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not wrong but the thing about confidence is that what grants confidence isnt always visible by everyone around you and on the flip side, you can have what would make most people confident and still be an insecure little bitch. So the most healthy form of confidence comes from finding validation in your own story, your own identity and not any one's mere opinion. Thats why people (men especially) should pursue goals, because when you work on goals and continue to achieve them, that absolutely cre…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:32 PM
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what does anything I said have to do with having children?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:28 PM
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if you cant explain something in one paragraph then you dont truly understand it. youre just rambling. so no, everyone is not manipulative. Manipulation is a choice you make when you decide to live life as a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:00 PM
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its not a matter of capability, its about the differences between men and women. Since men and women are different, they value different things and also have an affinity towards different things. Testosterone levels in men lend itself to providing and protecting and estrogen levels in women contribute to nurturing and facilitating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:57 PM
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everyone is not a manipulator. Why would I have to manipulate people? No one is offering to "take care of someone no matter what" thats a sales pitch. Its really simple. Youre obviously not a "bad boy" so youre trying to make sense of your romantic failings as a "nice guy" by believing that women absolutely only want one type of guy. But the occams razor is that you simply arent attractive enough to land the type of girl you want and should aim lower if you want more success
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:15 PM
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if you think planning a date and showing initiative is too much of a hassle then you shouldnt date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:05 PM
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wrong. Above all, women as nurturers desire security because its harder to be a nurturer when your situation isnt secure. Emotional security, physical security, financial security etc. She wants you to show initiative because thats what men who provide security do. They dont wait until things become unstable then add security, they are proactive and being so facilitates security.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:04 PM
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nice guys arent a thing men trying to "win" a woman over by acting a certain way is manipulative. Once that person gets the desired response, his true colors will show. Theres nothing nice about that. "bad boys" are typically masculine, authoritative and authentic, which are traits straight women will always be attracted to. Thinking that women only "say one thing but mean another" is sexist and shows you havent interacted with enough women to have a pulse on how they actually think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:43 PM
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Because the level of accountability society applies to women is FAR lighter than the accountability applied to men. That is why we prefer to see men in high stake leadership roles. Society doesnt allow men to be victims in the same way it allows women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:41 AM
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if you are trying to say that you have received the same level of harassment wearing those two totally different outfits then you are lying
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:09 PM
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so if you feel like there is always someone better than you then youre worried about something you cant control. That is called functional anxiety and you should seek out a professional to help get you formally diagnosed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:02 PM
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so if youre worried about your gf entertaining a guy who is "better" than you then why are you in a relationship? Just be single and it wont be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:39 PM
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with the recognition that sex isnt everything and we need to remove it from the pedestal we have placed it on. Being horny doesnt require acting on it, you will never die from being too horny or get sick from not ejaculating. Learn to control it so that it doesnt control you. Learn to focus your energy into goal achievement and self regulation. A man ruled by sex is an inferior man, its the same as being ruled by your emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:53 AM
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theres nothing crazy about this. People are allowed to live life as they please. No one will die from not being married
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:07 AM
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so which part of my comment said that all women turn their partners down 100% of the time? And fyi many relationships start with frequent sex during the honeymoon phase and begin to slowly decline. If you report things being the same after 5 years then Id actually be impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:04 PM
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If this is true, ask 100 random men and 100 random women how often theyve turned down sex from their partner and the answer will always show women have done it far more times than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:06 AM
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Its not so much "hard work" as it is having to stand out from the competition. Getting chosen from a sea of applicants doesnt just happen. A guy has to be on top of his game in some regard unless he is extremely handsome and tall A woman just has to be pretty to get laid. She doesnt have to stand out, she just has to make herself available. and honestly, quiet as its kept she may not even have to be pretty. Thats the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:01 PM
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the word "despite" doesnt work in that sentence. Try again. and 90 day rules are far from a recent discovery.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:37 PM
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because rich and famous people are into things that would shock people that arent rich and famous and only other rich and famous people can be trusted to keep their mouth shut.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:49 PM
