| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 79 | I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving lives | Debate | HighlightDowntown966 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 07:57 PM |
| 0 | I sincerely believe that every average woman(6/10 and above)has the ability to become a millionaire by their 30s(in the west) | Debate | HighlightDowntown966 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 07:06 PM |
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| -4 | I feel like men being the sole providers is an unrealistic expectation in 2026.I can easily be the sole provider. As long as she's not on Instagram comparing her lifestyle to other people's. Getting fomo, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 10:37 PM |
| 22 | Women couldn’t even begin to understand what real loneliness isYou're not going to like this. But they don't care. The sooner you accept that.... You can begin to not care as well. I don't have a solution | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 08:43 AM |
| 3 | Why should women care that men don't have partners?If everything works out as you describe,,, That's a win for everyone. I'm not complaining. Men and women free to live their own lives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 10:35 PM |
| 7 | Why should women care that men don't have partners?You're making a bet. You don't know how long the AI roll out will take. Could be 30 years. You don't know. That being said. We will see | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 10:27 PM |
| 7 | Why should women care that men don't have partners?Yes it's better. But we will need to chronically rely on mass immigration. Not enough couples for me and babies being born. Which has its own pros and cons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 09:54 PM |
| – | Why should women care that men don't have partners?I think so too. But relationships built outside of need are keeping lots of people perpetually single. From a strictly numbers perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:05 PM |
| – | Why should women care that men don't have partners?Yes. We can continue importing people from other countries in the millions like we are doing now. Children are being born below replacement in the west. Not that anyone should feel pressure to have children. Just stating the facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:01 PM |
| – | Why should women care that men don't have partners?It's not your problem. That's ok. Men and women no longer need each other. It is what it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 01:05 PM |
| 22 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.Living in 1br apt and playing video does not make someone celibate, involuntarily | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:37 PM |
| 5 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.Who said that you have to be involuntary celibate?? I never said that. Lol . You can be a high earner and choose to live low maintenance lifestyle in 1 BR or studio apt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:37 PM |
| 72 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.Summary of post: "Men have do these long list of things". "Women? Just exist". How about this. In the West both genders don't need each other. It is what it is. Men rather live in 1 BR apt and play video games instead of meeting a long list of demands. Women rather make their own money and live their best life. Finding a man is far down on the priority. List. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How will we convince the next generation to have kids, even though almost none of us want to have any?Yup. Men and women don't need each other in the West. It is what it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 12:14 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel about being a “shallow” woman’s enthusiastic minimum?Lol. I would love it. Hell yea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 09:10 PM |
| – | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsFor the men that she likes,, she is not rare or special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 06:47 AM |
| 2 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsUmm Paul Pierce has a case that he's better than wade. PP was healthier longer than wade and consistently had deep playoff runs well into his late career. Unlike Wade I can tell you know nothing about ball. I digress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 05:15 AM |
| -1 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsKlay Thompson is above her league because his dating pool is larger than hers. That's it. No need to complicate it He could have a horrible season. And that fact wouldn't change | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 04:51 AM |
| -9 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsShe wants Men that are above her league. Multi-millionaire men rather marry a hot cardiologist In their same tax bracket .Or a non-famous woman Not a woman who showed her body for a decade and has a backlog of ex's. Megan is in"no Man's Land". Where men in her tax bracket don't want to take her seriously. And men that don't make as much as her, she will never consider them. She needs to accept that and own it. No more crying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 03:56 AM |
| -5 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsOkay, when the next break up inevitably happens. She should not make social media post about how unlucky she is. She chose this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 03:35 AM |
| -9 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsBut yet she specifically an exclusively chooses millionaires to date. No one said she's looking for a provider. But she has a type that's rare. And will make dating difficult for her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 02:43 AM |
| -8 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsStatistically only 0.1% of men are hot millionaires. Hot male millionaires have more partners to pick from.(They don't care if their women are not millionaires or famous) So mathematically Meg will continue to keep getting pumped and dumped by hot millionaires. Since these are the types of men she chooses to entertain exclusively And never will become a wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 02:20 AM |
| – | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?The same reasons that men are obsessed with dicks. Lol, wtf. Stop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 02:23 PM |
