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I love reddit sometimes. You read this and you go.. sure. Then you scroll down and there's an entire thread saying Dolan himself admitted this study was wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:05 PM
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I'm too busy worrying about how I view myself than how others view me. It's something I'm making progress on as in my experience, you're pretty invisible. People don't really care. But that might not be the universal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:46 PM
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No, I've mostly felt like I needed to achieve a certain level of masculinity to be accepted by myself. Or is that a bit too deep? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:02 AM
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It's not so much that they prefer somethig over threapy. It's that "just go to therapy" is a non-answer that's just meant to wave away whatever issues you have. What would be a women's equivalent? Maybe a guy saying "If you don't want to be cat called don't dress provocatively" kinda in a similar way interpreting the issue through one lens and then telling you "I don't care, fuck off".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:06 PM
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I mean, when someone says "Can you cook?" I sorta assume they mean I'm some kinda chef Boiardi. No, I just know how to do meal prep & cook some simple recipes...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:08 PM
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What do you think of Theo von? His father had him when he was 82. His dad and mom had an age difference of 36 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:57 PM
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be a woman Something interesting to note about this when it comes to the draft. They've specifically opted out transitioning as being an option. It says "Male at birth" at least in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:08 PM
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I very rarely even see men in sales, business, HR, social services, professional development, etc etc ON the apps Mixed sex jobs tend to better then only female dominated ones. It's also I think one of the areas where you can be really lucky. If you're a nurse, you're likely to hang around male dominated healthcare fields and that helps it evens out. There's a stereotype here in the Netherlands it's the IT guy dating a Teacher girl. Male dominated vs female dominated. It's not entirely their own…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:03 AM
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I'd rather let her signal she wants to be approach then me just doing it. That's safest. If she's looking for eye contact and gives more signals I go. Otherwise it's a no and I just pay attention to the bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:20 PM
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This attitude was fairly prominent among French intellectuals in the 1970's. Foucault, Derrida and other well known critical-theorists signed a petition against age of consent laws in 1977. Yeah I think maybe the french still haven't completely transformed themselves. .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:25 AM
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And doing that requires... well... doing things. Physically I know I'm butting in a bit here, but that's why you see such strong bonds among soldiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:15 PM
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It being legal doesn't immediately mean it's normalized and that's where the difference lies. Sure I could go to a brothel or to Amsterdam or w/e but I don't. (Saying that as a dutch person). From what I've seen ad wise (and meme wise) here and there the dudes often wear sheisty's to make themselves unrecognizable. The stigma is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:39 PM
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They want something to brag about to their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:44 PM
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Even lower testosterone is beneficial since it keeps men more stable. Quite the opposite. Low test dudes are more irritable, fatigued and weaker. Less likely to work hard, less likely to fight for things (not in the physical sense), less likely to comete or improve. It's not healthy, and a low T dude won't be a good worker bee. He'll just sit in his room, work for minimum wage and be net tax loss to society while he spends his time wanking off playing video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:37 PM
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I believe for this reason that men should start with themselves and their own self awareness, and then reach out to each other to help themselves do better, instead of expecting the whole entire world to change so that they don't have to change at all. I agree with you in large part as I've also been a reader of therationalmale / illimitable men etc. at one time and did grew out of it. Purely by luck, or lack of giving a shit anymore. Which makes me think telling men to "just develop some self a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:40 AM
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It's a self perpetuating problem. I had bad experiences with teachers when I was young because most teachers in primary school were women. So I didn't want to become a teacher. It's my own experience but I can imagine it's one that's a lot of men share. So because we have a bad experience with teachers, we don't want to become teachers. Which means less teachers that are men ... and more kids that grow up to be men that don't want to be teachers. Although, male teachers are more common at least …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:56 PM
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No they're smarter. They keep a fat chick around so it makes themselves look hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:49 AM
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Gives them something else to talk about then the consistency of squirrel droppings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:41 PM
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There was a joke on Normacdonald Live that went something like A woman was selling her virginity online to the tune of 25.000 dollars. For 25.000 dollars you can have the worst sex of your life. found it, may have slightly misremembered, but gold still.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 01:13 PM
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Looking at the fertiility numbers of the native population of most western countries no. Immigration often inflates that number. First you want get your ducks in a row which means year long degrees, working, somehow trying to afford a 400K+ house (at least here in NL). Getting into a relationship in the first place. Lots of people also wait a few years even after they're married. It's happening later and later. In the EU the average age to have children just raised from 28,8 to 29,7. I've heard …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:10 AM
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What would be the answer to the first question? I think it's the same thing as dick pics. Every normal guy knows you're not gonna send women pictures of your salami but the kinda guy that would send a picture of his chorizo wasn't going to listen to anybody anyway. So how's your average Joe gonna do anything about that? But I might be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:15 PM
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I also posted this on another subreddit but tiktok cooked. Got people all worked up over some bears 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:15 PM
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Lack/Death of third spaces means a lot of people have lost the opportunity to meet random people in a setting where dating is acceptable. And that also leads to a lot of people being not that good at it anymore either. It's probably also why there's much more discourse now about harassment at work, or in the gym or the grocery store. You're also now seeing people "sliding into the dms" which isn't entirely a bad thing but it means if you're not with-it social media wise you're SOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:15 PM
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that people assume I have something seriously wrong with for my lack of experience. At some point lack of experience is literally a red flag. Just the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:38 AM
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If it helps you shut up, work and pay taxes then what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:26 AM
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Women aren’t charitable organizations that have to be open to anyone so that their feelings aren’t hurt. I'm sorry but I completely lost you here? All I'm saying here is that when you're for instance, completely hypothetical, part of a climbing club. One day you go out climbing with your friends/fellow climbers and you notice a new guy, clearly alone, and trying his best. Would you walk up to that guy and introduce yourself and make him feel welcome? I would. I'm not asking you to do anything yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:01 PM
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By being cognizant of men that are vulnerable and being more open to them. I try to do the same thing. We don't live segregated lives. That man could be someone's cousin, someone's brother, someone's or son someone's aqcuaintance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:47 AM
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I don't think they can do that alone though. "Self made man" has been released in 2006 and in the 18 years that followed some things have gotten slightly better but a lot much, much worse. I don't think you can leave men alone on this for another 18 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:15 AM
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Women tend to find men in their own age bracket more attractive than outside of it. I don't know how backed up with statistics that graph is that floats around on the internet. But it basically says that men find women less attractive as women age, always finding youthful beauty more important. Makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint. Whereas women always find men slightly older/younger than them attractive on said graph.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:30 AM
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I don't think those dudes are looking for a faster buck per sé. But a lot of them maybe don't know quite when or if they need to push into that. Social media doesn't help with that, it makes people a bit scared. I think that leads to some men being more distant and platonic when they really shoudn't and some men trying to find that connection even though they should really stick to being platonic. Especially nowadays when a lot of people lack a proper third place.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:26 PM
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There's some shows that dare go againt the narrative. Sorry for the horrible quality but I suppose that's how they avoid the copyright spooks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:10 PM
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Dr. K explains it pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:51 PM
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I 100% agree. Dr. K isn't the best source for this, and he's had his own weird takes before. That whole thing on Meditation is I'm sure a thing he really believes is true but personally it's also not entirely my thing. You have to take it with some skepticism. But like he himself also mentioned during the podcast IIRC and something I also 100% agree with is if he doesn't open his mouth than who will? Everyone else who opens their mouth on this either throws women under the bus or uses it as an e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:29 AM
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I recently watched a podcast with Dr.K on it as a guest about it where he talks about exactly this One of them being loneliness. He ties to male suicide -- which has always been higher among men but we're noticing it now because it's getting worse. Highly reccomend to give that one a watch if you're genuinely curious or not just trolling as to why "lol these guys just don't fix it themselves". What hobbies and activities are you taking up to engage with other people who enjoy the same things as …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:54 PM
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Half the titles on pornhub are mom/sister taboo Why do you think that's the case.. What Porhub (and MindGeek) pushes to people who come to that site is pretty interesting. Remember when PornhubKatie had a little freudian slip/said the quiet part out loud? . There's some shady shit going on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:44 PM
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Earliest one I remember is Zyzz. Sadly died from an undiagnosed heart defect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:56 PM
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that nevertheless don't revolve around self-hatred. I've noticed this on reddit quite often. Any postive male space either goes full redpill and then gets quarantined or it gets full self hatred and it pretty much kills any discussion. The lack of such positive spaces leads unaware men into sinkholes like Tate. Doesn't help that zoomer influencers (Adin Ross) fell for it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:50 PM
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Is this a new reddit thing? After third party mobile apps got slashed I switched to the mobile website instead, and have been using old reddit on PC. I don't see any suggested content at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:43 PM
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I mean, the reality for a lot of these men is that there is no father in the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:28 PM
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And yet, men invariably choose porn with a shaved vulva. Because... In fact, it’s actually difficult to find porn with pubic hair. You almost have to search for it. Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:53 PM
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One thing I heard someone say was "Find the most attractive girl that's fun to hang around with". More often than not it's not the attractive ones. You could call it settling or call it "dating for personality".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:32 AM
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Because otherwise the other mods will quarantine and then ban your subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:31 AM
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And unless he dodges taxes his status as a worker bee definitely "helps out" society
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:32 PM
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but I believe straight men are the primary perpetrators of homophobia. It's actually perpetrated by gay men who are deeply in the closet. Straight men who are comfortable with their own sexuality are often the least homophobic. It's why you tend to see more homophobia in the marginalized male communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:52 PM
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I'm a pretty committed and monogamous guy so that wouldn't really work out. Different types of people. I'd be willing to give it a shot, but I wouldn't expect it to last any long amount of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:11 AM
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People move from app to app, so you have to move with the meta. Makes sense when you look at these stats too, people went from Tinder to Bumble and then to Hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:44 AM
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There's a lot of socially isolated people out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:43 AM
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"If a man could fuck a women in a cardboard box he wouldn't buy a house"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:47 PM
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You'd be surprised how high the standards of unattractive people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:18 PM
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I was trying to joke about you saying "I got approached at the gym" it's so simple! While in general that's a huge nono because of all the posts of "how do I stop getting harassed at the gym". And as a nod to all the idiots who'd interpret this with no nuance thinking "oh so I CAN harass women at the gym". Any guy doing it must've been nervous as hell. It's a simple experience for you but I bet it wasn't for him lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:05 PM
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I got approached at the gym yesterday Approaching at the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:12 PM
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but we need to but in the hard work if it ever will go forward My general approach is always just to have fun and joke around and not take it all too seriously. I don't work too hard at it until I know I've got a chance. Some people complain about how "little" effort someone else can put in and I understand that but it's a difficult thing. I don't want to waste my time (or hers for that matter). so many other ways to get what you once only could with having to date and etc... The western world i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:06 PM
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The dynamic even plays out in the comments here, nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:49 AM
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I'm in my mid 20's (not obese) and I've already seen too many videos of people's face literally being blown off by drone grenades in trenches that nobody can get me within a mile of a warzone. Modern times have really opened up the reality of what war is. Everyone has a phone nowadays and videos come out of warzones regularly. Not even to account for veterans and the stories they tell. There's have to be some serious danger for sure. BUT I also grew up low income, I'd be honest that if I lived i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:57 AM
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A good amount of healthy suspicion is warranted. I agree with the replies in that regard. There's some truth in it but isn't all doom and gloom like people here often say it is. You are young so I could definitely see a person wanting to take advantage and that's always worth looking out for. Having a group of friends to look out for you and each other really helps. That's of course, common sense. It's an experience I really don't get as a guy but in general. But people, man or women are not as …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:35 PM
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Why would anyone spend time writing an essay on reddit just to agree with you? You should know that when you make a discussion here you're going to get a lot more engagement from people who disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:48 PM
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You bring up a good point. The percentage of people hating themselves is definitely lower here. That's for sure. I remember frequenting a weird male dominated subreddit years back that was just full on self-flaggelation. Can't quite recall the name. Menslib maybe? "Men are this, men are that, we need to this, we need to be that, we can't change this". Just all the tropes. Sort of an echo-chamber for self-hatred. Maybe it's improved in the last years idk but that place was bad. There's something …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:53 AM
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They know you're single. Am I the only one that thinks they were just teasing you? I would've definitely responded in a joking manner or try to play it up for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:28 AM
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It's fine for the most part. Just a few weird outliers but you'll always have those.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:40 PM
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there are a lot more men in my class but they leave alot to be desired. I feel for women in CS. One of my group members at the time had a sister and she specifically requested a transfer to our class because of him and the creepy shit she had to deal with. Not fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:13 PM
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when it has no real effect on them except knowing that they can't have kids anymore. That's a pretty big effect you know. Women go through entire mid-early life crisis when they know they can't anymore. Recent example, Jennifer Aniston. What's not a big deal to you might be a big deal to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:00 PM
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Do keep in mind reddit doesn't represent mainstream society. It's just a subset of a subset of people. The interactions I have here are sometime so far outside the reality of the things I experience going out with friends that I sometimes wonder if I'm just anomaly -- or it's the people here who are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:23 AM
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It's just all in the timing. You can easily just omit it and then when push comes to shove deliver it in a good way. If she likes you enough, she'll understand, especially when you're both vulnerable. There's a way to do it...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:30 PM
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This is truer than you think. I'm no social butterfly but I had the same problem. Once I let go of thinking people don't like me or people giving me "judgemental" looks (me reading too much into it). It became a much better experience. It's pretty insane how much those thoughts can occupy your mind. You're so busy with how you appear that you sorta "isolate" even within a crowd and people can sense that. The key for me is to just have fun. I'm still no "chick magnet" but if I'm at a club it's ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:00 PM
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That's just people in general though. I know a guy who I go out with quite a bit and if had a nickle for every time half the group would flake I'd be rich. And that's mixed gender group obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:42 PM
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I do, actually. But I understand not everyone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:59 PM
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Doesn't China do government mandated dating? They'd host "festivals" for young singles to meet each other. Not even that bad of an idea to combat loneliness among my generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:45 AM
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Unless you're joking, his post history says he's 40. Hasn't had sex since 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:38 AM
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Your friends don't even try to hook you up anymore or they don't know?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:33 PM
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No, All those horny dudes live in a malaise and long for the chaos that that collapse will bring. Just another demographic that will enjoy seeing the system that screws them over collapse, and fucking everyone over, including themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:25 AM
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Yeah, Men don't often have a good way to vent their emotions. Zoomers like me are getting much better at it, but we're also getting increasingly more isolated and lonely. Which you know, leads to women being really surprised when a dude opens up. We do bear quite a lot on out shoulders by ourselves, and women aren't used to having to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 02:25 PM
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The ones that were actually struggling probably didn't answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:10 PM
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It's a profound sense of always being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:42 AM
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Fat women on there can make themselves believe the men care. It's a sad thing to see. To them, the ONS are a form of validation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:31 AM
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No, Reddit is too neutered. You can't really say anything too controversial here or you get banned. Now if my discord or chan comments get leaked I'll be in way more trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:19 PM
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the ideal female body is slim No. No it isn't. You're not ideal just because you learned to put down the plate after one serving lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:52 PM
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I get this vibe from your post that women somehow don't have any agency in this. Men need to do this, do that, take responsibility for this.. I like to think that when I have a partner we can communicate openly about issues in our relationship. If we can't than that's a bad sign. My partner can think for themselves and stand up for themselves. I expect that from my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:20 PM
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They do! It just isn't something you can do willy nilly. And you know, not everyone is looking to be treated like a combination of money bag / white wash potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:22 PM
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Some people make things seem effortless. Nobody sees the years of work that goes into something they just see the end result and say "Wow, that guy is so talented!" "He just gets it".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:56 PM
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Nobody likes being considered a pity case.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:10 PM
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working in fast food . The girl was on the heavier side Employee discount codes make you a HVM in some circles
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:09 PM
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lot of women are as much racist as guys in general. They just hide it with better PC language What I've noticed that in the day and age of "PC" people don't become less racist, they just learn how to cloak their language so it isn't apparent. Men have caught onto this and do the same thing, I catch myself on it every once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:19 AM
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Hormones. Testosterone is one hell of a motivator. I remember a FtM transition thread where someone talked about seeing a bare leg and getting horny after going on TRT.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:35 PM
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They don't. It's just that as soon as the "right" man comes around they'll suddenly forget every red flag... They don't want to be objectified, but seem very quick to overlook it happening when the right person comes around. aka 'never stick your dick in crazy' for the male crowd..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:07 PM
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What does she "need" to hear, that she is ugly? Two extremes. So no. OLD is a big waste of time Good thing she wasn't using OLD and was specifically talking about her and friends being in public! At bars, clubs , with friends etc. You probably got confused by "profile". I meant reddit profile! but for most of us average people (which to me is what she sounds like) OLD is a big waste of time. Yep, I don't use it either 😉 Feeding her delusions about how "amazing she looks!" isn't helping either. J…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:33 PM
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I saw a thread recently about a women who couldn't understand why she didn't get approached like their friends did in public. It was on female-oriented subreddit so I didn't comment because it's obviously out of place. One of the comments said that "the pictures on your profile look good, and she couldn't understand either". Then I looked and it was a 5/10 face with a chubby body. I felt so bad for her. They kept telling her what she wanted to hear -- but it wasn't what she needed to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:37 PM
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Yes she did
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:41 PM
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Maybe the websites themselves push it? Seems like it, remember when they called people on reddit anti-semetic for pointing out that the website eerily seems to push incest porn on people?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:31 PM
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I never thought about it like this until I read this comment.. It's modern flashing. As with Cum tributes it's just a fetish. Interesting how modern times have made it that much easier to do such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:27 AM
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should work to be doing it genuinely So what, Stockholm Syndrome? You cannot fake love. And such a thing does not develop out of nothing -- or nowhere. It already exists, and flourishes. If you're not open to doing it for child x than you can't force yourself to do so. Again, I'm of the opinion that that damages the child more, and ends up giving it it a very warped sense of what a healthy relationship is. Just like parents "staying together for the kids" it ends up causing more damage than it p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:54 PM
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The worst thing you can do is bring a child into the world that you cannot take care of. And the second worst thing you can do is raise a child without love. The second is something you can't force any man to do -- lest you damage the child even more. Thus, what do you expect said "man" to do? Fake it? That always works out well for the child, gets a great concept of what a father figure means... The "step daddy" stereotype exists for a reason, and you don't want to give a child that experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:39 PM
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“most guys wouldn’t actually go for the girls who look like the girls they jack off to in porn. It’s a double standard” Because they're not attractive. Porn is all about facades. Out of all the porn actresses i'd have ever watched I can maybe mention 2 i'd actually go for. They all look a bit... damaged? What I jack off to has only a slight influence on who'd i'd consider GF material (or even hookup material) IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:33 PM
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It's not like if you stop using online dating apps you'll be single for your entire life. lol. I know a guy like that, he's about my age ~mid twenties. He just took a break. Stop using the apps, focus on his degree. I imagine once that's over he'll give dating in whatever form he so chooses another shot. I have way too much price too old -- but that might bite me in the ass too later on. As I'm also focussed on getting my degree. It is one of those cases where you'll find someone -- assuming you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:29 AM
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Black Flag was a good game because it wasn't an assassins creed game. The moment you get off the boat is when the game turns into the same boring mess the older games are. They should've made a pirate game by now, Rogue was close but i'd love a game like it without the whole assassin spin on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:02 PM
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This is obviously some cherry picking from me but these are comments in this thread alone. It's whichever flavor of nightmare you decided to pull from the dumpster that is "men." in like 99.999% of cases. . and now most only offer porn/gaming addictions and male-centred sex (when their dick isn’t broken from masturbating constantly to porn). . This calls for men to take an active role in the relationship -- to be an emotional pillar, to do household chores, and to act in the interests of others.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:02 PM
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Reminds me of a blog that said "unsuccessful men probably have some form of un-diagnosed Autism". Real easy to label people I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:20 PM
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Social media hasn't made it easier to meet people in a genuine way, and I always find the dating apps more of a barrier than anything else. Maybe they're just rare? I find it's just more difficult to meet people genuinely -- especially women. But, that might be just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:40 PM
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I live in the country with the tallest dudes! Men are on average 6" over here. I'm 9/10 always one of if not the shortest dude in the group. Don't get me wrong, I just used the term jokingly. I personally stopped caring about my height ages ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:48 AM
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I never believed this at first. I'm a manlet --- 5"7 -- but when I saw a dude a few inches shorter than me I realised how much that might suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:25 AM
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Honestly, they could do the same thing they did in China. Mandatory "socialisation events". Like this Instead of adopting an "out of sight out of mind" mentality using censorship. To create opportunities for the youth. The League would carry out events and activities by cooperating with other social organizations in order to expand the youth’s social circles. To promote matchmaking services. The League would coordinate relevant government departments to promote legal matchmaking services and com…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:38 AM
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That has nothing to do with the guy's job though. You could've been compatible either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:38 AM
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So I just get a good education and a career so I can pay taxes that get funneled to deadbeat single moms in section 8 housing? I don't think so!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:16 PM
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I wonder how many people even bothered to look on the forums. Just a few extremists, really
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:00 AM
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Why do you think they show it in movies so much? PAY THE BILL.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:11 AM
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Asmongold. Streamer and self-admitted animal. Basically said his "girlfriend tried to change me, but it didn't work out". Some women just love a project!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:05 PM
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TURNING THE STRAIGHT GUY Is a huge fetish/meme. I wouldn't be surprised if it's common to lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:22 AM
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Isn’t this just simple math? The bigger the group of single women gets the bigger the group of complainers also gets. Plus social media amplifies the ‘ol in group bias. It’s easier than ever to find your little hugbox on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:47 AM
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I don't believe so. There's many more voices on social media that flat out ignore -- or push down movements like this. See : Any drama involving Terry Crews. Talk about how men who lack a father figure in life have a severe setback? You're downplaying the role of single mothers. There's always some other group or some other issue that takes precedence. Black men especially, have trouble with embracing homosexuality going so far as to shame people like Terry for being a victim of sexual assault. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:36 PM
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They always seem to fall flat. Most men I know joke about each other’s height (manlet) and fitness but most of that is in jest. The moment any of us improves we mention that and encourage each other. Why does it then fall flat the moment it gets into public discourse? It never gians any traction. My best guess is that the platforms that often help amplify these voices (twitter) either consciously or subconsciously suppress these movements and ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:37 PM
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It's probably a fake reddit story but I remember reading one about a dude (accidentally) getting into a fight with a guy over disrespecting his girl or something. He got so beat up she broke up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:35 PM
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Anything that contradicts this, anything that renounces to those core beliefs and terms will inevitably be accused of misogyny. Anything that contradicts this will straight up get banned. They made a "blacklist" of subjects they didn't want to discuss and if you even brought it up you got banned. It's how I got banned because I went "wait a minute". This was years ago though. Was pretty funny in hindsight and I'm glad I'm gone. It was becoming a very toxic place. I couldn't find the "list" on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 07:24 PM
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A lot of these men have to deal with the economic circumstances they grew up in, and it’s no surprise it takes longer and longer to get your shit together which leads to getting a girlfriend or boyfriend also taking longer and longer. For instance, I can probably look forward to earning 3ish grand a month*, with (maybe, depends on how long I still take) 15-40 grand in student debt. Then add to that the average house price being 400.000 euros. The average mortgage I would be able to get is 160K. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:43 PM
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The difference os that all of these things are things woman have control over and men don't. Sure, there's some unorthodox surgeries out there but the majority of men isn't going to get them. Maybe age is the only exception but even that is used as an example by women to debunk "the wall". Because someone who takes care of their body, eats healthy is gonna look a lot better than someone who doesn't. For women it's honestly more about maybe boob size, body type and maybe skin colour? I honestly d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:19 AM
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Of course they SHOULD. I'm not arguing that. I totally agree with you in that many men could benefit from a good therapist But you're acting like it's just a simple thing. It isn't a simple thing to admit you need it and actually go out and get it. It's that barrier that men need help with removing. It's easy to say "just go to your GP" or "go to this website". But I think men find it incredibly difficult to admit to themselves they need help -- and then secondly to actually go out and get it. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:23 PM
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This is not about me, you keep deflecting. You don’t sound like you’re alright. That's basically saying you have a disorder. Which you shouldn't do. I'm talking about what the various reasons are a guy doesn't wanna visit a therapist. But no, of course you don't consider anybody could put themselves into someone else's position. That was wrong with your entire premise from the start. Have some empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:10 PM
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None of this has to do with me. If you wanna adhere to whatever you want to think so be it. But please, DO NOT go ahead and diagnose people on the internet. That's a big no-no. You don’t sound like you’re alright Especially using that as an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:55 PM
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“Men are alone” isn’t a reason for not going to therapy and actualizing on one’s life guy. It is, it very much is. Going to therapy isn't easy. Why do you think interventions exist? People flee to gaming to eating to masturbating to anything to numb themselves to the misery they're in. And usually it's your friends or your family or anybody close to you knowing you to such a level they can see that and go "huh, are you all right?" If that doesn't happen you're likely to flee. Tell yourself your …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:08 PM
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Oh yeah, most men. Might as well be the same. Won’t answer to your strawman. I can answer those for you like I did before. Men are alone. They aren’t lazy, they aren’t useless. They’re alone. And that makes it so so difficult to get help and work on these things. Is that the sole issue, no. It’s probably a combination of many issues. Like societal pressure, lack of a father figure (set me back 5 years), lack of deep friendships etc. And how do you solve all of those things? I wish I knew. If it …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:18 PM
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I’ll completely ignore your “all men” tirade because it’s entirely dishonest. Yeah, it can hardly be conflated with “pick yourself up by your bootstrap” but if you just pick yourself up by your bootstraps and go into therapy…. Thats the entire issue isn’t it? Why do men not go to therapy? Why do men commit suicide at higher rates? Why do they carry all this weight with them and escape to coping mechanisms like gaming or masturbation? Just blaming this all on “guys are just lazy” is the exact pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:56 PM
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Men tend to personally be blamed and at the same time patronised for even trying to blame some outside factor. With the system also comes the measure to defend itself and to the ever individual man going against that will end up being worse for the man in question. Every movement is either labelled as “problematic” or devolves into self-flagellation see TRP for the former and menslib for the latter. That “Pick yourself up by your bootstrap” mentality needs to die as well. It only causes men to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:17 PM
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Real estate always look more attractive when it isn't for sale.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:24 PM
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A lot of it is just justifying your own perspective as the one everyone has. Because of course everyone is just like all the people in my social circle. A lack of empathy -- which someone brought up in a post a while ago -- probably contributes even more to that bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 04:25 PM
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Men consistently outperform women on spatial tasks Men tend to have higher spatial intelligence. It's probably not a case of being more attractive but just a case of being more equal in intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 04:00 PM
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Ah you know, it's no different from entertainment that caters to the male fantasy. I enjoy it, so I understand women probably get off of this. It is what it is. It's not a good look, obviously. But watch anything that caters to the male fantasy and watch women's hamster wheels go "You men are just objectifying me, are we just walking pussies to you?!?!" or something similar. Bill burr always has some funny bits about female revenge
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 11:48 PM
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Just talking about the risk. You ask men didn't have it harder. It just adds a slight percentage in risk for a certain demographic. Which I think is one of the reasons women complain about men not approaching anymore. That and the obvious anti-social development that has happened recently. And I don't think many women care about being labelled a slut anymore. Half of them have an onlyfans ....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:06 PM
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I'm not talking about rape. I'm talking about bring labeled a creep. False rape accusations are a non issue, and a statistical anomaly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:08 PM
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Neither are very common, and not what I meant. I was saying that it's generally more risky now for men to olay the field. Unless they're so hot of course it doesn't matter. Women generally see this as a good thing as it supposedly wards off creeps and other undesirables but it also has made the more "average" dude less likely to approach. More than ever it's important to be set-up by friends and acquaintances.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:27 PM
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Have you considered the implication of women being so overwhelmingly paranoid? (nowadays) There's one thing about the male dating experience you forgot to mention ; being ostracized. That's the one thing I'm personally terrified of. Doing something wrong to the point where a women becomes uncomfortable, that spreading around (bc women) and then you're basically fucked unless you move to some new ecosystem. Of course in some ways this is really good. It filters out creeps. But it might filter out…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:01 PM
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Salary comparison by country is kinda difficult. I'd probably earn around 40K in my own country with my job. But in the US i'd easily earn double that doing the same thing, it's why I put 80K in as my income. Costs of living are much higher in the US but you also earn "much more". It sorta balances itself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 05:55 PM
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I mean an actual family not; "I'm the fun auntie"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:35 AM
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That's because we want to do what we want so we can do the things we want to do. Wouldn't they choose this path because of the freedom it gives them to make their own future and then they regret it afterwards? Because what, the grass is always greener like supremekai is saying? Or because they just don't know what they wanted in the first place? I refuse to believe women's happiness is in such a decline because they've gotten the same 30's as men do. Maybe ignorance was bliss.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:42 PM
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Because then they'd be happy and we wouldn't have this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:33 PM
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I think there is though. Either it's a societal expectation, an expectation from feminism or something... That every women should get a degree or a career. Maybe it's herd behaviour... But there's a lot of women out there who chose to prove they can do everything a man can just to end up childless over 30. I've honestly seen way happier women in my poor community. These women often get their basic diploma's in their early 20's get a job and settle down with kids in their mid 20's. They might not…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:13 PM
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->Because Asian women in Asia don’t like losers either There is a point where as a dude you're not a loser, but you're not 'attractive' to white woman either. Ie. you just got your degree and you make good money but you're still a 5'5 manlet. You're not a loser by any other measure than your own looks. That's why he mentions: Moneymaxx and go to Asia. That's why that's so key. The only thing going to Asia does is throw your inherit value up by a few points. That might make you go from a western …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:48 AM
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So you're saying manlets can get away with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:41 AM
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Women are never truly on their own. They do better single, but it's not equivalent because women tend to have a well developed social safety net.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 04:00 PM
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Numbers on dating apps are very easy to inflate. One dude can like an infinite amount of women, assuming he has the time. Not only that, the dating apps themselves can create bots with seemly real people (just like this). Therefore, even if a mass exodus would happen the service can still inflate the number of people on the app and it in reality would only take a few hundred cOOMERS to like thousands of women. Women who'd join would still get dozens of likes compared to the few hundred men that …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:42 PM
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I'm white and I do not think it likely that we are the top of the pyramid in average abilities of almost any kind. No, the jews skews our IQ score up too high. We're on par with everyone else without them. Which the racists always fail to mention of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:42 PM
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They either don't meet them, or the less attractive women are too insecure (stonewalling) or they have one of the big deal breakers ie. they're overweight... or those women aren't in their social circles... The reasons could go on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 10:31 PM
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Because men don't want to date porn stars, strippers or sex phone operators.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:30 PM
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*don't stick around and pay alimony. Or even better, don't pay anything at all because there's nothing to get. Women know how to pick em
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 02:57 PM
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Most are not. Well that's irrelevant. If they got a degree in "Software Engineering" they're an engineer. If you don't want that confusion to arise then define some standard every engineering degree has to minimally have and hold universities to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 04:32 PM
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Then don't call their bachelor "Software Engineering"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:44 PM
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It was a joke. It's a meme that's been floating around for a while now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:49 AM
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They have their dogs for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:36 AM
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They just don't want to hurt your feelings. Or If they're of the really paranoid sort, they don't want to end up dead in a ditch.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:11 AM
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Same deal, hispanic is still higher tier. Just a shit test, not hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:58 PM
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Nope. That video says it all. Even tall black dude gets rated lower. Asian dude too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:52 PM
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Manlets are fine assuming they're white.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:50 PM
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(some) women are all for men acting openly feminine, that way they know who to friendzone first
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 06:49 AM
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I think you should stay even more away from men, because many women to the point where it's a stereotype... pick the wrong guy either way. The odds are NOT in your favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 10:12 PM
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Yeah, as a "boyfriend" you're probably are going to be paraded around at some point. If you as a dude -- or as a boyfriend -- can't think of anything she'd brag about to her girlfriends about you, it's probably bad news.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 07:34 PM
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No experience is a red flag. So for the sake of being able to say I just got out of a bad relationship I'd see a lot of men doing it. If you have been in a relationship though, there's no reason to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 11:51 AM
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Since i think it's safe to assume most of the men here aren't seeking marriage I actually would want a committed LTR. Women who engage in casual sex often aren't the type of women you want LTR's with. Too damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 07:28 PM
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getting ready for early retirement at 43. Nice cars, 4000 sq ft house, and completely debt free. He'd probably get dates if he flaunted all off that. Does he keep it under wraps? I would though. So I imagine he does too out of pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 07:15 PM
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Well yeah nobody is denying that. Even if you look like he does and are 6'7 you still can fuck yourself over if you're too insecure apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:38 PM
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Did you read the post? did my best to LEARN how to be engaging, funny, creative in text. I only ever told like 3-4 girls about my lack of experience, and none of them ended well. They either didn't believe me, ghosted me or the combination of these. I really quickly gave up on the idea of being honest. He definitely figured out it was a big red flag and learned to hide it It's what I would do too. Fake it till you make it. He got rid of the ineptitude real fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:35 PM
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... catch 22 then? And it's not really social ineptitude. It's just being a bit awkward. Unless you're a proper autist you pick up on that stuff real fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:31 PM
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Socially awkward and mostly hanging with other socially awkward dudes = recipe for disaster. Look at those pictures. You can see the fact that he think he's ugly in his expression. That's a pained smile if i've ever seen one. If you carry that burden around with you all the time even trying to date is not even going through your mind. All of your thoughts are focussed on If I just achieve this, if I just look like this, if I just work on this... THEN .. And before you know it you're nearing your…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:22 PM
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You can see the insecurity in his face. Almost looks like harold. But this just proves that even if you look decent (he looks good tbh) unless you actually go out and DATE in whatever shape you fancy nobody will come to you. This mostly is the case for everyone but especially guys. We tend to be the "lonelier" sex so even starting to date at 28 is not surprising. A modern social media powered society is really good at making you insecure about yourself -- and that's not just a thing happening to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:21 PM
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No. Just a societal one. Wars and conflict has always been fought by men. So that naturally inclines society to shame men who don't "protect" women. But then again, you could kill someone in broad daylight and the only thing that would happen is that a crowd would gather filming video's to post on twitter with the caption "Why isn't anyone doing anything?!?!" That massacre you mentioned .... The men were forced out of the classroom at gunpoint. No way am I going to offer up my life for half a cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:28 AM
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Then you do have a type. looked so fun which became simple, easy, emotionally mature, security, stability It's the classic tale of a women getting older.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:12 AM
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It's almost like you chase men that aren't your type and men chase women that aren't their type. Everyone wants what they can't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 07:59 PM
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My 60 year old dad That might be a generational thing. I already notice the shift within millenials and zoomers (my generation) and I don't do it much personally either (I just ignore them). But yeah, women tend to have to deal with that stuff more. Men just get ignored as well. Which, whether you're male or female isn't fun either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 07:40 PM
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I feel the majority of men/boys are more likely to target or laugh at women/girls they find legit ugly, Only when they're younger. As men get older it obviously shifts (because penis) and the ugly women just flat out get ignored. Obviously there's still the comments you receive on social media from incel-types but I don't like to count those as they tend to shit on women as a whole. But more often than not it just manifests itself as being more aloof toward them (because men do pretty women favo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:09 AM
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Sometimes it isn't even other women, it's themselves. The amount of threads I've seen come by about "I'm insecure about my body, my SO thinks I'm ugly, disgusting, horrible" or some variant of that is almost sad. And almost every time the husband goes "Wait what?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:05 AM
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The type of men that women want to be in a relationship with become even less common.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:21 PM
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I think they realise the danger inherit in all men given a certain context. Whether a 5"6 manlet or a 6" chad is coming at you from the other side of the street you're gonna be scared either way. But when it goes outside of those very obvious situations they (without knowing) downplay how strong men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 12:27 PM
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Men are naturally going to be more horny, And what happens when you're not? The problem with this is always is that men are indeed not monolithic. You paint this picture of a guy who's constantly been rejected and therefore turns to porn. But it's way more nuanced than that. It could be that the dude uses porn because he doesn't want to put any effort into sex. Sex is not a pump and dump 5 minute activity like masturbation is. It's probably the female opposite of starfish sex, doing a quicky to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 04:41 PM
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Oh you're talking from the perspective of a jaded woman. Yeah i get what you mean, creeps will be creeps and the best thing to do is just to not give them an opening. But i think even that won't stop some guys. They'll find a way... But that was my bad. Misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 04:02 PM
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Yeah, but who would? Most of the men you're talking about flat out ignore said advice And you don't need the number. Social media exists. Women get harassed on there plenty too. Why make this point at all? Creeps are creeps. They're not known for self reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 03:52 PM
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Because the media focuses too much on the school shooter stereotype which is often guys like this. While in reality it's just a random looking dude. Could be anyone. There's news stories all the time of a guy (often chad-ish) who end up killing their girlfriends. And I always think, which I really shouldn't, "Why didn't you see this coming?" Love is indeed blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 11:02 AM
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I have yet to meet a women that does that... But it's utterly useless advice , the men who do that won't respond to it. It's just women who say "men, we don't want dick pics". It's like "yeah, most men know that". It's preaching to the choir. Men like that don't give a shit and will continue not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 10:57 AM
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then women make a lot less, and men start making more. Women make about 20% less. It used to be 40%. Half of the bias is already gone! And with Millenial men (and later) wanting to spend more effort on raising kids the gap could shrink even more. But fathers.. ... tracing the demise of the fatherhood bonus. Fathers don’t earn more than their childless peers anymore; they earn less. Depending on the variables being considered, in 2018, men with children earned as much as 13% less as those without…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:25 AM
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That's what I'm trying to say. If I sound convoluted then that's my fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 10:10 AM
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Google was sued recently because they still tracked you despite that mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:05 PM
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Remember : Google caters its results to You All I get is studies is saying men don't actually ask for custody Or .gov sites with actual statistics. The law firms that do show up argue in favour of male custody and say it's actually more common nowadays due to women also being in the workforce. The only thing remotely close to propaganda is one link to an MRA blog. If you click on that you know what you're getting into. But to say "it's pushed propaganda by google" is total bullshit. It's just pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:19 PM
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Video games aren't a hobby they're a waste of time. I have other passions and interests as well, but I don't talk about them on reddit, which is also a waste of time. I also live my own ISIS fantasy by playing airsoft and I work on my own cars, I like to cook as well ... which I thought was normal, but meeting some women that can't even make a simple dish... not so much. Have a hobby. A hobby that actually makes you go out and meet people, that doesn't involve your computer, and that at least is…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 02:03 PM
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What they really means is : "Go join these activities so you learn to talk to women in a less professional setting, doing that will teach you to be confident and not awkward around women which will increase your chance of meeting someone of the opposite sex whether through those people introducing you to said women or you meeting said women somewhere else. Having a hobby also gives your boring ass something to talk about".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 01:17 PM
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Mine. I judge people by my own standards. I'm healthy pretty much, just a little bit in the lower weight range. I expect my partner to be roughly similar. Obviously, if she's fat out lifestyles won't match. If she's really fit then she might not "feel like" I'm putting as much work into the relationship as she is. If you have a list you're shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 12:24 PM
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You could reverse the genders in these posts and make the same exact point about women. What women men actually feel entitled to an attractive women with big tits women with 6 figures? Maybe a handful of real women men & the made up women men scorned loser men bitter women make up sure, but it's hilariously delusional if you think ALL women men feel "entitled" to this. Maybe women men desire this, much like how most women desire a 6 foot man with a six pack making six figures men desire a super …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 08:04 AM
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Being desired is only an issue if you aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:21 PM
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If all I had to bring to the table Then you wouldn't be a good partner. Men would go "wow, she looks good I'd love to give it a try and see if we can form a connection". And then that would never happen. And it would be over. As opposed to the other way around "Oh, she doesn't take care of her body, I would never date someone like that" and nothing happens at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:42 AM
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Male stereotypes still exist. Men are still expected to be their own rock. Although bro-love is becoming more of a thing. Which is great. But they still exist. Women don't have that problem. I have no issues being alone during corona. Because I've spent years alone. And it sucked. It sucks now, but I've had way worse. Maybe the source is simply "Oh now during corona you have it bad? I've been alone for the last decade, why do you deserve empathy?". Not even to speak of (some) women that then say…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 06:10 PM
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Wasn't a serious reply. You shouldn't get so emotional over people's takes. It makes it sound like you have to justify your own marriage, and makes you sound insecure. There's no need. If you're happy you're happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 03:55 PM
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Feeling buyer's remorse?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 03:44 PM
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It'll be a coping mechanism. It's not going to replace anything but for a certain group of people it'll be enough to keep you going. Will it change the dynamic? Maybe. Japan is already pretty far ahead in shamelessly commercializing intimacy. A lot of men could get by. I just hope that when it happens women won't shame it, because it doesn't need to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 09:30 PM
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You ladies will never be mommy, will never be sweetheart, will never be the blushing bride, will never be granny. Have fun paying the single mom tax. You're gonna pay for it one way or another. One game where you can win is to go full NEET.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 10:03 PM
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And then it's time for payback.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 10:01 PM
1

