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I get it. I fought & searched hard for the first year. Then realized I would never win that fight. It also made me take a closer look at my life, & realized I already had everything I could ever want. I think the idea was I'd never get another gf. Or job. Or friends. That I would try & prove my worth & beg for validation. Jokes on them, i dont want any of that. They hate me because I've won at life, while they're struggling & losing. I hope you find a similar path to peace.
/r/MensRights03/07/26 06:54 PM
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My ex recruited the whole town to slander me, in every local group in a 100km radius. It spread from there. The harrasment slowed after about 3 years. Every friend, family member, nieghbor & coworker betrayed me. Nothing you can do. Enjoy the ride, my friend.
/r/MensRights03/07/26 10:17 AM
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I dunno, I don't think it's limited to young. Or women. Or relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:48 PM
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Those 9 months are the women's time to shine. They passively provide an invaluable place for healthy growth. I feel an accurate analogy is a seed planted in a bucket of dirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:58 AM
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Completely accurate didn't seem fair. I stand by my statement.
/r/MensRights21/05/26 10:04 PM
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Feminism isn't a movement anymore. They've gotten everything they wanted (although I'm sure they will claim otherwise). They are apart of every industry now, from trades to first responders, to white collar, including politicians. With more women in positions of power, women's issues will continue to take the forefront, both for personal gain & social status. It's a controversial topic that alot of women are passionate about, while most men just look up from what they're doing, think "good for y…
/r/MensRights21/05/26 09:58 PM
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That didn't really help. The generalization seemed pretty accurate
/r/MensRights21/05/26 05:51 PM
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Not just strangers
/r/MensRights08/05/26 09:48 AM
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Nah, I work in a shop of men & there's still quite a few white knight men that support feminism. They probably think they're good guys for it too. Men with daughters & wives will always enable feminism, regardless of how toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 09:13 PM
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Sadly even men will jump to their defense. White knights
/r/MensRights24/01/26 03:44 PM
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It's a savage world. Definitely enough to turn a guy cold
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:58 AM
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It's not necessarily about self improvement, but about filling your idle time with positivity. Something that will undoubtedly make you better, like fitness, as opposed to something that will make you undoubtedly worse, like alcohol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/25 11:04 PM
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Once you've gotten it out of your system it's easy to give up. It's the not knowing what your missing where most men get hung up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:31 PM
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Guys are just as jaded. Dating is toxic af rn
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:54 PM
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Projection. If they're calling you insecure, they're likely insecure themselves. Also blind external validation from yes sayers reaffirm their attacks.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 06:29 PM
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My source is empathy. Show some compassion for shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 10:51 AM
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Nah man. You may have had some decent points, but that's definitely not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 10:43 AM
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Cultural tradition shames their promiscuity
/r/MensRights01/07/25 12:08 PM
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Way ahead of you. They've finally convinced me.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 06:05 PM
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How dare you invest time, money, energy & interest in anything but your woman. Get your priorities straight. /s
/r/MensRights22/05/25 10:19 AM
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Nah, they're not even interested in the first bit. They just want the toxic second list now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:31 PM
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Trouble is half the men they're interested in do not reciprocate the interest. Not many women have much to offer when you remove sex from the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:53 PM
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Your not wrong. Like, at all. Breathe the negative out (toxic feminists) Breathe the positive in (self growth) Focus on the positive. Focus on what you have control over.
/r/MensRights15/04/25 09:35 PM
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Agreed. We talk openly about boundaries, respect, appropriate behavior & critical thinking. I encourage him to try to safely maintain a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:09 PM
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You've clearly given this alot of thought, & I appreciate what youre saying. You're not wrong. Your post leads me to believe you'd be better off focusing on building yourself, & not trying to analyze or fix the ever growing gender divide. Although I guess that's what this sub is for. The dating world has gone to shit, & is severely lopsided. Its irreparable. As a guy, it can really suck. I've more or less just removed myself from the dating pool, & I encourage you to do the same. Staying in it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:33 AM
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I agreed with everything until "babies need more affection from their mom". As a single dad that's gotta be the dumbest thing I've read today. My kids mother is a psychotic piece of shit that couldn't show genuine affection if her life depended on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:51 PM
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Tells me they're trying to hide massive shortcomings & insecurities.
/r/MensRights28/02/25 01:42 AM
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I've dated alot over the past 30 years or so. Zero interest in women now. I just want to live my life in peace already. Please, leave me alone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:55 PM
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Truth
/r/MensRights30/01/25 10:41 AM
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Just the opposite. Not releasing men has nothing to do with gender, & everything to do who will pick up arms & fight once free. These men's value is what's keeping them locked up.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 04:21 PM
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Say it louder for the ones in the back!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 09:53 PM
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In one word, trades. Aquire skills (builds network & confidence), work next to other guys, become more useful & subsequently more desirable. It's not a guarantee for everyone (there's obviously lonely people in trades) but it would help. Alot.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/25 12:07 PM
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Sounds about right. Can't win
/r/MensRights24/12/24 05:00 PM
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People loving hating on men. Deserved or not. Herd mentality just encourages it. Men & women alike.
