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Leave it to woman to not read with comprehension and twist man's word.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:14 PM
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No. Actually not doing something that is not important or required is smart. You have more time for more essential things then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:30 AM
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If you think something is good enough, why go out of your way to do more work? Just because something isn't shiny doesn't mean it's unhygienic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:46 PM
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Yeah that's what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:33 AM
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I'm pretty sure I didn't forget and it was added later.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:25 AM
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Yes we like variety, but mature men prefer stability over variety. Women are not attracted to gaining weight or getting bald and wrinkly either. Silver foxes are rare, that's not a rule. Men have wife googles and still appreciate aging woman if she gave him his best years Some are some don't. But this thread was about long term partnership, not about having kids. You don't have to have them. Generalization. Some men cheat. Some women cheat. Some men do. Some women are also immature and prone to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:10 AM
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Yes. I also recommend having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:18 PM
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Yeah, that's the thing. There's no statistics for that so that means you can't prove it to me. It's your anegdotal "evidence" against mine. Mine is that all my male friends like polish women and are in relationships with them or want to be. And guess what? Sometimes we share a meme about polish woman who went for foreign guy and got ditched. That doesn't mean we hate women. It doesn't work like that. The only men that really hates women are those who can't get them. You mentioned yourself that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:45 PM
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Ok I will spell it out for you, since you don't seem to understand. Just because memes and people posting them are real doesn't mean the thing they are posting is any indication of how reality looks like. Some frustrated guys are posting those things but they would still love to be in relationship with polish girls. They don't post it cause they don't want to. They post it cause they are jealous they are not enough and some polish women prefer foreign guys. But let's be real, it's like what. Few…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:46 PM
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I think you spend too much time online. Memes are one thing, the reality is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:39 PM
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Some polish men might complain about polish women but most of them are happy to be with them. Try to prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:25 PM
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False.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:19 PM
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Yeah, good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:28 AM
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You're being delusional and afraid of your own shadow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:11 PM
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It's very in the middle. A bit of both. Easter Europe starts east from Poland.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:56 PM
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It proves nothing. There are fucked up people everywhere. Men are sometimes victims of crimes too. What does that prove? Nothing again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:56 PM
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What does that one extremely rare instance prove at all? Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:51 PM
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Poland is extremely safe though. And it's not really eastern Europe, you know? More like central geographically. Culture and stuff? Also more like in the middle, leaning heavily west, being in EU and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:49 PM
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She basically said every man is evil. And I took it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:29 PM
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OP made it personal with her man hating post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:02 AM
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So you've been abused by every woman and think that OP is right to judge every men by their experience too? So all men and all women are bad then? Maybe you're just picking the wrong ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:34 AM
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He opposed the "men bad women good" mainstream narration.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:45 AM
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"dont have to become pregnant if you dont want to" well, that depends on where you live. Like where do you live that you are forced to get pregnant? Are we talking suddenly about middle east? I was talking about western world. I don't think it's a problem here. You can use the same argument about men. We are forced and sent to war in some countries. And it's better argument than yours because it happened in America in not so distant past and is happening right now in Ukraine, where women party a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:45 AM
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The wild take was what OP described woman's life as. I know plenty of women and none think like that. They are not afraid of men. Don't have to become pregnant if they don't want to. They like being woman. Seems like OP hates being a woman, hate men, but secretly wants to be a man. Very weird take from OP. This guy here replied to it with facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:09 AM
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Those are two different questions you asked. Would I be attracted to a man who gets zero attention from women but I find him attractive and interesting? Sure, why not? If I don't find him desirable? Probably not. Unless I get to know him and he becomes somehow desirable. Also you might want to rethink your life a bit. No sane women thinks all the time how they are weaker sex and how they are so likely to be murdered and raped by their partner. It reeks of misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:56 AM
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Men prefer so many different things that I have no idea where are you going with this. Hetero men mostly just want to see nude women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:47 PM
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I know they do. I was talking about that one comment that was deleted with their user already. Where a girl was mad that after she broke up with her bf, some male friends of her started to hit on her. She was mad about that fact. There was nothing stated about them not taking no for an answer. She thought they were just pretending to be her friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:39 AM
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They wouldn't become incels if women liked those quirky shy guys. But they don't. It's the result not the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:37 AM
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Well, he just wants to understand why women work in a way that he doesn't make sense. Maybe he vents a bit but did he say they owe him sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:19 PM
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Someone is curious about the dynamics of intersex relations. You might want something without feeling you're entitled to it, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:59 PM
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I never stated anyone is entitled to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:57 PM
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Yes. We do too. But why not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:19 AM
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Yeah, but we have to make guys look bad because they wanted to have sex with someone they like. The horror!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:18 AM
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Because women prefer socially adjusted asshole than a nice guy. I mean, it's nice to point out hypocrisy but I think everyone knew that already.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:12 AM
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Why? It's important for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:10 AM
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If someone wants to have sex with you there's a big chance he also wants to be in relationship with you. It's a skill issue. You just to have to vet them properly if you want more than just sex. Anyway you're changing the subject and moving the goalpost. Likes are indication or interest of men in you. They want to have sex with you. Women will think it means that if they want to have sex they also want to be with them and they are in the same league as them. Even the hottest ones. Thus, my point…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:29 AM
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Women know likes mean something. They can easily get laid if they want to. Sure there are bots and people swiping right on everything, but many likes and messages are real. You can meet a lot of people in that way easily. It fucks with your brain, making you think you're hot shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:57 PM
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I don't have to follow your advice, I am doing fine without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:15 PM
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Because dating apps (and social media) had a huge impact on dating and women ego. Even a pig woman (known experiment) can go on tinder and have tons of likes. That inflates their ego as I said. So when someone on their level comes to them they reject them because they think they are hot shit and only deserve top10%. Even if they are average or below.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:45 PM
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If that was true then an average woman would go for the first guy who talks to her. And we all know that isn't true. Dating apps inflated women ego so much that 90% women think they are top 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:31 PM
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So we should stoop to their level? No thanks. But you did say some good things. Like yeah, be the prize. Don't be a pushover and put women on pedestal. That shit is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:29 PM
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And my lightsaber!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:09 AM
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Well, first of all if you also include less attractive men (I said average but ok) means you have much wider pool of options. Then it will be easier to find someone you click with. Also by not going for top men, there's much less competition there. And those men are much less spoiled. If you go for a top man who have options you will only be one of many girls and he might treat you very casually. By going for average guy he will focus on you and not treat you as disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:45 AM
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It's not personal advice since I don't know you. I'm just defending the general advice and proving there is no conflict between those 2 stances, even if on the surface it might seem so. So you never encountered any man who wasn't terrible? You really need to pick better it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:50 AM
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You can. You just have to see a nuance. By choosing better men mean that you don't date abusive assholes that are very attractive. By lowering your standards we mean give a short average face guy a chance. So pick better character and don't focus so much on superficial stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:33 AM
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Mercenaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:29 AM
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"Wife material" is just a label for a woman who has the character to be a partner, not just a distraction. It is the difference between someone you have fun with and someone you can trust with your life. When men use that term, they are looking for traits like loyalty, peace, and shared goals. It’s about being a teammate for the long haul rather than just a thrill for the weekend. A woman should only want to be "wife material" if she actually wants a husband. It isn't about seeking approval from…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 05:58 AM
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Those assertive confident guys can be assholes to guys. But they will be nicer to a girl they want to win over. That's kind of a nice asshole guy women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:01 AM
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Yeah, pretty much. It's like this: Men are nice to woman and romantic - > women reject them - > men change their behavior and act like assholes and succeed in dating - > women are surprised but don't see that it's their doing. If you don't want men to be assholes then you should pick better. But oh well, not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:22 PM
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You know that bangability is good for you, right? Because it's about being (and thus looking) healthy. If you're healthy you look bangable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:09 PM
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It's not unnecessary. Because fat shaming is a good thing. It helps the society to have some good standards. Not let people eat garbage, be more active so they don't get needlessly fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:51 PM
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Yes, just because some people have hard time losing weight that means most people can't do it and we better be careful not to hurt their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:30 PM
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Women are not ready for that because they are scared of that 1 out of 100 guy who might lash out. Most men would appreciate the constructive criticism. I don't even blame you for that. Why take the risk? But it's dishonest to say most men can't take it when you think about that dangerous minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:57 PM
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What a bunch of crap lol. Yes, of course sweety, it's impossible for you to have normal bmi weight, it's as hard as growing back your arm. Noone is talking about normal weight that some people call fat. We're talking about people who put on too much weight and are too lazy to lose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:56 PM
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Effective example.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:59 PM
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It didn't make sense so I assumed you wanted to write that I dismiss you point cause I am offended. This construction seemed like a mistake. Didn't know you're not native. But neither am I.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:56 PM
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I can say that you have a pattern of bad arguments and useless posts. Want me to elaborate? Why? I described the patterns. What is confusing for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:55 PM
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"How easily you dismiss my point to be just me offended by simple disagreement. " You didn't mean I'm offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:40 PM
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I'm not really offended because you didn't say anything much and didn't back it up with any examples. Also you have your profile hidden so I can't see your other posts. Since you didn't say what examples you're talking about and failed to prove anything I assumed you were wrong and just got mad because someone disagrees with you. It seems I was right because you're doing the same thing here in the comments. Have you tried backing up your point with some good examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:37 PM
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Your OP doesn't adress your OP (no examples).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:22 PM
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It seems like you didn't like some men disagree with your take so you labeled it as not taking criticism well. I don't see any good examples, it's all very vague. So I can assume you make sweeping generalizations and you're surprised there's some pushback there. Men as a whole are fine with criticism. Or at least on the same level as women. Some do, some doesn't do it well, no surprise there. It seems like you're mad that you couldn't just attack men as a whole. Because you mentioned not all men…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:21 PM
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It seems that it's you being picky if you only liked 3 women and you're 38 rather than woman having too high demands. You also probably don't have much game and experience if you were never successful in dating. So you had only 3 shots and you failed, because why wouldn't you. You should have tried more and already have some experience at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 10:18 AM
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I didn't want to go in a discussion about the quality of ONS, we were just talking about the likeness of it. I never meant that when you go out and party it happens all the time. But there are people who struggle to have sex for years. When you go out and have a lot of social months it will take much less time to finally get laid. And it doesn't have to be just ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:08 AM
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Yeah, sure. That's why bartenders can also easily get laid a lot. I thought it was known. That's why it's easy for people in college to get laid, even if they are not that special. Just go out a lot, have a lot of parties and you will get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:09 AM
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Yeah that's a cope. I like how you have a fiancé yourself lol. Sounds like "I don't like tall guys it just so happen to be my boyfriend is super tall".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 06:04 AM
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Of course not. But if you're successfull then women are more likely to go to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:47 AM
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You don't. But if you have them because to have the money to spend?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:35 AM
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Men don't mind teaching a woman. Women do (teaching a man).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:21 AM
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Well... It kinda is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:15 AM
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Nah. The problem is women being hypergamous. Dating market would be fixed if women wouldn't just gun for the top guys and would be fine with their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:46 PM
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Yes, blame the guys for everything. Women who expect expensive dates are never the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:11 PM
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I'm guessing he meant: Men want more sex than women on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 09:16 AM
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Now? My girlfriend. She doesn't want me dating other people. Back then? Being a bit awkward, shy, socially inept. Going to college, making more friends, getting better at human relations (not only romantic) helped me a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 09:14 AM
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Well... You kind of need sex to survive You won't die without sex straight away sure, but your brain treats long dry spells like starvation. Dopamine and oxytocin crash. Stress rises. You feel flat. Evolution made us horny for a reason. Skip it too long and irritability or numbness sets in. Regular sex helps heart health, hormones, and mood. Touch starvation wears you down hard. You can survive without it. But many in dead bedrooms admit they don't feel alive anymore. Sex isn't luxury. It's fuel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:49 PM
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It's like 2 men are fighting for food and there's only enough for one of them to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:27 AM
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Well it's not a real rape since she agress to the terms. Anyway I got better analogy. It's like if someone had to kill someone else for food, survival, and your conclusion is "oh, so he's fine with murder". That's bad faith argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:17 AM
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Well not necessarily. Those are extreme circumstances. It's like when men in prison fuck each other but in normal circumstances they are not gay. You can't say RP are OK with rape because they would be fine with coerce in very specific, extreme and unlikely scenario. That's arguing in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:02 AM
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There are no good options here. So the question you're asking is would a RP man be willing to get reluctant sex in those circumstances. Probably yes after being stranded for a long time on an island. Not a perfect solution but it's better than the alternative. That doesn't prove that RP man wouldn't prefer a relationship based on mutual desire etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:33 AM
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There wasn't an option like that there. It's either no sex or coerced sex. There are no good options here. So the question you're asking is would a RP man be willing to get reluctant sex in those circumstances. Probably yes after being stranded for a long time on an island. Not a perfect solution but it's better than the alternative. That doesn't prove that RP man wouldn't prefer a relationship based on mutual desire etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:33 AM
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Were* not are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:48 AM
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What is the problem with that to be honest?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:07 PM
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Ok female
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:05 PM
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I think you might be if you don't understand it. If someone is lacking the real thing they will have the next best thing. They know it's fake and will still enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:00 PM
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I've been nr 2 to some women and it sucks, but I'm nr 1 to others and that's what I will stick with. The difference is ground breaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:21 PM
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I still think men give better advice. You can't say men can't give good advice when you're referring to one man who is in a relationship and give advice to woman he is with. He's obviously biased. But if we take someone not engaged in this private situation then it could be totally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 08:10 AM
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The same works in reverse!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 08:05 AM
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Well education was useless for them. Since they didn't need it and didn't see a need for their woman to have it, since they were already attracted to her. I don't think they realized they wanted to keep her on their level. They might have genuinely believe that it's useless. They didn't want to think that it would be useful for her, especially since it would mean he's now useless for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:40 AM
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No. I blame him. 100%. That one individual. Doesn't mean men are women's natural predator. That's going too far. Like saying all black guys are murderers because you know one black guy who murdered someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:59 AM
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The funniest thing is when a woman says it was just coincidence that they met. And in reality, it might have been. For her. But not for him. It was deliberate choice to go out every week to some event /bar / party / whatever and approach countless women to finally got the one interested in him. And it was no luck at all, just continuous effort that finally paid off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 10:50 AM
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That might also be the case. For some reason patriarchal society worked so it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:17 PM
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Because they are less logical and more influenced by the group. So they are more likely to follow religion if people around them are religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:51 PM
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Getting a woman I want doesnt mean i get every woman i want. Lets be realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:33 PM
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Its not about who you want, because if they dont want you then it doesnt matter. It doesnt happen often that a man got a choice between multiple women. It's more like when someone is attracted to you, the question is do you want them. So if someone is attracted to you do you want to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:25 PM
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You were close. Dating isn't about what you deseve. It's about who you are able to attract. There, fixed it for you. You can date whomever you want, but if you want to date someone awesome you probably have to be equally or more awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:21 PM
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Women, feminists. Here on reddit, in real life. People can change their mind. But its not cool to be a hypocrite. And fight only for equality when it benefits you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 09:14 AM
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I don't know, everywhere? First you say that height doesnt matter and you just need to be confident but then let out the truth that accidently you date 6'3 guy heeheee.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:42 AM
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She should be if feminists believed their own rhetoric. But in reality they dont. They want privilages with no downsides. They want to virtue signal without actually picking those małe feminists allies because they are boring and not attractive. They still prefer tall and handsome athletes. You just cant believe feminist propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:27 AM
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Or he wasnt a jerk to her and she liked that he's an asshole to others but not to her. She percieved it as being confident and strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:10 AM
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Or maybe an athlete jerk was just more attractive than your friend? And he wasnt a jerk to her, she just liked how he looked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:08 AM
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I agree that its better to be confident but if you dont have anything to be confident about then it wont change much. Confident short fat guy is still a short fat guy. Not many women will find that attractive. No matter how confident he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:46 AM
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No amount of body positivity will make me attracted to overweight women, so there's no really much of a point for men to do the same if it doesnt work. Maybe it can make us less likely to make fun of then. But i dont think men care that much about being made fun of. It's about whether we can attract women or not being the way we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:44 AM
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It will be tested by external factors. If you have good self esteem about yourself cause you think you look good but in practice no women are interested in you then your self esteem will crush and burn. We need external validation for what we think. It might help at start to feel good about yourself to even try approaching women, but if it wont work, then we wont lie to ourselves. We will realize we're not the hot shit we pretend to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:39 AM
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If by effort you mean my dick then fine.
/r/MensRights28/02/26 07:37 AM
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Ive posted arguments, she didn't adress them. I guess that means im correct since she cant refute them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:01 PM
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I get her argument. But she's not right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:00 PM
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She's contradicting herself and basically proved the opposite. That point? Yeah I got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:57 PM
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There's no point in communicating with me if you dismiss my whole post and don't adress my points at all. I'm not even saying it needs to be a good argument. There were no arguments. So this whole thread is useless. OP made some bad points, got destroyed in the comment and cant even respond properly to discuss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:55 PM
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Do you get the point that in her example she's proving that she's the one to blame. She was saying she talks about some men but in this example she didn't make that clear. She made sweeping generalization. What she talked about in OP seemed to make sense but it turns out just like we thought that in practice she doesn't do what she preaches. And then she's surprised men dont agree with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:53 PM
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In your example you dont say some men you say men, so it seems like you're talking about all men. Not some men like you were talking about in OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:25 PM
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You still didn't adress any of my points. You stated something in your OP that's simple not true without proving it. So i dont feel like I should prove anything to you. I just corrected it. You can take the truth or rejectnit cause it upsets your feelings or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:27 AM
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Yeah, this would be very helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:14 AM
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Im not proving anything. You just stated something incorrect so I had to correct it. I see you dont adress my points with any argument so you forfeit your position.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:12 AM
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Its women who are considered wonderful, and can do no wrong in our society. Look at women pdfs how they are treated. Or lower jail sentences for women. It all depends how you phrase what you say. You said its obvious from what you say that it's just some men. But more often than not we see threads about how all men are agressive and scary. How you rather be with a random bear than with a random man in the woods etc. So it doesnt seem like talking about some men but all men. Men are just tired of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:09 AM
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It sounds like you are better without a man if that's your attitude. You sound very insecure and toxic. What the hell are men supposed to do. Gouge their eyes so they dont notice other women? I can understand you being worried about being cheated on if that happened to you etc but just looking? It's overreaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 09:56 AM
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Because of your delusional take. Just because men can find other women attractive doesnt mean their love to one woman isnt true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 09:53 AM
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You see? You dont even have to be not fat. So easy!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:59 PM
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Well its not my red pill. My red pill used to be a set of tools. Its amoral, it doesnt say what to do. You can do whatever you want. It just helps you achieve any goal you want. I dont know what RP evolved to now. I dont consider it true RP. my RP didn't excuse cheating or say its ok to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:29 PM
0

Interesting. Yet when I searched for cheat at that site the first thing that showed up is about women cheating lol. So yes, women are generally monogamous, though they will cheat with males of higher perceived value who will not commit to them (alpha fucks). When they leave their man for another man though, this is still monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:15 PM
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It doesn't matter if it's a meme if it shows a true dynamic. You can also call it an infographic if you want. What virtue signaling? Look at the graph, its not a meme, its a reality. <image> I argued with the stats and reality. What do you argue with? Your feelings? You listed standards of some men. What does that prove? Absolutely Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:05 PM
2

Yoire saying its men that are desperate for top women when its the other way around. Its called hypergamy. Men are fine with their looksmatch. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:47 PM
1

And do you think its more men or women who dont want to date their looksmatch?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:45 PM
2

