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GeneralSychoNot/r/MensRights26/05/25 06:14 PM
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Question For WomenSychoNot/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:52 PM
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SychoNot/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:35 PM
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Oh snap snap snap!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:50 PM
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No child care is not essential. And there’s plenty of men in the medical field and especially at the high level like surgeon they dominate. You are the nurses lol. You don’t farm or work in processing factories. You work easy jobs you hang out in the AC all day. All of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:45 PM
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It’s crazy you are being upvoted while seemingly trying as hard as possible to understand what he’s saying. When he means essentials he means city workers, police/fire, mechanic/, production workers. All those jobs that are way over your head, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:51 AM
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Squawk squawk
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:38 PM
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O empathy for you. ZERO.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:01 PM
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Life was objectively better by every measure before all this. This is the world you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 11:41 AM
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Thanks man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 11:32 AM
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I’m actually a happy go lucky person that got to live a fun life. I saw how much you hated that and now I can never unsee it. You know. I know. And you know that I know. Your 15 minutes are up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:13 AM
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It’s empty OUTSIDE. The more women get into power and implement their social views society turns into this humorless, sexless, always predictable, overly cautious, nihilistic, godless, and soul destroying society you seem to just love. It all tracks back to feminist liberalism and its destructive well to do Karen bs. Your main lens of what you consider rights surround killing your children, cutting your dick off, and inviting invasions that destroy country and culture. You are an actual death cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:38 AM
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They’re projecting their maternal instincts all over us and society. Quite literally trying to mommy you and everything else. Crazy thing is they have 0 self awareness about it. It’s the Karen Apocalypse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:12 PM
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Why this hypothetical? Are you like clinically asexual. Seems like women have formed a resentment towards sex. Your asking how can I take away things that fulfill you while leaving you fulfilled? Why even do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:39 PM
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I’d go and have fun. Knowing in the back of my mind it would have been way better if we got to ride the main attractions. Maybe someone else would ride them with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:36 PM
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I want the government to intervene because your batshit extinctionist views toward society. Not because I’m not getting any. Men really don’t want women that want them. The thing is when you get everything you want you don’t want it anymore. And the space is just left empty. Hence society turning into a nihlistic hellscape. You would lead as all to our doom.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:32 PM
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Not the only but maybe it’s highest form. It’s like saying you love theme parks but when we get there you don’t wanna ride the roller coasters. Just big ol bummer man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:20 PM
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I did have an older brother and he was very much “that” kind of older brother. I guess I’m lucky that sexual standards and ability to satisfy women weren’t placed on me before I even finished puberty…Honestly that’s kinda terrible. Shit like that is why so many men grow up thinking then only way do validate themselves is through women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:01 PM
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Your 5th grade peers threw out little dick jokes on the playground? That’s kinda weird but ok. Maybe it’s where I’m from that would have been a little homo erotic. It was common to call each other a pussy or wuss or whatever but 10 yos knocking each other about the ability to get ass wasn’t my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:09 PM
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In my 40 years working on construction sites and kitchens with surly dudes I have never heard one of them say “you have small dick energy.” That would come off as pretty weird thing to say and wouldn’t be a dig you wanna throw out. Men might throw around machismo to inflate themselves but I’ve never heard it used as pejorative or in a way that condemns them to social ostracism. Maybe a tease but not this all out indictment of their character and worthlessness as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:27 AM
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Yeah it feels like a nanny who’s handing out treats. Not very engaging.. You’re cool tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:10 AM
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It’s just the inverse of “man bad.” Demonize being moral, demonize their shortcomings. Man = bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:53 PM
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Thing is the “you’ll never get pussy” or “small dick energy” are things women like to throw out. They vehemently enforce the dynamic. Many talk about being sexually active as a litmus test for social approval and fulfilling our caveman duties are paramount.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:51 PM
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I mean that applies to any platonic friendship. Like if someone wants to be your friend because it improves their own social life they aren’t actually your friend. They’re just using you for what you do for them. Some people don’t understand the difference tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:46 PM
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He needs to get rid of the demanding person coercing him do conflicting things simultaneously. This is why married men are often just stoic shells in their relationship. Just a robot that needs to do whatever is good for others and always neglect himself. What about his needs? Ah who am I kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:48 PM
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Most men just want someone to share life experiences with. Thats what relationships used to be about in the modern era. The idea that you don’t see a “net gain” shows how business minded you are about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:46 PM
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The number one pejorative on reddit towards men is “Incel.” The female version of that word carries no weight. It is the go to criticism of men. If you so much as have a political opinion they don’t like you get this vile “no woman will ever touch you.” It’s so thick women use sexuality as a litmus test for social approval. Despite all the progressiveness women are still focused on a man’s ability to fulfill his biological purpose like it’s the Stone Age. You’re just completely wrong and it play…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:41 PM
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My experience is the opposite. You meet the demands or you’re gone. Has nothing to do with maturity. It’s just learned selfishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:34 PM
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While also prioritizing men that are driven and ambitious. So be ambitious but also you need to drop whatever you’re doing at any point in time and come lazily snuggle me on the couch. It’s like having a daughter not a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:31 PM
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OP this is my main reason for staying single. Multiple xs did this to me. You are not flawed. Women ABSOLUTELY do this. The whole happy wife happy life did not come out of no where.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:28 PM
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I’ve had the exact experience and they will break up with you for not making yourself immediately available. It’s not a test. It’s conditioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:26 PM
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I just like you thinking I don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:21 AM
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Embolden the demonic leftists
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:17 AM
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One paragraph in and I can tell you’re a brain melted fucking chungus.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:14 AM
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I juiced with heart enlarging substances that permanently alter my endocrine system and it totally worked bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:11 AM
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When you’re given power you hive together and completely feminize everything. There is no scenario where you’ll say “ok now we’re even” It is a forever thing. There is no end. Equality is a lie you hide behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 03:56 PM
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“No upfront validation” Why is this a thing. It makes dating feel like a chore you have to do. The simplest little things could gas the entire situation up but you can only give out a tiny morsel. It’s my main reason for dropping out. Tired of sitting across from someone that makes me feel like they’d step over my dead body. Where are my romantic feelings suppose to come from. The permission of you allowing me in your shared existence? It wasn’t always like this. Women use to find a way to kinda…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:32 PM
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Tell a story? The story is I go on vacations and go to trendy places for photo op’s, AT BEST.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:21 PM
