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/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:41 PM
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Google me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:23 PM
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I’m baaaaack baaaaaabbbbyyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:18 PM
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Just because I posted there doesn’t mean I am one though
/r/PussyPassDenied30/08/22 09:08 PM
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Lmao go to one of those articles and say "not all men" and see how they react to you
/r/PussyPassDenied30/08/22 07:57 PM
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You want that to be true so bad
/r/PussyPassDenied30/08/22 07:56 PM
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Women are not sending us their best people
/r/PussyPassDenied30/08/22 02:01 PM
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This is the kind of shit you post to virtue signaling so you can get laid, can’t believe people are dumb enough to think this is how society really view women
/r/AntiFeminists27/08/22 05:39 PM
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Giving women rights was a mistake
/r/TheRedPill27/08/22 05:36 PM
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For real, what’s so bad about the mindset of being kind to one another? There are a lot of things historically that needed to improve for women, I’m happy they did, but things make a lot more sense when you respect the cohesiveness of the nuclear family and that traditional structure. It benefits everyone
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/22 06:38 PM
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Funny thing is then when you show them the data that counters their beliefs they either claim it is racist/sexist or they just ignore it entirely
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/22 06:11 PM
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Funny thing is, instead of being condescending she just seems kind of nice and pleasant. Maybe women should take this approach as opposed to always seeming like they have a stick up their ass
/r/AntiFeminists23/08/22 02:24 PM
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You’re viewing this from the outside looking in. I made my fuckboy behavior known, it backfired and never worked. I was with a girl who told me all about her ex boyfriend and I realized why she went with him in the first place. I adopted that behavior and honestly it worked like a charm. Girls generally don’t want to be with fuckboys. They might get to a point where they stop caring about the red flags which is what happens in their 20s, but overall guys like that are going in at least acting li…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:57 AM
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FB marketplace
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 10:15 PM
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Is that really what happens though? In my experience the non committal fuck boys act like full committal choir boys, get laid a few times, get caught cheating, say "I’m sorry I’ve just got all these demons my gold fish died in the third grade and nobody ever loves me the way I love them I got scared that’s why I slept with another girl" Then they kind of do a soft break up, he weasels his way back in then reveals himself as a non committal fuckboy at which point the girl has caught feelings and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:51 PM
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What is your toxic trait? Mine is that if I go to a cashier, check out, realize I forgot to get something, go back inside to the same cashier and they don’t acknowledge I was just in the line a few minutes ago my whole world falls apart and I feel like a pariah in society. This is like the highest level of rejection in my opinion, why am I not good enough to be treated like the world revolves around me? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:45 PM
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When I was a teenager I asked this and never got laid lol I realized it’s best to not bring it up and just get your score up by one until it no longer matters. I also had the realization that when you have sex with a girl it’s still the first time y’all are having sex together so what she did in the past doesn’t matter because those people aren’t in the room. But that’s really just a lie I say to myself and other girls to seem well adjusted, it still hurts deep down that girls get sex really eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:23 PM
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I feel like I’d agree with him if he said what he is saying a little differently. Damn, he does have a point there about women nagging makes men’s lives worse
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:20 PM
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If you’re an attractive male and blue pilled you’ll do well with women If you’re an unattractive male and blue pilled you won’t do well with women, but at least women won’t be mean to you online However, based on these two scenarios, being red pilled or misogynistic really doesn’t change the outcome as long as you hide it, so there is no incentive to be blue pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:15 PM
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Women aren’t loyal, with that said I never approach women in a relationship but have had many women who are ok with being the other woman while I’m in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:19 PM
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Maybe you were making the wrong personality adjustments, I’m broke af and have always had girls giving me money
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:31 PM
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I like talking about dating dynamics and best practices, but unfortunately a lot of the conversations aren’t really things that interest me or don’t apply to my experiences for some reason. Like I don’t care about n count or AF/BB kind of shit. I’m more interested in being toxic and manipulative and getting lots of women obsessed with me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:22 PM
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I agree with you as well, liberals are clearly different than leftists. But guys who get laid shouldn’t be referred to as incels and I’ve been told that "the meaning of the word has changed"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:10 PM
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And a guy who gets laid regularly can still be called an incel despite not being involuntarily celibate so your answer isn’t really satisfactory here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:58 PM
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But are the men filthy just because you’re not attracted to them? I think that you think the distinction is their behavior, but really it’s how they look which is fine, obviously you don’t have to be attracted to someone you’re not attracted to, but why shouldn’t an ugly guy be able to shoot his shot other than you view that he is beneath you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:26 PM
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If the word incel can change from just meaning involuntarily celibate to meaning any kind of misogynistic behavior then why do leftists try so hard to make the distinction when the word liberal is applied to anyone left leaning? If language changes and adapts, then surely using the word liberal should be accepted in the new context
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:23 PM
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Exactly, if so many men are becoming radicalized maybe they should consider why. I mean they say it plain as day, but those on the left won’t concede and listen, they just spout more non sense and call names
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:20 PM
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The issue though when you take all that advice, which I did and it works in making me more desirable to women, is that after a while you realize what’s the point? Women aren’t really worth being Mr. Perfect just to attract them or keep them happy. Once you become a guy with appeal like that you realize how deficient women are in relationships and honestly the only alternatives are to sleep around, stay in the relationship and have affairs, or just lose interest all together
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:18 PM
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Not many, but you’re not going to find them unless you approach
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:14 PM
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"Filthy men" you admitted yourself you’re fine if the guy is cute
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:11 PM
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Might make a good topic for discussion here so what’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:05 AM
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For sure, I’m just a little hard of hearing so I might not have heard it the first few times
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:37 PM
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That’s when you pull out the "we should still hang out, just not do anything sexual" It’s been said if a girl has a boyfriend and is still replying, she ain’t loyal and can be broken. She’ll be back
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:19 PM
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What would be the perfect first message in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:17 PM
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Yeah but some girls will be into it, no way to know unless he tries
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:14 PM
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Welllll you should only shoot your shot at women who you might actually have a chance with. If you want to hit on the receptionist I don’t think it should be shamed if done tactfully, however if you’re the CEO of the company you probably have access to an entirely different set of women. But if a 60 year old wants to flirt with a 22 year old? Let me Polish that guys crown because he is a king
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:13 PM
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You’re using feminist talking points which I generally don’t disagree with, but they don’t apply to all people or situations. I for one don’t harass women like that and most men I know don’t. Not saying it doesn’t happen, but I’m not going to not approach women because some guys are dumbasses. If anything, the dumbasses make it easier for guys like me to get women because we instantly seem different. I still get rejected a lot, but I’ve consistently had multiple women in my life since I was abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:00 PM
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You’re getting way off track here and your reasoning is fallacious. Obviously if I knew a girl wasn’t into guys I wouldn’t pursue her. So what are you really saying? That women view men they aren’t attracted to as a different gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:49 PM
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Your argument is fallacious though because it distracts from the main argument here. And as I said in another comment no, I wouldn’t be uncomfortable, I’d probably be flattered. But this isn’t about lesbians, it’s about men attracted to women hitting on women attracted to men. So what you’re trying to say is that straight women view men they’re not attracted to as another gender entirely and not as men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:48 PM
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Obviously the trick is to learn to approach in a way that doesn’t make them uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:39 PM
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It’s a bad question, a better question would be if I’d be offended if a woman I wasn’t attracted to hit on me and no, it’d be awkward to have to reject her, but I wouldn’t be offended. And to be honest I wouldn’t be offended if a gay guy hit on me either, I’d probably be flattered tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:33 PM
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I’m not attracted to men, presumably women are attracted to men so your analogy doesn’t work unless women aren’t attracted to men at all, in which case why do they date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:18 PM
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I’m not attracted to men though and presumably women are attracted to men so your analogy doesn’t work unless women aren’t attracted to men in which case why do they date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:16 PM
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I’d say two - three rejections before giving up entirely
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:15 PM
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Agreed 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:39 PM
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Are you the kind of guy that gets to smash or just gets to look? Make your move, and if you can’t, make yourself into the kind of man who can
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:51 PM
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As someone who falls into the latter I feel attacked. You’re right though, if I was back on the market I think I have more confidence that I’d be more picky since I could better tell who I have a shot with. I think the trick as a guy is to just be nice and slightly flirtatious with all girls and see who responds the best
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:27 PM
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Why? And further why should I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:14 PM
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I disagree, after you’ve gauged it the relationship could spawn naturally somehow. I mean if the mutual attraction is there it wouldn’t matter. I get that guys being super forward puts a lot of pressure on women when they’re working, and I agree that isn’t in good taste, but if it feels natural you can find a way to both be in another location at the same time to see how things go
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:57 PM
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So my goal of having daughters that actually are protected and loved by their father is going to backfire on me?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:53 PM
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I’ll check out that Reddit as a way to work on my empathy. Deep down I do feel for women and how much they’re harassed in society, but I also think dating is difficult for men. Maybe a big part of men’s difficulties is that they are socially inept, however women do have shallow and narrow standards for who they find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:11 PM
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You don’t realize but you’re actually agreeing with my perspective, however I think passively flirting with the barista is ok, just gauge how they react and don’t come on too strong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:07 PM
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That’s why you’ve got to be smart about it and don’t do anything that would get you exposed. "Hey, I saw your posts on Reddit and you seem pretty cool so I wanted to DM you and introduce myself" Who would humiliate someone being respectful like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:03 PM
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Yeah, and it sounded like she was shocked that a man wanted to have sex with her rather than "just being friends"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:46 PM
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Absolutely, but there is a lot they got wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:45 PM
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Very well, but if a guy can’t be upset about being "friend zoned" why is it ok to be upset about being pursued sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:13 PM
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Also, we all have competing interests. Why should your desire for friends be valued more than his desire for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:10 PM
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Posted a CMV about this if you want to discuss there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:09 PM
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It’s hit or miss, you can’t blame a guy for trying. Being a roided up 55 year old is the only thing that gives me hope
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:51 PM
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Please don’t be naive, women claim to have this impeccable radar regarding "nice guys" but can’t figure out when someone is trying to bang them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:50 PM
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Get some status in whatever niche the kind of girls you like are in. I’m into alt girls so I’d get some tattoos, dress alternatively, and start a band
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:13 PM
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I’m 5’9 and I’d rather be 6’1 and just wear a hair piece or get that tattoo that makes it look like you’ve got a little hair
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:40 PM
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No need to apologize, stay toxic king
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:38 PM
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Wouldn’t overestimating my value mean that I’d be dating up?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:23 PM
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How do you figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:22 PM
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In all honesty we just didn’t have anything in common, but that’s a separate issue with OLD. Based on what I’ve heard here I’m more "coastal city hipster" and the women in my area were like trailer park and country girl whatever style so that’s probably a big part of it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:22 PM
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This isn’t necessarily true, you can also get rejected for dumpster diving. Some of the girls that have rejected me have been way uglier and scummier than girls who I’ve been with
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:38 PM
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I don’t think it’s that they’re steering away from political correctness as much as it is that algorithms don’t know how to recognize offensive and non offensive content. I have no interest in Tucker Carlson or Joe Rogan but for some reason they always get recommended for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:25 PM
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What happens is women do all that shit, realize guys are mostly just using them, then regret it. Or, alternatively, women actually are doing that stuff with their husbands. My girlfriend is still into all that kinky shit, but I’m the one who has stopped because it triggers this tendency for objectification in me that I’m trying to avoid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:53 PM
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"So what’s your n count?" Do I include the one time I was cat called?! If so it’s 47, if not then it’s 46. See how ridiculous this question is? Women are the real victims in society because did you know in 1847 women couldn’t get a credit card? Yeah, think about that the next time you stretch your legs out on a bus
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:39 PM
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Speak for yourself, I love being called daddy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:35 PM
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Who cares about long term relationship whatever?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:05 AM
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Doesn’t matter, however I’d argue that that n count is immutable because you can’t change it after it’s done. And even if a girl has a high n count what’s it matter if you’re getting your own count up?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:01 AM
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I see it as letting them play dress up, but yeah it is pretty deceptive. A lot of girls look like men without make up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:00 AM
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Why? Use their insecurity against them because they know what they look like without make up. This way you can get an emotionally vulnerable girl who thinks you’re the only man who can love her but she can make herself up to look good
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:57 AM
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I had a couple thoughts while working out. One is that you absolutely should lift for women, whether that’s to smash through thots or to be strong so you can protect your wife and children. Getting women is all that matters in this life, and that’s a biological fact. The other is that you should do every red pill blue pill self improvement shit regardless of height because while it’s true that the taller you are, the more women will be interested in you the fact is that even shorter guys do get …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:54 AM
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Yup, they’re just a little autistic but don’t have the self awareness to fix that or even worse they think fixing it is inauthentic. That was my problem, but I was somehow able to watch the people around me and reverse engineer what I saw and now I can consistently get women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:42 AM
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Have her help you attract the women, you can work on your game and get some good photos. Gotta sell them a dream
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:52 PM
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Make her codependent then cheat on her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:49 PM
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I think women have more responsibility in traditional gender roles. I mean if were talking like mad men shit being able to just chill in your office and drink scotch and go to meetings sounds like fun. But having to take care of children, cook dinner, fold laundry, and all that other shit seems solitary and easily overwhelming. I think rationally though both genders have their own issues to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:09 PM
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Why’d you break up?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:33 PM
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Why not date both?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:33 PM
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Q4M who has initiated your break ups? I’m realizing I’ve never broken up with a girl, either I’m not interested because I’m not attracted to them or I run the relationship into the ground
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:22 PM
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Binge ate this morning, punishing myself with cardio. I’m fully embracing all toxicity in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:11 PM
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I’m a simp for women though 😭 Have you seen them? Absolute chefs kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:10 PM
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They say when a bird finds their way inside of a building it’s good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:06 PM
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Can we get back to the point in the red pill where the whole thing was like "here is a woman exhibiting sexual behavior, she is not currently exhibiting that behavior for you, here are some hacks to get girls to exhibit this kind of behavior for you" I hate the whole "women bad" narrative, I fully support and encourage women’s slutty behavior, I just want to be an active participant in that behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:05 PM
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My friend found a video of someone doing this at the mall where we both lived
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:03 PM
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For real, I keep hearing about this "men expect this men expect that" I do all the house chores in my relationship and I work. I brush it off because she has some health issues, but realistically she can do a lot more than she lets on. I’ve just accepted it because I do love her but it annoys me when I hear these feminists complain about how lazy men are when I’m like the perfect man over here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:52 PM
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Are you sure about that? I’ve brought more than a few women together this way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:42 PM
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Pretty cucked, I’ll admit though it’s a power trip when you cheat on a girl with another girl and they become besties or they bond over how shitty you are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:41 PM
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Not that common, never happened to me. In fact most girls would rather they pay or they pay for themselves because often guys will use "but look at how much I spent on you" as a way to pressure them into sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:23 PM
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They want a fantasy woman and you used porn as an example. Men are physically attracted to women but not attracted to them as a whole. Women typically find men unattractive, but will randomly be attracted to a guy who looks like a doofus for whatever reason. Granted a lot of it has to do with height or perception of the value I.e how he is treated in a group which is the whole social proof thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:17 PM
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Hm, I think the converse is true. I think men are attracted to women but they don’t find them attractive for the reasons you listed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:13 PM
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Not true, that’s a man that men think women find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 04:57 PM
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Women find men attractive, but they aren’t attracted to men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 04:48 PM
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I don’t think women find men attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:06 AM
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It’s fun for you because the responsibility of attraction doesn’t fall on women. This is real life for men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:22 PM
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Not in my experience tbh, a lot of girls thrive in a codependent environment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:17 PM
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No, he wasn’t the one who wanted to end the marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:16 PM
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Well the children wouldn’t have been traumatized if the relationship remained in tact. It’s clear he wasn’t trying to end the relationship and all he was doing was having a little something on the side
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:09 PM
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You still got with him in the first place though, interesting how that works. So he cheated, the relationship ended because you weren’t compatible (or loyal) and both moved on. Where is the downside?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:05 PM
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Two questions, have you ever been cheated on and have you ever been the other woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:57 PM
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This has legitimately been my experience. All the time spent chasing hasn’t panned out. I’m not saying this in a defeatist way, but all that matters is if a girl finds you attractive. Same with guys, a girl could have a great personality but if she isn’t attractive I feel nothing for her, maybe even repulsion. The frustration for a lot of guys is that women tend to be more particular about what they find attractive where as men tend to be more diverse. With that said, best course of action is to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:56 PM
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Sure, for the guys who are attractive, but we’re here to figure out what the other guys can do to improve their odds
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:51 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:50 PM
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Some do, some don’t. Got to find a woman that will tolerate it and not let it effect the family
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:47 PM
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Why does a woman need a loyalty test? Sex is abundant, and if you love someone you’ll stay. It’s far easier for a woman to rebound than a man which is why as a man you need to keep your options open and make sure that your girl isn’t going to leave you when things get tough. For a man, if you’re not cheating, you’re naive and playing yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:42 PM
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They’re loyal in that they’ll stay in their marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:35 PM
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Where is what I said not true?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:23 PM
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For me it’s simply because the amount of work a man has to put in to be attractive and the fact that when a man cheats it often doesn’t mean anything. I approach my relationships with women understanding how little the relationship actually means and how precarious it all is. There is nothing special about me that would make a woman instantly fall in love so right from the start women aren’t willing to go all in. And that’s why cheating is a loyalty test in a lot of ways. If I cheat what’s the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:53 PM
4

That is a cop out answer unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:47 PM
2

Which is why I said mostly, I’m sure they do exist, but a lot of guys probably like Asian girls because they’re cute just like any other girl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:26 PM
1

Rational. I am attracted to white women and Latina women. Not saying I find black and Asian women unattractive, I just prefer white women and Latina women. That doesn’t mean I would never date a black woman or an Asian woman. However, the height fetishists could meet a guy who ticks every box and is an incredible guy, but reject him because he is 5’10 and not 6’1 which is pretty ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:18 PM
1

I’m open to listening to everyone and I’ll take what’s good and reject what isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:16 PM
4

That description mostly exists in feminist strawman arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:16 PM
2

Try explaining that to the height fetishists
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:15 PM
2

That doesn’t make sense, and even if it did it isn’t about the culture, and even if it was, why is enjoying a culture bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:14 PM
1

Yes omg I’m a simp for thick girls with thigh tattoos 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:03 PM
5

Why wouldn’t you take financial advice from a broke person? They could very well be aware of their short comings and know what not to do. A rich person could have just been fortunate and think they have all the answers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:02 PM
1

A guy "preferring" Asian women is a fetish A woman "preferring" tall men is a preference
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:01 PM
7

If a man likes Asian women it’s a red flag because he is fetishizing them But if a woman likes…. You see where I’m going with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:58 PM
5

I like thick girls, and most guys aren’t rejecting women based on one genetic trait
/r/AntiFeminists11/08/22 03:37 PM
6

Height fetishism isn’t a preference. I prefer Pepsi but will take a coke is a preference. The length of someone’s femur being the determining factor if they’re worth dating is shallow illogical nonsense
/r/AntiFeminists11/08/22 02:34 PM
1

Just tag me next time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:48 PM
2

Or, the guy who doesn’t care is the one who lets her make her own choices because if she messes up he has options
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:38 PM
1

Yup, you gotta just keep trying and remain stoic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:32 PM
13

As if feminists aren’t ruining men’s careers left and right. TrollXChromosomes is full of children
/r/AntiFeminists11/08/22 03:04 AM
2

Do whatever you want, just don’t break the law. And if you do, just don’t get caught
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:02 AM
7

Everyone has had their feelings hurt before, it isn’t the end of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:01 AM
10

But those 10% make up the 90% for someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:01 AM
1

Why would I try to change your view when you’re absolutely right? Besides there is no such thing as a pump and dump because the girl wanted the sex too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:00 AM
1

Nobody is innocent, everyone is a monster in someone else’s story
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:59 AM
3

Blue pill in the streets Red pill in the sheets Think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:56 AM
21

Guys by freaking out at the first sign of rejection. I used to do this a lot, turns out no doesn’t mean never, it just means not right now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:55 PM
2

And yet so many try
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:37 PM
1

Hamza is funny but he always says the some things and it gets old after a while. Plus the dude just humble brags about being 6’1 and being able to get lots of women but "don’t chase women bro" It’s like the only reason I’m into red pill shit is because I want a soft harem and need to find more effective ways to attract women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:08 PM
2

Alexander the Great even
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:46 PM
1

It’s the internet bro, I can let it all out without fear of embarrassment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:07 PM
3

Warning, this is very NSFW, but I used to watch a lot of violent porn and masturbate all the time as well as have regular sex with my girlfriend. I could go for a while and have porn like sex with a few position changes and consistent penetration. I got caught cheating a few times and I realized I was a sex addict so I was celibate for quite some time. Now if I masturbate it’s to very vanilla porn. I’ve recently started having sex again with my girlfriend and I cannot go for more than a few minu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:50 PM
1

Things is I’m a gym bro that enjoys being a pseudo intellectual hipster so everyone hates me and I hate everyone, ain’t no way I’m compromising on my misanthropy. Able to pull a diverse range of thotties though so that’s cool
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:20 PM
1

I enjoy being toxic and I admire guys like Onision and Hunter Moore. I should probably see a therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:19 PM
1