Projecting is thinking that someone else wants something because you're the one wanting something. It's women who say they are no good men but its only because they want to go only for top guys who might not be interested in them since they are not top women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:39 PM
1

With 160cm? Obese single mother in her 30s duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:37 PM
2

That's women's projection. That's what women does actually. Also those who are desperate for a woman are not the same guy who say no single mothers, fatties etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:32 PM
2

You can say the same about women. Even good ones have flaws. So what? Noone is perfect. They can still be good. Just because men have eyes doesn't mean that all romantic love is destroyed. That's delusional take.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:49 AM
0

Have you? Show me a quote from RP that says that all men want to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:22 AM
1

No, we dont want to cheat. We want to be desired and have fun sex. We can do that in a happy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:21 AM
4

What is this black pill women view? Of course theres plenty of good about dating men. They wouldn't do it otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:20 AM
0

Yesallmen is misandristic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:18 AM
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It can be also any woman who stab me in my sleep so what? You cant focus on that. Also my point still stand, theres much bigger chance that a guy from the hood who look like a thug will hurt you that a nice good guy from healthy enviroment. Of course there are some exempts from that but your focus on that seems like paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:07 PM
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We don't know either. So when a random aggresive men attack me should I assume that all men are dangerous? If I'm in one bad relationship where the woman is crazy and attacks me with a knife should I say that all women are crazy and dangerous? Are you responsible for that one crazy person just because you share the same gender? How does that make any sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:26 PM
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If you go out with a guy from the hood that I have nothing to do with and have no way to intereact with him cause I don't have that type of friends, then how do you expect me to hold him accountable? Try picking a guy from good enviroment like mine, then you won't be treated badly. I do hold accountable my friends. But you need to pick them, instead of those bad guys i have nothing to do with, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:23 PM
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And from men's POV, It sounds like us vs them. Dont lump us with those bad men who murder. We, as in good guys who dont do it, feel offended to be grouped with those men. For us its bad man (murderers and rapists) vs us (normal men and women).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:54 AM
4

What he means is that you will call everything misogyny. So in reality nothing is misogyny. The word lost all its meaning since you've been using it as a mindless slur or insult. !"I dont like what you say about women's nature, you're misogynistic!" its like with racism. You think you call someone racist and you win argument by that. No, you dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:10 AM
-4

It doesn't have to be a need for survival for it to be a biological need. I sent you a link where its stated its a biological nees. Theres your fact. But i guess you dont care about facts that dont agree with you so there wont be any convincing you, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:47 PM
0

Why? Because you cant imagine that for men it is a biological need? When I Google biological need, sex comes up as one of those needs: https://www.simplypsychology.org/maslow.html#:~:text=The%20expanded%20hierarchy%20of%20needs&text=Biological%20and%20physiological%20needs%20%E2%80%93%20air,%2C%20sex%2C%20sleep%2C%20etc. If we re talking about the word "need", the definition of it is not only something needed to survive. Its something you really want too. So its correct to say men have a need fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:21 PM
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Well, those extreme reactions are of course bad and to be looked upon. But it's quite rare and some women cant accept being rejected and react in extremely bad manner too. I dont think its a men problem. I think its shitty humans problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:40 AM
29

Ask them the bear vs man question.
/r/MensRights26/01/26 02:46 PM
3

This whole OP and your posts are strawmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:05 PM
1

It means she's arguing in bad faith making all men look like rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:59 PM
1

Which question? The one in OP? I explained it here: "First step would be not bashing and making fun of guys who struggle. Then we could talk about doing anything like encouraging places where people can meet. Talk about solutions instead of focusing on blaming men for their shortcomings. Seeing their struggle as systematic problem not individual failure would help a lot. Even just acknowledging that "Hey man, it's not you, it's the system" takes the burden of blame from their shoulders and can h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:01 PM
1

Lemme give it to in the way you might understand. Doing nothing < doing something alone < doing something together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:58 PM
1

Because women are 50% of society? And it's social problem? Because if men start it and invite women it might be less productive than creating something in collaboration? If that happened you'd say that it's too manly, and that it's not geared towards women and no women would show up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:16 PM
1

If you ask a question you should be open to specify what you mean and where you see it. You're very defensive and you attack people that try to answer you. Your attitude is the problem here. It's not productive. I actually answered your question in an other post of mine here a second ago BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:12 PM
1

First step would be not bashing and making fun of guys who struggle. Then we could talk about doing anything like encouraging places where people can meet. Talk about solutions instead of focusing on blaming men for their shortcomings. Seeing their struggle as systematic problem not individual failure would help a lot. Even just acknowledging that "Hey man, it's not you, it's the system" takes the burden of blame from their shoulders and can help immensily with mental health of a struggling indi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:10 PM
2

That's such a shitty way to respond in your own thread. If you can't even defend your claims or explain what you mean by giving examples then you shouldn't post here and this topic should be closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:04 PM
1

Well, maybe women just don't emphatize with men that often or give sympathy. Or maybe what you perceive as negative isn't really that negative, it's self preservation (like breaking up friendship when you got turned down romantically). Maybe it's not about me being unaware but you perceiving something incorrectly. I asked you to explain and people asked for some examples but you haven't done that in your response (unless to someone else and I didn't see it yet) and you straight went for the conf…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:58 PM
1

It's pretty easy to understand. Man got his hopes up that someone is interested in him. He has got no other prospects so even if that woman didn't want to be with him but is friendly he can perceive that as her being interested in him. He shoots his shot because he sees it as an only opportunity he got in his life. He gets shot down. And then he reacts negatively because who wouldn't? But that negative reaction is mostly just breaking off friendship because it's too hard for that man to pretend …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:47 PM
1

You stated something as a fact but me and it seems many other men don't have a clue what you talk about. I don't see many women display empathy to men's struggle and I never heard of any men that reacted negatively to that. So please explain what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:45 PM
1

That's just unrealistic unless you're top10% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 09:32 AM
3

It's easy to find people that care about you. Protect you, simp for you, provide for you, want to be with you. You've got Intrinsic value. You don't have to earn it, you're born with it. You're wanted for just maturing, not for doing something good, hard work or your skills. You can choose to find a man and not work. And be provided for. You can choose to work and do what men do. You can sell your pictures and men will pay you. You've got many options for easy life if you want it. You don't have…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:40 PM
3

Not sure about that. Also is it really fair comparison? Women treat other women differently than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:38 PM
4

And the most domestic violence in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:32 PM
6

They have trouble dating each other, Noone wants to make a first move. And lesbian relationships have the least sex and the most dramas.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:29 PM
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There is a blue pill. It's believing the fairy tail and rejecting the red pill. RP is a set of tools that help you get women. What you do with it it's your decision. RP is amoral. RP just advises that many women can't pair bond so you need to be prepared that she will leave you. It's not about not being able to pair bond. It's about women who can't pair bond. If you find a unicorn who can then you can pair bond with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:42 PM
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Without much problem. You know there's blue pill too? You mean red pilled? Not every red pilled guy have that big N count. And even if they do it's not that hard to pair bond personally. Less of a problem for men than for women actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:01 PM
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Most men don't care if you're a virgin. They care if you are promiscuous and had 20 partners at 20 though. They just want someone who isn't a total hoe, can pair bond with them and isn't riddled with STDs. It's nice if you are their first but in the long run it doesn't matter that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:18 AM
9

Being egotistical asshole who think there too good for fitness works. You just have to be tall and not super ugly. I know it from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:22 PM
1

That always baffles me. Have they heard about amoral set of tools that RP is?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:51 AM
13

Well that's the thing. You assume all men are evil. RP doesn't assume that. That's comfort. That they don't tell you that you are bad just because of your gender. It doesn't assume anything bad. That's refreshing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:51 PM
15

You're missing the point. It's about shitting on men like you do right now. A man that hear bad things like those, that men are dangerous, and he knows he isn't one of those dangerous guys, but start to doubt that because people like you keep saying him that, wants to finally hear, that hey man, you're not a bad guy like they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:34 PM
8

Because he's ugly ethnic guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:20 PM
13

When you hear negative things about men all the time (bear thing, all men are dangerous etc) then you might want to hear something positive to balance it out. There's not many things negative about women, so you don't feel the need to hear good things about being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:06 PM
32

Yes. It is. You're too nice. Have you tried getting into fights?
/r/BlackPillScience25/12/25 11:43 AM
1

I believe some women don't want kids. Why does that surprise you? Why that question? I don't think you know what RP is and you're attributing bunch of conservative political views with it for some reason. RP is a set of tools to attract a mate, for whatever reason. Might be spinning plates, might be marriage and kids. It's your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 11:14 AM
12

I'm totally fine with condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:04 AM
18

Why is that a question to me? It should be a question to the doctors or something. I'm fine with sex and no pregnancy so we're good. I don't expect anyone to get pregnant for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:57 AM
0

That's good example but this isn't how most men are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:21 PM
1

I mean sure. You can have friends and be in relationship but that's rare. Most lonely dudes have Noone or just some friends. Most men wouldn't be lonely if they got a lifetime partner to share their lives with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:20 PM
5

It's funny how you don't see the irony. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:04 PM
7

You did the same in the comment I responded to lol. You're stance is ridiculous and no arguments get to you. So maybe more comments telling you that you're simply wrong will help get you grounded. But probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:50 AM
11

Your position is just weak and detached from reality. Deal. With it. Welcome to the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 10:56 AM
2

I mean, sure you can have many friends and not be that lonely but having a girlfriend is totally gonna help with the whole loneliness problem you've got there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 10:45 AM
1

What about age? That's not genetic. Everyone was young. Wanting someone young is totally fair since you were 20 years old too at some point. You had your chance. Everyone had the same time being young.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 10:44 AM
3

You're talking about top% men. Only they can have such high standards. Some men do date single mothers, other date fat women, others high n count. You might hear about men's standard but in the end when a woman wants to be with someone she got much easier task than a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 10:35 AM
-3

Yeah, I get it. We live in funny times.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:19 AM
1

Just because a 50 year old man find 20 year old woman more attractive than 45 yo woman doesn't mean he wouldn't love and find his wife that age still attractive. It's usually men who still want sex with their wives at that age and women dead bedroom their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:18 AM
2

Well for all we know he's 20 and won't find any 45 yo attractive and won't know how he will see them in 30 years. I met some attractive 45 yo women and I'm younger than that. It happened. But of course there will be more younger attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:06 AM
0

I'd say it's more sad than funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:03 AM
5

His age+
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:57 AM
1

I won't shut up. I'm telling you what it means for people. Also I'm not from US. So if polish people want Poland to remain Poland they are racist? That they don't want their 1000 year old country to just die?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:24 PM
1

Also when you're in committed relationship and your woman wants to be romantic you do it for her. You know like in healthy relationships? You do something that I like I do something you like. So we're both happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:13 AM
2

You're wrong to assume that some men = all men. Many men are only out for sex, but also there are many men who are hopeless romantics. Funny thing is that you'd probably want confident guy who want only sex than a loser romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:11 AM
3

Not really. There are some romantic men who do it for the romance not just for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:34 PM
17

Sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:24 AM
3

They probably can. But do false rape accusations happen to women as often and women have their lives destroyed as often as men do? I doubt it. I hope we would both treat each other as humans and people would be sentenced based on what they did, not based on their gender or color of their skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:42 AM
3

You know what's lame? That you didn't even think that I also meant that men can get falsy accused by women and charged or even if found not guilty have their whole reputation and life ruined. Just another perk of being a man that you think it's all sunshines and rainbows.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:33 AM
5

You can also get falsy accused!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:12 AM
0

Thanks?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:00 AM
1

Yeah probably. But we are still the only ones (men) who got category for military and are eligible for draft if push comes to shove.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 10:59 AM
2

So what? Who said we live in us? I live in Poland.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:02 PM
2

Define we. In Ukraine it wasn't a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:04 PM
8

Yeah, I was basically explaining the meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:28 PM
9

That's not possible. You can put super attractive man and give him glasses and call him a nerd for "variance" but that's still super attractive guy who is wanted by most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:08 PM
7

I believe Chad scenario because I am Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:48 PM
18

If you're truly nice then you wouldn't be able to be not nice. You'd have to be somewhat on the fence to change your stance like that. Or must have experienced A LOT of hardships for your whole personality to switch like that. If you were easily able to change your mindset then you were never truly nice to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:36 PM
5

Unwanted draft doesn't make ideal soldiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:36 AM
3

Very good points. Especially for someone who lives in Ukraine neighboring country. Here every man is at 18 years old being examined by doctors and possibly will have to be drafted to war. Sure there's no draft here right now. But we have that looming danger over us. And women doesn't have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:36 AM
4

But if people from different culture come and don't integrate don't learn the language then it's not about right people, it's about right culture and right country. If they come to my country but still believe they are citizens of other country it seems more like a takeover than assimilation and continuation of our country.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:33 AM
4

It's not only about race, it's about culture, language, country etc. If people (doesn't even matter how they look) come to our country, replace us but not take on our language, history and culture. Then our thousand years country is gone and something new arises in its place. Maybe that's a good thing for some. But you should easily understand why that is important for some people especially older, conservative people. Racism might play some part of it but it's not the main part and you're being…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:30 AM
1

Maybe that's just your bubble. I met many men caring about it. Especially some older folks like my father who wanted me to have kids and was worried about low birthrate and our country's numbers dwindle and our country dying out because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:27 AM
1

I always found it kinda obvious. If I want to have sex again with this woman I'd better put in the work so she's satisfied and she wants to come for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:51 PM
2

You got any data that those peaks aren't somewhat similar? This seems to make sense: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 09:31 AM
4

If you still got libido you'd still want to keep on having sex. But with age and experience you can gladly trade in meaningless flings for one stable good relationship. And be happy to have sex with one great partner than multiple random ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:44 PM
1

It happened to me few times. I'd say it was more about how desperate they were than how hot I was to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:19 PM
1

They don't because they don't have to. Attractive women have plenty of options anyway. Those less attractive? They actually do approach. Quite aggressively. And they are surprised when they are rejected cause they are trying to pick up men who are way out of their league. I had it happened to me. Girl, you weigh more than me. Do you really think you've got a shot?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:54 AM
1

You asked me what me Adonis so I answered. Do I attract adequate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:27 AM
3

Intelligence, social skills, height, economical status.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:31 PM
1

Which one?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:38 PM
1

You wouldn't imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:37 PM
1

Cool. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:11 PM
-5

Ok. I wasn't even talking about anyone specific. Just in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:57 PM
-3

We're either taken or aiming higher than her. If she's batting too high then she shouldn't be surprised guys like me only pump and dump her. Go for your looks match.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:55 PM
0

Unless she is quite tall for a women. Which we don't know. But could make it difficult. Because she woils require something rare and attractive for a guy while her height might not be a plus and even be a minus for many guys. But I'd she's average height then yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:56 PM
-6

I'm already taken so why don't you give a chance to guys lower than me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:53 PM
4

Sounds like a cope. You can't be successfull with people? Pretend that you don't care and you're a sigma that doesn't need anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:16 PM
1

Because they hope some hot women will find them attractive after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:53 AM
0

Yeah it's a numbers game online. When someone said approaching I addressed that. Approaching is in real life not online.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:07 PM
0

When a man is approaching you, he already filtered out many other women who he didn't find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:51 AM
3

I didn't say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:41 PM
6

Even they mentioned that first, most important is to survive. So they are saying what I'm. Saying. Sure sex is most important IF YOU FIRST FORGET ABOUT SURVIVING. So they concede that this is more important. But other than that sex is most important. But that's not what OP. Is saying at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:29 PM
5

You're arguing a strawman. Noone seriously believes that. When people say that society is built for sex they are saying that it's very important. But not more important than basic needs like food and shelter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:08 PM
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I'm sure men also have other more pressing priorities like eating and sleeping. And shelter. But yes sex is also very important and most men want it. What's the point of this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:02 PM
3

Yeah. If there is a problem then let's talk about it and fix it. Not just cut off sex without explanation and hope that the partner will just be OK with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:14 AM
2

Well yeah, having no sex is a deal breaker. If there is a reason like pregnancy, sure. If you're working on it, sure. But if a woman suddenly doesn't want to have sex for no apparent reason. Then what do you know, the relationship dissolve.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:45 AM
5

If you don't love my dick you don't deserve me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:20 AM
2

I never said men are attracted to most women. I said being attractive to many men is something to be happy, sure. You just have much more option to pick from.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:13 AM
-1

I never said anything about being harassed. Men also get harassed for no reason. Well, maybe for money mostly. It's not like you're immune to being assaulted or harassed as a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:11 AM
1

No. Women know this is theirs advantage. But sometimes they don't want to admit it. And they focus too much about disadvantages like catcalling and people hitting on them. But they still wouldn't get rid of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:45 AM
1

Loud minority I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:33 AM
3

You're not getting it. You can choose a man who's not attracted to every woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:33 AM
0

Just because many men are attracted to you doesn't mean you have to pick them all. And you don't. You choose who you want to be with. That's perfectly logical in that position. But it's not to not see it as a boon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:11 AM
-2

You can't choose who you're attractive to. If you were attractive to only few individuals you'd be a man. And it would be much harder for you to find someone you're attractive to that you also find attractive. It's a huge privilege and it's quite disheartening you don't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:05 AM
4

Being perceived as attractive so the opposite gender wants to fuck you but also get to know you and possible be with you for life? Yes, this is an advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:58 AM
2

I don't think your premise is correct. Do people really think it's a disadvantage for women to be the selector in dating market?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:54 AM
1

It seems pretty normal for some reason that men are fine with dating down. But what does it really mean. Dating down in terms of attractiveness, social status, money, or what? Most men don't care if a woman is earning less, but they would care if she's not able to support herself if they are not rich themselves. And even then some basic level would be preferable. In terms of attractiveness men care but if they find you cute and good enough to fuck then you can be objectively a bit less attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:30 AM
2

So why don't you work on your game then? It got nothing to do with height.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/25 03:02 PM
15

So what? They are probably better than you in other regards. Face, height, money, social. You might have been dealt a bad hand so you need to catch up in whatever means available.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/25 02:58 PM
1

