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No friends, no respect, constant slander, etc. Loads of dick though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:09 AM
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Sex as a reward does not have to be transactional, it can be a way if showing appreciation in the way the person likes to be appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:33 AM
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It's not a science or a pseudo science. It's a communication aid for people with low EQ, and nothing more. The issue is that most people talking about love languages have never read the book and misunderstand what it's about. It's just a way to help you understand your partners needs, and/or how they give and receive love.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:44 PM
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Then you're in the minority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:05 AM
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Sex is not required for healthy relationship contrary to popular sex positive narratives. Unless both parties are asexual I strongly disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:46 AM
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Okay, please explain where the compromise is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:37 PM
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Are you willing to allow her to ride your ass with a strap? Can you explain where the compromise part is? Where is she getting sone of what she wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:50 AM
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Mmmkay. If you lime femboys shoot your shot. He might say yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:45 AM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:14 AM
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Okay. Final attempt. You're in an exclusive relationship with a guy and having hot sex daily. You're so into him that you bring him home to meet your parents, and suddenly it's super awkward. You then find out that he's your parents third. And they call him whenever they get sexually bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:13 AM
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Acknowledging what's going on makes a boomer? Thanks for the compliment, I'm honored that you think I'm part of the most successful generation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:58 AM
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Okay, one last attempt to help you understand. You sleep with a super hot guy and the next day you find out he's bisexual, and was with a man before he went on a date with you the night before.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:54 AM
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Sexist, not misogynistic, there's a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:49 AM
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Or you can look at this way. Kim Kardashian is very fuckable, but is so far from relationship material it's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:46 AM
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Think of it this way, if you put a paper bag over his head, you don't have to see his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:45 AM
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I have sons, but no daughters. Yes double standards exist, and no they do not cause daddy issues. Daddy issues are mainly caused by either growing up with an absent father or having an abnormal or poor relationship with a father who was physically present.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:44 AM
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100% they can. Sex is sex. Fuckable =/= relationship material
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:36 AM
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Women with low emotional intelligence. In my experience women in general don't have any more emotional intelligence than men. They might be more empathic, but that doesn't mean more emotionally intelligent
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:34 AM
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It's a woman who pinns for a man she lost. She holds him on a pedestal and cannot have a healthy relationship because her mind always goes back to the man who got away
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:32 AM
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Wow, how very mature of you. I prove you wrong and you downvote instead of responding?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:28 AM
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What are enbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:23 AM
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The problem being what exactly? That too many people don't understand the meanings of the words they use? That the comments might have been sexist but they weren't misogynistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:15 AM
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You're incorrect. They are different things with different meanings. The problem is that you don't seem to understand that. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vox.com/platform/amp/identities/2017/12/5/16705284/elizabeth-warren-loss-2020-sexism-misogyny-kate-manne https://www.dictionary.com/e/misogyny-vs-sexism/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:04 AM
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It's certainly sexist, but that doesn't make it misogynistic. Misogynists are always sexist, but sexists are not always misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:49 AM
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Without you stating what the comment was about it's hard to say one way or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:31 PM
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That sounds more like him equating that moment you referred to as something he's only seen in women. Nothing you said indicates any prejudice or hatred of women. If anything it sounds like you're defining misogyny to be anything men say about women that you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:17 PM
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Correct. I don't understand the new expanded version of misogyny. Perhaps you can define it for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:14 PM
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I associate it with people who are incapable of thinking before speaking
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:05 PM
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Men will rag on men who use that word often a hell of a lot more than the rag on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:04 PM
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I see only 1 of those points as fitting the definition of misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:03 PM
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The only thing I've said in this post is that the double standard is real and it exists. How is acknowledging reality a vile nasty idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:23 PM
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Well what are you saying then? Are you just saying that most men will basically shag any women even if she has an n count of 500, but they won't date her? You really need to explain what it is you are arguing, as everyone seems to be reading your post the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:19 PM
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No you don't choose who women date. But if you spread lies about men's preferences you are hurting women who believe you. Happy divorce! How childish of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:01 PM
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A follow up on this comment. Is it not hypocritical for you and your BF to judge and laugh about others for their preferences, but at the same time say men shouldn't judge women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:59 PM
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That's not your choice to make. My wife doesn't like my double standards, but she understands them and accepts them. She doesn't see me as sexist, insecure or a garbage men. How about you let women decide for themselves based on the facts, vs you spewing lies based on how you think it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:54 PM
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Women typically don't care about men having a high n count (so long as it's not ridiculously high). Reddit is also mostly men so of course you're going to get more men answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:51 PM
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It does when you're harming other women's dating propects. It's like telling women: "Men don't care if you don't shave you legs and armpits" Or "Men don't care if you have two kids by two different men". They do care. So it does matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:48 PM
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What's the purpose of your post on a debate sub? I don't disagree with the fact that young men need to not get indoctrinated. But denying the reality that many if not most men would prefer a woman with a low n count is disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:46 PM
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Then why do you keep objecting when men say it does matter? You seem to be unable to acknowledge that there's a double standard. It doesn't seem to bother women, yet it does seem to bother men. I'm not saying the double standard is right or moral. I'm stating that it's silly to ignore that it's reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:44 PM
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And that's okay for you. But to lie to women and tell them that it doesn't matter is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:41 PM
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The only type of people who care about “body count” are those who never would have the opportunity to raise their own. So when you said people you really meant women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:36 PM
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Well you'll never know. Perhaps you would have wanted to date a guy if he asked you out (but chose not to after hearing you get around). And that's okay for you. But to lie to women and tell them that it doesn't matter is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:35 PM
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Sure, if you want to view it that way. If I had daughters there's no way in hell I'd let them have their BF stay over at 17, but I'd let my sons do that. (I'd prefer they didn't though).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:33 PM
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So why this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:30 PM
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It's a hypothetical, and you dodged answering by deflecting. You are literally telling me to think differently of my wife just because she's been with other men No. I was asking you if when you first met her, if you'd still have dated her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:29 PM
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Okay, let's say it's born out of insecurities, now what? Nothing changes. The point is that some women like yourself go around lying to other women telling them that n count doesn't matter, when in fact it matters enormously to many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:27 PM
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It wasn't the sort of woman I wanted to date. Yes I have double standards and wouldn't date a woman with my own n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:25 PM
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Okay, so what's the issue then? Why do you have an issue with men having a preference and stating as much?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:24 PM
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Let's assume for arguements sake that you are correct, and they are insecure. What changes here? Nothing. Many men still won't view them as relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:13 PM
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I wasn't insecure. I just didn't want to marry a woman with a promiscuous past, hence to me a high n count was objectively bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:11 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:10 PM
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No one is saying fuck less. They are just warning women that there is a double standard, and many men will judge them on a high n count
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:10 PM
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Okay, but the premise of your post is incorrect. I had plenty of game on college and could have raised my body count as much as I wanted to. I still avoided getting into serious relationship with women with high n counts
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:06 PM
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If you're going to make claims and cite studies. Then you need to link the studies when requested or retract the claim. My guess is you never even read the studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:58 PM
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I'll take your downvote to mean you don't wish to engage in further discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:57 PM
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Let's say he said he's ready for a relationship now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:55 PM
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Nowadays it's definitely too much screen time and too much texting. I don't think a lot of younger people acknowledge that they use texting as a shield to avoid in person conversation. Texting give them a shield in the form of they have time to think about a funny/witty/interesting response. You don't get that pause to respond in a real relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:54 PM
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Would you ever setup any of your friends who are looking for a boyfriend with him? I'm guessing you wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:50 PM
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If you knew within a week of meeting your wife that she had slept with 100 men before meeting you. Can you honestly say you'd still have looked at her the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:48 PM
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For many it is a reflection of morals. Not everyone follows the same morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:37 PM
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His reason is he just wanted to get his dick wet, and he had no interest in dating anyone. What would you think of a guy who has 300 sexual partners by age 30? Now answer again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:36 PM
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This is the most naive comment on reddit this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:34 PM
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It's a big part of men's dating preferences. I dated a girl for 6 months in college that I knew from day 1 that it would at most last until the end of the school year. The main reason was her promiscuous past. We were only 20 and she had already slept with 6 guys in our class.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:33 PM
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In that case they weren't as onto you as you were into them, that's a different problem altogether. You'll notice in my post I bolded the word both.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:11 PM
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That's a newspaper article, not a study.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:09 PM
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Did your partners also give the sane extreme amount of effort? I'm going to guess the answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:08 PM
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Changing the way you do this is perfectly fine so long as your partner agrees. Now that my wife and I have a couple of kids we'll often show woo each other with offers of days off.(alone time)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:07 PM
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The majority fail usually because of different goals. This is especially true before marriage (or a permanent commitment of some sort). If one person is dating hoping for marriage, but the other is dating for fun, then it fails because of the lack of aligned goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:59 PM
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No idea what this response means.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:58 PM
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Please link the studies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:53 PM
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think the compromising thing is huge. My moms best advice was “do you want to be right or do you want to be happy” sometimes both need to put aside ego for the betterment of the relationship as a whole. This part is so often misunderstood. I've tried explaining this to so many men when it comes to communicating with their partners. I expand on it a little, and try to explain that if you're arguing with your partner, and you're ending up with a winner/loser or a right/wrong then you're not doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:38 PM
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Because I don't mean most.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:23 PM
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Some women, not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:16 PM
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Not just the name-callers but the people who also use fear mongering tactics such as "you'll die alone because your standards are too high". And do you disagree? It's pretty much a statement of fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:42 PM
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They're referring to what they bring to the table. Mainly money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:40 PM
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I agree. The issue is will you be happy with your choice to remain single later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:36 PM
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I don't care. But of you're complaining you can't get XYZ then you should reflect about what you're bringing to the table. My point is that too many people have an overly inflated sense of self worth. This applies to both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:35 PM
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what if she is fine being alone if these standards are not met,everyone is free to have whatever standards Then there's no issue. if she is forced to settle for a 5/10 or 6/10 man,its a misery for both of them No one is forcing her to settle. If she chooses to settle then it's up.ro her to accept her decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:32 PM
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It's possible you go into REM sleep and stay there for 3 hours. Try wearing a fit bit or similar to track how much you move when you sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:41 PM
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Makes me wonder why he seemed so upset to be called a hero to incels, sounds like he's trying to be exactly what he says they need. He's not upset about that. He's upset about themselves being unfairly branded. I think his framing of society as inherently hierarchal appeals to incels because they want to be above women and feel supplanted in JP's worldview of hierarchies, but that's just a competing opinion. You might partially correct, but not for the reason you think. It might be that some inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:15 PM
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Then no one would be talking about her lowering her standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:21 PM
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Well if she's not a Stacey her expectations are too high. unless she has got huge bonuses the other person desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:17 PM
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It's usually about lowering unrealistic standards. E.g. If you're a 5 and want a 8,9 or 10, unrealistic, unless you've got huge bonuses the other person desires. If you're making 40k a year, it's unrealistic to expect yo land a partner making 200k a year, unless you've got huge bonuses the other person desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:15 PM
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However, there comes a time when people with that kind of influence should look at their demographics and wonder what it is about their message that attracts that kind of audience. He's spoken on this. Those men are in desperate need of guidance from a strong male role model
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:07 PM
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Her choice is also.his choice. He can choose to support a SAHM or he can choose not to. If you choose to have a SAHM then you're also acknowledging she's giving up her career for the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:04 PM
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The home of Transylvania!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:59 PM
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You mean if you've got zero to compare it to you don't know if it's good or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:59 PM
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Most people aren’t exactly a 5 on everything I'm talking about looks. Not "everything".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:55 PM
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People don't have house parties anymore when you're past like your mid-late 20s dude. What is this? You've never been to a BBQ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:56 AM
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Are you looking to get banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:52 PM
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Calm down. Deep breathes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:49 PM
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Are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:48 PM
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Stop projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:46 PM
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There's bars, pubs, nightclubs, sports clubs, activities, hobbies, meetups, travel, walking around your neighborhood, parties at friends, work, meetups, game nights. You just have to leave the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:20 AM
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Why is it irrelevant to people past 30? Aren't they less less likely to be have so much anxiety that they can only interact online?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:51 PM
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Sure. But you can bring more to the table than your looks. You just have yo meet them in real.life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:30 PM
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Stay away from online dating and focus on meeting peole in real life. You'll be fine if you do it this way. Most women won't be able to tell difference between 5'10" and 6 ft anyway. Sure they've been lied to their entire adult lives about whay 6 inches looks like. It's no wonder they struggle with judging size.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:29 PM
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If you're making the company millions and getting only 60k a year then you need to renegotiate your contract
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:47 PM
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I think you're confusing gender with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:45 PM
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Is that line an oreo? An Asian oreo?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:43 PM
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I’m not advocating for domestic abuse here - just saying that sitting down and calmly explaining to someone why they’re a fucking idiot doesn’t work. No one is advocating that you do this. In fact if you do this then it's not likely to be well received.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:29 PM
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“I can’t handle my partner confronting me on my problematic habits. Why don’t they understand when I tell them I don’t wanna talk about it?!” If you understood the basics of good communication you wouldn't be confronting them in the first place. It sounds more like you don't understand that your approach is what is shutting them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 07:12 PM
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Yes, I'm advocating for people to accept some of their partners emotional baggage. You can put boundaries in place for the baggage that is extremely negative (stuff like yelling being normalized).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 07:01 PM
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leaves out that it is not them or the laundry that is making you feel that way and until you can unravel why you have such a disproportionate reaction to laundry there will never be any understanding It's irrelevant during an arguement. Your feelings are your own. You're just asking your partner for some help. I'm all for therapy and unraveling issues, but it's not always necessary, and knowing the cause isn't always helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:36 PM
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What's the answer? That they don't understand women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:20 PM
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For a lot of couples they fall into bad habits, and it's hard to break the cycle of attack and defend. My confusion arises from why is this not common sense that we all collectively suck at this I explained it's a lack or emotional intelligence. Very few people are naturally emotionally intelligent, they do better following rules. Etiquette is a perfect example, it's basically cheat codes for a lack of emotional indeed. The 5 love languages are the same thing (and yet still barely anyone uses th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:19 PM
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Where do we supposedly pick up these communication skills in society? Very few people have the emotional intelligence to learn this stuff naturally. You typically have to make an effort to learn how to communicate effectively. It takes patience and lots of practice, but once you master it, it changes everything. Here's my write up on how to argue e effectively in a relationship: Time to draw on the basic relationship skill of sharing negative feelings without attacking each other. Couples often …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:08 PM
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It mainly boils down to a lack of communication skills. Many people don't seem to understand that if you confront someone or start complaining about them it puts them on the defensive. That puts their walls up, and they are less likely to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:56 PM
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Men understand each other, and men are equally horny. What's not to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:52 PM
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It's 2022. If you prefer men that's okay!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:50 PM
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Like they have hundreds of options the problem is they want college educated, lots of experience, while offering minimum wage. Nicely put.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:39 PM
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I've got loads more dad jokes. I've got a whole Dadabase of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:19 PM
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Double standards exist, people need to accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:59 PM
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I think seeing creases during their daily BJs must be off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:57 PM
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The bedroom is comfortable and warm. It's right next to the kitchen so the oven keeps it nicely heated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:55 PM
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My MIL irons my FILs underwear
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:48 PM
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What do you call a deaf gynecologist? A lip reader
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:47 PM
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Nothing wrong with a good wife
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:46 PM
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Not all men no. The majority aren't hung up on it. But the majority would much prefer a woman with a low count. If you had two 99.9% identical women to choose from. And the only difference was one had an n-count of 4 and the other had an n count of 40, who would you pick?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:48 PM
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I went to a doctor and you know what they told me? A man's dick doesn't get any smaller if they date a woman whose had more sexual partners than them. Scientific fact. You can chose to act like it does, though! WTF?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:45 PM
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https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/woman-pretended-to-be-a-man-dies-assisted-suicide-realizing-difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:42 PM
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In my experience most bigots are now on the left and are liberal. It's a large part of what drove me away from identifying as left or liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:48 PM
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I thought you avoided bigots?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:44 PM
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Could it not just be preference, exactly like men who are turned off by women who have slept with too many men? No. The older studies all showed the same results that it was mostly due to women's personal insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:44 PM
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You don't date people on either side of the political spectrum? Only centrists?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:37 PM
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Why would it be debated? It just a statistical fact. It's also not debated become most people misunderstand it, and they don't want to wrongly get branded as being biphobic. The reality if the 63%+ of women who won't date a bisexual man won't do so out of personal insecurities not due to biphobia. What's really interesting to me is that just a few years ago you could fund a dozen studies on the topic with a quick Google search. Now I can't find one study with a quick search. Have they been remov…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:33 PM
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I think everyone misread you comment. It was purposely misleading.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:26 PM
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No. How am I making you feel bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:23 PM
1

