Men in a nutshell

Super-Peoplez-S0Lt · 2022-01-01T19:56:17+00:00

Controversial take, don't date someone you don't find attractive no matter how unconventionally attractive you are. You aren't doing anyone any favors by doing that.

Suck-Less · 2022-01-01T18:56:00+00:00

I’m pretty sure you can swap genders on this one easily.

Jacke766565 · 2022-01-02T00:45:36+00:00

Purge week is garbage, if you want memes make a different subreddit

Edit: it's been here a thousand times, men rate women along the gauss curve, women see 80% of men as below average

morbidnihilism · 2022-01-01T19:29:11+00:00

It's literally the same thing if you swap genders

REEE_XD · 2022-01-01T19:48:12+00:00

Memes like this lose to the OkCupid stats.

LORD-THUNDERCUNT · 2022-01-01T20:25:26+00:00

Meme makes no sense since men never got cold approached and majority of men don’t get matches in OLD. I noticed a lot of women project like crazy on this sub.

wtknight · 2022-01-01T19:31:44+00:00

Both sexes either learn to settle or learn to live without the company of the opposite sex. Unfortunately for men, women tend to deal with this fact better since they often develop closer friendships with same-sex friends.

MR_Shigitoshi · 2022-01-01T19:51:04+00:00

Imagine a room with 100 age appropriate people of the opposite gender.

A man will say "I am easily attracted to 81 of these women"

A woman will say, "I am only attracted to that handful of super hot guys in the corner, everyone else will have to make up for it in some other way"

Vicky-3 · 2022-01-01T20:08:25+00:00

Dudes will also date a wider variety of women than a woman will variety of men.

TravelerSF · 2022-01-01T20:15:30+00:00

Eh. For men, the scale of attraction goes way further than with women. You have men attracted to tall women, short women, fat women, skinny women, muscular women, young women, old women, etc.

For women, there seems to be about 2-3 accepted body types and that's it.

throwinout · 2022-01-01T18:59:25+00:00

Oh please, ugly women have a muuuuuuch easier time getting men than vice versa. Ugly women brag about how they could get a man in a second, meanwhile being below average as a man makes it highly likely you'll struggle.

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2022-01-01T20:31:10+00:00

Men are more likely to date looksmatch. Women are more likely to have an inflated sense of ego and attractiveness due to attention on social media and online dating.

AtomicMGTOW · 2022-01-01T21:59:44+00:00

This isn't true at all. All you have to do is go look at the OKCupid stats about how women rate men and vice versa. No one is going to fuck a one or a two, but plenty of men will fuck a three.

Women will not fuck a three. Even a woman that's a three won't fuck a four.

I know why this comic strip would be appealing to women, especially the purple pill or FDS types.

Those women, like most modern women, all think they're at least a seven on a bad day. And to them, most men are ostensibly five or below.

In real life the man in this comic strip is just your average dude but the depiction is how they perceive him. Most of the time this man would be invisible to them but if he makes an approach or even if they see him approaching someone else they think ewwwwww... Gross creep! OR WORSE.

Women have never really been good with numbers. Most of their rationality, if you can call it that, is based in emotion. Therefore they tend to engage in something called splitting... In psychology this is a black and white thinker. It's either on or it's off, it's either true or it's false, it's either one or a zero.

If they're not attracted to that guy he's a zero, if they're attracted to that guy he's a 10 (at least in their minds).

This, of course, makes sense in an evolutionary sense. Women typically are choosier. And they were choosier before the pill and other modern technological advancements that make working for money a lot easier (think office work). Of course they still wanted an attractive man but they had to be a little bit more practical in their choices. There were fewer men to choose from. The better looking men got the better looking women - women had to be more realistic about finding a looksmatch. And, most importantly, they needed to find at least a working man that would be willing to invest in her, the family and children... in other words, playing around and fucking bad boys was a hell of a lot riskier than it is now with the welfare state taking care of women that made VERY poor choices.

