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whatever they don't like to be perceived as
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:19 PM
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"Nothing for his wife, or her happiness." if her happiness doesn't also make me happy then it's a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:03 PM
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uh, so what are we gonna do with all these women here worried about being perceived as a "insert something"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:01 PM
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a lot of men have to build themselves first to be attractive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:09 PM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:54 AM
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because if men want children they will want women that can have them without complications
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:53 AM
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what kind of men tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:52 AM
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well then it's a win-win, I also like women in their 40s just not for LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:52 AM
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if you like her and if your values match propose to her, easy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:16 AM
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childless fit and successful men in their 40s and women in their 40s(and even high 30s) are not LTR peers, why so many women have a problem to accept that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:13 AM
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the problem is guys sometimes get carried away and talk too much so she thinks he is too self-centered
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:08 AM
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first and foremost I let her talk more than me and if I talk its usually something casual, back in the day I was a nerd that for some reason thought women would be fascinated with nerdy things...turned out they werent
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:32 PM
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Besides working on myself I have also learned how to make women feel relaxed in my presence. I don't know if "learned" is a good verb here but I have definitely become better at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:14 PM
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What do you all think? That redpill is actually found by bluepillers that intentionally give bad advice to men so they would have more women for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:05 PM
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what exactly happened beforehand, was she allowed to leave the scene or she was kidnapped? If she was allowed to leave then I don't understand how it could be considered a rape. Feel awkward? Just go away, if he follows you report him to the police. It seems to me a lot of women like to give vague answers so they could say tomorrow they didn't give consent if they were not satisfied with the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:03 PM
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I have always said that older women are better in sex, but younger women will become older and older women will never become younger. Also there is a difference between women in their 30s and their 40s, women in their 40s often have kids, can't get pregnant anymore(or the chance is extremele low especially with contraception) so they are way more relaxed in sex and don't think about things women in 30s think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:11 PM
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Plus they also have zero issues with other power gaps this, they should at least be consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:16 PM
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just threw him out? Here where I live he'd likely end up dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:10 PM
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Women may be judged more harshly over shaving, makeup, nails, and other cosmetic details, but those are not the only standards that matter. also its usually the other women that judge them more than men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:50 AM
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They bring sandwiches and I want them to add more cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:33 PM
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the percentage is "a bit" different
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:30 PM
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non-abusive guys deserve better than someone who is obviously going to despise them, so I'd say she better keeps her standards whatever they are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:00 AM
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As a man - nope. Find what your problem exactly is and solve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:58 AM
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hoping that eventually i find someone who lokes me for me where I'm not being an asshole... and its shockingly hard. I am there as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:18 PM
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I know a lot of men and women, I know what the averages are and their experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:16 PM
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I am talking about average as in half of persons their sex are more attractive and half are less attractive, hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:01 PM
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anyone without rose tinted glasses can see that, average men regularly stay virgins until their 30s even if they try, an average woman will lose her virginity before 20 without even trying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:50 PM
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it is weird but they are allowed to have a preference, the same way gay people also have a preference despite some of us finding it weird
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:19 PM
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uh, an average 20yo girl will have way more experience than an average 35yo guy provided they invested the same effort in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:14 PM
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sometimes TRP exaggerates because a realistic advice doesn't sound that "frightening" as it should, for example "smoking makes you gay" stickers on cigarettes would deter some people from smoking despite the statement not being true, so in order for men to actually listen to the advice TRP sometimes claims silly things about women, so AWALT is not true, negging doesn't work most of the time etc. etc. the point is that non-TRP men sometimes take women too seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:27 PM
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and risk a divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:13 AM
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some men endure a lot of pain in life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:32 PM
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Has knowledge of male nature just disappeared in the last two generations or smth? I wanted to ask this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:41 PM
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well a lot of men would accept some pain if it meant the child is sure theirs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:14 PM
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also women should not date men that don't like them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:54 PM
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men would absolutely support it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:27 AM
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hey I thought women were about equality, we cant be equal if you have the information that the child is yours and we dont
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:27 AM
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if paternity test was obligatory we wouldn't be getting these silly threads
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:21 PM
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yupp
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:48 PM
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the average women can't really choose once they turn 30, unless they are choosing someone for casual, even avg men are getting increasingly more aware of the game and rejecting relationships on bad terms they once would accept when they were younger so it's basically a Chad for casual or someone she would really despise for something more serious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:47 PM
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A reasonable standard is dating someone in your percentage bracket. That is if you are monogamous. If you don't mind "situationships" then standards have no meaning at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:22 PM
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There is no bluepilled bartender or a hotel receptionist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:16 PM
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I am the man and I don't have a feeling that most women hate me because I am the man. Of those who do they are usually so pathetic and full of negative energy that I wouldn't interact with them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:48 PM
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Women are harassed more in the street than they were 10/20 years ago. ehh could be just those imported "doctors and engineers", people don't just randomly start harassing women on the street because they saw the manosphere content and even the manosphere content doesn't propagate that, it may actually make men avoid women more
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:46 PM
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men build not just financial value but also they start figuring out how to physically appeal to women get dressed better go to the gym be more selfconfident etc. its not just money
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:44 PM
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nah those men know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:39 AM
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I think those men know it's unattractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:32 AM
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some of you do, and if you belong to those "some" then it obviously wasn't meant for you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:44 AM
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Well then you women have a great opportunity to dismantle this hegemonic masculinity and start preferring non-hegemonic-masculine men. So are you going to do your part?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:22 AM
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men bad women good we got it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:46 PM
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(people’s behavior often changes when you’re living together vs just spending a lot of time together) yupp, people often oversee this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:20 PM
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it's not just beckys, all women viscerally want the best possible genes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:31 AM
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that has nothing to do with my question, women between 20 and 25 that date men between 20 and 25 are attracted to a very small percent of those young guys, don't put older men now into this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:59 PM
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men between 20 and 25 don't look for younger girls
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:35 PM
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we are talking about the same age range, women between 20 and 25 want only a small percentage of men between 20 and 25
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:48 AM
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Why are you dating women 25 years younger than you? Why most women don't want to date in their percentage bracket?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:11 PM
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It looks like what a ChatGPT would make if you asked it to make as shallow song as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:14 AM
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quite obviously, the question is why is it allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:04 AM
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There are a lot of men that would be happy with their wifes being breadwinners. But women usually aren't attracted to such men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:37 AM
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"Older men frequently operate under the assumption that they are highly desirable to younger women. " Eh, how many older men you know to make that assumption. At one point in life men come to the conclusion that women in their 40s and their 20s will cost them about the same(not just money but also time), so that's usually how age gap relationships begin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:25 PM
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having a good time with women doesn't include only "sleeping"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:47 AM
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you are again getting it all wrong, if TRP took away women rights there wouldn'be so many women willing to do casual with TRP guys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:38 PM
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Well I'd say that maybe 10% of the couples are genuinely happy with each other, so that leaves 90% of men and women "settling".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:18 PM
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the courage(rather the audacity) to approach women has nothing to do with other things in life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:55 AM
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most playas I know aren't scared of approaching women but they are scared to turn on the washing machine, not to mention engage into a fight with another man so now tell me why would it be important to your offspring that their biological father isn't fearful to approach other women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:17 AM
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you are majoring in physics, your way of thinking is offputting to most of women, learn to live with it while women say they want someone smart, it means mostly street smart, not book smart and especially not physics smart, it's unknown for them and unknown is scary
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:38 AM
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43y, 5 approaches, got the contact from 4 of them and 1 I am dating, 1 quite pissed that I started dating this one since we went deep into conversation but she was always postponing the meeting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:46 PM
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A lot of young women seem to be undersocialized as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:39 PM
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very often a guy says "I want to be something more" and stops contacting her but she insists on maintaning the contact acting like he never asked that (and in the meantime bragging to all her friendies that he asked her for something more)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:37 PM
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that's absolutely true, however more often than not women intentionally make it like the guy could have the chance one day instead letting the "friendship" go
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:59 AM
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yeah if feelings had an on/off button
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:30 PM
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feelings are not the shadow, either they faked the feelings from the beginning or they faked not having them later
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:29 PM
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it's actually true, and sometimes they like to brag about it to their friends
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:27 PM
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being a friend goes both ways, you can't decide if someone is your friend, the same way you can't decide if someone is your partner if he doesn't agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:18 PM
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you can't "stay friends" with someone who doesn't want to be a friend, if you don't break a contact you are deceiving him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:14 PM
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I don't do quickies and see no point in them, you might be right in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:12 PM
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I don't think that non-autistic women miss the red flags, it seems to me they just ignore them if they find the guy attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:07 PM
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maybe, but also men that don't want children and don't want to wear condoms find infertility a plus
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:02 PM
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I have a larger member (if 7" is large, measured from the top), with a good foreplay and chemistry it's (almost) never a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:01 PM
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The media and porn has warped a lot of minds. Heck even a lot of women can’t handle 6.5-7 inches without significant discomfort. uhh, no, women that can't handle 7 inches are either very tiny or totally sexually inactive/virgins (most probably the second) women pretending it's painful so they would make their guy feel bigger is another thing tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:11 AM
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I do think it's pretty common for a man to lose sexual interest in his wife as she ages out of her fertile years and for him to secretly (or not so secretly) lust after younger women. I think it also depends on the wife, it's not the fertility that's the problem (most men with kids don't want more kids at that age), it's more her becoming disinterested and having a starfish sex once a month if even that. I know happy older couples where guys don't cheat, but they have very active sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:06 AM
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do you claim that bad things happen only to women or?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:03 PM
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So he has no idea how they would treat the woman on those dates. and if he treated her well who knows how he would treat her after 20y of marriage...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:46 PM
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40+ women can be crazy in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:15 PM
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there are a lot of such men that can't get a gf, how do you explain it then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:29 PM
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the guys dating them obviously don't consider it "dating down", you have to ask women that were left out despite thinking they were a better catch
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:21 PM
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because a lot of men value peace/loyalty/chastity over looks, the whole problem with dating is that women expect men to treat them better because of their money and status and men expecting women to treat them better because they are peaceful and loyal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:33 AM
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men can't bear children, women can't make children, those are both flaws and weaknesses, including many others inherent to men&women, saying a cow can't climb a tree doesn't mean someone hates the cows
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:01 PM
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women are not bad per se (or at least not worse than men), they are however also not the perfect beings as they sometimes are portrayed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:29 AM
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for money no, but if I could go back in time to do some things differently in a couple of situations..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:32 AM
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there is now way to prove if one could or not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:29 AM
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Being Asian would be your only possible out. why? She's drunk. Her initiating is irrelevant. Say no. we are both drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:12 PM
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The caveat to this is that generally speaking men can drink more than women and also, as far as I know, metabolize it better. So if he sobered up and she didn't before the sex happened, he's got no out. Ahh I thought we were equal, so if we drank the same amount of alcohol and she is the one initiating it then I am the rapist because I metabolise alcohol better, have I got that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:07 AM
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Sorry Monica Belucci we didnt recognize you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:24 PM
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If sexual harrassing was so widespread and women were genuinely worried like it's claimed here on PPD there is no way there would be so many women in hostel dormitories. Sometimes they are even a majority, sleeping in underwear with totally unknown men around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:43 PM
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it does look like that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:56 AM
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I would like all wars to stop and all the hunger to disappear but that's not how the world works. Ideally women should go for their percentage tier but I understand it's in their nature to punch up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:08 AM
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Because religion is a bluepilled fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 07:32 PM
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umm, most of us believe those women exist
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 06:45 AM
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no, the reason is they just want to annoy men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:43 PM
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well there is a lot of "competitive" sex in Olympic villages hah
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:01 PM
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"If you’re not going to give someone the same leeway and the same level of dedication and attention as you would “your type”, please leave them alone. " They just want to set themselves superior in a relationship and they would say that to their typest type. When I hear that I just say ah OK I think I already wasted it, was nice meeting you. Because I know what awaits me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:06 PM
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I see these threads quite often, but I haven't noticed a lot of men claiming they must have a partner against that partners will. The men who would want that are very rare, men want to be desired otherwise percentage of guys going to prostitutes would be much higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:40 PM
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So women are fine with guys that have low n count but not fine with those that have high n count. How do those guys accumulate the n count then if women are not fine with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:37 PM
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Nope, things started going downwards since social networks were introduced. Apps just capitalised on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:46 AM
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Uhh I have a Chad friend and some women can be very persistent and pushy even so more than men. None of my female friends have experienced such persistence from men like he has from some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:56 PM
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a lot of french maids on this sub..."Why do men have to stare when I wear a miniskirt boohoo I dont do that why are men so creepy" "Why did this guy become infatuated with me when I told him he has beutiful eyes, I just wanted to make friendiiies"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:18 AM
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how is using apps making it easier for you to ignore men you meet in RL? Do the men have a sensor that you are using apps so they approach you less?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:31 AM
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because a lot of women pick their partners based on the validation of other women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:21 PM
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well they usually dont like circa 99% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:54 AM
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the same, but for some reason they want us to not believe our own experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:48 AM
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it's not a guarantee but it's way more probable that you would be more respected in a relationship by undesirable guy than by someone who has other options on the tap, so you contradict yourself there quite a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:41 AM
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I remember one gf that wanted to do only missionary because "other positions are just for whores". Yeah, she cheated on me...supposedly that was OK in her book.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:27 PM
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she probably had arranged a meeting with Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:04 PM
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I would like her to value me for my bench press strength, but the squat would also do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:59 PM
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I mean it's a numbers game for women as well, the more men she meets the bigger the chance she'd find a compatible partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:52 PM
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how would you know if those are just friends or for example business partners, I am not ditching my business partner because he cheats on women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:58 PM
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And these are the men that maybe a lot of women calibrate their own games to. This is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:56 PM
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I have never done it and I would find it weird if she would disclose in details her intimacy she had before.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:55 PM
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Staying into relationship is more random than getting into one, as it depends on myriad of factors. That's why TRP focuses mostly on getting into one, as for most men it's actually the hardest part.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:56 PM
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it is, but they still have success, which means women that do casual care about other things more than how thinks of her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:54 PM
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I have no desire being just a warm blowup doll. sorry but for men that want casual you are just a warm blowup doll whatever way you put it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:19 AM
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my sense of attractiveness in men is based on men women look to and that's definitely way below 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:24 AM
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Exactly. It's like builders trying to split planks to see if they will break, those who don't break are being used later to stand on. Women are doing the same with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:15 AM
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a western europe woman will moan about men being creepy and dangerous and then she will sit on a bicycle and go to a lone trip to China through many Asian countries
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:29 AM
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If you cant have fun in a stable relationship then you have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:40 AM
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Actually men are the ones responsible for the whole situation. It's basically a "covert contract" amongst top men, otherwise they wouldn't sleep with women way below their SMV and those women woulnd't have inflated egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:26 AM
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A lot of men realise how things work later in life and only then they start investing in themselves(as much as they should). That's why for those men later years are a bit better than their 20s or even 30s. Me included.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:24 AM
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almost everyone in those circles had pictures with them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:33 AM
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she should earn way way more if she wrote a book about how bad he is and I have no doubts that at least 90% of western women would do it (even before the first elections)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:33 AM
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Melania had the opportunity to throw him under the bus, make up something about him and become a feminist hero when he was at his lowest and almost jailed. But she didn't and instead she stayed loyal which is obviously smtg western women who are not capable of that can't forgive her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:28 AM
2

they notice every inch of difference (in heigth or length)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:09 AM
1

dunno about 5k but Im running 10k consistently under an hour my record is 56 min, mind you I am 250 lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:08 AM
2

