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Acting entitled is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:17 PM
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Acting entitled is not the same thing as entitlement. To act entitled you have to actual act.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:16 PM
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Nobody cares that you have your coochie on lock. What people care about is your thought process of why would reject a bi man and how that feeds into all aspects of your life. Would you vote for bi man. You might virtue signal yes, but all you could be doing is subconsciously looking for a reason not to vote. And what's worse because its hidden under the veil of dating you can hypothetically be as horrible as you want, prejudice-wise. And sure everyone is allowed have dating preferences, but don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:53 PM
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>People who care about women are more concerned about THE ABUSE. Not "It's not fair I DONT GET WOMEN but abusers do!" and then victim blame abuse victims. You're claiming something that OP is not stating. Nowhere did he state its about 'I don't get women.' You know exactly what he's saying yet you choose to misconstrue or downright lie. Also I agree with u/trulyElse, we see the women we care about making bad mistakes, internalizing the resulting pain and then blaming on the entire group. To me, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:02 AM
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And not be overwhelmingly vocal about their lack of success
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:15 PM
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I don't care about either. All that matters is can you do something. Can they farm? Great. Do I care that I'm better than them no. I'm not in a contest with my partner. Being able to do something doesn't mean that you're good person. I feel like this question is some sort of gotcha for hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:02 PM
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If you want to call it sexual coercion then go ahead. Under women's same belief, wearing make up falls into sexual coercion. You don't really look like that do you? What about body shaping clothing? That's misrepresentation of yourself i.e. a lie. And before you say they we've been wearing make up forever so could fall under tradition. Men have been trying to pick up women and saying whatever since the beginning. Also, a lot of women's idea of consent falls apart when a Men can just apply the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:58 PM
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>They are not asking for actual repercussions, consequences etc. I would disagree. They're asking for societal change. They're demanding that society acknowledge their regret is not their fault and the Man in this instance should be condemned. And no they shouldn't get any grace. Just like incel shouldn't get any when they're condemn entire swaths of women over something they made up in their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:49 PM
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Your experience in anecdotal. And that's good for you, but if every other woman is showing you something different, you might want to reassess
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:45 PM
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And he's arguing that the fee isn't just a fee but has requirement similar to dating. If I'm paying for a relationship there shouldn't be a height requirement or that they have to find me attractive to their tastes. If I have to worry about my attractiveness, and I have to provide, then I might as well date normally. That's the main point OP is getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:31 PM
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And his agruement is that the market is not handling it and things are on a decline
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:26 PM
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Until it doesn't work and you end up in danger because of it. Not honoring agreements in a lawless event is a recipe for disaster. All it takes is the wrong dude, that doesn't play.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:23 PM
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Yes, either personal action or through actions of the state. i.e. police.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:15 PM
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How do you know that billionaire women who gain their money through divorce aren't skewing the results? It even mentions in the analysis. Also as other users have stated I'm curios to see if these are giving away their own earned money or money given to them by another party. From the first link Not all women are the same, and neither are all men. When research examines subgroups as divided by age, income, and education and as affected by marital status, it discovers differences, which can be sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:12 PM
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His point never changed. Its everyone seemingly wanting him to refer to all women. Its like forget what his agruement is actually saying, let's focus on whether he mean all women and that in itself is mysognistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:03 PM
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Its such a shame that people can't see this. Its really the foundation of 80% of these gender war posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:55 PM
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Men are required by law to be up for sacrifice(selective service) Men are supposed to work themselves to death for their families. It's not women in the coal mines. I've done that type of work, your body never recovers. Men are literally expected to sacrifice their life to protect a stranger when it's a woman, and condemned when if he doesn't act, or if he dies. Men and Women alike are expected to sacrifice for others in order keep society going. Men are called cowards when they refuse, and wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:51 PM
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The social obligation that you mention is required by law.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:42 PM
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Not at the same time and not with the same parody.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:41 PM
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Some people really over here acting like Men can be dead beat dads these days without being homeless/working under the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:39 PM
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But it does. If you approach your less likely to be prey. A predator in the dating realm isn't waiting for a woman to sweep him off his feet. He's going to make the move and hope that 'prey' in this instance falls for his performance. If you approach you can decide who you want to be persuing you. Also, woman approach doesn't have to follow the same rules as Men. Women can approach at almost any time of the day. So the guy, who may be too busy to see you at the right time and place to approach, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:38 PM
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This doesn't change with whether a Man approaches or you do. Y'all think a serial killer is waiting for the right woman to sweep him off her feet? If anything, you approaching increases the likelyhood of you find a better partner because you're looking yourself rather simply accepting what is thrown your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:33 PM
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So yes we pathologize male passivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:28 PM
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See I disagree. Voicing concern or complaining was a valid tool for women to get men to change. Why is it such strange concept to think that that same idea wouldn't work on women as well. I think Men should complain more, and keep voicing concern. And if ship keeps sinking then so be it, but it won't because Men or Women for that matter didn't express their grievances.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:20 PM
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They simply don't exist at the moment. They only exist when convenient for the arguement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:15 PM
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I wouldn't argue that women are okay with this. Just that they're not risk prone enough to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:14 PM
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Women have complained about how Men approach, about dating dynamics, and Men actually acknowledged that and changed. When Men complain they're called whiny and are dismissed. Men even in previous have acknowledged this with the trope happy wife happy life. There is no parody here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:08 PM
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You acting like hypergamy doesn't have intrinsic biological factor to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:51 PM
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Okay so just because someone ascribes to red pill doesn't mean that they're part of the manosphere. Just because you're blue pill doesn't mean you're radical fem. When you conflate the two, you're only doing it to dismiss their argument. It gets old.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:51 PM
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I wish everyone took the time to reflect on this idea. The gender war would die in a day if they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:18 PM
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No its not. Calling it dehumanizing it being dismissive. Kids were socially programmed a few years ago to smoke nicotine vapes and we had nothing wrong with the term then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:59 PM
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I'd like to see source on this, please. Preferably one that doesn't count any religious donations or billionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:58 PM
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He's saying that women having access to all the things they wanted and that men supported this should have resulted Men being more likable, but it seems to have opposite result.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:36 PM
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I mean I take every comment with a grain of salt. I know how to program bots. Whose to say most of these comment aren't bots? Whose to say this website isn't also only showing comments that push specific narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:35 PM
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So what you did was take advantage of someone and ignore that those tale tell signs of possible future romantic gestures. If a girl ever gave me rides, took time out of there day to help me on an ongoing basis, bought me things without reciprocation, I would assume that they liked me and if I didn't return the sentiment I would establish boundaries. You don't then act surprised at the pending expression you knew was coming. Have you ever thought that may be you're leading these boys on by taking…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:24 PM
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Because the self improvement doesn't lead to anything beyond the superficial and sometime even worse outcomes. Imagine you've done all this work to improve yourself, only to find that those same women you were eying are terrible people because of their attachment to something superficially improved. A lot of young men have this belief that is partially perpetuated by Women that good woman are simply holding the bar high and all they have to do gain access to dating these women is to pass that ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:43 PM
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That's how you want to feel about it, but if it was really about not being someone mother you would have taken the trash out yourself. But you want to make it known that you have right to demand that the trash be taken out and on your schedule.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:00 PM
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If you expect something done right away, you're ordering someone to something. Respectfully ,I don't care about your situation. I don't care that you don't have to ask. That is entirely irrelevant to what I am saying. If you tell someone to do something and expect immediate action, you're ordering someone to do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:56 PM
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This could be a cultural thing, but I've seen multiple women in my family order men to take out the trash. It's always kind of a test of power dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:46 PM
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He's not a dog...He's a human. Unless this is a dom/sub relationship you don't get to order him around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:44 PM
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I disagree. Every good successful women I've met had a wonderful husband or partner that adores them. I say good because personalities seem to amplify the more successful women get. So that selfish greedy girl boss will might make it seem like she's single because no one can handle her, but its really that people see that even with all that success, all of that intelligence, all that money, she still chooses to be a terrible person. Now I agree that this is same for men, but personally don't car…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:43 AM
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I honestly think most women are like this, but it's as if they don't have a filter in emotional arguments. They love that their partners open up to them, but at the same time can't help but poke at those revelations when they're on their heels in an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:30 PM
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As if Monkey Branching isn't a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:13 PM
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See I don't think women are becoming less interested, but rather they're being pushed toward being single and being told its great by capitalism(single women spend a shit ton a money) and other women who either want them single or to be in a psuedo lesbian relationship. Men are being pushed by to by the manospere, as capitalism doesn't have such an effect on Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:04 PM
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I mean its not loading I get 504 gateway when I can. Can you try to open the link in a private window and then resubmit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:51 PM
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One thing that makes sense is that women are virtue signaling which is a real issue in surveys. Also going dutch is useless if it doesn't lead to a relationship. If I split a dinner dates, and I don't get another date and relationship from them while I get reciprocation and relationships from the Women when I pay. Then it points to reason that Women pursue relationships with Men who pay for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:50 PM
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All these posts are like that if you dig in them hard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:35 PM
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Except they're not. Her posts are akin to showing black men in America a bunch of crime videos then point to them, and saying you're all terrible because of people like this. Then writing post after post about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:31 PM
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But I wonder how many were unbothered and it led to a relationship? If you say you don't mind, but never continue to date the guy you split the date with, then you do mind. You're just not being introspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:25 PM
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The first article doesn't load, can you resubmit?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:21 PM
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Leave Godzilla alone!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:30 PM
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I mean they're other instances. Like the girl who stabbed that guy because he didn't want to have sex with her because she wasn't Jewish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:25 PM
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By this same logic we all support Israel and Isis because we're not actively protesting against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:21 PM
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Okay so what about the other 2/3rds are you going to paint them with the same brush?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:19 PM
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Young women have ALWAYS thought of themselves somehow more mature and somehow better than their counterparts. But truth is that they're an awful lot of biases in play here. Those biases just allow for Women to think they're better but in reality, they're just as naive, just as silly, and just as derogatory. What women don't realize is, it that it makes them easier to be manipulated. And when they do, rather than self-reflect they think all men are like this, making them even easier to be manipul…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:16 PM
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Childcare IMO will never be equal. I used to work at a daycare and the children overwhelming choose to cared for by a Women. So while I think it should be more equal this one, is one everyone is going to be arguing about until the end of time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:33 PM
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I mean you could say that about Women as well. The only difference is that women have a stronger in group bias. So you get a lot of yass queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:25 PM
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Date for the same reason most men do. Its do you actually like the person not like what they do for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:01 PM
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I think you have typo in there somewhere. Do you mean competent and capable men do better than competent and capable women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:55 PM
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If a man doesn't pay on the first date, the chance of second date are almost zero. If they didn't need it why it is precursor for the dating relationship to continue?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:03 PM
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Standards are only increased because of social media. If women were making thier own money and social media didn't exist they would still be looking around their town for a mate. Now that the world is small, they're comparing life styles of other with their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:59 PM
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Its based off a study about how straight women find other women more attractive then men. In typically fashion their using the study to mean whatever benefits them at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:44 PM
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Biology and Social Conditioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:02 PM
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Post coitus, people admit the craziest things
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:46 PM
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I disagree. Most men have the just the right amount of standards. Most men are hard wired to forgive the small faults of women. The problem is that many women took that to mean that they're infallible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:31 PM
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It's the same thing. That guy should have chosen better or planned accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:37 PM
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And respect that they're both participating in dating, and it's not something that just happens to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:36 PM
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I don't think its a problem with accountability. Its moral standing that that society has perpetuated and a lot of women have drank the koolaid. Society says things happen to women, and as a result nothing is their fault. When you internalize stuff like that it leads to externalizing their problems. It's like when black people are told that system is the problem. Some black believe that it's only the systems fault and anything that goes wrong has nothing to do with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:12 PM
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The Bar is in hell is result of this blame and it condemns all men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:12 PM
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My definition of hypergamy is kind of personal, but it still holds. Its the idea of pursuing another individual whose status you will not or cannot achieve, while choosing to demean/belittle those who are not at level you're pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:01 PM