"Shoot for the moon, even if you miss you’ll end up among the stars" Think about it for a second
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:16 PM
4

Strawman, both points make sense in context. Women who this applies to, who supposedly are able to detect misogyny and violence, should use those spidey senses to actually select decent men rather than the unreliable men they consistently fall for
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:17 PM
6

It would be cool if they didn’t since that isn’t what the word means
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:14 PM
1

Plenty of what gets posted like the height filter bumble thing and just reading through r/Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:14 PM
3

Might be a decent loyalty test, girls do this all the time. Have their friends message the guy they’re talking to so they can see how he reacts. Agree he isn’t his friend though
/r/TheRedPill09/08/22 01:12 PM
1

Actually he was 6’1 , but the thing is that back then in our late teens we were all fuckboys and were just hitting on girls not trying to date seriously. Two girls I was involved with expressed interest in him. One girl who didn’t reciprocate interest was interested in him. The three girls he was involved with that I tried getting with didn’t reciprocate interest. So really I don’t know a single girl that rejected him while I know plenty that rejected me. So consider that, I’m batting 2/6 and he…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:45 PM
1

The data strongly suggests otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:41 PM
1

But when women have so many options they don’t want to settle for average which is understandable but it leaves a lot of perfectly suitable men being lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:53 PM
1

I got banned from r/short for being 5’9, kind of sucks because there’s nowhere for us to vent. Like sure, I’ve dated a lot, but look at r/Tinder and shit, it’s clear this is a problem for a lot of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:52 PM
1

Real question though, could he pick up 19 year olds or would they see him as old
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:48 PM
10

Online dating and it’s consequences have been a disaster for the human race
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:48 PM
1

I think. I just remember one girl I was trying to get with and she gave me the whole "oh now isn’t the right time I just don’t feel like dating anyone" but that seemed to change for my friend. So legitimately all the girls I got with at that age my friend also could have gotten with because for the most part he did. However all the girls he got with weren’t interested in me. And he and another friend were both dating two girls at the time who were also friends. My tall friend took the one girls …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:41 PM
1

Regular relationship where I cheat absolutely, I don’t care if she cheats either though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:34 PM
1

Clever animation, now they should do one for women’s preferences for immutable characteristics
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:33 PM
1

I haven’t read it, but watched a lot of his podcast appearances regarding it which in my experience is usually enough to reveal all the content in the book
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:29 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:28 PM
2

The thing that sucks for guys in the 5’7 - 5’11 range is that logically they’re not short. These are perfectly adequate and normal heights for men. But since OLD is so over saturated height is an easy thing to reduce the options you have when you have so many
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:27 PM
3

I’m 5’9 and while I’ve never been told verbatim that I am being rejected for my height, my taller friends have always had an easier time attracting to women. I’ve never had a problem attracting women, but I know my height isn’t doing me any favors and that being over 6’ makes it so women just throw themselves at you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:26 PM
1

Looks like he needs to nap for a week
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:23 PM
2

No, that’s just the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:22 PM
1

I never do this, it’s a bit fucky but if I’m not attracted to someone they don’t even register to me. I imagine it’s the same for women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:21 PM
1

Yeah basically, tbh I’ll never know. What I do know is that as a teenager while still in high school I made out a lot, got a blowjob, sort of had sex once, I wasn’t able to fully penetrate and didn’t ejaculate so wasn’t sure if it counted, but now that I’m older I’m counting it because my genitals touched someone else’s. So it isn’t like I missed out entirely, just coveted other people’s experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:24 PM
1

Not really, I mean if you live in a rural area or a mid sized city you’re not going to meet a 6’4 investment banker with a chiseled jawline. Look at the people around you, they’re probably all just average or below average people or slightly above average. That’s who is dating. How would you even quantify what top 15% means?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:21 PM
1

80/20, people apply it to everything despite their being no proof that it’s true 80 % of x do 20 % of y
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:06 PM
2

It’s just the newness of it, by the time I was exploring sexually I was basically an adult and everyone else was experienced. In my mind I had missed out on the sneaking around and the intense emotions and hormones and everything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:10 PM
1

How is that irrelevant? It’s a perfect summary of why the Pareto principle is flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:00 PM
1

Wish I had that mindset but my concern about n counts was never about her or me, it was always about feeling inferior because I had missed out on teenage sex. It’s complicated but looking back I realize that I actually had more sexual experience than I realized
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:38 PM
1

No, it’s just improbable. Most of us will never meet a truly top 10-15% person and even if we adjust that locally, then that leaves too many people that are out of reach. So if you just continue to break it down and redefine what a top 10-15% man is, then you end up basically getting to what the issue actually is, guys who are upset that a girl chose another guy over them. Every girl I’ve been with long term has had a guy like that who is angry at me and will say some shit like "girls always cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:22 PM
1

Why do people think they can’t adopt personality traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:23 AM
1

This is so true and it’s infuriating. Not very redpilled of me but I’ve conceded in my relationship. She gets a lot of money from her parents then turns around and complains that she doesn’t like relying on them. At the same time we’re not on the same page regarding saving up but it isn’t worth the fight since all our expenses are paid for basically
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:36 PM
1

Who are they referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:33 PM
36

Yeah, maybe the guy is just trying to prevent heart disease and doesn’t really have any big aspirations. Everyone has different fitness goals. Also edited this to add the fact that the guy has presumably been consistant in his training for half a decade is commendable since most people go to the gym and quit after a few weeks
/r/TheRedPill07/08/22 09:46 PM
1

Tbh maybe it’s good people think that charisma is something you’re born with, less competition for those of us that work on our charm
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:56 PM
1

Chris Farley and John Belushi are actors. Think about it for a second
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:06 PM
2

Charisma is the "it" factor
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:06 PM
6

It absolutely is something you can learn
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:05 PM
6

What about Peter Dinklage? I’d say he has it factor and people like him. Or is it only because he has status? In which case why aren’t the munchkins viewed the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:05 PM
1

You really believe nobody has ever worked on their charisma before?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:55 PM
2

Not necessarily, the it factor just means being charming and charismatic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:55 PM
2

The thing is complimenting your girlfriend and holding the door open for her will make her damn near jump on you because those are attractive behaviors. But they’re such simple things, you’ve got to do better than that plus do all those things
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:00 PM
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Even if they are, is it your job to save the world? Pay you money, get what you want, and leave it up to the best guy to try to rescue her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:39 AM
5

Here’s the thing, she’s cute enough for you to keep coming back. She’ll stay loyal even if you act on your urges. I know how addicting chasing girls can be especially when they submit to you. So what is it about her looks? A 6 is pretty cute in my opinion, I have no interest in generic super model looking girls. So what you do is start training her to dress in whatever style you like. These kind of girls will change everything about themselves to be the girl you want them to be. It gets annoying…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/22 02:18 AM
4

Not even being ironic but a girl who will forgive bad behavior multiple times will be devoted and loyal. She might cheat out of revenge, but at the end of the day you know she isn’t leaving and it’s good to have that security
/r/TheRedPill06/08/22 02:13 AM
2

I can’t explain it, the first one just looks like generic model you’d see on a box of hair dye. Second one has a very fertile look to her. I also like cellulite, guess I’m just an outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:30 AM
0

Here’s the thing about books, it’s all someone’s opinion. Take everything with a grain of salt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:28 AM
3

It’s an ad though, they’re going to say whatever to sell the product
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:24 AM
3

I find the second picture of the girl more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:23 AM
2

It shouldn’t be but a lot of the content is like that and frankly it’s boring
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:12 PM
5

Sounds like you were too passive, you’ve got to take risks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:33 PM
9

You failed to explain how being a "good listener" made you prone to being friend zoned. One thing that always helped me with girls was I’d make flirty references back to previous conversations we had. I was always told this makes it seem like I actually listen to what they say. Maybe what you identify as being a good listener is really you coming across as disinterested. You have to be a little edgy and take risks and make your intentions known
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:17 PM
7

Go to therapy, be up front with girls you’re hooking up with that you have performance anxiety (once I started doing this I found it easier to get an erection, also engaging in hard kinks helps get you out of your head), avoid masturbation and pornography, don’t worry about others pasts, and do whatever the fuck you want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:55 PM
1

Good for you, I hope you stick to that, but if a guy is able to truly get you to fall for him and breed a sense of codependency then there is no way to tell what lengths you would go to for him to stay. Maybe you’re mentally stronger than that, and if so I’m happy for you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:21 PM
3

Because it makes them feel inferior. Every other guy was able to be a woman’s first, so what’s so bad about me that I’m not good enough? Is it rational? No, but nobody ever said humans were rational. If only these guys realized that the trick is to not get mad and to say you respect her boundaries while continuing to push for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:18 PM
4

In my experience some do, but it’s how you approach it. I’ve had girls that appreciate me asking what kinks they’re into because a lot of guys will force it on them. But these are situations where I am 99% confident the girl has the same hard kinks as me. But generally speaking this is why guys suck with women. Like I’m not going to tell that 19 year old I’ve been seeing that I have an age play fetish until we’ve been together a few times because that would just make me seem like a creep. Once a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:23 AM
4

That is a sure fire way to fail miserably. We should seek our own journeys and only compare ourselves to who we were yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:07 AM
2

Did he tell you this before ever having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:06 AM
1

I’m just a sincere and loving person. It’s always been my fantasy to share a true sense of love with another person like the way penguins are monogamous and mate for life. Like that is my relationship goal. To be that couple that is 80 years old and inseparable and people look at us as the measure of why a good relationship is. I just want to give my all to a person and have them give their all to me. I’ve never been the kind of guy to lead girls on or lie to them and I just don’t vibe well with…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:43 PM
1

This was my biggest issue when dating in my late teens, for whatever reason I thought girls would think I was cool if I bragged about all the female attention I got. I have always been able to attract women easily, but my stupid mouth would push them away so I ended up thinking I was an incel for several years
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:38 PM
3

That’s why you add +1 to your score but tell her you can’t make a hoe a housewife but you’re cool with continuing to hook up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:35 PM
1

Maybe this isn’t indicative of women being hypergamous but instead an example of how men and women view dating differently
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:50 PM
3

Watched the Hunter Moore documentary and I really miss being a fuckboy. There is something so empowering about being a toxic male
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:00 PM
1

From my understanding of trailer parks, most women have huge pot bellies and no ass and the guys are skinny
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:59 PM
5

I mean we have language and an understanding of the physical world so sure. Still though, being the superior species we should be more compassionate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:15 PM
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He only talks to women to sleep with them, women aren’t as trustworthy as men "That’s not misogynistic, it’s the truth"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:42 PM
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Look up videos about how to be charming and charismatic but also maintain a little dark triad edge
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:40 PM
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How? Guys lie to get into girls pants but don’t commit. I’ve done it before
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:38 PM
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The issue is guys lying about wanting a relationship to get in a girls pants
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:38 PM
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It’s so sad, I really do feel for women in a lot of ways. I remember when I was in high school walking with my friend and she got a lot of obscene gestures from much older men in cars passing by
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:35 PM
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I just don’t get how anyone can be attracted to literal children. Post puberty I can understand because while they look young they are sexually developed, but it just doesn’t make sense when people are attracted to prepubescent children. Additionally for the ones who are attracted to post pubescent teenagers, why would they risk pursuing underage ones when girls that are 18+ really don’t look that much older. I think a lot of it is that taboo surrounding it, the fact that it’s dangerous and risk…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:32 PM
1

Squishy Flesh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:50 AM
1

In support of it or being against it? But yeah, I’m open to talking about all this stuff if you want to DM me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:11 AM
1

Yeah, I am a coastal hipster and it works for me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:10 AM
1

Sure, what would you like to talk about?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:40 AM
2

I hardly ever call my mom, I do the bare minimum at work, and I’m kind of cold and indifferent to cashiers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:25 PM
-7

If you’ve got the goods and have common sense to take good photos/videos and post regularly on social media to create a sales funnel then you’re bound to succeed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:11 PM
-1

All your clients are on the other side of a computer screen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:46 PM
7

Because while men might say the 20s are the most attractive for a woman, that doesn’t mean women outside of their 20s aren’t attractive. Can the same be said about women and height?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:27 PM
5

Damn, dude must have needed a place to crash until his acting career took off
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:25 PM
6

I don’t want women to "prefer" short men, I want women to not immediately write someone off because of their height
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:25 PM
1

Teach him to sweet talk girls and not internalize rejection. Keep him away from cringy internet interests
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:23 PM
3

I think I might be a misogynist, the thing is that I don’t like men either and I’d rather talk to women, but it’s usually because I need the sexual tension to motivate me. So, I don’t think men are better than women, but I’m only interested in women because I want to sleep with them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:20 PM
-7

Men always want something new, the only people claiming it’s over saturated are the ones who suck at making content
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:56 PM
-1

Worst working conditions? You’d be in your home
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:55 PM
0

Absolutely. I hate being around people so being able to work from home and make bank sounds incredible. There is no equivalent with comparable earning potential for men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:55 PM
1

Fair enough. I’m not saying I’m a saint, but they absolutely knew the kind of guy I was. I never messed with naive girls except maybe once or twice, but most girls were pretty aware of what was going on and were perfectly okay with it. Their mentality was probably that what I did in my relationship wasn’t their problem and they liked my company so everyone wins
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:42 PM
1

Ah yeah, as a 5’9 guy it’s so weird. I’m not short enough to say that my dating life is affected by height but I’m not tall enough to benefit from my height. I’ve always had women in my life, so obviously I can pull, but those threads in r/Tinder about guys being rejected for their height are scary af. If I’m ever single again I might just lie and say I’m 5’10 and get a pair of slight lifts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:22 PM
1

You have no issue with the girls that were ok with being the other women for a predatory man?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:17 PM
1

What do you mean the danger?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:16 PM
3

They’re all 18 to me bro. Jk, I tried my best but only got 4 right. Interestingly most of the ones I thought were 19 were 14
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:15 PM
1

Ur a girl tho, there is a difference between bushy and overgrown
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:11 PM
1

Of course. I’d never do anything illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:09 PM
1

Concerning how? I don’t disagree with you, I just want to see if we’re on the same page
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:45 PM
2

All the red pill stuff is no different than any other channel on YouTube. It’s all entertainment and petty in drama. It’s like the onision stuff, people used the outrage to make more content. You’re being scammed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:25 PM
1

Link
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:49 PM
3

How did you go from "dating is harder than it was a few decades ago" to "I wish COVID had killed more people"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:41 PM
1

You’re right, guess I’m still naive after all these years
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:25 PM
1

As a mostly straight guy, I’d say that guy is really handsome. You think he is only okay looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:24 PM
7

Be a lil gay but in a straight way. Just care about your fashion sense, metrosexual. It was a popular term in the mid 2000s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:11 PM
0

Maybe being rejected on OLD isn’t that personal then, maybe OLD just isn’t geared to how women experience attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:09 PM
6

Seriously? Do you know how many women I know who live like complete slobs. My gf leaves her fucking bloody tampons on the sink. A lot of women’s cars are filthy. But oh no! A guy can’t have a messy room!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:08 PM
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As a man, I don’t think men really groom themselves enough. Like get your eyebrows waxed, shape your facial hair and dye it darker, wear cologne, dress a little more edgy. I’ve done that stuff, took the metropill, and the change in my success with women was very noticeable. Lots of guys who post their picture on forums like this will look fine, it’s just they dress bland and just get whatever haircut is easiest to maintain
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:04 PM
3

How does tiktok confirm blue pill beliefs? If anything the content on there is very red pilled and shows AWALT and all that stuff. It’s really toxic and I have to remind myself that not all women have 30+ body counts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:34 PM
1

I agree, but the issue is I have certain needs and watching the sopranos is one of them. I really hate that it has to be this way, but there are certain tricks that increase my chances of watching the sopranos so why not use them. It isn’t like I’m a bad person or anything, other guys do so much worse
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:26 PM
1

I’m 32 and I know, but if I’m telling a girl I’m trying to add to it I’ll say it’s lower, if I’m telling the internet I’ll say it’s higher
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:24 PM
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This is actually good information to have because it shows the most common places meet. What would be even better information is to know how each sexual interaction progressed, who initiated, etc. This is how I learned to get girls, I would ask lots of seemingly innocent questions and then basically mimic the common things from their past. By my mid twenties I had the whole thing figured out (and it wasn’t acting red pilled) and the amount of teenage girls willing to sleep with a mid to late twe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:11 PM
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I bet somewhere there is an actual 5’2 balding Indian janitor driving home from a hard day at work to spend the evening with his loving wife and children, meanwhile some 5’8 white guy is sending hateful messages on the internet because some girl in 3rd grade said "ew" because they had to sit next to each other in class
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:38 AM
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I saw a video of his posted by someone I went to school with today. It was about how high end cars have problems but it’s ok because they’re high end so a high status guy doesn’t have to commit to a relationship and the girls just need to accept it because "when you have something of quality you just accept the problems it comes with" Dumbest thing I’ve ever heard. The guy who shared it is also 40, doesn’t have any teeth, and does hard drugs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:27 AM
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Male power fantasy and a desire for revenge. Dude is incredibly insecure and he sounds autistic af, but it gives disgruntled men something to fantasize about
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:24 AM
5

Sociopaths: me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:56 PM
1

Thoughts on Hunter Moore? Watching The Most Hated Man On The Internet. Dude didn’t do anything wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:42 PM
2

crying is uncomfortable even if I do care about the person because you don’t know what to do. I also have ASPD so empathy isn’t my strong suit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:06 PM
2

Looks 5’8 bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:59 PM
1

This probably isn’t healthy, but it has been brought to my attention that I look at a lot of people with disgust, especially those kind of poor people you see waiting at bus stops and shit. I’m also not very friendly to people in the service industry and occasionally I will be downright rude to them because my rationalization is that there are no consequences because I have the upper hand in those interactions. I used to think I was a good and altruistic person, but society has just made me incr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:57 PM
1

So, if someone can afford high end cuisine but chooses to go to some trashy fast food place, where as there are people who can only afford the trashy fast food place then that is comparable in some ways to dating down
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:54 PM
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You can add me to this list, and yes my girlfriend knows and no she doesn’t like it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:53 PM
1

Just trying to help out, I know what it’s like to struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:09 PM
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I have a LTR, and I do think it’s different when men cheat, but it really depends on the context of the cheating
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 05:13 PM
-2

Cheating is a social construct
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 05:09 PM
0

Sometimes we have to say things that aren’t entirely true to make our external world a better place
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 05:01 PM
3

No, I would never condone abusive behavior, but if something works then it works. It doesn’t mean you have to take it to the level of abuse though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:40 PM
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There is so much information on YouTube and the internet. You have to learn to reverse engineer these things though. Talk to women about their abusive relationships and ask questions about why they were attracted to them in the first place, why they stayed, etc. Observe guys who get the girls you like. This is all stuff I learned on my own, maybe not everyone’s mind is wired this way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:05 PM
1

Obviously, the trick is to hide all this when actually talking to women though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:02 PM
0

Idk man if you need me to tell you where to find them then I might not be able to help you. I’m pretty predatory so I’ll always find a way. Reddit, Tumblr, Instagram, Facebook Marketplace
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:00 PM
1

What’s so wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:45 PM
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Simple version, 1.) work on your appearance and make yourself as attractive as possible, it helps if you have an alternative style 2.) learn about the narcissistic abuse cycle in particular lovebombing, withdrawing affection, breadcrumbing/future faking 3.) get comfortable with offering/providing very rough sex This is the simplest explanation, I have been with tons of girls into DDLG, CNC, etc. and the thing is if you can get them into you quickly, make them orgasm and dominate them, and then w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:45 PM
2

Do Japanese girls like American men like that? Japan seems pretty westernized to me where they’d probably value the same things as western women. It seems like it’s poorer SEA countries that are looking for a way out of poverty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:14 PM
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Would you be offended if I used an analogy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:43 PM
5

There is a lot of talk about guys shooting above their league, but alternately make sure you’re not shooting way below your league. Looking back I had that issue a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:03 AM
1

Yo am I shadowbanned
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:52 PM
1

"Men have it easier because women hit the wall" "I don’t believe in the wall" So, to be fair, men and women both have advantages and disadvantages. The only thing women have an advantage at is finding willing partners for casual sex regardless of the quality of those partners. Just because as a guy someone might lower their standards to hook up with someone on Tinder doesn’t mean women are obligated to lower their standards too. It’s a buyers market after all. Now, in that sense, women do have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:51 PM
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"Men have it easier because women hit the wall" "I don’t believe in the wall" So, to be fair, men and women both have advantages and disadvantages. The only thing women have an advantage at is finding willing partners for casual sex regardless of the quality of those partners. Just because as a guy someone might lower their standards to hook up with someone on Tinder doesn’t mean women are obligated to lower their standards too. It’s a buyers market after all. Now, in that sense, women do have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:51 PM
2

Temporary results are better than no results. I wish I could convince my boys on PPD to lie a little more, they’d be better off in the long run
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:16 PM
3

