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As someone with a number above 1K, close to 2K now and I'd love that to get higher and higher as my life progresses... Being a slut is fun, and wild. And I'm really happy my husband enjoys it as much as I do. Last I checked, "good girl" is reserved for kink play, music to a brat's ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:23 AM
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I have a preference for short Kings. My husband is 5'10", though I didn't know that until we met. He's the exception to the rule for me. My live-in partner and one of my other partners are both 5'7" and I have another I see who is 5'5". They're incredible in multitudes of ways. And I'm really happy to have them in my life among other things. Only reason height really matters to me is because I'm 5 ft myself. The shorter, the better. Though I've learned the absolute sweet spot for me is someone b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:15 AM
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As a woman who has experienced negative sexual attention from men for more than half of my life... I was hypersexualized, demonized, slut-shamed, violated in so many different ways before I even became legally able to drink at a bar. Even experienced what's called a "mental death" at 17 due to my experiences. I developed agorophobia, androphobia and haphephobia by the time I was 24. I was petrified of everything at one point in time. It was so bad for a while I couldn't hold a job, sleep, eat, g…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:32 AM
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My husband adds to my life. He's an incredible parent to our children, a true ride or die partner. The way he is with our kiddos.... Doing his best to break the cycle and "be the change". I genuinely don't think I can find a man better than my husband. He's a rare gem I am so grateful to have found. I can honestly say he saved my life and my children's lives. I'm the breadwinner of our polycule and have a lot on my plate. Building a business, in the process of expanding my business, writing a gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:07 AM
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I love you 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:31 PM
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DMs are always open, honey. Epigenetics play a huge role in behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:29 PM
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Thank you!!!! Ilusm ❤️ 😍 💖 thank you thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:26 PM
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That tracks then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:16 PM
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The Madonna-Whore complex plays a role in this. As well as purity culture. Which is how the complex came to be anyway. They categorize us. Women who are pure, mother material. And the rest. Honestly, it's better to be a whore than a madonna. Speaking from personal experience. As I've been both throughout my life. It's much more fun to actually have the kind of sex you want to have as a woman. Instead of being used as a toy for their pleasure alone and not getting anything out of it. My great gra…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:52 PM
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Yeahhh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:13 PM
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I think some of these dudes seem to automatically assume, or have in their heads that a relationship means long term access to sex. When it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:56 PM
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No is a complete sentence. The absence of a "no" is not an indicator of a "yes" either. In my personal opinion... Unless a woman is genuinely throwing herself at you and making it well known that she wants to have sex with you... you don't have consent. Informed and enthusiastic consent are the only kinds of consent that I engage in personally with any sex partner. I have been abused far too many times to not take consent seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:55 PM
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No, that is guilt. Shame is the feeling of "being wrong". Like there is something fundamentally "wrong" with you. Narcissistic personality disorder is really and truly a deep-seated shame disorder for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:25 PM
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Shame is the concept of "being wrong". That's why I refuse to accept it as a real emotion. Also, the amount of psychological research I've done and the amount of times my therapist and I have talked about this kinda stuff over the years... I trust that woman with everything. No one can "be wrong". We were all born the way we were meant to be born in this life. There is no such thing as a person "being wrong". You can do wrong, act wrong, make wrong decisions. Your existence itself cannot "be wro…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:24 PM
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That's a fear response. You literally described a fear response. I worked in the animal industry for a decade. I know what I'm talking about dude. Dogs portray fear more than they do any other emotion. They're terrified a lot of the time. And we act like it's nothing. The things people do to dogs... We had a dog come in once that had to have surgery because the owner had been raping the dog... it was horrific. One of the most traumatic things I had to witness in the shelter. Also watched a cat h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:20 PM
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Dogs don't feel shame. Animals do not feel shame in the way humans do; instead, what looks like shame is usually a fear response, an appeasement signal, or a reaction to your angry tone and body language
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:28 AM
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What even is considered normal these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:21 AM
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When I say I want a man to be "vulnerable" with me... what I personally mean is this; I am hardcore turned on by men displaying emotional vulnerability, transparency and honesty. I like depth. And the more deep I can get with someone, the more turned on I am. I love when my guys are vulnerable and expressive with me. I want them to be able to be their full authentic selves with me and not feel the need to hold anything back. It's really hard to find people that are actually able to fully recipro…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:21 AM
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Cross dressers, drag queens and drag kings, celebrities, probably some of the elite... This stuff is still used to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:10 AM
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That would be hot as fuck to see. Men in high heels????? SWOOOOOOOONNNN
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:20 AM
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You know that's why make up, height boosters and wigs were made right? For men. Women didn't start using them until later.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:19 AM
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Are they engaging in informed and enthusiastic consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:47 PM
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Yes, because they're being assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:13 PM
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"Hey, how's it going? Are you busy Friday night? Would you wanna grab a drink or go for a walk? And chat?" How hard is that???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:44 PM
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And that's unfortunate that that is how they view and treat women. Seeing as women are people and not handbags. My clients are not men like that, they're amazing. Total sweethearts. It's the reason I let them hire me. They wouldn't be granted access if they were anything like I experience in the dating apps. We providers tell dudes to go to tinder all the time to find long term girlfriends or casual sex instead of hitting us up trying to "save us" from this life. It's hilarious. We don't need "s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:31 PM
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Decades? Try thousands of years of torment. They're only just now receiving the consequences of their actions as a whole. It's about time. What do they say? "What goes around comes around".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:17 AM
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Most of them were unwilling. I've battled with that myself for years. It's helped me be a good Dom though and value my submissives more. I get to fulfill their fantasies and it's a wild ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:32 AM
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I've literally heard dudes say "a hole is a hole. I don't care what it's attached to" We are no longer friends. Guys say some really fucked up things. They actually can physically have sex, whether they are turned on or not. It is a survival response triggered by the central nervous system. The penis is a fully autonomous involuntary moving organism. It legitimately has a mind of its own and therefore can become erect under pressure. And in the most dire of circumstances. And also for the strang…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:17 PM
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From my experience... For every 100 I interact with, only 5 of them are trustworthy, and considered safe for me to be around. My safety is of the utmost importance to me. Especially these days. I still struggle with androphobia, despite my best efforts to process and work through it with years of exposure therapy, learning how to properly discern, amongst other things. I genuinely want to believe most men are good deep down. Unfortunately for me personally, the vast majority of my experiences wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:44 PM
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No, I would call that the truth. Why does a dude have to start off really creepy then? "Hey you look like fun! I would love for you to swallow my cum tonight! It would be a dream come true for me!" As the first message??? No "hey, how's it going? How's your weekend so far?" Nope, just straight to "come suck my cock babe". Before we've even had a fucking conversation... Even my clients are better than that. I would rather have a work text come through and them be serious and responsible and respe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:07 PM
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If you ever wanna chat, feel free to. My door is wide open for the ladies anytime. Dommes average $800-2,500 per hour. And that's fully clothed in Domme gear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:56 PM
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Girl.... Let me tell you... There are escorts who charge $500/hr and are obese. And they make it. If a dude wants you bad enough, he will pay any price or do anything to have you. You could even feed into the dudes with fetishes and charge extra for that. There are so many things you can do. Especially in your 40s. There are escorts who are in their 60s and are still going strong and make like $20K a month or more on average. It's fascinating! I know a high end escort who makes $50K a month fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:53 PM
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Girl, hush! You are definitely attractive enough to escort! I can show you how! If you're really good at sexting, those ladies make some good money doing that. Always happy to help a fellow gal make her bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:49 PM
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I have more than 200 likes on tinder right now and that's just from yesterday evening. I had zeroed them out from 150 before that. Less than 24 hours and I have more than 200 likes from tinder alone. I'm also talking about in my job as well. I reject more clientele than I see. And the moment a dude sends the first message on tinder, he has already ruined it for me. They're disgusting. I thought I could try casual sex again, and honestly, it makes me so glad I am a companion even more so. It seem…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:48 PM
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Need to be real about this. Most dudes do this stuff. Most of them engage in this every time they go out somewhere looking for women. I watch it happen all the time. And I do what I can to protect the potential victims. It fucking sucks how common and prevalent it is. Also, what I hate most is that the bars have drug testing strips so you can test your drinks for roofies or GHB or other date-rape drugs. And there are limits to how many drinks you can get. And if you get more than 2, you have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:36 PM
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They don't get that the only kind of consent there is is informed, enthusiastic consent. No is full, complete sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:33 PM
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It's because that's what society and the world have told her. And also how men act. I too feel that way. You know how rare it is for me to find a guy to talk to or have sex with that actually likes me for me? Like, as the whole package that I am? Because I only fuck dudes who actually genuinely like me as a person. Not a sex toy. I hate being treated like that. It's one of the worst feelings in the world. For every 100 dudes that see me, only 2-5 of them are even worth humoring. So it makes it r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:19 PM
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Natural selection also includes dudes removing themselves from the equation on their own. This isn't about evolutionary biology in this context. This is about the inappropriate males dying off and leaving the appropriate males for women to select from.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:15 PM
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Men having people paying for the illusion of emotional connection for thousands of years. That's why money was created in the first place. To pay for women and buy them. Because women have and still are seen as property to this day. So a man needed to be able to purchase her somehow. Whether with money or trades. Women are still sold like cattle and traded like sheep daily as we speak. I think that's the part I like most about my job. It's not an illusion, nor an act for me. I'm genuine and auth…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:14 PM
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They're the ones with some pf the highest DV rates in America. They're most likely to abuse you and torment you. Oh! And eat the children for their adrenochrome... Can't forget that part... Isn't it lovely? That the majority of the people we claim to look up to are all sick, sadistic psychos? NFL players have such severe brain damage, they torture their loved ones at home. The stories I've heard and read about and people I've met... I would never want to be the wife to someone like that. That's …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:09 PM
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Bingo! That's right on the money, honey!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:06 PM
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This! Literally! Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:06 PM
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That's one too many.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:57 AM
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When these are the primary things that come up??? Yeah. It's shocking! "Data on necrophilia is extremely rare because the act is hidden and hard to track. Clinical reviews show that 92% of people who commit necrophilia are male, most identify as heterosexual, and over half have occupational access to bodies." "57% of chronic offenders worked in places with dead bodies, such as morgues, hospitals, or cemeteries." "Unresisting Partner: Roughly 68% of cases show a primary motivation to seek a compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:45 AM
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Good god ... I went and googled the statistics on necrophiliacs... I... It's worse than even I thought. Good grief! Just when my faith in humanity gets closer to being restored, something else makes it that much harder...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:36 AM
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Dude, this is common knowledge. And it's also something I've talked about with others before. It happens. A lot more often than you think it does. I've worked for the US gov. I know shit you wouldn't believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:31 AM
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The proof is everywhere. It's literally all over the place. It's so obvious you can't not see it. For fucks sake. Really makes me grateful for the two guys I have. Though, they still have progress to make in different ways. Happy they're doing the work and doing their part to help me raise our kids and family well. They're both stay at home dads technically. One is full time and the other is part time. Primarily takes care of me. I'm his job 👌 There are dudes out there absolutely willing and hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:11 AM
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It's more than that. I think men will finally actually become fully aware of themselves and of the realities of life and what women go through. And we would all actually slowly but surely know peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:38 AM
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This. Both of mine were given to me by rape. It's not going to stop until they all stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:33 AM
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Balance. The world would know peace. Men would be forced to evolve and grow and become better. Natural selection would take place, the genetic pool could potentially get better with all of this as well. We would have healthier children. And women would eventually be more willing. Because evolution would be happening finally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:30 AM
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To what? You're going to have to be specific on what you're wanting me to tell you... What will happen in what context? To women having autonomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:23 AM
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That last sentence. A long term partner they see as suitable. What makes you think wealthy dudes are suitable?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:06 AM
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Then what? What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:04 AM
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It's about time things leveled out. It's very telling that educated women don't want marriage and children. It shows they're aware it's not a beneficial life for them more often than not. They know the stories from the women around them. And they are able to have the freedoms their mothers and grandmothers were not awarded. They can choose. When you can finally choose to live a happy and free life. Away from the same pain and suffering your ancestors endured for thousands of years.... Wouldn't y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:59 AM
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Yes, it can cross into criminal behavior. It's still going against informed consent. Consent must be freely and fully given. If you're lying about your intentions, you're not giving them the ability to freely consent to you. If they wouldn't consent to sex unless you lied.... There is the key. You have to be fully honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:55 AM
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"Laws vary by region, but severe forms of deceit that trick a person into the physical act or identity of the partner can be prosecuted as sexual assault or rape."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:53 AM
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They most likely aren't. They want what they want and can't find it. Dudes don't care. They want to fuck. That's all they care about. Right? Women want relationships. Not to be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:52 AM
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It's literally rape to lie to a woman to have sex with her. It's a state jail felony where I live. I know the penal code and description by heart because I have to utilize it often and keep dudes in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:50 AM
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😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣 Or the finger jab thing. Telling you he's gonna rearrange your guts 😭😭😭 They say the most disgusting and drying up things I swear to God. You'd make millions off of the disgusting shit they say to wome. Dude once said he was gonna make my husband raise his baby. And a dude I fucked once said he couldn't fuck his wife anymore after me. And i didnt even know he was married. The dude repulsed me after that so I cut him off. Whew I have stories for ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:49 AM
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Dudes will literally put their dicks in anything. You'd be amazed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:48 AM
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Sending a dick pic as the first message! Coming in hot and heavy with a giant wall of text of the many ways he wants to violate and utilize your body for his pleasure. Asking you to do the most heinous and horrific things because he for whatever reason thinks "this bitch is gonna take my cock the way I want her to whether she likes it or not." Yeah fuck that. I hate casual dating and casual sex and hook ups for this exact reason. It's literally what drove me to become an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:45 AM
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This makes them rapists though. You realize that right? Informed and enthusiastic consent must be freely given. If you're lying to get sex, that is not giving the other person the ability to consent because they are lacking information that gives them the truth that would make them able to consent in the first place. Deceptive Sexual Conduct. It's a form of coercion, goes into coercive control. Which means the woman you're having sex with did not consent to you of her own free will and volition.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:40 AM
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"Aye bby what dat mouf do???" What?? My guy... A dude literally spelled mouth with an F. I get the weirdest and most disturbing messages from dudes. How is a woman supposed to swoon or take interest when the first message is him already putting his foot in his mouth?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:36 AM
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They could also not use women like walking flesh lights and actually treat them like people and give them mutual respect and pleasure. Instead of using women to masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:33 AM
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A client once told me that a friend of his likes having sex with obese women because you can't tell where you are or whether you're "in a hole" but it all feels good anyway according to him... It was really gross to hear about. And I felt sorry for the women this dude was with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:32 AM
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Reading the first 3 sentences... I felt that in my soul. And it reminded me of that group of men that gangraped a komodo dragon and filmed it... They will literally fuck anything. There's a reason they're not allowed to work in morgues, or cemeteries, too many necrophiliacs doing fucked up shit to corpses... To think. A job where women are the preferred person to hire. Because the opposite sex will fuck a corpse... I... Ever heard the song "A little piece of Heaven" by Avenged Sevenfold? If you …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:28 AM
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And that's amazing. If you want to know more. Feel free to reach out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:45 AM
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I don't think you know how the psychology behind it really works...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:05 AM
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Purity culture has a huge role in how the Madonna-Whore complex came to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:27 AM
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Yes, we all do to some degree. However, there is more to it than just the complex itself. There's honestly so much I could say. It's too much for one comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:22 PM
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I have actually!! There are a few clients of mine who don't want anything to do with butt stuff. Usually it's trauma related though. On the receiving end I mean. When it comes to giving butt stuff on the other hand... They genuinely don't get why dudes want to do that at all. It's kinda funny. Having to explain to grown ass men, older than me, why on earth a man would like to have anal sex with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:10 PM
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Women who make men wait are generally doing it in regards to their own safety and security.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:02 PM
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Epigenetics play a big factor in this as well. Also, kinks are genetic/hereditary. If you're into butt stuff, odds are the majority of your bloodline is also into butt stuff. There. I said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:00 PM
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A lot of women have a phobia of penises. I've dated a few of them... It saddens me. Women should be able to have experience in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:59 PM
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They're living on a small farm with their dad and his parents and grandmother. They're away from the city. With a stay at home dad who has a part time job at the school. They're making friends. They get to play outside. Raise chickens and see what it's like to live a life I never had. While I make the majority of the income, travel the country and continue to "be the change" our country needs. Inspiring and influencing one person at a time. Making a difference in our country is really important …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:52 PM
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I didn't choose him. He chose me. And he made sure he had me until he died. You have no idea what that was like. To literally beg and scream for someone to leave you. Instead he forced a child on you and made your life hell. You have no idea. Literally no idea what that was like. I did everything I could possibly think of to escape him. And he put me through court for 8 years. My child is 11 now. I've spent her entire life fighting for her. For the bastard to die anyway. I had no idea he was the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:32 PM
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I've experienced it myself. I've been degraded and forced to watch my now deceased ex and father of my first born have sex with other women. He would get other women drunk at parties and wait for them to get to the point of being "easy". Then he would drag us to a room and force me to watch him violate her... It was horrific. And I was far too young to do anything about it. He did this to 7 women while with me. And almost took my life multiple times with his hands. It exists. I've been a unicorn…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:08 PM
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I had a sit down with my polycule 6 months before getting into escorting. I started at the bottom and made my way to mid-tier status. It's been a change of pace. We had a family sit down conversation about it. As a unit. And unanimously decided as a family it would be a good idea overall for all of us. Including our kids. And... Might I say, we were right. And it's working. It's been amazing. Who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:35 PM
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Laughable. Absolutely laughable. They give us almost double the workload by their mere existence with us and still have the audacity to say shit like this. I am so glad I work with the dudes I do. Makes it so nice. Gives me faith in humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:33 PM
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The reason they want women inexperienced sexually is so they don't know the truths about men that sex workers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:31 PM
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You realize many of us are married with children already right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:28 PM
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Yep! Yep yep! We need to change the way we raise our boys!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:27 PM
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How do you think I feel servicing them as their companion? They say some gnarly ass shit to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:27 PM
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The Madonna-Whore complex is when a man no longer finds his wife sexually appealing after she births him children. So he goes and finds a "whore" (lover, mistress, escort/companion, sex worker of some other kind, co-worker) to have a sexual relationship with. He basically loses all sexual attraction to his wife. He believes she is now a mother. Which means she is also his mother. And he doesn't want to have sex with his mother. It's a whole thing dude. It really fucks some dudes up. And it even …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:23 PM
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Exactly!!!! That means you're instantly put on "mommy duty".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:21 PM
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Explain why what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:19 PM
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It drives me mad!!! Categorizing women like this. It goes to show they really are linear thinkers and have to compartmentalize and put everything in boxes. That's why they need labels for everything!! Ever wonder why a man is all hot and heavy and interested and then the moment he lands you, he thinks "I no longer have to put a lick of effort into this now, she's mine, hahahaha. " Yeah, that's because they think they did the hard part. Getting you. Nahhhh bro. The hard part is keeping you. And t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:18 PM
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The Madonna-Whore complex is something that needs to be broken down within every dude, for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:03 PM
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Been there, if you ever wanna talk about it with someone, I'm all ears. Or... eyes I suppose? It's hard to break through the hurdle. I still struggle myself and I have sex daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:40 PM
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Thank youuuuu I love it for me too!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:30 PM
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Had a dude tell me I was useless and not fuckable because I removed my uterus. What's the fun in fucking a whore when you can't run the risk of getting her pregnant and putting her out of work for a while? These guys are nasty. The amount of offers I've had to be an incubator. And then thankfully telling them I'm sterile. So try as they might, it'll never happen. They're insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:29 PM
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Oh it's failing those at the top of the scheme. They just don't know it yet. Then again, there are a lot of things that are perceived differently than they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:40 PM
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Lmao, you know it 😜 I love it tho, my experiences these days are 10x better than the experiences I had years back. Let me tell you... Who knew getting into the industry fully would actually give me the ability to make my wildest dreams and fantasies come to life? Being able to do that for myself and others has been life altering and inspirational as fuck bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:40 PM
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The red pill didn't fail men. It's working exactly as designed. Putting money in the influencers pockets and keeping the guys perpetually single and emptying their pockets. That was the whole point. Extract resources from the guys and use them. It's working just fine. They're still falling for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:19 PM
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This one is always tough for me... Mainly because women have had a tendency to dehumanize and treat me like a sex object more often than men do. And I work with men for a living. So that... It makes dating fucking awful. There is one woman I've been chatting with for a few years now. We've thankfully only had sex a couple of times. It's nice. Shame doesn't belong in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:13 PM
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As someone with a number above 1,500... Dudes get astonished by that number. Some thikk it's awesome and are fascinated by it. Others think it's crazy I even have a number up here like this. It could honestly be higher. If I weren't so fucking picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 04:42 PM
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Isn't that what all women are in the eyes of the majority? An asset? He didn't tell me anything I didn't already know. Or theorize. He did help me to fully see how it all works and plays out. I've been in the industry for 13 years myself. I have seen the difference between a man who barely has the ability to hand over my rent in one go. And a guy who hands me more than my rent like it's nothing to him. It absolutely fascinates me. The way that dudes are. The differences in experiences between th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 09:39 AM
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I'm not saying it does. I know it's a lot more versatile than that. There's a whole spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 09:34 AM
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Have no idea what any of that means. I'm glad I removed my uterus though. That's for sure. Made that easier on myself and my family for sure. All things considered. ✨️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:00 PM
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Many of them do. And have resorted to staying inside as often as they can and avoiding areas that consist of a lot of men. And opting out of dating and choosing celibacy to protect themselves better so they're not raped. Unfortunately, since they are required to carry to term whether the sex was consensual or not, they're ultimately concluding it's best to stay single and not date or have sex with men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:52 PM
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A lot of them don't have deep and meaningful friendships unfortunately. And even though I've been trying, I'm still having trouble getting my guys to group together and get them talking. The next idea is to have a mask psychedelic party and invite them all over, pick a mask/costume at the door or come already covered and that way no one really knows who anyone is and they can discuss and talk about the shit they can't talk about anywhere else besides with me. I really don't know how it will go. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:41 PM
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This. Seriously. A lot of these women are actively playing with these dudes. And the dudes feed into it and keep it going. Regardless of anything, these guys are forgetting something very important. They are paying for access to us first and foremost. We can still deny anything we want to. It's ultimately the choice of the provider who is providing the service in the first place. These guys think "I'm paying for it. Give it to me." They don't seem to realize this key factor. They are paying for …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:30 PM
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Reminds me of this woman's article every time. She wrote a book about it as well. responsible ejaculation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:17 PM
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This reads like a massive projection... I don't speak or associate with many 20 somethings or younger so I haven't the slightest idea how they really are, I have minimal interaction with them. I can say I don't know many women in my generation that are how you describe... Though, I don't quite know what your definition of self-centered and narcissistic traits are in women. They tend to vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:10 PM
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I mean, a lot of these dudes are married, partnered, some are even poly. I had a fan find me randomly at a hotel. I've met a few of their wives/partners. A few of my clients have wives who are also in the industry in some way. That's pretty cool. It's a rather open community I have thankfully. I'm one of the lucky ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:58 AM
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Yeaaahhhhh them wanting to plug everything they can up is a massive disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:08 AM
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I can't say That's entirely true... I know several men who are sapiosexual like myself. My husband being one of them. He has trouble with arousal due to traumatic events. And low T. Stress is also a huge factor right now. It's funny cuz in my experience, the more intelligent the guy and the kinder and more giving the guy is, the better in bed he will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:42 AM
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He's worked in the sex work/entertainment industry for over 30 years. He's been around some of the most famous people in the world. Simply by working at some of the most popular clubs in the world. He's actually a bad ass and encourages women to value themselves and uphold boundaries with men. You'd be amazed the men that go to strip clubs. They're flavors of all kinds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:11 AM
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There are too many women getting into the industry and fucking it up for the rest of us. I can say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:46 PM
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Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:44 PM
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I think women are at a point where they would rather be celibate than bother trying at all. And it's bittersweet. Yeah. I know. And that's pathetic and sad. Considering that means a man can't be honest with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:04 PM
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We equate it to any service of any kind. You wouldn't go to a tattoo artist and offer them half their rate for twice the work, now would you? An attorney charges you by the minute, don't they? So for every text, email, phone call, you are charged for that. Right? Would anyone be willing to take less than what they believe is rightfully theirs for the job? They have this thing called "the golden pussy rule". Where they think a provider of any kind charging "$100-300/hr" is a smart and wise busine…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:22 PM
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He thinks he's "special" because he fed into the very fantasy he is paying for. They experience limerance a lot. A lot. It's really frustrating for many of us. We have to kindly remind them, and carefully remind them it's all an act. They're getting what they paid for if they are convinced she is "in love". That's the whole point of hiring someone for "The girlfriend experience". It's not our fault men are easy to manipulate. It's their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:57 PM
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It genuinely doesn't make sense to me. They attract these women and choose these women to be around. And then act confused when reality hits them. A DJ at a strip club I worked at told me something I will never forget "A man's value is in his wallet. You can make a man go crazy for you and beg for you if you tell him he can't afford you. Make it known that you know your worth and value yourself more than any amount of money they could throw at you. Because in the end, that is all they are worth …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:57 PM
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That isn't always the case. A sex worker still has to decide to have sex. Whether via giving monetary consent or consent of her own will. If she is consenting to being paid for sex and not consenting to the person handing her the money, this is a grey area. The second one doesn't make sense to me. Unless you think marrying a woman means she has to give you sex whenever you want. Whether she wants to or not. Which, having sex with a woman against her will is not something I will ever understand. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:44 PM
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Neither woman wants to have sex. That right there. Consent is not being given by either of these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:35 PM
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Experience, education, being in the sex work industry for 13 years maybe? Sex in exchange for money is only agreed upon when both parties agree. The way you make it sound is like she is supposed to agree to disagree and that's not how it works. A lot of dudes want us in survival mode so we feel compelled to take the money and have sex against our will. That's what it sounded like earlier. You're basically stating "she's supposed to fuck me because I'm paying her for her attention" That's the thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:16 PM
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Sugar dating doesn't also mean sex. That would mean they don't have a right to consent or not consent to sex. And every human being has a right to their own bodies and a right to say no to sex regardless of how anyone else may feel about it. They can hold whatever standards they want. And they often tend to. And that's a good thing. For them. Most sugar babies are considered scammers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:54 PM
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You do you babe, that's your choice. My dudes are all over the place. Some are short and beefy. Tall and thin and lanky. Really big around the waste to where i can't hug them and wrap my arms around. And all have very similar personality traits. Love women to their dying day. Will fight for what they believe in. Will protect anyone who needs protection. Are givers to a fault, loyal, meticulous and generous as fuck. Altruistic to the point of their own detriment. And I adore them for it. It's nic…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:53 PM
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No, actually quite the opposite. The women I know want kind guys with big hearts who are over protective of who they care about. So that is who I work with primarily. Exactly that kind of guy. Basically. Guys I would realistically date in real life if things were different. A lot of providers work that way these days. We've found it's easier, safer and better than casual dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:47 PM
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A sugar baby is engaging in paid intimacy, is she not? Sex work doesn't always have to do with sex itself. It also has to do with emotional intimacy and connection. Which is what most sex workers provide whether they are having sex or not. Regardless of whether they do online or in person sex work as well. Escorts for example are hired for emotional support and deep connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:42 PM
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I don't think you know the kind of guys who book escorts. They're guys who choose to be single because they're happy only having an overnight once a month. They're guys who have been divorced once or twice and are too heart broken to be willing to date again. They're guys whose wives were terminally ill and died and they refuse to open their hearts again. They're nerds. Goofy guys. Teddy bears. Pacifists, altruists. Guys who are chivalrous and People pleasers. Guys who don't understand misogyny …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:40 PM
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The women are usually found at a bar with a pimp or owner of some sort. There is generally a fee to interact with her. And then a fee to take her on a date. Then for sex. Then, their goal is to go home to your country with you or risk being sold to the highest bidder and trafficked elsewhere. I know a few veterans who have gone through this...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:28 PM
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On the contrary, it's awesome for us and many of us are doing really well for ourselves. Which they hate and don't understand for some reason. A lot of lesbians are sex workers. They don't find men attractive. They enjoy dominating them and ranking in the cash to spend with their girlfriends though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:26 PM
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Sugar babies are sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:25 PM
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I remember my sugar baby days. The last sugar daddy I had said "I know we have a real connection now and I don't have to send you anything anymore..." Uhm, what? Dude. That's not how this works. I am so glad I transitioned into escorting. I get treated so much better and it's so nice. Sugaring is considered on the low end of the sex work tier, when it comes to providing sex and companionship, that is. I know escorts and other industry workers who only see clients based on their level of physical…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:22 PM
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You realize most dudes in my country have hired a sex worker of some kind at some point or another, right? And that a lot of them see escorts/companions so they can learn how to date. How to interact with women. Gain sexual experience and also for emotional support. Which, the main reason is for emotional support. Although many convince themselves otherwise. These guys don't know how to approach women, how to get them to see they're not predators. And that is hard to do when many women see all m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:39 PM
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Don't know what you mean by deception. Seeing as there is no deception here that I can see. Cool story bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:15 PM
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Escorts are different than prostitutes. Like, there is a huge difference between a lot lizard, a street walker, a girl walking "the blade", the freestylers, an escort disguising as a prostitute, a brothel prostitute, a pimped girl, a trafficked girl, a mid-range escort, a high end escort, and then yacht bitches, and Dominatrix's, FBSM, camgirls, the list goes on... They're all very different demographics of sex workers. Some have sex with their clients. Some never meet in person and only do onli…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:07 PM
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There's a difference between John's, tricks, whales and actual clients in our world. These are actual clients. They feel sick because they don't associate with men like that. They don't get along with men like that. They think they're scum and hate being associated with them because they know that is a huge reason as to why they have trouble dating in the first place. Because of men and their bad behavior towards women and other men. My clients see me as a human being. And are happy to spend tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:01 PM
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That's not a reason. Like. At all. I'm 5ft. And I have 3 guys on my roster (who don't pay for my time) that are shorter than 5'8". Your height has very little to do with it. Plus, short Kings tend to overcompensate for their height in other ways I've found. Sucks they feel the need to do it. It's kind of awesome on the other hand though. They get really stupid good with their hands and tongues. It's addictive and annoying. Because it's addictive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:28 PM
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Then idk what the problem is here. Unless women see your face and are scared off instantly or you give off a vibe or something. Which. It could be the vibe...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:23 PM
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Yeah, that is true. Plus, most of the diamonds are lab grown these days anyway. Making them less valuable. Personally I prefer the stones with deeper meaning to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:16 PM
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Do you go out and socialize in public spaces and go to events to meet people?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:13 PM
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I'm an escort. Not a prostitute. I get paid to exist in the room for various reasons that have nothing to do with sex or having sex. I don't get paid for sexual services. Which means I am not a prostitute. Because I don't get paid to have sex with my clients. I get paid to give them attention. And spend time with them. I am paid for my time as a whole. And, actually, considering most of my clients are the kind of guys women want? Yeah, you have no idea what you're talking about. People really ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:13 PM
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Then, I don't know what to tell you there. If you can have deep, meaningful conversations about all there is about life and have the ability to maintain a conversation for more than a few minutes... Especially before making any sort of sexual remark whatsoever.... You're already very far ahead of the game than many of them are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:09 PM
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Yes I did know that!!! I actually know a couple of high end escorts now... Dude. The stories they have about old white men and their fetishes... And they get paid 5x what I do in a month. Can you IMAGINE THAT.???? It amazes me! These women are fascinating. I wanna make 50K a month pegging old white men 😩 😫 😭😭 I can't bring myself to do it though. I would have to stop catering to the demographic of men I have in order to get there. Then again, we've been unanimously talking about it and they've a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:08 PM
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If you wouldn't have sex with yourself or tale yourself on a date... Why would anyone want to do that with you? That's my motto for life. If you wouldn't fuck yourself, don't expect anyone else to want to either. It comes from within.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:00 PM
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All they care about is the audience. Women are the "prize" they can show off to the male audience around them. That's all they want is the validation and approval from other men. The amount of times my clients have gotten the "bro seal of approval" from the audience when we go on our dates. Especially downtown on dirty 6th. The frat bros and fuckboys especially give my guys the "attaboy" and "bro I wanna fuck that too, nice one!" And the list goes on with the shit I hear them say or that I later…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:56 PM
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My mom's 3rd husband of 4... 😤 was the VP of the mortgage broker company they worked for together. He openly admitted to my mom after they married that he hired the majority of the female employees specifically based on whether their breasts were D cup or larger... Guess how large my mom's breasts were? DD. Didn't matter she had over a decades worth of programming and software engineering experience. Nooooooo. Her boobs landed her the job and she later married the man because he at the time seem…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:01 AM
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I value a man for what is in his heart, not his wallet. He spent a quarter million keeping me and my first born away from our abuser. I'm doing what I can to return the favor, pay off our accumulated debt, buy us property and give him the life he wants for us. Land in the mountains, with our little family, off-grid. Away from everything that could harm us. In our nice, beautiful home. My husband is an incredible father. He is emotionally available and supportive of all of our children. He cares …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:37 PM
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To me it's the same thing. Desire for/of are synonymous here in this regard. Difference between paying for sex and paying for companionship... which is primarily what dudes are asking for these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:00 AM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:57 AM
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And that's still true to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:42 AM
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Am I supposed to thank you? Are sex workers not the object of what is desired by those who desire us?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:31 AM
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The one being desired is the "whore", "adulteress", "prostitute", and so on. Honestly, I think courtesan sounds better than those. That word was reserved for high class escorts/companions though. My have times changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:29 AM
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Grandmothers. Anyone born before 1970s. Maybe even the 1980s. Idk, millennials who were told "don't talk about what happens in this house on the internet" and so on and so forth? Do I really need to find a source of some kind for you to actually realize this? 🤔 It was my lived experience, and I am not the only one either. It's still frowned upon for women to talk about what happens to them behind closed doors. There are even women who genuinely don't know they've been abused in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:17 AM
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Pretty much all throughout history, really. Women gathering has been seen as threatening and a huge "no-no" historically through the ages. The last thing the people in control want is for women to gather and realize they all pretty much have identical stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:01 AM
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The trash is usually already taken out before I even say anything. Then again, the kitchen is entirely his responsibility. From keeping it stocked, to dishes, to trash. That's not my area. So, if he doesn't take the trash out because he forgot to, or got distracted, I'll take it out myself. I mainly draw the line at dishes. I refuse to do dishes unless I absolutely have to. Both of my men know this though and will wash them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:59 PM
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Good thing looks fade and attraction varies. My husband and live-in partner are polar opposites of each other in looks and everything. I don't go for looks though, I go for character and personality overall. Tbh, there aren't many decent enough paying jobs out there to make having children more realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:36 PM
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Yeah I don't know much about your country or how any of that works... To me, after the over abundant amounts of research I've done to grant me the nickname "walking encyclopedia"... I firmly believe men are the proper caretakers of children and the weak, and frail, like the elderly or disadvantaged, and disabled. I believe women are better in workplace matters and men are better in matters of the home. It's definitely worked for us. He's also a veteran. So we get his VA benefits for him, myself …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:31 PM
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Stay at home dads are bad ass. I love that I'm able to provide enough financially for my husband to work part time at the school and also be with our kids all the time as well. He is currently in another state with them, caring for his dying grandma. Your dream come true is my normal day to day life. I firmly believe fathers should be stay at home parents and mothers should be the ones bringing home the bread and bacon. It's made our marriage ten times better honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:07 PM
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Idk man, I definitely felt "stuck" when I was made to sleep on a 12-guage with an unlocked 40 S&W in plain sight every night. That I would also have to remove from my toddlers hands almost daily. I totally knew I could escape him back then.... /s Until you've experienced it yourself, you have no real idea what that is like...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:04 PM
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I'm really glad my hubs is a stay at home dad, honestly I wouldn't have it any other way. He's better with the kids than I am, and far more devoted to them than he is to me. Which I am okay with. Seeing as both of us had traumatic upbringings.. I am very happy our kids get to experience a side we never did. Devoted and loving parents. Childcare is way too expensive. When you have to choose between working a full time job and paying almost your entire income in childcare, or staying home with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:01 PM
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All I'm really referring to in terms of chivalry is doing things for someone without expecting anything in return. Like holding a door open and not expecting a "thank you". Or walking around to the other side of the car to open the door for your date. Walking on the side of the sidewalk facing the road so she is on the inside of the sidewalk away from harm. Basic human respect is what I am referring to with chivalry. I'm a woman and I act with integrity and chivalry. Especially towards women. Ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:19 AM
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Chivalry is genuine kindness to me. It's basic human decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:47 PM
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The internet made it to where more and more women and people in general could gain awareness and truths they never would've known before. For the longest time, women weren't allowed to communicate amongst one another. And even then, talking about what happened in the home behind closed doors was frowned upon. More women are able to actually see that they're being abused and aren't alone. It's no longer like it once was. I mean, the husband mortality rate has gone down drastically since women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:41 PM
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I think the best men exist now. In current times. Especially seeing as women have more choice and autonomy now than historically for thousands of years. The men now are a massive mixed bag of course. Though, I do wonder... What would've happened if chivalry were still considered a common practice instead of a rarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:38 PM
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Considering I am a bluntly honest person by default, I want the same in a partner. Lies are unacceptable in my life, especially in my close relationships. Transparency is a requirement for me, not an option. It's genuinely not worth it to me if we can't be fully honest, transparent and vulnerable with one another. I want to know everything there is to know about them. The dark parts, the light, everything in between. Nothing else is worth it to me. If I don't know your deepest darkest parts and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:57 PM
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Idk, considering Charlie Sheen has a track record that includes SA... He's not a good representation of anything. At all. He's a predator. So unless these dudes wanna equate themselves with the likes of predatory men.... I don't think using any celebrity from Hollywood would be appropriate right now. Given everything going on. The majority of those dudes have skeletons in their closets that go underground and deep. We may never know all of their secrets in our life times. Assholes get women in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:35 PM
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Yeah, that sounds familiar...I've known a few guys like this. Currently dating one actually... This is tricky. If you pull away too much, especially too fast, it could reinforce whatever internal belief he has of himself. And he will sabotage further, which will make matters for both of you harder... If you are too available though, he could also pull away, right? So hmm.... You can't fix him, he has to do that himself. His insecurities are his and his alone to work on. You can guide him, ease h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:34 AM
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In an LTR, people tend to get a little too comfortable. They're not gonna continue to pursue the relationship in the same way they may have in the beginning. Getting to know someone... You'll know everything you need to know about someone within the first 180 days. My mom taught me that. Also, the reddest flags are generally portrayed within the first 90 days. We tend to overlook them. Ignore them, pass and/or brush them off. Don't. They are a high tell sign of how things will be in a decade. Pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:13 AM
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It's a little hard to explain... It looks different for everyone. Let's say, making yourself too available for them. Have some boundaries. Be busy, or act busy. Don't make it seem like you're waiting by the phone for a phone call. They will use it to their advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:48 AM
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Women want partners, not adult children to clean up after and raise. That's all I can really say atp.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:22 PM
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Yes, if anything it means keep talking. Keep going. Let it out, for the love of God...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:17 PM
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Isn't that what the black pill basically says? Look, these dudes don't want help. They want to make the problem worse. The men who want to get help? Who want to help? To contribute to the solution and not the problem? They have my undying and unwavering eternal support. The rest can kiss my ass. Why would I want to support the very men who make it to where the men I actively support have a harder time in life as a whole? Why would I want to support people who don't support themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:54 PM
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The ones who need to get out of the way? Absolutely. The detrimental ones to society? Absolutely. The ones who are more of a problem to society than literally anything else? Absolutely. The rest can stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:42 PM
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Yep! Exactly! It's not a shock that my clients tell me things they've never told a soul. Including their own therapists. Imagine that. Men who are in therapy. And won't tell their OWN THERAPISTS what they are willing to tell me. I have a lot of secrets to keep and take to the grave with me... So yeah, men do go to therapy. And it's not enough. They need deep trauma work to be done. Especially around sex, intimacy and interpersonal relationships as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:09 PM
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Right, unless they portray dark tetrad personality traits, that is... Which only makes up about 10% of the globe...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:01 PM
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I would imagine there are a good couple hundred million members now...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:51 PM
1

