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Or, it just means that they’re into someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:27 PM
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If drinking matcha lattes is wrong, I don’t wanna be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:23 PM
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First of all, it’s not like I don’t interact with women at all anymore because I’m no longer single. I do. And I still enjoy the company of women at work and in public spaces, it’s not like I never make flirty comments and stuff and get them back. I don’t think woman have changed so much since I was in my twenties in the early 2000s. Second, I am married to a younger woman and I like it. It’s not what you describe at all. We both work, cook, look after the kids, etc. I am not going to say that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:02 PM
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Yeah, I’m old and I don’t get it. Why y’all want to live a life without women is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:03 AM
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Dude, why would men do that? You do realize that a lot of men actually like women, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:40 AM
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Just worry about yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 12:22 PM
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So, you see sexual intercourse as something requires weaponry? Why not just have sex with people whose company you enjoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:28 PM
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So, all men are going to strip all women of their civil liberties because of what? I’m confused
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:34 PM
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So, the solution is lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:53 PM
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You could always just not have sex anymore if you’re not getting what you want from your partner. This works for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:45 PM
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Is it that hard to find a fuck buddy these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:43 PM
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You tell me. What happens next?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:15 PM
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That would be a great name for a YouTube video
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:27 AM
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I’m going to need some examples
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:53 AM
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All of y’all are overthinking everything on this sub. Just stop worrying so much about what other people say and think. Hang out with people whose company you enjoy. And then have sex with the ones you really like. That is how you “value” yourself and that is how you enjoy life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:31 AM
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That sounds like a very pretty pet theory you have
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:20 AM
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Why can’t feminism just means that women have the the same rights and value as human beings as men. For centuries this was not the case and we’re still catching up. It has nothing to do with lecturing or belittling men. Yes, some people who call themselves feminists do engage in that kind of behavior. But that is not what the ideology is fundamentally about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 07:27 PM
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That’s how I felt when I read the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:03 PM
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I’m not a woman and I certainly don’t have any claim to speak for them but…that’s probably the most succinct summation of female sexuality and I have ever read.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:31 PM
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Why are you worried about this?! Just have sex with people that you enjoy hanging out with and don’t worry about other people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:49 AM
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I guess I’m just flummoxed as to why people don’t want to mingle anymore. I read all these stories about how young people don’t have sex anymore and I’m shocked and saddened. Hanging out and hooking up is an important part of growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:08 PM
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“Heteronihilistic animosity” is exactly the term I I would describe the atmosphere on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:26 PM
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Thank you. I’m so glad someone still does things the good old fashioned way. So many people here telling me, “it ain’t like that no more, old man.” 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:24 PM
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I have trouble believing that. Just because it’s more comfortable to hook up with friends than strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:54 PM
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People don’t hang out with friends anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:19 PM
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I would think the way we did things in the early 2000s was a lot more healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:14 PM
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Two or three. But was the same for everyone. And, it’s not like no one was ever exclusive. We absolutely were. I’m just saying there was a really blurry line between friend and lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:07 PM
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I have no idea. There were a bunch of us: men and women and gay and straight that shared partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:24 PM
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There was nothing remotely out of the ordinary about either of those things twenty years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:22 PM
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I’m not dating anymore because I’ve been married for over a decade but…back when I was a virile young buck I sincerely don’t remember having this problem of paying for dates and spending time getting ready to meet a person that I had never had sex with. And then reason was that all my friends and everyone I knew pretty much never went out on “dates” at all. We would hang out and drink and tell each other funny stories and dance and sing and inevitably hook up with each other. That’s not to say t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:45 PM
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Imagine someone you don’t want to have sex with that won’t leave you alone. Does that sound nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:46 AM