Got ‘em
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:52 PM
1

I never advocated against casual sex and always realized my frustration was my lack of sexual success. Interestingly, looking back my lack of sexual success could probably be attributed to the fact that I made it clear I was only looking for casual sex. When I started acting like I was looking for the one (lie) I did a lot better with women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:50 PM
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I have seen him pop up, I did a bit of a deeper dive earlier. He seems insecure and autistic. Reminds me of how I used to act from 17-21 when I was into the PUA thing and thought that girls like jerks. I think he acts this way to get attention, but I think he does believe some of it. I’m going to watch more because it seems it’s just little clips here and there about random things so I don’t really have a grasp on his philosophy yet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:08 PM
2

I think there were less incels simply because of societal differences
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:35 PM
5

I will, I imagine it’s mostly just male power fantasy and feeding angry men’s sexist delusions for views
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:30 PM
1

In all honesty we shouldn’t have to disclose our past sexual experiences. I would like to take a woman’s virginity, and I also am not interested in being in a LTR with a high n woman, but at the same time I know obsessing over these things will just hurt my chances
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:28 PM
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Tonight, when my wife is sleeping, I’m going to cringe binge Andrew Tate content. As a man, this guy even gives me the ick, but I keep seeing his name mentioned and I want to see if what he says at all reflects my experience with women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:27 PM
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I would gladly answer all her questions and drive her places. The things we do for love 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:23 PM
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Probably because they’re all SAHMs or they run parenting blogs while the husbands are out working the oil fields or whatever trad husbands do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:22 PM
3

You just have to watch how you say things
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:35 PM
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Imagine having a tradwife and not allowing her access to the internet or learning how to drive or having a job. Meanwhile you can go off and have your side pieces and she would never know. It’s the best of both worlds
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:33 PM
2

Where is this push coming from? Everyone talks about pedophiles this pedophiles that but I don’t see anyone defending pedophilia ever
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:12 PM
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I would lie to girls and lead them on. I never talked to/dated anyone under age, I was referring to what I saw guys do when we were 16/17 which at that time I struggled attracting girls, but I didn’t feel comfortable talking to girls as young as they were. I definitely pushed it in regards to the age gaps like I was in my mid twenties lying to girls that were 18 - 23 about how I’m going to leave my girlfriend for them and that I feel like I have a connection with them I’ve never felt with anyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:00 PM
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I’m so predatory. It’s like after years of being a fuckboy I know exactly what kind of girls respond well to me and I feel like I start salivating or I become a little snake or something. It’s like they’re little red riding hood and I’m the big bad wolf. I know that probably sounds cringy, but it’s just something in my mind that when I see my prey I just feel this urge. Obviously I have to fight these urges because I’m in a relationship, but it never goes away
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:04 PM
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How creepy guys are sometimes like being recorded at gyms and stuff. They have to deal with predatory men, which I’ve been guilty of being that way myself. The fact doctors are less likely to listen to them. I saw that video of the girl trying to play COD and she got kicked from the game for being a woman. A lot of the historical things women have had to endure. Child brides. A lot of stuff that happens to women in the Middle East. To go back to the previous thing, it seems like the shared exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:52 PM
1

8/10 any day of the week. I’m fine living below my means and I think I’d have more fun being attractive even if I’m a low earner
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:35 AM
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Women don’t hate men that watch porn, they hate men that they know watch porn. Think about it But yeah, not watching porn is a good thing to virtue signal about. Whether it’s true or not is another thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:32 AM
2

Tbh I wish they would get rid of rule 11 so the real conversations can begin
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:36 PM
2

Nah, just another victim of r/latestagecapitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:49 PM
4

So sexism is fine as long as you benefit from it? What is my incentive to not be sexist then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:51 PM
2

The thing is women aren’t better or worse than men, everyone sucks for their own reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:50 PM
1

I’m also on the cusp of millennial/gen z, but technically I am a millennial
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:48 PM
3

My dreams are to have a soft harem of BBW goddesses though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:13 PM
8

I sleep with them then break up with them for being hypergamous and tell them they need to sleep with someone shorter and more broke than me. I’m doing a real service here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:12 PM
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Ever since I turned 30 I have developed one. I regret not getting my girlfriend pregnant when we were younger. We’re trying for a baby now, but if I was single I think I would legitimately just knock up randos. I keep having this fantasy of having two girls go into labor at the same hospital at the same time and us all having to coparent and accept the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:08 PM
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Blue pilled in the streets, red pilled in the sheets
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:06 PM
1

If you’re going to be fetishized, might as well let it be by someone you can fetishize back
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:53 PM
1

Maybe because like women they have to weed out the fetishizers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:47 PM
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Young people are naive about how much work it takes to keep a relationship healthy. I hate the American pie movies, but Eugene Levy has one of the best lines in the whole franchise, "they call it making love because you have to make love work" Once you realize that your relationship is a partnership and you’re both on the same team and it isn’t just something to leave up to chance it gives the relationship a whole new perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:45 PM
1

Would Adam drive be attractive if he was 5’8? There is your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:04 PM
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If the analogy makes sense, then fine. Personally I find analogies a dumb way to make a point because everyone gets so hung up on the metaphors involved that it’s better to just say what you mean. Also a lot of RP analogies just aren’t very good
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:59 PM
1

Because they’re super defensive and have a victim mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:58 PM
2

I’m never working in an office again, WFH is the standard now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:57 PM
2

Sort of yeah, I just realized most guys lower their standards so I started to as well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:55 PM
3

I know! I thought it was all just one night stands with Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:05 PM
1

Alright, and we have human based evidence that a high complex carbohydrate diet is better
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:59 PM
2

How can keto include longer lifespan when first of all it just gained popularity in the last decade, it was only developed as a diet to treat epilepsy, and the area with the highest number of centenarians all eat incredibly high carbohydrate diets such as the Okinawans. Of course it will increase lifespan if people are eating less processed foods, but it isn’t as healthy as people try to make it seem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:57 PM
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Keto is bad for the kidneys, carbohydrates aren’t the problem, simple and processed carbohydrates are. I guarantee you that woman eats a high fat diet already
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:50 PM
1

I wouldn’t say I "lie" but I might project a better version of myself than I know I’m capable of maintaining. My problem is I’m just a charming guy, I like saying sweet things to women and flirting with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:48 PM
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Serial dating is the best chance for the majority of men to have a successful sex life. I use this hypothetical scenario as an example: consider you’re at a music festival and you see lots of attractive women that you want to have sex with. Sure, a very small number of guys will be able to find a hook up there, but that isn’t the experience of the majority of guys. Instead your best bet would be to date a girl, invite her to the festival and have sex with her. She’ll still be one of the girls th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:38 PM
1

Maybe if you base your views of women on reality tv
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:29 PM
4

That is a lie lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:53 PM
1

I just have a crush on Liv but I think she is gone for good now 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:34 PM
4

Am I redpilled? If I’m redpilled why? I don’t agree with a most redpill assertions, but I definitely am not blue pilled. It’s all very confusing. I don’t think women are as bad as the red pill tries to say. I think a lot of guys issues with dating is that their own standards are too high. At the same time the only way to have sex with a lot of women is to lead them on, which is pretty shitty, but I also need some kind of justification for it. I think the basic advice like grooming and hygiene an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:57 AM
1

Jokes on you, I missed out on my youth AND I work a dead end job
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:48 PM
2

Break up with her ASAP (but make sure he added +1 to his score first)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:30 PM
1

I wish I could have that mindset, I guess I just see it differently being a guy and knowing this is the typical male experience
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:50 PM
1

She really did though, she said that he isn’t good enough for a casual blowjob despite her identifying herself as easy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:59 PM
5

That’s why it’s in men’s best interest to do the cheating behind her back
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:50 PM
2

Bail on her after you add +1 to your score though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:49 PM
0

Tbh women just follow whatever the man she likes is doing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:48 PM
2

Rather touch 🐱
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:46 PM
1

It isn’t about using her, she describes herself as a pass around, so she self identifies as easy. She probably does it for validation herself. But the guy who got rejected is being told that his validation doesn’t matter. That means she thinks lowly of him
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:46 PM
1

One is being sexually validated while the other isn’t. That’s a pretty big deal to have your sexual worth be disregarded so disrespectfully
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:37 PM
1

I wish I could see the world the way you must then. I just view it as the ultimate rejection. While the other guy in the story is living this fulfilling sex life the other guy is on the sidelines. I just hope he finds TRP and cleans his act up and turns his life around
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:32 PM
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Yeah, but that isn’t what I’m talking about. I’m saying the guy is so beneath everyone that even in that situation he isn’t good enough for her. Can you see how that could be psychologically damaging?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:26 PM
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Yeah, but she is allowing herself to be used by one guy and not the other. That means the guy who she isn’t allowing to use her is so worthless that he isn’t even good enough for someone with severe mental health issues
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:21 PM
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Oh there absolutely are, but can you imagine the psychological toll of being the guy who is beneath someone like that? That’s what we mean when we say men have it worse
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:16 PM
1

I hope so, but there are lots of crazy things that happen out there. Always for other people, never for guys like me and bob
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:15 PM
3

Is it definitively transphobic to not want to date a trans person? I remember they were all upset about the super straight thing a while ago
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:14 PM
1

Obviously, but I feel for the guy getting denied the blowjob
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:12 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/BPD/comments/el5dgc/incel_verbally_assaulted_me_because_i_wouldnt/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Idk why but this pisses me off so much, but of course the feminist response is consent which you obviously can’t argue against but the issue isn’t even about being denied the blow job, it’s about being cucked by a girl with zero self respect in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:04 PM
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The bitter male virgin paradox: expecting women to have sex with every guy even if she doesn’t like him but that would make the girl a slut which would make her undesirable but a girl not sleeping with a guy creates bitter male virgins I’m serving up blue pills today boys
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:35 PM
1

True, maybe I need to find my BPD princess 🥰 My girlfriend of 10 years has bipolar disorder but I was the crazy one in the beginning of our relationship and then she was the crazy one in the middle and then we both mellowed out a lot so maybe she is my emotional match
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:32 PM
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As an emotionally unstable and abusive manchild I don’t think that is true. All the women I’ve dated have been way too mature and emotionally stable for me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:27 PM
1

I guess all things being equal I would probably choose the more attractive woman because kids aren’t that important to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:26 PM
2

Yes. Looks are fundamentally important and we need to accept that. The thing is in my experience though we can improve our looks. I didn’t like the one girl I’m thinking of because she was too butch and masculine. If she had presented herself as more feminine I might have liked her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:24 PM
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He had girlfriends as a teen when everyone’s height is still fluctuating, much different than being an adult when women have had time to compare options
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:22 PM
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In either scenario I’d be more interested in the love we feel for one another. I’m on the fence about children, so that isn’t a really big determining factor for me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:19 PM
1

Q4W: thoughts on Elon Musk?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:18 PM
2

Maybe the women have a point, the whiteboard didn’t say show me your vagina. But breasts are sexualized so to think "show me your breasts" is the same as "show me your elbow" is silly. But, I don’t think this is a double standard, breasts aren’t as shocking as penises. You might as well have made it equal and asked people to show you their butthole
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:00 AM
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Tall men will have success handed to them or appear successful just by virtue of being tall. The short guy will always be seen as compensating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:29 AM
2

IDLES is sick bro ✌🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:25 PM
5

Lisa, a 33 year old digital marketing manager, stands in line at her local Starbucks waiting to order a javachip Frappuccino. She is wearing a pencil skirt and showing a tasteful amount of cleavage while she shares a Facebook post on her iPhone 11 about how the USA is totally like living in the handmaids tale. Her phone pings, it’s a text from Chet, the 27 year old 6’3 investment banker she met on Tinder. He says he can’t see her anymore because he got back together with his ex. Tears start to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:12 PM
2

Women treat men like shit all the time for the transgressions of other men, go check out two X chromosomes or female dating strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:44 PM
1

I don’t know how to word this so I hope it makes sense, but just because two people meet at a different time in life doesn’t mean that either of them wouldn’t have been that way in the past. So like, yeah, the woman in her 30s/40s very well would have probably rejected that same guy in his 20s. I don’t think it’s good to be in a relationship with someone you resent, but I also think certain experiences shouldn’t be overlooked so I advocate guys getting theirs when the time comes if you know what…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:38 PM
1

Why is it insane to hold onto that resentment?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:27 PM
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No, we hate that women are delusional when it comes to their intuition because it’s wrong. The same girl getting the "ick" from one guy will turn around and get an STD from their physically abusives boyfriend who cheats on them regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:52 PM
1

And yet your generosity doesn’t extend to freeing the boys over at r/virgin of the shackles of their lack of intimacy. Curious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:50 PM
2

No, she was a lot cuter when we first started dating but so was I probably. Doesn’t matter though because I do love her deeply and I’d even say unconditionally
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:48 PM
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"Every woman has an ex who did this shitty thing" If women like being treated badly, then why are they exes? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:16 PM
2

I don’t have a source, just generally the consensus I’ve seen is that women are disgusted by the thought of men seeking out teen porn and step daughter porn. The funny thing though is that a lot of women participate in this kind of porn. I think like your scenario is that women will do a lot of things but they will also be disgusted by the idea of others doing the same thing. It’s as if I’m their mind it’s different when they’re doing it. I see this a lot with age gap relationships. Between 23 a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:32 PM
2

The OP said that the sexual Revolution was going to legalize incest, I’m saying the only people interested in incest are porn obsessed men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:22 PM
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They might get bored, but I doubt they’re looking up videos about having sex with their step sons
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:19 PM
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You know what, you’re not wrong. The number of women I’ve been with that are ok with participating in not even rough sex but legitimately violent sex and are into CNC would show that women also have a tendency for deviancy. But by and large women are mostly disgusted by trends in porn like "teen porn" and "step daughter porn"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:12 PM
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It’s only men that are seeking out more and more perverted things. It isn’t really "sexual Revolution" as much as it is desensitization to pornography and needing something a little more shocking to get the blood pumping. I have a theory that a lot of pedophiles aren’t attracted to children, it’s the shame and embarrassment that is the real appeal, just like with the incest porn
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:06 PM
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I have a fake Facebook where I used a "Chad" photo but the name and account is obviously fake. There was a post about a guy flashing a feminist rally and I said "they were asking for it" and a girl responded and was unironically flirting with me and acting all weird and nervous. I know certain topics are banned here, but come on!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:05 PM
1

Sometimes condoms break and birth control fails though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:24 PM
2

So her options are having a child or having a child. That doesn’t really seem like she has a choice to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:10 PM
1

One that is being chosen by the person
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:03 PM
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No, people can choose whatever qualities they want. But in my experience low n women really do prefer low n men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:45 AM
3

You’re still forcing someone to go through the initial operation of transplanting the fetus into the artificial womb so you’ve already breached bodily autonomy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:43 AM
2

Best advice. It really does train them and makes them believe that in their mind
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:10 AM
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It used to make me sad and feel worthless but I’m really misanthropic now so I appreciate being left alone. The one thing that does get me though is that the only time someone does talk to me is if they’re going to yell at me for something and that is pretty disheartening
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:49 PM
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Happy for "women" as a monolith? No, I’m indifferent. Happy to see the women in my life succeed and prosper? Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:32 PM
2

It’s because everyone projects their perception of the world. You can agree with someone but they want to believe you believe what they think you should believe
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:17 PM
2

What’s it matter though? Getting laid is still better than not getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:16 PM
0

The thing is once you crack that code is like a super power you can always keep in your back pocket. As you get older and more mature you can dial it back or ramp it up. Women never change, when they’re younger you can get away with more blatant moves like giving them the cold shoulder, but when they’re older you have to be more subtle about it but it still works. A lot of girls in their early twenties know what’s going on so they’ll play along because they’re DTF
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:35 AM
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Why blame him for playing by the rules women have created?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:33 AM
2

I was a high school drop out who didn’t get matches Then I got a bachelors degree and could attract girls with a high school education If I wanted to attract women on par with me intellectually I’d have to get a masters degree. You’re absolutely right, and I’m not sure if this is ever touched upon in the red pill, but you’d have to live a very privileged life to not become resentful about all the work it takes men to attract sub par women. And even then, all the responsibility to "self improve" …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:30 AM
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It all depends on how you describe what happened. That’s the thing with women, it’s all optics. Learn to speak the language women speak and they’ll like you better. Happy manipulating!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:47 PM
1

I just find the absurdity of life meaningless. My partner is ok with it, been together 10 years. I have the ability and emotional intelligence and psychopathy needed to be incredibly successful, I just get bored of it too quickly. I lack the stamina needed to be consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:43 PM
1

5’8 guys reading this 💀😭🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:39 PM
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Men are excused from cheating because their experience is one of sexual scarcity. Women have abundance therefore them cheating means they view the relationship with indifference. Would it be worse for a starving person or a wealthy person to steal a loaf of bread?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:42 PM
1

I like space buns and bangs that were popularized by Zooey Deschanel
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:39 PM
10

Flirtation, activate pump and dump protocol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:23 AM
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In my experience women don’t want to be with guys who’ve been with a lot of women, instead those guys downplay how many women they’ve been with until they’ve slept with a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:18 PM
3

I’m all for it. I’m just for logical consistency
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:03 PM
3

Opposite actually, aren’t people’s faces usually puffy in the morning?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 01:45 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 01:31 PM
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Why is someone having a positive outlook or being indifferent to what you’re concerned about delusional? I have been stressed about getting older since I turned 10 because it was the first time my age had two digits. Every birthday came with existential dread and feeling like I was getting old. Then when 30 rolled around I really felt nothing. Everything in life is made up, it’s all meaningless, do whatever you want. Your issue is you’re playing by rules that were made for you by others instead …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:55 AM
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That’s the exception and not the rule, most abortions are from women with loose morals unable to take responsibility for their bad decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:45 AM
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I find taller women attractive. I’m 5’9 and I’d probably go as tall as 5’10, 5’11 and taller might be too much where she starts looking goofy and manly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:43 AM
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You always find a way to make it men’s fault when men do the things they do because of the way women are
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:40 AM
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That when it becomes pump and dump time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:02 AM
2

The issue is that some things the democrats do are ridiculous and need to be judged, and I hate to say it but a very small number of the other groups talking points are based in their shared experience which means they’re not completely wrong. This is the problem with the internet, people are so scared of being associated with the wrong side of an argument they’ll allow themselves to only think in black and white terms
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:03 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:58 PM
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There is no such thing as the wall. The secret is to take care of yourself though. I’m not like other people here, I think you can be attractive despite being overweight, but once you hit a certain age gravity starts to catch up to you and it’s a lot harder so you be attractive older it is essential to be fit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:17 PM
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Oh that’s the thing, plenty of women are interested in talking to me, just not while I’m trying to slowly discover our shared mutual interests. The trick is to get the conversation off the app ASAP, and then leave the first conversation as quickly as possible to pick up later. And then you need to involve them in your life so it feels like they already know you, then from there just basically love bomb them as you get to know them and act like you like everything they like
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:46 PM
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That’s the funny part, we have learned plenty about women, and it’s that they’re nothing like the example you expressed here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:36 PM
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Your post reads like the way men believe relationships work before they actually try to have a relationship with a woman. As a woman you should be more self aware of how it actually is from your end. The kind of things you expressed here are what naive men think before they become red pilled. There is no "getting to know each other and seeing if there is chemistry." If you haven’t made it clear to a woman you’re talking to what you want from her within 5 minutes of actually talking you blew it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:35 PM
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Have you ever talked to a woman before?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:46 PM
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Female moment, imagine entering a male dominated space and expecting us to cater to you and being offended when we don’t. That girl has nothing to offer them besides being judgmental. As a woman the world is your oyster and everything is built to accommodate you, but oh no, some men in late adolescence are making off color jokes! The horror! Maybe she’d be better off in a genders studies class where she can complain about how she is oppressed because the guy who pumped and dumped her on Tinder i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:44 PM
1

Body count of at least 3 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:16 AM
0

Women don’t hate hegemony. They hate that they aren’t the ones benefitting from it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:16 AM
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I’d shift that to 5’8 and up. 5’7 is a gray area, 5’6 and below and your height will negatively impact you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:14 AM
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I lurk it occasionally trying to see what kind of people post here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:28 PM
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Well, sometimes there are things we don’t like but have to do in our best interest. I think this falls under the protect yourself and others sort of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:27 PM
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Women don’t have to be beautiful in the same way men don’t have to be beautiful. If you want to eliminate yourself from the equation you’re free to. If you want to participate in dating as a woman you should try to look your best, which is fairly easy and women have lots of resources for that. If you’re a man, you also have to look your best, but this requires having certain genetic traits like height and a good jawline. You act like women don’t value looks at all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:18 PM
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Why would I be lying? I’m based my entire dating strategy in my 20s on being the shitty boyfriend. Just lead women on. The red pill is right to an extent but I’ve gotten the best success with women from acting sincere and like I’m "not like other guys" then after establishing a sexual relationship I basically let my true self come out and at that point most girls are already attached so they’ll put up with whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:19 PM
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If you were at a public place like a shopping mall and you separated everyone by gender, which group, male or female, would have more people that are considered attractive? I would confidently say that everyone would agree the women and that’s because more traits are considered attractive for women so your example would be such an extreme outlier. And in the real world, men aren’t really using status or money to get girls because those kind of girls would still just go with an attractive guy who…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:02 PM
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For sure bud, once you’ve had sex with a girl a few times they’ll get attached then you can start being your real self. If you can make a girl submit or make her orgasm they’ll put up with anything. Careful though because some girls get psycho attached and will try killing themselves or worse you and shit when they catch you talking to other girls
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:58 PM
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Considering the kind of men women choose to date, I see why they’d come to that conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:56 PM
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I mean make up does make a woman more attractive, she just needs to keep buying it. There is no solution for height or jawline though so if you’re a guy you’re screwed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:56 PM
2