No. But I can give her a chance if she wants to work on it, and overcome her fears or whatever she's got. But she needs to be willing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:19 AM
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Hard to tell before they reject you. It's easy to see when a woman is attracted and shows it. But some women doesn't show it very well. And you won't know if she's attracted to you or not unless you try.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:13 AM
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Developed gradually. Don't play dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:27 PM
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Which is? I've seen plenty of good looking men of different ethnicies. If you can even call white an ethnicity since they can look good too after 40. So I'm genuinely curious which one do you mean. Asians? Black don't Crack?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:13 AM
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Humans evolved from apes. Do you think there are no similarities in mating strategies between our species?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:10 AM
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I think women don't lie on purpose often times. They just don't know what really matters. They give a nice blue pilled socially acceptable answer like they are attracted to guys who treat them good. Those aren't lies. But they fail to mention they are not attracted to them because how they act but because they are tall, masculine and takes charge. It's more lie of omission, even if not fully aware in many or maybe most instances.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:19 AM
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I actually do right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 08:34 AM
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They would be fine with this dynamic in relationship when they are putting in more (because men usually do at start) but they are not fine if it doesn't progress romantically. So same effort can be ok in one situation (relationship) and not ok in other (relationship).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:37 PM
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It's the other way around. If you know you can easily pick women up, have abundance mentality you don't feel the need to prove to yourself that you can pick up another woman. You realize that sleeping with more and more women gets boring and you'd rather form deeper connection with one great gal. It's more satysfying and worth it in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:11 PM
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"women don’t hate virgins or men with small dicks, it’s an insult based on something men don’t like being. it’s like calling someone broke " Exactly. Men don’t hate sluts, it’s an insult based on something women don’t like being called.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:07 PM
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People just reject your premise. In western countries noone is stoning women for being promiscuous. There are slurs like that but there are also slurs for men like small dick and virgin (before incel). Do women hate small dicks and virgins? Or it's just something mean to say that they know might hurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:54 PM
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Men don't hate sluts. Just many of them don't want to date them and that's OK. There's plenty of men happy that there are sluts and taking advantage of the fact they can find someone enthusiastic about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:51 PM
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No. Giving bad argument is bad faith argument. Men want attention from women, not men. It doesn't have to be the same way that men give. Noone said that. Men want any attention from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:56 PM
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How is getting attention from your desired sex the same as getting attention from the nondesired sex. You're arguing in bad faith, that's all it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:44 PM
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He used the word chutiya so it's quite probable.
/r/seduction24/09/25 10:02 AM
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Such a brain dead argument. It's not the same because heterosexual men don't find other men attractive, ever. While you as a heterosexual women can find something about men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:59 AM
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I can say exact same thing: don't take this the wrong way or as a flex. But I have partied and I have slept with a decent amount of women and have been in shitty LTRS But I'd say it's exactly what it's cracked out to be. It's better to have sex and be in bad LTRs than be forever alone. It was fun. Also it helped with getting more social more confident and get into better LTRs with time. So I have tons of empathy for those who can't get any because I remember how it was when I was young and could…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:54 AM
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The sexual marketplace system. Or course not. I'm talking about becoming attractive as a man in order to well, attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:00 AM
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And adapting to game the system in order to succeed in red pill version.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:42 AM
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I always forget about this rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:09 AM
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Or they are not misogynists but they are shy, awkward autistic not attractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:02 PM
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You, that's how it is. You get laid as a man and you're a winner, if you can't you're a loser incel. Welcome to the real world motherfucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:59 PM
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So that's why they always respond with "you're not owed our bodies/sex" when noone even suggested that but just complained they lack intimacy, partner, girlfriend or whatever. Now it all makes sense why they'd jump to such conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:48 PM
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It's gonna be a no from me dawg. You can use RP to sleep around or to look for one good relationship. It helps you attracting a partner. It doesn't tell you to just pick "easy but bad targets". Or anything like you discribed. It doesn't interfere with recognizing and attracting a good LTR partner. Why would it? Maybe if you only look for ONS type girls, but RP doesn't tell you to do that. Besides is there really ONS type? Or just a girl who can ONS with an attractive enough guy like the guy you …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:59 AM
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Some people deny it because they don't do it. Some people don't see it. And other people see it but dent it cause they want it to be true or they think it's such a minority that does it that it's not really representative of most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:50 PM
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It kinda does answer your question. If both men and women does something then it's not weird that just men does something. It means all humans does something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:42 PM
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Men do often show empathy toward women in ways that are taken for granted or overlooked. Here are some concrete examples: Everyday Empathy Listening to frustrations: Many men listen to women talk about work drama, friendship struggles, or dating experiences without judgment, often offering comfort or perspective. Physical safety awareness: Men who walk women to their cars at night, check in after they get home, or offer to accompany them in unsafe areas are showing empathy toward women’s vulnera…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:30 AM
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I think you’re making some good points about attraction and how pity and desire don’t usually coexist. Most people — men and women — are drawn to confidence, capability, and a sense that the other person “knows what they’re doing.” No argument there. But I think it’s worth distinguishing between pity and empathy/encouragement. They aren’t the same thing. When a man is struggling, telling him “you should already know what to do” or “women assume you’re competent, so figure it out” can feel more l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:21 AM
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Thanks for sharing. I thought it was someone more famous that you didn't want to name. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:49 AM
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Nah, you can be sexual quickly but still want more than just sex. If you wait too long with sexual stuff you can end up as just a friend. So I'd rather do it too quickly than too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:24 PM
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Who was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:11 PM
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You've just discovered what RP was talking about ages ago: Alpha Widow.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:43 AM
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I don't need traditional woman. I'm fine with self sufficient, career oriented woman who split the bill with me. Actually we take turns paying for each other. I don't need marriage and kids. So we're both here for each other, not because any of us had a plan and just needed someone to fill in the position.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:01 PM
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Yes, some men would let to walk all over themselves if a hot enough women was presented. But I hope most men got some kind of threshold that no matter how hot you are, they won't let a women treat them like dirt. Have a little respect for yourself and dignity guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:11 PM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:21 AM
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Nah. In this case it's more like you're dunking on someone who said that he had a shitty day at work and that he hates working. He wished he wouldn't have to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:48 PM
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Nah, I'm just myself. But when I see a girl is really into me and she's just a hookup for me then I'm more nonchalant about it, I give even less of a fuck, can be more obnoxious, tease her etc. So basically a jackass but I know she likes it. If I really care about someone I'm a bit more reserved and carefully what I'm saying not to spook them I guess. But it's not really conscious I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:10 PM
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If only men would pay for stuff then they would be worth something! Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:34 AM
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Romantic love? That's not the same dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:33 AM
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If you think "sex" with a vibrator is as good as sex with a man then you either didn't met any good man at sex or you're not straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:33 AM
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About how RP helps you get laid or how healthy sexual life is beneficial for you mental health?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 08:16 AM
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Ture right that women aren't specifically going after bad boys. They are just going after attractive guys. But the thing is that many bad guys are attractive because they are masculine, confident and have other associated traits. The problem is that women say that men are supposed to be good to them and that's attractive. But that's not a factor at all. They are not looking for good personalities, in fact they often overlook bad behavior because guys who are jerks are attractive to them anymore.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:30 PM
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Why would you reject the good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:26 AM
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Getting laid is actually great for your mental health. Thus if red pill method helps you with getting laid it also helps you with your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 07:35 AM
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Well it doesn't sound great to men either. So not many red pilled men decide to do that. If I wanted kids them maybe. But I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:57 PM
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Men appreciate and stick with women who gave them their best years. You don't have to call it reward, it's just a word. The concept seems pretty sweet to me. No matter what happens later you stick with someone cause that's what you promised to do. Even if someone grows older and is objectively less attractive. Are you gonna pretend women don't look better at 20 than at 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:15 PM
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Already to the judging part eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:11 PM
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Because if she gave her youth to him and gave him kids he will honor the deal and stay with her. Cause she valued him when she was bigger value and stick with him and gave him children. He also looks at her with wife Google remembering how she uses to look. Also it's better to be with your kids mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:10 PM
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That sounds great and all but don't you have to pay child support for all your kids and if you don't you go to jail?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:31 AM
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In this scenario some men see women as tainted by other men if she sleeps with them but she's not tainted to him if she sleeps with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:56 AM
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Because it's easy to do for a woman on tinder. There are much more men there so they have lots of matches. Even ugly or fat girls can have quite easy time there. https://youtu.be/x3lypVnJ0HM?feature=shared
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:46 AM
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Many women love to put a lot of their photos on Instagram etc and try to be an influencer. So it really seems to be like a hobby for them. So why not put a little more spicy photo behind a pay wall and try to earn some money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:31 AM
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You don't know that. I don't know that. It's something unthinkable to me. But I'm not in a head of someone from other culture that is driven to than. Hard to tell. But I don't have all the answers like you do. Seems pretty limited to think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:17 PM
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Or maybe you should talk with people, exchange your actual experience and get to the bottom of things not just sugar coat everything and pretend everything is fine? How is anyone supposed to help you I'd you pretend you're OK?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:15 PM
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It's not a vital need. Just because it's a need doesn't mean you would die without it. Read my other posts in this topic to get educated about need definition. https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/need#google_vignette
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:55 PM
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It actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:42 PM
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What does it have to do with man looking for love? Are he supposed to fuck his parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:52 PM
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Just because it is a need doesn't mean there is any onus on women to provide sexual services. There can be a problem that needs to be fixed without meaning that group of people would have to be forced to do anything against their will. I get what you're saying but just because women think men think that doesn't mean we can undermine the real desire or need if you may that men have. It's not fair. It's like saying that just because food is a need it means you can walk into someone's house and eat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:23 PM
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Well, that's true and that's not what I was proposing. I don't even know how we can help those guys for sure. But I guess thw first step would be to stop gaslighting them that sex and relationship and companionship isn't a need. To have a bit more empathy. Next maybe help them out to be better versions of themselves. Create spaces where they can meet up with women organically and for people to form relationships with each other. Life can be pretty cruel and exclusionary for men who are a bit shy…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:43 PM
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Oh no, how they can live now that they know the truth that their blue pilled vision of a world is a lie. The horror!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:02 AM
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They can and do offer much more to society. But society only cares about what it can extract from them like their work, it doesn't care about their needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:15 AM
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Never said anything about stupid woman. But nice strawman. I'm actually loved and desired sexually so I know how important that is and I pity those who lack it and need it. It seems you're lacking empathy to come to same conclusion as I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:35 AM
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But men need both deep bonds and sex. So family and friends only can get you so far. You want to intimate with a women, not parents. If I can call it whatever I want then I will call it need. Funny because if you check the definition of the word it lines up with what I said. You don't have to die without sex for it to be need you know? to have to have something, or to want something very much: Babies need constant care. The doctor said I needed an operation. [ + to infinitive ] I need to go to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:33 AM
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If they did something dangerous and couldn't contain themselves then sure. But we as a society should try to make the life not hell for them so that they don't become desperate enough to do anything dangerous. You make it sound like it's a choice. Many things aren't in our control. You can drive almost anyone to do heinous things if you push the right buttons. It's easy to think you wouldn't do anything bad if you're never tested. But studies show that we can manipulate most people to do what we…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:04 AM
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Because it's not a basic need like water and food. Never said it's on the same level. But it's still a need. You know there are levels of stuff right? You need sex less than food and water but you still need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:59 AM
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Yeah, there are some guys that just want sex. So it all gets lumped up together. But I guess it's hard to have some nuance on the internet. I'd reckon most men want someone to love and have sex but there is some minority that just want sex. And they might be even louder than the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:59 AM
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Actually it does reduce quality of your life. Unless you're asexual then if you really need/want something and can't get it, your life isn't better than if you got it. It's objectively worse. Because you're lacking something that you crave for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:50 AM
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No, it isn't. You're right. But maybe it should be. I'd reckon it would be beneficial to all. I already know that you're lacking empathy to care about male losers. But the argument that they can become dangerous and you wouldn't want that might perhaps get to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:45 AM
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Why should society give a damn if people are happy? I don't know, maybe because it's the right thing to do? Society should care if people are happy because collective well-being impacts everyone. When people are supported, connected, and fulfilled, they tend to be healthier, more productive, and more cooperative. A society that nurtures happiness fosters stronger relationships, mutual support, and resilience in the face of challenges. On the other hand, widespread unhappiness and loneliness can …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:30 AM
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You're right. But I think when men say they need sex it's just a thought shortcut. It's easier to write that but what they really mean is having a partner that appreciate you and lusts over you. That really desire you. You feel deeply appreciated. It's not about just sex but if you have sex then usually you have all the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:25 AM
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If you define a need as something you require in order to live then sure. But it's not the only definition. A need is something you really want, that is essential in your life. And who are you to say what is essential to someone's life? If their lives are worse and miserable because they lack intimicy, a partner and sex then they sure as hell can say they need it. https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/need
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:17 AM
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Hugging your parents isn't an answer for a need of intimacy and sex with women. It's one of a weirdest take I saw in a while. Maybe you're just lacking empathy to understand that deep craving men have, that's what we're calling a need. And it can't be subsidized with hugs from your family or bros. Men know what they want and it's basic biology to need and look for a mate. Parents can't help you with that. And we all know it. Not sure if you're trolling or just have time understanding men cause y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:05 AM
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Just be born tall and handsome like me man. What's so hard about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:00 AM
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Yeah, society doesn't care about you as a men. You need to make it on your own and succeed to be noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:56 AM
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Sometimes you're still partying and just having fun at 30+ and some 20 are pretty mature. Besides you can always date them a bit, have some fun and break up if you don't like it. I mean, it all depends on what you're after. Maybe it's not a greatest marriage material but for str or for fwb it can be great match.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:00 AM
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Only sane comment here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:27 PM
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It's funny how you don't get it. Men aren't dating 20 yo because they have kid's mentality but because they are hot. Also often times it's not about choosing 20 over 28. It's just being open to both 20 and 28. If you find a nice 20 yo who is interested in you then there's no harm in going after her. Usually you don't have a choice between the two of them. It's about being open to dating both of them. And you think that man just wants the 20. No, it's because it just so happened to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:21 PM
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Then why do they keep having then? I know many mothers including my own that were happy to have kids. Sure there are cons and costs but they gladly pay them. I'll just address this 1 point so it's so wrong it's funny: Lol no. It's not because you look different. Plenty of mothers look good. It's not about looks, it's about having a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:25 AM
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You know breasts are not the only difference between men and women right? Breasts make me happy, when I get access to them. Women like having them caress. I don't really get what you're trying to say. It's a very weird post. You mean that men are angry cause they can't have access to breasts? If there were no boobs we would talk about men not having access to sex with women anyway. They would still find women sexy. It's not about breasts but biology. The only way to "fix" that would make us not …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:27 PM
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Why do you think Women are ignoring some silent majority of faithful, thoughtful, hardworking, partnership-oriented men who are eager to build families when it appears those men simply aren’t around in large numbers? Because they are not physically attractive enough for them. So they don't care if they are good men. On the other hand if someone is attractive they also don't care if they are good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:09 AM
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Because most men can't have harems or sleep around. So the best they can do is a relationship and steady supply of sex with 1 person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:31 AM
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You're free to think that I guess, but I don't think it's the right thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:33 AM
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So you're a part of a problem. Maybe you're just lacking empathy. Or it's a "the fed one won't understand the hungry one" type of deal. It's hard to grasp how hard being lonely and rejected every time you try can be if you never had they problem I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:14 AM
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Yeah, this pretty much sums it up. OP makes wild claims and expects us to believe it's true when she's talking about minority of men. And she makes big problem out of watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:37 AM
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And that makes them more jaded, more hateful and that makes people hate them more and so on. The cycle is self supporting itself. Maybe if we had a bit more empathy for them and support them, they wouldn't be so toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:29 AM
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So what? Men like sexual diversity. That's biology. That's how we are wired. It doesn't mean we're not happy in a committed relationship. Many men would love to fuck around but can't. Some men don't. But what does it matter if they make conscious decision to be just with you and stick with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:28 AM
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Some people are happy when they get 80% of what they wanted. Others focus on 20% they aren't getting and are unhappy about it. You just seem like the pessimist, glass half empty kind of girl. Try focusing on the things you're getting and you'll be happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:23 AM
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Which is kinda understandable. It's easier to blame others than yourself. And working on yourself isn't easy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:14 AM
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It's society's, women's and biology's fault that women don't find autistic men attractive lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:50 AM
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Don't listen to women about dating advice. It's like asking a fish to catch it. Being good person doesn't have anything to do with being attractive to women. There's a meme about a nice guy for a reason. If all you've got going for you is being "good" you won't get far.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:43 AM
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It's illegal to get paid less for same jobs. Women earn less cause they work less hours, in other jobs than men and they ask for raises less often. So it is their fault. They are not paid less for the exact same job.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:40 AM
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Behavior and reception.You're alpha if people follow you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:53 PM
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It's not all obviously. It would be impossible. To have every men and women on one app lol. How am I contradicting myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:38 PM
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You don't know if someone is alpha from a photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:33 PM
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They are not. It's just something that indictates that women are dating small % of same guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:32 PM
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You're part of a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:27 PM
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Because there are almost no benefits to getting married for men and a lot of risks and costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:07 PM
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It's like complaining that grociers cost too much yet you still need to buy them in order to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:01 PM
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It's good to be white I guess.
/r/BlackPillScience25/07/25 07:57 AM
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Then look for someone else. But if all the guys you find attractive only wants to fuck and dump you then maybe you're not on their level. I never said anything about forcing yourself to liking someone but to giving someone less obvious a chance. If he doesn't use it well then you're not obligated to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:06 AM
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I'm saying if you're average go also for average because this guy will treat you seriously. And why wouldn't you be attracted to the guy that's not ugly and on your looks level? I'm not saying date ugly guys. You can find some average but cute guys for you. I'm just saying don't judge them on first impressions and go for a date or two. If it won't work then fine. Just saying why not give someone a chance to shine? Is that net negative if you find a life time partner that is on your attractivenes…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:57 AM
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Maybe he's a white man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:18 PM
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Is that something that hard to understand or you think there's contradiction? Pick better personality and be less picky about physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:11 PM
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You're conflicting two things. How attractive someone is and how shitty and toxic someone is. You go for 20%top men but only in attractiveness but it says nothing how nice they are. Because they have so many options they might not take you seriously. They might pump and dump you. Especially if you yourself aren't that attractive and gunning alongside 10 other women for the same guy. So when men say to give a man a chance they are saying maybe say OK to a date with an average awkward IT guy who d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:08 PM
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Oh yes, the great filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:32 AM
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Since people on reddit care about it more than in real life it just makes sense to me that it's due to people here being more on a young side. Of course if you had that experience you'd think that for your whole life. 20 and 30 isn't that bad either in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:15 PM
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I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:10 AM
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I've commented on some supposedly deep post recently and it turned out that a 17 years old made this post. If like 50% of people are teenagers commenting on this stuff it suddenly makes sense that they are ageist and so against 10 year old gap. Because for 17 year old it seems like forever and they can't fathom something like this. But if you're 40 then suddenly 10 year gap isn't something so weird anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:28 AM
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He's based. The age gap is between them. As long as they are both adults what do you care? It's not that he doesn't care about romantic relationships it's just that he minds his own business. Why wouldn't he? Most people don't butt in others people life. But I'll give you this it's shitty how he said that cheating is not a crime. It's not but it's still horrible thing to do to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:25 AM
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Yeah, I've been with women with higher libido than me. It's not as great as it might seem at first. It's weird when you're the one not in the mood that just want to sleep sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:59 AM
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Yes we're trying to get rid off short and ugly genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:21 PM
1

