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Basically it's like paying for play..the world's oldest profession. At this point can you call going on a date even a date if you pay so much and get nothing in return, or you pay just for a woman to not be attracted to you and you waste lots of money on a date that went nowhere? Questions questions...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:15 PM
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I think the point they're making is you can be free and do what you want in your life, but at the same time you cannot force traditional gender roles onto men when you wish to be free from that yourself. Nothing is stopping women now who make their own money and have their own together from paying for a date, or helping to do something for a guy themself. If you all want equal exchange you need to put in your effort too, men aren't courting women like this is the 1950s unless you are planning on…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 07:53 PM
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I mean essentially, you could do this, but is it healthy? Will it raise proper families that tough it out together? No, this only breeds more single parent homes, broken homes, statistical disadvantages and more than likely men will not agree because some guys still had to be held financially responsible when a woman took his sperm and wanted child support and the courts granted it to her. So we need to either accept that dating and stuff with the sexes won't really work and everyone just does t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:30 PM
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You're in PPD and don't know guys typically have to play the whole dating game, take her on dates, probably wait..especially if he's a 'nice' guy...oh boy, it's too much to explain, you should know already being here no offense...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:11 PM
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Very relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:38 PM
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No offense but do you know what men you're referring to? You're referring to men who desire hook ups, casual stuff, nothing serious. You cannot in a casual setting expect men to care anything about you or take you serious, even your own pleasure and cuddling afterwards, clearly you or him gets what they want and they go on their way. This is why I recommend not hooking up at ALL and actually date and have a connection. Because by the time you keep letting these random dudes get off to your body …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:32 PM
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I don't get it. So, you want friendship with guys. Honestly just make it plain you want to be 'friends' so there's no confusion, if they wanted more and don't want to just be friends, just simply cut it off and move on. Also, a lot of women always say men need to try to get to know them and stuff before a relationship, are you really surprised some of these guys did this to try to have a relationship with you? A lot of you have all kinds of requirements and stuff and when it actually happens you…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:57 PM
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But this is about women not finding a long-term relationship, why do the men have to better in this regard? What do the women need to do? They should improve too and try harder if that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:06 PM
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Common sense but also this person never posts in good faith. So..yeah, I don't take this seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:40 AM
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Me being single isn't relevant to what you said earlier, plus you didn't acknowledge anything I said, ONLY the bars part. As I said before if you don't go to bars/clubs at all, from your words don't approach a woman at all when she's at the gym, at the park, or out shopping, and you said not to approach for any romantic connection or a friendship, then you have 100% just told us you want us to NOT approach you for any reason, and not to approach at the main areas men approach women at, and many …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:40 PM
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But you quite literally said that approaching a stranger for a romantic relationship or friendship interest isn't okay. Isn't that literally the entire point? Doesn't matter about your bar/club scenery, you're literally discouraging men from approaching women for any reason at all. You even just said not to approach women at a the gym, the park or shopping. Why are you dictating so much when a man can approach a woman other than a bar/club? What if you don't go to bars/clubs, then what? You migh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:51 PM
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Men do 'unpaid domestic labor' all the time also. And in fact men are told to work 40-60 hours a week and then help out around the house after working to provide a roof over their heads. I even do the 'domestic labor' in my home, we have to keep things clean, and cook, clean our dishes and clothes, etc. I don't get why basic maintenance even requires payment. This isn't a job, it's for you and your household. If you want to be paid for it go work at as a dishwasher in a restaurant, and you'll be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:40 PM
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If men just wanted sex they'd all stop approaching regular women and just go pay for it, but surprisingly guys actually want real relationships that even if women tell them not to approach guys would not approach out of respect for women. Surprising isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:35 PM
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Then how are you supposed to approach and date in person authentically? You just kinda proved the whole 'we don't want to be approached' thing. Now we can't approach someone for a friend or a romantic relationship? See why stuff like that makes approaching people more impossible until the only ones left are the ones who don't care?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:30 PM
