savetgebees Archive

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1	Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male" That’s not necessarily true. Most of the studies that address high T levels were due to use of steroids so it is T clear if it’s the high T or something else. There really isn’t many studies regarding the effects of naturally occurring high T. https://www.health.harvard.edu/medications/testosterone--what-it-does-and-doesnt-do Lower T might be a bigger issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/22 09:55 PM
2	Men with college degrees have far wider and more frequent dating options. My bf is a firefighter. He took fire science classes at a community college and trained to be a paramedic. I’m not sure he even has an associates degree. But when he became an officer he had to go through staff and command classes at a university that probably equaled a masters degree. In my opinion he is more educated than his college grad peers who got a bachelors degree 10 years ago and haven’t opened a book since.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/22 10:42 PM
2	When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them. Like women are supposed to be sympathetic to men not getting sex? So what they should be more charitable? Yuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 03:35 PM
1	When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them. Why should we trust your sources but this guy cant trust cbs news?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 03:32 PM
11	The reason men get butthurt about women making them wait Condoms don’t help (unless its some kind of full body condom) A uti is not an STD, it’s bacteria getting into the urethra. Peeing right afterward helps but isn’t a guarantee.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 03:22 PM
5	The reason men get butthurt about women making them wait Hormones. Why do men have sex? It’s not that women don’t enjoy sex it’s just not always a sure thing. Having an emotional attachment ups the odds of a better outcome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 03:18 PM
6	Many men nowadays don't want to date and avoid marriage because they don't want to lose their money and assets and they are afraid of having to pay child support and being able to go to jail if they do not pay it Her dad gave him start up money. She had the experience in the book business to help get Amazon started (remember when they just sold books). They were a husband/wife team who started a business together. Then when it got successful she stepped back to raise their 4 children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 03:08 PM
11	The reason men get butthurt about women making them wait Because casual sex isn’t all that great for women. UTIs are uncomfortable and expensive and women are susceptible to them with every new guy and newly introduced bacteria. If every time you had sex with a new person you took a chance of peeing blood, having to make a doctors appt, pay a $30 co-pay along with 2 weeks of antibiotics, do you really think you would be all that excited to jump in bed with every woman you found attractive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 02:55 PM
1	Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why? My cousin always wanted the suit and tie guy. She married a trades guy but they got divorced and she remarried her suit and tie guy. Who ended up having terrible finances working a sales like job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/22 03:47 PM
1	single guys, do you spend time with girls you're not attracted to? Yeah like if you shared enough interests to be friends wouldn’t there be some attraction? Even same sex friends are pretty similar in attractiveness. Sure there is a curve. But if you look closely at a group of friends you’re not seeing really good looking people and really ugly people hanging together. So why would it be any different with male and female friends?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 03:14 PM
2	Women hurt women as a group by lying or hiding their own age lol. I was watching reruns of Fraser and Martin was dating Wendie Malick (who used to be Fraser’s babysitter) and had her mom over. He told her she looked exactly the same. And she was like “wow thanks, glad to know I looked like this when I was 40”	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 02:13 PM
1	Women hurt women as a group by lying or hiding their own age I think it’s a boomer thing due to employment and public perception. Not trying to snag a man. I lie about my age on stitch fix (monthly clothing subscription business) I’m 45 but say I’m 34. Because they will send me dowdy old lady clothes. I don’t want to dress like I’m 20 but I also don’t want to dress like Floridian retiree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 01:56 PM
1	Fds is now gone, thoughts? And the abuse. Omg the abuse. It’s like every woman has been assaulted in some way. Honestly as a mom of a pre teen daughter it terrified me. Like am I some tiny minority of women who has never been abused?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 11:57 AM
1	Fds is now gone, thoughts? I think it’s not really free speech so much as a loud vocal minority just wrecking it. There is debate and then there is just stupid shouting drowning out all other conversation. Free speech doesn’t mean you have to sit and listen to everyone’s “speech”. If every day there are just ridiculous posts to weed through to get to anything worth discussing I do believe the moderators need to step in. I’m assuming Reddit is a business that likes to make money by being popular with the masses. If sub red…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 11:47 AM
