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I have had 3 covid vaccines so far, my recent one being 1 month ago
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:49 PM
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Seems like I am going down with COVID, glad that I did my laundry last night, would have sucked to get stuck in without a change of underwear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:35 PM
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Fun fact, these are originally Indian cows which were shipped to Brazil.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:46 PM
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surveymonkey, it was free the last time I checked (4 years ago)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:33 PM
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I wouldn't call him handsome like Henry Cavill, but he's a normal looking masculine guy, if you get my drift, like a lumberjack
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:24 PM
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In my dorm hallway (called corridor here) there lives a 20 yo girl who is dating a 31 yo guy from the next corridor. The dude’s name is Vladimir and he looks like a Vladimir, ~6’2” and jacked, but is a very cool guy otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:21 PM
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Man blowjob seems way more personal to me than PIV sex, I don’t understand how some people treat it lesser. You are essentially putting something that has potential to be gross in your mouth, you can taste it, smell it, can potentially get sick from it, and it doesn’t even bring you direct pleasure. Like would I eat a woman out out in the wild? Hell no. Who knows when the last time she showered and washed down there, It is honestly concerning and disappointing that young girls are performing the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:40 PM
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How many people would it take for you to believe it? Do all these multi-millionaires stop working? Just today I read a news article about Universal Basic Income, contrary to what many people think, majority of those who are guaranteed a UBI still wanted to work and looked for work. If you don't have to worry about money then all that would change is that you'd do something that you enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:36 PM
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All that has changed is that I have stopped assuming the good things about them pertaining to their sexual/dating habits and behaviours. I think it’s better to have low expectations and be pleasantly surprised than have high and be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:09 PM
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Why do you think that top 20% in America is better off than top 20% in Europe?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:45 PM
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How much do you need to make to get into top 20%?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:43 PM
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We shall form a council where we take oath to follow the prescribed set of actions and refrain from the listed ones. Only the bonafide members of that council are allowed to sign up for dating apps and if any member is found in the violations of rule then he must be debarred from participating from the hallowed spaces of Online Dating Apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:50 PM
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Alright, thanks. Learnt a new thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:39 PM
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What if said woman is single and horny? Would she consider casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:21 PM
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Would you say that women who don’t chase casual sex values the psychological aspects of a relationship more and sex is a result of those needs being met?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:06 PM
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I agree, there is no pill for that. But there are fleeting moments in a single man’s life when he feels completely whole and content by himself, in those moments he does not desire anything. Making that a default state is a gargantuan task and we look for the easy way out, which is to find a partner and fill that ever present hole in us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:54 PM
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And this hypothetical solution shows what is wrong with the world. But I also think that the desire to have sex immediately is not the only thing that drives male interest in female. There are also some psychological gratifications that a man seeks, for example, acceptance, being heard, being cared for, being looked up to, getting to lead, giving and receiving love etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:50 PM
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Which is why I think that a “pill” which kills male sex drive without any adverse effect would be game changing just like birth control pill was.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:36 PM
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Come take my guns
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:26 AM
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This guy is a dumbass no less. He could have just said "yes, I want you to come by, come by"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:14 PM
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Yeah, you can use it as a lube next time your boyfriend is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:41 PM
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Do the men feel uncomfortable? I don't, I think the presence of hot women in the gym is to mind what pre-workout is to body, it primes you for peak performance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:39 AM
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Have you tried dropping them? The physics behind it is well established too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:59 PM
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Put it under hot water for a minute, then quickly wipe it down and try to open it. The heat will expand the metal about three times more than the glass. That’s how I opened that stubborn jar of pickle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:29 PM
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Do you want to be like them, or better?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:32 PM
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I wouldn’t care either way. If I get closure then she gets my respect, if she ghosts me then that tells me something vital about her, something which is the reddest of red flag in a prospective partner. I would rather be with a morally courageous, empathetic 5/10 than a self-centered, coward 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:36 PM
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Yeah, because they couldn’t get it right even once, like Orange juice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:48 PM
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I am never wrong kiddo, I am either right or not right. Never wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:45 PM
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Dr Pepper is trash. Orange juice is where it is at.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:38 PM
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Since beginning my goal has been to maximise strength and minimise bulk. I work towards lift goals and not physique goals, physique is a byproduct. Plus it gives a sense of accomplishment, lowers stress, and makes me feel good about myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:39 PM
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I am a straight man but Exhibit A has me questioning my orientation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:10 PM
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Can I afford to disobey the Kween?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:17 PM
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There have been 5'2" Navy SEALs too. So yeah it's not the stature of the man but the spirit that resides within.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:42 AM
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Exactly, I have deleted a comment I made a while ago regarding this as part of regular clean up. I have read many many books about BUD/S, which is training/selection program for US Navy SEALs. One thing I very often found was that your "Chadliness" and your physical gifts weren't correlated to your chances of succeeding. Olympic level athletes regularly dropped out on their first contact with surf torture, and that 5'7", 150 lb soaking wet son of a bitch would just not ring the bell no matter ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:41 AM
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I wanted to see you though, DM is open.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:54 PM
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Fair enough, but genuine question, why do women care so much about the price tag of the ring? I would rather buy her a car or take her on a holiday, or just give her the cash instead of spending that much on something so useless and with poor resale value. In India it's customary to gift gold instead, which is often an appreciating asset and has a great resale value.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:52 PM
