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Both genders chest and their is no justification for it, why they do it is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:49 AM
0

Bro women weren’t spared from the front lines because society valued them lol..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:08 PM
1

Yeah if that’s the way you view it more power to you but that just gives me the creeps. I’m a guy that’s had a promiscuous past and I know from my own experience the amount of sexual partners you’ve had doesn’t make you a good or bad potential partner. It might have some small background impact but to pick and choose who you date based on that fact is just creepy in my humble opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:58 PM
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It’s funny because I’ve found it’s actually the total opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:53 AM
2

Even after you explained it I still don’t know what it means
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:56 AM
4

Well if you think sex is better with a virgin because they are “cleaner” I have some news for you..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:40 AM
3

Red Pill dudes think way more about Chad’s than women do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:26 AM
2

How is that equivalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:10 AM
3

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:08 AM
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You hear them though, they congregate here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:54 AM
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Average men do it too just not as much
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:18 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:09 AM
11

Huh? This is not true at all lol you’re projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:42 PM
27

From what I see in my part of the world yeah it applies to young people too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:42 PM
41

Body trends change every generation though we see it over and over again. When you go out side and mingle amongst people what you see is majority of couple being relatively looks matched with the occasional outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:39 PM
67

I genuinely don’t understand the point of this post. Your SMV is literally who you are capable of attracting. If you can’t attract many women then you are in a low league.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:25 PM
2

First I don’t think that follows, if you do well with women why even bother with tinder? Secondly when it comes to women thinking 80% of men on tinder are below average in looks, if you’ve had a look at girls tinder like I have you’ll probably become aware of just how many average looking guys have terrible photos on their profile
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:57 AM
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But surely there are a lot of these “chad” types who are very successful with women and aren’t swiping on dating apps. This would skew the data so you would expect more average and below average men on tinder and such
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:33 AM
7

Just taking that at its world wouldn’t it seem reasonable that the guys using dating apps are more likely to be below average since above average men have less need for dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:18 AM
1

Of course they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:22 AM
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She already explained it to you. You don’t start out be telling her how good your going to treat her and all the nice things you’re going to do. You just do those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:49 AM
4

It’s a privilege to babysit a man child? Lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:39 PM
0

The guys are usually far also be real
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:24 PM
2

The real truth is there is no objective standard to measure against. What you say is high another will say is low and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:21 AM
3

I you listen closely what they say is looks isn’t always the first factor that comes into play, they aren’t saying they actively look for ugly oriole to date like you’re implying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:47 PM
6

If you have this attitude online you obviously have it offline as well. Do you think it’s some kind of flex to know care about making people uncomfortable? It ain’t dude
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:40 AM
6

I’d say it’s just human decency to not actively make the people you engage with uncomfortable but thats just me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:08 AM
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People with attitudes like this are the kind of guys that creep tf out of women honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:39 AM
1

I highly doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:35 AM
3

Sure that’s a natural human reaction, it’s also self destructive. It’s also not something that can be changed on a fundamental level.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:36 AM
5

And a lot of unattractive women aren’t wanted by unattractive men, you only need to find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:24 AM
5

I don’t know why it’s so difficult to understand. Unattractive men date unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:59 AM
0

If you are casually dating maybe less so, if you live together for instance they definitely still are expected to do those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:21 PM
1

You can claim anything you like
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:52 AM
0

That’s impossible to quantify, you cannot claim there are not a lot of guys that fit this description though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:34 AM
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Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but nobody is born with actual inherent value, man or woman. Also, if you think women aren’t expecting in 2023 to cook clean contribute financially to a relationships you’re living under a rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:11 AM
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Yeah that’s no even close to true buddy. The “nice guy” isn’t always unattractive. The nice guy usually has one of many potential character flaws wether ugly or not, they try and mimic “nice” behaviour to try women into thinking they are genuinely nice and when they get rejected they lash out at said woman. Actual nice guys handle rejection with respect and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:12 PM
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You know exactly what I’m taking about. “Nice Guys” are just guys that pretend to be nice to try and get girls to sleep with them. Actual nice guys are nice to everybody. I’m talking about the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:51 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:32 AM
0

🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:28 AM
0

The same equivalence doesn’t exist because more men are trying to woo women than the reverse. These “nice guys” try to manipulate women into liking them and are furious when it doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:09 AM
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Women don’t compare themselves to men.. they compare themselves to their women. In the same way a guy might do okay with dating there are always better men that make them feel insecure and insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:25 AM
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Because most awful men are good at disguising it until they have you under their control
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:56 PM
0

😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:27 AM
3

That’s why ideally you should be self improving for your own happiness and well being not to get girls. There are people that struggle to self motivate and this obviously wouldn’t help your chances in dating. If you’re gunna complain about not getting dates don’t be mad if someone tells you why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:27 AM
1

So date suggest somewhere between 45-55% of adult Americans are in relationships. You think 50% of guys that comment in PPD are in relationships? Obviously not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:36 AM
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Really? You don’t think the pill sites have single people as the majority of content engagers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:32 AM
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Sure, some women do that. More men do the opposite on reddit. The problem with these reddit debates on reddit dating sub doesn’t accurately reflect the dating landscape in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:29 AM
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No they don’t, they just point out both sides have upsides and downsides in dating when reddit sites try to act like there is no downside to being a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:26 AM
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Lower standards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:22 AM
6

Seriously we get it guys, dating is better for women in most areas.. what is the point in repeating the same sentiment ad nauseum? Will getting people to concede what we all know change this? Not a single bit. Honestly find something constructive to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:21 AM
6

And all the women that aren’t your acquaintances you know their lives too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:03 PM
40

The thing about invisible women is they are difficult to notice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:43 AM
68

How would you witness these women not getting attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:33 AM
2

It hasn’t hindered me so maybe this is an exceptional circumstance
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:10 AM
9

Bro wtf is this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:07 AM
1

Being saying this on here for the longest. I’ve never heard a rational counter to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:04 AM
2

Are they getting dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:57 PM
1

It’s not easy to teach your partner to improve, some people are just bad, other people are also just incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:17 AM
4

Some yes and some no
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:46 AM
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I’m a dude and she’s absolutely right. There are many women that don’t mind being approached you just have to read the situation. If you get it right it’s fine if you get it wrong you create an uncomfortable situation. It’s just the way it is and it’s nobodies fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:35 PM
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They aren’t mutually exclusive..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:01 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:56 PM
4

How is that wrong? That’s a statement of people misusing stoicism not a criticism of stoicism itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:57 AM
2

I’ll be honest I don’t think I’ve ever seen or heard a single woman comment on stoicism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:30 AM
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I’ve never experienced a relationship where my partner lost interest in me because I showed emotion, it’s always been the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:13 PM
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Guys get the exact same feeling lol. Having a creepy or unattractive girl pestering you is uncomfortable af
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:50 AM
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I treat everyone with respect until they show me they don’t deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:03 PM
2

Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:43 PM
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Many things qualify as creepy behaviour. Just a few examples might be approaching someone who is trying to avoid you, introducing sex into a casual conversation, stalking and messaging women online that don’t know you, pressuring someone for conversation when they are dropping hints that they aren’t interested. There are many more examples different people are creeped out by different things ultimately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:01 AM
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If they display creepy behaviour then absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:54 AM
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I’ll take that as a no buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:48 PM
1

Answer the question dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:36 PM
0

Plenty of attractive guys out there that don’t earn heaps of money, I’d you’re only average looking you’ll have to date looks matched girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:08 AM
2

You’ve made some good points here, I’ve experienced them in my single days
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:09 AM
1

A dude with no money can still get women too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:50 PM
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In this example there’s no reason to even ask the body count of these women since neither is promiscuous. Pick the woman you get a long with better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:48 PM
5

An inability to deal with reality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:14 PM
1

If you forget about reddit you’ll realise none of this matters in real life. Random people won’t care if you’re getting dates or a virgin. If you sit around waiting for women to come and prove you wrong you’ll be waiting a long time buddy. There’s no such thing as fair in dating, you either take steps to succeed or you fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:33 PM
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This is all reddit dudes talk about on this sub lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:24 PM
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The more common claim is the overwhelming majority of couple appear to be looksmatched based on observation, which I believe to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:55 AM
3

No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:49 AM
4

So be a normal person and don’t follow a pill
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:45 PM
1

I disagree, if you are talking about red pillers in this sub maybe, not men in the real world though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:03 PM
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If you’re in a relationship where you are worrying I’d the split is 50/50 or 60/40 you probably don’t really love the person you are with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:08 PM
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Men are responsible for preventing rape? What exactly do you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:09 PM
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More likely infatuation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:10 PM
4

Both are expected to entertain
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:13 PM
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Who is this post even aimed at lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:58 AM
1

You’re forgetting the large pool of women that don’t use tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:28 PM
2

No it’s not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:14 PM
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This is pretty much expected unless their are children
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:24 AM
2

Who said it was?? That would be a bizarre opinion to have
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:29 AM
3

How many women do you get to date while you’re in jail? How many violent prisoners actually become famous, extremely low percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:43 PM
-1

It’s not gaslighting if it’s true buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:00 PM
4

Maybe if men on reddit weren’t constantly blaming women for their own struggles they might receive more sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:09 PM
0

I’ve dated many women, my height has never been brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 12:42 AM
1

I’d be shocked if the majority of men didn’t rank 80% of women as average or believe aswell. The majority of both genders are average or below.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 12:39 AM
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I’d say A is very average which demonstrates the problem of subjectivity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:15 AM
3

I’d say they are all variations of average
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:14 AM
2

Yeah that’s obvious dude, but the number is nowhere near 80%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:11 PM
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Men openly acknowledge they swipe right on people they find ugly as a tinder strategy. The actual amount of women they find attractive is much much lower than 80%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:08 PM
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Neither of those things are actually true becuase a few guys in reddit say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:00 PM
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Not even close mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:24 PM
3

Yeah that number is closer to 20-30% than 80%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:36 PM
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Nobody finds 80% of all women attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:18 PM
1

I was quite obviously generalising. Not every single guy that struggles is a “nice guy” and vice versa. Use some commons sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:28 PM
0

Surely I don’t have to explain to you the difference between nice guys and “nice guys”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:22 PM
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Either you are purposely misrepresenting what I said or you have an extra chromosome.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:17 PM
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Not what I said buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:12 PM
-5

“Nice guys” struggle, actual nice guys do well in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:49 PM
2

No it isn’t. Most couples you see out in the real world are average and looks-matched.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:34 PM
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If that’s how you feel then don’t, it’s that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 01:30 AM
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Don’t converse with the troll
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:11 PM
1

FDS is basically dead, no idea what those other two are I have a life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:32 AM
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If you convince yourself as a man that all men are worthless than you relieve yourself of any personal responsibility to be anything more than worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:18 AM
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I just don’t see this large amount of value you claim Tate has brung to anyone. Any good he might have done is outweighed by the harm he’s caused women and the predatory grifting he aims at his own followers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:04 AM
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Well the legality is a grey area but I’m not too concerned with that. It says more about his character than anything. If you think this kind of person is a good role model I’d have to disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:56 AM
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You think getting rich by pimping women on webcam and grifting depressed red pillers is something to be proud of?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:41 AM
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Because as you well know FDS is a female only echo chamber. PPD while it seems to more men than women is certainly a better representation of both men and women than FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:01 PM
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We all now FDS is a vocal minority so why would you try and use that as representative of most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:58 PM
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Men whinge and cry online way more than women do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:54 PM
12