1	Fds is now gone, thoughts? I kinda liked it when I first discovered it. I’m a married 40yo woman and looked at it as advice for single women looking for a great guy. Kinda like The Rules but slightly updated. Like don’t be a bitch but don’t be a pushover either. But it has really gone off the rails. I see this thread going the same route. It used to be a decent discussion but some loud minority voices are wrecking it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 11:41 AM
1	Both men and woman prefer more feminine faces in rich/healthy countries I agree. I think people confuse well kept, attractive and young with feminine. When I think of men with feminine features I think of them as old. You see older men whose features are looking more feminine due to lower testosterone. It’s hard to point out exactly what makes their features look feminine. Maybe it’s that their faces are fuller, less facial hair, weaker jowls and neck, their lips even look more feminine. Look at Steven Tyler I never thought he was all that feminine looking yeah he w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 11:31 AM
8	In my experience, less conventionally attractve women tend to be more interesting and funny than the more attractive ones. What about yours? Yes. That’s true But attractive people do tend to have good personalities. If you’re attractive you usually have more confidence which makes socializing easier which builds personality. Maybe just in smaller social groups.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 11:06 AM
1	[Debate] At least for men, "just wait, it will happen bro" is terrible advice. True but I love the story of how I my mom met my dad. There was a community dance (they were very early 20s) and my dad asked my mom to dance. She declined and he proceeded go around the table asking each woman at the table if they wanted to dance. My dad wasn’t desperate to dance with my mom he just wanted to dance and didn’t have any issues with being turned down which made my mom notice him. You don’t look like a pathetic loser for asking, it’s how you handle the rejection. “You want to meet …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 01:56 PM
1	Is "stealth wealth" a bad idea for someone who wants love? Exactly. Most of these stealth wealth people are more like I make $100,000 and want to date hot waitresses and hair stylists who are bringing in around $40,000 so I don’t want them to know I have extra spending money. You know if they found themselves interested in an financially equal woman they would be dropping hints of their income left and right. I doubt many who claim the need for stealth wealth are trying to hide some $2,000,000 portfolio.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 01:40 PM
1	Is "stealth wealth" a bad idea for someone who wants love? Yes! I remember a friend claiming stealth wealth saying he told girls he washed cars for a living. He acted like his entry level management training job at enterprise rent-a-car was some sort of high end career he had to keep secret to avoid gold diggers. Ok so you would rather go out with women who are cool with dating 24yo car wash attendants vs a women looking for a guy in a stable career that allows for growth? The thing is you portray who you want to attract. If a high powered lawyer wants …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 12:57 PM
1	Men and women’s looks decline at the same rate, men just idolize parts of mens appearance while also hyper-fixating on parts of woman’s appearance Yes. There are so many tiny clues that create an entire picture. I was on the skincare sub and a lady posted a picture of herself showing no wrinkles saying she was 40 and always used moisturizer. Someone noted she looked good and had nice skin yet still looked 40. It turned into a big debate with people noting the clues to aging. Distance between nose and upper lip. Set of eyes, hairline, hair itself, eyebrows, ears, color of skin and hollowness in facial features. . Obvious anti aging attempts…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 12:16 PM
1	Most guys are subconsciously attracted to the women they think they can get, not the women who are actually hot Depends. Karen relationship fell apart due to compatibility. Is finding a person who makes you feel good and safe settling? Women don’t care about looks as much as men think they do. A man can look like Zac Efron but if he’s annoying, immature and can’t get a job above minimum wage most women are not going to stay interested. Women want someone who can provide. Either financially or physically. Like if you’re not bringing home a lot of money but can fix a toilet and patch a roof it can balance o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 11:20 AM
1	Most guys are subconsciously attracted to the women they think they can get, not the women who are actually hot Dude. R has no idea Ks life story and dating history. R met a girl he liked and she started to like him back. Everyone has history. People have eyes, they see R was not some hot buff dude and K has realized she doesn’t want to deal with all the insecurities and jealousy that come with dating really good looking men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 02:20 AM