| 0 | It's Currently 2026. Predict What Dating Will Be Like For Both Men And Women In 2040.What's it like over there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 05:29 AM |
| – | A man works hard his whole life, it’s fair for him to want to marry a young virgin woman (21–25).Exactamundo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 06:04 AM |
| – | A man works hard his whole life, it’s fair for him to want to marry a young virgin woman (21–25).They can find a young fit man and take care of him. Financially | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 06:02 AM |
| 7 | The RP concept of hypergamy is (a) incoherent pseudo-science and (b) does not line up with actual human behavior or genetics.I think it's simple. Young men ask themselves. "What's gets me more results and lines up with what I'm seeing in reality?? Disney movies and listening to women's words at face value. Or supercharged red pill rhetoric??" The result is that red pill rhetoric lines up more with what they are seeing firsthand, rather than legacy media and what women say they want. Even if RP content is not %100 accurate and has pseudoscience splashed in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:11 PM |
| 14 | Red pill dudes don’t actually do better with women than other men. The ones who seem to do well do so because of a self fulfilling prophecyYea. *Desire is not negotiable in relationship *Never put a woman above yourself *Actions speak louder than word salad *Love is not a fairytale. There is an exchange happening In male female dynamics *Men are only valued for what they can provide To name a few | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 04:24 AM |
| 21 | Red pill dudes don’t actually do better with women than other men. The ones who seem to do well do so because of a self fulfilling prophecyRed pill dudes who are not outwardly "red pill" and quietly apply the principals... Do better with women overall than blue pill guys The 15 year olds that are out here arguing with women and speaking red pill talking point out loud tend to do the worst with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 02:11 AM |
| 16 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menYou gave 0 examples of how men have more advantages in modern western society over women. You just want the title of "oppressed victim" .Because for you, that is a form of power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 05:27 PM |
| 17 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menWhat power does the average man have over the average woman?? 0. Nothing We are equal in the West. And that's ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 05:12 PM |
| 19 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menModern society is patriarchal in the sense that %0.1 of men have power. And the %99.9 of men don't have any power or special privileges. So when you talk about the patriarchy benefitting men.. . You're only talking about a select few. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.I'm trying to figure out where we disagree. Lol For an older man with resources..... Women of any age are a liability/risk . All women cost time and resources. The days of fairytale love ends at age 35. Might as well roll the dice with the liability that he is most turned on by. Will the younger woman leave him? Sure, possibly. But he already knows that. It's a transaction. Same with the older woman. They are in business as well. It's a cold game No delusions here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Right. That 48-year-old woman will leave too once the man runs out of money or stops being useful. She's not jeopardizing her own retirement for some broke man. She will jump ship fast because she likely has multiple divorces under her belt already So it's all a wash | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.I do intend to see it through. All I'm saying is that older women usually require higher investment. If this is the case...... Then it makes sense to date younger as a man. From ROI perspective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:40 PM |
| -2 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.There's more to being fertile than reproducing. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:38 PM |
| – | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Man perspective. He spent 30 years grinding. Is now a multi-millionaire ( hopefully). Goes out on date #4 with 48 year old woman with 4 kids, divorced and she says: "You're a nice guy. But I need to see more from you. I'm not fast like other woman. I need to feel like we are equally yoked. Please continue courting me properly" The man does math equation in his head. "If woman in her forties are playing these games.....I might as well play games with women in their 20 and 30s. At least I get a yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:24 PM |
| 3 | People shouldn't shame men for paying female hookers for sex.Finally. Some honesty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 06:43 AM |
| 1 | People shouldn't shame men for paying female hookers for sex.Mating and Dating is a transaction. It's all commodified. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 06:42 AM |
| 3 | Every single women in the World, can be dated without applying money or status if you are "that guy" to her. Money and Status is ONLY needed, if a Women doesnt like you FULLY.Hotness and good sex is also a valuable dating currency | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 02:34 AM |
| 5 | There's absolutely no point in marriage, for both genders.Don't invalidate what he's saying. What he's saying is two people can love each other a lot. But there is no guarantee that either party won't change their minds before "death do us part". Love is not enough. There is no guarantee of building wealth, etc Women can work and make their own money and men can do the same. Both genders don't need each other for absolute survival In 2026. So that leaves marriage as a choice. Optional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 01:59 PM |
| 0 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.Lol. Most men could support his woman with $60k easily. Without her having to work. Providing is not the issue The problem is that women always want" more more more". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 03:45 PM |