/r/MensRights24/12/24 03:41 PM
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Nah, men don't give a shit either, but in my experience they are less likely to try & actively destroy you. Women set the bar at a new low
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:54 PM
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The "thoughts & prayers" type comments are frustrating. I hear the same thing with other unjustified deaths of innocent. But its just to make people feel better about themselves after the fact. Next guy it will be the exact same indifference, until its unbearable When deplorable things happen to men, society just stands by & watches. There is no doubt in my mind this whole thing just snowballed out of control, but could've been stopped by countless people, countless times. People justify it with…
/r/MensRights18/12/24 04:48 PM
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Well that was a leap!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:36 PM
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If a guy is that willing to throw a punch you could be next
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:56 PM
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Sounds more like social media is the whore of Babylon. But that's just my interpretation
/r/MensRights14/12/24 10:57 PM
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Sadly there really isn't alot of statistics on single dads. It just wasn't very common until recently. So agreed, best to stick to the facts. The post was men think they need women but don't, & women think they don't need men when they do. Successful single fatherhood (regardless of why) shows that what women offer (nurturing parent & partner) can also be provided by a man. But statistically, men dominate all fields of infrastructure. Society depends on those jobs. We all need those men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 08:12 PM
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While fair points with the fathers, it's generalizing. There are many single fathers capable of stereotypical "man's work", & then coming home to cook a nutrious meal & be attentive & empathetic to their kid. Is this socioeconomic status? Or personal drive & character? The single mothers point while also somewhat valid, also seems to just reinforce the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:47 PM
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I agree with all of this, but would like to point out statistically single father households have less conflict & more child success.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:24 PM
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As a guy, I can clean & cook better than most women. Just be a decent person. The bar is extremely low, & still not met.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:41 PM
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An absimal curriculum based on pointless white collar work. School is designed for girls, & toxic for boys. Sadly there is no solution.
/r/MensRights12/12/24 02:08 PM
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Love this on every level. Guys finding peace & joy in their hobbies while women throw hissy fits about being held accountable for their actions. Keep fighting the good fight, gentlemen
/r/MensRights22/11/24 07:20 PM
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Most guys I know don't even do that, let alone alone any women
/r/MensRights21/11/24 09:01 PM
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Don't. They will not reciprocate, & will use it against you.
/r/seduction08/11/24 02:52 PM
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This is true at a young age, but becomes less accurate as men get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:20 PM
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Nope. & life is peaceful
/r/MensRights21/10/24 07:08 PM
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As a guy I value love over sex. Sex is easy to find. Love is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:08 PM
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Nah, some guys are just arrogant assholes with a small ego so they act tough. The gender they chase is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:06 PM
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Online dating & extremist feminists. Started mid 2000's. Noped right out of the dating scene.
/r/seduction14/10/24 03:27 AM
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Dated alot. Married & divorced. Grew up with mom, sisters, aunts lots of good women. I don't feel safe at all around women anymore though. Their perception of reality is skewed. Life is so much more peaceful when you just remove them from your life entirely. Honestly. I'm 100% ok if they want to call me a misogynist, or anything else to make themselves feel better. I'm polite, but do not engage anymore then necessary. Not even small talk
/r/MensRights13/10/24 07:51 AM
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Today? AWDTSG & similar sites. Shit is outta control
/r/MensRights30/09/24 01:32 AM
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All abuse. Sexual baiting. Paternity fraud. false statement & false arrest. Defamation & slander.
