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You are not responsible for other adults lying to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:12 PM
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Why? This sub has exposed at least 2 rapists now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:08 PM
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It’s not an offering when your pressuring them into saying what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:07 PM
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Literally on another sub guts admitting they raped someone through lying. I honestly can’t believe some of the men on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:55 PM
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Did she only say yes after saying no many times but now she’s been bullied into that? Lots of rapists bully their victims into saying yes, that’s what the op means, she can say no without being guilt tripped about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:54 PM
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I was 14, so yes it was rape. And I’d said no at least 6 times but he used the relationship against me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:38 PM
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And again, you don’t think these losers are braced and supported by the others around them? They wouldn’t put up with them if their wasn’t feelings involved. The loser is literally using his leverage to take advantage of the people who are putting up with him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:40 AM
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Wish? Half the teenagers on Reddit don’t work and live off someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:36 AM
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Your trying to tell us, you’ve never heard of guys that live rent free at either their parents or bang maids houses smoking weed all day? It’s half the men on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:32 AM
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Same. But it went in for months. I really really liked him but I wasn’t interested in sex if we weren’t a couple. Well he must have been desperate after a while because he finally said he’d be my bf and updated his status to “in a relationship” Of course the next day the deed was done and when I offered to plan a date for us he turned around and said it’s not working and dumped me. He went on to rape a few more people but he got caught eventually and spent some time in jail before he died
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:59 AM
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The key is to know each other fairly well before it crosses the familiar line. Friend of a friend type thing, seeing each other in a regular basis like college or work or a club. Rather than being helpful or friendly, you try teasing them and see how they respond, if they banter back it’s ok to start flirting and see if they hold your eye contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:34 AM
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Thank you for being honest. Cause I suspect this is what happens 99%. I’ve been on dates with guys who are wishy washly when it comes to straight answers like commitment. Then they act shocked when I don’t want to hang out on their bedrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:29 AM
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If you are lying to exploit someone they are only having sex with you under false pretences. That is rape. And it’s telling of men on this who who think it’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:12 AM
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Feminism is about equal rights, choices snd freedoms for women, that’s it. The freedom that a women can choose to have sex with whom they want. That’s nothing to do with the mindset of selfish sexist men, who don’t respect women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:46 AM
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Not under a false narrative no
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:55 AM
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Their are no stats
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:53 PM
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You are raping them, because if you were honest, it wouldn’t happen. Again there is a massive difference to lying to someone so you can rape them, to wanting to share someone’s feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:00 PM
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You attached any stats. So yes, that does change things
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:58 PM
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There is a massive difference to using someone to exploit them, and not being honest to why you don’t want to date them. You are essentially raping that person. Because if you were actually honest with them, they wouldn’t have sex with you. It would be better to say I just want to use you for sex because your ugly, so that the person and everyone else knows your a selfish pos
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:25 PM
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Yeah no, the stats don’t say that, attractiveness depends on the individuals viewing them. So to clarify, women standards and feelings is what’s stopping men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:21 PM
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Absolutely nothing for the women, but what does it matter? Her thoughts n feelings don’t matter. She’s just a hole to be used for sex. They’ll never admit it, but this us the kind of thinking from lots of guys here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:03 PM
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I wish other guys would call this kinda shit out. Opening admitting to lying to women and using them but when women complain about guys, all the men are straight to point the finger at her saying she “should have chose better” Absolute double standard from guys here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:57 PM
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Natural selection then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:53 PM
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No, I’m asking them what’s stopping them from doing this if they think it’ll make their lives better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:53 PM
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I’m confused, what’s stopping men from having hordes of casual sex with loads of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:08 PM
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It’s still a job then isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:52 AM
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Who said it didn’t? I’m pointing out being pretty doesn’t pay bills, even in a customer service role you are still doing work
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:39 AM
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But working on a computer makes me more money and doesn’t put me a risk from shitty men or customers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:15 AM
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It’s really not. People that expect bills to be paid require actual money to pay for things like bills and taxes. I can be as pretty as I am but I still have to work and pay my own bills
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:59 AM
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Op, I don’t know where you live, but having a pretty face has never paid the bills
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:23 AM
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On average, women do more unpaid work including childcare and care work. If that work Was included the numbers would be a lot different
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:49 PM
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If we were to bring in climate change I would absolutely agree with you, young peoples future seems unstable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:55 PM
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People aren’t owed anything, if their part of society they reap the benefits of it and they have the same opportunities as everyone else for a romantic relationship. There is no law or rule against these men, they just personally fail at doing it. The average man is not a ceo and is married. This is the point it about comes back too, at what point does that become entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:51 PM
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It’s not assault, is punishment for bad behaviour (and I’m agreeing it shouldn’t be physically) but it needs to be more than what it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:47 PM
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That is a very good point, there will always be some authoritative figures that abuse their positions and because it’s meant to be an authoritative position, any challenge is seen as being disruptive. However, I do not agree that certain men are seen as something we need to get rid of. If an abled body person doesn’t want to contribute to the society around him, he is a hindrance, there is no nice way to put it. Their are lots of mens mental health groups and the majority of people already tryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:29 PM
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Of course adults get beaten up for consequences, just not in the traditional sense. You do not need to physically hurt kids to teach discipline, but the middle grown isn’t very middle anymore. If parents aren’t coddling their children they are viewed as neglectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:23 PM
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So was their discrimination at the college level? I agree if there’s more men that apply then it makes sense it’ll be more male workers. But I have experienced sexism a few times in jobs. Bosses letting slip they don’t hire women for jobs “because they just get pregnant” Giving a job to a man over a women even when she was more qualified because he had a family and needed to provide for them, ignoring the fact she also had a family. Don’t be complacent about women in the workplace. Your study is…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:53 PM
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And how do you know it wasnt blatant sexism? If girls were 50% of the students with similar grades yet only men were getting hired then somethings not right there is there? We’ll know it’s not sexism when only the work is considered and the genders aren’t leaked
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:32 PM
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What part of my comment was misandrist please? Anything that doesn’t coddle men apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:27 PM
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I don’t think so, my sister got hit once, and it was enough to ensure the both of us behaved. We’ve grown up fine, the only mental health issue was postpartum during covid, which I think is fair. My sister was a little shit throughout our childhood, the one slap on the arse was enough to teach her when she’d gone to far and even though she was still a little shit she learned when she’d gone too far. Some of the behaviour from other kids at my daughters school is horrible and as a parent, my kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:26 PM
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Yeah I don’t like physically punishment either, but I don’t agree we have a generation of soft boys. We have boys with lots of mental health problems and anger issues, we have young men who are not afraid to lash out because they’ve never experienced punishment. My generation was only hit a few times but we grew up respecting authority. I don’t agree with it personally but young men nowadays can’t seem to take responsibility for their own actions anymore, nobody is telling them off or holding th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:18 PM
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Not really, if boys start out performing girls it shows their systems work, that’s a good thing and maybe the girls need to adapt to that too. Maybe kids should be more separated for certain classes more, I don’t agree with all boys or all girls cause kids need to learn to interact together. But boys having a teacher more focused on them in smaller numbers occasionally might be a good thing for them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:09 PM
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Regardless of what their studying, they do it and work full time. The boys leave school and just work the bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:58 PM
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YouTube generation? I will happily except the downvotes for this cause I agree it’s a fucking awful thing to say, but I think there’s an element to this. Until recently, children were physically disciplined, especially boys when they acted out in class or didn’t pay attention or didn’t behave. Now we try a much softer approach, getting children to talk about feelings and obvious no physical discipline. I can’t help but think some men and boys might prefer a more military style upbringing where t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:56 PM
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How? They literally have every opportunity handed to them, they just have to work for it like everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:44 PM
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I do. I work with a lot of younger people and there is a noticeable difference between the boys and girls. The girls work full time whist studying. The boys just work and do as little shifts as possible. Me and a lot of others end up carrying or making excuses for them, their late, they show up stinking of weed, they phone in sick every 2 weeks. Even on the job doing the simplest of tasks they fuck up a lot, but the worse part is their attitude, They never own up to it or apologise and generally…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:43 PM
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That’s not excusing the fact that most men who get harsher sentences have had previous convictions. This is not an injustice against men, this is done on an individual case
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:50 PM
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Women are also less likely to have previous convictions, which are including when the sane crimes are done over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:35 PM
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And with redpolls attitude, how do you think a guy who’s already ignoring his desperate wife is going to act?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:29 PM
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Yes you do, you trap them raising your kids. Knowing they’ll always be back and forward for you because of them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:28 PM
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Did you miss the part on your own source that says women are likely to be killed 30% by a male partner than 3% fir guys? You’ve clearly ignored the parts of your own source you didn’t like. Unfortunately, science direct is a corrupted website, you can use the numbers because they are likely to be fake https://www.elsevier.com/en-gb/connect/the-cost-of-fraudulent-research Snd no, YouTube is social media. That’s not a source of science
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:57 AM
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The problem is when their is a female bread winner she still ends up doing the majority of choices, https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20220406-women-breadwinners-why-high-earners-compensate-at-home They also increase their chances of being a victim of domestic abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:35 AM
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No that’s called trapping someone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:23 AM
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Still no links to back up your claims? Yup, we both know his is not real now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:22 AM
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Can’t find your sources? How convenient If you can’t even find them then they don’t exist and you shouldn’t push numbers that are fake because you don’t like them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:29 PM
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You’ve never heard of a man getting a women pregnant then abandoning her to raise the kids alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 07:38 PM
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Yeah I’ve seen that too. The wife needs to not use feelings and just do the constant work required of her to keep the family going. My heart broke reading a post from a redpill women a few weeks ago. She had a newborn snd a toddler and was ready to throw herself in front of a bus because she was so tried and hubby wasn’t helping. In fact, he was playing 5-6 hours of video games a night whist she barely slept longer than 2 hours and hasn’t showered in days. The response from other redpill women? …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 07:37 PM
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Actually more Women are likely to stay in abusive situations, and more men are likely to be abusive. But even when there’s no abuse, the women is more likely to be stick because she has no control over money, and she’s always got kids hanging off her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 07:29 PM
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No, their more believable because they don’t talk about having millions of $$$ to spend so easily on a clearly shitty bf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:41 AM
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No, I’ve just been around this sub long enough to know when it sounds too good to be true, it is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:39 AM
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No, I’ve just been around this sub long enough to know when it sounds too good to be true, it is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:39 AM
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Some might be yeah, but they are at least more believable. This is your classic incel story about the guy who paid for everything including fancy handbags and holidays for the girl who couldn’t keep a job. The average person doesn’t have close to anything like that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:20 AM
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It’s not about the kids (as quoted to me by a guy here) It’s about control over women. Women and babies are dependable as they know it’s a full time job to look after one and they know it’s expensive. Get a women pregnant and she’s kinda stuck with you. You can make her feel guilty about going to work, or not going to work. Either way, you keep her dependent on you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:28 AM
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He’s deliberately chosen a sub where he can make up an evil ex gf and how he was the prefect bf so we all need to agree women are evil and take advantage of men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:23 AM
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It’s always the way isn’t it? They want kids but they want someone else to raise them for him, he just wants his name on it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:59 AM
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Men want kids the way kids want puppies. Unfortunately, until more men are proving themselves to be good dads and actually stepping up to parent their kids, less women are going to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:52 AM
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Maybe this is why more women don’t don’t to be mothers? The dads do shitty behaviour, ignore the kids and let mum do all the work, then blame her for his behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:51 AM
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This is going to bed banned
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:47 AM
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Mate, I feel it’s only right to inform you most of your sources come from a website that uses fake “studies” where anyone can make up whatever they want from their own bedroom. https://www.researchgate.net/post/Fake_works_in_researchgate Nobody approves of misandry but it’s still not half a problem as misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:38 AM
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You have no way of knowing who wrote it because we can’t see the context of where it came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:37 AM
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Or men could just step up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:09 AM
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It’s not (and should never be) in your nature to rape someone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:17 PM
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Nature doesn’t dictate that you should rape someone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:04 PM
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For the species maybe but that doesn’t mean every individual needs to mate. So no it’s not. We don’t need to but we want to. We want to date and mate with people we actually like. Those that don’t will die off and natural selection will continue. You either adapt or die
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:01 PM
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Oh they can straight to jail then. If you can’t behave in our society, you’ll be thrown out. Simples
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:54 PM
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You can try to treat women however you want. The individual will decide what she likes and what she’s willing to put up with. However, I really don’t think a female human is going to find a male human pretending to flap with fake wings, attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:21 PM
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Every time I ask redpill women this, this is what they do. They can never answer it. They tell me these men are human and care about them but also admit these men only date them when women are useful. I would love if someone could explain why they’d want to be in a relationship like this and a with a man who treats them like this. A good man doesn’t want to lord over you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:17 PM
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Natural selection is not just about survival. It’s about picking a mate we enjoy spending time with and maybe want to grow together. It doesn’t always work and that’s why we date to see what we’re compatible with. If no one is coming near you, you are clearly not datable snd need to adapt yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:14 PM
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Even monkeys don’t treat the other adult monkeys like pets or babies
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:11 PM
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You can value and trust them but that doesn’t mean you have basic respect for them and still believe they are only valued right there and then fir what they do/provide for you. It’s transactional and it’s cold. And no, it doesn’t sound like they actually care about you because they argue dating dynamics and “sexual natures” instead of treating their spouses as an individual. If you as a women were to get into an accidental and disfigured yourself, your redpill man would dump you in a heartbeat b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:10 PM
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Again no, a man could be born into the right family and have the vote from birth, or he could work enough and become success enough that he could earn it. He was never not allowed it because he was male. Being female meant it didn’t matter what you did or where you were born because you just belonged to a man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:45 PM
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Women typically want have experiences with guys they like, it’s up to men to do the bird dance and make yourself someone she wants to be around. It’s called natural selection
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:38 PM
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Again, that’s just more misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:32 PM
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No, it’s based on facts. Like not being able to vote or control your own money
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:31 PM
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We should reword it. Feminism fought to get women paid and in control of their own monies for the work they always did
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:30 PM
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That’s really sad, for both men and women. Snd quite shallow and I would argue it’s harsher than kind. We all age and change but the foundations of your relationship should be a genuine fondness for each other as well as trust. The trp argument seems to be this is just how men and women are, so suck it up. Which sounds awful. I’ll never understand why anyone would stay with someone that treats them like they are disposable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:26 PM
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How is it misandrist? There’a guys saying women should obey men, of course women are going to argue back, how could anyone not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:17 PM
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It’s not based on heterosexual couples, doesn’t say that in your source. Feminism is about equal rights, choices and freedoms between men and women, that’s it. Yes we all know men are victims too, but it’s mainly from other men. You’ve done this before and bean caught out too, women are rarely the problem for men victims
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:24 AM
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What’s going on on this sub recently. The hate against women is becoming ridiculous. In just 2 minutes, I’ve seen guys telling women to obey their husbands and how it’s humiliating to plan a date for one. Like, no wonder y’all are single
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:04 AM
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This is again more cherry picked examples. We’ve gone though this before, you hate women we get it, but stop spreading made up numbers, you’ve pulled these from prisons before
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:53 AM
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Where are men dying in theatres then? Cause you chest picked one. How about All the hundreds of other times women gave yo their life or freedoms for men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:17 PM
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Nobody likes doing work for free and these jobs are notoriously underpaid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:43 PM
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It’s not but this is an element of person responsibility here. The op knew her boundaries, knew she’d had lots of kinky sex in previous relationships but still decided to hang around and is now bitching about it online. If this is real (which I very much doubt) he’s no one to blame but himself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:32 PM
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Does he not have eyes? Can he not see the trash is full? Iif he’s in the middle of doing something then fine ok, but I shouldn’t be instructing s grown man how to pick up after himself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:24 PM
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Really? Can you link anything? Never heard of one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:13 PM
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Have you? I’m talking about shootings and the majority of murders, which are from men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:13 PM
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No, just pointing out the obvious that you don’t need physical strength to hurt a lot of people. And yet women still don’t do it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:11 PM
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Yea they do. Given the majority of carers, nurses and even in mens mental health are women, it’s dafe to say the majority of heros are women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:10 PM
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Well if I’m wrong, please send links
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:03 PM
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Only the first year, when their post partum. Every year after that it’s men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:32 AM
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Doesn’t take a lot of strength to pull a trigger, snd yet there’s never been a female shooter
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:28 AM
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Oh look, you can use real facts. You just don’t like it when you can’t claim the perpetrators are not female
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:32 AM
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No, anything that’s fake or made up shouldn’t be used as fact. Their are male victims, of course their are, but it’s not close to female victims and they are usually victims of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:25 AM
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Because women protect on a daily basis, but if it’s not a hero throwing themselves in front of a bullet or a train, nobody cares https://thegritandgraceproject.org/purpose/this-is-why-women-are-great-defenders-of-the-helpless https://www.instagram.com/p/DTqJD5_DDWw/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:21 AM
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Your source is fake and your link is just rants. You need to stop spreading made up shite because you hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:15 AM
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I’m fairly sure I was asked to unblock users too after they’d been reported as it makes it harder to find them? I don’t block anymore snd haven’t had any issues since
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:08 PM
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Yehhhhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:15 PM
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I’m going to back the op up because I’ve noticed this too. But it’s also on subs on Reddit. Guys commenting about a women dressing respectful etc and being a good wife, yet these same guys have links to some of the most degrading porn acts (borderline CP) and discussing it including the “actor” and her body
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:48 PM
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Or if she wasn’t married
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:22 PM
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This explains why the majority of redpill men are single then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:38 PM
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I hire professionals to get something done that I don’t want to do. I don’t care what gender they are. That doesn’t change the fact that women shouldn’t be picking up after a lazy partner
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:54 AM
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Your title contradicts yourself, I shouldn’t have to pay a grown ass adult to clean up after themselves or pull their own weight
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:45 AM
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“What they bring to the table” That is not a healthy relationship, that is a give and take, transactional. The start snd the foundations of your relationship should be simply enjoying each other company, not what you can expect to exploit out of them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:14 AM
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Even the best welfare, the best maternity leave and child benefits doesn’t amount to a full time paid job. Children are just not worth the change and sacrifice to raise. Until more fathers and men start stepping up to show they can be partners and good parents, it’s not worth given up your independence and freedom
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:58 PM
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If you think relationships are transactional, you are not high quality, particularly for dating. Speaks volumes for the quality of young men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:40 PM
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That’s your algorithm then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:38 PM
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At most they are complaining about the quality of men, and I don’t really blame them, look at what young men are demanding from women these days
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:14 PM
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Women aren’t the ones complaining about dating or having a loneliness epidemic. Everyone can want what they want, there’s no rules that say if your only a 5, you can only go for men between 4-6. If you can’t get what you want you either improve yourself or you live content being single. Again, it’s not women complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:22 AM
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It’s fact dude, this isn’t personal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:46 AM
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Anything to avoid accountability for the guy right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:46 AM
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If your going to pretend the draft is something that actually affects you as a man, you can do your own leg work and read what actual countries are affected by this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:55 PM
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Again, if he is actively lying. How are you supposed to vet probably? You are entirely blaming the victim here. This is why we pick the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:53 PM
2

With that logic, every rapist is a winner
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:52 PM
3

But again, if he is actively lying , how are you supposed to magically know??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:03 PM
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It’s telling you need me to hand feed you, because you know I’m right and the draft is a lie cause fir men pretending to be victims
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:02 PM
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I only need to point out that world wide there are only 2 countries in the world were women are equal but men have the disadvantage of the draft. So trying to pretend this counts as most men is as ludicrous if I was to say the women in Afghanistan are a representative of all women. Snd who’s going to look after these children? Cause it certainly wasn’t the fathers. If women don’t go for stem we need to ensure it’s not because they are being discriminated against by personal bias, which unfortuna…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:33 PM
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And as I pointed out, these two were irrelevant since they are not real
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:30 PM
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Your longest relationship then, still doesn’t change my point, it’s creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:29 PM
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This is t bitterness, it’s encouragement. You guys keep complaining your going to leave, whelp, I’ve got the door open for you but you keep coming back
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:42 PM
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How are they supposed to bet fairly if the op admits to lying to them? How about instead of blaming women, you call out the assholes who do this kind of behaviour in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:40 PM