General comments about not caring if he likes something. Basically a I don't give a fuck about other people's wants and needs, I only care about my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:22 PM
8

It's 100% to do with being a threat. Transwoman are a threat to women being able to compete fairly in sports. Shitty men pretending to be transwomen are a threat to women using women only facilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:21 PM
1

I was referring more to comments about your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:19 PM
5

I think the point is that women keep denying this reality. Double standards exist. Accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:19 PM
3

Then don't cite "sources" you can't verify. You sound like you're making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:16 PM
1

Yes. The double standard exists. Accept it and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:45 PM
8

Exactly. It's like the debate over transwomens access to facilities, sports etc. No one ever talks about transmen. Why? Because no one cares, they aren't a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:43 PM
2

Your source is a questionnaire given to 161 students? That's not a study, it's a questionnaire handed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:42 PM
2

Second time today I'm asking you to cite sources of these "studies".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:35 PM
1

Plenty of people care. Just because you don't care doesn't mean others don't. From your comments you don't seem to care about others at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:34 PM
1

We're different though. Why would you judge her by make standards? Compare apples with apples, not oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:19 PM
4

I completely disagree. A man who's a 5 knows he's a 5 looks wise. He might think that he brings stuff to the table that elevates his overall relationship worth to more than a 5 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:19 PM
1

Men generally keep this stuff to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:12 PM
5

And the average woman is a 5 not an 8, 9 or 10. The point is that sexual interest =/= always equal relationship interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:11 PM
0

No, I'm not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:10 PM
5

The goal isn't to make them feel bad, it's to explain men's preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:53 PM
15

It is just cognitive dissonance. Men are telling women it matters. Women deny it matters because to them it doesn't matter. They refuse to accept that there is a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:32 PM
2

Why not. She's bring truthful vs the lies that are fed to young women that they can have it all without a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:25 PM
1

Can you please link to one or two of those studies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:23 PM
4

Her response seemed genuine to me. She's hit the age where she's starting to realize what life without a partner is going to be to like, and she's realizing she's going to either be alone or she's going to have to massively lower her standards and settle for what she can now get.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:13 PM
1

Remarried is different. You were obviously worth marrying before.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:54 PM
2

46 years old and the reality of still.being single finally hits her. What are your thoughts? https://zora.medium.com/a-46-year-old-woman-cries-on-tiktok-because-shes-too-old-to-find-a-man-and-the-internet-reacts-4e220cff195a
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:39 PM
1

Not sure. From what I see people do try to lead it in another direction but u/Mrs_dgree stops that by removing posts. She's the one you need to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:45 PM
3

How did the date go? Did she go Dutch? Did you get what you wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:42 PM
1

gwr o gymru ar reddit, beth yw dy farn di ar wangland
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:21 AM
1

I personally think they are usually a very bad idea, but many people like them. If you're into resort vacations they can be a great way to travel with a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:22 AM
2

Trivia Geeks shagging Sheep?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:55 AM
1

I'm definitely old, I'm mid 40's. Online was only getting started when I was 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:47 AM
1

There's good money to be made in timeshare sales
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:44 AM
1

He's a professional antagonist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:43 AM
2

To each their own. I like seeing my wife everyday. But love my alone time when I'm traveling for work or on a solo vacation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:41 AM
1

There's definitely more to it than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:37 AM
1

Maybe so
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:14 AM
1

My thought was it's connected to sociopathicity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:09 AM
1

Yes, based on the things you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:58 PM
1

But what do you get out of it? Do you get pleasure from annoying people and pissing them off?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:42 PM
1

Can he fix it, YES he CAN!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:38 PM
5

Whenever someone uses FEMALES like this I instantly think of the Ferengi.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:38 PM
2

That's the part I don't get. What's funny about it? It pisses people off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:36 PM
1

I'm not sure what it is exactly. The way you talk makes it seem like you've never been in a relationship or had sex, but you act like you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:36 PM
3

Can someone explain trolling to me? What do people who troll get out if it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:25 PM
1

Did you swallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:24 PM
2

God no. Bangs are the worse look ever on a woman. It's the mullet of women's hair cuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:12 PM
1

It's definitely the same shit over and over. I need to delete reddit because I'm too naive. I always give people the benefit of the doubt until they prove otherwise. I also don't understand trolling. And in my opinion there's some big time trolls on the sub. The heroinandheartbreal kid appears to be a troll in my opinion, but I'm.unclear as to what he gets out of it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:10 PM
2

The man. So he pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:59 PM
1

The default is the man pays for the first date. The newer version is whoever did the asking out pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:44 PM
5

No idea. I ended up on this sub trying to get some ideas on whether a dating business idea I had would be worthwhile pursuing. This sub has convinced me that it's a waste of time. I've stayed out if boredom, and I'm learning why reddit.com can be addictive. I really need to delete this account within a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:43 PM
1

Then it's sexual arousal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:02 PM
1

Depends, is she relationship material?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:27 PM
1

That's not always true. Most of my friends have stay at home wives. It depends on what circles you run in. As for the socioeconomic status thing it's about 50/50. My wife is highly educated but I'd say only about 50% of my friends wives are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:10 PM
2

I'm a man and have never really heard of it until today. Well I've come across the term before but since it was a trolling thing I just ignored it. Trolling is something I don't quite understand. I don't understand it's purpose or why people get pleasure from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:07 PM
1

Not online
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:03 PM
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They're all written by people with no experience. So many of these people don't seem to understand that after the honeymoon phase ends that a relationship involves "more work". By work I mean a lot more compromises and understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:59 PM
0

You'rerrright
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:30 PM
1

Sorry, it wasn't a serious question, I was being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:02 PM
2

Yeah, I'm bored today
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:58 PM
3

Q4M, do you consider a woman having Instagram a red flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:46 PM
9

Life Pro Tip. Instead of regular online dating you should use Facebook Market Place. Search for wedding dresses for sale from recent divorces, from there you can sort by size.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:46 PM
1

If they're referring to the Piers Morgan interview it's because he's overwhelmed with the realization of just how many young men need help. They're attacked left right and center nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:13 PM
4

With the sex issues you've got to talk to her and explain how you feel. Being sexually incompatible will cause you huge resentment in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:08 PM
1

What did you take, and where can I get some?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:40 PM
1

They usually don't do long as the sexvis great
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:04 PM
3

She needs to shave that upper lip hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:29 PM
1

China?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:27 PM
4

If she's looking like a pig in a blanket I won't be doing any snacking
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:27 PM
3

Sometimes yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:55 AM
3

I've only ever deliberately cut off one very close friend in my entire lifetime. It was a friend who brutally attacked someone after they verbally insulted him. It happened when he was drunk, but after talking to him when he was sober a few days later he admitted that he wouldn't have done anything differently. I don't associate with people who respond to verbal attacks with physical violence. I personally have a very bad temper but work extremely hard to control it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:54 AM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:13 AM
1

Do you have a source on that? Sounds like utter nonsense to me based on any of the studies I have read.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:40 PM
1

If women cheat are they practicing toxic masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:32 PM
2

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:31 PM
0

Would you mind defining toxic masculinity? And explaining how it's different from toxic femininity or toxic humanity?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:27 PM
2

Do you recognize that the method I laid out for you allows you to avoid conflict and still have your issues and concerns addressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:37 PM
2

Are you conflict avoidance because you never learnt how to deal with conflict in a healthy a manner. Do you avoid it because you fear it escalating into yelling and hurt feelings? It's a major issue for a lot of couples. They never learnt how to communicate properly, and never learnt It's not supposed to be you against him. It's supposed to be the two of you arguing against the issue. Here's an example of what it should look lime when you and your partner have issues that need dealing with. Time…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:23 PM
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It depends on how frequently it happens. We're all human, and we all have bad emotional reactions sometimes, but we can also learn to mange them. If you know that yelling at your partner out of anger or frustration causes them mental distress, then you should work on it. You can also realize that you're yelling and you've lost control of your emotions, and then stop, take a break and continue the discussion once you've calmed yourself down. For the most part as soon as yelling starts any product…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:12 PM
2

People aren't as complicated as you seem to think they are. You viewing yelling at your partner/spouse/girlfriend as normal came from somewhere. The most likely candidate is your childhood. We're talking about abusive yelling here. Not yelling out "Dinner is ready".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:59 PM
2

Your not agreeing doesn't change the facts that it's abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:54 PM
2

Then perhaps you grew up in home/family where yelling was so normalized that you don't recognize it as abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:51 PM
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Yelling is verbal and emotional abuse. It can cause issues that are far more damaging long term than physical abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:07 PM
1

I don't think so no. There's no baby involved here and the roomba cleans the floors twice a day, and we mop them every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:44 PM
2

Because he's usually still.a provider vs a burden?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:00 PM
1

No idea. But if dad is supporting the girlfriend then probably her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:51 PM
5

And interestingly enough if they do stop doing those things temporarily, they usually end up even more annoyed because their "plan" to prove their point backfires. The man doesn't step up and is fine with those things not being done. If he is annoyed that "the benefits" he was reaping are gone, he's usually not annoyed enough to be bothered doing the work himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:57 AM
1

I didn't actually work it out though, just ballparked it. You might want to check the real number
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:31 AM
1

(1,502/120,570) x 100
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:16 AM
4

Most of your comments piss me off too. They all come across as trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:11 AM
1

Do you also agree that it's total hypocrisy? And that if a man wrote that exact post complaining about women you'd remove it, with some BS excuse about it not being gender neutral?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:58 PM
2

A man has to explicitly negotiate standards, and if he really does hope to get her to lower hers, he has to make sure she truly can do so happily. Why? Why does he have to do this? The bottom line is that you don't let someone you love consistently do more work than you and then reap the rewards. Bullshit And if you love someone, you put yourself in their shoes. You're aware the vast majority of people aren't capable of doing that right? And what they do instead is ask themselves "what would I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:55 PM
1

Or very possible she refuses to sit down and discuss splitting the mental load, and instead says something like "you should just be able to see what needs to be done, and do it".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:37 PM
1

More like 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:34 PM
2

The real question is did you remove it? The answer is no. And the reason is that you agreed with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:32 PM
2

Speaking from experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:31 PM
0

I question how often it even comes to that, where explicit standards are suggested by both parties I agree, and that's part of my point. When these things aren't discussed it breeds resentment. She's thinking "he's a fuckin lazy asshole who won't step up and help with DEFGHIJKHLMNOP, I have to do everything.". But he's thinking "I did 50% of ABC, I did my fair share. Hell I even did DEF and G too. Why the fuck isn't she super grateful". Anecdotally, in the cases where I do see men let their wive…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:27 PM
2

If it were just good faith disagreement, then there would be active negotiation with the object of making sure that there is an equal division of labor whatever standards are decided upon. The issue is that it's very rare for the standards to be agreed upon. Let's say he says my standard is ABC, but she says her standard is ABCDEFGHIJKHLMNOP. What do you do then? He'll think it's fair to split ABC 50/50 and since only she cares about DEFGHIJKHLMNOP then that's on her, and anything he does to hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:08 PM
1

Mental health is very, very different. A good psychologist will teach you things that will profoundly change your life if you do the work needed. Why shouldn't it cost as much as "real" medicine of not way more? A psychologist trains for 10-12years before being qualified. The things they teach you are skills you keep forever. E.g. just by having a psychologist teach me how to truly self reflect, I was able to teach myself anger management skills. I was also able to teach myself to overcome any i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:58 PM
9

For all but two women I ever dated I did a cold approach. There's nothing creepy about it. I wasn't going up to them saying "I want to fuck you". I approached them and obviously I felt a physical attraction. The purpose of taking them out on a date was to see of there's more than just a physical attraction. I never once dated someone I was actually friends with first.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:35 PM
0

Those quotes appear to be from guys who have never been laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:30 PM
1

Younger women have better personalities and are more pleasant to be around. Brave sayingnthe quiet part out loud. Fair play.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:25 PM
1

And a psychologist is a doctor who does give you the medicine (identifies the problem teaches you how to fix yourself) is just like a medical doctor prescribing medicine. If you don't take the medicine they prescribed then how do you expect to get better?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:22 PM
1

Are you being sarcastic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:00 PM
1

Depends. Did the woman also let herself go? Did she also stop making an effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:59 PM
1

So when when you get fat and don't take care of yourself they are unhappy. Does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:42 PM
2

I think the primary issue here is that a 6’ tall man with 6 pack abs and a massive dick isn’t guaranteed to be a good stable husband. My wife would disagree, 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:39 PM
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I think a lot of the issues with things like housework boil down to different standards. E.g. I like to have a tidy home, I don't like a lot of disorganization and crap everywhere. In my ideal world my homes decor would be very minimalistic as I'd rather not deal with the extra work. Vs. My wife really doesn't like how I clean up, as I tidy vs doing a deep clean. Her version of clean is actual cleanliness vs tidyness. Having piles of Laundry out waiting to be put away doesn't bother her so long …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:19 PM
2

Sure women want security, but it's not the only thing they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:04 PM
2

I completely disagree. Therapy is useless only if you don't engage and aren't truthful. Therapy isn't a magic fix like some people think it is. Therapy is supposed to teach you how to fix yourself. Far more work needs to be done outside the Therapy office then inside it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:59 PM
1

I have ADHD, but I've worked out how to manage it over the years. I'm in my 40's now but didn't get a diagnosis until a few years ago. The secret is to create firm fixed routines, and to put all the important things in life on auto pilot. 20-30 minutes a day of mindfulness meditation also helps massively.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:39 PM
2

He's trolling https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/xp4jgr/comment/iq53jps/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:41 PM
2

I can't tell if he's trolling or is just incredibly inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:40 PM
1

it's not like bro is about to marry her. Well clearly he cares about her,and does see a potential future here. The difference here is that these people want a relationship vs your advice seems to be geared towards someone who wants just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:39 PM
1

Question, have you ever actually been in a relationship? One that lasted more than 2 months?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:37 PM
3

Well if you have friends encouraging you to play mind games, they aren't the best people to be asking for relationship advice. Instead of cutting off friends you're better off telling him that you won't ever be asking them for relationship advice ever again (only if you mean it). If he can't accept that reasonable compromise you're better off moving on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:57 PM
1

I think of single parents as people who have to raise a child or children alone. In my opinion there's a massive difference between a single parent who has to be responsible for the child 24/7 365 days a year, and those who do have another parent to rely on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:22 PM
1

I get it. I just view "single parents" as parents who don't have a partner or ex partner helping out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:08 PM
-1

No I don't have to rethink it. If the father is in the picture and has joint custody I still don't view the woman as a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:17 PM
-3

Well that's a stupid way to look at it in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:11 PM
2

And again OPs point is that some people aren't suited to a long term relationship, and they are correct. I've tried to advise a number of family members and friends o er the years when they've asked for advice on relationship issue. The number one issue always seems to be a need to be right vs just trying to resolve the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:10 PM
1

It worked fine at the beginning. It broke when women tried turning it into a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:51 PM
1

I think the "lot of work" refers more to learning how to communicate properly, learning how to compromise, and learning how to pick your battles. A lot of people never learn any of those things unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:45 PM
-4

Shared custody isn't single parent though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:43 PM
5

