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No, they usually come in with their friends expecting to get approached. On the streets, especially at day time, people want to mind their own business. And why do you think so many women complain about being cat called and bothered by getting hit on? It gives women unnecessary stress and anxiety, also because some men don’t take a hint. Try imaging from a woman’s point of view if a man tries to chat. It’s bothersome to deal with. Ofcourse women politely decline too but they need to be polite if…
/r/seduction14/07/24 02:07 AM
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The number of spelling mistakes in your comment tells me all I need to know. Also, ask any woman who you know, how they feel about catcalling or nampa. Asking directions is totally different, as it has the purpose of helping someone. I think you probably have zero experience with women nor understand their point of view.
/r/seduction13/07/24 02:09 PM
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But in an app people sign up to be swiped left and right, in person people aren’t clearly. You might be harassing married women or girls who just aren’t interested in dating. Apps, clubs, bars, social gatherings are all inviting places, the streets are not. If someone talks to me in a bar I wouldn’t feel violated because that’s the setting, but on the streets doing nampa is literally just harassment.
/r/seduction13/07/24 03:22 AM
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Ok sociopath
/r/seduction13/07/24 03:18 AM
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Except they aren’t if they themselves aren’t too picky, especially in Asia. Also, apps is just one suggestion, but there are clubs and bars and social gatherings and just 100000 better options than harassing women on the streets..
/r/seduction13/07/24 03:17 AM
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For a decent person it’s not that hard to make a decent profile on a dating app. And it’s sad if you need to harass and annoy 29 women to get one person’s number while you could have gotten that same person’s number on an app or in the club or bar. Unsolicited catcalling is a real problem because of anti-social men.
/r/seduction13/07/24 02:59 AM
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Gaijin hunters are Japanese who hunt down gaijin (a low-key slur term for foreigners which translates to outsider, foreigner is gaikokujin). Basically exclusively want to date or have ONS with foreigners. Some women want it for just for the purpose of just getting pregnant and a haafu baby (haafu meaning half-Japanese). A male friend of mine always used a condom and flushed it through the toilet, just to make sure he wasn’t knocking someone up. Better be safe! Else you might end up with a kid wh…
/r/seduction12/07/24 12:19 PM
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Well you have to be pretty sociopathic to take advice from pickup coaches who are also anti-social themselves. And with anti-social I mean they don’t read or understand other people so they need to go by an almost autopilot manual to get some reaction. And those manuals they sell to men just like them only to gain profit of their backs. Asking any woman how she likes to be approached or how she met her partner sounds a lot more productive. And literally social gatherings/clubs/bars are a no brai…
/r/seduction12/07/24 11:43 AM
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You are missing the problem towards women. You are being a nuisance towards 100s just to score 1. Any person with a bit of social understanding would just do it in a setting where meeting people is normal (apps/bar/club etc.) and more appreciated. Why waste your and other people’s time doing cold approach on the streets at day time? It’s actually anti-social behavior (because you can’t read the room aka 空気が読まない in Japanese). Its almost if not really sociopathic, like you are suppose to place you…
/r/seduction12/07/24 11:31 AM
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I used to be on the apps and also met my bf on Bumble. Many men seriously don’t understand what a decent and attractive profile looks like in the woman gaze. Also, if you don’t know what is appealing to women and do bad on the apps, you probably also won’t succeed doing nampa. edit guess the truth hurts for some here
/r/seduction12/07/24 09:26 AM
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And how many women ignored you or declined you before that happened? I want to bet it you had to annoy a lot of women before getting some type of positive interaction, which is the issue. Whereas in a club or bar women are probably a lot more receptive.
/r/seduction12/07/24 09:22 AM
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This! Women hate being cold approached on the streets, especially during day time. A no-brainer for people with a good social understanding of PTO. I always hard ignore those men like they don’t exist in the first place, why should you acknowledge the existence of a person who is an anti-social nuisance? Street nampa is a thing of ages ago, and it was always annoying but now with the existence of dating apps men fortunately stopped doing this for the most part. Go on the apps, go to a bar, go to…
/r/seduction12/07/24 01:02 AM
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For her sake, move on! If you don’t find her attractive enough, don’t give her weird hopes. Even if you do end up in a relationship, you’ll probably end up atleast mentally cheating on her. No girl wants to be in a relationship with a man who doesn’t find her the most attractive woman in his life.
/r/seduction25/02/24 05:59 PM
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Exactly this!! Many happy couples or happy people dating in this modern age dating world. Thinking only a small percentage of men gets what they want is a hard cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:20 PM
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I feel like it is actually the opposite. A lot of TRP theories literally are nonexistent in the real world. Only TRP cares about bodycount over anything else, or thinks women over 30 hit the wall. Regular men don’t care nor see it that way. If they did, women over 30 wouldn’t get attention and yet women over 30 get thousands of matches even from those who look for a serious relationship and no those men are not “simps” or "betabuck losers" just because they in fact do like women that are 30+. "W…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:42 AM
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Do you think it is not easy for an attractive man? And not harder for let’s say an unattractive woman? Also, say a person can technically sleep with 10K people but only sleeps with 10, it shows way more self control than the guy who sleeps with all the girls he can which happens to be 10. We all know the man who struggles with getting women and sleeps with anyone on his path would have slept with 10K women if only he could. That’s total lack of self control imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:17 AM
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Or the guy is lying because he forced himself on her and doesn’t want to admit it? I know cases where that happened and the guy felt so comfortable to completely lie about it while completely disregarded her words or boundaries. Which isn’t surprising because a guy who cannot respect boundaries also would not feel remorse and would feel no guilt to lie. And sometimes women freeze up or get ignored when saying no. Or women feel afraid so give into the pressure. If it’s not a heck yes from the oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:16 AM
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Sorry that happened to you, but please know that is actually a common first reaction. You don’t know what just happened and you kind of not want to process it immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:10 AM
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Please touch grass. Women are not going to falsely accuse a guy of something as serious as rpe just because she “regrets it”. Your mindset is extremely misogynistic with weird prejudices about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:47 PM
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Going to the police immediately is a lot easier said than done. Next to the fact that police stations aren’t everywhere, it also costs the victim time to process tf actually happened and many women feel shame of blame themselves. Doesn’t mean that the rpe or assault didn’t happen. Thinking its not rpe or refusing to believe so when someone doesn’t go to the police immediately is a terrible mindset. It’s rpe or assault when boundaries are crossed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:43 PM
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Yes, you kind of nailed it, however dating apps also play a huge factor imo. Idk why, but a lot of men really do not know how to appeal or market themselves. Maybe some women are really bad at it too but men seem to be quite forgiving of that, while women would swipe left immediately. Plus the fact that more men use it than women. A lot of men who would do well in person don’t do well on apps. That’s why I would always suggest speed dating or some alternative dating form to the men who don’t do …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:57 PM
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Nope, the spark exists. I have dated men who I probably would have never or not immediately swiped left on if I would have seen them on a dating app or something. I think it is either the charisma or the pheromones. Also met men who looked about perfect, looks, height, income, but I just couldn’t find myself into them in person. Idk why Red Pill keeps denying the existence of charisma, bonding over stuff in common, and simply pheromones that also all play a role. Why do we see some average-looki…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:37 AM
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Ngl that comment made me laugh out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:48 AM
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Your comment is based on nothing. I can say the same about conservatives, and in these days, conservatives/extreme right make up for such a small number of the population in most Western countries that the number of children born by non-conservatives is higher. Most men don’t hold high standards for purity and most women don’t hold high standards for providing. Regular people who do want children will procreate, although probably at a later stage in life. And the ones who do not want children ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:17 AM
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This has got to be one of the most backwards takes I have read in a while, lol. You have to be extremely ignorant to believe that liberals won’t have children, if anything, they are already and conservatives are raging about the way liberals raise them while the other way around also wouldn’t want others to get involved on how they educate their kids. It will probably be conservatives who will struggle finding “the right partner” because they are a lot more close minded and will have trouble fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:04 PM
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I have lived in Japan for over ten years rn and I can tell you that they are absolutely necessary during rush hour. Also experienced groping myself, and many women I know experienced it before. Many gropers target young teens because they know teens are very timid and won’t say anything. They would avoid a person that looks like they would make a scene. There is also a volunteer group who has made anti-groping badges for teens to scare off gropers but never seen those irl tbh. Also heard horror …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:07 PM
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As someone whose body type is similar to upper middle/upper right, growing up in the toxic 90/00s, I will forever be subconsciously convinced the bottom row is what “men” prefer more. While thin girls were the fashion/commercial model material, “curvy” girls back then (sometimes not even curvy but thin with fake tattas) were seen as the desired body by men and covered the adult magazines etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:05 AM
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You have to be a complete fool and extremely oblivious to reality to think like OP with no regards to domestic violence and the physical labor of being a house wife. You think housewives just sit around at home all day? Do you think house chores and taking care of kids 24/7 is easy? That it’s no work at all? Maybe the rich house wives might enjoy that luxury since there is money for nannies, but the average housewife especially with kids do not live the easy lazy life you would like to depict. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:48 PM
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I don’t think anyone is complaining but it’s funny because self-proclaimed passport bros are often delusional about themselves and the whole situation. They think overseas women are waiting for a white savior or something. They often are not real “traditional” men so they will try to look for a traditional women overseas only to find out: 1) the actual traditional women aren’t interested in foreigners as they are also nationalistic and want to date high-status men of their own race (this is what…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:52 AM
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Well idk but when it comes to IQ average the Netherlands is ranked 10th (tie with Germany) . US 29th. And we have a school system almost everyone enrolls in that is basically the same over the whole country. Home schooling is quite unheard of. There is one school called “free school” that does its own thing but it’s kind of a cult. So I am pretty confident that even (ex) MBO students (lowest education form) can name some countries right when asked and know Asia isn’t a country. And immigrants co…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 01:18 PM
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For us it’s not about size but country, and knowing geography is just part of general knowledge. If you look at those “name x countries” videos done in the US, people really think Asia is a country or something. Those people don’t represent everyone in the US for sure, but even the dumbest Dutch person knows Asia is a continent not a country. And the Netherlands has their own media, but US media and content flies over. So even if you aren’t necessarily interested in the US, you will know stuff a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:16 AM
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It doesn’t make sense to look at size, a country is a country after all. And I can probably name countries in both North America and South America pretty decently, because that is what we learned in high school. Idk what Americans learn in school but it seems to be mainly about their own country. And US media is all over the TV in any country really and on YT. Even if you don’t try to actively consume it, it’s there. When it comes to Nordic countries and West-Europe (Germany, Belgium, Luxemburg,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:43 PM
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Yes that’s true, not just for Japan but most Asian countries. Idk when people say American women I just automatically assume white American women. Same with Dutch women. I think Chinese in Japan usually date Chinese. While Caucasian foreigners usually opt for Japanese or Asian. I also see black people date more diverse and not each other. I never see any black man - black woman couples who do not look obviously tourist. However usually Japanese who are into black men or women are into the whole …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:01 PM
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If we would look at a map of Asia right now, I’m pretty confident Europeans would get more countries correct than Americans. If you can only name your own country’s states, that’s a bit sad. You also wouldn’t be able to name any provinces in the Netherlands or any prefectures in Japan. Why would anyone care about all the states in the US? I don’t even want to know but can still name a lot of them just because the US media is always in your face wether you like it or not lol. And you are proving …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 04:35 PM
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I think Japanese men just prefer Japanese language speakers and cutesy. If you speak the language decently and are cute (like kawaii, not kirei/beautiful or cool, in looks), it’s easy to find a Japanese partner for LTD/marriage. I feel like I get way more attention from men here than any of my Japanese female friends, but then again I am Asian mixed and mixed people are usually seen as attractive here and mixed people kinda stand out just right. Like different but not too different. I blend in p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 04:18 PM
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I always say this but, there truly is a difference between: Moving to another country to build a life/career, and dating/falling in love with a local. Purposely going to a specific country to marry a local or get a mail order bride. The latter will probably realize that women in those countries aren’t the innocent and submissive women they were hoping for lol. Especially Japanese women. I live in Japan for over 10 years btw. Most traditional Japanese women aren’t interested in foreigners anyways…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:23 PM
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I don’t think that’s true for countries like Japan. America is seen as “cool” in Japan/S. Korea? and that counts for men and women. I know many Japanese men that would probably prefer an American girl over another ethnicity. In Europe however (and I am Dutch), you Americans in general have a reputation of fake kindness, not very intelligent -generally speaking- (bad at geography for example) and going to extremes (extremely conservative or extremely liberal). And American men are just seen as sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:09 PM
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Depends on where you are. I live in Japan. The fast majority of women (Japanese and foreigners) seem to want to date Japanese men. I also used to only date Japanese men. It’s only lately I’m open to dating mixed guys and foreigners too. Japanese tend to shy away from problems and difficult conversations etc. . Doesn’t really work for me when thinking LTR. I think that generally speaking, you are probably right, but when it comes to women who are interested in/live in Asia, it’s the opposite. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:18 PM
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Nobody should lie or cheat, obviously. What’s up with bringing in an ad hominem that’s even false and nobody said to begin with? Tell me you are poor at arguments without telling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:39 PM
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Definitely not. Why would any intellectual & stable woman want to give up her career&own income/freedom/dignity/self-respect/IDENTITY etc. for that? 1) monogamy and especially love is important for me. I would rather be a single mom than raise a child with a bad-mannered, ill-hearted person like your uncle. He does not seem to actually love any of his wives. Pathetic and I feel bad for his wives. 2) money does not buy anything. Why do you think feminism is a huge thing? Women want to be independ…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:02 AM
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That’s why I said healthy relationship. Which I assume is the goal. And I think that anyone who cannot get laid or a relationship doesn’t understand what makes women/humans in general feel attracted romantically/sexually to another. You can sincerely be kind and generous or use it as manipulation tactic to trick someone which unfortunately happens. My point is that a lot of incel just do not understand any of it at all, get frustrated, then sometimes go down the manosphere rabbit hole while they…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:34 PM
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Idk why you are not reading my comments properly. Nowhere did I said that a person with rizz = a decent person. You can understand how women work, and manipulate them. For a healthy relationship however, that’s not going to work out if you just dehumanize them. And why would a cat lady or single woman be inherently more immoral? That doesn’t make any sense. I said people with double standards can have them but it does make them immoral. Has nothing to do with gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:21 PM
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I didn’t mean just respect women when I said you need to see women as humans and try to understand them. Sure, some guys understand women problems and acknowledge them as the humans they are, but they don’t understand how to make someone romantically or sexually interested. It is more about understanding what women want to hear to get interested romantically or sexually. Flattery for example works with men and women. Men with many baby mothers also know how to smooth talk and tell a woman that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:42 PM
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I think that part of it also has to do with being realistic and believing to be unable to be hypergamous. If you think you do not stand a chance, you probably won’t try to go for someone “higher” than you. I think people usually go for what they think they can get, on the very subconscious level. I also think that is with women btw, the women that think they can date up, do. However women who think they can’t get a man as successful as themselves, are more open to date “down”. And then there is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 08:53 AM
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I think the inclusivity is good, as long as they do not replace the models of other sizes and thin models completely. That way everyone can see how the product would look on them. However, it is sad that brands only do this exclusively thing in skin color and size and not also in height and age. Most women aren’t 175+cm and the number of times a dress or trousers have looked too long on me or I cannot estimate how it would look on me is crazy. And I’m 165cm, imagine being 150cm and only seeing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 08:30 AM
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Although the terminology (douchebag and bimbo) might be questionable, I get your point and you are correct. Double standards are dumb, and the mainstream agrees with this. No men that I know in person judge or criticize women on their (past) behaviors and regular people don’t care any of it unless maybe in the very extremes or if the person done sexwork idk. It is just this part of sub and the manosphere douchebags who think this way lol. Also there is a difference between preferring (meaning no…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 07:28 AM
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How is that so? If you want a relationship or even sex, it takes two to tango and to consent. Without it, sex would be rape. If you cannot appeal to anyone, due to your lack of EQ and emotional understanding of other human beings, it is on you, not the other people. You see men who have difficulty understanding women go down the manosphere route after being hurt/rejected, either because they genuinely believe it can teach them something or just for their own ego so they can blame their problem o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:22 AM
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Where do men get virgin shamed? I never see people say “virgin” like it’s a bad thing. If someone says “that’s why you are a virgin/incel” than it doesn’t mean virgins are bad it means you said something that shows you lack the ability to understand women and communicate. You can control how you interact with others (women) and many men who aren’t giga Chad are able to get a relationship or laid, so you can control it in that sense. Nobody is born doomed to never find love. Even people with disa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:14 PM
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I think all genders choose a partner first based on looks/initial attraction (although attraction can also blossom later) and then values/beliefs/personality/skills & achievements in this modern age. If the inside of a person doesn’t align, it will probably be difficult to get into a serious relationship let alone marriage for both side. Unless they both decided they want something purely transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:51 PM
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Funny how painfully misogynistic this sub is, especially when you go away for a bit and look again, it hits harder. This is why feminism and human rights activism in general will always be necessary. The audacity of certain people to think they can govern other people's life is absurd, while it is their own choice. Women, and men actually because lets not pretend men aren't doing this, delay marriage/kids or just not do it at all because that choice is now there. It's the choice of the people. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:06 PM
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Agreed. It is def. not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:59 AM
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For me this is true, for many women around me as well, but some women care about money more than others. Asian women that I know tend to care more about income. Not to say they would immediately dump a guy for a higher earner but they do want the higher earner if they can get him and he is a good person. I think Western/North Europe women care the least? I know many of these women don’t care about money or status or even brand stuff. They are the most down to earth types.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:25 AM
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I think for a long-term relationship, it is def important that the man wants me to come and enjoys that (best case) or atleast wants to make an effort for it and tries to satisfy. If it doesn’t work or he is too self-focused it is a dealbreaker. I think a lot of women can only get an orgasm through stimulation on the c and not through intercourse. For me personally, a man who wouldn’t be able to go down would be a dealbreaker. I also wouldn’t give before receiving lol. That’s my advice for women…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:43 PM
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This is about HL women?? Not only are you saying bs it had nothing to do with any of the posts. Are you new here and lost?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:26 PM
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Username checks out lmao. Woman are more interested in the experience with a hot guy, yes. But if he can’t please her enough after that one experience or was shtty, she’s not gonna hit him up anymore. UNLESS, she is either inexperienced and young and hasn’t had good sex so she doesn’t yet understand the difference, or she is in love with the guy and somewhat in the hope for more or just simply wants to be spending time with him. Both very likely scenarios in your case. OP is not looking for ONS …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:22 PM
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I think this is where men get it wrong. It’s not about the man being visually attractive that will make her more interested in having more sex with him, it’s his skill set on how to please her. OP, if you learn how to genuinely please a woman, she will keep wanting more of it. I think a lot of women just have experience with men who didn’t focus on her so she then thinks she doesn’t like it that much. Learn to watch from the female gaze. Women like guys who want to please them and who aren’t afr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:38 PM
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Any man who doesn’t understand the female gaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:25 AM
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I think r/couplespics is another one. Some couples are on the attractive side but most are I guess you could say the average couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:58 AM
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You probably aren’t and why would I do that. You got it wrong but whatever I’m not gonna go further in discussions with some random p online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:53 PM
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Better than ugly inside and outside. The worst kind. Sorry you weren’t born more aesthetic, stop pulling down others for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:38 AM
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So I should date an non-attractive person while I know they can project at me with sht inflated egos? Nah, no thanks. I used to not care about looks, now I do. I finally understand why women should date up. Because men are insecure af to women who are better looking or make more money. Always trying to drag you down. Men in your level will be secure and mature. Which is what a woman deserves. A secure and mature person. If it’s not that staying single is better. I do commercial modeling for a li…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:47 AM
