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jobbo321/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:35 PM
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Question For Womenjobbo321/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:11 AM
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jobbo321/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:23 PM
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Question For Womenjobbo321/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:02 PM
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jobbo321/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:32 PM
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That seem like basic things in any relationship. Really barebones compared to spending 30k dollars on a shitty shiny rock she wants to tout with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:47 AM
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I would with zero hesitation. Either I make his life hell on earth or normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:44 AM
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Imagine spending so much on a woman with the sole purpose of her bragging. There really is no unconditional love for men, apart from mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:33 AM
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Yes, I did for my last date like an idiot. Fumbled that so damn hard, although maybe she was always uninterested.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:51 PM
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Q4A: You're pregnant (or your wife is) and you live in the future. The doctor tells you with 99% accuracy that your son will be 5"2 as his final adult height. But there is hope: there is a reliable and safe pill that makes your son grow to 6"2. The pill costs 2 million USD and is not covered by insurance. There are several banks offering loans for this pill. It would financially cripple you for the forseeable future. Do you get your son the pill or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:46 PM
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60% of young men are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:25 PM
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If you're a virgin over the age if 25, take the surrogate mother pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:05 AM
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The fat guy who doesn't improve because he'd only be doing it for women will still be doing worse than the athletic guy who mainly trains to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:12 PM
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Women be like "Stop trying so hard to impress women!" and then take 30 minutes to 1 hour out of their day to put put on make-up and do their hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:25 AM
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I hope that virtual reality glasses will come soon that automatically removes make up from women. You wear that shit and see them for the mid humans they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:39 PM
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When you do more reseach into this, you'll realize it's everywhere. Even within animals. Male lions and kangaroos brutally fight each other to death and the winner fucks the female. In chimp societies, each male has a social rank which decides how much food they get as well as who gets the best sleeping positions. Meanwhile female chimps will always be taken care of and have much less competition between eachother. Male bees work their asses off as cannon fodder, female bees are queens and relax…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:39 AM
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Why do you think we care about this? Thanks for giving us free money, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:15 AM
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Marriage is a legal contract where you promise to stay faithful. By cheating you're breaking the terms of the contract. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:49 PM
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Have you also lost your bodily autonomy if you get arrested after voluntarily trespassing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:34 PM
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What region?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:23 PM
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Myanna Buring is so hot in the witcher. She is the most attractive 40 year old I can think of. She looks better in the series than in pics though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:07 PM
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If he's not hot, I don't even want to know what I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:17 AM
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What if it's a zoom call? The men would go over each picture and give you a ranking of each pic at the end of the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:50 PM
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What if the people who reviewed your pictures were men? Assume they're experts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:46 PM
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It wouldn't be a dating app. Just a website where you can submit your pictures to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:43 PM
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Q4-fellow-men who use dating apps: Would you pay for a one-time service where two women select the best pictures for your dating profile? Assume you can send in max 30 pictures. They rank them all based on what they think would get the most right swipes. Pictures that are considered too bad will not be ranked with an explanation why the picture is bad. Would you be more inclined to use the service if there is an add-on to get recommendations on ways to looksmax and improve your photos? If you wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:36 PM
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Exactly why I loved r/braincels. Most posts that were extreme/radical were removed. I can't think of any other subreddit that made me laugh so hard. Shame they banned it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:09 PM
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Literally a fictional character from a show. Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:07 PM
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I'd wear a half-sunglass from the Kingsman. Looks cool as fuck: https://id.pinterest.com/pin/561964859748859405/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:03 PM
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Consider getting Kybella or Cryoskin. You need to lower your facial fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:33 PM
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Holy shit that's actually terrible. Why do people need to harass others. Live and let live.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:22 PM
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Wayy too sharp features. She looks like a man with long hair and lipstick in that pic. I'm a simp for women with soft features like Selena Gomez. Sharp jawlines are for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:17 PM
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Is the height on Tinder with or without shoes? Might as well do with shoes to get that 180 cm mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:58 PM
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Holy shit women are actually saying this guy is average or below average. And women here still have the fucking gall to doubt the "women only find 20% of men attractive" research.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:21 AM
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Source? Also, I like "Do You Believe In Love"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:53 AM
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If you saw your husband (or ex or whatever) in public before you knew him and before you were in a relationship with him, you wouldn't have looked at him?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:15 PM
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Being an asexual robot is impossible as a human, unless you take some drug that kills all of your desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:14 PM
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What is main character syndrome about observing that no one looks at you in public? Trying to say this without sounding offensive, but many people who aren't 5"6 messed-up jawline autists have women stare at them. Very normal thing for many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:02 PM
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I don't even want to approach anyone. When I see someone attractive, I look multiple times at their face. If no one does that to me, the only conclusion is that no one (atleast, no one I see in public) finds me attractive, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:57 PM
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When I walk over street, not a single woman (of my age) looks in my face as we pass each other. What now? Same goes for when I sit anywhere. It's like I'm a ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:47 PM
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He doesn't say that is the reason 50% of likes go to the top 10% of men. What timestamp does he say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:19 PM
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I hate the fuckin' reddit (this subreddit especially) advice of "Stop your woe-is-me thinking, it's the reason you're failing!" when someone makes an observation about their shitty situation. Let's treat poor people the exact same as romantically struggling men. Unemployed person is mad because he can't get a job? Uhm, sweety, the reason why employers deny you is because they FEEL your anger for you not having a job. Try going to therapy since you're obsessing so much about getting a job. Homele…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:13 PM
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None of the women to men ratios matter. He says in the video how 50% of the likes go to the top 10% of men. The game was rigged from the start. Even if there was the same amount of women as men, the average guy would still struggle since the top 10% of men receive 50% of the likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:59 PM
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For me it's mostly for the kids. Hiring a nanny because both need to work just seems like shit. Kids need their parents when they're young.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 09:51 PM
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Remember this: she either wants to date you or not. What you say, how fast you respond and all else doesn't really matter. A good rule of thumb is: If you sent the last message, she should respond. If she sent the last message, you respond. I've had flakes from girls who responded really fast, and amazing dates with girls who'd sent nothing for an entire day. Again: nothing you do matters if she is actually interested in you. NOTHING.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:13 PM
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Why are you even thinking about all of this. Just go with the flow and respond positively. If she's fucking with you, you'll know soon enough because she'll either cancel the date, constantly say she can't go or some other bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:55 PM
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Which asian country has the thickest women? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:28 PM
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Yes, the DYHC institution will be neutral. Its only goal is to prove/disprove these topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:28 PM
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If I ever get uber rich - I'm talking 500 million USD net worth -, I'll create a research institution that solely researches purple pill topics. The 80/20 rule, hypergamy, virginity rate in men vs women, etc. Everyone will have a place of truth. The institution will be called: DYHC. Short for: Do You Have a Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:05 PM
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Q4W: Why do so many women dislike it when you become friends with them first and then ask them out? Would you rather be cold/warm approached and asked out instantly? Assume you're not in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:07 PM
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I will eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:09 PM
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Statistically insignificant on large scale, unless you want to see the individual level of attraction for each man. Show pictures of 100 different men to 100 different women. Ask each how attractive this man is as well as whether they could have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:56 PM
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They'll stay single till they get a top 20% genetically gifted man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:49 PM
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Easy. Raw sexual attraction is when you want to have sex with the person because of the way they look. It's also known as "love at first sight".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:37 PM
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To understand the 80/20 rule, you must first understand that women can enter relationships with men they feel a low amount of raw sexual attraction towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:40 AM
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Relationships =/= raw sexual attraction. Women have less of a problem starting a relationship than men. Why do you think dead bedrooms are so uncommon. Do you think women "just" lose attraction to their husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:34 AM
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I'm certain that in the future, surrogate mothers will be a thriving and legal industry. 60% of young men are single compared to 30% of young women. Women have no reason to have kids with a below 20th percent men. Statistics show that women only find the top 20% of men truly attractive. Men will always have an instinctive desire to pass on their genes, which surrogate mothers are a solution to. Add in that the compensation can be big (between 50k and 200k) and you have every incentive there is. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:18 PM
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Any long term relationships out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:05 PM
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How much luck have you had with cold approaching?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:42 PM
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No one ever said 50s or 60s apart from a few extremist red pillers. But a large group of men look better in their 30s and 40s compared to their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:11 PM
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Your definition of aversge is reeaally broad then. Who would you say is ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:26 PM
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My face looks like a combination of the El Paso mass shooter, Hayden Hillier Smith and Reviewbrah. Oh and my hair is recessing faster than my 5 year older brother's hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:20 PM
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Most women, whether homely or not, prefer a tall man. At that height I'd go for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:35 PM
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https://twitter.com/BanisMajor/status/1680802847019999233?s=20 So fucking brutal. I wonder how many women think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:24 AM
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"Dating is harder for women because we only want to fuck the top 1% of guys" Sounds like a problem created by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:21 AM
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Does anyone know how you can express yourself more freely when talking with strangers or co-workers? Every time I'm in public my brain keeps telling me to act normal and don't say anything out of ordinary. I feel a physical reaction that gives signals to my brain telling me to avoid doing anything that could be seen as shameful. This leads to me supressing my emotions when talking with people. I avoid standing up for myself/others to avoid confrontation. I avoid saying certain things that could …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:36 AM
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I only block people who are both unserious and unfunny. If you're gonna shitpost, atleast be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:18 AM
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Every man in existence knows within the first five seconds of seeing a woman whether he'd fuck her. In that essence, they're fantisizing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:27 AM
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I need them desperately
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:30 AM
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High IQ. But how would you explain dead bedrooms (assuming there's foreplay in it)?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:54 PM
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Your friends host a party and they invite their other friends who you don't know. Easiest way to get a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:47 PM
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Body language, especially eye contact is a big one. Teachers know who has a crush on who simply by seeing which pupils often stares at the other. Honestly, words don't matter much from what I've seen. There's no way to make a first date go well if she isn't interested in you. If she is interested in you, it doesn't really matter what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:39 PM
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What does it matter that other people are around you if you aren't going to interact with them anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:03 PM
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You can buy a beer for much cheaper at the supermarket and drink at your hotel. You can order everything you could possibly want via phone and get it delivered to your room. You have a private television in your room with zero other people around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:47 PM
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My biggest regret is doing nothing with music. I loved singing as a young lad but the piano lessons I was sent to by my parents were boring as shit and took away all my joy in music creation. I really couldn't care for practising so much that I could perfectly re-play a song with sheer muscle memory like a Chinese kid. Can anyone else relate?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:10 PM
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Nope. Did I get location mogged?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:08 PM
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I wish I did (especially at the end) but I can't talk to random women while my family is right besides me. Cringe is simply too strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:59 PM
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I was with my family so no
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:47 PM
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Went to a big music event a few days ago and I literally did not see ANY guy who was accompanied by a woman where the guy was: My height or below (5"9) White Age range of 20s So much so for "Just go outside and you'll see the 80/20 rule is bullshit bro!". I did not see any guy like me who was doing well. And I saw a lot of guys like me, thousands. Surely the next c*pe will be "They did not bring their girlfriends with them bro!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:11 PM
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Never ever seem needy. Quickest way to kill any attraction she had. Text her less than she texts you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:44 PM
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I’m mostly confused by how quickly he identified my mother as my mother specifically. Clearly he remembers something. I don’t really care if he admits he bullied me, I think it was more important for my mother to say that to him. He'll definitely think about it later, so that's good. Deep inside he knows. Maybe you'll get a letter 50 years later where he apologises like my grandmother's bully did lmao. I agree with you to some extent. Being different makes you stand out. Then again, school doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:34 AM
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Bullies will do everything in their power to tell themselves they didn't bully you, or didn't know they were bullying you. Even when you cry in class and ask a teacher to call them out, they'll continue. Then when it gets so bad that you have to switch schools and your teacher publicly announces this (like an asshole), they'll all be like really suprised as to why you switched. Something I noticed is that bullies often target kids who look different. I used to have long hair as a guy which made …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:13 AM
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I don't want someone who sleeps with strangers. This includes people they don't know longer than 2 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:52 AM
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God I'd hate to have a girlfriend who dresses slutty. Please just give me one who is modest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:49 AM
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Same, I was thinking about working at McDonalds. Some cuties there as well. Only thing I'm scared of is needing to talk to Karens and hoodrats. I just want to make the burgers and clean the tables Honestly just work at the center. Sometimes I saw people from my school at Dominos and it was fun for 2 seconds and then they had to work again. Also, the treshold to work for the first time only becomes bigger the longer you wait. Working your first job is cool at 17, not at 21 (like me)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:18 PM
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It's code word for cock carousel
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:43 PM
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You'll gain nothing by asking this. Most will tell you here that it doesn't matter, yet they all greatly prefer a non-virgin guy who had atleast some experience. Similiar to how asking women about whether height matters, results in them somehow saying "Actually height doesn't matter much!." Despite most women having an internal minimum height requirement and greatly preferring a taller man. You can't ask women to be blunt about what they prefer. Or I mean you can, but the answers will be useless…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:05 AM
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Anyone else just bored of games these days? I used to be on the edge of addiction during high school but now I get bored after 1 match.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:58 PM
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Lmao at her "There are only players in my engineering masters degree". Flat out lie. I'd believe it if it was a business degree. What she's saying is that she finds none of the guys there attractive and conveniently throws them all under the "player" label.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:42 PM
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I kinda look like him except my cheekbones aren't as pronounced
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:33 PM
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They all are
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:29 PM
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My chin isn't as prominent as his and my eyes look like The Weeknd's
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:13 PM
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And that type never includes me :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:04 AM
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Agree, truly a waste of potential. Why do they always eat more? I guess it doesn't matter for them in the long run since their bahookas are there to save them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:21 PM
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All of my matches are always women who haven't been blessed with the large jugs. They know they're wanted so they go for the best of the best of the best. They always go for either tall guy, dominant asshole, gymbro or a combination of these from my real world experience. It's like they feel more feminine so they want a more masculine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:20 PM
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It's a shame how women with the largest natural boobies (while in normal bmi) are also the pickiest. I really am God's strongest soldier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:53 PM