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So if you have to delve into the mind of someone to try and make a false statement true, then its not true. You're just performing mental gymnastics to get it to fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:11 PM
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They're not lying they're refusing to acknowledge the points that make it a lie and saying it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:07 PM
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They're only black pill when it fits there narrative, and any women who disagree won't speak up for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:04 PM
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The narrative of feminists have shifted in late 2010s. It was done in the same manner that conservatism when off the deep end in 2016.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:02 PM
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And what u/3stun is saying that is very much a one way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:49 PM
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IMO, this is probably just virtue signaling. They don't want to be seen as gold digging, so they'll say they don't mind split the bill, even though they won't date that guy again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:36 PM
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Just an FYI that japanese women actually do make that sound when having sex. I used to think it was a porn/hentai sound, but its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:36 PM
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Men go their own way. Also I thinks its funny that I've heard only this phrase here on purple pill and from people telling them they're whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:09 PM
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See I agree with you, but I totally get how op got to the point of not offering. My help and aid have been abused by people who would not return or even acknowledge the help. I will say that all those people were women. It's kind of why if I'm friends with Woman but don't offer any help or aid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:00 PM
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But you act as if women don't do the same thing and Men are expected to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 05:27 PM
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The fallacy falls apart when you suscribe to the idea that silence is validation. Which is what's being pushed by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:57 PM
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But we're also notoriously bad at it. That's why gambling doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:27 PM
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Honestly it's basically the old trope. Rules thee and not for me. They'll vehemently get mad at Men for this exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 09:44 PM
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I would argue that it's solely due to fear of rejection. Women have been proven to less risk prone. Asking someone out is extremely risky. You could call them cowards, but I feel like that's a label only for Men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:28 PM
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It's called being polite and showing some sense decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:45 PM
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Nah Men are fine with high body standard. They usually aren't fine with body standard that are genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 09:56 PM
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Could this also point to the fact that lesbian couple aren't taking the relationship as seriously. If you can break up with someone that easily and still be amicable that means that they weren't really any stakes in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 09:55 PM
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Yeah the way you frame it leads me to believe yous a lying ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 09:52 PM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 08:08 PM
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If you look at u/NiaMiaBia comment you'll see that it really isn't common sense. Or that the common sense is applied only in one way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:14 PM
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You do you, but you'll find that your relationships more of than not end because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:12 PM
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I have some, but I don't necessarily agree with OP Some Men are Monsters, but treating all Men you know as monsters will get a hostile response. And those that stay around may be the Monster you're trying to filter Taking advice from your woman friends and then directly applying to your situation will lead to the end of the relationships. Taking advice is important but remember you're not sharing the full story(no one does) so that advice is going to be one sided. Secrets shared with you are not…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:48 PM
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I too have women friends. And I agree, just stay silent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 12:23 AM
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Father's Day is barely a thing. And everything I listed is to help parent. But the reality at the moment is that Women are considered the primary caregiver and will thus reap those benefits more than men. Every woman has to consider that she may end up a single mother because there is no stigma for a man to leave his child. This isn't true. There is a general stigma period, regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 02:41 AM
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Child tax credits, wic, general celebration of mother's day while ignoring everything else. Parental leave for women. All of the things are designed to support women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:05 AM
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Its a control technique. If they were alone they wouldn't care how it was done. They feel angry and want a reason for it, so the easiest way is to get mad at someone else for a mundane activity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 04:20 PM
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Same with women, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:43 PM
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Why “try” when better looking women exist ? There is always a better looking woman...Per say. But they don't want that better looking woman. They choose you. For a man, being happy with the woman you choose is a cornerstone of being attracted to that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:29 PM
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Every woman I've been a in a relationship with that I've told something in confidence has tried to use what I told her in confidence as an insult during an argument. It got old which is why I don't share.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:01 PM
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Are you in the friendzone or are you just friends? There's a difference between the two. Are they treating like a boyfriend without any romantic reciprocation? That's the main difference. One way you can tell is that if they never mention someone you can date or they never try to support you in that area, but are always expecting you to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:19 PM
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Can you find where I said anything about consent? Or are you construing taking risks with consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:16 PM
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But you realize that without taking risks, none of this happens right? And by "this" I mean the entirety of life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:06 PM
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Can you give me an example of something a man would say to his wife/gf that displays his emotional intelligence, but wouldn't come across as emotionally intelligent if someone disagreed with it? Depends on what aspect: Self-awareness A Man understanding that they(woman) understand that Men do want them. And that woman will use this for their benefit. Women will take advantage of this, and call them out on this behavior is tantamount to crying murder Empathy: Anytime I point out that the empathy …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:54 PM
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Nothing different. I will call you out the same way I call people out here. I don't insult, but bad takes don't get a pass, and good takes get celebrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:43 PM
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But the thing is most women only understand complex emotional situations from their point of view and with the assumption that they're right. So if you express emotional intelligence on a concept they disagree with. It doesn't qualify as emotional intelligence. IMHO, Emotional Intelligence, Creepy, Mansplaining are all terms to bully and silence men from the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:34 PM
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See: Men never pay attention. u/jorts-enthusiast CLEARLY said to invest in gold futures
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:23 PM
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I agree with you, but I want to point that even firing as much as a glock requires dexterity and physicality that most women don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:50 PM
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The things you mention often come with reciprocation though and that's the difference. Like I expect a friend of mine to be able to watch my pet if needed, and I would do the same. I wouldn't expect my friend to watch my pet without any sort understanding I would do the same for them. More often than not when women expect these things from their male friends they don't reciprocate. It literally is do this because you're attracted to me, and presence is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:12 AM
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Our thresholds for "unkempt" are simply different. Women now want their equivalent in male beauty. They mean they want someone hotter than them. I believe a lot of women forget that they're wearing a proverbial mask, and want the guy to same, but then will not like the guy that does it. They want something somehow natural while disparaging any man who takes any sort of artificial method to look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:11 PM
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Regarding Style isn't this just you noticing some Men? Like if I paid attention, I would notice that a lot of women with have bad hair styles, and or aren't dressed well at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:05 PM
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I've never known anyone to care let alone remember what people do aside from small talk. Most people don't care or only care if it's part of conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:36 PM
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Men can't seem to cope with the fact that women are attracted to men's money/success. This is because, we know the more money you make, its more likely you're going to exploit others to gain that money. That money was built on the labor of others. Sociopathic traits also tend to make more money. It's generally terrible people as weath/class levels increase. Men are having a tough time accepting that woman like terrible people for terrible reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:33 PM
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>How many of those are due to something like PPD? I don't really have a opinion on this one, but regarding this statement. It doesn't really matter if its due to PPD or not that's sexism. Testosterone makes Men more prone to violence, but we don't excuse those acts of violence because of that biological fact. And we don't do the same for PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:27 PM
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But IMO its only loud because its scripted so we can clearly hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:09 PM
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For all those just attending this what happens when you have reverse purity test and unnecessarily strong ingroup bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:03 PM
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I mean I think we should be greatful to each other for not black widowing/enslaving each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:27 PM
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This is what happens when the Mods take a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:49 PM
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This would literally end the supposed gender war overnight
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:11 PM
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If it wasn't so much work, women would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:03 PM
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But that's you though. Women are not a monolith and it shows by the fact those women are just fine with the prospect of dating older Men. Don't act like those women don't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:58 PM
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Nope you're right but that doesn't mean it still doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:44 AM
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Those guys don't approach you for your exact same reasons you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:43 PM
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Because he offers the resources and experiences that younger men don't have. These young woman love to be pampered and spent on. And all those traditional roles sound pretty good when the guy can basically provide everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:08 PM
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Too base for this base
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:43 PM
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"Sexual benevolence," also known as the "benevolent sexism" component of ambivalent sexism, refers to seemingly positive beliefs about women that promote traditional gender roles, like purity, protectiveness, and a need for male guidance, which ultimately limit women's autonomy and equality in society and relationships. This framework, where women are placed on a pedestal but also seen as weak, can negatively affect sexual experiences by encouraging passivity and a focus on women's moral purity …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:14 PM
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Thats kind of the problem when sexual benevolence runs out, and women who unknowingly/knowingly leaned on that attribute have lost it. Without it, just like men, your decisions will come off as bad to one party or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:03 PM
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Using pussy as gift of love instead of sharing sex as couple. Using pussy as a birthday/anniversary gift. Using pussy as an apology instead of being/saying you're sorry. Acting as if Men are believing they are entitled to Pussy, while at the same time thinking themselves are entitled to good relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:56 PM
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Genuine question why do you think your worth to a Man should be more than a relationship? Also, I think our understanding of what a relationships is don't even remotely match
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:29 PM
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The difference being benevolence is applied to a woman's choice, while malevolence is applies to a man's choice. A woman choice is celebrated and men are expected to adapt. A man choice choice is ridiculed and woman are actually pushed to go against it. In group bias of women basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:06 PM
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You mean his feelings over her feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:23 AM
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>You probably split chores (though let's be real, the mental load of managing the home still falls on us). Why do you believe this? Why do you feel like your husband doesn't have his one mental load that he just doesn't share with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 11:07 PM
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And that same attitude feeds into a lot issues with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:01 PM
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Because they play bi way too much, by being way too accepting of any flirting/validation. It's like when women won't turn a guy down until the very last moment even she wasn't interested from the beginning. Except with a lesbian relationship it happens way more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:40 PM
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Nah people know they just don't comment on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:57 PM
1

It's really only about ingroup bias
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:52 AM
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>Women want men that are equal or above, preferably above, their status. >There’s not enough men to go around to satisfy women’s desires. The crux of equality...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:12 PM
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I sincerely don't understand why people don't get this. I'm utterly lost. It's like they've never spent a moment in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:57 AM
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I'm hoping they mean their children
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:52 PM
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I mean I had to yell at a goat the other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:11 AM
3

Golf Clubs. Serious Golf Clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:05 AM
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You'd be surprised how many are swayed by their girlfriend group to make seemingly terrible decisions, all the while ignoring any male friend advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:28 PM
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Yes, all true, but if your partner's answer to asking whether anything is wrong is to say no, I'm fine or anything dismissive., then there's no communication that's possible. You're claiming that's emotional labor to discuss your issues but isn't even more emotional labor to play detective whenever your spouse has an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:11 PM
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Some people instead of picking up their ball and going home want to shoot up the basketball court after losing a pick-up game.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:36 AM
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>Men arent going to end up with the sexy only fans models they follow that are 10yrs younger than them. Men are attracted to average Women. Why would you think this was otherwise? Average women get hit on all the time and yet you think Men pine for the onlyfans model. Also, you realize that if every man did this OF models would be trillionaires? With the idea of settling, what Men won't stand for is Women actually not being attracted to us, and but choosing with to be us because we can provide. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:08 PM
1

So wait do you think black people commit more crimes because they're black?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:59 PM
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Never victim blame, but being a victim/potential victim doesn't endow you with Sainthood. It doesn't allow you to escape from self-reflection. Prision sentences are fine. Actually, it should be less. We should be focusing on rehabilitation otherwise you're just making worse criminal when they are released.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:13 PM
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I worked security at one. But I can say with total confidence that NO ONE wants to be there. No even the construction equipment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:14 PM
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Understand that those Woman are speaking for themselves. The comments are speaking for themselves. All these people are speaking for themselves and that woman don't comment typically don't agree so they remain silent. There really is a silent plurality of woman who like to be approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:53 PM
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Maybe YOU want to be left alone, but there many different opinions by woman who state otherwise, even in this thread. Stop acting as if you and all women share a hivemind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:48 PM
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You with 50 ugly snap camera filters on:
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:27 PM
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That men let things go so much that you all thinking that you're doing nothing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:10 PM
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He's not though. He's say why is this his problem after she got fucked up because she trusted a man for all of five minutes. If met a girl, and was drunk and gave her my debit card, and then I woke up the next day and found out I was broke. You wouldn't be sympathizing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 04:20 PM
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Yep. Its how Israel has gotten to commit genocide. They're riding on the coat tails of the victimization of the holocaust and October 7th
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 04:11 PM
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Its still deragatory. Same as Men saying those females over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:40 PM
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A significant amount a women would literally meet their maker before taking on the role of approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:35 PM
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You're presuming that these guys haven't already put themselves out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:32 PM
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Because having undesirable Men that they can fall back on is cornerstone of their thought process.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:56 AM
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More like don't complain to the guy sitting outside with a sign saying will work for food.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:24 AM
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You think curiosity isn't a base instinct.?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:21 PM
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Either way he's wrong. The boondocks episode about Ann Coulture and her black boyfriend who ain't got no job and just sits around all day. That's real thing in black culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 04:56 PM
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It doesn't confuse or anger Men per say. Its the moral judgement that comes along with that's the problem. Behavioral sexy men aren't good just because they do better at dating/relationships than others. Men don't say those women who are hot and date a lot are good woman. It takes more than that to define their character.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 04:23 PM
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I did this once, didn't tell her and she still complained.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:17 AM
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Right. But one gender seems to scream about this and gets constant overt and covert validation to such a point that it's a stereotype. That will always be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:12 AM
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>“they don’t want to hear nagging” even though they’ll bitch about how dirty the house is if it isn’t done. I've never heard Men bitch about this and I have old uncle type black and white men friend groups. Like people from every decade, and this HAS NEVER come up once.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:08 AM
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Lol. Just casually say that Men beat their wives for unclean houses and that's norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:59 AM
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But that's not all women. My experience with cleanliness was that it was something to complaint about. I even at one point hired a maid, didn't tell my ex and she would still complain the cleanliness. This has been a repeated problem in several of my relationships aside from the last one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:58 AM
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It's not women are more clean. It's that woman use cleanliness as a reason to complain. >“dumped a guy for leaving a sock around” A girl(yes I say girl because it speaks to immaturity) will do this, while being messy herself, and then act like she's the only one who is clean. Shit my own mother used to do this. She would yelp an yowl about how nothings clean, but she would often leave things that I would pick up after her. The thing is I don't go around complain about a problem, I just fix the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:50 AM
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Yeah, but there collective validation/action around these complaints/commiseration says otherwise. The bar is in hell. Woman choosing the bear. These things are related in the they're individual complaints that are cheered and validated by other woman making is unifying voice. If every Woman is making the offhand remark saying the bar in hell for Men then it would make sense that Men would understand them to be referring to all Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:09 PM
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I have tons of times. It's "the be honest meme" time and time again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:01 PM
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This only true for general looks, but when it comes to dating the ages even out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:50 PM
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Nah ball is your court. You stated Men who constantly say women need to take more accountability are the ones who don't. Well I said it, so tell me how I don't take accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:48 PM
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First off no, that's sweep generalization, and 2 that doesn't mean I'm incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:45 PM
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Whatever you want to believe if that makes you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:41 PM
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I say Woman need to take accountability go ahead and tell me how I don't take accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:30 PM
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If a woman or man has consistently bad dating experiences, she needs reflect on what caused that. There is only consistent denominator. Herself. And when someone says reflect and possibly choose better, we don't mean go for the most attractive guy and throw away anything you've learned from the past. They mean realize that you get can be swept up in romance and take a more honest look at what you want in a relationship and what don't want. If you want to me review your specific examples, I'm gam…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:05 PM
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This is what I want to know. Like this is a scenario from his mind and nowhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:06 PM
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Yep. If I saw she even had it on her phone...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:30 AM
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>if cohabiting is mutually beneficial This a key point. I would argue that it's not beneficial to a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:34 PM
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Nah this guys is speaking for himself. The reason why Men don't want to marry because the social contract is broken. Men accept that woman can leave for any reason, and that's fine. But based on what men are seeing is that Women will leave eventually. Whether out of an actual reason or trumped up one. Woman will still leave. Now we know that woman won't just readily leave, but to those Men, especially those will commit and follow the whole death do us part is too much a chance. Like the saying g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:32 PM
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Complaint#1: There are no good men out there. All these guys have no jobs or want me to be a side piece Complaint #2: All these guys out there are ugly Complaint/Vent #3 "He's not into he must be, Gay"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:45 PM
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Nah that was pretty much taught to me in the 90/2010s. Back then there was an actual income wage gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:24 PM
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I used to hear it all the time until I called my friends out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:27 PM
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I have, but I ended that one real quick. She used blanket text people and try to ask for money. These women exist and move through men fast enough that it is probably the same girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:33 AM
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Now that's crazy talk. Get outta with your love, friendship, and understanding. All the important aspects in a successful relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:31 AM
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That's fine that you call it standard, but my point still applies. If the effort I prescribing is returned with indifference I'm out. While that seem obvious to you, it's not for a lot of woman out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:57 PM
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By who though? I was in frat and a party one at that and that was never the conversation among Men. Its more like Sam you better run Alex is coming. You gonna end up married.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:13 PM
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The best of the best available...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:01 PM
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It's more a woman not have consistent standards and refusing to participate in dating. This isn't natural geographic. I'm not the bird flappy their wings around to get your attention. If you're not showing interest, I'm going to move on. That may be what you call standards, but to me it's just a gate that you willing open for some, based on entirely superficial things, and for others you act like a full background check is needed And to clarify this is entirely related to dating/courting not to …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:59 PM
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Because woman are wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:47 PM
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Its more than that. When you get hit in a fight adrenaline and other various things cause you to hyper focus. Plans go out the window, it merely becomes get the other guy. Its funny you could probably rob a guy during a fight with how hyper focused some people become.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 10:28 PM
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Its because a lot woman rate on a grading scale where 7-8 is a C average. 8 is B and so forth. So when you say 6/10 they think a D and that's failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:17 PM
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Yep. Jesus fucking christ! I'm over here working hard so I don't have to work as much and can enjoy life. And these people want to slave away ....for life...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:35 PM
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I just want to understand how so many people can this bothered by such a few amount people that they'll probably never even meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:22 AM
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I feel like everybody does go about it this way. It's just that when you describing attraction, Women typically mean in terms of relationship, and men mean in terms of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:31 AM
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>I cannot tell you how many times I have expressed sympathy or empathy for men, only to have my DMs flooded with men wanting me to be their personal therapists for the evening. I would use a throwaway because fuck that noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:45 AM
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Yep. I on pof.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:40 AM
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It just that woman are more afraid of rejection than Men. Men need to learn to deal rejection with early on while women only had to reject. Being the one to reject overtime inflates your ego and give you a sense of validation. It's a whole different story when you're the one facing rejection on a consistent basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:34 PM
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This is basically any reddit thread on gender issues
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:36 PM
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>Men don't want to chase anymore they want to be chased and highly desired for, and I understand you guys wanna feel like the world is yours, that you don't have to do much of anything to get anything. Men will/want peruse women, a real reason a lot of Men don't is that woman will go around validating other woman that don't want to be chased as the norm. Men listen to woman all the time, they hear the animosity that woman seem to support towards approaching and act accordingly. On the top of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:31 PM
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I think it's more he's tired of seeing the silent validation that a lot woman will do. Even if they disagree with the argument, they'll remain silent or validate that argument. I used to be really miffed about that when I was younger. But now it's just a part of how women maintain such a cohesive society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:10 PM
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This is true. And I SWEAR to all that might be holy that the algorithms somehow realize this and promote those same people. Like I ran into a dating streak of Women who would only go on dates for a free meal. Like 5 in a row. I had to quit for a while after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:44 PM
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>Men on this subreddit need the red pill taken away from them, at this point only women should be allowed to have red pill. So true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:53 PM
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That's a good point. This post feels like apex fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:51 PM
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> And then they have the nerve to complain about having NO dating prospects, sorry I literally don't believe you. There's no point in debating this because you won't believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:49 PM
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>Absolutely. Unless it's an actual requirement where you live, you're doing it because you enjoy it. I disagree with this wholeheartedly. I think that if you choose to hunt and eat versus going to the grocery store, you're actually respecting nature and the animal itself. That animal gave its life so you can eat. It's really the epitome of lack of empathy to choose going to a grocery store and picking up its meat off the freezer vs doing the killing, cleaning, prep yourself. Now if you decide to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:22 PM
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Yeah but your thinking history as if you had the same immune system as they had back then. Society colassping will be more like Oregon Trail.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:48 AM
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I live pretty far away from a city. My hobbies are not volunteer related(Golf, Reading, Gamming and light farming) I don't give in to bullshit. Nor play weak ass dating games. I expect a fair playing field/equal effort once we're in an established relationship Also, I'm a reasonably established adult. I'm not rich or anything, but I'm doing well. I kind of expect the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:25 AM
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The reason why gender roles exist for Men and are so rigid is because without them Men would be single. Woman are the ones reinforcing Male gender roles every time the want a Man to approach. Every time they want a plan to plan a date. Every time they want a Man to get down one Knee. Every time they want him to show confidence. Most Men don't care what other Men think, but sure as hell will change their ways for Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:47 AM
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>I don't like seeing my meat before it's been processed. I feel like this is a real issue in general for a lot of Woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:51 PM
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That's usually because the one's they catch you're not allowed to keep because it destroys the eco system. There are some you can eat by law and some you can't
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:49 PM
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So then its not even about the animal at all? Its about the idea of killing for your food.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:47 PM
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This ain't the movies. That stuff ain't gonna happen before you die of infection. You may fear it, but wait until you break your ankle foraging for food.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:43 PM
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You better leave Disney drake alone. He'll appear under your bed. He's a 69 god...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:37 PM
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God forbid any actually read a profile. Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:31 PM
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Women who dislike online dating have you tried talking to women? Or rabbits?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:12 PM
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Oh, no I agree. That was my impression of u/Lift_and_Lurk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:03 PM
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I think its way more simple than everyone is making it. These guys just simply listened to the woman in their lives, took note of the grips expressed by woman and acted accordingly. When I grew up it lambasted in me how approaching women was annoying to women. Which is true in a sense, but also, it's also true that they want to/preferred to be approached I had to learn that woman often express a concern/grievance, but don't expect or want any change from it. And that woman will participate in si…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:54 PM
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No this is wrong. And makes for unclear understanding of what an average. An average is quantitative analysis it has nothing to how common the values are. Mode is the finding the common values that show up in dataset. When we say the average looking male are etc. Its taking the above and below ratings and averaging them to get this idea of this guy. Some guys will have a leg up in Certains areas or all or none. In the end it evens out. What guys complain about is the average guy with these prefe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:40 PM
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That's why we call it simping
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:40 PM
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I still to this day think that's just some made up shit. I've read the articles and it seems like it's just another reason to blame Men for Women's feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:03 AM
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>Stop the porn, and maybe the need to jerk off to strangers/friends will wear off. This is not how the male mind works. Without the visual stimulus of porn men will go back to masturbating and think about strangers/friends MORE. Woman would do the same. And before we go down that route smut is porn, and worse in IMHO.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:14 PM
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White Knights don't treat women decently. They treat woman like children, that are somehow just learning life and thus can do no wrong. It would be pretty insulting to me to have yes men come out of the wood works not even acknowledge me or the situation and then fall on their swords, agreeing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:24 PM
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People are cowards. Tack on the fact that Women are coddled means that people will bend over backwards to accept/justify shitty behavior. ESPECIALLY if there's disconnect in relation. If they don't know them they're more likely to see them as the benevolent actor. So people will justify ghosting by saying it's not worth responding. Or it's too early in the conversation to be act like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:17 PM
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Never...I don't exchange safety for sex. If she wanted to stay with me. That's fine. Otherwise NO! Also chances this is a scam and her boyfriend is going to stop by and rob me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:51 PM