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when women dont appear feminine (not showing up to a date looking like a cover model) their dating market shrinks. Women do judge each other harshly but nothing is harsher than a wife being left for a woman who is younger and looks closer to the ideal female beauty standard. The 30 day rule doesnt stop a douchebag from simply waiting out the 30 days, getting what he actually wanted then ghosting. In addition, the logic of a 30 day rule seems unfair when you realize that youre having to wait to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:34 PM
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men have always had high (almost ridiculously high) standards the female beauty standard made women have to be thin, relatively low body counts, required makeup, push up bras, thongs and high heels etc. "Be a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets" Have a job and goals but be willing to raise kids and be a SAHM if necessary. And even if you couldnt hit these marks, men were still willing to enter a relationship with a woman as long as she satisfied him sexually because men are in 24/7 des…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:40 PM
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damn, bro came PREPARED lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:02 AM
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no youre cordial with everyone you come into contact with. Being cordial and polite isnt the same as respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:41 PM
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the average man isnt respectable. Nothing average ever is. Our society judges men by their status thats why the first thing we were asked as kids is "what do you want to be when you grow up?" and the first thing we are asked as adults is "what do you do for work?" And dont misconstrue not respectable for "worthless" thats not what Im saying at all. But respect is an earned resource like anything else. It isnt just handed out for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:40 PM
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If porn was truly a positive for anyone then there would be quantifiable evidence of its benefits. This long winded post doesnt really say much outside of "its fun to look at naked ladies" which is true. But its also the thinking pattern of a 16 year old. If you arent 16 years old then why are you sharing the mindset of one? Eventually we all have to grow up and recognize that "fun" doesnt always mean beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:11 AM
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Only miserable people spend their time making up fake statistics and assuming how happy strangers are on the internet. You need to grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:06 AM
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provide a source that says majority of people are married and since you cant, I'll implore you once again to take your nonsensical bs elsewhere Everything in this life penalizes you for not having your shit together. Not enough money? lights turned off. Dont care for your teeth? cavities. Dont clean your home? roaches. But you liars want to sell people a dream that people who will be the absolute most invested into you should settle for a person who simply wants to be desired but isnt desirable …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:05 PM
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no the fuck they dont. Stop patronizing people with your lid for every pot bullshit. Its garbage like this that makes people stop aiming to be their best selves and simply settle in their comfort zones. Youre not helping anyone with that nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:43 AM
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conventionally no. Does it mean that every fat woman isnt attractive? also no. and it doesnt mean that there are never going to be men that are attracted to fat women, it simply means that a woman's dating market is significantly reduced the more overweight she is. What people should never do however is pretend that "everyone is beautiful" and "the right one will love you just the way you are" That is patronizing, circle jerking, utter bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:25 AM
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Youre not "beating your meat" call it what it actually is: having sex with your hand
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:39 AM
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the vast majority of porn consumed is completely free, so by accessing an entire library of free content, deciding to simulate sex with your hand, and then using minimal effort to achieve climax is instant gratification. There is nothing on earth short of drugs that will trigger the same dopamine response with such minimal effort and expense but people usually have to pay for drugs. So you and whoever can call me a "weirdo" for pointing this out but Im not the one vigorously trying to defend hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:46 PM
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assuming a users gender when entirely irrelevant to the topic invalidates any point you mightve made regardless no, you had to go to the supermarket and buy the steak, then you had to come home and prepare it. Preparation of any meal takes time and patience so nothing instant about that at all. Not to mention, the money you had to buy the steak most likely came from your hours at your job (if you have one)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:41 AM
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Its not porn by itself thats damaging. Its that porn goes hand in hand with masturbation and that turns porn into a lie of instant gratification which doesnt exist in life and especially doesnt exist for men. So you have sex which was supposed to be the opposite of that and now youve made it into a commodity. Sex as a commodity turns men into idiots who objectify women, dont value relationships, dont value family and dont value their own bodies. If porn could be separate from masturbation then i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:51 AM
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I think youre violating rule 4 of this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:59 AM
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we do but not any and every man. Im going to go to my brother wayyyy before I reveal some vulnerable shit to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:20 AM
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Thats the point. You shouldnt have to be a "feminist" to propose to a man. It should just be a normal thing. It isnt a normal thing because men have particular expectations set on them by society and that includes not being emotionally vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:04 AM
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I am also a man and a husband so I can say with confidence that if a man isnt reaching out its because men arent conditioned to. "Boys dont cry+ man up= suffer in silence." Women dont have a single phrase like these that apply to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:37 AM