I always am with girls that are very attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:27 AM
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It's good to be in 30s as a high libido man then I guess. It's a nice feeling when you don't want sex more than your partner. They really want it and you don't have to feel like pushing for it too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:19 AM
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Maybe try going for a date with men you enjoy spending time with. So it's not a chore and you don't have to entertain him? Aren't you both suppose to entertain each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:06 AM
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This is not the usual. On average men have more sex drive and libido. The fact that you talk about 30+ might be the reason for this exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:01 AM
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I think it's pretty easy actually. You either start the relationship as dating and trying to hook up with a girl (that can transform later on into relationship after you sleep with her if you want) or you become her friends and then don't try anything. The beginning stage is most important. Either something happen in the start or not. If you fall into friend zone and there never was any spark don't just randomly start hitting on them when you feel like it cause it usually won't work. If you let …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:14 AM
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Women already approach but only if the guy is much more attractive than they are so they feel like it's worth a risk. Which is ironic because it won't work usually. But at least they think they have a chance for high reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:52 AM
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Joe Rogan?
/r/PussyPassDenied19/07/25 06:50 AM
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Yeah, it's quite telling how OP mentioned being pushed into eating disorder by media. So you're saying you need to look at what you eat not to become fat and unattractive? What a horror!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:52 AM
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You're arguing semantics. People mean to get out of dating random people and so they can finally date the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:37 PM
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Women obsess over their feelings in a moment of passion, to their own detriment. It's so weird to watch a married woman cheat on her husband. He can be attractive with a decent job, and she'll still mess it all up to hookup with some random guy who let her feel the tingles for a second. A relationship where you have a husband and kids is objectively not worth ruining over a fling, but somehow, a lot of women can't resist themselves. If women were able to be happy with their husband and kids, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:36 AM
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It is very different for some. Outside of obvious stuff like face and body (big boob, small boobs etc) I think what changes the most is how they act in bed, and what is the relationship with you too. But best sex is with someone who you got strong connection to and who's very willing to have sex with you so it's not worth it just to have variety. Just saying that yes, people can be very different in bed for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:32 AM
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I also choose this guy's wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:30 AM
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Yeah few times in, when attraction is confirmed and built up then sure, you can talk about stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:52 PM
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Nope, I'm not a niceguy. It's redpill thinking. What you're saying is more bluepilled. I can even agree with you on some things but later in the relationship. I don't think you get that I'm talking about very early interactions like even the very first you've got with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:34 PM
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I'm sugeesting that if you have many rules and boundaries and tell them to a girl that you haven't built enough attraction with then she might not be interested in you. Asking someone you don't what they like might come as of very unattractive, weird or even creepy. You go talk with girl you don't know and ask her how to pick her up basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:52 PM
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You're talking about a girlfriend. He didn't say it was about an LTR, it might have been about troubles during early stages of dating or even just getting to know women. It's much easier to tell your gf to do something than random women you're trying too woo since they can just ignore you and call you bothersome. They will go to someone who will act how they want without them telling them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:02 PM
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Or maybe you're intelligent enough but you're too lazy and unmotivated to do something with your life. It just seems like you gave up and didn't even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 03:53 PM
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I don't but I used to when I was younger like a teenager up to like 20yo or something like that. So I think I can relate and answer some of those question with a hindsight that is also how I stopped having dating problems later on. My biggest problem is that I wasn't social enough. I had trouble making friends and so I started college but I barely had any friends and I mostly sit at home and played video games or watch TV. Even if I went out with people it was to clubs with loud music, couldn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 03:50 PM
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Just because women are selectors doesn't mean that men have no standards and no preferences. It's that they are the ones trying to attract girls they like and they are either selected or not. A hot girl got 100 guys who want to go out with them and she's the one selecting who she picks. She's the selector. So men are trying to attract the hottest women they can and if they fail they go lower, where they finally will be selected. So a 6/10 will try with 7/10, then 6/10 and then 5/10 that is still…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:48 AM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:23 PM
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Yeah I've stated the fact and didn't address the why. You're right. It's fancinating to me why also. I guess women don't like when the dynamics between gender are striped out of pretty words and are stated as they are. They find it offensive that's why RP got bad rep. Why do they act like that? That something is love to explore. I guess it's like when people find chest codes. Some people prefer to play without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:16 PM
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Ok. So they might agree but don't like the label and who so saying RP stuff then right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:13 PM
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Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:00 PM
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I'm saying things that red pilled man would say. I don't like labels which is why I've chosen purple pill label here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:57 PM
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If you were to agree with it then cool. But it is widely accepted by society to be something negative. It's being said in the same sentences with incels. Even if it's completely different thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:56 PM
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So you're saying that they agree but don't like the wording? Isn't that basically what OP is saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:38 PM
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It got a bad rep because it is loudly stated. That's all. You might agree with what red pill states but if you label it as red pill sudenlly you don't agree with it. Makes sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:36 PM
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You treat women like teenagers to keep on getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:15 PM
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If by ideas you mean ideas how to get women to sleep with you then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:06 PM
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RP is not an ideology. It's a toolbox that helps you get laid. Sure some might build some ideology on top of that. But true red pill was designated as amoral way to get laid. And many men used it to that extent and to that extent only. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:16 AM
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So girls who lead you on would now sleep with you? That's nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:40 PM
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Nah. She just can't imagine how men can be fine with it cause she wouldn't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:38 PM
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How is that any proof? What if he's just an old blue pilled guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:07 AM
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Imagine you have a deep need - a need for connection with other humans of opposite gender. To love them and be loved. To support each other. To have a companionship. To have sex with them. And now imagine that you can't achieve that no matter how much you try. You might suddenly feel like every woman is denying you that. Of course noone owes you anything. But people when suffering can easily blame not only themselves but those around him. It's either what's wrong with me that they don't want me.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:42 AM
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Yeah I know. And now OP wanna make every male's experience like Chad's and she's surprised men like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:39 PM
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What does that even mean? You're denying men who say they feel lonely? You don't believe them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:51 PM
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Nah, you're not getting it. I've thought it over. I'm not even talking about me specially cause I'm in a relationship and it would be a nuisance for me. But a minor one. I'm thinking about all those guys who are invisible to women. They would feel great to finally be seen and have a shot with some women. You're also overestimating how much of a nuisance that would be. You somehow deal with it your whole life. It's not like men are approaching you multiple times per day. Especially nowadays. How …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:15 PM
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No. In OP it was nowhere stated that you will get women's experience. That you will be put in women's shoes. It was stated only that women (who men are already attracted to) will act like men. You just came up with different scenario that women would be bigger than you etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:44 PM
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So what? The OP was about what if women behaved this way towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:40 PM
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But you're attracted to like half of those women, so you're good. Not only flattered but happy because you can have easy sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:37 PM
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You're projecting. Men would love that. Sure it would be tiresome sometimes but they would be happy to oblige and have sex with those women. Even if treated just as a piece of meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:36 PM
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She said he likes going to pubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:36 PM
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That sounds insane. I wonder if it's cultural thing or what. I refuse to believe it's like that everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:03 PM
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But they don't know he was lying to save face. So it might be less unattractive than admiting you're actually unattractive and undesirable on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:28 PM
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The chances of getting killed or raped on tinder date are what. Like below 0.01%? It can be paranoia if an event is very unlikely to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:48 PM
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In theory, sure. But this conversation would probably look like this. most men have 0 or barely any matches. Like maybe a match every few days. really it's that bad? Is it the same with you? yeah... He'd have to admit it or lie. Which I'm guessing he didn't want to do. They might think he's a loser and not really believe that most men struggle. They can possibly think that he's the one struggling and just defending himself that it's most men experience. I've seen countless experiments when women…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:16 PM
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He would have to admit he's a loser with 0 matches. I mean he might not be a loser but if those women don't understand average male's tinder experience they might assume he is. So by not saying anything he isn't looking as a loser. I'm guessing he still thinks he got a shot with either of them so he didn't want to look worse to them than he does now. Makes sense even if it's sad and probably won't change much. If he was attractive to them I'm guessing he would get together with either of them. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:13 PM
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Your example for women's negative experience is awful and mostly on her. Once he touched her in the way she didn't want to be touched she should end the date and that would be it. Not a good experience but not that much worse than being ghosted after paying for a date if at all. Better example would be if she was SA'd. But how often does that happen on a random tinder date in public space?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:05 PM
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That's just paranoia. How often does that happen? Just go and meet someone in public space.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:01 PM
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Well she got alpha widowed basically and I know what you mean. I never said it's about women who chase you. Of course women who are desperate enough to chase you are below you. I meant women who you chase and they let you catch them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:15 PM
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Maybe they are not in the league of men who only had fun with them. But can you really say you're in the league of women who want nothing to do with you? Who are you to say that if you got no evidence for that? How would you determine that? Because you think you should be because you're both kinda average? If you can't attract your looks match then maybe you're league is someone less attractive than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:53 AM
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It seems so at the moment. I see you have a lot of things going against you. But you can still work on yourself and improve. So I wish you best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:02 AM
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First of all I never said you can't improve. Second of all its not about who show their attraction to you but who you can successfully attract. Maybe you can attract someone more attractive than obese women, you just haven't tried enough or you're too awkward socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:20 AM
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Yeah, your league is who you are actually able to attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:04 PM
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Yeah, my ex after we broke up. She got drunk and wanted to get back together with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 01:05 PM
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My experience is quite different. My girlfriends either liked me being a nerd or didn't care. Mostly they were fine with it, liked playing games on coop etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:22 PM
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Because it turns out they are not misogynistic and in fact good guys, duh. Also you need something more than just being misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:40 PM
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Companionship, good times, sex?
/r/MensRights10/06/25 10:43 PM
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About free will? I'm not saying it's true. But it's an interesting concept. Debating is fun. Also even if we don't have free will then we might not have the will to choose whether we debate or not. And so we have to do it. And it might even change something. But it was pre-determined.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:31 AM
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Because I'm attractive unlike most of the society duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:44 AM
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We're hard wired like that. A lot of people can't change that. I'm not talking about myself but about the society and all men. Nice ad hominem. Seems like you already give up argumenting in good faith and lost. Also it's very possible we don't have free will BTW. https://www.hurtyourbrain.com/p/understanding-the-argument-against-free-will
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:35 AM
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Even if*...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:31 AM
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It doesn't matter if you're wrong or right about women if your solution is wrong. Even in theory it would work it wouldn't work in real life cause you can't make all the men stop chasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:28 AM
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The point is that biology made us that way, we desire those things way too much to just give up and not chase. I mean sure some of us can but there will always be enough men chasing that nothing will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:25 AM
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Nah. There are other many other reasons. You might want to be with someone sexually and not just as a friends. Being just friends might create tension for both sides and it's not feasible. Sometimes a woman doesn't even really want to be friends. She just says it to let a man go gently. And it's not her real intention. Sometimes a man got too many friends already and doesn't need another one. He's looking for something else so why bother. But yes, sometimes it's beneficial to befriend someone wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:25 PM
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Depends on what you mean by better people. They might not be better people overall. But they are most likely better at attracting females. More condifedent, more attractive. So what if not everyone can get a gf? That just proves that you have to be better than others since not everyone will be able to do that. Doesn't mean we should belittle them and make fun of them but there must be a correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:02 AM
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I said why some men might be scared of it. And you made it personal so I answered that some things like kids doesn't concern me. I'm always honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:48 PM
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No. I like women. I don't have problems dating. I prefer PIV sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:46 PM
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I don't take kids into equation in my situation. Respect can be there without putting half of your stuff on the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:36 PM
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A lot of men are just scared of marriage and for a good reason. It seems to only benefit woman and be risky for a guy. Noone wants to lose half of their shit or pay alimony if things go south. And it's women who initiate most divorces. Men just want to be with someone without a hassle. They might lie to themselves that sure we can get married one day, maybe it's not such a big deal. But when you need to really commit you realize it's too scary, too risky. And not go through with it. Why should y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:09 AM
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Example of what? Ideology? Andrew Tate shit. Toolkit? Be confident, take care of yourself, hit the gym, don't fall for bullshit etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:12 AM
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And what else is to you? For me it's mostly amoral toolset to help men find a way to attract women. Anything else like ideology about it seems to me it's an attempt to hijack it's original purpose and I reject it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:29 AM
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Lol. I'm just responding to this theoretical situation. Women actually want to fuck me so I don't have to wonder. But thanks for you concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:47 AM
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It wouldn't be rape though. More like paying for sex. You still want access to my money? Sure but I get access to your body. So she's basically prostituing herself. If you don't want alimony then fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:43 AM
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Sure, she gets some shit. But she also got a lot of men lusting over her. Are women also lusting over fat guys body?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:50 AM
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Maybe he is. Would it be so bad and weird for him to point out double standards because they impact him personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:43 AM
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Nah, it shows how women overvalue their appearance and how men have much more wide range of what they like women to look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:39 AM
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Yeah the bar for women is in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:37 AM
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So if they got no friends then it's fine for them to be outcasts living lonely lives cause noone took any interest in them. Sure. And it's not just women. Men should do the same actually. It's often not just that they don't have female friends. It's that they don't have any friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:16 PM
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Of course it isn't. But it is a bigger deal for men. Especially since they have harder time getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:15 PM
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I'm sorry you had those experiences. It might happen sometimes sadly. For me when I was young even if a female friend rejected me I never got angry or violent. Just sad. But I made friends with many women, got out of my shell, got much more social and didn't have problems with finding girlfriends later in my life. So I'm also speaking from experience that this kind of behavior helps men. But if I was a bit less outgoing, social, bit more weird and didn't manage to find some good friends. Then my…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:22 PM
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You're missing the point. It's a privilege that if you want sex then it's easy for you to obtain it. Men have to work on themselves to become attractive and it's a lot harder. Unless you're lucky with your genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:39 PM
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I wasn't telling women to lower their standards. I don't think it can work like that. I'd start with a little bit of empathy for starters. Not making fan of virgin males, calling them incels etc. Help them with tips how they can become more attractive. Help those shy awkward guys. Not by forcing yourself to sleep with them but just being friends with them. Don't make fun and ostricize a guy just because he's a bit weird. He's probably just a guy who didn't have a chance to have a lot of social i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:36 PM
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I was ambiguous for a reason because I don't know how it would effect society. But I figured it wouldn't be anything good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:32 PM
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Prostitution wasn't anything I was proposing. It might help some men but overall it's about much more than just sex. It's about companionship, not being lonely, starting a family etc. Prostitutes can't fix that. They can barely ease the pain for a bit I guess. Men wants to be wanted, desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:31 PM
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Maybe it really is society's fault? Would that be so wrong or weird? There might be ways to fix the issue without forcing women to have sex with them. What if there was another solution like trying to make those men more desirable so that women would want to have sex with them. I think that sounds pretty reasonable actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:25 PM
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Wow, interesting find. Shows how privelaged women really are in the dating market. And now instead of some empathy and trying to help those less fortunate men they focus on the fact that you can't force someone to have sex with you. Sure you can't. But you can try coming from a place of empathy and sympathy and try helping those less attractive men. That's what red pill did and it got hated for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:17 PM
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It's not done to them but IT IS a men's issue. It's something men deeply desire or even need to feel fulfilled, loved, satisfied etc. It doesn't matter if it's women's fault for not being less picky or men for not stepping up. That might be up to debate. But it is an issue that should be talked about and fixed somehow. And not just because we pity those men. But because a lot of angry men isn't good for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:07 PM
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Oh, kids change perspective drastically. Didn't think of them as child free person. I know guys who stay in shitty relationships for the kids. That might indeed ruin you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:18 PM
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I've been in bad relationships and when they got too bad I just left them. But they were still valuable experience and fun at times. I try to look at the whole picture. I guess if you're more emotional and fragile it can somehow ruin you. But it's hard for me to image how that's possible. Must be really extreme maybe, abusive and stuff like that perhaps. What makes them not attractive? They can work on themselves and with time become attractive. Men have to put a lot of effort in being attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:09 PM
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I'd say hopping from one bad relationship to another is better than being alone all the time. At least you've got some experience, companionship for a while and sex. Also not everyone who is single at later stage of life is damaged goods. A lot of people were in some kind of relationships that failed for various reasons and are now single and looking for someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:58 AM
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Well actually you can force somone. But that's what we call rape. You can't help you genetics, they are what they are. But yes you can maximize your attractiveness in various ways. Some guys just have it much harder than others and are frustrated about it. I guess they know all that they just want some empathy from those more fortunate. Yes, Noone is to blame for not wanting less desirables. I don't think anyone is making this argument. But I guess you can pity those unlucky ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:39 AM
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Sure, I wasn't saying it's not possible. But I don't think it's controversial to say that it's easier to be nice to people who are also nice to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:12 AM
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They are nice because life and everyone is nice to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:25 PM
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So you're saying women should fuck incels to make them less misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:24 PM
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What? Women are famous to like attractive men, even if they are criminals. Men need a woman to not look hideous and be kind of nice to them. But of course the hotter she is more he can put up with. But it's usually not worth the trade off. I think this problem is much bigger in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:53 AM
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They tried it with a dating app to flip the script. Bumble I think. Where women had to write to men first. It didn't work. They abandoned the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:00 PM
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Yeah but there is some truth to it. Some men will fuck anything. Men have higher libido on average, have more sex drive. If that makes them pathetic then sure. But it's how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:41 AM
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Some of them are, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 09:37 AM
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He's not choosing her. He's just pumping and dumping. What else can he do? We got higher sex drive so sometimes you fuck a chubby girl and move on. She could pass on him since she probably knew it won't last long. Blame her for not being realistic. Not him for going for it if it's offered. He didn't say he lied to her to get into her pants or anything. If those chubby girls want attention for longer they should up their game and get fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 09:36 AM
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A lot of men complain about the friendzone because they were told that they should befriend women before dating her and it didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:24 AM
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Nah, I like when woman wants me for me, not for my money. It'd a hassle sometimes but it's more rewarding and validating. I also enjoy spending time with a woman, not only sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:54 PM
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People who like the buzz.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:26 AM
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No, why would it be? I don't understand what's so bad about objectification. It's used like a slur and you're supposed to instantly think it's bad. But why? We objectify each other by finding other people beautifull and focusing on that. So what? That's basic human biology. Men are objectified too. Shirtless ripped men shown in mainstream movies etc. I don't think men are complaining about it much. Unless it's just brining it up to show feminist hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:13 PM
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He didn't know she won't take plan B. She promised she would.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:48 AM
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Only if that friend would say he wasn't intoxicated and you wouldn't notice that he is but you could have. Then it's comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:47 AM
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He is also that and he might be that. Doesn't change the fact he's also a victim of her ruse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:40 AM
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He's as much of a victim as child is. Maybe even a bigger one since maybe they will be good parents to him anyway. Yeah, poor him. But I guess you have no sympathy for men. He was an idiot for doing that, it's true. But he was also lied to and fooled by her which makes him, yes a poor victim. You've got be heartless not to see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:36 AM
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Nah, it's very popular take. Everyone says no. Mine take is actually unpopular it seems. If she lied about being on birth control or taking a pill after and deliberately made him an unwanting parent then he shouldn't have to pay for the kid and not be legally forced to do anything. She wanted it, she lied to him, let her take all the responsibility. She lied to him, how are they equally to blame? They aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:33 AM
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Yeah it's a well known inequality. Women can decide to have abortion, but men can't decide whether they want to have that kid and are forced to pay. We would need something called paper abortion or financial abortion. Wave all rights to the kid and you're off the hook. Seems completely fair if women can abort in that country to have paper abortion as well. The only reason this doesn't exist is because there would be financial burden on a country. So men are getting the shitty end of a stick. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:23 AM
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It's different. Those aren't regular men. They know they can have sex for free so they don't feel like it's emasculating m to pay for sex. Also paying for the baby isn't paying for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:02 PM
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It's a physical and a mental need that hookers can only help with in rare cases. In most they would even make it worse since most men would feel bad about "achieving" sex by paying for it directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:49 PM
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You're don't understand men at all. I see another ridiculous claim by you in the same thread. It's not about physical act of losing virginity as much as the fact that someone wanted to sleep you. That someone desired you. Going to the hooker will make you feel like a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:45 AM
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Men don't admire men who pay for sex. They don't even respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:43 AM
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I don't see anything wrong with specific movement either. It worked fine for years. But I feel like feminism run its course, and we are ready for something new. That's why I was suggesting something more inclusive. I feel like men are trying to fight for their issues with men rights movement, but not enough people of both gender are interested in it. Maybe it just needs time to gain some traction. Maybe after years of being supported in their feminism movement, now women should help men with som…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:18 PM
1