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It sounds like she's trying to get with a stalker, but just one she likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:48 PM
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>Don’t be an asshole and wash your dick. That’s about 80% of what women really want. I know that this is joke, but this kind of spells the problem with Woman's requirement. Its sure don't be an asshole and wash your dick, but also be attractive to her. The idea of being attractive may have a laundry list of requirements that only a few men may achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:34 PM
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Its not about that. If the bar is in hell, meaning that's its beyond easy to cross, then what the guy does can't always be the bare minimum. Also I think the "Bar is in hell" is a huge insult to Woman and y'all should stop using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:50 PM
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The problem is that when you de center women, you find that they're are no women around. Decentering only works when you're not the one persuing. You have to somewhat take into account the people you're perusing otherwise you're just another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:43 PM
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Okay I'll correct that to: "Now you have an even more concentrated amount of guys faking to get in your pants" You've silenced and pushed away somewhat normal guys because they can't express themselves, and now you ONLY have the fakers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:32 PM
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IMO we need to be sucking out the bone marrow and Carl Weathersing our way into stew.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:25 PM
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This is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:54 PM
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Are they just essentially crocs, though? Or more like dancing shoes?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:53 PM
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But those are only prisons where we treat the prisoners like animals. If you look at places like Norway its a different story. America our prisoners are constitutionally slaves. That's why its hell
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:43 PM
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Because it's kind of bullshit. It's like with just requirements some people have for dating. The one that's missing is to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:33 PM
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To add to point: All this is women policing manhood. By tying any emotion or critism to the chances of being with a woman, try and silence a lot of guys. And then they get mad when its only guys who will fake all that shit just to get in their pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:13 PM
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The true dilemma nobody wants to admit. You'll take a drink but after 100 years y'all still try to escape what results. Like I wouldn't take a drink at a gay bar, knowing that I'm not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:06 PM
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This could be only better if OP was a woman. Comedy Heaven
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 02:26 PM
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Situational empathy This is term I was looking for to describe how I feel a lot of women express empathy. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:36 PM
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And it makes it seem like that's the only reason she got married in the first place. To brag
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:35 PM
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No romantic gestures or anything? Or is that presumed?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:22 AM
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Also to add on your point: Fighting for a living is dangerous and there are A LOT of fighters who have no cho$ce but to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:42 AM
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I know that feeling. I live a rural area. Try setting up long distance on dating apps. But not the basic ones. Like eharmony and ones like that do curated dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:57 AM
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But her point is absolutely correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:54 AM
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You're conflating two arguments though. If your narrow definition of single mother is that all are dead beat dads, then yes but that's not all of them. There are a lot of women who end up with guys that they weren't for them and then ended up having a child. Those mothers are single mothers even if there is a father in the picture. That can be resolved somewhat with vetting and not thinking with your clit. There has to be some initial vetting by Woman. If you get knocked by the guy who has 7 kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:22 PM
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“ . But there are a lot of single mothers are that by choice(i.e. they broke with their spouse) so no its not all Men skipping out.” Wait wait wait … so are you saying that if I divorce my husband for cheating, that absolves him of all responsibility for his kids? And it’s my fault that I am a single mom and no longer get child support and he won’t spend time with his kids??? Nope never. What I implied is that Single Mothers are more than just a Dad skipping out. So if the Couple breaks up, due …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:37 PM
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Are we only defining single mothers as those with dead beat dads then sure. But there are a lot of single mothers are that by choice(i.e. they broke with their spouse) so no its not all Men skipping out. It's always takes 2 tango and two form a relationship. And Both have to want the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:38 PM
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With zero participation from women...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:07 PM
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Yes this is where the fuck we're at................................................................
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:57 PM
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He might as well go long on the tesla bots
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:31 PM
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munewari I don't have to say but munewari are cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:30 PM
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Likes me and vice versa Kind Competent Chill Okay with being better at somethings and vice versa Not locked into gender roles on either side Good Listener Accepts responsibility/accountability Independent Not afraid to voice their opinion No. I don't share this. I go on a date and throughout the date I determine if they have these attributes. Also these are not REQUIREMENTS but things I look for. However if they lets say are good listener, but aren't as free with gender roles as I like that's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:28 PM
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I did not mention violence...at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:22 AM
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Because you're already assuming they're going to fail. Its like getting a prenup. You're assuming divorce at some point. And there's nothing wrong with either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:14 PM
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You assume so much about me, all the while doing exactly what you scorn. Because you don’t care what i think really, so yes, that’s part of you not seeing me as a person. We'll have to agree to disagree on this one. I feel that there are different levels of care. Not caring about the thoughts of another person doesn't mean that I don't see them as a person. If that was the case, the humanitarian causes I participate in would be meaningless. Now had you said feelings, safety, etc... And Treating …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:13 PM
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No its not. The average woman maybe over weight, but is not obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:40 PM
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Paternity test are that same logic. You trust your partner, but you want to know and be prepared for their lack of trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 04:30 PM
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I've tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:09 PM
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Don't you think it's rather insulting to say that I don't think of you or see you as a person? I wouldn't carry on with this conversation otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:09 PM
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Everyone has this power, but shedding roles for Woman is a win for Men it's a sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:37 PM
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>bear your children and care for them predominantly and learn to cook are also expected gender roles Bearing and caring for children isn't a gender role it's a biological role. Just a guy absolutely should step up for his mate/offspring. In regards to learning to cook, I agree with you on that one. But I want to add that everyone should please at least learn the basics. That way you can avoid getting sick from "food tm" that basically is everywhere in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:35 PM
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IRL or online?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:27 PM
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And I could be wrong, but I don't most men aren't saying that high standards are the problem. Its inability to own it. Like if you had high standards and you said "I have high standards so I expect most men not to meet them, that's fine." But the rhetoric is "there are no good men" or "the bar is in hell" when women openly admit to having high standards. This is why men default to using words like unrealistic or delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:13 PM
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Why is everyone in this thread acting like woman sign a secret slave contract once they join a religion. Most religious people are not remotely serious. Its just a common community where people meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:08 PM
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>We need men who are focussed on making peace not war. Because hatred is the antithesis of happiness. And the only way out for men who are struggling is to find peace within themselves. I swear whenever someone makes a call for "Man" to be a better person, its really just a plea to say "do what I want you to do and feel good about it"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:55 PM
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>There's a lot of corruption and grifting going on in religion, too. If you see a church that has a nicer building than any of the surrounding building's that probably a scam/corruption. It pisses me off so much, because if church's actually prescribed to help people not just preaching. US wouldn't have a homeless/food scarcity issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:53 PM
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Also not mention Therapy just doesn't work for some people. Especially those who are extremely introspective on their own
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:51 PM
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Men being sexualized/perused on the same level as women. Yes this is what happens in male homosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:44 PM
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Eh still fine. You're acting like EVERY guy you meet is like this. They're not simply because the existence of gay men. There are a lot of weird guys admittedly. Also laws wouldn't change. We already know that woman sexually harass men at a higher rate then vice versa. It would just be more prominent and there would probably be a me-too movement about it somewhere down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:42 PM
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Sounds like a individual problem. And highly doubt this is true because those men were already working and showing up to work before they got into relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:28 PM
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Yes, please stop doing it. And if they ask why say I can't do everything for you by myself. But honestly, I think emotional labor has shifted to a phrase similar to creep that serves to only point out something that woman don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:27 PM
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It's also an issue that because Woman are accepted as emotional being they get more leeway on the emotions they get to express. It's like the would you love if I was a worm scenario. That is emotional labor for a guy, but we don't define it as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:21 PM
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If we're speaking about initial dating, women might be able to get a guy through sex, but that doesn't translate to them keeping that man for a relationship. While men have a problem getting through the dating phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 01:39 AM
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Can we change this to get and keep? A lot of woman have trouble with the former while men have trouble with the later.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:04 PM
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"The Margo Robbie defense"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 05:16 PM
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You realize those guys in those sitcoms were super rich? Married with children is the only one I can think where their job wasn't downplayed but it racks in 100K back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 05:14 PM
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I don't talk to people in my life about porn. I don't look read or carry discourse in anything directly related to porn. I watch porn. That's it. So no, I have no proof its the same people. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:59 AM
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Do you have proof of this or are just assuming...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:32 PM
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But it's not the same Men doing these things though. Some men pay for OF and others talk shit about women on OF
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:18 PM
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Even I'll admit he perform really well, and is very wealthy. That's enough for some people. Super glad it's not enough for you, because I've met some woman who love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:34 AM
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I think we're both in agreement on the rigidity point. It doesn't need to be that rigid, nor does it have to be like clockwork. Its sporadic. So, no one can really say that if he's not bringing you flowers it doesn't mean he doesn't love you. It's a performative act to express his love. People, mostly women in this thread, are making it seem like it has to be done right then and there, or it has to be done like clockwork. Otherwise, he doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:31 AM
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Would you prefer if you man never asked you for anything and gave you the opportunity to do it without being asked? What should he do if you don't do the thing that he wants? They just wouldn't do it. How many woman NEVER initiate sex? How many NEVER initiate a date night? How many NEVER approach a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:43 PM
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Okay, but I think a lot of people are missing huge underlying point, that affect a lot of these relationships. Yes, you make banana bread because he likes it, but what if you stopped making it? Or better if you made it every week and stopped making it for a few weeks. Does the lack of that performative act mean you love him less? Also does he expect you make it as a symbol of your love for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:34 PM
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Oh, is it unreasonable to expect our partners to do things we like because that makes us feel happy or loved? But far too many Women DO NOT feel/act the same way or worse confuse doing something for themselves as doing something for their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:18 PM
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Damn...you can't just throw a nuke whenever...lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:08 PM
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This is an apex fallacy logic. You can't use one of the most desirable men and have any sort of rules or norms apply to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 03:19 PM
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So much virtue signaling and downright bullshit to keep that halo on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:27 PM
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Her whole album. Have you heard her songs on the radio? Its not empowering like women are saying, she's literally just a cute femcel that can't land the Man she wants, and picks men she knows she'll have a problem with. Then she bashes them when it doesn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:25 PM
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Same thing for guys. Fucking the crazy chick is hot for you, but tell that to a girl that and you'll get an immediate ick
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:18 PM
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Sabrina Carpenter's new hit is literally just this...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:15 PM
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It sounds like you need to keep scrolling down on the 'other' category
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:46 PM
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This is such leap...you don't suddenly get what want, just because you know what you want. If that was the case, I would own California
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:51 PM
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I don't know what it means but Im using it as comparison for nonsense from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:02 PM
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No. The issue is being friend zoned. The issue is some women like to use their male friends as psuedo boyfriends when it suits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:24 PM
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Lol there's literally a song about it now...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:34 PM
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You might be overestimating the size of the group just because they're loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:01 PM
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I think he is, and if that's case just throw in miscarriages, periods, but not male masturbation for some reason...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 04:46 PM
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Are you mod of several subs? While this is WHOLE heartedly true, I feel like I don't see that here, but then again you see everything...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 04:42 PM
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Yes but when you're falsely suspicious of people they get mad. And They're right to, because no one wants a life where they are not trusted. So both are right we just accept one more than the other depending who you initially agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 04:40 PM
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There's nothing wrong with being average. You can still be beautiful to someone and still be average. You can still be a great person and still be an average person. Average overall doesn't mean that you don't lack the qualities of an exceptional partner. It just means you're not Haley Barry with home keeping skill of Martha Stewart, and engineering capability of the tunnel girl. There's nothing wrong with being/choosing average. There's everything wrong with being average or being anything for …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:50 PM
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/thread...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:30 PM
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Of course they have. But have they faced it continually, constantly, and without any validation, otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:21 AM
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>Being approached doesn’t always mean anything will come out of it. It’s just the majority of women prefer men to initiate engagement. More like majority are just too afraid to initiate engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:01 PM