She knows, he can.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:54 AM
0

that has nothing to do with my question
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:40 AM
2

Men feel they deserve (solely for having a penis and existing) any options they want. really? Can you point to such a post or a comment in this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:38 PM
3

( small group of specific men). would be good if other women would also admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:59 AM
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but my butterflies...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:16 PM
1

I get peeked by more...maybe I shouldn't go out naked I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:23 PM
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Not always, but there are many that are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:48 PM
3

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 10:57 AM
8

I am RP and I like doing nice things for the woman that does nice things for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:23 PM
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Its because if women trust him it means he is safe... and has very little to do with his desirability to those women... and to us. Preselection is ablut trusting the man to be safe and not because we think since other women find something sexy about it, we also wanna see whats so sexy about him sorry I dont buy it, popular guys are usually quite "rough" with women, while non-popular guys are mainly those who'd absolutely do no harm, partly because they wouldnt want to lose the woman as they woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 09:17 PM
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definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 09:03 PM
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I am a 250lb powerlifter with amateurish experience in BJJ/wrestling/MMA. I could probably beat any woman on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:00 AM
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If a man meets a woman and admits he just wants sex. Not a relationship. Just NSA sex ideally. And the woman says she wants something more serious. That is not a case of her “not being able to handle the truth.” we lack context here, if she wants a relationship with someone that has higher SMV but doesn't want with someone at her level then she indeed can't handle the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:39 AM
1

well you do have to run faster if you want to catch the last train
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:13 PM
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whats the percentage of men that could get organic attraction from a woman they would inform they just want a ONS with? Also not the landwhales and anorexic junkies .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:33 AM
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then why would he want to go to the next one just to have worse sex? he said he just wants to pile up numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:24 AM
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pay professionals, you will likely have much better sex and you wont risk getting your reputation ruined by a crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:31 PM
2

there are more virgins over 25 than you'd think
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:13 PM
1

how come NYPD allows this? Unless she is just AI
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 10:56 AM
1

yupp
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:55 PM
4

a guy who’s exposed to 1k women and wanted by 90% of them that guy doesnt exist
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:35 AM
4

In my experience 4/5 men are rapists. 4/5 men are not rapists even in a Mexican jail, you were likely selecting for sexually abusive men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:34 AM
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exactly, the revelation was that there were so many other men with similar experience (I knew there had to be others, just not that many)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:14 AM
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it could tho, it's not anecdotal if it's anecdotal for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:39 PM
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nice evasion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 08:12 AM
1

Would she be able to confide in you when she’s unhappy/stressed/struggling or no? ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 08:12 AM
2

Do you also profile on race/religion?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 04:37 PM
-2

I think that even 5 years old understand the word pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 04:37 PM
0

women also do bad things to women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:01 PM
-1

pleasant to be around
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:58 PM
1

generally negative energy, either from bad relationships or other things
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:58 PM
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I just want her not to bring frustrations and bad intentions, also to limit spending time with such persons as well. Then I will bring everything needed to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:23 AM
2

Yeah, I would cold approach her just to make sure she'd reject me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:05 AM
0

exercise should solve most of your problems
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:10 PM
0

Try to find a sincere person to tell you if the guy is (way) higher on a percentile scale than you, because then it 99% won't work. Dating someone at your level is still not any guarantee but at least the chances are much higher that it will work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:31 PM
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I just want someone to spend pleasant time with and uplift each other. It's also nice to have feminine energy around, we are meant to be together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:29 PM
2

Sounds good, what do you think you still have to fix?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:26 PM
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fewer women date vs men because some men can be really fucking scary. the scarier man is the more dating prospects he has, guys are literally tattoing themselves and mutilating their bodies with piercings to look more scary and get more women the safest guys on the other side rarely get a date let alone a relationship, unless they are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:27 AM
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Being depressed or otherwise mentally unwell literally makes you less capable of rational thought. I see women behaving less and less rational as therapy becomes more popular so those therapists arent really doing a good job then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:46 AM
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how much have men prioritized morality and goodness in the women they pursue sexually? good and moral women never had the problem to find a good man, at least not the one with similar SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:45 AM
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not good at reading body language and cues that indicate disinterest and being “creepy” as a result of that being good at that wouldn't change the outcome though, she wouldn' be interested either way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 07:32 AM
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oh they do absolutely make sense as long as they are ready to share the man with other women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 07:30 AM
3

no, just a doorman
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:21 PM
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women should have more personal integrity and be less susceptible to advice from their friends/magazines/social media etc. especially when it comes to things man cannot change (like height, race, horoscope sign etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:19 PM
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doing things for someone without reciprocation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:52 AM
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I opted out of many relationships I knew in advance wouldn't work. A lot other men are single for the very same reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:42 AM
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I pretty cynically believe is that most relationships with super large gaps (age, monetary, class, education, attractiveness, etc) are just not sustainable in the long-term, well, since the older person doesn't have many years left...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:35 AM
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I don't befriend women when I get into relationship and I expect her to do the same. If she had a friend from before then it's OK, unless she puts him in front of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:30 PM
1

I was curious and I have entered "average 25 year old guy" in google image search, I definitely know guys in their late 30s that look like that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 11:34 PM
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this guy (abuses steroids) is 26 on the left and 23 on the right, I deffo look younger as a 43yo than him at 26 :) https://i.redd.it/mkhnhs6hv0yd1.png
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 11:04 PM
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very responsible, her kid is gonna love growing up without the father
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:29 PM
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why do you assume a young looking 37yo would have a mind of a 60 year old? I look younger myself, when I tell my age some women give up some dont mind, it's funny there were women in their late 30s that didn't like I am 43, as they are themselves only into younger guys (everybody has preferences I guess)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:12 PM
5

'Just be yourself' 'Develop your personality' those two cant go together
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:18 PM
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which are those?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:35 PM
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would you date a superhealthy and superyoung looking 37yo? Let's say that his biological age is 25 for example and you could somehow know that he'd have at least 30 fit&active years ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:21 PM
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many times it's just an advice to diet down which women think is bullying, for some women anything but praising her queenness is bullying
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:16 PM
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well I never actually thought about that, it also seems to be a very strange question :) are you going to open a new business? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:32 AM
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why would they if they can just fuel gender/race/nation wars between the poor
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:11 AM
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in a western country? Not even 5% of them. It also depends if they have an addiction of sorts, with junkies that percentage would certainly be a bit higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:29 PM
1

whatever makes you sleep better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:22 PM
1

I think you might have mixed RP and BP...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:13 AM
1

negating the life experience of hundreds of men only in this sub is miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 09:05 AM
2

it doesn't work for everyone, not even for the majority but you can't know if it will work for you if you never try
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:05 AM
5

The most effective and productive advocacy of the red pill is the most basic stuff that’s not exclusive to the red pill. but somehow it's TRP that pushes a lot of men to do those things, otherwise they'd have done them before
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:04 AM
3

so do women like to be manipulated or they are very bad at assessing they are manipulated?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:21 PM
1

their friendies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:18 PM
1

not nearly as many
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:17 PM
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I don't doubt you are, but this sub discusses attraction between sexes, not doing things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:31 PM
1

99% of men would likely give their ass for $1B, technically speaking 99% of men are bisexuals, it's just the economy that is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:30 PM
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the situation is the same with me, I have also vastly improved, some young women give up when I tell them my age (43 and they usually think I am around 30-35, 10 years ago it was vice versa as I was a slob), some who don't care about numbers don't
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:26 PM
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your average woman of any age expects a popular guy to ditch better options and settle for her, delusion comes in many forms
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:24 PM
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genuinely yes, Trudeau is too much agreeable person and she likely wouldn't be into it there were also richer(and older) guys than Trump she could marry, but it's probably his "crazy bold" side that attracted her besides his money
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:19 PM
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I'm out here as middle aged man fucking women your age because all they want is someone that isn't a chauvinist Young women liked men with cars,and money. They have always liked edgy dangerous men. OK unc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:28 AM
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I can't remember the exact scenario but I believe that happens too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:21 AM
0

well marriage is a contract and women are better traders
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:18 AM
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Nobody introduces themselves as an abuser or a narcissist. most of toxic relationships I know of started with her very well knowing who she is getting into relationship with, but "I will change him" is stronger than advice of her friends/family
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:53 PM
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that is true, however if a man is fit and lives a healthy life there is a chance he will be very vital until 90+, at that point she will be 75-80 so not exactly young either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:49 PM
1

yeah but for some young 25yo women an attractive 35yo man that wants to settle is better than non-attractive 25yo man
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:48 PM
3

now you are assuming that 99% of red pillers are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 03:21 PM
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just print "I am a feminist cook for yourself you mysoginist" and put it on the table, way easier
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:22 AM
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I like it but I am not sure you would want a boyfriend that would pick you based on it...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:20 AM
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it's not like same age marriages are very succesful either nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:38 PM
1

yeah but an older attractive man is willing to settle with an average young woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:33 PM
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younger attractive man is always more attractive than an older attractive man, but how many young attractive men want a serious relationship with anything but top5% woman? Which, mind you, 95% women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:12 AM
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well yeah they both hit the "wall" and continue together like nothing happened
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:10 AM
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women aren't going for average men anyway, otherwise we wouldn't have this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:08 AM
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no but I know guys who have daughters and think like that, my teenage son would be able to bring any adult person FWIW (as well as my daughter). but the chance that the gf of his age would drive recklessly is way smaller than vice versa (and I hope I would raise him to drive/act safely)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 10:45 PM
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yeah women mostly love lower BF and I was a not very well dressed between 25-30% but now I'm a little bit under 20(visible veins in arms and some abs), huge difference
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:10 PM
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it has nothing to do with each other, young men can also be creepy and not care if they are being creepy or not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:56 PM
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I sometimes think some older men approach younger girls because they get off more on making them feel uncomfortable than actually getting laid. I mean yeah, there are sick people around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:55 PM
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of course, I never claimed it's most women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:30 PM
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then young guys can be creepy as well, I'd dare say that older men are on avg better socially adjusted and less likely to try their luck when it's obvious they have no chances
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:28 PM
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Those young women seem not to care about those stats tho. Men that stand out will always be attractive to at least some young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:27 PM
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I am aware of that. However the first step to being happy is not caring what unimportant people think about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:25 PM
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I don't have to believe what I see with my own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:23 PM
2

at what moment exactly you think you became smart and how?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:22 PM
2

I'm 43 and I get way more attention than when I was 25, however if I started training and dressing better when I was 15 and not 35 then I would most probably get more attention when I was 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:20 PM
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that’s why I doubt many young women are attracted to old men. many young women are indeed not attracted to old men, from my experience it's maybe 5-10% of them, which is still enough as they are usually attracted to top 5-10% older guys anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:17 PM
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umm a lot of young women are very open about dating (handsome and rich)older guys nowadays so sometimes there is no chasing needed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:16 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/chuando_chuandoandfrey/?hl=en most 45yo women would look old next to this 60yo guy, so it's also individual
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:14 PM
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there are various older men and various younger women so there could be different reasons why a relationship doesn't work, if a younger woman changes 5 older men don't you think it might be up to her why those relationships don't work, also if an older guy breaks up with her and has a happy relationship with another young woman then it obviously wasn't him as a culprit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:12 PM
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they were creepy because they were unattractive(and part of their unattractiveness is, yes, being/looking old)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:07 PM
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I'd want my daughter (of any age) to date a mature man (of any age). While there are mature men in their 20s they are exceptionally rare(nowadays). I have seen too many horror stories of immature young men trying to prove themselves, especially driving fast in traffic. So I would worry about her safety first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:05 PM
1

not all the time, and I'm also choosing my "battles" :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:00 PM
1

