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9	What would I bring to your tabel?	Discussion	RandHomman	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 04:24 PM

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–	Would you rather have children with a man who isn’t your ideal, or never have children? Lmao, you're the one full of shit I'm sorry. Keep sobbing for the life your poor decisions you can't learn from get you. Maybe one day you'll learn to get that mirror to tell you how you got there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/26 02:50 PM
–	Would you rather have children with a man who isn’t your ideal, or never have children? Women parrot the reason a man is alone is because of his shitty personnality on every online roof they stand on. Claiming that would be a reason but that's not it. It's something else. I've always seen women tell other women to go for it if they feel it, not to wait and see and make sure the man they're with is worth having a child with because it's not a decision you take on a whim, it's a lifelong connection you create with at least two people. The only time I see women speak about abortion is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/26 01:29 PM
–	Would you rather have children with a man who isn’t your ideal, or never have children? Lol, I'm not the one trying to say I am flawless and can always know who is bad and who isn't from a mile (then engage with the absolute pieces of shit they could find). I think women who say that are more harmful to younger women that they think because they make them believe this bullshit instead of educating them on how and why they would end up in these situations. But women grew very allergic to being advised against their own lust that it clouds their judgement, thinking that whatever they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/26 12:58 PM
–	Would you rather have children with a man who isn’t your ideal, or never have children? This can never be told to women since they know from the get go if your personnality is shitty. Lmao! One of my ex left me, early 2000s, after 3y because she needed to think this through. I didn't accept it at the time and just left too. So she found some dude and got pregnant from him and decided to keep the child. Dude beat her up countless times, it was her sister that called me to help her move away from that dude, which I did offer my help. But now that she had a kid with some dangerous idi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/26 07:49 PM
2	"The ick" is an excellent example of how modern women encourage narcissistic self glorification among each other Then you perfectly understand why some would hate it. Ofc we often only see what is directed at us, this applies to me too so my appologies but I've never see men create "the ick" trends online while it may be there too. Like I said earlier, my brother was quite vocal about his icks towards women so I believe you. Doesn't mean today doesn't make this idiocy more prevalent by screaming them on social media, while I had none in the 90s and early 2000s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/26 09:29 PM
1	"The ick" is an excellent example of how modern women encourage narcissistic self glorification among each other And that's very respectly of you, the problem with "icks" is people (mostly women) voice how a man (or a woman when men do it) is of low interrest because of those icks. Putting them on social media for the world to see and the countless of people approving and commenting. I've seen wearing a seatbelt, white socks, losing hair, eating with chopstick while not being asian to name a few. I personnaly don't care since I'm dating women that don't make these toxic trends their personnality but my stu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/26 09:14 PM
2	"The ick" is an excellent example of how modern women encourage narcissistic self glorification among each other Now that's a weird phobia to have but I understand we don't control those. I'd be weird to have that kind of phobia in a school though, I see plenty of students (all adults btw) chewing gum, men and women... ngl I'd like to see someone throw a fit because people chew gum lmao!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/26 08:58 PM
–	"The ick" is an excellent example of how modern women encourage narcissistic self glorification among each other "A problem that doesn't affect me isn't a real problem!" teehee!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/26 08:56 PM
1	"The ick" is an excellent example of how modern women encourage narcissistic self glorification among each other My brother used to have these kind of childish "icks" like if a woman was chewing gum he thought she wasn't very feminine and would just brush her off. Sometimes it was her cleaning her teeth with her tongue he hated that and was ready to turn them around and it kept going on and on for years. After some time he stopped because he grew up and realized these women were just behaving like normal humans. Chewing gum is human just like any other mundane action people do. The "ick" people have imo is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/26 08:22 PM
–	Question for red pill: What are some direct examples of how women "speak a different language" than men, in an unironic autistic 1:1 "woman code?" Do women think for themselves and are aware of what's happening around them or are they just "following" what they are told and whatever is bad is from Patriarchy and never on their own volition? I swear it's like anything a woman does is because someone or something told her to do it and she just does without actually thinking about her actions. Stop infantilizing women, they know perfectly what they are doing, imo women just have this fear of being truthful and just want to play victim of some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/26 05:43 PM
7	hot take: men need to adapt more feminine traits to resolve the gender war But that's you, you don't represent all women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/26 03:36 AM
3	Men who say you're afraid to approach women: afraid of what, exactly? Is women approaching men as much as men approaching women the cultural norm where you live? Because where I am it's not (Canada) and even though I've been approached by women in the past and because of my job, I wouldn't say women do as much approaching as men do, because it's not the cultural norm. Just like if you see a man wearing a skirt and people don't give him hell for it doesn't mean "men wear skirts in Canada", it's not the cultural norm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 05:12 PM
1	Q4W: What do you mean by emotional intelligence? Lmao, I'm way past 40, have a gf and had multiple before that. I speak as someone that has 3 sisters and been in relationships almost all my life. I won't make generalizations about all women because I know all women aren't the dry people you see on PPD. I'm here mostly because od work down time and because it's pretty entertaining. And yes, you can find a lot of informations online, especially when people comment and say what they have in mind. I'm pretty sure you judge most men by the bs you r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 04:30 PM
1	Q4W: What do you mean by emotional intelligence? Yeah trauma dumping is whatever you feel is because I've seen women claim men trauma dump when they tell them about the loss of their dog, other about the altercation they had with their boss, others because they talk about the abuse they suffered from their nanny when they were young... it's whatever women don't feel like listening to in the moment. Whatever definition you may have will be discarted. But I get it, rules for thee not for me. Like I say, glad not everyone is like some of you. Peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 04:18 PM
0	Q4W: What do you mean by emotional intelligence? You need "peer reviewed" examples of women telling their whole day at work who she had beef with and how the woman at the shopping mall didn't offer her the right makeup color from the get go? Or that women don't tell their bf how they feel for the loss of someone, or their pets or how they feel about fail an important exam or how their last bf beat them? Which is trauma dump here? Would you tell your bf to go to therapy if he had a bad interaction with his boss and how it affected his day becau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 04:07 PM
0	Q4W: What do you mean by emotional intelligence? The thing is women say "go to therapy" and act like women going to therapy means they don't trauma dump on their bf and don't also use their bf like they're their therapists. Women absolutely use their bf as therapy and do trauma dump constantly, you expect men to be your shoulder, your confident and share your emotions but you don't accept the same from men and from your bfs. That's the bigger problem imo, you act like you don't "trauma dump" on men but you absolutely do and men take it. But be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 03:34 PM
6	Common law marriages should not exist and are legal scams and are unfair to men I'm Canadian and a lot of people, mostly men, refuse to live with their gf or with women because of that. A friend of mine even had to move out of his appartment because his roommate was a woman and after some time (yes there's a time treshold) they are declared married. Some of you just want to dismiss things without actually taking the time to understand how inconvenient it can get and people's criticisms are valid. Go touch some grass if you can't do that, you're online for too long and think…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 03:28 AM
15	Common law marriages should not exist and are legal scams and are unfair to men So it's impossible to put frauds in prison while we also put violent criminals in prison too? Like you can't do the two? Or do you want people that benefid from such fraud to be able to continue benefiting from it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 03:22 AM
4	Q4W: What do you mean by emotional intelligence? I think his response is because women demand that and while they think they also offer that they actually don't and will often hide behing "I'm not your therapist", "don't trauma dump on me", "women don't have to reciprocate anything" etc, etc... after some time, men know they should keep their emotions to themselves but are asked to be empathetic towards women that don't want to be empathetic towards men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/26 07:19 PM
1	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. You're the disingenuous one lmao. I don't think they are equal even though both are horrible. I was using rape because of the dumb assumption that men should just ask a woman to prove she won't commit a crime and failing to do so puts the onus on the man which I think is stupid just like asking a man in advance to not "stealth" you when you have sex together. But like I said multiple times before, teach women not to commit paternity fraud instead of telling men to ask them not to do it before th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/26 12:03 AM
1	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. I'm asking you, I think you already know I think it's a crime since I mentionned it multiple times in this comment chain. You are the one acting like the crime isn't as important as putting all responsibility on the victim that should know in advance a crime can be committed. Just stop and go revise your values.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 11:11 PM
1	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. Do you have a source for both claims? That 96-99% of men are the real fathers of their children and that men commit mass rape but not women? Ofc if rape is only defined by penetration with a dick you can run with this and act like it's a win... Anyway, in both cases you can't really know since not all men question their paternity and from the ones that did question it more than 30% were right to question it. Doesn't mean 30% of fathers aren't the real fathers of their children but we don't have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 03:56 AM
2	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. Men should ask women that that's for sure. Women should be taught to not be offended by the question then and be taught not to commit paternity fraud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 03:01 AM
2	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. We can agree on that. I think men as a whole should always ask this since there will be no protection against that kind of fraud. But women have and will continue to fight hard against the idea men should be able to know for sure. It'd be easier to have it at birth and to teach women not to commit paternity fraud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 02:59 AM
2	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. You act like this is the first paternity fraud discussion we had here on PPD. Women voiced their concerns over being asked that question and they mostly go against it, threatning divorce, breakup and even go as to find reasons why it shouldn't be mandatory at birth. Just teach women not to commit paternity fraud, simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 02:47 AM
2	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. Having blind trust is a key ingredient for frauders to do frauds. Another key ingredient is the perception people have in such frauds, like the more we put blame on men for being frauded and place women as victims for being asked is part of how frauders can act freely. You help them by speaking this way. Just teach women not to do paternity fraud, simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 02:44 AM
3	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. Hmm... so not for the concious action of the woman... it seems hard for you to say it but anyway. Teach women not to commit paternity fraud!	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 02:36 AM
2	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. Why do you put the onus on the man for asking or not for a paternity test? Would you think with how fierce women go against paternity testing it's pretty telling they think it shouldn't exist. It's a power they have and want to keep it. I still think we should teach women not to commit paternity fraud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 02:32 AM
4	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. Do you even think this is a crime?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 02:29 AM
3	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. And where is that mistrust coming from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 02:23 AM
2	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. Do we have systems and laws in place against deadbeat fathers? I know the systems and laws aren't perfect but it's there. How hard is it to have things to protect men against crimes women commit?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 02:21 AM
3	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. Why should men ask for paternity tests in the first place?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 02:18 AM
4	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. I'm not comparing it to rape. I'm comparing crimes perpetrated by people yet one is handled as the responsibility of the victim of such crime while the other isn't... it seems so important for you to make it a man issue but you are unwilling to say women shouldn't put men in such positions in the first place just like men shouldn't put women in a position where they'd fear for their life because men are bigger and stronger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 02:16 AM
3	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. Should they have to? Would it be that woman's fault if he says not to worry but end up doing it anyway?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 02:06 AM
3	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. Why is it necessary for men to demand a paternity test in the first place? Because women commit paternity fraud. Teach women not to do paternity fraud. Simple 😉	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 02:05 AM
5	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. Should women tell men they don't want to be SAed before going out with them? Are we applying this kind of logic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 01:58 AM
5	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. We should have an awareness campaign teaching women not to commit paternity fraud. Would you be against such campaign? It's not men's fault women commit crimes, teach women not to do it. Just like it's not women's fault men rape them, should we tell women they just should've picked men that wouldn't do that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 01:55 AM
7	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. No more hard than telling women not to do such things but apparently you guys are affraid of saying it or even suggesting it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 01:52 AM
4	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. Teach women to not commit paternity fraud then men wouldn't ask for them... no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 01:42 AM
14	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. Listen to yourself. Most women are against paternity tests because there are people like you demonizing the testing more than the actual fraud and make it look like women are victims of their own fraudulent actions. All men want is certainty of their paternity. Why make that difficult. Tell me how important and necessarity to not talk any positive about paternity fraud is? Do you realize you are protecting these crimes? That's funny imo, you are so sure you're doing the right thing, you just nev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 01:31 AM
17	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. The only bad person is the one that's committing paternity fraud and those who use emotional coercion to make you feel like a bad person for having questions. It's amazing how important it is for women to not allow men to have certainty of paternity. This should be mandatory at birth and stop all this non sense. Women that have nothing to hide shouldn't feel betrayed if it's mandatory at birth. If you are then all you want is to exercise control over your partner and have them swallow all uncert…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 01:01 AM
–	Why do women try to pathologize men/boys only spaces, when there are all kinds of female only spaces? Lol I agree that sounds weird, but I wasn't saying hang out with any kind of man. You are a good example of all the negative bs that is said about men in the last two decades. Men themselves start to hate who they are and think every statistics or portrayal of men has to be true and represent most men. The damage is real and people act like nothing is wrong 😆	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/26 06:26 AM
–	Why do women try to pathologize men/boys only spaces, when there are all kinds of female only spaces? The men you hang out with is a reflection of yourself and they don't represent "men" as a whole. Also, just because you're a man doesn't mean you can't have hatred for men. See bluepillers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/26 02:55 AM
–	Why do women try to pathologize men/boys only spaces, when there are all kinds of female only spaces? You have no idea what men do in their spaces. You're just clouded by your hatred of men, you assume if men get together they spend all their time shitting on women. I'll give you the same advise misogynists get from women like you, spend time with men, you'll see we aren't the demon you portray us as, or get off the internet a little and touch grass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/26 02:51 AM
–	Why do women try to pathologize men/boys only spaces, when there are all kinds of female only spaces? Lmao, so should men that want their specific spaces get approval from women by proving them they really only want to do fishing and not elaborate plans to enslave women? At what age should men not be allowed to have their space without your approval? 5? 10? 20?... this is ridiculous!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/26 01:17 AM
0	Women handle rejection worse then men And now I don't believe you. As much as men say too many women choose the bad boys, there's a lot of men that wouldn't stop at your personnality even if it was shitty. If it was really your personnality, it was stopping YOU, not men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 01:35 AM
1	Women handle rejection worse then men Glad you found someone to love you, hope things work out for you. And you know, just because it didn't work out with men when you tried doesn't mean no men would ever. Hope you don't have to go back into the dating scene though. Now imagine if people told you the reason you didn't find anyone was only because of your personnality or that you should consider taking a shower lmao, ignoring completely who you are but acting like no external factor can lead you to no success... I know some people be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 01:21 AM
4	Women handle rejection worse then men I'm sorry if I misunderstand you, it's possible... but I don't think men are pretending to be friends with women just to get close to them any more than women do tbh. I think men are always framed as loser when they have preferences. And often, men that have little opportunities will lower their expectations way more than men that have more options. Doesn't mean they'll accept anything. In the end, getting rejected is hurtful and I think we minimize the impact it has on men because we always ass…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 12:15 AM
7	Women handle rejection worse then men Women also add insult to men they don't value like calling men they don't find tall enough manlets for example. Women are vicious in dating, especially in the last decade, act all pompous and that their "preferences" are just preference but use them to insult men all the time. Ofc men will push back. Just like women push back when they hear men say things they find insulting. But somehow, whatever men say is taken for ridicule and or misogyny, so again, ofc you'll hear a lot of push back. Men ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 11:53 PM
14	Women handle rejection worse then men And I fully feel how it must sting that's very true. I do think women are selectors since that's what is "expected" of women in this dynamic. Men do the approach, women decide who it's going to happen with or not. But saying women will mostly succeed when they try is foolish and saying men will fuck anything is disrespectful. We're all humans and nothing is easy, no matter if you're a man or a woman, people just don't care to acknowledge the others have it hard too, just in a different way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 09:14 PM
33	Women handle rejection worse then men Most men feel the same way about rejection, but we go through rejection so much since we're young that we learn to live with it. Some are better to hide their feelings than others but the feeling you have when you are rejected is the same we have. You just don't have a culture, society, movies, and the other gender's expectation to put you in that position continually otherwise you aren't a real woman. I have rejected a few women in my life and none of them took it gracefully. One even tried to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 08:24 PM
4	male or neutral-targeted media criticized harder than female-targeted media That's mostly because all discussions or reports from the facts are shut down pretty quickly and people like you just go with what you hear the most. You'd fall for things like 60% of crimes are committed by men, feminists putting emphasis on the 60% and claim it's unacceptable, never talk about the 40% then you come along and say "you never hear women comitting crimes" while they do 40% of them (these aren't real numbers, just an example). In my Province (Quebec, Canada) every time there are wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 08:46 PM
1	Feminists In Practice Believe in the Absolute, near Invariant Moral Perfection of Women. It is a Highly Dangerous View: I don't really see women taking memes seriously. Lmao... this is too hilarious, no need to continue, you made my day!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/26 05:07 PM
1	Feminists In Practice Believe in the Absolute, near Invariant Moral Perfection of Women. It is a Highly Dangerous View: Could you accept your advice for yourself and suggest other women take it too? Would you see yourself creating a thread telling women "don't take internet comments from strangers as a personal attack on you" ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/26 04:20 PM
1	Many women have been socially programmed to be self-centered and narcissistic. This is actually funny and they see no problems with this mindset. Then will complain that men only think about themselves while in relationships... no surprises here, clowns acting like clowns.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/26 03:17 PM
1	Feminists In Practice Believe in the Absolute, near Invariant Moral Perfection of Women. It is a Highly Dangerous View: People always "see" what they think is outrageous and ignore what they don't or is not targeted at them. Women don't see the hateful comments directed at men, either because they don't think it can be hurtful (I've seen mothers with sons just realizing how everything is not all rose for men, that many services aren't favoring or even accepting men, that a lot of discussions online and irl is just condemning all men, yep the way they used to talk was also condemning their own sons, they just real…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/26 02:28 PM
-1	Q4Men: Would you truly spend a year or more with a woman with zero intention of being serious/ married? And let her think otherwise? No one is deserved marriage just because they're in a relationship. One year isn't that long and a lot can happen. You can start real great and down the line you notice small things that aren't deal breakers for a relationship but would restrain you from immediately consider marriage. Sometimes you're on the fence and need more time because of various challenges like finances, health, family and so on. In a relationship two people are responsible for communicating their needs, framing it like me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 08:11 PM
2	Women aren't as innocent as the crime stats make you believe Everyone knows men will do more damage and will be more pushy. But knowing this should mean women are angels and 90%+ of all crimes are committed by men. Like when men are wronged that's exactly what they use to tell them they shouldn't complain and that woman might've been right to wrong that man, she was just defending herself. Also the biggest problem imo is how do we expect to tackle problematic behavior if we only consider it problematic if one specific gender does it and we look the other …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/26 05:29 PM
3	Why don't men speak up more about male rights? That's not true, a lot of men do talk about men's rights and not every man is affraid of being labelled an incel. But where I side with you is how everything that's associated with men wanting to better themselves is labelled toxic, often because of some bad apples. Like there are no bad apples in any other movement. Also men's rights have to not involve women or women shouldn't feel like they will lose something (like not having all funds to them) to be "accepted". Take any reproductive rights.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/26 05:23 PM
1	Women aren't as innocent as the crime stats make you believe Op's argument is valid though. Women keep parrotting that men commit 95%+ of all crimes, and sexual misconduct citing studies that don't take into account the leaniency women have, how many countries make it impossible for women to even rape men, how men as awhole are less likely to be taken seriously (by both gender and society) when they are victimized by women so they report way less (it's slowly changin though). Instead of fighting to erradicate people's bad behavior, people (especially femi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/26 05:15 PM
2	"Some men aren't given the opportunity to show off their personality" is a victim narrative myth and a red flag. You're right, it's impressive the length some would go to push their opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/26 05:05 PM
7	"Some men aren't given the opportunity to show off their personality" is a victim narrative myth and a red flag. Maybe you don't have this ability but just because I talk about a subject doesn't mean "I am the subject". The way you speak is like "if you have a problem then you are the problem and a walking red flag"... this is weird imo. I'm pretty sure more people that likes Trump than you, would that mean you are no better than the likes of Trump? Is that your logic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 09:17 PM
11	"Some men aren't given the opportunity to show off their personality" is a victim narrative myth and a red flag. So no one wants to be around them because they’re bigots? You think bigots don't have friends? Family? People that would follow them? The US elected as president the biggest of them all. News flash, biggots are all and well, they are also defended and their hateful rhetoric justified by people that can't think for more than half a second. Are you literally the only one? Do you not know anyone on the Internet? Who’s just like you? Are you for real? So you ARE talking about birth defects. People o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 08:56 PM
16	"Some men aren't given the opportunity to show off their personality" is a victim narrative myth and a red flag. If basically no one wants to get to know you, you are the problem. That's acting like people can't be indoctrinated to hate a specific kind of people. Where I live I'm a minority and I know full well that it's possible to be perceived as a person of low value based only by your looks. Everytime I see people shit on specific physical traits it makes me think of how easy it is to discriminate people and many people will follow. When you speak like that you are siding with the discriminating people…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 07:57 PM
0	Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others. Why ofc, but so many people in this sub think like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 10:38 PM
1	Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others. I was talking about 4 billions women not the 4B movement 😆	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 10:36 PM
1	Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others. Because there's 4 billion females. Meanwhile women call out men that go abroad to see more of those 4B women lmao... stop using this as an argument. Most men don't have access to 4B women, they sadly have access to the ones in their city with their bogus mentality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 06:23 PM
0	Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others. They are just confirming that it's all about lust and money for them and they not only agree with it they participate and enforce it while claim it's not true... hypocrisy at it's finest. Granted many women aren't like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 06:18 PM
1	Fellas, is it discriminatory for women to experience attraction? Discuss Though I'm pretty sure it happens, I've never seen a man spending energy trying to destroy a woman's career because she flirted with him and he didn't reciprocate. I've seen maybe a dozen women destroy men's careers over the same thing though. Happens all the time, at least in schools it's the first thing you learn, do not try to flirt with women in the admins or the teachers, it will end bad and it did, multiple times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 12:03 AM
13	Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man. If it's something negative = Always a man If it's something positive = not all men, nuance is necessary, find ways to make women victims for not participating in said positive, women do it too, that's misogyny bla, bla, bla	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 06:53 PM
0	Its hypocritical for 🔵BP/Feminist society to be outraged at the likes of Bonnie Blue/Lily Philips or even Clavicular, since its just the end result of their own ideals (Sex Positive, Sexual Revolution, Sexual Autonomy). Damn girl, look at yourself!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 09:06 PM
1	Its hypocritical for 🔵BP/Feminist society to be outraged at the likes of Bonnie Blue/Lily Philips or even Clavicular, since its just the end result of their own ideals (Sex Positive, Sexual Revolution, Sexual Autonomy). Interesting, different sources say different things but not too surprising. It always depends who writes articles. Ofc an anti-feminist article will say there are less and less while a pro-feminist will say there are more and more... also depends from what country. The article I was reading is also from 2019 while yours points from 2019 to 2026 which is more accurate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 08:09 PM
1	Its hypocritical for 🔵BP/Feminist society to be outraged at the likes of Bonnie Blue/Lily Philips or even Clavicular, since its just the end result of their own ideals (Sex Positive, Sexual Revolution, Sexual Autonomy). Do you say thins because you know for a fact that no women or feminists have voiced their disdain for what Bonnie Blue does? Or is it just a feeling you have? Because a quick google search gives quite a lot of articles and youtube videos of exactly what OP talks about... it's just funny how confident you are that women don't talk about it. There's also a lot of feminist condemning OF... what are you guys on really?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 08:00 PM
1	Its hypocritical for 🔵BP/Feminist society to be outraged at the likes of Bonnie Blue/Lily Philips or even Clavicular, since its just the end result of their own ideals (Sex Positive, Sexual Revolution, Sexual Autonomy). This is just a feeling you have, the reality is fewer and fewer people associate with the label even if they agree with some of the goals of feminism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 07:52 PM
2	There are no blue pill influencers for men because the lies don't work Are feminists synonymous with progressives now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 06:55 PM
3	There are no blue pill influencers for men because the lies don't work Lmao, blaming everyone but oneself, ideally if it's male, is exactly how feminists operate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 06:08 PM
1	After a lot of self-reflection, I realised that men create their own problems and blaming women is counterproductive and harmful Women are half the population of a highly social creature, also heterosexuality is the most widespread and consequential activity a sexual creature has to deal with. A lot of our policies, laws, services are catered to women. Women are in every sphere of life. How exactly do you expect men to remove from everything in their life exactly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 02:37 PM
–	why does predatory behavior toward young girls continue to be such a persistent issue, with men I never got that impression... maybe that's what you want to see in them. Tbh I already hate "the wall" but never seen them implys 16yo are peak women... there may be some few extremists, like in any ideologies, but 16 and lower? Never associated that with TRP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 12:31 AM
–	why does predatory behavior toward young girls continue to be such a persistent issue, with men I've never seen redpill advocate for pedophilia. I've seen them claim men preffer women around 20y being peak but nothing about women under 18 being their goal. I understand you might hate TRP but how necessary is it for you to just lie about them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 09:59 PM
–	If You Struggle Online, Nightlife Will NOT Save You (bartender of 3 years) I think there are more types of people than giga chads. For example I don't look particularly great on pictures and I'm 5'9. On dating apps I have close to no success. If I listened to some of you I wouldn't have had the success I had/have with women. The longer I stayed single was 6 months and I don't approach women that much. Often women think I'm 5'11 or close to 6', they like how fit I am, my calm voice and my sense of humor. All these things they would never experience had they filtered me …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 08:14 PM
–	If You Struggle Online, Nightlife Will NOT Save You (bartender of 3 years) That's not unusual, some of these people think online provides the exact same experience as in real life. Some people are not really photogenic and will immediately fail online where as in real life the way they talk, move, dress and so on will have a bigger impact than only a nice profile picture on a biased dating app.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 07:36 PM
0	Life as a woman in west is so much easier SAHMs are shamed by feminists, seems cooking for your man is being a pick me, cleaning your house (which they act like it's for the man) is considered to be a pick me, some even say they don't have to have sex with their partner and their partner should be ok with it. Seems feminists are all over the place and can't make up their mind... yep bogus!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 03:30 PM
0	Life as a woman in west is so much easier Feminists are bogus imo. Why would they want to be in relationships aside from being validated? They don't cook, don't clean, don't want children, don't want to give emotional support to their partners, they don't owe their partner sex or anyone anything... why would they enter in a relationship then if it's not to feel validated? They take they don't give.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 02:51 PM
–	Panama criminalizing paternity fraud is a model for every country to follow There wouldn't be paternity fraud without cheating. If you cheated and slept with your partner and end up pregnant, it's your responsibility to tell all involved partners of your intention to bring a child to life. Failing to do so means you entertain the possibility you'd have to lie to all partners, that's malicious intent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 06:01 AM
–	Panama criminalizing paternity fraud is a model for every country to follow No one is ok with these situations. It's like you kill all hope people have then expect them to just be ok with it. That's not how emotions work. You say you care about the wellbeing of the child but do you think that child loses nothing when this lie is revealed? You think that child would be indiferent to such news? I think all you care about is fighting the idea a woman would face repercussion for her lie and to you it's a "win for men" and it clouds your judgement. It's not a win for men any…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 05:56 AM
2	The Red Pill's greatest appeal is that it offers immediate individual agency rather than long-term societal change Well I think the same of you when I read your posts. I get what you feel, really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 05:48 AM
–	Panama criminalizing paternity fraud is a model for every country to follow If the man she cheated with is aware then he is complicit yes and should definetely face repercussions. I'm not anti women, like you are anti men. I hate paternity fraud and only the one that decides to bring a child to life is responsible. There can also be coercion where she's threatned to still bring the child and tell a lie. In this case she is a victim and shouldn't face repercussions, only those that coerced her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 05:47 AM
–	Panama criminalizing paternity fraud is a model for every country to follow Protecting cheating and birth a child without telling your partner you cheated is malicious intent. What do you think would happen if the woman told her partner she cheated and plan on keeping the child? She would fear her partner leave her so she kept the lie alive... that's malicious intent. She needs to say it right away imo. Also, it's weird that your solution to stop paternity fraud is to tell men to be abstinent instead of saying women shouldn't be committing paternity fraud. It's like you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 05:42 AM
–	Panama criminalizing paternity fraud is a model for every country to follow The child is the real victim but so are all involved people, the frauded father, the immediate family and so on. It's a big lie that can result in families broken, some end up in jail for kids that weren't theirs, some pay uears of child support for kids that weren't theirs, people killing themselves and/or others. Sometimes nothing happens, the lie is held tight nobody but the fraudulent mother knows. Sometimes truth is revealed but the frauded father still accepts the child as his own. Why wou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 05:35 AM
–	Panama criminalizing paternity fraud is a model for every country to follow Whenever men have sex they know it can end up in pregnancy. If the pregnancy leads to an actual child then it's the woman's decision. Her body, her choice, no uterus then your opinion doesn't matter, remember? Women know what they are doing, they just don't want to be held responsible if things go south.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 05:29 AM
–	Panama criminalizing paternity fraud is a model for every country to follow Why don't you spend that much energy to say yes women shouldn't commit paternity fraud. How hard is it? After all, it's her body, her choice, she decided to create this mess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 05:24 AM
–	Panama criminalizing paternity fraud is a model for every country to follow The frauded parent might have practiced abstinence, that's how paternity fraud is committed... I get that you just want men to suck it up but I don't know if you guys understand how paternity fraud is committed because some of your logic makes no sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 05:19 AM
–	Panama criminalizing paternity fraud is a model for every country to follow You assume the bio dad knew she was taken or that their adventure would lead to her proceeding to birth the child. Imo if he knew then yes he's a shitty partner, if he didn't then he's no different than women who end up sleeping with men that failed to tell them they were married or in a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 04:58 AM
1	The Red Pill's greatest appeal is that it offers immediate individual agency rather than long-term societal change Listen to yourself acting superior while thinking you're not acting superior... tell me more of how not superior you think of yourself... yep, this is hilarious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 04:50 AM
2	The Red Pill's greatest appeal is that it offers immediate individual agency rather than long-term societal change I see you think your hatred for redpill allows you to just act superior to anyone not like you... this is hilarious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 08:55 PM
3	The Red Pill's greatest appeal is that it offers immediate individual agency rather than long-term societal change Addressing a problem doesn't always mean figuring it out yourself. There's therapy and even beyond therapy, you can ask your friends, not those who think "anyone not like me is useless", those people, friend or not, should be avoided.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 08:54 PM
3	The Red Pill's greatest appeal is that it offers immediate individual agency rather than long-term societal change they’re beyond help How do you know? You don't help them or you think so low of them I don't think any teaching from you would help them anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 08:51 PM
2	The Red Pill's greatest appeal is that it offers immediate individual agency rather than long-term societal change Granted not everyone thinks like that. I rather help people than put more expectations on their shoulders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 08:46 PM
3	The Red Pill's greatest appeal is that it offers immediate individual agency rather than long-term societal change The redpill isn't the be all end all tbh, I'm mostly against the idea we shouldn't teach social skills to grown men since "they should figure things out themselves". As a teacher I've seen people change who they are because they weren't constantly isolated in their parents basements. We don't all have the same upbrigning and I understand some peopleend up with a different outcome. Expecting everyone to just do it or bust is weird imo. I rather help if I can.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 08:32 PM
3	The Red Pill's greatest appeal is that it offers immediate individual agency rather than long-term societal change All praise the great great Babylon	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 08:26 PM
2	The Red Pill's greatest appeal is that it offers immediate individual agency rather than long-term societal change Just proves you know very little	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 08:21 PM
3	The Red Pill's greatest appeal is that it offers immediate individual agency rather than long-term societal change If he wants to be seen as a competent adult, very very very important. That can only be seen as an end result. Whether they got help or not you wouldn't know unless they tell you. This is also an example of why men shouldn't tell women too much and just act like they always knew and are in control. I also think acting this way can lead to toxic behavior, but hey, that's what women want is it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 08:10 PM
2	The Red Pill's greatest appeal is that it offers immediate individual agency rather than long-term societal change In my career as a teacher in higher education I have met many grown men above 20 who were socially ackward and didn't have much success with many things, women and jobs to name a few. Calling them autistic just because they grew up different is speaking from a privilege tower. Most of the time, after the two years at school, socializing and doing group projects a lot of them develop better social skills, even the real autistic ones. People that think you can't teach social skills or that you sho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 08:03 PM
1	The Red Pill's greatest appeal is that it offers immediate individual agency rather than long-term societal change Would you apply that logic to most things? Figure things out yourself? Most people, that includes women, have parents tell them a lot of things about life, ofc some things can't be taught, experience will do the teaching, but I don't think acting like nothing can be taught about dating is weird imo. I received dating advices from my older brother and father. Granted I had them, I wouldn't act like every man has/had that chance, I understand not everyone has the same upbrigning. You don't want to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 07:54 PM
3	The Red Pill's greatest appeal is that it offers immediate individual agency rather than long-term societal change How important is it to figure things out oneself? Are you against general teachings or just against teaching men how to navigate the dating scene?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 07:07 PM
0	Passport broing should unironically be illegal Somewhat true. I'm not scared of gold diggers since I don't earn enough to attract them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 09:31 PM
5	Passport broing should unironically be illegal This is choice in abundance vs choice in scarcity and it's a real thing. It applies to many things but most people refuse to believe it greatly influences our choices. Women in poverty may accept to go with a man that is viewed as an uninteresting partner in a richer country. Her options aren't as diverse as a Western woman that would look down at the very same man because she has way more options. Same applies to men and to many other things, marketing knows this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 07:53 PM
12	Passport broing should unironically be illegal Economic desperation looks also like "men should make more than me" and gold diggers wich is also rampant in the West. Should these women's dating choices also be illegal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 07:43 PM
0	Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equally It's impressive to me how people have no idea what accountability means really. It's basically acknowledgement of fault. But that would mean looking inward and most people are heavily invested in blaming others or some entity instead of considering they played a part in their misfortune.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 02:31 PM
2	No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity test Are you saying people, that includes women, should know when their partner is unfaithful? You suggest therapy for someone thinking their partner might be unfaithful instead of addressing it? Dang am I glad my partner doesn't have this kind of logic. We both talk a lot and sometimes it's about a misconception one might have. Suggesting therapy because someone wants to be reassured about something is kinda wild imo. I'd dare you to create a thread saying exactly that to both men and women. You und…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 06:57 PM
3	No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity test What you're saying is if your partner has a concern about something then it's not your duty nor your problem to address that concern and you should just leave. This is exactly why communication is falling appart. A good partner, they do exist but not you, would address and try to see how they both can fix the problem. Should men do the same when their female partners have an insecurity? Would you say women never have any insecurities, even if they're not necessarily rooted in anything that is re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 04:54 PM
1	No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity test The funny part is acting like everything you don't experience doesn't exist and if social media tells me something then I should abide by it as long as it goes with the narrative you like. Maybe you should stop reading and believing exclusively what you read on the internet. There's a real world out there and yeah, not everything is all simple and rose tinted. Women are people, and people have insecurities, people lie, people cheat and because of that people take measures and do actions that bes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 02:30 PM
25	What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience? I think the real reason it didn't happen yet is because for women to be liberated, men had to let go a lot of women's gender roles provided. For men to be liberated, women have to also lose a lot of benefits men's gendered roles provide. Now I have never seen feminists address women in a way to tell them that men's gender roles are bad and encourage women to adapt to the new reality. I have never seen it suggested, all feminism does is say things like "gender roles are bad" but will explicitly t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 12:29 PM
-9	No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity test The longevity of your marriage isn't a flex if all he had to do was not question you and always agree with your bs. The second men stand up for themselves then women act like they are the only ones having to bend on their ego and won't hesitate to just break everything. "Happy wife, happy life"! If your husband had that insecurity you wouldn't try to reassure him about something this important, meanwhile women dream of their man cheating on them and the man has to step up and prove them they did…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 12:19 PM
1	Real issues get dismissed as hate because people are biased Is that really whataboutism? Aren't all men supporters of Patriarchy that gives them privilege? Feminists spent the last 15 years saying men are this, men are that and laugh when men try to tell them it's a minority that is privileged... but hey we can't point to it now? Why ofc, why would I think otherwise!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 11:02 PM
5	Asking men to support feminism is peak audacity: Feminists in Australia lobbied to have suicidal men insta-flagged as potential woman abusers when they reach out to authorities for help Brave of you to think most people have seen it. Just because it's "public" doesn't mean most people have seen it. Another way to just brush something that shouldn't have passed. It's like, well abortion ban was showed to the public and people still voted for it then it must be valid. Draft policies have been shown to the public then people must agree with them... lmao!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 07:05 PM
3	Real issues get dismissed as hate because people are biased You are hyerfocusing on the outliers to justify hatred of the whole. Now that's rich, feminism has built their whole ideology on this mantra lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 05:41 PM
5	JP Morgan executive suing for defamation will have chilling effect on male victims. Exactly what I think and people are falling for it. Get the popcorn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 02:03 PM
1	Where is it ok to "cold approach" woman? You can easily find online comments, even here on ppd about women just going in nightclubs to have fun with friends, dancing and not to be bothered by men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 04:13 AM
