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Maybe euthanasia is an option then IDK. We don't need people like this out in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:06 PM
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Being a good person is the point of being alive. The results don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:05 PM
6

This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:47 PM
7

Are you talking about your a-hole brother? Fix him up with a b-yatch that will bully him and hurt his feelings. Better that she do it to him than to a good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:46 PM
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"Be real" and "Don't be a POS" go hand-in-hand. The point is to genuinely not be a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:44 PM
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Nope. Others don't determine the course of my life. I do. The only reason I wouldn't be able to get the quality of man that I want is because they're already taken. And like I've said I'm fine with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:02 PM
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You're the one changing the subject. And no, women don't choose them. They reject them. Hence why they bounce from partner to partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 04:56 PM
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I'm here to challenge the narrative and help steer things away from cazytown. People have gotten hurt in the real world by radicalized spergs like you. Absolutely no one should ever see anything you post and think "Hmm, that's a good point." You deserve to be embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:56 PM
-3

"Higher partner counts" as in unstable and constantly struggling with relationships. The only one who can isolate you, is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:51 PM
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LOL who is talking about that? Most partnered people are not abusive. OP wrote a revenge fantasy where he is the hero. Get lost with that mess, it's immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:49 PM
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It's not eugenics to prefer attractive people. Cut the crap dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:57 PM
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That's not true nor relevant. You know who I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:56 PM
1

I'm not in your life dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:54 PM
0

Some women choose all of the above. Any woman who does is a little stupid/neurospicy herself. High status women don't though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:55 PM
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The consequences of choosing good men is a happy, stable life. There's no halo effect. Why do you keep asserting that people are asking for empathy or help from the losers? Nobody is doing that. They 1. Don't need help and 2. Don't know or care that they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:54 PM
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Some women are losers too. Some women are unselected. Some women are even insane and criminal and like insane criminal men. You are the one who brought that up, so I made a counterpoint. The rule stands that good men are more successful all around. Maybe you haven't spent time in professional and highly educated, high-earning spaces. The people there are more intelligent, fitter, cleaner, more put together, mentally stable and they behave better. They are just all around better people and that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:50 PM
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I didn't/don't agree with your twisted nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:41 PM
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It makes no sense to be bothered by what random women think. You have a crappy family and that is why you are the way you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:40 PM
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Relationships are earned. Nobody is entitled to one. Recent history shows entitled males like you murdering multiple people and committing acts of terror. You are the bad guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:34 PM
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All you have to do to have a kid is fuck. Anyone can fuck. Obviously in that moment, a woman wanted to fuck. Dahmer was gay BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:54 PM
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There's nothing to debate here. You are whining about a problem that doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:52 PM
-5

The men that I consider superior are indeed superior. You want desperately for them not to be good people but that's just not the reality. With rare exceptions higher status people get there by being better people all around. That's why others look up to them. And absolutely nobody expects society's rejects to do anything, let alone help us or care about our problems. We're not even thinking about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:50 PM
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Not woke. It's just the natural order. Why should a woman choose a toxic man? Or a loser? Or someone who is mentally or physically defective? What would that add to her life? Be reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:48 PM
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Nobody is asking them to bring water or anything. They are not even thinking about these guys. I don't know why the guys like OP think they're so important.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:44 PM
-5

