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This is a really interesting point, I've never thought about it in this way before. When you say compensation, do you mean if the parents split up or just compensation in general? Either way, it's still a provocative concept and definitely food for thought... Your comment also reminded me of the song, Cat's in the Cradle, the Harry Chapin version.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:46 PM
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Why does your desire for women depend only on their boob size?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:52 AM
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Why does your desire for women depend only on their big boobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:13 AM
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Please can you link a source?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:14 AM
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For what longest time were women not allowed to communicate amongst each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 12:58 AM
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Why would any man want to go abroad to see 4B women? I don't see how there could be women calling out men who go abroad to "see more of those 4B women," if there aren't many, if any, men who would want to do this? Do you know what 4B stands for?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:47 PM
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Why should they go for assertiveness and confidence over kindness? Btw, appreciate you using this data, it's from a 2019 study that surveyed 68,000 people across 180 countries. This is the kind of study i wish everyone would use.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:10 PM
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I'm not very knowledgeable about passport bros, just the little I've seen mentioned here and there on this sub. Are there specific countries that tend to be most ideal? You mentioned quality of life, do you mean more relaxed culture, with more affordable living expenses, as opposed to what's typical in the US? Or that it's a better quality of life overall when you find love there? Do passport bros permanently move to the other country? Or, if they meet their love there, do they bring her back to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:08 PM
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Fair enough, I edited it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:25 AM
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I think he's talking about your "Top 1% Commentpr,"" by your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:29 PM
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This is good advice. Thanks for being so blunt with logic and reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:44 AM
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You're proving Yupperyoodledoo's point. You should be out socializing because it’s fun, not as a strategy to get girls. If you insist on perceiving friendships and social circles as an inefficient waste of time bc the limited number of tries you'll have to meet or get a girl, then this isn't the right goal for you. No one, not men nor women, wants a friendship with someone who only sees or wants the transactional value in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:42 AM
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The link goes to an abstract of a 2008 study, not the study itself, and it does not definitely show anything about women at all. The study appeared to focus research on men, at least per the summary, which you even quoted the sentence that identified the gender... "Second, DAT1 explains variation in both number of sexual partners and in criminal conduct for males." For males. There is no mention of females anywhere in the summary. I'm not sure where you got your understanding that the study iden…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:36 PM
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My imagination is running wild as to what that now deleted comment must have stated to prompt you for this reply, lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:38 PM
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My 2nd LOL of the morning! On PPD, on the same thread, lol. This is a great reply, thanks so much for the chuckle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:05 PM
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She stayed and had sex with the guy after he bit someone and threatened to kill her? Dude. That's insane. Why would you go on a date with her??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:43 PM
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It's not up to women to prove to you that they have qualities you as an individual find likable. It's up to you to decide what qualities you find in women that you like, and find those women who have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:29 AM
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What are vagina bugs? Is this a scientific term?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:28 PM
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Why do you think your GF's friends have feelings for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:50 AM
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Lol, "stay on the porch, kid," is great! I mean that sincerely, I've never heard that version before. I'm going to look for reasons to use that in the near future. Tbh, I posted here bc I was warned once for not identifying my gender in my flair, and i don't know how to change it. Pretty sure I just need to log in via web browser, but don't have access to a laptop as of yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:36 AM
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This post sounds like OP's projection of their own insecurities and issues onto the opposite sex. And, in the great realm of internet interactions, esp in regards to PPD, it's ts a yawn fest. 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:51 AM
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What are the signs of those (not good) guys that women should look for, so they don't end up dating a really not good guy who they erroneously believe, at first, is a good guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:10 PM
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Agree, this linked study does not provide info re 12 month male rape stats. But to be fair, i wasn't looking for a source that addressed that specific research or info bc what was requested (to whom i responded) was for a source that had stats regarding the more info that are being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 04:48 AM
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This is a recent article by the CDC... https://www.cdc.gov/intimate-partner-violence/about/index.html
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 08:24 PM
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And the honesty. Respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:18 AM
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I'll watch your link in a few, I'm making roux at the moment, lol. So this guy who is in your links, he's a result of pill ideology, rather than someone who pushes it, like Tate?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:20 AM
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Omg that's so sad! Idk who this kid is, except from this post, but that clip of him overdosing and his 60 Minutes interview is just... so sad. He doesn't seem to get that all the shit he's doing to himself, it's going to kill him. Sooner rather than later. And he doesn't care that what he takes gives him ED?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:19 PM
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13 hours later and still crickets, lmao. Guess he hasnt figured out how to use his dependable ChatGPT to tell him what fake studies he should use to back up his ignorant and baseless claims. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:22 AM
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Great comment with excellent advice! Here is my poor woman award for you. I just wish I had a real reddit award to give you. 🏅🏆🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:25 AM
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Lol. If they think nonchalant is spelled with a space (non chalant) or a hyphen (non-chalant), the same applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:10 AM
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What does this have to do with the subject of the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:46 AM
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How do you ignore that a tomato technically is a fruit in practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:41 AM
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Agree, it's not the same thing. But the way the law is actually written, men could bring a civil suit against a woman who lies about BC using that law. A court would have to hear and rule on it, which would eventually set a precedent for future cases. Sounds stupidly difficult, right? This is par for the course with many laws today. But for the record, IMHO, i think the law should have specifically stated lying about BC, bc that is just as reprehensible for a woman to do to a man as it is for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:17 AM
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In Oct 2021, CA was the first state to enact a stealthing law that applies equally to both men and women, as a form of civil sexual battery. Either men or women can be sued for stealthing, for punitive and other damages, in civil court. Since then, Maine and Washington have adopted similar laws. NY and Wisconsin proposed similar laws, but they didn't pass... idk why not, nor why more states haven't done the same, but they should. I know in the great scheme of things that this doesn't seem like m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:25 PM
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Bravado is not the same thing as confidence. Ask Google what the difference is between confidence and bravado. I got the below as an answer... Bravado and confidence are frequently viewed as contrasting, often opposing, approaches to demonstrating assurance, with bravado often acting as a shallow or false version of genuine confidence. While they can appear similar on the surface, they differ significantly in intent, depth, and the emotional state they mask. Here is a breakdown of the difference…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:31 AM
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None of that is baggage for either to hold. It's only baggage for those who prefer to judge others before bothering to get to know them or even meet them. When people put their judgements on you, that's not your problem, it's theirs. It's their baggage full of their shit that they want to make you feel like it's your responsibility, like you're some minimum wage hotel or airport porter. Don't let them do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:03 AM
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Thank you for linking this post. This might be the most comprehensive list of mostly recent studies about this one subject that I've seen yet. I've read thru a few of the linked articles, and I'm impressed how those are research findings from actual studies by reputable sources who spent months interviewing thousands of participants. Excellent examples of what real research and findings are. I'm looking forward to reading thru the rest of them as time permits. And I hope others take the time to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 11:07 PM
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Did you see some of the names he included? Rosa Parks, Harriet Tubman, and Marie Curie have insulted men for being virgins? I don't know if he knows who these ladies are or maybe many of the others in his list.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 10:01 PM
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I'll give you Oprah, bc i remember the question she asked of Michael Jackson, which was considered rude, but Rosa Parks? When did Rosa Parks ever use the word "virgin" as an insult to virgin men? And how would you even know if she did? You know what she's famous for, yes? And how long ago that was? When did Harriet Tubman, Hillary Clinton, Kamala Harris, Marie Curie, or even Beyoncé say anything like that? You also included Serena Williams which is ironic, bc not only has she never called a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 09:55 PM
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I think you absolutely should date AI. An AI girlfriend sounds perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:20 PM
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Wait, are you talking about Robert Hadden? From NY?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:37 AM
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What is casual and competitive ranked sex? I've also never heard of silver 3 ranking? What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:15 AM
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No U.S. state currently has an automatic legal default that gives majority custody to one specific gender, and just fyi, 40% of the states (equals 20 states) default to 50/50 custody. Not just 6 states, it's 20 states. And that's just the ones that auto-default to equally shared custody. Bc no state gives preference to either parent, regardless of gender, and all of them want to give 50/50 to both parents unless one (or both) can't provide an adequate living situation for the kids. The reason? B…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:58 AM
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Absolutely, I would be happy to, lol.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/26 08:44 AM
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Maybe ADHD women have the same issue? That would be me, lol. The world is too shitty and fucked up for any of us to not want to give and receive good sex. ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 08:43 AM
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"Mostly unconditional" literally means "conditional." There is either unconditional love or conditional love, and the difference is that even one condition =/= unconditional. Men and women tend to want the best deal for themselves, it's not a woman-only trait.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/26 06:27 AM
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You'd be a 100x better than Travis, lol. Not a swifty fan per se, but you have my blessing for what it's worth. 😊
/r/ExRedPill03/03/26 06:18 AM
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Yup. Like, having a high body count, or being a single mom, or experiencing a dead bedroom, or gaining weight, or getting older, etc.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/26 06:15 AM
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So basically what you're saying is, men expect women to love them unconditionally, then they are shocked when we don't.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/26 06:13 AM
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The "normal" bell curve being... men's standards?
