ass behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:09 PM
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Cool story, Hansel. Not really sure what that has to do with anything but happy for you/sorry that happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:06 PM
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Anger is energy. What an insightful response. Almost a non sequitur
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:04 PM
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The habit you’ve espoused? Most definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:04 PM
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Might may not make right, but might makes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:03 PM
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Women don’t act upon the world, it acts upon them. Don’t believe me? Listen to them rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:37 PM
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Women don’t act upon the world, it acts upon them. Don’t believe me? Listen to them rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:37 PM
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Again, I don’t watch that stuff. What I do see is absurd behaviors from fathers toward their daughters who have clearly been shelved by the wife. Again, gross stuff. But keep up with that habit of yours 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:36 PM
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There’s a way to do that without doing what was posited. Men should protect themselves from other men too. Pretty basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:35 PM
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Men understand that hierarchies are necessary to get things done because it benefits the overall system. It’s no different than any organization that’s successful. The folks most proficient at certain tasks get more responsibility and authority because they have merited it. Women don’t view things this way because they just are. Their whole goal is move up hierarchies through others and not their own doing because it not only solidifies their value but protects them within whatever “tribe” keepi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:34 PM
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Anger is a motivator for action.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:23 PM
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Idk why you watch so much (especially of that nature) that you’d think so, but do you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:22 PM
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Men and women’s innate biological proclivities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:22 PM
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Changing what I said now, very predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:21 PM
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Our biology hasn’t changed dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:12 PM
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Uhhh what.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:11 PM
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Being this obtuse about it is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:11 PM
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Don’t blame me for the weirdness of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:04 PM
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I suggest you check our Bear Grylls The Island series where women tried that out and see what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:04 PM
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Anger has a different function for men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:03 PM
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Men’s emotions and processes are simply different than women and that’s hard for women to understand. One such one being anger and its utility.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:52 PM
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Hierarchy is what makes the world work. It’s a privilege to believe otherwise. Also, most men who condition their daughters this way have a borderline incestuous desire to win them over because it replaces the often unrequited love they receive from that child’s mother. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:51 PM
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The way I’m treated being a tall, jacked guy pales in comparison to how I was treated prior. Women don’t even conceptualize it. The machine just does what it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:40 PM
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So you gave up.
/r/askMRP03/06/26 09:44 AM
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Since women have 100% control over who fathers kids, that largely comes down to a skill issue. Completely skipped over the authority part of my post, did ya? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:34 AM
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Most of the time this comes down to immutable traits where women correlate them with better perceived behavior, such as a taller guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:32 AM
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The guidelines for what constituted SA were incredibly ambiguous, including things like unwanted touch that was incidental. So, that’s gonna muddy the waters a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:30 AM
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You realize the metrics by which the SA data was gathered was severely flawed, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:41 PM
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True, a very fair point 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:39 PM
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Women parrot the sexual empowerment narrative. Wouldn’t it be common sense for a guy to be wary of the ones who don’t fully utilize it to be with them? Especially early on?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:55 PM
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It’s because casual sex is what usually lays the groundwork for formal relationships today and solves the equation for if a woman desires him early on. This ain’t rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:54 PM
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I’m not a fan of men acting as defective women anymore than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:20 PM
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Hey, I agree that men today have largely become defective women being inundated in the gynocentricism we all live and breathe. And the people that parrot that the most are women to men, so says a lot huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:18 PM
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Que?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:42 PM
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This post is awesome and lowkey self aware of precisely how men and women are different. normal man: biologically programmed to love the features of a woman’s body. woman: knowing how susceptible she is to manipulating, marketing, and trends, as a woman, she suspects that men MUST operate the same as her and it can’t possibly be something innate, but something that can be changed. Most of the gender war, ladies and gents.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:12 PM
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I think many men want kids, the issue is that the culture has stripped almost any and all authority that comes with being a good father (especially to boys) away and left them still holding the bag of the responsibility of whatever happens. Making dads into defective moms hasn’t been ideal either. A great example is how many smart people have been fucking duped to the point where you can’t say that mothers are more important for babies and infants than fathers are, or that fathers are more impor…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:07 PM
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She’s saying to become what women claim they want. If I solely pretend and mimic behaviors that are going to get me what I want, that’s called manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:19 PM
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“f men were actually dealing with a lack of options, they would do things that would make them more liked across as many women as possible so then they can end up choosing out of those women that like them.” So men should become better manipulators? Lowkey based!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:47 AM
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The “no reason” is sex. He begins to realize she’s not all that desirous of him and it won’t get better. Usually happens a few years into an early LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:46 AM
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I mean, it doesn’t negate my point though. And the guys who do what your OP implies will have a good chunk of women throw themselves at them once they hit 35ish. It’s just a matter of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:05 PM
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Sex and reproduction are covertly the some of the largest power plays in the game. They just gaslight the shit out of men so that they forget that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:38 PM
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The majority of men in America are overweight. Stats fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:37 PM
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It’s funny that women use this traditional boogeyman caricature when they still expect men to fulfill traditional roles amongst other duties. Spoiler: no one asks women to be girlbosses or earn the same amount of money as men other than themselves and the hive mind. Making decisions and then outsourcing the blame to others is a childish look.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:36 PM
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The issue most fat women (and I guess fats, in general) is that they are awful at tracking calories. Especially from liquids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:50 AM
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Wouldn’t it be prudent of women to show that they are good for things other than sex? Because they don’t do a great job of that, especially today.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:44 AM
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Yah, she doesn’t take it well. Then again, I can understand. Her losing out on sex with me would kinda suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:42 AM
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So women who are mad men won’t marry them are also in the wrong because they want to be seen as wife material? Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:41 AM
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Hormonal birth control strikes again
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:06 PM
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On one hand, those screenshots of Reddit posts where a guy says his wife has told him she’s done having sex for good seem 100% fake. On the other hand, any woman who feels confident enough to straight up say that to their husband is likely with an unfuckable guy. Knowing he wouldn’t do shit about it. Hmmm…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:06 PM
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I mean, men optimize everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:09 PM
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Women already come with that in the factory setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:35 PM
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I see the fear mongering works on folks still. KOing your kids shouldn’t be a popular thing, yet here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:34 PM
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Yeah, but the issue is that one is a very common issue in modernity (women not desiring man enough) and one is not (women being used as bamgmaids). This ain’t the 1950s. Men are more involved than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:15 PM
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I didn’t say anything was a sure thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:14 PM
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Yeah, if you’re fat, dumb, an addict, or old. Otherwise, women with far less than we have today figured it out time and time again. Also, I completely agree women should choose who gets to father kids far wiser than they do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:14 PM
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While true, I think a lot of this comes down to hormonal birth control completely duping countless women into fucking and reproducing with the wrong guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:12 PM
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Not really since women’s standards for men are far higher overall and they select for different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:12 PM
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See: almost every complaint about housework ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:10 PM
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Manufacture outrage. Basically, be the drug dealer on your terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:08 PM
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Why are corporate women obsessed with meetings?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:06 PM
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I know, truth is rough sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:06 PM
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This ain’t the 1950s. If a woman gets with a dude she doesn’t like fucking, that’s 100% her fault. If she enters a relationship where she does more than she’s comfortable with, again her fault. This monster died a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:04 PM
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I will help anyone as long as they demonstrate actual initiative to wanna change. But that ain’t most folks. Most are perpetual victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:03 PM
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As a married dude with a family who is staunchly anti-marriage the way things are done today, there are definitely ways to game the system to increase your likelihood of having the best outcome possible. Namely: ensuring she has genuine desire for you, basically making sure she is dickmatized. If you have experience, you’ll know, but otherwise you should date a while to figure this out. fuck up a little bit (preferably on purpose) and see if she takes up for you. give few to no fucks (your kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:19 PM
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I think anyone who’s been through a lot of shit and come out the other side successfully likely falls into this category. I know I have a pretty low tolerance for nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:10 PM
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True of pretty much every married non gay man. Edit: whose wife didn’t pull the pin on the fat grenade
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:51 PM
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Because the issue is about desire. There’s rarely doubt if a man finds a woman with he’s with fuckable. That’s 100% not the case in the other direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:42 PM
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Only people who don’t understand the differing desire dynamics between men and women can ever think this goofy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:28 PM
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No, she’s laced with enriched uranium 😂 these fucking people. Women are emotional, who woulda thunk!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:25 PM
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Lumping your case in with the majority who do it for the love of the game is the majority of the problem here. But whamen gonna whamen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:24 PM
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You must seek out this shit, men are largely at the mercy of women when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:23 PM
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We aren’t in the 1950s, lady. If you aren’t obese or an addict or an old head, you’ll be just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:22 PM
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Got it. I’m cool with them merc’ing their own kids, I just want the acknowledgment from them as to what they did as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:08 PM
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What world/spaces do you inhabit? Most of mine are around things that are pleasurable for both of us. As an aside, all women who wanted choked/gagged out/restrained all asked me for it without my discussion of any of them being things I’m into, and while I did it because I’m a team player I had to get comfortable with it (also seeing how much they were into it surprised me when I was younger) in order to enjoy it for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:07 PM
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I think they can do it but there’s a permanent record of sorts for it. It’s not really healthcare other than cope, because they have to work so hard to lump it in with actual life threatening issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:04 PM
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I was speaking generally. I agree that people shouldn’t force others to do things that make them uncomfortable, whether in the bedroom or out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:48 PM
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Most people don’t change. And especially not in the opposite direction (the only caveat here is clinical depression). What that means is the cleanliness of a person you initially meet will rarely go in the reverse direction. What I think happens is women don’t consider it at all until they have to. Which is something they 100% should be more aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:50 PM
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Couple things: 1) it’s funny to hear women who read books about guzzling Minotaur cum complaining about kinks. 2) I think folks exploring fantasies together can be fun. Women, in my experience, tend to find a lot of excitement in that, but also it’s only if the dude was their first choice. 3) if she’s never been into it, then I’d say I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:48 PM
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I think that seeing sex as an entailment of a relationship is moreso common sense than entitlement, but do you boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:43 PM
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It’s not. Women specifically create and foster that dynamic because it’s a goalpost that is almost unreachable and constantly movable. She is stressed for reason x or he becomes too beta? Chores have the ultimate plausible deniability. Give him more and more and when he does them? Say they weren’t done “right”. How do I know this to be the case? I’ve talked with men who actually tracked it and showed their wives/SOs that they were actually outclassing them in that department. You know what the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:42 PM
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Guess what? That’s most relationships, even when the woman claims it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:27 PM
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I’ve dealt with quite a number of women, and regardless of their age, demo, background, career, upbringing, most of their behavior made porn look prudish. I don’t find the expectations of most men to be all that outlandish at all. It’s just a fact of concealed desire that women are hesitant to share because it would show they don’t deem most men worthy of their best.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:24 PM
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Anyone who really believes that chores or housework gets a guy more sex who wasn’t already gonna get laid anyways is either a woman who’s never been dickmatized or a guy that’s never done it to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:16 PM
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Most folks on here are staunchly anti sex. It’s odd
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:15 PM
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I’d say it’s been fetishized since men basically have to work to accomplish anything else they want in life anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:15 PM
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I don’t know, I reward my wife with sex when she’s especially killing it. The few times I’ve turned her down have been nuclear meltdowns, so pretty sure she sees it as something she stands to gain a lot out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:14 PM
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So either you or you both got fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:59 AM
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It’s the glue for any romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:59 AM
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We’ve literally been doing that for a couple decades now and it’s made shit infinitely worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:55 PM
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Hard disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:58 PM
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It’s not incel terminology.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:21 PM
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I’ve been introduced to the phrase “foidian slip” and I cannot stop fucking laughing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:36 PM
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The only reason for this that makes actual sense is because women demonstrate actual love and desire through service.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:35 PM
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They aren’t in the room 😂 ever heard of a monitor?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:37 PM
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We’ve broken in our couch quite a bit. Again, skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:33 PM
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I have an almost 5 month old. I can assure you, my wife couldn’t wait for that 6 week mark to hit and we still go out and do things together without him while the grandparents get some quality time. Sad state of affairs for ya. As an aside I still play music, hit the gym, play golf. Sounds like a skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:39 AM
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Mommy and daddy issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:23 AM
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The big problem is that HBC has duped more women than we will likely ever know. Combine it’s ambiguous effects on desire, hormones, and the FOMO of a woman nearing 30 and it begins to make sense that having kids is post nut clarity for women once their hormones reset for maybe the first time since their teens that they fucked up and reproduced with an unfuckable loser. Happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:22 AM
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100%. One of the women in my rotation back in the day was a doctor who was about 14 years my senior. Amazing times. Also fully understood the nature of things, would pay for me to get tested (I was always safe but it was a CYA for her I guess) because she knew I was with other women actively. Great for any young up and coming dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:51 AM
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Oh I’d be out 😆 but I’d make things appear as normal as possible for as long as possible until I could get my ducks in a row and leave her with as little leverage as possible. Have a lot of friends in legal with a lot of connections. She’d be fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:17 AM
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The are easier to nab for a quick fun time if you are in shape. Hell, they’ll even pay for a ton of your shit without you even asking. Pretty sweet until you find a woman you really wanna date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:10 AM
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There was never a disagreement there, just relevance to what was being talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:32 PM
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Women’s main cards are manipulation. Listen to what any of them say they want versus what they choose and they are almost always at odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:31 PM
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“I said I’d break up with him to see if he’d actually fight for me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:30 PM
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You speak about character, but a man of character would also be principled. And if that’s the case, then if someone, say a woman, challenged those principles he’d had to… and stay with me here… DISAGREE to remain a man of character. You use a lot of container words to tip toe around “men should just shut up and do what women say”. Also, it’s clear you don’t date women (and that’s fine) because you continuously have no idea what you are talking about in terms of what it’s like to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:34 AM
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Pretty much. When I was single I had a few examples both via cold approach and via apps where I pretty much verified the vibe wasn’t gonna work for me once it seemed as though they were out, and each time they either challenged me on it (so tried to fix the vibe themselves) or kind of admitted they were just seeing how I’d react. Ended up hooking up with all of them so 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:31 AM
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That’s all when and good until you’ve dealt with the mind games women put out there from the jump as a pre req to even dating them 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:27 AM
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I’m not sure I’ve seen a bigger self own by women in these comments than them acknowledging that their lives are so easy that they can afford to NOT deal with people who won’t bend over backwards for them. What a privilege 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:02 PM
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A goalpost move to RACISM. Good lord 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:01 PM
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What I’m saying is their morals mean not a whole lot 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:47 PM
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That’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:47 PM
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Women define that effort very differently based upon the genuine desire they have for the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:58 PM
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We’re talking past each other here. ALL women fall into the category I described. It’s a matter of where the guy falls in her power rankings. So sure, a man needs to have self awareness. What you’re describing are simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:45 PM
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I didn’t say zero, did I? There’s likely an equation of sorts that figures money earned and laboriousness of said job that should factor in, but most people know this as a matter of common sense. Fact is, distribution of chores should never be objectively equal because there’s no such thing, nor should it be a mix. A separation (barring outlier events) works best. Everyone minds their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:24 PM
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The issue is that most women “core values/beliefs” are free flowing. I’ve dated super libs and made the killing kids joke to their face to laughs harder than my buddies who were willing to trade it all to be number one. Their beliefs are only as strong as the main character in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:19 PM
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So you passed the test then. Congrats on finding your guy. FYI a man that’s works all the time is doing so precisely so that the inverse of his work time isn’t more work time. Most people understand that. Unless you are talking about a task specific to him like building something or the lawn or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:53 PM
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Well any woman who says they wants kids while also parroting that has an inner conflict to sort out for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:52 PM