People accept the love they deserve, they also receive the love they deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:53 PM
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The thing is so many shitty guys have no problem getting girls. I’m a serial cheater and I’m toxic af and yet I have no problem having multiple women that I’m with at any given time. So personality or whatever isn’t even a prerequisite
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:52 PM
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I’ve helped plates i was spinning set up dating profiles and they’d get messages before their profiles we were filled out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:50 PM
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The trick is to not let the misogyny show. Women are our play things, but only because they created the dynamic we have. Can’t go around being openly bitter, women are all about mind games and psychological tricks so you have to play their little game as well if you want to get with them. If you become liberated then let the mask come off
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:48 PM
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Skinny guys that are 6’1+>muscular guys that are average height or shorter* Nobody would be attracted to Pete Davidson or Machine Gun Kelly if they were 5’7
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:47 PM
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Yes, that is why they are sold products because women’s issues are solvable…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:43 PM
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Women are finding themselves happier without a mate because they have the security of knowing finding one wouldn’t be hard so they can do whatever they want. Remember, it’s women who use incel and virgin as an insult furthering the belief that a mans worth is defined by how capable he is of attracting women. Maybe there is male entitlement, but that isn’t the reason guys suck with women because plenty of guys get with lots of women and are entitled. I’m pretty entitled and used every psychologic…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:40 PM
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You’re leaving out the fundamental issue that there is no mate scarcity for women, men are competitive because they’re starving for affection and women are the out of touch elites that think everyone has the same standard of living
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:52 PM
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The issue there is that RPM come to these conclusions out of a desire for control where as trad women come to it out of a place of perceived moral purity. There is some overlap where red pill does get into conservative territory but fundamentally red pill is about maximizing success with women in a hedonistic way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:50 PM
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"It’s just so happens"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:41 AM
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To answer this completely honestly, yes, the end game for me was just finding someone willing to have sex with me. In fact the first few people I’ve had a sexual relationship with I had trouble getting an erection because I was so in my head about it. After I got comfortable with them I had no problems getting an erection, but I in my mind I was more concerned about the fact that someone was willing to have sex with me than actually having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:33 AM
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Jeez, everything gives women the ick. I’d rather have the 18 year olds and I’m 32
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:23 AM
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If it’s a buyers market, but it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:24 PM
1

Red pill is right in fundamental theory but not on practical application. In fact, most red pill advice leads to negative outcomes. I think it’s all about a shift in mindset, as men we try to make ourselves attractive to as many different types of women as we can because that is how we are attracted to women, but women don’t work that way. I’ve found now that I’m older that the best approach is to find quantity within seeking quality. The fantasy of having casual sex with every women you pass th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:22 PM
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Peak smashing for men is age 23 - 27 I got so many 18 and 19 year olds through that age range. It was ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:33 PM
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Tbh if I was younger I’d be offended, but you know what? Good for her. She has always been really nice and if she is enjoying herself who cares? I’ve walked 20 miles to hook up with girls before, if I was single I’d probably travel all over
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:49 PM
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Jokes on you, I’ve been in a 10 year relationship and still played the field
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:46 PM
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A girl in my friends group who has a 60+ body count traveled 400 miles to hang out with a 6’4 guy. And you get unmatched when you say hello
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:36 PM
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Absolute opposite for me. When I groom and stuff and act more charming my success sky rockets. I think what you’re experiencing here is the similar amounts of success it’s just when you’re trying you notice all the rejections but when you’re not trying you’re not acknowledging them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:34 PM
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Yeah, I’m going to a wedding and at 5’9 I’m taller than 99% of the people there surprisingly. I guess I just live in an area that is short. But there are a couple guys that are pushing 6’ and I’m considering getting some lifts just so I look taller next to them in photographs. I’m confident in my height because it’s not something I can change, but the idea of being the tallest guy seems like it might be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:04 PM
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I’m not attracted to men as a gender though. Considering how unattractive women find most men it could be argued that women aren’t even attracted to me either. It’s like the amount of men I find attractive as a straight men compared to the amount of men straight women find attractive is really similar
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:55 PM
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The way I see it is that women wear make up because they feel if they didn’t they’d be judged harshly. Maybe you don’t personally, but this is an argument I’ve heard. In that regard we see the benefits of men who are taller in the work place and in dating. Height is respected. If someone wears shoe lifts as a way to increase their presence I think that is just playing by the rules society has made and isn’t necessarily a sign of insecurity. Edit: I see down below you did make that remark so you …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:47 PM
2

French braids are cute
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:44 PM
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Ah, yes, being seen as "this person might kill me if I reject them" is such a privilege. Kind of funny though how so many men still get rejected, so maybe that isn’t as much of a fear as women like to say it is 🤔 Also, look at all the things like "women are the future" and "girl boss" culture. Women are accepted in spaces. Men are met with suspicion. Women are the sexual selectors, men have to wait for the approval of a woman if they want to be in a relationship and the entire time they risk bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:37 PM
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Yes, just girls. I don’t know how to word it, but if guys acted the way girls acted they wouldn’t get very far in life. Women have it easy because the bar is so low for them because we need them for reproduction
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:31 PM
2

Always have been
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:02 PM
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Yeah pissed me off that OKCupid is validating and legitimizing that awful subreddit, but they’d never go on a red pill podcast or anything that challenges their bluepilled nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:02 PM
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This is a long video, but he is 110% correct https://fb.watch/dYWR6Jy0ZI/?mibextid=7ovdaX
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:17 AM
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There is nothing wrong with cheating, but a woman who cheats is worse because she isn’t able to abstain from the onslaught of choices she has. A man has to work hard to be attractive to women, so it is expected that he would always be on the hunt
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:38 PM
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This was my realization, I had to self improve to finally attract girls that were beneath me. I guess that’s why we get our pick and none of the girls we mess with matter. Like Kevin Samuels said, "you’re the girl for tonight, not the girl for my life" As a man you have to spin plates and fuck around, and every so often you’ll encounter a girl that is worth dating, but most girls aren’t worth more than a booty call because they’re dull af
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:16 PM
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There was actually a post in the ex red pill subreddit and I think it was here too that showed that guy who got laid the most were the ones spending money on dates and things so even the alpha fucks guys are beta bucksing in a way
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:13 PM
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If I’m understanding entirely here, I have to disagree because absurdism and nihilism cured my depression by allowing me to realize how meaningless our lives are and within that how lucky we are to experience consciousness in any capacity at all. Life is all about perspective and people change. The lower brain might be driving you to want one thing but the higher brain knows that a change in values and identity will lead to more happiness. Like, I’m 5’9 and poor. I’m not going to live the fantas…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/22 10:17 PM
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Chemistry is attraction. That’s all it means. I’ve had girls interested in me that I wasn’t attracted to and there was no chemistry. I assume if a girl isn’t interested in me it’s because I’m not attractive to her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:18 PM
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A healthy sex life is whatever you are happy with that isn’t causing you emotional distress. I was too agressive in my teens and this pushed a lot of girls away. Because of this I saw myself as some virgin loser because I didn’t realize at the time the girls liked me, I just made them feel like I only wanted sex, which was actually true so they were right now to sleep with me. But I didn’t realize that at the time so I learned to control my sexual aggressiveness and would basically lead girls on…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:54 PM
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"Hoping more women see this as a sign to not give casual sex to men who don’t deserve it" Great, so you’re finally becoming red pilled? You act like sex is a favor to men. You’re self objectifying which I thought was supposed to be bad? Anyways, women make it hard enough to get laid as it is, y’all aren’t exactly giving it out like candy. And besides, abstaining from sex is a great way to prevent abortion. So like, go right ahead and start doing what you should have been doing all along
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:26 PM
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Part of the reason I’m so cruel to other people is because I feel people are inferior if they’re not vegan. Like, we have access to so much nutritious food and yet you still choose the option that requires animals being slaughtered because of your taste preference. The fact someone could treat someone else with so much indifference and yet turn around and call themselves an "animal lover" like this level of cognitive dissonance and disregard for the suffering you cause just shows humans are tras…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:08 PM
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Considering people are taller in the morning and shorter in the evening and people get shorter throughout their lives there is no way to know someone’s height, only an approximation. I know I’m being pedantic about this, but I’m just using it to reiterate the hard height requirements women post in their dating bios are ridiculous. I am confident that most of those women would date someone under that height requirement if they met in person first. The other thing, is that in the US we we don’t re…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:18 PM
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Idk, I’m sexually attracted to all body types, but I know I found over time that if I wanted to boost my body count I had to dumpster dive and that’s what most men do who get a lot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:32 PM
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I think it was because guys became increasingly desperate so they have to pander to fat women. Now fat women are getting confident so it’s reorienting itself where they’re only chasing after the top men as well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:15 PM
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Plus we base our height off of what we heard from our doctor several years ago and it all depends on if we were measured wearing shoes or if their tape measurer was installed correctly. I’ve been 5’9, 5’8.5, and 5’9.25. Nobody knows their exact height why is why women’s height requirements are so arbitrary. It’s mind boggling how much they defend them though when it’s something so meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:03 PM
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1.) Under 5’7 2.) 5’9 3.) 6’1 4.) Over 6’4 As a side note on 3, I am 5’9 and have had women tell me I’m tall. This was pre online dating though or they could have been just trying to build me up. At my height I’ve been able to date very easily and have never encountered someone saying I was too short. My taller friends though have gotten more attention, but not so much more that my experience is inferior to theirs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:00 PM
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Been going short on women for years, thankfully I’ve been investing in the dip so I’m excited to finally see some ROI
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:10 PM
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Damn, women would rather die than make good life decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:08 PM
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Women will have to make better choices about the men they sleep with or suffer the consequences, oh the horror. If there is one thing women hate it’s being held accountable for their actions, they call it "victim blaming"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:07 PM
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Who was Pete Davidsons girlfriend before he was famous? I’m not able to find anything on google
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:38 PM
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I would agree with that analysis, but I’ve seen many people online refer to grooming as anyone talking to anyone else when there is an age gap present such as Leonardo DiCaprio as an example of a celebrity. Also, I would change that to 16+ as most people are sexually actively by then, so while I would never endorse this, talking to someone under a certain age but not having sex with them until they are of a legal age isn’t really grooming because the other party has already had sex. Talking to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:33 PM
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That is the way women view the world, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:27 PM
0

I would have sex with my friends if I was attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:27 PM
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Men’s reasons for cheating are often more valid, in fact women don’t really have a reason to cheat which is probably why it’s seen differently
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:26 PM
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Yes, it is in your flair, just remove "people"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:24 PM
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Yes, so women should stop lying and saying they see these guys as a "friend"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:19 PM
2

RP only exists because of women’s behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:18 PM
1

I’ll drink to that brother
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:17 PM
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I think the reason the "friend zone" is so infuriating is because it’s disingenuous. Women don’t see you as a "friend" they see you as a guy too repulsive to think of sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:16 PM
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That’s great and all, but being alone because you don’t meet some arbitrary genetic requirements sort of ruins that whole theory. Want to know how easy women have it? They can reject a guy simply because he is 71 inches tall and not 72 inches tall and they can do so knowing that no matter what they look like themselves within reason that they’ll never have to worry about being alone. You can be short, tall, thin, fat as a woman and you’ll still be desirable. And feminism is continuously disparag…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:02 PM
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I came here to make this exact comment
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:56 PM
1

Old dudes are lucky because they don’t have to pretend anymore. They’re liberated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:56 PM
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I’d love to see their faces when I tell them grooming isn’t even a real thing, it’s just a word they use when a guy is nice to them to get sex and they regret it after lol. Omg, you TALKED to that girl? You’re grooming her even though she already has a 20+ body count
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:52 PM
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Yes, why would I want to see my brothers get manipulated or used? Women show their true nature, so we are just playing by the rules they made and that’s why they get so mad. Also, just because there is an age gap doesn’t mean it’s exploitative
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:50 PM
1

