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There are very few men in my life I haven't had sex with at some point or another. Sex is sex, it is whatever you want it to be. I can easily have sex with someone and go back to acting like it never happened in the first place. It's easy for me. Honestly it's easier for me to get the sex over with if they want it from me than for me to deny them. Makes things better in a way. Unless I have to cut them off for whatever reason. And generally cutting them off after sex makes sense to me. They got …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 09:36 PM
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I don't think you know what the Madonna-Whore complex actually is...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 09:14 PM
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Yes, there are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 08:34 PM
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And that's amazing and I am really happy for you! We need more of that! It's seen as rare where I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 08:28 PM
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Dudes chase me around like crazy. I still have men calling me from time to time I went to school with. Or fucked once at some point or another. Hell, the bar manager at a bar i go to is an old follower of mine from my early content days years back. Had no idea it was the same guy til he made himself known. Now I get in that bar like a vip and so do my friends. It pays to fuck guys for funzies, pity or whatever reason I did at the time. Dudes that have been married to a woman that hates me, still…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 08:07 PM
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Sounds like the people i hang around for work these days. Kindness is seen as so rare where I am that the select few people I hang around are judged and tormented about it same as I am. Constantly taken advantage of and used and abused for our love, kindness, generosity and resources. It's excruciating. And yet we still do it and continue to give anyway. I love that this is what your experiences are and that you're finding such good dudes to hang with. More of this needs to be had 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 08:04 PM
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All the time. I like to give them my attention and then watch me live rent free forever in their heads while they wish they had me. I make it pretty known.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 07:27 PM
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About how this is a normal thing for you to experience. I mean, I pretty much hang out with guys that are near identical to me in personality, yet are men where I am a woman. I've never heard of this being a regular day to day part of the culture somewhere else. That's how it used to be here. Southern hospitality and the southern charm and kindness and respect and you made me miss those days. These days it's like everyone is out for themselves and forgets that it's free and costs nothing to be k…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 07:26 PM
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Damn, I wish that were the norm everywhere like it used to be. Instead of it being rare. I miss seeing things like that. It's so rare nowadays where I am. I'm one of the only ones who engages in chivalry naturally as a part of my personality traits. This is fascinating. Tell me more 👀👀👀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 07:18 PM
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As someone who has men obsessed with her... Any other man isn't worth paying attention to when you've experienced a man who would literally alter everything in the world in order to be with you. It's powerful. And feels... Freeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 03:59 PM
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Consent first. Then the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 02:49 AM
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You're cute 😍 ☺️ Yeah, I enjoy it as a pastime. Especially when bored and winding down. Have a good one 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 06:17 AM
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No, because it confuses you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 06:15 AM
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I'm having fun 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 06:14 AM
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That's what it wants you to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 06:11 AM
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Sigh. The Ego is what separates us, dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 06:10 AM
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This is where you are proving the inability to comprehend what knowledge I have. Good day to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 06:05 AM
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Yeah, and sometimes I wish I didn't know what I know. However, I am also happy I do. Even if it means being one of the few who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 10:46 PM
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Neither do I. I only know what I know when I know it and it's hard to explain the majority of what I know to be true. I know "too much" and they've been watching me most of my life. As have they the few like me or similar to me. Continue on with your theories and remember knowledge is power. The more you know, the better. Though, the more isolating it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 10:19 PM
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The 13 families are the ones collecting all of the data and own the planet. The other elites do their dirty work for them and so on and so forth. Being off grid is the only way. Hence why I only say certain things in certain settings. And I dont broadcast much online besides bits and pieces. And leave it up for interpretation until we physically meet and I can relay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 10:13 PM
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That's fine. Though, again. There is still only so much I can say. They monitor everything. Including your screen. If you don't think they are watching, you're wrong. And I didn't say the gov, though that is part of it. There are higher powers at play here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 10:04 PM
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It's not about information i sell. It's about information i have that could get me in a lot of trouble with the powers at be. I cannot expose what I know publicly. It would be too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 09:59 PM
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No, I'm again, not willing to do that publicly. Privately, I'd be happy to. However, that would require us to meet in person and i don't think either of us is willing to do that. I have people in my day to day life that are open to this and are currently experiencing it in their lives as a result of us meeting. It is not something I am willing to fully openly talk about. There are far too many avenues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 09:58 PM
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Not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 09:51 PM
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My lived experience is actually proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 09:50 PM
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Still missing the point. You have part of it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 09:42 PM
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That's the thing masculinity, isn't something that needs to be justified. That's literally the whole point that I would try to make with this. When it comes to anything that I have to say. A masculine man knows how to hold steady, even when the world around him is crashing and crumbling. A masculine man knows how to hold his. Weight and the weight of his brothers without breaking. A masculine man is not fragile, nor is he easily. Swayed with words, actions or behaviors that are out of his contro…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:28 PM
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Go for it. Nothing is stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:24 PM
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I've already said too much as it is...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:23 PM
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There is no justification to why men should believe in it. That's the point.. They shouldn't take anyone else's definition over anyone. Else's, because that's literally not the point either. It goes against everything that I would say. If you were in the room with me. And that's the thing I can't say any of this publicly. It has to be privately or have all of you guys in the same room with each other with me. In person. It's not something that can be relayed over text. It's only something that c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:23 PM
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I am an arbiter of truth. And I have secrets that you wouldn't believe. Which is exactly why I am saying? I have to stop right now. And why I say that I get paid to talk about these things in private.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:22 PM
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I'm refusing to speak further on my claims. Because it is dangerous for literally. Everyone involved. I don't want to be j. F. K'd.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:19 PM
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No, I stated what I stated and said i am not willing to discuss further. You can do that in debates. That's part of healthy debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:17 PM
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My perspective is only worthless to men that don't want to understand or comprehend anything else. Besides whatever it is that, they already think that they know. Which is exactly a big, massive part of why it is not worth me stating, most, especially on a public forum. I get paid for this in private with people that actually listen and are receptive to what I have to say. And are ready for the information because they are ready to have their redemption arcs...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:16 PM
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No. That's far from the point. I'm not willing to go in depth about any of this. It's too risky for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:15 PM
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Don't care, Don't even know who they are. As I said, not willing to state it online. I have too many eyes on me for that. And I want to make it past 35, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:15 PM
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I get paid to teach this to men as a part of my package deal. And those are men that are receptive and actually willing to listen. The ones here are less likely. And I'm not willing to make this public information either. I have too many eyes on me for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:09 PM
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This is what I mean. Not worth explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:05 PM
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Far more than what they want you to think it is. Real men serve their creators. Instead of continuing to enforce their creators to be their slaves. That's not even the half of it though. And it's not worth trying to talk about when it falls on deaf ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:02 PM
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Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 07:36 PM
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3D is the physical... We are talking about energies here. If the only way you see masculine and feminine is by the physical representation alone... Nothing I say to you will make any sense at all. Literally. You're not going to grasp it. And it's going to feel like pulling teeth to me to try and explain it to you. Here is a link. This will get to the basics of what I am talking about. energies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 07:34 PM
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You're missing the point by saying that.... I'm talking about energies, at a soul level. Every human being is both masculine and feminine simultaneously. Regardless of their physical form. The soul is still one in the same. This has nothing to do with the 3 dimensional world. What you identify as masculine or feminine in a physical language is different than that of the language of the eternal soul within each temporary meat suit we wear each life time. I can put it in an easier frame for you to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 06:48 PM
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Yin and yang energies are in Chinese culture primarily. Then there are the divine feminine and divine masculine energies in Indian and other cultures as well. That date back to ancient Egypt
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 06:33 PM
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Lived experiences, the countless conversations I've had with men from all walks of life and other countries even though I've only lived in one city. Having tourists is brilliant for expanding one's knowledge base and overall comprehension of human behavior. The evidence is literally everywhere. It's so obvious it hurts. And is invisible to those who miss the obvious. I know more than the average person. And the things I could tell you are things that people tend not to believe until it's too lat…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 06:31 PM
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None of y'all are really taught what being a man really is or means. You're taught how not to be a woman or perceived as feminine. Which is the dumbest shit ever. Considering every living being has both masculine and feminine energies. Yin and yang. We need both. Healthy masculinity and healthy femininity go hand in hand. And the most masculine men are the ones in touch with their femininity. The most feminine women are the ones in touch with their masculinity. Balance is necessary and most neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:01 PM
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Men tend to freak the fuck out. They become a possum or a deer in headlights. Complete and utter shock. It's cute. I like blowing their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 09:24 PM
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Yeah.... It is. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 10:23 AM
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It's a grueling and time consuming process. I would also have to set a whole day for it. Takes up to 6 months. Greece is one of the first places I'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 10:15 AM
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I still need to get a passport so I can see other countries. Even though austin has changed a lot, you can still find the weird and the underground. Best place to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 10:09 AM
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Nice, it's a beautiful city. And the only city I would actually live in full time. Every other place I've been in the country isn't quite as diverse and liberating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 10:06 AM
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Yeah, of course. Music capital of the world and a beacon. Born and raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 09:59 AM
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I am, I've been told I am all that you need to know about Austin in one person. Called an enigma, anomaly, freak of nature, force of nature... Among other things. I'm myself and that's all I ever want to be. Thank you 😅💘
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 09:49 AM
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Not silly at all. Thank you for asking. For the record, I'm metacognitive and a super empath. Among other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 02:11 AM
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Another thing I will say.... I get to have fun. Enjoy life. Experience luxuries I wouldn't be otherwise. I also get to help these men raise the bar for themselves. Get higher standards, I am their muse for them to grow and evolve and become the men I know they are capable of becoming. A lot of them have been losing weight, going to the gym, eating better, making healthier decisions, cutting back on vices, learning to love themselves more and actually value themselves. I'm giving them what they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 10:40 PM
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I am not in it for the money. I literally am not in it for the money at all. I am here for the men. What do I get out of it? Showing them what it means to be truly seen, valued and cherished for who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 10:09 PM
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Only if the companion consents to it outside of payment. Different from prostitutes where they consent to the money over the person. So if they're not paid, it's considered rape. Escorts are primarily hired for their company as a whole. Not specifically for sex. They do have sex. It's not 100% every time though. A lot of my guys need to see me a few times and develop a connection first before they feel safe and comfortable enough to get naked with me. They're so nervous, embarrassed and insecure…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 09:35 PM
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It's funny. They literally are companions for men. They're hired to exist with the man who hires them. They go to dinners, parties, events, weekend getaways, travel companions, you name it. An escort is... An Emotional Support Companion. It's in the name.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 08:35 PM
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This is my dream job. Ever since I was a teenager I wanted to know what it would be like to make thousands of dollars to exist in a room as a High End Escort. The idea of being paid the price of my mustang ($30K) simply to exist in a room full of wealthy people and so on? Yeah. Sign me the fuck up. Well, I am a High End Escort as mid-tier level rates. Because I want to make sure the "little guys" can still see me as well. And honestly, the rich dudes don't seem to pass my process and bail out of…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:37 PM
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Yeah, I get asked questions all the time. My profile even makes it known that I am here for advice, or anything that anyone may need. As long as they can remember to value my time. Because every second of my life is really important. When time is money, and I get paid for my time as a whole, it makes things tricky. Every second matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:12 PM
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I have seen, heard and been privvy to a lot of creepy and horrific shit. Not much sways me these days. Dudes are disgusting and aay the nastiest shit to us. And also, as an escort. I am a companion first and foremost. So I operate differently than any other kind of sex worker may. Prostitutes and Dommes operate differently than escorts do for example. It's not a one size fits all. You're welcome to ask me anything you'd like. I'll do what I can to answer you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:02 PM
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I'm an Escort. I primarily work with neurodivergent men and male DV victims. They're amazing for the most part. Only have a couple of problems with some. And this one I was talking about here is not going to be able to see me again. He fucked it up for himself. Ah well. Gives me more time to focus on who actually deserves my support.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:36 PM
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Yes!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 12:39 AM
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A client of mine struggles with ED so much, he had to use a pocket pussy and press the tip in to get to the big "finish". They can request a wide array of things from me and for the most part I will allow it and engage in what they're asking for. Whatever helps them get to their happy place and whatnot. I have a few cock and ball vibrators that hug around the sack and one has an end piece that goes into the butthole to stimulate the p spot. They love it. My partner has a fun time with it as well…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:01 PM
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Right? Like, we tend to use other toys...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:29 PM
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Only time I use dildos is when I am topping someone or pegging someone. I'm a dominant leaning switch. And I let my submissives choose their toys for me to utilize with them. I personally have a very nice vibrator. It's really the only thing that I use unless I am using my toys with another partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:59 PM
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I'm wondering this as well....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:55 PM
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Uhm, yeah. Just about. People have a tendency to tell me their life story right off the bat. Apparently, I just have that energy about me. Where people automatically know that they are safe and secure and able to be vulnerable with me. It's also what I get paid for. I know things people tend to take to their Graves. It astonishes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:31 PM
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May sound silly. Watch the notebook. Maybe that will somewhat explain how things got this way. It's always a battle between "love" and "money". Fucking foolish concept for the twenty first century.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:26 PM
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No, that's absurd. And it doesn't stand here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:16 PM
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I've almost met death's door by the hands of the father of my eldest child. I would rather have never experienced all of what I've endured. Most of my sexual experiences with men have been unpleasant, potentially fatal and soul crushing. I love the way my life is now and all of the dreams I am making come true. Oh... and that's with fully informed, enthusiastic consent. I don't know how many times I've been told how rare I am and that they wish there were more people like me. I would love to mee…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:16 PM
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No shit Sherlock... /s Obviously that is the case. If only they could prove it in court beyond a reasonable doubt. That's really hard to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:48 AM
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Yes. Spermicidal abuse is rape
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 09:33 AM
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Spermicidal abuse. That's what that is called.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 07:07 AM
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If they were outright forced to have sex minus a condom, then yes, I would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 07:00 AM
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Full transparency is required in order to give informed consent and therefore enthusiastic consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:51 AM
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Anytime! I love giving them out!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:42 AM
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It's immoral, you'd think that would matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:38 AM
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It falls within the umbrella
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:05 AM
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I'm a professional companion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:01 AM
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For the record, it's not like dudes tell us they're married or partnered. We don't know until much later usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 05:57 PM
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Had a dude get into my car and have me drive us to a hotel. That was so odd. He was a tourist, English being a second language, he could barely make sense of things. I dropped him off at the hotel, would rather not go into detail about it. Was a really weird experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 01:46 PM
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Dude... Been there. It's ridiculous having to do the most obscene shit at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 01:41 PM
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As is anyone else. I don't see the point in joining something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:34 PM
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They tend to and then they get removed pretty quickly after if they're caught. I've watched every single one of them for years. I know who is who thankfully. It's rare that a non-predator type is around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:29 PM
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Why would i want advice on dating or casual sex? I've had sex with more than my fair share of people. And I don't need advice on how to approach people. I get paid to spend time with men for a living. I just get nostalgic at times and wonder if I'm missing anything in the civvy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:17 PM
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It doesn't work at all it seems. Nothing I have done seems to have made a man i am interested in actually interested back. Theres no point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:09 PM
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What if you don't want to have to get away though? Most of my experiences are in the bar. And I practically live at that bar as a second home. Me and the bar staff are tight. Why can't dudes take no for an answer and not get violent about it? Especially in public. I've watched men make threats at women downtown for declining them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:08 PM
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Didn't know there was such a thing like that, babe
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:58 PM
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I generally start by complimenting something they're wearing and stir up a small conversation and then slowly lead to what it is I am after.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:37 PM
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As in more than 80% of my sexual experiences with men prior to the year 2024 were non-consensual encounters. I would like that number to balance out. To where I have more consensual encounters versus non-consensual. That would be a dream come true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:36 PM
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In my personal experience with men, I have very little consensual experience with them. So... There.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:02 PM
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Okay. For the record.... 100% of the men I've approached have rejected me. I've been told it's primarily because they think I'm joking or that someone set me up to do it. It sucks. Like, I'm not even asking for a date most of the time. I'm straight up asking to fuck. For whatever reason under the sun though... I barely hang at an event and I get attention almost instantly that is unwanted and unnecessary. I don't get it. When I want to say hello or am DTF... The answer is met with No and a scoff…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:01 PM
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Because then it would be... "Why didn't you pick better? Make sure you choose better next time!" At this rate, there won't be a next time. If they could handle their emotions better, maybe...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:20 PM
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Omg yes! Literally yes! If anything it makes them more likely to be predatory or something. Since we are approaching them. It's like prey walking up to its natural predator waiting to be sacrificed... Fuck that. Actually yeah, seriously. Fuck that. I am not gonna walk up to some random dude I may find interesting because of that right there. Nope. Nope nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:16 PM
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Considering how extremely difficult it is to choose a decent, good or upstanding man... Yeah, picking the men we want isn't much of a benefit. Especially these days, seeing as the majority aren't worth taking the chance/risk on. If things were different and we knew without a reasonable doubt that the men of choice were actually worth taking a chance on... Maybe. Kinda of getting to a point where the good guys are so rare, there isn't even a point in trying to find them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:10 PM
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This doesn't happen much for me. There's no change, really. I move on and continue my life as though nothing ever happened or changed. Because it didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:53 AM
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Yeah, there's gotta be something going on if this is a consistent pattern happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 08:18 PM
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The relationship is fully open. If they wanted to, they could fuck whoever, date whoever. Do whatever. They don't want to. Even after I've asked and pushed a few times. They do not have interest in pursuing other women. Then again, they don't value sex the way other men seem to. Sex is like, the least of their concerns and priorities. The correct term is polyandrous. Technically. We have a kitchen table polycule though. Gotta be able to all sit at the same table for dinner with the kids. Our rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:41 AM
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My husband and live-in are both devoted to me and genuinely have little to no interest in pursuing other women. They're too busy taking care of me and our kids. Also, they don't have the capacity to handle more than me and genuinely don't want to out effort into other relationships. Women are a lot of work and they're not really willing to have others outside of me. I am plenty enough woman for the both of them. My husband and I have had girlfriends before though. And I recently had my companion…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:22 AM
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Having spoken with several people about something like this already, due to the probability of them suing, it's not really worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:21 PM
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Thankfully. That's a rarity though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 06:23 PM
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Because they don't seem to really have anything to do with "mingling" and public socialization. You go to the gym to work out, not socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:55 PM
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I love that for you!! I love my husband so much. And I am so happy you have a beautiful man too!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:54 PM
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See that's the thing... The gay bars here were considered the refuge for the women here. Now, there isn't a single place women can go where they don't run the risk of being harmed. It's fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:54 PM
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They've tried that actually. The businesses tend to get sued for not being "gender inclusive"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:52 PM
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Tbh, I don't even approach anyone at this point due to wondering whether it will be received by them well. Last thing I want is someone to think I am preying on them. So I vibe out and do my thing and if someone says hello, I may say hello back. Maybe. I have a tattoo that is supposed to make it clear I am polyamorous and pansexual. It doesn't work as well as I had hoped. Tried to make it obvious how queer I am. If hetero ladies wanna dance in a group with their queer friends, I fully support th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:20 PM
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Keep it going!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:12 PM
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Doing what a lot of them do. Preying on women in any public space they possibly can. And they are getting a lot more bold about it too. Even when I have my guy with me, guys will grab and grope me IN FRONT OF HIM. It is so fucking annoying. We are not going dancing or clubbing to be preyed on. We wanna have fun and dance and enjoy the night. Not have to escape and run from guys all the time. It honestly is getting really old. I went out downtown last night with a friend I have visiting for the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:49 PM
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I have worked really hard to be the polar opposite of what my great grandma had to be. I live my life in spite of how she was forced to be. My great grandma was married at 17 to my great grandpa. She had 9 children. Did all of the traditional things a wife did back then. A real Madonna. Pure. Never did drugs. Never had an affair. She is a power house. 96 years old and kicking it like she's still in her 70s. This woman has surpassed the odds tenfold. I live my life in spite of all of what she end…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:39 PM
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We would have more peace if everyone lived in their truths and were fully authentic with themselves and the world around them. That, however, takes a lot of deep inner work among other things. And not many ever actually take the leap of faith into the journey. Authenticity is the most magnetic and attractive thing any person could possibly wear. It's what I am most attracted to myself. People's true selves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:24 PM
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Especially considering gay men are very likely to sexually harass any guy they set their eyes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:20 PM
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I mean I already strictly go to a gay bar. The bar manager is a client of mine and the entire staff knows who I am. So thankfully when predatory dudes come around, they're stopped before they even start if/when I catch them on their shit. I really really hate when the frat boys come in and disrupt the Bachelorette party girls or the sorority girls and then I have to get involved. It's a gay bar. A GAY BAR!! Women go to the gay bar to avoid being approached by hetero dudes. Not to be ganged up on…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:19 PM
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In my experience, neurodivergent/neurospicy guys are more in tune with their emotions and are generally more self-aware than a neurotypical person. Autism can actually help them read the room better and gain more awareness emotionally and within the self.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:26 PM
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Indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:09 PM
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I feel that and I'm glad you have found this for yourself. Edgar Allen Poe says, "Never to suffer, never to have been blessed."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:04 PM
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"Broken boys make broken toys" A friend of mine who is a really good artist drew a torn up, shredded teddy bear 🧸 to resemble this. I love broken, for I too am broken. It's nice to relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:40 PM
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There are plenty of prostitutes pretending to be escorts. I dread having worked with one of them... She was horrible to my clients. I actually have a decent bit of her old clients. Due to her horrendous behavior. They've bonded on it as relatable ground though. Women like her make the business that much harder to run. I'm literally a companion first. I get paid to exist in the room. Anything else is my choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:57 PM
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Again, tell me you have no idea what you're talking about without telling me you have no idea what you're talking about. Unless you've actually worked in the industry or have witnessed it firsthand over an extended period of time... i disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:01 PM
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There is a difference though. An escort offers emotional support and connection. Prostitutes only offer sexual services and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:48 PM
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That's your interpretation. That is not ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:34 PM
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Tell me you don't know what you're talking about without telling me you don't know what you're talking about. I know prositutes, I have a few as friends. They don't do half of the things I do. And charge less.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:31 PM
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Strictly only if and when I consent. Which is the opposite of prostitution seeing as most of them don't give consent. We spend time together and I decide what goes on. I am in control.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:28 PM
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I'm not a prostitute, never have been one, never will be one. I have standards, thank you. I'm a companion for hire. I get paid for my time and existence. Outside of the bedroom. The OF is for my fans, followers and clients to have something to look at. It's quite wholesome and goofy and really loving.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:00 PM
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I have more than a dozen different types orgasms. I have an average of 20-200 orgasms a day on a regular basis. Compulsive sexual behavior disorder is essentially a disorder that makes it hard to ever truly feel satiated at all. I am addicted to pleasure and pleasuring people. Like, I made a whole career out of it dude. For real. I've met plenty of people who are ace and LL. The majority I know are HL like myself. Nowhere to my level, thankfully. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. It took years to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:51 PM
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I'm a hypersexual woman with compulsive sexual behavior disorder. I could literally have sex 12 hours a day daily and I would still be insatiable as fuck. My partner is unable to keep up with me. And I haven't had as much sex over the last month and a half that I normally would. I feel very feral lately. It's frustrating. Also, most of the women I've dated and have had sex with all have high sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:35 PM
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It's a known fact that women have higher libidos.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:04 PM
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Look man... As a woman who has sex with her partner daily. Multiple times a day even... Like, I literally cannot keep my hands off of this man. He is delicious and I must devour him at every turn. Every chance I get. What in the ever loving what did I just read???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:35 PM
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The things that I tend to find attractive in men are seen as really odd and strange to other women it seems... I'm not really enticed by physical form unless the personality matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:23 PM
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He used to participate. And not necessarily. It's a man who thoroughly enjoys sharing his wife for his and her own gratification. It's been a wild experience. Among other things. With us living in different states, it makes it hard to do much of anything. And his family isn't a fan of me. For various reasons. It's a really long story. And it's honestly rather fucked up. We've been through a lot in our 8 years together. If it weren't for his family needing help around the small farm they have and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:37 AM
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Stag/vixen. Not cuck. I have been poly for 13 years. My husband was in an open marriage when we met. It was a whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:43 AM
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We live in different states. He's taking care of his dying grandma and raising our children as a stay at home parent. While I bring the money in to make our dreams a reality. He has very little interest in dating or sex as it is. It has been a journey. He is an incredible father. That's so important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:31 AM
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Many of them already do. I saw a couple of married men myself today. Most wives know their husbands have affairs or hire companionship or go to brothels, entertainment clubs and so on. It's not news. Or shouldn't be anyway. Infidelity is for whatever reason considered more socially acceptable than having an open marriage, engaging in ethical non-monogamy or polyamorous dynamics. I've been poly for over a decade. My entire adult life. It's the best. Then again. I personally view monogamy as sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:09 PM
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Dude. I want the negative attention and the creepy predatory attention to stop.. It's gotten to the point where, when a man compliments me, I know the difference between a genuine compliment and a superficial one. It's extremely rare for somebody like me to actually meet a man who is genuine and forward with himself. Also, I'm married and poly and partnered and other things. It shouldn't be normal for a woman to expect to be harassed literally the moment she walks outside or takes a breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:08 PM
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I learned that polyamory is in my ancestry! My native American heritage had polyandrous partnerships!! It makes so much sense now. The mohawk, my colored hair choices, my sexuality, my leadership skills and dominance... I am living my truth. And it's awesome! Oh myyyyy. Subby boys are something. I have a husband and a live-in partner. They're both definitely my husbands though. Regardless of what any paper may say. My husband is a stay at home dad. He's incredible. My lover caters to me full tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:48 PM
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That's beautiful!!! I love being a safe space for men myself! It's so amazing! This is mine as of ten seconds ago. I retake the test every 6 months. It's changed drastically since I started taking them nearly a decade ago.... https://preview.redd.it/ycost6hoe7gh1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ebbef826a753f6d102e4bbf1e9fa1530a23c61c5
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:28 PM
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That is so hot... I'm a Dominant leaning switch myself. An exhibitionist, voyeur, Brat tamer, rigger, experimentalist and more... So much more dude. My hard limits list is tiny. Totally feel that. Oooh boy... He sounds like my clients do... I am so sorry. My heart goes out to him. And I am really glad he has you in his corner as well. Definitely don't think him going anywhere near the scene would be a good idea right now... Also with you not feeling too comfortable anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:17 PM
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That's honestly how I feel myself... there are plenty of guys i could take with me. I'm sure a handful of my clients would love to go on a date to the club with me on one of the kink nights or "hot wife" nights. I would rather go with women though. That would be awesome. Went to a burlesque event last year for valentine's with an ex and a couple of her poly friends... I had her friend's husband restrain me up to the X post they had set up for impact play. I had never let a man impact me before. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:59 PM
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Girl...if you ever wanna chat and talk 👄 I have so much I could tell you. Sex clubs are super fun! I need to get back into it myself... Been in and out of the kink community for 13 years. Topping from the bottom eh? You sound like me...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:51 PM
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🤩😍🫠🙃😏😵‍💫😵🤯🤒🥵😭 woooooo oh my GAWWWDSSSSS YESSSSSSSSSS. I too have a "claiming kink". My content creator/live-in partner definitely has ownership of me in every sense when it comes to play. Whew is he the best I've ever had in my life. Ever met a man who fits so perfectly inside of you that you genuinely believe he was made for you??? It took me over 1K tries to find the perfect fit...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:33 PM
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Yessssss, have him grab a fistful of my hair from behind, pull my head back to his and whisper. "That's right my sweet girl, you take it just like that. Such a good girl, let me give you a treat..." Or something like that... Sends me over the mooooon!!!! Talk about swoon! Am I right??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:26 PM
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Yes, you can have all of that with a friend. However, sleeping next to them regularly, cuddling with them often, experiencing and sharing the depths of life... People want to do that with a romantic love interest. Sex isn't required, or a right. No one has a right to anyone. By any means whatsoever. Human beings are more than objects for use or breeding, etc. I don't get how there are people who can't seem to grasp that your partner should also be your best friend. If they're not your "ride or d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:02 PM
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He's poly, yes, however, he is not currently engaging in anything with anyone. And we haven't been alone together since December. He has a low libido though. Sex is the least important thing on his list. It's always been more important to me than him. He actually taught me other ways to be intimate and express love to one another. Among other things. He truly is amazing to me. We've had a few partners together in the past. He has a low tolerance level for BS same as me. So we don't get to find p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:57 PM
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For a multitude of reasons. Companionship, having someone to experience life with, having a "ride or die" person by your side. There are people who actually want a relationship outside of the bedroom. Which, is the main part of a relationship to begin with. Sex is an added bonus. Not a guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:34 PM
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As someone with a number above 1K, close to 2K now and I'd love that to get higher and higher as my life progresses... Being a slut is fun, and wild. And I'm really happy my husband enjoys it as much as I do. Last I checked, "good girl" is reserved for kink play, music to a brat's ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:23 AM
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I have a preference for short Kings. My husband is 5'10", though I didn't know that until we met. He's the exception to the rule for me. My live-in partner and one of my other partners are both 5'7" and I have another I see who is 5'5". They're incredible in multitudes of ways. And I'm really happy to have them in my life among other things. Only reason height really matters to me is because I'm 5 ft myself. The shorter, the better. Though I've learned the absolute sweet spot for me is someone b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:15 AM
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As a woman who has experienced negative sexual attention from men for more than half of my life... I was hypersexualized, demonized, slut-shamed, violated in so many different ways before I even became legally able to drink at a bar. Even experienced what's called a "mental death" at 17 due to my experiences. I developed agorophobia, androphobia and haphephobia by the time I was 24. I was petrified of everything at one point in time. It was so bad for a while I couldn't hold a job, sleep, eat, g…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:32 AM
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My husband adds to my life. He's an incredible parent to our children, a true ride or die partner. The way he is with our kiddos.... Doing his best to break the cycle and "be the change". I genuinely don't think I can find a man better than my husband. He's a rare gem I am so grateful to have found. I can honestly say he saved my life and my children's lives. I'm the breadwinner of our polycule and have a lot on my plate. Building a business, in the process of expanding my business, writing a gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:07 AM
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I love you 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:31 PM
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DMs are always open, honey. Epigenetics play a huge role in behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:29 PM
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Thank you!!!! Ilusm ❤️ 😍 💖 thank you thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:26 PM
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That tracks then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:16 PM