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Ok so them being ssholes totally meant I wanted them to serve me, lmao. Are PPD men even thinking straight? People who aren’t attractive project on those who are all the time. Its their way to cope for the fact that there is a gap. If you never been considered good looking by society you will also not understand lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:30 AM
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Ugly people project their insecurities all the time yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:27 AM
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No, these men would try to make me feel uglier or would inflate themselves to compensate for the gap. Might just be coz they were insecure but the biggest body shaming insults I got were from men out of shape. It’s called projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:26 AM
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Be like: “omg you are the most beautiful girl I have ever been with, I never expected you to be interested!” To: “well if only you had boobs though.” “You look like you tired” Basically being criticized and body shamed by the dude with the dadbod. No hate to dad bods, but who tf are you to talk, I’m not hating on you for lack of a sixpack or whatever. Always trying to drag me down for no reason. I think purposely trying to make me insecure or something. Saying other girls in the team actually fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:12 PM
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No I meant you are 28 aka a ‘94er then lol I’m a ‘90er.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:13 PM
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They should feel hot shi by THEMSELVES and because they feel good about themselves, not because they are dating a model jeez. Let’s be reasonable here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:11 PM
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I’m a ‘90er, why? Wbu then? edit sorry just read it’s 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:07 PM
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Ok so them lying and one even nearly cheating is judging their personality for not being top performance, got it. And the fact that they kept talking about me as some kind of prize to their friends is ok, right? Now I work as a commercial model, and for some they like to brag about dating a model, but it’s like they think suddenly they were hot shi because I was to them. But ok, you won’t understand. Go judge. Other model men who I’m friends with have had far better personalities. And men in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:12 PM
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Care to explain why? Because I’m not allowed to date someone in my own league after men who weren’t in my league showed me that men who aren’t even that attractive can have the shttiest personalities?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:41 PM
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What do you mean? Btw I used Bumble. Tinder in Japan is an absolute sht show.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:23 PM
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Yes they can. Gay friends aside, I have friends who see me as a baby sister. I’m convinced they never seen me that way. I knew them since I was 14 and they were what, 20-23ish? I think they still see me as a kid. I’ve had male friends male sexual remarks to me and I know some would def hit if I’d let them, but not all. Also, I have found male friends attractive but not interested in them beyond friends. Because I value the friendship, because I think a relationship wouldn’t work out. Surely, it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:22 PM
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I’ve dated men I didn’t think were good looking when I first met them. Somehow when they are just so charismatic, you start to see passed the looks, start finding the cute elements, like, cute puppy eyes, etc. Then when you fall out of it, you are like, wow, how did I even. I don’t want that anymore, also because it gave those men a weird ego boost, and actually dating apps really help in the sense that you initially swipe on attractiveness Those men (who I met irl through activities) would not …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:11 PM
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Can you show a pic of what that looks like? I can only imagine what you described as skin that comes after weight loss, or granny skin ;l)saggy and wrinkly). I never seen a difference in skin between a 25- and 30 y/o. Maybe 25 and 40, but that’s mostly hand and neck wrinkles.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:54 PM
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Ok but how exactly can you tell from the body the age? Or is your point that people lose their attractiveness once they get chubbier due to the slow down of their metabolism? Eventhough I wouldn’t agree, I can understand that for people who aren’t attracted to bigger people that can make sense. Would still argue that the age between women and men would be similar then and some races are naturally slimmer. Not just genes, also general diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:45 PM
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Ok but how exactly can you tell from the body the age? Or is your point that people lose their attractiveness once they get chubbier due to the slow down of their metabolism? Eventhough I wouldn’t agree, I can understand that for people who aren’t attracted to bigger people that can make sense. Would still argue that the age between women and men would be similar then and some races are naturally slimmer. Not just genes, also general diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:45 PM
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For me, it’s more the skin and wrinkles, I never looked at bodies really. Men also get chubbier with 25+.. it’s when the dadbods start appearing, but nothing against dadbods, a bit is sexy, but not conventionally attractive since by those standards six packs are considered “the most attractive”. I assume you mean women are getting love handles but most women in Japan are like skinny for ages. Skin seems firm to me. Usually I can tell age but their face, but def not their body. In a skin revealin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:29 PM
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Ok so you mean women peak for sex? Women are better at sex or have higher sex drive? What are you trying to sayy,??? I feel like it’s both tbh. Sex itself is way better because naturally as you get older you know what you like better and become better at communicating, but it’s feeling more exhausting when it takes long then again I was never the type who liked it for hours. It should be like eating, enjoying the peak and then finish after enjoying it. No need to keep eating or over eat, no need…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:16 PM
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Don’t you think race also has something to do with it? Black people, Asians, Hispanics all age less fast in general than white people, for example. That’s why we say things like black don’t crack, Asians don’t raisin. I think the age for women and men is higher and the same but I’m also in a different country. And imo Japanese men def age faster than the women but people here don’t care about the looks of men much anyways so good for the men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:06 PM
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Feminists wanted to dismantle the patriarchy because the gender roles are hurting women and men, and keep only a certain group of men in power. The patriarchy is not men, it’s a structure that keeps men in higher positions but often to the disadvantage of other men and especially women/other. We need equal rights, equal opportunities, and equal respect for everyone. And we need visibility and representation from all sides because if one group is in power they will automatically work only in a se…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:57 PM
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What is the age for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:33 PM
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Interesting point of view, and I agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:32 PM
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Exactly this post. There is no use in discussing this at all, aging just makes you less attractive and that common sense. Its incorrect to only say women get less attractive but TRP men want to believe in the illusion that things will get better by age I guess. For some reason they feel the need to mock women for aging while at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:30 PM
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First of all, not defending the bullies, it’s just challenging the perspective. The boy in my class was outcasted, but not because everyone just decided to hate him, it’s not black and white. Also, is it ok then to let them ramp all over everyone on the internet because the poor things dealt with mean women? I’ve also dealt with mean men. Men here mock women all the time too. I don’t really care. And I’m def. not going to hate all men for it. Let’s get a grip here. And nobody’s gonna achieve any…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:43 PM
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Not trying to defend real bullies here, but sometimes we can internalize attacks that aren’t really attacks. I know what that looks like, also perspective can change with age too. And still, why do we need to be taking all the “real women are sht, you will all be left once we have fembot” type of posts? So incels can bully women now? Just because some women in the past or people were mean to them, that doesn’t justify that they can shit post all over the place. We know most are just pure trolls,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:35 PM
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Not trying to defend real bullies here, but sometimes we can internalize attacks that aren’t really attacks. I know what that looks like, also perspective can change with age too. And still, why do we need to be taking all the “real women are sht, you will all be left once we have fembot” type of posts? So incels can bully women now? Just because some women in the past or people were mean to them, that doesn’t justify that they can shit post all over the place. We know most are just pure trolls,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:35 PM
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Men’s sperm also gets bad after 35, so what is your point? No sex actually GAINS from aging. The wall works for everyone, in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:19 PM
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Women can also freeze their eggs if they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:02 PM
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Aging slower does not equal better. Men still age, and will not look better than when they were younger most of the time. Same with most women, because we are human after all.. And it doesn’t matter, aging is natural and we should embrace it. But the whole wall thing is a myth. I can start making a picture collage with all the men I’ve been friends with for years. They all aged, are now end 20ies to end 30ies and looked “best” in their 20ies, if we go by conventional beauty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:01 PM
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Aging slower does not equal better. Men still age, and will not look better than when they were younger most of the time. Same with most women, because we are human after all.. And it doesn’t matter, aging is natural and we should embrace it. But the whole wall thing is a myth. I can start making a picture collage with all the men I’ve been friends with for years. They all aged, are now end 20ies to end 30ies and looked “best” in their 20ies, if we go by conventional beauty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:00 PM
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No the quality drops for both men and women. Why would you think only for women? Doesn’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:44 AM
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Bullying is always wrong, and I don’t blame them for being bullied, I’m just saying there is a perspective. Someone can internalize others being friendly to them as an attack, even if they meant well. Someone can internalize someone being just friendly the wrong way. And because they take it as an attack they will get defensive and be mean to the other person(s) who then think ok this person is just hateful let’s no longer try to hang out and outcast the person. I have seen the boy from class be…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:42 AM
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Women age, men age. Cougars exist, older men with younger gfs exist. The way men here love to portray women as the only ones getting “less options” as they age is dumb as fck. Meanwhile, I get way more male attention now early 30ies than I ever did in my early 20ies, so success in the dating market isn’t age related. Then again I’m blessed with half Asian genes so it’s probably thanks to losing the baby fat finally and probably what you would just dismiss as an “exception”. This while I have mal…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:27 AM
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What about men? So they really age like fine wine? Or are they getting fatter/bolder/greyer/more wrinkled? But they have more money so women will want to date them, amirite? Meanwhile, all they will be used for is sugar daddy practices, but the man gets sex so win-win. Except that she will move on from him when she wants kids and a family. And then another man will be angry that she is giving beta dude the time now to have kids while she should have never gold digged how dare she and we should h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:00 AM
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To OP, You watched too much anime. I know the post got deleted but let me drop this. If it’s ok. edit ok I can only comment here apparently and not on the original post so here goes maybe OP won’t see it but whatever. I’ve been living in Japan for about 10 years now total. Japanese women are nice, but won’t be real with you and act cutesy in public and to a guy until they actually feel comfortable. Do have to say they have great style. My former boss always walked around in the nicest heels and …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:38 AM
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Thank you for understanding. I mean, tbh I can’t blame men who have a preference, but don’t mock the other side. Good you like all sizes, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:13 AM
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Nice body shame. But how dare women say “small peepee” .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:55 AM
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No need to be racist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:49 AM
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Seems fair, also never assumed TRP weren’t capable of dating, just different views. What you are saying makes sense. Would be interesting to see an actual meet up lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:36 AM
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Just because you get rejected by women, it’s ok to hate women? If you really want to female friends and a real relationship, you would work on self reflection. Why don’t they like me? What am I doing wrong? Etc. Which is also what JP teaches but yeah if you already dismiss that you will just be bitter forever. So your solution is being bitter forever? Should incels just keep hating on women and be bitter forever? Wait on those fembots so they can finally have some action because mean women aren’…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:31 AM
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So you’re saying that you’re old so your seed is probably sht. So kinda useless to young-mid women who want families. Jokes aside, respect for this guy’s abs though. Have fun with your doll, OP. We expect you to post picks of you and her together once you have her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:12 AM
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Incels love to get female friends and meaningful relationships, right, yet they are completely hateful towards women. Make it make sense!! JP is phrased by RP, but ok. He has conservative views. And unfairly outcasted? I have yet to meet an incel irl that hasn’t been on the fence and aggressive when others try to give them advice. Do you think you are a genuinely nice person and just got picked on? I’m sure you were just like my classmate but dealing with lack of self awareness. It makes sense t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:42 AM
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It is a clear before and after pic so she isn’t catfishing. If she would still deal with the heavy acne and photoshop it all away, it would be somewhat catfish but people use old pics or hat/cap-fish (actually balding but wearing a cap/hat to hide it) all the time so well, it’s a pity the person couldn’t be upfront but just cut it off and move on. I don’t think heavy filtering is ok but especially in Asia it’s a trend and even men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:25 AM
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Someone made the same post as you so I will also post it here. Seems people be copying eachother. Because blue/non-pilled are actually emotionally mature and do not need to post memes. Most of us are here to debunk the RP/BP theory posts anyways, that too many times contradict themselves already. This week however the level has been extremely incel. Like clearly posts from people who have never interacted with the opposite sex. Usually I see more RP posts from men who just hold a conservative vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:11 AM
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Because blue/non-pilled are actually emotionally mature and do not need to post memes. Most of us are here to debunk the RP/BP theory posts anyways, that too many times contradict themselves already. This week however the level has been extremely incel. Like clearly posts from people who have never interacted with the opposite sex. Usually I see more RP posts from men who just hold a conservative view but now.. it’s 90% revenge fantasy posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:03 AM
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Why do you keep posting the same thing? I have seen similar revenge fantasy posts 3 or 4 times already. Let there be robots for the incels, I’d say. I’m all for it. Have fun. People who value deep connections with other humans aren’t gonna be any bothered with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:57 AM
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The immaturity level here is insane. Anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:48 AM
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It’s not that long. We both know it. You only want to read what you want to read. Keep being narrow minded and living in your own bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:39 AM
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Why even post if you aren’t even up for a discussion? Silly man. Keeps you narrow minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:05 AM
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Ofcourse you wouldn’t want to read anything that goes against your own post, got it lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:59 AM
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I thought PPD men hated Chad and now they want to be him? Now I also want to see what PPD men really look like. Surely, reason of not getting women is more a personality issue than a looks issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:08 AM
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Its not about wether the person had sex. All PPD men (not all but a good majority) talk about is sex and how it is unfair they don’t get sex and how women owe them sex and how a woman’s value is based on with how many men she slept with because they themselves can’t get laid so how dare those women and they think those women should be shamed. Incels are people (predominantly men) who never had a meaningful relationship with the sex they are attracted to, obviously. If the cis incel men had, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:42 AM
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Where did I blame Ukrainian men? You don’t make sense. I never blamed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:38 PM
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Lmao who is blaming men? The patriarchy is a system run by a certain group of men (or one man) keeping men in leading positions so the system can keep working in their favor. One sex in power automatically leads to tyranny. Tyranny towards women, towards weaker men. THIS is why feminists been screaming to dismantle the patriarchy, but men keep thinking patriarchy = men so feminists are anti men so feminists bad. It’s NOT. Men = not the patriarchy, good lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:04 PM
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They are the ones trying to destroy it, and the only ones trying to help people in Ukraine. Meanwhile self-proclaimed MRA organizations are crickets lol. And other countries that are more equal right-based already started implementing the same laws for women regarding military duty like the Netherlands did. They changed the law in 2020. But let’s pretend feminists do nothing for true equality and men coz else self-proclaimed MRA’s can’t bitch about feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:18 PM
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Thank Ukraine’s patriarchy for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:10 PM
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If English is your first language then you really need to learn how to construct better sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:44 PM
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The US is falling behind and their politics seem to suck. Look at Western/Nordic Europe, they have the best parliaments, the best diversity, and much better politicians. We have our struggles, but we are clearly doing much better than the US. If I feel bad about politics in NL or Europe, I think well at least we do better than the US. The only state making somewhat sense is California.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:14 PM
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Learning something new about the US every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:02 AM
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Just because it is presented as data or looking like data doesn’t mean it is correct data or like it can speak for all. Source and type of research matters. Also, why do people think papers from 2000 is a good source? That’s already 23 years ago. I have seen people trying to use ridiculously outdated research as backup.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:25 AM
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What country do women own pitbulls? Never seen a woman with a pitbull. I get the chihuahua stereotype but pitbulls?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:00 AM
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Because most men here are actually misogynists and take pleasure out of hating on women. They get off from making fun of women, hating on women, and getting angry reactions from women. These men are mentally ill and now play out their revenge fantasies here. Yet, they still want to believe that they love women because they are sexually attracted to women. We need realistic sex dolls asap so they can stop harassing real women for sex. PPD used to be for balanced discussions but I think many here …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:32 AM
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No evidence that those women weren’t expats living in those countries already. I know some Ukraine women in Japan who already were living in Japan way before. Also no evidence that men would do the exact same given the same privilege. I wished Ukrainian men could have choice and I wonder how many would have actually stayed. We all know there are also women who have joined The military voluntarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:26 AM
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What you said about male rape, you can say the exact same about women. Women barely report. Actual rape and sexual coercion numbers are much higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:36 AM
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You think women always report rape and sexual assault? Lmaoooooo. Most never do. Sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:12 AM
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It is still counted as atleast sexual coercion which is also a criminal offense that happens even MUCH MORE to people, mainly women, than actual rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:58 AM
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Why we still need feminism right here. How dare women live their own lives and not have sex with men who want to have sex with them! Right? Men who think women exist solely for their pleasure are the cancer to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:56 AM
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A crime is a crime. Rape is a serious crime everywhere. Rape is bad is not an opinion. Only mentally ill men would justify rape or sexual coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:45 AM
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https://cdn-japantimes.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/fl20100810hsa.jpg But yellow fever men and gaijin hunter women are made for eachother though. Don’t be surprised when they poke a hole in the condom and keep the baby without you knowing because they just want a halfie baby without having to deal with the father who they think is trash. I’m not even making this up, I have had male friends flushing the condoms in the toilets to avoid women from secretly getting their genes to make a baby with …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:41 AM
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Laws are opinions has got to be the dumbest thing I have read on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:34 AM
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Sexual coercion is deemed as a crime but keep saying it’s someone’s opinion. https://www.mcconathylaw.com/criminal-defense/sexual-offenses/sexual-coercion/amp/ Get some mental help.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:32 AM
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That is considered rape. Also sexual coercion can sometimes be judged as rape. Especially if the victim was intoxicated. Unable to consent properly = rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:24 AM
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Commenting on the rest of it you seem mentally ill. You think forcing and sexual coercion is ok lmao. Both are not, obviously. Suddenly PPD men have proven to be complete sociopaths or psychopaths. Get some mental help. All of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:23 AM
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That claim is useless without putting it in perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:17 AM
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“But women also rape.” While even men are mostly raped by men. And it’s a 99% vs 1% ratio. Sexualized Violence Statistics An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male. 1 This US Dept. of Justice statistic does not report those who do not identify in these gender boxes. Around the world, at least 1 woman in every 3 has been beaten, coerced into sex, or otherwise abused in her lifetime. Most often the abuser is a member of her own…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:11 AM
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You should look up what rad fem is really about. Modern feminism has two main ideologies: lib fems and rad fems. Lib fems are too intersectional that mainly just talk about any other issue these days. I see them care more about LGBTQ+ and especially trans rights more than actual women’s and human rights including men’s. Rad fems actually genuinely care more about the latter imo, some women can be extremists but the majority isn’t. It’s like religions. Extremists shouldn’t be seen as the represen…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:59 AM
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Because that’s isn’t true? Most women keep their careers. Some might take a break or work less, but still come back or try to help in their husband’s business which is still working. It is rare for highly educated women to completely abandon the work force and business world. And getting a nanny or help also isn’t uncommon, especially among the rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:39 AM
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I just read the article and why do men think having sex with highly intoxicated women is ok? Obviously that is rape. Why do men rape? (I know it’s just the guy who raped her and other sicko guys at parties who rape women that are too drunk who are def. not all men but I will say men as if all men are rapists because I am following OP logic.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:05 AM