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Gym, playing/creating music, golf, hiking. The number of women I’ve seen personally get mad at their guys for going to the gym is pretty staggering. Truly low life behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:51 PM
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Women who complain about men’s hobbies are telling on themselves. They don’t desire the guy they are with enough otherwise they wouldn’t give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:34 AM
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Agreed. Celebrating KOing kids is a good thing to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:33 AM
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What is made up? Age of first marriage alone corroborates my observation, and that’s an objective data point lady. Don’t be sad you got owned. Be emotionally secure!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:29 AM
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“ But I rarely hear them talk about the less glamorous parts of fatherhood: emotional consistency, patience, sacrifice, showing up during tantrums, sickness, boredom, conflict, or the day-to-day labor of raising children. That part often seems implicitly delegated to the mother.” Two things: A) the men who are successful, in general, have discipline. Most of these things fall under that umbrella. And not for nothing, the man has to be emotionally regulated enough to have dodged the feminist bull…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:27 AM
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I just explained to you how women change as a pattern 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:21 AM
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To the second paragraph point, AWALT until they hit 30 and rent’s due (could be you?) And simps are men who do exactly what you describe they should do, bend over backwards for women. Fun fact, most of these dudes are STILL invisible to women, even their own wives….
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:12 AM
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“Lillth discovers the longhouse” “If men just did everything women asked, things would be great!” Lady, the simp epidemic is largely how we got here. Disagreeableness, if it’s even on the rise at all, comes from men seeing it actually works (can testify to this) and that being a doormat does not. Also doesn’t help that every woman that goes on Call Her Daddy nowadays self reports that the disagreeable men in their lives got the rawest version of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:02 AM
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If they are lame and fat they likely are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 01:38 AM
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The fact they don’t even understand their own view of people doesn’t go beyond “muh preference” is pretty telling for someone that is so concerned about shitty people 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:20 PM
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Your view of human beings as monoliths is either completely ignorant or utterly delusional. I’d also have to ask you what you find to be good versus bad, but I’m sure you don’t have a definition beyond “muh preference” which is actually FAR more shitty than understanding the good and bad people come with and making the best of it. But as another poster said, life and humans operate on incentives. Being disagreeable doesn’t automatically equal bad. Some of the most disagreeable people you’ll meet…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:19 PM
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Marriage is a legal contract, kind of entailed 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:15 PM
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The legal system clearly benefits one party.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:08 AM
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They can almost undoubtedly make the decision unilaterally. I’d become more familiar with the legal weaponry at their disposal to make that happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 09:20 AM
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And trapped in a limbo of misery. Poor dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:47 AM
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So…. What women do now?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:46 AM
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Highly unlikely with the way the family courts are skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:45 AM
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Depends on the situation, but after they get a little older they all develop at least a little anti slut defense you just have to work through a little bit. Basically, it’s plausible deniability.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:45 AM
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You clearly have never grown up or been in a dangerous neighborhood for any length of time. Men don’t have the privilege women do of causing a ruckus and having the shield of “but I’m a woman” to protect them. This also is kind of a peak woman post because it fails to see that men are in search of utility. There are a ton of people I’m not huge fans of but they have expertise in areas I value and we figure out a way to go along to get along. That’s called being an adult. But thanks for showing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:41 AM
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Sounds like women have no agency in your world. Wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:25 AM
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As a man who has gotten and still gets (even in front of my wife, which is annoying at times) a lot of attention, I can tell you it is absolutely not common for men at all to experience. I have a pretty extensive network of both friends and guys I’ll help out and I’ve yet to see another one experience even close to the level that I have. Also, understanding women does not = seeing them as non human. Like wtf 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:55 AM
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Sounds like a projection of your own insecurity surrounding your own family dynamic. Sorry to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:52 AM
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Was one of the major green flags when my wife was trying to lock me down at that time. It’s a life superpower.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:50 AM
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Can also depend on where she’s at in her cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:48 AM
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Wutaboutdamendo mode activated!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:46 AM
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Gonna be honest, most women I’ve met/dated/considered being with had values that were all performative. They basically all ended up molding into mine, especially the ones that wanted to lock me down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:45 AM
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Did you ever stop to realize that these figures were culled out of society intentionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:43 AM
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Women claim to not be whores, so this directly correlates to the people they’ve slept with. Also, women will refer to any of their couple months flings as exes in order to make it sound more serious than it was. Again; sounds like you don’t know women very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:36 PM
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Listen to any woman’s rant about her exes and they speak about the “trauma” and “narcissists” and yada yada yada. Sounds like your finger ain’t really on the pulse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:38 PM
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Women self report this as being trauma ad nauseam
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:43 PM
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Could definitely be the case
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:22 PM
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Way to miss the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:21 PM
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A truth I’ve moreso thought women can’t handle is that racking up bodies gives them almost irreversible trauma. Not what you cited.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:08 PM
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Biology ain’t fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:24 PM
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Testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:24 PM
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Explain why women throw themselves at men they state themselves they are severely unequal to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:14 AM
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I mean, it’s their decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:12 AM
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It’s because that is the end result of feminism. Men for fun and desirous love when young, other men to be put to work for committal love down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:36 PM
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They blew out their pussies with the Epileptic 10000 model.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:34 PM
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Naturals meet some of the worst fates I’ve ever seen. Been there. We’ll be here when the other shoe drops, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:33 PM
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A willingness to be self deluded at your own expense. At least that’s what it is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:05 AM
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Women are always serving someone/something. If it’s “themselves”, that’s usually code for big daddy government.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:03 AM
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Sounds like a gay relationship. Not one between a man and woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:00 AM
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Hormonal birth control, age, and FOMO obscure a lot of attraction cues for women. Having kids is post nut clarity for them because, for a substantially large percentage of them, it’s the first time their hormones will come back to baseline in years, even decades if they are mid 30s. That’s when they realize they are with an unfuckable guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:59 AM
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Cool, not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:31 PM
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This is a distortion of the argument. It’s not to say to find someone with zero issues ever, but it’s to say that people who have led lives that result in less of it are likely better bets.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:57 PM
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It’s for them to deal with and overcome if they want to participate in a healthy adult relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:56 PM
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Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:56 PM
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Some are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:56 PM
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Who made that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:22 PM
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None that affect me to this day. Being resilient and facing your personal problems is called being an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:22 PM
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Can’t let perfect be the enemy of searching for a good bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:22 PM
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Per whatever definition you choose to cook up, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:54 PM
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Which is why less (not none) is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:53 PM
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It’s been a regular occurrence on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:53 PM
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Most RP dudes you’d never even know were RP… 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:21 PM
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Gotta bulk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:20 PM
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I think women need to figure out if trauma is a good thing or bad thing. In a closed thread, I said that it’s best to steer away from a woman with a lot of past trauma because it will get brought into the relationship. This woman seemed to find that incomprehensible. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:20 PM
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Yes, but you’ll never really know so just pay attention and you’ll sus out the general truth for yourself. Women describe their past encounters with men as traumas. Therefore, less trauma = better relationship potentiality. Not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:08 AM
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Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:31 AM
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Women will and do state that the precise description of a woman you cited is, in fact, a pick me. I encounter it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 11:43 PM
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You’re getting got by them Indian accounts…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:11 PM
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I think you need to listen to your women counterparts a bit more then…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:10 PM
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There 100% is. Mathematically it can be defined.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:42 PM
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I’m not talking about weirdos. For normal people, romance in a relationship entails sex. Don’t be obtuse about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:35 PM
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A healthy sex life is an entailment of a healthy romantic relationship. One that should benefit BOTH parties. It’s funny that people wanna say AF/BB is bullshit yet still act as though once monogamy and exclusivity occur sex is somehow some big issue. Kind of demonstrates the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:58 PM
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Women say they want to be understood at a deep level, but tell anyone you know your wife’s cycle like the back of your hand and they suddenly pull the “not like that!” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:26 PM
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Diversity is our strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:03 PM
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Not in the crass way it’s being described here. You can do anything except bore a woman. Leave things even keeled for too long and they will find some drama to insert into your life. That’s why, much like a controlled burn, it’s good to overreact intentionally about stuff sometimes and then reign it back in so you kind of beat them to the punch and help to regulate things while it’s in your control. That’s not really playing hero, but it’s moreso a workaround for women’s nature especially in an …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 10:25 AM
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I mean, speak for yourself but it seems as though you’ve never been with a woman who would do WHATEVER it takes to have you dick her down. It’s pretty amazing. As a bigger, muscular dude, I can tell you for 100% certainty you are dead ass wrong about the body thing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:22 PM
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Agreed. It would do men a world of good to become as manipulative as possible seeing as how that’s the requisite result of becoming incredibly socially savvy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:15 PM
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Sports reporter has 6 year long affair with prominent coach who she named her first son after and constantly raved about on social media, while belittling her husband openly on tv and social media nonstop. And her husband is the typical caring dude being described.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:47 PM
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Pretty typical stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:45 PM
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https://thelibertyline.com/2026/04/24/dianna-russini-and-mike-vrabels-saga/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:27 PM
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It’s what I’ve seen time and time again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 08:26 PM
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Google is a great tool. Biggest sports scandal in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 08:26 PM
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This presupposes men and women are the same. Not the case. Now an attention whore? Sure. But a pick me woman tends to be after a very specific dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:30 PM
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Depends. Any woman who even likes the company of men is labeled a pick me these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:29 PM
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Their ladies are quite happy too getting dicked down by the boss/colleagues when they’re away on business. See: Diana Russini
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:29 PM
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Marriage is a contract, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:08 PM
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Find a former player with their shit together who wants a family. This way you have some confirmation that: he’s good with women and is familiar with their BS at times. lesser likelihood of intimacy issues lesser likelihood of cheating because he has dealt with a lot of women and chose her to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:28 PM
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People like to ignore elements of history that don’t align with the outcomes they want. Look at many revolutions and the underlying social dynamics of them (the Arab spring, for example) and you will see enough disenfranchisement amongst men where it’s kinda obvious that would be the outcome. Women don’t care about this though because a) those men are invisible to them and b) any form of appeasing them would be “oppression” by their standards. Socially enforced monogamy was as good as we were go…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:00 PM
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It very much is, but women take any criticism or analysis of those decisions that doesn’t blow smoke up their ass as something tantamount to abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:54 PM
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Imagine having kids and saying “can’t imagine I need to keep them alive, sounds miserable”. Very much the same attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:53 PM
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You date enough women and pay attention, it’s not hard to deduce. Pay attention to when their period hits and when it’s going to, a ton of their behavior makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:52 PM
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What a weird framing. Anyways, by the time I discovered what RP was I had already been living that way for some time and it correlated to the best experiences I could have ever possibly imagined spanning a lot of women regardless of their age, background, career, etc. First and foremost, I wanted a family and a stable home for my children. That requires (per the data) a loving mother and father that are married and can give the highlights and care that each parent specializes in. Moreover, I act…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:41 PM
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The most women answer imaginable 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:23 PM
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As someone who had one, albeit pretty loose, you don’t find one. They find you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:36 PM
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I’m just explaining the way it goes and the way women are, in general. For example, assuming a church girl (especially today) is actually solid in her convictions and not atoning for some seriously fucked up behavior in her youth (which is the growing majority today) does a man absolutely zero favors. So adhering to your advice is an awful idea because you’re asking men to typecast women rather than seeing them as moldable to their given situation, which they are. As an aside, I had a soft harem…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:56 PM
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What if I told you that the “type” most women gravitate toward being is 100% related to the man most within their gravitational pull at the moment? For example, almost every woman for point #2 is down for a night of fun and the ole “I swear I never do this” given the right circumstances. I’d actually argue you’re belittling women by insisting that it can’t be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:39 AM
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It’s 100% location dependent, but if you’re in a metro area you can actually leverage this tremendously in your favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:34 AM
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No. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:15 PM
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Women control reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:15 PM
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You’re right, listening to them is really stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:14 PM
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So it’s a part of our toxic feminist culture that’s not in theirs yet, good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:21 PM
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https://ifstudies.org/blog/can-sharing-a-last-name-save-your-marriage-it-depends
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:57 PM
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I’d suppose you understand the point I’m making as even evidenced by yourself. A woman not taking the name is, in fact, most likely an indicator of an already present issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:32 PM
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There’s actually data on this that non-shared last names after marriage lead to more and quicker divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:46 PM
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Women: trying to acquire agency through the means of having none.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:28 AM
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I’m not super online, but this sykkuno situation is some of the funniest shit I’ve seen in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:24 AM
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They are responsible for more fashion trends than you are clearly aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:00 PM
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Tone police is here weeeee ooooo weeee oooo What does my mother have to do with women’s empowering choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 09:59 PM
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There’s currently major discourse on X as to why sex isn’t important to a relationship in the slightest coming from women. You sure it’s the guys that are the issue here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:42 PM
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Only by content pushed by gays and other women subversively.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:40 PM
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Sounds like they could just talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:39 PM
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When a guy wins at the game, women still gotta try and drag him back down. Funny stuff. I’m incredibly shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:39 PM
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Where did I write that? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:38 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:08 PM
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That’s all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:59 PM
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What you find to be “your league” is likely categorically skewed by social media and the hottest guy who threw it in you for a night. I’ve been the guy to do so, can be a life ruined.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:58 PM
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Aka “why won’t men solve my problems for me”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:57 PM
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It is, they are just too delusional to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:57 PM
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“Where have all the good men gone?” “Where are the economically attractive men?” Tons of mainstream articles written by women in major publications time and time again. So not sure what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:06 AM
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It’s not a form of superiority though, it’s a descriptor
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:20 PM
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Ever heard the pejorative of “simp” or “incel”? RP does a good job highlighting the extreme amount of power women yield via sex and reproduction and how men screw up their lives worshiping that. So not sure what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:39 PM
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I think you’d be shocked how many RP guys just live their lives and don’t talk about it… at all. I say this as a dude who discovered most RP principals through experience and massive success before I even knew what the space was. When I found it, my reaction was basically “no shit”. The issue is that it takes far more work and a destruction of all covert contracts to see through as opposed to just watching some online content.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:08 PM
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All women have to do is be pleasant, don’t get fat, and stay sexually interested and a guy will move heaven and earth for you. Apparently, this is an impossible ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:03 PM
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Pretty amazing for sure. It also shatters the idea of too much individuality amongst women in that regard. It happened with enough women that were very much different that there’s no going back to thinking “well, she’s just not like that”. They ALL are for the right dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 10:46 AM
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Marriage was seen as a duty back then, it cut both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 10:44 PM
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That sounds like a convenient excuse for “he makes me wet”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 10:43 PM
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Many women do it to display status and mog other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 10:43 PM
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Toxic is purely in the eyes of the beholder.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:44 PM
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You basically said women’s flimsy esteem determines the man they’ll go with and that they can’t be around bad men or they’ll gravitate to them. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:38 PM
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That’s the implication
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:16 PM
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Your post is tantamount to saying women need chaperones or else they will gravitate to those exact men. So you’re kind of confirming the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:26 PM
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You are letting a lot of words run roughshod here. Force meant survival and many women are drawn to that evolutionarily. See: the war brides dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:53 PM
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What morality?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:51 PM
2

