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Pfft. Had this done before. I always give an answer, and if it doesn't work towards a womans advantage it's ignored. women don't care about answers, only thinking they can negate opposing views ( and women aren't any smarter for it ) . But just to humor you ... How many women vs men are sexual and child predators? 1 woman for every 3 men. Women never talk about women doing it to others. Just like Ruby Rose and Katy Perry. Which sex makes up the majority of murderers and domestic abusers? Men com…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:06 PM
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How many women vs men are sexual and child predators? Enough for women to help enable the men, or copy the mens behavior. It simply gets ignored by the media and society. Lesbian couples have a much higher dv percentage than hetero couples Which sex makes up the majority of murderers and domestic abusers? Women through abortions. Lily Allen ( David Harbours ex ) doesn't even know how many she's had. And it has nothing tot do with grape, medical complications, or men's lack of responsibility. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:15 PM
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Ever heard of Ellen Degenerate. She was a volunteer for Diddy and Epstein desires, as well as her own ( and LGBT ) . Jada Pinkett, Amber Heard, Blake Lively, are all representations of female " empowerment ". Women want to do all the degenerates they complain about men doing. At least male nature isn't messing with peoples social psychology. Female nature of embracing social chaos for validation, through their own double stands and hypocrisy is a threat to society, period. Now if only women ackn…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:46 PM
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Female nature is hypocritical. Male desires are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:48 PM
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We have the option to not date you when we do not like your standards. It’s oppression when a man forces us to do something we don’t want to do through power. Women want to be oppressed, just so they can complain about oppression. That's how they get support without earning it ( gaslighting ) . None of it has to make sense or be rational, as long as they simply get to say it. It doesn't take much for a woman to feel oppressed by a man. The less struggle a woman has, the more she petty her compla…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:47 PM
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Yes. Lol There’s a 4b movement for a reason Women like to talk, but are insincere about everything they say ( gaslighting ) . And women have gone back on their word about 4b as well. Women want to avoid men they can't exploit for access, not for all men to avoid women. Women don't want the shame or stigma of being the thing that should be avoided ( and they've earned it ) . That's what women want to do to everyone else. Especially when women crave talking and being heard. It's women that want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:43 PM
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All of them. No matter how much money a woman has, she still wants to spend his money ( and never hers ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:58 PM
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Sounds like the 1750's. Men still had to take all the risks. Women not contributing, doesn't make them any more appreciative. Women can keep their money all they want. They need to stop the social double standard of pretending they don't have money, today.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:57 PM
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Women don't care about house chores. They only care care when men don't do house chores. Women don't like men do nothing ( as far as she's aware of ) . She doesn't care if the dishes are clean to eat off of. Only that men have to clean dishes for women, so women feel important. There's a guy on Youtube that's a stay at home dad, including home schooled children. He's had plenty of jobs before, and said house chores are easy by comparison. It's a simple case that women refuse to do it, just becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:53 PM
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Then women should sign the prenup, don't go to clubs, and stop complaining for handouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:48 PM
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So basically if you don’t believe someone (a woman usually) you decide they are gaslighting you? First, women think men aren't allowed to disagree with them. Taking away an advantage for women , by men , is considered " oppressive " . Direct answer ( so you can keep up ) ; yes. Complicated answer ; women don't care what they're saying, as long as they get to say it. It doesn't even have to make sense, be correct, or be a truth. Ever heard the phrase , " Believe women " . If you do, and turns out…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:42 PM
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Trying to make a convincing argument for something you want and tweaking it to sound better is not gaslighting - it’s how sales and marketing function. Then that's what women do, a sales gimmick to give women advantages over men. “Hey come buy this shitty old car with an ugly paint job that probably will break down in a week” Nobody’s buying it for some reason . That's what men say about single mothers. Women try to shame men for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:33 PM
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Women try to convince men that open relationships ( for her ) is good for their spouse. " I don't put it all on one person to fulfill my needs. I see him as more of a masculine man for letting me sleep around . "
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:24 PM
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People don't acknowledge a truth, they cannot exploit. Women ignore ( or feign ignorance ) even when presented with proof. Like Door Dash Girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:22 PM
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Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation that causes a person to question their own thoughts, perception of reality, or memories, often leading to confusion and a loss of self-esteem. This isn't a courtroom. Word play and technicalities changes almost nothing about what women do. Women will lie, skew, distort, lead on, and manipulate ( to themselves if necessary ) in order to gain an advantages over men. Women would believe " 2+2=5 " if they though it would give them power.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:48 PM
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Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation that causes a person to question their own thoughts, perception of reality, or memories, often leading to confusion and a loss of self-esteem Women gaslight men, and manipulate facts to serve their advantage. Such as word games and technicalities to avoid accountability. Women don't care if it causes confusion or abuse to men. Doesn't matter what its called. Women lie and manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:35 PM
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Gaslighting is insincerity. Women only dislike it when men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:23 PM
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Men are bad at keeping loyalty. Women want loyalty, not to be loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:22 PM
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Why are we so afraid to call them out when they’re outright wrong and deserved to be called out, even hsrshly do ? Why do we let women throw tantrums, cuss at us, verbally abuse us, break items, or just act however they feel thinking there are no consequences? Because it's literally all they have. The only thing that makes them feel important.
/r/MensRights13/07/26 01:47 PM
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It's about whom you offer chivalry to. It's not weak to do it. It's weak to do it for someone that doesn't appreciate it.
/r/MensRights13/07/26 01:46 PM
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I remember telling men here multiple times to raise their standards on personality AND improve their personality. They will do neither. And once again, nothing but gaslighting. Women don't value anything except access through indirect control ( to avoid accountability ) , and their insecurity of status. Women like to talk, but never to keep their word. Only valuing making people react. No matter what women tell men, women don't have to value it if they choose not to. Women complain about men doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:44 PM
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A man whose entire emotional world is organized around male approval, male status, and male validation while women are treated primarily as sexual partners starts to look a lot more homoromantic. Men know how to romance women far better than women can romance men. Women take, they do not give.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:13 PM
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Been here for so long and learned nothing. Simply reacting to undesirable statements that don't play to a womans advantage. I can’t say I’m surprised because I did a post asking men a question about what type of people they want around them, and the majority of Answers showed that most of them just want people who validate them or are useful to them. That's exactly what women do. Women don't like it, when men do it. So it’s no wonder they don’t think being sincere in one’s kindness is a big deal…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:34 PM
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Women don't care if men are sincere in their kindness, because it's not the only thing women want. Women want men to be two things ( or more ) , and shift between them, based on her whims. Too much kindness makes men look weak, so now she doesn't want it anymore. Now the bad boy becomes valued ( until the bad boy also fails her expectations ) . Even if women do't want the bad boy, women want to see how much they can get away with by curtailing him with their own choices. " You're a good man when…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:41 PM
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Not knowing is fine. The issue is when you know better and you are leading someone on, the “dangle a carrot” method, or giving the possibility for more when you’re not sure or not truly committed - which is something a lot of guys do. And women don't? Women always dangle carrots, only to reject 99% of men anyway. Doing it before or after sex is irrelevant. Men are the ones that must approach women and show confidence and initiative in the first place. Women only worry about after, because it's p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:00 PM
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Yes.
/r/MensRights10/05/26 08:47 PM
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As single mothers that divorced the husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:44 PM
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Not for women, they love mental gymnastics. Women invented 20 different kinds ( trends ) of relationship, for what they want from those people. Women put people in boxes. Sometimes friends are simply acquaintances, and support are people that always agree with them. And women that show off for those street interviews, are still telling what they believe. Don't call me bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:43 PM
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What's the point of debate, without some kind of education? Sounds like people want to be heard, without having to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:28 PM
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Don't have to live like women. Just have to be poor without infrastructure, access, or resources. Women being autonomous means nothing, if you still don't have food. Show me one country where women have everything, and still provide for men. Answer, USA is as close as it gets. Except women can have more wealth than most men, and provide nothing for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:21 PM
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It's not the world. It's just women choosing to be against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:16 PM
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They're not supposed to do better. They're supposed to reinforce womens empowerment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:08 PM
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I could, but don't want anyone thinking that this does or doesn't to them. That only creates more ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:02 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:47 PM
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Except women only care about their fun and joy ( and and validation ) . That's what makes all their decisions for them, not thinking beyond 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:21 PM
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First of all, street interviews are staged. Even so, the ideology still gets support. People still make choices similar or based on those street interviews. Otherwise, it wouldn't have so many vies, or likes. Second of all, if you have a friend, you are not alone. You have a friend with you. Difference between a friend and support.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:17 PM
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And where does it get women? Women ask for divorce, don't have children, become nontradtional, and create more division between men and women ( and blame all men for it ). Because choosing immature men is a representation of everything women do. Men are more different from each other than women are. Women don't want men other women don't want ( not very " different " ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:03 PM
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" Preferences " have nothing to do whether you know the group or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:01 PM
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Regardless if you love it or hate it ( or distance because of the internet ) , if you're exposed to it, it's going to change something about you. If something happens I'll fight. Wisdom would be more helpful.
/r/MensRights05/05/26 04:50 PM
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They can still affect it.
/r/MensRights05/05/26 04:24 PM
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Says women that don't match their high value " preferences " . Nothing is ever enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:16 PM
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Don't know you. Only what I've observed from women, in this generation. If women preferred irresponsible criminals, there wouldn’t be so many women married to responsible men who own homes. Right... there's women that have children out of wedlock, high divorce rates ( which is how over 50% of women own property ) , non monogamous and nontraditional relationships, and TikTok women bashing how men are terrible. Or are you gonna say “obviously those women don’t love their husbands, all women are se…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:11 PM
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You’re allowed to think everyone out having fun is immature, and that “not having fun” is a sign of maturity, if you like. No. Women assume immature men are more fun than mature men. But it doesn’t change the fact that people are able to have fun while also being mature. Women don't care for maturity. Women want fun. Immature it the most like candidate, for women. Doesn't matter if the mature man can be fun. the immature man does it better. I’ve paid off all my student loans, have a good career,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:57 PM
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Women don't value the man for being interesting. Women value using the man for their status.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:41 PM
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Emotional distance IS boring! Who the fuck would want a relationship with someone who just sits there silently, doing nothing and not responding to you? That's part of what maturity and discipline is, boring. Being at peace. Women don't value it, even when they need it. Sooner or later, even fun and engaging ceases to matter. Luckily, you can be mature as well as fun and entertaining, which is absolutely attractive to women Again , context is irrelevant. Maturity is not more important than the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:38 PM
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Women think mature men are boring, because they seem emotionally distant. She wants him to react to her presence, or have her own brain synapses light up. A mature man means she has to close part of herself off to be with him. Doesn't matter how you phrase it, or the context. Women don't like mature men. She'll pick immature and childish every time, find a negative, and blame all men for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:16 PM
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Notice, you didn't say it wasn't true. I've seen women ( on social media, street interviews ) reject to date a man. Only to change her mind when she saw how many subscribers he had on social media. Women value status, not people or friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:02 PM
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If you mean being productive in life, then yes. But if you mean being fidgety, then no. No. There's a difference between being productive, and causing a spectacle ( life of the party ) . Women date immature men, because it matches a womens vibe and speed. It means women get to be immature as well. Lack of confidence bums women out. Women use immature men to exploit joy. Until things get real, and serious, then requires maturity and discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:47 PM
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Women, on average. Have stronger and deeper relationships and friendships than men... No. That's just what women tell people. When men have no friends, it's because making more than an minor acquaintance isn't significant. Women will use any capacity, and call them a " friend " . Women don't have deeper relationships, just because they talk about everything. They have people that always agree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:28 PM
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No. Women get divorced over anything. Something as simple as " I'm not happy. " men don't have to commit an offense. That's a glib excuse ( women assume is profound ) to win an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:25 PM
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Because women care about status, not the people that make that status. Some women have friends, just to be able to tell people ( or convenience themselves ) , they're not alone. The partner is being used the same way, except he's not a friend. Vicarious emotional exploitation on all sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:52 PM
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Justifying a choice is like explaining a choice. If you're not going to explain to others, or people that matter to you, at least to yourself. And the justification should be based on reason, not emotion. But that's something women don't do. Yes, it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:45 PM
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No. Because the truth is in reality, not simply words and platitudes. Women demand to be hypergamous, manipulative, or incapable of real loyalty. And men are supposed to tolerate it, simply to prove they're not controlling misogynists. Women aren't going to be any less callous, just because men don't make women struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:24 AM
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People don't acknowledge a truth, they cannot exploit. Some men believe it, because many women do it. The mentality that men develops, isn't an unfair evaluation or reaction. Women simply don't like their choices having a negative consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:21 AM
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Idk why y'all continue to lump women into one singular experience. It's weird. Because women don't justify their choices, and allow emotional whims to make the decision for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:16 AM
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Because women like to manipulate men, by trying to make men react.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:16 AM
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Yeah .... no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:14 AM
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Also who are you tell women what they want? Because women already told men, everything. Women want happiness, which is a fleeting emotional whim. Women abandon people for that next whim, which creates the struggle with men. Are you the buyer here or them? Lmao See how women make all relationships transactional. And if women are going to laugh at their own struggles, then men don't have to take them seriously either. Women deserve to be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:12 AM
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If you’re constantly told women are hypergamous, manipulative, or incapable of real loyalty, you become suspicious even in good relationships. Notice, you didn't say it wasn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:08 AM
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Live your own life and have friends outside of her so you don't seem needy. -no- its because you should have a life outside of me in a healthy way. I should not be your only source of friendship Because that's what women do. Live vicariously through people. Like swapping out toys in a chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:08 AM
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Women only care about being worshiped, not the worshiper. Giving women want they want, means nothing to women. Men shouldn't waste their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:55 PM
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I think there’s a paradox with objectification, at least the way that it’s often discussed. And yet, people don't acknowledge it. It's happening in this thread alone. A man who fears a woman’s sexuality (or who fears sexualizing her and think of it as some kind of spiritual offense) reduces her to her sexuality. What makes you think it's fear? He's reducing her to a role he either wants or needs. But that role still has a function and power, doesn't mean he fears it. And people who talk of objec…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:03 PM
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By reducing someone to a role, tool, or job. The non human object comes in, when there's no purpose or consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:23 PM
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Don't know you. But no one values everyone. People don't acknowledge a truth they cannot exploit. If " preferences " aren't met by someone, you'll want to be far away from that person. That create loss of value, respect, and frustration that those people you don't want can still affect your life. Women in general, don't value people. They value status and experiences ( joy and validation ) . Not the people that create those things by being near you. Women want to be worship, not care about the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:14 PM
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Women chose the bear. Men chose a sexbot. Women want men to be miserable ( as incentive to force men to change ) , and that makes women happy. But if a robot precludes that, women lose power over men. And women are frustrated by it, because women wouldn't be as happy with their own robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:23 PM
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Women don't care if humans go extinct. They demand to be worshiped, without caring about the well being of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:19 PM
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Men are still called losers, even if they didn't take a short cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:18 PM
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Except they are. Women have made relationships transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:12 PM
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That doesn't mean you value people that don't impress you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:11 PM
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And if the role of a exotic dancer is highly valued or praised, she can still be objectified. Except it's in a positive. Like being called , " the best in the business " , you can be praised for something you don't enjoy doping . There's a grey ares as well, utility can be both. Being praised of vilified is what makes objectification good or bad, not the job that person does, or the emotional attachment based on social stigma. Men not objectifying women, doesn't make women like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:56 PM
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It is a waste of time, if he has to make sure she's having a good time. Because there's no reciprocation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:51 PM
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And notice how many women show up at bars, and not romantic places.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:50 PM
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Women don't go to bars to connect. They go to bars for a fun experience at a mans expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:49 PM
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Self worth doesn't negate the environment or society around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:47 PM
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Female validation has good optics for males. But it's not going to matter if she has no reason, wisdom, or substance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:43 PM
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It comes from a point of utility. Objectification is like a role. The role doesn't have to dehumanize, regardless if you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:41 PM
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Because women only want to be approached, by men they already like. A random man isn't worthy or allowed. Women only want " lust " calls by the high value man, or a man the has her " preferences " .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:39 PM
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No it doesn’t. If you’re going around putting random women down unprovoked to make you feel better about your insecurities and try to get men to like you, then you are not a pleasant person Women go around putting down random men to virtue signal, getting other women to like them. Women like to compete, and join in on the adversarial process. Gives them an excuse for indignation. They like coming down to redpill level, to project their struggles. It does not matter if it’s an attractive woman yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 10:35 PM
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Depends on what kind of woman the pick is putting down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:18 PM
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Because you taking change means she gets to avoid accountability and effort, while using any achievements you make by association. My wife is also very progressive and utterly hates the Patriarchy and thinks most men are shitty (especially the ones in power) Then ..... ... even my wife who's stubborn to a fault likes it when I "take charge" of situations. Talking to her, you'd think the complete opposite. Women want a patriarchy, that makes them feel more important than men, without doing any of…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:46 PM
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And yet, women lose respect, anyway. It's passive aggressive ( and more common than women admit ) . Woman like making people react, regardless if it suits her preference or not. Women are looking for an excuse ( to avoid accountability ) to project their own chaos and indignation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:50 PM
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Women don't respect a man that says , " Go ahead. You can do whatever you want. "
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:21 PM
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People don't acknowledge a truth, they cannot exploit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:40 PM
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Out of a need for self protection ( and social dominance ) , women don't care ( or notice ) about the double standards they project. It's about being reactive without a plan beyond the next 15 seconds.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 05:12 PM
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Not a mistake. simply pointless. What men do, changes nothing about what women do.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 05:10 PM
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Whatever men do, changes nothing about what women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:09 PM
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"Men would love to be sexually objectified”. I hear this phrase commonly from men, I can only conclude that most men have never experienced being sexually objectified, and thus don’t know what it is. Men are always objectified by women, simply not by sex alone. By definition sexualisation is *non-consensually* reducing a person down to a sex object, and thus taking away their personhood. It is *not* simply being perceived to be sexy. It’s a form of dehumanisation. Pfttt. Women dehumanize as much…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:54 PM
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No you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:44 PM
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How about, putting herself on the receiving end of her own demands ( for starters ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 04:55 PM
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The concept is, redpill isn't supposed to be aggressive or upset with her choices, no matter what she does to him. He becomes angry and tells her that he has done so many things for her freely to make her life more comfortable, that sex is a basic need for him, and that she is being selfish by depriving him of it. This is profound for women, because it's their fuel ( and excuse ) for devaluing men. Women think all men should be conveniently disposable ( for her social dominance ) , regardless if…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 09:15 AM
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Those aren't relationships. That's apathy. When they're done with one person, they go to the next. And so on. A successful, only refers to engaging into the lifestyle. The lifestyle doesn't produce or contribute anything. The point is to not be alone, and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 09:05 AM
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No. Women are boring. They just don't like mature disciplined men. See, only immature men are " fun " ( until life gets real and negative ) . https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oz660r1E3V0 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s-NiJP_iaWM
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:24 PM
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"He has to have superhero muscle. " NO. Having muscles can help a man in the same way as wearing a miniskirt can help a woman. Virtue signaling won't help here. Women are just as susceptible to shallowness and looks as men are. Then call it " preference " . Women simply don't like it when men do it to women, being on the receiving end. Not going tot stop women from doing it to men, regardless. Women are just as much distracted by looks, as his wallet. However, I've certainly dated average guys w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:54 AM
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Open relationships don't work, because they're not relationships. It's cheating without lying. You broke up, or are two timing each other, but decided to stay roommates. Lack of inhibitions and boundaries, ( indifference ) is not an accomplishment. If you have to ' romance ' multiple people, just to love one person, then you don't care about anyone. It's the lifestyle that is being valued, not the person ( or stability ) . It doesn't matter where or whom your heart belongs, it doesn't trust what…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:45 AM
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However, that doesn't justify HATRED against women. No. It but it does justify shame. The men that hate women are inconsequential. Women focus on those men, as justification of what women want to do to men. I don't hate a man I want because he rejected me in favour of a hotter girl. No. Women just shame men for being shallow, and women for not having self respect. The hate comes when it keeps happening, and men and the hot girl get all the attention, and no social negatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:13 AM
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But they are growing in number due to the social media algorithms, No. It's because women went to far with ' Woke ' feminism. For 15 years, that dominated social media algorithms. Red pill is the reaction, women caused. they display a terribly toxic behaviour and understanding better their thought process in order to deradicalise them is a worthy undertaking in my humble opinion Not very humble. Women like how competition makes them feel, the adversarial process, through virtue signaling. Stoppi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:04 AM
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No. Women need to stop paying attention to red pills, altogether. But redpill is the trend of rejection for women, and makes them seem important enough to virtue signal at. Plenty of men that aren't redpill, women completely ignore. As long as redpill guys seem important, women will keep chasing them so they can also be important by association ( for better or worse ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:56 AM
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Women don't have to look muscular to attract a man ( or woman ) . It's not enough for men to not be fat, to attract women or attention. He has to have superhero muscle. It's not ironic, the social dynamic simply doesn't work the same for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:52 AM
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If women are going to laugh about their struggles ( out of denial and deflection ) , then men ( and no one else ) should never take them seriously. Women don't acknowledge how romantically useless they are, so it's easier to blame men. Men compete for the hottest chick for male validation Men compete, because they have to. It's the only way anyone trusts them to do the job. Women simply dislike mens aggressiveness, but men still have to prove themselves. Men also cheat on every girl for sex Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:20 AM
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I didn't see any benefits. Because there's no critical thinking or deductive reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 12:43 AM