0	Where is it ok to "cold approach" woman? Very not true. dating apps place all your chances on your pictures. In real life you have so much more to play with than solely an "edited" image of yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 07:54 PM
-1	Where is it ok to "cold approach" woman? You shouldn't listen to women online. Yesterday I went in a club with my gf, something I hadn't done in years. There was two guys with us. My gf got approached by multiple men even while I was with her. I was also approached by some women, many were way older too. The two guys we were with wanted to meet women and guess what, that's exactly what happened. We met a few people, went to eat after clubbing, they came with us. Both managed to talked to girls and one of them even kissed one girl. The …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 07:49 PM
7	Where is it ok to "cold approach" woman? Dating apps where they can filter by personnality (your picture)	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 07:44 PM
4	The idea that men shouldn’t approach women is dying out in the mainstream "-- Feminism was supposed to create an alternative by encouraging women to approach men more often, or by replacing the old system with something that worked just as well --" I don't know where you heard that but feminism was never going to do that, on the contrary they've been very vocal that men are trash, women don't need men, marriage is harmful to women, men should learn to be single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 09:18 PM
2	What are red flags in men that women commonly miss? Well it's either they do miss them because these men are always paired up. Or these women accept this behavior that you can see mostly when they are with their gf.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 05:53 PM
28	What are red flags in men that women commonly miss? Wanting to throw hands with other men for the smallest things, especially while under the influence of alcohol. I've seen many men act "protective" while walking on the sidewalk with their gf by bumping any men walking the other direction. Like, this kind of behavior requires a hateful mentality and when things don't go his way, his punches are rated E for Everyone, that includes his gf.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 05:02 PM
1	How do you get women to understand they need to be more feminine? This is bait	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 06:51 AM
23	The manosphere thrives because society has failed to provide an alternative. Ohh yeah the classic "have you considered taking a shower" as a dating advice. You are basically part of the reason the manosphere is thriving and you are the subject op talks about... pretty hilarious, keep it up champ.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 08:36 PM
5	Why are women so interested in fictional romance while being blatantly adverse to most real life romance? No man wants to go to war or be dropped on an Alien infested planet yet they are very popular among men. It's fiction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 05:01 PM
–	Do men get crushes on older women? Yeah my current gf is older than me, I'm over 40yo. Met her while giving a conference on AI and teaching. She was part of the people doing lectures and we've been together almost a year now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 04:57 PM
5	Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeableness Just buy a dog	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 01:37 PM
1	What unique value do you think men provide to society, that can't be provided by women? You equate men with overweight incels now? Just stop being an incel and go to the gym then...	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 05:59 PM
2	Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective? Kinda agree with this though, I stand corrected. I still believe there's a lot of push back against the idea women aren't angels and it's just pushing the women are wonderful to new heights. It's enforced to a point where bad behavior is excused and even blamed on men and there are very vocal people that make sure you stay on that lane. As a heterosexual I'll always be attracted to women, I'll always like women but I don't think all women are good nor wonderful people. I think it's possible to w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 05:49 PM
1	Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective? The bias is learned it's not inherent. A lot of men and even some nations don't have this by default which means it's a learned thing. I mean, I love women as much as most people but loving women and wanting them to have equal opportunities and rights doesn't associate with "women can do no wrong". I have sisters wich I love deeply. But they themselves admit they aren't flawless and they actually like they have brothers to call them out on their bs. And that is only possible because we respect e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 05:17 PM
1	Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective? This is just broad desire of MRAs to remove pedestal/women are wonderful. Which is a tough case, since this is a deeply ingrained bias we're all wired with from birth. Should any problem men have remain as is in order to not think they want to remove women's rights? Like if we spent a little more awareness in places that disadvantage men then it means we want women to be worse off? I don't think so. This is just a way to dismiss these problems and make sure no funds is directed towards reducing …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 04:42 PM
4	Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective? Most of what MRA seem to want is more scrutiny in family courts, less use of things like duluth models, more funds thrown in social helps for men to prevent suicide, homelessness and parental rights. More recognition for men who put their lives on the forefront in dangerous jobs and security, more safety nets for those who did thtose jobs in case of injury, a better representation of statistics about abuse so abused men get the needed help and less dismissal and/or shaming. More help for men in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 03:33 PM
4	Feminists could do well, if they develop humility There are countless feminist subreddits, facebook pages and so on. If someone wants to delve into feminism and not the hateful or dismissive of anything male related parts. Since you seems very knowledgeable, can you point where someone should go? Give a link. Because most of them are hateful and have a superiority and a victim complex. Most of them don't even want to acknowledge women, even feminists themselves, enforce and support a lot of what they hate about patriarchy. Where would someone g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 02:49 PM
1	A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical. In this hypothetical there are a lot of factors that would make things different than how they are right now. One of those factors is choice in abondance vs choice in scarcity. Another one is proximity influence. Some of you may believe women and men are perfectly fine being alone but that's only because you can spend all your time on internet, you can watch porn, you can drive yourself to places that are secure, you get buying power through money and most societies are safe from dangers like na…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 02:11 PM
1	Why doesn't accurate information bring women more comfort Lmao it's not common at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 08:32 PM
4	Why doesn't accurate information bring women more comfort Victimization is what they're after, not actual information. Giving actual truth doesn't grant them that victimization so ofc they don't like it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 07:37 PM
2	Lying and being manipulative to get a girl or keep a girl is bad and will screw you over Women participate in hookup culture just as much as men and even encourage it. People should stop acting like women aren't actively participating in the bs of our society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 11:29 PM
2	Lying and being manipulative to get a girl or keep a girl is bad and will screw you over That'd be great... but looking at how people go today, hookup culture, the selfishness, me, myself and what you can give me what "I deserve" while I owe you nothing, there's no way we can fix any of our cultural woes with only a few catch phrases.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 08:29 PM
2	Lying and being manipulative to get a girl or keep a girl is bad and will screw you over I wouldn't say "luckily" though. We remain human and we're still a social creature. Just because we found a way to replace human connection with machines and softwares doesn't mean we function socially. The more we push technology, the more we don't try to fix our social problems, the further appart we get from one another, we frame it as a good thing, meanwhile people's mental health is constantly challenged. But hey, at least we have social media to vent, dating apps to not meet real people an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 08:12 PM
3	Lying and being manipulative to get a girl or keep a girl is bad and will screw you over Lots of people willingly engage in relationships with people they don't necessarily like and it's not a gendered thing. To many people, if their partner fills their most important criteria then they'll endure the rest. Some it's beauty, some it's sex, some is status, some is money, some is because they can't be alone etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 07:01 PM
4	If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more. I think you should be the one reviewing your history lessons. A lot of shit that happened happened because of some loser men not seeing a future for themselves be it financially or romantically (more family like back then compared to today where we only value hooking up). These men are easily manipulated by some other idiot telling them who or what is the source of their misery. The real problem imo is instead of learning from those time, we double down on the bs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/26 12:49 AM
0	If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more. Women have never been the ones to deal and fix these kind of problems, even when they create them, you shouldn't expect them to now. Most problems have been solved by men especially those men created themselves. Asking for women's help is a dead end. Some that have a heart will, but others, nahh, especially if they are feminists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 10:55 PM
2	Most of women's dating issues are due to the fact that they are all chasing the same top 5% of men. Change my mind. They actually don't, GenZ is having way less sex and relationship than other generations, by a wide margin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 02:34 AM
4	Most of women's dating issues are due to the fact that they are all chasing the same top 5% of men. Change my mind. I don't think this is true. I think we culturally shifted dating from in person meeting and learning who people are to almost exclusively online dating. Women feel safer to reject people online and they're right imo but it also clouds their judgement since they now have way more options and all these options are easy to just brush off. Add the countless "dating strategy" bs they are fed by some bitter women, the ick trends and so on, they become picky and feel like men must always be the problem…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/26 11:52 PM
8	It is infantilizing to women to say that women who have drunk alcohol cannot consent to sex, while nothing is said about men who drank alcohol There was a lot of similar posters in schools here, also workshops and all awareness programs, I know I fought against it when I was teaching in secondary grade. Were you here, working with us all this time and you never saw the same kind of posters, never attended any mandatory workshop about consent? Lmao!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/26 07:13 PM
1	It is infantilizing to women to say that women who have drunk alcohol cannot consent to sex, while nothing is said about men who drank alcohol Some people have been wrongly imprisonned (beaten and even executed) for crimes they didn't commit, crimes like murder, robbery, fraud and so on which can be proven with proper investigation yet it didn't prevent some people from abusing the system for people they did not like. How would you protect such abuse for a crime that is not easily proven even with proper investigation, especially when some people want tokeep the accuser hidden or not have to give testimony? How would you protect people…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/26 07:08 PM
7	It is infantilizing to women to say that women who have drunk alcohol cannot consent to sex, while nothing is said about men who drank alcohol That is not true, that kind of poster was almost everywhere, not specifically this one but posters with similar messaging. A few other teachers and I had to fight against this rhetoric that always puts the man in the shoes of the aggrssor and women in the shoes of the helpless victims. We had to fight the administration, some teachers and feminists organizations that were in charge of the workshops, posters and all awareness programs that painted this bs and always frame it this way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/26 06:58 PM
-1	A vast chunk of pro-women takes on Reddit are actually just benevolent sexism. and vice versa This is where most of these discussions stop or outright deny it's necessity. Everyone knows when both partners are treated well things can go well. But most discussions go around how men can be better partners but very rarely it goes on to how women can be better partners as well. Some even think it's misogyny to suggest women should do anything to please their partners. treating women respectfully as an equal partner also made themselves happy As it should.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/26 01:08 PM
3	A vast chunk of pro-women takes on Reddit are actually just benevolent sexism. Imo his point is the discussions that are prowomen, not that they should apply to all women. I'd add that most prowomen discussion removes agency from women are often happy wife happy life in disguise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/26 04:54 PM
2	Work on yourself is useless advice Working on yourself can mean many things and it's never a bad idea to entertain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/26 03:26 PM
1	The fact that "No you're still centering men!" is such a common feminist response to extreme, intentionally misandrist rants by more radical feminists is a good item of evidence of how ingrained misandry is in feminism overall I think the idea that dismantling patriarchy will fix everything is the main problem with feminism imo. It acts like how religious people think getting rid of the devil will fix everyone's ills. People are influenced by a myriad of things happening in their lives and patriarchy isn't responsible for every things that happen in life. It's basically removing all agency from people and acting like everyone is a puppet. For example, if we got rid of patriarchy, women would still give birth, they'd s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 10:07 PM
6	Putting in less effort in attracting women actually works. If you look desperate or are trying too hard ofc it won't work. People should always work on themselves for themselves. Women often look best when they're not trying, men often look best when they are not trying too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 01:09 PM
3	The fact that "No you're still centering men!" is such a common feminist response to extreme, intentionally misandrist rants by more radical feminists is a good item of evidence of how ingrained misandry is in feminism overall i think an important thing to note is that not all women are feminist are therefore not participating in feminist thinking. claim to be feminist but don’t practice what they preach. I'm sorry but feminism nor feminists are perfect and they live and grew up with the same cultural influence "non-true-feminists" grew up on. Stop acting like feminists don't uphold the same beliefs, they do, they often push it through policies, articles, tv shows, online content and comments. A lot of what women beli…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 05:32 PM
2	The fact that "No you're still centering men!" is such a common feminist response to extreme, intentionally misandrist rants by more radical feminists is a good item of evidence of how ingrained misandry is in feminism overall "issues and half of the reason i identify as a feminist is to help men with their struggles which are in part due to rigid gender roles and hierarchies." Imo saying this is to help men is dishonest. Feminism and their followers do nothing to actually help men. The way this "help" seems to work is only by proxy of helping women first and it doesn't even work most of the time, often it makes things worse. This is "happy wife happy life" in disguise of "helping men". When feminists and their follow…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 03:47 PM
2	It’s not that women don’t understand dating is hard for men. Is that men don’t understand they make dating hard for themselves.. It's an attitude, it's not a type of woman. Just like a jackass is an attitude. A Jackass can be 10/10 and please a woman that doesn't isn't known to be insuffereable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 08:42 PM
3	It’s not that women don’t understand dating is hard for men. Is that men don’t understand they make dating hard for themselves.. That you don't know. The problem is online discourse make it look like women absolutely want a specific type of man but women are all different and spending time with women often leads to something, even if unexpected. This Chad Tyrone discourse is harmful. Men are told they need to look like them to be considered and women are told they should only accept these types. Same for men that think they should only go for mannequin type women... like most women aren't that good looking. Trying to fram…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 08:14 PM
3	It’s not that women don’t understand dating is hard for men. Is that men don’t understand they make dating hard for themselves.. Ofc it's on a case by case basis, no man can please all women. I also think meeting people in person is still the best way to know people. Online has a weird way to filter people and it's way easier because online discourse is easily editable and your looks does all the leverage. In person there are multiple things you are that can make you appear more handsome than you actually are like how you stand, your voice, the way you talk and so on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 06:56 PM
6	It’s not that women don’t understand dating is hard for men. Is that men don’t understand they make dating hard for themselves.. Men aren't the ones telling women their attitude won't get them dates and act like their prettyness isn't dictating most of their outcome. Men will tell you women's attitude will not retain men or it will attract the "wrong" men, in all scenarios, women will attract men (most of the time but not always ofc) but the kind of men they'll attract will be based on multiple factors. The same applies to men to some extend, but women are more picky and looks plays a bigger role than attitude and even yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 05:31 PM
2	It’s not that women don’t understand dating is hard for men. Is that men don’t understand they make dating hard for themselves.. It's because most men (not the blue pilled ones) know "bad behavior" means very little in dating. When women say it's because of your bad behavior, ofc a lot will not believe or just ignore you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 05:16 PM
9	It’s not that women don’t understand dating is hard for men. Is that men don’t understand they make dating hard for themselves.. You act like women can detect bad behavior from comments on internet? Dude, women can't even detect bad behavior when it's right in front of them. They all act surprised when that man was abusive. They also do ignore some of the bad behavior, why would that be?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 05:09 PM
15	It’s not that women don’t understand dating is hard for men. Is that men don’t understand they make dating hard for themselves.. Now, now, someone will come and say "All the ugly and autistic men I know are having lots of dates with women, it's your attitude that is the problem!".	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 04:35 PM
–	Women don't really view men as human beings in romantic contexts Thank you, the sentiment is reciprocated. We're all humans and I'm pretty sure in real life most people here are more friendly than they display on social media just to "win" debates or appear tough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 01:31 PM
0	Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to women How so? It only gives men a chance to signal the woman they aren't gonna be there if they decide to continue the pregnancy. And women can at least make this decision knowing the man doesn't want it since it's her choice to keep it or abort it. Women can still use contraception, can still abort, can still decide to bring the child to life, can even abandon it to a safe heaven... but giving men an option to opt out is controlling... like I said to another poster, you have some control revenge kink…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 01:39 AM
6	Women don't really view men as human beings in romantic contexts I actually don't like when people are cursing a lot, especially not the girl I'm dating. I don't really use curse language myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 10:38 PM
2	Most women aren’t looking for a provider they’re looking for a teammate Wasn't the question about getting laid?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 08:10 PM
3	Do Women Understand How They Help Power Red Pill/Manosphere Content? I'm sorry for what happened to you. We shouln't encourage villinaization of anyone whether they are men or women. Also the way you express yourself, even if it's respectful doesn't necessarily represent all women's way of expressing themselves and the men you don't like online all don't operate in the same way. If you find men online don't have valid grievance, it's ok to accept these men don't find women's grievance valide either. In all cases, it doesn't mean your grievance isn't valid and doe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 07:17 PM
2	Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to women Call it however you want if it helps you sleep lmao. Women already have countless options to not have or take care of the child they created WITH men. Men have none and wanting to have one is suddenly a problem... so if you want to say someone that wants option in not having a kid avoids responsibility then just apply it to both since both made the decision to create it but only women make the decision to bring it to life...	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 05:36 PM
2	Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to women I do understand you last point and it makes sense, I've seen it multiple times and it biologically makes sense a woman wants to protect her pregnancy. But in today's landscape there are, just in Canada alone more than 100k abortions every year, women are already making the financial and biological decision to abort. I absolutely don't mind if women have the exact paper abortion option as men would. It's just weird to frame it like this since women already have that option through safe heavens an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 05:09 PM
7	Do Women Understand How They Help Power Red Pill/Manosphere Content? You say one is less legitimate, why is that? Because you don't live the life of these men? Women constantly talk about how they feel and we should validate their feelings. But somehow we should just brush these men's feelings? How would you expect men to accept your feelings if you can't even accept theirs?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 04:53 PM
0	Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to women I think you just want some control over men for some revenge kink or something. Women should have the right to let go their birthed child and currently they do through multiple services like safe heaven and adoption centers. The only way for a man to "dump their baby" is if the woman they slept with made the decision to continue with the pregnancy, it was still her decision and only hers. Having unprotected sex is something they both decided and she made a second decision by not aborting it. If …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 04:44 PM
0	Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to women Men have no decision power regarding whether a pregnancy results in a child or not, that's solely a woman decision power. And you still have time to decide, over here, they still accept abortions upt to 5 months. In all those 5 months you make the decision to have a baby or not regardless of what the man wants... I don't get your point tbh!	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 04:28 PM
3	Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to women 100%. Men should always pay for abortions imo and all the necessary medication if required. Even compensate for the days of work that were lost due to potential complications of the abortion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 04:09 PM
2	Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to women You still decide whether the baby will be born or not. Ofc abortion should be legal where paper abortion exist and it should be made as convenient for the woman as possible. But ultimately, getting pregnant doesn't mean you will have a baby next week. Women already have a plethora of options and can still give the child to adoption if for some reason they decided to continue with the pregnancy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 04:02 PM
7	Do Women Understand How They Help Power Red Pill/Manosphere Content? Good, slowly people will realize that a tiny fraction of a group doesn't and shouldn't represent the whole group. People that fail to realize that do it intentionaly and only to get their way and push their agendas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 03:47 PM
13	Do Women Understand How They Help Power Red Pill/Manosphere Content? Everyone polices men whether they believe in patriarchy or not. Both men and women are being told constantly how to behave, women are slowly able to exit their imposed traditional roles to be who they want to be and still hold value to both men and society. That hasn't happened to men though and make no mistake, women do police men into their traditional roles as much as society does since a man not filling his traditional role suddenly becomes less attractive to most women and society has not b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 03:43 PM
1	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys Have you heard of Canada? Lmao!	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 03:29 AM
2	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys Please, show me where and who thinks forcing children to birth is ok!!! I've never seen it accepted as much as vasectomies are easily reversible. The only people I've seen advocating for child birth are some religious pro life zealots as even most pro life think there should be exceptions for child pregnancy or rape... you shouldn't act like people in general think this is ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 03:27 AM
1	Men aren't more critical of women ,we are just treating you equally and you don't like it Your work environment seem more relaxed than mine. I plan on leaving that school at the end of this year. It's gone to shit for the past 2y.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 03:22 AM
2	Men aren't more critical of women ,we are just treating you equally and you don't like it Both our experience is true, but yeah it happens from time to time. Just as an example, in one year our administration has fired 8 people, hired 12, and the average time for a coordinator is less than 7 months. We have a higher director which is a man but almost all admin level are women. Lots of crying. I don't think it's a circus because of the women there, I think some of the people managing that school and at the education bureau are toxic and these people have protected positions. They bull…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 03:19 AM
2	Men aren't more critical of women ,we are just treating you equally and you don't like it I'm an instructor, I also do lectures.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 12:37 AM
9	Men aren't more critical of women ,we are just treating you equally and you don't like it Come work in higher education... you'll see a lot of people crying. Students, administration and teachers... it's a circus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 11:14 PM
2	Men aren't more critical of women ,we are just treating you equally and you don't like it I second this. I work in higher education and all teachers know that you can't talk to women the same way you talk to men, failing to understand this can get you in deep trouble and I've seen multiple firing in 10y.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 11:12 PM
1	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys That wasn't my question but giving one some freedom while not giving it to the other isn't something I approve and hope will change. Here if you are a married man you can't get a vasectomy without your wife approval. Women can get their tubes tied at any age but apparently doctors can refuse for whatever reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 10:36 PM
0	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys So two kids at 8 months are vastly different because one was birthed and one is in an incubator?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 09:34 PM
-1	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys Are 7-8months premature kids unborn if they aren't in their mother's womb? Is a kid in an incubator unborn? Even if they stay until 12 months? Why could we call a 8month premature kid a child but if it's insude a womb it's not? What's the actual difference here? Disclaimer, I'm pro choice and absolutely think abortion should always be available to women and we should continue research to make them less painful and problematic, same as contraception for both genders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 08:09 PM
1	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys Just a few questions, did you want children of your own or were they all accidents? If you wanted them, would you have married your husband if he told you he got a vasectomy in his younger years and now can't easily have kids? Is that the reality we want for our society?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 08:03 PM
2	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys Imo as long as "you should always consider a vasectomy permanent past 5-10y" always comes with telling someone they should/could get one then I see no problem. But that's not what most people do. They always say "it's easily reversible" which is false past a certain amount of year. I don't understand why people need to tell men they should get one "it's easily reversible" instead of telling the truth about them? What's the end goal exactly? Especially men that already had kids tell that to young…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 07:55 PM
-2	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys The way you speak is like someone that actually knows vasectomies lead to sterilization, far from the usual, "it's easily reversible" bs parrotted here and there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 07:43 PM
-4	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys You have no proof the subject is always discussed in a joking manner. It was heavily discussed before the abortion thing in the US and many people today still act like it's easily reversible, so ofc some would come up with dumb ideas like forcing it on young male...	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 05:32 PM
-5	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys So we should wait until things happen before thinking we shouldn't let things go there? Like when they talked about removing abortion rights we shouldn't have any concern about the idea because it didn't happen yet? Are you part of these people that think prevention isn't a thing? Just say it then!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 05:18 PM
4	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys I think the idea of forcing vasectomies on young men is getting traction mostly because a lot of women and feminists keep parroting the idea that vasectomies are easily reversible, easy peasy with little consequences. I see it claimed and proposed constantly even here on reddit and on this very sub. You may be saying it the way you claim, but many are actually serious about it and care very little about the consequences this could have since they should be considered permanent after even 5y. So …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 05:08 PM
1	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys Wasn't the like of Andrew Tate only one man yet we acted like he was every man...	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 04:56 PM
3	Men need to let go of the need to constantly defend women whenever they are criticised. So you agree that feminists have a need to criticize an entire gender and are the ones with a problem... aside from the idea men and women should be equal, I rarely agree with feminists but here we are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 12:14 PM
1	Men need to let go of the need to constantly defend women whenever they are criticised. Or maybe you're a feminist?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 11:57 AM
5	Men need to let go of the need to constantly defend women whenever they are criticised. This is the same as when women and feminists say "men" instead of adding "some, a few, too many" and then complain about the "not all men"... glad people are slowly realizing these generalizations are stupid. Sad that it took men to start using the same language against them...	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 11:54 AM
1	From wehre did you get all your information? Most women don't even identify as feminists, most by choice. Women also don't operate on a single criteria to choose their partner, they aren't all the same. Singleparenthood is on the rise (at least here in Canada) lead by mothers. So I'd think if women were really dating men who are good parents this stat wouldn't rise year over year... https://www.statista.com/statistics/443342/single-parent-families-in-canada/?srsltid=AfmBOoouOJUseHbSNNfan0QzlFoN2kNoUkO2YxcyRwqWHUbtEk36Jn7l	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 11:00 PM
3	Concept of Manosphere is intellectually dishonest and manipulative Ok... should we lump feminists, choice feminists and terf together? Aren't they all feminists, and can we judge feminism based solely on the most unhinged takes from the worst of them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 08:39 PM
5	Concept of Manosphere is intellectually dishonest and manipulative Are you saying multiple people talking about a common subject shouldn't be lumped together as the same kind of people? Shocker!... Seems like this is exactly what op is talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 07:39 PM
3	Concept of Manosphere is intellectually dishonest and manipulative Aren't they all advocating for women's interest and wellbeing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 05:13 PM
7	Men have so it so easy Dang we are graced with a top 1% here on Reddit...	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 04:56 PM
–	I genuinely think men’s preferences and standards are shamed And no woman has told me I had a small dick so surely no woman ever made fun of men's dicks, I've never been told I was short by women, maybe once though I'm not 6' so no woman ever called a man a manlet. The women I know would never call me an incel so surely they don't call random men incel or any other insults or slurs lmao...	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 02:20 AM
6	Bad men should be unselected. This Responsibility Falls Mostly on Women. The Freedom of Sexual Selectors and Responsibility. Treating these adults as toddlers... that fits perfectly imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 02:09 AM
–	Do you feel like a lot of women’s tests are rigged? women's tests are always rigged, but not always intentional and often rigged against their own best interest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 01:25 AM
4	I genuinely think men’s preferences and standards are shamed Ohh you again... funny as usual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 01:15 AM
–	I genuinely think men’s preferences and standards are shamed You think this sub is representing all humans behavior?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 12:45 AM
–	I genuinely think men’s preferences and standards are shamed Ofc you haven't...	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 12:25 AM
–	I genuinely think men’s preferences and standards are shamed Men are trying to do the same women do, constant shaming the men they don't want for all superficial reasons in the book. Tbh it'd be beneficial for our society if we stopped doing that and I mean both men and women, and women should stop acting like what men say to them is offensive but what they say to men isn't or men are just "insecure"... all that bs fuels hatred and it's working...	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 12:11 AM
–	I genuinely think men’s preferences and standards are shamed I think people voicing their preferences out loud is the problem imo. It makes people uncomfortable and it's unnecessary. Men should keep their preferences to themselves... I think women should also stop trying to demonize men they don't find romantically appealing, they look childing everytime they say short men are subhuman. And tbh, you shouldn't take anything feminists say seriously, especially if they talk about men, they're hate filled anyways, stay away from them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/26 10:53 PM
–	Women use chores to avoid submitting to men Just stop with this submission bullshit. Women don't have to submit to you to be a loving partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/26 09:13 PM
2	Bad men should be unselected. This Responsibility Falls Mostly on Women. The Freedom of Sexual Selectors and Responsibility. Hundred percent, it's not common but internet discourse is very good at enflating uncommon behavior and act like all men do this, all women do that... I think people are getting dumber and dumber with such discourse...	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/26 07:34 PM
3	Bad men should be unselected. This Responsibility Falls Mostly on Women. The Freedom of Sexual Selectors and Responsibility. I think he means years of bad treatment and abuse. We often hear women say they don't want an abusive man, bad attitude, non romantic, poor hygiene, broke, misogynist etc (for a very good reason imo) and these are often considered red flags. The thing is people say men that are unsuccessful with women harbor these traits and that's why they aren't successful with women but that's not really true. Other factors such as handsomeness, height, status etc will render these red flags a non issue for m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/26 06:41 PM
6	"Women are people too. Just treat them like they are human". Is such anoverblown, and hella misleading advice for men That's hilarious. The most successful men put an act and win over, con artists put an act and win over, abusive men put an act and win over. It has nothing to do with being more relaxed. There are many variables you omit and you should drop that "women can tell..." this is BS, women get deceived all the time. Treating women like humans also means treating them like flawed humans that make mistakes and can't read minds like they pretend to, they can be moody, fall for the wrong things, can be sel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 11:22 PM
8	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool Everything looks easy when you're not the one living these situations... then when you do, you have countless excuses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/26 01:11 AM
-1	What's the point of reminding me that men and women are both human, when people can be socially conditioned to behave in a massive variety of ways? A bluepiller saying women are flawed?... something's fishy!	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/26 12:10 AM
1	Women, that defend feminists as not hateful/misandrist/biassed, have you asked them any questions on reddit? You are 100% right that a minority of men follow these guys, but outside social media people are still acting like that's what men are and believe. There are articles and tv shows created about what "men are", all ideas from social media discourse. Any male problems is treated like it comes from "the manosphere" and shows like the one from Netflix or the Adolescence show what "the manosphere is". Social media is real and people use it to demonize people. Also, most people don't study feminism to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 08:35 PM
1	Women, that defend feminists as not hateful/misandrist/biassed, have you asked them any questions on reddit? Isn't social media why the likes of Tate got their popularity? I'm pretty sure people don't talk about the manosphere and Tate like they don't matter because they're on social media... Edit to add... some countries, even Canada is thinking about it, are banning social media for kids under 16. Why would we do this if we shouldn't think social media does have an impact? Unless you think feminism is different?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 08:16 PM
2	Women, that defend feminists as not hateful/misandrist/biassed, have you asked them any questions on reddit? Just like in christianism the core messaging is "Love each others like I loved you!"... I grew up religious and left when I turned 15 because I then realized that people that practice religion, especially those in power, don't know shit about the core tenet and will use the religion to get their way especially if it's to do wrong. Feminism is no different, no amout of equality will be reached by shaming half of the population. This bs isn't reserved to feminism as men that do the same in the nam…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 06:12 PM
3	Women, that defend feminists as not hateful/misandrist/biassed, have you asked them any questions on reddit? A male feminist doesn't fight for equality, he fights to protect feminist talking points and will gladly go against anything that doesn't pander to women. They don't even want to address specific male issues in front of other feminists in fear of angering them and will often dismiss these issues as not that important or say they are self inflicted before saying women had it bad for thousands of millenias. They also have never seen nor heard any bad behavior from women, if they have then they say…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 06:06 PM
1	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them Granted there are people trying to find ways to make things happen and more equal. Men that bend over to the status quo can't complain things don't change for the better, they were trying to keep things as is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 02:02 AM
1	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them Would you say we shouldn't try to find ways to make it so both men and women agree to bring a child to life? At least in educating both about the dangers of not thinking this through?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 02:00 AM
1	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them At least you own it and that's fair. Do you think we should teach that in schools? It would be pretty useful I think. A message for men and only for men, if you have sex with a woman it means you consent to have a child whether you are ready or not... and what about men that are SAed by women... do you think it's stupid of them to not expect a child?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 11:48 PM
1	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them I will always advocate for both gender to do good and fight those that think only one deserve attention and funding. I may look like some weirdo on the internet that just doesn't like feminists, but I have actively spent a lot of time, energy and money going up against some of the policies they tried to normalize in the schools I have worked for almost a decade. Every time I see/hear them talk about education I know it's not for the better of both genders, mostly only for girls, even if most tea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 10:27 PM
1	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them Hmm... tell me... Does having sex for men mean they automatically consent to having a child? Do men that are raped by women consent to having a child? Do these two situation make men stupid if they end up having a child?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 10:16 PM
0	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them So according to you, women and feminists hold no power in the education system? That's quite hilarious. Could you provide the percentage of men and women holding teaching position and administrative positions in your country? I live in Canada and there is no comparison, women and feminists far outweight men in this field. Does this mean you vote accordingly? Or is it all talk? Yes and not only that I worked in secondary grade education for almost a decade, helped make changes in framing, created…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 08:22 PM
3	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them The SOME in you take are the ones holding power, not individual self identified feminists. I couldn't care less about what individual feminists do or say. But when it's done from the people that manage funds, schools and public services then it becomes a problem. Clementine Ford saying kill all men is a non issue imo. Laws like the duluth model or framing rape to make sure it only means something men can be accused of is a problem. Funding education will always be important. I think the teachers…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 05:53 PM
2	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them To be honest with you I think feminists should continue to push women in our society. But I think they shouldn't act like their intention for men are good. Not when they frame everything in a way that places men in a bad light. Feminism is for the advancement of women, not the advancement of people in a society. We can see it plenty in feminists sub, articles and even policies where they'll gladly refrain from using stats that favors men unless it's to paint men as dangerous and will generalize …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 04:59 PM
2	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them Feminists vote for more funding in areas where women are having issues, not those where men have. It's like voting for more funding in physical activities, then all the funds go to something like yoga. Feminists will then spend countless hours saying yoga is also for men and men should do it and frame things like men's specific interest are toxic. I have fought those framing in the schools I used to work at. More funding for art crafting and dance classes, but acting like contact sports and acti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 04:29 PM
7	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them I think feminists did create the monster that is the manosphere just like earthquakes create ripples in the ocean that become tsunamies. Yeah the earthquake didn't directly destroy the beaches, the flood did but there would be no giant waves without the earthquake. I think the biggest problem is their unwilligness to see their actions can have undesired effects. That's why they'll fight tooth and nail to never change their framing. The "not all men" debate is a great example of this. They'd rath…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 04:12 PM
2	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them I think to help solve boys issues, there needs to be boys specific studies and services that are separate from those that benefit women. Failing to do that will only result in, we created more shelters for the abused but they mostly only help/accept women because they look at statistics and only take part of them and run with it. Ofc we need services for both equally, but we also need services that target specific genders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 04:03 PM
0	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them Bottom line, that “sCentEnCiNg diSpAriTY” is pure nonsense, and y’all know it. --" Across all analyses, females received sentences that were shorter, on average, than males. When examining all sentences imposed, females received sentences 29.2 percent shorter than males. Females of all races were 39.6 percent more likely to receive a probation sentence than males. When examining only sentences of incarceration, females received lengths of incarceration 11.3 percent shorter than males. "-- What i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 03:53 PM
0	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them Then we shouldn't have women specific services nor laws and so on. If we put more money on general services then women's specific issues will sort themselves out. Is that what you're saying?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 03:48 PM
8	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them Yeah, that's the thing, feminists do something and we should go a fix the bs it creates because of the ripples they didn't care/see coming and enflating with time. Imo, feminists created the manosphere and all this toxicity. We have to fix it because they'll never recognize their actions and hatred do have an impact, sometimes for the better, often times for the worse. That's mostly why I don't care if a feminist hates men, but I care if feminism that holds power hates men, they are very differe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 03:39 PM
18	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them idgaf if feminism loves or hates men. I don't either, until you realize feminist do have power on a societal level and are able to make decisions that can affect men and young boys for a generation. A lot of people are just unaware of some situation because there's a lot of work being done to suppress what the landscape actually is. Boys falling behind in education is a good example. One of the thing I was able to help being done in the last secondary grade school I worked at before leaving unde…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 02:50 PM
7	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them I think this issue is downplayed by women mainly because men aren't the ones carrying the pregnancy. "We both had fun, we both didn't use protection but ultimately I decide whether you are a parent with responsibility or not." "We both had fun, our contraception fails but I decide to still pursue with the pregnancy and make you a parent with responsibility, I don't care if your protection failed, it's my choice." "I rape a kid, I don't care if what I did was inhuman, I decide to pursue with preg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 02:10 PM
3	Go bag and DNA tests are equivalent This is like saying people that got cheated on just had to not have a relationship with someone that'd cheat, easy peasy... would you say that women that have go to bags are looking for men that will make them use their go to bag? You act like people can't be deceived... lmao...	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 06:25 PM
6	Go bag and DNA tests are equivalent If it was mandatory, no one would "expect it" since it would be mandatory. Would you tell your male relatives and friends to never question their paternity even if they are suspicious because "women can and should always be trusted?"... mandatory at birth would fix this problem and after some decade, we would wonder why we fought against the idea. Being worried the government can't be trusted with your DNA is a made up worry just to help you discredit the idea since you provide a slew of your ow…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 06:00 PM
5	Go bag and DNA tests are equivalent I wouldn't block a paternity test, I would calmly comply but it would mean sleeping separately until we had figured out what is going on together that he would ever question my loyalty. Exactly why it needs to be mandatory at birth. For paternity fraud to be successful women need complete trust of their partner and demand their partner don't entertain the possibility his child not be his... somehow that's exactly what women demand. Just make it mandatory at birth then no man will think a child i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 05:39 PM
–	It's 2026. Men need to stop catering to feminist efforts and start looking after themselves. Though I agree everyone should look after themselves, there are numerous situations and services where even if you look after yourself you are disadvantaged. Education is a great example here and I still struggle to understand why people fight against helping boys in education. You can say whatever you want but asking a boy to make the system less harmful for him would be weird. One thing feminists keep repeating is when women do better everyone does better but that's not true most of the time. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 04:46 PM
