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/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:59 PM
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I’m fine being the problem, I don’t care if my life sucks. I just don’t like being bullied for no reason. If a woman attacks me for my looks, she’s always left wing. If a guy says I’ll never make it in life, he’s left wing. Now this hasn’t been enough to get me to vote right wing, but it def doesn’t feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:53 PM
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I’m not gonna dismiss your experience, I hate when people do that. Dating apps resulting in nothing is also rough, which one do you use? Ig I can’t put myself in the shoes of all men, so it’s just that I personally think most women who put in some effort are attractive, and I def know some guys who don’t think that way. But if you’ve had situationships then atleast some people have found you attractive. Also how do you know no one’s had a crush on you? I get that self hate can make it feel that …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:16 PM
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Maybe hate watch, but they aren’t the ones liking/commenting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:26 AM
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I agree that irl it’s chill, but what doesn’t make sense is why there’s so much hate online. “Engagement bait” but the only people it engages are other women with the same opinions. Either like 50% of women on social media are bots made to sow division (definitely possible), or, people just avoid saying hateful things as much irl because there can be consequences there, so they take it online. Everyone seems nice irl, there are less racists, homophobes, etc. Everyone puts on a mask.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:18 AM
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Bullying doesn’t happen after school= I live a privelaged life Genuine dumbass statement lmao. Is a woman walking down the sidewalk and getting called a whale not being bullied? Is the guy getting sneered at and ignored by his coworkers not being bullied?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:12 AM
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So every grotesque looking guy you’ve met has been content with life? I don’t believe you. Life isn’t nice to grotesque people, man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:10 AM
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Either A: you’re old and in a less shallow generation, or B: lying. See how those women who “just aren’t attracted to them” talk about a short man they don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:57 AM
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Women will never like me, even on a friendship level because I’m ugly. Keep lying
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:54 AM
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What step do you want me to take to stop the rich billionaire from raping a kid? Most men are against that. I just want women to stop calling men subhuman and evil for being short and ugly but ig that’s too much to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:53 AM
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But men on a societal level will side with women on all those issues. A man will stop a rapist. A woman won’t stop a fellow woman assaulting/bullying a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:51 AM
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Society widely sees all those things as bad. You know what society doesn’t see as bad? Women bullying, assaulting, and discriminating against men. If you get stalked by a creepy guy, everyone, even men, will say he’s a creep. If a woman says I’m less than human because I’m chopped then all her friends will clap and cheer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:49 AM
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I want to believe this, but how come any time there’s a woman blindly hating man, she gets no pushback from other women, only agreement? Whereas, when I see men hate on women they get a ton of pushback from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:47 AM
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In what career? In a law firm or something ya that wouldn’t fly, any old white man profession, but like on a managerial level at a fast food place, or retail, or most other businesses I wouldn’t say it’s career suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:46 AM
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I’ve seen reels of women hating on short men for existing, ig the sight of an ugly/short guy is upsetting. Anyways, the women who post these are obviously assholes, but the problem is that there’s always hundreds of comments of women, not a single one disagrees. What genuine percentage of women don’t absolutely hate short/ugly men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:44 AM
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Is it bigotry to say that women see ugly/short men as evil/subhuman? Not just undateable (standards are fine) but literally subhuman and less deserving of basic respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:42 AM
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I dislike (hate is a strong word) most women because they see short men as subhuman. No, I don’t care if women find me attractive, but many women believing I’m less than or a bad person because I’m short makes me not really like them on a personal level.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:39 AM
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How are men meant to have more self esteem when bullying them is perfectly fine societally?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:31 AM
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Men ask yes, but not every man, not even the majority of men. Also I wonder why short guys are insecure… it’s almost like they’ve been told their whole life that they’re inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:14 AM
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When youre sharing your preferences, then yes you are celebrating the people who fall within youre preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:13 AM
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Ya mb I can’t be rich super attractive and ultra charismatic to compensate. Also you didn’t answer why women are so obsessed with it. Even when it’s innocent I’ve never met a woman who didn’t ask me my height, imagine if every man you ever talked to asked you ur bra size lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:04 AM
