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| 0 | Even men think men are the problemIts not ridiculous you are just ignorant to basic context ques but most likely are extremely dishonest. The statement men protect women is using the terms to reflect the general population of men and women, therefore its not a ridiculous statement as the majority of men are not a danger to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 04:04 PM |
| – | More women today have a disdain for men because the only thing women can offer today is sex, so they understand all of men's efforts today is just for her pussy, which fills them with contemptMale here. My last relationship... ... You’re obviously projecting My guy that is literally what you are doing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 12:21 PM |
| 3 | It’s unrealistic to expect men to find romance by just “living their lives.”If a guy is joining hobby meetups because he enjoys them and thinks it will be a good chance to meet women, isn't that him just living his life? Sure if I steel man what ur saying that is just him living his life, however he'll never meet a woman that way, the avg guy will only find success if thier express goal is to meet women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 12:14 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ?feminism wasn't supported by most women when it wasn't predominant. Infact women in general are more conservative then men historically. when atheistic empiricism was growing in popularity in the renaissance, it was women who where more religious and supported the church with men wanting to explore the new ideas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 12:10 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ?Thats because of the united states. The US' largest export is its culture, which means its exporting pro hypergamy anti family values across the world. Also for the longest time the US fed was actively paying socially disruptive progressive activist groups to play geopolitics, through USAID. But ill be fair a lot of this is also that there where physical and economical aspects to societies across the world that acted as natural or unintentional restraints on hypergamy that as nations develop are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 12:08 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ?That happens all ove and is rare, my point still stands the nordic countries give people all the shit blue pillers say will increase birthrate and none of it works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 12:03 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ?It cant be feminism, feminism in all waves is structurally only interested in advantaging women, so at its core its actually not even progressive movement for real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 12:02 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ?That doesn't mean shit, traditional regions =/= separate country, when the prevaling narrative is pro hypergamy anti family you really cannot escape it within the nation. Infact even you prove it, instead of having kids, what do these "traditonal women do" focus on thier careers, why becuase the traditional values will allways be suplanted and tainted by the prevailing ideaology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 12:00 AM |
| 15 | What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ?Women are largely collectivists, whatever the prevaling narrative is most women will follow, so if you have an anti hypergamy pro family society, most women will actually just want to have kids. Also when I say pro-family anti-hypergamy, im not refering to just right wing, the left has the idealogical tools to combat hypergamy and promote pro family ideas aswell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 04:33 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ?Wdym what then lmao, you are supposed to have an answer lmao. If 200 years ago the church instroduced a new rule that killed the birth rate, you wouldn't accept a Christian holding thier hands up and saying "well i guess theres just no solutions ". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 02:52 PM |
| 29 | What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ?The data shows this just isnt true, the Nordic countries have some of the most generous maternity leave, the best welfare, veyr socially progressive governments etc; basically all the thingsd blue pill says women need to start having kids again and they have shit birth rates. The problem is women, for a society to have a decent birth rate there needs to be a social pressure on women to curtail hypergamy and encourage them to have families. Current day shows us, that if you simply let women be ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 02:47 PM |
| – | In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards.Guys are more likely to just call a bunch of acquaintances they do hobbies with friends. Women are not like that. Complete opposite men actually have friends women do not. Womens friends are just a woman who was in the vicinity who reciprocated fake compliments or platitudes, that's why women have so many falling outs, they never really liked eachother to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 07:38 PM |
| – | Women discard what men say they like in women, then turn around and tell men what they like in women.There is a lot of nuance here between "women are only attracted to height" and "women don't consider height at all." The in-between space is the actual debatable part. Not at all the scientific consensus is that height is something that women almost all find attractive on a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 07:33 PM |
| – | Women only feel anxious and unsafe because they have no survival instincts, and don’t learn until something bad happens.Why would I want to destroy my mental health by developing such a paranoid, anxious mindset that taking all these measures seems basic? No one is saying develop a paranoid anxious mindset, you simply do not want to live in the real world. You want to pretend that bad people dont exist so that you can both avoid having to take responsibility for you own safety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 12:01 AM |
| – | Women only feel anxious and unsafe because they have no survival instincts, and don’t learn until something bad happens.It's basic to you but to other people that's pretty restrictive. That doesn't matter those other people are wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 11:57 PM |
| -2 | Debate: women are allowed to distrust men, men are not allowed to distrust women (repost as I dodn't partipate within three hours)Everything you just wrote is total hypocrisy lmao. Women initiate the vast majority of divorces, modern medicine mitigates the vast majority of pregnancy complications, the vast majority of women will not experience difficult pregnancies and on top of that due to contraception damn near all pregnancies are strictly opt in anyway. Meaning you believe its totally valid for women to worry about the things they literally chose or have a very low likelihood to experiencing, yet divorce which has a 50… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:27 PM |
| 8 | Debate: women are allowed to distrust men, men are not allowed to distrust women (repost as I dodn't partipate within three hours)thats a lot of words to say that people are prejudice against men on reddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:05 PM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themFirstly saying the polygamy is worse is just a bad faith obfuscation the issue is whether or not hypergamy is bad for society not which is worse. So that is a give away that you probably know hypergamy is terrible for society you just dont want to have to address it. Secondly your metrics for comparing them are totally flawed, hypergamy also creates broken homes and single mothers. Where do you think the modern divorce and single mother house hold rates came from because polygamy is illegal. Las… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 07:57 PM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themThat proves my point even more lmao, women getting board is hypergamy, if women where polygamous they wouldn't get board they would have 2nd families like men use to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 09:53 PM |
| 3 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themNo, the central topic to your OP is hypergamy if you don't know what hypergamy is then you cant claim it doesn't exist. Its either or. Additionally if you know what hypergamy means then I believe that you are asking in bad faith so im under no obligation to humour you. Moreover just in general you cant start a debate around a term, then ask other people to define it. If you think there is something that isn't clear about what hypergamy is, you have to be the one to provide a definition. Finally,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 07:14 PM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themtrue women are to blame for hypergamy, you are now equal members of society you have equal responsibility to stop anti social behaviour trends which hypergamy has become. Mens nature is polygamy and we have to restrain that or are socially penalised you can restrain your hypergamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Gendered expectations for men are only retired in word, not realitya system not conducive with nurturing human potential Wdym lol most of humanities greatest achievements happened before feminism was masinsteam let alone predominant. Also in terms of sex and dating most people got married and had large families before feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 11:10 PM |
| 1 | The idea that men shouldn’t approach women is dying out in the mainstreamIdk how you expect me to respect you when you write such obviously dishonest shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 10:56 PM |
| 2 | The idea that men shouldn’t approach women is dying out in the mainstreamSo its not reasonable then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 08:49 PM |
| 1 | The idea that men shouldn’t approach women is dying out in the mainstreamI asked "how" not "is", that means you aren't important. How is this standard going to be effective at creating relationships between avg men and women who have avg social skills given the context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 08:40 PM |
| 2 | The idea that men shouldn’t approach women is dying out in the mainstreamthen you've successfully eliminated pretty much every possible relationship before they ever had a chance. What do you mean "you"? I and my side of things didn't do anything. You, as a feminist blue pill, eliminated relationships. Before feminism we had things like fathers arranging marriages, women dropping handkerchiefs, and a much greater tolerance for the fact that average guys weren't naturally good at approaching women. That's not an exhaustive list, but the point is there were systems tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 08:17 PM |
| – | Paternal Surrender/Financial Abortion would look a lot different in practice if it ever came to fruition than how it's talked aboutSeriously are you an adult or not? because this whole debate constantly highlights that women even today dont really want to be adults, you dont really want to really want to be responsible fore your own choices all the time, just whenever its favourable to you. Because when you dont want the kid its "my body my choice", but when these convos come up none of you seem to want to accept that you also made the choice to have sex. Really the solution is just to undo this feminist nonsense and go bac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Is true that men marry the convenient women they CAN have, while spend their lives secretly obsessing over the women they truly desire but can't have?but do they stay loyal to those women when they get older and start to age? Generally yes, most men can recognise high wife quality women, especially now that so many women are sub par. The problem is women usually only show that kind of behaviour to men who are out of thier league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 07:51 PM |
| 1 | If you could be born as a woman instead, would you?no becuase being a guy is feast or famine and ive landed on the feast side of the bell curve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 07:43 PM |
| 3 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.“But most women don’t engage in casual sex.” You’re right. However, most women are at the very least associated with women who do, if not outright friends with them. By self comparison alone, even the women who are not promiscuous started to believe they had access to these upper echelon men by seeing women who looked them, pulling these men, even though the promiscuous women were just being casually dated and fucked for a couple months. Also approaching does this aswell, say basic becky a 5 get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 07:37 PM |
| 1 | The idea that men shouldn’t approach women is dying out in the mainstreamOk but how is this reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 07:32 PM |
| 1 | The idea that men shouldn’t approach women is dying out in the mainstreamThis is simply not reality, human beings are not that different from each other, like 80 -90% of the time we all trend toward the same tendencies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 07:30 PM |
| 2 | The idea that men shouldn’t approach women is dying out in the mainstreamAnd how are we supposed to tell which one is which? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 07:29 PM |
| 2 | The idea that men shouldn’t approach women is dying out in the mainstreamIt’s appropriate in social settings like bars, nightclubs, cafes etc. The gym is a grey area for me because I would have that personally. It’s only appropriate if no is accepted the first time it is offered. This is another thing where you have to take the rough with the smooth, there is no grey area. Either a necessary minimum amount of women are receptive to the type of approach and then you all get approached in that setting or basically none of you are receptive and the normal guys will stop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Can you explain what emasculation feels like? Or is?Wrong. A women who isnt respected is seen as an older teenager a man who isnt respected is seen as a clown at best and at worse an inhuman threat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Gen Z men should avoid "quick and easy" and impersonal methods for finding themselves a relationshipno just take the redpill, gen z women are playing a totally 0 sum game when it comes to dating, the only way toi maximise success is to also play a 0 sum game back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Can you explain what emasculation feels like? Or is?the feelings aren't important how people treat you is the important part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 11:08 PM |
| 50 | Can you explain what emasculation feels like? Or is?The feelings are not the important thing, emotions can be managed. The problem with emasculation is that even if you can block out any internal feelings, society around you will materially make your life significantly worse if you are respected less as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 07:01 PM |
| 0 | Fear of automatic cheating or getting an STD aren't the biggest reasons why women won't date bi men. Their reasoning is mostly due to their idea of masculinity.thats kind of dumb but ill not challenge that for the sake of the discussion. The conclusions of these surveys where that most who claimed bi had only ever had straight sex and relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Fear of automatic cheating or getting an STD aren't the biggest reasons why women won't date bi men. Their reasoning is mostly due to their idea of masculinity.I feel like he prefered women sexually but liked men more emotionally Because straight women treat most straight men terribly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Fear of automatic cheating or getting an STD aren't the biggest reasons why women won't date bi men. Their reasoning is mostly due to their idea of masculinity.Why would you, as a straight man have better insight into the root causes of women’s dating preferences regarding bi men than those actual women themselves do? And none of the women on here have ever dated as a man yet thye still chime in to give thier opinions on redpill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 01:28 AM |
| 0 | Fear of automatic cheating or getting an STD aren't the biggest reasons why women won't date bi men. Their reasoning is mostly due to their idea of masculinity.Bisexuals are the biggest group in the LGBT community Not really, the numbers are padded becuase a lot of young people think its trendy to not be straight so they claim bi, but when asked how many of them have actually had same sex relations the vast majority say no. Bi people are likely like half to a percent of the total population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 01:28 AM |
| 10 | Fear of automatic cheating or getting an STD aren't the biggest reasons why women won't date bi men. Their reasoning is mostly due to their idea of masculinity.I feel like bi men are actually more into men than women and have more in common with men. Yeah this is not only homophobic but its backwards, bi men dont like women more, women are largely homophobes and so they disqualify and reject them at such rates that if you are bi you may as well just be gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 01:25 AM |
| 5 | Fear of automatic cheating or getting an STD aren't the biggest reasons why women won't date bi men. Their reasoning is mostly due to their idea of masculinity.but also that he would want to appear straight to get benefits at work or in society I like how you pretend as if the benefits are protections from these large ephemeral entities, when you and tons of women in this thread show that actually the biggest reason they want to appear straight is becuase of you, most women are like you are homophobic, so they stay in the closet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 01:24 AM |
| – | What has your actual lived experience/ challenges with dating been like?I can tell very obviously that im having much more success then I should becuase feminism has basically opened up the market for guys like me. In a functioning dating market I would have been forced to commit ages ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 12:27 AM |
| – | Red Pill men: Why do you want to settle down with women if they're so bad?tbf literally what else would the avg modern woman be to a man of any sense? The avg woman has no sense of history, doesnt have any real moral principles beyond her feelings in the moment, she has horribly anti male opinions, hard narcissistic tendancies and she is literally doing everything she can to make herself and the women around her worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 12:15 AM |
| -4 | If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more.OP does not care about these issues because, in many ways, men have as much access to them today as women did before feminism. In healthcare, men have virtually no contraceptive options. Boys and young men are routinely overmedicated for ADHD, while mental healthcare is largely built around the female mind and female patterns of behaviour. The majority of the chronically homeless, who represent some of the worst mental health cases in society, are also men. In education, feminism has reshaped in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is serious topic that woke and bluepilled people uncomfortable and they are unwilling to take seriously, analyze, and discuss the issue.Because they can't not becuase they don't want to. Women still prefer men who earn more, and men who earn more still do better in the dating market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 05:51 PM |
| 10 | Red Pill men trust their self-motivated inccorrect observations of women more than women's own explanations.you are just proving his point btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Most Lesbian or Bisexual women do NOT have more game than straight men. It is simply easier as a girl to date.id say it is, they just don't have game, becuase they dont need to since there arent a lot of easily findable single attractive lesbians. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 01:30 AM |
| – | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?You cannot negotiate attraction. not as an individual, but considering almost eveyr man got married just like 50 years ago you can definetly negotiate or at least coerce attraction at a societal level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 01:25 AM |
| – | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?Any red pill aligning person should believe that women are simply more selective due to biological factors, men inherently have it harder, and this is neither gender’s fault. No women campaigned for and generally support feminism which essentially enabled this behaviour, conversely feminism has restricted mens polygamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 01:23 AM |
| -2 | Hypergamy is serious topic that woke and bluepilled people uncomfortable and they are unwilling to take seriously, analyze, and discuss the issue.It is about someone that can give you the guarantee that they will be able to keep up your lifestyle when you have to sacrifice your income to pop out children. This doesnt play out, women are more hypergamous now yet there better able to provide for themselves, additionally women who dont want kids are also hypergamous. When I met my husband he didn't have income, he didnt had a drivers license and he basically had nothing. I didn't care. I dont have to depend on him for my lifestyle. Because I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Question for lesbian and bi women: Why do women seem to have stricter standards for men than for women?its simple numbers, about 3 in 100 women are lesbians, they just dont have the options to be as picky as they are with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 12:59 AM |
| 0 | What do you think about young men feeling abandoned and demonised by left?Jumping straight to whataboutism doesn't help your case. Also this specific argument doesn't work as trump is popular with young men and his election campaign was as an anti republican anti democrat on the right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 12:16 AM |
| 0 | When feminist women deny blatant redpill truths, like being a nice person alone won’t get you laid. It really pulls into question the integrity of what ALL women say. As if women are prepared to lie just to uphold their ideological beliefs.Whats funny is they do this and then they complain that women aren't respected, as if being a believably authentic person is not the bare minimum for being seen as a respectable adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 12:13 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about young men feeling abandoned and demonised by left?nothing is made up the first comment you replied to said the left made men poorer and you then justified why it did it. Irrespective of the validity of your justification you admitted the left did it so you concede the point right away. Your next comment did this same thing again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 12:10 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about young men feeling abandoned and demonised by left?That primarily affect young men: abusive and dangerous labor conditions, union-busting, mass incarceration, police violence, homelessness. They actually don’t, because of the left’s strong support for immigration. As a result, the average young man is largely not entering jobs where he has to deal with dangerous labour conditions or union busting. Even if he were, he is unlikely to be a vulnerable employee. In addition, issues like mass incarceration, police violence, and homelessness tend to af… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 12:08 AM |
| 5 | What do you think about young men feeling abandoned and demonised by left?You are just disagreeing to disagree without any real core position. First, you immediately conceded the point that the other guy is correct and that the left makes life hard for men, but then you tried to intellectually justify it with mental gymnastics. When those acrobatics were called out, you admitted your justification didn't hold up. Now you're saying it's okay because the alternative is that women would be worse off. That is fallacious reasoning, and it basically proves you lied twice ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 11:39 PM |
| – | There will never be a solution to mens issues because 🔵BP society effectively sees intersexual dynamics as a zero sum game (where accommodating one side means taking away from the other)Really why should men’s sexual access be considered? Because men pay most of the taxes, fight in the wars, do most of the nation critical jobs and most importantly if enough men are not rewarded properly by society they will destroy it trying to make one that suits them better. So its in your best interest to make sure men are properly rewarded by society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 12:49 AM |
| – | There will never be a solution to mens issues because 🔵BP society effectively sees intersexual dynamics as a zero sum game (where accommodating one side means taking away from the other)just a total straw man of redpill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 12:44 AM |
| – | There will never be a solution to mens issues because 🔵BP society effectively sees intersexual dynamics as a zero sum game (where accommodating one side means taking away from the other)Literally just shame women, it doesn't even need to be using tradional principles, you can shame women for having a preference for men who earn more for example. This is becuase accommodations for men in dating basically do not exist unless women allow them to exist, so no amount of women saying they are ok with "x y and z" is going to be enough, there has to be a stick with the carrot. The trad cons had it right, you have to shame women out of anti social preferences, the only choice is what yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 12:13 AM |
| 1 | "meet my standards", "not settling", "treat me the way i deserve" ect. All of these buzz phrases at the core is just hypergamy,I'm 99% you are just bald faced lying and making shit up, 1% thinks you are delusional enough to just ignore things that are inconvenient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 11:32 PM |
| 1 | "meet my standards", "not settling", "treat me the way i deserve" ect. All of these buzz phrases at the core is just hypergamy,It literally doesn't matter, you already set the standard that you believe a single personal anecdote can refute general claims. So your general claim using the sample of all your friends is invalid unless you recan't you original comment to undo the standard. You cant pick and choose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 11:30 PM |
| 0 | "meet my standards", "not settling", "treat me the way i deserve" ect. All of these buzz phrases at the core is just hypergamy,ah yes becuase you are a trustworthy source | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 10:38 PM |
| 1 | "meet my standards", "not settling", "treat me the way i deserve" ect. All of these buzz phrases at the core is just hypergamy,but by your own logic you are wrong, you presented one annecdote of yourself to disprove OP's general argument. OP has presented his annectdote therefore your general argument must be wrong, unless of coarse you want to admit your first comment was full of it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 10:33 PM |
| 2 | "meet my standards", "not settling", "treat me the way i deserve" ect. All of these buzz phrases at the core is just hypergamy,poor men cant date unless he is above average in another category, (height, looks ect) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 10:27 PM |
| 2 | "meet my standards", "not settling", "treat me the way i deserve" ect. All of these buzz phrases at the core is just hypergamy,poor men cant date unless he is above average in another category, (height, looks ect) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 10:27 PM |
| 0 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?no, if you can't or refuse to accept basic logic then my argument wins by default. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 10:23 PM |
| -1 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?Incredibly dumb argument idk why you would write this out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenIf the bio mom continues the pregnancy and a child is born, then the child needs care and support. When the bio dad does the minimum (pays a fair share of the cost of his child) that alleviates the burden on the bio mom. Maybe fewer 'drop off box babies' will be the result when deadbeat dads step up. So then you are against women giving their kids up in baby boxes. The child needs support right the woman should have to be a parent. Why are you still not answering this question, "Women who get pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 09:35 PM |
| 0 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?I have a masters degree, most degrees mean nothing and don't reflect any kind of intelligence or knowledge within the person holding them, especially the ones women get tbh. But I digress; your point is invalid because the corollary isn't the education. It's the money. The high sexual diamophism in degree choice means this population has both high earning men and low earning women, that's why educated people get married more often. Tbh the degree doesn't matter at all, most high earning men irre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenIt is not at all. A living and breathing baby is at risk of being neglected or even killed, and this alternative provides a way to keep the baby safe and a pathway to adoption with parents who can care for and love the child. That child grows up in a safe, secure and loving family. Literally all of this you can flip: A living breathing baby is at risk of being neglected or killed therefore men should not be forced to be fathers when they don't want to, and so a paper abortion is an alternative t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 09:12 PM |