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Yes. Absolutely. That what was done to us. It’s time for you to suffer the indignity as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:14 PM
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He’s right though. You can literally go to any sub, forum, sect of society and see a massive empathy gap. Then you guys come in as this total anomaly as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:11 PM
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Feminism has lead to “where are all the good men” They absolutely feel superior in this moment in time and anyone that can’t see it is full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:08 PM
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What kinda crackhead take is this? You went full retard there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:19 PM
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That is patently false: See Sydney Sweeney vs the horde of pig women that hate her. Then there’s the attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:18 PM
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Because alienating people you don’t agree with is a lib thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:15 PM
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I think you’re realizing modern women use their sexuality to coerce people to adopting their view points and yes it’s gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:02 PM
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I think so. The sexless era started the same time the 3rd wave feminist era took hold. I don’t think it’s a coincidence that the constant demonization and “men bad” would lead some to resent what men desire. We hear words like “the male gaze” and other condescending phrases that they internalize like it’s gospel. Look at Sydney Sweeney. That Jean ad is just like any Levi’s, CK, Guess Jean ad I saw in the 90s. You know why it’s really controversial? Because it’s a good looking woman directly appe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:34 PM
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Fuck your experiences. They don’t account for shit. I’m not a sheltered mf stuck in this parent-teacher conference you call life. I’ve been out there. I’ve had multiple relationships and many sexual partners. I circulate in a busy metropolitan city. My work brings me a lot of places and a lot of people. I’m willing to bet you don’t know shit about life other than your own perceived slights. I know you’re sheltered just by the way you talk. You’ll never realize it because you live in a world wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:20 PM
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Nah I don’t think I will. That ship has sailed. I don’t need you vampires to cloud what I can see with my own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:43 PM
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“Everyone gets shamed” In case you haven’t noticed women have been doing whatever the fuck whenever the fuck for a couple decades now. It’s not even like that at all anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:26 PM
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Modern western only value your discipline and your ability to deprioritize your own needs. Can we just quit lying to ourselves? These bishes are spiteful and loaded with disdain. They’re not nice people. That’s why. They hate you and your existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 05:57 PM
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No they fucking are not. We are way past the revolution and you guys do whatever the fuck you want whenever you want. Wake up it’s 2025 not the Great Depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 05:54 PM
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It’s not even close. Men with the intent of getting laid is seen as seedy. Just stop lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 05:52 PM
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The “men want bangmaids” is extremely common on this sub and others. Like it’s mentioned in nearly every post in this context. First time here ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 05:50 PM
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Thanks brother.
/r/MensRights04/06/25 02:47 AM
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Its growth to deal with other peoples toxicity. Not so sure that’s a good thing. I’d rather grow among constructive people that do things on their own merit. We’re going backwards.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 10:28 AM
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I was referring to a coworker by her actual work title and it was construed to me being demeaning and making sure people felt below me. In reality they just wanted my position. I have not. I’m pretty sure I know what book you mean and I have been meaning to pick it up. Pretty sad I need to educate myself on these power fantasies everyone has.
/r/MensRights02/06/25 01:01 PM
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One of them somehow coerced another one to go to management with a silly story but it still landed me in a round table discussion. The accuser later pulled my aside and apologized and spilled the beans the hostile one talked her into doing it. Stuff like that. It’s just a general hater behavior where they work to minimize you or make you look bad to your superiors. That same one would also do this thing where she would somehow “accidentally” run into me. Other people even pointed it out. This ov…
/r/MensRights29/05/25 04:38 PM
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You can but it’s like being in a room with a charging bull. You can only dodge the horns so many times. After a while it does get to you. They show up every day with that energy. It’s noticeably more at peace when they are gone, etc. it just gets to me that people are even like this at all.
/r/MensRights26/05/25 06:30 PM
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Well reading between the lines it sounds like you pay attention to words over actions. Who cares what they say or seem genuine, or sincere. Do they talk the talk or do they walk the walk? Everything else is bullshit. Take a step back and look at them as if you're in 3rd person without motivations a prescribed role. The subconscious starts to reveal itself. You can't just feel it out. Too good-looking is a weird one. I think I've been labeled as that by some and people think everything is easy fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:30 PM
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I never said deserve. Of course, you don't deserve that. I'm saying it's actually way more predictable than you would lead others to believe. When you're focused on things like "the ick" a predatory person knows how to get around that. The simplest and most noble of positive traits in a man are like this total afterthought.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 05:45 PM
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They might not say it but there are definitely women who operate entirely on "vibes"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 05:33 PM
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I guess if you don’t mind being manipulated it’s not relevant. Woman are basically saying they have a Devine intuition but can’t be blamed when they choose wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:22 PM
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It absolutely is as you could see his mindset if your own perspective is wasn’t so absolutely skewed. He’s probably giving you clues but you’re so impressed with his outfit or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:53 PM
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It’s actually quite apparent upfront but your perception of reality vs what you want someone to be blinds you. Once it’s clear I’ll have to invest more of myself I’ll invent some argument and blame you for it so I can break it off with you. Then chalk it up as someone I used to know. Repeat. I really wish I could be emotionally available. But women actually seem to find no value in that. Certainly not the full spectrum of emotions that men exhibit. The only alternative seems to be stay one step …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:44 AM
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Does not compute beep boop
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:29 AM
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“Over time” Once the mask slips you’ve already got your kicks and you don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:27 AM
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You’re basically proving if a man acts out a facade he can get in and out of your pants with ease. I absolutely can’t stand this about women. Men pick up on this and they say “well I’ll just wear a mask then.” It’s so unbelievably easy. Then in your mind chalk it up as “emotional availability” and “douchebags.” That guy is just being what you want him to be. That’s it. Maybe this whole mystical intuition you think you have is totally flawed if not broken. I can see the litany of garbage that fol…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:25 AM
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I have a great group of friends. They aren’t a substitute for intimate and romantic connections by any means though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:46 PM
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Yeah because it’s always cut and dry like that…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:55 PM
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Sure. But the point is it’s damned if you do damned if you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:06 PM
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Maybe he's pushing through a long work week with some contingencies and can't say for sure when he'll be available in the short term. Asking someone out 5 times tells me you're requesting someone's availability on a daily basis. What's missing from this conversation is something that men go through that I've experienced personally. Women really like an ambitious guy who takes responsibility and is driven. This usually means a guy who's pretty busy with work. Then she looks past that thing that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:42 PM
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It totally is. It's like a kid taking his toys and going home because they didn't get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:26 PM
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You can't fire me I quit!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:24 PM
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Women have made that overwhelmingly clear. That's why after 5 dates, this dude just bails. He never invested any of himself in her. We've already arrived at the postmodern version of what you're trying to bring awareness to. Also, asking someone out multiple times sounds demanding and high-maintenance. Sounds like she just couldn't deal with the fact this guy couldn't set more time aside for her. That comes off as entitlement. In fact your whole post comes off as entitled like "I'm gonna get wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:19 PM