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Honestly my bad, I was reading another comment that was talking about celebrating it and it made me think that was part of the main post. What do you mean by punished? You can simply just say “I’m attracted to this” and your likelihood of being attacked or assaulted by a man won’t go up, and if youre upset that men are upset by standards then isn’t that hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:55 PM
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I have fine hair because of the meds I’m in college so difficult to get a house I genuinely don’t care about looks I’d gladly date anyone if the personality fits No offense but how does height not matter? Let’s ignore everything women say online, but in real life every chick I’ve talked to has asked how tall I am, it’s a weird sort of obsession. When I tried to set up a friend with someone her first question was “how tall is he”. And these women aren’t even the shallow ones, they’re mostly chill…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:52 PM
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Fit- check Height matters too much, and I’m on meds to keep my hair. Women think it’s possible for every man to be attractive cause that’s how it works for women, but that’s not the case at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:43 PM
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I wouldn’t say most women phrase things that way, but if a woman is complaining that she can’t state her attraction and be celebrated, that’s means the things she stated are probably something like what I said. Women don’t disgust you, you just don’t want to have sex with them. Saying someone disgusts you invalidated their entire existence, so can you blame them for wanting to invalidate yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:38 PM
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Firstly, asexual means you don’t want sex. Demisexual is what it is if you don’t really care about appearance. Now imagine if the isolation and bullying still existed today, to the same degree and there was nothing you could do to change that, that’s the life of an ugly man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:34 PM
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Wdym by celebrated? Like “yayyyy I’m so happy you’re sharing!” Obviously that doesn’t exist, but most places on the internet you can just be like “guys with this trait are pretty hot” and you’ll find people agreeing with you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:31 PM
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If a woman says “bald men disgust me” why shouldn’t she be hated for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:22 PM
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I don’t understand how you’re blue pill and believe this. If a man is born ugly enough that you won’t date him, blue pill would say “just be charismatic and respectful”, in which case he ends up alone. Red pill/ black pill would tell him to get surgeries until you are attracted, which would work. Blue pill makes 0 sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:21 PM
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It’s widely celebrated in most places? It only gets backlash when it becomes “ew men who are (blank) are so disgusting why do they exist”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:18 PM
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Nobody wanted to go on a date with me Translating Nobody hot asked me out
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:16 PM
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Projection of what? I try to respect people regardless of how they were born. I’m normally the only one reaching out to disabled (physically or mentally) people and it shows me how people treat them. Is your experience different? How often do you go out in public with extremely ugly/extremely deformed individuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:29 PM
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Only a woman would fathom saying this shit lmao. Yes any woman can become attractive by being fit, for guys height, bone structure, and hair are far more important (especially height).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:27 PM
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If you look closely, and read what I said, then youll understand that I said that one gender shouldn’t listen to the other one when it comes to fixing their issues (women shouldn’t listen to men on women’s issues and vice versa), I never said that women don’t listen to men’s issues…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:47 PM
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I never said women don’t treat men with basic human decency. Most women don’t treat some men with basic human decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:47 PM
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Is it not societies fault that some people are inherently born in a way that makes their life not worth living by most standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:37 PM
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Wdym I literally have experienced it. My ex wanted me to do smth called forced bi, so basically I’m straight but she had me go on Grindr and find someone to fuck me while she watched, ig I “consented” but I def didn’t like it. I would do it again if I had to for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:36 PM
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Vaginismus and depression sure, but if your libido is so bad that you can never have sex you’re basically just asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:34 PM
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It’s not about getting a wife, that’s a small part of the equation. People will automatically think negative of you and disrespect you if you’re like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:33 PM
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Orange pedo can suck my dick. I never voted for him + he won’t be running again
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:32 PM
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Because we’ve reached a point in society, for a sizable percentage of men suicide is the best option. For example, if I was a 5ft disfigured bald man I would genuinely kill myself, because there’s no amount of help lines or therapy that can make the way society treats you preferential to being dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:54 PM
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So black pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:49 PM
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If she loves you why wouldn’t she want to have sex with you? If she’s asexual, then ok but otherwise she probably doesn’t love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:42 PM