/r/ExRedPill03/03/26 06:07 AM
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I can relate. Sometimes I've been so hyper aware of my partner, even a long-term one where we're both comfy with each other, that I want to make him happy by him getting me "there," that I start overthinking it, then get anxious, then.... well, my head gets in the way and messes up my own good time. Lol. I didn't know guys could go thru this too, I really appreciate your reply, thank you. I'll say it again, I wish we could have more fun and truly helpful posts like this on PPD, lol. If there is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:43 AM
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Ok, I get it. Thanks for replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:35 AM
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u/watsonyrmind is right. It's not "settling" to choose to be with someone who has different political views or values than you do, or whether a partner can keep up with you when hiking. That's not called "settling," it's called "boundaries." And it rarely has anything to do with someone's looks, whether they look like a movie star or not. Honestly, no one should even want to be with anyone who is so hyper-focused on looks that they'll feel they are settling if their partner looks anything less t…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/26 04:14 AM
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Women do not partner with restaurants to bait men. That's a myth that exists only online, perpetuated on Reddit and other forums. As for women who restaurant hop for free food, very few, not most, women have done or do this, and those women are typically very narcissistic, as this type of behavior is sometimes linked to higher scores of the dark triad - so these are not women men should want to date anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:37 PM
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What the heck does "out of your league" even mean? Who gets to decide what league to which any man or woman belongs?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:58 AM
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The original. Sequels have gotten out of hand, altho I admit, I like a couple of the AP ones, lol. I know this is off topic, but I just saw an ad for Scream 7. 7!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:34 AM
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I swear I'm not being facetious or snarky, but... are there men who don't orgasm during intercourse? I mean... is this a problem for younger men? I've only heard about it affecting much older men who have ED issues. And there is a pill for that, as long as the man doesn't also have high BP.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:05 AM
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Issues happen, we're all fallible humans who go thru physical growing pains as we age, that can have a negative effect on our sex lives. Women can have hormonal issues that makes intercourse hurt, men can have erectile dysfunction, or there are plenty of other physical issues that can occur that disrupt our sex lives. It's not a game-ender to have these issues, bc there are treatments for most if not all. Most importantly tho, it's an opportunity to openly discuss what's going on with your partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:01 AM
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This might be the most informative and helpful thread ever posted on PPD. I wish we women and men could have more convos like this rather than how much we hate each other. Make love, not war.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:33 AM
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Dude! I don't know a single woman who doesn't dream of finding a man who not only would do that, but who WANTS to do that. I'm sorry that your wife isn't into that, I wish she were into at least trying it bc she would know what she's missing. Every woman deserves to experience bliss. M
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:31 AM
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Try some erotic nipple play first. Like, decent time spent focusing on the nipples. Idk why it's not something shared with men more often, but most women get turned on with serious attention to their nipples. But... this works well for women who have not had any kind of implants. Many of the women I know who have had any type of breast enhancements, esp if implants, have lost the sensitivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:25 AM
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I think that a certain scene in American Pie, which goes into more detail than typically expected of a teen movie, about how to please a woman sexually. It's presented as humor but it's actually informative, and altho it doesn't go deep into technique (pardon the pun), it still gives enough info that men who are interested, should be able to glean enough as a jump start.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:14 AM
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That attraction ALWAYS fades is fundamentally and statistically false. There is no guarantee that all relationships or marriages will end in dead bedrooms or with divorce, etc. But you think so, and so you believe the answer is to find a FWB? You think that agreeing to enter into a FWB situation with a female friend for both of you to have sex, maintain your friendship, and without all those pesky feelings? Lol, good luck with that. I'm actually not against FWB, I've been in a few myself. I high…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:08 AM
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Wasn't Dr House a high-functioning sociopath? I don't think it's possible for sociopaths or psychopaths to have emotions for others, much less experience "emotional labor," lol. But point taken. IMHO, emotional labor is just one of many annoying terms that the internet claimed and redefined, and is something used most often online rather than in real life, other than in therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 11:20 PM
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What are the titles of the sciencedirect.com articles? Can't get to the articles thru your links bc it gets stuck on thy verification page.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 09:06 PM
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The word love is an umbrella term, it covers a vast spectrum of emotions and actions, plus the intensity and type of love. It's supposed to be used as a word that covers many definitions. Whoever is using it, should clarify the meaning for that which they are using the word, unless it's being used as a part of a bigger discussion where the definition has already been made clear. Same with sexual assault and the other words you used as examples. When using ambiguous words or terms, the person who…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:27 PM
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You make a good point. Men and women just communicate differently, and it's best to just be clear about that which you want to dicuss and why. Apparently, I'm an outlier, bc when my friends tell me their problems, I offer advice on how to fix them, only for them to get frustrated with me and tell me that they are not asking for solutions, just for me to listen and offer my shoulder to cry on. And as often as I've been told this, and I should know better by now, I still do it. 😬 I don't think I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:52 PM
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Yeah, isn't Mindy a vocal activist against violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:41 PM
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None of us, men or women, are entitled to anything when it comes to what we expect from another person, but I believe that, except for those who are truly horrendous, most of us deserve better in life (not necessarily with relationships, but with everything) than we get.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:16 AM
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One of the more hilarious sitcoms on TV, lol. I wouldn't mind a reboot with original characters and where they are today.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:47 PM
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Seems as tho a lot of people are very invested in that tv show. (Much debate about it since you posted this comment, lol.) I'm not sure I've ever seen a weirder left turn on a PPD thread, to where people are actually arguingwith each other about their individual interpretations of a sitcom with fictional characters. Strange, but highly entertaining, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:46 PM
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"Men as a rule don't want their kids." I agree that for a long time, it it used to be a majority of dads felt that way, esp for my fellow Gen X male friends and family. But its like what that old movie Kramer vs Kramer tried to address, about how society and courts continued to lean towards old-fashioned views of moms inherently being better parents than dads. Men defaulted to not fighting for custody bc they didn't think they'd get it, so many didn't try. I think society is slowly evolving and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:24 PM
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I've never thought that men were bad at parenting, but as far as studies that prove kids are better off being raised by single dads vs single moms, please could you link to a reputable source? This is an area of interest to me, bc i think (hope) more dads would step up for primary custody if they didn't assume society still defaults to moms always being the best custodial parent. The studies I've seen rate children living with a single parent as experiencing about the same whether it's the mom o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 07:51 PM
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That was actually a really great response. Made me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:33 AM
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Are you sure this is the article you meant to link? I don't see anywhere in it that it talks about how "women of the past were MORE likely to marry or date men who made less than them"? To which you responded, "Yes bro Pew says so." It's a great article, and i appreciate you posting it, but for your purposes, it doesn't mention income at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:15 AM
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The word "gaslighting" has lost its meaning as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:40 PM
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Totally agree. I've always been an advocate for how people can only control themselves, their choices, and their reactions, not what others do or say. Tbf, understanding this seems to be a problem for people in general, of all ages and genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:13 AM
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What are the signs they should look for?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:47 PM
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I don't know if you're actually saying what I'm interpreting that you're saying? Do you think it's acceptable, or at least understandable, for businesses to pay young women less than what they pay young men in the same positions doing the same work and producing the same results, bc of the chance the young woman might eventually at some future time, get married and have kids, which would mean she will be taking some time off? Time off being whether it's just 2 weeks or a year or more?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:51 AM
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Sounds like Australia thinks the way parts of Asia and the mid east do... that our most precious resource is our children and thus, only the best of the best should be instructing and influencing their young minds. I'm in the US, California, and it's a shit show of incompetence when it comes to the overall quality of teachers, esp in public schools. The low pay doesn't attract those who would be excellent, and then there, is tenure... which I'll never understand how that's a thing for any instru…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:38 AM
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$130k starting teachers, are you kidding???? Holy cow!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:32 AM
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Well... not exactly. (I couldn't decide if you were being sincere or facetious, so, my bad and apologies if the rest of my comment is based on the totally wrong interpretation.) I get what you're saying, but the reality is... homes with higher income tend to still have about the same rates of abuse as lower-income households, but incidents of abuse or DV are reported much less often due to the abused not wanting to tarnish their partner's or their own standing in society. Also, if either partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:29 AM
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Are individual women supposed to make choices and decisions with their priority focused on making women, as a collective, look good to men and other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:18 AM
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Where did you get the numbers, please? Bc I've found reports with a lot of different, yet similar, numbers. The 6-figure income has become a unicorn, a mystical being that everyone strives to catch, but about which most can only dream. Like... only 18% of all US adults make $100k or more annual income. Of those, 25% are men aged 35-44yo, vs only 12% of all women. https://finance.yahoo.com/news/dose-reality-making-100k-rare-223214741.html?guccounter=1
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:02 AM
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👏👏👏 In CA, for sure! Money just doesn't go as far as it used to, sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:20 AM
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When you say "in the past" people occasionally ended up together using OP's strategy, how far in the past do you mean? Early 2000s?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:40 AM
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Good point. Your last paragraph is especially thought-provoking. Sometimes I wonder if being online, esp using social media so much, triggered awake some ancient part of our brains that was intended to be dormant forever... bc firing off immature insults used to be something we could expect toddlers and kids would do, but most would stop as they grew older and matured. Adults who continued to resort to childish insults were considered impulsive and problematic, and kinda shunned by society. (Btw…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:01 AM
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"Licks camel balls" is new to me, lol. Is that really something people say?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:48 AM
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Where do you see these types of comments? When I see women saying insults like that to men, it's usually on feminist subs and it's about someone in the news or a known person whom they hate (Tate, for example). Are the women you're asking about just attacking a guy without provocation, or are they retaliating after the guy insulted them first? Bc that I have seen on this sub. It really bothers me tho that the guy you described, with low libido, was being insulted by women just for not being into…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:46 AM
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Exactly. It's repugnant how often people will go low in using these insults, esp online against complete strangers or via dating sites/ text with people they barely know. On the other hand, it is also absurd for people to care and get upset about being insulted by online strangers who have no clue who they are or anything about them. People will throw anything at the wall just to see what sticks, and by getting upset about it, it just fuels their fire if they think they were successful in gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:31 AM
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Ah, got it. Thank you so much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 06:09 AM
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I'm sorry, but... what? I was going with your thought process until this comment, which i don't understand. Your comment is in quotes, from whom did you get this? (Please don't say you used ChatGPT.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:52 AM
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You still feel love for her, that's normal. But you don't love her unconditionally bc if you did, you would not have left her. To love someone without conditions means that no matter what they do to you or the relationship, you'll forgive them and move forward with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:49 AM
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Not just on here, lately lots of comments on many posts in other subs seem to have more awards than ever before. I think any awards people have right now expire at the end of the year? So maybe people are just trying to use up what they have?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 11:06 PM
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I've never heard of this either, so I googled it... and just spent about 20 minutes of my Christmas, going down a rabbit hellhole. 😳 Apparently, it is possible to have that part of you tear bc, per an earlier comment, women can tear in any direction. (I'm not a sqimish woman, but... yikes, FFS! THIS was never covered during our young girls' birds and the bees lectures, lol.) Of all the nightmares I've heard that women experienced giving birth, this is a new one. One I wish I hadn't just learned …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:59 AM
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It's also assuming that every story on Reddit is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:59 PM
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Agree, is not that difficult. I used to have a friend who had 2 kids with her BF. 1st one, the dad is on the birth cert. The 2nd one, she put father unknown on the BC bc she was angry that he didn't come to the hospital while she was giving birth and she found out that it was bc he was with another woman during that time. Ofc what she did was effed up, and she could have really screwed her youngest out of support if the dad hadn't actually been a great father, if not a great BF, and he supported…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:34 PM
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Thank you for replying to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 08:42 PM
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Thank you for this, I really appreciate it. I've mentioned my nephew several times on here, and you're the 1st person to address his beliefs, to him, and in such a direct manner. I texted him to read your comment, I'm looking forward to hearing his thoughts on this. And thank you for also replying to my questions. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 08:02 PM
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My (now) 15yo nephew labels himself as an incel (which all started when he was 12yo, with his BFF's older 19yo brother who introduced them to his world as an incel and managed to indoctrinate both of them), so since he's usually focused on learning black pill vs blue pill ideology, which he shares with me but not his parents, I have a somewhat limited understanding of those concepts. What I don't understand is the red pill concept, ie what's true vs what's interpreted and how. My questions are n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:44 AM
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Tbf, some men also don't know how to judge a woman properly, and keep picking the wrong women, Absolutely some women can't manage a stable household, but there are also men who can't handle a stable job with benefits and typical hours bc they feel it doesn't suit them. As far as it goes for people choosing the wrong person time and again, it gets to the point where we all need to ask if these people are truly that gullible or is it that some abusive people are just really talented at faking bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:39 AM
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Then, being red-pilled, wouldn't you recognize the game for what it is and just opt out?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:31 AM
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There are books???