A shot is still better than living through that misery. It's like a war. You take a chance, you may die, but you know you took that shot. You didn't slave away until your were 80 and went "well at least I knew I was weak and I was safe". That's no life worth living. You have to do some serious mental gymnastics inside your head to justify being happy that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 09:50 PM
1

he completely resented it. Shame, not resentment. It's shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 09:48 PM
1

It would also gives the poor and ugly ones a shot and re-rolling the dice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 09:38 PM
2

The key to the whole "standards" thing is : Don't complain when people can't measure up That's single aunt territory. That's all you have to remember. Just be aware of the consequenses of your own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 09:21 PM
5

That's almost the same chance of you dying of a gun related assault. And there's no-one who's against guns because of that right? I'd still consider 1 in 400 a pretty big risk. But that's all based on your own perspective of course. It's the difference between dying of getting shot, or drowning. chances
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 03:05 PM
2

Biological Clock. And the law of "risk" which I saw on a Vsauce video. Everyone says they're average but when it comes to risk they don't think average things will happen to them. Effectively downplaying the risk factor. So then it becomes really easy to rationalise to yourself to take that risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 03:00 PM
3

Normally you are getting in a marriage, because you think you are a good fit. In most cases you have even lived together and it’s just a formality anyways That seems a rather shallow look at something really deep. If it indeed is just a formality why marry at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 02:55 PM
1

It is sad yeah. Of course it can't replace real intimimacy. But when some men do this when they experience it I can't blame some of them of opting out when they decide.. due to low self esteem or they figure it out it just isn't gonna happen the way they want it to. That's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:09 PM
1