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What’s your point? Those are terrible people, and also it seems like they held themselves accountable by committing suicide lol. They got what was coming. Obviously not everyone is good, not everyone is bad. But I’m saying that not every man who commits suicide is a bad person, and out of the good men who commit suicide, not all of them are because of some failure on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:39 PM
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Can you point these 4/10 women out to me? Hook a brother up because idc what she looks like as long as we vibe, but unfortunately I think ur just lying that there’s this plethora of 4/10s I can date 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:36 PM
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You don’t know people very well then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:32 PM
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It’s actually that women’s standards have gone up and an ugly guy can’t use money to get a wife anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:29 PM
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I don’t say anything about men being providers or leading or whatever. Yes men are a part of society, and partly responsible for men’s poor mental health, but to say that men cause all of it? I know a guy who got bullied all throughout schooling by women specifically, fake asking him out, one messaged him pretending to be his gf for months and then leaked all his romantic messages to laugh at (which none of the boys in the school found funny btw, only girls laughing.) it’s a case by case basis, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:25 PM
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Women have had it worse historically by far, hell, women even have it worse now. Look at it this way. If I was the only man in the entire world who was mistreated, and every single woman on the planet was being mistreated, that wouldn’t make my mistreatment and less painful or important to ME. So what’s your point? A larger percentage of women being mistreated literally has nothing to do with whether I am or am not mistreated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:21 PM
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It’s not just women, and it’s not just men who are victims. Objectively if you are a neurodivergent and unattractive person, a large amount of people will treat you as an other and not see you as human. It’s simple as that. Also if you want me to talk about dating preferences I’ll bite. It’s fine to not want to date someone, but women belittle men that they don’t find attractive (men do the same to women too).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:16 PM
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It’s easy to say this when you’ve never experienced being ugly. There was a point in my life when I was super chopped and I would never, ever, ever go back and I still hate 90% of people because of my experiences from that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:10 PM
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Privileged take, also false
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:07 PM
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Ya but if you have a boyfriend (and assuming you actually like him) then you wouldn’t have that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:05 PM
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You don’t understand what it’s like to be alone then. As a man I went through a really rough period where I got stabbed, abused, etc just for the small chance of finding love. I would 100% take getting stalked and attacked if it meant I could find love afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:04 PM
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What an ugly woman though? I’ve never seen a woman put effort into her appearance and be ugly. So as a woman I physically would not be ugly, factually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:02 PM
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The only ugly women I see are ugly by choice. If I was a woman I’d be attractive, without a doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:55 PM
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Not nearly as dangerous as war. Also I genuinely don’t understand how “losing a child is the worst thing you can experience” when so many women get abortions, and to clarify I’m pro choice. I just don’t get how you can be pro choice and care that deeply about a child who hasn’t even been breathing in this world yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:52 PM
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Relationships only benefit men when the men are 6 ft with a 10/10 face card, because they know they can get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:48 PM
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I’m gen Z and I’d say that most guys are somewhat blackpilled, even the attractive ones. the only people I know in happy relationships are like super religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:47 PM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:42 PM
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It’s not about sex, it’s about being treated with basic human decency. And yes I will vote for the thing that makes everyone’s lives worse if I dislike everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:40 PM
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Ya except none of this works. Feminists don’t listen to men when it comes to fixing women’s issues (rightfully so) so why should men listen to women who have no clue what they’re talking about? Women should take command when it comes to women’s issues and men should take command when it comes to men’s issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:39 PM
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Why do men commit suicide more? It’s not an individual issue, it’s an issue become of how society as a whole treats them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:28 PM
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I’m actually in a similar area, I want to go for a phd and go more into research psychology as to me that’s more interesting. Also sorry if I sounded like I’m on a high horse, I don’t think I’m a good person really. You’re probably in a better headspace in general than I am anyways, and I also agree with the mindset that nobody owes anyone anything, but I also think people deserve certain things, which are two contradictory viewpoints.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:44 PM