This is actually good news, as statistics show that children do better overall in a single father household than a single mother household
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:42 PM
1

Well Tinder is the original hookup app. It was the heterosexual response to Grindr.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:41 PM
2

In fairness I'd so the same. But let's be real here, these actions do lead people on and are shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:11 PM
1

Probably the most sensible answer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:04 PM
2

r/whoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:03 PM
3

So when she leads you to the bedroom you'd stop her and say I'm not into you, this is just sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:58 PM
2

Manipulation" and "lying" can have different interpretations, it would help if you were specific. Here's specific. You go on two dates with a hot girl but you aren't feeling it at all, but she's into you. You've already decided that it's never going anywhere because other than physically she's totally not your type at all. After the second date she asks where you're meeting up next. And asks if you'd come over to her place on the weekend and she'll cook dinner. Over dinner she tells you she's so…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:48 PM
3

Lol, the pretty girls you described is what I refer to as "Miss I love myself". It's usually a very attractive lady, but only on the outside. The more you learn about them. The more you see that their beauty doesn't go skin deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:43 PM
1

I never mentioned that he's a catch, just asking if you considered it dating up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:26 PM
1

Very, very, very few and far between
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:25 PM
1

Thank you for the concise response
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:06 PM
1

No. I asked a simple question in the comment right before this one, it was a simple yes or no question, with no yes or no responses
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:05 PM
2

100%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:51 PM
2

The responses reminded me of how my wife talks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:50 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:47 PM
2

How much more does he have to earn before you consider it dating up?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:36 PM
3

Q4M: have you ever noticed that most women seem to be incapable of giving a straight answer to a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:35 PM
0

Well I'm not gay so wouldn't be interested in dating a man who supports me. If I could have found a woman who could support me, damn that would have been amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:33 PM
1

That's irrelevant. I'm asking only about his income
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:31 PM
3

And you seriously don't understand why a lot of men don't want a relationship withna promiscuous woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:30 PM
4

Just looked at the Instagram profile of Mrs_Dgree as is shown in the OP. It's not even her instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:27 PM
0

If he's doing that and you don't like it, speak up. If you don't , you've no one to blame but yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:23 PM
1

Q4W: if you're dating a man who earns 1.5 times plus what you do, do you consider that "dating up"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:21 PM
0

Most of us aren't gay though, that's the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:19 PM
4

Are you currently bitter about being rejected by someone you like because of your high body count? Everyone is allowed to have their own preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:11 PM
3

Of course it's real world. If you went on a first date with a 30 year old man and he told you he was a virgin (not by choice) you'd think there was something wrong with him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:07 PM
1

They're buzzwords because the definitions keep getting expanded. The words are losing meaning because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:24 PM
1

A funny outlier here is 65%+ of women who say they won't date a bisexual man. It's mostly due to their own insecurities, yet they get branded biphobic for having insecurities. It's basically the same shit where men get branded misogynistic for having preferences about women. Basically what happens nowadays is definitions get expanded by people to fit their attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:22 PM
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The entirety of media in the west was built on men's preferences (for men and women) and the majority continues to be so. That's just blatantly false. Look at all the reality shows, and daytime talk shows, they're all aimed at women. Look at women's magazines or fashion magazines, again all aimed at women's tastes, not mens.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:18 PM
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Dinner or better
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:20 PM
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It's a lack of critical thinking skills. It's not something taught in universities anymore Instead they teach you not to do any critical thinking ("that's racist, transphobic" or whatever"), and instead just to blindly follow one ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:18 PM
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Then it's not a relationship, it's a friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 10:38 PM
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I think it means he's acknowledging he's never getting any until he owns a Bugatti
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:40 PM
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Can you post a picture? It's possible you have resting asshole face, the male version of resting bitch face. They are unfortunately a real thing that affects about 3% of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:23 PM
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Oh course he can be happy. Sex isn't the end all of everything. In my opinion no sex outside of a relationship is much easier to handle than no sex in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:18 PM
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Sure they do. Don't your parents teach you that it's not ladylike to ever use baby sort of violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:37 PM
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What's an incel's favorite fruit? Can't-elope
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:52 AM
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From that same source which opens with The Western world, also known as the West, refers to various regions, nations and states, depending on the context, most often consisting of the majority of Europe,[a] North America,[b] and Oceania.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:31 AM
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Poland yes, Hungary not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:30 AM
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I'm.learning that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:27 AM
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A simple Google search will open your eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:43 AM
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That's all true, but just be aware that you're still not part of the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:28 AM
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Yes plenty of times. Mainly Brazil and Argentina. We are so obviously western. Why? My point is when people or news outlets refer to "The West" or "The Western World" they aren't including South America in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:59 AM
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What do you consider "The Western World"? To me it's always been North America, Europe, Australia and New Zealand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:46 AM
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The western world never included South America. It's not about geography
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:42 AM
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Since when? The western world is USA, Canada, western Europe, Australia and New Zealand
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:37 AM
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Then why are you expecting him to get hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:31 AM
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Or south American
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:30 AM
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It's better and easier to have a hars fast rule than giving yourself the ability to try and justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 08:14 PM
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Are you gay? Is your penis really small? Do you prefer big ones? Is that why your butt hurts?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:47 PM
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What about HVM, are we not allowed to use reddit either? Even when we're seriously hungover at 7pm?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:44 PM
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I wish more men would teach their sons that it's never okay to hit a girl or a woman Edit: Damn, I'm getting downvoted for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:09 PM
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I wish men would stop sending dick pics
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:09 PM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:30 PM
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Damn, that would be great
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:07 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:00 PM
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Yeah, that's just new age social science shit, where they teach you to look for offense in everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:25 AM
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Then you need to define misogyny. The standard definition is dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:38 AM
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1 my wife
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:54 PM
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Men care mainly because of their own egos and insecurities, not because of misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:54 PM
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Thanks 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:43 PM
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Nothing really, they're my kids I enjoy spending time with them and I'm up anyway. On the weekends on at least one day I'll take the kids off somewhere for a few hours and not be back until 11am or 12 noon. Then if I want to take some time for myself she'll look after the kids for a few hours. We're married and it's a partnership, not a transactional relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:14 PM
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They do have a dishwasher, she was just at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:33 PM
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If you're a morning person and they aren't. Then just take care of the morning stuff and help them out. My wife's not a morning person and I'm an insomniac, so the easiest thing is for me to do the morning routine with the kids and have her coffee ready for her when she does wake up. Pick your battles
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:56 PM
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https://youtu.be/6zkL91LzCMc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:42 PM
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I just had another thought Tate talks a bit like Donald Trump. "HUGE success, marvelous, I'm.the greatest player who ever lived, just ask any of my friends. They did survey, and 99% of people believe I'm the greatest player who ever lived. The other 1% are idiots. Let me tell you Acaciduh your grandchildren will be reading stories about me and my boys. Marvelous stuff, stupendous, Just look at Melania. Do you think she's with me because of my money, no it's because of my massive dick. It's the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:41 PM
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Didn't you hear. I'm supposedly a racist and a misogynist now https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/xl0o6l/how_much_of_a_deal_breaker_is_yellingshouting_to/ipki63u/?context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:32 PM
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Lol, I switched it off after about 10 minutes as the guy is insufferable, everything else was sheer nonsense. He talks like he is massively compensating for something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:21 PM
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Sure dude, sure. Again zero explanations. https://youtu.be/6zkL91LzCMc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:17 PM
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Do you both sleep with other people? If you don't then you're dating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:51 AM
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I watched my first Tate video just now. One thing he said that I actually do agree with is something when asked about an ex having sex with one of your friends, was that it's your own fault for having "friends" that would do that. I completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:42 AM
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Oh okay 👍. Back to the donut question
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:36 AM
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Not in a prostitution sort of way. But still making it clear it's transactional
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:34 AM
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My point is it's the modern quivalent of leaving cash on the bedside table
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:34 AM
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🎶 Soft Kitty, little ball of fur.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:30 AM
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Not really, your confidence in your opinions makes you sound like you have real-life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:28 AM
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Maybe I'm thinking of someone else. Is he the gym guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:27 AM
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Just interpreting your comments. Your opinions on girls trips to Miami Make a lot of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:26 AM
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It's FWB not dates
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:24 AM
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FDS is the female red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:23 AM
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He's paying for the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:21 AM
1

From Cherry Blossom Forest?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:21 AM
1