| -1 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenWhy would anyone who prioritizes the best interest of the child be against a program expressly originated with the best interest of the child in mind? becuase its literally the same as a paper abortion. If its acceptable for the state to step in to replace a mother it ought to be acceptable for the state to step in to replace a farther. Wait - the main purpose of the fatherhood responsibility waiver; is to police women's decisions? You just made that up. The point is to establish true reproducti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenit doesn't disadvantage the woman it just doesn't allow her to unilaterally sacrifice the man at her own expense. In terms of your example the woman would still be able to abort so if she was raped. But also the other way if a man is raped or a boy is molested he currently has no choice but to have a child and be responsible for child support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenMen have the option to opt out before they decide to cum, Women have the option to opt out before they decide to have sex, therefore women should not be able to get an abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 09:01 PM |
| 0 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenAnd that's entirely because you can never dismiss the need of a child. Are you against women being able to give up their children in those baby boxes? What would be a reasonable length of duration of validity for each 'opt out'? Per ejaculation, sex encounter, ovulation period - for life? It shouldn't be an opt out thing, it should be a system where the man declares his status to the government like if hes a donor, then once legally notified he has a month to change his status. If he doesn't do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenFirstly it does in most cases. Secondly why is that even a conundrum, why should all men, including those that where raped; molested or lied to into having kids, loose reproductive rights and be forced to have kids they don't want, just becuase the solution isn't 100% perfect for women. Abortion for example is not perfect for men, there are plenty of times a man wants to have a kid, he sees the child as his child and the woman aborts it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?He is avg to you, you have the mental capacity to understand basic statistical realities of the world around you. Secondly are a normal woman lmao, why the fuck would you disserve a prince charming. These are ideas that you should have grown out of a long time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenSo the 16 year old boy he's old enough to know if he wants to be a farther for the rest of his life but the 16 year old girl well shes still a kid who made a mistake so she need to have access to abortion, contraception etc. No contradiction there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?Why are you asking me this question? Do you think average people are incapable of enjoying each other’s company? Quite literally you are the one who said that no one should date anyone who they think is avg. Whereas my exact words in response where most people are avg so avg people is who they should aspire to date and marry. What are you saying, you are literally just arguing to argue at this point. Are you some kind of bot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:26 PM |
| 0 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenNot only have to sign a paper abortion before the abortion window, but have to sign a paper abortion even before conception and have it registered. That way a woman can be fully informed before even having sex. No this is private information, if the man chooses not to inform the woman then she has her answer, and its her fault if she decides to go through with the pregnancy not knowing. Have a registration fee for the paper abortion which goes towards subsidizing female contraception and abortio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenLitterally all of this applies to women and abortion, but also your point about men is wrong. If men get paper abortions and there are too many children living in poverty its becuase women chose to go through with the pregnancy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenHow would that work? Very simple, just like how you sign up to be an organ doner a man can sign up to be a farther by default, the woman therefore has to serve him some type of official notice that he's the farther and he has 1month to change his decision, from the time he's officially notified. I think your conundrum is that you want to preserve the same level of freedom women have today, women today have the unilateral choice to start a family and the point of a paper abortion is to remove tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenIt may seem unfair but grown ups know how you make babies. It may seem unfair but grown ups know how you make babies, therefore women shouldn't be able to get an abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?It is avg people are not magically going to attract people who are above avg, thinking that this is in the cards is like thinking you are Cinderella. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?Not an interview either present an argument or accept that you lost the debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?Not believable that you are saying this is good faith. Instead of rhetorically trying to get out of having to argue the point, just stop replying. Because im never going to go along with you when you do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:18 PM |
| 0 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?Exactly its a debate sub, in an debate calling out obvious bad faith actions is completely fair game to undermine bad faith actors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?Its not believable that you think what you are saying is true. Look lady im not gonna engage with bad faith comments so you can either engage or in good faith or not at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:14 PM |
| 5 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?Bro real life is not a fucking disney fairy-tale where people are supposed ot be looking princess' and prince's, most people are avg so avg people is who they should aspire to date and marry. Also avg is not bad, avg people are good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:11 PM |
| 0 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?This mentality is another problem. The man you are describing sounds like an avg guy, but becuase feminism has blown up your ego you can't mentally accept that, so you spin up this fantasy of his greatness, even though your reality shows that an avg guy is sufficient for a good life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:08 PM |
| 0 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?This is not an interview, put your reading glasses on and read the comment I already made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:04 PM |
| 0 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?Ridiculous comment, if know that you cant challenge what I say its better to just keep it moving then say this shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:01 PM |
| -2 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?no, if you can't understand basic logic then my argument wins by default. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?The Quality of Life (QoL) jump from a $50k to a $100k household income is drastically more transformative than jumping from $70k to $160k. Crossing that $100k threshold fundamentally alters your baseline survival in a way the higher bracket does not. Furthermore, your point about subsidies is entirely invalid. Eligibility is completely subjective. It is dictated strictly by an individual's specific location, age, and residency duration etc. You can't actually make a general claim using it. There… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?uneducated women who economically benefit so much more from marrying their uneducated counter parts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 05:13 PM |
| -2 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?Exactly!! It’s now on the men to do the inner work to actually make partnering with them enjoyable. This is wrong. Avg people shouldn't have to do above avg work to get avg results. This is like dismissing the fact that normal ppl cant afford to own a house anymore by saying they should work 2 jobs. And ideology should create a society which creates a parity on input and output as much as it can. And not caring about social systems not working for avg people just means you are intellectually mas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 04:34 PM |
| -2 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?I agree. Now more and more women actually need to like the man in order to enter a relationship. College educated women who don't financially need men are more likely to marry their college educated male counter parts then the uneducated women who economically benefit so much more from marrying their uneducated counter parts. In other words a large part of female heterosexuality is gold digging purely for the love of the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 03:45 PM |
| 1 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.Literally all of these things come down to individual choices aswell. Infact its super similar becuase women are highly susceptible to social trends and group think, meaning that just like how market trends influence recruiters, social media trends influence women's choices in who they choose to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 01:01 PM |
| 8 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.No one should answer your question height metrics are readily available, so you are just asking in bad faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 12:58 PM |
| 4 | Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates ItThis is just yet more proof that Marxism in all its flavours is just intellectual masturbation, as if your ideas cant self sustain through time it means they lead no where. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Why do many women find it unacceptable if a man has paid for sex in the past, but are fine with a man who has slept with hundreds of women through regular dating?so people are aware of the fact that these women would very likely not engage with you at all if there were no direct financial incentive to do so. This is true of basically everyone working a job. Infact most people wouldn't do anything for anyone outside of friends and family if they wherent paid to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 07:24 PM |
| – | Online dating isn’t the problem, the apps and their incentive structures areno there designed to monetise young mens desperation which means making the product as worse as possible so you can upcharge young men solutions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 12:47 AM |
| -1 | If red flags are so easy to spot, then there's no need for prenups and paternity testsIf you can't refute the points made don't respond, this isn't an interview. Typical woman feminist, instantly and doggedly hiding behind dishonest rhetorical devices and fallacies implace of honest arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 12:00 AM |
| -1 | If red flags are so easy to spot, then there's no need for prenups and paternity testsThis is just totally arbitrary missandry, you have drawn a line in the sand purely becuase it excludes male paternity rights, there's no actual principle behind anything you are saying. If you principally believed in parental rights, you would accept that having to be a parent to child for 18+ years is enough of a burden that everyone ought to get the choice whether or not they are one, even after conception since modern medicine allows for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 08:24 PM |
| – | The strength of the Red Pill is that it is largely a coherent worldview.Yes it is and you obviously believe it is as well, you are only saying because you know you lost the argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 09:53 PM |
| 3 | If red flags are so easy to spot, then there's no need for prenups and paternity testsAs for paternity tests, you shouldn't have unprotected sex with anyone you think you might need a paternity test for. I don't understand what that's so difficult for some dudes. Maybe my obsession with blowjobs makes the desire to nut inside a girls pussy not as intense idk. Because blue piller its a total double standard, women have upteenth amount of drugs and legal mechanisms that give them parental autonomy, yet for men you believe that they should have the same parental rights as men 500 ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 09:16 PM |
| – | The strength of the Red Pill is that it is largely a coherent worldview.its a statement, you think the laws of gravity are relative to earth. also jsut going through the argument chain here, you arent saying anything you are just arguing to argue. Even your first comment is just arguing to argue becuase OP triggered you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 09:07 PM |
| – | The strength of the Red Pill is that it is largely a coherent worldview.Yes you did, the standard of evidence was set at simply who women marry and now you claiming that I must meet new standards after the fact. That's text book moving the goal post. If you wanted these qualifiers to count then they needed to be mentioned previously. Ok then you’d actually have to address this with a counter, because what you posted doesn’t prove what you hoped it’d prove. There is no "ok then", the other woman made a specific claim, so I made a specific counter claim. You need to a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 08:54 PM |
| – | The strength of the Red Pill is that it is largely a coherent worldview.you have no idea what you are talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 07:26 PM |
| – | The strength of the Red Pill is that it is largely a coherent worldview.In other words there’s no evidence that most young childless women are actually choosing richer men to settle down with (actual hypergamy). You cant just move the goal post after your side has been proven wrong. The statement was that most women marry within socio economic bracket and that was disproven by the fact most marriages are not economically equial. Secondly I never said this was the extent of evidence proving that hypergamy is real, the stat I referenced was simply the relevant stat di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 07:22 PM |
| – | The strength of the Red Pill is that it is largely a coherent worldview.its literally impossible for truth not to form a coherent world view. If something is true it by definition cannot be contradicted by something that is also true. Therefore if you have a world view of truth ideas they all have to align with each other coherently. But again this is not the point, the point is the opposite, incoherence = your worldview is definitely false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 07:02 PM |
| – | The strength of the Red Pill is that it is largely a coherent worldview.That's total nonsense and a cope, you just don't want to be put in the position to loose the argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 05:47 PM |
| – | The strength of the Red Pill is that it is largely a coherent worldview.a scientific theory is validated with supporting experiments, studies and mathematical proof that's why its called a theory and not a hypothesis. Scientific theory =/= how you use the word "theory". Also gravity is not a theory its scientific law, and doesn't just apply to earth that makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 05:42 PM |
| – | The strength of the Red Pill is that it is largely a coherent worldview.bluepill doesnt use any science | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 05:32 PM |
| – | The strength of the Red Pill is that it is largely a coherent worldview.You are missing the point. Lets say RP uses questionable science is still more truthful then the total incoherence of bluepill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 05:32 PM |
| – | The strength of the Red Pill is that it is largely a coherent worldview.The point is coherence is necessary for truth, so while a coherent world view might not mean truth it does mean that an incoherent world view like blue pill is definitely not truthful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 05:30 PM |
| – | The strength of the Red Pill is that it is largely a coherent worldview.So you would need to be a tiny bit more specific. Tell me a typical RP claim and we could examine it from a BP perspective. You just did exactly what he said and proved OPs claim. Your world view should be coherent enough that when challenged you have an argument with evidence to back it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 05:23 PM |
| – | The strength of the Red Pill is that it is largely a coherent worldview.Male breadwinner marriages out number equal income and female breadwinner marriages combined. Hypergamy is 100% real and backed by a lot of studies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 05:21 PM |
| – | The strength of the Red Pill is that it is largely a coherent worldview.You know science also has an answer to basically everything as well right? Having a lot of answers just means you have a coherent and fully developed world view. Giving inconsistent answers means that you are just making shit up as you go along and lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 05:18 PM |
| – | The proxy for wealth.Conservative means perpetuating the current (in this context) gender views? Firstly saying this infers that your ideology is just whatever is more extreme or different then was before regardless of what it is which is really nonsense and unprincipled. Secondly conservatism is not this, this is basically just a lie progressives came up with to trick each other into dismissing conservative ideas that are difficult to refute. No popular conservative thought leader is going to say "I believe x only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Red pill dating advice is incompatible with healthy long term relationshipsWhat you say is simply not true the majority of marriages are still male breadwinner by a mile, women still massively priotise things like earnings and demonstrated masculinity within men. Bluepill is a lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 04:44 PM |
| 0 | Do you have any kinks that do not involve your partner being in discomfort or pain?Then you can't assume that men are interested in that porn becuase they want to cause woman pain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 04:33 PM |
| – | The proxy for wealth.So saying women X anything is kinda on the nose. Not sure what the fuck meaning you are using? By this logic if I say women in general can chose not to adhere to their base nature that is gender essentialist even though I'm arguing women's biology does not determine how they act. What's happening is you are conflating generalisations with gender essentialism. But most importantly this is all getting way to into the weeds, the point is you disagreeing with red-pill and conservatism does not make … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 04:26 PM |
| 0 | Do you have any kinks that do not involve your partner being in discomfort or pain?There not bdsm and other rough play porn categories are not popular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Do you have any kinks that do not involve your partner being in discomfort or pain?It doesnt really matter, the point is the people enmasse doing what you where talking about are women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 03:09 PM |
| 0 | Do you have any kinks that do not involve your partner being in discomfort or pain?Well you needed to becuase your argument is that men are attracted to sex that causes discomfort, therefore men should be the most attracted or at least massively attracted to porn where the point is to cause discomfort. If the 2nd conclusion is not true it undermines everything you are saying. Additionally I've provided research that this is super common among women. So the truth is that this is a woman thing, women want this men just play along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 03:07 PM |
| – | The proxy for wealth.that's not a gender essentialist statement, the gender essentialist position dissagrees with me and is what conservatives believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you have any kinks that do not involve your partner being in discomfort or pain?No, fantasizing about dangerous, murderous rapists is not healthy. you mean like the MC of 50 shades of grey, that millions of women found so attractive that some of them where masturbating to him in the movie theatre during screenings. https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/entertainment/news/a33700/woman-arrested-masturbating-cinema-fifty-shades/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Do you have any kinks that do not involve your partner being in discomfort or pain?Well firstly BDSM porn is not that popular, at least on Pornhub it doesn't even come up on their most popular search term charts. This is just some myth spread by feminists. <image> Compare this to women however, sexual masochism is really popular within erotic literature which is a mostly female readership and research shows 65% of women have a masochism fetish. So this is really a thing that women like and men are just going along with rather then something that men actually want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 02:47 PM |
| -2 | Do you have any kinks that do not involve your partner being in discomfort or pain?It seems like men’s kinks and sexual interests nearly always include things that often cause women pain or discomfort such as deepthroating, anal, choking or spanking. Yet again women are projecting. The most common fetish in women is masochism. Its not that men want to cause women pain, its that men have learned that women want men to cause them pain so they play a long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 07:47 PM |
| 1 | The proxy for wealth.Firstly this is like saying becuase an apple is not an orange it must therefore be a type of pear. Just becuase an ideology has things that appose it does not mean that the things that appose it agree or are related. Secondly whole point of RP is that men should not adhere to trad gender roles becuase women will just take advantage of you. So its not really gender essentialist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 07:45 PM |
| 3 | The proxy for wealth.imo I think the purple should just be removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:16 PM |
| 5 | The proxy for wealth.OP:RP'ers dont listen to women also OP: Listen to me instead a trans woman whos never been a cis man or woman Plus I love how you conflate RP and conservatism, you are really selling us on the idea that you know what you are talking about. Finally just change your flair to blue pill, you clearly are not in the middle at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:07 PM |
| 4 | Anti-feminist views of young men positively correlate with dating, negatively with gaming and social networksYeah this is a total miss. The reason is that feminism is a feminine value system and so the men who are feminists tend to be more feminine men, women are generally not attracted to feminine men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 06:14 PM |
| – | Women not needing men is a good thingAlso women shame men because men shame the women in those industries while actively profiting off their bodies. and my point is proven women talk a big game about not wanting anyone to need anyone but you are all unwilling to ever let go of your monopolization on sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 01:51 PM |
| 5 | Women not needing men is a good thingRelationships today are built on actual genuine desire rather than just the need for a provider. Not true at all. Women still mostly select for exactly the same things as they did previously, its just that more and more men do not make the cut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 12:50 PM |
| – | Women not needing men is a good thingMen shouldn’t need women lmao women shame men who use prostitutes, watch porn, will probably shame men who buy sex robots, go abroad to find women in different countries. This idea that women are even worse then men when it comes to this topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 12:50 PM |
| 5 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?What would you say are the most core aspects of red pill that work for your current dating life? Women are human beings, human beings are moulded by internal desires and external social pressures, human beings have pro and anti social desires, current society is unable to apply external social pressures to womens anti social desires, therefore act accordingly and understand the game is rigged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 12:06 AM |
| 6 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?everyone doesnt know it bluepill necessarily places women on a pedestal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 12:05 AM |
| – | If many women say you are a total catch but won’t date you, the harsh truth is that they are lying to you.Women say this because the model they use to understand men is skewed. Around 70% of their attention goes to highly confident, upper percentile men, the chads or the creeps, so their baseline for what men are is distorted. That’s why you get “you’re a total catch but not worth dating.” The evaluation starts from the assumption that you’re a chad, then recognises you aren’t, which creates a contradiction. What it actually means is this: your personality would be attractive if it were attached to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 01:32 PM |
| 0 | Porn analytics reveal surplus of queer men?That its not a widespread thing, that is just self selection bias, you are literally bi, ofc you would meet way more guys who are into guys, you are seeking them out. Secondly porn stats do not reflect reality, a minority of users clock in a ridiculously disproportionate amount of % total watch time, this is even more stark when we look at who is paying vs whos just watching pirated/free. This is all to say porn trends do not reflect the avg man but instead just minority of men who are serious p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 10:19 PM |
| -1 | Redpillers are rude and that's why women here are unsympatheticyou just proved his point lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 07:35 PM |
| -1 | What is your vetting advice for women?First question has a very simple asnwer, only date those men you can demand commitment from. I'm not going to quantify that becuase most women know what men will take the ultimatum of "you must seriously commit to fuck", women just don't give these men play becuase its an ego hit for women to accept that the guys they can actually get commitment from are significantly lower calibre then the guys they aspirationally fuck. The 2nd questions answer is you have to judge men far more based on actuall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Most young women are dating the same set of terrible menMy guy if most people find their relationships online, and most dating apps are hypergamy machines where the top % of men get almost all of the matches from women, and you couple that with a culture that has completely destigmatised not only just casual sex but the casual greyzone of situation-ships, by those factors you get wide spread soft harems. In regards to your last question its not likely, if we see women choose to date avg guys less after the rise of online dating and increase equal pay… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Do Women Actually Believe Men's Dating Struggles Are Real?most women do this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 09:40 AM |
| 11 | Most young women are dating the same set of terrible menI think they are exceedingly common, we live in such online and itemised social worlds that most of the online attention from women which represents most of how most people form romantic relationships now goes to the high performing men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Draft should be accompanied by more rights for menYou are acting in bad faith. You entered the argument halfway through, took a position against me without clarifying it, and are only now revealing that your actual stance is different from what I was addressing. Your position is also incoherent. You claim to oppose giving men additional rights in exchange for conscription, yet you are fine with a scenario where far more rights are lost through conquest. You cannot hold both positions at the same time. Your proposals are not grounded in reality.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 01:43 AM |
| 0 | Draft should be accompanied by more rights for menno I asked you when did I say the words "You can't include assets in a prenup", that was your claim. Prove that you are not lying. And before you whine, you ignored all of the context of my initial comment. So you are going to be held to the exact same ridiculous standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 01:18 AM |
| 0 | Draft should be accompanied by more rights for menits not its a cost that needs to be paid by society to reward those men who sacrifice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Draft should be accompanied by more rights for menThe benefit is that you get to keep your society safe. That's obviously not enough otherwise, idk why you would say something so blatantly bad faith. If you don’t care about that then why does it matter if we abolish the draft. If our paid (and anyone who wants to volunteer in the) military can’t defend our country then maybe whoever conquers us can just have the country. So you are fiercely against giving men more rights in exchange for bearing the absolute burden of conscription, yet you are c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Draft should be accompanied by more rights for menyou dont chose to get drafted thats the whole point, also what a disgusting argument. So someone volunteers to go through hell so you can have human and civil rights, and in return your spit in their face and say "if you didn't like it you should have done something else". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 09:41 PM |
| -3 | Draft should be accompanied by more rights for menVeteran status is not apart of DEI, the GI bill was created in 1944 ffs, also the concept of giving benefits to vets goes back to antiquity. What a a low quality argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Draft should be accompanied by more rights for menI didn't say you couldn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 09:38 PM |
| 0 | Draft should be accompanied by more rights for menVoting actually justifies me more. In the run up to the 2016 election hillary clinton made it clear she would erect a no fly zone over syria in which russian jets where flying sorties that then would have started a conflict between the us and russia. So women where literally voting for a war they where not responsible for fighting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 09:36 PM |