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:30 AM
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What does "women are child haters" mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:01 AM
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I'm sorry to be the one to inform you, but dating apps have already implemented AI, some for more than a year. Mindinventory.com blog thinks this is great! Other reputable news sources? Not so much. A year or so ago, women averaged 30% of Dating apps memberships while men averaged 70%. Today's numbers are about 20% women vs 80% men. https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cvg110ndd8eo https://time.com/7272515/ai-dating-apps-connection-essay/ https://www.mindinventory.com/blog/ai-in-dating-apps/ https:…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:15 AM
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Something does not compute. You can not be serious with this POV. Not if you were being honest about, as you recently stated, how you graduated HS as valedictorian, then graduated with a 4.0 GPA with a Bachelor's degree from a top 20 college, followed by a Master's degree from a top 10 college.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:04 PM
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So you feel the same way about men who engage in the same type of antisocial and reckless behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:57 PM
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What about man whores? Does the same apply to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:50 PM
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Not on this sub, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:13 PM
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This is actually... a pretty astute perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:49 PM
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👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:43 PM
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But, but, but... he got the quotes from accounts with obviously female-looking avatars! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:11 PM
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And right here, from your linked article, is why she is claiming to be getting death threats from, not just women, but specifically feminists... "But the more hate I get, the more it increases my bank balance." This chick is an excellent businesswoman and self-promoter, she knows exactly how to get, keep, and maintain her male fan base - OP is the perfect case in point. He's so enraged that she's being threatened by feminists, so he posted to Reddit about her, and it's free advertising for her! …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:09 PM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:39 PM
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Which cultures today are not already patriarchal? How would current patriarchal cultures and societies become Uber-patriarchal?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:52 AM
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So you are from, and currently live in, India? Are you talking about Indira Gandhi?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:17 AM
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I'm pretty sure that for some men here on PPD, yes, they do think about that. A lot. Like, too much, even. To the extent that some would very much like to bring those old days back into current existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:03 AM
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What is purge week?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:59 AM
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Greetings Patriarch of Romania! 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:57 AM
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To be fair, many posts on this sub read like the OPs are begging strangers for reassurance that the women who avoid them, actually, secretly want them,...despite all evidence to the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:50 AM
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You might be too mentally healthy for this sub, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:17 AM
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I've wondered the same. When "men built the infrastructure you women get to enjoy" is a male's response to a woman saying she wants a man, but doesn't NEED a man, it always comes across as tho he is expecting that he and other young men get the same respect and accolades due the inventors, developers and builders, simply bc they are also male... even tho they have not participated in any of these achievements nor have they contributed to the betterment of society or the people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:10 AM
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FR, why is he ignoring you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:55 AM
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Please pass on your high intellect so we can "process the species"? What does, "process the species" mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:26 AM
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Thanks for the heads up re the Hindenburg omens. I haven't been paying as much attention lately, and I'm surprised to see we had 5 within the last 30 days or so. Omens on their own are indicators, but coupled with so many experts advising caution over the last year, it's definitely something to which we should be paying attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:35 AM
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Umm... 40-year-old women don't suddenly decide to get married... and, I'm going to go out on a limb here, but even if they do suddenly want to get married, it's not going to be a 27yo guy. They'll usually go for men older than themselves, or at least close to their own age. I think if you're getting interest from older women on dating apps, it's probably more about interest in being a cougar, specifically your cougar, lol. Or maybe some want to be your a sugar mama. Hey, if you've got the looks …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 12:56 AM
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I almost want to accuse you of creating that account just to respond to yourself, it was that perfect a reply that more than proves your point. Pretty impressive, actually. Have you noticed that the guys like that, who blame women for being abused bc we choose the wrong men, tend to share the same mindset about women as the abusive men? These guys are not the good guys they believe themselves to be, whom they say we should be choosing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 12:33 AM
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Yep, it's called sperm banking. And since there was at least one recent report that research revealed some indications that the older men get, the higher percentage of their sperm can have mutations, it would be wise for young guys to do the same as young women are doing with freezing their eggs. Collecting and freezing sperm is cheaper than eggs, so at least that's an advantage men have over women. I think your idea is a good one. For everyone, tbh. If every pregnancy needed a process to happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:29 PM
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Only newborns up to 72 hours old can be surrendered. Anytime after that, the state will go after her for abandoning her child.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 07:50 PM
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If a man is able to pay child support, but refuses to do so, a court can determine that the failure to pay is willful, find him in contempt of court for disobeying the court's order, so yes, he could be arrested and jailed. But jail is a last resort, it rarely happens bc it's only after years of escalation, until he'll get to the point where the court finds him in contempt of court, which is the reason why he could be arrested. Even then, it's still rare to arrest a guy and put him in jail bc a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 07:34 PM
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How does a man lose his bodily autonomy for 18 years? Bodily autonomy means you are in charge of what happens to your body and only you can consent to physical contact or medical procedures, yes? Or... no? There isn't an abortion equivalent for men bc they can't get pregnant, but the mother or father of a newborn can safely and confidentially surrender it within 72 hours of birth. At least, that's the law in CA, I can't speak for all states.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:56 PM
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I've heard "the man is the skull, the woman is the brain" before... not sure if I've heard the head and neck, but it tracks, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:30 PM
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Well said. It's like they were taught to fear failure of anything, relationships, jobs, etc, rather than how trial and error, successes and failures, are essential to learning, growing and maturing. What is crazy to be is that many parents of this younger generation are from my Gen X, and I can't wrap my head around how or why they would bring their kids up being so protected from life. We were the most independent generation, latchkey kids and all, so WTF happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 12:55 AM
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You don't go fishing very often, do you? The bait is the intent to catch, not the hook. You won't catch any fish with just a hook. And as my husband, an award-winning champion bass fisherman for many years, would tell you, you absolutely can tell a fish when to bite... but you need to take the time to learn and understand the specific type of fish that you're going for, their habits, preferences, and under what conditions make catching optimal. Going along with your fishing analogy, guys who fol…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 12:27 AM
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Some of us Gen X women were taught, when we were younger, that not only should we prioritize marriage and kids, but also that we needed to play games in order to attract and keep a man. If we failed, it was our fault for being too honest and open about what we wanted or were thinking, bc we should have played coy and been aloof, made him chase us... aka, we should have denied and lied bc being honest would make us look needy and desperate, which was very off-putting to men. 🙄 There was this book…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 11:10 PM
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There are some women who say that? Grown women? I mean... Over the years, I've had some women friends who were legit certifiable, who had whackadoo ideas about men and relationships, but none that would tell a guy they are not interested and then be sad that the guy appropriately reacted by leaving them alone. At least, not since I was 10 years old. That's just crazy town.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:48 PM
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So true. And it really is all about the effort. Words can be nice,, esp if they are what we want to hear, but they don't mean shit unless actions back them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:41 PM
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I give you props for bringing up jealousy as a subject bc, imho, it's a much-needed discussion that doesn't happen often enough. Having said that, it's interesting that in "men are being gaslit into believing that ALL jealousy is toxic," you used the word "all". What does "all jealousy" mean to you? Are you referring to different levels of intensity that jealous people feel? Or are you maybe conflating envy, and possibly coveting as well, with jealousy? The thing is, jealousy is just one of many…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:48 AM
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Np, I appreciate you responding to me, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:40 AM
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Where and when have you seen this? I can believe that a couple of women who regularly post on this sub saying something stupid like that just for clickbait, but I've personally never seen any such statement made by anyone... I've seen personal experiences shared, but never blanket vitriolic statements that all unmarried, mid-aged men are pedophiles. If I had, or if i ever do, I'll address it bc that's fucked up and a blatant lie. Please link the comments to which you refer, or just link the post…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:02 AM
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Please can you share the links to those studies? I've found the one i linked below, which does a good job of diving into the "why" boys are punished more harshly than girls for the same behavior (one potential reason in this study is that boys engage in conduct disorders or antisocial behaviors more often than girls do, hence they receive more harsh discipline). Statistics that show only the difference in how often boys vs girls are punished for misbehaving the same, means nothing without data f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:52 AM
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1 Because testicular cancer is very rare, esp when compared to most other cancers, like lung, prostate, and breast. Most men are not at high risk of testicular cancer and the few who are, have certain (uncommon) health conditions that increase their risk, and if so, their doctors should know to refer them to be screened as prevention. Should you personally be one of those rare men at risk, the mortality rate of testicular cancer is very low, with a 5-year relative survival rate of 95%. The lifet…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:52 AM
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He is to his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:54 AM
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For real! You literally just made me laugh out loud bc as I was reading thru the comments, I was thinking about how in the past, a couple of BFs I've had were not conventionally good looking, but they were hilarious and made me laugh, and they literally charmed my panties right off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:16 AM
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The story of Goldilocks and the 3 Bears continues to resonate for many of us, even into adulthood. ☺️. I like it, I'm going to use this in the future bc it's so appropriate. And who doesn't know that story? (Please for God's sake, don't ask me what story I'm talking about, lol.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 04:46 AM
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Do you only see blue pill rhetoric on reddit or other social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 04:33 AM
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Thank you so much for the link!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:03 PM
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I thought the 1st and 2nd articles were interesting, bc they don't really support OP's POV or the titles he gave the links - esp the 2nd one, in which the author loves and values that her BF is open and vulnerable with her, esp per how she described her former BF as having the emotional depth of a paper plane, lol. What she had trouble with was how he occasionally liked to wear dresses. The 3rd article is probably interesting as well, and seems like it may support OP's post. Unfortunately, I can…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 09:55 PM
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OP appears to be applying this to all men, regardless of whether they are high or low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:59 AM
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Your search says that 40% supported (voted for) Trump, not that 40% are registered republicans. I don't know if this link will work... https://share.google/9zpV8GOKycmJpD6N1 But if not, search for the Generation Z Fact Sheet on www.prri.org, it's a PDF. On page 3, the data shows the Gen Z breakdown: Gen Z women are 34% Democrat, 19% Republican, and 28% Independent. Gen Z men are 28% Democrat, 27% Republican, and 32% Independent. (NGL, the men's stats surprised me, I thought more were Republican.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:33 PM
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You're expected to take her words at face value, and not attempt to interpret what she wrote into something that confirms the negatives you believe about women, or that validates for you that which you seem to believe about yourself. She did not call you an ugly loser. She reiterated your own words that you used to describe yourself in your previous comments on this post; and then she asked that, if you think that little of yourself (or as you've claimed, others think of you), then why would you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:28 PM
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No. That is not what that means, and you know better. Let me ask you something... if a guy claims to have depression and suicidal tendencies, and in fact, may have even tried before, but hasn't actually succeeded, would you claim he wasn't serious and he was just crying for help? As far as your last sentence, why does it matter that women attempt more since more males are actually dying? That's an awful thing to say, even by those who blatantly and obviously hate women. What would you have repli…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:13 AM