Lift is not normal
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:19 AM
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Move to Utah
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:18 AM
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Lol, one of my wife's friends gave her that book
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:17 AM
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Is he also the one that constantly invites me to moderate random boards with no activity? Huh, is that what that was?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:14 AM
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Shit! Did you get "raw dogged" in an elevator all 3 times?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:09 AM
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Is that what happened to you? How many days did you need a donut for ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:08 AM
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Feminism was due to inequality not preferences. You don't consider it misandry to prefer tall men, or do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:05 AM
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Eh, tech companies especially startups seem to cut salary even if you’re in the US. My colleagues who moved to Iowa/MN and other cheaper Midwestern states got cuts. Seemed as though anyone moving away from the HQ in SF suffered cuts That is normal too. My employees in the Bay area on average earn 50% more than those in Texas. And yes it probably is, and I could care less. I am probably gonna get business residency permit in 2-3 yrs anyhow. You do you, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:52 AM
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There's no rule about it, just general males preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:48 AM
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I had a W2 job with a startup and they reduced my comp when I said I’d live abroad and required me to keep a US primary residence address (don’t know why). Because why would they pay you US wages if you're not in the USA? That's why. Also most reputable companies aren't going to assist you in breaking tax laws. I am currently self employed Which is most likely against the rules of your tourist visa
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:30 AM
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So why bother participating in a debate Sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:25 AM
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So you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:19 AM
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Yes you didn't really watch them. If you watched them for any length of time you'd easily see the bias. Just like Fox "News" they are full of opinions by hosts vs actual newsreaders. I don't think there's actually any unbiased news sources in the entire USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:17 AM
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Hmm, I'm really surprised the companies allow that. I had employees who tried to pull that off, and we very quickly shot them down. Being gone for a few weeks or a month was fine, but if if they moved out of the USA. They were given the choice to return or be fired (making them ineligible for unemployment).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:15 AM
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Yeah you left out those parts in brackets, and we were discussing EU membership
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:11 AM
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Is it more than 40 or more than 80?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:10 AM
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If for you the opposite of right-wing FOX News and Christian TVs are CNN and the guardian, OK. Not interested in having this conversation Well then you've never really watched them. I'm from Western Europe, born and raised. I couldn't believe the bias of American newsstations and newspapers when I got here. I refer to them all as media, not news. NPR wasn't too bad at first, but once Trump was elected it went very left. The guardian is center-left. No. The Guardian is extremely left, nowhere clo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:09 AM
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Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:04 AM
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Yeah but you cannot work at all on a tourist visa ( for a turkish company or an American one), so are you just living off savings from now on?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:02 AM
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r/whoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:01 AM
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Do you tell them how many men you've fucked?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:01 AM
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100% it would change things in a massive way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:58 AM
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If however you hold more restrictive standards for women than men... Please finish the sentence. Double standards =/= misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:57 AM
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It's not misogynistic, who's telling you it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:55 AM
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So you're on a temporary tourist visa?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:53 AM
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Scotland's reasons are surely more complex than that. Not really, they don't quality financially. You are dismissing the fact that the UK also doesn't want to leave. It already left the EU, have you not heard of BREXIT?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:52 AM
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Iran's morality police is also "about the morality of society". True. But it's a different morality. The prolifers see abortion as being immoral because it kills babies. CNN is left wing, so is NPR. Have you ever actually watched it? It's all biased reporting. The likes of fox news was started exactly because of the left wing bias of other news stations. They do have different opinions on the media just like in the UK, France, Spain, Germany... most likely none of them have left-wing stations ei…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:51 AM
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I don't think you're using the word cuck correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:45 AM
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What is a “situation to cheat?” How most cheating happens, it's usually a crime of opportunity. Most people don't plan to cheat but then an opportunity presents itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:43 AM
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Wow, that's a big move. Was it difficult to get residency?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:38 AM
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Do you know if Albania qualifies for EU membership? My understanding is they learnt a hard lesson by allowing unqualified countries like Greece to join. Even Scotland can't really vote for independence as they'd be alone with no UK and no EU membership since they don't qualify.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:37 AM
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America is the land of the free and still has people that think women are baby-making machines That's just untrue. The abortion debate is about the morality of society. It even gives those people air time as prestigious analysts. We do not have those - we have nothing close to fox news or Christian tv stations. Are you saying you only have left wing TV stations? What about people who have different opinions?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:35 AM
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It has. I just Google it l, and I'm not seeing Albania has joined the EU
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:24 AM
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I adamantly disagree. Most of the smart people I know have very little emotional intelligence. But then again it's often a vague term. To me emotional intelligence consists of two main parts: The ability truly self reflect on your own emotions. But this I meant the ability to understand where your emotions are coming from, what they actually are and how to stop the same chain of reactions happening again. The ability to actually put yourself in someone else's shoes and think like them vs what mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:22 AM
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A lot of serious relationships, maybe even most, start casually these days. I 100% agree with that, but think the discussion should be had within a few dates so no one gets led on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:13 AM
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You moved to Turkey? I'm assuming from a non western country?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:19 AM
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Why? The pro marriage people still have the same skills and knowledge, that anti marriage people need
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:18 AM
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I 100% agree, so I can't argue to CYV
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:16 AM
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Whatever happened to Albania joining the EU? Wasn't it supposed to happen a long while ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:11 AM
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Now, what I've been wondering is, how many western bros look at Iran and say "fuck yes" I'd guess less than 1%, 5% to be very generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:07 AM
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To me serious relationship = both are you are dating with the hopeful intent of making a permanent commitment some day Casual dating is when one of both of you see an eventual end date, usually due to some major differences in life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:04 AM
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So he abused you, and you tolerated it? Doesn't sound like much of a man to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:52 AM
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You can be casual and live together and be in love. To me serious relationship = both are you are dating with the hopeful intent of making a permanent commitment some day
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:50 AM
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I'm from a culture where women when asked the question "a married man cheats on his wife with a younger woman", people blame the young woman and not the man. What culture is that? French?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:49 AM
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To be honest I can imagine a lot of non western cultures must be looking at what's going on in the west. And saying "Fuck No!", and moving to things like hijab requirements
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:46 AM
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This is 100% accurate. It is 65% + of women who say they'd never date a bisexual man or would dump them if they found out he was bi. Some studies got as high as 82%. And interestingly enough no published studies have been done on men not dating bi women( it’s not an issue for men)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:44 AM
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Let's be realistic here, people (both men and women) with high emotional intelligence, are few and far between
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:40 AM
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Weirdest opinion I've seen on reddit today
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:35 AM
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Fuck dude, I can't unsee that, and those were my good eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:31 AM
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What man with any self respect marries a porn star?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:28 AM
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Lol, my first serious GF was an amazing soccer player (multiple scholarships), that view brings back good memories.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:24 AM
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You've yet to explain how my statements were blatantly racist, and let's be honest here, the reason for that is you don't have a working definition of the word you are using. If I had to guess your definition of racism is anything that causes offense in your eyes, even statement of fact. You think I need to be more tolerant? I'm far more tolerant than you are, so perhaps take your own advice? I've got almost zero hate, that's another very strong word. Also you confuse me a little. You write like…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:18 AM
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All the more power to you if you're okay doing casual relationships in your 30's. Personally I was done with it at 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 11:44 PM
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For what reason? Can you answer the question please? How am I causing you to question your own memory and literally your own sanity?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 11:38 PM
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I'm a big believer in the profit. I started and sold several businesses with the intent on making profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 10:55 PM
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Who ever said anything about avoiding conflict? I get into conflicts all the time. I just don't get violent, aggressive or loud. I have a frontal lobe and know how to resolve conflict without resorting to those other things. My very, very last resort is to resort to physical conflict (I'm a big guy with long legs and can run very fast), but if the gloves come off they are fully off. I don't engage in what I call "play fighting" (what most physical altercations are, bar fights etc), if it's getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 10:50 PM
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Mmmkay
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 10:43 PM
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Sure it is. I was done with my "player" days at 21 and started dating only looking for serious relationships. If someone wasn't looking for a serious relationship I wasn't really interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 10:42 PM
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Use email or whatsapp
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 10:34 PM
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I'm originally from Europe. I started university in 1998, metrosexual was always a term people used when I was in university.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 10:00 PM
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Ahh, so you're looking for sex and not a relationship? Is that what you are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:58 PM
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Is it still the norm for men not to wear dresses? Other than the boy from one direction?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:57 PM
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Another word you don't know the meaning of. How on earth is interacting with me causing you to question your own memory and your own sanity?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:54 PM
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Islam is not an awful religion, in many ways it's a good religion. You're just focusing on the small minority of people who practice Islam with only take damaging stuff from the Koran. The exact same thing happens with Christianity. The are cults and sects in the USA who are extremist, offshoots of Mormons are a perfect example. But you can't brand all Mormons as being "an awful religion" when it's a small minority who take certain things to the extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:19 PM
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It's interesting that there are many 30-something men here, including me, who have 100% experienced that change. Do you mean that the very same women who would show you zero interest in your 20's are now willing to give you a chance because they're done dealing with fuck boys and players, and they are now ready to settle down?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:14 PM
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We've got our own issues to worry about. Let them worry about their own issues. Let them run their country and their society as they see fit. We don't have to agree with them, but it's not our place to interfere. We can protest with the likes of sanctions, but in places like the middle east, sanctions have been shown not to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:05 PM
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What do you want people to do? Do you really think it's a good idea to judge other cultures by western standards? Who are we to say that our way is the right way? Just look at Afghanistan for gods sake. We tried to impose western norms upon them, and look how that turned out. They immediately reverted to the old ways almost immediately after we left.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:00 PM
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Gender norms are biological not sociological. Nothing has changed, there were always girls who Tom boys or guys who were more feminine than masculine. The only thing that has changed is massive indoctrination by the social sciences in universities. In my personal opinion the entire "nonbinary" thing is utter nonsense. If you're a woman who prefers things that are historically considered more masculine, you're still a woman and still female. I had plenty of friends in university who nowadays woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:57 PM
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Well I'm in my mid 40's and as I've gained more personal experience, and met many more different types of people, I believe more and more in the differences between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:40 PM
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Get rid of social media completely
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:35 PM
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But which do you date, men or women? If you're dating men you're going to see them yelling more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:34 PM
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No, just correcting your incorrect assumptions. My pronouns are handsome and brilliant, what are yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:33 PM
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My sister is like this. She's mid 40's and has never had a relationship last longer than 6 months. She questions why, but the reality is that she has a massive chip on her shoulder, and she can only fake being nice for so long, before her true personality comes through.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:38 PM
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I say if a woman, or any person for that matter, has had a string of failed relationships, then there must be something wrong with her Well this is true all around for both men and women. If you can't sustain a relationship then there is something wrong with you. Also the more failed relationships you have the more baggage and trauma you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:36 PM
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Never been to a Trump rally though I did vote for him in 2016. But only because the only other alternative was Hilary. I voted for Biden this time around, but now I'm deeply regretting that. I thought Trump was too unpresidental on the world stage, but Biden is just an imbecile. Liberalism has become the new fascism. Your words are a perfect example of this. You're so indoctrinated that you don’t even realise you're a bigot and are far less tolerant of others opinions than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:33 PM
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I can imagine. I'm a big guy 6'3" 210 lbs, and I do have a temper (but I control it). I once calculated how big my 5'4" 125lbs wife would have to be, to have the same size difference as me. I can't remember exactly what the results were, but it was something like a 7'5" man weighting 350lbs. I'd be afraid of someone that size yelling at me. I don't think many men have any idea how powerless/afraid women must feel being yelled at by a man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:24 PM
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Then you need to define "covert racism". Again you sounding someone who studied social sciences and has been deeply indoctrinated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:17 PM
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It's certainly a variable in the pay gap. Personally I do prefer to twain and mentor men or married men vs women, solely based on my experience. Women who I've trained to be very successful often times tend to give up work for several years or permanently once they've made some great money, and they have kids, (Personally I think they're smarter for doing so). Vs men tend to want more, and are willing to keep working harder to provide for their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:16 PM
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Me for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:11 PM
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I think the point is that too many people don't acknowledge their own flaws and have a inflated sense of their worth (their worth to others). E.g. when peoe talk about leagues or ratings on looks from 1-10. 9's are models, 10's are super models, 5 is the average. Yet so many people both men and women would rate themselves much greater than a 5. If you're a man/woman who is just average looks wise, and doesn't have your life in order, then why on earth would you expect a man/woman who is above a …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:09 PM
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Based on responses I've had from you I would agree that you'd easily fall into the sigma male category, taking a test that's made for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:03 PM
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When they talk about women, they mean this: https://images.app.goo.gl/VMcfWMh8TddopzzB8 Not really. I refer to women like that as "Miss I love myself"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:57 PM
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Not necessarily, it's just the path of least resistance. Smart men don't go looking for trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:54 PM
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There's no racism in my words.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:53 PM
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Probably for the sake of peace
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:49 PM
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Hmm, in my experience it's typically the ladies who are the yellers, and often times if the man is yelling it's in response to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:45 PM
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I have two mangers that I'm pretty close friends with. Both of who are amazing at their roles, yet both often stay much later than needed daily, just so they don’t have to go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:43 PM
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100% they do. The question is really how they handle things when they do. Do they recognize that the are acting out in a hurtful way, and do they take ownership of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:36 PM
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The phrase is emotionally intelligent, not soft
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:35 PM
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Typical response from someone who struggles to define things. And completely lacks any critical thinking skills . Just admit you've been Indoctrinated to see everything as offensive and to look for offense everywhere even when none is intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:33 PM
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Well I'd like these guys to use some critical thinking skills and understand what they are spouting is nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:44 PM
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Then you'll need to give me your new definition of racism. As far as I'm aware it hasn't actually changed. Could you also define systemic racism, and give examples of rules or laws that are only applied to one race but not to others
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:43 PM
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I thought the first few episodes were fun. It's just entertainment. It's not supposed to be profound
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:36 PM
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Especially if it's frequent or in front of others. The last part always shocks me. It makes you wonder what goes on behind closed doors when they're willing to do it in public
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:33 PM
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Unfortunately you are factually incorrect. Racism is hatred of or prejudice against a person or group of people based on their race oe ethnicity. You should really learn the meaning of words before maliciously branding people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:31 PM
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I'm not saying the verbal abuse is not warranted or justified. Just that it's still abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:10 PM
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Well there's a hell of a lot more than 25% of men in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:00 PM
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So you're in agreement that your previous statement is completely false?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:57 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:54 PM
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Is it racist to say " the Irish are a bit too fond of the drink", or is that just a general statement of fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:52 PM
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Yelling is abuse period. Your ex was abusing you by yelling at you as she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:46 PM
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What's really crazy is that when I've described what a healthy relationship should look like, so many people look at me like I have 3 heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:45 PM
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Another thing that helps is to think "Why would you purposely hurt someone you are supposed to love"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:43 PM
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Curious, are you a man or a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:40 PM
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You've never seen a fit man with a fat woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:38 PM
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And yet we'll above 5% of men are in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:37 PM
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Now I'm really curious to how old you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:36 PM
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Generally speaking though I will get out of a relationship that has too much arguing(more than once a month Unfortunately far too many don't ever make that realization
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:35 PM
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I expect people to be self aware not robots. We're still human, and we're all still deeply affected and influenced by our emotions. Yelling/shouting when angry or hurt can be a very normal reaction. BUT you have a frontal lobe and you're capable of realizing that lashing out in anger hurts the other person. When you realise it's happening that's when you need to step back and take a moment to calm your self. Buddy, if the situation is severe (1) I'm not apologizing and (2) there's no need to con…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:31 PM
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we had to make conscious choices to unlearn the behaviour This is what it boils down to. I'll be the first to admit I have a very bad temper, but if you were to ask any of my friends or family they'd tell you I am incredibly calm and don't have a temper. I make a very conscious decision to control it. One of the best pieces of parenting advice I ever received was to say something in my head before reacting to something my kids did. The something is "How old are you (insert child's age)" and then…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:14 PM
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We're all still human, and we're not perfect, so I don't expect anyone to never get mad or never raise their voice. What I expect is that they learn to control it, and learn to sincerely apologize when they do lose control.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:07 PM
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Okay. Now please explain where the racism is. It's an incredibly serious accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:02 PM
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If you grow up with it then it either becomes normalized or you are deeply affected by it and try not to hurt people in kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:54 PM
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How is that racist? Do you disagree that the stereotype of Latina women yelling exists for a reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:52 PM
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Aka an abusive person who needs another abusive person to put up with them. Perhaps similar to the "fiery" Latina needing a macho man?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:59 PM
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FYI it's both verbal and emotional abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:58 PM
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That's not what monogamy means, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:56 PM
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though certain types of men seem to be happy with pure monogamy. Did you mean most men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:40 PM
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Ummm, okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:39 PM
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I think abusive environments don’t guarantee you’ll turn out one way or the other I don't think just growing up in an abusive household always normalizes it. Just that it's usually only those wvo did grow up with, that aren't bothered by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:38 PM
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Lol. You wouldn't last long at any of my businesses with that attitude, but l understand where you're coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:23 PM
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So my partner and I both grew up in households with parents who yelled and it means the only arguments we saw modelled as kids were those ones. We had to learn healthy conflict resolution the hard way. In my experience some/many of the people who think yelling is okay not who aren't bothered by it, grew up in abusive households like you did, and it's normalized to them. Edit: added the word some/many
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:21 PM
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(working in customer service is great practice for this too) unless they apologise immediately and change their tone I’ll end the conversation. In customer service it's different. You usually need to let them blow off the steam before addressing their issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:17 PM
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Two questions: Did you grow up in a family where yelling was normalized? Have you ever dated someone who was a yeller/shouter when mad?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:10 PM
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Is it any different than enough saying they like women with big breasts?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:03 PM
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I completely disagree. Communication skills are extremely important and most people need to learn them as they aren't always intuitive unless you have an extremely high natural EQ. Just look at any dating advice sub and you'll see endless examples of awful Communication skills. Even on things as simple as how to set and establish boundaries. Hell, you could add in understanding what boundaries actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:47 PM
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So you don't want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:40 PM
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Learn how to communicate properly in a relationship. And especially learn how to fight properly. Here's my write up on how to fight properly: Time to draw on the basic relationship skill of sharing negative feelings without attacking each other. Couples often get in to a trap where one person says "You always do this..." and the other person feels attacked. So, they immediately close up and get defensive and launch an attack of their own "Well, you always do that..." - and so it goes. An ever es…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:36 PM
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Okay so that's exactly why he's easily porn free. Not all. But most men would much prefer to be having de s3x of some sort with their partners than watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:28 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:25 PM
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Then you're misunderstanding what peaks means. It doesn't mean you're ugly afterwards. It just mean you hit the top of your level looks wise and after that it very slowly goes down hill. If you're already with the guy and he loves you, your looks will age with him. My wife was 24 when I met her, even she will admit she looked better then. Than she does today.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:25 PM
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And he's probably so happy he's met someone with a compatible libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:20 PM
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23 not 18-19
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:13 PM
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Makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:12 PM
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What's the dilemma then? If you find ot disgusting then don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:12 PM
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Well if we're both in chains we're fucked. If I get out of the chains, there's a much higher chance I can help you. I don't need to give you the same key, I'm not chained anymore and have lots of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:11 PM
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Perhaps, but there's a lot of truth in it. Pe9le who can't take care of themselves rarely have much to.offer others.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:07 PM
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But he's bald and not good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:06 PM
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The saying in your OP applies only to people who are already dating in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:08 PM
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100% agree. When a man dates a woman he's really interested in, he makes it known
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:07 PM
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It's a minimalist look. I like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:05 PM
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Practice on girls you're not really into
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:02 PM
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But clean, coordinated, uncluttered and so easy to keep clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:00 PM
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Exactly that. I think feminine here means clean and matching
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:59 PM
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Because 99% of people don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:16 PM
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Sous vide will actually help massively with cheap cuts of meat. It'll help tenderize the meat and all the fat and juice stays in the bag while it cooks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:16 PM
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Sous vide is great for getting the cooked temperature perfect every time. I use it whenever we have guests or a dinner party. I also like to food prep as much as possible to make dinner easier. Being able to ignore the protein (it just sits in the water bath) gives me more time to focus on the other parts of the meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:58 PM
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That you don't do anything to care for them except type stiff online
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:55 PM
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Well it explains why lesbians refer to themselves as gay or queer vs lesbians
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:45 PM
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Whatever works best for you. I do a lot of sous vide so I personally prefer the boiling method. I also Don't like cleaning up and disposing of old oil.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:44 PM
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Sure in a keyboard warrior kind of way. Outside of that, how do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:34 PM
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No, it makes the skin rubbery as it steams while baking
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:34 PM
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Frying still leaves a small fat deposit, the boiling water melts it away
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:15 PM
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No, definitely not. In my opinion if a guy wants anal then he needs to be willing to be a bottom too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:46 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:45 PM
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Or you can just pour boiling water over them before you bake them and then pat them dry. It's less messy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:43 PM
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TIL lesbian is considered a dirty word.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:42 PM
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What's MENA.?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:40 PM
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Are political climates of countries and their treatment of same sex relationships not being taken into account? Not really, no. Who cares about what's outside of their bubble?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:39 PM
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We agree that so long as this stuff is talked about beforehand it's perfectly fine and not abusive. My point is the majorty of guys who do this shit just assume it's okay (again they are copying porn)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:53 PM
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It’s basically down to the individuals in question Yes, and if you want to engage on those sexual acts then you need to discuss it with your partner before having sex. It’s not like there aren’t plenty of women who also think they know how to suck dick and have no idea how painful what they’re doing is. Then you tell them what they are doing wrong. Or better yet, just tell them what you like the most
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:50 PM
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Lol, I'm not in any way trolling or bashing men. I am calling out men who copy abusive shit from porn in this post though. Can you really not see a difference between a lady moving your hand a little (because it's not in the right place) vs physically forcing something down her throat when she's already in a very vulnerable position?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:44 PM
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JFC. Did you skin them or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:44 PM
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And do you not think your point of view is extremely different than most other men? You yourself have experienced both sides of the throat fucking and anal. You know to go slow, and know what hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:17 PM
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There's a difference, a big one (or maybe a small one in your case).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:14 PM
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Yes, exactly that. It's not a natural thing for a dog, but some might learn to love it. The point here is that having general rules for things like this is beneficial for most people. In this example they're usuallu unable to tell if a dog likes a hug or not, so it's better to err on the side of caution and not hug your dog too much (from the front).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:59 AM
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This is most likely the most correct answer so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:25 AM
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Of course, that means anyone who is more introverted will struggle with getting into relationships If you're not "out there" then how would you meet anyone? Social and outgoing peole are liked because you actually get to know them a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:22 AM
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The mustache and the ears have to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:56 AM
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Look back through the comments, it might not have been a respond to you. But I did say once or twice a month isn't too much. Not to mention, the point isn’t that there’s an actual threshold, Yet the article you quoted talks about the correct dosage. People in love in otherwise healthy, mutually respectful relationships (and friendships) don’t mind hearing their loved one vent. Did I not say earlier that I tolerate it. Isn't that just another way of saying don’t mind hearing their loved one vent.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:05 AM
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You could certainly pull her head back off you, and then say it if you wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:02 AM
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That's a great technique
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:45 PM
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But you expect them to let you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:44 PM
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If she's using too much teeth, I have to shut up unless she asks me if what she's doing it's ok? You say,"Woah, that's too much teeth"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:44 PM
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One, there was no debate. Two, I don’t do it, me good, O never said those words Three You the analogized it to cutting yourself. different commenter Goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:42 PM
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I've never switched topic. You just refuse to engage in good faith. Anyway, by your downvotes I understand that you don't want to participate in discussion. Have a good weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:29 PM
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I’m not playing your game, man. I.e. I won't engage in critical thinking, because then I might feel guilty
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:26 PM
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I'd say about the same level of commonality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:25 PM
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A bad blow job because you didn't forcibly shove her head in to take more than she can? A painful BJ because you didn't force her with your hands? I'm unsure as to what you're saying here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:24 PM
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But you'd let her peg you for her satisfaction right. It's only a bit of pain. If you liked her you'd let her peg you, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:22 PM
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We just need to find out what the correct dosage is and make sure to offer to supplement that with cognitive reframing.” Like I said earlier, once or twice a month
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:12 PM
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Have you ever allowed a woman to peg you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:09 PM
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Have you ever allowed a woman to peg you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:09 PM
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Are you aware that venting has a negative impact on your mental health?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:03 PM
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Then I'd assume the term exists to distinguish between women do x (i.e. most women) and ALL women do x
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:27 PM
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No it wasn't, only idiots think people mean All men, when they say men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:23 PM
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I'm not changing the goal posts at all. This isn't a debate. I'm trying to get an idea of what you think is abusive or not abusive. I'll start. I think the answer is 90%+
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:59 PM
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No idea what AWALT stands for
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:58 PM
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There's a whole post on this today. Normal people who aren't looking to take offense know that when people say men do x or women do y, they are talking about most men, or most women (not All)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:56 PM
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So you can't or won't answer? It's just a question. There's no right or wrong answer, as it's only your opinion I'm asking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:54 PM
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Answer this question then. What percentage of professional porn on pornhub would you say is abusive? 10% 30% 50% 70% Or 90%
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:42 PM
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Make her cum before you fuck her that’s the golden rule For men who can't satisfy her during sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:41 PM
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And now you get it. They tolerate certain things because they are attracted to you. That does not mean they like it. I don't exactly enjoy eating my wife out, I do it for her pleasure and because I enjoy seeing her squirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:23 PM
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Oh, my wife enjoys rough sex from time to time, just not abusive sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:21 PM
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Not starfish. Sex is a mutual thing though, if you're just using her as an object to fuck, that's the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:18 PM
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They didn't though. They were talking about when your pleasure is derived from pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:16 PM
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You linked to men answering the question
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:15 PM
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I don't deny there's women who like being abused during sex, but they are the exception, not the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:03 PM
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You should want to be supportive I do. Which is why I tolerate venting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:01 PM
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Where did I use the word All?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:01 PM
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and sometimes he responds really well to feedback and thoughts when I ask if he wants them. Then it's not venting. If he's open to advice it's not venting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:00 PM
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This sounds like an excuse to be abusive. Whatever you need to do to sleep at night
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:58 PM
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have you seriously never connected enough with a woman that you wanted to hear her vent…? Why would you want to heat anyone vent?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:56 PM
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There are things that feel good for you that don't hurt her. Why not try those instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:57 PM
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Do you work for Dr. Moreau?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:23 PM
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Why would you even want to "face fuck" her when there's a perfectly good pussy you could fuck, and she'd also enjoy it? (Oh yeah, it's something they pick up from porn)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:21 PM
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Oh, I just had a discussion with another commenter that we tolerate women venting for their sake, and she interpreted that as "we don't love women". But surely she should see just how much we love women when we're willing to tolerate their venting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:20 PM
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Fair enough. Be alone then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:17 PM
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It was the most clueless post I've seen on this sub. On another note. Guys, women do not need your "help" while giving you a BJ, unless they ask for it. Putting your hands on their head to "guide" them or make them deep throat isn't a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:17 PM
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They tolerate it because they love you. If you can learn to read their body language it works wonders
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:06 PM
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Did you not just agree that men think loving relationships with women are too much work? No, I called that BS (bullshit). Yes, listening to your partner vent should not be a chore. If it is, consider that you don't actually like your partner. It is a chore for men. We don't really understand why you'd want to relive the experience without wanting a fix/solution etc. We tolerate it for your benefit. Venting in my opinion is fine every now and again (once or twice a month). If you need to vent mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:04 PM
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Damm, you've never interacted with a non family member who is male. That's gotta be tough
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:50 PM
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Which part do you think is too much work for us? The only part I regularly hear about too much work is expecting us to listen to regular venting, or offering empathy the exact same way women give it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:48 PM
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Sorry, I was dreamwalking last night. I won't bother you again
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:44 PM
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65th
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:40 PM
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Yes, but they shouldn't expect men to be like women. They should accept that we are different
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:12 PM
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Stand naked in your front window of your home holding a sign over your crotch that says "Free stuff gets you a look"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:43 PM
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Not really. If you go naked you'll get plenty of attention. You don't need to look presentable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:37 PM
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A bar/pub/club
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:29 PM
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A landing strip is sexy, hairless is off putting and doesn't help with friction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:27 PM
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Damn, did you come up with that yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:26 PM
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If they use the word All I can agree. In my experience people rarely say All Women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:18 PM
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I also think it's gross
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:01 PM
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My thing is that it's a misogynistic generalization to say that all women are like that So where's the hatred or prejudice?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:58 PM
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What's your definition of misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:40 PM
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Well I for one agree that your opinions should be instantly dismissed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:38 PM
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You said and their dad (who they also want to fuck). How do you expect anyone to take you seriously? Adding that in made your useful comment instantly dismissed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:37 PM
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It completely sucks. Building rapport between work colleagues makes for a much better work place. It also sucks because the young lady had a lot of potential, she went from making 50k her first year to 150k by her third year. We poached her from a local restaurant where she was a waitress. Now we're most likely going to let her go, but obviously not for a long while.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:22 PM
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And from that point on you stopped shaving?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:14 PM
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Not irrelevant but you don't have time to just "hang out" the way you used to. Post kids you're "on duty" 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:12 PM
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The comment reported was "Wow, I really like your Go Go boots". Apparently she saw that as a sexual thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:10 PM
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The compliment was "Wow, I really like your Go Go boots"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:07 PM
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My wife just pointed out that some of this might be my "fault", as I used to mentor the Manger and a social trick I encourage is to compliment women's shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:56 PM
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Maybe being mostly Gen-x and older millennials helps? Absolutely that helps. In this case the young lady just makes it into Gen X. She's also known to be difficult though. The complaint is being dealt with strictly according to policy, but no one is taking her seriously. In my experience the slightly older folk don't take offense to everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:39 PM
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Bars, clubs, group activities, sports festivals, farmers markets, school, work etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:28 PM
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Well a better TLDR would be The relentless unchecked advances in technology are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:12 PM
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I don’t see an issue with using technology in the same way for social disabilities. But how much of your social disability is caused by the technology. That's my point. I see young peole at work quite literally unable to make a simple phone call due to social anxiety. It's like they are incapable of interacting without the protection of a screen (giving them time to think of witty responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:08 PM
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And do you not understand that you're making your social anxiety worse by using online as a crutch vs addressing the issue? And depending on your age (if you're under 35) that social media and online interactions might be the very cause of your social anxieties
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:00 PM
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Technology bad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:58 PM
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most patrician fetish Not a term I'm familiar with
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:57 PM
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Like I said, I am letting HR handle this. I just think it's ridiculous to think there was sexual harassment here, and I'm wondering if others have been accused. It's also the end of work nights out. Sadly it was the first big work night out since Covid, and now we're ending them permanently (HR didn't have a single sexual harassment claims for over two years)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:55 PM
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They were considered rich, not beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:50 PM
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How do you explain gender roles or beauty standards for each gender changing in every era depending on what media puts on front? Or why does every country have different cultural norms at all. Gender roles across all cultures are similarly divided amongst almost every culture globally throughout history, how do you explain that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:49 PM
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100% this E.g. I have a very bad temper. In fact nearly all the men in my family do. But most people would never say I have have one, and would probably ask what you're talking about. The reality is that I work REALLY hard to control it. u/nvkr_ said If you want to stick to your ape brain and feel too hopeless to put your intellect above what the basic functions of your brain tell you, then that is still very sad But it's not as easy as that at all. I can control my temper but it doesn't go away
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:47 PM
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When people say women do X or men do Y, they don't mean All women do X or All men do Y. It's shorthand for "in general women do X" or "most women do x", or "a lot of women do x". Stop looking for offense where none is intended
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:42 PM
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Lol, she's trying to repel Tom Holland
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:37 PM
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Has anyone here ever been accused of sexual harassment at work, falsely or justly? There's a weird complaint being dealt with at a business I own. It seems one of my managers complimented a younger employee on her "Go Go" boots on a night out, and now she's filed a complaint against him. I'm letting HR handle this as I am baffled as to how this is harassment, but I'm also not the most PC person
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:33 PM
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Interacting with people on this sub makes me happy. Okay. But you know it's not real, right? You know that no one on this sub is your friend, even other mods, right? You know that the sub you moderate does an awful lot more harm than good?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:26 PM
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Cisgendered
/r/PussyPassDenied16/09/22 01:08 PM
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men complain about how much "work" it is to be in relationships with women. Usually because of dating women who are expecting too much
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:34 AM
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And you don’t think PPD/Reddit/other online forums do the exact same thing? Where did the commenter suggest ppd etc aren't social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:15 AM
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"Medicine, electronic communications, space travel, genetic manipulation ... these are the miracles about which we now tell our children. These are the miracles we herald as proof that science will bring us the answers. The ancient stories of immaculate conceptions, burning bushes, and parting seas are no longer relevant. God has become obsolete. Science has won the battle. We concede." "But science's victory, has cost every one of us. And it has cost us deeply." "Science may have alleviated the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:12 AM
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There is something wrong with the technology. It's been purposely designed to highjack your brain, and new AI algorithms are making it much much worse
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:06 AM
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it's how men are socialized to be fundamentally incompatible with women/love/healthy relationships. Utter bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:03 AM
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Reddit is social media
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:01 AM
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No idea. The thought of condom less sex with a GF was not something I ever wanted to entertain. Even now my wife and I use condoms 90% of the time just to contain the mess
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:52 PM
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Wow, so you never watch porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:45 PM
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Sorry but Crabcake Eggs Benedict is the breakfast of gods.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:44 PM
1

