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get a therapist.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 06:57 AM
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fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:44 PM
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pr doesnt apply to anyone outside of binary they just make fun of yall
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 04:21 AM
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ALL love is conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:21 PM
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then yd they chose me? and y did it feel great for me if i was too wide? and yd they cum quick if they weren't careful?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:49 AM
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nah they stuck around cause it was great for both of us
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:41 AM
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nah they all love tight and told me as much
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:31 AM
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all the guys except the first guy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:28 AM
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nope. the first guy just had a micro.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:12 AM
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i have no kids
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:06 AM
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under the norm (:
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:46 AM
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a micropenis isnt enough even for a virgin. mines above average elasticity :D
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:58 AM
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ur getting stuck on semantics when i can feel jt i mean its tight and great for both of us and were both more than happy only micropenises are inadequate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:11 AM
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if i can feel it then clearly its not loose or i wouldnt be able to feel it. everyone ive been with has been more than happy with how it feels
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:28 PM
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feedback, the way it feels for me, the fact that i take care of myself, and how great it looks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:20 PM
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ya he was. im tight relatively. def tighter than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:47 PM
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i know its because he was exceptionally small
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:43 PM
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small penises are the ones that are small. dont need to be an md to measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:12 PM
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i dont need surgery my vag is tight. he needs micropenis surgery though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:35 PM
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nah but u can google average and micro penis sizes doesnt take much to diagnose a small ass dick just gotta look at it and see its inadequate to satisfy any woman not even a petite teenage virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:09 PM
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no. micropenis is a medical term for tiny penises
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:05 PM
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i wasnt too loose as a virgin he just had a micropenis LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:47 PM
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oh i meant that in the best possible way lmfao hes more than happy with my tightness and im more than happy with his girth. big fat dicks r the best though i lost my virginity to a pencil dick i could barely feel it its a Much tighter fit when u get urself a well endowed man feels way better than the very first time now with him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:49 PM
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I meet a communicative fuckboy and now im obsessed. he has both. So hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:20 PM
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lmfao surgery yet we can both feel it just fine :D nature wouldnt of made it so that everyone is blown out the second they lose their virginity and if it did then explain why men come back for more all over the world to every non virgin women in existence if its a black hole they wouldnt even be able to cum
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:19 AM
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im married so the ship didnt sail.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:12 AM
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im literally married and wasnt a virgin and it doesnt feel like a black hole for either of us lmao. also how tf does loving someone change the size of ur vagina?!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:03 AM
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and then sex feels like a black hole after ur wedding night? y do men keep wanting sex from the same woman and different unvirgin women all over the world constantly then if its too loose?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:55 AM
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how r u supposed to create babies with zero? how r men supposed to have sex with zero?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:39 AM
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so ur loose after sex one time? lol. in that case i guess u proved that body count doesnt even matter after virginity is lost anyhow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:12 PM
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lmfaooo im tight baby also pls tell me me how sex 10 times with the same guy makes me looser than sex 10 times with 10 separate men. id love to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:33 PM
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im a woman but no man ive ever been with has even bothered to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 08:45 PM
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Im a woman and I dont hate mgtow I think people going their own way raises standards for everyone which improves society. ofc I do not support hatred of any kind but a lot of mgtow is just talking about realistic trends in male/ female mating dynamics and then just focusing on yourself i dont see the problem with it. I do long to be happily married though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:32 AM
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As a fairly non promiscuous woman who has been with a couple very promiscuous men I can say with confidence that 'for the streets' applies just as much to them even when they dont cheat their whole brain is warped they literally cant pair-bond anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:10 AM
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its not about faking human emotions its about growing out of them. youre never going to be as pretty as a woman just accept it and move on to something that you can control. thats what being a man is all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:15 AM
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whats with reddit and thinking everyone online is a man lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:47 AM
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well thats what u get for spreading misogyny then i guess idk what else to say. hopefully theyll be reasonable with what vids they take down also its common to get warnings first and also be able to dispute videos so ya
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 11:03 PM
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nah im happy to be a woman and be called beautiful all the time 🥰 ur just so whiney its cringe id be turned off asf if i was dating u and u said all this. if u just asked for more physical compliments thatd be totally cool and id do it happily but all this bitching afterwards about value is soo unmasculine
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:50 PM
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dude get over it omfg. what r u trans or something? who cares? both everything and also nothing has "inherent" value. Man tf up. make something of yourself. women have to do so too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:00 PM
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i mean women are more beautiful. were the peacock of our species. thats just how it is. there is typically one "beautiful" gender for all types of mating animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:37 PM
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u can have a convo about how it would mean a lot to u at least once maybe they dont realize that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:46 PM
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shoulda thought of that before misogyny i guess maybe if they know its coming they can redownload their own vids or something otherwise guess u just gotta remake it 🤷‍♀️
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 04:41 PM
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have you asked your romantic partner (if/when uve had one) for compliments?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:33 PM
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fair
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:15 AM
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lol. ok so what should i do then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:15 AM
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y? thats legit what happened. I was in Spain.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:40 AM
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women cant be incels because we always get laid but ya I feel very much like the men I want are out of my league. No amount of grass touching fixes this. I just traveled for 3 months straight so all summer was touching grass and I l experienced femceldom (hoards of simps after me but only want chad who doesnt want me for more than sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:38 AM
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I definitely compliment my male partners on their physical attributes. Complimenting other men on their bodies is a lot more rare for me to do, I guess I could do it more but it feels sort of like id be objectifying them if I did or like im flirting with them and also flirting with them how a man tends to flirt hah. But maybe Ill try complimenting mens bodies more and see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:36 AM
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ya
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:24 AM
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I dont want to win meant at the expense of someone elses desire such as convincing a man to marry me only for him to cheat later or resent or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:24 AM
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the things that make me unattractive are unfixable without surgery and the surgeries arent even simple or even close to good outcomes not to mention 50k plus its not just something easy like a nosejob when it comes to me. ive never wanted children so thats fine by me. but i dont think itd fix in only one gen because everyone else in my family is attractive therefore unattractive genes still slip through and always will because unattractive people have Always mated less.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:03 AM
