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| – | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.Nope because men display the same behavior and tendencies regardless of ethnicity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/26 02:53 PM |
| – | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.Theres no need to larp being misandrist. All women need to do is take the rose colored glasses off, step back and observe men’s actual actions to become misandrist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/26 09:04 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What do you mean by emotional intelligence?Most non autistic men have extremely low EQ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Simps have ruined the dating world.Men are suppose to be simps. It’s basic biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 02:05 AM |
| – | Why do women who claim to be progressive still feed the patriarchy?Sexual communism is the perfect term for what these men think feminism is suppose give them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 01:54 PM |
| – | Why do women who claim to be progressive still feed the patriarchy?No it doesn’t. Men just refuse to accept that dating is inherently discriminatory because you guys don’t want to accept that being yourself means your dating pool is not going to be unlimited and all you guys want is to get as many women as possible. Yall would rather pretend to be something you’re not for your entire lives if it means getting as many “bitches” as possible for a circle jerk of praise with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 01:49 PM |
| 0 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveThey have a fetish for bisexual women because they think they’ll be down for threesomes with another women (but never another man) not because of genuine attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 11:21 PM |
| 3 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveStraigh women are attracted to straight men. Shocking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 10:52 PM |
| – | Age gap relationships are psychologically optimal for both gendersIt’s not “overhyped”. Sperm quality is directly linked to morning sickness, preeclampsia, gestational diabetes, miscarriages, etc. in pregnant women as well as increases the chances of children being born with physical and neurological disorders the older the father is when they child is conceived. There’s a reason the overwhelming majority of sperm banks have a maximum age of 40 for donations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 01:37 PM |
| 0 | Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt.Terminally online and attention seeking 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 05:39 PM |
| 5 | Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt.Men are the OG misandrists, they just expect women to somehow not come to the same conclusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 05:33 PM |
| 0 | Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt.Do you feel better after this wall of text rant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 05:28 PM |
| 5 | Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt.Another day, another man championing for rape culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 02:54 PM |
| 6 | Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s riskyFeminism had nothing to do with men getting 50% of their living expenses subsidized by women while said women do 100% of everything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 02:40 PM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.A man being attractive ≠ knowing how to pleasure a woman. Pretty much all of you are porn addicted and think the shit you see on screen is how sex is suppose to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 11:19 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.They call those women sluts, whores and “easy” for actually wanting to have sex with from get go then complain about women who want sex later down the in the timeline or in a relationship not having sex with them. Their cognitive dissonance needs to be studied lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 11:15 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.They don’t get the foreplay and satisfaction from being able to coerce relationship minded women if they were to only go for women who want hookups/casual from the jump. Literal rape culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 11:00 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.Sex with most men is unpleasant for women and rarely results in a orgasm so they might as well get something tangible, aka money, out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 10:57 AM |
| 16 | Many women have been socially programmed to be self-centered and narcissistic.Because “paper abortions” are fucking stupid. Not making sure you have high quality condoms and/or having a vasectomy and still having sex is men accepting the possibility of being a parent. Men need to take accountability for their own lack of due diligence when it comes to contraceptives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 04:55 PM |
| 3 | do you truly believe the bar is lower for men?The bar for men is lower than the Mariana Trench. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?They certainly knew how to dress and style themselves better 30+ years ago. I don’t know where those skills got lost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 10:49 AM |
| – | More women today have a disdain for men because the only thing women can offer today is sex, so they understand all of men's efforts today is just for her pussy, which fills them with contemptBecause most men offer zero intangible benefits to women so we might as wel as get the only tangible benefit which is money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 10:39 AM |
| 7 | Many women say that if a woman rejects a man, he should accept it and move on, never trying again.You just described rape culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 11:05 AM |
| 5 | The Red Pill Will Never Have Good Prescriptions Because Its Historical Claims About Gender Are Wrong.From what I’ve observed, red pill women seem to have a humiliation/degradation kink and are too afraid to imagine a life that isn’t male centered. Most tend to come from developing countries and don’t really the have to time deconstruct things the way women in the west have began to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 07:42 PM |
| – | It’s not that women having inflated egos. It’s just a lot of guys underestimate a woman’s worth in the dating market.Whatever helps you guys cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 06:50 PM |
| 10 | Women, when you ask a man to take out the trash, what is the time limit for the man to do that?Is the sex that are supposedly “natural leaders” not capable noticing things that urgently need attending to in the home they’re suppose to be leading such as a full trash can? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:16 PM |
| 4 | It’s not that women having inflated egos. It’s just a lot of guys underestimate a woman’s worth in the dating market.Study after study on self perception shows that women tend to underestimate their level of attractiveness while men tend to overestimate their own. That’s literally what all this whining about “hoeflation” is about. Men perceive their attractiveness and desirability to be higher than what it actually is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsAnd you still haven’t answered any of questions. Nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsHow many women vs men are sexual and child predators? Which sex makes up the majority of murderers and domestic abusers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 05:55 PM |
| – | If you dont like women, don’t date them.He like most men splits his time between watching porn and swiping on dating apps so he assumes women do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 05:40 PM |
| 0 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsMale “desires” aka degeneracies are a direct threat to women and children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 05:28 PM |
| -1 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsMost men can’t even afford one wife, let alone multiple. That’s why yall need 50/50. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:01 PM |
| -3 | Red-pill guys who hypersexualise women shouldn't slut-shame those who post sexy pictures on dating appsSo you agree that male nature is just being deeply hyprocitical? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 02:47 PM |
| 1 | It’s unrealistic to expect men to find romance by just “living their lives.”I take it back the bangmaid comment. I don’t think your wife is fucking you at all let alone giving you attention which is why you’ve followed me through two threads back to back. This is longest amount of female attention you’ve ever received your life. Hire a real therapist instead of begging your wife and random women on the internet to be one for you or get better hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 12:17 AM |
| -1 | It’s unrealistic to expect men to find romance by just “living their lives.”Clearly your wife is your mommy bangmaid in the marriage since you spent your time following female posters around on Reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 11:20 PM |
| -1 | It’s unrealistic to expect men to find romance by just “living their lives.”And the possibility of a free chef/maid service and therapist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsWhatever helps you cope with your weight problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 06:53 PM |
| 6 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsThey’re gonna claim that most men are muscular and thats why their bmi reads as overweight or obese when irl women can see their H cup man boobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 09:29 AM |