How is that being mean? Everyone is entitled to have preferences. There’s nothing wrong with lopsided boobs, I’m just not attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:48 PM
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Guys don’t realize they can have standards for women they date too. Want a low n count woman? Ask her, tell her that a low n count is important to you and that the kind of woman who has a high n count or isn’t comfortable affirming she has a low n count isn’t someone you’re compatible with. Simple as that. Or just tell her you’re not attracted to her because her boobs are uneven or her butt is too flat. Guys will complain about unfair standards and not realize they don’t have to be so desperate …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:39 PM
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Kanye is GOAT. Eminem is trash
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:24 PM
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I used to believe this shit and got zero 🐱
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:21 PM
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I think everyone is just virtue signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:20 PM
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I always assume they do. My wife thinks im rude to cashiers and waitresses, but I just don’t want them thinking im interested in them. One time we were in a fast food line and had to pull forward and when the girl came out to give us our food she was like "sorry about the wait, have a nice day" and I didn’t even look at her I just took the food and started driving away. My wife said I need to be friendlier to people but what’s the point? The interaction between me and an employee is coincidental…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:41 PM
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Do you think being interested in things like philosophy, quantum mechanics, cosmology, avant garde forms of art, and history are signs of being an intelligent and intellectual person? I’ve always thought I was of average intelligence and occasionally I have this fear that I have a low IQ because I’ll forget my wallet or for example the other day I was doing laundry and accidentally started the wrong dryer after putting my money in. But I’ve been told there is no way I’m a dumb or low IQ person b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:16 PM
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Did you see the one he did with Tucker Carlson around the same time? Jon Stewart is brilliant and is responsible for the start of so many right wing villain origin stories lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:00 PM
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I’m going to keep a tally of how many guys I see that are shorter than me (5’9) and are in relationships. Would that prove anything to anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:36 PM
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That’s not what I meant. The picture where he is crunched up for example. The photo is crooked, the top of his head is cut off, there is a wet floor sign behind him, the picture looks cramped and claustrophobic. His pose is also so folded in on himself you can’t really get a good look at his physique, it’s like he is basically bent in half. Just compositionally and even lighting wise they’re not good photographs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:30 PM
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Post height
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:13 PM
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I don’t know if I said this before, but I think a good topic of discussion would be over the distinction between being attractive and being appealing. I think a lot of guy can work on being appealing even if it doesn’t translate to being physically attractive. On r/Tinder it seems guys encounter women with a very narrow set of standards, but that is an aggregate of all those experiences. In my experience guys just need to be attractive enough to not be repulsive and if they can make themselves a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:12 PM
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This guy has really shit photos, but I imagine he is completely capable of getting into at least one relationship in his life, so yes, I think women would find him attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:09 PM
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It always comes out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 01:29 PM
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Do they not though? Most men are attracted to most women, most women are not attracted to most men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:44 PM
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It has to do with the fact that women have lower standards they need to achieve to be considered attractive where as guys have higher standards. Nobody is saying they’re forced to go out with someone they’re not attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:31 PM
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What does that have anything to do with the conversation here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:27 PM
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Because they "do it for themselves"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:49 PM
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No, women are unattractive by default but society allows them to utilize things like make up and grooming to appear more feminine. Men are also unattractive by default but are only attractive to women if they have the genetics that are deemed attractive like height or jawline. Am example i work remotely and do a lot of video meetings. One of the girls I work with has a photo of herself on slack with her make up on and hair done. When she joins meetings her hair is a mess, her face looks swollen …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:49 PM
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Why do I see so many guys under 6’ with average jaw lines in relationships then? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:53 AM
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Black pills says looks maxing is pointless. Wheat waffles videos say "you can’t bring your score up, but by not doing certain things you’re bringing your score down." Black pill is too fatalistic and reactionary to be taken seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:50 AM
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Woof woof 🐕
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:08 PM
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Wouldn’t the mature men in their 30s just go for girls in their 20s? I feel that was always my appeal chasing younger women, but little did they know I’m a canine at heart, I’m a dog 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:01 PM
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Well, I would imagine straight women would find the gender they’re attracted to more attractive, but they don’t which means straight women aren’t even attracted to men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:59 PM
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I feel like this article is an example of what r/antifeminists is about. Think about it, how many western feminists are out here saying "my people are dying" because a lack of girl boss CEOs, but they’ll never in their lives have to face something like this or being stoned to death for driving. Western feminism is a display of privilege
/r/AntiFeminists08/06/22 05:58 PM
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Yeah I don’t get the whole "women over x age are unattractive thing" Tbh I find girls from [redacted] to 60 attractive. If you’re older though you have to be in good shape and probably get some cosmetic surgery, if you’re younger you can be overweight and still be attractive in my opinion, but as you age it’s going to catch up to you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:53 PM
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More physical types of women are considered attractive. Ask any blue pilled person this in the right way and they’ll agree. "Do you find more men or more women you see attractive?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:51 PM
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"Not Uber short" So like 5’11? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:50 PM
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Watched the US version, thought it was sweet. Am I allowed to say it was a little black pilled but also blue pilled? I liked the girl and guy who wanted to go to Africa I liked the Indian guy who basically disproved the balding Indian janitor thing I liked the older guy. I sort of liked the renaissance fair guy, but I imagine living with him would be incredibly difficult I didn’t like the animation girl, although I understand why she didn’t like that first guy, but the second guy was definitely …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 03:27 PM
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I agree with your sentiment, but how many women are selling Tupperware and leggings without turning a profit because they fell for a pyramid scheme?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 02:14 PM
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I do not support either of them, but the way I see it is that abuse goes both ways. Things aren’t always black and white and from what I heard Johnny Depp was just as guilty of being abusive as she was. The only thing is that the trial was regarding defamation and not necessarily abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 02:11 PM
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I was in community college and living at my girlfriends parents house while seeing most of these girls. I’ve always thought I was ugly but maybe I’m just a "Chad" and don’t even realize it. I just love women, they bring out the best and worst in me and I can’t control myself😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 02:06 PM
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Why do you think I can attract younger girls so easily?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 07:07 AM
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I don’t buy into that, everything is cause and effect. One could emulate the bitch haver and have a prison bitch. It’s all about Machiavellianism and being opportunistic. The only thing is I imagine you have to be top dog and running some kind of gang which might not interest most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 07:06 AM
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What’s the biggest age gap you’ve had? Mine was 11 years. Kind of weird to think that when I was graduating high school she’d have just been entering elementary school, but we never talked about that. I don’t get why so many girls here lie and say age gap relationships don’t happen. I’ve been with multiple girls who were 7+ years younger than me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:16 AM
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"Gun laws won’t stop bad guys from getting guns" Funny considering all these mass shootings are from people who legally obtained their guns. Also democrats don’t want to "ban guns," they just want sensible gun legislation including background checks and training
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:11 AM
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Everyone asks how not to become someone’s prison bitch, but how does someone become the person who has a prison bitch?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:33 AM
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Interesting that 6’1 is a requirement in women’s Tinder profiles, but "must be a snazzy dresser" isn’t 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:28 AM
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I think I get what you’re saying and there are a couple possible responses. One is that women really aren’t that attractive and make up is the only thing that redeems them. The second is that this might be the result of us being so accustomed to seeing women with make up. The thing is though that when you take a man and a woman without make up they might be even in the looks department, but make up allows them to date above what their league really is. This might sound unfair, and it is, but mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:26 AM
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And where have I said I don’t think it would be? You’re getting off track from my main point that it is valid to be frustrated that nobody will have voluntary sex with you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:32 PM
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As someone who has cracked this code you’re absolutely right and this is where the red and blue pills intersect. You have to act blue pilled externally but be red pilled internally. Once you realize that you achieve abundance of women which is ironic. However, speaking generally your remark would suggest people don’t have casual sex, which they do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:26 PM
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You’re assuming I think women are things, if I truly thought women were things I’d be content with masturbation and not desiring a connection with another human being
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:14 PM
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Masturbation isn’t sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:04 PM
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That doesn’t satisfy the desire for a physical connection to a woman. Which I have, but shaming men for being disgruntled over their natural impulses is irrational
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:56 PM
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Being sexually frustrated is a completely valid and understandable emotion and shaming someone for expressing this frustration is ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:47 PM
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Their personality detectors are broken so they rely on the back up ugly detector
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:27 PM
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Because women don’t actually have any "problems" except for the ones they make for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:25 PM
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Yes, of course. It isn’t productive though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:22 PM
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Thoughts on sex workers? People seem to act like it’s the most holy profession. They literally sell pictures of their buttholes to horny perverts. You can be busted af, but if you have the right genitalia you’ve got an endless bank between your legs by extorting desperate men who they wouldn’t give any attention to otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:04 PM
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I haven’t watched it yet but I imagine he’s gay
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:29 PM
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Should have probably shared the body count video here: https://youtu.be/-QUjk71liqs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:11 PM
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Jubilee is a media company that releases videos about young people’s dating habits. It’s supposed to be light hearted and blue pilled, but it’s unknowingly red pilled because it reveals human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:11 PM
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Going to watch this Jubilee body count video before work and ruin my day. The absolute state of the modern woman 🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:23 PM
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Lmao no, it means home girl was winding down and new that was the best she could get after being ran through. Ffs, if your guy cheats on you repeatedly and says "but baby, you’re always the one I choose at the end of the day" does that make it alright?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:34 PM
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Cheat on her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:29 PM
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As a man you realize that your genuine crushes never pan out so to be successful you have to reduce your interest to "would i be able to look at this woman naked without losing my erection" Every so often in my experience a woman has came along that I genuinely crush on, but since most of my hoeing is on the side those relationships just become fond memories. We have to realize that as men accepting our lack of power is what gives us our real power in dating. Women have it easy, therefore lose a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:20 PM
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It is, the moral purists will say it’s bad, but I get more ass than a toilet seat so I don’t give a fuck about n counts because by the time I’m close enough to a girl for any conversation like that to come up I’ve already been chasing 5 other girls
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:53 PM
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Maybe in the past when that study was conducted
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:50 PM
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Hate to break it to you bruv but most women are at 35+ by the time they’re 25 and probably caught 5 bodies before graduating high school
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:44 PM
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Sure, never said it was easier because a guy is older, but as evidenced here even young men have issues attracting women. No relationship with a woman is easy unless you’re incredibly attractive, but if you’re going to be pursuing women anyways why not chase something more exciting?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:40 PM
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Dudes gonna learn the red pill stuff is secret. It’s stuff that women want but when you say it out loud you sound creepy and it pushes them away. You have to be red pilled internally but blue pilled externally
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:37 PM
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Wtf is a son in law, is that like a step son? Ohhh, your child’s spouse. I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:36 PM
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What she said is equivalent to "I like small penises like yours, the big ones hurt me"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:35 PM
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She’s disrespecting you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:24 PM
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I make sure I stay relatable and I make sure I look younger than I am. The red pill notion that women like older men that act like older men is flawed as is many red pill assertions. Women like feeling safe, so an older guy supplies that dominance aspect, it feels a little risky, but overall if you make them feel safe and comfortable they’ll be into it and over time you can bring out a lot of things in them they’d be scared to try/do at the start
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:47 PM
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Have some self respect and cheat on her, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:42 PM
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Culturally we have no need for friends anymore. I’ve had the same thing happen with me being 5’9 and my friends all being over 6’. Women reveal their true nature. They are incapable of love and are only capable of lust. I ditched everyone in my life that made me feel at all insecure and it benefited my mental health significantly. When you realize the true nature of women you realize that biologically they only serve one function, a vehicle for you to reproduce and carry on your genes. Now, huma…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:41 PM
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Because society shames men for it and the feminists are trying to make young women believe older men are predatory. From ages 21 - 31 I have only dates girls around the ages of 18 - 23. I do not see that changing any time soon
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:31 PM
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But what makes a woman sexually appealing is so vast compared to what makes a man sexually appealing. The standards for female attractiveness are so low that’s it’s laughable to even consider them attractive once your realize it’s just the desire to smash that drives your interest in them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:09 PM
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There is no such thing as an "attractive woman" only women that are bangable. It’s often a binary. It’s very rare that I see the kind if girl I would genuinely crush on, but I see plenty of women that I’d smash
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:57 PM
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So poverty only affects women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:20 PM
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What? That is a horrible analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:19 PM
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No, because I believe the woman should still have bodily autonomy and it’s her baby and she can have them or not have them. I guess we should try to make things as just as possible within reason
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:55 PM
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Q4W: do y’all have an equivalent of butterface for men, or is it all predicated on height? What I mean is a guy like Adam Driver or Pete Davidson wouldn’t be considered attractive if they were 5’7 but this post this post is talking about how a woman with a nice body but unattractive face can still be considered attractive. Is it the same for women or is height the only thing that can compensate for an ugly face?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:53 PM
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don’t share that stuff publicly, that is stuff you have to watch in private and benefit from without revealing your secrets. Maybe after you’ve banged a few times you can reveal your true self more, but read the room, girls are learning finally and are avoiding things they deem dangerous. I mean Hamza verbatim said that society falls apart when women get rights. I agree, I mean men are getting soft and women have too much power, but if I’m trying to get my numbers up I’m keeping those thoughts t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:45 PM
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I did learn to play the game, I don’t value whatever it is women contribute but they offer nothing of value that can’t be found by their replacement. So, I’m a guy who likes variety, I’d rather have a rotation of women aged 18 - 35 rather than grow old with one woman who will just make my life miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:35 PM
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I’m pro choice so I think what’s happening is terrible, but it’s hypocritical to protect one potential parent and not the other
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:33 PM
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And if the father wants to have the kid his input is meaningless. Likewise, if the father doesn’t want the kid his input is also meaningless. The consent of the father to have a child is meaningless in all situations, which being pro choice is completely valid. However, that logic needs to be extended to protect the father if having a child would negatively impact his life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:32 PM
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Sure, but the issue I see is that women don’t have to work anywhere near as hard as men to gain SMV. This is why women’s role in relationships is largely unimportant to me. Get your nut and add her to the rotation. Women have it easy, men have it hard, what benefit does a man get from committing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:09 PM
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Both parties decided to have sex knowing the risks. If women have an exit that trump’s the fathers desires, then the father should be allowed an exit that trumps the mothers desires
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:06 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:05 PM
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Either they’re necessary or they’re not. If they’re necessary then they should have a say in abortion rights, if they’re not then they should not be forced to pay child support
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:05 PM
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Both parties decided to have sex knowing the risks. If women have an exit that trump’s the fathers desires, then the father should be allowed an exit that trumps the mothers desires
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:04 PM
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We are responsible for our reactions to things. The idea that you owe someone your commitment is ridiculous. People are free to leave a partnership at any time. Chances are you and your partner have been with others before the relationship started and would be with others if/when the relationship ends. It’s just sex, it doesn’t mean that much
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:03 PM
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Your body, your choice, your responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:52 PM
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Your body, your choice, your responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:52 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:39 PM
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My reply will most likely be deleted, hopefully it’s so long that people don’t read all the truth bombs "The problem is that the people giving advice can’t empathize and they are viewing it from their perspective of having multiple options. I’m a bit of an odd case. In my teens I never had trouble attracting girls, it was once they got to know me they distanced themselves from me. Probably because I pushed too hard for sex and it made them uncomfortable. This lack of successful relationships in …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:37 PM
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Age gap relationships are hot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:26 PM
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I’m pro choice and also think men should be able to abort themselves from the child’s life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:26 PM
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Guess Kevin Samuels is what I’ll be binge watching this weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:27 PM
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If you’re passing them up then that’s on you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:14 PM
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Is Lizzo really a sex symbol? I like her music and she really seems more like a self confidence symbol. In fact all the discussion I ever hear is about how she is fat. She hosted SNL recently and not a single skit was about her being a sex symbol unlike when Jennifer Lopez hosted and every skit was about her being a sex symbol. The equivalent could be DJ Khaled or something. I think you’re projecting a reality you’re fearful of that doesn’t actually exist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:23 PM
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3 times a week? First two years we were doing it daily multiple times a day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:43 PM
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It becomes less of a numbers game once you realize what type of women are most receptive to you. But the solution is to accept the fact that as a man it is essential to take a predatory role in the dating dynamic and to not be concerned with commitment or exclusivity. Once a girl has sex she will be attached, but ask yourself this, if the girl really liked you would she have made you work so hard for it? After that dynamic is established you can bounce her to hookup and keep her warm while you’r…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:41 PM
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That actually makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:33 PM
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But if we can discredit incels for having genuine emotional responses to things, shouldn’t the same logic regarding entitlement be applied to the expectation of monogamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:19 PM
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The secret to getting lots of women is to be red pilled internally but blue pilled externally. Where a lot of guys fail is that they’re either blue pilled internally and externally or they’re red pilled internally and externally. Don’t think anyone would be blue pilled internally and red pilled externally, but maybe when they’re finding their way. Or actually I think guys are blue pilled deep down but the blue pill doesn’t work so they cover that in a layer of red pill which also doesn’t work an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:16 PM
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I figured it out by early 20s. It’s like I’ve got cheat codes when dealing with women. Sucks so many women think I’m a predator for using this knowledge to attract younger women though, but for those of us who did figure it out after years of not having a clue, why wouldn’t I have my fun? For the record, the key is to be red pilled internally but blue pilled externally
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:12 PM
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I can understand this. It will bring up doubts about how authentic they are. Maybe that is why so many stay with unfaithful partners, because they still believe the cheater is authentic, but chances are they are playing everyone and saying/doing whatever is needed to get their needs met. Within that though they can still be a good and loving partner so it’s complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:27 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:25 PM
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We all feel unworthy from time to time, why is someone else’s worth my responsibility if I’m not mistreating them physically? I can understand how a physically abusive relationship is bad, but having a little extra on the side that’s a secret isn’t really hurting anyone directly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:24 PM
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But it seems like it’s more social contract and having expectations that aren’t met. So the hurt is really on the person being cheated on for choosing how they react to the situation. If you have a wife and a family and you are having sex with a coworker on the side and it’s all balanced out by being a good partner and a good father, then why does having a mistress really matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:05 PM
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Why is cheating bad? I saw a comedian on tiktok say that they felt like unaliving their partner when they were cheated on. I have low empathy and don’t really experience guilt, so I truly don’t understand why being cheated on hurts so much. I get why it’s wrong in theory, but the way I see it is that if you’re in a relationship with someone chances are they’ve been with someone before you and will be with someone after you. Cheating can be entirely separate from the relationship so I don’t get w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:48 PM
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When I was a virgin I was dating this girl and I asked her how long she was with her ex before they had sex and she said 9 months and I remember getting aggravated and asking her if she was going to waste my time for 9 months before having sex with me. Anyways, I didn’t understand why all these girls would date me but they didn’t want to sleep with me. When I was in my early 20s I realized it’s because I was a selfish, perverted asshole. So, as long as there is indication that she does like me I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:00 PM
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If you only date the kind of women who put out on a first date and you brag about not knowing your wife’s name when you first slept with her, wouldn’t that mean the precedent of craziness is a result of who you associate with?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:54 PM
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You’ve figured it out bud, this is what I’ve been trying to tell people around here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:46 PM
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Why can’t we acknowledge it sucks without being told we’re trying to say we’re oppressed because of it? It’s not a competition
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:46 AM
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She is a 20 year old virgin, of course she is scared of sex. My answer? Keep pursuing. Love bomb the hell out of her and stop escalating physically until you get her head over heels in love with her then start pushing for sex, if she isn’t into then run dread game or whatever it’s called. All the while have some side pieces so if things really don’t work out it isn’t a complete waste. Your problem is that you think this virgin girl has been waiting specifically for you to come and pop her cherry…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:28 AM
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My experience has been women prefer guys with lower n counts or else they’ll think you’re a player. I started pretending I was less experienced and my success with women shot up compared to when I was pretending I was more experienced
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:44 AM
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Are all those tiktoks true that majority of women have double digit n counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:42 AM
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Being sexually assaulted isn’t her fault, I don’t get why this question would even matter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:39 AM
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Do they though? How do women get to 35+ body counts if they’re withholding sex from all these guys? Women make rules for betas but break them for alphas. And yes, you made me say that unironically. Plus, the amount of work I have to put in, when I finally get laid by a girl, why should I stay when it’s clear she must not like me as much as liked her? I’ve broken up with girls after sleeping with them like that "well, it’s clear I liked you more than you liked me so I don’t feel like I’m really b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:37 AM
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Why do you want a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:10 PM
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I’m all for bodily autonomy and I am pro choice, but there is a hypocrisy that abortion is fine if the woman isn’t ready for the kid, but if a man isn’t ready for the kid then they have to be held financially responsible
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:14 PM
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You’d look good in anything 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:50 PM
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Every red pill man I’ve met has been repulsive to women. The only time red pill beliefs work is if you hide them. Acting blue pilled and cucked is an easier way to attract women and is much more consistent. The trick is to conform externally but rebel internally. This idea that women deep down crave brutish, domineering, and agressive men has never played out in reality. Being sweet, gentle, and kind has always gotten me more success even if I’m faking it to make girls fall for me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:49 PM
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If the mother wants and abortion and the father doesn’t his desire to have the child isn’t taken into account at all. Your body, your choice, your responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:40 PM
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At 27 I dated a few 19 year olds. Age gap relationships exist. Being older doesn’t magically attract younger women, but if you know what to say and how to present yourself you can attract them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:53 AM
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At 34 I was dating a 22 year old. The issue is the guys approach and not carrying himself well. With younger girls you have to be more sneaky about it and not so direct. Let the tension build a little bit, play off the "confused emotions" factor. Also it helps that I look young and keep up with younger culture
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:50 AM
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Yeah, that’s the thing that happens. When you seek dating advice, especially in blue pill circles, it’s always about self improvement which is good. Problem is when you self improve you realize just how little women offer and how it takes us so much self improvement to attract someone who brings as much to the table as a child. I dropped out of high school and couldn’t get girls. Then I go to college and I’m able to attract girls who have a high school diploma. Intellectually I have more in comm…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/22 07:44 PM
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Why tho, I haven’t logged into this account in a month or two. Btw, it has done wonders for my mental health so I highly suggest it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 07:36 PM
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Yeah, I think it’s because people don’t want to believe or process the trauma themselves so they choose to get angry at the victim because it’s easier
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 07:35 PM
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Yo did livs4dietdrpepper delete her account? I unironically had a crush on her, but I’m sure we all did
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 07:33 PM
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That’s a good point, I mean I care enough to ask which is probably more than most people and she loves me so it isn’t like I’m failing her. It’s just I know I’ve treated her bad in the past and I guess I feel some level of guilt over that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:19 PM
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Weight isn’t even a metric on a dating app though so when/why would a women even have an opportunity to lie about that Height doesn’t equal weight, only boomers think that and it’s an embarrassing comparison because weight can display differently on different people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:38 PM
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Probably, but for me I learned the only way to get girls is to play them so I refuse to catch feelings until after we’ve had sex for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:16 PM
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Idk, but something dawned on me recently. What if when I had sex with my long term partner she never orgasmed? She tells me she has. She’s cried after sex which she says happens sometimes when she orgasms. I know she gets really into it, so I know she is enjoying it, but like there is this fear that what if she is lying and what if she goes her whole life never experiencing any orgasm? I’m sure we’ve had sex sometimes where she hasn’t orgasmed. I’m also sure there are some women out there who ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:14 PM
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Regarding height and dating I’ve seen women say they wouldn’t date a guy who said he was 6’ on a dating app but turned out to be 5’10 because "starting the relationship off with a lie is a huge red flag" I guarantee you if a guy was 6’1 but said he was 5’11 wouldn’t be told his lying was a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:10 PM
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Yes, doesn’t everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:25 PM
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I want to try Tinder catfishing as a 5’7 bald man, but if I download the app and my wife catches me it will be hard to explain
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:14 PM
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Depends if I’m trying to impress someone or not, but generally I don’t ride the bus because I’m not a poor
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:12 PM
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Exactly, guys here get so devastated by norms they construct based on things they read on the internet. My first time meeting girls has always involved us walking around somewhere public, literally don’t spend a dime and try to kiss them or get physical in some way. Guys don’t understand the importance of weeding girls out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:02 AM
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Ah, i think it’s a bit of an outdated term, but it was popular back in the mid to late 2000s and I don’t think guys realize how much style matters
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:46 PM
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I did not
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:41 PM
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Comments on any video about hair solutions for men Women: this is great! It’s nice that guys are finding things to help boost their confidence and it looks good too Men: just shave it bro, accept your fate, girls don’t like bald guys Men responding to this comment on PPD: women are notorious for virtue signaling Me being all metrosexual, even wearing a bit of make up: no problem getting girls It’s seriously men that hold themselves back
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:32 PM
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Women earn more than men until they start having children. And yet despite that women are still the victims. It’s so mind baffling I can’t even fake caring anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:43 AM
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Honestly after a lifetime of him probably being treated like shit by women, I’m happy guy number 3 found a dynamic that works for him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:56 PM
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Back in the early 2010s DMing girls on tumblr was like shooting fish in a barrel. Any guy who was somewhat cute with an alternative style and wasn’t overtly sexual in the first few messages could clean up with loads of young, horny girls. Plus they all had daddy kinks and liked rough sex. I wonder what the equivalent is today
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:16 AM
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That’s what I’ve gathered. Seen plenty of men complaining about dating struggles then turn around and say a perfectly attractive girl would be too fat/ugly to date
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:43 PM
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This is why I don’t see the point in asking. You’ll never know if she is telling the truth anyways. Plus those guys aren’t there in the room with us, and if the relationship ends I’ll be the baggage for the next guy she sleeps with. I only cared about body count when I was a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:22 AM
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The problem with these ideologies is that you can’t use generalities to solve individual problems. Just because you’re 6’3 doesn’t mean you’re guaranteed to be successful with women and just because you’re 5’7 doesn’t mean you’re guaranteed to be unsuccessful with them. But that doesn’t mean that 6’3 guys don’t have an easier time because they absolutely do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:18 AM
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I’m going to hard disagree, if a girl is nice and friendly and kind, that absolutely 100% will make me more attracted to her especially if she is clever and has a sense of humor
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:10 PM
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There are so many reasons you can’t quantify it. I simply wanted my cake and to eat it too. I was lucky because that’s how it worked out. She said "you’re just like [her ex boyfriend] you’re going to keep doing it because you know I won’t leave you" and she didn’t. Long story short I felt I missed out on my youth and that I was entitled to women’s bodies and affection. I’ve since moved away from that mentality, but I’ve still hurt a lot of women emotionally to prove to myself I’m desirable to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:39 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:49 PM
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Research narcissistic abuse cycle and make yourself as physically attractive as you can. Women are easy once you crack the code
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:45 PM
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I’m in a relationship, I wouldn’t consider myself red pilled because that wasn’t a term when I was younger, but I am manipulative and sociopathic. I’ve calmed down a lot, but when I was younger I’d do/say what I needed to so I could get women. I hold a lot of resentment towards women sexually because I only had sex once at 17, and then didn’t have sex again until I was 21. I had one blow job at 16, no hand jobs. In fact a girl never made me ejaculate until I was 21 because the blow job and sex w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:57 PM
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Thinking about that time I matched with a cute girl from one of my classes on Tinder and she unmatched me and then I’m thinking the only person who has ever liked me is my wife and I’m like shit, why I am so ugly. Then I think, wait a second, I’ve had lots of girls who were into me, lots of girls I dated and did stuff with. But damn, any kind of rejection just absolutely crushes me which is why I need to seek validation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:51 PM
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You can have standards, but if your success rate is zero then maybe your standards are unrealistic, in which case what’s the point of complaining about ones lack of success when that lack of success is self imposed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:38 PM
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Ah, so you admit men’s issue isn’t women’s standards, but instead their own!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:14 AM
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I have agreed with everything you’ve said up until now. Saturday is by far the best
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:25 PM
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Hmm, 6’3 and fit, why doesn’t he get any matches? https://www.reddit.com/r/truerateme/comments/sxe3gs/26m_barely_get_any_matches_and_when_i_do_i_get/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:24 PM
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Dating really isn’t that bad, the majority of people are in relationships, and no, women don’t want to share "Chad" Women do want to be loved, but now they don’t have to rely on a man or a relationship to survive so they can hold out, the problem is that men aren’t adjusting or offering anything more, many want to live a fuckboy lifestyle because they’ve watched too much porn. Dating can be analyzed by looking at the bigger picture, but men’s dating issues need to be solved at the individual lev…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:57 PM
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Yeah, it isn’t all bad, I obviously wouldn’t be with someone I despise. It just sucks that the way I thought dating worked when I was young wasn’t accurate, I guess I was an idealist and thought it would be like in the movies where everything just falls into place and there’s one true love and that’s all you need
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:14 PM
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Yup, when I was a teenager I literally heard "you put yourself out there too much" and "you should put yourself out there more" Anyways, I learned the trick is to not genuinely like any girl you approach, just base it off of if they’re cute enough to sleep with, have no emotions or feelings, and play the numbers game. Do this enough and you’ll find lots of girls who want to be with you. It sucks because I’d love to be head over heels for a girl, express my interest, have it reciprocated, and sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:24 PM
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I’m a sassy gal who can hang with the boys and drink them under the table too. I love fishing, hunting, mudding, and trucking. Country concerts are life. I’m 5’3 in heels, so if you’re under 6’1 swipe left No hookups! I’m a single mom and not ready to jump into anything serious too fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:17 PM
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Does a "nacho" mean one chip, or one plate? What if I could have totally ate some nachos but didn’t, can I still add that to my nacho count?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:14 PM
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"Wet vag & lilac"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:11 PM
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I’ve tried talking about how women swipe left on 95% of profiles, and still get higher match rate than men. Somehow this is construed to mean I think I’m entitled to women wanting to have sex with me. As a woman, do you see anything weird about the fact that 95% of men aren’t even considered a potential match? I don’t believe anyone is entitled to anything, but it’s just really messed up to think 95% of men in a space just aren’t even good enough to be considered a possibility
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:02 PM
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There was a poll during purge where women admitted they’d rather their son be a fuckboy than an incel. I’ve been at both extremes, the hate you get for being a player is validating, the hate you get for being an incel is demeaning. I’ve been a rich man and I’ve been a poor man, and I’ll choose drowning in 🐱 every finukcg time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:55 PM
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Unfortunately if you’re a man who voices any issue about dating women will make dozens of assumptions about you and claim you believe things you don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:52 PM
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I lost my boner with almost every girl I’ve been with because of performance anxiety. I explained it and we just cuddled/made out and I got hard again and finished. After a few times my performance anxiety is gone. Why do so many guys here attract such awful women? I could imagine a girl breaking up with me because I was too drunk to perform. Am I unironically the first 5’9, overweight, high school drop out Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:47 PM
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Damn, watch some Ryan Gosling movies and learn to be charming
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:31 AM
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That’s why I don’t get the screenshots of guys who freak out if a girl doesn’t respond right away. It’s best to keep the coals warm because you never know what might pop up down the road
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:30 AM
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Did you post several months ago about how LTRs are actually what men should be chasing as opposed to what they perceive as the Chad lifestyle? If so there were some examples I wanted to use to expand on that thought because I agree with it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:27 AM
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Regardless, there is no ethical way to take the life from an animal that doesn’t want to die. If you ignore that fact you’re complicit in animal abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:06 PM
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What is the moral difference between killing a cat and a cow? Is it the animals utility to the one holding the blade? Is it our perception? From the animals perspective, do they know the difference? does the cow know that we've decoded their purpose is to be food while the cats purpose is to be loved?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:05 PM
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Because non vegans are literally murdering animals when there is legitimately no reason to do so thanks to modern technology
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:35 PM
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Watching a video about the Tinder Swindler and one of the women who rejected him but ultimately continued to talk to him claimed that he, "dressed eloquently but was a little short" Oof
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:08 PM
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PM me too pls
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:01 PM
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Until it’s official you’re under no obligation, it’s best to sus it out though, a lot of the girls I’ve been with haven’t been official, but it felt like we were dating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:46 PM
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I think so, anytime I watch red pill stuff on YouTube they’re never talking about girls they considered 7’s and below, they’re always talking about the most conventionally attractive women. I don’t think things are as skewed as they claim them to be
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:37 PM
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Maybe the key to dating success is to embrace double standards and accept the genders are the way they are. Maybe that is the fundamental truth of the blue pill and red pill. For example: Girl taking thirst trap photos on her knees in lingerie in front of a mirror will probably garner a positive response from a lot of men A man taking a shirtless picture in front of a mirror will be seen as douchey and unappealing My frustration lies in the fact that why can’t a man show off his body and still b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:34 PM
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That sounds lovely, I had a huge amount of empathy for a while, I figured people are the result of society and environment, I went from being selfish to selfless, but I’ve regressed since the pandemic started. Maybe it’s being online and not interacting with people that is having a negative impact on me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:52 PM
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I’m having second thoughts, my mind is always changing about what I want
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:51 PM
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Idk, I’d like to have a happy disposition and not think things are as grim as they are. The problem is that I’m in a long term relationship and when I’d start feeling insecure about nobody liking me I’d cheat to get validation. But I don’t want to hurt her anymore so I’m left to fester with these thoughts of maybe every statistic I see online is true and things are really bad for men when it comes to dating and that if I was ever alone nobody would ever love me or want me again, and it’s like, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:49 PM
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How do I become more blue pilled? I keep getting called a misogynist and incel online. I can’t help but express my opinions on the dating market even though I know it will repulse people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:36 PM
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I don’t get what is wrong about this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:40 PM
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For real. Withholding sex is legit recognized as a form of narcissistic abuse. But when it’s women with holding sex it’s consent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:38 PM
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Want to really dominate your relationship? Fuck your girl really good for a while, then when she does something you don’t like with hold sex. I ruined one my girlfriends doing that, she broke down crying. welcome to what it feels like to be a man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:20 PM
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The male gaze goes further back to the Renaissance and possibly before. Check out Titian’s depiction if Venus or even Greek erotic designs on vases
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:16 PM
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Disagree, all women have to do is say yes or no. Men risk rejection after rejection, and that can really impact self confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:13 PM
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I didn’t choose the shitpost life, the shitpost life chose me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:14 PM
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Pretty sure it’s just halo effect
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:21 PM
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Ehhhh, pretty sure it’s the height
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:08 PM
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Notice how west elm Caleb got off the hook but the tinder swindler is being held accountable? Why do you think that is? I’ll give you a hint, west elm Caleb was 6’5 and Simon Leviev is 5’9. Really makes you think, doesn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:05 PM
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That’s about what Google is saying as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:03 PM
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Because narcissists are good at superficial charm and make people feel valued and appreciated. It’s only over time as others realize these qualities are fabricated that they end up disliking and resenting the narcissist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:01 PM
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Can I get a height check on aisle Tinder Swindler?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:59 PM
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You know what aggravates me about this? I doubt they took gender into account, and if they did they refused to reveal the statistics. I also wonder how much Covid has played a role in people not getting together
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:49 PM
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And lots of people fight tooth and nail against that, so what they said still stands
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:08 AM
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They’re probably all cuddled up inside with their wives
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:38 PM
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I think I’m having trouble understanding what you’re asking, but if it’s what I think it is, then the reason that women aren’t so desperate to chase men is because they know that men are abundant, so they can life their life without worrying about never being able to attract someone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:38 PM
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Agree, this is my opinion as well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:31 PM
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Can you tell me your opinions about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:07 PM
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Which do you prefer Rating on a 1 - 10 scale Using the concept of leagues
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:44 PM
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I agree with the general idea of what you’re saying, but I definitely think looksmatch/leagues can be comparable. It’s much more reliable than calling someone a specific number
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:44 PM
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Send me a picture of you and the last couple guys you dated, I’ve given honest rates in the past. I don’t do numbers though, but I can tell if y’all are in the same league
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:43 PM
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You ever notice the pro life crowd like the Duggar’s never adopt or foster children? Yeah, if abortion was made illegal things would be worse for a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:41 PM
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Ouch, my arms got weak and I was ready to fight, but that is funny
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:40 PM
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This is really fucked up, but one of my girlfriends was always jealous, I figure it was just insecurity, I legitimately thought I was an incel and girls never liked me. I was like "here, I’ll prove you wrong" Turns out she was right and girls were coming onto me. Anddddd i made up for all the years of sucking with women so moral of the story, don’t give them that ego boost
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:38 PM
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Is it? It’s my nightmare and shows like that are what caused me to be the awful person I am today when it comes to women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:33 PM
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My girlfriend has a fucking rock collection. Could you imagine if a guys hobby was collection rocks and talking about them having "magical properties"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:47 PM
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I think there are a couple things at play. First of all, feminism is a philosophy that encompasses many differing schools of though, it isn’t a binary. One branch of feminism believe that there are inherent differences between the sexes. I don’t remember what this is called, but I remember learning about it in a class in college. The other issue at play is that a lot of neoliberal women have pushed this idea of the "girl boss." They think women should be equally represented in positions of power…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:46 PM
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That is really disgusting, I hate how hyper sexualized everything is. I see your dad must have been 42 when you were born, May I ask how old your mom was when she had you? Do you feel any way about your parents being older? I am starting to want children, but my partner and I are in our late 20s/early 30s and she has this fear that we’re going to be old parents or have complications, I’m less worried about it but I also understand that her biological clock is much different than my own
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:41 PM
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Yeah the lack of understanding nuance on both sides is making me disillusioned with peoples role in politics
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:36 PM
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Women and their obsession with crystals, astrology, claiming to be empaths, not shaving their legs or armpits, having a messy car
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:35 PM
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How do you figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:10 AM
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Because cult leaders are good at making people feel appreciated especially when those people aren’t being validated in their personal lives. So, yeah, despite these people using psychology for nefarious purposes, to the recipient of their attention it seems their actions are meritorious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:09 AM
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Why would you want to change that mindset?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:05 AM
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That women have created a dynamic where men have to lie actually
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:25 AM
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My routine on dating apps was to say I just got out of a relationship then after a few weeks say I got back with my ex, we can still talk, just not sexually. Then I’d initiate sexually and tell them anything that happens is on me. Women are not sending their best people, so there is no reason to feel guilty about doing whatever it takes to increase your chances
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:25 AM
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It’s a little thin on the cheeks, but I’d hardly call it a neck beard. Why are you so upset you feel the need to make an account just for posting here?
/r/AntiFeminists14/02/22 10:12 PM
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My partner and I are making dinner, watching a couple movies, having sex, then falling asleep holding each other. What makes you think that I think women are bad or that I can’t get sex?
/r/AntiFeminists14/02/22 10:06 PM
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I don’t know man, maybe not being well adjusted is the key. I have a lot of dark triad traits, so I have no problem love bombing girls and playing them. It’s sick but I get off on making girls fall hard for me. Then dick them really good, like the kind of girls that like very rough sex, have unhealthy relationships with their parents, etc. They crave desperately to be loved and if you make them orgasm and feel cared for and then they get scared that you’ll leave they’ll become psychotically obse…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:19 PM
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Because sex feels good and I like validation. I didn’t start having sex regularly until I was 21. I’m also sociopathic and narcissistic. I like making girls fall for me. Edit: I also wouldn’t say I hate women, I feel bad for them in a lot of ways, it’s just that they make me act the way I do and I value my happiness over there’s, so if they get hurt emotionally that is on them for not having better boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:10 PM
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But when girls say "you’re too short to date" that’s completely fine
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:57 PM
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It says "when your girlfriend cheats on you but at least your wife is faithful" And it’s a video of a basketball player making that face you make when you realize something
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:53 PM
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Yup, exactly. That’s why I can’t stand this notion that a man needs to be their best self to start attracting women. It’s like, what do women even really bring to the table? They can have children, sure, but what’s to stop a guy from getting her pregnant then putting her in the baby mama zone? I have been with my partner for over 10 years. I often reflect how much I put her through over the years with my emotional instability, infidelity, being unemployed, etc. But the thing is, as narcissistic …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:49 PM
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I’ve learned, I do ok using OLD, it takes some work, but I’m happy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:58 PM
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Because women are the sexual selectors, so some men don’t have to be this way, or they spent some time this way and decided to stop
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:58 PM
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The thing is a lot of us fell for the Disney prince/princess fantasy just as hard as women did. We learned along the way that "the right one will come along" isn’t how relationships work. You have to be proactive. That ends up leading to this mentality that you have to constantly be chasing women. Women make love so hard that we become jaded and just want to chase girls because that’s all we end up knowing. My first four crushes between 7th and 9th grade never liked me. I learned quickly genuine…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:49 PM
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As someone who is drug and alcohol free I couldn’t live with someone who smokes marijuana regularly. Blow it out the window or something. My partner smokes occasionally but she has a medical marijuana license and has a vape so it doesn’t smell and she does it near the window. I wish there were more drug free people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:45 PM
2