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Lol because of romance media , most women have an incentive to date men. Women date men for of social ( media ) dominance and competition, not romance tv. I literally have girls who swore not to dating and when they watch kdramas cdramas or whatever they feel the need to date. Women also go queer, because it's all about chasing the next social trend or fantasy. People don't expect the CEO or whatever, they just think they need the guy with same personality if they wanna date. Women don't plan on…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 12:40 AM
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Because women trying to shame men, again. Women are about to lose value, doesn't matter how women perceive it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:47 PM
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Sex sells. Women sell sex, to men. Robots for men, will make those OF women lose money. Women won't just avoid perverted men in dating. All men will avoid women, in all aspects of life. Women will lose value, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:41 PM
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Except women make money from sex, regardless of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:23 PM
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Women want to avoid men, not for men to avoid women. Women don't want to be the thing that is ignored and shunned ( and still shamed ) , even by men. Women need attention to validate themselves ( need to be important ) , for better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:18 PM
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Women don't value men at all ( or the youth ) , regardless of intimacy or harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:02 PM
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Free Johnny Depp!
/r/MensRights02/04/26 10:27 PM
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There's a difference between protection, and support.
/r/MensRights01/04/26 07:24 PM
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I have a thought experiment for single red-pill men. The only men, women give any attention to. Let's assume you wake up in a parallel universe Delusional hypothetical, women internalize as reality where women aren't free to choose their husband and where the husband is not allowed to beat his wife but is entitled to have sex with her whenever he wishes it. " men are always the villain, no matter what. "
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 07:22 PM
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Women have " selective " equality. Things that involve rewards men have, women assume they're entitled to. But are never wiling to put in the effort to endure, to get those rewards ( but men still have to ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 07:19 PM
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we should question why honesty itself feels unsafe for men today. Because the " oppressed " are certain all their struggles come from the same place. They don't want to understand the complexity, simply react to their own perceptions. Banality of evil is when morality and ethics is determined by statehood and status ( not the act ) . Everyone has their own individual version of " boogey man " , and use it to justify the harm/evaluations they make.
/r/MensRights24/03/26 01:39 PM
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Until someone decides to put it to the test.
/r/MensRights24/03/26 01:32 PM
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But what’s interesting is not just what they say. It’s what they don’t say, and often don’t even realize. And when you look at how men actually react to women, there are a lot of factors that rarely appear in their descriptions. Because men are more different from each other than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:23 PM
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Apart from that though, men don't have it harder in dating than women. Difference between struggling, and putting in more effort. Men don't need to sift through endless people who don't make their intentions clear. That's because men know they're the ones getting the least of the social trade. Constantly considering do they want to get to know me or just use my body for their pleasure. Men want both, but will know for certain post coitus ( serotonin in mens brains clears up ). They don't need to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:12 PM
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It's not. Because maybe " she's just being nice " .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:10 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:04 PM
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" Smelling the misogyny " on the internet or social media, doesn't count for anything. If you're not doing it irl, then you're not doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:51 PM
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If only women gave this much attention to the men that aren't abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:48 PM
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Because Hallmark and Disney are fantasies, not real life romance. And Disney ruined itself by listening to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:11 PM
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Of course men lie about wanting love when they really want sex. For men, sex is a drive, not a fulfillment. Women’s love obsession drives entire industries. Money talks Womens ambition to be a voice ( regardless of what is said ) drives industries. Women quit jobs they cannot keep up with, regardless of " barriers of their gender " being removed or not. That makes people never to want to take a chance on women ever again. And those industries are right not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 09:55 PM
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Not quite. The expectations are still worlds apart.
/r/MensRights12/03/26 09:11 PM
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Love is a feeling, and feelings are very important to women. Men complain about it all the time. No. Men complain about feelings justifying a womans choices. If logic and reason did the same to build something together, women would be happier with men. Men also use romance, even lying about it, so they clearly know that using feelings works. No. Men don't understand feelings enough to manipulate with them. Men don't lie about romance. They simply don't know what to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:47 PM
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Nope. That’s why women love romance, true love, soulmates, twin flames, destiny, and ha Nope to your nope. Women don't love the people they love. They love to internalize the experience of love, not the well being for someone else. Men consider that stuff unmasculine . Nope again. Men don't like feminized part of love , alone. The masculine side if far more functional, practical and rational. Women like the irrationality, imaginary, self actualization fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 05:02 PM
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A reoccurring theme in romantasy is the idea of “the mate-bond”. A magical link that suddenly appears between a man and a woman, connecting them with supernatural loyalty towards one another and making only have eyes for each other from the moment the bond appears and onwards. It's not a fantasy. It's a lifestyle social role. Men are women are socially connected, even more so when children are produced. Biology isn't magic, it's just nature. Whether loyalty to wavers or not is secondary. Think o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:50 PM
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It's not about being a " real man " . It's about being a " kind " man, which involves fueling her apathy. He has to love her so much, that she doesn't have to love him back.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 05:29 PM
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Women don't lie. Women manipulate to avoid accountability or shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:26 PM
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A women finds out that she's not above-avergae, by being as single as all the other women that also thought they were above-average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:10 PM
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Women are above men in value in the mating market because eggs are expensive and scarce and sperm is cheap and abundant. That's strictly biology. We all know you only need one man and many women to make babies ( not good for future genetics though ) . Men who complain women punch above weight just don’t want to admit that women have more value because it hurts their feelings. No. All women delude themselves thinking they're above average. Some men think it's about women trying to hurt their feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:08 PM
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For the men out there, have you ever cheated No and if not do you meet any of these conditions: How can I if there's no other women around? Found plenty of opportunity where I could ? No and no Yes. It's called flirting, yes. No sex. No. Possibly. Not intending to or aspire to. Cheating isn't fulfilling. But I'm not perfect made of stone, and don't throw stones either. Women don't want men other women don't want. Women want men that can/could cheat, not men that can't/never do. Women like to com…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:57 PM
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" When Keepin It Real, Goes Wrong " - Chappell Show
/r/MensRights10/03/26 07:08 PM
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Cuz men keep saying "sex is a NEED". No. Sex is a drive for men. Humans need to have sex because we're social and it makes babies. Women are trying to ignore that social pressure and roles, to end up doing nothing at all. because men keep loudly complaining that they will LDAR without women What?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:25 AM
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Women value experiences, not people. A mature man is disciplined with boundaries. They seem cold and distant. It doesn't match her speed. Immature men ( asshole ) can be " fun " , make women feel something, with lapse boundaries. It's an invitation for women to be immature as well., matching her speed. A man being jerk ignites synapses in the brain, a righteous indignation, then internalize the feelings. Women don't get that from " not asshole " .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:42 PM
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There is a subtle difference here. Negging to make them do something (to give more attention, put more efforts, have more sex etc. Women like drama. It's not enough for a man to simply be positive. Negging changes the waves. but there is also negging done by insecure women/men to not do something (like leaving the relationship, being attracted to other women, etc which the guy/girl might not even be doing.) Just because men stop negging, doesn't mean women will. The insecure do it to make a safe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:28 PM
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I get that “negging” is supposed to emotionally manipulate women into lowering her standards by lowering her self-esteem. However, does this ever actually work? Women like drama and to compete, and believe they're entitled never to be negged ( regardless of circumstance ) . I personally can’t imagine why any woman would respond positively to negative comments or backhanded compliments. She doesn't have to react positively, simply react.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:05 PM
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Because successful men happen to have ways of compensating and making up for it, avoiding the shame.
/r/MensRights09/03/26 02:46 PM
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Social pressure and roles exist for a reason, regardless of whom it does right by.
/r/MensRights09/03/26 02:44 PM
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Compared to men, no. It's not a fair trade. Women are trying to offer less.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:35 PM
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So expecting sex from someone who needs you to survive is unethical at best and possibly rape. Yet, women still believe men need women more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:34 PM
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Women want men to prove they're not " misogynist " , so they manipulate in order to get men to capitulate. " If you loved me, you would ___ . "
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:01 PM
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I think you're saying predatory men avoid shame by sexually assaulting women and children No. Predatory men only care about their appetite, not avoiding shame ( that's why they hunt ) . Women aren't gaining moral high ground simply by pointing at mens failings, least of all without understanding them. And women should understand this because we don't want to be shamed for not adhering to traditional gender roles Women demand not to be shamed for anything they ever do, even if it's just as bad as…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:46 PM
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It was a woman managing that ring, because it made her feel important by association. It has nothing to do with making mens lives meaningful. It's about avoiding shame by engaging in inappropriate taboos ( even if it causes harm or not ) . Women should know abut how that works. Since women demand not to be judged or shamed by social pressure and roles. It can go to a dark place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:26 AM
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And if women face none of those risks from men, it makes men disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:06 AM
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It is literally impossible for billions of men to "decenter" women even if they wanted to, because society continues to overtly and covertly punish those who step out of line. Women don't want to be " decentered " . Women want to " decenter " men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:33 PM
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I’m bisexual and I’ve met and tried dating men AND women who with low confidence when I was younger and it’s the same either way: they’re just a drag to be around, and rely on you entirely to keep them happy or else they’ll feel betrayed. See? Women want apathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:10 PM
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Women want men to be confident, because women assume mens insecurity makes it unsafe or comfortable for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:35 PM
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I got to a point where I drop a TV series or movies at the slightest hint of those dynamics. That's exactly where their entire point starts and ends ( and that's all they need ) . If you react to that in a negative ( even as a logical evaluation ) , " Their must be something wrong with him " . It's like a game of chicken, but about whom the immature one is. There is no deductive reasoning, just reaction pointing. The stupid man ( or woman ) doesn't learn from his mistakes. The smart man does lea…
/r/MensRights08/03/26 02:53 PM
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Supportive of feminism When does feminism support men? Believe that benevolent behavior substantially increases men's dating success Just because he avoids causing her a struggle, doesn't mean she like him for it. It simply feeds her apathy. Hostile to the idea that many/most women are highly selective when it comes to physical and financial traits Women desire men to be physically attractive, just as much as men do of women. Men aren't concerned with a womans money. does not like the idea of sy…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:16 AM
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Social pressure, rules, and roles, exist for a reason, regardless of who it does right by. The practical for the individual is easier to apply, than a principal for all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:59 AM
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That may apply for men. But for women, the attempt alone is as traumatic, regardless of end result. Fear for their safety is paramount. Why shouldn't it be the same for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:31 AM
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You can offer her comfort and support all you want. Better be prepared to stay that way for her benefit ( and nothing else ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:38 PM
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Actually, it works exactly the same for women as men. Women pretend they aren't being shallow with their " preferences " , to avoid accountability or shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:31 AM
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Someone that doesn't type using commas or periods.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:29 AM
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Nothing special. You're just a screen. Because that's the safe space.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:22 AM
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Yes. Women choose a man based on looks and fun. Anything else is just a lie they tell themselves ( or others ) for the optics, avoiding accountability or shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:08 AM
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I'm treated like I'm less than a man and get absolutely no respect. They completely bash men right in front of me like I'm not even there/not a man. They try to " put men in their place " because they don't know how else to get back at you.
/r/MensRights07/03/26 03:53 AM
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They may stop her from succeeding, not from trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:45 AM
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Be surprised how much that affects womens choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:44 AM
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You dumb ass little boys have traumatized us. " Dumb ass little boys " , match a womans speed. If he's immature, it means he's " fun " , few developed boundaries and standards, and allows her to be immature as well. Women internalized the positives of experience ( because that's all people are good for ) , until reality shows up with a negative cost and consequence. Then call it trauma. Those immature men are all they ever focus on, regardless if there's a struggle or not. Safe mature men aren't…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:36 AM
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The "Independent" women are looking to steal or associate with a mans estate. They're trying to emulate what billionaires do ( regardless if she has her own money or not ) . Hoping to be the next Jada Pinkett. It solves the game-theory of relationships by looking at it as a mutual investment Women want divorce, not mutual investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:21 AM
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Because when more people want her, the people expect to internalize the " more of the joy " it comes with.
/r/MensRights26/02/26 06:08 PM
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the fact that men can just break off from each and every person who are in their livesand doit, Doesn't sound like a negative or complaint. Sounds more like envy. Shouldn't we ask why men want to leave in the first place, rather than simply shaming them for doing so? If only men got as much attention for taking responsibility.
/r/MensRights26/02/26 06:02 PM
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Blame social media. The thing we're all using right now.
/r/MensRights25/02/26 05:21 PM
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20%. That's how much sensitivity would still be there, if you had kept it from birth.
/r/MensRights25/02/26 05:20 PM
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Most of the time when I point out problematic behavior coming from some men, a lot of guys immediately take it upon themselves to defend whole men population, even though i called out only some men and only about specific issue. We don't defend the entire man population of problematic behavior. Men know it's an issue. It's more about whom is making the accusation about men in the first place, women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:08 PM
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What if he ignores only her?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:06 PM
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I could easily say that about the men who love sex and do not care about who its with And you'd be wrong. Sex is a drive for men first. Some people. Men and women. Like sex and the person they get sex through means very little to them. I could say that about women who love, love, and do not care about who its with
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 08:27 PM
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Because women don't love people. They love the experience of love people provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:54 PM
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Im gonna be called a man hating because someone couldnt come up with a better counter. Men counter with valid reasons all the time. Ignoring them doesn't make them any less correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:45 AM
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Because there's supposed to be cohesion and unity, not more division ( regardless of voicing truth ) .
/r/MensRights19/02/26 03:36 AM
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Women dislike the form of a repeating pattern.
/r/MensRights17/02/26 07:15 PM
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Can't " fix " mental heath issues, only manage them. Being a master of yourself, doesn't free you from struggle.
/r/MensRights15/02/26 05:02 PM
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Women do deserve to have the privileges that they do and women deserve to be cared for and respected and protected. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dtVHnZX8E50&t=9s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:09 AM
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Men want therapy that works for them, in an environment. Women want that therapy that affirms them, in an environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 09:29 PM
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Your chances of being dumped increase if you don't.
/r/MensRights13/02/26 09:17 PM
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Practical is like instinct. It comes before right, fair, and equal, because it doesn't require as much evaluation.
/r/MensRights13/02/26 09:10 PM
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Using strong language doesn't change what actually happens.
/r/MensRights11/02/26 05:39 PM
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That was a test of a womans composure. Women tend to flake.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:43 AM
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Circumcision ( the social advocacy ) or systemic circumcision ( that involves money and politics ) ?
/r/MensRights09/02/26 02:53 AM
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Don't really care. But women are fueling themselves from the thing about men they always complain about. Women used to complain about sex work being undignified. But with OF, they seem to enjoy it ( now that literally anyone can do it ) , even if it ruins social dynamics. And there's a very specific clientele they're targeting that doesn't know any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:17 AM
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It's called chivalry. Women don't value it from men, so now it's gone. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dtVHnZX8E50&t=9s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:11 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dtVHnZX8E50&t=9s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:22 PM
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Women contributed to all of that. All of that was built with the cooperation of men and women. And men still had to do most of it. Heck, a woman wrote the code that sent men to the moon. The first programmers were women. Saw the movie. There were men in it. If we go by sexist stereotypes, women made sure that the men have been raised, fed, clothed, taken care of, survived. So, without women you would not even have all that infrastructure It's called a housewife. That useful thing women did, that…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:55 PM
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That depends on how it was made.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:47 PM
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Ever heard of misguided righteous indignation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:45 PM
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Women invented duct tape and penicillin ( using moldy cantaloupe ) . It's not simply about what men take credit for ( property rights have a lot of lawyers ) , it's about what they do that never gets appreciation. If women don't care about what men do now, women never care about anything men do. So why should struggles for women end?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:19 AM
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Women don't care about anything ( except joy and validation ) , regardless of what men do or not. What do women take credit for, that they provide for others?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:00 AM
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Men built the infrastructure women take for granted. Mining, carpentry, plumbing, probably built the car you drive or the computer you use, entertainment, safety and security policies, reason and logic. It doesn't matter if women don't care or value it, women use it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:43 AM
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That’s what they claim. You calling them liars? I'm calling them half a--ed. But they can still be correct about something by accident. Education and exposure to diversity has been proven to change people’s minds very effectively, which is why many groups oppose them Education and diversity has to keep improving things, like an update for software. The people that oppose them either haven't gotten any improvements, or still afraid to lose something. Sounds like a bunch of self serving thoughts y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:25 AM
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We work, pay taxes, raise families, work jobs that benefit society in some way or protect it same as men Not quite. Women don't work blue collar jobs ( essential workers ) . Women do like white collar stay at home jobs on the computer though. Men pay taxes as well. Women don't want to have kids, or be married. And just like men there are evil ppl among our sex, by overall like men vast majority of us are good ppl, so how are we not doing societal duty? Women are doing whatever they want, and sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:05 AM
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Why should I give them any kindness? To prove that you have any kindness. If it's conditional, then it's probably not kindness at all ( just another form of manipulation ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:56 AM
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If men didn't want sex from women, what would women give to men? Because it seems women want to give nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:44 AM
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So do I. I'm not proud of doing the bare minimum. Neither should women. Women don't help men, for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:41 AM
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Dude.. Its just a complete none argument.. Or at least it should be Know why it is? Because it still matters. Just because she's weaker it doesn't mean its not inflicting damage on the man, whether emotionally or physically. There still has to be a measurable loss. Can't really measure emotions, but we can measure the physical. Sports institutions ( especially in the Olympic ) just made policy that men and women are different, and can't/shouldn't allowed to compete against each other. Ask any MM…
/r/MensRights08/02/26 03:24 AM
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Women are completing their societal duty by working and paying taxes. That's called the bare minimum. Men do that as well. And women don't like it when men do the bare minimum. Giving loser men sex is not an obligation of women. Women are getting more from men, than men are ever getting from women ( regardless if women acknowledge it or not ) . when women try to ' put men in their place ' , women feel joy through validation. Why are women always referring to owing men sex? It is up to loser men …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:40 AM
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Plenty of bigots change their beliefs when their bubbles, echo chambers and circle jerks are breached. Not quite. They don't change beliefs, they change how they exploit for means, because there's always another fire to put out. The ignorance doesn't change or leave to serve the other team. Men go to echo chambers and make bubbles now, because women were given an inch and took a mile. Who said we had to be “tribal” about it? That’s your invention No, observation. Women don't justify their choice…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:04 AM
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Because you're in in, and you're exploiting it for means, regardless if you acknowledge it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:56 AM
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Most times when I sympathized with a man about his problems, both online and irl, I got either a request for sex or misogyny. This doesn't explain ' how ' you were helping a mans problems. Sympathizing is not a solution. If he's looking for a specific ' answer ' to satisfy his ego, then he requires a different approach. It seems like women are telling him what to think. This is a common experience for women, judging from complaints about the friend/fuckzone, stalking, harassment, etc This is a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:43 AM
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The bigots want to maintain their prosperity ( through hypocrisy ) . They ignore anything that doesn't serve their pursuit. Then they try to self actualize a fantasy, at the expense of others. That's when they become discriminant and foolish. Their ideology isn't wrong, the people that apply it are. The tribalists ( including women on the left ) don't care about prosperity. Only getting back at the opposing team, resorting fighting fire with fire ( also using hypocrisy ) . In fact, the tribalism…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:08 PM
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Spoiler: most women have tried helping men at some point, and we learned our lesson. I certainly did Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:02 PM
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Men want help that serves them. Women don't help men, for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:59 PM
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Women have no sense of societal duty. They can say they're pushing back against misogyny, but with the capacity of a toddler. Women don't want to understand the problem to fix it ( or any learning ) , but to use the problem to validate themselves. Their struggle has to make women important, then demand comeuppance to ' put men in their place ' , manipulate pushing their own flaws and failings, and then nothing else ( for the past 15 years ) . It's all a disappointment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:58 PM
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Except we're not confronting the bigotry. Simply attacking the bigot ( with tribalism ) . It doesn't fix anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:56 PM
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Social pressure and roles exist for a reason, regardless of whom it does right by. No one is focused on the principal of the act, but the practical of whom is involved. If we did focus on principal, there would be no flexibility or exceptions in anything.
/r/MensRights07/02/26 09:30 PM
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Social pressure and roles exist for a reason, regardless of whom it does right by.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:27 PM
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As long as men are physically bigger and stronger ( imposing and intimidating ) than women, men will always be considered more dangerous. No one is focusing on the principal of the act, only the practical end result. Social pressure and roles exists for a reason, regardless of whom it does right by. Really... My gf headbutted me in the face and gave me a black eye. I could of stumbled, hit my head and died. And what if the roles were reversed? What happens when women confront women?
/r/MensRights07/02/26 08:13 PM
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Except men have a worse reputation of causing more damage.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 08:56 PM
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Other women do. And that's what women have become over the last 15 years. That's the voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:20 PM
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No one ever wants to be on the receiving end of their own rules. People fear indignity more than want to live well.
/r/MensRights04/02/26 02:16 PM
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India has a much more serious sexism problem than US, fr.
/r/MensRights04/02/26 02:03 PM
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Don't agree with everything i say. Have you seen women on TikTok?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:58 PM
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Feminists or radfem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:53 PM
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Kindness isn't going to be considered a strength by women, just because they're being treated well by men they can reach. Women still purse the men they can barely reach. It's about what she's chosen to become, not about who he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:52 PM
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Do unto others, as others would do unto you. Get what you give. Respect has to be earned and maintained. Basic human decency is that of when two strangers meet, nothing more. Other than that, start earning. Women give no decency to men. Men shouldn't be decent right back. If women laugh at their own struggles, men shouldn't stop making women struggle. Women are the ones that must change.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:47 PM
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Don't just be a doormat and think what I wanna hear is my own opinion repeated back to me. If i wanted that id talk to myself in a mirror. Or use social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:49 PM
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Women think nice guys are weak, or fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:49 PM
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Have you ever seen women date/celebrate male virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:36 PM
2