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I have noticed on Reddit (askmen threads) that American men seems to have a thing for short women, but in the rest of the world taller women are preferred.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:46 PM
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The Navy SEALS don't have a height requirement but Karen at your local dive bar does. Haha, it's a quote worthy line.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:58 PM
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I briefly dated a girl who was 170 cms and had admitted to having a thing for guys over 2 meters tall, (5'7" and 6'7", for the inferior units users). So that's like full foot taller than her. Imagine if guys had preference for uber short women, they would be called pedophiles, just like sometimes they are for preferring shaven fanny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:51 PM
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I think that'd be more of a problem in cultures where arranged marriages are a norm, like India.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:34 AM
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Throw away the Throwaway Queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:31 AM
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I hope it's rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:29 AM
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I believed in marriage for a long time, but I am beginning to think it's a sham nowadays. In future people are probably going to just get into a string of relationships throughout their lives and have kids here and there. No way the institution of marriage can survive the present environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:27 AM
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Is it a noun or a verb?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:18 AM
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Throwaway Queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:14 AM
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Check out the comments, I printed out the webpage, it was a 86 page PDF, all accounts of women in similar situation. I am sure there are tons of women out there who genuinely desire their husbands and they have none of these problems but it was also genuinely scary to read how common it was. Maybe it was a problem decades ago when women married primarily for the "providership" and these days they factor in the sex part too. But I don't know. I think men need to careful, for the sake of everyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:10 AM
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Yes, you can read tons of self-admissions in the comments section. Is spending your life alone really worse than spending it with someone you actively despises you and will take half of your shit and your children the day she finally finds courage?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:05 AM
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The comment section is where the real gold lies. Dozens and dozens of women giving all sorts of reasons why they married the man they weren't attracted to from the first day, how they feel like puking at the thought of sex with their husband, how they feel genuine desire for other men. I don't mean to demonize women about this, if the man isn't into his wife then he'll feel pretty much the same. But if you selected him solely for "providership" and he's doing it good then why are you complaining…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:56 AM
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I don't know how I stumbled across this link https://www.refinedprose.com/not-attracted-husband/ posted on this sub but reading the comments on that blog is so much like what TRP says. To summarize, women settling for men they are not physically attracted to purely because of practical reasons and then despising him for the rest of his life because he doesn't turn her on. This is the BB side of equation being described. Men should take a note and carefully evaluate if the person they are going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:59 PM
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No matter how we look ourselves, we nearly always find the same set of people attractive. Just because someone is 3/10 doesn’t mean that he/she will find 3/10 attractive. If they are desperate enough then they may settle for another 3/10 but they will never really like each other and it will be a miserable union. It’s suffering for them regardless. But I do agree that one should have an idea of where they stand and must not be bitter if the people they desire do not desire them back, because tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:11 PM
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Do you speak Norwegian? I tried learning it and now it’s my favourite language. The sing-songy manner in which Norwegians speak is adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:52 PM
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Late 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:54 AM
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Are you Scandinavian by any chance? Because Arvid is a male name here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:44 AM
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Can you add this to my Google reviews?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:23 AM
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she probably has 20 children now Did I say she was a bitch?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:16 AM
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I just remember now that there was a girl named Stacy in my college, Stacy is extremely uncommon name in India. She was the finest babe, totally lived up to the stereotype associated with her name.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:03 AM
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Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:21 PM
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Bahaha, thanks man. I'll remember this whenever I am feeling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:07 PM
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That'd be me: [redacted]
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:56 PM
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Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:44 PM
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How are you all planning to spend New Year's eve?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:53 PM
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Whenever I hit some social layer I just do the Punjabi dance =D Lololol, I bring my Punjabi dance moves on Swedish dance floors. Guys love it across the board, women are 50-50.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:56 PM
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If you like noodles then try Maggi. You can find it in a store that sells Indian groceries. Maggi is bomb. I gave it to my Swedish flatmate and he got addicted
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:46 PM
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Design an experiment and find out. Take 5+5 hypothetical men and women. Take 5 types jobs for men, least prestigious like criminal to most prestigious like paediatric surgeon, take 5 types of jobs for women, drug addict prostitute to paediatric surgeon. Now from this group of 10 people, make groups of 3, that is 10C3, you will have 120 groups. Each group will have 0-3 men. Take 100+100 men and women, present them these groups and ask them to pick two people to be saved from each group. Collect a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:29 PM
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I see his point. Even if there were 2 women and 1 man, still 2 women will be saved. If there were two male surgeons and 1 female, still it would be 1 male and 1 female saved. I can’t think of any scenario where the woman will be sacrificed and man saved, it’s just not in our genetic programming.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:12 PM
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It’s pendulum of life, it can’t keep going higher and higher
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:59 PM
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Do you think they knew what they were doing? Or are too proud to take it back? Or it is working for them, not for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:47 PM
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Yeah, otherwise they would be called Blackpilled. RedPill tells you to go down fighting, Blackpill tells you to lay down your weapon and wait for death. Personal choices. I am personally happy to have the opportunity to put in effort, results be damned, at least on my deathbed I wouldn’t regret that I didn’t give it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:42 PM
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In this day and age, dealing with average feels like settling. Everyone is shooting for the top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:36 PM
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I have seen the early days when men used to say that women are useless after 30 and now I am seeing the pushback from women that younger women are not interested in older men. Both assertions are meaningless because you are talking about averages when it is individuals interacting. There are so many variables involved that it is insanity to make definitive claims like people do here. But let me throw a general rule which I believe to be true. Who wants to fuck who depends more on how hot they lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:23 PM