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Put down the crackpipe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:44 AM
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Such better social skills they have to be removed from society? I guess strong arm robbery does take confidence…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:08 AM
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Childhood neglect is one reason. A lot of millennials identify as "latchkey kids" Abuse is another one. People get certain affirmations in their formative years that help build up a healthy sense of self. Not everyone got that, though. In fact, a lot of people don't. The boomer class tried to raise us like their parents did. In a way that was incongruent with their own experience and our reality. As if they had to plow the fields and protect the livestock from wolves or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:34 AM
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Kinda goes to show who OLD is really for. All these guys complaining they can’t get matches. But the hell begins when you DO get matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:38 PM
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I mean yeah…could be. So just say that. It’s just regular adult communication. Leaving someone on read you’re going to get the “?” text and they’re awaiting your reply. Just pull the cord.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:12 PM
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I’d just like them to say they weren’t feeling it or whatever. Definitely don’t say you had a good time and say you want to meet again. There’s a million ways you could say it. We’re not compatible, not my type, I’m not ready to date, etc. I’d be a little offended if they said I was unattractive. More so confused as I do a good job of using pics that show what I regularly look like in daily life. What you see is what you get. Being ghosted is particularly frustrating because you don’t know what …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 07:53 PM
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Playing a high level of numbers on old. Rejection is a part of life but the new world brings that into overdrive. I have to work 10 times harder for less result. It’s kinda like putting out job applications and not getting so much as a call back. You start to feel like a clown. It is absolutely humiliating and borders on soul crushing. Women don’t know what that’s really like and they flat out lie to act like they do. My lasted tinder date said she had a good time and agreed to a second date. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 04:53 PM
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lol they don’t wanna answer that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 04:44 PM
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I have pretty bad adhd and it’s been a huge hinderance. I’m good looking so it makes up for it to some degree. But I have been through a ton of women that didn’t go anywhere long term. I tend to let my thoughts run away and am heavily distracted. Sometimes I’m disassociating and not feeling well mentally This looks like some type of neuroticism to women. Some act like I’m dangerous or incompetent. Being a neurodivergent male is a huge barrier. Dating neurodivergent women can be a fix but they ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:29 PM
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You’re misreading what I’m saying and throwing your own ego into it. Good luck bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:36 PM
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I’d say that’s just as true for dating apps lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:35 PM
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In everyone’s experience. It’s just nature. Any instance to the contrary isn’t some cheat code you found.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:57 AM
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Because women consider your ability to be resourceful as a measure of you being a competent adult. This is basic stuff. Women who have options don’t go after men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:12 AM
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It’s at a whole other scale where it’s legal (decriminalized) tho. There’s high class escorts everywhere, true. In Vegas you find their business cards littered on the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:09 AM
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Hanging out with your bros and having a laugh might get you looks from across a room but that’s about it. If you don’t display some sense of strength or competence in moving things forward you’re going to get static in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:04 AM
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There’s a balance. If you can’t even provide by setting up a situation where things can happen then you won’t be seen as a provider. No you shouldn’t chase. But if you don’t go after what you want that will give them the ick too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:00 AM
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Because when it’s legalized all those ills go away. It’s not controlled by organized crime. Where it’s legalized it’s not all that different from being on OF. It’s a business where people come and go. (Ha)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:52 AM
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I mean he made a point. If you ever been to Vegas and seen an upper class escort you’d know why. Pulling some drug addict off the blade is a whole other thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:41 AM
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I mean romantic value. I know that and I do think too many men are wired to seek a sense of worth from relationships. It may stem from motherhood. It many ways it’s a constant societal expectation, from birth to death. Everyone will judge you for it and it has a massive effect on your social environment. To some degree it makes sense. As someone on the other side of it I get annoyed when people question my non existent dating life. There “has” to be something wrong. This is very munch pushed by …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:57 AM
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You can’t just make it disappear. You’re basically saying women can sleep around and men just have to be comfortable being alone until they die. It doesn’t work. The loneliness will inevitably eat at you. We are wired to connect. I mean what you’re saying is happening and society is pretty much breaking down. More people immigrate to my country than are born. Because they’re still in the old ways having babies and starting families. Do whatever you want is running us off a cliff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:49 PM
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Very true. We use to find partners and shared spaces where we could see how someone interacts, what they’re likes are, commonalities. Online dating is just pointless now. You’ve got one date to prove to a stranger that doesn’t give 2 shits about you that you are of value. The difference is this burns men out. Women seem ok doing this forever. They have a line of dudes providing temporary validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:43 PM
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It doesn’t work. They build up this masculine energy and then expect you to be more masculine than them. They're just stepping into a male role and they actually don’t like it. Women are lying they love patriarchal courtship from a man that goes for what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:31 PM
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At some point in the 2000s when a certain movement gained traction male desire became “creepy”. The male gaze as they call it. It was more ok for both genders to be promiscuous or wanting some action. This timeline fuckin sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:15 AM
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:P
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:52 PM
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I think I know what I must do. Hopefully they're not all taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:43 PM
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Very succinct, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:55 PM
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That tracks. I get the feeling you were/are kinda goth/indie?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:54 PM
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Thank you for this. Whatever happened to being original? I'll do it for you, dawg. I refuse to get into the box.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:42 PM
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I wish I could send you a pic I took this morning. A lot of professional men dress in these super tight/stretchy slacks, Chelsea boots, and a form-fitting button-up or polo.. That is a very popular style I see everywhere, and I live in a hip city. Emo kid tight jeans are out. But there are definitely a ton of relevant styles that use form-fitting clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:35 PM
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Or maybe draping yourself in a sheet-like garb just isn't all that flattering to the body? No, I understand. You hate masculinity because you hate men, and then seek it out in women. It makes total sense. , I think you have some kind of power fantasy my dude. Kinda weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:29 PM
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I'm reading Bill Bryson's "Neither Here Nor There." It's funny! Brooooo, you're on Reddit talking in pill forums. The algorithm HAS YOU without you even knowing it, and THAT is programming. You have a wild take I'll give you that. Some people say a whole lot without saying anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:24 PM
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I honestly don't know how to answer that question, and don't understand how that's your only deduction from my OP. Have a good week, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:16 PM
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It's not yucky. Just tracks that women that like butch women might like them in a pants suit. From the other side, I totally get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:11 PM
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Man, thats a long comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:24 AM
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what is your inital or cursory opinion of someone that "didn't." No offense will be taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:24 PM