| 9 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesWhat does being single have to do with loneliness? Are you incapable of making friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 07:05 PM |
| 9 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesCat ladies is infinitely smarter and happier than any woman who settled for a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 04:04 PM |
| 4 | What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ?Those tax dollars are coming from those women as well since most mothers work and pay taxes. Tax dollars are to be reinvested into the people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 01:23 PM |
| 5 | What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ?Women becoming mothers completely on their own terms is good. Most “fathers” are sperm donors who happen to share the same address as their children or sperm donors who’re irresponsible with their sperm and didn’t get a vasectomy as soon as they turned 18 because they expect women to take on the full burden of contraceptives. Very few men are useful in the home for anything other than 50% of the bills, let alone actual active fathers involved in childrearing at the same level as the average moth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 12:15 PM |
| 43 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesWhy do women have to have “realistic” standards if they’re content with staying single if they don’t get the type of man they want? What about that do men have trouble comprehending? And before someone respond something about bEtA BuXx the number people coupling and getting married decreases yearly. Yall are going to accept that being a cat lady and having a apartment/house to her own isn’t the insult nor scare tactic you think it is anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 10:46 AM |
| 13 | The Voice Memo Guy, Proves Women Also Can’t Handle Rejection.He sounded like a manipulative loser who learned his communication skills from incels and RP. Any woman who doesn’t have rose tinted glasses on would have gotten the ick and blocked him like the woman who posted the voice memo did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Getting women to lower their standards will just trap you in a passionless relationshipYou’re so desperate for female attention that honestly it’s pathetic and sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 12:18 AM |
| – | Getting women to lower their standards will just trap you in a passionless relationshipThe bitterness dripping off your posts lets me know this is real life for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 10:02 PM |
| – | Getting women to lower their standards will just trap you in a passionless relationshipClearly none of that is helping you attract women since you’re on here bitching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 09:51 PM |
| 5 | A guy swiped 2 million times on Tinder and only got one unsuccessful date from it. That tells us alot about dating.What percent of those marriages are even slightly admirable though? There’s a popular joke about couples who met on dating apps agreeing to lie about where they met for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 12:57 PM |
| – | Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skillsYou sound sleazy af, if not slightly sociopathic and I’m glad most women have the foresight to see that and reject you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Women control the grey areaInviting someone into your home does not automatically mean sex. Thanks for letting me know you’re a potential rapist 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 11:28 AM |
| 4 | Women control the grey areaDon’t bother arguing with him. He’s already said he’s to continue using coercive tactics like voice memo guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Women control the grey areaAre you dense? He did not ask beforehand, he waited until they’d already had a first date to spring on his expectation of sex. That’s a conversation you have before any talk about dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 11:14 AM |
| 5 | Women control the grey areaThe voice memo came from a dating app, Hinge I think, and plenty of women who have no hookups and looking for a LTR written in their bios but men ignore them because they don’t read profiles, swipe on every woman or lie about their dating goals with the plan to lie and breadcrumb their way into pussy. I brought up that consent can be taken away at any time because there’s being an uptick in men trying to using these pre approved consent recordings and messages as a defense in court. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Women control the grey areaThere’s a huge swath of men who are only interested in hookups and casual sex but don’t go after women who only want those things because manipulation and boundary pushing is foreplay for them. These men will go on a date or two with women seeking long term relationships to make them somewhat comfortable and lower their guard then start dangle the potential of things turning into an actual relationship in exchange for sex via love bombing, temporary ghosting, breadcrumbing, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 10:50 AM |
| 4 | Women control the grey areaWanting sex early is something you disclose before the first date but men don’t do that because the amount of women interested in going out with him would dwindle. He was testing for compliance not consent by giving an ultimatum that if she didn’t open her legs then it was a “waste of time” continuing the dating process. He then tried to soften it by saying it would be a good time for her too even though the very predictable outcome it’s mostly likely going to end with her not orgasming and him … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 10:22 AM |
| 11 | Why are men with money seen as very attractive for women?Elon Musk is ugly af on the outside and inside. I wouldn’t sleep with him even if he agreed to transfer half his net worth to me. A man needs to have resources and be attractive to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 12:44 AM |
| – | Social justice for me but not for thee: Common female reactions to the 'hiplet' trend versus to heightshaming men are showing their double standards and inherent view of males as lesser beings - just as the trend intendedI’ve yet to see any actually attractive men participate in this hiplet thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce.How is it more pragmatic that the man takes time off for the children when he’s not the want who’s body went through pregnancy and has to recover? It sounds like he needs to get a second job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 08:45 AM |
| 7 | Men don’t want relationships, they want serviceTell your husband you no longer want to have sex and lets see how long his “love” for you lasts. I swear women married to men are required to have a shit ton of cognitive dissonance and delusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 11:58 PM |
| 5 | Men don’t want relationships, they want serviceSex is not “emotional maintenance” for men. It’s a way of reaffirm their power and control over women in order to get brownie points from other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 11:01 PM |
| 6 | After a lot of self-reflection, I realised that men create their own problems and blaming women is counterproductive and harmfulThey only know how to mockingly spam raunchy romance book covers like that minotaur one or bring up 50 Shades of Gray as a gotcha but if you asked them if they’ve read a chapter from any of these books, the answer is no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 02:56 PM |
| -2 | Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructedDo you also expect me to believe the tooth fairy is real? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 04:13 PM |
| – | How undesirable are single dads?I’m not raising any child that didn’t come out of me or isn’t one of my siblings’ children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 01:01 PM |
| -1 | Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructedMen do not approach women with “romantic intentions”. They approach because they want sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 08:58 AM |
| 6 | I think most men would prefer to marry a virgin woman.They want a virgin wife to then act shocked when she isn’t hopping on their dicks on the first date nor turns into a nymphomaniac after marriage. Also, do men ever stop to think that these virgin women don’t want them? What makes you think women who’ve abstained from sex well into adulthood want a man who’s stuck his dick into anything shaped like a hole or porn jerked himself into ED? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 09:05 AM |
| 4 | Unpopular opinion: I think asking for a live-in relationship before marriage is a red flag—for meOne of the only ways I would agree to marry a man is if we had individual living arrangements whether it be separate bedrooms or separate homes. Men having too much access to women almost always results in her bodily autonomy, boundaries and labor being exploited. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Do most women feel they have to restrain their sexuality to find a compatible man?Nope. Most men aren’t attractive and too high risk low reward for me to even considered being interested in casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 10:35 AM |
| 16 | What do you have to offer?Women don’t have to offer men anything. We’re not the ones falling behind in every area of life and experiencing a loneliness epidemic. But to indulge you, just being seen next to a woman increases a man’s social standing, cohabiting with a woman increases men’s life span and overall health because men refuse to take care of themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 08:05 PM |
