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DiscussionRandHomman/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:24 PM
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That's mostly because all discussions or reports from the facts are shut down pretty quickly and people like you just go with what you hear the most. You'd fall for things like 60% of crimes are committed by men, feminists putting emphasis on the 60% and claim it's unacceptable, never talk about the 40% then you come along and say "you never hear women comitting crimes" while they do 40% of them (these aren't real numbers, just an example). In my Province (Quebec, Canada) every time there are wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:46 PM
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Could you accept your advice for yourself and suggest other women take it too? Would you see yourself creating a thread telling women "don't take internet comments from strangers as a personal attack on you" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:20 PM
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People always "see" what they think is outrageous and ignore what they don't or is not targeted at them. Women don't see the hateful comments directed at men, either because they don't think it can be hurtful (I've seen mothers with sons just realizing how everything is not all rose for men, that many services aren't favoring or even accepting men, that a lot of discussions online and irl is just condemning all men, yep the way they used to talk was also condemning their own sons, they just real…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:28 PM
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No one is deserved marriage just because they're in a relationship. One year isn't that long and a lot can happen. You can start real great and down the line you notice small things that aren't deal breakers for a relationship but would restrain you from immediately consider marriage. Sometimes you're on the fence and need more time because of various challenges like finances, health, family and so on. In a relationship two people are responsible for communicating their needs, framing it like me…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:11 PM
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Everyone knows men will do more damage and will be more pushy. But knowing this should mean women are angels and 90%+ of all crimes are committed by men. Like when men are wronged that's exactly what they use to tell them they shouldn't complain and that woman might've been right to wrong that man, she was just defending herself. Also the biggest problem imo is how do we expect to tackle problematic behavior if we only consider it problematic if one specific gender does it and we look the other …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:29 PM
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That's not true, a lot of men do talk about men's rights and not every man is affraid of being labelled an incel. But where I side with you is how everything that's associated with men wanting to better themselves is labelled toxic, often because of some bad apples. Like there are no bad apples in any other movement. Also men's rights have to not involve women or women shouldn't feel like they will lose something (like not having all funds to them) to be "accepted". Take any reproductive rights.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:23 PM
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Op's argument is valid though. Women keep parrotting that men commit 95%+ of all crimes, and sexual misconduct citing studies that don't take into account the leaniency women have, how many countries make it impossible for women to even rape men, how men as awhole are less likely to be taken seriously (by both gender and society) when they are victimized by women so they report way less (it's slowly changin though). Instead of fighting to erradicate people's bad behavior, people (especially femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:15 PM
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You're right, it's impressive the length some would go to push their opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:05 PM
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Maybe you don't have this ability but just because I talk about a subject doesn't mean "I am the subject". The way you speak is like "if you have a problem then you are the problem and a walking red flag"... this is weird imo. I'm pretty sure more people that likes Trump than you, would that mean you are no better than the likes of Trump? Is that your logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:17 PM
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So no one wants to be around them because they’re bigots? You think bigots don't have friends? Family? People that would follow them? The US elected as president the biggest of them all. News flash, biggots are all and well, they are also defended and their hateful rhetoric justified by people that can't think for more than half a second. Are you literally the only one? Do you not know anyone on the Internet? Who’s just like you? Are you for real? So you ARE talking about birth defects. People o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:56 PM
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If basically no one wants to get to know you, you are the problem. That's acting like people can't be indoctrinated to hate a specific kind of people. Where I live I'm a minority and I know full well that it's possible to be perceived as a person of low value based only by your looks. Everytime I see people shit on specific physical traits it makes me think of how easy it is to discriminate people and many people will follow. When you speak like that you are siding with the discriminating people…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 07:57 PM
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Why ofc, but so many people in this sub think like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:38 PM
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I was talking about 4 billions women not the 4B movement 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:36 PM
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Because there's 4 billion females. Meanwhile women call out men that go abroad to see more of those 4B women lmao... stop using this as an argument. Most men don't have access to 4B women, they sadly have access to the ones in their city with their bogus mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:23 PM
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They are just confirming that it's all about lust and money for them and they not only agree with it they participate and enforce it while claim it's not true... hypocrisy at it's finest. Granted many women aren't like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:18 PM
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Though I'm pretty sure it happens, I've never seen a man spending energy trying to destroy a woman's career because she flirted with him and he didn't reciprocate. I've seen maybe a dozen women destroy men's careers over the same thing though. Happens all the time, at least in schools it's the first thing you learn, do not try to flirt with women in the admins or the teachers, it will end bad and it did, multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:03 AM
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If it's something negative = Always a man If it's something positive = not all men, nuance is necessary, find ways to make women victims for not participating in said positive, women do it too, that's misogyny bla, bla, bla
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:53 PM
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Damn girl, look at yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:06 PM
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Interesting, different sources say different things but not too surprising. It always depends who writes articles. Ofc an anti-feminist article will say there are less and less while a pro-feminist will say there are more and more... also depends from what country. The article I was reading is also from 2019 while yours points from 2019 to 2026 which is more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:09 PM
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Do you say thins because you know for a fact that no women or feminists have voiced their disdain for what Bonnie Blue does? Or is it just a feeling you have? Because a quick google search gives quite a lot of articles and youtube videos of exactly what OP talks about... it's just funny how confident you are that women don't talk about it. There's also a lot of feminist condemning OF... what are you guys on really?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:00 PM
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This is just a feeling you have, the reality is fewer and fewer people associate with the label even if they agree with some of the goals of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:52 PM
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Are feminists synonymous with progressives now?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:55 PM
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Lmao, blaming everyone but oneself, ideally if it's male, is exactly how feminists operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:08 PM
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Women are half the population of a highly social creature, also heterosexuality is the most widespread and consequential activity a sexual creature has to deal with. A lot of our policies, laws, services are catered to women. Women are in every sphere of life. How exactly do you expect men to remove from everything in their life exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:37 PM
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I never got that impression... maybe that's what you want to see in them. Tbh I already hate "the wall" but never seen them implys 16yo are peak women... there may be some few extremists, like in any ideologies, but 16 and lower? Never associated that with TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:31 AM
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I've never seen redpill advocate for pedophilia. I've seen them claim men preffer women around 20y being peak but nothing about women under 18 being their goal. I understand you might hate TRP but how necessary is it for you to just lie about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:59 PM
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I think there are more types of people than giga chads. For example I don't look particularly great on pictures and I'm 5'9. On dating apps I have close to no success. If I listened to some of you I wouldn't have had the success I had/have with women. The longer I stayed single was 6 months and I don't approach women that much. Often women think I'm 5'11 or close to 6', they like how fit I am, my calm voice and my sense of humor. All these things they would never experience had they filtered me …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:14 PM
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That's not unusual, some of these people think online provides the exact same experience as in real life. Some people are not really photogenic and will immediately fail online where as in real life the way they talk, move, dress and so on will have a bigger impact than only a nice profile picture on a biased dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:36 PM
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Feminists are bogus imo. Why would they want to be in relationships aside from being validated? They don't cook, don't clean, don't want children, don't want to give emotional support to their partners, they don't owe their partner sex or anyone anything... why would they enter in a relationship then if it's not to feel validated? They take they don't give.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:51 PM
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There wouldn't be paternity fraud without cheating. If you cheated and slept with your partner and end up pregnant, it's your responsibility to tell all involved partners of your intention to bring a child to life. Failing to do so means you entertain the possibility you'd have to lie to all partners, that's malicious intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:01 AM
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No one is ok with these situations. It's like you kill all hope people have then expect them to just be ok with it. That's not how emotions work. You say you care about the wellbeing of the child but do you think that child loses nothing when this lie is revealed? You think that child would be indiferent to such news? I think all you care about is fighting the idea a woman would face repercussion for her lie and to you it's a "win for men" and it clouds your judgement. It's not a win for men any…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:56 AM
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If the man she cheated with is aware then he is complicit yes and should definetely face repercussions. I'm not anti women, like you are anti men. I hate paternity fraud and only the one that decides to bring a child to life is responsible. There can also be coercion where she's threatned to still bring the child and tell a lie. In this case she is a victim and shouldn't face repercussions, only those that coerced her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:47 AM
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Protecting cheating and birth a child without telling your partner you cheated is malicious intent. What do you think would happen if the woman told her partner she cheated and plan on keeping the child? She would fear her partner leave her so she kept the lie alive... that's malicious intent. She needs to say it right away imo. Also, it's weird that your solution to stop paternity fraud is to tell men to be abstinent instead of saying women shouldn't be committing paternity fraud. It's like you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:42 AM
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The child is the real victim but so are all involved people, the frauded father, the immediate family and so on. It's a big lie that can result in families broken, some end up in jail for kids that weren't theirs, some pay uears of child support for kids that weren't theirs, people killing themselves and/or others. Sometimes nothing happens, the lie is held tight nobody but the fraudulent mother knows. Sometimes truth is revealed but the frauded father still accepts the child as his own. Why wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:35 AM
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Whenever men have sex they know it can end up in pregnancy. If the pregnancy leads to an actual child then it's the woman's decision. Her body, her choice, no uterus then your opinion doesn't matter, remember? Women know what they are doing, they just don't want to be held responsible if things go south.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:29 AM
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Why don't you spend that much energy to say yes women shouldn't commit paternity fraud. How hard is it? After all, it's her body, her choice, she decided to create this mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:24 AM
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The frauded parent might have practiced abstinence, that's how paternity fraud is committed... I get that you just want men to suck it up but I don't know if you guys understand how paternity fraud is committed because some of your logic makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:19 AM
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You assume the bio dad knew she was taken or that their adventure would lead to her proceeding to birth the child. Imo if he knew then yes he's a shitty partner, if he didn't then he's no different than women who end up sleeping with men that failed to tell them they were married or in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:58 AM
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I see you think your hatred for redpill allows you to just act superior to anyone not like you... this is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:55 PM
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they’re beyond help How do you know? You don't help them or you think so low of them I don't think any teaching from you would help them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:51 PM
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The redpill isn't the be all end all tbh, I'm mostly against the idea we shouldn't teach social skills to grown men since "they should figure things out themselves". As a teacher I've seen people change who they are because they weren't constantly isolated in their parents basements. We don't all have the same upbrigning and I understand some peopleend up with a different outcome. Expecting everyone to just do it or bust is weird imo. I rather help if I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:32 PM
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All praise the great great Babylon
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:26 PM
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Just proves you know very little
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:21 PM
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If he wants to be seen as a competent adult, very very very important. That can only be seen as an end result. Whether they got help or not you wouldn't know unless they tell you. This is also an example of why men shouldn't tell women too much and just act like they always knew and are in control. I also think acting this way can lead to toxic behavior, but hey, that's what women want is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:10 PM
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In my career as a teacher in higher education I have met many grown men above 20 who were socially ackward and didn't have much success with many things, women and jobs to name a few. Calling them autistic just because they grew up different is speaking from a privilege tower. Most of the time, after the two years at school, socializing and doing group projects a lot of them develop better social skills, even the real autistic ones. People that think you can't teach social skills or that you sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:03 PM
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Would you apply that logic to most things? Figure things out yourself? Most people, that includes women, have parents tell them a lot of things about life, ofc some things can't be taught, experience will do the teaching, but I don't think acting like nothing can be taught about dating is weird imo. I received dating advices from my older brother and father. Granted I had them, I wouldn't act like every man has/had that chance, I understand not everyone has the same upbrigning. You don't want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:54 PM
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How important is it to figure things out oneself? Are you against general teachings or just against teaching men how to navigate the dating scene?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:07 PM
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Somewhat true. I'm not scared of gold diggers since I don't earn enough to attract them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:31 PM
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This is choice in abundance vs choice in scarcity and it's a real thing. It applies to many things but most people refuse to believe it greatly influences our choices. Women in poverty may accept to go with a man that is viewed as an uninteresting partner in a richer country. Her options aren't as diverse as a Western woman that would look down at the very same man because she has way more options. Same applies to men and to many other things, marketing knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:53 PM
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Economic desperation looks also like "men should make more than me" and gold diggers wich is also rampant in the West. Should these women's dating choices also be illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:43 PM
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It's impressive to me how people have no idea what accountability means really. It's basically acknowledgement of fault. But that would mean looking inward and most people are heavily invested in blaming others or some entity instead of considering they played a part in their misfortune.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:31 PM
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Are you saying people, that includes women, should know when their partner is unfaithful? You suggest therapy for someone thinking their partner might be unfaithful instead of addressing it? Dang am I glad my partner doesn't have this kind of logic. We both talk a lot and sometimes it's about a misconception one might have. Suggesting therapy because someone wants to be reassured about something is kinda wild imo. I'd dare you to create a thread saying exactly that to both men and women. You und…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:57 PM
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What you're saying is if your partner has a concern about something then it's not your duty nor your problem to address that concern and you should just leave. This is exactly why communication is falling appart. A good partner, they do exist but not you, would address and try to see how they both can fix the problem. Should men do the same when their female partners have an insecurity? Would you say women never have any insecurities, even if they're not necessarily rooted in anything that is re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:54 PM
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The funny part is acting like everything you don't experience doesn't exist and if social media tells me something then I should abide by it as long as it goes with the narrative you like. Maybe you should stop reading and believing exclusively what you read on the internet. There's a real world out there and yeah, not everything is all simple and rose tinted. Women are people, and people have insecurities, people lie, people cheat and because of that people take measures and do actions that bes…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:30 PM
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I think the real reason it didn't happen yet is because for women to be liberated, men had to let go a lot of women's gender roles provided. For men to be liberated, women have to also lose a lot of benefits men's gendered roles provide. Now I have never seen feminists address women in a way to tell them that men's gender roles are bad and encourage women to adapt to the new reality. I have never seen it suggested, all feminism does is say things like "gender roles are bad" but will explicitly t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:29 PM
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The longevity of your marriage isn't a flex if all he had to do was not question you and always agree with your bs. The second men stand up for themselves then women act like they are the only ones having to bend on their ego and won't hesitate to just break everything. "Happy wife, happy life"! If your husband had that insecurity you wouldn't try to reassure him about something this important, meanwhile women dream of their man cheating on them and the man has to step up and prove them they did…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:19 PM
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Brave of you to think most people have seen it. Just because it's "public" doesn't mean most people have seen it. Another way to just brush something that shouldn't have passed. It's like, well abortion ban was showed to the public and people still voted for it then it must be valid. Draft policies have been shown to the public then people must agree with them... lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:05 PM
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Exactly what I think and people are falling for it. Get the popcorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:03 PM
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You can easily find online comments, even here on ppd about women just going in nightclubs to have fun with friends, dancing and not to be bothered by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:13 AM
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Very not true. dating apps place all your chances on your pictures. In real life you have so much more to play with than solely an "edited" image of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:54 PM
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You shouldn't listen to women online. Yesterday I went in a club with my gf, something I hadn't done in years. There was two guys with us. My gf got approached by multiple men even while I was with her. I was also approached by some women, many were way older too. The two guys we were with wanted to meet women and guess what, that's exactly what happened. We met a few people, went to eat after clubbing, they came with us. Both managed to talked to girls and one of them even kissed one girl. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:49 PM
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Dating apps where they can filter by personnality (your picture)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:44 PM
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"-- Feminism was supposed to create an alternative by encouraging women to approach men more often, or by replacing the old system with something that worked just as well --" I don't know where you heard that but feminism was never going to do that, on the contrary they've been very vocal that men are trash, women don't need men, marriage is harmful to women, men should learn to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:18 PM
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Well it's either they do miss them because these men are always paired up. Or these women accept this behavior that you can see mostly when they are with their gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:53 PM
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Wanting to throw hands with other men for the smallest things, especially while under the influence of alcohol. I've seen many men act "protective" while walking on the sidewalk with their gf by bumping any men walking the other direction. Like, this kind of behavior requires a hateful mentality and when things don't go his way, his punches are rated E for Everyone, that includes his gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:02 PM
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Ohh yeah the classic "have you considered taking a shower" as a dating advice. You are basically part of the reason the manosphere is thriving and you are the subject op talks about... pretty hilarious, keep it up champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:36 PM
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Yeah my current gf is older than me, I'm over 40yo. Met her while giving a conference on AI and teaching. She was part of the people doing lectures and we've been together almost a year now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:57 PM
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Just buy a dog
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:37 PM
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You equate men with overweight incels now? Just stop being an incel and go to the gym then...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:59 PM
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The bias is learned it's not inherent. A lot of men and even some nations don't have this by default which means it's a learned thing. I mean, I love women as much as most people but loving women and wanting them to have equal opportunities and rights doesn't associate with "women can do no wrong". I have sisters wich I love deeply. But they themselves admit they aren't flawless and they actually like they have brothers to call them out on their bs. And that is only possible because we respect e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:17 PM
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This is just broad desire of MRAs to remove pedestal/women are wonderful. Which is a tough case, since this is a deeply ingrained bias we're all wired with from birth. Should any problem men have remain as is in order to not think they want to remove women's rights? Like if we spent a little more awareness in places that disadvantage men then it means we want women to be worse off? I don't think so. This is just a way to dismiss these problems and make sure no funds is directed towards reducing …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:42 PM
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Most of what MRA seem to want is more scrutiny in family courts, less use of things like duluth models, more funds thrown in social helps for men to prevent suicide, homelessness and parental rights. More recognition for men who put their lives on the forefront in dangerous jobs and security, more safety nets for those who did thtose jobs in case of injury, a better representation of statistics about abuse so abused men get the needed help and less dismissal and/or shaming. More help for men in …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:33 PM
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There are countless feminist subreddits, facebook pages and so on. If someone wants to delve into feminism and not the hateful or dismissive of anything male related parts. Since you seems very knowledgeable, can you point where someone should go? Give a link. Because most of them are hateful and have a superiority and a victim complex. Most of them don't even want to acknowledge women, even feminists themselves, enforce and support a lot of what they hate about patriarchy. Where would someone g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:49 PM
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In this hypothetical there are a lot of factors that would make things different than how they are right now. One of those factors is choice in abondance vs choice in scarcity. Another one is proximity influence. Some of you may believe women and men are perfectly fine being alone but that's only because you can spend all your time on internet, you can watch porn, you can drive yourself to places that are secure, you get buying power through money and most societies are safe from dangers like na…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:11 PM
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Lmao it's not common at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:32 PM
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Victimization is what they're after, not actual information. Giving actual truth doesn't grant them that victimization so ofc they don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:37 PM
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Women participate in hookup culture just as much as men and even encourage it. People should stop acting like women aren't actively participating in the bs of our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:29 PM
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That'd be great... but looking at how people go today, hookup culture, the selfishness, me, myself and what you can give me what "I deserve" while I owe you nothing, there's no way we can fix any of our cultural woes with only a few catch phrases.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:29 PM
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I wouldn't say "luckily" though. We remain human and we're still a social creature. Just because we found a way to replace human connection with machines and softwares doesn't mean we function socially. The more we push technology, the more we don't try to fix our social problems, the further appart we get from one another, we frame it as a good thing, meanwhile people's mental health is constantly challenged. But hey, at least we have social media to vent, dating apps to not meet real people an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:12 PM
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Lots of people willingly engage in relationships with people they don't necessarily like and it's not a gendered thing. To many people, if their partner fills their most important criteria then they'll endure the rest. Some it's beauty, some it's sex, some is status, some is money, some is because they can't be alone etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:01 PM
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I think you should be the one reviewing your history lessons. A lot of shit that happened happened because of some loser men not seeing a future for themselves be it financially or romantically (more family like back then compared to today where we only value hooking up). These men are easily manipulated by some other idiot telling them who or what is the source of their misery. The real problem imo is instead of learning from those time, we double down on the bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:49 AM
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Women have never been the ones to deal and fix these kind of problems, even when they create them, you shouldn't expect them to now. Most problems have been solved by men especially those men created themselves. Asking for women's help is a dead end. Some that have a heart will, but others, nahh, especially if they are feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:55 PM
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There was a lot of similar posters in schools here, also workshops and all awareness programs, I know I fought against it when I was teaching in secondary grade. Were you here, working with us all this time and you never saw the same kind of posters, never attended any mandatory workshop about consent? Lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:13 PM
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That is not true, that kind of poster was almost everywhere, not specifically this one but posters with similar messaging. A few other teachers and I had to fight against this rhetoric that always puts the man in the shoes of the aggrssor and women in the shoes of the helpless victims. We had to fight the administration, some teachers and feminists organizations that were in charge of the workshops, posters and all awareness programs that painted this bs and always frame it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:58 PM
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and vice versa This is where most of these discussions stop or outright deny it's necessity. Everyone knows when both partners are treated well things can go well. But most discussions go around how men can be better partners but very rarely it goes on to how women can be better partners as well. Some even think it's misogyny to suggest women should do anything to please their partners. treating women respectfully as an equal partner also made themselves happy As it should.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:08 PM
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Imo his point is the discussions that are prowomen, not that they should apply to all women. I'd add that most prowomen discussion removes agency from women are often happy wife happy life in disguise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:54 PM
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Working on yourself can mean many things and it's never a bad idea to entertain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:26 PM
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If you look desperate or are trying too hard ofc it won't work. People should always work on themselves for themselves. Women often look best when they're not trying, men often look best when they are not trying too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:09 PM
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i think an important thing to note is that not all women are feminist are therefore not participating in feminist thinking. claim to be feminist but don’t practice what they preach. I'm sorry but feminism nor feminists are perfect and they live and grew up with the same cultural influence "non-true-feminists" grew up on. Stop acting like feminists don't uphold the same beliefs, they do, they often push it through policies, articles, tv shows, online content and comments. A lot of what women beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:32 PM
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"issues and half of the reason i identify as a feminist is to help men with their struggles which are in part due to rigid gender roles and hierarchies." Imo saying this is to help men is dishonest. Feminism and their followers do nothing to actually help men. The way this "help" seems to work is only by proxy of helping women first and it doesn't even work most of the time, often it makes things worse. This is "happy wife happy life" in disguise of "helping men". When feminists and their follow…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:47 PM
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Men aren't the ones telling women their attitude won't get them dates and act like their prettyness isn't dictating most of their outcome. Men will tell you women's attitude will not retain men or it will attract the "wrong" men, in all scenarios, women will attract men (most of the time but not always ofc) but the kind of men they'll attract will be based on multiple factors. The same applies to men to some extend, but women are more picky and looks plays a bigger role than attitude and even yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:31 PM
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It's because most men (not the blue pilled ones) know "bad behavior" means very little in dating. When women say it's because of your bad behavior, ofc a lot will not believe or just ignore you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:16 PM
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You act like women can detect bad behavior from comments on internet? Dude, women can't even detect bad behavior when it's right in front of them. They all act surprised when that man was abusive. They also do ignore some of the bad behavior, why would that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:09 PM
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Now, now, someone will come and say "All the ugly and autistic men I know are having lots of dates with women, it's your attitude that is the problem!".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:35 PM
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Thank you, the sentiment is reciprocated. We're all humans and I'm pretty sure in real life most people here are more friendly than they display on social media just to "win" debates or appear tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:31 PM
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I actually don't like when people are cursing a lot, especially not the girl I'm dating. I don't really use curse language myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:38 PM
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Wasn't the question about getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:10 PM
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I'm sorry for what happened to you. We shouln't encourage villinaization of anyone whether they are men or women. Also the way you express yourself, even if it's respectful doesn't necessarily represent all women's way of expressing themselves and the men you don't like online all don't operate in the same way. If you find men online don't have valid grievance, it's ok to accept these men don't find women's grievance valide either. In all cases, it doesn't mean your grievance isn't valid and doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:17 PM
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You say one is less legitimate, why is that? Because you don't live the life of these men? Women constantly talk about how they feel and we should validate their feelings. But somehow we should just brush these men's feelings? How would you expect men to accept your feelings if you can't even accept theirs?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:53 PM
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I think you just want some control over men for some revenge kink or something. Women should have the right to let go their birthed child and currently they do through multiple services like safe heaven and adoption centers. The only way for a man to "dump their baby" is if the woman they slept with made the decision to continue with the pregnancy, it was still her decision and only hers. Having unprotected sex is something they both decided and she made a second decision by not aborting it. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:44 PM
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Men have no decision power regarding whether a pregnancy results in a child or not, that's solely a woman decision power. And you still have time to decide, over here, they still accept abortions upt to 5 months. In all those 5 months you make the decision to have a baby or not regardless of what the man wants... I don't get your point tbh!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:28 PM
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100%. Men should always pay for abortions imo and all the necessary medication if required. Even compensate for the days of work that were lost due to potential complications of the abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:09 PM
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You still decide whether the baby will be born or not. Ofc abortion should be legal where paper abortion exist and it should be made as convenient for the woman as possible. But ultimately, getting pregnant doesn't mean you will have a baby next week. Women already have a plethora of options and can still give the child to adoption if for some reason they decided to continue with the pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:02 PM
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Good, slowly people will realize that a tiny fraction of a group doesn't and shouldn't represent the whole group. People that fail to realize that do it intentionaly and only to get their way and push their agendas.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:47 PM
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Everyone polices men whether they believe in patriarchy or not. Both men and women are being told constantly how to behave, women are slowly able to exit their imposed traditional roles to be who they want to be and still hold value to both men and society. That hasn't happened to men though and make no mistake, women do police men into their traditional roles as much as society does since a man not filling his traditional role suddenly becomes less attractive to most women and society has not b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:43 PM
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Have you heard of Canada? Lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:29 AM
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Please, show me where and who thinks forcing children to birth is ok!!! I've never seen it accepted as much as vasectomies are easily reversible. The only people I've seen advocating for child birth are some religious pro life zealots as even most pro life think there should be exceptions for child pregnancy or rape... you shouldn't act like people in general think this is ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:27 AM
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Your work environment seem more relaxed than mine. I plan on leaving that school at the end of this year. It's gone to shit for the past 2y.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:22 AM
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Both our experience is true, but yeah it happens from time to time. Just as an example, in one year our administration has fired 8 people, hired 12, and the average time for a coordinator is less than 7 months. We have a higher director which is a man but almost all admin level are women. Lots of crying. I don't think it's a circus because of the women there, I think some of the people managing that school and at the education bureau are toxic and these people have protected positions. They bull…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:19 AM
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I'm an instructor, I also do lectures.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:37 AM
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Come work in higher education... you'll see a lot of people crying. Students, administration and teachers... it's a circus.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:14 PM
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I second this. I work in higher education and all teachers know that you can't talk to women the same way you talk to men, failing to understand this can get you in deep trouble and I've seen multiple firing in 10y.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:12 PM
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That wasn't my question but giving one some freedom while not giving it to the other isn't something I approve and hope will change. Here if you are a married man you can't get a vasectomy without your wife approval. Women can get their tubes tied at any age but apparently doctors can refuse for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:36 PM
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So two kids at 8 months are vastly different because one was birthed and one is in an incubator?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:34 PM
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Are 7-8months premature kids unborn if they aren't in their mother's womb? Is a kid in an incubator unborn? Even if they stay until 12 months? Why could we call a 8month premature kid a child but if it's insude a womb it's not? What's the actual difference here? Disclaimer, I'm pro choice and absolutely think abortion should always be available to women and we should continue research to make them less painful and problematic, same as contraception for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:09 PM
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Just a few questions, did you want children of your own or were they all accidents? If you wanted them, would you have married your husband if he told you he got a vasectomy in his younger years and now can't easily have kids? Is that the reality we want for our society?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:03 PM
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Imo as long as "you should always consider a vasectomy permanent past 5-10y" always comes with telling someone they should/could get one then I see no problem. But that's not what most people do. They always say "it's easily reversible" which is false past a certain amount of year. I don't understand why people need to tell men they should get one "it's easily reversible" instead of telling the truth about them? What's the end goal exactly? Especially men that already had kids tell that to young…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:55 PM
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The way you speak is like someone that actually knows vasectomies lead to sterilization, far from the usual, "it's easily reversible" bs parrotted here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:43 PM
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You have no proof the subject is always discussed in a joking manner. It was heavily discussed before the abortion thing in the US and many people today still act like it's easily reversible, so ofc some would come up with dumb ideas like forcing it on young male...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:32 PM
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So we should wait until things happen before thinking we shouldn't let things go there? Like when they talked about removing abortion rights we shouldn't have any concern about the idea because it didn't happen yet? Are you part of these people that think prevention isn't a thing? Just say it then!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:18 PM
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I think the idea of forcing vasectomies on young men is getting traction mostly because a lot of women and feminists keep parroting the idea that vasectomies are easily reversible, easy peasy with little consequences. I see it claimed and proposed constantly even here on reddit and on this very sub. You may be saying it the way you claim, but many are actually serious about it and care very little about the consequences this could have since they should be considered permanent after even 5y. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:08 PM