Men also desire a purpose in life. But instead of finding one a lot of them sit inside, masturbate, and play video games. They'd like to have a purpose. But they're content despite that. A lot of people would also desire to be healthy. But instead they eat like shit, are sedentary, overweight. And they're content with that. Couldn't that be the same with a Blade runner style VR experience or a very interactive sex doll? For a lot of men it might just be fine. You get the type of woman you want, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:47 PM
5

But then you have to ask yourself... Is it changing actually a symptom of society going through an evolution, or it degeneration?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:42 PM
5

It's weird to sort of see a double standard here. If women are allowed to abort a child against the biological fathers wishes a man should have the option to "abort" the child financially. That would be fair. I'd argue it would have to be more than just financially, no contact, no money, nothing. Restraining order, the whole deal. Out of her life. Because otherwise, only the woman has an out. The guy never does. It almost makes me think of the stereotype of women always avoiding responsibility a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:22 PM
1

You deserve tolerance, respect is earned. What you think is respect IS tolerance. reated fairly, or to have dignity, or to go about your day without someone going out of their way to be mean to you, or to not have your basic autonomy violated That is not respect. That is tolerance. willingness to accept behaviour and beliefs that are different from your own, although you might not agree with or approve of them And part of that acceptance is treating everyone with a basic sense of decency. I hate…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 11:03 PM
1

Yes. You're describing TOLERANCE. Which is my point. Everyone gets the basics. That's normal, after all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 09:38 PM
2

Tolerance isn't the same as respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 01:18 PM
1

You hope women interpret it that way. and not OH wow this guy is so different that all those nice guy creeps. Because that's what I imagine. The one sociopath who managed to turn society's mechanism into their own benefit. Lift, work out. Get hobbies, friends, build up a social safety net. Get a good job. Build trust. LOTS of trust. And then use that trust to rape. They'll never believe her. They'll always point at the outsider incel. Like the boyfriend in op's movie. weak, evil men to prey upon…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:15 PM
1

Truly men and women have never been more equal. But that in itself makes more sense now too. With fathers getting (slightly) more rights in terms of paternity leave and such men are also more willing to pitch in. According to the Work Families Institute’s 2017 Annual Work Family Index, for instance, dads are eager to pitch in at home. “In total, 46% [of Millennials] said they would be willing to take a pay cut to achieve a better work life balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:11 PM
2

I'm not asking anyone. They're offering, they're pushing it on you. Which is I'm sure a problem with a lot of young men. They don't really know what to do, people around notice, especially family, who then offer the worst advice. And since some men don't have experience at all that's all they have to base their approach off of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 09:44 AM
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It takes a while for some men to learn that you don't ask the fish how to catch it. You ask the fisherman. (like that famous probably fake thread which a disgruntled woman made when her husband said that to his son) It's very logical for most men to arrive at the : "If women say x makes me attractive I must do X". And for most men that first women is often their moms, their sisters, friends. And that advice always tends to be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 07:03 PM
1

No. But any reasonable person shouldn't only have standards they hold their partner to but also ones they hold themselves to. I'm of the opinion that it's fair to hold a partner to the same standards you hold yourself to. So in that regard, if you start to lower yours don't be surprised your partner either does the same or they bail. It's not that you "owe" it to your partner as if they're entitled to such a thing but that you shouldn't be surprised at consequences of not doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:28 PM
4

That and the bias that occurs when you're in a healthy social group. It's effortless I just met someone through my group of friends. All the people I see don't have any issues. All the people in my social circle are doing just fine. Which I don't blame people for. You obviously paint a picture from your own experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 10:01 AM
1

Memri TV drops some serious red pills now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 07:06 PM
1

I honestly picked up quite a bit thanks to comedians. I'm a bit more "naturally" funny and witty now than I used to be.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 12:41 PM
1

Than what I heard at my really old job must've been bullshit. I specifically remember women having that exact conversation. Only reason why I can specifically recall it because I went "fuck that guy must be screwed".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:34 AM
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It takes one crazy woman interaction, and seeing one such online post That eliminates you from the dating pool entirely. Make one "creepy" mistake and that shit will spread around and everywhere you'll go women will go Hey did you see that new guy? Oh yeah, so and so from so and so told me he was a creep. Oh, too bad, seemed like a nice guy. EDIT: My point being, that's the worst part of social media. Unsubstantiated shit spreads like wildfire...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:52 PM
2

The real tough pill to swallow is that no matter how much average men improve they'll always be average. And if they aren't, they aren't average at all. You can't win. Men can't win either. Either we all as a group get better, after which women's standards just rise because the increase is the new norm, or we change, but then it's just you that's no longer average, and then you'd no longer settle for the "milsurp" women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 01:15 PM
1

They choose the right men, the first time, and the second. Just different desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 01:12 PM
1

Why is it that every oppressed class knows to fight against the status quo to achieve their goals but for some reason, this group is sitting around waiting for approval before choosing to bother to help each other. I think we try. Columbine. Sandy Hook, Virginia.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 04:34 AM
0

Not being able to maintain a long term relationship definitely is not something to be proud of and is a red flag for most women who are looking to start a LTR. Ah, the old catch-22
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 01:59 PM
4

because once I find out what their thoughts are I tend to think they are nasty and do not want to hang out. And that's the reason why men (and women to a degree too probably) stay quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 11:06 AM
-1

At that point you might as well shame an entire football team.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 08:56 AM
3

If women are god at anything it's avoiding responsibility. They (tend to) control the societal narrative. The only way it'll bit them in the ass is when women start policing other women about it. Won't happen otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 08:52 AM
51

It's so awful to immediately assume every socially awkward guy suddenly has "autism". Oh that's what it is! Autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 08:47 PM
-1

There's a chart somewhere nothing sexual attractiveness and age together. Around 12-ish is when it really starts to rise. So it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 08:10 AM
3

Yeah, well there's a limit obviously. Most cars I've owned have had issues that were basically nothing on closer inspection or something I could do myself. The moment it gets out of my own scope is when I'll bring it to a mechanic. I remember my door was stuck once, I bought a cheap interior disassembly set (plastic hooks) and as soon as I had the door panel off i head a POP and it was fixed. Imagine having took it to the mechanic? Same thing with almost everything really. Cleaning, Cooking, wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 09:17 AM
1

Some women conflate the value of their pussy with the value of their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 04:49 PM
4

That's the joke
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:14 PM
1

That last one holy moly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 03:50 PM
1

Hate them As people Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:40 PM
4

If you can't beat em, join em, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 01:55 PM
1

Just never ask why. Ignorance is bliss.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 11:58 PM
11

If you have an active social life otherwise, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 08:15 PM
1

These days having a trade is way more attractive than being an office drone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 01:40 AM
9

She's only conveying what she feels right now. Now she feels like she could be with your forever. But a few months or a year later... Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 01:32 AM
1

That's actually pretty cool. I would think it is pretty degrading to be turned into a human flesh light for most sexual encounters but if you put it in a "I'd go look at other women otherwise". It almost sounds like a great excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 05:30 PM
2

Purge week, so was meant as a hyperbolic joke. I'd rather keep my fifty grand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 05:28 PM
11

If I'm saving up 50.000 dollars for a height change surgery in China, What's your excuse? Get on a treadmill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:59 PM
1

The "who did you vote for" I can at least get. People love to jump to conclusions and attach labels to people. Plus, when I'm on a dating app where I at least have a few matches I wouldn't want to discuss something I'd be better able to articulate in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:41 PM
2

Some people find they have issues or something they need to work out before they think they can date. Usually a degree is a good example of something that comes first. Although, maybe a lesson people need to learn is that you can get into a "never enough" mindset where you'll never satisfy your own requirements and it's better to just do it now. Again, I can understand why some people say they want to focus on something else first. More often than not I think people hold themselves back and just…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:27 AM
2

Mind you this what Sarah Tiana. She's probably not the best example.....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 12:31 PM
11

The juice isn't worth the squeeze. That's the real reality. I think some men are realising they can get by on just wanking off to some thot in the internet just fine. Women complain about that too, I remember a female comedian mentioning she sees that men aren't trying to court her anymore. That's she misses the attention. I wonder if this is really a Reddit bias issue. Since you can find people here that say completely opposite things. "Reddit is pre disposed to these kind of people". Maybe the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:54 PM
11

They consider their height a non issue because they have to. It obviously IS an issue, but why would they speak truth about that? All they can do is shoot their shot and pretend it's not an issue to prop up their confidence and act like nothing's different. You have to lie to yourself at some point because otherwise it'll show. And you don't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 08:43 PM
3

That's the thing. Someone here linke the menslib subreddit and I got to reading their book reviews just to see. It didn't even take me that long to find "well then we have to dismantle capitalism and our current society" communist bullshit propaganda. Different side of the coin, same issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 08:35 PM
9

That's very femcel of you. There's enough men out there who like flat chested women, and the acne scars can be a cute thing if your face is still fine. I think you'd have to change your view to "The men i'm into aren't into flat chested women with acne scars". I know because my taste in women veers off quite bit from normal and I know "The women who I'm into aren't into me". Which is kind of boyish looking women, thin/short hair/ well defined face. They're rare enough as it is and you're lucky t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 04:35 PM
1

You don't want to be out of the game by default. You don't say "I don't have much experience" you say "I haven't had a girlfriend in a while". You don't say "well I take good care of myself but sometimes I wonder if I'm ever good enough for anybody" you say "yeah I'm probably a good 7". It's all about presentation. Nobody likes a guy who whines.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 03:12 AM
1

I'm not saying you can't. I'm saying that if you're not careful you might put too much focus on your career in lieu of "I need to get this working I can date later" And then when you do want to settle down you're scuffed. Like I said in there you need to have your priorities straight much more as a women because there's a window. And if you have that shit straight it's all good. But it's not uncommon to have women think that because of their own ... Ego? Bias?.. that they're going to have as muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 04:15 PM
1

Look, everyone has a type Being my type raises you from the boring 5 that you were to something I'd have a relationship with. The boring 5 I'd bang, but the 5 that's my type I'd commit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 06:00 AM
4

I really hope that contraceptive gel pulls through at some point..... The only way to escape rasing kids is by dodging taxes. You're paying for those little shitheads one way or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 12:21 AM
3

Does it though? Anyone who really wants to exploit women still can. You can even say it's easier now with women's insecurity on the rise due to social media and such. Playing the sociopath game has never been easier with so many more people at your fingertips. Back in the old days if people knew you were an asshole you had to move. Now you just make a new tinder account. I honestly think there's no change what so ever but that ugly men can't really take a shot anymore. Any dude who has a chance/…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 10:00 PM
5

There's another statistic somewhere often toted by countries like India that arranged marriages often end up happier than non-arranged ones. I'm sort of assuming here that said women would go "fuck I better do this because my friends are doing this too and I don't want to be the odd one out" and then when she is married she grows on said person. Now she says "I have an inflated sense of ego due to social media, I don't need to find men in my league anymore" and then she's surprised when you're a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:59 PM
1

If only it was just about sex eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 09:37 PM
3

I recently saw a women (plain looking) post pictures on a subreddit, she was obviously baiting for upvotes. When I looked at her profile all I saw were posts to "rate me" "real rate me" showing she was 29 and all she got was "looks like my aunt". Next to no upvotes at all. At some point the insecurity really sets in. And that's where some men's opportunity lies I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 10:43 AM
0

That's what dads are for right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 10:35 PM
1

Single parent households create less capable adults, sadly. Like Terry Crews himself said, growing up without a father is tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 09:10 PM
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He couldn't have walked away without those recordings. She'd destroy him if he went public. If he didn't have those recordings she'd have dragged him to the court of public opinion and have him executed. You can never just "walk away".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 07:43 PM
1

If a guy is desperate enough he doesn't care. But the danger here is that your body tends to change much quicker than your face. So if she suddenly the body take a nosedive the dude will GTFO. And she's also more likely to be pumped and dumped. Depends on the dude. I can't grow on to a 4 face. I could fake it, but not for long. For me it's the other way around, has to have at least a cute face and the body doesn't matter as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:40 AM
6

"Her face, everything but her face"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:32 AM
5

Pretty much. Reddit is just looking for excuses to get certain more controversial subreddits off the normies / advertisers radar. "A quarantined sub doesn't earn ad or Reddit gold revenue" jumps out here. They don't give a shit about other subs crossing a line because it doesn't garner any mainstream attention. Just like youtube when thet nuked gun related content. A youtuber belonging to that group posted a dozen or so links to youtube videos ranging from "how to make meth" to making gun cotton…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:21 PM
1

One of those things is completely socially acceptable and one of those is not. Which is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:12 PM
1

I use RES dark mode. I have my own flairs but everyone looks grey to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:57 AM
1

They're turning into Japan!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 12:22 AM
1

It's easier to run away from the fat guys anyway, they can't chase you that fast around corners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 04:02 PM
3

If the last dozen posts you made on other subreddits in the last month won't convince you nothing will. Why do you keep looking for external factors to change for you to get off your fat ass and do something. The only way you're going to get that happiness you deserve is by putting in work to get to where you want to be. Acting like some incel who mastubates to his own self pity isn't a viable long term solution. Shoot high, shoot low. I don't give a fuck. If you want a girlfriend right now, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 06:08 AM
1

There's major donor shortages in my country. Men don't want to do it so they had to get spunk from Eastern Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 02:49 AM
9

That's the joke. They won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 09:21 PM
8

Don't make it a point, or a big part of your identity. Women don't give a shit as long as it isn't a part of "how you look".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 11:57 AM
1

Ah, it's about being average compared to other women (in your social circle). Being truly average doesn't take work. If you're not far you're already above average in the US and the UK. Like I said, you compete with each other. Generally within your own social group, because that's who you compare yourselves to. It's not about us, or our unrealistic expectations or standards or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 04:44 PM
1

Not dressing like a granny, going to the gym and wearing a little bit of makeup isn't anything special. What I'm talking about is women who keep up with the latest fashion, who spend good money on their hair and their makeup. I don't care about a women's body so much at all as women seem to be obsessed with it. I agree in that it gives you a better chance. But that chance isn't worth the harm to their self esteem and the almost obsessive need to do it. That is powered by women and how they judge…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 04:13 PM
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What you were fed were standards defined by women. Men don't really care that much, women do. Ever read those magazines where they make up some crazy blowjob technique? It's on that level. Women compete with themselves to be prettier than each other. They were right in a way. The ones that like those standards are high value men. But there's not many of those. And if you're genetically fucked you're never going to be anything more than a fwb for guys like that. If you don't mind that, that's fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 10:39 PM
1

Yes you're a man, you're supposed to chase. Women staying passive and not getting boyfriend, now that's a rare thing. Men are thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 09:47 PM
1

Men just need to do what is expected of them. You want a reward for being a responsible father caretaker for someone else's child.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:15 AM
4

He's the one taking the picture you racist!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 08:56 PM
5

There's a good reason Jews do so well. They don't get discriminated by white people that much (stealth) AND they can blame the past just as much as the next black guy...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:59 PM
1

TRP crosses into the PUA space. I don't read the subreddit anymore (except for the sidebar) exactly because it's full of these "if she's a virgin..." Nonsense. From I've read on the blogs there are "conventions" they go to. Like the 21 convention. Which got into legal trouble for some reason but that's not the point. There are SOME TRP like meetings out there. But more often than not TRP is an individual strategy that gets you on the level where you can now befriend strong men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 05:27 AM
1

It's a "we're all poor problem" Which still makes it selfish as hell to do so, if you know you cannot raise that child the way you would want. I'm talking about women who never graduated .. and years. I still don't understand what prevents said women from just moving? From what you said it sound like there's nothing wrong with their work ethic, it's lack of job prospects that kills it. In the types of jobs where the only requirement is a GED or a high school diploma the drop out rate is very hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 09:39 PM
3

She should look at it objectively. That, raising a child in that environment and that condition is doing it more harm than good. I've seen articles everywhere about "women are having children at a later age" "marriages being postponed". Those women DO think objectively, they DO think what's best for the child. Having a kid in spite of that, behind the "backs" of all those women who wait until they have their ducks in a row.. is selfish. If you're a women like that and have no children yet, and y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 09:09 PM
2

I do find the sexist undertone of that article pretty funny. "She has to change the flat tire on her daughter’s 2004 Dodge Neon" "the responsibility of cutting the grass has fallen to [her]" That article does make a lot of sense though, as a guy if I lived in the mid-west and couldn't earn a decent living (due to being poor) I wouldn't work a dead end job for nothing. And If I couldn't get an apprenticeship or SOMETHING fulfilling going, I'd either drown my sorrow with drugs or booze or I'd kill…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 08:58 PM
2

Hormones. Endorphins. Mother Nature hasn't implemented the drown policy in women. The moment that kid pops out of her snatch that is now number 1. Kid 2.Her 3.You
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 08:46 PM
1

''Just sticking around'' is not the default right thing to do. Maybe society says so, But from my poor upbringing I've seen dads who ''stuck around'' but nontheless ignored the child uttely. It would try everything in its power just be noticed, usualy the negative kind. At that point it might've been better if he fucked off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:48 PM
1

I'm not saying it's an excuse, I'm saying it's a valid reason. The burden of performance is heavy enough to carry alone as it is, and it makes sense 1/3 of men just don't have that emotional strength. Dying parents is different. You're prepared for that already at marriage age. My mother died recently and I got over that even before she passed away because I knew it was coming. There's nothing you can do, and everyone has to watch their parents die. But for a spouse that's different because you …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:49 PM
1

Men don't have to take care in that way of anything. When suddenly your spouse takes ill many men can't handle that type of a burden. Becaude they've never had to. It's at a level.of emotion that many men don't operate at. Suddenly the dial shifts to a 9. It's easy to say ''well he wasn't going to die when I left him''. Taking care of a person in that situation is a huge burden and men just aren't up to that task. I know I wouldn't be. I see it's just as harsh for the husband to see their loved …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 10:42 PM
11

She feels like RP is a bad thing so since she feels her boyfriend is bad too, he's probably RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 07:20 PM
2

If a women struggles she's bad at communicating her desires. I can do my best but if I don't know what makes her tick and she doesn't either but solely places the responsibility of it on me (because women) you're going to have a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 12:57 PM
4

War / Climate Change / Any disaster on a global scale, really .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 01:16 PM
10

An asshole is just the creep who finally figured shit out. And if you're really unlucky he's living his own revenge fantasy right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 04:50 AM
1

Women date near their income class or higher. Men date near their income class or lower. The cultural stereotype of the male breadwinner is still a thing. We need to earn more. Utilitarian value. Women now have a problem that when men on average start earning less the amount of men at the top shrinks. Now this wouldn't be an issue if both men and women would be willing to compromise. Is that going to happen? Who Knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 12:33 PM
6

Men's feeling when all the type of women that turned him down when he was in his early 20's working his ass off that now want a piece of his assets now that he has his shit together? Looking into their eyes and knowing that all they can see is an ATM. A limitless credit card. A caretaker for someone else's kid. I'm assuming that's the closest parallel. But no equivalent. Because we aren't equal. It's about both gender's value. Men, what they make. And women, what's between their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 12:43 AM
3

Doesn't that kind of devalue the treatment you get then? When you meet a guy who doesn't even act like your obese friend is there is obviously only acting nice to you because of ulterior motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 09:43 AM
3

Male overt vs female covert.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:34 PM
6