I didn’t because I thought the half time show was cringe af
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:43 PM
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Because it shows the discrepancy between male and female experiences in the dating market. A little voice in the back of my head says that it only seems easy because on the surface guys just want to smash because they think they’re easy, but even then that is more attention than most men are getting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:42 PM
1

You’re about a decade younger than me but "back in my day" we had a website called MySpace, it was basically the precursor to Facebook, but the cool thing is that it was predominately young people in our teens and early 20s. This allowed us to express ourselves and explore cultures that appealed to us in a very freeing way because there was no concern about parents not understanding. After MySpace I found a similar community on Tumblr. I think something comparable could be Instagram or tiktok. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:47 PM
1

Have you ever had long distance online relationships? I did that a lot in my teens to get better at talking to girls. Even if you don’t meet them, having a girl that likes you can do wonders for your confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:41 PM
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As someone who knows exactly what you’re going through, it’s definitely a difficult mentality to achieve and you’re not wrong. The thing is that when I was in your shoes my anxiety and misery ended up becoming the thing that pushed women away. Like I said the other day, I had sex once at 17. Reflecting on that it makes sense because it was with a girl I talked to very infrequently and didn’t have the opportunity to say and do things that pushed her away. We were never close enough where I felt i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:35 PM
2

As a straight man I find him the most attractive of the three actors that have played spider man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:54 PM
2

I don’t do number ratings either, it’s arbitrary to quantify it in that way. Why don’t you like them? It seems lots of people here love that. I personally prefer the idea of leagues because it’s more holistic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:53 PM
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Because society loves blaming men for women’s short comings. I get my nut every time, that’s on her if she depends on someone else to orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:51 PM
1

Have you ever DMed girls on Reddit, Instagram, or TikTok?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:50 PM
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Just think, how many guys do you think ran through your current gf before she settled on you? Pretty scary to consider. Cheat on her, bro, test her love for you and see if she’s worth keeping, otherwise your entire relationship is built on an unstable foundation that could crumble at any time and then you’d be right back to where you started
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:49 PM
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How many guys do you think are getting no 😸today but are still padding out some e-thots bank account so they can look at pixels on a screen?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:46 PM
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Maybe, I’ve gotten girls without having to lead an interesting life. I remember how it felt though from ages 13 - 15 when I liked girls and they didn’t like me back. It was like trying to make a square peg fit into a round hole. It just didn’t make sense. That would suck if that had been my experience up until now. But they’ve got to figure it out how I figured it out. I guess I’m just sympathetic to them and don’t get why their problems are invalidated
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:45 AM
1

Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:37 AM
4

I swear women are just autistic men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:35 AM
2

I don’t believe unhappiness or struggle is a competition. I mean your struggle today involved a lot of hard work and having a significant other and a neighbor to help you through hard times. Many will recognize that as noble. An incel on the other hand is subjected to loneliness, they’re deemed too inadequate to develop a relationship. There is nothing noble or admirable about being inferior. I don’t want to say one is better or worse, but unless you’ve been there, can you really pass judgement?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:31 AM
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Why does it have to be a competition? Also, what do you do with your cows?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:24 AM
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Yeah but they’re all 6’+ and millionaires so they have the SMV or something stupid like that. I love how TRP always has an excuse ready that sounds just as ridiculous as the initial statement
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:13 AM
1

Just people trying to be rebellious. I get all holidays are just excuses for people to spend money, but at the same time it’s nice to celebrate something with the people you care about
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:53 AM
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Imagine dealing with that AND being an incel though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:51 AM
1

I always get consent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:18 AM
1

Yeah, but only in a kinky way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:07 AM
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Someone I’m friends with on the internet just got broken up with and the urge to be predatory and swoop in there is so strong right now. Why does my cock yearn for emotionally damaged women, the desire of faking who i am, the love and admiration I’d receive, only to abandon them when they’re no longer useful to me, to cause them the same emotional pain that I’d let them believe I’m going to save them from
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:50 PM
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I didn’t either election, I was holding out for Bernie Sanders, but being the cucked leftist I am I voted for the "lesser of two evils." I might consider voting for him in 2024, at least he was entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:32 PM
1

And if a man says he doesn’t understand women’s preferences he gets attacked
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:31 PM
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If I’ve never been single since I started dating around age 15, and If I’ve got a lot of girls to meet with me off OLD, does that mean I’m attractive? Edit: for the record I had sex once at 17, had my first kiss at 15, got a bj at 16, fingered a few girls, sucked on a couple girls boobs, but mostly I made out a lot in high school, like maybe with over 10 girls. I didn’t have sex again until I was 21, and at that point I was able to have sex consistently. I dealt with a lot of emotional issues th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:30 PM
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Codependent women with low self esteem? Maybe, but at least they’re loyal, I’d rather have that than what is considered "healthy" which is basically a glorified friendship that could end at any minute
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:33 PM
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Lose another 60 lbs then see if your theory still holds true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:32 PM
1

If her love is conditional, then it never existed in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:30 PM
1

A not very good chance is still a chance. Whether he wants to pursue it is up to him, but I truly believe that anyone can find someone who wants to be with them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:28 PM
1

What would you consider the self improvement aspect of TRP then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:27 PM
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I think the black pill has a lot of truth, but they take it way too far. I honestly believe that 80% of men, if they really groomed themselves well and dressed nicely, would be attractive enough to have multiple relationships during their life time. They might not have the abundance women or extremely attractive men do, but I believe even the 5’4 balding Indian janitor can find a wife, have children, and lead a fulfilling and happy life that is full of love Edit: they also use outliers to prove …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:48 PM
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I was told I was ugly in middle school but somehow still believed girls could like me. Took some trial and error but it’s actually pretty easy to get women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:30 PM
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PUA: do these things and you will get laid TRP: work on yourself, and getting laid will follow Black pill: the aforementioned are irrelevant because unless you’re attractive enough, you won’t get laid MGTOW: may or may not have gotten laid in the past, but ultimately decided that 'the juice wasn’t worth the squeeze'
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:29 PM
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How is that red pill and not her developing standards? Red pill wild be that he is making 50k a year but she cheats with a guy making 100k, leaves her boyfriend to chase him, but she isn’t good enough for him and then complains on the internet about how men ain’t shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:21 PM
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I think the internet just attracts contrarian and miserable people who need to be different and criticize everything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:19 PM
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I think I threw my back out doing deadlifts yesterday. The price we pay for chasing that testosterone boost
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:18 PM
1