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I mean basically. The problem is that when you start paying attention to their actions, you hold them more accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:00 PM
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For dating, they will very rarely make the first the move, and this even after me cheerleading my female friends to go take a shot
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:49 PM
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Because they're are afraid; simple as that. They could never handle the rejection that guys go through. Mass attempted suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:48 PM
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Goomba Fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:42 PM
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I call bs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:20 PM
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Aren't we already there?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:40 AM
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Kegel movements. Matching his movement with your own. Encouragement and communication. You can do all these things while having sex. Don't be obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:15 PM
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Yep, I noticed this too. They're definitely, harder isn't exactly the word, but more rigid in dealing with men vs women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:13 PM
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But you don't have to sleep with anyone, but when you do take some initiative in finding your own pleasure, or just stay home and master bath. Nothing wrong with either. Yes...that's right I said master bath...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:54 PM
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I swear they really think my great great grandfather was in chains submitting bills to congress.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:33 PM
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Nah...that's definetly wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:30 PM
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Which is basically why young men are drowning in general. If we were this dismissive to young women we wouldn't have any women left.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:57 PM
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It's just virtue signaling to be inclusive while at the Same time dismissing the ops claim
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:52 PM
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Nah...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:02 PM
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America has tips for e everything even grocery stores. It's a bad argument when tipping in a America is solely used to pass on the cost of waiters/staff to the customer while offering no benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:49 PM
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I've waited tables for several years, and I only tip the bare minimum. It's a society check to me. Black people are ridiculed for not tipping and are tipped less as waiters. I'm not going to pay into a system that only seeks to demerit people like me. Also I find tipping to be like the dumb rule of whoever asks the person out pays. It's just another rule that seeks to keep a status and ensure that the other parties benefit at your expense while offering nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:47 PM
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Also a lot of time the person getting the tip is making more than the person paying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:40 PM
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Don't bother stip feeding trolls
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:05 AM
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The mental capacity to being able to do just about anything...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:31 PM
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I think he's just ignoring because it seems you're asking in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:29 PM
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Nah its not. Men can't handle rejection but Woman will fall apart at rejection. If woman had the strength and propensity as a Men, Men would die when rejecting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:26 PM
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But do you have proof this is happening in china?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:14 PM
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Nah this is horseshit. Women will sit in absolute fear of rejection and not say a damn word then get mad when you didn't ask them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:10 PM
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Because they simply can't handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:59 AM
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I'm sorry but could you elaborate. Romantic outcomes are dependent on two parties. In a heterosexual relationship one of those is a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:56 AM
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/Thread
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:20 PM
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Because even in this thread Women are acting like wouldn't date someone because they have more resources, even though they would expect a Man to support them through child-birth. And there's nothing wrong with that, but that money/resources take time to accumulate thus its older men who typically have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:00 PM
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These are two sides to the same coin. I don't know knock men for trying to date younger women, just I don't knock women for perusing resources. I knock women for trying to deny it and play coy instead of being an adult and saying what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:59 PM
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You're right they don't need it, but they sure as hell want it. And I don't blame them for wanting the resources that an older man has acquired. But the problem is when women deny this and play coy. Honestly its other side of the coin to the 'older men want youthful women'
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:57 PM
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>Any female freindships Ive tried to have are completely one sided - they never want to hang out just us two - its ALWAYS in a group. and conversations are usually one sided and focused on me making them feel better when they are having a bad day / a guy let them down - it NEVER comes around. e.g. they are just using me for emotional support. Yep, completely so. The best way to resolve this is to call them out on it, and they'll either disappear or they'll change for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:28 PM
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Isn't that the redpill, though? Blue pill would be more like accept who you are, and it will work out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:36 PM
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You'd be surprised how many people with far too many kids make that in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:17 AM
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The minimum is 500 per month right? Still point still stands
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:21 AM
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You could, but that's reaching in order to prove yourself right, not have a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:32 PM
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Yes, but what you're doing is assuming those same people are the one's on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:27 PM
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When people show disdain from merely being around them, I totally get it. And I'm not talking about the guy who smells or whatever. I'm talking about the guy that when you ask women what they think? They say ewww, no! Like they're in the fourth grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:35 PM
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You'd be surprised at how many people will come out of nowhere to deny this depending on the person who says it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:29 PM
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I have met who liked to be chased and no always isn't a no. You can invalidate them if you want, but they exist. And let's take your logic further. If you encountered some women who wanted to be raped by you. Not roleplay. Would that make it okay for some guys to rape because you never know if she's the kind that wants it? Let's not, because as I already mentioned and you choose to ignore, I don't prescribe to that notion. But just because you and I disagree with it doesn't mean it doesn't exist…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:32 PM
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Don't get me wrong I agree. But too many woman do want Men to chase, and to ignore their initial rejections. Those women reinforce this behavior, and that's why you get guys who don't respect a no. This of course is not including the predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:56 PM
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Yeah but you can't make everyone match your idea of respect. If the next women found it disrespectful that the SAME guy did not try again, then what? Some people are gonna suck and never match your level/idea of decency. That's life. Just block and keep it moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:45 PM
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It's more like these traits are the minimum you allow, but you expect something more to set themselves apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:31 PM
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Its the grading mindset. 7/10 is 70% that's a passing grade. Anything below that is failing. But in reality, 5/10 is good is not bad, it just looks bad to those who have a grading mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:29 PM
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Yeah, but you're only speaking for yourself. The women answering on this thread would say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:26 PM
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It's not that Men are below average, Women judge men as if they're wearing make-up. If Women didn't wear make-up they immediately go down about 2-3 point in scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:23 PM
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All you have to do is send a message declining and then block them. Also, the reason why many Men don't give up, is because Women have reinforced that attitude. "At first you don't succeeeed, Dust yourself off and try again"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:08 PM
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Inb4 But it IS women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:01 PM
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Sign up as a guy and try to get women. You'll see why. It's not laziness, but rather doing whatever you can to work against the odds. We wouldn't do it if it didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:49 PM
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The things is, it's not just men. It's just that women are louder about it and less likely to face emotional manipulation when vocalizing their needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:15 PM
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They don't do it the way you would? IMHO, I think 90% of talk about weaponized incompetence is just that. They don't do it the way you like it, so you go out their to make it their fault by using therapeutic speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:13 PM
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Bluepill is just redpill, but drowned by platitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:18 AM
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It's not about what's being omitted. It's about the lie through omission. I'm not judging your opinion on escorts, just your point that lying through omission is okay. Its not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:48 PM
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Lying through omission is just as terrible. Imagine if your boyfriend had a whole other family and didn't say anything. I mean technically it isn't lying...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:33 PM
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Women largely are able to do this, men can’t stop daydreaming about having a girl that doesn’t even think about him. I would argue that men and women are terrible about this, it's just Women can get validation from others thus allowing them to move on. Without that, I bet women would be worse off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:16 PM
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Sure its called lies...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:31 PM
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I've been there and its really simple. Those women are the only ones who even attempt to show interest. They're actively try to date/spend time with you. It takes a while to realize that they're treating like a movie/ tv series to binge on toss away with that entertainment fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:07 PM
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Bruh she's not going to answer your question. Very few women on here will debate without being disengenious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:02 PM
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Yes, because matches are how a conversation starts. Without matching you're screaming into a void per say. A match essentially means you've established one on one conversation with someone. And then from there you can pursue a date. I know you want to focus on reading profiles and seeing if there might be a genuine connection, but that simply doesn't work, wastes time, and I would argue is a detriment to one's health. Imagine sending out sincere messages to people you thought would like you only…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:44 PM
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Well, I for one am able to equate my violence level to the amount free tacos in the area
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:23 PM
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I would challenge you to create a male profile and try to get a match by doing what you suggest. It simply doesn't work. But if its makes you feel better to think that I'm blaming all my problems on women then go be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:16 PM
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The context of the sentence matters. Saying I don't blame an idiot for being an idiot is not the same thing as saying I don't blame idiots. One of them is respecting how idiots act, the other is absolving idiots of all blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:12 PM
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So this guy who didn't get any matches doing it the way you suggested and should be fine with his outcome? There is a reason why Men use OLD the way they do is because it works. Its almost like you just don't want him to bother you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:48 PM
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But did you actually meet anyone this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:46 PM
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If men actually used the apps the way they are supposed to be used, the heavy volume of low-effort and incompatible men would go down, we'd know that a match is someone who is more likely to actually be interested in us and compatible with what we're looking for, we'd be less overwhelmed in our inbox and more of us would be on the apps and stay on them. Then men would never meet anyone on a dating app. I would challenge to sign up as a man and try to meet a girl with the way to you want Men to u…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:43 PM
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And I have a hard time believing that here in America most women simply don’t mind paying on dates. Most women will balk at paying for dates. I have YET to meet a woman in IRL that wanted to pay for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:37 PM
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I think some women take ambition and turn it something more toxic. Those women will use their status to demean people around them, especially their Man. This is why Men typically stay away from ambitious women, because we've met Women where it goes straight to their head. It's like the difference between being a girl boss, and a successfully woman in leadership.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:35 PM
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You would think it, but I doubt you would be voicing your opinion to try to derail their story
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:50 PM
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Manipulating a quote by cutting off part of it to change the meaning of the quote is deceptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:49 PM
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You're being deceptive. Watch "It really strokes my ego." So, this about ego as usually for people like you. Notice how that's absolutely bullshit to what you said?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:35 PM
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I think don't any man here is not going to accept responsibility and accountability. But they're not going to take full responsibility for things that they believe that are not entirely their fault and out of their control. That's all everyone is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:15 PM
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I love how with Men there has to be something missing, but for Women it's a complete story.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:07 PM
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No one wants to hear sarcastic dribble when someone is asking legitimate question
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:32 PM
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Because it way more involved. You know the characters, and in a sense share in their stakes. Then you're basically being mentally guided through having sex with or as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:38 AM
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Yeah, but there is a legal mechanism that can force a man to pay for his kids. I imagine a majority of those men would have opted out from the beginning if there was mechanism to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:28 PM
1

If you're so worried about children going without, adopt one then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:25 PM
1

So wait why don't you go and adopt a bunch of kids and make sure they go without?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:13 PM
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But they're not legally able to. You can go to court and force most to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:09 PM
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No joke, I think smut is worse than porn. Some of that stuff is fantasy world building J.R. Tolken level. Either way it's not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:38 PM
2

I have yet to see one person self-identify as MGTOW. Not a single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:30 PM
0

That's the definition of whataboutism. Attempting to deflect/side track the discussion by bringing up loosely related facts that only relate to the detriment of one side.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:24 PM
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Tiger woods was down for the average girl when he was cheating on his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:19 AM
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No one ever has a response for this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:06 AM
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Or they're jealous. Especially if they think they're more attractive than their friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:35 PM
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Can confirm. Broke up with a girl over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:34 PM
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I don't why but for some reason I picture you on throne with some scepter of some sort declaring: "Your sexy time has been rescinded. Pray I do not rescind it further!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:33 PM
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Whatever you want to believe. In regards to friendships, 10x better once I explained to my friends what they were doing to me and their male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:03 AM
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I feel like every Woman is misunderstanding this and some of you are doing it on purpose. Have you ever seen fight club? The main character yells that you're not your job or how much money you make. The idea is that YOU ARE MORE than that. The achievements(Job, status, money) that some people tout are only a matter of circumstance and define them at all. We do care about you think. Men value women's opinion WAY more than you think, otherwise subreddits like this wouldn't exist. The rest of your …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:25 PM