| 0 | Draft should be accompanied by more rights for menWho do you think keeps everything running while men are gone? The rich and well connected men who live in the nice neighbourhoods that had the means to get out of being drafted. And the “no one wants women on the front line” point doesn’t really land anymore. Women already serve in combat roles. Look at Israel, it’s been standard there for years. Israel does not send its female conscripts to the front line, and the women that volunteer to do so make up a minority of the combat force occupying on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Draft should be accompanied by more rights for menYou are simply shifting the goalposts. You dismiss war as a hypothetical scenario, yet armed conflicts have broken out across the globe, and the US is currently engaged in hostilities involving Iran. Therefore, being drafted into a war is a very real possibility, not merely a theoretical concept. Furthermore, to address your last point, the argument is not a simple binary of either everyone sharing the burden or no one sharing it. Because since you want to limit this discussion to the United Sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 09:18 PM |
| -2 | Draft should be accompanied by more rights for menModern conflict is trench warefare where the front line is a 2 miles thick grey zone thats mined to all hell and constantly patrolled by suicide drones. Seems totally fair that if you ask some 20 year old to go live in that hell for years that if he makes it out he gets treated a little better by society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 08:32 PM |
| -2 | Draft should be accompanied by more rights for menprenups don't actually protect assets, there a good defense but there are a lot of times when family courts just throw them out come divorce. But the general reason why men should get more rights is that due to the reality of the draft men simply have more responsibility over society so thye should have more rights within society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Draft should be accompanied by more rights for menok but is that likely either? In war time are people seriously likely to expect or be ok forcefully drafting women. And even in the cases women are drafted they shouldn't be put on the front line nor would again anyone want them to be. So its the same thing that other guy was getting at, men simply have a responsibility for society that is not mirrored by women yet there is no accompanying right or benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 08:27 PM |
| 7 | Draft should be accompanied by more rights for menYou’re jumping from a hypothetical war Not really hypothetical now is it, Russia has sent several long range drones into polish air space, their army is the largest its ever been, germany is reinstating the draft for young men, china is poised to attack taiwan. There was a war between armenia and Azerbaijan like 3 years ago, there are wars in the sehel, india and pakistan had a conflict. Calling war hypothetical is just not truthful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 08:22 PM |
| 1 | The red pill claims are misunderstood because of progressive's projections.You dont see anything you are entirely biased, your perspective doesnt add value it just reflects your pre conceived opinions. So basing your arguments on it is like building a house on mud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What do you think about Shannon Sharpe getting played by a 19 year old?I understand he's old but he was atleast fit and could have expanded his options instead of relying on a woman who was potentially looking to use him No he cant which is why these sorts of guys really need redpill. Every woman he will encounter within his normal social circles is essentially a whore or a female celebrity who thinks her fame and success increase her smv. This is becuase all the women that arent get totally outcompeted by the prostitutes, since the prostitutes are way more motivat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 11:21 AM |
| 1 | The red pill claims are misunderstood because of progressive's projections.Bro you started out this conversation with 2 immediate fallacies, you are pretending to be purple pill when you are clearly blue pill and you are doubling down on faulty logic. What you see isnt important or proof of anything, you are not anywhere near close to a reasonable observer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 06:22 PM |
| 1 | The red pill claims are misunderstood because of progressive's projections.No its an argument from silence fallacy. If you don't have any evidence someone believes something, then you don't have evidence for it, you can't just presume they do becuase they didn't meet your arbitrary standards of sufficient opposition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:09 AM |
| – | Women don’t owe it to society to raise birth ratesSo feminism campaigns to ultimately restrict mens nature to improve the lives of women, and so I point out that in doing so theyve left women completely unrestricted essentially creating a similar problem but for women, and you call me a monster. I genuinely wonder how you women can say shit so obviously in bad faith and then turn around and expect men to respect you intellecutally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:05 AM |
| – | Women don’t owe it to society to raise birth ratesIt absolutely is, people are having to work multiple jobs just to survive at the moment with how much everything costs, this results in people not having time or enough money to have children In the past, a family of say 4 could easily survive off one parents income, leaving a parent also at home who has the time to raise the children. That one parents income now is just barely enough to cover one persons expenses let alone an entire family If it where about costs then the statistics would show … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 11:59 PM |
| – | Women don’t owe it to society to raise birth ratesbut the false presumption there is that this is about how much kids cost, when the real issue is ultimately that feminism has completely unrestrained modern womens hypergamy. When you actually look at the stats, most women want to be married and want to have kids. And most importantly there isn't really that big of a growth in married couples that don't have/want kids. So the break in fertility is really only happening becuase women have equal pay but aren't willing to date men who earn less or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 06:06 PM |
| – | Women don’t owe it to society to raise birth ratesHow is anyone supposed to do that? Also ironically if its not most women will have less kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Questions for red pilled guys, after seeing some recent debate clipsEntirely wrong. Redpill does not seak to change or improve society, just help those men who want to listen leverage themselves better in the dating market so they can invidually get better options. Conversely redpill also doesnt blame women for acting hypergamous becuase redpill doesnt make moral judgements. All redpill is at its core is a framework to identifying societal problems, it offers no grand solution, its also not even for everyone women and blue pill men shouldn't know about red pill … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 02:48 AM |
| 2 | The red pill claims are misunderstood because of progressive's projections.Until you all push back against something it is your stance. Thats litterally just an argument from silence fallacy https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Argument_from_silence If it so common to see people who exposed to red pill ideas saying bullshit you can fault people for listening to what they have to say. This is just nutpicking https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Nutpicking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 02:16 AM |
| 5 | Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women.Ok well now we know why you are wrong. Men and women are not interchangeable blank slates. The personality profile and physical attributes that criminals usually posses are 1 not that prevalent overall but are less prevalent in women then in men. And that isnt to say women are more altruistic, its mostly just becuase many more women are not confident or physically strong enough to engage in criminality like that. Just like how a lot of herbivores will readily eat meat when they have the opportun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 09:36 PM |
| 23 | Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women.Sure, but that same source says 90% of violent crime is committed by men. That's a pretty damning statistic, and it's sort of impossible to talk about violence without talking about men as a whole. I guess it depends on how you'd frame that statistic. If you said Its actually not damning and this is a staggering misunderstanding of statistics. For something to be damning of men as a whole it must reflect the whole, which means a significantly large % of men do something. So since 1% of people co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 09:26 PM |
| -1 | Younger women are just more attractive.rich men dont hold society together normal men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Society made it so that women can earn equal to men and now women can no longer find someone who earns more than them. Women today have been so masculinized that they don't even find men attractive.What monetary benefits are women afford that men aren't? Most marriages are male breadwinner marriages, meaning the man earns 60% or more of the families income, and in the avg male breadwinner marriage the man earns 70% of the families income. In essence women only marginally increased their financial responsibility over the family since early industrialisation, and only becuase children cant work anymore. While they now have the modern benefit of being protected from things like "financial abu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 12:08 AM |
| -3 | Younger women are just more attractive.im totally fine with gold digging as long as we get rid of both explicit and structural affirmative action for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 11:53 PM |
| 0 | Society made it so that women can earn equal to men and now women can no longer find someone who earns more than them. Women today have been so masculinized that they don't even find men attractive.im pretty sure the projection for this generation of women is that more then half will end up childless, moreover most women that do regret doing so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 09:33 PM |
| -2 | Society made it so that women can earn equal to men and now women can no longer find someone who earns more than them. Women today have been so masculinized that they don't even find men attractive.Aren't men glad to be able to divorcea cheating wife? Since the overwhelming majority of divorces are initiated by women statistically this is not true and that actually even in the cases a man is cheated on he likely wants to stay and try to work things out. Prior era very real problems is women not having economic independence not being able to exit bad marriages And now that they have economic independence there still afforded the same monetary benefits as when they didn't, so this argument d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 09:32 PM |
| -3 | Society made it so that women can earn equal to men and now women can no longer find someone who earns more than them. Women today have been so masculinized that they don't even find men attractive.no its not we need people to be born for society to function, litterally everyone's lives are worse now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?No. And its becuase when you talk to or listen to a given misandrist explain what red pill is, most of them cant articulate it at all, to the misandrist there is practically no difference to a genuinely equal opportunity liberal like your brother(kind off), a man who is sexist, a conservative and a red piller. To them anything that disadvantages women justified or not is in the same umbrella. Moreover your comment here: I also (in the real world) had a red-pill guy who told me that the sexual fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 09:13 PM |
| 6 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?I deeply love my younger brother = "im not racist I have a black friend" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 09:06 PM |
| 5 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?this is wrong for the simple fact that most misandrists are never exposed to the redpill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Women calling men “gay” is an insultThe irony lmao You are the only one arguing in bad faith. You obviously know that women calling men 'gay' in response to them saying something they find offensive is homophobia. You have only concocted this mental gymnastics justification of how it's totally not because, as a blue pill woman, it's ideologically inconvenient for you to acknowledge that straight women utilize and have normalized homophobia to attack straight men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 08:44 PM |
| – | Women are too underqualified to give dating advice to straight men.But I also noticed that the biggest sluts I knew from school ended up having better luck locking down good men than the "good girls" Thats becuase the the biggest sluts settle for beta bux when they can't ride the hvm cock carousel anymore, whereas the good girls are usually less attractive overall. But the good girls who where where the sluts looks equal usually end up with way higher value men in the long run then the sluts. Also the sluts who end up with good men usually do so because they re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Women calling men “gay” is an insultThere's no point. Your first response was to reframe the conversation because you knew you were proven wrong. Even if I answer your question, you'll just employ another dishonest tactic to avoid addressing my argument. It's not worth the hassle of constantly calling you out and explaining the chain of logic every time you try to derail the discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Women approaching men should be the norm.No only like 10% of men are confident/socially unaware enough to where the cost benefit ratio is such that approaching is something they would willingly do even given other options. Most men only approach becuase they have no other option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 07:24 PM |
| – | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menYou might have pushback? Oh no. Literally every campaign or movement ever does. Don't expect to be coddled just because you're men. "pushback" lmao one of the biggest reasons the the old MRA movement that was gaining traction 10-15 years ago died was becuase feminists constantly would call in bomb threats. Let me repeat that, these men where trying to hold a convention to talk about mens mental health, farthers paternity rights and feminists called in bomb threats to shut it down. You cant say "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 07:22 PM |
| 0 | What is that guy supposed to do in the video - genuine discussion for both genders, no blaming each otheryou have clearly communicated standards and boundaries, if she actually values you then she will never put herself in a situation where this can happen. if she allows this to happen then you leave its that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 09:38 PM |
| 1 | What is that guy supposed to do in the video - genuine discussion for both genders, no blaming each otherTake a deep breath to centre himself, turn around and walk away. When he gets to his car or bus, block her shit on every platform, and prolly call some friends to hang out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Women calling men “gay” is an insultWhy are you expecting me to address your comment when you ignored everything relevant in mine? Because you expected me to Also this new comment you made here just highlights that your prior response was dishonest and just you trying to force the framing of the conversation to get out of having to actually respond to difficult arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 09:28 PM |
| 6 | Men are less emotionally open and more prone to bottle things up because women are not ready to see some parts of men and straight disagree with some of their feelings.Why blame women? Men bottle up their feelings around other men as well. Due to fear of bullying. Becuase women will ask men to be more emotional and thne complain about those emotions. Men however who will bully you for being emotional are not going to try to bait you into expressing yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 09:23 PM |
| 18 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menStart your own campaign. That's a dishonest suggestion. We can't advocate for ourselves because feminist groups use the exact logic you just outlined to shut us down, dismissing men's advocacy as just 'men trying to gain more power. Feminism is not about advancing the position of those who are overall more advantaged Then you don't believe in equality. Equality is a principle that if supported means you are against inequality in all instances not just for those overall at a disadvantage. If your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 09:17 PM |
| – | The way some people talk about male loneliness kinda of reinforces the point of why men don't really have a lot of safe spaces to be emotionally openIrrelevant, he has his experiences. So is personal experience now not valid as proof that something is true just becuase you dont like the outcome now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 09:02 PM |
| – | The way some people talk about male loneliness kinda of reinforces the point of why men don't really have a lot of safe spaces to be emotionally openLiterally the same for women, you ppl are totally full of shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 09:00 PM |
| – | The way some people talk about male loneliness kinda of reinforces the point of why men don't really have a lot of safe spaces to be emotionally openNo you said " you think that's all female friends lol, ", quote me where I said all female friends are like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Women calling men “gay” is an insultHow does anything you said challenge the truth of my argument? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 08:51 PM |
| – | The way some people talk about male loneliness kinda of reinforces the point of why men don't really have a lot of safe spaces to be emotionally opennot helping your position by doubling down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 08:36 PM |
| 0 | Romance dramas or movies targeted at women are harmful to societyI could believe you in theory but considering that for the past 10-15 years women have been arguing the exact opposite but for mens media, im not convinced you actually believe this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 11:32 PM |
| 0 | Romance dramas or movies targeted at women are harmful to societyHold on so porn, sexy girls in videogames and other mens media promotes harmful societal wide sterotypes and body standards for women. But romance novels which largely are even worse is just a bit of fun and women are totally unaffected? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 11:29 PM |
| – | The way some people talk about male loneliness kinda of reinforces the point of why men don't really have a lot of safe spaces to be emotionally opendo you apply this same standard to sexual assault? Are you willing to say that men do not sexually assualt women becuase its only some? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 11:27 PM |
| – | The way some people talk about male loneliness kinda of reinforces the point of why men don't really have a lot of safe spaces to be emotionally openYour resistance proves my point. You rely on empty rhetoric to frame these things as fundamental rights owed to women and their denial as an injustice because you know you can't logically defend giving them that status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 11:26 PM |
| – | The way some people talk about male loneliness kinda of reinforces the point of why men don't really have a lot of safe spaces to be emotionally openLying more is just further proving my point that women are dishonest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 11:21 PM |
| 5 | Women calling men “gay” is an insultno its an insult becuase we are not talking about the word gay in literally any context, we are talking about it in the context of women calling men they dont like gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 11:18 PM |
| – | The way some people talk about male loneliness kinda of reinforces the point of why men don't really have a lot of safe spaces to be emotionally openHow am I meant to respect you when you say shit like this 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 11:16 PM |
| 7 | Women calling men “gay” is an insultYou are obviously lying. Firstly the line of logic makes no sense, most men are better friends with women, in fact most men have no female friends, so by the logic most men should be gay, yet you never hear these comments just directed at men in general unless the woman has animosity toward all men. Additionally men and women are not opposites so bashing women wouldn't mean you like men. Most importantly none of this is more likely then the woman is just homophobic, homophobia is extremely commo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 11:12 PM |
| 9 | Women calling men “gay” is an insultThey don’t see being gay as an insult. Why is this the more likely conclusion then homophobia? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 11:05 PM |
| 9 | Women calling men “gay” is an insultits 100% an insult | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Women calling men “gay” is an insulttake a guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Instead of generalizing an entire gender, just admit you have a type and you’re annoyed with your type’s flaws.Because we expect men to be accountable, even though the redpill claims men take accountability more than women? the point is its basically impossible to respect you when you flip flop on positions back and forth whenever it suits you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 10:34 PM |
| 6 | Women calling men “gay” is an insultObviously a lie, your descriptor of "like, respect, and admire" is basically to a tea how women describe men they like and how men want to be viewed by women in a relationship. So what problems would remain if men could choose to be gay? The same problems as before when men could not choose to be gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 10:31 PM |
| 4 | Women calling men “gay” is an insultDefinitely not going to last lmao, lesbians expect equitable fair and respectful treatment that the avg straight woman simply is not capable of providing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 10:24 PM |
| 5 | Women calling men “gay” is an insultIt is you just dont want backlash from being homophobic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 10:18 PM |
| 5 | Women calling men “gay” is an insultThis is projection you are projecting your own way of how you want to have relationships and how you value a partner onto men as a woman. And so yeah if all men wanted a partner like how women do being gay would make sense, hence why women are attracted to men. But as men we need different things so being gay wouldn't solve anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 10:17 PM |
| 1 | The way some people talk about male loneliness kinda of reinforces the point of why men don't really have a lot of safe spaces to be emotionally openWhere are you getting all this? Do you have a mean older sister? A catty mom? Why would you assume this is the norm? hold on so personal experience is not valid now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 10:07 PM |
| 1 | The way some people talk about male loneliness kinda of reinforces the point of why men don't really have a lot of safe spaces to be emotionally openBro you see a hot girl friend group and you think that's all female friends lol, Prove right now that you are not lying through your teeth and literally quote exactly where i said this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 10:05 PM |
| 2 | The way some people talk about male loneliness kinda of reinforces the point of why men don't really have a lot of safe spaces to be emotionally opendishonestly pretending you don't understand as a refutation to the idea that women are dishonest just supports exactly what i'm saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 10:04 PM |
| 1 | The way some people talk about male loneliness kinda of reinforces the point of why men don't really have a lot of safe spaces to be emotionally openFeminists had to fight for how many decades to get simple equality in the law Feminists really did not. Men fought for equality, men went to war, engaged in civil wars against kings and leaders all for equality under the law and even then in the west men only got the right to vote at the cost of being subject to the draft. Feminists just complained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 10:00 PM |
| 1 | The way some people talk about male loneliness kinda of reinforces the point of why men don't really have a lot of safe spaces to be emotionally openAll of those people are ostracized by greater society and can only make their complaints known on the internet. The words "limit the actual rights of women" dont mean anything be specific in exactly what you are saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 09:58 PM |
| 11 | The way some people talk about male loneliness kinda of reinforces the point of why men don't really have a lot of safe spaces to be emotionally openMisandry which in large part is just women lashing out at men becuase of pain goes completely unchallenged in society, whereas when young men talk about their issues even when they try to dress it up in language that is softer, are generally admonished. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 06:40 PM |
| -3 | The way some people talk about male loneliness kinda of reinforces the point of why men don't really have a lot of safe spaces to be emotionally openyou know that lying demonstrates the point he's making right? Everyone knows women do this, its even pretty well substantiated in data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 06:32 PM |
| -2 | The way some people talk about male loneliness kinda of reinforces the point of why men don't really have a lot of safe spaces to be emotionally openWomen seem to seek, and thrive off of, friendships in a way that men don’t. I love my bros but they don’t make me feel fulfilled the same way having a woman in my life does Women's friendships are rife with drama, rumours and dishonesty lmao. And often times there literally just fake, think about the avg male friend group, usaully a bunch of guys all shapes and sizes, whereas its not hard to find women where there all hot and that's becuase they dont actually like each other they just decided to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 06:31 PM |
| 23 | The way some people talk about male loneliness kinda of reinforces the point of why men don't really have a lot of safe spaces to be emotionally openWhen people are hurting they tend to be really shitty at discussing their pain in a way that garners empathy. Thats not really true at all women can be extreamly hateful when discussing thier pain and society generally makes exceptions unless its extremely egregious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 06:25 PM |
| – | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.My judgement is not impaired like yours is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 02:57 PM |
| 0 | Men's contribution to society isn't a dating argument.the why needs to matter for your point to make any sense, you are only claming it doesnt becuase it breaks the narrative you tried to form. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 02:55 PM |
| 0 | Men's contribution to society isn't a dating argument.Ofc it is lmao unlike women who are heavily comnsumerist men dont really want for much realitively, so how else would society get men to be productive. Either way it is a dating issue and it is ultimately womens fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 02:16 PM |
| 10 | Women approaching men should be the norm.but I’ve never desired a man so greatly I felt compelled to approach him. No one has ever felt this sort of desire. The only reason men approach is becuase men know that women wont ever approach. And so conversely you only feel this way becuase you know some man will approach at some point in some context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Men's contribution to society isn't a dating argument.Then you are wrong lmao. You cant reject one explanation of men's motivations becuase you don't like the implications when you have no better alternative. Moreover reality is proving you wrong. In a time when men feel society is least likely to provide them good romantic prospects men in droves are dropping out of the economy and down sizing their lives becuase overall men only strive to be efficient workers when a family is the reward. As what use is trying hard in this economic rat race when a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 02:08 PM |
| -1 | Men's contribution to society isn't a dating argument.The men working the dangerous jobs don’t qualify for office jobs. Because office jobs don't pay out as much anymore, and the ones that do are still mostly male dominated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 01:56 PM |
| 1 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womendodging points is a clear sign you ran out of arguments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 06:40 PM |
| – | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.the entire conclusion you are trying to get to is underlined by the fact that you didnt actually make an argument as to where this cognitive disonence is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Instead of generalizing an entire gender, just admit you have a type and you’re annoyed with your type’s flaws.so any negative experience men have with women is just thier type, any negative experience women have with men can be extrapolated to all men. And women wonder why they are not respected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.Hold on lets not pretend like you can make this argument, you are entirely biased, there is no world in which you can honestly just presume this you need to prove what you say or its assumed just dishonesty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 12:09 AM |