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That's easy to explain, bc the reasons have been the same for years. The difference between male and female suicide stats has been called the "gender paradox" of suicide. And to put it simply, data from research studies consistently show that women are 2x to 3x more likely to attempt suicide than men, but men die from suicide more frequently. Why? Because... Male suicide rate has more successes than just attempts bc males tend to use more immediately lethal methods, using weapons or extreme situ…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:37 AM
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If women only want men like you sexually and not romantically, that's an issue with your personality... oh wait!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:05 AM
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Same goes for men who constantly choose and lust after women who don't care for them, yes? If you keep chasing after women who don't want you or consider you less than, then by your logic, that is completely your fault. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:55 AM
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No, that is not what they said. Esp the screenshots you yourself included in the comments. You literally included comments from women who said they are not initially attracted to the male physique, they are first attracted to his personality and other character traits, which leads to being attracted to that specific man's body. Men are attracted first and foremost to a woman's looks and her body. Women are first attracted to a man's personality. Both lead to sexual attraction. You must understan…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 11:26 PM
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Same. Ironic that in that post, OP included screenshots of women literally saying that it's not the male physique that they are attracted to, it's the men's minds, hearts, and personalities, which makes us physically attracted to them. But he thinks it proves his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 11:16 PM
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Thank you for replying, and thank you esp for your clarification. To be fair, I've never heard of the placenta insult, nor 2 and 3 of your list. But the others are real so I assumed all was real. It's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:14 AM
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Did she really make fun of his height?? I'm kinda shocked, but not really, yet still shocked. I just didn't see her as someone who would go there.... idk why, cuz my CA gov Newsom got such a great response when he called trump an SOB, he's been cussing in interviews ever since, but I am surprised AOC went there. I don't follow any politicians and I'm not exactly up to date on what is going on between any of them, bc I get too stressed over all the animosity and hate between everyone in America..…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:23 AM
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What was the AOC thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:04 AM
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Soooo... calling a man anything related to femininity, that which "reduces" or undermines his manliness to him as being no better than a lowly woman, are the go-to insults for men to other men? I mean... I know this has always been a thing. To call out a guy as being less than a man and no better than some woman. But why is this still a thing? For the last couple of years, I've seen a lot of posts on this sub about how now it's men who are being oppressed. Many who go to great lengths trying to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:49 AM
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Are you high? I'm asking sincerely... are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:32 AM
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My apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:12 AM
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Ditto.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:41 AM
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So... you must be popular with the ladies and go on lots of dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:00 AM
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Did you see news about the EO CA governor Newsom issued on 7/30/25, ordering several CA state depts to formulate plans to address many of the issues facing boys and men - same issues often brought up on this sub - and he's given a pretty tight response time of 2 months. https://www.gov.ca.gov/2025/07/30/governor-newsom-issues-executive-order-to-support-young-men-and-boys-address-suicide-rates/ It was reported on most major national and local stations/websites throughout the USA, but I've not yet…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:00 AM
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I'm aware of those cultures. Are you (or OP and others) issuing warnings that if women don't fall in line and do what all men want, we'll be subjected to that kind of life, as a consequence? We will lose all our rights bc majority of men decide to take them away, and thus, we'll be subjected to the whims of all men? Do you believe that's true?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:41 AM
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To what consequences are you referring? I keep seeing warnings about how if women don't fall into line with what men want, there will be consequences... So what are they? Come on, speak your truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:48 AM
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WTF does scoreboard mean? Are you high? So you do live in Ca and are a victim of CA public schools! I'm sorry your education did you so wrong. CA sucks, not your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:25 AM
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Are you kidding? Lmao. That's the whole foundation of intelligent debate. Understanding each POV to the extent that you are able to make an educated choice of which side you support. And then argue to support it. Holy shit, did you go to school in CA? This POV of yours could explain a lot as to how so many young men are indoctrinated into pill or misogynistic ideologies... Is this what you truly believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:24 AM
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Totally agree, that's exactly what should happen, esp as AI replaces employees so companies will be saving money via the reduction in salaries/benefits being paid. But like you, I'm also skeptical bc I'm not sure I believe that will happen, at least to the extent that it should, as big business has become very much intertwined with our politicians, who are more than ever passing policies that favor the businesses over the rest of us. It's all about the unlimited campaign donations... cuz, you kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:04 PM
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I'm just curious... from where do you think the money for UBI will come should AI end up replacing up to 40% of jobs, as it has been designed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:25 AM
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Yup! I'm a proud "Jill of all trades, expert of none." The older you get, the longer the list becomes, lol. I'm at that age where it's pretty rare that I don't have something in common with whoever I'm speaking, which really comes in handy when meeting new people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:48 PM
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What happened to Aziz was in late 2017, and was reported in January 2018, more than 7 1/2 years ago. Why are people using him as an example in so many of these comments? Isn't there another celebrity, or even any random guy in more recent news, who was involved in something within at least the last 5 years who could be used as an example re this tea app? Per your and other comments on this post, I had thought something must have happened recently with Aziz, so I looked it up. Until I found the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:04 AM
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Good point, I agree. The Facebook pages about dating have been around for a while, and unless things have changed (I do not use FB so I have no idea), most if not all members use their real names for their profiles, yes? I think that helps keep at least most info being shared as honest and reflective of true experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:08 AM
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There was a website dedicated to warning men about women, which had "merely indexed [publicly] available data" about women with borderline... borderline what? I'm assuming that you mean borderline personality disorder? What website was this and during what year was the website published but then taken down? Estimation or even a vague guesstimate of website name or year or approximate span of years is fine. 2nd question, from what source was this mental health info about women, or even men, made …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:14 AM
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There have been a few articles by the media published this week about the women's Tea app, explaining what women need to do to be allowed access, how the app is to be used and how it is supposed to work, as well as how it's currently being used which doesn't always seem to align with the creator's intentions... also reported is that some men who have been referenced on it are looking into defamation lawsuits (altho the attorney quoted in one article mentioned how difficult it will be to win such…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:53 PM
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Well done for posting a quote that credits the author, esp when it's from Dr Maraboli. I'm surprised, yet also not surprised, that some have never heard of him and/or don't want to believe what he says or stands for bc it doesn't fit their narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:50 PM
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I recognize Kris Jenner, but who is the guy she is with?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:24 AM
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Au contraire... You are mistaken in how "liking yourself" means someone who is a narcissist or (worse) psychopath, someone who walks around thinking they are the best of the best, and that their sh*t doesn't stink. That's not what it means. "Liking yourself" means having a level of self-respect for yourself where you have set boundaries for yourself, with minimum requirements in how you'll allow others to treat you.. where you won't allow people to treat you poorly or less than your standards, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:37 PM
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Excellent point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:45 AM
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Hybristophiles? Really? 🤣 You know, when you use what chatGPT tells you to use, you're supposed to take the response and reformat it into your own words. Otherwise, you don't achieve your desired result to look smart but instead look stupid AF. Just a suggestion for you to consider as you move on from junior high into high school. And again, you're conflating rape with sex, which are 2 totally different concepts. Which you should know if you are old enough to be using reddit in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:42 AM
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He can't make such a statement bc he isn't able to comprehend how rape isn't sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:34 AM
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This seems to be a perfect example of a red herring fallacy, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:33 AM
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Agree. And thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:30 AM
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The point is contrast??? Pure, unadulterated bullshit. Rape isn't about sex. It's about afflicting hate, pain and control onto another thru violence and violation, which is a specific act that men do to women. The fact that you don't know this, that you think it's just sex, screams volumes about your ignorance and who you are as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:27 AM
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To the one who gave it, thank you for the award. ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:15 AM
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If OP had actually experienced rape or sexual assault, I'd be empathetic. But he hasn't, and it's obvious, bc actual male rape victims by women, who are traumatized from what happened to them, would not describe it how OP did. What he's given is purely click bait, and worse, he's trying to use our nurturing tendencies against us. Are you not yet tired of catering to this obviously manufactured and manipulative BS? Cuz I am. And so are many other women. I'm a survivor of rape, child molestation, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:10 AM
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For one, women are already starting to view and judge promiscuous men in the same way men decided they should view promiscuous women. Online it often appears that women end up on the defensive about this issue; but in reality (aka real life), women have no problem calling out a man whore to be the worthless fuck boy they are. And they also recognize an incel as a bitter waste of air and space when they encounter one. Two, stop watching biased male influencers on tiktok and esp stop just acceptin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:04 AM
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Exception fallacy, which leads to prejudiced judgments and inaccurate conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:25 PM
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I don't have a problem with much of what you've suggested, but the first part about restricting the number of men... idk. I was going to include that option in my comment, but I kinda felt like, to do that, would be unfair to men? Rather than go the restriction route (which actually could end up as an antitrust issue down the road), if dating sites are here to stay (ugh), i think it would be better for all involved if the sites worked harder at attracting more women members. Some of your suggest…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:53 PM
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Antitrust lawsuits are for addressing anticompetitive business practices like restricting or stifling competition, fixing prices, etc which cause harm to consumers. I fully agree that online dating sites harm their members, for many reasons, but the harm is not caused by some illegal monopoly, which is what needs to be happening for an antitrust lawsuit. Statistics show estimates of up to 70% members of many dating sites are men, with the remaining 30% being women. Even the sites with more women…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:40 PM
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Are incels looked down upon strictly bc they are incels? Or is it bc of how some of them share their negative opinions about women, or when they blame women for why they are incels? I know that I can sometimes get frustrated with those who make biased or sexist statements about women or when they make claims that "all women do this." In response to those kinds of comments, I do see pushback from the ladies; but, I don't believe I've seen women look down upon or make fun of incels just bc they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:44 PM
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Why would you even want to be with a woman who pressures you to do something you adamantly do not want to do? As long as you've made yourself clear with your expectations and what you do and do not want to do with your life, you're gold. Anyone who tries to dissuade you or convince you to do otherwise sucks ass and should be dumped and blocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:35 AM
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I agree re prenup. It's just an add on contact to go with the marriage contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:22 AM
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So don't get married. Problem solved. JFC, the drama queen hysterics are seriously off-putting. Why are you so overtly emotional about this? Are women hounding you, trying to break down your door every day, desperate for your love and to be married to you? Unless you are being forced to marry via some hillbilly shotgun wedding, then don't worry about it. Guys who don't want to get married are nothing new, it's a time-honored male position about which women know and understand. However, lucky for…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:04 AM
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Ok? So don't get married. Boom! Problem solved. You're adamant with your feelings, so Idk why you feel anyone should waste their time trying to convince you otherwise. It's fine if you don't buy it, and to how everyone needs to come up with better lies to convince you, why? Suit yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:38 AM
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THANK YOU! The male loneliness epidemic is about men having male friends - or, rather, the growing lack of male friends. It has nothing to do with men who want romantic relationships with women but find dating difficult. Idk why or how this simple concept could have been so misconstrued, but the internet has taken it and ran with it. To me, it appears that there are too many who just read titles and make assumptions rather than read the articles to be informed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:33 AM
