I have a question for red-pill guys about what would be morally permissible for a man stranded with a woman on a deserted island.

Let's say that, after a shipwreck, Alice and Bob are stranded on an island and that Alice cannot get pregnant, and Bob knows it. Both are average-looking. Alice doesn't find Bob repulsive, but she also isn't attracted to him, whereas Bob would like to sleep with Alice. The two of them are more likely to survive if they work together; however, things are considerably easier for Bob given his greater physical strength and height.

Let's consider these four scenarios:

  1. Bob gets to know Alice better and helps her as best he can. He shows her kindness simply because she is his fellow human being. At some point, he also tells her that he finds her incredibly attractive. She thanks him for the compliment but tells him right away that she sadly doesn't feel the same way about him. He feels disappointed; however, the thought of resenting her because of that never even enters his mind. In the following days and weeks, he still wants her and hopes she might eventually change her mind and have sex with him, but he absolutely doesn't want to put her under any kind of pressure and will keep caring for her no matter what she chooses.

  2. Bob gets to know Alice better and helps her as best he can. He's nice to her because the two of them need one another and he doesn't want another human being to suffer needlessly. But he's a man and she's a woman, and he badly wants her. He feels greatly frustrated when she rejects his proposition. As a man, sex is a fundamental need for him in the same way that finding food is for her, and he believes that she's depriving him of it. He keeps treating her nicely, but he finds himself lusting after her more and more. One week later, he tells her that he's embarrassed and that he doesn't want to harm her, but that he finds her so hot and attractive that he can no longer withstand the temptation to see her naked body. Alice first considers the possibility of fighting him, but she's horrified when she realises that she has no chance of resisting him or fleeing without getting physically hurt and him sleeping with her anyway. She tells him in a trembling voice that he shouldn't do that to her, but that she will comply. Dark feelings of helplessness overwhelm her as she takes off her clothes for a man she'd never have wanted to date, even before he showed her his true face. From that point onwards, he provides her with good food and does most of the manual work, but she's completely lost her bodily autonomy. She might ask him to delay sex because she doesn't feel like it, but he ultimately always makes the final decision.

  3. Bob initially helps Alice as best he can, but after she rejects him, he gets angry and yells at her that, if it's true that he isn't entitled to sex with her, then she isn't entitled to any act of kindness from him beyond what is strictly necessary for him to survive. Alice's life becomes pretty rough, and she often finds herself in a lot of pain or barely getting enough food. One month later, her survival is no longer threatened, but her suffering has become so severe that she concludes that sleeping with him would be the lesser evil. He then begins helping her a lot again, but she has to sleep with him regularly, and almost every time they do, he has an orgasm while she finds the experience, at best, boring and uninteresting.

  4. Bob keeps treating her well materially even after she rejects him. However, in the following days and weeks, he starts making lots of sexual jokes and remarks and regularly asks her whether she's changed her mind. She tells him that this makes her very uncomfortable, but he laughs and tells her that, since he helps her a lot and does most of the physical work, she shouldn't be such a snowflake. Two months later, she's so exhausted by his behaviour and feels so helpless that she lets him sleep with her, and she feels awful about it.

Which actions would you consider Bob morally entitled to take, and which do you think he should avoid?