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Not a woman, but I've literally never seen it happen. Whether in my own country or any other. Even in NYC I've never seen it. The women I talk to tell me the only men who do it are either hoodrats or guys much older than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:53 AM
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I hate their rampant misusage of the word "incel". You can't call an actor who has a wife and children an incel for being right wing or whatever. Also I read a lot of virtue signalling shit on there like "Actually I don't care about height teehee" and "Omg Jack black is SO HOT!" Like, be honest with yourselves for once. None of you would fuck 5"6 Jack Black even if your life depended on it. You'd swipe left on him without second tought.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:59 PM
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The majority of men aren't lusted after. Women only have raw, sexual attraction towards the top 20% of men. Many of the top 20% are already taken by a hotter women, and many live playboy lifes who never want kids. So they gotta settle for 'Meh, he'll do.' Most men just want to spread their seed which doesn't necessarily require a women's raw lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:58 AM
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If you're an average guy and you have never seen her before, nowhere. Not because it's not acceptable, but because your chances of succes are laughably low. You have a 1 in 2 chance that they have a boyfriend and most women are extremely cautious when a random guy asks them out. You're better off warm approaching people you have atleast seen once before.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:38 PM
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Buccal fat doesn't impact women as much as men. Many men don't really care about it. The only instance where it'd matter is if you want to become a supermodel. Selena Gomez' entire face is buccal fat. I'd say for women in many instances it's actually better to have more buccal fat since women's looks are mostly about appearing youthful. Having buccal fat as a guy is much more brutal. I can't think of any male celebrity who is seen as attractive by women who has (more) buccal fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:27 PM
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That's the dream. But finding a 'hell yes' woman as an average man is incredibly hard. These are rough numbers, but I'd say 50% of women you meet are taken or don't even notice you, 40% find you downright ugly, 5% are "Eh, I guess he looks ok", and the last 5% COULD be excited. Combine that with the fact that most women take zero initiative and it only becomes harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:04 PM
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The problem is that most of the time she hasn't explicitly said no yet. So in your desperate mind you have hope she still is interested, even if she gives you all signs she isn't. It's weird what desperation will do to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:41 PM
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As someone who has been on a few first dates with women of the same age: they can seem really excited and interested during the conversation as well as entire date and then hit you with "Actually I just see you as a friend." I've learned that the way the date goes in itself is in zero ways a reliable indication of interest with young women. Even if you flirt, make sexual jokes which she responds positively to, touch her, etc. Doesn't matter if she doesn't "feel" it. The point is that you have no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:38 PM
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No. Every women has the same preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:31 PM
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Why is it that when people talk about the dire situation of Japanese men's dating lifes, people always try to blame the work culture or the economy? The brutal work culture has been the exact same for hundreds, if not thousands of years. It's not a recent thing. As for economics, there is a strong inverse correlation between birth rate and a country's wealth. The highest birth rates are in some of the poorest countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:28 PM
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Lack of options. Why move on when no one else is interested anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:16 PM
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I agree with not arguing, but not talking at all will do nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:10 PM
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This will bring any man nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:46 PM
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I was talking about Japan
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:40 PM
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I've come to realize that life "ends" around the age of 30. Every time I've been told a fun story that someone fondly remembers, they were younger than 30 during that story. I guess that at around age 30 your core memories seem to have set. Or most people just don't do anything worth telling about after that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:13 PM
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When 40% of Japanese men "fail", it's not their own fault anymore. Some men will fail due to their own faults, not a massive 40%.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:07 PM
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I love how the argument here shifts from "Japan has a horrible work culture" to "Actually all Japanese men sit around and never leave their homes"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:03 PM
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Are they not putting any effort because they've failed, or are they failing because they aren't putting in any effort? Most likely it's the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:37 AM
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Cause of this is that many men are dating 2 women at the same time. Just like in the west. 80/20 never fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:36 AM
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Insane mental gymnastics how you still made the 80/20 rule the fault of men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:36 AM
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I'm back from my ban. Each purplepill ban made me more productive. During my first ban I've had my first ever date, in which I got rejected. During my second ban I've had another first date with one follow up date (along with the inevitable "I just see you as a friend"). I also made a serious start with programming and began exercising to become stronger. I wonder what my third (and last) ban will bring me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:00 PM
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My guess is that all of them were middle to early 30s and late 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:31 PM
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She needs to experience teenage love this instance. ASAP. I mean I wasted my youth playing video games and I regret is so fucking much. u/potoricco get yourself a boyfriend, right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:11 PM
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It's wild. I remember when I was 16 and I genuinely was a kid still. Still had a kiddish looking face. My mind was stupid as well. Incredibly inmature. Some people in that age range feel "older" but I definitely wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:09 PM
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Or they'll just say "But Chad can wear whatever he wants!!" as an excuse to continue doing nothing to improve themselves. It's not that. I's because anything you wear is not your style if you're unattractive / not attractive. Wear polo while unattractive? Wayy too formal bro. Loosen a bit! You're not 50 years old. Wear polo while attractive? Nice, looking like you're serious. Wear casual while unattractive? Wayy too casual. You're not a kid anymore! Wear casual while attractive? Nice, looking li…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:24 AM
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Definitely. Age 18-21 really are my dark times. Next year it'll get better when I switch colleges, I hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:54 PM
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Q4W: Which of these men do you consider more attractive? Do you think beauty is subjective?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:12 PM
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https://ourworldindata.org/working-hours
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:16 PM
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For that to be the main cause of rising single rates in young men, you'd need to believe that men in past times had more free time to dedicate to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:04 PM
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The rate of single men is rising in the category of 18-24 as well. Money doesn't matter at that age, as most at that age are in university.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:56 PM
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Given that men are still prized for being providers or established, why don’t we assume a lot of men being single in their early years are due to focusing on career and paying off tuition fees? Rent is high! With exception of the 1980s to early 2000s, this time is one of the easiest in economical history. All throughout history there was very little social mobility. Most worked their entire lives on a farm for a pityful salary, or spent their entire days in a factory. So literally thoughout all …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:34 PM
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None, atleast not in the early part. In the early part, women want a masculine man who has it all under control. She wants to be feminine and emotional. As a man, try crying on a first date because one of your family members recently passed. Let me know how many second dates you get, my guess is zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:31 AM
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Ed sheeran is a rat and most women would ignore him if they went to high school with him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:41 PM
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Are you in college/uni? Im 21, let me give you advice to do better than me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:18 PM
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Even assuming what you say is correct, would you feel more feminine next to a guy standing at 5"9 or 6"3, all else being equal? Because that is exactly what it is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:01 PM
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Your last paragraph is all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:52 PM
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Most people in bars sit in a group and don't want to be bothered by a stranger. Atleast, that is if we have the same definition of a bar. I'm thinking of something similiar to a UK pub, but maybe that's much different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:32 PM
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What is not expensive in NYC when you pay 10 dollars for a beer?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:30 PM
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It's like they knew how bleak the future would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:44 PM
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Well, enjoy your beard. I do have body hair but my beard coverage is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:00 PM
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There are men with naturally hairless bodies? Testosterone must be so low at that point. How tf does that even work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:14 PM
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Good one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:27 PM
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I'm on a streak, 1 date from Tinder a month if you count since April. I pray to the algorithm that more bitches will be sent to my way and we keep this going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:52 PM
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If you get a 40% match rate, then you are either not unattractive or you watched Wonder Woman 5 billion times.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:41 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/13setda/dont_ask_me_if_im_single_4_years_of_swiping_as_a/ So, who were the people saying the 80/20 rule was fake? She said she is an average looking woman. inb4 this is only on dating apps - What makes you think her standards are different in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:11 PM
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Get some good pictures first so you make maximum use of your beginner boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:44 AM
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I think it's illegal for you to date him, or barely legal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:47 PM
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Lol no. It's because asian people in general often have less forward faces than whites.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:06 PM
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So does Reviewbrah/Report of the week have a girlfriend already? He reminds me a lot of my innocent self.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:45 PM
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Definitely true, wish I read this when I was 16. Never go for a girl you have to "prove" yourself to (such as by playing jester).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:25 PM
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Eh, it was fun in the beginning but why the screaming shit. That line of needing female friends at age 27 was hilarious though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:30 PM
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No they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:26 PM
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The thought that women are in any way affected by men messaging best looking women is laughable. All my Tinder matches whom I asked (from pretty ugly to average looking) told me that they were drowned in matches and messages. Not a single women will do bad on dating apps unless she thinks she can get Dior models while looking average herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:15 AM
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Well we suffer the same fate then. Yes I really dislike it. Sometimes it's not super noticable in pictures from far away depending on how I look in the camera. But in selfies it is and I find it really ugly. What doesn't help me either is that one eye has noticably even more upper eyelid exposure than the other, so it's assymetrical on top of that. Which surgery are you referring to? From my research only upper eyelid fillers could work (risky as fuck though).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:25 AM
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It's still degenerate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:20 AM
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Still it ruins my perception of them. It's similiar to saying "Yeah I have a pegging fetish and fantasize every month about it but I don't actually want to be pegged bro, totally not! Who in their right mind would want such a thing haha!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:36 PM
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Oh wow you're right. He even has it more than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:33 PM
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You're onto something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:31 PM
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I need to start a male make up brand and pay red pill masculine youtubers to promote it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:12 PM
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Are there any male actors/celebrities with heavy upper eyelid exposure?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:52 PM
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Probably insignificant honestly. NOT having a bad smell is important. After that the results are small.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:49 PM
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That's because you only saw him on TV and weren't standing next to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:46 PM
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Dominance, lower voices are seen as more dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:45 PM
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The 4 in 10 women fantasize about rape stat ruined my perception of women. Do men atleast have a stat that is similiarly as bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:45 PM
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I love how my best performing tinder picture was taken by my mum
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:03 PM
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4 in 10.. Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:37 PM
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How were the rejections this time? Also, if you feel like it's bad for your mental health you should stop
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:12 AM
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Enjoy it. Wish I could go back to high school 3 years ago. I wouldn't be as much of a pussy and ask out every girl I was interested in. Feel like my mind hadn't really gone through puberty yet, only my body. Seriously, ask a girl out from your class who you think is interested in you. Ask around who might be interested in you first or something. Have so much regret that I was a pussy and waited. Also, go to every party imaginable. Even if you think it's stupid, just go. Even people you don't kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:14 AM
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Hmm. Seems good. Still don't understand why they're shocked. From what I remember you look normal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:09 AM
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How did the convos themselves go? I find it hard to understand they'd be shocked like that if the conversation was decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:03 PM
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I do and I have seen you post before. Prove me wrong, at worst you'll gain more experience, at best you'll get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:17 PM
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Just a yes? 1 in 20. Assuming you have a decent conversation beforehand and ask out women within your age range. I do think you'll get quite the amount of flakes/cancels, but just a yes should definitely be attainable. Especially when they stop you to pet your dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:10 PM
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Yes, and my point is that the 80/20 doesn't apply just to casual sex like many often claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:23 PM
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Women would only have casual sex with people they find attractive anyway, so it effectively means the same thing. It isn't, because if the 80/20 rule is real, there are lots of women married to men who they don't find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:19 PM
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The 80/20 rule is about women finding 80% of men unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:21 PM
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As someone from that country, that last line is false. Just as bad as any other western country. Tinder is much more brutal here than when I was in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:51 PM
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I'm a billionaire (or close to it), have kids with a woman who finds me attractive while I find her attractive, about to enter politics. That'd be the dream scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:39 PM
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Sometimes you have no better options and she is pretty hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:41 PM
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I think most of them do it because so many women want it. Combine that with the fact that every woman and their grandma says how they can't orgasm and yeah, guys will try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:44 AM
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Nah, the rate of single man goes down for each older age group. Surely if it was harder, there would be more singles in the older age groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:57 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:36 PM
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I feel like you if you haven't atleast kissed by the second date, it's over. Opinion from women? (Unless you married your boyfriend from high school and haven't been on any other first dates)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:20 PM
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I like it brah
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:15 AM
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I said huh because I was genuinely confused. Do you seriously not understand that calling your mum in the middle of a first date doesn't come across as masculine, which women will likely be turned off by?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:34 PM
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Huh? Why is it weird to you that a woman is not attracted to someone after he called his mum?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:10 PM
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When asking about red flags, it is typically assumed you already find the person somewhat attractive. Atleast, that was my interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:09 PM
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The former gives away a vibe of 'I'm not an adult man yet and I need mummy's support', She was only 17 at the time and the guy was 18. Would you consider to be 18 'adult male'? The real reason is because it is not masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:02 PM
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The facial bone structure of Daniel Dae Kim (the boss in the I'M A SURGEON meme) is unreal. Best I've ever seen. Up there with Tom Cruise, Pierce Brosnan and Mad Mikkelsen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:40 PM
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Having hobbies are economic burdens and resource black holes, avoiding hobbies in your 20s is very good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:18 PM
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I'm 21 male. So far I've had two first dates from Tinder. These girls were either my age or slightly younger than me. One had never been in a relationship before, the other for 9 months when she was 16. In both of those dates I asked: "What would be the biggest red flag that you could never accept from a guy?" Before I say what they answered, think about that question for a second. The biggest red flag you could never accept from a guy... Perhaps aggressiveness, being an alcoholic, smoker, drug …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:14 PM
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I did try those, wayyy too much meat. I guess that's my biggest problem with much of American food. So much meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:35 AM
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Subway sandwiches are amazing. And no I will not listen to anyone how their sandwich was bad because x. I've been to subway plenty of times and was always satisfied. Whether I was in my home country, the US, or London. All are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:10 AM
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Pessimism definitely gets you to take action. I was ultra depressed during october of 2022, which was also when I took action to change my situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:42 PM
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Or some people are just honest with themselves. I'm struggling yet still optimistic, but if I have to endure this for another five years I'll probably be as depressed as they are. It's how it goes naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:03 PM
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40s is a weird age group for women. For men it's just, some guys look a tad unkempt, some still look handsome, most look normal. For women they either look like models or like former meth addict grandmas. No inbetween.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:01 PM
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1, she's been with my dad since she was 16 and did not have any other boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:14 AM
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Delete if incel content, but the most blackpilling experience is hearing how your mum rejected guys when she was younger. Wonder if I would've been born if my dad's chin was 8mm backwards. Or if he was 8 cm shorter. Small measuremental changes, yet generational impacts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:50 PM