| 4 | Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkwardIt’s a combination of all of those things actually. None of those attributes are mutually exclusive the way men on here want you to believe they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 01:30 PM |
| 6 | Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here?“Most men already have their minds made up and are truly insufferable humans.” Literally this. I just come here to state my observations from watching them be stuck in the same miserable cycle because they refuse to see women as human beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 06:18 PM |
| – | If unselected men become a threat, society is more likely to get rid of them then placate themIt’s funny how MAGA and Epstein’s camp already tried exploitation route by further radicalizating them against women (and non-white people). But the government hasn’t held up their half of the bargain: -Even less men are being accepted into colleges after the DEI ban. -The supreme court just shut down Trump’s thinly veiled attempt at stifling women’s educational advancement by arbitrarily deciding what’s considered a professional degree. -Even less young women are interested in sex, marriage and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 04:31 PM |
| 4 | JP Morgan executive suing for defamation will have chilling effect on male victims.He’s not a victim, he’s a liar. You’re just further proving that men’s claims about false allegations are just nonsensical pettiness aimed at silencing female victims and ignoring that men are more likely to be SA’ed/raped by another man than they are to be falsely accused by a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 10:19 AM |
| 25 | If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized?Men love going after women who want the opposite of what they want and trying to force her to conform to what he wants. This applies to sex, marriage, children, living arrangements, etc. It’s basically the overarching theme of the rape culture we live in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 07:11 PM |
| 9 | If the woman is successful and makes more money than the man, he can be a stay at home dad while the woman providesWe already have data on this scenario. The female breadwinner still ends up doing the majority of household chores and childrearing not to mention domestic violence against women increases when they outearn their male SO. If a woman is a high earnier its in her best interest to not marry a man and dating short term for fun then outsource things like getting a maid, anonymous sperm donor, nanny, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 11:26 AM |
| – | A question regarding chores and sexual altruism of menAlso most men who know how to cook and clean when they live alone magically forget how to do those things once a woman is living with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateIf you’re struggling financially you should focus on that instead of trying to date women. Why would I pay 50/50 for anything when I can afford rent, bills and to eat out by myself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 06:36 PM |
| -1 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t Create99% of men haven’t really changed much compared to the past, you guys just go through periods were you can hide how you actually feel about women. Millennial men aren’t any less misogynistic than Boomer and Gen X, they were just able to hide their true intentions behind 2000/2010s girlboss feminism that brought the golden age of hookup and 50/50 culture. Gen Z men might seem more misogynistic but it’s really just them using the 50s as cope because Gen Z women started to beat them in most areas o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 05:00 PM |
| 13 | People, especially women, will often push their personal boundaries to make their partner happy.In the case of heterosexual relationships, the phrase “relationships require compromise” actually just means the woman needs to be the one always compromising and taking the short end of the stick. Meanwhile the man gets an ego boost everytime he succeeds at pushing her boundaries ie. using coercive behaviors to get her to have sex when she doesn’t want to or to perform sexual acts she’s uncomfortable with. Of course this is changing considering the amount of young men complaining about how they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 12:32 AM |
| 2 | The "problem" with paying is that men here don't like the types of women willing to pay for themselves on dates.Lots of pretty women have low self esteem, thus desperate enough to pay for dates with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 12:39 PM |
| 3 | Why do I see different behaviour btw women here and real life for same statements?Reddit is an American website so most people here are American. Of course the perspectives of women here are going to be different from the ones in what I’m assuming to be your more conservative country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 11:59 AM |
| 1 | The manosphere thrives because society has failed to provide an alternative.The manosphere isn’t striving. It’s just a bunch of lonely friendless men circle jerking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeablenessIn the black caribbean and most other black communities yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 02:39 PM |
| 2 | What unique value do you think men provide to society, that can't be provided by women?If acknowledging reality is anti trans then sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 09:13 PM |
| 2 | What unique value do you think men provide to society, that can't be provided by women?These porn actors can identity as whatever they want all day long, it doesn’t change what they are biologically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective?I also think it needs to be acknowledged that the majority of the trans right movement is lead by autogynephilic men specifically who encourage those actually struggling to destroy their bodies inside and out. Transgenderism is a mental illness and should be treated as such but not by encouraging those suffering from it to take hormones they shouldn’t have in excess in biological bodies or to mutilate their genitals. I would never encourage an anoxeric person to take ozempic and I doubt any doct… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 07:08 PM |
| -1 | Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective?I misread your reply so I edited it. Anyway, not surprised you’re running when you still don’t know what feminism is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 06:57 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective?The “blue pill” are people who aren’t autistic and antisocial unlike losers such as red pillers who need a step by step manual to manipulate women into giving them an ounce of attention :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 06:56 PM |
| 2 | What unique value do you think men provide to society, that can't be provided by women?I love to see the alternate reality you live in where there’s women with XY and men with XX chromosomes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 06:51 PM |
| 6 | What unique value do you think men provide to society, that can't be provided by women?The only humans capable of having wombs have XX chromosomes aka women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 06:06 PM |
| 6 | What unique value do you think men provide to society, that can't be provided by women?Gestation is unique to women. That’s a biological fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 06:00 PM |
| -1 | Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective?You mean how the entirety of red pill rherotic is men grasping at straws to soothe their egos? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective?And you continue to prove my point that you don’t know what radical feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective?Transwomen are biological men and calling women terfs is just another way to silence and erase biological women. There’s a reason we never hear about transmen trying to invade male only spaces like restrooms or change male specific terms to include them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 02:47 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective?I brought it up because its obvious she’s male centered and has no thoughts of her own with how she just regurgitates red pill talking points about women being fat and how they need to take “accountability” for men being manipulative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 01:47 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective?How is men lying about their intentions to women in order to get in their pants equivalent to women turning down romantic and sexual confessions from men whom they thought were their friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective?So you agree you make uneducated assumptions about feminism in general since you don’t even understand the difference between liberal and radical feminism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 01:32 PM |
| 6 | Feminists could do well, if they develop humilitySo what you’re saying is men need DEI? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 10:57 AM |
| -1 | Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective?Agreed but men benefit from the majority of women clinging to the socialization argument because it keeps women available to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 10:54 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective?I don’t think you know what radical feminism is. All the “issues” you listed are liberal feminism talking points. Also there’s no such as being “fuckzoned” or “friendzoned”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 10:48 AM |