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I’ve said it 3 times already. Only 2 countries in the world have equalish rights between men and women but a male only draft. So that’s nonsense. Many countries still don’t allow women to work or earn the same level as men, if we’re going to cherry picking from certain countries how about we look at Afghanistan where women aren’t allowed to leave the house without a man. If a man was the primary carer, he’d be given full parent rights, men don’t like to admit we had to put laws in place because …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:39 PM
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Agreed, there are no extra rights fir women. So men can stop pretending their victims Sorted
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:32 PM
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How so? It makes sense. If your not having any luck then try something she’s. Just acknowledge if your only successful because you literally have more power over a women due to culture
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:31 PM
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I call it winning the debate since you can’t answer any of my points and now have adapted to personal insults
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:30 PM
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That’s called straw manning. You didn’t answer my original question which was what rights women have that men do not. You do not tell me what I will or will not choose. Given how they have treated enemies and prisoners in the past, being in the frontline is definitely an option. Again, what do you mean by draft technically speaking? Because the English dictionary says it’s either a draft piece of work or conscription
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:59 PM
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And you don’t think war affects women? They would also die on the battlefield but they’d also be burned alive in churches after being raped a few times. Not to mention spending the bulk of time protecting children, old people and the disabled, whist still being shot at. Given the choice of my country was attacked, I know what I’d prefer if I was given the choice (which women weren’t) What did you mean by “draft” then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:44 PM
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Again, only 2 countries in the world have equalish rights between men and women but a male only draft. They can also choose abortion if they want but they can’t take control of another persons body.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:41 PM
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There’s only 2 countries in the world where women have equalish rights to men but a male only draft. With your logic, if it not fair to say women need mens permissions to go outside since they do that in Afghanistan
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:19 PM
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Waiting for the guys here to get involved and tear the op a new one. They complain they can’t get any women yet this op happily admits to cheating on a wife not to mention every partner he’s had. And with his actions he puts off so many women from even trying dating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:40 AM
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If you have to lie to get anyone to do something for you or something with you, you are a manipulator and I certainly don’t have a high opinion of that. Particularly when you make it clear you don’t care about hurting or scaring the other person. You also admitted in another comment you cheated on your wife. This honestly feels creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:34 AM
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I ask this every time snd never get solid answers. What rights exactly do women have that men do not? The system is now designed so that men and women have the same equal opportunities, freedoms and choices as each other. That’s it. Women are over taking men in education I agree with you there, but there’s not a law or rule that’s stopping boys from doing the same thing. Men are still making more money than women but women are still doing more unpaid jobs and childcare. And as we can see when wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:52 AM
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Completely agree as a women Take yourself out a system that doesn’t suit you snd stop complaining. If you can’t make a relationship work when women have equal footing and the same freedoms as choices as you, you either need to go somewhere where women are disadvantaged so you have power over them or you pay for it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:42 AM
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And yet most child support isn’t paid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:01 AM
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The old incel sub on Reddit is a great example
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:31 AM
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Men can do whatever they want, their just responsibility for their own women, that they happily keep oppressed. They can’t have it both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:46 PM
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Did you know Muslim girls can’t work to provide for themselves? Men can feel victimised because they have to provide for their families but if they live in a world where women are literally not allowed to earn their own money, then they don’t have a leg to stand in here. Hate it all they want, they still enforce it and it still suits them a lot better than it suits women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:00 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:05 PM
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It’s horrible isn’t it. I lived briefly in the Middle East, my mum wasn’t allowed to go to the shops herself, she was regularly grouped and sexually assaulted because since she didn’t cover her hair, she was “fair game” and the police wouldn’t even talk to her without my dad. We even had to stay at the embassy because my dad was away for a few weeks and they wouldn’t renew my passport without a man’s signature. This kinda shit has never happened to men. There is no point in history where men nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:04 PM
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Unfortunately there seems to be more from manosphere groups ploughing into mens mental health and telling them if a women isn’t offering you her pussy hole the instant she meets you then she isn’t attracted to you. “True” desire can’t grow and women can’t control their female instincts when she’s actually attracted to a man. This was quoted to me by a guy here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:57 AM
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Actually the original incel group was founded by a women in the 90’s. She started it for awkward people like her could chat and try figure out what they were doing wrong but it was also a good way to meet other awkward people. It sadly got taken over during the 00’s by female hate groups that argued became women could “get” sex easier than men, they were no longer included and slowly started spreading more hate stories. The term incel became viral when Elliot Rodger was named “king of the incels…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:52 AM
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This is what young men need. And I agree it seems ludicrous when you have to spell out what’s obvious and get them to start communicating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:37 AM
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This is actually a very good point. Only in western countries can women even think about living alone and not dependent on a man. In still half the world there are laws that restrict womens basic rights but never mens. Almost definitely this is why women celebrate being able to live this way because they know how it is in other places of the world and they know from their own grandmothers etc it wasn’t that long ago it was in the west too. But fir guys, that’s nothing different to how men have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:35 AM
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Exactly, but it’s popular among men, so that man being seen as happily single is just lying to himself as far as most men are considered. A guy on this sub quoted one that men are always in competition with each other. So genuine help for an individual man is rare unless they’ll get something out of it. Even help groups for men is 90% of women volunteers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:27 AM
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I disagree, you are more likely to be forgivable when you can see the person as a human in real like scenarios. Height might be something you traditionally go for but they guy you met was such good fun snd company that you didn’t even notice he’s shorter than your usual type. I doesn’t change my opinion for men that rely solely on dating apps and blame their heights for not getting any matches. You are barely putting any effort into making a connection and your bitter that your height means you …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:22 AM
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You mean history?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:15 AM
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Because everything in the manosphere, mgtow, incels, redpilled etc are all about controlling/dating /getting a women and this is what men are going for. The difference between these groups and groups like 4b, is women cutting men out from their own personal life snd learning to live independently and in contentment with themselves. Mens groups are always about women and that’s why a lot of these self help groups for men end up getting closed down because they start hating women and start celebra…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:14 AM
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If this was about dating apps only then I might agree, especially the kind when you know nothing about the person other than the basic facts. But that’s telling of the quality of the person who makes no effort other than their basic facts and expects to get results from that. So, again, it’s no surprise they struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:07 AM
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Shitty guys with shitty personalities pretending their height is their problem does not it experience or realities
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:05 AM
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This, it’s always height isn’t it? The one thing they can’t change about themselves that always means their a victim. I do not believe any women has rejected a guy purely cause of his height. I 100% believe she dumped him because of a victim mindset snd main character syndrome but he’s now turned that round said “it’s cause I’m short right?” No dude, it’s cause your an arsehole. Lots of women agree they prefer their man to be taller then them, but when the average man is already taller than the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:47 AM
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Because I’m not, it’s not the same, I don’t understand why you guys aren’t getting that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:30 AM
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Ok. Another one fir you https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=IuCpD0mquWI&ra=m It does come across as negative because this is now the third source I’ve attached snd you still don’t seem content to except it , snd st the end if the day, does it really matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:07 PM
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But I don’t, I appreciate it, enjoy it, then go back to real life. How is that not obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:05 PM
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It doesn’t mean their lying either. Most people want to be millionaires and live in a mansion, doesn’t mean they want to give up their homes they spent years building
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:04 PM
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Ok, here’s another one fir you. https://www.quora.com/Why-are-ladies-more-interested-in-Loki-than-Thor But both me and the op agree, I don’t understand why guys get so upset over this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:31 PM
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Does it matter? Both myself and the op agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:30 PM
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Again, how do you know if you’ve never dated? Your making up stuff over things you’ve read online, that is not experience, at best thats “trust me bro”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:29 PM
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Ok https://gracelafferty.com/writing-personal-opinion-pieces/10-reasons-most-women-prefer-loki-over-thor/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:00 PM
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If you haven’t been in a relationship, you shouldn’t be commenting on them. No experience is no experience and trying to pretend it is is ludicrous. Any guy that have experienced relationships should be looking at himself snd what’s wrong with him, instead of blaming others by being a armchair detective
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:51 PM
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Someone with experience to someone with no experience but cherry picks stuff from the internet to back up hateful conspiracies against women. When your car has a problem, you take it to a car mechanic to help fix it, you don’t take it to someone who’s read about fixing cars on the internet do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:28 PM
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“Male” because there’s not a default look. They are all different
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:18 PM
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I do read them, and 70% of the time the covers are deliberately misleading in the best way. Most of them just have basic coverings so as not to spoil anything snd do you can read them in public
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:01 PM
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Is it a control thing for him though? That’s where the compatible thing comes into play, and it might be the fantasy is nice but in real like it’s awkward. It would be sensible for people to communicate of course but that doesn’t mean write each other off because of it Like 50 shades, lots of women read it because of the smut, and lots read it because they liked the powerful man completely falling for the average girl, the romance of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:59 AM
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Again, no you don’t, when you actually read the novel, you realise this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:51 AM
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The most ironic thing is, most of these book covers don’t have the characters on the front or even any pictures of them. Good authors keep physical descriptions to a few words about the male character because they want the reader to make their own interpretations
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:50 AM
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No, it’s the men themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:44 AM
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It’s awful , she’s only 27 and he was young, fit and healthy. He had been training for months and he completed the race but his heart just stopped snd they couldn’t get it to start again. I just can’t believe the family are doing this, and I agree this is one of the reasons you should get married when you buy property and assets together
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:43 AM
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Again though I don’t think that’s fair, lots of people read stories about the titanic sinking and still happily get on boats, or like the other guy said, they read 50 shades of grey but don’t like bdsm. Would you say the same for men that play shooting video games? They have a fantasy about murdering people in real life? Most of these things are for entertainment, they are not to be taken seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:40 AM
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No, it means only idiots base real life on fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:34 AM
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Because thor is designed for the male gaze, loki was fir the female gaze, but lots of men struggled to realise or believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:33 AM
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It shouldn’t be the default either. A fantasy is a fantasy, it’s not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:23 AM
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Cool story bro. I absolutely believe every word of it. But what I’m saying is actually true, there’s certainly something to think about https://gracelafferty.com/writing-personal-opinion-pieces/10-reasons-most-women-prefer-loki-over-thor/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:22 AM
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As someone who reads erotica I assure you, it’s it’s catered to different women just as porn is to men. And just like porn, they use the most stereotype versions in the mainstream. My point is, you don’t base a real life relationship on what a character you’ve read in a book or an actor you’ve seen on porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:12 AM
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My dude, I don’t write this to be cruel but you’ve kinda answered your own problem here. Generally hooks ups and fwb are one off things usually done during periods of stress and mental health problems. It wasn’t about you, you were just good enough snd in the right place at the right time. 5 years ago we were all still dealing with covid and we were all in a bit of a mess. This isn’t snd it never is meant to be an attack, I agree with the other guy that you seem to be reflecting a lot more which…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:01 AM
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I would call that shallow personally (let’s not go through that again) I don’t want to waste my time with a guy who doesn’t know what he wants from me and just wants to go on a date because I tick enough looks boxes for him. If I’m going to go on a date with a guy it’s because I know he likes me and wants to spend time with me and all going well we’re going to start a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:47 AM
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They get married in late 20’s after dating a few years. Come on dude that’s just straight up incel shite. People date to find someone their compatible with. The single dudes that focus on being masculine still end up single because their chasing approval from rapists like Andrew tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:44 AM
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Well a guy on Purplepilldebate debate for a start. Someone that always uses logic instead of emotions, someone that thinks dating is like a market and it’s just a numbers game he can’t win. All points to signs of someone highly autistic with no empathy for others and is generally awkward to be around
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:35 AM
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Kinda of, in the sense that some people prefer blondes. But again when guys have the attitude of anyone will do, it doesn’t make me think very highly of that person and how they treat others. It feels very transactional and selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:33 AM
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Right, I’m gonna be honest snd it’s not meant to be personal. But I would argue someone like this is not an average man but someone with a lot of obvious red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:25 AM
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No offence but this would be very offputting as a women. If anyone with a pulse and no obvious deformities is enough for you, your never going to really like the person for who they are, just a pretty face to add to your life instead of a partner you can build something with
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:21 AM
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Because they do, your average man and women are married or in ltr by the time their in their 30’s. You take a few years to realise what your compatible with and sifting through the undatables
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:16 AM
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And then when I go back outside and see all the average looking couples around me? Dude, erotica is fiction, same as porn. Adults are not basing their real life relationships based on twilight
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:12 AM
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Of course it would be, it’s brutal because people aren’t “settling” they only date people they want to date snd leaving the bad potential partners behind
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:05 AM
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Again though. Why do you believe that even some them do? That’s just putting your own agenda here and refusing to believe facts that don’t fit it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:04 AM
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Well it’s a no win situation for everyone then isn’t it? Except we’ll continue living happily with our partners whist you claim we’re lying snd no one will be happy unless their with a giant manly manly man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:41 AM
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We already do, but you never believe us, you claim we’re just lying about loving our average husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:28 AM
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How though? What men seem to think is the ultimate man certainly some women agree with but most women aren’t with a Henry cavill. The thor snd loki debate sums this up nicely, most men believe women will pick a guy like thor because he’s literally a very manly manly man, yet most women admit they prefer loki
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:25 AM
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My poor cousin is currently going through this. She lost her fiancé after he suddenly died of a heart attack at a running marathon. He was 28. They had bought a lovely house together and we’re supposed to get married in October this year but now his family are trying to force her through courts to sell the house so they can get 50% of the sale since they weren’t married before he passed. They argue this is what their due for his sake. Absolute scum bags because we all know he would have never ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:11 AM
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They always protect their own
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:31 PM
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Your actually right, because when a women married a man. Everything she owned now belonged to her husband. A prenup was invented so the woman’s family fortune was not lost to the marriage and if she had to divorce him she managed to keep her families assets
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:46 PM
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Exactly, but they think as long as it was agreed before the marriage date, it still counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:38 PM
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Of course you ask for a prenup, when you have assets to protect. But that’s rarely the case is it? Most of the time it’s guys wanting a prenup in order to reap the benefits of a marriage but ensure they gain everything incase she ever decides to leave . Regardless of what she brought to the marriage or how much unpaid labour she did
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:05 PM
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Monogamy is not supposed to be about the individual, it’s about society. Society creates couples to build reliable safe homes to raise kids together in. Men and women are supposed to pair up, reproduce and take care of their offspring and future leaders of the village. Human babies are literally the most vulnerable creatures on our planet and take years to grow before they are capable of looking after themselves, therefore it’s selfish when an individual that wants a family etc puts his own self…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:23 AM
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Most men don’t want virgin women because they don’t think of women as used goods in which the more sex she has the more spoiled she is. They see them as other people living their own lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:49 AM
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Sometimes I feel sorry for guys here when they complain their single snd no one gives them a chance. Then I read stuff like this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:46 AM
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I’m not saying their not. Again, I’m saying you are already in a notorious environment for young people getting together. Maybe there’s another reason your struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:12 AM
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No because otherwise you are just spreading hateful shit against women without any evidence to show you are correct
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:11 AM
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So now your changing your numbers again. But again, they can adapt work to do more childcare. That is not the fault of women or judges
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:10 AM
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This is a YouTube my friend. It’s not numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:24 PM
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Shock. You don’t link real sources
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:21 PM
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No I’m pointing out that your literally in an environment where loads of young people are regularly fucking each other and there’s loads of petty drama always going round. Except for the older ones doing it to raise their pensions, or the weirdos who can’t get on well either others. And no, respect is earned, not given. You should have a job, you are an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:18 PM
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If you can’t seriously make 2 clicks to back up your own shite, why do you expect the rest of us to do so? (Unless you know it’s fake/lying/shite) It’s supposed to be 50:50 but if one parent isn’t capable or willing then it’s not going to be us it? ThTs not bias against men, that’s pointing out how lots of men don’t step up. It’s 50/50 unless stated otherwise, which unfortunately is common Allegations are exactly enough to protect the child, and yes, lots of men falsely accuse the mother of misc…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:12 PM
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You’ve just linked the Reddit comments. That is not a source. Yes you need to prove abuse, bit not at the expense of the child. you don’t put a child in danger just incase their lying. If there is no abuse the situation will resolve quickly, but you don’t risk the safety of the child. You are reflecting now. 80mph is fine for that part of the road. But it’s subjective to the driver
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:51 PM
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(No offence meant to any severs here I have done it fir years myself ) But this the kinda job teenagers do, it’s not a job that’s meant to be taken seriously. Work relationships are great, their casual, quick and everybody moves in quickly from the latest drama. That is just an excuse in your part
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:47 PM
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Yeah, do you own leg work and link it for us all to see. Otherwise it’s just flat earth shite. They are upholding because it’s a case by case bases. Allegations are enough to protect the child and this is also not a gender issue either. Your source also came from parent groups, not just women, so that’s just you trying to start a witch-hunt
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:44 PM
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It’s not dehumanising, if you had a good character, somebody would stick. You think your a good person, well a lot of women don’t agree, and the fact you feel entitled to complain about it afterwards backs that up too. Out of these 41 women you persuade, what have they all got in common? And it’s not that your a lesser person, it’s that your casting a net expecting to get a catch if you do it all the right way That’s not how people snd dating work. Women don’t want to be treated like a fish. Res…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:27 PM
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Lol and did you see how the debate about the tree ended? Men were offended again because women told men to pick the tree. The bear vs man debate is a metaphor, sometimes being alone with a bear is safer than with a man. “I’ve heard” isn’t evidence I agree, but it’s backed up by the fact that women are still the primary parents and how little men actually step up to parent after a divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:19 PM
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Still no links between I see 50/50 is the default unless proven otherwise, subject fir the child is the best possible way, you do not prioritise the child’s safety because one parent might get offended. If there is abuse, there will be paperwork involved, not to mention the child itself gets a say on where it lives. 80mph isn’t subjective, it’s about the driver
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:16 PM
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You have provided a single source, again “I’ve heard” isn’t good enough, back up your own ridiculous claims before this can go any further
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:13 PM
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“I’ve heard” Isn’t evidence. Back up your own claims with actual evidence and not just “trust me bro”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:42 PM
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I’d love to actually see that thread because I remember it and didn’t see anybody criticise the op wanting to be a stay at home dad with 50/50 Let’s all remember the default everywhere is 50/50, judges for by what’s best for the child. Lots of men just don’t like to admit that children are hard work and a full time job, they want someone else to raise their kids for them but don’t want to pay for it either. Of the 5 couples I know that divorced after kids, only 1 stepped up to have his child 50/…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:37 PM
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When men leave their jobs, it’s usually the result of bad performance or addictions. When women leave their jobs it’s to raise kids or care for relatives. This the usuall victim mentality with no accountability, and yes people assume between a predator and a victim that the man is the predator because unfortunately it is fact that men do commit more crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:07 AM
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I’d love to actually see that thread because I remember it and didn’t see anybody criticise the op wanting to be a stay at home dad with 50/50 Let’s all remember the default everywhere is 50/50, judges for by what’s best for the child. Lots of men just don’t like to admit that children are hard work and a full time job, they want someone else to raise their kids for them but don’t want to pay for it either. Of the 5 couples I know that divorced after kids, only 1 stepped up to have his child 50/…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:00 AM
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I believe she was hot dude, but (and I don’t mean to offend you either) it’s literally her job to talk to people, especially men that come in alone. She knows those tips on the other tables aren’t going anywhere so she can spend a bit more time in you. That being said, she gave you her number, congratulations. That does cross the processional line. So take the win, don’t leave it too late, send her a message that you really enjoyed her company and wonder if she’d like to join you for a drink tom…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:25 PM
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How come your not allowed?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:13 PM
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I’ll never understand why these guys think about aborted foetus wouldn’t just be the same as every other person who avoids them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:13 PM
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Dude, she was working and you were a customer clearly happy to pay more. This has nothing to do with pills
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:11 PM
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Almost definitely this was a build up and a straw that broke the camels back. Sorry this happened to you dude, hope everything’s worked out ok now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:10 PM
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Yes… so am I. When you get rid of laws that oppress women, they don’t conform to traditional gender roles do they? Which strip fly suggests, this was never natural
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:09 PM
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Do people in the third world not date? And again no, it wouldn’t be a source about young men if it cherry picked where the data might come from. I would agree this is an attitude usually found in third world countries, but I’m not surprised it’s also in countries like the US. Women have been talking more about about the young men they encounter and this data matches up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:07 PM
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Yes I can and I did with my source. So no, it’s not because men are just more awkward, or not completely anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:02 PM
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That’s probably the jist of it, If men aren’t rewarded with a gf they act out like toddlers. They chain they’ll never be loved yet don’t do anything to make someone love them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:55 PM
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It also includes many first world counties, including the US
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:53 PM
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Exactly, women want partnerships where both partners work towards someone whereas a lot of men just want a gf for having sex with and don’t give a shit what she’s like as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:53 PM
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No, laws of the land meant women are literally dependent on the men around them and had to pick their partners based on income snd not for who they were
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:51 PM
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Historically, women didn’t have much choice in picking their partners so of course it was easier for men, even toxic ones. And no, more and more young men are becoming more toxic, violent and sexist. https://www.kcl.ac.uk/news/almost-a-third-of-gen-z-men-agree-a-wife-should-obey-her-husband Their lonely because they don’t want a partner, they want a bang maid, and their pissed off women aren’t going for it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:34 PM
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If it was natural then there would have been laws that oppressed women from jobs and money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:26 PM