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Is that the same orchestra that covers Elvis songs?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:04 PM
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Just change your sexual attraction to a different gender bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:03 PM
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Q4A: Would you rather be: 40 year old male multi-billionaire that's ugly and a virgin (guy with short height, very recessed face, high-pitched voice) 40 year old attractive man that has the greatest love life one could possibly imagine, but is also poor. Regarding security and paparazzi, you may assume the billionaire is unknown and hasn't made any enemies. Logically speaking, since many on this sub say sex and love doesn't really matter as it is not a need, everyone should pick option 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:09 PM
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Why would a client lie to you when you are supposed to have their best interest in mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:01 PM
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Nothing. Zero advice was given. For some inexplicable reason my parents never motivated me or gave me any advice around it. I remember when I was 10 years old I told my mum I liked some girl in my class. The only thing she told me was not to tell this girl since she could reject me and tell the entire class. That's the only thing we ever talked about related to dating in my entire life. My dad straight up never talked about it or asked. He just wanted to know whether I was doing good in school. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:57 PM
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Right, so the saying should be instead: "Women's attraction to looks is varied for people they're already attracted to, which are mostly the same men"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:42 PM
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Every single couple I see is perfectly looksmatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:38 AM
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The advice is said as "Women's attraction to looks is varied and unique for each woman!" If they see a fat guy, they'll say they themselves aren't interested in him, but "there's definitely a women out there who is!" Most women are attracted to the same thing. This is on a universal level and defies any ethnical or cultural standards. Women are sexually attracted to dominant, masculine features: 1. Men with a, masculine, dominant face (good jawline, piercing eyes) 2. Men with a dominant, masculi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:37 AM
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Yes, if it's the opposite gender. Although I understand if it was a 60 year old man or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:01 PM
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How can you feel insecure when someone visibly lusts over them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:34 PM
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One rejection is okay, so is five more. Eventually, it's going to take a toll on you, just like it would on everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:54 PM
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I can tell you with full confidence that every man on earth who has been rejected by a woman thought "Fuck that bitch anyways." And that's okay, just like women are allowed to think after being rejected "Fuck that dick anyways."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:45 PM
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The current young generation needs a band similiar to The Offspring that writes songs about: Endlessly swiping on Tinder for lust Mindlessly scrolling on Instagram for dopamine hits Declining testosterone rate of men Declining birth rates in the west
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:41 PM
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That's because women don't discuss what attracts them in public. They'll throw height under vague shit like "confident", "strong", "big".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:28 PM
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Every human on earth feels bad after a rejection. The strong guy who has no emotion and is always calm and collected is a figment of toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:17 PM
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Apparently Lewis Capaldi has a hot actress girlfriend. Shows you what having a rockstar status can do for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:41 PM
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Yes, when it properly grows on your chin and cheeks. When it doesn't, you're setting yourself up to be called a neckbeard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:04 PM
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Q4W: Do you find Lewis Capaldi attractive? Just testing the notion that women's tastes are vastly different. Surely many ladies will think he's attractive, thanks to their magical different tastes in men! You may use this picture edit: As for defining "attractiveness", say whether you'd have a one night stand with him or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:01 PM
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Mutilation, absolutely disgusting. Shocked how deranged American "christians" could possibly convince themselves that doing something like that to a natural born baby is god's way, or whatever kind of fucked up reasoning they use.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:30 PM
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Beard growth sucks when your coverage is shit. Atleast I can join the Amish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:43 AM
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Take your pick: (A) Inexperienced chad, doesn't know his looksmatch; (B) Woman is his looksmatch; (C) Doesn't have many options, not a real chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:13 PM
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Highly doubtful. Do you mean to tell me that as long no girl gives you the fuck me eyes your life is worthless? I find that hard to believe. You said lusted, the emphasis is on that. Being lusted over, love, doesn't matter what you call it. You try to make it look like some degenerate sex, when you know it's about more than that. I remember a thread on r/askmen asking what was the greatest feeling you ever had. Lots of the replies were about men holding a woman they loved (in a romantic way) in …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:10 PM
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Being lusted for is a quintessial part of being a human. The notion that there are far greater things to do is just idiotic. What even is "far greater things one should aspire to"? Is it making 10 billion USD, is it becoming the president of the US? What would any of that matter if you have never experienced love?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:57 PM
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You married earlier than my grandpa, wow
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:09 PM
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Did anyone else never have the urge to "rebel" as a kid or while going through puberty? If my parents told me not to drink or do drugs, I just wouldn't do it. Not claiming that it's good to not rebel, since it made me boring in many other ways. It's just interesting how some humans have this and some don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:56 PM
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Go to any game club.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:52 PM
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I hate people who sugarcoat stuff so incredibly much. Especially in that thread. Bald on young men looks off. Bald in your 40s and 50s is normal. If being bald was hot, it wouldn't be the first insult literally any bald guy gets thrown at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:49 PM
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She's a degenerate party girl who should never have been prime minister.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:43 PM
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I wrote in the daily thread about what would happen if you teached your kid to mew from a young age and made him primarily eat hard foods. 30 day ban for incel content.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:43 PM
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Without fail, if we don't have the same humour I'll automatically know you won't be my friend. Anyone relate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:38 PM
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Most women say they want an intelligent guy who listens and is respectful, yet most go for a dominant loudmouth who takes initiative and leads. These don't have to be contrasting, what I'm saying is that women say they find a certain aspect important, despite the other being more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:14 AM
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I'm not scared of getting arrested. I'm scared of the hits my reputation will get. Asking out 1 woman and getting rejected is suspicious, asking out 2 and failing and you're known as the creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:10 AM
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Interesting study on Freshmen's virginity rate for the class of 2025 in Harvard: 60% of Harvard freshmen in 2021 were virgins Freshmen ranked in the top 5 percent of their graduating class or higher were more likely to be virgins than classmates who ranked in the 10th through 25th percentile of their graduating class. Freshmen who reported spending most of their time on Snapchat were less likely to be virgins, while those who reported spending most of their time on YouTube were more likely to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:15 PM
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Is this only for men or also women?
/r/BlackPillScience10/05/23 06:11 PM
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Read it so many damn times on this god forsaken subreddit. They'd link some research that apparently proved it but I was always still skeptical. Giving birth over the age of 50 is so rare that there's an entire wikipedia page dedicated to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:53 PM
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If you don’t have this you basically have to start from square one. Feels kinda like breaking into a new industry I've been doing exactly this for the past year since I lost most of my friends after 2020. It's hard. The biggest problem is that there's a lot of people who are indifferent about growing their social circle. This means you'll have a lot of people who don't really want to meet up with you, but act nice enough to be an acquitance to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:26 PM
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Sounds wonderful. I'm happy for you both. How was that date? I myself am indifferent about jazz. I sometimes go with my dad (jazz lover as well as musician) to jazz festivals and genuinely enjoy them, but it's not like I actively listen to jazz on Spotify. I like it for how relaxing and calm it is, but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:44 PM
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Definitely marry young and get divorced, assuming we're purely talking about mental differences and not financial. Missing out on teenage and young love sucks so fucking much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:33 PM
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I just know he's atleast 6"1 by the way you describe him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:03 PM
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Is going to a jazz pub a good idea for a first date? Mainly scared that the music will be too loud for us to hear each other, but live music is always pretty cool and sets the mood
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:48 PM
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I'm not succesful but that does mean I can give you advice on what NOT to do. Do NOT create distance between yourself and the girl. If you're going on a date, don't sit across from each other at a table. You're setting yourself up for failure that way because the distance in itself is a barrier. Ideally, you sit close next to each other like on a stool in a bar, or a bench in the park. The more distance you create, the more awkward it'll be to break that first physical touch barrier.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:13 PM
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Would women give the same advice that goes along the lines of "stop your pathetic self pity, stop being obsessed with finding a girlfriend" in the scenario that a woman would complain that she's depressed because she can't find a boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:59 PM
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A 20 year age difference is so wild to me. Holy shit. I'm a man, but I'm flabbergasted that some women do this. Not shaming anyone, just genuinely suprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:43 PM
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What if no one flirts with you, or seems indifferent about hanging out with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:15 PM
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I went to NYC last summer and almost exactly did this. I didn't bring a notebook because I was mainly there to do tourist stuff. I'd count any couples that adhered to all of the following: Man was in his early to mid 20s. Man had glasses on Man was of average height, or shorter than average height. I kid you not that I did not see a single couple that was in accordance to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:10 PM
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Lefties on r/politics putting it up for a mega corporation like Disney will never not be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:02 PM
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Some do, many don't and are stupidly spending their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:20 PM
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At this moment: none as I'm still struggling myself, although slowly getting there. What did help me so far is: 1. Looking as best as I possibly can (decent weight, good haircut, smell good) 2. Meet as many people as possible. Do this by putting yourself into as many social situations as you can. Do this by making more friends. Make more friends by joining clubs, joining niche groups and finding like minded people. Also, the first part of this will really suck since you don't know anyone and are…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:06 PM
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Also notice how in that thread, none of the women actually give any proper advice that'd help anyone. Message to anyone (especially women) who want to give advice: if someone is bitter and complaining about not achieving something, they're most likely bitter because they've tried and failed when they weren't bitter. If a poor person is bitter because he's poor, telling him to stop being bitter won't help him. The reason he's bitter is because he's poor. What would help is giving him specific adv…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:24 PM
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That's probably the most noncoherent post I've ever read. I keep re-reading it and none of it seems connected to the original subject. The title is: "Men aren't happy because they are having less sex and aren't in relationships" (this is meant to be sarcastic I assume) If you then summarize it, paragraph by paragraph: She has a realization about men being lonely (That's ok) She has a male friend who became misogynistic after being dumped. (Not related to the main topic, since that's a man that h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:55 PM
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Men with faces and body/height that most women are indifferent about. They're not considered ugly nor attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:54 PM
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Q4M: What are some of your hard earned life lessons? Mine are: (only applicable to average or below average men) 1. If you want anything in life, you must take active steps to get it. Most things don't come natural to most men after the age of 18-21. Some people get lucky, but most have to work their ass off to get it and maintain it. Whether it's getting rich, being healthy, finding a girlfriend/friends, career goals, etc. Embrace failure and rejection. If your situation sucks within the first …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:40 PM
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Best asian ass I've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:49 PM
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Nah their fat isn't distributed on their ass like with other ethnicities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:53 PM
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Check Tomomi Motozawa, you'll thank me later. Japanese though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:51 PM
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Splitscreen games are amazing. Fond memories of playing Left for Dead 2 on the Xbox with my two older brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:47 PM
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Sure I'd still be friends. Sex is a biological need and if someone struggles to the point that they're paying for it, I wouldn't care. I'd rather have them do that than constantly whine about how they're struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:10 PM
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Probably helped that videogames were not the concentrated kid crack like they are today. This was mainly my problem. I grew up when games like World of Warcraft, League of Legends and many other insanely addicting games were growing very fast and were still new. Games that show incredible scenarios and fantasies, while also creating online communities within those games are really hard to resist as a kid. I can't really blame my parents, they were late teenagers in the 1970s where gaming was som…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 12:15 PM
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As in, someone who mainly plays videogames and doesn't have any other passions beyond that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 12:07 PM
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I wish I discovered music creation instead of videogames when I was younger so that I could've devoted my life to creating songs. Wouldn't even have cared if whether or not I became succesful. For my dad it even played out pretty well romantically, he met my mum because he was in a band and her friends would sometimes watch them play songs. For any parents here: please never let your kids play videogames. Quickest way to remove any potential passions they have because everything will be boring c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:33 AM
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Enlighten me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:28 PM
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Yanks and brits are so lucky that they have proms in schools where it is common courtesy to bring a date that can potentially grow into a relationship. Correct me where I'm wrong, but being denied a prom date isn't seen as terrible because almost every guy asks someone out. In my country we don't have proms. The only way to do date a girl like with prom was to tell a friend whether you "liked" anyone. If that person didn't like you back, the entire class would roast you and clown you for a year …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:19 PM
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Everytime I try this, I'm taking all the initiative. Which is fine for the first time, but I do expect the other party to also reach out the second time. I'd ask to have a drink, we drink, they never reach out again. It's not like they didn't like it, because when I ask to have a drink again they'll accept. The other party just never initiates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:41 PM
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How do you transition acquintances you meet at a certain location (work, club, gym, hobby) into actual friends who you talk with outside of that niche? Anytime I make these kind of acquintances, we never talk outside of the specific niche to become actual friends. It stays surface level. When I suggest to do something together, they're all busy with their own friends. Or I get a "Yeah totally bro!" and never hear from them again. Then when we lose contact, neither of us seem bothered by it and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:43 PM
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Chadriguez
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 09:16 AM
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Generally, the fertility rate correlates negatively with a country's wealth. This doesn't just apply to countries that still live in tribal cultures. Ignoring that, what does inflation and the economy have to do with young people dating? A beer costing 15% more won't make guys go "Oh I guess I'm not gonna take her out since I might have no pension in the future!" Neither do real estate prices or low wages. Most young people aren't saving money for their retirement. Many are renting and living on…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:01 PM
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I don't think the economy and inflation has much to do with young people's dating struggles. The poorest countries have some of the highest birthrates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:47 PM
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Thanks, and I'll try. And yeah, it could've been much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:10 AM
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Please don't advise people to touch someone without their consent. If you want to hold their hand offer yours palm up. If they close the distance and clasp your hand great. If you want a hug, offer one, don Eh, I worded it differently than I wanted. What I want to say is: take the initiative to make an attempt to have physical contact (handshake, hug). It will never feel natural, but you gotta bite through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:08 AM
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Yes, she was from the same college.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:07 PM
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Just had my first date ever (21m). Met her on Tinder, she looked better than in her pictures. We walked around the city for a bit, before sitting at a bar and having a drink together. Messed up the start by not giving any physical greeting, not even a handshake. I wanted to correct this later on, but at that point it seemed too awkward to say "Hey since we didn't hug before, can we do it now?" Anyways, I didn't worry much about it because what would one mistake matter? She'll probably see throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:02 PM
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I feel so bad for that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:27 PM
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Why do people even like flashy cool cars? I like any car that doesn't need to be repaired often and brings me from A to B. Only time I understand is if you're some high end lawyer and you're solely working for rich clients who won't take you serious if you drive a Toyota.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:31 AM
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It must suck living life the easiest way possible
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:05 AM
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Why are so many women who are obsessed with Ariana Grande insufferable? 80% of the time they think very highly of themselves as if they're another Ariana Grande. Biggest red flag I've seen so far. High chance of being narcisstic as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:01 AM
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So many women in here think that autism is equivalent to being socially awkward and that you can "solve it" with therapy. You can't tell an autistic person "Just be charismatic and relaxed bro!" That's precisely what autism is about. I'm dumbing it down a bit, but autistism causes people to take things very literal which causes them to miss out on social cues. You can't "force" them to learn those social cues as they can't recognize them. It's also ironic how many women here are actually very bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:11 PM
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Lmao, stop taking this so personal. None of these are bad faith arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:07 PM
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The real key is becoming famous, whether that's singing or any other way. I lost count of how many ugly/average Youtubers met their girlfriend because she DM'd the guy after watching him. Literally think of any guy Youtuber you know, look up their girlfriend and they how met and 80% of the time it'll be that she already knew him from watching his videos and sent him a private message.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:26 PM