Nobody is asking these guys to "clean up". Seriously what are you all talking about? People are focused on their own stuff and aren't even thinking about you, let alone expecting you to do something for them when they're not even involved with you! Geez the narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:42 PM
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You're crying in every post and comment. If you don't want to participate in the dating world then don't. And nobody cares if you don't care about what happens to them in their relationship. God we WISH you actually didn't care and would shut up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:40 PM
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Sorry your family doesn't care about you but normal people's do. Don't project your shit on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:38 PM
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Ah the tired old "Women always choose toxic men." In reality women choose men who are mostly good. No man is perfect. The guys who get chosen are objectively better people than those who aren't: better disciplined, smarter, more social, better looking, healthier, genetically better, stronger, better character, more educated, etc. The poor little mutants who are always single and working low income jobs are toxic as fuuuuuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:36 PM
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That has nothing to do with the context of this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:51 PM
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Men: "I can't find any women to use for sex!" Women: "I do not empathize with that".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:10 PM
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Women who decenter men aren't dating. They're literally done with that. Most have been through relationships, good or bad, and are not interested in another one. Ideally we wouldn't break up. Ideally our husbands wouldn't die. But life is life. The Buddhists say that desire kills happiness. One way to control desire is practicing gratitude. I think it also opens us to new experiences and that can lead to better work, better relationships, more relationships, etc. I know quite a few people with d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:09 PM
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I think that women are better at finding happiness in less than ideal situations than men are. We've had no choice for most of our evolution. And things are actually not THAT bad now. Another thing that I think could help men is practicing gratitude. There are whole religions based on it. It is a skill. Men benefit from learning skills and that is a good one. Edit: Also men who are grateful make good partners, so it might help with that goal. Two birds with one stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:48 PM
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And having houseplants isn't ideal for women in place of family either unless they really just don't want kids. Life isn't perfect and we have to make do the best we can.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:32 PM
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I guess that depends on the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:06 PM
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There might be something biological to this. Men may be hardwired to want to hunt, protect the tribe, go to war, and start families. They have a hard time with feeling inadequate and without a purpose. Men need a purpose. If it's not a family then what is it? It could be faith, sports, a weighlifting club, work, the military... Women have hardwiring too. We like to take care of things and create social order. This doesn't have to mean babies and children it can mean a career, volunteering, civic…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:45 PM
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I know lots of guys who are total catches. Am I supposed to date 50+ guys at once OP? What if I'm married? Or just not into guys right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:03 PM
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Are you stupid or trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:52 PM
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That's on them. My friends are happy with their partners and their weight isn't my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:51 PM
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I'm talking about guys and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:46 PM
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Okay well those men are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:46 PM
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Did I stutter?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:45 PM
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Why do you want to be with that woman in the first place? She sounds like a slut. Find one who has the same values you do and form an authentic relationship. If it works out then great and of it doesn't them move on. It's not a game and nothing you try in order to "win" is going to work. Blue pill is just honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:42 PM
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It works if you find the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:40 PM
1

All of my fat friends have no problem finding partners. If you're awkward like me you have to work out in order to compensate for it or else no one will look at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:38 PM
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All men are the problem. The unselected ones just come out of nowhere and shoot up gyms and schools for no apparent reason and that gets a lot of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:10 PM
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They should do that a little bit in their EARLY 20's but finding a long-term partner should be the goal after that. The primary complaint that women in that age group have with their male peers is that they are immature and not serious. I think this is why most end up settled with men a few years older. This was always the mode of doing things and it worked. The problem is that young men are being encoraged keep playing later, and later, and later. Women their own age aren't looking for that. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 11:30 PM
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Adults don't behave that way. Well, women don't anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:19 PM
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According to you I have a "gassed up ego". I suppose you want us women to humble ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:28 PM
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Men love crazy bitches BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:24 PM
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My value is exactly what I decide it is. I set the price. If no one wants, oh well. I have a good life and don't need a partner especially one that's not everything I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:23 PM
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Oh trust me, women get those in our inboxes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:33 PM
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I don't need you to tell me anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:31 PM
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I know. Those are everywhere. The point is they are the only ones interested in you for any reason. Your profiles probably need some work
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:31 PM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:29 PM
-4

Most of the women are not scammers. If all you are attracting are scammers, well....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:26 PM
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Imagine admitting this to the public internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:50 PM
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Complaining about other people's standards is such a self-own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:26 PM
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Can the zoomers of Reddit please look up what "gaslighting" means? Do not use ChatGPT use a dictionary and a psychology textbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:58 PM
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No they're not. They're telling men not to aporoach them in ways that are inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:27 PM
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Women don'tcare if men decidenot to participate. Just leave women alone if that is the case. Women will be happy you did. The problem is men lying about their intentions, flaking, using us and wasting our time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:21 PM
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No. Why would I? That would just be a roommate who babysits and gets too handsy at times. I'd rather be alone that have that in the house. Men make me put up with their messiness in two ways: fixing stuff, and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 02:16 PM
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Somebody needs therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 02:11 PM
1

Simps create problems for themselves. Dating dynamics between men and women broadly, are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:24 PM
1

Doing things is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 08:52 PM
2

Nobody peaks in their 20's. 20-somethings are still figuring life out and don't know who they are yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 08:44 PM
3

Hobbies are necessary to be a well rounded human and I can't fathom not having any.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 08:36 PM
2