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again because society has always allowed women to be more emotionally expressive. This is a privilege not afforded to men. Male loneliness is a result of this because men are typically not allowed to share things that they are dealing with and have to suffer in silence. This is a fact. Again, everyone MALE and FEMALE are experiencing more loneliness because our priority of internet personas and social media have retarded our ability to form true intimacy and connect in real life. But in real lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:31 AM
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"boys dont cry" Men are not allowed to be vulnerable in our society. Men are especially not allowed to be vulnerable in front of women in our society. ​ "oh thats just alpha male red pill bullshit" So why dont women propose to men? Why dont women make men take their last names during a marriage? Why are men considered "cheap" for going dutch on a date? ​ Dont act like men have had the green light to carry themselves a particular way and then turn around and say "well why are you being like this?…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:07 AM
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Nah. Anyone who defines anything is able to because they have leverage. Leverage is granted to the seller who has the most valuable commodity or the buyer who has the least incentive to buy. The dating market got ruined when both sides that were brought up in the "no child left behind" era started over valuing themselves and thus misjudged their market So you had average or below average men believing they should have the same market as men who were above average and then became confused as to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:58 PM
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wouldnt have *written
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:19 PM
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wtf? GPS was created by a woman. Delete this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:27 AM
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You yourself said the success you have had on tinder has been luck correct? You said your friends are more attractive than you which I will take with a grain of salt because people of similar attractiveness usually hang out together but for sake of argument we will go along with what you believe about them. The fact is that tinder is used for sex and people are looking for sex from the most attractive ppl available. Any large city should be able to accommodate several women weekly for a guy who …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:50 AM
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So since being good looking is subjective, you can probably safely assume that you arent getting laid on tinder because you or your friends arent as handsome as would be required to get laid on a daily basis on tinder. Doesnt mean that there are people who arent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:30 AM
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How would you know? Are you handsome and tall and a tinder user?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:09 AM
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dude we are on reddit, everyone knows how to read. These responses are so uninspired and boring. Find a way to be more interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:03 AM
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Ive seen lizzo perform a dance routine while playing an instrument and sing. Im 90% sure she is in better shape than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:00 AM
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Lizzo is almost 6 feet tall. She is most certainly not wider than her height
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:59 PM
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Yes they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:49 PM
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Lets find out right now. How many morbidly obese women have you fucked?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:48 PM
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Lizzo is chubby and a bit disproportionate. She is still able to move and dance no problem. Im talking about actual obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:38 AM
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how many morbidly obese women have you slept with?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:23 AM
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Nope Im not talking about being unattractive. Im talking about being obese to the point of near handicap.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:22 AM
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doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:16 AM
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you guys have to stop defaulting to throwing around buzzwords like incel when you disagree with a comment or perspective. It doesnt accomplish anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:09 AM
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Being willing to fuck anything doesnt mean that the feelings are reciprocated. A slut can fuck a lot of guys but that doesnt mean she is gonna fuck everyone who approaches her for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:42 AM
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False. On both counts. Tinder can get any tall, attractive guy laid on an almost daily basis. No charm or nice shoes necessary. And a woman who is morbidly obese is not getting male attention, she may legitimately struggle to find 10 sexual partners during her lifetime. Sexual discretion benefits everyone, however sexual indiscretion hurts women far more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:10 AM
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Confidence is typically seen in body language. This looks like calmness/patience, quiet, eye contact, reserved and open posture. People can definitely pick up on those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:11 PM
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Confidence radiates. Its noticeable as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:05 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:55 PM
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Hell no. Being a guy is much better than being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:28 PM
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Prudes and elitists
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:41 PM
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Eye tests mean nothing. Support your beliefs with useful data.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:59 PM
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You asked HER out, why wouldn’t you compensate her for her time spent?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:27 PM
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Getting money without labor is being a twitter hooker? Sign me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:25 PM
