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“Live and Let Live” tends to be a very left-leaning disposition. If you believe this you’ll tend to end up on that side of the spectrum. Also if you believe government should do all they can to help their citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:23 PM

No worries. It was more of sharing of research but that flair seems to have gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:17 PM
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What was wrong about the last post we had on this ? It wasn’t mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:48 PM
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My bad. I rarely come on here anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:47 PM
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I set the tag to ‘Discussion’. Mods must’ve changed it kmt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:47 PM
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Cluster analyses rarely ever look this cleanly diametrically opposed where you see zero data points teetering toward overlaps and outliers unless there’s something else going on. It seemed pretty wild to me too. Which is what prompted resurrecting this account to post for dissection. Study: https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.2310012121
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:39 PM
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Every time I look for “idiots denying it” I just find more comments complaining about others who deny it. You may be stuck in an outrage loop. Very common in social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:51 PM
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This honesty is refreshing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:35 PM
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Don’t lie! If it was a “debate space” then they would have put it in the subreddit name and sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:34 PM
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I remember making this exact argument several times on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:33 PM
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What about “my mayyun!“ ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:31 PM
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1.5 years and 6 months old.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:26 PM
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Everything in moderation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:25 PM

Sure buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:43 AM

Fuck this guy! u/IcyBad8073. Stop spamming every comment with your bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:41 PM
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Why is everyone so confident that their tiny tiny slice of anecdotal life experience applies to large populations of people? Is it impossible that you’re part of a niche?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:04 AM
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No, no! It’s about Are you asking “How do I meet a girl?” or “How can I fuck a bunch of women?” Men who are getting these “crappy” suggestions from women about dating may be simply asking the wrong thing. “How do I just get laid” is gonna garner an honest answer (yes even from women) because is less misleading than “how do I meet someone?” I’ve asked that exact question to one of my female friends who even suggested going for a slutty acquaintance of hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:07 PM
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Different properties are considered for female value compared to male value
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:59 PM
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Hypergamy is literally statistically proven in every single category, and yet you can still deny its existence. From height, to income, to everything else. The historical F/M fertility rate, virtually all uncivilized human societies being polygynist, hell even our own existence is proof of hypergamy. Height? Did you say fucking height? 🤣 This is why it’s never taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:22 PM
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Red Pill does present itself as scientific tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:19 PM
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It’s more than validation for one with a healthy sense of self. Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:17 PM
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Exactly as I do rn. More threesomes probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:07 PM
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Bold claim. Bullshit claim too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:05 PM
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That’s cus the USA has a warped version of the political spectrum compared to most developed countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:00 PM
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10+ is rare, 15 and 20+ are really fucking rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:52 PM
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I meant the irony of of your c oping in the face of scientific research, which is a clear example of “Self-deception and wishful thinking.” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:51 PM
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This finding is difficult to interpret, however, because the authors administered the questions in a face-to-face interview, thus combining a condition likely to discourage false accommoda- tion (the bogus pipeline condition) with a condition likely to encourage false accommodation (a nonanonymous interview). The full impact of the pipeline condition on participants' responses in this experiment may have been obscured by the threat of exposing their true responses to the interviewer, thus limiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:48 PM
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Self-deception and wishful thinking. The irony
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:39 PM
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They are only great sources for people who use online dating apps as their primary method. Useless to everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:38 PM
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There’s no way I know all 95th percentile people. Unless you are watching them all while they actively fuck others in front of you, there’s a good chance that either you do or they are lying to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:36 PM
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This sounds like the same way men select women to marry. Unless you want me to believe every married dude thinks his wife is the hottest woman on the planet. “Unattracted” and “Less attracted” are separate concepts. But this sub likes to pretend the latter is the former. Even though it’s a common behaviour everyone engages in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:32 PM
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Those stats are a fabrication.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:28 PM
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But any objective analysis worth it’s salt has to confirm my biases. Thems the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:26 PM
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I dunno how other people measure women’s sexual attraction but I try to look at who they are choosing to fuck… …results say, most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:25 PM
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Most of those people are supremely ignorant and will get divorced/stuck in miserable marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:22 PM
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I have a hard time believing that a 19 year old knows what they want. Usually it’s an overly naive perception of what they think marriage is like, and the ones that go for it quickly find out how wrong they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:21 PM
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Depends on the thing you are getting. “Easier to get cancer” isn’t better. “Easier to get selfish sex” isn’t better. “Easier to get pleasurable sex” is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:55 PM
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I’ve made a post about this before. Men really don’t be asking the questions properly. So they’re not gonna get the answers they wanna know. EDIT: some what I actually said in that post… Are you asking “How do I meet a girl?” or “How can I fuck a bunch of women?” I feel that men who are getting these “crappy” suggestions may be simply asking the wrong thing. “How do I just get laid” is gonna garner an honest answer (yes even from women) because is less misleading than “how do I meet someone?” I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:53 PM
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Exactly. What is expecting someone to pay for you on a date, other than prioritising your own needs? It’s following a cultural norm. Most people follow cultural norms and rarely question them. As do you. Narcissism is also a preoccupation with your looks, which describes many women Narcissism is described as ‘excessive’. Which has to be significantly above the norm. So it you can’t apply it the way you’re trying to. Using makeup as a woman is another cultural norm. It’s less a preoccupation as i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:40 PM
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You can say easier to reach specific outcomes sure. But the grass is greener considers the value of those outcomes. Hence the saying: “the grass is always greener on the other side” Easier to ‘get sex’ doesn’t necessarily equal ‘better’ for women. So it can’t be assumed to be greener.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:35 PM
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*Having more = less predatory * The fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:32 PM
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The grass being greener.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:26 PM
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Sex is about validation for a shitton of men and women. To the point where people want it even if it’s not very pleasurable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:25 PM
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Class Cluelessness right here!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:19 PM
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How do you judge it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:18 PM
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Narcissism is a self-centered personality style characterized as having an excessive preoccupation with oneself and one's own needs, often at the expense of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:17 PM
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I’m pretty sure it was the diamond advertising industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:15 PM
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Ime, feminists don’t care about ring expenses. A good chunk of women do tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:14 PM
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I don’t think you know what that word means.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:13 PM
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Dress provocatively ≠ naked
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:13 PM
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Men can get a free supply of weed by making friends in the right places, same as women. Just tell people you’ve never smoked before and they’ll be rushing to introduce you to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:11 PM
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Old habits die hard. Why don’t men wear makeup? It’s an old custom that men still adhere to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:09 PM
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Social proof is about safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:08 PM
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Most men aren’t bodybuilding, they’re just working out. Most women are doing hair, makeup and fashion however.
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 01:07 PM
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It’s because the modest girls aren’t sexy enough
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:34 AM
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I hate the second dress…. So much!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:34 AM
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Dunning-Krueger
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:33 AM
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I agree, OP is unbelievably stupid
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 02:26 AM
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I am. The complexity of each is way higher and takes more consideration than lifting heavy thing, dropping it and then going to have a shower. HAHAHHAHA
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 02:25 AM
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Chicken or egg either way it shows it’s a choice that most successful men make and aren’t hurting from it. That even applies to men of average success. To assume you know so much better than them because…?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:22 AM
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Thank you for proving my point. I’m speaking to the smoothest brains rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:21 AM
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Uh huh that’s what the abstract said.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 02:20 AM
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So you have done them all?
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 02:19 AM
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Then you don’t understand what “proof” is. Y’all need to stop just going on your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:18 AM
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I make a point about charisma, you ignore it to talk about how he looks. Understand human attraction better then get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:14 PM
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Makeup and clothes and hair = 3 Exercising and bodybuilding = 1 That’s 3 things to 1 thing. Pretty sure women also exercise for appearance as well.
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 02:12 PM
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Because Incel ideology is infectious. And no-pussy having energy vibrates from certain talking points. Regular men and women tend to want genuine attraction from their partner. Not BPD hysterical bonding that’s encouraged by abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:10 PM
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Statistically insignificant on large scale, unless you want to see the individual level of attraction for each man. How is it ‘statistically insignificant’? Explain. Show pictures of 100 different men to 100 different women. Ask each how attractive this man is as well as whether they could have sex with him. Quiz people on photos? 🤣🤣 okay so you have no idea how human sexual attraction works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:58 PM
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That’s all these incels care about “Yeah could she be hanging around me out of a misplaced sense of abandonment, mental illness and dependency instead of genuine attraction? Sure but at least she’s hot!”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:56 PM
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Not even women, teenage girls he has to groom into sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:54 PM
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Zherka gets women who steal his money and try to stab him. Andrew Tate pays prostitutes for company. These are terrible examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:54 PM
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Holup! Not so easy. • What are all mitigating variables that you have to account for? (ex. a woman may be on her period/feeling bloated at the first time she meets a sexy man, and not fuck him immediately) • How do you measure “raw sexual attraction” at scale? (Self-report surveys or…?)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:49 PM
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Maybe not. But it illuminates a larger picture especially when the braindead talking points are spread to a largely young college-educated that haven’t even had their first girlfriend let alone a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:34 PM
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I challenge you to find me evidence proving that most marriages end in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:32 PM
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He was fat and had a glass eye and greasy hair. His mouth reminded me of an iguana’s mouth. I found his character quite dislikable, Are you talking about what he looks like present-day? Dude is your mum STILL in love with him!? You come across as douchey and butthurt telling someone they have a nursery level understanding of experiences they lived when you don’t know anything about them. What you feel is accurate about things you know nothing about is not convincing to anyone but yourself. Have …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:31 PM

Unattractive women say how they are constantly approached as soon as they leave their house?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:27 PM

It is when it’s pretty clear when other view points are not taken into account, or that other ways of viewing things. Tell me you never read a research paper without telling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:26 PM
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I thought it was 2-3 years older
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:25 PM
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I don’t think anyone has researched it while controlling for childfree couples. I wish they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:21 PM
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That’s a nursery level understanding of the observation. Is he attractive because he had the status of pastor? Or did he attain the status of pastor because he had attractive traits? The second one feels a lot more accurate. As public speakers tend to come across as very charismatic. Charisma = attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:39 AM
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Far more sex than celibate people? Sure. Far more sex than non-cohabitating couples, or single people that are sexually active? I doubt it. I’m sure it feels that way
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:29 AM
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Damn it! You got there first!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:23 AM
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Serial monogamy for a man seems to be the best strategy on several metrics. If a man is married… They make more money. - “Using data from the German Socio-Economic Panel, it is found that married men enjoy a wage premium even after controlling for self-selection into marriage. In contrast to the popular household specialization hypothesis, men do not substantially reduce their housework time following marriage; neither does the housework time significantly affect the wage rate. This finding cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:22 AM

She has a bunch of married sisters no? I’m guessing she can’t be the only tall one?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:33 AM

Noone would
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:32 AM
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As a practitioner of radical honesty, I would enjoy it if I was single. And yes pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:31 AM
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It’s weird and likely unhealthy. But so is smoking and I’m a freedom-lover “live and let live” kinda guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:29 AM
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Yep it’s like the difference between approaching and harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:28 AM
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If you are successful man you mitigate that risk to 20% by marrying educated and marrying older than 25. And considering the immense value marriage brings, the answer is “yes” the trade-off/risk is absolutely worth it objectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:23 AM
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Only if you’re doing it for the benefit of someone else and not yourself. Who gets to decide that it’s beneficial?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:20 AM

I agree that hard sciences are easier when trying to uncover cause and effect. Which is why I think binary thinkers simply are ill-equipped to handle soft science. They don’t have the mental capacity to handle the complexities. It’s much easier to declare an “agenda”. Both soft and hard sciences have always been used to push agendas. Fact is people only notice when they push agendas they don’t personally like. Don’t get caught up in cognitive biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:20 AM
4

Did you miss the part about the gender ratio?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:16 AM
5

Roughly 40% of marriages end in divorce and that number drastically reduces when you account for multiple time divorcees and couples under 25. 70% paperwork submitters being women isn’t a strong stat towards anything except maybe that men are more likely to be shit partners? Which I have a hard time believing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:11 AM

Why do you think social studies are a waste? Do you hate politics too?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:09 AM
2

Interesting perspective. I often think about the women aged 26-29 that are dating men 30+ And women are more likely to date older than men are 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:09 AM
7

Most marriages don’t end in divorce…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:01 AM
8

Get manospherians to critically consider sample sizes? - Mission Impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:57 AM
2

Relationships =/= raw sexual attraction. No shit. But these incel autists can’t even explain their criteria for measurement. Or how their ideas are falsifiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:55 AM
3

I’ve managed optimize these conversations to about 4 or 5 messages before a person reveals that their criteria for uncovering truth is “oh it’s just vibes then?”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:53 AM

Social careers are a detriment how? Do you think childcare isn’t really needed? Safeguarding is a waste of time? What would you suggest to replace them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:46 AM

Status just allows more people to see you and have a curiosity. If a sub-5/10 man can only be attractive to 20% of the female population, he’s got much better chance if it’s 20% of 10,000 women instead of 20% of 100 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:39 AM

So you mean unattractive woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:37 AM

People still spout “you need 2 litres if water per day” despite it being debunked for decades. Old data points really die hard in the cultural lexicon. The real crime is how educational and social careers are criminally underpaid, despite being extremely valuable to the societal health of country.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:36 AM

Fuck! It’s been a while but I guess it’s nice to observe that conversations have not progressed in any meaningful way. This place is like a time bubble. people still don’t understand the meaning of attraction, sexual attraction, or stay consistent with their own twisted definitions either still continually conflating SMV and RMV to suit their arguments still don’t understand the definition of “fuckboy” Smooth-🧠 all round n round again
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:27 AM
1

The burden of proof lays on those that make your insane claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:23 AM
4

You believe that ugly men can’t be fuckboys and that’s why you’ll forever miss the mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:23 AM
5

They believe that ugly men can’t be fuckboys
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:22 AM
2

Social proof isn’t about attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:11 AM
0

Identifying a correlation isn’t proving its causation. That’s a middle-schooler’s understanding of patterns lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:09 AM
6

Most women can’t easily get enjoyable sex, and it’s not just because of male physical looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:08 AM
0

I don’t think people here could identify a fuckboy if their life depended on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:07 AM
1

No, how people work. Men and women aren’t that different personality wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:33 PM
1

Using a Reddit thread in a weirdo section of the internet as representative is the dumbest thing ever! The above comment is more indicative of a poorly socialised woman that spends way too much time online than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:32 PM
8

It’s a violation of privacy for clout.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:53 AM
2

Laugh at the zoo of crazies this subreddit collects.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:49 AM
1

It really depends on what’s being said specifically tho. MissDecoy is aware of my posting but its nothing surprising, stupid or interesting. Just in-line with my actual beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:48 AM
2

They only watch shit produced by Disney
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:45 AM
1

The vast majority of men don’t have that type of disposable income.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:39 AM
1

What’s the likelihood?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:36 AM
1

Maybe that $7 is a lot to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:34 AM
1

Revealing clothing ≠ acting entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:27 AM
4

You have an insane perception of how other people work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:20 AM

Ehhh probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:58 AM
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Then post it on social media “for my mental” coincidentally when her ex is celebrating a new child? And to you the most obvious interpretation is that act was out of concern for her ex’s new fiance? Foh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:37 AM

Unpopular opinion as it seems most men are unable to do that while also taking care of children
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:35 AM

Popular misconceptions about hypergamy that never seem to die around here: Proceeds to spout all the misconceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:33 AM

This is the same type of energy that leads to no characters ever dying in newer Disney films. I think children can handle information about horrific events. They are more fragile but they’re not glass.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:28 AM
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🤣🤣 what!? That’s some bullshit rationalisation of jealousy and bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:23 AM
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It’s okay to discuss it any time with your friends. Posting a private convo with a public on social media however? Never okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:21 AM
1

Woman: “I don’t do casual sex” Retard PPD’er man: “for the right guy you would”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:23 AM
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It happens rarely enough for it to be a topic of discussion. The same way you’re more likely to see headlines about when a train gets wrecked vs a train reached its destination safely. 2.3 years age gap is the average and most common.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:18 AM
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I guess if you get robbed by a couple black guys 10 years ago…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:16 AM
1