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The concept of cold approach seems “low value” to me. The frame you are operating from is: “Hey, you are someone I want, let me convince you to to want me too”. Very much like a door to door salesman. The mental imagery I have of someone cold approaching is someone drooling at mouth and saying “gimme that”. If they say “No” then you unambiguously lose. In my opinion, a better frame to operate from is just talking to anyone who is going to be in your vicinity for more than a few minutes. Men, wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:29 PM
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Can you beat sugar cravings by eating sugar? Every kid dreams that when they grow up and have money, they will buy tons of chocolates and candies. Those who do end up getting fat. Freedom without responsibility is very dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:40 PM
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You basically re-worded what I said. Also, a lot of questions which may undermine your prospects with the prospective partner are dealt with hostility like "It's none of your business", so you are forced to rely on assumption and extract the information naturally and then modify your assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:30 PM
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Most people in the western world aren't built for successful relationships, there is just so much emphasis on "having fun" and finding "happiness" through sensory gratifications that it is simply impossible for another human being to deliver that to you. I come from a different culture and I have seen different kind of people. I have seen dirt poor farmer with a wife and kids. You can bet your ass that he or she isn't obsessed with having the best sex of their life and finding their partner attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:20 PM
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I don't quite agree with the inference you are drawing from those surveys. Let's just focus on the "they have no reason to fuck, date, or marry anyone they aren't genuinely attracted to" part, not worry about what's driving that attraction, whether it's height, face, income, six pack or lack thereof etc. I have seen soooo many women saying that they simply don't find most men attractive and it is evident from the tons of studies and reports.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:55 PM
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Generalizations are useful, they can serve as underlying assumptions for the model you are operating with, and if you leave those assumptions open for change then you can operate effectively. For example, let's say you know that people multi-date and multi-sleep these days, so that's your underlying assumption when meeting with a prospective partner, this allows you to not get attached too much, too quick. Later you find out that this person is not doing that, then you can let your guard down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:51 PM
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they have no reason to fuck, date, or marry anyone they aren't genuinely attracted to That's true, and I am passing no judgement but I am genuinely curious how this will play out considering that most women don't find most men attractive enough, that 80/20 sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:45 PM
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I think short, medium height dudes are comparatively less disadvantaged in real life because women see the whole 3D person, their personality and vibe. So it’s easier to give them a pass, all things considered. On OLD, there are fewer metrics to judge by, so it’s much easier to stick to the most basic ones. I am into taller women (170+ cms) and I set that filter. Does that mean I will pass over a cute as button 165 cm one in real life? Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:50 PM
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imagine if height-queens used 5'9" and above I'll barely make the cut, thank god.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:26 PM
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Not everyone is like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:57 PM
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You are like the wise old guy with white beard of this sub. Seriously. You put very forth very reasonable arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:03 PM
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Ours is linear scale, theirs is logarithmic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:57 PM
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I was hanging out on r/TheRedPill and /r/asktrp but those places were missing the opposing view aka view of the women on all this, this sub has plenty of women and hence the red pill claims can be challenged. Which makes this more fun. What have I learnt? After seeing both sides battling it out for so long, I think the broader message of The Red Pill is true and I have seen women begrudgingly agree to it. Your height, looks, musculature, dick size, income, education, race, social class, they all…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:49 PM
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Have you seen that saying? Abs on a skinny dude and tits on a fat chick don't mean much. If you can barely bench 135 lb and have abs then you are weak and skinny. If you can bench 225+ and have abs then you are lean and strong. The latter is what is attractive. So, work your way up to around 250 lb bench for multiple reps, then start cutting out the fat and work to maintain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:13 AM
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Translation: We all have been dumbasses
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:02 PM
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I don’t think any man finds Red Pill, Red Pill finds them after they’ve been hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:58 PM
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My symptoms are not severe, just an annoying cold. In between I have had two super productive gym sessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:14 PM
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I got Pfizer and a couple of days later I have caught cold, is it cold or effects of vaccine? I had a cold 4 weeks ago so this doesn’t seem reasonable at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:21 PM
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I am obsessed with overhead presses, so I every exercise I do is in some shape or form helps with presses. The exercises are: Trap work, pull ups, pull downs, seated rows, dips, close grip bench, deadlifts, farmer carry’s. Right now my 1 rep max is a puny 51 kg.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:12 PM
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I have, multiple times. It sucks. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:08 PM
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Yeah, that’s the reality of it. But isn’t the financial risk mitigated if you marry someone equally financially successful? Unless of course if you are a millionaire, then it’s harder. Also, did ever wanted to have a family and/or kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:43 PM
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That’s amazing, did you have personal experiences which made you wash your hands off marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:03 PM
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Were you an idealist at some point? Uncle Vaz
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:16 AM
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Oh you remember me hehehe. Tbh, I am happy with the way things have gone so far. Briefly I forayed into “gamey PUA” mindset but that’s not my cup of tea. So now the plan is to optimise and express my authentic self.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:47 PM
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Nah, all I need and want is love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 06:48 PM
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What did you do on Dec 31st 1999?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:37 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:49 PM
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Around 5-6. If I had a sense of belonging to certain group, regularly hung out with them, played sports regularly then it could be 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:33 PM
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Whoops, we were arguing for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:33 PM
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Those conflicts of interest doesn't/can't exist in same age relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:04 PM
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That is very true. To be honest, as an inexperienced older guy, I am mostly talking from my own perspective. I cam imagine that if I had slept with, say, 50 women, then I would be far more capable to manipulate a young woman, now I can't do jackshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:02 PM
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TBH, I agree 33 and 18 is too much. I was mostly talking about early 20s and late 20s dating, because I am in late 20s. But goddamn. I can't forget the face of that 19 yo I met a couple of weeks ago while I have forgotten the faces of girls I met on Friday.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:59 PM