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im a woman (,:
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:01 AM
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for me im not attracted to men that are as unattractive as myself. and id rather have no sex than bad sex. this is very tough to work around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:25 AM
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meh. they can always edit out the misogyny and reupload.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 03:14 AM
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well no theres no true soulmate in the sense of some sort of external thing making it so but I think there can be 'soulmates' in the sense of two people working hard at it for each other. But Im losing hope because this is so rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:06 AM
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yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:57 AM
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thanks for the answer. yeah it just seems so impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:56 AM
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hope so
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 02:54 AM
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call it spinster call it sigma in the end its the same just be happy with your own company and dont worry about the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:53 PM
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ive been brutally honest about how i care about d size and neither the internet nor real life can handle it. the only ppl who can handle it are other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:14 AM
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both are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:54 PM
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facts but also i still think u can in the same way ppl can be straight or gay without trying to opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:18 PM
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sex is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:50 PM
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nobody should lower their standards everyone should raise them itll make us all better individuals and make a better society. Settling is bad. Yes no one is perfect but thats not what settling means. Being single is better than bad company which will only bring resentment and an inevitable break up anyhow. If no woman wants you just focus on your grind. Give back to the world instead of bitching.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:28 AM
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csb
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:56 AM
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not a single one i met irl 🤷‍♀️ im the only person whos ever brought it up in my whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:43 PM
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sounds like u feel very strongly about this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:24 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:40 PM
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ya i wouldnt pay for that but if he does im down
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:39 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:22 PM
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y
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:08 PM
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i know someone who got herpies the first time they had sex so and im pretty sure theres other ways to get hep c just so ya know not to like be so quick t throw that fact around like it means u failed as a person necessarily but yeah im also shocked u can even fake ur virginity tbh haha or why youd want to - dont you want a real connection based on trust? apparently not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:10 PM
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idk where u got the idea that women get off on the idea of him pleasing other women lmfaooo i get off on reality. but ya its not news to me men have sex for sexs sake and its really not that deep for them. their loss tbh. the deep shit is insane. mens lives are so 2d.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:54 PM
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lowkey facts
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:11 PM
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what do you mean by "complacent in their sexual satisfaction"?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:10 PM
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ya this post made me realize im still a child for caring about anyones opinion but my own. glad you're both happy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:09 PM
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ya he has to know what hes doing theres not just 1 special thing theres lots of special things its fun to be surprised idk what u really want me to say
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:20 AM
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lmao id love to take one out of curiosity seems like a fun experience. I wish I could polygraph a man about his intentions and how he feels about me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:41 AM
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its not that its that ur responding to an invisible situation. my post isnt about a man who asked immediately its about Me asking not immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:55 AM
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i want to know his sexual history to vet him
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:54 AM
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no ones ever even asked me and its def mot the first or second thing i ask lmfaoo idk y everyones taking this to such an insane extreme like no one ever implied this happened what r yall on
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:47 AM
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i wouldnt base a relationship on lies. even if its only a sexual exchange you should be trustworthy about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:43 AM
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ya i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:08 AM
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youre obsessed if u make one reddit post?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:07 AM
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depends on if it was a good or bad experience for you and if your partners care or not
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:41 AM
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im the one who brought it up
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:30 AM
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but 21 is an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:22 PM
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i have never wanted children since the age of 3. I always admit my mistakes, I reflect a lot and I respect the people in my life. I dont think theres a sane person on earth who doesnt think an abortion is a big deal its important that women have all the choices in that regard they could ever need but definitely not a point you want to have to get to in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:10 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:46 PM
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what morals make u a whore?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:46 PM
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everyone needs more hobbies fr
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:35 PM
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like him to me? im not a huge fan of getting it actually but if he refused to put his mouth on it thats absolutely a deal breaker who tf wants someone who doesnt want you?!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:32 PM
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Id gouge my eyes out for someone who wanted me as bad as I want them but its probably never going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:31 PM
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Im sorry youve experienced this. I dont know what to say because in order to avoid assuming anything Im the sucker who lets men escalate with me endlessly till its impossible to deny because I dont want to be called full of myself. ):
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:30 PM
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nothing i can put into words just if we dont flow with each other simply if i dont like it i cant write everything i like and dont like in a reddit comment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:27 PM
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if i felt a sexual chemistry with him the number question is just to see his character in How he answered but the literal number wouldnt stop me from going forward. Maybe the most concerning number would be 0 lol. Obviously after wed had sex Id have actual information on if I like him like that. Which is more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:13 PM
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youre right about all this. Im at the point where I need to give up hope as well and find my own satisfaction outside of relationships too. I guess its for the best. Humanity isnt really at a place worth saving right now. We all collectively need a break from each other to actually self improve. Why do men sleep with women theyd be embarrassed to be seen in public with?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:03 PM
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agree with all of this. especially that people should be working on themselves instead
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:01 PM
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hes hardly correct about anything much less that. but u have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:00 PM
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yeah its not a flex to get a lot of offers as a woman its simply a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:57 PM
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did you get mad? i wouldve.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:57 PM
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well I failed the under 5 test
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:56 PM
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can u describe more of the differences?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:34 PM
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no. because the guess isnt about the amount of offers i got its about the amount of offers i took yet somehow im still not married when i want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:02 PM
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its normal for women to want to be out of their league. imagine every sex a woman ever has leads to pregnancy - theoretically. how much sex could she then handle? 10 times in a life?? ideally with only 1 partner to secure the resources?? if the stakes were that high for your survival and the quality of your offspring youd have unrealistic standards too. the thing is 6 pack chad alpha Will still fuck a girl whos shaped like a square he just wont show her to anyone or commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:56 PM
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all women get a ton of offers for sex regardless of how they look. i know this because im literally below average and still get stopped in the street. Y do u not act feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:49 PM
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I was a bit offended I did not actually get mad at him