I thought those men were invisible to women so why would they “constantly talk shit about” men they aren’t interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:49 PM
2

Bro Tate is a legit loser, If he’s your idea of success then you deserve to be grifted by him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:29 PM
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I agree, they definitely exists though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:23 PM
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You don’t see the hundreds of posts on here who say N count means everything go then? Yes it’s weird but they do actually care about it that much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:14 PM
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And social skills will get you through the door if you lack height
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:13 AM
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Yeah we know dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:11 AM
2

Everybody’s sense of average is ultimately subjective. We make probabilistic assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:08 PM
2

Yeah I’m not fat that doesn’t mean I’m not average overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:04 PM
2

I’m definitely average
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:49 PM
2

Everyone has different standards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:48 PM
-3

As an average man I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:53 PM
-1

True
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:05 PM
1

Don’t get married if that’s what you’re scared of
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:04 PM
-1

Bruh.. I said it’s not extremely hard, I didn’t say they can get it on demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:20 PM
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Getting sex for the average guy isn’t “extremely hard”. That’s below average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:15 PM
1

It would be considered wrong in both scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:46 PM
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And men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:16 AM
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Seems like an incorrect use of the phrase hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:07 AM
1

Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:01 AM
1

Yeah there are bad men and women captain obvious, that’s why you do your best to find a good one it ain’t that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:52 AM
1

That sounds like a you choosing the wrong women problem not an all women problem my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:48 AM
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1) I’m not a kid I’m a grown man, I’ve learned a lot during my lifetime and luckily I never got sucked into that incel mentality. 2) I’ve had many meaningful relationships with women and am currently in one so I can say either relative ease that while your views may seem to correspond to your experiences they aren’t an accurate reflection of reality. Oh and yeah it’s quite obvious the world isn’t a fair or just place any 6 year old could tell you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:40 AM
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Just lookin out for ya dude
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:34 AM
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I dunno what’s influenced your psychology so strongly this really is the type of backwards irrational ideology that turns kids into incels. If that’s how you think women are then what’s in your head doesn’t align with reality. Get some help man honestly this mentality is only going to hurt you moving forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:36 AM
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I don’t follow any pill I’m not a child
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:46 AM
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Who cares, don’t be so insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:43 AM
6

If someone ghosts you you accept it and move on friend, that’s dating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:24 AM
6

Most men aren’t using OF so this is a false equivalence
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:40 PM
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Girls actually want and date good guys, the thing is the good guys they don’t date are “good guys”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:40 AM
1

You can set any standards you like friend, that’s the beauty of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:46 AM
3

There are obviously exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:17 AM
6

This is an incredibly one sided description of marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:38 AM
1

If you need the money it beats alternatives
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:51 PM
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I’m pointing out the relevant fact that if it’s such an awful thing to do there shouldn’t be so many men thirsting for content.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:28 PM
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If y’all weren’t so desperate and thirsty there wouldn’t be a market for OF to begin with lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:50 PM
3

A great man? Seems more like a grifter than anything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:10 AM
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And I guess everyone wants to settle down and have kids at 18 years old right? It’s not like people wants to taut until they are financially secure and mature until they settle down
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:06 AM
9

Ahh okay, you’re right people don’t grow and mature with age and experience. None of us make mistake that at the time seemed to be good decisions, you are a wise man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:31 AM
3

?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:23 AM
3

I’d rather be alone than be this pathetic honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:30 PM
4

Which is idiotic and reeks of insecurity. If a woman made a mistake by not vetting men in the past why would you expect her to keep making that same mistake for the rest of her life? It makes zero sense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:16 PM
1

And then plays the grifter card and sells them overpriced merchandise and “courses” so ha can extort them not only mentally but financially
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:20 PM
1

These traits never seemed to hurt me so I dunno
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:22 AM
9

Very true
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:30 AM
6

You don’t want to know the answer to that last question
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:38 AM
7

This is a bizarre take. By almost every metric hookup culture is worse for women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:37 AM
6

I’m assuming neither of these options sound particular appealing to most people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:30 AM
10

It’s called life my guy, there’s always millions of people that have it both way better and worse than you do. Be grateful for what you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:16 PM
13

One and done only if the sex was bad? Not true at all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:22 AM
20

Nobody is forcing anyone to settle dude, if you think you can do better hold out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:44 PM
3

They don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:29 AM
7

Of course you can ask questions no one is saying otherwise lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:52 PM
16

I think these people are saying no one is forcing you to date anyone or get anyone you don’t want to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:49 PM
17

No one is getting shamed dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:17 PM
8

I fail to see the issue, since when am I obligated to find all groups of people sexually attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:12 PM
5

The statement would be I don’t happen to find black people sexually attractive. A) sexual attraction isn’t a choice and B) since when ammo obligated to find certain groups sexually attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:09 PM
8

That is bizarre, since when are there rules for who people have to be sexually attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:07 PM
5

Is there something wrong with not being attracted to black people?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:02 PM
1

They never have my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:44 AM
12

Touch grass bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:58 AM
2

This won’t help any men who want relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:48 AM
-1

This sounds like a reddit neckbeard opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:36 PM
1

Any personal standard you have is completely reasonable if you accept the outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:24 PM
-1

I can tell you’re a real hit with the women 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:49 AM
1

You could tell if two guys were standing next to each other otherwise no you couldn’t tell. Every male wants to date a supermodel so does that mean 99.999% of men in the world settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:24 AM
4

So the vast majority of women are settling? I think it may be closer to the truth to say women don’t care nearly as much about height as reddit neckbeards believe they do. Most people can’t even tell the difference between 5”9 and 6”. He’ll I’m a man that’s dated a lot and I don’t even know how tall I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:21 AM
3

Lol what? Women aren’t dating men under 6ft? Do you have a source for this incredible claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:18 AM
1

You’re on reddit lol it doesn’t exist here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:27 PM
1

It’s just sex dude it’s not worth getting angry about and it’s counter productive to your own mental health to get upset about what other people have that you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:29 PM
0

Sure, so why waste time complaining about things you can’t control?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:08 AM
2

I think while you’re busy being salty short guys are actually out touching grass and getting women. It’s much easier to blame something you can’t control than accept some personal responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:58 AM
1

Fake news lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:54 AM
2

It’s different for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:01 AM
6

No it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:20 AM
9

They needed to be posted more often because too many of these red pillers ignore them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:56 AM
3

Yeah that’s not true, I’ve done it many times and I’m sure a lot of others do it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:32 PM
1

Because that’s how the market works. If men weren’t so desperate maybe they could coax a little power back
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:55 PM
7

If you’re really complaining about having to do those things then just plan a life of celibacy because those things aren’t hard at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:37 PM
5

If you are a thoughtless human being that has no human connections and no real values then I feel sorry for you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:30 PM
2

Because sex isn’t the only thing of value in life..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:07 AM
1

What on earth are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:08 AM
1

I mean that’s obviously an exaggeration but that would make it even easier
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:50 PM
1

Try harder than the average man has to, improve yourself in other areas to compensate, and just be more patient. There are women out there that like short guys
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:52 AM
5

You mostly only hear from the guys that really care about it, most the men that don’t care about it simply don’t comment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:58 PM
–

By some sure, it doesn’t make you any less valuable though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:28 PM
1

Society influences literally every choice we ever make, so to say it also affects our standards is rather redundant don’t you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:13 PM
1

Bit of a false equivalency there pal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:04 PM
2

Not semantics at all. Women still choose which men meet their individual standards for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:46 PM
2

Influenced yes, not dictated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:30 PM
2

My point is what you consider “inflated” a lot of women think is a reasonable standard. Why settle for something you don’t want?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:27 PM
-1

It usually carries a negative connotation however.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:21 PM
5

Might they feel that way? Possible. Every individual has the right to dictate their own standards though so they’d have to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:19 PM
5

What does that even mean, every person chooses thier own standards, by what bar do you measure them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:03 PM
13

Why are you equating women having standards to “discrimination”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:59 PM
3

High value is a very subjective term. What is high value to somebody may not be high value to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:53 PM
–

Discounted in what sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:52 PM
–

Once again your language is very hyperbolic, putting that to the side if you live your life based on how other people view you you’ll never be happy no matter what you end up doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:08 PM
5

So why are you complaining lol, noones trying to force you to settle down my guy, do what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:54 AM
15

You’re assessments are plain bizarre man honestly, most women are feminine and nurturing, no idea how you’d calculate the odds on how many are submissive or have been “ran through” you’d have to be a lot more specific about what you mean with those. Either way if your standards are strict that’s all good but you can’t really complain about your chances are you can always lower them or stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:06 AM
15

That’s a bit hyperbolic lol. There is more to a man’s value besides if they can find a partner or not you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:50 AM
2

You know if women were unhappy they have the ability to lower their standards right? So if women’s standards are too high as you claim women are fine with that and they have every right to enjoy that freedom of choice. The reason men get told to improve themselves is because you can only influence your own value.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:23 AM
1

The man had bigger problems to worry about than who his wife was and wasn’t fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:09 AM
6

I’ve already I’m not a feminist so there’s no reason to strawman my position. So you admit there’s never been a period in history where women had more power than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:50 PM
4

Are you actually taking the piss? Have you never read a history book? Name what period in history where Men didn’t have more power than women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:40 PM
0

There is some truth in that statement for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:32 PM
1

One gender has traditionally been victims and the other hasn’t so I’m not sure his point is really valid at all. I understand the motive, being a victim in this social climate gives you a voice I just think it shows a lack of maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:27 PM
-4

I’m not a woman or a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:19 PM
8

Why do the guys on here try with such desperation to be victims? Just live your lives and worry about yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:47 PM
5

If you think that’s what it takes to find a partner that will grow to love you you’ll probably never find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 07:15 AM
2

Exactly.. if your standards are higher than what you can attract than it’s your option wether you’d rather lower them or you’d be happier single.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:03 AM
11

It’s literally the same as with men.. Looks are a starting point but only part of the puzzle, many factors contribute to who is viewed as a potential partner. This is not isolated to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:39 AM
7

Why should American women change? Should we not have the right to choose our own standards no matter which gender we are?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:29 AM
10

You know being an edge lord only hurts you right? No one else cares what you think of women except future potential partners so if you ever want a woman in your life maybe come back down to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:16 AM
14

So the average guy on reddit then, they have double standards when it comes to the pasta of women. Good move for dropping him
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:52 PM
1

What kind of gutter post is this? Cmon guys be better..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:00 AM
1

6ft is not considered short lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:09 PM
-1

Steve knows she’s married. Steve knows the only possibility I’d anything romantic happening is if something bad happens to her relationship. Steve should move on and find his own relationship instead of lurking in the shadows.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:41 AM
0

It’s creepy that “Steve” hangs around despite knowing this woman is creepy in the hopes that he might get thrown some crumb of pussy. Guys need to have more self respect honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:39 AM
14

He’s literally just explaining why it’s the case. Why are you trying to argue against things he didn’t even say?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:31 AM
3

If you think having creepy guys having around your life trying to fuck you lucky then sure lol, I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:24 PM
1

Is english your third language?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:02 AM
1

Bro.. how are women going to notice an improvement in hygiene on tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:02 PM
1

That literally makes no sense. Even if you didn’t get dates because of it it doesn’t mean your chances weren’t improved still. Even a 1% jump is still an improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:24 PM
1