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PPD is hitting new lows here, these posts are getting embarrassing. Women, nor men I hope, are getting degrees for the opposite sex. They get it for themselves. Why do PPD men think anything a woman does is to impress a dude? Tf. Also, highly educated men tend to go for highly educated women when they want a serious relationship. Classic example is Mark and Priscilla. And just look at the exes of Bill Gates like Ann Winblad, Melinda. I always hear higher education male friends (some have a PhD) …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:55 AM
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No it’s not. Men like Creed from THTH can sleep with any girl. Surely he wouldn’t give any girl under 9 the time of day and why should he? A 6 could never with this guy. Most women, like most men, are far from being a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:34 AM
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You are completely missing the point. Women don’t want to be submissive nor is it their nature nor are the hypergamous. That is some bs that has never been proven that Jordan Peterson likes to say. In reality that is all bs but men who never had relationships or female friends eat this shi like hot cakes. You are straw manning and completely off topic here. OP is talking about the absurd misogyny on PPD since the purge and it’s true. It’s mind blowing how much men on PPD hate women who aren’t me…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:32 AM
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Nope, you hate women. You can be sexually attracted to women and still hate them. That is you. Keep believing you aren’t a misogynist if that keeps you happy. Delusional much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:26 AM
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This ain’t build a b*tch. People need to become whole and decent persons on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:30 PM
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I’m talking about now, since they are currently still SAing women. Sick
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:24 PM
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Must be horrible for men to hear women bitch about sexual assault and harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:21 PM
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How dare those American modern women be feminists with a personality and mind of their own, right? Now that they have minds of their own they are ruining everything. Feminism is cancer. It’s not ok when they aren’t submissive and catering to men’s need like they used to in the 1950ies. Back in the good old days, except probably every man on here wasn’t born yet in the 1950ies but who cares if it wasn’t our experience we love to reminisce. Also, woman needs to be submissive but no gold digger! We…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:06 PM
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Imagine sex being your only goal in life and never have experienced a real deep connection with the opposite sex. Be proud of being aromatic and incapable of forming real relationships because you are a misogynist who hates women at the core. But OP so cool coz sex haha and he hates women. Currently PPD men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:57 PM
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??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:47 PM
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So having dignity as a man = hating and thinking little of women. If you like or love women, you are a simp. Ew women, right? How could you ever have women in high regard? If you don’t make fun of women, where tf is your dignity? In all seriousness, are men aromatic on this sub? Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:42 PM
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Revenge fantasy much? Lmao Also sexual coercion can in some cases be classified and identified as rape with serious consequences. But let men who do what you do go to jail. No mercy. Thank you #metoo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:28 PM
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More like the men in this sub, particularly during this purge timing. Empathic men exist, just not here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:06 PM
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I never said Ukraine started the war. Putin/Russia did. Putin is a dictator. Russia still lives under a patriarchy. And you have no saying in that, I am still a Dutch citizen with rights to vote. I want a good future for when I move back some day maybe and for my friends and family. I have the rights to vote and will use it to support the politician I believe is best. Kauthar Bouchallikht has my vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:54 PM
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Joke is on you, the woman I have been voting for in my home country is a Muslim woman who is third on the party’s candidate list. No need to run myself as I live overseas now as an expat. I have my own career goals. And violence is aggressiveness as a toxic masculine trait. Aggression is a masculine trait, violence it’s toxic version. Indecisiveness is a feminine trait, which can also be toxic when in the extreme. Both men and women have masculine and feminine traits. And how tf can violence be …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:34 PM
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I haven’t seen Men’s Right Activists or any other activists help or speak up about Ukrainian men either, because it’s not their country I guess. It’s also difficult to get involved. I also have not seen MRA speak about real men problems, only trying to attack feminists and complain about not getting laid, but that’s how I see it. Could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:06 PM
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I’ve liked a guy who was 163cm in Japan before so jokes on you. Shorter than 165cm men are rare to begin with. Also, these men prefer shorter women. The ideal height described by men in Japan is often 153cm. But nobody talks about shorter women being more popular. They all see me as a tall woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:17 PM
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I hope you are. Taller does not have to mean 6 feet. I’m 165cm, so 166cm is already taller. Also, most men want a shorter gf but no woman is making a deal out of this. Even your source says so: Discussion In line with previous studies (e.g. Courtiol et al., 2010b), we found support for positive assortative mating preferences for height: taller individuals preferred taller romantic partners. Additionally, both men and women preferred to be in a couple where the man was taller than the woman, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:45 PM
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Not all women can sleep with a 10 guy. If the woman is a 6, she def had to put in some work because 10 guy can get anything higher than her easily too. Look at those Too Hot To Handle people, I’m sure those men can get about any girl. I don’t think they would settle for a 6, even just as ONS. People should do what they want, but I don’t believe the double standard is justifiable. Male sluts exist too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:39 PM
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You are doing the same with your picture. Where is your factual evidence? Most women don’t care about height. What is there so difficult to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:30 PM
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Mental gymnastics how? I don’t immediately believe posts with no further shared evidence and random pictures of two sets of group photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:20 PM
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Hmm interesting, wished they kept the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:09 PM
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Ok and then how would going BP be “the way” for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:07 PM
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Hmm ok too bad. What would you say was their main advice and point of view? Just want to see how in line it is with what self-proclaimed “RP”ers claim here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:06 PM
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How come incelswithouthate got banned while they claim no hate? What was their content? Just asking out of curiosity really. Such a sub does seem a bit like a pity party though and a place for who-has-it-worse gender Olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:58 PM
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Why would you say so?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:55 PM
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If you have any links, please share. Would like to learn how it originally was.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:55 PM
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Why is it called the patriarchy? Because society as we knew it was a patriarchy and there are still left overs from that system. Some countries still operate as a patriarchy, Iran for example. patriarchy noun [ C or U ] UK /ˈpeɪ.tri.ɑː.ki/ US /ˈpeɪ.tri.ɑːr.ki/ a society in which the oldest male is the leader of the family, or a society controlled by men in which they use their power to their own advantage https://dictionary.cambridge.org/ja/dictionary/english/patriarchy There is enough evidence …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:51 PM
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Your post doesn’t make sense. Also lol you were trying to insult me by saying I’m similar to those women how exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:21 PM
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Unfortunately, there is no going back. I tried it before, and yet here we are lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:18 PM
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Then what is your point even? This whole post is comparing the Ukraine war situation with “statements” that “women” are saying according to OP. These are clearly wrong statements that women aren’t even making and missing the point of statements that are true like that male privilege was a by product of the patriarchy, which is different from saying men have all the privilege right now. The post in itself doesn’t even make sense. Also, I bet OP and others who like the post have done nothing activ…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:13 PM
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While I can understand where you are coming from, I don’t saw any particular bias reporting since it involves mainly interviews. Same with other sources: https://www.themoscowtimes.com/2022/07/30/women-at-war-life-on-eastern-ukraines-front-lines-a78449 similar story different source. Also, atleast they are reporting on it. Don’t see many other news outlets bothered to do this anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:00 PM
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They are also taking on combat roles. “Women have become an omnipresent force in Ukraine’s war six months in as they confront long-held stereotypes about their role in the country’s post-Soviet society. They are increasingly joining the military, including in combat positions, and spearheading volunteer and fund-raising efforts.” https://www.nytimes.com/2022/08/27/world/europe/ukraine-war-women.html Don’t try to discredit these women as just taking on the safer tasks. And all this while men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:54 PM
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Because gender representation matters, that’s why. You cannot have only one gender trying to represent and understand all gender problems. Also I never said whatever you are quoting either. So don’t make stuff up. And violence is the toxic masculine version of aggression which is a masculine trait. A toxic feminine traits would be indecisiveness, overemotional or hyper dependability. These however are not of discussion here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:49 PM
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Wrong, as there were never real benefits for women, just oppression. Must be nice to not go to school and work, right? Just sit at home and clean and cook? Such a benefit. Thankfully most countries have already lawfully shifted away from patriarchal power.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:42 PM
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I don’t see the meaning in fueling by posting this while obviously both sides have issues and the best thing to do is either help them get out of it or dismiss them as lost causes and not give them any attention. Also, funny how people love to use incel as just referring to men while it should not be a gendered word. I think both sides probably include incels, just opposite gender. The biggest problem with both sides is the difficulty to be empathic towards their opposite gender. PPD would be be…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:21 PM
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Men have been as much victims of the patriarchy and forced gender roles as women, only in a different way. Nobody ever has denied this. Who ever thinks the only victim has been women clearly isn’t a true feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:11 PM
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“I’m not hating on women, I’m only hating on hideous women.” Gotcha. That’s still hating on a group of women, and what’s the point of that? What are your intentions? “Haha incel-tears women are ugly.” Why not say “it is sad that these women celebrate their hate for incel men, thankfully, the majority of women doesn’t do this.” Or you are the exact same as those women, OP. That said, both sides will keep being forever single if their life keeps revolving about being bitter about the opposite sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:53 PM
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I see it now! Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:48 PM
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But why even sleep with them still? Just because the uglies have standards? Why would you lower your own standards? Sounds like some men’s standards are in hell. I think it makes more sense for men to see men who have slept only with good quality women as studs rather than high n-count men of which most of their count is probably 2s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:47 PM
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You are blaming women from Ukraine for the fact that men cannot legally. How is that justifiable? Did these women made up the rules? Good you helped refugees though, I can respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:42 PM
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I’m not being mean it is facts. Sad facts but still facts. Bitter people never experienced real love nor will they find it unless they stop being bitter and hateful. Not sure why some are so obsessed with wanting their sex to be superior while trying to dismiss value of the opposite sex and hate on everything opposite sex does instead of seeing things from a more reasonable perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:39 PM
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And you are out of debunk attempts while you could not debunk the links. You threw in an article that said married queens started wars while same article also says married queens shared their power with their kings lmao so you cannot say that women started more wars while there women most likely just teamed up with hubby and had influence from hubby who had the power to do so. Don’t worry, keep seeing women as inferior if that pleases you. Women do fine just without you. You probably never exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:25 PM
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Why are you not fighting in Ukraine for Men’s Rights so men can leave the country too? Double standard Men’s Right Activist. Meanwhile, the fact that men cannot leave and women can is a left over from their patriarchal system. This has been decided so by men and not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:18 PM
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QTM who think like this: why would you sleep with a woman that is “fat & ugly”? How is it an achievement for a man to sleep with “fat & ugly” women? So a man who sleeps with lots of 2s can be a stud? Do you men not have any standards? Makes more sense to have more respect for the woman who sleeps with lots of 10s than the man who sleeps with lots of 2s. It’s not that difficult to sleep with unattractive people. I think also people would have more respect for the men who only slept with those who…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:14 PM
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Still means that they can get send out for war. And they are doing it voluntarily. Meanwhile I am sure you and other men here complaining ever served in the military yet complain that women also don’t do so. If it was voluntary for men, how many men would actually still fight? And who says married queens who started wars weren’t influenced by their male partners? The article itself says that they allowed their partner to think along and participate unlike men who would not ask their women for he…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:04 PM
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Secretary😂😂?? “There are about 50,000 women serving in the Ukrainian armed forces in combat and non-combat roles, of which about 10,000 are currently either on the front lines of the war or in jobs that could send them to the front lines, according to Ukrainian military officials. There were about 32,000 women in the military prior to the invasion. Military service in Ukraine for women is voluntary, but the government is considering making it mandatory for women with certain skill sets. It says …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:39 AM
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I’m also assuming these posts are satire, that’s how bad they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:31 AM
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Ok boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:21 AM
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Meanwhile, my female friend is 173cm and her bf 165cm. Zendaya and Tom Holland are dating. Reels about women wanting “short kings” because those type of couples are cute. But ok. Believe what you want OP. If you think it is your height that is the problem and not maybe your looks/hygiene/personality/fashion etc. that could be the problem in your dating success, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:17 AM
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What’s up with the straight up increase of incel (or what ya’ll consider “black pilled”) posts😂? Normally I see more of a mix or RP/PP, occasionally “BP”, but today the incels are on a roll.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:12 AM
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This looks like a group of random men who had a meet up and random women who had a meet up. No evidence at all that the guys are incel and the women are incel-haters. But let’s try to throw in some fake news for the upvotes right? Because OP hates women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:06 AM
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Dumb post. 1) Many cases of a man making a woman pregnant and then taking no responsibility. They flew the scene. Sometimes even nag the woman to get an abortion. Horrible men. 2) What about single dads? Can they do a better job? Babies need their mom to bond. 3) Always these posts but never real data that is not from a US hood place where women cannot get any child support and need to work 3 jobs because else they can’t come around. Someone who is struggling with poverty clearly has it more dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:58 AM
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No, no woman believes this. Whoever claims so does not speak for women. Below-average women also struggle with dating and barely get matches. Men who cry they can’t get matches do not bother matching with them. They exist. Your success especially on dating apps highly depends on your attractiveness (looks but also presentation of looks and seemingly character/charisma) and this counts for both men and women and whatever gender. So saying women have it easy in dating is wrong, you are just lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:41 AM
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The root is toxic masculinity (which can be found more in men cause it’s too extreme of masculine but not completely uncommon in women because we all have masculine and feminine traits) with an obsession for power to the extend they are willing to go through violence and make others suffer in order to get it. We see this with male leaders in patriarchal societies. We can even see it with a woman who has high toxic masculine traits, although such a woman is as rare as any hyper masculine woman. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:30 AM
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Meanwhile, the percentage of women in the military in Ukraine is now 22% and increasing. Also there is compulsory military service as of 17 for both men and women (and other gender) in the Netherlands, but only when the country will participate in war which it will probably never. If there was equality earlier for women, this would have all happened earlier. The only danger is that men are still physically stronger than women, it’s why we separate men and women in sports, no feminist ever has sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:49 AM
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Fragile man comment right there. Have fun with your doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:37 AM
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Good, get rid of the sex industry and put these realistic dolls to satisfy men. No more exploitation of real women’s bodies would be a true feminist win. Also, they will probably create male versions too for women who grew tired of “men”(meaning mainly fragile men) and want to stay single anyways. Meanwhile, those who seek true and genuine connections with other human beings (which is the majority of men and women) and those of us who want children will not be bothered in anyway by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:59 AM
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Well personally I think it’s also just attraction/chemistry and looks and personality both play a role in that I guess. Libs often want to give the answer that keeps everyone happy. I think dark triad and bad boy personality is more attractive for young women and women who just want to experience something “exciting”. When women want to settle down however, they probably do not go for the bad boy. I get that some men just want to sleep around without commitment, but these men will eventually jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:23 AM
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Wait, you said it’s behavior not looks but now you talk about looks. I think you are talking about lib fems btw who are just one form of feminism. Lib fems love to present themselves as the modern feminists but speak more about anything else (LGBTQA+ and trans rights) than actual women rights and problems. Rad fems (quite the opposite of lib fems in many ways and boy they occasionally to make memes of lib fems/pickmeshas) are more on point feminists imo but the extremists are just ruining it for…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:20 AM
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What would you describe as masculine behavior and how would you label it as non-lib behavior or contradicting to lib?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:50 AM
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Where are these women complaining? Which subs are you checking? All I see is women swoon over by Kpop idols and men like Harry Styles or Tom Holland. But that’s mainly irl women I know that are lib. I want to see the subs you are referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:50 AM
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Or maybe that is just the majority’s view point, including that of the majority of men. Of all men I have met, I only ever met two irl who actually had somewhat RP leaning views. I think Reddit reflects overal society in that sense pretty well. That said, the overall consensus is even too lib for me at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:43 AM
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Shoutout to the women who believe their man is loyal. Maybe you’ll never find out😹
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:32 AM
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I feel like you are taking the people in this sub too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:16 PM
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Oh this is a thing already for some years in the Netherlands!! I’ve seen articles about it, but I don’t know actual couples in a LAT relationship. I thought it was more a thing among older adults who aren’t married or divorced but in a serious relationship with a partner now. There are often also economical reasons why they decided not to live together. Then again it’s also common for people to be in serious long term relationships and not marry in Europe. Marriage is originally a based off reli…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:01 AM
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Height: I’ve liked a man who was 163cm, and I’m 165cm. So height-wise I’d say 163cm-200cm?? is ok. I’m from the Netherlands, so 2M men aren’t uncommon to me. I think the men I dated were between 173cm-185cm. Anything above 180cm feels a bit too tall for me tbh but I really don’t care about height and for God not understand the obsession with 6ft tall men. Income: I‘m working on an incentive basis myself for my recruiter job and will earn 20+ mil yen(basically what would look like 200k euros/usd …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:00 AM
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These men clearly attract weak-minded women and women with self-esteem issues. Also usually women who are dependable on the man so they take all his sht. Which is why we need feminism even more to tell these women not to depend on a man and become a whole person themselves. To date a man that values them, etc. Feminism has always had one purpose which is equal rights, equal opportunities, and especially nowadays, equal RESPECT. These days modern feminism is basically split up in mostly lib fems …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:53 AM
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Haha yeah, it is funny because on this sub you could totally expect a delusional post like this yet it triggers me every time. Some people really need to learn that, just maybe, their mindset and personality is the problem. They refuse to accept that reality though so they love blaming feminism and women all together lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:36 AM
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I mean, I do disagree with him on a lot of points. I think he indeed has an old mindset that doesn’t really apply anymore to the modern world. I also know he said that men need to be dangerous?? but yeah that statement didn’t make sense. He is the only one actually speaking about that men need to take accountability for their way of thinking about women though, so he is already much better than the other men imo. I honestly don’t care much about these male gurus, but I do not want men to become …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:30 AM
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While I would never in my life want an open relationship and am completely monogamous, I do think people should do what they want. If it is open, two sides consent and it’s not cheating. I think cheaters are disgusting. I can respect the upfrontness and transparency in poly relationships. I do not know if raising kids while having multiple relationships is healthy, but maybe I’m just not familiar enough with it. I do think poly people should really get their own dating app though. The worst are …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:01 PM
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That’s why I said it’s not all about looks. I have seen men who should be attractive to me based on looks but then the way they think or present themselves is a complete turn off. Some men also have real bad fashion taste. It is too bad really.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:21 PM
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8-10 years is a ridiculous amount of time to decide wether or not you want to marry and have kids with a person. I don’t think many women would wait that long to get proposed to. The only women that I know that waited that long were dating since high school or uni and were patient because obviously they (the guy and the girl) had to earn money and build up a bit of a career. Also, a man’s fertility rate drastically lowers and fertility problems can arise after 35 too, so not sure how old you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:16 PM
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Idols these days, especially k-pop idols, are pretty damn ripped though. Ofcourse muscles can be attractive and nice to look at, but for dating I think a bit buff but not ripped is nice enough. I used to date and be into more skinny men but nowadays I prefer a bit bigger men. I also was not into facial or chest hair at all before but now I like it. Also, I’m more a face person than a body person. I mostly like cute to neutral faces, not too strong. Good jawlines are also nice though. But over lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:03 PM
