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| 1 | Is there really a benefit to a man getting married in today’s world considering hypergamy is so prevalent? | RicoGemini | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 12:54 AM |
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| -3 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menIts existence is to give women the same opportunity as men. Considering historically they could not own property, own a business, have a bank account until 30 years ago The people who feel they are being belittled are upset that they’re losing the advantage they had over a demographic that they now have to compete with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 05:36 PM |
| -6 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menIt doesn’t belittle men, it’s just that men don’t like that they’re losing advantages. I saw a video and it had a quote that fits perfectly. It said “Equality feels like oppression to the privileged”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Get a long term girlfriendTbh, I’d say younger people won’t really be able to do this as effectively due to lack of experience. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to pull a Model Tier Girl as an Average Man?Yes I live in NY and have dated women who would be considered “models”. I feel like I’m a bit above average but nothing amazing. Just be confident, let your personality speak for itself. Make them laugh, don’t be a push over, dress well, etc. Just do what any woman would like and you’re fine. They’re still just people, don’t put them on a pedestal | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Women: If you asked out a guy and he was nice but said “sorry, you’re just a little too fat for me” how would you respond?Im not saying they're mutually exclusive. Im saying what shes prioritizing and her reasoning for that is stupid The focus in this comment was the height. She said "No silly you, you are just not tall enough. My boyfriend has to be at least 182cm and you are not" So your height, for this woman and the context, supersedes anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Women: If you asked out a guy and he was nice but said “sorry, you’re just a little too fat for me” how would you respond?Dating someone so that your future son (who you could possible never have) can be tall rather than dating someone because they are a good person, share similar beliefs, good morals, can be a good father. But nah none of that stuff I said above is pragmatic and sensible though, but because you want you future son to be tall, that’s more important | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 02:05 PM |
| 5 | Women: If you asked out a guy and he was nice but said “sorry, you’re just a little too fat for me” how would you respond?There is nothing pragmatic about this example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | The eastern reaction to Will Smith demonstrates how traditional masculinity is treated so differently in our modern societyAs I said, it seems to be a black people thing to make fun a black women’s hair. Black people making fun of a black womans hair isn’t a normal thing. Maybe you found a person or two who does but this is not a black people thing. Black women hear more bullshit about their hair from non blacks “Oh it’s so thick” “Oh it’s so nappy” “Can I touch it” “You should do x or y to it” Black men also feel similar (but not to the same extent) shit they do. So black men won’t make fun of or put them down beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 07:03 PM |
| 3 | A cheating man is worse than a cheating womanWe did, this post is still dumb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedSo singular “Black” is okay but the plural “Blacks” is dehumanizing? Yes actually. You would say that is a black man/woman or black people but not blacks. White people have dehumanized and continue to dehumanize black people. This statement here saying “blacks” is dehumanizing. You’re not seeing us as people with this statement, only as black. You will choose to get offended at anything related to race because it’s so much a part of your identity. You’re making it seem like it’s a me thing when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 03:14 PM |
| 4 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedWhen you say blacks instead of black people, it’s dehumanizing. It’s not me getting offended, it’s you saying offensive things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedYes actually. I’m very pro black and have lots of black pride. I don’t understand why you bring this up tho. I’m just asking you not to say things that would offend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 02:29 PM |
| 5 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedNo he’s right. As a black man I hate when people refer to a group of black peoples as “blacks”. I’ve also seen non black people get their ass beat because they called a group of black people “blacks”. Just respect the fact that our group doesn’t like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | 99.99% of men hate women (and why it's a good thing)This post inspired me to pursue my dream of acting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 08:35 PM |
| 8 | 99.99% of men hate women (and why it's a good thing)they all despise women. I know I do Just because you hate women doesn't mean that 99% of men do. Can I agree that there is a percentage of men that hate women? Absolutely. Do I think it's 99 percent? Absolutely not I dont even think it's a relatively high percentage This whole post is either a troll or is just hateful and you trying to justify your feelings towards women saying it's all men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 08:32 PM |