Yeah, I wasn't expecting that response back.... If he thinks sex is a chore... I feel for these ladies, whew.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:50 PM
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I've been there, hollowed out connections only left me feeling even more miserable and drained after a while. Toxic sex may be fun, it's not worth it in the long run. You do you bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:23 PM
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Hurt people hurt people. Another thing. Male victims of CSA are 10 times more likely to enact the same crimes later on in life or worse. The deep, deep seated pain they have that they cannot explain. Some have repressed the memories so deeply that only their bodies remember. And so any form of threat whatsoever is something that needs to be handled, managed, executed immediately. I knew a man who was SA'd his freshman year of college. A girl at a party followed him back to his dorm, gave him a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:22 PM
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You must have some really, really empty connections, then... i am so sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:09 PM
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You must have some really, really empty connections, then... i am so sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:09 PM
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Is it? Hearing a dude say "no one would believe me if I told them..." so many times makes you wonder
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:49 PM
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I would be one of those. I have a thing for setting the bar. Though, I've been told I've set the bar a little too high for some dudes... I always feel weird about that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:45 PM
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Indeed, giving yourselves away freely makes them value you less, not more. Dudes want a challenge, the more challenging for them, the more enticed they are. Among other things. Never give away your time, mind, essence, body, anything away for free. To anyone, for any reason under the sun. And I am not just talking about money when I say this. I mean in totality. Take better care of yourselves and your spaces. These dudes don't value what they can't value within themselves. Once you see that much…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:32 PM
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We can't force them to seek treatment. Best thing to do is be patient and wait for the problem(s) to get rid of themselves. Which. It's happening as we speak throughout the globe anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:22 PM
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I don't think it will for a while, tbh I think it's gonna get worse until enough of them phase out that it gets calmer that way.... If you know what I mean.... The unalive rate has gone up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:19 PM
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All sounds like a massive projection...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:15 PM
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I have kids, I don't need to raise a grown ass man as well. If I have to hold a man's hand and teach him how to do basic survival shit, there is already a problem with this dynamic and I won't stand for it, nor will I tolerate it. Thankfully, my husband and partner are not dudes I need to hand hold. They're perfectly capable and sufficient on their own. Loving a person unconditionally is generally reserved for the relationship between parent and child. Where true unconditional love can exist. Al…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:12 PM
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I like whoever I am with to be authentic and honest about their experiences with me. If they wanna make sound, make sound, if they wanna be quiet, they can be quiet. It's entirely up to them, their comfort level and what makes them feel sexiest and fully present during sex. Of course, the more enthusiastic the better. Still their call, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:13 AM
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An experienced Dom knows they're not the ones in control. The submissive must always consent and be a willing participant. Meaning the submissive is always in control. And can stop it at any time. For any reason whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:45 PM
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Thank you for recognizing! 🌹😍😘
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:32 AM
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Good then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:25 AM
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Thankfully I don't these days. My clients are very strict about consent with me and vice versa. The dudes I hang out with make it so easy for me to tell who is someone to be around and who is not. I honestly adore my guys and wish I knew enough women to hand them off to. I'll always make money and there will always be more seemingly loving and lovable guys who will hire me and I will again state I wish I knew more women to give them to.... My guys are an absolute gem. It's gotten to a point wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:22 AM
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Which means they're aware they're essentially buying a sex worker. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:12 AM
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Sex workers have to tell our clients to take the glasses off due to the amount of times we've been filmed without our consent or knowledge and later figured it out. It's atrocious. I have a client who uses them, however, we've discussed it beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:08 AM
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I mean yeah. I would know that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:56 PM
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Forget Chad, he's not even worth it 😤 Sarcasm is right. No Chad's here. Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:48 PM
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If only they realize it doesn't work like that...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:13 PM
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The original meaning of the word "whore" is "to like or desire". So, if you're called a whore, that means they desire you in some way. It's only recently been coined as a derogatory term. And honestly, it's better to be a whore than a Madonna. My great grandma was a Madonna, she turned 96 this year. And I still remember when she told me to do the opposite. To break the curse and not follow in her footsteps. And, I will happily say I gladly did that. I am the polar opposite of what she was forced…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:22 PM
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The 4B movement started in south Korea about a decade ago. It's slowly been gaining global recognition since. As more and more women are seeing similar trends and behaviors throughout the men in their areas. South Korean women are absolutely fed the ever-living fuck up with the men in their country. So they ultimately decided on these "No's" until something systemically changes for them to even be willing to consider anything else besides what they are doing in response to the shit they go throu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:17 PM
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Imma have to watch Red Sparrow later... Getting me thinking of that movie. Jennifer Lawrence is so good and 🔥 it's so fascinating 👏 I may not be a sex spy... I do know a lot of secrets that no man has ever told another living soul besides myself though. I'm a secret keeper in another form.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:39 PM
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Please take my reward! The way you worded this is priceless. Those spin cycle 9000 sloppy toppy bjs are to die for...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:18 PM
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That's the job. Make a man feel wanted, desired, on top of the world. I realized a lot of providers avoid neurodivergent men, disabled men and less able-bodied men. So I put in my ads that I am shy guy friendly, disability friendly, queer friendly, neurodivergent friendly and also it states I am a sucker for nerds. The nerdier, the sexier. I could give a fuck less about what they look like. I'm not hired to find them attractive. I'm hired to make them feel attractive and take their mind off of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:05 PM
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The first 4B's mean... Bihon: No heterosexual marriage. Bichulsan: No childbirth. Biyeonae: No dating men. Bisekseu: No sex with men. The added 3B's to make it now a total of 7B's.... No Consumption: Boycotting items with a "pink tax" or from misogynistic companies. No Interaction: Refusing to engage in conversation or do emotional labor for men. B Help B: Building solidarity by supporting, protecting, and helping other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:00 PM
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I mean, 4b has become the 7b movement. They've upgraded. It's bad ass. The clitoris is the only organ in the body specifically designed for pleasure. And it's bigger than most think it is. And there is a lot more to it than many believe. Look into the documentary on "the super orgasm". It's quite fascinating what women's bodies are capable of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:38 PM
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And that's sad and I hate it for you, I do... I'm audhd myself. It's a hassle getting along with people in general. I hear a lot about the scrutiny ND men face in life and dating. It's something that needs to be taken more seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:33 AM
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Take my diamond!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:18 AM
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Yasssss queen it does!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:13 AM
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As a 304 myself, couldn't agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:04 AM
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Awwee that's so cute 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:13 AM
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Not even worth responding
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:51 PM
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I have sex consensually. Sex work is an umbrella term. Anyone who knows anything about the sex work industry knows that. Much of prostitution is considered monetary consent. I don't consent in that same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:38 PM
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I'm a professional companion. Or, most commonly referred to as an escort. E.motional S.upport C.ompanion. My clients are very different from the average man. I also primarily see those who are neurodivergent like myself. I'm very particular about who I work with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:37 PM
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Get it right i'm a companion. Not a prostitute. Big difference. We are hired for very, very different reasons. I am primarily hired to give men deep emotional fulfillment and connection outside of the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:22 PM
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If you're on the spectrum, that tracks and is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:42 PM
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Society literally proves this to be true. I don't think you get it. That's okay though. I honestly believe that the majority of men specifically get women solely for status and to get the approval from the Male audience. Clearly, I don't associate with men like this in my day to day life, though. I would lose my absolute mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:13 PM
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I am saying that the only reason why the majority of men do this is to make themselves look good for other men. Did you even watch the link that I sent? It explains it perfectly. Men would rather "look like a family man" than be a family man. Men do spend more time with men than women almost automatically. A lot of men don't interact with women at all unless they want something from them or they have something they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:09 PM
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Because the only reason why they want the woman in the first place is to have status. Women are seen as trophies and status symbols for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:52 PM
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Or to have a real, living, breathing human body to use as a fleshlight
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:32 PM
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And that's amazing for you and love that for you. I'm sure it'll happen one day. Usually when you least expect it. That's what I've come to find. My clients would also be great partners. If they wanted to date, that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:06 PM
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And that's the thing. The male audience. That's all dudes really care about. There's a scene in the movie called Daddio that depicts this very well. Let me link it. It's brilliant. daddio scene
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:03 PM
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Your guess is, as good as mine because I have been losing my mind over the very same question for some time now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:50 PM
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They think it means easy access to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:49 PM
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I think everyone should watch this poem. It hits hard. And is very important I think for dudes especially.. barbie poem
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:21 AM
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Simulated rape, snuff, mumification, violent trains and gangbang type scenes, drug related, etc. To put it simply. Got into that stuff as a teen. It seriously fucked up things for me sexually, that's for sure. I've made it work though. And help others with the same troubles.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:02 PM
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Unfortunately for me, I have to watch extreme porn to get off. And it's because I would rather picture myself as the woman who is receiving what she is receiving. Has nothing to do with the men. Has everything to do with my desire to be her and be in her shoes. Even though I don't think any of it is something that I would actually legitimately enact in real life. I stick to stories and dirty talk now. Much better and healthier than watching anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:57 PM
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I'm talking about how they could be better with their penises. And learn new skills. Self improvement is primarily about inner work and doing your shadow work. Not about anything outside of yourself. Like your body. And therefore going to the gym and making yourself look more physically appealing. You can look physically appealing all you want, it doesn't take away from what's inside of you. And if the inside of you is repulsive, the outside of you won't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:48 PM
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Get better game then dude
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:36 PM
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Pussy is more valued than dick. That's literally what I am saying. Dick is useless. Not worth paying for 9/10 and more often than not. Out of the amount of times I've had sex with a dude, there are only a handful that I would've been willing to pay for their time. Or give them a refund for mine. On the other hand, pussy is priceless 👌 and they know it. Otherwise, they wouldn't pay for anything that has to do with women, sex or their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:34 PM
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Someone said "can't see how pussy isn't valued more than dick". And I followed with stating what I stated. Pussy will always be priceless. Sex work is the oldest profession in the world. Dicks will always be replaceable and a dime a dozen. They hold nowhere near the same value. So men thinking dick and pussy are equal are deluded in thinking that. Otherwise. They wouldn't be so desperate to continue sex work as a whole. They would stop playing into it entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:24 PM
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I mean, there are plenty of men who believe dick is as valuable if not equal value to pussy. And it's not. Dick is a dime a dozen. Almost useless unless the dude actually knows what he is doing and had the skills to properly perform well enough to make good money on dick alone. Women can literally walk outside and collect money for having a pussy. Whether her body is touched or not. Someone is willing to pay to see her naked as it is. I can't say the same about men. Though, I have debated hiring…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:21 PM
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Considering the average male escort charges half the average hourly rate of a female escort... Pussy is priceless in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:13 PM
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In the u s between the years of 1964 and 1993 married women were legally barred from saying no to sex. They were legally required to give sex to their husbands whether they liked it or not. Marital rape wasn't deemed illegal until 1993.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:15 AM
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It's the oldest profession in the world. That's all I'll say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:11 AM
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That is absolutely baffling that you believe that this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:47 PM
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The same way many of us do, online ads and reviews. There's links in my bio. They also find me here. Some come from the SW sub and lurk on my profile after some of my comments. I'm different from the majority of ladies in the industry so I get clients in random and various ways. Also had people walk up to me while I'm out and about and we've talked business. It's an interesting life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:16 PM
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An Escort is not hired specifically for sexual services. And we are paid for our time as a whole. Not specifically sexually related services. Escorts can have sex if they want to. We aren't exclusively hired for that though. That's what prostitutes are hired for. I'm hired to give men company and companionship. We go on dates, arcades, bar hop, etc. Essentially a girlfriend for hire.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:01 PM
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Ehhh the usual I see is between 5 and 6 when it comes to work, that is. I can barely handle 7, it's pushing it for me personally
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:11 AM
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I've found It's primarily about safety. The body has to fully relax. Most women are prevented from doing that in bed. Women's bodies are like antique cars with carburetors. They take a while to start up and the engine needs to idle for a bit. Patience is necessary. Also, foreplay starts outside of the bedroom. It usually starts the moment a woman wakes up. And that's hardly taken into account. I know how to get women there, I've thankfully figured out a near one-size-fits-all method. However, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:30 AM
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I'm super orgasmic, so I can thankfully have several different types of orgasms and have roughly a 90% chance of success when it comes to my pleasure in bed. It really depends on several factors for me. The setting has to feel right, I have to really like the person and feel safe with them, and a few other things. Size also plays a factor. I'm tiny. So I can only handle so much. There are times where I get there in seconds. And then there are times where it'll take me hours to get even one. 🙃 it…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:24 AM
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There are a lot of factors that play into this. It's primarily related to safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:21 AM
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Thank you!!! I'm happy to be the support they need and the person in their corner. I wish there were more in the job like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:08 PM
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The amount of trauma women have experienced at the hands of men who are the polar opposite of them. And also, the rise in abusive women who specifically seek them out to take advantage of their passive nature. They're people-pleasing types, have trouble saying no and are altruistic as fuck. They tend to attract narcissistic personality types or women with obsessive, addictive and toxic habits. These guys wouldn't hurt anyone unless provoked. And they've about given up on finding a woman to love …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:59 PM
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To put it bluntly, they don't get what the fuck is going on right now. And I'm who they get answers from. Hence a big part of why I'm in this sub in the first place. To give them answers. Of some kind. Something to help better explain whatever is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:43 PM
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I'm a professional companion for men. Most of my clients are single, widows or recently divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:06 PM
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Hearing what my clients go through and all of their dating woes... I'm not jealous. I'm heartbroken for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:00 PM
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I'm married and poly and partnered
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:40 AM
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It gives them insight to how dating woes are going throughout the world and our country. Also shows them how other guys think. Because more than 90% of the guys I work with do not think like a lot of what seems to be here... They read the posts and comments and are shocked at some of how things are in here. It really opens their eyes to see what women are going through so they are better prepared for dating. Or how they can better take care of the partner(s) they do have if any. Also helps expla…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:31 PM
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I was invited to this sub by the sub itself due to my shenanigans in other subs I would guess... I've been here for a while. I'm here for the research. Being in here helps me help my clients. I show them some of these posts and threads and it has definitely opened their eyes to some things. The point of this sub is to debate. Agree to disagree. Agree on some things. Disagree on others. Give varying opinions and information across various subjects. It makes me miss being able to actually debate w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:15 PM
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I tell them what happened to create the troubles they face in their interpersonal relationships now are not entirely or inherently their faults. Or proof that there's "something wrong with them". If anything, it's proof that they're afraid of failure and being perceived as "being wrong" more than anything. And that self sabotage is very common, human beings have a tendency to "self destruct" when things feel "too good to be true". Men have deep seated insecurities around competence as it is. Som…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:44 PM
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First step is naming it. The next step is going through and breaking down everything that goes on in their interpersonal relationships. Whether at work or at home or anything. We get to the root of the problem together. And most of it started in childhood and is trauma related.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:57 PM
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There's weaponized incompetence and then there's learned helplessness. They look similar and are often confused for each other. Just throwing that out there. I've witnessed both in a lot of men over the years. It's part of what I help them work through in my profession.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:48 PM
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Dick is a dime a dozen. As in. It's almost useless and pointless to me. I'm difficult to please. Let's say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:39 PM
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Idk man. Dick is a dime a dozen. Can literally walk outside and get a cock if I wanted to. Good dick is rare though. Like a needle in a haystack. There's an over abundance of mediocre cock and nowhere near as much high quality cock as there should be. That's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:32 PM
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Just about every woman I know has had a higher drive and desire for sex than their dudes. I've always been the one with the higher drive myself. I could have sex throughout the day every day and not get tired. It's actually considered bizarre for me not to want sex and a sign that either something is wrong or I'm that exhausted and overstimulated to the point where I don't want to be touched. Granted, I have sex daily as it is. And I still have a craving for more. I'm insatiable... I have compul…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:43 AM
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As I said, I know what the ones I like are into and it's similar to mine. So it works really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:03 AM
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Either take me as I am or not at all. I am who I am, I will always be who I am and I'm not going to change that. I know what the men I like are into and that works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:30 AM
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Seriously. 8 years and a quarter million dollars and the bastard still kept custody. I am so glad he's dead. And wish the best of luck for any parent going through something similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:38 PM
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I've been through the system and also worked for the u s government.I know how it works. Yes, I am a professional companion for hire. That's no secret, it's plastered all over my profile
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:26 PM
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Sounds like men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:45 PM
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Who is using custody as a weapon? Cuz last I checked, fathers use court as a control tactic and final effort to torment and humiliate the mother. I was one of them. I've been through that process. Usually fathers want or are granted custody simply out of a means of control. I'm not sure what you're referring to here otherwise. Most dudes don't even visit their children during their scheduled time with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:39 PM
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I'm a little confused here myself... What is he getting at with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:35 PM
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Pump and dump literally equates to a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:25 PM
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Having been to several male reviews and fucked one of the strippers... It's mostly already married, much older women who attend the shows in my area... I tend to be one of the youngest woman there. Bachelorette parties seem to be more of a go out and dance and party thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:27 AM
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I've literally had several veteran friends of mine explain to me how it works in Vietnam and Thailand. And I can assure you, these women did not have much choice in what happened with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:57 PM
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Uhm. What? They're owned by a trafficker who is forcing them to be married out by another man. Do you not get that? These women are already a man's property. They don't get a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:43 PM
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I actually have a couple of passport bros as clients. They're older. And many are already divorced. Because the bride they married gave him a child. Used him for the green card and dipped after having affairs and getting caught. It's better to hire an escort for fucks sake. Leave these poor women alone. Some of them have no choice but to marry a foreign man and leave their country. And so some have ulterior motives. You think these women are marrying the foreigners for love? No. They're marrying…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:19 PM
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Posts like this make me grateful I stopped dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:54 PM
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6 years ago I contemplated becoming male and transitioning. Then I thought about all of the reasons I have to enjoy being the way I am. As much as I act like a man and have BDE apparently... I would still rather be the person I am today any day of the week. So. Unless I had pretty much the exact same style of life I do now. As a man, I'd rather not. Because I would most likely be even more of a menace and force of nature than I already am. I don't think society needs a person like me as a man...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:26 PM
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Y'all hear about the newborn found at electric forest...?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:15 AM
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Dude... Those were the days! I was thinking about when I used to post on Craigslist to find one night stands and hook ups. This takes me back... And yes. It's gotten worse. There are women charging double what I do for less than half of the service I provide. It's annoying to hear about... On repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:55 PM
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It depends on the escort. And also your definition of what an escort is. An escort is an emotional support companion. That's what they're primarily hired for. Not specifically for sexual services or to be used as a masturbation tool like a street walker, lot lizard or your basic prostitute. There's a difference. Sex work is an umbrella term for a reason. She may not have as much experience. There are a lot of newbies this year. It's been fucking up the market for sure. And also far too many wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:58 PM
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I am an escort with a twist. I specialize in sexual trauma reprocessing and trauma mastery. Among the fact that my primary demographic of men are neurodivergent specifically. Because I am also neurodivergent myself. ED is very common in the US. It's so common you can get ED pills on Amazon prime for basically nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:53 PM
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So it's usually the same thing. They have trouble cumming. I have to go through all kinds of hoops to finally and eventually get them there. Like 80% of my clients have ED or have trouble performing for any reason under the sun. Mainly work and home stress they have trouble releasing. So I let them talk it out and get what's bothering them off their chest. And then it tends to result in a completion. Finally. That's the end goal and favorite part for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:39 PM
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You sound like some of my clients...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:51 PM
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All kinds of reviews. Good, bad, I've only seen a few of them. I stay off of there. Dudes tend to complain too much and it's become a very toxic board and taken over and run by LEO I hear
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:08 AM
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Usasg is a hobbyist review board used for sex workers in the US. Something like this already exists. I have some reviews on there myself even.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:30 AM
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Some, maybe, I don't quite know. I'd like to think so somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:17 PM
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Narcissus did fall into the mirror. Be careful. 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:35 AM
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I actually have a stay at home husband and am the one who works full time. It's a dream come true for me. There are plenty of stay at home dads out there and wonderful relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:19 AM
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I wear a suit and tie and slick my hair back at times. It's a nice cover up. 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:43 AM
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I like being in as little clothing as possible and live in a city where that is permitted. It gets over 110° here. It's fucking hot. So yeah. I'm wearing almost nothing as often as possible as long as the weather is above 90°. People can shove it if they take issue with it. It's perfectly okay for me to do and I'm not the only woman who does it for the exact same reason. It's hot and boob sweat is awful. Has nothing to do with anything else besides the sole fact that if men get to be practically…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:19 AM
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Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:19 PM
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A proper Dominant knows that the submissive is actually the one in control. They must willingly "surrender" themselves to you. Their Dominant. Forcing a person into submission is not the answer. A submissive has all of the control. They have the final say. They dictate everything. Control the narrative entirely. Anyone who actually knows how to engage in the kink world knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:15 PM
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Thank you for posting this. I was literally telling someone earlier about how hard it is being me at times. Walking outside and getting preyed on at almost every turn. And that sometimes I wish I was invisible. And have even attempted to unalive myself due to the way I look. It's been a wild ride in this life. That's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:10 PM
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Idk man, I prefer dating men who are okay with me making more money than them and paying for most things. It's honestly better for me overall I've learned. Plus, I like shocking the servers and employees when they realize I'm the one with the money and not him. Also, I have trouble being in a room with guys that are of lower intelligence than myself. It's like talking foreign languages. Being the smartest person in the room gets old at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:07 PM
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It's what Escorts are supposed to be doing. I got into eacorting specifically for this. Thank you. I know it is. I've made a world of a difference in these guy's lives. I'm their life line... It's a tough job. And rewarding ultimately. I wish there were more providers like myself. I only know a couple of others who are companions for similar reasons outside of monetary gain or revenge. Also. Not weird to say. It's normal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:40 PM
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I'm a professional companion for men. To put it shortly. Men hire me for deep emotional connection and fulfilment and also to fulfill their sexual desires and make their fantasies come to life. I'm a full time fantasy provider. While also being a shoulder to cry on for them. I hear their dating and marriage woes. The trauma they've endured. We work through it together. And have amazing experiences. Go to arcades, bar hop, go on boats and swim, travel to some degree together... It's been a whole …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:02 PM
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Average men could love themselves first and then see the difference in how women interact with him. Short Kings are 🔥🔥🌹
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:34 PM
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Instead of agreeing to disagree, holding multiple opinions or viewpoints at the same time, actually properly engaging in the debate(s) in good faith, etc. It's kinda sad now that you mention it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:31 PM
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This sub has done wonders in helping me with my clients and work overall. It's given me great insight to better support the people I work with and give them some answers to some of the questions they have. It'd be weird not having this sub at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:29 PM
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😵‍💫🤯😭🌹👀 Ngl that's hot 🔥 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:19 AM
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Whewww I love to hear that. I'm 31, both of my men are 34. One wants sex once in a blue moon. The other has already fucked me 4 times today. And is going to again here shortly... Once he's done scrolling in the bathroom 😂👏 You're a baddie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:12 AM
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If I didn't have my live-in partner, I'd go insane. My husband and I haven't had sex since Christmas. Being long distance is rough. And, he has an overdramatically low libido as it is. It's the one thing we've had trouble with the most in our 8 years together. He has sexual trauma that he can't really seem to get past. Despite my lover having trauma as well, he went on the flipside. Hypersexual like me. Instead of hyposexual like my husband is. It's...interesting. they're practically polar oppos…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:08 AM
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I don't even know what you're getting at with this... I have like a dozen to two dozen orgasms per day. Almost daily. And get paid for it. I'd call that a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:10 AM
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Uhhh no. Not even close. It feels like respect because I am treated like a person and taken care of. I come first. In every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:02 AM
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Because they value me. They value my time. And they value my pleasure. They aim to please. And very seldom disappoint. Last saturday one of my overnight clients booked us a presidential suite downtown. We bar hopped all night. Ate pizza and fucked like kings. It was awesome. I made my rent and then some. The proof is all over my profile. Feel free to take a gander 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:23 AM
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Go for it. My DMs are always open. Escorts have sex when they want to. Not out of obligation. That's the biggest difference besides being paid for arm candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:59 AM
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I actually encourage women to get into sex work all the time if that's what they want to do. Though, I would appreciate if you could refer to us as sex workers and not prostitutes. Considering that it is a derogatory term that doesn't actually equate to what most sex workers are doing in the first place. Sex work is an umbrella term. It's more appropriate and respectful than reducing all of us to the word prostitute when it doesn't quite fit the narrative. I'm an escort. Not a prostitute. A pros…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:41 AM
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Monetary consent is one way.... For myself, I consent to them and they pay me to be in my space. They're not paying me for sexual services by any means whatsoever. They're paying me to exist in the room with them. I'm an escort though. I don't engage in prostitution per se. At least, by the definition. I am hired for my attention and support. Not my body. Most of my guys take me out places. It's like going on paid dates more often than not. I love it. It's honestly made civilian dating boring an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:26 AM
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As an escort, the hypocrisy is annoying AF. To each their own though. I know why I'm hired and what I'm hired for. And it's very seldom about the sex. Sex is like a secondary component.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:23 AM
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Can't recall which country it is, they are starting to offer paid menstrual leave to their employees 😭 at least there's progress somewhere...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:35 AM
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Preach it, absolutely ridiculous 👏 🙄 last I checked, "love thy neighbor" was in there somewhere. And Jesus hung out with everyone, of all types and backgrounds. He didn't give a fuck. Why do we?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:47 AM
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I forget people have issues with bathrooms. I got used to gender neutral bathrooms and going into wherever, whenever to pee. Who gives a fuck about anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:18 AM
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Honestly, pregnancy is one of the most traumatic experiences a woman can have. It can also be quite beautiful. It depends on the environment among other factors as well. Women have many reasons for enduring childbirth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:39 AM
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Anything above 7 is pointless to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:45 AM
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Sounds reminiscent of the way that men respond when women are in the same kind of position... I work with male victims regularly. The stories they have are like an act of fiction at times. I believe them, I've been through similar shit myself with women. Hence why I opted out on pursuing new partnerships for a while. I'm too busy as it is. He is no less a victim to her than she would be to him if the roles were reversed. Although I think a lot of women would question how he didn't see the signs …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:52 PM
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Okay okay, you have a point with that... Look man, weenie hut ain't such a bad place to start. Don't you start at the bottom to get to the top? I've heard power bottoms are fun 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:40 PM
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The prior comment talking about juniors. I'm over here thinking, well, there's weenie hut junior's and super weenie hut junior's... Perhaps they should start there? Also, adhd is fun. Isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:35 PM
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And now in my head I hear.... "Weenie hut junior's..??" "Not Super weenie hut junior's!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:32 PM
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They tend to suffer, yes. In multitudes of ways. Many of them hire companions like myself though. So, they hire younger women who tend to remind them of a hot woman who rejected them before they met their wife. Or a woman who looks similar to their wife. I see more single men than married men these days thankfully. The main reason married men come to see me though is because their wives don't want to have sex for pleasure. And are too old to procreate. So they have no desire to have sex at all. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:10 PM
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Funny thing is many men resort to hiring sex workers because the transaction is more honest and straightforward for them than dating is. It's always an interesting thing to hear them say. And that its hard to find a provider/companion who actually likes the job and isnt only in it for the money. Makes them feel less cheap and used and also less like a predator. Cuz who wants to force a woman who gets paid? Yet they force civilian women all the time. Make it make sense 😂 Pretty sure trump got his…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:01 PM
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Reminds me of this comedian who has this little short where he talks about how abusive men are every where. They're your friends, your family, people you never would have guessed. It's actually very well worded. There's also a poet who has an incredible poem where he talks about how he will not let his sons play with dolls. Until they learn the difference between a woman and a doll. I linked both for reference. They're pretty brilliant 👏 imo skit barbie
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:44 PM
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Then why don't men want women to consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:23 AM
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I do make it make sense when my clients ask me. It's part of my job. There are too many reasons to name all of the potential ones it could be. All comes down to culture and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:06 PM
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See, that's the thing though... Prey stopped having empathy as socially and publicly as they used to. Think, before the internet, many women were still unaware and isolated just enough to have no idea they were being hurt in the first place. It's just a normal day to day life as a woman. Better the devil you know than the devil you don't. Heard that idk how many times growing up. Always made me wonder. What about the ones I know nothing about? Would they be... better in some way? Easier to manag…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:59 PM
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Are you sapiosexual? I'm sexually attracted to intelligence over everything else. And I mean Einstein, Isaac Newton, Bill Nye level intelligence mixed with Edgar Allen Poe, Robert Frost and William Shakespeare like emotional depth. So hard to find... They don't get the difference. I've tried explaining it to a few of them. It goes right over there heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:45 PM
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You have a point 👉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:27 PM
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A bangmaid relationship dynamic versus the "free use" dynamic I have.... Hmmm.... I would rather continue the dynamic I have now. I have a live-in partner whose job is to cater to my every want, need and desire. And he does a pretty damn good job for the most part. He cooks, cleans, packs my bags for travel, drives me across the country for work, creates content with me and "bangs" me whenever he or I wants. We have sex so many times, we actually keep a counter to keep track of the amount of tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:19 PM
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Honestly I think that's really what they want. They won't say it though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:12 PM
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Funny you mention "wallet ATM". For financial submissives, they're called "cash cows" and "pay pigs" and "the bank" and some other words. As a finsub in training, I find it arousing. Wonder how other fins feel about it. I don't think these dudes want that kind of dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:10 PM
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Technically women never wanted the sex part when you think about traditional relationships and marriages. Sex was and is still considered something "done to women" and not a mutual act between two or more people. When sex becomes more widely known as something women can actually enjoy and not get shamed for or called a whore about it, maybe things will change. And women might want sex more. Marital rape wasn't illegal until roughly 30 years ago in the US for example. Which means wives legally co…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:07 PM
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Sounds like prostitution, does it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:04 PM
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Also, when a victim goes to file a report, they also have to sign a document that states they'll be sent to prison if found to be committing perjury. Which, I get. However, it's the main thing that stopped me with one of many cases I had. And I know plenty of others who decided against pursuing theirs due to the fear of going to jail themselves and them going Scott free anyway. There's no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:34 AM
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That's kind of the point. Seeing as sexual assault is the only crime you have to prove in the US. And the system is designed to protect the abuser/accused. Not the victim. I know this first-hand. I've not only worked for the gov, I've been through the process plenty of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:16 AM
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It's rape by deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:55 AM
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It's considered an act of coercion. And, it's very hard to prove. So most don't even report it. Myself included.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:46 AM
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Better to be honest than to coerce a woman into sex. As someone who has been coerced far too many times to count. I think it helps that lying to get sex is a felony in my state. Once I learned that, it helped to keep up the "no" and walk away. The people who hire me do so because I do this out of my own free will and desire to help and be support for them. Not for the money or to exploit and torment them. It's specifically for therapeutic purposes. 😌 makes all the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:13 AM
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Speaking as a companion.... It's better to be paid for my time than manipulated and lied to. Being on this side of things has changed my worldview and view on men altogether as a whole. I had no idea I would experience better men by switching to this side of life. Guys who pay for my time are more respectful and considerate, they're more trustworthy and tend to be all about me. It's like they truly honor and value me as a person. It's been a real change of pace overall, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:01 AM
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I'm poly and pansexual and prefer to hang around others who are also poly and identify as queer. I prefer pansexual and queer men to hetero men. They're more balanced and in touch with themselves. And treat me better overall. I've heard that some have trouble due to their idea of masculinity. I had a friend who was like that. Wanted a man in touch with himself. Yet she also found them to be repulsive because of her fake idea of what a man really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:18 PM
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That's true as well. Don't chase though. And take no for an answer the first time. Never persist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:35 AM
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The husbands try and attempt and fail, and the wives are pretty much fed up to begin with.And it's ultimately neither one of their faults.It's honestly society and purity, culture and patriarchy, and a metric of other things that are complicating the relationship and therefore causing them to have this massive rift and disconnect between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:34 AM
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They're part of the problem and work for solutions and are shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:08 AM
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I agree with you. That's my plan. By land and hide with my kids and polycule ASAP
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:44 AM
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Maybe the demographic of women that you're speaking about, but like that, and i'm sorry for you... I uh, I i think women overall just want men to have more balanced selves.. dbt is a good way to do that. And fighting the internalized misogyny/misandry. On the flipside. Men tend to use women as emotional containers. They put immense amounts of pressure on the women they're with to be their sole emotional outlet. That is where many draw the line. Generally women have several outlets for emotional …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:15 AM
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You sound like one of my clients... You're a gem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:49 AM
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I don't care how his wife looked at my age. I don't care about any of that. I care that he was inadvertently insulting his wife to compliment me. Therefore trying to force me to engage in competition with his wife. Which disgusts me. I cut clients off for that. I would rather their wives know about me than have them say "You're a hotter younger version of my wife" Yeah. How do you think she would feel if she knew you were telling an escort that online? I don't like that shit. It grosses me out. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:18 PM
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I opted out ages ago. I don't have many lady friends. I get along better with men than women. I have more interaction with men than women. I find it hard to relate to some women. And yet relate very well with others. I don't have an easy time making friends with women though. Perhaps I am lucky to not be younger Gen. Would've been cool to be Gen x maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:14 PM
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That's fair. People have a tendency to shut down and avoid. Wording is crucial. I have trouble with one of my partners with his wording. His vocabulary is growing and he's learning how to identify his emotions and make sense of his PTSD. It's been a process. Dismissive avoidant types would hide. You're right. Thank you for chiming in
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:09 PM
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Thank you, I appreciate that. I was thinking more of a "well. Now that you mention it, there is something." It is a yes or no question. Though I would like to think it would encourage more open conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:05 PM
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Emotional vulnerability is not weakness, it is proof of strength. Especially when you can hold your emotions well and wise. I have a thing for men who engage in "wise-mind" or are entering their redemption arch. It's hot to me. I'm poly, maybe that's part of it. You learn a lot being poly. It's a real good way to learn how to process emotions better. Makes all the difference. I dont quite know women like that. At least, not these days. It's sad if thats the case. I would like to think women unan…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:04 PM
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I wanted to adopt. My children were not given to me by choice. It would have been nice to at least have some say in who their fathers were. I didn't want to add more children to the world. When there are plenty lacking support and love and care. When it comes to others. I'd imagine they want the ability to decide for themselves. Not be told what they should do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:26 PM
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Ever heard the saying "The more you chase, the further you push away"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:25 PM
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To fuck mostly. And troll men. Which i still do actively outside of the apps. And my clients tend to help me do that at times too. They get a kick out of it with me. I stopped having casual sex. And became a professional companion. The sex I have now makes the sex I had pre 2022 look like a long nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:05 PM
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That was ages ago when I was. I stopped using dating apps years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:00 PM
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As a hypersexual person as well, I stopped using the apps a long time ago besides to troll desperate dudes... I would imagine its worse for them in a way ...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:56 PM
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It's so fucked up. Swiping on every single profile. Definition of insanity right there. Desperation can be sensed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:55 PM
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Don't forget to mention really dehumanizing and tends to make your skin crawl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:53 PM
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"Hey babe! Here's my 🍆🍆 unsolicited! What do you think? Omg dont you wanna suck it so bad?" "Why arent you fucking me already bitch? I said I was DTF like 3 days ago. Ive been in your DMs six times this month. What gives???" 100% of them would make you never wanna talk to people again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:52 PM
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"Hey, I appreciate the will to communicate with me about going on a trip with Michael next month. Is there anything you'd like to talk about before you go? Or are there any concerns you think I should have or that we need to address beforehand?" <--- personally I would prefer something like this. Open ended questions are usually a good way to go with things like what you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:33 PM
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I thought women were the ones who nag and complain? My have the tables turned here... /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:30 PM
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They could actually listen to our perspectives and pay more attention to what we are saying to them. Instead of call it false or something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:27 PM
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I'm right there with you, it's confusing as all hell to me. How is it they don't even wanna pay for a dinner date at a chilis or Applebee's yet women are supposed to swoon and blindly submit? Submit to what? Foolishness? And being led astray? They have no idea what life was like 75 years ago. They had to pay for everything. Had to build their own houses for fucks sake. They could also AFFORD a family of 8 on his salary alone. Times have changed. Drastically. And they need to evolve and get with …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:13 PM
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Same here. I've told my husband and live-in partner they're it for me. If we don't work out, I am done dating altogether. I'll stick to work and hiring companions instead. It's not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:03 PM
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You could be right. I can't say I pay attention to that kinda stuff. I live in a really diverse city. So I forget others aren't like it. Like I'm used to gender neutral bathrooms and seeing tourists freak out by that is hilarious to me. And a wake up call that people still get weird about that. When it's normal for me and has been most of my life. Conservatism makes no sense to me. It's like a foreign language.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:59 PM
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Hopefully the third is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:57 PM
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😭😭😭 that is so amazing. I am so happy for you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:25 PM
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You're telling me... I told him I found it to be an insult. Not a compliment. And that I feel sorry for his wife now. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:58 PM
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Young women are listening to their mothers, aunts and grandmas who are telling them to focus on themselves first and that men will always be there. They can wait. She has plenty of time to pursue her own ideas and desires first. She can date later. It's wise advice. It's the advice I was given once. Focus inward. Then focus outward.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:58 PM
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Hey now! Millennials are pretty awesome 😍 Gen Z scares me. And I get along better with gen X and Y. I think you're onto something 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:17 PM
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Yassss Queen! It's so sexy!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:16 PM
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A potential client got removed from my roster the other day for saying I look like his wife only 20 years younger! Omg yay. You shamed your wife for me... Go fuck yourself dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:15 PM
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Last I checked it's a symptom of patriarchy. Which has been around for thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:14 PM
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Yeesh. When a man cries I'm wrapping my arms around him and wiping his tears and telling him to let it all out. That's a huge turn on for me. Men expressing their emotions in a healthy way is foreplay to me. I'm so sorry if this is what you've experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:13 PM
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Women are very different from each other. What works for one woman will make the next one's skin crawl. It's borderline impossible to assume that women give "mixed signals" Some women are direct. Some women are subtle. Some use crude humor or dry humor. Others are flat in tone and distinguished. Every single woman is different. So they are going to do, want, say different things. Every woman is like a new flower in the garden. Inspect her with curiosity and awe and wonder. And watch what happens…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:11 PM
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I love your posts every time. Preach it!!! As someone with an absurdly high sex drive... I am very selective about who I allow to have access to me. I have to be. I get so much attention I don't know what to do with it half the time. Finding good/great sex was like finding a needle in a haystack for me until about a year ago. The sex started getting better and better and better. Why? Because I became ultimately more selective and also I charge for my time as a whole now. Not a single dude gets f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:01 PM
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I read things like this and it makes me really wonder how I wound up a woman this time around. I mean, sex isn't the end all be all, however, I would never be in a deadbedroom relationship. Soul intertwining is really important to me. This hurt my eyes to even read.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:55 PM
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What is your definition of a "high status man"? Mine is vastly different. A high status man to me is a man who fully embodies all parts of himself. And owns his truth and is a fully authentic being with high intelligence. I don't care what's in his wallet, I have my own. I don't care about looks. I'm here for depth. Not skin level deep. I want the depths and deepest darkest parts of him to be fully exposed into the light for me to love all of him and invoke in him fully, truly and valiantly. I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:53 PM
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There are plenty of women who would enjoy that with your size. I'm one of them. They exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:45 PM
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Ya don't say... I would bet he is on his 10th one by now. This was a decade ago, last I heard about the dude anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:48 PM
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One man's trash is another man's treasure.... Or so they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:40 PM
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I don't know man.I know people that have been married like 4 to 6 times. I once had a boyfriend whose boss had married his sixth stripper from the exact same fucking strip club. Six. Strippers. In a decade, and he had kids with all six of them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:18 PM
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Marriages are not a one lifetime event. They are a lifetime event themselves... ask married people. You have a ceremony once, sure. You are married for life. Unless you divorce and remarry. People renew their nuptials too ya know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:11 PM
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Fair enough. How isolating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:53 PM
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Why does this make sense? 😵‍💫🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:38 PM
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Choosing men is the bad decision. I would say all women or most women have made the mistake of choosing a bad relationship unbeknownst to them until much later.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:57 AM
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I am, gladly and happily living my life. The best I can. It's pretty awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:56 AM
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I am actually writing a book based on my sexual expereinces as an escort. I plan on using them as a form of dating catalog for women eventually. Maybe if they read enough stories about this particular guy, she might be interested in him enough to ask me for his number at a book signing. I'm a dreamer. And that's one of my fantasies at this point. Making real life smut for women and helping them find better men to be with and play with. It's gonna be a whole thing. I'm honestly really really exci…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:55 AM
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Eve is considered a "pick me, Madonna type". And Lilith is considered the "rebellious whore type". I would say this tracks and corellates to today's world as well. There are women who blindly submit and want to submit to men. And there are women who hold their truths and know they are not to submit to anyone outside of themselves. You can see it. The difference between a woman who desperately seeks the attention of a man and values herself based off of his value of her. And a woman who knows her…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:24 AM
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Bad boy, big dick energy. Knows himself, knows what he wants, isn't afraid to get it. You know he's considered the "ultimate bad boy" because he rebelled against his creator so he could fully embody himself and not obey her. Women love Lucifer because he would rather be true to himself than live a lie. He would rather a woman willingly give herself to him than do so out of force. He believes in the power of free will and sovereignty. You get that, right? He is a sovereign being. Which is the mai…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:10 AM
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Lucifer actually stood for himself and his people and believed to be equal to his creator and therefore did not want to blindly "obey" his creator. Same as how Lilith did not want to blindly "obey" Adam. Lucifer gave the fruit of truth to humanity so that they too could learn that they are equal to god and therefore do not need to blindly obey god and follow in bad faith. God is within them. Even Yeshua quoted that. Lucifer and Lilith stood for the same principles in different ways. Orginially c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:43 AM
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By free will. Not by force. She chose to serve him. They chose each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:04 AM
6