| 4 | Women in less developed countires are more gender-essentialistc, which imo is an underdiscussed draw for passport bros.No they just realized that they were giving men a 50% off coupon to end up being a assistant, maid, cook and prostitute while he gets more to save money and have more free time. It costs less both financially and mentally for women to not live with a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 08:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Young women despise young men in the context of relationshipsWhy do you think a weight measurement system that was created using only a sampling of white men is applicable to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 08:35 PM |
| 0 | Women are larping loneliness.All that projection still won’t convince any woman to wet your shrimp dick and pay your bills | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 01:19 PM |
| 23 | women choosing terrible men/ choices with full information is one of the oldest documented patterns in human history.Bro really used a story from his fictional fantasy book as historical evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 06:40 PM |
| -1 | Women are larping loneliness.Typical male feminist who thinks feminism means he’s gonna get his dick wet more and bills subsidized by a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 09:20 AM |
| -1 | Some women are avoiding relationships because of social anxietyPeople still believe in all kinds of mythological creatures including the supposed “good men”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 04:22 PM |
| 15 | Some women are avoiding relationships because of social anxietyThis sounds like you’re projecting your social anxiety diagnosis and desperation for male approval onto other women. Women who are decentering men aren’t going around talking about wanting a boyfriend or husband nor are they on dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 11:02 AM |
| 5 | Most men don't understand what rape is because they think of women as less.Any man who brings up bUT BuT fAlSe RaPe AcCuSaTiOnS is just admitting either they’ve raped/sexually assaulted a woman before or that they would if they had the chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Woman, would you date a detrans man? Why or why not?No. Transwomen are just gay men with extra steps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 08:11 PM |
| – | Women should not be given unchecked power, ever.It’s amazing that men make posts like this consistently then call women neurotic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Women are being scammed by the empowerment industry harder than men are by red pill, and it's not even closeThe idea that below average and average men aren’t abusive and don’t cheat is hilarious. Yall just don’t have the money to get away with your abuse or options to cheat with and if you did you would because that’s most men’s goal in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 11:34 AM |
| – | If a woman hesitates on a dna test then you HAVE to assume she cheated.All you’ve done throughout this thread is proven to me that men bringing up paternity testing and paternity fraud is a cover for their porn induced cuckhold fetish. Hopefully your wife will wise up to that someday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 11:23 AM |
| – | Dread works for creating attraction even if it destabalizes the relationship and thats okayYet they have the nerve to ask why that UK survey showed young women have a negative view of men and are increasingly forgoing sex and partnership with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 10:51 AM |
| 24 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionPatriarchy was created to be the DEI dating program for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 11:26 AM |
| – | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”The fact that men can feel “emasculated” just proves you guys are naturally weak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 07:56 AM |
| 0 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”I love how men claim to be “natural” protectors and providers but don’t know how to actually listen what women are saying about their experiences them and are too pussy to stand up to other men who make misogynistic comments and “jokes”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 06:34 AM |
| 7 | Do you think most women would take their own advice of fundamentally changing oneself to better appeal to the opposite gender (exercise more, change grooming and clothing, get an extroverted hobby, etc.)Women have forced to do this for thousands of years because up until very recently we’ve been considered property with no rights to be transferred from man to man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 09:17 PM |
| 16 | You cannot convince me that most men deserve women's submissionWomen are not “naturally submissive”. That’s another RP/patriarchial construct of what femininity is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 02:15 PM |
| 3 | The wall isn't real. It's a psyop that benefits mediocre men.The wall is a social construct and coercion tactic used to force women to keep reproducing average and below average men’s genes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 12:55 PM |
| 0 | The wall isn't real. It's a psyop that benefits mediocre men.Perfectly said! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 12:48 PM |
| 1 | This is the reason why men the gatekeepers of relationshipThere’s no such thing withholding sex. No one is entitled to someone else’s body regardless of if you’re still dating, in a relationship or married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 03:50 AM |
| – | What would happen If science someday proved or suggested that housewives were healthier and lived longer than women who go to work and are finantially independent?I would be a housewife is if he was wealthy and our prenup included monthly financial compensation automatically deposited into a separate account for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 01:46 AM |
| 4 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)When women don’t fit the beauty standard get they get implants and bbls, starve themselves, get lipo, filler, botox, etc. Men have leg lengthening surgery as well as the same facial plastic surgery options available to them as women so why aren’t you guys taking advantage of them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 03:36 PM |
| 2 | There are some who claim the pills are not political but that seems ignorant at least.Exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 03:11 AM |
| – | Historically "traditional" men didn't want their wives to work because they didn't want them to be financially independent.Do you earn enough money to have a housewife? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 02:59 AM |
| 21 | Orgasm gap is not caused by men, its caused by women because they don’t close the gap of effort gapSo what you’re saying is women are better off never having sex with men and just handling things themselves with a vibrator and dildo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 02:47 PM |
| 4 | Women choosing abusive men is a skill issueIt’s actually thousands of years of patriarchy indoctrinating women into believing narcissism, violence, arrogance and selfishness are normal male behaviors and being forced to birth more male children to pass on those traits. It’s gonna take more than the ~70-ish years women have regained their rights to correct the gene pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 01:45 AM |
| 16 | I am pretty sure the women have a misunderstanding about pornography.Watching porn is bad period. I don’t care what kind you watch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 09:50 PM |
| -1 | As a dude, I hate "Bare minimum" argument so much. Its is so dismissive of struggles men face. It will likely backfire with more use.Men giving up and taking themselves out the dating/reproductive pool is a good thing. It just means the minority of men who are evolving, deconstructing misogyny and patriarchy, showing with their actions they will be equitable partners and actual fathers will be chosen and get to pass on their genes. You guys can’t complain about women not choosing better then get mad when women listen and start slowly filtering out men would certain traits and tendencies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 09:05 PM |
| – | Why do many men find a clumsy, socially awkward, maladjusted woman acceptable for casual sex, but women don’t?Women who know the truth don’t engage with the perpetrators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 08:09 AM |
| 4 | Why do many men find a clumsy, socially awkward, maladjusted woman acceptable for casual sex, but women don’t?It’s a shitty consolidation prize for a shrinking group of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 09:23 AM |
| 24 | Why do many men find a clumsy, socially awkward, maladjusted woman acceptable for casual sex, but women don’t?This thread proves why women don’t talk about sex with their partners. Men’s egos can’t handle women being honest with them about their looks, behavior or sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 09:22 AM |
| 25 | Why do many men find a clumsy, socially awkward, maladjusted woman acceptable for casual sex, but women don’t?It’s not democratic. It’s removing the humanity from half the population just to get your dicks wet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 09:04 AM |
| – | Why do many men find a clumsy, socially awkward, maladjusted woman acceptable for casual sex, but women don’t?Considering you’re black pill I don’t think you have to worry “jestering” for any woman nor have you been anywhere near a vagina. I doubt you can even get one to look in your general direction so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 09:03 AM |