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No. And why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:41 PM
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This is not it man...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:19 PM
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Sometimes it's better not to overshare.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:57 PM
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More than likely no. Only if you're really attractive and exceptional they'll allow it. The regular average guy won't be able to without some rejection or backlash. That's why I said the genders are at a big divide, if that doesn't fix then all this third space and stuff isn't gonna fix, it won't cause men and women to get into long-term relationships or even marriage which is pretty much done for. And even if the women say this isn't true we can clearly see in reality they've done this to many …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:19 PM
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All of these points sort of ignore the current dynamics between the genders, men and women are more divided, have different political beliefs and hook up culture prioritizes quick flings rather than building a long-term relationship even to marriage and beyond. Marriage is no longer the goal, most marriage rates are way too low about 6.2 out of 1000 last time I checked in the west, so if marriage is happening less, people are having kids less, women don't wish to be wives anymore until they had …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:11 PM
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Well..men want to be chosen too and not settled for after she has fun with her exes. It goes both ways and men know this by experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:46 PM
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In a sense I agree but at the same time it seems without RP dating advice a relationship won't start in the first place. And if you suddenly decide to switch up and start being the nice guy too much all of a sudden the switch up will be noticeable because it seems many of the girls who are apparently attracted to that red pill stereotype of men are just there for that type of man. If they wanted a decent guy long-term they would've went for him in the first place. Perhaps this seems to just be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:04 PM
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Kinda all by design. That's why I see a future where 'bad boys', Chad and Tyrone will be the ones using out the women and having their kids with the majority of women and these good men who were thrusted out of the dating pool will be seen as last options to raise their families while quite literally getting little to nothing in return for being single and alone their whole lives. I actually am seeing this more and more, no wonder they say the nice guys finish last.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:04 PM
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If honest, sex is not a big deal for me, especially if I never had it, I wouldn't mind just someone there who'd genuinely stay and help me in life. However, that means since statistically most women already had one partner or more intimately, I'd always miss out on that one experience other men got before me, and she gave enough intimate attention to them, so it makes it seem like I'm getting a far worse deal, if that's the case I'd prefer to be alone, unless she's willing to give another form o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:40 PM
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You could actually say the same about the women who prey on young boys in public schools. It's clearly not all women, but it's a small percent of the women doing that many times with the boys and are receiving lesser treatment for such a thing. Should I then make a chart on the amounts of women who'd 'actively intervene' when it happens or not or who'd condone it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 12:59 PM
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I mean in a sense it might be true. Before the self-improvement community years ago used to be about simple stuff to feel better and be better as a guy - aka NoFap, cold showers, journaling, reading, going to the gym, etc. Now guys are being more like Clav, looksmaxxing took off like crazy, guys are doing leg lengthening surgery, more guys are doing steroids than ever, every guy really is hitting the gym even if he isn't overweight like that, people are even just passport broing for an easier sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:27 PM
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Statistically it's after 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:07 PM
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Lol yeah there's no source for that because it's not what's happening. Women are crashing out all over social media they'd be single and childless forever. Men might do the same here and there but not at the degree in which women are. In fact guys can accept they'll be alone or maybe childless and move on with their lives, the women can't seem to understand whats going on with the men that do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:00 PM
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In my real life, I have seen no woman actively try to protect me against any bully, or guy who was simply being a piece of trash to me, matter a fact the women either watch and do nothing, or they outright get with him. However guys have typically always helped, and I've helped other guys being picked on as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:09 PM
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Typically it has always been the bullies and the ones who are the assholes who all the women flock to. The ones who are 'at the top' aren't necessarily all good men either, those are typically the assholes because they know women want them ANYWAYS, and they don't have to try and be all nice to them if they'll keep sticking around. This is why the bad ones always win, the good guys or nice guys finish last because it's not until they realize they can't get them and are tired of being in gigachad'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:05 PM