I had sex once at 17 and didn’t have sex again until I was 21
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:12 PM
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Yeah, late teens. Then I switched up and started playing boyfriend game in my 20s and the amount of 😸I got had me thinking I should open up an animal shelter
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:05 PM
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I would love to, but every time I post it gets removed for being low effort, but I’ll try my best
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:03 PM
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Same, I always lost my erection, turns out I needed the large size condoms AND one of those ultra thin brands like Skyn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:00 PM
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Do really kinky stuff, have her ramp up her submissive act
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:59 PM
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Slut, I don’t know why. I guess because at least she wanted to have sex with those people and it wasn’t just a business transaction
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:57 PM
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This is untrue, I was a virgin late in life and I still knew how to have sex. Kiss her, suck on her neck a bit, pull her hair playfully, vagina gets wet, penis goes in, you brag to all your friends (that last step is optional)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:56 PM
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How old are you? Aside from my fiancé, every girl I was with who was about 18 had already been with 5+ guys. My fiancé was only with one guy before me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:54 PM
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Not true, I lied about not being a virgin and that scared girls off because they thought I was a player. When I was up front about it girls were more interested in me. Think about it. At that age they’re probably recovering from their first pump and dump and don’t want to be with another fuckboy. A guy who is a virgin is less likely, in their heads at least, to hit it and quit it. The alternative, and what has actually had the best results for me, is to not even bring up past relationships. Don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:53 PM
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The key to dating for men: be blue pill externally, but red pill internally
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:49 PM
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Red pill was only damaging to me because it made me believe I had to act like a douche bag and brag about how much attention from women I got. This led girls to think I was a player so they’d stay far away from me. The trick is to be blue pill externally but red pill internally
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:49 PM
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True, women like agression sexually (masculine) but they also want to feel safe (feminine). I’m just talking about the red pill notion that you have to be hyper masculine to get girls because those kinds of brutish men tend to turn women off
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:22 AM
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The red in the sky is from dirt and debris floating in our atmosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:19 AM
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"Just so happens"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:17 AM
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This is what I don’t get about the red pill. They will complain about women being picky, then turn around and it turns out they’re Stacy chasing as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:15 AM
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That’s what men fail to realize when they say you can’t open up to women. I’ve opened up to plenty of women about not knowing my dad, growing up poor, etc. The only time it pushed them away was when I was younger and didn’t know how to process my emotions so I would whine and complain and blame them for my problems
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:14 AM
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I think feminine traits are essential to attracting women though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:12 AM
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I think things have been bad for women in the past, but at least there was a certain order in life. Women’s sexual liberation is leading to the downfall of society
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:01 AM
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Jeez, I’m sorry your brother went through that, but it isn’t a competition. I know sex/relationships probably don’t mean much to you because as a woman you haven’t experienced scarcity in that domain, but imagine all the pains of life plus being disregarded by women. That isn’t a life I’d want to live. Your argument or line of thinking is essentially the "money doesn’t buy happiness" of sexual economics
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:00 AM
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My issue is this belief that men should be happy in the face of their struggles while women are easily able to find partners. It’s like brave new world kind of shit where you’re ok with being at the bottom. At least the red pill gives guys a chance to rise up the ranks a bit become more appealing to women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:10 PM
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Yeah, I just want to make it clear that there are plenty of women who won’t judge you and will feel safe knowing you’re a virgin. There are some ditsy women out there who have shallow and outdated views, but there are a lot of nice and really amazing and kind hearted women out there who just want to be genuinely loved and give that love back
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:58 PM
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I disagree on the grounds that earning a degree, having a job, having shelter and food are all things that are easily obtainable. However sex requires consent, and if you face constant rejection then you’re left feeling inferior and like there must be something wrong with you that 70% of people have done something you’re not able to find someone willing to do it with you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:56 PM
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How was I bullying him? I was empathizing with him. Being a virgin at 20 might scare some women off, but there are plenty of women who would prefer it. But statistically being a virgin at 20 is less common than having lost it as a teenager
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:52 PM
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I see where you’re coming from. I’m not trying to make him feel like shit, I’ve just dealt with the same issues and "sex isn’t that important/great" never made me feel better. I missed out on having sex when I was young and my hormones were at their peak and when everything was new and exciting for both partners. So I learned how to flirt with and attract women so I could fix the problem because I didn’t want to settle for accepting I might just be a loser and not good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:48 PM
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This is good to know, hispanic women are way more attractive than any other race. Guess I better download duolingo and start practicing my Spanish
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:44 PM
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Possibly, but society is failing men, you don’t need to get that information from movies, just look around
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:40 PM
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So what’s the question? Whether having sex as a teenager is normal or not? 70% of 15-19 year olds have had sex so I would say that it is uncommon to be a virgin at 20
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:39 PM
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Is it, or are the standards for women just non existent?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:38 PM
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You don’t think society is failing men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:37 PM
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Idk, I feel like that’s just the case for public high school unless you’re an incel, religious, or ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:36 PM
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Is this because of the hocus pocus comment? That’s a stretch
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:34 PM
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No, but date young and lose it ASAP
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:33 PM
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Virtually everyone I know had sex for the first time before 18. My gf lost hers at 16. The guy she lost it to lost it at 14. The first girl I had sex with was 14 and I don’t think I was her first. The second girl I had sex with lost hers at 15. My friend when I was 17 lost his at 14 or 15. My best friend lost his around 15, my dad was 19 when he had me and had been in relationships prior so I know he didn’t lose his virginity to my mom. I had sex for the first time at 17, and I feel that is pret…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:32 PM
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Yes, absolutely. I have no shame. One time I begged a girl if I could cum for her on Snapchat. We had sexted before so I knew she was into me, but was trying to stop being sexual because she knew I wasn’t into her aside from sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:29 PM
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How much did you lose and how long ago? It can still tighten up over time. I’m going to have loose skin when I lose all my weight, and it depresses the fuck out of me and makes me feel suicidal, but I figure I might as well see how bad it is and then decide if I want the surgery or not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:27 PM
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CMV: Feminism and the patriarchy are just conspiracy theories
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:25 PM
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When I was 16 there was a show on VH1, I think it was called the pick up artist. I was walking around a bookstore and found a book called "the game" I think and was reading a few pages. Interestingly, I started trying to analyze and reverse engineer the psychology of women before I found that stuff. I read women’s magazines and watched a lot of movies targeted to women to try to understand what they found appealing. I will say, once I got too deep into the red pill stuff it actually had negative…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:13 PM
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I wouldn’t say wild, crazy sex. But yeah, most people, or at least most women if you believe the 80/20 thing lost their virginity in high school. I think it was just a few guys having most of the sex though. I had a couple friends that had sex with 10+ girls before they graduated high school
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:42 PM
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Yeah, looking back it was because I was emotionally abusive. I remember one conversation in particular. I was 17, the girl I was dating was 15. I had sex one time, she had been with one guy but multiple times. I asked how long they dated before they had sex and she said 9 months and I said, "you’re really going to make me wait 9 months? I’m basically wasting my time" I didn’t realize how awful that was at the time, so yeah, my lack of sex until I realized at 21 that I need to be nicer and more p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:16 PM
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Interesting. My method was always to say this line "we have to talk. I am back with my ex. We can still talk but we can’t do anything sexual" Then pursue a sexual dynamic and when she says "I thought you didn’t want to do this" I would say "I wouldn’t be doing it if I didn’t want to. These are my choices, I’ll take the blame" Then throw in a line about how things are complicated. It’s mind boggling how many women are ok with this dynamic knowing they’ve been demoted to side chick
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:11 PM
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Interesting. My method was always to say this line "we have to talk. I am back with my ex. We can still talk but we can’t do anything sexual" Then pursue a sexual dynamic and when she says "I thought you didn’t want to do this" I would say "I wouldn’t be doing it if I didn’t want to. These are my choices, I’ll take the blame" Then throw in a line about how things are complicated. It’s mind boggling how many women are ok with this dynamic knowing they’ve been demoted to side chick
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:10 PM
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but isn’t she supposed to want to compete for you because of preselection bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:43 PM
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Can you be an incel if you get laid regularly? I’m just disgruntled at women because none would jump into bed with me when I was a teenager. Tbh I feel bad for women and the way they get treated, I just don’t feel bad enough to feel guilty about leading them on to get validation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:42 PM
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Women expect you to date someone who has the anatomy of a gender you’re not attracted to, but will flip out if you ask them to reconsider their height fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:04 AM
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Even out? Absolutely not. Would men have better outcomes? Absolutely. The dating market can’t even out because women aren’t approaching relationships with the same goals as men. Most guys want hook ups. Most women want a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:58 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:28 PM
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My personal experience I have opened up to several women and it didn’t end negatively. Why does my experience differ? Am I just lucky?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 06:45 PM
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I agree in that allowing women to approach you will almost guarantee results, the issue is that if you’re able to handle rejection then approaching women will give you more opportunities you didn’t have before. I lost my virginity to a girl I approached at a concert when I was 16. We talked off and on and a year later when I was 17 we hung out and had sex. I have multiple kik accounts full of girls who I slid into their DMs. Some I talked to once and could tell they weren’t into me, some never m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:44 PM
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I really hope this doesn’t get deleted
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:34 PM
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I would like to file a report that all the woman here are absolute knock outs and I would gladly simp for them any day of the week 😍☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:24 PM
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Check out this post and watch the video they linked to. It’s from 90 Day Fiancé. He shares some thots nudes (as if she hasn’t already sent them to 30+ guys) and the girl gets so angry she rips the guys hat off exposing his baldness. The absolute alpha male just laughs and pulls another hat out of his backpack and places it on his head. That is some red pill shit right there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:22 PM
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I wonder why that is, I was encouraged to not wear a condom for the most part. I don’t think any of us got tested for STDs either really. My current partner did when she was with her bf at 16 because he was a fuckboy, but even he didn’t spread any. I really just attribute it to growing up in the suburbs and not messing with people who would be associating with older people from poorer areas. I went to public school so there were those kind of girls there, we called them ghetto, not sure if that …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:21 PM
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Where would the STDs even come from? If we’re all STD free because we’re young and only being physical with other STD free people then we’d be fine. If I was hoeing in my mid 20s with randos then yeah, might be smart to wear a condom, but clapping cheeks with girls that are 16 - 21 is pretty safe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:44 PM
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Yup, nothing makes a girl attached to you like cumming deep inside her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:25 PM
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I was never scared of herpes because supposedly most of the population has it and it isn’t deadly. I don’t even know how many girls I made out with when I was in my late teens, dozens, I figured I’m probably going to get herpes anyways, surprisingly I’ve never had a flare up, but I do get cold sores and mouth ulcers sometimes, haven’t had any in years though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:22 PM
1

Yes, it feels better for both
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:19 PM
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How do so many Reddit users have such awful people in their lives? I’ve opened up emotionally to all of the women I’ve been with and it’s never once backfired
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:15 PM
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Hot 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:10 PM
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Never, I grew up in the suburbs and only was physical with white girls also from the suburbs. STDs are practically non existent in that demographic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:48 PM
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I just want a pet that I can keep in a kennel and she calls me daddy. Also she doesn’t get too jealous when she sees me with other women. I’m a simple man, it doesn’t take much to make me happy, just obedience and submission
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:38 PM
1

Thought you were someone I knew, I’m relieved you’re not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:11 PM
2

Same. Watched a few now all my recommended videos are "how to get laid" all I wanted was diet and exercise advice and motivational content. My forever girlfriend is going to kill me if she see that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:53 PM
2

Have you ever been with a woman who can’t even ask for more napkins at a restaurant? Women are docile and agreeable, but the ones I’ve been with rely on me to speak up for them. The only women who might be considered as having good social skills are masculine and loud, and that personality is repulsive for women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:52 PM
1

Do you teach math?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:51 PM
1

I don’t send dick pics unless asked, but I don’t want any messages that can be traced back to me. Plus if I ask for nudes I think they were more comfortable knowing I wasn’t able to store them anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:55 PM
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I’m changing your view in that this doesn’t happen. The amount of girls that still fucked with me after I told them "I don’t have Facebook because there was some drama that went down" when really I just didn’t want to give it out because I didn’t want them knowing about each other. Also, not giving my phone number out because "my phone doesn’t receive text messages so we can only talk on Snapchat or kik" proves that it doesn’t matter
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:44 AM
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I don’t feel bad either, if guys can’t establish boundaries that is on them. I’ve been with girls who used men as free meals. They didn’t take anything the guy wasn’t offering, so how were they in the wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:31 AM
1

Didn’t realize cameras weren’t invented until the mid 2000s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:30 AM
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Sure, but it still shows a hypocrisy in blue pill logic. The antidote is to recognize dealing with women as a numbers game and to not invest emotionally too much in any one woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:26 AM
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I disagree, I think blue pill will say you shouldn’t approach for fear of making women uncomfortable. Look at the posts on twoxchromosomes, they hate receiving male attention
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:24 AM
2

Yeah but red pill also says approaching in person is acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:18 AM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:16 AM
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Blue pill dating advice is like: "Tinder isn’t for you, you should meet women in person" "Women don’t like being approached in public, you should meet women through your social circle" "You’re creeping out all our female friends, bro, maybe you should download tinder or something" Also "Hookups aren’t for everyone, you should get to know someone first" "Omg, you just pretended to be my friend so you could ask me out? You’re ruining this friendship, you should have made your intentions known from…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:09 AM
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"I’d love to meet you, but I’m self conscious about still living with my parents, does this bother you?"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:02 PM
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I’ve had the opposite experience so I can’t answer that, women will lose interest if you’re not interested. Maybe it’s that since you’re not smothering them with affection the smallest semblance of interest seems amplified?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:01 PM
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Today I lifted weights and rather than envisioning all the thots I want to chase, I envisioned a happy life where my wife and children are healthy, protected, and provided for and we are conquering the world together. This is growth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:58 PM
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I want to watch it too, but I need to find a day when my partner won’t accidentally catch me. I can’t be in the position of needing to explain red pill/blue pill and SMV and all that to her, I think she’d be devastated and grossed out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:54 PM
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Just lurk FDS and learn what their approach is, also try to get access to her computer and phone and check her browser history
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:34 PM
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I bought into the belief that women want to compete for men. I thought that there was something in the way their brain functioned that thrived off jealousy. Unsurprisingly I got little sexual attention from women when I had this mindset. A girl I was with told me about her ex boyfriend and I realized that it wasn’t guys being assholes that made them attractive. It was that they were nice until the girl was attached to them and then they stopped trying and would openly be unfaithful or break up a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:56 PM
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Ever seen the show love after lockup? They’re just looking for simps so they have someone to drive them home after they get released
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:13 PM
2

Finally bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:22 PM
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Why? Women are hypergamous, they are the way they are so I am the way I am
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:26 PM
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I was in an open relationship, set my girl up with an OKCupid account, she was getting messages before she even had her profile filled out. It was too much she deleted the account lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:28 PM
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Nothing is good or bad but thinking makes it so. I don’t feel bad about having girls on the side, so it’s up to my girlfriend to handle her emotions as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:27 PM
3

I worked as a cashier and a guys ID said 5’10 and his head came up to my chin. I’m 5’9 and I don’t know why but I’ve never felt compelled to lie about my height. I didn’t even know height was an issue until I came to Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:23 PM
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Cheating is a social construct. Discuss
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:21 PM
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Cheating is a social construct
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:19 PM
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You do you, women will lie and gaslight, but you know for an absolute fact any woman you’re with has at least 1 guy waiting to be on the rebound
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:19 PM
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They’re such outliers and trans women are just as shallow and vapid and cis women and trans men face all the dating struggles of cis men. Lots of posts on Reddit about how trans men don’t want to transition because they don’t want to be short
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:12 PM
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Yes and no. Women are more choosy because biologically they have more at risk when it comes to reproducing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:59 PM
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How does everyone on this subreddit live in a universe that doesn’t reflect the one I grew up in? All the kids I knew whose parents worked 9-5 resented their parents and their parents would be couch potatoes when they came home and were always stressed about having to do the dishes or about paying their electric bill
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:46 PM
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Are you defending the women? They have agency and chose to be in that relationship
/r/TheRedPill04/02/22 12:57 PM
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Option 1, but you both work remotely or own your own business so you can still be in your children’s lives
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:52 PM
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That’s bs, I have been with lots of girls but I definitely wouldn’t consider myself top 20% If anything I’d consider myself subfive or a low tier normie
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:13 PM
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I feel disgusted and ashamed of my gender
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:30 PM
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He’s only 5’6, look at him compared to other celebrities
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:13 PM
2

You’ll definitely feel better about yourself after
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:07 PM
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That gooncave subreddit that was posted yesterday has really been messing with my mental state. I feel so bad for the state of men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:58 PM
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He is having his moment, but if he wasn’t famous he wouldn’t stand a chance. He’d be posting on amiugly and asking why he doesn’t get any matches on bumble
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:56 PM
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Can you be top 20% if you’re 5’10? (I’m 5’9 barefoot, but probably 5’10 in shoes, I could probably cheat up to 5’11.5 and just claim 6’ if necessary)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:45 PM
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Post height brother
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:27 PM
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What do women offer in a relationship? There is so much effort that men have to put in, but women put in the bare minimum and the discussions about dating always puts the responsibility of being better on the man. I remember doing OLD when I was a high school drop out. Then I graduated college and my options increased. The thing is those girls were beneath me. I know that remark will trigger the women, but if you can say men aren’t good enough why can’t I say women aren’t good enough for me? So …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:26 PM
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The issue with this scenario is that the vast majority of men wouldn’t be voluntary celibate because when you take effort out of the equation they wouldn’t have as many opportunities. This wouldn’t change the dating dynamic because women are sexual selectors so when those guys stop putting in so much effort women will go with the top men, I.e men who are 6’+, model looks, etc. The only way men can compete is to play women. I know to most people it seems unethical and heartless, but since a mans …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:57 AM
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Judgement, maybe, however women are the ones putting no short guys in their tinder bios
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:51 AM
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How do you figure? Male sexlessness is increasing, women have easier access to sex, men are the ones struggling to find companionship because women view them as inferior to other men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:25 AM
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Women have ruined the sexual economy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:54 PM
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Damn this is so fucking depressing. This is what women are causing men to resort to. The guy masturbating with his friend broke me. Imagine how lonely and desperate for human intimacy you have to be to masturbate with a friend like that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:53 PM
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Hell yeah brother, the reason tits are appealing is because your mind thinks it’s an ass
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:51 PM
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"Ass can make up for a lack of tits but tits cannot make up for a lack of ass" Abraham Lincoln
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:49 PM
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It sucks because the only time guys talk about their issues is in response to women’s issues like they talk about their issues to discredit women’s issues or make it a competition. Like, women have it bad? Well what about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:07 PM
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People shouldn’t feel ashamed of themselves, so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:18 PM
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Men don’t have body positivity movements because they don’t care about their bodies outside of being able to attract women. When women try to express body positivity it’s to make themselves feel comfortable and not judged
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:18 PM
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This must be what Chad feels like
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:17 PM
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First
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:04 PM
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I do not feel empathetic because they are experiencing the consequences of their own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:52 PM
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Yeah, men are shit too. Both are guilty of the same thing. But I’m talking about this specific tiktok and wondering how we’re supposed to feel bad for someone who chooses their own outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:47 PM
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It has nothing to do with her being Asian, but instead the idea that even Asian women are not interested in their own men. That these women are chasing men way out of their league, but getting played because of their own bad decisions. What I referenced as a good partnership is about comparability, women largely chase vanity and it bites them in the ass
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:43 PM
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In a perfect world that would be mutual companionship, support, a best friend to share in activities with, intimacy in a way friends aren’t able to provide. But some women tend to think that just be existing and putting in the bare minimum they’re entitled to a man crafted from a hallmark Christmas movie
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:36 PM
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I wish I was in the position to ask women what they really think they offer in a relationship besides just existing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:58 PM
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Just saw a tiktok about a woman being cat fished on bumble by some 6’3 polish guy with a ridiculous jawline. She was a busted looking Asian woman with a round face. Do these women really think that the top echelon of men would really give up all their opportunities to be with just them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:54 PM
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Because women are the sexual selectors so things don’t happen to them, they happen because of them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:05 PM
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Yes, she doesn’t see you as relationship material therefore you are in the zone of being a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:52 PM
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Exactly. It’s just a word to describe a situation. Women will act like using the term friend zone is some huge slight against women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:47 PM
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Sure, the problem is that guys think they’re pursuing a women the right way by "getting to know her first" But that isn’t how women work. You have to establish your intentions right away. The problem then is that women get annoyed by men pursuing them relentlessly so there is really no winning
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:42 PM
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The friend zone exists as a concept. Women NPC replying saying it doesn’t are just being difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:30 PM
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I’m sure Chad pays for novelty sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:22 PM
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But if it’s the woman’s body, then shouldn’t it be her responsibility? She knew the risk and she didn’t make him wear a condom
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:44 AM
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My current gf was a fwb situation that told me to commit or she’d stop sleeping with me. She was into all the kinky stuff I was, even down to do age play. I wised up and 10 + years later here we are so sometimes it does work
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:36 AM
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Ah i get you, yeah I can see that fitting into the goth aesthetic, I was envisioning the kind of heels that women typically wear to weddings or something. I think the 6’ height obsession isn’t just that it’s an even number that separates average height from tall people. Hopefully you find your special person soon if you haven’t already
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:04 AM
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Why every day? I feel like that’s more of outside of the height distribution like what the OP is talking about. Even without shoes you’re still going to be taller than most guys which makes it even more difficult but it would make sense to want someone taller than you. I don’t really care about girls height requirements, I just think most guys find it annoying when a girl that is average height refuses to date a guy who is average height
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:58 AM
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That’s lame, they could get to feel like they’re dating a model or something but they choose to be insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:54 AM
2

How tall are you? 5’2 isn’t a very common height for a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:46 AM
2