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Did Notch ever find a girlfriend later?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:32 PM
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What would society look like if men weren't as horny? My guess is that we wouldn't have evolved beyond apes. Good traits that are naturally selected for don't matter if you don't care whether you'll reproduce. Just eat banana and hang in tree all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:23 PM
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Has anyone here met their gf/bf from work? What's the story?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:29 PM
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That thread is about OP saying that social circle does NOT work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:46 PM
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A cashier versus someone in an office does increase her attractiveness to me. It shows she's thought about her future. But it's up till a certain point, for me there's no difference whether she's a doctor earning 1 million or a teacher making 50k. What I look for is that she considered her future and isn't working a dead end job. How prestigious that job that is and how high the salary is, I don't care. Just have some kind of career planned.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:07 PM
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My dad loved that series back in the day! That, and the A-Team.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:46 PM
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People really be here giving advice to dudes aged 20 while they are old enough to have watched new Seinfield episodes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:37 PM
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From the few times I did it, it's mostly the same: drink alcoholic beverages talk about dumb shit and tell stories about how this reminds you of a guy who... if young, play some stupid game where you throw a table tennis ball into a cup few people who get drunk few party animals who do drugs It's a pretty okay way to talk with new people, but not everyone wants to talk to strangers there either. People still love to stay in groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:30 PM
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I'm always bewildered that's it is common these days to say how weird it is for men to not have any female friends. The only female friend my dad had when he was younger was my mum. Same goes for every uncle I know. Same goes for the fathers of my mum and dad. None of them had any women friends except for their wives because they just did man stuff. They didn't share any interests with women, and consequently did not know many women they spent a lot of time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:13 PM
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Just use the self checkout
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:30 PM
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You normally make decent and nuanced takes, but this one is awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:58 PM
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If down bad enough, most men will do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:30 PM
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I'd genuinely rather marry a ChatGPT powered sex robot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:40 PM
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Amazing, nice work!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:30 AM
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From the Pew Research study, 63% of men age 18-29 are single. Someone has to check whether PPD men under 30 are higher or lower than that percentage. I also wonder which location struggles the most with dating, and which location the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:35 PM
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How do clothing brands exist that sell a basic shirt/sweater for $100, while there's an identical one for $20? Not just talking about ralph lauren, even random brands I've never heard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:33 PM
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I feel with you bro
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:50 AM
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I can't really give advice since I'm not indian. Maybe it's normal for caucasians and indians to have relations in your country though, I have just personally never seen it between white woman and Indian man. Try making more indian friends of your age, they'll undoubtly know some indian women you can connect with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:12 AM
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Why not other indians?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:43 PM
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Most "tall girls" would commit suicide after spending less than a week as a short man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:18 PM
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Many of these are so brutal. Wow. Women really are disgusted if men open up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:40 PM
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Absolutely brutal, jfc I wasnt ready for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:34 PM
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Yes, that's what I was trying to refer to as well. With upbringing I also meant how you're treated in school and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:12 AM
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Wish I grew up in the 90s. Wouldn't have wasted so much time behind a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:11 AM
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They still get dicks from ok guys, there is no incentive for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:03 AM
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That's mostly due to your upbringing, not genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:01 AM
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True, wish something better would come that's not as predatory. Then again, that's the power of network effects in companies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:36 PM
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Fuck tinder for delaying with showing me my likes. I get no matches for days, set my profile to private for a week, and suddenly after I get a lot of matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:23 PM
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Matthew 5:5
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:26 PM
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Depends. In real life it is fine, but not over text.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:24 PM
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See the other reply
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:29 PM
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What's this new found obsession with poor people? Are we supposed to care or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:31 PM
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I am, but I have no idea which steps to take after that. I really don't want to immigrate to those countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:06 PM
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I need me a cute Japanese/South Korean babe with thick thighs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:25 PM
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Japanese women on Tinder never show their face when I set my location to Japan. Do you have a link to the thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:18 PM
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Lmfao, legend. Shame he's banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:18 PM
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I believe a major factor in this is the decline in friendships in young men. You need friends to go out with. You don't go to a club alone because it feels awkward. You can't go to parties because you aren't invited. Even if you have a good social network it's not a guarantee. Not all of your friends might want to go out every time you feel like. Instead, many of these young men who would otherwise find their soulmate, feed their need with online games, Youtube videos and sites like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:14 PM
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My eyes. My face overall looks pretty harmonious but having shit eyes just ruin it. They kinda look like mad mikkelsen's eyes except slightly more fucked and my chin and cheekbones isn't as strong to compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:56 PM
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Like everything involving mother nature, it will self correct in the long run. The short term will be messy though. I still believe that most women who say they don't want any children now, will change their mind later. Your primal goal as an animal is to fuck, have kids and care for it till they get old. Anything that stops that is against your instinct that has been beautifully developed over hundred thousand years. It'll remain a niche minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:45 AM
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Yes, from a pure nature perspective. Every goal of every organism is to reproduce. An organism that doesn't want to do this, for whatecer reason, is abnormal. Being gay means that repoduction is impossible. Note: not saying they're mentally ill, just a fault in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:34 AM
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If you're a normal functioning human, you should have a natural innate desire to have babies around childbearing age. All excuses of it's painful, etc won't stop this. Pregnancy is at its easiest its ever been. Many mothers died as a result of pregnancy throughout history, and many of them knew of the risk. This was the case for hundreds of thousands of years, and through all of that, the only women left now are the descendants of those who always beared children. Every woman will eventually wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:55 PM
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What is the difference between second degree murder and voluntary manslaughter?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:55 PM
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I also love the scene where he gives him the rest of his burger/snack.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:42 PM
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US is so based for those long juicy sentences against criminals. Not those low sentences even for absolute scum like in my country. Here 5 years ago some young guy was waiting in the line at a fast food restaurant. It was late in the evening, presumely after partying. Guy X is a bit tipsy but not causing any trouble. He accidentally looks in the eyes of some lowlife hoodrat. He jokes around and asks "You enjoying those french fries?" Hoodrat says nothing back and it seemed like the end of it. Fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:39 PM
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So you're basically PPD's Saul Goodman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:31 PM
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I understand short men doing it, they're often treated like shit and made fun of all the time so I'd do the same. I'm 178 cm barefoot and thought about elevator shoes before. The hassle just wasn't worth it for me, athough if the shoe was very comfortable to walk on I could consider it again. They were also extremely expensive, 500 euros for a pair. I would mainly do it if I'd go out. I remember being at a big public music venue and feeling small. Literally every man in the crowd was >185cm. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:32 AM
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That's just boomers after their divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 12:45 PM
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The stats are against you. 63% of men age 18-29 are single. Meanwhile, only 25% of men aged 30-49 are single. Surely if it does not get easier, more men would be single as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:15 AM
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Assuming all of them are normal functioning humans who have an innate desire to reproduce and want love: none.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:11 AM
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Gonna try and make contact with this girl who's exactly my type who is in one of my college classes. I do feel like she's already taken but I'll just try. It'll be hard at first because no one talks to strangers normally in college clases in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:07 PM
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Nah not for me. My match rate is abysmally low and my pictures are decent. Don't think I'm too ugly although not a model. Then again I'm from Western Europe so competition is insane here. The ratio was 90 to 10 if I remember correctly. I had more luck when I vacationed in the US, although all women responded much less and ghoster quicker.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:32 PM
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Oh yeah, blank bio too. Even just putting "hey how you're doing" in your bio is better than that. I also never care whether someone's bio is funny. Would rather just see them showing their hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:46 PM
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For me the biggest are: In bio only mentions drinking wine and/or going to (rave) parties Smokers, even "social smokers", absolute yuck. (Only trashy people around my age smoke) IG/snapchat in bio, will waste your time 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:44 PM
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That is the case in many cities in the US where there's a clear distinction between the "haves" and the "have-nots". I sometimes look on Zillow in cities in California and New York and holy shit, home prices are absurd. I get that tech and financebros can pay it, but what about the average guy? I consider the ultimate middle class income to be a teacher's income. Apparently the average income for a teacher in California is 62k. How are there even high school and middle schools in those absurdly …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:51 PM
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No, I'm 180cm now so that difference is barely noticable. 300k seems nice but wouldn't be worth the hassle of that mum. And for that reason, I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:33 PM
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It's actually 29% of men haven't had 'regular' sex, meaning a vast majority (70%) are having regular sex. More than 80% are having semi-regular sex, mostly due to dating and being in between dates or long term partnerships. Wrong, the survey asked "How many times did you have sex the past year?", with the possible option of "Not at all", which 29% of men under 30 picked. https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2767066 It was actually 1 in 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:25 PM
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Most look incredibly plain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:44 PM
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Women are massively carried by their make up. Take away that and they look worse than a lot of guys. I remember seeing my crush without her make up and she didn't look anything special. Same goes for any women. There's a reason they need 1 hour minimum to get ready in the morning
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:45 PM
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Nah you should release her in the sea and let her live her life as intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:40 PM
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Never said no one can read or no one has sex though, just saying that it is a large group. Much larger than in previous generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:35 PM
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Sex and relationships are competitive and nobody is entitled to those things. Same goes for money, food and housing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:34 PM
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30% is still a large amount. Would you say the same if 30% of people did not have proper schooling or were illiterate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:55 PM
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30% of men under 30 haven't had sex the past year. 63% of men under 30 are single, compared to 34% of women under 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:43 PM
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My predictions: Political: Lonely men become an important "voting group" such as in the past with feminist women who wanted equality.This is already happening in South Korea. The main way this will be done is by adhering to an anti-feminist agenda and talking a lot about "men's issues".This will unite a lot of lonely men, in the sense that they won't care whether the political leader is economically left wing or right wing. Could see it swinging elections/coalitions in many countries. Economical…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:35 PM
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Just want a girl who's personality doesn't revolve around drinking alcohol and going to parties. Also not morbidly obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:17 PM
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Easy, women only find 20% of the male population attractive. The upper 10% are male supermodel tier. A big portion of them probably live a playboy lifestyle so they won't ever settle down. The other group who wants to settle down isn't settling down with someone out of their league, so they're going to date someone minimally as attractive as they are, which are other supermodels and actresses. They're not going to do have babies with a 60th percentile average hag. The lower 10% sort of look like…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:29 AM
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Too long I did not take any action and always hoped that it'd find me. I'm getting too old for that now. I'm slowly becoming an actual adult and my lack of experience is laughable and inexcusable. I'd agree with you if I was a 30 year old something who had earlier flings. But I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:28 PM
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I mean, everyone understands that "average woman" obviously refers to the woman in their age range. The average woman in my country in my age range doesn't have children and isn't overweight, so point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:39 PM
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Combat sports are inherently unsafe - you're trying to knock the other person out most of the time. So by saying that not having weight classes makes it more "unsafe", you essentially say that one of the parties has a bigger advantage to knock the other person out. Using your line of thinking, the bigger fighter simply has a bigger advantage found in every sport. Not being big enough is like not being tall enough for the NBA, you're simply not a fit. Why do we separate males and females in almos…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:59 PM
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So do you think having weight classes in combat sports is also unneeded?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:49 PM
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What do Americans even like about the NBA? How can you like a sport where being tall gives you a direct advantage? Why aren't there height classes like with weight in combat sports, where the basket is lowered/raised based on the a standard ratio of the max height in that class?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:45 PM
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Reading the room is incredibly hard because people respond differently when they talk with someone who they're attracted to. I can be a comedian around girls I don't care about but I get shy and nervous around girls I want to ask out. Meanwhile, other men might have the exact opposite. Same applies to women, some women become scared/shy when they talk with someone they're intested in, while others are very friendly. But still, you'll run into the problem of how she was just "being friendly". The…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:27 PM
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Depends on what you consider respectable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:29 PM
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RemindMe! 1 year
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:11 AM
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God, it's depressing how many women are "tired" from having guys confess their feelings for them. Imagine this regularly happening to you, let alone getting tired from something like that. Even more depressing is how they're fine with being friends with men, but consider them too ugly to fuck. Can't think of a bigger insult, "Yeah you're personality is nice and all, but you're just too ugly teehee!" is what she's saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:50 PM
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Memo to myself: If you're still alone next Valentines, it means you didn't take any action and you're a failure. If you're together with a girl who often uses drugs, you're also a failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:43 PM
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What do you offer of value to your female social network?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:07 PM
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Being the only asian in a caucasian group seems brutal, saying this as a white guy myself. I genuinely can't think of the last time that I saw a relationship of an asian guy with a caucasian girl. Whether online or in real life. I went to the US for a 4 weeks past summer where this should be more common and didn't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:13 PM
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Fuck their rules, just be known as the guy that casually hits on them. But yeah having woman friends does not much for your romantic options. They never really care that you're single if you're a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:57 PM
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What is an appropriate age to start watching porn, how many days a week do you consider "in moderation"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:29 PM
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Men getting a wive, children and a mortgage has stopped way more men from achieving their dreams than porn ever will.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:29 PM
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I already watch that show. What about it? Murray scoring a beautiful wife while he's a 46 year old celebrity millionaire doesn't disprove what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:45 PM
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If a dude tells you he is gay, he's 100% gay. If a woman tells you she's lesbian, it's always on the following: likes the attention of being different, not actually lesbian makes sure that you know you have zero chance of getting with her, not actually lesbian still thinks men are hot, just dislikes living with them is actually lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:39 PM
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So many times I've been told in here that the average guy was doing okay. Where are all of those people now? I'm just happy that we've finally disproved all of that. The conclusion is that the average guy is massively struggling. Society will ultimately see the consequences of this through things like a lot more outcast men who commit crimes, lower labor participation, extremist attacks, lower birth rates, more depression, higher suicide rates for men, more aggression. I wonder what the impact o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:07 PM
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A lot of women on here say this though, as well as some bluepilled >30 y/o Joes who had their first kiss before Tinder even existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:44 AM
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"most guys are doing fine, average women pair up with average men, it's all in your head inkwell teehee" I've heard this so many times on this subreddit from women. I absolutely knew for certain that this is not the case looking at my friend group and acquitances, but I never had any statistics. But now here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:43 AM
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Depends if he has model-tier face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:34 PM
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Eh, I grew up with a caring dad who I looked up to and still got to this subreddit. My youth was great, but it doesn't make much difference for your romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:31 PM
1