Now, it is possible for women too make their own way in this world, and failing that they still have an easier time accessing government programs like disability and welfare and if they happen to get pregnant and throw the guy away they'll still have access to either child support or a welfare program like mother's allowance. It's not good money but it's enough for them to keep their standards relatively high because they don't need to depend on the man for anything. And because of all of that the only thing women seem to be looking for nowadays is attractiveness.

I see plenty of women on some sort of government assistance that still seem to go for these pretty boy fuckboy losers with no potential, no social economic status, no education, no job... Criminal record, petty thug/their, drug addict, hobo-sexuals. They still choose them because they're attractive and then when the relationship inevitably comes to an end they have children by these guys and the government takes care of them for the next 20 years.

Having a child out of wedlock with a loser used to put women in a very bad socioeconomic situation. But not anymore. So without the consequences they don't perceive anything to be wrong with it. They still get to act like there's some sort of a hero for being a mother. As if they're helping human kind one child at a time. And of course they get to virtue signal that they're doing it all on their own so therefore they must be strong and independent... Yeah strong and independent living in subsidized housing receiving welfare and mother's allowance... Sure../s. -rolls eyes-

ahandtoyourdarknessx · 2022-01-01T18:59:19+00:00

This must be how women see average looking guys

Consistent_Wear_1224 · 2022-01-01T20:18:07+00:00

Why can't everyone just accept that both genders do this?

No one wants the average people and everybody hates the ugly people.

No needs for a discussion about who does it more.

kblkbl165 · 2022-01-01T19:41:27+00:00

As SMBC put it:

Wife: Sex!

Husband: Money!

Caption: We decided to keep our wedding vows succinct

Why would men, the Johns, not expect greater attractiveness in return for paying the women, the whores, money?

At least actual hookers know better than to think money comes for free lmao

O-j-O · 2022-01-01T20:11:37+00:00

No matter how we look ourselves, we nearly always find the same set of people attractive. Just because someone is 3/10 doesn’t mean that he/she will find 3/10 attractive. If they are desperate enough then they may settle for another 3/10 but they will never really like each other and it will be a miserable union. It’s suffering for them regardless.

But I do agree that one should have an idea of where they stand and must not be bitter if the people they desire do not desire them back, because those attractive people have their own expectations for a partner and if you don’t fit into that equation then that doesn’t make them bad.

It takes a lot of time and a lot of maturity to accept that life does hand shit cards to a lot of people, some are short, some are ugly, some are both, some are tall and attractive but die young due to accident/disease, some are abused as kids, some live in a shithole and have no way of getting out.

Now we live in such times where the privileged few keep getting rubbed into people’s face all the time, hence reminding them of what they are lacking in their lives. The privileged also considers it their duty to put the less fortunate ones in their place. But that’s human nature, it doesn’t come innately to everyone to be empathetic to people you cannot help.

Square_Inflation_534 · 2022-01-01T22:33:58+00:00

Ru mad what incels are refusing any women? They are so fucking thirsty they'd fuck anything. This is obviously how women behave though.

Physical-Pie748 · 2022-01-01T19:59:34+00:00

actually it the other way around with the genders. nice try tho. try dating apps with a below average male and a below average female. lets see your results.

ShinyBronze · 2022-01-01T20:58:18+00:00

Cake walk.

Ladies, you do realize men and women value different things in one another, right?

Men value physical attractiveness the most in women, and everything still matters, just not as much.

Women value more than just physical attractiveness in men. Resources, confidence, strength etc. She will be willing to forgive the lack of handsomeness if he has other characteristics. A women with a degree won’t date a hot guy who works at McDonald’s.

However, a man with a degree WILL date the hot barista from Starbucks.

Beauty is the most important component for us in mate selection. You can have the most desirable qualities in the world, but if we don’t find you hot, it won’t work.

Zerofication · 2022-01-01T19:01:43+00:00

Females 101: If you find the collective of females agreeing to something related to dating or marriage, then it's flat out wrong or inaccurate at best.

HOLYREGIME · 2022-01-01T19:14:30+00:00

Lmao. This is women when they get pumped n dumped by chad and the BB approaches.

IHaveSalesQuestions · 2022-01-01T19:09:34+00:00

Oh yeah, because women are the gender of realistic expectations.