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:46 PM
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I want to know and Im not ashamed to tell. I want someone I can trust and have deep intimacy with about who we really are. yeah you guys stopped talking about it but u did share it and then kept interacting so it worked out fine. I agree this convo is for red flags/ finding out character in general not for 1 particular number being necessarily automatically wrong. But its an indicator. Which is why I think the convo does matter if you want to actually build trust. I agree the behaviour you descr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:43 PM
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i mean a bit but not a lot and not in front of him
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:37 PM
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ya i think the fewest possible to find love makes total sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:36 PM
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I agree in real life no man has ever asked me im always the one who asks so I guess Im the one who cares but its not that theres actually a wrong number to answer Im just trying to see what hes like for my sexual and emotional health and safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:51 PM
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I agree I also trust ppl generally
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:26 PM
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generally
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:25 PM
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I guess I more meant that you dont know for sure especially if she doesnt want to tell you idk. Only she can know for 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:23 PM
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i pair bond Too much. if there was a gold medal for catching oneitis Id earn it. I agree though that this mechanism cant survive endless men but for now mine is still more intact than is even fair for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:22 PM
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because i was in a long term relationship with them and a literal child so unable to get married also definitely shouldnt of been getting married that young. my marriage not working out had absolutely nothing to do with sex related issues of any kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:19 PM
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howso?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:16 PM
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im not my body count is 8 i said that. and it has changed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:15 PM
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so if someones is lower than this what do you think that means about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:13 PM
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guess so. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:05 PM
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femsapien is literally divorced. I dont want to become more masculine but I dont think I have a literal choice in the matter because I dont have a man. Ill try my best I guess to preserve as much femininity as I can somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:05 PM
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I did the opposite I settled down at 20 and tried casual sex after divorce. Last person I was with wanted marriage and I broke up with him because I wasnt sexually attracted to him. Id rather be celibate than have bad sex. Im a bit surprised how many people are saying 8 is high only tbh never heard it in real life but I also feel similarly myself that its kind of high. Just googled that the average is 6 or something and kind of surprised. But hey.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:00 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:57 PM
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if their counts r way higher and that is less desirable and their behaviour affects peoples perception of me then yes all of this would check out as simply being fact. yeah guess I am dragging u down lol. Dude, its really not that deep when it comes to my word choice here. I dont actually care other women do at all. My friends have all sorts of different types of lifestyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:54 PM
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that I can not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:53 PM
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lmao have i? thats a pretty bad sign for most men tbh. but i guess maybe it really does check out because the way most men approach me is absolutely ineffective. sad world. what can you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:51 PM
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but i cant structure my life off a man either. im my own human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:48 PM
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lmao ive never been a feminist. but i wouldnt be single now if i was perfect. i should just focus on my own grind. maybe its too late for me regardless in this crazy world. it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:46 PM
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ok. yeah ive heard this a lot. but how can you do this while also being confident and having your own like life wheres that balance?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:40 PM
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its not 24 though...I have the reddit wipe your account clean button too lol. i have literally never once read someones post history to win an argument thats ad hominem. everyone cares about everything. if i didnt care i wouldnt of made this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:36 PM
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regardless of age? 10 for a whole life seems kind of low to me. But if thats your opinion thats fair
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:36 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:34 PM
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y r u a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:34 PM
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this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:32 PM
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I do act feminine. Any tips on acting feminine to see if Im covering my bases?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:15 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:54 PM
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sensible answer thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:46 PM
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i agree ive Never met anyone who asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:29 PM
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honestly I fucking agree at this point. Idk y I care what ppl think so damn much. I should grow out of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:23 PM
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agreed I tried hookup culture with literally 3 men Total was beyond over it. Its not actually that fun for most of us haha. I shouldve never even tried it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:20 PM
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lmao. well he said 30 which i think was a genuine guess i said no 8 which is the genuine truth and then we moved the fuck on the conversation. I dont know what I wouldve said if someone said 100 Id probably laugh and be like "no way, why?" I wouldnt take it seriously if it was that high of a guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:19 PM
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I take 3 different dance classes. I still like to go out dancing too. freestyle is completely different to learning choreography. I always look for the 1 or few people who are dancing for their own enjoyment like me theyre the real ones <3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:16 PM
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its not an indictment if it wasnt i wouldnt keep and love my hoe friends
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:16 PM
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women get attached men dont
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:15 PM
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ya
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:05 PM
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how could i of asked what i did in this post without being a pick me about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:59 PM
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how did they find out though? thats sad but I guess it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:57 PM
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i disagree going out dancing is one of my favorite things because i genuinely dance all night i dont drink or anything and ive never met a guy dancing that i did anything with ever not even once. ive exchanged numbers but never actually made the effort to hang out with them after
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:57 PM
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they will. the internet isnt real life. its a dramatization of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:55 PM
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no y
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:53 PM
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I dont care about a mans count I care about our sexual chemistry them being honest about their sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:43 PM
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y
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:31 PM
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howso? What should I do instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:31 PM
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but when your interactions end with that person, youre not sad? How does it usually end for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:29 PM
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thats u. my friends from 15yrs ago had higher body counts back then than I have all these years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:23 PM
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well for me I ask about sexual history either for curiosity of just getting to know a person platonically because its a thing to know and I guess Im a perv OR I ask potential sexual partners so I have a better idea of their habits with translates directly to what potential risk factors Im exposing myself to by being with them. Its not a competition at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:21 PM
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I find it fascinating that people can feel the way I do but also have high turnover. How do you move on so fast if it was "real"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:18 PM
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He did believe me. I asked him to guess before telling him thats all. I was just curious how I came across compared to reality. I totally agree about the un-managed baggage, lack of accountability, and bad attitude part. You worded it so perfectly. Its all about what you do with the cards youve been dealt.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:12 PM
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Lol my body count is 8. and yeah I am a bit worried about it - I feel like 8 is sort of high tbh. But I guess reddit is also like an interactive journal and Im just exploring my own feelings and will eventually move on from these questions and feelings and grow into a different version of me. Thanks for being here!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:11 PM
3