These are all musicians and actors. How you see them on TV and the internet is what they want you to see. They're just the same as any other guy, albeit slightly more narcisstic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:29 PM
1

Biggest ones are being a single mother and a drug abuser. At that point, most men will see you as just something to fuck every now and then instead of relationship material / the potential mother of their children. There's probably some men for the drug addicts who are fellow addicts, as well as some men for the single moms who are single fathers. All else being equal, there's still a large amount of men who will avoid you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:23 PM
-1

If men could control their sexual desires, humanity wouldn't even have existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:13 PM
1

If you genuinely think that young men in SEA are as tall as American and European men, then you're being delusional. The mean height in the Thai military for male recruits in 2006 was 169 cm. According to the Statistics Korea in 2020, the average height for a South Korean man in his 20s was 174 cm. The reason everyone looks taller is because it is quite common for men to wear elevator shoes in South Korea.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:51 PM
2

Be above 6"1 and have a good jawline, you missed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:23 AM
10

Ironically, those are all conventionally attractive men so the "varied tastes" that you are describing are still mostly the same with slightly different quircks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:21 AM
6

My biggest mistake is how badly I was a simp in my teenage years. Helped a lot of girls with their homework. Like I used to send them homework and summaries for exams if they asked in the hopes of them getting/being attracted to me. Spent two years multiple hours a week talking to a girl on snapchat and got friendzoned later on. Also just simped for a lot of other girls in school without any return. Would've been cool had any of it worked, but it didn't. So much time wasted, I was so much made u…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:24 PM
4

Imagine getting insecure because a random perfume salesman noticed your mum is more likely to buy perfume than yourself. How do you even function in society at that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:44 AM
3

Men's primal instinct to spread their seed is stronger than women's primal instinct to give birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:31 PM
4

There are many rich, succesful men who also want a submissive bang maid. The image you're trying to paint isn't true. Just like how not only poor lazy sluts can be bitches, but also rich succesful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:26 PM
1

We know it's all about looks, don't worry
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:43 AM
10

You probably don't even find 5"3 Indian programmers attractive. Really rude of you ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:19 PM
11

Sorry, all women are queens and everyone looks perfect the way they are. Now happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:15 PM
9

I am, can't even get fatties I wouldn't look twice at in public to respond
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:35 AM
-4

If a woman ever has traumas or issues with sex due to her past, run as fast as you can
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:28 PM
1

Try 0 at 21
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:21 PM
1

The creator of Minecraft (Notch) has a billion dollars but is still lonely as fuck in a Hollywood mansion which gave him mental issues and caused his tirades on twitter. Before someone tells me that it was because of his personality. Possibly, but there are much worse dudes than him who don't seem to lack any options. Also, his loneliness gave him his mental issues, not the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:12 PM
1

If she was interested in one of them, it wouldn't have made a difference either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:55 AM
2

A. It will make things awkward since I purposefully put in effort in conversations. If there are long silences, that means the other person isn't reciprocating the favour. Shyness or being an intovert is not an excuse, since you can easily get someone to open up by asking things they like to talk about. Silences always indicate that someone is not throwing the ball back, which means I'll nope out. I don't mind carrying a conversation, but it'll never work out if the other person says nothing. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:51 AM
4