2	What makes women not happy about the current dating market? I look at my friends and peers in my life and way more guys are single than girls. I just don’t know what’s the deal. But if I’m honest, if I have a single girl friend I wrack my brain on who I could introduce her to and totally disregard the single guys I know. But those guys were pretty cool guys in their early 20s but something happened when they hit their 30s. People say woman need to lock down a guy young instead of wasting too much time playing the field but I think it goes both ways. Guys…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 07:14 PM
7	The deteriorating relationships between men and women discussed in this sub are indicators of a society breaking down and about to eat itself Exactly. “Muh, why won’t women be my girlfriend”. Dude look at yourself. Clean yourself up, keep your hair clean and trim, take care of your skin and learn social skills. I see some women and wonder why they are still single but for many single guys it doesn’t take a lot of imagination as figure out why they are still single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/22 02:46 PM
1	Obesity has decimated the dating market in America. I suggest not giving up the weight lifting. I do kettlebell hiit classes. That seemed to focus on the shoulders. I was worried about massive shoulders but my shoulders look pretty good the muscle has made them more lean than bulky. It’s also really hard for women to get noticeable muscles. I’ve been taking these classes for 5 years and the most noticed difference in my arms are lack of cellulite they aren’t ripped or even skinny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/22 12:59 PM
1	Obesity has decimated the dating market in America. The syrup won’t get you fat. It’s the syrup on the 4 pancakes. It’s the fast food supersized lunch, then it’s the pot roast for dinner with several bread rolls. Then sitting on the couch munching on chips and/or ice cream. Maybe a mid day snack of nuts or protein bar that they think is “healthy” but is a meals worth of calories. Then doing it again everyday while also drinking soda and lots of alcohol on the weekend. I once was talking to a lady I work with and she was complaining of not feeling…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/22 12:48 PM
2	A woman aged 30 earning 100k a year, is not "equal" to a man who is 30 earning 100k a year. 30 was my hottest year. I was way better looking at 30 than my 20s. Skin cleared up and didn’t need much makeup, I figured out healthy eating and lifestyle choices (sleeping more and working out) and had money for better clothes, hair maintenance and dermatologist visits. Also confidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/22 12:56 PM
6	A woman aged 30 earning 100k a year, is not "equal" to a man who is 30 earning 100k a year. I don’t think men realize what that income brings a woman. A 30 year old woman making $100,000 can afford to stay single. They don’t need a man, but they probably want a man. So they can hold out for the kind of man they want and if he doesn’t turn up, oh well, it’s sad but not life destroying sad. Men are fooling themselves thinking 30 year old successful women are competing with 23 yo women. If some 30-35yo dude is going to look past an attractive smart 30 year old and pursue a 25 year old jus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/22 12:50 PM
1	A woman aged 30 earning 100k a year, is not "equal" to a man who is 30 earning 100k a year. But a woman with money is going to become better looking. More money for hair stylists, better fitting clothes, consistent dental and skin care. Maybe they won’t ever become “hot” but their attraction level is going to go up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/22 12:34 PM
0	Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyle He’s an actor who tries for a certain look which gives the appearance of average. Because those are the roles he’s trying to get. He is not an average looking guy. The below link shows an actor who could compete with Tom hardy and Jeremy Renner for roles. https://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/gossip/joseph-gordon-levitt-slams-gq-factually-incorrect-claim-brother-died-overdose-article-1.1116430	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 07:13 PM
1	Hey Ladies did you hear the new US. Defense Bill dropped the requirement for women to register for the selective service, the system used to determine who is drafted for war. Who will join me in writing to your Congressman demanding equal treatment?........ A military is about being as strong as possible. They want the strongest and fastest. Women are not as strong as men. War is a bit different now as there isn’t as much hand to hand combat but it still requires a lot of strength and endurance. And you can’t just put the drafted 5’0 100lb women in less physical jobs, when it’s all hands on deck it’s all hands on deck. An average woman in combat gear and all the essentials is going to struggle to keep pace with the average man while walking a 10-20…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 04:19 PM
1	Men in a nutshell Guys just don’t put in the effort. If a guy felt he was truly ugly and put in the same amount of effort the average woman puts into her appearance they would find more women open to dating them. Bad skin: wash your face and moisturize every day and exfoliate once or twice a week if no change see a dermatologist. Bad teeth: see a dentist/orthodontist. Bad hair: see a nice stylist that will show you how to style it. Also shave properly. Get your neck hair and nose hair. If you are going with a bea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 03:56 PM