| 0 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenThis is not a full response to what I said at all. If you actually believed your position you would be able to defend it against challenge. As is typical of women you have chosen to employ dishonest argumentative strategies when you loose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 12:07 AM |
| 0 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenno all men must sacrific by law if you do not have custody you must pay child support, conversly mothers can abandon children for adoption or get abortions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 08:07 PM |
| -1 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenit does have to be for men, the most marriages in the us are male breadwinner marriages where on avg the wife earns $30k and the husband earns $70k. The only ticket to actually being a farther for men is if you are willing to sacrifice a life of very modest living and low aspirations to take on a massive responsibility to provide for a family. the reason you think otherwise is you project women's mindset onto men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 12:03 AM |
| 9 | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.Yes that tends to happen when you create a praxeology based on observations. Also the word odd doesnt mean anything, you are a blue piller, everything that you fundamentally dissagree with is odd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 10:15 PM |
| -2 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenAlso just look at the alternative, what are you going to live for otherwise? Some company that will fire you whenever the new ceo wants to make the business look more profitable? Or throw your life into recreation and spend your days partying, traveling or watching movies etc, that shit gets boring after a few years as well. I think unless you have some sort of grand professional goal you should try to have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you understand female dating perspective?I'd like to think it doesn't exist. What sense would that make lmoa humans like all creatures are generally the same as eachother why would dating be any different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.i’m not seeing any data to know either way how liberals/leftists/feminists view men. how would you even measure this and do you even think a study like this could be published within the current academic climate? no one seemed to have weird negative views of men They did its just that you agree with them so you dont realise, or and what is most likely you are just lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.she didnt dump him he dumped her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 09:53 PM |
| 0 | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.tree of logic is a clown, literally her entire channel is just spreading nasty rumours about any right wing or redpill online figure. Nothing she says should be taken seriously unless corroborated with an unaffiliated 3rd party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.Even when it comes to Loui manospere doc that I only seen clips of, but I saw that Marvin guy, who again, I don't listen to, but everyone was giving him shit because of his attitude and sexism, but what I saw is a hot, very feminine and lovely girl saying she is in love with him Yes, she left because of the pressure (who knows if she'll come back later) but the fact is she WAS with him, she WAS in love No you have it all wrong, she didn't leave him, she was totally willing to stay with him and w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 09:51 PM |
| 19 | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.I'm sure they think that it's based on reality. Doesn't mean it is. Ok but why would you as a blue pill woman understand random redpill men's lives more then the actual men themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Women in my experience have a lot of problems with accepting generalities. Except when it comes to shaming men or painting men as dangerous then they will talk all day in generalities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 04:19 AM |
| 4 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Did you even read his comment? (To be clear, I am talking about actual women in the real world. I am well aware that Reddit is full of Truly Strong and Independent Women with no desire or need for male guidance and leadership.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 04:17 AM |
| 4 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Ew. I'm so grossed out by this. I've never known a week needs to "look up to her man" in order to feel attracted. Yuck. Y'all make up the strangest things about women. He litterally addressed this in these two points did you read what he wrote? (To be clear, I am talking about actual women in the real world. I am well aware that Reddit is full of Truly Strong and Independent Women with no desire or need for male guidance and leadership.) (And yes, I am aware that among Redditors, a male-led roma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 04:17 AM |
| – | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealDo you apply this standard consistently? Are left wingers secretly massive homophobes and blue pill supporters secretly deeply misogynistic, or does this standard conveniently only apply when it makes people you don't agree with look bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 05:59 PM |
| 1 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealOk but what is more likely, that the vast majority of people who do this are just living in a contradiction or the vast majority enjoy pegging and think its good? Come on man this is simple logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 05:58 PM |
| 0 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealThats literally just made up, but again a republican convention does not mean everyone there is a republican, you are going to get thousands of people coming who are not politically aligned, people from the left and workers who work any large media event. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 05:52 PM |
| -1 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealits not a reach, you think the ppl who work in catering, camera technicians, event planning, transport, photography etc have some allegiance to either party. Its a reach to say they would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 05:49 PM |
| 1 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealYou are the perfect example of what im talking about, you dont believe this is true this is just your sexual fantasy. And a political cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 05:41 PM |
| -2 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealyes. Grinder chases every time large amounts of republicans gather. This is untruthful. While the top end politicians and thier aids are going to be different from democrats to republicans, the greater majority of wokers are not aligned and will work for both parties. And so grinder has spikes in users becuase politics in general just attracts gays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 05:35 PM |
| – | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealCompletely irrelevant comment, I said in most cases this is not true either agree or dissagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 05:26 PM |
| -1 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealHe doesn’t have to change. What is this female entitlement lmao, you guys want men to change. We dont want to change, you are supposed to be trying to convince us lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 05:23 PM |
| -3 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealexplain exactly what my argument was and how what you said refutes it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 04:14 AM |
| -6 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealfirstly completely false women have nagged up an entire social order to punish men who don't adhere to these values. But this is bedsides the point, women are the ones that want men to act this way not men. We dont want to change, women have said they want more emotionally sensitive men or more gender fluid etc. OPs argument is that since you women say you want this why don't you reward it? And if you are not willing to actually reward it so men act this way, why do you keep asking for it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 04:13 AM |
| -4 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealMost men already do not have access to regular casual sex and guess what loads of high ncount women exist. The reality is you are never going to get a population to adhere to something 100% of the time and a small % of men will allways get around. Therefore the responsibility is on women. Or - hear me out - stop expecting women to be your mommy and push/reward you to be good boys with special sex coins. What is this female entitlement lmao, you guys want men to change. We dont want to change, yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 04:04 AM |
| 0 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealIn reality, men push to see what they can get away with and want to rules lawyer their out of anything resembling accountability. You can be unmasculine without being a doormat. You can share your emotions without being volatile. Being fluid in your gender expression doesn't necessarily mean that you're pulling off the look. Dadbod doesn't mean fat and unhealthy. Assertiveness is a masculine trait if you are completely void of masculinity you are then by definition a door mat. That being said th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 04:02 AM |
| -2 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealWhat do my preferences have to do with allowing people the freedom to do those things? I don’t judge or socially ostracize a man who presents feminine / wears dresses, but I’m not attracted to those men either. Social acceptance ≠ women have to date them. Its not about women having to date anyone the point OP is making is if you want to see these values exist in society then you have to actually put your money where your mouth is and incentivise it. If you arent willing to then you ought to stop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 03:50 AM |
| -7 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealthere are dudes that want to get fucked in the ass by women while calling them mommy - and in the morning, the exact same guy will punch her in the face. This shit is just a blue pill feminist fantasy. Sure maybe 1 in 1000 are actually like this but almost every guy who actually likes to get pegged is going to be a liberal left wing male feminist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 03:49 AM |
| – | There is no reason for women to ever believe “men feel love through sex”.it doesn't you one thing being true does not make the inverse rule is also true. That's a logic fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.Instead of it having to be built up over a period of it me, which isn’t as exciting, unless the man doesn’t care much for sex. Also its just risky, as you are building up that attraction, which im sceptical you even can tbh, she is constantly going to be on the look out for a better deal and theres no garuntee she will even be into you enough at the end of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 02:25 AM |
| 2 | There is no reason for women to ever believe “men feel love through sex”.I have no idea what you are talking about stay on topic, and stop trying to pivot. This is very simple. This: "men have shown they will have sex with women they dont care about" Does not prove this: "There is no reason for women to ever believe “men feel love through sex”." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 03:43 AM |
| 1 | There is no reason for women to ever believe “men feel love through sex”.The point is your logic has failed, just becuase a rule must apply in one way doesn't mean the inverse has to also be true. Men being capable of no love + sex =/= men are capable of love + no sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 11:50 PM |
| 1 | There is no reason for women to ever believe “men feel love through sex”.This is a obvious logic fail, just becuase you can have sex without emotion doesn't mean that emotion isn't required for an emotional connection. That's like saying because you can eat without enjoying the food, enjoyment isn’t required for a great dining experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 11:40 PM |
| 1 | “Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex.nothing you said makes sense at all, all of those things have to do with the direct thing redpill focuses on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 03:13 AM |
| -1 | BP/Feminist society dishonestly pushes covert contracts on men when it benefits women and stigmatizes it when it benefits men. Whereas RP says to remove covert contracts entirely yet they are condemned for it.there was 100% expectations women just fulfilled their end of the bargain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 06:45 PM |
| -1 | BP/Feminist society dishonestly pushes covert contracts on men when it benefits women and stigmatizes it when it benefits men. Whereas RP says to remove covert contracts entirely yet they are condemned for it.Yes it was, firstly if you know someone is giving you things becuase they want to fuck which most women do then there is you acknowledging that this is a trade. You refusing to uphold your end of the bargain is does not change that. Secondly its allwasy been socially unacceptable for women to lead men on, this could only be true if there was an explicit understanding that a man giving a woman resources is him trying to fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 06:43 PM |
| 0 | BP/Feminist society dishonestly pushes covert contracts on men when it benefits women and stigmatizes it when it benefits men. Whereas RP says to remove covert contracts entirely yet they are condemned for it.yes it was until very recently you couldnt rape your wife in a lot of places, also socially women where shamed if they where overly reluctant to have sex with thier husbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 06:39 PM |
| -4 | BP/Feminist society dishonestly pushes covert contracts on men when it benefits women and stigmatizes it when it benefits men. Whereas RP says to remove covert contracts entirely yet they are condemned for it.However, the custom of the man paying for a date was never based on an exchange of money for sex. The custom was simply based on the fact women didn’t used to have their own money. No it was explicitly for sex as the reason women didn't have their own money is they traded sexual access for male resources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:04 AM |
| 3 | What’s keeping the red pill alive?totally understandable they would come to these conclusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 03:47 AM |
| 20 | What’s keeping the red pill alive?its not that RP doesnt care about incels, it doesnt care about anything becuase its not an ideaology its a praexeology. But most RPers as people have sympathy for those men who are truly at the bottom of the barrel, there just not much you can do without societal change, which RPers typically do not believe is possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 09:58 PM |
| 3 | What’s keeping the red pill alive?Because of human nature, having and illusion of fantastical ideals shattered by the truth, and that truth being that there are systems in place in society created to benefit others at your expense will result in a lot of resentment. Some guys just never crawl out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 09:55 PM |
| 5 | Why do many of the redpills here seem more concerned about dating and sex than issues that present actual physical dangers to men, like insufficient safety standards in male-dominant industries such as logging?Seriously did you even read his, he explained exactly why you where wrong in the first paragraph. TRP is not male feminism. It's not a collective movement to make every man on the planet better off and fix all of their problems. TRP is an aggregation of observations of womens behavior by men, for the goal of getting what men want out of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 05:26 AM |
| 6 | Men, why are you surprised that attractive women are attracted to attractive men af/bb? And should women feel the same?Then don’t be a bb. Stay single. 3rd option become red pill and get better quality women and better quality relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 04:49 AM |
| – | "Choose better" until men also have to choose better. Then that's just "female nature".So there are no terrible women, according to the redpill. You assume ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT. Women are products of their environment. I'm ending this conversation if you're gonna just straight up lie. I made a whole list of ways redpillers dont believe men should be held accountable, including wanting financial abortions. The entire point of redpill is giving men information so they can choose what they want to do. Informing people and allowing them to choose is the defintion of holding them re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 05:27 PM |
| -1 | Vague language is necessary for women’s world viewthis is a non sequitur actually engage with what is beind said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 03:21 AM |
| -1 | Vague language is necessary for women’s world viewThose men will almost always state exactly what they like becuase they know its not the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 02:23 AM |
| 1 | "Choose better" until men also have to choose better. Then that's just "female nature".You adrent adressing the point at all you are just arguing to argue. The point is redpill actually does empower men with personal responsibility for thier lives, if you aren't going to challenge that then move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Women do not understand deductive reasoningWrong and you are proving OP is correct that you don't understand. A generalization is when somone argues something is true in most cases and based on empirical data. You are trying to make statements that are true in all cases which are absolute statements. Stop dodging | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Women do not understand deductive reasoningWrong and you are proving OP is correct that you don't understand. A generalization is when somone argues something is true in most cases and based on empirical data. You are trying to make statements that are true in all cases which are absolute statements. You are dodging the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Women do not understand deductive reasoningWrong and you are proving OP is correct that you don't understand. A generalization is when somone argues something is true in most cases and based on empirical data. You are trying to make statements that are true in all cases which are absolute statements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Women do not understand deductive reasoningWrong and you are proving OP is correct that you don't understand. A generalization is when somone argues something is true in most cases and based on empirical data. You are trying to make statements that are true in all cases which are absolute statements. Also your argument is incoherent, if all women's beauty standards are set by society then all women's preferences would be the same, so they would all like the same guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 04:14 PM |
| -3 | Women do not understand deductive reasoningyou just said a whole lot of nothing proving OPs point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 04:02 PM |
| 0 | Other than physical contact, there is no difference between a friendship and relationship.Massive differences in social intimacy between friendships and relationships what are you talking about. I swear women on this sub just make posts to lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 04:00 PM |
| 4 | Do men underestimate how often women are optimizing for risk reduction rather than attraction?"reading vibes" is the problem lmao, you shouldn't be reading vibes you should be looking for concrete signs and patterns of behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Do men underestimate how often women are optimizing for risk reduction rather than attraction?There are highly violent criminals with multiple baby mothers. Also a lot of good looking serial killers get tons of female fans, oh and chris brown still has a majority female fanbase. Finally every woman seems to have some sort of abuse story. Women do not give a shit about danger, this is just an excuse to be mean to men they are not attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 03:05 PM |
| 1 | "Choose better" until men also have to choose better. Then that's just "female nature".See, thing is. Most men dont pursue those women to begin with. Most of them are quite willing to compromise on wanting immediate sex to prioritize finding a woman that isn’t fucking around. Yes becuase a chaste woman is worth waiting for, a 304 is not. You do realize plenty of women who were sluts end up married, right? Plenty of the men do know that she used to sleep around. Despite what you guys think, they’re usually fucking a lot and the women are usually very hot. "Plenty" of people literal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 02:56 PM |
| 1 | "Choose better" until men also have to choose better. Then that's just "female nature".This is so wrong not even your sentence makes any sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 04:40 PM |
| 0 | "Choose better" until men also have to choose better. Then that's just "female nature".Men do not complain about hyper sexual women being hyper sexual, we complain about hyper sexual women being total hoes and then deciding they want to be taken seriously or trying to cash out using some beta that doesnt know better. We are totally fine with you guys being whores we just want you to stay whores and be whores for everyone not just Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 04:25 PM |
| 2 | It’s not a bad thing to be focused more on the woman’s pleasure than your ownLiterally lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 04:23 PM |
| 3 | "Choose better" until men also have to choose better. Then that's just "female nature".yes AWALT becuase of the society they where born into, and so there is no point complaining about it, you need to figure out how to win inspite of a broken system. Unlike blue pill feminism redpill actually places responsibility on men to make better choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Why do men feel so negatively towards OnlyFans creators?I do think that letting other people managing the content and then asking men for nudes is wrong and should not happen. Most OF creators are doing this and almost all of the large ones, so by that fact do you agree that its entirely ok to have a negative perspective on OF girls? But if someone thinks an OF creator is their friend, that’s his own stupidity. Obviously a real friend doesn’t require payment to talk to them. Exactly it is obvious to a normal person of sound mind, so if they truly bel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 04:19 PM |
| 4 | Men Shouldn't Complain About Being Locked out of Casual Sex if They Think it's bad for WomenOk well then your argument is self defeating, if you say the truth of who someone is is determined by patterns of behaviours they exhibit, then looking at their past determines the most truth about them, as the past shows the longest pattern of behaviours. If you are admitting that you would rather stereotype someone than get to know them, then you are telling me you don’t have the skill or ability to observe them accurately. This is cope. You just feel entitled to men giving you loads of chance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 05:24 AM |
| 0 | Why do men feel so negatively towards OnlyFans creators?Yes it is 100% fake. Firstly these women are trying to make money, a lot of these OF girls truly are trying to convince very lonely men that they are their friends to milk them for more money. Secondly a lot of these OF girls are under companies who take most of their money, but also they outsource all the message correspondence. Meaning these OF girls are asking thier subs to send in their nudes and sexual messages, but then these men are having all of their private sexual images read and seen … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 05:13 AM |
| 8 | Why do men feel so negatively towards OnlyFans creators?FFS OP you clearly don't know how the business of OF works or what peoples objections to it, so instead of getting defensive, just listen be educated since you clearly don't know the first thing about this and accept what people say. Why even ask a question if you are immediately going to act this dishonestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 04:58 AM |
| 37 | It’s not a bad thing to be focused more on the woman’s pleasure than your ownI don't even know what the point of this post was | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 04:51 AM |
| 3 | "Choose better" until men also have to choose better. Then that's just "female nature".What the hell are you talking all redpill is, is empowering men with knowledge to make better choices. This is entirely projection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 04:45 AM |
| 8 | "Choose better" until men also have to choose better. Then that's just "female nature".It's never "Men, you should be watch out for manipulative women who'd cheat on you with some hot broke dude", What are you talking about all of redpill is teaching men how to avoid terrible women and leverage themselves better in relationships. Its like you guys never listen to anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Men Shouldn't Complain About Being Locked out of Casual Sex if They Think it's bad for WomenObservation of who the person currently is will always give you more data than past information because current observation is irrefutable. You cannot personally observe the past, so you cannot confirm it to be true, any prediction you make is using outdated or irrelevant information. This just isn't true, becuase it assumes that women are honest and that who they present themselves as now can just be trusted or is at least to any degree trust worthy, but its not. You need historical data to det… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 04:42 AM |
| 4 | If it was about women being consistent with their sexual behavior, then it would make more sense for men to pursue women who makes everyone wait for sex.I'm growing more and more suspicious that you guys dont know how to actually vet women. And you guys just assume all women are sleeping around to justify expecting casual sex. no its more like if a woman doesnt show overwhelming signs that she is actually chaste we just assume she trends to the norm. But the real issue is the premise of this argument to begin with. Women especially are not owed the benefit of the doubt from men, women put an extreme amount of time and effort into thier apearence… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 05:54 AM |
| -5 | What do you think about some women being happy single and “not needing men”?Its largely just lies, double the amount of young women to young men are on depression medication. Also I think these takes are incredibly narcissistic, as they are saying that they wont date a man unless he fits entirely around their current life and improves it. Forget being a whole other person with your own preferences and standards, to her you aren't good enough unless you live entirely to fulfil her needs or she would rather die alone and depressed. And the inverse implication of this is t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 05:44 AM |
| 12 | Women are not owed anything pt2 - collective amnesiaYour not expected to rescue anyone, but you are expected to treat your fellow human beings respectfully, which includes not blaming them for others actions against them That is not true as OP points out society does in deed pressure men to rescue women whether it be calling out other guys for cat calling or changing how we communicate to make them comfortable. This goes beyond respect becuase respect to me as a man is treating someone as an equal, coddling and being concerned over someone is not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 11:22 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: what is something you think guys overestimate women care about in dating?Not true, they made an affirmative argument in a debate sub. You just don't believe your arguments can stand up to scrutiny so you do this dishonest nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 12:11 AM |
| 8 | Q4M: what is something you think guys overestimate women care about in dating?Its dishonest, you disagree but instead of being open and honest with a rebuttal which opens you up to be criticised, you feign ignorance so you can undermine what he says without threat of being challenged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 11:04 PM |
| – | How many of the large red pill influencers are actually just trolls?Yes it literally is, its anyone who doesn't ascribe to red or black pill, becuase they believe in the normie conventional ideas about dating. Its not just people who specifically identify as blue pill. Additionally this argument is non important anyway since the question is whether or not redpill content creation is a good economic decsion, a so you quibling on what is BP misses the point. As long as the economics of going RP make less sense then not then i win the argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 10:54 PM |
| 9 | Q4M: what is something you think guys overestimate women care about in dating?You are not curious lmao the entire rest of this chain is just you dissagreeing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 10:21 PM |
| – | How many of the large red pill influencers are actually just trolls?no he was on the young turks then he started streaming now hes getting interviewed by msm and going to red carpets. But its not just him all of mainstream media and culture is bluepill, so litterally take your pick of rich celebs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 07:44 PM |
| – | How many of the large red pill influencers are actually just trolls?Hasan piker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Do men have an evolutionary deficiency that makes them less sexually lucrative to women? Or does it vary by the times were in?Not really becuase hwne it comes to success until very recently and even arguably now the winner kind of takes it all. And men are more likely to have tons of kids, so overall id bet if you did the math the avg man probably has more kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 01:09 AM |