It isn't ALL about looks, but when you can only LOOK it's all you have. The tinder problem. Looks are a barrier to entry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:26 PM
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They're socially isolated. Too shy to ask, too nerdy to have self esteem. Too unfashionable to give a shit. Too skinny to bother because they're too lazy to eat. Too fat to bother because they'd rather make love to a burger. The only thing that's stopping them is themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 09:14 PM
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I wish they would. But they don't. Don't paint society as better than it is. A close group of male peers might be open to it. But that's about it. SO's will break up with you under the guise of "you're putting a burden on me". You see these types of threads appearing on the relationship/ask subreddits frequently. Women don't want weak men, you can only open up from a position of strength. And men will knock you down the pecking order. That's the whole issue. People SHOULD respect and admire it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 09:00 PM
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Most men don't know how or don't learn though. Which is what I mean with "skilled manipulator"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 10:47 PM
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AF or BB. Pick one. You can't have both unless you're a very skilled sociopathic manipulator.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:30 PM
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Becoming a better communicator, becoming a better problem solver, becoming better with finances, becoming self aware, becoming more patient and emotionally stable, learning to enjoy children, learning what your own interests are, etc. will improve your RMV. It won't get you anywhere with online dating but it'll help you with high RMV women (maybe). That'll land you a nice single mother who's kid is just cute as hell. Because you're dad material, not ''daddy'' material
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 01:38 AM
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you can replace the reddit in the url with "removeddit" and it'll show the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 11:16 AM
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No, it's not that. He's easier to keep around. Low maintenance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 10:43 PM
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It's reminds me of that old article/documentary where a women masqueraded as a guy for a while to see what it what like. Boy was she was able to empathize after that. Lack of emotional support. Lack of support in general. EDIT: it was an old book from '06 called ''self-made man''' But I do wonder why the perspectives of FtM and MtF people are never taken that seriously when it comes to intersexual dynamic. They've experienced both sides of the sexual spectrum in a minimally biased way. They of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 08:56 AM
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The shift from ''I think that''' to ''I feel like'' is something I pay attention to as a symptom of the changing narrative as well. I get annoyed now and have to resist the urge to reply ''why do you feel that instead of thinking it?'''
/r/askTRP04/06/19 07:42 PM
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India has a caste system, STILL. India is one of the WORST places to be a women. It ain't so bad over here. You can't compare that barbaric hellhole to the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 12:32 PM
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Did those men know that? Have you ever coerced somebody to intercourse by holding them down? Could mean anything to me... That could mean "I laid on top her and she gave in" (rape) but also "I laid on top of her and she kissed me and we went along.." (not rape)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 12:13 PM
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I don't even know how many people I'd kill if I'd be able to get away with it. Same with theft. Fraud. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 10:16 AM
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But that's normal too. Women regularly ask and want that. It's a power fantasy. ''Choke me daddy'' or some equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 10:14 AM
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Was a third. Which, looking at how many women have a rape fantasy of some kind... seems entirely normal. Men should be able to have one too. We're still animals, without any form of societal pressure or punishment the world would devolve into chaos because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 10:41 PM
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It's not about the sex per se but the connection and the intimacy that brings with it. You can't compare shallow sex vs deep intimate emotional sex. Some people might not need the second and find that elsewhere. But not everyone is as lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 04:10 PM
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Lurk on the deadbedroon subreddit for a while and you'll see how much of a need it is for some. Everyone is born different and if you're Low Libido by nature so be it. But I couldn't imagine a relatiosnhip where that type of companionship and connection doesn't exist. Outside of a relationship it's a desire which I can either slightly indulge in or live without. But in a relationship it's a need. Without which it'll wither or die. It's a reason you can use to annul a marriage!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 03:34 PM
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I'm glad that she didn't do anything with the fact that she knew where you lived. She could've parked her car inside your house if she wasn't happy with you ghosting her.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 08:36 PM
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They just want be heroines.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 08:30 PM
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I got much of my funny-ness because I started listening to comedians and their podcasts. Bill Burr, Theo Von, Joey Diaz, Norm MacDonald, etc. Listening to Joe Rogan when he has someone funny on. Norm Macdonald Live. The Monday morning podcast. This past weekend. The Church of what's happening now. Most of them have guests on that are even funnier than themselves. Seeing Theo von and Riff Raff bouncing off one another was amazing. All that stuff has rubbed off on me and am now way better at crack…
/r/askTRP17/05/19 12:30 PM
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yeah fuck em. At least you found it out early. You don't want to be in a marriage and have kids, and live together for the last dozen years for him to drop that bomb. Takes a lot of untangling. You got off easy. You might never find out what you did wrong, so be it. You have to open yourself up to be comfortable, so it's unavoidable. Unless you always want to feel like you're putting op a facade around your BF, that is. If he doesn't like something there's another guy around the corner who will.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 08:32 PM
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In red pill terms you were plated. Which is when a guy either has one or more FWB situations going on. This could either be done genuinely, or not. Which means either he'll make his intentions clear that this isn't going any further or he strings you along. The second being a dick move. He could've pulled his attention for various reasons. Unless you talk to him you won't know. Which is a classic guy move. Don't allow the woman to have closure, or from the dude's perspective "she's no longer wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 08:09 PM
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How does that address unequal rights everywhere? I'm guessing that he's saying that you shouldn't blame men. Most of them are either poor lower class or tax payer middle class. Look at the rich, which consist of powerful men AND women. It's never been a case of what gender you are that determines your privilege, but how much money/power you're born into. No instead we should worry about how Joe Average is earning .30 cents more and hour because he dares to excel in a competitive environment like…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 08:04 AM
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''A nerd before nerd culture existed'' Before the internet, the age of social media and inflated self worth due to narcissism? What I wouldn't do to have access to a reasonable time period like that!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 05:34 PM
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Whoever went to school that particular day i'd bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 02:46 PM
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I don't feel that abundance of options I am supposed to have. As a plain black woman Well there's your problem. Enough articles have been writing about the catch-22(?) shitty situation black women are in. White dudes don't want to date black women for various reasons. I'm assuming socio-economic, or lack of attraction (which btw isn't racist as much as some idiots like to shame so). And black dudes don't want to either. Maybe because of their culture or w/e. And because white immature thots pine…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 04:44 PM
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That was my first thought too. Isn't it ALL manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 09:10 AM
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There'a huge amount factors that contribute to this. My guesses are; The general trend of people "settling down" later due to careers and independence taking longer to develop leads men to be focussed to much on careers. I think a lot of men don't think they're ready for dating yet until they have something to offer provider wise. This is my major hurdle to start dating and "having sex!" I'm going to university, still got some years to go but I'll be nearing 30 when I'm done. Not having a good j…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 04:41 PM
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It's always the same thing. "It's men who made this mess and men who need to figure it out on their own and get out of it on their own" "It's men who made this mess and oh would you look at the poor women she needs help from the environment, the government, the internet, we need to setup funds, charities and housings". There exists no support structure for these men, in the way that it does for women. Which in part contributes to this problem. EDIT: not saying men are blameless here. Women tend …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 04:11 PM
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That's assuming too she actually says that to him instead of beating around the bush ''not to hurt his feelings'' and then make a thread on reddit about it. (Or a gigantic article on some website) But to me it all seems simple. You tell him I'm not your emotional tampon, go see a therapist. And if it persists you offer an ultimatum. If you can't both work it out as functioning adults then you leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 08:31 AM
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They feel they're doing all the work. They go to work, come home and have to chores which the guy doesn't help them with and then the guy has the gall to "be vulnerable, and show his emotions" because something went sour at work and now they have to deal with that too! Not realizing is that men do more work on average. The chores they do go unnoticed. Basically anything involving maintenance, repair, heavy lifting. Think cleaning the gutters, doing maintenance on the cars, repairing something at…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 02:06 AM
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There was a thread on TRP where a bunch of "old guys" gave their tips on what they learned when they lived their life. A whole comment thread was dedicated why you shouldn't even bother. I'll go and look for it. Mind you, going to TRP and sorting by "Top posts of all time" will also yield some results that answer that question.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 02:44 PM
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I agree, it's not a sustaiable model for sure. But it's how I predict it'll go anyway. Maybe our cultures will be smarter than the Japanese and we can prevent it fron happening, but I highly doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 06:04 AM
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People will stop living their life in a way to attract the opposite sex. They will fulfil the need for companionship and sex elsewhere, via services and products provided by businesses. See: Japan.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 08:14 PM
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Society wants marriages to stick for the sake of the children, for them to grow up into productive members of society. One of the reasons why divorce rape is so common. Society overlooks it because the only thing that matters is the children. Future soldiers/child bearers and tax payers. Society doesn't care about yout feelings. It don't give a fuck. The system that's there now works, but screwing the Atlas of your society might not be viable in the long run. Getting rid of no fault divorce woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 08:39 PM
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Jeff Bezos recently divorced. I'd look into his wife. I believe it was exactly half of the money he accrued from when he married her. Anything before that is exempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 05:14 PM
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Has to be 1,50 per litre. Otherwise it is dirt cheap. I live in Europe and I last paid 1,57 Eur per litre.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 07:51 PM
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Men who suck in bed don't realize it and their gfs don't bring it up in a direct way because it'll hurt their feelings. Faking orgasms probably irrelevant since a lot them don't care and just dump it in there until they're done
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:59 PM
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They do the surgery in china, they break your bones, stretch you out and then clamp your bones together and you wait a few weeks for them to grow back into the gap you just created. I believe you can only gain 3 inches and you can't repeat it or something. But that's paraphrasing. EDIT: found it. Doctors are able to add as much as three inches to a patient's height per treatment sessio
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 06:06 PM
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They're on average more neurotic than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 01:22 AM
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so a woman can only want commitment, but not sex? No, it's not that literal. It's a statement that only explains the inherit advantages across the sexes. If two people decide not use their advantage, then it's fine too. That guy who gets sex out of a first date just pressed his advantage. The girl shouldn't have thought that just having sex with a hot guy might make him stick around. have never used sex to secure commitment; Good for you, it either meant you tend to choose compatible partners wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 01:42 PM
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That some people will stick in a bad situation no matter how logical it must seems they should gtfo. Even when it comes to sex. Sometimes the guy will not just move on because he's afraid to lose the investment already made in the ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 04:56 PM
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Just have a look at the deadbedroom subreddit and see how prone "men" and even "women" are to getting the sex from somewhere else. They tend to attach to much importance to the value of their so many year long relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 03:02 PM
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An expert at securing a woman's sex while not sacrificing his own commitment. The male sexual strategy exemplified. The women variant would be an expert at securing a man's commitment while not having sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 03:00 PM
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I can parrot whatever the MSM parrots, I don't agree with them though. Wage gap, rape culture, "privilege", "systematic oppression". "the patriarchy" The way they think is "this world is built for men, so men will always come out on top" and blame everything in that context. Which can quickly lead to resentment and that doesn't feed really well into the equality narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 09:10 PM
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That might be because you're not gay and you tend to look at dude's objectively or from your own pov and think "that's not bad..." While when you look at women you view them from your own preferences. If I only cared about things I found very attractive I'd probably arrive at the same number. Women would probably say the exact same thing as you do with the genders flipped around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 10:49 AM
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I thought feminism fought for equality? Feminism fights to make women equal to men. But if you assume men are more privileged then women, women will then be put above men. That's the funny thing about it. You can't strive for equality when you assume someone else isn't equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 09:12 PM
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Because he was an easy target. "First they came for the Jews"... It sets a precedent that this behaviour is justifiable. The behaviour required than keeps shifting, and they can then ban people at will.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 05:55 PM
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It's a comparison thing. Compared to going to the horror's of both pregnancy and birth at a young age. Having to somehow take care of that child, and to raise it. To make ends meet... It's one of those things that I assume is horrific and painful to go though, but a year or a few years later you'll think back and say "I'm so glad I don't have to pay for a child at this point in my life". I suppose men shit on it because they're always at the behest of women. Man gets raped, pay child support, sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 05:43 PM
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Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. If he judges you banged too many dudes he won't keep you around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 11:08 AM
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Just saying that what you're exclaiming isn't anything new or substantial. Just more noise added to the "damn you libtartds!" "damn you nazi's" pile. American tribal gibberish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 03:28 PM
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Well no shit, like the typical insert political motivation here, when stuff doesn't look good for them they just insert political stereotype here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 02:50 PM
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They act demanding because deep inside they know they have no self-confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 02:44 PM
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There's quite a lot of things I find more appealing than the average person. In the same vain, my taste doesn't correlate with everyone else's. Another man's 5 is another man's 6 or 7. Although it could ve argued there are some things you can't get away from within your demographic without going too far up the rating. (Over)weight being a good example. Or height for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 10:12 AM
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I assume Lift. Hobbies. Eat better. Dress better. Go deep on personal hygiene. Get a good haircut. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:16 AM
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It's not the western world that should be worried about population. Our birth rate is too low for that. Just move down to the equator. It gets worse the closer you get. We're at 1.6/1.9 on the fertility rating. Africa is at 4.4.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 04:23 PM
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If you want a men’s movement that empowers men to be better men (not men who pick up low value women for sex, not men who practice toxic victimhood as a religion, not men who blame everyone else for their own failures) you’re going to need to.... Find them in your own life. Honestly. The only way you're going to find those type of men, is by becoming one. And surrounding yourself with them. Those type of men have no patience for failures. I've already noticed that as I started improving myself, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 11:14 AM
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Ah shit dude. Being a wage slave doesn't seem that fun either. I'm trying to get into IT too, but i don't want my future to be that of a code monkey either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 05:10 PM
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Warehouse job, in shifts. In a gap year. I hope I never get a job that won't allow me to do these things as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 01:29 PM
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That's the goal, I'm about halfway there. I've got the gym up and going. JJ coming along soon, since I can do that at the same gym. I read books before I go to sleep at night and the piano is still something I want to research. I used that example as something I strive to achieve. The ultimate rounded me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 01:17 PM
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It is kind of binary is that succesful career people tend to pay out the ass for child daycare. Meaning their kid isn't even raised by them most of the time..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 03:41 AM
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I looked at it too, I don't use any of their brands already. But I also heard Unilever was a part of it too. If that's the case I'm screwed.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 07:20 PM
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It's probably a bi thing. If you have to deal with wanting to fuck almost everyone you learn to be able to process it and just turn it off. But if you have had close male friends, normal male friends and some good female friends... that you don't want to fuck. Suddenly that attraction is a new variable. It being so rare feeds doubt in your mind. Makes you wonder and misinterpret things. Just not a fun state to be in. Might be why gay guys can get along so much with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 07:14 PM
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There'll always be that undertone. That desire for it to be something more than not. The *constant wonder if it could be. This leads to friendzone situations. Misinterpreted signals of confiding as affection. I can't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 07:14 PM
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Are most guys so enslaved to their dicks that they can't even be friends with women? As a guy, yep. There'll always be that undertone. That desire for it to be something more than not. The consent wonder if it could be. This leads to friendzone situations. Misinterpreted signals of confiding as affection. If there's no attraction it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 07:13 PM
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I don't think any job is, assuming you carry yourself well. Yeah if you look like an IT nerd, the stereotype then yes. I think SMV it not so much about your job but everything around it. If you have an IT job but go to the gym 3 times a week, do jiu jitsu 2 times a week, like playing the piano and reading books... then it doesn't matter. But, if you're boring at best, and not very interesting. Having a bog standards IT job just might put you into "one of those guys" stereotype where they can alr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 06:51 PM
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who the f buys those over expensive disposable razors anyway. I'm not blessed with a big beard (sadly). But if I had I would either go with some electrical thing, go full on straight razor. Now I get away with using bargain bin razors.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 02:19 PM
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Being smooth. Women only call men out on being PUA's when they're doing a shit job of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 07:38 PM
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You can use it to escape entrapment. Banged with a chick bareback (or not)? She drops the "I'm pregnant" bomb on you? You drop the "shooting blanks" bomb on her.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 10:58 PM
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RP advises you that you'd rather NOT marry. But if you do, it's RP on hard mode. They're not saying you marry shitty women. Just that if you do marry, be on top of your game. We could, through public censure and mass banishment to the friendzone, eliminate hypergamy in one generation We could also solve world hunger and make world peace in generation but that's never going to happen either. Saying "if all men did this" or "if all women were just" is idealism. We could do a lot if we all worked t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 10:24 AM
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Just because they're rare doesn't mean I can cut the slack. If they're extremely rare you have no point. TRP says it's a statistical anomaly to the point where you might as well ignore it. And it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 10:02 PM
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I, one out of 5(? at this point) billion people in the world have hit the lottery. You guys can win too! Survivorship's bias. I'm purple enough that I do think it's possible to find a good LTR assuming you can hold frame and such. Which I'm assuming you do But my red pill side still says "Highly Unlikely"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:48 PM
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At least that takes away the myth that it also exists to improve men's lives somewhat, like is always being parroted. (through equal paternity leave and such). At least that makes me feel a bit less guilty about just living my life and not giving too much of a fuck about being an activist/advocist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 10:35 AM
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Be vigilant, don't emotionally invest too much, be ready to walk out the door at any minute. Just accept that it is the way it is, and base your decision on that. It's just my turn and all that. The way I look at we're cars driving next to each other. Enjoy it while it lasts, at some point one of you has to make an exit, and life moves on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 10:08 AM
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I believe the RP guy Rollo is married. He describes it as "RP on hard mode". I don't read the TRP sub anymore. Too volatile. I' stick to the blogs (rollo/bll/ilm/ch etc.) RP is just a philosophy, much like cynicism, stoicism idk. To me it seems only logical there are detractors of every rule. I also believe like that that guy said. AWALT to me is guilty until proven innocent. I see it like vetting, you assume said woman is like everyone else. Then over time you guage whether she's good LTR/Marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 04:42 AM
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Because there's no need in the 21st century. My brother just had his second kid, cohabiting with his girlfriend. They didn't need to get married to pull that off. (Although she's itching for it). No-one is going to call your kid a bastard... Women push it(why wouldn't they?) because it's basically insurance for them. They hunker to be able to chain a beta to them, especially when there's no disadvantage to them.... Apart from murder suicide that is, but that is rare. You know when a guy is """ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 04:25 AM
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If I had to go so far where killing my wife would be preferable over divorce, Then maybe divorce is a bad deal for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 04:15 AM
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Men say what they think Women explain what they feel
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 06:52 PM
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It scares me to know what lengths I would be willing to go to make sure I come out on top in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 09:18 PM
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Depends tbh. I wouldn't shoo a women who's done the smart thing and hooked a "great"(subjective) guy like me while she was still young. If she after that decides to still invest in her future through education I'd be all game. Likewise, as long as she contributes something and doesn't take my contribution for granted (by frivolous spending) of our money. And she's not a slouch.. I'd be fine with it too. I'm a paranoid guy by nature so I wouldn't jump into something like that willy-nilly though. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 04:27 PM
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Men only the stereotypical women, who want to "Have their cake and eat it too". Who spent their 20's on their career and once they feel like settling down they start complaining where all the good men have gone. Women's beauty is on a timer, as long as you don't complain about not being able to pull the men you once did you're good in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:22 AM
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I adopt the stoic idea of "Don't try to affect things that are outside of you control" I like to hypothesize about problems but in the end I know I cannot change everything. Some things just cannot be my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 07:19 PM
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Start not giving a shit about what the media tells you how you should act around people and just figure it out. Some people may find you weird at first but the more you get used to it the more it fades. Don't debate things debated here. Don't use words like libtard,cuck,sjw,soy,redpilled,toxic masculinity,masculinity,femininity,feminism,men's rights etc etc. Most people don't give a fuck. Just be the "you" that flows from whatever ideology you subscribe to gets you. And see how far you get. Don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 06:56 PM
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Because it's odd when someone tries out of nowhere to help you with a problem you didn't even know you had until they told you. Or worse, when they explain a problem to you that you never know was possible until they told you. And when you disagree, it's now your fault. You're a part of a problem now that no-one had seemed to notice before in the so many years you've been working/friends/family together.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 06:44 PM
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I tried talking about serious topics once.. I don't do that anymore. Waste of time. If anyone asks I'll give them a single statement on how it affects me and then I move on. Not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 06:40 PM
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You'd be surprised how many men do, as sad as it sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 03:04 AM
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I don't think it's women's fault per se. Tinder and online dating is just way too shallow and superficial. It should be no surprise dudes are only on there looking to bang and women are only on there to inflate their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 07:16 PM
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Strawman. RP never says you're part of the top 20%, just that you maximize your SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 07:14 PM
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You're right, I made a mistake. It's not called divorce at that point. It's called Annulment. If you go to court based on lack of sex in a marriage or "the Inability to Consummate Marriage" You can annul it. An annulment is a legal procedure which cancels a marriage between a man and a woman. Annulling a marriage is as though it is completely erased - legally, it declares that the marriage never technically existed and was never valid. Obviously legally nothing is ever the same. Legal matters ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 11:30 PM
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It is, you can sue your partner for not fulfilling their end of the marriage, and divorce legally that way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 05:52 PM