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It pretty much comes down to society is changing, if you want traditionality, be traditional, if you want to be progressive and do away with old tradition, then be modern and do away with it. Whenever men or women try to ultimately be fully modern and progressive something creeps inside of them which makes them STILL crave traditional roles. Women want men to still pay for the whole date, or to ask them out, to initiate first, men would still want a nice kind caring gal who can probably make a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:48 PM
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All I can say is I fully agree. Feminism went too far, I agree if you want equal rights for men and women, cool, but now all this misandrist nonsense, calling men incels for wanting a relationship, treating men like we're less than, forcing us to 'provide' while women don't provide anything either is just ridiculous. All these programs and stuff for women's support, women's mental health, etc but when men try to do this the feminists shut it down until men ultimately off themselves or isolate un…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:38 PM
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Once again if you read my comment I said 'marriage'. In a marriage, it's a duty to take care of of your spouse's needs, not to neglect them. It makes no sense if a woman is married to her husband, previously had all sorts of sexual experiences but yet deprives the man who made a lifelong vow to her and gives him none of those things. In a sense sex is a duty for married couples, but should also be something they want and enjoy. I don't get how I can make this anymore clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:45 PM
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However we are talking about spouses in marriage, why get married if you will not take care of your spouse's intimate needs? That's precisely what marriage is also about. And for many people they don't die from lack of sex like food but it's still a need. You probably don't understand what marriage is about if you want to pull the 'you aren't entitled to anyone's body', literally your duty is to your spouse in a marriage, you give your body to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:27 PM
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And you think that's the vast majority of 'lonely' men, who have bad attitudes and don't 'take care of themselves physically'? Have you met these men to say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:18 PM
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Just because it's male dominated doesn't mean all of the downvotes comes from the men, you didn't prove your point just because of a poll. Women join these subreddits all the time and always lurk around, particualrly the feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 10:02 PM
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Because a lot of women on here know very well they don't have that and are possibly jealous. Either that or seeing a happily married woman loving her husband goes against the feminist ideal of being strong and independent and they're but angry at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 10:59 AM
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You mean like dead bedroom marriages where the wife isn't immediately attracted to the husband but settles anyway? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:51 PM
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General sacrifice. I mean, she should do kind and nice things for me without even me having to ask nor me having to 'provide' anything with resources first. If no woman does that then it really doesn't matter. And it's not just about intimacy, what else does she do for you to make you feel valued to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:53 PM
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Same can be asked of why do women expect 'masculine' or 'provider' men? Thing is we go by traditional roles not only because it's what the other gender prefers but it's also attractive as well. What man wants a super liberal woman who wants to throw hands like a man, swear at him, belittle him and then act like he should continue to provide a lifestyle for her? And don't give me the equal rights or 50/50 thing, it's always been said women want a provider, which is a traditional role. Men want th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:41 PM
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Well not ALL men 'reward' hoes. And don't forget the average guy is rarely getting any sex in the first place. The ones rewarding the hoes would be the simps having dry spells or the men who have so many options they wouldn't care in the first place. Also you're celibate for 4 years which means you lost your v-card before you even hit 18 which is quite early, and to a man who essentially you weren't in a relationship with because you said you never had a boyfriend. Does this qualify you for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:40 PM
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Um, yes there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:26 PM
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Yeah, I think what people mean to say is not 'third spaces' disappearing, but community is. People don't have a community where they belong anymore, and even people are still having those, but not everyone can find their group like that as easily these days due to all these social standards and expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:04 PM
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Or perhaps the redpill isn't telling society to change. The only way society changes is if either everyone in society collectively chooses to change or there's a total collapse. The only way this would happen is if things collapse but either it will take too long or it would never happen. The redpill mostly is just telling reality as it is and how you can adapt and play the game, not to change the game itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:31 PM