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Wasn't the like of Andrew Tate only one man yet we acted like he was every man...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:56 PM
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So you agree that feminists have a need to criticize an entire gender and are the ones with a problem... aside from the idea men and women should be equal, I rarely agree with feminists but here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:14 PM
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Or maybe you're a feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:57 AM
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This is the same as when women and feminists say "men" instead of adding "some, a few, too many" and then complain about the "not all men"... glad people are slowly realizing these generalizations are stupid. Sad that it took men to start using the same language against them...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:54 AM
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Most women don't even identify as feminists, most by choice. Women also don't operate on a single criteria to choose their partner, they aren't all the same. Singleparenthood is on the rise (at least here in Canada) lead by mothers. So I'd think if women were really dating men who are good parents this stat wouldn't rise year over year... https://www.statista.com/statistics/443342/single-parent-families-in-canada/?srsltid=AfmBOoouOJUseHbSNNfan0QzlFoN2kNoUkO2YxcyRwqWHUbtEk36Jn7l
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:00 PM
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Ok... should we lump feminists, choice feminists and terf together? Aren't they all feminists, and can we judge feminism based solely on the most unhinged takes from the worst of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:39 PM
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Are you saying multiple people talking about a common subject shouldn't be lumped together as the same kind of people? Shocker!... Seems like this is exactly what op is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:39 PM
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Aren't they all advocating for women's interest and wellbeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:13 PM
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Dang we are graced with a top 1% here on Reddit...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:56 PM
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And no woman has told me I had a small dick so surely no woman ever made fun of men's dicks, I've never been told I was short by women, maybe once though I'm not 6' so no woman ever called a man a manlet. The women I know would never call me an incel so surely they don't call random men incel or any other insults or slurs lmao...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:20 AM
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Treating these adults as toddlers... that fits perfectly imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:09 AM
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women's tests are always rigged, but not always intentional and often rigged against their own best interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:25 AM
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You think this sub is representing all humans behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:45 AM
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Ofc you haven't...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:25 AM
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Men are trying to do the same women do, constant shaming the men they don't want for all superficial reasons in the book. Tbh it'd be beneficial for our society if we stopped doing that and I mean both men and women, and women should stop acting like what men say to them is offensive but what they say to men isn't or men are just "insecure"... all that bs fuels hatred and it's working...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:11 AM
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I think people voicing their preferences out loud is the problem imo. It makes people uncomfortable and it's unnecessary. Men should keep their preferences to themselves... I think women should also stop trying to demonize men they don't find romantically appealing, they look childing everytime they say short men are subhuman. And tbh, you shouldn't take anything feminists say seriously, especially if they talk about men, they're hate filled anyways, stay away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:53 PM
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Just stop with this submission bullshit. Women don't have to submit to you to be a loving partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:13 PM
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That's hilarious. The most successful men put an act and win over, con artists put an act and win over, abusive men put an act and win over. It has nothing to do with being more relaxed. There are many variables you omit and you should drop that "women can tell..." this is BS, women get deceived all the time. Treating women like humans also means treating them like flawed humans that make mistakes and can't read minds like they pretend to, they can be moody, fall for the wrong things, can be sel…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:22 PM
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Everything looks easy when you're not the one living these situations... then when you do, you have countless excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:11 AM
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You are 100% right that a minority of men follow these guys, but outside social media people are still acting like that's what men are and believe. There are articles and tv shows created about what "men are", all ideas from social media discourse. Any male problems is treated like it comes from "the manosphere" and shows like the one from Netflix or the Adolescence show what "the manosphere is". Social media is real and people use it to demonize people. Also, most people don't study feminism to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:35 PM
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Isn't social media why the likes of Tate got their popularity? I'm pretty sure people don't talk about the manosphere and Tate like they don't matter because they're on social media... Edit to add... some countries, even Canada is thinking about it, are banning social media for kids under 16. Why would we do this if we shouldn't think social media does have an impact? Unless you think feminism is different?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:16 PM
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Just like in christianism the core messaging is "Love each others like I loved you!"... I grew up religious and left when I turned 15 because I then realized that people that practice religion, especially those in power, don't know shit about the core tenet and will use the religion to get their way especially if it's to do wrong. Feminism is no different, no amout of equality will be reached by shaming half of the population. This bs isn't reserved to feminism as men that do the same in the nam…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:12 PM
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A male feminist doesn't fight for equality, he fights to protect feminist talking points and will gladly go against anything that doesn't pander to women. They don't even want to address specific male issues in front of other feminists in fear of angering them and will often dismiss these issues as not that important or say they are self inflicted before saying women had it bad for thousands of millenias. They also have never seen nor heard any bad behavior from women, if they have then they say…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:06 PM
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I think feminists did create the monster that is the manosphere just like earthquakes create ripples in the ocean that become tsunamies. Yeah the earthquake didn't directly destroy the beaches, the flood did but there would be no giant waves without the earthquake. I think the biggest problem is their unwilligness to see their actions can have undesired effects. That's why they'll fight tooth and nail to never change their framing. The "not all men" debate is a great example of this. They'd rath…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:12 PM
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I think to help solve boys issues, there needs to be boys specific studies and services that are separate from those that benefit women. Failing to do that will only result in, we created more shelters for the abused but they mostly only help/accept women because they look at statistics and only take part of them and run with it. Ofc we need services for both equally, but we also need services that target specific genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:03 PM
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Bottom line, that “sCentEnCiNg diSpAriTY” is pure nonsense, and y’all know it. --" Across all analyses, females received sentences that were shorter, on average, than males. When examining all sentences imposed, females received sentences 29.2 percent shorter than males. Females of all races were 39.6 percent more likely to receive a probation sentence than males. When examining only sentences of incarceration, females received lengths of incarceration 11.3 percent shorter than males. "-- What i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:53 PM
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Then we shouldn't have women specific services nor laws and so on. If we put more money on general services then women's specific issues will sort themselves out. Is that what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:48 PM
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Yeah, that's the thing, feminists do something and we should go a fix the bs it creates because of the ripples they didn't care/see coming and enflating with time. Imo, feminists created the manosphere and all this toxicity. We have to fix it because they'll never recognize their actions and hatred do have an impact, sometimes for the better, often times for the worse. That's mostly why I don't care if a feminist hates men, but I care if feminism that holds power hates men, they are very differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:39 PM
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idgaf if feminism loves or hates men. I don't either, until you realize feminist do have power on a societal level and are able to make decisions that can affect men and young boys for a generation. A lot of people are just unaware of some situation because there's a lot of work being done to suppress what the landscape actually is. Boys falling behind in education is a good example. One of the thing I was able to help being done in the last secondary grade school I worked at before leaving unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:50 PM
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I think this issue is downplayed by women mainly because men aren't the ones carrying the pregnancy. "We both had fun, we both didn't use protection but ultimately I decide whether you are a parent with responsibility or not." "We both had fun, our contraception fails but I decide to still pursue with the pregnancy and make you a parent with responsibility, I don't care if your protection failed, it's my choice." "I rape a kid, I don't care if what I did was inhuman, I decide to pursue with preg…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:10 PM
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This is like saying people that got cheated on just had to not have a relationship with someone that'd cheat, easy peasy... would you say that women that have go to bags are looking for men that will make them use their go to bag? You act like people can't be deceived... lmao...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:25 PM
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If it was mandatory, no one would "expect it" since it would be mandatory. Would you tell your male relatives and friends to never question their paternity even if they are suspicious because "women can and should always be trusted?"... mandatory at birth would fix this problem and after some decade, we would wonder why we fought against the idea. Being worried the government can't be trusted with your DNA is a made up worry just to help you discredit the idea since you provide a slew of your ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:00 PM
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I wouldn't block a paternity test, I would calmly comply but it would mean sleeping separately until we had figured out what is going on together that he would ever question my loyalty. Exactly why it needs to be mandatory at birth. For paternity fraud to be successful women need complete trust of their partner and demand their partner don't entertain the possibility his child not be his... somehow that's exactly what women demand. Just make it mandatory at birth then no man will think a child i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:39 PM
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Though I agree everyone should look after themselves, there are numerous situations and services where even if you look after yourself you are disadvantaged. Education is a great example here and I still struggle to understand why people fight against helping boys in education. You can say whatever you want but asking a boy to make the system less harmful for him would be weird. One thing feminists keep repeating is when women do better everyone does better but that's not true most of the time. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:46 PM
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A woman would make him less depressed for sure. This is part of the problem imo. As much as I believe men aren't responsible to make a woman happy since being unhappy is a state only she can fix, I think a woman wouldn't and should be used to make you less depressed since only you can fix your problem. Women aren't anti depressant pills you just take.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:20 PM
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Without validating what op says, ignoring the influence Hollywood has on society over the last 100 years is foolish imo. A lot of what we do is shaped by what epopel see in movies, a lot of people's education is made through movies. It's better to separate movies with real life yeah, but you can't act like it didn't help shape a lot of how people live their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:01 PM
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By that logic, why are women enabling them by dating, marrying and birthing such men? Did you try to stop those women from doing it? So you are enabling these men that you hate... Can't believe people write things like this and think they have a point...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:26 AM
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I think policies, court system, duluth models and public opinion like "women are wonderful" are women's bodyguard, even if you chose to not recognize it that's what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 04:09 PM
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Mass shootings happens where there are no white supremacists and red pill happens where there are little to no mass shootings. Somehow you need to associate them all. Mass shooters have various reasons to do them, they can be white supremacists, red pilled, incels, or none of them at all. They can be white, black, brown, Asian, men, women, trans and so on. You just want to villify red pill, maybe because you're blue pill and you have no idea what you're supposed to do with your label and just sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:13 PM
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By telling you some crimes can be committed by different kind of people and for different reasons I'm saying there is a singular cause for crime?!?!?!?! You have a very skewed way of reading things... this is kinda hilarious!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:45 PM
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Lol what? It's more like mass shooting has nothing to do with white supremacy, since they also happen in countries where there's no such thing as white supremacy!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 08:49 PM
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Dang calm down... you are the one seeing self reflecting as punitive... and it's pretty telling you hate the idea specifically because that's how you see it. Imo it's not that complicated. I end up in a situation with people that made my life hell? Then yes I can get away from said situation and people but I'll mostly reflect on how I ended up with that person and how I can prevent that from happening again, not by blaming that person but by questioning my life choices and interests. Happens to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 08:46 PM
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In a sense yeah, if people that go to rehad keep relapsing then that rehab doesn't work... is that a surprise? Do people in rehad keep being told that their addiction isn't a problem and they just have to live with it and they did nothing wrong they just need to find themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 08:38 PM
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Pretty sure redpill exist in countries where mass shootings are very rare though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:56 PM
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Ofc if you see self reflecting as loathing oneself then no wonder you stay away from it lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:49 PM
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So therapy works, women use most of it yet still end up in the same situations and "men are trash" is more alive than it's ever been... seems like it doesn't work imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:48 PM
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Lmao, going to therapy doesn't mean you are self reflecting, especially if your therapist just agrees with you and/or is there to make you let go any guilt. Therapists don't go and tell you a lot of your problems actually come from your way of doing things... Women do keep repeating the same patterns. Just like how men are. The difference is men are being told constantly they are idiots and should work on themselves, mentally and physically by both men and women. Women are constantly told, you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:58 PM
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I think what most people blame is the reluctance women have to actually look inward when these things happen. What exactly led you to be played and what attracted you to those players. It's always easy to blame others but in the end, you are the one always in these situations... self reflecting isn't gonna peel your skin alive...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:20 PM
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That's a recipe to go down a dark spiral that'll lead you to get even less sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 11:12 PM
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Many redditors are unable to think people can talk about something that's not about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:18 PM
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Yeah quite confusing, but most lying people know they are lying and they always find new ways to get their ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:57 PM
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Do action speak louder than word work for someone that said they wanted sex then changed their mind? Should they still honor what they said prior to having it? Seems some of you forgot the "tea consent video"... you are hilarious...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:27 PM
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Do you think people shouldn't change their minds especially after learning or living new info about that person? Would you tell a woman that accepted to have sex with you that she couldn't change her mind after she realized it wasn't a great idea? Is that a hill you'd be ready to die on? Lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:18 PM
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Do women disclose that the only reason they sleep with said guy is because of his status and wealth or do they say things like you are handsome and interesting? Your scenario makes me feel like both deserve to be told lies and both participate in their woes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:15 PM
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They aren't complaining telling me about how their own actions are causing their struggles. Fixed that for ya! Y'alls struggles are not getting laid as frequently as you desire. This line tells me you struggle to view comments as what they are and need to associate someone's comment with something they are going through or are living... but at your defense, most redditors struggle with that. I'm in a relationship and can perfectly think men have dating struggles without having that struggle myse…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:45 PM
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How do you know whether something is self made or not? Pretty sure you decide based on your bias or your uneducated opinion of what these men's struggle can look like. In the end, in both cases you need to have some hate to just dismiss something that you don't go through. You just don't want to accept it. It's no different than the men that dismiss women's struggles, mostly because they don't go through these struggles and think they are trivial, especially the problems that require men to thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:38 PM
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Is it important? Reread your claim...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:11 PM
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Maybe you like men with the very strict condition --" You should not have problems or just don't tell me when you have them! "-- Would align with what many men and women struggle with. It's the idea that men don't share their struggles with women because it's used against them. You seem to abide by that... in the end, you may find those men fun to be with, but are they really having fun being with you? You don't need to answer me, you need to ask yourself that question. Pretty sure the men in yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:10 PM
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Do you ask yourself this question when you chose to dismiss men's struggles or do you just dismis out of your hatred of men but refuse to see it as hatred?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:05 PM
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So you don't help anyone unless you are in their exact same situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:04 PM
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Do you see it or do you hear more from it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:44 PM
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You can perfectly be single without being lonely or being in a relationship dynamic that makes you lonely. Some men talk as if a girlfriend is supposed to be their therapist, best friend, social outlet, emotional regulator, source of touch, source of esteem and reason to live all in one. Are you saying women don't demand this in their relationship? Because most of my past relationships it was moslty that but I had to do all the emotional and therapy labor. I also accepted the role because imo th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:21 PM
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Aren't they? I've seen feminists demanding men have a curfew. I've seen feminists demand all men starting at age 5 being vasectomized (which would men making all men sterile). I've seen feminists demand men population to be reduced to a few millions... Now I don't believe all this nonsense. But why should I make the distinction of those fringe idiots from actual feminists? They are all feminists to me. Just like how people will conflate all men related groups to the same manosphere umbrella as i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:15 PM
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See it like how feminists and terf are considered the same for most people because both use the term feminist. But they don't believe in the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:57 PM
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Did I ever say men shouldn't behave ethically or did I call out the idea only men should be called out for participating in all the online bs war?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 07:09 PM
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Though some men are against women's interest, a lot of men are favorable to help women where they trail behind... but for some reason, most women and too many men are against helping where men fall behind... why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:17 AM
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So you think men just went there for absolutely no reason, no provocation and just out of being evil... lmao you guys are funny. Women hate when men talk trash about them... I think men don't like it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:14 AM
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And I asked why should we have to specify if some policy is for men only or women only... don't you see the idiocy in this line of thinking or do you believe we should operate this way for every new laws/policies?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:12 AM
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Imo fgm is worse than mgm and it was important this was addressed. Should genital mutilation be banned from one gender but not the other just because one didn't think about it first? Also fgm was more practiced from deep religious cultures and mostly from some part of the world. Mgm have been accepted in multiple parts of the world and in many religions. Coming after mgm would be harder in the 90s. Doesn't mean banning genital mutilation alltogether wasn't a better idea. Care to tell me why you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:22 PM
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Men have their responsibility and part in all the bs and division that's happening right now. Do you think women aren't also part of all of that bs? Do you think if women and feminists played their part we shouldn't call it out and just expect men to do better but not the other side?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:17 PM
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Would you say feminism was able to get people's attention without diminizing men in any way shape or form? No insults, no generalizations, no hatred, just pure love and everyone just accepted it and those that aren't are just evil?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:01 PM
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Should every laws have a woman and a man side and if one side fails (for whatever reason) to advocate for the exact same thing at the exact same time then said law should only be available for the gender that asked for it? Do you think this way of doing would make our laws and policies better?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:57 PM
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Would you suggest shorter men to wear heightening shoes to appear 6'... would you tell women that want 6' men to just accept men that wear such shoes and not care about height when those men remove their shoes just like when women remove their padded bras? I hear you guys say this but do you think accepting men wearing heightening shoes would fix the "short" men problems? Because if it gives short men confidence, women also need to respond positively to those. It's an interesting subject I agree…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 11:32 PM
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I actually think exactly like you do. I just find it funny how some women equal shaving with filler artifices. To me shaving is part of the grooming process. Get a haircut, shave, cut your nails, trim your beard etc. Making your breast, hips or booty appear bigger is not grooming. It's similar to men wearing heightening shoes to appear taller which are totally different. I'm not agaisn't any of those tbh. But people shouldn't act like it isn't deceptive if they try to attract someone that has a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:57 PM
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All this time men complain that they are constrained to immutable standards like height, weener size, body shape and so on. All they had to do is use fillers and women would accept that as if it was the real deal! Ok interesting. I think you should go and advise shorter men to use fillers in their shoes to make them look taller than they actually are since a lot of women want taller men and act like 5'7 men are dwarves? Use muscle fillers inside their shirt to make them look more muscular than t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:02 PM
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Do you equal shaving with booty fillers? Would you accept a 5'9 man wearing compensations in his shoes to make him look 6'1 if you were looking for a 6' tall man? Lmao... you think it's the same as shaving? Can you put back the shaved hair the next morning or only when you go out?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:16 PM
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I think they mean things like pushup bras, hips and booty fillers, hair extensions, fake eyelashes, makeup and so on. When people see videos of women removing all that they realize it's a completely different person and without all these things that person wouldn't be as "pretty". It is deceptive. Just like how women in the 80s and 90s mocked men that wore a toupet to hide their hair loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:21 PM
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Then don't... but don't expect people to think the same you do. We live in a society where looks matter to both men and women. We made looks the one factor that gets you further in life but you expect people to have no opinion on looks? Lmao...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:22 PM
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They don't have to tell you. The result of your choices will tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:12 PM
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Then we should never hear women say "men impose strict beauty standards on women and we have to wear makeup or we are dismissed!" or use makeup as a weapon to tell men that women have to spend money for dates... you use it however you want but ultimately, you do it to get the results you want. If that result isn't what you like you just stop doing it. It's just another tool but a tool you use to either feel oppressed or empowered all depending on the results you want. And tbh, I really don't und…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:51 PM
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I think both men and women gravitate towards what gives them the results they want. Women like to say they wear makeup for themselves but this is cope. Women can absolutely not put on makeup but they won't get the same results as when they put it on. If they don't like the results they have then they'll keep putting it on. The exact same thing happens to waitresses. They want more money and realize showing more skin gives them more bigger tips. So they keep showing more skin. Try to tell them th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:33 PM
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Ehh... he's uneducated and brainwashed on a few things. This excess of fat puts a lot of stress on the body that skinnier people don't have. Yes it won't make you more sick than anyone else but omg, at some age your body tells you whether it's been stressed out and if it can sustain itself through their 40s or not. Anyway, I have a friend that was fat and didn't care. He had a child at 35 and still thought he shouldn't lose weight. But a 5yo kid needs energy, he was 40 when his kid turned 5 and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:58 PM
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You can't act like women don't compliment other women even when they don't mean them. I've seen many women tell their fat friend that they are beautiful and they deserve the world etc etc. Then look at their own asses in some dress and wonder if it makes them look fat...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:23 PM
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You act like unless a man is acting like a dick he won't be insulted for his height... but you don't have to directly insult one specific person to insult them by proxy. Like if someone that is fat does you wrong, then to get back at them you call them on their weight, all you do is signal other fat people that you view being fat as an insult. Like you don't have to talk down on your short friends to insult them if you use being short as a deregatory insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:09 PM
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Well... most 500lbs people don't make it that long... I don't know what their intention is tbh!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:49 PM
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It just means you associate being an asshole with being short or bald, immutable traits makes you an asshole... this is no different than saying blonde women are dumb... I fail to see how people think this is acceptable. At least, being fat is actually dangerous for oneself and an indication of someone's diet and exercize level, but being short isn't something you should use to insult people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:52 PM
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The same way we could say, yeah most violent crimes are perpetrated by men but there are literally millions of men who don't turn to committing crime. I love how there's always nuance when women are at fault but none when it's men. Generalize men when it's negative, indivisualize them when it's about anything positive. Generalize women when it's positive, individualize them when it's about anything negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 08:32 PM
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I'm pretty sure MRA's hate feminism, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:02 PM
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Ding, ding, ding... "just the right person" -> does most of the work in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:08 PM
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The same statistic that was debunked? Women will leave their husband if he loses his job... both will leave for various reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:11 PM
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People like that understand context only when they're the ones in a bad light. Like for example, single mothers produce most of the homeless population, the drop out of school kids, teenage pregnancy and incarcerated people. Then they'll suddenly remember that context and nuance exist and will give you hundreds of them. There's always context to statistics but somehow the ones where men are wrongly underrepresented as victims we should ignore context and nuances...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:56 PM
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And how do you expect people to learn anything if all we do is cuddle them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:32 AM
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So blaming women is punishing women or is it blaming anyonye, no matter the reason, means you're punishing them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:15 PM
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I don't think she deserves punishment. But it seems to me too many women cannot learn from their and other women's mistake. Acting like you can flair someone's toxicity then jump right in the arm of it is weird imo. How about some self reflection about your vetting process? Seems your vetting stops at the picture from a dating app... yeah, you get the results you looked for but you don't want to accept this is your own doing. Then go online to say women can flair toxicity then jumps right back i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 09:42 PM
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Someone's character should always matter. Dating apps, be it Tinder or any other does jack to show someone's character. People go by the picture to judge if someone is "the right person" or not... then later complain...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 09:37 PM
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Men never said they did, women keep saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:46 PM
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Yeah because a nice picture gives you all you need to know whether a man is a good man for you or not. No wonder you get played constantly lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:44 PM
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It's easier to entertain multiple dates when you're not the one paying or face rejection for not paying for all those dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:36 PM
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Yep but how many was specifically because their women didn't want to birth children?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:53 AM
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Most countries didn't have a birthing problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 11:34 AM
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I'm pretty sure there would be a way to pay parents for a certain time to raise their children, be it one parent or both, 5y? Maybe the first 10y per child? Here in Canada, Quebec there's a lot of people on welfare and these people have children, I know a guy, been on welfare since his 18th birthday, his father and mother were both on welfare. He had 5 children. They received more money for every children they had. In the end, yes they didn't live in palaces, but they had everything. I think our…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:55 PM
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Pay people to have babies and maintain their families and watch the birth rate go up without falling into authoritatianism. It will cost a lot yeah, but how much do we lose by not doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:59 PM
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Like I said, there are a ton of hurdles in front of men and women to start and maintain families. When a lot is stacked against it how are you surprized people want nothing to do with having children?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:55 PM
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What I meant was not to give social security to people but to give more incentives for people to create families. Right now you have on one hand feminists promoting being single and childless as the next coming and on the other hand government taxes, policies, expensive housing and low wage all around. All that is making people question whether they want children or not. Also fix the division between men and women. This division is stupid but we can't expect individuals to try to stop it, at lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:52 PM
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The solution would be to invest in all things that facilitate families and child bearing, not reduce women's access to things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:27 PM
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Nobody thinks it's a reason to justify revoking women's rights. At the same time, I agree that in our current society climate, having only women carry our reproduction as a species is not looking good for our future.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:14 PM
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Who says this? But if women don't want to birth anymore it will destroy a society, we can already see it happening in countries like Japan, South Korea and soon many Western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:48 PM
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I think they do, people look at what the loudest say and assume that's what the whole group thinks. It's always like that for every very vocal groups though. BLM, Feminism, Redpill, LGBTQ... their inaction to call out their most hateful members often result in the hatred of the movement/group.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:55 PM
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I totally believe that. I'm not red pill either but I don't disagree with everything Redpill nor everything Bluepill hence why I'm Purple. But I don't side with the general "women can do no wrong, men are and should always be considered the problem" kind view Bluepillers hold. I've dated multiple feminists in the past and most of my views on feminism is based on a very long experience and thinking about how the movement shapes our society. I used to teach to underage students, secondary grade mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 09:32 PM
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I don't like that but I've been proven time and time again that what you say sadly is true. They rather look at their own son struggling than admit they're in the wrong. The only feminists I've seen change their views just stopped being feminists of didn't want to associate themselves with the label. I swear, it's like a religion with strict rules where if you don't participate in everything, including the bullshit, then they just call you not a true feminist. No different than Christians that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 08:29 PM
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You thinking they're not means you don't look at stats and results and are completely clueless about the reality and aligns with what I said about feminists not really wanting a better future for their sons because it would mean looking at how they are disadvantaged and yeah, to most feminists, men and boys can never not have all the priviledge. But your reaction isn't a surprise, it's the expected one. Clueless about anything not directly affecting women...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:20 PM
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In order for them to have a future like their daughter they'd have to not be at a disadvantage in education and other sphere in life. Right now, boys are at a disadvantage in education yet feminist think we should double down on making education better for girls and the reason boys struggle is because they're lazy or dumb. I'm in the education system myslef, and unless it's heavily fought and proven for years they don't want to see how some of the policies that are adopted actually harm boys. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 05:57 PM
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Just give him examples... our society gives way more power to women in multiple spheres, like duluth model, family court, education, shelters, less harsh sentences for the exact same crimes, society gives more excuses for women's bad behavior in abuse of all forms, women rarely if ever face criticism for their frauds or lies even when it destroys lives like paternity fraud and false accusations... I could go on. You can't say men hold all powers when men are absolutely at a disadvantage in multi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 05:48 PM
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I think this is very important for people to understand. Feminism is first and foremost about power, it has nothing to do with justice or equality. Any injustice they receive from men is an injustice that needs to be addressed. Any injustice men receive from women or from the result of some of their policy should be dismissed or fought against by saying women had it worse 100y ago. I fail to see how feminists can look at their sons and say they love them while advocating for a future where they …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 05:38 PM
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I fully agree with what you said. RP comes in, at this point, as sort of a strange amalgamation of the attitudes of the men who were right there alongside said women treating the opposite sex as objects, and the minds of socially awkward nerds who will pass up no opportunity to analyze the data. And this part summarize RP imo. English isn't my primary language and it's the first time I've ever seen that word - "propinquity" - which I find quite interesting. Proximity but with a more familiar, pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:45 PM
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Okay and? That’s life. Yes love is a risk and to love is to be vulnerable. Can you guarantee with absolutely certainty that a friend will never betray you? Nope. Doesn’t mean you don’t have friends or that you treat your friends as if they will inevitably betray you. I don't understand what this comment is supposed to say. Where did I imply being betrayed by friends or loved ones or your partner... I really don't get this comment! Which women? Why make such a blanket statement? Many women really…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:05 PM
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Love can happen differently and at different time depending on each individuals. For example, you can be close to someone for years and only one specific even makes you see them in a different light. I've seen it happen from both men and women so it's not a gender specific thing. What men get told is what's necessary to hold a relationship, not to get into one. You have to differentiate them. I may not agree with everything TRP says but there are absolute truth to some of the things they put lig…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:15 PM
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Isn't the high vs low bodycount debate specifically because of bounding? I think it's a flawed argument but that's a tenet of TRP. Also most of RP theory is about getting a foot in the house so bounding can happen. You can't start a relationship if you aren't considered at all and imo, TRP focuses on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:23 PM
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You mean the actions of a few shouldn't be used to generalize how a whole group? Who would've known...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:54 PM
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"Coddle"... yeah...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:04 PM
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I and teachers who have been teaching longer than me do usually just ignore it for a long period. I guess you didn't reach that point but you learn what's meaningful and what's bullshit to filter out and to not take everything personally. I've been called worse than what you have from the sounds of it, someone's just having a bad day. It's not about being insulted. It's about admins, parents and other teachers (mostly women) questionning your place as a teacher. That you choosing this profession…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:46 PM
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I live in Canada, in Quebec. Teachers had a huge strike a few years ago specifically because of the conditions and the salary. The salary got better but not the conditions. Also, ignoring other teachers, administration and parents constant scrutiny isn't something that can be done easily for a prolonged period. You can't act like women teachers face the same scrutiny and are always reminded by parents that they must be gay or a pedo for teaching to underage people. And I don't think we should do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:10 PM