| 1 | The average man is fine, it’s the below average men who are genuinely struggling.Your religion won't keep you warm at night. You're going to have to take control and go to another country or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Why is “MILF” a top porn category if men are only attracted to young women?Women can stay attractive for a long time. And MILFs are hot. No man will tell you otherwise. if we are talking about sex only and short term flings of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 06:24 PM |
| – | “Women date ugly guys all the time” is just not truePete Davidson is the token "ugly guy". Even though he's above average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 11:15 PM |
| 5 | How many of you have women in your life and would you ever tell them your views on women?Nah. My view is that no one wants to be settled for. Even you . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 06:00 PM |
| 10 | How many of you have women in your life and would you ever tell them your views on women?All the time. But subtly Cousin: "Hey, when are you going to settle for someone like that single mom over there and get married?? You're being too picky" Me: "the same way Tommy settled when he married you?" Her: Silence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is a substitute for love.Respect you for admitting that women need marriage for financial security/leverage. Love takes a backseat. Marriage is business. And men know this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 07:39 AM |
| 3 | Marriage is a substitute for love.Just an observation. But within this thread... I only see women arguing for The necessity of marriage. Most men could take it or leave it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 07:10 AM |
| 9 | Sexpat destinations are going to disappear as countries become more developed.Well if the dollar continues to fall... Americans will be priced out of the lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 08:37 AM |
| 9 | CMV: The concept of "financial celibacy" is petty and unfairThere is no gender pay Gap. Every job I ever had, women got paid the same as me. There's probably a gender pay Gap in the top 0.3% of ceo jobs in an Air conditioned office where you can play dress up everyday. But then again that leaves out a lot of men too that are outside of the 0.3%. 2nd of all. What's wrong with going 50/50 on dates?? Its 2025. Both men and women work. We live in an equal world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 06:10 AM |
| 5 | A lot of men marry women because they want constant access to sex, not because of her personalityMen need to bring more than their personalities in a marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:36 PM |
| – | Most men have nothing to offer womenThe main cope for men is That they have been freed from the burden of having to support women. They can live a life that is free And the cope for women is that they now don't have to be reliant on a man to provide for them. So it's not all bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 10:56 PM |
| – | Most men have nothing to offer womenLong story short. In western society...men and women don't need each other. And thats ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 09:26 PM |
| – | Despite what the internet says, money doesn’t help a man much in datingMoney matters only for long-term relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 02:25 PM |
| 2 | To both men and women: Tell me your requirements for a partnerNo kids. Average looking, skinny too slightly overweight (not obese). 25-40 years old .Values peace And don't care about social media trends and comparison, no debt over 20k | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 10:44 PM |
| 0 | The passport bros are saving these women you’re just too privileged to see itExactly. In other countries. It's literally.." provide value or die". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 06:27 AM |
| – | It's okay to be a passport bro as traditional manWe sometimes see these old ass white people passport bros coming over. It's never not pathetic. It honestly feels like they're broadcasting to the world that they're too afraid to compete in the dating marketplace and would rather just use money to solve their problem. I think those guys are past the age of caring about "competing in their own marketplace". And looking "pathetic" They go where they can get what they want easily. It is what it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 03:46 PM |
| 18 | The only criteria to loving a man.Lol. Sex is only 20 minutes- 1hr. You need to be able to stand her for the other 23 hours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 06:14 AM |
| 4 | Is hiring escorts as unethical as some people make it out to be?Okay, I can respect that point of view. But where I disagree is when a man has to preemptively disclose, unprompted,That he paid a hooker before . as if he has HIV or something. That doesnt make any sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:44 AM |
| 6 | Is hiring escorts as unethical as some people make it out to be?Both parties should be honest about it to make sure both people are compatible and can make informed decisions on whether they want to enter a relationship. Because men are not afforded the same Grace. We have to take their "3 bodies" with a grain of salt. And just get STD test . If we push further ..the ghosting rate is %99. But I have long accepted that this is the way dating is in 2025. That being said. If she ever ask if I've ever paid for sex. The answer would be yes. if it's that important… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:31 AM |
| 0 | Is hiring escorts as unethical as some people make it out to be?ok. so if asked, he will tell her he slept with one woman. We are in agreement then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:07 AM |
| 7 | Is hiring escorts as unethical as some people make it out to be?Can you explain?? Should the woman he's dating tell him about all the men she slept with for free?? Why do the rules and morality change when money is exchanged for sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 11:59 PM |
| 7 | The avg guy should decenter women or work hard to not be avgI'm not crying. In 2025 men and women don't need each other. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 04:45 AM |
| – | The avg guy should decenter women or work hard to not be avgAlso idk most women I know focus a lot on thier looks from an young age, even those who are asexual. Yep. "These men got to step up!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 03:53 AM |