He deserves a piano to fall on his head. My best friend is currently going through it with a similar guy and we are helping each other pick up the pieces. The wrong person can really muck you up. But they do teach us things about ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 02:09 PM
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I dated a bad man and that was a bad choice and I learned the warning signs from that experience. He still deserves blame for how he treated me and other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:25 PM
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Oh it's mpre than 95%. Eventually it's 99.9999% and we quit even using the apps haha. The issue is these guys are hot messes and walking red flags. We probably need better psychiatric services in this country for starters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:10 PM
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Could it be that only 20% of the men on these sites are worth looking at? If anything that's a pretty generous number. Most men's dating profiles ramge from dull to acrtocious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:27 PM
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You can't blame people for not liking you. These are social concept we all learned in kindergarten OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:24 PM
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I never said it was worse but if you do those things you can expect a bad reaction from people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:31 PM
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They don't bully them for no reason. They bully them because they're jerks who creep on girls and insult everybody's hobbies. They act autistic and piss everybody off. Obviously you've been alone so long that you don't understand what domestic abuse us or how complex an issue it can be. Stay in your lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:20 PM
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Fathers should get leave too and countries that actually care about the replacement rate give them that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 11:36 PM
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Yay human extinction!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 11:36 PM
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Piss off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 11:34 PM
2

Women got the short end of the stick for most of history so things need to be evened out. Women do more for humanity because of motherhood, and so what you see as equity is actually true equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:39 PM
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For one, to not lose income and status at their jobs when they become parents. Motherhood is the underlying reason behind the wage gap which people conveniently ignore. A lot of countries have solved this problem. But seriously, I'm asking you to ask women close to you what they think. You might learn things you'd never thought of.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:37 PM
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It's my comment stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:34 PM
-2

Me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:28 PM
-1

Because men already have everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:27 PM
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It isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:27 PM
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You bothered to reply. Obviously I made you mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:27 PM
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Nope, didn't say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:16 PM
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Ask the women close to you what they think about the matter. A lot of it comes down to being underserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:15 PM
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Women don't like assholes nor guys at the top. You're coming from a view from the bottom. Yeah normal men are going to seem like assholes because they are above you, probably bullied you in the past and stole all the girls because the girls can not stand you. But that doesn't make them the bad ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:09 PM
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If men care about the women in their lives they should support feminism. Support feminism, not individual feminists who are toxic. Not all of them are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:07 PM
-3

You ain't shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:00 PM
-2

Nobody asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:50 PM
-2

IGAF what you guys want. Women you are trying to date aren't your whores. If you want that then hire a professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:50 PM
0

That's a pointless discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:40 AM
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Men should oppose it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:29 AM
-2

Men and boys aren't actually lonely. If they were then they'd do something about it. Men who are actually troubled by their problems take action. That's what testosterone does. The real problem with these guys is a lack of sexual services from women. They want specific things from women and women aren't cooperating. Nothing can be done about that (besides pay for it) and I don't see why I or society should care.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:28 AM
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Law enforcement and military are paid to do a job. And there are women doing those jobs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:26 PM
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Women are more likely to step in and help people in trouble. It's a well studied fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:38 PM
3

Sooo if there's a shortage of male gunsmiths women can easily fill the void, just like we always have during wartimes and such. Fun fact, most factory workers making parts for those guns are women and immigrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:35 PM
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Considering that most violence against women is from "their man" I think I'll just buy a gun and take grappling classes at my gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:32 PM
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Not remotely true. Do you ever watch the news? People fight off attackers and win sometimes. An able bodied woman isn't weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:31 PM
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That's a cultural issue that we can and should change. I am a strong advocate for concealed carry and self defense training for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:57 PM
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But they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:56 PM
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My IQ has nothing to do with you or your self-contradictory post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:56 PM
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Fight for my life, as anyone would.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:54 PM
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Unfortunately we have to explain things like we would to kindergarteners otherwise you guys won't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:54 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:53 PM
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And women can be gunsmiths too. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:53 PM
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Why do you need your own post explained to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:52 PM
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We don't need men to protect us we have weapons for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:20 PM
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Women do that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:18 PM
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Your own logic doesn't even make sense to you and you almost realized it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:17 PM
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Ugly on the inside, not even necessarily the outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:46 PM
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Because they mistakenly think it's their job. "Mother mentality".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:46 PM
0