It's weird; every time I was rejected by a woman that I was very attracted to, I subconsciously stopped looking at them through these rose-tinted glasses. You realize that many of them aren't any more special than your average bloke. At that point, you judge them as harsh as another guy. Many of them had no own interest or real personality, they just copied what seemed cool at the time. It's hard to be friends with someone when you see them like that. This wasn't some revenge thing for rejecting…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:41 AM
1

It came up recently because they started talking about attracting decent women being easy to a shorter guy in our social circle that claimed to have "tried everything" I don't understand; are they saying that attracting decent women is easier if you're shorter?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:31 AM
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Yep. If you look like a nerd and your personality is nerdy, it's always better to join the nerd group instead of trying to join the cool kids/jocks. People subconsciously sense whether you fit in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:37 PM
1

Yes, self esteem is a direct result of your achievements and how others treat you. If there's a group of 10 people and 9 people bully 1 guy, he'll never get self esteem no matter how much self help bullshit he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:32 PM
1

That's family and sense of connection
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:30 PM
1

I don't care. The only thing I'd hate is if my child chooses for their s/o an unambitious loser who does drugs, too much alcohol and has tattoos. Basically, anyone who lacks self discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:08 PM
3

Average male height in japan is 5"7, so why do you only see 6" men in relationships? Probably the reason why their birth rate is so low.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:47 PM
2

Like I said, everyone is attracted to perfect people but most humans are fine with average. If women wouldn't be able to have genuine desire for average men, earth population would never have become this big. Every single man on earth prefers a woman with bigger breasts, bigger hips with an hourglass skinny shaped body. At the same time, most men have no problem entering a relationship with a woman who is on the flatter side or doesn't have these features. Would you call that settling as well? B…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:14 PM
3

Most guys are attracted to perfect women as well, but they're also fine with less and average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:13 PM
0

That's exactly what I'm saying, gotta hold it out for that .1%
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:28 PM
-2

They could be fucking loads of guys A minority of women want casual sex they could just want to hold off on relationships until later Wrong, most women aren't asexual creatures and want a relationships they could want nothing to with men at that point in time How big is that group? they could be lesbians Wrong, atleast for the ones I checked. This bullshit binary thinking is what's wrong with TRP. Your entire reasoning relies on things a small percentage women do and then applying it to the enti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:55 PM
0

Most people who are in a relationship show this on their profile, atleast here. It's also a contradiction to say that "people only show their best lifes on instagram" while also saying "people don't show their relationship on instagram"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:47 PM
-2

Most women aren't asexual and want a boyfriend, so wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:43 PM
0

What other reason do you think they're single then? Why is it a stretch to say that she doesn't think all her current options are up to her standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:39 PM
1

Nah, these are just normal women with Instagram. Everyone here has Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:00 PM
6

I don't see them. From my early 20s friend group, only the 6"2 tallest guy has a highschool sweetheart relationship as well as another average guy who lucked out by spending an entire year partying and meeting a lot of people. He genuinely didn't do anything else, just partying every few days for an entire year. In my country, most women I see on Instagram who are my age are single. I predict that most of them are holding it out for chad, because I know for certain that there's many single avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:23 PM
4

Yeah but girls from those countries rarely date foreigners I think
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:48 PM
1

Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:39 PM
0

Meh, I'd only want either Korean or Japanese girls and they only date men of their own country I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:36 PM
14

Just spend every waking hour of your life in the gym brah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:01 PM
60

It's over. Personalitymogged to oblivion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:42 PM
92

Me at the right. Sorry for not taking off my shirt guys, I completely forgot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:38 PM
5

So what should short men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:22 PM
8

Lmao she has a worse hairline than my 56 year old dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:10 PM
1

I'm skinny though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:44 PM
1

Holy shit imagine unironically thinking this about a law review study. Please don't be able to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:18 PM
1

This doesn't even happen though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:22 PM
3

Nah they'd just be another nerd with a long sleeve shirt and a jacket.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:58 PM
27

I'd argue the opposite, if you're willing to go to an actual incel meetup you're on the extreme side.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:06 PM
1

Agree, I guess he's dead average for his age and race.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:17 PM
6

That's because Tom is weird as fuck in all other aspects. Avid scientologist, narcisstic, controlling. Also to be that succesful you need to be acting 24/7 which I assume is what he did and why he never saw his children. However his face in his peak is legitimately the most harmonious face I've ever seen. Never heard a woman call him unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:14 PM
6

Lmao you made me laugh for 3 minutes straight. Thank you. God, I wish it was purge week every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:12 PM
2

What does money matter if you're alone? I guarantee you that every single guy would rather be poor and have a loving relationship than rich without a relationship (and no way to get one except for paying)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:11 PM
2

Not unattractive at all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:05 PM
2

If you get a solid amount of matches on Tinder, you're not as unattractive as you're claiming. I tried Tinder from my hotel and got 0 matches, lmao. At that point I knew it wasn't my location.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:01 AM
1

That quote sounds based. From who is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:41 AM
1

I've got a loving family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:38 AM
1

Back when I was in New York I felt dead average at 5"10.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:27 AM
1

How do you meet them? Like if I moved to NYC with zero connections, what would you do? I definitely see sense in your post though. People are much more social in cities like NYC, maybe it's the vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:24 AM
3

Girls my age? I'd say a good 40 to 60%. As long as you aren't flatter than me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:19 AM
9

God you're dense. Imagine thinking this takes any effort. I love how "basic bitch" your comment looks. Classic dense dumbass
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:16 AM
9

The trigger conveniently jams, just in time for her to get attention
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:09 AM
3

I wonder which gender earns more
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:22 PM
4

You guys literally bitch at women being better at being men than men are Better in what sense? Also you're funny as fuck if you think "degree and an income" will give you any advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:20 PM
15

Majority would be depressed after their third rejection and in arms for "politics" to do something against high standards. They'd also create new terms for women having high standards to shame women into lowering them, but in a much more effective way than men ever could. Similiar to "mansplaining" and "me too" and "pick me girl"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:06 PM
3

Keyword: careful, not paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:45 PM
7

Stop ignoring statistics. Fewer women fall victim to violence than men. Female victims know the perpetrator more often than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:39 PM
0

Do you use condoms, are you afraid of STDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:07 PM
1

If you're serious about it, maybe try a sports club. Anything will do, just join as a beginner, meet people, get healthy at the same time because you're working out. It's a win all around. I join a sports club. No one talks to me because I'm an ordinary Joe and all the cliques have been formed years ago. What now?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:28 PM
1

Step 1 is getting off the internet and especially getting out of any incel/black pill infested spaces, such as this one. Tell me exactly which location to go to. Step 2 is likely putting some work into your appearance. Most guys don't really do that, so it's an easy way to set yourself apart. Get a proper haircut, get some proper fashionable stuff to wear, get a skincare routine, be hygienic. Almost ALL women do this by the way, so this is really the minimum you can do. Agreed, although I do mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:34 PM
2

I love how the actor of Ron was the one who now has a happy family with a loving wife. Hopefuel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:19 PM
1

He's not saying the first part you strawmanning idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:58 PM
2

They are, because males in nature have a strong biological urge to spread their seed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:55 PM
6

Lmfao that sub was unironically amazing except for the borderline insane shit there was sometimes. Many memes were amazing though, burst out laughing multiple times. Anyone remember the black guy who was the waiter in a cinema meme?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:51 PM
1

putting in real work and improving yourself. Tell me precisely what you think this entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:50 PM
11

Most men swipe right on 40-50% of women, which is normal. Being attracted to .1% of men because their jawline is that much better isn't normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:47 PM
5

Try it yourself, right now. Download some amateur selfies from Sean O'Pry in his 20s and make a fucked up bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:41 PM
7

Dude was just trying to warn how bitcoin will hit 50k in 2021
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:39 PM
8

Men are attracted to good looking women as well, but they're fine with it if she doesn't look perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:37 PM
2

I don't see how it's related, fitness is always generally good unless you're stressed out of your mind and you can't afford to spend any mental energy. I'm quite skinny (although not skeleton, just untrained). I do try to jog once a day. If I'd lift I'd only do it for muscles. I get that's what women like but I'm pretty socially isolated at the moment. Working hard on that last part. What do you like doing for fun? With the right strategies, I feel like making friends and maintaining a social ci…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:56 AM
3

Why not 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:16 AM
4

Ps4?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:29 PM
1

I'll never understand the desperation some poor people have. Like, yachts are great but it's mid at best when you're with a group you're not totally friends with and have a connection with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:41 PM
2

Thanks so much for the detailed reply, will watch them. Although I'm not into casual sex, considering I haven't even experienced normal love yet lmao For example you said you just graduated hs, so if your plan is to go to a party school then I would recommend you join a frat and learn to post tiktok content. Not sure if I'm a right fit for frats. I don't mind a good party with drinks once a while, but I don't want it every other day if you understand. If you're a shy gamer dude then I would reco…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:10 PM
1

People help women much quicker and can make friends much easier on the sole fact that they're women. Like another poster said: go to a subreddit for finding friends and notice how threads by females are the only ones to get replies. You won't ever realize this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:03 PM
1

I'd love to, do you have any recmomendations?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:59 PM
2

No, I did show my interest in girls that I thought were showing signs of being interested into me. All of those times, it was just the classic trope of: "I was just being friendly!" Others, who I didn't talk, were probably into me. My friends would sometimes randomly ask: "Do you like x?" I never knew whether they were pranking me or not (which was normal for them to do) so I just denied everytime they asked. But like 80% of guys in my graduating class were single, so it doesn't matter much what…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:48 AM
1

Can I have a source, or is this your prediction?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:30 AM
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Most girls in my graduating high school class were single because the tall/attractive boys already had someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:19 PM
1

Sure, but I'm also curious into your anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:43 PM
2

You don’t need a source lol you clearly disagree. I'm willing to be convinced. Just really can not believe it right now, but that may be due to my circumstances in life. And cope with what, exactly lol I’m not upset. It's just an internet term.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:51 PM
2

Lmao, I genuinely wonder if that guy found a girlfriend yet. Would love for a journalist to look into it. He is after all an icon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:35 PM
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There’s a reason most “pretty” or “hot” women end up marrying unconventional looking men; Although I'm early 20s and don't know anyone that is married (apart from my uncles and aunts), I still do not believe that attractive women end up marrying not conventionally attractive men. Just seems like another "Men have all the choosing in their 30s!" cope
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:29 PM
3

He's talking obviously about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:01 PM
1

Napoleon complex isn't real. If the person was the same but taller, you'd just assume that he was socially dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:21 AM
1

From what I’ve read, the combination of later marriage, young adults living at home, increased video game use and decreased alcohol use is reducing sex for both genders. I agree. But when I wanted to make a thread to discuss exactly this, my post was swiftly removed for "incel content". After enquiring, the mod found the words "recent rise of male virginity" an incel concept, which could not be discussed. Really blew my mind with some of the insane shit you see here, but whatever. I assume that …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:59 PM
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Agreed. Not really related to the thread, but a lot of people also like to critique "geomaxxxing" in the sense that these women only wants the guys for their visa. But when I look at the guys themselves, they seem happy and their relationships are lasting long at this point. None of them are married either. It'd seem like too much effort for the women just for the visa alone while secretly not liking the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:21 PM
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I also know 2 guys who did this. One has a thai girlfriend, he spends half the year in Thailand. The other works as a programmer from the Philippines wherehe also found a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:01 PM
1

I thought the rise of virginity in men was an incel concept?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:19 PM
1

You think about the latter when you're horny, you think about the former when post nut clarity hits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:18 PM
1

Robert De Niro? Emperor Nero? Ben Shapiro?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:34 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:33 PM
3

I'm surprised that OLD is still kicking around as much as it is, given just how much men and women alike complain openly about it. Everyone and their grandma is saying "I met my boyfriend on Tinder!" which constantly brings in a new cycle of thirsty dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:32 PM
11

My parents had it so effin' easy. All they did was go to some church youth program and met each other there. None of this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:30 PM
1

I understand, but even when you consider all of those factors, I still find it unlikely that a large majority of men were sexless during those times, which is being implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:58 PM
2

I feel like the conclusion doesn't neccessarily follow from the result. Did 1 in 17 men reproduce, or do 1 in 17 men have surviving descendants today? There's also this paper that debunks it: https://www.reddit.com/r/slatestarcodex/comments/haeccb/successful_neolithic_men_did_not_typically/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:52 PM
0

for the most part, the girls using dating apps frequently are the average to below average girls. Exactly. I once matched with an okay looking girl, we talked a lot and facetimed but something always felt wrong. I quite never understood why she would need Tinder to find love, considering she was the same age as me and moderately attractive. Eventually I found out that she had a lot of mental issues and basically spent her days alone working some shitty job and sometimes visiting her sister. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:24 PM
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Never called women objects, that's all on you. With average I just meant your average girl, like your average Joe. Here, I'll answer your original question for OP: "I am a living, breathing entity with my own desires, dreams, highs and lows and everything in-between. Just like you. Whatever you deem yourself to be, so am I.Instantly, I am not 'average' - the very process of being a human being makes us special. Women are the Ying, men are the Yang. They work in tandem.So what I bring to the tabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:54 PM
2

I think most frustrated men here are only a handful of life adjustments away from having some measure of success. A few adjustments could of course mean a lot of work, I don't deny that. Which are?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:45 PM
8

What does the average woman bring to the table, looks aside?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:21 PM
1

Elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:39 PM
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Agree, mans looked majestic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:58 PM
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Good point, edited the images so it shows the names.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:17 PM
2

How are the people buying drugs the victims? Drugs have been around forever. Thats just victim mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:05 PM
1

Where do I meet them, except for those cons?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:04 PM
-1

Yes? Imagine if there was a large group of young women who are so depressed that they're willing to pay money to get the feeling that she has friends or is called beautiful. This victim blaming shit is exactly what drove these men into paying for it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:01 PM
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That's not what most think of with the word socially awkward. What you're describing is on the verge of downright insanity. Most think of socially awkward as not knowing a subject to talk about, asking the other person a lot of questions like it's an interview, stuttering, awkward silences, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:09 PM
-2

Logical, literal, asocial, it doesn't matter what it's called. I already gave my explanation: - The winners of Math Olympiads are mostly men, despite equal education opportunities; - Math-heavy majors are primarily done by men, despite equal education opportunities; - There is a large rating gap between men vs women chess players, anyone can play chess; - Women cry more and longer than men; - Women are three times more likely than men to experience common mental health problems. Not saying that …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:14 PM
-2

Saying it blunt here, but women are more emotional "brained" and men are more logical "brained". This is why there's more men diagnosed with autism, why most Math Olympiad winners are male despite equal education opportunities, why math-heavy degrees are primarily done by men despite equal education opportunities, etc. Socialising doesn't require logical intelligence. In fact, it actually works against you since you might take things too literal like those diagnoed with autism do. Socialising do…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 12:22 PM
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The thing is: it's only "wrong" if she isn't attracted to you. Also, asking someone out doesn't mean "Hey you're hot can I have your number?" Most of the time it's having a normal conversation with someone and asking for their contacts at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:55 PM
1