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I’m a psychology student lol. But I’m not sold on being a therapist, I’d rather do unprofessional therapy in my freetime and work a job that actually makes some money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:36 PM
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Maybe because they’re friends with women and around them more often? Or men are bad at picking up queues of when someone is about to get raped as it’s not something men deal with as much. Also maybe I am assuming the best, but I know I’d help a woman (or anyone) who’s in danger and I assume others would too. Also it’s not convenient for me or other men to not be there as that gives someone like you a talking point, it would actually be much more convenient if men were always there to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:35 PM
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I do think that someone owes them, but not everyone. As long as someone’s there to listen. If I’m there to listen but not you, then everything works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:11 PM
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Probably not the best wordage to use, I meant more in a way that they deserve some kindness, but not that you’re a bad person if you aren’t the one to give it. But I would say it’s wrong to say that they don’t deserve extra kindness from strangers considering the burden of society that poor people, unfortunate people, etc have.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:06 PM
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My life isn’t all sunshine and rainbows, and I’m not saying your morally obligated to listen to these people, I’m just confused how you can see someone who was just born in a worse situation and not realize that could’ve been you, and that if you were in that position you would want someone to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:01 PM
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To me, I feel like if someone was dealt a bad hand in life it would be selfish to not try to help them in someway. It would be like hoarding money when someone is starving, except instead of money it’s mental and emotional health.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:55 PM
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So let me know where I’m wrong. You equated men’s looksmaxxing to women’s looksmaxxing, and say that men are just now learning what women go through. Right there is the problem. Women put themselves through looksmaxxing to find a top 10% partner, whereas men do it to find a partner, men HAVE to do it, women CHOOSE to do it, making this a false equivalence. Also I’m talking about unattractive men and unattractive women in both statements, obviously attractive men or women would only do looksmaxxi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:53 PM
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Yes because people in real life know they’ll get their teeth knocked out for saying some bullshit. It’s not like people magically become evil online, they just say what they’re thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:49 PM
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You’re trying to equate men’s looksmaxxing to women’s looksmaxxing as if they’re the same thing done for the same reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:47 PM
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It’s about being able to and choosing not to, aka most women SEE other women make hateful comments and don’t say anything. You’re arguing in a very illogical way and making a straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:46 PM
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So you’ve never listened to a stranger vent?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:44 PM
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This data assumes every report is an actual rape which I shouldn’t have to explain the absurdity of. But let’s say it’s true, obviously many rapists can’t be convicted due to lack of evidence. That’s not a rape culture problem. There are cases like Brock turner out there, where rich / powerful people will get away with rape, but that also happens with murder, theft, etc. Where specifically do men let other men get away with rape, and rape specifically as opposed to other crimes. For example, eps…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:43 PM
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Yes I agree it’s the same, but when women do it it’s because A: they want to impress women, and B: they want to impress the really attractive guy in their class, work, etc. When men do it its because A: they want to impress men, B: they want to impress the really attractive gal in their class work etc, C: they want to impress the moderately attractive gal, and D: they want to impress the unattractive gal. Men don’t dehumanize ugly women AS MUCH (they still do)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:35 PM
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Do you have this mindset for everyone though?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:32 PM
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How is it not women’s fault for not wanting to date ugly men? I’m not saying it’s a problem, but if you have a guy getting rejected for being ugly, it’s objectively not his fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:19 PM
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I don’t believe I deserve a looks match, I work on myself, and I only care about personality but I have 0 swipes on tinder and have been rejected irl for being short. I’m not asking for empathy, what is your genuine “fix” that you want me to do? I know I’m a good person, I already put in more work than most men, so tell me what should I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:15 PM
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The problem is that many men have no way to fix it when it comes to dating. How does a 5 foot, bald, Indian guy “fix it?” He can have a perfect personality, amazing job, but will still die alone so I think the least that you and I owe to him is to listen to his vents.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:12 PM
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That’s actually what they do. You think young men just go “hey I want to be misogynistic!”. It’s a pipeline of Work hard and be a good person ——> no results ——-> give up and become bp, rp, manosphere, etc. People like you need to stop talking and we need to tell young men that life is hard, so that they shouldn’t join the manosphere just because things aren’t going their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:06 PM