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Maybe some people are capable of putting well reasoned arguments with the option of take it or leave it, instead of slapping "Do what I say because I'm older and wiser" in the face of resistance, maybe. So it begs the question of why you would want a partner who you treat as your own child? You are first making the claim that I want a partner to treat like my child and then asking me to defend your claim. Nope, I'll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:57 PM
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I believe manipulative tendencies are a function of personality and not age. Someone who's manipulative at 19 will be at 28 too, some who wasn't at 19 won't be more so at 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:30 PM
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Nope, I love my family members and I want the best for them, if I love a girl why wouldn't I want the best for her too? Let's consider a hypothetical scenario. She gets into her dream grad program, and has to move 6 hours away. What do I do? Bring out my manipulative powers and keep the person I love from living their dreams or be supportive and encourage them to go and not worry about the relationship? I don't want to do the "selfish love".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:27 PM
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What conflict of interest, may I ask? It's a regular relationship, where one person knows more about certain things than the other person, he can share that knowledge and the receiver can take it or leave it. As long as the younger person is treated with respect, heard, spoken to, I don't see any problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:23 PM
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The assertion is that the life experience disparity will be used primarily in a way that is harmful to the younger partner, I challenge that assertion. Of course I will help whoever I can in whatever capacity I can, but if there is some person who is attracted to me, I am attracted to them, we get along fine, then why not pursue that relationship? Within that relationship that life experience can be used constructively. The mutual attraction and consent comes first, then comes the "life experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:13 PM
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In age gap relationships, why is it assumed that the life experience disparity will only be used destructively and not constructively? I have female cousins, sisters, and to them I always tell the things I wish someone told me, whether it's about studies, fitness, career, or life. To the 11 yo cousin I tell that she must enroll in a contact sport of some sort to build self confidence for she is meek and shy. To the 16 yo cousin who hates Math but want to study economics, I tell her to power thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:50 PM
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They take one particular scenario and throw out the rest out of the window. Maybe the older person doesn't have much of dating experience, maybe he was shy and awkward and it's only recently that he has found his voice, maybe the women his age think that his lack of dating experience is a red flag borne out of serious character flaws and not life circumstances. Maybe he doesn't want to manipulate her but teach her some of the life lessons he learnt the hard way? That eating junk food every day i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:40 PM
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Thanks, you always comment on these and I always disappoint you for letting the opportunities slide hahaha, I am getting there 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 09:52 AM
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I am not a larp though, I am not writing some outlandish descriptions of my sexual conquests, just some shit that's so routine that people who grew up in such environment wouldn't even think about it. I provided the context in a different comment and you are free to look.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 09:49 AM
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Without context, it would look like what's such a big deal in talking to two girls at the nightclub. Guys get blowjobs in minutes/hours of meeting girls at nightclub, and here is this making a big deal of just "talking". Well, the context is that try going out alone as a brown, not tall (5'9"), average looking, virgin, "FOB" guy in the land of some of the most beautiful people in the world, I was expecting to be completely ignored, but then without any social crutches like alcohol, or people I k…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 09:47 AM
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Possibly yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:13 AM
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Indian guy in Sweden: Friday night out. Man, I am having so much blast by flying solo that I don't want to bring my "wingman" ever again. He lowkey tries to undermine me in front of chicks even though he is so much more successful than me. So earlier at the gym I met one of my classmates who mentioned that they will be going to one of the two student nightclubs and I am welcome to join, guess where I didn't go? So I went to the other one and stood in the line. Two girls (Emma, solid 8, tall as m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:31 AM
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Like "I want to kiss you, can I kiss you?" I think there are sexy ways of asking for consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 09:34 PM
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No, he's riddled with height insecurity considering how often he talks about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:14 AM
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Bahaha, amazing. Did you like Linköping? Did you like Stockholm? I lived with an old Swedish lady for two weeks, she hated Stockholm lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:21 AM
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I am in Linköping. I went to Norrköping once and it was a much prettier city. Where did you live and for how long?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:13 AM
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Bro, I am in grad school, I feel guilty about going to nightclub once a week and not staying in and studying instead. But yeah, I agree and I want to visit Norway at the first opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:11 AM
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People are really nice. Socially awkward sometimes? Yes, but overall very nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:07 AM
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Take that green check mark up your ass and fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:01 AM
1

Awesome, some cool travel stories you would like to share?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:00 AM
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Bro what the fuck is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:57 PM
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Good for you. Now I am curious, tell me about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:53 PM
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It's not like I am getting laid here, these are just really good friendly conversations that I am having. If my Swedish friend is to be believed (who is 5'8"), height requirements for dating is even more brutal here because both men and women are tall here. Being 5'9" here is probably like being 5'7" in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:52 PM
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It's been amazing so far, but I have only been here for 3 months and I am probably above average socially confident
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:33 PM
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5'9" Girls here are really tall too. Seems like the average height of new generation of girls here is upwards of 5'7"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:32 PM
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Indian guy's night outs in Sweden. I haven't written my weekend night reports in a while because nothing remarkable happened. But I am increasingly having really good platonic conversations with men and women. Like the last time, I went out alone and went to a nightclub, as I was approaching the line, there were three cute girls standing at the end of the line, as I was approaching them from the distance I said a confident Hi and one of them proceeded to return a warm "Tjena tjena" (translation:…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:11 PM
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I would prefer that fewer the men she has banged the better but I don't think we ever have reliable access to the stats. This is the kind of information that is too easy to hide and too hard to ascertain. Still, if I have to quantify, for a early to mid 20s woman, less than 5 is good for LTR, less than 10 for casual. I am not a hypocrite in the sense that women are free to hold men to the same standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 10:34 PM
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I will bake your ass after stuffing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:56 PM
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Ice cream
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:22 PM