| – | The avg guy should decenter women or work hard to not be avgAnd as usual.... Women have to do nothing. But exist. I understand that this is the game. But it sucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 03:49 AM |
| 1 | 35 yo single man is better off than a 35 yo single femaleI don't appreciate all of you crapping on bald guys. What did I ever do to you?!! 💔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 04:10 AM |
| 21 | Should women be “giving guys a chance”?If a handsome, charismatic, socially high status man is Broke and couch surfing, abusive,,,that does not put him in the bottom %80 of men. And doesn't count as " lowering your standards" or dating in your league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Dating isn’t hard, you’re just not putting in enough effortAnd a woman has to do nothing. See the imbalance here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveMcKenzie looks better IMO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Existence of cuckold porn proves that more men than you think want to be cuckedI want to be cucked. Strictly as a kink though. Not by by my wife. (Or someone I'm financially tied to. ) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 10:46 PM |
| 36 | Most men aren’t privileged, they are just suffering differently and it’s not a competitionWhen women complain about inequality...its usually only about the men at the top. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 10:14 PM |
| 3 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hellInstagram is the biggest dating app of them all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Women should stop having sex for freeWomen do charge for sex. The price of admission for men is : be tall, handsome, high status, funny, etc. That's a currency. Seems like women value the above more than money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 02:35 PM |
| 7 | Men not getting matches on dating apps makes senseMen standards: Be sweet. only have eyes for me. Be my looks match List is way shorter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 12:32 AM |
| 9 | I am sick of hearing about being stuck in the FRIENDZONE from menI think the friend zone is mainly a problem for younger guys with no experience. Because the girl will put up the illusion of things progressing. ask for favors, rides with a sweet flirty high pitch tone in her voice. Call you at night, invite you for late night platonic outings. Talk in slight innuendo,,etc etc And the men not wanting to be thirsty or look desperate...will try and go steady. Only to realize that she only wanted to be friends all along. The friend zone is not obvious to some guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 01:30 AM |
| 0 | Why are OF models disliked?No. But go on any sex worker Subreddit and observe how they talk about dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Why are OF models disliked?OF models have the highest of dating standards. They feel they deserve the best because " All these men are willing to pay money to see me naked, so why settle?" But the men that they like (top tier man) don't want to give them full commitment because anybody can pay a couple of bucks and see them naked. So the OF models get pumped and dumped and they can't figure out why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Men should stop lying about having low standardsIm not talking about strictly looks. As an average guy, (5'7 190 lbs. Balding, 30s, 5/10 looks) Women in my same category (30s ,kids, overweight)have rosters of men and ghost etc like young and thin ,young, childless women do. And they require you to invest....for them to show any type of reciprocation in anything. (And understandably so. Women on their 30s usually have kids and grown women bills). So as a man ...if im going to be a "Beta bux" since I cant even get my looks match without investi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop lying about having low standardsThe issue from what Ive seen is that" old, fat, single mom" type women have higher standards and entitlement than young, thin, pretty women. Because "they had their fun and seen it all before" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 12:51 PM |
| 0 | There is a serious hypocrisy in modern dating.The man is sacrificing his quality of life too . its equal sacrifice to bring life into the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 07:54 PM |
| -8 | There is a serious hypocrisy in modern dating.You know what, you shouldn't. Go to work then. But if you value being a stay-at-home mom then you will make the sacrifices necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 04:50 PM |
| -10 | There is a serious hypocrisy in modern dating.They would. As long as the woman is realistic with the standard of living that the man can provide. And not compare themselves to social media | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 04:40 PM |
| -11 | There is a serious hypocrisy in modern dating.Most men would like that. Seriously It's what we were born to do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 04:17 PM |
| – | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menYes. Single women are virgins and at home knitting sweaters. Right? They are so happy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 03:05 AM |
| 7 | Madonna whore complex is the equivalent to alpha fucks beta bucksThe difference is that beta bucks cost. While alpha fucks for free. sex worker or civvy girl both cost for beta brad. Its not the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 03:07 PM |
| 0 | Women live life on easy mode.Lol lol. As a male,,,I thought about this. Women live life on easy mode only if they are low maintenance. For me as long as I have a studio apt and twin bed...im happy with life. I can't say the same for women. Their lives are hard because of their own doing. Debt slaves, bad with money, stude,nt loans, keeping up with the joneses, never happy, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 02:34 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women don't care about money when looking for a partner.Women don't care about money as long as you don't let real life pitfalls touch them in the dating phase. If you are up to your eyeballs in debt, don't you dare let her know about it Just keep the good times rolling. Work at McDonald's and about to get put out of your home..??.. Good luck keeping her around even if she likes you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 10:40 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Less govt safety nets which will remove some of women's leverage in dating market | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 03:33 AM |