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I’m not a woman but I have some awesome dating advice - don’t date. Just hang out with a bunch of people and have fun. Then you’ll start hooking up before you even realize it. Then after intimacy has begun, you start going out to eat and stuff. Trust me, dinner tastes better when you know you’re gonna have sex for dessert.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:31 PM
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I urge you to worry less about what other people are doing and have done, OP. Enjoy your own life and your own sex, sir
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:06 PM
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If this is sincerely how you think women are, I’ve got good news for you, you don’t need to date them and you never need to get married. Personally, I don’t think you get out much if this is the only kind of woman that you think exists but…you do you, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:03 PM
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I’ll do you one better - don’t go out on dates until you’ve had sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:12 AM
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I just don’t get it. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:57 AM
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Back in the good olds days (early 2000s), this use to work for me Be friends with lots of fun people - gay, straight, male, female Drink lots of alcohol with aforementioned friends. Dance, sing and tell funny stories. Hooking up just kinda happens without even thinking about it. Does anyone do this anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:58 AM
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When I was single (ahh…the good days), I had a pretty active love life. That’s not to say I never experienced heartache and disappointment, i certainly did, but I had lots of romantic adventures too. But here’s my point. I don’t ever really remember “dating” the way people describe it here. Like, as in, paying to have dinner with someone I wished would have sex with me. That sounds awful. What I would do is socialize with a wide circle of people, drink shit tons of alcohol, dance and sing and te…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:41 PM
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I’ve been with one person since 2012, so I’m a bit rusty at the picking people up game. With that disclosure in mind, I honestly don’t think I ever approached strangers that often back in the day. I remember one time, when I just struck up a normal conversation with a young lady at a bar and we did end up having an intense three month relationship but that is about all. All other experiences that were not one night stands were with friends and coworkers, including my wife. We were working cheek …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:38 PM
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I feel like this is the bane of modern times - people feel like they should avoid awkwardness at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:26 PM
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Well, be that as it may. If you are not interested in socializing, dating is not going to be easy. Also, the motive behind going out should not be, “Geez, I hope someone will like me enough to have sex.” It should be, “I’m going to go out and enjoy myself and I don’t give a toss about what other people think.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:22 PM
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Exactly! I feel so bad for people who are dating now. Like, I would imagine that setting up a “date” online takes all the fun and mystery out of getting to know someone and deciding if you really like them. No wonder people are so stressed out when they’re leaving their love life in the hands of a algorithm
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:23 PM
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If I could upvote this a thousand times, I would. I don’t understand why people “date” at all. When I was single I went to social events, had fun, got to know a wide range of people and then sometimes ended up having sex with them. The “wining and dining” part only came later and after the sexual intimacy part had been established. And it was because, I like going out! Not because I needed to jump through any kind of “hoop”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:52 PM
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So, what I am taking from this word salad is that we should mock and ridicule male virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:00 PM
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Sounds like an argument for snipping the balls off if I ever heard one!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:14 PM
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So just fuck your friends. Seriously, why do people “date” at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 01:44 PM
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I don’t think you paid attention to the second part of what I wrote. What I’m saying is that sex come first, then dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:34 PM
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I never understood this whole “split the bill” debate. If you ask someone out, get the bill. It’s that simple. But, as a side note, also don’t go out with people that you would like to have sex with. That kind of ruins the meal. What you do instead is have dinner with someone that you already have a sexual connection with, then you get to eat your food in peace. And go home and fuck afterwards!! Win! Win!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:04 PM
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Even if you were right…what should we fucking do about it? Is there any kind of policy that can fix this? Is there a law you want to pass to make the ladies give up poonanni? Is there a Supreme Court decision to outlaw virginity past 21? Or maybe….it’s your own fault that you’re to chickenshit to make a move?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:41 AM
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Smartest words I’ve seen on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 02:00 AM
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You know, I read stuff like this and I just think, “iIs this guy sure he likes having sex with women. He sure does seem to hate them”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 12:36 AM
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How does it work? How would one use just being nice alone as a means of attracting a partner. Why would anyone expect that to work? Is being nice good enough to get good grades? Is being nice enough to get a job? Why would relationships work any differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:29 AM