Because you said you’re “a subscriber to an idea that adult people’s business is their personal business” yet you comment on a sub dedicated to talking about other adults personal business (ie ‘dating’) No doubt you do it for entertainment or concern (not very rational), but criticise women who would warn other women for irrational motivations. It’s always funny to see irrational people criticise others irrationality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:12 AM

They have strip clubs in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:04 AM
1

What makes you think I am confused? Wanting to help someone is great, but only when such help is asked for, or advice is warranted. Then it appears that you believe people only act with rationality and logic, when it’s mostly the opposite. No, I am not a sociopath. Just a subscriber to an idea that adult people’s business is their personal business. Then wtf are you doing in this subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:02 AM

You can’t use aggregate data to assess an individual person. That’s insane, and stupid. And anxiety-fueled. Get some help.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:59 AM
2

Are you really confused at the notion of wanting to help someone that isn’t you? Are you a sociopath?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:50 AM
1

What was the experience? How did she display her thirstiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:48 AM
2

She had no booty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:47 AM
1

Have you experienced it before?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:43 AM
5

This is getting weird. Are you a drama student?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:38 AM
1

Run the fuck away from the Andrew Tate dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:37 AM
8

Young women rarely go for older guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:36 AM
3

🤦🏾‍♂️ I really can’t tell if this is sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:33 AM

The average age gap is 2.3 years nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:31 AM
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It’s the lowest it’s ever been in 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:22 AM

I’m not chasing you lol you ain’t that important. I just reply to the dumbest comments. Is it a coincidence that many of them come from you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:21 AM

What percentage of marriages end in dead bedrooms?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:20 AM

It means most don’t care enough to do anything about it. Everything is a weighing of pros and cons. If “too polite” stops you it’s not a big deal. Noone is “too polite” to call out someone actively trying to fuck their pet for example. Because that’s a a bugger deal. “Sensing hoe vibes” is a myth lol. It’s just paranoia. And good riddance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:18 AM
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So you report out of revenge, rather than simply clapback with a reply because it’s easier? Yep. The loser energy is very blatant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:27 AM
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So you admit it’s not serious enough to report, but do it anyway because… revenge? I’ve hurt your ego? “It’s against the rules!!”? okay dude. Whatever you need to tell yourself lol. EDIT: you seem very familiar with PPD rules considering you have a 5-day old account. I wonder if you’re ban evading?…🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:23 AM
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Woah! Big Snitch Energy! Go ahead report report! Lol fucking weaksauce.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:13 AM
3

Relationship sex is better than casual sex for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:13 AM
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PSA: women are more likely to commit to men who make them orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:10 AM
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This comments sounds like it’s written by a virgin that only knows sex from fan fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:10 AM
3

Long way to simply say insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:08 AM
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If men are too polite or desperate, then it’s not really much of a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:07 AM
0

“You can have it all” is a product of American consumerism. It’s never been possible, for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:41 AM

Well it’s not not crazy is it? Why can’t they be both? Both ‘crazy’ and ‘abusive’ get misused and overused.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:16 PM
2

Pretty relevant if I have to explain or not explain. A simple “Yes” or “No” would help me figure how detailed I need to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:19 PM
2

Do you know the difference between friend, acquaintance and stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:52 PM
2

Men feel pressured in multiple ways. I’d say most would still be happy to fuck though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:01 PM
-2

Aahhh black pill delusion. Delicious.
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 05:52 PM
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I was there for the transformation. Basically every sub becomes almost impossible to moderate with nuance once it reaches a certain size. If this sub ever gets popular for being "balanced", the same shit will happen here. It's the way of things.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 01:47 PM
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How is this not the same thing? They are not the same thing. If you can’t figure that out there’s no hope for you so stop trying to think about it. Because there is disagreement in the black pill just like there is disagreement in all the pills. A disagreement that turns it into completely normie worldviews or not. Most black pillers agree that looks arent everything but they are most things. Of course if youre an autistic retard your probably not gonna get laid no matter how good looking you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:01 AM
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No, choosing someone because you would die otherwise wouldn’t be a good situation, but that was not the situation It was the situation, before women had rights or the ability to divorce. Now those pressures aren’t there anymore, women aren’t compromising on their genuine tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:48 PM
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Check edit. What do you think they believe I think they believe whatever their mood at the time tells them whenever you’re asking them the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:41 PM
1

No. You do. Black Pill retards don’t know wtf they believe. Do they believe looks are most important or do they believe that looks come first? Both? So why do they sometimes argue ‘personality’ has no effect and then say sometimes it does? The more you question a black pill retard, the more their worldview breaks down to either an entirely plain blue pill perspective - “looks aren’t everything, personality matters” - OR it becomes an idea that’s completely detached from reality. Case in Point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:36 PM
1

Look at this dickhead avoiding the yes or no question. Every fucking time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:35 PM
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Yes, presents, being taken out on dates, romantic gestures, economic help when needed. Most people want this and expect wtf? Also, most men and women are fully capable of providing that. Mmh,no I’d say it’s pretty much an expectation at least generally speaking. By what evidence? Snapchat and Twitter? That reinforces my point of being an expectation. Women (generally speaking) don’t go down in dating they date same level or up. Sure if men and women are valued on the exact same criteria. Is that…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:35 PM
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Speaking for myself at least, Pillers are always seem unable to stop relating every generalised statement to themselves and their individual lives. Step outside your emotions for a quick second and look at the big picture. I’m trying my best dude. Every dude feels this way about themselves, even if “trying” amounts to only swiping on Tinder every few weeks and nothing else. I have zero vices, go to the gym daily, a good job and okay social skills. Hasn’t yielded any result yet. This means fuck a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:30 PM
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Women only oppose men going for younger women because they feel left out, and their egos are hurt. This is a braindead understanding of women. If you genuinely believe this, you need to employ harder critical thinking. Can you think of any other reasons older women may have an issue with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:26 PM
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Only if you shoot your shot with every female you come across and in quick succession. You become “that guy” when you have approached 4/5 women in a friendship group within a month and everyone knows about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:37 PM
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Simps do exist. Yes, low value men exist. Just like low value women exist. This doesn’t mean that most men won’t look down on those women and their simp male partners. Most men would simp for these women. You really think the average guy off the street is really rejecting Bree Olsen, Lana Rhodes, Mia Khalifa ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:33 PM
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You serious? Bree Olsen, Lana Rhodes, Mia Khalifa, and many other ex pornstars beg to differ. They can’t find men to marry them? Or they can’t find their ideal man to marry? Those women can’t get decent men So it’s the latter, as I suspected. ‘Decent men’ is a nice caveat you added because your point is destroyed without it. Instead of most men like the OP claimed it now becomes decent men to fit your argument. and do nothing but cry about how the industry ruined their chances at love and a fami…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:31 PM
1

Good grooming isn’t “black pill”. Black pill is retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:27 PM
1

Well that’s one problem. They don’t have to, they still do though. They don’t. Which is why men earning average income isn’t enough for those types. It needs to be luxury money. If women still needed men to simply ‘survive’ they’d settle with poorer men. So poorer men can either focus on getting insane money, or focus on other more attainable methods of raising their value. Maybe not dependency as survival but by and large they still expect to be treated by their man, I’m not sure what you mean …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:26 PM
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And rich men get a lot of attention from women who see them as wallet objects and just want to use their money. I don’t believe either points are profound. But I wouldn’t use that to say most women would reject a rich man either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:18 PM
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You think men aren’t trying? I think some are. Most? No probably not. Not what I’d call trying. You’re another “Just get a shower bro” guy. Shoots, misses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:16 PM
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Ah yes, being hyper shallow is much better than caring about suitability of partner as a father teammate etc. "hyper shallow" like choosing men because your survival depends on it? Do you honestly think choosing partners because you'll die otherwise is better for families? YES or NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:24 PM
-3

So you agree. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:07 PM
1

Are you saying sex workers don’t have a tonne of men that want them, but that they just don’t want the majority of those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:08 PM
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That’s not true. Women’s attraction bar is just free of considerations like dependency. Like men, women don’t have to choose men based on how much they can be financially supported by them. So now men need to focus more on other aspects that we historically neglected - like actually putting more money and effort into looking good. Nerds hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:24 PM
1

Normally the girls that go on the podcast get a massive boost in OnlyFans subscriptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:15 PM
1

I don’t think they’re paid unless they have more clout.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:05 PM
1

Literally just listen to them or ask them yourself. Many men do reject former pornstars and sex workers due to their history And many more will take them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:33 PM
0

If you think you can easily have healthy relationships and men will forgive the fact that it cost 150$ to fuck you for an evening then good for you. That’s not reality though. If you’re a man you’d prob feel very strongly about your wife being gangabnged for a few hundred dollars and if you’re a woman your husband would probably feel strongly about you getting gangbanged on camera for a few hundred. No need to delude yourself This is a whole lotta nothingness. “easily have healthy relationships”…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:25 PM
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Just go on YouTube and look up “former pornstar” and you’ll see plenty of “porn ruined my life” videos and they will undoubtedly bring up how it’s ruined personal relationships This is an action of selection bias. If you don’t understand that term please actually google it before replying. If you look up “former entertainer” on YouTube you’d get plenty similar stories. But it’s much harder to find evidence that sex workers who weren’t porn stars received the same negative consequences. No shit t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:42 PM
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Strippers pornstars and escorts get plenty of men that would legit marry them this is a terrible point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:32 PM
3

That’s because men have been conditioned to be the pursuers more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:38 AM
0

This doesn’t answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:56 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:54 PM
1

A bunch of mumble to say that you’re choosing to misuse a word because other people are. Very cowardly and sheepish.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:32 AM

Snitch Bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:31 AM

Aahh so it’s just your gut feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:30 AM
1

just look at the extremely unsuccessful men on here, or /r/virgin , or /r/short Not to pick on them, but whatever advice you may have to offer would be tantamount to ridicule People who can’t break out of their negative thought loops need expert professional help from those specialised to do so. I think my advice could be very effective, provided there was enough info about an individual’s specific struggles + enough time and energy on both sides to implement solutions. Only a realistic, ugly tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:34 AM
1

If you’re still in the same place you were last year then I’m not surprised, you’re a location-cel loool.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:12 AM
1

Besides, what advice would you give to shy men that wouldn’t apply to shy women? I wouldn’t, the same advice would apply for the most part (check my flair). Shyness is an obstacle and disadvantage for adults, especially in dating world. Techniques to overcome shyness rather than enable them are a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:10 AM
1

You’re choosing to misuse a word because other people misuse it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:08 AM
1

You don’t know what fuckboy means?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:28 AM
3

I don’t think younger Millennials and Gen-Zrs view nightclubs and alcohol the same way, that older gens do. They absolutely do, you just don’t know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:13 AM
0

Lol ask any of these dudes how many times they went out dancing and clubbing last year… crickets…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:57 AM
2

It’s because they’re socially inept and unable to admit or face it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:24 AM
6

Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:24 AM
5

Impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:21 AM
3

Speaking as a heterosexual man, it’s only men with an over-reliance on dating apps that have an issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:19 AM
5

If some Executive at Match finally grew a conscience and realized their company is ruining mental health for an entire generation and destroying society 😂😂 you make online dating apps sound like healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:55 AM
1

The real dumbest cope is pretending that everything that isn’t cynicism is somehow fake and and a lie. That’s how gloomy teenagers process the world. Your depression isn’t objective reality.
/r/AllPillDebate20/01/23 02:17 PM
1

No, what you’re doing is cope.
/r/AllPillDebate20/01/23 02:07 PM
1

That’s where you’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:39 PM
1

Hard to tell, since I don’t date men This is such a cop-out of an answer. The rest is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:20 AM
1

Sounds like you leaned into what you naturally found easy (technical stuff) and shied away with the more difficult things. Now you are more practiced in what came naturally and under-practiced in the other stuff. I’m not sure what outcome you expect from that strategy. Also expecting love from strangers is hilariously dumb and not smart at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:16 AM
1

As a woman I can tell you “As a woman” you can’t tell me shit, because you are not representative. You also can’t tell me how you felt about violence ages 3-5 because that’s also years after conditioning has already set in, foh!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:03 AM
1

Nope. That’s not how social anxiety works. Leave it to the experts who already have literature on this instead of coming up with your own theory based on ass-pulls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:01 AM
1

Tbf, women are conditioned away from using violence because they are not as effective at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:38 PM
1

She clearly did do that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:36 PM
3

Doesn’t seem to work with incels afraid to speak to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:14 PM
1

That’s not how social anxiety works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:07 PM
1

I swear if it’s this I’m gonna flip.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:05 PM
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Right? These fools are seeking solace advice and consideration from people who aren’t even really their friends. Of course they gonna get shitty answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:36 PM
1

You’re not gonna get into it because you have no argument against my statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:49 AM
1

Uh huh, sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:32 AM
1

I don’t think many issues are caused by porn. Maybe too early access to porn like kids watching it, but not porn in of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:31 AM
3

Porn. Porn gets men used to conflating the idea of sex, with men who aren’t them involved in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:59 AM
5

That does sound pretty shitty. Why are you thinking about other men while you’re having hot sex with a woman? I swear half these dudes are in the closet and demial about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:58 AM
1

At this point, the less someone clings to their gender as their greatest point of virtue, the better. We’re all just “innies” and “outies” at the end of the day. My belief is the more they cling, the less sexually skilled they are gonna be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:53 AM
3

It’s real. Everyone is in a “friend zone” with their friends. It only became a topic of debate because bored people wanted something to be angry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:47 AM
4

It doesn’t get them fuckzoned. That only happens if the women are trash at boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:42 AM
1