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People absolutely do. Source: I'm a teacher and I, like many other men, quit underage teaching for multiple reasons and one of them is the constant scrutiny and accusations of things that "may" happen and people rather act like it will eventually happen than what's happening. Another reason is how one sided teaching is. Women at every levels, even in how you approach teaching, it has to be female coded and approved and boys should adapt to a system that's tailored for women specifically. The las…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 02:33 PM
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The one where they say "I've never witnessed it because I don't hang out with such people!" in order to not only dismiss your argument but to also put blame on you for "hangning out with bad people". Like if you know some girl that cheated on her bf "My friends circle doesn't include cheaters so I've never known a woman that cheats!"... lmao like your friends are telling you everything about their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:24 AM
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Are they all the same person?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:36 PM
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At the same time teachers are doing one hell of a job to help raise and educate members of our society. A lot of things wouldn't go the way it does with the amount of people we have in cities if it weren't for people's education. So saying they are "over paid" for their job is a stretch imo. I know truckers that work maybe 3 weeks a month yet make double my salary. Should we downplay their contribution because they don't work a full 40h/5d a week? Absolutely not, since their contribution is para…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:55 PM
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There are way more men in all education levels and cozy corporate jobs than there are women in all dangerous jobs though. People don't want men to use these kind of positive generalization for men but they accept negative generalization towards men... you kinda reap what you sow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:43 PM
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I don't think these men would generalize the good men as a whole do if women didn't went on s bad generalization of men as a whole. It's like you want to swing your pendulum one way and are surprised it's coming back with same force.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:37 PM
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If you try with an older woman and it didn't work then it doesn't mean all older women will share the same sentiment. No different than trying with any woman and it didn't work. Also, older women do like flings with younger men...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:36 PM
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Older women are like any other women and men, some are good some are bad. Sometimes I listen to how women should be villified for having weird ass standards but my god some of you are no better. Get with what you like. I hate this "height requirement" some women have... but I also hate this "don't date women above a certain age" bs requirement too. At the end of the day, date who makes you feel good about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:33 PM
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Your comment doesn't make sense I'm sorry. If all of them thought they weren't committing rape then all of them were clueless and were mostly bad people, the Africans, the Arabs and yes, the French too but most importantly, the husband which is French. You assume Africans and Arabs represent all of their culture but you don't assume the French represent all their culture? So you can exclude one but not the others? Did you know the Arab world and Africa are composed of multiple countries and cult…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 07:05 PM
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Did the non Arab and African people knew they were committing rape then? Because all of the people committing rape weren't Africans or Arabs... in that case, if they knew it means they still did it and if they didn't then in both case, based on your logic, France's culture is treating women poorly, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:49 PM
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some culture are treating women like second class citizen How can you point to African and Arabs while it was the husband that organized all that bs... wouldn't you also say France's culture treats their women like second class citizens in that case?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:28 PM
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In some countries these men would be elected president... just sayin....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:52 AM
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Every generation thinks that though. But in the 90s we didn't have social media constantly reminding us of our failure and how trash we are. On the contrary, most movies depicted all sorts of people being able to achieve success with effort and work. No one was there telling us immutable characteristics would prevent us from achieveing any kind of success. How can you believe you'll ever find a gf if most of the time you see online how men under 5'9 are subhuman midgets that deserve no love... l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:50 PM
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People over 40 grew up in a different dating landscape. Ofc their anecdotal observations will be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:46 PM
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Lol... don't forget most white women in the US voted for Trump. Imo those are no better that liberals. I'm glad I don't date women based on a binary political affiliation. This is dumb!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:31 PM
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How you express and describe the problem also matters. If you go ranting/raging and blaming the other and demanding things from the other - no wonder people won't have empathy. Seems like the way it's done by either gender but if men do it it's not the right way... though I agree men shouldn't try to act like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:59 PM
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Ime, asking anything to women online will get different responses than asking them in person. I think people online are used to be hostile and face little to no repercussions and since they are anonymous they can be as shitty as they want. In person they don't want to appear shitty and they understand that just insulting someone won't lead to nice interactions. Very few people are discussing in good faith online and it's a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:56 PM
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So...feminists are wrong that sexual predators rarely face consequences? They are right, they are especially right when those predators are women. Too many predators get away with their actions. The fact the US elected one as their President is a good example. Most women predators rarely if ever face any consequences, if that's what they mean then yes. But I'm pretty sure, for the last two decade they conflated predator with men. So ultimately, they're ok with predators facing no consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:05 PM
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I think it achieved it's goal in creating a show that generates views on Netflix. But that's the only thing it achieved. Did it really show what the manosphere is about? No! Did it talked about why these guys are successfuly influencing youg men? No! Did it offer any solutions? No! Did it convince young men and other people to leave the manosphere altogether? No! I think people behind televized content about the manosphere have no clue what they're talking about and are mostly too out of the loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:25 AM
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And yes, men do get raped too, but it’s not by women So you're saying it never happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:22 PM
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There has been a few experiements where a man berates his gf in public to see how people react vs when the roles are reversed. The results show how people are "used" or just assume a woman doing this is ok or just funny, imo that's why more women do it in public. I've seen this happen maybe 3 times in my life. I don't think it happens that much tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:50 PM
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He mimmicks the "all men" rhetoric which is heavily defended when someone tries to say it's not all men...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:45 PM
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A kid is not like an illness though. A person can recover from an illness. I wouldn't have to take care, educate or pay anythings to that illness. I wouldn't be attached nor would that illness become attached to me. An illness doesn't come with the ex, the father of that illness that'll always come by and can complicate things because of jealousy. I wouldn't compare the two tbh. I like kids but it doesn't mean I shouldn't be aware of the reality that comes with it/them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:51 PM
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I'm not being called an incel nor I identify as one, would be pretty weird considering I have a gf lmao. Now if people call themselves incels then that's on them. Using it as an insult towards anyone you disagree with is a choice you make, no brighter than the people you complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:54 AM
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if you don't understand how a human being can be a man and not be a misogynistic incel, you should probably start looking for a therapist. Perfectly worded and should be told to most people using "incel" to insult anyone they disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:59 PM
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Who are we talking about here? Men or women? Both?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:26 PM
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Doesn't even have to be negative nor toxic, just disagreeing with someone is enough or pointing places where men are disadvantaged or anything negative about women is enough, unless you think these two should never be talked about...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:01 PM
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You can't ignore the kid though, ofc. I've been with two different single moms in the past and though I have nothing against single moms, there are things that you'll have to accept that you wouldn't with someone that doesn't have kids. Like an ex that will always be there, that often the mom wants you to have responsibilities towards the kid, that you have to plan everything with a kid in mind, it costs more and needs more planning. No matter how much you end up loving the kid, it's not yours a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:50 PM
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Men over 40 also go with their options, especially if they want to date around their age. There are a lot more women with kids past 30 than at 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:16 PM
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Would you say that every time someone, mostly women, use the word incel, they use it like it was meant to be originaly used or as a reductive insult at almost anyone regardless if they're incels or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:29 PM
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When you're always on the receiving hand you assume everyone is on the receiving hand and have absolutely no clue what's like to be on the giving hand... most of them despise the idea they should be on the giving hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:06 PM
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Very true, and men can also traffic them or use expired condoms. I think the fear goes both ways and we should always consider sexual acts and results to be a two people responsibility and all decisions should be talked between responsible partners. Women should never dismiss a man's opinion about pregnancy, doesn't mean they should necessarily do whatever men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:08 PM
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Healthy food looks good to those that were raised into seeing how good they are and if their mentality/way of thinking allows them to see how good they are. Then they're not the ones constantly complaining about how food isn't healthy, how foos is misleading and that there's only badd food outhere...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:45 PM
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I hope you understand it's an analogy right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:35 PM
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Seems similar to "You don't want to get pregnant? Take the pill! Close your legs! Hur dur!!!"... in the end, you guys use the exact same arguments conservatives use on yourselves... you may have a different skin, you are all the same. All over again! I think you're getting better at it the more you speak... keep going! "Teach women not to use condom's content?"... lmao... sounds familiar?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:23 PM
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Condoms, can fail, can be trafficked and yes some women do use them after the deed. Why do you think a lot of men throw them in the toilet? Because it can't be used after! But hey... keep talking... I’m sorry, I don’t speak moron. I think you're pretty good at it ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:01 PM
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You're getting there... for some healthy food to look interesting you'd actually have to learn how to cook and do the cooking, then the dishes. Things people that complain constantly about food don't want nor have the knowledge to do. There isn't a lack of good food, there's only a lack of willingness to learn how to cook and recognize bad food... drop the hotdogs!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:58 PM
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You mean these things that women take and impregnate themselves with and men are still owed child support as a result or are sued if they put spicy stuff in them so women don't use it? Seems similar to "You don't want to get pregnant? Take the pill! Close your legs! Hur dur!!!"... in the end, you guys use the exact same arguments conservatives use on yourselves... you may have a different skin, you are all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:45 PM
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It's not dishonest. Healthy food looks boring. Junk food has all the publicity, all the flashy designs and if you're trained to appreciate flashy things then you ignore anything that isn't flashy. People will tell you about how to recognize healthy food but you don't listen because brocoli looks boring compared to a hotdog. It takes deconstruct to understand that frozen vegetables aren't the same as fresh vegetables... You also realize you'd have to actually cook and do the dishes which you cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:37 PM
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This is like when you're younger, you have your first appartment, and you do your own first grocery. You think whatever "bullshit" your parents told you to eat and not eat you decided to ignore and buy whatever you want. You don't want to cook, you don't want to do dishes and you crave sugar and salt... after a while you realize this food isn't fullfilling and it costs a lot. Some people will forever stay in the frozen dish alleys and complain food is making them sick and is unhealthy, ignoring …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:58 PM
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These men put on their makeup and artifices through their words.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:33 PM
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Lots of activities do physically and psychologically change people. Work for instance, some sports, even relationships. But to give you credits, I learned about how some women do lose teeth while pregnant when I was in my early 20s and it scared me so much I didn't want my sister to get pregnant... lol. In the end she didn't lose anything but one of my ex did. I think women are amazing to be able to create new humans and it does take a toll. I'll always champion women for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 05:12 PM
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That's a weird framing. There are something like less than 100/100 000 death by birthing in America. Saying it's life threatning is unjustly fear mongering. There are thousands more women that die while driving yet we don't talk like driving is life threatning for women. Also, a lot of men in jail for failing to pay child support would have like to easily walked away from it. Maybe you can give them tips how to. Something tells me you'd give them the same tip pro life people tell women to avoid …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:50 PM
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But when I’ve actually talked to women about it in real life, the responses seem pretty different. A lot of them say they don’t mind being approached at all as long as the guy is respectful and socially aware. This is bait! But realistically I wouldn't approach romantically a random woman in the streets or even in most public places. I think there are ways to make yourself approacheable but imo, when women say that, they say it to not look like they're bad people and when they say they're ok to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:36 AM
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"it should go both ways" as the girls are taught to cook, clean This a thousand times. People saying women should stay home, cook and clean while men should go to work is dumb as hell imo. We aren't in the 1800 where work necessarily equals heavy lifting and hard physical labor. Women can work, men can cook and clean. I think we should always let people in relationship take the roles that suit their relationship and themselves best, no need to impose clear gender roles anymore imo. Treating peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:05 AM
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"Most men don't look for submissiveness, they look for companionship, good moments, peace. Not to fight over everything..." Why can’t you submit? Why does it always have to be us, hm? "Most men don't look for submissiveness..." Why can't you read? Submissiveness isn't that attractive. Partnership is, but a lot of people, and especially in how women frame/see it is "he/she does what I say, when I say it and however I want it!" Not fighting over the minute thing isn't submissiveness, or maybe you …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:34 PM
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Giving this right back at ya "I mean if that's your personal experience that's your personal experience." Doesn't negate what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:29 PM
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Lol! Very true. But this is a recipe to fail in the long run...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:20 AM
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but the ones that get mad like you're doing make it pretty clear why they struggle with dating or whatever else in life Isn't that enabling the behavior he's talking about? Like, so what, do as you're told or you don't deserve love? Would you say the same thing to women about things like they should put on makeup for men and if they don't and complain about it then they'd face replies like the one you posted? This is comedy at it's best.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:11 AM
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I never understood from where blue pill men have this unwavering belief that women can do nothing wrong and men can do nothing right !! It's so creepy 100%... these guys have no personality, they react like stumulus, not because they actually think.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:05 AM
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You think some of these men's lives are fiction because you don't believe women are like that but I've known way more men being stressed to perform during Valentine's day than any women I've known. I actually never heard a woman being stressed because she's affraid she can't give the "right" thing to her man on Valentine's day, never heard a woman say she had to sleep on the couch or her bf/husband gives them the silence treatment because of missed these special days. But the reverse is common.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 04:55 AM
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God damn right, not being combative is almost impossible these days. Everything has to be a fight or something, even simple things like choosing a place to eat. Most men don't look for submissiveness, they look for companionship, good moments, peace. Not to fight over everything...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 04:44 AM
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I think it does yes. They almost are all part of fantasies which doesn't mean we want that in real life. Like men like action movies about beating multiple people and the struggle of getting up from a beating then go back and kill that buffed alien... but in real life most wouldn't want to get beaten and wouldn't try to get revenge for fear of being beatne again. I think women erotica is exactly like that, just because a minotaur is dominating a woman doesn't mean women want to be dominated by m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:44 PM
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One of the top porn subject is also siblings and/or parents... you can't based people's attraction only on porn. Also people who say men are only attracted to younger women in their 20s are full of bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:16 PM
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I think this is misleading because it doesn't tell which kind of homophobia is accepted and which isn't. For example, in today's society homophobia is frowned uppon. But at the time the study was made it wasn't. We could even see in multiple movies the depiction of homosexuality between two men to be highly repulsive while between two women it was already kinda accepted, as long as the two women were very beautiful and their relationship was geared towards male gaze. Most men wouldn't refuse a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:55 PM
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You assume arousal is necessary to create offspring but it's not and a lot of people were born out of rape. And I fully understand how women will look for safety first. We can't overlook this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:22 PM
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You can't make a point using a specific word then to support your point you change to another word which happens way more often but is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:14 PM
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I know perfectly what I'm saying. Seems you don't. She said men gain by assaulting women to keep power over women whcich I asked how are men doing so. To support her claim she, instead of continue using the term assault, she use harrassment. But I didn't changed the subject, assault and harrassment aren't the same you can use interchangeably. Then you came and asked why I lied which I didn't. Get off your high horse and go assault some woman to keep them in servitude like she implies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:10 PM
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I kinda agree with you, but women often police other women's choice when they think the guy their friend is dating is subpar. Mostly when they're single themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:43 AM
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You're bluepill, ofc you've never seen women do anything questionable. Meanwhile people have different experiences with both genders participating in policing each other. We're all humans, no need to act like one is divine and can do no wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:19 AM
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People police men at every corner, no need to single out men, most men will change and model their behavior based on what women responds to. Women are also policed for their behavior, that's what we do as social creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:45 AM
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Hmm... can't I use assault and sexual harrassment interchangbly like she did? Or maybe do you think "men gain from assault women" is actually true? Are you also part of those men that do harrass women, or do you consider yourself part of the holy deities that are feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 12:20 AM
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Men do have something to gain from assaulting women. It keeps the societal power imbalance in favour of men, because it keeps women scared. Even the men do not assault women benefit from the fact that some men do. That's her own words I'm replying to. Go cherry pick elsewhere!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 12:08 AM
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Lmao, before he's a feminist he's a man. How do you think you two got together? You think he didn't assau... ahem... didn't looked at you first? Also, I know a lot of terrible people that call themselves feminists and to most people, that includes most women, feminists aren't really good people. Sure most people work towards the core idea led by feminists but the vast majority don't think they are sane people, even feminists themselves more than often fight over dumb shit, or will revoke someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:55 PM
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If people looking at you is assault then no wonder you think all men assault you. Also, do you think your boyfriend assaults other women because he gains something out of it? Is he everyday assaulting your friends? Ohh you can't say he isn't like that, he's a man and he must gain something. Have you asked him how he assaults his coworkers and other women when he's not with you? I think you should, maybe you date a serial assaulter lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:42 PM
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If that were true, with the quantity of men you see everyday there's not a day/hour you'd go without being beaten up, sexually assaulted, robbed etc. You tell me you go through this everyday from your coworkers, bystanders etc? In what city are you living? This is some chronically online dementia imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:26 PM
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No one thinks eating fast food is a sound long term strategy health wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:40 PM
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Mehh, no different than what women say they want but will run after the opposite. People can't seem to think this through. Please open up but you opening up gives me the ick. Please be virgins but you shouldn't be too hard to get... both genders are incoherent and both pay in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:35 PM
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Dear lord... so you actually did create the thread lmao. Well at least you do believe in your bs..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:01 PM
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I know perfectly what I'm talking about. I'm sorry but maybe you need someone to have a lot of sex in order to believe them, but I rather talk to someone that has fewer sexual prowess than to someone that actually believes bending over and taking raw cheating and then try to justify raising someone else's kid because humans share 99% dna... do you have other similar takes? That was kinda comedy gold!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 09:03 PM
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Actually, what a man should really do is understand enough about genetics to know that all humans are 99.9% genetically identical to each other. Unless we're talking about some weird genetic disease, it doesn't matter all that much who supplies sperm. I'd like you to create a thread in raskmen or any other subreddit and try to convince fathers that them being the actual fathers of their kids doesn't matter and they just just go with whatever happens... this is next level beta cuckery. Anyway I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:55 PM
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How do you know it's incridibly rare? Is there data on all birth that says all childs are the child of the supposed father? Imo it's like false allegations, we don't really know the extend of it since there are too many variables we don't know about at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:19 PM
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Side note, why is it always the guys who are clearly not getting laid who yell the most loudly about paternity fraud? What a weird asinine comment... you think men that get laid would never talk about paternity fraud? Lmao... and those that suffered from paternity fraud what should they do in your opinion? Just endure "like a man"?. Geez it's so weird to always frame everything as people that get laid = virtuous flawless people, people "I think don't get laid to win arguments" = bottom feeder of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:05 PM
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This is nonsense. You can have a successful sexual life with the other gender and still realize some talking points are real and some aren't. Just because something doesn't happen to you doesn't mean that thing isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:10 PM
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Just like in anything, it doesn't apply to every member of a group, news at 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 08:11 PM
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Imo it's similar to women going on a "journey" to find themselves by riding as many dicks as possible to feel validated. Both gender use sex as a form of "validation" and both wants the attention of others. Women put way more effort in being seen than men do hence why the clothing, makeup Instagram and other social media thirst traps and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:26 PM
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Just as an example, I have three sisters, all three are younger than me, I also have brothers. We all grew up with both parents. My father was kinda strict but my mother wasn't. Most of the time we asked her for things and if she told us to ask our father instead quite often we decided to abandon the request as we knew it was something he wouldn't agree with. One of my sister, at 14 wanted to spend the night at her friends, some kind of pyjama party. My father said, ok but I'll take you there, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 11:43 PM
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Ofc you don't, your only goal is to point finger without context and call it a day. But it's shortsighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:14 PM
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In terms of violent crime we agree yes. But I don't see things in black and white like you seem to do. For example, even though cutting off my arm can result in my death, there are a lot of other softer ways to end someone's life and only adressing the most extremes ones wouldn't be effective. There are diseases, there are lack of specific proteins, vitamins, minerals, there is psychological problems, there is over eating bad food that can result in multiple problems etc. Ofc you want to prevent…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:01 PM
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Men are more prone to take risks, do things that are dangerous and more agressive in what they do. That is true accross almost everything, ofc it'll also be true for things that are bad. Men will take more drastic measures to make things happen. That includes in the crimes they perpetrate. Edit: I forgot to add the bell curve's distribution where men are more represented in extremes in almost everything. That includes violent crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:15 PM
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For the exact same reason law enforcement, firefighters, military, construction builders, oil rig workers etc are mostly men. The exact same thing that pushes men to do these is also true on the reverse. Just like people that are extreme in their loving are also extreme in their revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:44 PM
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You have to add portrayal of prevalence of danger pushed by social media, tv, movies, novels and what not though. Statistically men disproportionaly commit more violence but this is based on the violence comitted. The percentage per capita is not that high. It also depends on the region/city you live in. Some stats like paternity fraud are way higher than violent crime per capita yet women tell us we shouldn't care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:36 PM
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So what, these same women insult most men days in days out and even create articles about how men are not worth their time, men are falling behind, men aren't as rich and educated as they want to so they don't have good dating options anymore and men need to fix themselves. Western women do have a lot to fix about themselves too. We all have. Passport bros just don't fin western women desirable just like western women don't find most men desirable... I see no issue there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:11 PM
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These people are stuck with the old colonial image that countries outside the West are dirt poor and live in huts waiting to be saved by the white man. They were outraged when Trump said things like they eat the dogs, they eat the cats but they can't see in the mirror they hold similar thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:58 PM
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Then there's nothing to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:45 AM
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Men also work more in their family, is that a sacrifice? Go out do strenous jobs, endure bosses, over time, being over worked and travel farther distances to ensure their family has everything on the table and a decent life... is that sacrifice? I'm pretty sure those fathers would rather work less and enjoy their life with their children. Some of you just think men are priviledge robots that only want to get above women for some reason... Both men and women need to work to sustain themselves. On…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:21 AM
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Makes me think of when 10 people die, 7 men and 3 women it will be framed as "3 women died in horrible tragic accident! We should protect women more!"... just to realize there were also 7 men that died in the same accident but they weren't mentionned... U.N. does this all the time!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:25 PM
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Society is maintained by both gender and both do different jobs. Unless you think all the infrastructure, sewage, electricity, transport and so on don't help maintaining a society?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:08 PM
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They don't pay these wages because they hire only immigrants. It's more like they pay a miserable wage and only immigrants will do them. There's a difference. Like I know a few immigrants here in Canada their diplomas and qualifications aren't recognized here, they are sked to do more studies to practice their skills so either they go back to university to learn what they were already doing or they find quick jobs and Uber , Amazon etc are these jobs because they don't require qualifications. Of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:03 PM
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First of all yes it was exactly framed like that. Most people were surprised and shocked of this "finding". Some articles even backtracked by including some third world countries. The framing was women in the West but some data came from third world countries... that was kinda hilarious. Women do have access to higher positions. But a lot of women just don't understand what it means to hold these positions. Feminists talk about CEO positions like they do nothing all day and are just paid 7 figur…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:55 PM
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The reason people cared about these variables is because for a long time it was framed that women for the exact same job same qualifications were paid 70 cents for each dollars mend made. Framing it like companies were getting away with paying women lower wages for the exact same job. Surely you've heard people say "If companies can pay women less then why don't they only hire women?. Then suddenly an explication of the actual methodology started to surface.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:08 PM
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It depends on their tactics and who they try to have a date with. Ofc manipulators will almost always have their way easier than those that don't rely on deceiving others, primarily because they'll take time to study their victims and act based on what they respond to, not necessarily on who they are as a person. A bad person will also not take no for an answer and will push more, sometimes it will work, sometimes they'll just immediately go for the next person. Maybe a bad person will land more…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:10 PM
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I also think a lot of ideas that come from the red pill can be harmful. I would also agree that people go out their way to censor some truth, namely any that portraits women in a bad light. For example, our media, at least here in Canada, really struggle to associate women and rape. They always find a way to not say it like it is. Our culture also has a hard time holding women accountable for their mistakes or their bad judgement. We can never assume women can be the architect of their own woes.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:43 AM
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You'll be banned on askwomen before you can even formulate a proper question lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:33 AM
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I value friendship, staying true and down to earth, not letting yourself go down the spiral internet memes, clear communication, politeness, being gentle towards others especially to those that work in service industries and most of all, respect of your body and mind. This last one is very important, don't treat yourself like it's a piece of garbage or something to not care about, mentally and physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:03 PM
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I think the sentiment of not representing all women because you want something is also what most men mean when they say just because one man does something doesn't mean men at large does the same thing or share the same idea. Just say not all women! This sentiment is valid and we shouldn't shame people that don't want to "represent" a whole group everytime they do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:54 PM
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We aren't the same I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 12:55 AM
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Hope you do the same when it's feminists or women that create asinine posts... most people form their opinion of feminism by visiting actual feminist pages / subs... and less and less people, even women don't want to associate with the label. I agree posting bs doesn't help, but acting like feminism will gain traction for OPs post is kinda hilarious when most of their subs are filled with man hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:07 PM
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Most women rapist don't end up in prison just like a lot of men rapist don't go to prison... our system isn't the best at prosecuting rapists. There needs to be a shift in our perception of how to handle rape imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:51 PM
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You know... when my message is not properly received I reformulate to be better understood, I don't go on a tirade about how the recipient is failing to understand what I didn't took time to voice properly. Women and especially feminists need to work on their messaging. I really don't understand why fight against clear communication and instead fight over the moral standing of people that didn't get their messaging... please, read our mind or you are misogynists!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:10 PM
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Imo, it always depends on people's dynamics. This whole thing is one sided because one side complains more than the other wants to even cares about complaining but it's changing. All that emotional labor only takes into account what women do and ignores and/or dismisses whatever men do. Like women endure men's emotional woes... but men don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:17 AM
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Even family traditions. We were 5 children, my mother always wanted to celebrate our birthdays but both my brother and I didn't care about our birthday celebration, we wanted more to go out a do things outside. Now, my father accepted and really liked that, he always bought us things to have fun outside, like sports and/or fishing equipment. My mother always put time and effort doing things to celebrate our birthday and was often pissed my father didn't help her that much. In the end, she was th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 02:40 AM
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Interesting, do men go out their way to do things for women? Thinking about dating, does it mean everything men do for women is emotional labor? Should it be considered as such and voiced as much as women complain about having to do anything for their own children?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 02:20 AM
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This reads like a list of things you want to do and expect your partner to be as enthusiastic about doing it and you are frustrated because they're not as invested as you are. Like if I want to build something outside the house and I do most of the work and get pissed because my partner didn't rush or think about all the different ways she can help me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 01:58 AM
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They already think most men are losers, so putting themselves in these men's shoes would mean being in the shoes of losers and they don't want that. They'd first need to start seeing men as humans too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:15 PM
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You both can't make claim in this case, your point isn't any more valid than his.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:32 AM
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That's true, at the same time you can't say something isn't prevalent because it was on someone's algorithm. It has become the "that's conspiracy territory" kinda response people have adopted as to dismiss talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:44 PM
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Must be the same "feel good" women get when they follow trends like the bear and call men trash online... in their need to call out people, men and women aren't that different, just there are more people to blindly call out men while ignoring when women need to be called out too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:01 PM
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I feel you and yeah people here will act like women are dumb and don't want nor can hold a discussion about things they may be in the wrong about. Where I side with some of them is on the early stage of dating it's better to avoid discussion that can be controversial or ones where that person can be very emotional about. But ultimately no, I wouldn't just side with whatever a woman says just so she likes me nor would I want to be with someone that expects me to just shut up and be pretty. These …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:55 PM
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Quick question, does anything suggested by "THE ALGORITHM" makes that something instantly false or that is doesn't happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:46 PM
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Big revelation here then... why the mockery of men taking it personal when women make generalizations about men then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:58 PM
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Lmao, women wouldn't even know if a man has this view unless he tells her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:34 PM
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Women hate, I mean HATE to be generalized with anything negative, just like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:23 PM
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Dancing monkey in this case refers to the set of actions men specifically have to do to be considered potential partners whic get ridiculous year after year, pushed by social media. See it like, unless you put on some specific makeup on top of the one you already put on you wouldn't be considered interesting and if you voice yourself on this "criteria" then people would call you out telling you that if you're not ready to put that specific makeup you don't deserve anyone's time... So, would you …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:22 PM
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I don't think you understand the subject or you try hard to just disagree for some reason. I had my share of gf in life and aside from a few, I did the approaching, even when they were the ones interested in me first. Granted I didn't have to always pay nor initiate conversations. Our culture puts courtship on men's shoulders. Doesn't mean in every cases it's what happens but that's how it is. Some women are more picky and demanding in what men have to do to be considered a potential partner. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:12 PM
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Is that what you had to do for the guy to have dating interest in you? Or is that something you did for a man you're already with? I know the answer, I just want you to tell me in your own words.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:03 PM
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100%. I think too many aren't taking no for an answer for multiple reasons. Some because they're too persistent and are told to not let go easily, some because they believe women like to play hard to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:58 PM
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Are you for real? "Putting an act" in this case means doing things you don't usualy do like always pay when you go out with people, always agree with what they say, always initiate conversations, always do the effort to be funny and the most important one, do all these but not expecting anything in return or expect the same from the person you're with. A man can be the best person alive but we all have to "put an act" to be considered interesting to women. Some have to put more effort than other…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:54 PM
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It's always easy to dismiss a problem when you're not the one having to do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:49 PM
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Things like "men shouldn't approach unknown women anytime, anywhere in public, at school or at work".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:43 PM