| 1 | How many of the large red pill influencers are actually just trolls?This is a dodge, even though it actually supports my argument. If one of the biggest red pill figures you highlighted only managed to survive early on because her parents could financially support her, that alone undermines the claim that red pill content is an especially lucrative grift. Myron from Fresh and Fit is an even clearer counterexample. He was making six figures at the FBI, with strong long term prospects, a good pension, good healthcare, and other benefits. He gave all of that up to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:53 AM |
| 1 | How many of the large red pill influencers are actually just trolls?Actually yes lets look at pearl, every year her channel is at risk of YouTube just nuking it and fully demonesting everything, also at best she could what? Get on another larger podcasts, where she is at now is basically the celling for her unless she creates something herself. Compare that to someone like drew afuelo, who's entire schtick is literally just hating on men, she's now hosted Oscar recarpets been in mainstream music artists music videos. She signed to Spotify and now is paid to do a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 03:56 PM |
| -1 | How many of the large red pill influencers are actually just trolls?No occams razor is more relevant. What is more likely? Someone who is purely seeking money chose to make a business in redpill where chances of censorship are high, social cost from large growth is high, the ceiling for your business is low since established media sees you as toxic. You also have no friends outside of RP since conservatives will attack you at any chance they can. Or blue pill where basically no matter what you say social media platforms will not ban or censor you, in fact they w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 03:45 PM |
| 1 | How many of the large red pill influencers are actually just trolls?if they watned money why wouldnt they do bluepill stuff | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 03:33 PM |
| 2 | How many of the large red pill influencers are actually just trolls?I guess many of those red pill influencers don’t actually believe in any of the stuff they say. They just found a lucrative niche where saying some vile/silly/outrageous shit on the internet yields you a comfortable income. Likely very few, you libs and blue pillers, no pillers whatever; have to abandon this conspiracy theory all of the people you dissagree with are grifters and trolls. Becuase its not your side that gets content removed, channels demonestised, censored different platforms for e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 03:33 PM |
| – | Q4M: Do most men really want trophy wives/gfs (or bfs if they’re gay/bi)?Most men are attracted to women in thier 20s, even boys who are younger then 20 prefer women in thier 20s to the girls thier own age. Women at that age are just optimal in terms of appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 10:05 PM |
| 0 | Do men not seek companionship out of a relationship ? If that's the case, what's the reasoning ?But it’s definitely not true for everybody. Its not important to talk about anomalies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 01:09 AM |
| 13 | Why do women gaslight men so much?Because its generally not true. Most people, including women, conform to the norm. This image women like to paint of everyone having a different opinion in equal numbers is a fantasy pushed by women so that they can lie without getting called out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 01:20 AM |
| – | Nobody is trying to get you to lower your standards, dating is a free marketWomen choose to become mothers so a surrogate and a nanny are not necessary. You don't get choice without responsibility. Also women can work and provide for themselves so providers are not necessary either, they can make enough money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 08:38 PM |
| – | Nobody is trying to get you to lower your standards, dating is a free marketHaving a child is ultimately a woman’s choice, so it is also her responsibility. That does not justify a preference for men who earn more than she does. A woman could just as easily choose a partner who earns 10% to 20% less than her, save aggressively before having a child, and then rely on the father’s income plus savings while she temporarily leaves the workforce. She could then re enter work later. Also just economically, your logic doesnt hold. Most relationships are already close to 50 50 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 12:18 PM |
| – | How Red Pill Alpha guys are worsening the situation for menthats not true, the vast majority of men have no idea what they are doing when it comes to women, even attractive guys. Also most women are natural simps which is why thye hate RP, so if you can levage your value and not simp yourself you can get a good looking girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 12:02 PM |
| -1 | Most men do not want “direct” unflattering communication from womenThats not really true, ultimately men want respectful communication which honesty is a component of, the other components are usually just assumed to be there which is why men focus on honesty and being direct. The issue you are facing OP is that you are probably are honest but not respectful, for example a woman might tell a man a harsh truth but she will tell it without acknowledging that she will never have to experience that issue. That is honest sure but its disrespectful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Nobody is trying to get you to lower your standards, dating is a free marketWomen have finical freedom now and they are meant to be equal members of society. So its not reasonable for them to date in the same manor before those things where true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 11:58 PM |
| 7 | Why lesbians sexuality seems less fluid than straight women's?wouldn't be surprised if it was a lot of denial, lesbians go through a lot to come out the other end as gay, it would bet a lot even if they did like a guy did not want to admit it just on the sheer principle of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 05:20 AM |
| 9 | Feminist online spaces are increasingly unable to take critique.This isnt a feminsit way of thinking its a female one, this is an aspect of toxic femininity that early feminism was ironically trying to hold women to account for, but later waves basically minimised that notion and so here we are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 03:31 AM |
| 4 | Can the average man tolerate a woman being better at something than he is?dude you need to learn how to get to the damn point and I dont understand how these two annectdotes give you any inclination on the avg man, OP the avg man is most of the men you litterally see walking out of your door do you really think 51+% of those men conform to this story? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Is there any hope for "good guys"?So the main issue is to stay off these spaces and just be your own person If you have to run away from criticism you aren't really confident | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 03:24 AM |
| 9 | Why should "consent to sex isn't consent to Parenthood" only apply to women?you can’t just abandon your child however you want, if you put it in a trashcan for example you will be charged. ... It’s also only allowed for babies you can’t take a 5 year old to a safe haven drop box, and even giving it up for adoption only really works as a baby, we don’t really have orphanages for older kids these days only social homes which are when children are taken away. so if there was a specific time window and proper procedure you would support men being able to opt out of parentho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 09:30 PM |
| 1 | How should men react in an age of female expendability?I don't really believe you but for the sake of argument lets say you are telling the truth. All this back and forth we are doing now its theorcrafting its not real. The real proof is that moment, and most people when the are seriously forced to consider all the things they could loose as well as the pure fear of dying, do not choose death. So it really is a universal sentiment, all human life is a precious gift and even if its tainted through massive trauma its still worth keeping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 08:45 PM |
| 1 | How should men react in an age of female expendability?Men literally use to hunt and still do hunt dangerous wild animals some of them several tons and often times without fire arms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 08:42 PM |
| 1 | How should men react in an age of female expendability?No this is just something people say becuase they cant really conceive of what it feels like when your life is really on the line. When that moment comes 99 times out of 100 people choose life over brutal murder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 07:54 PM |
| 0 | How should men react in an age of female expendability?Still better then being brutally murdered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 07:31 PM |
| 6 | Red pillers, why do you have such weird ideas about what consitutes “nice”?This is not what a nice guy is, a nice guy is a guy who's been suckered into the blue pill fantasy of massively over valuing women and massively under valuing himself, which results in him being overly altruistic even when he gets no reciprocity in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 07:18 PM |
| 0 | Would you date a man who makes less than you?you jsut completely misrepresented what I said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 04:43 AM |
| 0 | Would you date a man who makes less than you?yeah ofc you like financial responsibility it means you never have to worry about providing and yeah you can say you would, but the fact that most women are not ok with providing, want men who earn more then them and coupled with the fact that you volunteered this information completely unprompted doesn't really paint the picture that you would really be ok with it long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 04:37 AM |
| 0 | How should men react in an age of female expendability?Hillary Clinton was in charge of the US war in libyia and by in charge I mean to this day she takes credit for leading US into that war with Qaddafi's government. Also for a good amount of the GWOT there where mostly or entirely women CEO's of the US military industrial complex companies and business went on as usual. And finally I female monarchs where more likely to declare war then male ones <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:54 PM |
| 0 | Would you date a man who makes less than you?it is about the money becuase you clearly aren't going to be willing to provide, also the fact that you make it a point to mention he was super responsible with his money suggest to me you actually really wanted him to earn more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight?Firstly your study is 2decades old, which is important becuase my study shows a trend upwards for husband share of domestic work. Secondly from your study This study uses newly collected time diary data to assess gender differences in both quantity and quality of free time, including measures of contamination of free time by nonleisure activities such as household chores, the fragmentation of free time, and how frequently children's needs must be accommodated during free-time activities. So your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a man who makes less than you?ok but what if he was never going to make more then you? Thats more inline with OP's question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:12 PM |
| 1 | How should men react in an age of female expendability?we've all always been expendable If that where true you would be conscripted for war. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:11 PM |
| 0 | How should men react in an age of female expendability?ok and there are still countries today where a roving army will come in kill all the men and the women will be spared. Infact in ukr the men are sent to die by drone bomb while the girls in their class get to claim asylum in Germany and party in berlin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:11 PM |
| 6 | Nobody is trying to get you to lower your standards, dating is a free marketthe avg woman is not asking for the bare minimum, she makes an avg amount per year and wants someone who makes above avg salary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight?<image> Also notice how men have caught up in domestic work but women still work less professionally, so feminism has just made husbands work more overall. edit: dont try to shift the goal post now that ive provided the source, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:01 PM |
| 5 | Men who think the ability to do sex work is a "female privilege" vastly overestimate the *economic* feasibility of sex work for the average womanthe avg man is allready willing to pay to go on a date with the avg woman in the hopes of having sex, so depending on the place and the man he could be spending a relatively similar amount of money with a lower chance sex and a higher time investment. So hes definitely doing to be willing to pay a bit more for guaranteed sex at less time investment. Also idk if you have seen sex workers but most of them are not 10/10, infact a knew a girl who was like a 6/10 and she was a sugar baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight?So if modern females handle the childcare, the food, take care of the home, and work for their $, what exactly does a male add to their lives? She actually doesnt men do almost as much domestic work as women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 10:51 PM |
| 0 | Alot of women gaslight men forreasons they don't make the first move.nope the two groups aren't the same, there's outside evidence suggesting showing pretty strongly that the avg white man is not racist there's not in this case for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Men do not have “genuine desire” for their partners in the way they want for themselvesIf you dont want to you need to make your postion immediately clear on start of the debate, doing it after as you are trying to do now isnt valid and I have no reason to believe you arent just trying to pivot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Men do not have “genuine desire” for their partners in the way they want for themselvesThis is a lie, and I know its al ie becuase you are supposed to be defending the idea that women never lust after men who aren't their husband. So you trying to minimise them doing so shows you are just arguing to disagree rather then saying anything that defends a position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 05:19 AM |
| 4 | Men do not have “genuine desire” for their partners in the way they want for themselvesWhen these women say they shave their legs in the comments explaining that they do it they literally say things like "you never know" or "just in case". Its very clear they are lusting after the artist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 01:05 AM |
| 0 | Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself.You can’t expect women to sympathize with you when your framing makes it sound like you want to use and manipulate women, not love them. You cant expect men to care about women's sympathy when they have demonstrated time and time again that its just not on offer for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 12:27 AM |
| 7 | What hoops do you have to jump through while trying to date?I think I just missed the window because I have to show full interest to convince a girl to give me a chance, so there's not really space for me to make up my mind. The only successes I've had are because I didn't bother with expressing myself beyond saying I liked the girl, every other time I was doing too much or too little I guess. You didn't miss a window, these girls never liked you, And even if some of them may have considered you an option to some degree, they didn't respect you becuase t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 12:24 AM |
| 20 | What hoops do you have to jump through while trying to date?This shit is why young guys especially need to give up earlier, generally if you ever have doubts she's not into you, just cut it. Because 99 times out of 100 this shit happens, where she was just too much of a coward to give another person the basic respect to tell them she's not interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 12:16 AM |
| -1 | Men do not have “genuine desire” for their partners in the way they want for themselvesdo you have any evidence to back this up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Men do not have “genuine desire” for their partners in the way they want for themselvesEven the loyal men stare at women in public and follow thirst traps online. This is rich becuase married women will literally shave their legs to go to concerts and tons of women with BFs and husbands pay shit tons of money to take pictures with male artists like Chris Brown. This isn't Disney fairy tale its real life, relationships are a intellectual and emotional commitment its not a neutering of your sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 12:10 AM |
| -5 | Alot of women gaslight men forreasons they don't make the first move.most of these are baits for clicks. Yeah no becuase there are tons of videos with no views parroting this stuff, women in the comments agreeing etc. You cant just brush off shit that is embarrassing women, you have to concede and take the L or defend it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 12:03 AM |
| 0 | On Systemizing the Debate of x Pill Topicswhat claim am I making and why does it require evidence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Woman are actually pretty bad at filtering.no you arent getting it this is key aprt of the topic. You cant challenge the basic point of contention, if you want to do that make your own post challenging those ideas. It like coming into a debate about star-wars and saying "but what if we talked about marvel comics". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 09:18 PM |
| 0 | It's not reasonable to expect young women to have fully flushed out and mature standards in men out the gate<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Woman are actually pretty bad at filtering.Who cares if she rejects 50 nice guys just cuz she is 22 You should becuase thats a key part of the point of contention if you dont then your argument is defacto invalid becuase you aren't addressing the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 09:09 PM |
| 1 | On Systemizing the Debate of x Pill TopicsNo if someone presents a piece of evidence and you can't definitively disprove its validity then the argument stands. Moreover trying to seed doubt about the validity of an argument without refuting it is incredibly dishonest becuase it shows you want to attack an argument without exposing your own arguments to scrutiny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 09:08 PM |
| 4 | On Systemizing the Debate of x Pill TopicsFrom the actual company who was reporting their user metrics. So unless you prove ok cupid was just lying or can argue thier same size is biased in some way its valid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 07:43 PM |
| 3 | On Systemizing the Debate of x Pill TopicsNo this is entirely wrong. You cannot say anything about humanity that is accurate to 100% of cases, besides maybe base facts like "all humans are human". There will always be outliers as that is the nature of natural beings. Moreover even making a statement that is almost entirely accurate likely will require like paragraphs of qualifiers. Its just not feasible, we need generalizations. Also just as a point of order, adults ought to be able to understand context clues to grasp what the context … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 07:41 PM |
| -3 | It's not reasonable to expect young women to have fully flushed out and mature standards in men out the gateI guess but at the same time women completely reject the idea of their fathers or older male relatives making dating choices for them as well as wanting to be respected as adults. So you don't really get to hide behind the "I'm just a girl" excuse. And before the angry women and blue pillers chime in, im not saying we should go back to this, im saying young women should own their shit if there going to be adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Woman are actually pretty bad at filtering.im not challenging his point so thats to be determined, im only challenging yours. If you cant then I rest my case that your criticism is defeated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 05:17 AM |
| 1 | How Red Pill Alpha guys are worsening the situation for menyour analogy doesnt work becuase the numbers are too low. Its more like 100 men and 100 women. the top 15 men are naturally attractive and get easy access to thier pick of the litter the rest of the 85 are less on a sliding scale. BP is wrong becuase it presumes that a guy in the middle cant climb but he can, becuase the rest of the 99 guys ultimately have very little idea what makes women attracted to men or how to maximise that attraction which redpill allows you to do. Also BP hyper focuses o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 04:46 AM |
| 0 | Woman are actually pretty bad at filtering.No it doesn't, becuase im calling out your critique for not having evidence not his, so you cant offset this burden. Either im right and you can't prove what you are saying or you can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Women Are Completely Fine With Admitting that they are a Monolith - Provided that the Generalization is not UnflatteringIn general, I don’t think people (all humans, men and women) are concerned about flattering/neutral generalizations. An example - male members of a certain race have generally been fine with the notion that they are bigger “down there” 🤷🏽♀️ That's not true at all, men will largely accept negative truthful and accurate generalisations, women however will almost always reject a negative generalisation even when truthful and accurate, and will over generalise anything that can be used to their adv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 04:27 AM |
| 5 | Women Are Completely Fine With Admitting that they are a Monolith - Provided that the Generalization is not UnflatteringAre you willing to admit that sexual assault is not a womens issue since not all women experience it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Woman are actually pretty bad at filtering.how does this prove that statistically women are good at filtering(which is the point you are supposed to be defending). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 04:18 AM |
| 0 | Woman are actually pretty bad at filtering.Your argument only works against OPs point if you can prove all women in successful relationships didn't reject guys for mostly superficial reasons, and if those women outnumber the women that do. If you cant both of those things do so that then you fail to prove women are good at filtering. Bringing up the times when women in successful relationships rejected guys for legitimate reasons is irrelevant and is you just arguing to argue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 04:17 AM |
| -1 | Woman are actually pretty bad at filtering.Even that doesn't disprove OPs point. As even a woman that choose a good man doesn't necessarily mean she didn't reject a bunch of good ones as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Woman are actually pretty bad at filtering.Which of these scenarios best explains why single women seem to date so many bad guys: None but 2 is the closest. The real reason is that women are drawn to superficial aspects of men for relationships just like men are drawn to those aspects for sex. And when you have really high standards in those things like money, height, status, you simply cant afford to be selective at all for important stuff because otherwise you will never end up with anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you think male dominated hobbies and spaces should stay male dominated?Isn't that the only standard you need when it comes to enjoying something? You have already admitted that you dislike sexualised women in games. Your preference directly biases your judgment, so your opinion on whether there has been excessive reduction is not a reliable at all. Its like a blind man acting as if he should be listened to about whether or not the movie screen is too dark. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Do you think male dominated hobbies and spaces should stay male dominated?something hurting you isn't really a valid standard. For all I know you could be ok with 100% feminisation, or just not be totally ok with major feminisation. That being said SF has definitely suffered, if you look at the new movie the actor choices for chunli and cammy are really toned down, neither of the actors have the big overtly sexual features which characterise the characters. And much more importantly SF is abit of an island. MK, soul calibur as well as others definetly are. Mk specific… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 05:39 PM |
| 4 | Do you think male dominated hobbies and spaces should stay male dominated?If I enjoy something I just enjoy it in places where people enjoy it the same way as me Logically this just doesn't make sense if the greater culture is artificially changed by activists, becuase they believe its a moral good to make the hobby appeal to women, there's no reason why they would leave your little corner alone. You would be a hold out of immorality to them. Also this just hasn't panned out in practice, take voice chats, fps games have had a really masculine culture of chatting shit … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.I dissagree I think if you are a bluebiller or purple pill you should try to change women becuase part of your ideology is changing society for the better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 01:58 PM |
| – | Some men dont hold conversations and creepy behavior is a legitimate issue.For me to even answer this question I would have to believe A. you have actually heard these things said to you seriously and B. for this to be what you mean when you say creepy behaviour. And as I said before when you lie over and over and over its hard to take any report seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 06:22 PM |
| 5 | Some men dont hold conversations and creepy behavior is a legitimate issue.Ok but as the other guy pointed out, i can find 100 women online who will says a guy just coming up to her in the gym is creepy. Unfortunately OP women in general have cried wolf so much we just do not care, you need to be better at self policing then maybe men will care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 07:52 PM |
| – | Apparently women are going on dates with men who ask them no questions backWomen are complete simps for men who are hsv then them and know it. Its why they call RP or just men valuing themsleves gay so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 07:49 PM |
| 1 | The economy and rising costs are influencing women's 'six figure' standardsThis isnt true really at all, 51% of marriages are male breadwinner marriages(man earns 60% or more of family inc) yet no where near even half of women are willing to take the back seat and really be a submissive woman. On the opposite side, women are way less attracted to men they have to provide for or that they would be equal partners with. So the implication behind this argument, that women are simply looking for a fair arrangement where relationship agency and financial responsibility are a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.Looking to get a date out every interaction you have with a woman just makes you look desperate as shit. Yeah that's what lying is for, men think like this and pretend not to becuase our societal norms around dating and relationships are way too casual and frankly completely dysfunctional. It's not unintentional to socialize with women in hopes you might find one you want to ask out that also wants you to ask her out. it is becuase you have no intentions going into the interaction of what end re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 05:32 AM |
| 9 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.This sounds like literal fanfiction. Its also not intentional. Intentionality means you do the entire seeking and courting process with intention not just when you have a confirmed prospect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Why aren't red pill men actually adapting anymore?this is just you doing the same thing again support or agree with the positions put forth im not going to engage with your straw men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't red pill men actually adapting anymore?nothing you have said really addressed the arguments I made you have just inferred conclusions I never made and then have pretended as if those where my positions so you could argue against them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 07:21 PM |
| 25 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.Its not even this, they know how to give good advice women literally just do not want men to be good at attracting women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 06:55 PM |
| 21 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.If you join a hobby, hopefully it's because your'e generally interested in trying something new. Obviously you can have in the back of your mind like, oh it'd be cool to meet new people and possibly a potential partner by putting myself out there into a new environment. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. If you went to pottery and had chemistry and good conversation with a girl there, why not ask her out? Everything is wrong with this and highlights the point OP is making. You are b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 06:53 PM |
| 20 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.You simply don't, you go to places where your primary objective is always something else but meeting a man is a potential occurrence. Looking actually has to be your primary objective to say you are looking for something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 06:48 PM |