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The facts OP cannot deal with right there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:06 PM
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I don’t see men as enemies. I see misogynists as highly problematic though and one of the main issues in current society is that some men do not have basic respect for women and do not see them as actual humans rather than for them to own or take. The objectification or double standards by certain men is crazy. Some men really believe women exist just for men to support and please them or something, instead of them being humans who do their own thing and live their own life. It’s absurd. It is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:17 PM
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By the way your post is formulated I can tell enough. The fact that you refuse to see the problem is with you is beyond me. You want women to take accountability while you take zero for yourself. It’s hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:47 PM
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Also why you are at it start looking at women as humans maybe then you will have more luck, your personality is terrible. Lack of empathy/EQ is the biggest turn off for women who have standards and have it together, just a tip.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:34 PM
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And now you are alone crying because you are the type of person that cannot commit. Perhaps you are not the value that the women who are wifey material to you seek. Still means you are the problem. You are looking for a unicorn virgin while you had your play time. Good luck lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:32 PM
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It’s the misogyny and double standards for me. Ofcourse no sane woman with standards would settle for a man with your thought process, you are the problem. Also, the fact that you are in your 30ies and facing this says enough. Due to the rise of dumb male influencers, many men will follow your footsteps and end up lonely and single.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:22 PM
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No, you don’t need an emotional connection. Don’t act like demisexual and asexual men don’t exist because they def. do. And not every man wants sex immediately even when they have the opportunity. This is an up to the person thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:31 AM
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No, you don’t need an emotional connection. Don’t act like demisexual and asexual men don’t exist because they def. do. And not every man wants sex immediately even when they have the opportunity. This is an up to the person thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:31 AM
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This is really the correct answer. Weird how some men get the idea of women not liking sex. Some have a higher sex drive than others but generally speaking women like sex just like men. They however need to feel attracted enough to the person. And maybe women are a bit more picky in that aspect. Also, I think generally speaking women might tend to want some type of emotional connection first, where as men are more ok to have sex without a connection. But you also have men who want to have a conn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:08 AM
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Why would you assume me or other women do not care? Ofcourse we care about men. It is ridiculous to think we can help every man out there though. So society and education need to change first and foremost. I can only help the men around me to be decent men and support them emotionally when needed. And the men in my surroundings luckily are already well behaved and have empathy. Some of them struggle in life but they are good people at the core. I have held men accountable in the past that did sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 02:35 AM
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It’s not at all “not empathic” to think it is necessary to teach boys manners. Ofcourse, parents also have a play in this, but many men become aggressive as an outlet to let out emotions because society tells them they need to be emotionless and cannot cry. There is a lot of unnecessary “gender expectations” of men that pushes some into toxic masculinity. Societies can start by getting rid of these type of gender stereotypes for starters. If men have too much hormones that make them emotional, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:24 AM
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Ok but what is the point of your post? You want to play oppression Olympics while the problem generally speaking is men to begin with? They need to learn how to behave. Hormones are no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:57 AM
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And they will have to learn how to behave and control that. That is the first step.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:14 AM
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Who says it is more common? Women deal with some form of SA on the regular. Men don’t get threatened or assaulted on the regular like that. Also you conveniently are not acknowledging the fact that the assaulters are almost always men. So the problem mainly lies with men and toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:13 AM
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The biggest problem in all of this is that it is MEN doing this to other men. And why? Why are some men so aggressive and out of control? Why do they assault others? And how can we teach boys especially better to not become like that? How can we teach our men to be empathic and good humans? Of course there are some exceptions where the assaulter is a woman however the majority is clearly men and that’s an issue. And unlike men, women have to fear SA, which can be very traumatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:02 AM
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Ok and what if she cheats or cheats back? Guess he better stay with her according to your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:53 AM
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5”7 is a reasonable height and normal for men in most countries. Doesn’t change a thing. (I’m 5”5)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:52 AM
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Purely based on the photos (without considering who they are etc.), Zelenskyy wins for me. I find him more attractive. The other guy looks too buff and overly masculine which is not my type anyways. Also the mustache is a no for me. And men in suits quickly scale up in the attractive meter. Men these days underestimate the power of a nice suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:48 AM
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Well it is a mixed bag here, thankfully. I think no matter what the relationship, I’m looking for someone who is capable of being genuinely empathic. So that disqualifies a lot of people here, unfortunately? The way some people speak about other people here as if they are less of a human sometimes baffles me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:51 AM
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I think what makes a person (woman or man whatever) “low value” or better wording less attractive are traits like: -liars/cheaters/scammers/sneaky people -insincere -no empathy, low EQ -narcissist/selfish -negative mindset/self pity/victim mentality -hateful, violent, anger issues, tends to blame others, emotionally unstable -needy/desperate, do anything for the other person without valuing oneself. Solely trying to please the opposite sex (pickme/simp) -Bad hygiene, dirty house -unhealthy eatin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:25 AM
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1) You act as if women sole purpose is to attract a man and that our world revolves around it. That’s your first mistake. 2) There are plenty of men who prefer independent, intelligent and hardworking women over dependable women, also because they don’t want a woman who just uses them for their money. 3) Many women who are independent choose to be so because they need a reason beyond “I can provide and protect” to be with a man. And finding a man with a genuine good and supportive personality ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:29 AM
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I mean, to each their own. I think people should marry someone for love but yeah. I often see men struggle with getting female attention in their own country. The men who are losers in the West can pretend to be cool in the East. Like the comic Charisma Man. I guess the fetishing in Asia specifically works both ways because for every yellow fever man there is a gaijin hunter woman that would love to have halfie babies with you. I’m mixed white/Asian myself and many people in the Wasian community…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:30 PM
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No, I don’t want to be with a man who has paid for sex before. I don’t see how someone could want sex so badly that they are willing to pay for it, just my opinion. These seem to be the type of men who would take any opportunity they get at sex including cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:19 AM
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Chronically singleness, I think a lot of it also has to do with people either being emotionally unavailable or people chasing emotionally unavailable people and getting the ick from emotionally available people. The solution would be therapy.. And then there is the group that doesn’t do any dating, and is just single because they don’t bother with the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:48 PM
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I never said only marry, I said mostly. A lot of people meet their spouse either in higher education, work, social circles or hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:09 PM
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Wait, I’m confused. If they drop out of the workforce, aka stop working, then how can they survive? I mean, in NL you can get an unemployment benefit from the government, but that’s not the case with the US now is it? I have two jobs (recruitment and commercial modeling) and am a high earner. I have dated only men who earn less. I don’t even exact know how much they earned. One of my exes was unemployed too. I don’t care as long as they have goals and ambitions in life, doesn’t have to be work r…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:22 AM
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What is your definition of a traditional marriage? I’m def. not a supporter of the porn industry as it has a lot of flaws, but just to share, I found this article about happily married pornstars. Lo and behold, many of them seem to be married with male pornstars or men from the industry: https://www.redbled.com/married-pornstars/amp/ In Dutch we have a saying, soort zoekt soort. Most people date people similar to them or within the same community. RP men claim high BC men go for low BC women yet…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:40 AM
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Exactly this. People pretend like falling for someone isn’t a real thing sometimes. Usually it’s a combo of looks, background, commonalities and personality that makes you attracted to the other person. I meet hot men all the time (model life lol) however that doesn’t automatically make me fall for them. Most men I had LTR were not as hot when you think conventional beauty-wise but we had commonalities and vibed. I feel like it is the same for men, atleast when they want a LTR. People often look…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:29 AM
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Yes there is a sexless problem, because people CHOOSE not to have sex. There is a rise in men and women who prefer to watch their idols and have obsessive hobbies. They are however not interested in sex or the opposite sex that much. In their minds the idols are like Gods so different from regular men/women. I know women who aren’t even career driven but also don’t want a boyfriend or sex. They just want to be left alone with their hobbies and idols. Meanwhile, I know some single career women wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:24 AM
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It’s not that different from the West. Also, bold to suggest the West should be the only place to look at in these discussions. We know very well that even Europe is different from the US. And I have mid to below male friends in NL too who have fwb (one guy even multiple) but they also have game and know how to present themselves. Their profile pics say “hey I’m not the best looking dude, but I have hobbies and charisma.” Even in the West, only Chad gets laid is a myth. You pretend there are no …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:54 PM
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You are literally the child here making up your own definition of kink. A strange habit means it is a rare habit. Strange is the opposite of normal. A kink is a strange habit, meaning a habit that is abnormal. Keep believing in your own bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:40 PM
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If that is what they wanted, they can. Atleast where I live which is Japan. No man complains about never getting laid. They all get laid. They all can. Enough below average men that I know who sometimes are even married who still manage to pull of ONS or FwB. And no, they do not have a prestigious title or good income. Even that is average. Chads only get laid is a myth. Chads get laid just more often and as way more options. But men are happy to settle with mid if they are mid. And mid women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:10 PM
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“Bluepilled normies” 😂😂 they don’t have to lie about it, trust me. Most men turn to RP when they get frustrated that they fail at getting laid. So they have getting laid problems, not “normies”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:47 PM
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How is it besides the point? You specifically brought up men being behind makeup brands. You started mentioning gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:17 PM
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Newer makeup brands like Kylie Cosmetics, Fenty Beauty, Rare Beauty, Florence by Mills, Kjaer Weis have been founded/owned by women. And it’s thanks to Fenty Beauty that many companies provide many different shades of foundation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:36 PM
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You are overthinking it. Btw, a lot of brands are now owned by women. And it can make you look better the same way flattering clothing and hairstyles do. There are insecure women who feel they need makeup everyday, sure. But what are you trying to say here? Wearing makeup doesn’t make a person insecure if it’s just to change the face to match the outfit or to enhance a bit. Btw makeup for men is already trending is Asia. So you think men who wear it are insecure too? Or do they just want to look…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:27 AM
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You can feel good about how you look naturally, and still enjoy makeup. I only wear it for special occasions, but it’s expression of the self just like clothes and shoes. makeup is like art.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:58 AM
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I’ve had better experience with the genuine good guy. Women often don’t want just sex but also intimacy. I’ve had a “good guy” who had ED problems. So when we did it wasn’t like great in terms of the actual deed. But the feeling of hugging and warmth and kindness made it for me good sex, if that makes any sense. I’ve had a toxic guy who knew exactly how to please, but cold afterwards and just meh. For me I prefer the first guy way more. When you feel a genuine loving connection, it makes you fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:45 AM
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The immaturity level of your words say a lot about you. Keep playing oppression Olympics lol. Getting laid from a dating app as a man is not as difficult people try to claim it to be. The only men who complain about it being impossible are ppl on these type of Reddit places.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:34 AM
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You can’t even get laid lmao. Men with a bit of game don’t have problem to get laid. I know guys who aren’t even that good looking who manage to get sex from dating apps. And I have rejected men recently who wanted a relationship, because I felt they were not compatible, so try better. Still men like these are hiding under a pile of men looking for sx. Many men on dating apps just look for sx and not a relationship. It is as easy for me to find some guy who genuinely wants a relationship as it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:28 AM
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Lol you are saying everything is kinky 😂, I beg the differ. They are called kink for a reason, because it’s different from what others like (fro m Cambridge dictionary) : kink noun [C] (HABIT) a strange habit, usually of a sexual nature: The movie contains many familiar themes, and a sexual kink or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:32 AM
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As if all couples do bondage and s/m? You act as if any bit of teasing is already BDSM. I bet the whole community would even disagree. Not everyone is practicing kink. It is a sub in the sex category. From your perspective, even missionary is kink play because the man is usually on top, meaning he is in charge/dominating. Eh yeah doesn’t sound logical to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:10 PM
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Damn these days people call everything a kink. Not everyone is into BDSM or a like sex. It’s not the mainstream. Ask any person and they would say holding someone down during sex makes them “a person who has a kink”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:49 PM
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I think a lot of people marry under time pressure, and can often mistakenly marry someone they are not compatible with. If you are with someone who isn’t exactly compatible, you will fight and argue all the time. I remember being in relationships that made me feel more miserable/anxious than happy. I’ve been way happier single. This is why I think it’s more important to find someone who is on the same wave length. Women often push for marriage because they want kids. Also, society tells us that …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:55 PM
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We are talking about regular ppl not kink ppl 😂, you act like everyone is into kink. Tf
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:07 AM
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You are probably right. I am a high earner too, and as much as marriage would be nice, it’s not the end goal in my life or a must. I do want kids, but I could also just consider a sperm donor. And I could afford it to freeze my eggs too if necessary. I have dated men who do not even earn near what I earn, I really don’t care about what a guy earns, but then he needs to bring atleast stability to the table or have goals and a lot of men don’t even have much ambition. They just kinda live dat by d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:45 AM
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Women often read the profile, so you are wrong. And men wanting to be sub by nature is the biggest bs. You want to be sub, don’t speak for all men. Tf
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:06 AM
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Still do not understand how you can say it is Me Too Movement’s fault for men being fearful. If anything, blame all the bad men and rapists who caused Me Too in the first place. I think it is very anti-feminist of you to blame Me Too for this and complain about Me Too as if they should have never spoken up. Like are you even for real?There are still enough men who understand how to behave properly and come up to a person accordingly to PTO. You act as if men are traumatized after Me Too and now …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:04 AM
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I wasn’t just talking about your comment, I was talking about other commentators as well. That said, it’s complete exaggeration to blame a movement for men no longer picking women up on the streets. (And they also shouldn’t on the street, the street isn’t the place for it.) As if the MeToo Movement existed to say “men stop trying to pick us up” . The movement was about empowering women/men/nonbinary who had to suffer in silence and feel shame due to what happened to them. To bring justice to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:40 PM
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Believe me, men can also feel just as entitled to criticize a woman’s body. I’ve once had to deal with the audacity of a man with a dad bod who said I looked like the ultimate/perfect woman, except for my boobs. Boobs should have been bigger. He really thought he did me a favor with that backhanded compliment, but anyways. If a woman would judge you for erection problems and not help you, she is clearly immature and not worth your time. That doesn’t mean however all women are as immature. The ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:30 PM
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The profile will still only attract people in that community. Men who aren’t into BDSM stuff like that just want a woman that they can dominate unless they want to experiment a bit. Eitherway, this profile will only turn men on sexually. It won’t get you a relationship. Meanwhile, a profile like mine would get women who want to be in a relationship. Women have a strong preference for outdoorsy guys or men who do sports anyways. That’s why men on Reddit can’t find much luck. Most just like gaming…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:19 PM
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Just wow. The MeToo Movement was meant to show how many women have dealt with harassment after being silent for years. Silent for fear of judgement, silent for being shamed as a victim, silent to be the only one who experienced it. I’m happy it happened as it showed how many women have actually dealt with harassment. A survivor shouldn’t have to live in shame, the rapist should. And before, men also brushed off coercion as innocent while it can have traumatic effects on the victim. Blaming this …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:11 PM
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There are enough hobbies/communities/events/parties that attract both men and women. You can’t say men don’t havw much other options.. I’ve been on hiking trips with my female friend, and there are always the single men going together but also the single women. There are also some foreign communities and asking where someone is from is an easy starter. I’m sure people new to a country/city can use the advice. And I guess another option is comic cons if that’s your thing and I’m sure a lot of wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:35 PM
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Then you need to put up a better profile. Or it might be your location. The only men I see complaining about zero matches or very low matches as a man are from people here. My male friends on apps aren’t tall/the best looking but get a few, def not a lot, but a few genuine ones. One of them found his gf on Bumble. They were actually a situationship before dating though coz my friend didn’t even want to put on a label right away smh. Good thing he came to his senses and did.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:17 PM
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That sounds like a bad profile, no offense. 1) it doesn’t sound like a woman lol the wording alone sounds pretentious 2) you will only attract men who are ready to be subs, while most men like to be the dominant/assertive one. Men who aren’t into that will probably swipe left right away or be out later. The subs probably want to be in a LTR only so you can be their dominant mommy, so basically they still want you just for sex, not for you and your personality. Also what your bio is lacking: char…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:32 AM
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It depends on the man too ofcourse. Usually women will decide during/after a conversation. Women who say “I don’t know” usually just mean “not with you”, but they want a relationship. With men it’s mostly that they just can’t control their d-mind and some come forward faster than others. Even if they would want a relationship if you would feel it out, they want to get the d wet too fast. So many men try to kiss or get you home. Or they will be dry and friendly but lack chemistry, the awkward typ…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:04 AM
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You are forgetting that we are talking about dating apps, not real life dating. That pool of men is already different. OP says it would be a surprise for women if they made a male profile, while you can easily say the opposite too. On dating apps, most people aren’t serious. It may be filled with men but what’s the point if they are all swiping for quick fun. To be fair, might also depend on the app coz I’ve mainly used Tinder and Bumble. Dating apps like that aren’t exactly a win for women eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:38 AM
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They might have fewer options, but the options are probably more genuine. I think the chances of matching w/ a girl wanting a relationship is higher than w/ a girl just being a fckgirl. Only fckbois usually attract women who are also only and purely looking for a hookup. Quality over quantity, I’d say. It takes forever to vet through all these fckbois to find the quality men who want a relationship. And even men whose profiles who say they search for a “relationship” can be wishywashy af. They p…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:51 AM
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I’m an equality type of girl so I want my man to provide the same things. Be able to do basic house holding and cleaning, be able to provide when needed. I don’t need a man to provide for me, but to provide with me for our fam. Share the burdens about equally seems right to me. You need two persons who can both function a 100% without each other. God forbid that one of you gets into an accident. Traditional households will fall if one of the partners cannot do their part anymore due to circumsta…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:43 AM
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The “fcks her with hate” made me laugh out loud. What in the toxic is that even suppose to mean? If you meant “aggressive” like the Fifty Shades of Grey fantasy you seem to have, that has a different meaning from “hate”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:34 AM
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If you pose as a hot guy, you can probably get the sex and validation too, even if girls act potentially stuck up. Being validated for your looks can only feel nice to a certain extent, plus, if a guy finds 95% of the population hot, is it really a compliment? More like empty words if you ask me. And even though casual sex with a hot guy can be nice, it’s not what women look for on the long term. Also men who almost immediately ask or chase for sex even when super hot are such a huge turn off. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:29 AM
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I want men to try the same with creating a profile, but then try to get a man who wants a committed serious relationship instead of anything else (friends/situationship/see where things go/fwb/ons). You’ll be in for a wild ride, and probably get some d pics along the way you can’t do much with lol. Even if you make a very modest girl profile, I’ll guarantee you, you will get hrny men all over you who have nothing more to offer than some d and that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:13 AM
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Real life and fiction is different. I think the reason why bisexual men might be unpopular is because he will have double the options to cheat on you with. I’m the monogamous type so idk. I also would worry about him wanting to get the d experience again. I once liked a bisexual man but he was more into men. I could just sense from him he would most likely cheat for the d experience because he likes d over p. I got over him though when he started flirting with a guy he liked and it felt the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:42 AM
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The problem with a lot of these discussions is that love is taken out of the occasion. I’m pretty sure that for the long term, men want love & commitment, and even romance. Making fun of men who eventually get the girl to settle down with him is something I don’t understand. Having lots of sex, even as a guy, isn’t much of an achievement. Having a woman who wants to be there in your life to support you and raise a family with you sounds like a bigger achievement than having many girls want you f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:35 AM