The Golden Rule
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:26 PM
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No. Disappointment over a pattern women project.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:08 PM
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There's more utility in what men do, than what women do. Men are carpenters, women are not. Men worry about science, women worry about whom associates with whom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:07 PM
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It's not a virtuous high horse, ya muppet, it's a statement so goddamn obvious I can't believe women even have to tell y'all shit like this It's still not the whole truth. People doing right by you, has to be earned by you, and practiced skill by that person whom has to do so. It's not an entitlement, it's common courtesy. Social pressure and rules exist for a reason, regardless of whom it does right by. If women are going to laugh at their own struggles, then men don't have to take it seriously…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:58 PM
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Open relationships don't work, because they're not relationships. You broke up, or are two timing each other, but decided to stay roommates. Lack of inhibitions and boundaries, ( indifference ) is not an accomplishment. If you have to ' romance ' multiple people, just to love one person, then you don't care about anyone. It's the lifestyle that is being valued, not the person ( or stability ) . It doesn't matter where or whom your heart belongs, it doesn't trust what it's doing. You don't value …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:51 PM
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Are you able to answer our questions? Yes, but I won't. Been down this road before. Answering all questions, and given solutions. Only for women not to care anyway , ( because they can, so they will ) . Wasted effort. Not going to feed the manipulative validation troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:23 PM
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What do they need to be accountable for? What do they need to be responsible for? Women have tried to socially engineer men and masculinity out of modern society ( for the last 15 years ) , and it's only made everything worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:20 PM
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To understand social issues, and work with men to fix them. Not make issues worse for everyone to spite a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:57 PM
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Women have tried to socially engineer men and masculinity out of modern society, and it's only made everything worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:56 PM
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And women complain about men doing the bare minimum. Women only have high stands for everyone else, not themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:55 PM
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And women complain about men doing the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:53 PM
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Women shame men that denigrate women they are not sexually interested in. Women shame men, period. And in order to get back at a few. Women aren't picky when they want to get back at someone. You can just not be attracted to a person, keep that shit to yourself, and continue to treat the person you're not attracted to with basic human decency. Don't get on that virtuous high horse, it's easy to fall off it. There's nothing anyone can do when a person wants to be a jerk. Feel free to internalize …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:50 PM
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Women get joy from validation, trying to " put men in their place " .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:13 PM
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I'm sure men are. Notice how small that list is? Women are using that, and everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:13 PM
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Those women on Reddit and TikTok are getting all the attention for a reason ; women are trying to emulate them. And it's getting more difficult to avoid ( especially if they're family ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:11 PM
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If only those people could be avoided and ignored, beyond dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:05 PM
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Women owe societal duty, regardless of how women try to rationalize lack of accountability or responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:03 PM
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Women will always try to exploit men, regardless if they're dating or not. Women use the same infrastructure that men provide. And women are not putting in the same effort, contributing, or reciprocating at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:55 PM
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I found this sub a few days ago and holy shit, it hit me in ways I genuinely thought I was alone in. Don't embrace tribalism. Female-only spaces on Reddit are, as a rule, unbelievably vile and overflowing with genuine hatred ..... Tribalism.
/r/MensRights02/02/26 03:40 PM
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Sure there would be a handful of delusional “girls girls” hyping her up, but a majority of people would be criticizing her “standards”, this is not a unique experience to men. Women shame men for not dating single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:33 PM
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Women aren't trying being helpful and supportive to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:28 PM
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Social pressure and roles exist for a reason, regardless of whom it does right by. Men who defend & even play the role of enabler of women's crimes. Some men don't see it as a significant offense , first. I've seen men who want to maintain an authoritarian position in relationship with their wife but they spoil their daughters day in & day out. He wants to have positive optics, by the younger generation. As a result, majority of staunch supporters of modern feminism are not the women who were op…
/r/MensRights01/02/26 12:13 PM
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Some are happy to simply be in the crowd, or part of the trend. No effort or contributions needed.
/r/MensRights01/02/26 11:56 AM
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That's how some women, want them to work. A business contract where men are to be exploited for means ( for social dominance ) . And then women complain about being unhappy, lack of connection, or unfulfilled. Demanding new contracts on a whim.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 11:50 AM
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They expect you to use the pov of their struggle, not your reality. Wanting to be proven correct. They don't want to hear from men in the actual " Not All Men " category. They want to project the " but always a man " section. If you're not part of their solution, you're part of the problem.
/r/MensRights29/12/25 10:21 PM
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Mens version of a good man = average guy. Womens version of a good man = high value man that gives her joy and validation across the board without struggle, and she does nothing for him in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:13 PM
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Since when do women have a set standard or procedure? it's all about the whims.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:05 PM
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The male loneliness epidemic is a phenomenon I don't really get to understand since there has always been lonely people (men and women). Especially men and women seems to be evenly matched about this topic. But it looks like men are more vocal about it Women live vicariously through others, men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:01 PM
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Get other women to like you first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:59 PM
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Women only want to be approached by men they already like or find attractive, and literally no one else. And that only matters of what fantasy that's already in her head. A man that has a socially dominant reputation from other women, is likely the best option to create attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:58 PM
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I somehow missed this deluded claim. Women manipulate far more than men do. Also, it's clear you see men as a group to be coddled. Boys need coddling, not men. Women seem to only give attention to boys ( for better or worse ) . It becomes a mute point, when that's all women ever do. And it's a mistake for men to be vulnerable with women to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:55 PM
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" I have the right to face my accuser. " - Raymond Reddington, The Blacklist ( 2024 )
/r/MensRights19/12/25 12:26 AM
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Mens complacency based on whatever prosperity is captured. Men haven't actually proved ( recently ) , that any other direction doesn't work. Only that they don't like those choices. If you don't explain ( every ) social pressures and roles, people will fill in the gap with their own bias.
/r/MensRights19/12/25 12:24 AM
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They're not out to prove misandry is efficient ( or that it works ) , only that it has to be endured by men ( because they cant feel it in a practical terms ) .
/r/MensRights19/12/25 12:21 AM
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Despite men being shamed by women for not dating single mothers at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:02 AM
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As long as it helps with something ( like a distraction ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:20 PM
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No. Religion is a crutch ( like music ) . It's rooted in expectations of being owed for undesirable things you endure. Gender roles will still matter, regardless of religion. Your gender doesn't exist for no reason. Religion is simply the best approximation, based on not having any other tool . If your self actualization doesn't build anything...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:06 PM
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Liberal women are the plurality, if not the majority They can be everywhere and still be useless to men. Liberal isnt code for extremely radical feminism But extreme radical feminism is liberal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:14 PM
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Liberal women aren't plentiful, if they're rejecting men, not straight, and non monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:51 PM
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And liberal women don't appeal to that demographic at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:34 PM
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Gender roles are rooted in religion. No. Religion is like music. It's a crutch, but used to evaluate trust. ' Belief ' is whatever gets you through the day. ' Culture ' is whatever a group of people do everyday, a trend that becomes commonplace. Women discuss things like household labor inequality etc Women will divorce over undone house chores, not commit over finished house chores. Part of the manipulation is pretending to value equality. The matriarchy has no intention of providing for anyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:33 PM
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Doesn't mean you're good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:10 PM
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Happiness is wanting what you already have. Having isn't the same as wanting.
/r/MensRights07/12/25 10:17 PM
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Being in a relationship is being on ta team that requires intimacy and more trust. Part of the the point of a relationship, is the same as if you're on a team. Not all teams are the same. No one has to be in a romantic relationship to “learn to be on a team.” Then it's not a romantic relationship, because there's no teamwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:07 PM
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Because women tend to provide entertainment. It's why clubs let women in for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:34 PM
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I asked you why you think “the point of relationship is to learn teamwork” you then talk about women’s problem solving abilities? Does that make sense to you? What's the point of being on a team in the first place? To help solve a problem. What else could you be doing? What do you do with a relationship? Nothing but " fun " ? It's to build a future together. Otherwise you're wasting everyones time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:31 PM
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Wanted equal rewards, without effort. Also expected men to keep showing up, no matter what.
/r/MensRights07/12/25 07:13 PM
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To provide and build. Women threw that away. And have no intention of doing that themselves, for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:46 PM
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How did you manage to type that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:41 PM
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They live vicariously through others ( because people happen to keep showing up )
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:18 PM
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Women, are teachers, nurses, doctors. They’re the main caregivers of kids, the elderly and the sick even though they work now. Where do care givers get the resources from? Men in other places. And women are starting to turn their backs on those jobs as well. We don't have enough teachers, and nursing field is seeing women quit ( women dominated control ) . To do what? Type on the computer from home. If it was the case, men would still support it now as not being ready for kids will still be a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:13 PM
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“The point of being in a relationship is being on a team” - where did you get this from? Because women don't solve problems. Women either try to validate themselves through problems, or exploit them for joy ( and don't reciprocate ) . Also, can’t people learn how to be on teams outside of romantic relationships? People can learn. Women don't care to learn. but anyway, you start off with “it’s only tolerable to be single when…” where are you getting this from? Notice how women internalize any soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 05:17 PM
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You'll never hear women use those words, because women don't care about society. Not even their own team. Because that's how tribalism works. Women only want to spite someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:59 PM
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Let’s not act like men care about societal duty. Men do care, they're just not good at it ( but still better than women are ) . That's why they're car repair, plumbers, electricians, truck drivers. And women are none of those things. Men happily cosigned contraception, the pill etc when they thought life would be a free buffet sex. No. Some men don't like the idea of raising a child when they're not ready either. " Free sex buffet " is a bonus. But notice how women don't even appreciate men sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:58 PM
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Go debate with these people then, not a random person who doesn’t believe people exist only for convenience. Individually, that's you. Culturally, people share the same mindset. Joy can come from many different sources. Doing fun things ... Fun things don't maintain society ( or relationships ) . Putting in effort does, and in things you may not enjoy, women avoid doing. Based on what? What should women be doing according to your opinion for this societal duty? (that they are not already doing) …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:37 PM
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Doesn't matter. Men would date a bi woman, it's simply about trusting her. Women don't want to date bi men, because they don't respect them for the same ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:17 PM
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Have you not seen the college campus protests/riots that happened before the election? It's not under wraps. The guilty that committed it have been keeping quiet about it, because it hasn't generated the support, they assumed their tribalism would bring.
/r/MensRights07/12/25 01:07 PM
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Women don't date male virgins, or bi men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:07 PM
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Women don't date male virgins, or bi men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:05 PM
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Women don't have social skills. They live vicariously through others ( because people happen to keep showing up ) . As if they're pulling toys out of a chest on a whim, then throwing them back on a whim. Women call it a " social life " , because they're checking off boxes, with no investment or commitment. .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:05 PM
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Because women ( have chosen with joyful indignation ) to be a liability. Men don't like setting themselves up for undignified rejection, just so she can validate herself. Women on;y want to be approached by men, they already like and want to pursue , in their head. Not random strangers and cold meetings ( regardless of social skills ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:57 AM
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Everyone has their own reasons to stay or not. Those reason should still have validity, beyond personal truth and bias. A woman that dumps a man because he's boring, or " he doesn't match her speed " , shouldn't be his fault. Social pressure and roles exist for a reason, regardless of whom it does right by. Women go out of their way to reject those social pressures, but only ok for women ( tribalism ) . Apparently, those reasons, roles, and rules must be explained to be valued by everyone. Men j…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:41 AM
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Or because women are tribalists that don't compromise to solve a problem. Men are the ones that always must change to serve a womans whims, while women do nothing. You think a woman is going to stay with a man, because he does house chores?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:23 AM
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Never said people exist only for your convenience. Don't have to say it, when women do it anyway. Harris said during her campaign , " We want joy! " Where ( or who ) is that supposed to come from? Women lack the concept of societal duty. You seem to have a personal issue with being single and are unhappy in that arrangement. That’s completely fine No. Have a problem with people trying to validate themselves through others ( while praising being single and alone? ) , and " sell " their personal t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:16 AM
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Women can have high standards all they want. Women should stop complaining about men not achieving those standards ( that change on an emotional whim ) , calling them failures to invalidate, and complain about how there's no " good men " around when they've clearly rejected everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:01 AM
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Be single and alone all you want. It doesn't deserve to be celebrated. Least of all because , " Everyone else isn't good enough for me. " . You're still doing, nothing. Lack of stress or struggle, is just that, and nothing else. ' Living your life ' based on social dominance, only matters when there's someone else on the reviving end. The point of being in a relationship, is learning to be on a team. Skills, growth, and development, It's worth taking notice of. We evaluate romance ( or marriage …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:00 AM
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(Look up the 21 feet rule of firearms for example) That depends on how fast that particular person is in his ability to close the distance ( difference between a couch potato and an athlete ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:11 PM
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If you're single and alone, you're not growing at all. You're taking joy and peace from lack of struggle or stress, nothing more. If it wasn't about fault, one wouldn't complain about being miserable in multiple marriages ( most likely divorce was caused by a woman, that also avoids accountability ) . I have no idea why you’re offering your cringy lil add-on opinions Because too many people focus on their own personal biased truth, instead of the overall truth of what's actually happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:04 PM
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Social pressure and rules exist for a reason, regardless of whom it does right by.
/r/MensRights04/12/25 08:10 PM
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Not interested that you're not interested. Others might be. See how being single makes one choose to invalidate others? Because that's what's actually being celebrated. Being happy should be celebrated IMO 🙌🏽🥰 Being happy is at its best, when it's building something. Being happy after being miserable in my marriages… even MORE reason to celebrate It's easy to say it's his fault, when he's not here to offer his side of the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:18 PM
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Be single and alone all you want. It doesn't deserve to be celebrated. You're doing, nothing. Lack of stress or struggle, is just that, and nothing else. ' Living your life ' based on social dominance, only matters when there's someone else on the reviving end. The point of being in a relationship, is learning to be on a team. Skills, growth, and development, It's worth taking notice of. We evaluate romance ( or marriage ) , because there's a future in it. It's only tolerable to be single, when …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:43 PM
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Social pressure and roles exist for a reason, regardless of whom it does right by. Lack of inhibitions and boundaries ( indifference ) , is not an accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:03 PM
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You've shown the lowest kind of person. And they're mostly immature lost men. https://youtu.be/TLLIzdrIMho?si=j_lriwvS-FCUlMF3 Without education. Reasoning that only enables his wants, not how to maintain ( least of all a relationship ) . His preferences are temporary. He doesn't know himself, and doesn't have a teacher. He expects his pretending is all that is going to be noticed. Instead of accepting being bald, he decided to fake it, with the most expensive ineffective way ( just use a toupee…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 09:03 PM
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you resent that you aren’t an outlier. This bitterness permeates in your mind and got under your skin so profoundly that you don’t even bother trying to get to know a few women and asking them out. No. I resent what women constitute as an outlier, is superficial. Money and social attention from others, changes everything for a woman, which doesn't actually have anything to do with him ( or as a person ) . Getting to know women, changes nothing about what women pursue or value. you admit that all…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:41 PM
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Feminist have promoted that men should be allowed to express their vulnerabilities (IN HEALTHY WAYS) like women do, so that guys dont end up being unhinged weirdos. Feminists don't know what makes men " weirdos " . Only that they don't want to be on the receiving end of them. Feminists are only interested in helping women, through men, for womens benefit ( not mens ) . And feminists are big on the expansion of healthcare, which includes better care for the mentally ill (which conservatives dont …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:43 PM
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You noticed the pattern? Their problems were not their dick not being wet. Yeah .... It's about seeing men in pain when they're at their lowest. Women like listening to it out of social dominance ( look a man is losing, lol ) , not to help him through ( or solving ) his issues. It's all a manipulative form of validation at mens expense, disguised as caring ( women high five each other over it ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:26 PM
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Being lazy gets you nowhere, regardless if women appreciate his work or not. Understandable if you want to avoid stress, but doing nothing is just that. He can have value without her, but he still has to provide something ( at least himself ) . Difference between being a simp, and being cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:07 PM
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It's called intrinsic value. Things have a purpose, regardless if you're around to judge it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:17 AM
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The power and authority of a man, the accountability and responsibility of a child, and the advantages and perks of a woman, without consequence or struggle.
/r/MensRights09/11/25 08:11 AM
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Just because someone who is super rich or super hot can cold approach strangers doesn’t mean you’re a victim. Never said I was. Only that they have all the advantages. And if those " super hot and rich " people don't check off every box on a womans list, their failure is cast upon all the other men by women. You’re angry that outliers can do outlier things Not angry either. Those outliers are allowed to do all the things. And women wonder why bad things don't happen to bad people. wth is this pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:01 AM
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Please actually read the post. It’s a bright blue link so if you missed it, you’re proving you didn’t read A DEBATE POST but still decided to comment. This is better than the video of that simp. His aggression is scary, but not uncalled for, consider whom it's aimed at. It's only really bad, when it goes beyond simple agression. A debate post on Reddit, is insufficient. Can't talk about it here, because moderators. So you’re holding women more accountable to give a fuck about men more than you e…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 10:35 AM
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Yes. But not so afraid, as to avoid it. Being alone is simply an undesirable to be endured ( much like other things ) . The problem is it brings up other issues. Spirituality helps, but it's a cope, like music or religion. There is no " female loneliness epidemic " , because women live vicariously through people, like monkey bars. Women talk about being " independent " , because they have Uber and Doordash, social media, or a nieces and nephews they can perceive as their own kids. Men know the u…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 09:52 AM
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You clearly didnt watch the video I posted. What video? Oh you think none of those are problems, got it. They are issues. But just because some men approach them with the discipline of a toddler, doesn't mean women should to. You're thinking of it as binary, and it doesn't help anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 09:36 AM
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This isn't a twist of words, it's a fact. For a woman, everyone is a monkey bar towards the next best whimsical pursuit or experience ( because joy ) . Reputation is just a small part of that. Women will date someone they don't know, if all the boxes are checked. A cold approach would would, if he pulled up in a limo or had paparazzi follow him. Social activity isn't a preference, it's an absolute. If a man doesn't have it, women blame him for it, and avoid him ( even if she found her soulmate )…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 09:01 AM
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That's why I'm asking if you guys think when 2 men are friends, because in fact men are friends with each other, what's going on there. Are they gay or what? There's a huge field difference between platonic and romantic. Men don't " open up " with each other, the same way women do. Women talk about everything out of fear of being inhibited or invalidated ( if only they wanted solutions to issues instead ) . Because they live vicariously through others. Everyone is replaceable. Men are trying to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:48 AM
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Yeah, people dont like seeing men disrespect trans woman as a way to prove theyre straight. No. That's not masculinity. That's simply disdain for being lied to. And has nothing to do with " proving being straight " . That I care about men’s issues when theyre actual issue No. It's how you perceive the issue ( and it's incorrect ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:14 AM
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I see a lot of posts and comments that blame women for choosing wrong, choosing assholes, deadbeat dads, abusive men, toxic, those who'll just use them, you name it. If they don't find men they like they are also blamed because "that's who you attract". It's called accountability. Women don't justify their choices ( as the OP is a " proud slut " ) . Men don't scrutinize him, don't look for faults in him, don't say "choose better", "that's who you attract", "ha, and you dare to give advice" . Act…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:08 AM
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but I do not feel suspicious when other people invite me out with them What if they invite everyone else, except for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:51 AM
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If you have a group of friends then that emotional labour is distributed around, and doesn't fall into one single person's showlders. Men can't simply form a friendship with one other man. The group dynamic is more compatible, but harder to form.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:49 AM
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If women only date men based on reputation, then they're only looking for the " best " reputations. Women don't want men other women don't want. Men can't all be in the hiking club.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:46 AM
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Women: SA not being taken seriously? Circumcision? The draft? Homophobia? Being forced to uphold toxic behavior that’s propagandized as masculinity? Men: OUR PENISES ARENT BEING TOUCHED! WE’RE LONELY! This says more about you, than it does about men. Being forced to uphold toxic behavior that’s propagandized as masculinity No. Masculinity is the expression the undisciplined immature men happen to use, when they run out of other tools or options. Women call it " toxic " because they simply see a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:36 AM
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No offense bro but this is a men dating women type of thinking because as a gay man dating men Then these are two different dynamics. some guys can make a date or a hook up really bad. Because intimacy can be chaotic. Tt requires more trust and deductive reasoning then they're currently able. Are there good guy out there? Absolutely but it’s so hard to know which is which ..... but reality is it happens because of what you find by dating some people. This is why I dislike the " non traditional "…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:25 AM
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When men receive sympathy they often say that they feel emasculated and only want concrete actions. When women received chivalry from men, women started to reject it. Because it made women feel weak, or didn't like the idea of owing men. It's why men are chivalrous anymore., it was being offered in a way that satisfied them. It works the same for men when sympathy is offered. No one wants pity. Concrete actions allow for stability to find other solutions. You personally may not want the tough lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:09 AM
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Do you seriously think there are no women who have no friends Women substitute and live vicariously through others. It's where they get " support " , and can be superficial. Heard far too often how women don't need men, or dating to be fulfilled ( and praise being childless ) . If women don't need those things, then they probably don't need women or friends either. The complaint about support ( or lack of ) is all about validation. But it works well enough for them, to get what they need and dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:03 AM
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You have 0 accountability, what women do or don't is not in your control... What you do is. When there's a problem for men, that involves women, it's not simply about men anymore. If men finding friendships with men is a solution, then it's not for women to input at all in the first place. But here you are, masquerading as being helpful for something that doesn't involve the other. Womens pov doesn't work for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:55 AM
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Notice how you're quantifying joy and misery? Romance can be helpful or harmful, but it simply " is " . It doesn't exist just for you. Joy is not a mining site you can simply extract, and you can learn for the negatives to mental health to avoid it costing as much. If you're put off dating, it's because you're exhausted, not because of what you find.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:52 AM
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Why ? Why don't you guys have hobbies and friends ? What's stopping you It's a tired argument. Because it's not a solution*, that works for men.* Women live vicariously that way. It's like telling someone who has money issues to get a job You have to hear and understand the money issues first. they would spend it all on women and not care about making friends or meeting them it even meeting me then cry once the woman leaves That's the friends, you know. That' lack of discipline and maturity, has…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:43 AM
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men will reject women or filter them out after sex not before, while women try to do it before. Because he kicked the tires ( with a clearer head ) . Mens evaluation of a woman, isn't always going to come from an upstanding personality. Sometimes the immature man gets to choose as well. Women don't bother with a test. They simply chase the man with a reputation, the man all women already want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:49 AM
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And what is " useful romance " ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:46 AM
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It was about venting and being part of the sensationalism. Like the Tea App.
/r/MensRights06/11/25 02:44 AM
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Men want balance to their risks. Women demand compensation on their terms, for their risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:41 AM
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Just because a woman doesn't care, doesn't make a man useless. Women don't justify their choices to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:34 AM
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It's mostly mens fault who run after women and prioritize pussy over genuine friendships . This is why men have it harder. Men don't receive empathy. Notice the lack of " warm awareness " .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:33 AM
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But, regardless, the quality of being funny itself is not even remotely beneficial to attracting women. Comedy is subjective. Some think you're funny, some don't, they're both correct. But part of being funny, is " fun " . Women want to extract joy in a relationship ( as much as social dominance and competitive validation ) . Better to have a sense of humor, than not. It's simply not the only measurement or guarantee for attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:30 AM
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You contradicted yourself. Its primarily because these men avoid responsibility, not that its a wasted investment Responsibility is about not taking action. Some men are lazy or don't know better. Others see the forest through the trees. https://youtu.be/YtsERgb--DM?si=sh5ZhU-c0nieo3sr WTH was this? No. This is a guy that doesn't know any better, giving women the benefit of the doubt ( when he shouldn't ) . He doesn't know what a wasted investment looks like. any other man that knows social cues…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:22 AM
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Empathy is shared feelings, not similar reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:47 PM
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Men don't like wasted investment ( it's why they avoid responsibility ) . Improvement has to be appreciated and accepted, not simply demanded. Women don't want to associate with " nice guys " , because they're not good enough or meet womens expectations ( regardless if the " nice guy " is sincere or not ) . Women can still reject men, even if they give women everything they want ( and they do ) . Men notice that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:12 PM
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Can't get something from nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:07 PM
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Online gambling makes one disconnected with losing. Ever play a video game alone, and lose? No big deal, just hit reset. Ever lose online with other players? No reset button, everyone knows you lost. Gambling at a real casino in person, you can see an feel your chips bleeding away. Online gambling is just numbers on a screen. It's not the same sensation.
/r/MensRights03/11/25 09:54 PM
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tl;dr I mean, most everyone wants to be loved and lusted over. Just lusted over by the right person. And the right person, just isn't ever the unattractive one. Could've ended with this. It's actually quite sad and upsetting, but the reality is, uglies don't count as people a lot of the time They're people you don't want to socially invest in. Being unattractive makes people think , " You're not trying hard enough, so why should I ? "
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:51 PM
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The stupid man ( or woman ) doesn't learn from his mistakes. The smart man does learn from his mistakes. The wise man learns form everyones mistakes, including his own. Patience, masculinity, deductive reasoning, emotional awareness, maturity, discipline, are learning skills. It's not a common knowledge, can only pick up the lessons from outside sources, and their comes a point where applying the knowledge has to happen in an ideal environment. Those men are still caught up in their adolescence,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:44 PM
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True friendship require uncomfortable trust. At least transactional gives you footing to start with. How to get out of " trade " , and still be friends is the trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:09 PM
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now you've got like a half a generation learning how to socialize on video games where everyone is screaming rape-jokes and N-words and laughing about it, and the other half grew up on celebrity Twitter learning how to "clap back" instead of "get along" Lack of vulgarity is seen as a weakness, as if you're prudish or not being honest to avoid hurting feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:58 PM
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Where does this confidence come from? Social dominance. Being the ' it guy ' in the room, or the one sitting in a chair everyone pays attention to. Social skills are a part of it. But all the self assurance isn't going to matter, if you can't draw a crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:56 PM
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Women get their autonomy, men get their autonomy. That’s fair for everyone. Autonomy is not teamwork. I do not understand your bit about validation. Just because they perceive it as an attack doesn’t mean it’s one. It just means there's one less reason for women to be trusted, because women demand to be paramount.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:23 PM
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Don't be coy. Neglect is not paying attention. Erase is as if it was never there. Men can't erase women, and women can't erase men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 07:30 PM
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No one's counting how many times. Only with how many different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:11 PM
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Can you give an example of what you mean here? Because this is very vague? Not without flagging the moderators.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:08 PM
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Women want the authority and posturing of men, the responsibility and accountability of a child, yet keep whatever advantages women have over others. It's not feasible or realistic, but women still want it, and don't care where that goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:02 PM
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They do? They do, what? Men don't erase women. Simply neglect women. Men invalidate women, when men prove women incorrect. Not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:58 PM
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I also find it funny that whenever a man is abused by women, women always say "he must've done something wrong" People assume it's benign, or that her lashing out has " sensibility " to a choice he made. but if a man abused a woman, he is a monster. Because he's physically bigger , faster, and stronger, than she is. Social pressure and roles exist for a reason, regardless of whom it does right by.
/r/MensRights02/11/25 01:26 PM
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That's why it's so popular.
/r/MensRights02/11/25 01:18 PM
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Men are physically bigger, faster, and stronger than women. And most politicians are men.
/r/MensRights02/11/25 01:18 PM
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Circumcision? It's simply skin ( assuming the science is done correctly ) . A male loses about 20% of dexterity.
/r/MensRights02/11/25 01:16 PM
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In the reverse, they assume men don't empathize
/r/MensRights02/11/25 01:14 PM
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Now that criminal obviously needs to be punished for his crimes however human rights exist and he doesn't deserve rape as a punishment, nobody does. It's about the crime ( the act ) , as much as the perp. Some assume the perp has " no idea what it feels like " .
/r/MensRights02/11/25 01:12 PM
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Men are expected to provide for everyone. Women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:40 PM
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Women always say , " Men have advantages that women don't . "
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:38 PM
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As a undisciplined " leftist " man feeling unappreciated by women that want to erase him from modern culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:36 AM
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Women can have autonomy ( or validation ) , in things men care nothing about at all. It doesn't have to be " personal " attack , just an attack. Remember, " people are selfish " . How is a man supposed to perceive him having less, so women can have more?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:28 AM
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Women need to work on a team with men, instead of competition against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:14 AM
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Humans originate in the male testes as sperm ( each cell is a separate person ) . Humans develop from the microscope to macroscopic in the female eggs and bring it to term.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 05:40 PM