| 20 | Why do many men find a clumsy, socially awkward, maladjusted woman acceptable for casual sex, but women don’t?Thank you for literally my point that men just see women as interchangeable warm holes and not people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 08:57 AM |
| 14 | Why do many men find a clumsy, socially awkward, maladjusted woman acceptable for casual sex, but women don’t?Men are guaranteed an orgasm no matter what. Only 65% of straight women orgasm during sexual encounters with men. Providing romance is a small price to pay considering most you can’t and/or won’t learn to find the clit and get women off. Women who watch lesbian porn do so because its probably the only time they see what it’s like to be pleasured properly. It should be no surprise that lesbian women experience orgasms 86% of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 08:53 AM |
| 0 | How often do you want to go on dates in a month?You do know you can work and also be with a man who provides right? I’ve never known or wanted to experience a life where I’m splitting costs to be with a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 08:37 AM |
| 1 | How often do you want to go on dates in a month?That’s not enough for me to consider being a stay a home mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 08:34 AM |
| 29 | Why do many men find a clumsy, socially awkward, maladjusted woman acceptable for casual sex, but women don’t?Because they see sex as something they do to women, not with women and thus see all women including the ones they like for long-term relationships as interchangeable warm holes with zero care for anything about her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 08:26 AM |
| -3 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool“Decent” men are bare minimum men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 02:42 AM |
| 11 | When responding to TRP discussions about how society IS, 🔵BPers constantly shift from “how society IS” to “how society OUGHT to be”, and it kills real discussionYou thinking the way women dress and act is to attract men is how you and other red piller think “things ought to be”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 09:16 PM |
| 3 | Women, that defend feminists as not hateful/misandrist/biassed, have you asked them any questions on reddit?So you agree that men are more naturally prone to being terrible people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:09 AM |
| 7 | Women, that defend feminists as not hateful/misandrist/biassed, have you asked them any questions on reddit?People who uses their strength and power in numbers to oppress others are the textbook definition of evil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:08 AM |
| 10 | Women, that defend feminists as not hateful/misandrist/biassed, have you asked them any questions on reddit?So you agree that men are the problem? For every 1 Ghislaine Maxwell there’s 10 men on that list willing to do the same? And there’s nothing I need to be “careful” about. This is the same play book you guys have used on every generation of women. The only difference is women aren’t cowering anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:02 AM |
| 6 | Women, that defend feminists as not hateful/misandrist/biassed, have you asked them any questions on reddit?“Misandry” is a response to thousands of years of misogyny. Men aren’t use to women returning the same energy in droves the way younger Millennial and Gen Z women are. Even then we still aren’t trafficking, murdering, raping you guys anywhere near the rate you do us nor calling for the repeal of laws for male voting and ownership rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 10:45 AM |
| – | If "bluepillers" basically all agree that there are no valid criticisms of leftist gender ideology, then you all are far more unified than you like to pretend.There’s no such thing as a transphobe. A man in a dress is a man in a dress regardless of what he “feels” he is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselvesI have yet to see an opinion or take from a red piller that isn’t them obviously fantasizing about a reality that doesn’t exist (most of which are just cuckhold fantasies) or isn’t batshit crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 01:10 AM |
| 40 | Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire?Because we aren’t men and male sexuality is not the default. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 09:55 PM |
| 7 | If the orgasm gap wasn’t a thing and you orgasmed every single time you slept with someone, would you increase your casual encounters more?No because I don’t do casual period. Plus STDs exist and I don’t take birth control for various reasons nor would I be with men who think pregnancy prevention is solely on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 08:57 AM |
| 2 | Why do some feminists, especially on Reddit, so vehemently deny they don't hate men but do nothing to stop and even justify hateful comments of men in their subreddits?It was your people who invented race science to justify slavery and the police to harass minorities so sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do some feminists, especially on Reddit, so vehemently deny they don't hate men but do nothing to stop and even justify hateful comments of men in their subreddits?Sounds like a fair trade. I’d gladly enslave the Spanish and British people who enslaved my ancestors and forceable brought them to the Caribbean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Women have very little to gain from heterosexual sex & relationships and men don't careLove is fleeting it isn’t for your own child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 05:00 PM |
| 0 | Women have very little to gain from heterosexual sex & relationships and men don't careYes you do need to grow up no offense. Unconditional love and that kind of connection you described only exists between mother and child. Every other kind of relationship is transactional whether people are ready to admit that or not especially when it involves a woman and a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 04:41 PM |
| 7 | Why do some feminists, especially on Reddit, so vehemently deny they don't hate men but do nothing to stop and even justify hateful comments of men in their subreddits?They’re just returning the same vitriol men have thrown at women for thousands of years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 06:33 PM |
| 7 | There are 3 genders in dating: High-value men (HVM), Women, and Low-value men (LVM).... And it seems like the HVMs, and LVMs have more practical approaches than Women.If only young men put the amount of effort it takes to write pure nonsense and misogyny like this online all day into their education, professional lives, having actually fulfilling male friendships and hobbies we would be finally be able to advance as a society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 11:13 PM |
| 31 | Why do only 30% of young women have a favorable view of men (80% of young men have a favorable view of women)Those shows are majority created, produced and written by men. Sounds like men subconsciously projecting how they feel about themselves and other men into the shows they make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 12:47 AM |
| 26 | Why do only 30% of young women have a favorable view of men (80% of young men have a favorable view of women)Because they don’t see viewing women as innately less than men as misogyny. They think being sexually attracted to women is the same as viewing them favorably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 12:44 AM |
| 3 | Men need to start leaving women alone.And if they do know how to “warm” approach it’s seldom genuine and most likely going to be riddled with PUA/red pill manipulation tactics that women are becoming more aware of. Then they come back here to rant about women not falling for their faux kindness and conclude we must all love asshole men then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 10:27 AM |
| 2 | What is wife material, and why women should want to be wife material?Cheating, weaponized incompetence, thinking working full time is an excuse to not do any childrearing and not know anything about their children such as their allergies, conveniently going on fishing and golfing trips every weekend while his wife is stuck at home with the kids and only gets to do things she likes or see her friends maybe once a year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 10:12 AM |
| 13 | Defending women at all costs isn't protecting women,it's setting them up for when accountability catches upYou guys won’t even bother to take the 5 minutes it takes to get a vasectomy. Most of you don’t care about your health or fertility and wouldn’t have doctors’ appointments period if it wasn’t for a woman in your life booking it for you. What makes you take we trust that you’re gonna be taking a birth control pill everyday? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 11:19 PM |
| 10 | What is wife material, and why women should want to be wife material?Wifey material is code for a servant woman who’s dumb and naive enough to let them get away with whatever they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 03:16 PM |
| 18 | If there was a button flipping the dating dynamics for Men and Woman would you press it?Don’t forget free healthcare and paid paternity leave starting the day they hand their positive pregnancy results to their employer all the way until the child starts school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Men don't like to talk about their issues, but they do like to hijack conversation when women raise theirs.I brought up how most children born to teenage mothers are fathered by grown men, not other teenage boys yet teen girls get all the blame while society ignores the pedophilic men who prey on them. Of course I received a reply about female teachers preying on male students and when I asked for the statistics on male vs female teachers being predators I got no answer back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 09:51 AM |