So pick a good woman
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:22 PM
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You don't think women have to put in effort? Getting dolled up, also going on all those dates etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:17 PM
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Basically having non sexual romantic relationship with someone other than your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:08 PM
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What difference does that make?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:06 PM
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Some people mean what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:05 PM
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The ones she made on our wedding day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:38 PM
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Well I'm married. So it's not like I have to do OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:49 PM
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Your GF doesn't make the same vow
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:48 PM
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A vow to be together forever and to always work on any issues
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:45 PM
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Typically about 2-3 times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:53 PM
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Dual mating strategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:02 PM
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Then make sure you actually ask her out on a real date. None of that beating around the bush shit like "Let's meet coffee, or to catch up"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:48 PM
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Don't discount the possibility that the first time she ever got wet was when she first met you. Perhaps she's been saving herself for you and pinning for you all these years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:32 PM
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The only thing we can think of is that she is asexual and possibly aromantic. Yes I’m going to pursue 😎 Why pursue her then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:18 PM
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If it's not programmed to love you why would it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:50 PM
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But your help her get there afterwards?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:16 PM
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Q4M For those of you who don't ensure your partner has an orgasm every single time you have sex, what on earth are you thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:38 PM
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Okay, so we deport them to guantanimo bay and do it there
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:32 PM
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Women in general age poorly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:26 PM
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Sounds good to me. They should be castrated with a blunt knife first
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:24 PM
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She got fat!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:11 PM
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Maybe give up the heroin?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:10 PM
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In the water they do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:14 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:14 PM
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Nice chatting with you. I won't be engaging again
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:00 PM
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But you just stated that killing human beings was immoral. How can killing someone in self defense be moral, when killing human beings is immoral? Hopefully this helps you understand why differentiating between morals and ethics is a good thing. In the self defense scenario I would say that the killing was immoral but ethically justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:38 PM
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And if you kill someone in self defense, is that moral or immoral?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:24 PM
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It depends in the woman and how pretty she is. Personally I prefer my wife with either no makeup or with very minimal makeup. What I never liked while dating, was dating someone who looks completely different with no makeup on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:07 PM
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Let me ask you this then. Is killing human beings moral or immoral? It's a binary choice question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:05 PM
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Do the same stuff you'd do with a close friend
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:17 PM
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Do a simple Google search on "difference between ethics and morals" and get back to me. Given that you don't know the difference between absolute and objective morality, I highly doubt the utility of your made up distinction between ethics and morals. It appears one of us is more versed on philosophy than the other, there's zero need to be so rude and aggressive. You've clearly looked at philosophy through a very narrow lens when it's a very broad subject matter. Are you seriously trying to impl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:48 PM
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Latina women always stereotyped as being overly emotional not angry
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:44 PM
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I explained earlier the difference between ethics and morals. It's a much more useful system to separate them then to use the terms interchangeably
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:51 PM
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I am saying it should be a real thing. I wanted to open discussion and hear arguements from women as to why they should get a day every years where they should be pampered how they like, but men shouldn't get the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:19 PM
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Victim DNA isn’t stored in police databases So in the case that was posted about, how did they get her DNA
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:10 PM
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Is black men's colorism against black women really about skin color or skin tone? I always thought is was related to the "angry black woman" stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:59 PM
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Men who are victims of sexual assault/rape aren’t having their DNA entered into the database, you know? & Also, men commit more rapes, so their DNA gets put in more. Once your DNA is tested for any reason it's captured and stored. If 30 Men were DNA tested after a rape, all 30 men's DNA is permanently stored whether they are innocent or not. This scenario with the rape kit isn't any different
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:56 PM
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Damn dude. That's such a profound realization. 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:50 PM
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And it's a toxic form of communication. It leads so many issues Even after 20 years of marriage my wife still struggles to be direct sometimes. It's incredibly frustrating having to use a lot of brain power to figure out what it is being asked of you, and it's frustrating to know you might have interpreted things incorrectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:48 PM
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There's plenty of liberal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:45 PM
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If you're referring to being subtle or hinting then I completely disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:42 PM
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Assuming bad intentions/somebody’s a bad person by default just for disagreeing with your societal/political views. This one is more of a liberal thing than a woman thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:38 PM
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What men seem to understand least in my opinion is how much individual women can vary in personality. We understand the variance in personality. We just see the same basic underlying traits in almost every women no matter what their personality differences are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:34 PM
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We could argue over whether killing a person is justified or not justified in a given situation and still be talking about objective morality.. That would be an ethical arguement, not a moral one. So long as we believe that there is an actual fact of the matter, so one of us can actually be incorrect, this is an objective moral statement
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:26 PM
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It is a question of whether any action is right or wrong independant of opinion. It's the question of whether you think there are moral statements which remain valid even if every single person in the world disagreed. You just used more words to describe the same thing. An objective moral is an absolute moral, like killing humans is wrong or immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:49 PM
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You don't even have a correct understanding of objective and subjective. This isn't terminology that I created. It's in philosophy books and journals. I do understand your confusion though. But hopefully the definitions and example I gave help you understand what the terms objective morals and subjective morals mean here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:24 PM
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What part do you not understand? My morals are my beliefs between right and wrong. My ethics are the rules that govern my morals. Objective morals are those which you believe to be black and white. Subjective morals are morals that you can change depending on your situation. E.g. I have an objective moral that killing people is wrong. This is a hard fast rule. There's no exceptions ever. If you have subjective morals around killing people then you sometimes think it's moral to kill someone (self…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:41 PM
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I separate morals and ethics. I also believe in both objective and subjective morals, and I hold both, I use my ethics to manage that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:23 PM
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What country?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:57 PM
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Fair enough. But I wouldn't lose hope. I managed to coach my 27 year old nephew with Aspergers from never been kissed to engaged in 2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:45 PM
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I'm always still surprised to hear this. I was born and raised in Europe, and didn't immigrate to the USA until my early 20's. In my opinion there isn't too much difference here except for the level of individualism and personal responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:44 PM
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So why don't you explain it here?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:06 PM
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It's starting to become a serious issue in Europe too. You're just a few years behind
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:03 PM
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40% of Americans Believe in Creationism Source on this please
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:01 PM
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Now this is a post that should be pinned instead of that silly workout post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:59 PM
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I’m more confused when women DO vote against themselves, than when they don’t. What do you mean by this? Any examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:32 PM
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Romantic love is a very modern concept in marriage When was the Taj Mahal built? Was Romeo and Juillet written 50 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:24 PM
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I'm sure what you are saying here or trying to get at, can you please clarify
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:21 PM
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I don't in any way suppose my moral relativism is absolutely true. I think every society should get to set their own morality. The only exception to this in my view is genocide. In that case I think we should step in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:05 PM
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Curious to know what views you believe are morally superior?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:59 PM
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were able to stop their populist candidate from getting the parties nomination. They knew that Bernies constant misuse of the word socialism would cost him the election
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:54 PM
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Okay answer this then. Who had it better 300 years ago, men or women? Who had longer lives? Who had less physical labor (the kind that destroys your body)? Also there's zero chance you make 400k a year
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:50 PM
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Of course not, but I did stop my wife from comforting him in the moment. I later talked to him about it all, and he did acknowledge the reality of what I said to him, and he explained that he just felt like I had crushed all his hopes and dreams. We discussed things further and he understands that he can still have those dreams, but also that he needs to accept that they are dreams, so he also needs a realistic backup plan. He accepted all of this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:39 PM
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I assume the belief is that morality systems were always the same, no matter where, no matter when. A lot of this stems from a lack of education, and a lack of understanding of what words actually mean. Morality is the collective morals of a society at a certain point in time. Different societies have different moralities and people need to accept that, and accept that other cultures and societies developed differently, and especially that western society isn't necessarily the best method. Simpl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:36 PM
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So no response except condescension. Typically from someone with no valid arguement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:27 PM
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I was questioning the true value of fathers beyond resources and genetic material as long as the mom had her shit together. The value is largely due to the fact that men and women are different, generally think differently and generally act differently. Kids learn valuable things from both genders. It can be something as small as a father throwing his young child or baby into the air and catching them (something mothers would rarely do). This teaches the child to become less fearful, ND it also …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:23 PM
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Longer answer: The culture and conditions between then and now are different, over a century's worth of change different. Judging them with today's standards is foolish. So many people don't acknowledge this unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:16 PM
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Maybe you should encourage her to get different male friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:13 PM
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When were they treated badly? Women were treated well for the most part. Most marriages were a partnership, and men did love their wives and children. So many people seem to be judging the past through a modern lens. Most modern conviences were created by men, many to help women. For example, The first sanitary pad and tampon were invented in the 1920s by a husband who felt bad for his wife and how tough it was on her once a month. He wanted to relieve her suffering
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:11 PM
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That's not what they mean by the sexual marketplace
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:35 PM
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Men never wanted to get married. Marriage is not even a thing among most religious men, I tell you. Men got married to have sex. Today we have casual sex. I got married at 25 and I didn't do it for sex. I had plenty of options for casual sex but that was boring. I wanted a life partner, and as soon as I found the perfect person, I locked that shit down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:32 PM
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Then you've got to learn to play the game. Part of the game is understanding that in some workplaces being buddy buddy with the boss is important
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:23 PM
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What's you point here? Are you saying it's pay back time? If that's not what you are saying then please clarify
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:18 PM
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We do hold men accountable for sexual assault and rape, those are both crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:07 PM
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The issue is that there's too many like you. Also Even if you don’t think feminism is needed now - I think it’s universally acknowledged that life hasn’t been great for women historically - I mean we were literally considered to be property Of men. Life was shit for everyone, men and women alike
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:03 PM
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Well if he's married I'm not sure what his post is about. Someone else mentioned he has a dead bedroom, but that's a completely different issue altogether
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:51 PM
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So let me get this straight, I'm supposed to cold approach women and do dating apps to not tie my sense of self-worth to women? Yes, exactly that. I didn't figure that put until I was 19, I had only ever dated or kissed one girl before that. Shifting my mindset when rejected from self pity to "heroes loss" worked wonders for my self confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:08 PM
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Well maybe that's the issue then. If you're just average but always in a group of men who are above average them you're going to look like the runt
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:06 PM
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Well if you're not willing to put in the work, why should you expect to get any of the rewards?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:55 PM
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Incel =:involuntarily celebate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:44 PM
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Some people don't like a big age gap because they think there's a power imbalance due to age, money, experience or maturity. They aren't wrong and sometimes this is an issue, but a lot of the time there's no issues. My sister for example met her husband when she was 17 and he was 24. That have an amazing marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:41 PM
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Spontaneous BJs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:43 AM
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That's a very fair observation. I guess we should keep that alive so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:41 AM
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So I'm the third sexist race ?☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:29 PM
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Free food!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:27 PM
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Ah, so she's married with kids? At what age did she finally meet someone ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:27 PM
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After Indians?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:23 PM
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I feel bad for many of the guys on this sub, they certainly do have some odds stacked against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:22 PM
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Is there even one man in India over 6 foot with a 6 inch + penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:13 PM
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Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:11 PM
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It means they are Bi until they have to do oral
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:13 PM
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Pansexual just means bisexual but you don't have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:12 PM
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I'm still using Fahrenheit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:36 PM
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Your family sounds lovely by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:56 PM
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So yes you do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:43 PM
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Can you answer my previous question please. Do you think the differences between men and women is solely a social construct?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:33 PM
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You really have serious issues with understanding this don't you? So you think having their drug addicted father who was also too tired and addicted to raise them would have magically made their living conditions normal. Just woah. Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:31 PM
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Why can't bottom level women. Make more money through manual labor?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:29 PM
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Well maybe if there was a man in the house he would have protected the kids from your cousins?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:25 PM
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and youre denying that the quality of the parent has NOTHING TO DO WITH THEIR GENITALS. Nope. I didn't deny that at all. The only thing I said was that kids ideally need a parent of each gender, and that they learn different things from each gender. Thus a child growing up without male influence is at a major disadvantage and that's proven over and over by statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:10 PM
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No, I'm done trying to make you see reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:05 PM
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"Why do women care less about looks than men?" They don't, they just like to pretend that they think personality is their number one. It makes them feel less superficial. Do you think there has been a major (and perhaps still ongoing) shift in the public, mainstream perception of what women care about in dating, in the last 20 years? Yes, and it's largely due to too much social media usage. Women often believe that raising someone up self esteem wise is a better option than telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:26 PM
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Yes. She didn't last past the first date. She quite literally stuck a firm tongue in my mouth and that was it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:19 PM
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Have you met the guy IRL?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:17 PM
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I brought your mother into it for one reason only, to point out that the cultural differences alone are a hindrance for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:21 PM
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You asked and I can’t tell if my ethnic background is a hindrance in dating (I’m Indian American and not very tall). I'm responding that Yes it's a hindrance. What's your issue here?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:00 PM
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Ohh, so you didn't want to know that your ethnic background puts you at a disadvantage in Sacramento, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:47 PM
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and I can’t tell if my ethnic background is a hindrance in dating (I’m Indian American and not very tall). That certainly is a big disadvantage. Just the thought of what your mother might be like is incredibly off putting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:35 PM
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If you're there solely to make friends then you'll end up friendzoned
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:33 PM
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So young hot women = stupid? Is that your thesis?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:25 PM
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We're taking about sex not gender. A transman =/= a biological male father. H3 won't teach his kids the same things
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:20 PM
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You guys don’t bother looking at the socio-economic situation of these people, you don’t look into the subculture they grew up in, you don’t look at the age of the mother, you don’t look into the possibility of child abuse in there home, and you don’t wonder about the mental of health of the adults in the person’s life. And kids with fathers in all.th9se situations don't typically end up completely fucked up. In fact single fathers in those situations typically end up with a child who can integr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:18 PM
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So yes you do deny it. Stop obsessing over the parents' genitals Ah, so you're onenof those people. You'd rather be PC than acknowledge reality
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:12 PM
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Or just stop making malicious comments
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:29 PM
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The mods are way to anal about how posts are worded. I think people just give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:27 PM
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Are not were
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:11 PM
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They can make good 1st wives
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:44 PM
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Is this the comment you are referring to? Can you pick one topic you wish to discuss? https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wnei2e/comment/ik4oxik/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:35 PM
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Believe me I did. But unfortunately I hear this from men all the time. There's a few big reasons men don't usually like to share vulnerable information with women, and one of those is that we know there's a very high possibility that she'll weaponize it in the future, vs men know where the limits lie. If a man tried to weaponize the information he'd get hit. But the women knows she won't be hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:32 PM
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I did, and you didn't rebutt a single thing. You just used q lot of words to say "I don't like this list",
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:29 PM
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Well if you're seeing it again, maybe you should read it and try to understand why children need fathers. Question, do you agree or disagree that children learn different things from their fathers than for their mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:21 PM
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Not my ideal, the ideal. Children who grow up on a fatherless house are typically worse off by almost every metric Home Statistics Statistics 36 Shocking Statistics on Fatherless Homes October 4, 2018102884 Fatherless-Statistics In the United States, there are more than 64 million men who identify themselves as being a father. Out of that figure, only 26.5 million men are part of a home where they are married to a spouse and have children under the age of 18 living there. The U.S. Census Bureau …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:17 PM
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And ideally that loving family consists of a mother and a father. The father is important and without a father the children can lack certain skills and influences
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:06 PM
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My arguement to her was that children ideally need two parents, and ideally that should be one parent of each sex, as children learn different things from men and women, and seeing how they interact.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:04 PM
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A lot of women like to hit below the belt when they are angry and arguing. I can easily imagine her hitting below the belt and weaponzing a piece of information like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:59 PM
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Why can the UK and the USA never play chess again? One lost their Queen and the other lost their two towers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:51 PM
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No, that commenter just like to bring up extreme examples. Instead of continuing our discussion or clarify anything. She decided to take extreme examples are say a bad father = raping you, vs just not being involved much. She can't argue anything so dropped the conversation and took it here instead looking for affirmation and N echo chamber response from other women, you walked right into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:50 PM
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Obviously severe abuse like being raped isn't a positive thing. There are always exceptions to the rule. Have you got any arguement against what I said previously? Or just dismissals based on extreme circumstances? Do you deny that a child ideally needs a mother and a father. And that they learn different things from each sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:46 PM
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In an ideal society, partners would share parental responsibilities equally and both work part-time. That would provide both partners financial autonomy and allow them time with their children. It’s unfair to both partners when one is the sole earner and the other is the sole caregiver. Why is that the ideal society? In my opinion the ideal is whatever you prefer, and what I'd prefer to sew is people choosing what's best for their situation, a lot of the time that will be the high earner working…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:33 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:57 PM
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What's your opinion on transwomen in competitive sports?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:53 PM
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I only ever dated one person who didn't last past a second date. I always loved dating, the excitement and the butterflies in my stomach was welcomed. Keep at it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:50 PM
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I think you're right, but on this case I figure there's got to be a lack of a father figure in her life. This lady looks like a supermodel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:45 PM
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Because the post got removed after a few minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:16 PM
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I usually am very good at reading people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:14 PM
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Troll elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:22 PM
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No, they didn't comment with number 4. They just left a general comment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:18 PM
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What part are you disagreeing with? Are you disagreeing that it's nearly always men who do they asking out and risk rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:17 PM
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And my point is that it's usually only men who experience both.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:13 PM
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Absolutely what about men who experience both of those things ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:09 PM
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We're talking about approaching someone asking them out, and then being rejected. We're not discussing people who didn't shoot their shot and yet still are so entitled that they still feel rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:08 PM
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There was a fourth comment at the time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:06 PM
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Possibly. I didn't get that impression. At the same time, I've never seen someone that high while at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:59 PM
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There's two parts here. Being rejected and being lonely. I'm addressing the first part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:53 PM
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How often do those ugly women approach men and ask them out on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:52 PM
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I how often do women do the approaching and get rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:43 PM
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From the limited interactions I've had with her she seems to be a good person. Definitely timid and a little more conservative. Stop projecting onto women you women because you think they look good so “they couldn’t possibly be bad”. I'm not saying she's not batching crazy behind closed doors. I'm not sure where I projected.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:42 PM
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Whiteness and blackness
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:48 AM
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Is Idiocracy a better alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:47 AM
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If she had married an ugly man would that community have reacted any differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:36 AM
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They don't know you're teenager
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:32 AM
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Am I missing something here? I not seeing much more than Where she was from it was normal to pressure lighter-skinned women to marry lighter-skinned men so that their kids were more likely to have those features. Gross, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:27 AM
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had to fire a very beautiful young lady early this week. I had to fire a young lady a few days ago. Sadly she's most certainly being abused by her BF, but won't talk about it or tell anyone what's going on. She came to work completely high on drugs and it was extremely obvious, it was actually a customer who reported it. The crazy thing is that she's quite possibly the only women who is a complete 10 looks wise that I've ever worked with. She is one of those women who is utterly striking in ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:23 AM
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Oh, I didn't realise that they were harassing you. What does the harassment look like here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:21 AM
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5
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:20 AM
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Okay, same response. They want you to marry someone who will give your child the best advantage in life. If they were rooting for you to marry someone gorgeous vs deeply ugly, would you pass the same judgment on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:18 AM
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A rejection, especially in a romantic or sexual context, means that you have no value and that they believe the world would be better without more people like you. It means the person that rejected you failed to recognize your value, and that it's their loss that they failed to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:13 AM
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What other advice is there in a situation like this? Being unable to function normally for 6 whole months after a rejection isn't normal. A good psychologist should be able to teach the OP some basic CBT techniques to fix this issue
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:10 AM
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Just bring enough money next time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:06 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:03 AM
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You admit that colorism is a real thing. Therefore you shouldn't really judge parents for wanting what's best for their child or their family. If having lighter skin gives them an advantage in your culture. Wouldn't having a lighter skinned child be a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:57 AM
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You could also say that it's dumb and sexist to assume there's not huge value in a child's life having a father figure involved in their life. It actually doesn't matter of he's a good or bad father, the statistics show the child is better off either.way, especially for boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:48 AM
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Or when all the Chinese 18 year Olds are driving $100k+ cars
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:36 PM
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Why not just go for someone without that extra baggage?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:31 PM
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Well I love my kids who are the same sex as me. Can you explain that one?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:30 PM
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TIL Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:29 PM
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So people have more than one reddit username?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:30 PM
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I still haven't figured out what people mean by alts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:23 PM
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Love is a many splendored thing It's the April rose that only grows in the early Spring Love is nature's way of giving a reason to be living The golden crown that makes a man a king Once on a high and windy hill, In the morning mist Two lovers kissed and the world stood still Then your fingers touched my silent heart and taught it how to sing Yes, true love's a many splendored thing Love is a many splendored thing It's the April rose that only grows in the early Spring Love is nature's way of gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:22 PM
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Yes having a good parent is important, two good parents is even better, and having two good parents of opposite sexes is even better. Why do you think children need fathers is BS?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:56 PM
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Correct she was born into it. But she chose to accept it and dedicate her life in service of her country and her people. You have several opinions right here and now, you have the freedom to state those opinions. Vs the Queen didn't ever give her opinions, she was a rock of stability, a role model for others to look up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:46 PM
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It's okay if you don't get it. It's about sacrificing yourself for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:37 PM
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Wasn't she your Queen too? Was she not the most recognized Queen globally? Did she not always conduct her affairs and represent the country to the highest standards? I'm not even British, and I have massive respect for her accomplishments. She gave up her entire life in service of the peole of the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:26 PM
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The eating etiquette is an assumption based on their lack of respect for others. People who have selfish mindsets in one area typically have the same mindset in other areas too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:24 PM
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I'm not hungry anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:23 PM
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It's called having a responsive desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:22 PM
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Apparently, children dont need good parents regardless of gender. No one is saying that. What they are saying is that having a father is extremely important as children especially sons learn different things from a father than from their mother. They MUST need a father in their lives, regardless of parenting quality. It's not a must, but it certainly helps in ensuring a well rounded child. Timmy watches daddy bash mommy’s skull in every night, but Timmy needs a father in his life! If that does h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:20 PM
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You guys could be 2nd best together
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:16 PM
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Well she was your Queen. You don't have to mourn her, but at least show some respect. RIP Queen Elizabeth II
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:13 PM
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Not at all. I've been approached and asked to leave the park while watching my kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:19 PM
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I didn't think it was free in any country. Is it really free in DenmarkM
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:06 PM
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So he's gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:01 PM
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Is this your response to people earlier saying you're onenof those FDS women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:55 PM
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If he's not being exclusive dump him. It's fairly simple
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:45 PM
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That's certainly an issue that many men think about when dating a woman 35+. It's assumed she'll likely have some trauma and trust issues based on her prior experiences ( a lot of people refer to that as trauma, which I personally think is a little dramatic)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:40 PM
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It doesn't take as much time as you think. I told my now wife within a month of meeting her that she was going to be my wife someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:19 PM
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My view isn't based on scarcity. I had plenty of game and was nicknamed the whoremaster by my team mates in college. I just have self respect and give that same respect to anyone I'm dating, and yes one date if another was planned was dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:18 PM
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Because if you're dating him then I'd assume you think he's a good guy. If he's a good guy he won't be fucking other women while dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:14 PM
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So why are you saying you always assumed he was dating other people? Did you assume your now husband was heading straight from dates with you over to his FWB house right after your dates? Well at least until you initiated the exclusive talk
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:05 PM
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It's only about 1/3 of relationships that start online
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:01 PM
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Well if you're correct you should dump him. Have some self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:00 PM
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They often times still don't have as much. But I agree with you. If a man isn't outearning his GF then he should be taking on more of the traditional woman's roles, and he should be taking care of her in other ways
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:59 PM
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It's called having self respect, and giving that same respect to others in return. I'm going to take a wild guess that you don't have any eating etiquette, and if you gross someone out with your eating habits you think "That's their problem "
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:57 PM
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You don't see anything wrong when a society is so broken that people no longer get together and have children? That signals the beginning of the end for that species or race
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:54 PM
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Do they really profit more though? It used to be that women recognized that men usually brought more to the table career and finance wise, and they took care of their man, because his money took care of her. Now they want the money, but don't want to reciprocate with the care
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:45 PM
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Why is this stereotype okay, but other stereotypes are not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:41 PM
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Best of luck with that mindset. I'd have dumped you as soon as I found out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:40 PM
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100%,
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:39 PM
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Holy shit, has the "talking phase" actually been around for 10 years. It was only reading this post that I figured out that when young people say the "talking phase" they actually mean dating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:38 PM
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In my view that's a fucked up mentality. What you young peoe call taking is what we called dating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:37 PM
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You should just assume he's not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:11 PM
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I think his point is that if you did call another commenter a bitch or a slut, then your comment is likely to be removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:34 AM
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It's fine dude. By power invested in me by reddit. I hereby pardon you for any morally iffy things on this topic past, presence and future. Follow Tate, praise be!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:08 AM
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If that was your takeaway from my comment you're trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:57 AM
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Because biological men are typically stronger, bigger, and much more aggressive physically than most women typically are. They are usually going to be at much more risk because of that factor alone. Add in that most violent men in prison are straight, and would prefer to rape a biological woman vs a biological man. In my opinion the denial of these basic things is madness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:28 AM
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You just said you'd only use their terms in their presence. Given how this conversation has gone so far, I'm betting you'd be saying all kinds of shit behind their back. I didn't say only but you cannot expect me to change my word usage if the situation doesn't necessitate it, and without having visual clues. Then you're losing the bet. Then you shouldn't have a problem being called a cisman. That term has existed just as long. It has existed only since 1994, and has only been used by a small mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:12 AM
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If you respected them, you wouldn't feel the need to hide your opinion of them. Where am I hiding my opinion? I'm being very open here. Of the terminology. I cannot take anyone seriously when they refuse to learn the basics. I have zero interest in changing terminology to virtue signaling. Terminology that existed for thousands of years. What's wrong with calling a transwoman a transwoman? It's a very good term that describes them. Which one? Transphobic Men's And you’re perfectly okay sending h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:41 AM
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Is that supposed to be a good thing? Yes. I show them respect. Is that not a good thing? Yes, because it distinguishes them from cismen and ciswomen. You're really demonstrating your ignorance here. What ignorance? Yeah...insisting they need to convince you of their gender identity is also pretty transphobic. Again a second request for a definition of the word you are using please. If a transman who hasn't had an sex change surgery is arrested and sentenced to prison, should she be locked up in …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:25 AM
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Well for starters... the lingo. Bad look. Cis/trans or AMAB/AFAB is what you should be using. What? My refusal to use overly woke virtue signaling language in normal conversation makes me transphobic? If that's truly what you think then you need to provide a definition of transphobic, Because what you just stated isn't part of the definition. I also have zero issue using people's preferred terms in their presence if they request it. But I certainly don't appreciate you assigning labels on me. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:13 AM
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Where's the transphobia? Can you at least explain it? I'm also not seeking to "limit their rights", biological men haven't ever had the right to use women's bathrooms or changing rooms. And the fact that you're singling out trans women makes it even more obvious Makes what more obvious? If I was transphobic wouldn't I be more concerned about transmen in men's spaces? The reason I have no concern about that is there's nothing to fear from a biological woman using men's spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:56 AM
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Their reason is important though. Here's my response to another comment on this topic Because I'm not a transphobe. I harbour no hatred towards them and have no fear of them. My main reasoning for not wanting transwomen in women's bathrooms or changing rooms is because I know that shitty men will take advantage of the loop holes to gain access to women's spaces. I don't have any fear of transwomen raping women, it's shitty men pretending to be trans that I worry about. Have you not ever noticed …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:46 AM
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Because I'm not a transphobe. I harbour no hatred towards them and have no fear of them. My main reasoning for not wanting transwomen in women's bathrooms or changing rooms is because I know that shitty men will take advantage of the loop holes to gain access to women's spaces. I don't have any fear of transwomen raping women, it's shitty men pretending to be trans that I worry about. Have you not ever noticed that there's never any discussion or worry about transmen? It's always about transwome…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:44 AM
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I think they are far too quick in branding people, which leads to them alienating people. A simple example is someone unfairly being branded transphobic for saying they don't agree with transwomen using womens changing rooms or bathrooms. The branding nearly always happens before asking any questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:40 AM
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Too many were pampered and coddled and taught that being uncomfortable and unhappy is tragic. I 100% agree. I also think there's an issue with them being unable to think on their feet due to too much texting (it gives them time to think of a response), this makes them incredibly uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:43 PM
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True, but it's a much bigger issue in those under 35 in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:23 PM
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Points of view on anything really. A difference of opinion. A simple but politically charged example is all the recent controversy over transwomen in sports or in women's bathrooms. If you say you're against either you're instantly branded as transphobic. It doesn't matter if you try to explain why you think it's not a good idea, because they won't listen to anything you say. They also like to shutdown conversation, case in point, you downvoting my comment means you don't want any further discus…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:09 PM
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Not at all. Listening to understand vs respond is a issue with a lot of people in general, but for those under 35 it seems like an impossible task for them. They don't seem to understand that you'll never change someone's views by spouting off certain information or facts. You need to first understand what someone's beliefs are before you can attempt to change them. Bit that in itself is difficult with the under 35's in general. I've tried asking questions to understand their views and where the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:38 PM
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I'm more of a centrist than a conservative. Do you not see any issue with refusing to even listen to other points of view?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:18 PM
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People on the tube read newspapers to read the news. The main goal was not to avoid communicating with people. Have you not been out to dinner and seen a Gen z group all on their phones instead of talking to one another? They use IG instead of Facebook, IG is owned by Facebook
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:17 PM
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They are so wrapped up in their own ideology that they refuse to even listen to other points of view, refuse to so any critical thinking, and brand anyone who doesn't agree with them as racist, transphobic, or similar
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:11 PM
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I'm asking what does UMC mean. A Google search tells me it's united methodist church, but I'm pretty sure that's not what you meant
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:09 PM
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That being said, the Gen Z I know are waaaaay better human beings than I and my friends were at their ages Interesting, My experience is that they are bigots
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:06 PM
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They are extremely culturally different. Their entire lives seem to revolve around screens and Social Media. Far too many have serious anxiety over something as simple as making a phone call
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:05 PM
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HSV1 is not HSV2
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:00 PM
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Okay, how does this change what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:56 PM
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I'm happily married. Where am I bitching?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:55 PM
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You can still approach people. How does OLD affect your ability to approach people? Since fewer and fewer men are capable of approaching someone, shouldn't your skills in approaching people be even more valuable? Nowadays it seems like a huge amount of youn people have anxiety due to too much screen time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:12 PM
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UMC ? I checked the wiki. It's not listed there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:03 PM
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You asked and I answered. What part did I not answer for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:53 PM
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I'm semi retired in my 40's. I hold several degrees, I've started and sold several successful businesses, and I still own several businesses. I've also got a decent sized stock and real estate portfolio. I've won several business awards, and used to win (or at least rank) in sports competitions when I had the time and interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:48 PM
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How do marriage stats measure who is a HVM, I've never seem that listed in stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:44 PM
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Looks, accomplishments, education and wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:37 PM
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It's pretty much the norm amongst any HVM I know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:36 PM
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So the solution is simple then. Stop using dating apps. Go outside and meet people in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:23 PM
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I'm not sure where you are getting that from. My wife has a degree and did work for a while but it wasn't a necessity for me dating her. In fact nearly all my friends have married a woman who doesn’t have much of a career. Most of them are SAHMs or they work because they want to, they don't work because they need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:21 PM
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Have you tried massaging his prostate after a few minutes of BJ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:19 PM
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You asked for Western to be defined, I did that. You are only 1" shorter than the average man in the USA, that's not a manlet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:18 PM
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That's interesting to me. All my friends who met in college are still married (except one). All my friends who got married after 35 are divorced (except 2).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:16 PM
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Untrue, most guys don't care about her degrees or her career. It's a nice bonus sometimes, but it's not a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:12 PM
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Then she has lots of experience in how relationships should and shouldn't wirk and has a low body count. It's a win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:10 PM
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But why? People haven't changed that much, it's just their attitudes that have changed. I'm over 40 and my first piece of advice is always skip OLD and ask people out on person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:08 PM
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Western means the western world, so USA, Canada, Western Europe, Australia and New Zealand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:03 PM
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What do you mean by showing sexual interest? If you like her, just ask her out on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:02 PM
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Right, it's like he doesn't understand that you need to woo and court women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:00 PM
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Is he circumcised?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:56 PM
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Too much soy is bad for men. It mimics estrogen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:55 PM
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Cowboy, ohhh kinky
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:50 PM
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Both 5-6
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:49 PM
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Do tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:48 PM
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The friendly zone is something you put yourself in. If you meet her and like her then ask her put before you become friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:46 PM
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You shoot your shot with the one you find most attractive. If that doesn't end up being a good match after a few dates, then you move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:45 PM
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You shouldn’t need one if your intent is to marry for life. Most people don't have huge levels of wealth when they get married and a prenuptial protects that wealth. If you're in a community property state then anything earned during the marriage is split anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:49 PM
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No fault divorces can often mean the wife ends up with assets and alimony even if she's the one who didn't honor the marriage vows. Even if she's the one that caused the marriage to fail
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:08 PM
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Can you explain the "neutral discussion question" part. Every post seems to be unnatural, as in why do women do x, why do men do you, and those aren't neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:05 PM
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I grew up in a family where banter was normal. It had a massive impact on my ability to instantly think of witty comebacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:53 PM
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The best comeback I ever had was the night I met my wife. Due to how loud it was in the club we were at I could barely hear her, and I wrongly assumed she wasn't a native English speaker. She clapped back with "I'm from XYZ", and I instantly responded with "My bad, you look so much like (insert a beautiful celebrity) that I assumed you were from (same country as beautiful celebrity)." The rest as they say is history.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:23 PM
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The appeal never wears off. I appreciate every meal my wife makes me. It feels good to be taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:19 PM
1