I have some bad news for you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:50 PM
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Obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:05 PM
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You don’t need to go on social media. Date 10 women, try conventional approaches, watch them fail, and you have another dude that’s gonna start asking some questions. It’s the reality of the game today.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:12 AM
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So what? Every boss babe I’ve fucked with in my time is susceptible to the same game as other women, you just need to subtly fracture their egos just enough and you’re golden. Do I prefer this? No, but it’s the world women chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:07 AM
-2

Yep, toxic boys for life 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:06 AM
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People deciding on roles they want is okay, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:05 AM
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I’ve fucked when unhappy and fucked a lot of unhappy people, so I beg to differ. If anything, being unhappy should be some incentive to fuck and become happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:53 AM
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It makes more sense when you realize that withholding sex and continuous denials are akin to cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 11:44 PM
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Could explain why they choose to bare knuckle box so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 11:10 PM
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I’m not into anal, but I’m a taller muscular guy and many of these women asked me to do certain things to them because they had never been with a guy like me. I’d also say converting so many into first time squirters (which made for some funny/adorable moments) and then these women wanting to have sex in random places and explore things for the first time with me over and over again kinda made the enthusiasm you see in porn pretty blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 10:04 PM
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They are invisible because they, most of the time, don’t exist. Women thrive off of indignation and seek to create it in its absence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:50 PM
1