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What do those gains do for the " boys " .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:36 AM
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Men protect provide for themselves, women and children ( by building things for their stability ) . Women do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:20 AM
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How else do single mothers become single in the first place? It's not always because a man is a bad parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:47 AM
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If unmarried women are happier then why do women get married? To extract more joy.
/r/MensRights22/10/25 02:27 AM
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Single fathers don't get respect or validation from women, at all. So why should single mothers? I've said this before but there are too many women out there who say they love their child(ren), but they hate who they had them with. Women divorce men, regardless of his skill as a parent. Not all single others are benevolent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:18 AM
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And no one talks about single fathers, at all. no one actually gives a shit about deadbeat fathers except the women who had their children That would be single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:00 AM
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Women point at misogyny , from men with social dominance and power ( money, sometimes political ) . Women aren't concerned with average guys doing a 9to5 job ( unless they support them men whom are misogynist ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:56 AM
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Why do you think they're shamed by being called deadbeats in the first place? Women simply don't see more practical social condemnation that make men care or take notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:46 AM
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You're not entitled to be free from struggle or consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:41 AM
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Men get blamed for being deadbeat fathers all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:38 AM
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No, this is ridiculous. Either all of it’s acceptable or none of it is. This mindset convinces men that male autonomy somehow matters less than female autonomy. People don't acknowledge a truth, they cannot exploit. This isn't a quite binary problem. But you still have to work with and around the fact ; men are physically stronger than women. There's push/pull dynamic for everything, and a balance puts you in a gray area, when it all adds up. You haven't lost any autonomy ( or effectiveness ) , …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:37 AM
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Nothing wrong with men going overseas for a woman. It's mostly about status comparisons. Women overseas don't think highly of their own men either. Western women demand men struggle for them, despite the constant rejection and invalidation. Yet, will give men nothing in return, even if they get what they want ( it's part of the manipulation ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:11 PM
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Women don't preform societal duty at all as it is, regardless of what men do or not. Until women provide for others ( not just themselves ) and take all the risk ( not avoiding accountability ) , men will always be the center and back bone of society. It has nothing to do with a womans agency. Telling men " No " , then staring at wallpaper while glorifying yourself, accomplishes nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 04:34 PM
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That just makes them more useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 04:34 PM
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Because the parents can be immature and irresponsible themselves ( it's called being lazy ) . If women don't want kids ( fine ) , there's literally nothing that will change her mind ( even with money and a baby sitter ) . But women manipulate accountability to make it seem like it's not their fault ( for many other things as well ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 04:30 PM
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Yet, you're still looking for validation, right now, by invalidating men. Is this all apart of " moving on " ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:53 PM
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Principal is still the same, it's the practical that's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:48 PM
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Social pressure and rules exists for a reason, regardless of whom it does right by. A struggle, is not necessarily suffering or harm. Simply frustrating and exhausting. People don't acknowledge a truth, they cannot exploit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:44 PM
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But for the average guy, the extent of their "slut shaming" boils down to finding a massive body count to be a turn off when it comes to relationships Bonnie Blue, the chick that slept with 1000 men in a day said she's worried about not being able to find a man to be in a committed relationship with. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:30 PM
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The moderators don't allow for that kind of expression or explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:23 PM
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If you're unable to manage your sex drive on your own, that isn't an indication that you require another person's assistance - it's an indication that you need to take some accountability for your emotional state and figure out better coping skills. Um....? I was a fucking loser, looked my absolute worst, and had ZERO romantic success at that time in my life, despite pleeeeeenty of attempts to express interest/attraction in friends, dating app matches, etc (both male and female, I'm bi). I was c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:21 PM
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I'm specifically speaking to men who are anti-slut. We see non-stop complaining about how immoral it is for women to have casual sex. We see complaints about how unfair it is for some people to have easy access to casual sex while others don't. The problem isn't that women want casual sex. The issue is they want to be glorified for it, as they perceive men do. And the access isn't equitable ( and neither is Sharia Law ) . Social pressure and roles exist for a reason, regardless of whom it does r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:12 PM
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Why do conservatives fight against the "LGBT" agenda? Because of their religion. You can reject the LGBT, without using religion. Lack of inhibitions and boundaries ( indifference ) is not an accomplishment. Many are worried about the affect on children. Religion is just a ( misguided ) crutch to evaluate trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:04 PM
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However, normal men are not a large percentage of this sub's population - the sub is full of bitter, vitriolic losers who whine constantly about being owed sex. No. Men complain about being on the receiving end of womens social pressure, roles, and expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:51 PM
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Still have to lose something, for being unfair to matter. " Play fighting " isn't one way. If she does it, so can he. But he has to be more careful about it, because she's physically weaker ( and probably more insecure ) . Should resort to teasing and pranking instead of " striking " .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:41 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:59 PM
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What's " wrong " about it? Just because it's unfair, doesn't mean you're at a loss. People don't acknowledge a truth, they cannot exploit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:56 PM
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What responsibilities do men have that women don't have? Men are expected to provide for everyone ( or helping to solve a problem ) , and shamed for not. Even more so if a man can't get his act together ( not having use or skills ) and provide for himself. Women aren't expected to provide. But when they do ( and only for themselves ) , women invalidate men for it. If anything women always get judged a lot more harshly for their parenting skills than men. Deadbeat fathers are shamed all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:21 PM
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Men have testosterone and muscle density for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:09 PM
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Social norms benefit everyone, just not equally. Men are generally physically stronger than women. That's the most noticeable aspect, and it's not going to stop being what gets evaluated first. The principal is being hit, the practical is about the scale of how you get hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:50 PM
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Most people who pay for sex don't do it ethically--they can't afford "fair trade" sex work. Many pay a third party (a pimp) and don't get the consent of the woman at all, which is rape. .... Punching a random, housed, employed guy in the face for $400 doesn't have the same moral problem. Either consent is paramount, or it's not. Using the status of said person to judge whether it's moral ( or ethical ) only leads to double standards. Morality is about knowing what's right or wrong. ethics are ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:41 PM
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If you flip the gender roles, everyone knows what that behaviour would be called ..... because it quietly tells men that their boundaries don’t matter, and that their pain doesn’t count unless they bleed. Social pressure and roles exist for a reason, regardless of whom it does right by. The practical sometimes outweighs the principal ; the difference between knowing and doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:30 PM
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it might be unsexy for some It makes him seem immature and lacking social skills to her ( instant turn off ) . but it spares you a headache Having a map of where to go next, doesn't help if there's no point in leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:22 PM
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Here's something tot add to the confusion ; women cry whether they're happy, sad, angry, or afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:18 PM
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You really can’t generalize attraction You can't generalize pleasure. You can generalize what people will pay attention to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:13 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:17 PM
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Not sure it’s written by women tho It's written by women, or men that capitulate to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:00 PM
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I don't even know her name but the woman in the Kill Bill movies is great Beatrice Kiddo. She had plenty of flaws, and didn't have to invalidate all men around her to take the top spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:59 PM
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And since men won't protect them from this onslaught Women don't like chivalry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:52 PM
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Being nice is relevant but not a higher priority to social skills, looks, confident, etc. That's social dominance. It's the difference between a " nice guy " and a " good man " . But women wouldn't know what to do with either to begin with, because they don't believe in reciprocal transactional relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:33 PM
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There are no " stats " for manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:12 PM
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Women think disrespect is funny, until they're on the receiving end. Women internalize as well ( mybe more than men do ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 07:52 PM
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No need to type in all caps , it doesn't count as shouting. He's not actually in the room with you to feel your tone of voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 07:49 PM
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That doesn't invalidate men, only prove men are doing something wrong ( and women need to stop assuming they don't have to listen ) . Men can still be correct about everything else ( and women can still be incorrect about everything else ) . What men have in common, isn't for women to decide. Especially if all women do is point at a pattern, they don't actually understand. Men commit violence, out of immaturity, being undisciplined, and not having any other plans or options. Masculinity only hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 07:46 PM
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Right has nothing to do with the personal dynamics of men. Men are more different from each other than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:15 PM
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No Harris. You simply aligned with women that value social dominance ( and nothing else ) , by making men suffer and be thrown away in the trash. Manosphere just picked up what was in the can.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:05 PM
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You can have a family, without being married.
/r/MensRights08/10/25 09:13 PM
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Yes. Don't let women manipulate the acknowledgement. Women don't respect male virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:34 PM
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Then it's a mixed bag. Seen it before. Many of them are from different cultures that don't get along. Gossip is the only information they get. Logistics is delivery, high turnover job rate, high stress, changing rules and bosses. Don't expect upstanding behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:29 PM
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That's the practical.
/r/MensRights05/10/25 04:30 AM
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No. Coercion, period. And women manipulate as a form of coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 04:22 AM
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Women can just walk away too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 04:21 AM
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You can't state the reasons here? Because you have none that make sense? No. Because moderators are watching ( and bots ) . Men can be sexually victimized just like women can. That's the principal, not the practical.
/r/MensRights05/10/25 03:45 AM
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No. Saying that women do it too ( through manipulation ) . And not simply about sex either. Women coerce men, but demand not to be coerced by men. Women only believe in one sided communication for their social dominance ( never on the receiving end of their own rules ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:37 AM
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Sounds like guys just out of high school. Those young men are still caught up in their adolescence and smart phones. The stupid man ( or woman ) doesn't learn from his mistakes. The smart man does learn from his mistakes. The wise man learns form everyones mistakes, including his own. Patience, masculinity, deductive reasoning, emotional awareness, maturity, discipline, are learning skills. It's not a common knowledge, can only pick up the lessons from outside sources, and their comes a point wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:34 AM
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Can't state the reasons, here. But they're small social identity politics that accumulate ( mountain out of a mole hill ) . exaggerated to accommodate the Establishment in this culture war. The " establishment " is loud and reactive, not organized or compartmentalized.
/r/MensRights05/10/25 03:16 AM
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And women, wait for it, manipulate anyway. And still don't take accountability, no matter how much they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:00 PM
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It still helps women avoid accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:46 PM
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That's why women manipulate as a form of coercion .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:38 PM
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Either way, women demand not to be pressured into anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:57 PM
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Vindictive spite, or regret doesn't want to be shamed for.
/r/MensRights04/10/25 01:46 PM
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Women also like to substitute one kind of relationship for another. That's why there's so many different versions of " non " traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 11:40 AM
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Women wouldn't know what to do with a " good man " if they had one. Because women don't believe in transactional relationships or connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 11:27 AM
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Sex for men is not a fulfillment, simply a drive. The superficial only lasts for so long. Look at Brie Larson.
/r/MensRights04/10/25 11:17 AM
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Appearance doesn't do much. Appearance that leads to social dominance ....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 11:00 AM
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Men scrutinize men all the time. Except when it happens, men call it " war " .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:37 AM
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Social pressure and roles exist for a reason, regardless of whom it does right by. The practical can have more influence than the principal.
/r/MensRights04/10/25 10:29 AM
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No. Men are more different from each other than women are. Sex and attractiveness is one of the few only similarities men have. And that's based on human aesthetic desire. Humans like to physically look at nice pretty things. Like a recently built building, compared to one that's being worn down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:43 AM
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Men aren't accepting, per say. They're ignoring it ( by way of defending it ) . They're not focused on the principal, just the practical.
/r/MensRights14/09/25 12:14 PM
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Women are just as shallow and as men are, differently. But women think they're entitled to be. Women want to dismiss men at their leisure, but never to be on the receiving end. It's a double standard. Women wouldn't know what to do with a ' good man ' if they had one, because women have no intention of reciprocation for than man ( women don't like transactional connection ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:59 AM
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It's not enough for men to make women comfortable. Women have to be validated while also being free of struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:55 AM
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Women don't want men other women don't want. All women chase the exact same 1 guy ( regardless if he's decent or not ) . It's why that Tea app was dedicated to ruining a lot of mens " reputations ".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:13 AM
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That women getting dumber would be ‘equality Smart women getting dumber , for dumb men, would be equality. There's tons of smart men out there, that invalidate women, because they're smarter. And women demand not to be. They're not going away to find dumb men to validate themselves with either. Notice what you're doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:07 AM
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When you say that most people (including men) don’t see abortion as a problem with medical necessity, that’s a given. Because nobody in their right minds would deny healthcare to someone who needs it. Needs it for their physical health. Not uses it to manipulate societal social interaction. But what about reproductive choices as a whole ? If a woman wants to get an abortion, if it’s not medically needed, would people be in support? Reproductive choices are one of the core tenets of the feminism …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:04 AM
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Your “one valuable physical asset” phrase makes you sound like a dude who’ll actively shame women for not pumping out a kid or 2 lol. First, women shouldn't be laughing about a womans struggle, if women want men to take it seriously. Second, women pumping out kids, is a decision nature made before humans existed. Men don't shame that. Men dislike the idea that women only want pregnancy to matter, when a woman says so. Instead of making the child a priority, women want to use the the child to mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 10:27 AM
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Social equality has no fairness in practice. There's too many things to account for a ' push / pull ' balance. The law works that way, because what constitutes law is relatively simple. Law has the luxury of being precise, because it's about what makes us all the same ( not equal ) . Actual life is not. Social pressure and roles exist for a reason, regardless of whom it does right by. Equality is " I win, you win. I lose, you lose " . That only goes so far. Equality is not being the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 10:08 AM
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There is so much in between what I said and you reducing it to women want to be free of struggle. Umm... So I'll continue to say LET THE BIRTH RATE PLUMMET TO HELL No. There isn't. See all this anger. This is the real truth behind the moral high ground. This is what men have to step up for? Because the anger isn't going anywhere, even if women get what they want. Social dominance is not a fulfillment. Like narcissism, it's a bottomless pit. If me saying men need to participate more in the home a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:05 PM
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Men hear women all the time. But men do deductive reasoning based on what people do, not just what they hear people say. " Men need to stop being deadbeat fathers and start being attentive husbands " . Fine. But that's not the whole truth. So I'll continue to say LET THE BIRTH RATE PLUMMET TO HELL This isn't a simple statement. It's an action of spite and revenge. It's not a solution, but coercion. " Either men do house chores, or women will let the human race die off . " And women say they disl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:00 PM
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Solitude sounds great, unless it's not by choice. When you become the thing that everyone else wants to avoid, it's a completely different aspect. But you'll be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:41 PM
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Chad this, chad that. It seems to me like you all want women to be falling all over you while being a completely average man. What's up with that? Look at it in the reverse. When women say they want equality, what kind of men are they talking about? It's not what the average man gets ( because women already have it ) . Women want what Chad gets. Men don't want women to treat them like Chad. Men want women to stop putting in extra effort only for Chad ( regardless if they notice it or not ) . Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:04 PM
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Never said men wanted smarter women to be dumb. Only that it would make both equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:34 PM
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Ok. No men shouldn't dumb down their strength to be equals for women, because men aren't the ones worried about being equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:28 PM
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Women don't want men being physical equals, when women also want men doing house chores, and carry grocery bags up the stairs. Women don't respect men being shorter than them. Women demand equality,so they don't have to struggle at anything. That requires men to pick up the heavy bulk items, or fight in wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:52 PM
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No. There's no amount of men doing house chores or child rearing, that will make women want to have children. Notice how '' single mothers '' never gets mentioned? They're not being burdened by men. There's no men around at all. CF women say no to anything that doesn't bring them joy, because they've already made up their minds long before noticing mothers. It's just easier to blame men. Struggle is not suffering. Lack of struggle, only makes a person want to keep avoiding struggle. If men gave …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:36 PM
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Has feminism gone too far in the west? Yes. And it's disappointing. The right to vote, work, bodily autonomy, the right to be respected and protected from violence etc. Women have a right to be free from violence and vote. Most people ( and men ) have no issue with abortion as a medical necessity. Respect has to be earned. You'd be surprised how little respect women have for men ( even involving things that have nothing to do with women ) . But I feel that in western countries, feminists have lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:30 PM
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Should women "dumb it down" so to speak? That would be equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:07 PM
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What's the field of work?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:43 AM
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Her fiance is also abusive and literally tries to murder her. He is not the good guy He also used a child as a bargaining chip to get onto a lifeboat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:41 AM
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Basically, your high school jock, but he has to make a woman more important than himself. Women want social dominance, over the socially dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:12 PM
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Not surprised, annoyed. Women try to take a moral ' high ground ' , and say looks don't matter. Only to reveal they're as shallow and superficial as men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:10 PM
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Social dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:02 PM
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Not surprised women have baggage ( even because of men ) . Men have baggage ( not surprised if because of women ) . The problem is people refuse to learn from their baggage. A struggle is not suffering, it's simply a challenge or difficulty. Men don't know what to do about their baggage, and women internalize their baggage and then project it at others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:53 PM
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No. The money would be a bonus, but men want a pretty girl first. It's not a popular fantasy. The suspense of dating a female mafia boss is intriguing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:33 PM
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A man is only whipped, if he needs her money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:31 PM
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Just because women trust men, doesn't make her like ( or value ) him. She wants to be safe, to reject or dismiss him. It's ironic. women want to be safe, so they can ignore their safety. There is such a thing ( for women ) as being too safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:30 PM
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The people who have power over her and other women are far more likely to be men. Like husbands, employers or politicians. This isn't "just a bad feeling". These are real material, social and political dynamics. Men not having any kind of power, doesn't make women notice him at all ( or feel anything ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:27 PM
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Yeah because when you love someone you don’t think they’re average anymore. They’re your special person. Just because you him, doesn't mean you stop comparing him. My man is probably by all accounts a perfectly average man. 5’6” 220 makes the same I do, very middle class dinks. See? Those stats are always going to matter. That's how he became ' average ' .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:21 PM
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He's not the one setting up the competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:27 AM
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Let's start small and basic. How many men are getting child support from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:26 AM
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Do you have sources for yours? How many men are getting child support from women to being with?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:33 PM
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I start to care if they start to have power over me. Social dominance is internalized out of fear of powerlessness. Most people don't have power over you, even if they get what they want ( and you don't ) . It's just a bad feeling. Right now incels hate me, i don't really care because most of the time i have an option to just walk away or even better not to be in same spaces with them. For better or worse, incels still get more attention than men that aren't. The only thing i want is lust of som…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:32 PM
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A majority of women keep custody of the child, for which men pay child support. And most of the money isn't spent on the child. When women pay child support to men ( which almost never happens ) , men don't lavishly spend the money on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:21 PM
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I have never witnessed this “women Chad chase” irl except with exceptionally beautiful women and exceptionally handsome men And those are the dudes your sisters and friends want. Most people are average and have their own preferences within that average. Women never talk about how great being with ' average ' is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:17 PM
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Women aren't interest in men they're neutral about either. The guys that are ' so-so ' get dismissed instead of unattractive that get rejected. Women want nothing to do with the 50% of men that come behind the top 25% of men. Women only want the best, and blame those men for not having it. Word play and semantics doesn't make one any less shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:59 PM
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Women don't want men other women don't want, regardless of taste. Women value the social dominance a man has with women ( and men ) , not the man himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:53 PM
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And opting out of marrying for love as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:49 PM
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I have many male friends who do the same thing and I berate all of them for it. Like if you know there's a 0% chance of you ever marrying her, then let her go and stop wasting her time. He doesn't want to lose a friend ( regardless of benefits ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:48 PM
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Difference between wanting attention, and wanting validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:43 PM
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When men pay child support, it doesn't only go to the child. If men gestated and gave birth instead of women, women wouldn't want to pay either ( and also run from the responsibility ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:39 PM
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For the woman he's not as attracted to, ... she'll always have to jump through more hoops than a woman who has the looks he wants. Even if that less attractive woman sleeps with him, he'll likely still have his eyes elsewhere and keep the less attractive woman for sex only. Is it fair? No, You missed something. The women, men don't find attractive, won't be any more attentive than the woman men do find attractive. Women value social dominance, and they don't give men ( good/positive ) credit for…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:32 PM
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No. Women are competing against each other for the ' hot ' guy. He's doesn't have a bigger checklist for whomever he chooses. Women don't want men other women don't want. They all chase the exact same 1 guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:22 PM
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Word play doesn't change anything, when the pursuit is clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:05 AM
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a) men are the sexually disgusting gender, and sex with men makes people worse off; it taints, ruins and impurifies them. The implication is that sex with men should be avoided, and the less sex with men one experiences the better their quality of life No. Men just happen to have bad hygiene. The skin on his hands is no different than the skin on his crotch. As far as his behavior, men are more different from each other than women are. The pattern of sex with men women happen to notice is the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:43 AM
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Social pressure and roles exist for a reason, regardless of whom it does right by. A balance must be maintained. Expect to endure the negative consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:30 AM
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A Lily Allen is an example of the slippery slope. If women care less about the unborn child, they're going to care even less about the living one. Slightly uncomfortable is not harmful. The lack of unjustifiable choice will carry over into other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:23 AM
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It's his job to eliminate options based on his standards, as it is mine. And we're all supposed to learn from it and adjust evaluations to come to the middle. We don't. And women feel more entitled to avoid that ( despite being just as flawed as men are ) . Women don't justify their standards, expectations, or choices. Simply have them and cast judgements that only makes sense to them. No one is the better for it ( no matter how much it feels that way ) . I've been dumped and rejected many times…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:31 PM
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Except social media is a narcissists playground. Most of Redit is an echo chamber. No one is really learning anything, just disgruntled venting. And women still look down on men as a negative for being introverts. Women always expect more from men than they do from themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:24 PM
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Expect you already defended her abortions, but when she's bad with actual child rearing, it's a negative? Not all women get abortions for medical reasons. Some do it out of sheer spite and callous ugliness. An abortion is not a positive choice, regardless of how right wing conserves frame it, or even if women have a right to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:20 PM
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It's still true. And until women learn a greater responsibility, they should keep Roe repealed. You're not entitled to live without struggle ( least for all at the expense of another ) . It makes a person weaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:14 PM
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She also said she hated her kids, and used her career as an excuse to be away form them. Women will do anything out of spite without social pressure and rules ( including harming others ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:12 PM
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Lilly Allen doens't care. She can't even remember how many abortions she's had.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:53 PM
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Women have fulfillment issues they believe can be compensated with social dominance. This is incorrect. Women only care about lifestyle and status, not stability or people. Women are bad at communication ; romantically ignorant ; selfish to the point of absurdity ; more mentally ill than men are ; believe empathy is about compensation for their negative experiences ( it's not ) ; no accountability ( regardless of agency ) ; don't commit to their share of societal duty ( are not picking up where …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:52 PM
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Good luck, because women a will have to endure this dynamic from women ( and nothing else ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:48 PM
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Word play doesn't change all that much. We're not in a courtroom. Feel free to rationalize in ways that only makes sense to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:19 PM
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Should there be womansplaining? Do you even know what mansplaining is? No. It’s when a man thinks a person clearly knows less than him. Women take offense, because she doesn't like his tone of voice ( regardless if she already knows or not ) . Just because women see a pattern coming from men, doesn't make it true ( there's more to it ) . There's no ' womansplainng ' , because men don't care if a woman is being condescending, as long as there's useful information being shared ( it won't matter at…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:16 PM
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Don’t approach strangers in public. Funny, women also complain about men never approaching them at all. It’s basically declaring that the only thing you know about them is what they look like, and that’s your only threshold for whether you like someone enough to ask them out. Because that's exactly all the information a man has. If you want to know if a woman is interested before you ask her out, talk and see if you like each other. Then give her the opportunity to walk away if she chooses. '' A…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:09 PM
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We know that a lot of men care about sex over everything. No. It's a drive for men, not a fulfillment. Women ( narcissist ) see it that way, because women always think that what they aren't getting, will fulfill them ( it won't ) . Men don't mind romance, but it doesn't get us out of bed, because it's emotionally fleeting. And we don't want to waste the effort. If he loves her, more than she loves him, romance won't matter to her ( because she won't respect him ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:51 PM
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Women don't want men other women don't want. And women never justify their choices, so they have a rationale that only makes sense to them. A woman would hook up with a virgin male, if all the other women said he gave good oral. Then complain about how he didn't bring a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:43 PM
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Because women refuse to admit that they have their own social pressures and roles they force upon men ( regardless if a man is a misogynist or not ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:35 PM
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It's not that romance is necessarily a bonus. It's that it's more complex, and isn't initiated as easily as sex. Men have to plan romance. Too many variables. Women are backwards; they want romance, but are bad at applying it ( because they don't justify their choices ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:02 AM
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Women aren't interested in being on the receiving end of their own rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:59 AM
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None of these comments constitute circular logic. That term has a meaning Doesn't matter what it's called. It's a rationalization aimed for a womans pursuit. Why is it that men who mansplain are so universally uneducated? At least men are looking for useful information. Notice how there's no male version of ' woman '-splaining? Women don't justify their choices, simply make them without evaluation ( of anything outside themselves ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:58 AM
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It makes sense to only you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:55 AM
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Expression is art, not a fact or utility.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:47 AM
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Ok but men's expectations and standards for what they want out of a relationship with a woman are just things that other men have regurgitated. Men share generalized expectations , then become specific based on the individual ( sometimes without being as shallow ) . The pattern doesn't always hold. If there were no gender roles or history many men wouldn't have standards like cook, clean etc as that has nothing to do with natural intrinsic qualities Social pressures and roles exist for a reason,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:35 AM
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Refusing to let the other person have their opinion because you feel they're "wrong" is offputting. Don't have to refuse another opinion. His simply doesn't have to match hers. Also super serious topics like politics should generally be avoided on dates...values are often more important than partisan bickering anyway, Avoiding politics is going to be difficult, since gender politics is the new trend that aims at devaluing men,. 5 ways to answer the same question. 3 and 4 are awful. 1 is wimpy/bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:27 AM
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Be single and alone all you want. It doesn't deserve to be celebrated. You're doing, nothing. Lack of stress or struggle, is just that, and nothing else. ' Living your life ' based on social dominance, only matters when there's someone else on the reviving end. The point of being in a relationship, is learning to be on a team. Skills, growth, and future development, It's worth taking notice of. It's only tolerable to be single, when you have distractions from being alone. Like dates with no comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:39 AM
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How is this different from men? Men don't have as much of a list as women do. ( which makes men less shallow ) . Their standards/expectations/desires are also things that are regurgitated by other men especially in manosphere or TRP No. Not all men are TRP. Women just happen to focus on them, because they have social dominance. Women will always give manosphere attention ( for better or worse ) , and use them as an excuse for their own shallowness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:10 AM
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She is the one that will have to live with him. No. He has to live with her. Big difference. So better damn well check the fucking boxes. Yes. She should be prepared to be on the receiving end of her own rules, and check off his boxes as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:06 AM
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Why would I date someone who doesn't meet my standards? I'm not desperate His standards matter as much as hers do. She should be prepared to be on the receiving end. She has to check his boxes. The only reason to have a man in my life is if I desire him. No. He has to desire her back. That's what makes it a relationship. This is the shallowness I was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:04 AM
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If I met one that checked all my boxes, then I'd be interested in THAT man and put in the effort to get him specifically. As would all the other women, being interested in the exact same 1 guy. Women don't want men other women don't want. And women don't value him as a person ( because women don't need men, remember? ) . They value all the boxes being checked, as a matter of social dominance. It's shallowness disguised as fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:49 AM