How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:44 AM
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I’m 5’9, whenever I’ve been on my fuckboy grind my phone was never dry. Examples of needing to be a Chad to attract girls is just Stacy chasing. Tbh the fact I don’t party has turned girls off more than me being under 6’ has
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:43 AM
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These are the big brain suggestion I come here for
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:48 PM
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I just measured myself and I’m actually 5’9.25" I always thought I was 5’9 even, does that mean I can be a Chad???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:34 PM
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Why are girls attracted to guys who look like they are getting sucked into a black hole
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:42 PM
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As someone who made out a lot in high school but only had sex once, I realized in my 20s that my friends who got laid a lot were all pressuring girls into it and leading them on. Most girls really weren’t ready to have sex at that age. So some guy comes along, promises them romance and commitment. Dates them for three months until she gives it up or pulls some "it’s obvious you don’t like me as much as I like you so I’m going to be with a girl who does like me" kind of routine, then the girl is …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:13 PM
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That sucks if my generation is now becoming boomers. I’m on the later end of millennial so I still feel more connection with Gen Z than I do older millennials and Gen X, but one thing I promised myself is that I wouldn’t take my frustration out on younger generations. I remember how annoying it was seeing articles and magazine covers saying my age group was entitled and ruining every industry from bed frames to napkins
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:09 PM
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I am both a Chad and a subfive male. It’s kind of funny hearing people move the goal post about what constitutes a Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:04 PM
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I really felt for FDS. As a shitty man myself, I know how much hurt we cause women. Lately though it seems like they’ve gotten so much worse. Plus, it’s clear that they have unrealistic expectations themselves. They expect men to be some unrealistic ideal while they provide nothing of value in return
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:51 PM
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I messed that up so many times in my youth. I had multiple girls say things like "there’s something I want to say to you but I want you to say it first" or "there’s something I really want you to ask me but I don’t want to tell you what it is" I knew exactly where they were going but for some reason I wanted to play like I was aloof and oblivious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:48 PM
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Im going to disagree on the grounds that I don’t think average men want a Chad lifestyle, I think all we/they want is a chance to at least be a contender with women. Admittedly since my early 20s I’ve never had a problem getting girls, but if my experiences were the same as they were in middle school and early high school then yeah, I’d be a lot more aggravated. They were always more interested in my friends, or they needed to focus on school, or they just didn’t feel the same way. It can be rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:44 PM
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How is it a bargaining chip? My needs aren’t being met so I break up. She has a change of mind so we get back together. I’m not pressuring her into anything, she’s coming to that decision on her own
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:46 AM
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No way to know, but she has autonomy so if that’s her choice who am I to tell her she is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:45 AM
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They always come back
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:18 AM
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People change though, if she changed her mind and you take her back I don’t see how that is manipulative
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:18 AM
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Isn’t that what I said to do? Break up with them. How is that manipulative?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:17 AM
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Guilty as charged. Want to diagnose me further?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:15 AM
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I think there is a lot of confirmation bias and using extreme examples. I don’t think I’ve ever met anyone who looks like a stereotypical Chad. I’ve seen girls say they want a guy over 6’ on dating apps, but I’ve also seen the same amount of girls say they only want black guys. So if being over 6’ is a requisite then so is being black. I was behind a black couple at the grocery store today the man was really fit and he was an inch shorter than me and his girlfriend was about the same height as h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:51 AM
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That was just an example, I don’t like anal because I don’t think any girl I’ve done it with has enjoyed it, they just kind of do it to please me/other guys I guess so I stopped caring about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:26 AM
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I’m rethinking my opinions on a lot of things. Most things that are described as manipulative are just men having boundaries. For example, let’s say your girl doesn’t want to do anal. Well, she isn’t satisfying your sexual needs so you have every right to break up with her. Now if she changes her mind and realizes she wants to do anal and you take her back, how is that manipulative? You didn’t force her to do anything she didn’t want to do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:18 AM
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Meanwhile women are racking up 30+ bodies while some guy is following blue pill advice and getting some other guys sloppy 36ths. There is no honor in being a martyr
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:16 AM
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This is what I’ve realized as well. At the end of the day I reject it because nobody is entitled to anything therefore nobody is entitled to my moral virtue as you put it. We live in a lawless universe and it’s in all of our best interests to do whatever we can to survive. Biologically my only goal is to reproduce. Thankfully we live in a civilized society, but that is why we must conform externally and rebel internally. Do anything you want, just don’t break the law
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:14 AM
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I’m a male, I plotted in the upper left masculine, and my results are Masculinity: 120 Femininity: 93
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:51 AM
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What are your reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:23 PM
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I grew up really poor. I’ve seen how the government is designed to keep poor people poor. All those social relief programs don’t allow people to get out of poverty. The moment you start working they take everything away so you never have a chance to get on your feet. The rich and capitalist class has no humanity. They say we should get rid of the minimum wage, but that would just make the pay people less. It wouldn’t really bring the cost of living down to a point where people aren’t struggling.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:05 PM
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The only way I’ve been able to get female attention is by leading them on. I need the anger to justify my immoral behavior. Aside from that I really feel bad for the way women are treated in society, but I view it as a war and I’m not going to cuck myself and be lonely just to spare some women’s feelings when they find out I’m saying the same exact thing to dozens of other girls. Other guys do so much worse, they can leave at any time, I’m just doing what I need to do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:55 PM
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I’m in my 30s and I want it all to end. I hope Russia invades Ukraine. I hope people continue to not get vaccinated. I think humanity is a virus that has contaminated this planet
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:51 PM
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There are three types of lies; lies, damned lies, and misinterpreting research on PPD to suit your agenda. I don’t think any study can accurately determine human behavior 100% of the time. Humans are dynamic, we’re so fluid and run in such a huge range. To try to apply an absolute truth to anyone is ridiculous. Most guys complaining about women here are just Stacy chasing and are actually part of the 20% of men who feel entitled to the top 20% of women despite not being a suitable match at all
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:49 PM
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Debunk it then, some studies from speed dating trials? Some fake accounts on tinder that show shitty women? I’m 5’9. Once I got over my mental health issues I have had no problem attracting women. And I’m not attractive. I have a bulbous upturned nose and I’ve been told I look like a pig. I’ve also been obese since I was a teenager. When I was just overweight in regards to BMI I was able to attract skinny girls, when I’ve been morbidly obese I’ve been able to attract fat girls. But the thing is …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:34 PM
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Alright? Get it in, brother. If you’re hitting it doggy style then she can be whoever you want her to be
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:23 AM
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I tried doing this in my late teens because I fell for the "girls like douchebags" thing. It doesn’t work. You know what does work? Being nice to girls and telling them what you want out of your interaction with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:22 AM
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You get it bro, these guys are tainted by Instagram and internet porn. Girls are sexy af, and all humans have little imperfections. First time I saw a pair of boobs I was 16 and she was 14 and I said I didn’t like her boobs because they were uneven because I was only used to seeing boobs on the internet. Really dumb of me when I think back on that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:12 AM
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Get better at recognizing what type is most receptive to you. Once I figured that out I faced a lot less rejection. Also, talking to women should be fun, if it isn’t fun then don’t do it. I like flirting with girls even if I know nothing will come from it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:10 AM
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No, I’ve never slept with a prostitute and never used OF. Ive don’t chaturbate with my gf though. But prostitution is transactional. Talking to someone and connecting with them is a lot more tangible in a sense, it’s more real and authentic
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:58 AM
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Idk, I’m not a model but all the girls I’ve been with have really liked me, doesn’t feel any less valid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:53 AM
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Why is that the only authentic display of attraction though?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:47 AM
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5’8 guys never have partners who are attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:33 AM
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Reverse the genders, my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:32 AM
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How would they know
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:06 PM
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I know a guy whose like 5’6, red head, kind if chubby, and he’s dated some cuties. Like blonde haired thots. I wonder why he doesn’t have issues with finding women to date 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:34 PM
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Dating apps are 70% men and 30% women. Dating apps are designed to leave both people dissatisfied. I still believe men are visual and women care more about personality. This doesn’t mean that looks don’t matter for women and that personality doesn’t matter for men. It means that men can appear attractive to women because what counts as the "it" factor is different for us. Most guys are attractive enough to be appealing to women, they just don’t put in the work to make it happen. The guys who say…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:11 PM
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Most men pass the looks threshold, but they don’t do what’s needed to really take it to the next level. I didn’t realize until I started living with a girl how much I was able to do by letting her do my eye brows and trim my facial hair and even dying my beard so it looked darker and fuller. Also for some guys getting tattoos can make you more interesting. Too many guys I see posting their pictures look generic af. I live near a military base and all those guys look handsome because they’re in s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:06 PM
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What’s your ideal age? I’m in my 30s now and I’m definitely more attracted to women in their late 20s, but those younger girls do have an appeal. It’s largely fetishistic though so I try to be rational about it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:58 PM
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I’m a lot more confident and better looking now. I don’t internalize rejection as much. I don’t only go for teenagers though, and I think that fact helps separate me from the creeps in their mind. It’s more like "I don’t usually go for girls with such a large age difference, but I really like talking to you and I hope you feel the same" Also I’m into really rough sex and a lot of the girls I’ve talked to say that it’s hard to find guys who are really as kinky as they try to make themselves be. L…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:52 PM
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That’s the best look, I realized as I get older girls start to lose that brightness in there eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:43 PM
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You can love someone and still ask that they turn off a light switch before they leave a room
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:45 PM
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Like I say all the time, she has agency over her actions and chose to be with someone like that. Why is she switching up what she wants now that she is pregnant? Another example of women suffering the consequences of their own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:21 PM
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He is providing for them financially and all she was asked to do was flip a light switch
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:12 PM
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Number 2 just allowed 80/20 to become more rigid
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:07 PM
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Understanding toxic masculinity made me realize why my self worth was tied up in women’s approval. Also realizing that women have been oppressed the majority of history made me a lot more empathetic to their struggles. can’t get over them being shallow af though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:06 PM
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Her body, her choice, her responsibility. He is right, he isn’t the one carrying the baby, and he is already doing his part, why does he have to do double for someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:57 PM
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Damn, you’ve got this guys sloppy seconds? How is kicking her out bad? If your needs aren’t being met in a relationship then you absolutely should leave
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:26 PM
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I’ve been job hunting and every interview I’ve had has been with a woman. I’m pretty sure the women I’ve interacted with have made as much or slightly more than me. I’m really curious where this mythical wage gap exists. Oh, I know where it exists, it’s because they’re taking about CEOs and the small percentage of men who hold positions of power. I think this just reflects how women don’t view most men as men, they only acknowledge the tallest, the wealthiest, and the most powerful
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:25 PM
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Trump made girls sign NDA and they still went to the media
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:15 PM
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It’s all about the precedent you set. There was an article discussing this and they referenced Jeffree Star. He hasn’t been cancelled because people know what to expect. So logically be openly sexist and don’t pander if you want to avoid being cancelled
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:14 PM
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In what ways is being a man easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:12 PM
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Feminists will simultaneously say being a man is easier than being a woman while also saying that being a woman is better than being a man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:04 PM
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Was really trying to start the day without feeling disgusted by the absolute state of women, guess that won’t be happening. The only reason Caleb was successful was because he was 6’4. It isn’t that dating apps bring out the worst in men, it brings out the worst in women because their shallowness and vapid nature goes unfettered allowing them to indulge in their every lustful delusion. Women deserve to experience the consequences of the choices they make, they’ve made this dynamic, you can’t bla…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:51 PM
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Aren’t most men interested in TRP narcissistic though?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:04 AM
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Can you elaborate? I know this is a very base level question, but what is your critique of TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:52 AM
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I really get the impression that I have nothing in common with red pill men. Alt girls tend to be a lot nicer in my experience. It’s funny how red pill guys dismiss them as whores and then chase after generic women, then act shocked when generic women have generic tastes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:52 PM
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Never. I was always the one breaking hearts. I’m really avoidant and I don’t get attached to people easily. I actually don’t experience emotions the way other people do. The only thing close to heart break I experience is my rejection sensitive dysphoria and feeling of inferiority if I’m not constantly proving to myself that I can make girls like me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:50 PM
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How tall does your bf/husband just so happen to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:48 PM
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My current partner of over 10 years was originally a side chick
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:35 PM
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Probably shooting out of your league
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:34 PM
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Does TRP have an aversion to alt girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:32 PM
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Who are you to pass judgement on me? This was supposed to be a positive post and you’re bringing negativity to it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:31 PM
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Is everyone conveniently ignoring where I say that I am working on myself and being better?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:09 PM
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This statement reminds me of something I overheard my moms psychiatrist say when she was revealing she was being abused by her husband. He said "our partners loving us is a reward for being good to them. People are good to people who make them happy" Anyways, a few years later he went to prison for sexual assault. Claiming that "love is transactional" sounds awful
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:46 PM
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So I’m being attacked for doing the right thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:42 PM
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I have my transgressions and I’ve made mistakes but my actions were out of insecurity, not hedonistic desire like the other guy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:41 PM
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So the real issue then is that guys have to put in effort? That seems kind of lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:54 PM
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So the complaint here is that you have to put effort in? Most men aren’t working on their physique to that level
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:53 PM
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She loves me though, I tried breaking up once and she begged me to stay. I was too blind to realize how lucky I was and I want to make things right. Why am I not allowed to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:52 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:26 PM
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I was listening to the wheat waffles and hamza debate. I feel cringy af saying that lol Anyways Hamza is saying that you’ve got to make yourself the best version of yourself possible, wheat waffles says if your SUBFIVE then it’s pointless. Here is a picture of a guy named Derek Simnett, he is about 5’5 but he is a beast at calisthenics. He has a successful YouTube channel and does nutrition and fitness coaching. Another example is Frank Medrano, he is about 5’6 and does calisthenics. There is al…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:16 PM
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I don’t think so, I’m the only guy she has ever been with aside from one relationship she had prior, but that guy was a fuckboy and was just using her for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:02 PM
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They’re supposed to reply to the automod
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:47 PM
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I’ve decided to apply red pill beliefs (self improvement) to focusing on my relationship. Hearing about the men and women here makes me realize how truly awful everyone is and how I’m fortunate to have found someone that is kind and forgiving. By all accounts, I would be considered a LVM by FDS standards, however I know deep down I have a lot of love to give and I care for my partner deeply. Yes, I’ve been unfaithful. I had a realization the other day. Imagine if I had caught her sexting and han…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:35 PM
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Rating anyone on a 10 point scale is so arbitrary because attraction is based on the individual. I much prefer the concept of leagues, or having a 3 point rating scale
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:30 PM
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This is what I’ve been trying to tell people. I like Pepsi but I’ll take a coke is a preference. I refuse to date men under 6’ is a requirement
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:28 PM
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1/2"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:16 AM
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Yeah, I get it. I have some toxic crushes and I understand the appeal of the dark triad. Thankfully I learned to suppress my empathy and I was able to do a lot better with women in my 20s, but because of my experience there is no way I could ever respect women romantically. I respect women professionally and I think women get a lot of shit in society, so I feel for them in that regard, but in regards to feeling affection for them I can’t because I don’t think their brains are wired right. Like I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:03 AM
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I had a friend when I was in high school who had no trouble attracting girls. Sometimes I’d like a girl and she wouldn’t be interested in me, but she was interested in my friend. He was a pedophile. He’d regularly date girls that were 13 years old, sometimes he’d start talking to them as young as 12 despite him being 17. He’d date girls long enough to sleep with them, then he’d break up with them a couple weeks later. I don’t have much faith in women, that guy was right
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:52 AM
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So women’s nature is only true when it’s negative and only false when it’s positive? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:49 AM
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I’m a guy, I have those big stretched lobes, girls love it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:17 AM
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Eating at home to save money is a boomer lie
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:15 AM
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Women really do feel this way. I was looking at hair pieces on tiktok and the only negative comments were from men. I think most women would be fine with lifts as well because they understand how important being perceived is. The issue is whether you lie or not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:14 AM
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Yeah because they slay 😺
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:59 AM
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You’re absolutely right, that’s why it’s so arbitrary. It’s just a way to separate groups of men and it all stems from OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:18 PM
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Does this factor in height? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:13 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:07 PM
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Under 6’, this is well documented
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:07 PM
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The ends justify the means
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:55 PM
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There are no rules in life. Do whatever you can to put your best foot forward. I have no need to wear height increasing insoles because I already have a partner, but if we went to a wedding or something I might wear some if it gives me an increase of a couple inches because I know it will make me look better in photos. Also, if I was giving a presentation the added height might make me seem more authoritative. I’m 5’9 and the most I lie about my height is saying I’m 5’10
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:54 PM
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Anytime I make a post it gets taken down for low effort 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:53 PM
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There is another study I saw in the ex red pill subreddit which said that the AF/BB thing is actually AB/BB. Men who receive the most sex are actually spending money on the women they’re seeing. I think this ties into how benevolent sexism is actually a positive thing to display to women. I think there is another interesting conversation to be had about deconstructing all pill mentalities. For me, I mention my height a lot because I find it funny how in some instances I get accused of being a ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:33 PM
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You’re right, and this is why I support feminist ideology. It’s like that Margaret Atwood quote about men being scared women will laugh at them and women are scared men will kill them. But the thing is women have the privileged position of being sexual selectors, they are liberated so that don’t need to be part of the violence that scarcity causes. Women are the boomers of the sexual market place. So sure, it’s jealousy and an inferiority complex that causes me to be the way I am, but it’s sure …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:24 PM
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They’re angry because access to sex as a male is often rooted in scarcity and they’re saying shit to get a reaction on the internet. Plus for a lot of guys the only way to get a woman’s attention is by offering the promise of a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:12 PM
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Because most men are not attractive enough for casual sex, it’s really that simple. Like I say every day on here, men are just playing by the rules women set
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:05 PM
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I think the flaw here is the assumption that men are weaponizing anything when they’re simply playing by the rules women set. That would be like saying women weaponize consent. People are free to with draw from a relationship at any time. Maybe it took dating a girl for a few months and sleeping with her a dozen times to realize she wasn’t what I want, so how does that make me the bad person in this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:03 PM
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Men not owing you anything is a reaction to women not owing us anything
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:07 PM
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Not a conservative by any means, not even a liberal because they’re just closet conservatives. I think vigilante justice is stupid. At the moral baseline you have someone who wronged someone else and then that person or another person wrongs them back. Either all revenge is justified or none of it is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:06 PM
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Ever since the west elm Caleb story broke guys are realizing that TRP idea of being an avoidant non committing asshole doesn’t work anymore. Girls actually like guys who are nice to them, it’s just guys who get rejected for being too nice lack the backbone to make their intentions known soon enough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:04 PM
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Yes, agree. I’m pro woman. I think you’re trying to pin me as some entitled narcissistic misogynist. I’m just being honest, women only respond to trickery and lust. Until they learn to be more sensible they should probably avoid relationships. In the meantime, it isn’t my fault or any other mans fault for doing what women will put up with
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:13 PM
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Sure, when women wise up they absolutely should get out of shitty situations, the problem is they don’t wise up soon enough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:04 PM
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Or women should make better decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:03 PM
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That isn’t the issue, my love bombing game is strong. But when I withdraw affection, when I get caught lying, when they find out that the "ex girlfriend I’m only staying with because we have a lease together" isn’t actually my ex girlfriend they don’t go running for the hills. To combine a quote from the perks of being a wallflower and the Joker movie "People accept the love they fucking deserve"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:02 PM
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But they’re not standards, they’re requirements. I prefer Pepsi, but I’ll have coke is a preference. Someone who is otherwise a match but because they’re 5’11 they get rejected isn’t a preference
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:57 PM
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I knew plenty of guys in high school and college that didn’t get any girls but also rejected girls because they weren’t up to their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:55 PM
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If men don’t have any honor it’s because neither do women. Women choose to be with awful men. They choose to be with abusive men. They choose to be with manipulative men. For all the "vetting" women claim to do they’re consistently awful at it. So for that reason they get exactly what they should expect
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:53 PM
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Yeah, he looks different in every picture. Totally looks like he’d become a doctor or a dentist or something, doesn’t have the youthful laid back appeal that Caleb does
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:51 PM
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I think the issue is that women might have a trait that is considered less attractive, but there will always be someone willing to sleep with you. I guarantee you a 6’ woman will have a much easier time than a 5’1 man. I agree if you go to r/tall there are lots of women complaining about insecurity. However, women still have it easier over all. For example this picture has been made into a meme, however it’s the man being made fun of for being too short rather than the girl being made fun of for…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:48 PM
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Probably, if he is insecure about his height.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:45 PM
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Interesting, is that because you think he might be under 6’? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:39 PM
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I’m most attracted to white women and Hispanic women the most. I’m primarily attracted to brunettes, however very rarely I am attracted to blonde women. I’m not interested in Asian women, but I wouldn’t be opposed to dating one because I do find them attractive. Not really attracted to black women at all unless they have white features
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:37 PM
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Some say it’s a burning thing, and it makes a fiery ring. Others say it’s a River that drowns the tender reed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:33 PM
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Relationships can end at any time, men don’t owe you their commitment. Of course feminist rules don’t apply to women, do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:31 PM
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can we get a height check on aisle king? Shimon Hayut is a bit like west elm Caleb, just more lucrative. I’m curious to know how tall he is. Doesn’t appear that tall in this picture
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:28 PM
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Morbid curiosity. I’m not black pilled in the traditional sense. I’m only 5’9, never been outright told I’m too short to date, I’ve gotten the interest of plenty of women, but I like to feel bad about myself. I will say I think that physical attraction is important, it’s the most important thing in creating that initial spark, but I think what women find attractive is far more varied than what the black pill tries to say
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:35 AM
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I watch black pill content while my gf is sleeping and then I have to shut it off quick because I don’t even know how I’d begin to explain this to her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:41 PM
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I can’t say with certainty because I’m not other guys, but I would probably say to have sex with. I don’t think most guys know what they want because they’re desperate and dating as a man is plagued by scarcity so the only effective way is to throw whatever at the wall and see what sticks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:50 PM
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I don’t think all guys have a type and that’s their problem. They haven’t learned what women are most receptive to them yet. Once they figure that out then it’s a gold mine. I can sus out a girl from 10 yards away and have a pretty good idea if I have a chance or not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:36 PM
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The real question is how well do those qualities translate to NSA sex. Man B who has status will only be attractive to women wanting to tie him down where as man A will easily be able to have casual sex. If man B is immoral, as most men should be due to an unequal dating market, then the only way he will get "casual sex" is by leading women on. And the person who said HVM also display moral judgement, morality doesn’t get girls panties wet. Really it depends on your definition of a HVM, for a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:35 PM
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Girls are pickier because the things they’re picky about are genetic and can’t be changed, I just prefer a certain aesthetic. I like girls that are short and girls that are tall. I prefer girls that are taller like 5’6 - 5’9, but I wouldn’t be opposed to dating a girl 5’5 or shorter. That’s the difference though because girls will only date a guy who is 6’+
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:26 PM
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Not all guys are inept. I know what I like, brunette girls with bangs, thick eye brows, septum piercings, winged eye liner. I’m kind of metro and I’m in tune with the subculture I like, most guys are generic af chasing after generic af women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:08 PM
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Because she’ll start to dress like the girls she is scared you will leave her for
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:58 PM
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Gotta find a medium cute girl, one that looks good if you tell her how to wear her make up and how to dress how you want but hasn’t got much attention from other men. It’s best to find them young so you can show them what you like sexually before they’re closed off to trying to new things
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:05 PM
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Sometimes I read things here and don’t understand what they’re trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:03 PM
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Albert Camus was a post world war 2 French philosopher who developed the idea of absurdism. Basically the universe is chaotic and meaningless so any search for meaning is useless but rather than submitting to the absurdity by killing ourself we should revolt against the absurd. This might seem depressing, but like you said about us being the universe observing itself, there is something miraculous in being able to be here for the experience so by being able to just live without meaning we’re fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:57 PM
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Yes, have you read Camus? Reading the Wikipedia for the stranger and watching a few YouTube videos about the universe cured my depression
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:44 PM
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Doesn’t this logic disprove the 80/20 rule as applied to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:05 PM
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this is how guys need to do it Following up what I said a few comments down that linked to the FDS thread, this is what most guys should be doing since dating is harder for us
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:28 AM
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Yes, and I advocate those men then pump and dump the women themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:21 AM
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Just cautious and aware. Men suck. I don’t want to be the way I am, but I learned that bad behavior gets rewarded
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:03 AM
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That’s smart, more women should be like you then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:59 AM
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What do you want then? A relationship? You never had a hook up phase?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:52 AM
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What is 40 AUD in real money?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:51 AM
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I just coined a new phrase, trickle down sexonomics
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:51 AM
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Yup, that’s what it always comes down to. I’d say just pump and dump them, trickle down sexonomics
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:50 AM
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Because women are good at gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:42 AM
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Anyone with any sense knows that the wall is ridiculous. I’ve been attracted to older woman since I hit puberty. Women in their 40s and even 50s are still attractive. This is why I can’t say I agree with TRP because a lot of the stuff they claim is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:41 AM
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