As long as the people look young, no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:49 PM
1

That’s a sign they reproduced with the wrong dude… yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:41 PM
1

Where did I say kinks?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:40 PM
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You choose those folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:40 PM
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There was a lot of them, spanned ages, demos, careers, upbringings. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:39 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:46 PM
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Idk, everyday I hear more and more from women that makes it clearer and clearer why RP stuff is going mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:46 PM
1

I’d say situationships are the friendzone inverted. No tricking involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:44 PM
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Men have the burden of performance. The best thing a woman can be is excited to be there and enthusiastic because that’s where their A game will come from. You gotta bring it out in her though. Women who hate porn realize it creates an impossible standard only if they’re with a dude they don’t desire all that much. The shit I’ve done and stumbled upon makes most porn look tame.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:43 PM
1

Voting to let violent folks with antithetical cultures redefine demos, not being a part of continuing a society that has enabled their freedom and choice, supporting policies that will lead to violent uprisings, self selecting for soft haremdom. Take your pick. Kind of extreme to me, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:39 PM
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True, gotta pass the time somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:35 PM
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Many of the women I was rotating at one point self categorized as the one you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:35 PM
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Men and women’s concepts of desire, much like love, are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:17 AM
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Until a certain tier of guy comes around…. You right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:14 AM
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Simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:13 AM
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How is it impossible? Women could just set a standard, en masse, and hold to it. The problem is that banging a guy quick is their best weapon in intrasexual competition to attempt to keep a guy around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:10 AM
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I just meant it’s their perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:07 PM
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Most relationships start with a hookup at some point during the feeling out phase. It’s just a matter of wait time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:46 AM
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There are different forms of attraction. What you’re describing is the “attraction” when she needs a reliable dude who can give her a wedding and fulfill her FOMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:37 PM
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Welp, good luck! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:02 PM
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You know what, I’ve changed my mind. The fact they were even around the homeless is a fail on the husbands part.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:28 PM
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Wanting her to be more mindful of her surroundings is common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:24 PM
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Saying it’s no big deal is the issue I’m acknowledging.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:16 PM
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So you acknowledge it’s a non sequitur on your end then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:13 PM
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Most homeless get there for very repetitive and obvious reasons. But continuing to prove my point is a great move!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:12 PM
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I’d say trying to initiate over and over again is pretty direct communication. You’re treating women like idiots. Interesting move.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:11 PM
0

Thanks for your opinion, but her and I both beg to differ 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:17 PM
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So using viagra in the same as being immediately postpartum? You infer it, not I 😂 oh boy that’s a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:16 PM
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Boyfriend does common sense thing to preserve safety and has awareness. Woman is clumsy “oh noe big dealz”. Uses outlier scenario as some norm. I’ve lived in some pretty hood parts of cities. It’s the “don’t know where they are “ homeless you need to worry about the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:15 PM
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That’s the average guy. Not some fringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:14 PM
1

Yep, and the rates at which they impact each are vastly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:13 PM
1

My family is pretty rad, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:13 PM
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Gotta be honest, having to talk about being denied over and over again after months is akin to a humiliation ritual. No one is that dumb. Or maybe you’re insinuating people are? Anyways, you can’t talk your way into desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:12 PM
1