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I like this comment and I agree. This can apply to all life challenges and opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:32 AM
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Ah, got it. Thanks, I missed that part. So in your opinion, when or at what point are women consenting to be mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:53 AM
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Consent to have sex is pretty much the same for both men and women. If both consent to sex, then have at it. If only one consents to sex, but the other doesn't, then no sex. That is my understanding. I feel you have a specific reply in mind re applying the word "consent" to men equally as it is applied to women, so I'm interested in hearing your POV.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:18 AM
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Also, the male loneliness epidemic is about men lacking friendships with other males, it's not about romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:09 PM
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So how is life ever healthy or fair? It's not fair. Not all things in life are equal for all, much less fair, nor can all be equal or fair. Life is not fair, and has never been fair. Who the fuck has been telling you guys that life can ever be fair? "Life sucks, then you die." Hello! How about this from a woman's POV? When men can get pregnant and have to give birth, then let's talk about how life can be made to be fair for all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:21 AM
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So, you being a white Christian male, please share the biblical passages that proclaim how males are disposable and how they are only for breeding, protection, and work. Also, please source the biblical passages that state women are more important. Go ahead, I'll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:17 AM
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I am not a man, so i can't speak for all the reasons older men who go for young women or why - but i am a woman who experienced many older men being attracted to me when I was younger, which was a constant all the way up to how old I am now. But I can share my experiences and what I've learned. First of all, this oft repeated theory that women lose their value as they age is pure BS. The men who try to perpetuate this misconception are young and uneducated bc they lack life experience. That's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:37 AM
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Source please.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:37 AM
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This was a great study, thanks for posting the link. Very long and detailed. Did you read the entire article?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 01:40 AM
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Most of the replies from women on that post are talking about their personal preference... at least the comments I've seen, I didn't read them all. Which ones are speaking for all women? Cuz they would be wrong to do so, and I'm not shy about letting them know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:57 PM
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Porn is driven primarily by the men who produce, direct, and watch it. If men didn't covet the gobs of money to be made off of other men who enjoy watching porn, it would not be nearly as popular nor as widely prevalent as it is today.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:17 PM
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The wall as a fertility concept, such as how you defined it, is correct; but too many of "those idiots" use it as if the wall defines women's physical attractiveness and "sexual value." I'm not always sure if it's from a lack of knowledge or on purpose just to insult women? Either way, it's good to remind and be reminded. Maybe you should copy and paste this comment in every post about the wall because it seems like it gets misconstrued on PPD just about every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:37 PM
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My guess is he lives in CA.... anywhere in CA, except possibly some very remote foothill towns, you'd need over $100k a year miminum to buy a home (with required insurance coverage) or even rent along with the required insurance, plus be able to afford utilities, food, and car registration as well as the high cost of auto insurance. Forget any luxuries, like cable TV, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:59 AM
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Ok, I'll answer seriously. I've never slept with a stranger, but I have had one night stands with good friends where we both had developed a level of trust and respect for each other. If your guy and I were good enough friends and one night, we started to hook up, but he stopped us to give me a contract to sign... knowing his history, I would understand and be sympathetic about why he would feel the need for such a contract, but I still would not continue to hook up with him. The reason why is b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:49 AM
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RemindMe! 25 years Check relationship status of u/Kentaro009. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:57 AM
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I've got a headache just from reading and getting this far into the comments, and I don't feel like wasting more time to continue, so... can you tell me if you ever received clarity from OP on the goal of her post, or even what was the point? Has she adequately explained her contradictions?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 10:41 AM
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2nd upvote for you. I personally prefer creativity, and what I've always appreciated is when my date thinks of something entertaining or esp relaxing to do, like your picnics. It's not about how much you spend, it's the thought that goes into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:28 PM
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Ngl, that sounds hilariously fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:23 PM
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Very thought provoking comment and one that's worthy of discussion. Who or what do you believe to be the cause of men's issues today?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:23 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:37 PM
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This male appears to be MAGA indoctrinated. Common sense, logic and accountability are of no use to cult members who only know to slurp the propaganda from their MAGA troughs and regurgitate it back on social media platforms.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:29 PM
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If you actually believe that the woman you had kids with is that irresponsible, well, sorry, but that says a lot that's not great about you and your choices... but regardless, no one is stopping you or the million of other dads who claim to be concerned from requesting the primary custody of the kids. Why don't more dads ask for custody? Esp if those dads know they picked the wrong women with whom to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:12 PM
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Males can petition the court for 50% or more child custody, which would solve your nonexistent problem. But they don't, cuz they don't want to be tied down with the kids. Do you want to talk about what is actually, "profoundly unfair"? Dads who are absent, who ignore their kids, never see them, and also don't pay their child support so that it's taxpayers like me who have to cover their pathetic, delinquent asses. The laws and courts have made it very easy for males to flake on their responsibil…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:59 AM
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Mandatory testing can solve what problem? Surely you don't mean... Not the male loneliness epidemic?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:25 AM
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That wasn't my intention, but yeah, i can see how that's what i ended up doing. From my perspective, I thought that people who are calling him an incel may have been influenced by his trans daughter calling him an incel. That she's his kid and knows more about him than we do, that could be enough for people to believe that if she is calling him one, he must be one and so, they call him one too. It's not exactly just for the sake of insulting, but yes, I agree, it is basically following a hate tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:23 PM
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I think it's his daughter who, bc she's trans, and per how he feels about trans, has a lot of animosity towards him. They don't speak. She's called him misogynistic and other names as well, but she uses incel too. She's a young adult, but I'm not sure of her exact age. I'm not saying that he is or isn't an incel, I'm just responding to OP's wondering why anyone would call him one. I agree about his having billions and per all whom he's dated makes him unlikely to be one; I'm just saying that peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:45 PM
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We know that Elon Musk is not an incel? How would we know? Most of his kids did not result from him having actual P in V intercourse with women but instead were conceived via IVF, and his last one was by using a surrogate. He is also very open and keen about his desire to donate his plethora of stored sperm with as many women as possible, which is the total opposite of how other wealthy men would rather spend their time fucking as many women as possible. Also, his daughter has publicly called hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:24 AM
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So? In Missouri, there is an old 19th century law that is still on the books, which mandates that all single males be charged an annual (bachelor) tax for being unwed. And, just FYI, Missouri is not currently taking any steps to eradicate it or any other old and unenforced, outdated laws. Every state has laws like this still on the books bc either subsequent laws (state or fed) overruled them, or bc by not enforcing those laws, they set a legal precedent where the law could no longer just start …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 08:31 AM
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Hello OP. Please post a link to that article you read as I haven't seen any news about wives leaving male Ukrainian soldiers at all, not to mention bc they returned disabled from the war.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 07:44 AM
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That's what I thought. I had to look up marital contracts, and it seems like it's recommended in some churches, but for the most part, it's an antiquated idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 07:04 PM
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Do you have a marriage license or an actual marital contract? We have just the marriage license, and of course our very generalized vows, and everyone I've asked says that's all they have, too. One has a prenup, but are actual marital contacts still a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:15 AM
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A Seinfeld reboot would be so apropos today, and I, for one, would love to see the gang's take on our modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:11 AM
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OP, please link your source for how "the large age gaps were very common for the majority of human history," and please also define how long ago represents the "majority of human history." Thanks! What i have been able to find is that in 1890, the average median age gap was husbands being 4.1 years older than their wives. And that age gap has been mostly decreasing ever since to where in 1940, the gap was average 2.9 years; in 1960 it was 2.5 years; in 2016 it was 2.1 years. Of course, 1890 to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:37 AM
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This has nothing to do with the comment to which you are responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 11:48 PM
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Uh... no. What you feel is sympathy for those with whom you relate, who are going thru the same situations as you have gone thru prior, bc you get how they are feeling. Empathy is being able to feel for people in unfamilar situations that you haven't experienced yourself, but you're able to recognize the person's feelings from their perspective rather than your own. Empathy is absolutely a skill that can be learned by those who want to. Actually, sympathy is also a learned skill, too. It's fine …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 11:22 PM
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I think it's a thing right now to look for any scapegoat and blame them for trump. But, I can't help but be amazed... Trump won both the popular and electoral college votes - do you know how long it's been since any presidential elect won both? Something more is afoot and going on here. Looking at the numbers, with or without exit polls, esp per the house and senate results, it seems that no one group can be blamed - except the dem party who have been running full speed on certain issues that ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:46 AM
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Could it be that Gen Z men are being blamed for voting for Trump, not necessarily for abortion bans? Altho I do see how often those both are related to each other and the link I posted above to the most recent 2024 Data for Progress abortion survey touches on trump's abortion POV. I'm also wondering if Gen Z men and women are catching blame for not voting at all? I've seen fingers point to that as supporting Trump, too. Gen Z had a somewhat dismal turnout this year, with about 42% of 41 million …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:42 PM
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That study is from 2018 and is a bit outdated since the Dobbs ruling changed many people's POV about whether abortion should be legal, banned or acceptable somewhere in between. This link is Data for Progress most recent findings on abortion, 2024. https://www.dataforprogress.org/blog/2024/6/20/two-years-since-dobbs-voters-are-concerned-about-new-abortion-restrictions-and-support-expanding-access But I still think that this proves OP's point that it's conservative men and women voters in red sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:25 PM
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I agree that it's religious conservatives, men and women, who are responsible for abortion bans in red states... that's the nature of red vs blue states & voters. I've not seen where anyone is blaming men for this, but if I did, I would try to correct them. Idk if everyone acknowledging who is actually to blame would help with gender tensions but I suppose it can't hurt. Esp if men feel like they are catching the blame for it. But still... I've seen a lot of men state many different ssues for wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:56 PM
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Woman 2 is obviously a random male pretending to be a woman. Women don't make some of those claims, only males do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:43 AM
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Surely, you are aware that in 2023, SCOTUS ruled against affirmative action in colleges? You don't seem as interested in debating your opinions shared in your post as you are in digging in your heels and insisting that your POV is right. I'm suspecting from how you've been engaging that you are not debating in good faith. Doesn't that violate the terms of this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:16 AM
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You can easily have both since they tend to go together. Look at China and Russia, for example. You seem to know history and understand how governments work, but some of those with whom you're discussing this, do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:47 AM
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It's much more than that. Registering to vote, getting a driver license, filing a tax return... all those and more put you on the jury duty lists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:33 AM
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What is social proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:10 AM
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Even the slightest risk of pregnancy in a state with abortion bans is still too much risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:18 PM
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It started in South Korea back in 2015 or so, I think? https://www.service95.com/4b-movement-explainer But I think you're probably right that it caught on here in America pretty recently... I saw mention of it first right after roe vs wade was overturned.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:16 PM
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Which establishments have said they will focus on hiring based off gender and race, rather than skill? Not in the USA. It's not legal to discriminate against, or grant preferential treatment, to any individual or group on the basis of race, sex, color, ethnicity, or national origin in the operation of employment, public education, or contracting. A judge recently declared (2022) that the Gender Mandate violates equal protection clause of the CA constitution. Therefore, despite the success of man…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:34 AM