Same for long hair versus short groomed hair as a guy. From age 10 to 15 I had long hair because I genuinely didn't know it was seen as gay/female. My mum always said it looked okay so I just rolled with it. Having a youngish looking face didn't help either. I was always automatically seen as a nerd but had no idea why. Girls didn't want to talk with me either. At age 16 I started getting into haircuts and got my barber to cut it short. Immediately I noticed that everyone treated me with more re…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:52 PM
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If men want to date women who initiate and don't expect gendered roles, they should date feminists. Seriously, my ex said this all the time. Sounds good in theory, but every single feminist still wants a dominant masculine man who can take care of her and be a leader. Biological preferences triumphs ideologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:07 AM
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Going to say the same next time a woman is groped/stayed at her abusive ex/declined a job offer or promotion because she's a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:05 AM
1

We fish are not all the same. Some of us like ingredient x, and some of us like ingredient y more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:27 PM
1

The only reason I know that reference is because of a certain song. I forgot what the name was though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:18 PM
2

Honestly when I hear men claiming to struggle to the extent that's claimed on this sub I'm like "how" Having no one interested in you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:41 PM
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I agree with this post but it is now up to male entrepreneurs to install some sense of balance to the dating market. Here's my solution: Assuming a ratio of 9 men to 1 women, each guy only gets 1 match. As soon as a guy has 1 match, they're removed from the swiping pool until they removed that match. Women, however, can still match with 10 to 20 men. This breaks up the monopoly the top 20% men have and pretty much guarantees each men will be seen atleast once. The downside to this is that many m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:57 AM
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Nah, it's not so black and white. Sometimes you meet a woman who is cute and looks innocent. Then you learn that she had a lot of casual sex and can't shut up about her first ex. This always makes me lose a lot of attraction for her than I initially had. Also, no one can truly hide their body count. You might not know the exact number, but you can make a estimated guess on what she's telling you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:46 AM
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It means they want a man who is, compared to themselves, physically, emotionally, intellectually and financially superior. You can't be inferior to her. If she could beat you in a physical fight, make you cry in a discussion, feels like she is smarter than you or can buy more things with her wage, she will think that you are inferior and will leave. Women always date up, never down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:53 PM
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and I did not do this for women One sentence later: I did this mainly for me and the future woman I knew I would have and now have. For the future family I will have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:43 PM
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The virginity rate for young men in 1989 was 7%. In 2018 it was 27%, now probably around 30-35% because of the pandemic. Source
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:39 PM
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The first spot where fat goes is your belly. Like I said, woman's "dad bod" is just lifting a lot and exercising but with a slightly high body fat percentage to hide the muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:58 PM
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Which of these do you think qualifies as a dad bod? A top tier well trained body with a slightly high body fat percentage: https://i.guim.co.uk/img/media/33421fbc3a09174daac93618ad026ff05325356d/0_0_750_591/master/750.jpg?width=700&quality=85&auto=format&fit=max&s=c81c46c1c54d7ad2fa652c7ae1a7cc3b Or, someone who does what you described: https://metro.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/dadbod-comp.jpg?quality=90&strip=all&w=1028&h=630&crop=1
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 02:09 PM
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What women think a dad bod means, isn't what an actual dad bod is. Women think a dad bod is when a guy has some good muscles but with a slightly high bodyfat percentage so that his muscles are covered by fat and he doesn't look "ripped". Think Jason Mamoa with his "dad bod", or, Zac Efron, Chriss Pratt, Mark Wahlberg and Sean Penn. This is just fit and sorta bulking/not paying attention to what you're eating, but still lifting. The difference with an actual dad bod is when you have a big belly, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 02:06 PM
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I’m not sure how can I work around my height ? I feel like I have to accept I’m at the bottom of male preferences and Be in a relationship where a man settled for me or die alone forever Are you sad because chad isn't going to marry you because he isn't primarily attracted to tall women, or because you legitimately can't find a man who is willing to look past your height and enter a relationship with you? One is your own fault, the other is untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:32 PM
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Not sure if you're doing it on purpose, but that's a false dilemma. There's a big area between "everyone finds romance" vs "no one finds romance". Obviously, you won't be able to get EVERYONE find a partner, but can we atleast agree that there's a real problem if romantic loneliness is rising to absurd levels within one gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:33 PM
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The person who will be able to solve the male loneliness epidemic, even if short term, is going to get uber rich. People are willing to dish out a lot of money when they lack intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:28 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with wanting an attractive and sympathetic partner with emotional vulnerability and communication skills. There is something wrong with it when too many of them have high standards which is causing romantic loneliness en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:19 PM
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You're doing the classic woman thing where you don't see non-Chad men as actual men, and thus take them out of the equation. Men with options are the ones who will not settle, because they have all the leverage. They could get a new girlfriend every two months, and those short-stints of having a girlfriend are far more dopamine inducing than marriage. There's no incentive for them to marry. Most normal Joes can't "pull" another woman as quickly as chad. They are the ones who will swipe on Tinder…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:17 AM
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Keep your head up, king.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:10 PM
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Nah, the turning point was 2008. This was right when virginity for both men and women was the same, but changed drastically for men the following years. This was right when the Iphone became common usage and smartphones changing to touchscreens. This also introduced the app store, which would pave the way for dating apps and globalised dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:25 PM
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P.s. no house wives allowed. Lazy as fuck. Yes I'll do 50% of any house work. But you ain't sitting on your ass all day. How could I ever respect a woman like that. Wait, there are seriously housewives that expect their man to do 50% of the house work? Or am I reading this wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:39 PM
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100% this is true. This is coming from someone who dated ALOT in her 20s. I really giggle at all the men on here who think women dont have to worry about their income or career being a turnoff to men. Most men nowadays expect a woman to work, and to work at a job where she will make decent money, meaning she can afford to pay her own bills and go out and have fun with them not paying for everything. Genuine question, how would you even meet the guy if you don't have a job? Like how would a girl …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:37 PM
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Define exploitation? Would you still see it as exploitation if he was the man of your dreams?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:56 PM
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That's what I'm hinting at, do you really need to go for the gym for that instead of letting your fat go away naturally by eating less? There's a whole lot of range between being fat and ripped.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:12 PM
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Here's an experiment. Gain 80 pounds of lard and then tell us if it becomes easier or more difficult. You don't need to lift or go to the gym if you're overweight and want to lose the fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:57 PM
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It's not male projection, it's mathematically impossible for each women to settle with a chad (a chad being top 20% man), unless he has harems. So from a purely logical view, women will be forced to marry their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:52 PM
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Notice how Chris Brown never has a problem getting into relationships, despite being the most well known women beater in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:02 PM
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Countless videos proved that as long as your jawline, cheekbones and eyes look a certain way, you could send "wanna fuck" and you'll get enthusiastic replies back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:46 PM
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Women aren't that superficial. The reality is that a lo of men stink of desperation and that really is off putting You can send the exact same ""desperate"" messages with a male model face and it suddenly it isn't desperation, but playful flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:40 PM
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Maybe that’s the problem, men need to stop going to places with low hanging fruit like at college parties, clubs and bars. Asking them out in any other place is a social death sentence if she's not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:57 PM
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Now I'm curious which celebrity you do find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:29 PM
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Zendaya. Facially she looks like a mildly attractive mixed girl but nothing spectacular. Bodytype is flat and I really don't like that. Her personality seems nice though, but that's not what we're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:20 PM
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For me it is the fact that women only consider a small percentage of men truly attractive and the fact that these traits can't be changed (height, facial bone structure). I heard women say on here how they find less than 1% attractive of men. Meanwhile, when I'm out and about I think "damn, she's bad" on like 70% of women my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:33 PM
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Are you ethnic skinned? Are you asking out caucasian Swedish women? If so, that's probably the reason you aren't seeing much result. I've literally never in my entire life seen an ethnic man with a white women. They avoid them like the plague. My honest advice: ask out ethnic girls instead. Best of luck soldier
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:06 PM
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Men have been obsessed with sex since the dawn of time. Ever thought about what the oldest profession is?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:17 PM
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Unironically this is it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:17 PM
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No, there'd just be the same 20% but now even more selective. If every guy looked the exact same, women would go for the top 20% of men based on social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:44 PM
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As you can see in Sweden, for example, there are a lot of men marrying asian women and a lot of salty swedish women who are trying to put a stop to it (stop that is basically them whining instead of actually getting married). Do you have a link to this? Not doubting you just genuinely interested
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:02 PM
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Meanwhile, you can go to Portugal where everyone is very short, or Holland where everyone is very tall, or Poland where everyone is very close to global average, and women there do not care that much for height, because they don't see meaningful variance. I'm from one of those countries and people very much do care about height. The only guys who had girlfriends in my graduating high school class were much taller than average or literal models
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:58 PM
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Are they from Latin America?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:56 PM
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No no, we always offer sympathy and say: how terrible how those companies are treating you! Eat the rich, tax companies into oblivion!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:30 PM
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Her dating advice? "You need to put yourself out there. I'm sure you'll meet a nice boy at church, volunteering, etc." Never mind that I've tried those things and there are no "nice boys" at church, the gym, or volunteer gigs. It's scary how similar they are to each other. What do you mean by "nice boys"? There's so many normal guys I became friends with at church and certain volunteering gigs, I've been there myself. I mean yeah you might not meet with young Leonardo di Caprio but you can't com…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:18 PM
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Feel sorry for me it's society fault I'm making minimum wage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:11 PM
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Stop saying it's because of the economy. Male sexlessness didn't rise as much during the great depression, 1973 oil crisis, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:48 PM
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Misreading signs can be incredibly dangerous to a man's social life To give a real example: The company my brother works at had a party to celebrate hitting targets. A female collegue constantly flirts with a male collegue he knows, dancing with him, etc. Eventually she wants to go home and waits for the cab, male collegue she's been talking with the entire party comes over and waits with her and.. puts his arm over her shoulder. Next day she goes to her boss to say that he touched her without c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:05 PM
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And this, ladies and gentlemen, is why you never immediately believe a woman who says she has been raped by an otherwise normal guy. Literally both consensually naked and making out and still the "He raped me" trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:10 AM
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Exactly. Ask yourself: Who was happier? The young peasant working physically in the fields with a very strong community, or the office wageslave with much less social relations? Sure, technology has obviously advanced and certain ilnesses are gone. But at the time they didn't know any better. Same as to how in 100 years they'll think how depressed we would've been all the time without a true cure for cancer and non self riding cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:10 AM
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The discussion just becomes whether humans and chimps have the same primal instinct. I think they do, similiar to how dogs and wolfs share them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:58 PM
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Weren't you the one trying to devalidate my claim by saying how we share 60% of our DNA with bananas and that we're direct descendants from a cell? You're implication is that human and apes aren't comparable in any way, similiar to how we're not comparable to a banana and the cell. Any normal thinking human would understand that apes are the closest relative to humans and that it wouldn't be farfetched to say that we share some primal instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:33 PM
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That would argue even more for my case
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:55 PM
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Are you being serious right now? Would you also say that a wolf and a dog are in zero ways comparable?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:50 PM
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Again, they're direct descendants. I get the point you're trying to make but it'd be the same as saying that dogs and wolfs are totally different animals who are not comparable in any sort of way (they share only 98.8% of DNA), which is what you're trying to insinuate and obviously untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:12 PM
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My dude we're directly related to chimps. This is basic biology
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:20 PM
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We're direct descendants from Chimps though?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:18 PM
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Very funny
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:13 PM
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What makes you think befriending high ranking alpha males are easier then befriending normal women? Never said one is easier than the other. It's about which one has results.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:06 PM
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Strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:05 PM
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Smart, one cancels out the other
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:37 PM
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Watch coffeezilla's vid on him. He's just a grifter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:39 PM
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That's actually so mean of her, but keep on not giving a shit. Godspeed my good sir. How was dating in your days?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:09 PM
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I'd say many tall men can be less concerned with proving themselves physically. I know several men in the over 6 feet 3" that are just more laid back. Because they have no reason to "act confident", it comes naturally for them as they're literally towering over others. I'm 5'8" and never worried I was short. My wife is 5' 7" and it did and does bother her sometimes. Your wife said your height bothers you? Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:59 PM
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Yet if you post the 80/20 statistic, women here lose their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:46 AM
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Not people in those insanely competitive careers where they work 60+ hours a week. There's a reason they went that far.
/r/seduction07/10/22 10:11 AM
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Didn't they eventually divorce? I bet she's thinking now how she possibly fell for a Crips convicted gang member. The power of a good jawline and cheekbones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:21 AM
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You're fucking up then. One of my friends is what'd society see as a loser. Hardcore gamer, edgy humour, plays league and runescape all day, lazy, drinks a lot, non existent chin. Oh and did I mention he's 190 cm? Always has a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:02 PM
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Symptom, not the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:48 PM
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Yet men don't gaslight struggling women into thinking that it's because of their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:49 PM
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Imagine having one of the the highest paying job in the world, that you had to grind so much for. A job that others could only dream of, and with all of that, still not being able to get a women. Nightmare
/r/seduction05/10/22 11:17 AM
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I distinctly remember a comment from this subreddit where a girl claimed she got wet after she saw a 6"7 guy.. standing. She very specifically said how it wasn't due to his face or anything else, but simply because of his height. The fact that there are still people here claiming how being short isn't somehow a big dealbreaker or negative suprises me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:32 PM
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But you find the other person attractive as well, no? What difference does it make if he doesn't want to enter a relationship with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:26 PM
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From what I've seen, most of them have unhealthy relationships with their parents which made them want to leave their household in the first place. They then try to make men feel bad for not leaving by attacking their masculinity or their lack of independence. Same thing happened to me when my classmates (I was 16) found out that my parents paid for my driving lessons. They repeatedly told me that I'm some lazy rich kid who didn't want to work while I was just thinking: "Imagine not being able t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:52 AM
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Yes, because 99% of the time the guys making these comments online have warped, impossibly high standards and don’t even see, let alone consider the women many of these “lesser” guys are having sex and relationships with. You're trying to paint what he's saying as something extreme like: "His chin was .5mm off and my brow ridge is definitely more prominent." If he did, then I'd agree with you that he's being unrealistic and stupid. But now he's just making the claim that the other guys were over…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:58 AM
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Why isn't it? Isn't the advice that everyone here gives is to get fit and be hygienic? Is it really that strange to say that someone who's objectively uglier than you (speaking about overweight and unhygienic, not facial bone structure), likely has a smaller chance to have a girlfriend/sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:06 PM
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But they're not into the guys who are into those things. Same how feminist women are not into feminist men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:03 PM
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Getting another human to work for you and offer you his salary seems like a big thing in return to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:59 PM
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Only one man can be the life of the party, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:53 AM
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Nah a lot of women on Reddit call this a dad bod
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:22 PM
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I get your fear, but isn't that risk the same if a guy asked you out in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:28 AM
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Literally just download tinder. That's all you need to do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:15 PM
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Need a source for that with the reasonings as to why they didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:08 PM
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At what point is it still gold digging if you're willing to get fucked daily/weekly, bear the guy's children and live with him for multiple years?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:34 PM
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Sex is sex. It only holds as much weight as you allow it. And many men have allowed it or the lack thereof to hold their entire lives hostage. Just own the red pillers by ignoring your primal instinct that's developed by thousands of years of evolution to ensure the survival of the human species! Just become a robot lack of any emotion that makes us human!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:49 AM
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Yet women, over the entire attractive range, received more replies to their messages than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:47 PM
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Attractiveness for men is largely based on genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:05 PM
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OkCupid study. Women rate 80% of men as unattractive, men rate like a bell curve. So no, it wouldn't be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:00 PM
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That's some cute just-world thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:20 PM
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I wasn't talking about dating, just relationships in general. Your second point is just bs, that may have happened to rich nobles and royals, not your average peasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:02 PM
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People throughout in history have been much poorer with much less time to spend on dating, this isn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:32 PM
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See my earlier reply
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:47 PM
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You asked how this comes as a shock to people, I gave you the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:29 PM
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They don't learn them anything, neither do parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:43 PM
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Schools only tell boys to ask for consent
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:40 AM
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How the fuck can a physical compliment from someone you know and your age group be something you don't like, especially if you consider them your friend? I get not liking a catcall from an old construction worker, but someone you already know?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:13 AM
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Inbr "Noooo that's just because of how much they're working! It's not like humans worked much harder throughout history!"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:23 AM
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He's obviously talking about paid workforce
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:07 PM
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Lol that article is actual shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:52 PM
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Are you inplying they shouldn't interpret inaction as rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:22 PM
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You seriously overestimate how strict they are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:09 PM
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Is females now "badspeak" because it's transphobic or some other bullshit? People use "male" all the time, why isn't that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:46 AM
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Just world fallacy, misogyny isn't limited to unattractive males. There's millions of good looking men out there who punch their wives and/or rape women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:17 PM
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I'm not twisting anything. Messaging does not mean the same as pursuing for romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:14 AM
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"Messaging" is so vague though, that could also mean entertaining the guy once and then ghosting him. It doesn't say anything about attraction and doesn't disprove the 80/20 rule
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:41 PM
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The actual article waa removed after the Toronto van attack. There is a link to it in the opinion piece
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:35 PM
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Which arguments of that video, especially regarding the 80/20 rule, do you think are good? Because from what I've watched, none of them disprove the 80/20 rule. The fact that a women is forced to be more selective due to easily being more assaulted/harassed on online dating doesn't explain why she'd only swipe right on the top 20% of men. Attractive men aren't any less likely to assault a women than average or uglier men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:16 PM
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So women are messaging people they have no interest in and don't have any attraction towards? Sounds like settling
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:32 PM
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https://www.yourtango.com/2016285828/women-find-80-percent-men-unattractive-says-crazy-study https://quillette.com/2019/03/12/attraction-inequality-and-the-dating-economy/ https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/rugya9/women_on_reddit_women_do_not_think_80_of_men_are/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:12 PM
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https://quillette.com/2019/03/12/attraction-inequality-and-the-dating-economy/ https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a https://www.yourtango.com/2016285828/women-find-80-percent-men-unattractive-says-crazy-study
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:11 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:08 PM
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How do you know they don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:16 AM
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There's a VAST difference between getting a free drink and lying to security to get the guy kicked out Is there though? Both are manipulative and with one you're making him pay for overpriced drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:24 AM
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Men complain that women only notice attractive men, yet they're arguably worse in this regard as they do not acknowledge the existence of women outside of their preferred type when talking about what they think are the shared experiences of women. A mixed demographic of women will only be selected through the conspicuous groups that stick out by virtue of fitting the male's "type" (blond, brunette, young, moderately attractive, slim, ect). He will then judge every woman to be this kind of woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:57 PM
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Nice find. Dumb how I missed that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:00 PM
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Exactly, plus we're assumling that all the respondents aren't lying. Wouldn't suprise me if many guys were lying about being sexually active and women not sexually active.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:23 PM
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We can also look at UK university statistics for this. You always hear that university is THE place where everyone has casual sex, right? Well, if we look at the statistics: 34% of male university students report being sexually active at all 43% of male university students report never having had sex For women: 47% of women university students report being sexually active In total, there's 1.36 million females to 1.02 million males students. That's an excess of 340,000 females. There's more wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:41 PM
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Best comment I've ever seen, jesus. His account got banned as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:30 PM
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Most of the time they use the black and white fallacy and try to reframe the question into "Would you date a guy if he was extremely ugly with zero attraction from you but he had some status and was rich?" They never want to talk about the nuanced effect it has on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:06 PM
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I also asked this on another thread and was met with the same response. Still don't buy any of it. There's a big reason ugly succesful and rich man are never lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:32 PM
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That's not even what the discussion was about but alright
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:10 PM
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Huh? I clearly said people who have long hair aren't well groomed. Stop making shit up for no reason, never said it was attractive. Nor did I tell you to consider anything good looking. Where do you go to where college aged men aren't well groomed? Every guy I see here looks like he goes to the barber every 3-4 weeks. Again, a small minority has long hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:30 PM
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Vast majority of people I see are well groomed. The minority isn't, although many of those people choose not to because they have long hair. Sounds like you're basing your experience on either the computer science department of a technical university or some Magic the gathering official tournament.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:09 PM
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Have you ever seen an average man in the west? Where are you even from? Go walk through an average college in any Western European country and you'll see how wrong you are. Most guys look normal. They're much taller than any guy in Korea as well. Korean guys are only fethisized because of Kpop, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:58 PM
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Not if you look at college age men and women in the UK. 34% of the college men in the UK reported being sexually active, 43% of men reporting being a virgin. On the contrary, 47% of college women reported being sexually active. That alone is insane, but it get's even more strange if you account in that there are more women than men in colleges in the UK. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ntscbc/new_data_from_the_telegraph_indicate_that_levels/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:51 PM
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No it isn't. Confidence comes from within. Confidence comes from being experienced at whatever it is you're doing. You can't fake confidence, nor can you gaslight yourself into believing you are. Same with a test you didn't properly learn for. You can tell yourself "I'm gonna ace this test." But as soon as you see that first question you know you messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:38 AM
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and (perhaps) Sweden. Bro, absolutely not: - Actual Swedish men are already pretty lonely themselves. Half of the households are made up of single childless adults. - Swedes are reserved and introverted as fuck and won't ever become your real friend unless you met them in fifth grade or something. - A statistic showed that, of the expats who have lived there for five years, only 1 in 4 found a partner. That INCLUDES women, so just think about how low it is for men. Not Swedish myself btw, just g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:06 AM
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Honestly doesn't sound that bad, you're basically mere-exposure effect maxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:10 PM
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There's a name of this, it's called the mere exposure effect. "The more often a person is seen by someone, the more pleasing and likeable that person appears to be."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:08 PM
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Can you tell more of your experiences? Always love stories like these. How did you meet most of your lays?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:07 AM
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This comment is so based that just from reading it made me transcend and I am now in another universe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:59 PM
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You seriously don't know how good you have it. It almost sounds like humblebragging.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:06 PM
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Didn't you post this exact same question a few months ago?
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:36 PM
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You didn't hear them calling you creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:24 AM
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Honestly no. Sounds like how a couple would have met.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:33 PM
0