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Rape culture is more biological, you have a large amount of men who are just inherently evil and there’s not much that can be done about it besides prosecuting them when the time comes. Also women only want a guy who does chores and responsibility 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭. Mb I didn’t realize ur trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:03 PM
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Women looksmax for eachother and the top 10 percent of men. Men looksmax for eachother and every single woman out there. There is a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:01 PM
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Abusive men and rapists literally go to jail, and it’s the women who reward those men. Which men are actually defending them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:54 PM
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If you really like blueberry pie, and you see someone bashing blueberry pie, you’ll prob want to call them out on it. It’s not about having to defend or whatever, it’s just that it should bother you, and if misogyny, misandry, whatever doesn’t bother you then that’s kinda weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:53 PM
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If I see a man raping a woman, yes I will stop it, and most men will. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:50 PM
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So you’ll call out men for height shaming but bury ur head in the sand for women. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:45 PM
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Me personally, I see some women act a certain way and not a single other woman will call them out. I see men call out Andrew Tate, clavicle, misogyny, etc, but women never call out misandry, height shaming, the Jeremy Meeks stuff, so I have to assume they’re fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:05 PM
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They’re both realities, maybe your son is charismatic or good looking? Life isn’t black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:30 PM
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Would you date a 5 foot tall bald indian man?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:58 AM
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Black pill? White pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:51 AM
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It’s more about how these people prob aren’t qualified to give dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:51 AM
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Yes but from every relationship I see, 99% are transactional. I know like one genuine loving couple, and who knows if they have secret drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:07 AM
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I do join hobby groups and socialize, no dating apps though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:39 PM
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Just having hobbies really that aren’t scrolling social media or partying, preferably likes to read. Maybe likes video games. Maybe likes hiking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:55 PM
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Good never be a cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:37 PM
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No 😭. Would that not make u jealous or are u into that cuck chair stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:31 PM
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Can I share the dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:26 PM
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Because that’s the personality I most easily fall in love with and meshes best with mine. My goal is a monogamous long term relationship until we die.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:25 PM
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Where did I complain about that at all? Did you even read my comment? I have no problem with that. I do have a problem with these same women then saying stuff like black pill, looksmaxxing, etc is bullshit and it’s all about personality. Just seems very hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:20 PM
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If I learned my friend didn’t give a fuck about me or my struggles if stop being their friend lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:17 PM
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Talk to me like I’m 5 years old I’m looking for an introvert chick who isn’t boring Now help me great one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:10 PM
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Women are the ones who don’t gaf about personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:07 PM
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Not saying they should, just that women like to lie about not being shallow and that men only care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:05 PM
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Big penis and tall are bare minimum 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:04 PM
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They’re having sex with chads or chad adjacent. Also chad is more of a blackpill term, I wont let those dirty redpillers take my culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 05:08 AM
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lol this is blue pill cope. Anything to believe in a nice fairytale world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:59 AM
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I haven’t seen an ugly guy in my generation with a gf, and most ugly guys with gfs are just oofey doofeys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:57 AM
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Why not. Most marriages are shallow anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:54 AM
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You don’t need a valid reason to be distrusting of a group of people. No one is owed trust, as long as you treat them with respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:50 AM
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You’re implying that you know people better than you really do. There’s a lot more racist, sexists, etc out there than you’d like to believe, and I’d bet my life atleast one person you’re friends with is hateful towards a certain innate group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:47 AM
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lol have you met any married men. Lots of married men resent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 10:00 PM