3	Men in a nutshell This right here is why women would rather just stay single. So if they aren’t attractive and find an equally unattractive guy to date they are expected to be ok with being treated poorly? Only attractive women get to be treated respectfully?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 03:33 PM
2	CMV: Women complain about wanting respect, but treat undesirable men like garbage. I know is it they are not willing to go out with you and you take that as being treated like garbage? I as an average looking woman have found these bitchy women are like that for a reason. I was once with a woman shopping and some lady came up to her and asked if she would be interested in modeling. I think they get sick of being approached strictly for their looks and eventually get mean and distant. Guys always want something from them so they can’t even be friends with a guy because the guy …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 03:20 PM
1	Women with high standards of financial success in men do not 'only want you for your money' It also implies ambition and life plan. A female doctor is more likely to date and marry a teacher or firefighter who is passionate about their career than she would be say an entry level call center employee with no drive for moving up in their career. The first two careers are going to make much less than a doctor but they both require intelligence, drive and for many is a calling. That could have meant lots of money if they went with a different career path. Where as a person just showing up …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 12:11 PM
2	Over half of young adults are obese or overweight, study says. What might the impact be on dating etc.? My friends daughter got a job at McDonald’s and that’s what did it. Discounts meant eating much more fast food on the job and bringing it home. Covid didn’t help either. No sports last year and by the time basketball season started this year she was just too out of shape and didn’t want to tryout for the team. She seems to be losing some weight, I’m wondering if she got sick of the food. I hate that I notice her weight. I feel bad. But as a woman I know she’s in for a lifetime of weight struggle…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 01:42 PM
3	One of the reasons why men check out from society is because there is growing, unjustified hostility, disrespect and depreciation against men in general. Women like men complain when they aren’t very successful. Just like women can spot a man with the attitude that women should put out or get out. Men can usually pick out the man haters. Neither the man haters nor the put out crowd are truly enjoying life. They are both miserable and quality happy people don’t want them as partners. Life is too short to be that miserable. Work on your issues, open your mind and you will find people want to be around you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 01:30 PM
3	One of the reasons why men check out from society is because there is growing, unjustified hostility, disrespect and depreciation against men in general. If you look at careers that were mostly held by women you notice men like to step into these careers when they start getting acclaim. Why is it women for generations have been the cooks in their kitchen yet there are so many more men at the upper echelons of fancy celebrity chefs than there are women? Women were the computer programmers until computers started putting men on the moon then it become cool and men started clamoring for those jobs. Now I think we are seeing a shift in healthcare lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 01:08 PM
1	There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first date But are you getting 2nd dates with people you are interested in after meeting for coffee? I just picture an awkward job interview with mellow music, bright lighting and silence while people nervously look at their coffee cup. Also the seating is awkward, couches and bistro tables. Most coffee shops are self serve so one of you have to go and get the coffee while the other one saves the seats. I’m not saying they are a bad idea to meet someone for the first time but you better be at the top of yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 11:55 PM
1	There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first date If it’s just a meet up after talking on OLD. Just go to a fun bar that serves drinks and good appetizers. $25 isn’t asking a slot for a date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 11:45 PM
2	There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first date Yes it’s boring as hell. I guess if you have a nice coffee place in your area that has nice decor and ambient lighting and is busy enough for people watching but not too busy that you feel like you’re hogging a seat and overstaying your welcome. But every coffee shop I have been to at night is really bright with people reading and studying and on a weekend they are so busy people are awkwardly waiting around for a seat to open up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 11:39 PM
2	Romance novels accurately portray the men women want to fuck, marry, and have babies with. Read one and tell me the how the red pill didn't nail it. Be sure to include the one(s) you've read in your reply, even if it's 50 Shades. And in romance novels you are also in the heroines mind. You know she’s not really scared and is equally attracted to the domineering male.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/21 12:40 PM