1	Romance a trap for men A woman would make him less depressed for sure. This is part of the problem imo. As much as I believe men aren't responsible to make a woman happy since being unhappy is a state only she can fix, I think a woman wouldn't and should be used to make you less depressed since only you can fix your problem. Women aren't anti depressant pills you just take.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 02:20 PM
2	Romance a trap for men Without validating what op says, ignoring the influence Hollywood has on society over the last 100 years is foolish imo. A lot of what we do is shaped by what epopel see in movies, a lot of people's education is made through movies. It's better to separate movies with real life yeah, but you can't act like it didn't help shape a lot of how people live their life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 02:01 PM
6	Why do some feminists, especially on Reddit, so vehemently deny they don't hate men but do nothing to stop and even justify hateful comments of men in their subreddits? By that logic, why are women enabling them by dating, marrying and birthing such men? Did you try to stop those women from doing it? So you are enabling these men that you hate... Can't believe people write things like this and think they have a point...	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 12:26 AM
-3	Do you think biological realities playing into heterosexuality is a topic that leftists/feminists are ready to discuss? I think policies, court system, duluth models and public opinion like "women are wonderful" are women's bodyguard, even if you chose to not recognize it that's what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/26 04:09 PM
–	young men were not a priority until the red pill came along. Suddenly they need to be "protected" Selective Righteousness and Narrative Caontrol. Mass shootings happens where there are no white supremacists and red pill happens where there are little to no mass shootings. Somehow you need to associate them all. Mass shooters have various reasons to do them, they can be white supremacists, red pilled, incels, or none of them at all. They can be white, black, brown, Asian, men, women, trans and so on. You just want to villify red pill, maybe because you're blue pill and you have no idea what you're supposed to do with your label and just sp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 10:13 PM
1	Women are attracted to assholes and players so they’re the only ones to blame for their outcomes You know, it's a combination of what people, my friends, therapists at my job (I teach in higher education), and the hundred articles about therapy you can easily find on the internet say about what they do or what therapy is about. You can't speak about that profession like it's some unknown phenomenon, it's more talked about than you seem to know, tbh! And I really think you need to stop seeing self reflection as self flagelling and no, I don't want people to suffer, at all. I don't want women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 10:02 PM
–	young men were not a priority until the red pill came along. Suddenly they need to be "protected" Selective Righteousness and Narrative Caontrol. By telling you some crimes can be committed by different kind of people and for different reasons I'm saying there is a singular cause for crime?!?!?!?! You have a very skewed way of reading things... this is kinda hilarious!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 09:45 PM
1	Women are attracted to assholes and players so they’re the only ones to blame for their outcomes Therapists talk a lot about what they do and their process. It's not like they need to keep everything hidden from people like they do for military operations lol. They don't have to speak like they're talking about a specific client. Just like myself when I talk about my students, I don't go a speak about a specific student but I can perfectly talk about a situation that involved a student. I don't get how hard it is to see really!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 09:16 PM
2	Women are attracted to assholes and players so they’re the only ones to blame for their outcomes I'm no expert, so you can stop reading right here... but I'll still write what I think. Like I replied to someone else, therapists aren't keeping everything to themselves and are very open to talk about their patients without saying names. You can find them everywhere on internet. Also there's a lot of people that just share what they did in therapy, again, not so well kept secret. I also know a few guys that went to therapy, the thing they like about it is they can openly talk about their probl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 09:09 PM
1	Women are attracted to assholes and players so they’re the only ones to blame for their outcomes Rehad is part of the process for addiction to be cured but not the final stage. People that need to get out of said addiction also need to recognize the patterns and environment that led them to their addictions so they can identify them and the rest is up to them once they stop going to rehab. The important part is recognizing they put themselves in these situations most of the time because they fancied certain people and environment. Rehad works because it tells it like it is and gives actual …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 08:58 PM
1	Women are attracted to assholes and players so they’re the only ones to blame for their outcomes Ofc... maybe you need therapy!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 08:51 PM
–	young men were not a priority until the red pill came along. Suddenly they need to be "protected" Selective Righteousness and Narrative Caontrol. Lol what? It's more like mass shooting has nothing to do with white supremacy, since they also happen in countries where there's no such thing as white supremacy!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 08:49 PM
–	Women are attracted to assholes and players so they’re the only ones to blame for their outcomes Dang calm down... you are the one seeing self reflecting as punitive... and it's pretty telling you hate the idea specifically because that's how you see it. Imo it's not that complicated. I end up in a situation with people that made my life hell? Then yes I can get away from said situation and people but I'll mostly reflect on how I ended up with that person and how I can prevent that from happening again, not by blaming that person but by questioning my life choices and interests. Happens to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 08:46 PM
–	Women are attracted to assholes and players so they’re the only ones to blame for their outcomes In a sense yeah, if people that go to rehad keep relapsing then that rehab doesn't work... is that a surprise? Do people in rehad keep being told that their addiction isn't a problem and they just have to live with it and they did nothing wrong they just need to find themselves?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 08:38 PM
17	young men were not a priority until the red pill came along. Suddenly they need to be "protected" Selective Righteousness and Narrative Caontrol. Pretty sure redpill exist in countries where mass shootings are very rare though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 07:56 PM
–	Women are attracted to assholes and players so they’re the only ones to blame for their outcomes Ofc if you see self reflecting as loathing oneself then no wonder you stay away from it lmao!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 07:49 PM
–	Women are attracted to assholes and players so they’re the only ones to blame for their outcomes So therapy works, women use most of it yet still end up in the same situations and "men are trash" is more alive than it's ever been... seems like it doesn't work imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 07:48 PM
–	Women are attracted to assholes and players so they’re the only ones to blame for their outcomes Lmao, going to therapy doesn't mean you are self reflecting, especially if your therapist just agrees with you and/or is there to make you let go any guilt. Therapists don't go and tell you a lot of your problems actually come from your way of doing things... Women do keep repeating the same patterns. Just like how men are. The difference is men are being told constantly they are idiots and should work on themselves, mentally and physically by both men and women. Women are constantly told, you d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 05:58 PM
–	Women are attracted to assholes and players so they’re the only ones to blame for their outcomes I think what most people blame is the reluctance women have to actually look inward when these things happen. What exactly led you to be played and what attracted you to those players. It's always easy to blame others but in the end, you are the one always in these situations... self reflecting isn't gonna peel your skin alive...	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 05:20 PM
1	If you are not willing to sacrifice everything to get it, then you don’t deserve it. That's a recipe to go down a dark spiral that'll lead you to get even less sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/26 11:12 PM
21	unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choices Many redditors are unable to think people can talk about something that's not about them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/26 01:18 PM
0	I don’t agree with any of the pills but blue pill advice is far worse than red pill The advices men are seeking are for the most part for the "get to know each other" part which for men won't happen if they're not actuvely doing the work and I think that's where the disconnect between blue pill and red pill is. Blue pillers act like men always have these opportunities with women all the time, just like how women are always hit on, on the internet, in the street, at the job, at school and so on which places you in a constant position of choosing if you want it or not and will in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/26 07:52 PM
0	It’s not possible to use a woman for sex I mean, can women complain about being deceived by words when they give attention to sweet talk and flee anything that doesn't look sugarcoated? It's a selfmade problem imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/26 09:18 PM
2	It’s not possible to use a woman for sex How is that a strawman? I think both men and women lie to get what they want and in the end just blame the other while they are accepting the game themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/26 09:15 PM
0	It’s not possible to use a woman for sex I tried not to go there lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/26 08:27 PM
1	It’s not possible to use a woman for sex Yeah quite confusing, but most lying people know they are lying and they always find new ways to get their ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/26 05:57 PM
2	It’s not possible to use a woman for sex Do action speak louder than word work for someone that said they wanted sex then changed their mind? Should they still honor what they said prior to having it? Seems some of you forgot the "tea consent video"... you are hilarious...	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/26 05:27 PM
0	It’s not possible to use a woman for sex Do you think people shouldn't change their minds especially after learning or living new info about that person? Would you tell a woman that accepted to have sex with you that she couldn't change her mind after she realized it wasn't a great idea? Is that a hill you'd be ready to die on? Lmao!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/26 05:18 PM
2	It’s not possible to use a woman for sex Do women disclose that the only reason they sleep with said guy is because of his status and wealth or do they say things like you are handsome and interesting? Your scenario makes me feel like both deserve to be told lies and both participate in their woes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/26 05:15 PM
0	Failed approaching in friends/hobby/work circle poisons this circle Hey, you're the one that said you dismiss about everything they tell you. I didn't make the claim that everything they say is true and/or should be considered true. I just don't dismiss on sight!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 10:18 PM
2	Failed approaching in friends/hobby/work circle poisons this circle So they told you	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 10:16 PM
2	Failed approaching in friends/hobby/work circle poisons this circle So they told you that whatever they say is nonsense or do you assume it is nonsense?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 10:14 PM
3	Failed approaching in friends/hobby/work circle poisons this circle You said it yourself, you just dismiss them based on what you perceive they say. Is it because of hatred, or maybe because your husband that doesn't live their life tells you whatever they go through must not be true, or maybe because they're asking for things that would require something from women? Only you know the answer, but ultimately, dismissing them is a choice you make based on your bias, not based on truth since you don't know them nor do you live their reality... it's ok to just admit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 09:13 PM
5	Failed approaching in friends/hobby/work circle poisons this circle You can admit that you don't and you don't care. It won't hurt ya nor your reputation lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 08:11 PM
2	Failed approaching in friends/hobby/work circle poisons this circle Lmao, I don't need to insult anyone. Also, your husband does not have the answer for everything and him being male doesn't make him the arbiter of struggles men can have. There are a lot of women going against abortion, should we listen to them because they are women and their opinion on women complaining about it trump the opinions of women struggling with the banning of abortion? Is that how we should operate? Ask your husband, maybe he can enlighten us in the holy light.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 05:31 PM
3	Failed approaching in friends/hobby/work circle poisons this circle So you have no idea and just decide that whatever they may struggle with must not be true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 05:28 PM
6	Failed approaching in friends/hobby/work circle poisons this circle They aren't complaining telling me about how their own actions are causing their struggles. Fixed that for ya! Y'alls struggles are not getting laid as frequently as you desire. This line tells me you struggle to view comments as what they are and need to associate someone's comment with something they are going through or are living... but at your defense, most redditors struggle with that. I'm in a relationship and can perfectly think men have dating struggles without having that struggle myse…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 04:45 PM
5	Failed approaching in friends/hobby/work circle poisons this circle How do you know whether something is self made or not? Pretty sure you decide based on your bias or your uneducated opinion of what these men's struggle can look like. In the end, in both cases you need to have some hate to just dismiss something that you don't go through. You just don't want to accept it. It's no different than the men that dismiss women's struggles, mostly because they don't go through these struggles and think they are trivial, especially the problems that require men to thin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 04:38 PM
6	Failed approaching in friends/hobby/work circle poisons this circle Is it important? Reread your claim...	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 04:11 PM
5	Failed approaching in friends/hobby/work circle poisons this circle Maybe you like men with the very strict condition --" You should not have problems or just don't tell me when you have them! "-- Would align with what many men and women struggle with. It's the idea that men don't share their struggles with women because it's used against them. You seem to abide by that... in the end, you may find those men fun to be with, but are they really having fun being with you? You don't need to answer me, you need to ask yourself that question. Pretty sure the men in yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 04:10 PM
3	Failed approaching in friends/hobby/work circle poisons this circle Do you ask yourself this question when you chose to dismiss men's struggles or do you just dismis out of your hatred of men but refuse to see it as hatred?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 04:05 PM
6	Failed approaching in friends/hobby/work circle poisons this circle So you don't help anyone unless you are in their exact same situation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 04:04 PM
1	Some men need to wake up and realise that being single and being lonely are not the same thing Do you see it or do you hear more from it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 11:44 PM
0	Some men need to wake up and realise that being single and being lonely are not the same thing You can perfectly be single without being lonely or being in a relationship dynamic that makes you lonely. Some men talk as if a girlfriend is supposed to be their therapist, best friend, social outlet, emotional regulator, source of touch, source of esteem and reason to live all in one. Are you saying women don't demand this in their relationship? Because most of my past relationships it was moslty that but I had to do all the emotional and therapy labor. I also accepted the role because imo th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 11:21 PM
2	Any movement that aims to "decenter" the other gender is and has always been fraudulent. Aren't they? I've seen feminists demanding men have a curfew. I've seen feminists demand all men starting at age 5 being vasectomized (which would men making all men sterile). I've seen feminists demand men population to be reduced to a few millions... Now I don't believe all this nonsense. But why should I make the distinction of those fringe idiots from actual feminists? They are all feminists to me. Just like how people will conflate all men related groups to the same manosphere umbrella as i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 11:15 PM
3	Any movement that aims to "decenter" the other gender is and has always been fraudulent. See it like how feminists and terf are considered the same for most people because both use the term feminist. But they don't believe in the exact same thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 04:57 PM
1	Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled? You can't be serious... anyway why would you lmao!	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/26 10:36 PM
1	Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled? Always has been. That may be your feeling because you're a woman and you mostly see things directed at you. Men are the same, they see things directed at them more than things directed at those that don't look like them... Since the beginning, my point is BOTH should be called out because both have been throwing rocks... but for some reason, women shouldn't be lumped in those that should be the bigger person... that's why I commented in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/26 09:54 PM
1	Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled? Who said it was the default expectation for women? Being the bigger person should be the default expectation for any functioning adult, unless you think women should be exempt like if they were children? Women aren't less capable of being shitty and participating is online wars. They throw rocks as much as the men they complain about. I'll hold the exact same discussion towards the men that say women are shitty online. Be part of those that stop throwing rocks, instead of fighting for your right…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/26 09:41 PM
1	Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled? So you ignore the whole discussion chain?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/26 07:17 PM
1	Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled? Did I ever say men shouldn't behave ethically or did I call out the idea only men should be called out for participating in all the online bs war?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/26 07:09 PM
0	Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled? Though some men are against women's interest, a lot of men are favorable to help women where they trail behind... but for some reason, most women and too many men are against helping where men fall behind... why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/26 01:17 AM
1	Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled? So you think men just went there for absolutely no reason, no provocation and just out of being evil... lmao you guys are funny. Women hate when men talk trash about them... I think men don't like it either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/26 01:14 AM
1	Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled? And I asked why should we have to specify if some policy is for men only or women only... don't you see the idiocy in this line of thinking or do you believe we should operate this way for every new laws/policies?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/26 01:12 AM
-1	Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled? Imo fgm is worse than mgm and it was important this was addressed. Should genital mutilation be banned from one gender but not the other just because one didn't think about it first? Also fgm was more practiced from deep religious cultures and mostly from some part of the world. Mgm have been accepted in multiple parts of the world and in many religions. Coming after mgm would be harder in the 90s. Doesn't mean banning genital mutilation alltogether wasn't a better idea. Care to tell me why you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/26 09:22 PM
1	Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled? Men have their responsibility and part in all the bs and division that's happening right now. Do you think women aren't also part of all of that bs? Do you think if women and feminists played their part we shouldn't call it out and just expect men to do better but not the other side?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/26 09:17 PM
3	Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled? Would you say feminism was able to get people's attention without diminizing men in any way shape or form? No insults, no generalizations, no hatred, just pure love and everyone just accepted it and those that aren't are just evil?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/26 09:01 PM
0	Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled? Should every laws have a woman and a man side and if one side fails (for whatever reason) to advocate for the exact same thing at the exact same time then said law should only be available for the gender that asked for it? Do you think this way of doing would make our laws and policies better?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/26 08:57 PM
3	PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sex Would you suggest shorter men to wear heightening shoes to appear 6'... would you tell women that want 6' men to just accept men that wear such shoes and not care about height when those men remove their shoes just like when women remove their padded bras? I hear you guys say this but do you think accepting men wearing heightening shoes would fix the "short" men problems? Because if it gives short men confidence, women also need to respond positively to those. It's an interesting subject I agree…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 11:32 PM
6	PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sex I actually think exactly like you do. I just find it funny how some women equal shaving with filler artifices. To me shaving is part of the grooming process. Get a haircut, shave, cut your nails, trim your beard etc. Making your breast, hips or booty appear bigger is not grooming. It's similar to men wearing heightening shoes to appear taller which are totally different. I'm not agaisn't any of those tbh. But people shouldn't act like it isn't deceptive if they try to attract someone that has a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 09:57 PM
5	PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sex All this time men complain that they are constrained to immutable standards like height, weener size, body shape and so on. All they had to do is use fillers and women would accept that as if it was the real deal! Ok interesting. I think you should go and advise shorter men to use fillers in their shoes to make them look taller than they actually are since a lot of women want taller men and act like 5'7 men are dwarves? Use muscle fillers inside their shirt to make them look more muscular than t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 09:02 PM
7	PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sex Do you equal shaving with booty fillers? Would you accept a 5'9 man wearing compensations in his shoes to make him look 6'1 if you were looking for a 6' tall man? Lmao... you think it's the same as shaving? Can you put back the shaved hair the next morning or only when you go out?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 08:16 PM
5	PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sex I think they mean things like pushup bras, hips and booty fillers, hair extensions, fake eyelashes, makeup and so on. When people see videos of women removing all that they realize it's a completely different person and without all these things that person wouldn't be as "pretty". It is deceptive. Just like how women in the 80s and 90s mocked men that wore a toupet to hide their hair loss.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 07:21 PM
1	PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sex Ahh Reddit...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 05:30 PM
1	PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sex Then don't... but don't expect people to think the same you do. We live in a society where looks matter to both men and women. We made looks the one factor that gets you further in life but you expect people to have no opinion on looks? Lmao...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 05:22 PM
1	PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sex They don't have to tell you. The result of your choices will tell you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 05:12 PM
0	PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sex Then we should never hear women say "men impose strict beauty standards on women and we have to wear makeup or we are dismissed!" or use makeup as a weapon to tell men that women have to spend money for dates... you use it however you want but ultimately, you do it to get the results you want. If that result isn't what you like you just stop doing it. It's just another tool but a tool you use to either feel oppressed or empowered all depending on the results you want. And tbh, I really don't und…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 04:51 PM
0	PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sex I think both men and women gravitate towards what gives them the results they want. Women like to say they wear makeup for themselves but this is cope. Women can absolutely not put on makeup but they won't get the same results as when they put it on. If they don't like the results they have then they'll keep putting it on. The exact same thing happens to waitresses. They want more money and realize showing more skin gives them more bigger tips. So they keep showing more skin. Try to tell them th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 04:33 PM
–	Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women? Ehh... he's uneducated and brainwashed on a few things. This excess of fat puts a lot of stress on the body that skinnier people don't have. Yes it won't make you more sick than anyone else but omg, at some age your body tells you whether it's been stressed out and if it can sustain itself through their 40s or not. Anyway, I have a friend that was fat and didn't care. He had a child at 35 and still thought he shouldn't lose weight. But a 5yo kid needs energy, he was 40 when his kid turned 5 and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 03:58 PM
–	Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women? You can't act like women don't compliment other women even when they don't mean them. I've seen many women tell their fat friend that they are beautiful and they deserve the world etc etc. Then look at their own asses in some dress and wonder if it makes them look fat...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 03:23 PM
–	Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women? You act like unless a man is acting like a dick he won't be insulted for his height... but you don't have to directly insult one specific person to insult them by proxy. Like if someone that is fat does you wrong, then to get back at them you call them on their weight, all you do is signal other fat people that you view being fat as an insult. Like you don't have to talk down on your short friends to insult them if you use being short as a deregatory insult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 03:09 PM
–	Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women? Well... most 500lbs people don't make it that long... I don't know what their intention is tbh!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 02:49 PM
–	Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women? It just means you associate being an asshole with being short or bald, immutable traits makes you an asshole... this is no different than saying blonde women are dumb... I fail to see how people think this is acceptable. At least, being fat is actually dangerous for oneself and an indication of someone's diet and exercize level, but being short isn't something you should use to insult people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 01:52 PM
1	For men, attractiveness sets the margin for error in dating. Or even if you participate at all. Not personal traits or being a "gentleman" Men and women are pretty similar in this regard where the hotter the person is, the more bs they can get away with. But we all agree that men don't go out their way to tell women that the reason they don't have success in dating is because of their shitty personnality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/26 12:50 AM
7	Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women. The same way we could say, yeah most violent crimes are perpetrated by men but there are literally millions of men who don't turn to committing crime. I love how there's always nuance when women are at fault but none when it's men. Generalize men when it's negative, indivisualize them when it's about anything positive. Generalize women when it's positive, individualize them when it's about anything negative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/26 08:32 PM
1	The manosphere hates seeing men be criticized, so they pretend women are never criticized to justify expressing that hate. I'm pretty sure MRA's hate feminism, not women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/26 06:02 PM
2	Guys are to blame for expensive dates Ding, ding, ding... "just the right person" -> does most of the work in dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/26 05:08 PM
0	A red-pill man and a woman on an ISOLATED ISLAND: who would be the better man? It isn't a fact though... anyway!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 08:43 PM
0	A red-pill man and a woman on an ISOLATED ISLAND: who would be the better man? So what? The stat you used was debunked anyway... maybe you didn't know, it's ok. But now you know, will you keep using it? https://retractionwatch.com/2015/07/21/to-our-horror-widely-reported-study-suggesting-divorce-is-more-likely-when-wives-fall-ill-gets-axed/?ref=benjaminkeep.com	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 05:58 PM
1	A red-pill man and a woman on an ISOLATED ISLAND: who would be the better man? The same statistic that was debunked? Women will leave their husband if he loses his job... both will leave for various reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 05:11 PM
6	Women are the ones red pilling men Can you tell me which part says "all men are trash"...	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 04:25 PM
10	Women are the ones red pilling men Can you point where in my comment I said feminists say "all men are trash"? Or are you falling for the men = all men... just go ask your fellow feminists what they think about using men instead of "some men", "a few men", "too many men" and so on. Yeah they rather say men to remain vague and then complain when men say the famous "not all men". I love how you are doing exactly what your feminists overlords have been complaining about for 20y. That's pretty funny actually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 04:14 PM
16	Women are the ones red pilling men Ofc, you've never seen feminists call men all kinds of deregatory names. It's not like they've been very active in insults in the last 20y... surely impossible to find... not even on subreddit dedicated to the movement... silly me. You can sleep now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 04:52 AM
17	Women are the ones red pilling men Then where does all that men are trash from feminists coming from? A bunch of misandrists!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 04:20 AM
18	Women are the ones red pilling men The core of feminism doesn't say men are trash does it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/26 11:43 PM
38	Women are the ones red pilling men "-- "Egalitarians" are just misogynists that think highly of themselves. --" Could say the exact same thing about feminists though. Just a bunch of misandrists that think highly of themselves. So much so that when a woman does something reprehensible they say she wasn't a feminist or a true feminist, meaning that feminist are morally above all... lmao!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/26 11:00 PM
0	If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices? So you've never men as a group being blamed for anything? You've never seen the famous "not all men" in response to generalizations about men? You've never seen not all men but always a man? You've never seen "yes all men"? This is funny because I could find countless citations from feminists or women themselves. Even bs trends like man vs bear is actually talking about all men. You mean to tell me you've never seen generalization about men... did you just discovered social media? Where have you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/26 07:27 PM
6	"Misandry is a response to misogyny" is complete BS, and here's proof People like that understand context only when they're the ones in a bad light. Like for example, single mothers produce most of the homeless population, the drop out of school kids, teenage pregnancy and incarcerated people. Then they'll suddenly remember that context and nuance exist and will give you hundreds of them. There's always context to statistics but somehow the ones where men are wrongly underrepresented as victims we should ignore context and nuances...	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/26 06:56 PM
–	If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices? Men aren’t being blamed as a group You sure about that... You sure about that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/26 06:37 PM
1	People need to blame women more "What IRL does is also it gives you the opportunity to observer the person, see them interact with the world before you make contact with them. So it gives you time to judge their character before interacting." That part is the important part imo. I've been teaching to adults for a decade now, I see men and women interacting for a prolonged period of time and the interaction people have is creating dynamics a picture can't do. Often times the Chad may be very good looking but he is annoying to m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/26 12:58 PM
3	“Those women should have picked better” Ehh... I'll never understand people that want to revoke women's vote, like men are more responsible with theirs or that the way they live their lives is worthy of voting but not women... this needs to be called out way more. The relationship we have in my family isn't the individualistic one pushed so much on social media. We love each other and we all have our backs. That means if I do bad shit and I end up in stupid situations then, thought they'd give me support, they wouldn't hesitate to tel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/26 02:23 AM
5	“Those women should have picked better” If my sister were to constantly end up with toxic people, yes I'd call her out because I care about her but I also don't want to always have to help her out of dumb relationships she'd constantly put herself in. And granted, she'd do the same for me. Sometimes people need a slap to get their senses back. I don't care what random women do. I just find it funny, especially when they claim being able to flair toxic people then use the worst tactic to vet people... yeah no shit you end up with toxic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/26 01:40 AM
9	“Those women should have picked better” And how do you expect people to learn anything if all we do is cuddle them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/26 01:32 AM
10	“Those women should have picked better” So blaming women is punishing women or is it blaming anyonye, no matter the reason, means you're punishing them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/26 10:15 PM
10	“Those women should have picked better” I don't think she deserves punishment. But it seems to me too many women cannot learn from their and other women's mistake. Acting like you can flair someone's toxicity then jump right in the arm of it is weird imo. How about some self reflection about your vetting process? Seems your vetting stops at the picture from a dating app... yeah, you get the results you looked for but you don't want to accept this is your own doing. Then go online to say women can flair toxicity then jumps right back i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/26 09:42 PM
–	People need to blame women more Someone's character should always matter. Dating apps, be it Tinder or any other does jack to show someone's character. People go by the picture to judge if someone is "the right person" or not... then later complain...	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/26 09:37 PM
-2	People need to blame women more Are you a man dating women from dating apps?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/26 07:47 PM
17	“Those women should have picked better” Men never said they did, women keep saying it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/26 07:46 PM
–	People need to blame women more Yeah because a nice picture gives you all you need to know whether a man is a good man for you or not. No wonder you get played constantly lol!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/26 07:44 PM
–	People need to blame women more It's easier to entertain multiple dates when you're not the one paying or face rejection for not paying for all those dates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/26 07:36 PM
1	Always wanted to know - What do men mean exactly when they say "Women have the power to destroy society?" Yep but how many was specifically because their women didn't want to birth children?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/26 12:53 AM
1	Always wanted to know - What do men mean exactly when they say "Women have the power to destroy society?" Most countries didn't have a birthing problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/26 11:34 AM
1	Always wanted to know - What do men mean exactly when they say "Women have the power to destroy society?" I'm pretty sure there would be a way to pay parents for a certain time to raise their children, be it one parent or both, 5y? Maybe the first 10y per child? Here in Canada, Quebec there's a lot of people on welfare and these people have children, I know a guy, been on welfare since his 18th birthday, his father and mother were both on welfare. He had 5 children. They received more money for every children they had. In the end, yes they didn't live in palaces, but they had everything. I think our…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/26 09:55 PM
2	Always wanted to know - What do men mean exactly when they say "Women have the power to destroy society?" Pay people to have babies and maintain their families and watch the birth rate go up without falling into authoritatianism. It will cost a lot yeah, but how much do we lose by not doing it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/26 08:59 PM
3	Always wanted to know - What do men mean exactly when they say "Women have the power to destroy society?" Like I said, there are a ton of hurdles in front of men and women to start and maintain families. When a lot is stacked against it how are you surprized people want nothing to do with having children?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/26 08:55 PM
2	Always wanted to know - What do men mean exactly when they say "Women have the power to destroy society?" What I meant was not to give social security to people but to give more incentives for people to create families. Right now you have on one hand feminists promoting being single and childless as the next coming and on the other hand government taxes, policies, expensive housing and low wage all around. All that is making people question whether they want children or not. Also fix the division between men and women. This division is stupid but we can't expect individuals to try to stop it, at lea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/26 08:52 PM
4	Always wanted to know - What do men mean exactly when they say "Women have the power to destroy society?" The solution would be to invest in all things that facilitate families and child bearing, not reduce women's access to things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/26 08:27 PM
2	Always wanted to know - What do men mean exactly when they say "Women have the power to destroy society?" Nobody thinks it's a reason to justify revoking women's rights. At the same time, I agree that in our current society climate, having only women carry our reproduction as a species is not looking good for our future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/26 08:14 PM
13	Always wanted to know - What do men mean exactly when they say "Women have the power to destroy society?" Who says this? But if women don't want to birth anymore it will destroy a society, we can already see it happening in countries like Japan, South Korea and soon many Western countries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/26 07:48 PM
-1	Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY? I think they do, people look at what the loudest say and assume that's what the whole group thinks. It's always like that for every very vocal groups though. BLM, Feminism, Redpill, LGBTQ... their inaction to call out their most hateful members often result in the hatred of the movement/group.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/26 04:55 PM
10	Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle men Understanding equality won't prevent some teachers from giving them lower marks because they're boys. It won't shield them from the toxic men this, toxic men that discussion their mother participate in online. It's not going to make the police see them as the victim when they call the police for dv from their wife/gf "ohh guys he's a male feminist, we shouldn't arrest him, get the woman instead"... this is dumb.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/26 01:39 AM
4	Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle men No it's ok man, some experiences need to be shared. I fully agree that to some extent feminists don't really care if something harms boys. We see it in various forms. The first one is how they think boys falling behind in education isn't a bad thing. They think it's of their own laziness or that boys are actively more stupid than girls. That when we put boys together with girls, the boys are draging the girls down. They even have feminist studies on this. But for some reason, they don't want to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/26 01:35 AM
5	Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle men I totally believe that. I'm not red pill either but I don't disagree with everything Redpill nor everything Bluepill hence why I'm Purple. But I don't side with the general "women can do no wrong, men are and should always be considered the problem" kind view Bluepillers hold. I've dated multiple feminists in the past and most of my views on feminism is based on a very long experience and thinking about how the movement shapes our society. I used to teach to underage students, secondary grade mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 09:32 PM
7	Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle men I don't like that but I've been proven time and time again that what you say sadly is true. They rather look at their own son struggling than admit they're in the wrong. The only feminists I've seen change their views just stopped being feminists of didn't want to associate themselves with the label. I swear, it's like a religion with strict rules where if you don't participate in everything, including the bullshit, then they just call you not a true feminist. No different than Christians that's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 08:29 PM
7	Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle men I mean, it's perfectly normal to put time and effort to help those in need. But at some point we shouldn't overlook the time and effort we don't put for those we don't help. It's like a parent that has two children and put all their time, spending and effort into one child. Do you really believe the other child will just be there and not face any kind of struggle mentally and will not detatch itself from said parent? Might also become more angry and violent towards said parent because of the neg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 08:23 PM
6	Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle men Lmao you didn't look that far as English and Irish boys do have similar struggles in education as we do in North America. School dropout, less attendance, less diplomation, les male teacher and representation in school. You don't see it because you don't see it as a problem. It's also pretty well documented apparently, just a quick Google search. I think the disconnect is you are led to believe any struggle boys may have means it's your fault and we'll just revoke women's rights if you recognize…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 07:31 PM
1	Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle men Do I have to be an "expert" to witness it from where I'm from? Also don't you have access tu studies and statistics in your country? Like how hard is it to do that research? I feel like you're just affraid of what you'll find? What country are you in?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 07:16 PM
12	Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle men Lmao you didn't look far, I'm also a teacher and have been part of a lot of changes in the school I'm teaching at. One of those changes is the framing where almost everything, poster, communications, workshops and so on portrayed men as abusers and women as victims, always. So we had to make them change to make sure the message is against abuse, not against abuse from a certain gender while not when the other one does it. There are huge gaps almost at every levels in educations in favor of girls…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 06:55 PM
14	Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle men You thinking they're not means you don't look at stats and results and are completely clueless about the reality and aligns with what I said about feminists not really wanting a better future for their sons because it would mean looking at how they are disadvantaged and yeah, to most feminists, men and boys can never not have all the priviledge. But your reaction isn't a surprise, it's the expected one. Clueless about anything not directly affecting women...	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 06:20 PM
22	Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle men Lmao, you're the one arguing in bad faith. You spen all this time arguing without proff of anything, you demand people to provide proof, they provide arguments yet you can't even provide any. Typical of feminists though. It's all about power, nothing else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 06:15 PM
22	Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle men You can always debunk them and give the examples you, for some reason, refuse to provide...	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 05:58 PM
10	Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle men In order for them to have a future like their daughter they'd have to not be at a disadvantage in education and other sphere in life. Right now, boys are at a disadvantage in education yet feminist think we should double down on making education better for girls and the reason boys struggle is because they're lazy or dumb. I'm in the education system myslef, and unless it's heavily fought and proven for years they don't want to see how some of the policies that are adopted actually harm boys. So…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 05:57 PM
24	Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle men Just give him examples... our society gives way more power to women in multiple spheres, like duluth model, family court, education, shelters, less harsh sentences for the exact same crimes, society gives more excuses for women's bad behavior in abuse of all forms, women rarely if ever face criticism for their frauds or lies even when it destroys lives like paternity fraud and false accusations... I could go on. You can't say men hold all powers when men are absolutely at a disadvantage in multi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 05:48 PM
14	Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle men I think this is very important for people to understand. Feminism is first and foremost about power, it has nothing to do with justice or equality. Any injustice they receive from men is an injustice that needs to be addressed. Any injustice men receive from women or from the result of some of their policy should be dismissed or fought against by saying women had it worse 100y ago. I fail to see how feminists can look at their sons and say they love them while advocating for a future where they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 05:38 PM
1	Men are not protectors. Women are. Just as an example, half of the people that voted for Trump, that is starting a war against everyone and even people from his own country were women. They did vote for him, are cheering for him and participate in the bs the Republicans do. You act like like a child that can't think further than themselves and their friends circle where "I didn't do it so no women did it"... just stop!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/26 08:45 PM
1	RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding. I fully agree with what you said. RP comes in, at this point, as sort of a strange amalgamation of the attitudes of the men who were right there alongside said women treating the opposite sex as objects, and the minds of socially awkward nerds who will pass up no opportunity to analyze the data. And this part summarize RP imo. English isn't my primary language and it's the first time I've ever seen that word - "propinquity" - which I find quite interesting. Proximity but with a more familiar, pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/26 11:45 PM
3	RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding. Okay and? That’s life. Yes love is a risk and to love is to be vulnerable. Can you guarantee with absolutely certainty that a friend will never betray you? Nope. Doesn’t mean you don’t have friends or that you treat your friends as if they will inevitably betray you. I don't understand what this comment is supposed to say. Where did I imply being betrayed by friends or loved ones or your partner... I really don't get this comment! Which women? Why make such a blanket statement? Many women really…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/26 06:05 PM
6	RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding. Love can happen differently and at different time depending on each individuals. For example, you can be close to someone for years and only one specific even makes you see them in a different light. I've seen it happen from both men and women so it's not a gender specific thing. What men get told is what's necessary to hold a relationship, not to get into one. You have to differentiate them. I may not agree with everything TRP says but there are absolute truth to some of the things they put lig…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/26 04:15 PM
2	RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding. Isn't the high vs low bodycount debate specifically because of bounding? I think it's a flawed argument but that's a tenet of TRP. Also most of RP theory is about getting a foot in the house so bounding can happen. You can't start a relationship if you aren't considered at all and imo, TRP focuses on that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/26 03:23 PM
1	Women should not be taken seriously and there is a reason for it You mean the actions of a few shouldn't be used to generalize how a whole group? Who would've known...	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 05:54 PM