Yes. It very much is. How you act, react, so much more. Some are more equipped than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:26 PM
6

Bitter due to bad experiences with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:24 PM
5

The 4b sub is a whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:24 PM
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Remember that Lilith came before Eve. And left him because she refused to submit to him. So Eve was created to submit. And then ate the apple. And realized she was not meant to submit to Adam. Forbidden fruit of truth. She ate the fruit and the truth set her free.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:34 PM
2

I prefer nerdy guys. Because I too am a nerd. Likes attract like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:27 PM
2

It's harder to make friends, you never know whether they want to actually genuinely be your friend or they're only around because they want something from you. It's fucking isolating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:49 PM
22

A point that women have a right to be enraged by the behaviors of men? Yeah. That's a good point to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:55 PM
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As is their right. They have every right to be angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:43 PM
30

Women going 4b is not because they're "selfish"... Unless you count wanting to stay alive and free from harm as something that is inherently "selfish" of women to expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:35 PM
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Business as usual, sounds about right. What else could it possibly be??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:34 PM
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It is a lot to unpack. Primarily childhood trauma related and relational trauma. All has to do with discovering new, safer ways to engage in sexual intimacy. Free from shame, judgment, scrutiny, etc. They are free to be their fully authentic selves in our shared safe space. We work through their deepest, darkest pieces... It's a big job. A lot of responsibility. I have come to find i am many of their last lines... I'm all they have. It reminds me of when I worked behavioral health for a health i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:25 PM
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There's a huge difference between a man about her pleasure and a man about his own over hers. They don't know how to properly discern the difference between them. And do have a tendency to ignore, avoid and write off the genuine guys. That's okay, more of them for me to appreciate and fuck 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:21 PM
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"Erica don't you know better by now? Submit to your man already you dumb slut! How dare you try and tell him who he can and can't fuck if you aren't gonna fuck him when he wants you to? You're his property! You're not allowed to say no to sex. You don't have a choice, remember? You wanted this." To think. Marital rape has only been illegal for 33 years in america... I'm 31...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:20 PM
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You're right. And I aim to be one of the people who works to change this one day. One day... I hate it for you guys. It makes me sick. Part of why I quit working for the government...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:00 PM
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The reason a man loses sexual interest in his wife is due to her becoming a mother... Did this happen to you or something? Both of my husbands have no problems having sex with me and don't have affairs. They're able to date others if they so choose. And prefer to stay monogamous to me. We're polyamorous though. And have a kitchen table polycule that consists of about 6 people technically.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:51 PM
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No, the madonna doesn't become a Madonna until after she becomes a mother herself. Better to be a whore than a Madonna. My great grandma was the perfect example of a Madonna. Had 9 children to a man who cared more about golf than anything else in his life. I can only imagine how many affairs he had...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:47 PM
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Dude... Let me introduce you to my single clients who only want one woman to have and commit themselves to. Who wish they could find women who want them back in the same ways. And instead keep attracting women who don't want sex at all thanks to social stigmas around sex and women's sexuality. I have a married client who absolutely loves and adores his wife. And they've been married over 20 years. Never had children. And she has little to no interest in sex because she is catholic. He asked her …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:26 PM
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This is false. There are many who do not experience this and are often confused by it. I work with them regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:17 PM
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Sex coaches, sex therapy, sexual reprocessing therapy. There are a few ways. It's part of what I'm hired for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:46 PM
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It's a big part of what we are fighting for, yes. No idea what that is. Men are definitely victims. More so victims to other men than women. However, women use the systems in place to their advantage often. Because they know they can. I have two amazing male best friends who are in jail right now for separate reasons. One was falsely accused of trafficking a minor. The other was put in jail for DV for protecting his toddler from the mother. While she beat him with the baby in his arms. It absolu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:24 PM
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Anytime
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:22 PM
1

That's one way to put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:21 PM
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The feminists I know and have the pleasure of protesting with are actually fighting for more shelters to be built and more services for men. Especially veterans. Also. Who gives a fuck how they would feel about it. It's fucking necessary. Men are more susceptible for abuse than women are in a lot of ways I've come to find. Many men don't even know they're being abused. Same as many women. Yet the rate among men is higher because they weren't taught the language in the same way women were.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:13 PM
1

Yep! Bingo! There's the winner right there. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:10 PM
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Usually they're married...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:03 PM
2

Cognitive dissonance places such a huge factor here. You absolutely can shame someone. People do it all the time. The closeted ones shame the ones who are out of the closet regularly. They're so deeply ashamed of themselves, they project that shame onto others. It's absurd. Reject their shame and let them figure it out on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:00 PM
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"What? You didn't like us passing you around when you blacked out at the party last week? Shouldn't have had so much to drink and left one open for us to spike... Your fault." <--- the fact that this happens to teenagers is what gets me most. I wonder how they would react to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:52 PM
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Ehhhh I would say this is rather rare. In general, with the conditioning women face, they're not sexual with their husbands because they're conditioned not to be. Their sexuality is not their own. It is his. And therefore it's his job and responsibility to initiate sex and make sure he fills his cup for himself. It's interesting considering women are actually the ones with higher libidos and drives than men. And yet we are conditioned to believe the opposite to be true. Which means we have a ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:46 PM
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Right, it's disheartening.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:43 AM
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The Madonna-Whore complex is about married men who have trouble viewing their wives in a sexual sense. Usually after she's had a child and become a mother. The husband has trouble distinguishing the difference between his wife as a sexual partner and his wife in a "mother" role. So now his mentality is no longer finding his wife sexually attractive and appealing because he is conflating her with how he would see his own mother. Which tends to repulse him. So he tries to mitigate this by finding …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:31 AM
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Rape does mean to penetrate, technically. Though, they have since broadened the term to include other forms of sexual abuse and assault. It's sad that this is considered "normal"...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:09 AM
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Learning recently that there is only one male DV shelter in my state to the dozens for women and children was rather dumbfounding. The few services out there for men are nowhere near where we need them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:01 AM
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Dismantle the system and start over. That's the only way at this point. Which means radical change in how we do everything and operate everything. It would be a massive change and time in our evolution as a species. People need to learn what enthusiastic consent is. And that consent can be revoked at any time. Before, during and after. Even if years have passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:56 AM
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Some of the bars in my ciry carry drug test strips so people can test their drinks. The bar i go to, i was roofied at and raped in the bathroom. This happens so frequently in my city, the police are understaffed by over 400 officers. And rape kits are now done at a separate facility. They're no longer performed at hospitals. You have to call and schedule an appointment for your rape kit. Some drugs are no longer detectable by the time they perform the kit. There are organizations that offer at h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:55 AM
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It's the only crime you have to prove happened... The system is designed exactly as it was meant to be and works exactly the way it is supposed to. It protects abusers and people in power. Not the victims. Anyone who has been through the system knows this in some way. Everyone has the right to their own bodies and the right to consent or revoke consent. Unfortunately this is a topic many aren't willing to really talk about openly enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:48 AM
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You seem bitter. You must be single. I can't possibly imagine why....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:51 PM
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She didn't have a choice. Women can choose not to have children now. And that's a good thing. Because working in a male-dominated field as a woman gets you hurt. They have to work twice as hard and have a high chance of being sexually assaulted or blackmailed by their superiors. So they opt out. When there is a 99% chance of being raped... You stay away. Unless you think you can handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:50 PM
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Yeah, pretty much exactly that. Gotta say though, being more selective about the men you have sex with gives you a higher chance of orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:37 PM
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Incels don't have sex. Wish dudes would learn it's the inside that's more important than the outside. As within, so without. Aa above, so below. The outside world is a reflection of the inside world in you. If more men grasped this, they'd be one with themselves. And become more attractive overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:50 PM
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How is women lowering their standards even more so than they already are a solution for men to gain access to sex that is pointless to have? This doesn't make sense to me. Women want men to give a fuck about them. Not be used like living sex toys. It's dehumanizing and horrific to experience. You're not giving any solutions whatsoever that show it would be worth it for women. Can you elaborate on how women allowing any Tom, Dick and Harry through is a good thing??? Because in my experience, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:33 PM
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Yes. Which is the majority of dudes who engage in casual sex. They don't think it's their responsibility for women to enjoy themselves during sex. Literally, the majority of dudes who have casual sex are terrible in bed. And they fuck like rabbits. Which means they don't last for shit. And they don't give a fuck to learn anything. All they wanna do is enact something they watched in porn and then realize it was a waste of time. Or they can't even perform in the first place due to ED, drugs or so…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:23 PM
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Dudes in touch with their feminine sides are sexy as fuck to a lot of women. A man with healthy emotional awareness, regulation and social skills is a man worthwhile. Yin/Yang, etc. All humans carry both masculine and feminine energies. Not life's fault there are gender norms and societal expectations that are unrealistic and go against human nature. It's the system's fault. And those who put it in place. And it's men's responsibility to challenge this. The rest of these dudes... Questionable at…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:18 PM
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Do what you want. Pretty much all of the world's crime is committed by dudes. When that stops, I'd get what you're saying more. Once dudes stop being violent towards people as a whole, the world will slowly know peace. If dudes treated people like people and not objects for their entertainment, violence and use, then we may start getting somewhere. And women would "open their legs" more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:13 PM
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Do you know how the dudes are when they have casual sex??? They literally stick it in you and pump three times, maybe five times at max, cum and then go "that was amazing babe" For who????
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:33 PM
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Women decentering men and valuing and loving themselves is not misandry. It's actually loving all of yourself fully and unapologetically. Men should be happy with that. That means women are living their truths. Men need to do the same. Go inward. Love yourself first. Stop spreading so much hate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:50 PM
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Can you build a house? Do you have carpentry, plumbing, electrician, hvac, insulation, roofing, painting, laying the foundation... Etc etc, the list goes on here, dude...Are you skilled in these trades? Because back then, these guys were taught and raised to do these things. Would you be able to build a house on your current salary? Back then, they could and then some. Here's the thing, both of my men (my husband and partner) are skilled in all of these and able to build me a house quite easily …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:01 PM
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Actually, the internet was discovered by a woman, as were most household appliances. Windshield wipers were invented by women. Turn signals as well. Also, beer was made by women originally. As were so many other things. History lies. You realize women can do the majority of these things on their own and were forced not to for thousands of years? Finally gaining some semblance of freedom in the last 50 years. I'll be buying my own land and building my own house here soon. That's what I'm working …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:46 PM
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They don't grasp the fact that women's bodies need to be able to fully relax and also need a sense of deep emotional safety overall. If we don't feel safe, our bodies won't open up and the defenses are up so high, we are unable to climax almost entirely. Which is normal and understandable. When women need to essentially be treated like a 1960's mustang with an original v8 with a carburetor. If you know what I mean. Sometimes you'd have to play with the carb a bit to get the engine to cooperate a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:22 PM
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My house was built during WWII, it's over 80 years old. Also, the only reason you guys say men built everything and are responsible for everything is because men have been forced to, and also, men are considered more physically agile. And wombs are more important to protect overall than testes are. Its been that way for centuries. I wish men still built temples to worship women in. That would be lovely to experience again. Men actually being real men. Instead of this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:15 PM
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Ehhhh, that's about the average statistic amount. And reasonable enough for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:13 PM
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4B started in 2018 in south Korea. The women were tired of being raped, tortured and abused by men in general. So they started the movement. It gained global traction about 4 years ago, and became even bigger in the last 2 years. It's fascinating. Mgtow started much earlier, sure, however, it's taken a turn for the worst. Like most male oriented spaces tend to. Become overencompassed with toxicity. Men really do need to center themselves more though. It would seriously do them some good overall …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:13 PM
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I've had sex with more than 1,500 men dude. That means I've been SA'd several hundred times over the span of a decade. I was even trafficked by a guy i thought was a friend. Had me so brainwashed it took me years to fully comprehend what he was doing to me. So many things I could say. Though, it tends to fall on deaf ears unless they're genuine and caring and believe women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:08 AM
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I've been sexually assaulted by more than 50% of the people I've been naked with. I've almost met death's door by several men's hands. I'd rather be mauled by a fucking bear than ever experience that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:57 AM
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Good, that means you're okay and on board with women avoiding men like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:20 AM
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Considering how men in general are and tend to be. It is highly likely the bears would still be safer or easier to manage than men. Bears are more predictable than men tend to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:20 AM
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Yes, to decenter men entirely. That doesn't mean you stop interacting with men. Unless you're a woman lucky enough to find a woman only living space. There are a handful of women only communes and such. Not enough though. Not putting up with their behavior and refusing to tolerate it. It's a huge step in the right direction for humankind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:06 AM
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Men with more experience in pleasuring women turn into pleasure Doms eventually and are generally pretty good with their sexual partners. If a man wants a woman to enjoy sex, he needs to remember foreplay starts outside of the bedroom first.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:05 AM
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That's an absolute and I don't quite see the point in this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:04 AM
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I'll check it out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:37 PM
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What's that? I was born in 95.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:34 PM
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I always find this one interesting. I've never had a problem pleasuring a woman, externally and internally. Then again, I know how women work and how to actually get them to climax. Especially in ways they've never expected. It's quite the adrenaline rush to learn a woman's body. Once her body fully relaxes and surrenders to you... What a world of a difference it makes. Treat her like a Goddess and watch the way she reciprocates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:54 PM
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In my experience with casual sex... Of the 500 plus guys I had casual sex with... Only about 10 of them are memorable or were even worth a second of my time. Idk how many dudes I left or forced out of my house after they finished and I was left infuriated and used. They'd be like "you don't wanna cuddle?" No, I don't want to cuddle you. I want a fucking orgasm and pleasure. Casual sex is useless and pointless to me. Given my experience. I have more fun as a companion. Even the inexperienced guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:50 PM
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I'm saying 4B is growing by the day. And honestly. It's a good thing. Women decentering men for the first time in history. Gaining more access to themselves, reclaiming their sovereignty and truth. That's a gift to humankind right there. Now, if only men would do the same... Go inward, heal yourself, learn to love and value yourself. And watch the world around you change.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:38 PM
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I'm married and poly. I have 3 partners including my husband. I'm all-one, yes. Of course. I am fully myself and fully authentic with myself. And genuinely love, value and hold myself to a high regard and set of standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:26 PM
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Women treat me like a sex object more than men do. And I have more dating and sexual experience with men overall. I hate it. I genuinely hate being treated like a sex toy by my own gender. It feels like the ultimate betrayal and portrayal of misogyny and misandry to me. Technically, I identify as Non-Binary or a Two-Spirit person (native american blood). Women take advantage of me more than men do. Women have sexually abused me almost to the same level men have. They're awful to date, I have tro…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:25 PM
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Huh? I mean, whatever they decide to do is whatever they decide to do. I'll say I'm happy in my marriage and polycule overall. Has it's moments as does every relationship out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:20 PM
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Not at all. It's a matter of fact statement here from what I can see. It's simple, stay single, stay alone. Don't date. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:16 PM
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I mean, yeah, the bear is likely to walk away or maul you. Where a man is likely to do unspeakable, heinous things to you. I'd personally rather be mauled by a bear than ever be raped again or tortured by a man. I digress though, maybe one day it'll be safer to be around men than bears.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:13 PM
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Many of us are perfectly okay with that. 4B movement grows daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:12 PM
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I would say people have many loves of their lives. Most fixate on only one though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:45 PM
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When I dated women, some were by pressure (dudes would be like come on man, go out with her, you never know..) Yeah. Well, they were abusive and draining for me. I stopped dating women and men. I have 3 partners as it is and they're enough for me right now. Plus. I hire companions when I really want a woman's company. Usually I focus completely on her though. I don't do well with women reciprocating on me thanks to trauma with women. Men on the other hand... My standards are hardly met by them, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:28 PM
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There's a time for everything, they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:17 PM
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This right here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:31 AM
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They speak for the whole world! Dontchya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:39 PM
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This was a fun read... If this is how they think, we are doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:38 PM
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Bruhhhh, halo 4 SWAT, my sniper score was massive back then, whew!!! I'm better at FPS and RPGs than I am at dating women. Women torment and take advantage of me and treat me like a man. It's awful. It makes me feel for what men have to go through. At least, the ones who date women similar to the ones I've had the unfortunate experience of knowing... I started hiring companions. Much more wholesome and direct. Less restrictive and suffocating all around. Definitely not easier to date women as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:45 PM
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Preying on vulnerable women who are seeking saviors. Captain save a hoe much?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:38 PM
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Casual sex was detrimental to my health, well-being, sexual health. My esteem, everything. It was horrible for me. I had casual sex with more than 500 or so dudes in one year during 2020 and it was the worst decision I ever made in my life and yet i couldn't stop due to the compulsive behavior... I have compulsive sexual behavior disorder. And engaged in all kinds of risky sex for years. Until I learned casual sex was making things worse for me and not better. I was like an addict looking for my…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:24 PM
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I'm demiromantic, sapiosexual and pansexual myself. I'm primarily sexually attracted to intellect. Both types of intellectual development are sexiest to me personally. A man with a high IQ and a high EQ is literally my end-all-be-all perfect man. 👌 I don't give a fuck about looks. I give a fuck about how well he can mentally and emotionally stimulate my brains (the mind brain and the heart brain both) 🧠 before we have sex. Now, I can easily have disconnected, emotionless, physically oriented sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:14 PM
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Wish I could give this 5 stars 🌟 on yelp. They don't want a paridership, they want an ownership. Marriage was a system designed to imprison women to men and give poor men access to slaves and free labor from women. Among many other things. Marriage is an institution designed and developed to control the populace, especially those who are more compliant than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:06 PM
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Idk man, I've smashed for the fuck of it many times. They're lucky if I remember their names. Well, back then anyway. 🤣 I'm sure I'm not the only one who has randomly smashed for no apparent reason besides why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:07 AM
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I can imagine how it is for you guys... and Carrot top is not aging fast enough...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:35 PM
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Generally yes. Mainly on weekends and early during the day it seems. I need to get my paddleboard out.. I've never been. Almost had a work session out there but I made him come to me instead. He said there were too many people twice our age anyway and it was kind of awkward for him being the only 30 something there. One of these days I will go. Are you in the area? Or just know the city?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:23 PM
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When humanity becomes indifferent to itself, we have a problem. And we have...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:19 PM
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Ooooh. I have some tattoo butter for that... I cannot remember the name off the top of my head. Making me wanna take a dip at barton and see if there would be any other topless ladies out there so I'm not singled out 😂😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:15 PM
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That is unfortunate. We have a nude beach here called Hippie Hollow. I've never been. Apparently it's mainly filled with old dudes these days. And the occasional swingers parties...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:10 PM
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I'm open, and that reminds me of a dance studio in austin with that name. Never been though. I don't use sunscreen or anything like that. I read recently that it actually causes more harm than good. I tan very nicely thankfully
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:10 PM
1