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I don’t dispute that. But I reject the premise. Being kind and considerate ought to be a person’s normal operating procedure. It’s really the least you can do to get along successfully with people. Being attractive involves more than just being a decent human being. You need to be charming and fun to around or really impressive and talented or something more than just nice. In fact - and I do realize that this is extremely unfair - you kind of need to not be trying to be charismatic. It just nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:56 AM
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This isn’t really a phenomenon, in my opinion. The problem is that the guy in your scenario was kind and considerate but he wasn’t very interesting. Was he dating other people and going to parties and talking about his hobbies and telling stories or was he just pining away for some woman who had no idea what he was really like? Did he give her a reason to be attracted to him other than that he is “nice”?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:00 PM
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I don’t think choosing to dump someone makes you an asshole. You gave it a shot and decided you didn’t like it. No harm, no foul.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:45 PM
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Yeah. Nobody has to have sex with anyone. So, if the person that you are having sex with behaves in a way that you do not like, sexually or otherwise, you can just stop having sex with that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:32 PM
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I have to admit that I’ve never heard of Austen Summers or Alex PFW. Baer in what you have written here, I’m going to assume that they are some kind of online personalities that base their appeal on the fact that they manipulate women in order to sleep with them. Does that sound like well adjusted behavior to you? Why would you even want to lie to someone in order to have sex? Wouldn’t intimacy be more intimate if you told your partner the truth about yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:06 PM
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You can’t make people give a shit about the people they fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:56 PM
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I had plenty of sex before age 35 (and after) and I think I was a decent person. That doesn’t mean that I never got angry at partners and said unfair things or ended relationships because I lost interest. I did sometimes do those things. But I also didn’t intentionally mislead people or have disrespectful and pushy as my default setting. I think that any woman who finds that attractive is not worth your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:48 PM
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I don’t understand how it came to mean this. Nice used to mean being kind and respectful. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:29 PM
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All of y’all in the comments be like, “No, men are dumb!” “No, women!” “Here’s a study to prove it!” “No, I have a better one!”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:50 AM
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Ok, I’ll be real with you. There are men who have like dozens of sexual partners in a year and who do so because they are professional liars. I’ve known and even befriended a few such people when I was young and stupid. Here’s what I can tell you about them: They can smell vulnerability and insecurity from a mile away. Women who are well adjusted and confident (you know, the ones who would actually be interesting) are essentially invisible to them. They are crazy. Every person I’ve ever met like…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:08 AM
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I see. So you are just going to call her and be like, “Hey! Shut the fuck up! I’m talking! Come over now! We’re gonna have sex! And then I’m gonna have sex with a bunch of other women after! I am an asshole!!” Does that seem like an effective approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:28 AM
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Sounds interesting. How exactly do you intend to be “the asshole”. What are you going to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:18 AM
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Assholes have good qualities and bad qualities. On the bad side, they tend to be manipulative and abusive and violent. They don’t mind hurting people. But….they are also people who know what they want and are not shy about letting people know. You can do the latter without the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:05 AM
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Why would I want to treat women, or men for that matter, is any way other than respectfully?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:53 AM
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Nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:29 AM
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Sounds like he wasn’t very nice at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:29 AM
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Yeah, that sounds awful. Are “nice guys” necessarily unattractive though?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:25 AM
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Ok, this guy sounds like a total loser. I think that there a plenty of men who are actually nice guys. That doesn’t mean that they’re pushovers or that never lose interest and break up with their partners or whatever. But they are genuinely pleasant and supportive people. Have you ever been with a guy like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:19 AM
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That sounds a little extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:15 AM
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Yeah, I’m with you. It’s obvious that it leads to giant personality defects. But I just want to make clear that we should not pretend like it’s not an actual problem. These guys are totally stuck in a rut. Even though, they’re almost surely not going to take good advice, it’s also kinda shitty to tell them that they suck because they can’t find a sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:14 AM
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Do you really think this? I’m a married guy so I got no skin in these gender wars that play out here. However, I do think I’m a pretty “nice guy” to be honest. Of course, I do have some insecurities about my weight for example, but I wouldn’t say it defines me as a person. In my marriage and in previous relationships, I think I’m pretty patient and supportive overall. But I’m not a pushover either. I stick up for myself if I feel my partner is being unfair or disrespectful. Am I a “nice guy” the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:10 AM