What do you think benevolent sexist means?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:40 AM
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Yep. Many want to use the “shock factor” and the emotions those words elicit, to make others pay more attention and take them seriously. It works, for a bit, but also having the side effect of causing people to distrust all good messages from the same source. A good example is history’s anti-drug campaigns and Reefer Madness, which caused many to go in the opposite direction once they realised authorities were misrepresenting the dangers of cannabis.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:38 AM
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It’s more success than the depressed virgin in his mid-20’s that’s never even cuddled a girl before. Shit is relative
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:59 AM
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Interesting take but I think that’s a reach. A more logical explanation would be simply increased integration and intermingling of the races over time, accelerated by access the internet provides.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:58 AM
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Its the base requirement And? Most men meet that base requirement. Is the real complaint that they aren’t all treated like some Adonis? Plenty of 5’ 2” women who will never daye a 5’ 5” guy. And how common is a 5’ 5” guy? Wtf are you even saying? Plus, in countries with smaller male heights, I’m sure the women are just fine with 5’5 source
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:52 AM
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We say “mum’s” over here. And not all of us have backyards. So no I actually have to leave my house to roll around in the greeny blades.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:27 AM
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the amount of white women that date bblack men increased in 20 years too, proving my theory What theory?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:26 AM
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Explain why then, in the real world, are most men in relationships, and having sex according to every single bit of data? Are they all above average height? Or are all those men lying? Are you only looking at hot women, labelling them “average at best” and projecting their dating preferences on all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:25 AM
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That’s not true, that’s just what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:21 AM
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What studies? Studies on who women are actually fucking and dating, or on what their stated ideal preferences are?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:46 PM
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You just aren’t entitled to telling people that their preference in desiring their genetic lineage to continue is invalid. Good thing I never said that, but sometimes, a person needs to let a dream of theirs go. And seek alternatives. Disappointment and Adaptation is part of adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:44 PM
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the mainstreaming of feminism in the 2010s How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:41 PM
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Yeah but the desire to see stereotypically black features in white women has definitely increased in the last 20 years. There’s been a shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:41 PM
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Naah not me. I touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:39 PM
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Lol such a dumb response.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:34 PM
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BMI is a really poor metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:00 PM
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“Watch what they do” If you did that you’d realise it’s not true. If it was, there’d be a lot more single and sexless men, yet most men are not single or sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:59 PM
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What way did he mean it to be used?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:56 PM
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I just don’t think it’s worth a discussion without a time machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:54 PM
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That means all these takes are even dumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:53 PM
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Black men who don’t date black women are the small minority. You’re conflating things. Marriage is more common and desired in the wealthier classes. Wealthier classes tend to be less black. Black men who are wealthier are around less black women in proximity. Less black women around, means less opportunity to date/marry black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:51 PM
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It’s ultimately a stupid and narcissistic reason - “I want ‘me’, more of ‘me’”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:48 PM
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With Black men is much much less pronounced in comparison to Asian women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:46 PM
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Go somewhere else, location has the biggest impact since most dating happens by proximity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:43 PM
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I hate them because I am not and never will be their first preference. This is such dumb and entitled thinking, as if the woman you’d get with is your first all ideal physical preference. Some people are hotter than others, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:37 PM
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Large bank accounts do not require social approval. Views can be fake but that money is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:33 PM
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Who is driving the popularity of Brazillian Butt Lifts then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:32 PM
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On the other hand being controversial on social media can be lucrative, it’s part strategic too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:31 PM
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If all of your prospects were baby mamas, brokies, and former inmates, wouldn’t you try to date other races? No, that would be a braindead conclusion. Smarter people figure out to simply date those who aren’t baby mamas, brokies, and former inmates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:30 PM
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the inevitable ban aside r/AllPillDebate is where they can go when that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:26 PM
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But that wouldn’t make any difference to their current sex life so 🤷🏾‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:25 PM
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Yep. Appealing to be higher class than you are has always been a thing, so poors taking their lead from the rich is no surprise. I think the biological and evolutionary psych concept is like basic might makes right. If you have a lot of females you must be the best male because the other males literally aren’t powerful enough to kill you and take your females otherwise they would. I think there’s too little and conflicting information to lean one way or the other. Laymen tend to contextualise ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:22 PM
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Incels have the dumbest memes. And least appealing because their reality is unrelateable to the vasy majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:10 PM
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It’s not a coincidence when men are taller than women on average around the world. Males are taller than females. “Omg a woman with a tall boyfriend! See guys!?” Real detective work right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:09 PM
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You must be new.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:07 PM
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Watch what they do, not what they say If people here really did that then they’d agree that “taller than her” is overwhelmingly the requirement instead of whatever blackpill bullshit people try n say. But they don’t go outside, they just stay in, swipe, wank and cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:01 PM
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Do you think I’m right or do you have another explanation, I’m curious to hear. Sure. I mean the historical reason is only men with power and status could sleep with many women so it was correlated that if you could then you must be a powerful man. Women had value through strategic alliances with powerful families so if your daughter was caught sleeping around it would ruin your family’s reputation. The historical context you explained is correct, but that really only accounts for the environmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:57 PM
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because it goes against the narrative that women are just looking for a guy they can emotionally connect with. This makes no sense as a motive when you think about how economics and power works. What goal does that contribute to?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:45 PM
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It is also a false explanation. That’s not the reason for the way things are. These are the dumb speculations of idiots that are new to this planet and have no interest in even glancing at all the history that built this precedent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:02 AM
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🤣 I know I’m just fucking wit you. Happy New Year!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:52 AM
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I don’t believe you. I’m the only logical user here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:45 AM
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particularly given that it is in staunch opposition to the the bluepill rhetoric that vastly underplays the importance of physical appearance What do you mean? Elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:45 AM
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That’s pretty homophobic buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:44 AM
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I don’t think it’s racist to point that out. It’s also not very interesting IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:04 AM
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And it all seems to just be more ignorant bullshit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:03 AM
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Your OP specifically mentions a “New Year’s Kiss”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:02 AM
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It doesn’t count unless it’s at 1st Jan 00:00am. Dems the rules!! 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:01 AM
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Don’t try to gaslight me, you are arguing in bad faith. Elaborate. Go on, try to explain how I’m “gaslighting” you. Affection? Kissing? Relationships? Romance? Sex? Again I said I am a kissless virgin. So getting a girlfriend would make up for that, not cheating. Unless you think everyone was getting multiple girls in highschool. You are talking in bad faith to antagonize me Elaborate. Go on, try to explain how I’m “gaslighting” you. I will not respond to you anymore. Convenient cowardice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:54 AM
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Even if I don’t cheat she will break up with me anyway & I will have no one again. Lool wow. The craziness of that post-hoc rationalisation of a hypothetical you haven’t even encountered. Some people come up with any excuse in an attempt to justify their bad acts of deceit and cowardly betrayal. It’s not all guys that struggle, but generally I expect those who’ve had no practice saying “no” will naturally be worse at it. Which is why I advise women that when dealing with men, don’t befriend one …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:42 AM
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A man who struggles hard to get sex with women is more likely to jump at every opportunity presented to him, even if he’s already in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:47 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:38 AM
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It was probably something like: “Are there people in your social circle that would probably date you if you were single?” Or some shit. Backup men phenomenon is overexaggerated. It’s not a thing that’s even controlled or decides by the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:35 AM
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There are legit studies. But all the ones that reference African countries either reference that same worlddata source or coincidentally share the exact same numbers as that source, which is crazy to think about how one meme image fooled so many sites. but they are being complete hypocrites to come out and say “that’s not true, it’s a myth”, they are simply not backing up their claims with anything which is even worse than flimsy evidence. How are they hypocrites? The African diaspora are presen…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:16 AM
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I literally just Google something like “penis size by country” and look at the images I just did this, there’s no sources for the images and when there are they only point to the same worlddata.com, which has already been debunked as a troll meme, it really got around the internet. speaking like that evidence is false with nothing backing up It might be that they’ve just seen the research before. I explained above.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:07 AM
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Please share them. Because everyone I’ve seen suggests there’s no available data on that continent, only shitposts from 4chan.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:38 AM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:15 AM
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The stats aren’t saying anything about penis size in African countries. They’re nonexistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:13 AM
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Yeah, we attracted to the same features we always have. It’s just funny that young guys want the same features but in paler skin. People are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:11 AM
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Bold take!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:07 AM
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Some towns have more of a fit culture than others. This means fuck all then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:50 AM
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Because it corroborates with what I’m saying. What about the other countering evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:41 PM
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Men casual sex is good, it banishes the bad women into the single mother realm which makes it harder for them to reproduce. This is dumb. Men being strictly monogamous as well as women would put an end to single motherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:19 AM
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Seems like you haven’t looked into the data of that post too closely. Just picked numbers you felt were most suitable lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:23 AM
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Most people have hit that by 30, men included. I’m not so sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:22 AM
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So women who don’t have a high body count are considered “prudish”? Yes. Gimme the hoes, gimme all the hoes!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:57 PM
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I feel attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:11 PM
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I think the opposite. PPD is more likely to have more high n womem than the average. Not to mention it’s not like everyone here even believes hypergamy is a thing - like myself - so even if women have the ‘awareness’, it doesn’t mean they would follow the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:21 PM
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Not every confident man racks up an n count. Shit I don’t think even most are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:17 PM
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🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:16 PM
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That’s even worse, so you’re stance isn’t based on actual data around relationships or observing your peers, it’s based on being an outlier that fucks women half his age. Like I said, this take is incredibly stupid. The majority of men feel lucky to just get one woman No, the majority of men simply aren’t that desperate, and they frequently disqualify women for relationships way before the marital stage. Reality just simply doesn’t match the things you’re projecting. You hang out with or hyperfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:45 PM
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That is one hypersexual lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:19 PM
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Huh? Explain more plainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:18 PM
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You must be projecting. Because it seems like you believe the only source of a man’s confidence has to be from his personal n count. It’s dumb as shit, so I’m gonna assume you’re young.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:15 PM
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Is 20 high tho? Most people around me have around 100 for fun and have mutiple 100s of clients Are they sex workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:14 PM
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You must be young. This is a very incredibly stupid and desperate stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:11 PM
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Were the serious relationships spread out? Or were they one after the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:21 PM
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my high n is a combo of relationships and fwb situations. How many relationships in what timespan?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:28 PM
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I’m fortunate that I enjoy casual sex and can orgasm with them most the time. I think this is a huge reason why so many women aren’t into casual sex and why many men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:24 PM
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Cool. What’s the age ranges?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:19 PM
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Do they go out a lot? Bars/clubs or like shows and concerts?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:18 AM
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Do you plan to stay solo for the rest of life?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:18 AM
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Most accurate statement. They entertain by giving their users what they want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:23 AM
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The only honest answer on here. 🤦🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:55 AM
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Among the noncohabiting nonmarital unions, 53.4% of the breakups were wanted by the woman, which was not significantly different from the 50% gender parity level and also not significantly different from the 56% rate of female wanted breakups recorded among the cohabiting couples. Yeah, they always be exaggerating shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:15 AM
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Who would make a bigger drama out of this? Men that can die, get mutilated, have great memories of their friends dying around them. Or women which have to endure a single pregnancy? The answer to this question depends on how frequently the wars happen for a given country?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:03 PM
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It’s got less to do with your generation than it does your current age. Dating at 20 looks very different from dating at 30 no matter what generation you are born. Many kf the lessons Gen Z men and women are about to learn are exactly the same lesson that millennials learns about dating, and Gen X’era and Boomers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:23 PM
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with my guy best friends, and it’s enough for me. Do they feel the same way? Have you thought about what you’ll do when they get with women and start their own families? What are the ages of your group?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:17 AM
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This ain’t it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:15 AM
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Oh I’m sorry I forgot… Here’s And 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:52 AM
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I can go on. I am not saying that the reasons are truly right or wrong, I will then. It’s wrong. It’s not sexist but it’s definitely bi-phobic/homophobic, and complete bullshit! It’s worse than the n count thing IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:45 AM
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It really depends on how long it took for him to finally be honest with the therapist. Often people take ages to open up in the first place. The therapist gave him options, therapy ain’t a fucking instant miracle cure. Seems good to me.
/r/AllPillDebate18/12/22 09:37 AM
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Well explain that to femenist because they don’t understand that in this day and age. Lemme guess, everything you know of “feminism” is from social media? You literally made the relation between adore and admiration as a synonym to worshipping I think you have issues with reading. I said this: I think you might be meaning “admire” or “adore”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:44 AM
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So then you have to concede that according to you’re definition women benefit from Misogyny. Of course. Some women benefit from some forms of misogyny. This is a concept that has been part of feminist literature for decades, it’s no revelation. I don’t concede that adore and admire are the same as worshiping. I never said that, I said that how YOU seem to be interpreting the word - “Firstly I don’t know the first man that doesn’t aka worship hsi woman second any man that does put his woman on a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:34 AM
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Yep. I think most men are doing it more for the validation of another person rather than pure physical pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:39 AM
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How are you using “worship”? Worship: to honor or show reverence for as a divine being or supernatural power Firstly I don’t know the first man that doesn’t aka worship hsi woman second any man that does put his woman on a pedist I think you might be meaning “admire” or “adore” Admire: regard with respect or warm approval. Adore: love and respect (someone) deeply. They have more similar synonyms to be fair. The english language is complex and doesn’t make a lot of sense sometimes. Plus colloquia…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:35 AM
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Is our “true nature” more apparent when in “survival mode” or when “complete luxury” with all the opportunities? It’s clear many in this subreddit think it’s one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:29 AM
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The reason why women say they don’t go for 40 year olds as oppose to 20 year olds is because age is a proxy for bitch tits, beer guts and baldness. The reason why women say they don’t go for 40 year olds as oppose to 20 year olds is because they are thinking of dating, not casual sex. Even when thinking hypothetically, women who don’t practice frequent casual sex have a hard time thinking outside of that framework.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:23 AM
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It’s right there in the definition you just commented: Misogyny: dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women. Prejudice: preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience. Benevolent misogyny: attitudes about women that seem positive in tone but nonetheless connote inferiority to men based on fragility, lack of competence, or need of help and protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:20 AM
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While my experience is also anecdotal, I unironically believe shorter men are more ruthless in the way they carry themselves because it’s the only way we’d be taken seriously. 💯. It’s actually fucked up the way other people (men and women) will try to subtly intimidate shorter people and use their size to physically dominate the smaller person. Or maybe not so subtley, ridicule and mock smaller men because they don’t see them as a threat, and bullies are ultimately always cowards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:12 AM
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They don’t have to be biological for it to be widespread or unchanging. However, it does have a biological underpinning - most males are taller than most females - so it’s not a surprise that height came to what women find attractive in men. See also most females have boobs - most men find boobs attractive in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:09 AM
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It is misogynistic if the basis of why they’re worshipping is gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:06 AM
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Feminism elevates femininity? How? I hope you’re not just getting confused because they sound similar lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:05 AM
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Lol what gftoh 🤣 He tried a cheesy line and it missed the mark, it’s not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:52 AM
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the “Incel-Black Pill ideology” can easily be seen on the DARK WEB!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:24 AM
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🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:00 PM
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and n count was still a factor. How so? Did you immediately break up with her after finding out it was high?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:59 PM
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The ones that get weird with it try to sell it as a service are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:58 PM
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Most men complaining haven’t tried 100 times. They are easily demotivated
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:33 PM
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🤷🏾‍♂️ could be a culture thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:04 AM
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You counter my request for evidence with a request of your own. It’s clear you have nothing. Try not to pull these affirmative statements out your arse in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:30 PM
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More than 0%. Which is more than necessary. What an incredibly stupid sentence to type out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:29 PM
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This only shows that more males get convicted of sexual crimes, not that “male sexuality is predatory” This is a leap to a conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:27 PM
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Maybe they like more than each other’s looks? Crazy I know. Touch some grass.
/r/AllPillDebate13/12/22 02:13 AM
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Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:08 AM
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Vague generalised claim, back it up with evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:07 AM
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Hmmmm, this is a niche definition of what Blue Pill is that I’ve read. Is there any Red Pill glossary of terms that use that description?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:05 AM
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I think people obsess over uniquely strange conversations that only occur on the internet where you get rudeness and aggression. Using those examples as a reason to be mad is hilariously stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:02 AM
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How often does that happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:59 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:55 AM
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Evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:54 AM
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Damn. Hope things get better for you dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:51 AM
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I’m assuming this mostly happens on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:50 AM
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A woman changing her behaviour is the worsr crime on Earth
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:49 AM
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A lot of these notions melt away when you actually start having sex with real life women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:47 AM
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Not at all. That’s the problem lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:46 AM
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I meant “doubtful” about the causal link you drew, not about black men’s OLD desirability.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:42 AM
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Strange. This is an outlier perspective compared to most guys who get around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:41 AM
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Nope. It’s definitely game. But maybe you’re using “game” the same way I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:40 AM
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Post-hoc rational isn’t a good case for it having an evolutionary basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:39 AM
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Actually other research shows higher than 40%. 40% is the conservative end of the data for the US. What other research have you seen? I was referring to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:38 AM
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You’re all over the place. So is it all bluepillers or just an extreme hardcore minority that don’t believe looks matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:35 AM
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So by your logic, The Blue Pill is a minority of people? The Blue Pill isn’t the norms of dating perspectives? This is hilarious. Please source me this definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:47 AM
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True. They are just less likely to be suspected of doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:45 AM
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How do you continually have the most braindead stances on every facet of dating? Do you ever leave the house? Holy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:44 AM
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So you’re just cheating? Lol. The idea that cheaters have anything of value to add to these conversations is hilarious. All they do is straight up lie and con women. Listening to cheaters is like listening to a thief’s advice on how to be effective in business.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:40 AM
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Validation-seeking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:38 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:38 AM
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Touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:38 AM
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Stupid take. Also untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:37 AM
3

Meeting online and meeting on dating apps are separate things. That figure combines the two. Not to mention other research shows that it isn’t as high as 40%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:36 AM
2

You think every guy on OLD is on there because he has no friends? Seriously? No. Every guy that is social is on there PLUS every guy that isn’t social. Combine this with a minority of women that only get attention on OLD leads to skewed numbers. Do you have a better explanation why OLD gender ratios don’t match up with real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:27 AM
3

They won’t. Many have tried before you and failed. These men stubbornly cling to the fantasy of online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:25 AM
2

You probably just have weak irl game
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:24 AM
1

Doubtful
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:23 AM
1

No it isn’t. It’s just the mainstream. The mainstream doesn’t reject the idea of looks mattering. That’s a mischaracterisation by the poor dumbfucks that naively treated Disney films as documentaries (even Disney films demonstrated looks mattered). They projected their own ignorance on every other person that didn’t read the red pill. But far from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:21 AM
0