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It's called social dominance. Women don't want men other women don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:47 AM
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' Chad ' is considering any options that grant him access ( supply and demand ) , and his preferences and types are his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:40 AM
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They're overly agreeable and bland on dates. No strong opinions, or they just agree with her. Their communication style is muted, low volume, devoid of any excitement. They don't attempt humor, don't include one liners, deride flirting and banter as "performative", don't talk with excitment about anything. It simply means they haven't come out of their shell. It's a case of trusting yourself, and the person you're with. You can't develop social skills, without having social activity. '' Got to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:33 AM
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They know they will most likely end up in a relationship with an average women who will eventually age and not be the type of hot young women that turns them on hence settling for her. This sparks fear in men's mind that perhaps women settle for them too. No. Humans like looking at physically attractive ( healthy ) people. Women are just as shallow as men are. Men come at the issue with immaturity, whereas women want to pretend it's normal for her to desire another. Men are picky about settling …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:11 AM
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Women don't like being told they're making bad choices, from either gender. It's not about being happy. It takes away from their social dominance. They're susceptible to looks as much as men. It's a human desire to be around physcially attractive ( healthy ) people. Women are just as shallow as men are, but don't like it when men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:04 AM
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This somewhat made sense when being "an Alpha" was defined by good looks AND money/status Not quite. It's social dominance that determines an alpha ( along with money and status ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:05 PM
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If ugly women aren't having sex with chad, who is having sex with them? They aren't having a problem with getting sex ( per say ) . They have a problem getting men to commit to them as they would for attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:03 PM
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Women don't know what to evaluate, so they pick the base line negatives ( and patterns ) they find in men. Men need to be better teachers, because women only know how to be reactionary.
/r/MensRights10/08/25 02:35 AM
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Should men forgive a cheating girlfriend that wants him back ? No. I am just going to get to the brass tax most men only get like one chance at love these days And women like to use that against men for social dominance So I think men might just have to accept they won't get full monogamy anymore. Women want bigamy more than men do, because they don't value any one person they're with. They want multiple partners as if they're disposable assets. With the 4B movement becoming more popular and lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:35 AM
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What if she lets you cheat? It's only so she can keep cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:16 AM
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Except those are the men women choose to pay attention to. Men dating younger women gives them social dominance, and women can't ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:12 AM
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Women don't justify their choices, and are never on the receiving end of their own rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:09 AM
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Women have fulfillment issues they believe can be compensated with social dominance. This is incorrect. Women only care about lifestyle and status, not stability or people. Women are bad at communication ; romantically ignorant ; selfish to the point of absurdity ; more mentally ill than men are ; believe empathy is about compensation for their negative experiences ( it's not ) ; no accountability ( regardless of agency ) ; don't commit to their share of societal duty ( are not picking up where …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:08 AM
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It's a matter of utility, not personal preference. Men and women can't separate from each other. We have to work together ( especially in societal duty ) . And women have to admit that they're the ones creating a bigger division, because they fail to fix the problem ( it's not something to be proud of ) . Women dating women is just another meaningless unproductive distraction. Womens happiness doesn't build anything. Social pressure and roles exist fro a reason, regardless of whom it does right …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:03 AM
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Men want to be wanted in relationship, not because they provide something. No. Men expect to be used for resources by women. Women don't want to ' owe ' men for it, nor be considerate of the gesture. Women want his resources for free, and then to be dismissed. Women want genuine desire for relationship with them. They want someone who will like to spend time with them, have emotional connection and not just fake feelings for sex. No. Women want social dominance in a relationship as fulfillment. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:49 PM
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I promise men your not gonna be homeless for paying the first date Neither would she.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:39 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:37 PM
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Women don't want men other women don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:54 AM
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Women don't want men other women don't want. Be single and alone all you want. It doesn't deserve to be celebrated. You're doing, nothing. The point of being in a relationship, is learning to be on a team. It's worth taking notice of.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:08 AM
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Part of being a man and having masculinity, developing a thick skin and endurance for filth. When they do adjust, sometimes they just stay in it. There is no ' click ' that tells him to do more ( because he's lazy? , maybe ) . It's mostly about utility to be clean, not how it looks. Not all sanitizers and cleaning products require bubbles ( like toothpaste ) . It's added ingredient to fill the the consumers need of expectation of cleanliness. Men assume it's something to be avoided, and that dri…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 06:11 PM
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So did Jojo Siwa.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 06:09 PM
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No. Eventually, men will stop caring about sex. It's a drive, not a fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:22 PM
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The problem with you guys is that you are convinced that we want you as much as you want us... surprise surprise, we don't Women want social dominance, regardless of the dynamic. Trying to take pleasure in rejecting those that want you. It won't last, can flip. There will come a point when men go out of their way to avoid women. It's the complaint women have about getting negative reputations. Feel free to walk around with a shirt that says ' 4B ' on it. See what happens. Women can be their own …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:18 PM
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Women don't justify their choices, they just enjoy making them out of social dominance ( free of reason or consequence ) . Think that's what this ' Tea ' app is for. Women don't want to simply f strangers, they want to f reputations. so they don't have to care about safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:07 PM
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I don't talk, just listen and observe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:00 PM
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Still the same problem. Lack of experience is lack of experience. It's the conflicting expectations of the social pressure women place on men. Women don't like men that only desire sex, but he must still be good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:58 AM
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Same problem. Men with low body counts are shamed by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:55 AM
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You can love children, and still never want to have one, even in a stable world. The world is divided because everyone wants to compare struggles, as if they're entitled to utopia. Don't know what country you're in, be the extreme inequality doesn't only lack of means from the top, but also because we don't know any better ( or unified ) to provide those means for ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:54 AM
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Does it matter who chases who? Yes. Men and women may be equal, but that doesn't make them the same. Dynamics matter. When one gender just based of pure statistics are in the bar of hell, there is no point you either can extract what goods you can get from it and accept what can't be fixed It's called exploitation. And you have to want to fix what's broken ( not simply expect someone else to ) . But first, you have to understand it. And you can't blame them. Its either completely deconstruct men…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:49 PM
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Women don't justify their choices, simply make them. They can rationalize 100 different ways, but it all comes back to the same pursuit ( women only don't like it when men do it ) . If women don't want to have a kid, they don't want to have a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:24 PM
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Or they do have social dominance, but their social dominance is just built around other things. No. They simply don't have any exposure, want the attention, or those other things aren't mainstream The Pope is abstinent. Women don't respect virgin males.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:20 PM
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It's almost like people don't want to bring kids into a world where they don't get to make decisions about their own bodies. Women don't want to bring kids into the world, period. ' Their own bodies ' is just an excuse. Don't overestimate the pursuit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:51 PM
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There are plenty of MGTOW men who do go their own way, and no one talks about them, because they're minding their own business No one talks about them ( including women ) because they have no social dominance. MGTOW do, so that's what women pay attention to ( and generalize all men with ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:48 PM
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Another thing to mention is that men clearly dont hold other men accountable for the amount of damage that women have been put through Men can only hold men accountable for what men do to men. Men don't control what the men do ( especially the ones chased by women ). Women never want to hold women accountable for anything. not only before the whole femininst movement but even now in our current modern day era, and women are the ones who are getting blamed for alot of things. No. All men are gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:44 PM
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Women don't want men other women don't want. All women will pursue the exact same 1 guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:36 PM
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No. Women don't want men other women don't want. All women will pursue the exact same 1 guy. Because they want the social dominance. Women seem to want reputations, because they share in gossip the most. Men just happen to get a hold of it. If a man has a reputation, it's most likely by chance, then he uses it as social currency. Never heard of ' Tea ' , but it seems like another gossip app where anyone can say anything about any man, and nothing else ( not even about dating ) . If anything, it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:32 PM
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'' Don't save her. She don't wanna be saved. '' - J Cole, No Role Models
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:22 PM
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Because women want social dominance. If a man doesn't own himself, or the room with another person in it, women dismiss him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:00 AM
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Except women feminists do that to all men, regardless if they're creeps or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:17 PM
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Actually, it turns out she's kind of a basket case, and couldn't handle the fame ( it go to her head ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:53 PM
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And this is why feminists deserve not to be respected. They have no empathy at all for things they don't pursue. And feminists complain about men disrespecting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:44 PM
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Women don't have to force feelings, only perspective. Women never put themselves in the mens shoes, of the men they don't respect or reject.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:41 PM
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Women already have an ideal list of men they'll initially respect and men they won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:40 PM
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Women don't want men other women don't want. All women will pursue the exact same 1 guy. Just because men lower their standards, doesn't mean women will respect them for it. She's not going to like him more for wearing a pink shirt. Women want men with social dominance and high value. Women simply don't like being on the receiving end, where one woman gets all the attention from men ( be careful what you wish for ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:02 PM
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If a man is toxic, women will give him attention ( for better or worse ) . ' Toxic ' men still have some kind of social dominance, and women never ignore that, least of all for a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:57 PM
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No one said said he was. It's simply difficult to respect someone that goes out of their way not to reciprocate. Women should empathize with this, but they don't have empathy for men. Moving on from being isn't normal, it's heartbreak. Women only care when it happens to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:13 PM
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As an actual woman, I’m telling you flat out that you’re wrong. Women feel and experience all of the same things that men do. Sure they do. Except women have no empathy for men. Again, the world wouldn’t exist the way it does if such a limited, inhuman, frankly horrific worldview was held by half of humanity. Women talk about how they don't need men all the time ( it's the trend ) . We're all still here ( for now ) . That sounds absolutely psychopathic, and it makes me feel terrified for you tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:17 PM
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Women don't value people. Women value the feelings and social dominance they pursue through people. Women feel love, attraction, lust, and heartbreak like all human beings Because that's the only thing women measure as humanity. This is why men call women emotional. Women are far too loyal to their emotions, and that's how they make choices ( put it in bold letters? ) . Women don't care how men feel about them ( or when men feel love, attraction, lust, and heartbreak ) . Only worried about how m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:40 PM
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and the relationships we would die for. and the experiences we would die for. Fixed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:18 PM
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It’s wild to me that you’d forge a life around these belief systems, hate it, but just keep living a life where you find those things to be true. It’s so bizarre. Many of these belief systems exist, without mens input. Men suffer from social pressure and roles, as much as women do. Women don't acknowledge mens struggles ( this thread is the proof ) . Men aren't going to get away from those things, simply because they don't like them ( neither are women ) . That's just how reality works. why do y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:11 PM
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Women don't need deep conversation to think ( men don't ) . Deductive reasoning is a skill that must be practiced with maturity, but you don't necessarily need others for that. Too many people want to avoid their doubts. A refreshing change of pace isn't enough to make a woman value a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:00 PM
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Women only like video games, as long as there's a social competent attached, like the internet. Back in the 80's, a man playing NES by himself, lead women calling him a loser. Men like video games for the obstacle course. Women only like video games when other people are around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:47 AM
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That's a strange thing to say on this sub. Just because women have an opinion, doesn't make it valid. So no examples or supporting evidence. Do you know how debates work? If you're going to make ridiculous claims back it up. Otherwise, it sounds like a whiny child. Seen this before. Offered proof and examples, and women say ' they don't really care ' . Ex; Lily Allen ( David Harbors wife ) said she doesn't know how many abortions she's had, and she doesn't have to justify her choice to do so. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:44 AM
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Women are the ones that don't do deductive reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:27 AM
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Women break up with men, without telling them. Just because she checked out and keeps him around, doesn't mean she cares about his feelings. She's either happy with being alone ( because she knows another will show up she doesn't have to commit to ) , or she's got a back up in mind, she hasn't planned anything with yet. No. Women think everyone, except for themselves, is replaceable. It's how they keep their social dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:21 PM
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Safe enough to be comfortable and convenient. And then throw way that safety when her pursuit or pleasurable experience calls for it ( and he's ready to give it back to her without expectations ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:14 PM
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Lack of social dominance. If a man can't take command of a room and be ' That guy ' , women dismiss him immediately. Women mistake it for ' confidence ' . It makes her brain synapses go off. Makes her feel alive and important to be associated. If he does have social dominance, it doesn't matter if he's a simp, or a redpill. She will give him all of her attention ( for better or worse ) . Look at what women have done to men in video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:11 PM
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Any social interaction that involves two or more people in a room. Women demand to associate with a man that has social dominance, or have it themselves. As long as they can exploit the experience for fulfillment to serve their whimsical pursuit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:02 PM
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Ironic. Women never take accountability or justify their own choices. But always demand men to do so. Women want to dispense social pressure and roles, not to be on the receiving end.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:59 PM
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And women don't like it, they simply tolerate it. It's still a negative against him ( by her ) , and he doesn't know she has little respect for his hobby. Women keep it to themselves and use it as one more reason to hurt men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:57 PM
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I'm important. What expense have men paid for me to be important? Women aren't that important ( not a Disney princess ). Time, money, effort, meeting a womans expectations and making her a priority. What choices or expectations do women need to justify? And who do they justify them against? All of them. Men. But women should start with themselves first. Through merit, validity, and equitable evaluation ( learning form mistakes ) . But women ignore reality, so they don't have to take accountabili…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:53 PM
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I'm important. What expense have men paid for me to be important? Women aren't that important ( not a Disney princess ). Time, money, effort, meeting a womans expectations and making her a priority. What choices or expectations do women need to justify? And who do they justify them against? All of them. Men. But women should start with themselves first. Through merit, validity, and equitable evaluation ( learning form mistakes ) . But women ignore reality, so they don't have to take accountabili…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:53 PM
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Mostly correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:47 PM
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Because women are never on the receiving end of their own rules. Womens expectations are for men to meet, not women. Women are far too loyal to their emotions, and that's what makes their choices on a whim. Even if expectations are met, she can still say ' No ' . Because women also don't care to be trusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:45 PM
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A ' good man ' is something a woman can exploit and dismiss at her leisure. To good experiences for free, without commitment, reciprocation, or his expectations being met. A non-transactional relationship, isn't grounded in anything or even a connection. Women aren't going to value good men, just because she's free to ignore him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:06 PM
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No. Men are single because women want social dominance, that accomplishes nothing. Women want to be important, for no reason, at mens expense. Women don't justify their choices, or their expectations. Only demand men follow through with it ( and dismiss them on a whim anyway ). And women never reciprocate anything of value ( equally ) in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:52 PM
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No. Women don't like vidoe games under any capacity, regardless if they impede his priorities or not. Video games don't make men socially dominant, something women demand to have to make themselves feel important.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:51 PM
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No. The socially dominant men, women pay attention ( and are attracted ) to, might be less sensitive towards women. When those men don't check off every one of a womens expectation boxes, all men become irrelevant and dismissed by women. Women don't justify their choices, because everything is made on a whim ( including their evaluations ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:47 PM
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Exactly.Women don't care about men or their feelings. Only about whatever gives her the -ick. That -ick, isn't always his fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:24 PM
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Women have to hold themselves accountability for the expectations they make of others. Not simply blaming others for not meeting those expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:22 PM
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And women don't have any actual standard of ' good ' , that they invest in. Women don't like fake ' nice ' guys. What's a the difference between a fake nice guy, and a real nice guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:16 PM
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Except there's no set standard for women. Women don't justify their choices, so there's rationalization that only makes sense to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:13 PM
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Women don't want men other women don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:09 PM
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Not really sure. What's tea?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:08 PM
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Assuming that's all women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:07 PM
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Intrinsic value is about what gets produced when you're not around to judge based on what you want. Assets are about whom does more work, not who causes less problems. Women may be less of a liability, but you can always get more done from men. Women don't care about the work men do, only the ick they want to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:04 PM
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Women internalize distractions from being alone ( family, friends, echo chambers on social media ) . A woman being alone, doesn't make her less approachable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:39 AM
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In 2023, the world was just coming out of the pandemic. Self isolation streamlined the process, because no one had anything to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:36 AM
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Just because women are given the benefit of the doubt, doesn't make them an asset.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:32 AM
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Today, in the West, women have far more power of choice, and the means to access. And most of them do the same thing, anyway ( with variations on a theme ) . Yes, in the hundreds of millions. Because it's about what those women want to avoid doing, not trying to achieve their potential to do more is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:25 AM
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Men cheat on impulse. Women plan to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:20 AM
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Labels don't dictate anyones actions, least of all for women. Women make choices based on their whims ( even beyond sexual identity ) . Bringing up men, doesn't change anything about what women do. It's just an excuse for women that don't justify their choices. '' But men do it too '' .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:17 AM
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Didn't think I had to specify. Men generally don't experiment or mess around with their sexual identity. how do you account for the huge number of 'straight' and bicurious married men who mess around on Grindr Grindr is exclusively queer dating app, correct? Pretty sure the ' straight ' men knew that going in. These are men that won't plant a flag or make anything official ( still closeted ) . Women show up to Pride parades far more than men do ( gay or straight ) . putting their wives' health &…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:13 PM
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No. Women can't be happy unless she herself is apart of some kind of respected social status ( for better or worse ) . Happiness is wanting what you already have. And having isn't the same as wanting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:01 PM
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Don't know about overseas, or over the past few centuries. But in the culture of the Western world for the past few decades, yes, women tend to have the same pursuits. Of all those varied lives and experiences across the centuries, which ones are women choosing today? Their potential has shifted greatly since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:59 PM
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Societal duty, as in helping to maintain society; traditional covers most of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:54 PM
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Women don't have empathy for/with men. Women worry about how mens feelings will affect her. It's about reacting, not understanding. Women only have empathy for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:48 PM
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Out of every 10 queer couples, only 3 of them have children or raising a child. It used to be 6. Word play isn't going to change much of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:03 PM
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Reality is women are interested in a variety of men, So women are into men without ambition, no money, or lack of social dominance? because of the content these men consume they’re fully convinced that you’re only allowed to be one type of man Because women tend to have the same pursuits. (funny thing is, as the manosphere got more popular - male loneliness got worse, No. Manosphere got more popular, because feminism got more popular ( as far back as the early 2000's ) . Men aren't choosing to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:01 PM
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you believe that lesbians (or bi women, who you appear unable to differentiate from lesbians) can't be together solely or even partly bc of their mutual love for each other as women . Lesbians can be together all they want, they're just not accomplishing anything. For women, love isn't enough. It's the pursuit of social dominance that keeps them fulfilled. Women can have people they love around, and put no effort into them ( or break up ) . Even though, by definition, a woman who turned to women…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:52 AM
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Projection. Notice you didn't say it wasn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:41 AM
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Women form an echo chamber when they all want something from men. They don't form groups to solve a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:29 AM
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No. Men are more different from each other than women are. Look at the content that has a near 95% male audience intake - all wannabe alpha fuckboy stuff, therefore that’s how almost all men are No. Men don't want or particularity choose to be alpha/manosphere. Men think they have to be, or react that way based on life experiences from women ( undisciplined or immature, perhaps ) . It's obvious all men desire to have sex with pretty women. Men don't hide that. How they approach it, makes them di…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:53 PM
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Sorry, but if 95% of women act the same Im gonna call it all women or almost all women. And most of womens behavior is the same with other women. There is actually little factors that differentiate women from other women. Women tend to have the same pursuits, because they don't have many things to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:53 PM
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Women have fulfillment issues they believe can be compensated with social dominance. This is incorrect. Women only care about lifestyle and status, not stability or people. Women are bad at communication ; romantically ignorant ; selfish to the point of absurdity ; more mentally ill than men are ; believe empathy is about compensation for their negative experiences ( it's not ) ; no accountability ( regardless of agency ) ; don't commit to their share of societal duty ( are not picking up where …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:42 PM
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Except women stand in solidarity as a group through aspiration, not reason. Women don't want to justify their choices, or avoid their contradictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:40 PM
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Have nothing to grow- you mean kids? But increasingly lesbian couples are having kids No. Birth rates are dropping, and adoption rates aren't increasing. Plenty of lesbian couples do have different hobbies : it's unlikely butch/femme couples would have identical hobbies, certainly. If we're going to compare mannerisms of types of lesbian, then compatibility is only going to be more difficult. Besides, gay male couples are less likely to have kids, and they stay together the most. If nothing to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:32 PM
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Is sex the initial utility purpose of a vagina? Also, "initial utility purpose" is irrelevant. A vagina is not an open wound. Neither is your asshole or your mouth. An orifice is an orifice. And a womans vagina bleeds once a month ( and pushes out babies ) . It's an open wound enough. Word play won't change anything. Who said that? Oral is the exact thing that is balancing out the sexual relationship. Otherwise he orgasms every time and she never does. Of course a sexual relationship is give and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:22 PM
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Men are helpless, without a map for the variables and pitfalls. It's not enough to know what to to do, you have to know how to do it. The wise man learns from everyone mistakes, including his own. Masculinity is a learning skill ( women want to avoid learning and go straight to use ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:07 PM
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Women love being apart of the social trend to fuel their affirmation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:01 PM
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Is a butthole also an open wound? A mouth? The initial utility purpose is food and consumption, not sex. Yes. Many do. That is the only way for many to have an orgasm. Shouldn't their pleasure count too? Not if oral is the only thing they ever expect. Things have to average out to keep things balanced. ....what? You think women demand men do oral as some type of dominace mechanism? That's..definitely an opinion. It's not his fault that's the only way she can get off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:00 PM
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Not from what I've seen. Women have more expectations of men, than women do from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:54 PM
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Women don't want men other women don't want. She already has the ideal version of a man ( with social dominance) , she wants to be approached by. It cannot be some random stranger. That's the base of social pressure and interaction women want to have over men. Men must go out of their way for women. If by some random chance, men stop approaching women, it's because women no longer have the many legions of suitors lined up. Women always call men creeps, or don't like being inconvenienced at an in…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:50 PM
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No. Not compared to ( or by ) women. Maybe against some other men. And if I have gotten special privileges, support, or advantages, I haven't noticed it. Or gotten to use it as a social currency. No one has said, '' Oh, you're a man. You can have this. '' It can be taken away with the slightest amount of impropriety. People don't go out of their way for men, for no reason. One way or another, men have to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:41 PM
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That's not going to stop women from pursuing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:20 PM
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The ' bad boy ' is about social dominance. Something ' nice guys ' get dismissed for. When the ' bad boy ' doesn't live up to all the other women expectations, all men are deemed unfit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:47 PM
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Women have so much choice (if she is average looking or higher) that men can sometimes just fade into the sea of options. It's much worse when women never justify their choices. Everything is on a whim.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:45 PM
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Women don't like being on the receiving end of social pressure and roles, but still demand men to be. Especially from womens expectations, regardless if she wants a man or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:43 PM
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Women bleed from this particular orifice, and they have an entire isles in grocery stores dedicated to it's hygiene. Men just need soap and water. Any other great excuses for not giving what you get or want is probably more accurate? Women don't respect men for giving. Women only shame and ridicule men for what they aren't giving.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:20 AM
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A vagina is an orifice, a penis is an extremity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:25 PM
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Except women don't want to do mutual, they want to get what they want without reciprocation ( it's only bad when men do it to women ) . Women only value equality as long as it conveniently serves their pursuit, not his. If he gives her everything, and he gets nothing, she's not going to care. He's the dumb one that didn't stand up for himself or quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:47 PM
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The stupid man ( or woman ) doesn't learn from his mistakes. The smart man does learn from his mistakes. The wise man learns from everyones mistakes, including his own. Too many people want to skip smart, and complain about everyone else. Patience, deductive reasoning, emotional awareness, masculinity, and maturity, are learning skills. Learning never truly ends. Ironically liberal blue pill men never show this level of crisis about masculinity or “the state men”. Also, it seems a disproportiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:40 PM
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Doesn't stop women form forming solidarity through aspiration instead of reason. Women want to avoid societal duty, regardless of what men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:30 PM
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Women already do sexually objectify men. It just happens to be very few men that fit the criteria. Women don't want men other women don't want. They all chase the exact same 1 guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:27 PM
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Women want the social dominance and affirmation of a man changing for them, without having to reciprocate. The fulfillment of that demand is fleeting always changes. If he starts doing house chores, what won't she point at next?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:24 PM
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No, women are just more polite to you because, instead of you being another guy trying to get into their pants, they think you're loyal to your wife (often mistakenly). They know the men who cheat on their wives will accept anyone with a pulse. And what kind of woman is willing to become that side piece for a man that cheats on his wife? Women don't want men other women don't want. Doesn't matter to women the capacity of such.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:21 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:11 PM
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Men do it often enough. And sometimes women don't want it. If men don't do it, it's out of principal. A vagina is an open wound exposing internal visceral organs. A penis is covered by the same skin on a mans hands. Do women even want men to do oral? Or only demand men do oral, because men seem to avoid it? Does it make you like him more, or do women want social dominance to feel important? If compromising means nothing once it's achieved, then don't bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:11 PM
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Women don't want men other women don't want. It's their form of sexual desirability, that makes them feel less accountable. Women value social dominance in a crowd, far more than a man that does right by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:10 PM
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No. Men want women to take up their share of societal duty, stop chasing social dominance for the fun of it, and to be on the receiving end of their own rules ( instead of not justifying their choices simply to spite men ) . Social pressure and roles exist for a reason, regardless of whom it does right by.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:07 PM
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And I don't even want kids haha so in a way I cheated the system. And if more men and women trend this way, the human race is extinct. But that's ok. As long as you get to cheat so you don't have to be like other mammals. Human culture outpaced human biological evolution and we're still trying to catch up to a 21st century society with stone age DNA. That's not progress, if we're being less productive for the sake of using less sentience and avoiding stress of societal duty. We got here because …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:03 PM
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Except men and women are different. Men have no problem doing a useless task that doesn't benefit him ( repeatedly ) . It ' getting old ' doesn't repulse him. That's why he asks her, '' Was it good for you ? '' He's willing to do a preform well at the job, even if he doesn't like the job. Women on the other hand see doing something they don't want to, as a form of suffering that must be avoided ( in any capacity ) . Because women internalize the unpleasant ick ( more than pleasure ) , as if it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:37 PM
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No. It's affirmation bias. It makes a woman important, to be with a popular man, and perceive it as an expression. Feeds her desire for social dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:32 PM
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Women have their own version of it. Women don't want men other women don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:30 PM
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Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with them It's not so much '' confidence '' , as it is social dominance. Women don't want men other women don't want. There has to be social activity around him. Average guys aren't interesting enough, until they get everyone elses attention. The ability for a man to shrug off rejection, but still interact with others ( especially women ) . Don't be intimidated by the ' hot chick ' , let her know she has no chanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:28 PM
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Women don't want men, other women don't want. If you don't bring that male entertainment value then they don't want anything to do with you. Not entertainment. Social dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:33 PM
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Not denying the right to her body, just her intent and justification to begin with. '' I just don't want to, and you can't make me '' . That's why liberal women ' enjoy ' abortion. The relief matters too much. If men got that relief from women and children...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:37 PM
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And you know one of the worst ways women want abortions? ... Lilly Allen. She doesn't have to justify her choices to anybody. This should be the thing that's avoided, but it isn't. '' the median position of that bellcurve '' , any woman could become an ' Allen ' tomorrow. Simply for the fact it caters to a womans indifference, agency, and convenience. If it gets in her way, it must go away. Women tend to have the same pursuits, in a world of patriarchy. To serve her equity and equality.... Saw a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:31 PM
1