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Trp is about male superiority over women. That’s why they push for gender roles as it gives women less power over her own life as a man will always be financially in control over her. They push for body count arguments because it shames women for having sex easily and not waiting until marriage which again means she needs to wait until a man offers commitment and it stops her viewing sex as something she should also enjoy. They believe men are natural leaders and women followers (again very conv…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:04 PM
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Nah, I think most men would rather not rape a women who’s only having sex with him due to a superpower. Most men would prefer a connection with their partners and know she’s choosing to be with him This is like that film obsession, she’s only with him because he wished it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:33 AM
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I would argue being overly selective is always better as your more likely to find someone your more compatible with. Of course these things don’t always work out, there’s no guarantee of anything but your more likely to be happier and more likely to want to make the relationship work. It also means you don’t stick with bad potential partners because your more content at being single. It also helps avoid the male brigades that come out to tell women they should have chosen better when she’s more …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:16 AM
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That’s hilarious, Ladies, don’t worry about actually liking the guy you’re with or vetting him, just pick a random guy and everything will be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:06 AM
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Men who hate women and believe in male superiority, they think women are evil
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:04 AM
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Because he can just pay for it or buy a blow up doll
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:46 AM
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You got your answer, there’s no ok in my continuing if your nothing but an incels view of women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:41 AM
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With children yes, I think we can all agree that children should never be in a war. and many millions also choose to stay and help too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:04 AM
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Because women love their country too, I would have thought that was obvious. I love my husband but if anything happens we’re both going to war together. This is my country
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:54 AM
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Movies that show the world from a women’s side
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:30 AM
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Dude you’ve just told us that your single. And you couldn’t make your longest relationship work. This isn’t personal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:23 PM
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Are you seriously comparing adult males to food? Their not. She is not responsible for others peoples actions against her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:51 PM
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To be fair, I’ve said it, I’m happy to admit that. But not against making the first move, it’s usually when Im doing something and my husband says “I should do his way” Whelp, now of course I won’t snd I will continue to do it my way until he disappears, then later when the kids ask why i didn’t just tell him that his way was better “im not giving him that satisfaction”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:29 PM
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That’s because he’s complaining about quality of women for him to pick from as opposed to previous partners
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:33 PM
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Except he doesn’t have hordes of women telling him “to choose better”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:02 PM
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And now your changing the situation so it’s her fault
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:01 PM
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Exactly, and that’s why it’s high. You’d be surprised at the amount of people that hate cats
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:01 PM
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And if you don’t have the resources to leave, which most don’t, then your not Like I said, easier to pick the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:58 AM
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Wow, you guys always try to find a way to blame the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:56 AM
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Your straw-manning now But I’ll bite, I love cats, always had one. But when I met my bf he is unfortunately allergic to them. However, he still likes cats, he still strokes them when they come up to him, he still speaks to them, he even fed my cat. He just takes a tablet and washes his hands throughly when he’s been around them. I haven’t dropped my standards for a guy liking cats because he does and he proved to me he was responsible enough not to own one and take sensible precautions when arou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:52 AM
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I disagree, people with low standards (and usually low send esteem) don’t care anything about the person other than they’re good looking. They don’t care about anything deep, their that shallow it’s a matter if anyone will do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:42 AM
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Exactly, but then they get angry when the placeholder has feelings too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:29 AM
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No, because the first thing your doing, is looking for a reason why his behaviour is her fault
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:21 AM
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And yet, most men can’t meet them. It’s not about loving pets, it’s about proving you are responsible to know if you can or can not look after another living creature
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:20 AM
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But again, if all you value is them being attractive, you’ll drop your compatibility. The standards each human has depends on the individual, but if you only low standards like looks then your saying you don’t really care if you and their person actually like each other or not
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:18 AM
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You need to remember your talking to people who’ve never been in relationships, and haven’t realised that couples dont just get together and stare at each other. I’d like to say it’s just naivety, but conversations with guys here are very much common that they don’t care anything about their potential gf, other than she’s thin and pretty. They dont give a shit what she’s like because they don’t see womens value as anything other than looks. She’s simply there for him to fuck and coddle when he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:15 AM
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But if you didn’t have high standards, you’d be able to drop all these because the person is attractive. Compatibility doesn’t matter if all you value is looks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:03 AM
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Someone who makes process towards having a family by 30, by ensuring they have a god job snd only date people with a similar mindset. Someone who loves pets and animals but understands the responsibilities that comes with them. They have a pet and show the work that does into looking after it Someone who realises politics are important and how you vote (or don’t) will show what you value Someone with a wicked sense of humour but will always apologise when gone to far I think these are a few good…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:01 AM
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And if their going to get blamed for the other person behaviour then it’s just easier to pick the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:53 AM
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And there it is, “you choose him” never any accountability for the bad partner’s behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:51 AM
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Not really, It’s the difference between “I’m glad you were able to leave your abusive partner” “You picked him, you should reap what you sow”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:56 AM
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That hatred of women will always be challenged
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:58 AM
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“All it takes for evil to succeed is for good people to do nothing” Nope I will continue to challenge incels and their spread of hate against women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:00 PM
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In other words, you can’t argument them Thanks for that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:00 PM
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You’ve taken my words out of context And not even a single argument against my points
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:58 PM
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Sure go fir it, we’re not stopping you, but don’t be surprised if your ltp doesn’t want to stay with you afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:50 PM
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Oh yes, she gets such control looking after all theses kids, knowing that she’s likely to be abandoned with them. If it was government mandate, she arguably couldn’t get upset with her husband, because it wasn’t him doing it, it wasn’t personal He a man is suspicious he is more than welcome to get a test, but if he’s only getting one because he doesn’t trust females, he’s likely destroying the foundation of his relationship and it’s unlikely to continue. This is nothing about hating men, please …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:49 PM
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I didn’t mention the US. 30% in couples that were already unsure. does that make sense now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:46 PM
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No it doesn’t, I’m fairly sure you understand how reproduction works yes? You need an egg and a sperm, therefore a man needed to be involved in the getting pregnant part. The carrying the foetus is on the women and whether she wants to put her body through that or not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:39 PM
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I’m not. Women are allowed to do what they want to their own bodies, the foetus has no rights till it’s born. Testing the dna of the kid once it’s born is a matter of trust between the couple, these are not remotely the same
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:34 PM
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Because men don’t get pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:32 PM
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No it was 30% in the only study that actually did this and it was with couples who were already unsure. Don’t lie
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:30 PM
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Cause it’s about control over women (always is) They could easily get one but then they’d have to face the real consequences of the wife then leaving him because she’s been hurt by his actions. They want it run by the government so the individual man doesn’t have to be responsible for his own actions but they also hope it’ll mean more women and kids are out starving on the streets because she cheated on a good guy Basically punishment for those slutty slutty sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:29 PM
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That’s a lie, half of parenting tests do not come back negative. The only study done showed that even in couples were unsure already about the father is was 30%
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:24 PM
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I would. The blatant lack of basic trust in me is enough to start the resentment, especially if was done so casually like this too. I’d move away, stay with family for a while and decide no, if the foundations of our relationship are that unsteady that he’s going to get a dna on his kids then we weren’t meant to be. If he had reason to dna like I’d cheated previously then fair enough, but testing his own kids because I’m a female and females can’t be trusted is not the mindset of a man I want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:22 PM
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You can’t literally have the same performance, it’s a quality of work, if a man got B then clearly the women did better than him at the test Your clearly making up stuff now, or bsck this up with actual education links that shows this Single women work more than men, hence why they are buying more houses So you also agree the decision was mostly made by a man? You are blaming feminists for your own shortcomings, you were given the sane opportunities but you’d rather pretend it’s caused women wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:15 AM
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A construction company in Eastern Europe? It was never going to have a lot of women working there in the first place was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:54 AM
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Performance is what these decisions are based upon, not gender, so we can scrap that “discrimination” So you also weren’t denied any opportunities or classes, the girls were given better grades because they studied harder and performed better. That is also not discrimination Girls wee offered more changes to study? Again this is based on performance, not gender. Women do more unpaid work, if men stopped dumping kids and care work on female relatives, they’d be able to work more paid jobs. You ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:51 AM
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And destructive toddlers, constantly finding new ways to destroy your home, hurt themselves and sabotage anything your trying to do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:57 AM
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So we can agree that you can never predict these things? You can vet, you can study, but that doesn’t mean the outcome is what you want especially after a few years. You can put yourself in the best possible situation but that doesn’t always mean things work out. This is unfortunately what happened to the couples I know, these men were never lazy, had decent jobs and looked like good husbands, but they just didn’t step up when kids arrived and left everything to the mum
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:55 AM
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Question, was this a company that employed women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:21 AM
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Question, do you feel you were discriminated against because you were male or because the other person was better? How were you discriminated against at school? Were you not allowed opportunities or forbidden from certain classes? You pay the same taxes as others in your age and wage bracket, those taxes are their fir people who need them including yourself. Yes women end up using more taxes because they are often abandoned with kids, by men. And going to need to see evidence your entire male wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:20 AM
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Yeah on paper they can look great, but that doesn’t tell you how they react in emergencies or stressful situations. And even their closest friends and families will say “yeah he’ll be a great dad” because they like him and believe he’s step up but it’s fairly common they don’t, or they think just being “present” is enough. It’s a very childish mindset that believes if you just vet enough, everything will work out, that’s not how life works.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:14 AM
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How the hell are you supposed to know if he’s gonna act like a child before you had kids? Before kids, you only had yourselves to clean up from snd you weren’t interrupted a million times while trying to do so. If you both took time to game or watch tv for hours, it didn’t matter, because no one was dependent on you doing something for them. I know 5 couples that broke up after kids and it was the same story, dads just not stepping up to the new life that is parenthood. He might do the dishes if…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:32 AM
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They are not victims if they are lying
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:22 AM
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They would risk it if they knew they weren’t lying, it happens to women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:01 AM
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They wouldn’t be scared if they know they’d be taken seriously, but if their lying that will come out too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:53 AM
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Erm, no. If you guys want women prosecuted for false accusations, then that goes both ways and this women is very much entitled to compensation. The greater good would be more rapists being locked up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:26 AM
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Now your just doing bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:48 AM
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You are reflecting domestic violence against successful women with child suicide, which is not what we’re talking about, that is you trying to steer the debate to your own agenda I get you don’t like the fact that lots of men are pos, and even when they are the primary parent, they go in to hurt their partners because you have a romantic idea about men, but facts are facts
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:43 AM
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No, you have a terrible rape problem https://www.statista.com/statistics/632493/reported-rape-cases-india/?srsltid=AfmBOorx7k1qDr6bahR4E7wl3EOFfXpQ-tyv_PM17cGtQCMvyR_Hz7cR
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:38 AM
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You linked a page with no details as to where it came from, from all we know, that was typed up in an incels computer
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:31 AM
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How convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:24 AM
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No dude just link your own evidence or stop spreading shit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:24 AM
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Which also doesn’t say men can’t be victims, I will also point out this is from India, a country with extremely high rates of rapes against women and children. I can understand the priorities are to stop the thousands of male rapists first
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:23 AM
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Looks fine to me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:18 AM
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Yeah that’s one page of clearly a bigger document, where’s the details of where it came from, what it’s in reference too, etc there’s not even any dates in it You can’t copy/paste Cherry picked data to pretend your a victim
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:17 AM
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But if women aren’t the ones with the problems or complaining, why would they change?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:13 AM
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Where’s the rest if the document?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:12 AM
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There you go again, trying to reflect the debate. The fact is, when a women does better than a man, he starts to physically hurt her, let’s call these men and these facts out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:09 AM
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It’s not women complaining is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:07 AM
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I’ve linked it in my other comments, and no, women don’t initiate more domestic violence
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:53 AM
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Then maybes it’s up to the man to change himself instead of blaming women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:46 AM
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Women wouldn’t need these shelters if men didn’t start beating them for being successful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:38 AM
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We’re not talking about single parents, we’re talking about the fact that when a women out earns her husband, her chances if him being violent towards her increases, don’t try to charge the subject because you don’t like it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:37 AM
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You clearly do if you have a problem with talking to women but not men. They act a certain way because a stranger is talking to them, why is that not obvious? Cold approaches are fine when done under the right circumstances and you pay attention to their body language
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:37 PM
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The dynamics of treating women different than you treat men are gross, Men and women are only different in the reproductive sense, that’s it. And the fact you highlight this is telling, and why you struggle. If their interest is the same as yours, thats what your commenting on, not the person. Most people are happy to talk about their passions, if your clearly making it about the person, they will pick up on that and won’t want to talk to you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:24 PM
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Maybe that’s something you need to work on, I do with everyone, it’s not about the other person, it’s about the t-shirt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:49 PM
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That’s the kinda mindset that even older chubbier women are going to regret
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:19 PM
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It’s fairly simple actually, you don’t view them as “women” but as people, you don’t view any interactions with them as having a purpose or goal. If you see someone with a Star Wars t-shirt, you simply say “hey nice t-shirt” and leave it, but if she wants to talk to you, she’ll happily tell you where she got it etc and that’s when you can upgrade the conversation to something like, “what’s your fav film” “what did you think of phantom?” It’s only impossible if your stuck on overthinking what wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:18 PM
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It’s really not, but then again, your just gonna ignore facts you don’t like anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:42 PM
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Your changing the goalposts, in a third world country, women wouldn’t be allowed to work, let alone outearn her husband
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:31 PM
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No the complaint is that when women start out earning her husband, he’s more likely to start beating her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:13 PM
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So you’ve got a problem with wording? As opposed to facts?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:05 PM
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What’s the point in even being here if anything you don’t like, your just going to ignore
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:50 PM
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No, because it still highlights the increase in domestic violence against women when they start out earning them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:48 PM
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That’s still very young to be married
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:27 AM
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Because the men start physically beating them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:09 AM
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That’s because when a wife starts out earning her husband, the rate of domestic abuse against rises to 35% https://www.smh.com.au/politics/federal/when-women-earn-more-than-their-male-partners-domestic-violence-risk-goes-up-35-per-cent-20210329-p57ewb.html It’s only a jealous thing because the man feels emasculated and starts beating his wife
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:23 AM
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Because men still make more money than women, but it’s rare for women to just quit altogether, most cut down hours or find flexible work
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:19 AM
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The person who makes the most money (or loves their job) should be the breadwinner, but the other person should try to do part time work too That’s what most families do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:17 AM
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Some men are just so bitter and so hateful of women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:15 AM
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Gens are teenagers, of course their single
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:27 AM
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The 80/20 numbers are from a dating app 12 years ago When I go outside, I see plenty of couples and families. The world is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:42 AM
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Wow, and you wonder why some women say “not single enough”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:21 PM
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I love your honesty, and I completely agree. I didn’t sleep for 4 years, I gave up everything and I just am pretty much everyone’s carer. The difference between my life and my partners after kids is enormous, I remember I hated him because he could just leave the room whenever he wanted and didn’t have to ensure everyone and everything would be ok if he stepped out for a few minutes, but if I did the same, somebody would get hurt or something destroyed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:51 PM
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I don’t need to tolerate anything thank you. Men need to learn how to behave
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:45 PM
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I would argue this is not fair, or a bad faith answer, if your a sahm then your partner must be working full time to support you 3. You want to convince us he works full time but still comes home to look after the baby so you can go out with your friends? Somethings not adding up here Motherhood is better when you have a supporting partner, I don’t disagree there. But the difference between only looking after yourself and another adult is so much different when a baby is involved. To just say “y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:43 PM
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You asked the question snd got an honest answer back, it’s bath fairy if your just here to shame her for something lots if women go through
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:37 PM
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He was exactly minimising threats “You shouldn’t feel threatened, because that’s how I met my gf and we turned out great” Ok! I guess all those million of other times where some got raped and murdered they were just being overdramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:28 PM
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Still don’t believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:26 PM
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Yeah sure, cause guys here are having so much luck already
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:26 PM
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Ladies, please remember this is the response from guys on this sub. You were never sexually harassed, you were just being “pestered” Not lonely enough quite right
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:25 PM
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I didn’t say anything about Brad Pitt, your looking for reasons to make this your own agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:24 PM
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Itis their fault, they started a horrible hate campaign against women, but it’s still the individual man’s responsibility if he chooses to stick his head up their arse or not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:58 PM
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Was I supposed to back into a corner and start crying? No dude, he had well past the point of just asking a few questions, when you start following someone round a building, you have an agenda This is again absolutely arrogance from guys here that even when presented with evidence, it’s not the guys fault or responsibility. If I started crying or got security, I’m a bitch who got an innocent man done for just being friendly, if I ran back to my car and locked it, I’m being dramatic, Can’t win, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:56 PM
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I wouldn’t agree with that either, arrogance has turned me off what I thought was an attractive guy. There’s a difference between being confident in yourself, and happy to exploit others as long as it suits you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:53 PM
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I blame the individual, take some personal responsibility for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:46 PM
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I already did explain how my shopping story, and no, I don’t think he was a respectable man, I was alone, 21 and he was clearly 10 years older than me and didn’t take my obvious hint that I was trying to shop alone. You and I also disagree what we think about average respectful men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:46 PM
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Right, walking someone out to their car and looking like they might jump on is “pestering” yes? The thing is, has this guy jumped in, pulled out a weapon and me, you’d all be saying it was my fault for not screaming blue murder when he first started following me in the shop
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:38 PM
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That just sounds like sheer arrogance to ignore womens concerns because you want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:36 PM
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If that worked for you, then great But that doesn’t dismiss what happened to me or what happens to lots of women What you’ve just done is minimal a common threat to lots of women by saying “well it worked for me”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:35 PM
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I disagree that arrogance means success, i personally find it disgusting. If it works for you then hey, but I doubt it works the majority of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:33 PM
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I’ve been cornered in a grocery store. The guy asked for help finding the bags to put individual fruit into, I pointed them out to him and said “have a good one” He ignored the bags and started following me, asking me what I was buying, how often I come etc I was polite but I was trying to make it clear I just finished work and just wanted to get my things n go, he wouldn’t take the hint and followed me round the whole ship including when I paid (he started talking at me about his life) and foll…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:27 PM
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Sorry op but I don’t believe in your 26 years of life, you never met another female
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:21 PM
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Of course the “where” you approach is important, some places we don’t want to be and we don’t want to talk and others it’s fine to make casual conversation, that’s a very arrogant mindset, people don’t owe you your time just because they left the house And incels do approach, their generally pretty rude and end up calling you slurs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:20 PM
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At social events, it’s ok to approach strangers and try make conversation, but if your going to force yourself into her time and demand her attention, of course she’s going to tell you she busy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:17 PM
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The problem is where are you approaching women and are you paying attention to the response? Approaching someone in the gym or whist shopping is rude, their busy. Approaching someone in a social setting like a bar or a social event is fine, but pay attention to her busy language, she might be interested but it’s likely she’s just being nice, especially if you are a stranger. And I disagree, respectful men still approach but their better at it snd more subtle than your standard incel who glares a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:04 PM
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You just said on your post that your no longer single, so it can’t just be the girls can it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:48 PM
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I would agree that if a man could prove he did everything possible to avoid an unwanted pregnancy, he has a vasectomy, he uses regular birth control that can be backed up with doctor’s records and he has written confirmation, texts emails etc from the women he’s seeing that they do not wish to have kids, then yes, he should be able to opt out if any financial ties to the women and the child But we all know that would be too much personal responsibility for a man to take, instead it’s easier to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:00 PM
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Wonderful, happy to meet a redpill man that’s the exception
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:04 AM
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Ok so you respect that some women choose the bear then even if you don’t agree with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:49 AM
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What a lovely mindset, at least your honest Although this does make sense why most redpill men are single
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:48 AM
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Exactly, good old misogyny, the only people you’ll take seriously is other men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:45 AM
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Exactly you try to manipulate them into doing what you want because you don’t respect their choices, but if they were men doing the same thing, you’d respect that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:44 AM
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I disagree, redpill doesn’t take women as people seriously or respects womens choices. They don’t see them as “the enemy” or even their adversaries, they see him as less than men and unable to look after themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:03 AM
