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Question For MenGoldfish112233/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:33 AM
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Masculinity: 132 Femininity: 134 I’ve always been pretty neutral on gender, and I thought about joining war for a long while. The think that pushed femininity higher was the fact that I don’t particularly like shooting or using guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:24 AM
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Nope, this is because I just don’t really feel attracted to most men, especially where I am. Most have very different life values from me, and different ambitions. I don’t plan to be a stay at home wife for a poor guy who will never get a good job because he won’t get good grades and has literally no ambition other than becoming a worker at one of the 100 car repair shops. I also don’t want to have birth children, and in my town they all expect you to be popping out 9+ kids. If I were to meet so…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:13 AM
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My requirements are a completely different thing than my preferences. For instance. Requirements: has a big heart and not particularly scared to show their emotions (not to say that they must always feel emotional, but rather that they feel empathy since empathy is a really big part of myself), doesn’t want birth children/fine with adopting (I have a fear of giving birth and all that), and likes physical touch. Doesn’t think they own me,my mind, or my body. Preferences: smart/intelligent, words …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:06 PM
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Don’t be so worried about me. As I said, I’m not good with baby’s, and thus do NOT plan to give birth or adopt an infant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:22 PM
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That’s what I said in the last paragraph, though I don’t know if I wrote it in a way that can be understood. I just think the person who should get the most say would be my husband. He knows more about his own genitalia then I would. I also should mention that I don’t plan to give birth or adopt a baby. I would prefer to adopt a child 3-18. I will just leave the child with what they have at that point. This is just in the VERY hypothetical situation that I gave birth to a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:59 AM
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Well I’ve had a mix of people who’ve assaulted me, across the entire gender spectrum. I’m mad at them as people, but just going off of personal anecdotes, women and feminine presenting people tend to be the ones who slut shame me after. I don’t hate women either, and tend to emotionally identify with them far more with men. This was just an anecdotal experience of mine. Btw, it’s wrong to slut shame someone because they were sexually assaulted and sexually harassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:54 AM
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I think I’d let my husband (assuming I had a husband) choose. The fact of the matter is that I don’t know anything about the autonomy of male genitalia. If he thinks that’s what would be best for our child then that’s the choice I’d make, and if he thinks it’s unnecessary then I will side with him. This is less about consent like other people are talking about, but more about keeping my hypothetical child safe and healthy. I don’t do excessive amounts of research on the benefits and issues that …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:51 AM
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Most men really do have a way of making me feel secure and safe. As someone who has been SH/SA’d several times, men have always been the ones to feel for me, and other women tended to blame me for it. I have always felt more affectionate towards guys, and I like how they handle tough things much better than I can. Sometimes I just need stability and someone to be there, and I don’t think I’ve ever felt that in a woman. This isn’t saying that I’m against men telling me their problems though, caus…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:11 PM
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Nerd, top of her class, band geek, queer. I am pretty shy, but much less so on internet platforms. I am friends with a lot of “outcasts” and always have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:05 PM
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Yeah, that isn’t true. I was friends with someone since sixth grade, and all of a sudden in eighth grade I gained a little feeling for him. He didn’t like me, and I didn’t even ask because I’m not a fan of dating. Either way I saw him as really weird when I met him, but then later gained a bit of feeling for him. I don’t anymore as he feels like a brother, and dating him just seems gross. In addition, he’s not my type. Other than a year ago when I had a boyfriend, I’ve never had a crush on someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:06 PM
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Pretty eyes, and has clothes of his I can fit into, so atleast 5’1, longish (like about enough to cover his forehead) hair, and while not a requirement, I like guys with clean shaven faces, or a 5 o’clock shadow. (Also, pretty eyes are just eyes, any color, that don’t make me feel like I’m about to be killed. I have a friend with those eyes, and it’s one of the reasons I rejected him.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:27 AM
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BMI isn’t a correct measure of health, and maybe I am 🙄🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:57 PM
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Are you stupid? I’ve said several times already that what looks like fat is a hell of a ton of muscle. Cause I grow muscle in my thighs and no other part of my body (I’m a prof. Cheerleader) I look a bit chunky. Also, my ribs stick out. I also tend to have a bigger waist then most people cause that’s how my bones grew. I exercise a lot, and I definitely exercise more than I eat. It’s the way my body is set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:33 AM
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I’m not overweight, I’m over the most preferred weight, but if I was heavy or obese then my doctor wouldn’t be telling me to not pay attention to my weight cause I’m very healthy. You’re not a medical professional, and I’d be surprised if you know anything about how body’s work. A lot of people have natural chub, and the worst thing you can do is eat less then the recommended amount. I eat 2 meals a day (one of which being a sandwich and an apple, the other being some form of meat with no side) …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:04 AM
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I guess I can avoid what my doctor is telling me to do and stop eating 🙄🙄 even though I eat less than the recommended amount already and exercise a very healthy amount. I’m glad you know more about MY body than me and the medical professional who treats me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:29 AM
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I’m not going to lie, I don’t know what B/S/D stands for, but if your wondering what I lift, mostly 120-155 pounds, and depending on some fliers, it can hit close to 175 with 90+% of the weight completely on me. As I said, I’m 145. My muscle isn’t distributed. I don’t use back,core, or arm muscles, I use entirely thighs. I’d also like to add that my doctor, A LEGAL MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL, has told me several times to not worry about my weight, and that I have a very healthy lifestyle, that I don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:08 AM
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Yes! My friend was raised in a single mother household for most of his life, and he’s got so much respect and kindness for everyone regardless of sexuality, race, and gender
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:37 AM
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Exercise tends to add more muscle. If you’re exercising with the intent of just having abs, then you probably will end up like you are, but if you’re exercising for a real reason that involves lifting then you’ll add more muscle. Each of my thighs of straight muscle are bigger than my head because that’s where I exercise the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:33 AM