1	Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easily To me it's similar to men who refuse a woman because she slpet with a minority. It does nothing to you if they did but you'd still rather exclude them once you know, otherwise you wouldn't, they wouldn't. No difference!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 10:09 PM
1	My unpopular opinion is that both boys and girls were discriminated against in education / workplace. I'm not in the picture anymore and I see that you wouldn't understand anyway. I don't have time for this!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 05:09 PM
1	My unpopular opinion is that both boys and girls were discriminated against in education / workplace. "Coddle"... yeah...	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 05:04 PM
1	My unpopular opinion is that both boys and girls were discriminated against in education / workplace. I and teachers who have been teaching longer than me do usually just ignore it for a long period. I guess you didn't reach that point but you learn what's meaningful and what's bullshit to filter out and to not take everything personally. I've been called worse than what you have from the sounds of it, someone's just having a bad day. It's not about being insulted. It's about admins, parents and other teachers (mostly women) questionning your place as a teacher. That you choosing this profession…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 04:46 PM
1	My unpopular opinion is that both boys and girls were discriminated against in education / workplace. I live in Canada, in Quebec. Teachers had a huge strike a few years ago specifically because of the conditions and the salary. The salary got better but not the conditions. Also, ignoring other teachers, administration and parents constant scrutiny isn't something that can be done easily for a prolonged period. You can't act like women teachers face the same scrutiny and are always reminded by parents that they must be gay or a pedo for teaching to underage people. And I don't think we should do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 04:10 PM
3	My unpopular opinion is that both boys and girls were discriminated against in education / workplace. People absolutely do. Source: I'm a teacher and I, like many other men, quit underage teaching for multiple reasons and one of them is the constant scrutiny and accusations of things that "may" happen and people rather act like it will eventually happen than what's happening. Another reason is how one sided teaching is. Women at every levels, even in how you approach teaching, it has to be female coded and approved and boys should adapt to a system that's tailored for women specifically. The las…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 02:33 PM
20	What's the most annoying debate tactic you see from the opposite gender on this sub? The one where they say "I've never witnessed it because I don't hang out with such people!" in order to not only dismiss your argument but to also put blame on you for "hangning out with bad people". Like if you know some girl that cheated on her bf "My friends circle doesn't include cheaters so I've never known a woman that cheats!"... lmao like your friends are telling you everything about their life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 12:24 AM
7	Male abusers who are not physically intimidating, are more likely to get a strong reaction from the public. Are they all the same person?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 02:36 PM
4	Feminists will pick and choose whenever they see men as a colletive. At the same time teachers are doing one hell of a job to help raise and educate members of our society. A lot of things wouldn't go the way it does with the amount of people we have in cities if it weren't for people's education. So saying they are "over paid" for their job is a stretch imo. I know truckers that work maybe 3 weeks a month yet make double my salary. Should we downplay their contribution because they don't work a full 40h/5d a week? Absolutely not, since their contribution is para…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 08:55 PM
2	Feminists will pick and choose whenever they see men as a colletive. There are way more men in all education levels and cozy corporate jobs than there are women in all dangerous jobs though. People don't want men to use these kind of positive generalization for men but they accept negative generalization towards men... you kinda reap what you sow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 08:43 PM
2	Feminists will pick and choose whenever they see men as a colletive. I don't think these men would generalize the good men as a whole do if women didn't went on s bad generalization of men as a whole. It's like you want to swing your pendulum one way and are surprised it's coming back with same force.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 08:37 PM
6	Most men should stay away from pursuing/going after Older women. If you try with an older woman and it didn't work then it doesn't mean all older women will share the same sentiment. No different than trying with any woman and it didn't work. Also, older women do like flings with younger men...	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/26 10:36 PM
14	Most men should stay away from pursuing/going after Older women. Older women are like any other women and men, some are good some are bad. Sometimes I listen to how women should be villified for having weird ass standards but my god some of you are no better. Get with what you like. I hate this "height requirement" some women have... but I also hate this "don't date women above a certain age" bs requirement too. At the end of the day, date who makes you feel good about yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/26 09:33 PM
2	What do the 'not all men' crowd have to say about the atrocities happening in Ozoro? Your comment doesn't make sense I'm sorry. If all of them thought they weren't committing rape then all of them were clueless and were mostly bad people, the Africans, the Arabs and yes, the French too but most importantly, the husband which is French. You assume Africans and Arabs represent all of their culture but you don't assume the French represent all their culture? So you can exclude one but not the others? Did you know the Arab world and Africa are composed of multiple countries and cult…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 07:05 PM
2	What do the 'not all men' crowd have to say about the atrocities happening in Ozoro? Did the non Arab and African people knew they were committing rape then? Because all of the people committing rape weren't Africans or Arabs... in that case, if they knew it means they still did it and if they didn't then in both case, based on your logic, France's culture is treating women poorly, no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 05:49 PM
2	What do the 'not all men' crowd have to say about the atrocities happening in Ozoro? some culture are treating women like second class citizen How can you point to African and Arabs while it was the husband that organized all that bs... wouldn't you also say France's culture treats their women like second class citizens in that case?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 02:28 PM
8	What do the 'not all men' crowd have to say about the atrocities happening in Ozoro? In some countries these men would be elected president... just sayin....	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 12:52 AM
–	RP men are not viewing women’s experiences on par with their own. Every generation thinks that though. But in the 90s we didn't have social media constantly reminding us of our failure and how trash we are. On the contrary, most movies depicted all sorts of people being able to achieve success with effort and work. No one was there telling us immutable characteristics would prevent us from achieveing any kind of success. How can you believe you'll ever find a gf if most of the time you see online how men under 5'9 are subhuman midgets that deserve no love... l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/26 06:50 PM
-1	RP men are not viewing women’s experiences on par with their own. Ikr, standards they have control over vs standards men have little to no control over and are openly mocked for not living up to... how do you mock someone because they're under 6' is beyond me!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/26 04:50 PM
–	RP men are not viewing women’s experiences on par with their own. People over 40 grew up in a different dating landscape. Ofc their anecdotal observations will be different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/26 04:46 PM
–	Men should date conservative women instead of wasting their time online arguing with self-proclaimed liberal women Lol... don't forget most white women in the US voted for Trump. Imo those are no better that liberals. I'm glad I don't date women based on a binary political affiliation. This is dumb!	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 09:31 PM
2	What Is the cause for lack of empathy for men's dating problems? How you express and describe the problem also matters. If you go ranting/raging and blaming the other and demanding things from the other - no wonder people won't have empathy. Seems like the way it's done by either gender but if men do it it's not the right way... though I agree men shouldn't try to act like women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 04:59 PM
2	What Is the cause for lack of empathy for men's dating problems? Ime, asking anything to women online will get different responses than asking them in person. I think people online are used to be hostile and face little to no repercussions and since they are anonymous they can be as shitty as they want. In person they don't want to appear shitty and they understand that just insulting someone won't lead to nice interactions. Very few people are discussing in good faith online and it's a shame.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 04:56 PM
5	Women are more violent than we think. And men less so So...feminists are wrong that sexual predators rarely face consequences? They are right, they are especially right when those predators are women. Too many predators get away with their actions. The fact the US elected one as their President is a good example. Most women predators rarely if ever face any consequences, if that's what they mean then yes. But I'm pretty sure, for the last two decade they conflated predator with men. So ultimately, they're ok with predators facing no consequences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 04:05 PM
7	The Netflix Documentary Misses the Mark Entirely. I think it achieved it's goal in creating a show that generates views on Netflix. But that's the only thing it achieved. Did it really show what the manosphere is about? No! Did it talked about why these guys are successfuly influencing youg men? No! Did it offer any solutions? No! Did it convince young men and other people to leave the manosphere altogether? No! I think people behind televized content about the manosphere have no clue what they're talking about and are mostly too out of the loo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 12:25 AM
0	average Men Don't have almost any advantages The "evidence" you're going to provide will be similar to the ones you already posted. They both say it right at the beginning "although less so than women and girls—but their experiences are still poorly documented"... it's poorly documented... do you know what that means? The one with an agenda is you. I never changed my stance. You started by saying it doesn't happen, then it happens rarely, then posted "studies" that actually prove my point. And we haven't talked about the stigma SAed people…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/26 10:54 PM
2	average Men Don't have almost any advantages Men and boys may be victims of sexual violence—although less so than women and girls—but their experiences are still poorly documented. So something being poorly documented is enough for you to run with the "findings" lmao. If your partner works in this field they must know how complicated it is and anyone can't just blatantly confirm the prevalence of SA for both men and women, especially for men since there's no movement for men to open up, especially if it's to accuse a woman. I used to work …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/26 10:13 PM
2	average Men Don't have almost any advantages How do you know it's rare? Because men don't talk about it?Do you think there's a stigma about men being SA by women? Like he shouldn't complain, I want to be in his place, she can SA me all she want? That when a woman does that to underage men they don't face much repercussion? Hell, they can even receive child support for the child they chose to birth after they SA a minor... again, I'll ask, how do you know it's prevalent or not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/26 09:53 PM
2	average Men Don't have almost any advantages So men being SA by women never happen?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/26 09:42 PM
0	average Men Don't have almost any advantages And yes, men do get raped too, but it’s not by women So you're saying it never happens?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/26 09:22 PM
0	Why do women always attack their man in public? There has been a few experiements where a man berates his gf in public to see how people react vs when the roles are reversed. The results show how people are "used" or just assume a woman doing this is ok or just funny, imo that's why more women do it in public. I've seen this happen maybe 3 times in my life. I don't think it happens that much tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/26 10:50 PM
1	Why do women always attack their man in public? He mimmicks the "all men" rhetoric which is heavily defended when someone tries to say it's not all men...	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/26 10:45 PM
4	Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be. Remove social media and... ohh, things change... though I don't really care, I'm pretty sure social media absolutely skewed women's perception of men and the perception of themselves and their value. All technology isn't necessarily a good thing for an animal that's been roaming Earth for 200k years when that animal has no awareness about the harm it can cause itself. You're like these people that drive at 200km/h thinking that a crash can only happen to others... the tech is there for you to go…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/26 10:02 PM
1	The hate on single moms seems to have stopped now. It's something I'd like to know from the get go. My ex told me she had a son and she told me she was living alone with him. I personaly think it's better to disclose this from the get go. If that scares the person you're trying to date then maybe they weren't the right person for you. Hiding something this big is a recipe for disappointment once the truth is uncovered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 10:00 PM
1	The hate on single moms seems to have stopped now. You act like people don't have a choice and when they decide to date someone then some random bagage falls upon the person... my position is and has always been that people should know what they get into and then decide if they want in or not. I've dated two single mothers, one for quite some time, but I did knowing what I was getting into since I've been through this once already. I've dated my fare share of women and no, it's not the same, one with a kid and one without. Similar to dating some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 05:18 PM
1	The hate on single moms seems to have stopped now. A kid is not like an illness though. A person can recover from an illness. I wouldn't have to take care, educate or pay anythings to that illness. I wouldn't be attached nor would that illness become attached to me. An illness doesn't come with the ex, the father of that illness that'll always come by and can complicate things because of jealousy. I wouldn't compare the two tbh. I like kids but it doesn't mean I shouldn't be aware of the reality that comes with it/them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 04:51 PM
1	Red Pill men should support feminism Bad faith arguments/grievances based on anecdotes then applied to "specific group" as a whole sure is shitty, we agree on that. Not reserved to incels though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 11:02 AM
1	Red Pill men should support feminism And what is an incel argument? I feel it can be anything, are all incel arguments necessarily false?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 10:53 AM
1	Red Pill men should support feminism I'm not being called an incel nor I identify as one, would be pretty weird considering I have a gf lmao. Now if people call themselves incels then that's on them. Using it as an insult towards anyone you disagree with is a choice you make, no brighter than the people you complain about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 01:54 AM
1	Red Pill men should support feminism if you don't understand how a human being can be a man and not be a misogynistic incel, you should probably start looking for a therapist. Perfectly worded and should be told to most people using "incel" to insult anyone they disagree with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 10:59 PM
–	Young men offer less but demand more Who are we talking about here? Men or women? Both?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 10:26 PM
1	Red Pill men should support feminism Doesn't even have to be negative nor toxic, just disagreeing with someone is enough or pointing places where men are disadvantaged or anything negative about women is enough, unless you think these two should never be talked about...	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 09:01 PM
2	The hate on single moms seems to have stopped now. You can't ignore the kid though, ofc. I've been with two different single moms in the past and though I have nothing against single moms, there are things that you'll have to accept that you wouldn't with someone that doesn't have kids. Like an ex that will always be there, that often the mom wants you to have responsibilities towards the kid, that you have to plan everything with a kid in mind, it costs more and needs more planning. No matter how much you end up loving the kid, it's not yours a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 08:50 PM
2	The hate on single moms seems to have stopped now. Men over 40 also go with their options, especially if they want to date around their age. There are a lot more women with kids past 30 than at 20.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 07:16 PM
9	Red Pill men should support feminism Would you say that every time someone, mostly women, use the word incel, they use it like it was meant to be originaly used or as a reductive insult at almost anyone regardless if they're incels or not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 05:29 PM
2	It’s very important that men fight against paying on the first date When you're always on the receiving hand you assume everyone is on the receiving hand and have absolutely no clue what's like to be on the giving hand... most of them despise the idea they should be on the giving hand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 05:06 PM
1	Women have more bodily autonomy than men. Very true, and men can also traffic them or use expired condoms. I think the fear goes both ways and we should always consider sexual acts and results to be a two people responsibility and all decisions should be talked between responsible partners. Women should never dismiss a man's opinion about pregnancy, doesn't mean they should necessarily do whatever men want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 05:08 PM
7	Dating for Women is Not Like Looking for Clean Water in a Swamp; Rather, it is Like Looking for Healthy Food in a Grocery Store Healthy food looks good to those that were raised into seeing how good they are and if their mentality/way of thinking allows them to see how good they are. Then they're not the ones constantly complaining about how food isn't healthy, how foos is misleading and that there's only badd food outhere...	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 04:45 PM
5	Dating for Women is Not Like Looking for Clean Water in a Swamp; Rather, it is Like Looking for Healthy Food in a Grocery Store I hope you understand it's an analogy right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 04:35 PM
0	Women have more bodily autonomy than men. Seems similar to "You don't want to get pregnant? Take the pill! Close your legs! Hur dur!!!"... in the end, you guys use the exact same arguments conservatives use on yourselves... you may have a different skin, you are all the same. All over again! I think you're getting better at it the more you speak... keep going! "Teach women not to use condom's content?"... lmao... sounds familiar?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 04:23 PM
1	Women have more bodily autonomy than men. Condoms, can fail, can be trafficked and yes some women do use them after the deed. Why do you think a lot of men throw them in the toilet? Because it can't be used after! But hey... keep talking... I’m sorry, I don’t speak moron. I think you're pretty good at it ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 04:01 PM
7	Dating for Women is Not Like Looking for Clean Water in a Swamp; Rather, it is Like Looking for Healthy Food in a Grocery Store You're getting there... for some healthy food to look interesting you'd actually have to learn how to cook and do the cooking, then the dishes. Things people that complain constantly about food don't want nor have the knowledge to do. There isn't a lack of good food, there's only a lack of willingness to learn how to cook and recognize bad food... drop the hotdogs!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 03:58 PM
1	Women have more bodily autonomy than men. You mean these things that women take and impregnate themselves with and men are still owed child support as a result or are sued if they put spicy stuff in them so women don't use it? Seems similar to "You don't want to get pregnant? Take the pill! Close your legs! Hur dur!!!"... in the end, you guys use the exact same arguments conservatives use on yourselves... you may have a different skin, you are all the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 03:45 PM
11	Dating for Women is Not Like Looking for Clean Water in a Swamp; Rather, it is Like Looking for Healthy Food in a Grocery Store It's not dishonest. Healthy food looks boring. Junk food has all the publicity, all the flashy designs and if you're trained to appreciate flashy things then you ignore anything that isn't flashy. People will tell you about how to recognize healthy food but you don't listen because brocoli looks boring compared to a hotdog. It takes deconstruct to understand that frozen vegetables aren't the same as fresh vegetables... You also realize you'd have to actually cook and do the dishes which you cons…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 03:37 PM
30	Dating for Women is Not Like Looking for Clean Water in a Swamp; Rather, it is Like Looking for Healthy Food in a Grocery Store This is like when you're younger, you have your first appartment, and you do your own first grocery. You think whatever "bullshit" your parents told you to eat and not eat you decided to ignore and buy whatever you want. You don't want to cook, you don't want to do dishes and you crave sugar and salt... after a while you realize this food isn't fullfilling and it costs a lot. Some people will forever stay in the frozen dish alleys and complain food is making them sick and is unhealthy, ignoring …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 02:58 PM
6	Men are in a desert and women are in swamp is misandry. These men put on their makeup and artifices through their words.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 02:33 PM
-4	Casual sex benifits men more than women Lots of activities do physically and psychologically change people. Work for instance, some sports, even relationships. But to give you credits, I learned about how some women do lose teeth while pregnant when I was in my early 20s and it scared me so much I didn't want my sister to get pregnant... lol. In the end she didn't lose anything but one of my ex did. I think women are amazing to be able to create new humans and it does take a toll. I'll always champion women for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 05:12 PM
-3	Casual sex benifits men more than women That's a weird framing. There are something like less than 100/100 000 death by birthing in America. Saying it's life threatning is unjustly fear mongering. There are thousands more women that die while driving yet we don't talk like driving is life threatning for women. Also, a lot of men in jail for failing to pay child support would have like to easily walked away from it. Maybe you can give them tips how to. Something tells me you'd give them the same tip pro life people tell women to avoid …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 04:50 PM
12	Are men overthinking approaching women in public? But when I’ve actually talked to women about it in real life, the responses seem pretty different. A lot of them say they don’t mind being approached at all as long as the guy is respectful and socially aware. This is bait! But realistically I wouldn't approach romantically a random woman in the streets or even in most public places. I think there are ways to make yourself approacheable but imo, when women say that, they say it to not look like they're bad people and when they say they're ok to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 01:36 AM
5	Q4W: Who should be taught how to treat their partners? And why? "it should go both ways" as the girls are taught to cook, clean This a thousand times. People saying women should stay home, cook and clean while men should go to work is dumb as hell imo. We aren't in the 1800 where work necessarily equals heavy lifting and hard physical labor. Women can work, men can cook and clean. I think we should always let people in relationship take the roles that suit their relationship and themselves best, no need to impose clear gender roles anymore imo. Treating peop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/26 12:05 AM
0	Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women? "Most men don't look for submissiveness, they look for companionship, good moments, peace. Not to fight over everything..." Why can’t you submit? Why does it always have to be us, hm? "Most men don't look for submissiveness..." Why can't you read? Submissiveness isn't that attractive. Partnership is, but a lot of people, and especially in how women frame/see it is "he/she does what I say, when I say it and however I want it!" Not fighting over the minute thing isn't submissiveness, or maybe you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 05:34 PM
5	The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic gender Giving this right back at ya "I mean if that's your personal experience that's your personal experience." Doesn't negate what I said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 05:29 PM
-7	Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women? Lol! Very true. But this is a recipe to fail in the long run...	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 05:20 AM
7	The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic gender but the ones that get mad like you're doing make it pretty clear why they struggle with dating or whatever else in life Isn't that enabling the behavior he's talking about? Like, so what, do as you're told or you don't deserve love? Would you say the same thing to women about things like they should put on makeup for men and if they don't and complain about it then they'd face replies like the one you posted? This is comedy at it's best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 05:11 AM
6	The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic gender I never understood from where blue pill men have this unwavering belief that women can do nothing wrong and men can do nothing right !! It's so creepy 100%... these guys have no personality, they react like stumulus, not because they actually think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 05:05 AM
16	The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic gender You think some of these men's lives are fiction because you don't believe women are like that but I've known way more men being stressed to perform during Valentine's day than any women I've known. I actually never heard a woman being stressed because she's affraid she can't give the "right" thing to her man on Valentine's day, never heard a woman say she had to sleep on the couch or her bf/husband gives them the silence treatment because of missed these special days. But the reverse is common.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 04:55 AM
-3	Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women? God damn right, not being combative is almost impossible these days. Everything has to be a fight or something, even simple things like choosing a place to eat. Most men don't look for submissiveness, they look for companionship, good moments, peace. Not to fight over everything...	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 04:44 AM
–	Why is “MILF” a top porn category if men are only attracted to young women? I think it does yes. They almost are all part of fantasies which doesn't mean we want that in real life. Like men like action movies about beating multiple people and the struggle of getting up from a beating then go back and kill that buffed alien... but in real life most wouldn't want to get beaten and wouldn't try to get revenge for fear of being beatne again. I think women erotica is exactly like that, just because a minotaur is dominating a woman doesn't mean women want to be dominated by m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 06:44 PM
–	Why is “MILF” a top porn category if men are only attracted to young women? One of the top porn subject is also siblings and/or parents... you can't based people's attraction only on porn. Also people who say men are only attracted to younger women in their 20s are full of bs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 06:16 PM
1	Homophobia is just gynocentrism on steriods. I think this is misleading because it doesn't tell which kind of homophobia is accepted and which isn't. For example, in today's society homophobia is frowned uppon. But at the time the study was made it wasn't. We could even see in multiple movies the depiction of homosexuality between two men to be highly repulsive while between two women it was already kinda accepted, as long as the two women were very beautiful and their relationship was geared towards male gaze. Most men wouldn't refuse a r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 05:55 PM
1	Men think that men are predators These kind of pyramids can't be used lightly by people that can't see past extremes and that's what you're doing, lebelling everything as the extreme based on the bottom of the pyramids because you assume it leads to the top and since almost everyone at some point do look at people then you assume everyone is at the extreme top sexually assaulting people. That's also why feminists think since there are men at the top then it means all men are at the top... which is bs. If you casually hit your b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 05:35 PM
6	Do women value/need safety and social/emotional signals to be intimate? You assume arousal is necessary to create offspring but it's not and a lot of people were born out of rape. And I fully understand how women will look for safety first. We can't overlook this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 05:22 PM
1	Men think that men are predators My false narrative? You mean where she explicitly say though she knows they aren't the same she thinks one leads to the other hence why she used both words?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 04:13 PM
1	Men think that men are predators Rape culture... no one thinks it's ok to sexually assault anyone aside from people that sexually abuse people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 03:47 PM
1	Men think that men are predators Please, tell me where I even implied it's fine? But in the same vein of logic, do you think assaulting someone is the same as harrassment? Maybe you don't know the difference between the two words.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 03:25 PM
1	Men think that men are predators You can't make a point using a specific word then to support your point you change to another word which happens way more often but is different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 03:14 PM
1	Men think that men are predators I know perfectly what I'm saying. Seems you don't. She said men gain by assaulting women to keep power over women whcich I asked how are men doing so. To support her claim she, instead of continue using the term assault, she use harrassment. But I didn't changed the subject, assault and harrassment aren't the same you can use interchangeably. Then you came and asked why I lied which I didn't. Get off your high horse and go assault some woman to keep them in servitude like she implies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 03:10 PM
7	Men actively police the preferences, sexual tastes, and dating choices of other men, and it makes everyone miserable I kinda agree with you, but women often police other women's choice when they think the guy their friend is dating is subpar. Mostly when they're single themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 04:43 AM
11	Men actively police the preferences, sexual tastes, and dating choices of other men, and it makes everyone miserable You're bluepill, ofc you've never seen women do anything questionable. Meanwhile people have different experiences with both genders participating in policing each other. We're all humans, no need to act like one is divine and can do no wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 04:19 AM
15	Men actively police the preferences, sexual tastes, and dating choices of other men, and it makes everyone miserable People police men at every corner, no need to single out men, most men will change and model their behavior based on what women responds to. Women are also policed for their behavior, that's what we do as social creatures.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 03:45 AM
-3	Men think that men are predators Hmm... can't I use assault and sexual harrassment interchangbly like she did? Or maybe do you think "men gain from assault women" is actually true? Are you also part of those men that do harrass women, or do you consider yourself part of the holy deities that are feminist?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 12:20 AM
1	Men think that men are predators Men do have something to gain from assaulting women. It keeps the societal power imbalance in favour of men, because it keeps women scared. Even the men do not assault women benefit from the fact that some men do. That's her own words I'm replying to. Go cherry pick elsewhere!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 12:08 AM
3	Men think that men are predators Lmao, before he's a feminist he's a man. How do you think you two got together? You think he didn't assau... ahem... didn't looked at you first? Also, I know a lot of terrible people that call themselves feminists and to most people, that includes most women, feminists aren't really good people. Sure most people work towards the core idea led by feminists but the vast majority don't think they are sane people, even feminists themselves more than often fight over dumb shit, or will revoke someone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 09:55 PM
7	Men think that men are predators If people looking at you is assault then no wonder you think all men assault you. Also, do you think your boyfriend assaults other women because he gains something out of it? Is he everyday assaulting your friends? Ohh you can't say he isn't like that, he's a man and he must gain something. Have you asked him how he assaults his coworkers and other women when he's not with you? I think you should, maybe you date a serial assaulter lmao!	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 09:42 PM
7	Men think that men are predators If that were true, with the quantity of men you see everyday there's not a day/hour you'd go without being beaten up, sexually assaulted, robbed etc. You tell me you go through this everyday from your coworkers, bystanders etc? In what city are you living? This is some chronically online dementia imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 09:26 PM
2	Why do most guys say their ideal woman is a "good girl" (sweet, loyal, low body count, not super party-oriented)? Is it genuine or just what sounds good? No one thinks eating fast food is a sound long term strategy health wise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 04:40 PM
1	Blue Pill is an ideology and actually very delusional. They think they're special and the dog that bites everyone will not bite them...	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 03:54 PM
–	it’s depressing that money feels like the only way out . Mehh, no different than what women say they want but will run after the opposite. People can't seem to think this through. Please open up but you opening up gives me the ick. Please be virgins but you shouldn't be too hard to get... both genders are incoherent and both pay in different ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 03:35 PM
–	Most Men Who Are Obsessed With "Paternity Fraud" Don't Understand Genetics Dear lord... so you actually did create the thread lmao. Well at least you do believe in your bs..	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 11:01 PM
–	Paternity fraud should have criminal liability and reverse burden of proof. I know perfectly what I'm talking about. I'm sorry but maybe you need someone to have a lot of sex in order to believe them, but I rather talk to someone that has fewer sexual prowess than to someone that actually believes bending over and taking raw cheating and then try to justify raising someone else's kid because humans share 99% dna... do you have other similar takes? That was kinda comedy gold!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 09:03 PM
–	Paternity fraud should have criminal liability and reverse burden of proof. Actually, what a man should really do is understand enough about genetics to know that all humans are 99.9% genetically identical to each other. Unless we're talking about some weird genetic disease, it doesn't matter all that much who supplies sperm. I'd like you to create a thread in raskmen or any other subreddit and try to convince fathers that them being the actual fathers of their kids doesn't matter and they just just go with whatever happens... this is next level beta cuckery. Anyway I'm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 06:55 PM
1	Paternity fraud should have criminal liability and reverse burden of proof. Is feeling being sure an escape jail card now? Should we also use "I feel I'm sure" for other things like whether I did my job or not? Could we go to the bank and say I feel I'm sure I depositted the money so it is there, no need to double check?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 06:28 PM
2	Paternity fraud should have criminal liability and reverse burden of proof. Mandatory testing at birth would solve that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 06:26 PM
–	Paternity fraud should have criminal liability and reverse burden of proof. How do you know it's incridibly rare? Is there data on all birth that says all childs are the child of the supposed father? Imo it's like false allegations, we don't really know the extend of it since there are too many variables we don't know about at play.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 06:19 PM
–	Paternity fraud should have criminal liability and reverse burden of proof. Side note, why is it always the guys who are clearly not getting laid who yell the most loudly about paternity fraud? What a weird asinine comment... you think men that get laid would never talk about paternity fraud? Lmao... and those that suffered from paternity fraud what should they do in your opinion? Just endure "like a man"?. Geez it's so weird to always frame everything as people that get laid = virtuous flawless people, people "I think don't get laid to win arguments" = bottom feeder of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 06:05 PM
10	Being upset about not having had sex is not a moral failure or entitlement. Why do you pretend it is ? This is nonsense. You can have a successful sexual life with the other gender and still realize some talking points are real and some aren't. Just because something doesn't happen to you doesn't mean that thing isn't true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 04:10 PM
1	Most women have no desire to use their bodies to soothe the egos of insecure men. Just like in anything, it doesn't apply to every member of a group, news at 7.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/26 08:11 PM
0	Most women have no desire to use their bodies to soothe the egos of insecure men. Imo it's similar to women going on a "journey" to find themselves by riding as many dicks as possible to feel validated. Both gender use sex as a form of "validation" and both wants the attention of others. Women put way more effort in being seen than men do hence why the clothing, makeup Instagram and other social media thirst traps and so on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/26 06:26 PM
2	Are mothers more likely to enable harmful behavior from overlooking red flags to staying silent when it matters most? Just as an example, I have three sisters, all three are younger than me, I also have brothers. We all grew up with both parents. My father was kinda strict but my mother wasn't. Most of the time we asked her for things and if she told us to ask our father instead quite often we decided to abandon the request as we knew it was something he wouldn't agree with. One of my sister, at 14 wanted to spend the night at her friends, some kind of pyjama party. My father said, ok but I'll take you there, t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/26 11:43 PM
0	Bad men are not analogous to the weather Ofc you don't, your only goal is to point finger without context and call it a day. But it's shortsighted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/26 09:14 PM
1	Bad men are not analogous to the weather In terms of violent crime we agree yes. But I don't see things in black and white like you seem to do. For example, even though cutting off my arm can result in my death, there are a lot of other softer ways to end someone's life and only adressing the most extremes ones wouldn't be effective. There are diseases, there are lack of specific proteins, vitamins, minerals, there is psychological problems, there is over eating bad food that can result in multiple problems etc. Ofc you want to prevent…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/26 08:01 PM
2	Bad men are not analogous to the weather Men are more prone to take risks, do things that are dangerous and more agressive in what they do. That is true accross almost everything, ofc it'll also be true for things that are bad. Men will take more drastic measures to make things happen. That includes in the crimes they perpetrate. Edit: I forgot to add the bell curve's distribution where men are more represented in extremes in almost everything. That includes violent crimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/26 07:15 PM
3	Bad men are not analogous to the weather For the exact same reason law enforcement, firefighters, military, construction builders, oil rig workers etc are mostly men. The exact same thing that pushes men to do these is also true on the reverse. Just like people that are extreme in their loving are also extreme in their revenge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/26 06:44 PM
3	People who insert other groups into the "man vs bear" argument are inconsistent You have to add portrayal of prevalence of danger pushed by social media, tv, movies, novels and what not though. Statistically men disproportionaly commit more violence but this is based on the violence comitted. The percentage per capita is not that high. It also depends on the region/city you live in. Some stats like paternity fraud are way higher than violent crime per capita yet women tell us we shouldn't care about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/26 05:36 PM
–	"Passport bros is just about money" is a fable Western women tell themselves to sleep better at night. So what, these same women insult most men days in days out and even create articles about how men are not worth their time, men are falling behind, men aren't as rich and educated as they want to so they don't have good dating options anymore and men need to fix themselves. Western women do have a lot to fix about themselves too. We all have. Passport bros just don't fin western women desirable just like western women don't find most men desirable... I see no issue there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 08:11 PM
–	"Passport bros is just about money" is a fable Western women tell themselves to sleep better at night. These people are stuck with the old colonial image that countries outside the West are dirt poor and live in huts waiting to be saved by the white man. They were outraged when Trump said things like they eat the dogs, they eat the cats but they can't see in the mirror they hold similar thoughts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 07:58 PM
5	Studies against Men Are Often Designed to Confirm a Narrative, Not Find Truth Then there's nothing to complain about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 02:45 AM
5	Studies against Men Are Often Designed to Confirm a Narrative, Not Find Truth Men also work more in their family, is that a sacrifice? Go out do strenous jobs, endure bosses, over time, being over worked and travel farther distances to ensure their family has everything on the table and a decent life... is that sacrifice? I'm pretty sure those fathers would rather work less and enjoy their life with their children. Some of you just think men are priviledge robots that only want to get above women for some reason... Both men and women need to work to sustain themselves. On…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 02:21 AM
3	Studies against Men Are Often Designed to Confirm a Narrative, Not Find Truth Makes me think of when 10 people die, 7 men and 3 women it will be framed as "3 women died in horrible tragic accident! We should protect women more!"... just to realize there were also 7 men that died in the same accident but they weren't mentionned... U.N. does this all the time!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/26 11:25 PM
3	Studies against Men Are Often Designed to Confirm a Narrative, Not Find Truth Society is maintained by both gender and both do different jobs. Unless you think all the infrastructure, sewage, electricity, transport and so on don't help maintaining a society?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/26 11:08 PM
6	Studies against Men Are Often Designed to Confirm a Narrative, Not Find Truth They don't pay these wages because they hire only immigrants. It's more like they pay a miserable wage and only immigrants will do them. There's a difference. Like I know a few immigrants here in Canada their diplomas and qualifications aren't recognized here, they are sked to do more studies to practice their skills so either they go back to university to learn what they were already doing or they find quick jobs and Uber , Amazon etc are these jobs because they don't require qualifications. Of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/26 11:03 PM
8	Studies against Men Are Often Designed to Confirm a Narrative, Not Find Truth First of all yes it was exactly framed like that. Most people were surprised and shocked of this "finding". Some articles even backtracked by including some third world countries. The framing was women in the West but some data came from third world countries... that was kinda hilarious. Women do have access to higher positions. But a lot of women just don't understand what it means to hold these positions. Feminists talk about CEO positions like they do nothing all day and are just paid 7 figur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/26 10:55 PM
–	Studies against Men Are Often Designed to Confirm a Narrative, Not Find Truth Makes me think of when 10 people die, 7 men and 3 women it will be framed as "3 women died in horrible tragic accident! We should protect women more!"... just to realize there were also 7 men that died in the same accident but they weren't mentionned... U.N. does this all the time!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/26 10:13 PM
20	Studies against Men Are Often Designed to Confirm a Narrative, Not Find Truth The reason people cared about these variables is because for a long time it was framed that women for the exact same job same qualifications were paid 70 cents for each dollars mend made. Framing it like companies were getting away with paying women lower wages for the exact same job. Surely you've heard people say "If companies can pay women less then why don't they only hire women?. Then suddenly an explication of the actual methodology started to surface.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/26 10:08 PM
1	"Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all time You mean like everything in the world that is happening at large is always pushed for everyone to know instantly? Like if something happens in a country you're not in you'll suddenly know about it? Or that if something happens in a country and you look at it then the algorythm suggest you more thing of that country but, using your logic, since the algorithm is now suggesting things from that country then it means it's not really happeing thus of less importance? You guys try to hard to use "the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/26 06:15 PM
1	Who would be better at Dating, a good or Bad person? It depends on their tactics and who they try to have a date with. Ofc manipulators will almost always have their way easier than those that don't rely on deceiving others, primarily because they'll take time to study their victims and act based on what they respond to, not necessarily on who they are as a person. A bad person will also not take no for an answer and will push more, sometimes it will work, sometimes they'll just immediately go for the next person. Maybe a bad person will land more…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/26 06:10 PM
5	If TRP wasn’t true, there wouldn’t be such immediate resistance to and censorship of it I also think a lot of ideas that come from the red pill can be harmful. I would also agree that people go out their way to censor some truth, namely any that portraits women in a bad light. For example, our media, at least here in Canada, really struggle to associate women and rape. They always find a way to not say it like it is. Our culture also has a hard time holding women accountable for their mistakes or their bad judgement. We can never assume women can be the architect of their own woes.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/26 02:43 AM
15	If TRP wasn’t true, there wouldn’t be such immediate resistance to and censorship of it You'll be banned on askwomen before you can even formulate a proper question lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/26 02:33 AM
1	What are your values? Do other people share them? I value friendship, staying true and down to earth, not letting yourself go down the spiral internet memes, clear communication, politeness, being gentle towards others especially to those that work in service industries and most of all, respect of your body and mind. This last one is very important, don't treat yourself like it's a piece of garbage or something to not care about, mentally and physically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/26 05:03 PM
2	Feminists will do all sorts of mental gymnastics to avoid admitting that women objectify themselves whenever it's convenient, and would rather demonize male sexuality instead. I think the sentiment of not representing all women because you want something is also what most men mean when they say just because one man does something doesn't mean men at large does the same thing or share the same idea. Just say not all women! This sentiment is valid and we shouldn't shame people that don't want to "represent" a whole group everytime they do something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/26 06:54 PM
1	Feminism is extremely dangerous We aren't the same I agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/26 12:55 AM
1	Feminism is extremely dangerous Hope you do the same when it's feminists or women that create asinine posts... most people form their opinion of feminism by visiting actual feminist pages / subs... and less and less people, even women don't want to associate with the label. I agree posting bs doesn't help, but acting like feminism will gain traction for OPs post is kinda hilarious when most of their subs are filled with man hate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 10:07 PM
2	Feminism is extremely dangerous Most women rapist don't end up in prison just like a lot of men rapist don't go to prison... our system isn't the best at prosecuting rapists. There needs to be a shift in our perception of how to handle rape imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 08:51 PM
1	Men need to stop making everything about themselves. I 100% agree bias exist, we all are. I used to visit some mra subs but imo they are exactly like feminists sub. Echo chamber that only put blame on the other gender. I find this hilarious!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 08:22 PM