Individual-March8163 · 2022-01-01T21:48:35+00:00

Eh I take the dating app statistics over a meme lmao

1Here4Bach · 2022-01-01T18:52:53+00:00

Their narcissism and entitlement won’t allow them to see beauty in their looksmatch. Sad.

Rough_Collections · 2022-01-01T20:37:20+00:00

This is more women then men because men will pair with and entertain a woman at his level. Women don't understand that most non-Chad men actually do weight a woman's flaws and qualities to determine whether he should date her. Women on the other hand like to swing for the fences and complain when they strike out. There are literally thousands of video on TikTok about beautiful women saying that men, Period, are not approaching them and the only attention they are getting is from Pooky and Ray Rays that have nothing to lose and no self respect. I don't hear Chads with this complaint they literally clown on each other for messing with certain women. I have literally seen an average woman "Mooo'ed" at and called Shamu by Chads as she went into a Chad's room. I use to hate the Chads in my Simp days but then I realized what self respecting women let's a man treat her like that? At what point is it OK to let his friends moo at you and him just laugh along.

I still hate Chads but now I have no sympathy for the other side.

Edited: Grammer

lulll · 2022-01-01T20:46:12+00:00

delet this thread immediately

globalholiday5090 · 2022-01-01T20:46:35+00:00

Yes, but also women just as much.

Adamskog · 2022-01-01T20:59:42+00:00

Only silly people think this doesn't work both ways. She would be doing the same as Quasimodo, and following that Phoebus guy around instead.

SeaSquirrel · 2022-01-01T21:12:20+00:00

This sub in a nutshell

nothatyoucare · 2022-01-01T21:18:38+00:00

So much projection in this post call it IMAX. If this were true then the rates of sexlessness between men and women would be roughly the same. But we all know they're not. Its men who experience sexlessness at higher rates. For this picture to be accurate at all you would need to swap the sexes between them.

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2022-01-01T22:01:06+00:00

So we really are having our first ever biannual purge week then I guess

mbh63 · 2022-01-01T22:37:13+00:00

The shit posting hasn’t been this bad since purge week

Square_Inflation_534 · 2022-01-01T22:41:07+00:00

"Why would you say you're hungry if there's a cold, rotting, moldy hot dog on the ground behind a gas station dumpster?"

QuenchlessGato · 2022-01-01T23:08:27+00:00

I have yet to see an unattractive woman interacting out of her volition with an unattractive man.

Lonelybuthopeful9 · 2022-01-02T11:19:28+00:00

Nope, noone approached me

ffandyy · 2022-01-02T12:36:11+00:00

Fuck this is accurate lol

throwthatmfaway · 2022-01-01T19:19:32+00:00

Women can’t even accurately asses who’s whose looksmatch. Strawman.

Vicky-3 · 2022-01-01T18:59:10+00:00

This is true. That’s why RP tell guys, if your short,ugly and out of shape, socially awkward or broke you need to do something about it.

I had to admit this to myself, i would chase women waaaaay out of my league.

boomcheese44 · 2022-01-01T18:50:17+00:00

Literally why I don't take most men seriously.

ShorterThanMyGf · 2022-01-01T19:06:10+00:00

This post is an exaggeration(and obv intended to be) but I really just think a lot of people who are not on extreme ends of attractiveness do not know what their "looksmatch" looks like. I've always been curious what the women equivalent of me looked like.

Ask_For_Cock_Pics · 2022-01-01T21:54:33+00:00

I am responding to this as an extremely attractive male, who is naturally nerdy and introverted, but has learned how to act narcissistic and cold in the pursuit of sex; Women are fucked. To win means to become the worst version of yourself.

Women are attracted to health, and attractiveness too, but men grow up learning to be corrupt, manipulative, greedy all in the pursuit of women, because it's almost exclusively terrible personality traits that they are attracted to. A world without women would be Eden.