By choose better they mean choose me. Choose a nice guy, not super masculine attractive douche. But other than "niceness" they don't have much to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:15 PM
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So... Something like egalitarism? I think new movement which would see struggles of both men and women could work better. In theory feminism is for gender equality but it focuses like the name suggests on women's issue. In the times where it isn't even obvious who's got more struggles maybe we should shed this old movement and work on something new that benefits all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:34 AM
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There can be one ticket and one bill but people at the end say what they ordered and pay only for that. Sometimes waiter even remembers everything and you don't have to say who ordered what. That's pretty common where I'm from.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:54 PM
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I think I explained it in my post. Women got more choices so she's got more % to get fullfiling relationship. Men sometimes do too but it's harder to achieve
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:37 AM
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I guess the OP's argument is that for example woman got 3 choices of a partner. She can pick 1 that is the best of them and have great full filing relationship for whole life. And a man got no choice or 1 choice at best that isn't optimal but it's all he can take if presented to him. That leads to not optimal life. Sure some will find valuable partner as well but the argument is that it's much harder for men and not everyone will manage to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:49 AM
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Depends on what approaching means. It sounds to me like approaching total stranger in the bar or on the street. But people still meet naturally in other circumstances like in the class, doing shared hobby in a group, or most often by common friends. Would that still be called approaching?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:27 AM
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Yeah, but the difference is that women are complaining that they can only find douche men and they had their pick. Men don't complain like that, they were happy to land an attractive girl even if she was a bitch. And they usually didn't have that many choices like women did to choose someone nice but plain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:23 AM
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Maybe they do. Or maybe there was big enough attraction gap that they would tolerate shitty behavior to be with someone they found really attractive. I guess it works like they for both genders. It's good for you that you are not like that. But maybe people are unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:40 AM
1

It depends on the scoring of a test. 5/10 should be average but maybe it isn't for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:32 AM
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I've got both looks and personality actually. But when I have a fling and I'm not that much invested in a girl and test her boundaries I can clearly see that if she finds me very attractive I can do shitty things and she won't lose the attraction and still wants to fuck with me. It might be different for long term and with healthy attachment style I'll agree. But I was talking more about attraction than forming LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:31 AM
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That seems like a sweet blue pill lie. I know when I'm in girls type and she really like the way I look that I can be a douche and it won't affect anything. She still is crazy about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:03 PM
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You don't care about 1. If 2 is high enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:04 PM
2

Most guys aren't even 5/10? You know 50% should be 5 or above?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:04 PM
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They probably struggle mostly with 2. If they were attractive enough other points wouldn't be that important. He might even be perfectly average 5/10 but that can be seen as 3 or 4/10
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:03 PM
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So you're not struggling when you've got one undesirable option? I thought you need to have a least one desirable option not to struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:00 PM
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There's much more men than women on apps so just because a woman have matches on tinder doesn't mean much tbh. The fact is that if she were 20 again she would have tons more matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:25 AM
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Most women want someone their age or a bit older so you might be too young for most 40s women in this case. I'd say they drastically lose their dating value. Not many women stay in shape and still look good at 40s in comparison to 20s or even 30s. It seems just because you like older women you think most men do. But in reality they are losing to younger women. They might still be attractive to men their age, but men their age can also go for younger. So there's bigger competition there for those…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:29 AM
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Yes they struggle but only because of their own fault. If they wanted someone on their level they wouldn't. That's what he's saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:27 AM
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That's not that he said though. Just because there might be one guy that fancies her doesn't mean she's not unattractive to the vast majority of average males. And so she does struggle in dating to find that one guy because they are very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:24 AM
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Maybe you were too young for them or something? Just because they have smaller pool of options doesn't mean that you're the only one messaging them. Especially on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:22 AM
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It doesn't make them undateable. It just hits them harder. Not only they lose the ability to have kids they also are losing more attraction points with age than men. Men can still keep up with other stuff than looks, but when woman is losing her looks with age there's not much she can do that make up for it. Stuff like money, social status etc works mostly for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:21 AM
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I'm guessing she wasn't on any dating app, didn't socialize that much, had only few friends, didn't go to parties or stuff like that. It was probably just very hard to meet her by chance and try to get to know her other than on a street on in grocery shop. Which isn't ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:18 AM
2

The bar is in hell for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:01 PM
4

People are OK to make life changing decisions at 18 like going to military but they can't date someone until they are 25? That's so stupid its ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:47 PM
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Because they don't care.
/r/MensRights14/03/25 08:28 AM
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Yeah. You can start caring when you know she's also interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 02:13 PM
3

It seems she's bored with him and irritated that he's too simple. My question is was he always like that or it changed. Maybe he's too fucking tired from working whole day to keep a family of 6 afloat to have energy for anything else than eating fucking and sleeping.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 07:28 PM
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I just commented on that post before seeing it here lol. I saw it in the comments about family of 6 but can't access OP's profile to see her comments. Not sure If I'm banned or she deleted her account or it's just reddit being reddit. She literały complains that her husband is too easy to keep happy. That post irked me even before I learned that she's SAHM.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 07:25 PM
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Interesting. Didn't peg you as a man. But ok. Then I don't get where you're coming from but the point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:48 PM
3

Her feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:19 PM
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I think your take is completely wrong and it's the other way around. Men's standards aren't too high and it's women who are picker. It only makes sense if you just look at the top most attractive men and ignore the rest. They have too high standards for you. It seems like you were rejected by Chad cause you're not attractive enough and this is how you came to this conclusion to protect your ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:40 PM
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Probably most of those pretty women are pretty average. Women tend to overestimate how attractive other women are to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:35 PM
3

Too many.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 07:37 AM
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No more Mr nice guy.
/r/BlackPillScience02/03/25 07:42 PM
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The ignore it but they don't go for it. They go for stuff that is also there. That's different from OP is saying. He's saying they are attracted because of toxic traits. Not despise them. It's in the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:16 PM
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It's not about being toxic. It's correlation of asshole behavior with idgaf mentality and not being a pussy. Being aggressive, upfront, basically confident. That's what attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:20 AM
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Great post. Spread the awerness! I get the argument that it's not a need because you will not die without it. Sure. But your life will be that much worse without fullfiling your main biological urge that you have after getting stuff you need to survive. Reproduction is main biological objective so people need to have sex. That's what our bodies tell us to do. When you can't do it it can make your life miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:33 AM
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And in reality it wouldn't. It would help those who were not attractive enough for those women anyway. Some men would still prefer real women. And perhaps some good would come out of it. Women would have to compete with robots so they would have to step up their game. Compete for fewee men and convince those on the fence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:34 AM
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You say like it's some gotcha. Men in USA Know that and are happy about it. They don't want foreign men competing with them for jobs and women. They would be fine with single women immigrants. But that's not who's coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:02 AM
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How is it wrong approach when it's working? And what's your good approach that works better than RP?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:47 PM
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But that's exactly what red pill tells you to do. Work on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:08 PM
1

This is a wild take for me. I have many female friends and I don't think it ever happened. I mean I had friends who wanted to be with me and I refused. With some of them it didn't matter that much and we moved on still being friends with others it was awkward and we stopped being friends. But I don't think they took such a great offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:33 PM
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Government assigned girlfriend obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:01 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:51 PM
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Sure, I agree. If I was a loser in high school and now I'm not should I not date any women since they would reject me back then? What would they accomplish? Me not dating anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:51 PM
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And what side do you think I am on? It often changes depending on a specific case. I'm not really on any one specific side.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:49 PM
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So you just assumed the stupid take and took a beef with it. OK lol. Sure, I know how it works. But Chad doesn't have to care about it. What I say still stands. Attractive men don't have to care and women will still chase them. I know since I am one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:47 PM
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No, it isn't wild. It's normal for me too. But seems to be a discovery for OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:16 PM
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When did I say that? You know people can have sex more than once with the same person right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:15 PM
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As in they rather have sex with a hotter guy and not come than have sex with you even if you make effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:22 PM
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Women would rather have sex with a hot guy and not come than come with a meh guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:57 PM
2

Or that women are more picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:54 AM
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That has always been obvious to me. Being in relationship is beneficial to you and lack of sex can cause serious psychological harm. Feeling shitty all the time etc. That's why I always think it's malicious to make fun of people not having sex and not trying to understand why they are bitter about not having it. It's hard to understand someone who is hungry when you've never had problems satiating your hunger. Or you don't have much hunger at all. (low libido)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:25 PM
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"just be yourself" basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:02 PM
5

I think they asked about examples from media. Not your personal fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:43 AM
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Superman is with Lois Lane. Spiderman had multiple girlfriends, mostly MJ. It never works in the end but it's mostly due to him living a double life and struggling to be good at both. Nothing to do with his smv or shit like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:40 AM
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Exactly. The bar is only on the floor for women who don't have much to offer so they are on the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:16 AM
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Dunno about that. In my experience fat girls know they are less attractive so they are easier to pick up and more receptive. They make first move more often. I had multiple fat girls making a move on me. Also I saw on tinder that they more often like me. Maybe you're right about the size. Since I'm a big guy. Tall with broad shoulders. So they might feel like they are smaller next to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:44 PM
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They do. If they genuinely find them attractive and I know some that do, then it's easy mode since fat women are less attractive for most, thus it's easier to pick them up. They are more desperate that they often approach guy since noone is interested in them. I had some girls trying to pick me up and they were almost all fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:41 PM
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Sure, not everyone but overwhelming majority like 70-80% probably. Found even some studies that confirms it: A 2021 study by YouGov found that 23% of Americans reported finding "plus-sized" or overweight people attractive. OKCupid data showed that approximately 30% of users rated curvier body types as appealing. (it's about curvier not fat though so there's more %) Communities like the "BBW" (Big Beautiful Women) and "chubby chaser" subcultures show a high concentration of individuals who are ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:18 PM
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It might work for some of them. Maybe they don't know it's not working or maybe it is working? If being obese would be more accepted and not shamed wouldn't there be more obese woman since they wouldn't have a reason to try to stay fit? I think it can work like that. Maybe it won't work on some fat women who struggle with weight. But it works on some women that try to stay fit because they know it's not attractive to get fat. There's also health reasons of course, but it's just one of the reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:04 PM
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Makes sense. If obesity is more accepted and isn't shamed there's more obese woman, so it's harder to find and date someone who's not overweight, since there's too few of them and there's too much competition over them. I envy guys who find obese woman attractive, seems like they are living on easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:02 PM
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It's not about consent. Women want to have the cake (be approached by attractive guys) and eat it too (not be approached by unattractive guys).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:54 AM
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Just approach women who you know will like being approached. How? Just read her mind dude, what's so hard about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:46 AM
1

Yeah women are so privileged that when some bad comes with a lot of good it seems like oppression to them. They want to have all the benefits of being attractive without any downsides. Be hit on but only by those they find attractive. They don't want to deal with the fact that they will be also hit on by those who they think are not worthy of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:43 AM
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What does liking or wanting to get to know women got to do with being attractive? The women I cared the least about were one of those who were the most attracted to me. They are not attractive because they are boring pussies, not because they don't like women. This is a weird take.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:13 AM
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Yeah, I don't need to go deep with a girl regarding my hobbies. I can talk with her about whatever. I have wide interests. But what's important is that we share some common interests so that we can both spend time together. If I love going out, partying, playing games and she doesn't then it might be hard to spend any time together.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:29 PM
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It's not that emotions are bad. It's just that if there is no vibe between two people then big grand gesture of love won't be effective and it will make things awkward between friends. It's just better to do small things first, see if they are reciprocated, see if there is a connection and vibe and just do small steps. It's just more effective way to approach your feelings. Noone said it's bad to have emotions or anything. Chill :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:09 PM
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I mean that's your opinion and I don't argue that. Even though it can be made in a romantic way. I'm just surprised that this is the most dry thing you've read when we're at purple pill discussion and I'd think you've seen some red pill advices.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:38 PM
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Have you red some red pill stuff like at all? This is pretty reasonable I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:33 PM
0

That's stupid argument. Noone is having unwanted kids just because they didn't protect themselves. You know protection sometimes fails right? Would you say the same thing to a woman who wants abortion when she becomes pregnant but doesn't want kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:46 PM
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Why should a woman be able to have a choice to give a kid away or abort the baby but man got no rights and a woman can make a man have to pay for the kid he doesn't want? It's just about being fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:58 AM
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Why should a woman be able to have a choice to give a kid away or abort the baby but man got no rights and a woman can make a man have to pay for the kid he doesn't want? It's just about being fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:57 AM
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It's very simple. If woman got the right to abort the kid on her own and father doesn't have a say then man should have the right to waive his rights and responsibilities toward the kid aka financial abortion. It should be early enough so woman still got the right to abort after his decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:42 AM
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And they will still sleep with those they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:19 AM
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I met her at club. Why is she going to clubs? :o
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:56 PM
1

I think he was asking how is liking a lot of girls a low effort. What if someone really likes a lot of girl's profiles. He was asking who sees the fact he liked other girls. I guess the question is about algorithm and why it's punishing those who like most of the women on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:03 AM
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I don't care. I'm one of those terrible people and I enjoy my toxic relationships. They are hot and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:26 AM
1

I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:42 PM
1

Some of them sure, but not that many. Also in famous marriages where the man is rich like Gates and Bezos didn't the wives file for divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:05 PM
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That's a stupid analogy. Fat chicks usually stay fat. And there is no guarantee that she will become slimer. Some do, most don't. Better analogy is why should women expect men to stay with them when they get old and unattractive if they don't give them a chance when they are young and broke? Yet men stay famously married to their sweethearts even after they got made, earn a lot of money they still are loyal to their old wives in most cases. Then women should pick men when they are at the start o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:35 PM
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There might not be anything shameful about not being chosen but you can't blame them for being mad about it. Redpillers try to work the system, becoming more attractive and being chosen while blackpillers just give up. I don't think it's reasonable to ask people who are not chosen to be cool with that system and advocate for something that is not in their favor. They want to change it so it suits them. That's also nature. You want reality to be what benefits you, not others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:02 PM
0

I've never noticed me or anyone else doing this as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:18 PM
3

Yeah. It's easier to have warm approach but cold approach work for some guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:25 AM
2

You sure you responded to correct comment? I responded to the guy above me since he said "yes we should ban cold approach and go for warmer ones" like we would agree with OP. But OP actually encouraged to do the cold approach. So I thought maybe our definitions mismatched. Yeah it might be harder to meet people in small cities. In bigger cities there are a lot of group activities for different hobbies and stuff. Easy to make some friends and meet women organically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:16 AM
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How is it warmer approach? Cold approach means you approach someone you don't know. Without any social excuse like doing the same activity. What OP described is text book cold approach. Maybe you're talking about being direct VS indirect in your approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:57 AM
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If only they lowered their standards... XD
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:26 PM
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Yeah, it's a skill issue. He wished he could be provider and women would have to rely on him and be with him even if they are not attracted to him. To be fair that was standard model for most of humanity I think so it makes sense he's not cool with current model.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:26 PM
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Yeah, I just didn't know what the controlling behavior was exactly since you didn't specify it earlier. What you described is very shitty. I thought she might be controlling, dominating but maybe without the abuse part. It's good she became better and they worked it out though!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:38 AM
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So she picked a man who was an orphan, she helped him getting rich, get good career, she supported him and she sticked with him through thick and thin? To tell you the truth, even if she was controlling him, it seems it turned out pretty good for him. Maybe it just seems so from what you described and his life is a hell in reality but from what you described it seems like not such a bad deal. I mean it's not perfect but if it works for them who are we to judge? Maybe they are happy in this relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:25 AM
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You don't buy it because it's bullshit stupid shaming attempt from virtue signaling men and older jealous women. If anything younger women are harder to get because there is bigger competition for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:18 AM
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Send me those videos. Sounds fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:08 AM
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They are more attracted to younger chicks but that doesn't mean they don't find anyone their age attractive. Yeah sure they should work hard to keep their wives. Same as women should work hard to keep their husbands. Also 43 to guy can get together with woman in their 30s no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:07 AM
1

Sure, I don't doubt some people lie about studies. But it seems you know better what all women collectively think than studies. Just because some women might have lied I find it hard to believe most of them lied so that what you think is correct and studies aren't. If we thought like that we couldn't trust any studies and we would all have to trust our guts, feelings and anecdotal evidence. I rather believe in studies then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:30 AM
2

So you're saying women were lying during the studies. https://www.businessinsider.com/dataclysm-shows-men-are-attracted-to-women-in-their-20s-2014-10
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:35 PM
1

Maybe she thinks it's silly and childish not want to grow up/old? I'm just guessing you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:42 PM
1

It seems to me people are saying something like that to soften the silliness of what they say. Something they might be embarrassed. Got plausible deniability that they did lol at the end you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:14 PM
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You can come here for relationship advice. But you need to sort out by controversial and read downvoted posts. Maybe there are subs that are less blue pulled, but not sure which one would be best.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:34 AM
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They don't want you to have a girlfriend because they think you're misygonistc bad person. In their mind such person shouldn't be in any relationship. It does not compute that even if it's true that a lot of bad men are in relationship. It doesn't work with blue pill philosophy that good guys should be rewarded and bad guys should be punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:05 AM
1

That's just how people write/talk. Add a little bit of lol or XD on the end of the sentence when saying something perhaps slightly embarrassing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:02 AM
3

Don't worry, you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:00 AM
0

Because it's one of those things that doesn't work both ways. Men always find young women sexy and it changes for women. The age they find attractive increases with their age. Why men find their wife sexy after 30 years? Wife glasses. Bonding and remembering how they looked young.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:00 AM
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Not always. There a lot of shy nerdy dudes that just don't know how to social, groom themselves, dress themselves etc. It takes time for them to flourish. Even if they are attractive. Or at least not repulsive. But they still need to learn how to talk to women and come up with initiative. Cause women barely takes the initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:00 AM
0

Well they should but they won't. So fuck them. I mean literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:54 AM
-2

Dua lipa?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/24 05:19 AM
5

You submit? Nope.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/24 05:18 AM
4

Why? Don't you advocate for equal rights? Woman can abandon the child and give it up no problem. Why don't men have the same rights? It's simply inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:41 PM
3

Sure she can control her body and he should be able to control his wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:40 PM
2

That's on nature. You can still abort it if you want. But I'll give you that men should pay for abortion or at least contribute 50%
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:39 PM
1

Yeah, figured that. Noone cares about men's right. Nothing new. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:43 PM
-1

But if she keep it then he got to pay for it. She's got all the power to force man to be on the hook. That's not equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:38 PM
-3

Then why shouldn't there be an option for financial abortion? Why can't men decide if he want kid but women can? If she can terminate pregnancy then he should be able to cut financial ties with kid. Just do it early enough so she can have abortion if she doesn't want to raise it on her own. She still got the option to give a kid away. Why should she be able to force the man who didn't want a kid to pay for it for 18+ years. It doesn't seem fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:36 PM
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So then you agree with what I said initially and was just bragging for no reason fucktard. I know short guys can do well too. But I meant that tall guys have easier time. So it's nice you agreed after that stupid brag.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:18 PM
4

Your anecdotal evidence proves that women don't prefer tall guys. What a revelation! I'm sure lots of men must be super happy about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:10 PM
10

Nah, he's right. There's many men who even prefer girl to be skinny and small breasted rather than curvy and big boobed. Tell me it's the same that some women prefer shorter guys. Sure like 0.01% maybe. Not comparable at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:45 PM
2

What you described is basically what red pill says. It is what it is, you can complain but that won't change anything. If you want to matter then you have to play by it rules. Gain status and attract mate or die trying. Or don't do anything and be alone. That's your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:21 PM
6

Other men are invisible especially those working dangerous and dirty jobs. They don't want equality there.
/r/MensRights14/08/24 01:41 PM
-3

Common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:00 PM
0

You can get a gist of it from his comments jn this thread. I was interpreting what he said in good faith. It can't be that hardcore If he calls that "floor is on a ground"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:58 PM
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It's impossible to list every possible situation where you argue about petty stuff, yes. It's impossible for anyone. I see you are the type who like to make shit storms about such things and like to bother your man about it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:42 AM
-12

Don't make a fuss about nonsignificant things. You want a list of things? It's impossible. There's too many possibilities. Some women just love to make a mountain out of a molehill. It might be a stupid joke or forgetting about a detail you told him or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:39 AM
-18

We mean women who isn't just bitching and arguing about every stupid thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:33 AM
-8