Some people pretend they want something they really don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 08:24 AM
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I have never asked my gfs how many guys they had and how quickly they went to bed with them. Some went to bed with me quickly some had to wait a bit to get to know me, never crossed my mind to compare myself with her exes. Also I am not the only one like that, so maybe girls should just go for guys that don't prioritize such childish things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:33 AM
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it’s WAY more common, and that genuinely secure, healthy attraction might actually be the minority. this is unfortunately the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:16 AM
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because womens feelings are not the same it's not so much feelings that are different, but how one actually gets that same feeling the path is very different depending on gender (and many other factors)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:41 PM
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It's a sad day for a man when it stops fighting back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 07:57 AM
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there are women that would very much like you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:04 AM
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exactly, men over 40 usually have children with women near 40
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:20 AM
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social skills usually boils down to DGAF attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:38 AM
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I find it funny that there exists a whole new category of people because some men(and women) just dont want to admit to themselves they are gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:23 PM
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my boundary they love to test is "don't insult my family and friends" for some reason it presents a great challenge for women not to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:22 PM
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Others want to manipulate me or use me for validation or an ego boost. when a man says that for women then he is a misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:06 AM
2

it is indeed strange
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:52 PM
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don't they older don't date younger...it seems we should only date women born on the exact same day as us
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:30 PM
2

sex is $100 nowadays, there is no reason for men to force anything
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:25 PM
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most women like to have an excuse to have sex, sometimes that excuse is "he pushed me", sometimes it's "I was drunk" etc. basically anything to evade personal accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 03:37 PM
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It's my belief that there is such a thing as too much freedom for human society, and unparallel freedom and accessibility in the dating pool in combination with gained sexual freedom is already having, and will have worse consequences in the stability of society down the line. most women dont care about society and a lot of men would do everything to please them because they are programmed to do so, we can only try to enjoy the decline and that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:29 AM
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if they don't mind fckin way older women, a lot of women in their 40s have a kink for young guys these days, basically a working D and basic hygiene is all you need
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:02 AM
9

still a lot of men into "normal" sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 10:07 PM
1

very well put
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 07:46 PM
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huh I got invited on a drink by women more than one time, I never thought they were calculating anything, seemed to me they just wanted to know me better I dunno
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 07:43 PM
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Good but asocial dude has 25% success rate with women if "Good" = a millionaire, and even then 25% would be a stretch
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:03 PM
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Exactly, it shouldn't. However there are other areas in life that shouldn't be fair but they are equalized by enforced rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:32 AM
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TRP says the success is not guaranteed, you can just improve your chances by becoming a better prospect. I am now way more successful than I was before, but it didn't have to turn out like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:59 PM
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No. I was actually leaving relationships(if going with someone 10-15 days might be considered one) because I wanted to meet a person where something romantic could happen (and most of the time it didn't).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:45 PM
11

not a single woman responded to this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:54 AM
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what women say they like and what they like is far from the same thing, not all women like the same things but being liked by 5% of women is still vastly better than being liked by 0%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:52 AM
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it seems therapy is just another way to push (under)average guys out of the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:10 AM
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For men whose attractiveness is "on the edge", being jerk will help way more often than being nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 03:23 PM
7

"I can't afford a Toyota so it's better not to be able to afford a Ferrari"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:34 PM
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if they are sought by other women they dont have to be anything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:33 PM
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Women are pursued and wanted all the way into their 40s and 50s. if this was true they wouldnt seethe so much about age gaps
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:36 PM
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the crazy thing is that even if you have a crush on a unicorn girl that doesn't notice you the most efficient strategy to get her attention is to engage those girls around her that you don't even like, as if you first must have sex with queen's ugly servants before actually getting to the queen, it shouldn't be like that but for some stupid reason it is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:38 PM
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We say we want nice, loyal, low drama, then ignore her for the girl who gives us anxiety. How many guys even have the option to ignore the first one?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:28 PM
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"Every person in a democracy deserves a voice." Minors are not persons? Why is a 107 year demented person allowed to vote while 17 year is not, despite the vote way more affecting his future than the future of the first one?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:26 PM
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drunken sex being seen as a rape is idiotic, if a half drunk girl asks a half drunk guy and he agrees then she raped him because it wasnt a "100% conscious" consent people should take accountability for their habits
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:56 AM
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Cockiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:53 AM
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He is able to take his mask and preformance down 100% only with my mom. I see where you come from but from someone else's perspective maybe he is just putting his mask and performance up with your mom because he just wants to be different and kind to her. A lot of men genuinely like to hunt and a lot of animals hunt even when they are not (thath) hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:55 PM
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men are more often targets for violence than women, I just tend to evade situations that could be dangerous for me, not the 100% guarantee but life is about improving your odds anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:13 PM
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majority of men don't know any men personally that do it, maybe you should just filter better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:06 PM
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physical and sexual harm is extremely rare if you aren't attracted to dangerous men, emotional harm is the same for both parties
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:58 PM
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except it's women making it hard for both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:47 PM
2

why not just visit trp sub then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:38 AM
2

there are fathers(and sometimes mothers) who are at home but aren't really present...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:10 PM
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a man's health depends heavily on his genetics and lifestyle, I know men in their 20s having health problems and men in their 70s who run and lift weights and look like someone in his 50s also various women appreciate various things, a number of young women want someone stable, attractive yet loyal, it's not really possible to find in their age bracket so if they want a partner they have to go 10+ years older
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:51 PM
5

everyone else is a degenerate australophithicus apeman operating from hindbrain instinct and should return to the savannah and stop plaguing civilization with their unwanted presence lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:02 PM
2

Why would a childless non-fat man who doesn't do casual sex not want someone with the similar character?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:06 PM
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men are not attracted to numbers, if there was a beautiful and healthy 100 year old woman a lot of men would date her huge majority of men is into physically developed women and I'd say that someone who dates a 27yo woman that looks like a 12yo is more paedo than someone dating a 17yo one looking like 27yo (which is very often to see these days)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:58 PM
3

The women with Leo are all models who get with him to boost their own careers and not because they actually like him... how do you actually know that, maybe some of them really like him
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:30 AM
4

"dress like hoes"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:19 AM
5

go for younger women because they're easier to manipulate, lie about who i am/my seriousness about the relationship, how to get women drunk quickly using various pretexts, if he has to do this then he is not high value
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:57 PM
1

"Certain looks attract certain men and certain types of relationships." yupp and it's not just clothing, too many tattooed and pierced women looking for type of man that absolutely hates it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:11 AM
0

be more open&sincere
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:09 AM
-2

finally a sincere woman here :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:26 AM
2

those are obviously not the same men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:07 PM
1

how is it unfounded lol, there are girls earning millions and without OF they would likely "act" in a low budget porn for mere thousands
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:53 PM
4

men that hate OF usually hate the consumers too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:52 PM
-5

religious people usually date other religious people, a religious man likely wouldnt ask for it before marriage anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:06 PM
-3

but why wouldn't you want to have sex with man you are dating then? I mean if you are SEXually attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:00 PM
-7

why wouldn't you just be friends for those few weeks while he is with someone who wants to have sex with him? you don't have the obligation to sleep with him but he also doesn't have the obligation to be a monk until you make up your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:38 PM
-1

unless a woman is a late bloomer(which is quite rare for women), her options become worse as she ages and that makes some women nervous men want women they are physically attracted to with as little jadedness as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:32 PM
1

I am a powerlifter and I'd rather carry her things all day than wash the dishes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:25 AM
1

yeah but attractive men with stupid jokes make women laugh way more than average men who are naturally witty
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:47 AM
4

nah, it's quite obvious what attracts most men and what attracts most women, there might be women whose kink is dwarves but they are extremely rare
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:18 PM
6

the problem with this is that 90% of women think they are more attractive than the other 90% of women...social media sold them the delusion and there is no going back
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:16 PM
0

not all, but men not belonging to top20% certainly would
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:12 PM
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I would want to be proud of my gf/wife and I would also like if she'd be proud of me. I don't know what kind of trophy that is tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:09 PM
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People have various definitions of misogyny. For some people saying "only women can bear kids" is a misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 11:56 PM
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If you think you’re a genuinely nice, handsome guy with good social skills and wonder why you’re not attracting anyone, I don't think guys who complain they can't attract anyone think they are handsome, on the contrary
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:44 PM
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he made it clear that it would be a while yet before he was ready. huh it seems he is just using women to show other people that he is not gay
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:41 PM
7

yeah but it's still top 10% of guys that get the action, occasionally you will have an avg guy jumping through hoops and waiting half a year for sex that she gave to someone in a day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:46 AM
2

or they marry an ugly man they have no respect for by their late 30s. and then praise him to her friends&family like she caught the jackpot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:45 AM
4

it is insanely hard but the feeling that you made it is what those naturals will never have...so I'd say it's worth a try
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:20 PM
1

it depends, I don't follow thirst traps and out of 5 closest male friends I think only one follows them that I could notice(but as a Chad he also dates very hot women so he actually might be looking to date them), unless they have some secret accounts which I doubt because they have better things to do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:12 PM
1

sex is also healthy activity for both men&women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:13 PM
0

there are various breads nowadays, like protein bread etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:13 PM
6

imagine your parents telling you that only good pupils get the iPhones and you go to your class and see only dumbos who can barely spell an alphabet get them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:56 PM
1

Can't most people jack off? most people can survive on bread&water, it doesn't mean they have to
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:54 PM
2

/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 10:06 AM
5

Men only give relationships to the top 1% of women they’re capable of getting, and women know that, and avoid men out of their league because they don’t want to be used. you forgot the /s?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 08:20 AM
1

not necessarily, I have dated couple of chubby chicks and they went to gym with me and lost some weight
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:28 PM
6

a fat 21yo can lose weight, a slim 35yo will never again be 21
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 10:04 AM
-3

Says a lot about you that you didnt get it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:19 PM
-1

If you could get away with it guaranteed would you rob an elderly person
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:06 PM
-1

I dunno I don't demonise them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:38 PM
0

"Chad" does not marry a younger virgin, he marries the gal who he sees a future with. Chad by and large prefers a woman with low N count, not a virgin but definitely not the town bike.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:42 PM
0

Go to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:49 AM
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anything that reminds them of violence is a boost in attracting women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 04:14 PM
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Michael Smith: "This is more of me thinking out loud than some declaratory tome, but it is something I have been considering for a decade or so. I thought there is value in getting it out there for comment after I noted that many, if not most, of the leftist agitators around the nation tend to be angry AWFLs and radical and feminized men-children. I realize that my research is limited to my fifty years of dating, marrying and raising a family with my long-suffering wife and partner and the chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 09:45 PM
1

because I have experience with such women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:03 PM
1

her nagging all the time that she had to be the one to propose :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:44 AM
1

that's evil
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:08 AM
0

woman proposing to a man isnt good start to a marriage either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:32 AM
3

well then I would probably surprise and propose her first :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:02 AM
7

I would find it weird that she wouldn't communicate with me earlier so I could propose to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:54 AM
4

it happens regularly that a guy is drunk while his gf is not, is she a rapist in that case?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:23 AM
4

the modern autistic reported for duty
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:19 AM
2

The modern autistic definition of rape is that you have sex without explicit consent, I have initiated sex with my gf while she was asleep and some of them did it as well with me. I guess that we were all rapists then. If we are talking about serious rape like forcefully pushing on someone that you know doesn't want it then I'd like to believe I didn't hang with such people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:52 AM
3

You can't stay "friends" with a person you have a sexual imagination for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:46 AM
1

that's why I am against drafting women, regarding women doing professional military they are usually tomboyish and quickly become one of the boys
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:28 PM
2

that was almost 40 years ago, also us men don't like to see other men masturbating, but part of doing such job is being surrounded with some idiots unfortunately, that's one of the reasons why it's harder thanjob in the parliament
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:25 PM
2

well that's the military and one of the reasons such jobs are hard, you arent actually surrounded by finest of the people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:24 PM
1

that's right, that's why I act as an asshole so women think I'm actually nice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:17 PM
3

work safety has improved significantly lately, back in the day stronger would usually bully the weaker regardless of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:10 PM
3

ah yeah, a woman in full make up high heels and short skirt in an office would not be in danger from men but somehow men are going to objectify a dirty and sweaty woman in a mine where everyone just thinks how to get out and finish the shift
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:06 PM
5

or make it female only why not, full emancipation ftw
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:04 PM
15

strange noone advocates for fair representation in mines and oil rigs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:06 PM
3

technically speaking it starts to degrade at around 20, again the percentage is what is important
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:41 AM
-1

three times more for men >50 is still not catastrophic(because the base is low) and it depends on health of a said man women >50 can bear children in a very rare circumstances and their risk is significantly higher even if they succeed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:03 PM
-1

I didn't say I recommend it. But there are examples of 90+ men concieving perfeclty healthy children, so it shouldn't be a problem for 60 if the man is healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:59 PM
-3

age expectancy is longer nowadays also if a man is healthy he can have a healthy offspring, I know of 60yr old men that got their first child at 60 and later lived to become grandparents
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:43 PM
4

it's stupid to compare sexes because men don't get pregnant, thus it's fair that some things have to be easier for women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:59 PM
6

this, also men don't look on numbers like women do, if somehow a 100yo woman could look and be healthy like Monica Belucci most men that dont want children would date her
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:41 PM
2

redpill cant forbid or allow anything, its just a praxeology
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:11 PM
-1

constatation is not the same as complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:29 PM
1

red pill men don't complain, they observe
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:16 PM
0

2 - doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:45 PM
6

social approval is everything, that means make yourself visible on social networks, curate your pictures and at least pretend you have a social life and do something interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 06:06 AM
1

that 1/10 smiling from the corner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 06:00 AM
6

structural one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:12 AM
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a bit lower on this very thread (Tom Brady and that instagram hoe)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:31 PM
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tell her OK I am coming with my friends for a gangbang we'll bring the oil
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:59 PM
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old women crying about age gaps are just like tall women crying about height gaps "why couldn't he pick a woman close to his height must have some issues"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:55 PM
1

no, that is not the basis of red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:09 PM
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a lot of seething women there, so nice to see
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:40 PM
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nobody wants you to sympathize with lying men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:29 PM
-3

well she was obv behaving like one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 03:49 PM
-7

it's a part of a character, if my male friend pretended that he is religious and doesn't want sex before marriage but went on trips where he enjoyed orgies then it would be the same
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 03:09 PM
-11

I would stop being friend with a male friend who hid a crime history from me for example or a history of being bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:37 PM
0

Any time I see a horrible report of an adult female teacher getting with a student—without fail—men are in the comments joking about how the male student is so lucky or they wished it was them. because 99% of the time a student could easily avoid it if he wanted to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 12:25 PM
1

it did work couple of times, but those women were visibly interested in conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 12:02 AM
0

almost all women I have met want social status, does that make them incels as well
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:35 PM
1

house work is also work, also most modern jobs could be done from home so a woman should definitely dedicate few hours a day to her job/education while husband is taking kids for a walk
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:20 PM
18

because she has already emasculated you and put you in a "friendy" category so she is upset that she has to rearrange the boxes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:01 PM
-1

ditto for age gap couples
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:43 AM
3

no, sex should be a mutual desire, ya know the equality women are so much preaching for
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:07 AM
15

an 8-10 single mom doesn't want an average man, she still wants a 8-10 guy...which usually doesn't want her back, at least not for a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:04 AM
2

how they manipulate a lot of men...they get sex only when they "deserve" it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 10:24 PM
1

to not manipulate you with it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 10:10 PM
3

because there is no infinite money, I would like that all people become millionaires today but it's not possible to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:51 PM
1