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Then I think it would be potentially a pretty good deal. As long as we assume this is a good man with morals and integrity, who doesn’t cheat or scams people for a living. We all know that not all rich people earn their money in a clean fashion. And no I did Japan/Asian Studies with a journalism minor. Now you might think that it’s a weeb study with no analytical thinking skills required, but I’d beg the differ. My professors thought me a lot, and I’d prefer to use that knowledge in my life in s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:07 AM
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Would I be able to create a company, or non-profit organization? Then yes. If that is a no go, it’s not very attractive to me. I don’t want a career gap and I’m highly educated so why would I waste my good education? I get that it’s a good deal for the lesser educated women, but for those with high education it feels empty not being able to use logical and strategic thinking on the daily. If he would want me to work for him and help him in his company, that would be a very attractive deal though…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:41 AM
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Is it a waste of money? Maybe. It is however a gift for a lifetime (If I am marrying, I do want it to be for life. Why else marry.) Do I want one when I get married? Yes, probably because it is tradition. It’s the same reason I also would want a white dress and marry in an actual church, ideally. It’s weird actually, I really don’t like receiving expensive gifts, gifting is my least favorite love language, but the only thing I would like to receive from my partner one day is a decent engagement …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:48 PM
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I still like baby-faced men and men who aren’t as buff. I used to never like very masculine features like beards and chest hair, or big muscles. Now I like both. I’ve only seriously dated pretty or more feminine-like men tbh but maybe it’s also because they were all Asian 😂. I might be the minority, I honestly don’t know, but there are still women over 25 who are into that type of look. The guy I liked also can’t grow a beard lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:42 PM
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How is old school pua stuff so different from TRP? Also what makes a man weak and a woman selfish? TRP ppl themselves also don’t agree with every single thing. The same way I’m a feminist but def don’t agree with what lib fems and rad fems are saying some times. I also don’t identify as blue pilled but that’s probably what PPD would consider me to be lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:37 PM
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Your post history checks out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:19 PM
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Try to prove me wrong all the evidence is already there in PPD 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:18 PM
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They are opinionated about women and that’s how you recognize them. They see women are different creatures or something lol. With their “females” 😂.. but even if they wouldn’t use words like females or chicks or whatever you can still tell them apart from how they speak about women or women they consider “bad” like promiscuous women. So unlike OP is trying to claim, it is really obvious to spot a RP, even in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 02:55 AM
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Except you are proving my point with each comment 😂.. Also I am accurate because they have MWC. I was only explaining the concept. But yeah classical TRP to try to go off the real subject and wanting to nitpick on words and meanings while we all know what is actually going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 02:49 AM
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Well that is again on you. Why is it so difficult for some people to treat people with dignity and respect? Anyways a man who cannot is often RP or BP. Way of speaking and thinking between regular men and RP/BP men is different and men here all have proven my point. Sometimes RP/BP men feel borderline psychopath/sociopath due to their lack of EQ and emotional understanding of other human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 02:44 AM
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It is you now going to extremes. Read again. I’m giving examples of what not respecting/ degrading is. You can have an opinion without having to dehumanize/degrade/disrespect someone. It’s not rocket science. “Treat others as you like to be treated.” “Have respect for others.” I feel like TRP really lack EQ sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:18 PM
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It means to leave others in their value. To hold them in the same regard as others. Back in the day of slavery, slave owners also respected other people of their color but would treat their slaves as less human or less of value and disrespect them. Treat them as sht thinking they deserve it. It is the same with MHC. Women are still called btches or slts which are degrading terms. Men with true integrity would never degrade. Even if they disagree with the other person’s lifestyle. The naming and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:58 PM
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It’s easy to tell by the way they speak. You don’t even have to ask them directly, with the right questions they out themselves. Also, men who genuinely care about women (not just some women but as a whole) and actually respect them as a whole act really different than men who don’t. These men also won’t ever say things like “why are women so negative association” or refer women who sleep around as slts or whatever. The language they use is very different. Btw I met a TRP irl once. Which is rare…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:41 PM
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And it is also clear what I meant with my statement. Why try to act dumb with statements like that when it’s obvious what I meant? TRP is classic for trying to change the subject like this lol, so easy to tell when someone is TRP from these type of comments, ya”ll really prove my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:57 PM
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Don’t worry, plenty of men want to date within their age range. I even know a lot of couples were the guy is end 20ies and the woman is in her 30ies. To the point I feel like women dating younger men is actually becoming a trend despite people online trying to argue differently. I’m also dating/seeing men a couple years younger atm. Not because I don’t like men my own age but just happens to be so. Men don’t really care about age. Especially not when you still look good for your age. If you stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:50 AM
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No, let it be. Society has chosen. A lot of people are childless by choice. You cannot force women to have (more) children. Unless you want to be like the US and take away women’s abortion rights and push out a right-winged agenda telling women should focus on becoming moms instead of living the life they want and all that shi. Brainwash women. Yeah no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:46 AM
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Finally an article that explains most https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2022/aug/06/andrew-tate-violent-misogynistic-world-of-tiktok-new-star People can’t defend him from this. Btw Madonna-whore complex is also misogyny. I’m going back to the root here coz I hate unnecessary long conversations that go off topic. He is just bland misogynistic wether he is aware or unaware. It’s getting ridiculous. Plus that he got as rich as he is by human trafficking/other shady practices and his piramide s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:39 AM
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Women who approach, approach subtle. Even in Japan there was a viral video on how to do it. It’s only that men might not see it as a direct hitting on them thing sometimes. Women also have dating strategies. Heck, there is even a whole subreddit dedicated to it called FDS. Somehow despised by most men on Reddit because they teach women how to not sleep with a guy. And Bill Gates said he still loved her and would have married her again. And you just said you don’t have to be aggressive to be masc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:15 PM
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These are really becoming whole essays I don’t care to read anymore 😂.. Women are perfectly fine with men crying. Men and women can divide their homes as they please and raise their kids as they please and modern families are doing so and they and their kids are doing perfectly fine. The audacity of traditionals to criticize lol. Only traditional people believe in housewife and working husband “50ies idea. Times have changed, and most families have double incomes now while still taking perfectly…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:56 PM
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There are no duties. These are constructs. Parents take care of their children because they have a bond with them and love them. Men don’t have a duty to protect and provide anymore because the world is safe enough that we don’t get randomly attacked by animals or have to kill them to get food. Toxic men and some toxic women are the only real treat nowadays to mankind. And you have shared no statistics, it’s all gender role stuff from that was normal way of thinking in the 50ies or when the huma…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:45 PM
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Women hit on men often enough, just because you have zero experience with it doesn’t mean other men have not. They do it in their own way with subtle hints. Men who have experienced it, they know. Some men like “masculine” women who are stronger opinionated, just because you don’t, doesn’t mean all men. Higher educated men often want a highly educated woman. Look at all the successful smart CEOs, Bill Gates with his ex, Mark Zuckerberg. They chose intelligent career women. And feminine men are p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:56 AM
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Duty doesn’t exist because governments don’t immediately use war as a way to solve things. Women have been assigned to not participate before because they were seen as the second sex. Women didn’t even had voting rights. They were kept out of all conversations and seen as incompetent. So they wouldn’t leave something up to a woman. But women went to work when the men were at far in the W/Ws and proved they could work just as well, hence the feminist movement rising. And children function best in…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:41 AM
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You can’t speak for gay men if you don’t even know them. Housewives and nobody really watches their child 24/7, overattentioning a child is also bad of the child’s development. Working moms can spend the necessary time with their kids, just like working dads now can. And I know women in Manager and CxO positions with children who had a child while also building career and manage to combine. So saying boss babes don’t have kids or regret it is nonsense. Women who don’t want kids don’t have them. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:32 AM
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It’s because you are not answering OPs question. A specific question was asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:24 AM
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Women approach men, in their own way, some stronger than others, not rocket science. Masculine women aren't a turn off for men just because they happen to be a turn off for you. Masculinity can mean assertiveness, hold a convo. Funny how you immediately assume all toxic masculine traits with it, like being "aggressive" or shouting etc. Nobody likes those, women also hate men who do that. Enough women want feminine men, or men accepting their feminine side. Have you seen K-pop's and Harry Styles'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:12 PM
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I have gay friends, and not just one or two, I probably know maybe 15 gays in my life personally, do you? These gays are def. not feminine, they are just regular guys. You think the high pitched gay voice men you see in media are the gay men irl, they aren’t. Don’t use television gays as a representation. Make gay friends then we can talk. And being able to cook/clean/whatever is a basic life skill. Kids need bonding and care of humans. Also like I said, even full-time working moms get enough ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:23 PM
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Oh I got a whole list, buckle up: -racist/sexist/ableist/misogynist/misandrist -not feminist, using its original meaning. So doesn’t believe women should get equal opportunities/options and rights. -Looks down on others, mocks others, uses slur words against others -salty/hateful character -always thinks negative, “life sucks”, pity parties himself, victim mentality, always depressed -believes in too much in gender roles, and can’t cook and clean because he thinks that basic human skills are a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:38 AM
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I’m a high earning woman and I’ve only dated “down”. In terms of money/education and looks (they are attractive for me fyi but I work as a commercial model as my secondary job, been doing it since my student days, and these men wouldn’t be able to, since they look for conventional beauty). Also met men who exceeded me in these areas. Eventually same interests/same values and commonalities make the difference for a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:07 AM
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If a woman wouldn’t even be near the man and make eye contact, the man would have probably not taken the sign of interest and approached her. Women make a lot of moves but often more subtle. Do don’t want to come off as too strong or a female simp. And you also can’t tell if the guy is already in a relationship/dating/seeing someone, so girls don’t want to appear too strong and just want to get some response first. Men also reject women all the time. Even average men. And a lot of men say they’d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:28 AM
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You don’t have to be rich to take a woman out that you like. Rule of thumb when you take someone out: 1) make sure this person is genuinely interested in you, 2) make sure that you go to a place that you can afford. I think most men do this. Eventually wether or not they will pay depends on their general generosity and interest. Women often take a man splitting during first date as not so serious/not so interested/not generous or even self centered (only wants to spend money on himself type of g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:17 AM
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So you want an intellectual women with accomplishments but you are literally saying the opposite in your comment. You can be financially independent working pay check to pay check but still being able to pay the bills and not be accomplished. An accomplishment is a mile stone or reward. Anyways the question was not “you want a modest intelligent woman or a braggy intelligent woman?” It’s about dumb~not accomplished but hot vs intelligent but not so hot~not hot at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:57 AM
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Except for breast feeding, men can do any other task of nurturing including cooking and cleaning. Ridiculous to say women need to do that. Even women used to hunt. And saying gay couples are feminine is a huge stereotype lol. Have you ever met gay couples? Some gays are both manlier than any heterosexual. But they know how to cook and clean and feed a baby. Healthy loving couples who divide the roles > toxic traditional homes And the only reason girls pick up dolls and boys aren’t allowed to cry…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:47 AM
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Generous men never care. They are happy to pay atleast the very first date if they felt they had a good time. That is the difference. I vet men on generosity. In Japan, its even common for high earning men to take out women just for their time and company. Idk why it’s so common but it is. Probably not just generosity but also because they feel masculine treating a woman as well. Sometimes they even pay. My friend asked me to go out to dinner with her and some wealthy male friends of hers and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:08 AM
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You are literally implying an intelligent woman can’t be feminine and probably think feminine=submissive but ok lol. Also intelligent women = drama? Lol right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:22 PM
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I’d say the men first for the dinner, more because usually the man asks the woman out the first time around. For me, if a man offers to pay, it shows he is really interested and isn’t worried “wasting money dating women” or something like that. Idk, in my experience the genuinely interested ones atleast offered. Also shows generosity and I really need that in a man. If I want the second date, I respond with “I’ll get the next one” or just thank them and get the next one. When I’m not interested …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:17 PM
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He says intelligent women can’t be feminine, so to him the lesser the intelligence the more feminine a woman, which clearly makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:45 PM
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I’d even add young Bill Gates to that list. Actually wasn’t even ugly, more average without the silly glasses. Also he was pretty charming too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:41 PM
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I just said Mark Zuckerberg was about a 6 in my head but can be 7 on the really good days/photos. Jeff Bezos and Elon Musk probably same. These men are def. average level. And OP said average is included.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:34 PM
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Look at the title it literally says dumb hot vs less attractive/average intelligent where does it say unattractive? Also I would choose a Mark Zuckerberg level attractive guy with the same intelligence over a dumb pretty guy probably. I can’t stand men who don’t understand what is going on in the world. I have dated the hot dumb guy in the past and for LTR it’s horrible when they don’t understand half of what’s going on in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:21 PM
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I’d rather have a less hot intelligent rich man than both. Actually, drop the rich too. I don’t need a rich man, I am the rich (wo)man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:17 PM
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You don’t sound very intelligent at all if you think that the dumber a woman is, the more feminine she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:08 PM
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So you would prefer a dumb hot family-oriented woman over an intelligent less hot family-oriented woman. Got it!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:55 PM
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Funny how you as a PhD holder speak about family-oriented women and career-oriented women while that is not exactly the same as OP’s statement. OP is asking about dumb pretty women vs less pretty intelligent women. Not all highly educated women want to keep their career or are all about their career. I think many also compromise in some way or form by making less hours for example once they start families. Where as maybe there are pretty bimbo’s who are focused on career. Not sure in what, but h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:34 PM
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Depends on the man and his intelligence level. Highly educated men from top universities see an intelligent woman more as the trophy wife than the beautiful bimbo. And this is the difference we often see between actually intelligent and well-educated rich men and the “street smart” hustler rich men. A beautiful famous example is Mark Zuckerberg with Priscilla Chan. Like wise, highly educated women also prefer highly educated men over the chads or rich “hustlers”, for the simple fact that we want…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:06 PM
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Where in biology does it say women are by definition better nurturers? It is biologically that women breastfeed and in the animal kingdom the female takes care because whoever the dad was often leaves, that’s not the case with humans. Not anymore atleast maybe in the stone ages. A dad can also cook and clean just as well. Especially when kids are ready to go to school and be out on their own, both mom and dad are equally important. Else you would also imply that kids don’t need a dad. Also enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:20 PM
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The problem are the generalizations you keep making. I know enough couples were the man does more and better nurturing than the woman. It’s 2022 and things have long gone changed. Are you 40+? Because you sound to have pretty old and stereotyped views of the woman being the caregiver and the man being the provider. These views are already so outdated. And families were the roles are turned actually work. And saying women are hardwired to hold her egg for the best man also sounds pretty much bs. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:33 AM
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How many times do I need to explain that misogyny also includes prejudice? Say you love women but do inherently think they are more stupid, that is also misogynistic to assume. Its both sexist and misogynistic. The stats you showed are from over a decade ago, and still it’s just 10-19% of the cases. Also my point was that if a woman wants to date/marry three men, why can’t see? If she can’t, but men can, that’s a huge double standard. And I think it’s obvious if I have a female icon that I am a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:58 PM
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I think that if I would make lengthy videos but these TikTok videos my young “fans” cut out portray me differently and make me sound misandrist, I would atleast actively call them out. Like he said himself, with bigger fame comes bigger responsibility. You’d only hope he truly understands this now. These TikToks have caused a rise in misogyny. And 90% is still a large amount if you ask me. A lot of people follow one person or one ideology ’s opinion on everything mainly and it’s quite concerning…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:43 PM
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The simple answer is no. Tbh I can’t do an obese man but most women including myself are just fine with a bit of dad bod. I don’t really care about how a man looks (sixpack or dad bod) but more about what he can do. Also why erotica books are popular with women and often very explicit about how the man is and what he is doing/saying not much how he looks like. I also consider myself a face person but I like cute faces over the really manly ones. If I like his face I am probably ok with his body …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:07 PM
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Maybe his original fans were men, but his TikTok fanbase was mostly boys. TikTok is a mainly Gen-Z dominated space. It are exactly those easy impressional often not so intelligent boys who would pick up the wrong “advice” from him. The viral TikToks weren’t the self improvement ones but the ones where he talked about women. He even himself admitted it during the interview that people have been putting clips of his content on TikTok that without watching the full clip sound pretty horrible. Also …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:55 PM
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Look up the term misogyny in a dictionary, I literally copied it from the dictionary and you still feel the need to give your own meaning to it. misogyny is not just active hatred in women, but also by men, and also prejudice. Sexism is stereotyping a certain sex, so yes it’s also sexist. prejudice means having a formed opinion about the other based on misconceptions or generalizations. Sexism is the generalizations. Paternity fraud isn’t even a common thing. It barely happens in reality. Usuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:16 PM
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Exactly this. Women are very picky on dating apps but not so much in reality. I have dated men I would have swiped left on a dating app probably. Because they were charming and because there was a click or good banter. You’d give those men a chance because why not. Charming>looks in reality. There are too many men and too few women on dating apps anyways so it’s better to find women through an activity club/events etc. Though I have seen handsome men with less conventional attractive women, I fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:00 PM
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You do realize that his wife was thin and smoking hot when they started dating right? Also, she still looks beautiful bigger and they both aged. They do seem to really love eachother for the inside now though but would have he given her a chance if she was bigger from the start? Guess we will never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:54 PM
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Even if that was to be true, a lot of his fans will probably not comprehend this, especially not when it’s cut down to a TikTok, and that is the real danger. Still, it doesn’t make sense to call women losers or anyone who doesn’t make much money. It’s actually bullying behavior. Cool if you wanna help men become more successful, but to drag others down and looking down on other people makes you the real loser to me. Men always complain about brick builders and women not becoming them but these s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:34 PM
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Misogyny (/mɪˈsɒdʒɪni/) is hatred of, contempt for, or prejudice against women. It is a form of sexism that keeps women at a lower social status than men, thus maintaining the societal roles of patriarchy. Misogyny has been widely practiced for thousands of years. It is reflected in art, literature, human societal structure, historical events, mythology, philosophy, and religion worldwide. The prejudice part is what a lot of men conveniently forget. And in this day and age, double standards obvi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:26 PM
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Just found a gem where he calls beautiful women losers at around 3:30 lol https://youtu.be/cAJlXAh-R6Q he’s forgetting about all the top models/actresses/young female CEOs/young women in manager roles etc. Hugely stereotyping. Probably because the only beautiful women he can get are the dumb ones because the ones with a brain would never. If we think about the only type of women he can get it almost makes sense saying that. Food for thought. Except IG models probably also make quite some money, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:40 PM
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I agree that is bad if he is still codependent on his mom or dad for that matter, but men who have a loving bond with their mother/sisters/female cousins etc. are often much better and more respectful men than those who have a bad relationship with them. That has been my experience. I think a loving healthy relationship with mum is a green flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:25 AM
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Asking someone “what do you bring to the table?” Is rude no matter who asks who. It also just sounds negative and aggressive. The -if you don’t provide me something I will not provide you something- way of thinking is so bitter in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:53 AM
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Asking someone “what do you bring to the table?” Is rude no matter who asks who. It also just sounds negative and aggressive. The -if you don’t provide me something I will not provide you something- way of thinking is so bitter in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:52 AM
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Do you not know what misogyny means? It means having a prejudice towards women, thinking they are one and the same, and also treating women as less than men and held by different standards. It is not simply wether or not you claim to hate or love women that makes you misogynistic or not. He is obviously doing this by presenting double standards in his content, that cut out as TikTok’s even sound more insane. As if men who sleep with a lot of women aren’t male sluts and as if it’s ok for men to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:45 AM