Look at the rates of divorce as bodycount goes up. Pretty clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 12:44 PM
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Most men want kids. The best chances for those kids is a marriage. I don’t make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 12:43 PM
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I think everyone has their own metric, but I’d say 3 months of continuously being denied and given excuses puts someone on the clock. And it’s a common word used with brakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 12:42 PM
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The average adult is capable of having sex. I didn’t know this needed to be explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 12:41 PM
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Women with insane pasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 12:40 PM
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😂 😂 😂 I’d look into the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:49 AM
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“Non-outlier events”. I said it for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:49 AM
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Relationships, both casual and committed, have effects on our neural pathways and what we respond to in the future. This is why past behavior likely being an indicator of future behavior is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:48 AM
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Well that’s why you have to start off with stating your values early on. But I, frankly, think it’s a bit retarded of someone to completely cut off sex from their spouse and then act all hurr durr when the nature of the relationship changes. I think there’s a lot of wisdom in the adage about men who are satiated at home don’t look elsewhere. More often than not, it’s common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:46 AM
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They definitely do end up caring… just when they are being taking through the divorce grinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:43 AM
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Do rando guys really say they have an issue with this? Because they wont even approach women they do like today.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:32 AM
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I don’t think asking for someone whose relationship reward systems haven’t been fucked is begging. That’s pretty disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:31 AM
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Pretty funny that tradwomen and feminists are locked arm in arm about the whole sexual past not mattering thing. Kind of tells you all you need to know. I will say, however, that this gets obscured because so few men are having regular sexual success that they cannot tell the difference between a sex positive woman for them, versus a sex positive woman for anyone. I’d also be far more wary of a woman who early frame announces a toxic ex than one who’s been a serial monogamist because that means …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:12 AM
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Replication is a form of flattery. Why do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:05 AM
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This is like a bad ad for negging and gaslighting, which work (unfortunately). Be here drug dealer, fellas. FYI, I don’t think it’s a good idea to say that women only see men as forms of entertainment for them. Or, if you want to do that, then be cool with women only being good for sex (which women certainly DON’T want) Also, the sub about adhd partners kind of flies in the face of this. These women are with men who find them (the inverse of your post) boring and they ain’t having it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:57 AM
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The immigration debate, in a nutshell. You can’t make this shit up 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:54 AM
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If they’re doing it for me, it’s all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:53 AM
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I’d agree. Like early in the relationship state “we can take any form of cheating off the table immediately as long as we are fucking on the reg”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:50 AM
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Another way of looking at this is that you are further being selfish by offloading your guilty conscience onto someone else. You could just leave. That said, what I found most prudent early on in dating was make it clear I wouldn’t be in a sexless relationship and it was a dealbreaker for me. Sex positivity is a core component of a LTR for me and sex disappearing for non-outlier events (see: postpartum recovery) should have them concerned. Too many dudes are afraid of this talk early on, but to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:49 AM
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It is. Force doctrine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:41 AM
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Where men travel won’t stop feminism being exported at massive rates to these places.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:41 AM
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I’d say it’s part of their hardwiring instead. Especially since patriarchy is the default of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:06 PM
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Is the gynocentricism everywhere and fast tracked feminism not obvious enough for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:05 PM
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But women are insistent on importing theocratic men into the west…. Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:41 PM
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They are still attempting to, while also succumbing to their own nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:35 AM
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They do because these women will often change up if they can get that guy. These things are biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:36 PM
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Leaders of industry, assertive, disagreeable, breadwinners, be in authority, etc All while still choosing men who do this better than them (and are already innately more prone to do so).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:21 PM
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The traits, jobs, and roles they are solely concerned with are ones men have proclivities towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:14 PM
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Then why are women keen on monopolizing all of men’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:46 PM
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They definitely are. Banter is being able to see if women can take shit and roll with it or if they take themselves too seriously. Negging (aka playfully poking fun at them) helps to sus this out sooner rather than later.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:44 PM
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Yeah… that’s not what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:44 PM
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Some of the laziest women I’ve seen suddenly started to tidy up in preparation for actual cleaners their family hired. Lesson in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:49 PM
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You mean negging? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:46 PM
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True, but every working mother I’ve met in my life has complained they cant stay at home with their kids. So, there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:45 PM
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Every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:49 AM
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I’d argue you’re using attraction two different ways there in the same statement. The baseline desire tends to be set from the jump and there’s not a lot of meandering upward from there, but whatever that requisite level has the most impact on what desire would be throughout the duration of the relationship. As the responder said, it FOR SURE can go down. A guy who she has a ton of desire for messages one too many times or talks about commitment first? Yeah, donezo. I’m talking about in the upwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 09:25 PM
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Yep, can only really go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 09:22 PM
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Attraction can really only go one way, aside from utilizing dread. But even then, the baseline from the jump is really the barometer for everything else. That’s why men care so much about how quickly they can make shit happen. It answers a lot of questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:03 PM
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This follows, though, that men listen to women who say “connection and attraction build over time” and “the more commitment the more attracted I am”. At this point, let’s just call a spade a spade and acknowledge they lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:54 PM
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So basically: we live in a post marriage society.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:53 PM
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I don’t think you’d find a lot of men who have an issue with this deal. However I’m not sure how much it would matter since most women today are likely going to have more experience and crazier ones than men, while also stating that those are reserved for the guys they don’t end up “loving”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:52 PM
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I’m accustomed to living in a world with weird ass rules and norms. As I do now, I’d make the life I want nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:50 PM
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Exactly. The create drama for themselves constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:27 PM
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It’s called planning ahead. So planning ahead is dumb. Allllllrighty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:24 PM
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Yep, it’s not about the actual work being done. It’s about how they “feel” about whatever load they carry. So if objective data won’t work, then you gotta change the frame. Fun fact: the guys I had try this out ALL had a major reduction in the nagging to do those items and actually got praise from it if they did choose to keep doing it. They turned negative into a positive. But “Oh No MuH bUlLyInG”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:43 PM
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That’s a pro-prenup take.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:16 PM
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Ooooookay. Women say it verbatim.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:32 PM
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Check out the book Women Can’t Hear What Men Don’t Say. Data sorted this out years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:32 PM
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Agreed! Women create so much extra bullshit work for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:20 PM
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I explained it to you, dawg. Both people participating. Which is the norm today despite what women want to claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:11 PM
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Then sex has nothing to do with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:10 PM
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What about men nagging for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:09 PM
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The quantitative data bears it out, lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:08 PM
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It’s how well the message has worked. It’s easier than ever to be a parent. Especially of young kids. Yet women will act like the boy in striped pajamas. HUGE OOF.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:05 PM
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Just like saying my post was bullying is, like, just your opinion dude 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:04 PM
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Those are kids, my dawg. KO’d non stop 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:04 PM
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I’m actually just co-signing feminists “my body, my choice” rhetoric. Anyone who believes that IS stating the woman has full control autonomy over who has sex and reproduces. learn your argument, lady! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:40 PM
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Women are the most influenced by their environment and the social media addiction slop they consume. They’ve been fear mongered for years about motherhood. No wonder they complain. How do I know this? Watch how a non-trad woman who raves about motherhood gets treated. Here’s a hint: they get bullied into oblivion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:37 PM
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Nagging is bullying, lady. We aren’t in the 1950s anymore. Men are more involved than ever. Women just don’t want lose their bargaining chip.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:35 PM
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I’ve worked with countless men in my network and this ain’t all that uncommon. What I posted actually works because women stop seeing it as putting him to work and moreso as the actually have to contribute something to the relationship, which the man already does just unseen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:32 PM
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There definitely is though to say what would happen regardless of movement within the marriage. If a woman is staying home, that implies the man is making the money, no? So better to establish what she would take beforehand when times are good between them, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:31 PM
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Nagging is no different than what I cited as a response to it. Both are forms of manipulation to some degree. And, in far more cases than woman want to admit, men are doing just as much or more but women don’t “feel that way”. So if it levels it out to be fair, then what’s the harm?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:30 PM
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Self reports are immediately data sets worth throwing out. Not worth the paper they are printed on for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:29 PM
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This is conspiracy level BS anti-natalist women spew to fear monger other women. Seems like you’ve gotten got.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:53 AM
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She’ll make up whatever fits her argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:51 AM
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“Dads are still people with hobbies… unlike moms” Ooookay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:37 AM
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This is why prenups should be mandatory. Get it all sorted out beforehand. Anyways, every woman I’ve ever met with kids who worked has at some point said they just wanted to be home with their kids. So, it’s not like this is some rando thing. They want to be home with them rather than be a wage slave. And frankly, it would be kinda fucked up if they didn’t (though women who don’t want to be home with their kids are typically covertly acknowledging they reproduced with the wrong dude)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:37 AM
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Who chooses what men father kids again?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:33 AM
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Moms don’t have hobbies? Most of the single moms I know are bar flys even with kids. Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:32 AM
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Parenting is never perfectly equal, especially not at all times. There are times the mother is more important (newborn phase for sure) and times the father is more important (adolescence and boundary enforcement). What a dumb argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:31 AM
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Proof that the psyop worked, folks. Nothing else to see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:30 AM
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I’d say that the constant nagging and bitching is the primary bullying that shouldn’t be present in the first place in these scenarios, but I doubt you’ll have an issue with that. But let me ask, if what I posted resulted in better outcomes for both parties, as in the nagging stops, a more equitable dynamic (the e word all women love!) is established, and their relationship becomes better as a result (which is what has actually happened for the guys I’ve suggested try this out), what is the actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:28 AM
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It’s very rare today that women actually do the majority of the work they claim. They need to keep up the PR campaign so that they have leverage. How do I know this? I know a guy whose wife had these complaints despite him being the one doing far more, so he wrote it all out and showed it to her. Did she see her error? Nope, he was just a big asshole for proving her wrong and not validating her feelings. Welcome to relationships today.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:25 AM
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100% And one of the only ways to fix that (especially if this guy has been betatized by 1000 concessions) is to rework the power dynamic. Better than simply being fucked (or not, if you get my drift) for these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:23 AM
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So are dumb shit tests, but here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:21 AM
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Something for men stuck in the choreplay trap that I’ve actually seen work: Take over some tasks she normally does/gripes about. But instead of citing her complaints/urging/asking you to do them as a reason for doing so, say that you don’t trust her to do them and they aren’t up to your expectations. Be sure to cite comments such as “man, x is so much better now that I’ve started doing y compared to before, I can’t believe we ever did it any other way. I’ve been telling everyone about what a gam…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:57 AM
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They are also awful at distinguishing between norms and outliers depending on how some behavior sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:17 AM
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So you’re privileged? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:47 PM
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There’s a difference between wanting a date to go well and having some set standard lol. If a woman demanded dinner for a first date, that would be a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:55 PM
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“First date standards” The first date is akin to an interview. It doesn’t matter much the venue or what it is, it’s about what happens once there. That’s where standards get set. Imagine me having standards for some stranger woman in just meeting lol. Other than showing up on time, which is universal, what else do I really need to sort out beforehand?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:29 PM
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A first date is the place where standards get laid down 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:35 PM
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I never fed women I wasn’t fucking unless it was a meal I cooked at my own place or theirs, which led to the eventual act anyways. First dates are an interview. Drinks, keep it light, always make it appear like you have a tight window beforehand that way you can cut early or stay longer depending on the vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:34 PM
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Not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:31 PM
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Yep, spot on. Amazing how they are suddenly cool with things being casual when a dude they’ve never sniffed comes around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:46 PM
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You know how easy it is texting multiple women simultaneously? Especially when you’re a guy on your shit and have plausible deniability because you actually have a lot of productive going on in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:59 PM
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Distinction without a difference. If it were a true virtue of yours, you’d say it and use their level of comfort to determine if they are similar. My point is, “truth” only matters to women when it’s truth that benefits them. Hence, my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:58 PM
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Most of them would hit if the circumstances were right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:42 PM
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I lived this life for a while 😂 It spanned age, career, upbringing, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:40 PM
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Sure, but in the meantime they’ll be fucking other women. Been there, done that. I will say though that it’s a compliment to you that they continue to come around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:37 PM
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Gotchya. Precisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:36 PM
1