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I’m not saying it is. The man could say no and the woman would be an incel. A dead bedroom can work different way. I’m entertaining the idea that he COULD be an incel and this would be how. I don’t even know who this guy is so I have no views on him so I’m not calling him an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 09:08 PM
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????? No because she’s the one saying no. She’s choosing to not have sex. The same way a monk isn’t an incel, because they choose to be celibate. Incel = you want to have sex but are unable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:52 PM
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An anomaly to the blackpill. You must be studied. Our messiah is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:47 PM
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You’re forgetting the IN part of incel. She would be voluntarily celibate, not an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:46 PM
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And that’s not correct or incorrect. That sentence itself doesn’t clarify if he’s an incel. If he really wants to fuck but his wife doesn’t, he’s definitionally an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:36 PM
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Kind of, but quite frankly no one cares. Also it’s a case by case basis. Say you have on guy who’s literally a misogynist, and he’s single. It would make sense shaming him. Now say you have another guys who’s short. It wouldn’t make sense shaming him. Problem is that many people will group these 2 types of men and attack all of them. Same thing happens to women, some women will only want to date 6 figures, six feet, yada yada and end up alone. Some will just be ugly. Both these get grouped toxic…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:23 PM
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You responded to a guy saying he could be “involuntarily celibate” and you said that’s not what incel means. The key word is COULD, he could be not having sex, or he could be having sex. Also having kids is literally hard proof of having sex, that’s why it shows that it means he’s not an incel. I’m not saying all arranged marriages or sugar relationships are sexless, but many are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:19 PM
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Gen z woman having a good time dating. Shocking lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:15 PM
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If we’re taking purely gender, men have it easier on average, but it depends. Uglier men have it harder, Asian men have it harder as well as Indian men. But if we’re talking middle class and white, men have it easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:13 PM
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How tall are you, what’s your canthal girl, interoccular distance, body type, and face card objective rating?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:10 PM
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Here’s the thing, everyone treats certain people differently. Let’s say there’s a racist. He HATES black people, but is an angel to everyone else. The people he’s nice too won’t even see the bad side of him. Let’s apply it to someone you know maybe, let’s say you have a friend who hates ugly men. You might think they’re good, but ugly men won’t. Or a man who hates fat women. The “good” people you talk about are probably just as bad, you just don’t see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:08 PM
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Similar, but no. They just assume every single guy is a misogynist woman hater, which id rather be called a lonely cat guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:05 PM
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IM not saying this guy is an incel. If he has kids he’s literally not. I’m not in the same group as these people. What I am saying is that YOU said that involuntary celibates aren’t incels, which I found funny. But also technically someone could have a wife and be an incel if it’s an arranged marriage or if she married him for money/oofey doofey reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:03 PM
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You live in a fantasy land son 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:00 PM
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Less relationships but happier because only attractive people are in them. Black pill to a T
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:59 PM
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Actually I’d disagree. I’ve been in a relationship with an asshole, I’ve seen women and men do it too. If you’re lonely and you vibe with someone, you really dgaf if they’re a bad person. I’d rather be around an asshole that treats me like a human than “good people” who treat me like a subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:48 PM
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Hobbies don’t mean shit if you aren’t attractive, and maintaining attractiveness makes it hard to have a hobby. Typical blue pill cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:46 PM
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“Normal guys”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:44 PM
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They idolize women (or men) that they’re are sexually attracted too. For example, a simp might hold a door open for an attractive young woman but not an elderly grandma.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:40 PM
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You aren’t owed trust. Society as a whole is cooked and we should all be less trusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:39 PM
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Did bro just say involuntary celibate isn’t what incel means 😭.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:37 PM
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Women say this then bully men for being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:32 PM
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Modern feminists are pushing for new rights, ur bitching about some shit that never even happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 10:20 PM
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Stfu bro “yada yada black suffering” talking like u lived thru the civil war. I’m showing a simple idea that just because a group of people don’t suffer from something doesn’t mean they won’t/shouldn’t support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 09:29 PM