Okay so you havn’t got the results you were going for, but if your hygiene was genuinely bad and you’ve changed it to good there is no doubt your odds have improved.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:54 AM
1

The posted is only aimed at men with bad hygiene and poor style
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:23 AM
1

If what you say is true than this post isn’t really about you is it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:52 PM
9

That refutes my claim in no way whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:54 AM
6

The truth is different women like men from all kinds of groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:49 AM
3

Nobody had the right to “cry”. Nobody is owed sex or relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:24 PM
1

There is no bar for standards, we all choose our own, it’s purely subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:22 AM
4

You know these shows are made mostly be men right? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:16 PM
1

That’s literally the first thing people say, dating is hard lol. After you acknowledge that then it’s upto you to put in the effort or look for fulfilment in other areas of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:26 AM
2

Lol what
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:16 AM
12

She said here eyes only wonder if the relationship is going BADLY. You interpret this as her eyes wonder whenever her relationship isn’t going PERFECTLY. See how fallacious your comment is?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:07 PM
1

Why else would you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:59 PM
1

Nah you just like to misrepresent opinions that don’t align with your own because of you’re own insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:58 PM
14

Another dude completely misunderstanding a woman’s response
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:39 PM
2

We can agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:25 PM
1

For procreation, not recreation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:57 PM
11

I think you are exaggerating the need for sex. It can be controlled and to suggest otherwise it to shift responsibility from yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:40 AM
2

What I don’t understand is why there are so many men on this sub that put sex on this gigantic pedestal like it’s the greatest thing available on this earth.. If sex is the biggest priority in your life you may need to reassess your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:21 AM
1

So true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:31 PM
2

That is not true at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:34 PM
3

Big yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:33 PM
1

I didn’t say ugly, I said not beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:41 PM
1

I’d bet against that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:25 PM
1

She is mid tho unless you value money over everything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:20 PM
3

You’re assuming she writes her own songs, as bad as they are written I don’t believe that she does
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:19 PM
8

Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:07 AM
11

Dude is right, plenty of guys out there that could cheat if they wanted to. Y’all overrated sex way too much. I’d rather hold onto my self respect and respect for my partner than have a fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:01 AM
2

This is a garbage take.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:00 AM
2

You’re walking around with your eyes closed then. I see it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:57 AM
1

Wtf is 2/7 and how does that accurately represent an average looking man lol. An average looking man would be a 5
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:56 AM
33

This is a troll post for sure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:34 AM
1

Huh? No idea how you get that from what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:12 AM
1

It’s literally just paying for sex dude, if that’s what you want go ahead, if you want more you’ll be wasting your money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:10 AM
9

Just stop it dude lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:32 PM
8

So I don’t see the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:29 AM
7

Get better or go without, life isn’t fair and there is no solution to the problem that wouldn’t impede on the autonomy of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:24 AM
11

Is that not my right as an individual? To abide by my own standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:23 AM
0

What are you even talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:38 PM
15

Bro it’s probably 95% spam lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:12 PM
6

So should single mothers be supported more by tax payers if you don’t want the fathers to be financially liable?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:56 AM
14

Not making dead beat dads pay child support burdens tax payers more not less.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:39 AM
1

And if she doesn’t you’d have no idea
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:54 PM
1

You wouldn’t know anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:20 PM
4

Most opinions on reddit are skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:29 PM
1

So in your assessment would you say men that have no trouble getting casual sex with good looking girls are automatically chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:28 AM
1

How do you define low? What percentage?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:38 AM
4

If her ex did it better then get good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:54 AM
3

lol what? This must be a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:41 AM
2

Life’s never been fair for anybody and if anyone expects otherwise they are irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:28 PM
0

Not always necessary, but definitely sure for most people to be content in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:21 AM
4

Why would American women be bitter and jealous when them rejecting you is the reason this even exists in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:40 AM
-1

It’s important, not the most important part though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:31 AM
-2

Because relationships are more than sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:18 AM
7

Shock horror some women care more about the person than the paypacket
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:52 AM
1

“Life isn’t fair” is applied to literally all these. We do what we can to change them and accept what we can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:50 PM
-3

Some things can be controlled some things can’t. It applies to men and women it doesn’t take a genius to realise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:21 PM
2

Huh? It applies to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:11 PM
4

r/neckbeards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:32 AM
1

All good
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:57 PM
1

You obviously misunderstand my position, I’m literally preaching the opposite of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:59 PM
3

And if the roles were reversed and you were being told you should be settling for someone “worthy” you wouldn’t be insulted? I swear this line of reasoning is one of the cringiest on this sub. When are you guys going to realise that some people will do better than others, and complaining about that only makes you sound like a loser. Nobody is owed sex or a girlfriend, if you can get it good on you if you can’t bad luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:23 AM
6

But the majority of options women have aren’t attractive.. so what are they expected to date men they don’t want?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:53 AM
1

You seem to have pretty strong opinions on average men and dating but can’t define what average is?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:33 AM
6

Yes, but how do you define what average looks are?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:20 AM
3

Yes, it’s obviously the same both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:19 AM
-3

The average guy will still have options, wether he wants them or not is another matter. Only difference is guy will have to wait a little longer to find an option they actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:13 AM
1

Man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:11 AM
-3

A majority of them will be
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:11 AM
6

How do you define average?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:03 AM
10

What worth are “way more dating options” if they are undesirable? May aswell have no options
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:03 AM
7

Physical requirements are still preferences friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:42 AM
1

Who and where is this stated?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:38 PM
0

Who said 90 percent?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:19 PM
2

Nearly everything is a social construct. Morality is a social construct, it doesn’t just exist for no reason. I gotta say I do find it super weird when people try to tell people what they should and shouldn’t be attracted to though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:23 AM
9

Sorry friend but you’re delusional, it’s no where near as uncommon as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:14 AM
2

Except with the woman she would be straight, the guy would be bisexual so that adds a totally new element to the comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:05 AM
5

Which I just explained mixed up both gender and sexual orientation. So it’s a false equivalency.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:52 AM
10

Except your mixing genders and sexual orientations so it’s a really inaccurate comparison. Simply comparing n count to n count is a better equivalency than what you provided.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:44 AM
8

This is a poor attempt at equivalency lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:38 AM
2

I’m a guy but I find it to be the opposite. Women here seem to be more realistic with their responses than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:14 AM
-1

Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:37 AM
2

Because I’m a grown man and I don’t get insecure about what other people have done
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:02 PM
4

Okay cringelord
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:35 PM
1

How do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:37 AM
5

The average guy will, most couples are looks-matched
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:32 AM
-4

A 5/10 guy does not need y to o be dating 2’s. He will date other 4-6’s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:06 AM
3

Just admit your salty and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:24 AM
1

I have nothing to cope for friend
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:09 PM
1

I’m skeptical about labelling anything objectively true since we interpret the world through a subjective lens and don’t have the amount of knowledge about how the universe works as we would like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:34 AM
2

I’d say so long as attractiveness is interpreted through subjective experience is remains subjective. If it was proven that there are specific features that encoded in our dna that all men or women find attractive you may be able to call that an objective standard of attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:31 AM
1

Sure, most people will agree in general on certain traits that increase attractiveness. This is still a subjective standard however.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:17 AM
0

Am I still stand by my point that the majority of western women aren’t interested in Kpop.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:16 AM
2

Yet I’m not wrong, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:03 AM
1

A small minority of the US population is more than enough to support the fandom of a band.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:59 AM
1

I agree, we can measure societal preferences, but they are ultimately preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:57 AM
0

Maybe so but objective is a strong term, you should probably know what it means if you’re going to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:55 AM
2

Sure, but the majority of western women would have little to no interest in Kpop men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:52 AM
0

So they are using the term incorrectly. That’s fine as long as they are aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:48 AM
0

There is no measurement for objective attractiveness. What you may find attractive another person will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:43 AM
2

And very few western women would find kpop guys attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:22 AM
2

You need to borrow a girl friends phone and have a look at the guys, it’s pretty rough out there
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:21 AM
4

They obviously aren’t all objectively attractive if all women don’t find them attractive. Looks are subjective it’s as simple as that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:19 AM
1

And women want the security marriage provided, rightly so. This isn’t going to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:30 AM
1

Things are different but it doesn’t change the fact that men and women want families. As long as this motivation exists couples will marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:12 AM
0

Everyone did it before alimony laws existed, what makes you think it would be any different now?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:07 AM
5

Man this is a super cringe post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:09 PM
3

It’s not 99% but it’s definitely a big majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:44 AM
1

Can y’all stop being creepy for like 2 minutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 09:27 PM
1

Not by choice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:32 PM
1

It’s not always the case, but it definitely is a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:07 AM
1

Always am 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:00 PM
3

Looksmatched
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:48 AM
8

No? Who the hell said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:42 AM
1

No such thing as deserved or underserved sex bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:04 AM
2

Yep exactly, I think OP has misunderstood
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:01 AM
6

And you know.. common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:55 AM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:59 PM
5

Beggars can’t be choosers I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:39 AM
2

But then wouldn’t you be stuck dating phillipino women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:35 AM
1

Who’s the blithering leftist fool?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:55 PM
1

That’s an awfully hateful view you have
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:19 PM
1

I know
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:17 PM
1

Ain’t short bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:03 PM
3

You big mad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:26 PM
-1

Lol what? Looks like a he
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:18 PM
10

Mostly for the hilarious incel content
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:06 PM
9

This isn’t the flex you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:49 AM
2

It makes your point irrelevant if you offer no alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:01 AM
6

Removing courtship would raise far more problems than it would solve
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:59 AM
3

The only thing stopping you from being honest about your intentions with women is good character.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:55 AM
4

I hope all the women in your life are aware of the risk you pose
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:53 AM
10

There’s no way anyone believes this garbage surely
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:51 AM
0

And you’d still be chasing crumbs of pussy which you still wouldn’t get
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:04 PM
5

You are if you don’t think women wouldn’t just as happily replace us 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:02 PM
3

You are so full of cope lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:00 PM
0

Incels hating women has nothing to do with them being incels… okay buddy boy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:43 PM
3

And grass is green.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:15 PM
1

Cmon dude, guys on this sub openly admit they don’t want to have to live up to a partners past sexual experiences. That is insecurity 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:13 PM
0

If you’re that insecure that you get hung up on women’s N counts that’s your problem. You’re welcome to have preferences but you also have to take the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:10 PM
2

He looks like the Sandy hook shooter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:08 PM
0

No? Be realistic. Find other joys in life, besides the better you do in life the more appealing you are to women anyway so it’s a double win.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:04 PM
-1

Or just pursue other things in life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:56 PM
1

They just want some crumby sympathy pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:30 PM
-4

A lot of incels aren’t ugly at all, they just have some very negative attitudes towards women and probably some personality flaws that make them bad at socialising
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:19 PM
3

Are we pretending there aren’t lots of average guys out there with high n counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:21 AM
1

Not what I said buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:09 AM
1

Good thing sluts want nothing to do with you either 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:07 AM
11

Hardcore feminist? The sub is 90% red pill ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:50 AM
2

Nah neckbeard creeps
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:33 AM
1

Honestly google any tall actor or successful entrepreneur and she could have dated some of them if she specifically wanted a tall man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:34 AM
1

Are you only thinking of basketball players?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:22 AM
0