No.... Are all women far more alike than I know of?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:02 PM
0

It's called a trend. ' Culture ' people go out of their way for. It's not unusual, if you want to do it. When men do it, women judge all men by that ' opinion ' as being common, especially if it involves women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:58 PM
0

Indifferent, casual, unfazed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:37 PM
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Lilly Allen ( David Harbours wife ) , doesn't even remember how many she got.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:34 PM
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Well maybe you should think about what would interest you and add that criteria. But also if you don't look for personality you'll not find it even if she is standing right there. Is that why you're poly? He or she, might bore you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:20 PM
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Doesn't stop her from doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:18 PM
1

They don't enjoy it as much as liberal women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:09 PM
0

Womens feels. Men don't get to ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:44 AM
0

So everyone who isn't will smith? And Chris Rock. Who has agency and could have left her decades ago? Not about just what he did. It's about what she did to him in the first place, because she had agency and power.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:23 AM
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Not getting abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:12 AM
1

It's only funny, as long as you don't have that problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:11 AM
2

Justify them to who? Themselves, first. women don't care about reasoning their choices, only making them. Pretty sure it's fair your significant other should know at least ' why ' . Are they at 0? 1980's, 2.1 per household. 2000's, 1.6. 2020's, 1.2. Does it have to be at 0, to be an issue? Either way, women are already doing less, but still complaining as if they're doing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:52 AM
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Those women that are primary bread winners, make up about half of all divorces. https://www.courtneyandmills.com/do-higher-earning-women-wind-up-divorced/#:\~:text=In%20households%20where%20a%20woman,42%20percent%20of%20all%20divorces. It all starts with house chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:46 AM
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Social dominance. It doesn't have to tangibly produce anything, only make women feel good about themselves compared to men, and call it ' equality ' .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:40 AM
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What? Women don't think they have to justify their choices, only make them on a whim. Of course women are having children No. Birth rates are dropping, not balancing out. And women are proud of not having children ( and decentralization men ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:35 AM
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Jada Pinkett had equality. She had everything available to her, that Will Smith did. Jada got what everything women complain about society denying them. She got to do whatever she wanted, no social pressure or roles, or '' various hypocritical/double standard '' imposed upon her. Will didn't treat her as ' just a hole ' . In fact, he hadn't had any real contact with her for 6 years. She still did dishonorable things to Will, live, on camera, in front of the whole world ( including having an ' en…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:30 AM
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Women have too many distractions available to them to experience any kind of loneliness ( like the internet and social media ) . Especially when they internalize every experience, especially the ( pleasurable ) emotional ones. Go out to a deserted island like Tom Hanks in Cast Away. Let's see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:20 AM
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Women do build stuff with men but not with men who wont value her and think of her as just a hole . Is that what Jada Pinkett did? Women in poorer countries are much more willing to go into manual menial jobs cause of money issue but when th3y become better they dont cause those jobs arent safe for women. Poorer countries have fewer options for both men and women. Men are expected to provide, especially where women can't. Those unsafe jobs for women, must still be done, usually by men. Women hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:16 AM
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No they don't Yes, they do. Women like being reactive to men, they just don't care about the choice of how they react. Only women can build humans That doesn't mean they are having babies and raising them. Only having the capability to make them. The birth rates in developed countries is dropping.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:01 AM
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Conservative women are willing to take on more diversity of labor than liberal women ( want ) to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:53 AM
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This is so hilariously wrong it's hard to believe anyone genuinely believes it Yet, women still do it anyway. The contradictions! How?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:52 AM
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The women that demand equality, but have no intention of being providers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:52 AM
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Women only care about lifestyle and status, not stability or people. Women are selfish to the point of absurdity ; no accountability ( regardless of agency ) ; don't commit to their share of societal duty ( are not picking up where men leave off ) ; like to project chaos ; only value equality as long as it conveniently serves their pursuit ( and will not reciprocate ) ; don't build anything ( least of all with men ) ; don't think about the world outside of themselves ; refuse to justify their ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:34 AM
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Except this isn't simply about hanging out and going on dates for fun ( that's all women ever do ) . Society has to be maintained, and ( unfortunately ) dating is part of the foundation to building and growing more. If men could just sex and leave women, and not worry about failing infrastructure, they would. Women aren't pulling their own weight of societal duty ( regardless of power or agency ) , and they deserve the blame of mistrust they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:14 AM
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No. It's because men and women need to work and trust each other to keep society running. Hanging out at parties may help loneliness, but it's not going to produce anything else. Social roles and pressures exist for a reason, regardless of whom it does right by. Women deserve their share of blame, shame, and mistrust.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:09 AM
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A best friend, lots of love, good times, shared life, a family, hot sex. Women ( maybe not you as an individual ) don't value those things, simply want them. It gets you on the hook, but not to stay in one. The things you value, require effort to maintain. If a marriage becomes inconvenient and requires work, you're going to give up. Many don't bother trying to justify their choices, assuming they don't have to. '' Just do whatever I want '' . Because there's no real productive goal, just whims …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:35 AM
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No. Fact. Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:30 AM
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Why would I want to achieve social dominance over you? How does my comment indicate that I want that? So you can feel important. It doesn't have to produce or be constructive, because it's a feeling. We can’t avoid insecurity. None of us can. I can try to open a conversation about something that’s meaningful to me, but how you respond is up to you. But it's still a driver and motivator or choices. Why does a conversation have to be meaningful, to you? How I respond, doesn't change your intent. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:29 AM
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Because she's failing everyone with her choices ( including herself ) . It's not helping anything trying to maintain her social dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:55 AM
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So… women are smart enough to outmanoeuvre men, but too lazy to do anything meaningful with it? Sounds more like you’re annoyed they don’t use their energy the way you want. That’s not a flaw in women, that’s a flaw in your expectations. First, women didn't out maneuver anyone ( take out your ego ) . Men felt sorry for them, for the failings of men. Yes, women are too lazy to do anything valuable. Women have flaws in their expectations as well, they just don't care. You’re literally describing e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:53 AM
1

If you see the trillions in GDP coming in ( and out ) of America, not surprised why people think socialism is easy. Wealthy people hoard money for no reason, then pit poor people against each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:25 AM
1

Feel free never to come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:22 AM
1

Difference between freeloading and gold digging. Housewives simply stay home. Feminists work, at gold digging.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:22 AM
1

Do you know why the left wing ' Woke ' call it ' non ' traditional? Because they don't know what else to call it. There is no form, function, structure, balance or purpose. You can't sustain abstract whims.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:20 AM
1

Even when men have their shit together, women still want to dismiss him at her convenience. She wants him to pay for dinner, even if she has her own money, because it's an expectation, not fairness. A future can be all lined up, she still doesn't have to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:18 AM
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Deductive reasoning ( like patience and masculinity ) is a learning skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:18 PM
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No. As a man, I already have social advantages and privileges ( allegedly ) . Isn't that what women always keep saying? Expect women to be held accountable for their flaws, and endure a social injustice for their power of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:57 PM
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You are only expected to provide for yourself, not to provide for women Then who's going to pay for dinner? If you fail to provide for yourself and even refuse for whatever reason - you are a leech regardless of your sex. No one cares if a womans a leech. That's the point of a traditional housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:54 PM
1

Men can tolerate a dislike ( her crazy as long as she's hot ) . Women can't ( or won't ) tolerate a dislike, such as '' house chores '' .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:50 PM
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The concept is that critical and necessary needs ( food, medicine, housing ) should be met automatically ( and for free ) without having to work for it or maintain it, whereas freeing up time and space to do other work. But the reality won't compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:46 PM
0

Women never like seeing men be happy without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:42 PM
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Men are expected to be providers, or lose respect. Women are not expected ( nor want to be ) providers, but still demand respect anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:41 PM
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People don't acknowledge a truth, they cannot exploit. Too much love for the echo chamber and group think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:39 PM
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Don't know you. But what are you, or her, looking for now? Probably the thing you had before you grew apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:30 PM
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JFC You’re not describing female behaviour, you’re listing every quality you resent, Correct. And it's something most women share. and yet still powerful enough to dismantle masculinity itself. Do you hear yourself? Because women guilt people ( and men ) into feeling bad for them, then use social dominance against them. It doesn't erase their flaws, regardless of agency or power. Look at Will and Jada Pinkett. Pick a lane. You’ve decided women are both incapable and too capable, too fragile to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:27 PM
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Women criticize and judge everyone. You’re single and rejected and she’s got a boyfriend. See?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:06 PM
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Don't know you at all. Going to assume you're a woman, and you don't have to justify your choices to me? So, no, you're not technically lying. You just don't care about anything you tell a stranger. As long as you achieve social dominance with the slightest amount of communication to avoid negative insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:04 PM
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Observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:01 PM
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A best friend, lots of love, good times, shared life, a family, hot sex. Women ( maybe not you as an individual ) don't value those things, simply want them. It gets you on the hook, but not to stay in one. The things you value, require effort to maintain. If a marriage becomes inconvenient and requires work, you're going to give up. Many don't bother trying to justify their choices, assuming they don't have to. '' Just do whatever I want '' . Because there's no real productive goal, just whims …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:00 PM
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Women have fulfillment issues they believe can be compensated with social dominance. This is incorrect. Women only care about lifestyle and status, not stability or people. Women are bad at communication ; romantically ignorant ; selfish to the point of absurdity ; more mentally ill than men are ; believe empathy is about compensation for their negative experiences ( it's not ) ; no accountability ( regardless of agency ) ; don't commit to their share of societal duty ( are not picking up where …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 10:47 PM
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So glad I'm not the only on who noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:55 PM
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People struggle with the ups and downs of social dominance. Can't simply be indifferent about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:54 PM
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Women only want to be approached by men they already like. Social dominance is the currency. Women have a preset choice of whom they want to trade with ( just as a sex worker has specific clientele ) . It's not an open invitation to just anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:49 PM
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Happiness is wanting what you already have. Having isn't the same as wanting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 01:09 PM
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Mens mistrust of women in valid. Women have fulfillment issues they believe can be compensated with social dominance. This is incorrect. Women only care about lifestyle and status, not stability or people. Women are bad at communication ; romantically ignorant ; selfish to the point of absurdity ; more mentally ill than men are ; believe empathy is about compensation for their negative experiences ( it's not ) ; no accountability ( regardless of agency ) ; don't commit to their share of societal…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:14 PM
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Women value social dominance ( for better or worse ) . Women get more out of complaining about the asshole man that everyone knows, than being around an obscure neutral guy that does right by them, but makes them feel nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:11 PM
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Not quite. Men are more different from each other than women are, especially when it comes to pursuits. Bezos may simply not be around women all that often. Supply and demand changes a mans preferences. If a man that has social skills and dominance is around hot women often, he'll aim for the best and ignore the worst. Ironically, this is also the type of man women are attracted to, the one that all other women are pursuing ( for better or worse ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:01 PM
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Women are championed for casual sex, OnlyFans, or "exploring their sexuality" (empowerment). Women are "empowered" through prostitution/OF, but men who profit from it (e.g., OF pimps) are demonized as exploiters. As it turns out, most men use OF for the '' girlfriend experience '' , talking about mundane things as if they're a couple. Men just want a hot girl to like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:45 PM
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Unfortunately, this is the mainstream cultural trend with modern feminism. Don't believe me? Visit TikTok.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:31 PM
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Mens flaws are typical. They're lost without a map ( ethically ) ; emotionally unaware ; tribal ( but so are women ) ; unable to be flexible with masculinity ( for the sake of their stability ) ; bad with hygiene. Feel better? You shouldn't. Because it changes nothing about women, that use mens flaws as an excuse for their own. Men get no support, and have more expectations at being providers. Women demand indifference in everything. People don't acknowledge a truth, they cannot exploit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:29 PM
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Tell her that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:58 PM
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Women want masculine men to make choices as if they were soy boy, feminine, liberal cucks. All so women can enjoy social dominance, an do literally nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:51 PM
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Mens hate of women may not be valid, but the mistrust is. Women have fulfillment issues they believe can be compensated with social dominance. This is incorrect. Women only care about lifestyle and status, not stability or people. Women are bad at communication ; romantically ignorant ; selfish to the point of absurdity ; more mentally ill than men are ; believe empathy is about compensation for their negative experiences ( it's not ) ; no accountability ( regardless of agency ) ; don't commit t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:49 PM
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No. Social dynamics require balance, much like anything else. Because there must be some kind of growth or productivity ( not simply progress ) . And that only happens when there's an opposite or something new. However social pressure and rules exist for a reason, regardless of whom it does right by. A world without females isn't better or improved, just a temporary comfortable stagnate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:13 PM
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Mens hate of women may not be valid, but the mistrust is. Women have fulfillment issues they believe can be compensated with social dominance. This is incorrect. Women only care about lifestyle and status, not stability or people. Women are bad at communication ; romantically ignorant ; selfish to the point of absurdity ; more mentally ill than men are ; believe empathy is about compensation for their negative experiences ( it's not ) ; no accountability ( regardless of agency ) ; don't commit t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:07 PM
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Except women believe they're entitled to be selfish, because of lack of social dominance that they perceive men have ( and demand their own form of compensation ) . Social pressure and roles exist for s reason, regardless of whom it does right by.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:06 PM
1

idk what you are trying to say If you call a woman a 304, because she likes being promiscuous. A bad rep follows her around and hits close to home, more than voting rights. If a man is promiscuous, and receives no negative social stigma, women vote based on that envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:41 PM
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Women watch porn too. Women don't care about their pleasure, they want men to care about their pleasure ( regardless if she's a masturbation tool or not ) . That's social dominance. And what does caring consist of anyway? If a man turns over and goes to sleep, he's simply doesn't understand what emotional connection is going to help. It has to be genuine and fulfilling for him, as much as her. Why? Because he doesn't trust her, while she's exploiting joy from him. A man cuddling, doesn't make a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:35 PM
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Many people aren't willing to be on the receiving end of their own rules, that includes women. Heaven forbid some women want to enjoy the sex they have instead of just lie there and get pumped into by some guy that doesn't give a fuck about her pleasure. Women don't want to do the amazon position or peg him, because it's sexually gratifying ( for either ) . It's because women want social dominance over a man. Him doing that for/with her, doesn't make her like him more. It's only fuel for her ego…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 03:40 PM
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Women value ( and envy ) mens social dominance. Not men as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:45 AM
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The problem isn't that they exist. It's that they're not productive ( least of all in the infrastructure framework designed to keep the USA maintained ) . Immigrants simply don't have the infrastructure in their homelands to live like elitists. And trans people want social dominance to spite the right wing, and nothing else ( expression isn't a fact, just an identity ) . People don't acknowledge a truth, they cannot exploit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:43 AM
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Men understand transactional better, because there's form to work with. It will eventually become about feelings instead of money ( or the home stability ) . Women like the abstract, so they don't have to conform to anything, making it harder to trust them. I don't understand how men feel entitled to complain about "hypergamy" or "gold digging" behavior when they actively seek out women with those traits. Men that own a business or estate, worry about trusting women with money. Men with 9to5 job…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:18 AM
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In reality, they're terrible ideas. People aren't wrapped up in each other. In fact, they've got nothing better to to at all. They're pushing each other away assuming they don't need each other. Loving yourself is easy, because you've got no challenge ( or anything to learn from ) . This is not a mental health problem, it's an ego problem. You're not the main character of your own story, you simply have a story.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 10:15 AM
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4B happened over fear of social injustice. Women have plenty of rights, they just prefers mens social advantages over women legal rights Women aren't afraid of not owing property, just mocking them in conversation..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 10:05 AM
1

Difference between hating, and not thinking highly of.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 10:17 PM
1

Don't let social media fool you. They're are biting off more than they can chew, as usual. All is good, until real work shows up and want to avoid accountability.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 10:16 PM
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It's because men want relations with pretty girls, that the double standard started. And women don't want to lose advantages ( especially when they assume men have more ) . Social pressure and roles exist for a reason, regardless of whom it does right by.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 09:33 PM
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Because mens physical bodies accomplish more than womens bodies do ( even with the pregnancy as their advantage ) . Mens bodies accomplish more societal duties. Notice how women don't complain about equal pay, in blue collar jobs ( it's only risk taking white collar work ) . Another aspect, his sprem counts in the millions, whereas her 1 or 2eggs show up once month. Men just happen to be disposable assets, whereas what women produce isn't often enough.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 09:19 PM
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Not sure about 9. Men have been know to run away from the responsibility.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 09:18 PM
1

Relationships are not the only source of affirmation or fulfillment in life, and most married women do not think relationships are a source of affirmation or fulfillment at all Then what's with womens entitlement of being ' happy ' . Because women are make unapologetic irrational choices based on emotional whims. It may not be for relationships, but it's still based on relationship status. Women don't brag about being single, simply because they're fulfilled. They want people to know, they don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 09:07 PM
1

If I thought that someone was a parasite or a leech, I would not have anything to do with them. Except using them for social dominance by complaining about them on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:59 PM
0

Shame women don't accept their lack of understanding men, otherwise their opinions would actually matter. Men aren't controlled by their dicks, simply driven. Sooner or later, men aren't going to care about sex. Those simps that spend thousands of dollars on Onlyfans, surprisingly, aren't doing it for sex. Over 70% of the male users want the ' girlfriend experience ' . They aren't asking her to take her clothes off, simply looking for emotional connection using mundane everyday topics, like gard…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:58 PM
0

Shame women don't want to avoid being parasites and leeches.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:47 AM
4

Women want to socially dominate the kind of men that are socially dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:44 AM
2

Mens hate of women may not be valid, but the mistrust is. Women have fulfillment issues they believe can be compensated with social dominance. This is incorrect. Women only care about lifestyle and status, not stability or people. Women are bad at communication ; romantically ignorant ; selfish to the point of absurdity ; more mentally ill than men are ; believe empathy is about compensation for their negative experiences ( it's not ) ; no accountability ( regardless of agency ) ; don't commit t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:41 PM
1

Secret separate bank account ( or a bag of cash ) .
/r/MensRights29/05/25 11:14 PM
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There’s a lot of pain in your words, Women don't care about mens feelings. Only how his feeling will affect her. But when pain isn’t witnessed or worked through, it calcifies into judgment, but judgement always obscures connection. See? Always another ick to avoid. If women wanted to connect, they'd stop using one sided ' equality ' as compensation for their value. Women never stop judging men, it's part of their own self affirmation. Constantly comparing themselves to what men have and they don…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 10:12 PM
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Women like to reject men, but want to avoid the negative consequences of doing so. Social dominance won't compensate for affirmation or fulfillment. Maybe women aren't worth effort or approaching at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:49 PM
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Laughing things off, like bad hygiene habits. In a gym, wiping down equipment ( before and/or after use ) . He says , '' I'm not afraid of germs, lol '' . Corporations don't leave bottle sanitizers around for no reason. His masculinity overrides self preservation, and he needs to humor to enjoy his ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:38 PM
0

Women also have a pattern. They have fulfillment issues they believe can be compensated with social dominance. This is incorrect. Women only care about lifestyle and status, not stability or people. Women are bad at communication ; romantically ignorant ; selfish to the point of absurdity ; more mentally ill than men are ; believe empathy is about compensation for their negative experiences ( it's not ) ; no accountability regardless of agency ; don't commit to their share of societal duty ( are…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:17 PM
1

Guys also have to be good at sex. If he's not, she won't care about a good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:07 PM
1

Depends on what that respect is based on. Maybe he's immature, maybe she doesn't care about making mistakes. Doing right by someone isn't a universal standard, it varies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:58 AM
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only to pull back later and blame the woman for not living up to the “ideal” they created. Women don't live up to mens expectations, at all. How is love bombing a mans ' responsibility ' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:17 PM
1

If you have to have multiple romances, just to love one person, then you don't actually love anyone. It's the lifestyle that's being valued, not the people. Your heart can belong to one all it wants, but that's not the only thing happening. Those other diversions are supposed to matter, to get you away from your primary. Separating love and romance does neither a service. You're still devaluing your connections, no matter how you rationalize it. And if love is love, then prepare not to be loved …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:07 PM
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And women can still reject and dismiss men with ' good ' social skills anyway. There's always another ick she demands to avoid. Women are proving to be a waste of time, because they're not committing to a set standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:48 AM
1

Those men are actual humans with emotions, as women would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:46 AM
2

Women like to project social pressure, never want to be on the receiving end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:43 AM
0

None of that will matter to a woman, if the sex is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:38 AM
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The women I know that still enjoy dating just focus on doing it for the fun of it. That's because women devalue people, and assume it's normal. If she likes to be alone, she always will, regardless if she finds someone desirable/compatible or not. She prefers to be happily single, than happy in a relationship. She likes to quit and never feel bad about it. Everyone only exists for her fun, and then to be thrown away for the slightest amount of ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:37 AM
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Those six figures women make, aren't going to last. https://www.euronews.com/next/2025/05/24/womens-jobs-three-times-more-vulnerable-to-being-taken-by-ai-than-mens-new-report-warns Too much white collar, not enough blue collar.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:33 AM
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Women tend to all have the same pursuits. It's not about finding stability or equality. It's about social dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:27 AM
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Which is a good thing. Most people look for a partner because they want to. Making the choice is easy. Putting effort behind that choice is not. If you're going in only because you can quit whenever you want, then quitting is the only thing they ever think about. You've already tainted the pursuit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:06 AM
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Now saying that we don't need men at all and they all could die and nothing will change, that's a bit extreme. We can't afford to have half of the population disappear, regardless their sex. That doesn't stop women from pursuit of that goal. They're going to devalue all men, regardless of deductive reasoning. Because of loyalty to the emotion of hating manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:04 AM
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Women have fulfillment issues they believe can be compensated with social dominance. They're incorrect. They only care about lifestyle and status, not stability or people. Women are bad at communication and romance ; selfish to the point of absurdity ; more mentally ill than men are ; believe empathy is about compensation for their negative experiences ; no accountability regardless of agency ; don't commit to their share of societal duty ( are not picking up where men leave off ) ; far too loya…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:02 AM
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Men still have to put in more effort , especially romantically or just simply keeping what they have. Women have it far easier now than ever, which is why they instinctively devalue men at every oppritunity ( that's whom they were the entire time ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:50 PM
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Yes. But without shared language, it would be difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:05 PM
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No. That's what happens when men aren't around to keep women in check, or give them something else to do. Women don't fear women, have nothing to grow with women, and they all have the same pursuits. Lesbians divorce, because they have no reason to be together in the first place ( except blaming men ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:04 PM
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Be single and alone all you want. You're doing, nothing. Blaming the opposite sex for stress, is just another version of either party not improving or running away. You're not entitled to celebrate, not caring about anyone. Being selfish is meaningless affirmation and narcissism ( which is what social media is being used for ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:51 AM
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Women aren't interested in men doing house chores. Only that women don't want to. Once men preform, women become indifferent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:48 AM
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Except women get all the attention for being a victim. And they only point the finger at men, not each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:45 AM
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That's because there's no commitment in nontraditional lifestyles ( because there's no form to adhere to ) . Women move in and out of relationships on a whim, so they're exposed to more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:41 AM
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It's far too easy for women to get the ick. They put far more emphasis in undesirable traits, than the desirable ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:12 AM
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Open relationships are the contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:10 AM
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Casual sex is common to those that get to have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:09 AM
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Because usually her actions don't match her words. Loyalty to her emotions causes her to make choices on a whim. If she's being judged by a rational standard, she has to articulate and stick to what she says ( especially about herself ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:05 AM
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People don't acknowledge a truth, they cannot exploit. Everyone loves their echo chamber ( which is why people come to Reddit in the first place ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:51 AM
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As long as it doesn't happen too often, or there isn't a pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:14 PM
1

It's far too easy to turn a woman off. Her - icks are all to important.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:37 AM
1

Knock Knock. Keeanu Revees and Ana de Armas.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:34 PM
1

Not everyone likes to hear grown men scream, even in joy.
/r/MensRights18/04/25 09:28 PM
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Consent isn't the only thing that matters. It's about what consent leads to. Fantasies are an extension of whom you are, even if you wouldn't do it for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:20 PM
1

There's no consequences in the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:18 PM
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And you still have to take accountability for your choice, regardless if it's person A or B. Women don't like accountability, because making a choice based on emotion still has rational consequences ( right and wrong still apply ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:11 PM
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And that's why you're ignorant. That lack of contribution means you're missing out on information, yet still drawing conclusions anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:09 PM
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Nah. Been playing video games for 30 years. I'm interested in the story, character interactions amd moral dilemmas (like the whole detlaff thing in witcher 3). That too, is an extension of social activity. Men like the in-gameplay dynamics, regardless of story. Story is just a bonus ( men only worry about that in movies and tv shows ) . Also, a lot of women avoid headsets when playing with randos due to the constant derogatory stuff the men often say when they realise that a girl is playing with…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:04 PM
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Or people are interested in different things and that is ok. Lack of interest, promotes ignorance and lack of understanding ( especially about other people ) . By the same logic men are interested in things, because they are all to easily bored by people. No. Because the same logic doesn't apply, the same way. Men and women aren't the same. Men are more different from each other than women are. Men are police offices as much as accountants. Women are always interested in social activity, because…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:23 AM
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Women don't communicate or articulate their issues very well, so they cling onto whatever internet term makes them feel correct. People don't acknowledge a truth, they cannot exploit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/25 12:58 AM
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All of Reddit is an echo chamber. It's why people come here. To be and agreed with, and affirmation, even if you're 100% incorrect. People don't acknowledge a truth, they cannot exploit.
/r/MensRights18/04/25 12:54 AM
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moral/relationship conundrums and don't give a damn about combat. It might play into the stereotypes of men being interested in things, while women are interested in people. People don't acknowledge a truth, they cannot exploit. Violence is more than aggression. Combat is a test of will, tactics and strategy. . It just doesn't look visually spectacular ( not in real life ) . Morals and relationships is all about who is going right by whom, no actual wrong answer, and makes emotion important than…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:33 PM
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Comedy is subjective. As Jay Leno once said '' Some people think you funny, some don't, and they're both right. But if a car breaks, and you fix it, no one can say it's not working. '' Some of the best jokes, involve solving a puzzle. Trying to understand why a joke is funny, makes it funny. A joke that's too simple to figure out, isn't as funny. And explaining a joke, takes away some of the humor. You have to enjoy the process. Women don't like the process. Men do. Women don't like solving puzz…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:25 AM
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Masculinity is a practiced skill.
/r/MensRights08/04/25 02:29 PM
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Point being, it's why women aren't happy. And what they want in a partner, doesn't always fulfill them ( even when they have it ) . They have temporary whims.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:58 AM
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So, nothing. Camping at night doesn't help the social construct, and it's not safe either. If men disappeared for a day, women do nothing as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:56 AM
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we divorce yall over not listening to us or caring when we tell you what we need. Yes, it is house chores. It used to be about money, or abuse. But because women have agency and jobs ( white collar ) , women have chosen to be petty, and make it seem like a big deal ( out of affirmation ) . And it's not about what women need. It's about what they want ( and perceive it as a need ) . Women want men to pay attention to them and obey, for no important reason. It's always a test to see how far she ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:35 AM
2