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That's what I hate about men's self help advice being a guy. Yes it may be needed to improve and work on yourself, but imagine always essentially being told you need to always improve and always do stuff and you're never enough as who you are, that people won't accept you as you are. Women get all this validation and told they're always enough as a woman and empowered, why do people treat men as if we're not human? We want to be told those same things sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:29 PM
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Honestly I'm not even asking women to do anything. In the end they're grown adults and can make their decisions. If they don't know how to properly treat men while they're being courted and how to take things slow then that's on them. I could tell you a whole list of things men and women can do to change all of this but it wouldn't anyways. Unless your western society collapses or forces change then nothing changes, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:25 PM
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Are women doing what women have done for generations? And when they don't they complain why nobody wants to approach them or talk to them. It can go both ways. We can't put old gender norms as an excuse. Men want to be appreciated for who they are as well in these times not for their ability to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:10 PM
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Online prostitution is what it is essentially, just instead of physically interacting with lonely men you go and make them pay for pictures and fake AI or man behind the screen interactions, which is quite cruel. Not to mention men and women are out there working so hard in society to make ends meet and some women just show pictures of their feet for $5.99 and within a year are making 6 figure salaries, something most people won't get for their entire life's work, which also will negatively infl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:56 PM
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Because it's simply how guys feel? You can't really change how a lot of guys feel about this. If one man got it quicker than the next, then the next will feel it's not worth the wait. That's why I said this idea of waiting only works if really the woman is virgin, and I say the guy needs to be virgin too only to be fair. We live in times that don't work for traditional waiting and courting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:57 PM
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The other issue here is this whole idea of men being okay of waiting and going for 'prudes' or whatever would only work IF the women were virgin and the man's a virgin. Makes no sense to make the new good guy wait when you offered intimacy right off the bat to a man you're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:11 PM
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It's mostly to people how others perceive you. If women find you unattractive as a balding NEET then you simply can't debate that when it comes to dating. However if he's a NEET and broke yet a Chad, women wouldn't care about his lack of drive for life and just want him if he's attractive, or be more inclined to help him simply out of his attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:15 PM
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You already know that a lot of the women gonna be mad with this one. But I do understand the point. Lots of men are seen as tools and objects for a woman's stability and not as a person. If I don't have a job, a car, a home and resources then according to society and especially women I'm not 'worthy' of a woman, but at the same time it makes it seen like she's something to be 'bought' or a man is a tool to use. And when a tool breaks, what happens? It's thrown away. That's honestly how a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:06 PM
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Let the women do it first then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:31 PM
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Rejection isn't 'hot', nobody gets more attractive to the opposite sex by getting rejected. I wish we'd stop lying as a way to manipulate men to go back out there and get treated like trash from feminist women who quite literally tells us to 'not approach'.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:28 PM
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No, it's not a red flag. In fact virginity rates are only skyrocketing, and with how hard it is for guys to get laid it's understandable. I can see why some men even say forget losing it and just either go monk or get themselves an AI girlfriend. As a virgin myself but young and not in his late 20's I don't even care about it anymore. There used to even be means for a guy to buy it from professionals and get the experience for once but sadly it's not really an option in the west anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:26 PM
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As much as I agree, sadly the society we're in won't allow for this, mothing will change anytime soon. If you're looking for women to cook and do traditional roles you're better off seeking a country with higher marital rates and lower divorce rates. The west isn't it for our 'roots'. Everything is artificial now and a means for people to get a quick burger at McDonalds and keep it going with their independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:02 PM
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If we're being brutally honest, do you think any single mom is going to be free from judgment, especially in this day and age in society of baby mama drama? Unless there's a genuine reason such as abuse for her being a single mom and separating, then the latter we see is women birthing kids irresponsibly and making the childless men pay for it. There will always be judgements and many times single moms and the man they chose to have a kid with show bad character in general which is just somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:24 AM