So? There’s other tall people equal to kanye’s wealth and status that she could have dated instead
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:06 AM
1

If you say buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:35 AM
1

Flee the west because you can’t get a girlfriend? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:28 AM
1

You know you’re only harming yourself with these delusions right? Nobody is going to feel pity for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:00 AM
1

Okay as vague a survey as that is it definitely does not say women find 80% of men objectively ugly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:53 AM
0

Where did you read this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:48 AM
2

Where did you pull that number from lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:44 AM
0

So the rational response to not being attractive to a lot of women is to become an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:44 AM
0

So if she can have a taller man with equal money and status why did she choose the shorter version?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:32 AM
2

You don’t think own girl could have a different taste that doesn’t align with the norm?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:30 AM
1

Themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:38 AM
2

I love how ridiculous this meme is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:35 AM
1

Nothing screams real man Iike looking at another dudes dick
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:35 AM
1

If you can’t have it then nobody can!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:16 AM
-7

This whole this is gross
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:59 AM
1

Having your son catch aids would still be more terrifying than your daughter getting pregnant though surely
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:58 AM
1

Okay that’s fair, what if I throw in the factor of having to worry about the much higher chance of your gay son catching aids one day? And the abuse he might cop just for being gay? Does that even the scales?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:40 AM
1

What if the thot never gets pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:34 AM
1

Someone ban this neckbeard creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:00 PM
1

Wtf is this post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:44 PM
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There’s other subs for this garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:38 PM
6

I think you need to talk to a counsellor my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:20 PM
3

It’s not a legitimate issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:16 PM
1

Existence isn’t miserable for everyone buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:30 AM
1

Just dropping your subjective opinion. I didn’t see any facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:28 AM
1

That’s your perspective, do with it what you will. No point in complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:26 AM
1

Depression isn’t a choice, how you live your life is. Stop looking for excuses to be miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:24 AM
1

Or you know.. something less dramatic and just be a regular person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:22 AM
1

And? There’s many other ways to find joy in life. What does feeling sorry for yourself get you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:20 AM
1

I’m asking from your perspective. Do you need to be noticed by women to feel like you exist as a human being?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:15 AM
0

You need to be noticed by women for your existence to be valid? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:13 AM
2

Bruh if women swiping left on you invalidates your existence you have the most brittle of brittle spirits my god
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:11 AM
0

Yeah that ain’t true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:44 PM
3

How can a girls standards be too high? We all decide our own standards. If girls are pickier than men then it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:49 PM
1

Yeah no idea wether those numbers are accurate to what a guy like him would actually get but they do seem a touch low. If they are accurate then for whatever reason a lot of girls just didn’t get the urge to swipe right on him. Fair play to them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:37 PM
1

Do we have any info on this guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:07 PM
3

It is a free market.. supply and demand my friend. If what you have to offer is in low demand your chances are harder. If what you have is in high demand you have more options, it’s pretty simple
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:55 AM
2

Well yes obviously in the countries where women have less freedoms the dating market is more skewed towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:12 AM
1

I’d assume no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:50 AM
1

Common sense would tell you otherwise. Where does this myth that there are no women existing in society that can’t get sexual attention from men come from? It’s mind boggling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:54 AM
1

I specifically said women who can’t get sex or dates. Below average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:52 AM
1

Yeah now you’re just strawmanning
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:50 AM
1

I’m talking about the women that can’t get dates or sex. They don’t seem to build up this raging hatred towards the opposite gender when men in the same position do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:48 AM
1

Becuase women don’t feel like it’s a human right to have access to sex whenever they want it, wether they can get it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:44 AM
1

Depends on the scenario. Overall sure I’d agree women have a slightly easier time with dating but the advantages are exaggerated and the risks they face are often dismissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:40 AM
-11

Plenty of women happily date short or bald men. Yes I believe I already listed guys should be not socially awkward. The cultural background applies to both men and women. Yeah I don’t buy the college degree. You can easily succeed with a college educated woman if you have a successful blue collar job. Sure I guess, although if you earn enough money to live independently I’m sure plenty of women wouldn’t be fussed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:39 AM
3

Both average men and women struggle finding compatible partners. I never said an average woman has settled if she dates an average man, most the couples I come across in life are looksmatched
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:33 AM
1

Why can’t you accept the truth that both genders struggle instead of pushing this false narrative that average women can get in relationships which average men whenever they like
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:29 AM
0

What’s the point of having a bigger pool if half of them want to fuck and then leave whilst the other half struggle to shower daily? Can we distinguish between options and good options for women? Or does that take too much thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:02 AM
1

You’re wrong but if it makes you feel better to think otherwise do your thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:59 AM
-3

Not true, finding average guys that will root and boot you is one thing. Finding average guys that want to commit to a relationships with you is another challenge entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:57 AM
5

Absolutely is not unheard of for average women to struggle, I’ve known many
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:53 AM
11

Dunno why you made the massive leap to incel. Sure there are plenty of men that will drop their standards for casual sex but not nearly the same for committing to relationships. Also women have the ability to remain independent instead of settling as much as they did in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:52 AM
3

Dating is a free market. Not everyone succeeds and nobody is owed success. There are a lot of average women who suffer lack of success also.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:47 AM
-1

Obviously it’s a generalisation, there are more specific factors that may help or hurt an individuals success
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:44 AM
9

What a man needs to do to meet the average woman’s standards • Not be fat • Not be crazy • Decent hygiene • Not a social leper • Have a job
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:16 AM
1

A lot are and a lot aren’t. There’s no way to quantify it. I know I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:20 AM
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Getting incel vibes from that phrase lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:26 PM
1

Oh right, I’m Australian
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:24 AM
1

You find moral standards funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:58 PM
1

I don’t even know what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:58 PM
1

Rather bold assumption. A lot of people would rather be single than cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:57 PM
1

We all do lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:57 PM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:06 AM
5

No one “deserves” anything. You get what you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:13 AM
3

Yep agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:11 AM
17

It’s socially acceptable to rule out any demographic. Everyone has the right to decide who they do and don’t want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:03 AM
1

Yeah that’s my point, most women do end up in looks matched relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:28 PM
2

So I’m just curious how come whenever I leave the house I’m surrounded by looks matched couples? Is there an explanation for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:26 PM
9

If they want a relationship they will, if they don’t they won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:17 AM
7

So if a woman wants more than sex she will date someone in her league won’t she
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:49 AM
11

If you’re getting consistent sex with a certain type of person they are not “out of your league”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:11 AM
4

Bruh if you can’t handle initiating or the 10 minutes it takes to plan a date then your spirit is so brittle you’re doing women a favour by jumping out of the dating pool..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:02 AM
1

Never heard anyone say this, you seem to be straw manning the argument that looks aren’t all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:15 PM
1

The equivalent of a wife getting fat is a husband getting fat. Or is that too obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:17 PM
0

Guys are more obsessed with height than girls are lol. So much deflection and insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:35 AM
1

More power to them then, each to their own
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:40 AM
2

Sure, a high N count to one person is just a normal Body count to another
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:20 AM
1

Okay, most men don’t care about body count except for very extreme outliers. Better?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:16 AM
-4

Why would you use such an extreme example?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:46 AM
-1

Hundreds? That would be the top 1% of women’s body counts and a total outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:43 AM
-1

Never met a man who DID care about body count in real life, that’s for internet dweebs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:37 AM
3

Define very high
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:41 AM
1

Equal as in men having more power in the SMP
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:01 AM
4

In the same way men expect the power dynamics should be equal when it’s just a fact of life that it never will be and there’s no reason to think it should.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:11 PM
0

Yeah all your guesses are way off base buddy, you don’t know as much as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:49 AM
1

Funny how off base you were then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:44 AM
4

I’m sensing a lot of projection here.. usually the guys that talk about how many girls they’ve been with don’t get shit all. You don’t know me or what I’ve done lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:40 AM
3

Just because you have a body count higher than 20 doesn’t mean you treat sex like some achievement.. judging women for N counts is just plain weird
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:31 AM
1

20 in one year? I thought he meant 20 all up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:33 AM
1

Pretty much same for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:27 AM
0

A lot of people in this sub need to touch grass then, no wonder they can’t get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:24 AM
2

Good for you kid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:10 AM
2

Literally everybody are right about some things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:08 AM
1

The fuck does Aristotle have to do about body count 😂 and he was wrong about shit too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:05 AM
1

Y’all are insane lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:04 AM
-3

20 is nothing dude
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:33 AM
3

Because women are already criticised so much more heavily than men are for the same behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:33 AM
1

No idea why the second question would bother you at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 10:33 AM
1

Nah he slimmed up quite a bit the last couple years
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:41 AM
1

Depends which photos they are posting, he’s has slim periods and big periods
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:24 AM
2

For the most part it would be tradesman, guys that lift heavy shit all day but don’t really go to the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:47 AM
10

Literally just a dude with a small gut and muscular arms
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 10:59 AM
18

That’s not what most girls mean when they say dad bod
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 10:41 AM
129

Dad bod and being fat are two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 10:32 AM
1

Or because they are cautious and don’t want to be rooted and booted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:44 AM
1

And not the fact that there are men that deliberately feign romantic interest to get sex from them? Are you really going to say that isn’t a common experience for a lot of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:49 AM
1

Can’t say I’ve ever experienced this sorry pal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:36 AM
1

No they aren’t, you just have a persecution complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:33 AM
1

Well a) you sound ridiculous because I’m a man and b) you totally ignored the context of the feigning of romantic interest makes the sex a dishonest transaction. If both parties are honest about what they want there is no issue, however when men deliberately deceive women for sex you can hardly get upset when they are more selective about when they engage in future transactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:29 AM
1

You literally ignored the entire context of my comment, nice strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:21 AM
1

What’s a couple minutes of pleasure worth if you feel weeks or months of shame afterwards when you realise you’ve been used?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:19 AM
2

Well you may as-well be stealing it if you’re pretending to show genuine interest in a relationship when you’re real intentions are to hit and quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:12 AM
1

And the overwhelming majority are still dating men.. so they must have value.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:15 AM
-1

Men are literally born valueless? That’s a bit of an exaggeration. If men have no value why do women even date men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:51 AM
1

Yes, but there will be many people within the average category with N counts of 6 and many with N counts of 30
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:18 AM
1

Dealing with averages is tricky, some will always be more successful than others even within the category of average. That’s the trouble with discussing in such broad generalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:05 AM
1

No that’s a different category. I’m talking about the guys that make up the majority of the dating pool, the average guy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:59 PM
1

Just think about how hard men compete for the attention of women, the men with the higher dating value don’t have to try as hard so what do you think the guys with less value will do? They will stick around longer so they can succeed. That’s not even considering the guys that get some dark pleasure out of deceiving women which clearly is a thing too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:37 PM
1

Don’t know who those people are but that’s clearly wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:35 PM
3

All that means is the guys trying to use them have to be more patient with the game, sure some bail straight away but many don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:32 PM
3

I’d like you think all women have thousands of men in their DM’s trying to get dates with them it only makes sense that it would actually be very hard to find out which ones if any actually genuinely want a relationship and which ones are only pretending.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:30 PM
7

The amount of men that are experts at feigning emotional interest to solicit sex and then leave. A very painful experience for a lot of women and something that happens a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:27 PM
3

Plenty that stops them getting a partner they actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:26 PM
3

Plenty of difficulties
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:21 PM
9