I've gotten caught out in the wild by clients before and we've had random sessions and they've taken pictures of me out and about in basically nothing. It's fun as fuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:59 PM
4

What a series of unfortunate events we have here...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:22 PM
1

To each their own, spending money on women is my favorite thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:45 PM
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I am thriving, actually, thank you. This was 3 years ago. I still go to the bar and have better protections now. I'm practically untouchable these days. And even then, no man will ever stop me from living my life freely as I have every right to do so. Thank you for your kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:44 PM
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Most of the women I know get paid for this kind of thing... There are plenty of women out there who make a really good living out of exactly this. I'm more of an in person gal myself. I'd rather enact and talk, not only talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:35 PM
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I was one of the women who was roofied. At a gay bar no less. I still go to Barbarella though. Can't stop me from enjoying Jimmy night or Y2K! I stopped drinking unless I'm with clients or someone I can trust to watch my cups though. The bar manager is also a client of mine and I have other connections as well. I'll still happily walk around topless and practically naked and still go to the bars anyway. They can't stop me. I've been sexually assaulted several times downtown. It doesn't stop me. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:00 PM
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Of course, whatever brings in the most profit. Onlyfans brought in more than $2 billion in the US alone last year. Married men being the most to subscribe to content creators. A tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:25 PM
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"Sex sells" does that ring a bell to anyone? The media has pushed sexually obsessive objectives for decades. Finally watched Idiocracy the other day and my god is it like looking into a mirror of our future as a society... it's so sad. The media wants everyone (especially men) focused on sex to the point where they're too blind, deaf, dumb and horny to notice what they're doing behind closed doors and behind the scenes. It's a trick. Manipulate the masses so they don't take back control of the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:11 PM
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Idk man, I enjoy walking around my home town topless and free in the summers when it's hot. I hate modest clothing, and I think it's ridiculous that society and the media sexualize a body part that only has one purpose and that's to feed human babies. As a hypersexualized person, me not wearing clothes is like a statement for me. Walking around the metropolitan area in a thong bikini and nothing else is refreshing and freeing. I like my liberation and will continue to enjoy it as long as I can. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:02 PM
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I've never met more of a victim than I have met in a man. I've met some absolutely abhorrent people in my day... And nothing will ever compare to the victim show men tend to put on. In my experience anyway. I think it's beneath most people to live in a state of victimhood. Moving from victim to survivor to thriver is a great decision to make. And a very hard one at that. Making it to thriver is not easy work when you live in a world of perpetual victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:49 PM
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Men being vulnerable is more of a turn on to me than anything else. Their emotional vulnerability and availability is my currency for them in reality. The more emotionally aware they are, they sexier they become to me. It's like being a body builder of emotions instead of muscle. The more of their heart they show me, the more of a slut I become.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:50 PM
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You have a point... If only their priorities were right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:47 PM
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They should go into r/deadbedroom and see what that's like...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:48 PM
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My great grandma is 96 now. She was the traditional wife. She married at 17. Had 9 children, 8 survived, 5 alive now. She never did drugs. Never cheated. None of that. She did work several jobs over the span of their 60+ years together before my grandpa died at 80. My grandma still moves around and doesn't skip a beat. She is still in care taker mode... I live my life in spite. And I have never in my life seen a more incredible and beautiful, all around loving woman than my grandma. She is an in…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:54 AM
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Okay, thank you, that's what I had thought as well...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:20 PM
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Women are actually starting to ask if male escorts are a thing. And I will comment with a link for them to find male escorts. Times are changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:10 PM
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The way of what? And what sisters? I hated 2020. Why would I teach women to have the worst sex in their lives? Unless you're meaning for me to teach them how to have better sex? Which would be me encouraging them to get into SW because that's what I had to do to have better sex and more enlightening experiences overall. Casual sex is the worst thing a woman can do for her pleasure. Me becoming a companion is the best thing I ever did for my own pleasure. I have guys worship me almost daily now a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:05 PM
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Why are you trying to gas light me? I had sex with more than 800 men in 2020 primarily out of boredom. Among several other reasons I won't share here. Most of those guys weren't even attractive or good in bed. And more than 80% of them came almost as soon as they got naked. Honestly I think most of them had never had sex before or seen a woman naked in person. Seriously. Don't try to gas light me into thinking I would've done anything besides use them for sex. And it wasn't even worth it. I only…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:55 PM
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Cluster B personality types come to mind here. This goes to show how important emotional language really is. And self awareness. Which it seems most people lack.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:52 PM
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Please don't make me vomit profusely. I have two incredible men in my life to call my life partners. I genuinely don't need more men like that. And, I would probably never consider dating the men I had sex with in 2020. Or before 2024 for that matter. The men I work with are not men I would date if I weren't already married. Even though they're amazing and we would probably have a good relationship, I would rather stay single if my men and I were to separate. Which would mean I would focus on my…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:48 PM
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Ahhhhh okay okay I see, so because women as a whole are choosing not to center men for the first time in recorded history.... they're throwing a giant child sized fit about it. They really need to touch grass and go inward... if they put half as much effort into themselves as they do this, they would get what they want a lot easier. Don't ya think?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:45 PM
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A friend of mine said we should start saying humanism and be humanists. I think he is onto something with that... Again. Thank you for this. I don't have much to say here. Then again, I'm not normally awake this early... I think there's more that needs to be said on all of this. In varying ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:21 PM
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That's unfortunate then, because I believe differently than them. And I have considered myself a radical feminist for a long time. Due to my desire to dismantle the current systems in place and create a new system that works for everyone and creates a potential for a utopian society. Also, believe everyone, not only women. So much has changed it seems... Duty sex sucks, as someone who has been there and experienced that. Misandry is real and men are more misandrist than women and we don't talk a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:48 AM
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Prostitution? No such thing here, honey. I'm not a body in a bed and neither is he. I'm a companion and an experience most never forget. My partner and I have a glorious time together making content though, so if you wanna consider that prostitution, be my guest I suppose. Sex work is work as any other job out there. It's glorious 🙌 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:43 AM
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Why do you guys see feminists as monsters? I thought the literal definition of feminism was for equality. When did this change?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:13 AM
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How can he be so sure that the hypothetical woman he meets is actually genuinely interested in him and not manipulating him?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:32 PM
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Cool, as far as I was aware.... Yes, you can absolutely agree in a debate. In fact, conceding minor points, acknowledging common ground, or mutually "agreeing to disagree" on complex topics are vital parts of respectful, productive discourse. This is what I am used to, and what I learned in school. My have times changed...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:01 PM
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Can you define circlejerking to me in an online sense? Because the only version of that I know of is a group of men in a circle jerking each other off.... What am I missing here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:56 PM
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Thank you! I'll take it. I'm 31, I've had my fair share of crazy relationships and also mind blowing experiences that sound like fiction. It's been a wild ride. And I gotta say. I love the riptide... I'm guessing you're a chill dude who doesn't get the younger ones about as much as I don't... Hard to have a conversation with the 20s a lot of the time. It's like they're living on a different planet entirely than millennials and older...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:57 PM
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Yes! That is so right, we really do. And thank you so much for being here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:27 PM
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Dude! That's awesome! I love that for you! Kinky sex is 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:26 PM
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Dude, those were the days I hear. I was born in 1995. They say that was a prime time for us. Right? I love how women are these days. And how explorative they've become. I don't see my provider for a few weeks though. I hope she's in for it, I may need to book two hours instead of one after our dinner date... Fuck. Women don't drop their pants like they used to that's for sure 🤣😭🌹
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:04 PM
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It's been biologically proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:58 PM
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Considering i'm also guilty of this, Yeah, i'm actually outing myself too here. We have all lied to get sex or have sex or have a relationship at some point. Honesty and transparency are the best policy though. And you guys gotta think, dudes forget i can say no to them by law.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:57 PM
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Idk cuz a cat call and a compliment from a man tend to be identical. Actual compliments from men are more wholesome and less disconcerting imo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:23 PM
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Compliment the accessories. Never the body. See the difference it makes dudes. "Oh my, I really love what you did with your hair and the way it accents your aesthetic overall, nice touch!" Or even a "Nice outfit!" Would suffice. Anything that compliments the body directly is a huge no-no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:22 PM
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I was a stay at home parent once and it didn't work so well for me. Though, my ex was an abusive drunk, he came home drunk, put the unlocked pew pew on the counter and drank a 44 ounce of Dr pepper with whiskey in it. Imagine what it was like grabbing a pew pew and whiskey from a toddler every day... Terrifying. So glad he is dead now. So glad this was a decade ago now... I currently have my husband as a stay at home dad. I'm the primary earner of our family. My husband has a part time job, care…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:18 PM
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Most have lied to get sex at some point. Which actually makes them sexual predators. Yet nobody wants to admit that. Because they would have to admit they have done it themselves as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:06 PM
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This! When behaving with emotions instead of logic, they're behaving completely irrationally. Yet, pointing that out makes them even more irrational it seems. They really do make most of their decisions emotionally and not rationally or logically and it seems they're oblivious to this truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:04 PM
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It's called DARVO. That's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:01 PM
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Still don't know what that means. And, in debate, i would imagine we are supposed to agree with one another. Okay though. Have fun with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:59 PM
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Men are the more emotional ones by default. They aren't able to properly identify or recognize their emotions though. They also don't realize thay every single human being carries both masculine and feminine energies. Yin/Yang as shown in Chinese medicine. Their femininity is broken out of them by patriarchy at young ages. They're forced into a type of servitude by society that they don't even realize is happening. They're the real victims of patriarchy which in turn makes them victimize women e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:55 PM
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Who? My short King? He's the manager of my business. I'm his boss. As in, my money is his money. I pay him to take care of me, assist me with my business and also to give me sex and make content with me for our OF account. It's actually really awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:46 PM
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What's that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:15 PM
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Beedee, fetlife and there may be more...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:33 PM
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Yes! The kink apps have been better than other apps I hear. Beedee, fetlife, there's also Boo which is personality based and interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:33 PM
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Anyone wanna break it to them that a decent percentage of these women are trafficked and are looking for husbands to get out of the trafficking?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:29 PM
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I still walk around my home town in a bikini thong and no top every summer anyway. There are pictures of me my followers have taken after spotting me out in the wild. I get approached a lot. And I have to inform them I work in the industry. So I am not free. I charge an entry fee. I love being in a city where I can walk around topless and free and thankfully most of the time nothing happens to me. It's getting harder to say that though. So these days I make sure one of my partners is with me whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:18 PM
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I'll take it. This isn't even the half of it, this is only what I am really able to articulate. If I said everything that happened, I think more would question how I am still breathing. Here's the thing, I have no idea. I've cheated death more than a dozen times. And the people who tried to kill me? You guessed it! They were all men... Thank you for reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:58 PM
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Thank you for agreeing. 😘 Virginity is actually a funny one. Did you know the word Virgin originally meant "A sophisticated UN-wed woman"? As in, a virgin was a woman who never married. Not a woman who never had sex. Men are not able to be virgins in the first place. Only women are. Interesting the more you know... there is an instagrammer I follow whose handle is DivorcedVirgin and I love that for her so much. Society has really fucked up a lot for romance and companionship overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:41 PM
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It's gotta, right? She just started a little small business for herself too, I wish we could actually hang but we are online pals for the most part. Thank you!! ✨️ knowing her, she's got a plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:31 PM
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YES!!! EXACTLY!!! Let me let you in on a little secret.... I am collecting the gems so in a few years, when I meet more single women, I have a potential "match" for them. My goal is to be a match maker eventually. Right now I am working to find as many seemingly "good" men as I can. And then eventually find more single seemingly "good" women and mingle them all together and see what happens. That way healthy relationships can potentially grow for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:29 PM
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They're pretty much identical in my eyes actually. Depends on the guy though. Desperation is a guy who looks like he can't live without having sex with you. Like he is either going to live a miserable life forever because he didn't have you, or you are going to breathe life back into his veins by giving him sex. These are guys who also believe they are entitled to you because you decided to walk into the room. And man in pursuit with honest intentions? He's curious about you, and makes that know…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:26 PM
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I don't get what you are asking me, honestly... Point the finger at whom exactly? Discernment is something that takes time and practice to develop. My radar has been good most of my life. My radar reached expert levels about 3 years ago when I started socializing more and practicing saying "No" to men who approached me at the bars when I went by myself. It was a testing ground for me to regain trust and faith in men and learn better boundaries and to uphold my ground. Instead of continuing to sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:21 PM
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What do you mean by that? Can you elaborate please?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:13 PM
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Very well aware of that Though I would say the most desperate guys are actually the ones y'all consider the hottest bachelors out there. Which, to me personally, they make me wanna vomit as soon as I see them in a public space. The majority of the guys I fuck with don't even go to those same spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:12 PM
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Hook ups are dudes willing to be my sex toy for the night. I'm there to get off or to live rent free in his head while he disappoints me forever and more than likely gets forgotten about. I've had sex for the sake of it. I've had pity sex with guys because I felt so sorry for them I decided to give them sex once so they would feel less left out by their peers. I have a thing for first times as well. I like setting the bar and expectations for people. I also enjoy new experiences and fulfilling p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:07 PM
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Funny thing is I actually know a woman who was doing tricks at 18 and her loser husband. And I do mean loser husband... played Captain Save A Hoe and she said "Give me $100 and my last score of heroine and I will go with you" That was 12 years ago. She is still with him. And he's kept her isolated from the outside world for most of it. The fucker won't even take her to the grocery store to buy fucking milk. He is so terrified of her leaving him. She finally got a car and a driver's license last …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:01 PM
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Dick is the least of my concerns. I can walk outside and get dick in seconds. It's so easy to get dick I can literally get it by my mere existence. There is an absurd, over abundant amount of dick in my life as it is. And although I have gotten very good at selecting really good men attached to the dicks in question... I would still rather be flooded in yoni and women than dick and men. For real. Who wouldn't though? If I were rich, I'd have a harem of women to spoil, cater to and have incredibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:39 PM
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Me being poly is actually what saved my life... having multiple partners means having multiple witnesses as well. Also, the system works exactly as it is designed. The system is actually designed to protect the abuser, not the abused. The victim is not who is protected by law. It is the one who did the violence on them who is protected. It's so fucked to me how our country works and operates. And to think, I worked for the US government jail system before getting into companionship. It's actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:11 PM
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It's been 2,320 days since the father of my first born was holding his weight up over my body by my neck with one hand and pinning me down with the other so I couldn't move. I developed androphobia. Had to have part of my reproductive system removed to stay alive for my kids. Spent a quarter million on court fees, attorneys, psychological care for myself and my child, child support I had to pay him... So many other things... The public humiliation, the smear campaigns, the fact that my entire co…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:15 AM
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Lmao, I don't quite know. I would have to actually sit with you and have a conversation. I would imagine we would get along well, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:34 AM
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I mean.... I prefer feminine men and balanced men and women personally. I find them sexy as fuck. The more balanced between masculine and feminine they are, the sexier and more attractive they are to me. Then again, I have a thing for balance and authenticity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:01 AM
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I am literally dating a man who is missing a tooth and is 5'7" and below average in looks, above average in intelligence though and spectacular in bed. 🤣✨️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:07 AM
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I'm specifically talking about the people I've interacted with in America, where white privilege is very heavily prevalent and white men are often the most dangerous in my life experience. Yet I am primarily sexually and physically attracted to lighter skinned males. I wouldn't say America is a safe country. It's dangerous as fuck here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:05 AM
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Raising them with emotional intelligence, giving them the ability to actually be a child, enforcing accountability, bodily autonomy, body language, personal space, consent, positive sexual health care and education. The list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:29 PM
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Honestly what I really and truly want is formen to be raised properly. That would stop rapes almost overnight
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:14 PM
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Sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:02 PM
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Well yeah, it's been biologically proven that the y chromosome is a defective gene... Everyone is female first and then they become male. Males tend to get the "left over" DNA. Sort of like the runt of the litter of puppies. Males are so fragile, they're the first fetus to be spontaneously aborted because the womb isn't able to handle the rapid growth the male fetus often needs. So the fetus is rejected. Males are sensitive as fuck even in-utero. And then the world they are born into profits off…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:01 PM
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It's about the violent predator and their natural prey though. Which is pretty similar to racism if you ask me. I've personally found white men and women to be the most dangerous race there is. And I am an exotic breed, so I have a decent bit of the globe in my DNA. When women walk outside every day, they are walking out to a field full of venomous and non-venomous snakes. Not everyone knows how to properly identify the scales and color patterns and head shapes of the venomous versus non-venomou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:56 PM
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Considering casual sex is generally not worth it, if a woman had sex with a local on her trip, it's like "I wonder what he will be like in comparison to the men at home." It's a curiosity in some way for her as far as I am aware. Guys being ignored by women is again proof that men are not to be trusted. As in, women genuinely don't trust men and take a chance every time they talk to a man. The risk isn't always worth the reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:48 PM
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I mean, this goes to show how disconnected men are from themselves and each other. This is a prime example of what happens when half of the species lacks basic fundamentals for connection. As in, emotional intelligence...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:37 PM
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rainn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:45 AM
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There are statistics to support this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:04 AM
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More than 98% of domestic violence reports never see a day in court. That's why there is no proof or evidence. You get that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:39 AM
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I was 18 working at a sonic as a carhop... A guy and his friend (the scrubs) stayed and stared at me for an hour before calling me back over. Driver gave me a shitty pick up line and asked for my number. I wanted to talk to the friend. But no, that didn't happen. This dude wanted me. Guess what? He had me. I saw right through him that first day. And he got me anyway. Forced his way into my life, manipulated and wouldn't take no for an answer. Coerced and forced himself on me in so many ways I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:17 AM
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My mom married 4 times. She spent pretty much my entire life in relationships. She attempted one relationship with a woman and it was abusive and lasted 6 months. She said the woman abused her the same ways a man would have and has. My mom has been single for almost 3 years. Fucking finally!!! I have consistently witnessed her over and over with men going "this one is gonna be the one, I just know it this time !!" Guess what? More than 90% of the men she dated and also all 4 of her husbands were…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:20 AM
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Anytime! I love your comments, and am super happy to see another happily married woman out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:29 PM
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Oh my gods and goddesses your husband is a real MVP 🙌✨️😭
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:21 PM
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Yeah, anyone want some of this delulu punch they keep trying to serve? Maybe we should try it out sometime and see what all the fuss is about, living in fictional realities and all...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:49 PM
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What it means is I am the 5th generation of my family and I am the first woman in my family to have a healthy marriage with a man. My great grandma turned 96 last week. She is the perfect Madonna in the "Madonna-Whore complex". She dropped out of school at 11 and worked to help her family. Was chased, coerced and "courted" by my great grandpa. They married at 17. Had their first born who died a year later at 18. This was 1948 mind you... My great grandma was the perfect wife. The perfect Madonna…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:41 PM
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Honestly I am pretty fucking sorry for any of the women that went to dirty 6th this weekend... With illfest going on and other events, brings a lot of tourists which tend to add to the sexual assault rates at the bars....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:54 AM
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He genuinely believes he did nothing wrong. Most psychopaths have at least one person (generally their spouse) who sees them in a good light and only that way. They act as a good alibi. His crimes are actually quite common. I live in a city where roofies and GHB are put in the women's drinks so often, the police are consistently backed up, rape kits are now done at separate testing facilities. And the bars all carry drug test strips and have more strict rules on buying drinks. I was one of these…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:32 AM
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No, it's been proven that abusers, especially those with dark tetrad personality traits will wait as long as it takes before they strike for the first time. Gisele Pelicot's husband didn't start drugging and exploiting her until over 50 years of marriage. And she found out a decade later. Imagine being married to someone for 60 years. Only to find out through someone else that they have been drugging and letting people violate you for a decade of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:15 AM
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Tell that to the neuropeptides in the brain and the chemicals that make it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:43 AM
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Legit though, any licensed psychologist or psychiatrist will say the same thing. Human beings are the most addictive drug
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:00 AM
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They're not actually listening to their intuition. We're conditioned to ignore our intuitive sides and go based off of instinct. Most choose from instinct, not intuition. If they actually utilized their intuition and discernment, the abusers wouldn't have been able to have access in the first place. It can take years to be able to properly discern though. Also, epigenetics, neuropeptides, ancestral trauma/generational trauma play a factor in this. And, chasing what's familiar versus what is unfa…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:12 AM
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They tend to be pretty good about keeping their masks on. And some abusers even wait years before acting on it. Abusive men tend to be rather charismatic, charming, very carefully designed public personas, they also know how to manipulate. The trauma bond from stockholm syndrome is harder to withdraw from than heroin. And it takes an average of 7 times before a victim officially escapes their abusers. Not to mention, many don't make it out alive. I am still shocked I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:12 AM
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Both my husband and live-in would be the stags. They help me dictate my clientele base and whatnot. No humiliation here. All consensual kinky fuckery
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:48 PM
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Being hung, drowned, set on fire, lynched, meeting the guillotine
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:45 PM
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Before 2020 it seems.... Why do you think marital rape was deemed illegal in 1993? And why women were legally allowed to have a bank account or buy a vehicle without a man's signature in the 1960's and 1970's. Also, women being legally allowed to rent or purchase a home by the 1980's while single and not with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:41 PM
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To give everyone the same rights and privileges. All people treated exactly the same. Instead of less than.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:37 PM
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Idk what GNC is. And, unfortunately it seems feminism as a whole has gone too far. They completely missing the point of why feminism is important to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:34 PM
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I have no idea what that means. Also, they're not cucks, they would be considered stags.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:27 PM
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Idk man, i have two stay at home men. My husband primarily cares for our kids. And my lover cares for me and caters to me. I would say this is better than red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:10 PM
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Gender is actually a spectrum according to biology. Which was learned in high school, mind you... There are more than 100 genders and gender identities depending on the culture and science behind it all. Something like that, anyway. Oh honey, patriarchy harms men more than it harms women. And even then, neither side has autonomy. Which is the point of radical feminism. Or, was.... To give everyone autonomy. Radical feminism is supposed to be egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:02 PM
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Radical feminists aren't supposed to be misandrist. They're supposed to want to dismantle the systems in place and create new systems that work for all gender identities and people. They're supposed to recognize that men are victims to the system more than women are. Which is some of how they wind up victimizing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:55 PM
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I think if a woman isn't accepting of a man hiring sex workers, she is not worth his time. Transparency and honesty are really important for long term relationships to work. Especially sexual honesty and transparency. I tell my single clients all the time that they need to tell women to leave or they need to leave if they aren't willing to accept that they hire companionship or other kinds of sex workers. A man is safer with a sex worker than a casual hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:43 PM
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Still wouldn't consider any of that a sport per se... And kink and sex clubs and sex parties require consent and deep levels of trust. Which goes back to connection and emotional fulfilment. Kink is really trauma mastery at it's finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:19 PM
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Sex is not a sport, nor is it a hobby. Sex is supposed to be a deep emotional connection between people. Or at least some form of emotional connection and level of intimacy. I don't exactly see having sex as a sport/hobby as intimate and deeply connected in the same ways. Last I checked, hobbies don't include having sex with each other. Otherwise, people who play sports or do hobbies together would have orgies together or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:17 PM
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It still gets me that men who hire sex workers are called "hobbyists" and when you make conversation about it, you ask "so how long have you been in the hobby?" And they'll say a while, a decade, 20 years, since their kid went off to college or between their first and second wives, etc etc... Sex is seen as a sport. A "hobby" to them. So I mean... What's the point in relationships? Unless you really want connection and think sex is the only way to get it for some reason. But even then. Calling i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:29 PM
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Coercive behavior needs to stop, and women need to stop chasing what's familiar and start chasing the unknown, unfamiliar. The men they wouldn't normally talk to or associate with. They also need to learn how to discern and psychoanalyze well. And set boundaries that men only have a year or so to prove they're worth taking the chance on. Things would be better and these guys would eventually stop winning and the others would start.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:49 PM