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It's not really a 'hatred', but more of a preference. Many men and I'd probably say most do not want to be dating a single mom and right off the bat have to deal with raising another man's children especially in a chaotic world where baby daddies are running wild and still in the picture. This is why back in the day typically women who were widowed were given more of an excuse for someone to deal with them. Now if you're simply popping out babies for an irresponsible man, make another man pay fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:18 AM
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Then you're the only exception. And I don't see the point in your troll comment either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:56 AM
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Then how about those women just be single? Then there's no danger. But most women want relationships, so I don't see the point in telling us this. And don't forget the only ones women are being intimate with are the attractive men which is not the regular average guy, so by your logic you're the in the most danger to the ones who you find very attractive or get intimately involved with. So why not date an average guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:18 AM
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Why do lots of ladies try so hard to convince the world they don't want the idea of a masculine man whose a provider or protector? If this is true then why do women seek men who are tall or portray strength? Why aren't you pursing regular average men who aren't portraying that? And if you only want a 'safety net', then why aren't your circle of girl friends sufficient? This just shows gender roles are still prevalent. People need to stop lying about what they truly want, I have truly not seen an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:16 AM
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Because if only less than 10% of men are high earners in the west how can majority of average men even come close to trying to achieve that? The redpill tells you you need to be in the top 10-20% of men with looks, money and status to attract quality women. Most regular guys just won't do that, and that's simply a fact. Average is average for a reason. Which is why I always advocate people to just date an average person or at your level. Other than that self-improvement and bettering yourself si…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 02:53 AM
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Because it's all about sedating the average man even more so the top 10-20% can continue to out bang and outbreed most men. Then we have to play 'clean up' when it all hits the fan. Seems that's the game now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 02:39 AM
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Well yes and no. I don't mean to play devils advocate this once but men also let themselves go in marriage with the beer belly and just watching football. Then you say for women it's motherhood and pregnancy. If that's the case why don't BOTH be honest with each other and get shape to find each other attractive again and not just tolerably attractive at best because that's your spouse or partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 02:27 AM
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It used to be MGTOW honestly, men simply going their own way away from relationships and finding other pursuits, the 'new' redpill from recent years is mostly looking to 'improve' to be some high value man with money in order to get westernized women to have fun with which not only can most men not really achieve but it's outright ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 02:22 AM
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We can simply go look at your profile and all your posts you know...that's all the 'examples' we need. If you want to simply cause problems on the subreddit to trigger people you're wasting your time. You're a woman so I'm sure you got other important things to do than to constantly debate with 'beta male simp cucks' on reddit so you say. Not even I'm on here constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:39 PM
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Lets be honest, if any average normal guy you're seeing isn't somehow putting down money in exchange for some time with you, you wouldn't be seeing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:01 AM
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Genuinely speaking I think this would be a win for both. Men go abroad and can have the women they want without suffering in silence back home. Women who can't find the specific boyfriend or husband in the west can go abroad and find those types of men if they want them. Both could win. But however we know in reality it wouldn't be that perfect, and there's always the good and the bad of people who travel for the opposite sex. Some men go overseas and just use prostitutes or what not, some women…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:57 PM
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Not all men who travel overseas for even a relationship are simply going for 'underage' women. Some are yes but that's definitely not the majority if you actually looked at these passport bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:52 PM
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Honestly though this isn't true. I can even show you if I find the videos of men who would be 'unattractive' according to western standards are abroad right now and married to some of the most beautiful women overseas. It's literally just in American culture people's standards for a marriage or a relationship are very high which means if you're not even attractive enough to get into the door for one, you're already screwed. Overseas it's just totally different. If you're a decent guy, even avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:49 PM
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I'm not new to this subreddit actually, I've been here for quite a while. It's just you constantly post misandrist content to shame men on here and I do question what your intention is with that. But anyways you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:47 PM