And this mentality is exactly why so many men out there are struggling. The insecurity and entitlement they feel gets in the way of them actually forming a relationship with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:59 PM
3

That’s ridiculous lol. If you aren’t dating somebody you are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 11:49 PM
1

These standards only apply if you’re trying be be the top 1% of males in the world lol. You can have plenty of dating success without these qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 11:40 PM
-2

Hard to disagree with much of this, nice reply
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:44 AM
1

Not exactly as picky, but there’s not as large a difference as OP would have you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:46 PM
1

Simple observation.. only takes a walk down the street to see how many women are dating guys below 6 feet tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:46 PM
5

Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:44 PM
11

A lot of men are picky dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:33 PM
1

I guess you’re clearly wrong then, this guy does it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:36 AM
7

Absolutely mind boggling isn’t it lol, there are some funny theories on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:35 AM
1

Women wouldn’t put up with the amount of shit they do if it was just about claiming some social status lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:19 PM
0

That might be a slight exaggeration
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:07 AM
1

I have no idea how you got that from my response. I never said or implied that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:01 PM
1

Sure, but if we know specific groups are commuting these atrocities it would make sense to see if we can do something to stop it. Especially since it seems to be a growing trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:54 PM
1

Why not worry about both?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:31 PM
3

As would most people, a vocal minority. Still have the potential to do damage though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:19 PM
27

You probably wouldn’t notice on if you had, they do all their work online.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:11 PM
1

It’s not a man/woman thing, it’s a person thing. Some people have high cleaning standards and some don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:25 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:20 PM
6

I’m a man and I notice the same thing as her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:33 PM
8

It’s not healthy to project that insecurity onto an entire gender however
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:07 AM
1

Yeah lots of us couldn’t care less
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:26 AM
10

This reeks of insecurity my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:25 AM
1

It would be exactly the same but reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:08 PM
2

Nobody thinks or expects dating to be fair.. why would it be? Nothing is fair in life and you shouldn’t expect otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:30 AM
1

All your doing is hurting yourself, try and change what you can change and accept what you can’t, it’s honestly the only way to try and live a content life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:47 PM
22

Yes we are buddies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:14 AM
29

Yeah that’s exactly what she means buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:05 AM
23

These women are hyped by other women more than they are men..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:09 AM
1

I have no idea wether that’s true or not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:17 PM
1

Men have plenty of options too, just not options they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:52 PM
0

Yes. You can use the language without being an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:23 PM
2

I never called you an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:48 AM
1

Literally never been met by anything other than acceptance when expressing emotions with partners, where does this myth come from honestly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:54 AM
0

This is some real incel language.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:48 AM
1

Absolutely not, there’s never such thing as a perfect solution to a societal issue. I’m literally open to listening to any reasonable solution that might be proposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:19 PM
4

Me either
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:56 AM
15

This type of post gets posted ad nauseam on this sub, but what I rarely see is guys actually trying to propose rational solutions. We get it.. women and men have certain benefits when it comes to dating that’s just reality, but what if it? Life never promises you complete equality or perceived fairness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:42 AM
4

This is the same for men or women, who actively seeks out to marry people they find unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:57 AM
24

If you can get it why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:08 AM
2

Whichever one she forms an emotional connection with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:07 AM
-1

Because it’s true..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:23 PM
4

If you have to do all that simping just to get a girl to like you she never liked you in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:21 AM
17

Maybe if you thought more about the positives of being a man instead of the negatives your wouldn’t get so depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:42 PM
17

Nobody, it’s an analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:38 PM
15

Do you have societal privilege by being born white? Sure. You want them to apologise for it or something? Women have it easier in some areas and harder in others.. life it’s the perfectly even and fair it never been or will be so why complain about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:36 PM
3

They should be happy then because they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:59 AM
1

Sure if you believe looks and personality are nearly entirely subjective lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:22 AM
1

Fine it’s 90% subjective.. happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:21 AM
1

You might think that but if you actually take a few steps outside of your house and look around you’ll realise it’s not true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:48 PM
1

to SOME women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:40 PM
10

Becuase a persons looks and personality are purely subjective.. how do people not understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:35 PM
–

I read your post, once again what would make you think nearly all girls go through a hoe phase? This is incel type thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:48 AM
–

Lol no why would you even think that? Too much reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:42 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:57 PM
1

And we all know your low IQ since you’re one of those cucks that goes through peoples post histories lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:58 AM
0

And I’d say you’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:42 AM
0

Funny I’d say it’s actually the complete opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:01 AM
2

Yep cold approaches by women are very rare even if you are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:32 PM
1

Or you all get what you can get and help each other where you can. If top bro stops the girls aren’t going to settle for the rest of you if she didn’t want you in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:51 AM
1

That ain’t part of the brocode, that’s actually against it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:45 AM
2

Why should anyone hop out of the dating pool just to give struggling guys a chance? Dating ain’t make a wish bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:38 AM
1

Lol what? Are you trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:07 PM
5

The question is why SHOULD they stop? And why would you have an expectation that dating should be fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:57 AM
1

No why or how could there be?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:45 PM
1

If you consistently can get “chads” whatever they are then you aren’t aiming higher than you should be. That is the point. If you want a relationship with chads but they only offer sex then you need to reassess your options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:25 PM
1

We just fundamentally disagree then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:21 PM
1

Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:20 PM
1

False equivalency, that’s not what I’m saying at all. If I can attract 9’s I don’t owe dates to 6’s. If I want to date a 6 I can but It’s my choice not anyone else’s. If I want 9’s then can’t get a 9 I either stay single or re asses my aims.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:08 PM
-1

The dating market is a free market, you are worth what you can get. It’s really that simple. If you want more than you can get you have to re evaluate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:56 PM
0

If that’s all they are looking for then they are, if they want more but can’t get more they probably need to look elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:51 PM
0

They do if they actually get dates with chads
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:16 PM
2

Doubtful
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:43 PM
6

Sure I agree with that, I just think this obsession the guys here seem to have about N count doesn’t exists in the same way in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:14 AM
1

Okay that’s fine, I’m not gunna lose sleep over it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:22 AM
22

I can’t imagine more than a minority of men care about body count honestly. On reddit sure but in the real world no way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:16 AM
3

You’re telling me human behaviour is subjective? No way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:31 AM
0

Chances are if you’ve been called creepy you may have some role to play in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:10 AM
4

Been dating for a long time and have never been made to feel like I was a worthless scummy creep. Chances are if you’re not a creep you won’t get called one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:08 AM
4

Yeah that ain’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:05 AM
2

Why would you think these two things are mutually exclusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 10:58 AM
2

Fairness? There’s no such thing as fairness in dating. It’s an open market. The world doesn’t owe you or anyone else a partner that’s not how things work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:02 PM
2

No they don’t lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:18 AM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:39 AM
1

What could possibly be done by women to men more appealing to them that doesn’t invade on their bodily autonomy? Even as a man I can see this is clearly a male problem to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:36 AM
2

He had deeper problems than not being able to have relationship with women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:18 AM
5

Not true at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:02 AM
1

A woman isn’t a 7+ just by not being obese.. what kind of alternative reality are you living in?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:16 PM
1

No problem, take care
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:21 AM
1

I’m not sure what you mean maybe you misunderstood me, I don’t bee live in a universal morality I’m a moral relativist. As far as women’s bodily autonomy goes I think a) taking away womens autonomy is extremely damaging to not just women but the way our society functions b) I don’t want the women in my life subjected to things like rape etc if I can help it c) the benefits of bodily autonomy for women quite obviously outweigh whatever benefits might exists to men having free access to any women …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:53 AM
1

Well I’m glad you answered and that would have been my answer to. You’re question seems to be essentially asking donor why women have the right to choose their own parter. I’d say yes because it’s beneficial to society that way. I wouldn’t want to live in a society where men can just claim women for themselves with no bodily autonomy for the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:41 AM
1

You responded with a double negative. I’m going to assume you don’t want to answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:14 AM
1

That doesn’t even make sense. Can you answer the question or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:58 AM
1

Damn you’re really in your feelings aren’t you, I can assure you it doesn’t cost me a lot of energy to state the obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:33 AM
-1

What are you talking about? I literally am living my own advice. I never complain about not getting things I want it’s a waste of energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:28 AM
-1

I don’t think entitled to things in life.. you can what you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:25 AM
-2

There have been many things in life that I wanted but couldn’t get.. I focused my energies to other areas
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:03 AM
1

So if you’ve done everything you can do to make yourself more viable as a partner and it hasn’t worked look for happiness in other avenues. Don’t cry and whinge about not finding a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:35 AM
2

Why are you shocked lol it happens in the real world all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:17 PM
1

That don’t get mad, they get annoyed when y’all don’t stop whinging about it. It’s a fact of life deal with it and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:06 AM
4

Dating is an openmarket, if you can get a certain level man then he is in your league. It’s really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:13 AM
1

Had to chuckle at the way you expressed “INSANELY handicapped” I’m not even a chad and I’ve never felt more than mildly handicapped at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:44 AM
53

Bruh this sub is weird af
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:22 PM
2

It would be categorically worse both both genders, what an idiotic notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:39 PM
3

Of course they do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:05 PM
1

Maybe because it’s very subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:19 PM
51

This is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:41 AM
3

That’s absolute garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:59 AM
13

Bro that’s a really unhealthy attitude ms is certainly not going to help you in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:09 AM
15

Yeah don’t put that on the women, it’s simple supply and demand.. if they guys weren’t willing to throw away their money onlyfans wouldn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:14 AM
1

A lot of women do consider men to be catches.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:39 PM
1

How’s it my problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:47 PM
0

Stop getting life advice from reddit dude that’s your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:36 PM
1

Nice projection dude, I’ve got nothing to feel insecure about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:28 PM
1

You’re making the claim most men want something and I’m giving the reason why you think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:20 PM
1

If you’re the insecure type then sure I can understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:00 PM
3

Hard disagree but we can leave it at that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:25 PM
6

So why you on reddit trying to convince people that there aren’t a lot of men that aren’t interested in virgins lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:21 PM
3

This tells me you don’t have a lot of life experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:19 PM
1

Big cap lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:15 PM
11

Those two scenarios aren’t exactly equivalent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:09 AM
6

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:24 AM
5

This creepy shit is difficult to read, are there any normal guys on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:22 AM
6

To me settling would be dating someone you think is beneath you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:36 AM
15

So it’s pretty much pointless even debating the topic then, according to this logic 99.999% of people settle
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:19 AM
10

This is honestly bizarre, what would make you think you can only have a high body count by sleeping with prostitutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:15 AM
0

Lol what planet are you from
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:35 PM
2

It’s appears the only people that don’t understand the term “nice guy” is used tongue in cheek is the nice guys themselves, everyone else seems to understand it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:57 AM
0

The term “nice guy” is used to describe a very specific type of male. The type of male that hits a girls dm’s with flattery and then calls her a fucking whore when she says she doesn’t want to see his dick. The kind of guy that rants about women only wanting to date “jerks or chads”. The kind of guy that tries to pressure girls into pity sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:35 AM
9

This is a complete misunderstanding of what the phrase “nice guy” actually means.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:13 PM
2

I wish y’all would stop posting this same post every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:39 AM
1

Knowing of a persons existence doesn’t not make it not a cold approach dude, you arguing so is truly weird
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:16 PM
1