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I'm open about sex with anyone who wants to talk about sex. There are some people I won't tell about some things. My partners are people I talk to openly and transparently though. Especially about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:40 PM
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As someone in the bizz. There is a difference between a man seeking an ego stroke and hiring a prositute or porn star to get that ego boost. And then there are the guys who hire companions/escorts to be "seen" and gain deeper levels of intimacy. I've even gone to hiring companions myself instead of dating women. It's easier. And nothing to be ashamed of. Plenty of my clients talk amongst their peers about hiring providers of all sorts. From Dommes to street walkers and in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:29 PM
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The majority of men in the US struggle with complex childhood trauma and most don't even know it until they have their experiences validated for the first time or have a repressed memory come up while on psychedelics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:51 PM
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They can form full sentences, they can communicate effectively, they have the ability to engage fully in philosophical conversations, they're self aware, they are emotionally aware and emotionally stable. They know how to handle conflict, they have a growth mindset and are eager to learn and try new things and gain experience. The list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:52 AM
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Transparency and honesty are the best policy. I see right through these fools, if they aren't willing to be 100% forward and honest with me, they can go ahead and remove themselves from my list. No man is worth a dishonest connection and lack of authentic love.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:37 PM
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The people I associate with in my work are very intelligent, and have about the same level of intellect that I do. Above average intelligence is a requirement in order to hire me. I would say the percent range of highly intelligent men that comment on my posts is at least 80% if not more. I very seldom deal with below average intelligence in men. It's not easy for me to tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:26 PM
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At some point or another every woman wants a reciprocal relationship with a man. You took what I said out of context. Women want men who are going to reciprocate. Instead of take use and abuse us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:24 PM
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Is it? Because I've only met a handful of men who meet my standards. My IQ is above 140 and EQ is above 90. And I struggle to find a guy who has a similar level of intellect and emotional intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:19 AM
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The Madonna-Whore complex at its finest...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:58 PM
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Right. Like. Is he gonna be able to afford me taking maternity leave? Or, what if I lose my job because the kids are sick and my job is seen as secondary to his? The list goes on. Never depend on a man financially. My mom taught me that one. Even then, the select few dudes who have these things in mind... They know having a family is not wise right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:29 PM
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Idk man, sex parties are much more fun than filming porn shoots... Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:43 PM
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Brains over Braun any day of the week for me. This would make me sick and make me dryer than the Sahara desert. Edgar Allen Poe and William Shakespeare mixed with Albert Einstein and Isaac Newton or something would be the way to turn me into Niagara Falls in seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:40 PM
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Husband material to me means he is worth my time, effort, essence, energy, etc. I don't have time for mediocrity in my life. And, as far as I track, every woman I know has at some point or another wanted the same thing I have. A reciprocal relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:31 PM
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Being a wife is no fun. If I had to choose between being a Madonna and a whore again. I would happily choose to be a whore. Over and over and over and over. Being told I would never be good enough to be a "wife". And realizing how much of a compliment that actually was years later.. I am beyond grateful for the husbands I have though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:11 PM
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And any one who wants to have a relatively traditional relationship. Wouldn't say that is strictly red pill idealogy. It may be part of it, sure. Many men I know wish they were in a better position to be able to support a partner. Not as an ownership thing. As a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:26 PM
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My great grandma, who turned 96 today... Was considered the perfect wife. She never drank, never did drugs, was devoted to her husband. Had 8 kids, worked, dropped out of school and never received an education. She is the kindest, most beautiful and purest woman I have ever known in my life. My great grandpa passed 16 years ago. And the truth came out about how he truly was. I live my life in spite. For my grandma. She told me my generation's mission was to break the curse of being forced to mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:34 AM
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Reading this made me realize I don't remember the last time I didn't have kinky sex... Like, pretty much all of the sex I have these days is kinky in some way 😏 this has really got me thinking and wondering. Do people not engage in healthy bdsm?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:49 AM
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I think it's because they think men all want the same thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:36 AM
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I prefer things the way they are now with me working and bringing the majority home while my men take care of our children. I believe men are better caretakers for children than women are. And I am more than happy to support that. I would never go back to being a stay at home parent myself. Did that a few times and it's honestly better for me to work and them be with their dad or dads. They do better with them overall, and I do better working and supporting our family in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:35 AM
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This is sad to read. My husband very seldom wants sex, we had sex last in December, even. His reward system is a peaceful quiet night inside doing what he wants to do, relax, watch shows, play games and veg out. His motivation is our kids and overall well-being. Sex is the least of his concerns. Now, for my other partner, sex is not a reward for him either. He is motivated by his desire to care for me and support me as his lover and partner for life. We have sex like rabbits though and that is b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:14 AM
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Most of them trust the woman. They take little to no precautions. And are also heavily uneducated on safe sex. Then there are the husbands who intentionally get an STD to pass to their pregnant wives....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:47 AM
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They're so hard to find. Glad I got into the work I did and now it's like a 9/10 are incredible. My have times changed. Guaranteed pleasure and orgasms are the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:45 AM
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I would rather it be the other way around. Stay at home dad and me being the one to do what you described. Because that's literally what I already do... Although. I also give them a monthly allowance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:05 PM
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Then explain the ones who hire escorts...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:01 PM
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Women are the creators of men. They are the ones who can stop humanity from reproducing. So yeah. They are royalty and require to be treated as such. Unless they're a part of the dark tetrad which is more common in men than women or any other gender. That's what you think. I am so proud of women for doing what I was kept from doing due to the systems in place. Decided to work with what I have and it has made all the difference though. Men need to get better and actually treat women like people a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:18 PM
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They do prefer to stay single though. The 4B movement grows every day. Women can literally walk outside and get a man. It's so easy it hurts at times. Men need to raise their standards. And women need to continue to raise the bar as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:56 PM
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Always, your comments are fire. And you inspire me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:55 PM
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Thank you!!!!! Seriously. The more offense they take, the more they out themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:54 PM
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Yes. That's what they pay me for. To pleasure me and for me to fulfill their wildest fantasies. Which i do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:55 PM
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My orgasm comes from being pleasured and someone putting effort into my orgasm. If I was fully responsible for my orgasm, I wouldn't have sex. Because that is someone using my body as a masturbation tool. And therefore not a mutual interaction. Why would I do that? Also. Dudes tend to take issue when you put a vibrator to your clit during penetration. Thankfully since I became an Escort though, they put forth my pleasure more than anything. And half of them don't cum because they aren't able to.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:51 PM
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It was illegal for women to work....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:33 PM
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Fuck that. These were dipshits i found online. Why would I care about that? This was also in 2020. I stopped having casual sex after that year for a reason. Being a professional companion has not only given me better experiences, it's given me the most incredible and mind-blowing sex I could've ever possibly imagined. I should've switched to sex work years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:31 PM
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They came in less than 60 seconds. What was I supposed to do? I was so pissed I threw them out and blocked them. Literally had 25 guys in one day who inserted and came almost INSTANTLY. HOW WOULD I HAVE HAD AN ORGASM?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:28 PM
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That's not what i am talking about. Even then, most guys don't perform cunnilingus even though it is required for a woman to be properly aroused. Although. In order to fully relax a woman's body and have her surrender to you (therefore increasing her pleasure tenfold).... You need to do more than 30 minutes or less of sex including foreplay. The women I've unlocked... Bro. Men are seriously missing out on incredible sex by being lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:28 PM
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Say yes when they mean no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:26 PM
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As someone who has had sex with more than 1,500 men in her life time... Only 150 of them gave me an orgasm. And of those 150, about half of them cared more about my orgasm than I did at the time. These days? I have revolving door of men who beg to pleasure me. And it is fucking AWESOME!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:26 PM
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More like being gagged, throat fucked, forced to cry, vomit, being held down for too long and losing air.... The list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:25 PM
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They complain because men need to see the truth and realities of what women face every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:23 PM
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I love your comments every time! Take my diamond!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:22 PM
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Many women agree to disagree when it comes to sex due to pressure. For the record.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:21 PM
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Women already have. They don't go out, they don't use the apps, they read their books and stay inside more often than not these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:21 PM
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Must have had some traumatic experiences that kept them from wanting to give you bjs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:20 PM
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This could be considered revenge porn and depending on where they are, if she found out.... He could spend some time in jail for this. You'd think they would freshen up on the laws in their areas....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:16 PM
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Literally proving that they are the ones to stay away from.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:15 PM
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The vast majority are abusive and don't know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:37 AM
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It's okay, made me who I am and gave me the gift of discernment much better and more useful. My kiddo is amazing and my greatest love
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:32 AM
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Funny, because I have known plenty of very heavy set people with active sex lives and an active participation in kink and sex clubs....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:38 AM
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Oh my... I am so glad you got out. I was 18, he was 19. Chatted and went on a couple dates. By the second month, we made it official. A week after that, his dad accused me of being drunk and I popped off on him. Next thing I know, he is disowned and suddenly my problem. A year later, I was pregnant and we had a fake marriage. The abuse escalated after our child was born of course. I still remember attempting to drown us in the bath tub at 32 weeks because I didn't want us to endure the pain... I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:32 AM
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Bingo. My abuser is dead now. And I still have moments where I am shocked I made it out alive and so did my kid. This needs to be talked about more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:52 AM
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You would be surprised how long predators can hide. I've known many and study the dark tetrad for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:54 AM
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That is one way of putting it. Cnc, snuff, czech gloryholes, and drug related were my go-to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:47 AM
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Yeah, I don't know what the fuck a single is for this either?? Is this a new concept they came up with?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:42 AM
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And the fact that many men wait years, if not decades to abuse. Gisele Pelicot being a prime example.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:41 AM
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I average 10k to 12k per month as a companion. It's awesome. I've been scheduled a few times for Domme sessions. I fucking love it. Highly recommend if you have the strength for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:39 PM
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Lmao. You should go on tryst dot link and look at what the Dommes charge. The starting rate is usually $1,000 per hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:21 PM
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$200/hr to be pegged? That's a really cheap rate... Speaking as someone in the bizz.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:00 PM
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Incest, threesome, anything considered tabu or out of the ordinary, hentai, queer porn, fetishes, extreme, hardcore and gangbang. That's what i think of anyway when I think average man and porn in the US. For me though ... I had to stop watching porn. I went deep into the dark rabbit hole years ago and still have trouble having sex due to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:24 PM
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Thankfully I see them because I want to. I wish other providers did the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:54 AM
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More than likely. I'm a gypsy. Get it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:04 AM
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No, prostitution is using a woman's body as a masturbation tool (sex toy). Escorting is being hired for companionship. Like dates, events, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:35 AM
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Okay, your point? Most men who engage in casual sex don't even realize they are missing out until their 30s and 40s anyway. Then they start having better sex. I'm a professional companion. Otherwise known as an emotional support companion (Escort). I'm also a sexual health coach, trauma-informed coach, and spiritual healer. Among other things. I help men with their sexualities. Their sexual trauma. Relationships, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:32 AM
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Sex is not what is important. Deep, intimate connection is. And sex is how you intertwine your soul with another. It can be one of the deepest ways to bond with someone. However, using people to masturbate (which is 50% of my experience) is not healthy. It is rather toxic and debilitating to the self esteem and the psyche. It makes you feel dead inside and like something is exponentially wrong with you because the sex lacks connection and intimacy. It's hollow, shallow and dehumanizing. There is…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:00 AM
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My high count is for a multitude of reasons. The first 100 were primarily careless and for fucks. A dozen romantic partnerships in there as well. The next 100 to 800 consist of primarily non-consensual encounters by coercion or some other means of force. And also my online days where I would troll for cock and didn't care who or what the person giving it to me was. PTSD and CSBD do things to you... I learned then that casual sex is genuinely pointless and the worst thing a woman can do for her s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:43 AM
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Sex isn't what is important. It's intimacy that is important. And sex is one form of intimacy. And one of the only forms of intimacy a lot of men feel like they're allowed to have. Or they may not know any other ways to engage in intimacy with someone. What is important about sex is finding deep, soul intertwining connections. Instead of meaningless, soulless, dehumanizing sex. Speaking as someone with a "hbc". Which I would rather say I am quite sexually experienced and have had a wide array of…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:35 AM
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I know. If women gave them a safe space to talk and share, and if society didn't tell them they couldn't talk to their wives... things would be much different. All comes down to choose your partner wisely. And remember that it is human nature to be sexually explorative. Not sexually exclusive. Which actually goes against human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:24 PM
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Not many. And then at the same time, too many to be worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:57 PM
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I have no idea where you got this idea but it is far from the truth in my opinion. Have at it though. Being desired for sex is meaningless to many women. Being desired for who we are as people is what tends to excite and turn women on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:36 PM
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I agree. There should be a different name for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:22 PM
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Because many men will literally fuck anything with a hole. They don't care what a woman looks like. They want to use her body to masturbate with and don't see her as a human being. Only merely an object for their use to dispose of when they are done. Women don't tend to see men like sex objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:20 PM
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It exists. Go to tryst dot link. There are plenty of really sexy and really professional male escorts on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:09 PM
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Maybe if their wives stopped invalidating them and actually gave them a safe space to be themselves, things would be different. But no. Women tend to ask for a divorce when they find out their husband like wearing panties or likes sucking dildos off of a woman or wants to have sex with a Trans man or Trans woman. Usually they get handed divorce papers. So they would rather hire a sex worker. Than risk their wives leaving by learning the truth about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:08 PM
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A prostitute doesn't give their clients emotional support or spend time with them outside of the bedroom. I'm an escort. I am hired to be public arm candy, a shoulder to cry on and someone to cuddle more often than I am hired strictly for sex. I don't allow men to use my body to masturbate. So no, I am not a prostitute. I am an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:06 PM
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I don't have any degrees. My therapist told me several times that if it were possible for me to test out, I would get my master's or a PhD in psychology in one day. I have experience. As in, I have several life times worth of relationship and social experience. I have used myself as a test subject so to speak. I chose to get into sex work because after over a decade of human sociology and psychology research, and a decade of talking extensively with fellow sex workers (cam girls, escorts, prosti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:02 PM
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I'm attracted to energy and authentic expression, fhe physical form isn't what I take too much interest in. They come how they come. And I am attracted in some way. Personality and characteristics are super important to me. Nerds are especially sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:03 AM
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Men cheat on their wives for a multitude of reasons. The primary one being that they don't feel like they can be themselves with their wives. They have to hide parts of themselves. And that gets exhausting after a while. Pretending to be someone you're not. Or that everything is okay when it in fact is far from it. They can only hold the mask up for so long before they need a break from the pain. The stress, the fear of what would happen if she knew the truth. That he doesn't feel valued, honore…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:55 AM
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It very well could be. Women hire sex workers less often. I myself hire companions instead of sate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:21 AM
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Cheating is never okay. It is something that can be comprehended and grasped with empathy. More than 1,000 people. Most of which were non-consensual at the time. That was years ago though. Go be married. You should check his texts and emails though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:53 AM
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Go ahead and continue to project your beliefs onto me. I reject them happily. Thank you. Good day to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:40 AM
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More than 90% of the men I encounter hire me for companionship. If sex happens, it happens. Most of the time they focus on me. It's pretty rare to only have sex and not anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:32 AM
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I am actually a sexual health coach, trauma-informed coach, spiritual healer and sexual healer. I merged several professions and created my own. It has worked tremendously. Also. There is a huge difference between me and a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:28 AM
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You really and truly have no idea what the reality is. Sex work is a form of social work. It literally is therapy for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:27 AM
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It's literally the reason why I got into sex work and became a professional companion. I'm their therapist. And I love every bit of it. I wish they had better women in their lives. And I am beyond grateful to be their support system until they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:26 AM
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I didn't have sex with over a thousand people by cheating. That is quite the assumption to make though. Have you ever actually indulged in the kink community at all? Because it definitely doesn't look like it. Are you familiar with polyamorous dyanamics? Ethical non-monogamy perhaps? Or even sex clubs? Because they exist. And I am very well known in my communities. I love sex. I love connecting with people. I love giving them what they're missing. You sound like someone who doesn't enjoy sex. Or…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:23 AM
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If you don't want to accept reality, by all means, be my guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:18 AM
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Married men often feel isolated and like the only person in their marriages. They don't feel seen, valued or heard. So they hire sex workers for comfort. Because their wives refuse to support them. It's devastating when you really get into it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:18 AM
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I'm a radical feminist. I firmly believe in tearing down the current systems in place and starting over, with new systems that are more effective and better for the collective overall. I believe men are more likely to be victims than people want to believe. And that men actually do have it worse. Which is why I would rather dismantle the systems in place and make sure to start new systems that stop victimizing men. So they then stop victimizing everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:08 AM
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Professional companion here, married men are the majority of who hire sex workers. Single men are the majority of who I allow access to my space. And the select few married men I allow. It's because they're in unhealthy relationships and need comfort. Sex work is therapy for men. People really need to grasp this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:04 AM
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As someone who has had sex with more than 1,000 people, and counting almost daily, I disagree. The amount of sex you have or people you have sex with isn't what makes a person a bad person. Also, there are a multitude of reasons for someone to cheat. And many of them are actually quite valid and easy to comprehend if you pay attention well enough to use your listening ears and have some empathy for people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:03 AM
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I've experienced all kinds of different men. Regardless of the activities that they're into or bring them joy. It's all really the same thing. It brings them comfort or happiness in some way and they are intelligent and passionate in their field of knowledge on each of these activities they choose to take interest in. I for one think it's sexy as fuck when a guy nerds out over what he is passionate about. Even if it's something I have little to no interest in or experience in. They fascinate me …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:20 PM
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Reading this version of science fiction was, well, nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:10 PM
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They call hiring sex workers a "hobby" and we call them "hobbyists". For the record
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:20 PM
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Say it louder for the people in the back 👏 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:17 PM
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They're hiding like the good men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:32 PM
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Don't have a relationship if you're not willing to do what is required in order to maintain it. That's all there really is to it. If you're unable to grow and carry a growth mindset, then you're not capable of a healthy relationship with anyone. Especially romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:27 AM
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Actually, many of them did. Thing is, they didn't last more than 60 seconds 99% of the time. I can't orgasm in that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:11 PM
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Casual sex was a joke. It's frustrating having sex with a couple dozen dudes in a week and not getting a single orgasm. I learned my lesson with that one. I'm strict about who I allow to have access to me now. They have to show they are willing to put forth some level of effort for my pleasure. I primarily hang around dudes who care more about my pleasure than I do. It's made a world of a difference. His overall character and demeanor are how I am able to discern for the most part about how he m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:51 AM
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Each connection I've had has developed differently. Some guys, my love and affection grew for them over time. Others, it was instant and the chemistry was so out of control and off the charts we literally couldn't keep our hands off of each other. Still can't to this day, even. I'm sapiosexual and pansexual though. I go based off the vibe and someone's level of intelligence more than anything else. Have to be able to have deep, meaningful conversations. Otherwise there's no reason for me to even…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:58 AM
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If it didn't cost me my life, I would be more frank and direct about it. However, that's not the case. Better to run off and/or find some other excuse than risk my life like that. Especially with what I have already been through at the hands of those I was supposed to be able to trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:08 PM
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I have cheated before. There's a reason I'm poly though. And yes, you can still cheat in poly dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:50 PM
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I've thankfully learned how to discern between a shallow person and a genuine one. I feel sexy when a genuine person finds me sexy. I don't feel sexy when a person objectifies and sees me as an object for their use. And I am very careful about who I allow into my space.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:01 AM
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Don't care what you think you deserve. I care about people being true to themselves and others. The truth is a loving act. And if people aren't able to handle the truth, that's on them. Not others. Males are victims to the system more than females are. And they don't want to accept that on either side it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:04 AM
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🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:59 AM
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Says more about them than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:55 AM
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No, there generally aren't many to talk to about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:48 AM
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The truth is necessary. Staying silent does nothing. Speaking up is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:45 AM
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Vomit. I enjoy being treated like a goddess and having my pleasure put first and sought after like it's the only thing on earth he wants to do. The sex is so much better with a man who makes me his muse. I will take that over being used like a living fleshlight any day. The grass really and truly is greener on the other side. Finding men who put your pleasure before his and focuses and fixates extensively on how to find ways to please you better.... it's like being on cloud 9! Best drug I've eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:11 PM
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That's not even what I am talking about. You said men seduce women by using deceit. And that is considered a state jail felony where I live. Coercion is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:55 PM
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EXACTLY!!!! The amount of times I am called some sort of sweet name or given a compliment. You learn to see who is actually genuine and who is being superficial to get something out of you. I roll my eyes at comments like the second you put down. It definitely dries me up as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:54 PM
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A collective. Where men are taught to coerce and manipulate women into sex. Which is perpetuating rape culture and making the list of female victims exponentially higher than it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:49 PM
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Those men are honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:49 PM
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I'm a type 4, I want everyone to be who they are and live peacefully coexisting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:48 PM
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I agree. Honesty is the best policy. And the truth is a loving act. These dudes are seriously missing out and have no idea they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:48 PM
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That makes me wanna vomit. Authenticity is sexy to me. And I can see right through dudes with ill intentions. Deceiving someone into having sex with you is a state felony where I am. And I make sure to point that out any time a dude tries stuff like what you're insinuating. Consent is required for me, not optional. And I can only consent to someone who is fully honest with me. Otherwise, I'm not consenting to the actual person. I'm consenting to who I think they are based on how they portray the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:47 PM
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Most of which involves deceit. Which is coercive and immoral to say the least. If they were honest, it would be better for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:43 PM
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😭🤣 you're so right! Forgive me for wanting a man with some character!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:31 PM
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Right?? What kind of question is this?? Obviously we are attracted to active participants, fucksake
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:06 PM
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I was probably like 8 when I had my first kiss. First relationship I was 13-14. First time I had sex i was 14. Wanted to get it over with since they all thought i already had. Casual sex was always a huge waste of time. Did that off and on from 16 to 25 before stopping entirely. I've had more than two dozen relationships between men and women (I'm polyamorous). Longest I was sexless and single was 6 months. Met my husband and have been together since then. He taught me there was more to intimacy…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 06:26 PM
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They don't wanna do that, it's too much work for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:28 PM
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As someone who used to fill this role and almost met death's door, no thank you. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:11 AM
2