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I'm so fucking glad I never go to restaurants and bars on the regular. THERE'S NOTHING NEW AND EXCITING ABOUT THAT NEW DINER IT'S JUST BACON AND EGGS.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 10:32 PM
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I'm betting on either a combat sport like Brazillian Jiu Jitsu to replace it or playing an instrument, like a piano/guitar. Because those are the hobbies I want to invest in at some point. Motorcycles actually interests me too since most of the places I need to commute to are at a comfortable motor distance, and it's cheaper than a car in the long run. But I don't want to get an extra license right now. You are right about it being cheap, when I spent 60 dollars on a new game I might play 50 hou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 11:35 AM
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Video games are nothing but a substitute for something that men lack. I play video games for that reason and look forward to the day I have something to replace it with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 12:08 AM
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Maybe there's a difference between society wanting you to succeed and society expecting you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 11:12 PM
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You don't buy apple for the camera. You buy it so you can say you have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 03:34 AM
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The truth of the matter is that 1-2% of allegations are found to be fraudulent. That's assuming they actually go to the cops. It's just a latch ditch effort by some crazy women to get whomever they're doing this to scared shitless. I think false accusations do happen quite a lot, but most aren't delusional enough to actually go and report it. As a guy you shouldn't be scared of the police, since like you said most cases get dropped anyway. You should be scared of who she tells it to. Co-workers,…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 09:30 AM
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What I'm saying is that even with worthwhile opportunities the fact that he was raised by a single parent sets him/her up to fail from the get go. How do I know that? I live in a country where you get ample opportunities, raised by a single mom, 15K in debt and still no degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 09:30 AM
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Mutation is the better word I'd assume. How every one in a while a population starts to diversify and mutate. Creating weird things that eventually die off or become irrelevant to whatever the dominant group is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 12:00 AM
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Part of the issue with that is that even with financial assistance single parent families are still worse off than a family with 2 caretakers. Playing devil's advocate for a bit even the state would prefer having 2 parents raise the child because of that, even if you're not the dad... Then I can also see the sense in not wanting to cultivate a way for women to be able to day "fuck you baby daddy, i'm applying for benefits!". I think it's kinda bad no matter which way the cookie crumbles.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 11:45 PM
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The "that's not real communism" excuse. I think people in general are feminists, it's just that everyone who makes it a point to identify themselves as such are radicalised.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 07:29 AM
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We don’t reflect everyday about how great men are and how we should be proud to be a man. I reflect every day about how I should strive to be a great man and to be something I'm proud of. This strive to excellence is a big burden and I'm afraid i'll never be satisfied(personally). That sure makes my life easy, being a guy is a breeze.
/r/MensRights20/11/18 03:22 PM
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it is no fault of that person if the other one does not make it clear . If you agree to be fwb That's making it clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 05:10 PM
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Do they know? It's often a meme at how some men are totally oblivious to the signals women give them. Either that or they're so attractive they don't want to have anything to to do with the basic betties that do ask them out and they know they can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 10:55 AM
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The ability to provide for them and possibly their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 10:43 AM
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BJJ was my go to too. But there's basically a giant "hole" in the Netherlands where there are no BJJ schools. And guess what? I live right in the middle of that. Plus I want to learn in one that takes its shit seriously.... So that complicates things a bit. Closest is half and hour drive away... which isn't that bad actually. Thanks for the tips! That's definitely going to be my step 2 after reach the gains I want in the gym.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 10:35 AM
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It's nice too see that what I figured i had to work on and what I'm trying to develop are the right things. Most of the stuff you said is stuff I'm trying to get going myself. Just like OP. If you’re skinny, eat like a mofo and lift heavy. Not only will it be healthy but it will help optimize your hormones which will make you feel like more of a man and act like more of a man. This really helps. I had to force myself to eat more and hated it when I started changing my diet. But now I'm always hu…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 10:51 PM
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Remember when a transsexual man entered in a female fighting league? She came first, for obvious reasons.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/18 02:33 AM
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after 3 years you'd think the accent would just stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 12:22 PM
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It's all about risk vs reward. It takes nothing for a dude to dump into some woman, she on the other hand has to risk pregnancy.. Men don't give a shit because there is no risk to it... until now. (like OP is saying). There's (too) many men out there willing to roll that dice though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 10:04 PM
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It's definitely much easier to whine about life than it is to actually change it. Especially when you come from a life of laziness, procrastination, video games etc. I am/was that kind of a guy. I'm currently spending a year trying to get my shit in order. It's going to take me that amount of time too. But it's going to be time well spent. I'm saving up money, going to the gym, working out what kind of study I want to do, changing my diet, my attitude etc. It's the equivalent of an overweight pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 09:51 AM
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I think it's only correlated in that someone who managed to attract a partner then also had qualities that attract one. It's only coincidental, you need to be attractive to attract someone, so if you're attractive obviously other people would also be attracted. Although I doubt dating someone who many people would find unattractive would make you more attractive.... Well maybe only because you're standing next to someone even uglier
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 12:38 PM
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Yep, recently a post on reddit showed some examples of male feminists and what happened to them. Most of them end up being molesters.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:25 PM
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But that's not the popular narrative. The one being pushed by the media itself. Incels can whine. RPers can whine. But they of all people should know that it is pointless and changes nothing. Their narrative means nothing. It causes no one to rise up. No change in laws. No frontier justice court at the ready. No massive protests etc. While this narrative does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 11:31 PM
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It's a relative term. There's a reason why all those neckbeards say "why does she only date douches".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:12 PM
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"this doesn't work" -says the mediocre looking dude on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 09:11 PM
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They don't know that (yet)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 08:58 PM
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Knowing the men most women date that doesn't surprise me at all... supply and demand. Why settle down when you have dozens of meat clams/hot dogs lining up for you anyway? Plus if it was your first it doesn't surprise me either that he would want to see what's out there first, to a normal degree that is... ie. a handful of relationships before settling down. Which is normal for most people....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 09:59 AM
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I think it has to do with all the side benefits that come with working out. It shows that you have discipline because you keep going however many times a week. It's a positive feedback loop in that it makes you more confident, it makes people look at you like a better person. It makes you more healthy which makes you a more healthy person. I don't think it has a lot to do with dudes looking at you with respect, although that does help... or with women finding you looking hot, although that does …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 09:47 AM
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That's why the term sugar daddy exist. That's all they want.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 06:29 PM
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Another one?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 03:12 PM
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"Being a lazy piece of shit who never achieved anything in life" "I'm finally being myself" Said no on ever. I think that becoming confident, lifting, developing hobbies and friends etc etc would show their real self a lot more than doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 03:09 PM
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I think the "rp" way of explaining it concisely was Women want you get it. They don't want to see that you once didn't. They despise a fake alpha most of all.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 01:15 PM
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I figured it was just like milliondollarextreme, just a bunch of people criticising western society, just as how here they're poking fun at how anything criticizing jews is seen as something out of line. I honestly don't know whether they're serious or not. A bit like r/menkampf, which is still fine. That one takes tumblr posts/blog stories/news stories and replaces the word men/male/white with jews/jew/aryan to poke fun at how openly racist most of the comments actually are. If they are serious…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 12:55 PM
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Good example here; And of course in a completely suprising twist of events FragileJewishRedditor gets quaranteend but FragilewhiteRedditor did not. You can't explain that. To quote a comment on that sub fragilewhiteredditor has shabbos reddit's full support. :) The tribe found that banning communities didn't work, so now they want to limit people into confined spaces where they can be controlled. /u/spez is saying with great pride (((they))) are still experimenting on how to handle communities w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 12:35 PM
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That's totally right. But Reddit is not an ethical company. They're left bulwarks like pretty much every silicon valley company. To them everything that doesn't confirm to their narrative is toxic. Even the Donald is considered controversial. Normally I'd be pretty outraged but it's an obvious Reddit move. If they had done it way before TRP had a couple hundred K subs it might've had an effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 06:04 AM
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Yeah I was always surprised TRP never got any attention despite being as wrongthink as it is. Probably because it is so big. Well, it's not a huge loss, TRP has a big sphere outside Reddit now and Reddit usually was nothing more than an echo chamber anyway. It shouldn't take much for the community to just jump ship soenwhere else. Voat maybe? Idk. Maybe that'll reset the clock and make the posts on it a bit more quality than quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 02:54 AM
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Depends on the area and its type of women/men probably. If I were to go to thailand even my 5"6 short ass would get a huge amount of dates because being white just puts me in a group that's in huge demand there. It's probably the same on tinder where you might have more luck outside big cities/communities, certain states, countries etc. Never tried tinder myself though. I think the study just says it's way WAY easier as a women to get shit done and it takes way WAY more effort as a man to even g…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/18 04:41 PM
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purple, I was red but now I'm somewhat more in the middle. The only reason I replied was because I read an article ages ago and I can't find it anymore(might have been on another subreddit). About single fathers and how they get treated at places like school/in general when they're with their kid. How it always turns into the "taking your turn?/where's mommy?" or some other condescending remark. The "men don't do anything in the household" stereotype. Which sucks. I thought it was relevant becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 10:42 PM
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a man raising a child with 2 jobs would definitely be called a strong man. What I argued is that that's only the case with people close to said guy. But everyone else just assumes he's taking the load off of a woman that doesn't exist. In society's view single dads don't exist. What I was trying to say is that they don't get called strong at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 10:04 PM
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Don't single dads usually get the "giving mommy a day off?" remark? That even if they do raise it single handedly the way women look at them as if they're just taking over a shift for once?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 09:35 PM
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Does this show have any influence though? If anything it's just a circlejerk. A way for them to go "yeah we showed those men what's what". Not realising most of them just don't watch it.
/r/MensRights21/09/18 09:24 PM
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No, that would only draw more negative attention toward us in the "fragile men" way. We caring would be proving that they can influence TRP. Just ignore it. Nobody cares.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 09:17 PM
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Because they were complaining about the gross of men already. So when 99% of men disappear nothing changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 10:23 AM
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The problem you fail to see is that it's Russian Roulette. It's that scene in deer hunter where you're sitting a table with some dude shouting "MAO" at you. It only takes ONE. It doesn't matter that it's only 1/100. 1/100.000 If you're in a position where you can attract a decent amount of women it also means you have something to lose. It's a cost benefit analysis. Just one crazy bint shouting "RAPE" and the frontier justice court judges you as guilty. And you can say goodbye to your job, goodb…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 10:01 AM
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They wouldn't notice but they would still complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 09:41 AM
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People are lazy. And once you figure that out you should also realize that it doesn't take much. Ask yourself why? If you're an "average guy" you don't go to the gym 3 times a week, you don't pay attention to your clothing, you don't earn a butt load of money, you don't have an interesting hobby. You don't pay attention to you diet and body. aka you're an overweight/skeleton dude with a neckbeard who does nothing but masturbe and play video games. What more men need to realize is that in this da…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 09:33 PM
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i don't think they are mocked in general, just mocked by the man and or pill-sphere. AKA us. Society LOVES career women. It lauds women for choosing the career path. You can smash those ceilings, you can reach the same positions as men can! Then all of a sudden they realized they threw their prime away at work while they should've chased a partner instead. Society tells them beauty isn't everything. But guess what? To get the man you want you need to be beautiful. Otherwise you need to compromis…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 08:56 PM
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Yeah, they wouldn't able able to hide the red flags that come with the territory. (Some) Men would know. Personally I don't care about high N count. I care about how she acts about it. how she acts in general and how she acts to me. From that you can draw judgement whether she's LTR material or not. Whether she's DTF for me and whether she's satisfied with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 06:19 PM
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Because they feel it's the right thing to do, not thinking about the long term consequences. Something that might just be conformation bias on my part, but the sudden change in language when it comes to discussing things has already changed to fit this paradigm. We used to say "I think that.." now we say "I feel like...". I've had to condition myself to revert to "think" again because so many English entertainers(soy boys) I watch say "I feel" now. Now it's not about the reality of the world but…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 03:04 PM
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Depends on what you define as ugly though. Women admit to settling once they get older. They also say pure looks aren't as important because they're looking at the big picture. Character. I don't think that's true for men until they get much older. True, a woman who keeps up will be fine. But that's just less important for men, they can slack a bit there. As opposed to women who either need to keep up or accept what comes along. If you're really successful and let yourself go as a guy you either…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 05:36 PM
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Also fair enough. I guess I'm just imagining an LTR where I experiment, figure out what works. Passion and such. Maybe most men are lazy/don't want to do that/don't ask. i suppose women faking it doesn't help that cause either when every button you press gets you positive feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 03:46 PM
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There's fucking and then there's "fucking". There's definitely a difference between wanting it and just throwing a bone. A lot of men don't get the real fucking though so they think the starfish method is just how women work. Hence they can't tell the difference, they just pump it in there. I would not stay in an LTR if she doesn't reciprocates/communicates. Being alone is preferable to not being desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 03:41 PM
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Yes but if these 35-45yr old men, who were not sucessful in their 20's t the basics of male / female interaction... they will be unsuccessful in their prime if they actually follow TRP and LIFT they won't. You're arguing that most men just read TRP and don't do shit..... which is true. I do think that following the TRP actually works, but "average people" are lazy, uninspired,boring. If you work on your career, hobbies, pay attention to your body and your face, have a bit of lucky genetics for b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 03:15 PM
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If she's worth a couple of bangs why not? Just be smart to avoid the shitstorm that follows and either ghost her or be to not attract the boyfriend in any way. and don't be an idiot and commit, because she sure won't. I wouldn't though, sex with a person like that isn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 02:57 PM
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Look at what people do, not at what they say. The MSM, Facebook, Twitter and Tumblr can parrot and virtue signal fat acceptance all day long. But saying things doesn't actually change anything. No matter how much the "media" (whether real or social) says fat acceptance is something everyone should do, it won't automatically mean anything actually changes. If every man gobbles down the "sensitive, be yourself" mantra all we would have is soy boys now. If women gobble down the "healthy at every si…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 09:04 PM
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Yeah saying it's "porn addicted men" is ignoring many women who don't want to tell their SO because ???. Or they don't know how, they don't want to, don't care etc. Men and women would just be better off if they'd ask "hey, what turns YOU on". Communication is everything. Of course, if you're not able to communicate what you like you have a different problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 08:51 PM
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Even a 5/10 could sleep with whomever she wants. But she can't make the guy stay. That's what a beautiful women probably can. A trp anecdote once talked about how this overweight women would have men over all the time, he even commented on how one of the dudes he met was a 7/10. That guy should have no trouble banging the girl he was, her room-mate. But I doubt that overweight women could trick any man into staying. We're the gatekeepers of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:56 AM
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working smart and working hard are two different things, probably. I know many people right now who work "hard" but they're still working at some manual labour job that pays less than minimum wage. That's what I meant. It's very easy to work hard. But to find out where to direct that effort is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:48 AM
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working hard is what you did generations ago to get ahead. Now working hard just gets you a minimum wage job and a fucked up back.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 10:31 AM
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Usually it's the 1-2 kids that accompany that that's the real deterrent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 10:09 AM
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Maybe he's arguing that even high beta men realize the way the cookie crumbles and just hook women in on the promise of their commitment and resources just to dump them later on? TRP even sort of glorifies this as the "you earn 6 figures you have a nice lifestyle which you use to spin plates" kind of thing. Still doesn't change that you're manlet with no masculine facial features once so ever. Imagining you're some chad while in reality you're just maxing beta game.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 10:08 AM
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i'd say it's more "if your standards are too high be fine with being alone" Everyone hates that one woman at every social gathering who can't stop complaining all men are gone/pigs or any variant thereof.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 06:51 PM
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Because for some that's a race they cannot win.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 06:50 PM
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Then that's perfect. I'd compare to it going out to eat at a nice restaurant once every month. The food tastes great and you had fun. It keeps you going until next month. As opposed to going to mcdonalds every week, feeling great when you eat it but totally empty after. I'd rather take the first option then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 07:39 PM
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Dependent on the quality of sex you do get. If I do feel wanted and desired by her when we do have it I'd go for the attractive option. If you get the deadbedrooms "starfish mode".... definitely NOT. Another factor would be affection shown in other ways. Again, if I do get that in other ways I wouldn't mind less frequent sex either. But if she's cold and distant.. Hell no. Basically quality > quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 04:52 PM
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I agree with this but I can see why society wouldn't. Wouldn't it be """better""" for society if they weren't? Wouldn't the government want the kid to be raised by two parents in order to maximise the productivity of said child/parents? I totally agree and think they should be either mandatory OR able to be done on either parties request. I believe it now requires both parties or you can force it by law. But good luck doing that as a man. But I can also see why the government would rather have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 09:11 PM
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I always think about it like this; You can show emotions, you just can't do it from a position of weakness. Crying during Gladiator? Fine. Crying when you talk to your SO about your previous battles with depression? No go....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 09:29 AM
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One where you don't have ambition. You keep doing as required, never asking for more salary. Never striving for a higher position and never asking for more responsibility. You just except the higher ups to throw it into your lap for whatever reason. You accept the yearly pay ladder raise.... And before you know it you're in that situation. I've seen this issue debated many a times on "normal" subreddits. About how women don't want to do the things men do to get higher up ie; Take initiative, neg…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 06:09 AM
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I subbed to kotakuinaction, that's an auto ban on offmychest. Those types of subreddits are nothing but echo chambers due to that anyway. (much like TRP sometimes I suppose)
/r/askTRP29/07/18 06:21 PM
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This show was "good morning Britain" And if I remember correctly Britain is WAY worse off. I remember a news segment where they said "if you live under this line there's a 50/50 chance you're obsese". 2014 62% of adults in England were classified as overweight (a body mass index of 25 or above) or obese. (Wiki) The guy made some cringy ass game but his point stands. With 6/10 women being obese, and probably 2/3 who aren't beautiful enough... It shouldn't be a surprise that he says that the beaut…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 09:36 PM
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Most people never hear of this subreddit. I got here via menslib which is a pretty circlejerky obscure place in and of itself. I bet most people just centre on their own eventually. Or sink into a deeper hole.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/18 12:55 PM
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If those people knew attractive/sociable men in real life they wouldn't be on TRP or even on here now would they? They wouldn't have this problem. I do go to the gym 3 times a week, pay attention to my clothing, skin, face, body etc. I will get there. But I don't think that's a given for most men on reddit. Most men who struggle with this kind of thing don't have a solid group of dudes they can feed of off. I fed off of a classmate of mine, even co-workers for everything from fitness advice, foo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 10:08 AM
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The problem I see is that OP is basically saying; "if you work really hard at it you could look like benefluff pillsnatch" he goes from “attractive” to “eh” Thanks, if I spend 3 days a week in the gym, pay attention to my skin, my face, my hair my body and my clothing. Gain the amount of confidence a celebrity has... I could go from "not on the radar" to "eh". No wonder attractive men become bitter. I would imagine many TRP going guys would straight up go revenge mode once they're the one's on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 10:22 PM
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The study isn't really a study as it is a "poll". here's the website
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 09:13 AM
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Depends on the person. Everyone's needs are different. And everyone's criteria are different. Me for instance, I don't own many assets, I'm not that good of a catch (yet).. so for me it wouldn't take much. Don't be a single mom or a fattie and you've got my attention. But a guy who's got more to lose/to offer might have a completely different set of criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 06:05 AM
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I've seen many threads on reddit where they talked about this fact. How for instance a guy opened up about his (previous) battles with depression and how he handled it. About the stress he was going through etc. After a while his gf got distant and broke up afterward. I wish i'd saved those threads, I might have a look through my history to see if I can find it. Sucks because I can recall more thana few threads on askreddit and maybe even here about the subject...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 03:04 PM
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Being stoic doesn't mean bottling up your emotions. Being stoic means being in control of them. I'm stoic. That's how I deal with my emotions. You won't see me cry, be angry or hold a grudge. Rather I internalize them and process them through music, excersice, reading, or even just saying "don't, this isn't rational". And that's exactly what Stoicism is about. Women who say their man should be more emotional will always break up shortly after because suddenly it's "too much". Men don't make that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 01:49 PM
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I think someone made a comment earlier along the likes of.... "We agree that the model that men currently have to strive for toxic but we don't know what to replace it with either.". So until then hitting the gym, trying to earn a bunch of money and being an egotistical douchevag it is. Don't look at what people say look at what people do. Being a feminised man with get you nothing but praise. But guess what? It won't get you pu55y. That's what all those feminist allies figured out when they got…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 01:38 PM
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If anything instead of making divorces not happen maybe make the process of a divorce, if there's a child involved, more about what's right for the child. Of course what's "right" in the eyes of the general public always is "she gets everything, he gets nothing". Which sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 02:00 PM
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those goats don't bitch afterwards either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 11:34 PM
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liberals and conservatives....Pro gun vs Anti Gun......... Black vs white, Men vs women. America is still highly tribal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 09:31 PM
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I think that TRP has a certain viewpoint or perspective it draws its conclusions from. The bar scene, the club scene, even tinder to a degree. And that's filled with AWALT. Filled entitled pieces of nothing special. And TRP works on them pretty well. AWALT is more of an archetype to me. Just like there exists other archetypes. Women who don't frequent these places. More introverted women.... who knows. And that takes a slightly different approach. I suppose that's why I'm purple, not red.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:19 AM