/r/MensRights29/09/24 10:49 AM
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In my experience it's consistently the opposite. They put in effort only until they got u hooked, then they gradually decrease effort, to no end
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:17 PM
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It won't. People want to hate. People want people to hate. The opposite gender is an easy target. Just like there will always be racism, there will be sexism. "Gender wars" is getting alot of publicity rn because the bear thing, which is utterly hilarious. I fully support any woman that makes that choice. I absolutely see a growing divide tho. Women refusing accountability while bringing nothing to the table. Men accepting reality & hustling for themselves. Population drops. I personally look fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:00 PM
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If you are secure enough to show your emotions your more of a man than most. Embrace that shit
/r/MensRights06/02/24 04:35 PM
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Victim mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:40 PM
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For me, respect is earned. Like, everyone gets a basic level of courtesy & respect. I'm polite & accepting. But until I really know someone, there's no genuine respect. Man or woman. If you don't respect someone, you don't value their opinion as much, if it all. If a women doesn't find me attractive enough, I'm ok with that. I know my value, & she just wants different.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 01:14 AM
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As someone whose ass was saved by a paternity test..... GET THE TEST! Especially if the mom object's.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:11 PM
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Because they got what they want (a committed man), & can now use it to further manipulate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:34 PM
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RvW
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:54 PM
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Depends on the guy, & his age. 10 years ago, you could probably have me wrapped around your finger. At this point, I likely wouldn't give you a second look. If you walk around believing you've got power over guys, it could be construed as conceited, which is a huge red flag. Instead of thinking how much power you may or may not have over men, just be your best self.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/22 10:16 PM
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Because men learn to be content with what they have more easily, while women often want more (more kids, money, friends, excitement, adventure, sex, attention, affection, happiness, gifts, dates, clothes, shoes, bags, etc), & they feel it's the man's responsibility (& subsequent failure) to deliver. Not an inclusive statement for both genders by any means, but accurate for the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:28 AM
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An an attractive, a-social guy, this is 100% accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:13 PM
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Can't speak for other guys but happened to me. Happily divorced now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:35 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:10 AM
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Wars aren't fought like they used to be. I'm skeptical that another "normandy" or equivalent would happen, with thousands of soldiers killed in a single battle. Although there is undoubtedly ground fighting, there is far more covert strikes, largely via air. I'm not sure a draft would be justified, even if it was supported. The required man power isn't what it used to be. Edit - but yes, I support equal opportunities for genders, including a draft, if it came to that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:30 PM
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Nope. Couldn't care less what other guys think. But your first sentence is still accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:35 PM
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Yes & yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:35 PM
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"Men go there own way". It was started as a support group, but feminists felt it was toxic (tbh, it kinda was at points, but no worse then FDS - female dating strategy) But I still followed it until the sub was banned.
/r/MensRights05/01/22 07:57 PM
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The issue is extremism, for both genders. We all want equal treatment. It's the ones that take it too far that cause the conflict & divide.
/r/MensRights05/01/22 11:41 AM
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A good friend of mine told me he always walks around with a switchblade for protection. You should tell your friend that could land him up to 5 years in prison (iirc) in Canada, just for carrying it. Pulling it out in self defense is even more time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:43 PM
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Eesh, this all sounds too familiar. Been there. False allegations (charges dropped, DA saw right thru her lies) to gain control of house & custody. Homeless. Access to see kid denied. Nothing but awful, hateful, vengeful behavior from her, despite also hurting the kid. Full blown custody battle, ended up with almost 50% custody. Kid has already changed that to almost 60%, & he still wants more. Things will work out, man. I landed on my feet in the end. But it was a struggle. Stay strong & keep b…
/r/MensRights14/12/21 04:06 PM
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Avoid humanity
/r/MensRights13/12/21 07:25 PM
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Congratulate & hug him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:10 PM
1

Blacksmithing on my own ranch
/r/seduction10/12/21 12:04 AM
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40+. 40+yo M
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:11 PM
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Default equality in parenting & family court
/r/MensRights03/12/21 03:12 PM
1

This is nonsense. The only valid point is (obviously) kind personality. My gf doesn't check any of the other boxes & she's great. Furthermore, I've dated women that check most of those boxes, & they're toxic af.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:11 PM
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I associate beauty with social corruption. My first thought when I see an attractive women is "red flag, damaged goods", not "I wanna bone her".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:01 PM
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7 is the only way. You do you. Let them do what they gotta do to get through the day.
/r/MensRights18/11/21 06:25 PM
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I will, thanks. I'd like to get it either way, even if out of pocket.
/r/MensRights10/11/21 12:43 AM
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Yes, someone else pointed out it is now available to kids. But it was only available to girls when I was growing up, & I still am not eligible. So things have gotten better, but men are still clearly left behind.
/r/MensRights09/11/21 10:25 PM
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It does now, I guess.... under certain criteria. Laws must've changed, as that definitely was (is) not the case for me, both growing up & currently. My gf is eligible. I am not, & never have been.
/r/MensRights09/11/21 08:56 PM
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To clarify, Ontario has government subsidized health care. The vaccine is covered for women only. Men & boys must pay out of pocket.
/r/MensRights09/11/21 08:40 PM
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Outright sexism. Sorry man. Clearly men are disposable.