2	Men need to stop making everything about themselves. I also think they change their tune based on if the person identifies as a feminist and if the person is a man or not. I've seen a man asking them how to spread feminist messaging in a proper manner as a man and they mocked him for trying to curate his speech. Then a woman later asked the exact same thing, though they didn't mocked her, they told her she shouldn't try to cuddle men and if they don't accept the message then they are both misogynists and don't want to let go their patriarchal priv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 07:55 PM
2	Men need to stop making everything about themselves. I try to avoid that sub as I think it's more toxic than it should be. I believe you, but go try to tell them that on that sub. Their logic is "we don't have to cuddle men" and will attack anyone, men and women, that suggest anything about how feminism needs to rethink how they phrase everything in a vague accusatory manner. Like being clear in their messagig means cuddle... lmao... I'm a teacher, I would never employ that tactic, nor would politicians, husbands, marketing and so on. But to them,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 07:24 PM
2	Men need to stop making everything about themselves. You know... when my message is not properly received I reformulate to be better understood, I don't go on a tirade about how the recipient is failing to understand what I didn't took time to voice properly. Women and especially feminists need to work on their messaging. I really don't understand why fight against clear communication and instead fight over the moral standing of people that didn't get their messaging... please, read our mind or you are misogynists!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 07:10 PM
0	The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women. Imo, it always depends on people's dynamics. This whole thing is one sided because one side complains more than the other wants to even cares about complaining but it's changing. All that emotional labor only takes into account what women do and ignores and/or dismisses whatever men do. Like women endure men's emotional woes... but men don't?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 04:17 AM
3	The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women. Even family traditions. We were 5 children, my mother always wanted to celebrate our birthdays but both my brother and I didn't care about our birthday celebration, we wanted more to go out a do things outside. Now, my father accepted and really liked that, he always bought us things to have fun outside, like sports and/or fishing equipment. My mother always put time and effort doing things to celebrate our birthday and was often pissed my father didn't help her that much. In the end, she was th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 02:40 AM
0	The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women. Interesting, do men go out their way to do things for women? Thinking about dating, does it mean everything men do for women is emotional labor? Should it be considered as such and voiced as much as women complain about having to do anything for their own children?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 02:20 AM
5	The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women. This reads like a list of things you want to do and expect your partner to be as enthusiastic about doing it and you are frustrated because they're not as invested as you are. Like if I want to build something outside the house and I do most of the work and get pissed because my partner didn't rush or think about all the different ways she can help me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 01:58 AM
8	How Can We Hold Space for Male Victims of Violence While Acknowledging Women’s Safety Concerns in Dating? They already think most men are losers, so putting themselves in these men's shoes would mean being in the shoes of losers and they don't want that. They'd first need to start seeing men as humans too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 01:15 PM
–	"Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all time You both can't make claim in this case, your point isn't any more valid than his.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 01:32 AM
–	"Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all time That's true, at the same time you can't say something isn't prevalent because it was on someone's algorithm. It has become the "that's conspiracy territory" kinda response people have adopted as to dismiss talking points.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/26 10:44 PM
–	"Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all time Must be the same "feel good" women get when they follow trends like the bear and call men trash online... in their need to call out people, men and women aren't that different, just there are more people to blindly call out men while ignoring when women need to be called out too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/26 08:01 PM
–	"Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all time I feel you and yeah people here will act like women are dumb and don't want nor can hold a discussion about things they may be in the wrong about. Where I side with some of them is on the early stage of dating it's better to avoid discussion that can be controversial or ones where that person can be very emotional about. But ultimately no, I wouldn't just side with whatever a woman says just so she likes me nor would I want to be with someone that expects me to just shut up and be pretty. These …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/26 07:55 PM
–	"Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all time Quick question, does anything suggested by "THE ALGORITHM" makes that something instantly false or that is doesn't happen?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/26 07:46 PM
2	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? Lmao, you're actually the one treating them like a hive mind. Also... didn't I speak against generalizing speech? Maybe you should reread what I wrote!	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/26 06:26 PM
2	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? Because it gets parrotted everywhere after that. Speaking in generalizations does no good. If a woman doesn't want to be approach she should just she she doesn't want to be approach. But what these women do is claim "women don't want to be approached". Then other women will just parrot the claim depending on how they feel in the moment. Men will see these women venting about their own preferences but they speak like it's what women want and other women aren't gonna tell them that's not true. I f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/26 06:11 PM
2	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? Well, let's say we agree to disagree then. I don't think you understand the concept of choice in abondance vs choice in scarcity and why both aren't equal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 06:29 PM
6	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? Big revelation here then... why the mockery of men taking it personal when women make generalizations about men then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 05:58 PM
1	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? This idea that "men chose who to date" needs to stop. Men don't have as many options as women do, you act like men have this amazing pool of women to chose from. Men will try their luck multiple time with multiple women and the woman that is responsive is "the chosen one". Women have the higher ground in dating. They are the ones being hit on multiple times so they're the ones making the real choice. Some men are in that position but to act like this is true for all men is weird and fails at und…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 05:57 PM
3	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? A lot of men think this is monkey dance without telling women or even voicing it as is. Women have no idea, that's why you find it offensive but that's the reality. Women's version of monkey dance would be keeping yourself in shape, put on some makeup, put yourself outhere, laugh at their jokes etc. We both have our set and yes, women do complain about having to do those as well. All women and all men? No ofc. Do we all hate to do that, absolutely not, but it is exactly that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 05:53 PM
5	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? Lmao, women wouldn't even know if a man has this view unless he tells her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 05:34 PM
2	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? It's true that women that like a guy will do whatever possible to be with him. But that's not always true. The "men make all the decisions and all the approaching" is based on the fact men actually do the approaching most of the time. Men are the ones being told "no means no" for a reason, it's because they do the approaching. You can't expect men that aren't Brad Pitt to just wait for women to approach them. Our culture also push the idea that men have to do it. The men make all the decision an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 05:31 PM
8	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? Women hate, I mean HATE to be generalized with anything negative, just like men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 05:23 PM
6	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? Dancing monkey in this case refers to the set of actions men specifically have to do to be considered potential partners whic get ridiculous year after year, pushed by social media. See it like, unless you put on some specific makeup on top of the one you already put on you wouldn't be considered interesting and if you voice yourself on this "criteria" then people would call you out telling you that if you're not ready to put that specific makeup you don't deserve anyone's time... So, would you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 05:22 PM
2	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? I don't think you understand the subject or you try hard to just disagree for some reason. I had my share of gf in life and aside from a few, I did the approaching, even when they were the ones interested in me first. Granted I didn't have to always pay nor initiate conversations. Our culture puts courtship on men's shoulders. Doesn't mean in every cases it's what happens but that's how it is. Some women are more picky and demanding in what men have to do to be considered a potential partner. So…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 05:12 PM
4	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? Is that what you had to do for the guy to have dating interest in you? Or is that something you did for a man you're already with? I know the answer, I just want you to tell me in your own words.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 05:03 PM
2	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? 100%. I think too many aren't taking no for an answer for multiple reasons. Some because they're too persistent and are told to not let go easily, some because they believe women like to play hard to get.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 04:58 PM
1	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? Are you for real? "Putting an act" in this case means doing things you don't usualy do like always pay when you go out with people, always agree with what they say, always initiate conversations, always do the effort to be funny and the most important one, do all these but not expecting anything in return or expect the same from the person you're with. A man can be the best person alive but we all have to "put an act" to be considered interesting to women. Some have to put more effort than other…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 04:54 PM
12	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? It's always easy to dismiss a problem when you're not the one having to do the work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 04:49 PM
13	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? Things like "men shouldn't approach unknown women anytime, anywhere in public, at school or at work".	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 04:43 PM
2	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? Is just being fun to be around OPs subject or is the subject around what he has to do to be considered a potential partner?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 04:42 PM
11	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? Just say "not all women" like men have been saying for years lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 04:15 PM
11	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? I think meeting in real life is the best way. But we shouldn't put all these barriers to prevent people from meeting each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 04:05 PM
2	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? Is it possible to be fun without having to act like a dancing monkey?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 03:59 PM
1	Why do men complain so much? Cmon, you're no competition. Funny though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 02:20 AM
1	Why do men complain so much? You have as much fun as I am I see 😂...	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 02:17 AM
1	Why do men complain so much? Good	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 02:13 AM
1	Why do men complain so much? Stay safe Stacey, say hi to your mom!	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 02:03 AM
1	What do you think Blue Pill is? That's just you displaying how childish you are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 02:02 AM
1	Why do men complain so much? Praise the lord, little Jimmy is growing up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 02:01 AM
1	Why do men complain so much? At no point have I tried to minimize women's struggles around child birth. In fact I'm siding with women's right to decide for themselves whether it's the right time to birth a child or not. I hope women always have the healthcare they need and the social and financial support necessary for them around anything regarding child rearing. As a Canadian, I fully support parental leave for both parents. But I can support all this without thinking men have it easy and no systems should be put in place…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 01:58 AM
1	What do you think Blue Pill is? Prove it	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 01:47 AM
1	Why do men complain so much? Nothing to get off my chest. I don't even have kids. I just understand life isn't so simple. But I wouldn't expect you to figure this out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 01:46 AM
1	Why do men complain so much? You certainly didn't	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 01:31 AM
1	What do you think Blue Pill is? Which you showed none of...	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 12:50 AM
1	What do you think Blue Pill is? Lmao, whatever childish bs suits you man. But you do speak like a true bluepiller, carry on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 12:45 AM
6	What do you think Blue Pill is? The thing is redpill does a collection of things that may up your chances and those are part of them. Someone in another comment said it better but it's like red pill will tell you things that may up your game even if it makes women look bad because that's what they respond to while bluepillers will tell you things that always make women look more virtuous even if it doesn't work like "have you considered therapy?", "just take a shower bro", "it's because of your personnality".	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 12:24 AM
3	Why do men complain so much? Well, paying child support for your kid is the responsible thing to do. But let's not talk like it's nothing. Some men are put in prison for failing to pay child support. Once in prison they can't pay but the amount they owe still pile up and that's how you get people in jail for a very long time for a system that doesn't care about this issue. No help, when these men fail we put them in prison... women pay even less child support when they're the deadbeat parent but no woman has been put in jai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 12:05 AM
5	What do you think Blue Pill is? Red pill or not this is a good advice if you want to better your success with women. You have to look at what women respond to initially.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/26 11:50 PM
4	Why do men complain so much? It’s like listening to a rich person complain about how hard it is to be rich. Lol, we could talk about this for hours. Like how women complain about the way they dress but most clothing stores are for women, they have all color range and sizes, textures, shapes. Society accepts women dress almost however they want yet will complain about not being able to go half naked. That's pricezely your point. Men see it as vain and tone deaf. Women have all birth controls available to them, are able to ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/26 11:30 PM
5	What do you think Blue Pill is? Whit such comment you should claim being childish... smh!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/26 11:06 PM
2	What do you think Blue Pill is? Ofc, they are the real "pick me".	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/26 11:04 PM
7	Why do men complain so much? Both men and women do and will complain about things they fall behind you can't deny this. For a long time women said they didn't get paid the same as men for doing the exact same job, though it was more complicated than that. They complained about the pink tax, about not having pockets, complain about air conditionner lmao. Men are complaining about not having control over their reproductive options, their dating options, about women's high standards and yes men complain about their wage becaus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/26 10:52 PM
7	Why do men complain so much? We could say the same about any fields or topic where one is dominating and the other is not. Like why were women complaining so much about job position or their wage? We don't hear men complain as much! Maybe because men had it good while women had to fight for better outcome. Seems pretty similar to me, complain when you fall behind and ask for people to stop complaining when you have the advantage because it doesn't affect you as much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/26 10:23 PM
12	From a woman’s POV the disparity isn’t that “more men get murdered than women,” it’s that more men kill women than women kill men. Generaly speaking women don't want to accept nor recognize that their mating selection plays a huge part in who people are and what personnality traits is pushed forward. If they reconized this it would mean they play a part in the violence they suffer from, which isn't on their agenda, it has to be men and only men that does all the wrong for, no reasons other than Patriarchy, toxic masculinity and misogyny. Like, "it's not my taste in men that makes me date only aggressive men. It's men that a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/26 06:43 PM
4	Women do not deserve better I'm sorry but where did I try to talk down on tubal ligation? I know very well they are the "equivalent" to vasectomies yet I would never suggest a woman get one unless she absolutely know she wants to be sterile and to talk to her doctor because of complications that can occur. Look, I hate how loose the talk about vasectomies being reversible is and how people, especially women, push for men to get one and just say they are reversible. Like, why? In the end, that man might end up sterile and i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/26 12:22 AM
2	Women do not deserve better Ehh stop this, vasectomies should be considered permanent, source? Actual doctors. Also, why do you need to talk about tubal ligation? We're talking about vasectomies and how people, especially women, are uninformed and push the idea that they are easily reversible? Even some feminists think boys should get vasectomies and reverse it when they are "ready" and over 18yo... I'm sorry but that is an automatic sterilization of these boys. Women's health, at least here in Canada, is way more funded t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/26 10:46 PM
3	Women do not deserve better " Most men are pussies that are afraid to point it out, I am not one of those men. " Very true sadly, it's like they're affraid of something. I don't care, if women can say whatever grudge they have with men then so should men. And that's not even a grudge, it's exactly what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/26 10:34 PM
11	Women do not deserve better The funny thing is most of the discussion around "we want the same rights as men" is not about rights but about what they want and assume men have and they feel entitled to it and want it to become a law. Like they want to be able to walk alone at night. It's a want they have and they think men have that as a right but they can't see that men do get mug, beaten, robbed and killed. They want the pink tax to be gone... but their products are different so it warrants a different price. Also nothing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/26 07:56 PM
–	I am disgusted at the state of women's diets and health in general. Women, do you see this issue in men? Dang, is most of the world "shit" countries now? You speak like a true Trump fan.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/26 07:34 PM
–	I am disgusted at the state of women's diets and health in general. Women, do you see this issue in men? You're funny if you think most women can cook...	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/26 07:29 PM
5	Women seem to dislike clear communication, its a turnoff for them Pretty usual behavior... like the meme says, they'll always try to attack them using sex references because having sex is the only metric they know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/26 06:28 PM
–	Mainstream feminism is in many ways a right-wing ideology. Just like the men you mentionned then... they are just single men with opinions, Tate, Peterson, Rogan etc. Why make a fuss about them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/26 10:43 PM
1	Most examples of good male role models still covertly represent traditionally masculine ideals of unachievable levels of wealth, status and success that harm men's mental health TBH people like Andrew Tate may not listen to young men's problem but at least he's not there calling them toxic, trash and to fix their problems themselves like feminists and the left (in the US) do. Young men are humans like any other humans with their flaws and they too want to see themselves in the future and want to see encouragement that they can get there. And no, men haven't live with this level of hatred. I'm in my fourties, I'm a teacher and I didn't grew up in such environment. On the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 10:41 PM
2	Feminist online spaces are increasingly unable to take critique. You can look at which topics gets more traction on this sub and talking about feminism isn't one. Trashing men does get a lot of traffic, as well as topics where a man is trashing feminism. Other topics are left ignored. I think they just want to vent and on that sub they have multiple opportunities to do so since they are called "Ask" but they don't really wanna be asked anything. There's very little sound discussions to be had out there. Even the mod there is cautious with what she says to not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 08:21 PM
-2	Why should "consent to sex isn't consent to Parenthood" only apply to women? I think maybe the language needs to mirror that of these people and just say the reason they do it is to control men's bodies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 08:07 PM
2	Most examples of good male role models still covertly represent traditionally masculine ideals of unachievable levels of wealth, status and success that harm men's mental health You know the landscape for the younger generation is vastly different now than it was before 2015 and up. There were more social spaces where you actually met real people. Now a days young men don't know who they are and what to do and they are told they ain't shit days in days out. At some point you want to associate yourself with people that tell you you have value even if that someone is a a grifter like Tate. I think that's a real problem, not addressing young men's problems doesn't make the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 07:48 PM
3	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. That's kinda true. At the same time, alcohol releases inhibition, many people become funnier, some just get sleepy, some get more flirtuous, some get violent. But you can't say alcohol has no effect on people and those that get violent because they don't get what they want need to be handled. Haven't you been in a club before?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 04:09 PM
-1	Most examples of good male role models still covertly represent traditionally masculine ideals of unachievable levels of wealth, status and success that harm men's mental health There can never be a true male role model that's feminist approved because they approve only those that don't challenge their thoughts and way of doing things. The second that person questions them even when they're in the wrong they'll revoke their "role model" card just like how they usually say "she's not a true feminist" as soon as that woman doesn't accept everything other feminists say. So to me, men should decide what they consider a role model and not ask feminists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 04:06 PM
3	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. You know, I've seen people become monster under alcohol and though I liked these people if they started to drink I just left. Now I had the opportunity to leave. If I had to live with that kind of person ofc I would be tempted to vote in favor of something that would make it stop. Banning alcohol was a mistake, but that behavior had to be addressed. It's like banning alcohol because people used to drive and drink at the same time and cause accidents. Well banning driving and drinking was a bette…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 03:57 PM
-1	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. One thing feminists never talk about is how prohibition helped women get the right to vote. It's only with women's vote that the prohibition was able to be voted in. Women wanted to stop their abusive husbands from beating them due to alcohol (rightly so), that too is well documented but kinda ignored in these discussions. I also never see feminists mention that for men to have the right to vote they also had to own land and be drafted but no "men had it all good". Just assuming that women thems…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 03:45 PM
1	Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this. Nobody thinks only the best people have a shot, this is because too many always think in extremes, exactly like saying "just take a shower", this is an extreme take just to vilify someone. What we say is looking good for the person you want to attract is more important in order to open the discussion with them. And if you can't reach that first step then it has nothing to do with your personality, they just didn't find you attractive that is all. Just like on dating apps if someone doesn't find …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 03:51 PM
2	Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this. That's absolutely not what I'm saying. What I'm saying is that being nice isn't part of the first phase of courtship. No amount of "being nice" will make a woman that doesn't find you attractive interrested in a romantic relationship with you. You first have to be attractive, then depending on what kind of relationship you want with that women, being nice can get you something maybe more meaningful. Even women in this very thread keep saying that being nice doesn't entitle you to shit and that's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 01:25 PM
1	Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this. i think no one wants to be with shitty people. But being a shitty person doesn't prevent them from being successful with dates. Both men and women. Glad that you were able to avoid that pattern.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 01:50 AM
2	Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this. 100% this and I think it's weird how BP skip that part and jumps to "that's because of you shitty personality" lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 01:12 AM
1	What's your Blue Pill success story? Ehh all that fuss just for that... and that's still an opinion, didn't you read my other replies to you where I stated more than twice that it was my opinion... seems like you chose to ignore it, but I'm not surprized!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 01:10 AM
–	TRP’s irrational (and unproductive) hatred of single moms is fully driven by the Madonna-Whore complex to angry daddies that inserted themselves just because they could. That was my last relationship and tbh I don't want to be some sort of third wheel ever again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 12:16 AM
1	What's your Blue Pill success story? What part of "this is my opinion" did you not understand?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 12:09 AM
1	What's your Blue Pill success story? I think women don't want to say they are single, they have all sorts of words to say they are hooking up without saying they are hooking up like "they are finding themselves" or "they're in a situationship". Men wouldn't be proud saying they are single but I might be wrong. Casual sex doesn't mean everyone is paired with a casual partner. For example, I have a friend that only knew two women in his life at 40 while another of my friend might have slept with a hundred if not more. He didn't have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 12:05 AM
1	What's your Blue Pill success story? It's just my observation and opinion based on where I work. I've also seen a study where there are more single men than there are single women which would mean two things. Women are lying or women share people which imo translate into hooking up more. Also there are way more men on dating apps with no success. I just think there are a lot of evidences today's dating landscape is casual sex people > single people > partnered people... just my opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/26 11:43 PM
2	Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this. That's what I think. I think a lot of people went through their share of shitty people and started to think internally about what kind of behavior they allow and will not accept bs even if they find that person very attractive. But a lot of people will never do that introspection and will rather blame others and continue their patterns, then complain again. I think what some people hate is how being unpleasant or how being a good person aren't the reason someone has a partner. Some shitty men wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/26 11:39 PM
5	Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this. Yep and they can't like a guy they don't find phycially attractive since this is what opens the knowing each other phase. I think The Red Pill is talking about that first phase while Blue Pill seems to skip this phase entirely and assume the reason some guy can't find a gf is because of their personnality or because they didn't shower which I think is pretty weird. Maybe people see women being attracted to men's handsomeness as an insult to women for some reason and that's why they are so vocal …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/26 11:31 PM
1	What's your Blue Pill success story? I'm pretty sure casual sex is more common now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/26 11:02 PM
8	Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this. Personnality itself can't do shit on dating apps and will not be revealed to any potential partner unless they are attracted to you from the beginning. Though a good personality will make you shine a little more that's for sure. But no woman sees you from 10m and thinks you have a nice personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/26 10:52 PM
–	Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this. I personnaly think that being nice does attract some type of women though. I'm not gonna say that being nice is the reason they're attracted ofc, but they can find you attractive but hate the way you are and the women that are ready to put up with a shitty behavior must also be shitty themselves. If all I wanted was to have sex I wouldn't care who I attract but since I care about the kind of women I let in my life I don't want the type that ignores red flags since they themselves are walking red…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/26 10:49 PM
0	It's really funny when people bring up the idea of "you don't need sex - you can just jerk off" and then complain about men who only want sex. It's really weird the mental gymnastic some do to not say that jerking off isn't the same as having sex with a partner... I often wonder if these people are real people with actual lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/26 06:28 PM
–	I find it funny the amount of excuses the women use to gaslight and justify their lack of effort on making moves on the guy they like. You forgot the one where they say approaching for women is dangerous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/26 06:21 PM
1	Do women really periorize Money? Men prioritize power because it gives them what they want and that includes women. No man in power is single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/26 06:55 PM
4	Why do you demand empathy/sympathy from women? What do you think will change? You can't just point to one thing and then expect that one single thing to be the difference maker. It's a set of things. See it like women wage gap. It was branded as women make less than men because men paid women less for the exact same job but because they're women they paid them less but when you look deeper you realize there's more to it than just misogyny. Hours worked, negociating salary, child rearing and so on all combined resulted in women earning more. To solve this we didn't tell wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/26 06:52 PM
3	Why do you demand empathy/sympathy from women? What do you think will change? Therapy itself can only do so much but when there are societal problems why not take down these problems? Ohh right, every male problem is their own doing since "who built this society? Men!". People like you can't see that a lot of problems both men and women face are decades in the making through constant reinforcement of social and cultural ideas. For some reason you accept that for most of what women go through and that society and men should change but you can't acknowledge the same to be t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/26 06:26 PM
1	Why do you demand empathy/sympathy from men? What do you think will change? I'm not defending bad behavior from either but my comment wasn't only about insults but behavior and women do hit you, throw things or their drink uppon rejection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/26 06:17 PM
0	Is it ok to hate women who do not understand men? I live in Canada and if there's one thing I learned about teaching it's that women, when they become mothers, understand that schools aren't helping young men that much. When I worked in highschool, since we were rarely more than 3 male teachers compared to 30-40 female teachers and staff, a lot of mothers came to us during parent/teacher meetings to help their sons because they couldn't explain to the female teachers the problems their sons had. That's just one thing but your comment is exactly…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/26 05:20 PM
0	Why do you demand empathy/sympathy from men? What do you think will change? You have to think about the halo effect though. From the moment you were born you were bombarded by images of "what is a good looking woman". You were bombarded by the idea that women are beautiful and you should find them beautiful if they look a certain way. Women are bombarded by the same thing and in order to be accepted, they dress and use makeup to be that "what we consider a beautiful woman". It's pretty normal and accepted that we should tell women they are pretty, we see it in movies, o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/26 04:58 PM
0	Why do you demand empathy/sympathy from men? What do you think will change? Ohh trust me women also act like some of these men and will call you names and sometimes hit you if you don't act the way they want after they gave you that compliment. I've been told I wasn't a real man when a woman put her hands on my junk at a wedding and I told her politely that she has no business doing that. I think to her it was a rejection of her advances. I don't think men are bad and women are angels... we're all different and some of us all are bad while some are good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/26 04:40 PM
3	Why do you demand empathy/sympathy from women? What do you think will change? Respect is more acknowledgement than of fear and/or admiration lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/26 04:35 PM
2	Why do you demand empathy/sympathy from women? What do you think will change? You'd need to have empathy to actually know which problems men have. Just thinking about suicide rates. You'd need to have empathy to realize that men that commit suicide aren't just pos. There are real expectations placed on men that aren't placed on women and some of these expectations will push some to delete themselves. Now to help fix this, society should change some of the way they view men and that includes how women view and expect of men and accept that they play a role in the issue. A …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/26 04:25 PM
7	Why do you demand empathy/sympathy from women? What do you think will change? Ahh man I love this. Some people don't want to understand things, they just want to react to what they see in front of them, like a stimulus. No thinking or understanding behind their actions and try to justify it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/26 04:04 PM
1	Why do you demand empathy/sympathy from men? What do you think will change? Don't you think understanding phenomenon does help navigate around them? If people understand that having too much or too few of something it can help them understand why people behave in certain ways. I don't think it would hurt anyone to actually know how things work, how people are influenced by everything around them. The reason men cherish compliments while women hate them is because of the ratio of which they receive. Take marketing courses and you'll see how simple it is. Also, if men wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/26 03:58 PM
4	Why do you demand empathy/sympathy from men? What do you think will change? Water is good, but if you live your life around water and that sometimes there are floods which are an unwanted amount of water you end up thinking water is a problem meanwhile the person in a desert will cherish water because it's scarce. Compliments are like that, men receive so few that we cherish it when we receive any of them. Even your enemy telling you you were a worthy opponent you'll respect him for that. Women drown in compliments and make an enemy of people that will compliment them. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/26 03:30 PM
4	Woman are actually pretty bad at filtering. I think both men and women are bad at filtering but men don't brag about having a sixth sense where they know who is bad and who isn't and no one is there telling men that they can never be the problem, it's all the other side that is and always will be the problem and that they deserve better, that they shouldn't change anything and go get that bag.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/26 08:13 PM
1	Sexism and Sexual success study 2: The Two Towers It's not a dating advice but a lot of women say men shouldn't bother women or romantically approach women in most public places and if men want to approach women they should go where women are open to be approached, mostly dating apps where they can just ghost or swipe you out (don't know which side is a rejection 😅).	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 03:07 AM
1	Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategy I think you don't understand how women flirt. They don't necessarily have to directly talk and ask a man out. Women put themselves outhere, look at you, touches you, laugh at your every jokes even when they are stupid (the jokes), they mention your name multiple times, they agree with everything you say. Women flirting is making themselves noticeable and agreeable more than they would usually. By doing so towards men above their league they are absolutely shooting their shot and men gonna be men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 02:36 AM
2	Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategy Trying their shot at people not in their league has no gender. One gender is able to get sex from people above their looks and personnality value but sex isn't a relationship. Both can be delusional when they don't get a reality check or when people in their lives keep telling them they deserve it all. Men need to be told the truth so they redirrect their ship, not this "maybe if you took a shower women would like you" kinda bs!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 01:32 AM
1	Sexism and Sexual success study 2: The Two Towers That's the thing I always say about approaching women. Men that listen to women's dating advices and respect the "don't approach us in [insert places]" will get zero success with women. The men that don't care for what women think will put themselves in situations where they can actually meet and talk to women. This is the thing, being handsome isn't the only thing, you have a lot of traits that women like but you can't display on dating apps. So yeah, go to these places and do approach women in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 08:22 PM
1	What happens if you put a pick me girl and a simp in the same room? Lmao... anyway!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 07:43 PM
1	What happens if you put a pick me girl and a simp in the same room? If you're surrounded by people that don't call you out, how would you know? That's why I said I prefer when people actually tell me if I do something they don't like, but they also have to accept I tell them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 07:19 PM
1	What happens if you put a pick me girl and a simp in the same room? I always thought there were no perfect beings but apparently you are one... joking aside, being called out allows you to improve yourself and be a better person all around. Not being or want to be called out is how people assume they're perfect and end up surprised when someone actually tells them they're not. Like children that live as if "no" doesn't exist for them until someone actually tells them no... their life then is crushed. I work as a teacher, everyday I see people that think so highl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 07:14 PM
12	Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategy Maybe because they are told it's because they put no effort that they don't get results, while the true reasons are something else... imagine if you applied for a job as a waitress and they all refused you and tell you it's because they don't hire currently and you should try again later. You see young attractive women getting the job without experience all the time.. you realize it's because they don't find you attractive enough to be a waitress but will still continue telling you all sorts of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 06:25 PM
1	What happens if you put a pick me girl and a simp in the same room? Good for you, sometimes we say and do things without consideration, it happens, but I like that the people in my life don't just agree with everything and they tell me what is concerning them in what I do or say and they expect the same of me. To each their own, in my case I think it's healthy to act this way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 06:04 PM
1	What happens if you put a pick me girl and a simp in the same room? I mean, do you agree with everything your husband/bf says no matter what it is? Do you go online to discredit women's experiences and tell them they are flawed no matter what the situation is? Do you tell women that they're misandrist for disagreeing with what men say? Simps do this, every day. Not all but some here know who they are. Men shouldn't have to do all this to earn respect from women. I love the women in my life and I won't hesitate to call out their bullshit, I expect the same from t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 05:10 PM
3	What happens if you put a pick me girl and a simp in the same room? Like I said, liking your gf and women doesn't require you to bow to them. Is that the new requirement women have now, bow to us or it means you don't like us? Lmao!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 02:45 AM
2	What happens if you put a pick me girl and a simp in the same room? True, people like label on the spot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 02:42 AM
-1	What happens if you put a pick me girl and a simp in the same room? You're right, I just think there are many simps online that will just agree with whatever women say and bark at anything men say but very true any man can be a simp under the right conditions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 02:04 AM
6	What happens if you put a pick me girl and a simp in the same room? It absolutely is an insult, no man that respects themselves want to identify as a simp lol. Loving your gf doesn't mean bowing to them and to all women online. Women don't have to bow to men and their man to show love to their partner and the men in their lives, why should men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 02:02 AM
4	What happens if you put a pick me girl and a simp in the same room? A simp isn't someone that likes their partner. It's a man that bows down to women and will act like a guard dog, always agreeing with whatever she says, always barking at any man that dares to share his bad experiences with women. Will not have an opinion of his own and will take pride in regurgitating bs some broken women say on tiktok. If this is the definition of a man that just loves their partner then I don't understand how you can endure that. I wouldn't have my gf agreeing with whatever m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 01:32 AM
5	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? but it appears that’s more of a detriment to them than women. Is it though? The way I see this is more and more men are opting out which means the pool of men that aren't opting out is shrinking leaving a bigger percentage of men that have absolutely no shame and respect for women. Now I'm not saying the men that opt out are all good men, but let's not pretend a huge portion of men that couldn't care less about what women want will never opt out and that's what your dating pool ends up in the en…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 12:56 AM
6	Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thing Aren't women's height and income "standards" eliminating more than 3 out of 4 men? Yet they aren't ridiculous?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 06:08 PM
17	Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thing The past is the past, but your past is what you built. It's like health, smoke, drink, do drugs and eat junk food as much as you want. At some point you can't complain your health isn't the same as one that didn't abuse of those like their lives depended on it. I think the low body count thing is bs imo. Women have and enjoy sex and rightly so. But the weight part is in your control. It's way easier for women to keep their weight out of obesity level than asking men to be in the 7 figures financ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 06:04 PM
16	Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thing Imo, most men standards are based on behavior while women's are based on very difficult to attain (perfect shape or high income) or just immutable physical characteristics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 04:42 PM
2	Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With Women I don't think men aren't communicating their emotions, they just don't lead with them in order to fix things because emotional outburst doesn't fix anything. Lesbians break up easily because both lead with emotional outbursts in order for the other to fix what is wrong, but since both use this tactic, nothing is fixed then they break up... at least that seems to be what you imply.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 09:06 PM
1	What "false rape allegation" statistics say & what people imagine they say Your last line should always be the modus operandi... yet we have "believe women", "false rape are rare", "women would never lie about that" etc, etc... all assumptions. No proof, no context, all defaulting narratives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 11:40 PM
5	CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with dating Exactly what I thought, no one approaches, complains men don't approach. One or more guys approach "OMG I can't sit still without creepy men annoying me!".	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 11:11 PM
1	What "false rape allegation" statistics say & what people imagine they say I think the "assumption" part is pretty valid. In America (including Canada) we have the Dultuh Model which is based on the assumption that men are always the perpetrator. I'm a teacher and for a long time after MeToo almost all posters about consent awareness was directed at men and we even had posters that always framed it like in every instances, men are the perpetrators that need consent from women for whatever they do tegether. There's also how much empasis is put on calling non consual sex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 11:06 PM
1	Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than Women Ahh that's interesting because I think the exact same about me. People call me whatever they want but since I don't participate in their worldview I don't care as long as them putting me in boxes doesn't prevent me from being who I am. Like feminists will call me an oppressor and an upholder of Patriarchy as much as Christians will call me a sinner for not believing in God... You are 100% right if it allows you to live life like you want. We won't let people's hateful labels get into our skin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 04:24 AM
1	Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than Women Identities from my point of view are mostly labels to categorize people and put them in boxes where they can't escape. Like sinners for Christians need to repent and only by believing in god will you be saved. In feminism it's victims vs oppressors which is always women vs men and the only way men can repent are if they become allies and let go all their concerns and put all their efforts into whatever feminists want even if it's self hatred... labels are never a good thing imo. People do good a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 03:55 AM
1	Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than Women I'm not trying to convince you to leave feminism. In fact, if it helps you in your everyday life then I don't see a problem with it. It's like religion to me, the core messaging in mostly great. But members do whatever they want with what's written, some do good, some do bad. I don't need religion to tell me it's not ok to rob your neighbors just like I don't need feminism to tell me women are my equal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 03:40 AM
1	Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than Women I'm not stupid. I understand and acknowledge feminism was necessary for women and even for men to some extent. I agree with the idea men and women should be equal and we should work together to make it possible. I will always support that, for my sisters and women in general. I lose nothing by having that position. What I don't like in feminists is how their messaging is just dividing for the sake of dividing. I can't get behind the hatred and the shaming. I hold both men and women accountable f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 03:26 AM
1	Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than Women I support women and care about their issues even if I don't like feminists. You support the men you like but you don't care about men's issues as you label them as MRA issues and you don't support MRAs	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 02:56 AM
2	Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than Women My sisters aren't feminists. In the early 2000s they were but as time went on they decided to drop the label and stay away from feminists. Similar reason my bro and I didn't jump on redpill and manosphere parts of the internet. The hatred of the other gender is coded in feminism and MRA imo. We like each other. We wouldn't just accept messagings like men are trash and women are sluts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 02:08 AM
1	Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than Women How do you help the men in your life by dismissing men's problems? You think they don't face these same problems?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 01:34 AM