“Purple-Pilled” doesn’t really exist. It’s just a term for blue-pillers that wanna feel extra special in the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:18 AM
3

They have more time to post and comment because noone loves them enough to distract them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:17 AM
1

She wasn’t only talking about romantic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:14 AM
1

A lot of times the woman is dissatisfied with the way he does it incorrectly, so dude gives up and lets her do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:12 AM
-1

Bullshit. You don’t live in a warzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:58 PM
1

No. You’re making a big jump to conclude causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:57 PM
1

Do you think every motivation and emotion has an evolutionary reason? If so, you don’t understand evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:53 PM
1

If the girl is attractive enough and I know her long enough then sure, otherwise I refuse. Only had 2 complaints about it. Lack of complaints is not the same as praise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:39 PM
5

So strong, so independent, slay queens, yasss I don’t know what this means. Are you trying to be black or gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:27 AM
1

Don’t pretend. Change.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:12 AM
6

Look at you guys giving each other bad advice based on your limited experience of women. This cracked me up 🤣 And it’s so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:09 AM
1

Black men are the most likely to do exactly that lol wtf. Where tf to you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:03 AM
1

Maybe smart phones and computers are making it too comfortable to stay home alone. You are absolutely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:02 AM
3

Yep. If this is how you assess your people, you are the exact type of person that will get fooled easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:55 AM
5

That’s a doomer mentality that doesn’t match real life either. Men grow attached to women, get heartbroken etc all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:52 AM
1

I judge non-pussy eaters. Especially if they ever wanna claim they are good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:51 AM
3

Sometimes, I suspect people think the sex was good in a toxic relationship just because it was the only part of the relationship that wasn’t bad. 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:45 AM
3

More people need to recognise this. The “highs” would be mediocre in a healthy relationship, they just feel more intense in toxic ones because it’s a momentary relief from misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:42 AM
3

‘Feminine’
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:39 AM
9

Yep. It’s security theatre. It’s illogical and doesn’t translate to real life. I think it’s because women want to ‘feel feminine’
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:38 AM
1

It’s because the shy nerds solely rely on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:37 AM
1

The men complain about “obese single mothers” more because thise are the women who are more prevalent on the free dating apps. This is irregardless of the socioeconomic class these men come from. Actual working class men typically bitch about this stuff less IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:36 AM
2

No shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:00 PM
12

100% It’s these desperate fucks that really see men and women as interchangeable NPC’s that will all get along and enjoy each others company in a romantic context. It’s painfully ignorant way of looking at things, but they don’t touch grasss so what can anyone expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:57 PM

no its incredibly basic I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:54 PM

she kept trying to go on and on about how pickup game is more important than looks and all that nerdy geek shit. then a couple weeks later she does an interview with her boyfriend and the guy is a gymbro, You do realise that means fuck all right? Do you think this is a profound observation or contradiction? Fuck I hope not, if so then you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:18 AM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:17 AM
1

Are incels a marginalised community? White girl brings up some legit points.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:00 AM
2

Glad to see you’re still here. Common sense and sanity representation is always needed on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:54 AM
1

I won’t be surprised if this sub starts banning the word “SIMP” soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:52 AM
3

It’s fragile if you lose your mind and can’t maintain your composure. Just because you haven’t done something doesn’t make it propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:52 AM
2

I know the struggle. The truth is. There isn’t a lot of heavily exhaustive research on the topic because well… …noone really cares. There’s way more interesting things to fund the research for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:46 AM
1

Terrible example to demonstrate a very generalised concept. Most people are bad at identifying slightly more sophisticated manipulation. It’s not a gendered phenomenon. But the idea that men or women “might not be honest” isn’t a secret. If that was a revelation to you then that simply means you were dumber than the majority of your peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:41 AM
2

That would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:41 AM
2

Think you can do better?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:40 AM
1

Thanks for this. Added to the archives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:39 AM
2

Meanwhile, you get posts like this. This is where women’s lack of empathy trips up. Y’all forget that pressure to be romantically successful exists for men too. It exists for everyone. So while the braindead talking point of “b-b-but it’s a response!” sounds cool. It it isn’t as profound as one might think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:26 AM
3

I believe this is the first time any blue piller has ever actually made a criticism of the form, “TRP says” and then actually backup up that claim. This is faulty and I take offence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:16 AM
2

They always overestimate. Then underestimate the average Joe’s success if he puts in a modicum of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:11 AM
2

The thing is, women see this as unmasculine, or defective or some shit. I’ve even had a woman say I had a Madonna-Whore complex because she viewed me only wanting sex in a relationship as a denial of female sexuality. Comments like these is why I doubt your ability to assess the world correctly, as the more obvious interpretation is that these women were butthurt at being rejected. But you took their bullshit at face value 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:10 AM
1

Success rate is higher than average. Why does it matter tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:05 AM
1

How is this an example of men being so naive they don’t realise women can be manipulative?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:04 AM
0

Then you’ve had a very poor sex education. Penis life is King.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:15 PM
0

Q4MEN: What are the clues a woman can use to tell if a man only wants sex and not commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:10 PM
1

So then you know fuck buddies and friends with benefits are different. Did my comment indicate otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:16 PM
1

I wasn’t talking about myself, My bad. not sure why you would make that assumption. Projection of that nature is commonplace on this sub. The probability was high that I was correct. I don’t know why you think being that level of unaware is a common trend. Are you using places like the manosphere as your sample size?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:31 PM
2

Lol nice dodge
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:28 PM
1

Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:28 PM
6

Yep. It’s within your right to fuck your own life up committing to someone that desperate that they would do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:29 PM
2

It’s stupid way of attempting to prevent it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:28 PM
3

Do you think its logical to mitigate risk when faced with a potential life destroying outcome Yes. That’s a logical goal. The braindead retarded part is the methods suggested to mitigate risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:27 PM
9

A large portion of people contact friends and family through social media. You gotta get a handle on the insecurities rather than tryna bend others to them. It’s fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:26 PM
4

🤣 this is so stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:25 PM
1

Doubtful
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:11 PM
1

Always some dipshit who thinks theyr are so smart they can read the mind of an anonymous poster.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:00 PM
5

Go read enough posts in a place like r/NPD, you’ll eventually see that these people are often not happy with the outcomes of their behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:46 PM
1

Exactly my point. You just laugh at it but for men its like learning a novel concept. We’re not all as dumb as you. You’re extreme naïveté isn’t caused by your Y-chromosome g. Accept the idea that you might have just been a little slower than your peers in this aspect. Projection is only good for theatres.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:44 PM
2

How many women have you been in long term relationships with (1 year+)?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:41 PM
1

How much time did you take to assess that 100 of those women were like as described in 48 laws of power? Or is it more likely you noticed a couple of surface-level traits from brief interactions then jumped to conclusions about their entire character?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:39 PM
0

That comment either comes from extreme inexperience, or extreme low IQ. Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:33 PM
3

Don’t be a grumpy hobbit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:32 PM
2

🤣 this is pathetic. But sadly applicable to many foolish women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:23 PM
0

This is dumb so dumb. So fucking wrong. I see this sub is still full of virgins speaking with authority on shit that they have no experience in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:22 PM
3

If you have friends or family that you enjoy the company of, maybe you can sort of understand. Do you have friends though?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:21 PM
2

Only you did that. You jumped the gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:19 PM
11

“Friends with Benefits” is used incorrectly by people who want to make their fuckbuddy situation sound more classy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:18 PM
1

TL;DR: “Redpillers are scared pussyboys and everyone should be like them”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:07 PM
0

Fucking hell this is braindead.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:07 PM
1

Autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:04 PM
2

You proved his point. You didn’t even deny it lol. Instead you’re trying to justify bending to the fear and anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:03 PM
4

100% OP’s Redpill strategy is dominated by fear, which is emotional. Emotionally guided thinking like this leads to poor judgement calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:02 PM
11

Deleting social media isn’t assurance they are not talking to their ex. Not talking to their ex is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:00 PM
10

Isolation is like abuse 101. It’s so blatantly basic form of attempting to control.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:59 AM
1

Fair nuff
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:47 AM
1

8/10 women is 100% of the women more like-minded to your values and proclivities. The selection bias also comes in the type of women you’re attracted to. You don’t know how many women are like the 2 you rejected. Maybe they’re the minority, or the majority. You simply cannot use your personal anecdotal selection as a representative sample
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:47 AM
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So your selection bias was Primed for women that didn’t reject you Primed for women who were quick to accept ‘instant’ casual sex Primed for women good at communicating IOI’s (many aren’t) So while it seems like “a lot”. Birds of a feather flock together, so you are basing it on like-minded women you have personally interacted with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:32 AM
2

How many women did you approach? How many women did you get rejected by? Did you use a shotgun approach or act on Indicators of Interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:17 AM
-2

Selection bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:01 AM
-1

Its hard to understand whats going on their mind right now after living such rollercoaster. Shit gets old
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:00 AM
4

He went far in other direction. 1000 bodies is far from normal. Those are sexworker numbers. Unless he’s exaggerating or larping….
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:56 AM
1

What counts as a “body”?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:53 AM
1

You didn’t answer my question. How are you determining what’s a “genuine place”? How do you identify the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:18 PM
1

But it’s not really coming from a genuine place if it’s socialized in you because so many things are socialized in the state probably aren’t good or savory but they do it because it’s easier to keep social control. How are you determining what’s a “genuine place”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:29 PM
1

You are romanticising the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:17 PM
3

“Cop e” is a banned word. Thanks to the incel invasion of 2017. Annoying, but apart from that other harsh words were allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:55 AM
2

It’s not a friendly comment, it’s rude. But I don’t think rudeness is against the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:36 AM
2

Kinda irrelevant then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:20 AM
1

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:19 AM
2

Moderators, are comments like these now ‘too harsh’ for PPD? Or were one of the new mods just in they feelings? I hope the latter, or else this subreddit has become mad pussified.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:18 AM
2

And finding this out about him didn’t make me any less attracted to him despite that initial seeming ease with people being one of the early attraction factors, I was just surprised. You’re a better person than me. Dealing with someone with that type of self-esteem is a red flag these days. Women who feel similarly seem to demand and inhuman level of re-assurance for their insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:13 AM
1

Accepting the reality of the human psyche is something that comes with time and maturity. But so does the appreciation for it to. The fact that anyone even cares to try to strive for better, change their minds on certain views, is a beautiful thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:11 AM
1

You assign a morality to personal dating preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:06 AM
6

It can’t cover someone too terrified to speak or move towards a more secluded place. Women are very rejection-sensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:06 AM
1

It’s one of the top 3 ways couples are formed over the last 50 years
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:05 AM
2

Are you 5/10 or less?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:59 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:58 AM
1

Is it that they’re more socialized and less antisocial or is it because we tend to fall in line with what our society should think of about us because of that same combination of biology and sociological factors It’s the same thing. “fall in line with what our society should think of about us” is socialised.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:54 AM
3

Kids really do be bullshitting and lying. It was shocking to find this stuff full of grown men that still believe what they were told by their peers in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:52 AM
1

Tough shit. Adulthood means doing things you may not very mich feel like doing sometimes because it’s necessary. Constantly following the path of least resistance is not a winning strategy for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:23 AM
2

It’s not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:40 PM
2

Agreeing. Adding info for anyone who wants a breakdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:39 PM
2

No shit. I’m just sceptical about the idea that they aren’t being told the obvious basic self-help shit. Example: everyone knows being in shape makes you more attractive, everyone is told it over n over. But barely anyone works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 11:11 PM
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That doesnt change anything tho. It changes the description of events and mentality. It’s important to be accurate. So that’s a dumb comment. In that case women use their partners presence and emotional/financial support while going through the stages of grief and moving on and ‘getting the courage’ and actively demonizing their partner in their head just to be sure and often even searching for the next partner to comfortably monkeybranch to. And that could go on for a year (!), as you said. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 11:05 PM
2

Most men do yes. I understand the impulse, but just because it’s the easiest thing doesn’t make it accurate or a smart way to evaluate others. So many men have girls that they still have feelings for from their past. So many girls have exes that have hit them up. Men usually don’t This is irrelevant. What is projection? Has someone ever told you to stop projecting your feelings onto them? While projecting is often reserved for the world of psychology, there’s a good chance you’ve heard the term …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:46 AM
1

You like that idiot that gets upset because language changes. Which is something that consistently happens throughout all of human history. But it’s new to you, and new thingsare scary? Fuck. The low IQ of your logic is impossible to combat. Good luck.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/22 07:37 AM
1

I dunno, people can hear a consistent message and still choose the path of least resistance. Some even seek out enabling messages just so they don’t have to work hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:34 AM
1

So you think “well, this is how HTML_Novice would act if dumped, therefore, EVERYONE else would behave the same way”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:32 AM
1

Gender roles were formed because of limitations. By your criteria, overcoming the need for them is natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:31 AM
2

All terms are made up dummy. Your section on “buzzwords” is hilarious on a forum called r/AllPillDebate. Stop celebrating stupidity.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/22 07:28 AM
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They’ll probably ignore my advice and take comfort in the bs that everyone gives them. Pretty sure this is what’s happening most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:06 PM
3

They’ve forgotten how much they cared about me in about two weeks How tf would you be able to verify this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:05 PM
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I think it’s more common that the woman mentally checks out of the relationship due to unresolved issues while staying in it for a while (could be months or even a year) until getting the courage to actually break up with him. Unobservant men don’t notice any change until the actual breakup, feel blindsided and call it “light-switch”. When the actual “switch” happened a long time ago”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:04 PM
2

Yep. Only certain modern comforts allowed gender role enforcement to thrive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:38 PM
1

The question is are we in our more natural state when we have lots of limitations or when those limitations are removed?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:36 PM
1

The question is are we in our more natural state when we have lots of limitations or when those limitations are removed?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:36 PM
2

The Appeal to Nature Fallacy: appeal to nature is a logical fallacy that occurs when something is claimed to be good because it's perceived as natural, or bad because it's perceived as unnatural.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:26 PM
2

They going based of their feels only.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:19 PM
1

People always say this, but fail to be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:18 PM
5

Confidently incorrect. Displaying your willful ignorant isn’t something to be proud of. You’re the equivalent of that dumb jock who goes “reading!? Ha that’s for nerds!!”
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/22 04:46 AM
1

The reason for my flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:43 AM
5

Often it’s a process that’s ugly but necessary. Most prefer to avoid and distract from any negative feelings which leads to worse behaviour as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:42 AM
1

Many women express fear at witnessing a man’s emotions and venting. It’s too “aggressive” and therefore becomes “scary”. So many men self-censor to accommodate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:40 AM
2

Hearing their views is “moronic” or “stupid”. They seem to want kid gloves but I guesss it’s probably because the new crop of misogynists aren’t coming from Red Pill spaces (which are typically much harsher in tone). They come from whiny bitch spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:20 AM
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Users have definitely got softer here. The amount of dudes upset about harsh language used in replying has grown exponentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:12 AM
2

Yes, everybody has those issues. Objectively wrong. But most of the delusional sounding people here have incorrect foundations about how the world and people in general work. So, you’re not alone! You have company on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:11 AM
2

No what I did was flip that shit Whataboutism without a cause. Maybe you thought criticising women is a “gotcha”. Or you truly believe EVERYONE has daddy and mummy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:19 PM
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And they’re equally as dumb to project that shit. Do you think co-opting moronic views is a positive. Stupid comeback.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:05 PM
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Observable? Like watching and interacting with them over a long period of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:49 AM
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This is what I mean by inexperienced men getting duped by women are wonderful. In a large majority of cases. People stay in fucked up situations if they believe they themselves are fucked up - her toxic traits could be less visible - OR they stay around partners that have HUGE issues so they can feel better about themselves and not think about their own smaller problems. Usually, both the loud aggressor and the doormat personality types often disrespect other people’s boundaries, they just go ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:48 AM
0