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Is just being fun to be around OPs subject or is the subject around what he has to do to be considered a potential partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:42 PM
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Just say "not all women" like men have been saying for years lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:15 PM
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I think meeting in real life is the best way. But we shouldn't put all these barriers to prevent people from meeting each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:05 PM
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Is it possible to be fun without having to act like a dancing monkey?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:59 PM
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The thing is redpill does a collection of things that may up your chances and those are part of them. Someone in another comment said it better but it's like red pill will tell you things that may up your game even if it makes women look bad because that's what they respond to while bluepillers will tell you things that always make women look more virtuous even if it doesn't work like "have you considered therapy?", "just take a shower bro", "it's because of your personnality".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:24 AM
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Well, paying child support for your kid is the responsible thing to do. But let's not talk like it's nothing. Some men are put in prison for failing to pay child support. Once in prison they can't pay but the amount they owe still pile up and that's how you get people in jail for a very long time for a system that doesn't care about this issue. No help, when these men fail we put them in prison... women pay even less child support when they're the deadbeat parent but no woman has been put in jai…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:05 AM
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Red pill or not this is a good advice if you want to better your success with women. You have to look at what women respond to initially.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:50 PM
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It’s like listening to a rich person complain about how hard it is to be rich. Lol, we could talk about this for hours. Like how women complain about the way they dress but most clothing stores are for women, they have all color range and sizes, textures, shapes. Society accepts women dress almost however they want yet will complain about not being able to go half naked. That's pricezely your point. Men see it as vain and tone deaf. Women have all birth controls available to them, are able to ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:30 PM
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Whit such comment you should claim being childish... smh!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:06 PM
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Ofc, they are the real "pick me".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:04 PM
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Both men and women do and will complain about things they fall behind you can't deny this. For a long time women said they didn't get paid the same as men for doing the exact same job, though it was more complicated than that. They complained about the pink tax, about not having pockets, complain about air conditionner lmao. Men are complaining about not having control over their reproductive options, their dating options, about women's high standards and yes men complain about their wage becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:52 PM
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We could say the same about any fields or topic where one is dominating and the other is not. Like why were women complaining so much about job position or their wage? We don't hear men complain as much! Maybe because men had it good while women had to fight for better outcome. Seems pretty similar to me, complain when you fall behind and ask for people to stop complaining when you have the advantage because it doesn't affect you as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:23 PM
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Generaly speaking women don't want to accept nor recognize that their mating selection plays a huge part in who people are and what personnality traits is pushed forward. If they reconized this it would mean they play a part in the violence they suffer from, which isn't on their agenda, it has to be men and only men that does all the wrong for, no reasons other than Patriarchy, toxic masculinity and misogyny. Like, "it's not my taste in men that makes me date only aggressive men. It's men that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:43 PM
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Ehh stop this, vasectomies should be considered permanent, source? Actual doctors. Also, why do you need to talk about tubal ligation? We're talking about vasectomies and how people, especially women, are uninformed and push the idea that they are easily reversible? Even some feminists think boys should get vasectomies and reverse it when they are "ready" and over 18yo... I'm sorry but that is an automatic sterilization of these boys. Women's health, at least here in Canada, is way more funded t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:46 PM
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" Most men are pussies that are afraid to point it out, I am not one of those men. " Very true sadly, it's like they're affraid of something. I don't care, if women can say whatever grudge they have with men then so should men. And that's not even a grudge, it's exactly what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:34 PM
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The funny thing is most of the discussion around "we want the same rights as men" is not about rights but about what they want and assume men have and they feel entitled to it and want it to become a law. Like they want to be able to walk alone at night. It's a want they have and they think men have that as a right but they can't see that men do get mug, beaten, robbed and killed. They want the pink tax to be gone... but their products are different so it warrants a different price. Also nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:56 PM
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Dang, is most of the world "shit" countries now? You speak like a true Trump fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:34 PM
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You're funny if you think most women can cook...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:29 PM
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Pretty usual behavior... like the meme says, they'll always try to attack them using sex references because having sex is the only metric they know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:28 PM
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Just like the men you mentionned then... they are just single men with opinions, Tate, Peterson, Rogan etc. Why make a fuss about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 10:43 PM
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TBH people like Andrew Tate may not listen to young men's problem but at least he's not there calling them toxic, trash and to fix their problems themselves like feminists and the left (in the US) do. Young men are humans like any other humans with their flaws and they too want to see themselves in the future and want to see encouragement that they can get there. And no, men haven't live with this level of hatred. I'm in my fourties, I'm a teacher and I didn't grew up in such environment. On the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 10:41 PM
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You can look at which topics gets more traction on this sub and talking about feminism isn't one. Trashing men does get a lot of traffic, as well as topics where a man is trashing feminism. Other topics are left ignored. I think they just want to vent and on that sub they have multiple opportunities to do so since they are called "Ask" but they don't really wanna be asked anything. There's very little sound discussions to be had out there. Even the mod there is cautious with what she says to not…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:21 PM
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I think maybe the language needs to mirror that of these people and just say the reason they do it is to control men's bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:07 PM
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You know the landscape for the younger generation is vastly different now than it was before 2015 and up. There were more social spaces where you actually met real people. Now a days young men don't know who they are and what to do and they are told they ain't shit days in days out. At some point you want to associate yourself with people that tell you you have value even if that someone is a a grifter like Tate. I think that's a real problem, not addressing young men's problems doesn't make the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:48 PM
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That's kinda true. At the same time, alcohol releases inhibition, many people become funnier, some just get sleepy, some get more flirtuous, some get violent. But you can't say alcohol has no effect on people and those that get violent because they don't get what they want need to be handled. Haven't you been in a club before?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:09 PM
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There can never be a true male role model that's feminist approved because they approve only those that don't challenge their thoughts and way of doing things. The second that person questions them even when they're in the wrong they'll revoke their "role model" card just like how they usually say "she's not a true feminist" as soon as that woman doesn't accept everything other feminists say. So to me, men should decide what they consider a role model and not ask feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:06 PM
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You know, I've seen people become monster under alcohol and though I liked these people if they started to drink I just left. Now I had the opportunity to leave. If I had to live with that kind of person ofc I would be tempted to vote in favor of something that would make it stop. Banning alcohol was a mistake, but that behavior had to be addressed. It's like banning alcohol because people used to drive and drink at the same time and cause accidents. Well banning driving and drinking was a bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:57 PM
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One thing feminists never talk about is how prohibition helped women get the right to vote. It's only with women's vote that the prohibition was able to be voted in. Women wanted to stop their abusive husbands from beating them due to alcohol (rightly so), that too is well documented but kinda ignored in these discussions. I also never see feminists mention that for men to have the right to vote they also had to own land and be drafted but no "men had it all good". Just assuming that women thems…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:45 PM
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to angry daddies that inserted themselves just because they could. That was my last relationship and tbh I don't want to be some sort of third wheel ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:16 AM
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I'm pretty sure casual sex is more common now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:02 PM
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I personnaly think that being nice does attract some type of women though. I'm not gonna say that being nice is the reason they're attracted ofc, but they can find you attractive but hate the way you are and the women that are ready to put up with a shitty behavior must also be shitty themselves. If all I wanted was to have sex I wouldn't care who I attract but since I care about the kind of women I let in my life I don't want the type that ignores red flags since they themselves are walking red…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:49 PM
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It's really weird the mental gymnastic some do to not say that jerking off isn't the same as having sex with a partner... I often wonder if these people are real people with actual lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:28 PM
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You forgot the one where they say approaching for women is dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:21 PM
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Men prioritize power because it gives them what they want and that includes women. No man in power is single.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:55 PM
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You can't just point to one thing and then expect that one single thing to be the difference maker. It's a set of things. See it like women wage gap. It was branded as women make less than men because men paid women less for the exact same job but because they're women they paid them less but when you look deeper you realize there's more to it than just misogyny. Hours worked, negociating salary, child rearing and so on all combined resulted in women earning more. To solve this we didn't tell wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:52 PM
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Therapy itself can only do so much but when there are societal problems why not take down these problems? Ohh right, every male problem is their own doing since "who built this society? Men!". People like you can't see that a lot of problems both men and women face are decades in the making through constant reinforcement of social and cultural ideas. For some reason you accept that for most of what women go through and that society and men should change but you can't acknowledge the same to be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:26 PM
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I live in Canada and if there's one thing I learned about teaching it's that women, when they become mothers, understand that schools aren't helping young men that much. When I worked in highschool, since we were rarely more than 3 male teachers compared to 30-40 female teachers and staff, a lot of mothers came to us during parent/teacher meetings to help their sons because they couldn't explain to the female teachers the problems their sons had. That's just one thing but your comment is exactly…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:20 PM
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Respect is more acknowledgement than of fear and/or admiration lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:35 PM
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You'd need to have empathy to actually know which problems men have. Just thinking about suicide rates. You'd need to have empathy to realize that men that commit suicide aren't just pos. There are real expectations placed on men that aren't placed on women and some of these expectations will push some to delete themselves. Now to help fix this, society should change some of the way they view men and that includes how women view and expect of men and accept that they play a role in the issue. A …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:25 PM
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Ahh man I love this. Some people don't want to understand things, they just want to react to what they see in front of them, like a stimulus. No thinking or understanding behind their actions and try to justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:04 PM
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Water is good, but if you live your life around water and that sometimes there are floods which are an unwanted amount of water you end up thinking water is a problem meanwhile the person in a desert will cherish water because it's scarce. Compliments are like that, men receive so few that we cherish it when we receive any of them. Even your enemy telling you you were a worthy opponent you'll respect him for that. Women drown in compliments and make an enemy of people that will compliment them. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:30 PM
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I think both men and women are bad at filtering but men don't brag about having a sixth sense where they know who is bad and who isn't and no one is there telling men that they can never be the problem, it's all the other side that is and always will be the problem and that they deserve better, that they shouldn't change anything and go get that bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 08:13 PM
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It's not a dating advice but a lot of women say men shouldn't bother women or romantically approach women in most public places and if men want to approach women they should go where women are open to be approached, mostly dating apps where they can just ghost or swipe you out (don't know which side is a rejection 😅).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:07 AM
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I think you don't understand how women flirt. They don't necessarily have to directly talk and ask a man out. Women put themselves outhere, look at you, touches you, laugh at your every jokes even when they are stupid (the jokes), they mention your name multiple times, they agree with everything you say. Women flirting is making themselves noticeable and agreeable more than they would usually. By doing so towards men above their league they are absolutely shooting their shot and men gonna be men…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:36 AM
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Trying their shot at people not in their league has no gender. One gender is able to get sex from people above their looks and personnality value but sex isn't a relationship. Both can be delusional when they don't get a reality check or when people in their lives keep telling them they deserve it all. Men need to be told the truth so they redirrect their ship, not this "maybe if you took a shower women would like you" kinda bs!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:32 AM
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That's the thing I always say about approaching women. Men that listen to women's dating advices and respect the "don't approach us in [insert places]" will get zero success with women. The men that don't care for what women think will put themselves in situations where they can actually meet and talk to women. This is the thing, being handsome isn't the only thing, you have a lot of traits that women like but you can't display on dating apps. So yeah, go to these places and do approach women in…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:22 PM
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Maybe because they are told it's because they put no effort that they don't get results, while the true reasons are something else... imagine if you applied for a job as a waitress and they all refused you and tell you it's because they don't hire currently and you should try again later. You see young attractive women getting the job without experience all the time.. you realize it's because they don't find you attractive enough to be a waitress but will still continue telling you all sorts of …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:25 PM
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Good for you, sometimes we say and do things without consideration, it happens, but I like that the people in my life don't just agree with everything and they tell me what is concerning them in what I do or say and they expect the same of me. To each their own, in my case I think it's healthy to act this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:04 PM
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I mean, do you agree with everything your husband/bf says no matter what it is? Do you go online to discredit women's experiences and tell them they are flawed no matter what the situation is? Do you tell women that they're misandrist for disagreeing with what men say? Simps do this, every day. Not all but some here know who they are. Men shouldn't have to do all this to earn respect from women. I love the women in my life and I won't hesitate to call out their bullshit, I expect the same from t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:10 PM
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Like I said, liking your gf and women doesn't require you to bow to them. Is that the new requirement women have now, bow to us or it means you don't like us? Lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:45 AM
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True, people like label on the spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:42 AM
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You're right, I just think there are many simps online that will just agree with whatever women say and bark at anything men say but very true any man can be a simp under the right conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:04 AM
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It absolutely is an insult, no man that respects themselves want to identify as a simp lol. Loving your gf doesn't mean bowing to them and to all women online. Women don't have to bow to men and their man to show love to their partner and the men in their lives, why should men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:02 AM
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A simp isn't someone that likes their partner. It's a man that bows down to women and will act like a guard dog, always agreeing with whatever she says, always barking at any man that dares to share his bad experiences with women. Will not have an opinion of his own and will take pride in regurgitating bs some broken women say on tiktok. If this is the definition of a man that just loves their partner then I don't understand how you can endure that. I wouldn't have my gf agreeing with whatever m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:32 AM
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but it appears that’s more of a detriment to them than women. Is it though? The way I see this is more and more men are opting out which means the pool of men that aren't opting out is shrinking leaving a bigger percentage of men that have absolutely no shame and respect for women. Now I'm not saying the men that opt out are all good men, but let's not pretend a huge portion of men that couldn't care less about what women want will never opt out and that's what your dating pool ends up in the en…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:56 AM
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The past is the past, but your past is what you built. It's like health, smoke, drink, do drugs and eat junk food as much as you want. At some point you can't complain your health isn't the same as one that didn't abuse of those like their lives depended on it. I think the low body count thing is bs imo. Women have and enjoy sex and rightly so. But the weight part is in your control. It's way easier for women to keep their weight out of obesity level than asking men to be in the 7 figures financ…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:04 PM
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Imo, most men standards are based on behavior while women's are based on very difficult to attain (perfect shape or high income) or just immutable physical characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:42 PM
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I don't think men aren't communicating their emotions, they just don't lead with them in order to fix things because emotional outburst doesn't fix anything. Lesbians break up easily because both lead with emotional outbursts in order for the other to fix what is wrong, but since both use this tactic, nothing is fixed then they break up... at least that seems to be what you imply.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:06 PM
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Exactly what I thought, no one approaches, complains men don't approach. One or more guys approach "OMG I can't sit still without creepy men annoying me!".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:11 PM
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Do you think any issue that men may have is only important to incels and thus shouldn't be a concern for anyone? For example, are incels affected by lack of funds in prostate cancer but other men aren't?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:35 PM
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Is that what they teach you in those studies... the hatred is reaching new grounds... dumbass pill is real!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:40 PM
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Well we can all stay ignorant, at least you make that choice for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:14 AM
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100% truth. These slogans are indeed atrocious and people that come up with them should know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:12 AM
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Defund the police doesn't mean "don't send criminals to prison"... its aim was to lower the funding to the militarization of the police force and reallocate part of the funding to more specialized forces that are more suited for specific tasks like handling autistic people, instead of sending people that only know one way to diffuse a situation and that is by shooting or using force when other means would be more effective and would save more people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:02 AM
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Man sometimes I wonder if these people are dumb on purpose... it's weird how they respond by always implying you want to rape someone lmao... must be damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:54 PM
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I mean, if a woman is raped by a man and she ends up pregnant from it, can she abort? If a man is raped by a woman and she ends up pregnant from it, can the man abort?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:58 PM
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Could women abort? Could men abort?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:04 PM
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The length you go to defend that person is hilarious. Are all people that pass out drunk retarded animals? Because I've seen both men and women fall asleep pretty quickly after they had tons of fun at parties. Is it ok to do anything to them because they passed out? No matter what it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:31 PM
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What about the "leave it at the door" part? Should all delivery people start ignoring requests and just try to open doors and enter without being invited? Is that how you do as a delivery worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:34 AM
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You're kinda right here since most attractive traits women like are immutable or very hard to change like height, penis size, high income or status. While men like women in general and all women really have to do is maintain an average body size (even then many men are attracted to plus size women) and wear a little makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:33 PM
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Why not? Isn't that what's prevalent here? Whenever a man calls out women's bs they are labeled incels or misogynists or they are assumed they hate women? Isn't that what you did when I called out some behavior? Why would it be different for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 08:30 PM
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Ok, does it mean you hate women, a misogynist or are you a closeted red piller?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 08:07 PM
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Am I wrong? You've never seen/heard women belittle men's erectile ability, his ability to get women or sex, or men calling out women's bs being seen as "incels/redpill/misogynists"? You must be the one living under that rock, stop projecting. Do you think there's nothing women need to be called out for? If you do think there are things they could do better or differently, how do you call it out... or are you affraid someone, just like what you do, tells you you are misogynistic or you just hate …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:40 PM
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When women want to insult men they attack his manhood by attaching it to his ability to have sex and only if it's their ability to get women. When they "identify" red flags in men it's usualy about their ability to get sex too. How are women on board with this exactly? I think they know perfectly sex is currently their biggest leverage and will use it as much as they can. When they want to feel validated they go on a "journey to find themselves" by sleeping with as many men as they can. It's nor…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:45 PM
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Everyone should take accountability but men being hated for being men is kinda true, especially in the last 10y we've seen an uptick of BS sloggans from feminists and women in all media. From shows like The View that says on national tv "men are useless and would live in their filth if not for women" to prominent feminists saying "men are trash" in multiple kinds of ways to BS trends like comparing men to dangerous animals. I'm sorry but all of that is true. It's normal some men are fed up with …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:15 PM
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Lmao that's not what accountability is. It means to reflect on your own behavior and accept and acknowledge it can influence or cause others to behave a certain way. An example of you taking accountability is recognize your threads are meant to spur hatred because of your phrasing. If you acknowledged it you'd say, yeah I wasn't really looking into sound discussion but I like drama and will always pit men and women against each other in all my threads because I like chaos. What you're doing is e…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 05:51 PM
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Women should try to take accountability... just TRY... When men try to explain what happens to them they are met with "incel", "cry more", "that's why you can't have a gf", "have you tried therapy", "not my problems", "more incel insults", "virgin" etc... I think a lot of men try to do what women do and it doesn't work since women have men's and society's empathy but men can't rely on that... like I said, if something works for women it doesn't mean it'll work for men. Women go to therapy becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 05:23 PM
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Just because women offer a solution that works for them doesn't mean it's a solution that'll work for men. I also think a lot of the resentment men have over this discussion is it's framed as if men will drop their emotional baggage to their women constantly... but women never do that and men never have to do any kind of what you call emotional labor while it has always been the contrary. Men kept bottling things up specifically because women can't nor want to hear/help men but will always drop …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:53 PM
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Who cares whether a man want to have sex with a woman or not? Women have way more opportunities and are in demand. It's just normal part of the blame falls on their choices or do you think we should just blame men for being bad choices that these women chose? Isn't that infantilizing them? Isn't that removing them of any agency? Should we start treating them like children?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 10:20 PM
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You are similar to men who think a good worker is one that shake your hand really hard. That man places all their trust of what is a good worker on some simple thing that can be faked and those that want to fake know exactly how to get that job since all they have to do is shake hard then voilà. Next, that employer complains they got a bad worker. Yeah, how about not putting all your vetting process in the same basket? Women are similar in this regard. I had a roommate years ago, all he did was …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 10:12 PM
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Most women that choose these men aren't church girls... and other women will always defend a woman's choice and blame men as a whole instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 10:02 PM
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So people tell you this is what they see and live isn't evidence but what you live and see is?...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 09:54 PM
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First I never said all women... second, all my friends and family male members never went to prison so there are no men in prison, am I doing it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:12 PM
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It's not that hard to understand maybe you and your wife don't represent most people. I don't think most women don't care for morality, but I also recognize the constant "be a good person, respect women, wash yourself" as an advice like it's how women mainly look for in a partner is pretty false and cringe. Women do look for beauty first and will bypass almost anything if they want to have their way with said guy... no matter if that guy has moral or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:06 PM
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No plausible explanation is your own fabricated story. The woman's video doesn't start when she got out of the car so you have absolutely no idea what happened before the video starts. What she did and her intentions are another fabricated story of your part. It could also just be a stunt buy both of them... how would you know? It's impressive how quick people are to accuse people on the internet without evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:01 AM
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The way I see it both sides are fabricating conspiracy theories... have you read what you wrote? It's pop-corn worthy...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:06 AM
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You're so invested in this story it's funny and sad at the same time. Did you see the start of the video where she got out of her car and realized the door was open, then went closer and saw the guy naked? If not then you don't know whether the door was open or not. Did the guy confessed he purposefully baited her to his naked self? If not then you have no idea if there was intent or not! Did the guy confessed he was drunk or passed out? If you don't know then you can't assume he wasn't. Did you…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:02 PM
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You know... it's perfectly possible to speak for yourself and not assume someone complaints are not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 05:43 PM
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People don't need to be trashy to talk like that. Maybe you didn't get much occasions to reject women's advances. As a professor I do reject a fair share of advances, many times because I'm a professor, not because I'm really interresting and yeah been called gay multiple times in 8y span. You even see that in movies and tv shows where men are called pussy, gay, sissy or stupid when they reject women's advance. No need to look for "trashy people" to witness this. If your social circle is restrai…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:00 PM
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I live in Canada also, been here all my life, women don't call out other women's bs most of the time, they either agree or stay silent. Online it's worse. PPB is especially a place where you can find such discourse. I work in a college as a professor where I meet hundreds and hundreds of people every year. There are multiple efforts to lower harrassment and abuse towards women (rightly so), even language is monitored for misogynistic language. But any bad language towards men is usually accepted…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:44 PM
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Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:18 PM
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People need to stop worrying about that like it's the plague. If your woman doesn't look like she's hurt by her past experiences or she's a porn star then why do you care so much? At some point we need to accept women have sex, just like men and that pair bonding thing isn't solely attached to their body count. There are many other things to worry about when dating women than their body count, especially when it doesn't seem like they're hurting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:04 AM
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I've seen many people call the partner insecure when a girl has a male friend that keeps circling around her as is "her friend"... should we also say that in this case? I think people have the right to feel insecure in both cases...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:24 PM
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It does, I know, we're all under it's influence. But looks isn't everything unless you only qualify people from a dating app standpoint. Like the women I find more interesting are those that have a good fun personnality, are respectful and take care of their physique to some degree. I don't look for perfect facial symmetry or top physical shape as I value personnality way more than the looks. I wouldn't go with an ugly woman, but I don't think 8-9s are the only options. I had relationships with …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 10:12 PM
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That's like asking women to stop comparing men to bears or pigs...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 09:31 PM
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Well, that's all a man has to offer right? A facial harmony... imagine finding other traits attractive. Ofc when all your friends and society incite you to leave men or not be interested in other traits... thank god there are people that don't put all dating values solely on the looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 09:28 PM
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Women don't value work nowadays because they can work and provide for themselves. What they want is a good looking man that will shower them with attention and not ask anything in return for the wellbeing of their relationship. A hard working man will not have all their time dedicated to them and will sometimes be too bothered by their work to shower them constantly with attention. They'll also be more careful with their money where as bums live life like there's no tomorrow. Hard working people…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 11:34 PM
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Exactly. Men are the doers, builders and creators. Doesn't mean all men are doers and all women don't but in general men are the ones risking and trying new things and are willing to "get it done" even if it's dangerous or dumb. Men may be the agressors but they are also the protectors. They may be dumb at some point but they are also the genuises. They may be emotionless like some like to portray us but men also create the most amazing art, cinema and experiences. Some women complain but they j…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:32 PM
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Excellent movie, there's an older movie from the 60s if I remember correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:50 PM
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They won't... the results they'll find will tell a different story, they won't like it so they'll refrain from posting studies on how moms do abuse and murder children at the same rate or more than fathers. But blue pill gonna blue pill!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:14 PM
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What I find bizarre is how you expect men to just swallow up their feelings no matter what in order to not upset the woman... but the woman can't? You also can't control how someone feels after being rejected. I'd rather take some distance than stay close to someone I had feelings with but I need to just ignore it so she feels like nothing happened. Nahh! Stop this bs!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:43 PM
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Lol... what you want is for the other person to swallow their feelings and rejection so they can remain friends with someone they developped feelings with. That person also loses a friend the minute they started to feel something and then, based on your reaction, becomes a monster if they want to take some distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:25 PM
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Behold the monolith that represents all women's experience and personality!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 03:32 PM
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They meet them everywhere and don't listen to the "don't approach women at [insert any place but dating apps]". These men do exactly what women respond to. Other men that "respect" what they're being told don't get these encounters because if they go mostly on apps they just get swiped like the thousands unattractive they are. Ultimately, women want to meet people and have fun. Abusers, unless they're pretty attractive and photogenic create these chances in real life and don't spend too much tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:56 PM
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I'm not entirely red pill but I'm far from being blue pill. I don't like extremes and I can't just pander to whatever women want/say and think this is the way to a happy life. I also don't believe in the alpha male bs. There are things in life and how you react to these things will get you somewhere, doesn't mean it'll be the right or wrong place for you. The reality is always inbetween. I like that redpill is actually analyzing and bringning a dose of accountability to both men and women, and g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:45 PM
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Exactly, I was mainly saying that going to therapy doesn't work at all. Having your finance in check and being healthy and in shape will help way more than that bs therapy thing they all scream about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:08 PM
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Being buff or just having money isn't what works, it's being confident in your shape and your financial health that can give you confidence and that confidence is what helps. Women don't look just for one thing. They also look for an overall but a confident man can also mean it has an overall in check. They'll always find new ways to tell you something doesn't work and will rely on immutable things like being tall to dismiss you. Being tall doesn't mean you'll get women, so does being rich or be…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:07 PM
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The onus is still on men for lusting towards these women. Men need to stop providing with no reciprocation on their part. In today's age, women can be as shitty as they want men will still lust over them and giving them what they need/want. Why would someone change their ways if they still get what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:54 PM
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That's an experience problem not a therapy problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:11 PM
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We're talking about what works with dating as a man, you said it yourself, going to therapy has no benefit in this case. Women don't care about what therapy you completed if she doesn't find you attractive and you can't pay for most things. Women also don't seem to care about your mental health if she finds you attractive. Most advice you should consider is based on two different time, one is in order to attract women, the other is to retain a woman. Going to therapy might help for the latter, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:25 PM
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Exactly this and it does work. Therapy will do nothing to help you with women, it'll just help you cope. But getting in shape and being in a great financial health will do way more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:28 PM
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Women can absolutely despise men, find a good man and treat them like shit and act like they're the victim. A man can say he hates women because of his past relationships and then finds a good woman and cherish her and think he's find the exception. These scenarios have no gender I've seen both happen from men and women alike. How important is it for you to push exclusively men bad and women good?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:47 PM
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Regarding behavior and dating most studies that are cited don't follow a rigorus method though. Like, women make x% of chores in the house so men have to step up. People believe this just like people believed in the "women make 71 cents for every dollard a man makes for the exact same job"... lmao yeah, no! It was revealed to be missing a ton of data. Same applies most of the time to self reported surveys, but as long as they serve people's narrative, they don't question their validity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:35 PM
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You have the right to believe what you want. Would you believe a study that interviews mostly men about how much chores they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:15 PM
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Self reported studies are misleading, especially the ones where you are to reveal when you did wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:40 PM
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Women that go for dating coaches do to get a very rich man, not to get the average man, that is easy and boring for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:27 PM
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Also self reported, women will never say they instigated, it's always the other's fault. Can hardly trust these stats. We can see with our own eyes who is always hitting who and how society reacts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:20 PM
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Yes people will not be truthful about such things. And women typically always say they don't cheat or will always say women don't cheat or do way less than men. So you are right to use it as a basis but not as gospel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:28 AM
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Most of these self reported statistics can never be reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 08:41 PM
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Discussing with feminists is pointless because they follow a very scripted way of discussing. - Paint women as victims most of the time even if they are in the wrong. - Paint women as empowered as much as possible, even if what they did is wrong. - Paint men as oppressors, even in situations they aren't. - Downplay men's victimhood and find ways to divert the discussion to women being victims again. - All men? Yes all men! Always a man! If it's something negative about men or try hard to frame i…
/r/MensRights24/08/25 04:34 PM
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When they say I have a boyfriend signals that they think you are flirting with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:16 PM
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When you find entertainment in seeing others fixing your problems you create new problems to keed being entertained.