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You're blowing it out of proportion here. "don't get married" and be a shut-in" are not even in the same ballpark. We are not talking about enlisting for combat or volunteering to clear a mine field here. There's a reason I mention Brendan Frasier here. Have you seen how he looks, how he acts? vs. how he was in the mummy. Maybe I don't want to get married because I'll end up in a fucking deadbedroom or have to divorce and give half of my income away to alimony and the other half to bills for my …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 03:54 AM
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My RP perspective on it is a Mad Max quote; That's bait Basically if you're one of the guys that falls for the MSN trap, you've taken the bait, lost the test, and lost the game. "Don't look at what women say, but look at what they do" A shit test is all about "vetting" if you fail the shit test(s) you've been vetted out as the guy that doesn't "get it".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 01:57 AM
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I always saw TRP as people throwing shit at the wall and seeing what sticks. Of course TRP isn't peer reviewed research. It's just your normal under-average men taking in what above average (or old) men are saying and parroting it everywhere. It makes sense to me that they would take as much a risk-average approach as they can to minimize the potential hurt to themselves. Or as some TRP people would say so it pertains to the most amount of women. AWALT works because if you blanket paint women as…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 01:33 AM
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no make-up means "no make-up make-up" to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 01:11 AM
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The 4chan scale is the one I use too, it's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 01:10 AM
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Generally losing weight also means "attractive traits" will surface. As a male for instance, when you were fat you had a double chin and a frog sack. But now you're fit it revealed your jawline. that's a plus 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 01:10 AM
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Totally, if I'd knew a dude and had been friends with him for a decade? Wouldn't give that up easily. That's worth something. He shouldn't have acknowledged that he knew to his sister. Better to keep that one under wraps. I love how they're all using the slippery slope of "he'll get worse" "it'll reflect in his character". Like the guy who knows him for TEN years doesn't know his character.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 11:47 PM
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You just do it, working on motivation solely to progress is useless. You WILL have bad days, you WILL have days that you'll say to yourself "maybe i shouldn't today, i'm not feeling it". But you know you'll beat yourself up for it later if you don't. It's all about discipline. You're having a bad day? You go lifting anyway, you really can't? Do half a workout. Compromise. But don't stop.... Realize(maybe through writing or something) what you're working toward and make that progress visible. Not…
/r/askTRP03/06/18 10:46 AM
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Have a backup plan, is probably the most apt here. Before I'd marry if at all... (marriage is not popular in my country). I'd make a plan and set aside money JUST in case it hits the fan. As soon as she even hints at a divorce you hit up a lawyer and get yourself ready. Which is what the guy failed to do
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 06:19 PM
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Then it is their own fault again, isn't it? If you don't play the game than don't be sorry when you can't compete, right? Maybe I'm thinking from a "guy who has it all" position as opposed to a "guy who's just average". I think that's where our thoughts differ. I'm thinking of the guy who gives his career and his body/mind a good level of attention. I still think that it doesn't take much at all to get above the average. Most people are lazy pieces of shit. And yeah, those people will be struggl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 04:16 PM
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of a fat, balding, wrinkly skin and sagging balls aging man is nature’s cruel joke on them. That's when as a guy, you're too late. We're not talking 60's here. We're talking 30's-40's and maybe even 50s. If you fit that description as a guy it's entirely your own fault. Go to gym, do some yoga, shave your head. Should be fine. her priorities are different That's when Men's value shifts to the "provider" end of the spectrum. Men can now leverage their status. And be picky. Men who spent their liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:18 PM
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Depends on the women, no? Red Pill says that if you're a pretty women you're probably going to have it pretty easy most of the time. Until you hit the wall. That's when the training wheels go off, and one of my favourite askreddit thread was one that asked what women's experiences were when they no longer had looks. Everything became harder. True, if you're an 7/8 (i don't know about 9/10) out of ten the wall won't do much. But again it all depends on the who. Did she have enough independence to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 05:49 PM
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The definition is never literally applied in STEM though. In STEM it means "be a women or be black". Asian male? out of luck, too many Asians already we don't want them. Indian (male)? bad coder stereotype, we don't want them. Sucks too, imagine thinking you were in a privileged position and then you get rejected anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 04:53 PM
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Thank you, I'll keep that in mind! I'm currently working on "enriching" myself and one of the things on my bucked list is dancing. (along with getting fit-ter & learning an instrument & learning a martial art) so it's definitely useful info.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 05:30 PM
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I remember my parents saying they had to go to dance lessons / received dancing lessons from school. It's grown out of style. Sucks, I've would've loved to learn how to dance. Now I don't even know where to start. In male dancing there's grace, strength, agility and dominance. If done well and you take the lead it should be a waterfall generator.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 04:38 AM
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I don't think this guy actually has a relationship. I think this is just one of his plates. Challenging is worth it in an LTR a bit yes. But in a FWB nah.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 12:56 AM
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and more and more non-chads aren't ready for marriage (or much of anything else, really) when Stacy, Becky and Jane decide they're finally ready to tie the knot. So you think there's even less BB these days? I was always convinced that the guys that would get squeezed out the bottom would, thanks to the fact that they're not chasing poon but studying end up with some high paying job and can catch someone hitting the wall. Or hitch up with the single mother epidemic. I could understand these guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 09:01 PM
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You don't. You can talk to her about your concerns and ask her to get off of it (temporarily) to see what would change. But she's her own person. She can do whatever she wants. Google it, there's many articles that say the same thing TRP says but to get worried about that is mental. You can only trust her. I personally wouldn't care. If she says she loves me it's fine with me. If I see any evidence to the contrary I'll instigate the exit plan. You're too invested and paranoid.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/18 11:32 PM
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Yeah there is a time to lighten up like everyone said. Learn to banter.. to joke.. to jest. Getting insulted by someone insulting you is them winning. I always try to be witty back, to "defuse" their insult and tell them "it doesn't phase me". You can use various things to develop this. Funny youtubers, stand-up, roast videos, family members or friends. Whatever. Wherever you can get it from.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 11:26 PM
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Birth control does affect hormones and that foes affect behaviour. You don't have to go to TRP to know that. I remember threads on askreddit saying the same thing. But I suppose every women experiences it differently and it's not a universal thing. As an example, ethan and hila kleiner (youtubers) wanted to get kids, and because she had been in birth control for so long it took a while for her to be able to get kids again. It took a while to "wear off". I suppose the best thing would be to just …
/r/ExRedPill20/05/18 06:30 PM
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It's still a journey. I don't have all the answers to my questions yet. I don't even know what education I'm going to do. The one I wasted was IT, programming. But that wasn't my thing at all. I'm betting on that when I start building myself up mentally and physically eventually the ephipahy will come. Through the progress I've made or the introspection I've done. But at least I know have shit to work on instead of being a depressed "'incel"". I'm putting in the work. And that's what matters.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 10:29 PM
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Remember, that nothing is final or wasted yet. This is the time to work on yourself and cement yourself. I am 22. I wasted 4-5 years being an idiot on an education I never wanted. But I learned quite a lot about myself doing so. I'm currently spending a gap year out of school figuring myself out because of it. I'm lifting with a personal trainer and working on a healthy diet to help me start gaining weight. I'm applying for a job to keep me busy during the year and to help me build up savings. I…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 06:38 PM
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Exercise is one of those things that has been proven to help with depression. And especially with guys one of the most difficult things to find in life is a focus. Without that focus men get angry, depressed and self-destructive. Lifting is a very good way to start to build up your self validation. Your confidence. And to make you happier. And to have an out for that pent up.... Focus(I suppose). Not only that it's visible. You see that if you work hard at something you do get something back. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 03:23 PM
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Jealousy and projection. The worst thing you can do to the lazy and complacent is show that when you put work into it you actually get results. See it as a compliment, means you're doing good work.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:45 PM
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How do you plan to approach and or help men? I'm a pretty young guy myself who (was) pretty deep into TRP. I've developed my own understanding now and can safely browse there. But it wouldn't surprise me many men who are in neck deep already won't find their centre. Like I did.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/18 03:36 PM
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I'm probably never going to get married but thanks for the tip, I'll keep that on hand. Me too man. If I was going to get married I'd have the exit strategy planned before she even says yes.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 03:22 PM
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Still, you need to hide that shit very well then. And do it WELL before hand. They'll find it somehow.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 03:17 PM
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Married. If you're scared of losing your money. Don't get married. Nowadays there is literally no advantage to men marrying. She cheats? Half your assets gone. You cheat? Half your assets gone. She divorces? Half your assets gone. You divorce? Half your assets gone. Not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 11:48 AM
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The moment where you have to buy your wife expensive gives to keep her around is the moment it's not worth it anymore. There's a reason they say most men earn more money than women but most women spend more money than most men.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 11:41 AM
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Eminem once said "I love cupcakes" in an SNL skit. Gavin Free once said "people like grapes" I accidentally mixed the two together when creating the account.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 10:36 PM
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Genetics will come into play more and it'll make everything even more skewed. I don't know whether it would be better for women though if every man would grow a backbone. One of TRPs main tenants is "take the pussy of the pedestal". Wonder how that would change women's ability to find suitable mates. I bet you women would have to change too when some fatty 5 can't get a match on tinder anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 05:41 PM
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No, the thing about it is all in the commitment factor. A women who's had a whole bunch of random varied casual encounters is unlikely to stay satisfied for a longer period of time banging just me. And there'd be a risk of her wanting an "open" relationship. Which is fine, but i'd rather know that beforehand so I don't waste my time and can look for someone else. She wouldn't be LTR material because I do not think i'd be able to keep her satisfied sexually to the degree she had when she was sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 10:50 PM
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Love makes you blind. If the guy is willing to do that he needs a serious reality check. And maybe when his fiance eventually cheats on him (she will), he'll turn around. But until then, take it as an example of what NOT to do. He's got his head so far up his ass that would you even mention some of this behaviour he'll get defensive. Maybe it's the male equivalent of a women LTRing a "bad boy" and expecting she can "turn him around". Which inevitably leads to him cheating, or bailing as soon as …
/r/askTRP12/05/18 10:37 PM
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I totally agree. I know the majority of men and women are egotistical and only look out for themselves. I'm not blaming you or any gender. Just the way things are. There's always bound to be an inherit bias both on male focussed groups ie. asktrp,trp,askmen,reddit in general. And female focussed groups; twitter,tumblr,askwomen(awful place),askwomenadvice(great place). There's always going to be a minority or majority that'll blame either gender. I don't think expecting redpill to be totally cent…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 10:56 PM
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Being a western European man with any kind of career and money.... like moths to a candle. You're guaranteed to attract the "mail-order-bride" types who'll demand money in some way.(divorce/alimony) and use that to live comfortably in their country. Considering the average wage over there is 400 bucks. So I'm not saying they all are, but if you're from any rich first world country you're just a walking bag of money.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 10:31 PM
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Dangerous gold diggers.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:15 PM
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Yeah, definitely look out, especially if you're an American. There's enough stories of Latin women trying to get with American dudes so they can spring child support on them/green cards. Maybe that is just Mexico though.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:14 PM
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Anecdotal evidence does not rule out statistics. Just because you were one of the ones who had a good reason doesn't mean we should assume they all did. There's a reason why RP says "Don't marry". I personally don't care who's fault it is, man or woman. The only thing I care about is the risk. And there's simply no reason in this day and age to take it. Not worth it. My thought process is "7/10 marriages go bust? And the man is most of the time royally fucked(Brendan Fraser)? NOPE" Maybe that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:33 PM
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After the r/incel sub got bommed I wouldn't be surprised those poor suckers would come to TRP instead
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:27 PM
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Not denying that. She's a classic example of that. The moment where you complain about being fat due to X is the moment you go too far. You only have yourself to blame. It's fine with me if you're happy and you don't blame someone/something else for your problems. But clearly she's not.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 12:18 PM
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Projection at it's finest. It's these reality checks that should make you realize "maybe i'm too fat". I'm all for being happy, and if you're happy being overweight so fucking be it. But don't make it someone else's problem. She's so deluded she blames an amusement ride for her issues. Imagine being so insecure you blame a bag of groceries for "muscle shaming" because you can't lift it. That's sad.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 05:40 AM
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Same here. We're lucky. I'm 22, you're 20. In this age bracket it's fine if you're a bit inexperienced. You don't have to tell her you're a virgin. You can still ask for pointers on whatever. At this age it's not a nail in your coffin. I think the key to try shit while you're young and there's no expectation breathing down your neck.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 03:13 AM
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The way I look at it is progressive. A slow descent into perversion. From just watching a women getting fucked by a guy. To multiple guys. Maybe even facials or bukake or something. The "degrading" factor comes into play. As you get used to a type of porn you look for something else that makes you go fuck yes which is usually worse and that's how fetishes develop. You go deeper and deeper. You get off from women being used by a guy.... and before you know it "a woman" becomes "your woman". I'm g…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 12:57 AM
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When I used to masturbate excessively I had no problems lasting at all, but now that I'm working on getting rid of the habit I seem to "PME" a lot more. Weird... But I don't worry about it, everyone has a first time it's just 99% nerves. I'm assuming women are fine with it assuming you're willing to get her off anyway and don't make a big deal about it.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 12:49 AM
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am I supposed to divorce my wife because she doesn't want to see this guy as much as I do? I never said that. I said cut them our of your life if they're toxic. If that friend was constantly shitting on you for thinking the earth is flat. Cut him off. If your wife said "I don't want you to hang around with a flat-eather" than you'd have a point. Because then she's being toxic and oppressive. But she agrees to disagree and would rather just not hang around with him. Which is GOOD. If I were to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 08:38 PM
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My point is that your happiness is to a degree a function of what friends and family think of you, and what friends and family think of you is to a degree a function of societal norms. Sure, some of your family/friends will be jealous/envious. There's nothing you can do about that. I disagree with some of my family about my choice of women, but I'm not cutting them out of my life over it. That already shows you already have good friends/family, and even if you date some younger women or you're a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 08:24 PM
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Society can think whatever the fuck it wants to think. Women like men with experience and who have it together. As long as you're both happy who cares? Who would you think be against such a thing? Apart from bitter aunts and mother-in-laws I can't think of anyone in my family who wouldn't be happy for me. Again, if I'm happy they're happy. If that's a barrier to someone they need to find better friends and say "fuck you" to their family. Because they're toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 07:58 PM
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In your 30's probably. *Although nothing prevents you from looking up younger women without the baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:39 PM
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I can believe it. I've read stories of men who either couldn't get it up due to PMO or went to masturbate rather than bang their SO. It can get that bad. (deadbedrooms subreddit) Imagine a guy who's probably been masturbating... day in, day out since he was IDK 14, that has a profound and lasting effect on you. It can be whatever you want it to be. I got paranoid when I was young and mainly stuck to masturbation/pov/ because It felt weird watching a dude railing a women. And I'm glad I did.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 10:58 PM
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The initial thread made a mistake in just calling it "Stoicism" which can be both related to the philosophy(Marcus Aurelius and the like I really get inspired from) and being "Stoic" like a grandfather who doesn't talk about his time in the war and shows no outward emotions. I used to have a lot of trouble processing my emotions and had outbursts, but Stoicism taught me "That is not rational, you need to process this differently"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 06:52 PM
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I don't know specific sources. It's all based on experience. Maybe watching comedians, comedy specials, other people like craig ferguson/Ewan Mcgregor,James mcavoy(as mentioned here) could help Learn by example and observation. Look at funny people and see what they do. Make your own spin on it. Every time I watch a talk show and see somebody tell a really good story I always make a mental note of how he tells it, how he carries himself etc. And try to implement some of it myself. Goes wrong som…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 02:07 AM
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Humour requires a certain amount of timing, wittiness, attitude, confidence, social awareness, etc. Humour in and of itself, no. Any guy can recite a joke. But not a lot of guys can tell a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 01:46 AM
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Funny, I seem to run in a lot of This content is available exclusively to.... To continue reading this article.....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 02:01 AM
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Johnny Depp is a good example here. He can grow something, but no beard. Some men are just that way. I have to shave my mustache and chin area quite often and never shave the rest. Apart from the occasional hair. Nothing on the rest of my face. Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 01:04 AM
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Taking care/supporting someone who's going trough cancer is a mental battle. You're struggling with them. It's a hit on your own personal health. Not everyone can do that especially at that stage of your life. As an example, Totalbiscuit a prominent youtuber has been struggling with Stage-4 colon cancer and he said that without his wife he wouldn't have made it. But I i'd doubt she had it easy seeing her husband like that and had to endure quite a lot herself. And I'd doubt i'd be able to cope w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 11:17 PM
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Some people aren't as lucky and just end up with a pedophile mustache and an 18 hair soul patch. If you can indeed grow a proper beard, it's easy. But I bet most "babyfaced" men already ruled it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 11:01 PM
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Exactly. I've even read on here some girls would reject men, and depending on how they took it they even gave them their number anyway! Because they took it so well. It might even give you some bonus points. Don't be that guy that gets angry, salty, follows the girl, calls her a whore/cunt/variant, and loses control. (incel/beta). Sometimes nothing is more attractive than a man who can take a punch.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 10:48 AM
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I agree, they don't. Just saying it shouldn't be a surprise that when there's no /incels anymore they'll look for any other place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:36 PM
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TRP made a post specifically on the fact that incels were flocking to them. Obviously when you take away the only place of learned helplessness they have they're going to complain somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:50 PM
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I wish I could find that askreddit thread again, I might go looking for it.... Found it Pretty astounding reading how men in particular treat attractive vs under average to unnatractive women. And how it suddenly shifted their entire life because they never realized how much of a benefit it was. No longer did they get freebies, men wouldn't help them carry things/hold the door open anymore. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 01:25 PM
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Askwomen is a terrible sub and also too banhappy.... so not that one. The one I frequent is /r/askwomenadvice instead. Much less of a hugbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:14 AM
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Yep, it all depends how lucky you are with your face and your body structure. I might not have a super wide jawline, but my face is.... clean. No acne, no weird proportions(giant nose, flat eyes) etc etc. So I'm lucky on that. But my body is an ectomorph(ie. bruce lee) and i'm 5"6. Bruce lee with clothing? Don't even see the guy is ripped. I will have that too. But the benefits still outweigh the negatives for me, If you've been genetically gifted when it comes to your body shape, sometimes all …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 12:06 AM
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It is what is it. I can't change the double standard. The only thing I can do is deal with the problem in a way I come out top. And that is to stay in control, and to try to use whatever she says and turn it back around. The moment you lose control and lay even one finger on a women is when you've fucked up. No matter how hard she deserved it. Don't be that guy in the twitter video. (hilariously sad). Don't harm yourself thinking somehow that'll make her/him understand. If you can't change the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 10:54 PM
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Interesting that even on here it just turns into a pissing contest. WE have it worse NO WE have it worse. In this day and age it is not fun to be either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 07:53 PM
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I'd say that's more of a symptom that men aren't in control of them anymore. They don't know what to do with their anger, their misery, their sadness and they all project it onto "women" because they're the once that lied to them, or "society" because it has oppressed them. Which is all a fair criticism but it isn't the best way to deal with them. An equivalent thing would be a video that I saw of a women and a "man" arguing, the guy tried using logic and rationality (bad idea) to appeal to his …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 07:37 PM
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That's not what it's about. But I agree. Competition is good! tbh I don't even think the majority of men even make an effort, but hey that's good for me. But that was not the point.These women aren't prizes. Not anymore. They obviously used to be pretty attractive and had their pick. But then they got older....and less attractive. Some 3.....something year old who's got nothing to offer but her fanny, her lovely personality and less attractive looks wants... A guy who has to win the genetic/nati…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 07:23 PM
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Suddenly when the shoe is on the other foot they can't imagine having to give in a bit. "I want a guy who's 6" has a 6 pack and makes 6 figures" And then act super embittered when they see an actual normal couple of two people who DID compromise and DID learn to make due. And they can't take it. Because they never had to. They took their beauty for granted and then when ageing happened.... they got ugly. Might just be the female equivalent of an incel / neckbeard...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 02:24 PM
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Compromise? ME?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 02:09 PM
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We alll have our strengths. Me needing her to help me with something and her needing me to help her with something is a pretty good relationship. As long as it's reprocriated and doesn't turn into a one way street. There's a difference between "helping" and "Just doing it for him/her" though. To take the tire change example, I'd help her change her tire but I won't do it for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 09:52 PM
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I think it it's also the relationship/longevity prospect? To me when I masturbate to a pornstar or something similar I don't EVER would want to have more than sex with them. But when I look at the few women who do weird shit on the internet that DO check my boxes It becomes a completely different feeling. Not a "I want to fuck the shit out of you" but more "I want to worship/adore you" which would also lead to an ENTIRELY different sexual encounter, more focussed on closeness etc. That to me is …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 12:26 AM
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Not me. There's a difference to me between making love to a women and having sex with her. Lust coming from love is different than just regular lust, or at least to me. A totally different state of mind and what I want out of a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 05:10 PM
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love is the perfect motivitor. For sure. But Lust is too! Both have different end goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 05:02 PM
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Okay should've written "tend not to be". It's not a rule, of course there are exceptions. So I've edited it. My Reddit bias is kicking in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 03:06 PM
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Depends on the age and how he looks I suppose. In your early to mid 20's. No chance. But nearing and in your 30's. That's when shit turns around. Or he was just hot all along and never realized it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 08:42 AM
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feminist blogs The danger there is they might be filled with men who identify themselves as allies/feminists. And there's a BIG chance those guys are just doing it to get closer to women. It's exactly these guys that always get in the news for being harassers. Do be aware of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 01:07 AM
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I don't think they are at all full of themselves and struggle with self-confidence issues. Meaning. They tend not to be on tinder, not on dating sites and don't hang out at the usual places. Which limits your chance of meeting one online. Unless you connect with their online communities. Although I don't know which ones.... I'd agree with everyone here. They tend to be : Passive. Introverted / Awkward. Insecure. Like I used to be. And I mostly played video games, avoided dating sites. Hung out w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 12:58 AM
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Is she interested in kids or has kids? The biological clock is a thing and it ticks a lock quicker for women than it does men. Another example would be a women making a post that she can't deal with the fact that she is too old now. She said she "was always picky"(proves his point) and that it took her years to lock down her BF. And now she couldn't accept he doesn't want kids. And she knew that if she left her the chance of her getting another partner in time would be 0. She said "baggage, dama…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 01:46 AM