And what OP probably really means by attractive is just a healthy weight nonugly girl. I'd reckon that men find like 50% of women their age with healthy weight attractive to them. And by submissive or non argumentative he probably just meant not being a bitch. Have a nice personality. Not great personality just being nice, not challenge him on every stupid thing, emasculate him, bitch about shit and stirring up arguments about petty things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:32 AM
1

That's stupid. 18 are not kids. The fact that you don't see a difference between 10 and 18 and think that someone would be attracted to 10 yo just because they find adult 18 yo women attractive is preposterous. This is too weird of a take and I don't think you're discussing in good will and this isn't going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:23 PM
1

No it's not gross. It is what it is. If we allow 18 years old to vote, make legal decisions, go to war and die, drink alcohol etc then they should be also able to date whoever they want. They might make bad decisions but that's what society decided is the cut off age. Maybe it should be 20 or 25 but it isn't. Dating people older than you have less severe impact on you than taking shit load of loans you can't pay or being injured during the war. Maybe we should rise that age and not consider teen…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:39 PM
1

Ok and in Europe it's often 18 or even 16. And if you are bringing America probably then we can talk about the army and elections. Ok so you're saying that they are considered adults. But when it comes to relationships suddenly they are kids that don't have fully developed brains. I see double standards here. And why bring pregnancy? We're just talking about relationships. You can use protection at any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:31 AM
1

I'm not talking about draft. I'm talking about being able to join the army at 18 and be sent to war. And I'm not taking about us I'm taking about world. Don't be so close minded. People in Russia and Ukraine are forced to fight at 18. But my argument is if you're being able to go to war and die why can't you choose to be with older person? Some people are manipulative sure but not all of them and it doesn't guarantee you've got your life destroyed. Sometimes it can be just harmless little fling …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:29 AM
6

Getting killed in a war is worse than having a relationship with older guy, right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:39 PM
-1

They are kids but can drink, vote and go die in a war? But can't choose who they want to fuck? Why are you infantilizing adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:36 PM
1

/r/MensRights02/08/24 09:16 AM
1

/r/MensRights02/08/24 09:15 AM
1

/r/MensRights02/08/24 09:14 AM
1

5/10 isn't terrible low standard. 5/10 is literally average. If a man is average as well then he can find her being attractive to him. Low standards would be going for 3 or 2/10. Most people are supposedly average so it's not such a low bar. Unless you've got skewed standards and seeing 1/10 as 5/10 and got different spread. But that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:16 AM
1

I like drinking alcohol but whiskey is still yuck to me. But it's good with cola or apple juice. Or a drink. Or just beer. There are so many alcohols that you can probably find something you like. Not saying you have to. Just that it doesn't mean anything that you don't like whiskey. I don't think anyone likes it at first taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:51 AM
-4

Nah, it's different for man than woman. High n men don't have problem with pair bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:48 AM
1

They either don't care about your faith and believes and think them stupid so they are like why wait? Let's have fun. It doesn't make sense to wait. Or they find it very appealing that you're a virgin or low count woman and want to be the one who is special enough for you to make exception for them as you said. Its a power trip I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:46 AM
1

I'm 35 and people are always surprised when they hear my age. They guess something like mid 20s. Maybe cause of how I dress and hang with younger people at bars and stuff. They assume I'm similar age. It's not a one time thing I cling to. It's just that I hear it a lot. One guy who was around 25 thought I looked younger than him and couldn't believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:46 PM
2

Have you considered not everyone thinks the same as you. Why would we feel anything concrete toward random woman? You felt "5"towards every woman? No matter if you knew her or not? Young, old, hot, ugly? Same? I might be bit biased toward hot women I meet but I usually base my opinion on people based on how they act.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:33 PM
2

He might considering how weird he thinks and what he asks us about. It seems to make sense in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:31 PM
1

That was my guess as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:31 PM
1

And that's the real pay gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:15 PM
2

It's cute that you believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:19 PM
5

You sure about that? They used to be wars for resources. Women where one of those. Maybe it still is a resource that men fight over just on other battlefields? Like climbing social ladder, getting good positions for money etc. Or they are just lucky in genetic gallery. Probably both in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:54 PM
2

I don't know. I'm a douche and get laid a lot. Women are just virtue signaling. They want to maintain image that they are good people who pick good guys. But they prefer tall douche than short nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:52 PM
9

Will society suck your cock or that hot 21 yo girl will?
/r/MensRights12/04/24 09:12 AM
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Yeah same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:32 PM
3

Yeah it's just a shaming tactic women use. You can just ignore it. The argument that older men pick on younger women because they can manipulate them and that it's easier is hilarious. No, it's not easier, if anything it's harder. But there's one really simple explanation, men just like younger women, they are usually more attractive at 25 than 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:09 AM
1

Women like men who know more than they do. Period. In other words women like men who can impress them at something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:55 AM
5

Not sure if I want more 3-4s to approach me with their overinflated self evaluation when I can get 6s and 7s when approaching myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:53 AM
4

And women wonder why men in their 30s date women in their 20s. No sweet it's not because they are easier to manipulate or whatever, they are more attractive, fun and less baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:29 AM
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Nah I don't think so. There's lot of good man. Your friends might be looking at top 10% men that are just having fun but they don't look at less attractive guys that are on their level who would want to find someone and marry. I think the problem is that they don't give many men a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:06 PM
7

True, their diverse taste is tall blond guy or tall dark guy :D
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:21 PM
7

That's such a shitty take from her. Women criticize both men and women. It's men who like much more variety and complement even ugly and obese girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:59 PM
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Yeah that's why it makes more sense for it all including drinking be at the same age like in Europe. It might be 18, or maybe it should be 20 or 21. But it'd seem like all of it should be legal from the same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:52 AM
1

What if they don't. Shouldn't we help them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:27 AM
1

I don't think it's the main issue. Lonely man can live frugal and do just fine on their own. Without having family to care for its not that hard to live on your own financially. I think the issue is being social, having someone around, helps mentally to not be lonely etc. Finances can be a plus if two well put together people live together but it's just a bonus and it's not even true in some cases where woman wants to spend a lot of money above their means and man have to help with that lifestyl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:17 AM
2

I live in a country where Noone is circumcised and Noone is saying they wish they were when they were kid. But I've heard some circumcised people on net regret not having foreskin and mad about losing it. So it seems much safer not to do something to your kid he might regret and won't be able to undo.
/r/MensRights11/11/23 10:23 PM
1

Never heard about it. I heard theory that poor man like fat women/big tits and rich men like thin girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:27 PM
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Men come for your looks but stay for your personality. Even if your looks fade away your husband would see you through wife Googles and remember how you looked and still wanted to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:23 AM
1

It'd be weird if just one trait made you so attracted to certain person. Someone might like Asians but I'm pretty sure it's not just any Asian. He'd have to like her figure, face etc. When it's just one of the things he likes about her it's all good right? So what if he prefers Asians? You're Asian you should be happy about it. I'm tall and if a girl likes me being tall I'm not offended that she likes me just because I'm tall. I'm pretty sure it's just one of the things she likes about me. And t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:28 AM
4

I think it's a cope. I don't care if women like me for my height. It's their right. I like them for their slim figure if they've got one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:23 AM
3

You'd have to Change your gender to adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:29 AM
8

Because nice girls finish first. They are desirable. Nice guys? Not necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:49 PM
2

Not really what I wanted to convey. I'm also not supporting being fat and saying it's healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:10 PM
4

Noone cares about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:50 PM
12

Wrong. You know why men really don't like fat acceptance? Because it encourages women to be fat. So there's less women that are attractive. So there's smaller pool of attractive women for men. So less of men will be successful in finding desirable mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:34 AM
6

It seems like it's women's problem and she's insecure and not comfortable with men who earns less than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:06 PM
7

I may be a drunk. But I'm not a dad!
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 01:44 PM
6

300 dollars on a first date? Damn that's crazy. Dodged a bullet there.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 09:04 AM
9

Ok, then let's go for a beer or a drink. Or for a walk. I don't do dinner dates.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 09:02 AM
1

Women 2/3. No. I like skinny girls. My last girlfriend had bmi of 18-19. That's what I like. She could be probably something like 20 or 21 and I'd still find her sexy but going 25+ is probably gonna kill the attraction for me. Not gonna have a clear cutoff because 23 or 24 can look different on different women, so I don't know how attractive that would be for me. But generally the skinnier the better. Up to some point that starts to look unhealthy. But I've never been with a girl that was too sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:47 PM
1

Christian fundamentalists are dumb confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:20 AM
3

I'm guessing he meant that few men date multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:15 PM
2

Like undress you and put my penis into your vagina. Bang!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:07 AM
3

I'm not super crazy about having kids but this is ridiculous. If someone wants kids then having kids is the benefit. It's one of natural urges. Many people want kids pretty badly so even if there's a lot of costs, they still want to pay that price.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:54 PM
10

Yeah being dad implies you've got at least one kid. On the other hand fuck boy could have tons kids that he doesn't care about but that's not a given. But even then it's a matter of quantity VS quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:56 PM
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He didn't uphold her cause it turned out she's pregnant with another dude? If that didn't happen for all we know he could uphold her all right up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:21 AM
-2

Maybe he meant femine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:30 AM
0

They do when they get good sex. And I do give it to them. Because I am very good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:52 PM
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Maybe you should start choosing stand up guys not just attractive thug guys then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:45 AM
2

I don't think it's offensive. It's just sad reality for a lot of people and that can make them angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:00 AM
3

She doesn't look that bad. Too bad there's no front shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:28 PM
2

I don't think so. Not every women if fit. And those who are have nice bodies but not everyone got good face. So I'm picky. I'm just talking about bodies. That's why I asked about examples of slim not attractive girls. Cause maybe I agree with you, and I'm thinking about other body types than you. But there's also different preferances. Like Im not a fan of big boobs etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:03 PM
2

Do you have some examples? I'm genuine curious. When I saw unattractive body type on a woman it was always because she was fat. If she was slim she was at least a bit attractive. Sure there were different levels but it's hard for me to imagine slim nonfuckable female body. Maybe I just haven't seen it. Or maybe I have lower standards than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:31 PM
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Face? Sure. But body? If you're slim you're attractive with every body type.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:47 PM
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Almost every womans body is attractive when she's slim. That's the point. Face? Sure there are some uggos but some would still tap that. But bodies? Unless you have some disease that twists your body then it's hard for me to imagine non attractive body of slim woman. Maybe you have some examples? Maybe not all will have super hot body but at least totally bangable for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:46 PM
1

I never said ugly men should attract beautiful women. I agree that people should bat in their own league. Well they can try but if it falls then that's on them and not evil women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:30 AM
5

I get your point but if both sexes want 10/10 but they are average on their own maybe they should look for their looksmatch and not fuck around. If I met cute 6/10 and we click then it's all I want. Sure i might prefer someone prettier but I'm happy with her. And if she's happy with me then there's no reason for us saying to each other mean things like I wish you had bigger boobs or dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:14 AM
1

What do you mean nothing? And what does women bring to the table then? Also do you mean world overall like men aren't building it and maintaing it? Or are they not desired for women anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:40 AM
1

Then why shouldn't men want 10/10 models? Because it's not fucking realistic for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:22 AM
2

I think treating women as resources and "giving them away" is disgusting BUT considering how fucked current dating market is and how social media fucked women over it makes you think that maybe arranged marriages, enforced monogamy by church etc wasn't really such fucked up thing. Since it kinda worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:20 AM
1

I think both mem and women want someone that is into them. That's not really something we differ that much. If women want as many check boxes as possible then men want woman they find attractive. All the other things like good natured, nice, lovely, cooks, low maintance, funny, interesting etc. Are just bonus. Sure men want someone who's into them but who doesn't? You choose someone that wants to be with you but that's not a preference, that's requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:45 PM
4

Yeah it's not that high over 5/10. And how do women rate themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:43 AM
3

Men don't have to imagine it. They feel like that all the time. All you need is to have a girlfriend or a wife. Unless you're an incel then yeah. Pretty sad we need to have a stable partner to fell that way. But it's pretty nice state to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:23 PM
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It's bad genes. But yeah, normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:12 AM
3

Be nice and not fat. You'll do well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:56 PM
10

Yet older women will still shame us for dating younger women. Even if it makes absolute sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:53 AM
0

Hopefully :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:33 PM
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Don't worry. You'll get your turn later when they pass 30 and want to settle down with stable guy. You might not get as hot and often sex as the bad boy, but at least you'll be able to provide for her and her kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:36 PM
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You made me think that marvel or video games wedding could be really cool. Got to find the nerd!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:39 AM
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You are free to pursue other girls. When you meet someone in a bar or a friend of a friend you can just hit it off. When a girl is hitting on you, there's nothing stopping you from flirting and taking things further. Funnily enough it seems like opportunities like that present more often when you're taken. Obviously I'm not talking about open relationships, but old school monogamous exclusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:31 AM
1

Only when fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:29 AM
2

Age is fair because everyone is young at one point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:15 AM
1

They are not that bad. Depends on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:03 PM
4

You're missing the gatcha! The man is probably fighting him and protecting his woman. So they are not equal. That's his take I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:57 AM
3

And on the other hand many women say they prefer to start relationship based on friendship. But yeah from my experience it's better to state your intentions clear early on. You don't waste time and quickly see how are things going to go. Go on dates and not normal friend meetings. Try to get physical as soon as possible. And if it doesn't work you can go your way. You weren't there looking for friend and you didn't have time to develop friendship. Easier to let it go.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:41 AM
2

I guess that's what matters most to women. It was in the article that it's not just wealth, it's wealth prospect. So a person who's got his own house, is living comfortably and not in debt is what women are looking for. It's more attractive than someone who's struggling financially.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 08:35 AM
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I think being ignored would also trigger her so that's not such a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:37 AM
4

Wow banned for roasting too hard even though that was the point. But that probably caused existential crisis in this girl might have been too close to home for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:28 AM
5

I prefer to be called Sexy Evil Bastard.
/r/MensRights10/06/23 12:51 PM
19

What? I didn't even used that. But yeah fuckzone for women is basically what friendzone is for men. She's good enough for sex but not relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:32 AM
31

Yeah, she was fuckzoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:39 AM
1

Maybe you just notice less introverted attractive women because they are less out there and more in homes or with close pack of friends. Don't post that much on insta and living their own life. You just have less access to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:42 AM
5

Sounds like some revenge fantasy of yours. Are men justified to treat women without respect because they weren't respected before? Not really. You should treat all people with respect. Is it somehow understandable in such situation? I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:44 PM
2

Not many I reckon. I prefer above average woman. At least 6 or 7/10
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:39 PM
5

Yeah I pity them. They are fucked. Not only they are lonely and sad, people love to hate on them and use incel as a slur.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:40 PM
1

Attractive for me Slim Nice personality, no nagging, complaining all the time etc. Financially independent. Doesn't have to be rich, just pulling her weight, can afford to go for some vacations etc . No kids. Probably doesn't even want kids. Not too religious, preferably non religious at all. Shares similar interests or at least is willing to try. Caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:44 AM
1

You are listing dangerous like problems with pair bonding for men but it's not men issue. It's woman issue. Casual sex is just fun for men and there's not that many risks. Men dislike when women have high N but the other way around is not that intense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:47 PM
-1

There is I guess but I was thinking about the man-woman sex. And didn't really got into all the details. Sure people who can't have PiV can have sex too. It was just the easiest and most common example.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:16 AM
0

Everything before PIV
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:56 AM
8

That's something most dudes won't get. How come something they desire so much may be of no value to you. When something is normal for you and you are objectified since puberty and all kind of men wants you then its not something you want, quite the contrary in fact. But dudes see it like they are so thirsty they want to drink anything, and women are like only water? I want something more exciting I'm sick of plain water.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:51 AM
0

Why?
/r/MensRights26/05/23 05:32 AM
2

I thought he's supposed to be rich? No?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:50 PM
-7

It's taken to court but shouldn't we wait for the verdict? Have you heard about innocent until proven guilty? I have a sense it's been the other way around lately. Even if there's high probability chance of him being guilty I feel like we should uphold to this standard. Especially in cases like that. So it's always valid and not only in some cases so its easy to move goalpost to believe all women suddenly and shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:12 AM
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Well if they are only accusations and not something confirmed why is it weird not to include it? I'm not really in position to judge if it's real or not. Im not that interested even in him. It's just that I've heard of people who were destroyed by fake accusations and that's really sad and frustrating. So if it's only accusation then let's dismiss it. He seems like a tool but I guess he's rich so that's why people say he's high value?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:05 AM
46

But only on a subway.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 06:27 AM
19

Because it's not. Women won't admit it. They will beat around the bush and say don't act creepy. But it's not the act. It's who does it. Men do say it cause it's the harsh truth and we are not afraid to show their hipocrisy.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 06:26 AM
3

Probably like 2-4 times a week when in relationship then few months of no sex between relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:32 PM
1

Her husband is a cost per acquisition? At least she's got a husband before hitting the wall. That's not bad.
/r/PussyPass22/03/23 12:37 PM
2

Unless you've got much bigger social circle than you did in school and you're no longer autistic idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:22 PM
1

It's the sexiest thing you can do? Nice. Good thing it's not sexist.
/r/AntiFeminists17/11/22 08:30 AM
1

Pretty big one but yeah.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 01:18 PM
1

She beat Titania.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 10:36 AM
1

If average women is undateable and average men is undateable then maybe they are fine for each other to date and thus dateable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:40 AM
6

Matt and Trey are worth millions though. Over a billion together. Unbelievable amount of money anyway.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 12:43 AM
1

What do I deny? You're missing the problem. It's not about men standards. It's about average men struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:16 PM
1

So they have even less sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:12 PM
1

But it doesn't. Men are fine with their looksmatch and women aim for top 20%. There's more competition and that's making it harder for men. Women are the ones who are picky. And have their standards go up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:20 AM
3

Well if it's big city you can meet people easily that you normally wouldn't. It doesn't have to stay virtual. People also move.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:03 PM
7

That's not the point. You have a choice but from less people. You're compared to people in the same community not in the whole world. Creates more realistic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:48 PM
1

Yeah, 1 woman is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:18 AM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:27 PM
1

Every few days at minimum. It's kinda weird cause I'm fine with few weeks of no sex between relationships but ideally it's every 2/3 days at minimum so average every 3/4 days maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:24 PM
1

Regarding benefits of dating older men. They usually have their life more together. Got a place, car, have more money so can take you places etc. Not talking about gold digging relationship, just being able to afford more expensive places like restaurants or vacations. Are more mature, have more sex experience so they are better at it etc. Also more likely to want to settle down and have a family if you're into that. Depends on what you want i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:39 PM
1

The guy she picked didn't say that he will text her maybe or pehaphs. There was no hesitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:08 AM
0

She's cute but she's overweight so that puts her on average for a lot of dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:07 AM
7

I see a lot of them on Tinder too.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 04:31 PM
3

Nice.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/08/22 01:49 PM
1

The jokes on you. I'm into this shit.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/08/22 01:48 PM
4

That's what I said!
/r/PussyPassDenied30/08/22 01:45 PM
1

Present it.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/08/22 01:43 PM
1

So that's why I ended most relationships huh? And they were in love and wanted more when I was bored/irritated /fed up with them. But I wouldn't say women don't have standards in relationships. I feel like they have still a lot of demands. It's just they don't break it off that easily when they are not met. And try to change you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:37 AM
2

Or maybe confident and attractive males can afford to be mysoginist and not hurt their chances? Maybe misogyny is linked to testosteron and maleness that women are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:07 PM
1

Marrying hot and rich guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:35 PM
2