2	Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than Women Just feminism doesn't represent all women MRA don't represent all men. Issues women face are still issues if they're not feminists. I have a lot of love for the women in my life so I will always try my best to make their lives better, that includes fighting discrimination and sexism they may face and will listen to issues they tell me about that I may be replicating with other women without knowing it. The same can be said about men. Men don't have to be MRAs or incels to have issues that affect…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 01:26 AM
1	Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than Women I understand the sentiment of not giving a flying f**k about people that think you're a bad person for absolutely no reason. That's why I don't like most feminists but I do side with a lot of what feminism strives for. Being a feminist is a choice, preventing and dismissing talks from issues that doesn't directly concern you is also a choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 01:08 AM
3	Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than Women I think you're just looking for ways to dismiss any talk about men's struggles... I think the first thing to do is spread awareness, many places do talk about them. Some people try to have policies passed, but since "men shouldn't voice their concerns" is very strong in our societies and there are even feminist groups trying to prevent some policies from being passed claiming it'd divert funds from women's problems and that would harm women in the long run, it's very hard to have anything done. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 11:44 PM
2	Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than Women Sure but you'd have to exit PPD and realize there are men outside this subreddit and those men often point to problems men have that have nothing to do with dating. You're the one that focuses on dating, are you struggling looking for someone? Even though I don't agree with how they do things, have you even been to a male advocacy sub that isn't an incel one? Or do you take all your info on the bad ones and assume they represent men as a whole?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 10:49 PM
1	Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than Women Do you think any issue that men may have is only important to incels and thus shouldn't be a concern for anyone? For example, are incels affected by lack of funds in prostate cancer but other men aren't?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 09:35 PM
3	Men will only be happy the day that rape becomes legal, and women will only be happy when medicine will be at its peak Is that what they teach you in those studies... the hatred is reaching new grounds... dumbass pill is real!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/25 07:40 PM
4	As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison Population Well we can all stay ignorant, at least you make that choice for yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/25 03:14 AM
2	As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison Population 100% truth. These slogans are indeed atrocious and people that come up with them should know better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/25 03:12 AM
2	As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison Population Defund the police doesn't mean "don't send criminals to prison"... its aim was to lower the funding to the militarization of the police force and reallocate part of the funding to more specialized forces that are more suited for specific tasks like handling autistic people, instead of sending people that only know one way to diffuse a situation and that is by shooting or using force when other means would be more effective and would save more people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/25 12:02 AM
–	As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison Population Man sometimes I wonder if these people are dumb on purpose... it's weird how they respond by always implying you want to rape someone lmao... must be damaged.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 11:54 PM
5	CMV: There are no laws or regulations in the civilised world that discriminate against women - but many that discriminate against men. I mean, if a woman is raped by a man and she ends up pregnant from it, can she abort? If a man is raped by a woman and she ends up pregnant from it, can the man abort?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 09:58 PM
0	CMV: There are no laws or regulations in the civilised world that discriminate against women - but many that discriminate against men. Could women abort? Could men abort?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 09:04 PM
4	"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable. The length you go to defend that person is hilarious. Are all people that pass out drunk retarded animals? Because I've seen both men and women fall asleep pretty quickly after they had tons of fun at parties. Is it ok to do anything to them because they passed out? No matter what it is?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 05:31 PM
10	"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable. What about the "leave it at the door" part? Should all delivery people start ignoring requests and just try to open doors and enter without being invited? Is that how you do as a delivery worker?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 12:34 AM
15	More men aren't single because they have "bad personalities" You're kinda right here since most attractive traits women like are immutable or very hard to change like height, penis size, high income or status. While men like women in general and all women really have to do is maintain an average body size (even then many men are attracted to plus size women) and wear a little makeup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 05:33 PM
2	Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly? So you don't believe people can be seayed, or influenced and no company has been sued for playing with people's vulnerabilities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 11:39 PM
2	Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly? Do you think advertisers can be abusive? Do you think there are industries that can and do target specific vulnerabilities in people or do you think it doesn't exist? Are there companies that study people's behavior in order to incite them to spend more? Or do you think they don't exist?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 02:52 PM
1	When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment. Both men and women gaslit men that need help into using the infrastructure that are made specifically for women, hence society. I will always call out society ofc. Women are mostly the ones telling men they shouldn't complain while themselves complaining about the same shit but they have support to help them while men don't. Other men, aside maybe from bluepilled men, don't manifest to stop men from opening shelters or infrastructure specific to men saying it diverts funds from women's infrastru…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 10:08 PM
1	For men, it isn't truly about sex. Ok so you backtrack on what you said earlier and think women say none of what I called out first... you're a real flipflopper lol... anyway... I'm going to get a drink with friends, have a nice day!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 09:39 PM
1	When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment. Now could it possibly be they said some unhinged shit? As a recent post have mentioned, alot of guys actually want to have sex with women to impress other men. How do you think women will feel when some guys only see their bodies as a means for male approval? Do you really think that’s gonna allow for empathy when these guys treat women as a means to an end and not people? If men say some unhinged shit then they need to be called for that unhunged shit. How is generalizing men a good thing when …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 09:24 PM
2	For men, it isn't truly about sex. Hey we don't have to talk, you can just quit I'm not here to pressure you lmao!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 09:07 PM
1	When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment. I pointed the victim mentality era. Which I agree I would attribute to feminists. You got me right there... I'm not backing on that claim though. I absolutely think men should self reflect, never implied they shouldn't but women should.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 08:55 PM
2	For men, it isn't truly about sex. How did you not do it when I called out some bs or do you think nothing I called out is actually true? While you recognized it was one or two posts later...	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 08:53 PM
1	When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment. I'm not sure I follow you tbh. Maga has nothing to do with men being seen as victims or not since Maga is a purely US thing while men accross the West face similar hatred. Even here in Canada. When men have problems we tell them to man up in various creative ways, we don't go trying to help them lmao... How am I acting like a feminist? Certainly not by saying we should stop pointing fingers and that certain situations created by both men and women put both men and women in the victim's position.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 08:42 PM
2	For men, it isn't truly about sex. Why not? Isn't that what's prevalent here? Whenever a man calls out women's bs they are labeled incels or misogynists or they are assumed they hate women? Isn't that what you did when I called out some behavior? Why would it be different for you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 08:30 PM
1	When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment. Dude, Trump and MAGA made treating straight white men like victims a large portion of their campaigns. Lmao if you think Trump and his clowns care for men. They are religious zealots and live only for money. They have no care for most men... try harder. “Men, nothing is ever your fault, you are merely victims of society”. Pretty sure that's the feminist messaging except they put all blame on men... whatever it is. Even their own shortcoming. Sounds just like blue haired feminists when they get c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 08:24 PM
5	For men, it isn't truly about sex. Ok, does it mean you hate women, a misogynist or are you a closeted red piller?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 08:07 PM
1	When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment. So turns out having a victim complex is not gender specific. Why ofc... we live in the victim's mentality era. It has infected both men and women. But men are still denied that status. I wouldn't use victimization to get my way. At the same time, I understand some situations will put people in the victim's position. That is true for BOTH men and women. A lots but not all of what people call victimization is self inflicted... that is true for BOTH! The reason this post even got created because gu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 08:01 PM
8	For men, it isn't truly about sex. Am I wrong? You've never seen/heard women belittle men's erectile ability, his ability to get women or sex, or men calling out women's bs being seen as "incels/redpill/misogynists"? You must be the one living under that rock, stop projecting. Do you think there's nothing women need to be called out for? If you do think there are things they could do better or differently, how do you call it out... or are you affraid someone, just like what you do, tells you you are misogynistic or you just hate …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 07:40 PM
1	When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment. I could've put a dot instead of but and it wouldn't have changed anything. No one is asking women to not hold men accountable or asking them to only feel pity. That's the reasonning of someone that sees everything in either black or white. When men do shit they should self reflect on how that hinders their lives and other's. Guess what, society keeps repeating that to men. When women do shit, they also should self reflect on how that hinders their lives and other's... but for some reason this la…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 07:14 PM
11	For men, it isn't truly about sex. When women want to insult men they attack his manhood by attaching it to his ability to have sex and only if it's their ability to get women. When they "identify" red flags in men it's usualy about their ability to get sex too. How are women on board with this exactly? I think they know perfectly sex is currently their biggest leverage and will use it as much as they can. When they want to feel validated they go on a "journey to find themselves" by sleeping with as many men as they can. It's nor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 06:45 PM
3	When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment. Everyone should take accountability but men being hated for being men is kinda true, especially in the last 10y we've seen an uptick of BS sloggans from feminists and women in all media. From shows like The View that says on national tv "men are useless and would live in their filth if not for women" to prominent feminists saying "men are trash" in multiple kinds of ways to BS trends like comparing men to dangerous animals. I'm sorry but all of that is true. It's normal some men are fed up with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 06:15 PM
3	When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment. Lmao that's not what accountability is. It means to reflect on your own behavior and accept and acknowledge it can influence or cause others to behave a certain way. An example of you taking accountability is recognize your threads are meant to spur hatred because of your phrasing. If you acknowledged it you'd say, yeah I wasn't really looking into sound discussion but I like drama and will always pit men and women against each other in all my threads because I like chaos. What you're doing is e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 05:51 PM
3	When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment. Women should try to take accountability... just TRY... When men try to explain what happens to them they are met with "incel", "cry more", "that's why you can't have a gf", "have you tried therapy", "not my problems", "more incel insults", "virgin" etc... I think a lot of men try to do what women do and it doesn't work since women have men's and society's empathy but men can't rely on that... like I said, if something works for women it doesn't mean it'll work for men. Women go to therapy becaus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 05:23 PM
3	When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment. Just because women offer a solution that works for them doesn't mean it's a solution that'll work for men. I also think a lot of the resentment men have over this discussion is it's framed as if men will drop their emotional baggage to their women constantly... but women never do that and men never have to do any kind of what you call emotional labor while it has always been the contrary. Men kept bottling things up specifically because women can't nor want to hear/help men but will always drop …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 03:53 PM
1	Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them. I'm ok lmao don't worry. The ones in denial are the ones that have choice, make the bad choices then complain that their choices being bad instead of themselves for continuously make bad choices. It's funny how people will also defend them tooth and nail. Now it's churches that push women into these men... I didn't heard this one yet. There's always someone else to blame, it's hilarious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 10:47 PM
0	Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them. Who cares whether a man want to have sex with a woman or not? Women have way more opportunities and are in demand. It's just normal part of the blame falls on their choices or do you think we should just blame men for being bad choices that these women chose? Isn't that infantilizing them? Isn't that removing them of any agency? Should we start treating them like children?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 10:20 PM
2	Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them. You are similar to men who think a good worker is one that shake your hand really hard. That man places all their trust of what is a good worker on some simple thing that can be faked and those that want to fake know exactly how to get that job since all they have to do is shake hard then voilà. Next, that employer complains they got a bad worker. Yeah, how about not putting all your vetting process in the same basket? Women are similar in this regard. I had a roommate years ago, all he did was …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 10:12 PM
3	Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them. Most women that choose these men aren't church girls... and other women will always defend a woman's choice and blame men as a whole instead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 10:02 PM
2	A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals. No I don't agree because I understand what fiction is and it has nothing to do with coming from radio or tv or the internet. If someone relates a story he lived but you see it on tv it doesn't magically become fiction. I'm not that ignorant. Dumb and Dumber is fiction, but in it you have a lot of trope that borrows from reality, like the idea men are dumb for not jumping inside a bus full of top model women in bikini, it tells the viewer men should want that. You don't have to abide by it, but i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 08:15 PM
1	A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals. Are documentaries? Are people telling it like it is on interviews and talk shows? Are people, like you, on the internet sharing their lived experience, all fiction? Is only your lived experience worth considering?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 07:08 PM
1	A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals. Movies depict ww2, songs are written about a man's love for women, documentaries are dedicated to ancient Rome but because they are on tv and radio it means all of these didn't exist? Did you, yourself set foot on the Moon during the Moon landing? If not, how do you believe it then? Ohh maybe you don't... because they are from people showing it through tv and radio? I never said all women go out with assholes, I meant to imply a lot do and we hear about them... maybe not you and your circle of v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 05:52 PM
1	A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals. People tell you they see it and have been through it... Tv shows and movies display it... Novels, written by women say it and tell it's their fantasy... Songs sing it... Women themselves say it in documentaries and interviews and talk shows... Yet you've never heard or seen it displayed anywhere... I'm not saying all women do this and all women swear by it... but it's too hard to recognize that yes, the trope may be true more than we think...	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 12:14 PM
2	A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals. So people tell you this is what they see and live isn't evidence but what you live and see is?...	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 09:54 PM
1	A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals. First I never said all women... second, all my friends and family male members never went to prison so there are no men in prison, am I doing it right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 07:12 PM
1	A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals. It's not that hard to understand maybe you and your wife don't represent most people. I don't think most women don't care for morality, but I also recognize the constant "be a good person, respect women, wash yourself" as an advice like it's how women mainly look for in a partner is pretty false and cringe. Women do look for beauty first and will bypass almost anything if they want to have their way with said guy... no matter if that guy has moral or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 06:06 PM
3	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right So the video starts when she exits the car and approaches the house or does it start when she's already on the balcony with the door opened?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/25 03:35 AM
3	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right A video evidence that's apparently been edited and posted twice... yeah believe what you want but dude, you are fabricating a story and you believe it... ehh, people believe in flat earth, you can believe in whatever you want...	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/25 02:43 AM
2	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right No plausible explanation is your own fabricated story. The woman's video doesn't start when she got out of the car so you have absolutely no idea what happened before the video starts. What she did and her intentions are another fabricated story of your part. It could also just be a stunt buy both of them... how would you know? It's impressive how quick people are to accuse people on the internet without evidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/25 02:01 AM
2	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right You just have no idea what the man's intentions were. You decided to side with a story that may be false... I wonder why it's important for you... did this specific guy hurt you or something?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/25 01:56 AM
2	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right The way I see it both sides are fabricating conspiracy theories... have you read what you wrote? It's pop-corn worthy...	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/25 12:06 AM
2	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right There were children in the audience... would you say children consented to see a nip slip? My bro is a delivery man, the shit he sees from both men and women do when he delivers is hilarious. Would you suggest he starts a TikTok channel and record people without their consent because he thinks they are internet outrage material? If my neighbor invites me to dinner and I walk by their window and I see them naked because they go out of shower are they at fault? They knew I was coming but they didn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/25 12:01 AM
3	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right You're so invested in this story it's funny and sad at the same time. Did you see the start of the video where she got out of her car and realized the door was open, then went closer and saw the guy naked? If not then you don't know whether the door was open or not. Did the guy confessed he purposefully baited her to his naked self? If not then you have no idea if there was intent or not! Did the guy confessed he was drunk or passed out? If you don't know then you can't assume he wasn't. Did you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 11:02 PM
2	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Intent is irrelevant in determining whether sexual harassment occurred. Now this is funny. I watched a wrestling show last week and one woman had a nip slip, the screen went black until she fixes her top. Would you say she sexually harrassed the thousands in the public and those watching on tv?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 10:41 PM
1	The same women who would call out men for body-shaming or slut-shaming use sexuality as a weapon the moment their pride takes a hit If there's one thing we agree on is that it's dumb to expect people to involve themselves just because they're the same sex. But you shouldn't believe most people holding trashy beliefs are trashy people. It's similar to the belief that rapists or murderer have a certain look and would be easy to identify... you never know. You don't know what your girl friends and their friends do or say when they're alone with their female friends just like men don't have the same discourse when there's no wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 06:06 PM
2	The same women who would call out men for body-shaming or slut-shaming use sexuality as a weapon the moment their pride takes a hit You know... it's perfectly possible to speak for yourself and not assume someone complaints are not true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 05:43 PM
2	The same women who would call out men for body-shaming or slut-shaming use sexuality as a weapon the moment their pride takes a hit People don't need to be trashy to talk like that. Maybe you didn't get much occasions to reject women's advances. As a professor I do reject a fair share of advances, many times because I'm a professor, not because I'm really interresting and yeah been called gay multiple times in 8y span. You even see that in movies and tv shows where men are called pussy, gay, sissy or stupid when they reject women's advance. No need to look for "trashy people" to witness this. If your social circle is restrai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 04:00 PM
3	The same women who would call out men for body-shaming or slut-shaming use sexuality as a weapon the moment their pride takes a hit I live in Canada also, been here all my life, women don't call out other women's bs most of the time, they either agree or stay silent. Online it's worse. PPB is especially a place where you can find such discourse. I work in a college as a professor where I meet hundreds and hundreds of people every year. There are multiple efforts to lower harrassment and abuse towards women (rightly so), even language is monitored for misogynistic language. But any bad language towards men is usually accepted…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 03:44 PM
4	The same women who would call out men for body-shaming or slut-shaming use sexuality as a weapon the moment their pride takes a hit Where?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 02:18 PM
1	Men who dated "experienced" women, how do you deal with the fact that your partner likely hooked up with guys hotter than you? People need to stop worrying about that like it's the plague. If your woman doesn't look like she's hurt by her past experiences or she's a porn star then why do you care so much? At some point we need to accept women have sex, just like men and that pair bonding thing isn't solely attached to their body count. There are many other things to worry about when dating women than their body count, especially when it doesn't seem like they're hurting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 01:04 AM
3	How do you feel when one of your female friends acts magnetic towards your man and gives him Bambi eyes when he’s talking to her? Should he do anything specific? I've seen many people call the partner insecure when a girl has a male friend that keeps circling around her as is "her friend"... should we also say that in this case? I think people have the right to feel insecure in both cases...	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 11:24 PM
3	Young women are dating the same terrible men It does, I know, we're all under it's influence. But looks isn't everything unless you only qualify people from a dating app standpoint. Like the women I find more interesting are those that have a good fun personnality, are respectful and take care of their physique to some degree. I don't look for perfect facial symmetry or top physical shape as I value personnality way more than the looks. I wouldn't go with an ugly woman, but I don't think 8-9s are the only options. I had relationships with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 10:12 PM
7	People who don't like the fish analogy, are these ones better? That's like asking women to stop comparing men to bears or pigs...	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 09:31 PM
4	Young women are dating the same terrible men Well, that's all a man has to offer right? A facial harmony... imagine finding other traits attractive. Ofc when all your friends and society incite you to leave men or not be interested in other traits... thank god there are people that don't put all dating values solely on the looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 09:28 PM
4	Why does it seem more common for women to be supporting a deadbeat bum than supporting a hardworking stay-at-home partner? Women don't value work nowadays because they can work and provide for themselves. What they want is a good looking man that will shower them with attention and not ask anything in return for the wellbeing of their relationship. A hard working man will not have all their time dedicated to them and will sometimes be too bothered by their work to shower them constantly with attention. They'll also be more careful with their money where as bums live life like there's no tomorrow. Hard working people…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/25 11:34 PM
6	A world without men would be calmer, safer, and more harmonious Exactly. Men are the doers, builders and creators. Doesn't mean all men are doers and all women don't but in general men are the ones risking and trying new things and are willing to "get it done" even if it's dangerous or dumb. Men may be the agressors but they are also the protectors. They may be dumb at some point but they are also the genuises. They may be emotionless like some like to portray us but men also create the most amazing art, cinema and experiences. Some women complain but they j…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 10:32 PM
1	If what Woman say is true, why it doesn't show in media? Excellent movie, there's an older movie from the 60s if I remember correctly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/25 10:50 PM
3	Men contribute very little to their kids life besides the economic contributions. When people claim that men contribute very little and talk about abuse and murder of kids compared to women it does perpetuate the bs that men don't bring nothing to children and for some reason a lot of people jump on that bandwagon and disparage any comment that says otherwise. I'm sorry but how important is it to keep that narrative alive when it's false? I'm not against' you at all... just that imo, blue pill does that for a living and needs to be called out as much as any other bs talking p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/25 10:00 PM
1	Men contribute very little to their kids life besides the economic contributions. So, how important is it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/25 09:33 PM
2	Men contribute very little to their kids life besides the economic contributions. Blue pill will pander to women no matter what, if they can't then they'll refrain from saying anything. And yes, moms do, how denying this helps children exactly? It's not like we'll suddenly stop protecting children from bad men/fathers. How important is it to keep that narrative exactly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/25 09:24 PM
3	Men contribute very little to their kids life besides the economic contributions. They won't... the results they'll find will tell a different story, they won't like it so they'll refrain from posting studies on how moms do abuse and murder children at the same rate or more than fathers. But blue pill gonna blue pill!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/25 08:14 PM
9	Before or After What I find bizarre is how you expect men to just swallow up their feelings no matter what in order to not upset the woman... but the woman can't? You also can't control how someone feels after being rejected. I'd rather take some distance than stay close to someone I had feelings with but I need to just ignore it so she feels like nothing happened. Nahh! Stop this bs!	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 04:43 PM
9	Before or After Lol... what you want is for the other person to swallow their feelings and rejection so they can remain friends with someone they developped feelings with. That person also loses a friend the minute they started to feel something and then, based on your reaction, becomes a monster if they want to take some distance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 04:25 PM
6	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men Behold the monolith that represents all women's experience and personality!	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 03:32 PM
18	Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationships They meet them everywhere and don't listen to the "don't approach women at [insert any place but dating apps]". These men do exactly what women respond to. Other men that "respect" what they're being told don't get these encounters because if they go mostly on apps they just get swiped like the thousands unattractive they are. Ultimately, women want to meet people and have fun. Abusers, unless they're pretty attractive and photogenic create these chances in real life and don't spend too much tim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/25 05:56 PM
–	Do you think you could go back to being blue pilled? I'm not entirely red pill but I'm far from being blue pill. I don't like extremes and I can't just pander to whatever women want/say and think this is the way to a happy life. I also don't believe in the alpha male bs. There are things in life and how you react to these things will get you somewhere, doesn't mean it'll be the right or wrong place for you. The reality is always inbetween. I like that redpill is actually analyzing and bringning a dose of accountability to both men and women, and g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/25 05:45 PM
2	Self-Improvement will NOT improve your attractiveness to women Exactly, I was mainly saying that going to therapy doesn't work at all. Having your finance in check and being healthy and in shape will help way more than that bs therapy thing they all scream about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/25 04:08 PM
1	Self-Improvement will NOT improve your attractiveness to women Being buff or just having money isn't what works, it's being confident in your shape and your financial health that can give you confidence and that confidence is what helps. Women don't look just for one thing. They also look for an overall but a confident man can also mean it has an overall in check. They'll always find new ways to tell you something doesn't work and will rely on immutable things like being tall to dismiss you. Being tall doesn't mean you'll get women, so does being rich or be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/25 04:07 PM
–	Lookmaxxers are right The onus is still on men for lusting towards these women. Men need to stop providing with no reciprocation on their part. In today's age, women can be as shitty as they want men will still lust over them and giving them what they need/want. Why would someone change their ways if they still get what they want?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 10:54 PM
-1	Self-Improvement will NOT improve your attractiveness to women That's an experience problem not a therapy problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 07:11 PM
2	Self-Improvement will NOT improve your attractiveness to women We're talking about what works with dating as a man, you said it yourself, going to therapy has no benefit in this case. Women don't care about what therapy you completed if she doesn't find you attractive and you can't pay for most things. Women also don't seem to care about your mental health if she finds you attractive. Most advice you should consider is based on two different time, one is in order to attract women, the other is to retain a woman. Going to therapy might help for the latter, n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 05:25 PM
41	Self-Improvement will NOT improve your attractiveness to women Exactly this and it does work. Therapy will do nothing to help you with women, it'll just help you cope. But getting in shape and being in a great financial health will do way more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 12:28 PM
1	If you women can despise/hate men but still date & have sex with them, because "sexuality isn't a choice", why do you question men's heterosexuality when they despise/hate women? True, both go through same shit, and sadly often they chose to go through that by ignoring red flags and other people's knowledge about that person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 02:58 PM
–	If you women can despise/hate men but still date & have sex with them, because "sexuality isn't a choice", why do you question men's heterosexuality when they despise/hate women? Do you think men choose a woman they hate and then complain about said woman? I think both men and women are attracted to toxic traits they hate in each other and then complain. It goes both ways, some people find toxicity attractive for some reason. Some just do it for short term dating and other try for long term thinking the toxic person will change. Women aren't exempt from that nor are men. Then they both go complain online and act like their situation is special and their gender has it wor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 02:17 PM
–	If you women can despise/hate men but still date & have sex with them, because "sexuality isn't a choice", why do you question men's heterosexuality when they despise/hate women? Women absolutely date men they hate lmao. Women date mysoginists, wife beaters, toxic men and defend them all the time what are you on?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 01:49 PM
13	If you women can despise/hate men but still date & have sex with them, because "sexuality isn't a choice", why do you question men's heterosexuality when they despise/hate women? Women can absolutely despise men, find a good man and treat them like shit and act like they're the victim. A man can say he hates women because of his past relationships and then finds a good woman and cherish her and think he's find the exception. These scenarios have no gender I've seen both happen from men and women alike. How important is it for you to push exclusively men bad and women good?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 01:47 PM
1	In the context of relationships with them, it's important to recognize men are more likely to react with violence when under stress Regarding behavior and dating most studies that are cited don't follow a rigorus method though. Like, women make x% of chores in the house so men have to step up. People believe this just like people believed in the "women make 71 cents for every dollard a man makes for the exact same job"... lmao yeah, no! It was revealed to be missing a ton of data. Same applies most of the time to self reported surveys, but as long as they serve people's narrative, they don't question their validity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/25 08:35 PM
1	In the context of relationships with them, it's important to recognize men are more likely to react with violence when under stress You have the right to believe what you want. Would you believe a study that interviews mostly men about how much chores they do?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/25 04:15 PM
1	In the context of relationships with them, it's important to recognize men are more likely to react with violence when under stress Self reported studies are misleading, especially the ones where you are to reveal when you did wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/25 01:40 PM
2	Q4E: Do you think some men are spreading this redpill rhetoric to make more men give up on women so they increase their chances at dating ? Women that go for dating coaches do to get a very rich man, not to get the average man, that is easy and boring for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/25 01:27 PM
3	In the context of relationships with them, it's important to recognize men are more likely to react with violence when under stress Also self reported, women will never say they instigated, it's always the other's fault. Can hardly trust these stats. We can see with our own eyes who is always hitting who and how society reacts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/25 01:20 PM
3	We need to stop comparing sex with money, these are not great trade offs to begin with. Yes people will not be truthful about such things. And women typically always say they don't cheat or will always say women don't cheat or do way less than men. So you are right to use it as a basis but not as gospel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 12:28 AM
1	We need to stop comparing sex with money, these are not great trade offs to begin with. Most of these self reported statistics can never be reliable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 08:41 PM
16	One thing I've recently thought about: the notion of "women are more vulnerable" hurts both men and women. For one, it assumes that in a problem men should "man up", while women should get extra care. And it also hurts women because they are deemed "weak" by default, that they can't help themselves Discussing with feminists is pointless because they follow a very scripted way of discussing. - Paint women as victims most of the time even if they are in the wrong. - Paint women as empowered as much as possible, even if what they did is wrong. - Paint men as oppressors, even in situations they aren't. - Downplay men's victimhood and find ways to divert the discussion to women being victims again. - All men? Yes all men! Always a man! If it's something negative about men or try hard to frame i…	/r/MensRights	24/08/25 04:34 PM
1	Q4W: Do you women ever confuse an attractive guy that is just being nice to you as him flirting with you? Then it turns out not to be the case and he was just genuinely being nice and polite with no romantic intentions? When they say I have a boyfriend signals that they think you are flirting with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 02:16 PM
-1	Radical feminist views don't make sense When you find entertainment in seeing others fixing your problems you create new problems to keed being entertained.	/r/MensRights	20/08/25 12:51 AM
5	Why dont women start a single father epidemic? Both should... both should!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 08:33 PM
2	Why dont women start a single father epidemic? Do you even realize that's exactly what you wrote above?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 08:04 PM
6	Why dont women start a single father epidemic? Yeah whatever I pick it's bad so I can't be blamed for my choices... lol! 250 is pennies compared to what exactly? For a millionnaire? For a cashier at a convenience store? You can't decide what is pennies and what isn't without factoring that person's earnings. Also women that are the ones to pay child support pay comparatively less than men do but very few of them face prison time for failing to pay comparatively to men. We'll see even more people in that situation I believe. Then you'll be ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 07:53 PM
5	Why dont women start a single father epidemic? Women choose these loser guys though but if there's one thing women don't want to do is pay either alimony or child support. But the more things go the more it'll happen and I think it's for the better. Both need to experience what the other had to... maybe at some point laws will change for the better if men have to take care of their kids like women did and if women had to work and pay ridiculously high child support and sometimes alimony.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 07:20 PM
2	Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behind So you accept that society can put pressure on people to act a certain way? And a good way to help some pressure go away is to make it illegal or put incentives in places to help people get around such pressure, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 04:13 PM
2	Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behind Why didn't they chose to not do that in the 40s then? I think society was very different back then and society's pressure on them prevented most of them from choosing like to imply is possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 02:10 PM
7	Women cant complain when men dont care for them Are you real? You don't hear about women's plight online? Gotta caption this...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/25 10:50 PM
–	Casual Sex Because they want attention and validation and most of these business are good at generating attention and validation in the way they want to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/25 12:36 PM
1	Misandry creates MORE misogynists. How would you know? Being falsely accuse can have different outcome though and no one would know until the person tells the truth. You could end up dead like Emmet Til You could end up in jail and the accuser can never tell the truth and you stay in jail You could go in jail but the accuser at some point tells the truth so you get exonerated but the time you spent in jail and the stigma will always follow you. You could commit suicide because everyone turns against you and they believe the false…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/25 06:06 PM
3	Misandry creates MORE misogynists. Hatred rarely comes out of nowhere. Most of the time it's from fear and/or disinformation or pure ignorance. Doesn't mean we shouldn't fight against hatred instead of justifying it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/25 05:32 PM
3	Have you ever benefited from gender-specific privileges? I'm pretty sure they never get payed back too. The sad thing is many of them seem ungrateful and the way they speak about their bf is eye opening for many. One woman was happy her bf made it possible for her to study her dream job but towards the end of the whole program (about 2y) she left him for another student in the class and both never finished and get their diplomas. I thought about that many times when I had to take attendances, always absent towards the end. So she took the money to pur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 06:05 PM
4	Have you ever benefited from gender-specific privileges? I have multiple students that have boyfriends and/or parents that pay their rent or their student loans, mostly women. I know because when they talk in class it's either to brag about it or complain about their paying bf or parents. I teach in higher education, 20-60yo people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 02:09 PM
3	Do most women lie when they say they post on their IG only for their friends and themselves ? hey look at me! this is what I want to be associated with!" This is exactly it. When I look at people's craft I associate them with what they are doing, when people are posting themselves in thirst trap manners I see no reason to not also associate them with what they are doing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 12:19 PM
9	Men are discouraged from approaching women they don’t know as well as discouraged from asking out women they do know. Exactly this, it's weird but the "women don't know waht they want" is a little applicable here. They don't want to be approached but they want men to do the approaching and don't try to make them understand how contradictory that is, it's up to you to care or not, how you behave will give you the results you get.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 08:30 PM
–	Experience in bed is a downside for men, not an upside How does being picky has anything to do with experience? Something tells me you don't understand what gaining experience means.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 11:02 PM
1	Society Hates Men Who Adapt to the "New Normal" Created by Feminism It isn't a child until it's birthed though... what happened to "a clump of cells!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/25 11:45 PM
4	''Women aren't subjected to the draft therefor they shouldn't be able to vote'' is astoundingly bad logic I don't understand the problem to extend draft to women since the argument is there's no draft since the 70s. It's a non issue to register for the draft then, women should just embrace it and problem solved, you wouldn't hear men complain about again...	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 05:40 PM
2	Stop the "emotional labor" So it's not a gendered thing, why always frame it like that's what it is then? That extreme example lacks context. I've never known a husband that just leaves their family out of nowhere just to go fishing for no reason, especially if the wife can't be at home or is facing a very hard medical condition. That may be true, but let's not act like that's how men are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 02:36 PM
9	Stop the "emotional labor" Do men do emotional labor for the women around them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 01:15 PM
3	If men weren’t accusing women of being whores for no reason, women would have a better view of paternity tests. Could we also say that a woman must not be a good mother if she believes her peace of mind is more important than his? Shouldn't people in relationship talk and come with solutions together to insecurities and uncertainties both may have? Seems like you want one to just trust me bro the other but you would never accept the same logic on your end. Make this shit mandatory already!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 12:04 AM
0	"Men care about penis size more than women do!" - that's bullshit. You're a funny one... but hey, you can't comprehend a simple example and need something that is exactly the same. Sometimes I wonder how you can go in life without being able to associate one behavior with another. It's weird to me but I don't hate, just weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 06:07 PM
4	"Men care about penis size more than women do!" - that's bullshit. Does it have to be common for someone to be insecure about it? Do you think it's common for men to tell their gf how good the bj their exes gave them? Doesn't mean all women will have that insecurity, but many have with their boob size, precisely because they hear about it everywhere, it's also in the movies. Not all insecurities come from nowhere lmao. Just be concious about what you do and say, how hard can this be?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 05:17 PM
10	"Men care about penis size more than women do!" - that's bullshit. Why ofc everyone is unique, doesn't mean people (yes that includes everyone) can have insecurities based on what they think their partners value. If I mention how great the blowjobs my ex gave me it's possible my current gf would feel like she has to live up to her at some point and if she doesn't she'll feel insecure about it... don't you think we can indirectly influence other people's insecurities or are you also part of the no awareness club?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 03:06 PM
16	"Men care about penis size more than women do!" - that's bullshit. Why would that man care about that if he thinks his gf isn't gonna be pleased about his size compared to her ex? It's like you agree with OP but try to say otherwise lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 02:55 PM
1	CMV: Being a SAHM is easily one of the hardest jobs in the world We were 5 children, my mother and my father took turns to go work full time and to be at home full time. I saw my mother more when I was around 8 to 15 but my father was there from the beginning. In the 80s he used to work at different venues and brought us with him (my brother and I). Then came my sisters and my mother stayed at home for a long long time. 1 - There is vacations, plenty of it but not in the early years ofc if you don't have support at all from neither your husband nor your immed…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 04:33 AM
4	Should women only befriend men they are attracted to in order to avoid manipulating men? That's the best and most important line I've read on Reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 01:35 PM
7	Is "mankeeping" really an thing? Another day another men bad women victims article. Is that the crux of female studies? Finding new ways to say men are trash? Amazing!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 01:31 PM
2	What are your thoughts on the toxic narratives around men opening up to women? Just here to say Hachi is an amazing movie, sad but amazing!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 01:02 AM
3	What would I bring to your tabel? I fully agree and I also think this table thing is just rage bait and an answer to people with endless checklists of needs. I thought it'd be nice for a change to hear about people tell other what positive they think you'd bring to them instead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 05:15 PM
1	What would I bring to your tabel? I know many people that advocate for endless checklists of things you should do/be in order to date them. People ask what you bring to the table because of those endless checklists. I just thought another question would be to tell me what you think I'd bring to your table instead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 05:12 PM
1	What would I bring to your tabel? Ofc any of these questions shouldn't be asked on first dates. It's mostly around the "what do you bring the table" type bs I was wondering, I'd rather be asked what I think that person would bring to my table instead. Someone can tell you what you bring to them, sometimes you're not sure and it's comforting to hear why people like you and it doesn't have to be 5y later.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 05:08 PM
4	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. Exactly, it's like they can't see past their immediate feelings of something not benefitting them solely and want to shut that down right away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 08:22 PM