But shouldn’t your truth standard stand anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:35 PM
1

And you automatically offer your own without prompting because honesty and truth are your values, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:20 PM
1

And it is with anyone or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:19 PM
1

You’re still not getting it, a prude woman will be okay with casual the minute the kind of dude warranting it shows up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:19 PM
1

So they should disclose their histories and all acts done with others, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:03 PM
1

So you’ll fuck anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:02 PM
1

Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:01 PM
0

Again, it’s the men that make the women casual. Not the other way around. Otherwise women would fuck anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:01 PM
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Here’s your misunderstanding. It’s not the woman determining if she’s a casual gal or not. It’s the man she’s in the presence of that determines how she will operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:35 PM
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Uhhh no. Serial monogamy (see: one dude) is how women accumulate their body counts. Whether it’s a week at a time or months.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:34 PM
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Yep, in today’s world a man “ready to commit” comes off as desperate, hence the “ick”. Requisite consequences of the world feminism has fast tracked. So now women have to figure out if the guy she is getting with actually a steal or is she getting a suboptimal deal, and this was less of a concern before because the power dynamics were different. I’d say it’s why so many women say fuck if and just take the risk around 30 rather than risk not getting any of their FOMO taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:12 PM
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Eh, I’d argue that women have cooked themselves so bad that if they even get a whiff a guy might be serious about them too early the will fuck everything up before it can even begin.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:12 PM
2

True, but it can definitely have an impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:11 PM
6

You realize the “best” and “worst” are defined by what women describe wanting versus what they actually choose? Correct? And in a time where women don’t need men’s money or status all that much, the most alpha trait a guy can have is giving zero fucks about them. I know this through repeated experience. Some of the most accomplished women I ever encountered in my life bent over backwards to get my attention and be number one because I was non-committal. It’s the machine at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:11 PM
1

I did in the first response dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:53 PM
0

Way to just sidestep the argument 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:58 AM
-2

Well, actually they are. People are looking all over for quality male teachers. But They also should be and it makes sense based on the inherent discrimination women in the profession have towards boys and their inability to understand their maturation process/learning styles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:48 AM
-1

If men are in higher demand, they could demand more pay. Easy enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:35 AM
2

Abusing children and KO’ing them are bad, no? Lol unless… Also, nice use of whatBoutdamendo. I’m not talking about men, lady. Stick to the convo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:31 AM
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Dude, I never said women are bad. You are the only one saying this. And imagine a woman after birth not being able to apply heat to food. Oh the calamity. Soft bigotry of low expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:30 AM
3

The majority of women don’t do those things but enough do to be incredibly concerned. Or do you think those things are no big deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:28 AM
1

So it’s a grand conspiracy that women lap up and love too. Cool, cool. Good to see the delusion is thick today. Edit; also nowhere did I say women were bad 😂 you made that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:18 AM
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They 100% are and you see it ad nauseam in here alone. Ask men if men are more violent in general than women, you won’t get a complaint other than fringe circumstances. Tell a woman men are stronger than women and watch the C o P e begin.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:15 AM
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Men are far better at the group vs individual thing than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:11 AM
2

Couple things: A) women are far worse at the group vs individual analysis. If you say men are more violent than women, 99% of men will agree. But say something like men are stronger than women, and you’ll have women work to corrupt the scientific community to make outliers seemingly fit the norm. B) you’d have a point if it wasn’t for the fact that BOTH women are sharing their personal stories AND Women are the primary positive engagers with it. You’re telling me women have cooked up this grand …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:11 AM
0

Is English your second language?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 09:14 AM
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Women are quasi social media addicts and are the majority of the users/engagers. Trying to play dumb and be like “hurr durr tik tok” isn’t an engagement with what I said in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 09:10 AM
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I’m incredibly familiar with the education space. It’s definitely not a “both problem” unless you file the girls discrimination under trying to raise them to be defective men. In the younger years it tends to be better, but the majority of women are ill equipped to deal with or understand the energy of boys and what will drive them to succeed. The double blind tests even show that they intentionally give them worse marks when they know they are boys compared to girls. More men in especially the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 09:08 AM
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Put all of social media together and you have more than enough evidence, but you see this in real life too. Not for nothing, but you suggesting women are liars?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 09:03 AM
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Women acting like something isn’t happening because it reflects poorly on them or the ole “why do you even care about it?!”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 09:00 AM
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Despite common perception, the biggest marketers of RP and stuff like AFBB today are women on social media, not the bums shown on some documentary. Women putting the same face and “story” online over and over is what is solidifying a lot of these beliefs right now and the wild thing is they are too dense to even understand what they are doing. A great example of this signaling is the message women put forth that “very few, if any” women are promiscuous. Cool, let’s take that at face value. Then …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 08:54 AM
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Men and women aren’t the same. In order for hypocrisy to exist, the items being compared must be analogous. Men and women aren’t not given my first statement, therefore arguing hypocrisy is inherently flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 08:48 AM
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You realize you can fulfill your own needs while doing the same for someone else correct? You get up to fill her water, you grab yourself one or a soda or whatever. So sure, you’re doing something for her but you’re also doing something for yourself.
/r/askMRP25/03/26 12:44 AM
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Just had my first 3 months ago. Even then, why are you worried about a fucking water bottle or dish? This isn’t your first rodeo, and honestly making a fuss over a water bottle is going to only invalidate the times you do need to use whatever you want to go to in your toolbox to pass an actual test. Ask yourself this: is the water bottle or dish the reason you’re not having more hot sex with your wife? Pretty sure I know this answer but humor me. Edit: to add on, you know you can do favors for y…
/r/askMRP24/03/26 05:26 PM
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That’s nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:26 PM
5

What theft are we talking about here?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:25 PM
0

I’m not talking about waiting, I’m talking about after you’re already together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:25 PM
1

So then fidelity isn’t a thing then, by your own definition now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:34 PM
4

I’d say it’s more of a feature and not a bug.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:15 PM
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Oh look, the tone police are here to “well ackshualllyy” us into oblivion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:14 PM
0