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And that's the norm, but slowly and thankfully moving away from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:17 PM
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Considering the way the election went. Alot more people had a problem than we originally thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:14 PM
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Its because woman are wonderful. That what it comes down to in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:12 PM
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If men thought more like woman on this issue, a lot of divorces would be initiated after childbirth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:36 PM
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That's loose definition of smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:26 PM
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How did you get that from his post? I figured it would be the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:25 PM
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Because it's not a power couple if she only wants to be in control.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:04 PM
2

Did you not read it? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:02 PM
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B. Boss babes as you describe them, have something to prove they need to control always. But they don't know how to lead. They think just doing what they want is leadership, but reversing the roles that would be the basis for abusve relation. Again, domineering and controlling are not leadership. The older lady will take the lead on somethings and try something that works for both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:01 PM
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But you did expect reciprocation though for all of these things. You expect someone to be able to do these things for you if push comes to shove. You expect your friends to step up. Otherwise, they wouldn't be your friends anymore. The thing is a lot of guys were that person, but found out when they actually needed help, no on returned the favor. And it when happens one time, sure you get new friends, but if it's a constant thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:13 PM
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It's just embarrassingly easy for them not be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:52 PM
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No one said anything about fluids staying in your body. Though semen does stay alive in a women for several days. Op meant having too much male fluid i.e. sleeping with a ton of men is not the best look.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:52 PM
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Sorry wrong comment/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:49 PM
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I agree with this, but aren't we talking about the guy in past tense?As in the guy in question used to do that, but he doesn't any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:30 PM
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You'd be surprised how a lot of women put zero effort into dating. At least three times, I have dated women who did nothing to such a point that I stopped contacting them, only to hear back from after 3 months with either a lame excuse or blame tactic that its my fault somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:28 PM
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It means don't sleep with a ton of different men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:18 PM
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Don't worry the person who you replied won't read/will forget this because it doesn't fit into their narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:08 PM
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Everytime the woman makes more, It turns into boondocks with Ann Coulter and the black guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:00 PM
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But they're not though...Not really. Education doesn't mean that the person has good morals. Their job doesn't give me inkling as to whether they argue with a sense partnership or a sense of antagonism. Now that I think about it, I believe that because when go for these things and place a priority they tend go glaze over things that would lead them to ending up with abusive partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:56 PM
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That one aunt...ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:45 PM
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NO. Should they? Fucking Yes, and everyone who doesn't try to match the non-immutable standards they look up to is a hypocrite and should be shamed Same salaries or close to it. Same emotional stability. Same lifestyle choices. These things should be matched or at least accompanied
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:33 PM
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I'll NEVER understand the chores benefit. Women don't want to be maid and clean up so WHY on earth is this a benefit. And also, while I only have anecdotal evidence, women create the whole cleaning problem themselves. They take what you've already done cleaning wise, add on to it, make that the new standard, and then act offended when you choose not follow their new standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:59 PM
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But wasn't that study found out to be bullshit. Like Women only work may be 45 minutes extra a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:49 PM
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That poor woman never had the luxury to experience these problem nor there solutions...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:35 PM
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I think this person is just responding in anger to your comment. Not really debating or reading it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:29 PM
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In u/Boudria post its implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 10:00 PM
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The same thing can be said about the guy in OPs situation though, right? Let's say the guy couldn't work because he got disabled. And she leaves him. The same judgements would still apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 09:49 PM
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You're acting as if Men don't take on the extra children...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:42 PM
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Then you should elaborate, and not just make the claim
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:03 PM
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How are my comment and your comment related? I don't understand what you're getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:59 PM
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I neither have the time or resource to my own study. You can link ANYTHING you want, but if you're basing you're knowledge off a study with a population size smaller than most neighborhoods then it's not a real intelligence and nothing good should be learned from it Also, if 101 is a small sample size why on earth would you link a study with a sample size of just 12 more people. Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:56 PM
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The study of 101 men in the Boston area who buy sex and 101 men who do not indicates that sex buyers’ perspectives are similar to those of sexually coercive men. Lol 101 men have decided it for us all....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:39 PM
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Ah the duality of Women...lol Same thing for a lot of Men. They would see an escort, but wouldn't date a former one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:38 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:26 PM
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I think we should move away from calling this masculine energy. Its indefinitely combative, but it's not Masculine per say. It's more like hubris and classism. It's like by earning more they believe that this person is less than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:25 PM
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Just because you're the highest earner, doesn't mean you can dictate the finances. It's a shared experience. Also, you need to be cognizant that they don't earn as much and may feel the need to overspend to match your level. You should discourage that at all times. Lastly, you should never use the fact that you make more money as a reason for winning an argument. This may seem obvious, but you'd be surprised how emotions surge and that little thought that you make more than them so you're better…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:56 PM
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Not gonna happen...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:18 PM
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Asking Women to actually take their love life in their own hands and actually do something? What kind of equal, thoughtful, and correct place do think this!?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:10 PM
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i mean men say its creepy when they are approached by ugly women all the time Please show me where Men have said this. Also please show me where Men are using the word creepy to describe approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:08 PM
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Most people smile when smiled at first...This is one of those social cues that Women say Men can act on but when Men act actually and its misunderstood, they are demonized. While Women act as if they never meant it and the Man was wrong to act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:32 PM
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All you have to do is for me to like you first, and then you can approach
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:19 PM
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I know women who would rather just die alone than approach ANYONE man, woman, kangaroo doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:17 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:11 PM
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Men are a bit less likely to gossip about rejecting women hitting on them: This is such an understatement...I have never heard once of guy talking about rejecting a woman. May be in high school. I have heard from Woman DIRECTLY about rejecting Men for validation or think some Men are just beneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:00 PM
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It's all lack of nuance, and social shaming. I bet if we asked every person on this thread, those who are in relationship or have been have broken a social norm in some form to get into that relationship. Whether it be approach cold, asking out people in your social group(which is now off limits for some reason, lol), whatever All in all its just really disingenuous. They should say none or of it matter or just say they are not 100% sure. Its okay to not understand 100% of social dynamics but to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:51 PM
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But this isn't dating within your social circle. This is just cool-approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:22 PM
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I used to think like this, but after talking to some more old heads about the situation, and they agree. A lot of this stuff some Women put out there is just those Women having a problem, and everyone in their Mom agreeing with them because it's a Woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:20 PM
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To answer your question about how someone can make it to adulthood without realising: many people today are on the spectrum or can't read social situations. Many men have also never experienced being the object of attraction so therefore there are no signals to interpret. But you have to respect that this works both ways. If you're putting out signals that no one is interrupting correctly. Then you can't go around say that no is getting your vibe. There needs to be some self-reflection, which I …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:17 PM
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And just like Women have been prompting Men to do this entire time. They need to do better instead defaulting to blaming it on Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:01 PM
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Women aren't as good at giving cues as you would like to think. And this just fall back into the Men's belief on the disingenuous nature of Women giving cues. Because cues are by definetly up for interpretation a Woman can easily just say he didn't get my cues or Men are oblivious, instead of taking her sexuality into her own hands. Just use your words. Or even better go with traffic light sex system. It works wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:57 PM
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You'd be surprised how many times Men do things that are not their Job because it needs to get done. And how often they will never say anything about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:06 PM
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Bruh her in America health food costs more than Ozempic. Think about that for a sec. It's cheaper to eat shit and take Ozempic and that it is to eat healthier. Make it make sense without epitomizing C.R.E.A.M
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:35 PM
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Hey, don't go shaking your head at commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:15 PM
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Hey, it happened to me as a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:36 PM
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It does not prove she's not actively cheating but it does clarify that your original assumption are wrong. In the end it depends on what kind of person you are. Are you the person that finds out something new and can accept that you may be wrong or are the type of person who will double down and want a reason for why they may be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:25 PM
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Because you've been proven wrong and at that point you should reflect on your beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:27 PM
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Nah this is how they start random cullings of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:23 PM
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You act as if these two scenarios can't happen in two different instances. Women & Men don't want to have sex when they're upset. But also, Woman and sometimes men withhold sex as a punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:14 PM
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I'm not saying that at all. Women enjoy sex, but they will ALSO use as reward for their spouse. Birthday sex is an example. In lieu of an actual gift, sex is given instead. Or when there is a disagreement in the relationship one party(usually the woman, because of libido/sex drive levels) will withhold sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:29 PM
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No, they don't earn more than most women. You may be thinking of the averages. That includes athletes and billionaires. Not the "average guy." Most men may be taller than a women, but they don't hit the 6 ft standard that Women seem to love to filter by on dating apps. Finally on masculinity. Masculinity at this point means anything that want a man to have but not a woman. At that point people act like buffet catholic with only taking the parts that they like will referring to others as toxic. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:25 PM
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How are women conspiring against men? Each individual woman makes up her own mind on how she feels about the issue. It's not a conspiracy. But this is not what happens. More often Women seek advice from other Women and that's how a decision is made or they get information from social media. In the latter case "Sprinkle Sprinkle" was the nonsense propagated. Going 50/50 on dates seems okay until you get Women who claim that them wearing make-up and them being there is part of the 50/50. Don't dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:16 PM
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Women totally use sex as a reward/present.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:04 PM
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I agree, but I think Women aren't reflecting on that change as well. I think a lot of women need to realize the type of Man they want statistically doesn't exist and never will. Whether that's due to economics or whatever reason. And there's nothing wrong with that. But what's wrong is trash talking of Men because they don't reach a standard that's improbable. Also, I have a hard time empathizing with anyone who wants something from a partner that they can't do themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:54 PM
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But as a woman what I really don't get is this one. Why just don't avoid those women? If you refuse to pay for any dates and wants that pure emotional love you could only insist 50/50 dates only from women. Why just not do it? Because as we try to pursue these preferences we're ridiculed and conspired against. Going 50/50 on dates seems okay until you get Women who claim that them wearing make-up and them being there is part of the 50/50. Men also hear this a lot which makes no sense, when its W…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:23 PM
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Your girlfriend's friends, parents, colleagues, religious/cultural community (if applicable), etc. will assess whether or not you're a worthy match for her. Sometimes - especially in those first few months when new relationship energy is high - they'll be more accurate than she is. I disagree with this fundamentally. You're attribute too much to benevolence. I believe a lot of the judgement comes from jealousy and wanting to ruin a relationship. I've known far too many women who listened to judg…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:05 PM
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Woman do this all throughout adulthood. I don't know why but there's always one relationship in the group they want to sabotage. Its usually the one that is going the best. I don't know why, but I've seen women do it, and it's fascinating and gross at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:57 PM
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This right here!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:34 PM
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What are you talking about? Thye clearly know everyone you dated/went to high school with!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:24 PM
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He's lost something 40% of his income, and X might be going bankrupt in about 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:23 PM
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Lazy and Hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:34 PM
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Exactly, and now with the internet we can track it and show receipts. I will say it's was the same thing with Men, but we all kind of agreed on the things about Men. We still lie to ourselves when it comes to Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:25 PM
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I love the bias even in this post. Women are just women for what they do, but men are idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:13 PM
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And its really weird. Like stop...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:23 PM
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And it only reinforces the incorrect stereotype that is to ignore women when they cry/complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:20 PM
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See I don't think there's anything wrong with it. You both just need to be adults and have boundaries. I'm friends with gay guys who have admitted to being attracted to me. It doesn't change anything as long as they're not making unwanted gestures or comments. Be an adult or at least try.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:15 PM
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I think men only harp about this because when a women can't find anyone, they blame men. Its why can't find a good man. All these men are shit. Instead of saying my preferences are making me unavailable to partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:12 PM
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Sorry wrong thread...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:53 PM