Be very happy your country gives you tools you defend yourself. Wish we had that here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:28 PM
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I don't think the guys who are attracted to 99% say that they're attracted to 99% of women out in public to those women. That sounds like the most cartoon naive shit someone could possibly do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:11 PM
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Had a girl at a bar call some random buff guy to "sort me out" for asking to buy her a drink, i have a conceal carry though. So i was fine. lmao, king moment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:03 PM
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If it were that easy, why do you think he didn't lose it already?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:34 PM
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You'd basically be in a lifelong recession as our economies are based on infinite growth. Losing that much of the population means consumer spending will be much lower as well, which drives the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:09 PM
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Decreasing population is absolutely terrible for a country though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:27 PM
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Just go to a different continent and leave your family, friends and career behind bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:24 PM
3

What about Japan?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 05:45 PM
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Say some shit and see who responds back, that's it. Girls at clubs and pubs who don't want to talk will let you know by not responding or just telling you to fuck off. Also, don't buy her a drink too quickly. Ensure she wasn't talking with a dude before your interaction either.
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:33 PM
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No, men don't give a fuck about social status or career. It's why most women consistenly date up, and men consistenly marry down. The only thing career wise men care about is ensuring you're not a stripper or away for 6 months. And even then, a lot of men would be ok with that. The only things that men care about are: - How hot she is - Does she match your personality (optional for many men) - Is she not an insane bitch (optional)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:47 PM
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Nah, they hide your face which makes it subconsciously harder for people to connect with you. Everyone who wears glasses always looks better without them, it's a simple boost.
/r/seduction15/06/22 09:40 PM
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All good. My fault as well since I worded it pretty strange in hindsight
/r/seduction15/06/22 09:37 PM
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I think you misunderstand me. Saying "there's more to life than females" to someone who has has extreme struggles with getting into romantic relationships is delusional, because your body is biologically trained to like that shit. It's a primal need. It's like telling a person who had zero education that "there's more to life than primary school". Like, yeah definitely but it objectively sucks not having went to primary school. It's like telling a poor person who can barely pay his bills that "t…
/r/seduction15/06/22 09:33 PM
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No, humans are designed to have sex. The biological goal of your body is to re-produce and die. Saying "there's more to life than females" is stupid and delusional.
/r/seduction15/06/22 09:19 PM
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Don't be fat. Stop wearing glasses and wear lenses. Get a haircut every 3 weeks or month. Have good skincare. Don't stink. Those are all the major points. All the other points (style, muscles) are minor that marginally help. You only do the minor points for yourself, not with the expectation of getting women.
/r/seduction15/06/22 07:05 PM
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Look at what people do, not what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:44 AM
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Why avoid men who are muscular? I'm not muscular myself so I don't care but just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:43 AM
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? So the behavior tracked and recorded via the data collected doesn't take into the account THE ABUSE being ignored and dodged The survey asked to rate them from 1 to 5 if memory serves me well. Nothing to do with behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:48 AM
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That's brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:00 PM
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Behaviour has nothing to do with how attractive someone is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:59 PM
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I feel you, I am the exact same height in the same country. It's shitty.
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:28 PM
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Lol, classic heightpill strikes again. I know guys who don't go to the gym, have an ugly face, scrawny as a stick, no charisma but still get attention cause they're 6"4. You have zero idea what you're talking about. It's like a rich guy who had a massive headstart because of his family's connections telling the poor to just "work hard"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 01:12 PM
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Do you understand what hypergamy means?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:24 PM
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I think you have no idea what you're talking about, never did any actual research on the topic and are regurgitating what you've heard other women say about the red pill. The vast majority of red pill is about how "game" works, if it exists, and how we men can use it. No idea what you're talking about with the BPD shit, sounds like some one-off thing that you're using to frame the entire movement as misogynist. Just go to r/TheRedpill subreddit and see what the discussions are about. Type "BPD" …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:18 PM
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So stop saying there's someone for anyone, when that's not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:37 PM
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More like, 50% are normal untaken parking spaces, 30% are handicapped and the top 20% are painted gold and have a personal valet, but all of the top ones are taken as well. Also, the top parking spaces are not only taken but there's constantly a thief who lockpicks your car and dumps it next to the trashyard after pumping out all of your fuel. But you gotta have that personal valet and gold paint.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:26 PM
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I think you have the wrong view of what the Red Pill is. I'm not exactly a big time supporter, but red pill is mostly about understanding which kind of personalities women are attracted to and acting on that, aka game. RP also sees the kind of looks women are attracted to and wants men to change their style based on that. Saying this simplifies women or puts them in a box is a stupid way to look at it. Most women put on make-up and understand that it makes them more attractive to MOST men. Does …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:45 AM
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That's gold
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:58 AM
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Huh? The only reason women have more value is because men are much hornier due to testosterone. That's it, none of them care about raising babies if we're talking purely biological. Most animals are solely raised by their mother. The father just cums and dips. If men naturally were less hornier, most women would be given zero attention (by men).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:41 PM
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Also why they tell guys to lower their standards if they want a girlfriend, as if these guys haven't tried that already. They see how hard it is for themselves (the women) to pull the top 20% of men and assume all men have a high standards. It's pure projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:26 PM
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Watching netflix and/or television is more mindless than any other "mindless game" You said Call of Duty is mindless, I'd argue that First person shooters require more brain power and reflexes than Civ, watching at a map for three hours and making a note of what to do. You basically think that any game you don't like is mindless
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:48 AM
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So would you say that the ideal woman for a lot of men, is not a super good looking woman? But instead someone who is relatable Yes. A boy thinks that looks is all that matters. A men realizes that if you're going to spend 24/7 with this person, they better not be an entitled narcisstic bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:27 AM
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Equally, you don't have to suck a dick you don't want to suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:13 AM
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Doesn't make sense though. If we're thinking purely simple numbers wise, each women dates one guy. If standards are so high that an average men should date an uglier women, what is happening with the top 30% of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:56 PM
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No, his point is that they're getting zero women, at all. Trust me, most men would fuck a women with an uglier face than fuck absolutely nothing. See tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:49 PM
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Nah, more workhours/stress doesn't translate to lower birth rates. Average men during the 1800s-1960s worked a fuck load more than now and did heavier work, yet they had much higher birthrates than we do now. Bad economic conditions don't matter that much either, just look at some of the poorest shit-tier countries, they all got the highest birth rates. There's a root cause for the low birth rates in Japan and Korea. I'm guessing it has something to do with the fact that videogames and computers…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:05 PM
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A quick trip outside reveals plenty of average men and women are in relationships. Most men and women are just normal decent people who want to live happy lives. A real problem in our society is that young men are having much less sex in general, as well as losing their virginity later in life. Lots of statistic reports it. I distinctly remember the famous graph posted here that showed that a massive 28% of men between 18 and 30 years old reported having no sex in the past year. That study was d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:35 AM
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I found out that I admire, in general, famous women much less than famous men. I'm assuming "admire" here means something like I'd often look them up on instagram, Youtube, television and other media channels to know what they're up to or hearing their opinions on subjects. If I look at the channels I watch on Youtube, it's all men. Same goes for accounts I follow on Instagram and Twitter. Not doing this on purpose at all, just seems that most people I resonate with are men. I'm genuinely open t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:03 PM
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Don't forget that being overweight will look much better on you at 6"2 than the same weight for any women. Men are also made to look more broad and sturdy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:36 PM
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Just look at Mads Mikkelsen or Johnny Depp talking, honestly not that different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:51 PM
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Honestly, I don't see much hope for him if he's from a Western country. I would love to see the women from here who talk about how beauty is subjective to rate this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:13 PM
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If you're average looking and can take a few really quality pictures, you'll get a few matches per week at most. Many of those will be uglies, many of those will be bots, and a few of those will be average girls. Now you're competing with the other 80% of men for her, some who will be exactly her type. Everyone is messaging her, good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:09 AM
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I wouldn't understand why people need to lie over an anonymous forum, but I suspect you're right. Especially given the dodgy and plain strawman attacking answers on here by some women. Some women are saying stuff like "If wealth/status was all he had, I wouldn't date him", No shit Sherlock, I could say the same about literally any preference regarding tits or ass that guys want: "If big tits was all she had, I wouldn't date her", It's not about a guy having SOLELY something, it's about whether i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:57 AM
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No, going into some self improvement phase for entering a relationship is stupid. You self improve because you want to do it for yourself, not to get mature for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 06:02 PM
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Not all of them are models though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:22 PM
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How would you explain the examples I listed then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 01:27 PM
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Right, and what's your opinion on the examples I gave? Do you think that, without their wealth and status, these men would still be able to attract much younger women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:16 PM
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First off, not all women are chasing rich old men. Only a few. So it's not some kind of biological thing. I'm not being that extremist/radical though, that's entirely on your own. I'm asking wether it has an effect or not. I realize it's not solely wealth/status, just asking how big of a role it plays.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:13 PM
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If it's the exact opposite, why do I constantly see and hear men complaining about (let's be honest, attractive) women being orbited by swaths of men? Ask any average looking young women these days and she'll tell you that there are multiple guys trying to get with her. It's not solely the top 20%, who's being orbited, it's more so that the bottom 20% of them isn't. Attractive women might have more orbiters, but that's just because orbiting is easy to do and doesn't limit itself to one person. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:23 PM
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Why would Reddit be better for single women looking for sex/relationships than insta/TikTok ? That's not what is being discussed though, you're discussing wether the majority of girls on Tiktok are single or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:16 AM
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All this does is tell me men are all going after or orbiting the top 20% of women, but ignoring the rest, while they complain that the most attractive women with the most options... always have options. It's the exact opposite. Women are orbiting around the top 20% of men but ignoring the rest, while complaining that the most attractive men always have options who pumps and dumps them. Just see the Tinder and OkCupid data. Women consistenly rate 80% of men as unattractive. Show me statistics tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:13 AM
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You do subconsciously
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:58 PM
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Huh? Most men, especially on PPD know the importance of wealth. What makes you think they wouldn't be able to provide?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:55 PM
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The big majority of men who care are those that are not sure of themselves and have some kind of inferiority complex with their own sexual prowess and experience. It's the average man, that's what this entire thread is about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:28 AM
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Stop rambling and start backing your shit up with statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:27 AM
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A lot of women get offended by common sense though, See: this comment section.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:21 AM
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Yes, just look in the comment section. So many triggered people trying to fight statistics with their own personal anecdotes and hasty generalisations. It's amusing as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:11 AM
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And high-body count women will continue to easily enter relationships and get married, even to “high-value” men, especially if she’s attractive. He never said high n count women can not easily get a relationship. He said most men prefer a low n count woman, why are you so triggered by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:09 AM
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One word: Desperation Most women prefer a 6" tall guy with a great jawline. Thing is, that's only max 10% of the male population. Most guys prefer a women with low n count. Thing is, a lot of women have high n-counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:07 AM
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See, but it isn't because most men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:02 AM
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That's implying they want to, which as seen from this post, they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:00 AM
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Which guy would women date more likely? The virgin who has no experience with sex, or the guy who fucked 30+ women? The vast majority of women would be disgusted by the former and would most likely choose the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:51 AM
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No it really isn't. Every single reddit discussion that I've seen that was about this ends with women calling men creeps for caring about this, with some random guy soyboys going "Akchually I don't care about it, why h-have double schtandards?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:47 AM
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Yeah, no fucking shit you don't want to be approached when you're married. We're talking about single women here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:52 PM
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That still doesn't change the fact that they honestly think that 80% of the men population is unattractive. Also, why are you leaving out the tinder expiriment with 20% of men getting 80% of matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:35 PM
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Actually not possible. You're either lying, didn't look as good as you thought you were, or you live in an area without men using dating apps (farmer towns, Africa, Iran). I've seen the most plainest of janes as well as the most obese women get thousands of matches. Their pics were often so bad as well, the kind that guys would be scolded for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:33 PM
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I believe anyone and everyone is improving themselves to compare better to others, not just for women but most importantly for their social circle such as family. If no one, except for yourself, could see your muscle gains after going to the gym, no one would train as much. (or atleast, no one would train for aesthetics and instead go for actual strength) If no one, except for women themselves, could see the make-up on their face, none of them would spend money and waste their time putting it on…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:24 AM
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What the actual fuck are you even trying to say? None of your comments made any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:00 PM
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Being single is completely normal and honestly fun. However men here act like being single or not getting sex is an awful tragic thing because they do base their worth on what women think of them. Is that why every women on Reddit and on this sub resorts to "found the incel" after you criticise them or point out a hypocricy? The most common insult by women against men in general is a variation of guys getting no sex. For people who supposedly like being single they sure love insulting others for…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:18 PM
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I've read on it and I think you're wrong. From what I've read, ecological fallacy is only relevant when you draw individual conclusions based on the aggregate data of a group that the individual belongs to. An ecological fallacy here would be "Since there is a high divorce rate for couples, you will certainly divorce if you're married." But this would NOT be a ecological fallacy: "Since there is a high divorce rate for couples, you're likely to divorce." Read this, either way, you're just callin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:44 PM
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Nah, a lot of them pride themselves in being single and not needing men. Just think of the average woman using Reddit. None of the women friends I ever had ever heard of Reddit. If they did, they were using it for memes to share. Think about how much attention the average women gets these days. My least attractive women friends have no problem getting relationships. You'd seriously have to be repulsive if you have that much trouble that you often visit a subreddit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:02 PM
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From my experience, most people who "game with the boys" often know those boys from real life. It's the mans version of calling your "besties" for 45 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:25 AM
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Yes, expanding your social circle is 10 times more important than lifting. One gives you a way to meet a lot of potential relationships, the other you can't see after you put on a long sleeved t shirt. The confidence you get from the gym does help, ofcourse. But you get the most when you get a big social circle as well as lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:21 AM
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What is the name of the logical fallacy? Can't you say that with literally any statistic, making all statistics useless: "That statistic does not translate to individual likelihood"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:17 AM
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The limit on the number of active matches one can have is the important thing here. It'll break up the huge power the 10% of both genders have. It still won't be perfect because of the gender ratio like you said, but the matches will be distributed a lot more fairly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:49 PM
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He did say a limit on the number of active matches one can have, those top people would be out pretty fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:45 PM
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He didn't tell anyone to care about men's issues though. He simply said that the statement which is often berrated by women about how dating is just as hard for women as it is for women is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:30 PM
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Been my experience as well. The shortest girls date the tallest guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:21 PM
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Huge difference between finding a person hot and genuinely thinking you're in their same league
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:45 AM
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But what are the chances a man falsely accusing someone of rape vs a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:15 AM
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What do you specialise in?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:09 AM
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Imagine trusting some guy to do all purchases for your company and he's swayed because the sales agent is hot. Remind me to, if I ever start a company, do all the purchases myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:08 AM
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You just confirmed what OP meant, lmao. Would you still think of him so highly if he had a 3% succes rate?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:44 PM
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Absolutely fucking lie about being inexperienced if she asks about it. You know how most men don't want an "experienced" girl, a.k.a, someone who's been fucked by every guy in town? Well, women are the exact opposite. They don't want an inexperienced guy, aka someone who's been unable to get fucked. Women are genetically wired to get the best they can. Look at videos of animals mating with eachother. The male animals always have to prove they're worthy of mating. Most of the time, this is done b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:09 PM
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I'd assume he'd allow her to use his bank account, that's the entire thing of being the breadwinner. Most guys just don't want to split everything 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:52 PM
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Lol no, this is absolute bull shit. The dating scene is designed around ATTRACTIVE and extroverted men. I've seen the biggest pieces of shit with no future and no ambition whatsoever with the hottest chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:09 PM
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Same for Forrest gump lmao, atleast that had a sort of happy ending.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:49 PM
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True, it's just that it's even more shit now. Everyone is more isolated thanks to the internet and social media. Before, you had to actually put in effort if you wanted to be isolated. There was nothing you could do, except for maybe reading a book or watching television. Being social was more easier than being alone at home. Hobbies were social: my dad practised with his band members almost every single and often played in venues which is how he met my mum. Compare that to now, where it is the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:41 PM
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Why would you assume every man is a potential predator? Seems weird as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:32 PM
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Much less than women. Women rate 80% of the male population as unattractive, while men rate much more consistent like a bellcurve. Guys who who go for someone "out of their league", typically know it but try for the heck of it. A woman who goes out of her league most of the time doesn't even know that the person they're chasing is way beyond them in attraction. That's why you see so many posts on Reddit about "Guys are just using me" and "All guys just want to FWB me." It's because guys will NEV…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 11:58 AM
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You just want to believe that to feel superior. No, I don't give a shit about any of this. Not claiming women are stupid or anything. Men mostly don't gain anything from being antisocial and individualistic. Believe it or not, antisocial aggressive behavior in men IS CONFORMITY That's straight up bullshit. A guy being silent is socially depicted as strange loner. A girl being shy is depicted as cute and shy. I've literally never seen a guy getting social benefits from being antisocial. Guys who …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 11:26 AM
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How the hell did you get that from what he said? He's saying the literal opposite to what you're claiming: Men are more individualistic and will much less conform to social trends, therefore they're much more likely to be antisocial compared to women. It's the fault of how men's brain and hormones work, not women conforming to social rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:41 AM
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It's a mix. You have some players but there's definitely dudes who just want a relationship and will stop as soon as they enter one. You'll find it out pretty quickly who wants to just have sex and who wants a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:06 PM
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Way toovmany people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:41 PM
2

The vast majority of men don't have stricly platonic female friends. Even forrest gump tried to hot in Jenny
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:35 PM
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Why do you think they're doing this massively uncomfortable shit in the first place? Getting a gf as a guy is fucking hard if your social circle is male dominated and you aren't conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:32 PM
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You'll just be known as the gay best friend and deemed unfuckable. The best tactic is to be good friends with an attractive dude who goes/hosts parties where a lot of women go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:55 PM
1

So even bars aren't that good either?
/r/seduction01/05/22 08:33 PM
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You can't. I know it sounds harsh, but men are an absolute expert at knowing who they think is hot or not. The most you'll get is a FWB but don't be expecting any commitment. Sounds blunt but it's the truth. Men just don't go into relationships with women who aren't as attractive as they are. For women this isn't the case as much because their sex drive (testosterone) is much lower than a man. So, unless you want to get pumped and dumped a few times, don't. If you just want to have sex with him …
/r/seduction01/05/22 08:30 PM
43

Lmao I remember on r/TwoXChromosomes (don't ask me why) there was a comment getting a lot of attention that was ridiculising men when they tell women that they won't find a man if they're a single mum in their 30s. This other women said "Damn right, I'm getting a lot of matches on Tinder so I have no idea what they're talking about." I could only think to myself "If only they knew.."
/r/seduction26/04/22 02:07 PM
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Yep, seen it so many times. Just go to r/dating. Basically every other post by a girl is them whining about how "All guys just want to use me", while they only try to match with 9/10 attractive dudes who already get a lot of women. They don't realize that they're not special to these attractive guys. Thanks to how testosterone works, they'll only want to fuck and aren't going to start a relationship with them. The girl gets pumped and dumped, and boom: a whiny post gets made about how messed up …
/r/seduction26/04/22 01:54 PM
1

Wait, in the US you can be "ruled" married without even going through the process yourself? That's insane
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/22 08:14 PM
2

A fluid conversation means nothing more than finding relatable things and then adding onto that. By contrast, an awkward conversation is asking questions and simply answering them, like a robot. So when you're talking with someone, start by finding a conversation subject that is relatable to you so that you can add stuff. If you just went on a really nice vacation, sneakily ask them what they planned for holidays. If you went to the best bar in town, ask them about what did they did in the weeke…
/r/seduction23/03/22 08:25 PM
6

I mean there is definitely SOMETHING going on. Whether that's on modern women's dating standard or not is hard to figure out. Young male virginity has risen from 8% in 2008 to an all time high of 27% in 2018. The rise of online dating happened at the same time. So it wouldn't be far-fetched to say that online dating ironically hurt the average men's ability to find women.
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:28 PM
2

Cannot see how that behavior compares to the states until the end of the year when I go there for the first time. Nice! Where are you going? When I visited, I liked Las Vegas the most. Disliked San Francisco and Los Angeles. Then again, I was with family so things may be different when you're alone. When you visit you'll see that Americans are generally much more social than Europeans. The difference lies in how they're raised: there's a lot more emphasis on "networking". Over there it's much mo…
/r/seduction21/03/22 03:26 PM
4

Bro absolutely never compliment a girl's body such as her legs. Easiest way to creep them off
/r/seduction21/03/22 02:48 PM
2

Whenever I have a party with my friends, the girlfriends never bring their friends along :(.
/r/seduction21/03/22 02:18 PM
1

No. People in Europe are generally much less social to strangers. When I visited the US almost every stranger I met talked to me which was really nice. Doesn't happen in France nor many other European countries. For Europe, the more south you go the more social people become. Also, I'd be careful with approaching people in capitals. In big cities like Paris and Rome there's a lot of scammers/sellers so people are a lot more cautious.
/r/seduction21/03/22 12:57 PM
0

Why not wear a normal sweatpants though?
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:36 PM
6

Great job dude. It'll only get easier from here
/r/seduction27/02/22 04:18 PM
1

And you think by cold approaching there won't be competition? Way less, like significantly less than Tinder.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:36 PM
3

These aren't shit tests. Women don't have some free pass to being absolute mean bitches just because you're attracted to them. In fact she probably already senses you're attracted to her and knows you won't respect yourself. Treat her like you would treat her if she was a dude. Assume she isn't interested in you. Don't overthink this.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:24 PM
1

Why does that video look like it was made in 2008 lmaoo
/r/PussyPassDenied18/07/21 02:07 PM
1

Cioe
/r/Chadfish23/06/19 05:03 PM
1

Yep, as long as we have guys like you're responding to we'll never fix this problem. The whole mentality of all human life has to change.
/r/Chadfish23/06/19 12:26 AM
1

It's all so tiresome
/r/Chadfish23/06/19 12:23 AM
1

Respond by either: Unmatching her as soon as you read it Say "Don't get it."
/r/Chadfish22/06/19 10:17 AM
1

Someone from Incel Tears. This subreddit, if you didn't know was made by incels (braincels users). IncelTears is a subreddit that posts shit about incels and tries to bully them and make them feel bad for not being able to get sex. The funny thing is that a lot of IncelTears users are virgins themselves. It's the main reason why they have a 'weekly advice' thread where they give you bluepilled tips such as "shower more" or "go to clubs". For this reason, we call them ITcels.
/r/Chadfish21/06/19 09:17 PM
1

Hahahaha chad you are so funny being antisemitic LOL... We'll change it hahahahah chad!
/r/Chadfish21/06/19 09:15 PM
1

Stop immediately, she doesn't find you attractive.
/r/Chadfish21/06/19 08:11 PM
1

4 matches in 3 years... Holy shit I'd just off myself if that happened to me.
/r/Chadfish21/06/19 04:21 PM
1

Photoshopmaxxers will save us
/r/Chadfish21/06/19 04:20 PM
1

Haha chad you are so quirky and silly!
/r/Chadfish21/06/19 04:19 PM
1

One of the first ones to browse it as well. I just hope this sub won't forget its origins and gets overcasted by foids and normies. Remember fellas, this is an incel sub.
/r/Chadfish19/06/19 07:25 PM
1

Holy fuck normans get the fuck out of here this is an incel only sub.
/r/Chadfish18/06/19 02:34 PM
10

"Brave introvert"
/r/Chadfish10/06/19 02:45 PM
-2

Shut the fuck up chadlite, a lot of people have it much, much worse than you. You can't complain about anything you pathetic fuck.
/r/Chadfish09/06/19 09:09 PM
18

"Not a thot" Proceeds to tell a guy she never met that they're going to fuck immediately afterwards. Christ, these people really can't produce rational thought.
/r/Chadfish06/06/19 01:43 PM
2

Just imagine if the guy was ugly and said he was playing with legos. IT would be here saying "See? Who is gonna like a guy that plays with legos!"
/r/Chadfish06/06/19 01:42 PM
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