I have no idea how that’s not simply descriptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:11 PM
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Complaining someone doesn’t care about your status dreams enough is grade A low tier male behavior 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:36 PM
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I’d say in general, but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:35 PM
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That’s literally what that is 😂 There’s no fidelity to protect if no sex is being had. It’s cheating by another name.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:29 PM
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I think you’re being too black and white and ignoring the many downstream effects of such changes beyond just “whistling at men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:28 PM
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Cool, all fats are bad. Agreed?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:01 PM
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Good luck getting women to understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:00 PM
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Don’t women argue that methodology only makes them want the guy more?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:59 PM
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Men and women are different. News at 11. Women wanting to be the worst version of a guy has always confused me, fwiw.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:57 PM
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If it could, say, halve the number of men who off themselves I’d say it would be worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:56 PM
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That’s terrible. Say… why do women reward that behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:55 PM
1

Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:14 PM
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Not wanting your fidelity held captive is 100% a boundary. And the fact is, if a woman is really about you she’d never view it the way you stated. If a woman shared the same with me, I’d have no issues understanding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:10 PM
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I think this is all fair, but women bastardize #1 to death. When I was dating and a woman gave the hint that they wanted to stick around, I’d be pretty up front that I’d never do a sexless relationship and it would be grounds for it ending should it happen. A lot of women, despite the fact it’s up front, will call that manipulation despite it being a personal boundary and standard. I also see women complain about this when men who are in sexless marriages don’t act the same as they did when they…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:40 PM
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Most marriages aren’t good relationships then 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:19 PM
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They get it when the want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 01:36 PM
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Yeah, I’m sure most of those guys who becomes husbands get that 24/7 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:50 AM
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Now compare that to the actual boyfriend down the road… 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:48 AM
1

This is true. I do think, however, there’s a gap between being the primary initiator and leaving room for women to jump towards you. I cannot begin to tell you how many women I would meet up with, and despite hooking up, when I texted them later in the week they’d say “I didn’t think you were all that into me” and from there it was beyond a full court press from them. Don’t get me wrong, there are women who will be as overt as they come and I’ve been there, but you typically have to give them a …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:46 AM
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Why are you having philosophical debates with your girl?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/26 06:25 PM
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Not sure how.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:20 PM
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As a lifelong Hitchens-esque atheist who is slowly moving back (through science, funny enough) but still not religious in any regard, I can tell you likely why you feel this way. As a background, I grew up in a really fucked up home, my first LtR of 6.5 years was not great (mostly because I ascribed to what today would be seen as a lot of BP ideals and covert contracts), went out and did the player thing having more success than anyone I’ve personally met, married (despite not being a believer i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:33 PM
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Fair point 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 06:54 PM
2

Something that never gets discussed in the waiting game is the actual desire aspect. Are they waiting because they wanna make sure there aren’t any better options, or have you guys been hot and heavy and super close to sealing the deal but wait anyways because you wanna be sure it’s the right thing? What people don’t wanna admit is that it’s often the former (which is a bad deal) rather than the latter (in which desire has already been made at least as clear as it can be).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:06 PM
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The problem you leave out is that people, namely women, get butthurt when a man ignores them out of self preservation. This is where the whole “the world has to deal with their baggage” and “good human being” garbage comes from. Men who realize that they, and they alone, are the only ones who can ensure their outcomes in life annoy women because they won’t follow the script of living for them instead. It’s basically an admission that they are annoyed a guy can’t be easily manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:03 PM
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Most relationships start with sex today. I don’t make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:03 PM
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This is why you take a long time to commit. Make sure there isn’t a mask there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:02 PM
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And then what happens? Likely he gets cheated on, ghosted, etc. and he ends up finding a network like mine to figure out what happened. The difference between men and women in this regard is men that do this act in incredibly unhealthy ways for any kind of sustainable relationship while women do things that very much contribute to a successful relationship when they are willing to give a man her best.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:57 AM
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Single moms are a green flag for commitment free sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:42 PM
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It’s important because it demonstrates if you even understand the point you’re trying to prove.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:28 PM
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Just about everything is done to accommodate their sexual strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:27 PM
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So you’re confirming force doctrine, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 06:43 PM
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Who is the ultimate arbiter of whose genetics move on to the future in the western world? Answer that question in good faith, and you’ll have proved my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 06:41 PM
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Negative. When you have forces of power that willingly act on the behalf of you get the same thing. But thanks for confirming force doctrine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:20 PM
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Your arrogance only acts as evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:20 PM
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In today’s world, every move is towards what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:07 PM
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We live in a gynocentric society. Wake up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:07 PM
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Most of feminism is sneaky fucker game for low genetic quality men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:06 PM
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This is entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:06 PM
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Entitlement is clear as day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:05 PM
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Distinction without a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:04 PM
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What is this world you live in and where is it found? Men have catered and built society to the whims of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:35 PM
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Women won’t enthusiastically fuck men they feel nothing for, so both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 10:23 AM
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What you’re likely not including are the important details like shown below: “I love my husband… I was done having fun…. I needed stability….” Etc etc. There’s nothing wrong with loving someone, but they go out of their own way to point out things they really don’t need to and that’s where they give the tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 10:22 AM
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I think it depends what you mean. I think there are different kinds of love people feel. For men, I think a lot of the “romantic high emotion” love people talk about is largely unhealthy for them. I’ve witnessed myself and a lot of other guys I know do some of the stupidest shit imaginable when in this headspace. And while it’s definitely fun when it’s going good, it often leads to men doing things that blow up the relationship (on paper it wouldn’t seem so, but it plays out that way in reality)…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 10:20 AM
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You wanna try that again? So you’re telling me fidelity isn’t real? You can’t make this shit up 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 09:07 AM
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In today’s dating realm, sex VERY OFTEN comes before commitment other than in religious communities. I have no idea what world you must live in otherwise (Mormon, maybe?)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 09:06 AM
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Yeah, now these folks sound like the 1950s weirdos. They need to touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:40 AM
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You’d be wrong, though. Only reason it wouldn’t be is because the women are using sex to bridge a gap they can’t otherwise fill with a guy who doesn’t want them long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:39 AM
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A lot of women use sex to garner commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:38 AM
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You really seem to hate sex, OP. Is that fair to say? It’s the vibe of this and everything else you post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:36 AM
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“Past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior. You can feel as icky as you want about it, but it’s a fact.” Not all that specific here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:15 PM
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The tail ends of the curve demonstrate the more minute point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:14 PM
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An impossible challenge for women, but as I said their friends will do this work for them. If you have a group of people who hangout, they likely share the same values.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:58 PM
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So you’d bring someone who has abused children around your kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:57 PM
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I have not. I did hit immediately after breaking up with my first nightmare LTR, but I was able to wait until it was done to do so. 1) it’s almost always available. I’ve had more women who know that I have had a wife/girlfriend actively posture for my attention and to be with me (sometimes right in front of her) than I’d care to have had. I’ve even had to file complaints at work because certain women would not leave me alone. And for the all the “negging is awful and doesn’t work” crowd (you’ll …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:18 AM
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Agreed, but I think at this point it’s on men to be wise and smart about this. Birds of a feather flock together, and with social media footprints now you can pretty easily tell what a woman is about after a little time together.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:41 AM
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Past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior. You can feel as icky as you want about it, but it’s a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:40 AM
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Then women have a lot to explain in terms of their regular manufacturing of drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:27 AM
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Gonna take a detour here, but then why isn’t it considered toxic or a red flag for women to push for something like marriage then if what you’re saying is so common sense? He’s with her, right? Are they just insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:26 AM
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That would be pretty funny. I’m not a big advocate for lying, but I do know that knowing how someone you want to share a large part of your life with reacts to stress and, more importantly, sees you in those moments is something we cannot hide. So maybe a small inconvenience thrown in wouldn’t be the worst lol. Fortunately, I kept my cool and didn’t freak the fuck out but I was nervous as hell I had ruined the tail end of the trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:15 AM
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Cool, glad it wasn’t a waste of text 😂 About 6 months into my wife and I dating we did a trip to Montreal for 5 days (about a 10 hour drive from where we lived at the time). My buddies had gone a ton and gave me the lowdown on all the best spots, speakeasies, etc. Gotta be a lock, right? Well the parking app they suggested rather than figuring it out live since so much is in French fucked up, so I had to find a spot for my car that wasn’t private. Spoke to a local and they hooked me up with a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:55 PM
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Honestly, I think seeing them through stressful circumstance, whether intentionally curated or by happenstance, bears a lot of this out. Even though it’s great for a man to have an early frame announcement about things like sex, boundaries, etc, that mask typically won’t slip until there’s some serious stress. You may think it’s unrelated to the prompt, but it’s not. Women can fake and endure a lot of shit, but put them in an unpredictable situation and see if they rely on you, follow your lead,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:33 PM
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Basically any mantra that requires me to care about folks who wouldn’t piss on me if I was on fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:51 PM
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It’s always good to know how much of an NPC someone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:23 PM
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My mantra is if she’s made her way to the same place as you and is sticking around, she’s rooting for you to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:46 PM
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I’ve encountered this many times. When some of them went back to their exes, I did kind of feel bad for them. But hey, ignorance is bliss.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:37 PM
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At least men have skin in the game, brotha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:36 PM
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Liberals don’t vote for war? 😂 oh boy, I have some bad news for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:36 PM
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As a man, your best bet is to be unabashedly unapologetic. The women who want to see you favorably will, the women who don’t won’t, and best of all people will know you can’t be fucked with/manipulated. Best of all worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:19 PM
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They vote for pro war candidates. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:18 PM
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Fun story: In the city I lived in during my 20s there was a gay bar that was very popular with an upstairs for dancing. My buddy and I realized that not only did we get a ton of free drinks going there, but up in the dancing area we were quite clearly the only straight guys there while there were TONS of groups of women. Made for easy pickings. Great time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:17 PM
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The vote for men to go and die in war, so yah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:15 PM
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As in, at that given period of time/moment, you both see each other as the best possible deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:46 PM
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It means they both believe they maxed out their ends of the spectrum. There are a ton of factors that make that simultaneously happens and rarely does it have staying power. Not being a pessimist, just what I’ve seen. Enjoy it brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:13 PM
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Socially enforced monogamy was as good as we were going to get. Tech has brought the toothpaste out of the tube. Hypergamy is let loose. No going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:10 PM
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They want a woman who is only into that stuff when it comes to doing it with them. And to be fair, it’s not even an unrealistic expectation. I’ve dated enough women who acquiesced themselves to most of what I wanted unprompted that it’s 100% a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:44 PM
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We aren’t the same. Women want the best possible option, groupthink confirms that. Men wanna reproduce maximally, most women will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:10 PM
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Baggage for men usually is at least a sign that he was desirable by other women, and pre selection is a powerful dynamic with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:10 PM
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Men will actually tell women what they want without a subconscious twist involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:09 PM
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It’s almost like men and women are different and have adversarial mating strategies…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:08 PM
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I mean, pretty much everyday another (often married) woman teacher is caught banging multiple students so you tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:07 PM
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Nope, per women’s own argument both parents should!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:45 AM
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Not enough for long term viability.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:44 AM
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This is it. No more needs to be said. Nailed it!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:15 PM
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They’re the one (pun intended) making the claim!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:14 PM
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It’s not just France, but there are a lot of hoops to jump through.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:13 PM
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Then those changes have very recently been made, which is a good thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:32 AM
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Finally a real trans take.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:31 AM
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It’s illegal in many places
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:22 AM
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But according to women on here, vetting is pointless because people just up and change on a whim and suddenly become narcissists overnight?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:22 AM
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And there it is. The lie the uphold the illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:20 AM
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If it never happens then it shouldn’t be a big deal to have it be commonplace to have it checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:18 AM
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Women partner with men they aren’t all that attracted to all the time. It’s not always conscious either. FOMO manufactures attraction for them, HBC obscures it, etc. Having a kid is post nut clarity for a lot of women because it’s the first time their hormones will actually reset to baseline since they were drugged up mid teen. That’s when you get the dead bedroom. This stuff has been studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:17 AM
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Impose is doing a lot of heavy lifting here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:15 AM
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“Why do you even care?” Like fucking clockwork 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:11 AM
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A lot of women do that up until they are married. The issue is that hormonal birth control is keep the facade going for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:10 AM
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They are not analogous. You’re being intentionally obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:37 AM
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It’s not hypocrisy, by literal definition 😂 words have meanings
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:32 PM
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Hypocrisy only exists if the variables in question are analogous. Men and women are not. And their concerns are not. They’re adversarial.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:54 PM
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Post history tends to give those details away.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:50 PM
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And as you see in the responses women pretend like this shit doesn’t exist when it defies their narrative. Best to ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:50 PM
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Long list of “toxic exes”, SSRIs, fur baby, the whole independent woman home kit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:49 PM
1