The RP ideal seems to be a relationship where you keep your partner at arms reach and prioritize sex over all else. nope, and I think BPers are craving sex more because they get it less, the point of RP is to not allow women to weaponize sex against you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:07 PM
5

women could also play sports withoug being 10x overpaid, a semipro man that beats #1 ranked woman any day of the week can barely make a living while she earns millions a year
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:04 PM
1

I have 2 FWBs that I am seeing once in a couple of months (because of distance)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:01 PM
3

of course they are terrified, that's why players are lying to them that they are the best and then go for another one leaving them with surprised pikachu face and starting threads on dating subs "He left me all of a sudden without explanation and he was so good to me"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:00 PM
-1

things could get really nasty when you get sober
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 11:23 PM
6

those men are absolutely to blame
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:56 PM
9

do you think it doesnt happen, because I know many women that overprotect their kids for example, it's way more common than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:58 PM
9

it's hard to be father at home when your wife thinks she is the smartest around and wants to be the chief at kids upbringing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:35 PM
1

you think 5/10 men didnt try that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:20 PM
3

good, make a dating profile with a 5/10 man and show us how it is done with unlimited ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:10 AM
5

I didn't do the count really, I think morally men and women are virtually the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:38 PM
8

for some men that have naturally bad physical traits (they are shorter than 5'10 or have ugly face etc.) there isn't much analyzing that could help them, we could at least accept the fact that they are struggling, the same way we accept that homosexuals can't be attracted to another sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:31 PM
23

I don't know all men in the world, but I haven't heard many complaints about guys I hang out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:27 PM
55

our definition of "good" differs from womens definition when we say good it refers to morality = it means he doesn't have evil intentions towards the others, women definition of good = better than average in areas important for dating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:19 PM
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it encompasses "working on yourself and realizing how dating works" when it comes to dating, its goal is to make yourself more attractive to women and increase your chances
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:21 PM
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it's vice versa, red pill awareness has grown since male sexlessness has skyrocketed, because men especially young men keep asking themselves what's wrong with them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:11 PM
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you dont even understand what redpill is, but just want to feel good and then create your own version of RP in your head which is probably just a blackpill
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:46 PM
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everybody can call hmself RP, working on yourself and realising how dating works significantly increases chances, its a simple logic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:40 PM
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I don't think RP men are interested in pussy you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:21 PM
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RP actually increases chances for men to get sex (that's the point of the "movement"), you should be way more aware of disgruntled bluepillers that didn't get pussy for their whiteknighting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:26 PM
0

99% of women ghost men as a way to "heal" from Chads that ghosted or even politely ignored them. It has nothing to do with convenience (they spend hours in meaningless talks with their friendies and they could sure dedicate half a minute to reject you politely) and definitely nothing with safety (women that ghost are actually attracted to danger).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:27 PM
1

a Chad wouldnt fly to SA for a hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 11:06 PM
0

we need other women to like you to want you. EFA
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 10:04 AM
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yeah it is, I know men are using that "strategy" on apps when they do "brute force" approach but I haven't been aware it's so mass spread among women apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:02 PM
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they understand it gives them leverage, of course they wont use it for an average bolding Joe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:15 PM
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a month ago I catch one girl use ChatGPT in our communication and she brushed it off as non-important as "everyone is using it nowadays", the second one I caught today just blocked me lol seems I hit the nerve second one I see occasionally in the gym so I guess we are gonna pretend we dont know each other now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:52 AM
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they realize it pretty much as soon as they hit puberty
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:48 AM
0

pedos don't pay big money to MILF pornstars and then shush money to silence them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 11:44 PM
13

after loosing years to the redpill then having to go on ex-redpill therapy to deprogram then why didn't they have a gf before they were "programmed"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:43 PM
-5

I think that all healthy people raised in healthy environment want to have offspring. Unfortunately, we live in a ffed up world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:16 AM
1

without feminism those men wouldn't have access to those women because they would choose more stable and less attractive partners, is it that hard concept to grasp?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:01 PM
1

umm we do, it's women that choose men with no accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 09:49 PM
4

yes it's feminism fault his mother chose smash&dasher instead of someone little bit less attractive but who would actually raise his kid
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:44 PM
2

it's women that rate men. men can just adapt to fare better in their ranking (which is what TRP is about)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:57 PM
2

those tell me I'm 25 ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 11:06 AM
16

women stop being friends with men that reject them all the time so why should this be different
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:37 PM
1

I am 43 and people say I look 30-35, also my biological markers show age of 33. Ten years ago I actually looked older than I look today, but I started training and supplementation also removed as much stress as possible, I also have better sleep and skin care and died my hair so in a way I got younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:06 PM
1

not all but most women I tell the truth to stop all the contact with me, maybe I should just call myself a therapist and start charging them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:41 PM
2

all normal people love it, explicitly asking for consent makes situation very weird
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:40 PM
9

Asking for consent directly is the ultimate Chad move. no it's the ultimate autistic move, ultimate Chad move would be her asking you for consent ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:09 PM
0

there is no "new" dynamics, we are just going back few centuries when most powerful men had many women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:08 PM
0

"A woman initially saying yes but later withdrawing consent A woman saying yes while too intoxicated to meaningfully consent A woman not explicitly saying “no” but also not freely consenting" so a man is not allowed to say no?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:56 PM
2

yeah people are creating alt accounts on reddit to convince random guys that TRP works
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:47 PM
1

less is still bigger than zero
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:18 PM
3

yeah hundreds of us rallied here in a conspiracy to convince you that it's not like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:17 PM
1

nah, guys are still seeing results, maybe not the same results as before but nonetheless
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:21 PM
0

why so many passport bro threads then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:05 PM
1

TRP can really help if they were close to it, not if they were hopeless duds tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:05 PM
1

so Lilith is a man now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:03 PM
1

men will use that power imbalance to their favor some men use that power imbalance to their favor even if the age is same, there are always enough of not-so-wealthy women any age
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:01 PM
3

a lot of men hit on any women because they are playing numbers game, some of those women are younger
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:42 PM
2

well if you just want long sex then younger men should be better
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:41 PM
1

I have even met teenager girls who were open about wanting to have marriage (and way quicker than I would want to have it). So it's individual. There is still a significant percentage of women that want serious LTR/marriage as soon as they graduate. They are at the same stage in life as a childless man 10 years older who wants to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:39 PM
2

I don't think society thinks that, except maybe "average guys in middleage crisis with beerbellies hanging out in a pub society"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:37 PM
1

was he at least attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:28 PM
3

it's because significant number of guys use it to pull casual sex esepcially younger guys since they are mostly interested in that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:26 PM
1

well, bigger guys are usually less aggressive on average as well, but women don't perceive us like that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:28 PM
0

well it seems western guys have much higher chances with women from eastern cultures so...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:27 PM
2

I'm a lesbian so the typical heterosexual scripts are out the window. well this is a sub about heterosexual dating dynamics and the post is clearly about approaching the guy, why do you think your experience would be of any relevance here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:12 AM
2

general attractiveness, basically something a woman would consider when she enters a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:41 PM
5

it still doesn't change anything, most women will call 5-10 guys out of 100 attractive, next 10 average and next 80 under average.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:33 PM
-2

good for you then to have so many single guys to choose from :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:30 PM
4

men in 80-90 percentile bracket are not average, although they may look average to women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:14 PM
0

then how come women still have strong preference for tall&strong and a lot of times even guys who appear dangerous (with bunch of tattoos etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:43 PM
2

a lot of men are taught (usually by their mothers) that they only have to be good and polite
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:41 PM
5

apparently a lot of men do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:36 PM
1

there is a significant difference between top 10% and top 1%, top 10% get the chance to prove themselves, top 1% do not have to prove themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:18 PM
-1

erm, women in their 20s are not teenagers per definition
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:04 PM
1

Instead, the women would argue that the 42 year old attractive man needs to find a 42 year old attractive woman who, although she is not as attractive as the 20 year old, is still nonetheless attractive for her age. 42yo attractive woman will not be childless if she wanted to have kids. A lot of attractive 42yo men are, though. That's why we really can't compare a 42yo man and a 42yo woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:15 PM
2

actually older men usually have lower libido which makes them more compatible with women that don't want to be seen solely as a sex object (which almost all of you complain about here on PPD)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:10 PM
-1

Not really I just want 20 yr old girlies to be able to enjoy their lives, go to parties, travel, date cute guys, find their favourite hobbies, get a great education and be really happy with where they are at 30 so they can decide who they like, and if they want kids. Umm most of them are doing that. A lot of them are not happy where they are at 30 though because all those cute guys bolted as they had better options for LTR, so now at 30 they can't LTR even those somewhat "lesser" guys because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:05 PM
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nah it's more about the vibe and positive energy(almost all women use makeup and there is almost no difference between an average 25yo and a 35yo woman), a lot of childless women over 30 are very jaded compared to those 5-10 years younger, in my experience it's more probable to find a younger woman that doesn't mind dating someone 10+ years older than a 30+ childless woman that is not jaded
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:00 PM
1

every man with $100 in his pocket has the option to cheat also an attractive man clearly suggesting he is not interested in a LTR is not cheating if he puts a girl in a situationship and explores other options, her imagination that she is in a relatinoship with him doesn't make it a reality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:37 PM
6

Women aren't going to have sex with men they aren't attracted to. unless they are paid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:33 PM
1

"At 12, through catcalling, that plenty of grown men are attracted to them." I don't deny there are paedophiles around but I don't have a single friend that's attracted to 12yos(that I know of).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 07:09 PM
3

The Redpill Self-Improvement Project Is Largely a Myth there are countless guys only in this sub who have noticed clear benefits of the improvement and now you wanna tell them their life is a myth lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 07:05 PM
1

hey it's legal if you film it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:56 AM
2

I mean there are men who pay prostitutes to perform sex without love so how is this different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 09:30 PM
3

red pill is actually anti blue pill utopia
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 09:44 AM
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men and women are different, a lot of guys in their 16s want to sleep with (somewhat) older women, despite being younger it's also men that mostly initiate it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:19 PM
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People that don’t defend age gaps on PPD this is the group you put them in, I'd say a lot of those women actually defend age gaps otherwise they would be very hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:32 PM
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well, first is illegal in most states, although the second one does look way more weird
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:29 PM
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If i see a man who preys on young women because he knows they are inexperienced but how do you know why he "preys" on them if you don't even know the man? Maybe he is, imagine this, just more attracted to younger women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:26 PM
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back in the day when I was 20 a lot of girls my generation also resented older guys flirting with them(sometimes only 4-5 years older), it's not a GenZ thing what a lot of them failed to acknowledge is that a handsome guy our age was not going to LTR them and many went from one to another and then settled in their 30s to the guy that was objectively worse than the older guy they resented in the beginning...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:23 PM
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They groom them from younger ages and then cash in for sex when their victim turns 18. if someone is flirting ( I suppose thats what a word "groom" actually means) with a minor then it's a classic paedophile, no need to use words from animal kingdoms, predators hunt to survive and it's not fair to compare them to evil people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:17 PM
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ya they are describing 23yo women as 3yo kids
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:14 PM
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there are women here that praised their LTRs with older men, so you are wrong from the start also there are people who don't set artifical limits like "I don't want to date someone who is more than 6 years older or younger", imagine hanging out with someone getting excellent vibes and then finding out that person is 7 years older or younger, if you apply your math at that moment then sorry but to me you are a very weird person that values numbers more than actual feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:12 PM
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to each his own, I find 40yo woman with a 20yo man still more natural and less awkward than any gay or lesbian relationship, despite understanding that homosexuals can't change what attracts them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:08 PM
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why is it gross, a lot of men missed on teenage sex and especially with someone experienced, my first gf was 16 when I was 16 and the sex was..awkward to say the least, at least a first few times, needless to say that my favorite porn category was MILF lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:05 PM
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It's not that I wasn't an adult with agency at 21. It's that he was immature for 37 and thus dating younger women. He's now in his mid 50s and still single. Still immature. he was also immature when he was 21 so it's just part of his character and nothing to do with age, there are also immature women who are older than 40/50, it's not exclusively a male thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:03 PM
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And I've found that 99% of women are incapable of completing that mission. Like some internal trigger goes off when a woman sees a man being content; they must destroy that peace. I'm in the same boat as you, it's crazy. Even if you find one, her unfortunate "friends" are going to do everything to destroy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:37 AM
4

"ChatGPT, how can I get even more mad?"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 07:14 PM
1

It's just that a lot of women apply "if he has to be nice then he must be low SMV" logic, it's not that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:04 AM
3

I think that people should date a lot in their teenage years, but refrain from sleeping with people. ahh good luck with that taking into account testosterone levels in teenagers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:00 AM
5

If we apply this criterion, then good people won't exist at all. Like, altruists are a tiny percentage of the population, so yes, even "spiritual and religious" people who dedicate their lives to this are still rewarded. Altruists are rewarded as well, because they feel good when they do a good deed. That's also a sort of reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:05 PM
1

if I got that right they should be invisible, at least for "new" people that dont know your height
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:03 PM
1

shoe inserts are actually way easier to apply than makeup :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:31 AM
2

there is nothing wrong with red pill women and "pick-me"s, we can also reciprocate and be "pick-me"s for them, that's how healthy relationships work
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:32 AM
2

Why do you think redpill exists? There are numerous success stories, sorry if that bothers you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:11 AM
2

well, yeah it is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:04 PM
1

believe it or not I had...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:04 PM
3

I had women telling me they just want to lose virginity with me because I am experienced&safe and I never thought about myself as an "achievable starter pole".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:47 PM
1

my skin is better (I dont have pimples now) and my nipples are still good, maybe it will be like that in 20 years but now not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:26 PM
1

uhh my body at 43 looks wayyy better than it looked when I was 25
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:14 AM
-1