If I’m mistaken I’ll take it back but a lie is done knowingly you assuming my intent is pretty silly My bad, “that’s a fucking lie!” is part reference to a meme. If you didn’t know better then fair enough. Edit: how far am I going here? I’m not seeing that stat disputed in your first couple of pages maybe I’m just not sure which post An easy way to find user posts is to search the subreddit. ex. “author:decoy88 sexless” This thread has a fairly good breakdown of what the stats are actually sayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:40 AM
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But there are good, naive or low self-esteem women who end up with abusive guys. In my experience, majority of those women have their own toxic traits that good, healthy men wouldn’t tolerate but abusive do. Like attracts like for the most part. I think too many (usually inexperienced) young men think with their dick, and the obvious cute chick with behavioural issues becomes “good, naive or low self-esteem women”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:31 AM
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How do you go about getting a truthful answer from someone you don’t know?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:28 AM
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https://youtube.com/c/PlayingWithFireDating r/seduction But men who hate women don’t like the lack of women-hate from these places.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:27 AM
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That’s a fucking lie! EDIT: before you try to disprove me. Check my post history on that very stat. No doubt I’ve looked into it more thoroughly than most people referring to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:21 AM
9

Y’all are just mad at your mums.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:17 AM
2

Nice and pleasant is basic. But they never say they want women who brush their teeth. Do they not care about dental hygiene?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:16 AM
0

Fucking hell. You sound like the dude that thought his wife “tricked him” because her demeanor and sex drive changed after having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:04 AM
5

That’s just semantics. This is what people often say when they lose the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:55 AM
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That’s what I thought. You can’t describe it. BASIC AS FUCK.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:10 PM
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Yep. It’s almost as if things have to be phrased that way to excite the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:25 PM
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My bad, missed the inches part. The shortest men got the most rejections. That’s what I would expect. It’s also not very enlightening.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:20 PM
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It’s not the main deciding factor. If you believe that you are ignorant and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:19 PM
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Aahhh my bad. I wasn’t thinking inches. Still a weird way to phrase it though. If multiple people are misunderstanding, it could be a delivery issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:19 PM
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Aahhh my bad. I wasn’t thinking inches. Still a weird way to phrase it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:18 PM
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“Feminine” is such a vague term it’s effectively useless. Have a look through all the other posts on it if you don’t believe me. Be direct instead of using flowery language. What do those men actually want by “feminine”?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:17 PM
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Debateable. Also. It can both be and not be the case for the same woman depending on things like age and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:01 PM
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Tbf, what some people call “90% self-esteem” others call “alpha”. The Red Pill often uses gamified terms for the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:25 PM
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This is a terribly oversimplistic take devoid of nuance. It’s like you believe the only significant factors of attractiveness is either height or money. Please tell me you understand that it’s more?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:23 PM
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📠
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:30 PM
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the men that had the lowest rejection rates were the ones that were 1 inch taller than the woman. The shortest men got rejected the least amount of times? That’s interesting. Either way, there’s not much that can be gleaned from a speed dating scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:28 PM
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Yep, that sub is way better than TRP. • It’s not your lack of money she finds unappealing. It’s your lack of ambition. • It’s not your looks she finds unappealing. It’s your indifference to how you look. • Whatever excuse you have about women being uninterested is just an excuse. Countless men with your “handicap” (and worse) enjoy satisfying love lives. • Everybody has insecurities. In fact, she probably has more than you. • 90% of game is self-esteem, getting out of the house and having a fun …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:18 PM
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But grooming doesn’t involve muscles… Yes, it does. Fitness is on part of grooming. There are levels to grooming - a haircut is one level, fitness is another. I learned just recently from a scientific studies that actually all women prefered a physically strong men. Lol what? You’re an outlier. It’s not the worst thing. But you gotta accept the ways you are not typical. some of my colleagues above 30 have absolutely no idea They are outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:42 AM
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I dont have ONE male friend who has ever mentioned a womans money as being a point of attraction. Yeah, I didn’t have one male friend that mentioned wanting that either, or a woman with great humour or communication. But they sure did bitch about the lack of it tho. The truth is TYPICALLY young men have little-to-no foresight when it comes to women and relationships, and will rush in without much of a criteria, get burned by their lack of standards, and react to it in a negative way. When you sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:13 AM
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Exactly my point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:12 PM
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Most people come to understand that multiple things are involved in attraction by the time they’re 18. Only Red Pillers seem to have been formally clueless that women like grooming and behaviour too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:11 PM
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You’re good at sarcasm detection My bad. But you forget where we are. r/PurplePillDebate is a place where some users genuine positions sound like they came straight out The Onion
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:06 AM
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This doesn’t count because obviously feminists only care about dating dynamics when it comes to gender issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:41 AM
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r/TheRedPill My post history
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:39 AM
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Pleasure is the incentive for conscious action. Not understanding this is crucial to believing Red Pill is saying anything smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:38 AM
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Legal rights on paper is only half of the battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:20 AM
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You’re the outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:17 AM
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Alcohol fuels a lot of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:16 AM
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The fucking sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:14 AM
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Aaaahhh yes, the braindead typical “everything is happening on a subconscious level” take. Red Pill goes too far with this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:14 AM
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Everyone prefers more money than less money. That’s basic. But preferences and ideals aren’t requirements or dealbreakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:13 AM
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Gotta love them Attachment Styles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:00 AM
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Russian feminists help men avoid draft
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:56 AM
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Because they chat a lot of shit that’s flat out wrong. They don’t even live the lives they say they do. It’s a front. A grift. And they a bunch of pussy ass bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:25 AM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:24 AM

Doesn’t that also follow what a throwaway of someone with an embarrassing problem would do? People in crazy situations exist. With a high chance of being so embarrassed they will only talk about it anonymously. We can never really know at the end of the day. But at least wait for something more indicative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:06 AM
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You shouldn’t take anything Fresh n Fit says seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:02 AM

Doesn’t that also follow what a throwaway of someone with an embarrassing problem too?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:55 AM

How can you tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:40 AM

How can you tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:40 AM

How can you tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:39 AM

Or she’s cheating on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:39 AM
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So you mean the extreme behaviour can be indicative of deeper issues. That makes more sense. Thank you for clarifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:38 AM