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I suppose that's a sensible take. Still feels like following suit is conforming to the role though. I thought we were past that in 2025.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:22 PM
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I mean, I might be holding on to my youth. I don't fit any male stereotypes and I feel like that makes people confused about who I might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:05 PM
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It's not just the boots, it's the walking and talking. The boots are a mere accessory to that. Then again, I have several pairs of boots so wtf right? I don't like physically wearing them, though! Except the Docs. I don't mean for it all to be about the boots. The boots are just part of the facade. Is holding on to your youth a sign of immaturity? What's so great about being old?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:33 PM
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I think you're misunderstanding where I'm coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:27 PM
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In self-defence, I'll use the word effeminate. A "city-slicker," if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:59 PM
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Except I didn't and you're twisting my words. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:51 PM
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It does seem like there was a major shift away from that to some kinda tough guy thing, right? I feel like men were allowed to be more free spirited in their fashion choices and demeanor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:47 PM
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Maybe reread my OP. I'm talking about the expectation that I look and act like a traditional man. Seems like all revisions of gender roles was specifically for one side.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:43 PM
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I though it was implied by your comment that since women are judged by a harsh standard so too should men. I see a lot about how men need to "do more." I worry about a world where everyone has placed so many expectations on themselves and others only a handful ever find success. I worry that is the world we live in now. Too many reasons to compete with one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:30 PM
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Feminists always told me feminism is about the equality of the sexes. "A rising tide lifts all boats" was a popular saying. Doesn't seem like the needle has moved on our side.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:26 PM
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I'm not sure what you're directing that statement at. My ideology? What ideology?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:19 PM
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Alllllright.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:10 PM
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That tracks. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:09 PM
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It use to mean "clean cut." You overdress a little and might use hair gel or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:05 PM
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Out of pure curiosity ballpark age?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:03 PM
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Sorry I don't find the bossy office lady look attractive. I can see why you do though. Because it's manly and you are gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:02 PM
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But who's doing the judging, though? Is it men or yourselves? I get what you're saying and totally understand it. But is the solution to rise to that unfair judgment, and then proceed to have that expectation of others? Sounds like a vicious cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:59 PM
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My mom and dad were hippyish and lived a somewhat alternative lifestyle. Maybe it's the examples I had. Appreciate the perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:54 PM
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More corporate dicks and "dad" like dudes I see around town. I kinda like the cowboy thing lol. I'm in Texas though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:50 PM
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Hard disagree. Looks like you lost a fight to the window drapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:47 PM
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Maybe I could get on Queer Eye or something. I think my style is just comfortable. I don't really like wearing tight jeans, boots, tucked-in shirt. Feels way too...well...old dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:46 PM
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Is the trend is for men to be more manly? Doesn't that fly in the face of progressive feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:39 PM
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Just being true to myself. What was the whole point of all those formative experiences and the formation of a sense of self/identity if only to wipe the slate clean? Go the distance with? Do you mean marriage? I've gone to the point of cohabitating, but I really just don't think I want to marry anyone. It would take a fictional person. I think there's something to the "hip" thing you said. I still ride my bike whenever I can. It's cool to be outside and I don't have to find parking. I still wear…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:35 PM
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Well I prob disagree on the cute thing. I look back at the era I'm describing and wish women were that fun and sexy again. What's cute now? Pants suits? I kid. So if I'm reading between the lines, women equate a man's stage of growth or maturity with his (perceived) masculinity. And as we get older, that sense of masculinity "should" be more "traditional."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:05 PM
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Those forces that drive men to seeking validation are very much external. The worst thing you can be is an "incel" Not only will it make you invisible to women but all of society will judge you on that status and ability to court a woman. Even your peers might see you as a pariah. I won't give you my lifes story but it's something that's been shoved in my face since birth and as I progress into my 40s without relationships being a central focus anymore I am still judged on it. As if it defines m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:17 PM
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Who gets to decide? Is it other women? I think it runs deeper for some people then you are letting on. It's only got more openly hostile and in your face since society decided to go down this path. It's not some coincidence we don't really have any real concept of what positive masculinity looks like anymore. I appreciate your liberal sensibilities and being fair but in social practice there seems to be an undercurrent of revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:03 PM
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It's all related. When men form groups it's a "boys club" but when women take advantage that's "progress." If male only dominated spaces are inherently bad and masculinity is toxic that creates a pretty confusing environment for men to find points of relation. Moreover men are constantly told they need to "do better" at competing for women and their life becomes this soul destroying quest to live their life finding female approval. The word "incel" isn't a slur because they don't have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:23 PM
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See there you go. It's something "you're not trying to do" while exhibiting a frame of mind where it's "insane" to think outside the narrative. The number one issue among left voters was abortion, an issue that has almost no actual relevance to men. I have no power in this world. I was born poor and have struggled my entire life. I now live in a world where women are hostile towards me because of some weird nebulous idea that I don't have problems because the president is a man, or they don't ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:01 PM
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I'll give you an example. When Kamala had a campaign page up under "who we serve" it listed every humans rights protection towards minorities and women. That was not an omission. I genuinely think a good amount of women were totally fine leaving all of men without political representation because "the patriarchy." If i go to almost any sub or social media page and talk about bias towards men in the workplace or society right on cue someone will ALWAYS say "oh look poor oppressed white man." It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:25 PM
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You mean used identity politics within the political system and the threat of social obsolescence as a mechanism to coerce all of society skew towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:56 PM
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Diminishing returns. When you can have something on demand it loses it's significance. If that wasn't a reality you knew then you would probably want to know what it's like to be desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:53 PM
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You can't actually believe that. For the past 15 years all leftist woman could talk about patriarchy and all problems could be traced back to that. The left made white men the enemy. Now that hate is in full effect and those very same people are softening their language (because they lost political power) "men need to figure this out for themselves." I think the solution is clear. Stop listening to women. Equality. Also if men could grow a spine and not abandon their life's convictions and spend…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:37 PM
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You have a terminally online view of men. My single homies go out on the weekends. My shacked up homies have to stay home and play house. I have certainly felt socially isolated in relationships expending all my effort to a single woman's benefit. And they are not giving up one iota of that benefit. In fact they're saying men need to work harder for it. The trope is women aren't friends with other women. And wives hate their husbands friends. The opposite does not exist. Men are not catty and so…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:24 PM
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Yeah but your great great grandfather existed so they deserve societal advantage now...or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:15 PM