If the girl knows noting about the man, had never met seen or heard anything about him it’s a cold approach, it’s really that simple dude. Stop trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:04 PM
1

Stop trolling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:11 PM
4

This whole argument is creepy as fuck, trying to tell anyone to date people they don’t want to just ain’t it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:23 PM
1

If all your looking for is sex then you’re entering the relationship in bad faith from the jump and validating the woman’s choice to make you wait in the first place.. and thanks captain obvious but I think we all know it’s a growing number of men behaving this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:06 PM
1

If that’s the strategy you want to take don’t complain the results if they don’t go your way, or if future women make you wait longer and longer to try and counter this behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:53 PM
0

It’s pretty simple, if you don’t like the woman enough to wait the month leave and find somebody else, don’t string a girl along just to pump and dump like a lot of men do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:37 AM
0

You can have intimacy without sex, if you can’t even wait a couple months you’re literally proving the woman’s point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:21 AM
1

Lol what, why would you not expect exclusivity if you’re dating someone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:59 AM
3

I don’t understand the problem with a woman deciding she wants to wait to make sure the new partner that’s telling her he cares about her actually cares about her. The amount of bitching and moaning I see from men on here because they don’t want to wait a couple months for sex is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:43 PM
1

Yeah this ain’t true, lots of guys won’t dare attractive women if they have shit personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:59 AM
30

Because his position is irrational
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:19 AM
-4

You really don’t understand women do you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:40 AM
43

People actually listen to that guy? I thought he was pretty much in on his own joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:15 AM
0

There’s definitely a type of man that gets more attractive as he ages, I have
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:43 AM
1

Women don’t need to do anything they don’t want to, sick of these cringe posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:36 AM
2

Women don’t need to do anything they don’t want to, sick of these cringe posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:36 AM
1

You poor guy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:48 AM
9

Nothing>Something bad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:18 PM
1

Yes but who actually measures themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:12 PM
5

I can see why you are sexless with lines like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:38 AM
2

Had to be done
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:06 AM
1

Okay buddy 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:49 AM
1

Enjoy the reading
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:45 AM
3

Like I said, if you don’t accept the stats the studies are right there for you, later
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:39 AM
3

The site literally combines the statistics from all the studies so you don’t have to.. you asked for statistics and I provided them, now you want to pretend they don’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:36 AM
3

Dude.. all the names of studies are right there all you have to do is google the names.. if you don’t accept the statistics read the studies and tell me what you disagree with, and no I’m not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:33 AM
3

You’re skirting, I read the website where the statistics are already compiled. You can play ignorance if you want that’s upto you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:30 AM
2

Dude all the studies are right there, read whichever one you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:29 AM
2

the RAINN website combines the most appropriate statistics together
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:19 AM
3

Sources:​ United States Department of Health and Human Services, Administration for Children and Families, Administration on Children, Youth and Families, Children’s Bureau. Child Maltreatment Survey, 2016 (2018). Department of Justice, Office of Justice Programs, Bureau of Justice Statistics, Sex Offenses and Offenders (1997). David Finkelhor, Anne Shattuck, Heather A. Turner, & Sherry L. Hamby, The Lifetime Prevalence of Child Sexual Abuse and Sexual Assault Assessed in Late Adolescence, 55 Jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:17 AM
3

One in 9 girls and 1 in 53 boys under the age of 18 experience sexual abuse or assault at the hands of an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:11 AM
4

Here’s some stats for sex offenders in America. There are over 42 million adult sexual abuse survivors in the US. Males make up anywhere between 80% and 90% of all sex offenders. Girls are two to three times more likely to be molested. Approximately 500,000 child predators are online every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:05 AM
6

As you surely know the majority of pedophiles don’t get caught, and the victims are usually too scared to report or even mention the crimes to anybody. Any stats would understate the actual level of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:58 AM
4

You think they keep stats of every time a young girl gets cat called or leered at?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:48 AM
8

It might not be daily, it might be weekly, or monthly, but it’s a lot more common than you would want to believe and I’m glad it never happened to me. There’s a lot of stuff women live with that I wouldn’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:45 AM
5

I’m talking about women not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:41 AM
7

Easy to say when you didn’t grow up with pedophiles trying to fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:37 AM
6

Then you immediately diminished it. Don’t even compare the two because one is way worse than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:33 AM
12

Are you serious? This sub is creepy as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:29 AM
1

It’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:34 AM
1

4-7 sure, but I’ve never seen a woman go from 4-9
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:40 AM
1

What is it with the men in this sub wallowing in self pity so much, life is more than just getting women Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:47 AM
2

I’d say 90 percent of all relationships are doomed to fail eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:07 AM
1

Surely guys that are out dating and getting laid and sulking around on dating subs right? PPD and even reddit in general is not an accurate representation of the wider public
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:03 AM
2

And all the women that get men they think are worthy of dating, are they settling too? That makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:27 PM
2

Yeah that’s not accurate, if it was there’d be barely couples at all..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:15 PM
1

Lol what
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 12:58 AM
1

People want to date other people not their own level, what’s a shocker
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:30 AM
4

Men absolutely can get women that are a looks match, literally go for a walk in town and you’ll literally see couples everywhere that are looks matched. Y’all need to stop pushing this myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:16 PM
1

I highly doubt that “most” women have backup men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:48 AM
4

Oh loook out this guy gets pussy everyone! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:56 PM
1

Just the way you talk about women makes you sounds like a bitter 12 year old who reads incel forums
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:41 PM
4

What are you talking about dude
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:19 PM
12

God there are some super cringe attitudes towards women in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:17 PM
2

As far as I could see TRP wanted nothing to do with incels and it’s followers made that pretty clear
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:39 PM
0

That’s a shame, be better if it was removed all together
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:06 AM
1

Did it get deleted or did it just go private?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:48 AM
3

Either does yours
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:46 PM
14

“Most men are completely turned off when they learn a woman has a boyfriend or is married” bro what actual planet are you living on 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:20 AM
1

Yeah you couldn’t be more wrong from my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:18 PM
0

Most men would stay single then marry a loser also
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:12 PM
3

HVM can be defined many different ways depending on who you ask
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 11:44 AM
-1

Man, I don’t think it matters at all personally, I’m not an insecure type.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:47 AM
17

Literally just giving men women’s problems and women men’s problems
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:14 AM
1

Yeah this is not the hill to die on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:44 PM
1

Since when do men get shamed for seeking looks matches? Is this a new thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:33 AM
2

I literally read your OP, relax
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:46 PM
-2

“Nice guys” are only nice in the hope of getting some crumb of pussy. Watch how they change the moment they get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:45 PM
11

No, I mean actually justify, like claiming she did nothing wrong by seeking out murder victims.. I don’t mean merely sympathising for someone that had an abusive upbringing, because there has been at least one post on FDS that was exactly that and the comments section was full of women claiming she did nothing wrong, it was sickening.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 10:27 PM
3

I’m clearly saying they are both toxic, it doesn’t matter if one Is more toxic than the other when they both deserved to be banned.. misandry always gets a free pass though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 09:25 PM
3

Why is you’re initial response always to screech about incels groups? We know incels groups should be banned and most of them are.. we are talking about FDS and how it deserves to be banned in its own merits. It’s funny how you play the old BUT PATRIARCHY!! card, if we had so much power in society why are we shutdown silenced or cancelled for saying anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:59 PM
4

Why should only one be banned but not the other? Incels groups do at least get banned, Just because FDS doesn’t support killing people it doesn’t mean it’s not toxic as hell and worthy of being shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:39 PM
17

FDS do praise and defend Aileen Wuornos so there’s that.. they also say it’s okay to denigrate someone that suffers from mental illness or is gay. Not to mention all the kink shaming that goes on there, encouraging it’s members to financially and emotionally abuse men, it’s a pretty hard group to defend if you’re honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:33 PM
1

I’m saying when it come to sex and relationships women behave with more reason than men on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:47 PM
1

We are more animals then women are, we have that wet at least. I dunno why men think they are owed equal opportunity in the dating market, it’s a marketplace. You offer what you have to offer and if it’s not enough then bad luck, life ain’t fair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:53 PM
1

Seems a bit prudish but as long as you hold yourself to the same standards it’s fair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:18 AM
1

Purely depends on what you classify as a “hoe”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:02 AM
4

Their intuition is pretty much the only tool they have to protect themselves against predators, if you take that away what else do they have to replace it with?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 12:20 AM
1

I think it’s clear if a girl finds you funny that definitely makes you more attractive to her, wether you cross her threshold is another thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:42 PM
2

If you can stomach the idea of sleeping with a prostitute and have the money I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:22 AM
1

I’m sure sugar babies are super attracted to the guys that have to pay them for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:32 PM
1

Highly doubtful they’d be best at everything, why would you even care anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:32 PM
2

You seriously wanna fuck someone that is repulsed by you? Jesus that’s bleak
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:59 AM
1

Why would anyone even think it’s possible to find a partner who is the literal best at everything? some people live in a fairytale world
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:50 AM
1

For me to be a cuck, my long term partner would a) have to be sleeping with someone else, and b) I’d have to stay with her, even if one of these things occurred they both certainly wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:07 AM
2

Sure, if you want to go deep enough there is a level of insecurity in that also, but to a much smaller extent and one that can be justified
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:48 AM
2

I’m simply trying to ascertain what qualifies a woman as a “town whore”, so you think 5 sexual encounters outside of relationships does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:46 AM
1

Depends what you define as high
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:08 AM
2

Maybe not being a virgin doesn’t make you a “whore”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:06 AM
0

Not sure how that would benefit me in anyway, I’m just calling at as it appears to me. Judging the character of a person simply on N count with no other details seems like behaviour that comes from a mindset of insecurity, if you disagree that’s fine
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:57 AM
1

I’m clearly speaking in a general sense since there are always outliers. What could I possibly be “coping” with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:25 AM
2

Yeah I can’t say I share that sentiment
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:09 AM
2

Sure, how many random women flood reddit guys inboxes though do you think? I’d wager next to none
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:58 AM
2

Even guys that appear nice can be using a thin veil of niceness to get what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:46 AM
-6

If they want to deflect then sure
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:40 AM
2

Are you really that naive?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:22 AM
3

Drowning in creepy reddit men sending lewd messages, yeah those are great options..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:13 AM
1

I’m not mad at anybody, you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:35 PM
3

Yeah I’ve had quite a few partners in my life and have never asked their N count, judge people by their character.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:19 PM
6

Or people that aren’t insecure as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:15 PM
0

Dating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:23 AM
9

I disagree, most people would agree that yes women have more choice when it comes to dating than men, but the important thing is what is your response? Sit around and complain? Build up resentment towards women? Or do you actually want to respond in a constructive way and try and do things to increase your chances?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:12 PM
0

Depends what they mean, if they mean good men then they may have a point, can’t say I’ve seen many women online claim it’s it’s easier for men to get dates than women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 04:23 AM
2

Not bad if you’re happy to date a looks match
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 12:01 AM
3

No shit lol, who thinks it’s tougher for women to find partners than for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:08 AM
1

Yeah that’s not true, the top 20% of men have an earlier time but can we stop pretending they are they only single men having sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:01 PM
-1

Men are also getting their needs met while single also?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:21 PM
1

Yeah definitely can’t relate to that, I have no interest in sex if I’m not attracted to somebody
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 04:49 AM
7

How does a high N count mean a person has no self control? You think people aren’t capable of enjoying casual sex at a certain time I their life and being faithful when they are ready for something serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:14 AM
1