No, it's the side effect of having a deep seated need to gain validation from a male figure. Most likely due to them lacking a healthy or active and consistent male role model in their youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:56 PM
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Yeah. Something like that. Though. I always thought they were desperate for attention and doing everything they could think of to get male validation at any cost including "I'm not like other girls, pick me" energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:53 PM
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I love your post btw. And your comments are always on fire 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:02 PM
9

For sure it is!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:00 PM
1

This. Thank you for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:54 PM
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Women's bodies are works of majestic art. That's really all there is to it. Hetero women enjoy looking at beautiful works of art. Same as any other art connoisseur.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:50 PM
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Sure. If you say so. If men weren't conditioned to behave a certain way to prove their masculinity, perhaps things would be different in their romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:39 AM
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No idea about that. It's the same behaviors generally. And it's across social media platforms, talking with friends. I made a new friend last year and the stories she has... And the stories I've shared. And we have different tastes in men. Like, her type is vastly different from mine. And yet it's like we've dated the exact same guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:11 AM
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Women tend to compare notes later on and go "did we date the same guy???" Maybe that means the majority of the dudes we interact with are actually quite terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:44 AM
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Maybe this should say something about the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:28 AM
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Yes! Very well said! 👏 I want to do my part best I can. It's a process. More needs to be said about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:03 AM
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Currently dating someone 6 inches taller than me. I'd gladly date the shorter guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:53 PM
1

Thanks for that 👌 enjoy the remainder of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:53 PM
1

I do, happily.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:06 PM
5

That's not the price of entry. It's giving them a safe space to be vulnerable without fear of judgment, scrutiny or ridicule. If hiring a companion is how they gain access to that, then it isn't about sex, now is it? It's about emotional connection. These guys tend to apologize because they can't perform more often than not. They're so worked up, stressed, exhausted, have had such traumatic experiences with women that they struggle with maintaining erections. Many of them have people-pleasing (f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:57 PM
2

I live in a city where it's legal for me to walk around topless. There is also a public city pool where women have been swimming topless at for decades. It's pretty normal to see a woman walking around with nothing but shorts and shoes on in the warmer months. It should be like that everywhere. If men can do it, so can we.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:53 PM
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If I consent to them, and that's a part of what was agreed to, then yes. Otherwise, no. It's not a fix all number. I will say, more than 90% of my experiences have been positive and beneficial and wholesome. The genuine connections we've been building have actually raised and given me more faith in humanity. I wish I had done this years ago. Then again, I didn't have the knowledge and skills yet to be able to do this in the way I do. It's pretty amazing. Funny how I talk about how these men have…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:49 PM
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Dress codes shouldn't exist in the first place. A human being should be able to walk outside in 100 degree weather with shorts and no shirt and no one bat an eye about it. That's the thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:46 PM
2

They pay me to spend time with them. Sex isn't a guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:45 PM
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Plenty of women like autistic men. As long as they're good men. I prefer hanging with ND people, since I am ND myself. Have you tried smiling more? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:32 PM
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I work with men on their dating skills and overall life skills. I would say 8 out of every 10 men I work with has a story about something he can't share with anyone else. I have asked the question before... If we don't believe men, how can we expect them to in turn believe us? The trauma of not being believed is it's own thing separate from the trauma of the event itself. If people actually believed each other, there would be less trauma to heal from and perhaps we would actually have better pra…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:22 PM
2