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The Madonna-Whore complex plays a role in this. As well as purity culture. Which is how the complex came to be anyway. They categorize us. Women who are pure, mother material. And the rest. Honestly, it's better to be a whore than a madonna. Speaking from personal experience. As I've been both throughout my life. It's much more fun to actually have the kind of sex you want to have as a woman. Instead of being used as a toy for their pleasure alone and not getting anything out of it. My great gra…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:52 PM
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Yeahhh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:13 PM
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I think some of these dudes seem to automatically assume, or have in their heads that a relationship means long term access to sex. When it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:56 PM
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No is a complete sentence. The absence of a "no" is not an indicator of a "yes" either. In my personal opinion... Unless a woman is genuinely throwing herself at you and making it well known that she wants to have sex with you... you don't have consent. Informed and enthusiastic consent are the only kinds of consent that I engage in personally with any sex partner. I have been abused far too many times to not take consent seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:55 PM
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No, that is guilt. Shame is the feeling of "being wrong". Like there is something fundamentally "wrong" with you. Narcissistic personality disorder is really and truly a deep-seated shame disorder for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:25 PM
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Shame is the concept of "being wrong". That's why I refuse to accept it as a real emotion. Also, the amount of psychological research I've done and the amount of times my therapist and I have talked about this kinda stuff over the years... I trust that woman with everything. No one can "be wrong". We were all born the way we were meant to be born in this life. There is no such thing as a person "being wrong". You can do wrong, act wrong, make wrong decisions. Your existence itself cannot "be wro…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:24 PM
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That's a fear response. You literally described a fear response. I worked in the animal industry for a decade. I know what I'm talking about dude. Dogs portray fear more than they do any other emotion. They're terrified a lot of the time. And we act like it's nothing. The things people do to dogs... We had a dog come in once that had to have surgery because the owner had been raping the dog... it was horrific. One of the most traumatic things I had to witness in the shelter. Also watched a cat h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:20 PM
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Dogs don't feel shame. Animals do not feel shame in the way humans do; instead, what looks like shame is usually a fear response, an appeasement signal, or a reaction to your angry tone and body language
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:28 AM
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What even is considered normal these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:21 AM
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When I say I want a man to be "vulnerable" with me... what I personally mean is this; I am hardcore turned on by men displaying emotional vulnerability, transparency and honesty. I like depth. And the more deep I can get with someone, the more turned on I am. I love when my guys are vulnerable and expressive with me. I want them to be able to be their full authentic selves with me and not feel the need to hold anything back. It's really hard to find people that are actually able to fully recipro…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:21 AM
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Cross dressers, drag queens and drag kings, celebrities, probably some of the elite... This stuff is still used to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:10 AM
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That would be hot as fuck to see. Men in high heels????? SWOOOOOOOONNNN
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:20 AM
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You know that's why make up, height boosters and wigs were made right? For men. Women didn't start using them until later.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:19 AM
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Are they engaging in informed and enthusiastic consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:47 PM
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Yes, because they're being assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:13 PM
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"Hey, how's it going? Are you busy Friday night? Would you wanna grab a drink or go for a walk? And chat?" How hard is that???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:44 PM
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And that's unfortunate that that is how they view and treat women. Seeing as women are people and not handbags. My clients are not men like that, they're amazing. Total sweethearts. It's the reason I let them hire me. They wouldn't be granted access if they were anything like I experience in the dating apps. We providers tell dudes to go to tinder all the time to find long term girlfriends or casual sex instead of hitting us up trying to "save us" from this life. It's hilarious. We don't need "s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:31 PM
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Unfortunately there is still far too much deep-seated shame and dudes in lavender marriages and relationships, or in the closet for that. They're too ashamed of loving who they love. And also, there are others who love men, yet prefer having sex with women. If homosexuality was safe for men to engage in, I think more men would be gay publicly instead of privately or repressing themselves entirely. Men have difficulty dating and engaging in sex for various reasons though. There's a whole spectrum…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:29 AM
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Consent is different for everyone. For me, unless the person in question is fully consenting to all of me, it's not worth it for either of us. The whole point is for them to enjoy themselves as much as I am. I've had far too many women say yes when they didn't want to. No matter how many times I've asked to make absolutely certain. It's part of why I stopped dating women, it's hard to navigate consent when they feel compelled to give in whether they want to or not. And the only thing anyone shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:04 AM
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We live in a system that still treats women like property. When it's the 21st century and you can still buy a bride overseas... That's a problem. Women couldn't open a bank account until the 1970s in many countries. Marital rape wasn't illegal until the 1990s. It was illegal for women to deny their husbands sex from the 1960s until the 1990s. Which means every single married woman was legally required to lay down for her husband whether she wanted to or not. They couldn't even rent or buy proper…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:31 AM
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Consent must be fully informed and enthusiastic. For example... when I have sex with women or date, women, or hire companions... i am fully transparent and honest about my intentions, who I am as a person and everything that I want out of the potential dynamic that we may have between us. I ask explicitly for consent for every single little thing so much to the point where women get annoyed with me for asking so much. Consent is sexy and required and must be given fully and freely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:22 AM
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Decades? Try thousands of years of torment. They're only just now receiving the consequences of their actions as a whole. It's about time. What do they say? "What goes around comes around".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:17 AM
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Most of them were unwilling. I've battled with that myself for years. It's helped me be a good Dom though and value my submissives more. I get to fulfill their fantasies and it's a wild ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:32 AM
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I've literally heard dudes say "a hole is a hole. I don't care what it's attached to" We are no longer friends. Guys say some really fucked up things. They actually can physically have sex, whether they are turned on or not. It is a survival response triggered by the central nervous system. The penis is a fully autonomous involuntary moving organism. It legitimately has a mind of its own and therefore can become erect under pressure. And in the most dire of circumstances. And also for the strang…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:17 PM
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From my experience... For every 100 I interact with, only 5 of them are trustworthy, and considered safe for me to be around. My safety is of the utmost importance to me. Especially these days. I still struggle with androphobia, despite my best efforts to process and work through it with years of exposure therapy, learning how to properly discern, amongst other things. I genuinely want to believe most men are good deep down. Unfortunately for me personally, the vast majority of my experiences wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:44 PM
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They don't use the apps. They know better than that. At least, not tinder or bumble or anything like that. One uses fetlife and he found a kindergarten teacher recently divorced on there. According to her, I've turned him into a sex guru/sex therapist and she wants to meet me. I'm excited! I get to meet another one of my client's ladies! I've meet a few of their wives, and partners before and this is gonna be pretty cool 😎 I even talked him last night about my tinder experiences and sent him scr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:59 PM
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I am their type and they are mine. They're kind, empathetic, down to earth, protective of women and children and the weak. They're givers to a fault, and love to please. Have trouble saying no to women like I do. And all in all want to be loved and adored for who they truly are. The light, the dark, the in between and everything else. And I give that to them. Because they give it to me. They adore me for who I am. And picked me because apparently my ad is the only one that seemed "real enough" f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:51 PM
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Absolutely it has!!! Who knew I needed to become a companion in order for my body, my time, my mind, my heart, my soul and above all else my consent to be taken seriously? Who knew I was gonna see such a world of a difference? Oh. Right. I did. After a decade of researching the sex work industry and dipping my toes in, talking with sex workers of all walks of life over the years. And I learned the truth. And here I am. I get paid to exist with men. I get paid to go to arcades and play pinball. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:41 PM
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These guys literally make it known they don't see me as human. A guy can say, "I'm not looking for anything serious. I'm looking for a casual encounter or a no-strings attached dynamic. I can be available to hang after work during the week after 6 or anytime on the weekends. Let me know if this works for you or where you would like to go from here, looking forward to hearing back!" When guys message me like that, I'll fuck them almost instantly. If they come in sexual right in the first message,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:33 PM
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It's extremely dehumanizing. It's making it known he doesn't see me as a human being. He sees me as a walking flesh light for his pleasure. Which means I would get nothing out of seeing him besides dissociating and dreading my life. That's why I don't want to engage in casual sex again. I hate feeling like that. And I hate even more that I had to get into sex work in order to not feel like that. Almost all of my tinder messages are the dude coming in hot and heavy right off the bat. I would glad…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:17 PM
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By all means. These subby boys need help
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:09 PM
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No, I would call that the truth. Why does a dude have to start off really creepy then? "Hey you look like fun! I would love for you to swallow my cum tonight! It would be a dream come true for me!" As the first message??? No "hey, how's it going? How's your weekend so far?" Nope, just straight to "come suck my cock babe". Before we've even had a fucking conversation... Even my clients are better than that. I would rather have a work text come through and them be serious and responsible and respe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:07 PM
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If you ever wanna chat, feel free to. My door is wide open for the ladies anytime. Dommes average $800-2,500 per hour. And that's fully clothed in Domme gear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:56 PM
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Girl.... Let me tell you... There are escorts who charge $500/hr and are obese. And they make it. If a dude wants you bad enough, he will pay any price or do anything to have you. You could even feed into the dudes with fetishes and charge extra for that. There are so many things you can do. Especially in your 40s. There are escorts who are in their 60s and are still going strong and make like $20K a month or more on average. It's fascinating! I know a high end escort who makes $50K a month fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:53 PM
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Girl, hush! You are definitely attractive enough to escort! I can show you how! If you're really good at sexting, those ladies make some good money doing that. Always happy to help a fellow gal make her bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:49 PM
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I have more than 200 likes on tinder right now and that's just from yesterday evening. I had zeroed them out from 150 before that. Less than 24 hours and I have more than 200 likes from tinder alone. I'm also talking about in my job as well. I reject more clientele than I see. And the moment a dude sends the first message on tinder, he has already ruined it for me. They're disgusting. I thought I could try casual sex again, and honestly, it makes me so glad I am a companion even more so. It seem…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:48 PM
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Need to be real about this. Most dudes do this stuff. Most of them engage in this every time they go out somewhere looking for women. I watch it happen all the time. And I do what I can to protect the potential victims. It fucking sucks how common and prevalent it is. Also, what I hate most is that the bars have drug testing strips so you can test your drinks for roofies or GHB or other date-rape drugs. And there are limits to how many drinks you can get. And if you get more than 2, you have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:36 PM
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They don't get that the only kind of consent there is is informed, enthusiastic consent. No is full, complete sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:33 PM
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It's because that's what society and the world have told her. And also how men act. I too feel that way. You know how rare it is for me to find a guy to talk to or have sex with that actually likes me for me? Like, as the whole package that I am? Because I only fuck dudes who actually genuinely like me as a person. Not a sex toy. I hate being treated like that. It's one of the worst feelings in the world. For every 100 dudes that see me, only 2-5 of them are even worth humoring. So it makes it r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:19 PM
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Natural selection also includes dudes removing themselves from the equation on their own. This isn't about evolutionary biology in this context. This is about the inappropriate males dying off and leaving the appropriate males for women to select from.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:15 PM
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Men having people paying for the illusion of emotional connection for thousands of years. That's why money was created in the first place. To pay for women and buy them. Because women have and still are seen as property to this day. So a man needed to be able to purchase her somehow. Whether with money or trades. Women are still sold like cattle and traded like sheep daily as we speak. I think that's the part I like most about my job. It's not an illusion, nor an act for me. I'm genuine and auth…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:14 PM
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If a woman is not able to give fully informed consent and her answer would have been "no" if you were honest.... Then yes, that is in fact rape. Because she was not able to give a fully consensual "yes" and give enthusiastic consent. I really don't get why dudes don't want women to actually genuinely fully enthusiastically consent to them. The sex is literally 10x better when a woman actually genuinely wants to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:10 PM
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They're the ones with some pf the highest DV rates in America. They're most likely to abuse you and torment you. Oh! And eat the children for their adrenochrome... Can't forget that part... Isn't it lovely? That the majority of the people we claim to look up to are all sick, sadistic psychos? NFL players have such severe brain damage, they torture their loved ones at home. The stories I've heard and read about and people I've met... I would never want to be the wife to someone like that. That's …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:09 PM
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Bingo! That's right on the money, honey!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:06 PM
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This! Literally! Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:06 PM
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That's one too many.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:57 AM
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That makes it easier for the guys that are valued to make it then. The men who succeed will have a higher chance of success I've never met anyone like me. Im rare as fuck and it's isolating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:56 AM
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You don't think I work with men on this on a daily basis??? I have men who are afraid to get naked with me. How are you going to hire me to take me to dinner with you and have fun at the end of it and you can't even take your fucking shirt off because of how insecure, ashamed and afraid of rejection you are? I'm a hired companion for fucks sake. I am not hired to find my clients attractive. I am hired to make them feel sexy and attractive and on top of the world. And I do a really damn good job …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:48 AM
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When these are the primary things that come up??? Yeah. It's shocking! "Data on necrophilia is extremely rare because the act is hidden and hard to track. Clinical reviews show that 92% of people who commit necrophilia are male, most identify as heterosexual, and over half have occupational access to bodies." "57% of chronic offenders worked in places with dead bodies, such as morgues, hospitals, or cemeteries." "Unresisting Partner: Roughly 68% of cases show a primary motivation to seek a compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:45 AM
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Good god ... I went and googled the statistics on necrophiliacs... I... It's worse than even I thought. Good grief! Just when my faith in humanity gets closer to being restored, something else makes it that much harder...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:36 AM
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They actually can. Plenty of the men I work with are already there. They have some finessing and chiseling to do and they're doing quite well so far. I am rooting for them. Freedom equals women choosing men who want them for the same reasons. Deep emotional fulfilment, connection and a life that thrives and is enriching. Men are totally capable of doing this. And I know many of them that do. Or are in their redemption arc currently. It's incredible. I'm so proud of them 😭 doing God's work 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:33 AM
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Dude, this is common knowledge. And it's also something I've talked about with others before. It happens. A lot more often than you think it does. I've worked for the US gov. I know shit you wouldn't believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:31 AM
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Yeah, I get paid to exist in a room. I have the power of selection in a way many people wish they could have. You know what else I get? Rape and death threats on a weekly, almost daily basis because I rejected a dude and he didn't like that I said no. It's pathetic. They make it so easy to say no to them too though. I'm sorry for what you experienced as a child. You are not unique in that. Almost every guy I know has been harmed in some way. They refuse to perpetuate the cycle and don't want oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:24 AM
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The proof is everywhere. It's literally all over the place. It's so obvious you can't not see it. For fucks sake. Really makes me grateful for the two guys I have. Though, they still have progress to make in different ways. Happy they're doing the work and doing their part to help me raise our kids and family well. They're both stay at home dads technically. One is full time and the other is part time. Primarily takes care of me. I'm his job 👌 There are dudes out there absolutely willing and hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:11 AM
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If women had unprecedented freedom, rape wouldn't happen. Men who lack character, personality, integrity, all of the characteristics and traits that women admire in men... These traits are now seen as a rarity instead of the norm. And that's the problem. One of many.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:02 AM
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Thank you. Seriously. Fucking thank you. Exactly what she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:47 AM
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It's more than that. I think men will finally actually become fully aware of themselves and of the realities of life and what women go through. And we would all actually slowly but surely know peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:38 AM
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This. Both of mine were given to me by rape. It's not going to stop until they all stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:33 AM
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Balance. The world would know peace. Men would be forced to evolve and grow and become better. Natural selection would take place, the genetic pool could potentially get better with all of this as well. We would have healthier children. And women would eventually be more willing. Because evolution would be happening finally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:30 AM
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To what? You're going to have to be specific on what you're wanting me to tell you... What will happen in what context? To women having autonomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:23 AM
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That last sentence. A long term partner they see as suitable. What makes you think wealthy dudes are suitable?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:06 AM
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Then what? What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:04 AM
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That actually does and many men get prosecuted for that regularly. It depends on where you are. That's the kicker. Every country varies in their laws. Regardless, it's immoral. And you're giving yourself away that you are not a safe person to be around. My heart goes out to the women you've knowingly betrayed. You're the reason my clients can't find women to take them seriously. We were talking about that earlier today.. How dudes like you ruin it for guys like them. That "Nice guys finish last"…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:02 AM
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It's about time things leveled out. It's very telling that educated women don't want marriage and children. It shows they're aware it's not a beneficial life for them more often than not. They know the stories from the women around them. And they are able to have the freedoms their mothers and grandmothers were not awarded. They can choose. When you can finally choose to live a happy and free life. Away from the same pain and suffering your ancestors endured for thousands of years.... Wouldn't y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:59 AM
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Yes, it can cross into criminal behavior. It's still going against informed consent. Consent must be freely and fully given. If you're lying about your intentions, you're not giving them the ability to freely consent to you. If they wouldn't consent to sex unless you lied.... There is the key. You have to be fully honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:55 AM
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"Laws vary by region, but severe forms of deceit that trick a person into the physical act or identity of the partner can be prosecuted as sexual assault or rape."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:53 AM
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They most likely aren't. They want what they want and can't find it. Dudes don't care. They want to fuck. That's all they care about. Right? Women want relationships. Not to be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:52 AM
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It's literally rape to lie to a woman to have sex with her. It's a state jail felony where I live. I know the penal code and description by heart because I have to utilize it often and keep dudes in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:50 AM
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😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣 Or the finger jab thing. Telling you he's gonna rearrange your guts 😭😭😭 They say the most disgusting and drying up things I swear to God. You'd make millions off of the disgusting shit they say to wome. Dude once said he was gonna make my husband raise his baby. And a dude I fucked once said he couldn't fuck his wife anymore after me. And i didnt even know he was married. The dude repulsed me after that so I cut him off. Whew I have stories for ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:49 AM
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Dudes will literally put their dicks in anything. You'd be amazed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:48 AM
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Sending a dick pic as the first message! Coming in hot and heavy with a giant wall of text of the many ways he wants to violate and utilize your body for his pleasure. Asking you to do the most heinous and horrific things because he for whatever reason thinks "this bitch is gonna take my cock the way I want her to whether she likes it or not." Yeah fuck that. I hate casual dating and casual sex and hook ups for this exact reason. It's literally what drove me to become an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:45 AM
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This makes them rapists though. You realize that right? Informed and enthusiastic consent must be freely given. If you're lying to get sex, that is not giving the other person the ability to consent because they are lacking information that gives them the truth that would make them able to consent in the first place. Deceptive Sexual Conduct. It's a form of coercion, goes into coercive control. Which means the woman you're having sex with did not consent to you of her own free will and volition.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:40 AM
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"Aye bby what dat mouf do???" What?? My guy... A dude literally spelled mouth with an F. I get the weirdest and most disturbing messages from dudes. How is a woman supposed to swoon or take interest when the first message is him already putting his foot in his mouth?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:36 AM
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They could also not use women like walking flesh lights and actually treat them like people and give them mutual respect and pleasure. Instead of using women to masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:33 AM
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A client once told me that a friend of his likes having sex with obese women because you can't tell where you are or whether you're "in a hole" but it all feels good anyway according to him... It was really gross to hear about. And I felt sorry for the women this dude was with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:32 AM
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Reading the first 3 sentences... I felt that in my soul. And it reminded me of that group of men that gangraped a komodo dragon and filmed it... They will literally fuck anything. There's a reason they're not allowed to work in morgues, or cemeteries, too many necrophiliacs doing fucked up shit to corpses... To think. A job where women are the preferred person to hire. Because the opposite sex will fuck a corpse... I... Ever heard the song "A little piece of Heaven" by Avenged Sevenfold? If you …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:28 AM
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And that's amazing. If you want to know more. Feel free to reach out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:45 AM
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I don't think you know how the psychology behind it really works...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:05 AM
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Purity culture has a huge role in how the Madonna-Whore complex came to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:27 AM
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No, the court office live streamed my court testimonies. That's what I am saying. It was put on the public courthouse YouTube page. All custody disputes are public
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:11 PM
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This is my truth. I've testified to it countless times in court to multiple judges. It was also live streamed online a few times even. This is literally true. You can accept it or not. It's my real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:04 PM
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Yes, we all do to some degree. However, there is more to it than just the complex itself. There's honestly so much I could say. It's too much for one comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:22 PM
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My therapist jokes all the time that if I could test out... I would have a PhD in psychology already. And that was years ago. She is deeply impressed with me right now! Especially that I found the good guys! Imagine that! A therapist who specializes in narcissistic abuse and complex ptsd telling her patient she is proud of her for overcoming her fears and her phobias and finding the good guys. In the weirdest and most unconventional way possible. It's crazy to me still. And, I wish I could get a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:24 PM
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I have actually!! There are a few clients of mine who don't want anything to do with butt stuff. Usually it's trauma related though. On the receiving end I mean. When it comes to giving butt stuff on the other hand... They genuinely don't get why dudes want to do that at all. It's kinda funny. Having to explain to grown ass men, older than me, why on earth a man would like to have anal sex with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:10 PM
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Women who make men wait are generally doing it in regards to their own safety and security.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:02 PM
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Epigenetics play a big factor in this as well. Also, kinks are genetic/hereditary. If you're into butt stuff, odds are the majority of your bloodline is also into butt stuff. There. I said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:00 PM
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A lot of women have a phobia of penises. I've dated a few of them... It saddens me. Women should be able to have experience in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:59 PM
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I know I am!!! Thank you for recognizing!!! You're pretty fantastic yourself, darlin'!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:56 PM
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They're living on a small farm with their dad and his parents and grandmother. They're away from the city. With a stay at home dad who has a part time job at the school. They're making friends. They get to play outside. Raise chickens and see what it's like to live a life I never had. While I make the majority of the income, travel the country and continue to "be the change" our country needs. Inspiring and influencing one person at a time. Making a difference in our country is really important …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:52 PM
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I didn't choose him. He chose me. And he made sure he had me until he died. You have no idea what that was like. To literally beg and scream for someone to leave you. Instead he forced a child on you and made your life hell. You have no idea. Literally no idea what that was like. I did everything I could possibly think of to escape him. And he put me through court for 8 years. My child is 11 now. I've spent her entire life fighting for her. For the bastard to die anyway. I had no idea he was the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:32 PM
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I've experienced it myself. I've been degraded and forced to watch my now deceased ex and father of my first born have sex with other women. He would get other women drunk at parties and wait for them to get to the point of being "easy". Then he would drag us to a room and force me to watch him violate her... It was horrific. And I was far too young to do anything about it. He did this to 7 women while with me. And almost took my life multiple times with his hands. It exists. I've been a unicorn…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:08 PM
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Why do you think I do what I do??? I learned my lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:36 PM
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I had a sit down with my polycule 6 months before getting into escorting. I started at the bottom and made my way to mid-tier status. It's been a change of pace. We had a family sit down conversation about it. As a unit. And unanimously decided as a family it would be a good idea overall for all of us. Including our kids. And... Might I say, we were right. And it's working. It's been amazing. Who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:35 PM
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Laughable. Absolutely laughable. They give us almost double the workload by their mere existence with us and still have the audacity to say shit like this. I am so glad I work with the dudes I do. Makes it so nice. Gives me faith in humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:33 PM
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The reason they want women inexperienced sexually is so they don't know the truths about men that sex workers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:31 PM
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You realize many of us are married with children already right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:28 PM
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Yep! Yep yep! We need to change the way we raise our boys!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:27 PM
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How do you think I feel servicing them as their companion? They say some gnarly ass shit to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:27 PM
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The Madonna-Whore complex is when a man no longer finds his wife sexually appealing after she births him children. So he goes and finds a "whore" (lover, mistress, escort/companion, sex worker of some other kind, co-worker) to have a sexual relationship with. He basically loses all sexual attraction to his wife. He believes she is now a mother. Which means she is also his mother. And he doesn't want to have sex with his mother. It's a whole thing dude. It really fucks some dudes up. And it even …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:23 PM
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Exactly!!!! That means you're instantly put on "mommy duty".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:21 PM
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Explain why what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:19 PM
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It drives me mad!!! Categorizing women like this. It goes to show they really are linear thinkers and have to compartmentalize and put everything in boxes. That's why they need labels for everything!! Ever wonder why a man is all hot and heavy and interested and then the moment he lands you, he thinks "I no longer have to put a lick of effort into this now, she's mine, hahahaha. " Yeah, that's because they think they did the hard part. Getting you. Nahhhh bro. The hard part is keeping you. And t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:18 PM
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The Madonna-Whore complex is something that needs to be broken down within every dude, for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:03 PM
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Been there, if you ever wanna talk about it with someone, I'm all ears. Or... eyes I suppose? It's hard to break through the hurdle. I still struggle myself and I have sex daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:40 PM
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Thank youuuuu I love it for me too!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:30 PM
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Had a dude tell me I was useless and not fuckable because I removed my uterus. What's the fun in fucking a whore when you can't run the risk of getting her pregnant and putting her out of work for a while? These guys are nasty. The amount of offers I've had to be an incubator. And then thankfully telling them I'm sterile. So try as they might, it'll never happen. They're insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:29 PM
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Oh it's failing those at the top of the scheme. They just don't know it yet. Then again, there are a lot of things that are perceived differently than they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:40 PM
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Lmao, you know it 😜 I love it tho, my experiences these days are 10x better than the experiences I had years back. Let me tell you... Who knew getting into the industry fully would actually give me the ability to make my wildest dreams and fantasies come to life? Being able to do that for myself and others has been life altering and inspirational as fuck bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:40 PM
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The red pill didn't fail men. It's working exactly as designed. Putting money in the influencers pockets and keeping the guys perpetually single and emptying their pockets. That was the whole point. Extract resources from the guys and use them. It's working just fine. They're still falling for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:19 PM
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This one is always tough for me... Mainly because women have had a tendency to dehumanize and treat me like a sex object more often than men do. And I work with men for a living. So that... It makes dating fucking awful. There is one woman I've been chatting with for a few years now. We've thankfully only had sex a couple of times. It's nice. Shame doesn't belong in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:13 PM
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As someone with a number above 1,500... Dudes get astonished by that number. Some thikk it's awesome and are fascinated by it. Others think it's crazy I even have a number up here like this. It could honestly be higher. If I weren't so fucking picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 04:42 PM
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I know. I'm aware. I'm being facetious dude
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 10:33 AM
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Isn't that what all women are in the eyes of the majority? An asset? He didn't tell me anything I didn't already know. Or theorize. He did help me to fully see how it all works and plays out. I've been in the industry for 13 years myself. I have seen the difference between a man who barely has the ability to hand over my rent in one go. And a guy who hands me more than my rent like it's nothing to him. It absolutely fascinates me. The way that dudes are. The differences in experiences between th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 09:39 AM
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I'm not saying it does. I know it's a lot more versatile than that. There's a whole spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 09:34 AM
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Have no idea what any of that means. I'm glad I removed my uterus though. That's for sure. Made that easier on myself and my family for sure. All things considered. ✨️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:00 PM
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Many of them do. And have resorted to staying inside as often as they can and avoiding areas that consist of a lot of men. And opting out of dating and choosing celibacy to protect themselves better so they're not raped. Unfortunately, since they are required to carry to term whether the sex was consensual or not, they're ultimately concluding it's best to stay single and not date or have sex with men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:52 PM
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A lot of them don't have deep and meaningful friendships unfortunately. And even though I've been trying, I'm still having trouble getting my guys to group together and get them talking. The next idea is to have a mask psychedelic party and invite them all over, pick a mask/costume at the door or come already covered and that way no one really knows who anyone is and they can discuss and talk about the shit they can't talk about anywhere else besides with me. I really don't know how it will go. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:41 PM
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This. Seriously. A lot of these women are actively playing with these dudes. And the dudes feed into it and keep it going. Regardless of anything, these guys are forgetting something very important. They are paying for access to us first and foremost. We can still deny anything we want to. It's ultimately the choice of the provider who is providing the service in the first place. These guys think "I'm paying for it. Give it to me." They don't seem to realize this key factor. They are paying for …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:30 PM
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Reminds me of this woman's article every time. She wrote a book about it as well. responsible ejaculation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:17 PM
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This reads like a massive projection... I don't speak or associate with many 20 somethings or younger so I haven't the slightest idea how they really are, I have minimal interaction with them. I can say I don't know many women in my generation that are how you describe... Though, I don't quite know what your definition of self-centered and narcissistic traits are in women. They tend to vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:10 PM
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Poly people and those engaging in ethical-non-monogamy have a very different experience than monogamous people do. We fuck consensually, in safe spaces publicly and privately. Going to kink events and sex clubs can be really fun. Also, having my partner's friends tie me up and flog me in front of an audience was really exhilarating and liberating. So many stories. So many... I've been between more than a hundred couples. And I have been the only female at birth at an orgy with Trans women. I gav…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:41 AM
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I mean, a lot of these dudes are married, partnered, some are even poly. I had a fan find me randomly at a hotel. I've met a few of their wives/partners. A few of my clients have wives who are also in the industry in some way. That's pretty cool. It's a rather open community I have thankfully. I'm one of the lucky ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:58 AM
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Meaning what exactly? You don't like the idea of eating a beautifully aged wagyu butcher's cut filet, among other things? I suppose some don't value what I value and that's totally cool for you broski
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:22 AM
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Fancy dinners, high quality partnerships and connections. All expenses paid by me. What's not to like?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:10 AM
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I'm married, poly and partnered. I have a kitchen table polycule. And I have 2 side dudes outside of my partnerships. So, there's my husband, my live-in partner, my lady partner and her primary (my metamour). And then my two side dudes. And my clients. I also hired a new assistant recently and she is technically helping train me to be her finsub. Which, that'll be really interesting to see play out. And I have the ability to be a handler again once my new pup is ready for me to collar and leash …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:59 AM
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Yeaaahhhhh them wanting to plug everything they can up is a massive disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:08 AM
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I can't say That's entirely true... I know several men who are sapiosexual like myself. My husband being one of them. He has trouble with arousal due to traumatic events. And low T. Stress is also a huge factor right now. It's funny cuz in my experience, the more intelligent the guy and the kinder and more giving the guy is, the better in bed he will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:42 AM
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He's worked in the sex work/entertainment industry for over 30 years. He's been around some of the most famous people in the world. Simply by working at some of the most popular clubs in the world. He's actually a bad ass and encourages women to value themselves and uphold boundaries with men. You'd be amazed the men that go to strip clubs. They're flavors of all kinds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:11 AM
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There are too many women getting into the industry and fucking it up for the rest of us. I can say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:46 PM
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Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:44 PM
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Yeah it's not so great out there for any of us. Clients and sex workers alike. And the ones who have ill intentions are really ruining it for all parties involved. The scams, ransoms, stings and pimps have gotten really bad... Good grief. That sounds like what Cardi B did. Reminds me of the movie hustlers. And a SVU episode. I am so sorry this has been your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:14 PM
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I've heard of things like that happening. I have a client who walked out on a provider after paying her because she was scrolling through Instagram while he was with her. And I know another who has hired providers and had them leave immediately because they took the cash and pulled their pants down and let em have it. Apparently that's a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:05 PM
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I think women are at a point where they would rather be celibate than bother trying at all. And it's bittersweet. Yeah. I know. And that's pathetic and sad. Considering that means a man can't be honest with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:04 PM
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We equate it to any service of any kind. You wouldn't go to a tattoo artist and offer them half their rate for twice the work, now would you? An attorney charges you by the minute, don't they? So for every text, email, phone call, you are charged for that. Right? Would anyone be willing to take less than what they believe is rightfully theirs for the job? They have this thing called "the golden pussy rule". Where they think a provider of any kind charging "$100-300/hr" is a smart and wise busine…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:22 PM
2