1	Romance novels accurately portray the men women want to fuck, marry, and have babies with. Read one and tell me the how the red pill didn't nail it. Be sure to include the one(s) you've read in your reply, even if it's 50 Shades. Exactly. If I was out and about and kept running into a guy and he became aggressive in his attraction to me like in romance novels I would freak out. Like I would enjoy reading a scene where a guy “put his arms on either side of her blocking her against the wall. When she tried to leave he blocked her, telling her she was coming home with him tonight” it’s fun to read about but if that happened in real life I would be screaming for security and trying to protect myself. The only advice men shou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/21 12:31 PM
3	Romance novels accurately portray the men women want to fuck, marry, and have babies with. Read one and tell me the how the red pill didn't nail it. Be sure to include the one(s) you've read in your reply, even if it's 50 Shades. Maybe a few, but in the good ones you never doubt either characters attraction to the other. Or if there is negging it’s an internal monologue and it’s still flattering. Like “he usually went for tall curvy women but found her petite slender body adorable”. If a guy told the female character something like he’s usually attracted to skinnier women but found her extra padding oddly attractive I would throw the book across the room and never open again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/21 12:23 PM
1	Romance novels accurately portray the men women want to fuck, marry, and have babies with. Read one and tell me the how the red pill didn't nail it. Be sure to include the one(s) you've read in your reply, even if it's 50 Shades. I’ll give my opinion as a lover of romance novels but also a person who thinks of themselves as an average woman with normal tastes. Romance reading is a fantasy, I may like to read about an “alpha hole” who is a jerk to all but the love interest but in real life I wouldn’t want to date some jerk. It’s like sex in a hot tube sounds great on paper but in reality it just leads to pain and utis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/21 12:12 PM
1	High value men would not date a McDonald's worker just because she is hot Same with any kind of passion career. Men also benefit from it. Some handsome science teacher who is ambitions and passionate about teaching, coaching and helping kids reach success is going to be very attractive to a successful driven woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/21 12:46 AM
1	High value men would not date a McDonald's worker just because she is hot Nah. I know plenty of first responders married to women who out earn them. They just don’t feel emasculated by income since they might have just spent the day cutting people out of cars. Also most full time firefighters work 24hr shifts working 2-3 days a week and have the other days to contribute to child rearing and household chores. I think teaching is a similar field where they can match intellectually and have a successful relationship. For example a female doctor married to a math teacher.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/21 12:29 AM
1	WGTOW - why do some men resent this? I think wanting something you don’t have is a worse feeling than missing something you had (within reason of course, this is more comparing the compromise of marriage not abuse). Like when I was a teen-mid 20s I was perpetually single but my friends all had boyfriends. They would say I was lucky to be single and having a boyfriend was not as great as it seemed. Yet they remained in the relationship and/or if it ended they would immediately seek out a new relationship. If they were so jealous of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/21 04:44 PM
2	WGTOW - why do some men resent this? It’s no different than when someone gets turned down and says something like “well you’re ugly anyway”. Some people can’t take any type of rejection. As a way to make themselves feel better they tell themselves and you that they were just being nice asking you out and you’re nothing special so no loss for them. They were just being charitable. Also I think men are speaking of their own fears and experiences. They did enjoy their 20s and early 30s and are starting to settle down and may have regr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/21 02:38 PM
1	Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable Anymore Of course they are there to hang out with their friends. Doesn’t mean they are anti guy or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 06:12 PM
1	Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable Anymore I was at a wine bar Friday. The only men there were men on dates. But the place was full of women. I bet if some friendly guys came in wanting to socialize somebody would have met someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 02:31 AM
2	Why has the amount of sexless men 18-30 increased more than the amount of sexless women 18-30? It’s just that they make walking so inconvenient. I didn’t live that far from campus in college but drove every day. Walking was a huge pain in the ass there was no sidewalk for half the walk and very small shoulder on the road so walking along the road there is like 2 inches between you and the vehicles. Also live in a state with extreme weather, hard to get motivated to walk in the morning when it’s so cold you feel like the air is freezing your lungs. And people see you walking and silently j…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/21 10:54 AM