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Yep. Wouldn't have wrote it as harsh as you did but for every post wall women with expectations through the roof, there's another that is as hungry for attention and commitment as a man in his 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 01:36 AM
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Oh yeah definitely. But I can't blame people for getting confused if one site says one thing and one site some other thing. If you don't have any reference point it might be difficult to discern what is gibberish and what is not. It took me ages to get my stuff sorted out. But we're preaching to the choir here. They will continue making Reddit threads on r/askreddit,askmen,etc. Asking stuff you really should Google.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/18 07:20 PM
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I should say that it's easy to find... if you know what to look for. Maybe that's the crux of the issue. They don't....... googling accurately is a skill in and of itself. And even those search terms might turn up 80% MSM garbage.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/18 06:38 PM
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Then you get into sociopahy psychopathy :). I'd agree with you that certain detrimental and mysoginistic dreg will eventually float to the surface. Like I said "they're mentally damaged and you'd know" But I also know that TRP has 200.000 readers. I don't think all of those dudes hold Ill intent. Not all of them are depressed, narcissistic etc. I like to think TRP is very attractive to damaged people who should've really sought professional help.... And for those people it shows. At that point i…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/18 03:44 PM
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It's common knowledge that you keep that shit to yourself. I remember posts on reddit about women and that they're scared of RP men and "how to spot one" but you can't. If they're the type of person that'll spout that they're RP or MGTOW or some variant of that they're either idiots or mentally damaged and you can tell that beforehand. You might look at certain men and think "maybe" and trough talking to them and throwing them bones you can guess. I think that the chances you've met one who read…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/18 10:48 AM
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As a guy who's half RP I suppose.. I agree and disagree with some things. The problem you might get is that it usually takes a catalyst or something for a dude to end up naturally on TRP. A divorce rape for instance. It makes a man think "I was an idiot and now paid for it" and that makes him susceptible to change. The problem you might get into is multi-folded. Long post coming. He's so blue pill he will deny absolutely everything you tell him as misogynistic, sexist, wrong etc etc. The equival…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 01:13 AM
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Again it's all anecdotal evidence. So it's iffy anyway. But there was a women here specifically on Reddit that complained about how all of her nerdy male friends kept going after the "cheerleader/stacy" type of women while shooting down any advances she made. (During college) She attributed that to men being stupid and not appreciating what she offered. (Which was valid) Maybe that's just the female equivalent of the introverted male. The one that gets ignored by every women until they're older …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 07:47 PM
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Is it just me or has the amount of posts pertaining to "I'm a man and look at this double standard!" complaining type of post has gone up recently?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 09:06 PM
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If women complain it's usually in the form of "I tried throwing nerdy guy X a bone but he went after Stacy instead! He should be lucky that I even gave him a chance, god guys with unrealistic standards". So yeah they do. Specifically on this subreddit I read about a women making this exact point. But you're definitely right in that it's not a stereotype or a overarching societal thing as much as men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 09:04 PM
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I'd agree with you. I doubt he is nothing more than a personal coach or trainer in the vain of so many.... who don't have any academical credibility. I'd guess he's a "common man". That article already shows he used to do promotions for huge companies. Nothing Academic. I don't think he does know how questionable it is. To him is it helped him in his life. He's married has kids and he's happy. He's drawing on his own experiences. Which can never truly be objective. When it comes to RP there's di…
/r/ExRedPill14/04/18 01:38 AM
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No, he asserts that he's willing to give up his anonimity to further support his readers. And he said this only recently. In that article. Which he will do in the future. If you're so ready to doxx his ass for some reason the only thing you need to do is wait.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/18 06:01 PM
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I don't know. He rightly so never mentioned it by name. And to speak at events it isn't required to say your real name. He's always used that alias. Just like illimitable men does, just like black label logic does. Almost any RP bulwark. He reflects on it in his blog post Which BTW isn't harping or pushing ANYTHING toxic or RP. It's just a reflection of his "career" and his life. If you want to know the guy read that. It's actually a very human post. I don't know whether he ever worked in academ…
/r/ExRedPill13/04/18 12:51 AM
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Just like any ideology there's parts of it that are pretty..... immoral. Dread game for instance. Which is valid. That shit terribly manipulative and if you ever have t consult that you're better off breaking up tbh. People who criticise the red pill take the few toxic parts of it and then claim that therefore the entire movement is toxic. An example would be quoting a few comments from people on the subreddit and then saying "ooooo that's the entire movement consisting of 250.000 people's opini…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 08:18 PM
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So I did my best to stay anonymous as Rollo Tomassi. Even when I became more anti-fragile I understood that if some hater couldn’t get me fired they would come after my daughter, my wife, my dogs, my extended family, etc. without any fore or afterthought. That’s kind of changing for me now. I’ve got three books under my belt (yes, there’s a fourth I’m working on too) and after doing really only two in-person talks it became clear that I needed to be more accessible. Looks like he was right about…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/18 07:25 PM
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I'm an avid reader of the deadbedroom subreddit.... It is never something said. Rather it's something acted on. Ie. Your GF never wanted to have sex with you but now that she's habouring a child wish her willingness is off the charts. And then when you have the kid it goes back to 0 again. Or they're making up exucses. He/she is not feeling it. He/She is sick. I don't think any partner will ever admit that they're not attracted.... but they will show it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 06:46 PM
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My guess is it's the sudden realization of being faced with reality. It's equivalent to being fat and making a lifestyle change. You go to the gym, you change your diet. And guess what; you lose weight! What usually ends up happening is your friends who tend to also be fat, start making comments. "you would eat more". "you were beautiful the way you are". And they start to dislike you. You know why? Because it shows them "yes with work you can also be thin". And they hate that. I think with wome…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 04:03 PM
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Huh, i suppose I've heard too many horror stories of people getting completely divorce raped and prenups totally ignored in favour of one party "deserving" something. Usually money. But that might have been prenups that weren't approved by a lawyer. I still wouldn't trust it myself though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 03:41 PM
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Depends on the state... but it's usually a bad idea. Do your research first!.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 04:03 PM
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No, gets thrown out in court on a whim. It's only a safeguard if you're a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 03:44 PM
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Their sex drive is only low with people they don't want to have sex with. A deadbedroom being a good example. They can be just as horny as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 06:06 PM
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Fight Club was on to something it seems. I watch that movie again every once in a while and keeps ringing true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 12:36 PM
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I don't think I could live the male gold digger life. It you're happy with that sure. Men are always more attracted to beauty than to net worth. And I'm no exception.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 04:48 AM
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Freedom of expression also means people have the freedom to shit on your opinion. Do you see them deleting any of these comments? Just like any subreddit with up and downvoting, ciclejerking is unavoidable. It's pretty normal for a place with 250.000 visitors to sound a bit disjointed. We're not a hive mind.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 05:22 AM
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The point is that there are many people that just don't have the option. Or at least aren't willing to settle for what the option is. And that group might be getting bigger and bigger the worse it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 08:18 PM
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Fantastic, lifelong I think that at the point you need to opt buying a realdoll you're past the point where you can find someone like that, and you've given up. I don't think it's always a either or case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 08:09 PM
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Watching that one guy in that documentary marrying his sex doll I'd disagree. I think that if you're low enough on the totem pole and are not willing to accept the women in your league (fat chicks) then you might as well spend a few grand on one of those things. AI will become that smart eventually. Ie. That hologram Ryan Gosling is into in Blade Runner 2049. But that'll take a while. I definitely believe too that if your SMV is low enough you're willing to settle for that too. "It's better to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 08:03 PM
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Yes some women exist who have the stupid 5"10 or lower need not apply. But they can only do that on tinder. I'm 5"6. But I don't care. Its simply something I cannot change and if some girl grills me for being too short I'll retort with a remark or a joke. They way I see it, it's all about "allowed mishaps". If you're like one of my friends : 6">, fit, recently had jaw surgery and now has a baller jawline, well dressed. Girls will overlook a whole load of stupid shit he does because he is so attr…
/r/ExRedPill19/03/18 04:24 PM
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I think what he's trying to say is that women tend to.. "Make themselves available" to men. They won't even initiate for fear of rejection. They'll just hang around you. Give you covert signals. At this point she has already chosen you and the only thing you have to do is to show interest. If you notice it at all. To say women are always the choosers is wrong. Exceptions always exist. . But the majority tend to not take the initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 02:29 AM
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Yep. No dad, I had figure all of shit out for myself. What women told me was the same shit normal guys get told. "Be nice, treat her like a princess, you have high standards". When saying I wouldn't date fat chicks or single moms. But thats all nice guy behaviour. And that gets you nowhere. I'm partly happy though because if my dad was still around, I undoubtedly would be full on neckbeard nice guy. And If I ever do have kids I'll be the best role model/father to them because I never had.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 08:32 PM
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I think that's the most realistic. Most men would probably fuck both given the chance. But if either demanded a committed relationship guess who gets dumped? The fattie. And that's just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 08:24 PM
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I think the usual avenues of finding are just barren with them. They are out there. BUT She is not on tinder, not on okcupid and not going to bars looking for it. Probably saying the exact same thing "all men are taken/pigs" or some variant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 03:56 AM
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True, parts of redpill do that. Incels being a fun example. although that subreddit did get banned. Those are the true self pity jerkers. They say "enjoy the decline" over at redpill for a reason. There's no point in whining about how it is. Rather use the system to your advantage and make sure you don't get fucked over. which means that their “beta” dad who gave them their “beta” genes managed to impregnate someone. Yeah that usually happens because women value provider(beta) and alpha traits. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 07:33 PM
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I think it's pretty difficult to dig yourself out of a gigantic hole and easier to wallow in your self pity. It's easy to say "go out/dress better/do you hair" to the guy who still has an active social life. It's never that easy. Once that falls away and you become increasingly more isolated is when it appears as red flags. And it in turn becomes difficult. Take an american example. College. You have to be pretty dumb NOT to get laid and or get friends in college. But once you're out of there, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 06:13 PM
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I'm not surprised how popular really far right parties are becoming. Germany. France. Netherlands.(where I'm from, and isn't cucked yet). Hungary. Him saying europe is dead retarded. America is worse off than many western European countries. It's the Scandinavian area like Sweden which is getting fucked royally. Canada is changing as well. And that's so fucking sad. The most beautiful women tend to come from Scandinavian countries.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 09:28 AM
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I suppose I might have to approach it from a different angle. I read it from beginning to somewhere a couple chapters in. It might be smarter to just skim it a bit. Skip. I didn't want to skip initially because I figured "i might miss something important" Might be smarter to skip try to grab things that seem important, and lay on them for a while. I had read here that someone spent several days on 1 chapter of Marcus Aurelius's meditations just taking it all in.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 07:04 PM
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I've worked on Meditations by Marcus but they're written at their level and in their times. Saying they're difficult pills to swallow. Each page I go "holy moly". I'm not saying I'm a pleb who doesn't appreciate literature. No. I'm just a pleb who needs to learn how to understand it all. It's the equivalent of reading a redpill article will about a dozen acronyms and a handful of accepted ideas in there. You just don't know, and trough reading up core concepts/opposing views eventually you catch…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 05:02 PM
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How does that work? I'm a very "mental-masturbation-y" guy. I read a load of this stuff, and acting just based on something that's not very thought out seems like a weird concept to me. I tend to think very far ahead, and very negatively. Which I've been criticised on.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 03:01 PM
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eh, I don't think dogs are the type of animal that can stay inside all the time. Maybe if you get yourself a bulldog or something. House with a yard could be a good idea, but I cannot afford that. And I think a whole load of single men can't either. These days it either requires two people, or one that's a top earner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 02:41 AM
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Is it common for 8 to 5 people to own animals? I'm saying this because I wouldn't want a dog or a cat completely alone in my house for 9 hours. That's not good for an animal. I've known dogs that would start eating furniture out of stress, or they'd bark for hours. Also i've seen a video of a couple men talking about guys and animals and one of them noted "There's no one for me anymore, i'm just gonna get a cat" That there's a hivemind where if you have a certain type of animal you've just given…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 02:26 AM
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I think if he maintained himself he would've been fine, But what he endured does a lot to a man mentally and physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 11:20 AM
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Lust is temporary love is forever :D. But in all seriousness, I'm somewhat in the middle. More red than blue. I think "men in demand" aka attractive men who are able to pump&dump a whole load of women want something that most people including men want in their life. Love, companionship, a family. I know that I will probably never find a women who will love me like I do her. I know that cheating and betrayal is something I have to expect. There is no unicorn. And I need to be cautious to commit n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 03:15 AM
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Those are men that never knew how much they're worth. They never did any of the chasing because they may have been introverted. Any women that at that point shows them ANY ounce of attention they'll go "oh wow, someone likes me OMG" and then that happens. My more cynical side thinks that those men might've gone for the less attractive option because he knows she won't cheat. Also, it might be that that girl was attractive but as soon as she secured his commitment, she just dropped every thing sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 03:06 AM
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Realistically you have to make a choice... I think he should probably get that test, and make that test legal, then seperate, and have seperate custody over the kid. That's the best solution where at least the guy can move on, not get fucked by alimony, and not be cucked. Even if the guy wanted to leave he needs the results of the test to prove he's not the father. I think even then the court might say "well you took care of it for so long, pay up lol" Morally for the kid, you're right. But mora…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 10:10 AM
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Partly agree, it is usually mismanagement. Which is sad, just the way it is. It's 4000 monthly starting assume you have a CS degree. At least over here. But of course that's a higher education diploma. Is it that expensive to switch careers in america? And do people even know? I doubt many a wallmart employee realises he/she can just do something else. In my country there's even a program you can enroll into as an adult to get a higher education diploma (something like CS). That I didn't even kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 05:11 AM
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Yeah I can that. I'm not talking big numbers here though, they tend to get paid 40-50grand maybe. Which is fine, that's still quite a lot compared to some basis jobs. And it's just a cost cutting measure because the guy that's upholding the entire system is making sure nothing goes wrong, and therefore nothing goes wrong. This in IT creates a common problem, "why do we hire this guy, he does nothing?" until shits hit the fan and "omg this guy kept everything from going wrong"! And i'm not talkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 04:43 AM
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I wouldn't call it fraud. They are very good programmers. That also means they're expensive. And the job market is cutthroat. There was an entire thread on r/programming I think where guys in IT talked about Indian programmers and their bad reputation. What would happen is IT mister with a good heart saw no harm in training what seemed like his new colleague in his company. What happened? He got fired and the company now had a programmer who is underpaid and now knows how the system works. Now m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 03:40 AM
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It's because she thought "A guy like him might want to be in a relationship with me?" and she figured one night of bad sex is nothing compared to the life he could give her. Again that first line was in the interview. She was I a bad place and couldn't fathom why a great famous guy like aziz would want her as his gf. So when that didn't happen, she got disappointed. Have I been used again? etc. It's when she cried assault. I don't think it was casual. Maybe for Aziz, but not for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 02:21 AM
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I wonder how productivity is based on competitiveness. In IT especially how programmers would make themselves indispensable so they can't be fired. Multiple companies I worked/interned for always had a top dog who knew the most about the system. I can understand that the lower people can never compete with his level of productiveness because he won't allow someone to outdo him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 02:09 AM
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What's important to me is effort. All these women put in effort and they have a job. The important thing is that even if I were to earn enough money for the both of us I wouldn't want her to give up her job and become lazy as a result. Which is usually a judge of character. As long as you work, I don't care much what work it is. Be a slave to the system like all of us are. Not all of TRP is like that. I'm not like that. Most trpers would shit on all of their age and say to men "you can get more …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 09:51 PM
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I think it's more that men that don't approach are just plain unsuccessful. Not that they're not real men. Is it a conflicting message that approaching works for men who know how to do it. Who know how to interpret female signals and know when she gives you a get go. Men are getting mad because men read when feminists say that approaching equals harassment as "we consider any men who's unsuccessful in his approach to be a harasser" Men then think "how am supposed to figure this out if I'm not gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 07:42 PM
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He does NOT. I looked him up... and his main method up until he started a youtube channel a couple days ago was a website filled with tweet threads That's not an effective way of communicating information.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 10:30 AM
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They would lose. Bad. Men have been the corpses for traditional war since the dawn of time. We're pretty good at it Women are fighting an actual gender war. But they're fighting it the way women are good at. Manipulation, covert-ness. They're doing it their way. Turn society against men. I've seen nothing but positivity from the Dutch MSM when it comes to the matriarchy. So why not. See how they handle the burdens we carry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 05:08 AM
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Funny though you always see men saying on reddit that marriage for men is dangerous right now in America You're asking the guy to sign a deal that might horribly screw him over, because you don't want to get screwed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 04:52 AM
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also true. I suppose their excuse is that actual creeps will start to stalk them. But yeah, telling him to fuck off should be pretty normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 04:50 PM
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My best guess? unwanted advances mixed with signals not being interpreted is how you get called a creep. It would be a man hitting on someone who's not feeling it and to her she's (not saying) but acting "no" in every respect and he doesn't see it. Usually what happens is she makes a signal or something and her friends drag her out of there. That's considered "creepy" now, i guess. I once read a story on r/redpill where this obviously autistic dude who couldn't interpret social cues at all tryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 01:12 AM
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Effort spent on yourself. Didn't clarify that enough. It's like wearing fitted clothing, doing your hair. Whatever. Same level. And like I said, just don't overdo it. And what is that point? I don't know where the line is because i'm a guy. The point where you look like one of those youtube videos where a women transforms from a swamp donkey into what looks like a disney princess is probably too far yeah, but "no makeup" make-up is pretty much standard as far as I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 12:49 AM
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True true. It's the case for everyone. Look at their actions. Not what they say. Holds true for men and women I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 05:33 PM
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Who are these people? On Reddit i read "make up is fine just don't overdo it" That's I'm assuming the majority of men's stance on it. If you don't overdo it it's just a part of physical maintenance. Unless it's a part of RP I somehow missed.... When they say "plastered" I'd doubt they mean people who don't overdo it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 05:14 PM
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Makeup is effort spent on yourself. That's isn't fake. Just overdo it. Don't look at what people say, look at what they do always holds true. It's also way easier to find women caked in make-up and fake tits than it is to find a naturally beautiful women. I've seen maybe 1 that's straight up gorgeous. It's just too rare. EDIT : clarity
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 05:10 PM
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It's a bubble reddit tends to create. Yes, many men would jump at any women who gave them a chance. And yes there's also men who've completely given up and are bitter because no-one gave them a chance. But those aren't the men women desire. Or they aren't the ones women meet. The type of man that has standards equal to women are the ones that can uphold these standards. These men are desired. And these men create the female pov. Just as the women who don't want to nail you because you're "ugly" …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 05:00 AM
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Maybe I explained it wrong. It's easier for most men to bang around and not have it bite him in the ass, then to marry and not have it bite him in the ass. There's A LOT more risk involved. it's easier to fuck up marriage and end up divorce raped / cucked / pussy whipped than it is to spin plates or whatever you want to do. I should've made that more clear so I'll edit my comment.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 07:44 PM
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Yeah. There's many an RP-er that's married. Rollo Tomassi for example. It just depends on how you handle it. Yes, for most men it's not a good idea. That's because it's easier for most men to bang around and not have it bite him in the ass than it is to settle. Things can go awry if you don't know what you're doing when it comes to marriage.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 05:57 PM
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Being rich is all relative. As you said exactly in this comment. Yes some hamburger flipper in the US technically makes more money than someone in the Ukraine. But that person in the Ukraine has WAY more value out of their money at the end of the day. $100,000 US money is worth $2,796,750 in Ukraine money. Exactly that. And no, not everyone can just move to a country in a civil war and abandon everyone at home. Plus there's the language barrier. Most people are an unwilling gear in a shitty syst…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 09:28 AM
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I don't think you would even know any of these guys from the normal crowd. I'm not ashamed, my opinion is "I'm not into overweight women, if they want to live that way it's their choice". And that's all. To me, if you're overweight, you realize that not everyone will be into you and you accept that. Fine. There's also a double standard here that might explain his opinion. I don't blame the 6"4 guy for thinking that antagonizing about fat women. Some of them are very entitled. And it only takes a…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 07:46 PM
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Yep that's it. I can't blame men for not knowing where the hell they are on the attractiveness skill if they never try. "You should've just asked me I would've said yes!" Yeah how the hell is a shy nerdy guy supposed to figure that one out. Maybe ask them first? Oh wait women don't do that because they always make themselves ""available"" rather than to just ask and risk getting denied. Through covert signals any nerdy guy sure as hell isn't going to pick up on. Rub it in the (USA) beta nerd who…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 04:33 AM
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Yep, dutch. Which makes absorbing RP knowledge always a bit trickier because some concepts are very influenced by American culture. But that's not the point. That might mean that you're just as tall as we are. And which the common thing that most white women prefer to only date white men... makes it even weirder.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 08:49 PM
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I don't have much experience with men below the cutaway. I'm 5"6 (168cm) and I live in the country with the tallest people on average(6"1). Assuming you don't look like a manlet, at which point you're too wide it's shouldn't be that much of an issue. It's always about how you carry yourself. You're taller, have a better jawline and lift? congrats, this just means you get more IOI's, you can make more mistakes before she loses interest. Some people have it easier and some people like us just have…
/r/askTRP01/01/18 05:37 AM
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It's just the hoes on tinder, bumble, okcupid can have these kinds of standards and also uphold them. Dating aps are so focussed on looks that game falls away. In any normal setting it doesn't matter how short or tall you are. if you're a bit chubby, if you're a bit thin. The thing that can overcome all that is game. If one of those girls were in a bar setting and any 5"6 man who knows his shit tried to seduce her, she will lose the standards quick. So I agree.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 06:05 PM
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Yep. I partly agree. They all try to preach "strong independent women" "we don't need no man" And yes, if you make a career for yourself, and have a fun life. you don't need no man. But once children come into play. You do. The burden is always laid on something. Maybe she uses her family to help raise it. Maybe she's on benifits and the tax payers pay for it. Or she lives off of her ex's success by gorging down alimony (brendan frasier). And maybe she finds beta she "loves". That love comes fro…
/r/askTRP30/12/17 05:54 PM
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Have kids! We want grand kids! Keep the child! Abortion is a sin! Even though you barely have enough money to get by and you're not able to give it the future it needs. Keep it. No don't put it up for adoption. Better to raise it in abhorrent conditions and hope he comes out all right. When you look at facebook and see all those people who are <22 getting pregnant/someone pregnant.... they're throwing their lives away and the lives of their children. Marry! Be happy. You have to marry. Don't you…