Probably all the time regularly. Sure might go a few days without there and then but still crave it soon after. In relationship with unlimited sex i still wanted it at least once every day maybe 2/3 max after few years. If I could "magically have sex all the time" I presume you mean with different women? Then I'd like it every day almost for years. Not sure if I would ever not want it. Maybe just want it less often as I get older that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:18 PM
2

Maybe they do get desentized after a while but they already bonded with that guy so it's OK. But that would mean that even 1 long time partner can "ruin" a woman and make her unable to pair bond if she was long enough with the first guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 06:33 AM
5

666, the number of the beast (Chad). That's why Lucifer is sex symbol.
/r/MensRights14/08/22 06:24 AM
47

That's a useful skill!
/r/MensRights14/08/22 03:04 AM
1

Good for you! I'm 34 and people say I'm 25 or something. But maybe because I often hang out with younger people so they assume I'm their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:14 PM
1

If all you're interested is tiktok and starbacks then yeah I'd rather date someone older that holds similar interests like me. I'm 34 so dating 20 yo might be a stretch but something like 25-27 seems quite right. A bit younger but still mature enough with a job and having her shit together. If your 32yo sister looks like you I'd call BS but if that's remotely true then you got great genes. And it would still make sense to date you so that you look similar when you're 10 years older. The question…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:59 PM
1

Dunno I always thought anyone can use those services and sex workers rarely reject their customers. I'm sure there could be also some cheaper options. It could also be maybe subsidized a bit? Like for mental health and so men would keep on working happy. I know it would be controversial but it could bring some good for society to help those men rather than shun then or kill them like you suggested.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:57 AM
1

I think she meant how they don't value her. Oh no your actions have consequences. I'm so sorry sweety. You wanted a cake and eat it too. Guess what. You will still find someone so don't cry if some men have their rules and don't want you.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 08:39 AM
0

Being a sperg.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:14 AM
1

Who said I can't. I don't want to!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:50 AM
-1

Their youth. They are more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:06 PM
1

I was explaining OP point. I also said that I'm not sure if his example was good one. I think older women are less attractive but that obviously doesn't mean they should sleep with everyone that is remotely interested in them. So yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:31 PM
0

I didn't say women offer less than men. I said they offer less as they get older since they get less attractive. Learn to read with comprehension before calling me words :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:03 PM
0

What? I'm dating younger women just fine thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:45 PM
-1

You might think so as a woman but for men it's mostly about women's youth, attractiveness and joy. Not only they are more attractive they are also more fun. Sure stable finance is nice but for men when picking a partner, financial situation isn't that important. Unlike for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:25 PM
-4

The point is that it's funny that women want more when they offer less. And they are not assessing their value correctly. Not sure if the example from OP is a good proof but that's another thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:20 PM
2

I think having similar n count can be good for relationship, one shouldn't deceive the other about it cause it's important for some people and you shouldn't build relationship on a lie. Me personally I like younger women so itd be a bit weird if she had similar n count. Then relatively she slept around more than I did. I like it to be as small as possible but I had a girl that didn't want to tell me hers and said it was a lot cause she partied a lot when she was young and it didn't bother me tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:31 PM
2

I wasn't talking about manipulating the world since I mentioned the narcissist being rejected. I was talking about the interpretation of the event that made narcissist keep his high view of himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:13 AM
4

That's why it's good to meet more organically and not necessarily sober during parties and stuff. I had a drunk girl that I danced with offer me a bj in a toilet few minutes after I met her. That made me quite suspicious. But I guess she was that drunk and horny. Probably. Had a gf at a time so I declined but I still wonder would I take her up on that if I didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:02 AM
6

Real narcissist would be sure he made a great impression and he wouldn't be ridiculed. And if she rejected him then he'd hamster it and explain it to himself with something like she must have had a bf or she's a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:56 AM
85

The other reason is that man can form a bond with a child that he has no rights to. And when the relationship fails he loses not only woman but a child too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 01:49 PM
1

You can barely see her face and her legs and things are huge. She's 4/10 at max for me. But I'm not talking about US average like you guys. Not everyone on reddit is from USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:32 PM
1

Who said only guys that you don't wanna fuck you wants to fuck you? I'm sure they are some you want to fuck too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:58 AM
2

Well that's just tucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:57 AM
2

Yeah sure. But that would be 5/10. Not sexy but also not ugly. That would suffice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:48 AM
3

I've seen some bs in this thread so I thought you really meant all men want to bang all women :) sure some horny men would lower their standards to get sex but it's all got its limits. 7 can go to 5, maaaaybe 4. But not 2 or 3 etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:44 AM
5

What? You don't think men have standards? Let's say I'm a 7/10, I'd gladly fuck 7 and more. 6 is ok. 5 is maybe when drunk and very Horny. Anything below is no go.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:39 AM
1

You don't have to sleep with those guys to use the advantage. Guys want to sleep with you but you don't have to. They will still date you and get to know you. You just need to determine whether all they want is sex or relationship and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:34 AM
2

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:33 AM
1

Why are you so sure? When I was a kid I traveled with my parents but now I'm adult I'm traveling on my own dime.
/r/AntiFeminists14/07/22 03:22 PM
1

What are you jealous about? And why can't you go to Japan? For me it's time and money that's difficult. USA seems great at least for a while. New York, Yellowstone, LA, route 66, tons of stuff to see. Living there might be another thing.
/r/AntiFeminists12/07/22 05:09 PM
1

Nice! I've been to most of Europe, including Iceland and China. I want to go to USA and Japan one day too.
/r/AntiFeminists12/07/22 04:50 PM
3

I got on my high horse cause of what watermelon said. He knew something regional and was being a dick to others. How many countries have you been to BTW? Just curious.
/r/AntiFeminists12/07/22 04:45 PM
1

I didn't know what HOV line was either but I bet I've been to more countries than you did. But I've never been to USA so.. Yeah. Go figure.
/r/AntiFeminists12/07/22 09:11 AM
4

Damn i regret looking there. Saw thread where they are dissing Peterson for critizing plus size girl in some sport magazine. The comments were so toxic and totally clueless. Like they said that they don't feel attracted to him but don't point it out. Like why the hell would you. He's not on a cover of sports illustrated as a model.
/r/AntiFeminists06/07/22 09:52 AM
22

Without sound I thought it was a man.
/r/AntiFeminists06/07/22 09:48 AM
2

I'm not, Im a tall guy with bit of tummy and I always wanted to get more lean but I've been with plenty women that didn't seem to care or even liked it. I'm just wondering how popular that is and if getting more lean is even worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:47 PM
1

As a not super fit guy with a bit of tummy but great legs I appreciate it. I guess skis, rollerskates, swimming and even lots of walking did it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:58 AM
1

I wonder if that's true about the size of tits. I prefer them to be firm and good looking. Size doesn't matter that much. Smaller ones usually are better looking for me, and I think they will pass the test of time better so maybe subconsciously that's why I prefer smaller ones a bit more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:54 AM
3

Somehow. But I think most men don't care about feet that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:46 AM
2

Taller guys getting pass on a bit of tummy, nice. I wonder if it's only you or more wide-spread preferance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:39 AM
1

10cm? Damn even that is hard to get when you're almost 190cm. When I meet 175cm girl that's quite tall and rare. I prefer girl to be taller than average but if she's short Its not a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:32 AM
1

I prefer tall women, but still shorter than me. I'm pretty tall, like 189cm, around 6'2?, so I like when woman is above average like 175cm. It's easier to kiss when standing and I don't look like with a daughter lol. Never been with women my height or taller but I only seen a handful of those in my life. I prefer skinny/lean girls. I don't mind small boobs, in fact I prefer then cause they are usually more firm, got better shape and are more equal to each other. Also blond preferably. I don't li…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:26 AM
1

The kind that can make him earn much and make her laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:36 PM
1

Because people suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:33 AM
1

Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:29 AM
2

If it were all men they could do docking... Like docking in space... Right? Right?
/r/AntiFeminists16/06/22 08:52 AM
1

I'm not saying success and money doesn't attract women. I'm saying you can also attract women by being passionate about something. You might have less women after you, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:13 AM
1

Nah, they care about passion even without being the best at something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:03 AM
2

I guess that's one way of seeing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:33 PM
2

Yeah I know. I just started wondering if I'm doing something wrong when I'm 33, been with like almost 10ltrs (counting those 3 months as well) and still going like that. Not that I mind but I wonder if I can keep it up my whole life or eventually I'll find someone for life. It's not for the lack of trying. But if I see red flags I won't just put up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:42 AM
0

That's not really true. If you're not a sperg and have passion for nerdy stuff, be actual good in it, have some success etc and it makes you passionate and ambitious then women will find that attractive even if it's nerdy. Women didn't find it sexy i was playing hearthstone but they didn't hate the fact that I went and won some local tournaments. I had fun, was competitive and passionate about that and maybe they didn't find it that sexy but it also didn't hurt my chances either. I still had to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:58 AM
0

So that's why it works for me!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:53 AM
3

I think most guys eventually become type 3. I know I am. I am commitment type but I don't tolerate bullshit or boring relationships. So I'm more of serial monogamist. I am in relationship for 3 months up to 3 years then break up and in next 3-4 months I find another girl. Sometimes it's just a fling, usually one fling between 2 longer relationships. I'd like to be with one girl longer but when something is not right I don't think it's worth my time. And I do try to fix it but sometimes you can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:42 AM
1

Seems reasonable but I always think I'm the best so it never occurred to me in a relationship. How would I even know? Sure you talk with woman about past relationships but how many girls would talk all about their ex and how they are better than you? If that happened sure is gtfo but most reasonable women don't really talk like that. Also what it means to be the best. Maybe I have less muscles than one guy she had but I'm taller, funnier and more famous. So what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:17 PM
5

She could fancy and like you as you are but say it's eyesbrow for the sake of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:48 PM
4

20/16 seems normal. Especially in my country when age of consent is 15. 20 with 45 seems a bit weird to me, but if both parties find it OK then it's OK for me too. It's their lives. I don't see anything predatory about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:00 PM
1

Ok cupid study
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:14 PM
7

Nothing. But I would probably make you laugh if I were to be my charming self. Netflix and chill... If you were to be what I'm looking for. Unfortunately for you I'm looking for younger fit woman. So not you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/20 03:16 PM
1

The sad thing is if he ever want to get married with any girl he should marry this girl. He won't find low n girl or he will find that might lie about it. He won't ever know. Even if she seems low n like this girl there's always a chance she's lying. He wouldn't know unless he did some heavy vetting.
/r/MGTOW03/10/20 02:30 PM
5

If you really are fit and have pretty face you shouldn't have any problems. Unless you aren't or you give out "bitch vibe". But even that shouldn't be much of a problem tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 03:36 PM
1

Well obviously not being around a bunch of dudes. That's turn off. What would work? When a girl is pretty, slim/fit and gives good vibes. I mean doing something fun having nice smile and being positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 03:34 PM
14

Abundance.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 10:15 AM
1

I was kinda fine with looking for marriage on tinder. It's not only for fucking. Many people use it for dating. I was fine with no sex till marriage if she's Christian and looking for someone like minded. But I did not expect her to have a child xD
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/20 12:27 PM
1

Funny you mention that metaphor. I can use that against you. Should you be mad at candys existing? Or should you try to teach children to eat healthier vegetables? Your metaphor works nicely against you. But in real life vegetables should try to be more like candy. That's the only thing that can actually work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:52 AM
2

Oh right. Then I guess that just counts for overall attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 02:08 PM
2

I think there's a lot of nuance. If we want to get specific we should divide it, so we have "the look rating", "personality rating", and then maybe "overall rating". One can judge a girl just by photos as 6/10 but untill we know if we have common interests, outlook on live, can "click" and whatever we won't know if we're good match. For me she might be 4/10 personality so overall that'd be 5/10 so I'm not that interested or she might be 8/10 personality which kinda ups her overall ratings to som…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 01:10 PM
2

You can become personal trainer or a chef. Maybe it won't pay as well as your actuary work but it could if you're good at it and get recognized for it. Same with piano.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 11:59 AM
9

I'd watch a tv show like that. It could be called "Thots and Losers find faith".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/20 08:15 AM
13

Ok, you got a point there. But I still think It was her who wanted more kids and him not so much. And if so not that soon.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/20 08:37 AM
5

They did?
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/20 08:32 AM
19

There is in comments. It wasn't planned pregnancy. It seems like a happy accident for her and a horrible one for him so far...
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/20 08:17 AM
9

She needs a guy with big dick because noone else could get through all her fat to her snatch.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/20 10:24 AM
5

It's pretty naive to think theyd know by that age.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/19 03:24 PM
23

Damn if a girl do that to me I'd write under her post "I'm gonna make it really simple for you. We're done."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/19 02:29 PM
1

What flying spaghetti monster got to do with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:54 AM
1

Dad? Singular? I'm impressed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/19 07:10 AM
2

I always do.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 04:56 PM
24

We are not going anywhere. You are. Going home.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 10:31 AM
1

What happened in 1975 to make both genders so happy?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/19 07:05 AM
5

Normal kind. A joke actually. Yeah I do. I like blondes.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 05:26 PM
10

Seems like you have a type.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:48 PM
3

Yeah. Also don't assume everyone wants marriage and kids as default.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 04:52 PM
1

What? No. That doesn't make sense. You can be 1 (in your scale) if you're 6 for 4 but you will be 0 for 9. And some 0 can be 1 for low lv women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:51 PM
8

You can say he's milking that joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 09:20 PM
1

I see you've never heard of "wife googles".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 11:42 AM
2

It has been made. Human centipede.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 11:20 AM
4

Lol what rape strategies?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 10:54 PM
3

Now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 10:38 AM
15

It's funny cause it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:12 PM
0

Is this easy gold fishing thread? I want one too. Thxbai.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:05 AM
3

When you have more money the single moms are even more interested so they are more annoying!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:02 AM
2

r/thanoswasright r/thanosdidnothingwrong
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:58 AM
3

It was pretty good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:52 AM
1

It's easy to not see how awesome sex is when you are bored with your long time gf. That's why I said consider what men did in history to achieve sex. Just because you don't find it awesome doesn't mean it's not very important for most males.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 02:17 PM
1

It is. Seriously. Look at history. What men did to get sex. What men are still doing to get sex. Everything revolves around sex. It's basic urge and need. We wouldn't be here if it weren't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 01:44 PM
1

Need is something essential or very important. Sex is very important. Therefore it is a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 01:25 PM
2

How is it not a need? You can live without it. But your mental health will suffer. It's not healthy not fullfiling this need.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 12:47 PM
2

This is crucial. You think people over value sex because you have no need for it. And it got nothing to do with US movies or culture. People with sex drive value sex exacy how it is. Awesome experience whether it's casual fun no string attached sex or deep binding relationship sex. It's just awesome all around. You won't understand it if you don't have the need for it if you could live without water you'd ask if everyone else is over valuing water. No they don't. It's a real need. If you have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 12:26 PM
6

Maybe they are just counting people that actually did have sex? So when there are more sexless men than women, the men that have sex have it with more partners on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 08:44 AM
1

My point is even if it was confirmed 100% that it works some people still wouldn't put work towards doing it. Sure it's not fixing everything and it is easy solution to complex problem, but as you just admitted it helps. It also helps other issues, make you more confident, giving you something to do. Helping you with discipline. It effects other disciplines of your life. So it's great start and building block for the rest of your life. But sure it's not the only thing you need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 12:25 PM
1

They might but at least they get played by women and not ignored. Unless we mean different kind of play :) Anyway you missed my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 11:59 AM
2

Most people don't have the dermination to test that theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 11:39 AM
3

Unless you have wildly different libidos. But if you can wait till marriage I guess your libido isn't that big.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/19 08:26 AM
1

The reason why I stopped having sex is I stopped being stupid and realized I'm not "winning" anything by having mediocre car sex. I couldn't get any enjoyment out of interacting with men in any romantic/sexual way. I have actual PTSD from an unrelated event, and how I feel about sex is pretty similar to how I feel about those events. Every time I remember hanging out with a guy who I thought liked me, I can remember exactly when this feeling of dread would kick in. Like as he touched me, I reali…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/19 12:58 PM
1

I tell you from my perspective. I enjoyed spending time with my exes. Would I still meet with them if I knew sex was off the table? Sure. But I need sex. Every time I meet with a gf I want it. I enjoy the time we spend together but it's just better if it ends (or starts and ends) with sex. So there's that. I wouldn't want to be in sex less relationship. That wouldn't make sense. And if she wants it much less than me then it's a real problem. Libidos got to much match somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:12 PM
4

Run.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/19 10:52 AM
1

Why are you describing my ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 05:57 PM
7

Me2
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/19 11:48 PM
1

Funny but if you asked the same question to men (with dick ofc) they would answer hands and tongue.
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 12:17 PM
1

It's a description of a photo not a headline.
/r/MGTOW01/09/19 08:03 PM
21

Ass.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 02:45 PM
3

Fat and hairy is my nightmare. Im afraid of woman stache. I prefer blond. But its not a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 11:09 AM
2

This is old. But I've read it again with pleasure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/19 11:15 AM
1

Ok sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 07:49 AM
3

Story time?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 05:13 AM
1

Sounds more like downgrade to less used up firmware.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/19 01:47 PM
0

Please don't play with my balls.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/19 01:54 PM
1

Well sure. There might be. Like being a YouTube or a travel agent for some time. Or Profesional gamer. Or artist or whatever. But I think there's always a point when you get fed up with your passion and you're forced to continue doing it cause you need to pay bills. So I guess kinda and somewhat is the best you can do in a long run. Unless you keep on doing new stuff. But that might be hard to maintain in a long run. And might not be too profitable if you keep on starting over.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 10:49 AM
1

Just curious. What is n for 'pretty active'?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 03:28 PM
1

Why? Seems like a power trip on her part. She could have get you fired but didn't.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 10:11 PM
2

When men want women to approach them they are not lying. It's just that man that are 5s and 6s want 5s and 6s to approach them. But those women approach 7s and up. They always overestimate their value. And they got to be quite desperate because barely anyone approaches them. Most of the girls approaching me were way below my league. Fatties and whatnot. Before you say that's my league. Nope. I fuck and date much hotter women than them. Maybe not 8s but at least 6s or 7s. And those were 3s or 4s …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 11:42 AM
3

Some guys in the back on the right look normal. But the quality is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 11:38 AM
1

Exactly, you just confirmed what I said. Sure you *can* make fun of anyone, but if you make fun of a woman then you will be attacked by other women and white knights. Make fun of men? No one cares. So that's why I said one is acceptable and the other isn't. So I'm not sure what you partially don't agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 09:50 AM
2

He would have been made fun of for being fat as well. It's only unacceptable to make fun if you're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 10:43 AM
3

You need to fuck the therapist to establish dominance.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 08:29 AM
1

Savage. r/murderedbywords
/r/PussyPassDenied09/07/19 06:28 PM
1

That's why I always go for drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 08:40 AM
5

The room.
/r/MGTOW06/07/19 11:13 AM
3

I noticed as well. Probably calling little walks as being active.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/19 11:01 AM
8

Go for 20-25 women then ;)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/19 10:58 AM
1

Well if they are available for a long time and when they arent then someone new comes up then I'd say they are backups nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 01:08 PM
2

Demote her to plate.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 10:26 AM
1

Obviously thin. But there also fat lovers...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 09:26 AM
1

Well those 5 guys are willing to commit to 5 different women. Or 20. So it's not like some women are left without option.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 10:27 PM
1

Haha you're only called cool and great because you're a woman and you're at least not horrible in looks department. Maybe you're pretty as you say. Then whatever you do it doesn't really matter much. You don't have to try hard to be 'cool' as a pretty girl. You just have to exist and interact with men. There are plenty of cooler men than you but women don't find them cool. You are very privileged. You should know that. And I dont blame you. When you have everything served on a golden plate it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 10:26 PM
1