4	What are the prospects for Mr Average, realistically Dude if you’re tall have a good salary and all that’s holding you back is your self perceived ugly face get a consultation with a plastic surgeon. I heard a minor chin job can change the look of your nose and face but isn’t as invasive as a nose job. I always regretted not getting a chin augmentation when I was single. I’m now a married 40 something mom and still think about doing it, I just know my husband would be totally against it unless it was medically necessary. Look it up. Some are very …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/21 01:50 PM
1	MGTOW and women who say “they’ll never settle”, what do you plan on doing after 45? But what did you do when you were in your 20s single and living alone. I guess you could have roommates which are not quite the same in your 40s and older. But most people live for the weekends anyway. And it’s normal to work until mid to late 60s especially if you have an office job. So it’s not like you’re sitting home all day m-f. And if you enjoy your job or at least feel fulfilled it’s not such a hardship to work past normal retirement ages.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/21 12:14 PM
1	MGTOW and women who say “they’ll never settle”, what do you plan on doing after 45? I was listening to npr and social seniors just aren’t lonely it’s a different time. Women have money and men have money. So they hang out. They date, they have sex, they just don’t want to live together. They also plan for their old age. They buy insurance to cover nursing home costs. They hire attorneys and accountants. Maybe ask a niece or nephew to be their trustee. The days of the little old lady sitting on her front porch rocker watching the neighborhood kids play or the cantankerous old lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/21 11:17 AM
1	Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender. No shit. People act like through history the man went to some sweet office job and the woman held his house shoes and cigar waiting for him at the door with dinner cooking in the background. That wasn’t a reality for either of my grandparents. It was a partnership for survival. The man did back breaking work either on a farm or in a factory trying to make enough money to feed his family. Then came home starving. Wife spent the day caring for kids, doing laundry, working in a garden, and cooking …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/21 10:46 AM
1	Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender. Then stop pursuing greedy narcissistic women. There are plenty of lovely generous women out there. But they’re not as flashy. They aren’t fat, they aren’t ugly, just not flashy. A lot of them are the ones you think are kinda bitchy and a buzz kill because they are the ones dragging their friends out of parties, sitting at the table watching the drinks and purses while their friends go out and dance. Appearing boring and responsible. Then they meet a guy who does appreciate those qualities and al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/21 10:27 AM
11	Unattractive people are unaware of their (un)attractiveness Interesting. As a woman there are so many times you might see a guy and find them attractive but something about them turns you off. I always wonder if it happens the same way with men when they see an attractive woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/21 09:02 PM
1	Dating sucks because single people are like real estate - the best ones taken off the market quickly Confidence. Even if she shoots you down she will be flattered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/21 07:25 PM
1	Do men want traditional relationships anymore? People also seem to discount the non financial aspect of women’s choice in careers when it comes to raising children. Mom may choose a lower paying job that allows her to wfh a few days a week, moms work schedule allows her to get kids on and off bus, drive them to after school sports, get dinner ready. Mom is able to take kids to doctor, stay home when they are sick. Even being able to take calls from kids and/or school during work hours. Many male dominated fields just don’t allow for that kin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/21 03:58 PM
119	Does the Amber Heard story prove that men will leave good women if they have the opportunity to get with someone hotter and younger? I also heard she was the one who didn’t want to get married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/21 03:48 PM
9	For those of you looking for signs of him being "Just Not That Into You": this is it! Exactly. If you really like someone you will find a way to see them or at the very least talk and text with them during breaks.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/03/21 12:47 AM
16	“Me and her dated for a very long time. I was planning to marry her but over the course of 8 years she aged a lot, so I changed my mind.” I totally agree. And dating as an adult (after college) if you aren’t seriously discussing your future after 6 months you need to really start to question the relationship. 6 months is plenty of time to decide if this person is someone you want a future with. Another 6 months to a year decide if you want to get married. 1 year of engagement. I’m not wearing an engagement ring for more than a year.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 12:58 PM