/r/askTRP30/12/17 05:47 PM
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I think it's just society in general. It's just expected that if you're a women you're going to find a husband. You're going to marry. And you're going to have kids. I read here about women who just decided no. I don't want kids. Their entire environment would say "you'll get around to it" or "you can't have kids?" Implying something like inferitiliy. That without kids and a husband they can't be happy. Likewise. It's also expected that men find a job. That men work hard(er than women). That men…
/r/askTRP30/12/17 12:44 PM
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I re-read the old comment i was referencing and I was partly correct. Normally it's required for both parties to consent when it comes to things like a paternity test. But it is possible through the legal system to force a test anyway. The US legal system is not a very male friendly environment though. Especially when it comes to paternity issues. I don't know how US states handle this individually but I wouldn't be surprised if this guy was right. And you're forced to be the provider to a kid t…
/r/askTRP19/12/17 04:46 AM
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Sidenote. A DNA test requires permission from both parties. (As far as I know) It can get dangerous if she really wants it and unless it's a different race you won't know.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 09:17 PM
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I agree. Definitely. Any women in her 40's is gonna have a hard time. It's difficult enough when you're in your 30's, or when you're a single mom. I just said that in the case of OP if she already has a boyfriend/man whatever he won't give a shit. Because normal men don't, really, if he did she would be complaining here that he broke up with her. 21st century is a shitty place for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 10:53 AM
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At the point when you're hoohas start to sag men won't care. And if they do? they're not men who're interested in 40 year old women. I've read so much shit on here where women were insecure about how they look when thet got older. Things like stretchmarks/saggies. If you're in a good relationship with your bf for that long he simply won't give a shit. Normal people realize people age and accept some shortcomings. Men have a better shelf life, yes. But that doesn't mean every dude can and will ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 05:00 AM
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It's probably one of those "if you say you're MGTOW, you're not" Those kind of men are loving out their lives doing whatever they enjoy. They won't go to Reddit to write about their life.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 04:03 PM
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My guess is social media. You're on Facebook, you have these girls as friends. They're 21ish and before you know it the "we're way too young to be pregnant" or "hey I'm partying it up" posts come in. Meanwhile OP isn't partying or sleeping around. Being an orbiter probably. Then a few years later OP starts posting his gym gains. School gains. Job gains. Hobby gains. The women who used to totally ignore him suddenly see pictures on their wall of this guy, and think "holy shit he improved" and boo…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 11:07 AM
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Once you go down a pretty deep spiral it's really difficult to get out of it. Most of the things you keep saying to myself is "why bother?". You don't care much anymore. A small part of you does want help. One of the most difficult things to learn is discipline. Do it, even if you don't like it. I myself have almost none. I can see how some people would rather float around in their self pity than change. Most men want help. But they're not disciplined or motivated enough to work for it.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 03:27 AM
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I remember reading that prenups don't work and they can get thrown out of court on a whim. That may depend on where you live though.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 09:23 AM
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I'm a virgin and relatively young but I don't see myself banging ANYONE any time soon. Not due anything you mentioned. I'm just a guy who wasn't a very sociable guy(I improved) and that meant : not many friends = not many women friends / not many events to go to to meet women etc. It stacks up. If I had a nickle for every time someone would say "why not?" after "do you have a girfriend", i'd have a girlfriend by now. I've read some stories on female-centered subreddits asking advice on how to de…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 05:12 PM
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Men are willing to have sex with a LOT more women than the ones they're willing to have a relationship with. That's my guess. Plus it's never a bad idea to practice on the ones you're not interested in
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 11:53 PM
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Makes a bit of sense. Men tend to be direct. I think that if you're a man, especially a gorgeous one you get a lot of attention. Women are the same but they get even more attention than men do. Which might explain the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 02:18 AM
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Anecdotal evidence is always a bit iffy. Just because you keep seeing it happening doesn't mean the issue is more prevalent. Of course just because I see men getting on with women with "baggage" doesn't make that issue more prevalent either. That doesn't mean I or even you are lying. Both happen. They are liars when they say they have it worse. Because that can't be proven. I'm just saying that just because you never see it doesn't mean it isn't there. And just because I always see it doesn't me…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 02:47 AM
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Gold digging doesn't just have to be about money right? I know various men who got in a relation with a.... divorced, single mom who obviously only went with them because they can help support her and her kid. Now I don't judge anyone for looking out for themselves. The older and the more "resource laden" a man gets the more in demand he becomes, and the more paranoid he gets. Men who are in these positions tend to be overlooked by women when they're younger. And that's exactly why they get so p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 02:26 AM
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It's always the other party that think they're smarter. I bet his GF is saying she's smarter to all of her friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 03:41 AM
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What I read on illimitable men(I think) was that the "natural" accepted level of testosterone in your body kept getting set lower and lower. This caused people who are around 300 these days to be said that they're normal but a few decades ago would've gotten put on therapy. Article It has its biases but is pretty informative. I'm in a bad spot myself but I'm attributing that to myself rather than low T.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 11:23 AM
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it's a man's responsibility to wisely select a partner who is not going to lie about being on the pill. Don't agree with that since that's almost impossible. It's easy to pick the really fucked up ones out, true. But there can be edge cases. I'm more of the opinion of "always wrap it". Even if she says she's using some contraceptive. Always wrap it. It is kind of double. You see stories of famous people like Brendan Frasier getting absolutely divorce raped. And stories how women always get favou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/17 10:27 AM
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As a guy I always have sabotage in the back of mind. The poking holes in condoms and not actually taking the pill things. Or the I cheated on you and got pregnant from another dude but I'll tell you it's yours and you can't get a DNA test since it requires permission from both sides. I do agree though don't do stupid shit like have unprotected sex with a women if you can't handle the repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/17 07:53 AM
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I just quote what I've seen here on Reddit. In my personal (west eu) experience, I haven't seen it either. But that's just me. I don't think it's as widespread either. But I wouldn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 03:49 PM
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Nice. That does add validity to the Reddit thread. She said everyone in her class started dating each other and she was the odd one out. The funny thing though that in that Reddit thread she couldn't stop talking about that she was a such a good catch, such a high earning surgeon, Had a good career etc. A lot of people commented "it might not be about the fact that you're a surgeon that you got declined"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 03:46 PM
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Google is the ultimate form of confirmation bias. I myself don't know. I've just heard stories here and there. In my personal experience people I've talked to don't care. But that's just me. Anecdotal evidence is just as useless though. But as man myself. I can totally understand with the standards of masculinity that men wouldn't be happy with a women earning more or themselves somehow earning way less. I suppose that's another part of masculinity that should really be thrown out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 03:40 PM
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There was a Reddit thread a while back. About a women (with a bit of a complex, granted) who complained men tended to flake on dating after she told him that she was a high earning surgeon. Also a guy who got depressed after he lost his job and had to take a lower paid one. This suddenly made his wife the "breadwinner" since she made the biggest cut. Then his depression led to some sad things and she made a thread on Reddit how he changed and she was doubting to file a divorce. But that's not my…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 04:54 PM
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What I think it is is an archetype of what women.. "are". Certain things that are true for almost every women you meant. I myself see "awalt" as an archetype. A women who is awalt will display certain traits that RP lines out. I don't think every women is an awalt women. But it's a thing I do keep in the back of my mind and look out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 07:36 PM
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Not just misandry. Vice is just a "hipster" opinion machine. The type of people that say we should accept everyone. Doesn't matter how much of a snowflake you are! While in truth you should only strive for tolerance. The type of people that say women have it so much worse and that men have it so easy and they're bitter and angry. While in truth women and men deal with different issues. Women show these issues overtly. Meaning they can solve them and blame us. While men shove them inwardly. Meani…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 06:16 PM
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It's VICE. That's what they've turned into. Along with many other journalists. Step 1 : Find a fringe group with some different views. Step 2 : Paint them off as another group of white angry men.. bonus points for saying they're "Alt-right" Step 3: Somehow spin the story into that they're what's wrong with America and they somehow caused all this misery. Back in 2012ish I loved to watch VICE. They had interesting documentaries that filmed things from a perspective where they never really "judged…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 01:00 PM
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The thing is though saying in a poll you're bi is different than being it. You never know maybe these guys don't even admit it or even act like it. If sexuality was a spectrum I'd be near the bi end too. Not completely though. But you won't ever hear me admit it. Unless of course the "situation".... ever comes up. But to the majority of people I'll tell them I'm straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 11:08 AM
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He should've copied them to his phone and done a reverse image search. Might've gotten lucky.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 08:03 PM
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Japan is very xenophobic though. As a western man how do you even break through that? Speaking Japanese will get you there but i once heard someone say "You may speak the language and integrate/respect their culture, you'll never be more than a foreigner to them"
/r/askTRP20/08/17 06:57 PM
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She wants to see if she can stick to you. She probably doesn't want to get stuck to Mr art major who doesn't do anything with his life(not you just an example) She wants someone she knows she can use for her future. As a source of money and a source of kids.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 11:37 AM
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My guess is that the line these days is drawn at Fleshlight. Have anything bigger than that and you'll get weird responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 11:29 AM
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Just a movie though. I do agree that attractiveness is looks and acts. But it isn't magic dust. A girl who's got high standards will whine on Reddit here that she had such a nice evening but there was no "spark". That's what'll happen if you're not that attractive but you're a social beast.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 03:32 AM
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this bot should AT LEAST have an option where it automatically deletes its comment when it reaches a certain negative score. Maybe something to message the dev about.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 08:39 PM
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It depends what kind of a person you are. I like reading. Like i said In my above comment I do 3 things. I read a ton of diverse subreddits, from this one r/asktrp. askmen,askwomenadvice,redpill,purplepill,menslib,kotakuinaction and even exredpill. I like to take in as much info from many different viewpoints. That's exactly why I wouldn't really consider myself stereotypically RP. I read ONLY this subreddit at first and it made me seriously bitter. Which i why i branched out. I visit RP sites o…
/r/askTRP14/08/17 08:38 PM
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The way I always did it is.. Absorb information but always make up your own mind. Don't read just this sub. I read sites I've found out through here. I read mainstream subreddits like askmen, purplepill,menslib, askwomenadvice​(not askwomen since it's cancer), even ex-red pill to see where people went wrong applying RP knowledge. Illimitable men. Rational Male. Black Label Logic. And more. One of these sites I believe was Rollo Tomassi(rational Male) once quoted Bruce Lee on the way you have to …
/r/askTRP13/08/17 09:37 PM
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Oh then I'm sorry. I'll edit it to clarify more! My guess is that he felt depressed and just like me... Red pill was a revelation and suddenly everything made sense. And than all logic and rational thinking goes out the window in favour of awalt and all that bullshit. I was there at some point. I wouldn't want him to throw his life away based on some stupid ideology. And hope that that ultimatum would make him see reason.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/17 07:04 PM
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Exactly. I agree.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/17 07:01 PM
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I wouldn't know that. It's not depression -> rape. It's depression,desperation,red pill,revelation, and then because of red pill itself, it eventually leads to awful shit. It's more of a catalyst. Red pill was a refuge for me as well at some point. And I'm glad I grew slightly out of it.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/17 06:59 PM
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That's doesn't really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 06:21 PM
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I agree. It's poor. But like I said depression can make you do some terrible stuff. It's not an excuse but they were happy at some point. And I believe just like you said that via counseling and therapy it's a thing worth fighting for.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/17 05:54 PM
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I get that. I'm just saying "most men" aren't old pedos. Women have to be paranoid from 14yo on out I get that. And they get way way more attention from men and creepers. In that way men and women are very opposite. As an average man you get no attention. And as an average women you get tons of unwanted attention. It sucks for both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 12:04 PM
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I always thought women show self doubt outwardly and men inwardly. I have a lot of self doubt. But on the outside, you won't see it at all. I think it's unfair to say men are better off because it's so more "obvious" women have it worse. Men get exceptionally good at hiding their emotions. As a man crying isn't allowed. Talking about your emotions isn't allowed. I don't think the old 45 year old pedo who's got nothing to lose anymore are good examples of "most men". I feel like there is a discon…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 01:27 AM
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That's a common thing everyone keeps repeating on the internet. That when men kill themselves they usually succeed. Hanging. Jumping off buildings. Where as women will try.. and fail more. Pills...cutting etc. Though that might be another internet myth thrown around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 05:16 AM
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The irony of the minister of heath actually being very unhealthy is pretty funny. But if she does her job well and looks out for other people, i see no reason to worry. She might as well not give a single shit about her own health. To me the difference between booting and rooting for her is how ignorant she is of her own health. I've seen many a people who know what they're doing is bad, but they say "my life, my choice" and that's fine with me.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 02:28 PM
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No I'm saying that American culture is a bit more casual towards hookups. Using tinder for instance. A lot more than some other western cultures. Coming from personal experience. Now I'm an average guy. So I might be completely out of touch on that too. I chose that flair because I like to browse a lot of "relationship/gender" subreddits. So I absorb knowledge like SpongeBob. Or at least I try to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 10:16 PM
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I'd say it's the boring average male (someone like me I'd suppose) would want a relationship more than sex... Well actually I want the personal connection part of sex. But an American guy(American because cultural difference) who knows how to pick up women will have that steady supply anyway so he won't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 09:25 PM
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80/20 rule right? I'd say the average guy is a 6/7 and will never score a 6... Or a 7. Only a 5 or lower.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 05:53 PM
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while neglecting girls that are less physically attractive yet amazing people The old "omg why aren't you married/have a girlfriend/still single" And then totally ignore him anyway. Works for both genders that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 10:56 AM
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Truly average men and women are probably one of the most beautiful out there. When women and men talk about average it's clouded by bias and circumstance. What might be average to a 6 out of 10 isn't the same as average to a 4 out of 10
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 05:22 PM
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It's pretty interesting because I see threads on askmen and similar subreddits on how some women hate that their SO stoic and would love for them to be emotional. But I've also read threads of guys trying to do this and the SO would break up with him. My guess is allow males to actually show emotions, even at a young age I lock it all inside, I don't have anyone I can comfortably share it with. Women usually do. Guy friends tend to not be comfortable with it. At least coming from personal experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 06:11 PM
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Do you have any evidence that the demographic of men that use Tinder are significantly less attractive than the ones that abstain? I'm saying the exact opposite. all of my nerdy guy friends don't use Tinder. exactly my point :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 11:22 AM
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I can agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 11:21 AM
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I see what you mean. It's a very dangerous job to be practicing with a lot of risks involved. What do you propose men.. or women I suppose .. should do then to get the physical contact and affection they crave? Jacking off or buying a tarzan rotator 3000 is going to feel just as empty. At least with an escort there's the human element. I could see what you mean if every person used an escort like a living fleshlight. I'd ask for a very personal "love" experience. It might be fake. But it'll work…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 11:29 PM
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That's tinder though. It's already a small demographic. You won't see certain men on tinder. And you won't see certain women on it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 10:52 PM
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Yes I agree. That buddy of mine has 1 pic. And that's it. I'm wanting to try tinder. I only have 1 picture I can use. But I plan to make more first, maybe in different places. Idk. Just to show me as a well rounded individual
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 02:22 PM
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A buddy of mine who i'd consider not really good looking. not ugly either. He has used tinder for a while and got 12 matches in total. I suppose it's also where you come from that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 08:19 PM
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huh, i'm glad i actually didn't really read the side bar then. I mostly read the blogs of the likes like Rollo Tomassi, illimitable men,and tried to form my own opinion based on their articles. Maybe it's wrong for me to feel most people who read the red pill aren't as zealous as the "AWALT, dread game, carousel" etc etc. people? I'm (maybe unjustly) assuming that a person who reads up on TRP knowledge follows their own way instead of blindly following the tenants these guys put up. I actually d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 08:01 PM
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Isn't this a strawman? I'm slightly red pill but don't believe in any of these. They might be "basic red pill" to some. But not to everyone. Again you're painting red pill people as one giant group with a single set of set morals. It would be like me saying every single feminist is like the one that screams "misogyny, rape, mainspaining, reeeE" over everything. But that's not true either. And again a post reaching the top of RP doesn't take much. There's 200.000 people on there (or way more), an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 12:55 PM
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she had also been dating another guy It's been a while since we have texted I don't think you're in a "relationship" when the only thing you do is text and you never talk to each other. without being friendzoned. It looks to me you have already been friendzoned. look for someone else. She's obviously doing the same thing. Infatuation doesn't mean anything. It's just chemistry. Ignore it. Price or Princess charming doesn't exist. You're 21(like me so i'm not an RP master or some shit) and there's…
/r/askTRP13/05/17 06:00 PM
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I feel AMAZING after a good workout. started lifting recently with a basic-ish workout. The feeling i got after my 3rd workout.. that's when the DOMS finally subsised. Was amazing. holy shit i was hyped to start doing everything.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 01:11 PM
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My guess is OP needs to learn some abundance mentality. Just because my buddy who i objectively consider better than me in every way can probably get any women he wants, doesn't mean there aren't any left for me. Mr jawline just has an easy way in. If a women wants "100%" than that guy is an 80% while I might a 50%. I need to work for it but i can still get the same type of women he gets. Just not as easily.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 11:30 AM
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No, i browse redpill, bluepill, here, asktrp...askmen..askwomen etc. It's more a thing of desperation. I had a mental breakdown and reading TRP blogs helped me on the path of self improvement. self-help subbreddits tend to just be shia style "JUST DO IT" which i consider useless... trp tends to be blunt. in a good way... and sometimes a bad way. Reading on trp , r/fitness about people and progress.. and how they achieve that progress really helped me out. Things like setting goals, anecdotes are…
/r/ExRedPill01/05/17 12:38 PM
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with Russia poking the EU by occupying crimea i'm already afraid it's already happening. Guess if a war breaks out who they're going to send off to die? young men. So fuck that.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 03:42 PM
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goodnight with a naughty smile wait isn't that the sign to push? or am i misinterperting it?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 10:23 AM
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I see what you mean. Sorta as motivation and social pressure like i said as well. Fine by me. I've had the same thing with RP, a buddy of mine made a tinder profile, a bad one(like 1 picture). and i keep bugging him about it and asking how it's going. I keep trying to drop TRP truths but he doesn't pick up on them.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 07:28 PM
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I'm dutch, so i'm not 100% sure what that means. Assuming you'll tell me what's expected of me and you, then i'm fine with it. But sure, why not :)
/r/askTRP23/04/17 06:50 PM
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I'm 21 and i'm in/was the same position. I at some point had a mental breakdown, and i was basically depressed for a couple weeks. That's when it hit me. I'm not there yet, but part of changing yourself is Introspection. I looked at myself and thought "what's wrong?" I identified my issues and wrote them down.. in a google keep note. That simple. I then started figuring out how to change all those things. Both physical, and mental. I started reading up on: The red pill subreddit/illimitablemen/r…
/r/askTRP23/04/17 06:23 PM
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Redpill is nothing more than a theory on how women act/think and evidence based on that, from a male perspective. It's a set of tools If his daughter is taught about this process, she can manipulate it and turn it into her favour. You have to realise that people are on here for different goals and have different views. Some people use these tools for evil, some for good. If you feel that way you haven't been on here enough. Or it's confirmation bias.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 11:02 PM
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I literally said I'm not looking to have a fight with atheists in my original post. There's your problem. Saying you don't want to argue = people are going to argue. If you'd just written down that you're religious i bet a ton of people wouldn't have commented. spoiler : its through purpose, and the only purpose is serving the purpose God wants you to serve. That is what pushed it over the edge for me. And i bet it did to a lot of atheists too. It wouldn't if it was written more personal, you're…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 07:12 PM
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I feel like you're kinda looking up the confrontation. You're saying that atheists are always butthurt while writing an entire wad of text with religious...taunting in it, almost. Like you want atheiststs to come at you. Don't be surprised people are butthurt when you're constantly looking for confrontation. I'm an apathist myself. I don't care about god, i don't care about science the big bang or whatever. The only thing that matters is me, here, now and in the future. That's why i'm on here. T…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 08:25 AM
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It's about the fact that they try to paint it off as something "empowering" that a women can do. And that as an outsider you should view them as "brave and strong" or whatever. I'm peferctly fine with fetishes. If you're a furry go ahead. If you like to dress up like a BDSM dog and chase a ball a women in leather throws around, sure. Just don't act like it's not a a fetish. Like it's something that we as a society should view as an "empowering or brave" thing to do. Which it isn't. to quote anot…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 12:38 PM
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Yes, that's exactly what i'm working on now. Just not giving a shit about other people and acting like i'm the man. It'll take a while but eventually my mind will come around too. I can still sometimes notice the socially akward tendancies i have and i try to push through them. Something as simple as going to someone to ask something or talking to someone else is something i'd normally avoid. But now i just push myself to not give a shit and do it. It's definitely working. The height thing just …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 10:57 AM
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eh. I don't think the mantra "be yourself" works. From what i've read in the sidebar and on various red pill site.. "know yourself and know others" is the way to go. Will i ever be myself around women? maybe when we're in a relationship but on first meet, hell no. I'm a socially akward gamer. Fuck being myself. Look if you're a 6"2 jock with a nice jawline 8/10. Yes you can be yourself. Because at that point women don't care... But if you're anything like me, an average 5"6 guy. that's never gon…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 07:35 AM
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What is the point of marriage these days? Unless you're of faith i see no reason to just have a partnership instead. I'd get baby boomers marry more, back in those days a lot more things were taboo. Pre martial sex.. bastards.. etc. But now all those things are normal.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 07:30 AM
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It's not just that they WANT to move from job to job, but many of the jobs that are offered par time and on such weird times that you usually have to.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 07:26 AM
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Note that Sweden's definition of rape is also one of the more lax in the world. Just in case people didn't know.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 09:55 PM
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Probaly the best thing. He made the mistake of following rp blindly. And not deciding for himself/searching for more sources of info. A mistake I made when I started on RP too. Once I read r/purplepill,askmen,menslib is when i started to develop a more nuanced opinion about men and women in general. That's why I'm not traditionally RP anymore. Maybe talking about the issues you described like his job loss and his depression will help him become less RP.... (In therapy) Don't believe anyone here …
/r/ExRedPill
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The resources exist at the tip of the finger. I agree with almost everything but that. Not even one bit. For you and me it's a lot easier to say "oh that's blatantly abusive/wrong" but those guys are gullible as hell. Like I was. If you're a regular dude there's a big chance you'll start at the MSM. They are man hating and inconsistent. It doesn't take much r/menkampf articles for you get off from that entirely. But that's my biggest issue and pet peeve. Yes the information is out there but NO i…
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