One of my clients hires me for overnights (12 hour sessions). We go to arcades, bar hop, stay in fancy hotels and enjoy each other's company. There was one day he had me over during the day. He works overnights. I met him at a bar by his place at 8am. After a few drinks, we went back to his, he put on Brooklyn 99 and we fell asleep together. And then he kicked me out 3 hours early after we woke up so he could run errands and do his "adulting." Another client hires me for a few hours to sit and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:17 PM
2

Whatever they want it to involve. It's gentleman's choice and has to be something we both agree on of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:10 PM
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If you see companionship as exploitation, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:59 PM
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He thinks he's "special" because he fed into the very fantasy he is paying for. They experience limerance a lot. A lot. It's really frustrating for many of us. We have to kindly remind them, and carefully remind them it's all an act. They're getting what they paid for if they are convinced she is "in love". That's the whole point of hiring someone for "The girlfriend experience". It's not our fault men are easy to manipulate. It's their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:57 PM
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It genuinely doesn't make sense to me. They attract these women and choose these women to be around. And then act confused when reality hits them. A DJ at a strip club I worked at told me something I will never forget "A man's value is in his wallet. You can make a man go crazy for you and beg for you if you tell him he can't afford you. Make it known that you know your worth and value yourself more than any amount of money they could throw at you. Because in the end, that is all they are worth …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:57 PM
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Combined they are, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:53 PM
2

That isn't always the case. A sex worker still has to decide to have sex. Whether via giving monetary consent or consent of her own will. If she is consenting to being paid for sex and not consenting to the person handing her the money, this is a grey area. The second one doesn't make sense to me. Unless you think marrying a woman means she has to give you sex whenever you want. Whether she wants to or not. Which, having sex with a woman against her will is not something I will ever understand. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:44 PM
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Neither woman wants to have sex. That right there. Consent is not being given by either of these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:35 PM
2

I have several platonic arrangements myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:19 PM
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Experience, education, being in the sex work industry for 13 years maybe? Sex in exchange for money is only agreed upon when both parties agree. The way you make it sound is like she is supposed to agree to disagree and that's not how it works. A lot of dudes want us in survival mode so we feel compelled to take the money and have sex against our will. That's what it sounded like earlier. You're basically stating "she's supposed to fuck me because I'm paying her for her attention" That's the thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:16 PM
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Sugar dating doesn't also mean sex. That would mean they don't have a right to consent or not consent to sex. And every human being has a right to their own bodies and a right to say no to sex regardless of how anyone else may feel about it. They can hold whatever standards they want. And they often tend to. And that's a good thing. For them. Most sugar babies are considered scammers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:54 PM
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You do you babe, that's your choice. My dudes are all over the place. Some are short and beefy. Tall and thin and lanky. Really big around the waste to where i can't hug them and wrap my arms around. And all have very similar personality traits. Love women to their dying day. Will fight for what they believe in. Will protect anyone who needs protection. Are givers to a fault, loyal, meticulous and generous as fuck. Altruistic to the point of their own detriment. And I adore them for it. It's nic…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:53 PM
1

No, actually quite the opposite. The women I know want kind guys with big hearts who are over protective of who they care about. So that is who I work with primarily. Exactly that kind of guy. Basically. Guys I would realistically date in real life if things were different. A lot of providers work that way these days. We've found it's easier, safer and better than casual dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:47 PM
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A sugar baby is engaging in paid intimacy, is she not? Sex work doesn't always have to do with sex itself. It also has to do with emotional intimacy and connection. Which is what most sex workers provide whether they are having sex or not. Regardless of whether they do online or in person sex work as well. Escorts for example are hired for emotional support and deep connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:42 PM
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I don't think you know the kind of guys who book escorts. They're guys who choose to be single because they're happy only having an overnight once a month. They're guys who have been divorced once or twice and are too heart broken to be willing to date again. They're guys whose wives were terminally ill and died and they refuse to open their hearts again. They're nerds. Goofy guys. Teddy bears. Pacifists, altruists. Guys who are chivalrous and People pleasers. Guys who don't understand misogyny …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:40 PM
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The women are usually found at a bar with a pimp or owner of some sort. There is generally a fee to interact with her. And then a fee to take her on a date. Then for sex. Then, their goal is to go home to your country with you or risk being sold to the highest bidder and trafficked elsewhere. I know a few veterans who have gone through this...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:28 PM
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On the contrary, it's awesome for us and many of us are doing really well for ourselves. Which they hate and don't understand for some reason. A lot of lesbians are sex workers. They don't find men attractive. They enjoy dominating them and ranking in the cash to spend with their girlfriends though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:26 PM
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Sugar babies are sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:25 PM
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I remember my sugar baby days. The last sugar daddy I had said "I know we have a real connection now and I don't have to send you anything anymore..." Uhm, what? Dude. That's not how this works. I am so glad I transitioned into escorting. I get treated so much better and it's so nice. Sugaring is considered on the low end of the sex work tier, when it comes to providing sex and companionship, that is. I know escorts and other industry workers who only see clients based on their level of physical…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:22 PM
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You realize most dudes in my country have hired a sex worker of some kind at some point or another, right? And that a lot of them see escorts/companions so they can learn how to date. How to interact with women. Gain sexual experience and also for emotional support. Which, the main reason is for emotional support. Although many convince themselves otherwise. These guys don't know how to approach women, how to get them to see they're not predators. And that is hard to do when many women see all m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:39 PM
1

Doesn't it tbough???? Always makes me feel better. And I send it to short kings as often as I can so they can feel it too haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:33 PM
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Don't know what you mean by deception. Seeing as there is no deception here that I can see. Cool story bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:15 PM
1

Escorts are different than prostitutes. Like, there is a huge difference between a lot lizard, a street walker, a girl walking "the blade", the freestylers, an escort disguising as a prostitute, a brothel prostitute, a pimped girl, a trafficked girl, a mid-range escort, a high end escort, and then yacht bitches, and Dominatrix's, FBSM, camgirls, the list goes on... They're all very different demographics of sex workers. Some have sex with their clients. Some never meet in person and only do onli…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:07 PM
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There's a difference between John's, tricks, whales and actual clients in our world. These are actual clients. They feel sick because they don't associate with men like that. They don't get along with men like that. They think they're scum and hate being associated with them because they know that is a huge reason as to why they have trouble dating in the first place. Because of men and their bad behavior towards women and other men. My clients see me as a human being. And are happy to spend tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:01 PM
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Mhmmm. I figured. I'm getting yalls down myself. Feeld, I've heard of that one. Fetlife is a kink app. It's for finding sex mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:52 PM
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As a Elder Emo myself, many punk girlies are already paired or poly. Especially out here where I am. Have you tried fetlife by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:47 PM
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You're more than welcome to say hello anytime. Maybe try some other event or venue perhaps...? 🤔 you make me curious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:33 PM
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That's not a reason. Like. At all. I'm 5ft. And I have 3 guys on my roster (who don't pay for my time) that are shorter than 5'8". Your height has very little to do with it. Plus, short Kings tend to overcompensate for their height in other ways I've found. Sucks they feel the need to do it. It's kind of awesome on the other hand though. They get really stupid good with their hands and tongues. It's addictive and annoying. Because it's addictive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:28 PM
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Then idk what the problem is here. Unless women see your face and are scared off instantly or you give off a vibe or something. Which. It could be the vibe...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:23 PM
1

Yeah, that is true. Plus, most of the diamonds are lab grown these days anyway. Making them less valuable. Personally I prefer the stones with deeper meaning to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:16 PM
2

Do you go out and socialize in public spaces and go to events to meet people?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:13 PM
2

I'm an escort. Not a prostitute. I get paid to exist in the room for various reasons that have nothing to do with sex or having sex. I don't get paid for sexual services. Which means I am not a prostitute. Because I don't get paid to have sex with my clients. I get paid to give them attention. And spend time with them. I am paid for my time as a whole. And, actually, considering most of my clients are the kind of guys women want? Yeah, you have no idea what you're talking about. People really ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:13 PM
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Then, I don't know what to tell you there. If you can have deep, meaningful conversations about all there is about life and have the ability to maintain a conversation for more than a few minutes... Especially before making any sort of sexual remark whatsoever.... You're already very far ahead of the game than many of them are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:09 PM
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Yes I did know that!!! I actually know a couple of high end escorts now... Dude. The stories they have about old white men and their fetishes... And they get paid 5x what I do in a month. Can you IMAGINE THAT.???? It amazes me! These women are fascinating. I wanna make 50K a month pegging old white men 😩 😫 😭😭 I can't bring myself to do it though. I would have to stop catering to the demographic of men I have in order to get there. Then again, we've been unanimously talking about it and they've a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:08 PM
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If you wouldn't have sex with yourself or tale yourself on a date... Why would anyone want to do that with you? That's my motto for life. If you wouldn't fuck yourself, don't expect anyone else to want to either. It comes from within.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:00 PM
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All they care about is the audience. Women are the "prize" they can show off to the male audience around them. That's all they want is the validation and approval from other men. The amount of times my clients have gotten the "bro seal of approval" from the audience when we go on our dates. Especially downtown on dirty 6th. The frat bros and fuckboys especially give my guys the "attaboy" and "bro I wanna fuck that too, nice one!" And the list goes on with the shit I hear them say or that I later…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:56 PM
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My mom's 3rd husband of 4... 😤 was the VP of the mortgage broker company they worked for together. He openly admitted to my mom after they married that he hired the majority of the female employees specifically based on whether their breasts were D cup or larger... Guess how large my mom's breasts were? DD. Didn't matter she had over a decades worth of programming and software engineering experience. Nooooooo. Her boobs landed her the job and she later married the man because he at the time seem…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:01 AM
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I value a man for what is in his heart, not his wallet. He spent a quarter million keeping me and my first born away from our abuser. I'm doing what I can to return the favor, pay off our accumulated debt, buy us property and give him the life he wants for us. Land in the mountains, with our little family, off-grid. Away from everything that could harm us. In our nice, beautiful home. My husband is an incredible father. He is emotionally available and supportive of all of our children. He cares …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:37 PM
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Yay!!! So happy about that ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:12 AM
1

I genuinely don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:03 AM
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To me it's the same thing. Desire for/of are synonymous here in this regard. Difference between paying for sex and paying for companionship... which is primarily what dudes are asking for these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:00 AM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:57 AM
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And that's still true to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:42 AM
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Am I supposed to thank you? Are sex workers not the object of what is desired by those who desire us?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:31 AM
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The one being desired is the "whore", "adulteress", "prostitute", and so on. Honestly, I think courtesan sounds better than those. That word was reserved for high class escorts/companions though. My have times changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:29 AM
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Grandmothers. Anyone born before 1970s. Maybe even the 1980s. Idk, millennials who were told "don't talk about what happens in this house on the internet" and so on and so forth? Do I really need to find a source of some kind for you to actually realize this? 🤔 It was my lived experience, and I am not the only one either. It's still frowned upon for women to talk about what happens to them behind closed doors. There are even women who genuinely don't know they've been abused in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:17 AM
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Pretty much all throughout history, really. Women gathering has been seen as threatening and a huge "no-no" historically through the ages. The last thing the people in control want is for women to gather and realize they all pretty much have identical stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:01 AM
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The trash is usually already taken out before I even say anything. Then again, the kitchen is entirely his responsibility. From keeping it stocked, to dishes, to trash. That's not my area. So, if he doesn't take the trash out because he forgot to, or got distracted, I'll take it out myself. I mainly draw the line at dishes. I refuse to do dishes unless I absolutely have to. Both of my men know this though and will wash them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:59 PM
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Good thing looks fade and attraction varies. My husband and live-in partner are polar opposites of each other in looks and everything. I don't go for looks though, I go for character and personality overall. Tbh, there aren't many decent enough paying jobs out there to make having children more realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:36 PM
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Yeah I don't know much about your country or how any of that works... To me, after the over abundant amounts of research I've done to grant me the nickname "walking encyclopedia"... I firmly believe men are the proper caretakers of children and the weak, and frail, like the elderly or disadvantaged, and disabled. I believe women are better in workplace matters and men are better in matters of the home. It's definitely worked for us. He's also a veteran. So we get his VA benefits for him, myself …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:31 PM
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Stay at home dads are bad ass. I love that I'm able to provide enough financially for my husband to work part time at the school and also be with our kids all the time as well. He is currently in another state with them, caring for his dying grandma. Your dream come true is my normal day to day life. I firmly believe fathers should be stay at home parents and mothers should be the ones bringing home the bread and bacon. It's made our marriage ten times better honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:07 PM
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Idk man, I definitely felt "stuck" when I was made to sleep on a 12-guage with an unlocked 40 S&W in plain sight every night. That I would also have to remove from my toddlers hands almost daily. I totally knew I could escape him back then.... /s Until you've experienced it yourself, you have no real idea what that is like...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:04 PM
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I'm really glad my hubs is a stay at home dad, honestly I wouldn't have it any other way. He's better with the kids than I am, and far more devoted to them than he is to me. Which I am okay with. Seeing as both of us had traumatic upbringings.. I am very happy our kids get to experience a side we never did. Devoted and loving parents. Childcare is way too expensive. When you have to choose between working a full time job and paying almost your entire income in childcare, or staying home with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:01 PM
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All I'm really referring to in terms of chivalry is doing things for someone without expecting anything in return. Like holding a door open and not expecting a "thank you". Or walking around to the other side of the car to open the door for your date. Walking on the side of the sidewalk facing the road so she is on the inside of the sidewalk away from harm. Basic human respect is what I am referring to with chivalry. I'm a woman and I act with integrity and chivalry. Especially towards women. Ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:19 AM
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Chivalry is genuine kindness to me. It's basic human decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:47 PM
2

The internet made it to where more and more women and people in general could gain awareness and truths they never would've known before. For the longest time, women weren't allowed to communicate amongst one another. And even then, talking about what happened in the home behind closed doors was frowned upon. More women are able to actually see that they're being abused and aren't alone. It's no longer like it once was. I mean, the husband mortality rate has gone down drastically since women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:41 PM
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I think the best men exist now. In current times. Especially seeing as women have more choice and autonomy now than historically for thousands of years. The men now are a massive mixed bag of course. Though, I do wonder... What would've happened if chivalry were still considered a common practice instead of a rarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:38 PM
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Considering I am a bluntly honest person by default, I want the same in a partner. Lies are unacceptable in my life, especially in my close relationships. Transparency is a requirement for me, not an option. It's genuinely not worth it to me if we can't be fully honest, transparent and vulnerable with one another. I want to know everything there is to know about them. The dark parts, the light, everything in between. Nothing else is worth it to me. If I don't know your deepest darkest parts and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:57 PM
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Idk, considering Charlie Sheen has a track record that includes SA... He's not a good representation of anything. At all. He's a predator. So unless these dudes wanna equate themselves with the likes of predatory men.... I don't think using any celebrity from Hollywood would be appropriate right now. Given everything going on. The majority of those dudes have skeletons in their closets that go underground and deep. We may never know all of their secrets in our life times. Assholes get women in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:35 PM
1

Yeah, that sounds familiar...I've known a few guys like this. Currently dating one actually... This is tricky. If you pull away too much, especially too fast, it could reinforce whatever internal belief he has of himself. And he will sabotage further, which will make matters for both of you harder... If you are too available though, he could also pull away, right? So hmm.... You can't fix him, he has to do that himself. His insecurities are his and his alone to work on. You can guide him, ease h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:34 AM
1

In an LTR, people tend to get a little too comfortable. They're not gonna continue to pursue the relationship in the same way they may have in the beginning. Getting to know someone... You'll know everything you need to know about someone within the first 180 days. My mom taught me that. Also, the reddest flags are generally portrayed within the first 90 days. We tend to overlook them. Ignore them, pass and/or brush them off. Don't. They are a high tell sign of how things will be in a decade. Pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:13 AM
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It's a little hard to explain... It looks different for everyone. Let's say, making yourself too available for them. Have some boundaries. Be busy, or act busy. Don't make it seem like you're waiting by the phone for a phone call. They will use it to their advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:48 AM
1

Many lack the proper language, skills and overall understanding of abusers. They're easier to manipulate and therefore tend to be easier targets for psychological abuse as a whole. Honestly, I've always had this belief that it's really every 1 in 3 men and 1 in 2 women are victims in their lifetimes. I have no real proof for this though. Estimations based on years of experience, research and work in behavioral health.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 01:18 AM
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Women want partners, not adult children to clean up after and raise. That's all I can really say atp.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:22 PM
2

Same to you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:23 PM
2

I hear you, and appreciate you for being here and all that you do out in the world. I hope to foster one day... I don't mean to be morbid. Sometimes the doomsday in me gets the better of me I suppose. My ex robbed me of my ability to have more children. And as much as I love my girls, always wanted a boy. Now when I get myself more set up, the goal is to give them a bunch of brothers. They're the ones that need placement most. Placing siblings together is very difficult. To me, if the monsters d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:14 PM
2