Banned_BY_SOYMEN · 2022-01-02T03:37:34+00:00

Absolute bullshit. Fat girls even have high standards nowadays.

i_hate_fishe · 2022-06-03T06:42:32+00:00

Lies, statistically she probably has men hitting on her and she can land someone fairly more attractive than her, this is just coping that 10/10s don't want you and only go after 10/10s. Well both genders need copium after all so who am I to judge

livs4dietdrpepper · 2022-01-01T18:51:20+00:00

Very accurate

creekcrystall · 2022-01-01T18:57:00+00:00

Most accurate post on this sub!

1master_dom · 2022-01-01T22:55:28+00:00

This is nonsense. Most men will fuck anything. Look at some of the women profiting off onlyfans. Horrid, but paid.

TheHeroReditDeserves · 2022-01-01T19:51:18+00:00

This is a post

psd5 · 2022-01-01T21:19:59+00:00

This is a curious advice I have seen a couple of times but then I ask, what is your real advice ? setting up with a person from opposite sex who is the same physically unattractive ? That would be an actual equal exchenge for both sides but then, would you ask a man to be sexually conformist? Even then, where is supposed to be the typical adviced given to men about " get to gym, get a shower, learn to game with girls, clean your teeth", because neither of them will fix the guy's face, guy's height, legs assimetry and more.

I'm looking up for a legit reply.

FrostieTheSnowman · 2022-01-01T22:32:23+00:00

Unfortunately, there is such a thing as "too ugly", and it's pretty much different for everybody. Men and women alike are attracted to certain things, and neither should be shamed or resented for it. But, also probably shouldn't be openly weeping about it if you're going to be a choosy beggar xD

tonyghow · 2022-01-02T00:25:04+00:00

This just in! If someone draws something as a cartoon, it must be true!

anonymouscausefuckU · 2022-01-02T04:26:25+00:00

While I definitely can’t say that this post is inaccurate, you gotta understand this attraction is an involuntary physical instinct. You can’t control who you’re physically attracted to any more than you can stop breathing.

assman_x64 · 2022-01-02T05:16:50+00:00

Do you think this meme would fly if the genders were reversed? Hell fcking no 😂

TrainingNeck4003 · 2022-01-02T07:37:33+00:00

CORRECTION: SOME "MEN" IN A NUTSHELL. Men can't generalize all women, why can you generalize all men. Matter of a fact, why can't both men and women cognize that all men and women aren't thinking, acting, feeling, behaving, amd communicating the same things.

People have the $hitty mindset of same the same $hit different piles. Not all people are $hitty people. Men AND Women.

social_mule · 2022-01-02T15:00:23+00:00

This has really become a popular school of thought, hasn't it? I can't argue with another person's experience but I've been to Walmart on a Sunday afternoon enough times to know that ugly people are marrying other ugly people left, right and center. And they're having 2-3 ugly kids to boot.

Netflix_Guzzler · 2022-01-08T04:46:08+00:00

Reminds me of Joe & Love😂

tux_pirata · 2022-01-10T17:19:11+00:00

goes both ways tbh, you see the same attitude among incels and femcels

michael1962-01 · 2022-01-01T19:02:29+00:00

I feel that guy.

How dare some women to even talk to me. Don't they see that my small brain would not steer in wood even not on ED overdose.....

dysonRing · 2022-01-01T19:06:47+00:00

I still think women's looks are mutable (except age), I lucked out but can still see a lot of stuff that makes me deeply uncomfortable like the stedfastedness towards immutable characteristics.

Ironically it is the wallet, a mutable characteristic, that I vet for.

lkfb94 · 2022-01-01T19:22:52+00:00

Eleven ugly people don’t want to sleep with ugly people.

Make your philosophy include your physicality.

Look after yourself, get healthy, get attractive.

You won’t be as attractive as those who have looked after themselves since birth.

Some are lucky to be born into a position in the world where self care is intrinsic. Others are unlucky enough to find themselves were torture is intrinsic.

Make yourself better and find someone fitting.

Once you have both loved yourselves, perhaps you can love eachother.

Icanusethesamehat · 2022-01-01T19:24:05+00:00

Basically the story of my life.

Men in a nutshell

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Thank you for proving that you cherry pick.

Then stay single, oh well.

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