Good stuff. The best advice I can give you is to practice and hone your sales skills. Start looking at different websites and magazines about how outfits go together. Look around the store every time you get new stock in, and figure out which pieces go together best. If the customer is buying one or two things that come to less than $300 always have a great additional piece of clothing ready to offer them to compliment what they've already chosen. Also do some research on what colors go best wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:15 PM
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Congratulations, what type of sales?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:03 PM
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Not a rant. I had hoped this incident might open up some discussion and conversation about why women who could choose abyone they want often choose shitty worthless men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:00 PM
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Where did I turn it into something personal?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:59 PM
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Of course I have concern for her, but I have a business to run and she was damaging it. It was the 4th big incident with her since she started 9 months ago. The manger was too enamored with her to fire her before now so I had to step in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:58 PM
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Botox is fine, my wife used to get that. She started using some sort of band aid type tape on her face at night instead of botox though, you should look into that. It prevents the creases but she can still move all her facial muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:37 PM
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How does that help men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:23 PM
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I've never heard of.this before, but now that I think about it, nearly every single one of my divorced friends has divorced parents, and most of my married friends have parents who never divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:09 PM
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The reality is that every single time you have an operation with a general anesthetic there's a chance you won't wake up afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:58 PM
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Young people are idiots, we know because we were idiots, and we see you idiots making the same fucking mistakes and not listening to us like we didn't listen to our elders. Lol, 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:56 PM
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They knew they were both terrible choices, they just picked what they saw as the lesser of two evils.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:53 PM
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Shit. Does that mean I'm always in the wrong room?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:36 PM
2