It's not women's job to police men's behavior, nor other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:31 PM
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Women will be happy that you are not even looking at them. Finally these dudes will leave us alone!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:29 PM
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You're not talking like a normal person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:23 PM
2

Women go to clubs to have fun. People get into toxic relationships because of trauma. Everyone uses social media. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:13 PM
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Women never wanted it in the first place, so whether it's hard or easy to get doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:12 PM
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Is "orbiters" a gen Z thing? Normal people don't do that. We have friends, of both sexes. If you're too stupid to understand signals that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:10 PM
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Obviously those women aren't the ones who are decentering men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:14 PM
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Boys don't even care about validation from girls until highschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:29 PM
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You misread what they said. Women don't want or need male validation at any point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:24 PM
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Dude just hush. You're blathering.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 07:23 PM
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I'm not reading all that. You're trying to mansplain women into feeling different. Won't work. Ever. Stop trying. Men are scarier to many women than bears and that's just a fact that you're going to have to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:47 PM
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Who's talking about Alaska and Canada? The devate was literally just "man or bear alone in the woods".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:45 PM
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No we are not talking about odds. We are talking about fears and feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:44 PM
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Why don't you watch some videos explaining the phenomenon. Actually listen to what the women have to say and their reasons for saying it. Because you're completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:43 PM
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Well I've yet to be even slightly bothered by a bear but I and other women I know have been attacked by men multiple times in our lives, so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:42 PM
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I've encountered plenty of bears and they all ran away when they saw me. Humans are the scary ones, men being the most dangerous of all. I think the philosophical nature of the man vs. bear thing went over a lot of your heads. You refuse to listen or understand and that's telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 10:27 PM
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Stay in the city where you belong boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 10:21 PM
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Women solo hike and camp more than you think. A lot of us live in bear country too. You've probably never left the suburbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:59 PM
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You're talking to a backpacker. I concealed carry, but not because of bears.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:58 PM
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I'm not talking about 18 year olds, dude. Most men and women are in relationships and having sex. There is no sexlessness epidemic. You incel weirdos and asexuals are a tiny minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:52 PM
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Most men and women are having sex and are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:50 PM
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Men literally are mortally terrifying to women, and women's fear of men is justified. I will make no apologies for saying such nor will I just be quiet to avoid hurting men's feelings. And if they cry and moan and threaten me for it, well then that only proves us women right then doesn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:46 PM
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No, it just revealed what was there all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:54 PM
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Men lost their collective shit over that debate. They were talking about it a lot more than women were.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:53 PM
1

Dude just hire a professional. Pressuring your partners to do things they don't like is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:50 PM
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It's about 3%.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:46 PM
0

Oh yes they do! Even old biker dudes. Wish social media and dating sites it's never been easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:13 AM
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Trout and salmon are in the same family and you can't even tell some of them apart unless you are a fish expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:32 AM
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I love my male friends and female friends pretty equally. Men offer a different energy and perspective and I think that it's impotortant have friends of both sexes. I'm a bit of a tomboy myself. Akso, being a spectator in a group of guys interacting is peak entertainment. I feel like male friendships are less deep emotionally but just as supportive in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:18 AM
-1

People believe something therefore it's 100% true?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:11 AM
-4

Not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:35 PM
-1

Most men have relationships and sex too. These incel types don't get that they're the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:34 PM
-3

Most men are having sex fairly regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:34 PM
1

Statistical yeah they have. Virtually everybody tries casual at least some, and virtually everybody ends up in a long term committed relationship smat some point in their lives. The ones in long term relationships for multiple years are the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 10:35 PM
1

My problem with co-parenting is the lack of commit that it models to the children. I think children should see that the bond between mom/dad and parent/child are the most important bonds of all and that they are set in stone. Maybe that is unrealistic IDK.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 10:33 PM
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I don't think men and women need each other but children need their biological mother and father to be in the picture, as well as extended relatives of both sexes. Otherwise they grow up maladjusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:27 PM
1

Anyone can. Not everyone wants to, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:26 PM
1

No. The culture changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:25 PM
1

The vast majority of men have had casual sex. The vast majority of people have had it a little to a moderate amount, at some point. Those that haven't, don't bother to. Some people don't like casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:23 PM
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He us allowed to have dumb, delusional feelings. Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:08 PM
-2

Anyone can have casual sex. ANYONE. Have you ever met a legit sex addict?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:24 PM
1