Women would rather be the side piece than a with man that's never dated at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:38 PM
2

Even if everyone was actually safe at 100% effectiveness, what would that change?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:18 PM
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Happiness is wanting what you already have. Having isn't the same as wanting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:11 PM
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Nihilism doesn't have to lead to despair. Nihilism believes despair, indignity, misery, doesn't matter either.
/r/MensRights07/04/25 04:05 PM
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Men are known for material creations, so we should expect a material expectation. A spiritual power, is about the spirit. It may be of higher value, but it doesn't have much affect on the material ( higher power, and lower power are separate things ) .
/r/MensRights07/04/25 04:03 PM
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And I'm not surprised you can't explain otherwise. It may be my opinion, but my approach doesn't make me incorrect. If I'm wrong, tell me where. I'm not superior, just observant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:45 PM
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first of all, imagine saying this like it’s a bad thing? Because it indicates selfishness. And women aren't being selfish because they're oppressed. It's because of their irrational emotional whims. i thought yall were always on about how having and raising kids is a woman’s natural place and where she’s happiest? Don't associate me with RP. It's a form of prejudice. Women may not be ' happy ' , but having kids fulfills their societal duty to help the human race to keep going. are we naturally i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:42 PM
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Oh yes, they do. Women see it as neglect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:34 PM
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Because the insult for a man is about lack of sex, not where he lives. Status isn't who you are. It's where you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:29 PM
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If you know a woman can afford to pay a certain lifestyle for herself, and you date her... Why wouldn't you meet or exceed her lifestyle? Apparently, women only value status, lifestyles, indifference, and ( pleasant convenient new ) experiences. Not people, stability, or equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:49 AM
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Even when men cheat, they still don't want a divorce. A recent study came out. Women that are the providers in a home make up about 15% of households. But make up 50% of all divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:41 AM
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Marriage isn't about romance, it's about property rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:37 AM
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Women don't like fake kindness in any sense What is real kindness? there are studies that mention men on average are more rude to ugly women than women are to ugly men Men put in extra effort for pretty women. Men simply do less for ugly women. The chivalry is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:10 PM
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Because women are physically weaker than men, they cannot do as much damage as a man. But if all women were Wonder Woman.....
/r/MensRights04/04/25 04:06 PM
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Status changes perspective and intent. But the point is to keep everything at a neutral position, before adding modifiers.
/r/MensRights04/04/25 03:45 PM
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Even if men are faking being nice, women still want to dismiss him on a whim. Even if he is being nice, she still wants to dismiss him on a whim. Women are caught in the moment, so they're indifferent about everything, and ultimately value nothing. When are men chivalrous to ugly fat wownn? All the time, he's just not going to take it any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:07 AM
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Women don't want to work blue collar trade like electricians or carpentry. They want to work white collar jobs like elites, advertisement, graphic design, or Only fans. A woman whom did Only fans made $45 mill in a year, more than the top NFL draft picks combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:00 AM
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Men aren't being misogynist because they're being pushed. It's because they lack discipline because of immaturity ( like patience ) and stuck in complacency.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:59 PM
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Don't need to go to college to make money. Especially for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:55 PM
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More women in white collar fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:31 PM
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Power doesn't simply corrupt. It also brings out more of what was already there. Women be misandrist, regardless off men being misogynist or not. They're doing because they want to, not because they're pushed to..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:28 PM
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Part of the problem, women aren't paying attention to men. Only their won circumstances ( then blaming men for it ) . Most men aren't going n to college, or making money to impress girls in the first place. so they automatically get dismissed b women. And other issue, women are only paying attention to men that make six figures elitists, and comparing themselves to. This list applies to women as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:21 PM
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Men used to be chivalrous. Women didn't value it until it stopped. Women aren't chivalrous, no matter how much agency they have ( even for other women ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:19 PM
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Your lack of willingness to date educated women with careers will either leave you single or saddled with multiple dependents you actually cannot afford. No. Men really don't care about a womans career, as long as it's ( dignified / respectful ) . Men have to like her, not her job. Women on the other hand, only value status, lifestyle, indifference, and ( pleasant convenient new ) experiences. Not people, stability, or equality ( they only tolerate the idea as ling as it's convenient ) . If anyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:11 PM
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It's one thing to be stressed. It's another for him to take form her. What's he taking form her?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:52 PM
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Why would men go on dates with a woman, just to stay platonic?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:56 AM
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Only saw the first link. omg... Wth did I just watch? How are men draining womens energy? How are men supposed to put in ' more energy ' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:37 AM
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Why the fuck would any woman agree to have children with a man who cannot empathize with her ? Because women don't care about making a mistake or bad choice. It's part of their fulfillment insecurities. So the mother of your children doesn't get empathy until she produces a daughter for you because you're incapable? I didn't say men don't have empathy. It's that men don't understand how to apply it for women. Displaying empathy through childhood for boys and girls, is how he learns to do it bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:09 AM
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What? That's it? That's the take away? I'm sorry the choice of words didn't serve your mental process. Fine. One of the best ways for men to understand women, is by having daughters. There, feel better now? This is the huge problem with women, altogether. Failing to learn from their own mistakes. And then trying to use flawed men as an excuse to keep failing and remain ignorant themselves, because rational thought doesn't allow them to be selfish. You don't have children to learn basic empathy. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:38 PM
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They're called chores because they have to be done on a regular basis, regardless if they were fun or not. Life isn't always about pleasure. Would women stop divorcing men over house chores, if they were fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:12 PM
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I'm an individual in a capitalistic society. There is no team. I pay my taxes and after that it's every man for himself. If inequality is allowed, why are women always complaining about not being equal to men? I'm not telling anyone how they should live their lives But have no problem enabling/joining the trend ( like 4B ) . Because it's certainly not simple opinion and information. There's apolitical atmosphere attached to this issue, and it's a hot button topic. Especially with Row Wade being …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:06 PM
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No it doesn't. Avoiding being forced, is just that, and nothing else. People don't just make bad choices, they do it out of spite and are proud of it. Being happy or unhappy is irrelevant. You just pay attention to emotion more. Everyone wants to be important, more than they want to make good choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:32 AM
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You don't have to be obligated to anyone. But that doesn't make you special. You're either helping the team or you're not, doing more work or less. Telling everyone how ' great ' it is not to have a child is seeking adulation for your choices. If women were given a choice to work at a soup kitchen, or babysit as compensation for not having children of their own, women would find reasons to avoid that too. And demand not to be vilified for it. Because women want to use their agency for happiness,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:59 AM
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No. It's just me. Expect women to be weak ( they're socially allowed to be ) , nothing new. But women demand to be seen as whatever fuels their affirmation at the time. There's no set standard or consistency. She's proud of not needing men, but she's still taking his money. You will not create an environment needed for nurturing a child but then cry about feminity and womanhood? Because men lack discipline, more than anything. But even if he did create that environment for a child, women wouldn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:55 AM
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Agency doesn't necessarily make you happy. That's just the pursuit of your choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:05 PM
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I'm happy alone and would rather be alone than burdened with motherhood. I wouldn't find the obligations of parenting fulfilling whatsoever. Be single and alone all you want. It doesn't deserve to be celebrated. You're essentially doing, nothing. It takes effort to work on a team, or bring about mutual fulfillment. That's what makes it worth noticing. Building the trust of community, to raise children, creates society, bring the future light. It's not supposed to be easy or fuel indifference to …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:03 PM
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Thought women didn't like doing house chores either?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:44 PM
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And for him to call dating boring is rather insulting and objectifying for someone who is looking for a relationship Yet, I've heard of women avoid, breaking up ( or even cheating ) with a man, because he was too boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:34 PM
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Children are an extension of your mortality, not your happiness or health insurance.You're supposed to create an environment for them to develop, and they'll grant happiness in return. But it takes a village.... To create the stability for that fulfillment, and value of the support. Children would not change an unhappy person unless they were specifically unhappy about never having had kids Unhappy people usually never know what makes them happy ( then use distractions to compensate ) . People t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:27 PM
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We are more alike that we are different. Not quite. Women are trying to copy men ( or at least the parts that serve her pursuits ) . The point of dating is to see if you like the person, if you find out things about them that you don't like stop dating them. Once again, different. It doesn't take much for a woman to find something about a man she doesn't like, and quit ( or try to modify the connection to get what she wants without reciprocation ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:18 PM
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Didn't say men were superior. Only that women are disappointing. They haven't learned anything, only vent their dissatisfaction of lacking fulfillment. Notice, you didn't say I was wrong or incorrect. Only that you don't like it. Men want stability. When they get it, they're happy ( even if it doesn't do right by some ) . They're not happy with the dating life they have, because women want to project their chaos into it. Women want to be dysfunctional.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:39 AM
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Women think anything that doesn't affirm their agency is toxic. It's an overused word based on a man bashing trend. Everyone has to be your echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:15 PM
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Defining a relationship with expectations is better than the alternative, which is nothing. People need to know where they stand and where it's going. You can communicate and still be kept in the dark, or have things change on a whim. That's why they keep a ' talley mark sheet ' . '' Are we a couple? '' '' It's like, whatever. ''
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:11 PM
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I'll make it easy for you. Women are all the same. That's how you can tell what fulfills them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:52 PM
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Your viewpoint has no definition. Telling everyone that you want non-traditonal can be anything. It's not an answer, just an avoidance of traditional. How do you debate someone who thinks long term relationships have no purpose beyond children? At least redpillers can point at a husband, wife, and children, and know exactly what it is by looking at it. Am I supposed to debate someone who doesn't think love is a real thing!?? No one said love isn't real. It's that it simply has no definition of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:49 PM
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It would be great if personality was all it takes. But it's not. Social skills involve looks ( how you carry yourself ) as much as how you communicate with others. And then there's what you do, like hobbies. People are attracted to what you do, more than who you are. Being shallow comes way to easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:03 PM
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People don't acknowledge a truth, they cannot exploit. You want to know what fulfills people? Affirmation. Everyone wants to be important, even if it's for no reason. Happiness is just an extension of inner desires. And women tend to have all the same pursuits. Happiness is wanting what you already have. And having isn't the same as wanting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:55 PM
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People make choices in accordance with what they think will optimize their happiness and well-being. Exactly. Women don't know what that is, because they want to live in the moment. Happiness is wanting what you already have. Having isn't the same as wanting. Women have fulfillment issues. Don't care about making good choices or bad choices, because their well being is based on loyalty to emotional whims. They want responsibility to make a choice, then avoid accountability for what that choice d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:48 PM
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It holds meaning, for your ego. You being able to choose has nothing to do with the people you've chosen ( especially if they have to choose you back ) . If sharing blood relatives is passive, so are the people you're choosing to act as blood relatives. Especially if your birth family are pieces of shit. Your chosen family can be pieces of shit too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:41 PM
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No, it’s how life works. You get to make it whatever the fuck you want. That's what makes it meaningless. The family you're born into, isn't by choice ( that's how life works ) . It makes it more profound. As compared to whatever evaluation you can conjure up on a whim.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:24 AM
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Keyword being respective.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:20 AM
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Women care more about making a choice, than what the choice actually gets them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:17 AM
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Marriage is about property rights, not romance. Building a life is not about imagination. Finding a companion, only to do what you could've done without being married, doesn't grow the relationship. Refreshing change of pace, is not a fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:15 AM
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Difference between fat, and out of shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:10 AM
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Men's sexual preferences are all hypocritical and harmful. Women are hypocritical in general, refuse to acknowledge it, demand men endure it, and ignore the harm it causes to avoid guilt, consequences, and accountability. Their whims of fulfillment are paramount.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:07 AM
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Women aren't going to let reason get in the way of complaining about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:01 AM
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With social media, you can find your niche or ' tribe ' . And now you don't need to do anything else. Reddit itself is an echo chamber. You can communicate with people that always agree with you, without ever getting out of bed. Being lazy doesn't help anything. And then there's narcissism...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:48 PM
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A reputation doesn't happen based on looks alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:31 PM
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Makeup artists can be too good at their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:17 PM
0