1	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. When you go to the hospital they are, they take your blood pressure, test your blood, your weight and so on and if necessary they do other kind of tests that all go into your medical record.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 06:34 PM
1	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. What do you mean by prioritizing? Drop everything and just do paternity tests? How is that different from all the medical tests they do when you go to the hospital? Lmao just say you don't want this and think men should just swallow the fraud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 06:27 PM
1	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. Yes, do you think most men would rather go through that bureaucracy just to not make a paternity test? You'd be surprised, or he'd be under external pressure not to take the test.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 06:19 PM
1	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. I'm not most men you talked about. I don't think making it illegal will help in any way shape or form. Down the line, we'd sent a woman to jail, she'd pay back what that man paid? This is ridiculous. Make the test mandatory at birth would solve way more trouble than not. And who would pay for that? How much do you think this costs? You make it seem like a mandatory test is so expensive it'd cause money problems. It's not like a cancer treatment lol!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 06:14 PM
3	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. I think it should be mandatory at birth but if someone doesn't want to do the test then they should opt out of it. Refusing the test would come with caveats though. Like from a legal standpoint only the mother has all rights towards that kid and if the father wants to have the same rights then he needs to legally adopt the kid. If a father wants to opt out of his paternity test then he'd be legally bound to that child even if it's later found that he isn't the father. He made the choice at birth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 06:08 PM
1	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. Rape is illegal, did it stop? Making paternity tests mandatory at birth would at least let the man consent to raise a child he knows isn't his and no woman would be asked whether she cheated on or not. I feel like some of you just see this as a "win" for men and you can't have that while it's best for all party involved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 05:42 PM
0	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. That's why it should be mandatory at birth. We shouldn't have to ask, especially to someone that went through all this physical and psychological trouble for 9 months. But condemning and teaching women not to commit paternity fraud is important if we want this to ever be possible. We find rape to be discusting, all the work done to end marital rape by making it look disgusting as it should and it became illegal while it was defended and excused by some people just like what some of you do with p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 05:25 PM
6	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. When women commit fraud that's exactly what it is. It doesn't mean all women are trying to commit paternity fraud. Most women don't do that, but those who do need the trust and empathy some of you give them in order to commit such fraud. The "trust women bro" squad is enabling this bs. Especially since it can be fixed so easily with a mandatory routine parenting check at birth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 05:19 PM
9	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. By trying to find ways to imply women don't really do it conciously you absolutely mean to excuse it. Women do cheat and lie. Stop trying to find ways to say they didn't know and we shouldn't act like the fraud they commit wasn't in bad faith. Especially when many women will say men can't be child trapped, they had unprotected sex then they should be prepared to have a child. Women consent to cheating, end up pregnant and don't abort, then claim the child is that of their partner/husband. They k…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 05:09 PM
5	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. Eliminating this kind of post would be great tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 05:04 PM
0	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. Women could help first by not opposing and trying hard to find excuses as to why paternity test shouldn't be don/asked at all because of their feelings. Women should also denounce women who participate or plan to do it or talk about it like it's nothing. Women absolutely influence other women just like men influence other men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 05:03 PM
5	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. You mean like any crime a parent does they shouldn't be sent to jail because they have a child? Theft, murder, fraud, SA and so on? Just make babies then go rob a bank... lmao!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 04:28 PM
6	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. All of this wouldn't happen if it was a mandatory routine check at birth. The reason some "fathers" just love the kids is because they dedicated time and energy raising a child they wholeheartedly thought was their kids. Had they known from the get go it wasn't theirs at least they would make the choice to either stay or leave. It's like foster kids, you consent to raise them and be called father because you made the decision knowing it wasn't your biological kid. It has nothing to do with being…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 04:25 PM
10	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. Shouldn't be asked though, it should be routine check at birth and given all stats that comes with it like how much of the father/mother the baby has and so on. This discussion happens only because men are concerned about it and women don't want their fidelity questionned. If it was at birth no one would ask questions or be offended by it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 04:19 PM
10	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. When men have unprotected sex with a woman and she gets pregnant we rightly say he didn't think this through. When women cheat and has unprotected sex and get pregnant we should always end up saying she didn't think this through and the result of the pregnancy should always be questionned by herself and all party that knows about it. It's impressive the length some of you go to act like women shouldn't be held responsible for their act. We should have slogans like "Teach women not to commit pate…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 04:03 PM
-1	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. There's not a man on this Earth that wouldn't back this if they knew they wouldn't get a huge backlash from their intimate partners / mothers / female friends / sisters. For society to change something we need both genders to work together to think how to improve the other's lives. Too many women think all their rights and advancements were achieved solely by them, ignoring how more men helped them get where they are than they give credit for. But for some reason, when men need help when they fa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 03:51 PM
1	If we remove finances men have nothing to give I think you've never been in the situation these women were... choices are always easy to make and we always choose wisely when we're not the ones living a certain reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 02:53 PM
1	Generalizing by Gender Is Lazy and Harmful Really, it's like talking to children that just argue for fun and will debate the most basic thing, at least children are expected to be ignorant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 08:46 PM
3	Generalizing by Gender Is Lazy and Harmful You can take all men on the planet and all women on the planet and you'll end up with men being taller generally. You can take all men on a country and all women on the same country and generally men from that country will be taller. This can be explained scientifically. It doesn't mean all men from anywhere in the world will be taller than any woman in the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 08:15 PM
14	Why the "Light Switch Effect" Proves Men and Women Love Differently I have a great relationship with most of my exes. It also depends on how the break up happens. If you two can barely talk then that's how she'll remember you, based on your last few interactions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 02:19 AM
-1	Why the "Light Switch Effect" Proves Men and Women Love Differently Maybe she was and that's because they aren't together anymore. Doesn't mean they didn't have great moments together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 02:15 AM
1	You think you will benefit from sympathy but you won’t. Sympathy and pity is the opposite of attraction. As a grown man you need to fix your own problem Most of the time no, they still have roles where they have to be portrayed as taller than women and their accolytes which can be shorter no problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 08:04 PM
1	You think you will benefit from sympathy but you won’t. Sympathy and pity is the opposite of attraction. As a grown man you need to fix your own problem There's a lot of you outhere, don't say short fit good looking men are rare. I work in a school mainly with adults and they are everywhere. At least where I live.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 08:02 PM
2	You think you will benefit from sympathy but you won’t. Sympathy and pity is the opposite of attraction. As a grown man you need to fix your own problem Except they're not rare at all... their height just makes many women overlook them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 07:51 PM
2	You think you will benefit from sympathy but you won’t. Sympathy and pity is the opposite of attraction. As a grown man you need to fix your own problem Are you saying they're not? Like almost all smaller actors have to wear height increase shoes or play a camera angle to make sure they aren't portrayed as short men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 07:41 PM
0	You think you will benefit from sympathy but you won’t. Sympathy and pity is the opposite of attraction. As a grown man you need to fix your own problem I'm not attracted to men but I think there's a lot of social push into what an attractive man should look like. If we start by not portraying specific traits as bad then it's already a start. Like how we portray men that lose their hair yet we portray men that try to wear wigs/toupets even worse. Losing hairs isn't a sign of being a bad person yet so many view it that way because of how we portray them. If we can already stop this then it's a start. And again, that is just one example. We could …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 04:41 PM
0	Do men need women Men don't need women, we're all humans and social and we actually do better when we have the other half with us. Not just sexually but all our cells activate in multiple ways when we are together and we can do incredible things. Men know this. Men can live without women, but we'll find ways not to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 04:06 PM
3	You think you will benefit from sympathy but you won’t. Sympathy and pity is the opposite of attraction. As a grown man you need to fix your own problem Men should always do what they can to present themselves at their best and that includes grooming, dressing better, having plans and a good personnality. I'm absolutely not disputing that. Also I wouldn't ask society to portray shitty slobish dirty men as attractive and demand women suddenly find them attractive. I think there are multiple things we don't portray in movies or are completely frowned upon but one thing we don't hesitate to portray is how a bad person looks. Often a neckbeard, a be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 03:27 PM
3	You think you will benefit from sympathy but you won’t. Sympathy and pity is the opposite of attraction. As a grown man you need to fix your own problem I think it's possible though. For example women's "ideal and sexiest" body shape has always changed over time precisely because of media and perception. In the 50s good looking women were far more attractive with some curves but in the 2000s skinny women were perceived as more attractive, and today it's the return of curves especially on the butt. Sometimes I wonder if some of you actually live outside of your own bubble. Beauty certainly changes depending on years of conditionning. Sometimes me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 03:08 PM
1	It's not offensive to ask for dna test Yep dismiss it, call it not a real issue and blame men for something they have no control of but women do... lmao, this is exactly what I'm talking about and I don't even think you realize it. Anyway, have a nice day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 09:06 PM
1	It's not offensive to ask for dna test Most men aren't rapists yet you sill demand men being taught not to rape... people that bitch and moan about this is because nothing is done against it and some people directly fight against the idea the concern should exist let alone find a solution... like they say, when you're not at the receiving end of a problem you don't consider it a problem and just dismiss it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 07:49 PM
1	It's not offensive to ask for dna test Let's just teach women not to commit paternity fraud... it's simple! Just like you guys keep saying "teach men not to rape"... easy peezy!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 07:19 PM
0	It's not offensive to ask for dna test Not true, paternity fraud is mocked and often women encourage themselves to fight against the idea it exists or men shouldn't be concerned about it or men should just trust women and that if men are concerned about it then they shouldn't enter relationships with women. Just look at people replying to me, and on this thread or any other thread about paternity frauds... it's pretty telling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 06:53 PM
1	Men would not make the decisions they want women to make if they were us. Dang that's so true, seeing it in this angle makes it more revealing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 06:49 PM
1	It's not offensive to ask for dna test It's like you refuse to hold women accountable for their own cheating. "Don't enter relationships with women if you are affraid of her cheating because we can't tell them not to do it, we'd rather blame men for thinking we wouldn't do it teehee!"...	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 06:48 PM
1	It's not offensive to ask for dna test Only if you have a joint account and if the real mother gives the kid to adoption. If you divorce you wouldn't be held responsible for another woman's kid either. And no court is gonna require a woman pay child support for a kid another woman birthed just because you were married to the father.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 06:46 PM
2	It's not offensive to ask for dna test Paternity test is to ensure the kids are HIS OWN if the woman cheats. If your man cheats you don't have to pay for a child you don't know if it's yours. But people say when you're not affected by a problem the it's not a real problem...	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 04:57 PM
1	It's not offensive to ask for dna test Why not just tell women to not commit paternity fraud and or accept paternity should be proven at birth?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 04:48 PM
1	It's not offensive to ask for dna test It's better to have the bio dad known though, non bio dads have the right to know...	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 04:45 PM
0	Men would not make the decisions they want women to make if they were us. Women knowingly chose men from all backgrounds, that includes bad men. Stop trying to excuse their poor choices. Men also fall for bad women, we don't excuse them do we... or do you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/25 01:26 AM
1	Men would not make the decisions they want women to make if they were us. So women aren't in control of their own actions and whatever they do is commanded by a man so they shouldn't take responsibility for their own actions? That's similar to a child... just tell us if you think women are no better than children... granted, a lot of women actually take responsibility for their actions and would be pissed at comments like yours, infantilizing women doesn't serve them at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/25 09:23 PM
6	It's very dangerous seeing all these female dating experts using male loneliness as a way to bash men when there's literally no co-relation that lonely man=bad men. Most groups that have to fight have to fight against people like you that don't even understand the problems yet oppose themselves for internet points. We're pretty different in this regard. Such a waste of time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 05:05 AM
10	It's very dangerous seeing all these female dating experts using male loneliness as a way to bash men when there's literally no co-relation that lonely man=bad men. What else can we do... that's already a better response than "man up". At least it shows that you actually think there's something we can do. Let me think... when women were behind in school, instead of telling them to "do better" we kinda looked at what was wrond and tried to help them. Why do people find it repulsive to suggest we could use this kind of thinking on men when they're trailing behind?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/25 06:09 PM
10	It's very dangerous seeing all these female dating experts using male loneliness as a way to bash men when there's literally no co-relation that lonely man=bad men. Where did I say that? You don't have to say it, you are implying it in the way you say things. Holy victim complex Batman. I said this would be an excellent issue for the manosphere to undertake, I don't believe "the manosphere" has such responsibility. Men failing is a societal issue whether you like and want to accept it or not. why are they wasting their time with stupid garbage like mandatory paternity testing? Lmao... garbage issue? Yeah you show your true color here. Are you also thinking …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/25 06:05 PM
25	It's very dangerous seeing all these female dating experts using male loneliness as a way to bash men when there's literally no co-relation that lonely man=bad men. Yes, dismiss and "man up" is the right bluepill way of handling any problems men can have. Wait for feminists scholars to "prove" a societal problem towards men exist before doing anything is the same as no wanting to look at the problems at all. Now before you ask me what I'm doing to help fix these so called problems, first I don't dismiss them. I also don't try hard to tell men to "man up". I also used to work as a teacher for young people in distress that needed support in an NGO here in Can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/25 02:35 PM
0	The largest cohort preventing boys from excelling are precisely the people who say they need to lift themselves from their bootstraps Citation needed. There's no proof that boys perform academically worse in all boys schools. That's feminist bs to paint women as victims again where boys need to be with girls to perform decently but girls alone fare better and because they're with boys they can't be the best they supposedely are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/25 12:34 AM
3	The largest cohort preventing boys from excelling are precisely the people who say they need to lift themselves from their bootstraps It's not just education in school that changed and is affecting school though. Children these days move way less and the school system (at least here) even removed a lot of physical activities that they deemed too violent or too rough. Add that boys aren't receiving as much encouragement in the form of seeing their future as university students and most if not all of their teachers will be women. We can look away from those, but it's a collection of multiple factors that is responsible for young…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/25 12:22 AM
1	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. Omg I feel like you absolutely need to twist my words into something I never said or never did. I never forced myself on anyone if that's what you're implying. All I'm saying is when one party doesn't do their part it feels like you are the only one wanting it so you don't do it. Why is it so hard to understand?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 04:28 PM
1	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. But that's exactly my point! I was with women that, though were excited didn't put effort and not putting effort seems like you aren't excited and thus it feels like you are the only one that actually wants to be there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 04:11 PM
1	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. I thought people in this thread were saying too many women don't put effort in bed and then complain men aren't giving them orgasm. I mean, if you don't put effort then no wonder the other party will do it's thing and then be done with it. The effort you give should be for both yourself and the other person. Like I said in my previous comment, I used to be with women that didn't put any effort and complained the sex wasn't great. Then I found women that actually did their job and it enticed me t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 03:49 PM
1	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. I mean, if you want your partner to have a great time it's best you invest in their appreciation of it and appreciate them getting off. If you pay for someone, that someone is putting the effort to give you a great time, but you aren't. I think if you don't want to put effort in your partner's pleasure then you should pay for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 02:36 PM
1	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. Yeah I meant to say "to some people everything has to be perfect... " We agree that both need to be invested, it's the best way and the most rewarding imo. Seeing your partner get off should always be put front and center. All pills are too extreme imo but all have a little truth in what they're saying. I think it's best to take whatever suits you. That's why I chose purple pill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 02:16 PM
1	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. Yes and no, like some women have a firm grip and their hand or head movement can hurt resulting in a loss of erection. I also used to come pretty fast but I realized that intercourse isn't the only way and put more effort on my partners first. Also I couldn't come easily when the woman was on top so with one woman took advantaged of that to have her fun, it became my preferred position because it allowed my partner to come multiple time also because of the view. Women also need to learn the art …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 02:06 PM
1	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. But I used to blame women too at some point because my partners never tried anything or tell me anything, just expecting me to know how they were, what they liked and get frustrated if I didn't know by default. Granted I eventually had better partners that actually valued communication and did know what they wanted and how to achieve it. I learned a great deal with them and it served me with later partners. I absolutely think too many women still put a lot of pressure and expectation on men's se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 04:32 AM
6	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. Really, I don't understand how people can still go on when their partner doesn't seem to get off... I'd feel like I'm forcing my way into that person. Omg, their pleasure is absolutely necessary and very enjoyable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 04:12 AM
1	People will fight to the death to make sure the social expectation for men to approach to women is still kept as a social standard. Despite the many women complaining about creepy men. We agree, but it's not a reason to strawman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 09:54 PM
1	People will fight to the death to make sure the social expectation for men to approach to women is still kept as a social standard. Despite the many women complaining about creepy men. The number of murdered women everyday would be way higher don't you think?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 08:55 PM
3	People will fight to the death to make sure the social expectation for men to approach to women is still kept as a social standard. Despite the many women complaining about creepy men. He is a perfect example of people bending all ways to keep men's social expectations intact even if it creates toxic behavior and expectations from both sides. Dismantle all barriers in front of women, solidify and enforce all those in front of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 07:52 PM
2	Feminism's claims are inherently unfalsifiable Lol where did I assume most unwanted babies came from men bein raped?!? I see that you just care about "winning the internets". Carry on lady, have a nice day!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 03:27 PM
2	Feminism's claims are inherently unfalsifiable Men are as responsible as women when she gets pregnant when both have unprotected sex. Juvenile men shouldn't be held responsible when raped unless you think otherwise and say "someone has to pay for the child". A man that isn't the father of a child because of paternity fraud shouldn't be held responsible unless you think otherwise and say "someone has to pay for the child". When a woman isn't ready or doesn't want to have children she aborts, she uses contraceptives or she just doesn't have se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 01:50 PM
4	Feminism's claims are inherently unfalsifiable Might be because women decide if a child is born whether the man wants it or not, if he's ready or not. Female rapists that get pregnant can demand child support even if the father is underage and the years he doesn't pay will pile up until he's 18. Also women always know know who the father is but can commit paternity fraud and still demand the non father to pay and will be supported if their partners, uppon knowing the truth, wants to leave. Ultimately, women decide on all fronts and make the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 01:09 PM
4	“Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heard Lmao the usual fake outrage to derail the conversation. Especially when I said they were necessary in most cases. Absolute cinema... anyway your reaction could be seen a mile away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 09:26 PM
1	“Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heard Why? It's not like you'd listen anyway lmao! But hey there are a lot of cases you can find on the internet, about alimony, child custody, child support, paternity fraud and so on. Now not all of them are pure robbery, as child support is necessary in most cases but many women use the bias against men in court to rob men and the inverse is also true but so much less prevalent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 08:39 PM
2	“Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heard Nahh not spending my time finding examples you'll just dismiss. You have the right to laugh at things you don't think are problems. That's who you are and it's ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 08:15 PM
11	“Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heard Dang, if men looked at women like this. Are most women "swamp" material too? They use make up to hide their flaws, they hold way more financial debt, they take way more medication, they are smaller and weaker and often come with other men's unwanted children. This is a stupid contest. Those women are vain and suffer from the main character syndrome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 07:58 PM
7	“Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heard Ofc and as always, when you're not on the receiving end of a problem you don't think it's an actual problem and even, like in your case, you laugh at it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 07:37 PM
6	“Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heard Men are 99% of perpetrators in a sea of statistics that don't include women when they do wrong, that don't consider their doing to be that bad, that are often cheering for them to do wrong, that silences women's victims in multiple ways, that doesn't listen to men being wronged, that often phrases wrongs in a way that only men can be perpetrators and lastly, that doesn't consider children's abuse when it's women doing it... so yeah, bring those stats.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 06:36 PM
–	The WEF Gender Inequality measurement is knowingly biased (against men) No surprises here... equality for me not for thee!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 03:45 AM
4	Q4M: Why are so many of you so convinced that abusers are obvious, blatant, cartoonishly evil people that can be easily spotted? Shhhh you should never talk about this kind of stuff /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 05:20 AM
6	Q4M: Whats more radicalizing - actual dating experience or the manosphere? Not all men will internalize their bad experiences and/or will just accept it. But social media will give a platform to all those who don't want to take all blame and radicalize them. Also, it's pretty sad to know that "society" has normalized this and men are supposed to just suck it up or they're viewed as misogynists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 03:11 PM
3	The "archetype" theory - Archetypes play a HUGE role in the attraction process for women. Failure to fall within an archetype can significantly reduce your chances of finding someone as a man - even if you have everything else going for you. This is mostly true online, in real life even if you are a nerd you can display other traits that would attract some women, same women who would swipe right past you on dating apps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 04:08 AM
–	Dating got easier not harder as people are making it out to be. Ohh I know don't worry. I'm breaking up with my gf for reasons I already talked about on this sub. I had my share of gf, I'm 5'9 myself and always did good with women. Just not online because you can't really display who you truly are online. All my gfs I got with them because I was able to talk to them at events, job, school, parties and clubs. The way you are is a better seller, imo, than some pictures and catch phrases on a dating app. Even I don't trust the pictures I see online. Some dating…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 05:10 PM
3	Dating got easier not harder as people are making it out to be. 20y ago was easier and more fun because you had to actually go out where people were and even if you didn't find anyone at least had fun and made new friends. People weren't as affraid of interacting with strangers than people are today. I swear we live in a paranoia era where everyone is coming to get you. When you meet people in real life you shouw all your traits and many times those traits can't be shown on the internet. Women will dismiss men that aren't 6' tall way faster online than in pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 01:34 AM
2	Do women who have sons realize /have empathy for men? I think a lot of women think their sons are different than the men they blindly hate and that they'll have the best and brightest future not thinking that the hate they have, so does their friends and all the people they associate with and all together they are normalizing that hatred. Their sons might look ok from one side but will be seen as a threat by other women that share the same hate that woman does but towards her kid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 02:28 PM
–	Single mothers symbolize something deeply painful to a lot of men I think sadly you are right. Putting people in such situations is weird, I've seen successful realtionships with single parents, but success wasn't knocking at my door. I won't make the same mistake again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 02:42 PM
–	Single mothers symbolize something deeply painful to a lot of men Thanks, but yes I do respect myself. Just a heads up, yesterday I had THE discussion and she does understand my position and realized it was a stupid mistake but she can't really just throw him out. She asked me to be a little more patient which I refused. I have found a new place to rent and I can move in this May. I think I'll focus on acquiring a property from now on and just do whatever I want and accept and refuse whoever I want in my home.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 02:38 PM
–	Single mothers symbolize something deeply painful to a lot of men Haha yeah I get it. But I've seen successful men and women finding what they want regardless if someone is a single parent or not. That was my experience, it highlights a bit why some people may be wary of single mothers, because of the difficult situations some of them put you through. That experience wouldn't prevent me from considering casually dating one, just that now I'll be very cautious and it'd take time before I consider a relationship with one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 02:33 PM
0	A word about "single mothers" I don't think the father necessarily has to stay with the mother. A shitty relationship is better broken up than both stay together and continually hate/fight each other. That said, choosing a well rounded man as the father can definetely help greatly when you have children. I have multiple friends that have children and are separated but they're great parents. I think women that have kids with men that want nothing to do with that kid make a mistake. I know a few and their life could be better …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 03:40 AM
6	Single mothers symbolize something deeply painful to a lot of men Lol, I'm leaving her, you think I'll accept this shit? There are people that put other people in complicated situations. Doesn't mean you have to leave them the second it happens. I like to make sure my decision is the one I really want and that she understands it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 01:49 AM
5	Single mothers symbolize something deeply painful to a lot of men So because you don't know anyone that behave like this it means it doesn't really exist? Lmao! Do you think your female friends and acquintance are going to tell you everything they do wrong to their bf? I used to work at a place where we helped young people get their life back on track. Children from single parents most of the time and yeah some of the young women we had also were pregnant from a man that didn't want anything to do with that child. Shit happens and bad decisions happen. People …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 01:47 AM
12	Single mothers symbolize something deeply painful to a lot of men Yes great advice, single mothers will be vetted more toroughly now. Because in the end, I'll leave for a better life while that woman will struggle with an abusive ex, she chose that life though so maybe I'll present her to you so you could give her the same advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 07:24 PM
3	Single mothers symbolize something deeply painful to a lot of men I compared the idea that people need to say things in real life but it's hard to do, internet removes a lot of barriers. Same with racism and homophobia. A lot of people don't display their bigottry in real life but are unashamed to voice it online because internet "allows it". I have never seen women openly scream men are trash in real life aside from some low life women. Never seen it at the job, but online is another story. At some point you'll have to both realize and accept internet offers …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 07:20 PM
1	Single mothers symbolize something deeply painful to a lot of men You have a weird, maybe bad faith, way of analyzing what I said lmao. I don't know if you are trolling or not. Nobody said anything about putting single mothers in prison! I merely talked about the idea that you'll see more people voicing their concerns online than in real life. Doesn't mean the reasons behind the concerns has to be the same...	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 06:33 PM
8	Single mothers symbolize something deeply painful to a lot of men I think a lot of this discussion can happen online but not in real life unless between two or more very trustworthy friends. Online discussion opened a door of people saying out loud what they think in silence. Doesn't mean what they think isn't true or doesn't happen just because they don't talk much about it in real life. Take "me too" as an example. How many women went out of their way to voice their experiences they couldn't find open ears in real life? Would you tell them that nobody is act…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 06:16 PM
10	Single mothers symbolize something deeply painful to a lot of men Yeah, kindness if often taken as a weakness because people think they can pull any kind of shit and the other person isn't gonna do anything. I rather stay the way I am but with people that actually value that trait instead of taking advantage of it. I decided to go. Time has ran out. I don't mind, it's her life, like my two exes, they decided to go with the hard times, then they'll be the only ones dealing with it. I think it'll take something very unusual for me to repeat the mistake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 05:45 PM
35	Single mothers symbolize something deeply painful to a lot of men The hatred comes from somewhere even if you don't like what or how people say it. For example, I dated 2 single mothers and two of my exes became single mothers. So I failed to convince my exes to have a child with me but they still wanted to have children apparently. One of them slept with a roommate she had after I left, that guy kept pressuring her and she did, got pregnant, decided to keep the kid. That guy didn't want anything to do with that kid, beat her and threw her out of the appartmen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 04:00 PM
–	Women do not have ridiculously high standards in men Exactly this, I still can't believe people fall for this bs. Watch how and who they pick then learn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 03:31 PM
10	What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years? I agree 100% how depressing this shit is. Just that acting like incels are gonna be the worst for women while not talking about what's actually bad right now is weird imo. It's like we are "teaching" women to avoid one type and don't talk about the others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 08:37 PM
8	What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years? Incels aren't gonna create an Epstein Island.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 03:05 PM
10	What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years? Lmao the FBI... People don't need to be incels to rape and be violent agains't women. The US elected a bunch of not incels that actually put harmful policies on women, one of them is a convicted felon. There are a lot of well regarded famous people that aren't incels by any means that do rape and hurt women. Where's the FBI on most of these crimes committed by non incels?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 03:02 PM
7	Men do find women their age physically attractive. Yes, that's why I always found it funny all these guys BSing about the wall at 30 and women's lives are over no man wants them...	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 03:27 PM
20	Men do find women their age physically attractive. I'm past mid 40s and though I love women my age I think, in my opinion, women that are between 35 and 45 are the best looking women both physically and mentally since they also grew up past certain bs, are more fun to talk with and know their bodies better than when they were 20.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 04:07 AM
4	Feminists are deepening more issues than they’re solving. That's exactly what they do though XD	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 02:36 AM
1	People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages. Never thought that would be hard to understand... but here we are...	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 09:31 PM
1	People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages. Haha... perfect example of small thing some people would blow out of proportion and call for a divorce 😆	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 09:28 PM
2	People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages. Ohh ok, but tbh that's the kind of thing you'd find in AITA... "My husband doesn't want to close the fridge door for the 300th time and I told him I want a divorce! AITA?" 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 08:41 PM
1	People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages. First of all I never said women were leaving for bogus reason. I said what people don't like about the fact women initiate divorce more is how it's framed and too many times other women encourage other women to leave for bogus reason without knowing everything. This can be seen in talk shows and other social media. You not believing this isn't my problem. You just think that to me, all women that divorce is for bogus reasons which isn't what I'm saying. Maybe it's because English isn't my primar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 08:31 PM
1	People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages. Why? You're in an urge of dismissing something?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 08:25 PM
2	People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages. Well you know what to ask to your next bf before engaging with them lmao... where do you find these men that can't take care of themselves... seems like every woman on this site is living with a toddler...	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 08:24 PM
6	People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages. So your husband is so dumb he can't figure out that leaving the fridge open is bad, you told him to not do it and he told you he will continue like a toddler... wow, this is hilarious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 08:03 PM
1	People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages. I don't need the manosphere to form an opinion. Some of you are just hilarious... starting to think this is a troll nest and I fell in it 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 08:01 PM
1	People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages. Ok, I don't think continuing this discussion with you will lead to anything other than frustration lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 07:57 PM
1	People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages. Communication is very important and yes, if there is no sound communication between partners they have the right to part ways. Would you suggest people on subreddits like AITA and TwoX or tv shows like The View where none of them have the full picture will refrain from siding with the woman thinking they're being abused for smallest things like, he left the seat up!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 05:23 PM
3	People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages. Most of these is communication problems. Especially on AITA, people don't have all the details but are super quick to suggest they divorce. Like he left the seat up, divorce him, he's manipulating you...	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 03:02 PM
0	People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages. Dude, I'm not going to these places anymore lmao. At the same time, you don't have to believe me it's ok I don't mind. If you think my view of smallest thing is abuse, cheating, grape or any other serious thing you are mistaken.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 02:51 PM
0	People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages. Why should I do that? Go out a little, whatch shows like The View or go to AITA and TwoX... you should get your answers there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 02:42 PM
4	People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages. There are entire subreddits, tv and talk shows almost dedicated to give you examples of people advising you to breakup/divorce for the smallest thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 02:24 PM
12	People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages. Abuse should never be justified and yes, anyone that suffers from abuse in their marriage should take necessary means to end it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 02:22 PM
41	People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages. I think what people talk about is that women are quick and proud to initiate divorces, openly talk about it on tv and other media and encourage other women to breakup/divorce for the smallest thing. Most sane people don't think women should stay in shitty marriages. The other thing imo is that women seem to never acknowledge they can be the problem in their marriage, men always are and looking in the mirror is frowned upon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 01:15 PM
45	As a man, "decentering" women is one of the best things you can do for yourself I think this is very important. I was never really into women until I actually got a GF at 20. But even after we broke up some two year later, I never put much effort nor care about finding a gf, I was focused on doing the things I liked and couldn't care less if women liked it or not. In the end, if a woman likes what she sees she'll come to you and she'll like you for who you are, not for whatever mask you had to wear to impress a woman based on what society tells you you should be for women. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 06:37 PM
4	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? What am I proving exactly, you are the one proving you use men for easy meals. Glad I don't attrack this kind of people, damn!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 07:50 PM
4	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? So you want men to pay for your dates otherwise you don't date them, and you don't have sex with men who pays for your dates or do you have sex only with men that pays you directly for the deed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 02:43 PM
9	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? Aren't women positionning themselves to be prostitutes then? Like, pay me to have sex with me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 12:21 PM
–	Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids? You know the info is right there on your government website. When I said I looked it up I did just that. There's also a calculator that helps you have an idea of how much you'd have to pay based on your income and how many children you'd have to pay for bar some other additional fees that may occur. The info is there for free, no need for tiktok, maybe you're the one that'd need to let go that pos of a website lmao. Also, if I had to fork the amount you do just in gas I'd be quick to find a new …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 11:24 PM
–	Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids? What variety of subjects lmao... I drive 25min to go to work every day that makes 50min every day. I put 50$ every week in my car. I don't have an SUV, but not some small tiny car either. I'm kinda surprised at how much you spend just for gas, it's hilarious I and would seriously consider getting a car that drinks way less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 09:57 PM
–	Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids? Well I think you should try to lower some expanses like 400 just to drive that teen to school is quite ridiculous imo. How much is gas over there because if you have to drive to work and groceries and other shopping needs you end up paying what, more than a thousand just in gas? Please, make some sacrifices and try to lower that expanse alone. I'd go crazy if my gf had such kind of bills.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 09:11 PM
–	Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids? I don't know where you live but here a man that makes 60k will probably have to fork around 1400$/months for child support for 2 kids. How much do you need to drive your kid around? The way some of you talk, even if the man was living with you both your income wouldn't be enough to even feed these children. Did you birth ogres or something, damn! Edit: I looked it up and it's closer to 1000$ than 1400$, my bad!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 08:58 PM
–	Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025 That's an easy question, start by not demonizing a whole gender and/or race? Don't go out of your way to fight against things that you think isn't a problem to you but is to the other gender, like paternity fraud, suicide rates, draft, duluth model, false accusations, incarceration rates, court bias, lonelyness, just to name a few areas that some people fight to keep as is because it's not affecting them... no different than those men that think abortion should be illegal. Rewarding good behavio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 02:22 PM
2	Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patterns I swear these people will blame anything but themselves... next, cats are actually mysogynists and exploit women's lonelyness to extract food and attention for them... cats are a product of patriarchy, I'm calling it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/25 05:00 PM
8	Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patterns Middle school boys being addicted to porn and calling themselves incels? Lmao what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/25 04:58 PM
10	Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patterns Middle school boys are not incels now are they?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/25 01:29 PM
5	Do you ever have the urge to push back against hatred directed at men who think their position in dating suck? Male and female teachers treat girls better in school but since you think male teachers are creepy the end result for boys is a non concern? Is that what you'd tell your son, nephew or any young relative that experience this kind of discrimination?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 01:45 PM
8	CMV: These "Her" like AI experiences won't alleviate loneliness for men Is shaming and having contempt for them only good for men or should we gang shame women also? Should we do this with children? If not, at what age should we start applying your logic? Is this valid only for dating or should we also shame people that struggle in other sphere of life? Do you think, we should teach the younger generation how to shame others for not being "productive enough"?... Wouldn't that be bullying? You advocate for bullying? Doesn't that also lead to people merking themselves…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 12:05 PM
–	Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves? Don't worry it happens 😅	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 01:02 AM
–	Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves? I'm actually agreeing with you. I think people that say they've never seen women make this kind of comment are acting in bad faith, generally blue pilled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 12:07 AM
–	Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves? These people are chronically online and have never seen women make any deragotary comments towards men is hilarious and shows their inability to comment in good faith.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 11:14 PM
2	How do you define accountability, and what specific things should someone do, in your opinion, to “take accountability”? It does illustrate what I think. Women have their set of complaints just like men have their set of complaints. No man requires women to put on makeup or get implants or wear heels and so on. But women complain that they do it because of men or society's pressure and sometimes when confronted they say they do it for themselves. I'm pretty sure women see what works and try to do exactly that. It doesn't have to be very direct, it's mostly indirect. Women see how they're treated when they wear mak…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 08:49 PM
1	How do you define accountability, and what specific things should someone do, in your opinion, to “take accountability”? Really? At the same time we put more focus on things that affects us and ignore what doesn't. Doesn't mean it's not there. It'd be like me telling women I've never seen men talk about women's weight or boob size. Only women talk about their weight and their breast size. At the same time, I've never seen men comment on another man telling them they must have a small penis, or call them out for being bald, or asking women to put their actual height on dating apps. I know about the 36 - 24 -36 bs s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 07:07 PM