That's because selfish individualism has been dominant from the boomers onwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:23 PM
1

Of course people have done better. Generations before us saved, sacrificed and built things so that we can have what we have today. The West was founded on doing better for your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:02 PM
1

Our generation's parents were individualistic and selfish. They put their personal happiness and egos first and family dead last. We can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:10 PM
3

Marriage is for future generations, not the individual. Always has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:08 PM
12

The point of marriage is to provide a stable home for rasing children and to build family wealth. Nobody thinks about anything besides "me me me, now now now". Go spend your whole paycheck on videogames and get a vasectomy and a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:51 PM
-1

Nope, they won't. Women will not change a fmdamn thing, there will just be more single people and more men living in isolation, bitter that they aren't getting any.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:06 PM
0

How many young men in the population are powerful?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:25 PM
0

Oh well. Those guys will sit on the shelf and the world will go on. Women are not going to start approaching guys they're not interested in, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:11 PM
0

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:09 PM
3

Most women meet their hisbands in college. It's not rare at all. Normal men don't have a problem with starting up conversations and asking women out who they like. I don't know why you guys think a passive approach will work. Women will ignore you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 04:06 PM
2

They won't. They won't be interested in men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:38 PM
12

Women won't pick up the slack for young men. They will simply not date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:17 PM
-2

If they're unappealing then they should be alone, or hold out for someone who likes them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:12 PM
1

You can choose to date that way. Nobody's saying you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:13 PM
-7

Huh honey? If you initiate the date then it's your job to do most of that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:57 PM
-2

Who says the women aren't putting equal effort? What would equal effort on their part look like to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:19 PM
-2

I've never heard a woman say she would lie. Most women would tell the guy to fuck off and that it's none of his business. Asking about body count is very disrespectful, dehumanizing, and ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:27 PM
2

Women earning more is not bad behavior. I don't know why you men resent it so much. You should find competent successful women MORE attractive and treat your wives well instead of abusing them abd taking them for granted. Just a suggestion. My suggestion to women is to be extremely careful about partnering with a man who earns less. For reasons I mentioned or because he might be a bum. Men are less evolved so keep that in mind, and hold out for a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:37 PM
3

No they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:29 PM
0

I have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:20 PM
2

It's more like 6X as likely but I will look it up and confirm that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:20 PM
2

What do you mean? A marriage is a business. Survival, being happy and complete together is the product. If you have children those are the product. Married couples where both are equal create generational wealth a lot easier than just one income.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:19 PM
1

It was a rhetorical question. Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:37 PM
1

That wasn't a question. Go be and idiot somewhere else before I block you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:35 PM
1

I wasn't asking a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:31 PM
0

The stats say that men care more. Sorry. Men are more likely to abuse their wives when the wives out earn them. There is real quantifiable data on this. There's no data about the wives "wanting to be the boss bitch" that's just you shifting blame for men's bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:30 PM
1

Socially liberal women, yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:11 PM
3

Says who? I only ever hear men saying that, not women. Men want to be the primary breadwinners and their little egos can't handle it when the wife earns more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:10 PM
1

Nope. Not talking about textiles. I'm talking about general manufacturing of everything. Women dominate across the board. Men fill most of the engineering positions so maybe that is where the 2/3 part comes from IDK.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 04:18 PM
1

With online dating and social media this isn't really the case. The playing field is even as long as you take acdecent picture and can type coherently, or use AI to write for you. Men and women are both equally picky. Most people aren't desperate. There is no such thing as hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 04:16 PM
7

I wish people would stop watching videos like that. They have no basis in real life. Tiktok I am assuming? Just dekete that shit and never use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:28 PM
3

I've worked in manufacturing most of my life and it's almost all immigrant women. All the lowest paid jobs are majority women. Most unskilled drudgery is filled by women. Men do more dirty and dangerous jobs that require a higher level of physicality than most women have. Those jobs are paid higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:13 PM
6

Exactly. A grown woman doesn't need a "provider" outside of pregnancy and breastfeeding unless she is doing the trad thing and homeschooling the kids, which almost no one does. I would want my husband to be a business partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:09 PM
0

Who wants socially liberal men? Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:07 PM
3