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When you literally restrict women with laws about how they have to depend on men for money, of course they need a high status man, but again, hypergamy has been irrelevant since women finally started getting equal rights
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:33 AM
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Hypergamy has been irrelevant since Victorian times, now that women are in control of their own monies, they don’t need to marry to do so. Women and men are equal (at least in the west) this is why it’s about superiority over women, you guys don’t think women should have any pick of their own partners
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:00 AM
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Trp is about male superiority over women, every single redpillers including women all argue fir men to control women (they call it leading) because they believe women are incapable of looking after themselves When we all know it’s actually the other way round but keeping women dependent on men through law means an easier like fir most men Edit I seem to be having technical issues as I know someone’s trying to comment but it won’t let me see it or respond, but no grown adult should be led
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:32 AM
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I mean, If the shoe fits?.?.?.?.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:54 PM
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From my experience of men on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:50 PM
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Good fir you? But the argument of who’s a 6 snd who’s a 9 is a matter of opinion And women know, guys say shit like this all the time, but when presented they always go fir the hotter women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:32 PM
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No, I’m being realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:36 PM
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As long as she’s hot, fixed that for you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:36 PM
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No most men like confidence too, and the guys here are backing up that no response is no response, if she’s not actively getting back to you and meeting you half way (which requires confidence) then don’t bother I think I guys gave this romantic idea that they’ll pick any girl even the shy ones, but shy girls know this is shite, if she’s not hot she’s invisible, and if she’s not bubbly she’s a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:09 PM
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He would be seen as normal at least, depending on how well he can carry conversations will determine how much confidence people think he has
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:04 PM
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Not really, confidence has always been something everyone likes, not just romantically either. Somebody that can start a conversation with a stranger, speak their mind, stand up for themselves, all desirable traits and we all have variations of it with different people and different circumstances It’ll only be a disadvantage for men that never leave their bedrooms or talk to real women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:45 PM
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I notice you didn’t answer my question So either, she did pay for herself or she paid her part towards it, or (more likely) your lying because you like to make up stories about evil women Notice how I never mentioned money when I let guys down nicely, but you already have your own agenda so you’ll pretend it is to keep your own narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:40 PM
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Did she ever pay for meals/drinks etc? If not you completely were an idiot. She didn’t take advantage of your feelings, she took advantage of your stupidity. But most of the time when girls say this it’s so they don’t hurt your feelings, lord knows I’ve done it loads of time. It’s not taking advantage of because you genuinely don’t want to hurt them, but they either ignore what you say and keep hanging about, or they hope you’ll change your mind. Either way, they don’t respect what you tell them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:25 PM
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I don’t doubt there are some women that do this, but honestly what’s the benefits of stringing along somebody you don’t really like? It’s awkward at best
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:19 PM
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Is it taking advantage though if she believes he’s her friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:56 PM
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But that’s not her taking advantage of him, that’s him ignoring what she’s telling him because he has his own agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:53 PM
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I’ve heard a line for a poem recently that seems to fit a lot of guys narrative about women “You wanted a women, You got a soul And you were disappointed”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:41 PM
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No I would argue that’s either a really selfish creep who’s ignoring her blatant “go away” and hoping if he grates her down enough he’ll get sex eventually, or a really really pathetic guy that hopes of he follows her around, she’ll change her mind Either way, not a healthy adult
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:39 PM
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Majority of women here are in king term relationships Why wouldn’t be posting here? We like to debate, all it rages for evil to succeed is for good people to do nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:55 PM
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Not quite yet, fun hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:38 PM
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Lol same with me too, but my work is only part time so I get a few days off here n there which I like to clean the house and wind up incels
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:34 PM
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It does, I know using as hominem is in poor taste in a proper debate, that’s why I used it under the auto bod, the place used exactly for them I would have thought that was obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:25 PM
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Ok? Each to their own but that doesn’t mean that when people get into relationships they stop using social media
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:31 AM
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That’s why I did it under the auto bod
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:28 AM
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I’m not dude I’m married I like talking shit on Reddit and poking holes in incels arguments while the kids are at school
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:28 AM
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Ok, don’t believe me, but the majority are. And yes, lots of people are on social media throughout the day, it’s a good way to stay up to date with friends and share funny stories
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:18 AM
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I disagree, that’s why lots of guys here like to bite back, they know the majority of women in this sub are in happy ltr and they hate it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:53 AM
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Yeah I wasn’t worried dude
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:29 AM
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If you can’t answer my points and instead call it “derailing” then you have shown you are either not a good debater and this is just a rant to spread your shite about women, or you’ve lost. Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:28 AM
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I didn’t mean you personally, I mean if a guy struggles to even get 1 women, he’s going to really struggle to get hordes after him
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:17 AM
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I like to debate, and this sub in particular keeps me ahead of incel and redpill arguments, but I’m not the one blaming an entire gender because I can’t get a date
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:15 AM
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Yeah good luck with that, but if your struggling to even get one women to begin with, it’s can’t see it working out well for you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:14 AM
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If “socially” you are not doing well, is it not better to try something else instead of blaming everyone else, or is that too much effort for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:13 AM
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But if your not having any success then maybe dating apps aren’t for you? Maybe instead if blaming women you could try meet them the old fashioned way?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:53 AM
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A bunch of loser men are going to opt out of dating and leave women alone? Oh no!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:51 AM
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Come on now, he wants women to be begging men like him to keep dating and promise they’ll give him lots of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:50 AM
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Women are not as shallow as men or objectify everyone around them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:46 AM
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My experiences with men in dating apps have not been great, full of cheap men looking for cheap quick results, I’m not looking fir vast amounts of men I can fuck asap, I’m looking for someone decent, and I’m not going to find him on a dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:07 AM
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Yeah there’s definitely an element of this, men want to force women to always do 50/50, which most women are happy to do, but it won’t make you stand out from other men. but a man that wants to treat a women in an attempt to woo her is usually attacked by other men because they hate the though of doing anything nice to women and don’t think women should ever get special treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:28 AM
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Women making their own money doesn’t make men poorer, bills are mostly spilt and most women are happy to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:25 AM
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Nope it actually is majority from other men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:19 AM
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Men paying was only the norm because women couldn’t control their own monies. If a man took her out he had to pay for it as she literally had none of her own money because it was all Owned by her father
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:19 AM
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I didn’t push anything, I’m pointing out most women are happy to split the bill, (although I will add it’s stupid to go out for a meal with someone you barely know) again, your looking for reasons to complain, we all know most guys here haven’t been forced to pay 100% for a 3 course fine dining experience with someone they just met, most guys here have never been in a date, yet they bitterly complain about taking a women out for a coffee
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:03 AM
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Why can’t you guys ever take accountability? The op literally listed sources that most women are happy to go 50/50 and even redpill women who seek traditional relationships are happy to go 50/50 at the start. Your looking for reasons to complain
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:58 AM
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If Jenny was a boy, there would be no chance he’s let the new kid with clear learning difficulties sit next to him on the bus. And as a child of incest rape, yeah unfortunately men and women go off the rails in different ways, if they weren’t looking for new ways to hurt themselves, they end up hurting those around them. It’s likely they would have avoided each other. If forest was a girl, she wouldn’t have been allowed to join football which set up his life and career. She wouldn’t been allowed…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:06 AM
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It’s not excuses, she doesn’t want to have sex, you shouldn’t be using that as a weapon, that’s a form of rape
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:46 PM
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No that’s punishment, deliberately designed to shame her for all the times she wasn’t up for it. Snd yes, that’s probably what would have happened because that’s generally what happens in ltr sometimes, he doesn’t need to document it to hurt her. If he doesn’t like the lack of sex, he can neither do better as a partner, or move on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:19 PM
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I would too, it’s a lack of care or support to your partner. It’s one thing to joke about these things together but if this is actually have you refer to each other, it’s horrible. And it implies when they are no longer useful for their said duty, you’ll drop them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:03 PM
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That’s why you have an abortion before it’s born, it doesn’t have any rights until it’s born
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:36 PM
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You keep saying “structurally” disadvantage, but you don’t explain how, there is nothing stopping h you from dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:59 PM
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That’s not what I asked How do you feel you are being discriminated against?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:56 PM
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It’s not, you want empathy? But you don’t want to give it, and if you don’t get what you want your going to lash out I notice your avoiding every question that actually asks you how you are discriminated against
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:58 AM
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Again, how are you being discriminated against? Are you restricted from using dating apps or going to socialise with people? There is no structure that’s stopping you from doing any of this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:46 AM
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Voting for parties that that actively say they’ll start looking at woman’s rights with politicians that outwardly say they think women should be restricted
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:44 AM
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That’s what you mean though? I’ve had this conversations with guys here all the time, “We’re just lonely guys that just want some empathy and for people to realise we’re in pain from the laws of society, but at the same time, we can’t be blamed for lashing out either violently or threw politics against people (women) because we weren’t picked and we didn’t get empathy”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:58 AM
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You want to be coddled by people you actively say you’ll happily vote away their basic human rights if they don’t date you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:35 AM
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Feminism just means women don’t need to be stuck with shitty men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:25 AM
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When it’s almost everyone you meet there a common denominator here then isn’t there? Take some personal responsibility and look at yourself, what makes you a good partner and why someone want you as a partner? Pity parties are not attractive Edit to your edit, yes of course people should vet in what’s important to them and yes if you believe in hateful bs then your going to be judged for that, that’s not discriminatory, that’s women choosing better
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:14 AM
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Politics are important to a lot of people and this is to show your partner has similar values to you to get compatibility. I don’t understand why guys say women shouldn’t vet like this but then tell her she should have chosen better You can’t have it both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:12 AM
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It’s never the man’s fault is it? Realistically, we know she’s unlikely to be dating 40 of the exact same guy, it’s likely 4-5 different men, but you’ll still always blame her fir the relationship ending
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:09 AM
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I have to ask, what inequalities are you actually talking about? You can date whoever you want, the only rule being they have to want to date you too. That’s literally it. I am exhausted by entitled men complaining because they don’t have hordes of horny women throwing themselves at him. Yes, relationships and families are a privilege that you work for, they are not a basic need
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:06 AM
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Called out? She needs data to be punished fir refusing him?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:20 AM
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This reminds me of the guy who made a spreadsheet for every time and reason why his wife wouldn’t have sex with him over a year 🤢🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:01 PM
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No, it’s because they say they are bi, but they just have not accepted they are actually just gay and are standing to experiment I know 3 guys that went through this, I had a relationship with 1 of them but it was clear I wasn’t what he wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:59 PM
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An average if 1 out of 3 young men believe women should be obeying their husbands. That tells us a lot about how entitled and selfish young men are
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:15 AM
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Someone ranting because they don’t like facts against men does not mean it isn’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:41 PM
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It also includes western countries like the US. That’s telling
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:40 PM
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Yes they do, they have access to weapons, poisons etc they can easily hurt men if they choose to do so, but they don’t. And no, intimate partner violence is still 90% men over women or prove me otherwise with links
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:40 PM
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I have said nothing but facts, not sexism, it’s telling when men try to paint that view because they don’t like negative facts that don’t paint them in a good light. Women are less violent. That is a fact. They have the capability, they have the opportunity, they have the motive, and yet it’s only a tiny minority that actually do any violence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:59 PM
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I seen 6 women had acids thrown in their face today. Theirs female murderers I don’t deny that, but those are also personal and in an individual level (not excusing it) bit still nothing compared to the way men murder innocents
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:30 PM
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Yeah there’s always individual cases (and more so with men too) But there’s never been a big case of a women seeking revenge by hurting lots of innocent people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:29 PM
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1/3 is still a lot of young men At that point, it’s up to the individual man to show he’s different
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:25 PM
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And yet, there’s never been a female shootER, wanting to punish men for not fucking her, or women throwing acid in mens faces, or women injecting random men at festivals with needles
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:14 PM
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With facts like this https://www.kcl.ac.uk/news/almost-a-third-of-gen-z-men-agree-a-wife-should-obey-her-husband
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:08 PM
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Is this the Indian janitor guy again?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:57 PM
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No thank you, I think of sex as love making and wish to keep it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:19 PM
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No, that’s the wealthy women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:23 PM
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Let’s be honest, they want to be the leaders because they want to be in charge, but they don’t want to do any work. They want someone to raise their kids, pay half the bills and keep the home tidy but they want them to come ask permission to buy a $3 coffee or go out with friends
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:23 PM
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Nobody but men is pushing for the traditional relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:35 PM
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But women don’t want to do these roles anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:28 PM
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Well the argument from trp, is that women are supposed to be the followers, be friendly, agreeable, light and ready to welcome the men home, meet his hard man attitude with a feminine nature. It’s very hard to be feminine, sweet and light when your cleaning up after everyone and fighting off kids. But if he’s doing 80% of chores then she’s got more time to pamper and make herself pretty. Can’t have it both ways guys
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:02 AM
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Gonna need some links to actually probe this refers just to women because most of these countries are about men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:22 PM
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I would really love to know where any culture celebrates girls getting their period. I can’t think of any that do but I can think of many that see it as an act of shame
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:18 PM
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I know, we’ve been together almost 20 years Those are the standards I had whilst single and it suited me fine. That being said, of course ltr are work, but this notion that women will only be happy being someone’s wife and mother needs to die. There are many times I am very jealous of single cat ladies, mainly because they are not everyone’s carer and can put themselves first, that’s not something I can often do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:11 AM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:02 AM
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Spoken truly like an incel There’s a reason why more n more women are content being single
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:01 AM
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No I say that as a married women with a husband and kids, Being alone with cats in a tidy organised house with an unspoiled garden sounds like fucking bliss You guys have a romantic idea of what life as a wife and mother is actually like
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:18 AM
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Don’t threaten me with a good time, sounds like fucking bliss Pass the wine, get the books out and cuddle up with a cat
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:09 AM
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The incel sub was removed due to the glorification of violence and rape
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:03 AM
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She wasn’t a lesbian at the time, she only realised she was gay later in life. But thanks for confirming my point, women can be so lonely too they start self help groups to help themselves. Guys just go on shooting sprees
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:02 AM
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Why should they? If their content being single until the meet Prince Charming, so what? It’s your choice whether you want to improve yourself enough to become Prince Charming, or make peace with who you are
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:01 AM
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And these are the excuses they will use too And even better, when he does end up using me for sex or as a bang maid or doesn’t work or clean up after himself, guys will say it’s my fault for not vetting probably. It’s called learning dude, I’m the kinda person who only dates for a ltr, so I’m looking out for red flags like this early on so I’m not wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:59 AM
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Don’t you think that that’s exactly what women want in a partner too?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:51 AM
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It might interest you to know that the original incel group was founded by a women. Of course women can be just as lonely as men, being used fir sex by someone who doesn’t particularly like or care fir you has the same appeal to a man who pays for a prostitute or a gf experience. It’s fake, it’s not exactly enjoyable and it’s still lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:47 AM
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Yes this. It’s clear these questions are not done in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:08 PM
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No, it’s called lying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:50 PM
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they don’t believe they are lying or that they are pos, they argue they do want a serious relationship they just don’t when or with whom, but they know they want sex and a gf experience right now so anyone will do and they’ll deal with the outcomes later
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:47 PM
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Because they have your way of thinking that it’s all about looks, and they believe they are just your normal average guy who wants a relationship. But like anything, it always depends on the situation. We could agree we want the same things snd start dating, once they have the safety net of feelings for each other, they don’t expect you to drop it because they’ve stopped cleaning or because he’s started gaming more
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:36 PM
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Nobody is saying some women aren’t lonely, the original incel group was founded by a women But you all have a romantic idea about average lonely single men, if it was simple as picking a man up while your doing your shopping, we wouldn’t have any problems. But a lot if these men are horrible. He just wants sex - not for me He doesn’t want to work -not compatible He’s addicted to gaming - not for me He wants to see other women - I’m one women kinda person He believes in trp - absolutely not He wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:16 PM
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There is some, but the majority of rape against men, is from other men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:34 AM
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Yup. She’d be a total “pick me” until one of them sexually assaults her and the rest blame her for it too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:59 PM
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I do think there are a lot of incels, particularly among younger men. And these are certainly not average men. Misogyny is more common than we’d like to think, but it’s not as simple as men hating women, it’s simply that a lot of people believe women to be somehow incapable of making decisions or looking after themselves. Women included. I’ve recently had a debate with a guy who believed he wasn’t sexist because he didn’t outwardly “hate” women, but he later admitted he did agree that women shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:58 PM
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I think Erica would get an absolute shock about how being treated like a women actually is in some places and realise the no, women are certainly not on easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:47 PM
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Any proof of what your on about? Or do you just want to believe it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:44 PM
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I wouldn’t call it magic, they’ll be in the same groups already, probably same churches and have the same algorithms together too. Makes sense. Most misogynistic men are single, hence the incels
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:30 PM
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Whist I hate to admit it, there are also misogynistic women out there who also preach that women shouldn’t have rights (irony I know) Look the Wilson’s, their both misogynistic assholes that can’t practice what they preach but together their happy in their hatred of women So the majority of women do avoid these men, but there’s always someone (usually with mental health problems) that puts up with it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:21 PM
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It’s not common in normal adult conversations, but in redpill incel as manosphere places it is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:55 PM
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You are not wrong, and yes this is how most adults think and act. But I will back up op because I have seen this more than once from guys here. My interpretation is, men have to work (although we all have to work) and they build up their careers usually getting to their 50’s when their still arguably “young” but they’ve now got money, status, influence and “power” All women have to offer a relationship is her youth and beauty, so she peaks at 18/19. So. In a “fair” (autistic incel) world, this i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:15 PM
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Well that’s what most women are talking about Like I said, nobody cares when it’s just 2 adults and the house isn’t gleaming, it’s when only 1 person is keeping the house liveable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:29 PM
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Why do Americans always make everything about themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:32 PM
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Exactly, really showing how much of a good guy they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:43 PM
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Again, if he got redpilled we would have divorced instantly. Let’s not pretend redpill men are the partner type husbands here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:25 PM
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That doesn’t sound healthy either He got therapy for a few issues which helped his way of looking at the world and our relationship dynamic changed a lot. Had he got redpilled we would have divorced instantly, he needed to better at getting involved rather than trying to be traditional which is what started hurting us
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:03 PM
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I know, it did work for me. Been married 12 years to a guy whom when I met, (although roughly knew him already) by pretending to be from a very popular girls film making me and all my friends laugh and then asked if he could tag along with us, he was awkward but it was sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:57 AM
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I almost left my husband when our daughter was 5 months old because he wasn’t just unhelpful but he’d make stupid comments and didn’t understand that he needed to take over sometimes. He got therapy and he did get better, when our second baby got here if was so different and it was wonderful. I hope yours got better too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:52 AM
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That’s called excuses, these are adult men capable of making their own decisions, not cars. Gold then accountable for their own actions Snd no, there plenty of none racist sexist scumbags that believe women are humans and deserve equal rights
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:32 AM
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It is misogyny mate, it’s not about hate, it’s about believing males are superior to females. Women are only here for men to use etc and you’ve highlighted it against by claiming a women not wanting to have sex with a man is somehow a threat to him And what exactly is the trade here? Why can’t women just live their lives alone? Why is that a threat to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:29 AM
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This, I almost punched by Bil in the face after they brought their baby home after a c-section and he expected her to bring the baby and all their bags out the car Then complained later that he’d have to go get the shopping in because she still wasn’t allowed to drive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:25 AM
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Please link the science to prove this before any of us can take this post seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:23 AM
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Yeah in which case they are highlighting that they are just racist sexist scumbags
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:22 AM
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Why? If they want to hurt people because they can’t use them, they’ll end up in jail
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:18 AM
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They threaten men with no sex and leaving then alone? Are you serious? Are women just supposed to be here for men to allow them to live so men can rape them? (Thanks for the blatant misogyny here btw. Guys deny it all the time but your quite happy to admit this is how they wish it was)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:18 AM
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Yes, people are different and not everyone likes awkwardness and even in a social setting of the guy is acting like a weirdo it’s not going to work for him is it? You need to learn to read the room and social ques I had a guy I thought was just socially awkward but kinda cute so thought we could have a drink together and see how it goes. About 20 seconds in he starts telling me he sometimes gets the red mist and he doesn’t remember what happened snd one time he hurt someone. Ok, that’s enough to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:15 AM
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Being loved probably would help these men, but at what cost? If your having to take away someone’s basic rights to force them to be dependent on you, you are essentially a kidnapper. We need to stop pretending these men “in pain” Are all decent men who haven’t been given a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:11 AM
