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| 5 | Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships.They.. don’t have to be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.True | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 05:20 PM |
| 7 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAs a man with 80+ partners at 24, i disagree. Men with high body counts tend to be desirable but I wouldn’t say necessarily that desirable men have to have high body count. That assumes they want to do all that lol. I’ve got a friend who I consider to be way more “desirable” than me dating wise. But he just got out of back to back long term relationships so a sub 10 count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Men can only access emotional intimacy through a romantic partnerThank god I have a female best friend. As a man, I can say (and of course take blame as well) that male friendships are incredibly vapid. I’m not saying all, but a great amount. They lack depth, insight, curiosity, and many other things. This is also not to say I don’t enjoy my friendships with fellow men but there’s TONS of room for improvement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 04:11 PM |
| 5 | Women will inevitably change after kids, if you can't understand this just don't have kidsLMAOOOO nah but word | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 01:45 PM |
| 3 | Hyperactive men are magnets to womenWow so my ADHD was the reason behind all those women I got to date? 😧 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 03:57 PM |
| 1 | If you are not willing to sacrifice everything to get it, then you don’t deserve it.I’m 24M and I had my first ever girlfriend / sexual partner in high school. We broke up when we went to college because I wanted to explore other options and live the single life. I had sex with over 80 different women since then. At one point, casual sec was LITERALLY all I pursued constantly. This led to some bad emotional issues. Looking back, yes I got social confidence and learned but idk it was a roller coaster that idk I’d get back on, certainly not the same way. I have a girlfriend now a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 09:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men in their 20s should date around and play the fieldGhosting, constant swiping, and even some boasting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 11:32 PM |
| – | Question for bluepilers . At a base level Is self improvement just to get some 🐱 bad , in any way? If yes please explain.As someone who has both slept with a lot of women and who has literally self-improved (ex weed addict ->now working out 4x a week and haven't been high in 8 months) i think using women as motivation will burn you out quick. You need motivation to be centered truly around yourself and your own betterment/health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Far too many men cannot see that they have undesirable trait's and behaviors which results in not just nobody wanting to be around them but nobody wanting to date them either and it's an issue which will follow many for their entire life.Men do make some dumbass comments behind closed doors so wouldn't be surprised if they doing this in public would be a major turnoff | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 11:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men in their 20s should date around and play the fieldI agree, so long as men know not to take it too far and be respectful. I slept around a lot, and yeah sure it informed my preferences. But it also built some bad habits, so beware! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 11:10 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Men in their 20s should date around and play the fieldto be fair some people are just online daters lol but I get your point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 11:09 PM |
| 7 | Refusing to work on social skills is a sign of laziness.24M here and yeah it’s definitely a skill you learn. I wasn’t the “cool kid” at all in HS and kinda shy. Worked at trader joes for 2 years where it was a highly social environment and my social skills, and in turn my dating life, skyrocketed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 02:10 PM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improve“Plenty”? You showed me a personal essay. How does that contradict anything I said? If you really wanna go number for number, I’ve been with more women than 99% of women will be with men (in their lifetime) so does that mean my opinion weighs more? You wouldn’t think so right, and nor would I. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 01:34 PM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveCommunist here and I’ve slept with a “good amount” of women. I’ll leave it at that lol. This whole Left leaning men are beta cucks or whatever the fuck, that never get a glance from a woman is a severely online take. In fact, I’d say they heavily prefer us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.Ex fuckboy, lifelong nerd. 🤓 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.I’m 24 and I’ve had sex with over 80 different women. I did do it to feel desirable and for other reasons but honestly that fizzled out quick. I wouldn’t recommend hooking up just to hook up, honestly. Only good to come out of it is that my social skills are great and now I know I can have sex relatively easy if need be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 01:23 AM |
| 1 | The only reason you are single is your location1000% and speaking from my experience (hence the username lol). But yeah people here are very willing to date across races so that was never an issue and plus there’s a HUGE Hispanic population here too. Entire neighborhoods on top of neighborhoods | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 07:49 PM |
| 1 | The only reason you are single is your locationGlad you’re loving my city! It’s truly a treasure, and same. I really romanticize the city every second and try my hardest not to take it for granted even though it’s all I’ve ever known. | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 07:47 PM |
| 3 | The only reason you are single is your locationHow do you think it’s disadvantaged you? I’m born and raised NYC and always thought I won the geographic lottery | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 01:59 AM |
| 5 | CMV: It's women fault men are in a lonliness epidemicYikessss bro, touch some grass. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 01:32 AM |
| 2 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyWell put. Like who said men can't have standards lmao like what | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 11:07 PM |
| 14 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyNor are they all necessarily different men. Idk why OP is drawing this distinction.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 10:59 PM |