| 2 | The overwhelming majority of women don't initiate or make the first moves because they are cowards.Its not cultural differences, no matter what culture you are in humans don't like romantic rejection and therefore if women rely on only waiting for men their options pool will be overwhelmingly the men that have a lot of options and so know they have a high chance of getting a yes or the men that simply do not give a fuck. So actually if womne approached they could likely 10x the amount of quality male prospects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 10:35 PM |
| 1 | The overwhelming majority of women don't initiate or make the first moves because they are cowards.You contradicted yourself if men are not approaching as much anymore then objectively women need to approach more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 10:27 PM |
| 1 | How comfortable would you be if you found out the person you were dating had “lowered their standards” for you or “was giving you a chance”?Yes. No one is born for anyone else we all make compromises. In fact if she is not settling I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with her, because it demonstrate a lack of self confidence to even yearn for things of great value and then a lack of maturity to realise that you don't have to get everything you want to still be happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 10:12 PM |
| 1 | How comfortable would you be if you found out the person you were dating had “lowered their standards” for you or “was giving you a chance”?I don’t think this is the case at all. I think it’s just what you prioritize. Prioritising is saying some things you want are not worth having if you have to sacrifice other more important things, aka you are settling for an imperfect partner becuase what they offer is valuable enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 10:10 PM |
| 2 | How comfortable would you be if you found out the person you were dating had “lowered their standards” for you or “was giving you a chance”?I think this is completely ridiculous, settling is just comprising and you simply can't be a good partner to anyone if you aren't effective at comprising since no one is born to be anyone else's partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 10:07 PM |
| 7 | Why aren't red pill men actually adapting anymore?No, actually, the reason we can comment is because our mothers and grandmothers got off their asses and did something, rather than sit around and complain. No they just complained, they didn't take over any countries and forcefully institute feminist laws, they just complained. Granted activism is more then just sitting on reddit and talking about issues, but the only reason feminist activism was possible is becuase society is actually sympathetic to women issues. Otherwise you literally have to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 02:56 AM |
| 2 | Why aren't red pill men actually adapting anymore?No, it's probably more like black pill, which I learned in this post. I am specifically only talking to resentful men who hate women and have resigned to live that way. I was not attempting to generalize. I don't think you are recognising resentfulness, I think you just rationalising things that offend you as such becuase emotionally its easier to just dismiss, then it is to sit with the fact that someone offended you and was right. And finally, debating for the sake of understanding is not the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Why aren't red pill men actually adapting anymore?Ok if you came to the sub with the mentality that redpill = resentment, then you obviously haven't identified any actual resentment you just have a pre convinced bias that anyone that disagrees with you must be resentful as a cope. Your second point is literally due to this being a debate sub which was literally your first point... I have nothing to say to people who agree with me. What are we going to do, circle jerk? So if you accept that you can't do anything but complain and debate on this s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 02:19 AM |
| 6 | Why aren't red pill men actually adapting anymore?Yeah this just isn't true, you are just miss characterising arguments you don't like as "complaining" becuase you can't refute the points being made. Also its rich as a woman talking on the internet to say men shouldn't complain when the only reason you can post on the internet right now is because women of the past complained on your behalf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 02:08 AM |
| 7 | Why aren't red pill men actually adapting anymore?OP your argument makes no sense. You come to a debate sub specifically made to allow RP men to debate these issues that's why you see men "whine and complain about women". Also when would you ever knowingly interact with an RP man who didn't talk about these things? Your argument is basically just you not understanding selection bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Why aren't red pill men actually adapting anymore?OP you have literally come to a debate sub, its so ofc people are going to be bringing up points about how society is not serving men what the hell kind of point is this. Also im pretty sure its against the rules of this sub to just say "my life is great in this way" and for everyone to just agree. Finally OP you are not going to interact with any of the men who dont complain becuase you specifically seak out RP men who dissagree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 02:01 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm on the fence apparently the police fabricated some shit and they made up a statement from his mother about him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 07:29 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵But if people hate insurance companies so much that no one will convict him then it doesn't really matter outside of a personal moral sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 07:21 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It doesn't really matter. The public and by extension juries for the most part will side with whoever they think is morally in the right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 07:04 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Hi I sent you a message about a user whos trolling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 06:34 PM |
| – | If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting itWhy would I be embarrassed, I asked for evidence and couldn't provide it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 05:12 PM |
| – | If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting itYeah I didnt becuase I asked for evidence not for you to link your favourite anti rollo hate videos. If something in these videos actually proves what you are saying you should be able to link to specific time stamps. The fact that you didnt tells me there is nothing in these videos that proves your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 05:08 PM |
| 1 | It's All Prostitutionno its not a big deal becuase the question is "is this woman having sex for money" and if the answer is almost certainly yes then It doesn't really matter if the chance is 100% or nearly 100%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 04:56 PM |
| 1 | It's All Prostitution51% of marriages are the male breadwinner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 04:54 PM |
| – | If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting itThis doesn't refute either of my points. Nothing in these videos somehow proves that this timeline is serious or even begin to substantiate its claims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 05:17 AM |
| 3 | It's All Prostitutionlets say your right, litterally who cares, if their is an over like 70% chance of money provided and sex given in return then difference isnt meaningful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 05:12 AM |
| 0 | It's All ProstitutionI also bring that to the table myself, No you dont becuase you are not going to be the breadwinner long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 05:10 AM |
| – | If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting it<image> Im just not going to take this seriously when the first point on this chart is this. Also where the fuck does this even come from? im not trusting some random graphic lol. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 05:07 AM |
| – | If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting itRollo tomasi has been married for like 2 decades and I think he has a daughter or two | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 04:38 AM |
| – | How often do you have to communicate what you want during sex?Nah I think most people would rather have good sex with people they like then whatever you are coping about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 09:02 PM |
| 0 | How often do you have to communicate what you want during sex?As I matured I realize orgasms aren't really the best part of sex but a fun and optional part. <image> this is nonsense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare.Anecdotally I had dreads for most of my late teens. RIP, yeah traction alopecia killed your ass. You just cant do dreads or cornrows long term man, you got to dip in and out of that shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 09:51 PM |
| 0 | The Manosphere does not care about men's issues: Bi-men editionRP brings up bi men only to illustrate women’s bigotry and dating preferences, because those preferences affect how women treat all men. It doesn't explore other issues because those are specific to LGBT men, who are like 2% of men, and so is not relevant to the general man. Just like how I wouldn't expect to go into spaces for gay men and for them to talk about paternity fraud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 09:47 PM |
| 3 | The Manosphere does not care about men's issues: Bi-men editionBut for all the men who post on Reddit about the stigma bi men face at the hands of women outside of bisexual subs, exactly zero ever post about the stigma they face from other men or the much more serious issues bi men face like mental health. That's because the manosphere does not care about men's issues, they only care about bashing women and feminists. RP is about heterosexual dating and relationships, not niche problems that maybe 1 in 100 people will ever directly experience. What matters … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 05:00 AM |
| 4 | The Manosphere does not care about men's issues: Bi-men editionhttps://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1ncqq13/comment/ndc2pfc/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button you already got somone who debunked ur debunk in the comments lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 04:37 AM |
| 5 | The Manosphere does not care about men's issues: Bi-men editionOp your post is cope. The 63% number comes from glamour magazine, its not some RW think tank its a womens news outlet, if anything its probably higher since glamours readership is progressive women. https://www.glamour.com/story/glamour-sexuality-survey Secondly the stat is backed up by a good amount of other studies and surveys showing that most women think bi men are more feminine then straight men as well as namely this survey from yougov which shows about 61% of women would not be comfortabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerNatural selection is the interaction between mating preferences and environmental constraints that limit and shape those preferences. Take peacocks as an example. Female peacocks evolved to prefer males with large, elaborate plumage because it signals fitness. Growing and maintaining those feathers requires a lot of energy and makes escape from predators harder. Only males that are genuinely fit can survive despite this handicap. As a result, males with large plumage mate more often, while males… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Its not biphobic to not date bi menIts 100% homophobia they just don't want to come out and say they think bi men are really just gay or they think having sex with men makes a man feminine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:30 AM |
| 3 | Its not biphobic to not date bi menYou can say this OP but the data shows that most women do actually think that bi men are more feminine than straight men Results indicated that heterosexual women rated bisexual men as less sexually and romantically attractive, less desirable to date and have sex with, and less masculine compared to straight men. https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/15299716.2018.1563935?journalCode=wjbi20 And if you connote that with the fact that most women find masculine men more attractive then femini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:26 AM |
| 4 | Its not biphobic to not date bi menId say its more so, you can have whatever preference you want but your freedom of choice is not protect your reasoning from being shamed or condemned. In this case the data shows that most women consider bi men as more feminine then straight men and therefore it must be assumed that most women who do not want to date bi men are doing it for homophobic reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:12 AM |
| 3 | Why does it seem like only in pill communities are men failing with women?placate implies these guys have too much self respect, they literally live around the fingers of the women they are with and will accept whatever disrespectful behaviour she gives them, becuase they believe they are worth nothing and don't think they can ever get another girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 05:24 AM |
| 9 | Why does it seem like only in pill communities are men failing with women?Also idk if OP is a woman but typically women do not associate with men who are sexually unsuccessful like at all outside of work and even then then it wont be much association. So OP likely just does not even see these men who are failing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 05:20 AM |
| 5 | Some people are not meant to find a partneryou need natural pressures to have natural selection, we don't have those, infact our entire dating landscape is defined by the fact that we have such little pressure that its let peoples anti monogamy tendencies completely take over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Do you think attraction is a choice?This is a completely bullshit response lmao. If you go through this comment section you are more then willing to engage in argument on this topic with a generalised responses. OP stop being dishonest by trying to personalised the conversation, just admit he is right. This shit is ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 11:45 PM |
| 1 | What's are alternatives to Red Pill?Only BPers think tradcons are RP, being angry at women is also not true RP. Rp also doesnt dissagree with itself its just not an ideaology and so you have just attributed a bunch of shit to RP that wasnt RP it was just whoever you have seens ideas about dating and relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 09:39 AM |
| 1 | What's are alternatives to Red Pill?You didn't answer OP at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Do you not believe that some women genuinely don't want kids?You obviously do becuase I didn't ask you shit, you are the one that volunteered this fake story out of the ether and is now getting pissed that I don't instantly believe your convenient claims are true with no evidence or reason t believe you. And yeah ofc you would lie lmao, you are a blue pill lefty who got offended so you made up a story becuase you don't have the emotional control to just see something you disagree with that you cant refute and move on. By do better i mean just don't be dis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Why is slut shaming wrong?I accept your concession | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Why is slut shaming wrong?I don't think the birth rate of the western world can be attributed to shaming, and I'd love to hear your evidence there. If you want evidence to be apart of this discussion you can present them to back your positions, and maybe if I feel that my rebuttal needs it to respond ill provide evidence. I dont think you can be convinced so whether or not you claim to need evidence for my conclusions to be believable to you is immaterial to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 07:30 AM |
| 0 | Why is slut shaming wrong?if ur gonna lie just don't bother typing out the words becuase this dialogue will go no where. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Do you not believe that some women genuinely don't want kids?You are just conceding the point by avoiding the argument. It makes no sense for me to believe you and it makes it obvious you are coping when you put on this act as if your believability is self evident. Do better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 07:21 AM |
| 0 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Firstly only women care about consensus. Secondly again why would you think reading one line out of context would make sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 07:00 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is delusional about single mom dating optionsred pill is not an ideology and your opinions come from disney movies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:48 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is delusional about single mom dating optionsyou and i both know ur just bullshitting so idk what the point of even typing all of this was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:39 AM |
| 1 | The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back.exactly but the issue women have is you either get both or none. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Why would you think reading one line out of context would make sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:14 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is delusional about single mom dating optionsno its simple reality lmao guys dont want women with kids from other men. Also you BPers have to drop this cope, RP is not conservatism we don't wear bright read hats on our dating profiles lol, RPers dont talk RP to women, infact they dont even tell guys like you there RP. Only autistic guys who get into RP and teenagers actually talk about RP around non RPers. To literally everyone else we are just BP like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Do you not believe that some women genuinely don't want kids?Idk why you are trying to be sarcastic you are literally not believable, you are a random on the internet making highly convent claims with 0 evidence. There is literally no reason why I should believe you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:06 AM |
| 7 | The red pill is delusional about single mom dating optionsno one believes you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:03 AM |
| 2 | The red pill is delusional about single mom dating optionsnot really, universally a woman with kids will simply have significantly worse options then without kids, its just some women had really good options prior and so the level they fall to is still high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Why is slut shaming wrong?some women have autism, never claimed they didn't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Why is slut shaming wrong?But it is effective at producing desired outcomes western worlds had a pretty good birth rate. Also you are just lying you said it has marginal corrective use and said that it can have "some small use " in discouraging only extreme behaviours. Before you say "well actually a meant x y an z" don't thats an invalid motte and bailey style argument. You can concede that your comment here is a lie or can admit that your comment above was deeply unclear you cant pretend as if you said something that y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 01:57 AM |
| 0 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Hold on, we are getting lost in the weeds. Do you actually have an argument of your own and a rebuttal to my position? This is not an interview, and I am not interested in answering side questions or debating some tiny fragment of a sentence you think you can score a point on. If you disagree, you need to put forward an alternative position that you can be held to and directly address the core of what I am saying. Otherwise im not wasting my time replying to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 01:50 AM |
| – | Why is slut shaming wrong?My point is overall correct. if it was wrong you would be able to argue against it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Ok so you can read, why ask me a question that ive already answered? And at this point what reason do I have to keep engaging with you when you are dishonest right away? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Why is slut shaming wrong?absolutely not true lol otherwise the male lonliness epidemic wouldnt exist and to be honest neither would the western world. Low value inferior men are the back bone of society and those who are in power deeply care about what they think becuase they know those men will make or break society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptableno no no most people are just avg, having deep values and idiosyncrasies does not nor make you more then avg becuase every avg person has that. Being abnormal in some way is much more then that and typically its to do with what you can do for others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 01:38 AM |
| 0 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Because it has to do with me lol, everyone's actions in society effects everyone else. We don't live on isolated islands. Some things are contained individually but things like this where its large groups doing the same action, has effects all over society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 01:34 AM |
| -2 | Why is slut shaming wrong?becuase there only having less casual sex in relation to millennials | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Wrong its obviously extremely powerful otherwise women wouldn't have campaigned so hard to socially normalise legal behaviours they wanted to do, they would have just done them and coped the shame. Moreover there are tons of studies out their showing just how conformist and affected by social norms the avg woman is. So no shame is extremely powerful and is an effective tool to create social change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Why is slut shaming wrong?I am right and you are proving it by arguing against straw men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 01:20 AM |
| 0 | Why is slut shaming wrong?they have fewer partners then millennials but way more partners overall and they have a higher % of casual sex partners prior to marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Literally answered why in the comment you are replying to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptableIts not a neg its reality if you are an avg person you should not expect above average levels of dating success. Its just simply logic. Do you think it would be a good idea for like 50% of the population to genuinely believe that they should? Ofc not that would create a terrible economy and society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Why is slut shaming wrong?its bad for society and it hurts other people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 01:13 AM |
| -10 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Shaming works on people who seek external validation. The avg woman desperately craves external validation lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptablethats not what is being said at all and you know it. The point i made was you are in no way good enough that you should believe that some abnormal star crossed disney land prince is the bar for "a guy that actually likes you". You are average have average expectations, or improve yourself justify why you disserve to have someone perfectly crafted for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 02:00 AM |
| -17 | Why is slut shaming wrong?And young women in general having more sexual partners and also the reason young women are having less sex overall is becuase they are sluts. To address your next point, slut shaming would increase the birth rate. Birth rates are low because mid women ignore their looks match and instead use sexual access to attract high value men who would not commit to them if sex required commitment. Those high value men then prioritise easy access to mid women over committing to the women they would realisti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 01:57 AM |
| -13 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Shaming overall is not a positive. Making someone feel shitty about themselves pretty much never makes them make better decisions. Complete nonsense most people especially women will just stop doing something if shamed enough. . Nobody is saying you need to like or agree with the behavior, but when you go around trash talking others it reflects more on your need to feel superior than it does on them. Putting others down to make yourself seem better is a bad look. I'd much rather date someone who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Do you not believe that some women genuinely don't want kids?(not an invitation for you to try to convince me, im not going to believe you) edit : Ancient-Bat8274 has blocked me and broken the rules | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 01:20 AM |
| – | Men severely underestimate how much threat processing women need to do and how much that hinders their pursuit for romance and sex.You obviously do not understand how to read statistics if you read what I said and this is your take away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptableno the problem is these opinions are held by normal women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptableWhat the fuck do you mean sensible, a woman who is not only naturally avg, but just due to women's nature actually puts in a lot of effort to conform to norms, should not expect to be an abnormally perfect match for anyone. Nothing about that is sensible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptableWomen want to be chosen by a man who has high standards and meets a woman who fits them. This is why farthers use to choose who thier daughters marry, as an avg woman there is no reason why you should expect this to be reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Do you not believe that some women genuinely don't want kids?probably not or probably lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you not believe that some women genuinely don't want kids?yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 07:56 PM |
| – | Men severely underestimate how much threat processing women need to do and how much that hinders their pursuit for romance and sex.Respond to my actual point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 07:50 PM |
| – | Men severely underestimate how much threat processing women need to do and how much that hinders their pursuit for romance and sex.Wrong. To say X type of person does y thing, all, most or atleast a significant % of x type of person must do y thing. Neither all, nor most or nor a significant amount of men commit violent crime. So men do not commit 92% of violent crime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 07:48 PM |
| – | What tangible benefits do men get by caring about womens rights?Women have more respect for you Obviously not true but not a valid point becuase A. its not tangible and B. to value women respecting you it presupposes you value women's rights. Feminism benefits men. Moving away from traditional masculinity/femininity lets men be more expressive about their emotions and open about things that hurt them Not really panning out though is it. You have women all over the internet making fun of the male loneliness epidemic and just in general can you name a single m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 07:36 AM |
| 2 | Men severely underestimate how much threat processing women need to do and how much that hinders their pursuit for romance and sex.If women are insecure and react by attacking unattractive men while hiding behind the claim that men are dangerous, that lie functions as a shield. It lets them ignore an entire group’s feelings, face no social consequences, and avoid ever confronting or fixing their own insecurities. Significant benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Men severely underestimate how much threat processing women need to do and how much that hinders their pursuit for romance and sex.My argument was "i dont believe what you say about most women" then you replied with saying "but I personal dont do x y and z". This response doesn't address the point I made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 07:13 AM |
| 4 | Men severely underestimate how much threat processing women need to do and how much that hinders their pursuit for romance and sex.ok and conversely you also gain from lying, so what you are saying is self defeating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 07:09 AM |
| 3 | Men severely underestimate how much threat processing women need to do and how much that hinders their pursuit for romance and sex.I made a point about the general population of women you responded with a personal anecdote, that doesn't address the point. You need to make an argument that applies to women as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 07:07 AM |
| 4 | Men severely underestimate how much threat processing women need to do and how much that hinders their pursuit for romance and sex.I'd say men are not to trust about what they say about men. You're all complicit in gaslighting while also benefiting from violence or threat of it. And your basing this on what? Your vibes lol. You are not really selling this idea that you are being truthful when you make arguments that are so unbelievable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Men severely underestimate how much threat processing women need to do and how much that hinders their pursuit for romance and sex.I dont really believe you but its not really important becuase my argument is not about your personal life. And from here on just take it as a given that we are not talking about any of your personal experiences. Do you concede that women often lie about saying men are dangerous? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t give good advice on dating and it’s obvious why.no women 100% dod give advice to conform becuase 90% of womens actuons when it comes to dating is just her lying in some form for advantage. Whether its her lying to the man to virtue signal or convincing him of something that will advantage her or women of her calibre over other types of women. Its all smoke and mirriors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:54 AM |