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These wants you mentioned. In general, I find that women want to date or be in a relationship with someone they look up to/admire. Someone who is in a sense better than them. But to be more specific. Women typically want their men to make more than them. Then there their the elusive six figure salary while these women are barely making a third of that. Do their fair share of work. This usually means Men doing things that they don't want to do while holding the keys to the quality of work. If the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:52 PM
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I say let him cook...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:32 PM
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Nah because supposedly being single is better than being with a partner you don't like that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:31 PM
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But not when account for specific jobs. All job types pay the same with very few exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:30 PM
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My problem with all these wants is that I have yet to see Women come even close. It's like they're taking what there has already done, slightly improving it and then claim that the Man isn't doing anything based on the newly created goalpost.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:29 PM
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Nah hypergamy exists but that doesn't mean you shouldn't try if you want to. None of that should stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:22 PM
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The key point of his argument is that Women want to date men who have better jobs than them. More status/resources...whatever the case may be
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:21 PM
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Some can. And I think that has to do with passive nature. Things happen to them...So its no different between who is causing those events/things to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:17 PM
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No, it does not. It can help, but its not even remotely close.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:08 PM
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Its because you're so quick to disagree when its about Women, but quick to jump on the band wagon when its men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:06 PM
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And he's also explaining how capital C conservatism works down to the word
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:22 PM
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Sorry ladies, but its gay to listen to Women...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:34 PM
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The real question is what kind of cows we talking about her?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:08 PM
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Its scary when you realize a lot of women are just like this to such a point that men settle for these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:09 PM
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Nope...as long as they don't blame men for their lack of success...I won't hold my breath though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:47 PM
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But I think people are misconstruing that as an unhappy relationship, when I take it as venting. There is nothing wrong with not being happy about your spouse 24/7; people are human. And also, I want to point that a lot of women's social all they do is vent about their partner's. Like that's all they do when they get together...nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:44 PM
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You should read more into that movement it's not as widespread as the internet makes it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:30 PM
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Nope. Either we're responsible for our actions or we're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:42 PM
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I would say its through resource acquisition lens. Like what can they get out of it, instead what offer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:10 PM
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Not just a lack but a absolute repulsion to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 08:58 PM
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Nah, there are surprisingly amount of Women who go out with guys for a free meal. That's why guy starting to suggest coffee dates, and those women blew the internet up complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:06 PM
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Yes, but without Men initiating these things it would not happen. Men have to romance women, initiate sex etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:50 PM
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They don't want to be there, and they refuse to grab the wheel while the car is careening over the edge. Its like Bob's burgers parking lot scene. A lot of men in the meantime have gotten out the car.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:38 PM
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By this logic as soon as anyone accuses anyone of cheating in a relationship its over. Because there's no way to prove that your partner didn't cheat. As long that's where we are its fine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:36 PM
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By this logic Women have no right to accuse their partners of cheating. Even if they suspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:21 PM
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Eight year old retorts! More at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:20 PM
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It means guess/go for it and allow me to plausibly deny it later.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:47 AM
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Its starkly the otherway around. You can make money and gain status, you can't change your looks. Not without risking pillow face.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:45 PM
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They did that with Bumble and it failed spectacularly. The whole issue imo is that women have a very a submissive attitude in dating, especially on dating apps. Things happen to them. Someone contacts them and they respond with interest or not. When you shift that put onerous on Women they simple don't act.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:53 PM
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This is not true. Yes, you can. If start making 1 mil a year a lot of people who weren't attracted to me before will be attracted to me now. Or if I went back to school and got another degree, I would be attractive to individuals that I otherwise wouldn't be the case. I am making them attracted to me by increasing my status. Or shit I could plastic surgery to make myself attractive. Stop being disingenuous with this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:08 PM
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Nah I disagree. It's because a lot of women with money will happily use and or demand money from money. There is saying that a lot of women laugh about but don't dispute. My money is my money and your money is my money. Anecdotally, I've been in relationships and have yet to recieve a gift that wasn't related to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:34 PM
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Nah that's Black. Ben Affleck is considered dark. I'm black big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:10 PM
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And that's where we diverge. I will say that we need to take a look at women health during this stage and come up with solution. I would say the same thing about Men's issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:29 PM
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For real though, I was waiting him to talk step onichan...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:20 PM
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It pretty solid mix of both. Can we say something about dark skinned Africans just for a little more flavor
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:15 PM
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No it's not. Its misandry to shift a problem solely on Men when we don't do that for women at all. Imagine if we just said abortion and law being passed against them are a women's problem and they should deal with themselves. It only has do to with women and their bodies so why should I care? I don't blame women for postpartum baby killing. I don't say be better women. But may be I should.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:09 PM
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Hooking up at a party is cold approaching...Your hooking up with stranger at a party. You approached them without knowing them. Cold Approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:25 PM
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Women lose all agency when convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:22 PM
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First, as a general rule, if you are polite to women, they will be very polite to you. In this regard they are 1000% better than men. This is very cultural/age specific your mileage will vary. But still kill them with kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:20 PM
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You should be suing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:18 PM
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If this is real that guy should be suing everyone involved. Fuck that nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:17 PM
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I swear everyone in this thread is taking crazy pill, but you...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:15 AM
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Because those things matter to women. The last few dates I've been on, the questions they asked weren't about me, but externalities. They were about things that they attribute to status.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:16 AM
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Its not about Revenge, but if the SAME women didn't want me back then, they don't really want me now. They want the accumulation of resources and status that I now have while offering nothing in return. I mean a lot of these women who circle back can't even offer the bare minimum of fake attention when someone is talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:50 PM
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Acting as if Da Brat and Missy E don't exit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:42 AM
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Okay but this is not caring about it. Appreciating that they care about it, is caring about the person, not the hobby, career, education itself. Which is what men constantly say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:04 AM
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What vogue post?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:39 PM
2

Well, I know for fact that cane killed able to be canable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:14 PM
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Women actual do, do what OP is describing. This is coming from guy with mostly female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:06 PM
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Yes pretty faces with make up. People really down play how much even a little make up can help. How come you think why men ask women are they tired when they don't wear make up? Because its noticeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:54 AM
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Do you have a link? i find it strange that the average single woman over there is s single mom. That sounds nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:52 AM
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I mean you can believe that...it doesn't make it true. I knocked out a deer one time...doesn't mean that I can rule the forest with my bare fists. Though I really want to....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:25 PM
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Also even if age wasn't an issue that fool straight up pressured a lot of those women into sex/kinks, because of the "implication"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:13 PM
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I wouldn't but mainly because of the double standard. Women molest children too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:53 PM
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Man does not control his own fate. The women in his life do that for him. Groucho Marx
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:46 AM
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The thing is men are more empathetic to women, otherwise you guys would still be literal chains right now. You forget that men can and often do take sex from women. And empathy is why it isn't rampant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:58 PM
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Man this whole post feels extremely misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:38 PM
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I would argue that they need to stick to their standards rather than increase. It's easy to have standards, but as soon as an attractive enough guy/girl comes by suddenly these standards don't matter as much. If everyone stuck to their standards the dating and relationship world would look so much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:34 PM
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Because some women will use it as a take to demean. Definitely not even close to all, but enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:13 PM
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Y'all realize that people can act differently in different situations
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:38 PM
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Whites are held collectively accountable because a lot them refuse to acknowledge the privileges that make it so that if you're white you have a greater chance of familial wealth. Men are blamed for the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:28 PM
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Honest question why do you believe in Patriarchy? I'm interested in a non grifting person's perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:57 AM
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They are being purposefully obtuse to win an argument. How women argue 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:21 PM
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She went full on Billie Ellish for a moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:35 PM
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You say this and yet most Women take a submissive role in dating. They want to be asked, they expect things to happen to them. So it would make sense that Men would only ask men on how take on the role of the dominant dating partner. Women expect men to pursue them. Also its a metaphor...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:07 PM
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I feel like this tactic should be sticky post.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:42 PM
2

So John Wick...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:40 PM
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Yeah but I feel like the incest thing is because its such a small area. All the other points are sound though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:21 AM
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What? No...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:47 AM
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This is why Men have checked out. It's like real life Sza Saturn song. Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:01 PM
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But the 'standards' that are raised don't that make the guy a better choice. Like when someone wants a person who makes 100K that doesn't bare any meaning on whether that person isn't going to cheat/be abusive. When Men say choose better, focus on behavior. Are they controlling? Do they limit your friendships. Not his pocket size.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:59 PM
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This is when hand waiving starts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:54 PM
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Why am I accountable for another Man? I can't make that guy stop being abusive, but I can tell a person who consistently says that guys are shit while choosing shit guys to choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:53 PM
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When you attack the analogy and not the argument that means you don't have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:48 PM
1

What are your basic standards that men can't fulfill?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:45 PM
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No, but just as Men understand that society puts unrealistic expectations on Women, they should understand that it goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:44 PM
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Which would be totally fine if they didn't lie to these dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:40 PM
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Which is impossible in a sense, because equality ensures it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:40 PM
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Yes, too many of y'all weirdly are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:38 PM
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Because they're not really unattractive, but they're not Brad Pitt. It's that they don't check every box that a girl wants. This is not every girl, but too many that I know have left guys who ended up getting married the next month.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:36 PM
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And its also not Men's job have affection for Women. I don't think anyone is entitled, but there is general affection for Women in society that doesn't exist for men. So its less that affection is owed, its that one side is getting affection from one side while its non existent in other. I don't know the solution, but both sides need show care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:32 PM
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Yeah, but people need to realize that when someone has a romantic interest for someone they tend to do things that are not normal as part of relationship. Going out of your way for them, making time for them over others etc. The problem with that is that a lot people take that for granted and get angry when they no longer get that benefit, especially after rejecting the other party. That's entitlement. Acting as if romantic interest and friendship get the same benefits. They don't and never shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:24 PM
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Lol he said none of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:12 PM
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Essentially its nature of Women being in the "submissive" role in the relationships/gender roles. When things happen to you, it removes agency, and thus it's okay for them to act in a way that wouldn't be good if the roles were switched. I don't agree, but this is where we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:32 PM
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I'm actually sorry you had to type all this...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:32 PM
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Do you see what you're saying right? You're ready to throw every guy under the bus thinking that they'll just allow rape/ participate. I'm not going to coddle you while you insult me. So again, you can hate all men, but men with morals with always be there to do the right thing no matter how terrible your character is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:41 PM
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You go right ahead and think that, while your dumbass is hiding from the inquisition in my basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:55 PM
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And Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:32 PM
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But if it was vast majority, you would probably be dead, no? What you're doing is exactly what op is saying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:08 AM
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Depends: Am I ex Navy seal force recon transplant, whose living their life after losing my one and only? If not then I'm going to just die.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:58 PM
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No there's a difference between being cautious and assuming someone it out to hurt you. And that's what every guy here is saying. Like I get it, Men are out there that can hurt you. What are Men more likely to do, however? Help you instead. And that fact that Someone people are acting as if Rape is our default is sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:21 PM