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Nobody is expecting this, we just do this because it's the right thing to do. And haven't we seen you making enough of these male shaming posts? Should men not have anything good for being decent men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 05:16 PM
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Why do we always go to 'women get pregnant and do domestic labor' whenever we talk about equality which feminists fought for? Why do you go to traditionalism which you don't even do on average whenever you want an escape from said feminist standards? Most women don't want children and the birthrates are declining, so why? Maybe it's because the feminists truly don't want equality but they need men to keep adhering to their roles and offer nothing back.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:54 AM
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Yeah we kinda already know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:31 PM
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You do realize a lot of the bad stuff you're talking about is already happening. We have 'bastard' kids running around everywhere despite there being a bunch of forms of birth control, we have infidelity, we have teen pregnancies happening more and more, we have now women selling their bodies online because they don't want to work an actual job anymore. At this rate what we're doing now isn't working, back in the day even when prostitution was big there were many more marriages, many more commun…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:19 AM
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True, but every time we say it, do the feminists and bluepillers care? they don't realize men still have to get drafted, expected to 'take care' of his woman by providing, putting our life on the line for a random woman who has no familial connection or doesn't know us like we don't deserve the same amount of protection as men? Putting ourselves on way of traffic while she walks away because it's the 'man' thing to do? If we want to opt out of being in a child's life we still have to pay and sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:46 PM
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Fully agree with the black piller. Expecting us men to always work for a society and get little to no romantic interest or affection for women and we see thugs and felons pounding out women and making them single moms, you'd eventually ask the question why should I work so hard while I'm expected by society and feminists to just not at ALL have my sexual needs met while I work so hard just to make elites richer and I come home to an empty home or stuck in my childhood home because I can't afford…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:52 PM
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Your statement is not entirely true, not to mention you say most men only care about sex when I guarantee you that you're neither virgin nor married, there's more virgin men than women in the west right now. It seems you like to gaslight men also on the contrary. I suggest you stop looking at only a minority of men who are the ones getting all the sexual access and you look at the average guy and compare their experiences. If you only think men just want nothing more than sex then you clearly do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:05 PM
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40 years old, all these pointless dates using men for free food and you also still have no husband...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:54 AM
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We could answer these questions but you won't ever listen to the answer. The problem already is your first statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:53 AM
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Not that you're wrong, but the issue is that women who make their OWN money don't want to pay for their own food. And if the man is always paying and you say he only wants sex, what does the woman give to the man for all the times he's been paying for meals, another dinner date? Is she gonna be a loyal wife to him someday? So is it wrong for a guy who always pays for the dates to want sex from a woman whose already given sex to another man for possibly less? What does the guy get for paying all …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:47 AM
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Clearly this is a ragebait post. And you don't stop to think perhaps many women are these very same exact things? All you did was lump all men into a category of 'bad' for stupid mediocre things such as being 'bad in bed' or other feminist rhetoric they all regurgitate. Women need to stop acting like men are the enemy, perhaps it's not something wrong with the men but something wrong with you. Look inward and fix yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:03 PM
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Nah they do have it easier, if a woman really wants a boyfriend she can get one on any dating app within 24 hours, even there's regular simps out there willing to date her. Men just don't get this attention at all. I thought we've been over these things already but people seem to never want to accept women have it easier when it comes to picking, choosing and dating men, than men do on average, and all the data tells us this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:08 AM
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SO basically you proved my point, the OP claims women don't want nor value casual sex but like I said they still DO it. You also come to maybe regret it when you're older but you still participated in it. There's really no excuse here. Most women don't seem to value the old school thing of keeping your virtue for your future spouse, but I wouldn't blame them, you can clearly explore your options when you're young and got many men desiring you, but you can't blame anyone but yourself for your dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:53 PM