Women have mood swings, if you can't stand them you can date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:51 PM
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I am a powerlifter with 20% BF but I got more raw attention when I had 15% BF and less muscles, but I was also a bit younger. Now when I have way more confidence the game is much much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:45 PM
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I try so hard but I still can't find the job. Well, you should work better then? But how can I work better when I don't even get the job? Not my problem!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 08:06 AM
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men mostly don't complain about keeping the relationship, but actually getting into it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:59 AM
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I don't think all drivers are reckless maniacs, but I'd still tell my kids to watch left&right before crossing the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:56 AM
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It does help. I have my own workers and I have free time to travel around and meet new girls, otherwise I would mostly be stuck at home and doing errands.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:09 PM
2

To find a wife and build a life and family together
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:51 PM
4

I have and she betrayed me again (of course). I was just a bluepilled idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:50 PM
2

it will just go in circles, we will go to matriarchy and then back to patriarchy rinse&repeat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 10:45 AM
3

I mean the Xanax pill is definitely cheaper than sorting your life out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 09:33 AM
2

The attractive ones are still approaching. well thanks for the compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:44 AM
1

if you cant beat them join them, so try making your own movie when you already accumuulated so much theoretical knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:33 AM
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nope, I am 43 and some time ago dated a 24yo that had more money than me, and I am not the only one you have to realise that women have different preferences and some men are holding very well even into their 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 06:52 AM
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25 year olds sometimes realise their peers can be divided into two groups: those attracive guys that don't want to settle at that age and those not attractive ones which quickly become jealous possessive etc. if they are given the chance and then she goes for someone 10-15 years older but attractive and willing to settle
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:33 PM
3

Women can be very soothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:31 PM
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Men don't have commitment issues; they go to the same barber for years, they support the same team for years, their loyalty never changes, but you are simply not the woman he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 11:59 PM
1

you wrote old enough to be their parent, and technically she is regardless, even 18 years of difference isnt much in certain circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 11:20 PM
1

When I had brightly coloured unnatural hair, I was surprised at the amount of random men that would go out of their way to voice their displeasure to me about it. so it seems it was quite efficient
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:29 PM
2

there is a record of a Peruvian woman that became mother at 5, are you suggesting that it's gross if I as a 43yo man date a 38yo woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:22 PM
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I think that Sisyphus is gonna come on top before that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:18 PM
0

that's the spirit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:15 PM
3

In my experience, once a woman, of any age, has become attracted to you, they stop really caring how old or young you are. Exactly. Although some of them have strong prejudices, but that's fine, everyone can have preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:17 AM
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A lot of women nowadays claim they are feminists and equal so we want to invest effort only if its reciprocated, unless its a traditional girl which is more and more rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:40 AM
4

sure, but sexual attraction matters the most
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:58 PM
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no, but they will not be loyal to women under their level
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:19 PM
5

because sexual attraction is what matters to women, there are myriad of guys with nice personalities who are single and none of them who are sexually attractive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:18 PM
5

I would actually prefer it to having a nagging wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:22 PM
15

"Now, I wanna add in my own list of how men fuck up on online dating: Not reading profiles." Women dont base their attraction on whether the guy has read her profile or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:20 PM
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If you are OK with him not being loyal to you then you can have very high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:18 PM
1

There is saying in my country "you can hold a woman and a fart only temporarily".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:14 PM
4

hitting the wall doesn't mean having no options, but less options also if men work on themselves they will improve over time and get more options in their 30s than in their 20s, so it sometimes happens that a woman he was interested in while they were in their 20s gradually becomes unattractive to him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:51 PM
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from my 16 up until 26 I had 3 relationships in total lasting around 3 years so majority of time I was alone, my age peers didn't like low status me but instead a lot of them went for older guys and now those same women are advocating against age gaps and wondering why I don't even look towards them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:55 PM
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most men women find attractive indeed behave like jerks at least towards women, because women can be very persistent when they want something so they have to fend them off somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:31 PM
2

as long as it is acceptable for a "young girl" I don't care if others are going to accept it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:46 AM
2

for any men, sometimes those man happen to be older
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 09:21 PM
5

nice to know that Alba Baptista is reddit approved so I can date her without repercussions, only need to somehow get that bastard Chris Evans out of the picture
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 09:19 PM
1

debatable, I don't know any person that became manipulative when turned 30 or 40, if they are manipulative they were manipulative from their teen years
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 09:16 PM
4

it depends on their profession etc. maybe a 22 year old came from the rich family and was financially established while a 31 yo had to grind for years to build a home for example
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 09:14 PM
1

yes, modern women do cheat massively
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 08:03 AM
0

I think there is a bigger chance that you will date a celebrity than to find a woman with these traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:35 AM
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1 year in between staying single so it's 4 years being single, I think it's quite common nowadays for people who are in LTRs let's say he didn't propose to any of them because he found out that none of them were actually loyal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:32 AM
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let's assume he started dating at 16, it's five 2 year long relationships with 1 year break in between
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:14 PM
1

that's why I said above average and I think it's (way) less than 10 percent, men who look the part and run some business
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:04 PM
1

read my last sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:03 PM
1

is a man supposed to stay in a bad relationship to not be a "whore"? I don't know what's your preferred age range but let's say a 30yo man is likely going to have 5 or more relationships if he wasn't lucky to find a good woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:02 PM
1

I have slept with more than 5 people (although not a lot more) and I do have some beliefs that correlate with manosphere I think it's impossible that you find someone that fulfills 1,2,4,5,6,7 that is slept with less than 5 women, unless you go for a highschooler
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:31 PM
5

average 25yo woman can choose aboveaverage 25yo guy for "situationship" or aboveaverage 35yo guy for something serious when she turns 35 she won't have those choices anymore I'm sorry if this sounds I'm mad at young women, but that's just reality there is a small percent of women that don't prioritize LMS but those aren't the topic here anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:26 PM
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yupp, I did get dates before as well but nowhere near at the same frequency and also some of those women used me as a doormat as I was a "white knight" ready to do whatever for them, they weren't particularly attractive either now when I am 43 I can get women I could only dream of when I was 23
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:37 PM
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It helped me remove my rosetinted glasses. I was mainly raised by my mother and almost all guys raised like that had the same problem. Spartans weren't stupid when they split boys from their mothers when they turned 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:14 PM
1

if a guy is attractive he is usually attractive to a wide range of women, so if women of 35 find him attractive then he will usually be attractive to women aged 25 etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:29 PM
0

Chad is a sexually succesful guy women select for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:21 PM
1

exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:59 PM
31

it's individual, men who get into drugs at 16 were in their prime when they were 15
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:40 AM
4

more, because men dont want to admit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:07 PM
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lol I am a top1% earner in my country and I would be top20% in USA so I doubt that's true, congratulations on finding another beta bux that you are going to drain :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:42 AM
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you are talking about average sugar daddies that didn't have other options, if they had other younger women interested in them they would have never looked your way also you obviously married a LVM who couldn't do better than a sugar girl, great success
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:08 AM
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what sacrifice exactly?! if a girl gets someone who gives her attention, good sex, good life, makes her laugh, ignores other women because of her (so basically something she can't get from a younger guy, at least not all of that from one guy)?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:03 AM
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Only reddit women believe men suddenly turn into skinnyfat; bald; sick and wrinkly looking ghouls once we turn 30. the reason they believe it is that typical reddit women are usually approached mainly by average nerdy men who let go of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:57 AM
2

having your own place doesnt automatically make you "high league"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:54 AM
1

Women also love orgasming and they are ready to ignore a lot of red flags for the guy who can make them orgasm every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 09:00 AM
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5/10 men get rejected by 90% 5/10 women while vice versa doesn't happen. Of course a chad is going to P&D an avg girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:08 PM
3

"a hammer can break your finger, therefore hammers are bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:00 PM
10

people lost respect for others
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 04:29 PM
25

if intelligent and educated women don't want (more than 1-2) kids then those non-educated families will prevail in all future elections, don't blame the men then or you can what do I know abolish democracy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:54 PM
-1

joke is on you it's how women actually divide men sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:34 PM
0

it's hard for him to make proper choice when you are all 10s...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:31 PM
23

When I was in high school, flakiness wasn’t a thing. People said they were going to show up and actually did. yupp, people nowadays flake regardless if it's dating or not, a car buyer doesn't appear and doesn't even send you a message so you end up not doing something else you would do at that time etc. I remember when flakiness trend started some ppl were calling the police to check if the other party is OK because they were genuinely worried
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:27 PM
2

men also want love and/or families
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:24 AM
5

The data show that most men are having sex. All men able to earn $100 can have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 05:43 PM
9

I'm 6'2 so I don't need them but I understand men who do. Sometimes a woman will choose between two otherwise similar guys based on their height.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:05 AM
2

There is no irony, the individual is being criticized for being too selective about superficial traits and not selective enough about kindness or morals. ...while claiming the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:19 AM
8

doing ordinary house work is not the problem for like 95% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:10 AM
7

"She was very into travelling and I think her inviting me to stay was just her way of being nice, like travellers looking out for each other." one of you two is very naive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 08:16 PM
6

I have been in LTRs(longest was 4 years) and I have never perceived the gf as aging. I think men are more repulsed by behaviour of older women, not unattractiveness itself. Realistically most women can keep themselves attractive well into 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:22 PM
6

it's not RP or BP but women, if women went for men who collect lizards men would en masse start collecting lizards
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:18 PM
8

There are men that get rejected literally 100 out of 100 times. How can they choose then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:22 PM
4

ample success with whom exactly? some men have such a low standards they don't mind laying landwhales
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:21 PM
6

But unless you’re genuinely ugly, romance isn’t a Herculean task. it is a Herculean task for an average guy to get a romance with an average girl, some get lucky tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:59 PM
2

I mean it should, if the girl he picked has the history of such behaviour and he still picked her then he is also resposinble for his choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:57 PM
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2 For a lot of men there is no choosing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:53 PM
6

Why is this even a topic, there are enough of free men who don't care about N counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:59 PM
1

well if you imply men have to fight each other to get access to women as a 250 lbs amateur fighter I am all for it as I beat 99,99% of men easily
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:32 PM
1

it's funny how they call themselves "progressive" while at the same time advocating for going back thousands of years
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 07:23 AM
3

Has he kept his figure the way I have? I probably pass other filters but do I really need to have breasts like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:09 AM
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as if women absolutely love that they are attracted to men who are not attracted to them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:02 AM
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It is not based on scripture or revelations, prophets or anything of that matter. There is nothing that regulates who can call themselves red pill, or what they can claim to be part of red pill. this should be a part of sidebar really
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:59 AM
10

"I just want a good guy" while in RL "I have to show those bitches who is the main one"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 06:07 AM
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the problem is men rate themselves on a percentage scale, while women rate themselves on a "you are a 10 queen" scale a man that's more attractive than half of men is in the same bracket as a woman that's more attractive than half of women, she will be prettier, he will be stronger, that's it and how it should be
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 09:09 AM
1

that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:27 PM
1

not from the guys you like, incels can also get sex from a sheep
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:26 PM
4

there is a place for both of you on his bike https://mashable.com/video/2-sheep-1-bike
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:12 PM
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Even women that have sympathy are afraid to say it because it is currently not in trend. 90% of women follow trends so they post mostly about Palestine, cats, poor dogs that noone wants to adopt etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:38 AM
5

because that's the only way he could be in a relationship with an avg woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:02 PM
6

I have a friend who is avg and who got married, but he is getting cheated on left and right and he has to remain silent on it. Most men would not be content with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:36 AM
1

if you badly need to get laid why not just pay for the hooker tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:31 PM
3

or a sex worker self
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 10:57 AM
1

"It sounds like you are essentially blaming women for the existence of bad men." some men definitely do become bad when they see the pattern, if women were most attracted to men holding Mickey Mouse umbrellas a lot of men would do it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:14 AM
1

I evade such women but some dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:05 AM
5

it's because NT women don't want to have their social status harmed and being in company with autistic people does exactly that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:14 PM
3

women making themselves look not easy to get is a tale as old as time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 10:38 AM
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The problem are women that have a preset number of no's before they say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 09:17 AM
2

If they just looked at a photo of a man and got attracted the same way men do the world wild have overpopulated centuries ago. women are attracted to men based on looks alone, but that's 1% of men that won't entertain them, so the world is not overpopulated because women don't get attracted based on photo, but because those 1% of men don't want to be with 90% of women that want them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:12 AM
1

No thx I am not wearing heels even if it meant getting golden pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:44 AM
-1

well, yeah, but somehow those men once realise they want to date heterosexual women...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:23 PM
9

men also lose value by having sex with men, as almost no women would want to date them thereafter
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:05 PM
1

succinctly put
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:01 PM
2

I have the same experience. It's like their delusion grows with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:55 PM
7

bots and scammers target desperate (under)avg men not chads lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:52 PM
36

when women want smtg they are definitely more persistent than men, make a catfishing chad profile and see for yourself how creepy women can be in messages
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:04 AM
5

way more
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:02 AM
5

women kill children way more than children kill women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:01 AM
10

they are way more fearful of being brought in connection with LVM which would harm the position in their imagined social hierarchy than actually being harmed physically
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:54 AM
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its called alpha widow
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:14 PM
6

Looks like you are seeking justification for situationship with a guy that has higher SMV than you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:16 AM
4

hey if she is not handing me the signed letter of consent I'm not making a move
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:22 PM
2

nope, I warn other men of criminals and I am not a criminal nor want to be
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:18 PM
2

women aren't attracted to the same men but to the same group of men there I solved it for you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:17 PM
2

yupp, this is a very nuanced take
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:05 PM
2

true, which means we are not equal and never will be let's start from there
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 06:13 PM
6

of course, way more in WWII almost half a million american soldiers died in 5 years and almost all of them were men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:50 PM
9

well US is not in a war currently but you can check WWII numbers for example btw In the USA, men experience a disproportionately high number of work-related deaths, making up over 90% of fatal work injuries despite being around 53% of the workforce. the number of work related deaths is about the same as deaths from child birth now add that men are way more often victims of criminals etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:47 PM
12

15 women die yearly in Ukraine in childbirth, 50.000 men die in war yearly there that's three thousand times difference
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:42 PM
6

how many of them compared to men? Besides, women and children had the option to flee, men are legaly banned from exiting the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:25 PM
5

hah, if you want to experience female rape just tell her that you want to wait for sex with her because she is special to you and other girls were just for sex 99% chance she grabs your D in the most violent way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:46 PM
13

there is a higher chance men die doing the job to secure the future of their family or defending the country than women giving birth more than 100.000 Ukrainian men died in a war in last 3 years, how many Ukrainian women died giviing birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:41 PM
1