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No one’s saying we don’t care about mens problems, if you look at mens mental health and suicide charities, they are run by female volunteers. The movember moment is run by women. The only “problems” I see is men complaining they can’t rape women and then claim they want empathy for it “or they’ll threaten your basic human rights” -quality guys right there
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:09 AM
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Women aren’t threatening mens basic human rights because they can’t control them, so no, women are not the selfish ones here And no, it’s not a negotiation, women don’t want anything from men, they want to live their own lives without being discriminated against Men want sex and relationships? So do women, and that’s what we have now, you can date and fuck who you want with the only rule being they have to want to date and fuck your too, that’s it, and that’s why men are threatening womens right…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:06 AM
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I’m after a relationship with someone I can have s family with and grow old with, I want that person to be kind yes. Kindness is shown through actions not words, and it’s something that will be reflected in his personality as we get to know each other. If he’s interrupting me as a stranger when I’m clearly busy then he’s already showing me he’s not kind but selfish, he thinks it’s ok to distract me without any other reason than he wants to talk to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:02 AM
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This is where I think we can’t take these men seriously. You assume a man alone is in pain, only having a romantic partner will solve all his problems. There is never any reflection about why this man is alone and why it’s women who are supposed to live their lives to accommodate themselves men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:52 AM
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You know their are lots of places already like that? And their usually run by female volunteers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:47 AM
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Because It shows the outright audacity and selfishness of modern men. Women expected to solve mens problems or men will use scrap whatever they have to take away woman’s basic human rights. And then when you ask about mens problems it always comes back to men not being able to rape women You keep telling us your good guys and then you say stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:46 AM
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Because it depends where we are and how we know each other already
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:42 AM
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I mean if we’re in a social setting and he’s trying to make conversation and he’s fumbling around a bit I don’t mind, it’s quirky. But if he’s a complete stranger and I’m clearly trying to do something and he’s asking me outright stupid questions just to keep my attention it’s awkwardness to the point it’s rude
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:41 AM
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We don’t mind awkwardness when it’s clear the guy is only trying to be nice. Unfortunately that’s not often the case
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:19 AM
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Because …….. no sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:03 AM
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Hypergamy has been irrelevant since Victorian times. When you go outside and see people, there are mixed groups of couples n family’s everywhere. This redpill “idea” is clearly from sub men off the internet that want to raise hatred against women by pretending “hypergamy” is actually happening, poor men etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:13 AM
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You know in business deals when one partner wants a long term partnership, they want to “gift” the other person more to get the deal because they know long term it’s worth it? Relationships are kind like that for men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:16 PM
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Except women are financially doing more doing 50/50 but men aren’t doing the same in regards to unpaid domestic work and childcare
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:58 PM
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Well seriously, that is amazing and you have a great positive attitude which helps so much and you are absolutely right that girls live a goofball. Not often I agree with guys here but I definitely do here. I wish you well
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:43 PM
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Firstly, that’s amazing you did that. At the same time, that’s what we all should be doing. I appreciate it’s harder for others, especially when autism is involved and yes it seems to be a main factor. But lots of guys seem to use this as an excuse to be bitter and hateful towards women instead of doing what you did. I think there’s an element of intelligence involved here. Those that learn to adapt will thrive, those than don’t, won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:45 PM
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Then do as women do, and take some personal responsibility for yourself. Don’t date someone who expects a 3 course dinner, honestly, it’s not hard
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:32 PM
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What’s divorce got to do with looking after your own kid? The courts favour the kid, and the primary parent who looks after them. Of the only 7% of fathers that go for joint or full custody, 70% are awarded it. If men actually parented their own kid, they would be the ones staying in the family home and probably wouldn’t be getting divorced in the first place. Boohoo a man is supposed to prioritise his kids over himself, that’s called being a parent. It’s telling that men expect everyone includi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:30 PM
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But bitching about womens basic human rights is not going to help them. I used to have a ton of sympathy for anyone that struggled to date but after hearing some stuff from the manosphere, the sympathy is long gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:22 PM
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I wasn’t making this personal dude. I know most guys don’t have this problem at all. You can’t deny there are some men on this very sub that are outright furious about women having any sort of control over their own lives and expected to put any kind of effort to get a girl to life you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:48 PM
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It’s hard for guys who never talk to women and just endlessly bitch in the internet about how a women has never come to his mums basement and offered to take him out for a 3 course dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:38 PM
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I feel like this post could easily be solved by watching “the break up” Both partners work, she comes home, cleans the house and gets a big dinner ready for a dinner party with friends. He was asked to do 1 thing and fucked it up. Before friends arrive she asks him to help which he ignores because he needs to relax. The friends arrive, they all eat have s nice time, but once the friends leaves, he again abandons her to play video games leaving her to clean the kitchen/dishes. They fight because …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:17 PM
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More fathers abandon their kids than mothers. So yes, to much responsibility for them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:09 PM
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This exactly, and that’s why resentment builds. “I’ll do the dishes later” is fine when it’s just 2 adults that can take care of themselves and nobody cares if the kitchen is a mess. But at 2am when you need clean bottles ready for a night feed you need to ensure there’s bottles ready and when it’s only 1 person doing the childcare this is not fair to dump even more stress and work on the person that’s doing a major part of parenting because you can’t be bothered doing some dishes. If you want y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:05 PM
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How are men protecting women? They are literally the biggest threat to them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:11 PM
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Well apparently not, when given the choice to live in a feminist world where they don’t have to obey, the majority choose not too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:21 PM
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No I didn’t. The main difference now is women can choose their husbands and have the freedom to leave if the relationship doesn’t suit then any longer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:47 PM
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Redpill is about male superiority over women, so yes this is the kind of relationship they want. That’s why they hate anything that gives women control over their own lives because they think a man should always be in charge of her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:46 PM
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Yes, because she gets to choose him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:41 PM
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Women “I’m going to date guys, watch out for red flags and hopefully find someone I’m compatible with Men “you hoe” Women “ok, I’ll do as my grandmother did and marry the first guy that asks me out, hopefully he won’t beat me or cheat on me” Men “if he does it’s your fault for not vetting him probably” Seriously can not win, no wonder women pick the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:39 PM
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So you just want to lord over this person and have them take care of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:35 PM
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Yup, and we always wear them abroad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:52 AM
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The tartan army has arrived
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:21 AM
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I don’t mean this to sound offensive but I’m guessing your single right? There’s this romantic notion that you never want to spend a minute apart, but in reality you both enjoy doing separate things away from each other every now n then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:36 PM
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Loved ones definitely help, but when your “on” all day, it’s normal to crave a bit of peace
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:23 PM
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When you’ve been at a demanding job all day, you come home and now have to start the second shift of dealing with kids, housework etc you do want to spend some quality time with your partner but you also want a few hours of nobody talking to you, not having to think of others snd just do your own thing for a bit without interruption. Between jobs snd family, your time is limited and sometimes you want that time for yourself. There’s not much more to it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:47 PM
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Why would anyone marry a safety net?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:29 PM
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What matters? She choose her husband that says everything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:21 PM
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But it has happened to lots of men and lots of women are telling you they’ve done it too. Your choosing to ignore them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:04 PM
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What does it matter? She choose her husband
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:03 PM
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Why? That doesn’t change redpill view on women, if it’s just about getting sex from women, their not men most people want anything to do with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:02 PM
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That’s great, but that’s why I’m asking you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:01 PM
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I’m asking you why so many women are married to decent guys that are loyal etc if they also didn’t find him attractive in some way too?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:39 AM
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If your going to assume everyone’s lying because it hasn’t happened to you, that’s telling more if your Own personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:35 AM
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Nothing you’ve said changed what I wrote. These men are not as good as they think they are
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:34 AM
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Then why would so many women be married if they didn’t find their partners loyal etc and attractive? Or do you just never believe women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:33 AM
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Most women do. You are quoting figures from a dating app 11 years ago. There’s a reason why we all keep telling you to go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:07 AM
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No, they are not nice people, and the blame it on being sexually undesirable or socially awkward. Or the my start claiming “well women date bad boys!” Yeah those are not nice traits, they don’t take personal responsibility, have main character syndrome and everything is always someone else’s fault
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:06 AM
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“High quality” yeah there’s the phase the manosphere uses all the time. A high quality man, is not a guy that sleeps around, women don’t want to date sluts with 3 baby mammas either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:04 AM
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But the majority of people are married, doesn’t this then mean that the majority of women prefer these beliefs then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:03 AM
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Sometimes they do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:01 AM
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If you have a horrible view of lots of people, your not really a good person are you? And others are t going to want to be around you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:56 AM
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Yeah that’s a person who can’t maintain a relationship and will always be perpetually single
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:54 AM
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It depends on the people and how things change with lifestyle, children for example
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:54 AM
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And again, it’s delusional, if you think someone that wants commitment is going for someone that’s sleeps around, you are being delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:53 AM
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Not really. People aren’t products, they grow and change and adapt. You can’t presume the future
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:37 AM
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“He mostly dates” That is a person who is perpetually single because they don’t have maturity to maintain an adult relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:37 AM
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You’ve just said he’s single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:25 AM
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No that’s called being unsuccessful. Thinking everything will work out well in the future is delusional. If your not actively working towards what you want, it’s childish to believe it’s going to magically work out for you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:25 AM
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Yes, they have a horrible view of women. Ironically they think their nice guys, just not sexually attractive to most women. the reality is, their horrible men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:23 AM
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No. You misunderstood, these men you believe are nice guys, are usually not. There’s a reason why nobody dates them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:21 AM
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He can’t be that successful if he’s still single though can he? It’s one thing to say I’ll settle when I’m ready, we all know nobody wants to settle for someone like him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:40 AM
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Nah, those guys aren’t as good as you want to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:39 AM
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This really shows a horrible view of women from redpill men. What about couples in long term relationships, married etc, how do you think they managed to make it work all those years?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:37 AM
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I was hoping someone would have the link. It doesn’t matter what women wear, men still rape women wearing full burkas to nappies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:14 PM
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No, it’s not cope, it’s fake. You can’t do a scientific study on human behaviour in such a tiny window. (And the fact they didn’t do it on men either) This is clearly fake written by incels on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:00 PM
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The test lasted only 5 hours. That is not a scientific study to show testosterone makes a difference to someone’s personality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:51 PM
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If this is happening in all your relationships then there’s a common denominator here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:41 PM
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If he had a valid reason to doubt me, like previous cheating or we had only been together a few weeks then yeah, no problem. If he needs proof just because I’m female (and he can’t trust me) then there’s no point in continuing this relationship. The trust gone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:30 PM
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If you know im not cheating, why are you asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:16 PM
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Assuming your partner will always cheat because she’s female then you shouldn’t be in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:06 PM
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It’s not about the kids, it’s about a women potentially having power over a man by secretly lying to him about the kids being his or not. They are obsessed with not having completely control over women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:22 PM
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How is that a problem? You’ve got to have your first at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:20 PM
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He accused his wife of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:19 PM
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Sure dude I totally believe you. Of course you can link this study to back yourself up. Otherwise we all know this is just a misogynistic rant
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:18 PM
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She didn’t destroy the family, he did by not trusting his partner. Why can’t men take accountability for their own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:53 PM
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More men will be held accountable for their own actions. You can see it with Jeffrey snd Andrew, everyone’s quick to try shut them up and disassociate with them incase their own history’s get brought up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:48 PM
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Given that false accusations are less than 3% and 99% of rapists don’t spend a night in jail, no. The system is already designed for men to still have power over women And fun fact for you too, At that special time of the month, the main hormone released by the body, is testosterone. So women are acting more like men do on a daily basis. Women should be in more powerful roles, they are more likely to think of the greater good and what’s best for the majority rather than just making their billion…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:47 PM
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No there wouldn’t be, she’d most likely be casted out as “damaged goods”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:39 PM
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Of course they are, their usually tour firsts for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:09 PM
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Of course they are, teenagers aren’t the ones out doing casual
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:59 AM
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It’s always telling when guys assume you weren’t serious with a guy or it wasn’t long term. They don’t like to acknowledge that men in relationships still treat their partners bad sometimes. They’d rather pretend it’s because you were just being used by Chad so it was partly your fault
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:44 AM
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Or because you never actually got the test
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:11 PM
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Well clearly not since you asked her for proof. You can admire her, I doubt she feels the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:04 AM
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No thank you, I am not a doormat had my husband asked me that I wouldn’t have stopped him but the resentment would grow snd doors would start closing on our relationship and then eventual divorce. I’d prefer not to treat my partner like an insecure child
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:32 AM
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It’s not misandrist to point how accusing someone of cheating is offensive I would the say “well you don’t trust me then”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:20 AM
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You know how sex works yes? You need a man and a women to grow a baby, if you don’t think your the man that got her pregnant then your accusing her of cheating This is absolutely so telling when guys start trying to hurl insults when they’ve been caught out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:24 AM
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No, if he’s going to accuse his long term partner if cheating with no evidence then he needs to understand actions have consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:47 AM
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If you need a dna test because you have concerns your partner has cheated or because she became pregnant very quickly no one will judge you. If your going to demand a test off your wife 10+ years simply because “she’s female” your An arsehole that shouldn’t be in a relationship and your wife will almost definitely leave you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:24 AM
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Of course there is Your being accused of cheating simply because your female.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:20 AM
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More men in jobs means less work for women, why are men special? You are allowed to do casual sex yes? You just personally suck at it. You don’t need to do tradition at all, you do what suits you. You don’t restrict others basic rights so it makes life easier for you. The world isn’t here for you. Live your own life without impacting others
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:32 AM
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No because that takes choice away from women. You can choose how you live your own life but you can’t dictate to other people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:26 AM
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That’s up to her, people are weird. The bottom line is you don’t make their choices about you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:19 AM
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“Accepts his place” This is where it’s never going to work, women want to be with someone that makes her happy. Guys just want a gf, don’t care about her as a person just that he has one. Women are content to stay single until they meet the right person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:12 AM
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It’s not a game
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:28 AM
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That pick who they want yes, the men they want to be with, no number you try to allocate to them is relevant. Would it not be more productive to try to become the kinda man a women wants to be with rather than trying to play numbers games which nobody will stick too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:09 AM
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It’s only becoming harder for young men because these men are becoming more n more entitled and selfish. You own comment kinda highlights that, women can date who they want because their not forced to be with men for survival anymore, and you imply that it’s a problem because women sometimes make poor choices. Of course they do, so do men, we’re all human. But you don’t force people into a system against their freewill
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:23 AM
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I knew you were sorry. And yes your right, it’s already fair in the sense of we can all date who we want, these guys just seem pissed of that their expected to make some effort
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:19 AM
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The thing is, they could line themselves up and have everyone number them and they could try in do it back too. Nobody’s gonna stick to it, it’s like their trying to force dating to be “fair” when it already is, but it’s based on feelings and emotions, not autistic logic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:45 AM
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That’s very shallow, what if the guy in his 40’s is rich and hilarious and the guy with a nice chin is a junkie? What about people who don’t use dating apps and again, why should anyone accept this? Call anyone with an ounce of self respect s number and they’ll tell you where to go and carry on with life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:43 AM
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I would argue many men believe they are the prize or they believe they are average enough that an average women should be giving him a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:24 AM
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Who gets to decide what number the person should be allocated, and why should the person accept it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:22 AM
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As a women, I also know no one is coming to save me, and I learned that the hard way too. I have happily given up my seat to the elderly and disabled, (never been the case for a pregnant women yet) and I would do the same again. But as someone who’s been pregnant more than once and travelled with young children, I am happy to report the only people giving up their seat was other(usually older) women. Men and in particular young men, are isolating themselves from society. Whist it used to be a se…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:06 PM
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No it’s true in the west as well, women couldn’t get bank accounts as late until 1980’s, they couldn’t buy property without a man’s permission, they were discriminated against if they got married and had kids, that’s why they had to bring in the equality act. How you never spoke to an older women and asked her what was life like for women? History books would back this up too Edit, fun fact for you too, the handmaidens tale is all based on facts that used to happen to women, she didn’t make any …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:41 PM
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And how/why do you believe women has it easier? You know women were considered property until recently?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:42 PM
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But not for being male though have they? If men didn’t have equal rights, I’d support equality. But they do, more so than women in lots of places around the world
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:18 AM
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It is not egalitarian because being “male” has never been oppressed, so no, it’s feminism and it’s not evil unless you hate the thought of women having equal rights
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:11 AM
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Most long term relationships are
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:37 AM
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Of course, but if you want it to be a long term thing, birthdays, etc might involve you buying the occasional gift
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:35 AM
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Feminism is about equal rights., choices and freedoms for women. That’s it. Not many people apart from a few incels agree it’s a good thing that half the population should have their basic rights removed. And not one single source about evil feminists, never is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:24 AM
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It’s not, although this mindset does explain why so many men abandon their sick wives. If she’s no longer useful, even for a short time, better to abandon her and try get a new one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:12 PM
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Let’s not make things personal. If you have to lie to get something, your scum
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:10 PM
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If your lying to some to use them, it’s manipulating them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:08 AM
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It is. Your only telling her that so she’ll have sex with you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:01 AM
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It is. Your telling them something untrue to get what you want out of them. It’s manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:47 AM
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Yes, it’s called lying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:40 AM
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Young men that are in the dating age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:40 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:23 AM
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Guys are always different between women and other men, especially when their alone. I went to school with a guy that always seemed off and a bit weird to me as a women, but all the guys thought he was great, and told me I needed to give him a chance. I just avoided him personally. He went on to rape 2 kids and now he’s in jail, the amount of people (particularly guys) that said “we never seen it coming, he was a great guy” No he wasn’t, you just seen what you wanted too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:34 AM
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And you can link these threads fir us all to see yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:25 AM
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Exactly, you can’t trust any men, therefore it’s better to pick the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:45 AM
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Misogyny is about power over women, superiority, not hatred. It is a belief that men somehow know what’s best for an individual women, not herself. Men who don’t have misogyny, understand that women are people, some of them will be horrible and all of them will make mistakes. Just like men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:25 PM
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Mens issues are usually solved with common facts. That’s why they resort to personal insults and “what if”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:20 PM
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I would argue it’s the worst part, because whilst I don’t expect to be raped etc, I do expect when I go for help or expect justice for what’s been done against me, I won’t be blame or held accountable for the actions done to me. Think of it like if you got burgled, it’s a horrible thing done against you that you want justice for. But your home insurance are now refusing to pay because you only had 3 locks on your door and you shouldn’t have had an expense tv or jewels in your house so they won’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:35 AM
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It’s not based on emotions, it’s based on facts. This is what many women have gone through and even guys here point out she should take some responsibility for being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:07 AM
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Ok, here’s a break down for you for womens basic rights around the world and when they started to get the same rights as men https://www.sbs.ox.ac.uk/oxford-experience/blogs/rudina-suti/womens-influence-leadership-through-history And that’s another male response, personal attacks. You couldn’t steer the debate into your own agenda, you didn’t like the facts that male led countries and companies exploit those underneath them, you want to keep your romantic daydream that men are superior (your own…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:00 AM
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It is wild isn’t it? But unfortunately true. How often have rape victims been told “well you had red panties on, clearly you were asking fir it” being hurt by a bear is of course horrible, but then being told it was somehow your fault is even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:55 AM
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I didn’t make any claims about the American presidency. I pointed out that women weren’t even allowed a higher education until recently, you tried to steer the debate to suit your own agenda. So look up your own numbers. Yes a typical male response, he doesn’t like the fscts given him so pretends everyone is emotional. We are humans, we are emotional (at least we’re supposed to be) logic men that make decisions are called psychopaths, because they disregard everyone round them and use people. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:41 AM
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It’s not just physically violence from their intimate partners. It’s when strange men tell them “well you chose him” It’s a sign from men that’s it’s not just the odd bad one that she unfortunately ended up with, it’s that a lot of men will blame her for mens actions against her. Whatever he does it’ll somehow be her fault. That’s why it’s easier to pick the bear, it’s most likely going to leave you alone and the other bears aren’t going to blame you if it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:12 AM