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I think I’d rather listen to what my doctor told me, and avoid worrying about my food intake. I eat 2 small meals a day, something many medical professionals warn against, and exercise for at least an hour every day (that time quadrupling from August-December). My body is made of MUSCLE. As I said, most of what looks like body fat is actually muscle that builds in my thighs because it’s the most used part of my body (I pick up 100-150 pound people with them, sometimes completely by myself). I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:20 AM
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I think the biggest “no” would be if he wouldn’t listen to or respect any advice I give him. I’m still “pure” as some may say, but this is something that will always be important to me. If he won’t listen to what I want or need to feel pleasure, and only look for pleasure for himself then I don’t feel that the relationship in general would be compatible. Hygiene is important as well, just where he keeps every part of his body clean. Finally, if he enjoys things that I can’t do for him. I want hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:32 PM
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Yup, we have the exact same height and weight measurements, the fact of the matter is that I look to be a fair bit chubby, and it’s not something I can really change, I eat a healthy amount of calories and exercise regularly. Most of my weight is actually more in my thighs because that’s where my muscle builds (I’m a cheerleader). Anyways, while I look chubby, I know people with the same exact body type as me, but their muscle grows somewhere else, or they are a bit chubby. I think that determin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:14 PM
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I’m done with this dumb argument because not one women I know or have met has a height preference, or weight preference that is public. Most of them just won’t date guys cause most of them are assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:01 AM
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Only the ones that cry about how they can’t get dates because of it, and won’t accept that it’s because of their shit personality’s and rude actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:47 AM
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I was talking about your unintelligible argument, and tried to put it in terms you can understand. Why can boys have a preference for weight and women can’t have a preference for height. Either way, it was an unrelated part that also tends to be true. On average, shorter guys (who hate that part of themselves) are little bitches (personal experience). So then that must be the reason they have issues dating, not because they’re short. At least according to your “argument”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:46 AM
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Do they? I’ve only ever dated short guys, and I don’t hate them or care about how tall they are. Thing is, if the only reason you think someone is unattracted to you is because you’re short, you’re plane wrong. A lot of guys like to blame their issues on women, and this is one of the main ways. I’ve dated guys shorter than me (5’2), shorter than the average guy, hell, I have never dated anyone tall because I don’t care about height.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:38 AM
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Except even with this suicide idea it’s wrong, the highest demographic of suicide is men over 65. There was no evidence shown that it was because they were short, it’s more likely cause they felt unfulfilled in life. Either way, my 5’5 ex had no Issues finding a relationship. Ever. His height didn’t change any part of our relationship, and I didn’t care. I liked him cause he treated me like a person and wasn’t expecting gross, sexual things from me going into our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:35 PM
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The constant screaming at woman about how the only thing they don’t like about him is that he’s short cause he heard one person say they prefer taller guys. Short guys always fucking assume that women won’t like him because of that, and he loses all confidence after getting rejected once. Maybe if he really likes someone he’ll listen to their opinions and be empathetic. He doesn’t think he should change anything about himself cause “no one will like him anyway.” Stop being a piss baby about your…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:33 PM
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I mean that in my personal experience all the short guys think they have life the worst and act like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:22 PM
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You can’t blame someone for their race or the stature of their body that leads them to look thicker. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:33 PM
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I think we can all agree that the only reason men are short is cause they’re little bitches. That means it’s mens fault that no one wants to date them cause they can just choose to stop being bitches. 🙄.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:32 PM
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What’s the woman’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:27 PM
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Yeah, a lot of the time short guys have the worst fucking personality’s, and they think they deserve the world cause of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:26 PM
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I didn’t say that, it’s just that in this subreddit alone y’all are saying shit about how wrong it is to have a height preference, but at the same time y’all have all of these weird, unreasonable preferences too, but for some stupid reason on your head your preference is more valid than a woman’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:24 PM
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Some guy on here: I don’t like black women, it’s my preference. Y’all: A girl anywhere: I’d prefer to date someone tall Y’all: How dare you say that, we can’t control our height. Dhhregshhdbebdbdjs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:13 PM
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I have a chubby face, and a chubby body. But I am attracted to guys with body fat too, the only boyfriend I’ve had was a fair amount of chubby, and he wasn’t immediately out of the picture because of that. The only reason we’re not together anymore is because of some issues he had with his family, nothing about his weight changed any relationship I had with him. Also, I’m afab and feminine presenting, though I identify as gender fluid and use any pronouns.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:01 AM
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Well, I’m attracted to chubby guys too, I was just talking about this unrealistic idea that no one would be attracted to a heavier person. I think all body types are beautiful regardless of gender, also, I’m not a lesbian, nor a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:03 PM
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I, a fairly attractive person who is just a little more chubby than the average person because of my build, am so in love with chubby, conventionally unattractive women. I don’t know where you got this idea that because someone is thicker they’re uglier, but that’s just incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:30 PM
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Honestly, yeah, I agree with you. It upsets me to see guys expect women to be attracted to them and basically worship the ground they walk on, but don’t give even an ounce of that same respect to women. They’re expecting a loving, tradwife, virgin, thin, perfect girlfriend who will give their virginity up on the first date, and don’t want to change themselves at all (at least from what I see on this page). Even then, it’s okay to have a preference for all those things, but to shame someone for n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:15 PM
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