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Man, I already love your wife so much. Hehe... jk. She actually sounds like an amazing person, I hope you two enjoy a loooonnnggg, healthy, and loving marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 11:09 AM
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Doll, probably no, I would be slightly worried. The toy truck for daughter? Hell yeah. I mean I wouldn't want my son to be feminine but the daughter can get into masculine stuff. Definitely Indian (I'm actually Indian). I don't want to be clubbed with Pakistanis and Bangladeshis. Sri Lankans are fine but I don't look Sri Lankan. Pfft... it means so little that I should better say "Not applicable".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 11:00 AM
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What field are you in?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:11 AM
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Why not dating? If you are failing in the domain where a ton of people are succeeding effortlessly then it says something about your shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:34 PM
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When assuming responsibility for your failures, how much is too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:10 PM
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I am not contradicting you, just stating a fact I learnt in Statistics class.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 08:00 AM
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Yeah, height is a continuous variable so there is ALWAYS rounding involved, no matter how small.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:23 AM
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I will give you independence and maturity but not intelligence. People sure do get more independent and mature but I don’t think they get any more intelligent. All that extra experience does help with your decision making but that’s not intelligence, intelligence to me is the ability to analyse unknown situations better than normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:04 PM
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13 factorial? That’s 6,227,020,800 or 6.2 billion years
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:41 PM
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you in fact dislike intelligence, independence, and maturity in a woman. Is being older synonymous with being intelligent, independent, and mature? I am 28 rn, sometimes I am astounded by younger people’s intelligence and maturity and sometimes by older people’s dumbassery. I believe that our baseline intelligence is near constant, it’s our knowledge and experience which “can” grow. Men are typically not looking for those things in a romantic relationship, intelligence? Hell yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:36 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:12 PM
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If a middle aged player, who can no longer attract lots of women and now wants to find and settle down with a near virgin 25 year old because he detests high n count women, it’s laughable and literally no different than when guys say women ride the carousel until they hit the wall, then look for a beta bucks to marry. I see this exact scenario playing out with an acquaintance and the funny thing is that he actually has found an EXACT 25 yo virgin who is head over heels for him and wants to marry…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 07:07 PM
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If I want to be a design engineer, what would be the starting point and intermediate steps?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:18 PM
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What is the difference between a systems engineer and design engineer? Many to probably most South Africans don't like her, so... But she’s magma hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:20 PM
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Alright, don’t tell me what you work on, but what does a design engineer do? Also, can you tell us more about Charlize?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 09:58 AM
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senior design engineer. Man, what do you work on? cause I knew Charlize Theron Man, that's so fucking amazing. On a side note, I know Charlize Theron too, but I doubt if she knows me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:04 PM
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So basically darker features with light skin
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:08 PM
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My personal experience has been in line with this tbh. I think the more attractive you are the more you can get away with. Average/below average guy has to remain centred a whole lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:53 PM
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What do you prefer now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:40 PM
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It's bullshit and these sentiments generally come from people used to their comfortable lives, if it was like that we wouldn't go to fucking moon and beyond. Oh you don't have wings? It's over, you can't fly. Being a man doesn't only mean having balls and dicks, but also not being a little bitch. Shut the fuck up and put in work for whatever you want, no guarantees that you'll get it but are you really going to do go down without a fight? Might as well kill yourself right now and ease the crowdi…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 11:38 AM
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Man, swiping on Tinder in this mid sized Swedish city is like going through a catalogue of supermodels (I mean not literally) but the percentage of really good looking women is really high, and young women are generally not fat here. But the girl that stole my heart this week was at the college cafe, around 5'7"-5'8", curly blonde hair, quite tanned, and eyes blue like sky on a sunny day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 11:27 AM
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I wouldn't want to pay for her in the beginning but when she's in a relationship with me then I wouldn't mind at all, for she's like family now, just like I wouldn't let my mom/sisters/cousins pay for a lunch with me, similarly I would be totally okay with paying for her. BUT if I am paying every time then how often we go out will be contingent on my finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:32 PM
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Some random girl I meet at a bar? "Sorry I have a boyfriend" even if you don't is fine. Yep, it's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:17 PM
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I wouldn't even ask for a reason if you don't want to share, just straight up tell me that you are not interested taking this forward anymore and trust me, you will never be bothered again. I am very good at getting over people who aren't interested but people who ghost or pull a slow fade? Fucks with my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:12 PM
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I almost feel guilty of expressing any sexual intent in such short span probably due to decades of upbringing in a very conservative culture. I didn't even touch her until she literally had her hand clasped behind my neck and you know what I did next? Rustled her hair. By start to finish I mean if she wants to get laid that night then she will have to do a lot of work in the beginning, once I am sure of what she wants then I can take over, fumble my way through and hope that she doesn't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:03 PM
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Lolololol, I try and after the event I think to myself I could have done this or that but in the moment I am the plainest guy ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 07:39 AM
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Field report of Saturday night out #7 of Indian guy in Sweden. The night started on a good note, I got in the bus and 3 young girls came with glittery hats on, they were also carrying cake pieces on plates, so I asked them about the hats. They apparently won a football tournament and came back from celebrating that win, then offered me piece of cake, after hesitating for a few moments I took a piece of it. We talked a bit about football then I focused on the cake. In the end they were courteous …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:12 AM
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lololol, I have a Navy Blue pea coat that I wear to college, I also wear slacks, black leather sneakers, carry a leather handbag, and top it off with black wayfarers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:17 PM
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Goddammit, that's how I have been dressing all my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:13 PM
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Don't dress like a normal Asian, Indian or white guy and learn Game. 100% this. Dressing good, grooming, and lifting are all extremely important. It gives you the confidence that you fit in and are ready to grab any opportunities that comes your way.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/21 07:18 AM
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I am a guy, and I don’t envy women at all. Our privileges are different and I prefer my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:11 AM