Males struggle with the concept of consent because women very often give a very vague response or want to be asked 5 times before telling yes as to not look like an easy lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:15 PM
1

why then promiscuous women have so many female friends and they are more often than not leaders of the female group
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:09 PM
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keep bf% in low tens, dress well and be sociable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:40 PM
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ah, just a classic Lilith
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:09 PM
0

He's 54 now, and you wouldn't ever believe it. He's got that rare movies star good looks and non-aging. I've never seen a better looking and better kept man of 54 in real life anywhere. I'm happily married of course for many a year but you still long for the first guy...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:48 AM
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if a guy is wanted by 23yos he is definitely wanted by older women as well
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:43 AM
2

that's sad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:41 AM
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noone really cares, even if women in their 30s date a 18yo guy most men are like more power to you young lad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:39 AM
-2

the same situation with me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:36 AM
6

I know a lot of people in their 40s that look ten years younger or ten years older, I don't know why would that be so unusual. When we celebrated 20 years of our high school graduation (we were 39) the oldest looking guy looked like an uncle of a youngest looking guy. Different genetics and different lifestyles I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:58 PM
1

yes, sex is important to me and it would be important to person I would be compatible with aren't women emancipated anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:54 PM
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look if I got a permanent ED and my wife still wanted sex I would pay her a professional escort from time to time and I would expect the same treatment from her if it was vice versa, the point of marriage is not to be the slave
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:39 PM
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I dunno I had sex with women who had multiple births and it was pretty good, but it also probably depends on the physionomy, for some women it may be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:13 PM
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RP is not a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:00 AM
19

uh no, besides healthy women bodies don't get damaged with age/pregnancy to the point sex becomes a problem, actually older women are known to be better in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:41 AM
2

sometimes even 5 is enough if he has any status
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:20 PM
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yeah women pretend like it's a rare occurrence
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:09 PM
1

add another 100 and white people might also cease to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:23 AM
6

"if he can allow himself to be an asshole then he must be sought after by other women" that's how a lot of women think
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:12 AM
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men were attracted to you when you were 11?! what pedo area do you live in ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:09 AM
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her friends are definitely going to talk her into cheating on you, mark these words
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:25 PM
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Date for what? For a LTR I'd definitely date attractive late bloomer 10-15 years older. Attractive guys in their 20s wouldnt want to LTR a girl in description and if you gave chance to nonattractive insecure young guys you would have huge problem if you wanted to break up after they become jealous and possessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:20 PM
1

I doubt serious guys are interested in bi women as they often tend to be not so feminine anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:53 AM
2

but attractive heterosexual young women do and those are ones who do matter, why would I be interested in what lesbians are doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:41 AM
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for some women having to go from 9/10 men to 6/10 men for hookups is a struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:14 AM
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but I don’t play with their hair, don’t tickle them etc. were all your male friends gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:29 PM
4

then humanity would go extinct in a few generations
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:35 AM
1

the biggest problem is with those who have unrealistic expectations, I mean if a guy is 5'4 he is targeting a very narrow pool of women that won't mind it, so he basically has to beat 99 out of 100 guys and it's a tough chance TRP can propel him that much
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 09:55 PM
1

we do actually call it out, they can claim to be buddhists FWIW
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:44 PM
8

women remove the fathers from and destroy their sons with impunity and complain about men not being emotinally mature
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:26 PM
1

it's called rage phase and those men aren't considered redpilled (yet)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:18 PM
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it's related mostly to men who want to start the family and have a kid or two at least there are women who find love in their 70s and more power to them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:06 PM
1

it's very different
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:01 PM
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If you want to be artificially happy just take Xanax and skip unnecessary conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:57 PM
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"This appears to imply, whether intentionally or inadvertently, that sex with men necessarily makes a person worse off." it's valid for both men and women, most women wouldn't date a bisexual guy, while most guys wouldn't care if a girl experimented with another girl
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:52 PM
1

you cockblocked him and he would definitely hate you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:44 PM
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"There's a trend in todays world that every average joe deserves a beautiful women." where is that a trend?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:44 PM
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a lot of women will be in hookups albeit not voluntarily, sometimes they will pretend it's a real relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:01 PM
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a man's dream
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:32 AM
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they do everything to make people as shallow as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:32 AM
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you can always date women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:31 AM
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so many guys are clueless
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:29 AM
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"I dont care about a mans weight or how much he works out, I only care about face and personality. " Most women do tho and it's not shallow. People should be able to take care of their health.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:53 PM
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I said "might". Eighteen year olds are free to fuck who they want and join the military if they want. I had flings with older women when I was 18-19, I felt in no way groomed or manipulated or whatever, we enjoyed each other and that was it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:47 PM
4

no, it's just that a woman will pick a guy based on how much status/clout can he bring
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:45 PM
4

you stopped being friends with her because she dated someone who might be in the military receving bullets at the other end of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:11 PM
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most of them are cloutsexual
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:08 PM
2

"fun and outgoing" = unga bunga humor
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:46 PM
4

"Men arent going to end up with the sexy only fans models they follow that are 10yrs younger than them." men who want to LTR an online whore better never be in a relationship anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:44 PM
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the problem is that women don't understand the league for sex and the league for LTR are different like NBA and G League G League starters will sit on the bench in NBA and get maybe couple of minutes in garbage time, the same way mid women can have a monogamous relationship with mid guys but only get couple of minutes booty call action with Chad when he is bored
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:56 AM
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This. Usually only sick pedophiles go for the specific age and they would probably find 20yo too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:35 PM
3

I dated 28 year olds when I worked retail, and the 20 year olds in university who actually cared about going somewhere in life were far more mature and responsible. I have dated immature 38 year old women. Actually if they haven't been married one of the reasons might be their immaturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:34 PM
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But if you’re going to overlook a woman whose 28 just to chase someone who’s 20, it starts to look like a number fetish… let's be honest here it's maybe dicaprio and another few men that actually both want and have the leverage to do that, I don't know a single man from 18-48 that would overlook a 28 girl he vibes well with for some unknown 20 year old only because of the numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:32 PM
1

I think women should advocate for concealed carry, even if it is only for women(I would have no problems with inequality in that case).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:06 PM
3

I don't know why is that but I met more women with bad hygiene and unshaved armpits in last 5 years than from 2010-2020. Maybe corona made their sense of smell worse I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:03 PM
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I mean you don't have to be insecure to be disappointed after failing. An athlete losing the match will also feel devastated, but it doesn't mean he is insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:08 PM
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I think the real higher force is just mad at humanity because silly humans think they have figured out who is God.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:05 PM
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who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:03 PM
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no it isn't, men aren't women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:02 PM
2

Women viscerally still wanted top men, just by different attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:51 PM
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he making Karens wet? (I'l see myself out..)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:29 AM
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a right to manipulate men without them finding about it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:23 AM
1

so you would excuse them if they weren't white?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:38 PM
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a lot of women are genuinely concerned, but sometimes it's quite obvious when they are just jumping on a bandwagon
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 04:50 PM
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older women will do as well things like vote to import immigrants and be lanient to criminals then complain about how their country is unsafe. this is what drives me mad, they will cry about high rates of rape and SA and then vote for those bringing cavemen in droves
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 04:48 PM
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cool, explain how so many serial killers get love letters from women, not to mention "regular" street tattooed bums
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:55 AM
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your statement doesn't correspond with the reality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:20 PM
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it will not happen as long as women are attracted to dangerous men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:14 PM
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What even made you come up to this question...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:54 AM
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and obviously gets no action
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:22 AM
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So, what is the fixation of non-pure women on men who value purity instead of those who don't care rooted in then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 10:39 AM
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it depends on culture, the number of such guys in USA might be 10% while in Asia certainly way less than 1% as women there aren't inclined to have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 01:35 AM
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if women wanted fair market we would have the fair market with or without the apps, they want to share the top guys so either become one or die trying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 01:32 AM
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whoever women are naturally attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 08:09 PM
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I think women are actually excellent at vetting guys, they just aren't attracted to the guys they have vetted...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:57 AM
1

I don't think a vast majority of men want to actually settle with good looking +40 year olds. They are far more willing to settle for mid 20-30 year olds. absolutely, the only exception are men who don't want children
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:35 AM
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for those femcels there even an average american fat guy with ungroomed beard is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:31 AM
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However, studies have confirmed over and over again that adolescents are more likely to engage in risk-taking behaviors and are worse at long-term planning. People learn as long as they are alive, someone who is 60 will have more life experience than he had when he was 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:42 AM
5

so what do you exactly want, that those men suddenly lose eyes or become gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:30 PM
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...and it actually really sucked. it looks like it doesn't suck for other women because majority of women in their 20s are doing everything to be more attractive, those financially able are even going to the extremes like surgeries
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:13 PM
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men love women who appreciate them, there is a tough chance Sidney would appreaciate a random non-celebrity, women almost always look up and men know that but yeah if she approached a man and asked him for sex 99% of men would probably agree, however that's also valid for any non-celebrity average or above average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:58 PM
0

exactly, the point of TRP is to become successful so you can have a choice, if you vibe better with a 40 year old woman then by all means go for her
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:46 PM
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And yet he was sued for rape....kinda sounds like something that would happen to a predator. to a predator with money, I'm willing to bet $1000 that she wouldn't sue a local homeless Chad even if he really did rape her, actually she likely wouldn't even tell it to anyone because it would deflate her value in her golddigging market
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:45 PM
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stop with the "brain development thing", there are bunch of 18yo people more intelligent than the majority of 26yo people, not everyone has the same life experience as well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:44 PM
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women will say that nice guys aren't genuine, but at the same time they will virtue signal to the world that they are good persons, although most of them are far from that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:40 PM
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"Many of them do. " how many is that? My estimation is that it's no more than 20% of women, since you have 80% of women fighting for 20% of men that means 80% of men have to fight for those 20% of women, so they still have to be top 25% of those 80%, only by other means than looks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:38 PM
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most men love "basic" women that don't put themselves for the everyone to see most women love men who are popular for a man happiness could be achieved within the family, for a woman happiness is only if other women confirm it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 05:20 PM
5

I have such a bad luck that I would probably be lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 08:51 PM
2

I like seeing other perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 08:49 PM
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asian men can be popular with very young women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:32 AM
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she tries to heal herself that way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:32 AM
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men and women have a different definition of a "good" man, the same way a farmer and a farm visitor have a different definition of a good horse for a farmer a good horse is the healthy one that can do a lot of work and is beneficial to farmer, for a farm visitor a good horse is one that is friendly and won't kick him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:14 AM
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yupp and you know in advance they would talk her away from you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:13 AM
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men and women have a different definition of a "good" man, the same way a farmer and a farm visitor have a different definition of a good horse for a farmer a good horse is the healthy one that can do a lot of work and is beneficial to farmer, for a farm visitor a good horse is one that is friendly and won't kick him
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:27 PM
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explain her that you need more sex and she should let you see other women while she is not in heat or just break up and find one that is sexually compatible with you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:46 PM
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6 tits
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 12:13 PM
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if there is no 1-1 pairing then it is skewed, that's actually the definition of it y'all can't have top 10% of guys and expect them to be monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:26 AM
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punching way above your level, you could argue that some of those women could easily get sex from those guys, but if casual sex is the goal why are they complaining about cheating or red flags etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:48 PM
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from a woman’s perspective which seems to be extremely skewed and that's why we have this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:46 PM
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nah in reality those women are on avg a bit under mid and men a bit over mid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:31 PM
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PUA in practice
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:01 PM
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it has been called out regularly, search TRP sub for rage phase also there were numerous vids etc. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m_I_f85wcp4
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:05 PM
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where do you draw the line between golddiggers or just standard leechers and escorts? a leecher will use the guy and pretend that she cares about him until she monkeybranches to the richer guy, escort will do the same just cheaper
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:54 PM
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men do not like women who are doing hookups for the same reason
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:52 PM
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actually they are more likely to hurt women than physically strong men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:46 PM
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we can't change how people will declare themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:43 PM
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guys who are in rage phase arent redpilled because the basic tenet of TRP is to not get angry over things you cant change
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:49 AM
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yeah find tinder hookup and then end up on tea app as a maniac rapist with small D because you didn't want to commit to a crazy 4/10 feminazi
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:33 AM
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I mean some guys were licking door handles during corona times so...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:31 AM
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nobody here does anything to protect them, actually women here are told numerous times not to go for those guys and very few listen app can't help because a lot of women there are just going to lie and you will have false sense of safety if you go for a guy that's not mentioned on the app but he actually may be a big problem
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:03 PM
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of course, also a lot of women like drama and men that are mentioned by other women usually bring it even if they are not that attractive themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:59 PM
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yupp, if I got it right it's a US app and it's not hard to be top 20% man in US
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:58 PM
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There is a pretty apparent type of woman who is going to falsely accuse someone of something so heinous. there is more and more of them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:58 PM
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I guarantee you 80% of those "committed" would jump to a better opportunity whether they are men or women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:36 AM
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If he’s shy and doesn’t approach, then being single is his fault…clearly, approaching or not approaching is something in his control. is it valid for women also or...we are ..maybe..actually..not the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:59 AM
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This is not true. Some women want sex more than some men, although that doesn't happen often.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:06 PM
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you won't convince him, he continued with deformation in his next comment :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:08 PM
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Women are not monoliths. they are not, but the Tea App was #1 at the Apple store a few days ago
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:37 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fpreview.redd.it%2Fqbfakdx4exef1.jpeg%3Fwidth%3D720%26format%3Dpjpg%26auto%3Dwebp%26s%3D6a9fed58886af9069134bb2b057b56642ec73131
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:40 PM
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how do you know those guys are incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:36 PM
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Men don’t understand and get the safety factor, men don’t worry as much about their dates having a criminal record such as attempted rape or kidnapping, or being on the sex offenders registry. we actually do, not everyone lives in a safe western country
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:58 PM
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incels hate fuckboys and generally sexually successful men way more than they hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:57 PM
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so, a woman catfishes a guy, gets mad he doesn't want a second date (or he ran away as soon as he saw her), installs an app where she makes up who knows what about him together with women like her...the app gets hacked and then she gets mad again and complains how men are misogynists that threaten women's safety
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:09 AM
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Wouldn’t this work in favor of the men being posted there? ironically for some it would, even a bad advertisement is a good advertisement
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:06 AM
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it's hilarious, most of those women are ugly whales and I bet they were just talking bad because they were rejected for 2nd dates
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:12 PM
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yupp, the problem is that men and women don't have the same definition of average
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:27 PM
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she can get another average man any day if he does so, if she stays then he is probably not that average
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:25 PM
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The only issue I see with these sites and apps for someone like me, a woman could potentially become attached to me, want more than I’m offering, get mad when I don’t reciprocate, and go on to describe me in all the terrible ways scorned women tend to describe the man who scorned them. that's actually a very big issue, because most women don't take rejection easily
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:09 PM
1