/r/MensRights20/08/25 12:51 AM
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Both should... both should!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:33 PM
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Do you even realize that's exactly what you wrote above?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:04 PM
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Yeah whatever I pick it's bad so I can't be blamed for my choices... lol! 250 is pennies compared to what exactly? For a millionnaire? For a cashier at a convenience store? You can't decide what is pennies and what isn't without factoring that person's earnings. Also women that are the ones to pay child support pay comparatively less than men do but very few of them face prison time for failing to pay comparatively to men. We'll see even more people in that situation I believe. Then you'll be ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:53 PM
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Women choose these loser guys though but if there's one thing women don't want to do is pay either alimony or child support. But the more things go the more it'll happen and I think it's for the better. Both need to experience what the other had to... maybe at some point laws will change for the better if men have to take care of their kids like women did and if women had to work and pay ridiculously high child support and sometimes alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:20 PM
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So you accept that society can put pressure on people to act a certain way? And a good way to help some pressure go away is to make it illegal or put incentives in places to help people get around such pressure, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:13 PM
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Why didn't they chose to not do that in the 40s then? I think society was very different back then and society's pressure on them prevented most of them from choosing like to imply is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:10 PM
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Are you real? You don't hear about women's plight online? Gotta caption this...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:50 PM
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Because they want attention and validation and most of these business are good at generating attention and validation in the way they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:36 PM
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I'm pretty sure they never get payed back too. The sad thing is many of them seem ungrateful and the way they speak about their bf is eye opening for many. One woman was happy her bf made it possible for her to study her dream job but towards the end of the whole program (about 2y) she left him for another student in the class and both never finished and get their diplomas. I thought about that many times when I had to take attendances, always absent towards the end. So she took the money to pur…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:05 PM
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I have multiple students that have boyfriends and/or parents that pay their rent or their student loans, mostly women. I know because when they talk in class it's either to brag about it or complain about their paying bf or parents. I teach in higher education, 20-60yo people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:09 PM
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hey look at me! this is what I want to be associated with!" This is exactly it. When I look at people's craft I associate them with what they are doing, when people are posting themselves in thirst trap manners I see no reason to not also associate them with what they are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:19 PM
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Exactly this, it's weird but the "women don't know waht they want" is a little applicable here. They don't want to be approached but they want men to do the approaching and don't try to make them understand how contradictory that is, it's up to you to care or not, how you behave will give you the results you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:30 PM
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How does being picky has anything to do with experience? Something tells me you don't understand what gaining experience means.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:02 PM
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It isn't a child until it's birthed though... what happened to "a clump of cells!"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:45 PM
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I don't understand the problem to extend draft to women since the argument is there's no draft since the 70s. It's a non issue to register for the draft then, women should just embrace it and problem solved, you wouldn't hear men complain about again...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:40 PM
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So it's not a gendered thing, why always frame it like that's what it is then? That extreme example lacks context. I've never known a husband that just leaves their family out of nowhere just to go fishing for no reason, especially if the wife can't be at home or is facing a very hard medical condition. That may be true, but let's not act like that's how men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:36 PM
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Do men do emotional labor for the women around them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:15 PM
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Could we also say that a woman must not be a good mother if she believes her peace of mind is more important than his? Shouldn't people in relationship talk and come with solutions together to insecurities and uncertainties both may have? Seems like you want one to just trust me bro the other but you would never accept the same logic on your end. Make this shit mandatory already!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:04 AM
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You're a funny one... but hey, you can't comprehend a simple example and need something that is exactly the same. Sometimes I wonder how you can go in life without being able to associate one behavior with another. It's weird to me but I don't hate, just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:07 PM
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Does it have to be common for someone to be insecure about it? Do you think it's common for men to tell their gf how good the bj their exes gave them? Doesn't mean all women will have that insecurity, but many have with their boob size, precisely because they hear about it everywhere, it's also in the movies. Not all insecurities come from nowhere lmao. Just be concious about what you do and say, how hard can this be?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:17 PM
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Why ofc everyone is unique, doesn't mean people (yes that includes everyone) can have insecurities based on what they think their partners value. If I mention how great the blowjobs my ex gave me it's possible my current gf would feel like she has to live up to her at some point and if she doesn't she'll feel insecure about it... don't you think we can indirectly influence other people's insecurities or are you also part of the no awareness club?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:06 PM
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Why would that man care about that if he thinks his gf isn't gonna be pleased about his size compared to her ex? It's like you agree with OP but try to say otherwise lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:55 PM
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We were 5 children, my mother and my father took turns to go work full time and to be at home full time. I saw my mother more when I was around 8 to 15 but my father was there from the beginning. In the 80s he used to work at different venues and brought us with him (my brother and I). Then came my sisters and my mother stayed at home for a long long time. 1 - There is vacations, plenty of it but not in the early years ofc if you don't have support at all from neither your husband nor your immed…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:33 AM
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Another day another men bad women victims article. Is that the crux of female studies? Finding new ways to say men are trash? Amazing!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:31 PM
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Just here to say Hachi is an amazing movie, sad but amazing!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 01:02 AM
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I fully agree and I also think this table thing is just rage bait and an answer to people with endless checklists of needs. I thought it'd be nice for a change to hear about people tell other what positive they think you'd bring to them instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:15 PM
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I know many people that advocate for endless checklists of things you should do/be in order to date them. People ask what you bring to the table because of those endless checklists. I just thought another question would be to tell me what you think I'd bring to your table instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:12 PM
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Ofc any of these questions shouldn't be asked on first dates. It's mostly around the "what do you bring the table" type bs I was wondering, I'd rather be asked what I think that person would bring to my table instead. Someone can tell you what you bring to them, sometimes you're not sure and it's comforting to hear why people like you and it doesn't have to be 5y later.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:08 PM
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Exactly, it's like they can't see past their immediate feelings of something not benefitting them solely and want to shut that down right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:22 PM
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I think it should be mandatory at birth but if someone doesn't want to do the test then they should opt out of it. Refusing the test would come with caveats though. Like from a legal standpoint only the mother has all rights towards that kid and if the father wants to have the same rights then he needs to legally adopt the kid. If a father wants to opt out of his paternity test then he'd be legally bound to that child even if it's later found that he isn't the father. He made the choice at birth…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:08 PM
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When women commit fraud that's exactly what it is. It doesn't mean all women are trying to commit paternity fraud. Most women don't do that, but those who do need the trust and empathy some of you give them in order to commit such fraud. The "trust women bro" squad is enabling this bs. Especially since it can be fixed so easily with a mandatory routine parenting check at birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:19 PM
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By trying to find ways to imply women don't really do it conciously you absolutely mean to excuse it. Women do cheat and lie. Stop trying to find ways to say they didn't know and we shouldn't act like the fraud they commit wasn't in bad faith. Especially when many women will say men can't be child trapped, they had unprotected sex then they should be prepared to have a child. Women consent to cheating, end up pregnant and don't abort, then claim the child is that of their partner/husband. They k…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:09 PM
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Eliminating this kind of post would be great tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:04 PM
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You mean like any crime a parent does they shouldn't be sent to jail because they have a child? Theft, murder, fraud, SA and so on? Just make babies then go rob a bank... lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:28 PM
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All of this wouldn't happen if it was a mandatory routine check at birth. The reason some "fathers" just love the kids is because they dedicated time and energy raising a child they wholeheartedly thought was their kids. Had they known from the get go it wasn't theirs at least they would make the choice to either stay or leave. It's like foster kids, you consent to raise them and be called father because you made the decision knowing it wasn't your biological kid. It has nothing to do with being…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:25 PM
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Shouldn't be asked though, it should be routine check at birth and given all stats that comes with it like how much of the father/mother the baby has and so on. This discussion happens only because men are concerned about it and women don't want their fidelity questionned. If it was at birth no one would ask questions or be offended by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:19 PM
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When men have unprotected sex with a woman and she gets pregnant we rightly say he didn't think this through. When women cheat and has unprotected sex and get pregnant we should always end up saying she didn't think this through and the result of the pregnancy should always be questionned by herself and all party that knows about it. It's impressive the length some of you go to act like women shouldn't be held responsible for their act. We should have slogans like "Teach women not to commit pate…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:03 PM
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I think you've never been in the situation these women were... choices are always easy to make and we always choose wisely when we're not the ones living a certain reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:53 PM
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I have a great relationship with most of my exes. It also depends on how the break up happens. If you two can barely talk then that's how she'll remember you, based on your last few interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:19 AM
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Maybe she was and that's because they aren't together anymore. Doesn't mean they didn't have great moments together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:15 AM
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Are you saying they're not? Like almost all smaller actors have to wear height increase shoes or play a camera angle to make sure they aren't portrayed as short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:41 PM
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I'm not attracted to men but I think there's a lot of social push into what an attractive man should look like. If we start by not portraying specific traits as bad then it's already a start. Like how we portray men that lose their hair yet we portray men that try to wear wigs/toupets even worse. Losing hairs isn't a sign of being a bad person yet so many view it that way because of how we portray them. If we can already stop this then it's a start. And again, that is just one example. We could …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:41 PM
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Men don't need women, we're all humans and social and we actually do better when we have the other half with us. Not just sexually but all our cells activate in multiple ways when we are together and we can do incredible things. Men know this. Men can live without women, but we'll find ways not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:06 PM
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Men should always do what they can to present themselves at their best and that includes grooming, dressing better, having plans and a good personnality. I'm absolutely not disputing that. Also I wouldn't ask society to portray shitty slobish dirty men as attractive and demand women suddenly find them attractive. I think there are multiple things we don't portray in movies or are completely frowned upon but one thing we don't hesitate to portray is how a bad person looks. Often a neckbeard, a be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:27 PM
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I think it's possible though. For example women's "ideal and sexiest" body shape has always changed over time precisely because of media and perception. In the 50s good looking women were far more attractive with some curves but in the 2000s skinny women were perceived as more attractive, and today it's the return of curves especially on the butt. Sometimes I wonder if some of you actually live outside of your own bubble. Beauty certainly changes depending on years of conditionning. Sometimes me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:08 PM
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Most men aren't rapists yet you sill demand men being taught not to rape... people that bitch and moan about this is because nothing is done against it and some people directly fight against the idea the concern should exist let alone find a solution... like they say, when you're not at the receiving end of a problem you don't consider it a problem and just dismiss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:49 PM
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Let's just teach women not to commit paternity fraud... it's simple! Just like you guys keep saying "teach men not to rape"... easy peezy!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:19 PM
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Not true, paternity fraud is mocked and often women encourage themselves to fight against the idea it exists or men shouldn't be concerned about it or men should just trust women and that if men are concerned about it then they shouldn't enter relationships with women. Just look at people replying to me, and on this thread or any other thread about paternity frauds... it's pretty telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:53 PM
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It's like you refuse to hold women accountable for their own cheating. "Don't enter relationships with women if you are affraid of her cheating because we can't tell them not to do it, we'd rather blame men for thinking we wouldn't do it teehee!"...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:48 PM
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Only if you have a joint account and if the real mother gives the kid to adoption. If you divorce you wouldn't be held responsible for another woman's kid either. And no court is gonna require a woman pay child support for a kid another woman birthed just because you were married to the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:46 PM
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Paternity test is to ensure the kids are HIS OWN if the woman cheats. If your man cheats you don't have to pay for a child you don't know if it's yours. But people say when you're not affected by a problem the it's not a real problem...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:57 PM
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Why not just tell women to not commit paternity fraud and or accept paternity should be proven at birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:48 PM
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It's better to have the bio dad known though, non bio dads have the right to know...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:45 PM
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Women knowingly chose men from all backgrounds, that includes bad men. Stop trying to excuse their poor choices. Men also fall for bad women, we don't excuse them do we... or do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:26 AM
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So women aren't in control of their own actions and whatever they do is commanded by a man so they shouldn't take responsibility for their own actions? That's similar to a child... just tell us if you think women are no better than children... granted, a lot of women actually take responsibility for their actions and would be pissed at comments like yours, infantilizing women doesn't serve them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:23 PM
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Most groups that have to fight have to fight against people like you that don't even understand the problems yet oppose themselves for internet points. We're pretty different in this regard. Such a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:05 AM
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What else can we do... that's already a better response than "man up". At least it shows that you actually think there's something we can do. Let me think... when women were behind in school, instead of telling them to "do better" we kinda looked at what was wrond and tried to help them. Why do people find it repulsive to suggest we could use this kind of thinking on men when they're trailing behind?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:09 PM
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Where did I say that? You don't have to say it, you are implying it in the way you say things. Holy victim complex Batman. I said this would be an excellent issue for the manosphere to undertake, I don't believe "the manosphere" has such responsibility. Men failing is a societal issue whether you like and want to accept it or not. why are they wasting their time with stupid garbage like mandatory paternity testing? Lmao... garbage issue? Yeah you show your true color here. Are you also thinking …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:05 PM
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Yes, dismiss and "man up" is the right bluepill way of handling any problems men can have. Wait for feminists scholars to "prove" a societal problem towards men exist before doing anything is the same as no wanting to look at the problems at all. Now before you ask me what I'm doing to help fix these so called problems, first I don't dismiss them. I also don't try hard to tell men to "man up". I also used to work as a teacher for young people in distress that needed support in an NGO here in Can…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:35 PM
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Citation needed. There's no proof that boys perform academically worse in all boys schools. That's feminist bs to paint women as victims again where boys need to be with girls to perform decently but girls alone fare better and because they're with boys they can't be the best they supposedely are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:34 AM
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It's not just education in school that changed and is affecting school though. Children these days move way less and the school system (at least here) even removed a lot of physical activities that they deemed too violent or too rough. Add that boys aren't receiving as much encouragement in the form of seeing their future as university students and most if not all of their teachers will be women. We can look away from those, but it's a collection of multiple factors that is responsible for young…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:22 AM
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But I used to blame women too at some point because my partners never tried anything or tell me anything, just expecting me to know how they were, what they liked and get frustrated if I didn't know by default. Granted I eventually had better partners that actually valued communication and did know what they wanted and how to achieve it. I learned a great deal with them and it served me with later partners. I absolutely think too many women still put a lot of pressure and expectation on men's se…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:32 AM
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Really, I don't understand how people can still go on when their partner doesn't seem to get off... I'd feel like I'm forcing my way into that person. Omg, their pleasure is absolutely necessary and very enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:12 AM
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Lol where did I assume most unwanted babies came from men bein raped?!? I see that you just care about "winning the internets". Carry on lady, have a nice day!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:27 PM
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Men are as responsible as women when she gets pregnant when both have unprotected sex. Juvenile men shouldn't be held responsible when raped unless you think otherwise and say "someone has to pay for the child". A man that isn't the father of a child because of paternity fraud shouldn't be held responsible unless you think otherwise and say "someone has to pay for the child". When a woman isn't ready or doesn't want to have children she aborts, she uses contraceptives or she just doesn't have se…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:50 PM
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Might be because women decide if a child is born whether the man wants it or not, if he's ready or not. Female rapists that get pregnant can demand child support even if the father is underage and the years he doesn't pay will pile up until he's 18. Also women always know know who the father is but can commit paternity fraud and still demand the non father to pay and will be supported if their partners, uppon knowing the truth, wants to leave. Ultimately, women decide on all fronts and make the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:09 PM
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Dang, if men looked at women like this. Are most women "swamp" material too? They use make up to hide their flaws, they hold way more financial debt, they take way more medication, they are smaller and weaker and often come with other men's unwanted children. This is a stupid contest. Those women are vain and suffer from the main character syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:58 PM
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Ofc and as always, when you're not on the receiving end of a problem you don't think it's an actual problem and even, like in your case, you laugh at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:37 PM
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Men are 99% of perpetrators in a sea of statistics that don't include women when they do wrong, that don't consider their doing to be that bad, that are often cheering for them to do wrong, that silences women's victims in multiple ways, that doesn't listen to men being wronged, that often phrases wrongs in a way that only men can be perpetrators and lastly, that doesn't consider children's abuse when it's women doing it... so yeah, bring those stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:36 PM
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No surprises here... equality for me not for thee!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:45 AM
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Shhhh you should never talk about this kind of stuff /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:20 AM
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Not all men will internalize their bad experiences and/or will just accept it. But social media will give a platform to all those who don't want to take all blame and radicalize them. Also, it's pretty sad to know that "society" has normalized this and men are supposed to just suck it up or they're viewed as misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:11 PM
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This is mostly true online, in real life even if you are a nerd you can display other traits that would attract some women, same women who would swipe right past you on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:08 AM
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Ohh I know don't worry. I'm breaking up with my gf for reasons I already talked about on this sub. I had my share of gf, I'm 5'9 myself and always did good with women. Just not online because you can't really display who you truly are online. All my gfs I got with them because I was able to talk to them at events, job, school, parties and clubs. The way you are is a better seller, imo, than some pictures and catch phrases on a dating app. Even I don't trust the pictures I see online. Some dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:10 PM
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20y ago was easier and more fun because you had to actually go out where people were and even if you didn't find anyone at least had fun and made new friends. People weren't as affraid of interacting with strangers than people are today. I swear we live in a paranoia era where everyone is coming to get you. When you meet people in real life you shouw all your traits and many times those traits can't be shown on the internet. Women will dismiss men that aren't 6' tall way faster online than in pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:34 AM
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I think a lot of women think their sons are different than the men they blindly hate and that they'll have the best and brightest future not thinking that the hate they have, so does their friends and all the people they associate with and all together they are normalizing that hatred. Their sons might look ok from one side but will be seen as a threat by other women that share the same hate that woman does but towards her kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:28 PM
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I think sadly you are right. Putting people in such situations is weird, I've seen successful realtionships with single parents, but success wasn't knocking at my door. I won't make the same mistake again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:42 PM
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Thanks, but yes I do respect myself. Just a heads up, yesterday I had THE discussion and she does understand my position and realized it was a stupid mistake but she can't really just throw him out. She asked me to be a little more patient which I refused. I have found a new place to rent and I can move in this May. I think I'll focus on acquiring a property from now on and just do whatever I want and accept and refuse whoever I want in my home.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:38 PM
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Haha yeah I get it. But I've seen successful men and women finding what they want regardless if someone is a single parent or not. That was my experience, it highlights a bit why some people may be wary of single mothers, because of the difficult situations some of them put you through. That experience wouldn't prevent me from considering casually dating one, just that now I'll be very cautious and it'd take time before I consider a relationship with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:33 PM
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I don't think the father necessarily has to stay with the mother. A shitty relationship is better broken up than both stay together and continually hate/fight each other. That said, choosing a well rounded man as the father can definetely help greatly when you have children. I have multiple friends that have children and are separated but they're great parents. I think women that have kids with men that want nothing to do with that kid make a mistake. I know a few and their life could be better …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:40 AM
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Lol, I'm leaving her, you think I'll accept this shit? There are people that put other people in complicated situations. Doesn't mean you have to leave them the second it happens. I like to make sure my decision is the one I really want and that she understands it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:49 AM
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So because you don't know anyone that behave like this it means it doesn't really exist? Lmao! Do you think your female friends and acquintance are going to tell you everything they do wrong to their bf? I used to work at a place where we helped young people get their life back on track. Children from single parents most of the time and yeah some of the young women we had also were pregnant from a man that didn't want anything to do with that child. Shit happens and bad decisions happen. People …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:47 AM
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Yes great advice, single mothers will be vetted more toroughly now. Because in the end, I'll leave for a better life while that woman will struggle with an abusive ex, she chose that life though so maybe I'll present her to you so you could give her the same advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:24 PM
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I compared the idea that people need to say things in real life but it's hard to do, internet removes a lot of barriers. Same with racism and homophobia. A lot of people don't display their bigottry in real life but are unashamed to voice it online because internet "allows it". I have never seen women openly scream men are trash in real life aside from some low life women. Never seen it at the job, but online is another story. At some point you'll have to both realize and accept internet offers …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:20 PM
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You have a weird, maybe bad faith, way of analyzing what I said lmao. I don't know if you are trolling or not. Nobody said anything about putting single mothers in prison! I merely talked about the idea that you'll see more people voicing their concerns online than in real life. Doesn't mean the reasons behind the concerns has to be the same...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:33 PM
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I think a lot of this discussion can happen online but not in real life unless between two or more very trustworthy friends. Online discussion opened a door of people saying out loud what they think in silence. Doesn't mean what they think isn't true or doesn't happen just because they don't talk much about it in real life. Take "me too" as an example. How many women went out of their way to voice their experiences they couldn't find open ears in real life? Would you tell them that nobody is act…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:16 PM
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Yeah, kindness if often taken as a weakness because people think they can pull any kind of shit and the other person isn't gonna do anything. I rather stay the way I am but with people that actually value that trait instead of taking advantage of it. I decided to go. Time has ran out. I don't mind, it's her life, like my two exes, they decided to go with the hard times, then they'll be the only ones dealing with it. I think it'll take something very unusual for me to repeat the mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:45 PM
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The hatred comes from somewhere even if you don't like what or how people say it. For example, I dated 2 single mothers and two of my exes became single mothers. So I failed to convince my exes to have a child with me but they still wanted to have children apparently. One of them slept with a roommate she had after I left, that guy kept pressuring her and she did, got pregnant, decided to keep the kid. That guy didn't want anything to do with that kid, beat her and threw her out of the appartmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:00 PM
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Exactly this, I still can't believe people fall for this bs. Watch how and who they pick then learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:31 PM
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I agree 100% how depressing this shit is. Just that acting like incels are gonna be the worst for women while not talking about what's actually bad right now is weird imo. It's like we are "teaching" women to avoid one type and don't talk about the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:37 PM
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Incels aren't gonna create an Epstein Island.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:05 PM
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Lmao the FBI... People don't need to be incels to rape and be violent agains't women. The US elected a bunch of not incels that actually put harmful policies on women, one of them is a convicted felon. There are a lot of well regarded famous people that aren't incels by any means that do rape and hurt women. Where's the FBI on most of these crimes committed by non incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:02 PM
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Yes, that's why I always found it funny all these guys BSing about the wall at 30 and women's lives are over no man wants them...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:27 PM
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I'm past mid 40s and though I love women my age I think, in my opinion, women that are between 35 and 45 are the best looking women both physically and mentally since they also grew up past certain bs, are more fun to talk with and know their bodies better than when they were 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:07 AM
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That's exactly what they do though XD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:36 AM
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Ohh ok, but tbh that's the kind of thing you'd find in AITA... "My husband doesn't want to close the fridge door for the 300th time and I told him I want a divorce! AITA?" 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:41 PM
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Well you know what to ask to your next bf before engaging with them lmao... where do you find these men that can't take care of themselves... seems like every woman on this site is living with a toddler...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:24 PM
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So your husband is so dumb he can't figure out that leaving the fridge open is bad, you told him to not do it and he told you he will continue like a toddler... wow, this is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:03 PM
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Most of these is communication problems. Especially on AITA, people don't have all the details but are super quick to suggest they divorce. Like he left the seat up, divorce him, he's manipulating you...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:02 PM
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Dude, I'm not going to these places anymore lmao. At the same time, you don't have to believe me it's ok I don't mind. If you think my view of smallest thing is abuse, cheating, grape or any other serious thing you are mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:51 PM
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Why should I do that? Go out a little, whatch shows like The View or go to AITA and TwoX... you should get your answers there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:42 PM
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There are entire subreddits, tv and talk shows almost dedicated to give you examples of people advising you to breakup/divorce for the smallest thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:24 PM
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Abuse should never be justified and yes, anyone that suffers from abuse in their marriage should take necessary means to end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:22 PM
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I think what people talk about is that women are quick and proud to initiate divorces, openly talk about it on tv and other media and encourage other women to breakup/divorce for the smallest thing. Most sane people don't think women should stay in shitty marriages. The other thing imo is that women seem to never acknowledge they can be the problem in their marriage, men always are and looking in the mirror is frowned upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:15 PM
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I think this is very important. I was never really into women until I actually got a GF at 20. But even after we broke up some two year later, I never put much effort nor care about finding a gf, I was focused on doing the things I liked and couldn't care less if women liked it or not. In the end, if a woman likes what she sees she'll come to you and she'll like you for who you are, not for whatever mask you had to wear to impress a woman based on what society tells you you should be for women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:37 PM
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What am I proving exactly, you are the one proving you use men for easy meals. Glad I don't attrack this kind of people, damn!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:50 PM
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So you want men to pay for your dates otherwise you don't date them, and you don't have sex with men who pays for your dates or do you have sex only with men that pays you directly for the deed?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:43 PM
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Aren't women positionning themselves to be prostitutes then? Like, pay me to have sex with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:21 PM
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You know the info is right there on your government website. When I said I looked it up I did just that. There's also a calculator that helps you have an idea of how much you'd have to pay based on your income and how many children you'd have to pay for bar some other additional fees that may occur. The info is there for free, no need for tiktok, maybe you're the one that'd need to let go that pos of a website lmao. Also, if I had to fork the amount you do just in gas I'd be quick to find a new …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:24 PM
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What variety of subjects lmao... I drive 25min to go to work every day that makes 50min every day. I put 50$ every week in my car. I don't have an SUV, but not some small tiny car either. I'm kinda surprised at how much you spend just for gas, it's hilarious I and would seriously consider getting a car that drinks way less.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:57 PM
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Well I think you should try to lower some expanses like 400 just to drive that teen to school is quite ridiculous imo. How much is gas over there because if you have to drive to work and groceries and other shopping needs you end up paying what, more than a thousand just in gas? Please, make some sacrifices and try to lower that expanse alone. I'd go crazy if my gf had such kind of bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:11 PM
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I don't know where you live but here a man that makes 60k will probably have to fork around 1400$/months for child support for 2 kids. How much do you need to drive your kid around? The way some of you talk, even if the man was living with you both your income wouldn't be enough to even feed these children. Did you birth ogres or something, damn! Edit: I looked it up and it's closer to 1000$ than 1400$, my bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:58 PM
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That's an easy question, start by not demonizing a whole gender and/or race? Don't go out of your way to fight against things that you think isn't a problem to you but is to the other gender, like paternity fraud, suicide rates, draft, duluth model, false accusations, incarceration rates, court bias, lonelyness, just to name a few areas that some people fight to keep as is because it's not affecting them... no different than those men that think abortion should be illegal. Rewarding good behavio…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:22 PM
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I swear these people will blame anything but themselves... next, cats are actually mysogynists and exploit women's lonelyness to extract food and attention for them... cats are a product of patriarchy, I'm calling it!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:00 PM
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Middle school boys being addicted to porn and calling themselves incels? Lmao what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:58 PM
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Middle school boys are not incels now are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:29 PM
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Male and female teachers treat girls better in school but since you think male teachers are creepy the end result for boys is a non concern? Is that what you'd tell your son, nephew or any young relative that experience this kind of discrimination?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:45 PM
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Don't worry it happens 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:02 AM
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I'm actually agreeing with you. I think people that say they've never seen women make this kind of comment are acting in bad faith, generally blue pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:07 AM
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These people are chronically online and have never seen women make any deragotary comments towards men is hilarious and shows their inability to comment in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:14 PM
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Really? At the same time we put more focus on things that affects us and ignore what doesn't. Doesn't mean it's not there. It'd be like me telling women I've never seen men talk about women's weight or boob size. Only women talk about their weight and their breast size. At the same time, I've never seen men comment on another man telling them they must have a small penis, or call them out for being bald, or asking women to put their actual height on dating apps. I know about the 36 - 24 -36 bs s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:07 PM
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Men can only go with what women express publicly though. Women are quick to call out men on their immutable traits like penis size, height, baldness and finances calling them sub men and whatnot. Ofc at some point people think these are the only things women care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:45 PM
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I think by doing this women enforce in each other the idea that women can never be the source of problems they face, you deserve this, he made you do it, you go girl kinda rethoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:03 PM
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I know a lot of people, men and women, that act like since they have custody of their children they can decide whether the non custodial parent sees their children, how often and if supervised or not. Some parents will lead their children against the non custodial parent and courts will use it against them, parental alienation is a real thing and is perpetrated by both genders. I think too many see their kids as a "weapon" against the other and this needs to be talked and recognized more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 05:39 PM
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This is a weird take or just shows you know nothing about red pill. Red pill is mostly about understanding things and then navigating the way you want while knowing how things work. It doesn't mean if some red pill guru idiot says some bs you have to follow it. It means that dude uses the knowledge to act a certain way and it's his way of doing things. Science isn't the problem, the way you use or view science might be the problem. I delved into red pill stuff more than a decade ago and since th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 05:33 PM
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You have to think about all the investments men are pressured to early on that women often don't have to. If you had to always initiate you'd find it more irritating everytime you face rejections. If you almost always had to pay you'd feel more injustice when things don't work after you paid for dates. If you'd have to. If you always had to be the entertaining one, be it funnily and/or initiate conversations you'd think you always have to pull the may-to-be relationship. That pressure adds a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:46 PM
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This is the exact same argument BP use when talking about paternity fraud. "If a man has a kid with a woman that would commit fraud it's his own fault!". I do think people change and lie, it's not always that easy. But it's funny to see their own bs being used against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:44 AM
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Just because too many women qualify anything and everything as misoginy doesn't mean men have to do the same about misandry. It has a definition and other behavior also have their definitions. Misandry is the hatred of men. Building a hiearchy has nothing to do with misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:22 PM
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So you know nothing about how most school actually help girls and women? You don't know or you don't want it to be true?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:31 AM
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I never said they only succeed because of deliberate discrimination. I said they receive a lot of push in multiple ways, including deliberate discrimination and the results are showing in women faring better than men but we forget the young boys that are affected by all the push one received but not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:18 AM
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You can prove women have been encouraged to pursue their studies by receiving more funding, more help from government and organizations, by having quotas, by making school discriminate against boys by giving them lower marks, boys being more disciplined, by reforming school so it caters to girls more and so on. All those quite well documented. Can you prove men are fragile and upset that women do better, or are men calling out the double standards and how the issue is labeled a "non issue" by th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:09 AM