| – | Young men did everything they're supposed to, and its not enough. Indicates its NOT their fault, rather it shows theres a real problem of YOUNG FEMALE RADICALIZATIONAlot of these things are just bare minimum expectations. Exactly! You don’t spent thousands of years treating women like subhuman other NPCs only good for breeding and serving you then expect praise for being slightly less terrible in the past 50 years. You shouldn’t have been treating half the population like that in the first place. This is what I mean when I say there’s no such thing as “good men”, just men benefitting from appearing less bad in comparison to other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 08:42 AM |
| 4 | women hate “choose better” because they dont like the responsibility of when their choices go bad. And it only applies to them.That traditional infrastructure where women and girls were traded like cattle to be trapped as breeders and punching bags was totally about protecting women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 04:38 PM |
| – | women hate “choose better” because they dont like the responsibility of when their choices go bad. And it only applies to them.Are you implying that women are born knowing how to navigate life and interactions with men?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Redpill is the result negative result of a society not having enough masculine role models.A whole lot of grown men idolize Patrick Bateman and Jordan Belfort unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Men in general unable to tale criticism.Women and children have to constantly walk on egg shells around men’s egos. Straight men are crashing out now that there’s a beauty standard being imposed on because they can’t look like Peter Griffin or Homer Simpson and have the audacity to speak women’s looks anymore when unattractive or fat woman still puts way more effort into their appearance compared to unattractive or fat men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 02:33 PM |
| 5 | Glorification of step dads is harmful to societyRed pillers’ affinity for purposefully misinterpreting statistics and twisting facts to fit their “women bad” narrative is amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 09:22 AM |
| 11 | Female hypergamy is not only alive but thriving.Tell that to the 37+ year old men on here still deluding themselves thinking that 20 something year old women want them while simultaneously complaining about how those women won’t match with them on dating apps and/or give them the cold shoulder when they try to approach irl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 11:12 AM |
| -1 | Why do men accuse women of having high standards, then the same men proceed to shame women for marrying guys they aren't attracted to?It’s not my fault Tess Holiday still gets model jobs regardless of her weight meanwhile you can’t get a woman to look in your general direction. Maybe you should work on your appearance instead of worrying about a woman you’ll never have the opportunity to be in the same room with or have the balls tell her that to her face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 10:50 AM |
| 12 | Why do men accuse women of having high standards, then the same men proceed to shame women for marrying guys they aren't attracted to?They want us to settle for men we aren’t attracted to and pretend like we’re attracted to them for the sake of their egos or else they start complaining about “withholding sex” (which isn’t real because you’re not entitled to anyone’s body point blank period) and dead bedrooms when they refuse to pull their weight in the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 12:28 AM |
| 13 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.That’s fine. We’re still not lowering our standards for you though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:14 PM |
| 4 | Men need their own way out of romantic dependencyIt’s always been a projection to scare and shame women into pairing up with them. It’s mostlu red pill and red pill adjacent men who use this tactic now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 04:48 PM |
| 6 | I don't understand redpill for woman.Reading through the thread it seems like they view themselves as inherently inferior to men due being raising in an extremely patriarchial environments and are too afraid to not give into male nature and explore the fact they’re autonomous beings not made to service men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 11:47 PM |
| 6 | “Men would love to be sexually objectified”We didn’t “get over” it. We’re traumatized and tired of it because we’ve had to deal with being sexually objectified and harassed starting at ages 11-12 by boys our age and men old enough to be our grandfathers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 09:26 PM |
| 4 | People shouldn't pity men for their unrealistic expectationsI’m extremely allergic to cats yet walking around my apartment in an N95 mask with a bunch of cats for the rest of my life still sounds like a happier life than lowering my standards just to partner with a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Men (and society) want tangible value from women but are mad that women want tangible value tooWomen will never sexually desire men on the same level that men sexually desire women because it’s biologically risky for us. If you and other men want to carry on thinking male sexuality is the default then you all are welcome to start pursue men because the more women wake up, the more opt out of hookup culture and other structures that only center male sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 01:42 AM |
| 5 | Redpillers are rude and that's why women here are unsympatheticThis is why I never respond to red pillers who reply to my posts (on top their takes being nonsense). This sub is the most interaction they can get from women for free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 06:22 PM |
| -1 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseAnd there a man goes again only wanting to bring up male issues when women are speaking about female issues. I would love for you to pull up the statistics on male vs female predators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 03:07 PM |
| -2 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseIf only 3% of men are responsible for the crimes and harassment against women that means at least 90% of the remaining men are inactive bystanders, victim blamers or actively encourage other men’s predatory behavior <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 11:25 AM |
| 2 | The phenomenon of passport bros is natural selection at workI don’t think you know what natural selection means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 06:16 PM |
| -4 | We agree alot with each other, but for some reason men are wrong for saying it.And here men again only pretending to care about male issues with women are speaking female issues. Since you brought it up I would love for you to pull up the stats on how many grown men vs grown women prey on minors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 02:17 PM |
| -3 | We agree alot with each other, but for some reason men are wrong for saying it.The crazy part is that it’s usually a grown men impregnating underage girls not underage boys but no one wants to address how heavily pedophilia is connected to teen pregnancy. All the blame falls on the underage girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 09:27 AM |
| 4 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.Because most of you become outright terrible or passively terrible people past like the age of 12 and providing provisions are the only thing you can use to convince a girl or woman to be around you. Patriarchy has allowed this version of male nature to flourish by stripping human’s natural mate choosers’ (female sexual selection) rights for thousands of years. Now that natural mate selection is returning its interesting watching men crash out at the fact that they can’t get a girlfriend or wife… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 08:36 AM |
| 3 | It seems hard for men to do some introspection.Yeah I did. You don’t meet the bare minimum standards of what women want so you want us to convince other women to lower their standards so you can have a shot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 07:32 PM |
| -2 | It seems hard for men to do some introspection.Have you heard any woman say this irl or are you taking that meme song made from that one girl’s tiktok about looking for a 6’5 finance guy with blue eyes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 05:35 PM |
| 7 | It seems hard for men to do some introspection.Why would we want other women to lower their standards just so more men can have the chance to disappoint us? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 05:31 PM |
| 9 | Men don't understand that not only women compare them with each other, but they also have fixed standards.It’s because a lot of men would rather hear you say you left him for other man than to be alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Men don't understand that not only women compare them with each other, but they also have fixed standards.Yeah and I hope more women learn that their standards and boundaries should be non-negotiable because that’s how men move with their standards. I never want to hear that a woman fell for the good old “give him a chance” ever again lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 09:46 AM |