We absolutely should be. People also have to want to do better. We need to raise our children better. And adopt. For fucks sake. The amount of kids that get disowned when they are sentenced... I'm talking ages 10 to 17, right? Disowned. For robbing a store, stealing a car, stealing the parents own drugs.... A parent. Called the authorities because their own child raided their cocaine stash. Shit is crazy. Parents are insane. No wonder people turn into fucked up adults. I can only do so much. Peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:49 PM
2

I worked at a juvenile detention center a few years ago. There were 17 violent offenders out of roughly 100 kids total. All of the violent offenders were boys and eventually had to be separated from the general population of the detention center. One of them had a zero to 100 switch that was so instant, you were down on the ground before you even realized he was touching you. That dude was terrifying. Fucking terrifying.... There was one day... Before they had moved the boys over to another pod.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:32 PM
2

I inquire if they're for advice or business matters first.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:24 PM
1

Dude, these men are men who have already created manifestos and decided to take themselves and others out already. They are far past helping. Those are who I am talking about. If there was a way to get through to them before that point, that would be great. If only... The men I know and work with are doing what they can. They give back to the community. They love and support women. They speak out and do their part. I'm not talking about them. I'm talking about the rest. The ones who don't suppor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:37 PM
0

Let me ask you this.... If a parasite had gotten to the point of making it to where it's primary source of blood were to vanish almost instantly.... Wouldn't you want to do something about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:30 PM
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The men i care for are upstanding members of society. They do their fair share. They are altruistic in nature. And contribute in the ways they can as a best as they can. The people who are choosing to be a detriment to society are not people I can full support. It doesn't make any logical sense to me to support people who actively choose to destroy and be destructive. Instead of support the collective.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:29 PM
1

As better than any of the others
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:04 PM
1

The men in my life are held to a higher regard than most
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:00 PM
1

I would love that!!!! I used to work for the correctional system as well. They don't care. There are things you don't know. That I can't say.... Life without parole
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:58 PM
1

I sent over proof of what was going on and i was able to get it lifted for myself. The harassment and BS I get from dudes here erodes aggressively. I was advised to stop using this account to avoid further harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:57 PM
1

No, you cannot unfortunately do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:40 PM
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Thank you. Good luck in your endeavors.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:40 PM
1

I don't think you guys realize who I am talking about.... I am talking about that small percentage who are already on that line. Who are already halfway out the door to shooting up a school or a movie theater or gay bar. Those guys. I want to help them, I would love to. It's literally what I am here for. These guys don't want help though. They've already turned their backs. So what can you do besides let them do what they want to do? Free will is free will after all. Is it not? I used to work fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:37 PM
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How??? How can I? His dad retired 3 years ago as the captain of the state trafficking department.... he has connections across the entire country. Probably the world. I've learned to hide in plain sight. So to speak...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:21 PM
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Yes, I agree with you. They absolutely can. If they want to.... They have to want to. Dude, it was rough having to tell people that their health insurance won't cover their mental health inpatient care unless they're on the brink of ☠️ It was awful working that job. I'm not saying I want people to die. I'm saying if people aren't willing to grow, evolve, change and be upstanding members of society that aim for world peace instead of world domination... Then why continue to hold out a hand for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:19 PM
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Yes, if anything it means keep talking. Keep going. Let it out, for the love of God...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:17 PM
0

Same, I wish there was another way. It's only if they choose it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:12 PM
2