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Yes, but those are often individual comments and not large groups operating. Frat boys made the news in the Netherlands last summer coz they were chanting “all women are whores”. There was a similar case in another country where a whole dorm building of men started catcalling all the women walking by for lulz screaming degrading things. Women would never do that. Sure they would complain but not actively in a group harass men. Vice versa however that still happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:20 AM
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This is exactly why we need feminism. Not all but still too many men look down on women mostly as a whole and don’t regard women as equal. It’s bitter. It’s weird how these men lack complete empathy too. And they often also look down on other men (“lol you beta”) . Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:51 PM
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What does quality even mean? That’s very subjective. For these women they might be super quality men, if only for the fact that these men accept them as they are. And who says that? Quality men wouldn’t even ask n-count. Quality men to me are men with a sense of rationality that would base value on what a woman has to offer as a person. Just like I would base them for the same value. A man isn’t high value just because of his height, looks, educational background, job, he would be high value imo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:53 AM
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Better lay your cards out early so you don’t waste a woman’s time and your own for that matter. I would really appreciate it if all men who do care about n-count would ask me early on so I can nope out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:03 AM
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Yes. That’s the reality. Only men with no game think men have difficulties getting laid let’s be real. No offense. Also, I’ve seen men who are a solid 6 in their own country get women way above them in Asia. Because white. Look up Charisma man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:58 AM
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We are talking about relationships here. Also, if men just want to get laid, then why are some men marrying porn stars? Women with high n-count can still get married if they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:56 AM
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Why would you waste your time in a four year relationship, if you found that a dealbreaker of the bat? Sounds like you wasted her time and yours. It doesn’t add up. Also, sounds more like you just didn’t like it in hindsight than it being the almighty determine factor, else you wouldn’t have dragged it on for four years. Can’t imagine it took you four years to learn about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:54 AM
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It’s not about gender it’s about attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:49 AM
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Exactly, and I’m convinced less and less people will get married in the future tbh. Especially the kids of the couples who have a partnership and chose to never marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:27 AM
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Good luck finding an attractive virgin though that also wants to have sex. If she waited that long, what makes you think she wants to have sex with you anyways? Even if you were a Chad? Especially if she is attractive, you by far wouldn’t be the first Chad approaching her. Also, if she doesn’t like sex and is on the asexual spectrum, probably wouldn’t want much sex. Leading to a sexless marriage. So the man will have to sacrifice sex. Unless he is the piece of shi who would cheat on his wife. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:24 AM
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Thanks OP, exactly same thoughts. That is the real hard pill for some men here to swallow. But the prefer living in their RP bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:12 AM
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Good point, but I think people want to get a relationship/married because of romance. You cannot really get that from friendships imo. Not on the same level. People long for intimate and deep connections. Though I do notice a trend in couples only getting partnership and not getting married. Marriage is a construct linked to religion and most people are atheists these days. I myself would only want to get married to the right man, for I was raised Roman Catholic. Idk, it’s probably internalized …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:08 AM
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With that logic, the women who still are a virgin not for belief reasons would be the 0-4’s. Since the above can easily get sex/a relationship and most women are romantics and will get a boyfriend early in life. Or maybe she’d be asexual, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:56 AM
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That’s a two-way street. Attractive people are more likely to have more sex or atleast sex early on in their lives. If she isn’t a virgin for belief reasons, she probably is still so because she isn’t that desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:38 AM
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Makes you say why? Usually women who are still a virgin that old (23+) are probably so because she is saving herself and wants a man who does the same. Then he will have to find a woman younger and probably not even ready to get married. Even if he does manages to do this, probably risks of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:13 AM
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Women sharing experiences is hate now? Interesting. Also he is a hypocrite/liar. He said he had sex and later comes back on it and says he only kissed. Imagine him meeting a virgin woman who also wants a virgin man and he lies about it. Sounds shady to me. Eitherway, he will probably have a hard time finding a virgin his age that is also attractive for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:59 AM
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Would say that too if I wouldn’t have a good argument anymore. Reality is different from what RP men like to believe. That’s the real hard pill to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:36 AM
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They don’t bring it up unless I bring it up. Read. Also, even when they do know it’s usually like “ok” and nothing changes. They will still continue to ask you on further dates or not what. Usually women tend to have the higher # options and from there drop or friendzone to be honest. And if a man drops the woman it’s not a loss he filters himself out. So good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:09 AM
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Why would you discuss something or bring it up if it’s not a dealbreaker for them? People who know what is a dealbreaker to them would ask. I usually vet the men I go on dates with by asking them if they have ever cheated etc. because cheaters are a hard no. I also assume these men don’t have high n-count but I guess we will never know. And I have brought it up to two guys I recently met, they couldn’t really care. Theirs was higher anyways, but also not significantly higher. They actually wante…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:00 AM
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Have you been dating men? No. I have not ever had a guy ask me, nor my female friends have been asked. Asked my male friends, they never have asked their gfs coz they don’t care. My friend told me he had one otaku incel friend who is mad obsessed with it though. That’s the reality. Normal men don’t care. They value for what a woman has to offer. OP is the MVP for making this post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:39 AM
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Why are RP men delusional for being the only men who actually care and only judge a woman on n-count. It has never been brought up in any of my past relationships and when I ask my male friends they all don’t really care. Maybe if it’s insanely high like over a 100 but they probably won’t know coz it’s not even brought up in the first place. Plus tell me you are a hypocrite without telling me you are a hypocrite. You are just as much of a slut as a woman with your n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:31 AM
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The conversation is going nowhere because you can’t seem to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:27 AM
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Normal guys don’t care about it to being with and don’t value a woman purely based on her n-count. You are the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:25 AM
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My dude, you really need to learn how to read. What is wrong or right and what is factual are two separate things. Some porn stars have husbands = fact. Should porn and porn stars even exist = debatable. I’m def. no supporter, there is huge exploitation in porn, but other people think differently and some people, men or women, might want that career. If men want to get laid more, why don’t they become porn actors? Same thing. If getting laid a lot makes you a super Chad, why don’t men go into po…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:10 PM
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This has got to be one of the silliest replies I ever received on Reddit. Why would I ever want to be a porn star? I don’t even care about sex that much and only enjoy it when I have a real connection. I don’t see the appeal of porn at all and most porn is utter trash catering men’s unrealistic fantasies anyways. That porn stars can get married however, is a fact. Wether you want to or like that fact is a different story. And I have no hope for your kids. If you raise them to be abusive, they wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:56 PM
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Pretty means pretty. Aesthetically pleasing to look at. Why should “pretty” only be used towards women? A compliment is a compliment. Please stop reading too much into a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:56 PM
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If a woman is a slut for her x number n-count, so is the guy with the same amount. Desired people get laid easy, regardless of gender. It’s not an achievement for a man who is desired to get laid. Men who care about n-count are most likely undesired men to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:49 PM
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Yes because you cannot say all men care about n-count. Even women with insanely high n-count like porn stars get married. You can’t make an all men or all x claim without it being ALL men. Which was my point to the other poster. And I am pretty sure many men don’t want to marry a porn star for the same reason I wouldn’t want to date/marry a porn star. Personally would not feel comfortable if my partner’s naked body and him having sex with other women was all over the web and what not for everyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:42 PM
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Some men do. Else they wouldn’t be married. Men here need to stop making bold claims like “all men”. Is it really? Looks like it isn’t. And I never said “the majority of men want to marry porn stars”. Read first then reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:28 PM
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The delusionality of some men is insane. BuT n-CoUnT!! Nobody else cares, move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:25 PM
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Not paying probably made you look disinterested, I would be curious to hear if there were follow up dates. And as for chivalry.. Why not? People love romance, women love romance. Chivalry is showing kindness. The problem is that nowadays people just refuse to do something for another out of kindness and generosity if there is no guarantee for something in return. The mememe culture and it must benefit ME or it’s a waste of money etc. .. It’s insane. If you had a good time, why be bothered if she…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:19 PM
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Except that you can’t say all men when it’s not all men. Even porn stars are married. Is it that hard to accept for RP men here that the way they think with weird obsessions over n-count is the exception rather than the norm? And thank God for that? I never had a man ask me “what is your n-count?” It’s not a thing in real life dating. Matter of fact, I asked some guy friends their thoughts on it and it doesn’t cross their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:52 PM
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No it doesn’t. The only people who think this way are RP men. Ask any normal man and they don’t even care or can’t be bothered by it wether it’s 10 or 30. Women will choose the option that it right for them, which is the person who is not a misogynist. They won’t lose sleep over a misogynistic guy who would have stood a better chance if he actually valued women for what they have to offer instead of n-count. That’s the real hard pill to swallow for these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:16 PM
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It doesn’t limit their options, it filters the men out who hold misogynistic views like a woman’s value lies in n-count, and the dumbest double standard that a man who sleeps with many is a stud and the woman is a slut m. Men who already have way fewer options than women in dating literally shoot themselves in the foot with this. By all means though these men should openly be vocal about it. Any guy asking “what is your n-count?” indicates red flag. If a man asks women already know to nope the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:50 PM
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I’ve dated men who were less good looking than me actually so I think I would be fine. For LTD, looks aren’t everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:58 PM
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If you are talking about extremely high numbers that’s also the otherway around though. I think many women also don’t want a man who has slept with over a hundred women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:37 AM
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Yes, definitely lol. Actually, plenty of men, perhaps subconsciously, don’t like women who “take over their traditional job” and make the first move, be the one paying, asking them out etc. Women therefore tend to be on the waiting side, see what the man would do. If a guy isn’t doing effort, he’s just not that into you. That’s what they say. As much as I’d like to be all for breaking traditions and equality, the problem is that subconsciously many men themselves also would do those efforts if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:25 AM
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You mean *red-pilled men. The only men caring about bodycount are literally the RP men posting here lol, but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:51 AM
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Idk the most ridiculous topics that are being started in PPD that I see posted these days come from OP, seems like he is very young. Men, even with a high libido, don’t need to always still give into it. It’s give and take, and whatever you choose. You can choose to stay single and get your needs met, though if you aren’t an attractive man you probably won’t get laid as much as you’d like plus you might feel lonely as you don’t have a real connection. You could find a partner who is ok with an o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:07 AM
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While Piers needs to learn how to not cut off people mid conversation, I do think that he got Tate in an uncomfortable spot. I believe Tate was just trying to un”villian”ise himself by blaming others for misunderstanding his content’s intent. While Tate might not wanted to promote misogyny (or so he seemed to have claimed, wether he is real or lying to now save himself idk) , even saying he loves women and doesn’t even deny not being a feminist, and saying things go both ways, clips of him that …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:39 AM
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Even a small amount can make a whole difference actually. I used to have a classmate who was blonde with natural blonde eyelashes. She wore only mascara and maybe some brow pencil. One day she didn’t wear makeup. The difference of mascara (making her lashes black) or no mascara alone made a huge difference on her. Many guys don’t know what an actual bare face looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:52 AM
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You can’t say this without considering toxic masculinity that’s still left society. Women hype each other up by calling themselves gorgeous queens, it’s easier for them to call themselves this if others also affirm it back to them and hype them up. Men however don’t do this amongst eachother because toxic masculinity says calling another man beautiful makes them gay or something. If women call themselves beautiful nobody gives a shi. Two men calling eachother beautiful is like “haha GaYy” If mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:55 AM
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Yes, especially on OLD, it’s a looks thing mainly (and social skills, EQ probably plays a role in your success, because if you understand how to appeal yourself to others you will do better, and perhaps status too, any guy would choose a celeb if they could over a standard woman I think), not a gender thing. I made a similar topic over a year ago here. I’ve seen people struggling on both sides, especially in OLD. Attractive people that know how to present themselves well get all the matches. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:50 AM
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Tell me you’re an incel, without telling me you’re an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:39 PM
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I think that even in modern dating, men are the ones that still are expected to call the shots. Men with low self esteem don’t dare to come up to the girl, ask her out, or might just come off wrong because of the nervousness idk. They often also won’t even bother to try, afraid of being rejected. So that’s why most low self-esteem men are probably single. Low-Self esteem people also tend to be more prone to jealousy. Men can express that in form of aggression, and that’s a turn off for women. My…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:22 AM
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I don’t think that’s true for millennials and Gen-Z. Metrosexual men like Harry Styles, K-pop idols like BTS, etc. are huge. I know a lot of men around my age too that have a skin care routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:37 AM
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Yes, how the ladies at the clinic explained it is that they massage the fat cells and then they can be moved. I also once went to a clinic for stubborn tummy fat where they also used a machine to make the fat cells move to get rid of them, of course using massage takes strength. Idk why people doubt this practice coz it clearly works. Which is all that matters. I also did breast massages myself for stimulation of blood flow with special lotions, so I think that combination helps. Oh I found a vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:04 PM
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We all know passive aggressiveness (silent treatment/faking being happy but actually upset etc) will both negatively effect men and women in relationships. It’s toxic behavior to the other. So is being overly emotional or dramatic. Toxic masculinity would be too aggressive/violent and too rational/unemotional/lacking empathy. We always will need balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:59 PM
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I mean most people already said it, but your list is more a list of general toxic behavior that some women do, rather than toxic femininity. Of course it is bad behavior, however. Toxic femininity means the bad side of femininity and what we see as feminine traits. I think toxic femininity for example is passiveness (as opposed to aggressiveness which is masculine). Staying silent (silent treatment), not actively participating. Allowing everything. Not daring to be bold. Being too agreeable. Or …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:02 PM
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Yes exactly. Then again we are discussing this in PPD. Even if we explain the real reasons, some will refuse to believe it because they prefer to live in a fantasyland where everything a woman does is for the approval of men. It’s not always about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:06 AM
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I work as a commercial model, and this is why models wear it, that is what I learned at the walking lessons, and it makes perfect sense. It lifts your bump, straightens your legs, and if you know how to walk in them correctly (like models) it actually improves your walking. Problem is that many girls also don’t know how to properly walk in them, which is why with some it can have the complete opposite effect. Why would runway models wear heels why they are already tall? And also, even men used t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:58 AM
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Basically, yes. Even though there is more variety and acceptance now, we stil have programming of what is considered normal/beautiful and what isn’t. And probably? those are subconsciously better for reproduction. Maybe unconsciously it’s more “beautiful” to have long-looking legs because it helps in running away/survival. Maybe bigger breasts are more attractive because it looks like they can feed babies better. This random article seems to think so too. https://www.dr-adams.com/blog/men-love-b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:28 PM
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You can massage fat cells from other places to your breasts and bump. In Japan I went to a place that focuses on reducing fat at the waist/upper arms/neck/legs and getting it to the chest and bump. They massage you (and teach you how to do it at home) and sell special underwear that’s actually 1000+ dollars for a full set that keeps the fat in place and avoid it from moving back to its original place. By repeating massaging the fat cells from other places to the chest area while wearing the unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:16 PM
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I’m sorry you had to deal with the abuse! And it’s good that you are already going to therapy. If you want your ho-phase, go ahead, but just know that it might not fulfill your needs. You say you have trauma, so working on your traumas and baggage, healing seems a more productive thing to focus on. Self love is very important too. Please practice it and try to heal. And please make sure that if you just hook up, that the other party fully understands it is a hook up. People should really make th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:12 AM
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Heels correct your posture and walking. Plus they increase your height. Being tall and good posture are beauty standards. Why else are all models tall? Also, I think women with smaller cup size (AA/A/B) want a bigger cup size to look more feminine and like a woman. I used to have size A and my male friends actually made fun of it. It’s not about looking sexy for them, it’s like you want to look like a “normal” woman. I’m a B now after going to a place that basically helps to increase them natura…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:48 AM
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We wear makeup, cute clothes and heels for ourselves and our surroundings. It doesn’t have anything to do with men. We do it for ourselves because looking good makes you feel good. How is that narcissistic? Do you not enjoy looking good and fashionable just for yourself? Do you not want to look your very best for you? Why do people take pictures of themselves and selfies? Everyone likes to look the best for themselves and feel good about themselves. If that’s narcissistic to you, then ok. It’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:30 AM
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It doesn’t happen on the streets, it mainly happens in schools or the workplace. Even for other countries, most women experience assault from someone they know. And on the trains on public transport when there are lots of people and you cannot tell who did that. Also huge harassments in clubs too (but that’s also Japan lol, mfers trying to touch you everywhere) and women aren’t allow to sit. You can only sit in the vip section. they do that so women get tired and eventually settle for sitting at…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:04 AM
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You are very conveniently leaving out the sexism and misogyny that has been going on for YEARS in South Korea. Women were picked by companies based on their looks! they had no real function in the company, even is they were educated. Edit forgot to mention they also deal with a wage gap. Spy cams are everywhere, and filming without consent/revenge porn is a huge industry. They sell a lot of spy cameras like in shape of a pen even it’s super hard to even tell. Luckily also videos on how to tell t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:35 AM
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Most women also aren’t popular. Men are also looking for the IG model types while overlooking more average looking women. When you put men and women in one place, men all chase the hottest one. It’s not a man or woman thing. It depends on your attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:19 PM
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There are men who have girls lining up for them and there are women who actually don’t really have any good other options, how does that have to do with gender? I know a guy who just got married, is the most popular man on the work floor, but he’s only into his wife. I think it says enough that he is loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:37 PM
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A faithful man wouldn’t sleep with a woman just because she lets him, and a man that cheats probably also seeks something in the other woman that his woman can’t provide to him. Men with integrity wouldn’t sleep with women for the sole fact that he can, especially not in a committed monogamous relationship. And I’ve seen faithful men getting tested by other women a lot. They stay loyal. (Of course not all men pass the test obviously but the real ones stay loyal.) There is no good reasoning why m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:16 PM
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The concept does not speak for the people that wrongly use the concept. It can’t be helped. It’s problematic. does not mean the concept itself isn’t good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:40 PM
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RP is saying, work out and be a douche. You can easily and attract probably a way larger group of women if you would do the work out part and just be nice and have some empathy. Men who haven’t won the gene lottery however can make up a lot with just personality/charisma/understanding/fashion/HYGIENE. I have a friend who is skinny and 5”5 and he is popular with the ladies. He follows the above though and is skinny but fit. You don’t have to be a woman hater/douche to get women. And women have th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:00 PM
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Then you understand that for men here high n-count is whore, and low n-count is Madonna. And yes it doesn’t help in a man’s life if he desires to be a forever bachelor. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:08 PM
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No, it’s not a shift of meaning. There is only one official meaning of feminism and that is how it is described in the official dictionaries. https://dictionary.cambridge.org/ja/dictionary/english/feminism It’s usually the younger gen. people who get in touch with lib fem and suddenly think it speaks for general feminism. And believe me, we speak out enough, why else bother to speak out here, but if you speak out on “r/ask feminists” for example your posts just get deleted. There’s no point anym…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:57 AM
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You must be new to this sub lol, how can you have missed those “I just want a virgin what is wrong with that?” threads. And men aren’t bad, men who keep hating on women are. Instead of the hating attitude, you can try to emphasize and understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:01 AM
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How can you tell the kids were from “Chads”? I know many moms that remarry with a guy who is even better than the previous man. Even Jordan Peterson’s daughter is a good example. And a man who has a stable personality has more to offer than any man with lots of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:58 AM