I am happily not in the us. your country is doing terribly for womens safety especially now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:09 PM
2

There was no consequences to his guess. I like his personality a lot. We had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:07 PM
3

im a 4.5. You realize how I look doesnt affect my ability to say "no" right? Nicola tesla was gorgeous and celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:04 PM
2

Not sure. I guess I dont feel like I can be intimate in most friend groups but feel like I can really get to know people with 1on1 quality time and I just prefer it maybe Im shy. My dad is super codependant so maybe its a huge turn off from that shitty example of manhood. But Idk I also just find it so natural to be attracted to a very masculine man. Its admirable. I was married to a man like that but acknowledge I probably wont find another guy like that who will want to get married now that it…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:03 PM
10

yes everything matters. For me personally what concerns me is my integrity. I really want to know within myself that the people I shared my body with truly deserved to share that experience with me and I truly liked them for them and that sex was just an extension of that. I want to be real in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:58 PM
4

how do you "behave" like your body count is 8? Genuinely interested lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:55 PM
3

Lol. y cant it be 8? its gotta be 8 at Some point like?? how old was I supposed to be for it to be 8? 16??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:54 PM
2

ait. I dont see the humour in it but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:51 PM
9

everything you do affects you so to a very real but hard to always describe extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:45 PM
2

that sounds like a lot Im sure the sex drive will pick back up after the task of baby-rearing has passed <3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:43 PM
6

Im not so offended I got mad at him Im just curious what people think. But now Im seeing I need to be way less curious what people think and just live.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:40 PM
2

Is that high? Ok. Sometimes I think it is too. Whats the right number for an entire lifetime in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:39 PM
2

I do make up my own mind but yeah I could still improve on this. There is value in being good though, for example I also want to eat a whole cake but I dont. Im not taking part in any shunning thats y I dont cut out my friends for sleeping around despite the comments saying I should.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:38 PM
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its really not that deep. im just saying the words that make the point the fastest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:36 PM
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Youre right I should be secure enough not to rethink things just because of what other people think. Im not annoyed at women I just chose that wording to describe that their actions change the assumptions about times Ive restrained myself (I have a really high sex drive).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:35 PM
2

how is your sex life in your marriage if you dont mind me asking? Just genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:34 PM
2

29 says in post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:33 PM
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how can they tell? im just curious. Because actually I did sleep with this guy "friend" and after he told me that he liked something I did and referred to it literally as being what I had been "taught" however its something I do purely because it feels good to me and seems dead obvious that it would be better for him too and that Im sure Ive been doing since day 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:32 PM
2