What type of fuckery lives do people live? Dude’s just been eating her out without reciprocation. Fuck me that’s terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:07 AM
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Fucked many guys doesn’t have a direct link with “failed pairbonding”. It’s like you believe it’s cause and effect, but haven’t sufficiently demonstrated why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:53 AM
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Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:52 AM
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Unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:15 PM
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“men are what they do with what they did with them”. I don’t get it. Can you explain? We are not to blame for all the bad things that happen to us, it’s like 50/50 you know. Everyone’s to blame really. But I think the biggest percentage of fault lay at the stubborn capitalist mindsets of the elite and the idea that infinite profit and growth is always a positive. Then I’m not that sure about this. I mean, I’ve been around quite a lot, and I know what’s out there. So have I. It takes a humility a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:10 AM
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“Porn addiction” isn’t even a thing in modern Psychology That’s not technically true. It’s important to note that the APA is not the final word when it comes to knowledge of sex/pornography addiction. The World Health Organization, a global entity with more authority, does provide a diagnosis of “Compulsive Sexual Behavior” in their ICD manual. And, for mental health professionals in our country, the ICD manual has a higher standing than the APA. It’s not final. And I struggle to believe that ps…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:04 AM
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No silly. I’m saying low bodycount women have this too and many do. Think bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:50 AM
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This is what I think happens the most. Many women still have an ego complex about dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:47 AM
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Sure. But other things need to build our self-esteem first. During our early formative years, before dating and girls are even a thought in our minds. The esteem reinforcing dating dynamics are meant to happen after those first building blocks are solidified, without them it means a man is lacking in the resilience needed to acquire the dating self-esteem stuff. There’s less casual sex now than 20 years ago. We live in a socialising-surrogate culture today. Where people speculate rather than exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:35 AM
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I rarely see male users here dismiss research papers by bringing up anecdotes. Then you must not be here often.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:30 AM
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It’s more likely to be the relationship dynamics she witnessed in early childhood and/or sexual abuse she suffered before both of those things. Think bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:29 AM
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Drok mods this place too?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:15 AM
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OP is terminally online and completely takes these personas at face value. I hope they are young.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:13 AM
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When you question something, you don’t say shit like “If someone had x number of partners they can’t pair bond” That’s not questioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:12 AM
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Not to mention a lot of hookups involve alcohol, which can impair memory. Guys are overestimating the level of detail a woman can recount about the sex specifics of past partners. Chances are she kinda sorta remembers the “vibes” of the sex if it was more than a year ago. Or not at all if she was blackout drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:10 AM
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Questioning someone is not a belief. Coming up with absolute conclusions based on little evidence is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:05 AM
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It’s less to do with women and more to do with their own self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:04 AM
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I guess they’re designed to engage the emotional part of the brain more, so dudes with bad emotional regulation will be unprepared regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:01 AM
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A criticism that can be applied way more to the male users. Hence why I said it’s beginning to equalise. u/Mrs_Drgree, are you guys planning to do another demographics survey now since PPD reached 100k+?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:00 AM
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Seems like you think full-time parenting is luxury and “privilege”. So backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:27 PM
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It’s parents that do. But most of them are just mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:15 PM
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If it ain’t broke…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:02 PM
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Bits and pieces I’ve read. The stat about the increasing prevalence of young men suffering from ED and porn addiction, couples with the experiences described by porn addicts (early porn adoption).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:52 PM
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Tate was the latest “viral trend” that stat doesn’t mean shit, I bet 80% of his viewership were hatewatching.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:18 PM
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What’s more surprising is the amount of STEM programmers here seem to forget how algorithms work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:13 PM
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In a world that has multiple 2+ million sub YouTubers making more mainstream content like showing cute puppies. Honestly, compare a sub like this to r/cooking, that’s what most people use social media for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:05 PM
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Fucking hell the comprehension is low. If 3/10 men are rude to 20 women each, and the other 7/10 are polite to 5 women each, which women’s experience is has more prevalence? Or better yet, which experiences are remembered more?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:46 PM
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Because ignorance is equal opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:33 PM
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Has a femcel sub been banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:03 PM
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Do you talk to many dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:43 AM
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“beginning to”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:40 AM
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I think many of those men don’t have a great idea on what desire from a woman looks like, so only seek the most extreme examples
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:39 AM
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Aahhh yes. The low self-esteem cute girls that shy guys THINK they want… until they actually gotta deal with it irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:31 AM
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What do you think they mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:29 AM
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You’re not really saying anything with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:28 AM
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The issue is that 20-something overprescribe dating troubles to their particular era, rather than their specific age in life. “It’s totally different now!” Works with some things, but not others.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:24 AM
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You are underestimating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:22 AM
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I always say discussing sex and relationships like this is a feminine hobby. These dudes don’t wanna hear it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:21 AM
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Seems like ever since getting bigger, the amount of dumb comments from female users is beginning to equalise with dumb comments from male users.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:12 AM
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You didn’t read the post did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:09 AM
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True, but constantly pushing the porn boundaries seems to correlate higher for those who were exposed too young. And younger guys are often virgins. Developing a porn addiction will keep you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:16 AM
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Sure it sounds reasonable when you say something completely different from the original example. Lol. Dafuq.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:15 AM
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No doubt. I definitely had a typical socialisation process since early childhood. Didn’t know how crucial that was until I discovered places like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:20 PM
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Extreme examples are the only things incel rhetoric can rely on. Because the arguments are inherently weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:02 AM
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Leave…the house!? But that’s outside! Where the grass is!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:56 AM
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Yet if you flirt and ask them out, they say no. Well, you have to be good at flirting and attractive to them (duh). They also have to be single and willing to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:54 AM
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Agreed. Why don’t you agree with the virgins part?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:53 AM
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Being a single mother is a conscious decision. I don’t think you understand how sex “heat of the moment” works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:52 AM
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I was very shocked the first time a woman suggested not using a condom, then the second time, then a third. I thought pushing to go raw was exclusively a male thing. But no, females just as reckless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:51 AM
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None. But I guess that’s more of an American thing. Do you know about rolling tobacco?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:49 AM
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While there is truth to this. More people allow themselves and their assumptions to lead them into being wrong, never verify, and assume they were correct. Which is why so many people get shicked when they hear “less people are having sex today than 20 years ago”. Because at the end of the day, perception is not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:48 AM
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An example would be. “I’m not looking for anything serious, just want some fun” “I’m seeing other women too” “Here are my STD results” (unprompted) This built a foundation of trust because I demonstrating willingness to be honest even atvmy own expense of losing pussy. That quality did lose me some pussy but carried me through to being super appealing to others. When it came to getting serious, my word was believed more - why would I suddenly lie about wanting exclusivity if I hadn’t before? In …
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/22 06:42 AM
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I will
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:41 AM
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“Struggled” is subjective. Those here who describe their “struggle” often talk of way less than I went through.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:40 AM
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Debateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:39 AM
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Definitions change. Accept that it’s meaning has rapidly changed. Even the way most self-proclaimed incels define it is a bastardized version from its original definition (created by a woman). Or do you still think Nazi still means “National Socialist”? ffs don’t be obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:39 AM
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You are describing external validation and calling it “validation” There are different forms. I’m curious whether you will bother to actually change how you use the word after being corrected or just stubbornly continue misusing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:35 AM
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Yep. This is badic human nature. Men and Women are similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:31 AM
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Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:29 AM
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You became more “approachable” so more men approached you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:27 AM
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I’ve seen this happen in too many workplaces. The extroverted sociable Becky gets more attention and desire than the objectively more attractive Stacy. Especially from shy nerdy types. They appeal to their passive nature. And those guys get more upset when the crush in unrequited. Because Besky wasn’t hot enough to intimidate them like Stacy would have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:26 AM
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They do. Often people want external validation “for themselves”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:22 AM
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You just fucked your own argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:20 AM
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There’s no point going down this line of questioning. Their brains are too slow to figure out that in order to obtain “status” you need to have qualities that get you there in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:15 AM
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How does OP know this? That is all very assumptive of motivations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:09 AM
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This is my thoughts on it too. It could be desperation, or genuine new appreciation. Shit. I’m confident that I could never have got with the woman my gf was just 2 years before I met her. People grow and CHANGE, that change includes several aspects of their personality that includes priorities and preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:08 AM
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Edgy r/iam14andthisisdeep
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:04 AM
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The only other ones are shame and fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:03 AM
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Yep. People who come and say shit like this clearly have never experienced it. Because those that have never would take this kind of deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:02 AM
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Not everyone has to worship a celebrity to gain fulfilment in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:46 PM
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Young women are less confident
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:44 PM
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Of course. That’s the result of “making your kids live easier”. Which is what most parents try to do. Giving next generation a better life inherently means a softer life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:43 PM
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Likely other sexless men on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:42 PM
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I think the hotter you are, the less women will want you to wear one. Casual sex scene is majority risk-takers, sexual health is just one risk among many.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:37 PM
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It is, but not uncommon in the world of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:35 PM
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Blowjobs are more work than eating pussy according to 2 bisexuals I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:32 PM
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Never thought of it that way but this is 100% true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:30 PM
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It is for the vast majority of men who gain a sense of validation that is more pleasurable than the sex itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:24 PM
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I think the attraction stems from a form of arrested development.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/22 04:20 PM
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Direct communication, from start to finish. It’s easier that way.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/22 04:16 PM
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Some incels were objectively terrorists lol. Also, simply looking at the rules of that incel forum indicates the type of issues that website had to deal with from its users.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:11 PM
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Odd behaviour is often seen as creepy if it deviates from the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:08 PM
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Creepiness is more objective than that IMO, you seem to be describing the leeway given to men despite the creepiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:07 PM
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And Nazi just means national socialist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:05 PM
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Do I fuck? No. Would I like to fuck? Yes. So… That’s so broad it can describe a majority of the male and female population at a given time. Other descriptions include: “Struggle to get sex from those you are attracted to” That shit is broad enough that saying “70% of the American population are incels” would actually fit if you wanna use that criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:04 PM
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Can of chewing tobacco rolled up in shirt sleeve. Wait what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:00 PM
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Then you are using the word incorrectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:54 AM
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Exactly, NiceGuys are a thing but so are NiceGirls. Rejected women can get very scornful, especially when they’re young and immature. I’ve heard more than a couple stories about men who were essentially coerced into sex by women in their youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:53 AM
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I agree. And people are more likely to arrive at the same values ‘stages’ if they have followed similar life trajectories. Age playing a big factor into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:48 AM
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And a huge difference between 20 year old and 25 year old. Although both are adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:47 AM
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Sweet home Alabama!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:46 AM
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Username checks out. Your description of your guy would absolutely turn some of my friends off. Different strokes for different folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:40 AM
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My sources feelings are as valid as your sources I think that’s what you mean to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:36 AM
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It means no more than an average girl choosing to date you. You shouldn’t invent motivations based on so little information, it becomes wishful thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:32 AM
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Accurate. MissDecoy’s love goggles are fixed on so hard it’s demotivating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:29 AM
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True. Men too. Love chemicals do crazy things to your vision.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:28 AM
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Sex between others is a bit less visible than cars people drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:13 AM
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Accurate. It’s this philosophy that keeps the overall bar low and makes it easy to step over.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:11 AM
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How do you time your sex sessions?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:48 AM
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Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:41 AM
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Liking sex as a woman is the most immoral thing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:09 AM
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I think people who say this often get shit wrong but mistake using common stereotypes for “intuition”. Might as well use horoscopes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:09 AM
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Lemme guess. Your fiance is that special unicorn?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:07 AM
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Guy once told me he was speeding on his motorcycle one night in the freezing cold and was almost caught by a police helicopter with an infra red camera. He said he ditched the copter by taking his coat off and cooling his body down to ambient temperature so the infra red camera couldn’t see him. I ignored the fact that he’d be dead if his body temp dropped that much and simply asked why they couldn’t pick up the heat from the engine. He said infra red cameras only pick up heat from organic sourc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:53 AM
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True. It really depends on the porn you watch. But many don’t know wtf to look for and end up going down a rabbit hole of more n more extreme shit (especially the virgins imo)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:37 AM
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If you can only do it autistically you have negative game and probably not mature enough to be having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:33 AM
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If I like big booty, is it because big booty is more “dominant” than smaller booty? You incels are fucking insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:24 AM
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Also higher chance of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:22 AM
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I remember the days where there were no incels and mainly sex-havers debating each other… the arguments were much less insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:20 AM
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That’s a dumb question. I think you confuse a lot of things for “dominance”. Maybe it’s been a struggle for you to achieve some basic adulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:18 AM
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You’re being that typical internet warrior “If I was there, the shooter woulda been taken down immediately!”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:13 AM
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Because they allow them to make their incredibly contrived arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:11 AM
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This is a myth. Most men actually bring themselves more headache with your version. But so many men are thirsty and fucking crazy desperate they feel they need to trick bitches in order to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:10 AM
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Because these men are desperate, they have no game. And can’t handle the rejection and nexting quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:08 AM
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This is a stupid young naive man’s desperate thirsty thinking - with getting sex consistently being the top priority. I hope you grow out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:06 AM
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Why are you trying to redefine what lying and deceit is? It’s pretty well known.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:02 AM
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While all true. Threesome are awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:01 AM
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That would be FMF not FFM.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:00 AM
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So you ARE planning to break up with him? I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:32 PM
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This sounds like a doomed relationship that you’ve confused about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:31 PM
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You think people are idiots for being insecure about porn? Yes. We label something an ‘insecurity’ if there’s no substantial evidence of the ultimate outcome that insecurity is scared of. Porn is enjoyed my millions of people without hinderance. It is insecure and idiotic. But noone’s perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:42 PM
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Because people are multifaceted. They like how something is, but hate knowing about how it’s made.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:38 PM
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I witnessed a slaughter today.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:18 AM
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Ikr, it’s actually a good thing. Usually means we learned something. But pride obstructs all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:14 AM
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True. They think it’s a competition. Like how many men feel about sex toys. People are idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:01 AM
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Usually yes, but not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:00 AM
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Some people feel like they have to wait for permission to feel certain ways. They think everyone else works on the same basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:54 AM
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It turns men off too. But we put up with it cus we like the result.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:52 AM
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I think she might need to actually get burnt by this shoddy line of thinking in order to actually learn a good lesson. Some lessons are painful, but necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:03 AM
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Yep. Intent is the difference. Everyone cares about intent even if they say they do not. Because majority of people value authenticity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:01 AM
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Nah you missed your shot on this one. You are applying more significance to this than is warranted. Plus, more men are in jail for starting violence over trivial shit due to getting “emotional”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:59 AM
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This whole thread is perfect examples of Toxic Femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:56 AM
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The answer is “work on yourself some more” Because wtf else you gonna do? “But it hurts to keep trying” Build a thicker skin so it hurts less. Because wtf else you gonna do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:48 AM
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Making friends at 30 is difficult in general. Even make friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:47 AM
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In my heart I value honesty and loyalty, This is kind of bullshit if it's never demonstrated through action
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:36 AM
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Why don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:09 AM
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something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:03 AM
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It’s the men that have previously struggled with women and only found a little success after they leveraged excessive gifting/niceguy tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:25 PM
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I’m back baby!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:09 PM
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Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:05 AM
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Most women want the guy to pay because it’s the status quo and not following it makes them worry he’s not into her. It’s dumb, but the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:18 AM
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“whoever asks should pay” is systemic sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:16 AM
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You’ve spent too much time there
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/22 08:53 AM
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And people on PPD got annoyed when I started linking my old posts and comments. Copying and pasting takes more time lol
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/22 08:47 AM
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“Looks aren’t the only thing that matters” even if not said explicitly it’s pretty obvious from casual observation. I guess if you’re wide-eyed and trusting to anyone who appears confident, you can be led astray. So the real gripe is not cus of the “lies” but certain individuals abnormal levels of gullibility.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/22 08:45 AM
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It’s not disagreement, it’s “stfu stop repeating the same obvious shit” like a fucking bot.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/22 08:39 AM
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Also people have been lied to about how looks don't matter. By who? What’s so different between the way I grew up and the way you grew up, that I understood this pretty quickly and you didn’t? Were you just a really gullible person when you were younger?
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/22 08:38 AM
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Weird. But not unusual in these spaces. It’s like an arrested development attraction.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/22 08:26 AM
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25? Looool how old are you?
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/22 08:22 AM
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why aren't ones who say men ''peak at 35-45'' or that ''being chubby or balding is manly'' not shamed much here I’m guessing because probably 98% of this sub are men.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/22 08:21 AM
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Yes their is high demand for both. But one is only successful with fame or status attached to them. That’s where you’re wrong. “Status” is rarely awarded to people who didn’t have the charisma to obtain it in the first place. And the biggest part is about knowing which audience to pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:27 AM
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It overlaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:26 AM
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Can you sing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:25 AM
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I don’t want to be my partners parent or provider. No thanks. Same. But it feels like I’m a minority in not wanting this among most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:20 AM
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Because they can just Google it. And they do that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:19 AM
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Personally, apart from race and money. Very little I can think of… I’ll just say usually whatever makes up the insecurity of any person in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:16 AM
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I don't know where yall get this idea that muscular men are not in high demand. I don't know where yall get this idea that I said that. There can be high demand for both. Try to snap out of your either or thinking. It’s hard, but try. Have you watched love island UK ? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:14 AM
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🤦🏾‍♂️ okay do you have any rhythm? Listen to music that’s got crooners? Fucking hell these are some bad takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:12 AM
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Adding qualifiers and caveats You can’t fool me with this rhetoric. If you don’t want to engage further than the surface because it makes your brain hurt or weakens your argument just say that. Don’t try to handwave it away based on bullshit. You can do such with virtually any stat and make it look good. If there's any nuance present here in ppd that's news to me. The arguments people present here are very easy to pick apart, and many people like yourself resort to personal insults. Except you h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:11 AM
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Muscle distribution varies among individuals. Ethnic minorities too. BMI is really bad to judge off for individuals. It can indicate more for a population, otherwise it’s kinda trash
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:09 AM
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Into their pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:07 AM
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If they’re not aroused, I don’t wanna fuck them. And men who do are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:07 AM
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Yes. Why? What evidence do you have to the contrary? What kind of men get you sexually aroused. most women Why do you talk about “most women”? There is no “most women”. There’s only “a lot of women” “enough women”. Enough women are into those aesthetics and personalities for there to be 110,000+ sold out shows with all women attendees. “Most women” lol. They aren’t a hive mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:06 AM
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BMI is kinda bullshit. Without seeing the shape it means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:02 AM
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Some user on here just told me women don’t care about men with only musical talent 🤦🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:01 AM
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all their talent and songwriting ability would not have mattered 1 whit to women. Do you live on this planet bro? Artists and particularly talented musicians get all the pussies wet wtf. You don’t know anything about women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:00 AM
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Oh, so it’s not all girls just those specific ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:58 PM
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Feelz > Realz
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:57 PM
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That would just be abused. Also, it’ll raise my taxes. Not gonna pay more just so dudes who can’t work out how to strap up feel better about abandoning a child they created.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:56 PM
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Women don’t have the option to abort, pregnant people do. The day a man can get pregnant, he’ll get the same medical options available to all pregnant folk.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:54 PM
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Who is running up the cost on childcare labour? House chores? Do they not count at all? If finance counts as “equity” but labour does not? How does that even make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:48 PM
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Seems like you’re making a feelings-based value judgement in order to dismiss a significant portion of Long Term Relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:43 PM
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The fact that you think it’s “culture” that’s behind Afghanistans issues is hilariously stupid (and typically American). Their geopolitical position is far from the mere effect of “culture”. Fucking hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:43 PM
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Yep. Noone actually has to register with the government in order to have a wedding ceremony.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:39 PM
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Does reading nuance confuse your brain? He literally broke down the stats and your response is “if you have to look at things in detail, it’s bad” Talk about some low brow thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:35 PM
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Your voting for higher taxes then, to pay for other couples that ruined their relationship and can’t reconcile enough to get both parents paying for a child. The fairness between adults argument always will end in the child being more worse off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:33 PM
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Call me privileged. But the idea of a woman having sex with me that’s not really into is as worthless as cumming in my hand. I’d rather not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:11 PM
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And women have the nerve to say they have some sor of women's intuition about the internal makeup of guys... it's just bullshit. Women typically can recognise if something is “off” with someone when interacting with them. That’s not the same as intuiting their entire character. Also if these women are in clubs, they are gonna be tipsy or drunk. Alcohol impairs judgment and awareness, which would give a weird guy an edge. Or maybe he learned some skills in those 6 years since you known him and im…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:09 PM
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The few that do all know Leonardo Dicaprio exists though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:05 PM
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This is not a counter, just a better explanation of my point EDIT: realised OP was missing some sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:03 PM
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You get no matches? Or just offers for sexual stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:29 PM
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Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:21 PM
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Why can’t you make those around “girls”?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:19 PM
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amount of times I've heard guys mock a woman for being fat... I think a lot of men don’t count fat jokes as insulting, so the assessment they make on “who is more mean” excludes fat jokes, which is usually at least 50% of the material. EDIT: shit, I didn’t realise that u/Film2021 had already proved my point before commenting lol. Fucking hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:16 PM
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We would just talk about random things and make jokes you couldn't make when the girls were around. What things were these?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:12 PM
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High risk high reward. You get a good chance of being more appealing cus you don’t come across as another nodding yes man doormat, or you appear as a misogynistic asshole. Roll the dice, it’s part of the fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:07 PM
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Depends who you ask. Ask a woman who’s a cheater that number will increase by a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:05 PM
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I guess we all gotta get our thrills anyway we can.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:04 PM
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I guess we all gotta get our kicks anyway we can.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:04 PM
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Sometimes they be vetting you out same way you are vetting them out. Dating is an elimination process after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:01 PM
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That why you hold off on saying stupid shit until she’s been introduced to your stroke game. Make sure that’s strong then you have it in the bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:00 PM
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Smart lass. You will go far
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:59 PM
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What’s your evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:58 PM
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I don’t think it matters whether it’s attractive to most women. It’s attractive to enough women to be a worthwhile pursuit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:57 PM
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Out of 150 women, a man will fuck 30 cheaters and think they represent the other 120.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:53 PM
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if you can ascertain that information is really important to “whether it makes sense”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:16 PM
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For example: finding out about her stance on casual sex, cheating, “can cheating EVER be justified?” questions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:15 PM
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Why is it a lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:14 PM
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Fame and Infamy can share many of the same outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:59 AM
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No it doesn’t. Because logicistically, identifying those numbers early is way more difficult than assessing other data points that reveal that information easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:57 AM
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Men aren’t so different in this aspect, it’s a common stereotype but also untrue. Competence is genuinely attractive, and fame can be a method of easily demonstrating that. a guy with more fame isn't going to complain about having no options. Many do exactly that lol. Not sex options but authenticity and genuine connection. Cannot think of a single famous Man who's actually an incel. Thank God
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:37 AM
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Arm candy both on and off the photoshoot. Women solely there for “something to gain” outside of romantic/sexual gratification, often to consciously improve their life in tangible and luxurious ways. or otherwise romantically engage with high status men? “engage” is an interesting word. I’m talking mainly about the women high status men aren’t taking seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:29 AM
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Let me fix that for you. Seems like you just broke it in a different way. The level that gorgeous model types who have their own bag are attracted to clout, fame, "status" is exaggerated. Agreed. Don't compare the lives of top tier women and top tier men with the lives of us plebs. Gigi Hadid may not be impressed if I roll up in a lambo, but I'd be able to sleep with all including the "faithful" married women in my area just to take them for a drive in it. Now you just exaggerated a different as…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:26 AM
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Yep. Famous literally means “more people know about you”. Which means the type of women that would have always been attracted to a specific man, fame or not, are now aware of his existence due to hyper visibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:24 AM
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The women aren’t getting sexually aroused by their clout.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:15 AM
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My response to What are your thoughts on these [n-count] statistics? Women with low impulse control are more likely to cheat and jump at every opportunity for sexual gratification. Women who are absolute pains to deal with in relationships are more likely to ruin them, meaning they are more likey to break up, get a new partner, breakup again. Resulting in multiple partners over a short period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:13 AM
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Women with low impulse control are more likely to cheat and jump at every opportunity for sexual gratification. Women who are absolute pains to deal with in relationships are more likely to ruin them, meaning they are more likey to break up, get a new partner, breakup again. Resulting in multiple partners over a short period of time.
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/22 07:11 AM
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Being soft doesn’t matter if a dude is confident. You lot confuse incel doormats afraid of their own shadow and think that’s the same thing as dudes with a non-masculine aesthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:43 AM
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You talk like there’s one archetype of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:42 AM
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They pay women to fuck them. They pay in clout or cash. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:41 AM
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“Looksmax.org” 🥴 I could have easily guessed that a lotta incels are gay.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/22 02:42 PM
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Most guys i know Ahhh, great. An unbiased randomised sample.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/22 02:12 PM
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never trust men who say they are straight, they don't exist. Sounds more like wish fulfilment than actual reality. What led you to believe this hot-take?
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/22 02:09 PM
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You just might be in that money 💰 bubble then lol. Or live in a very low Cost of Living area.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:52 PM
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Why Does it bother you so much that I think if one partner works full time and the other doesn’t work at all, the one that doesn’t should do all the chores? There’s nothing wrong with it. It’s just incredibly difficult to achieve in western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:20 AM
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No, I informed you of the practical impact resulting from how the mods choose to moderate this forum. You absolutely did not communicate that well at all. I think you skipped a few steps. You're determined to misinterpret that as "no, that's not how they do it". I’m determined to pin you to an actual stance, since you are dancing all over the place. Saying “This is harmless, but this is a threat” is not explaining “the practical impact” or outcomes of enforcing the rule. Especially when the disc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:56 AM
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I've already been well introduced to the concept that men whose voting rights are similarly precarious are surprisingly cavalier when talking about women's so... surprised I am not. “Well introduced” have you? fucking lol Perhaps you should ask yourself how many people who look like you would be comfortable partaking in a "debate white nationalism" sub. Why? What value would asking myself provide me? The revelation that most would find it difficult and uncomfortable? Such shock! Or maybe I’d los…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:35 AM
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Telling me I shouldn't be able to vote is a threat. Now, yesterday, and tomorrow. At the beginning of this year, I had the right to remove a man's rape product from my body. Today, I don't. Men, including ones here, have been verbally threatening the removal of that right for quite some time. Today it's reality. Which of today's threats are going to become tomorrow's reality? I get it now, you’re in advocating mode. If you're a white male, She shoots and misses! Understandable guess though, prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:20 AM
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Yeah…. you have no clue how language works. Good luck. EDIT: my overall point is that the mods enforce personal attacks not bigotry on groups. You’re making a moral argument about which is worse, that’s not what mods enforce on. That’s not what constitutes a peronal “threat”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:33 AM
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What was the Ottoman Empire’s criteria for how “rape” was defined? What was the reporting process? What were the data collection methods? This is a terrible example
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:42 AM
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You’re talking about the “what” that’s not interesting. The why is much more complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:38 AM
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I never said your feelings were unfounded. But you describe two contrasting examples. “You are misogynistic” isn’t the same as “women shouldn’t have rights”. Talking shit about a group you belong in is not as direct as talking shit about specifically you. That’s the distinction the mods try to draw.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:35 AM
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From your example it sounds like you don’t know the difference between speaking harshly on sensitive topics vs ad hominem attack. They may feel the same, because hearing fucked up opinions can feel like a personal attack. But they are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:03 AM
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Looking up some old ass comments and posts lol. It’s a numbers game for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:20 PM
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Given that this sub is supposed to be a place of conversation between men and women, Actually it was supposed to be for conversation between Red and Blue “Pills”, but that has clearly changed. that would then be a failure on the part of the mod team. The mods can’t be held responsible for the natural demographics of PPD. The subject matter places PPD in the manosphere, combined with the incel and fds subreddit bans, makes this place what it is. If women are merely controlled opposition here, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:18 PM
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Thank you for admitting your inability to change your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:55 AM
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This subreddit is a bubble. Where the demographics are overly charitable to males but overly scrutinising to females. You can find other bubbles that are the exact opposite (they are often bigger subs).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:54 AM
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Your description applies to pretty much every group of people on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:11 AM
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This isn’t a study it’s an article. And the studies linked are broken. It also talks about HOW porn-induced ED works, not that porn CAUSES ED in men. That’s like using a study that explains HOW alcoholsim works to make the argument that alcohol CAUSES alcoholism in everyone. Like I said before. Lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:08 AM
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That’s what all SIMPs think. It’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:04 AM
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They are just SIMPs of a different kind. Still willing to put up with bullshit for the box.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:03 AM
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“Guys, killing your wife is wrong!” Do you feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:59 AM
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Stop chatting shit. Once again it’s a person on PPD with zero experience in handling a situation commenting with the authority of an experienced veteran. Dunning Kruger in full force. Grow a dick and beard, hit on women and get back to me. Otherwise stfu about what you think men need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:40 PM
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No men in charge in the military approved the change?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:37 PM
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Aahhh okay so you know fuck all about doing those things got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:36 PM
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Sounds like a SIMP problem not a woman problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:24 PM
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Who did vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:24 PM
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I can't believe put my self worth on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:11 PM
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that doesn’t make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:47 PM
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Yes link me the studies that show porn specifically leads to erectile dysfunction in a significant amount of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:31 PM
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Distinction without a difference imo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:30 PM
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So it’s less about porn watching and more about your reliance on it. Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:46 AM
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You reached and missed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:44 AM
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And you approached an initited them? How did you ease their guard to convince them you wouldn’t kill them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:44 AM
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Lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:42 AM
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What about mental imagery of other men’s cocks?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:42 AM
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Yes. Being prudish seems painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:18 PM
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there are levels
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:07 PM
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That’s rare. Did you grow up in a sexually repressive household? You self-criticise because you wank? That stupidly judgemental.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:32 PM
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Addiction: Addiction is a neuropsychological disorder characterized by a persistent and intense urge to engage in certain behaviors, often usage of a drug, despite substantial harm and other negative consequences. 90% of men watch porn and wank with it. If 90% of men were addicted, then people wouldn’t even go to work n shit. Truth is, these are weirdo women, who date weirdo men, and those men are much more likely to have porn addictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:30 PM
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result in you facing a lot of rejections that you shouldn't have to go through So what? That’s literally a factor in every other part of life. Rejection doesn’t kill a person, never has. as well as cause unnecessary discomfort to a lot of women (who just want to go about their way). Again so what? The social contract of being outside in spaces with strangers means accepting that interaction with strangers is likely to happen. Life has plenty of annoyances. But we take the pros with the cons and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:26 PM
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Sure, but there are levels. A lifestyle/career preference for a partner is different from watching a video with your dick in your hand when you’re alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:23 PM
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Studies can only show how porn addiction damages the brain. Commenters always miss that part. Do not try to assume my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:21 PM
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Good for you. Self-love is important for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:34 PM
4