His parents still stalk me and use the system in their favor against me as well. Needless to say....I have a PI who has been following me for a decade. And this bastard died August 2024. When will it end?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:07 PM
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I want more men to do their best and be their best. I want the problem to disappear and if that means the problem takes care of itself by removing itself from existence, then so be it. I'm all for population control. As long as it contributes to society and makes society as a whole better. Not worse. I don't want anyone to outright die. I want the problems to go away. And if that means letting people kill themselves off. Then so be it. Death with dignity is something I fully support. And I have …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:04 PM
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Isn't that what the black pill basically says? Look, these dudes don't want help. They want to make the problem worse. The men who want to get help? Who want to help? To contribute to the solution and not the problem? They have my undying and unwavering eternal support. The rest can kiss my ass. Why would I want to support the very men who make it to where the men I actively support have a harder time in life as a whole? Why would I want to support people who don't support themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:54 PM
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The ones who need to get out of the way? Absolutely. The detrimental ones to society? Absolutely. The ones who are more of a problem to society than literally anything else? Absolutely. The rest can stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:42 PM
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Yeah, I know. I'm still surprised I'm alive and he is ashes. I am one of the lucky ones as they say... Some dudes take their sweet ass time to get to that point as well. It can seem so picture perfect for years until finally something in them "snaps".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:36 PM
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You act like those types aren't nice to women that they date... They have a tendency to be really, really charming and exciting. Hence how they end up catching their victims. Not getting deeply invested in your partners is very different. The way that you described things, though didn't make it seem like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:18 PM
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Yep! Exactly! It's not a shock that my clients tell me things they've never told a soul. Including their own therapists. Imagine that. Men who are in therapy. And won't tell their OWN THERAPISTS what they are willing to tell me. I have a lot of secrets to keep and take to the grave with me... So yeah, men do go to therapy. And it's not enough. They need deep trauma work to be done. Especially around sex, intimacy and interpersonal relationships as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:09 PM
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Right, unless they portray dark tetrad personality traits, that is... Which only makes up about 10% of the globe...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:01 PM
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I would imagine there are a good couple hundred million members now...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:51 PM
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Yeah, I wasn't expecting that response back.... If he thinks sex is a chore... I feel for these ladies, whew.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:50 PM
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I've been there, hollowed out connections only left me feeling even more miserable and drained after a while. Toxic sex may be fun, it's not worth it in the long run. You do you bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:23 PM
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Hurt people hurt people. Another thing. Male victims of CSA are 10 times more likely to enact the same crimes later on in life or worse. The deep, deep seated pain they have that they cannot explain. Some have repressed the memories so deeply that only their bodies remember. And so any form of threat whatsoever is something that needs to be handled, managed, executed immediately. I knew a man who was SA'd his freshman year of college. A girl at a party followed him back to his dorm, gave him a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:22 PM
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You must have some really, really empty connections, then... i am so sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:09 PM
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You must have some really, really empty connections, then... i am so sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:09 PM
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Is it? Hearing a dude say "no one would believe me if I told them..." so many times makes you wonder
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:49 PM
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I would be one of those. I have a thing for setting the bar. Though, I've been told I've set the bar a little too high for some dudes... I always feel weird about that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:45 PM
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Indeed, giving yourselves away freely makes them value you less, not more. Dudes want a challenge, the more challenging for them, the more enticed they are. Among other things. Never give away your time, mind, essence, body, anything away for free. To anyone, for any reason under the sun. And I am not just talking about money when I say this. I mean in totality. Take better care of yourselves and your spaces. These dudes don't value what they can't value within themselves. Once you see that much…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:32 PM
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We can't force them to seek treatment. Best thing to do is be patient and wait for the problem(s) to get rid of themselves. Which. It's happening as we speak throughout the globe anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:22 PM
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I don't think it will for a while, tbh I think it's gonna get worse until enough of them phase out that it gets calmer that way.... If you know what I mean.... The unalive rate has gone up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:19 PM
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All sounds like a massive projection...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:15 PM
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I have kids, I don't need to raise a grown ass man as well. If I have to hold a man's hand and teach him how to do basic survival shit, there is already a problem with this dynamic and I won't stand for it, nor will I tolerate it. Thankfully, my husband and partner are not dudes I need to hand hold. They're perfectly capable and sufficient on their own. Loving a person unconditionally is generally reserved for the relationship between parent and child. Where true unconditional love can exist. Al…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:12 PM
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I like whoever I am with to be authentic and honest about their experiences with me. If they wanna make sound, make sound, if they wanna be quiet, they can be quiet. It's entirely up to them, their comfort level and what makes them feel sexiest and fully present during sex. Of course, the more enthusiastic the better. Still their call, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:13 AM
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An experienced Dom knows they're not the ones in control. The submissive must always consent and be a willing participant. Meaning the submissive is always in control. And can stop it at any time. For any reason whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:45 PM
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Thank you for recognizing! 🌹😍😘
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:32 AM
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Good then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:25 AM
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Thankfully I don't these days. My clients are very strict about consent with me and vice versa. The dudes I hang out with make it so easy for me to tell who is someone to be around and who is not. I honestly adore my guys and wish I knew enough women to hand them off to. I'll always make money and there will always be more seemingly loving and lovable guys who will hire me and I will again state I wish I knew more women to give them to.... My guys are an absolute gem. It's gotten to a point wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:22 AM
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Which means they're aware they're essentially buying a sex worker. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:12 AM
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Sex workers have to tell our clients to take the glasses off due to the amount of times we've been filmed without our consent or knowledge and later figured it out. It's atrocious. I have a client who uses them, however, we've discussed it beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:08 AM
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I mean yeah. I would know that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:56 PM
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Forget Chad, he's not even worth it 😤 Sarcasm is right. No Chad's here. Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:48 PM
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If only they realize it doesn't work like that...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:13 PM
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The original meaning of the word "whore" is "to like or desire". So, if you're called a whore, that means they desire you in some way. It's only recently been coined as a derogatory term. And honestly, it's better to be a whore than a Madonna. My great grandma was a Madonna, she turned 96 this year. And I still remember when she told me to do the opposite. To break the curse and not follow in her footsteps. And, I will happily say I gladly did that. I am the polar opposite of what she was forced…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:22 PM
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The 4B movement started in south Korea about a decade ago. It's slowly been gaining global recognition since. As more and more women are seeing similar trends and behaviors throughout the men in their areas. South Korean women are absolutely fed the ever-living fuck up with the men in their country. So they ultimately decided on these "No's" until something systemically changes for them to even be willing to consider anything else besides what they are doing in response to the shit they go throu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:17 PM
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Imma have to watch Red Sparrow later... Getting me thinking of that movie. Jennifer Lawrence is so good and 🔥 it's so fascinating 👏 I may not be a sex spy... I do know a lot of secrets that no man has ever told another living soul besides myself though. I'm a secret keeper in another form.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:39 PM
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Please take my reward! The way you worded this is priceless. Those spin cycle 9000 sloppy toppy bjs are to die for...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:18 PM
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That's the job. Make a man feel wanted, desired, on top of the world. I realized a lot of providers avoid neurodivergent men, disabled men and less able-bodied men. So I put in my ads that I am shy guy friendly, disability friendly, queer friendly, neurodivergent friendly and also it states I am a sucker for nerds. The nerdier, the sexier. I could give a fuck less about what they look like. I'm not hired to find them attractive. I'm hired to make them feel attractive and take their mind off of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:05 PM
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The first 4B's mean... Bihon: No heterosexual marriage. Bichulsan: No childbirth. Biyeonae: No dating men. Bisekseu: No sex with men. The added 3B's to make it now a total of 7B's.... No Consumption: Boycotting items with a "pink tax" or from misogynistic companies. No Interaction: Refusing to engage in conversation or do emotional labor for men. B Help B: Building solidarity by supporting, protecting, and helping other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:00 PM
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I mean, 4b has become the 7b movement. They've upgraded. It's bad ass. The clitoris is the only organ in the body specifically designed for pleasure. And it's bigger than most think it is. And there is a lot more to it than many believe. Look into the documentary on "the super orgasm". It's quite fascinating what women's bodies are capable of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:38 PM
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Proud of you. If only the rest would follow suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:35 PM
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And that's sad and I hate it for you, I do... I'm audhd myself. It's a hassle getting along with people in general. I hear a lot about the scrutiny ND men face in life and dating. It's something that needs to be taken more seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:33 AM
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Yeah I can be like that sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:40 AM
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When did I advertise to you? I only stated there's more to me than you think. I genuinely am not interested in having you hire me.In the first place, I can assure you and promise you greatly. You are not the kind of client that hires me in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:20 AM
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I don't want, nor need anything from you honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:18 AM
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Nahhh babe I did that for other reasons 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:17 AM
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I suppose you'll never know.... Now I'm thinking of the tootsie pop commercials.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:13 AM
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I'm a trauma-informed, relationship, dating, sexual health coach. Among other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:56 AM
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No, you actually don't need a degree to be a mental health professional. Only to be a licensed practitioner, psychologist, psychiatrist, professor and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:43 AM
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You don't need a degree in order to get a certification dude. It's because they are not in currently
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:25 AM
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Because they refuse to date. Or are recently divorced or out of an abusive relationship with a woman. They are traumatized to high hell about dating. Again hence why I am here. To help them better understand dating woes in general. And maybe help them see they are not singled out in being abuse victims... I would love for them to be in long term dynamically. And would continue to support them in every way I can even after the fact. I've even decided to write a couple of... "For the woman who thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:22 AM
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Take my diamond!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:18 AM
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Very funny. I'm here to give my clients insight on why dating is so difficult for them right now. I show them some of these posts and comments, and they think it's nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:14 AM
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Yasssss queen it does!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:13 AM
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As a 304 myself, couldn't agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:04 AM
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You think I'm taking advantage. You clearly didn't read any of my pinned posts on how I operate and how I work and what I do in my sessions with each client. I've even been hired by a couple of dudes here as well. They're awesome and I am so glad I was able to give them good experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:36 AM
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And that's totally okay by me. I've almost hit six figures this year as it is 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:28 AM
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Awwee that's so cute 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:13 AM
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Not even worth responding
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:51 PM
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I have sex consensually. Sex work is an umbrella term. Anyone who knows anything about the sex work industry knows that. Much of prostitution is considered monetary consent. I don't consent in that same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:38 PM
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I'm a professional companion. Or, most commonly referred to as an escort. E.motional S.upport C.ompanion. My clients are very different from the average man. I also primarily see those who are neurodivergent like myself. I'm very particular about who I work with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:37 PM
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Get it right i'm a companion. Not a prostitute. Big difference. We are hired for very, very different reasons. I am primarily hired to give men deep emotional fulfillment and connection outside of the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:22 PM
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If you're on the spectrum, that tracks and is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:42 PM
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There are far too many factors at play. Working long hours, not having enough spare time, the cost of food and amusement going up, rhe rise in technology making it harder for people to have interpersonal connections and develop social skills. Living in the system we currently do now plays a huge role as well. The gender pay gap that people like to pretend doesn't exist. The unpaid invisible labor of women as a whole throughout history. The way that men and women are raised. Environmental factors…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:11 PM
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There is absolutely so much more at play.And there is so much that I could talk about about this.And honestly, there's not enough time and nowhere near enough space for me to even say any of the things that I could or have to say about this topic. Which is part of why i'm even in this sub, to begin with. To research and do more for my clients. To get to the root cause of all of this. And... unfortunately i still come back to the same conclusions. Every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:07 PM
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I know we're the ones that I can find and that find me are yeah. What about the rest? Also, I have hundreds of them now. And I only know like 3 women to give them to... it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:59 PM
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Society itself literally proves it's true. If you just walk outside most of the time. Otherwise, where are the emotionally available and intelligent men with self awareness? And why aren't they dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:50 PM
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Because of what they do for him. That's an easy one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:48 PM
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Okay, and? I would love to see more men actively pursuing wholesome and authentic relationships with women. That would be awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:47 PM
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Correct. It is a hypothesis. Same as anyone else who states "the majority" of anything. It's supposed to leave it open for interpretation. I encounter enough of these men throughout the entire country of the US, actually....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:45 PM
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That's why I say the majority. It leaves it open for interpretation. I think there is an extremely rare group of men in this world who want to be wanted simply for who they are, loved for who they are and adored and cherished for who they are. Not what they do. Not what they "bring to the table" or how they perform. Literally only because of who they themselves naturally are at their core. These are the types of guys I work with regularly. Those who have trouble finding women who want them authe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:38 PM
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And those are all a direct consequence of living in the world we live in. Which was designed by the patriarchal systems in place by.... wait for it... Men. Men want to look good for other men. Marry the woman that makes them look the best for other men. It's actually considerably rare for a man to want to be with a woman outside of the male audience being his main factor. If people stopped dating for superficial reasons and actually started dating for depth, so much would change. Dudes could act…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:32 PM
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Hence why I said the majority of men want status from other men, not love. Otherwise, I don't think things would be this bad right now. And I certainly wouldn't make as much money as I do if men and women were actually able to find who they're compatible with instead of guessing and playing a game of trial and error.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:28 PM
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There are far too many people in this world for anything to match every single human being on earth. Hence why we have statistics and generalizations and so on and so forth
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:21 PM
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It can be true. I've met plenty of women like that myself and have even dated a few of them as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:18 PM
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I know how men are. I know how they think. I've been around enough of them to know the difference between a man looking for status and a man who is looking for love. If you don't know the difference. Idk how to help with that. It's so obvious it hurts and once you see it you can't unsee it. Explain the fist bumps my clients get from frat boys then. For smashing a "hottie" like myself. It's so gross. And my clients hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:17 PM
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Society literally proves this to be true. I don't think you get it. That's okay though. I honestly believe that the majority of men specifically get women solely for status and to get the approval from the Male audience. Clearly, I don't associate with men like this in my day to day life, though. I would lose my absolute mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:13 PM
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I am saying that the only reason why the majority of men do this is to make themselves look good for other men. Did you even watch the link that I sent? It explains it perfectly. Men would rather "look like a family man" than be a family man. Men do spend more time with men than women almost automatically. A lot of men don't interact with women at all unless they want something from them or they have something they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:09 PM
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Because the only reason why they want the woman in the first place is to have status. Women are seen as trophies and status symbols for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:52 PM
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Or to have a real, living, breathing human body to use as a fleshlight
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:32 PM
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And that's amazing for you and love that for you. I'm sure it'll happen one day. Usually when you least expect it. That's what I've come to find. My clients would also be great partners. If they wanted to date, that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:06 PM
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And that's the thing. The male audience. That's all dudes really care about. There's a scene in the movie called Daddio that depicts this very well. Let me link it. It's brilliant. daddio scene
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:03 PM
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Your guess is, as good as mine because I have been losing my mind over the very same question for some time now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:50 PM
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They think it means easy access to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:49 PM
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I think everyone should watch this poem. It hits hard. And is very important I think for dudes especially.. barbie poem
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:21 AM
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Simulated rape, snuff, mumification, violent trains and gangbang type scenes, drug related, etc. To put it simply. Got into that stuff as a teen. It seriously fucked up things for me sexually, that's for sure. I've made it work though. And help others with the same troubles.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:02 PM
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I have a deep affinity for dark psychology for a reason. I study the dark tetrad personality types. And a mental health advocate for men. While also being a trauma informed and sexual health coach for men and couples among other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:58 PM
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Unfortunately for me, I have to watch extreme porn to get off. And it's because I would rather picture myself as the woman who is receiving what she is receiving. Has nothing to do with the men. Has everything to do with my desire to be her and be in her shoes. Even though I don't think any of it is something that I would actually legitimately enact in real life. I stick to stories and dirty talk now. Much better and healthier than watching anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:57 PM
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I'm talking about how they could be better with their penises. And learn new skills. Self improvement is primarily about inner work and doing your shadow work. Not about anything outside of yourself. Like your body. And therefore going to the gym and making yourself look more physically appealing. You can look physically appealing all you want, it doesn't take away from what's inside of you. And if the inside of you is repulsive, the outside of you won't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:48 PM
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Get better game then dude
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:36 PM
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Pussy is more valued than dick. That's literally what I am saying. Dick is useless. Not worth paying for 9/10 and more often than not. Out of the amount of times I've had sex with a dude, there are only a handful that I would've been willing to pay for their time. Or give them a refund for mine. On the other hand, pussy is priceless 👌 and they know it. Otherwise, they wouldn't pay for anything that has to do with women, sex or their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:34 PM
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Someone said "can't see how pussy isn't valued more than dick". And I followed with stating what I stated. Pussy will always be priceless. Sex work is the oldest profession in the world. Dicks will always be replaceable and a dime a dozen. They hold nowhere near the same value. So men thinking dick and pussy are equal are deluded in thinking that. Otherwise. They wouldn't be so desperate to continue sex work as a whole. They would stop playing into it entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:24 PM
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I mean, there are plenty of men who believe dick is as valuable if not equal value to pussy. And it's not. Dick is a dime a dozen. Almost useless unless the dude actually knows what he is doing and had the skills to properly perform well enough to make good money on dick alone. Women can literally walk outside and collect money for having a pussy. Whether her body is touched or not. Someone is willing to pay to see her naked as it is. I can't say the same about men. Though, I have debated hiring…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:21 PM
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Considering the average male escort charges half the average hourly rate of a female escort... Pussy is priceless in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:13 PM
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In the u s between the years of 1964 and 1993 married women were legally barred from saying no to sex. They were legally required to give sex to their husbands whether they liked it or not. Marital rape wasn't deemed illegal until 1993.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:15 AM
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It's the oldest profession in the world. That's all I'll say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:11 AM
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It is far from dismantled... Okay though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:47 PM
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Dismantle patriarchy then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:42 PM
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Technically all women who date men are paid for it when you get into the deeper level of how it all works. And, they'd rather hire me than date. For various reasons. It works for me, and it works for them. That's what matters most.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:18 PM
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That is absolutely baffling that you believe that this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:47 PM
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The same way many of us do, online ads and reviews. There's links in my bio. They also find me here. Some come from the SW sub and lurk on my profile after some of my comments. I'm different from the majority of ladies in the industry so I get clients in random and various ways. Also had people walk up to me while I'm out and about and we've talked business. It's an interesting life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:16 PM
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An Escort is not hired specifically for sexual services. And we are paid for our time as a whole. Not specifically sexually related services. Escorts can have sex if they want to. We aren't exclusively hired for that though. That's what prostitutes are hired for. I'm hired to give men company and companionship. We go on dates, arcades, bar hop, etc. Essentially a girlfriend for hire.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:01 PM
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Ehhh the usual I see is between 5 and 6 when it comes to work, that is. I can barely handle 7, it's pushing it for me personally
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:11 AM
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I've found It's primarily about safety. The body has to fully relax. Most women are prevented from doing that in bed. Women's bodies are like antique cars with carburetors. They take a while to start up and the engine needs to idle for a bit. Patience is necessary. Also, foreplay starts outside of the bedroom. It usually starts the moment a woman wakes up. And that's hardly taken into account. I know how to get women there, I've thankfully figured out a near one-size-fits-all method. However, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:30 AM
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I'm super orgasmic, so I can thankfully have several different types of orgasms and have roughly a 90% chance of success when it comes to my pleasure in bed. It really depends on several factors for me. The setting has to feel right, I have to really like the person and feel safe with them, and a few other things. Size also plays a factor. I'm tiny. So I can only handle so much. There are times where I get there in seconds. And then there are times where it'll take me hours to get even one. 🙃 it…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:24 AM
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There are a lot of factors that play into this. It's primarily related to safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:21 AM
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Thank you!!! I'm happy to be the support they need and the person in their corner. I wish there were more in the job like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:08 PM
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The amount of trauma women have experienced at the hands of men who are the polar opposite of them. And also, the rise in abusive women who specifically seek them out to take advantage of their passive nature. They're people-pleasing types, have trouble saying no and are altruistic as fuck. They tend to attract narcissistic personality types or women with obsessive, addictive and toxic habits. These guys wouldn't hurt anyone unless provoked. And they've about given up on finding a woman to love …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:59 PM
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To put it bluntly, they don't get what the fuck is going on right now. And I'm who they get answers from. Hence a big part of why I'm in this sub in the first place. To give them answers. Of some kind. Something to help better explain whatever is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:43 PM
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I'm a professional companion for men. Most of my clients are single, widows or recently divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:06 PM
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Hearing what my clients go through and all of their dating woes... I'm not jealous. I'm heartbroken for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:00 PM
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I'm married and poly and partnered
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:40 AM
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Feel free to inquire if you'd like assistance with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:01 PM
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I'm a life coach/companion. I focus on sexual health, trauma-informed care and relationships. Among other things. I've essentially merged several jobs into one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:06 PM
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My clients are outliers. They don't get along with men in general society here. The majority are far too entitled among other things. They detest the majority and have hard time making friends. I'm their friend...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:46 PM
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It gives them insight to how dating woes are going throughout the world and our country. Also shows them how other guys think. Because more than 90% of the guys I work with do not think like a lot of what seems to be here... They read the posts and comments and are shocked at some of how things are in here. It really opens their eyes to see what women are going through so they are better prepared for dating. Or how they can better take care of the partner(s) they do have if any. Also helps expla…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:31 PM
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I was invited to this sub by the sub itself due to my shenanigans in other subs I would guess... I've been here for a while. I'm here for the research. Being in here helps me help my clients. I show them some of these posts and threads and it has definitely opened their eyes to some things. The point of this sub is to debate. Agree to disagree. Agree on some things. Disagree on others. Give varying opinions and information across various subjects. It makes me miss being able to actually debate w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:15 PM
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I tell them what happened to create the troubles they face in their interpersonal relationships now are not entirely or inherently their faults. Or proof that there's "something wrong with them". If anything, it's proof that they're afraid of failure and being perceived as "being wrong" more than anything. And that self sabotage is very common, human beings have a tendency to "self destruct" when things feel "too good to be true". Men have deep seated insecurities around competence as it is. Som…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:44 PM
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First step is naming it. The next step is going through and breaking down everything that goes on in their interpersonal relationships. Whether at work or at home or anything. We get to the root of the problem together. And most of it started in childhood and is trauma related.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:57 PM
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There's weaponized incompetence and then there's learned helplessness. They look similar and are often confused for each other. Just throwing that out there. I've witnessed both in a lot of men over the years. It's part of what I help them work through in my profession.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:48 PM
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Dick is a dime a dozen. As in. It's almost useless and pointless to me. I'm difficult to please. Let's say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:39 PM
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Idk man. Dick is a dime a dozen. Can literally walk outside and get a cock if I wanted to. Good dick is rare though. Like a needle in a haystack. There's an over abundance of mediocre cock and nowhere near as much high quality cock as there should be. That's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:32 PM
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Just about every woman I know has had a higher drive and desire for sex than their dudes. I've always been the one with the higher drive myself. I could have sex throughout the day every day and not get tired. It's actually considered bizarre for me not to want sex and a sign that either something is wrong or I'm that exhausted and overstimulated to the point where I don't want to be touched. Granted, I have sex daily as it is. And I still have a craving for more. I'm insatiable... I have compul…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:43 AM
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As I said, I know what the ones I like are into and it's similar to mine. So it works really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:03 AM
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Either take me as I am or not at all. I am who I am, I will always be who I am and I'm not going to change that. I know what the men I like are into and that works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:30 AM
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Seriously. 8 years and a quarter million dollars and the bastard still kept custody. I am so glad he's dead. And wish the best of luck for any parent going through something similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:38 PM
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I've been through the system and also worked for the u s government.I know how it works. Yes, I am a professional companion for hire. That's no secret, it's plastered all over my profile
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:26 PM
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Sounds like men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:45 PM
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Who is using custody as a weapon? Cuz last I checked, fathers use court as a control tactic and final effort to torment and humiliate the mother. I was one of them. I've been through that process. Usually fathers want or are granted custody simply out of a means of control. I'm not sure what you're referring to here otherwise. Most dudes don't even visit their children during their scheduled time with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:39 PM
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I'm a little confused here myself... What is he getting at with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:35 PM
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Pump and dump literally equates to a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:25 PM
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Having been to several male reviews and fucked one of the strippers... It's mostly already married, much older women who attend the shows in my area... I tend to be one of the youngest woman there. Bachelorette parties seem to be more of a go out and dance and party thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:27 AM
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I've literally had several veteran friends of mine explain to me how it works in Vietnam and Thailand. And I can assure you, these women did not have much choice in what happened with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:57 PM
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Uhm. What? They're owned by a trafficker who is forcing them to be married out by another man. Do you not get that? These women are already a man's property. They don't get a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:43 PM
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I actually have a couple of passport bros as clients. They're older. And many are already divorced. Because the bride they married gave him a child. Used him for the green card and dipped after having affairs and getting caught. It's better to hire an escort for fucks sake. Leave these poor women alone. Some of them have no choice but to marry a foreign man and leave their country. And so some have ulterior motives. You think these women are marrying the foreigners for love? No. They're marrying…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:19 PM
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Posts like this make me grateful I stopped dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:54 PM
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6 years ago I contemplated becoming male and transitioning. Then I thought about all of the reasons I have to enjoy being the way I am. As much as I act like a man and have BDE apparently... I would still rather be the person I am today any day of the week. So. Unless I had pretty much the exact same style of life I do now. As a man, I'd rather not. Because I would most likely be even more of a menace and force of nature than I already am. I don't think society needs a person like me as a man...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:26 PM
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Y'all hear about the newborn found at electric forest...?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:15 AM
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Yes, you get it!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:10 PM
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Sex work is social work. I've seen plenty of jobs that encourage sex workers to apply to them given their potential backgrounds experiencing mental health and sexual health outside of psychology. The clubs are dying, sometimes I miss talking with dancers and hearing their side of things again. I tried that once. Nowhere near as incredible as what I do now. Let me tell you... I gotta put my pole up at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:03 PM
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Dude... Those were the days! I was thinking about when I used to post on Craigslist to find one night stands and hook ups. This takes me back... And yes. It's gotten worse. There are women charging double what I do for less than half of the service I provide. It's annoying to hear about... On repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:55 PM
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It depends on the escort. And also your definition of what an escort is. An escort is an emotional support companion. That's what they're primarily hired for. Not specifically for sexual services or to be used as a masturbation tool like a street walker, lot lizard or your basic prostitute. There's a difference. Sex work is an umbrella term for a reason. She may not have as much experience. There are a lot of newbies this year. It's been fucking up the market for sure. And also far too many wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:58 PM
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I am an escort with a twist. I specialize in sexual trauma reprocessing and trauma mastery. Among the fact that my primary demographic of men are neurodivergent specifically. Because I am also neurodivergent myself. ED is very common in the US. It's so common you can get ED pills on Amazon prime for basically nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:53 PM
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So it's usually the same thing. They have trouble cumming. I have to go through all kinds of hoops to finally and eventually get them there. Like 80% of my clients have ED or have trouble performing for any reason under the sun. Mainly work and home stress they have trouble releasing. So I let them talk it out and get what's bothering them off their chest. And then it tends to result in a completion. Finally. That's the end goal and favorite part for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:39 PM
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You sound like some of my clients...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:51 PM
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All kinds of reviews. Good, bad, I've only seen a few of them. I stay off of there. Dudes tend to complain too much and it's become a very toxic board and taken over and run by LEO I hear
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:08 AM
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Usasg is a hobbyist review board used for sex workers in the US. Something like this already exists. I have some reviews on there myself even.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:30 AM
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Some, maybe, I don't quite know. I'd like to think so somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:17 PM
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Narcissus did fall into the mirror. Be careful. 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:35 AM
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I actually have a stay at home husband and am the one who works full time. It's a dream come true for me. There are plenty of stay at home dads out there and wonderful relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:19 AM
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I wear a suit and tie and slick my hair back at times. It's a nice cover up. 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:43 AM
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I like being in as little clothing as possible and live in a city where that is permitted. It gets over 110° here. It's fucking hot. So yeah. I'm wearing almost nothing as often as possible as long as the weather is above 90°. People can shove it if they take issue with it. It's perfectly okay for me to do and I'm not the only woman who does it for the exact same reason. It's hot and boob sweat is awful. Has nothing to do with anything else besides the sole fact that if men get to be practically…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:19 AM
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Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:19 PM
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A proper Dominant knows that the submissive is actually the one in control. They must willingly "surrender" themselves to you. Their Dominant. Forcing a person into submission is not the answer. A submissive has all of the control. They have the final say. They dictate everything. Control the narrative entirely. Anyone who actually knows how to engage in the kink world knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:15 PM
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Thank you for posting this. I was literally telling someone earlier about how hard it is being me at times. Walking outside and getting preyed on at almost every turn. And that sometimes I wish I was invisible. And have even attempted to unalive myself due to the way I look. It's been a wild ride in this life. That's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:10 PM
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Idk man, I prefer dating men who are okay with me making more money than them and paying for most things. It's honestly better for me overall I've learned. Plus, I like shocking the servers and employees when they realize I'm the one with the money and not him. Also, I have trouble being in a room with guys that are of lower intelligence than myself. It's like talking foreign languages. Being the smartest person in the room gets old at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:07 PM
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It's what Escorts are supposed to be doing. I got into eacorting specifically for this. Thank you. I know it is. I've made a world of a difference in these guy's lives. I'm their life line... It's a tough job. And rewarding ultimately. I wish there were more providers like myself. I only know a couple of others who are companions for similar reasons outside of monetary gain or revenge. Also. Not weird to say. It's normal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:40 PM
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I'm a professional companion for men. To put it shortly. Men hire me for deep emotional connection and fulfilment and also to fulfill their sexual desires and make their fantasies come to life. I'm a full time fantasy provider. While also being a shoulder to cry on for them. I hear their dating and marriage woes. The trauma they've endured. We work through it together. And have amazing experiences. Go to arcades, bar hop, go on boats and swim, travel to some degree together... It's been a whole …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:02 PM
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Average men could love themselves first and then see the difference in how women interact with him. Short Kings are 🔥🔥🌹
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:34 PM
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Instead of agreeing to disagree, holding multiple opinions or viewpoints at the same time, actually properly engaging in the debate(s) in good faith, etc. It's kinda sad now that you mention it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:31 PM
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This sub has done wonders in helping me with my clients and work overall. It's given me great insight to better support the people I work with and give them some answers to some of the questions they have. It'd be weird not having this sub at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:29 PM
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😵‍💫🤯😭🌹👀 Ngl that's hot 🔥 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:19 AM
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Whewww I love to hear that. I'm 31, both of my men are 34. One wants sex once in a blue moon. The other has already fucked me 4 times today. And is going to again here shortly... Once he's done scrolling in the bathroom 😂👏 You're a baddie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:12 AM
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If I didn't have my live-in partner, I'd go insane. My husband and I haven't had sex since Christmas. Being long distance is rough. And, he has an overdramatically low libido as it is. It's the one thing we've had trouble with the most in our 8 years together. He has sexual trauma that he can't really seem to get past. Despite my lover having trauma as well, he went on the flipside. Hypersexual like me. Instead of hyposexual like my husband is. It's...interesting. they're practically polar oppos…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:08 AM
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Actually yes, it would still be the same. What about the 19 year old girl who chases the 35 year old man because she has a "daddy kink"? And wants a father figure? The list goes on... I love my job, I love taking care of my clients. They're amazing. It makes modern dating pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:20 AM
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I don't even know what you're getting at with this... I have like a dozen to two dozen orgasms per day. Almost daily. And get paid for it. I'd call that a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:10 AM
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Uhhh no. Not even close. It feels like respect because I am treated like a person and taken care of. I come first. In every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:02 AM
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Because they value me. They value my time. And they value my pleasure. They aim to please. And very seldom disappoint. Last saturday one of my overnight clients booked us a presidential suite downtown. We bar hopped all night. Ate pizza and fucked like kings. It was awesome. I made my rent and then some. The proof is all over my profile. Feel free to take a gander 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:23 AM
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Go for it. My DMs are always open. Escorts have sex when they want to. Not out of obligation. That's the biggest difference besides being paid for arm candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:59 AM
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I actually encourage women to get into sex work all the time if that's what they want to do. Though, I would appreciate if you could refer to us as sex workers and not prostitutes. Considering that it is a derogatory term that doesn't actually equate to what most sex workers are doing in the first place. Sex work is an umbrella term. It's more appropriate and respectful than reducing all of us to the word prostitute when it doesn't quite fit the narrative. I'm an escort. Not a prostitute. A pros…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:41 AM
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Monetary consent is one way.... For myself, I consent to them and they pay me to be in my space. They're not paying me for sexual services by any means whatsoever. They're paying me to exist in the room with them. I'm an escort though. I don't engage in prostitution per se. At least, by the definition. I am hired for my attention and support. Not my body. Most of my guys take me out places. It's like going on paid dates more often than not. I love it. It's honestly made civilian dating boring an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:26 AM
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As an escort, the hypocrisy is annoying AF. To each their own though. I know why I'm hired and what I'm hired for. And it's very seldom about the sex. Sex is like a secondary component.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:23 AM
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Can't recall which country it is, they are starting to offer paid menstrual leave to their employees 😭 at least there's progress somewhere...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:35 AM
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Preach it, absolutely ridiculous 👏 🙄 last I checked, "love thy neighbor" was in there somewhere. And Jesus hung out with everyone, of all types and backgrounds. He didn't give a fuck. Why do we?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:47 AM
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I forget people have issues with bathrooms. I got used to gender neutral bathrooms and going into wherever, whenever to pee. Who gives a fuck about anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:18 AM
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Honestly, pregnancy is one of the most traumatic experiences a woman can have. It can also be quite beautiful. It depends on the environment among other factors as well. Women have many reasons for enduring childbirth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:39 AM
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Anything above 7 is pointless to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:45 AM
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Sounds reminiscent of the way that men respond when women are in the same kind of position... I work with male victims regularly. The stories they have are like an act of fiction at times. I believe them, I've been through similar shit myself with women. Hence why I opted out on pursuing new partnerships for a while. I'm too busy as it is. He is no less a victim to her than she would be to him if the roles were reversed. Although I think a lot of women would question how he didn't see the signs …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:52 PM
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Okay okay, you have a point with that... Look man, weenie hut ain't such a bad place to start. Don't you start at the bottom to get to the top? I've heard power bottoms are fun 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:40 PM
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The prior comment talking about juniors. I'm over here thinking, well, there's weenie hut junior's and super weenie hut junior's... Perhaps they should start there? Also, adhd is fun. Isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:35 PM
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And now in my head I hear.... "Weenie hut junior's..??" "Not Super weenie hut junior's!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:32 PM
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They tend to suffer, yes. In multitudes of ways. Many of them hire companions like myself though. So, they hire younger women who tend to remind them of a hot woman who rejected them before they met their wife. Or a woman who looks similar to their wife. I see more single men than married men these days thankfully. The main reason married men come to see me though is because their wives don't want to have sex for pleasure. And are too old to procreate. So they have no desire to have sex at all. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:10 PM
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Funny thing is many men resort to hiring sex workers because the transaction is more honest and straightforward for them than dating is. It's always an interesting thing to hear them say. And that its hard to find a provider/companion who actually likes the job and isnt only in it for the money. Makes them feel less cheap and used and also less like a predator. Cuz who wants to force a woman who gets paid? Yet they force civilian women all the time. Make it make sense 😂 Pretty sure trump got his…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:01 PM
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Reminds me of this comedian who has this little short where he talks about how abusive men are every where. They're your friends, your family, people you never would have guessed. It's actually very well worded. There's also a poet who has an incredible poem where he talks about how he will not let his sons play with dolls. Until they learn the difference between a woman and a doll. I linked both for reference. They're pretty brilliant 👏 imo skit barbie
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:44 PM
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I would say it's a conundrum to me how feminism would miss this part. I firmly believe men are more victims than women. Against other men, that is. And that we don't take male victims of female abuse seriously enough as well...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:02 AM
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Then why don't men want women to consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:23 AM
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Patriarchy has everything to do with this. It's the reason men are not considered victims to women. How can a man be abused by his own property? That comes from patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:03 AM
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No, the system is why she was able to use it against him. She has post-partum rage. He called me in jail last year and said. "It wasn't that bad until the baby was born." I've heard countless women say that. Countless. But a man? My childhood best friend. My ride or die bestie, brother from another mother is saying "it wasn't that bad"... what the fuck??? Two years in jail. For him going to care for their baby. And she wailed on him. With the baby in his arms to protect her from the mother. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:19 AM
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A friend of mine is serving in state jail due to the violence of his baby mama. I get that much. That's thanks to patriarchy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:13 AM
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I'm more interested in dismantling the systems in place. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:10 AM
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You'll have to elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:07 AM
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How did feminism create a problem by making it to where women could say no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:05 AM
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I do make it make sense when my clients ask me. It's part of my job. There are too many reasons to name all of the potential ones it could be. All comes down to culture and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:06 PM
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See, that's the thing though... Prey stopped having empathy as socially and publicly as they used to. Think, before the internet, many women were still unaware and isolated just enough to have no idea they were being hurt in the first place. It's just a normal day to day life as a woman. Better the devil you know than the devil you don't. Heard that idk how many times growing up. Always made me wonder. What about the ones I know nothing about? Would they be... better in some way? Easier to manag…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:59 PM
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Are you sapiosexual? I'm sexually attracted to intelligence over everything else. And I mean Einstein, Isaac Newton, Bill Nye level intelligence mixed with Edgar Allen Poe, Robert Frost and William Shakespeare like emotional depth. So hard to find... They don't get the difference. I've tried explaining it to a few of them. It goes right over there heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:45 PM
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You have a point 👉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:27 PM
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A bangmaid relationship dynamic versus the "free use" dynamic I have.... Hmmm.... I would rather continue the dynamic I have now. I have a live-in partner whose job is to cater to my every want, need and desire. And he does a pretty damn good job for the most part. He cooks, cleans, packs my bags for travel, drives me across the country for work, creates content with me and "bangs" me whenever he or I wants. We have sex so many times, we actually keep a counter to keep track of the amount of tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:19 PM
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Honestly I think that's really what they want. They won't say it though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:12 PM
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Funny you mention "wallet ATM". For financial submissives, they're called "cash cows" and "pay pigs" and "the bank" and some other words. As a finsub in training, I find it arousing. Wonder how other fins feel about it. I don't think these dudes want that kind of dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:10 PM
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Technically women never wanted the sex part when you think about traditional relationships and marriages. Sex was and is still considered something "done to women" and not a mutual act between two or more people. When sex becomes more widely known as something women can actually enjoy and not get shamed for or called a whore about it, maybe things will change. And women might want sex more. Marital rape wasn't illegal until roughly 30 years ago in the US for example. Which means wives legally co…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:07 PM
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Sounds like prostitution, does it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:04 PM
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And teach our boys and men to take "no" for an answer, learn what consent is and proper sex education overall would be rather beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:42 AM
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Also, when a victim goes to file a report, they also have to sign a document that states they'll be sent to prison if found to be committing perjury. Which, I get. However, it's the main thing that stopped me with one of many cases I had. And I know plenty of others who decided against pursuing theirs due to the fear of going to jail themselves and them going Scott free anyway. There's no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:34 AM
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That's kind of the point. Seeing as sexual assault is the only crime you have to prove in the US. And the system is designed to protect the abuser/accused. Not the victim. I know this first-hand. I've not only worked for the gov, I've been through the process plenty of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:16 AM
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It's rape by deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:55 AM
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It's considered an act of coercion. And, it's very hard to prove. So most don't even report it. Myself included.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:46 AM
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Better to be honest than to coerce a woman into sex. As someone who has been coerced far too many times to count. I think it helps that lying to get sex is a felony in my state. Once I learned that, it helped to keep up the "no" and walk away. The people who hire me do so because I do this out of my own free will and desire to help and be support for them. Not for the money or to exploit and torment them. It's specifically for therapeutic purposes. 😌 makes all the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:13 AM
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Speaking as a companion.... It's better to be paid for my time than manipulated and lied to. Being on this side of things has changed my worldview and view on men altogether as a whole. I had no idea I would experience better men by switching to this side of life. Guys who pay for my time are more respectful and considerate, they're more trustworthy and tend to be all about me. It's like they truly honor and value me as a person. It's been a real change of pace overall, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:01 AM
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I'm poly and pansexual and prefer to hang around others who are also poly and identify as queer. I prefer pansexual and queer men to hetero men. They're more balanced and in touch with themselves. And treat me better overall. I've heard that some have trouble due to their idea of masculinity. I had a friend who was like that. Wanted a man in touch with himself. Yet she also found them to be repulsive because of her fake idea of what a man really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:18 PM
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That's true as well. Don't chase though. And take no for an answer the first time. Never persist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:35 AM
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The husbands try and attempt and fail, and the wives are pretty much fed up to begin with.And it's ultimately neither one of their faults.It's honestly society and purity, culture and patriarchy, and a metric of other things that are complicating the relationship and therefore causing them to have this massive rift and disconnect between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:34 AM
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They're part of the problem and work for solutions and are shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:08 AM
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I agree with you. That's my plan. By land and hide with my kids and polycule ASAP
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:44 AM
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Maybe the demographic of women that you're speaking about, but like that, and i'm sorry for you... I uh, I i think women overall just want men to have more balanced selves.. dbt is a good way to do that. And fighting the internalized misogyny/misandry. On the flipside. Men tend to use women as emotional containers. They put immense amounts of pressure on the women they're with to be their sole emotional outlet. That is where many draw the line. Generally women have several outlets for emotional …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:15 AM
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You sound like one of my clients... You're a gem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:49 AM
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The same way men doing the same is considered a benefit to society. The same way a chef, a service industry job, trades, etc... You realize all jobs are important? And women are more than mere incubators? Even the one who creates the pencil is important to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:08 PM
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Human beings are not meant to be patriarchal, they're matriarchal like orcas, elephants, bonobo's and there are some others there. Women are not beneath men. In a matriarch, the children, weak and elderly are put first and prioritized over men and women. I would rather that than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:03 PM
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I don't care how his wife looked at my age. I don't care about any of that. I care that he was inadvertently insulting his wife to compliment me. Therefore trying to force me to engage in competition with his wife. Which disgusts me. I cut clients off for that. I would rather their wives know about me than have them say "You're a hotter younger version of my wife" Yeah. How do you think she would feel if she knew you were telling an escort that online? I don't like that shit. It grosses me out. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:18 PM
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I opted out ages ago. I don't have many lady friends. I get along better with men than women. I have more interaction with men than women. I find it hard to relate to some women. And yet relate very well with others. I don't have an easy time making friends with women though. Perhaps I am lucky to not be younger Gen. Would've been cool to be Gen x maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:14 PM
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That's fair. People have a tendency to shut down and avoid. Wording is crucial. I have trouble with one of my partners with his wording. His vocabulary is growing and he's learning how to identify his emotions and make sense of his PTSD. It's been a process. Dismissive avoidant types would hide. You're right. Thank you for chiming in
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:09 PM
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Thank you, I appreciate that. I was thinking more of a "well. Now that you mention it, there is something." It is a yes or no question. Though I would like to think it would encourage more open conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:05 PM
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Emotional vulnerability is not weakness, it is proof of strength. Especially when you can hold your emotions well and wise. I have a thing for men who engage in "wise-mind" or are entering their redemption arch. It's hot to me. I'm poly, maybe that's part of it. You learn a lot being poly. It's a real good way to learn how to process emotions better. Makes all the difference. I dont quite know women like that. At least, not these days. It's sad if thats the case. I would like to think women unan…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:04 PM
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I wanted to adopt. My children were not given to me by choice. It would have been nice to at least have some say in who their fathers were. I didn't want to add more children to the world. When there are plenty lacking support and love and care. When it comes to others. I'd imagine they want the ability to decide for themselves. Not be told what they should do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:26 PM
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Ever heard the saying "The more you chase, the further you push away"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:25 PM
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To fuck mostly. And troll men. Which i still do actively outside of the apps. And my clients tend to help me do that at times too. They get a kick out of it with me. I stopped having casual sex. And became a professional companion. The sex I have now makes the sex I had pre 2022 look like a long nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:05 PM
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That was ages ago when I was. I stopped using dating apps years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:00 PM
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As a hypersexual person as well, I stopped using the apps a long time ago besides to troll desperate dudes... I would imagine its worse for them in a way ...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:56 PM
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It's so fucked up. Swiping on every single profile. Definition of insanity right there. Desperation can be sensed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:55 PM
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Don't forget to mention really dehumanizing and tends to make your skin crawl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:53 PM
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"Hey babe! Here's my 🍆🍆 unsolicited! What do you think? Omg dont you wanna suck it so bad?" "Why arent you fucking me already bitch? I said I was DTF like 3 days ago. Ive been in your DMs six times this month. What gives???" 100% of them would make you never wanna talk to people again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:52 PM
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"Hey, I appreciate the will to communicate with me about going on a trip with Michael next month. Is there anything you'd like to talk about before you go? Or are there any concerns you think I should have or that we need to address beforehand?" <--- personally I would prefer something like this. Open ended questions are usually a good way to go with things like what you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:33 PM
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I thought women were the ones who nag and complain? My have the tables turned here... /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:30 PM
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They could actually listen to our perspectives and pay more attention to what we are saying to them. Instead of call it false or something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:27 PM
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I'm right there with you, it's confusing as all hell to me. How is it they don't even wanna pay for a dinner date at a chilis or Applebee's yet women are supposed to swoon and blindly submit? Submit to what? Foolishness? And being led astray? They have no idea what life was like 75 years ago. They had to pay for everything. Had to build their own houses for fucks sake. They could also AFFORD a family of 8 on his salary alone. Times have changed. Drastically. And they need to evolve and get with …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:13 PM
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Same here. I've told my husband and live-in partner they're it for me. If we don't work out, I am done dating altogether. I'll stick to work and hiring companions instead. It's not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:03 PM
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You could be right. I can't say I pay attention to that kinda stuff. I live in a really diverse city. So I forget others aren't like it. Like I'm used to gender neutral bathrooms and seeing tourists freak out by that is hilarious to me. And a wake up call that people still get weird about that. When it's normal for me and has been most of my life. Conservatism makes no sense to me. It's like a foreign language.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:59 PM
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Hopefully the third is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:57 PM
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😭😭😭 that is so amazing. I am so happy for you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:25 PM
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You're telling me... I told him I found it to be an insult. Not a compliment. And that I feel sorry for his wife now. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:58 PM
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Young women are listening to their mothers, aunts and grandmas who are telling them to focus on themselves first and that men will always be there. They can wait. She has plenty of time to pursue her own ideas and desires first. She can date later. It's wise advice. It's the advice I was given once. Focus inward. Then focus outward.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:58 PM
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Hey now! Millennials are pretty awesome 😍 Gen Z scares me. And I get along better with gen X and Y. I think you're onto something 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:17 PM
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Yassss Queen! It's so sexy!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:16 PM
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A potential client got removed from my roster the other day for saying I look like his wife only 20 years younger! Omg yay. You shamed your wife for me... Go fuck yourself dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:15 PM
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Last I checked it's a symptom of patriarchy. Which has been around for thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:14 PM
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Yeesh. When a man cries I'm wrapping my arms around him and wiping his tears and telling him to let it all out. That's a huge turn on for me. Men expressing their emotions in a healthy way is foreplay to me. I'm so sorry if this is what you've experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:13 PM
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Women are very different from each other. What works for one woman will make the next one's skin crawl. It's borderline impossible to assume that women give "mixed signals" Some women are direct. Some women are subtle. Some use crude humor or dry humor. Others are flat in tone and distinguished. Every single woman is different. So they are going to do, want, say different things. Every woman is like a new flower in the garden. Inspect her with curiosity and awe and wonder. And watch what happens…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:11 PM
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I love your posts every time. Preach it!!! As someone with an absurdly high sex drive... I am very selective about who I allow to have access to me. I have to be. I get so much attention I don't know what to do with it half the time. Finding good/great sex was like finding a needle in a haystack for me until about a year ago. The sex started getting better and better and better. Why? Because I became ultimately more selective and also I charge for my time as a whole now. Not a single dude gets f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:01 PM
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I read things like this and it makes me really wonder how I wound up a woman this time around. I mean, sex isn't the end all be all, however, I would never be in a deadbedroom relationship. Soul intertwining is really important to me. This hurt my eyes to even read.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:55 PM
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What is your definition of a "high status man"? Mine is vastly different. A high status man to me is a man who fully embodies all parts of himself. And owns his truth and is a fully authentic being with high intelligence. I don't care what's in his wallet, I have my own. I don't care about looks. I'm here for depth. Not skin level deep. I want the depths and deepest darkest parts of him to be fully exposed into the light for me to love all of him and invoke in him fully, truly and valiantly. I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:53 PM
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There are plenty of women who would enjoy that with your size. I'm one of them. They exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:45 PM
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Ya don't say... I would bet he is on his 10th one by now. This was a decade ago, last I heard about the dude anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:48 PM
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Patriarchy has only existed for a little over several thousand years. It was a matriarchy before that point when Khan decided to conquer and thus patriarchy was born. The modern society is still new. We haven't lived this way very long in the grand scheme of human kind. You get that, right? Patriarchy is also causing human beings to go backwards in their evolution. Because it goes against the system that is meant for human evolution. Which makes us pretty dumb. Wouldn't you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:20 PM
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I think I've figured out what the problem is.... Men put the systems in place. And the systems are failing humanity. Which is by design. Since human beings are going against nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:17 PM
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One man's trash is another man's treasure.... Or so they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:40 PM
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I don't know man.I know people that have been married like 4 to 6 times. I once had a boyfriend whose boss had married his sixth stripper from the exact same fucking strip club. Six. Strippers. In a decade, and he had kids with all six of them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:18 PM
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Marriages are not a one lifetime event. They are a lifetime event themselves... ask married people. You have a ceremony once, sure. You are married for life. Unless you divorce and remarry. People renew their nuptials too ya know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:11 PM
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Fair enough. How isolating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:53 PM
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Why does this make sense? 😵‍💫🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:38 PM
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By bad in bed, you mean dead fish it and not doing anything, right? Would you rather a woman fake pleasure so you get the ego stroke you want? Or actually enjoy sex with you? Btw, having sex with all of those men didn't validate me. It infuriated me. Made me believe men were pathetic and worthless and useless sexually. Unless they are willing to be trained to pleasure you. I prefer sex with men who put my pleasure first. That's the real validation they're after ya know. For me anyway. Knowing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:58 PM
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So if you fucked 200 women in 10 years and not a single one of them gave you the ability to climax, you would be okay with that? It wouldn't feel like torture? Or that there was something wrong with you? Or that you are going to be edged forever and never experience an orgasm mutually with another person? It's not as amazing as you may think. I have better sex now than I ever had with some random online.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:51 PM
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And see I'm so used to being an option due to my looks and looks alone. That a man who sees me as an option for everything else in spite of my looks is who I am searching for. And find quite regularly now. This shit is nuts to me. Have I been out of the game too long?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:49 PM
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I don't hate men. I hate men's actions. 😒 get it right. Good god it drives me mad when people do that. If I hated men, I wouldn't work with them on their trauma and relationships so they can heal and be better men for themselves and the people in their lives as well. I wouldn't help them at all. I would be like my high end friend. Going after the big bucks and taking down rich old white men with giant dildos in their asses...god that was a horrific story she told me the other day. Being a Domina…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:48 PM
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Why? You would hate it. Literally fucking hate it. It's so dehumanizing...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:45 PM
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She did choose not to have sex. They chose to have sex with her. Women already do this regularly. It gets them nowhere. Women do not face fair treatment in the justice system either. If that were true, wouldnt it have worked in my favor? And in my friends favors?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:44 PM
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Yeah, and that is so sad. Men will take any option. Where women at least want a seemingly good one. The bar is so low...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:39 PM
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It's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:37 PM
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Ha! I am not. Tinder actually offered me that premium platinum package or whatever for $500 a month because I swiped so often on tinder gold. I would have over 2,000-5,000 likes on tinder. And I would go through and swipe left on pretty much all of them. And match with a select few. It was like looking through a menu of fuckbois trying to find a gem. Needle in a haystack if you will. Honestly I think I fucked up the algorithm. So I changed it to only show non-males and I only get so many likes f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:31 PM
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They will never have my exact lived experiences and brain. It wouldn't sell very well. Thank you for that ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:26 PM
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He does very much so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:21 PM
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Yes!!!! Omg fuck yes. With me at the center of it of course!!! Actually no. I have big plans for an army of American men. I will need the protection for mt future plans in this country. Someone needs to make sure they don't take my ass out like JFK or MLK. I am not risking that to be their leader. I wouldn't be able to lead them into the fire in that case. I would be dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:05 PM
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I had a feeling about that one. They'd have real pictures. About my real life sexual experiences with these men. The pages will read like fiction as well. So they will be mind blown and go "SHE CAN DO THAT?!?!?!?!?!?" I'M EXCITED
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:04 PM
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Thank you. You would be correct. I am quite the succubus. And I do enjoy collecting male souls for my army 💜 they also enjoy it as well. It's so hot when a man is on his knees giving me his heart and soul for me to play with and hold for him. I cherish them well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:01 PM
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This is why I wish Craigslist still existed for r4r's. Then again, reddit has them now and hardly any women actually use them besides to troll men and take money from them. Fuck do I miss the Craigslist days though. It was so easy to find dudes to fuck. Similarly to how it is in the subs for that on here. Yet. Easier to receive an email than a DM. A little more personal and less anonymous. At least, from what I remember. It's been what, a decade since Craigslist had the r4r's? Something like tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:00 PM
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I know he would. And that would be fucking awesome and liberating. I do my best to embody Lilith and her teachings. She is the real woman after all. In my eyes anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:58 AM
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Choosing men is the bad decision. I would say all women or most women have made the mistake of choosing a bad relationship unbeknownst to them until much later.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:57 AM
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I am, gladly and happily living my life. The best I can. It's pretty awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:56 AM
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I am actually writing a book based on my sexual expereinces as an escort. I plan on using them as a form of dating catalog for women eventually. Maybe if they read enough stories about this particular guy, she might be interested in him enough to ask me for his number at a book signing. I'm a dreamer. And that's one of my fantasies at this point. Making real life smut for women and helping them find better men to be with and play with. It's gonna be a whole thing. I'm honestly really really exci…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:55 AM
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Men are swiping right on anyone with a pulse. Women are swiping right on the profiles that are the most appealing to them. Therefore, women are more selective than men. They're looking for a legitimate partnership. Where men are usually looking for what they consider free sex. They are not swiping for the same reasons. If men want sex over a relationship and women want a relationship over sex... therein lies the issue as to why women are swiping less. There are less options for them to realistic…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:52 AM
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Men brainwashed her into thinking she was only going to get what he gave her. So she may as well stay with him. She will never find better. He treats her better than she deserves. The gaslighting and manipulation is real with that one. And for women who experience stockholm, leaving is seen as the same level of difficulty if not more difficult than quitting heroine. Human beings are harder to detox from than one of the most addictive drugs on the market. That says something dude. It's not just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:43 AM
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Unhoused women are most likely to be hobosexual. Why would a man want a woman who is only with him so she has a place to live and isn't on the streets? The streets are more dangerous for women than men. That's some of why you see less women than men out there. On top of the whole hobosexual thing. I've met women who have had a "Captain Save a hoe" rescue them. A few times now. For various reasons. That would primarily include not having anywhere else to go but him. I consider this predatory beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:38 AM
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Idk man. Studies and statistics show the loneliest place a woman can be is right next to a man. And that they would rather "be alone" than be in a relationship where they "feel alone". Hetero relationships are isolating as fuck. I would rather be alone than feel alone. If that means being single, then so be it. Thankfully, my men don't make it seem like I am the only one in the relationship. Though, that's pretty common for women. To be the only one in a relationship. Fighting for it's stability…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:32 AM
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Eve is considered a "pick me, Madonna type". And Lilith is considered the "rebellious whore type". I would say this tracks and corellates to today's world as well. There are women who blindly submit and want to submit to men. And there are women who hold their truths and know they are not to submit to anyone outside of themselves. You can see it. The difference between a woman who desperately seeks the attention of a man and values herself based off of his value of her. And a woman who knows her…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:24 AM
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Bad boy, big dick energy. Knows himself, knows what he wants, isn't afraid to get it. You know he's considered the "ultimate bad boy" because he rebelled against his creator so he could fully embody himself and not obey her. Women love Lucifer because he would rather be true to himself than live a lie. He would rather a woman willingly give herself to him than do so out of force. He believes in the power of free will and sovereignty. You get that, right? He is a sovereign being. Which is the mai…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:10 AM
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Lucifer actually stood for himself and his people and believed to be equal to his creator and therefore did not want to blindly "obey" his creator. Same as how Lilith did not want to blindly "obey" Adam. Lucifer gave the fruit of truth to humanity so that they too could learn that they are equal to god and therefore do not need to blindly obey god and follow in bad faith. God is within them. Even Yeshua quoted that. Lucifer and Lilith stood for the same principles in different ways. Orginially c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:43 AM
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By free will. Not by force. She chose to serve him. They chose each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:04 AM
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Yes. It very much is. How you act, react, so much more. Some are more equipped than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:26 PM
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Bitter due to bad experiences with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:24 PM
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The 4b sub is a whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:24 PM
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Remember that Lilith came before Eve. And left him because she refused to submit to him. So Eve was created to submit. And then ate the apple. And realized she was not meant to submit to Adam. Forbidden fruit of truth. She ate the fruit and the truth set her free.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:34 PM
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I prefer nerdy guys. Because I too am a nerd. Likes attract like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:27 PM
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It's harder to make friends, you never know whether they want to actually genuinely be your friend or they're only around because they want something from you. It's fucking isolating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:49 PM
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A point that women have a right to be enraged by the behaviors of men? Yeah. That's a good point to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:55 PM
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As is their right. They have every right to be angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:43 PM
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Women going 4b is not because they're "selfish"... Unless you count wanting to stay alive and free from harm as something that is inherently "selfish" of women to expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:35 PM
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Business as usual, sounds about right. What else could it possibly be??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:34 PM
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It is a lot to unpack. Primarily childhood trauma related and relational trauma. All has to do with discovering new, safer ways to engage in sexual intimacy. Free from shame, judgment, scrutiny, etc. They are free to be their fully authentic selves in our shared safe space. We work through their deepest, darkest pieces... It's a big job. A lot of responsibility. I have come to find i am many of their last lines... I'm all they have. It reminds me of when I worked behavioral health for a health i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:25 PM
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So much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:00 AM
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There's a huge difference between a man about her pleasure and a man about his own over hers. They don't know how to properly discern the difference between them. And do have a tendency to ignore, avoid and write off the genuine guys. That's okay, more of them for me to appreciate and fuck 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:21 PM
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It's okay, it's a work in progress. He has a lot of trouble remembering that sex is about soul intertwining and not using each other to masturbate. Full disclosure, more than 80% of my clients have been sexually abused or sexually assaulted at some point in their lives. Whether in childhood, adolescence, or somewhere in their adulthood, by both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:45 PM
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My husband actually has deep trauma around sex. We haven't had sex in 7 months. For various reasons. The main two being long distance and his sexual trauma. My live in partner and I have sex an average of 3 to 5 times per day on a daily basis though. It helps at times. It was hard before. I'm not even gonna bother with the rest of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:22 PM
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"Erica don't you know better by now? Submit to your man already you dumb slut! How dare you try and tell him who he can and can't fuck if you aren't gonna fuck him when he wants you to? You're his property! You're not allowed to say no to sex. You don't have a choice, remember? You wanted this." To think. Marital rape has only been illegal for 33 years in america... I'm 31...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:20 PM
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Considering I was a target to abuse like this... I am still actively doing research on how to mitigate this. I have some ideas. I won't share them here. It's not time yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:12 PM
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You're right. And I aim to be one of the people who works to change this one day. One day... I hate it for you guys. It makes me sick. Part of why I quit working for the government...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:00 PM
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The reason a man loses sexual interest in his wife is due to her becoming a mother... Did this happen to you or something? Both of my husbands have no problems having sex with me and don't have affairs. They're able to date others if they so choose. And prefer to stay monogamous to me. We're polyamorous though. And have a kitchen table polycule that consists of about 6 people technically.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:51 PM
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No, the madonna doesn't become a Madonna until after she becomes a mother herself. Better to be a whore than a Madonna. My great grandma was the perfect example of a Madonna. Had 9 children to a man who cared more about golf than anything else in his life. I can only imagine how many affairs he had...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:47 PM
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Dude... Let me introduce you to my single clients who only want one woman to have and commit themselves to. Who wish they could find women who want them back in the same ways. And instead keep attracting women who don't want sex at all thanks to social stigmas around sex and women's sexuality. I have a married client who absolutely loves and adores his wife. And they've been married over 20 years. Never had children. And she has little to no interest in sex because she is catholic. He asked her …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:26 PM
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This is false. There are many who do not experience this and are often confused by it. I work with them regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:17 PM
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For many different reasons that don't have anything to do with domestic violence. Women primarily go to jail for being independent thinkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:16 PM
1