It doesnt have to be wild it has to be real. The realness is what makes it new.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:26 PM
2

yeah im a woman so my close female friends tell me. doesnt mean theyre going to tell men or the world in general. im talking about super close friendships over a decade of knowing certain women fam. thats dif.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:14 PM
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youre not wrong bonobo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:08 PM
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youre right im not the one judging. but the judgement is wrong nevertheless. My male friend doesnt know the company I keep. Im a mostly 1on1 friendships kind of person almost none of my friends know each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:08 PM
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oh, the male conference? I mean yeah as a woman I Definitely conference with other women about the character of men. One time we found out that one of my friends went on a date with a Literal murderer. I guess I just have a thing for men that dont need to conference anyone. Hyper independence is super hot to me. My social media is for other women primarily. Mainly close friends and my mom hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:03 PM
3

ya
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:01 PM
2

yeah. It makes me very sad but I will be ok in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:59 PM
8

yes initially im a really trusting person though I really try to give people a chance to prove me wrong, to a fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:58 PM
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i finally found a virtuous aspect of my oversharing nature haha! thanks. i will literally tell anyone who will listen everything i ever did its bad i need to learn to leave people wanting more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:56 PM
3

howso?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:53 PM
5

im smarter than a lemon thanks tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:51 PM
4

My body count was 2 before I got married. Im no longer married but yeah to me this number checks out for young people who exercise restraint.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:48 PM
2

yeah I guess it does depend on how you define sex. How do men count sex? Because for example this man who guessed me at 30 claimed 1thousand for himself. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:43 PM
0

?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:39 PM
5

I feel like Im too old at this point and Im trying to just kind of process that and find the strength and meaning to accept that and move on to other tasks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:36 PM
4

yes they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:35 PM
2

nah. proverb cant touch me. I hold my own frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:34 PM
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I agree being good doesnt protect you from the real world. I've learnt this the hard way too. I also agree that it matters more online than in real life. However it does still matter in real life. Absolutely do what you want to do. But at the same time its important for both genders to have impulse control, especially women. Because women are different than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:31 PM
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Its just reality fam. Im not judging other women I literally said I dont care what other ppl do. I agree I shouldnt care what this guy guessed either but at the same time it means I am being type-casted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:29 PM
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yes. it means they dont value loyalty if they dont want loyalty. which means theyre disloyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:23 PM
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lmfaoo this is basically the whole point of my post. Why would I lie anonymously on reddit? Like you do realize it has to be 8 before its 24 so is it because Im too old for it to be 8? Or like what is it? Again, why is there even so much talk about womens body count given what your comment directly proved right now? Which is that you will never know because I cant prove it and you cant prove it and you wont believe me anyhow so what is the damn point?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:15 PM
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no. because you cant pick someone worth being loyal to who wants to be loyal to you. poor impulse control.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:12 PM
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mines 8 so. Hand on heart. But yeah for someone else it is actually 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:01 PM
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yeah its something ppl who cant be loyal do. Generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:00 PM
3

ya thats what im sayin is it because of something about me or is it the general population
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:33 PM
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yup
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:33 PM
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no it affects men and women differently because we have different biological imperatives. no religion lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:53 AM
3

nice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:47 AM
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its not a weird way to phrase it its literally the definition. slutty people arent loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:38 AM
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:) how does someone practice altruism in your opinion? i ask because ive read philosophy that argues against its existence so Im just genuinely curious how people express it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:37 AM
3

im happy you did <3 what qualities do made you know she was the one?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:30 AM
5

ppl who sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:24 AM
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it changes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:24 AM
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how slutty they are lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:21 AM
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best indicator of a certain aspect of someones character yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:19 AM
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no its the number because the number is an action quantified. there are other actions that quantify other aspects of a persons character yeah. but for the vast majority of men who care about womens body count there is no action that can make up for this other than this it simply is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:16 AM
2

ok cool. thats fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:10 AM
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yeah because how slutty my female friends are as a heterosexual woman in a platonic relationship with them has literally zero effect on the times we share together
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:07 AM
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I think the thing is is that a persons character can only be proven by their actions. Body count is a very real tangible action. Apart from the fact that you often cant prove the actual number ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:07 AM
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oh I will gladly tell a man my trauma if he only asks no need to mask. I cant hide who I am, all I can do is fight my odds with dignity and grace.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:01 AM
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sure. but also not really because it makes me smarter to know people who are vastly different than me instead of living in a bubble. I think your friends affect you more when youre very young and then less so. I dont know. As a very general vague statistic yeah sure probably but, eh, its a very 1 dimensional way of looking at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:57 AM
3

ok fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:52 AM
4

ok but what does that have to do with my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:52 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:35 AM
3

Sorry Im a bit confused? I don't have any records to purge.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:35 AM
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yeah cause u used that preach analogy not me lol. i practice. no preaching necessary <3 what am i doing wrong? I am being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:12 AM
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I do practice what I preach except I dont actually preach it because I dont care to convert anyone and it doesnt affect me how they are. Im solid as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:05 AM
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yeah. Im not cutting out my close female friends who I love because theyre hoes thats their journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:58 AM
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Ive never dated a man who uses social media or shares a friend group with me. I guess Im kinda into the alone but not lonely masculine man type - I think the internet is calling that sigma now lmao but like genuinely those kind of men not fakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:55 AM
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I agree. Talk is cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:53 AM
8

true. just fight your odds with grace and dignity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:52 AM
7

i keep all sorts of company though, not only dogs. Ive never been one to be swayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:52 AM
15