Then help them understand, useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:28 PM
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Do men still not understand that what women like about romance novels and real relationships are two completely different things?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:28 PM
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The origin of the term comes from young men wanting to fuck their friend's mom. So it's a woman old enough to be your own mother. If that's mid to late 20's then the porn would be aimed at literal boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:27 PM
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I mean, those are scammers. Seriously how absent are these men's fathers? Mothers even? They should have taught you all not to send money to random people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:43 PM
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Church is a social thing. Women are more apt to leave the house to do social stuff. Men would rather sit on the couch and watch sports on a Sunday. I don't think I have ever seen a single guy at church. Their wives or partners dragged them there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:40 PM
2

Actually the studies say what I've said. Apparently nobody reads them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:35 AM
2

Women are not more neurotic than men. Women are more conscientious than men, and there are more women than men and for a minority this is taken to the extreme of neuroticism. The inverse is men who are so apathetic that all they do is play video games and piss in bottles which they leave around their room.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 11:21 PM
1

Tired and fed up to the pointvof exasperation, based on what I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 11:18 PM
2

Women aren't letting judges enforce the law? How does that work and where do I get that authority?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:19 PM
0

They don't start out that way. Who drives them crazy? Kids and husbands lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:18 PM
1

Are they married with kids with these women? No. They paid for sex, like any schmo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:56 PM
1

No they didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:10 PM
1

Society and the world will go on without you bub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:09 PM
4

It is not common for women to "only get hookups" from the men they really want. Most people don't get into situationships. Women who want to hook up do so, and women who want men as boyfriends and husbands, tend to lock them down fairly easily. Most people get what they want in a partner, at least at the start (people change and that's why breakups are so common). You're creating a complicated fantasy that has no bearing on reality, after like, highschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:32 PM
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I havenever seen a man cater to women in my life. They barely make any effort in relationships. Women can have whatever standards they want because we don't need men. There is nothing that men can do to change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:23 PM
2

No women find Epstein or Tate attractive, let alone at the top percentile. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:16 PM
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That's not happening in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:21 AM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:14 AM
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What's the context?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:08 AM
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Fewer socially inept losers breeding sounds like a win/win to me. Women can always have a baby without a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:30 PM
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Where is this disrespect happening? When I am out and about women and men are basically polite and otherwise ignore each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:22 PM
1

Depends on your philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:49 PM
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They had families. The promise of happiness through family was a lie. How many people do you know who actually had happy childhoods and parents who liked each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:59 AM
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Divorce is hard I imagine. I've never been married and I'm doing pretty good mentally. I have absolutely no interest in messing around with divorced men who are trying to re-live their youth by fucling around. That screams immaturity and is just gross. Everyone is struggling these days, whether partnered, single, divorced or otherwise. Life is soul crushing and there really isn't a future for any of us. We may be watching civilization go extinct in real time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:57 AM
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Guy isn't respectable because he's a whiny entitled loser piece if shit who uses his past as an excuse to treat women badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:39 PM
1

Act like a respectable adult and maybe people will be more sympathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:30 PM
-2

Low empathy oh no! You poor little babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:27 PM
1

Y'all are lousy if you condone manipulation and I was right about you. All I'm gonna say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:15 PM
1

Psychos are good at manipulation and it's not hard to manipulate people into sex. People with agency can still get used. Mayve you'll understand one day if it happens to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 02:59 PM
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Psychos generally get what they want from everybody. That doesn't mean we are rewarding them. That's like saying we reward pirates for taking our gold because now they have our gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 02:53 PM
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A & C. Attraction can grow even if it'snot there initially, speaking from personal experience. I want to be one of those sweet older couples who are still madly in love and take walks at the park holding hands. I cry when I see couples like that. Looks always fade anyhow. And if anything this economy and being low income has taught me is that money really, really does matter, especially having good credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:56 PM
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Maybe those men can't be authentic or get close to people without an ulterior motive. The only advice that accomplishes anything for them is red pilled advice on how to use people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:51 PM
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FYI being rude doesn't make you sound smart. Quitethe opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:50 PM
1

That's advice that I would give because it has worked for my me, my bf and my friends and other people that I know 🤷‍♀️. And as someone who fly fishes I would say listen to nature and the fish, not some fisherman who's not even on the same stream as you. "Match the hatch" as they say. A similar principle works for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:45 PM
1