Property can't go to jail. Women are considered property by patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:14 PM
2

Sex coaches, sex therapy, sexual reprocessing therapy. There are a few ways. It's part of what I'm hired for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:46 PM
1

Started in 1981, okay. I see now. Interesting. At that point, marital rape was still legal though. So it actually makes a lot more sense as to why there's little to no help for male victims. Back then, it was a lot less likely than it is now. According to history and research anyway. These days, since women have choice, it's more common for men to be victims to women. Patriarchy is why my friends are there. The system doesn't protect men from women. It protects them from other men. Barely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:40 PM
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It's a big part of what we are fighting for, yes. No idea what that is. Men are definitely victims. More so victims to other men than women. However, women use the systems in place to their advantage often. Because they know they can. I have two amazing male best friends who are in jail right now for separate reasons. One was falsely accused of trafficking a minor. The other was put in jail for DV for protecting his toddler from the mother. While she beat him with the baby in his arms. It absolu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:24 PM
1

Anytime
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:22 PM
7

Feel free to DM babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:21 PM
1

That's one way to put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:21 PM
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That's how we gotta work in this industry. It's not our faults. They pay for the time they pay for. Which means they get the time they pay for if they want it. Many don't. Some do. Some stay and finish the time. Some are too embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:16 PM
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The feminists I know and have the pleasure of protesting with are actually fighting for more shelters to be built and more services for men. Especially veterans. Also. Who gives a fuck how they would feel about it. It's fucking necessary. Men are more susceptible for abuse than women are in a lot of ways I've come to find. Many men don't even know they're being abused. Same as many women. Yet the rate among men is higher because they weren't taught the language in the same way women were.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:13 PM
1

Yep! Bingo! There's the winner right there. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:10 PM
7

Usually they're married...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:03 PM
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Dudes pay for an hour and aren't able to make it the full hour and get pissed that there's a "no refund" policy. Or their so humiliated for finishing up early, they give a nice tip for the inconvenience and run away never to be seen again. It's hilarious. They think they're being exploited. In regards to in person sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:02 PM
2

Cognitive dissonance places such a huge factor here. You absolutely can shame someone. People do it all the time. The closeted ones shame the ones who are out of the closet regularly. They're so deeply ashamed of themselves, they project that shame onto others. It's absurd. Reject their shame and let them figure it out on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:00 PM
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"What? You didn't like us passing you around when you blacked out at the party last week? Shouldn't have had so much to drink and left one open for us to spike... Your fault." <--- the fact that this happens to teenagers is what gets me most. I wonder how they would react to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:52 PM
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Ehhhh I would say this is rather rare. In general, with the conditioning women face, they're not sexual with their husbands because they're conditioned not to be. Their sexuality is not their own. It is his. And therefore it's his job and responsibility to initiate sex and make sure he fills his cup for himself. It's interesting considering women are actually the ones with higher libidos and drives than men. And yet we are conditioned to believe the opposite to be true. Which means we have a ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:46 PM
1

If you say so. There's lines to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:30 PM
4

Right, it's disheartening.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:43 AM
7

The Madonna-Whore complex is about married men who have trouble viewing their wives in a sexual sense. Usually after she's had a child and become a mother. The husband has trouble distinguishing the difference between his wife as a sexual partner and his wife in a "mother" role. So now his mentality is no longer finding his wife sexually attractive and appealing because he is conflating her with how he would see his own mother. Which tends to repulse him. So he tries to mitigate this by finding …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:31 AM
4

Rape does mean to penetrate, technically. Though, they have since broadened the term to include other forms of sexual abuse and assault. It's sad that this is considered "normal"...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:09 AM
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Learning recently that there is only one male DV shelter in my state to the dozens for women and children was rather dumbfounding. The few services out there for men are nowhere near where we need them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:01 AM
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Dismantle the system and start over. That's the only way at this point. Which means radical change in how we do everything and operate everything. It would be a massive change and time in our evolution as a species. People need to learn what enthusiastic consent is. And that consent can be revoked at any time. Before, during and after. Even if years have passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:56 AM
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Some of the bars in my ciry carry drug test strips so people can test their drinks. The bar i go to, i was roofied at and raped in the bathroom. This happens so frequently in my city, the police are understaffed by over 400 officers. And rape kits are now done at a separate facility. They're no longer performed at hospitals. You have to call and schedule an appointment for your rape kit. Some drugs are no longer detectable by the time they perform the kit. There are organizations that offer at h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:55 AM
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It's the only crime you have to prove happened... The system is designed exactly as it was meant to be and works exactly the way it is supposed to. It protects abusers and people in power. Not the victims. Anyone who has been through the system knows this in some way. Everyone has the right to their own bodies and the right to consent or revoke consent. Unfortunately this is a topic many aren't willing to really talk about openly enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:48 AM
1

You seem bitter. You must be single. I can't possibly imagine why....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:51 PM
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She didn't have a choice. Women can choose not to have children now. And that's a good thing. Because working in a male-dominated field as a woman gets you hurt. They have to work twice as hard and have a high chance of being sexually assaulted or blackmailed by their superiors. So they opt out. When there is a 99% chance of being raped... You stay away. Unless you think you can handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:50 PM
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Yeah, pretty much exactly that. Gotta say though, being more selective about the men you have sex with gives you a higher chance of orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:37 PM
1

Have you ever seen the marriage subs? They're the opposite of happy...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:36 AM
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Sounds like the same thing women are doing. That tracks. I'm a sex worker. I'm paid to hear and keep men's secrets. You'd be amazed the things they open up about. Wondering why their wives never initiate sex and feeling like they're unattractive or disgusting or something to her... It's fucking sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:56 PM
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You're not getting it. That's okay. Why don't men stop adhering to gender roles themselves? I know plenty of men that already have. And their lives are better for it. Including their sex lives. Which tend to include me as well. I know I don't abide by gender roles. And I'm a radfemme. I am all for dismantling the systems in place and men having the freedoms to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:08 PM
1

This sounds like a fantasy... Maybe you should write your own smut.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 09:57 PM
1

Stockholm syndrome exists. And there are a rare selection of women who idolize and chase after dark tetrad types. There's a name for them I cannot recall right now... Incel = Involuntary celibate. Which means they don't have sex at all. Like, at all. For years if ever.... It's not about violence. It's about protective men. Feminine men tend to be very strong and resilient. They have more power being emotionally aware than a man who has physical strength and lacks mental and emotional wit. I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 09:29 PM
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Right, because they primarily do so by predatory means, you get that, don't you? These women are very seldom with these men willingly. No matter what the media may try to sell you. You don't get how women work and that's clear. Women want a strong and brute man who can fight his and her battles and stand up against injustice, etc etc. A man who will put her needs before his and ensure her safety all around. Emotional safety, physical safety go a long way. And the slight tinge of "danger" that go…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 09:05 PM
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Incels don't have sex. Wish dudes would learn it's the inside that's more important than the outside. As within, so without. Aa above, so below. The outside world is a reflection of the inside world in you. If more men grasped this, they'd be one with themselves. And become more attractive overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:50 PM
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How is women lowering their standards even more so than they already are a solution for men to gain access to sex that is pointless to have? This doesn't make sense to me. Women want men to give a fuck about them. Not be used like living sex toys. It's dehumanizing and horrific to experience. You're not giving any solutions whatsoever that show it would be worth it for women. Can you elaborate on how women allowing any Tom, Dick and Harry through is a good thing??? Because in my experience, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:33 PM
1

Yes. Which is the majority of dudes who engage in casual sex. They don't think it's their responsibility for women to enjoy themselves during sex. Literally, the majority of dudes who have casual sex are terrible in bed. And they fuck like rabbits. Which means they don't last for shit. And they don't give a fuck to learn anything. All they wanna do is enact something they watched in porn and then realize it was a waste of time. Or they can't even perform in the first place due to ED, drugs or so…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:23 PM
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Dudes in touch with their feminine sides are sexy as fuck to a lot of women. A man with healthy emotional awareness, regulation and social skills is a man worthwhile. Yin/Yang, etc. All humans carry both masculine and feminine energies. Not life's fault there are gender norms and societal expectations that are unrealistic and go against human nature. It's the system's fault. And those who put it in place. And it's men's responsibility to challenge this. The rest of these dudes... Questionable at…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:18 PM
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Do what you want. Pretty much all of the world's crime is committed by dudes. When that stops, I'd get what you're saying more. Once dudes stop being violent towards people as a whole, the world will slowly know peace. If dudes treated people like people and not objects for their entertainment, violence and use, then we may start getting somewhere. And women would "open their legs" more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:13 PM
1

Do you know how the dudes are when they have casual sex??? They literally stick it in you and pump three times, maybe five times at max, cum and then go "that was amazing babe" For who????
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:33 PM
3

Women decentering men and valuing and loving themselves is not misandry. It's actually loving all of yourself fully and unapologetically. Men should be happy with that. That means women are living their truths. Men need to do the same. Go inward. Love yourself first. Stop spreading so much hate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:50 PM
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Can you build a house? Do you have carpentry, plumbing, electrician, hvac, insulation, roofing, painting, laying the foundation... Etc etc, the list goes on here, dude...Are you skilled in these trades? Because back then, these guys were taught and raised to do these things. Would you be able to build a house on your current salary? Back then, they could and then some. Here's the thing, both of my men (my husband and partner) are skilled in all of these and able to build me a house quite easily …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:01 PM
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Actually, the internet was discovered by a woman, as were most household appliances. Windshield wipers were invented by women. Turn signals as well. Also, beer was made by women originally. As were so many other things. History lies. You realize women can do the majority of these things on their own and were forced not to for thousands of years? Finally gaining some semblance of freedom in the last 50 years. I'll be buying my own land and building my own house here soon. That's what I'm working …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:46 PM
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They don't grasp the fact that women's bodies need to be able to fully relax and also need a sense of deep emotional safety overall. If we don't feel safe, our bodies won't open up and the defenses are up so high, we are unable to climax almost entirely. Which is normal and understandable. When women need to essentially be treated like a 1960's mustang with an original v8 with a carburetor. If you know what I mean. Sometimes you'd have to play with the carb a bit to get the engine to cooperate a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:22 PM
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My house was built during WWII, it's over 80 years old. Also, the only reason you guys say men built everything and are responsible for everything is because men have been forced to, and also, men are considered more physically agile. And wombs are more important to protect overall than testes are. Its been that way for centuries. I wish men still built temples to worship women in. That would be lovely to experience again. Men actually being real men. Instead of this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:15 PM
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Ehhhh, that's about the average statistic amount. And reasonable enough for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:13 PM
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4B started in 2018 in south Korea. The women were tired of being raped, tortured and abused by men in general. So they started the movement. It gained global traction about 4 years ago, and became even bigger in the last 2 years. It's fascinating. Mgtow started much earlier, sure, however, it's taken a turn for the worst. Like most male oriented spaces tend to. Become overencompassed with toxicity. Men really do need to center themselves more though. It would seriously do them some good overall …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:13 PM
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I've had sex with more than 1,500 men dude. That means I've been SA'd several hundred times over the span of a decade. I was even trafficked by a guy i thought was a friend. Had me so brainwashed it took me years to fully comprehend what he was doing to me. So many things I could say. Though, it tends to fall on deaf ears unless they're genuine and caring and believe women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:08 AM
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I've been sexually assaulted by more than 50% of the people I've been naked with. I've almost met death's door by several men's hands. I'd rather be mauled by a fucking bear than ever experience that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:57 AM
2

Good, that means you're okay and on board with women avoiding men like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:20 AM
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Considering how men in general are and tend to be. It is highly likely the bears would still be safer or easier to manage than men. Bears are more predictable than men tend to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:20 AM
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Yes, to decenter men entirely. That doesn't mean you stop interacting with men. Unless you're a woman lucky enough to find a woman only living space. There are a handful of women only communes and such. Not enough though. Not putting up with their behavior and refusing to tolerate it. It's a huge step in the right direction for humankind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:06 AM
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Men with more experience in pleasuring women turn into pleasure Doms eventually and are generally pretty good with their sexual partners. If a man wants a woman to enjoy sex, he needs to remember foreplay starts outside of the bedroom first.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:05 AM
1

That's an absolute and I don't quite see the point in this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:04 AM
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I'll check it out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:37 PM
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What's that? I was born in 95.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:34 PM
4

I always find this one interesting. I've never had a problem pleasuring a woman, externally and internally. Then again, I know how women work and how to actually get them to climax. Especially in ways they've never expected. It's quite the adrenaline rush to learn a woman's body. Once her body fully relaxes and surrenders to you... What a world of a difference it makes. Treat her like a Goddess and watch the way she reciprocates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:54 PM
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In my experience with casual sex... Of the 500 plus guys I had casual sex with... Only about 10 of them are memorable or were even worth a second of my time. Idk how many dudes I left or forced out of my house after they finished and I was left infuriated and used. They'd be like "you don't wanna cuddle?" No, I don't want to cuddle you. I want a fucking orgasm and pleasure. Casual sex is useless and pointless to me. Given my experience. I have more fun as a companion. Even the inexperienced guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:50 PM
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I'm saying 4B is growing by the day. And honestly. It's a good thing. Women decentering men for the first time in history. Gaining more access to themselves, reclaiming their sovereignty and truth. That's a gift to humankind right there. Now, if only men would do the same... Go inward, heal yourself, learn to love and value yourself. And watch the world around you change.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:38 PM
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I'm married and poly. I have 3 partners including my husband. I'm all-one, yes. Of course. I am fully myself and fully authentic with myself. And genuinely love, value and hold myself to a high regard and set of standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:26 PM
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Women treat me like a sex object more than men do. And I have more dating and sexual experience with men overall. I hate it. I genuinely hate being treated like a sex toy by my own gender. It feels like the ultimate betrayal and portrayal of misogyny and misandry to me. Technically, I identify as Non-Binary or a Two-Spirit person (native american blood). Women take advantage of me more than men do. Women have sexually abused me almost to the same level men have. They're awful to date, I have tro…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:25 PM
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Huh? I mean, whatever they decide to do is whatever they decide to do. I'll say I'm happy in my marriage and polycule overall. Has it's moments as does every relationship out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:20 PM
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Not at all. It's a matter of fact statement here from what I can see. It's simple, stay single, stay alone. Don't date. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:16 PM
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I mean, yeah, the bear is likely to walk away or maul you. Where a man is likely to do unspeakable, heinous things to you. I'd personally rather be mauled by a bear than ever be raped again or tortured by a man. I digress though, maybe one day it'll be safer to be around men than bears.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:13 PM
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Many of us are perfectly okay with that. 4B movement grows daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:12 PM
4