I was half joking. But the perception also matters I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 06:56 PM
1

If you have average dick and you are short then relatively to your body you have a big dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:35 AM
2

I don't have any proof but I have a hard feeling that there much more small tities lovers than short man lovers. I actually prefer smaller tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:33 AM
1

r/mgtow
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 01:45 AM
1

Not sure if serious but if you are... Dude it's like trying to start a game at lv50 instead of lv1. You can't just skip all those levels. You need to know how to talk to people before you try to pick up girls.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 10:37 PM
1

Continue. Do you know how normal conversation looks like?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 09:07 PM
3

Whatever is better than nothing. Ask her how she like class or something totally random.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 05:54 PM
1

Stacy. I've seen Stacy used around in that context and its nicer name I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 12:44 PM
2

Poland?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 03:02 PM
6

not a size 0 just say fat and be done with it ​ single mom of 3 want to settle down 100% so you wanted to settle down with your baby daddies only 30% or what? ​ pls don't waste my time if your intensions aren't in the right place. ​ translation: bail me out and don't ask any questions. Also don't demand stuff I gave for free in the past, I'm wiser now and know what I'm worth. Sorry, you're not worth a shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/19 09:32 AM
6

He can keep it in his pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 07:21 AM
1

But you can be friends with people who respect you and don't try to hit on every girl your bring with you. That's just shitty thing to do.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 04:04 PM
12

Sure. But do you really want to hang out with a dude that keep hitting on your girls? It's disrespectful and annoying.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 11:59 AM
12

So what? This guy didn't show him respect by hitting on a girl he brought over so why would he be friendly (as in inviting him to the party) to him? Also he could be cockblocking in the future, so why bother with obstacle when you can just not include him.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 10:55 AM
1

Right she's a woman. Women deal much better without sex than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 11:30 AM
1

Alpha fucks beta bucks. Google, lurke. Everyone knows about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 11:28 AM
7

OMFG what is this abomination... Is she actually someone's wife? I pity the fool.
/r/MGTOW22/05/19 08:14 AM
1

Yeah there's big difference between requirement and preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 12:58 PM
2

Im not sure if its a hipocrisity if a Man want Woman who can and likes cooking. Maybe thats something he doesnt find enjoyable. But he for example got a car and can drive Just fine. So hes got other qualities. And he finds a girl without a car who can Cook. And they complement each other. Just an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 12:15 PM
3

Or Say that you dont believe in zodiac signs.
/r/MGTOW13/05/19 11:02 AM
1

Do bjs count? Like 13. Im 30m
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 11:08 PM
0

Naaaah thats bullcrap. Fat chicks love me. Maybe cause Im tall and Wide So they feel smaller next to me. But they are not my Type and So I dont indulge.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 07:09 PM
3

But hes sexier and funnier.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 08:20 AM
1

It is a personal need. But not needed to survive. But whats the point then. Its like living alone with no human contact. You can survive like that but it sucks and can be damaging to your metal health.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 07:02 PM
5

I'd even say its underrated. At least for me.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 10:42 AM
1

I never said that rape is an answer. Its a need whether you somehow act upon it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 07:36 AM
2

It is a need. Because without it you feel worse. Just like social needs. You could be living alone. Not talking to anyone for years. But that wont be healthy. Id Say thats a need when your metal health is at stake.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 10:05 AM
2

It might be. Still the need for sex lingers. Ive noticed on myself how sex influences heavily my mood and Outlook on everything. Few months without sex can be very bad for psyche mood etc. No amount of fapping can help that. Maybe for a moment. But not longterm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 10:03 AM
2

What? I even tried googling that and nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 10:00 AM
2

You are wrong. Need for sex cant be fulfilled with jacking off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 07:38 AM
4

Fuck those entitled cunts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 07:35 AM
3

Hard next obviously.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 08:06 PM
2

Bad bot
/r/MensRights15/04/19 10:23 AM
2

I wonder what those unreasonable expectations are? Maybe she's not such a catch as she thinks she is...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/19 08:23 AM
4

Its 99% white people in eastern europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 07:51 PM
1

Boobs against face is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 12:24 PM
6

Man to women: be more approachable, lose the bitch-shield. When I approach you show at least some interest and let me know that you are happy to know me and that there's a potential there. In early stages of dating you don't necessarily have to ask me out but at least suggest it and lemme know that all is going well. I hate when it's not clear and I'm not sure so I feel like I'm being too pushy, when later in dating it turns out she wanted to meet up but was taught to never show it. That's fucke…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 01:00 PM
2

Finally a flair I can acquire!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 10:22 AM
3

Yeah I meant woman are attractive as a whole. I dont think most men are aroused just by vagina without context. Which is woman. And I was talking only about physical form. Obviously when you like woman and like spending time with her its even more rewarding and fun to have sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 11:34 AM
2

Its not only pussy. Women as a whole are attractive. Every straight male prefers woman to a hand. But it might be too hard or troublesome to attract one. Hence mgtow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 10:22 AM
1

Just propose netflix and chill next time. Or if you have to (want to) go out with her then just say you want to take her home. No excuse or just say straight what's you intention.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 01:07 PM
1

Even women cant be that delusional. Id say 4/10 are pinning for 6/10 thinking they are equal. Im no chad. Id say im 6 maybe 7. But i felt like chad numerous times when something like 4/10 (nice face but too chubby for my tastes) were coming strong onto me. And they really werent that bad if you want to say that. There werw many thirsty guys orbiting them and approaching. I didnt give a fuck and they approached me. Also my ex-gf that was about my looksmat h maybe a bit below offered to help me in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 10:17 AM
1

You can be chad even if you are 6/10. To a 4/10 woman...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 09:58 AM
1

Im guessing the author of this post isnt too attractive if shes not approached enough. Also funny how one article tells you that no means no and to respect woman decision and sone like this one encourages you to keep on trying and bother the woman who is seemingly disinterested at first. My opinion is if it is meant to be then it shpuld be easy. Women should help men make it easy. Show signs of interest, suggest spending time doing something they both enjoy etc. They dknt have to take incentive.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 09:51 AM
2

Musk to Justine: "I see myself in you" smooth :D
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 08:47 AM
1

Yeah It'd be nice if women aproach, but good looking women doesn't have to, and you get points for approaching them so it is what it is. I had women approaching me, but guess what, they were fat and/or not that attractive. So they were forced to do the approaching. Top tier women that men want approaching don't have to do that so they don't. ​ Well they should defend their men. Maybe not physically, but yes. ​ STEM careers? I see feminists ramble about that all the time. What men want women who …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 08:34 AM
1

Rebel Wilson is fat so I don't find her attractive. I don't anything about Mia or Elizabeth, I'm guessing they are both horrible woman, but Mia is hotter and El seems crazy so I choose Mia. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 08:29 AM
8

Thanks. Will do.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 07:03 PM
17

How do you find a new mother after nexting the old one?
/r/askTRP07/03/19 05:16 PM
1

Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 05:01 PM
1

Well I think my and yours as it seems rating just make sense so I guess many men can relate. Your 10-7 seems pretty accurate too. Not sure about my "max" though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 04:43 PM
2

I didnt say she has to be unfuckable. Im just saying that even if a guy dowsnr have that many options if he thinks he can do better and isnt really attracted to that girl then he can treat her platonically just like chad even if hes not one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 02:41 PM
1

Fake it till you make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 11:29 AM
3

Doesnt even have to be chad. If girl is few leagues below a man he can see her as platonic friend as well. For exanple 6/10 man and 4/10 girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 11:18 AM
4

5 is neutral and plain. Would smash if i were horny and not be repulsed. 4 is a bit below but could still smash if drunk and horny. 1-3 is ugly and/or fat. No thanks. 6 is beggining to be cute and a bit attractive. Would ltr if she had nice personality. Anything above is just cuter and priettier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 11:16 AM
8

He didnt say that sex is hard. He said that being good at sex is harder for men than for women. Because men are more easily satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 12:00 PM
0

Im tall enough but not fat enough to be man. Weird.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/19 08:40 AM
1

She"d be lucky to get a hook up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/19 08:30 AM
2

I dont think anyone think that abortion is easy. But its much easier than raising new human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 04:45 PM
1

Is it though?
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/19 11:54 AM
10

Its a joke.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/19 01:35 AM
1

Thanks. I was out of a loop then.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:04 PM
2

Why airpods? Whats so different about them that you cant just say earphones?
/r/askTRP21/02/19 05:23 PM
5

I agree with your post just want to point out that the thing you wrote at the end doesnt really make sense. It cant be both hard work and not really that hard. It is possible to get to top 20% but its not easy and require a lot of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 10:18 AM
3

I don't understand how not wanting to get messed up and acting calmly and defusing situation is considered to be weak. I'd say it's quite the opposite. Everyone can get into a fight. Especially dumb people. But avoiding escalation should be seen as smart and powerful play. Seems not all view it that way...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/19 08:18 AM
23

Yeah. In hell.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 11:22 PM
1

It's time to woman up!
/r/MensRights11/02/19 10:16 PM
3

And handsome. And fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 11:00 AM
1

Want marriage and have kids? Sure go ahead. But risky so better be prepared but whatever. For me the biggest concern is that you want to wait with sex till marriage. This is very weird for me and can cause a lot of problems. I'm high libido and sex is very important to me so I'm always suspicious of people who want to wait. What if she's low libido? But maybe you are as well and that's not a big problem for you since you want to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 09:15 AM
3

Funny twist: "my man" is a go-to guy. Like a handy man that can fix anything.
/r/MGTOW31/01/19 10:18 AM
2

I think I can sing!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 12:10 PM
1

So you can judge!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 11:04 AM
6

Because they are awesome. If you don't wanna give it to me then you don't care about me.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 08:38 AM
1

I'm glad that it was a reference not a coincidence ;)
/r/askTRP23/01/19 07:29 PM
4

And you can't put your fist in her college degree.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 06:16 PM
2

He is great not god. Stop praising God for your own achievements.
/r/MGTOW22/01/19 10:55 AM
1

We should have a ratio like that everywhere that would be nice ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 02:37 AM
0

Add them on FB if you know their full name. If you don't ask them for it. If you'd rather call them/txt them then ask "btw what's your number?". It's good if it comes out naturally. Like you're planning to go out with them and need the contact to... You know contact them.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:01 AM
1

Yeah I get it, I just mean there is something like /r/Trufemcels/. You might be right, but on the other hand I noticed I don't fancy many average women and find a small minority of women really hot that I'd like to sleep with. Maybe we're not that different. Probably much bigger % than them though.
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 01:42 PM
1

The equivalent for woman would be gathering orbiters which she uses for resources/emotional tampons/favours etc without having sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 12:13 PM
2

Smh = suck my hole?
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 09:11 AM
1

Isn't there some like nicegirls or femcels subs?
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 09:07 AM
1

She had a degree.
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 08:57 AM
1

Ok. Agree to disagree then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 09:38 PM
2

If she was horny and wanted me why not? It's legal in my country ;) So now any girl under 30 is offlimits to older men because they are more mature and somehow always taking advantage of them? Common that's ridiculous. Also the notion that old men pick younger girls because they can easily manipulate them is preposterous. They lust for young women because that's when they are the most desirable for all men. Nothing more. Also the need to work hard to be desirable when older. So it's not like any…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 07:42 PM
2

To know better? To know what better? What's wrong with going for what you desire. It's not wrong. It's not illegal. They are not tricking those girls. If they forced them then I understand. But if those girls are willingful because they want to be with those older men for whatever reason then who are you to say there's something wrong with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 07:24 PM
3

I'm talking about young adult men 15-22 or something and their peers. There's a difference between girls manipulating boys and getting things from them by suggesting they will get together and older men who just happenes to be attractive to younger girls. The first one should be scrutinized and it isn't. The latter is normal and you're shaming it. Get your priorities straight. One is lying and using someone else and the second one is something both parties understand and want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 06:59 PM
1

Yeah, try being vulnerable with your women for too long, she will kick your ass out. Oh, you're probably a woman so you're projecting the fact that you can act certain way and don't see how even subconciously you're gonna lose respect for your man if he's not working on himself, improving, he's constantly whining and is "vulnerable".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 11:09 AM
1

Yeah some men can be "real man" for women. Probabably top 10%. It's harder for the rest, especially when we have equality in work force etc. Women are less impressed by men when they can do the same as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 10:49 AM
1

Also young men are being manipulated by young women by stringing them alone, putting in friend-zone and extracting resources from them with nothing but a vague promise of something in the future. But noone calls young men vulnerable and easily manipulated. Noone acknowledges that young men are less socially savvy than young women and are at an disadvantage. They laugh at them for being stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 10:46 AM
8

By saying that you're shaming such natural and normal behaviour. Calling men creepy and predatory. If older men are more attractive than younger and can gather attention of young women then all the power to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 08:02 AM
7

What? There's nothing pedophilic about men of any age still finding 18-22 women the most attractive. Stop with the shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 06:55 AM
6

I'd ask her "Why do you deserve a good husband?"
/r/MGTOW06/01/19 05:24 PM
5

Yeah that's why I don't wanna grow up. If that means become boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 01:39 PM
8

At least she knows shes not attractive enough to wait and have to ask guys out. Some poor simp is gonna be so happy she asked him out. I already feel sorry for him. I noticed that chicks like that ask me out quite often. Yeah no thanks.
/r/MGTOW06/01/19 12:49 PM
1

Well. Don't. She's ok as a plate. Nothing more. Do you want to date a whore?
/r/askTRP06/01/19 12:40 PM
0

Best reply in this thread. It's a decline for men. Not for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 02:54 PM
3

I probably do. So that means that your means of testing males could only work on low libido ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 11:39 PM
4

I think there was nice song remix of this ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 11:31 PM
4

If masturbation is enough for your needs then you have low libido. Even one year without sex is awful. I can understand wanting to wait like a month or something but not that long. It's pleasurable for both parties. Limiting it for such reasons is useless for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 11:29 PM
8

But not in bed. If you can wait then probably you got very low libido and normal man won't be satisfied after marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 11:24 PM
1

From what you wrote I don't see anything wrong with what's man doing. I can see you having problem when men is lying to woman about his intentions and then break up with her. Then sure. But when he's enjoying the relationship then why shouldn't she? There's no rule that every relationship is supposed to end up in marriage and kids. Maybe he never wanted to marry her or maybe he just changed his mind. No amount of spent time mean you got to be with someone for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 11:02 PM
17

His comment was properly written and very clear. What don't you understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 10:58 PM
2

I get what you're saying. It's just so foundamental that when it's missing then everything else seems meaningless. When the night seemed fun and then she doesn't want to have sex it seems like the whole time she wasn't really having fun like I thought she had. Sure there might be cases when she's really sick or have some valid reason but if that happenes too often it's very discouraging.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 10:54 PM
2

Yeah. Sex is more important than romance. But romance + sex is perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 12:06 PM
1

Damn I tried searching for this and was surprised I couldn't find it. Too bad. I was curious. But I don't think it's weird or surprising that people looked normal. How were they supposed to look like ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 04:16 PM
2

Tbh most of the comments are pretty sane.
/r/MGTOW27/12/18 12:18 AM
1

Great. Keep it going.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 10:01 PM
1

You say about eating them. But do they reciprocate? If not the it's nothing to brag about.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 03:11 PM
1

I'd say she was cute when she was younger. Now she really looks a bit like a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 02:17 PM
1

Men are being judged based on something they can't control (height). At least all women used to be young so they all had that best years. What they did with them it's another matter. Maybe instead of locking good partner they were wasting those years away and now are frustrated they are not as desired as they used to be? I think that's the main point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 02:15 PM
4

Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 01:55 PM
1

Youre counting the alcohol that I shared with her in my house? Or talking about time? Because I enjoy spending time with women that I fuck with. And I don't buy them stuff. Maybe a drink or two max but usually they buy it for themselves. And I'm not 10% top man that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 01:52 PM
1

Viagra?
/r/askTRP07/12/18 11:59 AM
2

Well... I think there's something like that already. Im pretty sure there is in fact.
/r/MGTOW06/12/18 08:24 PM
7

At least she's not fat.
/r/MGTOW06/12/18 01:49 PM
6

I love a good ending.
/r/MGTOW06/12/18 01:36 PM
3

Hello police? That guy stole sex from me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/18 08:35 AM
17

You wanna come over with a bottle of wine so I can cheer you up? No? You just wanna write sobby shit? No thanks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/18 07:45 PM
7

He was always for her but her for him? Not so much. Right. And she only hopes she will appreciate him more in the future. She doesn't even say she'll try or anything ;)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/18 07:43 PM
1

It's a sign she was was sure she was the "cooler" one. But now she has doubts. Suddenly the roles were reversed. The hunter became the prey. (I hear Jack White singing now).
/r/askTRP04/12/18 06:46 AM
4

Haha so true. I'm almost 30 and most girls my age seem too old for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 11:38 AM
2

Yeah that's only fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 05:09 PM
5

Women are wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 08:31 AM
1

I was just wondering if that's unfair for you too.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 09:52 PM
1

"Unhealthy" as in too "perfect" that makes women feel bad about themselves.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 09:34 PM
1

But it's not fair when the media spreads "unhealthy too perfect female image"?
/r/askTRP19/11/18 09:06 PM
3

That's why the red pill is saying "lift". Be in shape dress better groom better get a nice haircut etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 11:16 AM
1

Well men are taller on average ...
/r/MGTOW31/10/18 04:32 PM
2

That's my first thought.
/r/MGTOW31/10/18 04:31 PM
1

I'm not sure about the distinction between status and attention. One comes from the other in case of JB. So it's weird you put them separately. You mean like preselection from other women?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/18 10:50 PM
0

I don't find it shitty that she might want to settle with person of similar background/looks buy want to someone different now. I wouldn't be offended if a black chick wanted to have a fling with me but settle and have kids with black dude later.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/18 06:03 PM
4

Yeah. Damn that excuse didn't work then. Brain fart while still being drunk is my next line of defense ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 01:30 PM
5

That's the word I was looking for... Not a dad. Just not native speaker
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 08:59 AM
1

People, mostly men are frustrated with lack of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 08:57 AM
11

My guess. Stupid memes, stupid phrases/thoughts, silly pictures with dog layer etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 08:55 AM
1

I'd say if you have only 1 date a year and you have only 30% of chance it will work out then it means it will on average take over 3 years to find sexual partner. I'd say that's a lot a REAL struggle. Unless we're talking about life long partner and you don't have to spend another 3 years of looking after short fling. So it all depends how long the relationship gonna work. Or if it will be relationship at all. Might be just str for a month then back to 3 year gap. I guess n-count of 30 might be …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 11:37 AM
1

Ok then. I agree. But I guess her match look might want to have kids with her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/18 07:10 AM
1

Wait what? When did I say that below 5/10 should reproduce?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/18 07:05 AM
2

Yeah I guess 1/10 would be deformed monstrosity. She's not much better though. I'd give her 2/10 max.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/18 06:55 AM
2

She said that her friend looks similar to her and she thinks that her date wouldn't mind if she showed up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/18 06:35 AM
2

You are very generous.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/18 06:24 AM
1

Yeah. My definition of 5/10 is plain girl with medium build.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 10:27 AM
1

Hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 09:53 AM
1

How is having one date a year not a struggle? I'd say a guy who goes on 10 dates and have sex with only 1 woman a year (let's say for a month so he only got sex for 1/12 a year) is struggling. I'm not even sure a date means anything. He could go on 100 dates and have no sex and that'd still be struggling. But I guess that unrealistic because if someone goes on a date with you then that person is at least somewhat interested and attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 09:52 AM
2

The fact that 5/10 girl is fat is pretty sad. But I guess youre talking about America. Might be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 09:39 AM
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