I would guess it’s likely the main factor. Because everyone that’s expressed disdain/sadness/regret for masturbation has answered “yes” to that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:31 PM
1

I wasn’t saying it’s a bad thing. Self-love is important for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:30 PM
1

How many women have you dated and fucked? Gimme a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:29 PM
2

For me I stopped looking for hints, and started ensuring with confirmation (acception or rejection).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:27 PM
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What’s laughable is watching a room full of women disagree on the specifics of hints, and what each one means. Y’all walking around with your own individual secret languages thinking it’s universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:26 PM
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Men do gas other men up. People here are just reacting to minority messages that are divergent from societal narrative, but think it’s the actual societal narrative, because they brand new to the world and live in a bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:24 PM
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Or they just want to get off selfishly without spending the extra physical and mental energy that sex requires.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:22 PM
2

Did you grow up religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:21 PM
4

Yep. People who were addicted act like everyone was the same as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:20 PM
2

to not get off to watching other naked women? This is a stupid and unnecessary request born of insecurity. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:18 PM
4

What comments are you reading? Do you just have a section in your brain that just deletes inconvenient comments from your memory?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:17 PM
4

So the issue is about your overall lack of communication rather than just wanking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:15 PM
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Yeah, the way some women talk about their man masturbating to porn it’s like they’ve assumed everyone around them agrees it’s a bad thing. No, I’m looking at the one that’s freaking out about it weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:14 PM
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15 minutes sitting in the bathroom, shower running with cold water? This is how you masturbate? The method might have something to do with the shitty feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:12 PM
3

Memories are better than fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:10 PM
2

Can’t decide if that’s better or worse than Lucille Bluth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:59 PM
6

That’s pretty weird. Do you think that shit is normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:57 PM
1

In my experience. It only helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:29 PM
1

I disagree. But then that depends on what you mean by “ruthless”. I believe in treating people well on principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:28 PM
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I don’t think it’s fair treatment on an individual level. But on a macro scale, “shit happens” and that’s as fair as anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:45 PM
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There's no fairness in dating, why would you think there is? What is making things fair? Making things fair means giving unattractive people a chance. I’m talking about how you treat people on an individual level. Dating only happens on an individual level. On that level, everyone has the ability to treat the other person decently (aka “fairly”) Making things fair means not dumping someone just cause you wanna. Making things fair means no ghosting. Everyone knows dating isn't fair. It's cut thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:26 PM
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When did dating become some sort of life requirement? That sounds like some trad con value system. trad con value systems dominated the culture for a century. Those are some old habits to get rid of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:17 PM
1

What’s accurate for stereotypes isn’t what’s accurate for reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:08 PM
3

Asking women for relationship advice is better imo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:04 PM
1

It depends. Generally most people have a “don’t be a cunt” approach to life. “Making things fair” for the other person you’re dating falls inline with that. But “making things fair” is so vague it doesn’t mean anything. Specifics are needed both when asking for or giving effective advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:03 PM
0

wtf is an FYP?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:34 PM
2

What’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:52 AM
1

I think about serial killers who no one around them realizes that there is something deeply wrong with this person. Bad comparison. That’s because being a serial killer is way out of the norm compared to being toxic in relationships. People use intuition and notions of probability when assessing someone. The likelihood of the former is much much less than the latter. People dating tend to be younger and have a sexual attraction that clouds their views so are even less likely to pick up on someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:50 AM
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They said that women are more likely to be attacked, just not by much. So go and argue with them. Yee, it is true, much more than men. Many things are an attack, not just physical assault. Overcautious and paranoid? That sounds like emotions towards women influencing your perception. Possibly. It is an opinion after all. Unless you have source for some sort of study indicating that women are paranoid. Did a quick google, and found not very good evidence for it one way or the other. So you can ca…
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/22 09:15 AM
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Couldn’t find the the glossary from TRP, but this subreddit has it already clearly written up. To BPers, "blue pill" is basically disagreeing with TRP, usually with it's stance on women, relationships, and/or science. Generally by agreeing with societies mainstream view of these matters (hence, the blue pill). There's no set philosophy or goal other than disagreeing with RPers, so r/TheRedPill and )r/TheBluePill shouldn't be seen as two contrasting ideologies SO much as one strategy and set of b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:43 AM
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Yeah it’s dumb. Of course the sex that’s more capable and more likely to be successful at violence will be the sex that uses violence more. Did they know women are more likely to breastfeed than men are? It’s unnecessary nonsense.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/22 07:37 AM
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The person I responded to said that “women are not much more likely to be attacked when outside than men”. And they are objectively correct. Also, women get raped and kidnapped. True. If you’re referring to physical assault, Yes. Physical assault is an “attack” women go out of their way to preserve themselves from that. Many are overcautious and paranoid about it, true. If you’re referring to murder, women make up a huge majority of domestic victims, not outside while men make up a majority of g…
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/22 07:35 AM
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Now I am curious as to why adults are less emotional than children in terms of feeling attached, Practice.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 08:29 PM
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Women are less likely to be attacked outside than men. Where tf are you getting your numbers from?
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 08:28 PM
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hilarious
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 08:20 AM
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It’s a Q4W, why answer with a top comment?
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 08:19 AM
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Are you a woman?
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 08:10 AM
3

Are you a woman?
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 08:10 AM
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Are you a woman?
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 08:10 AM
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Well that depends on what’s said, whether saying it was necessary, and whether you were even correct.
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/22 08:39 PM
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Speculation: Probably none. But I imagine the ones that ran away from sex altogether likely died off. Without shelter/food. So to be a woman with ANY amount of libido was a benefit. Higher libido women might have been less likely to run from sex, don’t run from sex, survive.
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/22 11:03 AM
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Being honest filters out the people who don’t vibe with it. That’s actually a good thing, then you can see the people you’ll connect with a lot clearer.
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/22 10:58 AM
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For sure, but lasting damage ≠ permanent damage either.
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/22 04:51 PM
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Because we want to be strong!
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/22 03:02 PM
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30 is 1/3 of the average lifespan in a modern country. To say it’s over for anything except becoming a billionaire is premature
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/22 02:56 PM
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You dodged my question
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/22 06:54 AM
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Dumb take.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/22 02:21 AM
2

Yeah those women end up being boring and get cheated on.
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/22 11:01 PM
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A collection of women can all suffer from the same sample bias. Much like the men that fall for TRP do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:22 PM
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It’s not that different. It matches mine and my friends experiences. Are you speaking from a place of experience or are you outside looking in?
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/22 06:36 PM
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Women do need to develop a personality wtf. Beautiful women exist in large enough numbers that they are interchangeable without something more to them. Are you speaking from dating experience or is this just theorygasming?
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/22 06:32 PM
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It wasn’t bait. I’m curious what you think I was baiting you into.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:52 PM
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I posted it here specifically because it’s hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:51 PM
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What is “average” to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:51 PM
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My friend told me about this, if they don’t look at you and immediately think “Basketball player” it’s a very negative perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:50 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:48 PM
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It’s just as stupid to imagine them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:48 PM
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Sample bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:47 PM
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I know what it is I just don’t know what your talking about “hasn’t developed yet” wtf are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:46 PM
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Funny how the short “simple” surface-level statements actually have a list of demands behind it. I feel a lot of men do this. Truth is most guys have lists just as long as women do, they just don’t present it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:56 AM
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Funny how the short “simple” surface-level statements actually have a list of demands behind it. I feel a lot of men do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:54 AM
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🎻 Appeals to emotions with sad stories add fuck all to the debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:50 AM
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Yep. These guys let another man’s dick dictate their emotions and what they want from a woman. It’s pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:48 AM
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Yep. These guys let another man’s historic dick dictate their emotions and what they want from a woman. It’s pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:47 AM
1

What about an average young woman? They don’t need to be hot. Hot women have more experience staving of manipulators (although still very immature and naive).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:42 AM
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Pre-frontal cortex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:41 AM
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Exhibit A of women having no game.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:34 AM
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Oh no, another “power dynamics” obsessed user. Weird mindset you got there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:14 AM
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Whenever porn comes up it becomes very clear that a high percentage of the women here are attracted to gamer nerds. The way they talk about what porn does to men is very sus. Despite the majority using it in moderation. Porn addiction isn’t common but these bitches make it sound like it’s inevitable. I never got why some dudes feel depressed after bussing, I assume it’s some weird sexual repression thing going on. They do say the US has a stronger puritanical streak than in Europe. Orgasms feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:10 AM
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It’s great! I get to want to different women, get new ideas for bringing kinks and new positions into the bedroom, share an account with MissDecoy so we can see what each other are into. Also helps me gain a better understanding of how I can go about recording my own material. It’s there in a pinch when I have some free time to kill. All round positive experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:07 AM
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Not really. If a child wants to eat a sugary snack before bed, you don’t allow it because your love is ‘conditional’. On the contrary, you say “no” because you believe sugary snack right before bed is detrimental to them. And you don’t want detriment to them because you love them, unconditionally. In a nutshell, appeasing a person’s every wants isn’t a necessary criteria for loving them. Often doing that causes more harm than good. I'm morally obligated. By my filial responsibility. Do you feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:01 AM
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Whether a 41 year-old woman wants to mess with a virgin lol. Dafuq, you must be under 25
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:57 AM
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Your inference ≠ my implication
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:56 AM
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Is ‘genuine friend’ behaviour or a feeling?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:55 AM
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I’ve had a similar experience. She totally completely fucked off after being my friend for years. It sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:51 AM
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Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:50 AM
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Do you believe that the women being orbited are aware of what's going on or do you believe they're genuinely clueless? Some are. Some are not. Young inexperienced women haven’t yet learned the lessons and can still be very naive and unaware of the signs. Or some mix of both where they've got an idea that it's happening but choose to deny it out of social pleasantry/not ruining a friendship? Some are. Some are not. Young inexperienced women haven’t yet learned the lessons and can still be very na…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:49 AM
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The inexperienced and the inadequate desire virgins, everyone else prefers experienced partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:36 AM
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Did you notice the flair that says “41F”? You need to be realistic about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:34 AM
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Did you notice the flair that says “41F”? You need to be realistic about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:34 AM
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Incel talking point #351,806. Old reliable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:33 AM
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I’m not so sure, but there is overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:31 AM
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Ahhh yes. SIMP-mentality is as big of an enemy to men as it’s inverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:30 AM
1