I would say people have many loves of their lives. Most fixate on only one though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:45 PM
6

When I dated women, some were by pressure (dudes would be like come on man, go out with her, you never know..) Yeah. Well, they were abusive and draining for me. I stopped dating women and men. I have 3 partners as it is and they're enough for me right now. Plus. I hire companions when I really want a woman's company. Usually I focus completely on her though. I don't do well with women reciprocating on me thanks to trauma with women. Men on the other hand... My standards are hardly met by them, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:28 PM
1

There's a time for everything, they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:17 PM
4

This right here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:31 AM
2

Sounds about right. Dudes like this make my skin crawl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:47 PM
3

They speak for the whole world! Dontchya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:39 PM
4

This was a fun read... If this is how they think, we are doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:38 PM
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Bruhhhh, halo 4 SWAT, my sniper score was massive back then, whew!!! I'm better at FPS and RPGs than I am at dating women. Women torment and take advantage of me and treat me like a man. It's awful. It makes me feel for what men have to go through. At least, the ones who date women similar to the ones I've had the unfortunate experience of knowing... I started hiring companions. Much more wholesome and direct. Less restrictive and suffocating all around. Definitely not easier to date women as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:45 PM
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Preying on vulnerable women who are seeking saviors. Captain save a hoe much?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:38 PM
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Casual sex was detrimental to my health, well-being, sexual health. My esteem, everything. It was horrible for me. I had casual sex with more than 500 or so dudes in one year during 2020 and it was the worst decision I ever made in my life and yet i couldn't stop due to the compulsive behavior... I have compulsive sexual behavior disorder. And engaged in all kinds of risky sex for years. Until I learned casual sex was making things worse for me and not better. I was like an addict looking for my…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:24 PM
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I'm demiromantic, sapiosexual and pansexual myself. I'm primarily sexually attracted to intellect. Both types of intellectual development are sexiest to me personally. A man with a high IQ and a high EQ is literally my end-all-be-all perfect man. 👌 I don't give a fuck about looks. I give a fuck about how well he can mentally and emotionally stimulate my brains (the mind brain and the heart brain both) 🧠 before we have sex. Now, I can easily have disconnected, emotionless, physically oriented sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:14 PM
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Wish I could give this 5 stars 🌟 on yelp. They don't want a paridership, they want an ownership. Marriage was a system designed to imprison women to men and give poor men access to slaves and free labor from women. Among many other things. Marriage is an institution designed and developed to control the populace, especially those who are more compliant than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:06 PM
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Idk man, I've smashed for the fuck of it many times. They're lucky if I remember their names. Well, back then anyway. 🤣 I'm sure I'm not the only one who has randomly smashed for no apparent reason besides why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:07 AM
1

Indeed they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:46 PM
1

I am so sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:42 PM
1

Reminds me of Lesley. Remember him? Famous unhoused guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:36 PM
2

I can imagine how it is for you guys... and Carrot top is not aging fast enough...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:35 PM
1

Generally yes. Mainly on weekends and early during the day it seems. I need to get my paddleboard out.. I've never been. Almost had a work session out there but I made him come to me instead. He said there were too many people twice our age anyway and it was kind of awkward for him being the only 30 something there. One of these days I will go. Are you in the area? Or just know the city?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:23 PM
2

When humanity becomes indifferent to itself, we have a problem. And we have...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:19 PM
2

Ooooh. I have some tattoo butter for that... I cannot remember the name off the top of my head. Making me wanna take a dip at barton and see if there would be any other topless ladies out there so I'm not singled out 😂😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:15 PM
1

That is unfortunate. We have a nude beach here called Hippie Hollow. I've never been. Apparently it's mainly filled with old dudes these days. And the occasional swingers parties...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:10 PM
2

I'm open, and that reminds me of a dance studio in austin with that name. Never been though. I don't use sunscreen or anything like that. I read recently that it actually causes more harm than good. I tan very nicely thankfully
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:10 PM
1

I've gotten caught out in the wild by clients before and we've had random sessions and they've taken pictures of me out and about in basically nothing. It's fun as fuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:59 PM
4

What a series of unfortunate events we have here...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:22 PM
1

To each their own, spending money on women is my favorite thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:45 PM
3

I am thriving, actually, thank you. This was 3 years ago. I still go to the bar and have better protections now. I'm practically untouchable these days. And even then, no man will ever stop me from living my life freely as I have every right to do so. Thank you for your kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:44 PM
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Most of the women I know get paid for this kind of thing... There are plenty of women out there who make a really good living out of exactly this. I'm more of an in person gal myself. I'd rather enact and talk, not only talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:35 PM
4

I was one of the women who was roofied. At a gay bar no less. I still go to Barbarella though. Can't stop me from enjoying Jimmy night or Y2K! I stopped drinking unless I'm with clients or someone I can trust to watch my cups though. The bar manager is also a client of mine and I have other connections as well. I'll still happily walk around topless and practically naked and still go to the bars anyway. They can't stop me. I've been sexually assaulted several times downtown. It doesn't stop me. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:00 PM
3

Of course, whatever brings in the most profit. Onlyfans brought in more than $2 billion in the US alone last year. Married men being the most to subscribe to content creators. A tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:25 PM
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"Sex sells" does that ring a bell to anyone? The media has pushed sexually obsessive objectives for decades. Finally watched Idiocracy the other day and my god is it like looking into a mirror of our future as a society... it's so sad. The media wants everyone (especially men) focused on sex to the point where they're too blind, deaf, dumb and horny to notice what they're doing behind closed doors and behind the scenes. It's a trick. Manipulate the masses so they don't take back control of the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:11 PM
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Idk man, I enjoy walking around my home town topless and free in the summers when it's hot. I hate modest clothing, and I think it's ridiculous that society and the media sexualize a body part that only has one purpose and that's to feed human babies. As a hypersexualized person, me not wearing clothes is like a statement for me. Walking around the metropolitan area in a thong bikini and nothing else is refreshing and freeing. I like my liberation and will continue to enjoy it as long as I can. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:02 PM
4