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Sex trafficking is a different issue, and is less about society as a whole and more about evil men. I’m talking about the prevalent and widely held opinions within society. I think most men would agree that sex trafficking is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 09:27 PM
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The male ones are really only popular on TikTok and instagram as well. No one outside of those spaces gives a fuck. The only reason you’ve heard about them is the negative media that they get for their harmful viewpoints, whereas similar viewpoints from women don’t get the same harmful media.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:32 PM
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Because the central messaging online is the same. Men just coagulated most of the misogynists under a few names, whereas with women there’s a shit ton of creators that are less popular. If you’ve been on any social media you’ll see it clear as day that women will post harmful stuff and get no pushback from other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:27 PM
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This but unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:24 PM
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By month 3 you’d be on like date 20 tf
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:35 PM
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Literally like 90% of women posting on social media lmao. “Chopped men academic”, “kill all men”, “me when short men go outside”, “The girlies are always right”. Are you dumb or stupid or ignorant lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:34 PM
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This is a dumb argument. “White people will never abolish slavery because it benefits them”. Some things are just about a moral compass.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:49 PM
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I do think that’s lots of people against them are just bitter for some reason, BUT that doesn’t change the fact that the relationships are gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:45 PM
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I think lots of guys do. I said that “in a perfect world”, a man shouldn’t push for sex. Not that men don’t. I also don’t agree with the concept that a woman making a man wait is inherently bad, it just often shows that she doesn’t like him if she makes him wait longer than she did for exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:43 PM
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The idea that the default system of dating is broken is a black pill idea tho, not a blue pill idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:41 PM
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Because both men and women have become radicalized, you’ll see tons of Andrew Tate fans and red pillers, as well as large groups of women attacking men and generally treating certain groups of men as subhuman. Quite frankly I understand any woman who largely dislikes men and any man who largely dislikes women, because interacting with the opposite gender is likely to lead to bad experiences unless you have something offer (good looks, money).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:38 PM
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It’s not really about the man knowing. Obviously she could lie, but from like an objective outsiders standpoint. In a perfect world The man shouldn’t push for sex and the woman shouldn’t make him wait longer than she would for other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:31 PM
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I thought women had infallible personality detectors?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:26 PM
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That feels like the problem. Idgaf about sex but if after months of dating my gf doesn’t feel safe and trust me then the relationship is doomed anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:23 PM
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Someone def could become my bestie after a couple weeks. This is more about consistency, if a woman makes you wait when she never does that, she def doesn’t like you. But if she always likes to wait, that’s just how she views sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:21 PM
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Nobody wants to be “vetted”. I’m a person not a textbook lol. If you don’t trust me or like me, we can’t break up no harm no foul. I don’t even care about sex, but if someone’s vetting me I’m instantly breaking up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:19 PM
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How would waiting to fuck him have gotten her treated better? What is she hoping to gain by waiting in the next relationship. There’s no reason to be inconsistent on this unless you’re just less attracted to your current partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:20 PM
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I disagree. Most guys with a bad personality can’t get women, but that doesn’t mean most guys who can’t get women have a bad personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:27 AM
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Because if society causes suffering, the onus is on society to fix it or face the consequences. If society is broken and likes to belittle people, nobody should complain when those people are done with it. Martin Luther king was a great guy, but we deserved the Malcom X route.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:50 AM
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The problem is that the “healthy society” is being upheld by people like you without ever having been created.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:46 AM
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Yes but not every guy who can’t get a woman falls into the second camp
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:44 AM
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I think she should just be consistent though? If she wants to fuck someone early into a relationship, go ahead, waiting a while is fine too. No guy worth dating would gaf about a body count of 3 or anything that’s not like insanely high. But imo if my gf was fucking every guy within a day and then wanted to wait a year for me, I’d just assume she doesn’t like me that much. But id be perfectly fine waiting a year if that’s her style.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:39 AM