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Another job where the man gets the glory snd the women is running the logistics to make it actually happen. How convenient. Nobody asked your opinion, that’s the point. You may think you are simply offering an opinion, yet you fail to acknowledge this opinion has been traditionally forced into women for years. When given equality, women are not choosing this lifestyle, and single men need to stop pushing it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:08 AM
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And rapes kids
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:13 AM
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The bible was written by men, of course it says whatever suits men. Just like every single religion. Men are human, and will fuck up. Some more so than others. To put the responsibility of 2 adults on a already insecure head because “he’s the man” is ludicrous. This is why mens mental health is horrendous. Please don’t tell others what they should or shouldn’t feel. Deep down their is a desire not to be treated like a child or a pet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:13 AM
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No it doesn’t, it shows women are more likely to get help than men and less likely commit suicide. Look up your own stats. Women couldn’t even get their own bank accounts until the 1980’s. What your asking me is a person opinion, if I had to pick a few I’d say New Zealand, Scotland and Germany did fair during the pandemic, the Uk, America were typically masculine and waited until the last minute then had to do knee jerk reactions. My point is, there is nothing biological that shows men are bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:07 AM
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You’ve heard of the man vs bear debate yes? The women that picked the bear did so because their previous experiences with men showed them they couldn’t trust men and would actively choose a bear over being alone with a strange man. And then men that got angry about this proved her point that using caution and boundaries around strange men means they’ll going to take it personally and lash out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:43 AM
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Women do want partners, not leaders, we’re not Labradors
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:38 AM
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Looking at mens mental health and suicide, this doesn’t add up. Anger a strong emotion that most men can’t control themselves with and lash out. The only reason men have been leaders previously is because they made it law that women couldn’t. If we were to take the most recent covid pandemic, the countries with a female leader did better in regards to death snd keeping the economies running as oppose to male leaders
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:36 AM
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Because it’s fun
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:21 PM
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If he’s avoiding the social areas then it’s kinda his own fault
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:48 PM
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Yes, and that’s why not many people agree with it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:05 PM
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Involuntary celibate, founded by a women in the 90’s, taken over by male superiority groups that idolise killers like Elliot Rodger and jake Davidson. Yeah that’s plenty. 2 guys is more than 2, (and the others not on this thread) thus proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:27 PM
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He hasn’t, hence why it’s being thoroughly debunked. If you can’t see the point then maybe this is not for you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:23 PM
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It’s not that important to most men, even other men are telling you this now. And yes, it is only from incels who hav me this obsession with sex and getting it. Most adults see it as a fun activity to do together rather than a demand or need. I wasn’t making things personally. Only to those with that mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:20 PM
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Yeah and that comes down to the person and what it’s worth. Your gf of 6 months doesn’t want sex anymore compared to your wife with young kids that can’t get a minute to shower. There is a difference and it’s up to the person what’s more valuable to them or not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:13 PM
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It’s important to you, not to all men. The only men calling it a need are the incels who think womens only value is for sex. If it’s important to you to the extend your happy to cheat or bully someone to it I wouldn’t think highly of your character and we wouldn’t socialise
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:35 PM
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The point is the op doesn’t want to put in the effort to avoid a sexless marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:32 PM
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That’s telling of that man then, and no I don’t think that’s womens issues, we put up with what we will and if a man is happy to cheat on you because he’s not getting enough sex, then that man is not a good character snd it’s best the relationship ended. Sex is important in a relationship but it’s not the foundations of one. It’ll come n go throughout. If your going to drop something special rather than trying to work on it, your flaky, and probably best you don’t get into relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:40 PM
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Yes. Guys here are always the first to argue cheaters are the scum of the earth. If redpill men want to argue it’s fine because it’s just sex, then be honest about it. And even if she doesn’t know about it, it means still means redpill is about using people Edit, oh look crickets. They never want to admit they might be the bad guy in this situation. And then they’ll make another post later asking why women date cheaters and abusers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:32 PM
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Does your wife know you regularly cheat on her?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:23 PM
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If the only reason you want a relationship with a women including marriage is for sex, and to you, a woman’s only value is the sex she gives you, Why not just stay single and use prostitutes? It’s a lot cheaper for you and doesn’t waste everyone’s time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:23 PM
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That’s a difference of 3 women. You can not possible push the narrative that looks are just as importantly to men as to women based on this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:19 PM
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Yeah mate can you point out the part that data looks are the most important for women? Looks might help, I won’t argue that, but it’s not going to be main issue snd the level of how attracted you are to the person, it’s going to vary depending on their personality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:11 PM
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The only people that see looks as an important dating factors are men. So no, women would be more likely to use charm and try make the person laugh. And they would be better at noticing body language
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:57 PM
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Everyone’s employment is important, it’s how you pay your bills
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:28 AM
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It’s a cultural thing, I’ve had Americans call me “cute” names which I’ve knocked on the head. As well as clicking fingers, not reading menus and demanding refills. The difference is, Europeans aren’t doing the service for tips, we get paid a decent wage. I’m happy to do a good service for someone but I will point out when their wrong, rude or inappropriate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:14 AM
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Asking for advice and venting is one thing, and there’s loads of places to do that and get help. The problem is when these men are no longer wanting advice but wanting to shit on women instead. When they start completely about womens standards or making up conspiracy theories about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:34 PM
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I’m going to treat all my partners the same even if some of them I am taking a chance on. That’s up to you how decide you are happy being treated
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:57 PM
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Of course women can. Men were only able to built stuff because they Made laws that says women couldn’t and ensured a women was always stuck raising babies. Looks what happens when the opportunities are the same, women are ahead of men now in most fields
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:46 PM
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The solution is simple. Make childcare free and flexible. Snd more focus on dads doing more parenting. Maybe more education for boys at schools about care. The facts are, children are a giant responsibility with no monetary value. It’s a loss of a career snd years of sleep deprivation, loss of hobbies and a general life so if someone’s going to do it, they want to know it’s worth it. And right now, it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:44 PM
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Sorry but Americans are loud and annoying and they have a terribly selfish mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:03 AM
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Where did you live? Cause I would argue Europe is beautiful, food is amazing, people are lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:02 AM
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I mean, there’s plenty of other ways to shit in America
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:00 AM
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Are they actually going round abusing random men? Or just avoiding them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:14 AM
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If it was mainstream, it’d be in the news
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:10 PM
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Do these women resent men because they’ve been personally hurt by them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:09 PM
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Oh yes, I hear a lot about them from guys who hate women but never actually the women themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:40 AM
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Not really though, the term misandrist is now used to describe any women that doesn’t centre men or children
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:23 AM
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Who’s crying? I’m talking facts, there’s never been a feminist shooter trying to murder babies, feminism isn’t calling for young men to be put in camps or loose their basic rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:19 AM
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No dude, feminism is simply ensuring that women have the same rights, choices and freedoms as men. It’s not to counter anything except the oppression of women. Redpill believes in male superiority over women, that’s why they hate feminism, women “fight” the redpill on a daily basis by just living their lives how they want instead of being told to by a man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:51 AM
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I don’t think many people would deny that misandry exists, but it’s not nearly remotely close to the same scale as misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:43 AM
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Effort will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:29 PM
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I didn’t say men acting distant is an issue. It’s only an issue for that man if he wants a relationship. If he doesn’t then fair enough he’s just going about his day. If he thinks he’s proving a point by being distant, nobody is even noticing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:15 PM
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You can address it, after you’ve sorted out the murders first Surely that makes more sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:07 PM
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You say lukewarm interest, I say these guys know how to charm and banter and therefore you don’t think their desperate but their still playing the game, their just better at it than you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:06 PM
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Urgency and priorities have everything to do with it. You don’t stop a mass shooter because a women made a mean tweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:01 PM
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Do you think it’s a shitty thing to just ignore people and go on about your day? Women aren’t even thinking about you, they are thinking about their own problems. If you want their attention, you’ve got to make some effort. If you don’t want their attention (the way most women are) then yeah just continue on. But don’t complain you can’t get a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:59 PM
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Acting distant means you don’t want to socialise, most people take the hint. Believing you are making yourself attractive by acting the lone wolf is going to make you come across as either rude or creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:24 PM
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I didn’t say ignored. But you have to use common sense don’t you. What’s more urgent, women saying mean things on the internet? Or young men murdering children?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:23 PM
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Relationships have got to start somewhere don’t they? Even attracting someone, you’ve got to get and maintain their attention
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:21 PM
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Nope, but that sounds about right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:20 PM
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That’s fake dude, it’s AI, have you fir anything real? News articles? Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:19 PM
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No they don’t dude, that’s just incel shite or back up your own claims I’m guessing you didn’t get my ER reference?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:52 PM
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And where did I say that? No, I believe this system was invented because it’s what suited men to have women stuck at home raising kids while men could go out and invent/work/play at war because women were holding up the fort at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:44 PM
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And some men are getting their feelings hurt? Until we have female shootERs or women calling for mens rights to be stripped, someone saying something you don’t like on the internet is not even remotely close
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:42 PM
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If you want a relationship with someone, you’ve got to put in some effort. No you don’t need to wine n dine a stranger, but if you like a girl and act distant, she’s going to think your not interested and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:28 PM
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There’s only 2 countries in the world where women have equal ish rights to men but a male but a male only draft. You don’t need to pay child support if you actually Parent your own kids. They are also less Lori be victims of rape or abuse and we both know their are still services available to them. (Guess who the majority of volunteers are)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:26 PM
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The only problem feminists have, is men trying to take away their basic human rights
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:32 PM
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The power of penis /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:11 PM
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Ever heard of ying and yang? It’s about balance and respect for your partner. It’s not about winning and it’s not about control. In healthy relationships, both partners find a balance that suits them both. If you hate anything female, that’s ok, anything female will avoid you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:08 PM
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Of course I am, I believe in equality between men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:04 PM
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Even if it made him really sick to the point he was in hospital and just the thought of the place makes him Sick again?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:34 AM
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Governments don’t have vast amount of money, and if you have kids you can’t afford, they’ll be taken off you, and you’ll just have contributed to the already flooded system with too many kids and not enough parents Care robots should be the priority, before artificial wombs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:21 AM
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It’s never the man’s fault is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:00 AM
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But he could lie? He might have developed boundaries. What if he doesn’t like a restaurant because it made him really sick but since he went there with his ex, it’s only fair he goes again, I mean, I expect the same in return. Get sick or you clearly don’t love me as much as your ex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:00 AM
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I don’t think this is the gotcha you wish it was. The main issue with kids is not the birthing, it’s the raising. Childcare is decades of long hard labour with no monetary value. Have artificial wombs all you want, as long as you raise your own kids and don’t try to dump them on social care when you can’t cope
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:58 AM
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Yup, the fun parent who doesn’t have to do the hard stuff, wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:55 AM
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How does she know it’s his best though?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:53 AM
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But it is about them when you say “women” You want to slag off an entire gender with no backlash, that’s not how these things work Put it this way, I could say black people are thieves, and if your a black person who isn’t a thef, then it doesn’t apply to you so don’t act offended. Your still spreading hate against an entire group of people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:52 AM
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So we should let incels spread hate against women unchecked? Nah man, if you have a need to want to criticise an entire gender, you are the one with a problem, and all the adults in the room will make that clear
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:47 AM
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What a healthy way to think about people. Ensuring you get the very best out of your product
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:41 AM
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This is hilarious, the post is supposed to be about women treating men as options, but here we are with dudes happily admitting they will cheat on their wives as long as it makes them feel better about themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:30 AM
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In 2026, hypergamy is irrelevant https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypergamy It was only ever practised so a women could actually have some control over her own monies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:26 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:25 AM
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I think it’s much more likely that this is fake, and the op has some personal vendetta with women being generally more affectionate with each other rather than to him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:24 AM
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Again, no it’s not. Calling men creeps because they are creeps is not some hidden secret dish if wanting men to interact with them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:20 PM
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No they don’t, look at the answers from actual real women on this sub. The only people who think it’s an issue is men. It only ever comes from men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:55 PM
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No it’s not, it’s called learning. She still treats the new guy politely she’s just more wary about why he’s approaching her in the situation their in. His actions will show whether he’s ok or not. Same with you and the women who’ve harmed you, I don’t mind if your wary about talking to me as a women, I am a stranger to you. If we have to interact, I will happily show you I am not a threat threw my actions
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:15 PM
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No. We’d both cope better emotionally, physically and financially if he was to go first. In my own experiences, men don’t cope well losing their wives first. Women “cope” better. If I was to go first, he’d be like greyfriers Bobby, and would sit in my grave until he died too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:42 PM
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Fair enough your entitled to want whatever you want. But realistically, I don’t think that’s ever going to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:39 PM
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I mean it’s love island, I’msorry (not sorry) but everyone on it and everyone who watches it are pretty trash
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:38 PM
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Again, how? Someone being wary of you because you are a stranger is not treating you like a horrible person and it’s more than likely she’s doing that to everyone around her. “Female creator on tiktok” yes, if you go looking for something you’ll find it eventually. But trying to pretend your a victim because some women are using their own experiences to be wary of random men, does not mean that you are being treated horribly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:34 PM
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What do you mean by punishment though? Even with a horrible encounter, most women know most men are decent, and treat those around her with respect. It’s not a bad thing to be wary of strangers. She isn’t punishing you by not wanting to give you her time or attention
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:54 PM
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Women aren’t, that’s my point. There’s lot of men trying to argue women shouldn’t be allowed to vote
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:01 PM
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Yes you can because there’s a difference between avoiding men or women and locking your doors, to trying to criminalise a whole gender. If you’ve had bad experiences with the opposite gender snd choose to avoid them that’s fine. Being angry because the other gender still has the same rights and freedoms as you, is not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:50 PM
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You mean misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:44 PM
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What data? That’s completely made up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:42 PM
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If your forcing someone to take accountability of something they don’t need to, then yes, you are trying to force them into a label you want to put on them. What they do with their own lives, is nothing to do with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:34 AM
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Yeah I’m really not understanding what the big deal is supposed to be. Even if these women haven’t realised they are bi Or lesbians, what’s the actual issue here? It’s not affecting you so why are you even remotely interested
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:21 AM
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Personal insults? Why do they need to take accountability? If that’s not trying to force a label into them then what is? It really should matter to you what these people choose to do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:18 AM
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Their not fools, their not ready to label themselves especially for random men. Why is some guy getting himself foaming at the mouth because some women haven’t realised/don’t want to admit they might be gay. Realistically, people that do oral sex with the same gender completely acknowledge they are bi. This just sounds like a personal fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:09 AM
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I’m happy to say I have slept in the same bed with gfs at 18-20 but we were always top/tail snd never spooned. It was always just convenience after a night out because someone else was on the sofa and someone else was on the floor This just sounds like some guys fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:05 AM
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Ok? So what, what’s the actual problem here?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:59 AM
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Unless these women are in the room with us, what’s the point or goal here then? Some women don’t realise they are lesbians until later in life, same with men. This just sounds like someone wanting to force these women into labels
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:58 AM
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So what’s the debate here then? I personally disagree that majority of women do that, I’ve got lots of girl friends and no we don’t hold hands, shower together or have done oral sex on each other. Maybe you date completely different women from the rest of the world but this is only your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:44 AM
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He knows, this isn’t about relationships with women, it’s about having power over them. It’s that incel fantasy that if all men actually decentered women, we would be begged men horrible men to take us as sex slaves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:26 PM
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But that’s exactly that, it is trash tv, and it’s against both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:05 PM
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What are you trying to accomplish by claiming day time talk shows are an attack on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:16 PM
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Men fighting back against equality? Women talk shows were nothing on the porn or locker room talks against women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:05 PM
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They rarely do, like the op said, she still doesn’t want to fuck guys that only think of her as a warm blow up doll
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:17 PM
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And that’s why even woman who don’t do casual avoid these men, the way they think about women is disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:37 AM
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She was joining you in a karaoke song, it wasn’t about you, it was the song. She was obviously very passionate about it. The fact you followed her afterwards convinced she just fancy you is the reason you were chucked out. You didn’t read her body language. You took one gesture you liked and ignored the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:57 PM
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Well yes then that make sense, she wasn’t into you, you followed her, that is creepy. If she had been interested in you, she wouldn’t have returned to her friends right after the song finished or found a reason to keep talking to you or invited you to join her group
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:50 PM
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Yeah I think we both know your leaving lots of stuff out here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:29 PM
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The difference is, you should know if your approach is creepy or borderline rapey. It’s one thing to make small talk in a bar or a social setting, it’s another to try corner a teenager in a bus
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:17 PM
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All dating sites are a waste of time and energy, Do it the old fashioned way snd you’ll have lots more success
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:46 AM
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And? Still had a enough self control to not start arguments based on his own insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:52 PM
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Again, not really, snd I know that personally too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:50 PM
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This sounds like paranoia on your part. He didn’t believe women just went out fir attention, he knew I was out fir a good time with my friends and only worried about me getting home safe after all the public transport was finished. That’s the difference here, he worried about my safety, not about his sexual pride
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:21 PM
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Not really, it’s the same mindset, instead of chips on the way home, it’s cheeseburgers, or ranch n soda. You either trust your partner or you don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:18 PM
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How is that bullying? He used to go to heavy metal clubs? Does that mean he’s bullying me?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:11 PM
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Does it matter? He knew he me as a person, he knew what I liked to wear, he knew how I liked to act, he knew what I was like with a few drinks down me and knew how I was around friends. He wasn’t the kind of incel that tried to control me with statistics, but rather the quietly confident guy that didn’t want to control me but respected himself to know what was controlling and what was a door mat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:10 PM
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How is it bad men? We’ve now been married 11 years, 2 kids, house, regular sex, hamsters etc, This wasn’t bad men, this was a guy who took personal responsibility for himself, he didn’t label “clubbing bad, clubbing girls bad” he got to know the girls he dated, he clubbed himself sometimes, his attitude wasn’t to judge, control or manipulate, it was just to have fun and not let himself be taken advantage of
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:00 PM
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I didn’t say it justifies it, I said it came from other men, so stop blaming women for it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:43 PM
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Yes it does. Because it wasn’t women who decided to start shaming men into war. It was other men, who used women in hope it would shame them further.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:32 PM
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Ok, and I know 2 guys that committed suicide. 1 raped 2 kids, the other was caught with CP on his computer. It IS a case by case thing, yet the individual themselves never seems to be held accountable for it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:30 PM
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These questions are fairly sad (and telling why their single) I used to go clubbing a lot, my then bf now husband used to tell me to “have a good time, do you need a lift home? “ And I would have a great time with my friends, dance off my stress , laugh at stupid shit, then get chips on the way home with my bf and then reluctantly look at my bank account the next morning
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:28 PM
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If you want to read your own source, it was started by a man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:18 PM
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Like adults?!? Seriously this is partly the problem You guys say men should lead and be providers but then you also argue men can’t cope with everyday stress of this. You can’t have it both ways. Mens mental health is terrible I agree, but it’s not a society issue, it’s because men don’t want to help other men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:15 PM
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Ok so you took a generic question and made it all about you. (Funny how that always happens with guys here, such main character syndrome) I’m going to ask you one last time for an actual fact that affects men, purely in the basis of because they are male, and nothing to do with their life choices
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:13 PM
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Wonderful, except we have single parents already by the vast majority are mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:10 PM
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Again, each of those social issues are not gender related, and refusing to acknowledge that is partly why everyone roles their eyes at men complaining no one helps them. Just like women, the services are their to help them, that’s all we can do. But none of these deems from the fact that they are male, it’s an individual basis
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:44 PM
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Not one of his sources are against men, they are personal bias, this isn’t bad faith, this is fact, AND this is why people struggle to take mens problems seriously. Each “issue” is an individual problem, more men commit suicide, well we have help centres to help them (guess who the majority of volunteers are) but you can’t force adults to help themselves if they don’t want to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:53 PM
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Well what issues exactly affect men by just being male? that’s my issue. You have the same opportunities, rights and choices as women, their are no laws or rules that force you into certain positions or situations. Yeah more men are homeless, commit suicide etc but so do women, and these men aren’t born into roles where this is their only choice. That’s not “mens issues” that’s an individual thing, and yes I agree these places and people need more help, but it’s not a plight against men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:33 PM
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I mean, it’s not women making posts to complain about men having the same rights as women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:29 PM
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What groups? No their aren’t, that’s the point. There’s no where or at any point in history where being male meant you were oppressed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:23 PM
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But it’s not women complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:21 PM