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Because thats such a low standard, not hitting it is almost appalling. Money is everywhere. And people throw money at attractive women to, at minimum be in their company. So if you asked her out, but feel like she should sacrifice money in addition to time spent then that implies that her value is low. Women receive money from having their cashapp in their SM bios, women receive money from “DM fees”. Women receive money from guys in an attempt to impress them. If it is someone you requested the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:01 PM
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Of course. But shit happens and anything is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:37 AM
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Of course, but that still doesn’t mean he has never cheated on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:32 AM
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Or maybe its an example of you thinking people never slip up or make mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:22 AM
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Oh so your relationship has been perfect this entire time? Never any fights or dry spells? You know for a fact that he has never gone out with his friends, had one too many and did something he cant tell you about?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:20 AM
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How can you speak for him? You may feel very strongly that he has never cheated but you dont know that for a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:18 AM
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70-80% Thinking that your female S/O has never cheated is insane. If she’s attractive, she’ll have options and is smart enough to get away with it if she really doesn’t want you to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:58 AM
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I counted six hookups? Not 5
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:11 PM
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Idk those stats might be enough for a lot of women. If he was funny and charismatic, he could get honestly get away with looking like rocky dennis.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:57 PM
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One percent to me would be 6 foot making 6 figures under 30 years old. And even then, you can still be a socially inept weirdo who cant get a date BUT you would still have a viable list of suitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:28 PM
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No it isnt. The things I mentioned are minimum standards. Many people have hobbies and workout, its not a rarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:24 PM
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Its not a truth about the world, its a perspective. And since it isnt one size fits all, that means it can be shifted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:43 PM
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Divorce only happens because of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:15 AM
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At minimum, a woman is going to be attracted to a solution oriented man, someone who will get shit done. These whiny, excuse laden retorts are the complete opposite of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:00 AM
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A woman no longer fucking her husband is not something exclusive to ugly men. Theres an entire subreddit dedicated to relationships where they’ve stopped having sex for a multitude of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:57 AM
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So…dont go for the average woman then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:55 AM
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Luck and circumstances are an excuse at the end of the day. I know fat guys that are married, short guys that are married, broke guys that are married etc. Improving yourself to improve your chances has nothing to do with luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:11 AM
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Getting in better shape, having a hobby and wearing clothes that fit and learning to lead a conversation does not make you a 1% man. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:08 AM
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I would assume something is going on that she hasnt told you about but its probably just better to ask her whats going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:51 PM
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Women like stability so I doubt its your affection thats turning her off. Whats her love language?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:19 PM
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Exploitation exists in the adult film industry the same way it exists in the regular film industry. The exploitation exists not because the majority of laborers are women but because there is simply too much money involved. Name me a single multi billion dollar industry that exists with no level of scandal or corruption.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:21 PM
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Why does it have to be degrading? Is it still degrading if men do it? Isnt it at all possible that ATM is a kink, and it appeals to a demographic who prefer to see it? Not every performer who does anal chooses to do it. And quite possibly because of the reasons you just mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:40 PM
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A pornstar in 2022 can get paid through ig, snapchat, OF, loyalfans, fansly, PH, reddit, twitter, camming, findom and escorting AND have a ‘normal job’ and businesses/investments. They may not make 20 mil in guaranteed money but the earning potential is most certainly enough to pay for good healthcare and insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:36 PM
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If I show you the video of shaun livingston having his knee explode during a game or of the miami dolphins quarterback recently showing signs of brain damage on the field, do you blame the industry for that or is it simply the risk of what happens when your work is your body?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:19 PM
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Inherently? Absolutely. But done by a professional who has experience and insight that we dont? Think about it like this: If your goal as a performer was to get booked as often as possible but every time you performed a certain stunt, it made you sick and prevented potential bookings while you recovered, would you still continue to do it? You wouldn’t. But they still are, so there must be a way to do it without causing harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:01 PM
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Incidents are not exclusive to the adult entertainment industry. Especially now where literally anyone who has nsfw content can upload it and sell it online? How could this be prevented? You can dislike unethical situations but unethical situations are not exclusive to this industry