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I think a lot of men would turn on other men before that happened and then it would regress to something that we already have. I may not agree with Feminism in its entirety but I'll shoot a slave owner, regardless of who they're owning, Dave Chapelle style.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:01 PM
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That would be epic...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:22 PM
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Seriously...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:06 PM
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Yeah I’m asking SO WHY are y’all putting up with this. A lot of Men aren't. The whole where have the good men gone, is part of this. The problem is that there aren't enough who have changed, and as long as thirsty men exists, Woman can still demand it because there always be the thirsty, crying the rain, guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:03 PM
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You'd be surprised how many Woman, my friends, think this is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:53 PM
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eh, I would argue that its simply Men no longer excepting all the bullshit/lack of accountability/lack of reciprocity/sexism that comes from Women. A lot of guys are just like miss me with all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:23 PM
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But being caring and extra considerate isn't romance. Also just for the record: being caring and considerate is FAR more important than romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:18 PM
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Sure. General: If a woman wants a guy with 100K salary in an area with median income for of about 60K, while she has an income the same or lower. And while shamming that same man. Admittedly the shamming in this instance might be cultural. Personal: I've had women demand that I live alone, all the while living at home, and then act like that's okay. Women refusing to plan any sort of date or activity. Women giving absolutely abysmal gifts for special occasions, I had a partner give me a set of C…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:15 PM
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Because they're invisible
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:38 PM
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The problem that most don't take into account that those high standards from other women have ruined a lot of men. If you keep noticing that women you're attracted to have standards that seem ridiculous, what the point of trying again only to run into the same situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:33 PM
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I would argue that's because women either don't provide it or are really bad at it. So they value what they can't produce themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:07 PM
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random gifts, random notes around the house or in his things, when going shopping for oneself thinking if the he has what he needs (in terms of food, house stuff, clothing) Also this shit isn't romantic. If you don't do these things for you partner, Man or Woman, you don't think about them all. Romance is not just being considerate of your partner. Its an actually attempt to woo them, and directly remind them of your love. Jesus Christ the bar is fucking low.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 07:42 PM
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This is because men pursue women, and their failure can be noted. A rejection can be seen as a -1 but not being approached is 0. One denotes a negative, but essential they're the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:20 PM
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Fairness and Accountability. Why I never...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:04 PM
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Its the dance monkey dance idea that both genders seem to endlessly partake in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:53 PM
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You should have left it for posterity and lols
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:27 PM
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I believe that dating apps randomly block conversations to keep people from meeting. Because I've matched with women at work, and have seen their app and sometimes they don't even get the chat that I've sent. Or they won't get it for like 7 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:26 PM
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Your money is her money, and her money is her money...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:53 PM
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A good question for anyone who might disagree would be if companies could hire women for less money to do the same jobs why would they hire men at all? I wish people thought about this simple concept more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:48 PM
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Nobody said you brought up an issue...How did you summarize that from my comment? Also the comment wasn't directed at you in the slightest. Trust me I know, I made the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:08 PM
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The study is pretty outdated, and was written before social media took control. After social media, everything changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:49 PM
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I wasn't chatting with you directly. Just commenting on the issue a lot of women bring up. Also good for you, I'm glad you found someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:10 PM
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Its because you're not assisting in ANYWAY towards the barrier of entry. It reeks of selfishness and all around not caring about your partner. Its like if I want my gf to play golf with me, and she's interested, I went in with her on golf clubs. By me contributing something to the barrier of entry, it shows that I actually want her to participate. When you say inclusion its definitely not the same. Its like being included in Fraternity. Sure you're part of us, but only for $$$ a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:51 PM
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/Thread...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:41 PM
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In this case its about the lack of equality in the relationship. Its like that saying. My money is her money, and her money is my money. If you make more than me or have the funds to take a vacation, there should be an attempt to share i.e. fund that activity for your partner. Its like when asking to go on a date. Its usually the person who asks, pays right? So the person wanting to go on the trip should make a effort to take the other person with them. Otherwise you guys are just roommates who …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:15 PM
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I think its hilarious that they're still having trouble on recruit mode with the training mod attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:01 PM
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We're not there yet, but give it a few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:22 PM
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Way too many
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:12 PM
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Again its not that they can't. Its that they won't
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:44 PM
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Paid enough to survive, not paid enough to provide/be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:41 PM
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Because they CAN'T be wrong...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:30 PM
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But by agreeable, you mean do what I say without any variation or interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:18 PM
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Its a funny joke by a comedian. A guy will meet his friends girl and think I need to find a girl like her. A girl will meet her friends guy and think I need that guy right there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:21 PM
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K.O!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:55 PM
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I feel like you could cause a war by rejecting a woman at the right time and place...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:11 PM
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Eh, I would say 50% are Queer not Bi. I know, Its a a distinction without a difference, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:54 PM
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I feel like the woman in this thread are taking the theoretical guy and just finding a reason to move goalposts. Its weird...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:57 PM
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I feel like you're feeding the trolls at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:37 PM
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You're right, but this is funny because his argument still works but for a different reason. Its hubris...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 11:30 PM
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May be the definition of the term has already changed. I've ONLY heard of fuckboi as a derogatory term. And its not that they're successful its that they're one dimensional. They're only good for sex, and nothing else. I.e a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 11:19 PM
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Playing with a game trainer, and koonami code, acting like they're playing on veteran mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 11:08 PM
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They're called fucboi's no?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:04 PM
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the men not voting. Again, it's not all men's fault but going yeahbut the women are doing this, and not seeing both sides is stupid. This is not how American Governance works. We're in a two party system where one parties champion's womens issues and both scorn men's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:25 PM
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[reddit!] (https://reddit.com) reddit!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:05 PM
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I think its honestly because they secretly believe/want women to be perceived as having no Agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:59 PM
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And with no other reason but to hate...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:42 PM
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I don't get what you're saying with this. Rape and waterboarding are both things that are worse than a bad relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:36 PM
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Says a person who has never been water boarded. There's real reason why its illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:00 PM
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Because on Reddit, the man is wrong, and the woman is wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:34 PM
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I would take that with a grain of salt because those same people are defending his actions on January 6th. Its less the talk, and more its Trump so let's defend him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:42 PM
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> It's not a good test, you don't blame women for being women. Yes you can and should. Biological imperatives don't mean you can't and shouldn't be blamed and shamed for it if its is against the morals of that society. Its the same reason why we shame men for staring at women for too long or being overly flirtatious in the workplace. Its in Men's biology to flirt with women, but that doesn't mean we can't blame and shame them if its done at a inappropriate place or time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:11 PM
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You're never going to get over it. I don't think anyone who suffers from social anxiety will. Facts of life. You should still try though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:35 AM
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But if you were to date your Grandma you would hate it, no? I think that's what they're getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:54 PM
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Women had to fight for our own shit and now a bunch of women are fighting for yours too. This isn't 100% true, because without Men supporting feminism it wouldn't have gotten anywhere really. It takes both genders to usher in social charnge
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:04 PM
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Nah we all condemn them. Brock Turners is literally called a rapist in every social circle. No one sits here an defends that shit. But also on this point, I'd rather have 100 guilty men go free than one innocent person be found guilty. Because that 1 innocent person's story can shake the foundation of any system. Its sows doubt in the entire process
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:34 PM
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Also I have yet to be on single date planned by a woman, where I didn't have fill in the gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:40 PM
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I love that women can do the whole focus on yourself, and wait for someone to come into their life. That shit does not work for Men. You have find someone to come into your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:39 PM
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That's also just capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:13 PM
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Guys always allow themselves to be friend-zoned because of the fear of loosing the chick, l was the same when l was younger Its a learning experience. I just wish we could teach both parties to stop taking advantage/allowing yourself to be taken advantage of
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:13 PM
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Exactly women do this together. Just like if two men were to do this together it wouldn't mean anything. The fact that they are the opposite sex matters. And the fact that she posts 'Still Single' matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:11 PM
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Off season European ball has a lot of American players. Its bigger than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:58 PM
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You say yes to these things, even if you don't want to go, because that's part of being a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:48 PM
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The only times I've seen vitriol for towards a women poster, is when a women will a give platitudes for issues that men are facing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:02 PM
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There's a reason why we now have affirmative consent. Because physical cues are often too subtle or non existent. By actively saying what you want there is some much less ambiguity
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:21 PM
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Not exactly for the better...you ever seen those picture where they have people who are having orgasms? Its a bit like that. They are guessing and checking for pain vs pleasure. But you know what really helps? Simply saying "That's good" or "Right There" .Verbal communication. Because guessing and checking doesn't always work, and is extremely difficult when you also have to focus on your own sexual pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:09 PM
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Because those men didn't wake up with that ability. They have to learn it through experience and communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:50 PM
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He did say majority of men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:24 PM
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And soo much plastic surgery...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:21 PM
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They were a dick - I should have guessed Yes...Never trust anyone ever with anything/s If you take on responsibility/fault of everyone who has slighted you that means you never really trusted anyone. By giving a friend money, you expected and trusted them. Trust being broken isn't the fault of person who is doing the trusting. It's the person who broke the trust. Or to bring it back to relationships, if you're in agreed on monogamous relationship the expectation is not to cheat. You trust that p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:03 AM
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Yes but for that same friend, if you gave them money, and they turn around are absolute ass to you behind your back, you wouldn't give them money again. You expectation is for them to continue to be friend and not back stab you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:32 PM
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It also has the aspect of one party using the friend zoned party as a psuedo partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:34 PM
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But didn't he set the boundary for himself by breaking up with her? Sure he was emotional about the whole thing, but he did say that he wasn't comfortable with her doing whatever she did and broke up her because of it. I admittedly didn't read every single message.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:07 PM
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Everytime
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:39 PM
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Choosing to not continue a relationship is way different than treating someone who rejected you like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:17 PM
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Respect his privacy, telling mutual friends about it is embarrassing. Women: "That's a no from me dog."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:08 PM
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Well, I'm mean they ain't nothing to fuck wit. But also, I find to be propaganda that they're are so welcoming to children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:46 AM
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Eh, its more that women don't like weakness. You can explain your feelings, but it can't be perceived as weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:18 PM
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The fumbling of the money is peak infomercial nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:03 PM
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You must not talk to a lot of women. I hear women all the time complain about their relationships. Its the one thing that brings a community of women together. Its the same for Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:40 PM
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He went Mengala, Hitler, and Jay Z as the axis of evil....I'm dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:18 PM
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For 'women to be wonderful,' men have to not be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:17 PM
2

Alright...that's enough! For shame! Think of the children!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:07 PM
2

I would also that women online are directly contributing to the red/black pill nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:02 PM
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Actually I believe that a lot of women on PPD don't believe this about themselves. I've literally heard on here how a great personality and confidence can make up for being unattractive, and its just a plain lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:08 PM
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The tide goes out tide goes in...You can't explain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:11 PM
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Yes its going down, but not enough to make their assertion false
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:56 PM
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The problem with this is that no one is explained what their problem is in that setting. It would silly and dangerous for a women or man for that matter to do that as there are some assholes among us. You only get your answer in the macro sense afterwards from both genders. And It's often wrong for the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:26 AM
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