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I would even choose to be an average/unattractive man than an attractive woman, the idea of getting penetrated is not appealing to me at all, plus the freedom to do whatever and the general safety, damn, can't trade those for attention from opposite sex when most of the times it will be unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 08:26 PM
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You didn’t tip - thereby alienating the bartender Tipping is not a part of Swedish culture. I mean I have gone out 4 times with a native Swede dude and he never tipped, neither have I seen anyone tipping at the bar. Because to tip you'll have to carry cash and nobody here carries cash. But I will definitely tip him next time. You didn’t pursue the woman who was open to your advances Yeah, I feel bad about it. She was really pretty and seemed quite interested, gave me plenty of chances but I was …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:44 PM
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It’s not that bad if you keep your expectations realistic. It is definitely going to be 10x harder than if I was a tall and handsome white guy. Doing the work and not worrying about the results is one of the central tenants of Hindu philosophy. My plan is to just keep putting in honest work in gym, diet, grooming, keep putting myself out there, and let the chips fall where they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:25 AM
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Would you say Sweden is worth a vacation? Hell yeah, but make sure that you visit Norway too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:11 AM
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How? Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:36 AM
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Yeah man, people seem pretty nice to me so far, but there is a caveat, if you are not confident enough/anxious about starting conversations with people then NOBODY (figuratively) will talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 01:05 AM
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I am going to start chronicle-ing my Saturday night outs as an Indian guy in Sweden. Tonight was my 5th outing in as many weeks and I went out solo. The toughest thing going out solo in a country where your second language is also their second language is that you can’t interject into groups that easily because then everyone will have to switch to English and in the loud atmosphere of a bar/nightclub; that’s a hassle. As the night started I remarked something about the pyrotechnics the bartender…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 12:55 AM
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So there is a guy who trains at the gym I go, he's 6' or 6'1", jacked, super lean, and in Henry Cavill tier in looks department. So today I went up to him and told him, "If Sweden makes Superman then they should cast you", and he broke into a large smile and said Thank you. I am a 100% straight guy and I don't mind making someone's day. In the morning I told a girl that the jacket she was wearing is really nice and she was happy to hear that as well. I didn't linger, I said that walking and kept…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:50 PM
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Yeah, I am too old to be having crushes but it is only now that I started putting myself out there so I feel like a teenager again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:10 PM
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Yeah, she did the right thing because situations like these can turn volatile in no time. I did not bother them after that neither do I plan to in future. I will not go to that supermarket either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:49 AM
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Ah, I have been pretty ballsy like that lately and for that I was proud of myself. Sounds like you even made her boyfriend a little jealous. Lol, yeah, he came up and said “I am her boyfriend” and I looked at her and she didn’t say anything. I wouldn’t do that, I would probably let her handle a stranger dude or interject as normal without introducing myself as “her boyfriend”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:23 AM
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Ignorance is a bliss
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:20 AM
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Yes, you are very right, but as I said, I couldn’t approach her at her workplace and I did approach her at the first suitable opportunity, but it wasn’t meant to be. I mean I have been here for 8 weeks, she probably had the boyfriend when I moved here. Also the act of avoiding me was hurtful but definitely not blaming her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:19 AM
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So I moved to this new city and country and the first girl I had crush on was this tall, bronze haired girl working at the supermarket. I know it's inappropriate to hit on women when they are working so I just limited myself to the courtesy Hi that she says to everyone without even thinking. But I used to think about her a lot and used to hope how awesome it would be to run into her out in the city. Last night I was out drinking with a friend and I saw a girl who looked somewhat like her but I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:18 PM
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That was indeed a very helpful post, truly, thank you very much.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/21 09:16 AM
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Anal-ogy, have you heard of those?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:00 PM
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Thanks man, you are awesome.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/21 05:44 PM
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Hi
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:54 AM
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Mucho respecto
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:53 PM
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Goddamn, even by the description of them one can tell that you are having success. Back home we never took any pictures when me and homies hanged out, in the new country I have only one friend and we don’t take pictures either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:25 PM
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I have money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:08 PM
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I don’t have pictures so to speak, just some selfies. I could PM them to you if you are okay. I will not be using dating apps, sorry, not great for mental health. But I think I see your point, #1 step is to meet women, if I don’t do even that then nothing else matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:08 PM
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Delete this comment asap. I don’t want other men to find this key. I am eternally grateful to you Sensei, I will name my first child after you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:03 PM
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I have been here for 4 weeks, before that I spent all my life in a brown country, so no. I am 175 cms or 5’9” and damn, women here are TALL. I mean back home I might have seen a woman taller than me maybe a handful of times EVER. But if I go out here for an hour, I will see several who are taller than me. A large percentage of them are above 170 cms.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:00 PM
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Yeah, if piranhas happened to be there then they will sort out the problem from the root. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:55 PM
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I am in Scandinavia rn and I am a brown guy. Nope, no success, while I am no head turner, I believe I am like 6.5 to 7 on a good day, with a warm personality. The #1 reason I think why I never had a relationship is because I just didn’t come across women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:53 PM
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Instructions unclear, whacky worm stuck in PP. Help.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:48 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:42 PM
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Would anyone like to mentor me into getting a GF?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:34 PM
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Damn, I just want to marry a nice girl who loves me and who I love, make 1-2 babies, live a cozy and mundane life, grow old together, and when one of us dies the other one looks back fondly at the life we made and lived together. I accept the red pilled truths, but my mom and dad have a very successful marriage (except sometimes my dad is asshole by nature) and I would kill to have something like that for myself. While my dad lucked out with my mom but always struggled financially, I make plenty…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 06:14 PM
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anyone using mean tweets as an excuse for their choices is loser Didn't quite catch that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 09:04 PM
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Yeah, but stigma does stops you from doing a lot of stuff. Sometimes it's for your own good. I see no good in 18 year olds fucking on camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:58 PM