| 2 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyStrange distinction. I've been regarded as confident, outspoken and 'free-spirited' and I've also been in therapy for a year and a half now. I've been with more women than I can remember lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that the day game environment in new york has gone downhill or is it still good?Well I’m a crazy liberal so that’s why I never have an issue lmao | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that the day game environment in new york has gone downhill or is it still good?No I'm speaking of stories as recent as 2023. Perhaps with the pandemic there are less people commuting into work but still is more than enough. I've never been to Miami I just know they can't possibly have the density and diversity. Plus it must be hard to meet people in public with no public transport and less parks | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Is it true that the day game environment in new york has gone downhill or is it still good?NYC will never die nor be dethroned lol. Back when I was single I met women on the train, at bus stops, retail stores and more. You can't beat the walkability and public transportation for meeting new people. Sure I might be biased since I'm born and raised but my past experiences speak for themselves. | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 02:18 AM |
| 2 | best city in America for finding women to date as a guyI’ve met several women on the train in NYC. Usually starts with a simple question about them like where they get their rings from. | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 01:30 AM |
| 1 | best city in America for finding women to date as a guyNYC and it’s not even close. You’ve got volume, ratio, density, variety, and absolute incredible quality. It’s a no a brainer. | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 01:28 AM |
| – | What do you believe will be the long term implications and consequences of Gen Z having a very difficult time forming relationships?Brith rates declining along with social skills | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 08:55 PM |
| 0 | It's really not that challenging to get a girlfriendFair enough i definitely believe the stories of men getting “disqualified” based on their living situation. But I hope to believe that’s not the rule but rather the exception | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 04:19 AM |
| 4 | It's really not that challenging to get a girlfriendOh then yeah agreed, it won’t necessarily be prerequisite if she’s already liking you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 04:18 AM |
| 1 | It's really not that challenging to get a girlfriendDisqualified how?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 03:29 AM |
| 6 | It's really not that challenging to get a girlfriendNYC is also one of those places for which I am born and bred in and lived with my family my entire life. I’ve never had an issue dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 03:28 AM |
| 7 | It's really not that challenging to get a girlfriendTurning 24 next month. Born and raised NYC and lived with my family my whole life, when I was single my dating life was incredibly active. Even before I was salaried and worked at a grocery store. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 03:22 AM |
| 0 | 24 deep truths about women & relationships that you won't hear from the mainstream.What in the world is this lmao. “She responds to dominance.” What do you mean dominance? Honestly man, a lot of this is beyond questionable and that’s me putting it nicely. “Credentials”: I turn 24 next month and I’ve slept with over 80 different women. (Don’t say that proudly. I was mainly suffering from an untreated mental disorder, but I know body counts have a “social weight” here) | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Your Geography dictates your dating.As someone born and raised in NYC, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not as hard for men as they claimWell I’ll address the elephant in the room that I’ve lived my entire life in NYC and specifically 15 minutes away from midtown Manhattan so in terms of volume, ratio, and density, I’ve hit the lottery. But that aside I’d say ACTUALLY listening to what women want and getting “social reps” in are what helped most. I worked at Trader Joe’s for 2 years and that helped me tremendously with conversation skills over and over and over again. It revealed to me that women don’t mind a man who shows intere… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not as hard for men as they claimI’m a 23 year old guy and meeting/dating women has always been easy for me. But nevertheless, I still think we should be look at the overall data and studies as our guide rather than personal anecdotes and extrapolating to the population from that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 09:10 PM |
| 15 | Being hookup material is much better than being husband material.As someone who’s had a veryyy active “phase” and is now considering monogamy with a particular woman, I thank you for this comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Being hookup material is much better than being husband material.As much I may wanna think of myself as “superior” per your post, (80+ partner count) I don’t think I am haha. But I will say that if you’re a man who easily gets sex then yes you will also easily find A relationship BUT NOT necessarily with a woman of “your dreams.” Meaning, there definitely will be women who would commit to you but not necessarily women YOUD wanna commit to otherwise hookup culture probably wouldn’t exist so prevalently as it does now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Men Peak in Attractiveness to Young Women in their TwentiesI graduated college at 21 and at that time had slept with 50 different women. I am 23 now and must say this is the easiest it’s ever been dating wise for me. Physically speaking, I think I’ve gotten slightly more in shape and lost baby fat over the past couple years. I feel as though my confidence driven by my experience has been the most important factor. If you wanna “get better” at dating, you’ve gotta date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 11:46 PM |
| 1 | My best tips to get pretty girls to chase (been doing this for 15 years)I used to attribute my success mainly to looks which definitely did play a role. But charisma has taken me to a wholeeee new level | /r/seduction | 10/06/25 05:53 PM |
| 4 | Best cities for datingNYC and it’s not even close. (Biased bc I’m born and raised) But we’ve not only got volume, but also ratio, diversity, AND density | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Reddit Analysis is so split because we literally live in different environmentsBorn and raised NYC so this is quite true. Used to think others “lived in a bubble” but it’s definitely me lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 05:34 PM |
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