As a manic pixie... It sounds like she's accurate about you. You should touch some grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:54 PM
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As a sex worker, they aren't getting access to my body. Like that's all I am offering. They're getting access to my energy, my time, my space, my attention, my experience, my intelligence, they're paying for access to me as a whole person. Not just an object. Then again, I'm an escort, not a prostitute so I am primarily hired for my companionship and not strictly for sex itself. There are plenty of reasons why sex workers get into the industry. Personally the objectification part sucks. It makes…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:46 PM
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A human being. What a person wears doesn't permit others to treat them like less than human.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:38 PM
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It's whatever he's willing to put into it. Thing is, he has to want to do it for himself first and foremost. And for women as a secondary. Otherwise, nothing he does will be effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:50 AM
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If they did the inner work it took? Yes. However, in my experience, they tend to also experience a lot of rejection because women think they're too good to be true. I think men overall need to improve though. It's a double edged sword. Speaking as someone who works with these men to help them through their redemption arcs...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:27 AM
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Thank you for this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:16 PM
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Psychedelics and a really good therapist is top notch. Did me wonders. ✨️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:32 PM
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What's worse is it's so common in my city that it takes hours for the police to even get to you, and they send you to a separate clinic to get the SANE exam done because it happens so often the hospitals don't have the time to test and take care of every single person this is happening to. So of course the drugs are out of your system and the kit is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:01 PM
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Yeah... I miss the days when the bar I frequent (gay bar, mind you) didn't offer drug test strips at the counter so you could test if a dude put something in your drink. As in, I miss when drugging someone at the bar didn't happen so frequently in my area that they had to start offering these tests in the first place... Like, this shouldn't be happening at all and it's become so common that bars are stocking up on support for who is harmed by this. I was one of them. Two years before they starte…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:54 PM
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I could literally walk outside and find someone to have sex with. Or send a text message and have someone over within the day, maybe even the hour. It's so easy it hurts sometimes. I retired from casual sex. I often think about it. I go out, debate whether I want to humor some dude. The problem is I want the ability to actually fully choose who I leave with and that doesn't always happen when I get approached within minutes of walking into a space with a lot of people. When I did engage in casua…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:52 PM
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And they can do that. Don't assume all of us want that though. I have to wear a suit and tie and pretend I'm a guy so I don't get approached. Or have a body guard. It fucking sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:45 PM
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As long as it's done without groping and grabbing, by all means. However, learn how to take a hint when a woman isn't interested. It shouldn't take a group of women to get away from a dude on the dance floor. I hate that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:44 PM
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Idk, where I'm at, a lot of the women going clubbing don't want to be bothered by anyone. They want to party and enjoy their night without getting harassed. I go to gay bars and still get harassed. It's fucking annoying. Please stop telling dudes to find women in bars. Many of us are there to have fun. Not to hook up or date. It's getting so bad less and less women are going out dancing in my city. It's fucking sad. How about telling dudes to gain social skills in general and actually learn how …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:38 PM
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I love short Kings, I mean, short kings anthem by blackbear and TMG is one of my favorite songs. Can't speak for all. I prefer people closer to my height than further. Idk why they don't date short men. I don't get it. Everyone is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:34 PM
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I love being a companion, giving these guys the freedom to express and explore has been an incredible experience overall. I've also resorted to hiring escorts myself over dating women. I have not been able to find a woman to have a healthy relationship with. So, hiring a companion has been the go-to for some time now. It's so much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:01 PM
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What about that mambo numba 5? 😂 oh my brain is going wild places with this. Luda was ahead of his time even then haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:51 PM
1

Reminds me of this area codes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:02 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:56 PM
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Elaborate on this betrayal you speak of. I study the psychology of men for a living. Things like this intrigue me. Do give me some insight if you don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:27 PM
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Tate seems like the type to slip a drug into a drink at a bar and take a woman that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:57 PM
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Social conditioning to idolize violent men. "You just haven't seen the side of him that I have..." Find the one who can protect you from others. Though, we forget that he could do the most harm to us. The rose-colored glasses and all that. The deep psychology behind it is a whole ordeal...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:28 AM
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Right?? The other day I thought about how we used to all "mate" outside. My have times changed. Imagine all of the noises everyone would make.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:24 AM
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It's interesting to read up on. It affects men at twice the rate it does women they say. I don't quite know the science behind it. It does fascinate me though. Things that are sex related I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:19 AM
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There's more to it than this, here is the gist "the experience of sadness, anxiety, agitation, or irritability immediately following consensual sexual activity or masturbation."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:14 AM
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That's sad if that's true. Men with emotional intelligence are my cup of tea anyway 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:53 AM
2

Correct. You would absolutely be correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:50 AM
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Emotionally unavailable = lack of emotional depth That does not equate to not wanting to commit. There are plenty of people who have anxious attachment styles or dismissive avoidant behaviors and are in long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:40 AM
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I only ever see this kinda stuff online these days. The troubles I hear women talk about in regards to men in person are primarily talking about how they aren't emotionally available or they lack ambition and drive. Most of the women I know stopped dating men a long time ago though. There's only one I know of in my inner circle who keeps chasing the same kind of man and isn't having any luck. And no matter the advice or guidance I or others give her, she keeps chasing after these dudes... It's f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:31 AM
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It's basic psychology to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:23 AM
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I would think everyone is afraid of committing to the wrong person...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:20 AM
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Valid, I appreciate your perspective and sharing this with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:13 AM
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My husband actually gets turned on by other men's "failures" as he likes to put it. I think it's fun, I get to be his muse. Casual sex is overrated. I prefer the way my sex life is now. Much more beneficial overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:15 PM
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Honestly I prefer sapiosexual myself. And I prefer the pink and blue in the pan flag. I like your perspective. Thank you for sharing. Good luck out there in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:40 PM
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What you described is pansexuality... The divide is definitely exhausting. We all come from the same place and are made up of the same stuff after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:18 PM
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I've had so many casual encounters, I've lost count. I had two dozen dudes come over one day (2020 was a glorious time to be inside...) because I was so annoyed and disappointed. 25 dudes. And not a single one of them gave me an orgasm. They couldn't even make it 30 seconds. It was so fucking frustrating. I turned to sex work and my orgasm rate went from 1% to 99% best decision I ever made for myself. In a multitude of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:04 PM
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Here you go... "Postcoital dysphoria (PCD), or "post-sex blues," involves intense feelings of sadness, anxiety, agitation, or irritability following consensual sexual intercourse. It is a common, often temporary, experience that lasts from minutes to hours. PCD can affect anyone, regardless of gender, and is sometimes linked to hormonal changes, relationship distress, or past traumatic experiences"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:02 PM
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Actually studies show that women do experience Post-Coital Dysphoria. We only experience it at half the rate that men do though. I've experience it myself. In my close relationships and with hook ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:58 PM
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MAMA LET ME BEEEE HEEEEEEE Don't come knockin' round my door....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:32 AM
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Hey now, I'm a professional companion (which means I hang out with testosterone all day daily) and so my meter for men is full constantly. Working as much as I have to to financially support the part of my bills I pay, on top of my work expenses... And the bills keep piling up. I only get to see my kids every so often, and my husband and I haven't been alone since Christmas. It's really hard, worth it. I am really looking forward to summer. Getting to spend time with them will be so nice and rew…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:37 PM
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Right??? And that's wonderful, I love that for you. Yesterday my husband called and gave me a whole rundown of their day. It was so cute, ugh I miss them. I work in another state and they're living with his family until his grandmother crosses the bridge in the next couple of years. Being long distance is hard. A man who appreciates you and does his part with the family? What a dream come true. 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:23 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:19 PM
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This, there are far too many children in this world already with absent fathers. Enough is enough for fucks sake. I got lucky, my husband is a stay at home dad, has a part time job and also care takes his grandma who has cancer. Couldn't have asked for a better man or partner to share life with. Really wish there were more out there who are as dedicated to their kids...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:17 PM
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Having kids in the US is a trap... I say this as a mother of two. One year Maternity leave sounds like a miracle....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:07 PM
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They really tell on themselves, don't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:42 PM
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Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:32 PM
1

If a man wants to spread his seed, he needs to make sure his seed is worthy of being spread. Our future can be stopped by women refusing to procreate. Which, for the most part they already have. So what's the point in dating for men at this point? What's the point in dating for women at this point as well? For the record, I'm married, poly, partnered and a parent who wants a better future for my children. And it's looking bleak these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:12 PM
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Not wanting to connect or do any of the activities you wanna do. Constantly complaining about every fucking thing and not doing anything about it. Etc etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:42 PM
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I'm wondering the same thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:11 PM
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And how would this land me an NPD diagnosis from my practitioners? My men very much like being pampered and having things paid for. They're incredible and I honestly wish I could do more for them. That would require more money though. Which I am diligently working on for our family.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:51 PM
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In the mirror? Of course I do. Otherwise? Nahhh. I don't even know how to objectify someone. I wasn't taught that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:50 PM
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I show up. My existence is how I show my worth at first. You get the rest over time. I like to take my time with men I like. Let me put it to you like this... My live-in partner (because I also have a husband who lives away right now) spent just about every penny he had on me before he lost his job last year. I moved him into my home, and I've been supporting him ever since. You know what he does for me in return? He helps me manage my business, mentally and emotionally supports me, he's grown t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:36 PM
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Paying on a date is a form of "peacocking" in our eyes... Do they not get that? They gotta show us they're worth our time and investment first. Not later.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:25 PM
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Who said it was? I mean most of that was years ago. I hardly remember any of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:17 AM
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Literally told you how many men I've had sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:47 PM
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Before I became a companion? It was roughly 1,000. Fast forward to now? More than 1,500. I don't actually know for sure. It's an estimated guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:42 PM
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I have had so much sex and experiences, that I can easily have sex with some random and carry on with my day like nothing happened. I've even had one night stands where a dude found me again years later and I completely forgot we had even met before.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:39 PM
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This, so much this. If I fuck a guy, it's like using a toothpick on my teeth these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:19 PM
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Offline, all the time. Makes it hard to be around people and keep friends. Online, all the time. Its inescapable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:48 PM
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I go to the grocery store to feed my family, not to be pursued by people. This would make my skin crawl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:41 PM
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I was gonna ask the same thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 01:38 AM
4

Indeed she is. I used to hate it. And absolutely men are more romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 10:44 PM
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Yeah, I use the manic pixie thing for work now. Gets me a lot of business.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 10:11 PM
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I'm usually the one pointing things out to my female friends. Then again, I'm the most experienced when it comes to these things. As far as my group of friends go anyway. Women don't like to acknowledge the truth. We tend to ignore the red flags in people. Sometimes until it's too late. Though, I would say this applies to all gender identities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:58 PM
1

You're misunderstanding me. That's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:08 PM
1

Oh I'm not specifically saying the dark Triad personality types should behave better. I am saying all men should behave better as a whole. And people need to learn discernment. Which means learning how to pick up on behavior patterns and pattern recognition.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 08:41 PM
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Discernment, you mean? Yeah, people need to learn how to discern for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 08:34 PM
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See, wondering the same
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:58 PM
1

The dark Triad personalities. Narcissistic personality disorder. Anti-social personality disorder (formerly known as sociopathy), and psychopaths. Look into this book women who love psychopaths
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:35 PM
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The play ground tends to get easier for those with dark Triad personalities or traits. Which means women become even larger targets than they already were. These dudes are calculated and very good at what they do. Better to tell men to behave themselves than to tell women to choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:12 PM
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😭😭😭😭😵 that's even better!!! I'm so happy for you 💓
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:36 PM
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I'm already very well aware of the fact that society doesn't take male victims seriously and doesn't believe them, therefore they're less likely to believe and support women. Among other things. Point is, if men were actually socially allowed to express and talk about these things, it would be better for everyone. And I firmly believe the statistics are wrong about male victims of abuse as it is. When many men take that to their Graves and never speak about it, makes it hard to actually advocate…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:30 PM
5

A bi guy??? Omg yesss you lucky lady you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:26 PM
5

It can be agonizing at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:50 PM
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My husband has little to no drive whatsoever. He prefers to focus on other forms of intimacy outside of the bedroom. Since we are poly though, I've been able to take care of things better. I now have a partner who can for the most part keep up with me sexually and it has made all the difference. And has made my husband and I closer as well. Since we've been focused on other things within our marriage and whatnot. I would say, if it wasn't for us being poly, we would've separated a long time ago.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:34 PM
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Yep! Women get blamed for just about everything that is actually caused and created and facilitated by men and enforced by (wait for it....) other men. Cause and effect. Cause, men's bad actions. Effect, women are blamed for their reactions to men's bad actions. Cycle repeats.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:29 PM
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Considering one of my partner's jobs is me (my husband and he joke that I am a full time job) and my husband's job is to take care of our kids and his grandma right now? I honestly prefer it this way. I would rather be the one working and bringing home most of the income. I quite enjoy having two men to take care of things for our family. However, if one of them had your job, guess where I would be? Under the desk with my mouth open.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:19 PM
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Belly butterflies are actually a warning sign from the body indicating that a potential threat is nearby. Its been proven to be a red flag indicator. Not an indication of desire. Actually a lack thereof.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:46 PM
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Lmao, as an actual 304, we tend to be far more selective than people give us credit for. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:36 PM
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I mean... They made themselves that easy to replace. They made themselves a dime a dozen and lack the drive to actually do better for themselves. Granted, many ladies are simply opting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:22 AM
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Lack of patience, lack of ability to actually see things for what they are, inability to see that there are good things that tend to take time. And there are benefits in being patient and taking your time. Instant gratification equates to a less than desirable attention span. Which is rather unhealthy to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:50 PM
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Right, after the whole "sex work is real work" thing happened in the late 1800s? And how sex work was shortly thereafter deemed illegal to keep white women safe from exploitation. I wouldn't blame the feminists for why this happened. I would be more upset with who decided to make it illegal instead of listen to the women who were protesting and fighting for sex work to be safe for women and actually valued as real work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:38 PM
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That would be nice. Go to Nevada.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:31 PM
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Instant gratification has really messed with some of these dudes it seems...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:30 PM
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Maybe they should.... Oh I don't know.... Choose better then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:18 PM
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Definitely more of a thing here in the states, I'm sure. Tbh, I honestly don't feel valued myself unless a man is paying for things for me. Our culture here is fucked. There are very few men who have shown me they're worth my time without paying for things. In my eyes, if he wants access to me, he needs to show me he is worthy of me. And that's by paying for things or by serving me in some other way. I was once told by someone that men's value is in their wallets. And that they don't like when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:44 PM
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I dig it. Thank you meow pill. Kitties are the best
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:36 PM
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I'm neurodivergent myself and have found it's better to be around fellow ND individuals. All of my romantic partners are on the spectrum somewhere so, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:06 AM
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This. Literally this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:07 PM
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And one of those surveys showed over 50% of police engage in abuse themselves. It's everywhere. Experience over education any day. It's one thing to read about something. Another to experience it for yourself. And I wouldn't wish most of what I've personally experienced on my worst enemy. And he tried to kill me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:05 PM
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Their lack of emotional availability, lack of emotional intellect, lack of ability to properly regulate their emotions and engage in what is called "Wise-mind". If more men did this, they would be healthy partners. It's primarily because what happens inside, stays inside. People need to talk about their stories more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:27 PM
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Being dishonest works against your best interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:26 PM
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Correct. You would be correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:25 PM
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No, not at all. It's primarily the inability to properly connect in a healthy and constructive way. Communicating effectively, holding space emotionally, practicing vulnerability, making sure to be intimate outside of the bedroom. That would be healthier.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:25 PM
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And that is where things are going wrong. Treating dating like a transaction or a job like that. When it's about partnership and connection. Not transactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:21 PM
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Statistics are absolute bullshit and hardly fully accurate. There aren't enough statistics in the world to properly show what actually happens with people overall. If stats were anything to go off of, then the rate of male victims wouldn't be 1 in every 6. It would be more like 1 in every 2 or 3. Similar to the stats of women. Which are also heavily underestimated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:20 PM
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That's a loaded question. Hard to answer. So I'm not going to bother with more than saying just this piece... Anyone who isn't able to communicate effectively, hold space for their partner's vulnerability, be able to be emotionally available, emotionally stable, well-rounded intellectually.... Tends to be abusive or have abusive tendencies. Many people don't even realize they are being abused or are engaging in abusive tendencies. So again, this is a loaded question. Abuse to me is anything that…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:18 PM
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If only the vetting process was a more accurate method for weeding them out. Thankfully I found mine and it works quite well. Now, if dudes could start being fully 100% authentic from day one, maybe it would be easier to vet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:05 PM
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If only that were true. Most men don't realize they're abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:00 PM
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Thing is, they're supposed to protect us from themselves first and other men second. They don't get that first part though. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:53 PM
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I mean, I've been called a manic pixie for several years now, I used to hate it. Now I use it for business and it works quite well for me. Fantasy is fantasy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:08 PM
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Watch the movie "She's way out of my league" It's actually pretty good and has a good story.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:20 PM
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Bingo. This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:17 PM
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Definitely profiting off of it more than the women they're having sex with are. Key in the orgasm gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:14 PM
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Marital rape is something that became illegal in the 90s. Wasn't very well recognized until the last few decades as a thing. It means once a woman is married she is expected to give herself readily to her husband whether she wants to or not. It is outright required of her. Considering it was legal until the 90s in the US and many other countries... it's only recently that women finally have more choice when it comes to sex in their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:12 AM
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This is how men treat sex with women. I learned that the hard way through sexual experience. Nuff said.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:15 AM
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It goes to show that all women are inherently sex workers in reality. If you want me to put it bluntly. Some of us get paid better than others. Get compensated better or have a better deck of cards given to them in exchange for their essence and sexual services. Some don't. It varies. And yet all comes down to the same thing... Women being seen as property and "something that can be bought".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:24 PM
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It doesn't have to be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:02 AM
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I actually got into the companionship business to help and support the very men you are talking about. And it has made a world of a difference for them and myself. I got tired of being asked where the good guys were. I kept saying they were hiding. Getting shitty advice from the other guys and striking out so they stay home or avoid certain social settings, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:28 AM
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Yep! Many of us are married and partnered. A lot of us are even poly! Not to mention the "Captain save a hoe" team of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:09 PM
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Experience over education any day of the week. I studied psychology on my own and spoke extensively with my therapist about my goals and ambitions and desires to pursue this work. She told me once that I could easily get a psych degree if they would let me test out. Unfortunately for me, testing out isn't an option. Otherwise, I would already have a master's in psychology. According to my therapist anyway. Thank you for the recognition. This job is very taxing. And also very rewarding.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:04 PM
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Omg please! All the homosexuals!!! Dude, I'm sapiosexual and pansexual. I don't like individuals who try and control people's autonomy in relationships. And that's been my experience with monogamous relationships. So I gave up on those years ago and have been poly ever since. I wish I had more women to worship honestly. It's easy as fuck to find men. Harder to find women. My thing is. I don't think anyone should be held down, tied down or kept from living their lives. That's all. I know there ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:55 PM
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Monogamy is slavery when the people in the dynamic lack the same freedoms they had when they were single. Not saying two people can't have a healthy and happy monogamous relationship. I just think it goes against nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:44 PM
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As someone who got into sex work instead of getting a degree in sex therapy (takes way too long and I don't have that kind of time to heal people). I got into the industry to essentially become a sex therapist who has sex with their clients. The amount of emotional support that companions offer their clients is something I would consider social work. Not to mention there have been jobs I've seen and applied to that encouraged sex workers to apply because they consider it a type of social work. E…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:42 PM
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Isn't it though? Imagine sitting in the congress room thinking about how hard you were fucked in the ass the night prior by your hired Domme.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:33 PM
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You're right on that. Many congressman and politicians even have Dommes on standby
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:31 PM
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I have a big issue with not being properly compensated for my time and expertise. It makes me angry when men take advantage of a woman's time and essence. I hate women who don't get money for what they offer to men and then move on with their day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:30 PM
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Okay. Cool story.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:02 PM
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It generally is. When men pursue women and women passively agree to survive. What I'm getting at is not having friends of the opposite sex or being able to explore sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:01 PM
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Not having autonomous freedom is what I am referring to as slavery when it comes to monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:48 PM
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Ahhh okay, I see, yeah. Never really thought about any of that. Then again, I don't view relationships as inherently transactional. Anything I do for my loved ones isn't something I require to be reciprocated or anything like that for the sake of "I did this for you. You do this for me now" Nah. I do things because I genuinely want to. Their level of reciprocation or appreciation is what tells me whether the relationship will be one sided or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:47 PM
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Yeah and it's all absurd to me. Would be nice if people actually dated authentically.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:42 PM
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Who do you think carried the politicians?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:38 PM
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What would you say was the case when women were married off and sold to the highest bidder? Would that not be sexual slavery? Which would in turn be considered sex work in a way?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:37 PM
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ROI? Sort of lost me there... Yeah, fuck dating women. I have a tendency to attract women who use me for sex, money, material gains and housing. I am fed. The fuck up with dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:35 PM
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Funny because you need a degree and a CDL for a garbage truck. The pay is pretty great and they have a lot of incentives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:33 PM
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Absolutely I believe it should be presented as a viable career option for people. It can be life changing when done well. Not to say there aren't plenty of problems within the industry. It's a broad spectrum though. And as an independent worker myself, this is literally my American dream that I am living out. And I am very grateful for the support of my husband and polycule as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:32 PM
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Sex work is one of the oldest professions in the world. And the US was literally built on the backs of sex workers. You must not know the kind of men that actually hire one of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:30 PM
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Sex work is a form of social work. And it truly is a job like any other. It takes a lot of mental and emotional strength to be in the industry. Regardless of what part of the industry you are in. It is not for the faint of heart by any means. And tends to require an above average level of intelligence. My husband and I even made a joke that I show up to career day for our eldest. My kiddo said it wouldn't be a good idea. Thanks to the social stigmatization primarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:21 PM
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I firmly believe monogamy is a form of slavery. And have held that belief most of my life. Having practiced polyamory for over a decade now. Everyone should explore and expand their horizons as long as they're all consenting adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:17 PM
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Hey now, being a companion for hire has been some of the best and most wholesome experiences I've ever had with dudes. Then again, I am really fucking good at my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:36 PM
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This 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:17 PM
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Same, I feel this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:17 PM
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I'm very well aware. Honestly though, I stopped dating women myself ages ago. They're way too much of a headache and I don't have it in me to deal with that. Hiring escorts/professional companions has been much more wholesome overall. I am officially done with dating men and women altogether and have decided to continue companionship to fulfill my wants, needs and desires outside of my polycule. As a man, I would probably do the same thing. Hire escorts and for-go dating altogether. Why date whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:02 PM
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If I were similar in personality to the way I am now? I wouldn't have any trouble dating long term. If I were a completely different person? Well, then we shall see what happens in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:51 PM
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You're onto something. When we live in a society where a woman says a man isn't shit, that man feels like shit because his viewpoint on himself is tied to whatever that woman says to him. If he can't admire and value himself, nobody else will.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:48 PM
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Yep, when I filed my report against someone, they wanted me to fill out a form stating if they find my claims and accusations to be false, they'll arrest me for perjury. So I opted not to finish filing my report. His dad was a captain of the human and sex trafficking department. There would've been no way for me to get a conviction out of him. So best thing was not to pursue. And not sign that paper. He's dead now, thankfully can't hurt anyone anymore. Tried to get a copy of my police report rec…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:06 PM
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"Not all men" but all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:52 PM
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Idk man, I've had a better time in relationships where we were equally relatively obsessed with one another. Is there some hot and cold in it? Sure, you bet your ass. Also plenty of adventures to be had. Explore, experiment. Not to mention the sex... Seriously. If you're not totally interested in each other, what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 01:35 PM
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Why not go on fetlife and find someone there?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 01:38 AM
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I never wanted to have children of my own. I wanted to adopt if anything. Having had two children forced on me, I love them dearly and am beyond grateful to be their mother. Wish the circumstances had been a bit different. It's okay though, the man I found to be their father loves them as much as I do. And he enjoys being a stay at home parent and me being the primary earner of our family. They're my world and everything I do is for them. To make their lives better. If raising children were more…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:51 PM
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I have very few male friends who don't outright want to have sex with me. In general, I enjoy the select few male friendships I have and value them greatly. They give me faith in humanity and help support me in my work to continue to be an active emotional support system for other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:26 AM
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Bingo! Women have the final say in these matters. Especially according to their own logic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 03:06 PM
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Plenty of them. Thank you for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:11 AM
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If you're ever in texas let me know!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 11:08 PM
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You too! Also, I love that for you and you sound like a blast to chill with 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 11:58 PM
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I absolutely am sapiosexual, yes. I am also pansexual. And I identify as Non-binary and am an androgynous person overall. I considered transitioning myself once. I couldn't fathom the idea of giving up the way my body looks as a woman. I am way too good looking and my sex life is pretty fucking amazing. I wish it consisted of more women, doesn't matter whether they're afab, amab, cis-female or what have you. It would be nice to have more overall experience dating and sex with women over men. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 11:50 PM
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It's what's on the inside that matters more than what's on the outside. And a Trans woman is considerably safer than a cis man, at least, that's what I've known. I've never had the opportunity to meet and have an interaction with a post op Trans woman. That would be interesting I'm sure. The surgery is expensive from what I hear. And a gamble at that. I genuinely prefer yoni to penis any day of the week though. It's easier to find penis than yoni though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:54 PM
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Anytime, thank you for posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:21 PM
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She has a point though. They're willing to stick their dicks into anything. There are dudes who try to fuck marine life for fucks sake
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:19 PM
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Dated a Trans guy once. He was a lot. Very dramatic and should not have been cleared by the army for HRT... It turned him into a really aggressive and violent person times ten. He was already someone with a violent streak before the T... We dated about 9 months altogether. And that was over the span of two years. I hope he's okay. And is getting the help he needs. I had to trick him into leaving my house. It was not fun... Trans women though? Girl dick is superb. Sooooo much better than any othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:17 PM
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As much as I talk about the Madonna-Whore complex... I've always been happy and grateful to be the whore over the madonna. I'm also happy to be married to an incredible man who shares in my "whore-ish" ways. Life is sweet Thanks for the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:36 PM
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Why not seek out the college girls then? Then again, it seems you're finding what you're looking for mostly. Less and less women are going out. Especially lately. So that's a factor as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:35 PM
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Austin is a very active city, I'm genuinely not surprised there are many athletic males out there. I suppose I miss them because I primarily go to barbs and I guess they don't frequent there. Why not get jacked yourself then? Or what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:28 PM
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Ahhhh yeah, that makes sense then. I don't go further than dirty 6th if I can help it. Good luck dude. There are plenty of places around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:25 PM
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In Austin?? What bars are you going to over here?? I can't say I see what you're really talking about. Then again, I only go to one bar downtown.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:21 PM
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Yeah, I chose to ignore that part... Anyone who prefers a pimp over an independent is a quack. Glad you chimed in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:40 PM
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I'm sorry to hear your experience with escorts has been less than pleasant. It's unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:32 PM
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I was gonna say this until I saw you say this. This is exactly right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:31 PM
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Some guys like to spend money on women irresponsibly. If that's the way you wanna look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:18 PM
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Yep! Much easier to do estimate that than assume otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:39 PM
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Literally, like, bruh, really? Gtfo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:28 PM
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These days I can smell em from a mile away. They're pretty easy for me to spot and I walk away as fast as I can. It's in their energy. The way they carry themselves and represent themselves. Like they're "untouchable" and yet desirable all in one. When in reality, he's like a prickly thorn bush without the roses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:25 PM
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In her eyes, a sugar daddy is less likely to be childish with his finances and may actually have some semblance of financial and emotional stability enough for her to see it as worth it. Versus general dating. Which is unpleasant it seems these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:57 PM
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Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 05:03 PM
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No, asking for clarification on what exactly you're referring to so I can answer you appropriately
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:45 PM
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What do you mean what does it mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:41 PM
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Smut is not the same as what goes on in real life. Regardless, they're really lucky if that's true. That they haven't been prayed on by anyone. That would be amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:37 PM
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I guarantee your looks are not what is stopping you. It's most likely your behavior patterns overall. "Bad boys" are socially conditioned on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:35 PM
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Rapists are generally already married or coupled when they enact more violence. Y'all don't get it. That's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:32 PM
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I would beg to differ in my experience anyway. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:31 PM
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They vary in physical features. I wouldn't consider any of them attractive in my eyes. Then again, I don't go based off of looks. I go strictly based off of character and personality traits and energy. If I don't like the vibe. I don't interact at all. So yeah. They vary in what they look like. It's all kinds of different dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:31 PM
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Indeed, I do. And again I will state. They're lucky. Because that's pretty fucking rare. And I wonder if they're counting their teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:20 PM
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It's no secret that what they're really looking for is someone to cuddle them and stroke their egos. Give them gold stars and participation trophies for less than the bare minimum levels of effort. It's sad and quite pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:20 PM
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They're lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:15 PM
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Dude, I have a 5 pound can of chili as my "doom" can in the event I get to that point...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:23 AM
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They feel guilty when they do. It's sad to watch. You have a point... I have to keep myself in check or I will over spend myself 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:18 AM
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I know. It's a fine line.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:18 AM
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It really depends on the provider. I've known women who aren't allowed to enjoy themselves because their dudes at home have a problem with it. I've known others who don't enjoy men in general so it's just for the money. And I know a few personally now that actually do enjoy most of what we all do. It's fun, the experiences. Sometimes you gotta fill a need. Or scratch an itch. And so on and so forth... I get what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 03:42 AM
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Excuse me? What the fuck kinda nonsense is that? I enjoy every bit of what I do, if I didn't I wouldn't do it. I was raised to do the job that you love and you'll never work a day in your life. And I would say that is mostly true. This is honestly the best ever for me. Granted, I'm hypersexual and have compulsive sexual behavior so I'm an anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 03:26 AM
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Bad stories with other providers they've hired whether before or after me. I've set the bar for a lot of these guys. Some have lost interest and paid for a session and left without receiving service because they're so off put by the person. And they regret the interactions and spending the money of course. Yes, I have trouble dating women. And this business gets isolating not having anyone to talk to who understands the job and whatnot. So I started hiring providers to talk to and get companions…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:58 AM
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Oh absolutely. I've hired a few providers myself and have worked with some. Only met two who are genuine like myself out of the 5 I've met so far. The stories I have heard from my clients... Some of them are so traumatized they have stuck with seeing me over anyone else. Makes me feel for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:44 AM
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As an escort, I would say yes. My clients frequently state they prefer me over any other interactions they've had. Then again, I actually genuinely enjoyed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:10 AM
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I have a little money on here to give them, yeah. Some comments are too good to pass up. I will take you up on that and reach out shortly. Ooof! Goodnight friend! It's 9pm here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:09 AM
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Gave you an award. And thank you, for real. It gets discouraging at times. My guys take very good care of me and I work diligently to do the same! Your support is always appreciated!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:48 AM
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Isn't it though? Let people have peace for once in a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:44 AM
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It's getting worse and riskier by the day. Gotta find new ways to connect and stay safe. For clients and providers alike. I'm in atx for the record.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:23 AM
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I know, i hate it myself. They give us out here doing this honestly a bad name and it pisses me off how they have fucked up the industry in my country. I am here to help, to support, I consider myself a part time lover, long term friend, I'm here to be their "thunder buddies" and it just so happens this is the career path I chose. I worked at a juvenile detention center for a while a few years ago. They way they treated the boys destroyed me. I had to do something. I got in to study the psycholo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:22 AM
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Not to mention...I am damn good at what I do. I truly believe I was made for this job. The work I do has saved so many lives. Sex work really and truly is God's work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:07 AM
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Because it was a faster route to get into actually helping men with their sexual health, trauma, relationships, etc. Besides going to school for 12 years to get a license in sex therapy. I took the wisest and fastest route. Seeing as men seek out sex workers as their therapists. I did research on sex work and escorting for a decade before getting into the business. Plus, this is the best job I've ever had in my life. It's been life changing in a multitude of ways. And it has helped me regain fai…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:06 AM
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It would be a nice change of pace if they would let us approach them instead. Things would be so much better all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:30 AM
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Raping women doesn't make him more successful. It makes him a part of the problem. To each their own though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:58 PM
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As a sex worker, I wouldn't recommend this to someone unless they have high social skills, high intelligence, the ability to read people very well and the ability to handle high conflict and high amounts of stress. Not to mention the unpredictability of the cash flow and clientele. There is so much that goes into this job.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:57 PM
1