yes I do it for myself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:36 AM
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but Im close with people who are vastly different than me. People have different reasons for why they do what they do, my friends dont define me I do. Thats why my body count is significantly lower than all of them. Also Im very open in other ways for example how I dance. So people assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:35 AM
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yeah but women also do this to themselves by sticking around without commitment. ur not being held hostage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:42 PM
1

no. but the reality is what i find attractive is what most people do too so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:39 PM
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ur a troll lol u think women owe u exceptions but u dont owe women any hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:41 PM
1

enjoy yours you should be more humble and marry the ugliest person you meet theres no good reason not to other than u acing privileged
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:27 PM
1

it is equal short is an ugly trait in men it literally is ugly just like a fat woman is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:09 PM
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so u dont have to compromised on what i like but u dont? im not ugly so i dont have to date a short man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:44 PM
1

its selfish u wont date the ugliest woman. someone had to love her why not u?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:13 PM
1

how about u just date the ugliest woman u can possibly find so that she can feel good?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:24 PM
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my literal first comment was that they should just workout. My life is not a charity. I date who I am attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:18 PM
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yeah i cant help what turns me on nor do i have to i look good enough and there are enough men taller than me because im fairly short that its simply not an issue in my life at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:40 AM
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unless u only get turned on by women who are so sexually ambiguous u cant tell if theyre woman man or neither or both go stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:42 AM
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nope. men and women are different and men and women like different things in their partners. most women want to feel protected which is hard to feel with a short little man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:26 AM
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because women are the selectors of valid dna.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:39 AM
1

no. im not the height of a child but a man shorter than me is. it is a feminine dymorphic trait to be shorter than a male this is well documented.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:37 AM
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the entire point is actually simply Nobody likes doormats and its toxic to like this and for some reason men still cant compute that simping and being nice as a fake performance to get pussy crumbs doesnt mean women like mean men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:20 PM
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no i think that the semantics of it are literally the entirety of this made up issue. because were having a convo about y women dont like nice guys implying we like mean guys but that isnt the truth at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:38 PM
1

no
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:33 PM
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the key word in ur story is the word doormat. theres a dif between nice and doormat. hence my whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:12 PM
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i dont guilt trip men for being short what would be the point? im just not into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:08 PM
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i dont wear heels but im just not turned on by short guys they look like children to me i want to look up to my man its my preference im allowed to feel how i do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:07 PM
1

most of the time but ive never made the effort to start a convo with them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:00 PM
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the main flaw is that he devalues women who have uncommitted sex however also expects to receive uncommitted sex and then demonizes them for giving him the thing he wants as well as the thing he claims he deserves. It cant be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:56 PM
5

some things shouldnt be compromised on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:29 PM
1

oh yes baby
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:23 PM
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this is fucking valid asf. i dont prefer short guys and i feel extremely bad for the fact that u guys can not help it. there are many things i cant help about my looks but weight i absolutely can. better to be single than with someone who wont Even workout.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:21 PM
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u can have low standards and still not so low that youll date fat ppl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:19 PM
1

im a woman and I guess Ill just say Im attracted to masculinity the healthy kind of course many of the traits OP listed. Strong, dependable, calm, kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:42 AM
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false. Its just men think that genuinely nice makes up for other qualities that we also need.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:40 AM
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Im a woman and I couldnt disagree any less with this title. Girl - just workout!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:39 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:50 AM
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he could date a 3 or 4/10 if he met her in person. your example man is never getting Stacy so idk y ur even bringing her up. U do have a shot with ur looksmatch though or even slightly abouve. and that shot will increase greatly in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:11 PM
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then y not ban incels too? also no, whats the point of sharing opinions if only some opinions can be shared?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:52 PM
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I did. For years. They still suck. I cant just tell them to have confidence and an innate sense of sensuality. I asked my once ltr to put his fingers down my throat and instead he scraped the skin off the roof of my mouth. Some ppl got it some dont. And those who have it tend not to want to settle down. Unlike those who dont. Its a personality thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:11 PM
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tall, broad shoulder, big d, strong jaw, thick curly hair. honestly this post is stupid because its obvious what we like. But I have liked buys with none of these or only a couple and was still happy as a clam so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:37 PM
2

wait y would u get less smart with age? what do u even mean based on 10s, 10 what? You can extremely easily lie about ur body count. Why is there this narrative that everyone single near 30 partied or were slutty or both? Some ppl did very little of either but are still single.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:33 PM
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no I do not. Im not a doctor or a fertility specialist. But 30 sounds way too young for women maybe 35 women 40 men seems more accurate to what I observe in real life. Maybe men do have slightly more time but we do not emphasize enough that they dont have as much time as they think nevertheless. And to answer the "who wants to be 40 with a kid?" the answer is Everybody who is 40 and still doesnt have the kid(s) they wanted. The aforementioned man I broke up with is 43. So ya. Men hit their wall …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:28 PM
2

ya its a social pressure to have kids that hurts women more than their ticking clocks. yes the clock does tick we are all in a state if dying but this isnt gender specific only the social pressure part is. In fairness though I have a female friend who was desperate to have a kid at only 23 and had it literally with her ex from years ago to raise all on her own. She just snatched his sperm and knowingly signed up for single motherhood. Some people just Really want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:24 PM
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their window is not longer. their sperm quality drops just as quick. most couples struggling to conceive its because of the man. albeit the woman carries the biggest by far burden of needing to be young and healthy to support the baby but all in all we age about the same rate fertility wise its just we play different roles in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:21 PM
2