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I know! I know! Men expected to act like adults is sometimes to much, far easier just to complain “nobody likes me” and sit sulking in the corner
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:24 PM
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No I don’t, we will never know for sure why boys are now doing worse than girls in education, the facts are when boys and girls are treated equally, girls thrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:22 PM
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Are those circumstances ever just because he was a man, therefore he was restricted?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:15 PM
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Your going to have to highlight these threats you keep mentioning Feminism is for women, snd unfortunately womens rights are still somehow debated in a first world country, and don’t exist in others. The same can’t be said for men. What issues exactly do men, as a gender, have?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:14 PM
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There’s no need for personal insults, if you can’t provide a reasonable response then don’t bother, otherwise you are debating in bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:11 PM
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I think it does, look at the timeline for the internet, video games etc coming out and bits education starting to decrease
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:56 PM
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Because it’s arguably the only thing that’s changed since the 90’s fir younger people. Before you had to go to clubs, meet people and only had 4 channels. Now you can shut yourself away for days, and boys are more likely to do that than girls
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:45 PM
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Not often I agree with men here but this here exactly. You always know it’s BS when mens issues are somehow woman’s fault or responsibility. Unless there’s a woman’s group that’s trying to oppress you and take away your basic human rights, your fine. Take some personal responsibility for yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:40 PM
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The main issue here though op, As long as everyone is getting the same rights, choices and freedoms as each other, then it’s an individual’s failure if something happens to then. More men go to prison, yes, because more men commit crimes. More men commit suicide, yes, because they don’t seek help Men are doing worse in education, yes, instead of studying, they are perpetually online All of this just screams of young men refusing to be adults
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:33 PM
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Op, why are you trying to pretend this is woman’s fault? Some people are idiots, welcome to the world
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:25 PM
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What I don’t understand about this man’s kind of “fear” is why he stays in a supposedly romantic relationship with someone he is not physical with? I’d like to think most people would like to be seen as the “good guys” and if the person your seeing just sees you as a friend, you wish them well but still keep looking for another person to have that romantic relationship with. It’s very simple. Just as I don’t have a “fear” of men that only view me sexually. I avoid them like the plague. Unless th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:22 PM
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I disagree about your social media part, and the paranoia that a good looking girl must be talking to about 10 guys all at one time. Times haven’t changed that much. When your interested in someone, your interested in them, and you go out your way to talk and communicate with them. What doesn’t work is throwing a net out and hoping to catch someone via dating apps. You’ve taken the human element out if dating, of course it’s rarely going to work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:14 PM
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You can make the wombs and the dolls all you want, at the end of it, your only going to have a bunch of neglected kids living in poverty because nobody wants to look after them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:41 AM
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That is true, at least these things are documented
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:54 AM
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Because women are not like that at all. And you posting shit like this is horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:43 AM
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Because of your view of women, it’s horrible, and untrue. This is just sheer hatred
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:39 AM
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I don’t understand why this blatant hatred is allowed here. You can’t even make a logical argument, just that women are always exploiting men including using kids. Why don’t you just avoid all women? We won’t miss you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:37 AM
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And is it not about the kids? Don’t they need to be fed? Clothed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:28 AM
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Yes, but we all know something about motherhood brings out the mama bear in a lot of women, and if her husband isn’t pulling his weight or cheating, then he’s nothing more than an extra mouth to feed, better to kick him out and fleece him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:27 AM
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Yes, a sense of pride and the strength to kick out her cheating lazy husband
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:51 AM
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No it’s not, it’s a debating sub to debate gender issues and dating, it’s not a place for incels to vent or make up fanfiction whist the rest of us are expected to take it seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:35 AM
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I would argue that even the most women hating man on this sub, would agree that kids need to be provided for. And you don’t have to pay for them, if your the main parent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:34 AM
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Because are you trying to learn about them, or compete with their previous partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:33 PM
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Because if she already makes you feel sexually valid, special etc then what does it matter that she also did it with her ex’s? That’s obviously just the kind of person she is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:32 PM
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Not really what we’re talking about is it? Again, it’s one thing to ask questions to learn about your partner, it’s different if your only doing that to compare
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:30 PM
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That’s just made up shit dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:55 PM
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Even if she hated the act snd it physically hurt her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:55 PM
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You can obviously talk about each other’s pasts in the sense of “where did you grow up, what was your childhood like” and these are all great ways to learn about your partner. But if your the kinda guy that’s “how many blow jobs did you give your first bf” so you can ensure you get more then you clearly don’t care for your partner and just want to ensure your getting the best deal out of your turn with the walking flesh light
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:12 PM
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My friend, you are missing the whole point. Hollywood films are for entertainment, that’s why you have all variations of genre including romance. Most of them are not based on true events and the ones that are, clarify it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:18 AM
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Even if you believe your post is true, it can easily be avoided by only dating a women with a job, like 99% of women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:47 AM
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It’s been proven false over and over by going outside snd actually looking at couples around you. These figures are from a dating app over 11 years ago, a dating app where men notoriously outnumber women 5-2.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:46 AM
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In the first year of life, but in every other year, it’s the dads
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:05 PM
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That’s absolutely shite dude, or back up your own claims with links then None of what you’ve listed is oppression, they aren’t born being told by law they must be homeless or sucidal, sometimes it’s accidental but most of the time it’s a lack of person responsibility and poor life choices. Take some accountability Again, what rights do women have that men do not? What are they fighting for? Bear in mind, if you don’t live in the western world, women are still considered property
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:04 PM
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Because men as in being male, have never been oppressed, so why would feminism be about equality for men? When men are harming both other men and women, why are men blaming women fir those mens actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:54 PM
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Serious question, where and how are men oppressed? Because there’s never been a time or place in history where men had less rights than women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:43 AM
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Links please
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:40 AM
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I disagree that the market is unfair. You can date who you want within reason, the only condition is they have to want to date you too. If it’s going to make someone somewhere happy, then why not? My only concern is this would never be a replacement for a real human, and that will hit that person one day when they realise their robot cannot grow or improvise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:27 PM
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I’m not because I genuinely don’t believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:45 PM
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Misogyny op. “Women don’t have thoughts or feelings like men do, they are going by a purely female nature, only men are capable of deciding what they do or don’t do, that’s why sex is done to women”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:43 PM
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Sure dude
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:41 PM
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Did you miss part (even in your own source) that these men are domestic abusers?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:40 PM
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Again, yes of course it matters. Because it wasn’t women that decided only men had to stay, it was men. So trying to blame feminists for this is delusional. And you clearly don’t live in Europe, men women and children are suffering, you are not that naive to believe war only affects men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:39 PM
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It is exactly the point. Because if it was some evil group of women forcing men into fights, you might have a point, but it wasn’t, and you don’t. Afghanistan was a group of evil men forcing women to live a certain way. The whole people of Ukraine are suffering, the isn’t the victim olympics, and even if it was, western men wouldn’t even be in it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:20 AM
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No I didn’t, you tried to argue that men are being forced to be third class citizens and couldn’t find anything to evidence that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:16 AM
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Feminism supports abolishing the draft, you are making shit up based on personal bias Go and free the Ukraine men then, but you don’t cherry pick when your feeling an imagery oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:15 AM
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Reflecting because you can’t actually answer my question is not debating in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:44 AM
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And was that decision made by feminists? Or by men? And as someone who lives in Europe, women are fighting too, snd some men were able to leave too. But men in Afghanistan are still allowed outside
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:44 AM
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Like what? Do you live in Spain? Pretty sure if you want to play that card, we can look at the women in Afghanistan
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:38 AM
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Look at your entire comment, none of it is feminism trying your push men into third class citizens, all you are moaning about is feminism not helping men with their own issues
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:36 AM
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“First, they came for the blacks, and I did nothing, Then, they came for the Jews, and I did nothing, Then, they came for the women, and I did nothing Then, they came for me, and there was no one to speak for me” You don’t need to support feminism idealism, but you have to admit all they want is the same rights etc that you have. We live in a world where lots women don’t have the same basic rights as men, and we are the only species in the world where we force each other into roles, particularly…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:10 PM
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Again though like what? Cause from the outside it looks like it’s her wanting to move the relationship forward snd it’s been a decent amount of time, so it’s him dragging his feet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:01 PM
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What exact would she be feeding him though? He’s already got the wife benefits on a gf salary
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:34 PM
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No they don’t, they still single. How many times are we hearing from guys complaining womens standards are too high. I can’t help think you’ve got a personal bias here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:48 PM
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But again, why date someone your not attracted too? Their not that desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:36 PM
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But then why not pick someone you are attracted too?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:50 PM
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Then why is she dating him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:53 PM
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Yeah, wait till their toddlers and their still getting up 3-4 times a night
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:42 AM
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They think they’ll be good fathers because their sons will have their names, that’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:05 AM
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That’s not what he’s saying though, look at his language. This isn’t “I want to go home” this is “women are evil so you should never play ball with them” there’s a difference between decentering and actively spreading hate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:12 PM
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Women aren’t physically hurting men in their decentering. It’s telling if you think you are being punished because someone you don’t know is avoiding you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 01:30 PM
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Until women are doing shooting sprees, calling for mens rights to be challenged, men put in camps, and trying to inject young women at festivals, then no, it’s not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:20 AM
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You are, we all know you are and yes, you should be shamed. The way you speak about people is disgusting and yes, I would say you are probably dangerous to women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:48 AM
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Most of his reply’s and posts are horrible. If we were to hear about this guy in the news, I wouldn’t be surprised. That’s actual how the inceltears sub came about, (and why the incels hate it) the account name was a guy in England who did the first mass shooting in 25 years, including a 2 year old. He regularly posted this kinda shit too, so the sub uses his name as a way to publish other misogynistic content to try stop it spreading and point out how bad it be sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:47 AM
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It’s not, I would argue this is the argument of the incels that go on shooting sprees, they believe their justified in what their doing because “it’s the reality of how the human ego works”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:43 AM
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I get that and I agree, a relationship should add to your life. Not just fir the sake of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:41 AM
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That’s a horrible opinion of people, and we all know it’s not true 99% of the time. But I will agree that if you have this kinda opinion of women, you should leave them well alone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:18 AM
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Because (like I said in my comment) your not saying it to help men, your saying it because you think women are attention seeking and entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:08 AM
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That’s what people already do, it’s called getting to know each other
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 09:56 AM
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I disagree, My experience of men on this sub shows a genuine hatred towards women for just living their daily lives. Looking at the tone of this post, it’s not about helping other men (it never is) it’s about punishing women. They have this fantasy that if men were to suddenly stop chasing women, women would be begging at their feet for attention. Same when they argue compulsory paternity tests, there’s a fantasy lots of women and crying babies will be on the streets begging men for help. There’…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 09:55 AM
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That’s far too much personal responsibility for most men to take
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 09:45 AM
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She was 14, it was rape whether she wants to acknowledge that or not. The difference here it was a long time ago and most of the predators snd victims are dead. It’s the same fir lots of people during that time. The meto movement is to stop this kinda sexual abuse from happening again
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:21 AM
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She can say or not say what she wants. If she was 14 then that was officially rape, but it was her choice not to come forward and Bowie is dead at this point so I can respect she doesn’t want to go through it again. But had this happened now, she would have been protected, that’s what metoo does
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:13 AM
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No they didn’t dude, stop spreading shit. It was to allow women to talk and share their experiences. If your first instinct is to shut a women up if she says anything towards “men bad” then yes, people are going to quite rightly wary if you, because that’s what these men had been doing for so long It’s called DAVRO
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:54 AM
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Yes I am, it was about women uniting by talking about their abuse and their experiences together snd about men finally starting to listen snd realise how bad this actually is on a daily basis. It’s telling if you believe it was an attack on men, it was holding men accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:45 AM
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The whole premies of “metoo” wasn’t about believing all victims, but at the sheer scale this sexual abuse was happening, AND how many women were victims of it. It wasn’t just about Weinstein, it was how many women around you on a daily are assaulted and how most men turn an eye or refuse to acknowledge it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:33 AM
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A fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:54 PM
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No, I think you have an idea of what feminists are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:36 PM
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No I didn’t, you can take it whatever way you want, most women judge a guy by personality and that can be helped or hindered by looks. But obviously every women is different, and it changes with time (growth) People aren’t numbers, you cant control or predict how it’s going to go, the easier and more laid back you are, the easier it’s going to be
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:40 PM
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In theory. And every other way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:28 PM
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No, she sounds normal. Feminism just means equal rights, freedoms n choices between men and women. That’s it Doing occasional nice things for your partners is what everyone does
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:09 PM
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Where did you get 80% from? Most guys aren’t on PPD, that in itself is a red flag. There’s daily posts here from guys trying to argue it’s ok to fuck teenagers or women should go back to abusive partners, or restricting the jobs women should be allowed to do. Of course their walking red flags. And yes it’s obvious why their single The average man is married, most men are decent but it depends where you go. Certainly not guts on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:08 PM
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Most guys, especially here, aren’t decent guys. Look at all the victim blaming for the ops post in this sub, decent men don’t blame victims. They are getting filtered out accordingly because we can see the red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:50 PM
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My god, she sounds human
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:58 PM
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Yes they do, because plenty of women are stupid and are assholes too. So be a decent guy that also only goes fir decent women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:44 PM
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I agree with your title, but not the bulk of your post. I disagree that women settle, if a man isn’t adding value to your life, why (tf) are you wasting your time with him? Many women are content being single and if that means no husband or children, well then it wasn’t to be. Nobody wants to be with someone barely tolerable Since Chris rock is single, I wouldn’t be taking any advice from him. Natural selection allows the creatures that can adapt to their surroundings the quickest to survive and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:51 PM
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Nobody is saying women don’t care about looks. We’re saying your personality can turn you from an average guy, to a hot guy, and likewise a hot guy, to an asshole. Bear in mind, abusers are good at hiding their true nature until the person is invested and if your young and have no experience, it can be hard to see the red flags. That’s why age gaps are an eyebrow raiser
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:57 AM
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Yeah In a scene or a video, not going out fir a coffee
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:45 AM
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Yes but the women there are also not allowed outside or even to speak loudly. That is not something to be glamorised or admired
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:00 AM
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Only for women, it was ok for men to have bastards or wards
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:59 AM
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So why are you asking women? Would it be quicker to asking men what they would do?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:58 AM
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Because it’s an impossible situation, who’s going to stop then? To try meet you half way, again they’ll either have very quick marriages n divorces, a waste of paper/effort for everyone. Or, they’ll just fuck other guys but I don’t see that happening
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:56 AM
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Then like the other person said, they’d get married quickly and then just continuously cheat on their partners with other married people. Or have quicker cheaper marriages and divorces but that would really be a waste of paper and time for everyone involved
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:51 AM
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Those aren’t studies, and yes, it’s gross
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:10 AM
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Again, women aren’t the ones complaining, their content where they are. It’s up to the man whether he’ll accept that or not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:31 PM
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I would argue that’s your algorithm unless you can link any actual studies? And no, their argument is men need to do better than “I can’t find a relationship” We all know a women could go on tinder and have loads of guys desperate for the attention, but we also all know these are just creeps who want sex sex sex asap Women have made peace with being single unless they meet a great guy, men haven’t, and instead their arguing women need to do better for them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:50 PM
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People can have whatever standards they want, it’s up to you whether your going to meet them or not. It’s not women complaining about being lonely, it’s men, and you can argue and debate studies all you want, the bottomline is when women have the same rights as men, they want partners and will hold men accountable to them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:34 PM
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Did I say it makes it ok? It makes it officially cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:56 AM
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No it’s because most people don’t get married until late 20’s/early 30’s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:54 AM
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We do, by avoiding these men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:48 AM
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It still happened, your just arguing the numbers involved
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:47 AM
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https://edition.cnn.com/interactive/2026/03/world/expose-rape-assault-online-vis-intl/index.html It was not a hoax, how many times to you need to be told. What your doing by dismissing this, is letting rapists get away with rape, invaliding victims, and giving these men the opportunities to continue doing this. Men Ned to take accountability for this and stop blaming women for their bad behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:53 AM
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What agenda? To spread truth? To warn others? It’s spread to warn others, help victims and stop it from happening again. Of course the manosphere hate it, their probably in it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:46 AM
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Depends in the person, but apparently men don’t want to do the basics, that’s the point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:44 AM
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But it was true, stop trying to pretend it’s a hoax because it makes men look bad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:44 AM
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They should be, that’s the point, and lots of men still don’t want to meet them and yet still complain
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:34 AM
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Their not liars because it’s still true. What your doing is trying to dismiss the whole thing by calling it a hoax because the numbers in a weren’t correct confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:33 AM
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But it still happened, that’s the point, there was still hundreds of men drugging their partners so they could rape them and giving advice to other men to do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:11 AM
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Mate, there’s confusion about the numbers of men involved, that doesn’t mean it didn’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:55 AM
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No, convicted rapists (let’s use adult words here) don’t have thousands of women throwing themselves at him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:40 AM
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https://edition.cnn.com/interactive/2026/03/world/expose-rape-assault-online-vis-intl/index.html No it wasn’t. Please don’t dismiss facts that hold men accountable for their own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:39 AM
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We can’t help in your own delusions based in your hatred for women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:36 AM
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Mate, we’ve gone though this, rapists do not get hundreds of women throwing themselves at him because he’s a model, if he’s convicted, he’s in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:09 AM
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Be a partner and not to push the provide/protector thing, it’s 2026, we’re all working and this just send to be an excuse to not pull their weight with childcare/housework. Do dates throughout the relationship, not just at the start, remember birthdays/anniversaries and don’t expect your female partner to do your admin for your family, organise meals 3x a week, clean up after yourself, don’t be selfish in sex, appreciate her, all these things that women are talking about you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:08 AM
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No they wouldn’t, I am have several friends who are lesbians and I would agree this has been a good chunk of their experiences too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:53 PM
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How many men have you dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:52 PM
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To meet different people and just banter, there’s not supposed to be a point, it’s just support one enjoying yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 09:11 AM
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If the guy can join the friends groups snd talk to everyone then yes, it’s great fun meeting people like that, especially when he has friends too and we all start mingling. It’s when he stands by himself at the bar and tries to steal you away from your group, that’s what we don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:27 AM
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Neither did I, I’m saying the shy quiet guys are usually the ones with CP on their computers, there’s been guys here that we’re banned for that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:26 PM
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You guys completely underestimate how much shy quiet guys turn out to be the biggest abusers on the planet The shy quiet guy I rejected at school went on to rape kids. You need to stop blaming women fir mens bad behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:06 PM
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But if she does, you’ll drop her. So Yeah, it’s kinda like she does need your approval
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:52 PM
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It’s very telling though that she can only get a job if she leaves the relationship, or needs your approval over it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:46 PM
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And then ensure they can never leave the relationship without going into poverty
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:35 AM
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Given how In ww1 lots of men suddenly disappeared to go off to war and women stepped up to work in factories, farms etc that had never been in any of these jobs before but managed to keep the economy working, I doubt it. It’s more likely to be the other way round when men are expecting to be suddenly be the main carers of children or nurses, that we would see their society fall apart. Men are too selfish
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:27 PM
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I’m also not to be discriminated against because of my gender
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:16 PM
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If they want to mate yes, but not for everyday life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:15 PM
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Yes, the odd white lie in a relationship does wonders. I often ask my husband to open a jar for me to help him feel more masculine. Do I need it? Fuck no, but I know it makes him feel good about himself so I pretend I do to make him feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:14 PM
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It’s literally the same fanfic you posted before
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 06:21 PM
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You didn’t dude. And now your post is likely to be removed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 06:19 PM
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But you can’t, otherwise you’d post/link that, instead of your own fanfiction
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 06:15 PM
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And those individuals decide who and when or if they want to mate. Wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 06:14 PM
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I think the top answer spoke fir itself dude, you made that situation up in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 06:11 PM
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You really can, it’s called, going outside and talking to people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 06:09 PM