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:54 PM
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Corruption and scandal happen in every industry. If adult content had a stock it would sit higher than apple and amazon. Porn is produced on a near limitless scale so how could there not be headlines like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:50 PM
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Porn is a multi billion dollar industry operating on a global level all hours of the day in countless mediums. There is no way that abuse doesn’t occur because it’s impossible to police every facet of adult media. Every industry has scandals and corruption.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:46 PM
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Its a stunt. The same way actors perform stunts in movies. Its nothing new so unless all these performers are dying because of it then it can probably continue to be performed in a way that doesn’t cause actual harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:42 PM
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Who are the pornstars that are being trafficked?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:13 PM
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Rape is common in porn? Because its not in any of the mainstream porn Ive watched. Where are you seeing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:12 PM
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Pornstars are performers. You dont know the precautions they take beforehand to ensure their safety for a stunt like that. And most mainstream porn cant force anyone to do something they dont want to do. They would just book someone who will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:11 PM
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You realize the vast majority of porn displays a fully consensual encounter between 2 adults albeit with dramatization regarding how pleasurable the encounter actually is?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:08 PM
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Multiple industries treat their workforce unfairly. Women hate porn because of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:46 PM
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How is ATM violence against women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:43 PM
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No seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:56 PM
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“Do whatever we can?” Sometimes you see a nice ass, give it the 2.5 second stare and then move on. There will other nice butts. Not every butt needs to be pursued.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:01 AM
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We can learn that he’s moving on but is allowing her team to control the narrative to save face.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:41 PM
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These issues are not exclusive to places where women meet people. Sexual harassment for instance has occurred in the workplace forever but it doesn’t stop women from showing up to work. Most men aren’t complaining about how hard it is to meet women because women are everywhere. If you can talk to your waitress, or your cashier or even your bank teller, you can engage a woman. And as far as misogyny in where women are “only good for fucking” the hookup culture is more prevalent now than it has ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 10:38 AM
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A man will leave with 4 numbers because sub consciously there are no real consequences for men who aren’t discerning. A woman will leave with 1 number (two if the chubby guy is tall and funny and 3 if short guys are her kink) because subconsciously, being less discerning comes with actual consequences. A woman potentially gets stuck with a baby by a deadbeat, or one guy is giving dahmer vibes. A woman’s need to be more discerning might be necessary on an evolutionary level.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:18 PM
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Prioritizing sex wouldnt stop men from doing whatever necessary to get the attention of an attractive woman. If the price is free drinks or food then men will still do it. Women get “pumped and dumped” because they are using sex to leverage a relationship and that never works. Even if sex is not on the table, men lose their minds over an exceptionally attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:45 PM
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as a few mentioned, that may be rooted mostly in not wanting to be rushed into marriage if the goal is to eventually have kids. Sub 30 would give more wiggle room in that regard which is understandable. But as far as in terms of basic attraction? No, an attractive woman does not become less viable in comparison to a 20 something year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:15 AM
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*heterosexual couples *39% not 50% *American couples *article from 5 years ago Im not even saying theres no truth to it, Im just saying that theres a whole world beyond that phone screen that people need to get back in touch with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:28 PM
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Bro, like ugly dudes have been bagging girls “out of their league” FOREVER. None of that online dating stuff stops anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:24 PM
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Source please
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:05 PM
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People take what happens on the internet and use it to completely discount what happens in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:58 PM
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Perfectly said
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:58 PM
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We’re all narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:52 AM
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That “certain degree you expect” is your selling price lol why cant you accept that? When you determine the value of a car, some peoples “certain degree you expect” is just four wheels and a working motor. Others want leather seats, AC and a moon roof. Does that make sense? You buy a house, some peoples “certain degree you expect” is a 2 bedroom and a roof that doesn’t leak. Others are 5 bedrooms and a pool. Maybe “what you can get” is a small thing and maybe there are several big things, but it…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:03 AM
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Every relationship is transactional. Once you determine things you need in a relationship, that is your selling price. Thats the reason youve never dated someone handicapped or been attracted to someone homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:32 AM