Latter is a rapist and the former is less likely to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:00 PM
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It depends on the woman and two things can also be true at once. I myself can't go anywhere without my boyfriend. Even then, I still get groped in front of him. Dudes really do have the audacity especially lately. It's getting worse where I am. I can't speak for anyone else. Some guy trying to grab my ass while I'm dancing with my boyfriend and enjoying my night? What's up with that? Or approaching me less than 5 minutes after I've walked in the bar or any public place alone? Constantly followin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:10 PM
13

Exhibiting predatory behavior is something we've unanimously experienced as women. They need to wake up and see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:59 PM
9

I'm seeing that... Humiliation kinks are nothing to be ashamed of. He should find himself a good Domme and liberate himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:36 PM
6

Neither are any of my friends. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:34 PM
9

I mean... Most of the women I know fantasize about watching them.... 😅👀 it's situational though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:32 PM
15

Bingo! They don't seem to want to grasp that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:50 PM
2

Yeah it doesn't really work like that. Boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:10 PM
6

I am one myself. Being a companion is isolating. So I started hiring fellow providers to talk to and engage with. It's been really wholesome and helpful overall. Women tend to use me for various reasons. And, I have a kink for spending money on women. So, at least this way it's more straightforward and I also have someone to actually talk to, relate to, work with and have experiences with. It's healing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:09 PM
2

Absolutely!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:08 PM
0

I actually prefer it. And it's nice being able to talk to women who can relate and understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:01 PM
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Exactly, tbh I've begun hiring escorts. Dating women myself is difficult. I always make sure to leave a good impression. It's super important, especially now more than ever I think. Thank you for your posts. You seem like a baddie
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:43 PM
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I don't get it cuz for me, when I'm with women, I'm checking in and asking consent for everything I can or feel the need to. They tend to get annoyed by it, however, I do it anyway. It's part of the process for me. Need them to feel safe, happy and pleased at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:19 PM
1

Still don't get it. It's generally something that happens after they have children with their wives. They lose interest sexually because their wives are no longer considered sexually attractive to them. Which is why they seek out a "whore" which is not a literal "whore". It's usually a lover, a co-worker, a client, a friend, sometimes a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:26 PM
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They wanna make sure their egos continue to be stroked
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:53 PM
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The more experienced, the better the sex... An experienced kinkster like myself must be matched with a similar energy and style. I do like giving a good first experience to new partners. Not required for it to be their "first time" though. That's just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:53 PM
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I'd have to dig for the specific ones. This is something I talk about and work with on a regular basis as part of my profession, as well. The research is there. Look it up yourself. Dead bedrooms and whatnot could be researched as well. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:48 PM
2

You clearly have no idea what the Madonna-Whore complex actually is. It's when a man no longer views his wife (madonna) as a sexual person and begins to view her as he would his mother. What man wants to fuck their mother? So they find a lover (whore) to have sex with them. Because for some reason men can't have sex with their own damn wives. Something doesn't click right in their brains. There's been studies on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:03 PM
1

If only they actually grasped this...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:00 PM
-5

Right? I feel that 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:27 AM
-4

Tbh I'm at a point where they gotta lavish me otherwise I am not interested. Definitely slay Queenz
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:23 AM
3

I will have peace when his family leaves me and my child to be at peace... They won't let us live our lives finally free. It's hard having to figure out how to navigate through life now. Knowing there are so many people who have no idea what actually happened. And think I'm the worst person in the world... All I wanted was safety for me and my kiddo. Wish it didn't take his death to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:45 AM
5

And there it is. This right here. Good day to you. Not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:44 AM
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Because they didn't believe me. Filed a police report, but what can you do when they are the police? Nothing. He's dead now. That was the only way my child and I could be free from him. I still remember when my therapist said to me... "There are only two ways women get out of these relationships. Either he dies or you die. And you don't want to be the one to die." The system tormented me and my family for years. I fought like hell. No one believed me when it mattered. No matter how many times I …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:35 AM
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As a mother who was forced to pay her rapist child support... Fuck you. You have no idea how the system torments mothers and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:28 AM
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This. The risks and dangers that come with so many of these positions and "scenes"... Speaking as someone who performs some of these and it's very uncomfortable. Though, once they enact it, they realize how ridiculous it is and lose interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:15 PM
0

If I'm not interested, I will split the bill. If I am interested, I suggest we take turns paying for things
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 08:37 PM
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They're obsessed with making me happy. Doing whatever pleases me most and best. Keeping me satisfied. I will never go back to regular dating or casual sex. I'm also married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:22 AM
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Then you should research more about sex work in its entirety. A prostitute is primarily someone doing so out of survival, a means to an end. An escort has deeper intent behind her work. As would a dominatrix. And so on and so forth. We all have our roles and parts in this. Don't confuse us for the other please. It degrades our work as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:21 AM
1

My point was that having them as clients means my pleasure is taken into better consideration. They're eager to please in a way dudes who engage in casual sex aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:45 AM
1

I don't think you realize there's a difference between prostitution and escorting/companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:44 AM
1

It entirely depends on what they're seeking me for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:16 AM
1

Literally what it sounds like. People hire me for companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 08:50 AM
1

Kind of obvious... Sex Work
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:25 PM
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So glad you posted this. I've been saying this stuff for years. As someone who reached quadruple digits before her 30s, I'm happier and more sexually satisfied as a hired companion than I ever was during my casual days in my mid-twenties. Tbh, it made a world of a difference when I switched sides. Now I primarily encounter men who are all about me and take very good care of me. It's fucking awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:24 PM
3

Met my husband on Tumblr and then matched on tinder. We'll be married 3 years this summer. He's beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 10:28 AM
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I meet them at the bar usually. Or, used to. It's been ages since I've humored them. I'll say this, these days, I can't go to the bar without my partner. The animosity he feels from the other guys gets to him at times though. And he can't leave my side for even a mere second because a dude will approach me and start grabbing at me almost instantly. It sucks. It really does. I wind up running out of the bar now when I'm by myself. Or I stay home if he doesn't want to go with me. I would never tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 07:47 AM
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Ew, gross. More attractive dudes are honestly some of the worst kinds of dudes out there. Which is how they wind up sexually abusing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:33 PM
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Hold on now... A yes doesn't mean consent is being given.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:20 PM
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Elaborate on this one for me. Dating is a conscious choice, yes. As is a rapist choosing to rape someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:15 PM
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This sounds like victim blaming and saying women who get raped should've "known better"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:08 PM
3

It's annoying, seeing as a lot of the dudes "who get sex" do so by dishonest means and playing games. It's like... They're openly saying they want to be the next predator to "prey" on women... Wouldn't it be nice if they let us pursue them instead of the other way around? Like, maybe, just maybe... If they stopped approaching altogether and let women do the approaching.... Perhaps they'd get more of what they want and not look so creepy and desperate all the time. Perhaps they would actually be …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:19 PM
7

You are the most beautiful person to him ❤️ and that is so lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:12 PM
1

How considerate he is of me and our kids. His emotional availability, that he is my person, my confidant, my best friend and one of two of my favorite men in this world. I love the way his hair is growing back thicker since he got on a hair growth treatment for himself. I love the way he laughs, carries himself, How he's always there to lend a helping hand to someone. The way he looks at me, holds me in his arms. How deeply loving he can be. He gets this glisten in his eyes when he talks about t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:11 PM
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"But I'm a nice guy, come on, come on just give me one chance, you won't be disappointed, I swear" 😤🥱🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:03 PM
2

I have a friend in jail. He was getting beat on by the mother of his toddler. The police pulled her off of him. She had him arrested. He's been in for almost a year and has 10 months left to go. It's sad. Very fucking sad. The system needs to be dismantled and started over. That way this can be marked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:30 AM
2

If this is the case... Why do men trap women with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:31 AM
2

Since when are men accountable for their behaviors?? That's a new one to me. Reactive abuse = reaction to something abusive happening to them and retaliating in response. Everyone is capable of this. It happens to be women more often because men are considerably more likely to abuse women than women are to abuse men. The problem is... Most of what is actually abuse, is considered "normal" by society. And it's only recently been discovered that this is not the case. So there is more that needs to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:30 AM
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Look into Adverse Childhood Experiences. Take the ACES quiz. This will help answer your question. Men's abusive tendencies come from what they witnessed as children. As do women's. It's all in how we are raised and brought up. Women are prey to men. So generally its how we have learned how to unconsciously operate over time. The conditioning gets strong with it. Especially if traumatic events continue to occur throughout her life at the hands of men. Her neuro system eventually equates all men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:58 AM
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This applies to all genders and gender identities. Ridiculous how people do that. I dated one Trans man. One. And he punched a hole in my wall for trying to talk to him about sexual boundaries. 🙄 the testosterone really fucked him up. And he had untreated trauma. He was, in fact abusive though. He chose to abuse me. He knew what he was doing. And I am glad he is gone now. And hopefully getting the help he needs. I am not saying someone with untreated trauma cannot be abusive. I am saying there i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:24 AM
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I'm going based off of what you said about reactions from women. And stating from what I know about psychology and women, including myself. And my own trauma responses. I am not dismissing, nor saying that there are women out there who make dramatic arguments come out of thin air. Or intentionally sabotage things within the relationship. I've dated plenty of abusive women to know and understand how they can be. And also to know the difference between an abusive woman and a woman with untreated t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:18 AM
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Sure. Because provoking a dog and then wondering why it bit you is narcissistic reasoning. Okay guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:11 AM
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Reactive defense, otherwise known as reactive abuse. Is that what you're referring to? Because that's in a reaction to whatever is being thrown at them at the time. So no, it's not the same as abuse. They're being abused and are fighting back. It's a trauma response. Very common. Controlling, manipulative and degrading behavior... Yeah, women tend to do that. It's another means of survival. Unless they're someone with NPD or something of the sort. Less common. Far too many of us have such levels…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:05 AM
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Bingo! You are right about that! The lack of self-awareness being a contributing factor. Inability to see one's actions or anyone else's point of view outside of their own. The impact of said actions. And the responsibility that comes with it. Fools
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:56 AM
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A lot of men also heavily underestimate their own behaviors. They don't think they're abusive because they aren't "physically" abusive or some other excuse they use to rationalize their behavior. They aren't as bad as the other guy is so it can't be that bad. She doesn't have any bruises, so it's not really abuse. Blah blah blah. Many of them think they're "well-meaning" and need a huge wake up call. That being said, abusers indeed know how to pick their targets. Their radars are very good at se…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:25 AM
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I'm an escort. Not a prostitute. Big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:42 PM
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Right. Tell them to go away. For them to threaten me with bodily harm. Or get in my car anyway like one guy did. I'm 5ft and 100 pounds. Easier to give in than it is to risk death.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:20 PM
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Who said women don't think men have feelings? Men are genetically the more emotional ones. Their genetic make up has proven this for years. Women are actually more ideological and self-regulated more often than men are. This is also another proven fact by science, sociology and psychology. I don't know a single woman who thinks men lack emotions. I know plenty of women who think men lack emotional depth and intelligence. Because they often do. Due to the way the systems in place work. Women who …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:37 PM
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Right? Like, what's the difference here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:17 PM
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You learn how to treat your partner by learning your PARTNER. Not by being "taught" like it's some blanket one-size-fits-all... Human beings don't work this way. Not everything works for everyone. We are all vastly different. Living different lives. With different perspectives, perceptions and overall viewpoints and desires. This wouldn't be effective in any sense. Learning your partner through your partner is the best and most effective way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:17 PM
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My sex drive only plummets when I'm with a male who I have to play "mommy" to. Besides that, I am feral. LITERALLY FUCKING FERAL. I am the kinda hypersexual woman who will rip the clothes off of you if you let me. One of my partners and I have sex multiple times a day and it's not enough for me. He feels defeated a lot of the times because that's his main role in our relationship is to fulfill me sexually. I think he puts too much on himself at times though. And there are other ways he takes car…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:54 PM
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My fault for what? Existing in public spaces? Is that how it's my fault? Because I genuinely don't get where they get the idea that I want to go home with them. When I would rather not be bothered by them at all and would love for them to get away from me and let me enjoy my day in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:25 AM
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Find the feral ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:49 AM
1

Pretty frequently, actually. Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:30 AM
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Being coerced into sex countless times is not what I would call choice. But sure. Think what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:44 PM
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My bestie had the shock about it yesterday. We were talking and I said that it amazes me how this is true. And she said its crazy to her because societally we are told the opposite is true. I've never met more men in my life who are all about me, obsessive about my pleasure, safety and comfort until now. It's amazing. I started recommending other women charge for their time as well. So they can have better experiences too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:08 PM
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Is it? I don't know. Maybe it is. I'm glad my sexual experiences have gotten better and more fulfilling overall. Who knew I needed to get paid for my time and companionship in order to be treated like a person of value by men. Had I known this before, I would've started earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 06:53 PM
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They say that. Until it happens to them. And then they change tunes fast. Like the guys that say they want a woman with a high sex drive. Until they feel used up and tormented because they can't keep up with her. I would love to see more men being selective and actually appropriately choosing partners. It would be so much better all around if they did. They would have more fulfilling relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 06:51 PM
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Years ago, sure. When I was naive and unaware. "Nice guys finish last" they say. And it's very true. Unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 06:49 PM
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And I do see right through them. Like glass. It's so easy these days. Thank you for posting this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:43 PM
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It gets easier to catch guys doing this over time. They hate it. Some don't realize what they're doing is negging. That's another thing though...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:40 PM
2

There are a couple of spots in the butt for both men and women...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:39 PM
1

Oh M GEE. You know where the g spot is? You know the g spot and the clitoris are the same thing right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:34 PM
0

Ding ding ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:29 PM
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Thats the thing. This is their 9 to 5. Its not your world to really understand. Everybody in this world lives their own separate lives from everybody else. Why hate them for loving theirs when you're just living yours. Whether its blue collar all the way to some big tiddy goth girl playing games. Facts is somebody somewhere is paying for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:37 PM
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Seeing it more each day, it's absurd. There's more to life than what happened in childhood and repeating the cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:29 PM
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I strictly see autistic men as my clientele... like, it's literally specifically iterated that I am neurodivergent friendly. Because I, myself, am neurodivergent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:29 PM
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What is your problem with wanting to just do better for your partner for the sake of doing better? It's self awareness. All I'm saying is the men I've been with have some sort of short coming i.e smaller dick, tend to know that and make up for it with great fucking tongue work. Or something of the sort. Like, great food... Oh man... Or desserts... Oh dear lord... Oh fuck. OH A MAN WHO CAN COOK, MAKE PASTRIES, EAT MY PUSSY LIKE A PASTRY and then cuddle me to sleep??? DUDEEEEEEEE. YESSSSSSSSSSS!!!…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:28 PM
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Indeed. You can't be right about something that is your own perspective and isn't shared 100% with other people's perspectives. Life isn't high school. There are very different experiences throughout the globe that we all have. Not everyone has the same drama, trauma, life experiences as the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:19 PM
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Autists, I like that one. 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:15 PM
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That's not what that is. It's not a humiliation thing. We all get paid by men in some way or another. Literally. There's no difference than getting paid from a 9 to 5 job. It's all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:14 PM
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You're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:13 PM
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I don't think you quite get what I am saying... Let me try and break it down a bit. I, personally am sapiosexual. So I don't date or have sex with men or even humor men based on physical attributes alone. That being said... A lot of men believe women are shallow and go for looks first or looks overall versus personality over looks. I go for characteristics and behavioral traits overall first. How someone communicates, their level of intellect, ability to hold deep and philosophical conversations…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:12 PM
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Right? It's like there's other perspectives and possibilities out there...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:04 PM
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I've worked a lot of places. I remember that life. I stopped working for people and started working for myself. Being my own boss made all the difference. Though... I will say, the time spent as a juvenile supervision officer was probably the worst experience I had.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:04 PM
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The guys I know love it. Getting paid to sit on another man's dime is a turn on for a lot of dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:02 PM
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If dudes with deep-seated insecurities feel the need to overcompensate, I see it as a positive. They're taking their insecurities and over taking them by focusing on what they can control. Can't control height or dick size. Can control tongue game, hands, toys, etc etc. It also means they're more willing to listen and improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:58 AM
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Do things like this still exist out there? I must be out of the loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:55 AM
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With high school being such a small demographic in comparison to how the rest of the world operates...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:27 AM
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I love this. The accuracy is fire 🔥 Vibe check is everything ✨️ the things I could say at times. It's so much to unpack though. The way you have worded it here is so on point 👉 and I couldn't agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:26 AM
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I love this. The accuracy is fire 🔥 Vibe check is everything ✨️ the things I could say at times. It's so much to unpack though. The way you have worded it here is so on point 👉 and I couldn't agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:24 AM
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The Emo night I attend on a monthly basis would beg to differ... Plenty of big tittie goth girlies who love anime and video games. Have their own twitch/streams going and so on... It's a whole thing out here. I can say I have my own troubles with the two things. However, I love studio ghibli and classic video games and arcades. So... There's a balance for me to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:20 AM
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Vomit inducing comment here for me personally. I've learned, the "hotter" looking a guy, the worse of a time I will have in bed with him. Like, its a near 100% guarantee that the sex will leave me feeling like an idiot for even humoring him in the first place. I stopped going for physical attributes ages ago when it came to sex and it made a huge difference in my sexual experiences overall. Seemingly "less attractive" guys have a tendency to heavily overcompensate in some way. Therefore, they te…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:10 AM
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As a woman who has experienced this so many times I've lost count... It's really defeating. Ruined dating for me. I turned to SW and will never look back. Best decision I made for my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:08 AM
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Having far too many options is a fucking problem they don't understand 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:06 AM
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Less abusive relationships sounds so threatening... /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:05 AM
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It would be nice if men wanted me for my personality and not my looks. I've only recently begun to experience men who want me for who I am and not because of how I look. It's made a world of a difference in my dating and sexual experiences. Which, for the record, I've had sex with far more than a life time's worth of men tenfold for the average woman. So... It's really really nice to be gaining more positive experiences with men overall. 😌 Men should focus more on personality than looks. It woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:03 AM
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This. It goes hand in hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:21 AM
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Damn. This is beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:04 AM
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I've had a variety of sexual experiences since before I met my now partners and after we met and partnered up. And the last time I was single I was celibate, that was a long time ago. These days I have so much sex that if I don't want sex, there's something going on. My sex life has vastly improved over the last two years in a multitude of ways though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:14 AM
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I'm so glad you posted this...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:37 AM
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I like your post. For me, I crave sex like a human needs oxygen or water to survive. Granted, I have CSBD so... It comes with the territory unfortunately 🙃 can't say I have met a woman who feels the same or similar to myself. Always wondered. Sex for me is like drinking the finest water there is when I'm with someone I enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:10 AM
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As someone who has hired a few providers... I honestly prefer hiring a provider over going on a date with a woman I matched with online or met out while socializing. It's easier, and the conversation is much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:15 PM
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