| 2 | The "Alpha/Beta/etc." paradigm is utter BSYes, so they’re not alpha male and trend closer to the beta side. Just because something thinks they’re alpha doesn’t mean they are I can think I’m a millionaire but my bank account says otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 02:45 PM |
| 23 | The "Alpha/Beta/etc." paradigm is utter BSWho is the real alpha male? The big guy walking in the club with a girl on his arm threatening to beat up other people...OR the guy with the beer belly that OWNS the club and can throw them all out if he wants to? This statement here shows you have a misconstrued understanding of the alpha male/beta male terms When someone talks about Alpha male they're not talking about Rambo walking into a room with 10 models ready to beat up everyone. They're talking about a man who's confident, socially inte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Do women really care about height as much as PPD claims they do?Its one of those preference things Hypothetically speaking if Man A and Man B are of the same financial status and treat her the same, the taller guy may have the advantage I'm an ass guy so if woman A and woman B check the boxes of what i want in a woman and both treat me the same, the woman with the bigger butt gets the advantage. There are the obvious exceptions but i feel like this is more closely what the general person would feel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 06:31 PM |
| 2 | A rich man might fuck broke hot young women but he'd never wife them upI understand your point but op is talking about income in their post and majority of their replies to people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 09:48 PM |
| 6 | A rich man might fuck broke hot young women but he'd never wife them upbut he'd only ever marry a women of his social status and class because unlike men here the actual rich men are smart. Rich men marry rich women. She doesn't have to fuck his ugly ass while she gets to enjoy his money. This is about income | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 09:41 PM |
| 9 | A rich man might fuck broke hot young women but he'd never wife them upI'm a photographer who works with models, athletes, rappers, etc Most of these models are broke as fuck. Getting on the cover of a magazine or a billboard on time square doesn't pay enough to get you to rich status. Most of these companies are cheap and underpay and the models take it for the publicity it could bring them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 09:31 PM |
| 6 | A rich man might fuck broke hot young women but he'd never wife them upWe are talking about income. OP said in their post rich men marry rich women which people here are trying to disprove. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 09:29 PM |
| 11 | What are your deal breakers, also does body count matter to you?I think people who say body count absolutely doesn’t matter are a bit unrealistic. I think everyone has a number that’s like “uhh nah I’m good” With that being said I don’t want a virgin. I don’t want have to spend time teaching you how to do shit. I want a woman with experience so when we get in the bed we can get to work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadi'd rather be egalitarian | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat Jag looks sexy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 09:15 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAs a minority, historically the way my people have been treated in this country and how i still currently get treated, i wouldnt. I'm driving up north and taking refuge in canada | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadChina wants Taiwan, the US will go to war for that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow did you get these stats? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 05:56 PM |
| 2 | FDS and TRP were born and exist due to ugly people who's standards are too highBecause red pill isn’t only about gaming women. And while I personally don’t study pick up, the assumption I’m getting is that it’s mainly targeted at getting women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat they be telling you One girl (Model A) told me how her and her bf are on a break since they were going through some shit and needed some space. This break started 2 days before we had that convo. She said that she’s gonna fly out to Dubai to clear her head. I was like, I gotcha, it’s a girls trip with your friends or something She said no, some guy was flying her out. Fam it’s been 2 days. So then fast forward maybe 2 weeks later another model (Model B) in our circle did a shoot me me. Afte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIts pretty shit. Hook up culture is huge, even though people dont want to admit it. Theres not much of a point in a LTR because people have side pieces Tbh if you want some ass, then come to NY,we got some baddies. If you want a wife, stay away Im a photographer and Videographers so i work with models frequently, i tend to keep close relationships with my models. And the stories they tell me reinforce why i'm never getting into an LTR as long as i live here. its insane, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 05:59 PM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTrying to get back in shape after not keeping up due to the pandemic is a lot of work. Went to the gym last night, worked out my chest, now i cant lift my arms. Its a huge ego hit when i see photos 2 years ago vs today, but its motivation to keep working, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMen absolutely have impulse issues. Everything we do is off impulse tbh. I think as we get older we can control it a little better, especially considering after 35-40 testosterone starts to drop. But yea its true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBlack/NY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 04:50 PM |