| 4 | Men severely underestimate how much threat processing women need to do and how much that hinders their pursuit for romance and sex.Im pretty sure there was shool shooter afew years ago that now has a fanbase of young women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:50 AM |
| 0 | Men severely underestimate how much threat processing women need to do and how much that hinders their pursuit for romance and sex.no women are not scared of men at all, this is just a convient lie made up by women becuase its reflects better then admitting to the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Men severely underestimate how much threat processing women need to do and how much that hinders their pursuit for romance and sex.News flash: ugly men are just as dangerous as good looking men. My argument is litterally based on this fact lmao, as such this proves my point. If ugly men can be dangerous and attractive men can be dangerous, but have totally different outcomes when it comes to success with women, surely women do not actually think men are dangerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:46 AM |
| 3 | Men severely underestimate how much threat processing women need to do and how much that hinders their pursuit for romance and sex.Ok then what are you basing this argument on lol, if women's behaviour only changes due to "fear" when the man is unattractive how can you really saying they are being honest? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:42 AM |
| 3 | Men severely underestimate how much threat processing women need to do and how much that hinders their pursuit for romance and sex.you obviously don't because when you are actually afraid of someone you don't tell them lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:39 AM |
| 11 | Men severely underestimate how much threat processing women need to do and how much that hinders their pursuit for romance and sex.Obviously not true becuase the aggressive and dangerous men have it incredibly easy with women if they have status money and good looks etc. Women don't actually think most men are dangerous they know that most men are not going to harm them, they just don't like when unattractive guys proposition them becuase they are insecure and so don't have the confidence of self definition, so they react negatively when an unattractive man approaches them becuase they interpret it as the ugly guy defining … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 11:31 PM |
| 3 | How to make it so that pregnancy doesn't change a woman's health forever ?Blue pillers and women are completely unwilling to recognise that RP =/= conservative lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 03:19 AM |
| 19 | How do you think this "Red Pill recruiting" happens?If people take that to some scummy other place it’s not because RP was a gateway drug, it’s because they were a scummy person on a path to do scummy things no matter what path they chose. Id argue a more common reason is, most people are brought up with the idea that society ought to be fair and just to them, and when you find out that's not the case a lot of people cant handle it and get resentful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 05:08 PM |
| -2 | Do you not believe that some women genuinely don't want kids?That's becuase 1/5th of the US pop is children. If you take them out of the calculation, the majority of adults are married and have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 05:04 PM |
| -2 | Do you not believe that some women genuinely don't want kids?more people are depressed abusive unmarried with no kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 07:14 AM |
| -11 | Do you not believe that some women genuinely don't want kids?Yes all women want to be mothers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 07:12 AM |
| 5 | The rise of unhealthy female goonersthere not going to becuase there is no social feedback mechanism to encourage them, there just going to become porn addicts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Between two identical looking men, who’s going to have the most casual sex: the intro or the extro?Yeah but the woman in the comment is wrong, being extroverted is not what is the determining factor in those mid guys getting laid. Those dj's, promoters, and party hosts etc are all trading free access to clubs and venues for sex. Also these sorts of jobs specifically put you in circles with a way above avg rate of women who are literally prostitutes. Being extroverted is simply one of many requirements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 01:28 AM |
| 0 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?you can try telling me a more convincing lie or just the actual truth becuase what you said isnt believable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 02:10 PM |
| 0 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?You aren't you are just dishonest, you and every woman knows that even most violent killers are not going to harm a woman they like and are in a relationship with. Its like roller coasters, you dont get on them becuase you want to really feel like you are about to fall off a bridge you ride becuase you know you are safe but want to enjoy the thrill of simulated danger. Granted do some women misjudge and actually end up with woman beaters, ofc, but most do not go into it thinking there in real da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:18 AM |
| -1 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?And none of this is a threat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?None of what you said is even close to convincing. You need to make an argument for your position and stop hiding behind questions, becuase otherwise ill have to assume that you know you are wrong but don't want to admit it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 03:38 AM |
| 0 | Is there actual risk of robots replacing women?Why ask women OP lol ofc there going to say no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 02:01 AM |
| -1 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?<image> edit also its obvious you are lying because you have already asked how? You don't ask how something happened if you didn't know what subject of discussion was. Also this little charade proves my overall point about women lying lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 01:43 AM |
| -1 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?How do women do this with biology? evolution... animals evolve certain traits both physical and mental to advantage them in their environment. I doubt women are fitter or smarter than men, so what sort of evolution do women have do play men? There not society just doesn't constrain them like men becuase of feminism, and so women do a bunch of degenerate shit to each other using men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 01:38 AM |
| 9 | Women want to be approached depending on the angle they want to own the OPBingo, and women wont admit this becuase it exposes that they negative reactions to being approached is just them being shallow and insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 01:31 AM |
| 0 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?women haven't unionised against men, women enmasse are using men to compete with other women. The way women do this is biology, its in humanities nature to compete with each other to a large degree, the problem is we have lost the social tools we used to constrain women and so your competition has become degrative and destroyed the balance within the sexual market place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?I think this is largely nonsense becuase women are largely attracted to the most physically capable guys, if fear was a factor you would be going for smaller weaker men. The truth is women just have lower sex drives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 01:20 AM |
| -9 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?IDK, fam. I like my guys under 5’10” (I’m 5’5”). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?Yes, they do. The only unit of value that women understand is access to their hole and womens' in-group bias means that they will do whatever it takes to get a leg up. For women, the end justifies the means. The true redpill is that this is mostly not about men at all. Much of the BS modern women do is just intra gender competition. Average women use sexual access as a way to compete with attractive women for high status men who would not pay attention to them if commitment were required upfront… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Men either have to accept the major advantages women have over them in a relationship or be left singleI didn't claim that people allways come to the correct conclusions or that said conclusions where always good ones. Therefore none of this was relevant to my point. The point is statistical truths are such becuase they play out in real life, and so unless there is some extenuating circumstance preventing the general populace from knowing the truth, most people will be able to come to the same general conclusion as a statistical analysis. And so when you said: People don't look at stat charts bef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 06:48 PM |
| 5 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)So looks is not a solution. The only solution is to decenter women and seek happiness and fulfillment in single life (hobbies, career, sports/fitness, friends). its more complicated. If ur a guy who is like and 8 or a 9 and ur talking your looks match especially in a large city, most of the time those girls are involved in some sort of overt prostitution, mostly sugaring, a lot of the time escorting, only fans, camming etc. So OP probably has to just go down a rung to the 7s and he should have b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Men either have to accept the major advantages women have over them in a relationship or be left singleNo one cares about the scale or the average. People don't look at stat charts before they decide that they should date you. Because human beings can understand general statistical truths through lived experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Men either have to accept the major advantages women have over them in a relationship or be left singleMy point is that most women today dictate and control the terms of the relationship. Only becuase most men are not willing to dictate any terms. Even in your example you have 2 guys that literally put up no fight and likely held the women they dated to no standards. If you offer decent relative value then you absolutely can dictate terms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Men either have to accept the major advantages women have over them in a relationship or be left singleMen either have to accept that women dictate how today’s relationships go and deal with what comes with it or keep searching for a woman that will allow the man to take the driver seat. If men take the latter approach they’ll more than likely end up being single searching for that woman who’s likely never going to allow it in how women view themselves and relationships today Yeah this is just blue pill propaganda there are literally men who beat and mentally abuse the women they are with and the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Men either have to accept the major advantages women have over them in a relationship or be left singleThose aren't the alternatives lol, as a man you can do a shit ton to increase your overall value and then with redpill you can understand women and sexual dynamics to leverage it better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Men either have to accept the major advantages women have over them in a relationship or be left singleexactly know your worth, understand hers and maximise your leverage and everything will be fine. This is why women hate red pill, it teaches men how to beat women at the game that feminism created to give them advantages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 03:41 PM |
| 1 | If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperatehis all operates from the false premis that all men are inherently disloyal. Which is objectively false. No this premise is false. Wanting to cheat =/= disloyal. A man can want to have sex with other women and choose to stay faithful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 03:38 PM |
| 1 | The vast majority of dating problems are artificially induced and not completely the fault of the individual.What you have highlighted is a problem but fundamentally its feminism. Because even if all above was corrected, young women still priotise getting into a relationship with a man last on their list of priorities. And unfortunately for women since men don't care about all the things they prioritise Infront of them, putting men last will only result in a young woman ignoring a lot of good men. Until however a guy comes along she cant ignore becuase he's a hvm at which point he will treat her badly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Male-Only Ukrainian Draft is the Ultimate Proof of Selective Gender Equality (i.e., Equality in Rights, but Not in Lethal Obligation).this narrative started by the left is such a complete joke. Have you ppl ever seen a fishing boat before? Can you point to a single image of these boats where there casting nets or traps, or even explain what fish there trying to catch. Its just like with guns all you people have no idea what you are talking about you just repeat whatever the popular narrative is. But please if you want to deny this, provide the evidence you know these are fishing boats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 04:36 AM |
| – | Nothing is worse then men claiming women are hypergamous and useless meanwhile married to a millionare wifes.https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2013/03/14/chapter-6-time-in-work-and-leisure-patterns-by-gender-and-family-structure/ <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 04:32 AM |
| – | Nothing is worse then men claiming women are hypergamous and useless meanwhile married to a millionare wifes.**Males: "LEts Goo 50/50 BaByy, and you also cook and clean and birTH Babies". ** Thye funny thing about this cope from women is the opposite is true. Men have largely stepped up when it comes to house work but women havent stepped up when it comes to earnings. So husbands still make most of the income but they now have to do almost half the house work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 09:36 PM |
| 0 | Explaining why an issue exists is not an excuse for the issue to keep existing.its mostly young women online that self diagnose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Explaining why an issue exists is not an excuse for the issue to keep existing.Soft bigotry of low expectations. Just because they have a harder time doesn't mean they can't learn when they're high functioning. If something is scientific fact its not bigotry Crime statistics are not on your side. They actually are you just don't know how to understand statistics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Explaining why an issue exists is not an excuse for the issue to keep existing.I'm not denying anything this is literally how autistic people are divided within medicine and education, there is no high and low functionality, there are just tiers of needs. https://www.prosperhealth.io/blog/what-are-the-levels-of-autism-support High/low functionality is an old and informal term and where not used by clinicians the way you are using them. High functioning autism did not mean you have a ton of friends and no one can tell you are autistic, it just means you don't need to live i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Explaining why an issue exists is not an excuse for the issue to keep existing.Irrelevant question. I don't know how they accommodate for dyslexia in education, doesn't mean that they shouldn't have accommodations. If you want to claim that its impossible you need to make a extensive argument why they can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:42 PM |
| 5 | Explaining why an issue exists is not an excuse for the issue to keep existing.Accommodations are not an excuse to not learn. Seeing as their neurology literally prevents them from intrinsically understanding other peoples emotions it literally is. Its like you don't understand the concept of disability. This is why men lead society, becuase women are way too selfish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:39 PM |
| 13 | Explaining why an issue exists is not an excuse for the issue to keep existing.Explaining that a guy has autism is not an excuse for that man to never learn social skills. Ngl this is a really good example of the problems with toxic female nature. So the disabled man who's disability is his inability to socialise becuase of his neurology should conquer his disability becuase you don't want to feel bad for not accommodating him but you also don't want to do the work to actually accommodate him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 05:33 AM |
| 5 | Explaining why an issue exists is not an excuse for the issue to keep existing.Not an excuse for high functioning people. It literally is. Also high functioning doesn't exist, Autism is divided by high/low needs and all the people that have autism are defined by the fact that their neurology is wired such that they cannot innately read peoples emotions or social ques. So can some learn good social skills? Sure just like how some paraplegics complete marathons, doesnt mean we should expect it of them. And its the same for autistics you shouldn't expect them to have good soc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 05:33 AM |
| 0 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?You and I both know man whores do not exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 03:08 AM |
| -1 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?Stop I asked you where I was talking about your life in particular? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?please point me to where in my comment I was talking about your specific life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?Stop dodging. You requested evidence right? Convince me why I should provide it to someone who has not provided any themselves and who I don't believe is honestly requesting it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?where is your proof for your comment? And why should i provide proof to someone who wont provide it themselves and who doesn't really want it? If you can provide a convincing answer then Ill post evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Male-Only Ukrainian Draft is the Ultimate Proof of Selective Gender Equality (i.e., Equality in Rights, but Not in Lethal Obligation).You seem pretty angry with women considering you want to take away their rights. I don't believe that you really hold this opinion. Why are men like you more concerned with dragging women down than abolishing the draft for everyone? Playing dumb is not a good way to win an argument, it just makes you look insecure. Russia's army is the largest its ever been and has been honed by the war in ukr, the us as of just afew weeks ago staged its largest aircraft carrier in the Caribbean to set up for so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 06:52 PM |
| 5 | Male-Only Ukrainian Draft is the Ultimate Proof of Selective Gender Equality (i.e., Equality in Rights, but Not in Lethal Obligation).Women are largely the ones that vote for the establishment pro war parties within the western world, its men who support the isolationist parties. Moreover idk why you are pretending as if im angry at women, no one believes that you really believe this or that im angry at women. The simple fact is that rights and civil liberties come with costs, men got the right to vote only 50 years before women and only becuase of the draft. The point is if women are not paying the same costs they shouldn't g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?You are an example of why its a terrible idea to listen to women. Its very obvious that your comments are lies. You pretend as if your opinions are representative of the avg woman yet the hard majority want to have kids and get married, so your opinions reflect at all. No guy is gonna walk away from a girl they like because she won’t tell them her body count please You don't believe this. It’s giving extremely insecure and controlling Another lie you are just saying this becuase you don't like t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 05:41 PM |
| 6 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?Edit: she admits later on that her request was in complete bad faith. proof of this? Where is the proof for when you said this?: I think the point is that even though men here like to repeat that no men would commit to promicuous women, promiscuous women don't have a problem finding their match > Not to mention, aren’t there studies that say that promiscuous people are more likely to cheat? correlation vs causation. Someone who is born a cheater is obviously going to have more sex than other peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?My ex’s never asked me 🤷♀️ And ive asked my ex's and so have my friends. This is a very common thing that couples talk about. And if a guy in the future did I would tell him it’s none of his fucking business because all it does is make them spiral and that’s the most unattractive thing a man can do. It should be his business, if you are dating a man with the intention of potentially marrying him, then he is entitled to know your past. Also doing this will just make sure that you get a guy who c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 05:13 PM |
| -1 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?The reason 304s like men more is becuse hey have to. They have experienced life with top level guys( or at least top of what they can getl) and then experienced the hard fall. This forces a lot of 304s to wake up and realised that they have lost a shit ton of their value, also the way these higher level guys treat them them teaches them that the high svm traits they chase aren't really worth it. And so humbled they revaluate and come to understand the important traits in men like honesty courage… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?I think the point is that even though men here like to repeat that no men would commit to promicuous women, promiscuous women don't have a problem finding their match Yes but this actually proves what where saying. Because her match isn't going to be chad its going to be the beta. And yeah some times it can work out becuase the woman in question has a come to Jesus moment where she realises she threw away a lot of her sexual value and that the superfluous stuff isn't super important in a relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?100% true I’ve never had a guy that was pursuing me ask me and I’ve had multiple virgin/inexperienced men after me. Most guys are not going to ask right away there going to ask after you get into a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Male-Only Ukrainian Draft is the Ultimate Proof of Selective Gender Equality (i.e., Equality in Rights, but Not in Lethal Obligation).They would accept the a similar amount of those fatalies as the male ones which is an extremely low amount seeing as how graphic fpv drone kills are. That all being said only like 1/4 of military roles are front line combat, there is plenty of room for women to be drafted in administration, logistics, catering, maintenance, IT etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:33 AM |
| 11 | Male-Only Ukrainian Draft is the Ultimate Proof of Selective Gender Equality (i.e., Equality in Rights, but Not in Lethal Obligation).Germany announced recently that they will start a voluntary recruitment drive for their military but the gov said if they don't get enough people, every young man will be forced to draw lots and 1/4 of them will be conscripted to military service upon turning 18. Finland and Denmark have conscription for young men We will likely see a lot of conscription return in Europe as those nations build up their military again. So actually dying in a war is a very real possibility for men of today, so as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:28 AM |
| 3 | are men being mentally abused by redpill influencers....?thats not true there not morons, they understand that a bear is more dangerous then a man. They say they prefer the bear becuase they hate men but as is typical with women are unwilling to really shoulder the justified backlash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 01:53 AM |
| 2 | are men being mentally abused by redpill influencers....?tiktok is where you can find the KAM posts You didn't listen to a word they said, as expected. I did listen, its just the explanations of "bears kill less people on average then men" or "I know a man is dagerous but a bear might not be" or even "men make me feel more unsafe then bears" are not sensible and so are very obviously just a backwards rationalisation to justify saying really malicious shit toward men becuase there misandrists. You mean like mass shootings? A teenage girl was arrested o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 01:39 AM |
| 8 | are men being mentally abused by redpill influencers....?Kill all men and id rather have the bear where extremely popular with young women. also anti male rhetoric is extrmely popular right now aswell. BP is just as hateful as you claim RP is, except RP actually gives guys a way out and tells them that they do have intrinsic value as people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 12:38 AM |
| 6 | are men being mentally abused by redpill influencers....?This has nothing to do with what the other guy said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 12:37 AM |
| 0 | Even if a research proved tomorrow that women's standards are 110% delusional they are still entitled to itthere's a bunch but its not relevant to my original point so im not going to list them out. Most men are emotionally and financially stable, and you know this is the case, idk why you are lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 08:59 PM |
| 0 | Demographics does matter for men when it comes to datingBut those men in those courses are not going to earn as much so the chances of them keeping those girls long term or even having success after university is going to be much less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Even if a research proved tomorrow that women's standards are 110% delusional they are still entitled to itThe things that would make a man a good farther. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 04:32 AM |
| 0 | Even if a research proved tomorrow that women's standards are 110% delusional they are still entitled to itExactly OP talks like everyone is just entitled to a complete friction free lifestyle and that's not true if you have antisocial opinions and mindsets, society should shame or ridicule you into changing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 10:48 PM |
| 4 | Even if a research proved tomorrow that women's standards are 110% delusional they are still entitled to itIf women are generally being super delusional and entitled that is not a mindset they are entitled to have without challenge. They should absolutely be heavily shamed and ridiculed for choosing to think like this, and there absolutely should be government initiatives to convince younger women not to follow in their footsteps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Even if a research proved tomorrow that women's standards are 110% delusional they are still entitled to itYes, receiving empathy is very often contingent on ones mentality and personality. If you are the female equivalent of the colloquial "incel" then just like them I think its reasonable for most people not to have empathy towards you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Even if a research proved tomorrow that women's standards are 110% delusional they are still entitled to itThis is the result of patriarchal thinking that women are a kind of reward for successful men and that people not participating in reproduction are worth less. Come on you obviously do not believe its patriarchal to hold people to the standard that they should be employed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 10:41 PM |
| 1 | The reason online dating sucks is because men like every women profileI literally gave an answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 05:13 AM |
| 1 | The reason online dating sucks is because men like every women profilethe app works different for male and female users | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 11:39 PM |
| 1 | The reason online dating sucks is because men like every women profileI feel bad for men who are unaware of this reality and think the problem is unique to them - but many men are aware of this and still chose to put all their eggs in the OLD basket. They really arent, i think most are aware of the issues of bots and sex workers being on the app, however It would be extremely unlikely that even 2% of the men using those apps where aware of A. the hard gender imbalance or B just how few women are actually on and using the app. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 09:28 PM |
| 1 | The reason online dating sucks is because men like every women profileyeah these apps like many businesses have decided to make short term gains by milking their male customers instead of focusing on producing a good product. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Women cannot detect the "toxic" thoughts of lonely menNo society needs to encourage behaviours that benefit all and discourage behaviours that don't. So women should not just be free to not have kids that should be a decision that is met with a lot of social friction. Ive read that in the past, people used to live with grandparents who helped with raising the children and that the nuclear family is a relatively recent phenomenon. This isn't even of the past a lot of places still do this namely in China, when a couple gets married the husbands paren… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Women cannot detect the "toxic" thoughts of lonely menI notice a lot of the arguments of some red pill men are based on economic and / or grounded in pragmatism/ issues. Like men paying taxes, which supports single mothers, men being forced to defend the nation, i.e., the draft, and men being the majority in STEM and net tax contributors etc.men do keep society and civilization running and functioning smoothly. Society would be better served by sweeping to the side those elements of society which are causing the problems, i.e., fixing the issues re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Women cannot detect the "toxic" thoughts of lonely menDifference is you aren't a threat and you don't really have the power to really change society. In the sense that you wouldn't join some extremist group and then have the ability both in terms of mental conviction and in terms of physical ability to like become some sort of terrorist. And so you being lonely and socially rejected doesn't pose a problem really for government and the stability of society. And then on the economic side of things not only are you less likely to be a net contributor … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Most PPD debates gets us nowhere because of these 3 things.On point #2. Where is it stated in the rules that people should only discuss the reality of dating for 21 year old people? This is a sub is about dating and the vast majority of single people who are dating are in thier 20s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Can a person be distant and chill? Yes If someone is lower intensity, lower energy, distant and not really very warm that is someone that is cold or aloof not chill. Chill infers there friendly with that lower intensity. Moreover if we throw in easy to get along with that backs up my understanding of chill and begs the question how could they be hard to read and distant. Since being easy to get along with includes easy to get to know and socialise with. Can a person be easy to get along with and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 07:52 PM |