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Madonna basically means a “pure” woman, obviously. And RedPill exists because some men just prefer to vent and hate on women instead of actually working on the problem. They won’t try to actually understand women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:08 AM
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Look at most couples, the guy is often not some Chad or hot guy. They are liked because they have other things to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:05 AM
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AF and BB are terms made up by RP. It doesn’t even exist in real life. “I want an alpha man” said no woman ever. Most women I know just want a man who is caring and understands them. But also at the same time takes care of himself. And women don’t want to date/marry men with high n-count. Men with high n-count also have acknowledged it is hurting them get a genuine relationship. See my other comment about it in this thread. And still the majority of men is looking for relationships just like the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:29 AM
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If it supports trying to get an unhealthy power dynamics relationship, it means it does more wrong than good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:22 AM
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No they don’t. Women wouldn’t want to marry a guy who slept with like 85 partners. Huge turn off. Just using that number as an example because this dude on Dated and Related had that number and while he is good looking and all, he himself said it negatively affected his dating life. Touché.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:55 AM
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The only positive thing about it, would be men learning to work on themselves. But anyone can learn that outside of RP tbh. They just don’t look that up. They want to be heard by other men about their struggles in dating, find people they can relate to. Find a male mentor. And then some just get lost in the manospheres they just fuel their anger towards women even more. Kinda sad. If RP would solely focus on the improvement part, there wouldn’t be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:51 AM
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Yes and it absolutely makes no sense. Men who can’t think for themselves believe anything he says because he’s rich (and a scammer lol) so he must know what he is talking about amirite.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:45 AM
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A position of control how? By coercion? Controlling the other person? Why would anyone want that or think that’s ok. Any at any age can still find a genuine connection. If they put in the work of also taking care of themselves. I know many older men who complain about their single life, but they don’t even know how to take care of themselves. However force and entitlement, demeaning others isn’t going to get you that genuine relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:43 AM
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Made up subsets by RP, but never have women even used the terms alpha or beta. In reality, women have kids with however is their partner. Someone who is attractive for them. And women aren’t as looks centered as men when it comes to dating or relationships. They look for other values too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:36 AM
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By being intimidating you just coerced women who are weak minded into liking you. Not really an achievement, and very toxic, I’d say. Don’t abuse others. And women don’t want men to be subservient, they just want equal understanding and respect. That’s the basics. It’s about understanding, not being subservient to. A lot of men just can’t seem to stand that nowadays women don’t want to be housewives who do everything and that women have their own lives and options. Men have become the want not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:29 AM
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Nope, you missed the point there and so do others in the manosphere. It was never about be a nice guy and simp women, it was about be a decent man and you will get a relationship. 2000ies was misogynistic and toxic af. Women were super objectified and men (not all but too many, like on the daily) acted entitled. Catcalling, name calling, creepy ways of trying to get a woman’s attention was normal. Men saying “hey love how are you” and then “we’ll you’re a whore anyways” when you ignore them. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:15 AM
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Improving your looks and social skills to improve your dating life is literally common sense. There have always been dating shows also who involved those elements. And this counts for men and women, obviously, not just men. It’s a universal thing. If you want to be more successful, becoming the best version of you, which is promoted on self-improvement websites not necessarily targeted to one gender, is obviously the logical way. Also, learning how to be content with the self and feeling a whole…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:46 AM
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Yet to hear about these subsets. And men who sleep with many women are also sluts. Sure these men might be able to sleep with many women, but if that n-count comes out, women don’t want to date them. If you are looking to be a forever bachelor, you do you though. It’s all one sided. And Andrew Tate like men say that men can cheat and have multiple women, but the other way around is a no. How exactly is that logical? The funny thing is, they try to sound logical by saying universal stuff then mix…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:46 PM
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I think Red Pill ideology is just making it worse for both men and women. Working on yourself and improving yourself, focusing on yourself is not a RP ideology, that’s a general concept that everyone agrees with. I get that some men need other men as inspiration/motivation too. But the whole “pump and dump” and “hitting the wall” stuff is where it is getting pretty ridiculous and misogynistic. The pump and dump stuff and obsession with n-count just fuels the Madonna-whore complex. Plus the weird…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:07 PM
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Tbh I have always identified as a feminist and always felt it made sense to people/men, but then all these new extreme forms including lib fem movement popped up and things that imo aren’t “feminist” are hashtagged feminist and suddenly it took a bad turn. Whoever claims “men are evil” isn’t feminist. Yes, there are bad men out there who need to be held accountable, especially rapists and those who abuse their power, but that’s thankfully not all men. I have seen crazy stuff written by other “fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:26 PM
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Well, that also explains a lot too. It is kind of sad that suddenly lib fem ideology is seen as “feminism” in general while its clearly just one ideology of feminism that I also don’t agree with on various topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:57 PM
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Believe me there are still many feminists who don’t agree with lib fem ideology. I agree with you. I mean, yes you can do whatever you want, but exposing your body for money is def. not “empowering”, it can be quite dangerous. I think the promotion of OF/sex work is really not ok. It kinda hurts to see women getting into this because they want to feel in charge or empowered. There are much better ways to do so. I mean, your body your choice but..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:37 PM
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I’m a millennial woman, and I fully understand where you are coming from. I think that there is a lot of misconception and misunderstanding about feminism and it’s true meaning, especially among Gen Z. I have seen bigger women in lingerie using #feminist on social media, and I just always wonder why. I mean, good for you and your body positivity, but I don’t understand how that relates to feminism. I feel like these days especially among Gen Z they are just trying to provoke one another by disre…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:20 PM
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Not every man wants to work (full time) and not every woman wants to be a housewife. Thank god I can work and earn my own money and lead a comfortable life, date a man who I want instead who I need, etc. Everything is more expensive because of inflation. It would have happened either way. I know a man who loves just being the stay at home husband. It’s important people have a choice. You must hate your work to say this. I actually enjoy working, the connections I have, the things I learn, the gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:04 PM
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Actually, I think some are just posing and tbh I have always wondered if the subreddit was ever legit. My female friend, whose an actual feminist, got banned before or like posts removed because she exposed that some of the things claimed as “feminist” had nothing to do with it. Hearing that, I as a feminist def. keep away from that sub. I don’t really trust the sub, and maybe some users have good intentions, but others clearly don’t. I also think the problem is that some take it too far and mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:56 PM
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What do you base that toxicity on? I have dated men younger, one was three years younger and one four years younger. Especially the first one was well educated and more mature, so it didn’t feel like an age gap. There was no toxicity in both relationships and it both worked when it lasted (one moved to another country, the other we just realized years later we weren’t the best match because of some cultural/lifestyle differences.) Saying it’s toxic without any reasoning or explanation sounds off…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:29 PM
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If you would go back, women wouldn’t even be fighting. They wouldn’t even be allowed to fight. So it actually does proof my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:17 PM
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If you would go back, women wouldn’t even be fighting. They wouldn’t even be allowed to fight. So it actually does proof my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:17 PM
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If you would go back, women wouldn’t even be fighting. They wouldn’t even be allowed to fight. So it actually does proof my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:17 PM
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Not everyone can, apparently. And there are men watch prn and think women are whores and think it’s like in the prn or that they like harassment so it’s ok. Not all, but still enough. It’s a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:43 PM
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Wrong ideas are ideas that bring down another person or negatively effect another person. I explained it with an example. For example the idea that rpe is ok. And yes we can easily watch rom-coms and understand it’s not real. You play video games too and understand it’s not real. Not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:20 PM
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There is no proof of women joining dating apps after leaving. And if they would go back to old practices there wouldn’t be women allowed in the army. It would have been even worse for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:12 PM
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I don’t think feminists are against prn as long as it does not bring the wrong ideas to men or effect them negatively. Like a man watching rpe prn and thinking women must like that and goes to rpe a woman. I can guarantee you, no woman would enjoy something that is against her consent. Some women are into sx clubs, that’s ok, as long as what happens there is safe and consensual, who cares. And yes sometimes you have to do things during your job that are not fun, but still there should be consent…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:16 AM
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These men exist, also often in the form of frat boys. There was a whole commotion a month ago because some frat boy organization chanted that all women are whores and was putting that ideology on their organization. Thankfully they are not the norm but it still very much exists. Choking and slapping can be ok with consent and respect. It is about the mutual understanding and intention of the act. I assume you also don’t choke them until they turn blue, you probably stay in what they state is acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:29 AM
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Someone who has lots of casual sex does not equal the person is hot or viceversa? Is it easier for a hot person, yes. Does that mean all hot people have casual sex and not hot people have no or less causal sex? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:17 AM
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In my opinion, I think there isn’t a problem with submissive and dominant dynamics during sex, there is more a problem with basic respect, seeing the other as equal human, and consent. There are still men who feel superior to women, look down on women, basically mistreat women, etc. with no ounce of respect. Like the guys who say “pump and dump” or the guys with Madonna - whore complex. The basic human respect that some men lack sometimes is frighting. Even towards other men. Men also sometimes …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:14 AM
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I know both. I know “hot guys” who are fckbois and I know “hot guys” who are actually the super loyal type. I think, if you are hot, and you only want casual sex, of course you can get it easier than a less hot guy. I have however met a lot of guys also who wanted to have casual sex who were def. not a hot guy. Not sure if they really succeeded. So saying that casual sex guys are hotter isn’t true. Hot guys having it easier to get women interested in them is. I believe attractiveness plays a big…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:36 AM
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Yes indeed. And also it just means being seen as equal human by the other person and having the mutual consent in place. Nothing wrong to be submissive as long as both parties like that and one party doesn’t feel entitled over the other. I think degrading other people is bad. You should always have basic respect for others especially during intimacy. That said though, we are also generally taught that men should lead and women should do nothing, and that sex is bad especially for women, which is…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:26 AM
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You are talking about old times that are in the past. Look at Ukraine, they aren’t going back to that and have women also fighting in the army. If war would ever seriously break out in other countries, it would probably look similar. It’s impossible for a society to go back in time, thankfully. Also, a lot of people are actually atheists these days, so religious fundamentalism would never happen. I think the majority of Western people are atheists. I don’t know a real religious man actually, eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:59 AM
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I think if women, generally speaking, were more sex-driven like men, it would have been more of a merit. Now it’s more of a nuisance. Like, no I don’t want you, go away. I get that men still have to try harder though. Ironically though, I also know that men, generally speaking, don’t really like women that make first moves or go after them. And I also know women who struggle with finding someone interested in them. I have a friend who I think is cute but she doesn’t really get matches on apps. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:07 PM
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Well, good to know you both learned from it. But if she thought enjoying sex is not feminist? or something, she herself might have been confused about the true meaning of feminism lol. People really overthink nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:54 PM
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While it might be easier to find someone who is interested in you as a woman, the flipside is you will also have to deal with harassment and basically dealing with people you are not interested in. So I always wonder if it’s really such a merit. Plus a lot of men just want sex while I think most women really aren’t interested in hook ups with these men. I wonder how men would feel if they get weird women in their dms or randomly touched by some unattractive stranger or get vag pics from women et…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:43 PM
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Actually I have been in a relationship with a man before I didn’t find attractive and wasn’t my type lookswise, but he was very charming and for some reason that made him look much better. In hindsight, still cannot believe what I saw in him, but I think this is what actually often happens rather than women just “settling” for a not so attractive man. My friend is also in a relationship now with a guy who is not really her true type but his personality is very charming and they share the same va…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:22 PM
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Or it’s because people just want equal rights and equal opportunities for everyone regardless of gender? That is why we have certain laws in place that ensure the safety and opportunities for both men and women. Ofcourse, women also nowadays make a large number of the work force so it would never make sense to turn it around. Lawfully also not even possible, though the US overturned Roe v. Wade so idk about the US, the US seems like a political mess tbh, but in Europe Western men could not achie…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:16 PM
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Reading these comments I wonder if some people even understand what a feminist is. Feminist aren’t men-hating or sex-hating women lol. I would love a man that would actually do the effort of what you are describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:00 PM
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I’m a feminist, and my last ex was too. I haven’t really asked men I have dated though, but I ask their opinions on subjects and can based on that judge wether it is in line with my thoughts and in line with what is feminism to me. (Equality for both genders, abolishing gender norms. Getting rid of misogyny and misandry. Getting rid of the patriarchy that forces men and women to be a certain way and only keep a certain group of men at the top. For me feminism is very simple, equal rights and equ…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:45 AM
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I don’t think there are types of exercises men or women should focus on. Totally depends on what you as a person like and want to achieve. I work as a commercial model in Japan and sometimes do shootings for fitness product packing too, so I try to keep a toned body. People in Japan don’t like big muscles and the ideal body for women as told by my previous agency is havingくびれ or kubire (like and hourglass shape stomach, the inward curve type of body). My old agency also told me that I should not…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:08 PM
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“VS what it really is like” This is literally just your interpretation of how you like it to be and not close to the reality. Even if the woman agrees, it is still grooming for the simple fact that she is much more vulnerable and easier to manipulate. Please understand the concept of grooming first before trying to create a discussion. And how do you know the majority men are not like that? You’ll be surprised how many men target young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:55 AM
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Believe what you want to believe, already saw that the posts with the most upvotes here say the same thing as I said 😂 being watched a lot doesn’t mean people agree. He is more infamous than famous. He’ll never be mainstream. Only a certain group of people like him and resonate with him and those are mostly hurt men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:44 AM
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Yes because I’m not even on TikTok😂, sounds like you are wasting your time online and on TikTok more than me dude. Ask men around you that you actually know in person what they think about this guy, most men either never even heard of him because they aren’t wasting time on TikTok or Reddit whatever or just know him as that scammer/misogynistic weirdo. Also, if you say extreme stuff on the internet, you will get many views, that’s how it works. But that does not mean people agree with his thinki…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:06 AM
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Keeping believing the world is what your algorithm is showing you🤷🏻‍♀️ he is not a thing for the majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:52 AM
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More like the other way around because outside this sub Reddit I have never seen anyone actually agreeing with him or even RP ideology tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:11 PM
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Except that they don’t lol. Andrew Tate blew up because he basically became a meme for being misogynistic. He became like infamous for saying ridiculous things. If you say extreme things people will notice you. And now people are reacting to his stuff and mocking him even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:46 PM
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Also the part about more women ending up “single and unhappy” doesn’t make sense. Single women are the happiest according to science and there are already large groups of women choosing to be single. These women are single by choice lol. It is why men go to RP or whatever because women choose to not get involved with men anymore only if they meet their now much higher standards. https://www.businessinsider.com/unmarried-childless-women-are-happiest-expert-says-2019-5
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:20 PM
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Except they aren’t lying lol. Media is already exposing him for what he is, a scammer, a liar, and an extremist. Not rocket science to figure that out. The people who agree with him will always stay the minority because the majority knows better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:13 PM
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It will never be mainstream. Andrew Tate got banned from everywhere and the mainstream (mass media) is literally ridiculing him like “look at this weirdo”. I have also seen a lot of men comment on those articles saying how stupid his mindset is. Brings back my faith in men. Believe me, this will never be a “thing”. People read about him and think he is just another weirdo and extremist. Plus the fact that he is a scammer is also very out in the open. He has zero credibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:14 AM
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Tbh, if I knew you personally, I wouldn’t even have minded doing that lol. But I don’t give away money to strangers on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:48 PM
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Maybe it’s because I’m a high-earner but 2000 USD a month doesn’t really do anything for me. 20,000 USD a month would make more sense. Either way would rather have a loving husband than extra cash. If I could be with a man that adds to my life, I would find that more valuable than any amount of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:20 PM
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RP men just have double standards and make up stuff that fits their narrative. they live in their own bubble honestly. No man irl has even asked me or any female friend of mine about our past. Most men don’t even want to hear about past boyfriends, it’s almost taboo. The past is the past. They also say women over 30 “hit the wall”, while in reality women who date over 30ies can still have lots of good options, younger and older. On the flip side, men who think their dating pool will widen the ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:30 PM
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Women don’t have the will-power to change an abusive or even violent man, they often get manipulated/gaslit by them into thinking that they are not bad. That topic aside though, I think that faking it only attracts the women who are attracted to that fake persona. Nobody should hide their real selves in order to be liked by someone else. Nobody also likes people who fake it. I have a friend with autism, he always been very open about his autism. He even stutters sometimes, but since he strongly …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:58 AM
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For marriage, def. Person A. I have been in relationships before with men I didn’t find attractive at first, but over time did. Personality can add so much to a person. Other way around I know some guys who are good looking but due to their personality I could never date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:24 AM
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I thought those type of subreddits were the reaction to RedPill etc., not the other way around. Unfortunately, misandry is usually the product of/reaction to misogyny. Which then can fuel more misogyny. The best thing would be to not feed both ends with more hate, but rather an honest dialogue idk. And I think the other comment was also right. Usually men have a platform to hate on women outside of Reddit, that’s even worse than here. I honestly wonder what is the motivation of men to call women…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:48 AM
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Yes I see.. but it’s not really a good/healthy way of doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:25 AM
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Ok so I went through that sub just now but I see stuff about people standing up to their rapists (as they should!) but nothing that is like a general hate post towards men, idk how long I have to scroll because the posts I mainly see have to do with one particular man like an ex or whatever. I do not think men have to internalize that and take it personally? Where as here I see a lot of generalized topics saying “women are xyz”..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:18 PM
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Sorry for the quick judge, I got your point with the video lol. It’s a shame though. I think none of what they are doing is actually serving them to get what they really want. But yeah..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:09 PM
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What and where do women say something exactly that triggers men/ makes men here react like this and be so negative and despiteful towards women? Just curious.. From my perspective, Reddit seems pro dominantly male users. It seems like some men have no luck in dating so they try to share and pull up fabricated data instead of, idk, just ask women how to improve their chances in the dating scene? There are enough men in a happy relationship who do not look like “Chad” at all in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:51 PM
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Sure you just want to be a troll but why not try to add to the conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:42 PM
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I genuinely wonder, what the aim is of some people here. It’s like they want a relationship, but they keep complaining about dating and women, and how women are delusional and what not. It’s like they basically try to bring down women or see them as the enemy/evil or something which will just drive them even further away from ever getting a healthy relationship.. It feels contradicting to me. It might be hard, but you might want to start focusing on the positives. If only to be happy for yoursel…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:25 PM
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Complete nonsense if you ask me. I’m pretty sure it mainly has to do with the financial situation and environment way more than with the fact that they only have a mother and no dad in the picture. Maybe family dynamics play a part, if the mom doesn’t have a good relationship with her parents it might also have some effect on the child. But saying single motherhood alone creates violent men is def. untrue and extremely shortsighted. Single mother households are not too uncommon in the Netherland…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:40 AM
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I’d rather have a man that cries openly than a man who always hides and denies his emotions and acts like a robot. crying is natural, we all do it. Just don’t cry about your ex though lol, I experienced that once, and it was the most awkward event ever. In that case, it obviously was a turn off because it was about his ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:02 PM