| 4 | I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving livesTalking out my problems and having crying sessions with a therapist has done nothing for me . Maybe that's how you fix your problems but not me. I've stopped dwelling on the past and it's worked wonders for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 09:33 AM |
| 2 | I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving livesAll I know is that my life is 10 times better. And men and women respect me more now too. Take that as you want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 11:39 PM |
| -2 | I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving livesHate woman? What are you talking about? You don't have to place any one that thinks differently than you into a 'woman hating" box | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 09:18 PM |
| -2 | I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving livesNo. But the rate I was going....I would have ended up in one sided relationship. And ended up with regrets in my 50s living a "happy wife, happy life" lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 08:22 PM |
| 2 | I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving livesDont be sorry, i forgive you. It improved my life. So thats a good thing.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 08:19 PM |
| 15 | I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving livesTheres no such thing as relationship equity . For example you can pay a woman's college tuition and give her free room and board. But if she's unhappy somewhere down the line, all the things you did in the past doesn't matter. You cant be loved strictly for who you are You have to remain the same man she fell in love with and not get complacent. What I dont agree with: "men who follow redpill are losers who hate women and want a woman to be his slave. " | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 08:17 PM |
| 7 | I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving livesI care a little bit. The title was to grab attention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 08:12 PM |
| – | Women who "had their fun in their youth", have their own job and career and want to settle down at 30 are unironically the best type of women to marry in this day and ageLower their looks standard to realistic levels. And date/marry their looks match within the same income/age bracket. Theirs not enough rich hot guys for every woman in their 30s when it comes to long term commitment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 09:38 AM |
| – | Women who "had their fun in their youth", have their own job and career and want to settle down at 30 are unironically the best type of women to marry in this day and ageThose women usually want to settle down with the same calibur of man they had in their youth. Except that in addition to looks...they also want financial stability. So their standards actually increase from when they were 25. And if they do "lower their standards"" they will treat you with disrespect because they feel they can do better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 08:57 AM |
| 1 | I sincerely believe that every average woman(6/10 and above)has the ability to become a millionaire by their 30s(in the west)But you don't do that for men. You do it for yourself. Right? And men also need healthcare and clothes... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 08:02 AM |
| 1 | I sincerely believe that every average woman(6/10 and above)has the ability to become a millionaire by their 30s(in the west)Men usually have to work more hours to afford to invest and date. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 11:59 PM |
| 1 | I sincerely believe that every average woman(6/10 and above)has the ability to become a millionaire by their 30s(in the west)The point is that women dont have dating/courting expenses. So that frees up the rest of their income for investments, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 11:42 PM |
| -1 | I sincerely believe that every average woman(6/10 and above)has the ability to become a millionaire by their 30s(in the west)They dont have to set a budget aside for dating and pursuing relationships (unlike men. )They have the option of investing all of their excess cash | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 10:43 PM |
| 1 | I sincerely believe that every average woman(6/10 and above)has the ability to become a millionaire by their 30s(in the west)No one said anything about living off of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 08:42 PM |
| -1 | I sincerely believe that every average woman(6/10 and above)has the ability to become a millionaire by their 30s(in the west)Nothing in my post suggested that a woman has to whore herself out to become a millionaire. Quite the contrary actually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 07:54 PM |
| -4 | I sincerely believe that every average woman(6/10 and above)has the ability to become a millionaire by their 30s(in the west)A woman can save all her money and pick the best suitor. Whether shes a bus driver , post office worker, stripper, sugar baby etc. Men don't have that luxury. "Dating" is not factored into any woman's budget. Like it is for men. Understand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 07:52 PM |
| -5 | I sincerely believe that every average woman(6/10 and above)has the ability to become a millionaire by their 30s(in the west)I got lucky in the markets along the way. And yes I've been paying rent the whole time. Not the best way to blow money. I know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 07:35 PM |
| 0 | I sincerely believe that every average woman(6/10 and above)has the ability to become a millionaire by their 30s(in the west)You're correct. We have been in an inflationary spiral since 2008. But that's another conversation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 07:29 PM |
| 0 | I sincerely believe that every average woman(6/10 and above)has the ability to become a millionaire by their 30s(in the west)Ill use me as an example. Im currently renting. If I ran out and bought a house in this current market,,, it would cost double my rent. So I choose to keep renting. But if I had two kids and another on the way with a wife expressing that we need more space...I would have to make the expensive decision to buy a home at %7 rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 07:27 PM |