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Hey drink the poison. vs Oh you are drinking poison? You go girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:38 PM
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Producing porn at 18, taking multiple horse sized dicks of men is okay because you are getting paid for it. But god forbid if a 18 yo wants to fuck a 30 yo in the privacy of their bedroom, without monetary exchange, then that's taking advantage of barely legal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:35 PM
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The other day an old Swedish lady was telling me that it should be 50-50% in every occupation and if it is not then it's because you've created environment which doesn't favor it, I think it's a dumb argument. The goal should be that everyone irrespective of their gender should have opportunity to do something they want and after that let the pieces fall where they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:27 PM
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(28+7)/2 = 17.5, yikes. What you meant was 28/2 + 7 = 21, yay.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:06 AM
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Here you made a lot of assumptions about red pilled men. I am in no mood to counter these. You bitch and moan about the same women you want to fuck and get mad when they either don't want to fuck you and are fucking others. Then if you are able to fuck women, you complain that there are no "wife material" out there. . Because I don't think there is even one woman on this entire planet who owes me sex; I would prefer that you question what I believe rather than this caricature.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:30 PM
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You are talking to me and I represent only myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:20 PM
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No woman is consulting us before making life choices, in the same vain, we are going to do whatever the hell we want to and take full ownership of our decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:05 PM
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I never said that non-zero N-count women are whores, never saw them like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:24 PM
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That's true, which is why Red Pill advocate against committing. Others who are more relationship oriented will have to gamble. Going by how things are nowadays, I think marriage/cohabitation is incredibly risky for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:19 PM
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My ex told me about her friend who she said brings home a new guy every week. I don't know how long she's been doing it but it's safe to say that her body count is several dozen men. As I said, you are not the person this post is talking about, while we will be very glad to encounter people like you in real life, but we also have to keep an out for the other kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:14 PM
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Some people who didn't sit one day in Statistics class go around slapping "correlation =/= causation" wherever they please and then probably pat themselves on the back for the gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:11 PM
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Well, kudos to you but I don't think people like you were the topic of discussion, but as always, you had to chime in, along with the age old misinterpretation that a ho is someone who is not a virgin, so for the Nth time, most men don't have a preference for virgins, but there is a huuuuuuge difference between a has fucked a few men and someone who has fucked 12 dozen men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:00 PM
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It would be a very valuable resource for us men, so I urge you to prepare the list someday if you find time. Post it on /r/TheRedPill or something
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:20 AM
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Can you lay out a list of red flags that men should be wary of?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:25 AM
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Yeah, one would need to cover their track. I don’t have any social media account, I regularly purge and delete my Reddit accounts, know how to keep my mouth shut because talking about these things in cancel culture is one way ticket to ostracisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:43 PM
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I meant just as full of shit as anyone else, not women being exclusively full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:39 PM
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Shall I do the dirty work for you kind sir?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:08 PM
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And men who tell what pilled they are, are dumbasses. First rule of fight club is don’t talk about fight club.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:59 PM
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The self improvement, and I think the parts critical of women are necessary to knock women off the pedestal that society has put them on in average man’s mind. Once he starts seeing them as just full of shit as anyone else, he will tolerate a lot lesser bullshit then he would otherwise. Once you are free from those mental shackles and have embarked on a journey of growth then you will find greater amount of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:55 PM
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It's a reactionary tactic, if you know that women are sleeping around a lot, will replace you in a heartbeat, overall unsuitable for a LTR, then RedPill tactic is pragmatic. But the line RedPillers should toe is to not manipulate anyone into having sex with them. If Ho's want dick, give them dick, but don't create new set of Ho's.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:35 PM
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I think we have gone on entirely different track with a lot of assumptions. The debate was that everything else being equal, a promiscuous woman is more likely to cheat as compared to someone who didn't sleep around a lot. The factors driving the behaviour is secondary to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:03 PM
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I don't agree with your "constant, sometimes forever". It is completely okay for women to like sex and have sex, but having a lot of sex with one person vs sex with a lot of people is different. In the latter it reeks of constant need of thrill and novelity, it wasn't just about sex. It is difficult to keep such women satisfied in a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 11:06 AM
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Husband and wife dynamic is so far down the line that if two people are marrying without establishing sexual compatibility then it's entirely on them. It is totally fair to not get into a LTR with a person who you are not sexually compatible with, but I also think that it's not one person's job to always keep the other person satisfied and that they deserve to be replaced anytime they falter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 08:35 AM
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So you are saying in roundabout way that men are success objects, that they have to always perform and come on top else they will be replaced and how dare they seek stability at least in one aspect of their life. How dare they think about coming home to a loving wife who they haven't been able to give a good dicking in a while because they have been sick lately and stressed at work, because they absolutely deserve to be replaced with the hot neighbour who can have a sex marathon every night. Got…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:29 AM
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Someone somewhere read that correlation doesn't mean causation and slaps that statement everywhere. Rising temperatures and rising ice cream sales? Correlation exists, rising temperatures drive up the sales. Rising temperatures and more mosquitoes? Correlation exists, high temperature provides favorable breeding grounds. Therefore, correlation is not sufficient condition for causation but is necessary. Once correlation is established, you can investigate if causality also exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:21 AM
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Every man's dream girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:07 AM
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Point was to illustrate that causation will also have correlation, not necessarily vice versa. If you are picking off random women from the population, sample size is sufficiently large then that controls for confounding factors, and observe that with rising N-count the propensity to cheat is also increasing then that trend can be explained by the sexual history, and the factors at play can be theorized. The trend does not make it a law, you will have virgins cheating and extremely promiscuous w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:06 AM
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This post is about ruling out promiscuous women from LTR, so it's understood that women will be defensive about it. The go to retorts against men who have such preferences are: Virgin, incels, insecure, puritan, small PP, jealous, hypocritical etc. They also bring up men who wants to have a lot of casual sex but don't want to date promiscuous women, and pose the question how that is possible. Judging by how the same responses are parroted every time, I think no critical thought is given to why a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:39 AM