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Accountability dodged! Keep on shuckin and jivin maam.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:14 PM
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I agree with you on how quick they side with corporate policy. Women are totally dominating the HR field in every industry I see. They love positions of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:28 PM
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Are you inferring if a man is 40+ single then he MUST be unstable?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:06 AM
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Oh ok well then go jump off a bridge society doesn’t need you. Have a good one!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:40 PM
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Women do not want men to have their own spaces anywhere in society ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:32 PM
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I’m in my late 30s and yeah a lot of women seemed resigned even in their relationships. Whats most fucked up is I’ve deduced a lot of it has to do with their experiences with the most toxic and abusive men. Like their most formative dating experiences are with total womanizers they were pining for in their early dating life. It’s unfortunate for guys like me that took a haitus from dating and wanted to come back to it later in life hoping for something more “adult” or whatever. People just seem …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:32 PM
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Hobbies, interests, goals, aspirations, current events, music, career, food, culture, travel, upbringing, personal philosophies, likes/dislikes, etc etc etc. There you have an answer. I assume the reason you never got one is the overall condescending tone and asking someone what a conversation is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:06 PM
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Based cold unfiltered reality. Men are expected to live in an illusion of where all this in your face shit isn’t actual reality. The second they smell it on you they’re on to the next hopeful idiot to use up. You have been regulated to the undatable Incel given a list of impossible standards and self-help so you can step up to the plate and have the carrot dangled once again. There is an extreme minority of women that will meet you half-way in life but they get wifed up just outta high school. 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:08 PM
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Maybe your baby trapping peers aren’t the best barometers of truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:23 PM
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Oh I’ll take that too lol. We’re using vague descriptors here tho. I don’t really equate “fit” with “thick” tho. For me it’s the legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:06 PM
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I’d take a flat chest over chub any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:45 PM
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People are attracted to the human form. The more you layer on that the less attractive it is. It’s almost like wearing baggy clothing. You can’t see the contours of their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:03 PM
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Eh who gives a shit. Lol before you’re sexist rant comes IM KIDDING.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:52 PM
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I found it helpful in that you proved his point with your dingbat responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:13 AM
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Cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:08 AM
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OP doesn’t know the difference between a dildo and a real person. Is it just me or are there just some gutter ass people in here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:06 AM
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It’s classic projection dude. Every guy knows what you mean about having to entertain women on dates. Don’t even bother spinning your wheels for these morons. Good luck in the Phillipines. An environmental change like that will absolutely be a life change. I’m jealous lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:59 AM
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He wrote a very detailed response that was articulate well and you came back with nothing of substance. No wonder you don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:53 AM
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Reading between the lines in OP and all these comments people expect way too much out of their relationships. The naivety in narcissism is palpable and just goes to show how people have lost the plot. News flash OP: Older well off men that acquired MONEY over TIME are totally capable of getting young pussy. Anna Nicole Smith was the hottest super model on the planet and she married a guy that was fucking 90.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:54 AM
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I think for men it’s kind of a boy to man thing. You’ve probably heard “she’ll make a man out of you.” or something. Men are taught from birth to get their validation from women. Terrible and true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:54 PM
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I’d say you have about a 10%-20% chance dating a girl taller than you and about a 50/50 chance at women your height or shorter. Just my experience as someone 5ft 7. Compensating with other desirable traits (dress well, confidence, affable, muscles, etc) definitely helps. You will also come across people that show you less respect. Physical jobs this will be more noticeable. You’re not outright screwed but it’s delusional to think it’s not a factor. I’ve noticed Spanish ethnicities seem to be the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:30 AM
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Women very much like having all the control. I mean why wouldn’t they. We work, they choose. Even when they say they don’t they subconsciously work towards that end either through sex or defining what it means to be a man or validation. To take accountability would be to give up some control. And they aren’t giving up one ounce and will seek other ways to gain more. If they onus is always on you to “try harder” then they’re cruising on easy street. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:28 PM
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I guess for some it might but most people just see that as dad being dad. When I had gfs as a teen we weren’t allowed to be in the room with the door closed, lay down in the bed together, stay out too late together ect. They were just boundaries and protections that made sex impossible and those statements made were to further deter the act. Maybe some really conservative dads take it too far but most girls took that with a grain of salt if they cared for a trusted the dude in their life. I say …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:38 PM
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It’s called a counterpoint. Dad comes out and scolds young Johnny and they go out to the point and make out and time goes on. It’s not reinforced misogyny it’s just some bs take the commenter ginned up to reinforce their own views.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:19 PM
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It’s just a defense mechanism that’s pretty natural an human. My point is they really don’t have a point. Fathers want to protect their daughters and some go a little overboard. It’s not some psychological reinforcing phenomenon the commenter is making out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:13 PM
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Yeah but the thing is they don’t actually believe that. The thought of their daughter being the object of affection in the same way they saw other women makes them uncomfortable. It’s really not hard to understand. But maybe you’re actually right. it’s because they are actually evil 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:01 PM
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It does in your mind where wanting sex is seedy behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:56 PM
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Not really. Fathers don’t want their daughters having sex. But we all know how that goes. It’s not heinous. Boy wants girls and try’s to get girl it’s as old as time. You guys are just so detached from basic humanity on this site. I suppose I could have used flowery language and that would appease you? I’m really glad I grew up in the 90s when having sex was just normal and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:50 PM
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This is the reaction of fathers realizing their daughters will be a sexual target just like they viewed their own wife. It’s not fathers castigating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:46 AM
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This changes as soon as you entire into any field that is physically competitive. When I started construction my nickname was “mouse.” I got comments on my height nearly every day. And it only followed suit that I struggled to gain the respect of my peers. I’ve been verbally rejected for my height by women that were 1” taller than me. Maybe you’re surrounded by a culture that is more accepting but I’ve witnessed people see me literally less than human and I’m 5ft 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:48 PM
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Pretty much all comes down to their success at being either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:07 PM
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<sup>These</sup> women are the problem. Her: You aren’t entitled to sex! Also her: You will never get this pussy haha loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:52 PM
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This is the correct answer. I’ve always dated the “hot” girl and I always got traded in. Now talking to a girl that is a little below my usual standards and she does/says all these loving things that I don’t even know how to feel. Go get you a plain Jane boys she might actually show you some love.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:04 PM
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Yeah but you have to eat it the long way ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:37 PM
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Wow this is surprisingly true. I’ve never wanted to choke or pull hair or anything like that but I’ve done it for them. Dirty talk also kinda sticks out. It’s either they’re incapable (lame) or it’s WAY over the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:28 PM