| -6 | I sincerely believe that every average woman(6/10 and above)has the ability to become a millionaire by their 30s(in the west)Yes. They do. In one form or another. Think about it. A man is buying a house he otherwise wouldnt buy because he wants a woman and a family. Yes , true love and marriage is priceless in terms of adding to one quality of life. But that doesn't take away from the fact that the pursuit of women is costly in dollar terms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 07:18 PM |
| -8 | I sincerely believe that every average woman(6/10 and above)has the ability to become a millionaire by their 30s(in the west)Not really. I have a highschool diploma and im nearly there. With an OK salary. very Low 6 figure That being said....I lived a boring life within my means. (Well not boring to me. But you get my drift) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 07:16 PM |
| -7 | I sincerely believe that every average woman(6/10 and above)has the ability to become a millionaire by their 30s(in the west)What am I missing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 07:13 PM |
| -13 | I sincerely believe that every average woman(6/10 and above)has the ability to become a millionaire by their 30s(in the west)Its close enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 07:12 PM |
| 16 | Getting good sex is immensely beneficial for your mental health and sometimes getting into an exciting relationship CAN solve your mental health strugglesRead the original post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 08:13 AM |
| 37 | Getting good sex is immensely beneficial for your mental health and sometimes getting into an exciting relationship CAN solve your mental health strugglesSo toxic relationships with a bunch of twist and turns and unpredictability make you feel alive. To each their own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 07:37 AM |
| 8 | Men who don't want to get married, why?Using your words. There's nothing wrong with being a "john" or a "prostitute" if both are consenting adults. In fact, you can call me Jonathan McGee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 06:48 AM |
| 9 | Men who don't want to get married, why?Listen to what he said. Theres sites for independent sex workers. Aka, adult women that choose to escort with no pimp or middleman. Stop infantalizing adult women who freely choose sex work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 06:25 AM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?Can we just be honest that women are the minority within the homeless population? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 11:12 PM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?How many homeless women you see outside?? That right there tells you that women have it easier than men. Western women have it "hard" because they are never happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 09:38 PM |
| – | Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselvesWe're paying one way or another. At least with tariffs they are implamented once and everyone knows what the deal is . Unlike the dishonest tax. Which is money printer and inflation forever. Personally I want the govt to make cuts and reduced spending. But until then, the government needs to be paid for one way or another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 07:37 AM |
| – | Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselvesTariffs are needed to help pay for the bloated govt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 07:22 AM |
| -2 | Q4M: Younger boss babe? Or older trad wife?Older woman approaching menopause should be longtime married already. If she's single at age its because she had her fun when she was younger. and now wants to lock down a provider I would choose the younger bossbabe. Business decision. Since both options are expensive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 04:36 PM |
| -12 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.I would be a modern woman. But a realistic one. I would go 50/50 with my looks match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 01:48 PM |
| 72 | Why do men seem to almost exclusively focus on physical things?Answer; the men YOU like have tons of options and are in no rush for exclusivity. End topic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Escorts are NOT a substitute for a healthy sex life for the vast majority of young men.If you started s poll in this sub asking men if they like BBLs, caked on makeup and fake boobs/bodies..... %0 will vote yes. You clearly don't know what men want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 05:11 AM |
| 24 | Escorts are NOT a substitute for a healthy sex life for the vast majority of young men.Most men are happy living in a studio apt with a beanie bag and twin bed. Women make life more expensive for men. Period. Whether they have a job or not or going 50/50. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 08:20 PM |
| 47 | Escorts are NOT a substitute for a healthy sex life for the vast majority of young men.escorts cost more on the frontend. Wife cost more on the backend.(house, cars kids, daily emotional maintenance. either way you're going to pay. ^^^these rules apply for the bottom %80 of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 06:57 PM |
| 0 | If you're not making $100k or more looks don't matter as much as you think.Sounds like a working girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys actually have female friends?Yes, Within larger friend groups of mann and women, Yes I have a few female friends. Or If I see them everyday at work or we liive in the same building. (female acquaintances?) But ALL of my one on one female friends disappeared off th face of the earth when they enter relationship. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 06:38 PM |
| 5 | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsSo carry on. Why are you here arguing?? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Are men becoming ok with no sex?Ive been buying sex the past 4 years. Huge weight lifted to not have sex on mmy mind all the time. No more hitting on store clerks, neighbors, coworkers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 06:14 PM |
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