They love-bomb. it's what 90+% of guys are doing, at least those that want to deal with women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:42 PM
3

Being in this space is going to create a bias. As a bi woman, the same issues I’ve seen with women is the same issues I’ve seen with men. It just sometimes manifests differently. men that would date bi women are very different from men that would not also straight women and gay/bi women are very different in their behaviour I appreciate your effort but your experience is just not relatable to straight people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:40 PM
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I'm convinced it's a male revenge fantasy that the majority of women hooking up are getting their hearts broken because they couldn't lock down a ONS. it doesn't happen with ONS (although sometimes it does) because women doing ONS know what they are doing but it certainly happens with "situationships"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:21 PM
2

I had multiple female friends working in restaurants and I haven't heard about it, waiters groped by drunk guests yeah but colleagues..it's a big no no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:06 AM
2

I live in a small city.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:54 PM
0

None. I cold approach only when I am on a trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:25 PM
6

Whether you do that to find a meaningful long term relationship or to sleep around is up to you. it's futile, they just don't want to understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:25 PM
6

it usually comes from women not satisfied with their love life and they hate both men and women that are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:25 PM
6

I dont deny such men exist but more than one male server groping you? That's really statistically improbable unless the bar was called "gropers paradise" or such
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:24 PM
1

it's a form of social contract, something similar we had during the Middle Age, you give your daughter to someone to marry and she has very little say in it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:10 AM
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why would companies employ men only because they are men? It doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:32 PM
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my working experience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:32 PM
3

it was actually after 35 and no, I didn't get "flooded with attention" (that's reserved for celebrities), but my dating success signifcantly improved because I have improved myself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:32 PM
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for example men are much better at working under pressure and handling multiple tasks without breaking down and crying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:17 PM
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I am quite sure it would cause a huge outrage
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:16 PM
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I am not the expert on anthropology so I don't know why. But men uniting would mean women would have to subjugate to them and be with men they don't find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:15 PM
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if they were as qualified they would be appointed without any quotas
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:14 PM
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...but almost noone would pay them, because noone is interested in their "work", as they lack "attributes" to do it, the same way a lot of women take the job of more qualified men only because they are women maybe you understand the problem now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:01 PM
11

a lot of men would like to live from OF...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:11 PM
9

I am not sure women would like the result of Brotherhood Uber Alles...because it would probably end up with stoning of female cheaters
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:11 PM
0

In general, I've noticed that women in 30s have children more as an accessory to their life, like a Louis Vuitton purse or a cat, than a human being. It's frankly off putting. ah damn, it very often is like that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:48 PM
1

why would someone who hates people be interested in..people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:46 PM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:46 PM
5

why would you follow this sub then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:10 AM
2

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:09 AM
1

43
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:07 AM
1

Steven Gerrard's daughter Lilly, 20, is pregnant with her first child with boyfriend Lee Byrne, the son of notorious mob boss Liam Byrne "only criminal women date criminals"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:25 PM
1

Not gaslighting men would be a good start. A lot of men don't realise the "game" and get disappointed time and time again thinking there is something wrong with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:24 PM
2

if I wanted to dress for men id wear lingerie everywhere. men that want relationship would definitely evade women in lingerie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:46 PM
2

I've heard all sorts of horrible stories about todays guys in their 20s. Either they are just pump&dumping if they have options or in a worse scenario they become heavily jealous&possessive because she was likely their first girlfriend, so the breakup becomes a horror movie of sorts. Of course there are some normal ones, but it's literally a lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:44 PM
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OF is a simps network, it's like saying that someone uses po*nhub to read funny comments, maybe those people exist but they are a statistical error.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:36 PM
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So then you accept the premise that an average woman has it profoundly easier than an average man, when it comes to dating, all else being equal? first you say that you don't have it easier and then "So far I have always gotten the men I have wanted" how is that not easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 10:14 PM
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it also depends on your behaviour and dressing style, if you behave and dress modestly chances are noone will approach in a long time even if you are very pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 10:10 PM
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Loudmouth guys who are convincing/charismatic and good talkers who have delusional self-conviction, but without any competence or much intelligence to back it up, are almost always chosen over someone who is a bit more timid but is actually competent and intelligent. But unable to 'properly market' himself, if you will. Women always fall for good packaging over good content. But I guess so do a lot of men. This.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 10:04 PM
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"the vast majority"? Why not all of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 10:03 PM
1

People forget that better physique increases your confidence and women are attracted to confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 10:02 PM
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Fitness girls do care more though. I'd say all girls that exercise care at least a little bit and the girls that exercise are usually most attractive Men usually don't give a damn what some obese woman wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:59 PM
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It ONLY matters if the woman is attracted to your looks WITHOUT the physique yeah but when a guy who has 30% bf comes down to 15% or even 10% his face also drastically changes and becomes more chiseled which women find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:56 PM
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that's what 90% of professional escorts put on themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:47 PM
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it's just a plus, not all young and pretty women are high value (tbh a lot of them are crazy), not all 30+ women are low value
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:31 PM
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Toxic men usually only get short-term success and fail in the long-term. non-toxic men also very often fail in the long-term, most women are serial monogamists and when she gets fed up with the relationship it's totally irrelevant if you are toxic or not, sometimes she will be fed up with toxicity and sometimes she will be fed up because non-toxic guy is "boring"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:51 PM
4

but I do think there is an immaturity gap between boys and girls at that age at any age really
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:06 PM
1

the one which screams "you better evade me"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:05 PM
0

that's not red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:04 PM
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the difference being very few men think they can LTR a girl that looks like a model, but many women think they can LTR a guy who has better options only if they press right buttons
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:52 AM
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getting a relationship is as difficult for women because women want someone (way) above their paygrade women thinking every guy who would take them to bed would eventually LTR them is like men thinking every expensive escort would LTR them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:29 AM
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with the same face like when they exit the toilet
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:27 AM
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nah, a lot of men don't care about hookups nor do they have time for it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:08 AM
42

Women write this like they are some perfection and not the trainwrecks themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:48 AM
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Didn't work out well for her. Who would've thought
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:47 AM
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no, most women in the world don't have tattoos, maybe in USA also I meant more those big "look I'm the problem" tattoos not some minimal ones
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:31 AM
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Chad is just someone attractive to women - I don't delve into why.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:30 AM
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it's not desperation, it's just that men genuinely care about looks way less than women do, basically if we are talking about looks 80% of men would happily date 80% of women if those women would just take basic care of their diet and hygiene and not do something stupid like putting too much makeup or tattoos while 80% of women want a guy that stands out somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:46 PM
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isn't life with an average man more peaceful though than a life with Chad that has many women interested in him?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:43 PM
2

exactly, I am single because I can't find a woman with integrity that won't listen to the "advice" from her stupid friendies and I don't want a woman that has no friends at all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:38 PM
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some combat roles yeah, but those are rare or you seriously think 100 women have any chance to defeat 100 men provided they have the same equipment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:59 AM
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so much about "we want guys our age"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:47 AM
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what idea? That most women are practically useless in combat?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:46 AM
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I guess the Netherlands or Scandinavia
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:32 AM
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guys can be more comfortable getting physical intimacy from each other too. you obv dont understand guys
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:30 AM
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party hostels
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:07 PM
1

Red Pill is not what you believe, it's observational truth. What you observe though depends on your surroundings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:42 PM
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because there are redpillers all around the world and their life experience greatly differs someone born in USA in Christian or Amish community will have different experience from someone in Singapure or Islamabad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:36 AM
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every normie is bluepilled by definition, so bluepill has always been a mainstream and it has to be for the society not to break down
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:25 AM
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I don't have trouble dating, I have trouble with the single friendies of my dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:08 AM
1

when women take initiative they truly do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:27 PM
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Justpearlythings built her entire platform around meat worshipping and she ended up with an unattractive man who openly cheats well maybe he has good meat afterall
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:09 AM
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Just Pearly figured out how to make onlyfans money while keeping her clothes on. well, isn't that smart
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:06 AM
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There are also women who are genuinely into cars, unfortunately they are very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:47 PM
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"One way women can filter against bad men is pre-selection, which is mocked as being a conformist hivemind and only wanting the men other women want." with preselection you don't filter against bad men, but against non-attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:33 PM
0

are all professional musicians the same tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:02 PM
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Yes, because I love her and my D won't fall off if I have sex when I am not in the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:49 PM
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in other words, men like things happening spontaneously, women like them artificial
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:06 PM
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you are what women want, 80% of men are not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:02 PM
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don't marry guys based on what shoes they wear and you won't have thar problem
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:42 AM
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It depends how drunk those women are. Sober women will be vague even when they give you compliments. For example they won't say you look good in that suit but that suit looks good on you etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:24 PM
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it never was, it's just an option for guys that want to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:35 PM
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haha at least, hell even late 2000s were normal, but mobile Internet changed everything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:20 PM
1

you really think women dont abuse men in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:17 PM
1

that's not TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:17 PM
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now switch men with women in your answer and you will understand why TRP exists
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:50 AM
1

so why don't you date those wonderful men then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:29 AM
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just don't blame the first guy when the "better" one pumps and dumps you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:16 AM
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it doesn't matter as long as it supports their talking points, therefore increase of 50% and increase of 0,5% are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:07 PM
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-5'6 -bald -kind of introverted for 99% of women yes, wish you luck finding your unicorn
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:02 AM
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this, I am aiming for 25-35 but last three were like 24,37 and 23 choosing your partner by sheer numbers is stupid, there is no love in that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:35 AM
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I’m not here to moralize about 30-year-olds who date 20-year-olds, but as a near 30-year-old man I honestly cannot imagine dating a 20-year-old. Though I’ve only dated men, so maybe it’s different for men and women. yeah it's like women have a thing called pussy and we can ya know make kids and stuff...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:33 AM
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My lowest age I'll go is probably around 28 at this point in my life. Any younger and there's a noticeable gap in how we interact, share life experiences, etc. that's so funny because I have met insanely mature 20yo women and insanely immature 40yo women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:32 AM
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-love to cook, build things with wood and metal -have a B.A. and three A.A. degrees a non-attractive 30+ woman would settle for you solely because of this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:29 AM
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I would be more concerned about why she got the weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:15 PM
1

it's (very) different for women, even non attractive women get a lot of "offers"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:12 PM
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it's not the problem, the problem is when you expect such guy to be loyal and start blaming men in general that they aren't loyal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:45 AM
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TRP states that for most men it takes years to see visible improvement, I don't know what he expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:47 PM
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there are always exceptions, I know a rich not bad looking woman married to a guy who doesnt have much going for him but that's rare
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:43 PM
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easier said than done lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 10:24 PM
0

does it mean I can find other 498 redditors and start my communist utopia
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:21 PM
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couldn't have said it better, coincidentally it's embracing red pill that propelled me economically, as I stopped having blind trust and removing of rosetinted glasses made me realise that people are way worse than I thought
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:20 PM
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just pay the escort bro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:43 PM
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in that situation I imagine the OP asking her "puhleaaase can you give meh your conseeent" and her getting dressed and running away as far as she can
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:24 PM
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or just her taking your underwear off and starting doing it by herself for example
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:39 AM
3

recorded in some form? The only valid form could be to go to the notary and even then she could stay she signed under duress so it's not a guarantee. If she wants to do you bad no record is going to help you. Just don't stick it in the crazy and hope for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:14 AM
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especially his mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:46 AM
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skinny women can have as many orbiters as they want unless they are witchlike ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:45 AM
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tell that to those women that lose interest when a man asks instead of reading her signals and that's a lot of attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:27 AM
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If you are autistic it doesn't mean all others have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:18 AM
2

more power to you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:04 PM
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Nope. Plus rotation of plates that would actually accept it and be any attractive is only for top 1% men, which most can't realistically achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:56 PM
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Imagine being happy about your newest iPhone then finding out it's actually made by poor Asian kids in horrible working conditions. So the feeling is similar. So I am happy I know the truth, but I am not happy about what it is and I am especially not happy nobody told me about it way earlier, as it would make my life much easier, at least when it comes to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:02 AM
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I'm very shy, and not good with social skills. it's interesting that other bi women wouldn't find that to be a bad thing for you but they would if you'd be a man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:58 AM
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you are keeping this conversation just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:28 PM
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Awkward and shy is something men usually get over easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:34 PM
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they call Chad anyone with that jawline
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:46 PM
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I don't support Tate but I would post that as well. If some women think the messenger is more important than the message they can filter themselves out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:45 PM
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so why you dont get one?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:44 PM
1

Saved by the bell
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:30 PM
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I would also go for a woman my age (I am 42) if I didnt want to have kids. Everybody knows that somewhat older women are better in bed and thats one of the most important things for a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:10 PM
2

that's not the point, imagine for example if someone had much more patience for another girl, but not for you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:51 AM
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The best relationships I had with women that actually wanted it from me. We spent some time as acquaintances before tho so they got to know me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:44 AM
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because maybe you knew the same people, not everyone lives in NYC
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:43 AM
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those are the same women that try to make their dogs vegan
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:42 AM
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Yupp, it gives away "I am desperate and/or autistic" vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:24 AM
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She should be a supermodel billionaire. In reality she should take basic care about herself, not smoke, not take drugs, not be an alcoholic (a little bit is good), not be manipulative and have some goals in life. Hard to find, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:23 AM
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my point is being it's much harder for a man to become attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:58 AM
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90% of women are/can be conventionally attractive with just a normal diet and minimal skincare&hygiene
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:56 AM
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Some days I am so busy that I think it would be really nice if I had some girl now to massage my head while I work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:04 AM
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it seems father is just the racist who tries to hides his racism behind agegapism
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:46 AM
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occasionally they do, nobody denies that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 08:27 AM
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except half of the guys they call incels are in a relationship or even married
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 05:51 AM
1