0	How do you define accountability, and what specific things should someone do, in your opinion, to “take accountability”? Men can only go with what women express publicly though. Women are quick to call out men on their immutable traits like penis size, height, baldness and finances calling them sub men and whatnot. Ofc at some point people think these are the only things women care about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 06:45 PM
1	How do you define accountability, and what specific things should someone do, in your opinion, to “take accountability”? I think by doing this women enforce in each other the idea that women can never be the source of problems they face, you deserve this, he made you do it, you go girl kinda rethoric.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 06:03 PM
7	Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father. I know a lot of people, men and women, that act like since they have custody of their children they can decide whether the non custodial parent sees their children, how often and if supervised or not. Some parents will lead their children against the non custodial parent and courts will use it against them, parental alienation is a real thing and is perpetrated by both genders. I think too many see their kids as a "weapon" against the other and this needs to be talked and recognized more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 05:39 PM
7	Dating is a numbers game and men who care less stay winning it. This is a weird take or just shows you know nothing about red pill. Red pill is mostly about understanding things and then navigating the way you want while knowing how things work. It doesn't mean if some red pill guru idiot says some bs you have to follow it. It means that dude uses the knowledge to act a certain way and it's his way of doing things. Science isn't the problem, the way you use or view science might be the problem. I delved into red pill stuff more than a decade ago and since th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 05:33 PM
9	Dating is a numbers game and men who care less stay winning it. You have to think about all the investments men are pressured to early on that women often don't have to. If you had to always initiate you'd find it more irritating everytime you face rejections. If you almost always had to pay you'd feel more injustice when things don't work after you paid for dates. If you'd have to. If you always had to be the entertaining one, be it funnily and/or initiate conversations you'd think you always have to pull the may-to-be relationship. That pressure adds a lot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 04:46 PM
1	Blue Pill Lies: Non-Custodial Fathers and Child Support This is the exact same argument BP use when talking about paternity fraud. "If a man has a kid with a woman that would commit fraud it's his own fault!". I do think people change and lie, it's not always that easy. But it's funny to see their own bs being used against them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/25 11:44 AM
12	Majority of "misandrists" are men. Just because too many women qualify anything and everything as misoginy doesn't mean men have to do the same about misandry. It has a definition and other behavior also have their definitions. Misandry is the hatred of men. Building a hiearchy has nothing to do with misandry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 04:22 PM
2	The patriarchy isn't real It's pretty well documented. You don't know anything about this is just you closing your eyes. And like feminists like to say always "iT's NoT my joB tO dO ThE wOrK, do YoUr oWn ResEarCh!". But because I'm in good faith, I'll provide 3 factual links to studies proving what I say for every factual studies you provide that says men that call out double standards in schools do so only because they are upset and insecure, not because boys and men are actually falling behind and societ doesn't seem t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 12:43 AM
0	The patriarchy isn't real So you know nothing about how most school actually help girls and women? You don't know or you don't want it to be true?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 12:31 AM
3	The patriarchy isn't real I never said they only succeed because of deliberate discrimination. I said they receive a lot of push in multiple ways, including deliberate discrimination and the results are showing in women faring better than men but we forget the young boys that are affected by all the push one received but not them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 12:18 AM
2	The patriarchy isn't real You can prove women have been encouraged to pursue their studies by receiving more funding, more help from government and organizations, by having quotas, by making school discriminate against boys by giving them lower marks, boys being more disciplined, by reforming school so it caters to girls more and so on. All those quite well documented. Can you prove men are fragile and upset that women do better, or are men calling out the double standards and how the issue is labeled a "non issue" by th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 12:09 AM
5	What's YOUR experience with dating apps? Waste of time in my case. The things that makes women attracted to guys like me can't be shown on pictures so nahh. I'm kinda good looking but not that photogenic. I get way more results in real life than on dating apps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/25 05:30 PM
7	Women Don’t See Themselves as Abusers—Physically or Sexually. It's good that where you live this is the norm. I live in Canada and there was a big case of multiple women abusing underage men in a childcare facility, one even got pregnant from it. These men were put in their care in that facility yet the news made sure to not name nor display any of the women's faces and specifically to not frame it as the R word or even say abuse. On the radio some even tried to say that these women were coerced by these underage men... Then not even 2 weeks after, a man, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 06:35 PM
9	Q4M: do you find healthy relationships boring? Absolutely not, the best way for me to leave a relationship is when it's unhealthy and if I have to become someone I don't like then I leave. These women are children that associate excitement with toxicity... not for me anyways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/25 03:23 AM
2	Women can seem unapproachable these days hence why we don’t do it. Thank god that woman that approached me years ago didn't wait for me to be doing the exact same thing she was doing before she approached me lmao. Also, I may misunderstand cold approaching but even if I was reading in a bookstore to me someone casually talking to me is still cold approaching. Being in a setting both are in doesn't negate the idea that to some people, they don't want to be approached, regardless of what they are doing. And finally, respect should always be prioritized, but I don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 12:44 AM
5	Women can seem unapproachable these days hence why we don’t do it. It's like these "I'm a Billionnaire and I'll live the life of a homeless for a week!" kinda bs. The Billionnaire knows his situation will revert back to what it was and can see living like a homeless as an adventure that has an escape button. If he didn't know he'd revert back or didn't have that escape button he'd change how he sees things and start actually see things from a real homeless person. Some women are similar. They have tons of options and can afford to just brush off any of them and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 10:43 PM
3	Women can seem unapproachable these days hence why we don’t do it. Could be cultural too. Cold approach worked for multiple of my friends and even me at some point I met one of my ex relationship when she approached me for something else but the conversation turned into something more interesting. I feel like we put so much emphasis on "cold approach is gross, women don't want to be disturbed in public, approaching women is creepy etc" in the last 15y that people are seeing cold approaching exactly as described. If we push the idea that dating apps are gross lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 10:33 PM
–	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. Exactly this. There's all kinds of women and those that respond to bullshit don't interest me the slightest. I'm pretty sure women that are the most vocal are the ones that people talk mostly about. I also like my women a little reserved too and not those that put up a scene or are all over the place the minute they can. You can give more time to women that are true to their saying instead of just going with the one that gives you some attention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 09:57 PM
7	You can't complain about women not being nice to men and then justify men being creepy to women that are nice to them. I agree with the idea that too many boys believe, because they are told, that being nice would get them attention from women. But this is false and that bs needs to die.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/25 03:02 AM
1	You can't complain about women not being nice to men and then justify men being creepy to women that are nice to them. You're the one making generalizations lmao. Just because you "give chances" to some people you don't find attractive and they end up being terrible doesn't mean people you find unattractive are necessarily terrible. At no point did I say hot people are terrible people, otherwise I'd find my gf to be a terrible person lmao!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/25 03:01 AM
9	You can't complain about women not being nice to men and then justify men being creepy to women that are nice to them. if being nice and polite works it's because you found someone that responds positively to being nice and polite. Not because this works with women. Many women absolutely love rude men, others love reserved men, some love men that'll rough them up and so on. It's always about if you are what she likes. There's no universal way to do it and especially not being nice and polite otherwise society would put way more value in that. Women are people and people are varied, with positives and yes, negati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/25 01:23 AM
2	You can't complain about women not being nice to men and then justify men being creepy to women that are nice to them. You don't give a chance to non hot guys lmao, you give a chance to terrible men and you use that as if non hot men are terrible. Do you think non hot people are terrible as well?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/25 01:17 AM
18	You can't complain about women not being nice to men and then justify men being creepy to women that are nice to them. Act like a normal person around women and you’d get treated nicer Really... this might help some people, always worked good for me but it isn't a requirement for women to treat you nicely. I see it everyday, bullies and abusive people that do in public still get plenty of attention. People should stop trying to correlate being "nice and polite" with success with women. It's a non factor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 09:45 PM
1	People simply don't understand each other, and this impacts empathy "Patriarchy is a system that puts and gives men power and exclude women from it." This is the first bs that all feminists run with and use as an excuse to shit on men. Very few feminists actually understand the nuances of power and that it has no gender, that most problems we have is a class problem and biology also has a very big grasp on who we are and how we interact with each other. But no feminists believe that. Even most women don't want to associate with feminists because of their bs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 11:11 PM
1	People simply don't understand each other, and this impacts empathy I don't judge women as a whole based on a few bad apples. I do judge feminists though since they all push the same bs ideology.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 10:32 PM
2	People simply don't understand each other, and this impacts empathy I'm never gonna generalize a whole group because of my bad experience with some people that share physical traits with said group.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 05:51 PM
9	People simply don't understand each other, and this impacts empathy I think people are bombarded with mixed messaging from unhinged and hurt people and have a difficulty to sort the good and the bad. Too many will just side with whatever they are comfortable with what they perceive is the right message and add their bs to it. Women are told men are abusers and only want to oppress women and many just believe that. Men are told other things and will believe that. But the real problems men face sometimes are cause by themselves, sometimes by other men, sometimes b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 01:03 PM
1	Women often make exaggerated inferences based on arguments made by “incels” to confirm to themselves men are crazier than they really are. You're as credible as people thinking women in feminist subs like witches vs patriarchy or twox represent most women. They make claims and generalizations about women based on the most unhinged comments from these places there lmao. But yeah, because you've embraced this way of thinking doesn't make it true. The fact you're a mod is eye opening though. No need to participate in this hatred justification. Spending too much time in hateful spaces just turns you into another hateful person. I don't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 03:49 PM
1	Women often make exaggerated inferences based on arguments made by “incels” to confirm to themselves men are crazier than they really are. I'm a teacher in a very male centric field but our school also has female centric fields and other more even fields. I use Discord and YT. As a non white man I see tons of comments on YT and even here on Reddit about non white people but I would never assume most people think like that... because I'm not chronically online looking for the worst people. I think what you say just reinforces distrust in men from women and makes them think all men are vile and only want to get them without knowing t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 02:59 PM
0	Women often make exaggerated inferences based on arguments made by “incels” to confirm to themselves men are crazier than they really are. You really believe when men are together they discuss raping and murdering?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 02:37 PM
1	Women are the superior gender for modern society. Yeah these men "turds" would still fare better then most women, especially the women "turds" in this subreddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 03:49 AM
6	Women are the superior gender for modern society. People are always fearless and "brave" when they know nothing of war.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 03:43 AM
0	Women are the superior gender for modern society. Women have been bragging about being able to do whatever men can but better and in heels... that'd actually be very entertaining to watch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 03:40 AM
–	Women are the superior gender for modern society. "Yeah... but... I'm a woman and I'm not concerned by the draft so I'll dismiss and make fun of the fact... " Typical 😆	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 03:38 AM
0	Telling men that they've no romantic option because it's self-imposed logic should be used for women too who say there are no good men, bar is in hell and they would rather be single. People like you make it impossible to have regular grounded discussions. It's like someone can't talk about a subject without thinking about themselves... you seem to have the "main character syndrome" and you push it on to others. I said the exact same thing that person talks about to my brother that was complaining the women he got with were just partying non serious women. I told him to pick better and not select women based on how few cloth they wore in clubs. Was I talking about him picking…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 06:00 PM
-2	The reasons women show while talking against "financial" abortion is eerily similar to the same reasoning that conservatives show for banning abortion. Do you think knowing whether you'll get support from the may to be father from the get go would help you decide whether you'll keep the child or not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 02:50 PM
1	We need to bring back witches and sirens and other evil female archetypes to teach young men Both aren't as present or available as they used to though. Not that I really agree with OP, but our society needs more guidelines and sound advices that families and religion used to bring. Without the bs religion comes up with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 12:00 PM
8	Women end up hating the Men they create. Most men don't want the woman they're with to change much aside from obvious flaws that both should work on. The "work less hours" then complain you earn less money happened to me a few times, this is funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 02:40 AM
–	Your survival rate during life-threatening emergencies or critical incidents directly correlates to the number of biological men on the scene. Would you rather no one gives the phone call? Also I'm 190lbs, if I was drowning I'm pretty sure most women wouldn't be able to carry me out of water.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/25 11:12 PM
–	Your survival rate during life-threatening emergencies or critical incidents directly correlates to the number of biological men on the scene. Women don't necessarily need to throw themselves out there to be part of the help you received. It's rarely a one or two person effort, especially in catastrophes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/25 11:07 PM
8	Downplaying men fear of false allegations, make women fear of men is inconsistent. You to assume unless you live something then it doesn't happen... Edit: you also seem to assume women are the ones being treated unfairly in false accusations... maybe because they're more represented in false accusers, but I don't care the gender of who does the accusations. People need to stop this bs, false accusations do exist, in more numbers than reported, by people you may even know... Do you think your friend would brag about raping someone? I don't think someone would brag about destroy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 04:06 AM
4	Downplaying men fear of false allegations, make women fear of men is inconsistent. So do you think any one on one meeting is stupid and shady? Even when both are adults? Dang, please tell that to mme. Sandberg that complained women were losing by not having these meetings with men lmao!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 03:31 AM
3	Downplaying men fear of false allegations, make women fear of men is inconsistent. What part of higher education we're teaching to adults you don't understand?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 03:29 AM
7	Downplaying men fear of false allegations, make women fear of men is inconsistent. Not all that happen in schools has media coverage. Especially since they try to protect the accuser most of the time. I'm pretty sure you're just looking into dismissing what I wrote. Like, this could never happen lmao. Schools often have internal investigators for such minor things. I live in Quebec, Canada. I believe even the US universities have some sort of internal investigation teams. Do you believe if you don't see it in the news then it means it never happens?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 03:21 AM
8	Downplaying men fear of false allegations, make women fear of men is inconsistent. I teach in higher education, not to high school so all our students are adults. It was perfectly normal for teachers to have one on one meetings. Have you been to university? I benefitted from that when I was a student myself. Teachers even have specific schedules for meetings... I don't know why you think this is weird, if you do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 03:16 AM
8	Downplaying men fear of false allegations, make women fear of men is inconsistent. Why? You want to visit me? Or maybe you don't believe these do happen more and more? Do you also work in schools? Maybe you can share your experience?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 02:41 AM
13	Downplaying men fear of false allegations, make women fear of men is inconsistent. The fear of false accusation just grows with the prevalence of them. For example, in higher education, where I teach, there was always meetings with students one on one no matter the student. When metoo occured, the school took action, zero tolerance and all teachers accused wouldn't be supported by the school. To some degree I agree schools should do what they can to help victims of sexual abuse. In the last 3 years though, there have been 3 false accusations, all towards male teachers. One act…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 01:19 AM
1	The primary consequence of toxic masculinity is crime Lmao, they are the victims of everything cry me a river. Everyone adopted the victim mentality in this days and age and it's a cancer from all angles. You just like to focus on one simple thing and act like that the only thing...	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 01:33 AM
0	The primary consequence of toxic masculinity is crime I'm pretty sure your reality consists of watching tv and some biased internet lmao... walking around you see cops being incarcerated left and right for their crimes? You see some politicians too? You see organized crime? Yeah thought so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 10:49 PM
7	It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching porn don’t ask me to try something because you saw a pornstar do it. I am not a pornstar. This is similar to women asking or comparing their current bf to do things or be like how their multiple past bf did or were. I'm not your past bf, stop comparing me to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 06:39 PM
1	The primary consequence of toxic masculinity is crime Do poorer areas have a higher crime rate? Where I'm from it's exactly that, but it doesn't mean the richer places don't shelter criminals, they often do it in a different way and get away with it, or they bribe the cops, which makes them and the cops criminals. Are cops counted in the crimes they do most of the time? Are certain people facing more scrutiny and face more incarceration rate for the exact same "crimes" other do (like possessing marijuana) in some countries? Are rich criminals able …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 06:02 PM
1	The primary consequence of toxic masculinity is crime Just say you're racist dude. No ethnicity doesn't do crimes when under financial pressure, lack of education and struggle in many different ways. And crime can take so many forms. Even those at the top do commit crime? Or do you believe crimes only count when someone is poor and dark skinned? Do you think people in the Yakuza, Italian Mafia, lots of politicians aren't criminals? GTFO!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 05:55 PM
6	Would you support men having the right to “abdicate” a pregnancy? Seems like that's what you're pushing for!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 05:49 PM
35	Would you support men having the right to “abdicate” a pregnancy? Damn, I think it's first time I agree with a blue piller. I'd also add that more strict policies and enforcement should be put in place for men who agreed to have a child and changed their mind later. You had the option to opt out, now it's too late, take care of the child financially, it's your responsibility and you agreed to it. Also men shouldn't be held responsible for said child if the pregnancy was hidden to him. Women should always be the ones deciding whether they continue with a pregna…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 06:51 AM
3	The primary consequence of toxic masculinity is crime It has nothing to do with ethnicities lmao, upbringning, access to education, access to roof, food and so on will play a huge role in aggression far more than ethnicities. Also men commit more crimes because men also do more things that require force and temerity. It's the same reason more men are willing to attach pieces of wood and curtains to their back and jumping off of cliffs thinking they'll fly, or they jump in water with crocodiles to study them, or become firefighters. Crime is another…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 04:39 AM
1	Women who get abortions should be labelled as "deadbeat mothers". Yes I have spoken to women that had multiple abortions, as well as women who are against abortion, as well as women who aborted because they didn't like the "father", or I spoke to women who didn't want to abort because they really wanted the kid now because they had complications like endometriosis and didn't want risking never being able to get pregnant again. You speak like men are this stupid animal that can't and shouldn't have an opinion on a natural phenomenon that is reproduction because…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 03:18 AM
-1	Women who get abortions should be labelled as "deadbeat mothers". I do think we shouldn't get rid of abortion. But I think abortions shouldn't occur past 5-6 months unless there's an actual threat to the woman's life. I don't believe in the rethoric of clump of cells, tumor, regular medical procedure because it's completely different from regular procedures. Unless you think you can get pregnant the same as you catch any disease, which is dehumanizing and stupid imo. Pregnancy is a beautiful thing. It's the result of life, not some disease like feminism try to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/25 04:46 AM
-2	Women who get abortions should be labelled as "deadbeat mothers". What is stopping someone from using this logic to ban condoms and pills? Isn't that what some people in the US want to pull? Do you agree with this? I don't think this is brilliant and will only set back both men and women. The risks are known before the act of sex. I think it sucks that women can die from medical complications from pregnancies. I'm not going to urge the government to execute men who impregnated these women out of fairness. Hmm... didn't stop us from finding ways to help women. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/25 12:01 AM
11	CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excuses Are you trying to tell her that she might have a role in her own life when things don't go as she wants it? She thinks she doesn't need to learn nor improve anything herself, the men she's with need to do the work or she finds someone else. Why communicate? Men have to read minds and know everything from the get go...	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/25 10:12 PM
-1	Women who get abortions should be labelled as "deadbeat mothers". I think abortion is to prevent a child from being born in case contraception didn't work and it's beneficial for both men and women when they agree. But when they disagree it's up to the woman to decide whether a man, without his consent, will be a father or not. Unless you say as soon as men decide to have sex then they decide to be a parent then I think we should apply the same to women. I think we should not get rid of abortion. But placing all decisions in the hands of women wether the man t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/25 10:01 PM
1	Women outpacing men in college education is good for men. Blaming the other has no gender though, imagine if men also had university degrees that's dedicated in blaming everything on women... the internet just likes the divides and people participate in it voluntarily, often without even realizing they're part of the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 09:01 PM
2	Women outpacing men in college education is good for men. That's not true, fewer options for men is what creates resentment and makes them turn to alternative solutions. A college degree has no weight if it doesn't provides a good career. Some dude that doesn't have a higher education but is able to live a good life isn't gonna start anything more than a dude with a Bachelor is a field that leads nowhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 08:59 PM
9	Women outpacing men in college education is good for men. Isn't that one of the main reasons women divorce while men is often because the woman is sick or crippled? She's just proving the stats. No surprises here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 08:24 PM
-3	Q4W: how common is it that women masturbate without an object of desire? That's what feminists and blue pillers do about men. They come up with bogus reasons as to why men do things and act like that's the reality... I understand why she's amused by people telling her what her thoughts are and how her body function, men live this every day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 08:20 PM
2	The APA's guidelines on men and boys that were published in 2019 encourages therapists to violate the modern interpretation of the Oath of Hippocrates and suggests that American men are largely justified in distrusting therapy/mental healthcare as they don't have their best interest at heart Women unload to their bf, friends, spouse all the time with anything and at any given times. Should men also tell them they're not their therapists? Also the way therapy is is for women not for men. Also men will vent with women because that's what women do. If these men wanted solutions they'd tell other men or keep it to themselves and find a solution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 11:52 PM
89	Men who lose their hand cannot hit women And they'd still expect those men to build, fix and maintain society and keep doing the dirty, dangerous, unpleasant yet vital jobs.	/r/MensRights	02/01/25 03:39 PM
2	The APA's guidelines on men and boys that were published in 2019 encourages therapists to violate the modern interpretation of the Oath of Hippocrates and suggests that American men are largely justified in distrusting therapy/mental healthcare as they don't have their best interest at heart Hmm that's true though. Men offer solutions instead of allowing women to just vent, you just flipped the script. Just shows how different our approaches are regarding problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 01:55 AM
2	The APA's guidelines on men and boys that were published in 2019 encourages therapists to violate the modern interpretation of the Oath of Hippocrates and suggests that American men are largely justified in distrusting therapy/mental healthcare as they don't have their best interest at heart "Which is why I encourage all women to start insisting on brainstorming solutions instead of just allowing men to vent. When they get annoyed, act genuinely shocked and confused." Lmao... hope you suggest the same for women. What a sorry state we are to think this is useful advices 😆	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 01:34 AM
4	The APA's guidelines on men and boys that were published in 2019 encourages therapists to violate the modern interpretation of the Oath of Hippocrates and suggests that American men are largely justified in distrusting therapy/mental healthcare as they don't have their best interest at heart Very true most of the time. I also forgot that they get weirded out by the problem and you have to comfort them instead of finding a solution for your own problem. Other times they frame it as whatever your problem is, it's your fault and you should figure it out by yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 12:14 AM
3	The APA's guidelines on men and boys that were published in 2019 encourages therapists to violate the modern interpretation of the Oath of Hippocrates and suggests that American men are largely justified in distrusting therapy/mental healthcare as they don't have their best interest at heart Women often complain men offer them solutions instead of just hearing them out. And men complain women don't offer useful advices or solutions... This isn't coming out of nowhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 12:12 AM
9	The APA's guidelines on men and boys that were published in 2019 encourages therapists to violate the modern interpretation of the Oath of Hippocrates and suggests that American men are largely justified in distrusting therapy/mental healthcare as they don't have their best interest at heart In my experience, most women's solutions to men's problems or concerns aren't really solutions, often just to wave away the problem or didn't think deeply about the actual problem or worse, offer a solution that benefits her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/25 08:36 PM
3	Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers. It was also people with penises that created roe vs wade. So by your logic, men are the ones that do good thing for women... or are you gonna say they aren't the same people with penises that wanted to repeal it? Just say you want to generalize men for bad things but not for good things...	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 03:28 PM
5	Merry Christmas Hey have a merry christmas to you all.	/r/MensRights	25/12/24 04:02 AM
0	Paper Abortions are not ethically analogous to Abortions Exactly why giving the choice to men is important. A whoopsie from a man isn't the same as a whoopsie from a woman. Same as being victim of SA. Men in these cases is always subject to be a parent while he didn't consent to all situations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 05:03 AM
1	Paper Abortions are not ethically analogous to Abortions wouldn't that be rape? That woman can always abort. A man that was raped can't abort and with current laws he's subject to pay child support.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 02:27 AM
1	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women So you're against the idea that, areas where men have a disadvantage we work on to equal the outcome? Do you hold the same positions for ares where women have a disadvantage? For example, abortion? Why should the state allow abortions, women by having sex agree to become a mother no? Why the double standard? Or why lower physical tests where strength is required so we accomodate women who are weaker in strength? This idea that men should absolutely not have an escape except not having sex but no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 12:28 AM
1	Swiss senate votes to make gender discrimination punishable by law Or... or... wait for it... instead of going to war and send men to die for no reason... remove the tax that's put on men or just apply that tax to everyone, men and women equally... why should women be exempted from being conscripted, from doing mandatory military services and from that tax at the same time? Going to war is rarely the solution, especially for something like a tax.	/r/MensRights	22/12/24 03:41 PM
1	The Anti-Woke is now just bigots and neckbeards. Nahh... just the DEI part that is plaguing discussions around all media rn... skin color has always been a problem for too many people, sometimes, preventing them from getting jobs, housing and so on. Today it seems it should prevent you from having some representation also it seems. Anyway, we made our point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 09:02 PM
1	The Anti-Woke is now just bigots and neckbeards. Lmao... should've known, Reddit is full of bad faith people... blehh, that's on me for engaging in this discussion!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 08:40 PM
1	The Anti-Woke is now just bigots and neckbeards. Dude, I can find countless videos, publications and media channels that complain about white men this, white men that. I'm not white myself but I always found that witch hunting about white men to be pretty stupid and it would backfire at some point. I'm absolutely not trying to jump on that hateful bandwagon. But it doesn't mean I can't recognize the onslaught of "this is woke bs" aimed at every piece of media now a days. You don't want to recognize this then fine. Doesn't mean it's not there. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 07:59 PM
1	The Anti-Woke is now just bigots and neckbeards. Nahh man, I have my share of hating race/gender swapping. But those that complain the most do when they see the main character isn't a white male and quickly call it the DEI oppression. Like the creator was forced to use a black man, a woman (of any race), a gay person etc etc. They'll quickly associate a character and a movie success to the gender or race. Like I said it's as stupid as those that want to portray the queen of the Vikings as a strong black woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 06:39 PM
3	Can you honestly claim modern feminism is about equality, or is it just about power? Is it really all because of their sex? Are women privileged in any way? If they are, are they a problem that needs to be taken care of?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 06:22 PM
6	Can you honestly claim modern feminism is about equality, or is it just about power? You should read it. Some women doing better doesn't mean everyone is. This is funny as feminism tends to believe exactly that but for men, all men are privileged, men are given a voice and top jobs because they're men, men benefit from patriarchy etc etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 06:16 PM
3	The Anti-Woke is now just bigots and neckbeards. This is BS and you didn't even try to understand my comment. You speak of things that needs time to realize through viewship of said media. You can't tell if something is "woke BS" by just seeing a woman as a main character (Fable trailer isn't showing a white man... omg must be woke BS... even though you will be able to chose...) but it doesn't prevent the anti-woke mob from calling it out or complain the woman isn't a sexy porn star model. These people must hate life altogether as most women a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 04:51 PM
2	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women Maybe you didn't read or didn't understand what I wrote. It's also possible that I speak in a way that's hard for you to understand since English isn't my birth language and use it only from time to time, for that I'm sorry. Now, please tell me where I assume women create children out of thin air in my comments. Also point to where I suggest men should have no parental rights. I'm pretty sure I advocate for men to have actual parental rights and that comes with the right to not be a parent. They…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 04:30 PM
8	The Anti-Woke is now just bigots and neckbeards. Though I agree with some of what you say I was discussing with an anti-woke person not too long ago and told him that a lot of movies that are well regarded in the past wouldn't be appreciated today because of the extreme rhetoric. Imagine a movie like Aliens - "Its a woman doing what marines couldn't do! This is woke bullshit!" Terminator - "A man has to put his life in danger to save a woman because she's sooo important her child will save humanity! This is woke bullshit!" Kill Bill - "A woman…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 03:16 PM
1	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women Men don't create children, women do and chose to. Men give women the starter pack, women decide to make something out of it and they require 9 months to do so. In the mean time, they can chose to either continue with the pregnancy or put an end to it. But they also chose to involve a man or not, as they see fit and we put laws to make men comply with that woman's decision, whatever it may be, good or bad. Is it really hard to understand men should have an opt out window that would let women make…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 03:06 PM
4	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women Yeah, let's make rules for how far you climb trees for both elephants and monkeys. You don't seem to grasp the idiocy of your claim, especially in today's society that bends to help all women's short comings. You just look like all those people that act like since women can't overpower men and punch their way out of the kitchen then they should stay there. By your logic, women are the ones having the kids and getting pregnant, so why should men and society put all sorts of systems, laws and orga…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 02:37 PM
2	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women The more I read comments like yours the more I believe people like you just don't want to think this through and just want to hold all decisions and be supported no matter what decisions you make. But you don't want the man to have a say in your decisions... This is childish thinking and looks like you want some "revenge" while we're talking about a future human life, brought up to life because one partner decided to against the will of the other. I feel like women and bluepillers push the idea …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 01:25 PM
–	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women This position can backfire big time though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 12:39 PM
–	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women It's a "cLuMp of CelLs" when she's told she is murdering her child by aborting. It's a child when men want to financially opt out and suddenly she can't abort because it'd be murdering her child... funny how that goes. I think men should be given a window of three months to financially abort and the woman should be able to abort until 5 months. But ultimately since it's a two people responsibility, both should have a say in whether they want this kid or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 12:25 PM
1	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism I'm nor pro choice nor pro abortion and I don't live in the US. I believe there should be no abortions past 5months and a half. I have friends that were born at 7 months to me this "cLuMp Of CellS" is the biggest BS that they could come up with. But so many women and feminists use it to say they should be able to abort at any stage of pregnancy which is dumb. I think if women can decide to abort up to 5 months, men should be able to financially opt out up to 3 month into the pregnancy, giving th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 11:58 AM
2	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism This kinda clashes with the rhetoric of the past 5 years where a baby is only a baby when it is born, otherwise a woman should be able to abort it and we should never call this murder. So now they are babies being murdered because men shouldn't be held responsible for "the clump of cells" women decide to keep... lmao. So sooner or later women themselves will advocate for an abortion ban or what... alll of this is ridiculous lmao!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 04:35 AM
29	Swiss senate votes to make gender discrimination punishable by law And that's funny because they almost never participate in wars. It's like they tax men because they're not sending them to wars lmao.	/r/MensRights	20/12/24 01:48 AM
1	Women, do you want liberty or security? At the same time they have people telling them sex work is just work and they can do whatever they want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 01:42 AM
–	How come feminsm treats men as having easy cushy lives when they are victims of the patriarchy too? Very true, but just because you align yourself with a group doesn't mean you follow that groups basic rules. Or worse, you think you follow a virtuous group but you don't know much about what they do that is harmful to others or you enable that harmful behavior by ignoring them. Feminism is no different. It even has studies to find new ways to label anything that men do as bad you can see them in most feminist subs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 04:17 PM
–	How come feminsm treats men as having easy cushy lives when they are victims of the patriarchy too? Different people but all feminists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 03:49 PM
1	Feminists fearing and resenting men they never met is called sexism (II) We are led to be more cautious towards each other today than ever though. Women have that bear thing and men have that Pence rule, both are taking precautions for things that they think will invariably happen to them because of internet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 03:48 PM
1	The Lily Phillips situation proves AWALT is just confirmation bias and gender flipped “Yes All Men”. Women are not a monolith, some are more impressionable than others unless you believe only men can suffer from bad influences and women can't lmao! Also, some porn producer in the 80s said there's never an end to women turning 18 throwing themselves in that industry and most of them have role models that do porn or they've been abused. That was the 80s, you think today is any different and not worse, with social media? Yeah, no!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 03:36 PM
2	Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffers I feel you on showing yourself while doing activities. Some of my best pictures are when I'm out somewhere with my backpack hiking or doing something fun.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 06:08 PM
2	Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffers Dating apps mostly show if you're photogenic, that you can manipulate pictures, that you can use filters, you can use makeup, or that you can copy paste someone's bio... but if there's one important thing dating apps don't do is showing who you really are, your voice, your eyes, your behavior and so on. I have no problem meeting and finding gf in real life, mostly because of how I am and I'm not ugly ofc. But on dating apps I have no success at all, never had and I think it's because unless you'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 02:09 PM
–	What is meant by "women live on easy mode"? I think it's a reverse to women saying men are privileged and have most things handed to them for being males.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 09:17 PM
3	Nice guys are just assholes who felt obligated to be nice to get pussy. I'm in my forties and in a great relationship with a wonderful amazing woman. I have life experience and I'm not swayed by extremists thanks for worrying lol. I have met my share of women, I teach to adults but I have been working in schools almost all my life so I've seen that behavior first hand multiple time, way before I came here on Reddit. I think you are the one that needs to not be swayed by propaganda as you seem to believe in rose tinted glasses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 01:31 AM
12	How many of you would be prepared if a draft was called up? Women can go then. I'm not for a draft. If most people don't want to fight for their country then it needs to cease to exist. Why send people that don't want to fight and throw away their lives on the frontline?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 01:17 AM
17	How many of you would be prepared if a draft was called up? Why not draft women instead of "gutless worms"? A woman can do whatever a man can, be better at it, and in heels!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 12:50 AM
4	Nice guys are just assholes who felt obligated to be nice to get pussy. I don't view women as a monolith, some are bad and make bad decisions, some don't, some are indifferent etc. This discussion chain is about your claim that women are genuinely attracted to nice guys and want nice guys in their life which isn't accurate. Though most women want a good partner, the reason they're attracted to a man has nothing to do with them being nice and I gave examples. And I'm sorry but women absolutely portray most men as bad for their experiences with some of them, you have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 12:48 AM
14	How many of you would be prepared if a draft was called up? The suffrage movement was split by the Great War. Most often remembered are the pacifists. But the militant history of feminist war supporters in Britain, and the audacity of the 'White Feather Girls' who shamed young men into enlisting, must also be remembered in this centenary year. https://www.opendemocracy.net/en/5050/white-feather-girls-womens-militarism-in-uk/ Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_feather	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 12:35 AM
4	Nice guys are just assholes who felt obligated to be nice to get pussy. No one thinks men don't simp for bad women also. It's the constant bullshitting about what women like that people hate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 12:27 AM
18	How many of you would be prepared if a draft was called up? You distributing those white feathers I see.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 12:01 AM
4	Nice guys are just assholes who felt obligated to be nice to get pussy. Attraction doesn't have to be with someone you share interest nor personality, to me yes but to many women? Absolutely not. You also don't have to exhibit any niceness or fake it to be attractive to a lot of women. Sometimes some men are even rude to them or to other people in their close circle and it doesn't prevent them to have women at their arm. You'll hear some girls say "ohh that wasn't nice of you" but his actions wouldn't make her leave him. Being a nice person isn't the default. Some w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 11:45 PM
10	Progressivism has failed men by treating them as scapegoats rather than partners in the pursuit of equality Let's not act like women and most feminists are lined up to be providers to men that don't provide. Similar to people saying women like when men open up... yeah what two or three women? The rest despise men opening up, they even came up with the fanfare that is "we are not your therapists" so no emotional support, but you better do it for me. "Women are becoming the sole providers for their family" is an internet bs thing. Most women want men that make more than them, most women don't want child…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 08:57 PM
6	Nice guys are just assholes who felt obligated to be nice to get pussy. It means that women do want genuine nice guys Nahh I don't think this is true for attraction. It can be true for a long term relationship and even then. Many women leave their husband or boyfriends because they are too gentle, these women need to be ruffled a little and find happiness in a disordered person. Many unstable men are in relationships and many times women realize these men aren't good men only once they have kids, then they leave and expect the "good guys" to take care of them and th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 08:12 PM
11	How come feminsm treats men as having easy cushy lives when they are victims of the patriarchy too? Exactly... they hate the idea that feminism as a whole can be blamed for anything and will say feminism can be different from one person to another so if there's blame to put on it's to that specific person... but will gladly say something isn't true feminism in a heart beat. You explained it well and it's frustrating. Meanwhile, they speak as if men were a monolith, not like each men are their own individual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 05:00 PM
–	Is The Denial That Misandry Exists The Worst Misandry? Yeah let's laugh about it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 02:32 AM
13	Nice guys are just assholes who felt obligated to be nice to get pussy. I don't think people want to necessarily want to do good only to have sex. They want to have a relationship and in order to maximize their chances people tell them they should be nice, a good person, treat women right etx. Which doesn't work for everyone since those that absolutely don't treat women right, have bad temper, even beat them are more successuf than those who think being a good person will work. The messaging is the problem imo and more and more people are adopting the "look what the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 06:15 PM
0	Modern Dating Truths: Why Men Should Reconsider Loyalty and Investment in One Woman Funny, I dated a woman back in 2015 that was telling me the goal was to destroy the nuclear family because this structure puts men on top. I always thought it was only about a man and a woman having children but apparently it's a tool used by the patriarchy to oppress women. You can say almost 10y later we have more and more single parent family than ever... seems they're winning /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 12:04 AM
-3	What are some non-mental-health related faults that you think more women have than men? Ahh also delusional, I didn't think about it, thanks... I'm taking notes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 09:23 PM
5	What are some non-mental-health related faults that you think more women have than men? Ohh and with this one we should add denial... keep it up, we're gonna win!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 08:57 PM
8	What are some non-mental-health related faults that you think more women have than men? Seeing your comment I think we should add deflection...	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 08:31 PM
3	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating I think the opposite. It's always how you talk about your job that makes a difference, unless you do OF or that weird NPC licking screens bs. I used to teach to younger students and talking about my job could go two ways. Either I speak of children and people think I'm a pedo or I speak of the love I have to help the younger generation grow and how I can make a difference in their lives. I was never ashamed to teach to kids but it's heavily associated with women and pedos so I had to frame it pr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 04:21 PM