| – | Men don't understand that not only women compare them with each other, but they also have fixed standards.Most men substract from a woman’s qualify of life instead of adding to it. Women have been gaslit into compromising the peace they have when they’re alone, their self love and goals just to fit the societal expectation that having a boyfriend/husband in the end all be all for a woman’s life but I’m happy that began changing with millennial women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 09:21 AM |
| 6 | Men are panicking more about being unmarried and childless than womenYup. They don’t care that their aging sperm and poor health habits are the major factor contributing to women have such horrible pregnancy experiences like miscarriage, gestational diabetes, preeclampysia, etc. and refuse to acknowledge the part they play in children being born with autism and ADHD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 08:31 PM |
| 5 | Men are panicking more about being unmarried and childless than womenMen do have a biological deadline. There’s a reason no sperm bank accepts donations from men over 39. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 08:26 PM |
| 0 | It would be easier to focus on the type of women you want rather than getting upset you cant succeed with most women.People mostly date and marry within their socioeconomic standing. A woman is $10-30k is living in abject poverty and not in the same spaces as anymore making an above average salary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 08:41 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled?Because it’s all reactionary bs you guys like blame women for because yall are too pussy to confront the male politicians and male billionaires who write and enforce those laws. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 08:58 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled?MRAs are just losers throwing a hissy fit because the cycle of enslaved female bangmaids promised to them by their forefathers has been broken by women having choices outside of being solely dependent on and subjected to a man’s whims for housing and food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 08:32 PM |
| 5 | Sex isn't a "need". Men just want to have sex because it'll give them status among other men.I was only on birth control from age 22 to 26 and it sounds you might be the one who needs to get your hormones tested. Most women would still have much lower libidos than men even if birth control never existed because we biologically can’t afford to be like that. You sound like those female athletes who take testosterone. Most of my friends and I were not on birth control until are 20s and we weren’t anywhere near as horny as boys during that time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 10:23 AM |
| 16 | Do you think women's aversion of helping men in the dating/sexual context is biological or societal?Cap. Most men are homosocial and only go for women they think will impress other men while social media stalking, cheating and watching porn with the kind of women he’s actually attracted to. Very few men are individualistic enough and have the means to go after the women they really want opinions be damned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 10:05 AM |
| -4 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.Broke man diary entry 🎻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 10:20 AM |
| 7 | Do you understand what men mean when men say that the risk is not worth the reward, in reference to women today, and approaching women, and being in relationships with women?Women who aren’t naive have long since realized there was never any “good” men. So call “good” men rely on men who behave in worse way possible to make their own horrible behaviors seem less bad by comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 06:10 PM |
| 4 | Would you enter a relationship your ideal male partner if you could never have sex again?Yes. Sex is not a need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 08:09 AM |
| 3 | Question for women who believe watching porn in a relationship is tantamount to cheating, which of these following do you also consider cheating? Why/why not?Porn and erotic romance books are not equivalent. Erotica books involve fictional characters in fictional settings. Porn invovled real life people, most of whom being women and children who were groomed, coercised and trafficked. Even if it’s AI it’s using the likeness of real people to generate that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 03:41 PM |
| 9 | Young women (18-24) dont want older men 35+I think it’s combo of jealousy and them trying to keep more women in their dating pool. An attractive lower class woman can get a man to invest in her education. This upgrades her professional and social opportunities and now that’s one less woman willing to be a SAHM of 3 at 25 years old who wakes up at 3 am everday to make her blue collar husband’s lunch or having to work and pay half the bills while still being expected to do the work of a lower class SAHM. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 05:24 PM |
| 15 | Men’s social skills are far better than women on average. The only reason it seems women have better social skills is because society is set up to cater to women.Men have such better social skills than women that you can’t even tell us what year any of your “friends” were born let alone anything else about them but some how you guys know “he would never abuse or rape a woman” or act genuinely surprised when one of them is found to have taken their own life after months of radio silence and you not bothering to send a single check up text. Most male “friendships” never evolve past the parallel play stage of toddlers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Why has their been such as rise in Forever Alone Women over the past 5 years?Because 53 year olds are totally known to be on the up and up about celebrities news | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 03:36 AM |
| 14 | Why has their been such as rise in Forever Alone Women over the past 5 years?Brad Pitt has proven himself to be abusive and most of his kids have dropped his last name. Why would we care if still looked like his younger self? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 01:28 PM |
| 3 | A red-pill man and a woman on an ISOLATED ISLAND: who would be the better man?Because men seldom want the women who wants the same thing as them. They gain statisfaction from coercising and manipulating women into lowering their boundaries and standards to be with him. They’ll only want sex but repeatedly go after and try to bend the women who only have sex in a commited relationship instead of the women who also just want casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 11:19 AM |
| -4 | It’s hypocritical to be against FGM but not care about circumcisionMost men don’t bathe properly, especially when it comes to their dick, balls and between their ass cheeks. Being uncircumsized would just worse already poor hygiene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Women are the ones red pilling menMost women these days have no interest in dating or marrying men and are instead focusing on their education, work and friends. Meanwhile men are falling behind in damn near single metric and the only thing you guys can think of is to blame women, try to take away our rights and devalue our accomplishments in a desperate attempt to make us dependent on men again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Women are the ones red pilling menYet average and below average men have no problem glazing and defending the fuck out of rich men like Elon Musk and the red pill “gurus” who grift off making you miserable while telling you women are the source of all your problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 07:05 PM |
| – | fat women are hypocritesPickmeisha alert | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 10:13 PM |
| – | fat women are hypocritesHow are they hypocritics when there’s large sections of the gym bro type and skinny men who exclusively only like thicker women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Women's biggest blind spot is other womenI’m not a pickme so I can’t help you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Women's biggest blind spot is other womenExcept the fact there’s far more good women than good men in this world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Women's biggest blind spot is other womenBecause women hating each other and centering men benefits them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 06:02 PM |
| 8 | Women need to embrace, modernity all the way.Women have embraced modernity which is why most of us want to remain single and live alone only with other women. Men have spent the last couple thousands of years keeping women enslaved and dependent on you guys because on a biological level men have always desired women more than the other way around point blank period. The majority men bring nothing but stress and nervous system disruption into our lives. There’s no reason to deal with a man if he isn’t making my life easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 03:09 PM |
| – | What's the point of a penis if doing oral on it is considered coercive and misogynistic?Most men don’t bathe properly especially when it comes to their dicks and between their ass cheeks because that’s “gay”. Why would I want to put my mouth on that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 03:01 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentDon’t forget we can also create sperm derived from women’s bone marrow to conceive. Having my own clone sounds kinda cool! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 08:29 PM |