| 1 | The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbandsit doesnt even take person experience to know this is true, just occams razor. Its just much more likely that most women are just flighty when it comes to relationships, as apposed to most or at least a large % of men coercing women that don't like them into staying in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?How would this work, how could a girl be distant hard to read but she's chill, easy to get along with but she isnt going to leave, cheat or display herself for other guys. Seems very much like the peace girl shows all the signs of actually liking you, But ignoring these contradictory things id go for the 2nd option. A woman that is disrespectful is dramatic etc is recreational use only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 07:13 PM |
| 12 | The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbandsNo it implies women are less likely to try to fix a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 07:07 PM |
| 7 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.even recording it and sending it to the police was out of line. The instructions said leave the food at the door but she opened the door and went inside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 03:02 PM |
| 8 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.she wanted clout | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalWomen need to be punished becuase without social cost you will just do what you keep doing. Btw this is for your own good as well becuase no one respects you when you do this btw, all you are doing is make yourself look more and more like a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalYou are just providing an example of my point. I never used the words "behaving badly", you are using this phrase becuase its close ish to my point but also allows you to straw man an my argument instead of having to refute it. This is the sort of behaviour that women constantly engage in and society needs to punish you for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Feminism Was Necessary. But It Shouldn’t Be the Final Stagethe redpill there is most women dont believe in feminism at all, they will just say whatever is advantageous to them in the moment becuase there is no cost to being dishonest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 01:33 PM |
| – | The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out.this isnt why, women are just cowards thats why theyll never ask men out. Just look at how so many women react when thye get rejected a good 40-60% act like the colloquial "incels" . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 02:57 AM |
| -2 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalIts isnt even in group bias, women(predominantly talking about young) literally hate each other. So the true redpill is that all these lies women spread aren't even targeted at men, there spreading lies to hurt other women. Like in this instance women spread these hive mind narratives of not wanting to be approached to coax hotter women into making themselves less attractive to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 02:49 AM |
| 0 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalHave some kind of social cost for women engaging in the anti social aspects of femininity like women's tendency to just lie whenever to advantage themselves. How this can be done I don't really care, one that I know is effective is getting women to bully and coerce each other when they do anti social shit, so that's one solution but I'm open to whatever is effective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Was Necessary. But It Shouldn’t Be the Final StageAnd yes exactly what you’ve described happens to me quite often. Feminists tend to say: “well if you really want gender equality, then you’re a feminist”. its not weak its just wrong feminism was always built to depower men and to empower women, it cannot function any other way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Was Necessary. But It Shouldn’t Be the Final StageYou have to abandon what feminism achieved becuase feminism was purpose built purely to free women from any social constraints. But the reality is that for society to function there needs to be social constraints whether they be traditional roles or some type of progressive value set. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 12:09 AM |
| 6 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalNo these statements are said by generally the same group of women. Also what you are saying is just not realistic. A normal woman who says "i dont want men to approach me" has encountered a bunch of times where an attractive man was in her vacinity, did not approach and she thne went and told her GFs that she wished he came up to her. Conversely a woman who complains that no guys approach has complained about guys who she doesn't want to approach. Additionally for what you are saying to be true … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 12:04 AM |
| 0 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.They are losers because they are too cowardly to share their life with another person. He just wants to live his life and have the woman as an accessory. So becuase a man doesnt value your opinion hes now a coward. That makes no sense, maybe he just doenst respect women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Simps are the problem.There not successful, they paid/debased themselves for sex and female attention when their aim was to find a woman who actually wants to have sex or be in a relationship with them. Also whatever they got out of it will never be long lasting becuase the girl doesn't really like them. I also think its appropriate to look down on and shame simps, society should have social mechanisms to heavily discourage people from engaging in anti social behaviours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 03:33 AM |
| 0 | if men dislike high maintenance women then how come they are still pursuing them?OP you know guys who hit women have girlfriends right? Does that mean that women like getting the shit kicked out of them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Marriage doesn't make Men the happiest group because they are marriedno becuase women don't find men, the wait to be found | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 06:14 PM |
| – | It is entirely possible that humanity NEEDS "losers".No have you seen how the avg man lives if he doesnt have a GF or wife. A good % of men wont even bother to buy a bed. The only thing men really consume to a large degree is videogames but those are mostly direct download now and the things they do physically buy enmasse like consoles they still under consume on. Sony for example releasees a stat a few years ago showing that nearly 50% of their player base where still on the ps4 which came out in 2013. I wouldn't be surprised if all the consoles … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 06:13 PM |
| -11 | Most feminists say they want equal rights, but also vote for the welfare statethis is like saying "who ever asks the other person out should pay" the welfare state is always going to benefit women more then men, so women voting for it is women saying they want equal rights but still want men providing via taxes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 01:43 AM |
| 3 | It is entirely possible that humanity NEEDS "losers".You are completely wrong. The West, which built the most advanced and prosperous societies in human history, achieved this only by minimizing the number of losers to nearly zero through Christian ethics that strictly enforced monogamy. This in turn maximized the number of useful men in society. Humanity absolutely does not need losers. A loser is simply a man that society has poured massive resources into raising, but who now fails to operate at his full realistic productivity for society. A los… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Marriage doesn't make Men the happiest group because they are marriedyeah becuase young men cant afford to drop a couple hundred dollars on prostitutes regularly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 05:56 PM |
| 0 | Marriage doesn't make Men the happiest group because they are marriedThis study isn't really valid, irrc they sampled staff at a university for their survey which are obviously going to be overwhelmingly made up of married older men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 05:55 PM |
| 4 | Marriage doesn't make Men the happiest group because they are marriedBecause most young men have been socialised into being are overly romantic simps that yearn for their Disney princess girlfriend/wife, and not becuase its something that will actually make them more happy but becuase it encourages pro social goals in young men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 05:43 PM |
| 1 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.Your claim was that single women in their early 30s have plenty of divorced men to choose from. But if the average age of divorce is 39, then most divorced men are nearing 40 or older. That means the pool of divorced men available to women in their early or mid-30s is a small % of the total men of a given generation, therefore disproving your claim. Next a mans sexual peak is not in his early to mid 20s becuase he has little expendable income and so cant out earn most women, which is something w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 03:22 PM |
| 5 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.Incorrect firstly becuase the avg age of divorcee is 39, so if we cede what laniekea said is true that "women are, very few are interested in dating men significantly older" That would put these men outside of their age range they want to consider. Moreover 30 year old divorced men are probably at their sexual peak or close to it and so they will be looking for women who are also closer to their peak, not left over women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 01:55 AM |
| 10 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.yes it does becuase as you near 30 the amount of men who are of relative value to her, single and want to commit has shrunk massively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 07:39 PM |
| – | Most dating advice from women here comes from a point of extreme ignoranceExactly that's why women and by extension BPers hate it so much, women want LV men to stay LV becuase it makes it inflates the value of all men meaning that mid value men can demand more from them when they settle, and HV men make them jump through even more hoops. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 07:21 PM |
| – | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeThats insanely arrogant? It makes no sense to believe that you as a normal person disserve some type of prince charming who was custom made to love you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 01:15 AM |
| 0 | Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair?you didn't read what I wrote at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 01:06 AM |
| 0 | Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair?Saying “From now on give me some sort of argument that isn’t an interview.” Is not standard practice of how to conduct a debate Agreed the standard practice is I make and argument and if you don't refute it in some way I win the point. So me telling you to make an argument is me being nice. <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 06:26 PM |
| -1 | Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair?You do not tell me what to do in any manner. You control yourself and elect not to respond, you do not dictate my behavior in anyway. This isn't a point of debate. I was offering a courtesy by answering your questions becuase I thought they where being asked in good faith. Now that you have demonstrated that you aren't acting in good faith I'm widrawing the courtesy. Infact screw it, you’ve been arguing in bad faith by pretending to be neutral and ask questions while clearly disagreeing and usin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 06:04 PM |
| 7 | Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks.https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/psdt_08-19-20_dating-relationships-015-png/ https://www.kvakil.me/assets/ymvwp/graph.jpeg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks.No its becuase if all these things where true such a large minority of women wouldn't be engaging in it. The reality is women will engage in hook-up culture, but the guy just has to be attractive enough. So since most guys aren't most women just dont engage in hook-up culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 04:53 PM |
| 5 | Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks.That's not shown in the data as many studies show overall women have more sex then men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 04:50 PM |
| 8 | Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks.It would also take little effort for a woman to sleep with a couple guys and stick with the one that works as a fwb. They just don’t, for some reason Its becuase the guy who is the best in bed is not going to be the guy who has the highest SVM. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 04:47 PM |
| -2 | Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair?Him paying child care is not a choice, And also its not just a him thing, as soon as she gets a job that's going to be her expense as well. As to the rest of your point I think the man ought to help becuase I think you ought to help people in tough situations when you can. But again if women are equal members of society then then men have no moral obligation to help them out. Edit: from now on you are going to have to give some sort of argument this isn't an interview. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 04:22 PM |
| 0 | Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair?My response to this is that potentially being poor is apart of being an equal member of society and that its your family and governments job to support you if you become poor. Not another member who you are supposed to be equal to. In terms of what I advocate for I don't advocate for anything in these situations becuase these situations come about because of a social structure created by feminism that I don't think works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 04:01 PM |
| -4 | Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair?No becuase since she can always choose to get a job, him being in control over the money she receives is always a choice. So unless he somehow tricks, forces or coerces her into not getting a job to some criminal degree then she has not been financially abused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 03:54 PM |
| 0 | Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair?Asking another question is not addressing an answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 03:38 PM |
| 3 | What women say they want in dating is the complete opposite of what they're attracted to.I think its more that when women speak of men they only think of the most attractive men, so when they say "I want a man to be more emotionally available" there thinking of a guy who is already extremely masculine and basically a stone castle that gives nothing away to them; not the avg guy who shows an avg amount of emotion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 03:20 PM |
| -1 | Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair?ur missing the point. The other user called men broke and stingy when actually if we look at the objective data this describes most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 03:06 PM |
| -7 | Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair?No, you asked a question I gave an answer. So I'm not answering another question until you address the answer. This is not an interview. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 03:05 PM |
| -1 | Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair?They want the trad wife treatment with a 50% off discount. Lmao where is the trad wife treatment? If women have no fault divorce, equal pay and equal rights. Conversely men are no longer responsible for any of a woman's debts so the man should also not be ultimately responsible for providing for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 03:03 PM |
| -3 | Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair?That's a separate decision | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 02:58 PM |
| -1 | Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair?That depends. If he's changing the terms becuase of reasons he couldn't predict like having to pay for large medical expenses of a relative, significant dip in the market or even if he just found to she was over spending etc then she has to take that on the chin. Otherwise he should give her a reasonable amount of time. But even if he doesn't its not finical abuse as long as he is not restrictive on necessities becuase again she can get a job at any point in time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 02:57 PM |
| 0 | Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair?Not really a lot of peoples bad habbits are curtailed by the fact that they simply do not have the money to over spend. Also when you don't work for the money, you are less likely to be sensible with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 02:40 PM |
| -3 | Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair?The man controls the finances he brings in and if she doesn't like the terms she either leaves or works part time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 02:38 PM |
| -9 | Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair?When a woman enters a traditional relationship and becomes a SAHM she agrees to be subordinate to the husband and let him be the final decision maker. Therefore finical abuse is when the woman over spends on things that the man thinks are frivolous. And on the other side financial abuse only occurs when a woman literally cannot work and the husband is overly restrictive with the finances. Outside of that there is no financial abuse becuase no fault divorce and gender protection in labour laws me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why would anyone be ok with dating down?<image> You can't campagin for and receive contraception, maternal preference custody then turn around and demand child support. That not fair. As it is now woman can literally choose to have a kid, choose to be the sole parent of the kid and the man is forced to pay for raising a child he didn't want. Alimony is similar, women are the ones who wanted divorce and who also wanted equal pay. So now we have a world where a woman chooses to get married, she chooses not to work, and then chooses to l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why would anyone be ok with dating down?becuase dating up comes with comprises you aren't willing to make and or is not likely to net a good value partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 10:10 PM |
| 3 | Average man could put more effort in his appearance and it wouldn't change a thingthats not true the avg man can put in a lot of work and very make significant gains it just wont be worth it. Its like investing $7k to only get $600 return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 10:09 PM |
| 0 | Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad?Why? Its obvious why society should discourage bad behaviour lol its bad behaviour Doesn’t mean they should be celebrated by others but they should be allowed to do things and face social consequences Another lie, you clearly would not support socially shaming women for engaging in toxically feminine behaviours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 10:48 PM |
| 0 | Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad?women choose this becuase society has conditioned them to think every man has like a 70% chance of leaving them after marriage and that chasing career goals in what are largely meaningless fields is somehow more noble then starting a family. Women didn't choose this becuase women don't really choose anything, they just go with whatever society conditions them to do mostly. The only women that choose are masculine type A women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 06:44 PM |
| 0 | Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad?society needs to discourage bad behaviour it shouldn't just let people do whatever they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 06:38 PM |
| 0 | Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad?The status of getting a more impressive man which is really the ultimate status for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad?Its completely unbelievable that you think any of this is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 12:50 AM |
| -3 | Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad?It's not impossible for different people to want different things. It is impossible because women are all human beings and large groups of any species always congregate when it comes to interests. Are you saying that women shouldn't be able to decide who they think is attractive and date those men accordingly? In mens english, which includes nuance and context, I’m not saying that. My argument is that society should use social pressures such as coercion, shame, and reward to promote pro social b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad?Dont believe you at all and but it doesn't really matter the guy was high value since he made 6figures, so regardless of if you didn't value that he was of high value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 10:49 PM |
| 4 | Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad?But you aren't getting it, It doesn't matter that you almost make 6 figures, making 6 figures is still and incredibly high bar. Standards are in relation to everyone not just your particular social circle. So you did have high standards, and this is the issue with women picking their own standards free of social constraints you will massively prioritise the exciting and superfluous things so you can compete with each other, and as a result since most of you are not 10/10s you will have to make s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 10:38 PM |
| 0 | Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad?Is going to look different for each woman Its literally impossible for this to be true. They already do. Which is why things need to change, society shouldn't allow women to just decide to adopt incredibly anti social and anti natal mating strategies. The only women who should be choosing to be single are those masculine type A women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 10:27 PM |
| 7 | The reason women aren’t engaging with men is not fear of violenceTo wit, do you imagine women, collectively sit at home on their 17th birthday, do a deep dive into the statistics, then vote on how to rationally behave toward men for the rest of their dating lives? Surely not. That's not how culture operates. How women treat men--and, in a seperate-but-related topic, how women rationalize that treatment--cannot be explained by any one thing. It is the ramification of a complex, multi-variate socialization process broadly called contemporary culture. If you wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationshipsSociety did not just evolve on its own. It was built and maintained by people for people. Society has invested in everyone. The phone or computer you are using, the internet that connects you, the clothes you wear, the water you drink, the food you eat, and the education you received all come from it. Even if you lived in the wilderness you would still benefit from society. Humans before you hunted down or drove away the most dangerous animals, leaving behind only those that try to generally avo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Men want women to settle for themstop trying to dodge the arguments and respond to what I said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Men want women to settle for themIf you know that women's standards are conditioned by the whole of society why would you ask me as an invidual person to condition you? Don't say things you clearly know are BS. Yes women’s standards are conditioned by society, because that’s how that works. Exactly so we need to change the social messaging and societal coercion to that which encourages women to prioritise having families. Guess what? Men’s standards are also conditioned by society. It’s like you treat women as this weird things… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Men want women to settle for themIts not they just call themselves femcels which is why I used quotes. Also respond to the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationshipsno no no, society invested a shit ton of resources into creating the environment where they could have a good life. No one just lives as some isolated self made island. We all have a duty to do what we can to maintain and better the nations that we come from. As such women should be coerced and socially pressured to act pro socially, so that we can maintain a healthy birth rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Men want women to settle for themtheres a budding what is called "femcel" movement on tiktok of women basically encouraging others to be gold diggers in the hopes of that giving them better success, which in an off itself is essentially an admission that the women watching cant get higher quality guys to commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Men want women to settle for themBut its not settling. Settling is seriously lowering your standards past the baseline, if you are returning to that base line becuase you previously had an over inflated ego that is just being realistic not settling. Also women's feelings are important sure but there mostly socially conditioned, so if we condition women to have realistic standards those feelings will also be genuine. And the mechanism to do that is just to socially coerce most women to adhere to social norms which would make the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationshipsNo they do need to do things, as adults we all have an obligation to maintain the society that invested so much into us. So women do actually have a moral obligation to acknowledge when they are being shallow so they can stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex is easier/better for homosexuals than heterosexuals.you sound like a child who expects every sexual encounter to be someone waiting on you and fulfilling your every desire. Sorry lady men do not exist solely for your pleasure. Your point doesn't stand its just made up homophobic triggered woman bullshit where you claim any time a man doesn't wait on your every dime they must secretly be gay, as if that makes any logical sense and isn't deeply offensive to gay men. You are literally a woman, how would you know anything about how men think about se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex is easier/better for homosexuals than heterosexuals.You just backed up my claim. Re read what I said. I said each guy make sure he gets himself off and women expect their partners to be responsible for them. Your argument that more men should touch the clit and that would result in more women getting off implies that the women are currently not doing that for themselves. Also your claim that women are more likely to perform oral sex again portrays the expectation that you believe its the other persons job to get you off. This is why gay men have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 04:23 AM |
| 4 | Casual sex is easier/better for homosexuals than heterosexuals.because each guy makes sure he gets himself off. Women expect the man they are with to get them off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Why do straight women like other women so much more than they like men?pretty much, but those bi men tend to go for the really fem gay men like James Charles, which causes a ton of jealousy from the masculine gay men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do straight women like other women so much more than they like men?For some maybe but gay men are still men, and men generally dont want to be the men they have sex with. Mostly they are just attracted to men and the ideal of what a man is, is a straight men as almost all the men are straight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Why do straight women like other women so much more than they like men?I don't think it's about forbidden things. I think its that gay men are attracted to men and almost all men are straight so the look and demeanour that turns them on is of a straight guy basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do straight women like other women so much more than they like men?This is 100% women moderate men's sexuality by being put off being too foreword and desperate. Gay guys idea of flirting is basically sending you a nude or asking you about how big your dick is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do straight women like other women so much more than they like men?As many have said its got its ups and downs. The benefit to men is sex is way easier and requires way less time to acquire, but good luck having a committed relationship without cheating. Also if you are a feminine guy your options are kind of weird where you do worse with typical gay guys as they want masculine men, but ironically you will do better with the more more typical DL bi guy who all the gays are most attracted to. Then as a bi guy you learn very quick that if women, str8 or bi, know … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 08:39 PM |
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