Funatari
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:15 PM
1

Women lose respect for men very quickly, regardless if he does right by her or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:40 AM
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Point being, that even if she gives consent, he can still hurt her feelings ( assuming if they changes ) . So he is still at fault, somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 07:26 AM
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We're still arguing about with social pressures, expectations, and questions that haven't been resolved since high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 07:06 AM
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Changing the dynamic based on personal expression and not biological truth. The more you deny science, the more social pressures will have influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:07 AM
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Mens automatic kindness comes in the form of indifference and extends to common courtesy, like personal space. It's not unconditional. It can't be, otherwise you lose respect or risk being taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:01 AM
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Women simply don't want to cook. Doesn't matter if he does or not. Cuddling and doing the amazon position, isn't going to make her like him more. Buying gifts and going places only matters if she likes it, not if he puts effort into it. When it's all said and done women want men to fulfill their whims, always agree with her ( while never making her feel bad about her choices ) , and make sure he goes out of his way for her, while she expects to do nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 05:53 AM
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Because those types of women are immature and undisciplined. Whereas men had Kevin Samuels to keep men on an even keel ( prefer him over Tate ) , women have no one. Remember, those women don't have any prosperity or anything better to do. Projecting is all thy have. Men have to show patience, be the better teacher. Allow those women to look crazy, while you stay calm. Other women will take notice ( this is how trump got elected, not a fan ) because women get tired of the same thing. It's already…
/r/MensRights09/03/25 05:31 AM
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More like 20 years. Feminism wasn't this bad back in the 80's and 90's. Social media is a negative for humanity. What they attempt won't work, because they're not building anything ( can't maintain infrastructure with their programs ) . They're just flexing empty muscle. Don't make it seem more than it is, because it'll feed their ego.
/r/MensRights09/03/25 05:14 AM
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I've heard the same. women complain about social pressures, and then laugh it off when you make a point about it. Those women don't actually take it seriously. Only like join in on the trend of man bashing so they can feel affirmation. They're copying the worst behaviors of men ( not as a teaching self reflection moment ) . But because they don't understand the issue in the first place. They just like to vent.
/r/MensRights09/03/25 05:12 AM
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Because they're weak and insecurities.
/r/MensRights09/03/25 05:08 AM
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Men have a discipline problem ( like indifference or lack of patience ) . But there's very little other men can do about men like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:55 PM
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A lot of men hold themselves at low moral standards, often lacking decency (such as humility, automatic kindness, respect, maturity etc) No matter how disciplined men are, it doesn't change women pursuits or evaluations. We want to see men be caring, because we keep focusing on the men who aren't. We're not giving credit to the men whom already are. And there's no trend to identifying the value of kindness ( for/from men ) . What's automatic kindness?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:52 PM
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They're frightened of the so called manosphere as it challenges the anti maleness of feminism, They're frightened that men are going to dehumanize women. Women aren't paying attention to the challenge or argument, they're worried about approaching unpleasant moments. The reality is that even if men don't harm women, women still want affirmation as compensation for their fears and insecurities. Men have to find a balance between proving feminists wrong, without causing harm ( harm is a matter of …
/r/MensRights08/03/25 05:00 PM
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More lack of effort than intellect.
/r/MensRights08/03/25 03:32 PM
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Men need to be better teachers.
/r/MensRights08/03/25 03:27 PM
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That is I how I view male sexuality in the absence of decorum and restraint. Discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:27 PM
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Never tell a hot chick she's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:23 PM
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A women can be soldier, a scientists, a engineer, a super model she can be all of these things at the same time, but yet even a woman who can be all these things still finds herself getting cheated on and seen as just an option, another number, or an object such as car, purse or hell even food like steak. Started off in a bad place. Know what kind of men cheat o women the most? The men that have the most social activity with others. Like a nightclub owner, or a police officer. Women only value m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:50 PM
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Never said men weren't emotional. Of course both have emotions. Men try to rationalize their feelings ( in doing so make it more difficult to empathize with others ) . That's how men invented social rules like an honor code. Women don't have a code, simply using emotions as affirmation and fulfillment, to disassociate. Like trying not to think and live in the moment. Men can live in the moment just like women can. But men know that's not the whole truth, whereas women will ignore truth for the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:33 PM
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Patriarchy doesn't have to be real ( for women ) . A slight perception of it simply has to cause them harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:06 AM
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No. Women don't take accountability. And only responsible for their choices, not what their choices do. They may have discipline, but they don't learn from mistakes either ( they want to commit mistakes ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:58 AM
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Women are more loyal to their emotions, and make choices based on them. I'm not running away. What facts you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:56 AM
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Not effort. Effectiveness. You don't consistently try to sweep her off her feet. It just happens. Women value new experiences, not repetition.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:59 PM
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Not responsibility or accountability. It's lack of discipline ( like patience ) and lack of learning from mistakes ( complacency ) men are missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:54 PM
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No, OP nailed it. Men love taking women down a peg. No. Some men want to correct their misconceptions. Not going to be their echo chamber for their comfort. Especially if they don't reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:51 PM
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'Men's behaviour for thousands of years' (let's come back to that one, yeesh) has been roundly dismissed as completely shitty by the same women who are now asking 'Well why can't we do it?!' Because you've just identified that it's shitty behaviour. The stupid man ( or woman ) doesn't learn from his mistakes. The smart man does learn from his mistakes. The wise man learns from everyones mistakes, including his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:42 PM
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Actually, they're not. Women don't deserve a lot of things. The masculine ones left wing liberal women are next to, are the only ones. ' Woke ' Feminism has made men more conservative. So the plan backfired ( that's how Trump got elected ) . Women won't be rid of masculine men, as long as they're devaluing men as a whole. An article from 2006? That's 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:17 PM
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Then that makes them hypocrites as well. Their bad choices are causing their own kind of harm. I don't think only women make bad choices. Of course men do. But women don't care about building or learning from their bad choices, and shame men either way. Women want more agency, to fail just as badly as men, but men are the ones that need to shape up?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:58 AM
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Don't think highly of men either. But you shouldn't take comfort in that either. Men and women may be equals, but that doesn't make them the same. No, you don't have to hate everyone equally ( only differently ) . Because women have their own flaws and mistakes, unique to them and their choices. Don't have to target them for them to have their own category of evaluation ( that's part of what a safe space is all about ) . Being praised, ignored, or vilified is fair game. Women don't all have halo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:49 AM
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Why are women trying to copy mens bad habits?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:23 PM
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I'd rather women want me and not take my person seriously, than them simply find me worthless out of hand ( because then they definitely won't acknowledge me as a person ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:25 PM
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It's compensating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:12 PM
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Difference between hating women, and not thinking highly of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:07 PM
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And women want nothing to do with those men that lose their masculinity. It's just a refreshing change of pace.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:02 PM
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Women tend to be their own worst enemy. And not just because of men. Women like to make mistakes, of all kinds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:55 PM
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Women don't want compatible, they want fulfilling experiences. Even if it's a mistake. It's why they date the bad boy, even if he doesn't fit or unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:31 PM
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Billionaires can afford better. All depends on the arrangement, like with Epstein and Diddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:22 PM
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Status is part of lifestyle. But has nothing to do with the person. It's a connection to his community. And women value how the community presence is affected, more than wanting to be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:05 AM
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It's simply the same kind of indifference women value, it just happens to work in the mans favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:36 PM
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Women want good men who they are attracted to. Women not attracted to the good man. They're attracted to what he can provide; status and lifestyles. They have to get those, through him. They're not there for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:34 PM
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Women value status, lifestyles, and ( new pleasant convenient ) experiences. Not people or stability .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:31 PM
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Women should dump bad dates when they're not compatible with them too. No one is making you have piss poor standards. Women don't have standards. They have whims. It literally doesn't matter if there is a suitor waiting in line because it's a matter of self respect, not supply and demand. Not just supply and demand, but the access of how people are evaluated. Like dating apps and social media. Take those away, the dating field would be back to what it was before Facebook was invented.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:29 PM
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That's how dating works, for women. Men don't have the luxury of simply dumping bad dates on a whim. Especially if they have to learn social skills. Women dump people on a whim or incompatibility because there's always another suitor waiting in line. Which is how women devalue men, through supply and demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:44 PM
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Women have influence in whether a relationship happens, yes. Are you saying you’d like for us not to have a say in it? Women having agency, hasn't improved anything except give women affirmation. This doesn’t seem like a blame thing, everyone has the choice not to date someone they don’t like. The problem is it's based on whims with no actual structure. Women aren't building anything with their choices and are pretty much just wasting everyones time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:36 PM
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Women have more of an influence in relationship with than they acknowledge, because they refuse to take blame for their impact of their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:37 PM
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Lack of social skills is not a question that can be answered without a second opinion ( and making sure that can be trusted as well ) . Misunderstandings happen all the time. Communication can be difficult if you can't define the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:34 PM
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SOME women don’t like men who are virgins. In the same way that SOME men don’t like women with high body counts or any body count. Except many likes and dislikes are based on social pressures and trends caused by ignorance and lack of empathy. By women as much as men. But women are the ones that complain about it the most, yet haven't stopped doing it, or learned from others. Don’t date women who don’t respect you. It’s literally that simple. It would be much easier if you could identify the dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:29 PM
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Social pressures and unwritten rules don't exist for no reason, regardless of whom it does right by. And women have done their fair share as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:22 PM
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It's one thing not to blame you, it's another not to blame women in general. They don't all have halos over their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:08 PM
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Women don't value or respect men without experience or skills. More so for virgins than being single. It's a social pressure enforced by women onto men, and it only makes connection more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:03 PM
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Saying anything that places the blame on women for your own lack of dating success will be a total turn off for most women. Women don't like accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:59 PM
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No they shouldn't. Not having experience, is just that, and nothing else. Learning to trust is difficult, no matter how simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:55 PM
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She will lose interest if you don't try. Men must be the ones to initiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:51 PM
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What if she's not?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:49 PM
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Expect it is happening, to men, not women. Women just don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:39 PM
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Not going to dumb myself down just to make others comfortable for not being able to keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:37 PM
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But women only dislike it when men don't provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:18 PM
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That’s bullshit. Everyone has inherent value and impact. Everyone’s deserving of respect. Man, woman, regardless of gender. Except women don't care about it. It's virtue signaling to make a point. But they're not putting in anymore effort in other places ( yet demand everyone else should ) . There also are men and women that are leaving that shit in the past where it belongs. And replacing it with what? Because people aren't working harder ( or smarter ) than they used to. Just because you ' don…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:16 PM
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No it's not. Women make demands based on their expectation. If they're not met, they blame men, not themselves. Women want affirmation and to be special in their connections, at his expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:46 PM
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It's about social pressure and expectations. Not what actually happens. Men are expected to provide that 50%, not women. Women don't want to provide at all. If men don't provide, they're rejected and dismissed ( to an absurd degree ) . https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-14433829/being-man-hard-woman-inside-transmaxxing-trend-men-swap-gender-female-benefits.html
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:44 PM
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No. I'm just smarter than you. Women pursuits or virtue is all women ever talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:32 PM
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You'll rationalize anything to get what you want. Because it's at anothers expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:31 PM
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They limit our perspective and world views and directly impact how we treat each other. No. Complacency does that. If you want things to change, you'd have to solve the problems ' traditional ' archaic roles tried to solve. Let’s end these archaic roles and recognize that women can be providers and men can be supporters. Women don't respect men being supporters, regardless of agency. They only value equals and superiors. Because a mans agency must have an impact and influence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:41 AM
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Relationship posts that read like they were written by people that only theoretically understand relationships are my favorite. Peak comedy. If you're the one that constantly complains about social rules, but also laughs at it, that's proof you're indifferent to the entire issue. Go ahead and tune them out, because they're not solving anything ( at least not for anyone else ) . It's not actually funny, when you're on the negative receiving end, especially if you want others to take it seriously …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:28 AM
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Men and women may be equals, but they're not the same. Men are still expected to provide, whereas women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:11 AM
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Women have more substitutes for loneliness than men do, like social media. Take those away ....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:54 PM
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More is always expected from men, than women. Even if men aren't learning or improving, they must still provide. Women don't either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:47 PM
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Rather pay after the divorce, than pay her to be a housewife. It's still his money, regardless of business partnership. She's still living and eating on his earnings, even if there's children or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:46 PM
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Be single and alone all you want. But it doesn't deserve to be celebrated. You're still doing, nothing. It takes effrot to work with someone else and being a team player, worth noticing. You can still have friends, networks, hookup, s*xfriends. Just you are single. Those are called distractions ( because it's not actually support ) , so you don't have to think about your ' alone ' status. Like using social media for an echo chamber to fuel self affirmation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:29 AM
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Women aren't learning from mens mistakes ( or even their own ) , just copying them. And they're not building anything either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:25 AM
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Then there are people screaming about being lonely because they’re not getting laid. I can’t take that reasoning seriously. Those are the ones whom have no interest in building anything with another person, just living out an experience. But it's a duality for them. Because as inconsequential ' getting laid ' is, it's still a measurement of status and lifestyle for them ( part of a social role expectation ) . You should take it seriously, because they have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:20 AM
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Correct. Women are just as shallow as men are, differently. Except women think they're entitled to be, whereas men shouldn't. Women demand men be more virtuous and chivalrous than women are, and are upset when they don't meet the expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:22 AM
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Women value status and lifestyle to such an absurd degree, they can't understand any choice that doesn't involve thinking that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:20 AM
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No one has. Because it's not about him psyching himself out. It's about her agency constantly changing based on a whim. Women only want to focus on status and lifestyle, and nothing else. That 99% that don't see him as compatible, are those womens fault. They're the ones that should put in more effort ( isn't that what her agency is for ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:15 AM
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Because women have always valued status, lifestyle, and ( pleasent ) experiences over people or stability. Men value looks, because it provides instant ( temporary ) gratification. Her personality and social skills come next. Money and ambition can get in the way of compatibility more than looks ever could. Men don't need to look for more ambition, if men are required to do it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:09 AM
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Women are always doing hypergamy, regardless of her agency. Women are just as shallow as men are, differently. They say they want compatibility, but then always focus on the money, status, and lifestyle ( Hot Felon was popular on the internet before he met her ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:21 AM
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Except those prices are based on inflation. Everything is more expensive now. And stay at home moms never actually pay of anything. And having kids is the only real job taxing job function ( other than cooking ) . It's why stay at home moms always drink wine. In fact, it's probably easier now with technology doing more work ( like rumbas cleaning the floor ) . But because women don't divorce over money anymore ( but will over literally anything else ) , then they shouldn't be trying to take his …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:17 AM
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Wow. You just monetized the value of a woman to a man. What do women do to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:14 PM
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And then we have the audacity to hate them because some women will do the same sort of thing that some men do. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:49 PM
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It simply means she prioritizes herself—which is a good thing. It's a good thing , for her. Women always prioritize themselves, regardless of agency. It's no secret ( and understandable ) . It's about what she does, chooses, and rejects in the process. Ending a relationship isn’t gender-biased; men leave for personal reasons just as women do. Men don't ask for divorce. Women do. No matter how incorrect men are, they don't want to ruin the stability. Men have the same insecurities and hang ups as…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:31 PM
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No it's not. Women don't need a valid reason. Lack of a valid reason, is lack of overall reason. It isn't because of lack of compatibility. It's because of a whim belief that they shouldn't have to to put in effort, pining for freedom from anything that doesn't make you instantly happy. She can choose to give up for anything, but that choice says more about her than it does about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:42 PM
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Money used to be the number one reason for divorce. It's not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 01:50 PM
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Or are they using their own individualized measurement of another persons pattern of behavior, regardless of character or morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:50 AM
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Unless it's a valid reason in itself. Not something that happens on a whim, and using it as an excuse. There's abuse, and then there's house chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:43 AM
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It's not brainwashing. If RP makes a good point here and there, that's it. Men aren't going to ignore that, for the sake of women. People don't acknowledge a truth, they cannot exploit. A natural reflex. Women have not explained that point at away or diminished it. Too busy attacking the RP instead of what the RP is saying. It build new neural networks through repetition and once it’s part of your brain, you have to actively work against it. That should terrify you. Not if you have a disciplined…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:42 AM
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Notice how we're not trying to copy those happy families. Happiness is wanting what you already have. Having is not the same as wanting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:34 AM
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We affirm ourselves through our neurotic insecurities. As if the world forced it upon us, and it's always someone elses fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:30 AM
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And be shamed by your own friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:02 AM
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Remember the internet sensation, Hot Felon. He was handsome low level thief with no job. He married a billionaire heiress, got her pregnant, divorced her, left he with the child, took almost half her inheritance, and started his own fashion clothe line. which all happened, because of her agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:59 AM
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Not quite. The want the alimony to be proportionate to the work shes done in the marriage. She can have her own money, as long as it doesn't interfere with his money or the family dynamic. But women want it to. She can escape if she wants, but not if it's all at his expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:55 AM
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And it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:54 AM
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Men don't get apprehensive for receiving a Valentines gift. Your experience is literally the only exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:50 AM
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Lol. Social pressures and roles exist for a reason, regardless of whom it does right by ( whether they're innocent or hypocrites ) .
/r/MensRights21/02/25 01:46 AM
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how did people being assholes get lumped into masculinity? A pattern emerged where masculine men kept doing the same antagonism to others, like college hazing. You never hear about women being assholes being considered an aspect of femininity. Men are more different from each other than women are. If a woman is being toxic, chances are you've seen it so often, that it doesn't stand out as unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:46 PM
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' Reading the room ' is not a universal skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:50 AM
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Women don't like it when men do it, because men always do it ( they want a refreshing change of pace ) . Women don't mind doing it to everyone else though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:30 AM
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Answer a question with a question; Do you think it's morally wrong for a 26 year old woman to have a one night stand with a 18 year old man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:28 AM
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Shy men don't like talking either. But that's how women evaluate their status, social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:34 AM
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I think maybe a solution would be to have more figures of wisdom like this to comfort and inspire love-shy people that there is a way out of the fog. The stupid man ( or woman ) doesn't learn from his ( or her ) mistakes. The smart man does learn form his mistakes. The wise man learns from everyones mistakes, including his own. How do you apply this to romance, for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:32 AM
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Social pressure isn't just about fear, it's about class and status. Identifying where people are in life. Most people choose not to associate with what is considered to be a ' lesser ' . It's part of how people lose respect for someone. Even without fear or doubt ( don't recommend it ) , lack of useful information or social skills can still be a set back. Most useful social advice I've learned without being told, is patience ( and that's a skill ) . Because insecurities aren't going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:27 AM
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Marriage is more about property rights than romance. You can commit and be monogamous without marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:05 AM
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It's not lack of money that makes people feel stuck, it's lifestyle choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:03 AM
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Happiness is wanting what you already have. Having isn't the same as wanting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:03 AM
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People don't acknowledge a truth, they cannot exploit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:00 AM
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Everywhere online, I see not just misogyny but outright vile and dehumanizing rhetoric about women. Most of it isn't real. Some men venting, some AI data being feed back to you, some of it is the same men over and over. There are plenty of men that don't do that, respect women, or avoid social media as a whole. Value them when you find them ( and they will do the same in return ) . Try the purple pill here on Reddit. My brother for example is a staunch supporter of Andrew Tate, Try to focus on t…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/25 12:46 AM
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Women don't have wisdom, which is why they believe every choice they make is a good choice( just because they made it ) . Even when they choose to be alone ( which involves doing nothing except being selfish and lazy ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 07:35 PM
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Because women don't like accountability, regardless of agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 07:11 PM
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Still proves womens selfishness. That's what happens when men acknowledge their agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:45 PM
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Also as usual, women dismiss anything that doesn't serve their pursuit. Not even saying it's fake or incorrect. Can't reason, so revert to sexual insults. Because the truth is that women don't learn for their mistakes, don't listen, and use mens social failures as an excuse to commit their own. Women want men to do things for them because of attention, affirmation, and envy ( and lazy ) . They give bad men all the attention, and then devalue the good men on a whim ( and wonder why they don't com…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:58 PM
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Men don't mind women whom are late bloomers. Women dismiss men without experience, out of hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:40 PM
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Is she? Nobody thinks the "bad boy" is the best option. I dated one or 2 and the reason I did it was because they were just there. Since I wasn't looking for a relationship, having FWB relationships was all I needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:21 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_yr35At6Zpo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:08 PM
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Not supposed to chase, but keep your hat in the ring. Keep your distance, and don't be afraid to cut her off. Be surprised how much women like a man that doesn't pay too much attention to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:12 PM
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Both men and women dislike monogamy? So why are ya'll still doing it? 😆 Polyamory is right there! Right wing traditional are doing it, not left wing liberals. Polyamory isn't actually a relationship, but distractions from each other. If you have to romance 100 people to love 1 person, you don't like anyone. They like the lifestyle. most human beings are NOT total assholes most of the time. Everyone has their own version of doing right by others. No one is recognizing their failings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:08 AM
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I think you guys are overthinking this Last I noticed, it's women that have the longer check box list. I'm not entirely sure why you guys think "maturity" applies to every other aspect in life but dating. It doesn't make sense. Fancy way of saying that women are going to do things on a reckless whim without reason, and that men can't and have to endure it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:52 AM
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Both. But I'd rather be settled for , so we can make adjustments in the relationship. Rather than be immediately rejected on a whim without reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:45 AM
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Men don't like monogamy. So they lie and cheat. Women don't value monogamy. They want multiple partners. It's ( men ) lying that they dislike. Being faithful and having integrity isn't acknowledged by either side, because both have the maturity of toddlers. We don't go around stabbing each other in the heart because we're unhappy in a relationship. We do it, because we can ( it's easy ) . Social media has made relationships a negative. Because we assume satisfaction and fulfillment is as simple …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:43 AM
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You're always going to be lonely. Don't make romance a goal, because it doesn't work that way. It's a happenstance. Keep being stoic, don't value expression of emotion at someone, find other outlets for sex ( don't go off the rails ) .
/r/MensRights18/02/25 02:25 AM
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Government lied about nutrition for decades (food pyramid). Gov't doesn't know what to tell you, so they tell you anything. Made a process based on what they already saw, not what had to be learned. And if they don't know what to tell you, they ask agriculture lobbyists before any unbiased researcher. It's not as if they're plans are well thought out. It's about who gets to be heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:06 AM
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No. Just selfish and without wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:41 AM
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How does masculine appearance correlate to behavior or emotions exactly? It gives emotional discipline a tangible expressive form, without having to use words. A simple look is supposed to tell the story. Women wanting more "feminine" qualities in a man usually means he's willing to split housework and has some semblance of emotional intelligence. We don't mean we want you to look like a woman. As usual, women try to make a mans emotions about herself. It's not emotional intelligence to make sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:40 AM
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Social roles and pressures don't exist for no reason, regardless of whom it does right by. We call it ' non-traditional ' because we don't know what to else to call it. Doing ' anything but that ' , is not a goal or purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:30 AM
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She's been trying to put on a brave face since that Barry guy.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 01:10 PM
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Men also do this to women. That woman must fit to his tastes and liking or otherwise he doesn't pay attention to her. So it's a mutual thing that men and women wants their partner to be compatible with them. Men are loyal to their stability. Women are loyal to their whims. Women lose focus first. Are you a woman to know that or is this an assumption? I'm sure they know what they want like us men and we simply don't meet it. It's observation. Don't simply focus on what she says, focus on what she…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:45 PM
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Women like men that can stand equal to them and that means a balance of assertiveness and submissiveness and this is something most people struggle with. Women want men to be, whatever she wants him to be. He must affirm her whims. It's only equal when she does it for him in return. Either they are too assertive and scaring off women or they are too submissive and turning off women. Did you try doing the moderate way and see if it works? There is no moderate version of a whim. Women don't know w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:07 PM
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Yeah sure buddy, women don't actually enjoy receiving oral sex 😭 I mean every individual does have different preferences, but please. And what does she enjoy? The orgasm or the man going down on her because she said so? Because if he doesn't enjoy it, neither will she ( even if he's good at it ) . That's like saying men don't enjoy blowjobs, they only like them cause it means women are in a submissive position there. Men do things out of sexual gratification, women don't ( or at least not as muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:23 PM
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It's not about the man. It's about the status and lifestyle choice. The community pogo stick has brand recognition, which makes women feel special by association. It's why women don't respect virgins. Women sleeping with virgin males is easy, when she gets to dismiss him at her leisure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:44 AM
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Women are choosing based on status, not the quality of the person. So it's still shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:39 AM
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Not every animal a sheep encounters is a wolf. Humans are the largest apex predators, men just happen to be better at it than women. Without men , women become the top predators. And that's what they aspire to be, because women don't build/do anything else. Men not being violent, doesn't matter to women. Just a card they like to play to blame men for something. You don't value those 8 men that aren't creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:38 AM
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It has nothing to do with male pride. It's about womens affirmation. When you appease them, they stop caring. Men only get womens attention, when men do things they don't like. Eating her out or doing the amazon position isn't about sexual gratuity, only dominance over men. She's not going to respect him more for doing it, only the experience of status matters to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:29 AM
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This is what accusations of rape are. Tactics for women to extort men, not means for improving women’s safety. Women don't understand their own fears, only point at them. They don't learn form their own victim-hood. Getting others to worry about their own safety ( more than they do ) is how they create a form of social wealth. They just don't value it until it's too late.
/r/MensRights12/02/25 03:29 PM
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Women value their safety Women value chaos, as long as it's pleasurable and an extension of their agency. It's other peoples chaos they want to avoid. When it goes to a dark place ( and it usually does ) , that's when they fall back to demanding safety. They think they're entitled to make mistakes, but men cannot. That's why they don't interact with random men. Doesn't stop women from judging random men as all the same ( it's a form of bigotry ) . Your weird fantasy of women "appreciating the no…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:15 PM
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Now, I think "late" is far better than living with regret -- at least from a woman's perspective Women may think that, for women, not men. Men whom keep their virginity to long are under social pressure put onto them from women, more so than men. Women don't respect male virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:02 PM
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It's not womens jobs to make men less creepy. Then women must not value their safety, or men whom aren't being creepy. You either want to solve your problem, or not. The problem won't solve itself, just because women demand it to ( it comes to a point where you can't use it to affirm yourself anymore ). Women don't like violence. But still want to use pepper spay. Defending yourself isn't violence. Defending yourself violently, is part of violence. It's not pacifism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:21 PM
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I'm not mad. You're shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:43 PM
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Why would they want to stick around? What’s so special about the other 8 guys? I’ll just go talk about philosophy with women who can stay on topic and act like adults. This is why there's a disconnect. Women complain about a problem, only to say it's not their problem. You just said those 8 men are amazing, now they have no value? Simply didn't care about them at all in the first place. Those 2 creeps are the only ones you're giving value to. Part of philosophy is reasoning, and may involve not …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:59 AM
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Men can tell them apart. Simply don't react to them, until something significant happens. Can't do it on a whim. Women don't want to ' tell them apart ' . They want to apply a social pressure on men. Many women like to say to men, ' It's not their problem ' . Women have to work with men in skepticism, to tell those men apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:39 AM
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No. Rejecting half the population has nothing to do with centering. They're off balance all on their own. Freeing yourself from the social pressure of others, can still have pressure you project at others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:30 AM
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And he's incorrect as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:25 AM
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They're not trying to learn anything. Only exploit what they want, or project their feelings. No interest in making anything work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:20 AM
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No. It's not. That ' answer ' is for women that don't want to fix the problem, and prefer to extract affirmation from it. Thought women didn't like violence? Know what it's like to be on the receiving end of your own rules. The solution is to create a trend that makes the creep want to change his behavior. A social pressure ( not a legal one ) has to come from both men and women. And it's not going to happen overnight, and requires effort to stick to a plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:58 AM
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He can't afford to have a good time. People make the ' good time' , not the money. Women value men who can provide for themselves and not freeloaders. Women value exploitation. Nobody is obligated to date someone. Nobody is obligated to give you what you want, and be shamed for not doing it either. Know what it's like to be on the receiving end of your own rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:54 AM
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Women don't think that far ahead ( neither do some men ) . They're never on the receiving end of their own rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:48 AM
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Finances to take care of children is one of the few times talking about money isn't being shallow, from men or women. Children are dependent on their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:57 AM
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No they won't. Men understand money being an issue, when children are involved. Because children are dependent on the parents and have no agency. Women worrying about the pay gap, has nothing to do with children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:53 AM
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Best way for women to manage creeps, is to value the men that aren't. The men that value womens boundaries and gives space for comfort shouldn't be as easily dismissed. The guy who brings up sexual topics in conversation when you’re not in that kind of relationship with them. The guy who asks personal questions of strangers or acquaintances. What if he has a million subscribers and posts video onto social media? Because that's how we got Hwak Tah girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:18 AM
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Until it becomes a meme on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:14 AM
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No. Women want men to suffer without women. That's why they go 4B. Men aren't absurd enough to think they don't need women. Only women have that fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:56 AM
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Social rules, roles, and pressures exist for a reason, regardless of who it does right by. Men can't help being gay, whereas women choose to lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:53 AM
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but mostly it's heterosexual relationships that end up in the shitter because the man doesn't want to do chores No. Women don't like it when men don't do chores. Lesbians don't care when women don't do chores. Women more willing be housewives for women, because of hypocrisy. Women don't like it when men do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:51 AM
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That's part of the problem. Using gay/lesbian relationships against RP men. When you're actually holding it against all hetero couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:44 AM
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The status of working towards a better life vs the status of being nearly middle aged while making less than $15,000 a year. That's not average, that's 1/3rd of average. Unless the bills are crippling, the amount a person makes doesn't matter ( except to women ) . And an emergency is something else entirely. It's just shallow Depends, 40 hours stocking shelves is different from 40 hours working in finance, the work matters No it doesn't. The work only matters, if you're embarrassed about the ind…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:34 AM
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He can't afford to go 50/50 for dinner and a movie. As long as she agency and her own money, she shouldn't care if he doesn't. Women still have a hang up about paying for anything, even when both have their own cash. Get over it. Its not as if he's freeloading. What happened to ' just having a good time ' ? I'm still wondering how he even affords a roof over his head. He can't afford an apartment alone. He probably can't afford a room. So what is his lodging situation? Unless she's living at his…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:28 AM
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No. It's shallow. Lack of drive shouldn't matter, as long as he is contributing ( separate issue ) . It's another case of status and lifestyle that matters more than the person. Making more money, means it's the money that is priority for her. Ambition if for exploitation. Only men are penalized for not being a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:32 AM
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No it wouldn't. Once again status is more important than the person. Be surprised how many women don't want to date a man that works a 9 to 5 grind either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:23 AM
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I responded to your comment. I agreed. People can shun and refuse to engage with people for whatever reason they please even if it's irrational. Congrats. You just gave irrational people a voice, to not solve the issue rationally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:43 AM
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If there are 10 men on the zoom call, 8 are amazing and 2 are creeps… I still don’t want to join the zoom call. The “amazing” ones don’t counteract the creeps. Because it doesn't work that way. 8 men can't simply reject 2 creeps, and go on thinking the issue is solved, because it's not. If those 2 creeps get to control the mood of the whole group, you've just made those 2 creeps far too important. And now made 8 amazing guys disposable. Women are supposed to stick around for those 8 amazing guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:35 AM
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But a lot of relationships don't work out over smaller, but still corrosive issues, that aren't about abuse but dissatisfaction and incompatibilities. They're corrosive, when you want the to matter. We're not focusing on big issues like abuse, because those have easy evaluations to point at. Making choices with big consequences, over small issues, is about serving affirmation, than actually being satisfied. Everyone is disposable. And this happens because we're not trying building long term rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:24 AM
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Women are comparing one form of joy to another. It diminishes the joyous experience ( and putting that burden and dissatisfaction upon others ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:17 PM
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Well it's better than nothing Proof right there that women can't replace a romantic relationship with substitute platonic ones ( that they don't think highly of to begin with ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:14 PM
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So I liked the girls I dated more than I’d like to date a hot chick who’s a stick in the mud who can’t have fun. Prefer to break them out of their shell.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:16 PM
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That's going to take a tremendous amount of patience, honesty, courage, compassion, introspection, and discipline from all of us, no matter where we may fall on the gender identity or sexuality spectrums. That's part of the problem. There is no one size fits all for any of us, so you can't expect the same truth form everyone. Some people don't have discipline or patience, and believe they're entitled not to have that capacity. It's part of the convenient affirmation that we want to project towar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:54 PM
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Women are trying to emulate , what they assume men do. Because that's all they see/understand ( or pay attention to ) . They envy it. Men have to be better teachers for women, no matter how much women react.
/r/MensRights08/02/25 07:20 AM
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An excuse is a justification used to avoid responsibility or blame, while a reason is a legitimate explanation for an action or inaction that acknowledges personal accountability. Understanding the difference can help in personal growth and decision-making. Women like to react, not solve puzzles.
/r/MensRights08/02/25 05:35 AM
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Belief is whatever gets you through the day. Hope is emotional aspiration. I simply observe, foresightedness.
/r/MensRights08/02/25 04:37 AM
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Men make the same evaluation, differently. Women think they're entitled to exploit those things, because they don't know any better. They pursue status and lifestyle, because it's at the expense of someone else. When they have no agency, they need it to survive. When they have agency, they want it for fun. Either way, they're still chasing it. Only the motive changed.
/r/MensRights08/02/25 03:41 AM
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The stupid man ( or woman ) doesn't learn from his ( or her ) mistakes. The smart man does learn form his mistakes. The wise man learns from everyones mistakes, including his own. Unfortunately, women haven't learned anything from being a victim. Because women like you don't want to learn, solve, or build anything.
/r/MensRights08/02/25 03:12 AM
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Women don't pay attention to themselves.
/r/MensRights08/02/25 02:58 AM
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After all, society still treats them with the privileged consideration of tradition, but refuses to demand the demure behavior of tradition that consideration was intended to go with. Women aren't thinking that far ahead. They're not trying to build anything, or value stability. Only to be free from men they don't like that take their choice away, then distract themselves with social media. It's why they celebrate any minor gains they get. It's ultimately self defeating. But if men keep talking …
/r/MensRights08/02/25 02:38 AM
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It's about what consent leads to. That alleviates loneliness. Because affirmation requires attention, regardless of harassment. And if you want to solve the problem, all sides can only worry about themselves. Not doing chores, means putting in effort to do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:24 AM
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Consent isn't the only thing that matters. It simply fuels affirmation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:54 AM
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Before you click, know that It's an echo chamber. They're not there to learn, so the information will be limited. It's why we come to purple pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:38 AM
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They don't want to listen to what the average man actually wants in reality. No one wants to listen to commoners. We all want to listen to the elites, so we can associate as elites. Burden of affirmation, is wanting to be important ( for no reason or effort ) , but also not knowing how.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:37 AM
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And men are the biggest reason they think this, because many men value youth/beauty to the point they’re hyper focused on it, and the reason hot women can leverage it in the 1st place. You know what happens when men stop doing that? Nothing. Men that ignore a womans beauty don't hold much value either, they're seen as foolish and just another form of misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:03 AM
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Men who choose to be a virgin arent seen that way That also depends on if she has the other negative traits to go with it ( physically unattractive, low social/emotional intelligence plus assertiveness, too focused on social media deficits ) . Women can be shallow too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:56 AM
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Every-time a woman gives me a blowjob I just feel bad for them. The act of moving your neck up and down like that looks painful to me, I feel it'd give me a migraine He should try lying down. A warm, veiny, sour sausage going in and out of my mouth would make me vomit almost instantly. Then when the guy orgasms, it shoots into the back of her throat and fills her mouth with a taste that must be absolutely putrid. The flavor depends on what you eat, and how you wash/clean up. The physical state o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:42 AM
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Let's try to flip that shall we? ; '' I actually agree with the OP eating out doesn't feel as good as the popular perception, especially "average" ones. ''
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:03 AM
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Are you scared of women having equality? Equality is ' I win, you win. I lose, you lose ' . Women don't value equality. They tolerate the idea of equality, as long as it serves their pursuit. If equality takes more than it gives, expect women to change their mind. People don't acknowledge a truth, they cannot exploit. What do you see as the benefits for men in particular? There isn't any. Feminism doesn't care about men. They only care about what men do to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:15 PM
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It's like playing a video game to learn about driving. That was sarcasm. Playing video games is not good for learning to drive. There are YouTube channels where sex experts teach men and women different skills Great way to get on a watch list.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:19 PM
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I think this is the first time I've seen someone unironically suggest that watching porn teaches men how to be good at sex. Never said it made them good at sex ( or men to be for women ) . Only that it get mens attention more. Porn's job is not to teach anything, it's to make people (primarily men) horny by catering to their fantasies Why do women get attention from written erotica? but don't confuse it with anything educational about how to sexually satisfy a woman. And why don't women use that…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:11 PM
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50 shades of grey is an erotica. Not a good example. For romance or erotica. erotica can teach you more about foreplay and more about being in a relationship, 80% of the time. Not all relationships apply to others. Like 50 shades of grey
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:50 AM
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he might learn more about foreplay and possibly even how to act after sex or romantically. Like most of the erotica I have read spans over months or years, ...... but If I had to pick the more "useful" source of knowledge I would pick a 25 chapter book over a 12 minute porno. Sounds more like a romance novel with the mature parts left in, than erotica. He wouldn't be learning about sex. He'd be reading about another couples relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:56 AM
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Power fuels indifference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:46 AM
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Uh, neither porn or erotica is mean to "help you." There still has to be a purpose to it. A man can read erotica, and still be bad at sex. A refreshing change of pace only goes so far. What's he going to learn from a book that he can't get from a visual? the purpose of porn and erotica is just to stimulate you when you don't have a partner or you don't want to have sex for some reason. Then he doesn't have to watch a video, or read a book, just look at a picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:00 PM
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Reading erotica isn't actually reality. It's not that it isn't arousing, it's just not practical. It's like playing a video game to learn about driving. How does a man reading erotica help him with women in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:37 PM
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Example, empowerment. That thing everyone keeps telling you will somehow solve their problems. It also keeps people from learning from their mistakes and stops humility.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:01 PM
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a lot of them can't really fathom getting turned on by words. Yes, they can. There's this thing where a woman whispers in his ear ( sounds are still words ) . But reading words isn't as direct as watching a visual.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:45 PM
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People don't acknowledge a truth, they cannot exploit. Being praised, ignored, or vilified, is fair game. Social pressure based on praise, can also be harmful or a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:29 PM
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Social pressures are motivators, for better or worse. It's not necessarily meant to do right by everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:23 PM
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