The double standard explained.

JosieSandie · 2023-01-01T07:01:15+00:00

When a woman sleeps with a lot of men, she’s a “slut.” When a man does the same thing, suddenly he’s “gay”.

Koipisces · 2023-01-01T12:14:51+00:00

QTM who think like this: why would you sleep with a woman that is “fat & ugly”? How is it an achievement for a man to sleep with “fat & ugly” women? So a man who sleeps with lots of 2s can be a stud? Do you men not have any standards?

Makes more sense to have more respect for the woman who sleeps with lots of 10s than the man who sleeps with lots of 2s. It’s not that difficult to sleep with unattractive people. I think also people would have more respect for the men who only slept with those who were actually attractive, even if it means lower n-count. So the double standard doesn’t make sense. Quality over quantity.

Willow-girl · 2023-01-01T15:22:06+00:00

Why do men assume that sluts sleep with random guys? That would indeed be easy. But sluts are usually trying to cut the prettiest pony from the herd, and that's a bit more tricky. For one, you have a lot of competition. It's not as easy as it seems.

kvakerok · 2023-01-01T04:13:59+00:00

Is it fair that women can’t do it without being shamed? No. Is it fair that 90% of men can’t do it at all? Also no. Life is not fair.

AcidSpittingIlamaa · 2023-01-01T06:47:23+00:00

To be slut is easy but you get shamed and ridiculed for it. To be a stud is hard but you praised and glorified for it. Men or redpill men are mad at women cause they don't have to work hard for sex cause that's an issue most men face. But you aren't looking at the entire context as like I said, most women get mocked and ridiculed for being hoes, doesn't matter how many guys are in your DMS, if you gonna be mocked for getting with all. This is why these kinds of women are picky, tons of options, can only choose one.

justforlulz12345 · 2023-01-01T04:54:59+00:00

If you go gay you can fuck as many femboys as you want or get fucked by chad as much as you want. True freedom

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2023-01-01T06:22:52+00:00

I’m now enlightened tyvm

Otherwise_Zebra120 · 2023-01-01T07:33:55+00:00

This is just cope lmao . If u the wanna be a man wh0re, do it in peace. But don’t try to shame women who are just like you.

DicamVeritatem · 2023-01-01T12:57:10+00:00

It is a double standard rooted in biology, not in socialization.

LupeDyCazari · 2023-01-01T20:47:43+00:00

Not really. These days with how degenerate the western world is, almost any guy can get laid. How these kids fail at something so basic, baffles me to no end. I guess that is what happens when boys are raised without a father in the family LMAOOO.

Shit, even my pastor of a dad is more of a man than what these dudes have in their lives, growing up.

KommandaKoopa · 2023-01-01T21:52:56+00:00

“If a guy sleeps with loads of women, he’s a player, he’s a stud, he’s admired. But if a woman sleeps with loads and loads of men, she’s called Rack’s mum.”

OnePotatoeChip · 2023-01-01T12:51:29+00:00

I dunno, man. Even as a dude, this logic doesn't track. Putting effort into X thing doesn't suddenly make X thing praiseworthy or noble. We first need to establish if X is a good or bad thing. If it's bad, then that just means you're putting effort into something that's bad. Like, we're not even talking about the behavior, but the ease at which someone can engage in the behavior. It's weird.

ffandyy · 2023-01-01T10:21:50+00:00

Are we pretending there aren’t lots of average guys out there with high n counts?

spicyelgato · 2023-01-01T06:41:20+00:00

Okay? Something being easy doesn't mean you should be shamed for doing it. That's stupid. Also that premise is bullshit. You're nuts stuck in an echo chamber of bitter misogynistic incels who can't get laid due to being pieces of shit.

luliloo · 2023-01-01T07:38:14+00:00

To not be a slut, you just have to be a good liar 😘

Urbanwitch666 · 2023-01-01T08:58:14+00:00

It's unfair because sex is enjoyable and nobody deserves to be punished for enjoying it. And, no studs without sluts.

the_butter_lord · 2023-01-01T09:33:41+00:00

This talking point provides a convincing reason for praising men who are "studs" but doesn't provide a convincing reason for shaming women who are "sluts".

I certainly don't admire sluts the same way I admire studs, but I don't have anything against sluts either.

Cult_of_Chad · 2023-01-01T04:37:48+00:00

Some of my best ruts have been with fat, ugly studs. 🤷

Kimba93 · 2023-01-01T10:27:05+00:00

This man is unattractive and poor, yet still has 21 kids:

https://www.wvlt.tv/2021/03/16/kpd-asking-for-help-to-find-suspect-in-rape-burglary-investigation/

kellydayscruff · 2023-01-01T04:10:16+00:00

False. On both counts.

Tinder can get any tall, attractive guy laid on an almost daily basis. No charm or nice shoes necessary. And a woman who is morbidly obese is not getting male attention, she may legitimately struggle to find 10 sexual partners during her lifetime. Sexual discretion benefits everyone, however sexual indiscretion hurts women far more.

DiamondLilyD · 2023-01-01T11:20:35+00:00

It doesn't matter that it's 'hard' to be a stud because women are more selective.

You're still a disgusting slut.

angryearth · 2023-01-01T08:19:14+00:00

Cope.

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januaryphilosopher · 2023-01-01T13:22:36+00:00

Trying really hard to be a solution doesn't make it a good thing. In any other context, trying hard to do something bad makes it worse.

chingness · 2023-01-01T13:56:13+00:00

There are ugly man sluts too… I refer you to Jeremy Kyle Uk show it’s mental 😂😂

thetruthishere_ · 2023-01-01T14:10:02+00:00

Blame it on your fellow man, they are so thirsty they will stick their D in anything. Men make it easy just to be 'there'.

Go be a gay guy and you can easily be a stud and experience the male thirst.

Title	The double standard explained.
Author	MachiNarci
Upvotes	137
Comments	186
Date	January 1, 2023 3:59 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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