Some people do that, but not many. Most people I know vote based on the 3-4 issues that affect them personally the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:33 PM
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Quick, retreat to you safe space 👶
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:16 PM
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Yes. What liquid do you think is stored in the urinary bladder?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:12 PM
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100%. I can't stand this ally stuff. When did everything change so dramatically. So many young people have a "if you're not with us, you're against us mentality." No, I'm not going to fire people because you don't like their views or opinions. I can ban political talk in the workplace, but not for one person only. And yes, you're also a bigot if you don't allow others to have different opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:59 PM
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That aren't getting enough at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:56 PM
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I think it's a bit of both. It's certainly a symptom of less people dating and having sex. It's definitely also a cause too though. Have you ever watched modern porn? It's so incredibly abusive, and far too many young men try to reenact it. One of my nieces was crying to her mom and my wife one day about her BF breaking up with her. It turned out it was because she didn’t want to do anal sex anymore (because she hated it, and it hurt). Well that all ended with my wife and my sister talking to my…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:54 PM
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Short guys usually have small feet, small feet = small cocktail. Small cocktail = easier firstvtine being a bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:44 PM
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If you see a therapist who allows you to spend the entire session venting them you should get a new therapist. . Good therapists want you to see them onlybfor a short time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:42 PM
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Diluted urine is still urine
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:40 PM
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while the squirting is the expulsion of a diluted fluid from the urinary bladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:10 PM
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Okay, name the organ
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:59 PM
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It's pee. There's no Organ down there except the bladder that holds enough liquid to gush
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:57 PM
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Peeing the bed isn't a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:54 PM
1

Which sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:52 PM
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You should have gone home with him. You could have had the full experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:51 PM
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The lady who expelled all the Jews from Spain? The lady who started the Spanish inquisition?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:50 PM
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And I absolutely agree with the social media piece. Really so much of our technology is destroying us. Never before in history have we been so connected as a species, yet we now feel more utterly alone than in any time that came before us
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:48 PM
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What older women do you see shinning marriage? The majority of them want marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:45 PM
1