Seems like a lot of women believe the opposite, Especially the women only subs like FDS and the like. You could ask them the same question
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:10 AM
1

So if a woman has a high N count due to casual sex there is no issue according to your logic right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:23 PM
5

You seem to think these two things are mutually exclusive, they aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:31 AM
2

This is something I’ve always struggled with and am going through right now, I just don’t seem to be able to get on top of it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:41 PM
1

Well that’s a perspective I can find understandable, what I don’t understand is when people claim to view sex as special and intimate but expect a partner to give it up whenever they want it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:51 PM
1

Is this like a jealousy thing? Where guys on here get bitter towards women because they get laid but you guys can’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:48 PM
1

I agree with you, 20 over the period of day 10 years is nothing. I personally don’t even care about N counts, it’s a juvenile way to judge a persons character
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:45 PM
1

Yikes, agree to disagree on that one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:41 PM
-4

20 is a high count? Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:35 AM
1

The girl in your scenario was probably just out having a fun night and isn’t looking for a dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:27 PM
1

This is fine, but don’t label men toxic that want to be manly men, that’s where I take issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:01 PM
1

Having a desire for virgins is plain weird
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:54 PM
13

So just date a man that helps with chords.. there’s heaps out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:03 AM
1

Enjoy that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:42 AM
1

My only point was so can mens, obviously that hurt your feelings quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:32 AM
1

Naming one reading does not imply it’s the only reason, I’m not sure why you can’t comprehend this..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:25 AM
1

Yeah I literally did not say that lol. I implied there was a correlation, that does not mean when a man or women ends a relationship it’s always the partners fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:21 AM
1

Mission Australia shows very different statistics, so I guess you could try argue the merits of the different studies
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:20 AM
1

Once again, you try and strawman me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:09 AM
1

That is very clearly not what I implied, I’m sure you understand that and are just trying to strawman me. I was simply implying that there is a correlation between male neglect and women instigating divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:06 AM
1

I’m general men are more abusive than women, so what’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:54 AM
1

Mens also does as well right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:19 PM
1

So you’re just not gunna answer his question?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:18 PM
2

This is a bit hyperbolic don’t you think, most guys have standards of varying degrees
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:14 PM
3

I mean looks are subjective, to me 6-7 is a fair rating for her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:17 AM
2

Don’t red pillers believe in chads too though? I lose track of all the ideologies tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:47 PM
1

So you pretty much judge people the same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:29 PM
1

I think it’s also Red Pillers who severely overestimate the level to which looks is important. If you listened to them you’d think a reasonable looking man would have absolutely no chance of finding a partner, but take a step out in the real world and you’ll quickly find yourself surrounded by looks matched couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:16 PM
1

Heard this point made on this sub so many times and it’s just a false equivalence. Clearly you’re not going to approach a casual fling the same way you’ll approach a potential life partner. Reeks of insecurity from the man tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:10 AM
1

literally
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:45 PM
1

Most men don’t care about the quality of woman they are having sex with? Surely this is not accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:08 AM
3

Why do you assume all men would love to receive random nudes from any moderately attractive woman? That would be creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:01 PM
1

Penalise people that choose to remain single? That’s an awful concept, I can’t think of a single positive consequence of this that wouldn’t be outweighed by negatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:43 PM
3

And I responded that regulating the sexual market in those ways would cause more harm than good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:35 PM
1

Not that I’m aware of, I’m open to ideas though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:28 PM
1

No I didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:05 PM
4

Yeah India is not a place to aspire to in the way they treat women.. that’s way worse than the marketplace we have right now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:41 PM
0

Just limiting the amount of children you’re allowed to have? Is that what you’re referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:36 PM
11

Regulate the sexual market? That sounds a creepy as fuck and I don’t even know how that might work
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:29 AM
1

Maybe location has something to do if, for guys that don’t look after themselves I’d agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:41 AM
3

Yeah I’ve pretty much just always been myself, worst thing you can do is try too hard, you’ll just seem desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:06 AM
11

I can’t attest to mid to late 30’s, but I can attest to early 30’s, it’s definitely happening at some level
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:30 PM
1

Yeah I really agree with this, ever asked a woman her N count and I never even kept track of my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:23 PM
1

28-33 might be closer to accurate win my opinion, in a very general sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:21 PM
1

I’d say less sexist for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:22 AM
2

I do think majority of women want men to be open with their emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:11 AM
4

So it looks like 70% of Australian men are overweight to 60% of women so you are slightly correct
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:09 AM
2

What country do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:23 AM
3

Obesity rates for women are just as high as men, and higher in some nations
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:17 AM
0

Who says women hit the wall at 30? That doesn’t seem correct
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:15 AM
1

Not a chance lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:34 AM
2

I think you’re highly exaggerating the percentage of women that don’t like men that open up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:33 PM
1

I’m talking about women I’ve dated
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:31 PM
21

I’ve opened up to numerous women about my childhood trauma, I was always met with support.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:23 PM
1

Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:22 PM
1

You’re not understanding. Women aren’t dating men because they need them to literally survive. They choose men who can offer a whole range of things that can make their lives better, more comfortable, happier, or all of the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:38 PM
1

Okay? I’m still wondering what this has to do with evolutionary survival? Women want to date men that make their lives better, which favours a bunch of positive traits and doesn’t favour a lot of negative traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:27 PM
2

Because high status men usually have a bunch of positive traits that appeal to women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:20 PM
2

99% of western women don’t need a man to provide for them so they can survive, it’s merely a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:50 AM
1

We don’t live in a society where evolution dictates our choices so this question is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:02 AM
11

That’s pretty hilarious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:48 AM
1

This is hilarious lol, never once have I had a woman ask wether I can fight or not 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:57 AM
1

Could not care less
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:54 AM
3

Okay buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:42 PM
2

You have some issues my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:34 PM
1

Hours a day? Who the hell is watching prom for more then a few minutes? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:45 AM
5

Yeah I’m not here defending TRP by any means, it’s very toxic also
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:10 AM
10

Gotta call BS on this one, they openly endorse shaming gay and trans people, men who seem mental help, constant kink shaming, they promote their members using manipulative tactics to get what they want from men, it’s definitely a toxic group.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:55 AM
1

Why would someone leave a country just to look for a date? That shit sounds ridiculous to me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:31 PM
2

Stop talking sense in this sub, it’s not allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:27 PM
1

Who says they are? Are there any studies to back this up?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:07 AM
1

Well that’s just plain wrong so we’ll have to agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:58 AM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:27 AM
1

Attractive or even reasonable looking guys, if you have decent features and look after yourself they seem to get better
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:05 AM
2

I never implied they weren’t, I said they got more attractive not that they were ugly to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:41 AM
1

I’m not talking about celebrities, I’m talking about men in my social sphere. Yes you do lose muscle definition as your metabolism slows down and yes you do start losing hair, but it seems to me a pretty general trend that a guys actual looks seem to peak around early 30’s, just my observation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:33 AM
1

Sorry autocorrect, I meant features
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:40 AM
1

I’m not talking personality, I mean facial gestures mostly seem to mature as men go into their 30’s, from what I can tell anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:38 AM
1

Maybe it depends on the people you know I guess, I’ve always been decent looking but for some reason it seems mens looks mature as they hit their 30’s, provided they life a healthy life of course
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:48 PM
5

Really? Most of my make friends look their best right now, myself included
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:31 PM
9

Because a lot of men do look their best in their 30’s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:12 PM
14

Both men and women are both becoming less attractive, mostly due to skyrocketing obesity rates
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:12 PM
4

FDS is every part as toxic as RP, just in different ways, it might also contain more self delusion as at least RP encourages men to look within to improve their own flaws, whereas FDS seems to be built on deflection:
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:58 AM
2

OP said it was a comment not a post
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:38 PM
1

I’m a dude, just giving some reasons why women don’t like sharing details like that, personally I couldn’t care less about N count, don’t even know my own so who am I to judge a girls N count
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:46 PM
20

Creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:44 PM
3

Most men are insecure though, and even if they aren’t there are other men that will use that information against you to try and hurt or tease you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:43 PM
1

I struggle to believe most women care wether a guy has a 6 pack or not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:53 AM
5

Is this a troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:39 PM
0

In dating, yes. In life? Not a chance in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:26 AM
1

Red Pill coaches aren’t even Alpha’s themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:37 AM
1

Yes, and no
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:57 PM
2

This isn’t accurate, I’ve had a lot of hookups over the years and there were a few that ran for the hills when I raised the prospect of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:35 AM
4

For the same reasons guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:19 PM
0

Niceguys aren’t actually nice guys lol. They are nice to try and fuck girls, the second they get rejected they explode with rage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:40 PM
3

These guys have been fed this garbage by other idiots on the internet, they don’t know any better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:40 AM
3

This obsession over N count is just bizarre to me.. I’ve never asked a girl what here is and I have no idea what mine is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:39 AM
1

I disagree, most couple I know met on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:29 AM
1

I’d say the top 20% is much closer to 40% just from my life experiences, but we can disagree on that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:20 AM
4

That was always allowed dude 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:59 AM
11

We are all expendable
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:44 PM
3

And? That’s life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:44 PM
1

Your missing the point, of course there are girls that are attracted to those guys, but they are outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:38 PM
1

Can always count on PPD for a good chuckle
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:27 PM
1

Yeah got the most part I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:22 PM
1

More men punching up for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:01 AM
1

Big yikes dude
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:32 PM
1

Who is stopping you from being free? What do you want to do that you can’t currently do?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:14 PM
1

So opt out, let the women that actually want children have them, just for context I am also pro women’s choice to have access to abortions
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:24 AM
2

I would imagine the incentive for the woman to give birth to a child is that she also wants a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:22 AM
1

That is the angle FDS tried to push, which is quite despicable in my opinion. Like her killing John’s makes her any less of a monster, and the fact she did it for theft not because she was attacked makes it even worse. Defending Wournos is not the hill I would want to plant my flag on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:19 AM
3

There’s a study in 2019 that says both men and women are happier when they are not married, so maybe it would benefit men and women if we just remove marriage from the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:17 AM
1

Okay you’re arguing something I wasn’t even discussing, I was very specifically talking about the weird way FDS users praise Wourness when she was as cold and cruel as any male serial killer you could think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:13 AM
3

That is all very subjective also, and a very specific circumstance, I think a lot of men would be better off if the stopped obsessing over women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:12 AM
1

Yes sh was severely abused in her childhood, however she murdered innocent men in cold planned for petty theft, she was a monster by any definition. If you’re going to accept mitigating factors for Wournos you have to do the same for all the male killers that were also abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:09 AM
3

Why makes you think women thrive single but men did? The happiest and most productive periods of my life were when I was single
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:07 AM
2

If you think they used redpill to congregate beige they had their own space then okay I don’t see any real significance in that, the fact is redpill has never aligned itself with the incel movement and if anything is quite opposed to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:25 PM
2

Okay? And most red pillers despise incels and much as the rest of society does.. the fact is the ideologies do not align. One group is about self improvement and strategies to raise your chances at getting women, the other is actively preaching hate and separation from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:21 PM
3

Because it’s logically coherent. Because it’s happened to a lot of men, myself included. I’m not trying to say it’s super common, but it can’t be denied that it occurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:19 PM
2