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The article you linked in your OP, and from which you got these %, specifically states that the reason more men are single today is bc (a) they are electively single, meaning that being single is what they consciously are choosing; and (b) experts blame erotic alone time online (aka porn) as the major culprit. The article goes on to say that many men prefer an evening alone instead of actually meeting loneliness. Adding to this, the growing numbers of how many young men today have less to no clo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:36 AM
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At the bottom of the statistics, it says that single means not married, not living with a partner, and not in a committed relationship. So, I take this everyone who is dating, or has FWB, etc means they consider themselves single. Which led me to wonder... for men and women dating, how many are not on the same page with each other? Like, how many of the women polled answered that they are not single bc they think they are in a committed relationship with the guy they are dating? But what does th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:38 PM
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Why do you think there are only these 2 options from which to choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:42 AM
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Great comment! And thank you for mentioning the connection between the G spot and clit... most men (and too many women it seems) do not know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:32 AM
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If she says she has a BF, then even if it's true, it's a rejection, yes? But if she says she has a husband, then it's not a rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:22 PM
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And that she doesn't love or have deep feelings for the BF.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:00 PM
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What about domestic partners who live and may have kids together?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 09:59 PM
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I agree, and I think that you're also spot on about a false sense of intimacy. Texting may be useful in a limited role while dating and getting to know someone, but imho, personal interactions are more important, meaningful, and worthy. As per Psychologist Albert Mehrabian: "Only 7% of communication is conveyed thru words alone; the remaining 93% is communicated thru non-verbal clues like tone of voice, facial expression, or body language."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:08 PM
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This is a very good point. People tend to be way more impatient nowadays, and it's apparent how this would and does negatively impact those with autism (or other), who may need a little more time, understanding, and compassion to truly shine... as you've noted, it's not just those of us with developmental disorders, but lots of people in general need time to feel comfortable and free to be themselves - without condemnation by those who believe themselves perfect and therefore, entitled to judge …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:33 PM
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I'm not sure if the term pick-me is sufficient to describe female misogyny to someone like you who is seeking to understand. I get it bc I know what she's talking about, but I also get why it's not clear to you. I'll give it a try, but I'm not sure this is something that can, nor should be, explained via a sub reddit post... it's a convoluted concept that will take time and research to grasp it. Female misogyny, internalized or not, is when women subconsciously or, esp, consciously, project thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:09 AM
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25% of US men make over $100k compared to 12% of US women. What is considered to be the top 50% of wage earners vs the lower 50%? https://business.yougov.com/content/49463-who-are-high-earning-americans-and-what-do-they-think
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:15 AM
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The methodology Koss created started in the 1980s. Yes, in the 90s, she's quoted as proclaiming that she thought men could be sexually assaulted but could not experience penetrative raped by women, and obviously, that's been proven incorrect in the 30+ years since. She may still be currently focused on female rape victims, and she's identified types of rape under different conditions which still stand, but male rape and SA statistics have been tracked by both Canada and the USA for more than a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:51 AM
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This might be the most true and astute comment ever on PPD, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:00 AM
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That's ridiculous. Not your post or your friend's situation , but it's ridiculous if this kind of prior relationship should matter so much. No. It should not matter that he had a prior relationship with a consenting, albeit young, adult. People today seem to feel the need to make something out of nothing, and it's BS. If his potential future partner has an issue with this aspect of his past, then she's not the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:05 AM
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Was this in Tokyo?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:27 AM
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Why else would a guy want a paternity test unless he suspects or knows his partner has been or is cheating? I'm sincerely asking bc I don't get why else it would be requested. I've seen where some say it's just to be sure, but if a guy isn't sure, then that means he believes she could have cheated, and the kid isn't his.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:08 AM
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You took the time to think about this when commenting, and it shows. I appreciate it, and I agree; there is too much chitchat (on Reddit anyway) about the meaningless mundane opposed to real, serious relationship issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:53 AM
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Insanely logical response, well put. 🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:35 AM
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I've always thought that men asked for paternity tests bc they thought their women not only cheated on them but were also knowingly lying to them about the baby's paternity and claiming it as theirs? What are the other reasons a man would ask for a DNA test?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:02 AM
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Love you for this! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:05 AM
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Right? I don't know any woman who has done nor currently does this, either. I really would like to make the claim that this is fallacy, but that preliminary study does make a case even if it's not a full study. I feel like that if this has become an acceptable practice, we should be talking to our young ladies and girls about why it's not OK and also dangerous to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:19 AM
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What does noodle pilled mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:20 AM
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In the beginning, the study mentions the potential for foodie calls as possibly due to financial strain being especially pronounced for women who remain underrepresented and underpaid in the workforce, among other reasons. I appreciate this study being linked just for this statement as many on this sub don't believe women are underpaid. But I digress, and moving on... In the conclusion of the strengths, limitations, and future directions section, it states that the samples obtained for studies 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:15 AM
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Weren't you required to disclose the perjury to the judge?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:03 AM
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Lol, you might even need to charge a nickle for each. 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:33 PM
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Interesting. OK, that sounds good, but let's modify this law even further. All unmarried men will be obligated to be certified via mandatory, annual training on how to sexually pleasure women, with say, a minimum requirement of providing one orgasm per woman (it can be up to the discretion of each man on how they attain this goal), per each sexual interaction, under threat of jail and/or fines for failure to provide an orgasm; penalties shall be doubled for those men who in addition to failing, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:32 PM
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Better make that 2 pennies for each time you have sex in order to afford that candy bar each year. Inflation, u know?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:54 PM
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Yes. Well, unprotected sex can ruin your life or kill you; sex with protection will prevent, or at least drastically reduce, those risks. Heroin, on the other hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:40 PM
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It's a fake argument to divert from the subject. Most male rape victims were raped by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:27 AM
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You tutored as a study aid in high school? In my school, study aids were teacher aids who also tutored students who needed help - is that the same for you or did you get paid to tutor?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:43 PM
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Thank you for the info!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:30 AM
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Which hair transplant procedure did you undergo, FUE or FUT? My BIL wants to have it done. He's in his later 40s, and of all the 7 siblings, he's the only one with a receding hair line; since his 30s, it's been steadily distancing itself from his face and is instead marching right down his back, the poor guy. He didn't know about, or even consider, getting it done in a country other than in the USA. I told him about Turkey, and he got excited. He's always wanted to visit there, so that may be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:38 AM
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The ideal fertility rate today is 2.1 kids per woman, which ensures a stable population. Will the fertility rate return to historical norms? Unlikely. But does it even need to? Up until the last 100 or so years, people had an average of 5 kids per parent couples because (ugh) they knew some of them were going to die from disease or other. I look at my own great grandparents and grandparents who all came from 7 or more siblings each, and all had one or two siblings die at young ages. We've come a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:16 AM
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Thank you for this. I'm sharing this and the link with my red (black) pilled 14yo nephew. I've been trying to find the words to explain to him and his BFF about the difference between social media reality vs real life reality, and this is what I needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:23 AM
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Well, the same applies to men. Most guys would, and do, cheat when given the same opportunity that you are proposing, out during a boys' night if a gorgeous, random Stacy hits on them. All she would have to do is express interest and wait to see it reciprocated. Men chase Stacy; Stacys don't chase men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:11 AM
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How old are the women in your office? If they're in their 30s or older, it could be partly that marriage thing we're all told to want as kids, but also sometimes when women see all their friends getting married, they find themselves wanting the same. Cuz it can kinda suck to be the only single in your friend group of all married ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:52 PM
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Adoption is even more expensive. The fees, etc. Plus the wait list is really long for an infant. It is better to look into fostering &/or adopting older kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:41 PM
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Elon Musk had his prenuptial challenged?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:55 PM
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Ok, you just got me. This comment triggered a part of my heart, and it hurts me to read how much you loath yourself, and it's never ok or natural to feel like this about yourself. You also remind me of my 14yo nephew who somehow was indoctrinated with incel ideology a couple of years ago. Posts/comments like yours make me miss the now deleted sub, APD. I get why reddit deleted it, but for all the hate spewed on it, there were some real breakthroughs right up until deletion, between self-proclaim…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:00 AM
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I don't know exactly why, but I'm so digging your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:29 AM
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It's reddit, don't take it so seriously. The majority of opinions on Reddit in no way represents how the majority of people think in real life. Social media is supposed to be fun and entertainment; POVs on any social media should never be taken to heart or believed to accurately represent the majority of public opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:15 PM
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Low/no emotional intelligence response where psychopathy is apparent. Bottom line, typical red pill deranged response; also typical for this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:58 AM
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The centuries old, time-honored validation of men who exist to rape and abuse women can not be overlooked. There absolutely is a financial, freedom, sadistic and control incentive to lie about not having committed violence (not just rape). Plus, politics, culture, and all that shit leads to social acceptance of abhorrent acts. If you really believe fake rape accusations are a thing and that you or others might be falsely accused, guess what will eliminate that possibility? If you and all other g…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:42 AM
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Where do you live? Cuz in California, intoxication and/or verbal pressure is the definition of rape per penal code. But luckily for you and those of your ilk, you can still rape but per usual, get off as not guilty bc of "he said/she said". Even CA voters hate to condemn a random, white boy for his actions or screw his future based on some little oopsie mistake he once made. So you are on track with your ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:52 AM
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👀🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:34 AM
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You grew up in the 80s, 90s, and early 2000s, so... you are in your 40s or even 50s now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:31 AM
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The modern lonely guy movement has been co-opted by self-absorbed, often mentally ill people who only wish to reinforce gender dichotomy so they can use it to gain power and disadvantage women, whom they view as villains. It works both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:49 AM
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I truly hope that Gen z is also hyper self-aware, and Gen Z women who instinctively know that they would be better off as favored aunties rather than moms, will head those instincts. Until we get to a generation that is truly self-aware and doesn't bow to society gender expectations, we are F'ed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:05 AM
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Take what you learn from the internet as advice to recognize Red flags, and then act accordingly. Not all guys are red pillers, incels or misogynists - the important thing is to be able to recognize those who are and run. But you need to recognize the good guys too. There are actually good guys out there; learn to recognize the difference and put your love and faith into those who are worthy. Don't pay so much attention to Reddit or other online forums that give voice to those who hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:52 AM
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Ugly is, as ugly does, thinks and believes.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/24 02:52 AM
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This sounds like red pill ideology that not exactly appropriate for an exredpill sub unless you're looking for confirmation on your POV?