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Well you need to be honest, women do have it easier when it comes to casual sex. Any woman can get it if she makes a profile, I guarantee you the ugliest woman would get picked any day of the week, any chubby or morbidly obese woman would get picked any day of the week, it's a fact. Any man who is any of those things I described would 9 times out of 10 get little to nothing, and he would get shamed and told he needs to improve or lose the weight. And if women don't want casual sex nor do they va…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:07 AM
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It actually is deep, there's too many issues in western dating culture that just 'improving ourselves' or being as charming as possible literally won't get you anything anymore. If you want to play the dating game to maybe try and hook up i guess you can do that, but it won't lead to anything meaningful. This is why I always talk about western civilization collapsing, and no wonder you see people moving abroad as a last resort.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:34 PM
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Yeah but that's also not fully true. And if I'm using myself as an example I play tons of video games, beat many rpgs and Jrpgs, and even though I stay with my family since I can't buy a home, I am college educated, I have a degree, still continuing my education, I can cook for my family, clean the home, tidy things up and give money back to my parents and family. The incel men who are just at home not doing anything with their lives and time make every guy like this look bad. Most men are just …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:19 PM
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Around 61% which is most women identify as feminist, so you're looking for a 39% chance of finding a non-feminist woman, finding one who wants to be a wife, a homemaker and to stay loyal to you is also gonna lower your chances. And if you want a religious woman like that in the west she'll already by snatched up and cuffed by some church chad. You don't win in the end. And finding someone abroad is only if you can afford the lifestyle, so I don't think most men are traveling in this economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:54 PM
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Honestly I rarely see any lies in this post. Anyone who denies it just wants to deny the truth that western civilization is falling right now and with the lack of babies, marriages and even dates, and we see men opting out for video games, hobbies, etc and we see women deciding to be independent from men and just have situationships, nothing will be fixed anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:51 PM
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Men already know this, we know this. Nothing wrong with guys even complaining about it just as women complain they can't find a good man. It's normal to let out frustrations like that. Clearly we know it won't lead to anything intimate, but it's understandable why a guy would at least complain. Matter a fact I've rarely heard many men complaining now unless it's the dramatic incels, men know at this rate things in the west will not change and are set in stone unless a collapse happens, so many a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:48 PM
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Yeah sorry but I'm not gonna pat you on the back for that type of behavior and I'm a guy too. People like you don't get you're not helping the west become better in terms of relationships by treating women this way, and cheating and making them feel 'dumb' or 'crazy'. In fact you're everything the feminists women are talking about when they point at bad men and then say that's the majority of men. It's like wanting friends but not being friendly towards them. Why are you even dealing with women …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 07:12 PM
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You totally missed the point if you think men simply care about doing heavy labor just for 'the entire country'. Men need motivation, they want a reason to belong, to feel loved and appreciated, usually would be with a loving wife and family, and that would keep him going because he has support and people who need him. Why would I work 60-80 hours a week to come home by myself, no wife, no family, no home cooked meal and give a crap about laying my life for the entire country in the military? I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:55 PM
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Nobody is saying for you to do any of those things, you don't have to do 50/50, or do majority of cooking, or cleaning, childrearing, etc. The issue is since women want 'equality' and want men to also contribute half or more of stuff, 50/50 on bills is normal, not to mention it takes 2 incomes to support a household now. Women also working made this happen. Plus doing all the wifely duties you are describing is only if you're going to fully decide to be a wife, then a properly stable man would c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:00 AM
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I definitely understand where you're coming from, however you also must remember we as men don't control what society says really about us, we are to just blindly obey. Even if we show our emotions, we get shunned for it or called weak. Don't show any and you're called toxic. Be loud and obnoxious in school and everyone screams for you to sit down and behave, sit down and behave and stay quiet and everyone considers you the weird quiet kid and the teachers don't invest much in the quiet well beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:48 AM
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I certainly am. Getting my own AI, PC, stocking up on solar generators and piled up with video games on all my gaming systems. You girls can work to maintain society I'll just chill and relax, and when it gets too much and you want to relax, don't come to me pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:18 PM
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Only the attractive men get to sleep with the women with no strings attached, for the average to below average guy it's not gonna happen. I don't blame a guy for going to a brothel although I don't think they should, it's at least understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:10 PM
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