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Exactly, it seems to me that a lot of guys here get totally hung up on physical attraction. But there are loads of beautiful women who kinda suck and loads of unconventionally beautiful women who are amazing and vice versa. It’s important to just get to know people as people and to be yourself - talk about what you like to talk about, tell stories you think are funny and so on. When you take this approach, intimacy is bound to appear naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:05 AM
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Sex is a very strong human desire and when a person wants it and can’t get it, that’s going to have a very negative effect on their mental and emotional health. None of this is to excuse all the woman hating on this sub. I’m just saying that the frustration of young men who can’t get laid is absolutely genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:46 PM
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Here’s the cheat code - be an interesting person. Have a wide circle of friends and some hobbies. I don’t think I ever met a person who could dance and sing who never got laid or a person that had an ear for languages. It’s important to get out of your comfort zone and try new things. If that sounds scary that’s because it is. Being intimate with someone is entails making yourself vulnerable so you probably need to develop that muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:44 PM
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I want to hear more about what happened when you “gave a nice guy a chance”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:32 PM
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When I was single I found that friendship very often led to withbenefitship. I don’t know why people are so anti-“friendzone” here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:12 PM
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I’m a married guy and I love my wife and I love having sex with her. However, the best sex of my life was with a young lady I broke up with in 2010. Still have dreams about her at least once a month. Horrible girlfriend but fantastic sex partner. This is not exclusive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 01:04 AM
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Some women are not worth the trouble. Some men are not as well. If they bother you and irritate you…break up! But…I concede, it is not that easy. Sometimes you get really get connected to someone, even if they are not good for you. And this happens to all people, to gay people, to straight people, to men and to women. It is a fundamental part of what it is to be a human being. Our hearts break. That’s why we have about 2000 years of poems and about unrequited love. There is nothing new in that. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:09 AM
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What to do then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:49 AM
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Do you enjoy hanging out with whatever woman that you are with? Do you trust her? If the answer is yes, proceed, if no, do not. Do you get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:42 AM
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Just follow your heart. If the women you are with makes you feel good, proceed. If she does not, just let her go. It’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:32 AM
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Again, if you only date women who you already have an established intimacy with and not total strangers from some internet stranger from an internet app, you will never hear that she “didn’t have a spark or connection”. This was kinda the whole premise of my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:24 PM
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You see I read stuff like this and I think it can only mean one of two things: either you just genuinely can’t stand women or you are terrified of them. If it’s the former, why not just forget about them? No need to torture yourself by trying to hang out with them. If it’s the latter, what are you so scared of? Women are simply people. They are not going to get you thrown in prison for talking to them. I think what you have done is turn your natural desire for women into having way too much powe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:24 AM
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Sounds perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:17 AM
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I really don’t think the principles of economics apply to dating. People like what they like. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:50 PM
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But like, what would be the alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:39 PM
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Sounds like most of the people on this sub need to move to your town
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:20 PM
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Bless you! Keep up the good work!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:13 AM
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It’s totally a bummer. It makes me really sad that people don’t do that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:52 AM
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But I never “cold approached” anyone in my life. What even is that? I got to know people, just organically, and the hooking up part sometimes came later.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:44 AM
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Without drinking? Yuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:24 PM
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How you gonna build an emotional bond without binge drinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:51 PM
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Completely agree on the three dates with no sex thing. Why would anyone ever go out to dinner with a person that they weren’t already fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:43 AM
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In other words- Europeans (and all sexes and sexualities) have way less hang ups about sex. And they have way more social benefits. What came first, the chicken or the egg?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:29 AM
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Holly over in HR’s looking pretty cute
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:02 AM
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I’ve got an idea! Don’t use Tinder to find women!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:51 PM
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Remember towlie from South Park? The boys asked him if he wanted to get high or save his friends and he said, “I choose both!” That’s how I feel about this question. You’re never going to be husband material if you never learn how to hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:54 PM
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Was there a magical time before the sexual revolution when average guys had sex with whomever they wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:56 PM
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