/r/ExRedPill29/04/24 02:21 AM
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When you've been attacked and raped by a man, without your consent, then come talk to us. You are one of those who can not grasp the immense pain and trauma others have experienced and who end up having to live with the ramifications until you experience it yourself. Let me know if you if you need the definition of ramification or consent. I'm happy to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:39 AM
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May karma pay you a well-deserved visit. Sometimes, we lack the capability of empathy until we personally experience the horror and trauma of what others have gone through.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:22 AM
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Well, since grizzly bears do neither to humans, it's not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:15 AM
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I've never heard of anyone who has a brain suggest that cuddling a bear is better than with a man. Wtf is happening online, and how are so many people believing this crap? When a woman says she'd rather be with a bear than a man, why do you assume it's a grizzly bear? That was kind of an overly dramatic assumption on your part to begin with. Tbh, you could have gone with polar bears. I also find it interesting that if googling what grizzly bears do to prey, the salmon thing is the top results. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:12 AM
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Points for mentioning Child's Play, the original, most bad ass and creepy of all Chuckie movies.👍
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:29 AM
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Ha! I like this comment, lol. Truth! It's the same for women; the cutest guy in the world turns ugly real fast if he's abusive or misogynistic. Ugly is as ugly does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:26 AM
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What about women who never wanted kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:20 AM
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Donald Trump was convicted for rape? What? Who? When? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:07 AM
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Points for using "zeitgeist", lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:26 AM
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Read the book. The story was set during a period of time that followed a nuclear war that happened years prior, which necessitated the rebuilding of society. The book is about that society and what happened; it is not specifically about a nuclear war, FFS. What the hell are you guys learning in schools today? Obviously, it's not reading compression or critical thinking skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:58 AM
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He doesn't get it. The science is confusing to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:37 AM
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Just less than half of all men have sperm cable of fertilizing an egg.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:36 AM
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I'm still wondering what new tampon tech has been presented that has freed women or contributes to feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:40 AM
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Because the opposite of passion is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:24 AM
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Hell yeah. Anyone who creates games, they create art. I am not into gaming, but those who code it? Fascinating and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:24 AM
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Well, I'm a woman who is a software developer, and what I can say is that any man who has a passion or ambition in any field he desires is attractive. It doesn't matter if his field of choice makes bank or not. His passion is what is vattractive. He could be into breeding worms, and if that's what he lives for, cool by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:21 AM
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It is disgusting and makes me angry too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:06 PM
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They are not valid things to look out for nor do they indicate someone is faking being a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:24 AM
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Men fantasize about turning a lesbian to hetro sex, that's all this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:21 AM
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Ngl, I actually thought you were repressed and closeted gay because of this post. I still think you probably are, but it's ok, no one will judge you bc if they do, we all will fight them for you..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:18 AM
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You wish. Dream on. News flash, real life is not a porno.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:13 AM
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In my experience, as a woman, I find that men tend to be covert and women overt. So, logically, I see your POV as a man would be why you experience the opposite. That boils down to what you said about how we'll never overcome core elements of human nature; I have to agree, sadly. That is where we are now, much worse than we ever were even 20 years ago. I think that the internet and social media, in particular, have played a significant role in widening the chasm between genders. At one point, we…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:36 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:21 AM
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That tends to happen in most male break-up support groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:19 AM
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On the flip side, then, many men are absolute shit at listening to and comprehending what their women are saying when telling the men exactly what's bothering them and the extent to which it's bothering them. Men and women not being able to communicate or listen to each other and comprehend what each other is saying is nothing new; it's been going on since the beginning of time. Men hear women talking, and it's like all they hear is a "wah wah wah" noise, like from the adults speaking in the Pea…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:14 AM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:20 AM
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What is the 80/20 rule, and from where did it originate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:06 AM
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Love this and thank you for the time it took you to find and post the links! What do you think of Arbonne products? They don't use petroleum products like US companies do and I've found them to actually work. I'm so interested in your pov.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:04 AM
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Thank you for this, I've often wondered about the hormones that are pumped into the meat of what we eat and how it will affect especially the girls and women of our future. I think that if you're not right, you're still on to something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:02 AM
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Trust is earned. Respect is given. Loyalty is demonstrated. Betrayal of any one of these means losing all 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:04 AM
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Did you read the article? It says that the reason most women tend to lose interest in sex is due to their being the primary caregiver of kids under 5 or they recently gave birth. Then, there is a paragraph that talks about how foreplay for women is necessary. If men can't help with the primary caregiver role or take the time for foreplay or to learn how to please their women, then yeah, why would women want to try to date men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:41 AM
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Think of it as you having an old soul. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:29 PM
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The first link said that she falls in love with personality and that the guy was handsome to her. The title was misleading. The 2nd link is from PPD and OP, a guy, refers to knowing one woman who said ugly guys. The 3rd link doesn't say anything about ugly guys or even that the one she's talking about is ugly; she just asked if she should date him if she's not attracted to him. He could be handsome, not ever woman is attracted to every man that some believe are handsome. The 4th link is a rant, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:16 PM
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Here's a fascinating article on all divorce statistics, including why women file more often than men. https://www.forbes.com/advisor/legal/divorce/divorce-statistics/#:~:text=Lack%20of%20Commitment%20Is%20the%20Most%20Common%20Reason%20for%20Divorce&text=This%20was%20the%20most%20common,marriage%20ending%2C%20exceeding%20even%20infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:20 PM
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God, yes, this is the answer. Everyone needs to stop thinking of people as either above or beneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:07 PM
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I agree with AjectiveNoun in that I don't get it either. You're right, 10 or 20 years ago (and prior), height, physique, looks did not matter to the extent they do today. Why the change nowadays? Personally, I think dating sites or apps have had a lot to do with it. They are the ones who perpetuate height being important as they apparently require that detail from users. It was one of those sites that started the whole 80/20% thing, which was based only on messages sent and replied to from their…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:06 PM
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If she said that, she's elitist, privileged, and a jerk. And she in no way speaks for all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:52 PM
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Come on, you know better than that. Women are not monoliths who all feel exactly the same attraction to the same type of men. Guess what? Women are actually individual thinking people just like you. Yeah? Shocker, I know. 🙄 But it's true. Women are all unique individuals who have their own thoughts, feelings, and preferences regardless of whatever controlled studies with manipulated faked data results are out there for you guys to feed upon. If you want to believe them at face value, go ahead. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:42 AM
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This bill is about financial fraud where someone takes advantage of a wealthy person for financial gain. And the bill is just about how dating sites who are informed of fraud and have removed a perpetrator, that they need to alert others who were in contact with the person of potential fraud. It has nothing to do with any other untruths or lies. Plus it's virtual signaling by CA since it relies upon the dating website to ban the fraud member and alert all who were in contact with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:28 AM
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This is the right answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:15 AM
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Source please.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:32 PM
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Slanerous and odious campaign against you? You want to post your opinion on this sub, yet you accuse those who disagree with you of slander? Your understanding of defeat is equivalent to your understanding of the survey to which you posted that link. Just stop it. Get a hold of yourself and enough with the emotional outbursts and attempts to divert. You posted an intriguing subject about which I personally would have liked to respectfully debate with you, but that link you included is problemati…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:07 AM
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This seems to boil down to nuances and intentions. Which are hard for anyone, even the most astute, to correctly gage. I still stand by my POV, but truly, if what you've stated is the common experience for most men these days, then I'm truly sorry for that. That's not the world I see (thank God) and it's not the world i nor my generation wanted. This isn't equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:42 AM
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Ok, I'm going to try this your way. When you have sex with a woman, do you expect to have an orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:36 AM
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Well, everything that I've said is predicated upon the fact that you do not understand the study nor the results of which you provided a link as a basis for your opinion. Again, you are incorrect in your interpretation of the study's results as well as what they mean by "entitlement." I and several others, even those who should by default, just blanket agree with you, have told you that you are wrong and that you are misunderstanding the study, but you seem to want to argue just for the sake of …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:29 AM
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Thank you for this. It's a concept that gets lost... all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:11 AM
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Your last paragraph demonstrates that you don't understand this study nor the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:07 AM
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No. Not at all. Most people do NOT subscribe to school shootings as a choice in any hypothetical or real scenario. Those kinds of choices, between what color socks to wear and shooting up a school, are abhorrent and inhumane; and most people do not think that way... Your comment is very poetic and also very worrisome. Do you dream about the day you can pick up a gun and go to a school?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:01 AM
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That sounds like textbook lesson 101 of a false dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:53 AM
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My husband will tell you that I'm the one to get up, grab the gun, and check it out. And I'll let my husband continue to sleep. Why? Because I not only hear and see better than him, I'm a much better shot than he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:41 AM
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If you tried to protect any woman in such a situation and you were told by other women to not do that, they were wrong. Not every woman needs protection, but then again, not every man needs it either, but as a woman i've stepped up and intervened when I saw a guy getting hurt and my actions prevented him from being hurt worse. (He even thanked me.) So when our instincts are to help, we should act on them and fuck those who base every action on whether they get laid or not. Come on. These gender …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:26 AM
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Consider it the price of equality. If women make mistakes, who cares? If they learn from them or they don't, who cares? Pretty much anyone who keeps making the same mistakes over and over again, and they keep complaining about it, will lose their audience pretty quickly. This applies to both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:08 AM
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I suggest you read the study to which you posted the link because "entitlement" does not mean what you think it does. This study is about men and women feeling entitled to sexual pleasure with and from their partners. (Think orgasm.) The study specifically states the percentage of women who get pleasure from their partners vs double the amount of men who do. Shocker. Who would have thought that men would only care if they get off and don't care if their partners do? 🤔 If you think sexual pleasur…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:13 AM
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Happy cake day!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:36 AM
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Exactly this! Women can be much more harsh towards other women than they are to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:13 PM
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Thank you for replying. I need to read your reply again tomorrow and then I can reply. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:31 AM
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I'm sure they do have sources. Their brother's girlfriend's cousin's fiancée's dad's 2nd cousin's step kid's boyfriend's sister once got pregnant, and although she hated the guy, she made him accountable for the kid's support. So now, all women are evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:26 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:45 AM
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Who is this mysterious "they" who are looking into making paternity tests mandatory at birth. There are no pending laws, from any states, at this time. https://www.reuters.com/fact-check/no-law-requires-dna-testing-establish-paternity-united-states-2023-09-13/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:41 AM