Ah. So it's really only 4 inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:17 PM
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Did you measure from the top or the bottom? From your pelvis or your asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:00 PM
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That part yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:58 PM
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But that's women's fault
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:35 PM
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What's weird about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:33 PM
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5ft4 guy who was out of shape and unattractive. How is he going to pass on these traits Good height, high IQ, great health, no predisposition to bad health conditions, good aging genes, good looking, and low tendency towards depression)? ​
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:32 PM
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Interesting, I've been to Spain and Italy but not to Turkey. I don't think the women in Spain or Italty were any more attractive on average to the women I see in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:31 PM
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That's fair let's just ignore the woman that have been involved in the power spheres of human story. Can you give some examples of women who did use their inherited power and wealth to contribute to the growth of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:29 PM
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What other countries have you visited other than the USA where you are seeing lots of women more attractive than in the USA?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:11 PM
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It's easier to blame others for your woes vs self reflecting and blaming yourself. Social media is also incredibly toxic and in my view it's similar to windows shopping in many ways. It shows people what they could have, and tells them they are missing out on certain things on life. This makes people miserable as they feel they deserve things without working for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:09 PM
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Divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:49 PM
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Okay, so you're in agreement that it's not only 1% of women who want marriage or long term commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:46 PM
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I disagree, the vast majority of my friends are happily married, and I have both a niece and a nephew that got engaged in the last 6 months. I will agree that many younger people seem to be shunning the idea of marriage, but many seem to think they'll still be with their partner long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:48 PM
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WTF, say it ain't so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:47 PM
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Madonna did
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:42 PM
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Try Facebook marketplace dating. Search for wedding dresses for sale (recent divorcees) and then sort by dress size.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:26 PM
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Is that the Japanese Child Porn one?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:47 AM
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Carpal tunnel syndrome?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:46 AM
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You responded to my comment. How is that following you? You don't debate, you argue and ignore what other people who are kind enough to engage with you are saying. It's the reason someone else asked if you were 12 earlier, it's the only way your responses make any sense. But keep on "debating".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:29 PM
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All you did was argue and constantly bring up new irrelevant arguments. If you were open to changing your POV you would have asked questions to clarify things in my responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:21 PM
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Ah well then you get to suffer from a lack of cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:07 PM
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Ahhh, so he dumped you. That's always harder to get over.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:03 PM
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Is she pregnant or just really fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:01 PM
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Also avoid interacting with u/todo_pasa_ they are just a troll who likes to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:00 PM
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Open Tinder. You can have a man at your door within an hour or 2
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:58 PM
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Agreed. I'm only just now realizing you are a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:57 PM
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So I'm correct in my interpretation that you are just looking to argue? You still did not answer my question. I've given you the courtesy of answers, can you not answer that one question? Can you please answer my one question. What part of what I said so you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:44 PM
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They'd take the money and still work hyper focused on something different. Did you not understand what the purpose of that exercise was even after I responded with Therein lies the difference. Those hyper focused men will choose option A every time. I'm not understanding why your every response is a new arguement. It makes it very frustrating to have a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:42 PM
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I'm always changing my own political thinking so I'm open to hearing new stuff. Can you give any examples of where you've recently changed your stance on something politically?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:04 PM
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I feel the same about you! On what way am I not engaging? How are my responses the same as yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:49 PM
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Therein lies the difference. Those hyper focused men will choose option A every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:48 PM
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You're asking exact same question over and over different ways. I've addressed your questions every time. I keep asking stuff and you keep ignoring it or maybe you are not understanding what I'm asking. What have I ignored. But yes, perhaps I'm not understanding what you are really trying to ask. I honestly don't understand the logic behind "women could rule the world if they wanted to, it's just that they are not willing to put the effort" it sounds so counter intuitive in a capitalist setting.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:46 PM
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What part of what I've said so far do you disagree with? Please answer that Are you? Yes, but this isn't a debate. You haven't rebutted a single thing I have said, every time I answer a question you ask, you ignore the answers and ask new questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:26 PM
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Routine is hard to keep up with different waking times daily. It's hard to get all the autopilot stuff out of the way first if there's no routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:23 PM
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One more question for you. If I offered you one of two choices which would you pick. A) $10,000,000 a year income in return for 10-14 hour work days 6 days a week. Or B) $10,000,000 in the bank tax free and you never have to work again. Which would you pick?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:22 PM
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100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:59 PM
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That already exists in the west
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:58 PM
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Curious, are you just arguing or are you open to having your mind changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:56 PM
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why are you discarding the possibility that society raises women to be less competent than men? I completely disagree with that statement. Question: Do you feel that society made you less competent then men. In my experience women are much more competent with more things then men are. why are you so sure they have the opportunities but choose not to take them? Because we have equality of opportunity in most areas. And in Scandinavian countries where they have focused on artificially creating gre…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:55 PM
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Your argument is that women choose not to have power and money My arguement is they are smarter and choose a balance. When given the chance women decline that opportunity. The reason for that is because men have an innate ability to be laser focused and hard work. Again not men (not all men, or even most men), a small hyper focused amount of men, less than 1%. How can you prove that it's not that women can't but that they are not willing to make the effort? I can't prove a negative. I never once…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:38 PM
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You are saying that people who got to that 1% are there because they are laser focused into obtaining power. For most of them yes. So there is something about men that makes them more likely to be successful. Something that makes them different from women. Like you said men tend to work harder and be laser focused. This would explain why that laser focused 1% are men. For some men (1%), yes. Remember there a much larger variance of extremes in men, than there is in women. E.g. Men and women in g…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:15 PM
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Another belief that a large majority of this sub's userbase seems to hold is that females are foremost attracted to a man's height and that it is far more important than personality and could potentially trump it We're reading a different sub if that's your take away. To think of another one, there's this idea that if a man marries a woman who earns more than him, they will eventually file for divorce. It's not "an idea" it's simply acknowledging statistics and data reported
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:35 PM
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RemindMe! 4:30pm if todopasa has responded.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:32 PM
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That doesn't make women lazier. 99% of the entire global population (men and women) aren't as laser focused as those 1% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:14 PM
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Why what? It mainly boils down to biology and genetics. Look at Nobel prize winners for example. Only 3% of Nobel prizes have gone to women vs 97% to men. To dive into that further 20% of Nobel prize winning men are Jewish vs 0.2% of the global population. And the majority of those Jewish men can trace their ancestry back to a small specific region in the Middle East.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:12 PM
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No not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:03 PM
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Yep, even in something like height there's a much greater variance in men than in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:01 PM
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So what is it then. Are men in power because they want it more or because they are more able to be in positions of power? Because the desire it more, and their pursuit of it makes them work harder which does give them more merit. secondly Why do you think women don't want to be powerful and rich? I think they do or might want to be powerful and rich, they just don't think what they have to give up to get there is worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:59 PM
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I did explain it. A very small minority of men are willing and capable of being that laser focused. That's a large part of the reason why as many as 12% of CEOs are thought to be psychopaths vs only 1% of the population. It's also around 1% of men who are psychopaths vs 0.3-0.7% of women who are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:55 PM
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Melania is a woman whos is choosing a not real connection too. How do you explain this? She chose to accept the arrangement in return for the luxury and lifestyle she gets in return. She can still have relationships with her family and close friends. By what you are saying Trump, whos is a very powerful man, isn't able to break up with her, do therapy and seek a real connection. You truly believe that this is more likely than him being happy with his trophy wife. He could do that if he wanted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:52 PM
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Why are you trying to twist everything I say? So it's evolution who is excluding them from positions of power. I never said that. Not society, it's genes. Or that Women's genes make them less driven and that's why they are underrepresented in positions of power. Or that. What I said was women are generally more social than men, and to clarify that point, I mean they value people and relationships more than things. For that reason they aren't generally willing to sacrifice everything (relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:47 PM
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And I've explained why that happens. Is there something in my explanation that you didn't understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:47 PM
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They want it more. It's got nothing to do with who deserves it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:46 PM
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You are saying that for evolutionary reasons men are more driven on a single narrow mindset to achieve one goal and the result is them being in positions of power. As opposed to women who lack that drive. I'm saying a very small minority of men are willing to sacrifice everything in pursuit of power. And yes a much much smaller minority of women are willing to sacrifice everything in pursuit of that power. How is this not patriarchy? How does adding that make any difference? The difference is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:39 PM
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Then why are men able to enjoy power and money and women aren't? Probably because women want a real connection vs a fake connection. Or you are saying that Trump, Elon Musk, Putin, Xi Jinping, Hitler, Bill Gates, all of them have chosen to sacrifice themselves for society. If given the choice they would've chosen to have a middle class happy family E.g. you mentioned Trump. Do you think he doesn’t know that Melania is only with him for the money and lifestyle he gives her(i.e. no real connection…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:32 PM
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You left out a very important part of that definition a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it. If you're only going to use your definition as you stated it, then yes it's a patriarchy. If you acknowledge that women aren't excluded then no it's not a patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:13 PM
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Not more suitable. Just more driven on a single narrow mindset to achieve one goal, regardless of how it affects everyone and everything else in their lives. And that is not patriarchy how? Can you explain what you consider patriarchy to be. I'm starting to think there's a miscommunication here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:01 PM
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It doesn't make sense to refuse to have more money and power. Why? I have money and power, and now I'm semi retired in my 40's. I could get more money and more power, but I realized there's no end goal there. When is enough, enough? What's the point on having money and power if you can't enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:56 PM
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Have you never heard women argue that "They shouldn't have to sacrifice everything" to have a high powered career. Yet the majority of men with high powered careers do sacrifice everything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:44 PM
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Mainly evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:42 PM
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Mainly evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:41 PM
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Because they are more social and realize that money and power are pointless without someone to share it with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:40 PM
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They were few and far between. Andvthey nearly always inherited the power from their fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:31 PM
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In many cases yes. Law firms are a perfect example of this. There's a lack of female partners in big law firms not because women don't want the jobs, but because by the time they get to partner level they've already made big money and decide to step back and enjoy it, vs taking on a role that would give them even less of a personal life. They're smart enough to see that the benefits don't outweigh the sacrifice needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:27 PM
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I explained that already. Because in general they try to have a greater work life balance. sacrifice their lives to some extent because as far as I know most powerful people have friends, family and pets. They go to parties, have affairs, travel to exotic destinations, have mansions, etc. I don't think the life of a CIO is as sacrificed as you make it to be They have family and friends they don't see very often. They also can typically only have family of they find a woman willing to take on 99%…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:24 PM
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Yes. So they didn't stop after Thatcher.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:21 PM
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There are always exceptions to the rule, and she was one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:15 PM
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Because most of them aren't crazy enough to sacrifice their entire lives in pursuit of those roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:14 PM
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and why do you think that is? Women in general are smarter about it and they try create a work/life balance. coincidence? Not sure what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:13 PM
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They aren't fighting at the same level the men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:07 PM
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I didn't say men are meant to be rulers. Men in general are more willing to sacrifice it all for a career like that. Women in general are smarter about it and they try create a work/life balance. This leads to them falling behind the men who are willing to sacrifice everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:06 PM
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Theresa May was a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:01 PM
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50/50 isn't reasonable though. Men are generally more ambitious for those roles
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:01 PM
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That's because men fight for those roles, women not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:00 PM
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Hmm, I always thought it was a lscknof listening and not explaining yourself well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:59 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:58 PM
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No one hates sluts, we just don't want to marry them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:21 AM
1

Well in your picture you look mid 20's
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:55 PM
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Why? Surely they have white privilege and that extends to dating, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 08:59 PM
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According to most men yes, but unfortunately most women seem to think that women in that age group aren't real adults, and instead think they are childlike women that need protecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:56 PM
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3 breasts!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:01 AM
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Where is that "the norm", be specific please.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:16 PM
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Boomer pilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:28 PM
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Can someone explain to me how an automoderator is making these posts and pinning them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:17 PM
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Because they're the ones who pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:13 PM
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Well the fact that your parents gave you unlimited access to the internet is a huge issue here. Extremely bad parenting on their part
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:46 PM
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You're cheating on your left hand. Shame on you, SHAME!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:45 PM
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I practice for 30 minutes every morning. It helps manage my ADHD. If my wife wants sex I'm ready to go, otherwise I'll take care of myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:43 PM
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Yeah my wife really wants to do that one. I wasn't super fond of it, but it's in the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:33 PM
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After you cum
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:32 PM
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Yep, I'd like to see that source too. I've also seen studies that say it's 20-30%
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:29 PM
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Lol, they cry in lots of movies when there's sad or deep parts. We've tried to raise them to be in touch with their emotions and to understand that it okay to be angry, sad, mad, upset or whatever, but that it's never okay to take those emotions out on someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:23 PM
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How can you enjoy spending time with someone who doesn’t share your values though? Because you hopefully are mature enough to realise that they likely share 90%+ of your values. The world would be a very boring place if we were all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:18 PM
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That's only 1.5 -2.5 inches in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:15 PM
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I have big hands, but my wife needs both 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:13 PM
2

I agree sp no need to CYV
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:12 PM
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It's fun family time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:10 PM
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Question, does someone who doesn't think transwomen should be allowed to play in women's sports = transphobic in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:57 PM
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Do you not have any friends with completely opposing political views or completely opposing views on woke topics?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:24 PM
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Content is enough For me that's just living life half way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:23 PM
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We set up our outdoor projector screen, put some cushions and blankets down,, and had an outdoor movie night with the kids last night. We watched E.T. and both my boys were in tears towards the end. We've been trying to do it at least twice a month, and we're going through old 80's and 90's movies. It was The Goonies last time. Neverending Story is next week.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:21 PM
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Well maybe you've never dated a young liberal women then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:17 PM
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0.75 inch
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:13 PM
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Don't they usually go hand in hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:13 PM
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But unlike the stereotypical social misfit who ends up the school bully, workplace bullies are often charming and socially skilled I have never seen any correlation between workplace bullies and bullies outside the workplace, but that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:12 PM
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Content and happy aren't really the same thing. It's funny because any single older women I'm talked to is either unhappy/miserable/lonely or they are Content. They rarely say happy, they always say content.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:08 PM
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I'm very unclear as to what relevance your examples have to do with cruelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:02 PM
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It's really made up of two parts. 1) the ability to self reflect and understand your own emotions, and how they are affecting your own thoughts, actions and reactions. Once you can do this you can. Start to see patterns in yourself and others. 2) the ability to truly put yourself in someone else's shoes.Vs what most peole do which is put themselves in the sane situation and ask "what would I do". A much simpler way of looking at it is the ability to read a room or read a person. E.g. if someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:59 PM
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So tell us your answers. Will what we say change your views?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:48 PM
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Okay, on the extreme end of overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:45 PM
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I'm.guessing they're taking about having an overly woke partner who thinks anyone who isn't woke is bad person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:44 PM
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Well in fairness FDS is a toxic cesspool
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:40 PM
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Kim Kardashian
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:36 PM
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I'd consider that more toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:33 PM
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The bullies are likelier to succeed in all areas of life than the bullied. Yet the latter will be blamed for their lot in life. I've never heard of that before. I Google it but found no good sources. Do you have a source on this claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:32 PM
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Does she know that you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:29 PM
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Sorry 169lbs is BMI of 29. 170 is 30 BMI
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:26 PM
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If the average woman is 5'4" and 170lbs then she is obese with a BMI of 29
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:15 PM
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The average woman is 5'4 170 lbs. And that's right where it changes from overweight to obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:14 PM
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Yep. I took ballroom classes, swing, and salsa classes in college. Being able to dance well as a guy definitely makes you more attractive. And lol, I just learnt the shuffle dance with my 6 year old from YouTube tutorials.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:10 PM
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You mean well dressed women in age appropriate clothing? Do you not see how many 50 year Olds walk around in leggings and yoga pants?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:05 PM
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Very age appropriate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:57 PM
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I don’t think lesbian couples or gay couples should be using artifical methods to have kids. That being said I all for allowing gay married men to adopt kids, although I still think a mother involved is more ideal. Lesbians couples I'm more weary of allowing them to adopt due to their very high divorce rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:45 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:33 PM
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I think it's a really bad idea. Single fathers typically do much better than single mothers, but ideally a child needs to learn from a parent of each gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:32 PM
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