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Waste of time in my case. The things that makes women attracted to guys like me can't be shown on pictures so nahh. I'm kinda good looking but not that photogenic. I get way more results in real life than on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:30 PM
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It's good that where you live this is the norm. I live in Canada and there was a big case of multiple women abusing underage men in a childcare facility, one even got pregnant from it. These men were put in their care in that facility yet the news made sure to not name nor display any of the women's faces and specifically to not frame it as the R word or even say abuse. On the radio some even tried to say that these women were coerced by these underage men... Then not even 2 weeks after, a man, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:35 PM
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Absolutely not, the best way for me to leave a relationship is when it's unhealthy and if I have to become someone I don't like then I leave. These women are children that associate excitement with toxicity... not for me anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:23 AM
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Thank god that woman that approached me years ago didn't wait for me to be doing the exact same thing she was doing before she approached me lmao. Also, I may misunderstand cold approaching but even if I was reading in a bookstore to me someone casually talking to me is still cold approaching. Being in a setting both are in doesn't negate the idea that to some people, they don't want to be approached, regardless of what they are doing. And finally, respect should always be prioritized, but I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:44 AM
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It's like these "I'm a Billionnaire and I'll live the life of a homeless for a week!" kinda bs. The Billionnaire knows his situation will revert back to what it was and can see living like a homeless as an adventure that has an escape button. If he didn't know he'd revert back or didn't have that escape button he'd change how he sees things and start actually see things from a real homeless person. Some women are similar. They have tons of options and can afford to just brush off any of them and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:43 PM
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Could be cultural too. Cold approach worked for multiple of my friends and even me at some point I met one of my ex relationship when she approached me for something else but the conversation turned into something more interesting. I feel like we put so much emphasis on "cold approach is gross, women don't want to be disturbed in public, approaching women is creepy etc" in the last 15y that people are seeing cold approaching exactly as described. If we push the idea that dating apps are gross lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:33 PM
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Exactly this. There's all kinds of women and those that respond to bullshit don't interest me the slightest. I'm pretty sure women that are the most vocal are the ones that people talk mostly about. I also like my women a little reserved too and not those that put up a scene or are all over the place the minute they can. You can give more time to women that are true to their saying instead of just going with the one that gives you some attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:57 PM
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I agree with the idea that too many boys believe, because they are told, that being nice would get them attention from women. But this is false and that bs needs to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:02 AM
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You're the one making generalizations lmao. Just because you "give chances" to some people you don't find attractive and they end up being terrible doesn't mean people you find unattractive are necessarily terrible. At no point did I say hot people are terrible people, otherwise I'd find my gf to be a terrible person lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:01 AM
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if being nice and polite works it's because you found someone that responds positively to being nice and polite. Not because this works with women. Many women absolutely love rude men, others love reserved men, some love men that'll rough them up and so on. It's always about if you are what she likes. There's no universal way to do it and especially not being nice and polite otherwise society would put way more value in that. Women are people and people are varied, with positives and yes, negati…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:23 AM
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You don't give a chance to non hot guys lmao, you give a chance to terrible men and you use that as if non hot men are terrible. Do you think non hot people are terrible as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:17 AM
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Act like a normal person around women and you’d get treated nicer Really... this might help some people, always worked good for me but it isn't a requirement for women to treat you nicely. I see it everyday, bullies and abusive people that do in public still get plenty of attention. People should stop trying to correlate being "nice and polite" with success with women. It's a non factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:45 PM
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"Patriarchy is a system that puts and gives men power and exclude women from it." This is the first bs that all feminists run with and use as an excuse to shit on men. Very few feminists actually understand the nuances of power and that it has no gender, that most problems we have is a class problem and biology also has a very big grasp on who we are and how we interact with each other. But no feminists believe that. Even most women don't want to associate with feminists because of their bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:11 PM
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I don't judge women as a whole based on a few bad apples. I do judge feminists though since they all push the same bs ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:32 PM
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I'm never gonna generalize a whole group because of my bad experience with some people that share physical traits with said group.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:51 PM
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I think people are bombarded with mixed messaging from unhinged and hurt people and have a difficulty to sort the good and the bad. Too many will just side with whatever they are comfortable with what they perceive is the right message and add their bs to it. Women are told men are abusers and only want to oppress women and many just believe that. Men are told other things and will believe that. But the real problems men face sometimes are cause by themselves, sometimes by other men, sometimes b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:03 PM
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You're as credible as people thinking women in feminist subs like witches vs patriarchy or twox represent most women. They make claims and generalizations about women based on the most unhinged comments from these places there lmao. But yeah, because you've embraced this way of thinking doesn't make it true. The fact you're a mod is eye opening though. No need to participate in this hatred justification. Spending too much time in hateful spaces just turns you into another hateful person. I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:49 PM
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I'm a teacher in a very male centric field but our school also has female centric fields and other more even fields. I use Discord and YT. As a non white man I see tons of comments on YT and even here on Reddit about non white people but I would never assume most people think like that... because I'm not chronically online looking for the worst people. I think what you say just reinforces distrust in men from women and makes them think all men are vile and only want to get them without knowing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:59 PM
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You really believe when men are together they discuss raping and murdering?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:37 PM
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People are always fearless and "brave" when they know nothing of war.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:43 AM
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Women have been bragging about being able to do whatever men can but better and in heels... that'd actually be very entertaining to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:40 AM
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People like you make it impossible to have regular grounded discussions. It's like someone can't talk about a subject without thinking about themselves... you seem to have the "main character syndrome" and you push it on to others. I said the exact same thing that person talks about to my brother that was complaining the women he got with were just partying non serious women. I told him to pick better and not select women based on how few cloth they wore in clubs. Was I talking about him picking…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:00 PM
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Do you think knowing whether you'll get support from the may to be father from the get go would help you decide whether you'll keep the child or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:50 PM
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Both aren't as present or available as they used to though. Not that I really agree with OP, but our society needs more guidelines and sound advices that families and religion used to bring. Without the bs religion comes up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:00 PM
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Most men don't want the woman they're with to change much aside from obvious flaws that both should work on. The "work less hours" then complain you earn less money happened to me a few times, this is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:40 AM
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Would you rather no one gives the phone call? Also I'm 190lbs, if I was drowning I'm pretty sure most women wouldn't be able to carry me out of water.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:12 PM
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Women don't necessarily need to throw themselves out there to be part of the help you received. It's rarely a one or two person effort, especially in catastrophes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:07 PM
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You to assume unless you live something then it doesn't happen... Edit: you also seem to assume women are the ones being treated unfairly in false accusations... maybe because they're more represented in false accusers, but I don't care the gender of who does the accusations. People need to stop this bs, false accusations do exist, in more numbers than reported, by people you may even know... Do you think your friend would brag about raping someone? I don't think someone would brag about destroy…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:06 AM
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So do you think any one on one meeting is stupid and shady? Even when both are adults? Dang, please tell that to mme. Sandberg that complained women were losing by not having these meetings with men lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:31 AM
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What part of higher education we're teaching to adults you don't understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:29 AM
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Not all that happen in schools has media coverage. Especially since they try to protect the accuser most of the time. I'm pretty sure you're just looking into dismissing what I wrote. Like, this could never happen lmao. Schools often have internal investigators for such minor things. I live in Quebec, Canada. I believe even the US universities have some sort of internal investigation teams. Do you believe if you don't see it in the news then it means it never happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:21 AM
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I teach in higher education, not to high school so all our students are adults. It was perfectly normal for teachers to have one on one meetings. Have you been to university? I benefitted from that when I was a student myself. Teachers even have specific schedules for meetings... I don't know why you think this is weird, if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:16 AM
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Why? You want to visit me? Or maybe you don't believe these do happen more and more? Do you also work in schools? Maybe you can share your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:41 AM
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The fear of false accusation just grows with the prevalence of them. For example, in higher education, where I teach, there was always meetings with students one on one no matter the student. When metoo occured, the school took action, zero tolerance and all teachers accused wouldn't be supported by the school. To some degree I agree schools should do what they can to help victims of sexual abuse. In the last 3 years though, there have been 3 false accusations, all towards male teachers. One act…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:19 AM
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Lmao, they are the victims of everything cry me a river. Everyone adopted the victim mentality in this days and age and it's a cancer from all angles. You just like to focus on one simple thing and act like that the only thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:33 AM
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I'm pretty sure your reality consists of watching tv and some biased internet lmao... walking around you see cops being incarcerated left and right for their crimes? You see some politicians too? You see organized crime? Yeah thought so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 10:49 PM
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don’t ask me to try something because you saw a pornstar do it. I am not a pornstar. This is similar to women asking or comparing their current bf to do things or be like how their multiple past bf did or were. I'm not your past bf, stop comparing me to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:39 PM
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Do poorer areas have a higher crime rate? Where I'm from it's exactly that, but it doesn't mean the richer places don't shelter criminals, they often do it in a different way and get away with it, or they bribe the cops, which makes them and the cops criminals. Are cops counted in the crimes they do most of the time? Are certain people facing more scrutiny and face more incarceration rate for the exact same "crimes" other do (like possessing marijuana) in some countries? Are rich criminals able …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:02 PM
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Just say you're racist dude. No ethnicity doesn't do crimes when under financial pressure, lack of education and struggle in many different ways. And crime can take so many forms. Even those at the top do commit crime? Or do you believe crimes only count when someone is poor and dark skinned? Do you think people in the Yakuza, Italian Mafia, lots of politicians aren't criminals? GTFO!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:55 PM
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Seems like that's what you're pushing for!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:49 PM
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Damn, I think it's first time I agree with a blue piller. I'd also add that more strict policies and enforcement should be put in place for men who agreed to have a child and changed their mind later. You had the option to opt out, now it's too late, take care of the child financially, it's your responsibility and you agreed to it. Also men shouldn't be held responsible for said child if the pregnancy was hidden to him. Women should always be the ones deciding whether they continue with a pregna…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:51 AM
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It has nothing to do with ethnicities lmao, upbringning, access to education, access to roof, food and so on will play a huge role in aggression far more than ethnicities. Also men commit more crimes because men also do more things that require force and temerity. It's the same reason more men are willing to attach pieces of wood and curtains to their back and jumping off of cliffs thinking they'll fly, or they jump in water with crocodiles to study them, or become firefighters. Crime is another…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:39 AM
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I do think we shouldn't get rid of abortion. But I think abortions shouldn't occur past 5-6 months unless there's an actual threat to the woman's life. I don't believe in the rethoric of clump of cells, tumor, regular medical procedure because it's completely different from regular procedures. Unless you think you can get pregnant the same as you catch any disease, which is dehumanizing and stupid imo. Pregnancy is a beautiful thing. It's the result of life, not some disease like feminism try to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:46 AM
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What is stopping someone from using this logic to ban condoms and pills? Isn't that what some people in the US want to pull? Do you agree with this? I don't think this is brilliant and will only set back both men and women. The risks are known before the act of sex. I think it sucks that women can die from medical complications from pregnancies. I'm not going to urge the government to execute men who impregnated these women out of fairness. Hmm... didn't stop us from finding ways to help women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:01 AM
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Are you trying to tell her that she might have a role in her own life when things don't go as she wants it? She thinks she doesn't need to learn nor improve anything herself, the men she's with need to do the work or she finds someone else. Why communicate? Men have to read minds and know everything from the get go...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:12 PM
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I think abortion is to prevent a child from being born in case contraception didn't work and it's beneficial for both men and women when they agree. But when they disagree it's up to the woman to decide whether a man, without his consent, will be a father or not. Unless you say as soon as men decide to have sex then they decide to be a parent then I think we should apply the same to women. I think we should not get rid of abortion. But placing all decisions in the hands of women wether the man t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:01 PM
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Blaming the other has no gender though, imagine if men also had university degrees that's dedicated in blaming everything on women... the internet just likes the divides and people participate in it voluntarily, often without even realizing they're part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:01 PM
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That's not true, fewer options for men is what creates resentment and makes them turn to alternative solutions. A college degree has no weight if it doesn't provides a good career. Some dude that doesn't have a higher education but is able to live a good life isn't gonna start anything more than a dude with a Bachelor is a field that leads nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 08:59 PM
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Isn't that one of the main reasons women divorce while men is often because the woman is sick or crippled? She's just proving the stats. No surprises here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 08:24 PM
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That's what feminists and blue pillers do about men. They come up with bogus reasons as to why men do things and act like that's the reality... I understand why she's amused by people telling her what her thoughts are and how her body function, men live this every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 08:20 PM
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And they'd still expect those men to build, fix and maintain society and keep doing the dirty, dangerous, unpleasant yet vital jobs.
/r/MensRights02/01/25 03:39 PM
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Hmm that's true though. Men offer solutions instead of allowing women to just vent, you just flipped the script. Just shows how different our approaches are regarding problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:55 AM
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"Which is why I encourage all women to start insisting on brainstorming solutions instead of just allowing men to vent. When they get annoyed, act genuinely shocked and confused." Lmao... hope you suggest the same for women. What a sorry state we are to think this is useful advices 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:34 AM
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Very true most of the time. I also forgot that they get weirded out by the problem and you have to comfort them instead of finding a solution for your own problem. Other times they frame it as whatever your problem is, it's your fault and you should figure it out by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:14 AM
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Women often complain men offer them solutions instead of just hearing them out. And men complain women don't offer useful advices or solutions... This isn't coming out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:12 AM
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In my experience, most women's solutions to men's problems or concerns aren't really solutions, often just to wave away the problem or didn't think deeply about the actual problem or worse, offer a solution that benefits her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 08:36 PM
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It was also people with penises that created roe vs wade. So by your logic, men are the ones that do good thing for women... or are you gonna say they aren't the same people with penises that wanted to repeal it? Just say you want to generalize men for bad things but not for good things...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:28 PM
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Hey have a merry christmas to you all.
/r/MensRights25/12/24 04:02 AM
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Exactly why giving the choice to men is important. A whoopsie from a man isn't the same as a whoopsie from a woman. Same as being victim of SA. Men in these cases is always subject to be a parent while he didn't consent to all situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:03 AM
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wouldn't that be rape? That woman can always abort. A man that was raped can't abort and with current laws he's subject to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:27 AM
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Or... or... wait for it... instead of going to war and send men to die for no reason... remove the tax that's put on men or just apply that tax to everyone, men and women equally... why should women be exempted from being conscripted, from doing mandatory military services and from that tax at the same time? Going to war is rarely the solution, especially for something like a tax.
/r/MensRights22/12/24 03:41 PM
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Dude, I can find countless videos, publications and media channels that complain about white men this, white men that. I'm not white myself but I always found that witch hunting about white men to be pretty stupid and it would backfire at some point. I'm absolutely not trying to jump on that hateful bandwagon. But it doesn't mean I can't recognize the onslaught of "this is woke bs" aimed at every piece of media now a days. You don't want to recognize this then fine. Doesn't mean it's not there. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:59 PM
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Nahh man, I have my share of hating race/gender swapping. But those that complain the most do when they see the main character isn't a white male and quickly call it the DEI oppression. Like the creator was forced to use a black man, a woman (of any race), a gay person etc etc. They'll quickly associate a character and a movie success to the gender or race. Like I said it's as stupid as those that want to portray the queen of the Vikings as a strong black woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:39 PM
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Is it really all because of their sex? Are women privileged in any way? If they are, are they a problem that needs to be taken care of?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:22 PM
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You should read it. Some women doing better doesn't mean everyone is. This is funny as feminism tends to believe exactly that but for men, all men are privileged, men are given a voice and top jobs because they're men, men benefit from patriarchy etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:16 PM
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This is BS and you didn't even try to understand my comment. You speak of things that needs time to realize through viewship of said media. You can't tell if something is "woke BS" by just seeing a woman as a main character (Fable trailer isn't showing a white man... omg must be woke BS... even though you will be able to chose...) but it doesn't prevent the anti-woke mob from calling it out or complain the woman isn't a sexy porn star model. These people must hate life altogether as most women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:51 PM
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Though I agree with some of what you say I was discussing with an anti-woke person not too long ago and told him that a lot of movies that are well regarded in the past wouldn't be appreciated today because of the extreme rhetoric. Imagine a movie like Aliens - "Its a woman doing what marines couldn't do! This is woke bullshit!" Terminator - "A man has to put his life in danger to save a woman because she's sooo important her child will save humanity! This is woke bullshit!" Kill Bill - "A woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:16 PM
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This position can backfire big time though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:39 PM
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It's a "cLuMp of CelLs" when she's told she is murdering her child by aborting. It's a child when men want to financially opt out and suddenly she can't abort because it'd be murdering her child... funny how that goes. I think men should be given a window of three months to financially abort and the woman should be able to abort until 5 months. But ultimately since it's a two people responsibility, both should have a say in whether they want this kid or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:25 PM
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And that's funny because they almost never participate in wars. It's like they tax men because they're not sending them to wars lmao.
/r/MensRights20/12/24 01:48 AM
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At the same time they have people telling them sex work is just work and they can do whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:42 AM
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Very true, but just because you align yourself with a group doesn't mean you follow that groups basic rules. Or worse, you think you follow a virtuous group but you don't know much about what they do that is harmful to others or you enable that harmful behavior by ignoring them. Feminism is no different. It even has studies to find new ways to label anything that men do as bad you can see them in most feminist subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:17 PM
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Different people but all feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:49 PM
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We are led to be more cautious towards each other today than ever though. Women have that bear thing and men have that Pence rule, both are taking precautions for things that they think will invariably happen to them because of internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:48 PM
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Women are not a monolith, some are more impressionable than others unless you believe only men can suffer from bad influences and women can't lmao! Also, some porn producer in the 80s said there's never an end to women turning 18 throwing themselves in that industry and most of them have role models that do porn or they've been abused. That was the 80s, you think today is any different and not worse, with social media? Yeah, no!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:36 PM
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I feel you on showing yourself while doing activities. Some of my best pictures are when I'm out somewhere with my backpack hiking or doing something fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:08 PM
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Dating apps mostly show if you're photogenic, that you can manipulate pictures, that you can use filters, you can use makeup, or that you can copy paste someone's bio... but if there's one important thing dating apps don't do is showing who you really are, your voice, your eyes, your behavior and so on. I have no problem meeting and finding gf in real life, mostly because of how I am and I'm not ugly ofc. But on dating apps I have no success at all, never had and I think it's because unless you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:09 PM
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I think it's a reverse to women saying men are privileged and have most things handed to them for being males.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:17 PM
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Women can go then. I'm not for a draft. If most people don't want to fight for their country then it needs to cease to exist. Why send people that don't want to fight and throw away their lives on the frontline?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:17 AM
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Why not draft women instead of "gutless worms"? A woman can do whatever a man can, be better at it, and in heels!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:50 AM
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The suffrage movement was split by the Great War. Most often remembered are the pacifists. But the militant history of feminist war supporters in Britain, and the audacity of the 'White Feather Girls' who shamed young men into enlisting, must also be remembered in this centenary year. https://www.opendemocracy.net/en/5050/white-feather-girls-womens-militarism-in-uk/ Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_feather
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:35 AM
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You distributing those white feathers I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:01 AM
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Let's not act like women and most feminists are lined up to be providers to men that don't provide. Similar to people saying women like when men open up... yeah what two or three women? The rest despise men opening up, they even came up with the fanfare that is "we are not your therapists" so no emotional support, but you better do it for me. "Women are becoming the sole providers for their family" is an internet bs thing. Most women want men that make more than them, most women don't want child…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 08:57 PM
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It means that women do want genuine nice guys Nahh I don't think this is true for attraction. It can be true for a long term relationship and even then. Many women leave their husband or boyfriends because they are too gentle, these women need to be ruffled a little and find happiness in a disordered person. Many unstable men are in relationships and many times women realize these men aren't good men only once they have kids, then they leave and expect the "good guys" to take care of them and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 08:12 PM
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Exactly... they hate the idea that feminism as a whole can be blamed for anything and will say feminism can be different from one person to another so if there's blame to put on it's to that specific person... but will gladly say something isn't true feminism in a heart beat. You explained it well and it's frustrating. Meanwhile, they speak as if men were a monolith, not like each men are their own individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:00 PM
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Yeah let's laugh about it!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 02:32 AM
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I don't think people want to necessarily want to do good only to have sex. They want to have a relationship and in order to maximize their chances people tell them they should be nice, a good person, treat women right etx. Which doesn't work for everyone since those that absolutely don't treat women right, have bad temper, even beat them are more successuf than those who think being a good person will work. The messaging is the problem imo and more and more people are adopting the "look what the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:15 PM
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Funny, I dated a woman back in 2015 that was telling me the goal was to destroy the nuclear family because this structure puts men on top. I always thought it was only about a man and a woman having children but apparently it's a tool used by the patriarchy to oppress women. You can say almost 10y later we have more and more single parent family than ever... seems they're winning /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 12:04 AM
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Ahh also delusional, I didn't think about it, thanks... I'm taking notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:23 PM
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Ohh and with this one we should add denial... keep it up, we're gonna win!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:57 PM
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Seeing your comment I think we should add deflection...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:31 PM
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I think the opposite. It's always how you talk about your job that makes a difference, unless you do OF or that weird NPC licking screens bs. I used to teach to younger students and talking about my job could go two ways. Either I speak of children and people think I'm a pedo or I speak of the love I have to help the younger generation grow and how I can make a difference in their lives. I was never ashamed to teach to kids but it's heavily associated with women and pedos so I had to frame it pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:21 PM
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Why are you your pill? Because I'm more in between than not! Has your pill changed over your lifetime? Yes, from red to purple. Regarding question #2, why? I started red then didn't like some of the extreme takes and ideas redpillers have sometimes. Never blue though as I feel they're mostly delusional and seem to hate men as a whole and will jump through hoops to always make sure women never lose or even consider rethinking their own behavior, even if it's for their own benefit. Are you open to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:49 PM
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I have the exact same sentiment about blue pill. In the end I prefer purple as I can't align with either but mostly with blue, I don't think either women nor men are the evil and don't feel compelled to defend one at all cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:34 PM
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Candace Owens also has clueless takes at times but I really like still. She's just to religious for me hehe! Feminists and the left act like their way is the only way and if you have criticism for how they do things it's because: "you're against equality between men and women", "you are racist/homophobic/sexist", "you like Andrew Tate and Donald Trump"... I'm pretty sure if debating was in their moto, there would be more tame discussions and criticism of both rather than mostly the extremes comi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:41 PM
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Someone in another discussion was talking about how the road to college starts at preschool and depending on how you fare and how you view school when you're young will greatly affect whether you'll go to college later. I used to teach to secondary grade schools (13 to 17) and from my experience, the difference, at least here in Canada, between men and women accelerates at that stage. We had all sorts of program to convince teens to not drop out and boys were over represented in these programs, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:13 PM
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At the same time any male that critiques feminism is labeled a misogynist no matter the critique. Hell I've seen people say Aba and Preach be misogynists because they called out some feminist rhetoric a few years ago. The Whatever podcast shouldn't be viewed as anything positive imo. They have very weird, reductive and damaging takes and their guests are mostly women that think using their brain instead of their boobs and ass is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:30 PM
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I'm in my 40s and in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:23 AM
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If it was easy everyone would do it and succeed. Changing diet also requires changing your habits like putting down the fork and start doing more exercises. It's been 5y already and I'm more conscious of my weight than I was before I lost the weight I wasn't happy I gained. You absolutely have to do the work for it to work ofc and yes, restrain with a quantity of certain food and habits will get you there for life, unless you have an external problem with medication for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:02 PM
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The only way I lost 30 pounds in 3 months was specifically because I looked at the calories I was eating, I also did fasting and since I was obsessed with calories it became an habit and I never took it back. I wasn't that big, 210lbs and lowered to 180lbs - 175lbs, 5'9, I'm in great shape. Changing my diet, exercising more and yes, putting down the fork did the trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 09:40 PM
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it's moderators removing posts from psychos "of selected groups". FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:03 PM
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No, and I wasn't there when he ate, he might have had a friend over I don't know. But like I said, I don't need everything to be pristine clean at every given time or I will start complaining. Also why are you focusing on this one tiny example? I lived with this guy for 2 years and our apartment wasn't an unliving mess. My gf doesn't do the dishes immediately after she and her kid ate, sometimes I come from work and the dishes haven't been done. If I need some I just clean it, she thanks me and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:07 PM
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When you say extended period of time you don't how long it is. For example, if it's there for multiple days then ofc it's a problem but it wasn't the case, just there a few hours and then he cleaned everything. I don't need to be behind people scrutinizing their every moves and nag them as soon as I don't see them do things I, myself, find irritating. It wouldn't serve me any good in the long run, some of you need to relax and stop acting like your way of doing things is the only acceptable way …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:00 PM
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I'm not sure about that. I think a good relationship requires both partners to do some concessions and work together to make things work, but only if they value each other. But one thing we'll agree on is that some people will never be satisfied with the other partner doing what they were asked for and will always find something new to complain about and will think this is good communication like many here think nagging is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:15 PM
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Why would it be a woman's responsibility and not both partner's?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:51 PM
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Maintaining a good relationship requires work yes. I think today's people approach relationships like they're in a movie where things all fall in place when and how they want it and if it doesn't then it's because the other person is doing something wrong. I think I've seen someone call it "The Main Character Syndrome" or something similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:03 PM
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I'll copy part of a reply I gave to someone else in this thread. The way my father got us into doing chores when I was young was give us incentives and compliments and tricks to get better at doing chores, no nagging necessary. For example, he would tell us you can watch cartoons when the dishes are done. We did them and he complimented us when we did and reminded us and others how clean the house was because of our great work. Sometimes we even got tricks to do it more efficiently. It became an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:57 PM
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Hundred percent yes. I wouldn't want to have sex with someone that needs to be asked multiple times. Where's the fun and loving in that? I've also heard many times that dead bedrooms can happen to either men or women so it's not a gender specific problem. Men talk more about it though. Like women talk more about doing chores, but a lot of women themselves can't be bothered to clean their houses while the husband does. We always frame things like women do this, men do that while it's people do th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:35 PM
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Nagging is repeatedly telling someone to do things you want when you want it being done for a prolonged period of time (see months/years) regardless if it needs to be done at the time or at all. Some people seem to think nagging is the same as asking once or twice and always about things that can be harmful, this is just to justify nagging. People don't complain about being asked to do things. But they complain about being asked in a certain way (with negative or reductive language), continuousl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:28 PM
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I actually like your reply because you say one important thing about nagging and it's about when "I" want things to be done so "I" can manage "my" time (I'm not talking about you btw). I said in another reply that people all have their threshold for things to be done and it's important to discuss these properly. Nagging will only result in the person closing themselves and wanting to do other things than what's being asked. Managing our time is important, especially in a relationship. Communicat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:08 PM
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Not at all. What I'm saying is there are other ways to ask things than nag your partner. Would you say nagging is good in all circumstances where you want things to be done? For example at work, at school from your teachers, politicians from the citizens and so on? Do you think a nagging society would get along well? If not then why are we assuming it's good for relationships? If you do think it'd be good for society then tell me where you live so I don't end up in that place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:56 PM
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You speak of nagging like it's only about specific chores like laundry or dishes but it's more than that and in the long run, like poking, becomes abuse. We all have a different threshold for how things need to be done. Two neighbors aren't gonna cut their grass once it starts to reach a certain height at the exact same time. For one it's two centimeters while for the other it'll be 3. Would you say the one that doesn't feel 3cm is acceptable in the right to nag the other because the grass is to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:49 PM
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The way my father got us into doing chores when I was young was give us incentives and compliments and tricks to get better at doing chores, no nagging necessary. For example, he would tell us you can watch cartoons when the dishes are done. We did them and he complimented us when we did and reminded us and others how clean the house was because of our great work. Sometimes we even got tricks to do it more efficiently. It became an habit. I'm doing my share of chores and don't think nagging is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:35 PM
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Nice, can you give examples where it's the woman that doesn't do what she's "supposed" other than sex and is in the wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:27 PM
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So should we all start using nagging then? I don't think there aren't other ways to persuade someone to do something other than that. Damn!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:25 PM
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Exactly, but in his example they stay and nag instead of leaving. The moment I have to nag my partner because I'm constantly frustrated about them not doing what I want is the moment I'll rethink this relationship. I think it's ok to recognize when we get in a place where we get frustrated for the simplest thing. Teaching has similar problems. If I have to scream to my students because they don't do what I want them to then maybe that job isn't for me and I don't think screaming does myself any …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:22 PM
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Nagging is not being asked once or twice to do what should be done. Nagging is repeatedly being told things that the person that nags wants, not necessarily needs to be done or at the time that person needs it being done for a prolonged time, see multiple months/years. For example if I poke you once or twice it's not that bad, but if I poke you multiple times for many years at some point you will snap and call me for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:17 PM
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I don't understand what you're saying... there's no logic in having kids from men that want nothing to do with you and the kids that resulted in both having sex. I think in case of having kids it should be between two consenting partners... many men have nothing to offer still have kids, multiple of them many times... I also wouldn't think there are no men worth having kids with, that'd be a weird ass take.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:08 PM
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Women have more kids with men that want nothing to do with them than ever though. Single mothers are on the rise and from multiple baby daddies. I think women are trapped by mixed messaging they receive from society where they should want and idealize independence from men and are told being with a man is slavery while part of their biological imperative tells them to procreate which they do but at the cost of being a single mother. They're still told they can have it all and they'll be happy be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 01:57 PM
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I think that's the thing, internet has become the biggest socialization place for too many people. In their defense, our society puts more value in internet meetings than in real life where women don't want to be bothered anywhere, not a the job, not at school, not in the street, not in most venues, not even in clubs. Anyway that's another topic. On internet you see women say they don't cook, they don't clean, they're not doing any emotional support, they deserve it all, they make their own mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 01:45 PM
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There have been multiple threads about that and all of them became a shit show because too many women and blue pillers think asking for a paternity test is gross and warrants a divorce. Not just on PPD, almost anywhere there is always a huge backlash against it and divorce seems to be accepted as a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:13 PM
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Thanks for this
/r/MensRights04/12/24 01:36 PM
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You speak of male birth control options like there's some pill you can get from doctors like women do. If it's true, why doesn't anyone know about this? I think if it was available, it would be plastered everywhere like they do with so many medication and how women's birth control are up in tv ads sometimes.