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Which states?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:31 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:21 AM
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Incentivize men to not have kids with women if they don't want them, and they should ask 2 questions before casual sex or even sex during a relationship: Are you on birth control? (If so, what kind? ) If you get pregnant, would you have an abortion or would you give birth and keep or put up for adoption? If the woman says she's not on BC, then either produce a condom or bid farewell. If she would keep the baby, same. If a guy doesn't want the responsibility, then he should walk away before getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:13 AM
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Sincerely asking.... Are men suffering from lack of sex or are they suffering from a lack of healthy relationships with love, intimacy, companionship, and sex? I read "lonely" as to mean the latter, but it's not clear to me to which you are referring.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:14 PM
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The friend groups I've had over the years, none of us women ever depended on our guy friends to pay for us or rescue us, we were all pretty self sufficient and didn't need to depend on our girlfriends either. Maybe one or two of our guy friends would date younger women, but there was never any jealousy on our parts bc why would we be jealous of a friend finding happiness? Like others, we'd happily welcome her into our group. Now, if we thought the young woman with our friend was using him in any…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:53 PM
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I can't see the article in your link, but to respond to your question... There was a recent post in, I think it was r/AskReddit, where it asked something about, how important it is to marry someone with the same political POV. The overwhelming response was that it is very important. A lot of replies said they wouldn't even date someone who did not share their beliefs and that it's one of the first questions they ask potential partners. This was interesting to me. A long time ago, it was the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:50 PM
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Ok, I understand better what you mean by "immoral," but are you only referring to those women who are being granted benefits or advancements in exchange for sex? Benefits that they otherwise would not get if sex wasn't involved? And is it just these kinds of benefits you are opposed to, or is it all compensation women receive in exchange for sex, i.e., escorts, strippers, etc? I understand your point, that sexual 'favors' can give an advantage to the woman over others in school or jobs, but is i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:14 PM
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Wtf? Questions about paternity are so opposite ends of the spectrum from being concerned about child SA that I can't even wrap my head around why you're asking. Except to say, I know first hand the differences, but I'm not about to tell you what they are bc I suspect the reasons for which you ask. I'm not going to help someone rape a kid and hide the evidence. You are waaaay too focused on supposedly false accusations of child rape or SA.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:09 AM
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Thank you for the links. My apologies, cuz I did know that, I misunderstood your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:08 PM
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Source, please, re sexual assault is committed by people that victims already know or are alone with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:59 AM
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How do you feel sex can be more readily available; What would you change? What do you believe that women today are doing to create the perception of sexual scarcity?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:29 AM
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Those studies dictate that being in a healthy, happy relationship benefits overall mental health; good relationships don't necessarily improve existing mental illnesses but they've found that if the relationship doesn't improve mental health, they are believed to likely not make them worse. But a bad relationship will cause existing mental health issues to worsen, even more so than by being alone. In certain cases, bad relationships can cause mental health issues to present noticably for the fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:13 AM
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This is a very thoughtful and astute post. And it resonates.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:03 AM
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Not at all overwhelming, my husband has emotional needs, he's open about expressing them, and I love this about him, it's a huge turn-on. After dating emotionally unavailable men for years, which was always the main reason for breaking up, i finally found a man who isn't afraid to share his emotions and be open with me about what he needs, and vice versa. I'm willing to admit that maybe it's easier for us bc we're both older with our own means of supporting ourselves, but bottom line, physical, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 11:01 PM
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Some men and women do love their step or adopted kids like they were their own, but some also don't. I think the difference can be especially notable if there are bio kids along with the step/adopted kids. Maybe it's easier to love and treat non-bio kids as if they were their own, if there aren't any bio kids in the family. My dad didn't love me, but he loved his bio kids beyond. I've often wondered how growing up with him might have been different if they hadn't had my younger bio siblings and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:25 PM
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Yes, but even the paperwork doesn't matter. What you've stated about step kids is also true for adopted kids, even if adopted as a newborn. Maybe for bio kids with shared genetics, parents might have an unconditional love for who they are (i wouldn't know), but for non-bio kids, the love can be conditional and contingent upon us meeting whatever expectations they have of us. It's even more so if we have bio siblings who do meet all their expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:14 PM
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Thank you!
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 07:14 PM
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I'd like to read it, please, if you have time to find the link to it.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 06:41 PM
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It's not sci-fi anymore. Designer babies - via a process called germline engineering where DNA is manipulated - has been experimented with for a while now, just not in the USA or other countries where it is illegal. This concept would prevent an abortion. Instead, it would prompt parents paying big $ to alter their unborn child's DNA as to guarantee the best, most intelligent, and beautiful child possible. But even then, beauty is subjective, and who is to say that even children brought up under…
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 10:10 PM
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The internet is fine. It's dating apps and the ideology advanced by them that changed everything for the worse.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 11:26 PM
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Per an 8/9/23 (updated) article in verywellHealth: https://www.verywellhealth.com/older-parents-and-autism-risk-for-child-5199211 This article is interesting, it lists several different studies; some research points to risk of autism as from only older dads, others point to older moms. In general (in the summary), the older either (or both) parents are, the greater the risk of having an autistic child. Also, a much more recent article came out about a studies that found a correlation between an …
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 04:38 PM
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The actual divorce rate in the West has hovered around 50% for decades (fluctuating by a percentage point here and there); which does not equate to divorce being "very common", 50% means "common" at best. The number of marriages increasing or decreasing has nothing to do with the percentage that ends in divorce. 10 marriages vs 100,000 marriages, if half end in divorce, it's still 50%. (Did you go to school in CA?) Prenuptial agreements rarely get thrown out, but a judge will overturn one if unf…
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 01:29 AM
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But you're still not independent. Don't you want to be so?
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 04:43 AM
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If you're not independent by wage cucking for minimum wage for an employer who takes to all your free for for pennies, how are you any more independent if you live off your mom?
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 03:10 AM
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Are your friends/acquaintances attracted to their women? I sincerely ask bc this isn't often mentioned. Usually the focus is on whether women are attracted to the guys. But it's important in relationships for both to be physically attracted to each other.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 11:06 PM
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Or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:19 PM
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For royalty or kingdoms, the bride's family is the one who pays a dowry to the husband's family. The dowry is a gift to her new inlaws or is to serve as insurance for the bride should she decide to leave her husband at some point in the future. The husband does not pay a dowry to his bride's family in western cultures or Christian nations. If you are thinking of other cultures or religions, you should specify which ones. As far as before the development of civilization goes, which is subjective …
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 03:48 AM
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That's not true even per most posts or comments in this sub. Men and women both need each other. To stereotype either undermines both.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:24 AM
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Men not liking women is not the same as not liking what women provide them. Men still need women to survive. They still want them to do things for them, but they want them to do it at great expense to themselves. It works both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:38 AM
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Hmm, interesting question. I'm assuming you are talking about taking any kind of test, not necessarily DNA, to find out if your partner cheated at all? Not trying to confirm if a child's father is really their bio father?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:06 PM
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The difference is the level of betrayal the man is demonstrating he thinks his partner is capable of. It's like the difference between believing someone is capable of theft vs believing them capable of murder. Have you ever been accused of stealing something when you didn't? Now imagine you are accused of the theft as well as the murder of the victim, neither of which you did, but the accuser is positive it was you. How would it feel if the accuser was your partner who you love and trust, and wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:47 PM
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The father can always get his own DNA test done. If the child is identified as his by the birth certificate, he can authorize the testing of his child's DNA as well, for comparison. This is after the child is born, of course. If mom is still pregnant, that's where her refusal would prevent testing unless court ordered.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:07 PM
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Sometimes, people just need to work out their feelings or issues for themselves when they are ready to do so. I don't necessarily disagree with your advice, I'm a strong believer in, and an advocate for, therapy if desired or especially if dealing with PTSD from a traumatic event or life. But therapy &/or meds will only work for those who want them. Neither will do any good for anyone who feels the way OP does, and your intentions were well meaning in suggesting those options but tbh, once he sa…
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 02:04 AM
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A 2009 OkCupid "study". https://techcrunch.com/2009/11/18/okcupid-inbox-attractive/amp/ Not the original article but one published based on OkCupid "scientific findings" from back then. Essentially, OkCupid published negligible findings that stated most of their female members at the time, found only 20% of their male members as attractive. Somehow, since then, this has translated from an estimated total of 3.5 million members, with an almost 1:1 ratio, men and women, to represent the world's PO…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:58 AM
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Well... to use an old but apropos saying: "Close (almost) only counts in horseshoes and hand grenades. " Coming close but not succeeding is not good enough. Almost" doesn't count for anything else, including in an election for the president of the United States.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 06:47 AM
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In evolutionary terms, it made, and still makes, total sense that women would choose to marry their equals or better. As stated in your linked article, "this necessity was more apparent in primitive days when humans had to hunt for survival, all the way up to a bigger part of last century where women were not allowed access to education or work." Income, status and education are essentially evidence of (a man's) intelligence, perseverance, and overall good health, including the psychological abi…
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 06:41 AM
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This is from the full-length study? Did you have to start the free 2-week trial to get access? Thanks for posting the details. The summary presented (per the article on the post to which the OP linked) seemed purposely provocative, likely to encourage people to sign up for the subscription; but if the contents of the study are what you presented here, then it appears to be a classic case of bait and switch. The findings of the actual study appear to oppose black pill beliefs.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 11:22 PM
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It's 93% of communication (only) that is supposedly nonverbal, is based on the "55-38-7" theory developed in the 1960s, by then-UCLA Professor Mehrabian, which was based on 2 previous studies he conducted in 1967. In the 1st study, he had 17 women students listen to a recording of a woman saying "maybe" in different tones of voices while looking at 3 photos of women with different facial expressions. Building on his hypothis from the 1st study, he went on to test it by having 30 students listen …
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 03:39 AM
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I'm all for single men having babies on their own. If artificial wombs become advanced enough to be able to completely replace a woman's womb and body, then go for it. Artificial wombs could be the answer for any singles or couples who are unable to carry a baby to term, and who also don't want to use a surrogate for whatever reasons. Men and women are still going to need each other though, for their eggs and sperm. Fortunately, there are egg banks where you can purchase a stranger's eggs but ju…
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 01:47 AM
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OP, I have acne scars and still break out, if that's what you have too, try glycolic skin peels with a skin professional. Once a month, and in a few months you'll already see a difference. I did those for 12 months and it made a huge difference for me. Good luck!
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 02:09 PM
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Let's hope that none of these guys are able to procreate.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/23 12:27 AM
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Let's be honest, they want to believe all women are broken, (cue the echo chamber of the hive mindset), but somehow they have not yet progressed to a single explanation fits all (coming soon); this is just one of many reasons they purposely chose to believe, to hate on a certain subsection of women. Stereotyping at its most pathetic and ignorant. Red pill community, aka incels, live to eat, sleep, and obsess over f*cking. They believe that everyone lives and craves the same as them, men and wome…
/r/ExRedPill25/02/23 12:25 AM
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It depends on what Timmy did or said, and also what he lied about. If a man is completely open and honest about his intentions, and a woman sleeps with him regardless of those intentions, then yes it would be on her. But if the guy lied to her, told her he was into her when he wasn't, told her he was committed to her when he wasn't, lied to her about loving her, then it's on him. Man or woman, they can only make decisions based on what they are told and the actions that they see. Consequences go…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:53 AM
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