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Sounds the prerogative of every single woman ive been in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:22 PM
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Because it’s usually something someone created out of their own intellect and contains original ideas that are thought provoking and insightful. Not to mention reading envokes memory and processing written words to an Idea. It’s why you read in schools and not watch it all on tv. Yeah one could be reading reading romance novels but there’s far more mindless tv than books.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:23 PM
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Healthy consumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 01:19 PM
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I know a couple guys that married foreign women. They’re all really great guys and just wanted someone that contributed to their life as they do to others. Demonize it all you want. Also, their is life outside of the internet. You should go touch grass!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:31 PM
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Oh please do go off lol. Okay western delusions. How’s that. I do just fine bud. Not all of us here are lonely or “predators.” We just see things for what they are. And no the entire world does not want to be like America. America doesn’t even want to be like America. Happy weekend!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:28 PM
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Lol you lack all self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:39 PM
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There’s literally no difference there between western and foreign women in that regard. Every woman is concerned about financial security through their partners. You don’t see women financially carrying men, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:36 PM
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Yet she totally disparages American men casting the whole thing as if they’re looking for a servant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:33 PM
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It’s not they’re submissive or obedient. It’s that they don’t have western ideas that favor women and make relationships a chore. You’ve kinda made their point just by the way you frame it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:31 PM
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Because.They.will.lose.in.court.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:59 PM
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I’m sorry but you are just not thinking straight. My car payment is 250 dollars a month. You’re putting up one months child support payments that equals THE ENTIRE VALUE OF A CAR PER MONTH as if that isn’t a totally daunting expense when it absolutely is. To most people being expected to fork over 5k a month is financially crippling. I make good fn money and I can barely fathom how I’d do that. That would be half of my entire income. Not to mention you don’t seem to acknowledge that people need …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:35 PM
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You’re totally ignoring the fact that it is up to the father to gain legal representation and fight in court. That is a massive advantage in itself. Did you ever stop to think that might be a painful and costly experience one might not want to go through. Do you think the fact that women win these cases more often (35% right?) might have any bearing on their decision to go through with it. It’s like you’re refusing to connect the dots. Almost every domestic statistic you can drum up from finance…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:16 PM
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I did a quick google search and everything except buzz feed confirms what I claim. Here: https://www.custodyxchange.com/topics/research/dads-custody-time-2018.php There it is. Men receive 35% of custody time. So what is your point? You want to post stats and then make assertions on things that can’t be measured by those stats? There’s a lot of hills to die on with female privilege but paternal rights and the way society operates favoring women as caretakers in every possible way just isn’t up fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:43 PM
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You would have to be born yesterday to believe men and women have an equal standing in family court.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:29 PM
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You don’t need stats when it’s the actual legal standing of the society you participate in. Custody is always deferred to the mother. The father must prove she is unfit for custody. I don’t know what country you live in but that’s how it is in the west. That totally leaves out the positive gender roles for women as the “nurturer” and how society goes along with that precedent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:27 PM
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Let’s not pretend that mothers don’t exert more influence over families and offspring. Coming from a family that’s very matriarchal it really irks me the way you just gloss over it and act like it’s completely 50/50. It’s not. In a divorce, who keeps the kids? Women are given agency above men when it comes to kids both directly and indirectly. And it only speaks further to my point about how men start being socially conditioned for women approval at a young age. Yes the father pays the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:20 PM
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My father did. But my point lies in the fact we circumcise because women. Which speaks to a broader point of how we are taught our whole lives to make ourselves acceptable to women. You see it in married men and the whole way it shapes a man’s identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:38 PM
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Starts at circumcising. We know there’s no medical reason for it but mothers have a strong opinion on their baby’s dick being pretty and clean for copulation decades down the line. It’s not that we’re taught to worship women. We’re taught that all our happiness and validation as human beings MUST come from women. “Happy wife, happy life.” Our entire status as men revolves around the women we “pull” and women act accordingly. Man doesn’t have hoes? Something must be wrong. Don’t date and chase wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:20 PM
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Do plus size women like plus size men? What is plus size anyway? Is it a reflection of her lifestyle? Probably. For me it’s the shoulders. Once the shoulders become wide and undefined it looks a little mannish.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:59 PM
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Doesn’t align with my experience. Women always have an idea in their head of what they think a man should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:51 PM
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Nah the kitchen is MINE and I clean just fine. Most men don’t want a mama girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:49 PM
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Yep welcome to the impossible fine line of conformity you are expected to walk. Don’t be indecisive but also don’t be controlling. Be confident but don’t be arrogant. Be vulnerable but don’t be weak. Be strong and never show frustration. Etc etc etc. oh and the line can be redrawn at any point and if you fall off then we’ll too bad just dust yourself off and go in for more. This is why older married men are stoic robots. Women cast an extremely rigid projection of what a man “should be” and soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:56 PM
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It helps them get laid. And in an environment where they are essentially hated for their existence and are expected to live up to another’s numerous expectations pump and dump makes the most sense. Low risk high reward. If pussy is all women are offering then it makes sense to go for just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:12 PM
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Yes our soul purpose in life should be to win a woman’s approval. What an extremely convenient and self serving dynamic to espouse. No matter how dominant a man is a woman will work to wear it down and control.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:58 PM
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Women do that regardless. Quit patting yourself on the back just for showing up. Women doctor themselves up to look better than they otherwise would to increase SMV and then blame men for it. What a world. It’s other women that reinforce these impossible beauty standards on each other. Never in my life have I heard a man say “but she doesn’t have a pedicure.” Just stop blaming men for all the shit you do to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:55 PM
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The height thing seems way more pronounced than it did 10 years ago. People don’t have preferences they have extreme rigid standards for beauty. It’s like saying she needs to be a size 0 or she’s undatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:08 AM
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Yeah. But here it’s because men are skeevy porn consumers with a self inflicted sexual indecency.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:51 PM
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Men age better but their lifestyles age them faster. I work around some guys where being a roughneck type eventually catches up to them. Sun exposure and manual labor takes a big toll. Then there’s drinking, diet, thrill seeking, general hooliganry
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:18 PM
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“Jack hammering guts like an autistic goof” seemed oddly specific. All the tips and such not sure what they’re directed at. It gives you the ability to go multiple times sequentially. It’s not an aphrodisiac or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 10:10 PM
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Why is it so hard to fathom people just wanting to perform better because they might reach their goal? Athletes do it. Celebrities do it. Tech bros will drop acid if it thinks they might get ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:56 PM
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Yeah it’s easy to blame men. I notice it’s imperative in this debate that men’s issues are always self inflicted. But any man with even at least a couple sexual experiences know what the OP is getting at. Seems like there’s a double standard here. The entire pharmaceutical/cosmetic industry is behind women but men taking penis pills draws a strange ire. I didn’t invent the stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 07:13 PM