| 2 | So... Why DON'T Men Fight Harder For Child Custody?Thanks for posting, I’ll check these out after work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys make a distinction between fault and responsibility?Boyfriends/Girlfriends are not trained professionals that understand how to guide you through your issues and help you overcome them Depending on a partner for this kind of help is a bandaid Their "support" is only really helpful for you while you guys are still a couple, what happens if you break up and they leave you. All your issues start coming back, you could potentially be in worse shape. Stop with the over dependence on a relationship to fix your issues and stop relying on a partner to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 03:33 PM |
| 33 | FDS and TRP were born and exist due to ugly people who's standards are too highI dont go on FDS so i can't talk about that, but TRP is more than what you mentioned. TRP teaches men to be more confident and to set up boundaries, something a lot of younger men especially lack. It also tries to teach them how to walk away and not to put women on a pedestal, because in reality she isnt a unicorn and this ain't no disney movie Edit: fixed a typo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys make a distinction between fault and responsibility?No, it is because often only others can truly save another. When it comes to trauma, an outside influence is needed to fully overcome it. It is not something you can just help yourself. Absolutely Get a therapist Not a boyfriend/girlfriend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 02:16 PM |
| 1 | So... Why DON'T Men Fight Harder For Child Custody?Visitation is just a kind word for “babysitting” while the primary custodial parent does all the hard work. Visitation is also so the non custodial parent can still be an active part in the child's life. They may not be there changing diapers or taking them to school everyday. But this allows them to have a relationship and still be a parental figure in the child's life. Your whole point about them not living together doesnt take into account real life factors such as divorce or other relationsh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 01:22 PM |
| 1 | So... Why DON'T Men Fight Harder For Child Custody?You're projecting here. Your experience with your father was poor, this does not mean that its the norm. Not saying that there aren't people who haven't gone through what you did, but to say that a father failed because does live with them is disingenuous to those fathers who actually put in the effort. Living under the same roof doesn't make you close. You can live under the same roof with someone for years, have poor communication, barely interact, and this in turn can cause you to barely know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 01:09 PM |
| 3 | So... Why DON'T Men Fight Harder For Child Custody?source on this stat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 12:14 PM |
| 2 | So... Why DON'T Men Fight Harder For Child Custody?If a man has so little interest in raising his own child that he can't be bothered to even try Not having custody does not mean a father cannot raise their child. You can still be active in their life and co parent. So many men who are the non-custodial parent still have visitation rights, can see the kids on weekends, and things like that. Having custody just means the kid lives with you and you are the primary parent that takes care of the child. Society views women as better care takers and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 11:40 AM |
| 6 | Do you guys make a distinction between fault and responsibility?Women who are needy and fear abandonment never take responsibility for anything they do I absolutely agree with this A lot of times men and women who are like this are pretty toxic partners. Not because they are consciously doing something toxic, but its the insecurity that comes with the neediness and abandonment issues that creates the toxicity. Also they tend to look for partners to "save them". Because they don't feel happy within themselves they hope their partner will, this in turn is a lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 11:25 AM |
| 20 | Do you guys make a distinction between fault and responsibility?"Sounds like we're blaming women for their father's choices now" "Imagine blaming women for things that aren't her fault" etc. Here's what i have to say I as a 26 year old man who's father exited my life at age 2 have felt the repercussions of growing up fatherless. But, at some point in my adult like i took the initiative to use whatever resources i could get my hands on to mitigate these issues that came with being fatherless and develop myself. All this to say, You have to take accountability… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 11:06 AM |
| 7 | Are there any women that really believe they attract the wrong kind of men?I’m glad you held yourself accountable and made the changes. Most people would have said “men are trash” and kept it moving. Best of luck to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 08:41 AM |