139 lbs is awfully low for a 6ft man, I'm 6'2 and I can't imagine myself under 200 lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 05:49 AM
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not if it was obvious why were they with them at the first place, it's the same like women going for bad boys and crying when they leave
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 09:46 AM
4

well for a golddigger no money equals bad husband
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 08:00 AM
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Women: we do not want rich guys but guys who are interesting, look good and dress well TRP: do not try to buy women with money, instead invest in yourself, learn to read social cues and become interesting in company, go to the gym and dress better Women: we hate TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:10 PM
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nah it's blackpill, they are similarly bitter just for different reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:57 PM
0

emotions and intelligence aren't really meant to be used together
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:34 PM
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my impression is that most MGTOW guys are just bitter their golddigger wives divorced them at the first hint of a financial crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:33 PM
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leagues don't work if 90% women think they belong to the league of top 10% men because they will use them for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:28 PM
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what looks match? There are some guys that literally no woman wanted back then, but instead went for older guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:46 PM
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those usually don't look to marry anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:45 PM
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yes some men are bad at it and some women just cant communicate in bed but expect a man to be a clairvoyant
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:00 PM
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maybe because for most women ideal man is the one that would approach them...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:49 AM
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sorry at the age 60 healthy people are more than prepared to care for themselves, often even at 80
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:47 AM
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so? At the adult age it should be ready to care for itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:55 AM
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it doesn't work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:47 AM
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there are about 20% of single childless men in their 40s that want and can have kids and about 2% of such women, we can't all find our age match
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:46 AM
2

so basically all dating apps today?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:23 AM
2

that doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:55 PM
2

shouldn't be hard to find really
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:54 PM
2

is erection a must when he is listening to you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:52 PM
1

I like that I fail almost every condition :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:51 PM
2

I have a feeling I'd probably fail at 6th
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:50 PM
0

doesn't sound hard really
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:48 PM
4

it's late where I am so I have read international virgin and I thought what does it have to do with Christianity now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:47 PM
1

I have a feeling you think wholesome guys are just Chads who arent bad boys
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:23 PM
1

by me :D
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:18 PM
0

if she has respect for her body she will get thinner very soon
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:18 PM
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basically any scientific article about it e.g. https://www.aidsmap.com/about-hiv/estimated-hiv-risk-exposure Vaginal sex, female-to-male, no condom 0.04% (1 in 2380) Receptive anal sex, no condom 1.38% (1 in 72) so not 100 women but 35 women, mea culpa
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:21 PM
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a single man who is 42 that would reject advances of smart&attractive 28yo woman is basically non-existing, so maybe asking would be redundant after all :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:37 PM
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It's in female nature to hide behind the man when she f*cks up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:32 PM
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it's just a fact and if you write that fact here you obviously get downoted so I came to the conclusion that redditors just don't like facts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:30 PM
4

I dont encourage anyone to be promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:29 PM
4

man who slept with 100 women has less chance to get HIV than one who got f*cked by another man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:28 PM
2

I know it's a novel concept but you could just ask the guy. Btw guys who don't react on IOIs from girls in their 20s are extremely rare, those that say they don't usually never got the IOI anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:27 PM
1

Respect&integrity(not allowing her "friendies" to decide for her), everything else is less important.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:25 PM
0

higher STD rate if nothing else
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:02 AM
-3

exactly, also if she is attracted to other women she likely wouldnt be attracted to a muscular guy like me anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:01 AM
-12

as it should be
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:59 AM
1

sometimes it takes time for a man to build himself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:21 AM
-1

You're pulling out the "women love Christian Grey" trope? People read books for fantasy lol and men usually prefer porn with beautiful women not the ugly ones, even if it's only fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:23 PM
4

believe it or not there are some men who like opinionated, driven and confident women even if they are 10+ year younger, it's just that you haven't met them maybe because they are rare I dunno
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:21 PM
2

men usually pursue women that give them signals and they usually wouldn't care one bit if that puts someone off
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:19 PM
0

sorry we arent blind
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:12 PM
-10

maybe, but it's still the truth, mariekje met elastiekje
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:01 AM
-18

by a man she chose over a man she very well knew would never cause her trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:53 AM
6

what bubble do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:51 AM
34

it's irrelevant because those women will search for other celebrities or high status men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:39 AM
0

a lot of people claim they are TRP and then just spout stupid things because they can't get any women it's like "all women are whores except my mom" or something similarly silly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:19 PM
4

now I want to start a metal band and name it arthoes :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:17 PM
1

I asked you a simple question, how do you measure its 50/50 and not 51/49
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:02 PM
1

how do you measure it? I'm all ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:16 PM
0

no it isn't...actually TRP says that men&women can be equally good&bad, the problem is with mainstream bluepill thinking that women can do no wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 01:54 PM
2

men who are not virgins and want virgins are wrong whatever age they are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 01:04 PM
-2

men who want to get girls virginity have special mentality and they can also be younger or older
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:49 PM
-4

I’ve heard of older men pressuring young girls for sex. younger men have stronger libido and would way more often pressure girls for sex, that's actually one of the reasons some girls go for older men, they have smarter things to do than have sex 5 times every day
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:32 PM
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ya know there is a difference between entering a relationship with someone and being with someone and having kids with that person etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:44 AM
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I don't think golddiggers care for "leagues", unless those are financial.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:47 AM
2

I would just call it being normal, not 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:42 AM
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their 25 yo trophy wife doesn't want them for their intellect. attractive 35yos are even worse, here and there you can stumble upon an attractive 25yo that won't use you for money, good luck with 35yos tho, they all "know their price"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:29 AM
4

because everyone has something that he is better in than the other, why would I force my wife to haul the heavy stuff when we are moving for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:26 AM
5

nobody should do 100% of anything, but it's delusional to think you can do everything 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:32 PM
4

8s don't have to go for 8s when they can go for 9s and 10s who would put them into "situationships"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:31 PM
9

A lot more often when I am taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 08:17 PM
9

try <10%, then it will go up to the level of an average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 08:17 PM
1

men are not superior, but if we take into account only people who want to have kids, women will have a lot less time to develop their skills because they will have to bear children and be primary caregivers that's why women have to be compensated somehow, for example they could retire 2 years earlier for every kid they have etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 08:15 PM
3

we were at different stages in life. yupp, that's the bigger problem than the difference in numbers, so 21 and 23 could be a bigger difference than 23 and 33 where they both are graduated and working
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 08:09 PM
3

Asking for consent kills the vibe and makes sex look like a transaction. But I understand that there are a lot of autistic men&women nowadays who don't understand the clues, so to each his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 08:06 PM
0

you have to define sexual success first, even unattractive guys can occasionally pull an older woman for a casual, so its just a question how low can you go
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:36 PM
2

more often than not it gives the "I am not serious" vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:33 PM
1

and isn't already jaded
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:59 AM
2

18 year is too much, but I'd rather my 25yo daughter date a stable 40yo man whose intention is to marry than a 25yo tattooed "bad boy"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:56 AM
1

better in the foot than in the head
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:53 AM
1

do you need self control with your male friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:52 AM
27

No, he will just think that i paid for him because he is amazing and i should be grateful for his time. ring ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:01 PM
7

look, if you need to behave differently with the person of the opposite sex than with your friends of the same sex - it's not your friend, easy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:23 AM
1

He literally had a girlfriend when we met and we were friends for a year and a half. It wasn’t until they broke up that he suddenly wanted to date me. so, you would be OK if your boyfriend was "befriending" girls while you are in a realtionship?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:44 AM
6

or maybe girls just shouldnt be intentionally vague
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:36 AM
-2

if you need self control then its not your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:30 AM
1

Ugly women can attract only someone for casual sex, even ugly men can get a D if they are gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:09 AM
-1

I dress down on purpose everyday (and still get stares) because I can't shoo them away fast enough. do you live in Saudi Arabia? Because I have some very attractive female acquaintances and they don't have such experience. Here and there someone is going to give them a compliment but it's far from that they have to "shoo them away".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:49 AM
3

thats sad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:28 AM
1

clients or coworkers? what is your job? did you inform the management?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:28 AM
1

find a girl thats into korean pop
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:25 AM
0

if they all used PREP that would make sense, but they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:06 PM
1

no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:05 PM
0

science
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:05 PM
1

if she can lock an attractive young man of the same age who isn't lazy then all power to her, but if she ends up as a single mom even that older guy is not going to want her
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:29 PM
5

He is able, but it is of no use.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:54 AM
1

No it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:48 AM
4

but their personalities are irrelevant as they were eliminated before, as in the text you quoted
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:47 AM
1

do you understand probabilities? There is a ten times higher chance that he has a HIV if he is bisexual and it can't be detected every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:05 AM
7

no it isn't, if she isn't interested in him it doesn't matter if she knows him personally or not, she has put him into "friends"(read: losers) category and that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:43 AM
2

because they stopped being lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:28 AM
2

bisexuals have much higher risk of having HIV, women have all the right to evade them that's also one of the reasons men evade women with high body count
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:47 AM
1

they werent really interested to watch them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:44 AM
0

some men were busy with other things like career etc. and didn't think much about attracting women or they were just dating a mediocre woman that didn't care..up to a point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:01 PM
1

well, that's what I am saying
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:00 PM
-2

it depends, some men started training and dressing stylish at 35...they will look better at 40 than they looked at 25
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:45 PM
11

attractive men have to be misogynists to fend off women, especially feminists who seem to be attracted to what they supposedly hate
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:46 AM
9

"bro dug one year" ya they can be very persistent when stalking, yet they call men creeps lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:44 AM
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top 10% men occasionally do f*** 180 lbs women and it's enough for that to happen only once and she will immediately think it's her level and that she only has to find the right astrologist who would align stars for her to lock the top 10% guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 03:01 PM
2

umm no wet dreams happen also with ejaculation (unfortunately)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:27 AM
1

why Siukslinis_acc' parents tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:25 AM
1

you have to ask that women, or to observe by yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:38 PM
1

the guy women like, simple
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:35 PM
1

I said those that are attractive and have options. Or they will commit but only to supermodel like girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:30 PM
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90% of men who don't visit whores will pay to other women as well just in a different way, especially if we are talking about Eastern Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:41 AM
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redpill for manipulative women is what CCTV is for criminals, of course they are going to talk against it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:35 AM
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Men who don't have the money/status are very aware they will not get younger attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 10:43 PM
1

I doubt it because they do laugh at their jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 10:40 PM
1

25 year old conventionally attractive women are not that rare and some won't mind even 20yo age gap provided it's a top 1% guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:05 AM
1

I mean some men are putting their D in other men, so a chubby women has to be premium compared to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:09 PM
5

I haven't met a single average man of 45 that thinks he has a chance with a 25yo supermodel.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:07 PM
4

BS, I know a plenty of genuinely funny guys who arent even ugly that dont have girlfriends. Being funny is certainly a plus but not that much as one would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:03 PM
2

of course long hair tattooes earrings piercings etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:56 PM
3

women complaining about creeps are usually 5/10s that sometimes get a random message from a 5/10 guy but they themselves spam 9/10 guys with messages
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:55 PM
2

I dont know about his mental capacity but he did just fine in that response.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:19 PM
1

know what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:00 PM
2

just a LARP by what is most probably a very ugly woman that even incels wouldn't want
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:32 AM
3

gays are usually attracted to anything (their words)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:10 AM
1

I look like I am around 30 so they don't until I tell them, for some is even 30 too much but also I am not approaching unless there are signs so there are no awkward situations. I won't ask them out until I see they are really interested, snarky comments about my age begin usually when we are already dating :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:09 AM
2

Not necessarily the majority of women are attracted, date and marry men around their age. That also a statistical fact. Even being in a 10 year gap relationship is an outlier. the majority of people are heterosexual, that doesn't mean that others can't find someone to date I don't know what was the point of your response, nobody thinks that all women are interested in someone 10+ older, hell some are exclusively going for 10+ younger and that's also OK, to each his own
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:05 AM
6

it is extremely rare that a modest feminine and realistic woman gets to 35 without being married
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:42 PM
4

it depends when they start improving themselves, some guys bloom very late, I am 42 and definitely had more success with women in their 20s last couple of years than before
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:32 PM
1

I don't cheat and none of my friends do (that I know of). And some are quite attractive. However some of them are just "spinning plates" but that's not cheating because girls know that very well, except some of them maybe convince themselves that they are in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:42 AM
0

your league is a guy that doesnt have better options than you, not the guy that is just going to sleep with you because he is bored
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:30 AM
8

Women are not all whores nor want to capitalise on their beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:02 AM
2

nothing is guaranteed in life, but having 5% chance of being cheated on is better than 95%, going for a guy that is almost certainly going to cheat and justifying it by "well there is some chance that first guy could do it too" is just making excuses to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:00 AM
2

So? They are aware they don't have access to those more attractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:57 AM
0

umm I wouldn't vote Republican but about 45% of American women do, so you either think that 45% of women are not women or you think that those women wouldn't want their partner to vote for the same party which I doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:39 AM
2

that american guy that got popular because of his jail photo is dating billionaire women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:13 AM
-1

lol I don't think the topic is about accidental kicks, men don't give a sh about it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:14 AM
1

Most women would not date a criminial. Sure some would but thats a minority. more women would date a criminal than an average guy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:02 AM
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women overwhelmingly want to be treated better than they treat men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:43 PM
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well feminism first started as a workers movement
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:14 PM
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genders are biologically not equal, you cant throw plant food to cows and lions and say "now you are equal"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:13 PM
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Do feminists understand they can't win against patriarchy? Their movement will lead to less and less children until society dies out and some other folks come who will be even more patriarchal than those before them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:07 PM
3

If I'm describing anyone as "good" in the context of dating, I'm imagining someone who meets my standards. yupp, that was the point of the post for us men a "good man" is someone who doesn't lie, cheat, steal etc. because we don't view men sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:14 PM
1

you dont know that red pill guys are not good for women..are you new to PPD :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:17 PM
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