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Whoa don’t shoot the messenger. I’m sorry for whatever you went through.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 06:52 PM
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They are Lance Armstrong level if you don’t need them. What’s funny as they are in fact used as doping in sports. It’s a rush of blood to a desired area. That’s not normal human function. They have a profound affect on your blood pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 06:21 PM
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I believe it. Addiction has risen across the board. Not sure how that’s relevant to young men taking penis pills. If men could bust a nut and just roll over they would lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 06:18 PM
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Lol look it up. The uptick is in the 20s. It’s really not that hard to fathom. Not all that different that putting silicon in your chest. If people can enhance their sexual performance to achieve higher satisfaction in a partner people might do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:07 PM
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Oh baby oh baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:19 PM
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Yeah that would suck. That’s not really how it works tho. The mast is down but is always ready to set sail, so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:19 PM
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You mean over the course of 12 hrs? I can think of a few…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:49 PM
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I don’t hold hands. Do 5 mins of homework it won’t kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:48 PM
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Well that’s not really a preference tho is it? He has a medical condition and without it can’t do the deed. I’m talking about dudes totally capable just getting an edge on the competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:22 PM
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If you google “young men using viagra” you’ll get tons of results. It’s also being used as a performance enhancer in athletics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:20 PM
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No it has nothing to do with ED. It’s a 12hr boner no human is naturally capable of. Women think you’re a sex god. I know this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:13 PM
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There’s been an uptick in young men seeking viagra. Men are drugging themselves up like pornstars to try to win over a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:07 PM
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Nah women are the choosers. I have to do the work to get the date, arrange the date, and be interesting/desirable on said date. It’s all for the woman and having her accept you. One just has to look toward nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:43 PM
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That Margret Atwood quote is pure garbage that should never be repeated. I mean if you wanna internalize victimhood go for it but I can only assume it’s a miserable place to be. I’ve never hit a woman. But I have been hit by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:22 PM
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So dating women is like getting a job? I totally agree 💯.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:05 PM
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And the second they see themselves as accepted they feel they have the right to rag on skinny girls. This is just another way women get to cheat when it comes to attraction. Can you imagine men wearing spanks or all those garments that press fat in/up. They already have the entire cosmetic industry behind it them so just ignore what can’t be painted over and boom you’re a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:03 PM
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Lol yeah I go on vacation almost to talk to different women. You’re right about the city. What a dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 03:02 PM
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Sorry. Too harsh? Thought if it was personal it would fly. Not trying to dump on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:59 PM
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Kind of a paradox when I’m doing all the sifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:53 PM
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Lol I can’t even exist in those subs. Slow down there satan.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:51 PM
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Yeah lots of close calls. It’s hard to not question yourself even when you know what’s right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:46 PM
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Nah you’re right. I’ll dust myself off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:45 PM
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Yeah I’m not one for platitudes. That one is just way too oversimplified. Maybe I’m too logical but that would lead one to believe that abusive relationships are their “fault.” I get the meaning. It’s just too generic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:43 PM
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Hahaha I like throwing myself to the wolves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:41 PM
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Mkay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:39 PM
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Yeah so I think I have a beat on that. But the next step is “how do I bring X type of person in my life” No fucking clue. And when I see her in public she’s taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:38 PM
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It really lingers. I really wish I could let this go.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:35 PM
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Yeah I realize I’m opening myself to some shitty comments here. Probably the worst place to post this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:34 PM
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Yeeesh. Okay...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:34 PM
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It just feels so prevalent that the alternative is some type of unicorn. I’m not saying I’m right. Just helpless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:32 PM
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I’m a couple years in. Think I’ve learned some things, hopefully. To increase ones wisdom is to increase ones sorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:30 PM
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I mean the results aren’t really similar. They range. I can have a cheater or someone that sucks the oxygen out of my life. Yay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:28 PM
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Yeah been monk for years now. Even after all this time I look back with a massive WTF. It feels like the mark has been made and I’ll never come out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:27 PM
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Yeah. Hence why I post here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:23 PM
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They didn’t necessarily happen quickly. Just looking back and wondering where I went so fucking wrong. What did I do to bring these people into my life? I see people that a hard to get along with find a partner. What the fuck is so wrong with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:22 PM
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I have a border collie and he’s the goodest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:12 PM
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Yeah I’m just pissed. It would seem I have no idea how to attract the type of women I truly desire. After all these years :(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:11 PM
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Yeah lessons learned as a young buck. I really don’t let that one get to me. I just use it as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:08 PM
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Haha she was actually really funny and smart in soft skills. She just wanted to play house so bad she was willing to give it to the first douche that made it concrete.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:07 PM
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Lolololol Edit. Some were financially well off. If that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:03 PM
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A few? Several. All. All of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:01 PM
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“Shit fly too high” I wish I knew what that meant because it sounds cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:00 PM
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As much as I want to think people are good I think my standards for humanity is too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:59 PM
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Ah yes if you’re beaten down then you did something to be beaten down. Makes total sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:59 PM
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I just wanted companionship and ended up deformed. I know plenty of good men. It’s not the same. How about this. You’re awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:58 PM
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Decisions are based on feeling and an emotional connection . They like, whatever they like, in that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:15 PM
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Oh man I always thought the bus stop was a no go. I see. Sounds like the best places are where socialization is implied. Sounds like a no brainer but also easily forgotten. Thanks for being specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:43 AM
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I see. The circumstances are in someway “wholesome.” Thanks for the reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 09:51 PM
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Yeah but at the same time women will use you for your attention and validation. Not a “balls empty” kinda guy but I do know what a wasted effort feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 09:48 PM