| 2 | Is there really a benefit to a man getting married in today’s world considering hypergamy is so prevalent?Gotcha, I’ll delete | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Masculinity is NOT in a crisis nor is it on a declineHow so? I like Game of Thrones and Batman because I think it’s cool, not because I don’t feel masculine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Embracing your dark sideThis does not give you an excuse to be a damaging person to other people. What you’re saying is “I have issues so other people will have to suffer”. Instead of doing that, be a responsible adult and seek every and any help you can get. This way you can improve your quality of life and outlook on life and you won’t hurt people along the way | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Embracing your dark sideWhy though? It's not fair to everyone else who you damage And it's not fair to yourself because you're not becoming the best version of yourself by doing this | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Embracing your dark sideTrust me though if you embrace it youll have the same confidence as a successful guy but itll comw from a dark place also you wont give a fuck about anybody worth trying. This is very damaging to yourself and people around you. Having confidence and not caring about other people turns you into a narcissist and sociopath. This is not it, it's not healthy and it's very dangerous | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Giving girlfriend ultimatum to lose weightI definitely get that. I'm not one to make ultimatums about stuff like this because you can't force someone to live by your standard or needs. You kinda just have to find people that fit your needs. I also agree there's no perfect girlfriend, nobody will have every quality that you want, it's very improbable. I guess ultimately it's up to you to decide if her other qualities outweigh the the lack of drive for fitness. Realistically though, I'd say that if this is that big a deal breaker, that yo… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Giving girlfriend ultimatum to lose weightBro just leave and find a woman who has a more active lifestyle and is into fitness just like you. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 01:04 PM |
| 5 | Maintaining a soft next vs putting a feeler after a bit of a lack of interestWhile this doesn't answer your question said she doesn't hookup without being more drunk This is a massive red flag and you can get yourself into serious shit with people like this. Consent is a huge thing and people who are intoxicated can't give or remove consent. Sleeping with women who say they "need" to be drunk to have sex is an easy way to get hit with sexual harassment charges | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 01:01 PM |
| 77 | She wants to bring an ugly friend overThere’s times where people are posting for genuine advice, and then there’s bs. This is bs. What grown ass man needs to come on Reddit to figure out how to tell another person they can’t bring a friend into YOUR home? This post screams “I just want to make a post to let everyone know I’m banging this girl and that I don’t want her fat ugly friend in my house. Look how alpha I am”. But in reality this post just shows his lack of confidence, his need for attention, his need for validation from oth… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:36 AM |
| 58 | She wants to bring an ugly friend overIf it wasn’t that deep you wouldn’t have posted it. This entire post is cringe and makes you seem like you’re attention seeking. I’m not even trying to attack you or disrespect I’m just saying what it looks like | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:50 AM |
| 252 | She wants to bring an ugly friend overYou don’t want girl coming over, tell her she can’t come over. I don’t understand why this needed a post. Realistically to me it sounds like you just wanted to shit on this fat girl to boost your ego. Because if you had to come on Reddit to ask others how to tell a girl you don’t want her friend in YOUR home, then you lack confidence and need more backbone. But I think you just wanted an ego boost, honestly. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Mark my words; in 5-10yrs, we’ll have a new set of words for, “simp”, and “pick-me’s”, and they’ll mean the exact same thingsSimp isn't really a new word, it was something that was being said in 2010 at least. I live in NY and a lot of people I knew in the tri state area was knew what that word was and used it. It just got popularized now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 03:01 AM |
| 1 | For men who work 9 to 5 jobs, what do you do in the evenings after work?I don't do all of that in one night. Just those are my go to things any given night | /r/askTRP | 12/02/20 04:27 PM |
| 5 | For men who work 9 to 5 jobs, what do you do in the evenings after work?I do photography and videography on the side along with my 9-5 so I usually edit photos or videos. Sometimes I go straight from work to an event or shoot. So it can be a long day going from waking up at 4:30 and hitting the gym to getting home at 1 am to have to repeat the next day Sometimes I'll catch up on any Netflix shows or throw on my Xbox. I have a whiteboard that I use to update goals and plan my week out so I make adjustments to that if necessary. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/20 12:48 PM |
| 11 | Your Life Can Be BetterMasculinity is about strengthening your reality to the point of no anxiety Is this your words or did you read this somewhere. Because that quote is pretty amazing. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/20 10:23 PM |
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