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Correlation does not necessarily mean causation, but it can certainly does in certain cases. For example, the correlation between rising temperatures and melting glaciers is both correlated and one is causing the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 05:51 AM
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Really? Let's say she lost her virgnity at 19, dated the same man until 24, stayed single for 6 months to get her bearings right, entered in another relationship that lasted until she was 27, took another 6-8 months break, met a man and married him. Such a deranged, walking red flag that every man should stay away from, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 05:47 AM
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It's definitely not for everyone, but isn't it thrilling? You are 6-7, the men and women around you don't believe in you, they tell you to settle for another 6-7. But you are one stubborn SOB and just wouldn't give up, always improving yourself and trying again. Then one day you land a tenner and the jaws of who didn't believe in you hit the floors. What's the fun in being a 10 and landing a 10? That's not winning in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:35 PM
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I think we should have a top down approach to things we want in life. That is, aim for the best, then improve and persist, then slowly start working your way down until you succeed. It's better to aim high and fail then aim low and succeed. I will always ask out a 10/10 whenever I have an opportunity, while the probability of success is low, it would be fucking awesome if by some wild luck I find someone who is into me. In the meantime I will also keep asking out 8 and 9s as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:18 PM
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Ma'am, I am speaking about what's hypothetically possible, not what's practical. Just like men can't sire hundreds of kids because of child support, women also wouldn't be able to have casual sex if it weren't for birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:11 PM
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Hypothetically speaking. This is what an average man is capable of, but such behaviour is calibrated to the society we live in. Also it was only to illustrate that biologically and socially (until now), sex has very low cost for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 04:44 PM
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Considering that an average man can impregnate 700+ women per year and hence bear around that many children, while an average woman can produce at most 1 child per year (barring twins and triplets), I think the onus lies more on the woman to choose her mate carefully. I mean it's rhetorical, but sex is such a low investment for a man, he can raw dog a woman in club bathroom and fuck off never to be seen again, it's the woman who will be stuck with the child. Men are not acting responsibly becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:40 PM
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Very well put, this writeup deserves a post of its own so that people can discuss it. I echo your thoughts, but the people who are always looking for the next best thing are usually also the ones who have plenty of options, and the people who are content with settling for good enough are those who don't have the abundance. So, abundance of options is what drives this mindset. And as an average man, you can't do jackshit about it accept watch out for when are about to be replaced and exit gracefu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:32 PM
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Welp, I was talking from the casual sex perspective. Having consensual sex with anyone of legal age is okay imo, but I agree with your viewpoint on LTRing someone way younger than yourself. In your opinion, what is the youngest woman a man in his late 20s consider for a LTR, I think that anyone over 22 should be okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:10 AM
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So military shouldn't be hiring barely legal individuals because they can't see the red flags of that occupation? Teenagers absolutely are free to do whatever they want, but if they want to fuck a 30 yo then that's fair too. I was 19 yo guy, I didn't see a big deal with fucking a 30 yo woman if she consented, but I probably wouldn't have relationship with her, not because she was older but because she would be at a different life stage and want different things. Also, at no point did I thought o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:37 AM
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That’s so cool, what kind of contribution do you make to avionics systems?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:26 AM
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What kind of work do you do? I am going to college to study aeronautical engineering
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:13 AM
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I used to think that I am 5’10”, turns out that I am barely 5’9”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:04 AM
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You are right about that. How did you find out her count? What’s the most tactful way to do that?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 04:26 PM
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Genuinely curious, what is it about her work and past that makes her more likely to cheat?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 02:47 PM
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They are average or below average. in a pool of men, they are like a C or D or maybe even an F grade. Most men's dating problems are just signaling bad genetics or an inability to make himself noteworthy or remarkable in any sense (poor, uneducated, didn't accomplish much, mediocre, etc) As a guy, I think you are right. I had a friend from childhood who used to tell me stories from his college, how girls were sliding into his DM, and staring at him when he was walking around in college. I was th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 07:09 PM
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I would keep dating a woman who said "I am going to study what interests me so that I can develop intellectually, that I can work a job that I enjoy and isn't so stressful that it will affect my life, that I can take a break from my career for a few years to care for our children in their formative years and in that time I will be comfortable in relying on you to provide for the family, that I could explore possibility of getting back in workforce when children are 5-6 years old" I will not date…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:33 PM
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Russia?
/r/askTRP08/06/21 12:28 PM
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Twitter is such a great platform to learn the nuance, I wonder when Twitter will replace blogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:05 AM
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I am aware of the terms “n-count” and others, and I do believe that promiscuous women are a riskier choice for a LTR. Onlyfans has basically allowed every girl next door to get into sex work and it’s sad. Plenty of men say women having sex is bad for them and for men. I don’t agree with these men. Women are free to do whatever they want and I don’t see anything wrong with having sex in the pursuit of or in confines of a relationship. If I am meeting a 25 yo woman then she must have had a life be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:18 PM
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Generally 10+ for a 25 yo is when it starts getting icky, single digits is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:41 PM
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Are guys scared that a slutty girl can differentiate between good dick (mine) and bad dick (theirs)? Those women didn’t stick around for your good dick, why would they stick around for his bad dick? This breeds anxiety if they have LTR in mind, if it’s just pump and dump deal then slutty women are the best for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:39 PM
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Nobody ever said that women don’t like sex, shouldn’t have sex, or sex is bad for women but whenever something is said against promiscuity then these are the go to retorts (women like sex too etc). Technically women can have plenty of sex within a committed relationship, it’s the women who have a new dick every week that are looked down upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:37 PM
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The rising promiscuity of women is the reality of today, so Redpill strategy is to use them just for that, sex. They strictly advocate against getting into a LTR with them (that’s the “weird anger” you are talking about). So, if someone can juggle through 3-5 such women then that’s consistent sex for him, then if he comes across a woman who shows traits of suitability for LTR and starting a family with, then those other women can be let go. Double standards? Hell yeah. But men and women have dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:30 PM
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