that sucks for him, I hope he does find someone eventually. It is hard being single when you do not want to be ):
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:17 PM
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Im 28 now and I broke up with most recent partner because he desperately wanted kids due to his age. Men on the internet wanna flex like they have this power over women because only we want the babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:13 PM
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i have a 25 yr old little brother who has wanted 6 kids since he was a toddler and also have had some amazing male partners so im not really into the whole "men are incompetent lovers/ parents" thing. It is simply not true. All Im saying is that ppl in general feel a pressure at 30 not just women. And many ppl want marriage + kids not just women. And both genders age including aging in terms of fertility, not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:12 PM
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a couple men actually who i met almost a decade ago have been coming out of the woodworks probably because were All turning about 30 plus lockdown loneliness and just thinking theyre welcome in my life and checking if im single. Theyre def feeling the ticking clock more than me because they reached out. And its really weird cause these are guys I was never close with. Yeah I get why you wouldnt be down because I feel the same way. Im offended that theyre desperation contacting me when they clear…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:59 PM
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ya this guy i hooked up with who didnt even treat me like I was anything just turned 30 and hit me up for children out of nowhere 😭 men Def have the same clock as us. its just misogyny wants to shame women for existing, aging, procreating. all the standard things living beings do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:41 PM
1

and quality of eggs decreases with age most importantly of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:32 PM
2

cool. there can be a lot of problems happening to young moms and its Still MORE LIKELY in older women. do u just refuse to acknowledge that aging makes the body function worse? hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:48 PM
5

i wont be eating my parents faces but, i def am just waiting for them to die for the money so like is that really so great?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:43 PM
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I dont understand why we pretend only women switch at this age. My ex who is 33 is Really feeling the pain of being a childless man and unmarried right now. I think its just that mortality sets in around 30 for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:39 PM
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Im so glad I never wanted kids so this pressure doesnt hit as hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:36 PM
1

more likely in older individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:34 PM
1

and? ur still increasing the risks of these things with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:33 PM
2

ya u still have eggs but the quality of the eggs dna is deteriorated significantly. also your body is less capable of handling a pregnancy. also less energy to recover from one, less energy to raise it, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:33 PM
2

the fact that ur out here sexualizing ppl and then getting mad at them for the fact that u did is pretty disturbing. get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:50 AM
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a certain type of outfit does not equate to sexualizing. its just an outfit. worry about urself its truly not that deep. maybe u should wear a full burkha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:07 AM
2

scat, injuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:17 AM
1

if its way too small or if i dont like the way he tastes when fresh out the shower or if he has kinks he needs that i cant bring myself to do ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:35 PM
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closure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:05 PM
3

youre way too old to reliably find a virgin. try converting to a strict religion this might up your chances of finding one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:09 PM
1

be attractive dont be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:04 AM
1

because personality can makeup for lack of looks in person but we women cant sense that by a profile alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:13 PM
1

ur either an incel or we have to find u and protect any further women from sleeping with u
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:41 AM
1

enjoy inceldom
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:21 AM
1

👌
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:20 AM
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*some men. my point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:18 PM
1

cry when no woman trusts their sexuality with you :D
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:14 PM
1

oh. ya i mean if thats the case then I would def warn this guy if I was his good friend. But otherwise Id stay out of it because its just going to make me look weird and bad and he prob wont even believe me anyway so. Even with my good friends a lot of times they dont heed my warnings about guys anyway and often I think that me even trying will just make me look like Im a jealous hater from the outside even if Im not so I just dont say anything. People arent going to listen in general. So you ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:18 PM
1

whats AF/BB?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:08 PM
3

I dont want a man who ran a train on a woman and I especially dont want a man who thinks its ok for him to run a train but not ok for the woman he runs it on. Thats a disgusting level of misogyny. No woman wants that. We should warn women of all men like this before they get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:07 PM
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the internet is not the united states.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:00 PM
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but tell her just to be safe before she gets married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:57 PM
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THIS. Op mad he was the only guy not invited. Giving Randall from Recess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:55 PM
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Why do men try to sleep with anyone and everyone they can and watch a bunch of violent porn but then settle for the most decent inexperienced woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:53 PM
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since when is she a gold digger?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:51 PM
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notice how if the roles were reversed it wouldnt even be a post??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:47 PM
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Depends, are you also going to tell every single one of those men's girlfriends/ wives about what they did??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:36 PM
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lmao i think this person is a troll. Ive never heard of anyone claiming this before in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:33 PM
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Its your call but unless he is your close friend and you know he doesnt like this I wouldnt because you might just embarrass yourself and look like a hater for nothing. You dont know shes doing anything wrong all youre really doing here is contributing to a society where women cant be sexual and loveable which is super weird and unhelpful. For example, maybe he knows and was happy with it until you put the societal pressure on him to have a problem with it by bringing it up. And maybe women in h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:53 PM
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well I mean you know personally. Or else you wouldnt be asking this question. The only person whos views on this are being triggered by her past is yours directly. Anything you may want to say to him is quite literally a projection of your own individual views 100%. No theories needed. Were you involved in these activities too? If so, are you embarrassed of yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:30 PM
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y?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:17 PM
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how exactly did u come to decide women think about gay men? this is such a weird conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:50 PM
2

lmao what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:44 PM
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men are very simple to please.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:42 PM
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y wouldnt he?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:41 PM
7