Are you saying you are too weak to handle th game of human interaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:28 AM
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Do you specifically go searching for these posts? That’s an old ass post.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:25 AM
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I’m afraid it’s not a direct yes or no question because it depends on the context. But I’ll do my best. If your parents wanted to live with you; would you make it happen? If they wanted to live with me out of a want and not a need, the answer is “no” If they wanted to live with me out of a need and not a want, the answer is “yes” Now answer my question. You seem to using ‘unconditional love’ and ‘staying with them’ interchangeably. Do you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:23 AM
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Dumb take.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:18 AM
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URL dumps are low effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:16 AM
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Yep. It’s definitely a white man thing. But those dudes seem to forget other races exist when they give that kind of advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:14 AM
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Couldn’t be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:12 AM
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Yep. Not something I’d recommend because of the risks, but not something I’d say completely shouldn’t happen either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:11 AM
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Stupid take. I do imagine your more likely to attract whore mindsets if your leading selling point is your wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:09 AM
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The people that make iPhones have competitive salaries compared to other factories.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:06 AM
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You seem to using unconditional love and staying with them interchangeably. Do you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:41 AM
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Naah it’s way overdue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:11 AM
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Unconditional love I interpret morally. Wtf does this mean? Take the example in your first paragraph. You love your parents. You like your own space. If they’re forced to live with you, or even just choose to live with you; that happening? Is what happening? The love? Yes, of course lol. Conversely my mother has mental health issues. Hates my wife. Hates our part of the city. If she chose to live with us, I wouldn’t hesitate. My wife would hate it, but she’d have no choice. I derive my sense of …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:11 AM
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I don't want to sound cool. I just want to engage in honest conversation. I appreciate it. If I wanted to sound cool, I'd make comments with NWA playing in the background. That would make you cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:07 AM
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Yes you are and don’t let anyone tell you differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:53 AM
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Lemme guess, you’ve only recently started keeping up with current events?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:52 AM
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💯 sometimes what’s worse is the former nice guy, who now doesn’t believe any man ever does something out of the kindness of his heart because he believes everyone is like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:43 AM
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So much arguments and rhetoric here is simply driven by wanting to sound cool. I’m too old for this place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:41 AM
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Did you read my OP? It addressed this in the first paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:37 AM
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Are you asking me why people aren’t logical, and make decisions based on excitement and instant gratification? Are you really confused as to why that happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:35 AM
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Reckless misuse of shock value. #BelieveAllWomen was actually #BelieveWomen, the bad actors lied and bullshitted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:31 PM
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Search your feelings. That's womanspeak
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:50 PM
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You can still love someone after you stop being with them. Meaning a dealbreaker for a relationship isn’t a necessarily a dealbreaker for loving someone. You can love someone from afar.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:09 PM
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They aren’t. Just really bad surface level takes that seriously lack perspective. But if that works for you have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:08 PM
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Gonna need harder evidence than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:07 PM
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Love is conditional period for instance would you love your parents still if they hunted down everything you ever liked/loved or enjoyed? Possibly. I’ve never been put in thst scenario. Neither of us can say I’d lose all bonding emotions to them if that were to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:06 PM
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“Unconditional Love doesn’t exist! 🤪”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:36 PM
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Okay but what do you think outside of mindlessly repeating the phrases of online internet personas?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:34 PM
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That statistic is suspect and possibly faulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:20 PM
3

These takes are melting my brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:19 PM
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A better source.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:15 PM
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What did he say in defense of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:11 PM
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Fair enough. I have less experience with how the other side lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:07 PM
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It’s a meaningless gesture, Possibly, it doesn’t hurt though, and cellphone batteries can die. Have you got any idea what the other user meant by it means we’re all rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:06 PM
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I don’t know how many ways I can tell you I do not care. Is it bad advice for a man who struggles with social awkwardness? Sure. But within the context of the paragraph that came before it, it changes the tone of the comment. Can we be done about the “advice” thing now? ffs. An attractive older woman telling awkward young men "Meet people and have the sex you want, Christ it's not that hard" is ignorant. She wouldn't write such vague advice if she had a clue. When you lack some advantages, thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:04 PM
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It’s still a TikTok generation. Attention span is limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:55 PM
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That may very well be the case, but one question I'd ask on that, are you sure they are? Yes. The women that I’m talking about don’t actually lie, they feel no need to around me. Pretty much my whole time single I've had women that I used to sleep with occasionally sleep with me, and the vast majority would say things like "this didn't happen" or "please don't tell anyone" etc.... I've also had female friends (like actual friends) years later state they were sporadically hooking up with an ex fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:54 PM
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u/decoy88 Tell me again how participation trophy culture is not related to incel culture. It has influence. But I still maintain that it’s technology, helicopter parenting and anime that’s got these fools wanting soft life in every sense of the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:51 PM
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I’ll believe that when I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:49 PM
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Women understand all of what you said plenty. I don’t know who you been talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:46 PM
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And men know that a lot of the cute women are taken. So there’s a high chance she’s not lying. And single women who are interested don’t lie about their single status, so it’s a rejection either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:57 AM
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Or maybe cheaters are more forward if they know thr guy has something to lose? Idk I think you should really ask those particular women why they do what they do for better insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:55 AM
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decoy says: If started speaking more on my own behalf I’d piss a lot more incels off than I do now. then: Mysterious humble brag, that’s Chad status my guy Case in point. And I haven’t even said shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:54 AM
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Women lose interest in sex in atleast 30% of LTRs. Where did you get that figure? And what do you think that means? Also what’s the percentage for men losing interest? Why do you think "Mating in captivity" was such a popular book? Marketing. Cool title? The entire book is stories that try to re-train monogamy in women. I know nothing about the book series. Not sure what it’s existence really proves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:35 AM
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It’s funny because I’m wondering what bubble you live in to believe this applies to any significant portion of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:23 AM
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We’re going in circles. There’s no analogy needed because the concept is quite simple and your proving it A = bringing up marriage B = proposal ritual C = accepting the proposal ritual B doesn’t happen without A, and C doesn’t happen without B. At every point, each person has total choice of what they do and how they respond, it’s mutual. You also didn’t address the idea that may A is happening a lot less. I don’t know why you believe it’s a “backfire”. Marriage today happens when people are old…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:52 AM
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Why are you working so hard to defend her low-effort advice and insistence that it's all so easy? It's vague advice despite your persistence in adding onto it It’s more like you’re working hard to take her “advice” out of context. Also, I don’t scrutinise “advice” on here that much because this is not an advice subreddit. I read more as exasperation than directed advice. But, believe what you want. My point is that the people having easier casual sex than others these days didn't all get there j…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:40 AM
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Just pick whatever interests you. Any recent interview should be good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:35 AM
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Attachment Styles. They need to fix theirs. No gf can fix a sinking hole they have in the bottom of their heart because their mummy wasn’t attentive enough. Validation-seeking leads to destructive behaviours.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:34 AM
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No. It’s more that it’s evidence that many people should absolutely not be in relationships because they would self-sabotage with their constant insecurities about whether their partner is treating them “better”. The comparisons and questions would drive them insane, and would constantly prod them to go out of their comfort zone, to ‘prove’ some unobtainable ever-shifting goal. These types of women are the worst types to date. They are never satisfied and ruin relationships. I can only assume me…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:33 AM
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Which is fair enough. But that’s why it’s good for those with less knowledge to clarify before making bold statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:27 AM
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Wait really? Sure. The primary way social media companies like Meta (formerly Facebook) and Twitter make money is through selling advertising. The concept of selling advertising while offering a free service is not new; television, newspapers, and media companies have been doing this long before social media companies existed. Meta has 2.89 billion monthly active users worldwide and estimates the average revenue per user (ARPU) was $32.03 in 2020. Meta's ARPU comes primarily through profits earn…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:26 AM
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Lol That made me chuckle. But I’m talking about how most women use vibrators on their clit, not penetrative toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:23 AM
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Do you follow healthygamergg? That Dr K dude is one of the best conversationalists I’ve ever witnessed in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:22 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:20 AM
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OF COURSE we are not the first in bring in it! Like half the women I've dated have fantasized with the idea, a handful of them directly asked me about it, and I would say 90% would have brought it up if I had stayed around for a bit longer. So then who’s really doing the “proposing”? Definition Propose: to put forward (a plan or suggestion) for consideration by others Still, I am the one who has the final word. Wouldn’t that then be the person that says “yes”? It’s literally the ‘final word’ bef…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:20 AM
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I think it’s cringe because most people here are bad at language. It’s obvious they didn’t pay attention in class. Which is why so many get confused between notios of “equal” and “exactly the same”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:14 AM
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Real Deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:11 AM
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Sounds like you don’t understand what concepts are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:10 AM
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The things I want for my own life, doesn’t mean I think everyone should be forced to have those same things. Is that a duality? Is the prescription for your personal tastes exactly how you believe everyone should be made to live?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:08 AM
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Wtf do you think “engagement” is? It’s that time you spend annoying yourself on an app that the advertisers pay big money to Reddit for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:06 AM
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At the end of they day, all we really need to feel loved and special is you agreeing to do anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:04 AM
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How would he know tho? C’mon, don’t be shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:02 AM
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Haha this fool can’t answer. OP you have no fucking clue because you haven’t thought this far into your own logic This place is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:01 AM
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🤦🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:00 AM
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Yes. It’s the mindset of the miserable, the people who constantly compare themselves to others. Comparison is the Thief of Joy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:59 AM
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Have you been in a relationship? There are things that go on inside them emotionally that indicate specialness and love. There aren’t very tangible or easily observable from the outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:58 AM
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I haven't broken up with them The truest answers are often the least entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:55 AM
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OP is trying to map you bf and exes stats for a trading card game. Understanding power levels is most important for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:54 AM
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What do you do for work?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:52 AM
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This sub is more prominent now, so you get new users coming in all the time doing a quick skim and going “wait WHAT THE FUCK!?” People really don’t understand how crazy of a bubble this subreddit is. Normal people don’t talk like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:50 AM
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We don’t if we’re already getting laid ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:49 AM
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I’m open to ideas but I lack charisma in dating. I can make friends pretty easily when it’s around mutual hobbies like playing pool at a bar, dancing (will be taking bachata soon), and movies as I’m a former actor and huge film buff. How inquisitive are you about topics you know fuck all about or do not care for? Can you show excitement about somebody elses passion for things you aren’t yourself? These are the building blocks to being an excellent conversationalist. Most men are shit at it, so h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:48 AM
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This is not true, my gf currently earns more than me and wanted sex in the beginning without needing my resources or commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:43 AM
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Would you say that everyone who goes to parties and tries to meet women is “relying” on parties to meet women? Lots of people use them from time to time and meet sexual and romantic partners with them. No I wouldn’t. I’d categorise them as “more social” and people who are more social, engage in more social activities (with mixed company) get laid a tonne more than those that do not. The party atmosphere adds an extra layer of ease because drugs and alcohol is often involved. However partys/bars …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:36 AM
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Economics drive everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:23 AM
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Men still are the ones that decide when to propose. Sure men do the ritual of proposing (tradition), but I doubt most men are the first ones to bring up marriage in a long term relationship. Still both need to consent to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:21 AM
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Marriage is sold to women because it HAS to be sold to them. Marriage needs a sales pitch. You know what doesn’t? Drugs. Drugs need no sales pitch because drugs sell themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:18 AM
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I know right? Fuck do they think everything can be addressed in 240 characters?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:15 AM
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It’s also a sex education issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:14 AM
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“Trickle down economics” is specifically a scam policy. People who are passionate about reducing poverty always condemn “trickle down economics”. There are more effective policies that have been implemented in the countries past to great effect. But then abandoned in favour of “trickle down economics”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:14 AM
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The point I’m making is the same point I initiated with. TIME is a very important factor. Another factor is energy which I didn’t even touch on. Time is a big enough chunk on its own. The rest of my comments have been breaking down into more details specifics with estimates showing what I mean. You haven’t responded with any examples counter to it except “it doesn’t take that much time” or most men are filtered out in early stages”. You’ve been reluctant to even give a speculative estimate numbe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:10 AM
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(sigh) true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:59 AM
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Did you just figure out you may have overreacted to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:59 AM
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Whatever you do, don’t ever talk badly on anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:58 AM
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Some? The MAJORITY of men here are VIRGINS and now fuck all beyond what they’ve read and hear others joke about on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:53 AM
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If started speaking more on my own behalf I’d piss a lot more incels off than I do now. I’m an outlier in multiple ways among most people I come across, so using myself and my personal dating experiences as a reference point is rarely effective in these debates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:51 AM
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Smells like changing goalposts to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:47 AM
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Some people exaggerate how common it is but others exaggerate how distant it is from daily life for many young people. Acting like only a few NEETs use dating apps doesn't change their impact. As with most things, the truth is somewhere in the middle. And while I believe virtually every young person tries dating apps, I believe the majority don’t rely on it as their primary source of dating prospects. Dating apps have a bad reputation, and for sure often sits on the phones of many, untouched and…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:42 AM
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feel like the examples given were more enough to extrapolate from. Are considering vetting to be something that takes a long time by definition? You are not elaborating because it’s not something we have to think about, we are too busy handling our side of things. Which proves my point that there’s a lack of insight. Like a guy says something slightly off in an intial text and gets no reply? That's also vetting Uh huh, the first stage of vetting. That depends on how you define a sacrifice? It ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:37 AM
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Well I love to see it, relaxes my mind to discover there are still some here that argue in good faith and willing to change perspective based on new info or explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:21 AM
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Conservatism is literally shunned in public discourse in the same way stuff were labeled as "satanic" decades ago. Which “public discourse” are you looking at? People can lose their jobs for ACCIDENTALLY making a "conservative" sign White Power = conservative ? People can lose their job for simply “approving” of gay marriage https://www.insidehighered.com/news/2022/04/27/professor-who-officiated-gay-wedding-denied-reappointment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:19 AM
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Aahh yes, standing up to power by being a Twitter Edgelord and voting against abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:12 AM
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I think men being less needed and more wanted is a good thing. I’d hate to be settled for out of dependency.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:11 AM
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Dating app reliance by younger folks is overexaggerated. Proximity dating is still king by a large majority. Yes being attractive is different. However most people aren’t that, and they have the experience of obtaining casual sex if they situate themselves in the right place at the right time. Do you think it’s a coincidence that the people who struggle to get it also hate the basic bro/bitch activities of drinking culture and partying? I don’t think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:08 AM
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A concession by -angels-fan-? I’m impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:07 AM
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Ok this is getting a bit ridiculous. There is more than enough time in the week to go on dates. For a woman working a 9-5 job What about seeing her friends, helping out with family, working out and other extra curricular activities? Where do they go? There is no shortage of men willing to pay furnish and handle all of the logistics. Wtf is handling all of the logistics? How does that man ensure she knows he isn’t dangerous? If a woman wants to she could go on as many as 3 dates a week or even st…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:05 AM
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Why? Is it because of your own experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:55 AM
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You seem to believe this temperament thing is “fixed”. I don’t know why, the human psyche is very malleable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:54 AM
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Because much of what Gen Z believe is unique to their generation is actually just common for people their age. We’ve all been through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:53 AM
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casual sex doesn’t have to be a large amount of partners. Why are you stuck on this premise?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:52 AM
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What you’re doing is great. I wish there were more people like this. Why? Because this will ease their fear of women, and will make them comfortable around them in general. Yoda was right. ——— FYI: If you type (without quotations) “ ” Reddit adds a double space paragraph in the body of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:50 AM
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That’s what happens when the most confident posters are young dudes with 0 experience of even hugging a woman, are talking about their theories on dating like they are facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:46 AM
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You are right. This only applies to liberal democracies. Then how can you say “culture” doesn’t affect it? Do you believe only culture on a large scale has influence but culture on a small scale has no influence?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:44 AM
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Slightly more than the right does. At least on social media. If I put on an “American lens” and assume Democrat = left, Republican = right. It appears that the left are more critical of Biden and other Democrat representatives than the right is of its Republican representatives. This is all takes from social media though, I’m sure people outside of these bubbles are generally more reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:37 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/xceumi/why_do_women_seem_to_be_less_bothered_by_being/io7trhq/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:32 AM
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Sure but there's always another 10 where that came from so... Not when she runs out of TIME and the majority are already paired off. Why is that assumption neccesary? Are you young? Maybe adulting responsibilities haven’t caught up to you, leaving you extremely busy, energy and/or emotionally drained. Life is hard yo. Only with that assumption can one believe any woman can vet 50 effectively while juggling other obligations and responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:31 AM
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Critical analysis, challenging myths of old, making money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:26 AM
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Don’t forget a lot of people we talk to here are college-aged (aka fresh out of highschool). The behaviours they witness are more likely to match that experience. There will always be the older outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:24 AM
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Don’t forget a lot of people we talk to here are college-aged (aka fresh out of highschool). The behaviours they witness are more likely to match that experience. There will always be the older outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:24 AM
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outside of high school and some "mean girls clubs", Don’t forget a lot of people we talk to here are college-aged (aka fresh out of highschool). The behaviours they witness are more likely to match that experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:23 AM
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Sounds like you’re talking about One Night Stands, the rarest form of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:21 AM
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You repeated what he said but phrased it as a disagreement. Strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:20 AM
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