So projection?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:46 PM
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This is what women do. You date women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:22 AM
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“He won’t bend to the wills of a cooked out woman, so he must be damaged goods” We’re playing all the hits in here, folks!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:21 AM
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For someone who complains about extremes… check your own post lol. And hey, I’m not the one advocating for doing nothing in a relationship. But the sisterhood ad nauseum says they want 50/50, equal partnership. Thats transactional lady. Women just enjoy manipulating the language when it suits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:20 AM
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This is 100% projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:17 AM
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Realizing we live in a post marriage society is moreso an acknowledgment of reality as opposed to any kind of damage. Trying to share that out of him, however, definitely is evidence of some issues with the person doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:17 AM
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This is actually how women feel about men who don’t want to marry again. They know they can’t control him so he just must be “emotionally incompetent “ or whatever they say nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:15 AM
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We live in a post marriage society, by and large. Shaming a dude for not wanting to get longhoused again is about as cliche as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:14 AM
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So you’d advise someone to marry someone they trusted, but has no attraction for and objectively made their life worse? I doubt it. Everything in life is incentive based. Women have the convenience of downplaying the fact there is no such thing as unconditional love because they so freely receive attention and support. Otherwise, you’re tongue in cheek saying no one should ever get divorced because if you’re unhappy or want out you’re being transactional. You gotta pick a lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:12 AM
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A healthy sex life usually = a healthy mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:35 AM
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I mean, when the bar has been lowered such that saying women KOing their kids ain’t so great is degrading, I’m not sure what you’d expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 11:41 PM
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Sometimes, but most things follow a general pattern if you zoom out enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:34 PM
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It was gift wrapped as something else. Not my first rodeo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:59 PM
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Ah, the whole “everything is unknowable” argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:56 PM
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I have a pretty vast network of guys who I have helped out quite a bit both professionally and in terms of relationships. Saved a couple from self deletion, so I think I know what I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:47 PM
1

I guess you encounter these men more than I do. More proof that the men of today have been raised as defective women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:33 PM
0

Well thank goodness for that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:24 PM
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That’s all based on your perception. There’s a scene from The Town that does a good job of explaining men’s loyalty to each other. https://media.tenor.com/W4SOkAqXD8sAAAAM/jeremy-renner-ben-affleck.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:24 PM
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You her chaperone or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:31 PM
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Thank you for highlighting the conceptualized difference better than I ever could. For women, it’s perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:31 PM
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They do. I just explained how. Reread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:13 PM
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Yeah, go actually look into them and the methods used. Beyond obvious p hacking going on, the replication crisis has destroyed most of these “studies”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:12 PM
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They would…. The fact they got paired up with her doesn’t defy men’s innate urge for unlimited access to unlimited sexuality. The guy who you cite (one dude compared to the TONS of women who have made my case for me with the night stalker, watts, luigi, etc) was an ugly dude as it is lol. It’s not like Brad Pitt was out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:09 PM
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I don’t see how they are relevant to my post. Most data cited comes from Rob Henderson and Steve Stuart-Williams who are very well researched and know their shit. But I will say, anyone who relies on self reported data anymore (anyone at all) fails to see it’s not worth the paper it’s printed on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:06 PM
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They want access to sex. The actions otherwise don’t make a huge difference. I don’t control biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:04 PM
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Your hot take nailed it. Men and women conceptualize things differently like love and respect. Women will state they must be present for the sake of the thing itself, while men deem it to be earned but once earned cherished heartily. I think misunderstandings such as these play out all the time between men and women. To answer your question, I value them a lot but most of them have had foundations built over time and some severe trials and tribulations endured together. Therefore, we can not tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:03 PM
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You fail to understand the difference. A man can desire a violent woman, but it has 0 to do with her violence. It’s that men have a wider range of attraction. When women desire violent men, it’s the violence that precipitating the desire. See: Chris watts and the loads of examples akin to him where they are FLOODED with women wanting them out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:52 PM
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How did he lie about hybristophilia? We have tons of evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 11:39 AM
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Most recent data shows it very much is left versus right ideology and that it’s sex coded.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 11:38 AM
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Life is a game of incentives. It’s not unique to the chads or whatever you’re fear mongering over. You provide adequate value, people such around. Funny how that works. This sounds like a gripe about there being no such thing as unconditional love gift wrapped as a bullshit misandrist argument. FYI, women’s baseline is precisely what your final question is posing. That’s their default operating system, and we find a way to work with it. That’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:22 PM
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God forbid a woman have to bring some value to a relationship, amirite???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:22 PM
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Because that’s an emotional response from men. Same with mass shootings. Not so ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 11:57 PM
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Or… maybe… the feelings just aren’t that big of a deal. Rumination is a terrible thing for people, and the more we encourage it the worse outcomes get. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:12 PM
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There’s no perfect system, and other men/society looked down upon men who were abusive and often took those matters into their own hands. Your last statement is beyond obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 11:08 PM
1

Both men and women were oppressed during most of history by nature, but I’m talking about late 20th century. Not the fairytale land you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 11:05 PM
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You know self reported data is unreliable, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 11:04 PM
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You’re talking about outliers magnitudes greater than anything I’m referencing. Women notoriously get lighter sentences/off compared to men. No disputing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 11:03 PM
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Not sure how explaining the nature of reality is whining, but good stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:17 PM
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They can choose to roll the dice in Dante’s inferno if they want. Women tend to cheat at high rates in those setups.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:02 PM
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