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It doesnt. Every relationship whether platonic or romantic, professional or otherwise has a buyer and a seller. The buyer wants what the seller has and the seller sets the price. The buyer either decides that the cost is worth it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:00 AM
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Testosterone is an activity hormone. Men are more likely to engage in sports that also include hunting or gun ranges. Once youve done that, you now have the ability to use a gun or any weapon in any way and to hurt anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:19 PM
1

Ok? And they are also women. Men are probably more likely to become disenfranchised because they are expected to do things on their own and reject help and community which makes things much harder
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:09 PM
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Ok and the average woman is…also average? Lol nobody values mediocrity but the average woman doesn’t hold any leverage over the average man. An average looking woman can barely get a guy to buy her a drink at a local bar
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:05 PM
1

Spiderman is the top 2% of humanity? Wait til aunt may hears about this!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:03 PM
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I guess thats why all of america’s presidents have been women and so many of our most popular athletes are women and so many of our highest paid comedians, entertainers and heroes are women. Even in fiction, batgirl and spider woman are far more valued than their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:15 AM
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Body counting is kinda dumb to be honest. Id hope that it isn’t excessive like in the fifties or hundreds but aiming for an ideal number is being worried about the wrong shit. I wouldnt be more comfortable with a virgin and honestly if the vibe was right, I could absolutely be with a former porn star. Who cares? And honestly who would know? And so the fuck what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:13 PM
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Yeah dude, casting a negative stereotypical blanket generalization of a group of people based on your personal experiences with them is a subtle form of hate. Hate isnt always killing and physical violence, it has roots in this type of perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:36 PM
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Wow this is kind of scary to know people actually think shit like this. A couple things: You can 100% still be an incel despite being a 6 foot whatever 200 pound dude or a guy making $100K a year etc. Will you have a larger market dating wise? Sure, but you can still be socially inept , have issues (especially concerning how you view women) based on how one girl treated you ONE TIME and never got over it. If you legit cant see any person with a uterus with value beyond what they can do for you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:21 AM
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Because you dont know what it means to actually lead. Thats why not every man is a leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:13 AM
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If she is also working full time then yes. If she isnt working or working part time then no
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:47 PM
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Contributing more on the overall expenses and managing the finances
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:40 PM
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Leading financially has nothing to do with not doing chores
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:35 PM
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I didnt invent gender roles dude, take your angst somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:30 PM
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Yes. Men should lead financially
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:55 PM
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Dont let exceptions to the rule make you think the rule doesnt exist. Your grandparents might have had a great relationship, but 90% of the time, you should accept that someone simply isn’t interested in you. Theres nothing wrong with that and you should find someone who is. And body language isnt just picking up signals. Its the difference between what people say and what they actually mean because actions speak louder than words. You said it yourself, a girl told you to ask her out but then la…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:01 AM
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No. Big freaking no. Body language communicates more than words do. Women want to be approached at a bar by a really handsome guy or an average looking guy who is funny and confident within 2 seconds of the interaction. 2 seconds. If her body language doesnt open up to you or seems interested in what youre saying then back off. People who dont back off are creeps. Dont be a creep. Intimacy is body language as well. Is she flirting? Is she touching you? Is she close to you? If the answer isnt yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:22 AM
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Aubrey plaza
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:59 PM
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Or you improve because youre more than capable of improving?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:51 PM
3

If I get turned down because I dont have an advanced degree for a position that prefers it, and then I go on to get hired because I went and got a masters degree, I got the job because of my improved credentials. Improve your credentials, increase your opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:20 PM
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Of course its about being better. Improve your hygiene, improve your fitness, improve your speaking skills, improve your style, become more well rounded, become more confident etc. All these things matter. The world is not full of people who have every resource at their disposal. You have to learn to play the cards youre dealt and make the most out of it. If you really want the job, you apply until you get it. Yes rejections suck but thats a part of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:34 PM
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Everything about life is a numbers game. Thats the issue with this type of reasoning, it spews entitlement. People think they should just receive a yes because they showed up. Even worse, receiving a yes because they showed up once or a few times. In life if you want a good job, you have to have better credentials than the other applicants. If you want to guy a house, you have to have a better offer than the other buyers. If you cant afford the $500,000 house then maybe you can put a better offe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:41 PM
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