What’s scary is I seen a post on FDS about Wournos being unfairly judged, they really are a crazy bunch
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:14 PM
2

Yeah I’m not a fan of redpill but I believe you are way off in your assertions that it originated in redpill spaces, they aren’t even similar ideologies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:13 PM
1

I suspect this is the same effect FDS ideology is having on men, making it easier for them to identify toxic women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:09 PM
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Being raised in an environment of abuse can lead to all kinds of trauma that can affect sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:58 PM
1

The two favourites would have to be either religious reasons or insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:57 PM
1

You’ve moved the goalposts a little, you started asking what would a man need to deserve that woman, to what does society think he needs to be co spidered equal, the answer is there’s no such thing as deserve, if you can get it than it’s yours, if you can’t than it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:19 AM
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So even if this is true you’re talking about an exceptionally rare type of woman, so how is that useful?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:58 PM
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Not really, I do t care about a woman’s N count because it is literally irrelevant to me, people get way to insecure worrying about peoples past
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:55 PM
1

Could literally be anything dude, everyone has different preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:52 PM
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You’re overstating it, its only important if you’re comparing an attractive person to an unattractive person, but if she finds both people attractive but one guy has other better traits attractiveness isn’t a very big deal at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:25 PM
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No it doesn’t, if she has 5 qualities she looks for in man, and he’s better in 1 but you’re better in the other 4, how is that settling?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:22 PM
2

No not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:19 PM
1

Yep, a lot of guys on this sub simply equate better with looks. It takes a lot of insecurity to get that upset about your gf having previously dated someone better looking than you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:42 PM
6

This opinion is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:24 PM
1

Seems like petty jealousy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:22 PM
1

I’m probably a 7 or 8 at my absolute best, you don’t have to sleep with unattractive women to get a high N count, also having a high N count does not make you a better man than anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:25 PM
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On what basis are you calling me a liar? You really think it’s an outrageous claim? I’ve seen it in my own friend group so don’t try and tell me it doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:44 AM
3

You’re welcome buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:28 PM
0

I can read perfectly fine
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:25 PM
2

Absolutely have
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:15 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:15 PM
-1

You really think men don’t get criticised for their partners behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:42 PM
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This is bs lol, I’ve heard countless guys get dragged about having ugly gf’s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:41 PM
7

I agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:31 PM
5

I don’t believe that is even a RP belief
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:27 PM
2

80/20 rule is an exaggeration
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:26 PM
0

According to me it isn’t lol, I’ve been with virgins and non virgins and sleeping with virgins is not more satisfying
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:52 AM
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Yeah I don’t really agree with that, besides, specifically targeting a virgin seems creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:01 AM
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I don’t view other guys as competition, and I don’t consider non virgins as promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:26 AM
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I’d steer clear of virgins for relationships also, unless I was one myself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:25 AM
1

What’s sexy about a virgin? The sex is terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:13 AM
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Whichever one I get along with better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:12 AM
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No you don’t, I’m a 7 and have never found it difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:36 PM
1

It’s weird
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:35 PM
1

If it’s not obvious to you then it probably shouldn’t matter to you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:18 PM
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Why do guys get excited about virgins? I’m a guy and the thought of hooking up with a virgin is a turn off to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:09 PM
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Couldn’t care less about either of these scenarios, depends what her personality and values are like
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:07 PM
0

This is a total false equivalency
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:44 AM
0

Typo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:09 AM
0

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:50 PM
5

That’s nonsense, but even for the women that do, who cares? You’re insecurities will drive her away.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:46 PM
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Yeah it would absolutely be a minority of men doing this nasty shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:47 PM
1

Or maybe you don’t have to be a 9 or 10 to get girls..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:55 AM
1

I’m definitely no where near a 9. I’m under 6ft, average looks, not fat but no muscular either, earn an average wage, maybe I have other things going for me but if we are talking overall looks I’m a 7.5 at most
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:51 AM
1

I’m also around a 7 and I’ve never had any trouble getting dates or hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:44 AM
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No, they want someone in their league, as in them being a 6 and not settling for some guy that’s a 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:39 AM
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Because there absolutely are average looking women that struggle to find sexual partners, the reason for this is because a lot of women won’t debase themselves just to get laid, they’d rather wait for someone they actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:11 AM
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Y’all are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:28 AM
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You’re trying to manufacture a disgust reaction by using a contrived situation that doesn’t apply to the opposite gender, there is no equivalence
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:37 PM
1

Yeah that’s a false equivalency my guy. And you don’t have to be done big stud to sleep with a lot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:35 PM
1

Exactly, so it makes no sense to distinguish only prostitutes when referring to a persons N count
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:29 PM
1

That doesn’t really make any sense, when you refer to a man or woman’s N count you’re never asking how many prostitutes they have slept with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:24 PM
1

Why would you use the example of prostitute instead of just casual sexual encounters?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:04 PM
1

Yeah that was in my partying days, I’m in a totally different friend group now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:17 PM
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1, 2 and 3 for men doesn’t seem at all accurate to me, maybe I’m an outlier but I dunno
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:57 PM
1

Exactly, a lot of guys on here don’t seem to understand that average/less than average girls can struggle to get sex also
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:51 AM
1

You’re referring to FDS right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:16 AM
3

Agree to disagree on that one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:21 AM
7

Yeah that’s just my point, guys are as bad as girls and probably worse
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:51 AM
5

It’s a simple scenario, the boys are standing in a group near the dance floor, one of them goes over and finds an ugly girl to dance with, he makes out with the ugly girl then heads back to the group and the guys crack up about it, the poor girl and usually her friends eventually catch on to what they are doing and I’m sure you can imagine how humiliating that would feel
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:47 AM
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It is public humiliation when the poor women can see all the guys laughing at them for being ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:44 AM
12

Some of my mates used to go to clubs and make a game out of seeing who could make out with the ugliest girl, it was horrible and made the girls feel like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:37 AM
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Oh stop it that is not true at all, the way men talk to and about ugly women is fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:28 AM
21

You’re not implying the reverse isn’t also precedent though right? Ugly women cop it badly also
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:12 AM
2

Women definitely can’t have sex with any man they choose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:06 AM
4

Make a will?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:54 PM
1

I’ve rejected quite a few women over the years, alway respectfully of course. Are there men here that think this doesn’t happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:55 PM
1

Gos this question is cringe lol, women don’t give a fuck if you stop masturbating for a month 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:05 PM
1

And vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:04 AM
1

Different strokes for different folks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:05 AM
2

I’m not talking strictly bodies, if it’s average body + average face then no the majority of them aren’t attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:52 PM
1

There’s a difference between being not being ugly and being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:41 PM
1

Highly doubtful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:19 PM
2

Well if there’s only one man that hits on a 12 year old that’s still too many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:26 PM
1

This question really brings out the creepy language doesn’t it. What is so wrong with accepting you aren’t sexually attractive to most women? Are men really that pathetic that they can’t find any kind of enjoyment from life if it doesn’t involve copulating?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:53 PM
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You made it painfully obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:22 AM
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Yeah I’m the same
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:21 AM
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spotted the future rapist, get help dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:18 AM
0

What could possibly be done about it? Just accept it or make personal changes seems like the only reasonable responses
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:09 AM
1

You’re free to get it if you can dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:07 AM
2

Not something I care about enough to ask a partner, and if a partner ever asked me I’d find it a bit strange
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:25 AM
1

Why does the child of a celebrity deserve to live a life of luxury? That’s absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:01 AM
2

Shhhhh no facts here please
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:02 PM
1

Anyone caring about N count is stupid and weird, unless you’re religious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:22 PM
1

Most women know they aren’t their man’s absolute first choice either so this seems kind of pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:39 AM
1

Probably absolutely nothing, except an increase in the amount of violent incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:38 AM
1

I don’t have a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:54 AM
1

This is cringe af, I hope it’s a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:05 AM
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Not it’s not, behaving the exact same around different people would irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:44 AM
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All it shows that all people are different so why would you expect a person to behave the same way with different people?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:36 AM
1

Nah cbf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:54 AM
1

I don’t believe in any pills lol, and if anything my gf is the simp not me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:42 AM
1

Maybe one day you can transcend to my level and have a gf without being a simp! Something for you to strive for
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:37 AM
1

Simp
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:33 AM
1

You’re fucking hilarious 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:17 AM
1

We just plain agree to disagree then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:15 AM
1

Excessive sympathy? That’s purely subjective. Explain to me how showing sympathy for women on reddit would result in some kind of sexual dividend? You’re logic isn’t adding up, but you want to label guys that don’t agree with you Dino’s so bad that you make the term as broadly applicable as you can. I’m happily in a relationship there is literally no reason why I would even need to simp. You might want to rethink your position.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:57 PM
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Simp is an Internet slang term describing someone who shows excessive sympathy and attention toward another person, typically someone who does not reciprocate the same feelings, in order to win their affection. This is usually done in pursuit of a sexual relationship. Is this the definition you ascribe to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:21 PM
1

We obviously have completely different ideas of what simping is then, labelling someone a simp you know nothing about just because they disagree with you is a pretty weird thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:08 PM
1

I mean there is the fact I don’t even remotely sit the definition of a simp.. nevermind that though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:39 PM
1

You’ve literally re-defined the term simp with every single response this is hilarious lol. My decision to enter had nothing to do with sex, in fact if sex was a motivator I would have stayed single. I’m gunna call bs on your simp nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:54 PM
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You keep shifting the goalposts.. you said a simp acts more on emotion than logic, so clearly you can be in a relationship and nit be a simp. And why you’re so obsessed with throwing that weird label on everyone is pretty strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:35 PM
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My relationship is mutually beneficial. The positives far outweighs the negatives, you can be in a relationship and not be a simp according to your own logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:15 PM
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No it’s doesn’t. Im very much guided by thoughts over emotions in all aspects of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:18 PM
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Well if you define it like then no I am not a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:17 PM
1

It’s a borderline useless term then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:09 PM
1

So basically every straight male is a simp then? Is that what you’re saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:49 AM
1

You’d have to define simping
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:08 AM
1

A lot of scumbag ass men would think twice before attempting to assault a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:44 AM
3

Yeah look that’s not as bad as literally being raped and beaten by your husband whenever he feels like it and you can’t even call the police because it wasn’t recognised as a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:41 AM
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If y’all call being a rational human being simping then I’ll accept the label
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:19 AM
3

I’m literally the opposite of a simp but if it makes you feel cool to throw out cringe labels all power to you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:12 AM
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Huh? I’m in a long term relationships so I have literally no motivation to simp or white knight lol, you’re big mad huh 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:22 AM
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Simp fantasy? Bro you spend way too much time on the internet 😂 you couldn’t be further from the truth. A patriarchal society doesn’t change just because a queen in place by the way. I love how he when comparing the lives of the average woman to man it always comes down to “but women can fuck whenever they want” or some cringe variation. Marital rape for example wasn’t even part of law until the late 60’s-70’s, it’s only a recent event that married women have been recognised as human beings and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:06 AM
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If you were a woman you would most likely want to be fucked by men but that’s totally irrelevant. The point is western society has been male dominated since its inception, anyone who thinks women have it easier than men is either delusional or ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:56 AM
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If you offered me life as a woman plus a million dollars I’d say no thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:06 AM
1

Who said anything about garauntee? Nothing in life is guaranteed except death
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:00 AM
1

Real talk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:59 AM
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You must be taking the piss surely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:56 AM
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