/r/MensRights04/12/24 04:09 AM
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I think one thing people hate is that when men have a biological advantage we rally and jump through hoops to help women by creating policies, quotas, lowering standards etc... But we can't try to help when the reverse is true. Men suck it up. I will always say, men should have a window to opt out. That window should be way before it's too late for women to abort. If a man wasn't aware a child is about to be born because it was kept secret from him then he is not liable to pay child support. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:52 AM
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Imo social media poison people's mind especially in dating. Both men and women have shit people using their bad experiences or bad knowledge of the opposite sex as dating advices. There are "dating gurus" that act like they know what should be accepted and what shouldn't. Icks is an example. Humans are so much more than just a picture and some written words on a screen, there are countless features you may like about someone that you can't see on a profile on a screen like someone voice, their s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:09 PM
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But they don't... most of the time they blame it on how men are this and that instead of acknowledging they made poor choices and decisions. "Men need to change so whatever I choose should be the good choice!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:33 AM
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Isn't that what you just did? People seem so adamant that men's struggles in dating are very few and mostly of their own bringning! Any struggle you may think that isn't of their own bringning?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:12 PM
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It's not unethical of him, it's ignorant I believe. He might be missing a lot of info or is being swayed by rhetoric online or elsewhere. Thanks for calling me an atrocious human being for actually supporting my family members. But ehh people that are hurt, hurt people!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:08 PM
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Is that it? So it's easy peazy dating as a man right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:05 PM
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Well I understand better now. But I don't consider my family members to be strangers. I will always support them, and because I do so they'll always support me. Anyway, not all families are the same I agree. Glad you're not my sister lol, you make me realise how much I love them because of who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:46 PM
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What are men's dating problems according to you? If I may ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:41 PM
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My lil bro went to a similar phase when our parents divorced back in the 90s. Granted they raised well adjusted people so he got a lot of support from his bro and sisters. We are all part of people's good fortune and also downward spiraling. I said it multiple times, people want to act like they aren't part of the problem but they are. You talking ill of your brother and not offering support because "he's an adult" is part of the problem. When my sister was in a very depressed state because her …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:31 PM
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Are those illustrated in the OPs? Surely she would talk more about those than blaming the guy for bringning her to a dinner she finds cliché... you sound like how old parents talk about going to school barefoot in the snow at 7...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:49 PM
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Can the same be said about why women don't approach? Rejection shouldn't be a problem for you guys since your chances of success is dwarfing men's. Ohh you think it can be dangerous for you to approach so it's better to let men do the approach like it's less dangerous? I've seen multiple interviews asking women if they like rejection, most of them said they feel it's soul crushing and they are glad they don't necessarily have to approach. Most of them end up saying it suskc for men though. But l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:36 PM
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"We want equality for everyone, but everyone really means a select few!"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:45 PM
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Yeah grab those internet points...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:36 AM
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I've done all of them and met hundreds of people throughout the years and never felt unsafe meeting even men alone. But many times I've been warned about bears and even mountain lions. I'm glad I never encountered bears though. People are just pitting men against women continually for some internet points. This gender war is a cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:04 AM
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Do you think that psychological abuse can inflict other kinds of violence to those who suffer from it? Like hating themselves, commiting violence on themselves or worst end up ending their lives? Imo violence is violence, I'm not trying to put one above the other and act like one isn't that bad. I rather my friend punch me in the face so I immediately know I want nothing to do with them. Being poked slowly infiltrates your mind and can lead to multiple worst outcome, especially if you trust that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:39 PM
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May I ask, do you think psychological abuse can lead to worse outcome for the person that does psychological abuse? For example, if I poke someone hundreds of times is it really unconceivable for me to think the person I poke might retaliate with something other than just a poke? The problem wasn't the actual poke, it was the hundreads of pokes which created psychological disarray in the person that did retaliate. What you are doing is look at the retaliation and compare it to a single poke and,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:19 PM
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Before I was a teacher my job was to work with underage people that lived through abuse and once teens they quit school, were taking drugs, didn't work and were living on wellfare. My job was to help them put some sense in their lives. What I learned and hated then was how much of them were abused by their mother. Most because they lived only with their mother, no father in the picture. Many had been abused by a step father, very few by a step mother and others by both parents or often by the fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:55 AM
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This is funny, they perfectly call out how statistics can't be trusted when talking about how many men are convicted for rape but somehow we should all be blindly trusting stats regarding anything that incriminate men but not women... clown world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:14 AM
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No, I don't see women committing violence at all. This sums up how bad faith you can be lmao. Like the poster above you said, you see it as funny and don't think it's violence. But this is pure blue pill. Also, when you're not the target of a problem you don't think it's a problem!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:10 AM
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Men seem to care since I've never seen women, even less feminists try to bring awareness to child abuse perpetrated by women. If anything, they'll always deflect to some stats that shows how men abuse women and redirect the conversation to men bad, women victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:02 AM
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It's funny how they assume if women have been in DV it's because of their past relationship with men. Like men turned them to lesbians or a relationship with men can't be without DV and them turning lesbians fixes everything like the press of a button... these people can't discuss in good faith. "Men bad, women angels!" is in their DNA and they need to say it in all kinds of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:38 PM
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True, which I don't believe at all. But making blanket generalization is always cringe whether you try to paint a group with a negative brush or a positive brush.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:56 PM
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You mean like men aren't also the same? I fully agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:05 PM
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You date them and have their children instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:23 AM
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Yeah the height thing is dumb, some online dating apps require men to prove their height apparently which is design to disqualify men under a certain height. I think people are more and more in need to meet other people and interact in real life and be less glued to their cellphone. I see the younger generation trying to undo the shit they're being raised in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:15 AM
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Like I said there's a way to behave in public. A person in a rush will not give you the time of day, a person that looks closed won't either. Staring and so on will not do. We spend too much time highlighting and complaining about what not to do we don't spend enough time speaking positively about interacting with people on both ends. Even talking here I may look like I want men to go out there and harrass women but that's not it at all. It's difficult to say it properly online and because Engli…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:46 PM
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Don't listen to women when they say: don't approach us at the store, at the job, at school, on the street, in the clubs, during activities, don't approach us blablabla. I met 2 girls online in my life and both were nut jobs. Most relationships I had, including the one I'm in I met them in person while doing mundane things, even while shopping. There are so many disqualifiers online that it's very difficult to even talk to someone. Women want tall men online, I'm 5'9 yet in real life they always …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:14 PM
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Well if that's all you see then no wonder you fail to grasp why some women keep failing in finding a partner that values commitment 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:08 AM
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Reread the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:55 PM
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The topic is about women complaining the men they are dating don't want commitment it's not about men wanting women to change lmao. Everyone tells you if women want commitment out of their dating matches they need to start dating those that want commitment. You seem to conflate unattractive men with men that want to commit to relationships... which would answer why women don't get what they want lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:42 PM
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The original question is about women having similar dating issues with long term commitment from the men they chose. You tried to flip this as if men are the ones that need to change because these women can't find commitment. I replied that if women really wanted commitment, they'd value traits that make men commit to relationships. You see it as, we women have problems with dating so men need to change. I see it as these women don't know how to keep nor find men that want commitment, maybe beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:23 PM
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Women that want long term relationships value ltr qualities in the men they date and start investing time and emotion in that relationship. Other women conflate having sex with he want me long term so that's all I have to give to retain him...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:58 PM
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You speak like there is no other option than virgin shame men lmao. Like, he can hire a hooker, lose his virginity and then what? He becomes blameless?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:36 PM
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You speak like there is no other option than virgin shame men lmao. Like, he can hire a hooker, lose his virginity and then what? He becomes blameless?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:36 PM
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See this like if you think someone is being a POS and you try to attack them by telling them they're a POS and fat. Associating bad behavior to some traits will backfire most of the time, other people would see your comment and would think you associate being a POS with being fat unless you take time to always specify that's not what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:28 PM
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Does humiliation work though? I think the only thing that really does work is men looking at what works for other men and try to mimic the behavior. Hence why many say don't listen to what women say, watch what they do!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:20 PM
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The last paragraph looks cringy yes but it happens. I teach in higher education and after metoo, around 2018 there was a teacher that did routine checks with students one on one. He ended up giving a negative mark on one female student and she was having none of it. She claimed he was giving her sexist comments and gave her negative marks just because he didn't like her, though no one in her class liked her. There ensued an investigation, they interviewed multiple students and teachers, me inclu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:39 PM
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Ofc we should always put the children's interest and wellbeing first. But acting like a child needs so much money otherwise they're not being raised right is bogus imo. There are countless children in rich families that commit suicide, crimes, end up in prostitution, die of drug abuse and so on. My last job was riddled with them. Money didn't do jack shit for them. There are also a ton of rich people that don't do anything good for society either while some other less rich kids create or invent …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:56 AM
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It isn't imo but men will date women off all physical representation, be skinny or fat while the same can't be said about status. The stats are there, you can refute them as much as you want though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:53 PM
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Lmao I need to caption this... now 2X has a majority of men speaking so if there is anything wrong with their messaging it's men's fault. This is pure gold!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:42 PM
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What is a poor person exactly? If everyone is a millionaire, those in the single digits will be considered poor. Can people be kept poor? Are poor people not human so it's ok to constraint their natural ability and willingness to have offspring? What's next, put poor people in prison for being poor? Ohh wait!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:26 PM
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It's funny because this just proves TRP once again that women value status more than the actual person they say they do. In order to find "love" men have to continually grind the ladders and get richer and richer otherwise they end up invisible and unsuitable to date. It's hard to refute these stats and comments from women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:22 PM
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Ofc if you equate having sex with men to rape it's better you refrain yourself from it and men are better off too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:08 PM
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I get your point though I never implied weight disorders aren't multi facetted on the contrary, I also agree someone has the right to leave someone because they no longer find them attractive or some body parts don't function how they like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:17 PM
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Dudette, sexual dysfunction can be caused by various factors. Addiction to porn may be one it doesn't mean it's the only one and men always have control over this thing. You just prove you know jack about it but run with the only one you know and try to tell men how their body work...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:02 PM
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Says a woman that has no penis tells men how it works. "Your body my knowledge!".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:49 PM
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Men and women don't lose nor gain fat the same way and isn't distributed the same way either. People are also different and the simple calories in and out isn't the only factor in maintaining a healthy weight. That said, a lot of people rely on "fatphobia" to not take better care of themselves. I wouldn't like my partner to gain so much weight I don't find them attractive. Imo it's indicative of other problems and the beginning of a lifestyle I don't want to partake in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:25 PM
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Lmao, one has control over while the other does not so let's talk like both can be compared.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:19 PM
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Lmao you think without their woman men are so useless they would bask in their own filth? The length some men go to kiss women's ass always reaches new heights. Did she picked you yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:20 AM
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Yep and it's so much more apparent now when you go to feminist subs or twox the quantity of posts that display hatred towards men while ignoring half of those that voted Trump were women and especially white women. The day they recognize this much division isn't serving anyone's cause maybe they'll change their tactic. Never seen anyone say they vote for Kamala because of the policies she and the Dems put forward, it was mostly against Trump and about anything else but policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:01 PM
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What you just said is exactly what Democrates counted on, vibes and symbols rather than actual policies. I think the left is too caught up in the idea there's a powerful boogey man that needs to be taken down because it oppresses women and it does so by giving men privileges. The Dems turned the last 3 elections a men vs women thing while it never was that. This election is multiple years in the making and from my point of view, from Canada, the Dems and feminists created this bs. You just deny …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:43 PM
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I know the redpill, partaked in it many years ago but didn't kept track because of the hatred for women many of their members displayed. Pretty similar to feminism imo. Had a gf 20y ago that introduced me to feminism. Her friends mistook being a feminist with being a man hater. The kind of shit they could say about men was enough to make me wanna stay away from feminism. Went to university 15y ago, same bs, started to teach to highschool, same bs, left HS for higher education (which I love), fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:54 AM
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You speak in bad faith. Guess what, I wasn't even born when tv was all in black and white, I'm in my 40s. Most women online weren't born at that time, and most never actually watched B&W movies neither did most men. Most people online grew up after the 70s where your nonsense was disappearing and to change to man bashing like we have since the end of the 90s. Stop acting like we were all born watching women bashing everywhere. All my life, it's been men bashing and men being stupid on tv especia…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:35 AM
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I think it's not that hard to recognize that shitty people exist in all genders and many of them do post on social media. Those shitty posts often encourage shitty behavior from people in real life. Andrew Tate is a great example for young boys but somehow decades of men bashing isn't gonna sway some women to shitty behavior towards men? Have you seen twoX, FDS, Askfeminists, askwomen, witchesvspatriarchy, tumblr, twitter and all the shitty feminist subs on facebook? Shitty women everywhere, jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:56 AM
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Yes this is it. People spend too much time online reading life experiences from unhinged people that want to relieve what hurts them by hurting other people with their language and hatred. Both men and women aren't all the same but reading only online discourse you'd think all women only want Chads and all men are mysogynistic pigs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:23 PM
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"Treat us like humans!" yet women are beautiful and men are pigs, bears are less a threat than men lmao... yeah, men are the ones not treated like humans!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:25 PM
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Ikr, it's like teaching anything to women is considered mysoginy. And to be honest, many men will act a certain way not knowing it's abusive because they experience the same behavior from women but they are told it's normal. Like how can we teach one side to do one thing and tell the other side the contrary...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:57 PM
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If all men become better then women’s standards will only increase again QFT Like all women are angels and they all learned to be good partners, just men need to work on themselves and meet women at the top of greatness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 06:55 PM
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Both are hilariously bad. No one has to live through this, get out...
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Ofc you misconstrued this post 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:43 AM
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Here the window to abortion is 5 months. If you can't find the father by then you should consider he'll never be there. The window for a man should be lower, like 4 months or something. If he didn't say opt out and she still keeps it, she's in her right to receive financial help from him after it was proven it's his child ofc. Men should always be informed of a pregnancy before being liable for child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:18 PM
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I've always said this would also be in the benefit of women and it should absolutely be legal to opt out before abortion window runs out. Like a month or so. Women would be able to make an informed decision to whether have an abortion because the man doesn't want to support the child or keep it and fork everything by herself. At least she still has the choice and now so does the man. I really struggle as to why people fight against this...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:49 PM
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Because you alone made the decision to bring it to life despite him not wanting to. You have a window to opt out too, I don't understand your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:28 PM
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I repeat, this is not against abortions. A man isn't a father until the child is born, so let's create an option for the man to opt out before the abortion window is over so women can make a better decision to either keep it and raise it alone or abort it and find a more suitable partner for her child.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:43 AM
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This argument isn't against abortion. It's against the idea that men shouldn't have financial abortion. If there was a system that would let men opt out of financial responsibility before the kid is born I think women would be able to make the decision to still have or not have the child if she feels it would cost too much to raise it alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:22 AM
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Ohh thanks for that info, wont say it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:41 PM
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You'd be surprised how men losing their job is one of the top reason why women divorce or leave them. And women getting sick or injured is one of the top reason men leave their woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:24 PM
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Good, now tell this to those that think men hate women yet still engage with them like the person I was responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 08:12 PM
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Ikr, it's similar to the man vs bear thing. Men are so dangerous and cheaters and what not yet women engage with men all the time and even do ons. People just brag for internet points, both men and women do this so if you want to know why some men do it, look into the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 04:07 PM
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Lol, that's exactly the argument used against financial abortion! "If you don't want to have children, don't have sex" is a very popular saying even here on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:26 PM
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Unless women are raped they do decide to get pregnant when they have sex, I thought having sex meant you consent to have children? Unless you think this is only valuable for men? Not having access to abortion does sucks and I absolutely hope people in the US can sort this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:35 PM
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We kinda are, I will always think women should make the best decision for her since she's the one getting pregnant. Doesn't mean her decisions are always the best ones and she can't be badly influenced by parties that aren't the father. It takes two to tango, how about actually making this a reality and stop telling women they can have it all, men will pay anyway, no uterus no opinion, he should've kept it in his pants but don't say the same for women. I'm all for abortions, for both women and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:12 PM
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Women don’t “choose” to bring children into the world. What? Explain this to me please! Not all women who want abortions end up being able to get them. That's true but most of the time abortion does work. I'd actually like to see stats on how many abortions end up failing and women are trapped into giving birth instead. For what it's worth, I've never met a woman that had a failed abortion, but multiple that successfully were able to abort. Like there are roughly 100k abortions every year in Can…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:05 PM
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You mean that having sex is giving consent to have a child? Is that valid for both men and women? But yes men have to think about what they're doing and with who. I'll always hold both accountable based on their options or lack there of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:28 PM
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And that's a huge thing to consider teaching to both men and women equally, especially to women who chose to bring a kid to life when the father doesn't want to be in the picture. You want to be the sole decision maker but you want to share responsibility for your own bad decisions... also, men that don't want this kid will also have his lifestyle changed. Some end up in prison over something someone else decided for them. If having sex for men is "consent" to have children, then it should be th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:06 PM
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Often times single mothers pay more than 50% though. Child support doesn't necessarily cover everything. For example, furnitures, appartment size, food, activities etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:02 PM
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Similar arguments has been made against abortion, if the woman doesn't want to have a baby she could just kept her legs shut... This debate has the exact same arguments except when one wants the abortion the other uses this argument... it's actually hilarious!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:11 PM
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she will have to take an enormous lifestyle hit I think this is the problem right there... you expect to make life changing choices but don't want your lifestyle to change... grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:00 PM
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The size never changed. Open an anatomy book my dude. Breast size will be impacted by fat because it has a lot of fatty tissue in it. Dicks don't, do you even know what your dick is made of? If you have one ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:05 PM
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This is false and you know it. Losing fat will make it look bigger because there is less fat around but it isn't changing it's actual size.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:54 PM
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Blue pillers aren't allowed to talk like women can be bad in any way so they'll always frame every sentences in a way that never incriminates a woman more than a man, no matter the subject. Sadly now I have to consider them trolls since they can't have a proper discussion with this much bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:27 PM
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I think what people, especially men, hate is how defensive people get when a woman is criticized. Many women, feminists and especially blue pillers will jump to defend a person if she is a woman no matter what she's done. If she in fact did something terrible, people will say bs like "well patriarchy this, or that, well women have been oppressed etc.". I think if our culture wasn't so adamant to defend women at all cost we'd see less uproar and less women bashing online. You should also recogniz…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:51 PM
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Yeah ofc, but to some women a man fasting his seat belt gives them the ick. At the same time I see this like bright colors in nature, if it's deep read, it's toxic, stay away from it, like some people's ridiculous icks is a way for them to display their toxicity, stay away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:53 PM
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Like putting on a seatbelt or skipping a step when going upstairs... some of those icks make them look like children imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:25 PM
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Lmao, I live in Canada and though we don't have the same god looking actors like in the US people here certainly do have that fling for good looking people. Birth rate here in Canada is also plummetting, there is also a division between men and women, we're not that different than our neighbors, we're just less extreme and more polite hehe!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:08 AM
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You said men love to gossip, men don't love to gossip. If they did they'd do it with their friends which they mostly don't and will change subject when one is trying that bs. You gossip and the men you're with respond and participate in some ways because there is no other interactions with you maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:45 PM
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You absolutely don't. Men gossip with you because you participate in gossiping not because these men love to gossip. Men talk about all kinds of stuff but gossiping isn't one. Women will talk about their partner's deepest and most intimate secrets with everyone and even shame them while at it. Men don't talk much about their partner to other men. You're severely overestimating your understanding of men's interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:54 PM
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You don't know men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:43 PM
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Natural selection also means a lot of infighting to decide who the dominant is, lots of death. Is that what you think should happen? Top men would also weed out very specific kind of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:56 PM
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Tattoos are masculine? Dude tattoos are just ink on someone's skin. It can look as feminine as the woman wearing them. To me they're another form of expression just like clothes. Some body parts should be devoid of tattoos, like some body parts should be covered with clothes. Some people make stupid decisions with their tattoos just like some people dress in questionable ways. I'm not attracted to women that dress slutty. I'm not attracted to women that have weird tattoos like the name of their …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:37 PM
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This issue was brought up multiple times in feminists circle even here on Reddit. Most of the time the retort is it barely happens, it's an accusation on women, you should've chose better, women went through oppression for centuries etc, etc. There is a sub called askfemnists where you can get downvoted to oblivion for suggesting paternity fraud is a problem. You don't need to take my word for truth, you can go there and make the thread and see for yourself. I swear everytime someone says no fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:25 AM
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Tell me, do you think the same about step fathers, that agree to be part of a child's life, raise them for years and the mother, after some years decide to leave for another man. Is the step father an awful person because he's not in that child's life anymore? Like in both cases, yours and mine, the mother made decisions that will impact both her child and the non father's lives, one didn't chose to be a step father so he's an awful person, the other did chose but is powerless if the mother deci…
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I think effort is valued because pur society puts values in women being educated and for many decades we pushed women to pursue their studies. We don't do nearly the same with young boys. No quotas, no programs, no incentives. We put more women in schools, there are biases from female teachers against boys, I know I was a teacher for many years. Everyone seems to know about it but, well men fare worse, ohh well. I'm now involved in an organization that will help young men continue their studies …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:46 PM
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At the same time the inverse is also true for many people. Many are voting Kamala because she's a woman... I think she'll win but we shouldn't act like the only she'd lose would be specifically because people don't like women lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 10:44 PM
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I come from the Caribbean islands and yes, there are a lot of women going there to have some fun and some even try to bring back young men in America for themselves but it rarely last. You know, older women have little to offer to younger men though. Generally speaking, women keep their money to themselves and their children if they have any. Men will spoil their gf way more and will offer a better lifestyle more than older women do, which many young women crave for. And even if a man is older, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:45 PM
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Very true, maybe those blue pillers and feminists that keep bringing back the wage gap and pink tax for the last decade are in fact red pillers in disguize. You are so right!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:27 PM
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Both men and women in today's society don't want to get married. Women over represent the ones filing for divorce. Men have little to gain in both marriage and divorce. Women made it so that men don't have to get married to have access to women and children so men aren't doing it. Men going their own way have their reasons and many of those reasons are valid. I think we're too used to see a problem as if men change their ways then the problem will be fixed. As opposed to if society (which includ…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:46 PM
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In this case, shouldn't this be men should be right zero percent of the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:24 PM
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That's toxic thinking though. Seems like you don't understand how some people can be under manipulation or other manipulative effects. I used to think similar to this, why women don't just leave? Then I learned my experiences isn't a copy paste of everyone's. Not every relationship is the same. Not everyone is the same. We put a lot of education, services and systems in place to help those in need. Saying everyone should always be in control of themselves and if they don't/can't then it's on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:12 PM
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You don't have to say it. It's heavily implied by how fierce the opposition of a man wanting a paternity test is. Many comments say men raise children that aren't theirs all the time and stop there. Why not also say that men want to do it conciously and want to consent to do it. Saying that a man that loves and trust their woman has no reason to doubt his paternity. That's exactly how trust is broken, because you gave it. 30% of those that did the test found out they were fraudulent. Some try to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:54 PM
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Isn't that what they're doing? Wasn't there a post championing women having a secret to go bag and cash? Should men consent to raise a child that isn't his or is men's consent for anything unimportant?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:04 PM
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I think most people against paternity tests and are against making it mandatory at birth are only seeing it as if women are victims of that but they could never imagine or even sympathize with the actual victims of paternity frauds which are the non father and the child. It's like none of them matter because a woman has her feelings hurt, which she chose to be hurt and be petty by. To me all arguments against seem like in order for women to not be hurt they need: Men not know whether they're the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:05 AM
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Yep like the majority of mothers which also make them more into poverty and raising kids in poverty... good advice...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:23 AM
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I always recommend not marrying and ESPECIALLY not having kids with someone until you have lived with them during a time of crisis. Job loss, death in the family, caring for someone they love who can't care for themselves, severe illness, you have to see what they're like when the heat is on - both when it's on them AND when it's on you. That could take 6 months or 10 years, depends on you and your partner. Are you married? If two people get married but they do only after 10y and they haven't be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:12 PM
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I know there are many people having kids in unfavorable circumstances, I worked with children teens of such circumstances and how messed up they end up. 3ys on that job makes you realize things aren't as easy as people make it out to be. I don't know why it's so hard to accept that there are a lot of people out there having kids before the relationship has shown it is truly secure. How long would that take? 1y? 3y? 10y? Are frauds, deadbeats, divorce impossible only after a certain number of yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:33 PM
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I think contrary to what some believe people do change and situations make things not so simple for both men and women. Everything can go the right way for multiple years and an event may push one partner to do what even themselves didn't think they would do. To me it's like saying people shouldn't marry with someone that will divorce them. It's not like every people that divorce were planning that in advance... "In 12y I'll divorce him , gnehehehe!". Same thing happens with deadbeat parents. Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:05 PM
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We agree on all account. Selling that dna to insurance companies so they discriminate based on some genetic info sure could become a problem. This is more a concern than the government imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:55 PM
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Dude, you are the one acting like the only reason for this test is to accuse your wife of being a hoe. I think you need to accept there are more reasons. You are hurt it shows, sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:51 PM
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Good point, so there are no deadbeat dads, only women that reproduced with unworthy partners? Is that it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:45 PM
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You are talking about criminals not wanting their DNA in government's hands to prove a point... lmao, is this real? People thinking they're so important the government would try anything funny with their DNA need a reality check. It's similar to those thinking there were nano robots in Covid vaccine. Like nano robots would be given for free, gtfo, those cost millions to make, no way the gov would give them for free just to know where you at? You give your position and most of your whereabout for…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:41 PM
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The problem is fraud and men wanting to know whether a child is theirs or not. Women don't want to have their fidelity challenged and chose to throw a fit about something that isn't necessarily based on their fidelity. Making it mandatory at birth as a medical procedure would prevent men from asking women and it would secure women knowing their man aren't going to try to challenge their fidelity some time after birth, like 2-3-6-10 years later. Men that raise children that aren't theirs SHOULD d…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:52 PM
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Being mandatory at birth wouldn't be the man asking the mother whether she was loyal or not. It'd be part of a medical procedure. You chose to see it as a problem while it's not. No man would opt out because opting out would be seen as if they didn't want to honor their share of the parenting. Edit: It's funny how "my tax dollars for a few men not trusting their wives!". Why isn't it "now my tax dollars have to be used because too many women are committing fraud and send some men to jail?". Send…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:43 PM
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Just make it mandatory at birth but with the ability to not take it. If you decide as a man to not take the test for some reason and you sign the birth certificate you cannot withdraw your parental obligations if it's later found the child isn't yours. If a woman doesn't want you to take the test then you aren't forced to pay anything to her and that child. And on a case by case basis, depending on what her reasons are for you to not take the test, youth protection should follow her for a while …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:30 PM
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Being petty about your trust being challenged is also a choice. You should have the choice to not take the paternity test. But in this case these men that sign the birth certificate cannot withdraw themselves in case that later it's found that it wasn't theirs. Women preventing their man from doing one at birth would also not be entitled to child support and, on a case by case basis, should be under the supervision of youth protection. If you're willing to commit fraud and make another man pay b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:24 AM
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They are choices many people fought hard against. I'm pretty sure you can find instances of mandatory things people fought against but now we don't even think about them. I get it, women and blue pillers don't want men to want nor care about whether a child is theirs, they should just trust the woman. If they end up in paternity fraud, well it's their fault anyway for impregnating a woman that wasn't trustable. I will always say it, "when you're not on the receiving end of a problem you don't co…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:09 AM
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Hey, go through my comment history. Find one time where I consider women to be human incubators. I always defended women's choices and will always push for women to be secure and free to do what men do. More power to you if you don't want children and was able to get a sterilization surgery. I know in the States some doctors are very reluctant to do this to women and some men. I don't understand though why women fight so hard against the idea that men actually want to know whether a child is the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:13 PM
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That's for people exactly like you that this test should be mandatory at birth. Every women before the invention of the birth pill had to get pregnant, why don't they follow suit? Every men and women before the invention of cars had to either walk or use a horse, why didn't we follow suit? We could go on and on like this. It's impressive how we made so many inventions and yet the ones that would specifically help concerned men we should fight against. Hilarious! This is so dumb I don't even know…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:43 PM
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Yeah sadly many men don't care about the offspring they help create and many women don't care about who they procreate with. Education about the responsibility both have towards each other and towards the future child needs to be tightened.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:48 PM
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If I wanted a kid and the possibility was there, I'd do it! But what I wouldn't do is go through all of that with someone that isn't worth doing it with if I needed a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:44 PM
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Exactly my stance. If I wanted to have a kid and my gf didn't I would certainly keep the life and raise it alone. Not having this choice is a little saddening for men that wanted kids but they got aborted without their knowledge or without them having a say. I don't fault women for not wanting to go through pregnancy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:18 PM
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I think this is one of the main issue these people can't understand. If man cheats and the result in cheating is a child, he is responsible and the mother is responsible. The cheated partner can just leave. If the woman cheats and gets pregnant, she can lie about it and have the cheated pay and raise that child. She is responsible and she holds him responsible. Would people that are against paternity tests vouch for if a man cheats, his wife should be liable for that child and let the actual mot…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:41 PM
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Exactly this. Because we should hold women's feeling above everything else! For these women, it's better for the man to not be at ease, not knowing whether a child is his, it's better for a child to not be sure of his paternal lineage, it's better to take additional steps in cases of a medical condition than hurting her feelings. Her feelings are triggered only because other women told her she has to be upset about this. Many women don't care, many actually think it's better to have the paternit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:36 PM