/r/MensRights09/11/21 08:37 PM
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Absolutely not. Wouldn't marry, date, bang, speak with or even consider it. I try to live a simple, drama free life. I don't see that as an option with someone who's beliefs align with FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:19 PM
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But more than just all that. Trades give a satisfaction unknown to alot of people. Being able to have the experience to do a job well, & stand back & be really proud. Show friends & fam how to, or what you've done. Something tangible you can hold feel. To have true pride in workmanship. I personally never got that satisfaction from paperwork. Even in school tbh. & that same satisfaction has an impact on the rest of your life. It gives you more confidence. Which gives you more motivation. A good …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:07 PM
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Truck & coach mechanic. Like alot of trades, you can choose to travel, or stay local & be home everynight depending on the job you take. If you want the money, then you typically travel, or your on call, or work shifts, etc. But I know several local mechanics, plumbers, hvac guys, electricians that have families & are great dads, because they choose to spend time with their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:49 PM
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Yeah, I'd make sure O/T isn't mandatory. Fortunately trades are in demand, so its nbd to find a better job. There might be bigger guys that do trades, yes. But I don't see how that correlates to the work they do. You can still eat healthy if you choose. All things being equal, I would imagine the average tradesman burns more calories in a day then a white collar.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:07 PM
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Trades are where it's at man. Checks all your boxes. Close to 6 figures, 40 hrs a week. Keeps you in shape. Lots of time for kiddos & gf. Never been on a diet, lowest BMI I've ever had. Style is easy (or maybe I just don't really care much about it). There's nothing unrealistic about those standards. Stop thinking white collar is the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:10 AM
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In today's society, it's safe to say 99% of the attractive woman have been corrupted by social & mass media. Toxic af. Look for attractive personality traits. She may not be a 10 for looks, but she will be loyal & good to you. Hopefully. Good luck.
/r/seduction05/10/21 03:52 PM
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I've been with the "right" ones. Left all day long
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:13 PM
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Fair enough. although I don't agree with you, your intentions are good. Dress, physique & speak are important, but can all come from wealth. I'm sure there are people that can't afford those things but still have a loyal heart & good personality. We all like what we like.
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:19 PM
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This is the most superficial list I've ever seen. If these are your "pillars", I wish you all the best in the dating world. Your gonna have a bad time!!
/r/seduction27/09/21 06:28 PM
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Lmao. Just banned from r/offmychest for belonging to a "incel group". Without posting anything. Funny enough, I've got kids, & haven't been single in years or celebate since my teens. I guess this is what a misogynistic sounds like?
/r/MensRights08/09/21 03:14 PM
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Agreed. More accurately I'd say equal effort, unequal outcome.
/r/MensRights08/09/21 12:36 PM
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Was in the same situation. It was a rough road, but so glad I'm out!
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 12:01 PM
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Finally someone who gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 04:15 PM
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There really is no point for men. Risks out weigh benefits in every aspect. However for women it provides stability, security, & resources to take advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 04:13 PM
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I needed this. Thought it was just me "being a snowflake". Glad I'm not the only one that sees it as it is. Insecure assholes doing what they do best. & then claiming to be the victim because you "over reacted" like a bitch & cut them off. Ironically, reminds me if several ex's.
/r/MGTOW212/02/21 06:05 PM
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Lol calm down. Just correcting an inaccurate blanket statement
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 04:20 PM
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Uh, no we don't. Atleast I don't. Not to say its never happened, buts it's a rarity, & my son wasn't the reason.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 06:58 PM
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There's too much emphasis on money in society. I don't care what they make, as long as they contribute what they can (not necessarily finances) & they're a good person. I've been in relationships on both ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 12:10 AM
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My ex was extremely narcissistic as well. I learned a lot. I can understand the counter suit. I wanted to as well. But narcissists love control. They want to keep you engaged. Keep fighting. Keep wasting your time, money, energy & thoughts. Keep you under their thumb. Your best course of action (imo) is to drop all charges & walk away. Cut her from your life completely & move on. I'm sorry to say your counter suit will likely be unsuccessful. Atleast you don't have a kid with her ( I asumme). Th…
/r/MGTOW231/12/20 01:09 PM
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Same thing happened to me. Your situation is way too familiar. False domestic charges. Of course I fought it. (Crown) attorney dropped all charges before pretrial. I'm free & clear now. I will say the cops were very, helpful, understanding & sympathetic. They were just doing their job, & saw right through her bs. Good luck!
/r/MGTOW231/12/20 11:37 AM
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It seemed like such a big deal in my teens. As I got older it seemed less important. At this point I couldn't care less how many times you have or haven't had sex. As long as your a good person
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 03:43 PM
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Ya, I've tried a little VR. it's an alright alternative. Some of those high end sex bots are crazy realistic. Maybe I should invest in one of those.
/r/MGTOW204/12/20 02:20 PM
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Thanks for the insight. Although it's what I expected, I still appreciate the similar train of thought. "Go monk"... "pull it off" that's what I'm afraid of! Lol
/r/MGTOW204/12/20 02:03 PM
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This is my exact current situation. Young son. Bad divorce. Snipped. Fed up. Just feel a little guilty "stringing'm along". I guess they shouldn't be pushing their agenda on me tho. Thanks man!
/r/MGTOW204/12/20 01:39 PM
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