| 8 | The average hour of an American wife's extra "unpaid labor" is compensated at a rate comparable to the services of a cybersecurity engineer.Exactly. It makes more sense for a woman to focus on her education, making as money as she can, invest in her social network then go to a sperm bank if she wants children and get a live in nanny. There’ll be no filthy house and nagging husband complaining about her body and her not being ready for sex while having to take care of a baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Married men may not have a choice but to leave for younger women.Speaking as a young woman we don’t want your old asses. If even your wife doesn’t want you anymore why would we? We stopped falling for that “older women are just jealous and bitter” rhetoric quite some time ago. The overwhelming majority of men over 35 have nothing to offer but a mediocre salary, beer belly, ED and shit ton of kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 06:34 PM |
| 8 | To the women who think men only want sex. Did you ever think to just let us fuck🤔??I don’t donate to charity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 12:25 AM |
| 7 | Would you be a Single FatherThey’ll promptly hand the children to their mother, sister or quickly get a new girlfriend/wife to fully raise them and claim single fathers are better parents than single mothers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 10:00 PM |
| 3 | What do you actually mean when you say 90-95% of men are unattractive?Finding a man “attractive” and “being attracted to” him are two different things that men seem to not understand. I can acknowledge when a guy is good looking but it doesn’t go anywhere past that and doesn’t mean I’m attracted to him. Actually interacting with him is when I determine if I’m attracted to him or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 10:31 PM |
| 5 | Q4women would you date a trans guy?No to both questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 10:24 PM |
| 4 | cmv: Woman are naturally hypergamous, and society is structured in such a way to subvert this natural state with laws that benefit men and woman, or, Remember the WalrusAnd they’ll still argue with you that women are naturally attracted to older men lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 01:41 PM |
| 2 | It's better to be the mistress than the wifeThis is just the Madonna-whore complex which degrades both “types” of women. It’s in womens’ best interest to be neither, develop self confidence/love and leave men alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 01:37 PM |
| 1 | No one hates independent women, you are just arrogant and obnoxiousThis post reeks of insecure maleness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 04:57 PM |
| 3 | High value men mostly end up with high value womenThe 34 yr old high IQ high earning lawyer is statistically more likely to get married to a man matching or above her status than the hot barista is to get married to any man period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 11:09 PM |
| 7 | High value men mostly end up with high value womenI wouldn't consider you having Master's degree and him having two PhDs a large educational gap. You're both considered highly educated considering most people don't even have a Bachelor's degree let alone a Master's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 07:58 PM |
| 28 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.They haven’t realized that more and more young women like myself are finally starting to listen to older women about the games and scare tactics men use to coerce us into choosing them while we’re too young and naive to know what we’re getting into. They’re still desperately clinging to fertility myths with made up statistics about women over 35 in an attempt to fear monger us into chasing them while ignoring their own fertility clock just because they still produce sperm as old farts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 12:29 AM |
| 6 | There should be female only draft.The draft was invented precisely to get rid of surplus men like you who spend all their time making up stupid revenge porn scenarios against women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 03:09 PM |
| – | Every single women in the World, can be dated without applying money or status if you are "that guy" to her. Money and Status is ONLY needed, if a Women doesnt like you FULLY.Happy to know you’re keeping your bum off the streets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 03:30 PM |
| – | Every single women in the World, can be dated without applying money or status if you are "that guy" to her. Money and Status is ONLY needed, if a Women doesnt like you FULLY.Would love to see how that works out in 10 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 01:24 PM |
| – | Every single women in the World, can be dated without applying money or status if you are "that guy" to her. Money and Status is ONLY needed, if a Women doesnt like you FULLY.So you’re attracted to bums? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 08:46 AM |
| 11 | There's nothing inherently wrong with one way monogamyPickmeism is a mental illness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 10:09 AM |
| 0 | Do you offer to pay for your own food and drinks in the early stages of dating?No because I don’t and will never approach or ask a man out first. The person who initiates pays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 07:20 PM |
| 3 | What's your reasoning that you can actually say something to the dating life of a young men?What is your source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 11:08 AM |
| 6 | What's your reasoning that you can actually say something to the dating life of a young men?Most women aren’t influencers and have their social media pages set to private so only people in their circle and others they meet through their circle know what they’re posting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 11:05 AM |
| 7 | What's your reasoning that you can actually say something to the dating life of a young men?Most people still meet their spouse through people they know irl. OLD is where men go to look for free prostitutes. There’s a reason most women don’t use it and why men are stuck swiping on the same small group of women who either just want casual sex like them (but then they complain about these women’s body counts) or naively believe men are on their looking for a relationship/marriage like she is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 09:00 AM |
| 2 | Men are the prize.Children born to fathers of advanced paternal age (>35 years old) are more likely to be premature, have low birth weights, be put into the NICU and have an increase likelihood of being born with neurological disorders as well as developing certain cancers. Women who are impregnated by older men are more likely to develop gestational diabetes, preeclampsia and a string if postnatal lifelong health problems because the placenta is built mostly from the father’s DNA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 04:11 AM |
| 12 | Question for Women: How does female social hierarchy work for you?Hierarchy is mostly a male socialization thing. In female friend groups, teams, clubs, etc. the person who’s the best at something won’t be pedestalized or necessarily be the most popular like you see with men. Most of “hierarchial” nonsense with girls tend occur when they’re in middle/high school and very young adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 02:31 AM |
| 4 | Men are the prize.Men’s sperm quality starts declining around the age of 35 which why the age limit for donors at sperm banks is 40. The overwhelming majority of women prefer men within 5 years older than them when they say they like older men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 01:40 AM |
| 0 | What do you value?Option 1 or 2. Financially struggling men are the worst kind of people to be around. They always end up taking it out on the woman they’re with. Romantic love/“the spark” is a manipulation tactic created by men plus my friends and family members to emotionally fulfill me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 10:40 AM |
| 6 | Many dont refuse OLD Points not because its "something different" they refuse it becouse its shows the unfiltered truthI’ve noticed their new buzz phrase is “women need to take accountability”. They’re attempting to make the word punish synonymous with accountability. They want women to be punished for being able to make their own choices, especially for not choosing them, and women to be responsible for all of men’s faults and problems that men cause for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women are the fairer sex?Most American men are not muscular men being classified as overweight because of their BMI lol. They’re overweight with excess visceral fat because they have the same shitty eating habits as women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 12:52 AM |
| 5 | Do you think women are the fairer sex?The majority of American men are also overweight so what is your excuse for them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Most Women Sell Themselves ShortI whole heartly agree op. And we’re expected to all of that for free for our entire lives just because some guy says some flowerly words and “romance” (Which isn’t real either. It was by poor medieval knights to gain easy access to women’s sexuality but they had nothing tangible to offer). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Women only gyms need to be normalized so that we don’t have to deal with being stared at, harassed or catcalled while trying to workout🙄🙄We need women only sidewalks and roads if it’s possible tbh. It’s a miracle if I run errands around my neighbor or simple walk down the street and don’t get my ass stared down, honked at and scrote #10 slowing his car down to follow me and try to talk to me while I’m walking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 07:32 PM |
| 4 | HVM in media done right, David is a HVM and all the rest, in my opinion, LVMPrince Naveen is not a HVM. The Princess and Frog still pisses me off as a black women to this day for how they portrayed Tiana. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:01 PM |
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