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I don't think corporal punishment is a good way to teach though. I think, at least in boy's case, there needs to be more physical activities. When I was young there used to be a mandatory class where we went outside and learned a few things, almost like what the scouts do but not as deep. We also had physical education where we played dodgeball, rugby, flags and so on. During break time we could play multiple games that took out all our energy so once in class it was easy to sit still. I'm prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:19 AM
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That's not entirely true. I worked in the education system with underage children and my mom was a teacher all her life. There was a huge reform of the education system, at least here in Canada, resulting in students being graded on multiple factors other than just your academic performance. There is less physical activity permitted, less contact sports, even some of the break time they get is like sitting down and stay still. Now you get participation points, you get socializing points, speech …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:33 PM
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I don't think female scholarship is discrimination against men either, I actually like seeing women do great in school and contribute and be accepted in as many fields as they can but claiming women do better than men on their own merit and are just better than men, they mature faster, their brain is formed sooner is just ignoring all the hoops we put to put them above. When women were falling behind, we put so much systems to help them get there with the boys, as much as changing the whole educ…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:15 PM
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The reformed slt comment is a bit gross imo. People put too much emphasis on this. I think the thing with some men being able to pull multiple women at the same time is because they understand that these women will overlook multiple bad traits in favor of a few good traits and are unable to learn from their experience by blaming solely the men instead of reflecting in what they find attractive that can deceive their choices. I see this similar to the old, hand shake trope where a man with a good…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:56 PM
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I don't think most women would answer honestly to a survey about them preferring bad boys so asking for a source in this case could be a way to just dismiss the claim. We can though go by dating sites and even pages like that trend on FB where women look if they're dating the same guys. Many men on these pages had multiple women at the same time but these guys never run out of women. I'm pretty sure many men form conclusions based off those. Doesn't mean they're right but no woman would say she …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:39 PM
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Imo it's weird to assume sex should be considered cheating. Your spouse shouldn't owe you sex that's a recipe for SA, no one should advocate for that. At the same time, we should then change the definition of what cheating is. Just because your partner doesn't want to have sex doesn't mean you should abandon sex altogether then. Maybe people should be more open to talk about that. My gf doesn't want to watch horror movies so I watch them alone or with friends. I don't want to go shopping endless…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:17 PM
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Without trying to defend them, you can't make conclusions solely based of stats and even less by looking in the mirror. I get that you, being a woman doesn't mean you fit the description but you can't use that and affirm then women don't do that. Like I never catcalled anyone, should I conclude women are wrong in assuming men do catcall them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:10 PM
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These people will cry about how men lack empathy and they comment things like this... lmao. The hypocrisy is in their vein, they don't realize they're part of the problems they keep pointing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:13 PM
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Lol, yes ofc I can. But when I talk about my relationship it doesn't look like I want to exit nor that I'd be better off alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:45 PM
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Incels don't represent most men and certainly not society, jealous coworkers are lame but I'll give you that I've seen more jealousy on someone's look by women coworkers than by men, men don't really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:34 PM
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You think beautiful women are shamed and hated? Hope you speak from an incel point of view because tmk pretty women are given opportunities left and right lmao... where do you live? Not to say they don't have any kind of hardship but that statement is weird and doesn't align with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:36 PM
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Building together yes, sometimes building takes time, sometimes there will be hard time from both yet so many are so quick to just divorce or act like only their part was important and overlook the other's contribution. Also saying women are better alone with children is ignoring how single mothers are more in poverty than necessary. And children from single parents are faring way worse than others. We shouldn't ignore tHat, we should actually teach people to think that before allowing people to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:12 PM
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That's fair and I wish it never happens, especially in an unsuspecting way. The way some people talk about marriage make it seem like they don't want to be in their own marriage. And others act like it's only a trap for both men and women. My parents have been married 50y and they lived it all together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:26 AM
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Seems like you'd be better off alone then. Why stay?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:40 AM
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Mostly because they can and men even rewards them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:01 PM
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It's always a balance of both logic and emotion, some people put more food on emotion's table and some more on logic's table.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:00 PM
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Women knows men's lived experiences more than men themselves... lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:59 PM
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Do you mean that you and some women do or do you think all women are this affectionate and always do it? My gf does this some times, and I reciprocate in various ways. But she's the first woman I've been with that actually thinks about such gestures. Not to say others were unloving, but I think it's a learned behavior and no, not all women do this. You guys should accept some men's relationship experiences with women aren't all roses even if their women do care about them. We aren't that differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:57 PM
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Dang I think the exact opposite. I rather be able to pee standing and clean than not. I was raised to keep things clean so it's like a second nature for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:46 PM
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Hmm... tell me, how do you describe that situation, in your words? If you were asked to put that interaction on film and you have to show people what was happening, based on what I said? How would you describe every event?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:57 PM
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Thanks, at least you're honest about how delusional you are. I hope you're never in a situation where your existence doesn't please someone and they put you in a situation where you could lose big. And people on the internet wish you were expelled for trying to defend yourself. Granted I'm often called as a witness when things happen in my class and no, I don't blindly take women's side. I'm not whipped. When women do wrong I'm not affraid to say it, just like when men are in the wrong. It's fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:51 PM
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Which one? The one that was spit on or the one that got falsely accused of harrassment? Do you think then, in the name of "equality" women who instigate these confrontations should also be expelled? Why not suggest this instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:29 PM
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Man, I'm a teacher, I teach to adults and I've seen this countless times. Some dude was sweating more than they accepted so they shamed him in front of everyone in the class, when he complained they went to the administration and claimed he was always staring at them, had to change class. Another one was laughing too loud, one small girl told him to shut up, he replied she should shut up, she went to him and did the loser sign with her hand on the front. He told her to fuck off she spit on him, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:56 AM
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Hive mentality at play here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:46 AM
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Imagine asking women to change a behavior lmao... angels don't do anything wrong /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:44 AM
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There is a difference between leaving a bad review and making a scene in the restaurant and/or slanding it on social media...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:43 AM
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These women live their life like they're the main character in a romantic soap.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:57 PM
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It's quite hard to know whether someone is actually a rapist or not. When feminists say women don't lie about these things, what you are doing is empowering false accusations. It would be better to send the message that rape is unacceptable and rapists will be chased and prosecuted but we don't accept false accusations, we want things to be done the proper way. For some reason feminism has a very hard time with telling women their bs is hurting other women... Also I think it'd be better to make …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:55 PM
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Very true, but what can we do?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:46 PM
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That's true and I'd add, if a woman made a similar thread saying it's best for women to go through a hoe phase we'd never hear the end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:39 AM
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Women during their oe phase do gost and use men as sexual objects by not being invested though. It's not like some men haven't been used too lmao. If we recognize one is bad, the so is the other!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:18 AM
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Well, if we're going to encourage men being fuckboys we shouldn't complain women have a hoe phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:24 AM
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... this doesn't make sense...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:02 AM
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Ok, what was the point of your comment then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:34 PM
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Rape happens, so false allegations, people need to understand not everyone wants to put people in jail without due process and a fair trial until proven guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:56 PM
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Red pill isn't just some idea that a few men decided to come up with out of nowhere and force men to adhere to it. Many men, just like many women, are jaded by the other gender's behavior, have been manipulated, have been unfairly accused, have been SA or been in DV. They are as jaded as women from places like twoX and most feminist places. Their takes are mostly inflamatory and you see the hatred that comes from bad interactions they had from dating or unability to date... just like people from…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:49 PM
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You're not the target gender hatred from these subs pours out so to you they seem pretty tame, maybe you even agree with many of their takes. You even try to justify their hatred because some of them went through hard time with men... yet red pillers can't live similar situations, which led them to become red pilled? Many red pillers quite the idea after a while, deeming it toxic. Guess what, the exact same thing happens to some women that leave subs like twoX and many feminist subs, even distan…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:31 AM
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Many subs are toxic as hell and don't get this toxic label... have you tried twoX, or most feminist subs? They are a carbon copy of what bs you can find on incel subs but towards men and yet... seems like op may be right!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:01 AM
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These are two faces of the same coin. Both phrases are used by the same people to shut down any discussion though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:52 AM
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Damn, I salute you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:28 PM
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The thing about disappointment is most people don't do it on purpose. You seem to want men to do it on purpose which is toxic imo. We should always strive to be our best, if you're with someone that requires these childish and toxic behavior and you don't like it. The only thing we should talk more, normalize and push men to do is to leave bs behavior. Not finding ways to retaliate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:51 PM
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So you deny paternity fraud exist because if a man if having sex with a lady it's undeniably his? What is your opinion on cases where there was actually a paternity fraud? Some men have been put to jail over this! Tough luck? He shouldn't have had sex with a cheater? You don't care cuz you will never go through this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:17 PM
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Or not. He can also be an uninvolved deadbeat dad that dumps his wife because she medically couldn’t have sex right after childbirth. But the woman can’t un-give-birth. That’s why it’s an act of trust. You take the risk without the information. I absolutely sympathize with women that have to go through such bs. Their partner didn't live up to his responsibility and isn't understanding. But women can absolutely act upon knowing that their partner isn't trustable on this topic because they will kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:08 PM
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Is it for no reason? I think women minimize the importance of knowing whether a child is yours or not because you will always know if a child is yours or not. It's also convenient if you're the same ethnic background because it's more difficult to hide. Would a man having an asian kid while neither of them is asian not as entitled to know that a kid is his or not as much as when both partners of the same ethnic background? If hospitals swapped your kid with another and they kept you in the dark,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:49 PM
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But this is still a one way street. Women need to have trust that their partner will support them through pregnancy, childbirth, and the (potentially permanent) after affects. Yes and their partner can absolutely prove he's trustworthy by doing exactly this. Also, very important, that man does these because he expects the kid is his! He's not some random dude just being benevolent to a pregnant woman! Men need to have trust that their partner is being honest about paternity. But women aren't req…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:37 PM
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It's puzzling to me really! I'd like them to justify how keeping a man from knowing whether the child is his a good thing for all parties involved. This is childish behavior and the exact same tactic fraudulent people use, trust me bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:15 PM
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Yes and how can you prove that you are trustable by implicitly throw a fit when a man wants to know whether is his child or not from the get go? Women that commit paternity fraud also throw a fit when they're asked for a dna test. How can you use the exact same tactic as fraudulent people and expect trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:12 PM
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It is I'm sorry, women that commit paternity fraud or birth children regardless of whether the father wants it or not are in no way trustable and they always use the same argument you use, trust me I'm a woman! Explain how it's beneficial for all party that men aren't entitled to know from the get go whether a child is his or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:08 PM
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The problem with this thinking is the trust you want is only one direction since you are not the one not knowing whether a child is yours or not. Women are quite insensitive to this issue and it's weird imo. They all talk about the bear and how they can't trust men but can't understand men can also be vulnerable in certain ways because of biology. There is no greater display of trust and confidence than a woman showing her partner she had his kid and she isn't trying to hide anything. A woman ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:13 PM
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Why can't he believe this, the OP believe we should segregate planes because every man will SA you if you're a woman how is that different thinking lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:08 AM
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Would you chose a male bear or a female bear? So many questions... so little time!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:49 AM
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That's even better if they are no more dangerous than squirrels.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:45 AM
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Well you could be surprised! Here they say they used black bears to be test pilots... https://www.themeateater.com/conservation/general/when-the-air-force-used-black-bears-as-test-pilots
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:18 AM
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You know Alaska is full of bears and there aren't that many people there. Maybe women like you should move there. I think Alaska should campaign to attract more women and make it heaven. You also have all kinds of them, brown, black, polar and kodiac... I've seen bears ride a bicycle, maybe you can teach them to pilot planes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:04 AM
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You want a relationship where you want your partner to trust you on something you don't have to get trust from your partner. Seems you want the trust in this case to be one sided imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:24 PM
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That's a good question you should ask why would people marry abusive partners or cheaters or have children with deadbeat people. You seem to have the answer. I'm pretty sure many will tell you the person they're with changed or manipulated them or you know, when put in certain situations your reality changes and so does your relationships. I think it's better to know from the get go. This would put the father at ease and it would also help the mother in multiple ways. It would also help making s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:49 PM
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The funny thing is they assume men that complain about unfairness can't get dates yet they're here scrubbing for women's internet upvotes thinking that'll get them some action. Seems they're the ones looking for date.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:24 PM
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Well we can ignore all examples that doesn't fit our narrative all we want they still exist. In education, at least over here, we have all sorts of services and countless formations around those because often students don't accept their grades. I'm teaching higher education to adults btw, not to children. I don't think only the opposite sex can accuse you of something, what is this thinking lol! All I'm saying is you don't need a date to be accused of something, some people just feel like they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:27 PM
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Do you need a first date, or be dating at all to be falsely accused of something? Still funny how you correlate the two. I worked with a guy, I'm a teacher, that lost his job because one woman student falsely accused him of sexual harassments. She made a pretty big case about it. Investigator came and interviewed multiple people, including me and concluded that her case was unfounded. But that semester was fucked for all involved including all the students in his classes. Many believe the reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:36 PM
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This argument is funny to me. Are men's value based on whether they can get women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:02 PM
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Second time I see this lmao. Some of you will go to length just to make you seem you win. Women get leaner sentences for the same crimes and aren't sent to jail quite often for the same crime too. Seems women loose on that front aren't they...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:28 PM
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Lmao this is nonsense. We do know how many babies are born but we absolutely know nothing about those not tested. All we know is those that actually requested a test. One third are fraudulent. I don't think if all were tested the percentage would go higher though. Those that requested it may have a good reason to but I wouldn't believe one third of all mothers are committing fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:04 PM
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People need a common goal... our society puts everything in place to make sure individualism is both possible and wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:06 PM
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The data show 1 in 3 father that ASKED for a test had return result of negative. It doesn't say anything about how prevalent it is because not everyone asks hence why so many people want this test to be mandatory at birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:28 PM
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There's a search bar where you can type paternity fraud and witness hell fire!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:26 PM
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Never heard nor read that feminists think that. To them it's all socialization through patriarchy and if we dismantle patriarchy things will then get better... I don't believe in this though! You don't need to be a feminist to advocate for women's rights. I'm certainly not a feminist. I don't hate women, I will always defend what I think is right. Yes, we agree on that feminists are inconsistent in their ideologies through and through!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:31 PM
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I hear feminists say the only reason women don't do these jobs is because of sexism in these fields. I absolutely think people doing these dangerous jobs deserve the higher salary. I never talked about oppression, where is that coming from? You said they weren't dangerous, that's the only reason I replied!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:25 PM
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I'm sorry but dangerous is exactly one reason why most work place death are men. You shouldn't act like technology just appears magically, people have to build them and gather resources or maintain them. Work regulation are written in blood because many men died trying to provide you internet or the ability to fly to other countries or even using your cellphone, almost all the food you eat has to be farmed and transported and they are dangerous jobs. Ofc no one forces you to do those jobs, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:51 PM
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Is that a feminist idea though? Pretty sure feminists are against the idea that our nature does influence who we are and they think everything is the result of socialization. Plenty non feminist men and women think the exactly like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:43 PM
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Yes children and the back bone of civilization and women that actually birth and raise children should have the benefit and recognition they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:40 PM
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I don't think "women don't pay taxes" is his argument though. All his data shows is that both pay taxes and both benefit by receiving a return in social benefits to different degrees. Men pay more taxes than they receive in social services but women pay less than they receive in social services which means a huge part of men taxes they pay go directly in services that benefit women. Now whether this is a good thing or not is up to you, he pointed the data. Same thing with my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:19 PM
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I think it's because people blame men for sleeping around and making babies and they are responsible for these kids and are told if they didn't want a kid they shouldn't sleep around. But saying the same thing about women is heavily fought upon, while women have more time and choices in deciding whether they'd have a child. Imo it's another case of pushing hyperagency on men and acting like women didn't play a part in the decision process of having a child. Imo when women are forced to have chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:12 PM
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Wait until you see how much deadbeat mothers pay their share of child support lmao...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:52 PM
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So in other words it's women's soccer all over again. Even though they do generate money, they don't generate enough to sustain their existence and since men earn more it's their income that pays for most of it. I get why so many people hate to see it though. Personally, I rather pay more taxes to ensure everyone has a better life and access to more services. Just a bummer men's specific services are less funded.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:45 PM
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I used to teach to secondary grade here in Canada and left because of the low wage and the shit you have to endure as a male teacher. I've seen female teachers tell boys to not talk, that men had hundred years to talk now it was women's turn and she gave most of the answering time to girls instead. At that time I couldn't intervene because I was only an intern but later when I tried to point out some behaviors I put myself in a situation where it became very hard to come to work. I'm still a tea…
/r/MensRights23/08/24 09:24 PM
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Don't forget the most overused word to describe any complaint men have, you're "insecure" lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:13 PM
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Dang man you're far gone. Are you ok? Seems you need therapy and a hug! Isn't that how you fix problems?
/r/MensRights21/08/24 08:47 PM
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Do you really need examples? Are you implying that this messaging isn't shoved down our throat left and right? I live in Canada where do you live? Maybe in your culture men are always praised in movies and tv shows and in schools they thrive, the courts always favor them and no one nowhere says men are more dangerous than even bears lmao. You are either lucky or you intentionnaly skip over any of those.
/r/MensRights21/08/24 07:08 PM
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Now that's the thing. Men are already bombarded by messages telling them they are no good, they need therapy, they're falling back in education and they should be better, they are more dangerous than animals, that they're not entitled to anything because they're already well off in all departments. Everyone knows men don't necessarily grew up with a father figure and men already know they should do better in this department. There's not a lack of those messagings at all. But you can't talk about…
/r/MensRights21/08/24 05:36 PM
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I think it's not just about reducing physical harm but also getting recognition for a multitude of things that society isn't ready to talk about or hear. I strongly believe part of the reason men have such a high suicide rate is because society puts a lot of weight on men's shoulder and acts like there's no weight at all, in fact society tells men they are always lifted up and if they have any problem of any kind it's by their own choices. Men's violence against men is already recognized, men ca…
/r/MensRights21/08/24 02:04 PM
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That I don't know really, I just responded to the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:06 PM
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You use this like it's still prevalent in China. You also seem to lack understanding of one, their culture, and two the nature of the restriction of having mostly male children for a country whose population suffered greatly because it was overpopulated. But hey, let's paint Chinese people like demons that hate women and see no purpose in having them...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:46 PM
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You mean like current Ukraine?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:43 PM
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It's voluntary yes, but it has to be done no? You'd rather no one does these complicated and dangerous jobs? We'd still live in hutts. Like the garbage men, not the funniest job but someone has to do it. You want powerlines, someone has to go fix or built the infrastructure. You want robots? Someone has to extract the materials do build them before we're able to have them...
/r/MensRights17/08/24 12:36 AM
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Feels like they need experience to get better success. I prefer to stay away from dating sites because I don't get results with them. But I wasn't very good at approaching women when I was younger. Granted I lived in a time when you could approach women and ask them out without people thinking this is outrageous. Got rejected and learned and got good at it at some point. You make it seem like if you're not already perfect from birth you shouldn't try... man I'm glad I don't have to date in today…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:47 PM
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This is the Mike Pence rule all over again. Corporate men fear of being falsely accused of sexual harassment by women when alone with them so they rather not meet them in meeting, preventing women of valuable training, women complained and still are, not all women but we justify it when women do it lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:42 PM
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This shows how little you know about technology and where we're at. Your question would be similar to someone asking why did people from the 1800 ride by horse to go from cities to cities instead of using a car which was faster. You have to understand that to get new technology we also need technology. You can't ask for videogames if computers haven't been invented. You can't use Instagram or Uber if internet wasn't invented. And to use internet you need people to develop those with the technolo…
/r/MensRights16/08/24 08:23 PM
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How do you make society pressure on people disappear when you turn 25? Do you assume body shaming and body insecurities don't exists for people over 25 or something? Care to explain lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:02 PM
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I think intelligence is a weird metric tbh. Intelligence is so malleable and can be focused in certain situations I fail to see how they came up with this lmao. Wouldn't surprise me to see people associating promiscuity with intelligence and then engaging in it just to claim superiority. That would be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:37 PM
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Funny how we are promoting the exact opposite in today's society. Multiple partners, not marrying or marrying later in life, nofap, high divorce rate etc. It's like we are doing everything to ensure we get problems.
/r/MensRights13/08/24 10:52 PM
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"How dare you suggest I lower my standards! Men just have to grow taller!!!"
/r/MensRights13/08/24 09:47 PM
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When you actually have choice you think you lack choices and complain the choices you have don't meet what you want. When you don't have much choice, you have concerns elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:00 PM
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I have a question though. What kind of chemicals do you use to make cleaning a house dangerous? Unless I have to pour some concentrated liquid inside a pipe to unclog it there is no way, even Mr. Clean represent a sufficient threat to talk about the danger of it. The only time I didn't want to be in my house because of chemicals was because I painted the living room and the odor was strong for a few days. No way I'd use something that is corrosive or represent serious health risks to clean dishe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:24 PM
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You can also buy a washing machine... I didn't read it as a man vs woman thing but whether outside chores represent actual danger and complexity compared to inside chores. Seeing how this was a man vs woman from the beginning I see that people have a urge to defend women at all cost lmao. But women do outside chores too and they sometimes do get injured or die by doing them. Men also do inside chores. Just split the chores however you want and need but stay safe while doing it or hire a professi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:00 PM
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True, you guys make it so hard to do inside chores it's amazing you can dispute them being harder than work that can actually cripple you... just because you don't have to get on a roof to clean the gutter every single day doesn't remove the danger of it lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:53 AM
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No, but here, every winter someone dies because of shoveling, they get heart attacks, shoveling is harder than doing the dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:51 AM
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You are just clueless, many people get injured and/or die after working on the roof and they fell. Here in Canada, because of winter, many people get strokes and heart attacks from shoveling, or slip and break a bone on ice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:22 AM
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Not many people died or got severly injured from doing the dishes and laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:32 AM
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Well it's mainly based on my own experience. First nights with a woman aren't the greatests sex wise but they are passionnate because you waited some time to get it on. But after some time, you get to know each other better and try new things and communicate what you like and don't like. It's not rocket science, you also get experience from having sex, especially with the same partner, as long as both are willing to put effort in it. I'm actually sad for you really. I wouldn't be interested in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:55 PM
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This is the result of trusting online dating though. Meeting people in person and talking to them for some time actually makes you see them in a better light than any screen can. Many women I've been with wouldn't even talk to me had they only seen my pictures online. But in person it's completely different because of how you talk, move, how you are in general. Also it's fun to meet someone multiple times in person before you get it on. Helps judge someon's character, something you can't do onli…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:45 PM
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Do the same, put effort for your pleasure. My gf does that lmao! "I'm a victim, always!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:26 PM
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Society changed a lot in the last two decades. Proximity sure was a thing. I remember I dated a girl that lived only 20km away from my place because she was at a friend's place and they went to a club here in my city. I wouldn't have met her otherwise. The internet makes you meet people that are farther. I also realized that the quality of people isn't better because they live farther. To this day I rather meet women in a setting where I can actually talk to them often face to face, not online w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:23 PM
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Imperfect it is, we should always frame these stats as people "feel" and not act like they're facts especially when they're used to get their way and demonize a specific sex over the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:48 PM
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Hope you question every feminists statistics too because most of them are also self reported and they always use their vague language to call out men whatever bs they want. Like "men are slob", we can't prove it but we talked to each other and that's what we think and will run with it. I think you'll see more and more of these studies being directed towards debunking some of the most popular "men ain't shit" bs studies you read and agree with online and in the media. Generalizations are never ok…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:40 PM
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Dude, many feminists think men cannot be feminist themselves lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:21 PM
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Wait, do you assume OP made up this study and statistics? Are you defending the "men are slob" but contest the "women are cleaning freaks" because it generalizes women, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:19 PM
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Do you think there is a stigma around men voicing themselves about bein SA by women? If you do, do you think this stigma plays a role in the amount of men calling this out, even the media mentioning abuse from women? If you don't believe there is a stigma, where have you been? Also, do you think we shouldn't do a damn thing unless men in mass start denouncing? Are you advocating for a separation of victims so if it's men and men don't call it out as much then the victim should be ignored?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:32 PM
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You are mistaken if you think it doesn't impress women. The looks you get on the beach or at work when you are fit and have some muscle aren't the same as when you are average or out of shape. My gf especially likes pecks. Men should always try to stay fit for health and confidence but women do look at you more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:56 PM
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I wonder, do people really ask how many people you've slept with? I fail to see how that's relevant, people can lie if they think being truthful will prevent them from getting their way. I mostly go based on someone's behavior instead, that rarely lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:20 PM
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You are entitled to believe what you want. Calling people liars because you don't believe people can act in a way you don't experience everyday is one thing but you can't expect people to not react to you calling them liars lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:38 PM
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Depends where you live I guess. I live in Quebec, Canada and here they take women's complaints in clubs seriously, as they should, but it doesn't mean some take advantage of it. It never happened to me but I've see many men being thrown out for approaching women in clubs. I wouldn't say today as I don't go to clubs anymore but it was prevalent a decade ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:06 PM
3

Exactly what I learned back then. So unless I'm sure the woman I'm interested in doesn't see me as a creep I'm not risking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:01 PM
5

100%. I didn't see it from my own eyes then they are lying lmao...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:00 PM
3

That's not what I'm saying at all. I did it and it didn't work for me and almost cost me a lot back then that I don't want to risk losing today so it made me reflect on how I can get a gf without putting myself in this position again. Now if cold approach works for you then why not. I prefer to not cold approach, I don't think no one should lmao. You also cannot ignore the risk behind it especially if you have other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:56 PM
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Cold approached a woman in my 20s and it backfired hard on me, enough to make me reconsider this approach. Later in my life a few women cold approached me and I took it as a compliment but declined because I wasn't interested. All the gf I had, including this one I met them either at school or at the job where you have time to interact with them long enough to know if you want to engage in something meaningful with them. In today's climate, I'd never approach a woman I don't know, I like where I…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:25 PM
1

Rule for thee, not for me...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:41 PM
2

I think your comment represents exactly the grievance some men have about blue pilled people. You immediately assume they don't wash their hair, have rotten teeth, have acne etc, etc. It's hilarious how dumb this take is. Some people do have problems finding relationships and it has nothing to do with their hygiene or them being misogynistic. How about giving them good advices instead of assuming they come from a dirty place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:46 PM
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I'm sorry but you participate in something, you are part of the problem. Nothing prevents you of not participating in this bs rhetoric, you do it by choice hence you are part of the problem. Also you can't speak for most men. Do you know most men? No you don't. You just read and retain the comments that validates what you believe and act like most people share that belief. You just ignore and/or fight those that don't align with your views.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:06 PM
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They convinced themselves that there are no difference between boys and girls so if girls are able to do it then boys are just deffective. I used to teach to secondary grade schools and even at that age the attention gap is showing but people, teachers and the admins are blind to it, boys just need to take these drugs so they behave like girls. But at no point did we do the same thing when girls were failing, we just adapted the school system so it's better suited for girls and I applaud that. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:03 PM
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Lol, women will always find a reason to be negative about men. Do you think now that men can't approach women almost anywhere they are positive about men? Lmao! It's worst when they're isolated from all sorts of men. And the same can be said about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:38 PM
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That's a pretty naive way of thinking lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:17 PM
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Part of this is bs though. For example, most women I've been with wouldn't give me the time of day because I don't represent the "man they're attracted to on sight" with my 5'9 height. I'm also very respectful of women's boundaries, if they say they don't want to be talked to I respect that and don't bother. But most of the time, it's women themselves that after some time being exposed to different guys, they can chose which is best suited for them based on interactions they have with different …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:06 PM
2

Pretty similar to feminist spaces imo. To me they're both sides of the same coin. Hating on the other not wanting to do concessions and recognize their fault and meet in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:01 PM
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Yeah wonder why more women don't do it, it's so cheap! Finding women that still feel wanted when invited to a cheaper place isn't as easy though. Some even shame you for suggesting going to a coffee shop or splitting the bill. Women not wanting to be indebted is pretty valid, some women also feel entitled to being treated with fancy restaurants.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:44 PM
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Well, don't let go that therapy subscription my guy. Seems you need it. On Reddit, people display and defend their ignorance with so much passion, how can you not laugh?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:50 AM
2

People like you make me laugh. You are clueless about so many things yet you point fingers and talk like you know the manosphere lmao. People, men, tell you therapy isn't working and needs some change. You tell them to shut the f up and keep doing what doesn't work because? Because you heard some feminists say it was beneficial to men so you eat it up. The manosphere isn't perfect, no matter who claim it is. At least they're giving men a voice and men have the ability to talk about what concerns…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:20 AM
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Do we still live under the Catholic regime? There are far more women in education, caregiving and nursing than there are men but we still act like men must be a problem but never question women? How long should we overlook the present when it's nothing like the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:31 AM
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It's just a problem if the molesting person is a man, multiple times women teachers, caregivers, nurses and so on do molest children but no one is gonna question whether it's a good idea to put women around children...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:00 AM
2

We agree on that, context matters. Some people are good at hiding their cheating, some aren't so good. People don't always think they'd be cheated so once it happens it's a bad surprise. Having a mandatory test at birth would at least make sure everyone knows what to expect. Right now, we "should" trust the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:01 PM
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So your experience and wife represents the norm? Like would you say most women would gladly agree to have their trust tested like this? Tell that to my bro lmao! It was a shit show. Turns out it was his but the drama that ensued was unnecessary imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:53 PM
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Usually people act based on trust and love, no man enters a relationship with a woman thinking they'd be cheated like this. Same as no woman enters a relationship with a man thinking she'd be SAd. Asking for a paternity test before signing a birth certificate is more complicated than you seem to think it is. There's still that love and trust in the way hence why many people, me included, asks the government to mandate a paternity test at birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:48 PM
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Women can't go through this and dismiss the importance or weight of knowing who your biological kid is to a man. Men can process this however they feel and I fully understand why some of them would leave. That kid represents years and years of cheating and lying. Did these women think about the kid when they brought it to life under these circumstances?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:39 PM
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