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Black pill isn’t really about placing blame. Black pill is the idea that it really comes down to genetics at the end of the day, and that the just world effect plagues most of society into believing that everything is fair. Bad things happen to good people, and who you are as a person really only matters to you typa thing. I think the black pill can help people accept the unfairness of the world in all senses. I’m not a virgin, but I realize that if I had a recessed chin and was a bit shorter I …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:29 PM
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Ya people are really shallow. I would say I’m somewhat blackpilled myself, but I still think there’s a lot of value in being yourself even if wider society doesn’t gaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:43 PM
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From a man’s perspective, guys usually hide their gfs not because they aren’t attracted, or they’re settling, but because they’re afraid of being made fun of (yes guys will make fun of you if ur gf isn’t conventionally attractive). The other stuff doesn’t really show they aren’t attracted, just that they saw you as a quick bang and never had serious intention, which is kinda asshole behavior but not indicative of a lack of attraction. To me it seems like you’re internalizing the shallow, hookup …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:03 PM
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So do you think that you and I are the only ones in the whole world who aren’t shallow? Why do you believe you’re being settled for if you recognize the importance of other traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:43 PM
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Or just accept that society is shallow and stop the 24/7 cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:40 PM
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I really really reallllllllly understand this mindset. I’ve had it and lowkey still do have it a lot being a short guy. But you are literally one of a kind being a human being, and since you’re here debating on Reddit I’m assuming you’re a little more unique than average. If someone’s into you, they literally can’t find that anywhere else so it’s weird to see it as like the “last option”. I think dating has gotten so shallow considering that finding someone with the perfect personality is litera…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:35 PM
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Ngl it’s not that bad if you can learn how to act. I’m autistic AND short AND Latino (holy combo from hell) and used to pull 0 huzz, but over time I learned to be more of a “quirky cute but still put together” autistic guy instead of “weird” autistic guy, and it works someone. I think it really depends on how much you’re willing to mask tho because it can be exhausting to be in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:29 PM
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Wdym pretend? I as a man am not like extra attracted to fat women, but it’s not a deal breaker or anything. And if a guy only sees you as a wet hole, he’s probably attracted to you, still and asshole but attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:24 PM
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To me that’s part of personality
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 10:51 PM
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Yes, but you don’t choose how the world acts. You can’t look choose the blue pill and care about people’s personality, but you choosing the blue pill has no actual effect over whether the world acts accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:07 PM
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It’s not like you choose a pill though. Black pill is true in many cases, so is blue pill. Objectively, much of society follows the black pill, whether voluntarily or involuntarily. The amount of blue pill is overinflated by copers, even though it still has merit. The problem is when black pillers say blue pill doesn’t exist or vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:36 PM
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Hmm interesting. But psychologically there’s another aspect to addiction, which is why I also mentioned video games. Your brain DOES want you to keep doing it, anything with that level of pleasure that you can get that easily forms and addiction not in the diminishing returns sense, but in the “I don’t need this but I really really want it” sense. Sex addiction is a real thing. Most people don’t have the means to have sex that often, but there’s a point where if you go a couple days without it y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:34 PM
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Drugs are good for men and women to do. Video games are good for men and women to do. They give pleasure. Anything can be good in moderation, but if you’re banging multiple people every day, it’s gonna affect your ability to feel pleasure and make you addicted. Sex pumps a shit load of chemicals making you feel good, doing that repeatedly over and over really isn’t the best thing for you, same reason jerking off a ton is also bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:57 PM
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Most people simply can’t. It’s human nature to be selfish and unempathetic about others view points. Best we can do is not bring up one of these things when the other is being talked about in an attempt to derail it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:54 PM
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Relationships shouldn’t be the cost of sex, my last gf was asexual and I loved her more than anything. But if you’re not asexual and you genuinely never want sex with your partner, I would question if you love him because when you’re in love you tend to want sex. It shouldn’t be a grounds to break up, and it shouldn’t be expected to have sex, but it’s more like sex is proof of a loving relationship, instead of a cost of it. For example, most loveless relationships have moved into a dead bedroom …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:52 PM
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Women do this too lol. My entire life I’ve seen women shame men for not liking or dressing the right way, for not being the right height, and it’s socially acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:48 PM
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Did personality suddenly become irrelevant? For me personally I’d date and cherish a woman I didn’t initially find attractive if she was just really fun to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:42 PM
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