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May I ask what type of environment and social spheres you feel most comfortable being hit on? If you’re going out to meet people and possibly other men, where do you go?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:42 PM
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May I ask how/where you met your partner? I must be looking in the wrong places.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:39 PM
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Yeah then out of no where she starts choking you with her elbow. Or so I’ve heard...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:28 PM
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Sounds like you’re making the exception the rule. Androgynous women are attracted to androgynous men for obvious reasons. I love going to 80s night and dancing to Rick Astley but those girls are almost all new age hipster non-binary types or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:24 PM
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I think this is genuinely being put into practice. The crowd that imports their brides is getting younger and younger. I now know two guys who’s first marriages were to Thai girls while they were in their early 30s. A couple decades ago that would be pretty unheard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:19 PM
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Yeah my brother got used as a sperm donor. Knocked up a girl he wasn’t even dating but she was adamant about keeping it. Baby momma could give 2 shits if her son has a relationship with his dad. I’d go as far to say she would prefer he didn’t. She just wants child support and to be able to dictate the poor kids every breath and step he takes. I think some women see kids as a vehicle to bail out of their dysfunctional life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:17 PM
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Not at all important for relationship material. Will help you catch some strange though! Women derive masculinity from height. You can compensate with a good build. But in the end if she can’t sit in your lap like you’re Santa Clause she won’t be able to “feel cute” or wear high heels or whatever. You’ll never really hear a woman say he has to be muscle bound, you will hear them say he HAS to be tall. Just the fact that women are totally cavalier about holding that standard so rigidly says it al…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:57 PM
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I don’t know how one could quantify them both together. I will say TRP is one of the worst things to happen to dating outside of social media and dating app. The fact that you can prey on peoples instincts to induce a desired result should have never been a novel concept. Yes “it works” but is anyone asking why? Or even better should I? It reduces dating to a robotic script where the end result is inevitable desensitization. Having said that, I probably disagree with just about everything that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:43 PM
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You’ll find women’s preferences for attraction change as they get older. Right now they’ll date guys they think are “cute” and there’s no concept of long term consequences. When they get older they become attracted to something that more resembles your dad. That’s where the “protector” comes in. I didn’t even know I was short by dating standards until my 30s. It wasn’t an issue at all in my early 20s. That was also before dating apps and we ordered people like pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:31 PM
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Some of them don’t. But, A LOT of them do. I agree with you on tinder and it’s refreshing to hear. But at the same time, it works as a pretty good test kitchen for sexual dynamics based purely on surface level beauty. I’d love to get back out there just to cut up but a year of pandemic isolation has left me feeling pretty damn rusty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:24 PM
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I’m not Ugly. Mom says I’m handsome. I’m short. So I know the tradoff. I know the exact look of disappointment on a tinder dates face when the person thinks I looked taller in the photo lol. Who said anything about lack of women? It’s more about how things measure up (ha) side by side.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:52 PM
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They’re much less indecisive and have a pretty good understanding of how they intend to navigate life towards whatever intentions they may have. There’s an all around jump in emotional maturity. I’ve only had flings with older women but one dominant trait that sticks out is how extremely up front they were about everything. No curve balls, no land mines, no games. It’s very noticeable if you go from one to the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:29 PM
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I use to be totally opposed to the idea until I worked in construction and rubbed elbows with boomer cowboy types. Specifically the boss, was an extremely unhealthy man. He had skin cancer because sunblock is for girls. He had diabetes because he ate the typical two mains and a side unhealthy diet in excess. Anytime I would suggest a different cuisine or something healthier he’d make a homophobic comment. That’s when it hit me. How can food be gay? This guys preconceived notions about masculinit…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:55 PM
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You seem to be missing the traits behind those surface level attributes that women are attracted to. Women don’t want a “pretty boy” because it’s feminine to for a male to be super concerned about his looks. A hunter is seen as capable of gathering resources and capable of protection. It’s just nature. We are not so evolved that we have completely left behind the sexual dynamics we were born out of. Probably never will. It’s for the same reason that height supersedes all other traits combined. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:31 PM
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Well maybe I’m a little biased as being preview to the male experience. But in the circles I inhabited before going monk was a bunch of dudes going to the ends of the earth to better themselves. Whether it be rogain on their face, living at the gym, or trying to sponge every self help tidbit ever conceived. In the face of all that failures are always responded by “you just need to try harder.” I’m exhausted just watching these guys now. Married men too. It’s an endless treadmill of suffering unt…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:14 PM
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They 100% know that. You’re fooling yourself if you think they don’t. They draw a lot of power from that simple perpetual delusion. Nearly the entire male population can be manipulated by a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:05 PM
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If only people were as easy as fish lol. I agree with what you said almost entirely. Except in the OP is a sentiment I see touted that you really can’t know anything about women as a whole based on previous experiences no matter how many. You said it yourself a good fisherman knows conditions and can read the environment. He knows to use his top waters in shallow beds during spring where the bass are spawning. He knows how to base his color choices on water clarity. He reads the wind and the und…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:44 PM
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I think one can objective say relationships are better when things come natural and are lighthearted and fun. If it’s work from the get go you might as well start someone else. No my friends aren’t predictable and they’re quite diverse. But we’re not friends because I personally worked to get to know them. It was 2 way exchange between two people looking for companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:32 PM
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Lol damn I wish. No, more that it’s rational to see something as too complicated and focus on something less so. Especially if you reasonably see yourself successful toward that end. For instance I don’t date at all. Much of that is because of the content posted in OP. There’s so much fulfillment to be had in this life outside of trying to get through to someone that’s “complicated.” Life is too short to have to read everyone else’s novel. Write your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:13 PM
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It’s empowering if you win. I knew a pageant girl. She’s everything you would expect. Loved getting attention for her looks. The thing that seems wrong about your post is the context. This isn’t something brought upon them. Women love competing in that arena. Women are in no way pushing away these extreme rigid Beaty standards. It’s a vehicle and they intend to use it. Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:07 PM
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It’s much more tolerated for women. There’s no body positive movement for men or fat Lizzo Dudes twerking at ball games. If you’re pudgy dude or have a couple extra pounds you’re pretty much on par with fat women. If you’re short it’s pretty much the kiss of death.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:02 PM
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How would I feel I feel if you called men...men? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:57 PM
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I’m sure it is and I don’t even judge her for it. I’m just giving perspective from the other side of the pond. If dating is going to be like doing calculus than I’m gonna just rub one out and go about my day where I actually can be effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:41 PM
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Relationships? Not sure. It will catch some attention though but probably from people interested in surface level things. When my chest is really coming along at the gym chicks stare at the pecs like I stare at boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:31 PM
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You’re just people. The concept that females are these mystic beings is just self-romanticism. If I need to relearn how to fish every time I go fishing then I’m going to take up birdwatching or something else. Why put yourself through such things when in the end you cannot use any of the skills or knowledge going forward? What a waste of ones time. I can’t even fathom what it’s like to expect that from someone while never granting it oneself. Truth is you’re not complicated. There really isn’t a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:27 PM
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A dimly lit room rife with alcohol and bad decisions. What other way is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:14 PM
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