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I def. would if I would find him attractive and he is passionate/successful/happy at what he is doing. I want a partner I can lookup to and respect, and I don’t think I can have that for someone that works but actually hates what he is doing for example. Ambition is very attractive. I’m also ambitious so I need that in a partner. Also honestly speaking I’m on the high earning spec, so it is more difficult for me to find someone who earns more than less. My experience however is that men often ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:16 AM
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Well I’ve seen men in tight gym pants too, or where you could see some ass/bulge. As long as it is an ass, it really doesn’t bother me. It is one of the body parts people train. If it was a cameltoe you were seeing, it is a whole different story and actually inappropriate. Also the design seems to lift and shape the bum, so it has a function. And they probably just want to enhance the look of the bum that they are training.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:20 PM
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You wonder why women wear tight clothes like tights shorts and sports bra in the gym, while it is the logical thing to wear if you don’t want anything in the way and want to see your body shape best while working out. It’s designed for it. When I work out I also do this in just sports bra + leggings, but I honestly rarely go to a public gym. (Especially with Covid, I’d rather not.) If you feel uncomfortable about others checking you out, or afraid people think you check them out, I suggest going…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:07 AM
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OP, you claim that you go to the gym a lot? However it doesn’t seem like you understand how working out really works?? How long have you been going? And have you ever trained professionally? Layers get both in the way of both practice (and can even get stuck between equipment) and in the way of seeing the process and your body as it is. Plus it is gross when you sweat a lot in something baggy where as with tight clothes of the right materials you can wipe yourself with a towel and it’s better. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:06 AM
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It is interesting you raise this in PPD like so because from what I see on Reddit RP men often talk about the end-goal being the Chad who gets all the ladies&action and doesn’t settle down for as long as possible, why women often talk about marriage/a family as an end-goal. In general speaking however, I agree with the statements that mention we both probably want the same thing. Women def. are not looking for “just” an adventurous man, often women seek someone who is grounded and can be their r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 04:44 PM
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Yes these are two different pools, but not just for women also for men. You can easily have casual sex with someone you find physically attractive but personality-wise you don’t click, while for a relationship it is important that you click more personality-wise (although there still has to be some attraction as well.) If you think only women see this as separate pools, you are wrong btw, enough men who see it the same way. I wouldn’t have casual sex with a guy I would really like because I don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 06:49 AM
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My point was more that OP is asking opinions so therefore I shared mine. Male suicide rates in literally every country. This is rather caused because they could not live up to the privilege of being the provider etc. Only proofs that gender equality is necessary. The gender pay gap was busted a lot of times before and is still used as an argument. I dont know the situation in the US but here in Germany it's still used even though it's statistically a mess. We use quotes to "encourage" women in b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 11:00 AM
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First of all, OP is asking women’s opinions here regarding unattractive qualities in a man, thus my personal answer. I know there are many men out there who are feminists (and openly admitting it or not), but enough men (from what I have seen mainly those identifying as or agreeing with TRP) that are extremely misogynistic (which means a prejudice against women, not hating women btw) and think women are biologically inferior and should be back in the kitchen. Feminism in its definition means the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 03:56 AM
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That is my point, the "cannot see women as humans" is more an exaggeration as I see some men complain that women are sooo different, sooo evil, whatever. Or feminists are soooo evil, while real feminism means wanting equal rights for all genders. Nothing more and nothing less. This should mean anyone wanting equal opportunities for both genders should also agree with feminism. A man who does not agree with that is unattractive in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 02:56 PM
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In my opinion, the below makes a man unattractive:In appearance: obesity/too skinny (bones showing)/too buff (too much of something is never good)/obvious plastic surgery, looking old (gray/decreasing hairline/wrinkles, looking way older than actual age), very bad skin condition, out of proportion face, very bad fashion style (cheap looking, holes in clothes->please throw it away already-, etc.) , bad hygiene.In personality: LACK OF EMPATHY (on the extreme end this includes psychopaths/sociopath…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 12:30 PM
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Height really doesn’t matter much to me when it comes to men. I’ve liked a guy who was like 163cm-ish (5”4). It helped that he was extremely talented at dancing (if you want to become more attractive, pick up something and develop a talent/become really good at it) yet humble and had a cutsey face though. Like Yoseob from Highlight. All men I’ve dated were taller than me but then again it’s not that difficult to beat me at height (I’m 165cm/5”5). I think if I want to about to be taller in heels …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 10:33 AM
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Have to agree there is a bit of gimmick to the way he tells things in his videos (he does that in all of his videos) but his message was proper and clear (if you go beyond the 30 seconds). In terms of words he didn’t went out of line, just stating his views. And I agree with him. People try to bake a cake with salt and add more salt when it doesn’t taste right. Next time, try to figure out what is sugar and add it. The incel kid wanted people to be empathic towards him but he has zero empathy to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 03:49 PM
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I added the word reaction in front of video later, so that sentence got weird, anyways, just check the video. It deserves many views.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 01:30 PM
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Rebal D probably just made the best reaction video ever on the "I'm An Incel. Ask Me Anything." video by Jubilee. Some people really need a reality check instead of pity party and complain they fail at dating. Stop putting salt in your cakes. Of course women reject you if you cannot even respect them and see them as equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 01:06 PM
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To be honest, if I could be blunt, my ideal partner (yes, ideal, read that correctly) would be: -intelligent, high education (I’ve graduated MA from a top-100 W/W Uni so preferably he did too. Or higher which is PhD.) -Above average job & salary (my salary is quite above average.) -Above average good looking (I’m a commercial model, so ideal would be someone who also does or did modeling and is as handsome as I am good looking.) -Someone who is funny. -Someone who is kind and caring. -Never chea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 11:31 AM
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I think rather than strength I think it really takes courage to fully protect who you love (and not half frightened?). I would also prefer someone with the balls to step in, but also would go full attack mode if someone very dear to me would get attacked. Of course when the person is armed, you have to really be careful and use logical thinking, but.. In case he tried a 100% I would still give him a star for effort. Maybe not related to dating directly but in that same light, unfortunately women…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 03:25 PM
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I do think the reason why some might disagree at first is because of the internalized gender views that we have and it also depends on background/location how much gender roles are culturally present. Japan for example has a different language for women and men alone. However, men and women are not wired differently in the brain. Also, what humans search for in a relationship and like to receive is fundamentally the same. It is not gender related but due to gender roles/stigmas people tend to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 02:40 PM
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You do not seem to actually know anything about it lol. I have yet to see evidence that is not pseudo scientific in the comments. Stop saying you have scientific evidence while there is clearly non you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 02:34 PM
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Most people don’t want to meet again after hooking up from what I know and many of my friends have experienced the same. It’s multiple ghosting in a sense. That or you get a situationship where you are not sure if you are a couple or not. Rarely do hookups end into a meaningful lasting relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 02:32 PM
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Well that’s good for you because most people don’t want to date someone who sleeps with them first time of meeting. Also keep saying studies without evidence lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 02:27 PM
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And clearly it is your personality which is the real reason you don’t get laid, not because it is so difficult for men. Stop using your gender as an excuse for being a failure while it has clearly to do with your lack of EQ and understanding of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 02:22 PM
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Thank you also for your comment! You are hitting the nail on the head here. Exactly how I think about it as well. I am glad you found your compatible partner btw and wish you lots of happiness together!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 02:16 PM
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Women are not as good as men in things and only good for birth is a misogynistic statement. You do not have to say “I hate” for something to be misogynistic. It is the same as saying a white person is smarter than a POC is a racist claim. Many women are thriving and doing a better job at “blue jobs” than men. That is why there are more and more CEO and executive position women. Viceversa, some men thrive and do better in “pink jobs”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:39 AM
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Behaviorism of people is related to how they are raised by society. Men and women are not differently wired by birth. Physically we are different but not in the brain. Men and women eventually want the same things, and it is really that simple. And I have enough experience with men to understand this. If I apply what men think “a woman wants” to dating a man (for example give him flowers on the first date to have him like me) I get the same results as a man trying to apply they think “a woman wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:34 AM
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The men who women chose for casual sex are often the ones who actually only want casual sex, and you do not have to think about compatibility, etc. I can have perfect casual sex with a guy whose views are completely the opposite of mine, but for dating long term that wouldn’t work. And that probably also works the otherway around. Also there are enough women also just looking for d-appointments and ho’ing on Tinder so actually for men it is probably just as easy to get laid. But you just don’t w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:25 AM
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But actually they do. Men won’t give an unattractive woman the chance if there is a hotter one in the room, they will pursue the better looking one. Many women date less educated men, all my exes earned less than me and one was even unemployed. So what you are saying is not true. Also a woman can look super hot but if she is too clingy and insecure even men less good looking with a worse income will reject her for a relationship. THAT is the real reality. So we all deal with the same struggles. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:15 AM
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Wow the misogyny is real lol. Hope you will become an unattractive woman in your next life so you will understand better. Men talk about inequality while absolutely not understanding women and what we have to go through, it’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:06 AM
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Becoming the high value person you actually want to be (we all have bad traits we want to and need to get rid off) and loving yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 07:17 AM
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Yes that is true, but when I wrote that I more meant in personality traits than external traits. Often what people look for, the actually lack themselves. And when you also obtain the trait, you sometimes actually do not need it/desire anymore in a partner, which also puts off any expectations on trying to find it in the partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 07:15 AM
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Both men and women need to put themselves out there. There are still enough women who never get approached because men only have eyes for the more good looking women just as women tend to go for more good looking men. Waiting however is not the way, not for both. You need to understand how to talk with people. It goes for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 07:09 AM
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Hook ups never lead to relationships looool, if anything having casual sex with a guy it will put you in FwB or situationship limbo. Also people I hook up with for casual sex are def not the men I want to date. Casual sex and dating is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 04:19 AM
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We are talking about dating not hook ups. Why do men here keep confusing the two? Since when is looking for a hook up dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 08:34 PM
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Ok but I still like them while I am def not a teen or that young anymore, so hmmm. But I also like manly man, I don't really care about it to be honest. Both can be attractive in their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 08:30 PM
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I actually want to hear one thing that works on women but not on men and vice-versa from people who believe gender strategy matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 08:12 PM
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If you have EQ and basic human understanding, you know how to approach a person and what people like to hear. There is no need even for different strategies in gender in that sense because, if you have a bit of people understanding, everyone (regardless of gender) just loves someone who is engaging in the conversation, can give a genuine compliment, shows interest in the other person. Understanding human interaction will also probably make you more successful at your job in case you are in a pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 08:09 PM
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You clearly have not read my post. It did not say "just be yourself". It says work on yourself/self love and also in addition work on understanding people (your EQ). Also understand your value (what you bring to the table) and your boundaries, find someone compatible and do not settle with someone just for the sake of having a relationship. Both genders can benefit and become more successful in dating just by practicing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:50 PM
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That is why I also mentioned family/friends/pet love in addition to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:45 PM
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Less attractive women struggle just as much, and attractive men have it super easy (just like attractive women). This is literally also men: lack of putting herself out there lack of self care (being obese) not deeming any of her suitors good enough Men can actually also be EXTREMELY picky especially when it comes to a long-term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:44 PM
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I said not related to gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:39 PM
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Yes and weirdly enough every settles for being the 60% version of who they can actually become, literally robbing themselves of a better life with better chances in any area of their life. Not saying I am already there, but I have seen improvements and most important more internal happiness after practicing self love and wanting to work on myself. Eventually it is all about mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:36 PM
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I have seen your so called strategies but to achieve a full-filling long-term relationship and not just casual sex they are really useless. In the end, it is all about inner work. That is not gender related.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:26 PM
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Interesting because I actually prefer men who are sensitive and used to be more into more "feminine" males and I noticed the same with my other female friends. Most of my Dutch friends who are married do not seem to deal with power struggles, their marriage is like an extended friendship. But yes, Dutch people like to wear the pants (again both men and women) and love to be dominant so that might have been the power struggle you felt. This can even be among friendships. Some of my friends are su…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:20 PM
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I never involved US men/women into the convo lol only you did. I cannot speak for US and also do not know how much gender equality you have. So yeah I have no clue about US but from my personal experience in the Netherlands compared to Japan, I came to that conclusion. I am not sure about the study or it origins or if it is truly fact-based but based on purely personal experience I think we are pretty mentally similar. I have never noticed gender labeling. The gender labeling here in Japan howev…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:07 PM
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It is all about the long-term relationship goals here. Insecure women easily get dumped and labeled "crazy" or "over-emotional". But so will men.. I have dated shy men and I know enough women that do btw. Men actually prefer timid girls but at the same time get intimidated by confident and successful women and often do not actually want to date a woman more successful sometimes as it hurt their male pride. I get paid quite above average and once used a dating app in Japan where men and women can…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 06:56 PM
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You should find someone that fits you, indeed. That person probably exists too. Manifest her. It is indeed better to focus on yourself than look at general data on dating and wonder why this and that. It won't get you that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 06:37 PM
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I was mainly referring to gender equality in dating, I mean, where do you think the term "going Dutch" comes from, it is basic practice in the Netherlands. I do not think we ever treat eachother like a man or a woman, just as people. And from that perspective/background seeing and treating each-other as different will only set weird "gender-assigned" expectations imo and thinking the other person can never understand you. Also women actually approach men in NL actively like men approach women. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 06:07 PM
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But men also do not settle for women they find unattractive, do they? If an -in their eyes- "ugly" woman approaches them they would never give her any chance. So it is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:51 PM
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I do not agree with the whole gender viewing or labeling. The only labels associate myself with are the ones in my profile. So the reason why they do not see results is because they might only be self improving on for example looks but not for example people knowledge/EQ. Also, sorry I should have mentioned (might need to edit org. post) but self improvement and SELF LOVE are two different things but both are extremely important. People who are not getting what the want live from a state of LACK…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:02 PM
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Moving to another country for that sole purpose sounds kind of like you are predator, which is kinda villain in my book. I mean, sure, there are other ways perhaps to get a man/woman/whateverfloatsyourboat but do you want a relationship where the other person loves and validates you or one because you basically exploited and tricked them, it will be your choice. But yes, those 2 points are just my advice for those who want to find true happiness in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 04:47 PM
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Actually, this way of thinking might depend on your upbringing and location. In Japan, host bars and sex services for women are huge but due to the gender stigmas often more under the wraps than that of males. For men, it is sort of "normal" almost to go to hostess bars here or strip bars in idk US or something, while women get shamed if they do it. Does not mean it is not there. It is exactly because of gender stigmas that it is still not as large available for women and more under the wraps. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 04:35 PM
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That is missing the point, but if you want to live the villain life.. Would it really make you sincerely happy, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 04:22 PM
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I disagree on the mental differences, because there are more similarities than differences. Also depends on upbringing/cultural background though. I do have to note I am Dutch and I think we are probably one of the most gender equal countries. Seeing and understand one-another as equals is the first step to getting a valuable relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 04:16 PM
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I have tried to read this comment but I cannot make any sense of it. I wonder though, would you date yourself in the female?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 04:12 PM
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Really happy to know I am not alone in this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 04:10 PM
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I always wonder why some men say that. Even if it were to be true, it adds nothing to the conversation and makes the man come across as a bit insecure, indirectly saying she must have so many choices instead of being confident that he will be the man that gets her. You should never think of or bring up “competition”. It is better to just say to a woman “you look so beautiful/good/attractive/whatever”, and end it there. Simplicity is best.
/r/seduction05/03/21 02:41 AM
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-People who are in a successful relationship/marriage are most-likely not on this subreddit. -Misogyny is a real problem and it’s too real on this sub. -Men/women/non-binary people are pretty much the same in dating, it’s not about sex/gender wether you are successful in dating but more related to your attractiveness level, charisma and maturity. -meaning there is no strategy to dating, and the only thing people need to realize is to search someone with the same values you are compatible with an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 12:26 AM
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I think this whole post is 1) pretty shallow (seems like your only aim is to get with the hot chicks, okayyy, and you claim you are good looking? Wonder how much of that is true.), and 2) you are not as empathetic as you would like to believe, more a narcissist actually, hate to break that to you, OP. You obviously have ulterior motives behind those “nice guy” acts (to get the hot girl), that is not true empathy. A real empath would not even be bothered wether or not his act of kindness would wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:23 PM
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No, girl, no. Sure, there are beauty standards, no doubt, but anyone who is confident and loving themselves try to achieve those for themselves. I shave my legs because I like to have soft legs. Or because I have to do so for a job. And people like to express themselves by playing around with makeup and fashion, like art. I don’t wear makeup to get treated better by men lol, if that were the case I would put on makeup for work but I’m too lazy and don’t care if my face looks attractive or unattr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:45 AM
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Wow OMG are you seriously saying this?? I can't. Why would I put on glitters on my eyes and flick a cateye while guys even say they prefer no makeup? I wear makeup to match that outfit. Heels and dresses are all for the look, FOR OURSELVES. Many men even prefer the sneakers/jeans because it is easier going out but our inner fashionista wants skirt and heels. When I put makeup on, I think I look and feel good for me, I don't need some male attention with it jeez. The world doesn't revolve around …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 04:52 AM
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Interesting comment that clarifies it, thanks. I understand what you are saying. I do really agree with the first half of your post. I honestly feel a lot of people who create an OF also don’t think about the long consequences that it might one day affect their personal life or career what they put stuff like that online (than again OF goes from people only showing feet to extremely sexual content), but there is no way to really educate that. Should a woman with an OF be shamed though? Or a sexw…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 04:31 AM
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A lot of good is already said here, but as someone who strongly believes in LoA, FDS makes a lot of sense. I believe you will get more of which you attract. I have for some reason met a lot more men of value since actually raising my standards based on things mentioned there, and understanding the definition of a HVM, and I have no idea where they came from. The quality of men suddenly increased. But I also believe in the you attract what you are concept, so I probably manifested them into my li…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 04:56 PM
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Wow sister wth!! Not cool how you try to put down “pretty girls” like that because a lot of good-looking women look good for their self!! Models look good for their careers, not for some dude. (I’m work as a commercial model fyi.) I def. had problems with LVM before because I just could not tell red flags clearly, and I had urges for validation(not on my looks, but on me as a person). Now I know I don’t need validation from others, plus do I know how to spot red flags so I can opt tf out before …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 04:40 PM
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First off all, it is still just a small proportion, far from all women. Do have to say, even I know some girls with OnlyFans. I think it really also just has to do with something that is consistently evolving into making online interaction easier and easier, PC/smart phones and the internet. There is a market for everything these days. Some men would pay only for feet pictures for example. It’s so easy to make money and you don’t even have to undress for it. Personally, I don’t see a problem wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 04:02 PM
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