I mean kinda. After a breakup sex with a nice Chad artificially helps the self-esteem. It's better and more ethical than having a rebound boyfriend in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:00 PM
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Chad isn't the best guy. And people don't fall in love for logical reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:58 PM
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Me in high-school and my 20's. Did not get approached by any of the boys, just and older sex offender one time who thought I was a boy LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:30 PM
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Not all women do hookups. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:25 PM
0

You should listen to women and not men on this matter. I've literally never heard a woman say she wants to marry her boy toy or the guy she had a one night stand with. Of all the men in our lives, those guys are the least important (no offense). Women want to marry men that they are in love with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:03 PM
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They want a good man to marry. Chad is good enough for a hook up but he's not marriage material for most of us. He is not an idol to women, he is an idol to men because you guys glorify hook ups so much which I'll never understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:05 PM
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"Got to love the smugness of older people" Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 02:44 AM
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Okay this conversation is done. Not interested in arguing or being called perjoratives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:26 AM
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If that's how you feel, that's how you feel. There aremore open minded people who wouldn't be hurt, unless the breakup was bad or abuse was involved. That's my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:24 AM
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I am almost 40. I am telling the youths what they should try: put down the phone and socialize. And it's okay to socialize with older people. My best friend has a son who would almost be within marriageable/dating age for me, he has male friends that are about his age and a bit younger who are definitely in my target range. I've also gotten some really got jobs this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:22 AM
-1

Friends are where girlfriends come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:17 AM
2

Every relationship I've ever had was with someone that I met through live music in one way or another. Go to shows at bars and venues. Develop and interest in the bands. Talk to people there especially people who are by themselves. Add them on Facebook. Badda bing badda boom you just made a friend at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:33 AM
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I see live music at bars at least once a week, and the single looking men in my age group are all on their phones swiping too. Not even paying attention to the music or making eye contact with other people. They don't look like they even want to be there. It's very weird to me. Oh well, I'll be in the front dancing with the 50+ year olds and the music nerds if anybody wants me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:30 AM
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Why do you guys always do this? Nobody said all men. Quit being defensive. You know full well that most guys are huge pieces of crap, including your friends and maybe even you, and you wouldn't like it at all if you had to navigate that world as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:14 PM
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I'm not here to argue. Fuck off itlf you're going to call people morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:12 PM
0

More victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:10 PM
3

The men deserve the blame for treating her badly. That was their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:29 PM
1

It sounds like you're saying that women should be held accountable for how men treat them. Victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:27 PM
4

I think the question is why would you want to get involved with all that? Sounds disgusting and your dick is going to come away itchy and smelling weird LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:52 PM
2

Okay well you must have had your head up your ass for a very long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:50 PM
1

Yeah you do what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:48 PM
2

No they don't. You don't have experience with this. Talk to more different kinds of people, of all ages a d lifestyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:43 PM
0

Were you even born yet before Tiktok existed?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:40 PM
1

I'm sorry your town is like that. Mine sucks too but for different reasons. If you can afford to, move.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:37 PM
0

Nope. Not in liberated cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:36 PM
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Everyone is the gatekeeper of sex. And marriage. Everyone gets what they want if they have standards, what they can if they don't, or they go without. It's called agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:36 PM
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OP is partially wrong but you are completely wrong. Tea was an app where wonen posted men's information so that other women knew to not date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:34 PM
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I mean that's physically possible I guess but it's wrong. Also two can play that game. You guys were pretty mad about that tea app.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 04:06 PM
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Women are not gatekeepers of sex. Everyone can say no. Sexually liberated people who respect boundaries and are accommodating in bed don't tend to have these problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 04:03 PM
2

Don't bullshit me. Fu k off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:59 PM
1

In real life or online?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:56 PM
2

An anecdote for an anecdote. Problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:53 PM
0

How many real people do you know who are like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 08:49 PM
-1

To you maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 08:31 PM
-3

100% of the married couples I know are deeply attracted to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 08:31 PM
1

How the guy presents himself is more important and I'd rather he not spend money on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 08:28 PM
1

That's your experience. It doesn't trump mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:03 PM
0

I am not dismissing your feelings. But they are your feelings, not a universal reality, and they are for you to sort out and not to project onto the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:10 PM
0

Your comment is a defensive rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:43 PM
2

Sir, this is a Wendy's.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:42 PM
2

Don't complain about lack of sex. Get a girlfriend. If she's not there for your needs get a different girlfriend. If you'd rather just hook up then get with other people who do that. Complaining doesn't fix anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:35 PM
1

What argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 11:30 PM
1

One of my most treatures relationships was with a man in his 50's who was my best friend. I'll never forget how he would say "Never stop learning, never stop growing". He gave me the confidence to climb mountains and camp solo, things that I thought I could never do. He had a dozen different hobbies and was constantly picking up new ones. Definitely on the energetic end of the bell curve. I think most women are somewhere in the middle. And I get it, that sometimes our men just want to veg out an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 11:20 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:33 PM
1

I have no idea. It could be biological. I think there's a cultural aspect too. I've noticed that immigrant men especially Hispanic men tend to have physical jobs and still work out and do activities with their partners and kids. More American men are couch potatoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:21 PM
4

My question is why do men want to play video games or watch movies when the sun is shining and there's fun stuff to do. One of my ex bf's was like that. I think it's down to laziness. I work on my feet all day, go to the gym, go for walks, and go for mountain drives and hikes on the weekends. I think women have more energy on average than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:21 PM
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Grown men don't book their own appointments. Either their mommy does or their girlfriend or wife. You'd be surprised at how helpless they are when they enlist in the military. It's the whole reason why they schedule your appointments for you and report you to command if you don't keep them. Men can't really do anything on their own. That's why women compare having a husband to having another kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 05:28 PM
1

It doesn't affect you. You are not compelled to participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:23 PM
3

It implies men have no agency and it's up to women to police them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:07 PM
3

Or, hear me out, people can do what they want and it doesn't affect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:07 PM
0

Regarding your second question, it's because men are pervs who fantasize about having a threesone with two women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:05 PM
3

I prefer off-roading.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:12 PM
6

If that were true then there would be no ho's. Men are what create them. If you're so moral then stop that LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:09 PM
3

Dude there's a whole community.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:07 PM
7

For the gender that supposedly likes sex a lot, men sure think it's a bad, negative thing. I've never understood this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:06 PM
6

Okay then sit on the shelf until one comes along that likes what you are. Those are the choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:01 PM
9

It's that way with jobs, friendships, everything. Why should anybody be bothered with you if you don't offer wgat is desired?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 08:28 PM
1

Views on TikTok.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:32 PM
1

The ones I pay attention to all have them so I can't speak without bias. Maybe half?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:48 PM
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I like pictures of guys in social settings, showing off skills or hobbies, and doing the same things that I like such as winter sports. Bonus points if he has a cat in any of his pictures. These are pictures that tell a story of what he is like as a person. A shirtless pic says nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:39 PM
0

Stop caring about that and it all goes away. Be yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:27 PM
1

I did. I'm sharing it with y'all, as well as experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:58 PM
1

There's no reason that a virgin is more likely to tear. You said yourself that they are "tighter" which is not only disgustingly sexist but ignorant. No, penises don't scrape off any tissue. No we don't have blood hanging out in our vaginas. First time sex does not alter a woman physically in any way, penises are not magic. We can tear and experience bleeding at any time and for a number of reasons. I would welcome you to provide a source for your virginity myths. Just FYI it can't be from a rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:14 PM
1

A virgin vagina isn't any different from a non-virgin one. A penis is nowhere near big enough to affect tightness. That has to do with muscles in the pelvic floor. Bleeding is caused by tears. That can be down to roughness, not being aroused or lubricated enough, etc. This can happen at any time. Why would a virgin be more likely to tear unless they're just not prepared or into it? That sounds kinda borderline assault-y. It is a statement to our healthfraud system that someone like you is allowe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:27 AM
1

I've bled from sex years into a relationship. Tightness has nothing to do with sex either. You don't know how vaginas work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:40 PM
1

No they love fat girls. That's a lot of men's type. Skinny flat chested ladies who are on the androgenous side get ignored and accused of being lesbians, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:54 PM
5

Watching others screw their's up makes me not even want to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:29 AM
3

All those women that told you they were virgins, were not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 11:52 PM
12

Don't be so sure of that. Men ignore a lot of women especially if they're not particularly feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 11:46 PM
7

I've been single for most of my adult life and it's honestly "meh". The freedom to do what I like is nice. The not having anyone to split cost of living with sucks mightily. I wouldn't trade single life for being with the wrong partner and going through a break up. Having a roommate not work out is terrible enough. I think women are happier single than with the wrong man, and finding the right man is statistically rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 11:36 PM
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