? y would i think about gay men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:39 PM
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u made my point. most guys all like the same thing. ur the outlier here. not a woman with any normal amount of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:37 PM
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What exactly is the objective in telling him this? I genuinely dont get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:34 PM
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really? im not a hoe but i still feel like its not that hard to be objectively good. i feel like it varies more by mood than the specific guy. men arent complicated like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:16 PM
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np :D
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:09 PM
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Im a woman and I do not think about gay men a lot hahaha wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:02 PM
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not cute. Id be embarrassed to be her for sure. Women are sometimes socialized to be like this though and some men like this/ accept this. Much fewer women like/ accept this from men. Just a reality. I definitely as a woman would not want to be like this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:35 PM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:28 PM
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yup. ty :) A lot of people ask this question over and over "women say they want an emotional man but then when we're emotional they dont" I was just finally answering it. Some people genuinely dont know that there is a difference between feeling your emotions and reacting inappropriately to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:27 PM
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women do. But the majority of us will never be turned on my someone worse than us at this skill. I know I wont. If men feel the same way then dont date an emotionally unstable woman. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:24 PM
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Im just saying what we want 🤷‍♀️ So far in my life yeah, personally I've always been with this kind of man. Men that are emotionally available for my feelings and stable in their own. Men are naturally more stable so the unstable ones are a big turn off for the majority of women. My partner is literally a therapist so yeah he is both connected to his feelings and solid in navigating them and able to help me and others navigate ours. Its a protector/ leader quality. It is extremely hot. Again, we…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:45 AM
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we want men to be emotional. Emotionally Mature. Not emotionally unstable/ ill. Thats the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:01 AM
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idk ive met some very picky men too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:26 PM
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and men need to settle too 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:44 PM
1

im married to someone whos 6 foot 4 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:23 PM
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Im aware. But some women claim it doesnt matter Im saying it def does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:02 PM
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not everybody but i dont need everybody just 1 person. and there are Many who feel like i do :D
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:02 PM
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I dont understand the last panel of this image. But I am a woman who 100% fetishizes tall men. Its SO hot. Obviously there are many other factors to a good partner but, tall will always make my jaw drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:14 PM
1

normal people settle for what is realistic so that they can have a romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:11 PM
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youre nobodys #1.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:34 PM
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because my best friend is paired up with someone she is sexually attracted to. see how that works? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:34 PM
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nah. I was single for 5 years straight doing fine but then going on the 6th year i finally got exhausted of Never having a So on my side for anything and realized singleness is not worth it and im done being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:33 PM
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i dont fuck my bros because im a straight female. what the actual fuck is with the internet and assuming everyone on it is male?!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:45 AM
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no :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:59 PM
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im a woman :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:18 PM
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yes u do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:45 PM
1

platonics arent there for u as much
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:45 PM
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u need them to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:44 PM
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well trust and believe me, youll regret ur stubbornness when theres no one by your side when you really need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:43 PM
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No I wont trust and believe you because I have also lived a life not just you. I prefer dating someone Im not attracted to over being completely alone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:10 PM
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its really not. 99% of us works jobs we dont like because its the best we can do and the alternative of no job is the larger disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:09 PM
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but then nobody is going to date you either by that logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:48 PM
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Yes, but also women just as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:46 PM
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as a woman who is not like this i dont care how other women are. i dont think it is the best approach for most because of long term outcomes but i think it is the perfect approach for some women it depends on what kind of person you are. only way it affects me is that some men assume ill be easy too just because others are. but thats the mens fault for making stupid assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:02 AM
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the shortest one has waited is a day the longest approx 3 months. most men start giving up at the 3 month mark in my personal experience. the faster i give it up the less they value me. i think the need for women to wait is largely created by men. either because men dont value you when you have sex early or because women are afraid of men in general and dont have sex early for that reason. either way its mostly men the way I see it that hold women back from free sexual expression.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 12:32 PM
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op even said herself that her date said that women like it he did not however seem to say that he himself liked it so this would suggest just like you said that he is simply trying to cater to what he thinks women want or put on the table that hes willing to do those things. This does not mean its actually what he himself wants. Maybe he does. But thats not what he said. He said women want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 11:14 AM
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id imagine more women than men love it. you said most men love it tho. im simply saying i strongly doubt most men love this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:41 AM
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wtf kinda men r u meeting that most like fisting?!?!? most men like women not loose enough to fit a fucking fist lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:20 AM
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im a woman who doesnt do this. almost everybody finds me unagreeable. this post seems to have a tone of women are more flaws than men for doing this more often and yet society punishes those who dont do this. and that goes for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:04 PM
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omg thank you. can I dm you? youre the only one who seems to understand that just cause its casual doesnt mean its 7-minutes warning casual
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:36 PM
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yes. we want to the the prettier one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 12:43 PM
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Misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:49 AM
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Even obese people prefer fit bodies generally. So I think it will cause both genders to pair up less because people think their own flaws can be forgiven more than they are willing to accept the flaws of another even when it is the identical flaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 01:00 PM
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