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I’ll meet you half way and try to spell it out for you. I don’t like, when I’ve spent hours or $$$ getting ready, and my bf doesn’t notice anything different. Especially when it’s for something special and I’ve deliberately dressed up and he doesn’t see anything different than before. It’s a bit like dressing up for sex and wearing something really revealing and sexy but they can’t look away from their video game long enough to even acknowledge it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 06:04 PM
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But why do you believe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:02 AM
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How is he leading if he’s not part of a pack?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:34 PM
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Why always carry cash?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:32 PM
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Yeah the captain/first mate thing also seems unfair, the captain makes all the decisions that the first mate has to enforce against the crew and logistics but the captain still gets all the praise and gets to sit back while everyone does as their told. I just don’t get why an adult would willingly put themselves in that situation, why he’s in charge of the household not you both but you both look after it. He’s an adult, he’s supposed to bring his own needs out and you both talk about how to hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:31 PM
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But men have never oppressed under women, there has never been a time or place where being male meant you had less rights than females, so why would you be an egalitarian?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:06 PM
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Well that’s very nice of them, they didn’t need to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 07:11 AM
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Because now that you’ve got a attitude, you think others will start to notice you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 07:10 AM
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Maybe it’s an American thing or a religious thing. I just think it’s so weird to want someone to take charge if you, like a child
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 07:10 AM
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Why do you think their monsters?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 07:00 AM
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He is at fault if he chooses to isolate himself and refuses to make efforts to socialise. Take some accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:37 PM
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Women did those jobs dude. They worked the fields, they hunted, that dealt with war, AND they worked in coal mines too. Women have always done these jobs along side men, but they got their pay was given to either fathers or husbands. So no, men were never oppressed, those were also jobs, they weren’t forced into those roles
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:58 PM
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He didn’t though, that’s why the village shins him. He’s entitled and expects payouts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:55 PM
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Well yes, you don’t get cheat code just because of your gender anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:34 PM
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And I would agree with that, but there’s never been a time or place in history where being male meant you had less rights than females
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:33 PM
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The might not know but it’s easy to tell when they don’t start pulling their weight to help the new village
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:32 PM
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Again, it’s both, please teach yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:42 PM
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Another village isn’t going to take them, they’ve already shown they don’t pull their wait and expect others to work around them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:41 PM
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More n more men here pretending to be women, and I’m sorry but their really not good at it. We can tell guys
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:35 PM
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Feminism isn’t for men, no one is saying that. It’s to ensure equal rights, freedoms n opportunities for women with men. In regards to mens issues, yeah you need to organise yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:34 PM
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It’s both, please re read them, it doesn’t contradict itself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:31 PM
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And they all die since they are expecting someone else to do the work for them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:31 PM
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Completely agree, just don’t act surprised no one comes near you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:30 PM
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Women literally didn’t the vote until 1918, and even then they had to meet conditions, my own mother needed a man’s permission to open her own bank account, how can you not know these things? Feminism is the reason why your allowed on the internet and social media. There’s only 2 counties in the world where women have equalish rights to men but there’s a male female not draft, but thanks for revealing your true motive here, troll Edit, you should also lead by example and stay quietly at home ref…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 11:29 AM
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No this is calling you out, you are saying men shouldn’t care about abused women because random women don’t care about lonely men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 11:20 AM
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Well it can, otherwise they’ll all burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 11:09 AM
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You are exactly comparing loneliness to abuse, you keep comparing the suffering and asking why should men show sympathy for abused women when no one wants to listen to mens complaints.that is entirely your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 11:07 AM
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Men do get sympathy, and there’s lots of places to get help and advice and places to meet people, but there comes a point when you don’t want help, you want to complain. You have implied in several of your comments that you find it amusing when women are wronged by men. Again, very hard to show sympathy to someone who bullies others. We do hold that msn accountable, but we see the obvious red flag in other men who then say “well, she chose him” because he is dismissing the mens actions and looki…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:30 AM
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But you don’t care that’s she’s someone’s daughter etc, and you’ve made that clear You only show care when it’s someone in your own circle because it might affect your relationship with your friend. Most people would stop to help, especially women. But nobody is going to sit and listen to your pity parties. There is a difference between not owning something your sympathies, and blaming them for other peoples actions against them. You are completely dismissing any bad behaviour on the man’s part
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:16 AM
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Most people don’t have to be told to feel empathy when someone is wronged. Men want sympathies for their own choices of being single but want to blame women for other mens actions against them? Do you not see the difference here? You want people to feel sorry for you for struggling to meet someone (something that is entirely your own fault) but you refuse and even laugh when men use/abuse/cheat/rape women to hold these men accountable for their own actions? Using your own language “it worked” yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:12 AM
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But she’s only a random women to you She’s someone’s daughter, someone’s sister, someone’s friend etc. she’s also your fellow human being. Making everything about yourself is telling, if your only going to do something or show empathy when you get rewarded, your not a good person, your in fact very selfish, and that’ll be why people avoid you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:05 AM
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Using your own argument op, why would you help? You get nothing from it, his choices led him to be beaten up, you put yourself at risk over helping. You guys can’t have it both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 09:57 AM
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Is this another case of blaming women for mens actions against them? And yes you should hold these men accountable for their own actions, if your only going to do something because you get rewarded you are also the “nice” guy that women avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 09:56 AM
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Right, so a social media post designed for this very reaction then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:47 AM
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He won’t, your never going to find a study about women preferring a nbn player over an “average” guy. Average men are married, a fact most men here don’t like to acknowledge. This is just another post to try pretend women are incapable of feelings and are just bloodthirsty “foids” wanting to use and abuse men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:44 AM
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This is not false. This is fact, back up your own claims about women being 95% opposed to womens rights. Having the right to vote means having a basic human right in how you live, some women might have felt protected, but a lot didn’t. Hence why women still go out and work and vote today. The suffragettes are responsible for the accidental deaths of 2 men, more incels have killed people in just this month alone than they ever did, you can not compare the 2. Why are you bringing up trans? That’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:41 PM
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Feminism is about equal rights, freedoms and opportunities between men and women, you should agree with it because it gave you the power to pick your husband and job and not letting your father treat you like property. Historically, up until recently, women were oppressed by men, pick up a history book once in a while or speak to your grandparents. This sounds again like a child along for daddy to buy them a pony or build them a castle, the day he decides your no longer useful, your out. Does he…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:14 PM
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Becky it’s like your letting him be in charge of you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:21 PM
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Putting religion aside though, your not equal. And that was again men telling women what their duties are supposed to be, why do some men from 2000 years ago, tell you what you should be doing, (and how convenient that it’s all the unpaid never ending labour) while only the man’s work is considered valuable. Your husband is not your boss, he’s supposed to be your partner, your co-worker. And yes, leadership means just that, you are literally letting someone else dictate your life like a child. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:34 PM
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This study shows women are unhappy because their working full time but still responsible for all the housework and childcare. That’s not the fault of feminism. That’s lazy men still expecting women to do everything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:54 AM
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Yes, the male ones this want a bang maid and not a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:48 AM
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You shouldn’t be but that’s unfortunately not always happening. Women are providing officially now too, but there’s still this expectation that they’ll also do all the domestic work and childcare Hence the rise of divorce and more single childfree women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:40 AM
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Yes but when it becomes one if those jobs that doesn’t happen unless the same person does them, you are forcing them into that role
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:26 AM
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Well she is, because you can love/respect her all you want but your still using this person for their free labour
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:08 AM
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They don’t but that doesn’t mean they should only be put on one of them because she’s female
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:07 AM
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Yes we can, being an adult is one thing, looking after another adult is another
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:58 AM
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So you expected a women to be doing 3 jobs? Happily?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:21 AM
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Your not equal if he’s the leader though are you? And it’s only the 2 if you then it’s more if a master/servant thing than husband/wife rather than a leader of a group. If he wants spaghetti why don’t you tell him no, you’ve done a lasagna, he can make spaghetti tomorrow if he wants. Your not supposed to hide things so he feels like he’s in charge
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:45 AM
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But from the outside it looks like putting the man’s needs for respect etc above your own basic ones. Even if he isn’t a bad one, he’s still a human, and will fuck up, why give him that power over you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:40 AM
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Sounds like redpill in all honestly. When she’s no longer useful, get rid of her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:15 AM
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No, not tough. You cant discriminate against someone because of their gender fir a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:13 AM
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This is a great response thank you, and you do make a good point, I probably am seeing the fanfics from redpill men. I’ve just seen a recent post that reminded me of others about a very traditional redpill relationship and the women is suffering, but the responses from other likeminded women are only in support of her being more feminine and quietly dealing with it, ensuring she’s not disrupting her husband at all costs even when she’s easy to throw herself in front of a bus. It just reminds me …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:46 PM
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Why is the priority your man over yourself? Basically
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:38 PM
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I’m happy to keep it as women asking women if it’s not going to be deleted. Thank for you that, I agree that the responses from women are more what I’m asking fir than from men. Thank you fir your answer, I do get the vetting part and I would hope everybody does this, my confusion is mainly over the priority that seems to be her man’s happiness over her basic needs. You can disagree with her husband but only if you do it nicely, and his say goes no matter what, because he’s the male. He’s like a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:37 PM
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This is probably the best argument for it, and I get it, I’m a people pleaser myself (or used to be) but there comes a point when you realise that effort isn’t returned, and when you need them to do what you’ve been doing it’s not done, it’s too much effort on their part for something they don’t really want to do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:22 PM
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I appreciate your help but I was deliberately keeping it discussion so it doesn’t get deleted as “women asking other women” and I kinda did want to know what crusty men who’ve never visited that sub say, I don’t think it’s fair to take a few redpill womens some views, I want to know what others think. But now that your here, why do you have men on this pedestal? Even the best of men that have the best of intentions make mistakes, even the best vetting in the world, doesn’t stop a guy from taking…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:58 PM
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No it doesn’t, your saying if a women isn’t offering sex to him, she’s lying. If you only value women for sex, you won’t see the benefits of platonic relationships with them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:39 PM
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Or, you need to expand your social circles
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:38 PM
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Could it be possible that these women around him see him in a family way, like a brother? So even if they know he will be a good bf for someone, they are not remotely attracted to him. If you think the proof of women liking you only comes from offering sex, you don’t have a high opinion of women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:39 PM
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That tweet from 12 years ago was from game of thrones. So yeah, need to see proof
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:57 AM
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Some red flags are obvious I agree, age gap etc But again, that’s rarely the case
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:56 AM
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You can do whatever you want, but if you blame the victim fir other peoples actions against them, don’t expect people to want to be around you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:55 AM
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So again, your saying she’s responsible for other peoples actions against her? Again, without a crystal ball, how are people supposed to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:54 AM
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No their not. Women who aren’t stuck with kids work and it’s taxes just the same
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:51 AM
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Ignore other mens bad behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:31 PM
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I didn’t say that did I? I pointed out the vast majority of relationships where something bad happened to the women and the guy didn’t have any previous history that she could have used as a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:30 PM
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Let’s not make things personal. Your point is that a women should take accountability for a man’s actions against her. She should have somehow known somehow. So you, as another man, are blaming her, for other mens actions against her. There are no good men in this senecio, hence why it’s easier to pick the bear. At least the other bears wouldn’t blame her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:29 PM
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They don’t need to take accountability of other men, but they need to not blame the women fir the man’s actions against her. That’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:27 PM
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No I’m not, I’m using the scenario where your in the woods alone with one, who’s more likely to leave you alone? Your trying to fit this into your own agenda. Even 2ft away, a bear is more like to run from a person. Your proving my point, if I have a man do bad things to me, then other men tell me it’s my fault I haven’t met any good men. There’s no good men in this senecio
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:25 PM
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But it’s not more dangerous, that’s the point. Statistically, men are more of a danger to women than bears, that is fact. And no, I don’t misunderstand you, you seem to be of the belief that people somehow get facts about the person their potentially dating before they pick them. Unless your talking about the playground, that doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:52 PM
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But why take a chance on either if your going to be blamed for anything they do against you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:42 PM
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Ok, but what about the 99% of women who get with men who have no history of cheating, maybe even no relationship experience at all, or guys who no problematic tendencies like drugs or addictions, or have great jobs and look like their going to be great partners, only to end up getting cheating on or abused or end up with a man child? You are completely dismissing bad behaviour from men and insisting women should have known Seriously how??? I agree if he’s got a history or a record then why (tf) …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:41 PM
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They don’t, women are doing just fine, what your talking about is borderline slavery. Force people to get into relationships with people they don’t want. The difference is, women are content at being single until the meet a guy that meets their standard. And they still contribute to society and taxes in the meantime. Whist men are talking about refusing to get a job unless they are rewarded with a wife n family.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 10:53 AM
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How many people got married 30 years ago and ended up divorcing because they got married too young and were never actually happy together? It’s not womens standards being too high, it’s women putting themselves first fir the first time in history. They don’t get married or into relationships for the sake of it, their better at spotting red flags and their actually thinking about whether they want kids or if it’s “just what you do” They want relationships with men, but men aren’t showing they can…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 10:44 AM
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That’s not calls for mass castration or murder then is it? So your already backtracking when caught out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:43 PM
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Yeah you can understand why I don’t believe you now. I have some lesbians in groups too, absolutely nothing against men. Never seen it online either. Just from men trying to play victims
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:32 PM
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If She’s agreeing because the information provided. If your lying, that’s called rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:25 PM
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are there? Sources please
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:22 PM
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Where? I ask seriously because guys say this all the time snd the most I ever get is a meme. Can you link your sources where you’ve seen this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:22 PM
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Why? It is a shitty personality and being shy and awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:26 PM
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Yes, that is called ignorance on your part.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:05 PM
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Not much difference is there? Between psychopaths and incels? Both have a superiority complex and want to control others. Incels are just aimed more at women. Psychopaths tend to be more clever and know how to fake it. There is no magic solution here mate, being nice n funny AND even good looking does not guarantee anything. The more you are, the better your chances
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:57 PM
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Of course it means everything. The original incel group fir involuntary celibate people was made by a women. This showing that women struggle too. It was 50/50 before hate groups got involved You dismissing it because you don’t like is sheer ignorance Men can easily get a prostitute. Stop pretending your victims
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:46 PM
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Most likely yes, snd their not willing to adjust or change. But the difference here is, their not making up conspiracy theories about why their lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:43 PM
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Until I see young women calling for men to obey their wives, be locked in camps or be mass raped, I don’t agree we can compare these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:40 PM
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No, Elliot Rodger was a good looking guy, rich and had high status, and still women avoided him like the plague. The average incel isn’t ugly. This is where it depends how clever they are. Even a psychopath knows when to fake charm and personality. Basically being a nice person to be around, not turning yourself into a clown. If it’s not a natural part of you then yeah, don’t expect people to want to be around you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:39 PM
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But that’s different isn’t it? You learn from the people that bully and learn to avoid them. You don’t bitch to others because you weren’t landed life in a plate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:36 PM
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Ok? It’s still not a need though is it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:24 PM
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Well 99% yeah, unless you grew up in a cult with just your own family members to talk to, you’ve been part of a society that gave you everything you needed. Take some accountability for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:23 PM
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The original incel group was founded by a women, so no, the average women does not have a lot of options. Most women want to be in a loving nurturing relationship with s man who loves her for she is. Not just used as a flesh light by a guy off tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:22 PM
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Being hungry and being horny is not the same thing. You will die of hunger, you will not die because your dick didn’t get wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:17 PM
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Looks get you noticed yeah, but personality can change, up or downgrade her attraction to you. You could be really good looking and even high status but then start talking like an incel (Elliot Rodger is a great example there) and the attraction dries up immediately. Or you could be your average looking dude but you manage to make her laugh and charm her friends and now her attraction to you has gone from 5% to 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:15 PM
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Edit 29 countries, including the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:09 PM
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The source was done in London. That is in the west dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:09 PM
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No, he’s not right. He thinks women need to be humbled and drop their standards “or they’ll be alone” I’m just pointing out that women don’t need to do anything and their in fact ok with being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:08 PM
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It’s not, we’re talking facts here. You as a man, will not die if you don’t have sex. End of.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:05 PM
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But that would be lying, it is because of their shitty personalities and incel outlooks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:04 PM
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We’ve had this debate over n over. It’s not a need, you won’t die without it. Let’s not go over it again
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:02 PM
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I see it on this sub all the time, and no it’s not Christian men, it’s gen z men. https://www.kcl.ac.uk/news/almost-a-third-of-gen-z-men-agree-a-wife-should-obey-her-husband So yeah, these are unreasonable standards and the majority will remain single
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:00 PM
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Yeah that’s not unreasonable but that’s not what men are telling some though is it? How often are we hearing from guys now that women are supposed to be virgins and obey their future husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 11:56 AM
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Women are content to be alone with cats if they can’t find the man they want. Men are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 11:50 AM
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Your not wrong in the sense of the individualism that’s mainly an American thing, but I’m seeing it in the uk too, mainly with gen Z. In 2021, we had our first mass shooting in 25 years, by an incel with all the usual Elliot Rodger traits, but it’s coming up more n more in schools too with young boys refusing to listen to female teachers and attacking female students. Even Louie Theroux just took on the manosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:05 AM
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You’ve made (another daily) post on it. Why are you trying to rant dating dynamics if you’ve never been in it? It’s irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:06 AM
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I would argue that’s a you problem. Most of us meet these people through friends and people we already enjoy spending time with, or places we love going to, or hobbies or doing these we already like and then it’s just a good bonus when you meet with someone you click with
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:05 AM
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No but it’s the same with relationships, you don’t ask some about dating dynamics, when they can’t relate to it personally
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:01 AM
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No dude, you don’t ask someone to fix your car if they’ve no fixing car experiences. That’s called keyboard detectives, their basically useless and just spread shit and hatred over something their never achieve
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:59 AM
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There’s a string element of personal responsibility here though op, don’t date someone when you don’t enjoy their company. Don’t go to fancy expensive places on the first few dates, don’t invest in someone when your just starting to know them. Dating should be light and fun at least at the start
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:50 AM
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“If dating isn’t fun, your doing it wrong”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:41 AM
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Do women overrate their value, or are modern men just not good partners? Their stuck on traditional values which translates to a man having complete control over a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 04:15 PM
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Not if their being discriminated against because of their gender
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:23 PM
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The difference is obvious. Women with bad experiences make boundaries to enforce. Men with no experiences and try to enforce standards they want in any and all potential partners
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:22 PM
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My dude. Please read your own sources, this does not state that women get aroused by rape
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:53 PM
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Dude, there’s a guy here who makes daily posts talking about dicks and dick sizes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:55 PM
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Eh yeah, we’re going to have to ask you to link these studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:54 PM
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I’m a feminist because I believe women and men should have the same rights, freedoms and choices as each other. That’s it. And there’s not more too it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:52 PM
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But it is. Your friend wouldn’t be your friend if you were a dick when he first met you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:14 PM
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A friend who knows you well? That’s different than being a new acquaintance who’s just being rude because “that’s how he is”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:03 PM
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No agreeable is better. It’s pretty universal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:37 PM
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Yup, it’s not natural selection if your going to a country where they physically have less rights than you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:50 PM
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Apparently not, personal responsibility is unheard of here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:39 PM
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How so? You can be agreeable and still not let others walk over you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:05 PM
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I’m a woman and I love the thought of marriage. Firstly, nothing in life is a guarantee (expect death n tax) so it’s a matter of being careful with your partner and not rushing into anything to serious too quickly. Your also not expected to change anything if you don’t want to. I’m happy to admit I changed my name because I had a very very common last name and his was unique, but he didn’t expect anything. Yes, women still do the bulk of childcare and domestic work, but again that’s matter if wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:12 AM
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Mate. Red pill men, are not decent, it’s not about your looks, it’s the way you look and over analysis people. It’s awkward at best and creepy. The way you completely dismiss any empathy for others is also off putting. Stop blaming your looks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 08:26 AM
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It’s a person choice, the problem is when people lie about what they want to get into a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:48 PM
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And this ladies snd gentlemen, is why we avoid the socially awkward guys. Thanks for your time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:37 PM
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Is this the same one you got a private investigator on?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:35 PM
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Let’s be real here. It sounds like he’s got her locked in a basement somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:27 PM
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“In some places, it’s perfectly legal” Doesn’t matter if they don’t have a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:44 PM
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