I've never met more of a victim than I have met in a man. I've met some absolutely abhorrent people in my day... And nothing will ever compare to the victim show men tend to put on. In my experience anyway. I think it's beneath most people to live in a state of victimhood. Moving from victim to survivor to thriver is a great decision to make. And a very hard one at that. Making it to thriver is not easy work when you live in a world of perpetual victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:49 PM
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Men being vulnerable is more of a turn on to me than anything else. Their emotional vulnerability and availability is my currency for them in reality. The more emotionally aware they are, they sexier they become to me. It's like being a body builder of emotions instead of muscle. The more of their heart they show me, the more of a slut I become.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:50 PM
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You have a point... If only their priorities were right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:47 PM
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They should go into r/deadbedroom and see what that's like...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:48 PM
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My great grandma is 96 now. She was the traditional wife. She married at 17. Had 9 children, 8 survived, 5 alive now. She never did drugs. Never cheated. None of that. She did work several jobs over the span of their 60+ years together before my grandpa died at 80. My grandma still moves around and doesn't skip a beat. She is still in care taker mode... I live my life in spite. And I have never in my life seen a more incredible and beautiful, all around loving woman than my grandma. She is an in…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:54 AM
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Okay, thank you, that's what I had thought as well...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:20 PM
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Exactly. As you should. Same as I. Good luck out there in your endeavors 💪 rooting for you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:02 PM
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See, you wouldn't be hired for sex though. You would be hired for your companionship overall. Sex isn't a guarantee in that. A woman hires you for arm candy and maybe a good time in bed after the date is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:31 PM
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You should become one yourself and do a little experiment haha 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:22 PM
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Dude. That's what I wanna know. Right now I'm currently getting down as many of the single clients as I can to write them in a book, and use my books as a match making system if they take off well enough. Like yes, the man depicted in this graphic novel is a real man who is really single. Want his info? If only... I know so many amazing men I would happily hand over to a woman any day if I knew enough of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:14 PM
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Women are actually starting to ask if male escorts are a thing. And I will comment with a link for them to find male escorts. Times are changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:10 PM
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The way of what? And what sisters? I hated 2020. Why would I teach women to have the worst sex in their lives? Unless you're meaning for me to teach them how to have better sex? Which would be me encouraging them to get into SW because that's what I had to do to have better sex and more enlightening experiences overall. Casual sex is the worst thing a woman can do for her pleasure. Me becoming a companion is the best thing I ever did for my own pleasure. I have guys worship me almost daily now a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:05 PM
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Why are you trying to gas light me? I had sex with more than 800 men in 2020 primarily out of boredom. Among several other reasons I won't share here. Most of those guys weren't even attractive or good in bed. And more than 80% of them came almost as soon as they got naked. Honestly I think most of them had never had sex before or seen a woman naked in person. Seriously. Don't try to gas light me into thinking I would've done anything besides use them for sex. And it wasn't even worth it. I only…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:55 PM
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Cluster B personality types come to mind here. This goes to show how important emotional language really is. And self awareness. Which it seems most people lack.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:52 PM
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Please don't make me vomit profusely. I have two incredible men in my life to call my life partners. I genuinely don't need more men like that. And, I would probably never consider dating the men I had sex with in 2020. Or before 2024 for that matter. The men I work with are not men I would date if I weren't already married. Even though they're amazing and we would probably have a good relationship, I would rather stay single if my men and I were to separate. Which would mean I would focus on my…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:48 PM
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Ahhhhh okay okay I see, so because women as a whole are choosing not to center men for the first time in recorded history.... they're throwing a giant child sized fit about it. They really need to touch grass and go inward... if they put half as much effort into themselves as they do this, they would get what they want a lot easier. Don't ya think?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:45 PM
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By solving the issues that women have, it would almost automatically solve the issues men have. At least that's what we've been told.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:33 PM
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A friend of mine said we should start saying humanism and be humanists. I think he is onto something with that... Again. Thank you for this. I don't have much to say here. Then again, I'm not normally awake this early... I think there's more that needs to be said on all of this. In varying ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:21 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:53 AM
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Please remember that prostitutes and companions are technically different forms of sex work. One is selling sex and sexual acts specifically. The other is selling time and companionship and not specific sex acts. Sex is not a guarantee for my clients. It's more like an added bonus if I consent to it and only if I do. Where a prostitute consents to payment for sex acts and not to sex with the person themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:50 AM
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That's unfortunate then, because I believe differently than them. And I have considered myself a radical feminist for a long time. Due to my desire to dismantle the current systems in place and create a new system that works for everyone and creates a potential for a utopian society. Also, believe everyone, not only women. So much has changed it seems... Duty sex sucks, as someone who has been there and experienced that. Misandry is real and men are more misandrist than women and we don't talk a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:48 AM
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Prostitution? No such thing here, honey. I'm not a body in a bed and neither is he. I'm a companion and an experience most never forget. My partner and I have a glorious time together making content though, so if you wanna consider that prostitution, be my guest I suppose. Sex work is work as any other job out there. It's glorious 🙌 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:43 AM
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Why do you guys see feminists as monsters? I thought the literal definition of feminism was for equality. When did this change?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:13 AM
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How can he be so sure that the hypothetical woman he meets is actually genuinely interested in him and not manipulating him?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:32 PM
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Cool, as far as I was aware.... Yes, you can absolutely agree in a debate. In fact, conceding minor points, acknowledging common ground, or mutually "agreeing to disagree" on complex topics are vital parts of respectful, productive discourse. This is what I am used to, and what I learned in school. My have times changed...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:01 PM
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Can you define circlejerking to me in an online sense? Because the only version of that I know of is a group of men in a circle jerking each other off.... What am I missing here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:56 PM
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You sound like most of my clients! They're generally 30 to 60 these days haha. The chats we could have I'm sure... I feel for your son! I find myself hard to relate and only a decent percentage of what I see and advise seems partially relevant, yet not enough to really make a dent in it... These kids are superficial and rather surface level. Lacking critical thinking, common sense and social skills. Among other things... Technology has really done a number on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:08 PM
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Thank you! I'll take it. I'm 31, I've had my fair share of crazy relationships and also mind blowing experiences that sound like fiction. It's been a wild ride. And I gotta say. I love the riptide... I'm guessing you're a chill dude who doesn't get the younger ones about as much as I don't... Hard to have a conversation with the 20s a lot of the time. It's like they're living on a different planet entirely than millennials and older...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:57 PM
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Yes! That is so right, we really do. And thank you so much for being here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:27 PM
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Dude! That's awesome! I love that for you! Kinky sex is 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:26 PM
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Dude, those were the days I hear. I was born in 1995. They say that was a prime time for us. Right? I love how women are these days. And how explorative they've become. I don't see my provider for a few weeks though. I hope she's in for it, I may need to book two hours instead of one after our dinner date... Fuck. Women don't drop their pants like they used to that's for sure 🤣😭🌹
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:04 PM
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It's been biologically proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:58 PM
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Considering i'm also guilty of this, Yeah, i'm actually outing myself too here. We have all lied to get sex or have sex or have a relationship at some point. Honesty and transparency are the best policy though. And you guys gotta think, dudes forget i can say no to them by law.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:57 PM
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Idk cuz a cat call and a compliment from a man tend to be identical. Actual compliments from men are more wholesome and less disconcerting imo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:23 PM
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Compliment the accessories. Never the body. See the difference it makes dudes. "Oh my, I really love what you did with your hair and the way it accents your aesthetic overall, nice touch!" Or even a "Nice outfit!" Would suffice. Anything that compliments the body directly is a huge no-no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:22 PM
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I was a stay at home parent once and it didn't work so well for me. Though, my ex was an abusive drunk, he came home drunk, put the unlocked pew pew on the counter and drank a 44 ounce of Dr pepper with whiskey in it. Imagine what it was like grabbing a pew pew and whiskey from a toddler every day... Terrifying. So glad he is dead now. So glad this was a decade ago now... I currently have my husband as a stay at home dad. I'm the primary earner of our family. My husband has a part time job, care…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:18 PM
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Yes! I got a man a girl to take home one night cuz she asked me about his pussy eating skills and I gave him a glowing recommendation. 6 months later she said he found a girlfriend and was gonna steal him back. We had already stopped talking at that point. But yeah. Women vouching for men is a good way to make sure he's a safe one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:08 PM
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Most have lied to get sex at some point. Which actually makes them sexual predators. Yet nobody wants to admit that. Because they would have to admit they have done it themselves as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:06 PM
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This! When behaving with emotions instead of logic, they're behaving completely irrationally. Yet, pointing that out makes them even more irrational it seems. They really do make most of their decisions emotionally and not rationally or logically and it seems they're oblivious to this truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:04 PM
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It's called DARVO. That's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:01 PM
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Still don't know what that means. And, in debate, i would imagine we are supposed to agree with one another. Okay though. Have fun with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:59 PM
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Men are the more emotional ones by default. They aren't able to properly identify or recognize their emotions though. They also don't realize thay every single human being carries both masculine and feminine energies. Yin/Yang as shown in Chinese medicine. Their femininity is broken out of them by patriarchy at young ages. They're forced into a type of servitude by society that they don't even realize is happening. They're the real victims of patriarchy which in turn makes them victimize women e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:55 PM
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Who? My short King? He's the manager of my business. I'm his boss. As in, my money is his money. I pay him to take care of me, assist me with my business and also to give me sex and make content with me for our OF account. It's actually really awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:46 PM
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And here I thought it was about equality between the sexes. However, yeah, they have a point with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:01 AM
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Considering feminists are supposed to be about equality, this is getting out of hand if that's true... My friend said we should start saying humanism instead of feminism... That way it's more fair and less focused on one side versus the other overall these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:27 AM
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More men are raped by men than women are raped by men daily. Explain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:34 PM
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What's that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:15 PM
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Beedee, fetlife and there may be more...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:33 PM
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Yes! The kink apps have been better than other apps I hear. Beedee, fetlife, there's also Boo which is personality based and interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:33 PM
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Anyone wanna break it to them that a decent percentage of these women are trafficked and are looking for husbands to get out of the trafficking?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:29 PM
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Thank you for this. In my eyes, PPBros are predatory as fuck. Going to other countries to manipulate some poor and naive woman into thinking you are a God and then she marries you. Goes to your country and realizes she made a big mistake? No thank you. I've heard some of these women divorce soon as they get the chance to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:27 PM
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I still walk around my home town in a bikini thong and no top every summer anyway. There are pictures of me my followers have taken after spotting me out in the wild. I get approached a lot. And I have to inform them I work in the industry. So I am not free. I charge an entry fee. I love being in a city where I can walk around topless and free and thankfully most of the time nothing happens to me. It's getting harder to say that though. So these days I make sure one of my partners is with me whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:18 PM
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I'll take it. This isn't even the half of it, this is only what I am really able to articulate. If I said everything that happened, I think more would question how I am still breathing. Here's the thing, I have no idea. I've cheated death more than a dozen times. And the people who tried to kill me? You guessed it! They were all men... Thank you for reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:58 PM
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Thank you for agreeing. 😘 Virginity is actually a funny one. Did you know the word Virgin originally meant "A sophisticated UN-wed woman"? As in, a virgin was a woman who never married. Not a woman who never had sex. Men are not able to be virgins in the first place. Only women are. Interesting the more you know... there is an instagrammer I follow whose handle is DivorcedVirgin and I love that for her so much. Society has really fucked up a lot for romance and companionship overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:41 PM
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It's gotta, right? She just started a little small business for herself too, I wish we could actually hang but we are online pals for the most part. Thank you!! ✨️ knowing her, she's got a plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:31 PM
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YES!!! EXACTLY!!! Let me let you in on a little secret.... I am collecting the gems so in a few years, when I meet more single women, I have a potential "match" for them. My goal is to be a match maker eventually. Right now I am working to find as many seemingly "good" men as I can. And then eventually find more single seemingly "good" women and mingle them all together and see what happens. That way healthy relationships can potentially grow for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:29 PM
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They're pretty much identical in my eyes actually. Depends on the guy though. Desperation is a guy who looks like he can't live without having sex with you. Like he is either going to live a miserable life forever because he didn't have you, or you are going to breathe life back into his veins by giving him sex. These are guys who also believe they are entitled to you because you decided to walk into the room. And man in pursuit with honest intentions? He's curious about you, and makes that know…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:26 PM
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I don't get what you are asking me, honestly... Point the finger at whom exactly? Discernment is something that takes time and practice to develop. My radar has been good most of my life. My radar reached expert levels about 3 years ago when I started socializing more and practicing saying "No" to men who approached me at the bars when I went by myself. It was a testing ground for me to regain trust and faith in men and learn better boundaries and to uphold my ground. Instead of continuing to sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:21 PM
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What do you mean by that? Can you elaborate please?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:13 PM
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Very well aware of that Though I would say the most desperate guys are actually the ones y'all consider the hottest bachelors out there. Which, to me personally, they make me wanna vomit as soon as I see them in a public space. The majority of the guys I fuck with don't even go to those same spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:12 PM
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Hook ups are dudes willing to be my sex toy for the night. I'm there to get off or to live rent free in his head while he disappoints me forever and more than likely gets forgotten about. I've had sex for the sake of it. I've had pity sex with guys because I felt so sorry for them I decided to give them sex once so they would feel less left out by their peers. I have a thing for first times as well. I like setting the bar and expectations for people. I also enjoy new experiences and fulfilling p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:07 PM
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Funny thing is I actually know a woman who was doing tricks at 18 and her loser husband. And I do mean loser husband... played Captain Save A Hoe and she said "Give me $100 and my last score of heroine and I will go with you" That was 12 years ago. She is still with him. And he's kept her isolated from the outside world for most of it. The fucker won't even take her to the grocery store to buy fucking milk. He is so terrified of her leaving him. She finally got a car and a driver's license last …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:01 PM
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I've dated dudes i genuinely didn't want to because they wouldn't take no for an answer. I've been stalked, had my address broadcasted online by people, had people hire people to date me so they could attempt to rape me, and so many other things you wouldn't believe if I said them. It fucking sucks. I am married to a man I didn't exactly fully want to be with at first. And that was due to my aversion to men as a whole. Not really him. He's wonderful and I love and adore him so much. He was pushy…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:54 PM
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Dick is the least of my concerns. I can walk outside and get dick in seconds. It's so easy to get dick I can literally get it by my mere existence. There is an absurd, over abundant amount of dick in my life as it is. And although I have gotten very good at selecting really good men attached to the dicks in question... I would still rather be flooded in yoni and women than dick and men. For real. Who wouldn't though? If I were rich, I'd have a harem of women to spoil, cater to and have incredibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:39 PM
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Me being poly is actually what saved my life... having multiple partners means having multiple witnesses as well. Also, the system works exactly as it is designed. The system is actually designed to protect the abuser, not the abused. The victim is not who is protected by law. It is the one who did the violence on them who is protected. It's so fucked to me how our country works and operates. And to think, I worked for the US government jail system before getting into companionship. It's actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:11 PM
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It's been 2,320 days since the father of my first born was holding his weight up over my body by my neck with one hand and pinning me down with the other so I couldn't move. I developed androphobia. Had to have part of my reproductive system removed to stay alive for my kids. Spent a quarter million on court fees, attorneys, psychological care for myself and my child, child support I had to pay him... So many other things... The public humiliation, the smear campaigns, the fact that my entire co…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:15 AM
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Men are the oppressor and also the oppressed. The patriarchal system oppresses men more than it oppresses women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:41 AM
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Lmao, I don't quite know. I would have to actually sit with you and have a conversation. I would imagine we would get along well, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:34 AM
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Radical feminists want to dismantle the systems in place
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:25 AM
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I mean.... I prefer feminine men and balanced men and women personally. I find them sexy as fuck. The more balanced between masculine and feminine they are, the sexier and more attractive they are to me. Then again, I have a thing for balance and authenticity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:01 AM
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Emotional intelligence is the ability to identify, process, express, experience and release emotions in a healthy way. See Dialectical Behavior therapy and look into Wise-Mind. It's the balance between the heart brain and the mind brain. I'm a radical feminist. So yes. I'm against circumcision and firmly believe men are victims to the system more than women are. And I tend to get scrutiny for saying that. Not all rapists know what they are doing is wrong. They've done polygraphs on this as well.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:55 AM
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I am literally dating a man who is missing a tooth and is 5'7" and below average in looks, above average in intelligence though and spectacular in bed. 🤣✨️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:07 AM
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I'm specifically talking about the people I've interacted with in America, where white privilege is very heavily prevalent and white men are often the most dangerous in my life experience. Yet I am primarily sexually and physically attracted to lighter skinned males. I wouldn't say America is a safe country. It's dangerous as fuck here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:05 AM
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Raising them with emotional intelligence, giving them the ability to actually be a child, enforcing accountability, bodily autonomy, body language, personal space, consent, positive sexual health care and education. The list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:29 PM
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Honestly what I really and truly want is formen to be raised properly. That would stop rapes almost overnight
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:14 PM
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Sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:02 PM
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Well yeah, it's been biologically proven that the y chromosome is a defective gene... Everyone is female first and then they become male. Males tend to get the "left over" DNA. Sort of like the runt of the litter of puppies. Males are so fragile, they're the first fetus to be spontaneously aborted because the womb isn't able to handle the rapid growth the male fetus often needs. So the fetus is rejected. Males are sensitive as fuck even in-utero. And then the world they are born into profits off…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:01 PM
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It's about the violent predator and their natural prey though. Which is pretty similar to racism if you ask me. I've personally found white men and women to be the most dangerous race there is. And I am an exotic breed, so I have a decent bit of the globe in my DNA. When women walk outside every day, they are walking out to a field full of venomous and non-venomous snakes. Not everyone knows how to properly identify the scales and color patterns and head shapes of the venomous versus non-venomou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:56 PM
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Considering casual sex is generally not worth it, if a woman had sex with a local on her trip, it's like "I wonder what he will be like in comparison to the men at home." It's a curiosity in some way for her as far as I am aware. Guys being ignored by women is again proof that men are not to be trusted. As in, women genuinely don't trust men and take a chance every time they talk to a man. The risk isn't always worth the reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:48 PM
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I mean, this goes to show how disconnected men are from themselves and each other. This is a prime example of what happens when half of the species lacks basic fundamentals for connection. As in, emotional intelligence...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:37 PM
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rainn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:45 AM
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There are statistics to support this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:04 AM
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More than 98% of domestic violence reports never see a day in court. That's why there is no proof or evidence. You get that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:39 AM
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I was 18 working at a sonic as a carhop... A guy and his friend (the scrubs) stayed and stared at me for an hour before calling me back over. Driver gave me a shitty pick up line and asked for my number. I wanted to talk to the friend. But no, that didn't happen. This dude wanted me. Guess what? He had me. I saw right through him that first day. And he got me anyway. Forced his way into my life, manipulated and wouldn't take no for an answer. Coerced and forced himself on me in so many ways I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:17 AM
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My mom married 4 times. She spent pretty much my entire life in relationships. She attempted one relationship with a woman and it was abusive and lasted 6 months. She said the woman abused her the same ways a man would have and has. My mom has been single for almost 3 years. Fucking finally!!! I have consistently witnessed her over and over with men going "this one is gonna be the one, I just know it this time !!" Guess what? More than 90% of the men she dated and also all 4 of her husbands were…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:20 AM
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Anytime! I love your comments, and am super happy to see another happily married woman out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:29 PM
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Oh my gods and goddesses your husband is a real MVP 🙌✨️😭
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:21 PM
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Yeah, anyone want some of this delulu punch they keep trying to serve? Maybe we should try it out sometime and see what all the fuss is about, living in fictional realities and all...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:49 PM
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What it means is I am the 5th generation of my family and I am the first woman in my family to have a healthy marriage with a man. My great grandma turned 96 last week. She is the perfect Madonna in the "Madonna-Whore complex". She dropped out of school at 11 and worked to help her family. Was chased, coerced and "courted" by my great grandpa. They married at 17. Had their first born who died a year later at 18. This was 1948 mind you... My great grandma was the perfect wife. The perfect Madonna…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:41 PM
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Honestly I am pretty fucking sorry for any of the women that went to dirty 6th this weekend... With illfest going on and other events, brings a lot of tourists which tend to add to the sexual assault rates at the bars....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:54 AM
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He genuinely believes he did nothing wrong. Most psychopaths have at least one person (generally their spouse) who sees them in a good light and only that way. They act as a good alibi. His crimes are actually quite common. I live in a city where roofies and GHB are put in the women's drinks so often, the police are consistently backed up, rape kits are now done at separate testing facilities. And the bars all carry drug test strips and have more strict rules on buying drinks. I was one of these…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:32 AM
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No, it's been proven that abusers, especially those with dark tetrad personality traits will wait as long as it takes before they strike for the first time. Gisele Pelicot's husband didn't start drugging and exploiting her until over 50 years of marriage. And she found out a decade later. Imagine being married to someone for 60 years. Only to find out through someone else that they have been drugging and letting people violate you for a decade of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:15 AM
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Tell that to the neuropeptides in the brain and the chemicals that make it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:43 AM
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Legit though, any licensed psychologist or psychiatrist will say the same thing. Human beings are the most addictive drug
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:00 AM
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They're not actually listening to their intuition. We're conditioned to ignore our intuitive sides and go based off of instinct. Most choose from instinct, not intuition. If they actually utilized their intuition and discernment, the abusers wouldn't have been able to have access in the first place. It can take years to be able to properly discern though. Also, epigenetics, neuropeptides, ancestral trauma/generational trauma play a factor in this. And, chasing what's familiar versus what is unfa…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:12 AM
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They tend to be pretty good about keeping their masks on. And some abusers even wait years before acting on it. Abusive men tend to be rather charismatic, charming, very carefully designed public personas, they also know how to manipulate. The trauma bond from stockholm syndrome is harder to withdraw from than heroin. And it takes an average of 7 times before a victim officially escapes their abusers. Not to mention, many don't make it out alive. I am still shocked I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:12 AM
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Sure. Whatever helps you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:49 PM
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Both my husband and live-in would be the stags. They help me dictate my clientele base and whatnot. No humiliation here. All consensual kinky fuckery
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:48 PM
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Being hung, drowned, set on fire, lynched, meeting the guillotine
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:45 PM
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Before 2020 it seems.... Why do you think marital rape was deemed illegal in 1993? And why women were legally allowed to have a bank account or buy a vehicle without a man's signature in the 1960's and 1970's. Also, women being legally allowed to rent or purchase a home by the 1980's while single and not with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:41 PM
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To give everyone the same rights and privileges. All people treated exactly the same. Instead of less than.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:37 PM
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Idk what GNC is. And, unfortunately it seems feminism as a whole has gone too far. They completely missing the point of why feminism is important to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:34 PM
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I have no idea what that means. Also, they're not cucks, they would be considered stags.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:27 PM
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Idk man, i have two stay at home men. My husband primarily cares for our kids. And my lover cares for me and caters to me. I would say this is better than red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:10 PM
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Gender is actually a spectrum according to biology. Which was learned in high school, mind you... There are more than 100 genders and gender identities depending on the culture and science behind it all. Something like that, anyway. Oh honey, patriarchy harms men more than it harms women. And even then, neither side has autonomy. Which is the point of radical feminism. Or, was.... To give everyone autonomy. Radical feminism is supposed to be egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:02 PM
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Radical feminists aren't supposed to be misandrist. They're supposed to want to dismantle the systems in place and create new systems that work for all gender identities and people. They're supposed to recognize that men are victims to the system more than women are. Which is some of how they wind up victimizing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:55 PM
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Correct. Because gender is fluid. And men and women and all gender identities all carry masculine and feminine energies. The balance between the two is not something many have. Usually they lean masculine or feminine. It's rare to encompass both and balance out and develop "wise mind" and whatnot. Also, not many even believe in that anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:23 PM
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I would say it does. Considering sexuality and gender are not fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:17 PM
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I think if a woman isn't accepting of a man hiring sex workers, she is not worth his time. Transparency and honesty are really important for long term relationships to work. Especially sexual honesty and transparency. I tell my single clients all the time that they need to tell women to leave or they need to leave if they aren't willing to accept that they hire companionship or other kinds of sex workers. A man is safer with a sex worker than a casual hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:43 PM
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Considering many are threatened by anything and everything "feminine"... Yes, men are sexually and physically attracted to masculine traits and features more than they are feminine ones. Otherwise, women wouldn't get so much shit for being feminine, having emotions, expressing themselves freely and openly, having high standards and emotional awareness, etc etc. They would find those traits way more sexually appealing if they were actually attracted to femininity. They're attracted to women who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:59 PM
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Still wouldn't consider any of that a sport per se... And kink and sex clubs and sex parties require consent and deep levels of trust. Which goes back to connection and emotional fulfilment. Kink is really trauma mastery at it's finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:19 PM
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Sex is not a sport, nor is it a hobby. Sex is supposed to be a deep emotional connection between people. Or at least some form of emotional connection and level of intimacy. I don't exactly see having sex as a sport/hobby as intimate and deeply connected in the same ways. Last I checked, hobbies don't include having sex with each other. Otherwise, people who play sports or do hobbies together would have orgies together or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:17 PM
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It still gets me that men who hire sex workers are called "hobbyists" and when you make conversation about it, you ask "so how long have you been in the hobby?" And they'll say a while, a decade, 20 years, since their kid went off to college or between their first and second wives, etc etc... Sex is seen as a sport. A "hobby" to them. So I mean... What's the point in relationships? Unless you really want connection and think sex is the only way to get it for some reason. But even then. Calling i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:29 PM
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Coercive behavior needs to stop, and women need to stop chasing what's familiar and start chasing the unknown, unfamiliar. The men they wouldn't normally talk to or associate with. They also need to learn how to discern and psychoanalyze well. And set boundaries that men only have a year or so to prove they're worth taking the chance on. Things would be better and these guys would eventually stop winning and the others would start.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:49 PM
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I'm open about sex with anyone who wants to talk about sex. There are some people I won't tell about some things. My partners are people I talk to openly and transparently though. Especially about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:40 PM
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As someone in the bizz. There is a difference between a man seeking an ego stroke and hiring a prositute or porn star to get that ego boost. And then there are the guys who hire companions/escorts to be "seen" and gain deeper levels of intimacy. I've even gone to hiring companions myself instead of dating women. It's easier. And nothing to be ashamed of. Plenty of my clients talk amongst their peers about hiring providers of all sorts. From Dommes to street walkers and in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:29 PM
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The majority of men in the US struggle with complex childhood trauma and most don't even know it until they have their experiences validated for the first time or have a repressed memory come up while on psychedelics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:51 PM
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They can form full sentences, they can communicate effectively, they have the ability to engage fully in philosophical conversations, they're self aware, they are emotionally aware and emotionally stable. They know how to handle conflict, they have a growth mindset and are eager to learn and try new things and gain experience. The list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:52 AM
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Transparency and honesty are the best policy. I see right through these fools, if they aren't willing to be 100% forward and honest with me, they can go ahead and remove themselves from my list. No man is worth a dishonest connection and lack of authentic love.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:37 PM
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The people I associate with in my work are very intelligent, and have about the same level of intellect that I do. Above average intelligence is a requirement in order to hire me. I would say the percent range of highly intelligent men that comment on my posts is at least 80% if not more. I very seldom deal with below average intelligence in men. It's not easy for me to tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:26 PM
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At some point or another every woman wants a reciprocal relationship with a man. You took what I said out of context. Women want men who are going to reciprocate. Instead of take use and abuse us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:24 PM
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Is it? Because I've only met a handful of men who meet my standards. My IQ is above 140 and EQ is above 90. And I struggle to find a guy who has a similar level of intellect and emotional intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:19 AM
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The Madonna-Whore complex at its finest...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:58 PM
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Right. Like. Is he gonna be able to afford me taking maternity leave? Or, what if I lose my job because the kids are sick and my job is seen as secondary to his? The list goes on. Never depend on a man financially. My mom taught me that one. Even then, the select few dudes who have these things in mind... They know having a family is not wise right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:29 PM
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Idk man, sex parties are much more fun than filming porn shoots... Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:43 PM
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Brains over Braun any day of the week for me. This would make me sick and make me dryer than the Sahara desert. Edgar Allen Poe and William Shakespeare mixed with Albert Einstein and Isaac Newton or something would be the way to turn me into Niagara Falls in seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:40 PM
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Husband material to me means he is worth my time, effort, essence, energy, etc. I don't have time for mediocrity in my life. And, as far as I track, every woman I know has at some point or another wanted the same thing I have. A reciprocal relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:31 PM
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Being a wife is no fun. If I had to choose between being a Madonna and a whore again. I would happily choose to be a whore. Over and over and over and over. Being told I would never be good enough to be a "wife". And realizing how much of a compliment that actually was years later.. I am beyond grateful for the husbands I have though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:11 PM
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And any one who wants to have a relatively traditional relationship. Wouldn't say that is strictly red pill idealogy. It may be part of it, sure. Many men I know wish they were in a better position to be able to support a partner. Not as an ownership thing. As a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:26 PM
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My great grandma, who turned 96 today... Was considered the perfect wife. She never drank, never did drugs, was devoted to her husband. Had 8 kids, worked, dropped out of school and never received an education. She is the kindest, most beautiful and purest woman I have ever known in my life. My great grandpa passed 16 years ago. And the truth came out about how he truly was. I live my life in spite. For my grandma. She told me my generation's mission was to break the curse of being forced to mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:34 AM
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Reading this made me realize I don't remember the last time I didn't have kinky sex... Like, pretty much all of the sex I have these days is kinky in some way 😏 this has really got me thinking and wondering. Do people not engage in healthy bdsm?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:49 AM
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I think it's because they think men all want the same thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:36 AM
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I prefer things the way they are now with me working and bringing the majority home while my men take care of our children. I believe men are better caretakers for children than women are. And I am more than happy to support that. I would never go back to being a stay at home parent myself. Did that a few times and it's honestly better for me to work and them be with their dad or dads. They do better with them overall, and I do better working and supporting our family in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:35 AM
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This is sad to read. My husband very seldom wants sex, we had sex last in December, even. His reward system is a peaceful quiet night inside doing what he wants to do, relax, watch shows, play games and veg out. His motivation is our kids and overall well-being. Sex is the least of his concerns. Now, for my other partner, sex is not a reward for him either. He is motivated by his desire to care for me and support me as his lover and partner for life. We have sex like rabbits though and that is b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:14 AM
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Most of them trust the woman. They take little to no precautions. And are also heavily uneducated on safe sex. Then there are the husbands who intentionally get an STD to pass to their pregnant wives....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:47 AM
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They're so hard to find. Glad I got into the work I did and now it's like a 9/10 are incredible. My have times changed. Guaranteed pleasure and orgasms are the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:45 AM
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I would rather it be the other way around. Stay at home dad and me being the one to do what you described. Because that's literally what I already do... Although. I also give them a monthly allowance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:05 PM
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Then explain the ones who hire escorts...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:01 PM
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Escorts have been around for thousands of years. Men have constantly hired escorts and sex workers of all kinds. The united states was built on the backs of sex workers dude. This is not new information. Leonardo dicaprio hires escorts for his yacht parties all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:56 PM
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Talking to me and getting emotional support. I am an Emotional Support Companion (ESCort) for men. We go to arcades, fancy dinners, one of my clients rented a small yacht recently for us to hang out in. It was really fun. I had a guy pay me for a 24 hour session. The first time I was hired for that. So he doubled my 12 hour rate and asked for 24 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:53 PM
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No, I am not. I only have sex if I want to. And I am not hired to have sex. I am hired for companionship. You have to keep in mind that more than half of my clients have erectile dysfunction and also severe performance anxiety. Most of them focus on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:51 PM
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No, an escort gets paid for their time and presence overall. A prostitute gets paid to strictly and specifically perform sex acts, no companionship or emotional support is offered. Big fucking difference. Also. Escorts consent to sex of their own free will. Prositutes consent to money in exchange for sex. I am paid for my presence. Which makes me the prize. Doesn't it? If a man has to pay to have access to me as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:46 PM
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I'm an escort, not a prostitute. I do, this year has been my best year thus far since starting two years ago. The guys are amazing and I wouldn't have it any other way. If it weren't for my clients, I would still be a misandrist. They gave me faith in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:39 PM
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Oh, you think I would take this conversation off of here for free? There is an entry fee to talk to me outside of reddit. Or outside of work. You're not a client, and if you want to talk outside of here, you would need to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:32 PM
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I have reddit. You can request a session via my work line. Which is linked in my bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:30 PM
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How cute. You think I would let you anywhere near me for free. When I have dudes lining up begging for a session. Gaslighting doesn't work on me. I'm too aware for that. Women are literally the prize though. Men are supposed to impress women enough to be chosen by them. And most of them refuse to do that work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:28 PM
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Don't make me puke while I am in a car in the middle of bum fuck Texas. There is nowhere for me to pull over to vomit 🤢 I'm literally only responding out of boredom on my way back home from working out of state. This is fun for me. You probably couldn't afford my rates anyway....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:23 PM
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For what? I'm bored
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:21 PM
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Barely sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:20 PM
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Cool story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:19 PM
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Women are the creators of men. They are the ones who can stop humanity from reproducing. So yeah. They are royalty and require to be treated as such. Unless they're a part of the dark tetrad which is more common in men than women or any other gender. That's what you think. I am so proud of women for doing what I was kept from doing due to the systems in place. Decided to work with what I have and it has made all the difference though. Men need to get better and actually treat women like people a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:18 PM
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I am saying most men aren't worth humoring sexually and women are finally waking up and seeing the truth of that. 9/10 are not worth our time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:11 PM
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Then you would know what I am talking about. I stopped watching porn dude. I am my own porn. You can ask my husbands and my friends and clients. I literally am my own porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:57 PM
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They do prefer to stay single though. The 4B movement grows every day. Women can literally walk outside and get a man. It's so easy it hurts at times. Men need to raise their standards. And women need to continue to raise the bar as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:56 PM
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Always, your comments are fire. And you inspire me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:55 PM
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Thank you!!!!! Seriously. The more offense they take, the more they out themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:54 PM
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Have you ever given a woman so many orgasms she was begging you to stop because it was so overwhelming for her? I had to stop dating women altogether. Because they would become so obsessed with me that all they ever wanted to do was have sex. Women treat me more like a sex object than men do. I hire escorts instead now. I double pay them for the hour and give them the same level of experience I gave to my exes. It's made my life so much easier, simpler and more affordable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:53 PM
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Yes because they aren't worth having sex with 9/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:49 PM
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Yes. That's what they pay me for. To pleasure me and for me to fulfill their wildest fantasies. Which i do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:55 PM
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My orgasm comes from being pleasured and someone putting effort into my orgasm. If I was fully responsible for my orgasm, I wouldn't have sex. Because that is someone using my body as a masturbation tool. And therefore not a mutual interaction. Why would I do that? Also. Dudes tend to take issue when you put a vibrator to your clit during penetration. Thankfully since I became an Escort though, they put forth my pleasure more than anything. And half of them don't cum because they aren't able to.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:51 PM
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It was illegal for women to work....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:33 PM
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Fuck that. These were dipshits i found online. Why would I care about that? This was also in 2020. I stopped having casual sex after that year for a reason. Being a professional companion has not only given me better experiences, it's given me the most incredible and mind-blowing sex I could've ever possibly imagined. I should've switched to sex work years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:31 PM
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They came in less than 60 seconds. What was I supposed to do? I was so pissed I threw them out and blocked them. Literally had 25 guys in one day who inserted and came almost INSTANTLY. HOW WOULD I HAVE HAD AN ORGASM?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:28 PM
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That's not what i am talking about. Even then, most guys don't perform cunnilingus even though it is required for a woman to be properly aroused. Although. In order to fully relax a woman's body and have her surrender to you (therefore increasing her pleasure tenfold).... You need to do more than 30 minutes or less of sex including foreplay. The women I've unlocked... Bro. Men are seriously missing out on incredible sex by being lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:28 PM
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Say yes when they mean no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:26 PM
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As someone who has had sex with more than 1,500 men in her life time... Only 150 of them gave me an orgasm. And of those 150, about half of them cared more about my orgasm than I did at the time. These days? I have revolving door of men who beg to pleasure me. And it is fucking AWESOME!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:26 PM
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More like being gagged, throat fucked, forced to cry, vomit, being held down for too long and losing air.... The list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:25 PM
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They complain because men need to see the truth and realities of what women face every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:23 PM
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I love your comments every time! Take my diamond!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:22 PM
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Many women agree to disagree when it comes to sex due to pressure. For the record.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:21 PM
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Women already have. They don't go out, they don't use the apps, they read their books and stay inside more often than not these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:21 PM
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Must have had some traumatic experiences that kept them from wanting to give you bjs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:20 PM
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This could be considered revenge porn and depending on where they are, if she found out.... He could spend some time in jail for this. You'd think they would freshen up on the laws in their areas....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:16 PM
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Literally proving that they are the ones to stay away from.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:15 PM
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The vast majority are abusive and don't know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:37 AM
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We don't tend to choose them. They choose us. And they don't stop until they have us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:35 AM
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He kidnapped her, filed a restraining order, and had has dad use his connections to keep the child from me. They kidnapped her 3 times while he was alive. His parents attempted to kidnap her a 4th time last summer. I moved my kids 700 miles away to keep them both or one from being taken. I would have loved to be believed. However, the system is designed to protect the abusers, not the abusees.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:35 AM
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It's okay, made me who I am and gave me the gift of discernment much better and more useful. My kiddo is amazing and my greatest love
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:32 AM
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Funny, because I have known plenty of very heavy set people with active sex lives and an active participation in kink and sex clubs....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:38 AM
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Oh my... I am so glad you got out. I was 18, he was 19. Chatted and went on a couple dates. By the second month, we made it official. A week after that, his dad accused me of being drunk and I popped off on him. Next thing I know, he is disowned and suddenly my problem. A year later, I was pregnant and we had a fake marriage. The abuse escalated after our child was born of course. I still remember attempting to drown us in the bath tub at 32 weeks because I didn't want us to endure the pain... I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:32 AM
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Bingo. My abuser is dead now. And I still have moments where I am shocked I made it out alive and so did my kid. This needs to be talked about more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:52 AM
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You would be surprised how long predators can hide. I've known many and study the dark tetrad for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:54 AM
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That is one way of putting it. Cnc, snuff, czech gloryholes, and drug related were my go-to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:47 AM
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Yeah, I don't know what the fuck a single is for this either?? Is this a new concept they came up with?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:42 AM
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And the fact that many men wait years, if not decades to abuse. Gisele Pelicot being a prime example.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:41 AM
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Lmfao yassss Queen slay them dragons
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:17 AM
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Go here it has all the info you need r/sexworkers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:01 AM
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Absolutely yes. There is a very hot market for that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:01 AM
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It is fun I will say that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:51 PM
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I average 10k to 12k per month as a companion. It's awesome. I've been scheduled a few times for Domme sessions. I fucking love it. Highly recommend if you have the strength for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:39 PM
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Lmao. You should go on tryst dot link and look at what the Dommes charge. The starting rate is usually $1,000 per hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:21 PM
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$200/hr to be pegged? That's a really cheap rate... Speaking as someone in the bizz.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:00 PM
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Incest, threesome, anything considered tabu or out of the ordinary, hentai, queer porn, fetishes, extreme, hardcore and gangbang. That's what i think of anyway when I think average man and porn in the US. For me though ... I had to stop watching porn. I went deep into the dark rabbit hole years ago and still have trouble having sex due to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:24 PM
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I mean, I very well could need some assistance in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:00 AM
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My time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 06:17 AM
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I am running for president in 2032 actually. My clients are going to vote for me. That's part of why i got into sex work. One of the many. Many many reasons why.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 06:02 AM
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Yes I absolutely would if the man was worth it. And compensated in other ways besides cash. I am a naked Robin hood bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:51 AM
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Thankfully I see them because I want to. I wish other providers did the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:54 AM
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That's a matter of fact. Many people are uneducated on sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:54 AM
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More than likely. I'm a gypsy. Get it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:04 AM
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Also goes to show you are uneeducated. I'm an ESCORT. Not a prostitute. Big. Big difference. Nuff said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:52 AM
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Yes that's literally what I have been saying. They are paying for my time. I am paid to exist with them. Not to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:50 AM
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Yes, absolutely. And sex isn't a guarantee and they know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:48 AM
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My livelihood deep connection with people. Not sex. I'm here for love. Not hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:44 AM
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I don't think you understand.... Casual sex is free and unpaid bullshit and pointless for most women. I require men to pay me for access in the first place. I have sex with them of my own free will and accord. Not because they pay me. Consent is required. Not optional.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:39 AM
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It depends. Most of them have ED
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:36 AM
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No, prostitution is using a woman's body as a masturbation tool (sex toy). Escorting is being hired for companionship. Like dates, events, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:35 AM
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Okay, your point? Most men who engage in casual sex don't even realize they are missing out until their 30s and 40s anyway. Then they start having better sex. I'm a professional companion. Otherwise known as an emotional support companion (Escort). I'm also a sexual health coach, trauma-informed coach, and spiritual healer. Among other things. I help men with their sexualities. Their sexual trauma. Relationships, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:32 AM
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Sex is not what is important. Deep, intimate connection is. And sex is how you intertwine your soul with another. It can be one of the deepest ways to bond with someone. However, using people to masturbate (which is 50% of my experience) is not healthy. It is rather toxic and debilitating to the self esteem and the psyche. It makes you feel dead inside and like something is exponentially wrong with you because the sex lacks connection and intimacy. It's hollow, shallow and dehumanizing. There is…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:00 AM
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My high count is for a multitude of reasons. The first 100 were primarily careless and for fucks. A dozen romantic partnerships in there as well. The next 100 to 800 consist of primarily non-consensual encounters by coercion or some other means of force. And also my online days where I would troll for cock and didn't care who or what the person giving it to me was. PTSD and CSBD do things to you... I learned then that casual sex is genuinely pointless and the worst thing a woman can do for her s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:43 AM
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Sex isn't what is important. It's intimacy that is important. And sex is one form of intimacy. And one of the only forms of intimacy a lot of men feel like they're allowed to have. Or they may not know any other ways to engage in intimacy with someone. What is important about sex is finding deep, soul intertwining connections. Instead of meaningless, soulless, dehumanizing sex. Speaking as someone with a "hbc". Which I would rather say I am quite sexually experienced and have had a wide array of…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:35 AM
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I know. If women gave them a safe space to talk and share, and if society didn't tell them they couldn't talk to their wives... things would be much different. All comes down to choose your partner wisely. And remember that it is human nature to be sexually explorative. Not sexually exclusive. Which actually goes against human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:24 PM
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Not many. And then at the same time, too many to be worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:57 PM
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I have no idea where you got this idea but it is far from the truth in my opinion. Have at it though. Being desired for sex is meaningless to many women. Being desired for who we are as people is what tends to excite and turn women on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:36 PM
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I agree. There should be a different name for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:22 PM
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Because many men will literally fuck anything with a hole. They don't care what a woman looks like. They want to use her body to masturbate with and don't see her as a human being. Only merely an object for their use to dispose of when they are done. Women don't tend to see men like sex objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:20 PM
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For you maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:19 PM
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It exists. Go to tryst dot link. There are plenty of really sexy and really professional male escorts on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:09 PM
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Maybe if their wives stopped invalidating them and actually gave them a safe space to be themselves, things would be different. But no. Women tend to ask for a divorce when they find out their husband like wearing panties or likes sucking dildos off of a woman or wants to have sex with a Trans man or Trans woman. Usually they get handed divorce papers. So they would rather hire a sex worker. Than risk their wives leaving by learning the truth about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:08 PM
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A prostitute doesn't give their clients emotional support or spend time with them outside of the bedroom. I'm an escort. I am hired to be public arm candy, a shoulder to cry on and someone to cuddle more often than I am hired strictly for sex. I don't allow men to use my body to masturbate. So no, I am not a prostitute. I am an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:06 PM
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I don't have any degrees. My therapist told me several times that if it were possible for me to test out, I would get my master's or a PhD in psychology in one day. I have experience. As in, I have several life times worth of relationship and social experience. I have used myself as a test subject so to speak. I chose to get into sex work because after over a decade of human sociology and psychology research, and a decade of talking extensively with fellow sex workers (cam girls, escorts, prosti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:02 PM
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I'm attracted to energy and authentic expression, fhe physical form isn't what I take too much interest in. They come how they come. And I am attracted in some way. Personality and characteristics are super important to me. Nerds are especially sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:03 AM
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Men cheat on their wives for a multitude of reasons. The primary one being that they don't feel like they can be themselves with their wives. They have to hide parts of themselves. And that gets exhausting after a while. Pretending to be someone you're not. Or that everything is okay when it in fact is far from it. They can only hold the mask up for so long before they need a break from the pain. The stress, the fear of what would happen if she knew the truth. That he doesn't feel valued, honore…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:55 AM
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It very well could be. Women hire sex workers less often. I myself hire companions instead of sate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:21 AM
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Cheating is never okay. It is something that can be comprehended and grasped with empathy. More than 1,000 people. Most of which were non-consensual at the time. That was years ago though. Go be married. You should check his texts and emails though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:53 AM
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Good thing I am experienced and not a licensed practitioner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:44 AM
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Go ahead and continue to project your beliefs onto me. I reject them happily. Thank you. Good day to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:40 AM
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More than 90% of the men I encounter hire me for companionship. If sex happens, it happens. Most of the time they focus on me. It's pretty rare to only have sex and not anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:32 AM
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I am actually a sexual health coach, trauma-informed coach, spiritual healer and sexual healer. I merged several professions and created my own. It has worked tremendously. Also. There is a huge difference between me and a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:28 AM
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You really and truly have no idea what the reality is. Sex work is a form of social work. It literally is therapy for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:27 AM
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It's literally the reason why I got into sex work and became a professional companion. I'm their therapist. And I love every bit of it. I wish they had better women in their lives. And I am beyond grateful to be their support system until they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:26 AM
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I didn't have sex with over a thousand people by cheating. That is quite the assumption to make though. Have you ever actually indulged in the kink community at all? Because it definitely doesn't look like it. Are you familiar with polyamorous dyanamics? Ethical non-monogamy perhaps? Or even sex clubs? Because they exist. And I am very well known in my communities. I love sex. I love connecting with people. I love giving them what they're missing. You sound like someone who doesn't enjoy sex. Or…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:23 AM
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